WEBVTT - BBQ , Brews and Bachelor TEAquila (Part 3)

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<v Speaker 1>This is the most dramatic podcast ever and iHeartRadio podcast.

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<v Speaker 1>We cannot recommend having two weddings enough.

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<v Speaker 2>It checked every box for us in the best way.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, we said it before and again I apologize

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<v Speaker 2>for the state of my voice. Two weddings, having people

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<v Speaker 2>stay at our house for f one a Halloween party

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<v Speaker 2>in the middle, That's what I've decided to do over

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<v Speaker 2>the past two weeks. I just love festivities and people,

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<v Speaker 2>and that's part of why we had two weddings. We

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<v Speaker 2>wanted to make sure to include everybody in our lives,

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<v Speaker 2>our closest friends and family, our extended family, our friends

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<v Speaker 2>from LA from Austin, from all over, bachelor people, people

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<v Speaker 2>I'd worked with. We wanted to include all those people.

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<v Speaker 2>But our big fear was how will we spend good

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<v Speaker 2>time with all those people?

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<v Speaker 1>Right? And that is the key, and that's hitting the

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<v Speaker 1>nail on the head, because it's not that we couldn't

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<v Speaker 1>include all those people in one event. The problem is

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<v Speaker 1>those events wouldn't have been how we wanted to spend

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<v Speaker 1>that time and energy with those particular people. The NAPA party,

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<v Speaker 1>we wanted to spend very intimate time that was family, mom, dad, brother, sisters,

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<v Speaker 1>different than putting on our boots and shaking it up

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<v Speaker 1>like we did in Austin. And we wanted to spend

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<v Speaker 1>that kind of time with those people. So that is

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<v Speaker 1>how the two party system was created.

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<v Speaker 2>But here's the thing we did, I mean, part of

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<v Speaker 2>why we're so tired. Even with doing two parties, you

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<v Speaker 2>still had to find And I should also say, uh huh,

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<v Speaker 2>Like I said, I understand having two weddings sounds like

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<v Speaker 2>this big expense. We're very blessed, We're very grateful. I

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<v Speaker 2>was also a babe on a budget. To the best

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<v Speaker 2>of my ability, wore my dress at both of them.

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<v Speaker 2>My mom made the desserts for Austin. We saved money

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<v Speaker 2>in ways we could.

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<v Speaker 1>Before we leave Napa, I just wanted to make one

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<v Speaker 1>note because people have asked, did you go immediately on

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<v Speaker 1>a honeymoon and the answer was no, because well, we

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<v Speaker 1>had another wedding coming up in three weeks, so it

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<v Speaker 1>would have been and weird to like leave Napa, go

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<v Speaker 1>on a honeymoon, come back, have a wedding, and then

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<v Speaker 1>maybe go on another honeymoon. So after Napa, we just

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<v Speaker 1>spent one very intimate, lovely night at a beautiful hotel

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<v Speaker 1>there in Napa Valley called the Poetry In.

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<v Speaker 2>It's so exquisite if you're ever able to make a

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<v Speaker 2>special weekend of it and go. It only has a

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<v Speaker 2>few rooms. It's kind of an elegant home turned into

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<v Speaker 2>a small hotel up on cliff Lead vineyards. They make

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<v Speaker 2>you breakfast in your room every day. They it's it's like.

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<v Speaker 1>You're rushan bakery goods coming in and the poetry and.

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<v Speaker 2>It's so romantic. Our room at an outdoor shower overlooking

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<v Speaker 2>the vineyards. That's all you need to know. So and

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<v Speaker 2>you know what, I didn't even really feel like I

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<v Speaker 2>needed a honeymoon because the wedding and Napa, I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>Napa could be a honeymoon destination.

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<v Speaker 1>It really was. It felt like that, I think.

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<v Speaker 2>We might do a trip for our first anniversary.

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<v Speaker 1>In a year, and I agree, I think that's what.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, give it, give it time, let us think

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<v Speaker 1>in and then have an amazing anniversary trip a year

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<v Speaker 1>from now. So we left Napa and we went back

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<v Speaker 1>and immediately, as you said, F one race here in Austin,

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<v Speaker 1>we had people come in down for the F one Race.

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<v Speaker 1>We enjoyed that. Then it was Halloween we had a

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<v Speaker 1>little Halloween party, and then it was wedding week number

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<v Speaker 1>two and it started right here at this house as

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<v Speaker 1>we sit in our office with a great Bachelor party

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<v Speaker 1>that we hosted, you know, Friday night.

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<v Speaker 2>You can call it a Bachelor party. It was all

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<v Speaker 2>Bachelor Nation, all of the Bachelor Nation alumni who were

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<v Speaker 2>coming to the wedding. We wanted to have an intimate again,

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<v Speaker 2>to get the good time in with people, and we

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<v Speaker 2>hadn't seen a lot of them in a long time,

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<v Speaker 2>some in part because of the pandemic, even it had

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<v Speaker 2>been years for some, and we wanted to see them

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<v Speaker 2>and kind of have a really good like safe space,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know, safe space for the drama. It turned

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<v Speaker 2>into actually a bit of healing this weekend from Bachelor

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<v Speaker 2>very cathartic.

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<v Speaker 1>I almost fell back into my hosting role of kind

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<v Speaker 1>of Papa bear, of taking care of everybody. And I

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<v Speaker 1>want to give you a huge shout out and credit.

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<v Speaker 1>This was your idea. I didn't bring this up. You

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<v Speaker 1>actually said Friday Night, Babe, I think we should do this.

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<v Speaker 1>We should bring all of the batch for people in

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<v Speaker 1>just so everybody can be around each other before the

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<v Speaker 1>big event where maybe We're not going to spend as

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<v Speaker 1>much into mind time together, just so we can really

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<v Speaker 1>talk and be together.

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<v Speaker 2>I'll be honest with you. I was also kind of thinking,

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<v Speaker 2>this is a big party. I don't know, people be

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<v Speaker 2>coming up to people asking for photos and stuff. I

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<v Speaker 2>respect everybody's you know, there's that fame level. And they

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<v Speaker 2>were going to an event where they didn't know a

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<v Speaker 2>lot of people. I wanted them to have a safe

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<v Speaker 2>space just hanging out with people, you know at our

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<v Speaker 2>house and we poured some great wines. We poured a

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<v Speaker 2>wine from when we got engaged in Apple, which was fun.

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<v Speaker 1>We got engaged at Brand and there was this beautiful

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<v Speaker 1>wine we were drinking from Brand, and I had some

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<v Speaker 1>magnums like a double bottle is what that is built?

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<v Speaker 1>And they etched into it the proposal. So we opened

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<v Speaker 1>up our proposal wine.

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<v Speaker 2>And it was also funny, like so we you and

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<v Speaker 2>I did all that. We did a bunch of big

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<v Speaker 2>sure couterie boards. We had some desserts and afterwards, and

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<v Speaker 2>everybody had a lot of drinks. And I'm getting ahead

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<v Speaker 2>of myself, but afterwards Kaitlyn Bristow texted, she was like

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<v Speaker 2>so sweet, she said, I just realized we left and

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<v Speaker 2>we didn't help you guys clean up, and like, but

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<v Speaker 2>I'm assuming you hired someone. I was like, I would

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<v Speaker 2>have been a great idea. Kaitlyn, No, Chris and I

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<v Speaker 2>just washed well fifty glasses, maybe more d y.

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<v Speaker 1>Anyway, Lauren just kind of leaped into the lead and

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<v Speaker 1>pop that balloon. So let's get to it. This is

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<v Speaker 1>what people want to know. Who is here, and let's

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<v Speaker 1>just deal with number one. Jason Tarctick and Kitlin Bristow

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<v Speaker 1>both invited and both showed up. They both were here.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's dive into more.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I want to say, and I'm more not gonna

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<v Speaker 2>you know, I don't want to reveal everything about our

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<v Speaker 2>friendships with them. But Caitlin and Jason were both you know,

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<v Speaker 2>obviously they split, and they were both so sweet about Like,

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<v Speaker 2>we reached to them a while ago and said, hey,

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<v Speaker 2>how do you feel about coming to the wedding. They

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<v Speaker 2>both said, each separately said like on separate texts, this

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<v Speaker 2>day is about you, guys. We will be fine. Don't

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<v Speaker 2>worry about us, and we want to be there for you.

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<v Speaker 2>So they were both so sweet about that. But what

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<v Speaker 2>we didn't realize. I did not know this until Friday

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<v Speaker 2>night when they showed up at our house because like,

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<v Speaker 2>they have their dogs together and they both live in Nashville.

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<v Speaker 2>I thought they'd seen each other since the split. Me too,

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<v Speaker 2>they had not seen each other since they broke up

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<v Speaker 2>until they walked into our house only a few minutes

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<v Speaker 2>apart from each other in on Friday.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, in Austin. And before we talk about who else

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<v Speaker 1>was there? Yeah, we'll just let's just deal with this.

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<v Speaker 1>I'd talked to both of them, so had you. They

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<v Speaker 1>handled it with such grace and such love for us,

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<v Speaker 1>and they made it about us until it became not

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<v Speaker 1>on purpose about them, because they ended up at this

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<v Speaker 1>party together at our house. And again, I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>how how many people were here, Like, well we had okay.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna run, Okay, I'm gonna run. Sean and Catherine

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<v Speaker 2>couldn't make it because they had a charity event in

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<v Speaker 2>Dallas on Friday.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh we're at the wedding.

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<v Speaker 2>Alan Gail, producer and his lovely fiance Molly Quinn couldn't

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<v Speaker 2>make it because they were busy working. But they came.

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<v Speaker 1>Saturday, and then I think everybody else was here.

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<v Speaker 2>I think everybody else who was at the wedding on Saturday,

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<v Speaker 2>was here on Friday night. And we should also say

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<v Speaker 2>there were some wonderful people in macharination who we did

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<v Speaker 2>invitees who just could not make the wedding. Let's just

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<v Speaker 2>put it out there because we love them. Pilot, Pete,

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<v Speaker 2>Peter Webber, Yes, he wanted to come, Deanna Yes, Jason

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<v Speaker 2>and Molly yep.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't believe Leslie Murphy didn't come. I mean, she

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<v Speaker 1>had a baby two days prior. See Leslie, what's wrong

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<v Speaker 1>with you?

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<v Speaker 2>The sweetest person in the world. She'd been wanting to

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<v Speaker 2>come and texting us weekly updates from her pregnancy, like,

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<v Speaker 2>I think the baby's going to come and I'll make

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<v Speaker 2>the wedding. And I'm thinking, babe, even if she comes now,

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<v Speaker 2>you're not coming to our wedding a week after giving.

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<v Speaker 1>This is what a badass Leslie Murphy is and one

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<v Speaker 1>of the reasons I adore her. She's one of my

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<v Speaker 1>favorite people from the show. We've become good friends. She

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<v Speaker 1>texted Lauren and I I think it was five days

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<v Speaker 1>before She's like, Guys, I think I just finally have

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<v Speaker 1>to say I can't come this baby. I haven't given it,

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<v Speaker 1>but up until five days before. What if she'd had

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<v Speaker 1>it six or seven days before she was going to

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<v Speaker 1>be at our wedding. That's what a boss Leslie Murphy is.

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<v Speaker 1>But if anybody had a great excuse. Along with Ashley

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<v Speaker 1>and JP, who obviously they are divorced, but they were

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<v Speaker 1>both invited, they were both going to come, but it

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<v Speaker 1>was their daughter's birthday, so they were back in Florida

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<v Speaker 1>celebrating that as well.

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<v Speaker 2>And also Sarah Harron and Dylan. Sarah was invited and

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<v Speaker 2>she was so sweet and we wanted to come. She

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<v Speaker 2>was unable to make it. But there were Yeah, I'm

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<v Speaker 2>trying to think of anybody would forgot, but I think

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<v Speaker 2>that was everyone.

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<v Speaker 1>I think so. And then all right, and then and

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<v Speaker 1>then you could see the pictures of who all was here,

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<v Speaker 1>But there was the case they're posting great content.

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<v Speaker 2>One thing we can rely on the Bachelor crew for true.

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<v Speaker 2>They are going to take great photos, great videos. I'm like,

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<v Speaker 2>oh good, why did we hire anyone? They're on it?

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<v Speaker 1>And so who was here were not only just the

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<v Speaker 1>Bachelor Bacherette people but also their spouses significant others, so

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<v Speaker 1>Colton and Jordan and Becca and Hayley and Jess then

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<v Speaker 1>and Jess and jarn Wells exactly. So everybody was here

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<v Speaker 1>with their spouses, which was also neat because a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of people haven't met. You know, there were a part

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<v Speaker 1>of this family that we created, but a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>them either haven't seen each other, haven't met Beca.

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<v Speaker 2>Tilly was so sweet. She texted us, Hey, just want

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<v Speaker 2>to make sure I know it's Bachelumba. Can Haley come?

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<v Speaker 2>And we were like yes, and she goes, Okay, this

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<v Speaker 2>is her dream. She's so excited. I had never met Haley.

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<v Speaker 1>I haven't met Haley, and I feel like I know her.

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<v Speaker 1>I felt like I already loved this woman, and now

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<v Speaker 1>that I meet her, I'm like, okay, beck, I see

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<v Speaker 1>why you fell in love with this girl. And so

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<v Speaker 1>they it was beautiful to spend time with them and

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<v Speaker 1>get to know her, and get to know Beca with

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<v Speaker 1>Haley now and see them together and see how happy

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<v Speaker 1>they are. But the Jason. So Jason shows up first,

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<v Speaker 1>tartic buffalo boy, always on time, and so he arrives,

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<v Speaker 1>and then Caitlyn came a little bit after. And again,

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<v Speaker 1>as Lauren alluded to, I had not realized and I've

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<v Speaker 1>talked to both of them a lot. During all this,

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't know they hadn't really talked. And I think

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<v Speaker 1>Jason put it best, when you're going through a breakup

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<v Speaker 1>and this is not on purpose, animosity grows and this

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<v Speaker 1>is life because the point of a breakup. First of all,

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<v Speaker 1>it didn't end well. Second of all, you don't see

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<v Speaker 1>each other, you don't talk, it's a breakup. So an

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<v Speaker 1>event like this, they were kind of forced to come

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<v Speaker 1>back together and both Jason and Caitlin and I talked

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<v Speaker 1>to them and they both approved to talk about this.

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<v Speaker 1>They were kind of forced to face this situation and

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<v Speaker 1>it turned out to be a beautiful, cathartic coming together

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<v Speaker 1>and it was very amicable, very friendly, turned into a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of laughs, a lot of friendship.

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<v Speaker 2>It made me so happy to see them at our

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<v Speaker 2>house talking to each other. They were standing to each other,

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<v Speaker 2>It was standing near each other talking and you know,

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<v Speaker 2>you could you could feel a little tension at first,

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<v Speaker 2>but then it felt like the ice had been broken

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<v Speaker 2>and I could see them laughing. And you know, to me,

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<v Speaker 2>that's you always got to break awkward or pain with

0:10:59.360 --> 0:11:01.480
<v Speaker 2>some kind of joe and Caitlin is very good at that,

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<v Speaker 2>especially with her and Jason both.

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<v Speaker 1>Not to use a sports reference, but if you see

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<v Speaker 1>the beginning of a boxing match, the fighters kind of

0:11:08.080 --> 0:11:10.960
<v Speaker 1>dance around each other, you know, finding their space and

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<v Speaker 1>their rhythm. That's how the night started. I felt, well, I.

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<v Speaker 2>Mean literally in our living room that way. It wasn't

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<v Speaker 2>a very big space.

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<v Speaker 1>It was kind of like, you know, one of them

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<v Speaker 1>stood outside on the pool deck, and it just kind

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<v Speaker 1>of gave each other their space. But then, and I

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<v Speaker 1>will tell you, because I know people are wondering, it's

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<v Speaker 1>not one or either of them that made the move.

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<v Speaker 1>They just kind of came together and started chatting in

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<v Speaker 1>our kitchen and then they just had a wonderful talk

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<v Speaker 1>and there were smiles, and I think that they both

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<v Speaker 1>probably wanted that ice to be broken, and then it was.

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<v Speaker 1>And again the beauty of this, Lauren Zima, was that

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<v Speaker 1>it was a safe space we created, so there was

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<v Speaker 1>no cameras, nobody videotaped it, and it just turned out

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<v Speaker 1>to be a great now. And then the whole weekend

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<v Speaker 1>was then a relief for them because then they could

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<v Speaker 1>go to the wedding Saturday night and not have a

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<v Speaker 1>care in the world.

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<v Speaker 2>And there were more couples I think or more people

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<v Speaker 2>that needed this healing moment. Then I realized I turned around.

