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Speaker 1: This is the most dramatic podcast ever and iHeartRadio podcast.

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Speaker 1: We cannot recommend having two weddings enough.

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Speaker 2: It checked every box for us in the best way.

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Speaker 2: I mean, we said it before and again I apologize

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Speaker 2: for the state of my voice. Two weddings, having people

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Speaker 2: stay at our house for f one a Halloween party

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Speaker 2: in the middle, That's what I've decided to do over

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Speaker 2: the past two weeks. I just love festivities and people,

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Speaker 2: and that's part of why we had two weddings. We

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Speaker 2: wanted to make sure to include everybody in our lives,

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Speaker 2: our closest friends and family, our extended family, our friends

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Speaker 2: from LA from Austin, from all over, bachelor people, people

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Speaker 2: I'd worked with. We wanted to include all those people.

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Speaker 2: But our big fear was how will we spend good

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Speaker 2: time with all those people?

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Speaker 1: Right? And that is the key, and that's hitting the

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Speaker 1: nail on the head, because it's not that we couldn't

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Speaker 1: include all those people in one event. The problem is

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Speaker 1: those events wouldn't have been how we wanted to spend

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Speaker 1: that time and energy with those particular people. The NAPA party,

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Speaker 1: we wanted to spend very intimate time that was family, mom, dad, brother, sisters,

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Speaker 1: different than putting on our boots and shaking it up

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Speaker 1: like we did in Austin. And we wanted to spend

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Speaker 1: that kind of time with those people. So that is

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Speaker 1: how the two party system was created.

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Speaker 2: But here's the thing we did, I mean, part of

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Speaker 2: why we're so tired. Even with doing two parties, you

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Speaker 2: still had to find And I should also say, uh huh,

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Speaker 2: Like I said, I understand having two weddings sounds like

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Speaker 2: this big expense. We're very blessed, We're very grateful. I

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Speaker 2: was also a babe on a budget. To the best

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Speaker 2: of my ability, wore my dress at both of them.

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Speaker 2: My mom made the desserts for Austin. We saved money

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Speaker 2: in ways we could.

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Speaker 1: Before we leave Napa, I just wanted to make one

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Speaker 1: note because people have asked, did you go immediately on

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Speaker 1: a honeymoon and the answer was no, because well, we

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Speaker 1: had another wedding coming up in three weeks, so it

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Speaker 1: would have been and weird to like leave Napa, go

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Speaker 1: maybe go on another honeymoon. So after Napa, we just

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Speaker 1: spent one very intimate, lovely night at a beautiful hotel

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Speaker 1: there in Napa Valley called the Poetry In.

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Speaker 2: It's so exquisite if you're ever able to make a

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Speaker 2: special weekend of it and go. It only has a

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Speaker 2: few rooms. It's kind of an elegant home turned into

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Speaker 2: a small hotel up on cliff Lead vineyards. They make

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Speaker 1: You're rushan bakery goods coming in and the poetry and.

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Speaker 2: It's so romantic. Our room at an outdoor shower overlooking

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Speaker 2: the vineyards. That's all you need to know. So and

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Speaker 2: you know what, I didn't even really feel like I

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Speaker 2: needed a honeymoon because the wedding and Napa, I mean,

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Speaker 2: Napa could be a honeymoon destination.

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Speaker 1: It really was. It felt like that, I think.

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Speaker 2: We might do a trip for our first anniversary.

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Speaker 1: In a year, and I agree, I think that's what.

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Speaker 1: You know, give it, give it time, let us think

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Speaker 1: in and then have an amazing anniversary trip a year

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Speaker 1: from now. So we left Napa and we went back

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Speaker 1: and immediately, as you said, F one race here in Austin,

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Speaker 1: We enjoyed that. Then it was Halloween we had a

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Speaker 1: two and it started right here at this house as

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Speaker 1: we sit in our office with a great Bachelor party

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Speaker 1: that we hosted, you know, Friday night.

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Speaker 2: You can call it a Bachelor party. It was all

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Speaker 2: Bachelor Nation, all of the Bachelor Nation alumni who were

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Speaker 2: coming to the wedding. We wanted to have an intimate again,

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Speaker 2: hadn't seen a lot of them in a long time,

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Speaker 2: some in part because of the pandemic, even it had

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Speaker 2: and kind of have a really good like safe space,

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Speaker 2: I don't know, safe space for the drama. It turned

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Speaker 2: into actually a bit of healing this weekend from Bachelor

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Speaker 1: I almost fell back into my hosting role of kind

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Speaker 1: want to give you a huge shout out and credit.

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Speaker 1: This was your idea. I didn't bring this up. You

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Speaker 1: actually said Friday Night, Babe, I think we should do this.

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Speaker 1: We should bring all of the batch for people in

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Speaker 2: I'll be honest with you. I was also kind of thinking,

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Speaker 2: house and we poured some great wines. We poured a

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Speaker 2: And it was also funny, like so we you and

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Speaker 2: everybody had a lot of drinks. And I'm getting ahead

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Speaker 2: of myself, but afterwards Kaitlyn Bristow texted, she was like

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Speaker 2: so sweet, she said, I just realized we left and

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Speaker 2: we didn't help you guys clean up, and like, but

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Speaker 2: I'm assuming you hired someone. I was like, I would

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Speaker 2: have been a great idea. Kaitlyn, No, Chris and I

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Speaker 1: Anyway, Lauren just kind of leaped into the lead and

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Speaker 1: pop that balloon. So let's get to it. This is

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Speaker 1: what people want to know. Who is here, and let's

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Speaker 1: just deal with number one. Jason Tarctick and Kitlin Bristow

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Speaker 2: Well, I want to say, and I'm more not gonna

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Speaker 2: you know, I don't want to reveal everything about our

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Speaker 2: friendships with them. But Caitlin and Jason were both you know,

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Speaker 2: obviously they split, and they were both so sweet about Like,

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Speaker 2: both said, each separately said like on separate texts, this

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Speaker 2: day is about you, guys. We will be fine. Don't

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Speaker 2: So they were both so sweet about that. But what

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Speaker 2: I thought they'd seen each other since the split. Me too,

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Speaker 2: they had not seen each other since they broke up

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Speaker 2: until they walked into our house only a few minutes

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Speaker 1: Yeah, in Austin. And before we talk about who else

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Speaker 1: I'd talked to both of them, so had you. They

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Speaker 1: handled it with such grace and such love for us,

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Speaker 1: and they made it about us until it became not

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Speaker 1: on purpose about them, because they ended up at this

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Speaker 1: how how many people were here, Like, well we had okay.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna run, Okay, I'm gonna run. Sean and Catherine

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Speaker 1: Oh we're at the wedding.

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Speaker 2: Alan Gail, producer and his lovely fiance Molly Quinn couldn't

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Speaker 1: Saturday, and then I think everybody else was here.

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Speaker 2: I think everybody else who was at the wedding on Saturday,

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Speaker 2: there were some wonderful people in macharination who we did

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Speaker 2: put it out there because we love them. Pilot, Pete,

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Speaker 1: I can't believe Leslie Murphy didn't come. I mean, she

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Speaker 2: The sweetest person in the world. She'd been wanting to

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Speaker 2: come and texting us weekly updates from her pregnancy, like,

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Speaker 2: I think the baby's going to come and I'll make

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Speaker 2: the wedding. And I'm thinking, babe, even if she comes now,

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Speaker 1: This is what a badass Leslie Murphy is and one

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Speaker 1: of the reasons I adore her. She's one of my

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Speaker 1: texted Lauren and I I think it was five days

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Speaker 1: but up until five days before. What if she'd had

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Speaker 1: But if anybody had a great excuse. Along with Ashley

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Speaker 2: And also Sarah Harron and Dylan. Sarah was invited and

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Speaker 1: I think so. And then all right, and then and

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Speaker 1: then you could see the pictures of who all was here,

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Speaker 1: But there was the case they're posting great content.

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Speaker 2: One thing we can rely on the Bachelor crew for true.

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Speaker 2: They are going to take great photos, great videos. I'm like,

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Speaker 2: oh good, why did we hire anyone? They're on it?

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Speaker 1: And so who was here were not only just the

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Speaker 1: Bachelor Bacherette people but also their spouses significant others, so

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Speaker 1: Colton and Jordan and Becca and Hayley and Jess then

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Speaker 1: and Jess and jarn Wells exactly. So everybody was here

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Speaker 1: of people haven't met. You know, there were a part

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Speaker 2: Tilly was so sweet. She texted us, Hey, just want

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Speaker 2: to make sure I know it's Bachelumba. Can Haley come?

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Speaker 2: And we were like yes, and she goes, Okay, this

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Speaker 2: is her dream. She's so excited. I had never met Haley.

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Speaker 1: I haven't met Haley, and I feel like I know her.

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Speaker 1: I felt like I already loved this woman, and now

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Speaker 1: that I meet her, I'm like, okay, beck, I see

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Speaker 1: they it was beautiful to spend time with them and

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Speaker 1: Haley now and see them together and see how happy

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Speaker 1: they are. But the Jason. So Jason shows up first,

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Speaker 1: tartic buffalo boy, always on time, and so he arrives,

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Speaker 1: and then Caitlyn came a little bit after. And again,

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Speaker 1: as Lauren alluded to, I had not realized and I've

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Speaker 1: talked to both of them a lot. During all this,

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Speaker 1: I didn't know they hadn't really talked. And I think

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Speaker 2: they put Oh, their outfits were wonderful. They were texting

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Speaker 2: But so Colton. Colton texted me, I'm coming to your

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Speaker 1: And I love what Jordan said to you at our house.

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Speaker 2: I said, you know, Jordan, I never think about it,

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Speaker 2: What was cute actually was Jason was filming you all

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Speaker 2: I know, I actually and I'm glad. I mean, we

434
00:20:18,800 --> 00:20:20,439
Speaker 2: also didn't want to stay out too late Friday night,

435
00:20:20,480 --> 00:20:22,840
Speaker 2: but I could have hung out with everybody a lot longer.

436
00:20:22,920 --> 00:20:25,919
Speaker 2: I was looking around, going, you know, I wanted this

437
00:20:25,960 --> 00:20:28,040
Speaker 2: to happen, and I thought it'll be like good for

438
00:20:28,040 --> 00:20:30,040
Speaker 2: everyone to see each other and just break the ice

439
00:20:30,119 --> 00:20:33,719
Speaker 2: and also reconnect. But it really was an evening of

440
00:20:33,880 --> 00:20:39,119
Speaker 2: witnessing growth. Everybody's in such a healthy, like adult place

441
00:20:39,240 --> 00:20:41,800
Speaker 2: right now. Overall, I think, and I didn't want it

442
00:20:41,840 --> 00:20:44,440
Speaker 2: to end. We were having a lot of really genuine,

443
00:20:44,560 --> 00:20:48,040
Speaker 2: happy fun and chats and catching up, and I could

444
00:20:48,080 --> 00:20:50,280
Speaker 2: have stayed all night. I sort of regretted the double booking.

445
00:20:50,400 --> 00:20:54,680
Speaker 1: I think we all needed this. Yeah it felt good,

446
00:20:54,760 --> 00:20:55,040
Speaker 1: I think.

447
00:20:55,119 --> 00:20:57,000
Speaker 2: Did you feel like I needed it?

448
00:20:57,240 --> 00:21:00,879
Speaker 1: Yeah? I don't know if I needed it, but I

449
00:21:00,920 --> 00:21:04,320
Speaker 1: definitely felt something in the room that I wasn't I

450
00:21:04,520 --> 00:21:09,280
Speaker 1: wasn't anticipating, and that was just healing and feeling the

451
00:21:09,280 --> 00:21:11,960
Speaker 1: love and support as I know I've had from these people,

452
00:21:12,000 --> 00:21:16,679
Speaker 1: but where the state of the franchise is now is

453
00:21:16,720 --> 00:21:20,560
Speaker 1: so different from when I was hosting the show and

454
00:21:20,840 --> 00:21:23,000
Speaker 1: helping produce it and when these people were on it

455
00:21:23,040 --> 00:21:25,080
Speaker 1: for the most part, and so it was just it

456
00:21:25,160 --> 00:21:28,000
Speaker 1: was very I think it felt good to them to

457
00:21:28,119 --> 00:21:31,400
Speaker 1: know that we are still this family and this tight

458
00:21:31,440 --> 00:21:34,320
Speaker 1: knit group that made that made the show what it

459
00:21:34,440 --> 00:21:37,320
Speaker 1: is and paved the ground for whatever I guess it

460
00:21:37,400 --> 00:21:39,960
Speaker 1: is now. But yeah, I think it was something that

461
00:21:40,000 --> 00:21:41,920
Speaker 1: we all kind of needed, and I wasn't. I don't

462
00:21:41,960 --> 00:21:43,800
Speaker 1: think any of us anticipated how good it was going

463
00:21:43,880 --> 00:21:46,159
Speaker 1: to feel. I think one of my favorite parts of

464
00:21:46,160 --> 00:21:47,560
Speaker 1: the night was at the end, we'd all had a

465
00:21:47,600 --> 00:21:50,560
Speaker 1: few and Bob Guiney decided he was going to be

466
00:21:50,600 --> 00:21:53,399
Speaker 1: the toastmaster General. He raised a glass and made a

467
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Speaker 1: toast that.

468
00:21:54,280 --> 00:21:57,960
Speaker 2: He raised a shot glass tequila and it was beautiful

469
00:21:58,000 --> 00:21:59,600
Speaker 2: and every we were laughing.

470
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Speaker 1: Of course Bob. You know, if you weren't old enough

471
00:22:03,000 --> 00:22:06,280
Speaker 1: to know Bob guinea season, he was so good. He's

472
00:22:06,280 --> 00:22:10,439
Speaker 1: so charismatic. He's so fantastically funny. I put him and

473
00:22:10,440 --> 00:22:12,960
Speaker 1: Andrew Firestone on that Mount rushmore of guys that just

474
00:22:13,040 --> 00:22:13,520
Speaker 1: crush it.

475
00:22:13,800 --> 00:22:16,800
Speaker 2: Oh and Andrew Firestone. People were asking about him, Yeah,

476
00:22:16,840 --> 00:22:19,320
Speaker 2: he's another one. He and Evanna were invited, of course,

477
00:22:19,359 --> 00:22:22,960
Speaker 2: but he was hosting a charity event in Santa Barbara, a.

478
00:22:23,000 --> 00:22:25,160
Speaker 1: Huge event that Havanna has been charing for a while,

479
00:22:25,160 --> 00:22:27,359
Speaker 1: and so that they came to NAPA. They were a

480
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Speaker 1: part of that. They could not make it here unfortunately.