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<v Speaker 2>At one point in Colton and Taysha were talking, and

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<v Speaker 2>I think they had a good conversation, and I kind

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<v Speaker 2>of thought, when was the last time they talked? You know,

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<v Speaker 2>at this point, so much has happened, but you forget

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<v Speaker 2>that Taysha was on Colton's season, and a lots happened.

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<v Speaker 1>I forget who's on whose season because now I know

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<v Speaker 1>just know these people as hey, I know when they

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<v Speaker 1>are the Bacheler bats are up. But then I also

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<v Speaker 1>kind of forget I don't remember what Wells season was.

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<v Speaker 1>And then he makes a joke about you know, Jojo

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<v Speaker 1>not picking him.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh right, JoJo's there. Ben and Wells are both there.

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<v Speaker 2>I think, Oh no, Jojo was on Ben's season, Wells

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<v Speaker 2>on JoJo's season.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, that part, to me is funny because they of

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<v Speaker 1>course remember. And I think Ben even made a great

0:12:42.200 --> 0:12:44.880
<v Speaker 1>joke in his social media post of like, you know,

0:12:44.920 --> 0:12:48.240
<v Speaker 1>all these crazy people have probably in some way either dated,

0:12:48.320 --> 0:12:51.240
<v Speaker 1>slept with each other, or you know, yeah, it's this one.

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<v Speaker 2>Well that's the old joke.

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<v Speaker 1>One big andcestuous group, but another and I'm going to

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<v Speaker 1>bring up Jason again. Another meeting that was very important

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<v Speaker 1>that I wasn't thinking of was Jason Tarctic and Colton.

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<v Speaker 1>Jason and Colton had not spoken in quite some time.

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<v Speaker 1>There were some animosity there and they just hadn't really

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<v Speaker 1>dealt with that. They apparently, as Jason told me, reached

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<v Speaker 1>out to each other and had agreed to kind of

0:13:18.880 --> 0:13:21.000
<v Speaker 1>bury this and talk and it had nothing to do

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<v Speaker 1>with our wedding. This talk started about a month ago,

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<v Speaker 1>but they hadn't seen each other until again coming to

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<v Speaker 1>our house on Friday night, and then really had a

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<v Speaker 1>good talk at our wedding, and it was again very cathartic,

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<v Speaker 1>very productive, very friendly, and it worked out beautifully. And Jason,

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<v Speaker 1>as I talked to him, said, I don't think I

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<v Speaker 1>understood the full weight of what Colton was bearing. And

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<v Speaker 1>that's not to excuse anything. It's not to say everything

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<v Speaker 1>he did was perfect, because it wasn't, but it is

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<v Speaker 1>to say I did not walk in his shoes. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know what he was carrying around. And Jason spoke

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<v Speaker 1>for I think for all of us when he told

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<v Speaker 1>me to see Colton in love and to see Jordan.

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<v Speaker 1>There there is this lightness about him. There is this

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<v Speaker 1>weight lifted off his shoulders. And Jason said, he is

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<v Speaker 1>a different human being. He's a different person. And I

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<v Speaker 1>couldn't agree more. And you were. You and I were

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<v Speaker 1>at Colton and Jordan's wedding and we saw it firsthand.

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<v Speaker 1>He's he is a changed man living his truth and

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<v Speaker 1>that's that part is beautiful.

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<v Speaker 2>Jordan is so wonderful. And I to see them. We

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<v Speaker 2>were at their wedding, but you know at your wedding,

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<v Speaker 2>your I mean, they weren't tense, but you got a

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<v Speaker 2>lot going on. To see them relaxed at our wedding together,

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<v Speaker 2>they put Oh, their outfits were wonderful. They were texting

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<v Speaker 2>me about the effort they were putting in. Our theme,

0:14:44.200 --> 0:14:47.520
<v Speaker 2>by the way, was for Austin Cowboy Cocktail. We were

0:14:47.520 --> 0:14:50.560
<v Speaker 2>here in Texas. We said, go Cowboy Cocktail. However you

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<v Speaker 2>interpret that. I did have some inspiration picks up on

0:14:53.160 --> 0:14:56.200
<v Speaker 2>the website and a shout out to Ari Lyondyke, who

0:14:56.280 --> 0:15:00.480
<v Speaker 2>literally bought the exact outfit from one of the inspiration

0:15:00.520 --> 0:15:01.280
<v Speaker 2>picks his.

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<v Speaker 1>Social media post. Because he posted the inspo pick and

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<v Speaker 1>then he posted his fit, it's he might as well

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<v Speaker 1>have been the model it was identical.

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<v Speaker 2>But so Colton. Colton texted me, I'm coming to your

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<v Speaker 2>house wearing pearls. Anyways, he's wearing a pearl necklace with

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<v Speaker 2>a like sleek jacket and they just look fit and happy.

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<v Speaker 1>And I love what Jordan said to you at our house.

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<v Speaker 1>Towards the end of the party, Jordan came up to

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<v Speaker 1>you and he said, you know, I didn't know all

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<v Speaker 1>these people. I've never seen him in person. Everybody's so

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<v Speaker 1>damn good looking.

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<v Speaker 2>Here Jordan goes, this is a really attractive group of people.

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<v Speaker 2>I said, you know, Jordan, I never think about it,

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<v Speaker 2>but I guess they were all cast for television. So

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<v Speaker 2>I'm just trying to run through else was there on

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<v Speaker 2>Friday night, so I don't forget anything. You know. You, Oh,

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<v Speaker 2>you had some fun with the boys. You you golfed

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<v Speaker 2>on Friday, Well we did.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I do have a little pitching and chipping green.

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<v Speaker 2>No one knows what that is. It's like a tiny

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<v Speaker 2>mini golf course, okay, like one hole.

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<v Speaker 1>Thin, like a little part. And so Ben and Wells

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<v Speaker 1>and I were down there hitting some golf balls. Jason.

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<v Speaker 2>What was cute actually was Jason was filming you all

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<v Speaker 2>as if he was your proud dad. Jason was hanging

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<v Speaker 2>I was worried about a liability. Jason was hanging over

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<v Speaker 2>the edge of our patio to get a good shot filming.

0:16:17.480 --> 0:16:20.760
<v Speaker 2>Ben and Wells and Chris Shipping.

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<v Speaker 1>And Ben and Wells and I. We have this competitive

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<v Speaker 1>thing between us that we just always want to be

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<v Speaker 1>competing and beating each other as much as we love

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<v Speaker 1>each other. But it was also it's been so long

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<v Speaker 1>since I've seen Trista. Ryan, by the way, could not

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<v Speaker 1>be with us, unfortunately, but Trista was here and it

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<v Speaker 1>was so good to see her, you know, as I say,

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<v Speaker 1>the godmother of it all. Like I feel like she

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<v Speaker 1>and I started this thing together. I know there was

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<v Speaker 1>Alex Michelle and Aaron Burgee before her, but I feel like.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, just to stay in the fold with you.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, yeah, yeah, I don't talk to Aaron or Alex anymore.

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<v Speaker 1>And so she's part of the world. And that really

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<v Speaker 1>legitimized our franchise.

0:16:56.440 --> 0:16:56.600
<v Speaker 2>You know.

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<v Speaker 1>That was that lightning in a bottle, the first marriage,

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<v Speaker 1>the first true engage that worked, and that really put

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<v Speaker 1>us on the map. I just love her and she's

0:17:04.400 --> 0:17:06.439
<v Speaker 1>always been a dear friend of mine and I was

0:17:06.440 --> 0:17:11.439
<v Speaker 1>at her wedding back in you know, two thousand and four. Six, No,

0:17:11.480 --> 0:17:14.080
<v Speaker 1>it must have been earlier in that two thousand and three,

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<v Speaker 1>and that was just it was wonderful.

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<v Speaker 2>I think what's fun about this group too, is you

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<v Speaker 2>kind of only all get together for like big, yeah,

0:17:34.280 --> 0:17:37.920
<v Speaker 2>crazy things like this. I think Jade and Jojo saw

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<v Speaker 2>each other and they were like, we haven't seen each

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<v Speaker 2>other since Vegas, you know, And and so there's there's

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<v Speaker 2>probably a drunken story or two in there, but they

0:17:44.920 --> 0:17:48.520
<v Speaker 2>only get together to create good times and maybe great

0:17:48.600 --> 0:17:49.280
<v Speaker 2>drama as well.

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<v Speaker 1>And two things. One of the things I love you

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<v Speaker 1>made me just think of it about having all the

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<v Speaker 1>parents here, Jade and Tanner, Ashley and Jail.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you for getting child care. You guys, we know

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<v Speaker 2>it's a lot.

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<v Speaker 1>Lauren and Ari like, these people are in the wheat man.

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<v Speaker 1>They are getting beat and I know some others have kids,

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<v Speaker 1>like Ryan interest in all that, but they're older kids.

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<v Speaker 1>These people are in the wheelhouse of just the nightmare

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<v Speaker 1>of being a parent, and they all I think they

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<v Speaker 1>also loved getting a hotel room and having some adult

0:18:17.920 --> 0:18:24.040
<v Speaker 1>time and that was wonderful. A fantasy suite a fantasy suite. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but speaking of hosting, there was a moment so I

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to call everybody in and just just kind of

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<v Speaker 1>raise a glass and propose a toast. And so it

0:18:31.640 --> 0:18:33.520
<v Speaker 1>was really funny. There was you know, we had our

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<v Speaker 1>house open. It was a beautiful, spectacular night. So the

0:18:36.200 --> 0:18:38.680
<v Speaker 1>house was open and some of the people were sitting out.

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<v Speaker 1>The ladies were sitting out kind of on our pool deck,

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<v Speaker 1>and I wanted to bring everybody in, and it kind

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<v Speaker 1>of and all of a sudden, I walked out and

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<v Speaker 1>they all looked up, and it was that tink tink

0:18:48.640 --> 0:18:50.560
<v Speaker 1>moment where I go out and I say, I'm sorry,

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<v Speaker 1>I hate to break this up, but if everybody could

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<v Speaker 1>come join me inside, and I just they all they

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<v Speaker 1>didn't mean it. I didn't mean to go into host role,

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<v Speaker 1>and I totally went into host role. Ladies, could you

0:19:02.480 --> 0:19:04.600
<v Speaker 1>join me inside please? I'm going to send you on

0:19:04.680 --> 0:19:07.399
<v Speaker 1>your first dates. But it was it was wonderful. And

0:19:07.440 --> 0:19:10.400
<v Speaker 1>then I got up and made a toast everybody and

0:19:10.440 --> 0:19:12.520
<v Speaker 1>as that was the cool thing as I looked over

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<v Speaker 1>and I will post a group photo of everybody that

0:19:16.000 --> 0:19:18.800
<v Speaker 1>was here at the house at that time. Jason and

0:19:18.840 --> 0:19:22.679
<v Speaker 1>Caitlyn were standing together and it just it was just

0:19:22.800 --> 0:19:24.960
<v Speaker 1>beautiful and it just warmed my heart that all these

0:19:25.000 --> 0:19:28.919
<v Speaker 1>people have loved and supported me and now lz in

0:19:28.960 --> 0:19:31.960
<v Speaker 1>my life and they were here in our house and

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<v Speaker 1>it was just so warm, so lovely. There were so

0:19:34.320 --> 0:19:37.439
<v Speaker 1>many laughs. We wanted to. This thing was supposed to

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<v Speaker 1>end at seven thirty at night.

0:19:39.600 --> 0:19:42.080
<v Speaker 2>Well, okay, we see this with love. But again, we're

0:19:42.119 --> 0:19:44.800
<v Speaker 2>trying to make time for everybody. So we kind of

0:19:45.000 --> 0:19:48.719
<v Speaker 2>triple booked but not overbooked ourselves. Friday, we planned to

0:19:48.760 --> 0:19:51.040
<v Speaker 2>be with the Bachelor crew five thirty to seven thirty,

0:19:51.119 --> 0:19:53.800
<v Speaker 2>kind of do happy hour and light bites with them,

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<v Speaker 2>and then we were going to meet my family friends

0:19:57.480 --> 0:20:00.920
<v Speaker 2>and my sorority sisters at a rest to see all

0:20:00.920 --> 0:20:03.159
<v Speaker 2>of them. So we were trying to make it there. Now,

0:20:03.200 --> 0:20:04.920
<v Speaker 2>we did plan for it to go to a little late.

0:20:05.000 --> 0:20:06.320
<v Speaker 1>Yeah we knew, but it was fine.

0:20:06.520 --> 0:20:07.840
<v Speaker 2>It was going over an hour late.

0:20:07.960 --> 0:20:10.160
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, about eight thirty eight forty five. I go, okay,

0:20:10.200 --> 0:20:12.560
<v Speaker 1>I'm just gonna propose this toast and try try and

0:20:12.680 --> 0:20:15.920
<v Speaker 1>kind of start getting people. You know, are so good.

0:20:16.000 --> 0:20:18.800
<v Speaker 2>I know, I actually and I'm glad. I mean, we

0:20:18.800 --> 0:20:20.439
<v Speaker 2>also didn't want to stay out too late Friday night,

0:20:20.480 --> 0:20:22.840
<v Speaker 2>but I could have hung out with everybody a lot longer.

0:20:22.920 --> 0:20:25.919
<v Speaker 2>I was looking around, going, you know, I wanted this

0:20:25.960 --> 0:20:28.040
<v Speaker 2>to happen, and I thought it'll be like good for

0:20:28.040 --> 0:20:30.040
<v Speaker 2>everyone to see each other and just break the ice

0:20:30.119 --> 0:20:33.719
<v Speaker 2>and also reconnect. But it really was an evening of

0:20:33.880 --> 0:20:39.119
<v Speaker 2>witnessing growth. Everybody's in such a healthy, like adult place

0:20:39.240 --> 0:20:41.800
<v Speaker 2>right now. Overall, I think, and I didn't want it

0:20:41.840 --> 0:20:44.440
<v Speaker 2>to end. We were having a lot of really genuine,

0:20:44.560 --> 0:20:48.040
<v Speaker 2>happy fun and chats and catching up, and I could

0:20:48.080 --> 0:20:50.280
<v Speaker 2>have stayed all night. I sort of regretted the double booking.

0:20:50.400 --> 0:20:54.680
<v Speaker 1>I think we all needed this. Yeah it felt good,

0:20:54.760 --> 0:20:55.040
<v Speaker 1>I think.

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<v Speaker 2>Did you feel like I needed it?

0:20:57.240 --> 0:21:00.879
<v Speaker 1>Yeah? I don't know if I needed it, but I

0:21:00.920 --> 0:21:04.320
<v Speaker 1>definitely felt something in the room that I wasn't I

0:21:04.520 --> 0:21:09.280
<v Speaker 1>wasn't anticipating, and that was just healing and feeling the

0:21:09.280 --> 0:21:11.960
<v Speaker 1>love and support as I know I've had from these people,

0:21:12.000 --> 0:21:16.679
<v Speaker 1>but where the state of the franchise is now is

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<v Speaker 1>so different from when I was hosting the show and

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<v Speaker 1>helping produce it and when these people were on it

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<v Speaker 1>for the most part, and so it was just it

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<v Speaker 1>was very I think it felt good to them to

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<v Speaker 1>know that we are still this family and this tight

0:21:31.440 --> 0:21:34.320
<v Speaker 1>knit group that made that made the show what it

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<v Speaker 1>is and paved the ground for whatever I guess it

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<v Speaker 1>is now. But yeah, I think it was something that

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<v Speaker 1>we all kind of needed, and I wasn't. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>think any of us anticipated how good it was going

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<v Speaker 1>to feel. I think one of my favorite parts of

0:21:46.160 --> 0:21:47.560
<v Speaker 1>the night was at the end, we'd all had a

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<v Speaker 1>few and Bob Guiney decided he was going to be

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<v Speaker 1>the toastmaster General. He raised a glass and made a

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<v Speaker 1>toast that.

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<v Speaker 2>He raised a shot glass tequila and it was beautiful

0:21:58.000 --> 0:21:59.600
<v Speaker 2>and every we were laughing.

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<v Speaker 1>Of course Bob. You know, if you weren't old enough

0:22:03.000 --> 0:22:06.280
<v Speaker 1>to know Bob guinea season, he was so good. He's

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<v Speaker 1>so charismatic. He's so fantastically funny. I put him and

0:22:10.440 --> 0:22:12.960
<v Speaker 1>Andrew Firestone on that Mount rushmore of guys that just

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<v Speaker 1>crush it.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh and Andrew Firestone. People were asking about him, Yeah,

0:22:16.840 --> 0:22:19.320
<v Speaker 2>he's another one. He and Evanna were invited, of course,

0:22:19.359 --> 0:22:22.960
<v Speaker 2>but he was hosting a charity event in Santa Barbara, a.