481
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Speaker 2: Well, I love hearing I think you just nailed something,

482
00:22:32,640 --> 00:22:35,359
Speaker 2: And I've wondered sometimes, like, I don't know, I'd love

483
00:22:35,400 --> 00:22:37,800
Speaker 2: to hear from people on this. Sometimes I feel like

484
00:22:38,000 --> 00:22:40,719
Speaker 2: I got to come into the franchise and start covering

485
00:22:40,720 --> 00:22:43,880
Speaker 2: it at like a really good, powerful time. I mean,

486
00:22:43,920 --> 00:22:46,840
Speaker 2: of course I missed those big years where you've had

487
00:22:46,840 --> 00:22:49,479
Speaker 2: tens of millions of people watching it on broadcast and

488
00:22:49,840 --> 00:22:51,960
Speaker 2: you know, sort of the origins of reality TV. But

489
00:22:52,320 --> 00:22:55,240
Speaker 2: I came in at a time when, like social media

490
00:22:55,320 --> 00:22:57,879
Speaker 2: was really blowing everyone up, but the family was like,

491
00:22:58,280 --> 00:23:01,800
Speaker 2: but social media was connecting the Bachelor family, and so

492
00:23:02,359 --> 00:23:04,960
Speaker 2: like I first started covering it with Ben's season, which

493
00:23:05,000 --> 00:23:08,000
Speaker 2: is part of why you know, I'm close to Ben

494
00:23:08,040 --> 00:23:12,199
Speaker 2: and Wells and Jojo, and so I've wondered, Wait, do

495
00:23:12,280 --> 00:23:13,680
Speaker 2: I just feel like I was there in a really

496
00:23:13,720 --> 00:23:15,560
Speaker 2: good time because that's when I was there and they're

497
00:23:15,600 --> 00:23:19,200
Speaker 2: my age or was this kind of group in this

498
00:23:19,320 --> 00:23:22,920
Speaker 2: age range, in this era really a good solid time

499
00:23:22,920 --> 00:23:26,119
Speaker 2: in the franchise and it has gone I don't know,

500
00:23:26,280 --> 00:23:27,720
Speaker 2: I don't know if it's still there anymore.

501
00:23:27,920 --> 00:23:32,440
Speaker 1: Well, think of the decades that span in that room,

502
00:23:32,760 --> 00:23:37,040
Speaker 1: from Trista in the early two thousands, yeah, all the

503
00:23:37,080 --> 00:23:37,720
Speaker 1: way through.

504
00:23:38,800 --> 00:23:41,160
Speaker 2: But I guess I'm saying I think that that crew,

505
00:23:41,600 --> 00:23:45,159
Speaker 2: those couple of years of like ben Jojo Colton, like

506
00:23:45,240 --> 00:23:48,400
Speaker 2: Hannah Brown in there like that, those couple of years,

507
00:23:48,840 --> 00:23:51,479
Speaker 2: those were some really good seasons of the show. Ye,

508
00:23:51,840 --> 00:23:55,879
Speaker 2: and whatever has happened with us, I just even just

509
00:23:55,920 --> 00:23:57,320
Speaker 2: as a viewer of a show, I know those were

510
00:23:57,359 --> 00:23:59,520
Speaker 2: really good times. And maybe I can't tell if that's

511
00:23:59,560 --> 00:24:01,399
Speaker 2: me protect at her if that was a good chunk.

512
00:24:01,440 --> 00:24:03,280
Speaker 2: And I don't know if it's been that good since then.

513
00:24:03,680 --> 00:24:05,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, And I don't know if it's been that good

514
00:24:05,840 --> 00:24:07,600
Speaker 1: since then. I don't know what the con well, I

515
00:24:07,600 --> 00:24:10,119
Speaker 1: don't know what the camaraderie is. But to that point,

516
00:24:10,160 --> 00:24:14,960
Speaker 1: I would just add this. I think the fabric was

517
00:24:15,000 --> 00:24:19,679
Speaker 1: being torn, and I'm glad, and I think everybody in

518
00:24:19,680 --> 00:24:22,560
Speaker 1: the room Friday night felt we're not going to let

519
00:24:22,560 --> 00:24:25,200
Speaker 1: that fabric be torn. We're going to let this family

520
00:24:25,320 --> 00:24:28,480
Speaker 1: heal and be together because we all realized, wait, we

521
00:24:28,640 --> 00:24:33,400
Speaker 1: love each other, Like what happens, you can let this go,

522
00:24:33,600 --> 00:24:36,200
Speaker 1: Like we're going to stay together. And I really appree

523
00:24:36,320 --> 00:24:38,480
Speaker 1: I think that was maybe the healing and the love

524
00:24:38,520 --> 00:24:40,560
Speaker 1: I felt in that room of it was this big

525
00:24:40,600 --> 00:24:42,720
Speaker 1: sigh of relief, and we all put our arms around

526
00:24:42,720 --> 00:24:45,320
Speaker 1: each other and just there was love. It was as

527
00:24:45,359 --> 00:24:46,720
Speaker 1: I always said, at the end of the day, it

528
00:24:46,760 --> 00:24:48,920
Speaker 1: was always about love, and so was this.

529
00:24:49,840 --> 00:24:52,119
Speaker 2: We had such a good group. We kept saying on

530
00:24:52,200 --> 00:24:55,480
Speaker 2: Sunday morning after Friday and Saturday night, the Bachelor crew

531
00:24:55,520 --> 00:24:57,840
Speaker 2: that we had, the people we invited, and the people

532
00:24:57,880 --> 00:25:00,280
Speaker 2: we invited are people we kind of use the barmeter

533
00:25:00,359 --> 00:25:03,320
Speaker 2: of who do we regularly still talk to or catch

534
00:25:03,400 --> 00:25:06,080
Speaker 2: up with text with, who do we feel really close with,

535
00:25:06,359 --> 00:25:10,480
Speaker 2: who do we both know really well? And the crew

536
00:25:10,520 --> 00:25:13,679
Speaker 2: we had was such a good group and so supportive

537
00:25:13,680 --> 00:25:16,280
Speaker 2: of us and so cheering us on and out on

538
00:25:16,320 --> 00:25:18,679
Speaker 2: the dance floor on Saturday. And they all showed up

539
00:25:18,680 --> 00:25:22,640
Speaker 2: Friday night. Nobody I kind of listen. Everybody said Jason

540
00:25:22,640 --> 00:25:24,160
Speaker 2: was little late, which is fine. I'm not a person

541
00:25:24,200 --> 00:25:27,000
Speaker 2: who's early are on time to parties, but I was

542
00:25:27,040 --> 00:25:29,320
Speaker 2: almost for a second I thought, Oh, I don't know,

543
00:25:29,359 --> 00:25:31,639
Speaker 2: maybe they're exploring the city and they're not going to come. No,

544
00:25:31,800 --> 00:25:34,840
Speaker 2: everybody showed up and everybody was so happy for us,

545
00:25:34,920 --> 00:25:37,399
Speaker 2: and it was just such a loving group of people.

546
00:25:37,400 --> 00:25:40,000
Speaker 1: Two things One we forgot, I forgot we invited Claire

547
00:25:40,040 --> 00:25:40,360
Speaker 1: as well.

548
00:25:40,440 --> 00:25:41,800
Speaker 2: Oh yes, Claire couldn't make it.

549
00:25:42,200 --> 00:25:45,240
Speaker 1: And what was cool was at the end of the night,

550
00:25:45,600 --> 00:25:47,640
Speaker 1: some people had reservations and went off on their own.

551
00:25:47,800 --> 00:25:50,600
Speaker 1: I know Culton, Yeah, Culton and Jordan had dinner reservations.

552
00:25:50,640 --> 00:25:53,760
Speaker 1: But there was this core group that ended up splitting

553
00:25:53,840 --> 00:25:57,800
Speaker 1: up into boys' night and girls' night. So the boys

554
00:25:57,920 --> 00:25:59,920
Speaker 1: ended up having a reservation. They went often had a

555
00:26:00,240 --> 00:26:00,960
Speaker 1: night in that.

556
00:26:00,800 --> 00:26:02,960
Speaker 2: One of our favorite restaurants in Austin fixed.

557
00:26:02,680 --> 00:26:06,199
Speaker 1: Ye so good dude, biscuits, the chicken, Oh my gosh.

558
00:26:06,320 --> 00:26:08,600
Speaker 1: But then the girls went out and this just happened

559
00:26:08,960 --> 00:26:12,600
Speaker 1: like spontaneously, and they were in our driveway like okay, guys,

560
00:26:12,600 --> 00:26:14,560
Speaker 1: we're going here. Girls were going I'm like, okay, this

561
00:26:14,640 --> 00:26:17,760
Speaker 1: is awesome. I just I love that this group truly,

562
00:26:18,600 --> 00:26:21,440
Speaker 1: there was so much love and companionship and camaraderie. It

563
00:26:21,600 --> 00:26:23,840
Speaker 1: just in my heart was swelling and it was such

564
00:26:23,840 --> 00:26:28,359
Speaker 1: a great jumping off point, diving board springboard effect. To

565
00:26:28,400 --> 00:26:31,600
Speaker 1: get us into our wedding day On Saturday.

566
00:26:31,440 --> 00:26:35,800
Speaker 2: Taysha brought her new gentleman, oh yes, to a wedding

567
00:26:35,840 --> 00:26:39,280
Speaker 2: for the first time Luke of Summerhouse on Bravo. You know,

568
00:26:39,400 --> 00:26:42,239
Speaker 2: I felt like, oh, okay, we're we're debuting this at

569
00:26:42,240 --> 00:26:44,560
Speaker 2: a wedding. It's listen whoever you are. It's a big

570
00:26:44,600 --> 00:26:48,040
Speaker 2: deal to bring somebody to a wedding. I think we chatted.

571
00:26:48,280 --> 00:26:50,879
Speaker 2: He was very sweet, and it was so good to

572
00:26:50,920 --> 00:26:54,080
Speaker 2: see Tasha taysha Is. She looked so lovely and she

573
00:26:54,160 --> 00:26:55,160
Speaker 2: was so happy for us.

574
00:26:56,200 --> 00:26:59,240
Speaker 1: And she's someone I had not seen since the pandemic,

575
00:26:59,320 --> 00:27:02,320
Speaker 1: since IF the show, and I've talked to her, but

576
00:27:02,359 --> 00:27:04,919
Speaker 1: it was we just I don't know, we kind of

577
00:27:04,920 --> 00:27:07,400
Speaker 1: exchanged a big hug when she first walked in the door,

578
00:27:07,440 --> 00:27:09,359
Speaker 1: and just kind of a knowing hug of everything that

579
00:27:10,200 --> 00:27:12,080
Speaker 1: you know, she had been through and I had been through.

580
00:27:12,119 --> 00:27:14,040
Speaker 1: So it was again, it was one of those relationships.

581
00:27:14,080 --> 00:27:16,119
Speaker 1: It was just good to see her. And yeah, I

582
00:27:16,160 --> 00:27:19,560
Speaker 1: met Luke, a nice guy and had had a brief

583
00:27:19,640 --> 00:27:23,359
Speaker 1: chat with him and a good Midwestern boy Minneapolis, Minnesota GA.

584
00:27:23,520 --> 00:27:25,399
Speaker 2: He and I talked so much about the Midwest. I know,

585
00:27:25,440 --> 00:27:28,480
Speaker 2: I'm like, oh, I instantly, I instantly vibe with you.

586
00:27:28,640 --> 00:27:30,719
Speaker 1: But yeah, that night was a great springboard to get

587
00:27:30,800 --> 00:27:45,320
Speaker 1: us into Saturday. So her wedding at Austin was not

588
00:27:45,480 --> 00:27:46,760
Speaker 1: traditional at all.

589
00:27:47,800 --> 00:27:50,159
Speaker 2: I did not walk down an aisle alone. Anyway, we

590
00:27:50,280 --> 00:27:50,840
Speaker 2: entered together.

591
00:27:51,320 --> 00:27:54,800
Speaker 1: This is again another reason why you should always have

592
00:27:54,840 --> 00:27:59,320
Speaker 1: two wedding ceremonies. We did the typical traditional walk down

593
00:27:59,359 --> 00:28:01,719
Speaker 1: the aisle. I was up there with the offician and Napa.

594
00:28:01,840 --> 00:28:04,760
Speaker 1: Lauren walked to me. It was beautiful and it took

595
00:28:04,760 --> 00:28:06,840
Speaker 1: my breath away and I cried like a baby. But

596
00:28:07,760 --> 00:28:11,719
Speaker 1: the great thing about Austin and again the vibe was cowboys,

597
00:28:11,840 --> 00:28:15,240
Speaker 1: chic and let's crush this and it was one big party.

598
00:28:15,280 --> 00:28:20,120
Speaker 1: So Lauren and I with the kids, we actually drove, well,

599
00:28:20,200 --> 00:28:23,159
Speaker 1: drove my truck to the wedding. We drove together. We

600
00:28:23,200 --> 00:28:25,199
Speaker 1: spent the day together, drove together to the wedding with

601
00:28:25,240 --> 00:28:27,840
Speaker 1: the kids. The kids went in and stood by the stage.

602
00:28:27,920 --> 00:28:30,760
Speaker 1: There was no sitting. We weren't sitting in pews and

603
00:28:30,760 --> 00:28:34,040
Speaker 1: all that. This was on the dance floor when Lauren

604
00:28:34,080 --> 00:28:35,040
Speaker 1: and I walked in.

605
00:28:35,520 --> 00:28:37,960
Speaker 2: This s yeah. What we had the band leader do

606
00:28:38,160 --> 00:28:40,840
Speaker 2: of the Little Wedding Band. If you are doing any

607
00:28:40,880 --> 00:28:44,080
Speaker 2: event in Texas, hire the Little Wedding Band. We have

608
00:28:44,240 --> 00:28:47,280
Speaker 2: so many compliments on them. They rocked the house. So

609
00:28:47,640 --> 00:28:50,520
Speaker 2: the band leader, Matt, we said to him, we're gonna

610
00:28:50,800 --> 00:28:53,040
Speaker 2: let you know, text you when we're pulling up in

611
00:28:53,080 --> 00:28:57,840
Speaker 2: the pickup, and we want you to tell everybody get

612
00:28:57,920 --> 00:29:02,640
Speaker 2: up on the dance floor but clear path. So he did, and.

613
00:29:03,000 --> 00:29:04,960
Speaker 1: I just thought it was such a great idea. And

614
00:29:05,000 --> 00:29:07,120
Speaker 1: I don't know if who had it. We just I'm

615
00:29:07,160 --> 00:29:09,120
Speaker 1: sure it was my I'm sure it was your idea.

616
00:29:09,200 --> 00:29:11,080
Speaker 1: But the funny thing is, I don't think we really

617
00:29:11,520 --> 00:29:14,440
Speaker 1: thought through like this is why we're doing it at

618
00:29:14,440 --> 00:29:16,440
Speaker 1: the time. It just turned out to be so wonderful

619
00:29:16,440 --> 00:29:19,440
Speaker 1: that we got to experience walking down the aisle together.

620
00:29:19,520 --> 00:29:22,640
Speaker 1: So we walked in hand in hand. And number one,

621
00:29:23,760 --> 00:29:24,719
Speaker 1: what were we wearing?

622
00:29:24,880 --> 00:29:27,760
Speaker 2: And why I wore my same dress.

623
00:29:27,640 --> 00:29:29,880
Speaker 1: Same wedding dress. There was not two dresses same wedding

624
00:29:29,960 --> 00:29:31,400
Speaker 1: dress from Napa. We wore it again.

625
00:29:31,640 --> 00:29:35,320
Speaker 2: I didn't even get it cleaned because I don't really

626
00:29:35,320 --> 00:29:37,040
Speaker 2: know anywhere you could get a wedding dress cleaned in

627
00:29:37,080 --> 00:29:38,280
Speaker 2: like a week, and I didn't want to risk it.

628
00:29:38,360 --> 00:29:41,000
Speaker 2: So it had some of that nap A dirt still

629
00:29:41,040 --> 00:29:42,800
Speaker 2: on it, it had makeup on it. I don't know

630
00:29:42,800 --> 00:29:44,520
Speaker 2: if you can see it in the pictures. But who

631
00:29:44,520 --> 00:29:45,840
Speaker 2: cares sweaty for the wedding?

632
00:29:45,920 --> 00:29:47,800
Speaker 1: My thought was, who gets to wear their wedding dress

633
00:29:47,840 --> 00:29:50,920
Speaker 1: twice and enjoy? She looks so beautiful in that wedding dress.

634
00:29:50,960 --> 00:29:54,120
Speaker 1: It's such an incredible dress. Why not wear it again

635
00:29:54,200 --> 00:29:56,520
Speaker 1: instead of putting it in a closet acting like you're

636
00:29:56,520 --> 00:29:58,400
Speaker 1: going to do something with it and you never will.

637
00:29:58,760 --> 00:29:59,880
Speaker 2: So you also wear your suit.

638
00:30:00,360 --> 00:30:02,280
Speaker 1: I wore my same customers.

639
00:30:02,000 --> 00:30:04,280
Speaker 2: You get your suit cleaned.

640
00:30:04,480 --> 00:30:08,400
Speaker 1: Didn't get the suit clean? Shirt? Yes, okay? For the armpits, yes,

641
00:30:08,640 --> 00:30:11,239
Speaker 1: well yeah, just you know a little little sweat there

642
00:30:11,280 --> 00:30:14,680
Speaker 1: from dancing a napis. Shirt was pressed and clean, and

643
00:30:14,760 --> 00:30:17,120
Speaker 1: I steamed out my suit and got that ready. But

644
00:30:17,880 --> 00:30:20,440
Speaker 1: we wore the same suit, same dress as we walked in.

645
00:30:20,520 --> 00:30:23,400
Speaker 1: So we walked in together, hand in hand. Two hundred

646
00:30:23,400 --> 00:30:26,320
Speaker 1: and twenty five people there. The seas parted. They created

647
00:30:26,400 --> 00:30:28,400
Speaker 1: kind of an aisle force and this is the cool thing.

648
00:30:28,440 --> 00:30:31,920
Speaker 1: And again I can't recommend this enough. The great thing

649
00:30:31,960 --> 00:30:36,160
Speaker 1: about walking in everybody had the aisle. Everybody created an

650
00:30:36,240 --> 00:30:38,640
Speaker 1: aisle for ut so everybody had a great look. Everybody

651
00:30:38,720 --> 00:30:41,000
Speaker 1: could film us. We didn't say put your phones away.

652
00:30:41,280 --> 00:30:43,680
Speaker 1: We didn't care. There were no rules at this party.

653
00:30:44,040 --> 00:30:47,960
Speaker 2: Everything goes well, and I think it being so casual,

654
00:30:48,080 --> 00:30:51,840
Speaker 2: like I don't love. Maybe I'm wrong, but I don't

655
00:30:51,920 --> 00:30:53,720
Speaker 2: If I go to a wedding, I do not film

656
00:30:53,760 --> 00:30:56,560
Speaker 2: the bride walking down the aisle. Yeah, because I think

657
00:30:57,480 --> 00:30:59,440
Speaker 2: if it's that emotional wedding, like if a bunch of

658
00:30:59,480 --> 00:31:01,120
Speaker 2: people had been filming me as I walked down the

659
00:31:01,200 --> 00:31:03,520
Speaker 2: island Napa, you're just seeing cell phones. I want to

660
00:31:03,560 --> 00:31:06,840
Speaker 2: see people's faces. I want to connect. But it's because

661
00:31:06,880 --> 00:31:10,880
Speaker 2: it's so emotional and big. This just felt more casual

662
00:31:10,920 --> 00:31:14,800
Speaker 2: and so and also if you're filming it's just the bride.

663
00:31:14,960 --> 00:31:17,360
Speaker 2: People got like these really fun videos of both of

664
00:31:17,400 --> 00:31:19,720
Speaker 2: us coming in. We had a really long aisle with

665
00:31:19,760 --> 00:31:22,000
Speaker 2: everybody lining, and so we got to really say hi

666
00:31:22,080 --> 00:31:24,960
Speaker 2: to people as we walk down. And as we've thought

667
00:31:24,960 --> 00:31:27,040
Speaker 2: about all this, well, okay, look, I know when people

668
00:31:27,080 --> 00:31:29,760
Speaker 2: are married they enter a reception together, but it was

669
00:31:29,800 --> 00:31:31,880
Speaker 2: that difference of having an aisle. You and I actually

670
00:31:31,880 --> 00:31:33,880
Speaker 2: had another idea, even in Napa. I don't know why

671
00:31:33,960 --> 00:31:38,160
Speaker 2: weddings aren't like this. Yes, we want to change the game.

672
00:31:39,000 --> 00:31:42,240
Speaker 2: We think that wedding ceremonies should be flipped in terms

673
00:31:42,280 --> 00:31:46,520
Speaker 2: of the audience's viewpoint. Why isn't it that the ceremony

674
00:31:46,600 --> 00:31:51,200
Speaker 2: point is I'm trying to explain this right. Basically, the

675
00:31:51,280 --> 00:31:54,120
Speaker 2: audience instead of looking back the guests, instead of looking

676
00:31:54,160 --> 00:31:56,920
Speaker 2: back at the bride, they should look forward at the bride.

677
00:31:57,080 --> 00:32:00,880
Speaker 2: So the bride should walk towards the guests, and the

678
00:32:00,880 --> 00:32:03,160
Speaker 2: groom's already there. The guests are standing at the groom,

679
00:32:03,360 --> 00:32:05,680
Speaker 2: and the bride walks towards and stands with.

680
00:32:05,640 --> 00:32:07,760
Speaker 1: It the groom. At the beginning, my back would be

681
00:32:07,840 --> 00:32:10,920
Speaker 1: to the crowd, to everybody there at the wedding. You

682
00:32:10,960 --> 00:32:12,840
Speaker 1: would walk towards all of us. We'd all get to

683
00:32:12,840 --> 00:32:14,960
Speaker 1: see it, and then we'll turn and.

684
00:32:14,880 --> 00:32:17,320
Speaker 2: It just yeah, we're switch it up. But anyway, I

685
00:32:17,360 --> 00:32:17,720
Speaker 2: know that.

686
00:32:17,760 --> 00:32:19,800
Speaker 1: It's not really conducive to churches because you're not going

687
00:32:19,880 --> 00:32:23,240
Speaker 1: to have fifty yards walking into that direction one way.

688
00:32:23,240 --> 00:32:25,680
Speaker 1: But I did anythink about the building, okay, but walking

689
00:32:25,720 --> 00:32:28,479
Speaker 1: in with you, it was this was what was so

690
00:32:28,480 --> 00:32:30,959
Speaker 1: different than Napa Napa. I was so nervous. I was

691
00:32:31,240 --> 00:32:35,360
Speaker 1: just everything was flooding through me emotion wise. This was

692
00:32:35,440 --> 00:32:38,320
Speaker 1: just so happy, go lucky, and it slowed down for me.

693
00:32:38,400 --> 00:32:40,800
Speaker 1: I got to breathe. This whole thing in I had

694
00:32:40,840 --> 00:32:44,160
Speaker 1: you in my hand and we could just look at everybody.

695
00:32:44,880 --> 00:32:48,480
Speaker 1: I felt so calm, so relaxed, and we then we

696
00:32:48,480 --> 00:32:51,640
Speaker 1: got up to the stage and people did not know,

697
00:32:51,920 --> 00:32:54,560
Speaker 1: not everybody really knew that we were going to get

698
00:32:54,600 --> 00:32:56,880
Speaker 1: married again, that we were going to make it official

699
00:32:56,880 --> 00:33:00,680
Speaker 1: here in Austin. That was really interesting. People thought, many

700
00:33:00,720 --> 00:33:02,000
Speaker 1: thought we were just going to.

701
00:33:01,960 --> 00:33:04,840
Speaker 2: Be I think we should know. That's because we changed

702
00:33:04,840 --> 00:33:07,400
Speaker 2: our minds. Yes, we What we had always planned on

703
00:33:07,560 --> 00:33:11,320
Speaker 2: was doing actually a ceremony in Napa and a kind

704
00:33:11,320 --> 00:33:13,120
Speaker 2: of a reception here in Austin, which I've heard of

705
00:33:13,160 --> 00:33:16,920
Speaker 2: other people doing before. But when we started, when I

706
00:33:16,960 --> 00:33:19,080
Speaker 2: made the website, because I may hit the websites for

707
00:33:19,120 --> 00:33:22,480
Speaker 2: both events, I put that on there. And here's what

708
00:33:22,520 --> 00:33:25,239
Speaker 2: I learned. Just like people don't really read invitations, they

709
00:33:25,280 --> 00:33:28,000
Speaker 2: don't really read wedding websites. So I was getting text

710
00:33:28,080 --> 00:33:30,400
Speaker 2: from people saying, can't wait for the wedding in Austin.

711
00:33:30,880 --> 00:33:32,120
Speaker 2: And then what do you do. You have to text

712
00:33:32,120 --> 00:33:34,760
Speaker 2: people and say, oh, no, sorry, you're not invited to

713
00:33:34,800 --> 00:33:38,360
Speaker 2: the wedding. This is a party. But there was that,

714
00:33:38,440 --> 00:33:41,320
Speaker 2: but then it also became I think we did start

715
00:33:41,320 --> 00:33:44,400
Speaker 2: feeling like, you know, A, we wanted to get married

716
00:33:44,680 --> 00:33:48,200
Speaker 2: legally in Austin because we've made our home here, and

717
00:33:48,320 --> 00:33:53,360
Speaker 2: B we want why not share the love and make

718
00:33:53,400 --> 00:33:55,200
Speaker 2: sure that those people who were saying they wanted to

719
00:33:55,200 --> 00:33:57,560
Speaker 2: see us get married get to see us get married.

720
00:33:57,600 --> 00:33:59,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, and it was again that's how I felt too,

721
00:33:59,520 --> 00:34:03,440
Speaker 1: about wanting to profess my love, say our vows. You know,

722
00:34:03,560 --> 00:34:06,720
Speaker 1: have our efficiant Mike Levitt, who also presided over this.

723
00:34:06,880 --> 00:34:09,439
Speaker 1: I mean we had to pay him a double rate

724
00:34:09,880 --> 00:34:12,480
Speaker 1: to have Mike Levitt, our dear friend came up. And

725
00:34:12,520 --> 00:34:14,960
Speaker 1: so what I did is so is joking, No I am,

726
00:34:15,000 --> 00:34:19,360
Speaker 1: I'm joking. So, as I said, this was very non traditional,

727
00:34:20,040 --> 00:34:23,880
Speaker 1: Laura and I walked in, took the stage, and we

728
00:34:23,960 --> 00:34:26,520
Speaker 1: hosted our own wedding. We grabbed the mic and we

729
00:34:26,680 --> 00:34:28,839
Speaker 1: just we raised, you know, a glass. We said, hey,

730
00:34:29,440 --> 00:34:31,800
Speaker 1: we're really happy everybody's here. We're honored by your presence.

731
00:34:32,040 --> 00:34:34,080
Speaker 1: This was going to be just a party, but if

732
00:34:34,120 --> 00:34:36,440
Speaker 1: you guys don't mind, we actually wanted to make it

733
00:34:36,440 --> 00:34:39,240
Speaker 1: official right here, right now, we are going to get married.

734
00:34:39,600 --> 00:34:41,839
Speaker 1: We brought up our friend Mike Levitt, and we went

735
00:34:41,960 --> 00:34:44,520
Speaker 1: right in, hid the microphones and went right into a wedding.

736
00:34:44,920 --> 00:34:47,800
Speaker 2: He had a short and slightly different version.

737
00:34:47,960 --> 00:34:48,280
Speaker 1: Yes.

738
00:34:48,360 --> 00:34:51,800
Speaker 2: Of Napa. We had slightly shorter versions of our vows.

739
00:34:51,880 --> 00:34:54,200
Speaker 1: Yes, different and a little different yeah, which was.

740
00:34:54,200 --> 00:34:56,800
Speaker 2: Cool because I think that saved something really special in Napa.

741
00:34:56,840 --> 00:35:00,000
Speaker 2: And then but everyone was so complimentary of the vowel

742
00:35:00,239 --> 00:35:00,520
Speaker 2: I know.

743
00:35:01,000 --> 00:35:04,080
Speaker 1: And by the way we wrote them. We wrote our

744
00:35:04,120 --> 00:35:07,759
Speaker 1: own vowels. Someone had asked, and I was like, well, yeah,

745
00:35:07,880 --> 00:35:09,200
Speaker 1: who else would write your vows?

746
00:35:09,840 --> 00:35:12,080
Speaker 2: Oh? I think they mean versus saying like the traditional

747
00:35:12,120 --> 00:35:13,439
Speaker 2: do you take her? Do you take care? Oh?