0:22:23.000 --> 0:22:25.160
<v Speaker 1>Huge event that Havanna has been charing for a while,

0:22:25.160 --> 0:22:27.359
<v Speaker 1>and so that they came to NAPA. They were a

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<v Speaker 1>part of that. They could not make it here unfortunately.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I love hearing I think you just nailed something,

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<v Speaker 2>And I've wondered sometimes, like, I don't know, I'd love

0:22:35.400 --> 0:22:37.800
<v Speaker 2>to hear from people on this. Sometimes I feel like

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<v Speaker 2>I got to come into the franchise and start covering

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<v Speaker 2>it at like a really good, powerful time. I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>of course I missed those big years where you've had

0:22:46.840 --> 0:22:49.479
<v Speaker 2>tens of millions of people watching it on broadcast and

0:22:49.840 --> 0:22:51.960
<v Speaker 2>you know, sort of the origins of reality TV. But

0:22:52.320 --> 0:22:55.240
<v Speaker 2>I came in at a time when, like social media

0:22:55.320 --> 0:22:57.879
<v Speaker 2>was really blowing everyone up, but the family was like,

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<v Speaker 2>but social media was connecting the Bachelor family, and so

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<v Speaker 2>like I first started covering it with Ben's season, which

0:23:05.000 --> 0:23:08.000
<v Speaker 2>is part of why you know, I'm close to Ben

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<v Speaker 2>and Wells and Jojo, and so I've wondered, Wait, do

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<v Speaker 2>I just feel like I was there in a really

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<v Speaker 2>good time because that's when I was there and they're

0:23:15.600 --> 0:23:19.200
<v Speaker 2>my age or was this kind of group in this

0:23:19.320 --> 0:23:22.920
<v Speaker 2>age range, in this era really a good solid time

0:23:22.920 --> 0:23:26.119
<v Speaker 2>in the franchise and it has gone I don't know,

0:23:26.280 --> 0:23:27.720
<v Speaker 2>I don't know if it's still there anymore.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, think of the decades that span in that room,

0:23:32.760 --> 0:23:37.040
<v Speaker 1>from Trista in the early two thousands, yeah, all the

0:23:37.080 --> 0:23:37.720
<v Speaker 1>way through.

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<v Speaker 2>But I guess I'm saying I think that that crew,

0:23:41.600 --> 0:23:45.159
<v Speaker 2>those couple of years of like ben Jojo Colton, like

0:23:45.240 --> 0:23:48.400
<v Speaker 2>Hannah Brown in there like that, those couple of years,

0:23:48.840 --> 0:23:51.479
<v Speaker 2>those were some really good seasons of the show. Ye,

0:23:51.840 --> 0:23:55.879
<v Speaker 2>and whatever has happened with us, I just even just

0:23:55.920 --> 0:23:57.320
<v Speaker 2>as a viewer of a show, I know those were

0:23:57.359 --> 0:23:59.520
<v Speaker 2>really good times. And maybe I can't tell if that's

0:23:59.560 --> 0:24:01.399
<v Speaker 2>me protect at her if that was a good chunk.

0:24:01.440 --> 0:24:03.280
<v Speaker 2>And I don't know if it's been that good since then.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, And I don't know if it's been that good

0:24:05.840 --> 0:24:07.600
<v Speaker 1>since then. I don't know what the con well, I

0:24:07.600 --> 0:24:10.119
<v Speaker 1>don't know what the camaraderie is. But to that point,

0:24:10.160 --> 0:24:14.960
<v Speaker 1>I would just add this. I think the fabric was

0:24:15.000 --> 0:24:19.679
<v Speaker 1>being torn, and I'm glad, and I think everybody in

0:24:19.680 --> 0:24:22.560
<v Speaker 1>the room Friday night felt we're not going to let

0:24:22.560 --> 0:24:25.200
<v Speaker 1>that fabric be torn. We're going to let this family

0:24:25.320 --> 0:24:28.480
<v Speaker 1>heal and be together because we all realized, wait, we

0:24:28.640 --> 0:24:33.400
<v Speaker 1>love each other, Like what happens, you can let this go,

0:24:33.600 --> 0:24:36.200
<v Speaker 1>Like we're going to stay together. And I really appree

0:24:36.320 --> 0:24:38.480
<v Speaker 1>I think that was maybe the healing and the love

0:24:38.520 --> 0:24:40.560
<v Speaker 1>I felt in that room of it was this big

0:24:40.600 --> 0:24:42.720
<v Speaker 1>sigh of relief, and we all put our arms around

0:24:42.720 --> 0:24:45.320
<v Speaker 1>each other and just there was love. It was as

0:24:45.359 --> 0:24:46.720
<v Speaker 1>I always said, at the end of the day, it

0:24:46.760 --> 0:24:48.920
<v Speaker 1>was always about love, and so was this.

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<v Speaker 2>We had such a good group. We kept saying on

0:24:52.200 --> 0:24:55.480
<v Speaker 2>Sunday morning after Friday and Saturday night, the Bachelor crew

0:24:55.520 --> 0:24:57.840
<v Speaker 2>that we had, the people we invited, and the people

0:24:57.880 --> 0:25:00.280
<v Speaker 2>we invited are people we kind of use the barmeter

0:25:00.359 --> 0:25:03.320
<v Speaker 2>of who do we regularly still talk to or catch

0:25:03.400 --> 0:25:06.080
<v Speaker 2>up with text with, who do we feel really close with,

0:25:06.359 --> 0:25:10.480
<v Speaker 2>who do we both know really well? And the crew

0:25:10.520 --> 0:25:13.679
<v Speaker 2>we had was such a good group and so supportive

0:25:13.680 --> 0:25:16.280
<v Speaker 2>of us and so cheering us on and out on

0:25:16.320 --> 0:25:18.679
<v Speaker 2>the dance floor on Saturday. And they all showed up

0:25:18.680 --> 0:25:22.640
<v Speaker 2>Friday night. Nobody I kind of listen. Everybody said Jason

0:25:22.640 --> 0:25:24.160
<v Speaker 2>was little late, which is fine. I'm not a person

0:25:24.200 --> 0:25:27.000
<v Speaker 2>who's early are on time to parties, but I was

0:25:27.040 --> 0:25:29.320
<v Speaker 2>almost for a second I thought, Oh, I don't know,

0:25:29.359 --> 0:25:31.639
<v Speaker 2>maybe they're exploring the city and they're not going to come. No,

0:25:31.800 --> 0:25:34.840
<v Speaker 2>everybody showed up and everybody was so happy for us,

0:25:34.920 --> 0:25:37.399
<v Speaker 2>and it was just such a loving group of people.

0:25:37.400 --> 0:25:40.000
<v Speaker 1>Two things One we forgot, I forgot we invited Claire

0:25:40.040 --> 0:25:40.360
<v Speaker 1>as well.

0:25:40.440 --> 0:25:41.800
<v Speaker 2>Oh yes, Claire couldn't make it.

0:25:42.200 --> 0:25:45.240
<v Speaker 1>And what was cool was at the end of the night,

0:25:45.600 --> 0:25:47.640
<v Speaker 1>some people had reservations and went off on their own.

0:25:47.800 --> 0:25:50.600
<v Speaker 1>I know Culton, Yeah, Culton and Jordan had dinner reservations.

0:25:50.640 --> 0:25:53.760
<v Speaker 1>But there was this core group that ended up splitting

0:25:53.840 --> 0:25:57.800
<v Speaker 1>up into boys' night and girls' night. So the boys

0:25:57.920 --> 0:25:59.920
<v Speaker 1>ended up having a reservation. They went often had a

0:26:00.240 --> 0:26:00.960
<v Speaker 1>night in that.

0:26:00.800 --> 0:26:02.960
<v Speaker 2>One of our favorite restaurants in Austin fixed.

0:26:02.680 --> 0:26:06.199
<v Speaker 1>Ye so good dude, biscuits, the chicken, Oh my gosh.

0:26:06.320 --> 0:26:08.600
<v Speaker 1>But then the girls went out and this just happened

0:26:08.960 --> 0:26:12.600
<v Speaker 1>like spontaneously, and they were in our driveway like okay, guys,

0:26:12.600 --> 0:26:14.560
<v Speaker 1>we're going here. Girls were going I'm like, okay, this

0:26:14.640 --> 0:26:17.760
<v Speaker 1>is awesome. I just I love that this group truly,

0:26:18.600 --> 0:26:21.440
<v Speaker 1>there was so much love and companionship and camaraderie. It

0:26:21.600 --> 0:26:23.840
<v Speaker 1>just in my heart was swelling and it was such

0:26:23.840 --> 0:26:28.359
<v Speaker 1>a great jumping off point, diving board springboard effect. To

0:26:28.400 --> 0:26:31.600
<v Speaker 1>get us into our wedding day On Saturday.

0:26:31.440 --> 0:26:35.800
<v Speaker 2>Taysha brought her new gentleman, oh yes, to a wedding

0:26:35.840 --> 0:26:39.280
<v Speaker 2>for the first time Luke of Summerhouse on Bravo. You know,

0:26:39.400 --> 0:26:42.239
<v Speaker 2>I felt like, oh, okay, we're we're debuting this at

0:26:42.240 --> 0:26:44.560
<v Speaker 2>a wedding. It's listen whoever you are. It's a big

0:26:44.600 --> 0:26:48.040
<v Speaker 2>deal to bring somebody to a wedding. I think we chatted.

0:26:48.280 --> 0:26:50.879
<v Speaker 2>He was very sweet, and it was so good to

0:26:50.920 --> 0:26:54.080
<v Speaker 2>see Tasha taysha Is. She looked so lovely and she

0:26:54.160 --> 0:26:55.160
<v Speaker 2>was so happy for us.

0:26:56.200 --> 0:26:59.240
<v Speaker 1>And she's someone I had not seen since the pandemic,

0:26:59.320 --> 0:27:02.320
<v Speaker 1>since IF the show, and I've talked to her, but

0:27:02.359 --> 0:27:04.919
<v Speaker 1>it was we just I don't know, we kind of

0:27:04.920 --> 0:27:07.400
<v Speaker 1>exchanged a big hug when she first walked in the door,

0:27:07.440 --> 0:27:09.359
<v Speaker 1>and just kind of a knowing hug of everything that

0:27:10.200 --> 0:27:12.080
<v Speaker 1>you know, she had been through and I had been through.

0:27:12.119 --> 0:27:14.040
<v Speaker 1>So it was again, it was one of those relationships.

0:27:14.080 --> 0:27:16.119
<v Speaker 1>It was just good to see her. And yeah, I

0:27:16.160 --> 0:27:19.560
<v Speaker 1>met Luke, a nice guy and had had a brief

0:27:19.640 --> 0:27:23.359
<v Speaker 1>chat with him and a good Midwestern boy Minneapolis, Minnesota GA.

0:27:23.520 --> 0:27:25.399
<v Speaker 2>He and I talked so much about the Midwest. I know,

0:27:25.440 --> 0:27:28.480
<v Speaker 2>I'm like, oh, I instantly, I instantly vibe with you.

0:27:28.640 --> 0:27:30.719
<v Speaker 1>But yeah, that night was a great springboard to get

0:27:30.800 --> 0:27:45.320
<v Speaker 1>us into Saturday. So her wedding at Austin was not

0:27:45.480 --> 0:27:46.760
<v Speaker 1>traditional at all.

0:27:47.800 --> 0:27:50.159
<v Speaker 2>I did not walk down an aisle alone. Anyway, we

0:27:50.280 --> 0:27:50.840
<v Speaker 2>entered together.

0:27:51.320 --> 0:27:54.800
<v Speaker 1>This is again another reason why you should always have

0:27:54.840 --> 0:27:59.320
<v Speaker 1>two wedding ceremonies. We did the typical traditional walk down

0:27:59.359 --> 0:28:01.719
<v Speaker 1>the aisle. I was up there with the offician and Napa.

0:28:01.840 --> 0:28:04.760
<v Speaker 1>Lauren walked to me. It was beautiful and it took

0:28:04.760 --> 0:28:06.840
<v Speaker 1>my breath away and I cried like a baby. But

0:28:07.760 --> 0:28:11.719
<v Speaker 1>the great thing about Austin and again the vibe was cowboys,

0:28:11.840 --> 0:28:15.240
<v Speaker 1>chic and let's crush this and it was one big party.

0:28:15.280 --> 0:28:20.120
<v Speaker 1>So Lauren and I with the kids, we actually drove, well,

0:28:20.200 --> 0:28:23.159
<v Speaker 1>drove my truck to the wedding. We drove together. We

0:28:23.200 --> 0:28:25.199
<v Speaker 1>spent the day together, drove together to the wedding with

0:28:25.240 --> 0:28:27.840
<v Speaker 1>the kids. The kids went in and stood by the stage.

0:28:27.920 --> 0:28:30.760
<v Speaker 1>There was no sitting. We weren't sitting in pews and

0:28:30.760 --> 0:28:34.040
<v Speaker 1>all that. This was on the dance floor when Lauren

0:28:34.080 --> 0:28:35.040
<v Speaker 1>and I walked in.

0:28:35.520 --> 0:28:37.960
<v Speaker 2>This s yeah. What we had the band leader do

0:28:38.160 --> 0:28:40.840
<v Speaker 2>of the Little Wedding Band. If you are doing any

0:28:40.880 --> 0:28:44.080
<v Speaker 2>event in Texas, hire the Little Wedding Band. We have

0:28:44.240 --> 0:28:47.280
<v Speaker 2>so many compliments on them. They rocked the house. So

0:28:47.640 --> 0:28:50.520
<v Speaker 2>the band leader, Matt, we said to him, we're gonna

0:28:50.800 --> 0:28:53.040
<v Speaker 2>let you know, text you when we're pulling up in

0:28:53.080 --> 0:28:57.840
<v Speaker 2>the pickup, and we want you to tell everybody get

0:28:57.920 --> 0:29:02.640
<v Speaker 2>up on the dance floor but clear path. So he did, and.

0:29:03.000 --> 0:29:04.960
<v Speaker 1>I just thought it was such a great idea. And

0:29:05.000 --> 0:29:07.120
<v Speaker 1>I don't know if who had it. We just I'm

0:29:07.160 --> 0:29:09.120
<v Speaker 1>sure it was my I'm sure it was your idea.

0:29:09.200 --> 0:29:11.080
<v Speaker 1>But the funny thing is, I don't think we really

0:29:11.520 --> 0:29:14.440
<v Speaker 1>thought through like this is why we're doing it at

0:29:14.440 --> 0:29:16.440
<v Speaker 1>the time. It just turned out to be so wonderful

0:29:16.440 --> 0:29:19.440
<v Speaker 1>that we got to experience walking down the aisle together.

0:29:19.520 --> 0:29:22.640
<v Speaker 1>So we walked in hand in hand. And number one,

0:29:23.760 --> 0:29:24.719
<v Speaker 1>what were we wearing?

0:29:24.880 --> 0:29:27.760
<v Speaker 2>And why I wore my same dress.

0:29:27.640 --> 0:29:29.880
<v Speaker 1>Same wedding dress. There was not two dresses same wedding

0:29:29.960 --> 0:29:31.400
<v Speaker 1>dress from Napa. We wore it again.

0:29:31.640 --> 0:29:35.320
<v Speaker 2>I didn't even get it cleaned because I don't really

0:29:35.320 --> 0:29:37.040
<v Speaker 2>know anywhere you could get a wedding dress cleaned in

0:29:37.080 --> 0:29:38.280
<v Speaker 2>like a week, and I didn't want to risk it.

0:29:38.360 --> 0:29:41.000
<v Speaker 2>So it had some of that nap A dirt still

0:29:41.040 --> 0:29:42.800
<v Speaker 2>on it, it had makeup on it. I don't know

0:29:42.800 --> 0:29:44.520
<v Speaker 2>if you can see it in the pictures. But who

0:29:44.520 --> 0:29:45.840
<v Speaker 2>cares sweaty for the wedding?

0:29:45.920 --> 0:29:47.800
<v Speaker 1>My thought was, who gets to wear their wedding dress

0:29:47.840 --> 0:29:50.920
<v Speaker 1>twice and enjoy? She looks so beautiful in that wedding dress.

0:29:50.960 --> 0:29:54.120
<v Speaker 1>It's such an incredible dress. Why not wear it again

0:29:54.200 --> 0:29:56.520
<v Speaker 1>instead of putting it in a closet acting like you're

0:29:56.520 --> 0:29:58.400
<v Speaker 1>going to do something with it and you never will.

0:29:58.760 --> 0:29:59.880
<v Speaker 2>So you also wear your suit.

0:30:00.360 --> 0:30:02.280
<v Speaker 1>I wore my same customers.

0:30:02.000 --> 0:30:04.280
<v Speaker 2>You get your suit cleaned.

0:30:04.480 --> 0:30:08.400
<v Speaker 1>Didn't get the suit clean? Shirt? Yes, okay? For the armpits, yes,

0:30:08.640 --> 0:30:11.239
<v Speaker 1>well yeah, just you know a little little sweat there

0:30:11.280 --> 0:30:14.680
<v Speaker 1>from dancing a napis. Shirt was pressed and clean, and

0:30:14.760 --> 0:30:17.120
<v Speaker 1>I steamed out my suit and got that ready. But

0:30:17.880 --> 0:30:20.440
<v Speaker 1>we wore the same suit, same dress as we walked in.

0:30:20.520 --> 0:30:23.400
<v Speaker 1>So we walked in together, hand in hand. Two hundred

0:30:23.400 --> 0:30:26.320
<v Speaker 1>and twenty five people there. The seas parted. They created

0:30:26.400 --> 0:30:28.400
<v Speaker 1>kind of an aisle force and this is the cool thing.

0:30:28.440 --> 0:30:31.920
<v Speaker 1>And again I can't recommend this enough. The great thing

0:30:31.960 --> 0:30:36.160
<v Speaker 1>about walking in everybody had the aisle. Everybody created an

0:30:36.240 --> 0:30:38.640
<v Speaker 1>aisle for ut so everybody had a great look. Everybody

0:30:38.720 --> 0:30:41.000
<v Speaker 1>could film us. We didn't say put your phones away.

0:30:41.280 --> 0:30:43.680
<v Speaker 1>We didn't care. There were no rules at this party.

0:30:44.040 --> 0:30:47.960
<v Speaker 2>Everything goes well, and I think it being so casual,

0:30:48.080 --> 0:30:51.840
<v Speaker 2>like I don't love. Maybe I'm wrong, but I don't

0:30:51.920 --> 0:30:53.720
<v Speaker 2>If I go to a wedding, I do not film

0:30:53.760 --> 0:30:56.560
<v Speaker 2>the bride walking down the aisle. Yeah, because I think

0:30:57.480 --> 0:30:59.440
<v Speaker 2>if it's that emotional wedding, like if a bunch of

0:30:59.480 --> 0:31:01.120
<v Speaker 2>people had been filming me as I walked down the

0:31:01.200 --> 0:31:03.520
<v Speaker 2>island Napa, you're just seeing cell phones. I want to

0:31:03.560 --> 0:31:06.840
<v Speaker 2>see people's faces. I want to connect. But it's because

0:31:06.880 --> 0:31:10.880
<v Speaker 2>it's so emotional and big. This just felt more casual

0:31:10.920 --> 0:31:14.800
<v Speaker 2>and so and also if you're filming it's just the bride.

0:31:14.960 --> 0:31:17.360
<v Speaker 2>People got like these really fun videos of both of

0:31:17.400 --> 0:31:19.720
<v Speaker 2>us coming in. We had a really long aisle with

0:31:19.760 --> 0:31:22.000
<v Speaker 2>everybody lining, and so we got to really say hi

0:31:22.080 --> 0:31:24.960
<v Speaker 2>to people as we walk down. And as we've thought

0:31:24.960 --> 0:31:27.040
<v Speaker 2>about all this, well, okay, look, I know when people

0:31:27.080 --> 0:31:29.760
<v Speaker 2>are married they enter a reception together, but it was

0:31:29.800 --> 0:31:31.880
<v Speaker 2>that difference of having an aisle. You and I actually

0:31:31.880 --> 0:31:33.880
<v Speaker 2>had another idea, even in Napa. I don't know why

0:31:33.960 --> 0:31:38.160
<v Speaker 2>weddings aren't like this. Yes, we want to change the game.

0:31:39.000 --> 0:31:42.240
<v Speaker 2>We think that wedding ceremonies should be flipped in terms

0:31:42.280 --> 0:31:46.520
<v Speaker 2>of the audience's viewpoint. Why isn't it that the ceremony

0:31:46.600 --> 0:31:51.200
<v Speaker 2>point is I'm trying to explain this right. Basically, the

0:31:51.280 --> 0:31:54.120
<v Speaker 2>audience instead of looking back the guests, instead of looking

0:31:54.160 --> 0:31:56.920
<v Speaker 2>back at the bride, they should look forward at the bride.

0:31:57.080 --> 0:32:00.880
<v Speaker 2>So the bride should walk towards the guests, and the

0:32:00.880 --> 0:32:03.160
<v Speaker 2>groom's already there. The guests are standing at the groom,

0:32:03.360 --> 0:32:05.680
<v Speaker 2>and the bride walks towards and stands with.

0:32:05.640 --> 0:32:07.760
<v Speaker 1>It the groom. At the beginning, my back would be

0:32:07.840 --> 0:32:10.920
<v Speaker 1>to the crowd, to everybody there at the wedding. You

0:32:10.960 --> 0:32:12.840
<v Speaker 1>would walk towards all of us. We'd all get to

0:32:12.840 --> 0:32:14.960
<v Speaker 1>see it, and then we'll turn and.

0:32:14.880 --> 0:32:17.320
<v Speaker 2>It just yeah, we're switch it up. But anyway, I

0:32:17.360 --> 0:32:17.720
<v Speaker 2>know that.

0:32:17.760 --> 0:32:19.800
<v Speaker 1>It's not really conducive to churches because you're not going

0:32:19.880 --> 0:32:23.240
<v Speaker 1>to have fifty yards walking into that direction one way.

0:32:23.240 --> 0:32:25.680
<v Speaker 1>But I did anythink about the building, okay, but walking

0:32:25.720 --> 0:32:28.479
<v Speaker 1>in with you, it was this was what was so

0:32:28.480 --> 0:32:30.959
<v Speaker 1>different than Napa Napa. I was so nervous. I was

0:32:31.240 --> 0:32:35.360
<v Speaker 1>just everything was flooding through me emotion wise. This was

0:32:35.440 --> 0:32:38.320
<v Speaker 1>just so happy, go lucky, and it slowed down for me.

0:32:38.400 --> 0:32:40.800
<v Speaker 1>I got to breathe. This whole thing in I had

0:32:40.840 --> 0:32:44.160
<v Speaker 1>you in my hand and we could just look at everybody.

0:32:44.880 --> 0:32:48.480
<v Speaker 1>I felt so calm, so relaxed, and we then we

0:32:48.480 --> 0:32:51.640
<v Speaker 1>got up to the stage and people did not know,

0:32:51.920 --> 0:32:54.560
<v Speaker 1>not everybody really knew that we were going to get

0:32:54.600 --> 0:32:56.880
<v Speaker 1>married again, that we were going to make it official

0:32:56.880 --> 0:33:00.680
<v Speaker 1>here in Austin. That was really interesting. People thought, many

0:33:00.720 --> 0:33:02.000
<v Speaker 1>thought we were just going to.

0:33:01.960 --> 0:33:04.840
<v Speaker 2>Be I think we should know. That's because we changed

0:33:04.840 --> 0:33:07.400
<v Speaker 2>our minds. Yes, we What we had always planned on

0:33:07.560 --> 0:33:11.320
<v Speaker 2>was doing actually a ceremony in Napa and a kind

0:33:11.320 --> 0:33:13.120
<v Speaker 2>of a reception here in Austin, which I've heard of

0:33:13.160 --> 0:33:16.920
<v Speaker 2>other people doing before. But when we started, when I

0:33:16.960 --> 0:33:19.080
<v Speaker 2>made the website, because I may hit the websites for

0:33:19.120 --> 0:33:22.480
<v Speaker 2>both events, I put that on there. And here's what

0:33:22.520 --> 0:33:25.239
<v Speaker 2>I learned. Just like people don't really read invitations, they

0:33:25.280 --> 0:33:28.000
<v Speaker 2>don't really read wedding websites. So I was getting text

0:33:28.080 --> 0:33:30.400
<v Speaker 2>from people saying, can't wait for the wedding in Austin.

0:33:30.880 --> 0:33:32.120
<v Speaker 2>And then what do you do. You have to text

0:33:32.120 --> 0:33:34.760
<v Speaker 2>people and say, oh, no, sorry, you're not invited to

0:33:34.800 --> 0:33:38.360
<v Speaker 2>the wedding. This is a party. But there was that,

0:33:38.440 --> 0:33:41.320
<v Speaker 2>but then it also became I think we did start

0:33:41.320 --> 0:33:44.400
<v Speaker 2>feeling like, you know, A, we wanted to get married

0:33:44.680 --> 0:33:48.200
<v Speaker 2>legally in Austin because we've made our home here, and

0:33:48.320 --> 0:33:53.360
<v Speaker 2>B we want why not share the love and make

0:33:53.400 --> 0:33:55.200
<v Speaker 2>sure that those people who were saying they wanted to

0:33:55.200 --> 0:33:57.560
<v Speaker 2>see us get married get to see us get married.

0:33:57.600 --> 0:33:59.440
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and it was again that's how I felt too,

0:33:59.520 --> 0:34:03.440
<v Speaker 1>about wanting to profess my love, say our vows. You know,

0:34:03.560 --> 0:34:06.720
<v Speaker 1>have our efficiant Mike Levitt, who also presided over this.

0:34:06.880 --> 0:34:09.439
<v Speaker 1>I mean we had to pay him a double rate

0:34:09.880 --> 0:34:12.480
<v Speaker 1>to have Mike Levitt, our dear friend came up. And

0:34:12.520 --> 0:34:14.960
<v Speaker 1>so what I did is so is joking, No I am,

0:34:15.000 --> 0:34:19.360
<v Speaker 1>I'm joking. So, as I said, this was very non traditional,

0:34:20.040 --> 0:34:23.880
<v Speaker 1>Laura and I walked in, took the stage, and we

0:34:23.960 --> 0:34:26.520
<v Speaker 1>hosted our own wedding. We grabbed the mic and we

0:34:26.680 --> 0:34:28.839
<v Speaker 1>just we raised, you know, a glass. We said, hey,

0:34:29.440 --> 0:34:31.800
<v Speaker 1>we're really happy everybody's here. We're honored by your presence.

0:34:32.040 --> 0:34:34.080
<v Speaker 1>This was going to be just a party, but if

0:34:34.120 --> 0:34:36.440
<v Speaker 1>you guys don't mind, we actually wanted to make it

0:34:36.440 --> 0:34:39.240
<v Speaker 1>official right here, right now, we are going to get married.

0:34:39.600 --> 0:34:41.839
<v Speaker 1>We brought up our friend Mike Levitt, and we went

0:34:41.960 --> 0:34:44.520
<v Speaker 1>right in, hid the microphones and went right into a wedding.

0:34:44.920 --> 0:34:47.800
<v Speaker 2>He had a short and slightly different version.

0:34:47.960 --> 0:34:48.280
<v Speaker 1>Yes.

0:34:48.360 --> 0:34:51.800
<v Speaker 2>Of Napa. We had slightly shorter versions of our vows.

0:34:51.880 --> 0:34:54.200
<v Speaker 1>Yes, different and a little different yeah, which was.

0:34:54.200 --> 0:34:56.800
<v Speaker 2>Cool because I think that saved something really special in Napa.

0:34:56.840 --> 0:35:00.000
<v Speaker 2>And then but everyone was so complimentary of the vowel

0:35:00.239 --> 0:35:00.520
<v Speaker 2>I know.

0:35:01.000 --> 0:35:04.080
<v Speaker 1>And by the way we wrote them. We wrote our

0:35:04.120 --> 0:35:07.759
<v Speaker 1>own vowels. Someone had asked, and I was like, well, yeah,

0:35:07.880 --> 0:35:09.200
<v Speaker 1>who else would write your vows?

0:35:09.840 --> 0:35:12.080
<v Speaker 2>Oh? I think they mean versus saying like the traditional

0:35:12.120 --> 0:35:13.439
<v Speaker 2>do you take her? Do you take care? Oh?

0:35:13.520 --> 0:35:16.239
<v Speaker 1>We did both. Yeah, we set our vowels via the

0:35:16.360 --> 0:35:19.280
<v Speaker 1>typical wedding tradition, but then we wrote our own vowels

0:35:19.320 --> 0:35:23.600
<v Speaker 1>and sent them to each other. I guess I could

0:35:23.640 --> 0:35:25.319
<v Speaker 1>say one part about the vowels. I mean it was

0:35:25.400 --> 0:35:27.520
<v Speaker 1>very public that it was funny to me. I kind

0:35:27.520 --> 0:35:31.440
<v Speaker 1>of started my vows by saying, the irony is not

0:35:31.560 --> 0:35:35.120
<v Speaker 1>lost on me of standing before so many people that

0:35:35.200 --> 0:35:38.800
<v Speaker 1>I have either married forced to write their vowels, perform

0:35:38.880 --> 0:35:42.320
<v Speaker 1>their vowels, or just do ridiculous things on national television,

0:35:42.560 --> 0:35:45.120
<v Speaker 1>and now here I am going through the same exercise.

0:35:45.400 --> 0:35:47.319
<v Speaker 1>So the irony was not lost on me. That I

0:35:47.360 --> 0:35:49.880
<v Speaker 1>was doing this in front of all my bachelor family,

0:35:49.920 --> 0:35:53.360
<v Speaker 1>which was really it was beautiful, funny and a great moment.

0:35:53.520 --> 0:35:56.240
<v Speaker 2>You were the one in the vulnerable position for one.

0:35:56.120 --> 0:36:00.239
<v Speaker 1>Exactly cute it and it felt good. It felt it

0:36:00.239 --> 0:36:02.879
<v Speaker 1>felt scary, but it felt good. And so we went

0:36:02.920 --> 0:36:07.799
<v Speaker 1>through our regular ceremony a little shortened and we and.

0:36:07.760 --> 0:36:10.080
<v Speaker 2>It was so cool to have everybody. So we had

0:36:10.080 --> 0:36:12.719
<v Speaker 2>everyone stand up for the aisle as we walked in.

0:36:12.840 --> 0:36:15.000
<v Speaker 2>And then when we we, like Chris said, we took

0:36:15.040 --> 0:36:17.160
<v Speaker 2>the mic and we said okay, gather in and come in.

0:36:17.200 --> 0:36:20.320
<v Speaker 2>Everybody and everyone was standing and literally just gathered around

0:36:20.320 --> 0:36:22.759
<v Speaker 2>this lab from it. So it felt so close. Like

0:36:22.840 --> 0:36:24.680
<v Speaker 2>I looked, I saw Caitlyn smiling at it, I says

0:36:24.760 --> 0:36:27.160
<v Speaker 2>a tryst. I saw some of my friends from ET,

0:36:27.440 --> 0:36:30.120
<v Speaker 2>I saw our families, and you had an excellent idea

0:36:30.920 --> 0:36:34.560
<v Speaker 2>as well. Two weddings we advocate for two weddings in Napa.

0:36:35.239 --> 0:36:39.280
<v Speaker 2>Just it was like the you know, your family sits

0:36:39.280 --> 0:36:39.799
<v Speaker 2>on your side.

0:36:39.880 --> 0:36:41.880
<v Speaker 1>It was kind of the bride side in the groom side.

0:36:41.960 --> 0:36:43.920
<v Speaker 2>So what that meant though, was that as we were

0:36:43.920 --> 0:36:46.880
<v Speaker 2>doing our vows, I was staring at Chris's kids, and

0:36:46.960 --> 0:36:49.960
<v Speaker 2>Chris was staring at my mom and siblings. Now, that

0:36:50.080 --> 0:36:51.960
<v Speaker 2>was amazing because you're kind of seeing the family you're

0:36:51.960 --> 0:36:55.360
<v Speaker 2>marrying into. But then we thought, in Austin, let's switch

0:36:55.400 --> 0:36:57.240
<v Speaker 2>it so that we can look at our own family spaces.

0:36:57.320 --> 0:37:00.440
<v Speaker 2>So that was magical because we got to see our

0:37:00.480 --> 0:37:03.279
<v Speaker 2>own families during the vows, and I could see my

0:37:03.320 --> 0:37:07.719
<v Speaker 2>brother tearing up and oh my gosh, it was so awesome.

0:37:07.400 --> 0:37:09.160
<v Speaker 1>And I was, yeah, I was looking at Joshi and

0:37:09.160 --> 0:37:12.920
<v Speaker 1>Taylor and yeah, that was it just got me. Listening

0:37:12.920 --> 0:37:14.439
<v Speaker 1>to your vowels and then looking at them.

0:37:14.880 --> 0:37:16.759
<v Speaker 2>Did you feel like it was any Was it still

0:37:16.760 --> 0:37:18.040
<v Speaker 2>a blur this time or did you hear no?

0:37:18.360 --> 0:37:22.279
<v Speaker 1>I felt like on the second yeah, the second read no.