748
00:35:13,520 --> 00:35:16,239
Speaker 1: We did both. Yeah, we set our vowels via the

749
00:35:16,360 --> 00:35:19,280
Speaker 1: typical wedding tradition, but then we wrote our own vowels

750
00:35:19,320 --> 00:35:23,600
Speaker 1: and sent them to each other. I guess I could

751
00:35:23,640 --> 00:35:25,319
Speaker 1: say one part about the vowels. I mean it was

752
00:35:25,400 --> 00:35:27,520
Speaker 1: very public that it was funny to me. I kind

753
00:35:27,520 --> 00:35:31,440
Speaker 1: of started my vows by saying, the irony is not

754
00:35:31,560 --> 00:35:35,120
Speaker 1: lost on me of standing before so many people that

755
00:35:35,200 --> 00:35:38,800
Speaker 1: I have either married forced to write their vowels, perform

756
00:35:38,880 --> 00:35:42,320
Speaker 1: their vowels, or just do ridiculous things on national television,

757
00:35:42,560 --> 00:35:45,120
Speaker 1: and now here I am going through the same exercise.

758
00:35:45,400 --> 00:35:47,319
Speaker 1: So the irony was not lost on me. That I

759
00:35:47,360 --> 00:35:49,880
Speaker 1: was doing this in front of all my bachelor family,

760
00:35:49,920 --> 00:35:53,360
Speaker 1: which was really it was beautiful, funny and a great moment.

761
00:35:53,520 --> 00:35:56,240
Speaker 2: You were the one in the vulnerable position for one.

762
00:35:56,120 --> 00:36:00,239
Speaker 1: Exactly cute it and it felt good. It felt it

763
00:36:00,239 --> 00:36:02,879
Speaker 1: felt scary, but it felt good. And so we went

764
00:36:02,920 --> 00:36:07,799
Speaker 1: through our regular ceremony a little shortened and we and.

765
00:36:07,760 --> 00:36:10,080
Speaker 2: It was so cool to have everybody. So we had

766
00:36:10,080 --> 00:36:12,719
Speaker 2: everyone stand up for the aisle as we walked in.

767
00:36:12,840 --> 00:36:15,000
Speaker 2: And then when we we, like Chris said, we took

768
00:36:15,040 --> 00:36:17,160
Speaker 2: the mic and we said okay, gather in and come in.

769
00:36:17,200 --> 00:36:20,320
Speaker 2: Everybody and everyone was standing and literally just gathered around

770
00:36:20,320 --> 00:36:22,759
Speaker 2: this lab from it. So it felt so close. Like

771
00:36:22,840 --> 00:36:24,680
Speaker 2: I looked, I saw Caitlyn smiling at it, I says

772
00:36:24,760 --> 00:36:27,160
Speaker 2: a tryst. I saw some of my friends from ET,

773
00:36:27,440 --> 00:36:30,120
Speaker 2: I saw our families, and you had an excellent idea

774
00:36:30,920 --> 00:36:34,560
Speaker 2: as well. Two weddings we advocate for two weddings in Napa.

775
00:36:35,239 --> 00:36:39,280
Speaker 2: Just it was like the you know, your family sits

776
00:36:39,280 --> 00:36:39,799
Speaker 2: on your side.

777
00:36:39,880 --> 00:36:41,880
Speaker 1: It was kind of the bride side in the groom side.

778
00:36:41,960 --> 00:36:43,920
Speaker 2: So what that meant though, was that as we were

779
00:36:43,920 --> 00:36:46,880
Speaker 2: doing our vows, I was staring at Chris's kids, and

780
00:36:46,960 --> 00:36:49,960
Speaker 2: Chris was staring at my mom and siblings. Now, that

781
00:36:50,080 --> 00:36:51,960
Speaker 2: was amazing because you're kind of seeing the family you're

782
00:36:51,960 --> 00:36:55,360
Speaker 2: marrying into. But then we thought, in Austin, let's switch

783
00:36:55,400 --> 00:36:57,240
Speaker 2: it so that we can look at our own family spaces.

784
00:36:57,320 --> 00:37:00,440
Speaker 2: So that was magical because we got to see our

785
00:37:00,480 --> 00:37:03,279
Speaker 2: own families during the vows, and I could see my

786
00:37:03,320 --> 00:37:07,719
Speaker 2: brother tearing up and oh my gosh, it was so awesome.

787
00:37:07,400 --> 00:37:09,160
Speaker 1: And I was, yeah, I was looking at Joshi and

788
00:37:09,160 --> 00:37:12,920
Speaker 1: Taylor and yeah, that was it just got me. Listening

789
00:37:12,920 --> 00:37:14,439
Speaker 1: to your vowels and then looking at them.

790
00:37:14,880 --> 00:37:16,759
Speaker 2: Did you feel like it was any Was it still

791
00:37:16,760 --> 00:37:18,040
Speaker 2: a blur this time or did you hear no?

792
00:37:18,360 --> 00:37:22,279
Speaker 1: I felt like on the second yeah, the second read no.

793
00:37:22,719 --> 00:37:25,640
Speaker 1: I in Austin, everything about it slowed down for me

794
00:37:25,680 --> 00:37:30,080
Speaker 1: and I finally, I think the adrenaline wasn't as high

795
00:37:30,120 --> 00:37:32,400
Speaker 1: and intense in my body and I just because we

796
00:37:32,440 --> 00:37:34,399
Speaker 1: had walked in together and it was just so much

797
00:37:34,400 --> 00:37:37,360
Speaker 1: more relaxed that I really got to hear everything. I

798
00:37:37,400 --> 00:37:39,399
Speaker 1: looked out at the crowd and I got to see

799
00:37:39,480 --> 00:37:42,600
Speaker 1: people's faces as again, it was so intimate. Everyone crushed

800
00:37:42,640 --> 00:37:45,200
Speaker 1: up on this near the stage. I could really see

801
00:37:45,200 --> 00:37:49,480
Speaker 1: everybody and feel the love and see my kids, see you.

802
00:37:49,560 --> 00:37:52,480
Speaker 1: I could hear your vows and really feel him this time.

803
00:37:52,840 --> 00:37:55,840
Speaker 1: I even asked you if things if certain things were different.

804
00:37:55,920 --> 00:37:57,000
Speaker 1: You said no, I know.

805
00:37:57,080 --> 00:37:59,120
Speaker 2: He said, did you change your vows? I said no,

806
00:37:59,400 --> 00:38:01,560
Speaker 2: and he said, well maybe I just wasn't was out of.

807
00:38:01,560 --> 00:38:04,200
Speaker 1: Body not yeah, And so I really I really got

808
00:38:04,200 --> 00:38:04,759
Speaker 1: to breathe in this.

809
00:38:05,160 --> 00:38:06,160
Speaker 2: My vows are pretty great.

810
00:38:06,560 --> 00:38:10,200
Speaker 1: Thought you crushed it. Honestly. Honestly, if I was, if

811
00:38:10,280 --> 00:38:12,480
Speaker 1: I was going to not that we should, but if

812
00:38:12,520 --> 00:38:15,800
Speaker 1: I was going to rank them, you crushed me. I

813
00:38:16,239 --> 00:38:18,840
Speaker 1: wanted to outdo you in that department and out love you,

814
00:38:19,239 --> 00:38:22,160
Speaker 1: but you crushed like your your your No, your vowels

815
00:38:22,160 --> 00:38:24,719
Speaker 1: were spectacular. Mine were good. I'm not gonna lie mine.

816
00:38:24,719 --> 00:38:26,400
Speaker 1: We're good. Yours were spectacular.

817
00:38:26,480 --> 00:38:28,640
Speaker 2: No, maybe you's were so good. And he cried again.

818
00:38:29,160 --> 00:38:30,960
Speaker 1: And I thought, that's one thing I thought I was

819
00:38:31,000 --> 00:38:32,160
Speaker 1: going to get through. I was going to say this.

820
00:38:32,239 --> 00:38:34,720
Speaker 1: I thought I was going to get through. I'm like, okay,

821
00:38:34,760 --> 00:38:37,640
Speaker 1: look I've been here, done this three weeks ago. I

822
00:38:37,680 --> 00:38:39,480
Speaker 1: got this. Ah damn it.

823
00:38:39,520 --> 00:38:42,200
Speaker 2: Well everyone was, But you know what, I think people love.

824
00:38:42,600 --> 00:38:44,960
Speaker 2: One thing I love about going to weddings is sharing

825
00:38:45,000 --> 00:38:47,640
Speaker 2: the emotion is feeling like you get a window into

826
00:38:47,640 --> 00:38:50,120
Speaker 2: the couple. And so many people came up to us

827
00:38:50,160 --> 00:38:52,920
Speaker 2: and said that they really felt that they understood more

828
00:38:52,920 --> 00:38:54,360
Speaker 2: of our relationship from the vows.

829
00:38:54,480 --> 00:38:59,920
Speaker 1: It like yeah, And I overheard some people talking about

830
00:39:00,040 --> 00:39:04,400
Speaker 1: out how they felt it was not a production and

831
00:39:04,440 --> 00:39:10,000
Speaker 1: they felt it was just real and heartfelt and that

832
00:39:10,200 --> 00:39:12,400
Speaker 1: they saw a side of us that they weren't expecting

833
00:39:12,440 --> 00:39:14,040
Speaker 1: to see. And that made me feel really good.

834
00:39:14,239 --> 00:39:16,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, I should. We should note about Austin.

835
00:39:16,600 --> 00:39:18,880
Speaker 2: One rule we had in Napa, these have to be

836
00:39:18,920 --> 00:39:22,680
Speaker 2: our closest friends. In Austin, we knew mostly everybody. A

837
00:39:22,719 --> 00:39:25,279
Speaker 2: couple of people brought like plus ones who we didn't know,

838
00:39:25,400 --> 00:39:27,400
Speaker 2: so it was definitely a bigger party. I think the

839
00:39:27,400 --> 00:39:30,839
Speaker 2: people you overheard, we literally hadn't met them, so they're like,

840
00:39:31,080 --> 00:39:33,760
Speaker 2: they were like, oh, they're not like TV people.

841
00:39:34,200 --> 00:39:36,480
Speaker 1: Can we should we just tell the dirt of how

842
00:39:36,480 --> 00:39:40,680
Speaker 1: we heard. I think it's a good story. I'm just

843
00:39:40,719 --> 00:39:43,839
Speaker 1: gonna spill a little tea here. So after the ceremony,

844
00:39:44,120 --> 00:39:47,160
Speaker 1: Lauren is in her wedding dress. I'm in my suit. Well,

845
00:39:47,320 --> 00:39:50,680
Speaker 1: the whole point of this was cowboy chic. We wanted

846
00:39:50,680 --> 00:39:53,080
Speaker 1: everybody to be in their cowboy boots and jeans and

847
00:39:53,400 --> 00:39:57,239
Speaker 1: you know, dress up. And obviously we had decided to

848
00:39:57,239 --> 00:39:59,239
Speaker 1: get married again. So she's in her wedding dress and

849
00:39:59,280 --> 00:40:01,000
Speaker 1: I'm in my suits, so that's not going to work.

850
00:40:01,200 --> 00:40:03,880
Speaker 1: We had outfits picked out for the cowboy chic party.

851
00:40:04,200 --> 00:40:07,680
Speaker 1: So that's what we did. We got married, and the

852
00:40:07,680 --> 00:40:10,959
Speaker 1: funny thing is there was no recessional. We didn't march

853
00:40:11,000 --> 00:40:12,680
Speaker 1: off the stage and you know, get in the car

854
00:40:12,719 --> 00:40:14,759
Speaker 1: and leave or go to the reception. This was it.

855
00:40:14,880 --> 00:40:17,600
Speaker 1: So as soon as we kissed and kind of sealed

856
00:40:17,600 --> 00:40:20,960
Speaker 1: the deal, we then picked up the microphones and started

857
00:40:20,960 --> 00:40:25,160
Speaker 1: hosting again and introduced our first dance. And I will

858
00:40:25,160 --> 00:40:26,640
Speaker 1: get back to our first dance, but I want to

859
00:40:26,640 --> 00:40:29,360
Speaker 1: tell you as soon as our first dance was over,

860
00:40:30,360 --> 00:40:33,319
Speaker 1: we went to go change, and so we went to

861
00:40:33,320 --> 00:40:35,440
Speaker 1: the bridal suite. There was this little room there at

862
00:40:35,480 --> 00:40:38,480
Speaker 1: the Ranch Austin where we had this event where we

863
00:40:38,520 --> 00:40:41,640
Speaker 1: got married, and we go into the bridal suite, well,

864
00:40:41,680 --> 00:40:44,239
Speaker 1: the bridal suite that we were changing. So Louren's getting

865
00:40:44,239 --> 00:40:46,480
Speaker 1: out of her dress and getting into another dress and

866
00:40:46,480 --> 00:40:49,239
Speaker 1: her frilly boots, and then it was just spectacular and

867
00:40:49,600 --> 00:40:54,880
Speaker 1: I changed into my cowboy jeans and my Takova alligator boots,

868
00:40:54,880 --> 00:40:58,840
Speaker 1: and I had this beautiful velvet jacket from Ken'sman's Shop.

869
00:40:58,880 --> 00:41:01,279
Speaker 1: I kept my shirt on, but I put on this

870
00:41:01,320 --> 00:41:04,200
Speaker 1: beautiful velvet jacket. It almost looked like a tucks jacket.

871
00:41:05,040 --> 00:41:07,840
Speaker 1: Very petible, very sexy, if I do say so myself.

872
00:41:08,200 --> 00:41:11,080
Speaker 1: But the funny thing is is we're changing. We hear

873
00:41:11,120 --> 00:41:14,000
Speaker 1: these people talking and you could really hear. I mean,

874
00:41:14,040 --> 00:41:15,279
Speaker 1: it was as if they were in the room with this,

875
00:41:15,360 --> 00:41:18,560
Speaker 1: and we thought, oh no, we are right next door

876
00:41:18,600 --> 00:41:22,040
Speaker 1: to the lady's room, to the women's bathroom. So all

877
00:41:22,120 --> 00:41:24,319
Speaker 1: the women were going in there and kind of gossiping

878
00:41:24,360 --> 00:41:27,000
Speaker 1: about what they had just seen. And I thought, oh,

879
00:41:27,040 --> 00:41:29,120
Speaker 1: this could really ruin our night if they're about to

880
00:41:29,200 --> 00:41:32,200
Speaker 1: trash us, tell us how horrible we are, how ugly

881
00:41:32,280 --> 00:41:35,640
Speaker 1: we looked, and how bad this wedding was. I'm like,

882
00:41:35,920 --> 00:41:38,479
Speaker 1: I almost said, please stop talking, don't say anything bad.