0:37:22.719 --> 0:37:25.640
<v Speaker 1>I in Austin, everything about it slowed down for me

0:37:25.680 --> 0:37:30.080
<v Speaker 1>and I finally, I think the adrenaline wasn't as high

0:37:30.120 --> 0:37:32.400
<v Speaker 1>and intense in my body and I just because we

0:37:32.440 --> 0:37:34.399
<v Speaker 1>had walked in together and it was just so much

0:37:34.400 --> 0:37:37.360
<v Speaker 1>more relaxed that I really got to hear everything. I

0:37:37.400 --> 0:37:39.399
<v Speaker 1>looked out at the crowd and I got to see

0:37:39.480 --> 0:37:42.600
<v Speaker 1>people's faces as again, it was so intimate. Everyone crushed

0:37:42.640 --> 0:37:45.200
<v Speaker 1>up on this near the stage. I could really see

0:37:45.200 --> 0:37:49.480
<v Speaker 1>everybody and feel the love and see my kids, see you.

0:37:49.560 --> 0:37:52.480
<v Speaker 1>I could hear your vows and really feel him this time.

0:37:52.840 --> 0:37:55.840
<v Speaker 1>I even asked you if things if certain things were different.

0:37:55.920 --> 0:37:57.000
<v Speaker 1>You said no, I know.

0:37:57.080 --> 0:37:59.120
<v Speaker 2>He said, did you change your vows? I said no,

0:37:59.400 --> 0:38:01.560
<v Speaker 2>and he said, well maybe I just wasn't was out of.

0:38:01.560 --> 0:38:04.200
<v Speaker 1>Body not yeah, And so I really I really got

0:38:04.200 --> 0:38:04.759
<v Speaker 1>to breathe in this.

0:38:05.160 --> 0:38:06.160
<v Speaker 2>My vows are pretty great.

0:38:06.560 --> 0:38:10.200
<v Speaker 1>Thought you crushed it. Honestly. Honestly, if I was, if

0:38:10.280 --> 0:38:12.480
<v Speaker 1>I was going to not that we should, but if

0:38:12.520 --> 0:38:15.800
<v Speaker 1>I was going to rank them, you crushed me. I

0:38:16.239 --> 0:38:18.840
<v Speaker 1>wanted to outdo you in that department and out love you,

0:38:19.239 --> 0:38:22.160
<v Speaker 1>but you crushed like your your your No, your vowels

0:38:22.160 --> 0:38:24.719
<v Speaker 1>were spectacular. Mine were good. I'm not gonna lie mine.

0:38:24.719 --> 0:38:26.400
<v Speaker 1>We're good. Yours were spectacular.

0:38:26.480 --> 0:38:28.640
<v Speaker 2>No, maybe you's were so good. And he cried again.

0:38:29.160 --> 0:38:30.960
<v Speaker 1>And I thought, that's one thing I thought I was

0:38:31.000 --> 0:38:32.160
<v Speaker 1>going to get through. I was going to say this.

0:38:32.239 --> 0:38:34.720
<v Speaker 1>I thought I was going to get through. I'm like, okay,

0:38:34.760 --> 0:38:37.640
<v Speaker 1>look I've been here, done this three weeks ago. I

0:38:37.680 --> 0:38:39.480
<v Speaker 1>got this. Ah damn it.

0:38:39.520 --> 0:38:42.200
<v Speaker 2>Well everyone was, But you know what, I think people love.

0:38:42.600 --> 0:38:44.960
<v Speaker 2>One thing I love about going to weddings is sharing

0:38:45.000 --> 0:38:47.640
<v Speaker 2>the emotion is feeling like you get a window into

0:38:47.640 --> 0:38:50.120
<v Speaker 2>the couple. And so many people came up to us

0:38:50.160 --> 0:38:52.920
<v Speaker 2>and said that they really felt that they understood more

0:38:52.920 --> 0:38:54.360
<v Speaker 2>of our relationship from the vows.

0:38:54.480 --> 0:38:59.920
<v Speaker 1>It like yeah, And I overheard some people talking about

0:39:00.040 --> 0:39:04.400
<v Speaker 1>out how they felt it was not a production and

0:39:04.440 --> 0:39:10.000
<v Speaker 1>they felt it was just real and heartfelt and that

0:39:10.200 --> 0:39:12.400
<v Speaker 1>they saw a side of us that they weren't expecting

0:39:12.440 --> 0:39:14.040
<v Speaker 1>to see. And that made me feel really good.

0:39:14.239 --> 0:39:16.280
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you know, I should. We should note about Austin.

0:39:16.600 --> 0:39:18.880
<v Speaker 2>One rule we had in Napa, these have to be

0:39:18.920 --> 0:39:22.680
<v Speaker 2>our closest friends. In Austin, we knew mostly everybody. A

0:39:22.719 --> 0:39:25.279
<v Speaker 2>couple of people brought like plus ones who we didn't know,

0:39:25.400 --> 0:39:27.400
<v Speaker 2>so it was definitely a bigger party. I think the

0:39:27.400 --> 0:39:30.839
<v Speaker 2>people you overheard, we literally hadn't met them, so they're like,

0:39:31.080 --> 0:39:33.760
<v Speaker 2>they were like, oh, they're not like TV people.

0:39:34.200 --> 0:39:36.480
<v Speaker 1>Can we should we just tell the dirt of how

0:39:36.480 --> 0:39:40.680
<v Speaker 1>we heard. I think it's a good story. I'm just

0:39:40.719 --> 0:39:43.839
<v Speaker 1>gonna spill a little tea here. So after the ceremony,

0:39:44.120 --> 0:39:47.160
<v Speaker 1>Lauren is in her wedding dress. I'm in my suit. Well,

0:39:47.320 --> 0:39:50.680
<v Speaker 1>the whole point of this was cowboy chic. We wanted

0:39:50.680 --> 0:39:53.080
<v Speaker 1>everybody to be in their cowboy boots and jeans and

0:39:53.400 --> 0:39:57.239
<v Speaker 1>you know, dress up. And obviously we had decided to

0:39:57.239 --> 0:39:59.239
<v Speaker 1>get married again. So she's in her wedding dress and

0:39:59.280 --> 0:40:01.000
<v Speaker 1>I'm in my suits, so that's not going to work.

0:40:01.200 --> 0:40:03.880
<v Speaker 1>We had outfits picked out for the cowboy chic party.

0:40:04.200 --> 0:40:07.680
<v Speaker 1>So that's what we did. We got married, and the

0:40:07.680 --> 0:40:10.959
<v Speaker 1>funny thing is there was no recessional. We didn't march

0:40:11.000 --> 0:40:12.680
<v Speaker 1>off the stage and you know, get in the car

0:40:12.719 --> 0:40:14.759
<v Speaker 1>and leave or go to the reception. This was it.

0:40:14.880 --> 0:40:17.600
<v Speaker 1>So as soon as we kissed and kind of sealed

0:40:17.600 --> 0:40:20.960
<v Speaker 1>the deal, we then picked up the microphones and started

0:40:20.960 --> 0:40:25.160
<v Speaker 1>hosting again and introduced our first dance. And I will

0:40:25.160 --> 0:40:26.640
<v Speaker 1>get back to our first dance, but I want to

0:40:26.640 --> 0:40:29.360
<v Speaker 1>tell you as soon as our first dance was over,

0:40:30.360 --> 0:40:33.319
<v Speaker 1>we went to go change, and so we went to

0:40:33.320 --> 0:40:35.440
<v Speaker 1>the bridal suite. There was this little room there at

0:40:35.480 --> 0:40:38.480
<v Speaker 1>the Ranch Austin where we had this event where we

0:40:38.520 --> 0:40:41.640
<v Speaker 1>got married, and we go into the bridal suite, well,

0:40:41.680 --> 0:40:44.239
<v Speaker 1>the bridal suite that we were changing. So Louren's getting

0:40:44.239 --> 0:40:46.480
<v Speaker 1>out of her dress and getting into another dress and

0:40:46.480 --> 0:40:49.239
<v Speaker 1>her frilly boots, and then it was just spectacular and

0:40:49.600 --> 0:40:54.880
<v Speaker 1>I changed into my cowboy jeans and my Takova alligator boots,

0:40:54.880 --> 0:40:58.840
<v Speaker 1>and I had this beautiful velvet jacket from Ken'sman's Shop.

0:40:58.880 --> 0:41:01.279
<v Speaker 1>I kept my shirt on, but I put on this

0:41:01.320 --> 0:41:04.200
<v Speaker 1>beautiful velvet jacket. It almost looked like a tucks jacket.

0:41:05.040 --> 0:41:07.840
<v Speaker 1>Very petible, very sexy, if I do say so myself.

0:41:08.200 --> 0:41:11.080
<v Speaker 1>But the funny thing is is we're changing. We hear

0:41:11.120 --> 0:41:14.000
<v Speaker 1>these people talking and you could really hear. I mean,

0:41:14.040 --> 0:41:15.279
<v Speaker 1>it was as if they were in the room with this,

0:41:15.360 --> 0:41:18.560
<v Speaker 1>and we thought, oh no, we are right next door

0:41:18.600 --> 0:41:22.040
<v Speaker 1>to the lady's room, to the women's bathroom. So all

0:41:22.120 --> 0:41:24.319
<v Speaker 1>the women were going in there and kind of gossiping

0:41:24.360 --> 0:41:27.000
<v Speaker 1>about what they had just seen. And I thought, oh,

0:41:27.040 --> 0:41:29.120
<v Speaker 1>this could really ruin our night if they're about to

0:41:29.200 --> 0:41:32.200
<v Speaker 1>trash us, tell us how horrible we are, how ugly

0:41:32.280 --> 0:41:35.640
<v Speaker 1>we looked, and how bad this wedding was. I'm like,

0:41:35.920 --> 0:41:38.479
<v Speaker 1>I almost said, please stop talking, don't say anything bad.

0:41:38.520 --> 0:41:42.719
<v Speaker 1>We can hear you. But instead of that, we heard

0:41:42.760 --> 0:41:46.400
<v Speaker 1>the most amazing compliments and they couldn't have been lovelier,

0:41:46.760 --> 0:41:49.319
<v Speaker 1>and it absolutely Laura and I just looked at each

0:41:49.360 --> 0:41:52.360
<v Speaker 1>other and smiled, and it was a really cool moment

0:41:52.400 --> 0:41:54.719
<v Speaker 1>to share that we were not expecting and sorry for

0:41:54.800 --> 0:41:57.680
<v Speaker 1>eavesdropping on the women in the ladies room. Typically we

0:41:57.719 --> 0:42:01.120
<v Speaker 1>would not do that, but the geog this place kind

0:42:01.120 --> 0:42:02.040
<v Speaker 1>of set us up for that.

0:42:02.880 --> 0:42:04.600
<v Speaker 2>And now I hope they reach out. And we didn't

0:42:04.600 --> 0:42:06.720
<v Speaker 2>find out who they were was because we were listening

0:42:06.760 --> 0:42:09.200
<v Speaker 2>and we're like, we don't know these voices. Okay, So

0:42:09.239 --> 0:42:13.560
<v Speaker 2>our first dance, yes, this was the first dance of

0:42:14.800 --> 0:42:22.200
<v Speaker 2>my dreams. Oh wow, the emotions are still I So

0:42:22.320 --> 0:42:24.640
<v Speaker 2>Chris and I have been fortunate enough to get to

0:42:24.680 --> 0:42:29.080
<v Speaker 2>know this up and coming, incredibly talented country crooner of

0:42:29.120 --> 0:42:33.080
<v Speaker 2>a singer, William Beckman. His voice is like if Elvis

0:42:33.480 --> 0:42:37.160
<v Speaker 2>and Frank Sinatra had a baby and that baby went country.

0:42:37.320 --> 0:42:41.799
<v Speaker 2>He's so talented. So check out William Beckman. And we

0:42:41.840 --> 0:42:43.400
<v Speaker 2>asked him if you would play a few songs at

0:42:43.440 --> 0:42:46.080
<v Speaker 2>our wedding, and he even had a show that night

0:42:46.160 --> 0:42:47.920
<v Speaker 2>and said, I will make it happen. I will come

0:42:47.960 --> 0:42:50.960
<v Speaker 2>to your party first do the song is leave right away.

0:42:51.040 --> 0:42:56.720
<v Speaker 2>I hope he made it to a show. And oh, babe,

0:42:56.760 --> 0:43:05.480
<v Speaker 2>I just want to sorry, so what I really wanted

0:43:05.640 --> 0:43:08.440
<v Speaker 2>And I was afraid to ask you this actually because

0:43:09.280 --> 0:43:11.200
<v Speaker 2>you know I've lost my dad, and I know I've

0:43:11.200 --> 0:43:14.920
<v Speaker 2>talked about that a lot on the podcast and sometimes

0:43:17.600 --> 0:43:20.359
<v Speaker 2>On the one hand, of course, I wish my dad

0:43:20.440 --> 0:43:26.200
<v Speaker 2>was here. He deserves to be here. It it is

0:43:26.360 --> 0:43:36.000
<v Speaker 2>a fair damn that he's not here. I'm so tired.

0:43:37.400 --> 0:43:43.200
<v Speaker 2>But I also understand that there's a delicate balance, and

0:43:43.280 --> 0:43:46.160
<v Speaker 2>people who've been through loss know this of when you

0:43:46.200 --> 0:43:48.680
<v Speaker 2>can bring up like you don't want to be afraid

0:43:48.760 --> 0:43:50.680
<v Speaker 2>or ashamed to bring up the person you lost. You

0:43:50.719 --> 0:43:53.799
<v Speaker 2>shouldn't be. But I also don't want to, Like you know,

0:43:54.360 --> 0:43:56.160
<v Speaker 2>you have to watch the mood you don't want to.

0:43:56.640 --> 0:43:59.239
<v Speaker 2>It's our first dance. I wanted to be romantic for us,

0:43:59.480 --> 0:44:00.920
<v Speaker 2>and I did it. I want you to feel like

0:44:01.440 --> 0:44:05.040
<v Speaker 2>I was making our first dance about my dad and

0:44:05.120 --> 0:44:06.880
<v Speaker 2>about that instead of about you and I, because our

0:44:06.880 --> 0:44:10.239
<v Speaker 2>weddings about you and I. But I just really appreciate it.

0:44:10.280 --> 0:44:15.000
<v Speaker 2>I said to Chris, I would love if William could sing,

0:44:15.520 --> 0:44:18.479
<v Speaker 2>because William does a lot of old song covers, Frank

0:44:18.520 --> 0:44:22.040
<v Speaker 2>Sinatra and Dean Martin and that kind of thing. I said,

0:44:22.040 --> 0:44:24.840
<v Speaker 2>I would love if he could sing my dad and

0:44:24.880 --> 0:44:29.480
<v Speaker 2>my favorite song, which was Summer Wind by Frank Sinatra,

0:44:30.360 --> 0:44:35.040
<v Speaker 2>and you jumped on board with that so quickly supported

0:44:35.040 --> 0:44:37.560
<v Speaker 2>it right away, didn't question me on it at all.

0:44:37.920 --> 0:44:40.480
<v Speaker 2>In fact, you reached out and coordinated everything with William

0:44:40.520 --> 0:44:43.000
<v Speaker 2>and made sure William would introduce and explain the meaning

0:44:43.000 --> 0:44:44.840
<v Speaker 2>of the song so it wouldn't be me, because then

0:44:44.840 --> 0:44:48.600
<v Speaker 2>I would have been crying like this. And so that

0:44:48.800 --> 0:44:53.000
<v Speaker 2>was our first dance song in Austin, and it was

0:44:53.719 --> 0:44:55.680
<v Speaker 2>so meaningful and actually we're just starting to get the

0:44:55.680 --> 0:44:59.320
<v Speaker 2>pictures back yet it Oh my gosh, everyone was crying.

0:44:59.520 --> 0:45:01.600
<v Speaker 2>Catherine as you need. She is like, there's this picture

0:45:01.600 --> 0:45:02.840
<v Speaker 2>of her in here. She's so sweet.

0:45:03.680 --> 0:45:07.440
<v Speaker 1>Plan on how it ended up, which was then there

0:45:07.480 --> 0:45:10.879
<v Speaker 1>was this kind of semi circle that just formed around us,

0:45:11.440 --> 0:45:13.960
<v Speaker 1>and again you could just feel so much energy and

0:45:14.239 --> 0:45:16.239
<v Speaker 1>it's something. Again, we didn't have a wedding planer, We

0:45:16.239 --> 0:45:19.279
<v Speaker 1>didn't rehearse this. It just this just happened naturally. People

0:45:19.360 --> 0:45:20.880
<v Speaker 1>kind of came forward to the stage and gave us

0:45:20.880 --> 0:45:24.120
<v Speaker 1>a little area to dance and we danced to Frank

0:45:24.160 --> 0:45:28.839
<v Speaker 1>Sinatra and William God, what a voice. I mean, it's

0:45:28.920 --> 0:45:33.360
<v Speaker 1>just dripping with honey. This kid is spectacular from Del Rio, Texas.