883
00:41:38,520 --> 00:41:42,719
Speaker 1: We can hear you. But instead of that, we heard

884
00:41:42,760 --> 00:41:46,400
Speaker 1: the most amazing compliments and they couldn't have been lovelier,

885
00:41:46,760 --> 00:41:49,319
Speaker 1: and it absolutely Laura and I just looked at each

886
00:41:49,360 --> 00:41:52,360
Speaker 1: other and smiled, and it was a really cool moment

887
00:41:52,400 --> 00:41:54,719
Speaker 1: to share that we were not expecting and sorry for

888
00:41:54,800 --> 00:41:57,680
Speaker 1: eavesdropping on the women in the ladies room. Typically we

889
00:41:57,719 --> 00:42:01,120
Speaker 1: would not do that, but the geog this place kind

890
00:42:01,120 --> 00:42:02,040
Speaker 1: of set us up for that.

891
00:42:02,880 --> 00:42:04,600
Speaker 2: And now I hope they reach out. And we didn't

892
00:42:04,600 --> 00:42:06,720
Speaker 2: find out who they were was because we were listening

893
00:42:06,760 --> 00:42:09,200
Speaker 2: and we're like, we don't know these voices. Okay, So

894
00:42:09,239 --> 00:42:13,560
Speaker 2: our first dance, yes, this was the first dance of

895
00:42:14,800 --> 00:42:22,200
Speaker 2: my dreams. Oh wow, the emotions are still I So

896
00:42:22,320 --> 00:42:24,640
Speaker 2: Chris and I have been fortunate enough to get to

897
00:42:24,680 --> 00:42:29,080
Speaker 2: know this up and coming, incredibly talented country crooner of

898
00:42:29,120 --> 00:42:33,080
Speaker 2: a singer, William Beckman. His voice is like if Elvis

899
00:42:33,480 --> 00:42:37,160
Speaker 2: and Frank Sinatra had a baby and that baby went country.

900
00:42:37,320 --> 00:42:41,799
Speaker 2: He's so talented. So check out William Beckman. And we

901
00:42:41,840 --> 00:42:43,400
Speaker 2: asked him if you would play a few songs at

902
00:42:43,440 --> 00:42:46,080
Speaker 2: our wedding, and he even had a show that night

903
00:42:46,160 --> 00:42:47,920
Speaker 2: and said, I will make it happen. I will come

904
00:42:47,960 --> 00:42:50,960
Speaker 2: to your party first do the song is leave right away.

905
00:42:51,040 --> 00:42:56,720
Speaker 2: I hope he made it to a show. And oh, babe,

906
00:42:56,760 --> 00:43:05,480
Speaker 2: I just want to sorry, so what I really wanted

907
00:43:05,640 --> 00:43:08,440
Speaker 2: And I was afraid to ask you this actually because

908
00:43:09,280 --> 00:43:11,200
Speaker 2: you know I've lost my dad, and I know I've

909
00:43:11,200 --> 00:43:14,920
Speaker 2: talked about that a lot on the podcast and sometimes

910
00:43:17,600 --> 00:43:20,359
Speaker 2: On the one hand, of course, I wish my dad

911
00:43:20,440 --> 00:43:26,200
Speaker 2: was here. He deserves to be here. It it is

912
00:43:26,360 --> 00:43:36,000
Speaker 2: a fair damn that he's not here. I'm so tired.

913
00:43:37,400 --> 00:43:43,200
Speaker 2: But I also understand that there's a delicate balance, and

914
00:43:43,280 --> 00:43:46,160
Speaker 2: people who've been through loss know this of when you

915
00:43:46,200 --> 00:43:48,680
Speaker 2: can bring up like you don't want to be afraid

916
00:43:48,760 --> 00:43:50,680
Speaker 2: or ashamed to bring up the person you lost. You

917
00:43:50,719 --> 00:43:53,799
Speaker 2: shouldn't be. But I also don't want to, Like you know,

918
00:43:54,360 --> 00:43:56,160
Speaker 2: you have to watch the mood you don't want to.

919
00:43:56,640 --> 00:43:59,239
Speaker 2: It's our first dance. I wanted to be romantic for us,

920
00:43:59,480 --> 00:44:00,920
Speaker 2: and I did it. I want you to feel like

921
00:44:01,440 --> 00:44:05,040
Speaker 2: I was making our first dance about my dad and

922
00:44:05,120 --> 00:44:06,880
Speaker 2: about that instead of about you and I, because our

923
00:44:06,880 --> 00:44:10,239
Speaker 2: weddings about you and I. But I just really appreciate it.

924
00:44:10,280 --> 00:44:15,000
Speaker 2: I said to Chris, I would love if William could sing,

925
00:44:15,520 --> 00:44:18,479
Speaker 2: because William does a lot of old song covers, Frank

926
00:44:18,520 --> 00:44:22,040
Speaker 2: Sinatra and Dean Martin and that kind of thing. I said,

927
00:44:22,040 --> 00:44:24,840
Speaker 2: I would love if he could sing my dad and

928
00:44:24,880 --> 00:44:29,480
Speaker 2: my favorite song, which was Summer Wind by Frank Sinatra,

929
00:44:30,360 --> 00:44:35,040
Speaker 2: and you jumped on board with that so quickly supported

930
00:44:35,040 --> 00:44:37,560
Speaker 2: it right away, didn't question me on it at all.

931
00:44:37,920 --> 00:44:40,480
Speaker 2: In fact, you reached out and coordinated everything with William

932
00:44:40,520 --> 00:44:43,000
Speaker 2: and made sure William would introduce and explain the meaning

933
00:44:43,000 --> 00:44:44,840
Speaker 2: of the song so it wouldn't be me, because then

934
00:44:44,840 --> 00:44:48,600
Speaker 2: I would have been crying like this. And so that

935
00:44:48,800 --> 00:44:53,000
Speaker 2: was our first dance song in Austin, and it was

936
00:44:53,719 --> 00:44:55,680
Speaker 2: so meaningful and actually we're just starting to get the

937
00:44:55,680 --> 00:44:59,320
Speaker 2: pictures back yet it Oh my gosh, everyone was crying.

938
00:44:59,520 --> 00:45:01,600
Speaker 2: Catherine as you need. She is like, there's this picture

939
00:45:01,600 --> 00:45:02,840
Speaker 2: of her in here. She's so sweet.

940
00:45:03,680 --> 00:45:07,440
Speaker 1: Plan on how it ended up, which was then there

941
00:45:07,480 --> 00:45:10,879
Speaker 1: was this kind of semi circle that just formed around us,

942
00:45:11,440 --> 00:45:13,960
Speaker 1: and again you could just feel so much energy and

943
00:45:14,239 --> 00:45:16,239
Speaker 1: it's something. Again, we didn't have a wedding planer, We

944
00:45:16,239 --> 00:45:19,279
Speaker 1: didn't rehearse this. It just this just happened naturally. People

945
00:45:19,360 --> 00:45:20,880
Speaker 1: kind of came forward to the stage and gave us

946
00:45:20,880 --> 00:45:24,120
Speaker 1: a little area to dance and we danced to Frank

947
00:45:24,160 --> 00:45:28,839
Speaker 1: Sinatra and William God, what a voice. I mean, it's

948
00:45:28,920 --> 00:45:33,360
Speaker 1: just dripping with honey. This kid is spectacular from Del Rio, Texas.

949
00:45:33,400 --> 00:45:37,880
Speaker 1: He has it all. And then after summer wind. He

950
00:45:37,960 --> 00:45:41,319
Speaker 1: sang two other songs, but one of them the third song.

951
00:45:41,320 --> 00:45:44,200
Speaker 1: He sang three songs for us. He sings this song

952
00:45:44,280 --> 00:45:48,279
Speaker 1: in Spanish, beauvaire. Laura and I have probably seen him

953
00:45:48,280 --> 00:45:50,719
Speaker 1: half a dozen times and gotten to know him and

954
00:45:50,760 --> 00:45:53,680
Speaker 1: consider him a friend. I don't think once have we

955
00:45:53,719 --> 00:45:56,560
Speaker 1: ever seen him, whether it's you know, at Red Rocks,

956
00:45:56,800 --> 00:45:59,799
Speaker 1: at the Saxon Pub here in Austin, or you know

957
00:45:59,840 --> 00:46:02,080
Speaker 1: at their wedding where you don't cry when he sings

958
00:46:02,160 --> 00:46:03,960
Speaker 1: vote in Spanish.

959
00:46:04,000 --> 00:46:05,760
Speaker 2: It's amazing. So thank you to William.

960
00:46:05,800 --> 00:46:07,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, God bless your brother. I appreciate it.

961
00:46:07,640 --> 00:46:09,840
Speaker 2: That's how we started the night. A little emotional but

962
00:46:09,960 --> 00:46:14,040
Speaker 2: some incredible talent. And then we took the mic no, no, no.

963
00:46:14,080 --> 00:46:17,640
Speaker 2: Then we took the mic yes, and Chris made another

964
00:46:17,680 --> 00:46:20,759
Speaker 2: my dreams come true. I said, we want people to

965
00:46:20,760 --> 00:46:22,440
Speaker 2: know this is a party. They're going to be a

966
00:46:22,440 --> 00:46:24,560
Speaker 2: little emotional after William. I want to have that moment,

967
00:46:24,600 --> 00:46:26,440
Speaker 2: but you want to make it clear it's a party.

968
00:46:26,719 --> 00:46:29,920
Speaker 2: Let's kick the night off. Instead of a champagne toast,

969
00:46:30,200 --> 00:46:34,200
Speaker 2: let's do a tequila shot. So Chris and I announced

970
00:46:34,200 --> 00:46:36,239
Speaker 2: that the buffet was going to open up, and we

971
00:46:36,280 --> 00:46:39,279
Speaker 2: did a tequila shot together, and Chris Harrison is not

972
00:46:39,440 --> 00:46:40,240
Speaker 2: a shot doer.

973
00:46:40,400 --> 00:46:42,479
Speaker 1: I am not a big shot doer. I will but

974
00:46:42,480 --> 00:46:43,520
Speaker 1: but I'm not a big shot.

975
00:46:43,560 --> 00:46:45,880
Speaker 2: But we do love this tequila see Emprey Tequila. We

976
00:46:45,960 --> 00:46:48,800
Speaker 2: had all of our signature cocktails by see Emprey Tequila

977
00:46:48,800 --> 00:46:51,839
Speaker 2: all night. It's so delishous and so affordable, by the way,

978
00:46:52,040 --> 00:46:54,800
Speaker 2: my all time favorite, affordable, delicious tequila.

979
00:46:54,560 --> 00:46:57,480
Speaker 1: No additives, all natural. Damn it's good tequila. Thank you,

980
00:46:57,480 --> 00:46:58,000
Speaker 1: Sam Prey.

981
00:46:58,280 --> 00:47:01,720
Speaker 2: So Chris wed a tequila shot with me on stage.

982
00:47:02,040 --> 00:47:04,320
Speaker 2: Then we went to change eaves, dropped on some people.

983
00:47:04,400 --> 00:47:06,920
Speaker 2: I put on my very Oh I loved my dress

984
00:47:06,920 --> 00:47:09,680
Speaker 2: by the way, by Justin Alexander. It's called the Share dress.

985
00:47:09,840 --> 00:47:13,959
Speaker 2: And what was amazing was Elon Gail's fiance Molly Quinn,

986
00:47:14,000 --> 00:47:15,839
Speaker 2: came up to me and said, oh my god, you're

987
00:47:15,960 --> 00:47:19,080
Speaker 2: channeling Share. I said, oh wow, Mollie, what a compliment.

988
00:47:19,239 --> 00:47:21,920
Speaker 2: Thank you. Can't wait for their whenever they're going to

989
00:47:21,960 --> 00:47:25,799
Speaker 2: get married. So put on this Justin Alexander dress. It's

990
00:47:25,840 --> 00:47:28,359
Speaker 2: so cute. It was that cowboy vibe and I've put

991
00:47:28,360 --> 00:47:31,840
Speaker 2: on my first ever pair of cowgirl boots.

992
00:47:32,320 --> 00:47:34,680
Speaker 1: I was so good. They looked so hot. They little,

993
00:47:34,680 --> 00:47:36,960
Speaker 1: as I said, they kind of the frills. The friend

994
00:47:37,080 --> 00:47:38,600
Speaker 1: I was saving the moment I didn't. I wanted to

995
00:47:38,640 --> 00:47:40,360
Speaker 1: wear boots for the first time at our wedding.

996
00:47:40,600 --> 00:47:43,920
Speaker 2: I love that and Exluckily they didn't give me blisters.

997
00:47:44,400 --> 00:47:49,800
Speaker 1: And so we introduced everybody via the Seamprey tequila shot.

998
00:47:50,440 --> 00:47:53,359
Speaker 1: And then it was time for the food. And that

999
00:47:53,480 --> 00:47:55,799
Speaker 1: was really important to me in Austin as important as

1000
00:47:55,800 --> 00:47:57,920
Speaker 1: it was in Napa. And this was a very formal

1001
00:47:57,960 --> 00:48:00,839
Speaker 1: wine dinner. I wanted Texas. I wanted everyone to get

1002
00:48:00,840 --> 00:48:02,880
Speaker 1: a taste of Texas. And if you look at everybody's

1003
00:48:03,160 --> 00:48:06,200
Speaker 1: social media posts, you saw that we were at the

1004
00:48:06,320 --> 00:48:08,400
Speaker 1: Ranch Austin, which is a great venue.

1005
00:48:08,840 --> 00:48:11,760
Speaker 2: Ranch Austin wedding venue. You can't recommend it enough. Chris

1006
00:48:11,760 --> 00:48:14,320
Speaker 2: and Melissa, who own it, I said, I love a Chris.

1007
00:48:14,360 --> 00:48:18,560
Speaker 2: They were such a sweet couple. They actually had longhorn cattle.

1008
00:48:18,640 --> 00:48:19,440
Speaker 2: Did we say this yet?

1009
00:48:19,600 --> 00:48:21,560
Speaker 1: No. I was about to say, you know one thing,

1010
00:48:21,600 --> 00:48:24,680
Speaker 1: this is a working ranch. So there were real steers

1011
00:48:24,680 --> 00:48:27,840
Speaker 1: out there, longhorns with I mean beautiful long horns. The

1012
00:48:28,239 --> 00:48:31,120
Speaker 1: spread on these horns about thirteen feet wide. They had

1013
00:48:31,160 --> 00:48:33,759
Speaker 1: donkeys out there and so it was funny all the

1014
00:48:33,920 --> 00:48:34,520
Speaker 1: La folks.

1015
00:48:34,640 --> 00:48:36,879
Speaker 2: We really wanted to give those Californians a real taste

1016
00:48:36,880 --> 00:48:39,800
Speaker 2: in Texas. And what Chris at Ranch Austin does is

1017
00:48:39,840 --> 00:48:42,000
Speaker 2: he uses sugar cubes and brings the long horn over

1018
00:48:42,080 --> 00:48:44,239
Speaker 2: so everybody can take pictures with them. And it's a

1019
00:48:44,239 --> 00:48:47,319
Speaker 2: beautiful setting and people really have a theme.

1020
00:48:47,600 --> 00:48:50,400
Speaker 1: Everybody was posting pictures of the steer. It was really cool.

1021
00:48:51,120 --> 00:48:54,680
Speaker 1: And so we also wanted them to well, ironically enough,

1022
00:48:55,160 --> 00:48:58,439
Speaker 1: taste that as well and eat barbecue. So we really

1023
00:48:58,440 --> 00:49:01,719
Speaker 1: wanted a Texas Barbecue special and all I.

1024
00:49:01,800 --> 00:49:04,200
Speaker 2: Loved to the vegetarians out there, Sorry.

1025
00:49:03,640 --> 00:49:06,280
Speaker 1: This was not for the faint of heart. Sorry vegans,

1026
00:49:06,920 --> 00:49:12,080
Speaker 1: but you can't do fondue barbecue. But a good friend

1027
00:49:12,160 --> 00:49:14,640
Speaker 1: of mine and now a good friend of ours, Cameron

1028
00:49:14,760 --> 00:49:20,880
Speaker 1: True and this might seem odd, but Cameron is actually

1029
00:49:20,920 --> 00:49:24,880
Speaker 1: in from Provo, Utah. He owns Bambam's Barbecue in Provo, Utah.

1030
00:49:25,120 --> 00:49:28,880
Speaker 1: If you're anywhere near provol Provo, Utah, Salt Lake City,

1031
00:49:28,960 --> 00:49:31,600
Speaker 1: Park City, get down there, go to Bambam's. Ask for

1032
00:49:31,640 --> 00:49:35,239
Speaker 1: my boy Cameron Spectacular. I met him about twelve years

1033
00:49:35,280 --> 00:49:38,840
Speaker 1: ago here in Austin on a barbecue tour. Yes, I

1034
00:49:38,840 --> 00:49:41,480
Speaker 1: would go on barbecue tours. I was with some friends.

1035
00:49:41,840 --> 00:49:44,279
Speaker 1: Cameron was there working at Law Barbecue. He was at

1036
00:49:44,320 --> 00:49:47,440
Speaker 1: a food truck and I met him. We just became friends.

1037
00:49:47,680 --> 00:49:48,040
Speaker 1: I tell you.

1038
00:49:48,040 --> 00:49:49,359
Speaker 2: He told me the story of what he yelled at

1039
00:49:49,360 --> 00:49:51,480
Speaker 2: you from across the room, which is amazing and I'm

1040
00:49:51,520 --> 00:49:53,640
Speaker 2: wondering if a fan has ever yelled anything better. Do

1041
00:49:53,640 --> 00:49:54,200
Speaker 2: you remember this?

1042
00:49:54,440 --> 00:49:54,520
Speaker 1: No?

1043
00:49:54,960 --> 00:49:57,520
Speaker 2: Oh, my gosh me. So he loved the show, which

1044
00:49:57,560 --> 00:49:58,240
Speaker 2: is how you first.

1045
00:49:58,160 --> 00:49:59,439
Speaker 1: Met, because he was in the food truck.

1046
00:50:00,080 --> 00:50:03,080
Speaker 2: Said he yelled at you barn my language. But he

1047
00:50:03,160 --> 00:50:07,640
Speaker 2: yelled Chris Harrison. I think loved The Bachelor and I'm

1048
00:50:07,640 --> 00:50:10,480
Speaker 2: the biggest because he's like six foot sex here. He said,

1049
00:50:10,640 --> 00:50:12,799
Speaker 2: I love The Bachelor and I'm the biggest duty her.

1050
00:50:12,880 --> 00:50:15,120
Speaker 2: So if anybody says anything to you, just come get

1051
00:50:15,120 --> 00:50:16,200
Speaker 2: me and I'll kick their ass.

1052
00:50:16,520 --> 00:50:18,680
Speaker 1: So I remember him yelling at what was weird? So,

1053
00:50:18,960 --> 00:50:21,160
Speaker 1: you know true barbecue places in Austin, you got to

1054
00:50:21,160 --> 00:50:23,439
Speaker 1: get there early, you get in line. This food truck

1055
00:50:23,440 --> 00:50:26,000
Speaker 1: had a line. I'm about twenty deep, and we kind

1056
00:50:26,000 --> 00:50:28,240
Speaker 1: of wound around so he could see me from the window.

1057
00:50:28,600 --> 00:50:30,880
Speaker 1: So the awkward part was that he yelled at and

1058
00:50:30,920 --> 00:50:33,040
Speaker 1: then of course all eyes just turned to me, and

1059
00:50:33,040 --> 00:50:33,480
Speaker 1: I'm like, he.

1060
00:50:33,520 --> 00:50:35,560
Speaker 2: Kind of defeated the purpose of protecting you from any

1061
00:50:35,600 --> 00:50:36,360
Speaker 2: of you weird fans.

1062
00:50:36,360 --> 00:50:38,839
Speaker 1: So much for being on the dalla. So Cameron true

1063
00:50:39,200 --> 00:50:44,600
Speaker 1: whipped up brisket, smoked turkey, pulled pork. We had thanks

1064
00:50:44,640 --> 00:50:46,920
Speaker 1: to Law barbecue here in Austin that gave us the

1065
00:50:46,920 --> 00:50:47,520
Speaker 1: mac and cheese.

1066
00:50:47,560 --> 00:50:50,280
Speaker 2: Petap love that ma. They loved aushtit.

1067
00:50:50,400 --> 00:50:55,480
Speaker 1: He made banana pudding, so people went back for seconds, third, fourth.

1068
00:50:55,680 --> 00:50:57,120
Speaker 1: They crushed the barbecue.

1069
00:50:57,200 --> 00:51:00,960
Speaker 2: The barbecue was amazing. I again, was a real barbecue.

1070
00:51:01,000 --> 00:51:07,279
Speaker 2: I got bamboo eco friendly disposable plates bottom ourselves, and well,

1071
00:51:07,320 --> 00:51:10,359
Speaker 2: I just we didn't have cutlery like we had these

1072
00:51:10,400 --> 00:51:13,320
Speaker 2: bamboo plates. We had, you know, just dinner napkins and

1073
00:51:13,360 --> 00:51:16,280
Speaker 2: dinner rolls. And I loved it, and everyone loved the food.

1074
00:51:16,600 --> 00:51:20,000
Speaker 2: I did make the mistake. I didn't do this in Napa.

1075
00:51:20,200 --> 00:51:21,560
Speaker 2: I didn't have one bite of the food.

1076
00:51:21,920 --> 00:51:22,279
Speaker 1: I did.

1077
00:51:22,840 --> 00:51:23,759
Speaker 2: Well, good for you man.

1078
00:51:23,800 --> 00:51:27,359
Speaker 1: We go and we brought some home. We did have left.

1079
00:51:27,520 --> 00:51:28,840
Speaker 2: I was talking to too many people.

1080
00:51:28,960 --> 00:51:30,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, it was funny. You had a plate of

1081
00:51:30,920 --> 00:51:32,400
Speaker 1: food you were carrying around for a little bit and

1082
00:51:32,400 --> 00:51:32,680
Speaker 1: you're like.

1083
00:51:32,680 --> 00:51:35,400
Speaker 2: This is this No, I know it was that someone

1084
00:51:35,520 --> 00:51:37,759
Speaker 2: walked by it with me. I had one bite off

1085
00:51:37,760 --> 00:51:39,680
Speaker 2: of it. I mean, so I guess I had literally

1086
00:51:39,680 --> 00:51:42,319
Speaker 2: one bite. But I'm shocked. I wasn't hungover because I

1087
00:51:42,360 --> 00:51:45,879
Speaker 2: did so many Sam Frey tequila shots because people keep

1088
00:51:45,880 --> 00:51:48,479
Speaker 2: bringing them to you, and I literally didn't even eything.

1089
00:51:48,760 --> 00:51:50,640
Speaker 1: And we kind of went our separate ways a little bit.

1090
00:51:50,680 --> 00:51:53,160
Speaker 1: We started seeing everybody. We tried to really, this is

1091
00:51:53,200 --> 00:51:54,839
Speaker 1: the tough thing about a big, big wedding, and that's

1092
00:51:54,840 --> 00:51:57,480
Speaker 1: why you got to do too. It's tough to see everybody.

1093
00:51:57,560 --> 00:51:59,720
Speaker 1: We wanted to walk by every table, and there.

1094
00:51:59,600 --> 00:52:00,919
Speaker 2: Was a lot of the night when we were apart

1095
00:52:00,960 --> 00:52:03,120
Speaker 2: in Austin and so dividing and congering.

1096
00:52:03,239 --> 00:52:05,800
Speaker 1: Everybody sat. Nate had a kind of a calm forty

1097
00:52:05,800 --> 00:52:08,360
Speaker 1: five minutes while we ate dinner. Then it was time

1098
00:52:08,920 --> 00:52:14,879
Speaker 1: for the little wedding band and they brought the house down.

1099
00:52:15,239 --> 00:52:18,279
Speaker 1: They kill it. They just play the bangers. They let

1100
00:52:18,360 --> 00:52:19,560
Speaker 1: us kind of coordinate with them.

1101
00:52:19,680 --> 00:52:21,600
Speaker 2: We had a lot of Blink one eighty two, We

1102
00:52:21,640 --> 00:52:24,040
Speaker 2: had eighties music that they played. They're not so much

1103
00:52:24,120 --> 00:52:27,799
Speaker 2: like horns. Their guitars and drums and more so like

1104
00:52:27,800 --> 00:52:29,880
Speaker 2: you're going to see live music versus a wedding.

1105
00:52:30,000 --> 00:52:32,200
Speaker 1: There's not a song you can't sing along to at

1106
00:52:32,200 --> 00:52:33,960
Speaker 1: the top of your lungs. And when you see pictures

1107
00:52:34,000 --> 00:52:36,160
Speaker 1: of us and you see how ridiculous we.

1108
00:52:36,719 --> 00:52:38,960
Speaker 2: They go above and beyond. I mean, I said this

1109
00:52:39,040 --> 00:52:42,280
Speaker 2: on the other podcast. I was so sweaty. I danced

1110
00:52:42,680 --> 00:52:46,360
Speaker 2: for two hours straight. I didn't stop. I literally did

1111
00:52:46,440 --> 00:52:49,000
Speaker 2: not sit in a chair once all night. I should have.

1112
00:52:49,040 --> 00:52:51,480
Speaker 2: I had those cute two strands, the two strands of

1113
00:52:51,520 --> 00:52:53,719
Speaker 2: hair look that you do in front of a ponytail.

1114
00:52:53,920 --> 00:52:56,880
Speaker 2: That was a mistake because they were just sweaty worms

1115
00:52:56,920 --> 00:52:57,480
Speaker 2: down my head.

1116
00:52:57,600 --> 00:52:59,640
Speaker 1: So and a shout out to some other friends because

1117
00:52:59,640 --> 00:53:02,640
Speaker 1: look the people we've talked about them, they were not shy.

1118
00:53:02,680 --> 00:53:03,680
Speaker 1: They hit the dance floor.

1119
00:53:03,760 --> 00:53:07,880
Speaker 2: Oh, I rocked out too. I'm gonna give it something

1120
00:53:07,920 --> 00:53:10,560
Speaker 2: I love about the Bachelor girls. They are swifties with me,

1121
00:53:11,640 --> 00:53:14,200
Speaker 2: broke out, Becca, Sarah.

1122
00:53:13,960 --> 00:53:16,080
Speaker 1: Heren, Christa was right there, Lauren.

1123
00:53:15,880 --> 00:53:21,120
Speaker 2: Lyondyke, Tasha We I think it was love story, yeah,

1124
00:53:21,160 --> 00:53:24,520
Speaker 2: and we were just crushing it. I was so happy

1125
00:53:24,920 --> 00:53:28,080
Speaker 2: all I I have so much of the happiness for

1126
00:53:28,160 --> 00:53:30,719
Speaker 2: me from a party comes from dancing, and everybody was

1127
00:53:30,719 --> 00:53:33,359
Speaker 2: on the dance floor. The little wedding band let us

1128
00:53:33,400 --> 00:53:35,040
Speaker 2: come up on stage with them so many times. And

1129
00:53:35,040 --> 00:53:38,239
Speaker 2: when I looked out and saw everyone, the dance floor

1130
00:53:38,280 --> 00:53:40,600
Speaker 2: was completely full, I thought, this is my dream.

1131
00:53:40,719 --> 00:53:44,279
Speaker 1: And you know, the Bachelor people, kudos to them. They

1132
00:53:44,320 --> 00:53:45,759
Speaker 1: were so much fun and had a great time.

1133
00:53:45,920 --> 00:53:48,520
Speaker 2: Let me pause for a second. Do you think Ben

1134
00:53:48,600 --> 00:53:50,880
Speaker 2: Higgins's dance moves are good?

1135
00:53:51,080 --> 00:53:53,560
Speaker 1: It's not like Ben's dancing and he feels it. Here's

1136
00:53:53,560 --> 00:53:55,520
Speaker 1: the good thing about Ben, and God love him. He

1137
00:53:55,680 --> 00:53:58,680
Speaker 1: is unabashedly Ben Higgins. This is what you know. What

1138
00:53:58,719 --> 00:54:01,000
Speaker 1: you see is what you get with Ben. I adore him.

1139
00:54:01,040 --> 00:54:02,000
Speaker 1: I love him like a brother.

1140
00:54:02,080 --> 00:54:04,000
Speaker 2: Our producer Kendall, I'm gonna call her out because she

1141
00:54:04,040 --> 00:54:06,000
Speaker 2: knows Ben. She just chimed in via chat and said

1142
00:54:06,120 --> 00:54:07,040
Speaker 2: they are terrible.

1143
00:54:07,680 --> 00:54:10,759
Speaker 1: Yeah, his dancer, and I think now he leans into

1144
00:54:10,800 --> 00:54:12,520
Speaker 1: him because he knows how bad they are. I know.