0:45:33.400 --> 0:45:37.880
<v Speaker 1>He has it all. And then after summer wind. He

0:45:37.960 --> 0:45:41.319
<v Speaker 1>sang two other songs, but one of them the third song.

0:45:41.320 --> 0:45:44.200
<v Speaker 1>He sang three songs for us. He sings this song

0:45:44.280 --> 0:45:48.279
<v Speaker 1>in Spanish, beauvaire. Laura and I have probably seen him

0:45:48.280 --> 0:45:50.719
<v Speaker 1>half a dozen times and gotten to know him and

0:45:50.760 --> 0:45:53.680
<v Speaker 1>consider him a friend. I don't think once have we

0:45:53.719 --> 0:45:56.560
<v Speaker 1>ever seen him, whether it's you know, at Red Rocks,

0:45:56.800 --> 0:45:59.799
<v Speaker 1>at the Saxon Pub here in Austin, or you know

0:45:59.840 --> 0:46:02.080
<v Speaker 1>at their wedding where you don't cry when he sings

0:46:02.160 --> 0:46:03.960
<v Speaker 1>vote in Spanish.

0:46:04.000 --> 0:46:05.760
<v Speaker 2>It's amazing. So thank you to William.

0:46:05.800 --> 0:46:07.560
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, God bless your brother. I appreciate it.

0:46:07.640 --> 0:46:09.840
<v Speaker 2>That's how we started the night. A little emotional but

0:46:09.960 --> 0:46:14.040
<v Speaker 2>some incredible talent. And then we took the mic no, no, no.

0:46:14.080 --> 0:46:17.640
<v Speaker 2>Then we took the mic yes, and Chris made another

0:46:17.680 --> 0:46:20.759
<v Speaker 2>my dreams come true. I said, we want people to

0:46:20.760 --> 0:46:22.440
<v Speaker 2>know this is a party. They're going to be a

0:46:22.440 --> 0:46:24.560
<v Speaker 2>little emotional after William. I want to have that moment,

0:46:24.600 --> 0:46:26.440
<v Speaker 2>but you want to make it clear it's a party.

0:46:26.719 --> 0:46:29.920
<v Speaker 2>Let's kick the night off. Instead of a champagne toast,

0:46:30.200 --> 0:46:34.200
<v Speaker 2>let's do a tequila shot. So Chris and I announced

0:46:34.200 --> 0:46:36.239
<v Speaker 2>that the buffet was going to open up, and we

0:46:36.280 --> 0:46:39.279
<v Speaker 2>did a tequila shot together, and Chris Harrison is not

0:46:39.440 --> 0:46:40.240
<v Speaker 2>a shot doer.

0:46:40.400 --> 0:46:42.479
<v Speaker 1>I am not a big shot doer. I will but

0:46:42.480 --> 0:46:43.520
<v Speaker 1>but I'm not a big shot.

0:46:43.560 --> 0:46:45.880
<v Speaker 2>But we do love this tequila see Emprey Tequila. We

0:46:45.960 --> 0:46:48.800
<v Speaker 2>had all of our signature cocktails by see Emprey Tequila

0:46:48.800 --> 0:46:51.839
<v Speaker 2>all night. It's so delishous and so affordable, by the way,

0:46:52.040 --> 0:46:54.800
<v Speaker 2>my all time favorite, affordable, delicious tequila.

0:46:54.560 --> 0:46:57.480
<v Speaker 1>No additives, all natural. Damn it's good tequila. Thank you,

0:46:57.480 --> 0:46:58.000
<v Speaker 1>Sam Prey.

0:46:58.280 --> 0:47:01.720
<v Speaker 2>So Chris wed a tequila shot with me on stage.

0:47:02.040 --> 0:47:04.320
<v Speaker 2>Then we went to change eaves, dropped on some people.

0:47:04.400 --> 0:47:06.920
<v Speaker 2>I put on my very Oh I loved my dress

0:47:06.920 --> 0:47:09.680
<v Speaker 2>by the way, by Justin Alexander. It's called the Share dress.

0:47:09.840 --> 0:47:13.959
<v Speaker 2>And what was amazing was Elon Gail's fiance Molly Quinn,

0:47:14.000 --> 0:47:15.839
<v Speaker 2>came up to me and said, oh my god, you're

0:47:15.960 --> 0:47:19.080
<v Speaker 2>channeling Share. I said, oh wow, Mollie, what a compliment.

0:47:19.239 --> 0:47:21.920
<v Speaker 2>Thank you. Can't wait for their whenever they're going to

0:47:21.960 --> 0:47:25.799
<v Speaker 2>get married. So put on this Justin Alexander dress. It's

0:47:25.840 --> 0:47:28.359
<v Speaker 2>so cute. It was that cowboy vibe and I've put

0:47:28.360 --> 0:47:31.840
<v Speaker 2>on my first ever pair of cowgirl boots.

0:47:32.320 --> 0:47:34.680
<v Speaker 1>I was so good. They looked so hot. They little,

0:47:34.680 --> 0:47:36.960
<v Speaker 1>as I said, they kind of the frills. The friend

0:47:37.080 --> 0:47:38.600
<v Speaker 1>I was saving the moment I didn't. I wanted to

0:47:38.640 --> 0:47:40.360
<v Speaker 1>wear boots for the first time at our wedding.

0:47:40.600 --> 0:47:43.920
<v Speaker 2>I love that and Exluckily they didn't give me blisters.

0:47:44.400 --> 0:47:49.800
<v Speaker 1>And so we introduced everybody via the Seamprey tequila shot.

0:47:50.440 --> 0:47:53.359
<v Speaker 1>And then it was time for the food. And that

0:47:53.480 --> 0:47:55.799
<v Speaker 1>was really important to me in Austin as important as

0:47:55.800 --> 0:47:57.920
<v Speaker 1>it was in Napa. And this was a very formal

0:47:57.960 --> 0:48:00.839
<v Speaker 1>wine dinner. I wanted Texas. I wanted everyone to get

0:48:00.840 --> 0:48:02.880
<v Speaker 1>a taste of Texas. And if you look at everybody's

0:48:03.160 --> 0:48:06.200
<v Speaker 1>social media posts, you saw that we were at the

0:48:06.320 --> 0:48:08.400
<v Speaker 1>Ranch Austin, which is a great venue.

0:48:08.840 --> 0:48:11.760
<v Speaker 2>Ranch Austin wedding venue. You can't recommend it enough. Chris

0:48:11.760 --> 0:48:14.320
<v Speaker 2>and Melissa, who own it, I said, I love a Chris.

0:48:14.360 --> 0:48:18.560
<v Speaker 2>They were such a sweet couple. They actually had longhorn cattle.

0:48:18.640 --> 0:48:19.440
<v Speaker 2>Did we say this yet?

0:48:19.600 --> 0:48:21.560
<v Speaker 1>No. I was about to say, you know one thing,

0:48:21.600 --> 0:48:24.680
<v Speaker 1>this is a working ranch. So there were real steers

0:48:24.680 --> 0:48:27.840
<v Speaker 1>out there, longhorns with I mean beautiful long horns. The

0:48:28.239 --> 0:48:31.120
<v Speaker 1>spread on these horns about thirteen feet wide. They had

0:48:31.160 --> 0:48:33.759
<v Speaker 1>donkeys out there and so it was funny all the

0:48:33.920 --> 0:48:34.520
<v Speaker 1>La folks.

0:48:34.640 --> 0:48:36.879
<v Speaker 2>We really wanted to give those Californians a real taste

0:48:36.880 --> 0:48:39.800
<v Speaker 2>in Texas. And what Chris at Ranch Austin does is

0:48:39.840 --> 0:48:42.000
<v Speaker 2>he uses sugar cubes and brings the long horn over

0:48:42.080 --> 0:48:44.239
<v Speaker 2>so everybody can take pictures with them. And it's a

0:48:44.239 --> 0:48:47.319
<v Speaker 2>beautiful setting and people really have a theme.

0:48:47.600 --> 0:48:50.400
<v Speaker 1>Everybody was posting pictures of the steer. It was really cool.

0:48:51.120 --> 0:48:54.680
<v Speaker 1>And so we also wanted them to well, ironically enough,

0:48:55.160 --> 0:48:58.439
<v Speaker 1>taste that as well and eat barbecue. So we really

0:48:58.440 --> 0:49:01.719
<v Speaker 1>wanted a Texas Barbecue special and all I.

0:49:01.800 --> 0:49:04.200
<v Speaker 2>Loved to the vegetarians out there, Sorry.

0:49:03.640 --> 0:49:06.280
<v Speaker 1>This was not for the faint of heart. Sorry vegans,

0:49:06.920 --> 0:49:12.080
<v Speaker 1>but you can't do fondue barbecue. But a good friend

0:49:12.160 --> 0:49:14.640
<v Speaker 1>of mine and now a good friend of ours, Cameron

0:49:14.760 --> 0:49:20.880
<v Speaker 1>True and this might seem odd, but Cameron is actually

0:49:20.920 --> 0:49:24.880
<v Speaker 1>in from Provo, Utah. He owns Bambam's Barbecue in Provo, Utah.

0:49:25.120 --> 0:49:28.880
<v Speaker 1>If you're anywhere near provol Provo, Utah, Salt Lake City,

0:49:28.960 --> 0:49:31.600
<v Speaker 1>Park City, get down there, go to Bambam's. Ask for

0:49:31.640 --> 0:49:35.239
<v Speaker 1>my boy Cameron Spectacular. I met him about twelve years

0:49:35.280 --> 0:49:38.840
<v Speaker 1>ago here in Austin on a barbecue tour. Yes, I

0:49:38.840 --> 0:49:41.480
<v Speaker 1>would go on barbecue tours. I was with some friends.

0:49:41.840 --> 0:49:44.279
<v Speaker 1>Cameron was there working at Law Barbecue. He was at

0:49:44.320 --> 0:49:47.440
<v Speaker 1>a food truck and I met him. We just became friends.

0:49:47.680 --> 0:49:48.040
<v Speaker 1>I tell you.

0:49:48.040 --> 0:49:49.359
<v Speaker 2>He told me the story of what he yelled at

0:49:49.360 --> 0:49:51.480
<v Speaker 2>you from across the room, which is amazing and I'm

0:49:51.520 --> 0:49:53.640
<v Speaker 2>wondering if a fan has ever yelled anything better. Do

0:49:53.640 --> 0:49:54.200
<v Speaker 2>you remember this?

0:49:54.440 --> 0:49:54.520
<v Speaker 1>No?

0:49:54.960 --> 0:49:57.520
<v Speaker 2>Oh, my gosh me. So he loved the show, which

0:49:57.560 --> 0:49:58.240
<v Speaker 2>is how you first.

0:49:58.160 --> 0:49:59.439
<v Speaker 1>Met, because he was in the food truck.

0:50:00.080 --> 0:50:03.080
<v Speaker 2>Said he yelled at you barn my language. But he

0:50:03.160 --> 0:50:07.640
<v Speaker 2>yelled Chris Harrison. I think loved The Bachelor and I'm

0:50:07.640 --> 0:50:10.480
<v Speaker 2>the biggest because he's like six foot sex here. He said,

0:50:10.640 --> 0:50:12.799
<v Speaker 2>I love The Bachelor and I'm the biggest duty her.

0:50:12.880 --> 0:50:15.120
<v Speaker 2>So if anybody says anything to you, just come get

0:50:15.120 --> 0:50:16.200
<v Speaker 2>me and I'll kick their ass.

0:50:16.520 --> 0:50:18.680
<v Speaker 1>So I remember him yelling at what was weird? So,

0:50:18.960 --> 0:50:21.160
<v Speaker 1>you know true barbecue places in Austin, you got to

0:50:21.160 --> 0:50:23.439
<v Speaker 1>get there early, you get in line. This food truck

0:50:23.440 --> 0:50:26.000
<v Speaker 1>had a line. I'm about twenty deep, and we kind

0:50:26.000 --> 0:50:28.240
<v Speaker 1>of wound around so he could see me from the window.

0:50:28.600 --> 0:50:30.880
<v Speaker 1>So the awkward part was that he yelled at and

0:50:30.920 --> 0:50:33.040
<v Speaker 1>then of course all eyes just turned to me, and

0:50:33.040 --> 0:50:33.480
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, he.

0:50:33.520 --> 0:50:35.560
<v Speaker 2>Kind of defeated the purpose of protecting you from any

0:50:35.600 --> 0:50:36.360
<v Speaker 2>of you weird fans.

0:50:36.360 --> 0:50:38.839
<v Speaker 1>So much for being on the dalla. So Cameron true

0:50:39.200 --> 0:50:44.600
<v Speaker 1>whipped up brisket, smoked turkey, pulled pork. We had thanks

0:50:44.640 --> 0:50:46.920
<v Speaker 1>to Law barbecue here in Austin that gave us the

0:50:46.920 --> 0:50:47.520
<v Speaker 1>mac and cheese.

0:50:47.560 --> 0:50:50.280
<v Speaker 2>Petap love that ma. They loved aushtit.

0:50:50.400 --> 0:50:55.480
<v Speaker 1>He made banana pudding, so people went back for seconds, third, fourth.

0:50:55.680 --> 0:50:57.120
<v Speaker 1>They crushed the barbecue.

0:50:57.200 --> 0:51:00.960
<v Speaker 2>The barbecue was amazing. I again, was a real barbecue.

0:51:01.000 --> 0:51:07.279
<v Speaker 2>I got bamboo eco friendly disposable plates bottom ourselves, and well,

0:51:07.320 --> 0:51:10.359
<v Speaker 2>I just we didn't have cutlery like we had these

0:51:10.400 --> 0:51:13.320
<v Speaker 2>bamboo plates. We had, you know, just dinner napkins and

0:51:13.360 --> 0:51:16.280
<v Speaker 2>dinner rolls. And I loved it, and everyone loved the food.

0:51:16.600 --> 0:51:20.000
<v Speaker 2>I did make the mistake. I didn't do this in Napa.

0:51:20.200 --> 0:51:21.560
<v Speaker 2>I didn't have one bite of the food.

0:51:21.920 --> 0:51:22.279
<v Speaker 1>I did.

0:51:22.840 --> 0:51:23.759
<v Speaker 2>Well, good for you man.

0:51:23.800 --> 0:51:27.359
<v Speaker 1>We go and we brought some home. We did have left.

0:51:27.520 --> 0:51:28.840
<v Speaker 2>I was talking to too many people.

0:51:28.960 --> 0:51:30.920
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, it was funny. You had a plate of

0:51:30.920 --> 0:51:32.400
<v Speaker 1>food you were carrying around for a little bit and

0:51:32.400 --> 0:51:32.680
<v Speaker 1>you're like.

0:51:32.680 --> 0:51:35.400
<v Speaker 2>This is this No, I know it was that someone

0:51:35.520 --> 0:51:37.759
<v Speaker 2>walked by it with me. I had one bite off

0:51:37.760 --> 0:51:39.680
<v Speaker 2>of it. I mean, so I guess I had literally

0:51:39.680 --> 0:51:42.319
<v Speaker 2>one bite. But I'm shocked. I wasn't hungover because I

0:51:42.360 --> 0:51:45.879
<v Speaker 2>did so many Sam Frey tequila shots because people keep

0:51:45.880 --> 0:51:48.479
<v Speaker 2>bringing them to you, and I literally didn't even eything.

0:51:48.760 --> 0:51:50.640
<v Speaker 1>And we kind of went our separate ways a little bit.

0:51:50.680 --> 0:51:53.160
<v Speaker 1>We started seeing everybody. We tried to really, this is

0:51:53.200 --> 0:51:54.839
<v Speaker 1>the tough thing about a big, big wedding, and that's

0:51:54.840 --> 0:51:57.480
<v Speaker 1>why you got to do too. It's tough to see everybody.

0:51:57.560 --> 0:51:59.720
<v Speaker 1>We wanted to walk by every table, and there.

0:51:59.600 --> 0:52:00.919
<v Speaker 2>Was a lot of the night when we were apart

0:52:00.960 --> 0:52:03.120
<v Speaker 2>in Austin and so dividing and congering.

0:52:03.239 --> 0:52:05.800
<v Speaker 1>Everybody sat. Nate had a kind of a calm forty

0:52:05.800 --> 0:52:08.360
<v Speaker 1>five minutes while we ate dinner. Then it was time

0:52:08.920 --> 0:52:14.879
<v Speaker 1>for the little wedding band and they brought the house down.

0:52:15.239 --> 0:52:18.279
<v Speaker 1>They kill it. They just play the bangers. They let

0:52:18.360 --> 0:52:19.560
<v Speaker 1>us kind of coordinate with them.

0:52:19.680 --> 0:52:21.600
<v Speaker 2>We had a lot of Blink one eighty two, We

0:52:21.640 --> 0:52:24.040
<v Speaker 2>had eighties music that they played. They're not so much

0:52:24.120 --> 0:52:27.799
<v Speaker 2>like horns. Their guitars and drums and more so like

0:52:27.800 --> 0:52:29.880
<v Speaker 2>you're going to see live music versus a wedding.

0:52:30.000 --> 0:52:32.200
<v Speaker 1>There's not a song you can't sing along to at

0:52:32.200 --> 0:52:33.960
<v Speaker 1>the top of your lungs. And when you see pictures

0:52:34.000 --> 0:52:36.160
<v Speaker 1>of us and you see how ridiculous we.

0:52:36.719 --> 0:52:38.960
<v Speaker 2>They go above and beyond. I mean, I said this

0:52:39.040 --> 0:52:42.280
<v Speaker 2>on the other podcast. I was so sweaty. I danced

0:52:42.680 --> 0:52:46.360
<v Speaker 2>for two hours straight. I didn't stop. I literally did

0:52:46.440 --> 0:52:49.000
<v Speaker 2>not sit in a chair once all night. I should have.

0:52:49.040 --> 0:52:51.480
<v Speaker 2>I had those cute two strands, the two strands of

0:52:51.520 --> 0:52:53.719
<v Speaker 2>hair look that you do in front of a ponytail.

0:52:53.920 --> 0:52:56.880
<v Speaker 2>That was a mistake because they were just sweaty worms

0:52:56.920 --> 0:52:57.480
<v Speaker 2>down my head.

0:52:57.600 --> 0:52:59.640
<v Speaker 1>So and a shout out to some other friends because

0:52:59.640 --> 0:53:02.640
<v Speaker 1>look the people we've talked about them, they were not shy.

0:53:02.680 --> 0:53:03.680
<v Speaker 1>They hit the dance floor.

0:53:03.760 --> 0:53:07.880
<v Speaker 2>Oh, I rocked out too. I'm gonna give it something

0:53:07.920 --> 0:53:10.560
<v Speaker 2>I love about the Bachelor girls. They are swifties with me,

0:53:11.640 --> 0:53:14.200
<v Speaker 2>broke out, Becca, Sarah.

0:53:13.960 --> 0:53:16.080
<v Speaker 1>Heren, Christa was right there, Lauren.

0:53:15.880 --> 0:53:21.120
<v Speaker 2>Lyondyke, Tasha We I think it was love story, yeah,

0:53:21.160 --> 0:53:24.520
<v Speaker 2>and we were just crushing it. I was so happy

0:53:24.920 --> 0:53:28.080
<v Speaker 2>all I I have so much of the happiness for

0:53:28.160 --> 0:53:30.719
<v Speaker 2>me from a party comes from dancing, and everybody was

0:53:30.719 --> 0:53:33.359
<v Speaker 2>on the dance floor. The little wedding band let us

0:53:33.400 --> 0:53:35.040
<v Speaker 2>come up on stage with them so many times. And

0:53:35.040 --> 0:53:38.239
<v Speaker 2>when I looked out and saw everyone, the dance floor

0:53:38.280 --> 0:53:40.600
<v Speaker 2>was completely full, I thought, this is my dream.

0:53:40.719 --> 0:53:44.279
<v Speaker 1>And you know, the Bachelor people, kudos to them. They

0:53:44.320 --> 0:53:45.759
<v Speaker 1>were so much fun and had a great time.

0:53:45.920 --> 0:53:48.520
<v Speaker 2>Let me pause for a second. Do you think Ben

0:53:48.600 --> 0:53:50.880
<v Speaker 2>Higgins's dance moves are good?

0:53:51.080 --> 0:53:53.560
<v Speaker 1>It's not like Ben's dancing and he feels it. Here's

0:53:53.560 --> 0:53:55.520
<v Speaker 1>the good thing about Ben, and God love him. He

0:53:55.680 --> 0:53:58.680
<v Speaker 1>is unabashedly Ben Higgins. This is what you know. What

0:53:58.719 --> 0:54:01.000
<v Speaker 1>you see is what you get with Ben. I adore him.

0:54:01.040 --> 0:54:02.000
<v Speaker 1>I love him like a brother.

0:54:02.080 --> 0:54:04.000
<v Speaker 2>Our producer Kendall, I'm gonna call her out because she

0:54:04.040 --> 0:54:06.000
<v Speaker 2>knows Ben. She just chimed in via chat and said

0:54:06.120 --> 0:54:07.040
<v Speaker 2>they are terrible.

0:54:07.680 --> 0:54:10.759
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, his dancer, and I think now he leans into

0:54:10.800 --> 0:54:12.520
<v Speaker 1>him because he knows how bad they are. I know.

0:54:12.600 --> 0:54:14.960
<v Speaker 2>I always say I would rather be with somebody who's

0:54:14.960 --> 0:54:17.839
<v Speaker 2>a bad dancer but dances than someone who just doesn't dance.

0:54:18.320 --> 0:54:21.240
<v Speaker 2>He's tall, so that's hard for him. Maybe I don't.

0:54:21.719 --> 0:54:24.840
<v Speaker 1>They're not great, and it was great justin Turner and

0:54:25.120 --> 0:54:28.040
<v Speaker 1>Courtney Turner justin now playing with the Boston Red Sox,

0:54:28.040 --> 0:54:29.200
<v Speaker 1>but we got to know him when he was a

0:54:29.280 --> 0:54:30.400
<v Speaker 1>Los Angeles Dodger.

0:54:31.200 --> 0:54:34.600
<v Speaker 2>Wonderful, incredible, probably lost on me. The level of his

0:54:34.600 --> 0:54:36.640
<v Speaker 2>fame as a golf for Sergio Garcia is there.

0:54:36.760 --> 0:54:39.560
<v Speaker 1>He is a major champion, he is a Master's champion. Yes,

0:54:39.640 --> 0:54:40.960
<v Speaker 1>Sergio Garcio.

0:54:40.719 --> 0:54:42.520
<v Speaker 2>Lovely wife Angela, And you know what I loved by

0:54:42.520 --> 0:54:44.560
<v Speaker 2>the way everybody again brought it so much with the outphas.

0:54:44.600 --> 0:54:46.919
<v Speaker 2>Angela said to me, Sergio has never worn a cowboy

0:54:46.960 --> 0:54:48.200
<v Speaker 2>had he put it on for this event for the

0:54:48.200 --> 0:54:48.560
<v Speaker 2>first time?

0:54:48.600 --> 0:54:51.200
<v Speaker 1>You look? I told him, I said, dude, what about

0:54:51.239 --> 0:54:54.600
<v Speaker 1>a Spanish Capairo. It's not like it's part of your

0:54:54.600 --> 0:54:57.279
<v Speaker 1>culture as well. But they live here in Austin. We've

0:54:57.320 --> 0:54:59.799
<v Speaker 1>become friends with them. I love Sergio such a good guy.

0:55:00.120 --> 0:55:01.799
<v Speaker 1>I almost and I don't know if any you know,

0:55:01.920 --> 0:55:04.719
<v Speaker 1>any outsider's wedding has ever had this. I almost had

0:55:04.760 --> 0:55:08.760
<v Speaker 1>two Masters champions because Ben and Julie Crenshaw were also invited.

0:55:08.800 --> 0:55:11.600
<v Speaker 1>Ben Crenshaw a legend obviously in a Master's champ but

0:55:11.719 --> 0:55:13.840
<v Speaker 1>sent us a beautiful gift that I will be posting

0:55:14.200 --> 0:55:16.799
<v Speaker 1>because it was one of the greatest wedding gifts I've

0:55:16.800 --> 0:55:17.520
<v Speaker 1>ever received.

0:55:18.080 --> 0:55:22.200
<v Speaker 2>But uh, Sergeant Gift, were you happier about the watch

0:55:22.280 --> 0:55:22.960
<v Speaker 2>I gave you? No?

0:55:23.120 --> 0:55:24.799
<v Speaker 1>The Omega watch you gave me from.

0:55:24.800 --> 0:55:27.680
<v Speaker 2>Mkay Because Ben Crenshaw sent something from Christen and arrived

0:55:27.719 --> 0:55:31.120
<v Speaker 2>wrapped in like the Augusta National Golf Club like paper.

0:55:31.440 --> 0:55:33.640
<v Speaker 1>Crenshaw sent me a gift from Augusta.

0:55:33.800 --> 0:55:35.680
<v Speaker 2>I felt it was like watching a little kid on.

0:55:35.640 --> 0:55:38.800
<v Speaker 1>Christmas morning and it came with a card from Augusta National.

0:55:38.920 --> 0:55:42.680
<v Speaker 1>It's like it was. It was very, very very special.

0:55:43.239 --> 0:55:45.040
<v Speaker 1>And so there were some you know, some other.

0:55:45.280 --> 0:55:47.040
<v Speaker 2>Who do you think is the best dance moves in

0:55:47.080 --> 0:55:49.640
<v Speaker 2>Bachelor Nation or even of any of our wedding games.

0:55:49.680 --> 0:55:53.799
<v Speaker 1>You know, guys, I'm probably gonna go Bob Guiney. Bob

0:55:53.840 --> 0:55:54.640
<v Speaker 1>Guinny because.

0:55:54.520 --> 0:55:56.960
<v Speaker 2>You know, and it used to being a man rhythm.

0:55:57.120 --> 0:56:00.480
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, cheating a little bit. You know. If Andrew Firestone,

0:56:00.480 --> 0:56:02.680
<v Speaker 1>we're there because we danced with Andrew at the Private Way.

0:56:02.760 --> 0:56:04.399
<v Speaker 2>Andrew Firestone does not have good dance.

0:56:04.480 --> 0:56:06.080
<v Speaker 1>So I'm gonna say Bob Guiney. That's why I was saying,

0:56:06.080 --> 0:56:08.680
<v Speaker 1>Andrew puts the energy out there, but Bob Guiney is

0:56:08.800 --> 0:56:09.759
<v Speaker 1>legit Andrew.

0:56:10.200 --> 0:56:13.400
<v Speaker 2>Andrew's doing the robot, but Bob's really dancing ladies.

0:56:13.520 --> 0:56:15.920
<v Speaker 1>Man, I don't know who crushed it the most.

0:56:16.480 --> 0:56:19.160
<v Speaker 2>Sarah Hyland was out there. Oh my god, Sarah did

0:56:19.200 --> 0:56:21.919
<v Speaker 2>not stop either. Thank you, Sarah. You know you guys

0:56:21.920 --> 0:56:24.560
<v Speaker 2>know we love Sarah and Wells. They always bring the party.

0:56:24.560 --> 0:56:26.920
<v Speaker 2>And Sarah Hyland is in like so many of the pictures,

0:56:26.960 --> 0:56:27.919
<v Speaker 2>just dancing so hard.

0:56:27.960 --> 0:56:30.600
<v Speaker 1>I really to say about Sarah, I'll out her on

0:56:30.680 --> 0:56:33.440
<v Speaker 1>this if you think someone like that is going to

0:56:33.520 --> 0:56:36.799
<v Speaker 1>be like upp aty Hollywood and shy. Uh huh. She

0:56:37.000 --> 0:56:40.040
<v Speaker 1>was out there mixing it, talks with everybody, talks to everybody.

0:56:40.080 --> 0:56:42.719
<v Speaker 2>She is everybody. And all the Bachelor crew did there.

0:56:42.760 --> 0:56:45.640
<v Speaker 2>You know, they're just wonderful people. Jojo dancing hard too.

0:56:46.120 --> 0:56:48.520
<v Speaker 2>You know it was great everybody.

0:56:48.200 --> 0:56:52.040
<v Speaker 1>Which Garry Patterson, former TCU legend, he was there. Appreciate

0:56:52.120 --> 0:56:54.439
<v Speaker 1>him and uh maybe two of the most important people.

0:56:54.440 --> 0:56:59.160
<v Speaker 1>Our lawyers were there. Shout out to Brian Friedman, who

0:56:59.160 --> 0:57:01.520
<v Speaker 1>may have paid for that wedding. We appreciate you, pal.

0:57:01.640 --> 0:57:03.920
<v Speaker 2>Wait did you make that joke too? I went up

0:57:03.920 --> 0:57:05.880
<v Speaker 2>to and I said he was so cute. I mean,

0:57:05.920 --> 0:57:08.759
<v Speaker 2>he's the sweetest man and the best attorney. And I said, Brian,

0:57:08.800 --> 0:57:10.919
<v Speaker 2>we're so happy to be here and we probably maybe

0:57:10.920 --> 0:57:17.760
<v Speaker 2>we couldn't have paid for this wedding without you, you know,

0:57:17.800 --> 0:57:20.480
<v Speaker 2>we speaking of I think for some reason, we're always

0:57:21.040 --> 0:57:26.000
<v Speaker 2>drama potential aware. Yeah we have Brian was your lawyer.

0:57:26.640 --> 0:57:28.520
<v Speaker 2>He is your lawyer, but that was for sort of

0:57:28.520 --> 0:57:30.920
<v Speaker 2>a period of time. We have another attorney and we

0:57:31.040 --> 0:57:33.000
<v Speaker 2>put them at the same table. But we texted them

0:57:33.000 --> 0:57:35.120
<v Speaker 2>both just to say, hey, like, do you guys know

0:57:35.200 --> 0:57:37.640
<v Speaker 2>each other? We didn't know. You know, I don't know

0:57:37.640 --> 0:57:39.720
<v Speaker 2>about lawyer drama. Maybe they've gone up against each other

0:57:39.720 --> 0:57:41.320
<v Speaker 2>in court. But luckily they were good to go.

0:57:41.720 --> 0:57:44.320
<v Speaker 1>And so we danced into the wee hours of the night. Again.

0:57:44.800 --> 0:57:47.160
<v Speaker 1>The theme was they finally had to shut it down.

0:57:48.040 --> 0:57:49.960
<v Speaker 2>There was you know, I guess, like any wedding, there

0:57:50.080 --> 0:57:53.320
<v Speaker 2>was some raucous drama and I like when the guests

0:57:53.360 --> 0:57:55.840
<v Speaker 2>all those stories keep petering in. There was one guy

0:57:55.880 --> 0:57:57.960
<v Speaker 2>who we had a guest who got thrown out of

0:57:57.960 --> 0:57:59.160
<v Speaker 2>a bathroom for smoking weed.

0:58:00.040 --> 0:58:01.520
<v Speaker 1>Oh really, yes, we did hear that.

0:58:01.760 --> 0:58:03.720
<v Speaker 2>Oh okay, breaking the news to you now. Yeah, the

0:58:03.760 --> 0:58:05.920
<v Speaker 2>staff asked him to please. I don't know why he

0:58:05.960 --> 0:58:07.400
<v Speaker 2>wasn't just outside, we were on a ranch.

0:58:08.200 --> 0:58:10.640
<v Speaker 1>I can I give you another shout out. Here's what

0:58:10.640 --> 0:58:14.000
<v Speaker 1>I love about Lauren about people attending our wedding. If

0:58:14.000 --> 0:58:16.080
<v Speaker 1>you've been following her on social media, you know she

0:58:16.160 --> 0:58:19.240
<v Speaker 1>is an Orange theorist. She loves Orange Theory. I do

0:58:19.320 --> 0:58:22.760
<v Speaker 1>love and she goes there so often. She invited our

0:58:22.840 --> 0:58:24.080
<v Speaker 1>Orange Theory coaches.

0:58:24.440 --> 0:58:25.680
<v Speaker 2>I invited to both of them.

0:58:25.720 --> 0:58:28.560
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, Montana and Sean came to our wedding. We had

0:58:28.560 --> 0:58:29.680
<v Speaker 1>our Orange Theory coaches.

0:58:29.920 --> 0:58:31.160
<v Speaker 2>I love them. I see them every day.

0:58:31.240 --> 0:58:34.040
<v Speaker 1>This is Lauren Zema. If you come into her life,

0:58:34.200 --> 0:58:38.000
<v Speaker 1>be careful. You are in our lives. You are family

0:58:38.080 --> 0:58:38.439
<v Speaker 1>with us.

0:58:38.840 --> 0:58:41.120
<v Speaker 2>I adore them. I see them every day. They're so supportive.

0:58:41.360 --> 0:58:42.560
<v Speaker 2>Sean loves Harry Potter too.

0:58:42.560 --> 0:58:44.720
<v Speaker 1>And Sean responsible for your wedding body.

0:58:44.840 --> 0:58:47.320
<v Speaker 2>I mean, yes, well, thank you to Orange Theory and Sean.

0:58:47.400 --> 0:58:49.280
<v Speaker 1>Oh, thank you to Orange Theory.

0:58:49.400 --> 0:58:51.360
<v Speaker 2>Sean danced with my mom. It was very soon good.

0:58:51.560 --> 0:58:52.440
<v Speaker 1>Your mom loves him.

0:58:52.600 --> 0:58:56.160
<v Speaker 2>He's about six six five four, so it was very cute.