1145
00:54:12,600 --> 00:54:14,960
Speaker 2: I always say I would rather be with somebody who's

1146
00:54:14,960 --> 00:54:17,839
Speaker 2: a bad dancer but dances than someone who just doesn't dance.

1147
00:54:18,320 --> 00:54:21,240
Speaker 2: He's tall, so that's hard for him. Maybe I don't.

1148
00:54:21,719 --> 00:54:24,840
Speaker 1: They're not great, and it was great justin Turner and

1149
00:54:25,120 --> 00:54:28,040
Speaker 1: Courtney Turner justin now playing with the Boston Red Sox,

1150
00:54:28,040 --> 00:54:29,200
Speaker 1: but we got to know him when he was a

1151
00:54:29,280 --> 00:54:30,400
Speaker 1: Los Angeles Dodger.

1152
00:54:31,200 --> 00:54:34,600
Speaker 2: Wonderful, incredible, probably lost on me. The level of his

1153
00:54:34,600 --> 00:54:36,640
Speaker 2: fame as a golf for Sergio Garcia is there.

1154
00:54:36,760 --> 00:54:39,560
Speaker 1: He is a major champion, he is a Master's champion. Yes,

1155
00:54:39,640 --> 00:54:40,960
Speaker 1: Sergio Garcio.

1156
00:54:40,719 --> 00:54:42,520
Speaker 2: Lovely wife Angela, And you know what I loved by

1157
00:54:42,520 --> 00:54:44,560
Speaker 2: the way everybody again brought it so much with the outphas.

1158
00:54:44,600 --> 00:54:46,919
Speaker 2: Angela said to me, Sergio has never worn a cowboy

1159
00:54:46,960 --> 00:54:48,200
Speaker 2: had he put it on for this event for the

1160
00:54:48,200 --> 00:54:48,560
Speaker 2: first time?

1161
00:54:48,600 --> 00:54:51,200
Speaker 1: You look? I told him, I said, dude, what about

1162
00:54:51,239 --> 00:54:54,600
Speaker 1: a Spanish Capairo. It's not like it's part of your

1163
00:54:54,600 --> 00:54:57,279
Speaker 1: culture as well. But they live here in Austin. We've

1164
00:54:57,320 --> 00:54:59,799
Speaker 1: become friends with them. I love Sergio such a good guy.

1165
00:55:00,120 --> 00:55:01,799
Speaker 1: I almost and I don't know if any you know,

1166
00:55:01,920 --> 00:55:04,719
Speaker 1: any outsider's wedding has ever had this. I almost had

1167
00:55:04,760 --> 00:55:08,760
Speaker 1: two Masters champions because Ben and Julie Crenshaw were also invited.

1168
00:55:08,800 --> 00:55:11,600
Speaker 1: Ben Crenshaw a legend obviously in a Master's champ but

1169
00:55:11,719 --> 00:55:13,840
Speaker 1: sent us a beautiful gift that I will be posting

1170
00:55:14,200 --> 00:55:16,799
Speaker 1: because it was one of the greatest wedding gifts I've

1171
00:55:16,800 --> 00:55:17,520
Speaker 1: ever received.

1172
00:55:18,080 --> 00:55:22,200
Speaker 2: But uh, Sergeant Gift, were you happier about the watch

1173
00:55:22,280 --> 00:55:22,960
Speaker 2: I gave you? No?

1174
00:55:23,120 --> 00:55:24,799
Speaker 1: The Omega watch you gave me from.

1175
00:55:24,800 --> 00:55:27,680
Speaker 2: Mkay Because Ben Crenshaw sent something from Christen and arrived

1176
00:55:27,719 --> 00:55:31,120
Speaker 2: wrapped in like the Augusta National Golf Club like paper.

1177
00:55:31,440 --> 00:55:33,640
Speaker 1: Crenshaw sent me a gift from Augusta.

1178
00:55:33,800 --> 00:55:35,680
Speaker 2: I felt it was like watching a little kid on.

1179
00:55:35,640 --> 00:55:38,800
Speaker 1: Christmas morning and it came with a card from Augusta National.

1180
00:55:38,920 --> 00:55:42,680
Speaker 1: It's like it was. It was very, very very special.

1181
00:55:43,239 --> 00:55:45,040
Speaker 1: And so there were some you know, some other.

1182
00:55:45,280 --> 00:55:47,040
Speaker 2: Who do you think is the best dance moves in

1183
00:55:47,080 --> 00:55:49,640
Speaker 2: Bachelor Nation or even of any of our wedding games.

1184
00:55:49,680 --> 00:55:53,799
Speaker 1: You know, guys, I'm probably gonna go Bob Guiney. Bob

1185
00:55:53,840 --> 00:55:54,640
Speaker 1: Guinny because.

1186
00:55:54,520 --> 00:55:56,960
Speaker 2: You know, and it used to being a man rhythm.

1187
00:55:57,120 --> 00:56:00,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, cheating a little bit. You know. If Andrew Firestone,

1188
00:56:00,480 --> 00:56:02,680
Speaker 1: we're there because we danced with Andrew at the Private Way.

1189
00:56:02,760 --> 00:56:04,399
Speaker 2: Andrew Firestone does not have good dance.

1190
00:56:04,480 --> 00:56:06,080
Speaker 1: So I'm gonna say Bob Guiney. That's why I was saying,

1191
00:56:06,080 --> 00:56:08,680
Speaker 1: Andrew puts the energy out there, but Bob Guiney is

1192
00:56:08,800 --> 00:56:09,759
Speaker 1: legit Andrew.

1193
00:56:10,200 --> 00:56:13,400
Speaker 2: Andrew's doing the robot, but Bob's really dancing ladies.

1194
00:56:13,520 --> 00:56:15,920
Speaker 1: Man, I don't know who crushed it the most.

1195
00:56:16,480 --> 00:56:19,160
Speaker 2: Sarah Hyland was out there. Oh my god, Sarah did

1196
00:56:19,200 --> 00:56:21,919
Speaker 2: not stop either. Thank you, Sarah. You know you guys

1197
00:56:21,920 --> 00:56:24,560
Speaker 2: know we love Sarah and Wells. They always bring the party.

1198
00:56:24,560 --> 00:56:26,920
Speaker 2: And Sarah Hyland is in like so many of the pictures,

1199
00:56:26,960 --> 00:56:27,919
Speaker 2: just dancing so hard.

1200
00:56:27,960 --> 00:56:30,600
Speaker 1: I really to say about Sarah, I'll out her on

1201
00:56:30,680 --> 00:56:33,440
Speaker 1: this if you think someone like that is going to

1202
00:56:33,520 --> 00:56:36,799
Speaker 1: be like upp aty Hollywood and shy. Uh huh. She

1203
00:56:37,000 --> 00:56:40,040
Speaker 1: was out there mixing it, talks with everybody, talks to everybody.

1204
00:56:40,080 --> 00:56:42,719
Speaker 2: She is everybody. And all the Bachelor crew did there.

1205
00:56:42,760 --> 00:56:45,640
Speaker 2: You know, they're just wonderful people. Jojo dancing hard too.

1206
00:56:46,120 --> 00:56:48,520
Speaker 2: You know it was great everybody.

1207
00:56:48,200 --> 00:56:52,040
Speaker 1: Which Garry Patterson, former TCU legend, he was there. Appreciate

1208
00:56:52,120 --> 00:56:54,439
Speaker 1: him and uh maybe two of the most important people.

1209
00:56:54,440 --> 00:56:59,160
Speaker 1: Our lawyers were there. Shout out to Brian Friedman, who

1210
00:56:59,160 --> 00:57:01,520
Speaker 1: may have paid for that wedding. We appreciate you, pal.

1211
00:57:01,640 --> 00:57:03,920
Speaker 2: Wait did you make that joke too? I went up

1212
00:57:03,920 --> 00:57:05,880
Speaker 2: to and I said he was so cute. I mean,

1213
00:57:05,920 --> 00:57:08,759
Speaker 2: he's the sweetest man and the best attorney. And I said, Brian,

1214
00:57:08,800 --> 00:57:10,919
Speaker 2: we're so happy to be here and we probably maybe

1215
00:57:10,920 --> 00:57:17,760
Speaker 2: we couldn't have paid for this wedding without you, you know,

1216
00:57:17,800 --> 00:57:20,480
Speaker 2: we speaking of I think for some reason, we're always

1217
00:57:21,040 --> 00:57:26,000
Speaker 2: drama potential aware. Yeah we have Brian was your lawyer.

1218
00:57:26,640 --> 00:57:28,520
Speaker 2: He is your lawyer, but that was for sort of

1219
00:57:28,520 --> 00:57:30,920
Speaker 2: a period of time. We have another attorney and we

1220
00:57:31,040 --> 00:57:33,000
Speaker 2: put them at the same table. But we texted them

1221
00:57:33,000 --> 00:57:35,120
Speaker 2: both just to say, hey, like, do you guys know

1222
00:57:35,200 --> 00:57:37,640
Speaker 2: each other? We didn't know. You know, I don't know

1223
00:57:37,640 --> 00:57:39,720
Speaker 2: about lawyer drama. Maybe they've gone up against each other

1224
00:57:39,720 --> 00:57:41,320
Speaker 2: in court. But luckily they were good to go.

1225
00:57:41,720 --> 00:57:44,320
Speaker 1: And so we danced into the wee hours of the night. Again.

1226
00:57:44,800 --> 00:57:47,160
Speaker 1: The theme was they finally had to shut it down.

1227
00:57:48,040 --> 00:57:49,960
Speaker 2: There was you know, I guess, like any wedding, there

1228
00:57:50,080 --> 00:57:53,320
Speaker 2: was some raucous drama and I like when the guests

1229
00:57:53,360 --> 00:57:55,840
Speaker 2: all those stories keep petering in. There was one guy

1230
00:57:55,880 --> 00:57:57,960
Speaker 2: who we had a guest who got thrown out of

1231
00:57:57,960 --> 00:57:59,160
Speaker 2: a bathroom for smoking weed.

1232
00:58:00,040 --> 00:58:01,520
Speaker 1: Oh really, yes, we did hear that.

1233
00:58:01,760 --> 00:58:03,720
Speaker 2: Oh okay, breaking the news to you now. Yeah, the

1234
00:58:03,760 --> 00:58:05,920
Speaker 2: staff asked him to please. I don't know why he

1235
00:58:05,960 --> 00:58:07,400
Speaker 2: wasn't just outside, we were on a ranch.

1236
00:58:08,200 --> 00:58:10,640
Speaker 1: I can I give you another shout out. Here's what

1237
00:58:10,640 --> 00:58:14,000
Speaker 1: I love about Lauren about people attending our wedding. If

1238
00:58:14,000 --> 00:58:16,080
Speaker 1: you've been following her on social media, you know she

1239
00:58:16,160 --> 00:58:19,240
Speaker 1: is an Orange theorist. She loves Orange Theory. I do

1240
00:58:19,320 --> 00:58:22,760
Speaker 1: love and she goes there so often. She invited our

1241
00:58:22,840 --> 00:58:24,080
Speaker 1: Orange Theory coaches.

1242
00:58:24,440 --> 00:58:25,680
Speaker 2: I invited to both of them.

1243
00:58:25,720 --> 00:58:28,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, Montana and Sean came to our wedding. We had

1244
00:58:28,560 --> 00:58:29,680
Speaker 1: our Orange Theory coaches.

1245
00:58:29,920 --> 00:58:31,160
Speaker 2: I love them. I see them every day.

1246
00:58:31,240 --> 00:58:34,040
Speaker 1: This is Lauren Zema. If you come into her life,

1247
00:58:34,200 --> 00:58:38,000
Speaker 1: be careful. You are in our lives. You are family

1248
00:58:38,080 --> 00:58:38,439
Speaker 1: with us.

1249
00:58:38,840 --> 00:58:41,120
Speaker 2: I adore them. I see them every day. They're so supportive.

1250
00:58:41,360 --> 00:58:42,560
Speaker 2: Sean loves Harry Potter too.

1251
00:58:42,560 --> 00:58:44,720
Speaker 1: And Sean responsible for your wedding body.

1252
00:58:44,840 --> 00:58:47,320
Speaker 2: I mean, yes, well, thank you to Orange Theory and Sean.

1253
00:58:47,400 --> 00:58:49,280
Speaker 1: Oh, thank you to Orange Theory.

1254
00:58:49,400 --> 00:58:51,360
Speaker 2: Sean danced with my mom. It was very soon good.

1255
00:58:51,560 --> 00:58:52,440
Speaker 1: Your mom loves him.

1256
00:58:52,600 --> 00:58:56,160
Speaker 2: He's about six six five four, so it was very cute.

1257
00:58:56,320 --> 00:59:00,320
Speaker 1: And then maybe the best moment of the night. At

1258
00:59:00,360 --> 00:59:01,960
Speaker 1: the end of the night, we had one more sh wait.

1259
00:59:02,000 --> 00:59:03,720
Speaker 2: Wow, I don't know where you're going with this, we had.

1260
00:59:03,600 --> 00:59:08,440
Speaker 1: One more surprise for everybody. The truck rolled up. Oh well,

1261
00:59:08,760 --> 00:59:12,600
Speaker 1: this is just fun. Tifts Treats who we love. If

1262
00:59:12,600 --> 00:59:15,240
Speaker 1: you've seen us post about this too, Tifts Treats they

1263
00:59:15,280 --> 00:59:19,120
Speaker 1: deliver like warm cookies to your door with milk. We

1264
00:59:19,160 --> 00:59:21,920
Speaker 1: reached out and they said, we are gonna send the truck.

1265
00:59:22,000 --> 00:59:24,920
Speaker 1: They sent the TIFFs Treats truck. So as everybody was

1266
00:59:25,000 --> 00:59:27,360
Speaker 1: leaving and heading back to their cars or getting in

1267
00:59:27,400 --> 00:59:29,520
Speaker 1: the vans that we sent and the buses. So everybody

1268
00:59:29,520 --> 00:59:32,960
Speaker 1: get home safely and nobody drove. You got a warm

1269
00:59:33,160 --> 00:59:37,120
Speaker 1: chocolate chip cookie or double chocolate cookie and cold milk.

1270
00:59:37,280 --> 00:59:39,200
Speaker 2: What better way to end the night than by taking

1271
00:59:39,240 --> 00:59:40,439
Speaker 2: home a warm chocolate chip cookie.

1272
00:59:41,720 --> 00:59:42,280
Speaker 1: Lost it.