0:58:56.320 --> 0:59:00.320
<v Speaker 1>And then maybe the best moment of the night. At

0:59:00.360 --> 0:59:01.960
<v Speaker 1>the end of the night, we had one more sh wait.

0:59:02.000 --> 0:59:03.720
<v Speaker 2>Wow, I don't know where you're going with this, we had.

0:59:03.600 --> 0:59:08.440
<v Speaker 1>One more surprise for everybody. The truck rolled up. Oh well,

0:59:08.760 --> 0:59:12.600
<v Speaker 1>this is just fun. Tifts Treats who we love. If

0:59:12.600 --> 0:59:15.240
<v Speaker 1>you've seen us post about this too, Tifts Treats they

0:59:15.280 --> 0:59:19.120
<v Speaker 1>deliver like warm cookies to your door with milk. We

0:59:19.160 --> 0:59:21.920
<v Speaker 1>reached out and they said, we are gonna send the truck.

0:59:22.000 --> 0:59:24.920
<v Speaker 1>They sent the TIFFs Treats truck. So as everybody was

0:59:25.000 --> 0:59:27.360
<v Speaker 1>leaving and heading back to their cars or getting in

0:59:27.400 --> 0:59:29.520
<v Speaker 1>the vans that we sent and the buses. So everybody

0:59:29.520 --> 0:59:32.960
<v Speaker 1>get home safely and nobody drove. You got a warm

0:59:33.160 --> 0:59:37.120
<v Speaker 1>chocolate chip cookie or double chocolate cookie and cold milk.

0:59:37.280 --> 0:59:39.200
<v Speaker 2>What better way to end the night than by taking

0:59:39.240 --> 0:59:40.439
<v Speaker 2>home a warm chocolate chip cookie.

0:59:41.720 --> 0:59:42.280
<v Speaker 1>Lost it.

0:59:54.200 --> 0:59:56.600
<v Speaker 2>Another great part of the night the photo booth. Listen,

0:59:57.320 --> 0:59:59.200
<v Speaker 2>I did know, you know, we have some people this

0:59:59.240 --> 1:00:01.040
<v Speaker 2>wedding and like a good photo. We had to get

1:00:01.040 --> 1:00:03.680
<v Speaker 2>the glam photo booth. So thank you to Oh Happy

1:00:03.760 --> 1:00:06.479
<v Speaker 2>Day Photo booth for making everybody look beautiful. I said,

1:00:06.480 --> 1:00:08.080
<v Speaker 2>I want that one where it's like black and white

1:00:08.120 --> 1:00:09.720
<v Speaker 2>and the lighting is amazing and everybody looks press.

1:00:09.720 --> 1:00:13.240
<v Speaker 1>I ask a question, Yeah, so whose idea was it? Not?

1:00:13.240 --> 1:00:15.160
<v Speaker 1>Not the photo booth, but whose idea was it to

1:00:15.360 --> 1:00:18.120
<v Speaker 1>print out an extra photo and that was our wedding book.

1:00:18.200 --> 1:00:21.560
<v Speaker 1>So everybody got a photo of themselves in the photo booth,

1:00:21.720 --> 1:00:24.000
<v Speaker 1>but then another picture would print out and you taped

1:00:24.000 --> 1:00:26.760
<v Speaker 1>it into our book, and then everybody sign next to us.

1:00:26.760 --> 1:00:27.520
<v Speaker 2>It was so awesome.

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<v Speaker 1>I have no idea where that idea came from either.

1:00:29.760 --> 1:00:32.000
<v Speaker 2>Maybe it was your wonderful assistant Karen. Maybe it's o

1:00:32.120 --> 1:00:35.040
<v Speaker 2>happy photo booth, but that I don't think there's a

1:00:35.040 --> 1:00:37.840
<v Speaker 2>better guest book because you have a picture to remember

1:00:37.840 --> 1:00:40.120
<v Speaker 2>who wrote everything in case you're not friends with them

1:00:40.120 --> 1:00:40.880
<v Speaker 2>In twenty years.

1:00:40.680 --> 1:00:42.320
<v Speaker 1>I ended up jumping into a bunch of the photos

1:00:42.320 --> 1:00:43.360
<v Speaker 1>with it was really.

1:00:43.280 --> 1:00:45.760
<v Speaker 2>Maybe you jumped into photos. I can't believe it. You

1:00:45.800 --> 1:00:47.080
<v Speaker 2>know what he tell me, you know, he told me

1:00:47.120 --> 1:00:50.280
<v Speaker 2>this morning, guys, we're going, and we're now. We've been

1:00:50.360 --> 1:00:53.520
<v Speaker 2>holding off all day Sunday. We did not post anything.

1:00:53.560 --> 1:00:57.200
<v Speaker 2>We just shared People magazines breaking news story about the wedding,

1:00:57.200 --> 1:00:59.520
<v Speaker 2>and thank you to People magazine for the beautiful coverage.

1:00:59.520 --> 1:01:02.160
<v Speaker 2>They did a great job of sharing our wedding for

1:01:02.200 --> 1:01:02.800
<v Speaker 2>the first time.

1:01:03.240 --> 1:01:06.160
<v Speaker 1>Thank you for the solid journalism. That's something that means they.

1:01:06.040 --> 1:01:07.480
<v Speaker 2>Really checked it with me a lot, and I really

1:01:07.480 --> 1:01:13.200
<v Speaker 2>appreciated it. So then we we on Sunday, we had

1:01:13.200 --> 1:01:14.720
<v Speaker 2>a family and friends brunch and I don't want to

1:01:14.720 --> 1:01:16.720
<v Speaker 2>get ahead at myself, but we don't even need to

1:01:16.720 --> 1:01:19.400
<v Speaker 2>get into that because it was just we were so exhausted,

1:01:19.440 --> 1:01:23.240
<v Speaker 2>but it was great to see everyone. But so Sunday

1:01:23.280 --> 1:01:25.720
<v Speaker 2>we didn't post anything. We go to post stuff on Monday,

1:01:25.720 --> 1:01:28.840
<v Speaker 2>which is when we're filming this, and Chris tells me, oh, yeah, well,

1:01:28.840 --> 1:01:30.840
<v Speaker 2>I got to look through all my selfies. I'm like,

1:01:31.440 --> 1:01:34.560
<v Speaker 2>I'm sorry. He's like, yeah, I took a bunch of

1:01:34.600 --> 1:01:38.280
<v Speaker 2>selfies with everybody all night. I said I didn't. I

1:01:38.360 --> 1:01:40.560
<v Speaker 2>was on the dance floor starting the party. Oh I

1:01:40.880 --> 1:01:42.440
<v Speaker 2>so we's got all these great photos.

1:01:42.480 --> 1:01:44.120
<v Speaker 1>But you know here's the thing. I didn't even have

1:01:44.160 --> 1:01:47.200
<v Speaker 1>my phone in Napa. It was totally off limits. I

1:01:47.480 --> 1:01:49.320
<v Speaker 1>didn't touch it, I didn't look at it. I just

1:01:49.360 --> 1:01:51.240
<v Speaker 1>wanted to be one hundred percent present, and I knew

1:01:51.240 --> 1:01:55.360
<v Speaker 1>people were videoing and taking pictures, but again the casual

1:01:55.440 --> 1:01:58.560
<v Speaker 1>nature of wedding number two, I just I kept my

1:01:58.560 --> 1:01:59.760
<v Speaker 1>phone on me, and all of a sudden, we just

1:01:59.800 --> 1:02:02.880
<v Speaker 1>start popping some selfies. That's good, and I had friends there.

1:02:02.960 --> 1:02:05.120
<v Speaker 2>You know, though, I probably in your defense, I would

1:02:05.160 --> 1:02:07.080
<v Speaker 2>have taken more photos. The dress I was wearing didn't

1:02:07.120 --> 1:02:10.440
<v Speaker 2>have a pocket. My wedding dress, my bigger ceremony dress

1:02:10.560 --> 1:02:12.480
<v Speaker 2>had a pocket, so my phone all night love a

1:02:12.560 --> 1:02:13.400
<v Speaker 2>dress with pockets.

1:02:13.440 --> 1:02:15.680
<v Speaker 1>And Austin was great because I had friends there from

1:02:15.800 --> 1:02:18.800
<v Speaker 1>high school, actually from grade school. You probably my oldest friend.

1:02:18.960 --> 1:02:21.200
<v Speaker 1>You know, Brett and I have been friends since twelve

1:02:21.280 --> 1:02:25.480
<v Speaker 1>years old. So my extended family cousins. You had extended

1:02:25.520 --> 1:02:28.360
<v Speaker 1>family there. Again, the circle was big. It wasn't just

1:02:28.400 --> 1:02:31.920
<v Speaker 1>Bachtero Nation people or major champions. It was this great

1:02:32.280 --> 1:02:36.000
<v Speaker 1>blending of our new friends here in Austin are our

1:02:36.080 --> 1:02:40.680
<v Speaker 1>neighborhood crew here that came and so it just it again.

1:02:41.240 --> 1:02:45.760
<v Speaker 1>The atmosphere was perfect. Everybody just had a great time.

1:02:45.920 --> 1:02:48.600
<v Speaker 2>We had such a great time that we were supposed

1:02:48.640 --> 1:02:51.360
<v Speaker 2>to be done by eleven. We didn't.

1:02:51.400 --> 1:02:52.240
<v Speaker 1>We got home at two.

1:02:52.960 --> 1:02:56.280
<v Speaker 2>Well, we did not stop dancing until almost midnight. I

1:02:56.360 --> 1:02:59.520
<v Speaker 2>actually was worried. I was relieved the next day because

1:02:59.560 --> 1:03:01.560
<v Speaker 2>people told me, oh, no, I took the shuttle home.

1:03:01.640 --> 1:03:03.720
<v Speaker 2>We had shuttles back to the hotels, but we were

1:03:03.760 --> 1:03:05.240
<v Speaker 2>so late. I didn't know if people made it on

1:03:05.280 --> 1:03:08.080
<v Speaker 2>the shuttles, some people didn't, some people had to get ubers,

1:03:08.440 --> 1:03:10.800
<v Speaker 2>and uh, you know, I'll bring it back around and say,

1:03:11.280 --> 1:03:13.760
<v Speaker 2>maybe it was the full circle moment of their healing journey.

1:03:13.960 --> 1:03:16.200
<v Speaker 2>As we were walking out, Caitlin and Jason were there

1:03:16.200 --> 1:03:18.400
<v Speaker 2>waiting for a uber together. Yeah, although I don't think

1:03:18.400 --> 1:03:20.720
<v Speaker 2>the uber together. Trista was there too, but they were

1:03:20.720 --> 1:03:22.520
<v Speaker 2>waiting together and talking and that made me happy.

1:03:22.600 --> 1:03:26.400
<v Speaker 1>And again so it just it was a beautiful, cathartic,

1:03:27.320 --> 1:03:29.720
<v Speaker 1>lovely event. And then start de finished and the.

1:03:29.720 --> 1:03:31.800
<v Speaker 2>Bachelor folks held on. I think Jojo was there waiting

1:03:31.800 --> 1:03:34.600
<v Speaker 2>for an uber. Nobody left early and that made me

1:03:34.720 --> 1:03:37.120
<v Speaker 2>so happy. Everybody at the wedding was there till the end.

1:03:37.200 --> 1:03:38.880
<v Speaker 1>Standing by my truck at the end of the night

1:03:40.200 --> 1:03:45.200
<v Speaker 1>was Trista, Jojo and there was who else. There's one

1:03:45.240 --> 1:03:47.120
<v Speaker 1>other I got And I should have taken a picture

1:03:47.160 --> 1:03:49.920
<v Speaker 1>of this because we had one bottle of champagne left

1:03:50.120 --> 1:03:52.080
<v Speaker 1>and so we're in the parking lot. We popped the

1:03:52.080 --> 1:03:55.400
<v Speaker 1>bottle of champagne. We had TIFs treats cookies, and we

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<v Speaker 1>were the four of us were just passing around a

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<v Speaker 1>bottle of champagne.

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<v Speaker 2>Where was I.

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<v Speaker 1>You walked up and you wouldn't you? You kind of

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<v Speaker 1>just I think I knew I was done. But we

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<v Speaker 1>were just passing around the bottle, drinking straight from the bottle,

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<v Speaker 1>eating cookies. And that's how the night ended. Was was

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<v Speaker 1>with them, and you know, Trista would grabbed the bottle

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<v Speaker 1>Jojo and we were just laughing and sharing stories and

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<v Speaker 1>they were the last ones in the parking lot with

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<v Speaker 1>me at two in the morning. We were just talking

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<v Speaker 1>about the night and just talking about dancing and you know,

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<v Speaker 1>and then reminiscing. And you know, Jordan unfortunately couldn't be

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<v Speaker 1>there with Jojo because he's knee deep in football season.

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<v Speaker 1>He's doing amazing coverage. Good job, Jordan, so he couldn't

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<v Speaker 1>be there. So Jojo was solo along with Trista, so

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<v Speaker 1>they were kind of hanging out. But it was just

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<v Speaker 1>a cool way to end the night of you know,

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<v Speaker 1>the bloom was off the roads, so to speak, and

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<v Speaker 1>we were just kind of drinking straight from the bottle

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<v Speaker 1>and having a great time.

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<v Speaker 2>Speaking of the bloom being off the rose. Yes, let's

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<v Speaker 2>out ourselves and see how we really ended the night.

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<v Speaker 2>Chris Harrison and I cleaned.

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<v Speaker 1>Up our own wedding we did.

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<v Speaker 2>We went back in there, him in his suit, me

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<v Speaker 2>and my dress and my boots, and we were putting

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<v Speaker 2>flowers in the truck and and we were helping clear

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<v Speaker 2>off the tables, and we had the kids were there

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<v Speaker 2>helping us, My family was there helping us. This was

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<v Speaker 2>a listen we wanted. I don't know's I'm a Midwestern

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<v Speaker 2>and I wanted.

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<v Speaker 1>To the left over alcohol. And by the way, not

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<v Speaker 1>much of it, because the Peiju champagne went very quickly,

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<v Speaker 1>as did the Catherine Hall wine. Our thanks to Catherine

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<v Speaker 1>Hall and the crew over there at Hall who have

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<v Speaker 1>been very good friends of ours, provided.

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<v Speaker 2>The wine and great wine.

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<v Speaker 1>And oh, everybody's like, are you kidding me? We're drinking

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<v Speaker 1>Jack's masterpiece Haull Wines rich or wedding, Like what is.

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<v Speaker 2>This Chris wine? Even in Austin, even though we had now,

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<v Speaker 2>but he had to have good wine.

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<v Speaker 1>My rule still applies, no matter even if it's a

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<v Speaker 1>big event. Life's too short to drink crappy wine. So

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<v Speaker 1>we were piling stuff in the back of my truck,

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<v Speaker 1>all the flowers and all that stuff had to come home.

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<v Speaker 1>But and then we we left as we came in

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<v Speaker 1>my truck together.

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<v Speaker 2>You know what else, Slave's too short for to not

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<v Speaker 2>have a happy marriage.

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<v Speaker 1>I love you.

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<v Speaker 2>I love you too, and I could feel more confident,

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<v Speaker 2>at peace, happy, overjoyed. It's so it's sort of weird

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<v Speaker 2>to do these podcasts because I feel like in these episodes,

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<v Speaker 2>I told Chris, I feel nervous. We're just going to

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<v Speaker 2>be going on and on about ourselves for a while.

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<v Speaker 2>But part of the reason we wanted to do this

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<v Speaker 2>is we really wanted to share with you all just

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<v Speaker 2>how grateful and happy we are, and to thank you

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<v Speaker 2>for being supportive of our love story as you have

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<v Speaker 2>been for the last five years, and now it's only

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<v Speaker 2>just beginning. So I'm everything went so perfect in Napa

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<v Speaker 2>and in Austin. I don't even really I feel so lucky.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know what I did to deserve these two

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<v Speaker 2>beautiful experiences where nothing went wrong. I'm so grateful. But

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<v Speaker 2>most importantly, and this is the rule I continue to

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<v Speaker 2>go by, I would have married you in that back

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<v Speaker 2>Ali where we were loading stuff into your pickup truck.

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<v Speaker 2>I would have married you anywhere. But I'm so grateful

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<v Speaker 2>that we had the weddings that we did.

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<v Speaker 1>I love you and nothing more need be said than that.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what we will end on. We love you all,

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you for your support, thank you for being with us.

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<v Speaker 1>We are going to have one more wedding episode and

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<v Speaker 1>it's your questions. What did you want to know about

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<v Speaker 1>all of our weddings and the celebrations, So stick around.

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<v Speaker 1>That'll be coming up in a future episode. But until then,

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<v Speaker 1>I'll talk to you next time because we have a

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<v Speaker 1>lot more to talk about. Thanks for listening. Follow us

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