1273
00:59:54,200 --> 00:59:56,600
Speaker 2: Another great part of the night the photo booth. Listen,

1274
00:59:57,320 --> 00:59:59,200
Speaker 2: I did know, you know, we have some people this

1275
00:59:59,240 --> 01:00:01,040
Speaker 2: wedding and like a good photo. We had to get

1276
01:00:01,040 --> 01:00:03,680
Speaker 2: the glam photo booth. So thank you to Oh Happy

1277
01:00:03,760 --> 01:00:06,479
Speaker 2: Day Photo booth for making everybody look beautiful. I said,

1278
01:00:06,480 --> 01:00:08,080
Speaker 2: I want that one where it's like black and white

1279
01:00:08,120 --> 01:00:09,720
Speaker 2: and the lighting is amazing and everybody looks press.

1280
01:00:09,720 --> 01:00:13,240
Speaker 1: I ask a question, Yeah, so whose idea was it? Not?

1281
01:00:13,240 --> 01:00:15,160
Speaker 1: Not the photo booth, but whose idea was it to

1282
01:00:15,360 --> 01:00:18,120
Speaker 1: print out an extra photo and that was our wedding book.

1283
01:00:18,200 --> 01:00:21,560
Speaker 1: So everybody got a photo of themselves in the photo booth,

1284
01:00:21,720 --> 01:00:24,000
Speaker 1: but then another picture would print out and you taped

1285
01:00:24,000 --> 01:00:26,760
Speaker 1: it into our book, and then everybody sign next to us.

1286
01:00:26,760 --> 01:00:27,520
Speaker 2: It was so awesome.

1287
01:00:27,640 --> 01:00:29,680
Speaker 1: I have no idea where that idea came from either.

1288
01:00:29,760 --> 01:00:32,000
Speaker 2: Maybe it was your wonderful assistant Karen. Maybe it's o

1289
01:00:32,120 --> 01:00:35,040
Speaker 2: happy photo booth, but that I don't think there's a

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Speaker 2: better guest book because you have a picture to remember

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Speaker 2: who wrote everything in case you're not friends with them

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Speaker 2: In twenty years.

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Speaker 1: I ended up jumping into a bunch of the photos

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Speaker 1: with it was really.

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Speaker 2: Maybe you jumped into photos. I can't believe it. You

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Speaker 2: know what he tell me, you know, he told me

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Speaker 2: this morning, guys, we're going, and we're now. We've been

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Speaker 2: holding off all day Sunday. We did not post anything.

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Speaker 2: We just shared People magazines breaking news story about the wedding,

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Speaker 2: and thank you to People magazine for the beautiful coverage.

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Speaker 2: They did a great job of sharing our wedding for

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Speaker 2: the first time.

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Speaker 1: Thank you for the solid journalism. That's something that means they.

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Speaker 2: Really checked it with me a lot, and I really

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Speaker 2: appreciated it. So then we we on Sunday, we had

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Speaker 2: a family and friends brunch and I don't want to

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Speaker 2: get ahead at myself, but we don't even need to

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Speaker 2: get into that because it was just we were so exhausted,

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Speaker 2: but it was great to see everyone. But so Sunday

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Speaker 2: we didn't post anything. We go to post stuff on Monday,

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Speaker 2: which is when we're filming this, and Chris tells me, oh, yeah, well,

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Speaker 2: I got to look through all my selfies. I'm like,

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Speaker 2: I'm sorry. He's like, yeah, I took a bunch of

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Speaker 2: selfies with everybody all night. I said I didn't. I

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Speaker 2: was on the dance floor starting the party. Oh I

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Speaker 2: so we's got all these great photos.

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Speaker 1: But you know here's the thing. I didn't even have

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Speaker 1: my phone in Napa. It was totally off limits. I

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01:01:47,480 --> 01:01:49,320
Speaker 1: didn't touch it, I didn't look at it. I just

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Speaker 1: wanted to be one hundred percent present, and I knew

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Speaker 1: people were videoing and taking pictures, but again the casual

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01:01:55,440 --> 01:01:58,560
Speaker 1: nature of wedding number two, I just I kept my

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01:01:58,560 --> 01:01:59,760
Speaker 1: phone on me, and all of a sudden, we just

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Speaker 1: start popping some selfies. That's good, and I had friends there.

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Speaker 2: You know, though, I probably in your defense, I would

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01:02:05,160 --> 01:02:07,080
Speaker 2: have taken more photos. The dress I was wearing didn't

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01:02:07,120 --> 01:02:10,440
Speaker 2: have a pocket. My wedding dress, my bigger ceremony dress

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01:02:10,560 --> 01:02:12,480
Speaker 2: had a pocket, so my phone all night love a

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Speaker 2: dress with pockets.

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Speaker 1: And Austin was great because I had friends there from

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01:02:15,800 --> 01:02:18,800
Speaker 1: high school, actually from grade school. You probably my oldest friend.

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Speaker 1: You know, Brett and I have been friends since twelve

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Speaker 1: years old. So my extended family cousins. You had extended

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Speaker 1: family there. Again, the circle was big. It wasn't just

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Speaker 1: Bachtero Nation people or major champions. It was this great

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Speaker 1: blending of our new friends here in Austin are our

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01:02:36,080 --> 01:02:40,680
Speaker 1: neighborhood crew here that came and so it just it again.

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Speaker 1: The atmosphere was perfect. Everybody just had a great time.

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Speaker 2: We had such a great time that we were supposed

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01:02:48,640 --> 01:02:51,360
Speaker 2: to be done by eleven. We didn't.

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Speaker 1: We got home at two.

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Speaker 2: Well, we did not stop dancing until almost midnight. I

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01:02:56,360 --> 01:02:59,520
Speaker 2: actually was worried. I was relieved the next day because

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01:02:59,560 --> 01:03:01,560
Speaker 2: people told me, oh, no, I took the shuttle home.

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01:03:01,640 --> 01:03:03,720
Speaker 2: We had shuttles back to the hotels, but we were

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01:03:03,760 --> 01:03:05,240
Speaker 2: so late. I didn't know if people made it on

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01:03:05,280 --> 01:03:08,080
Speaker 2: the shuttles, some people didn't, some people had to get ubers,

1348
01:03:08,440 --> 01:03:10,800
Speaker 2: and uh, you know, I'll bring it back around and say,

1349
01:03:11,280 --> 01:03:13,760
Speaker 2: maybe it was the full circle moment of their healing journey.

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01:03:13,960 --> 01:03:16,200
Speaker 2: As we were walking out, Caitlin and Jason were there

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01:03:16,200 --> 01:03:18,400
Speaker 2: waiting for a uber together. Yeah, although I don't think

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01:03:18,400 --> 01:03:20,720
Speaker 2: the uber together. Trista was there too, but they were

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01:03:20,720 --> 01:03:22,520
Speaker 2: waiting together and talking and that made me happy.

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01:03:22,600 --> 01:03:26,400
Speaker 1: And again so it just it was a beautiful, cathartic,

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01:03:27,320 --> 01:03:29,720
Speaker 1: lovely event. And then start de finished and the.

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Speaker 2: Bachelor folks held on. I think Jojo was there waiting

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01:03:31,800 --> 01:03:34,600
Speaker 2: for an uber. Nobody left early and that made me

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01:03:34,720 --> 01:03:37,120
Speaker 2: so happy. Everybody at the wedding was there till the end.

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Speaker 1: Standing by my truck at the end of the night

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Speaker 1: was Trista, Jojo and there was who else. There's one

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Speaker 1: other I got And I should have taken a picture

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01:03:47,160 --> 01:03:49,920
Speaker 1: of this because we had one bottle of champagne left

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01:03:50,120 --> 01:03:52,080
Speaker 1: and so we're in the parking lot. We popped the

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01:03:52,080 --> 01:03:55,400
Speaker 1: bottle of champagne. We had TIFs treats cookies, and we

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01:03:55,400 --> 01:03:57,680
Speaker 1: were the four of us were just passing around a

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01:03:57,680 --> 01:03:58,520
Speaker 1: bottle of champagne.

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Speaker 2: Where was I.

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01:03:59,560 --> 01:04:01,480
Speaker 1: You walked up and you wouldn't you? You kind of

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01:04:01,520 --> 01:04:03,920
Speaker 1: just I think I knew I was done. But we

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01:04:03,920 --> 01:04:06,560
Speaker 1: were just passing around the bottle, drinking straight from the bottle,

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01:04:06,800 --> 01:04:09,760
Speaker 1: eating cookies. And that's how the night ended. Was was

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Speaker 1: with them, and you know, Trista would grabbed the bottle

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01:04:12,600 --> 01:04:15,520
Speaker 1: Jojo and we were just laughing and sharing stories and

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Speaker 1: they were the last ones in the parking lot with

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Speaker 1: me at two in the morning. We were just talking

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Speaker 1: about the night and just talking about dancing and you know,

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01:04:23,400 --> 01:04:27,240
Speaker 1: and then reminiscing. And you know, Jordan unfortunately couldn't be

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01:04:27,280 --> 01:04:30,400
Speaker 1: there with Jojo because he's knee deep in football season.

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01:04:30,480 --> 01:04:33,680
Speaker 1: He's doing amazing coverage. Good job, Jordan, so he couldn't

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01:04:33,680 --> 01:04:36,080
Speaker 1: be there. So Jojo was solo along with Trista, so

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Speaker 1: they were kind of hanging out. But it was just

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Speaker 1: a cool way to end the night of you know,

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01:04:40,840 --> 01:04:42,560
Speaker 1: the bloom was off the roads, so to speak, and

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01:04:42,560 --> 01:04:44,200
Speaker 1: we were just kind of drinking straight from the bottle

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Speaker 1: and having a great time.

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Speaker 2: Speaking of the bloom being off the rose. Yes, let's

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01:04:48,960 --> 01:04:51,000
Speaker 2: out ourselves and see how we really ended the night.

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Speaker 2: Chris Harrison and I cleaned.

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01:04:53,440 --> 01:04:54,760
Speaker 1: Up our own wedding we did.

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01:04:55,080 --> 01:04:56,920
Speaker 2: We went back in there, him in his suit, me

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01:04:56,920 --> 01:04:59,000
Speaker 2: and my dress and my boots, and we were putting

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Speaker 2: flowers in the truck and and we were helping clear

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01:05:02,360 --> 01:05:05,000
Speaker 2: off the tables, and we had the kids were there

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01:05:05,040 --> 01:05:07,720
Speaker 2: helping us, My family was there helping us. This was

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01:05:08,440 --> 01:05:12,040
Speaker 2: a listen we wanted. I don't know's I'm a Midwestern

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Speaker 2: and I wanted.

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Speaker 1: To the left over alcohol. And by the way, not

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Speaker 1: much of it, because the Peiju champagne went very quickly,

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Speaker 1: as did the Catherine Hall wine. Our thanks to Catherine

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01:05:21,880 --> 01:05:23,640
Speaker 1: Hall and the crew over there at Hall who have

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01:05:23,680 --> 01:05:25,400
Speaker 1: been very good friends of ours, provided.

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Speaker 2: The wine and great wine.

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01:05:26,120 --> 01:05:28,320
Speaker 1: And oh, everybody's like, are you kidding me? We're drinking

1404
01:05:28,760 --> 01:05:32,680
Speaker 1: Jack's masterpiece Haull Wines rich or wedding, Like what is.

1405
01:05:32,680 --> 01:05:35,800
Speaker 2: This Chris wine? Even in Austin, even though we had now,

1406
01:05:35,840 --> 01:05:37,160
Speaker 2: but he had to have good wine.

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01:05:37,320 --> 01:05:39,680
Speaker 1: My rule still applies, no matter even if it's a

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01:05:39,720 --> 01:05:43,160
Speaker 1: big event. Life's too short to drink crappy wine. So

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01:05:43,240 --> 01:05:45,520
Speaker 1: we were piling stuff in the back of my truck,

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01:05:45,560 --> 01:05:47,640
Speaker 1: all the flowers and all that stuff had to come home.

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01:05:48,320 --> 01:05:51,600
Speaker 1: But and then we we left as we came in

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Speaker 1: my truck together.

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01:05:53,160 --> 01:05:55,960
Speaker 2: You know what else, Slave's too short for to not

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01:05:56,000 --> 01:05:57,160
Speaker 2: have a happy marriage.

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Speaker 1: I love you.

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01:05:58,280 --> 01:06:02,160
Speaker 2: I love you too, and I could feel more confident,

1417
01:06:02,440 --> 01:06:08,400
Speaker 2: at peace, happy, overjoyed. It's so it's sort of weird

1418
01:06:08,400 --> 01:06:11,640
Speaker 2: to do these podcasts because I feel like in these episodes,

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01:06:11,640 --> 01:06:13,320
Speaker 2: I told Chris, I feel nervous. We're just going to

1420
01:06:13,400 --> 01:06:15,439
Speaker 2: be going on and on about ourselves for a while.

1421
01:06:15,640 --> 01:06:18,080
Speaker 2: But part of the reason we wanted to do this

1422
01:06:18,640 --> 01:06:21,480
Speaker 2: is we really wanted to share with you all just

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01:06:21,640 --> 01:06:24,120
Speaker 2: how grateful and happy we are, and to thank you

1424
01:06:24,200 --> 01:06:27,600
Speaker 2: for being supportive of our love story as you have

1425
01:06:27,680 --> 01:06:31,600
Speaker 2: been for the last five years, and now it's only

1426
01:06:31,680 --> 01:06:36,800
Speaker 2: just beginning. So I'm everything went so perfect in Napa

1427
01:06:36,840 --> 01:06:43,560
Speaker 2: and in Austin. I don't even really I feel so lucky.

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01:06:43,760 --> 01:06:47,040
Speaker 2: I don't know what I did to deserve these two

1429
01:06:47,120 --> 01:06:51,720
Speaker 2: beautiful experiences where nothing went wrong. I'm so grateful. But

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01:06:51,800 --> 01:06:54,880
Speaker 2: most importantly, and this is the rule I continue to

1431
01:06:54,880 --> 01:07:00,200
Speaker 2: go by, I would have married you in that back

1432
01:07:00,240 --> 01:07:02,280
Speaker 2: Ali where we were loading stuff into your pickup truck.

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01:07:02,440 --> 01:07:04,680
Speaker 2: I would have married you anywhere. But I'm so grateful

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01:07:04,680 --> 01:07:06,040
Speaker 2: that we had the weddings that we did.

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Speaker 1: I love you and nothing more need be said than that.

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Speaker 1: That's what we will end on. We love you all,

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01:07:13,720 --> 01:07:16,320
Speaker 1: Thank you for your support, thank you for being with us.

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01:07:16,320 --> 01:07:19,680
Speaker 1: We are going to have one more wedding episode and

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01:07:19,720 --> 01:07:23,080
Speaker 1: it's your questions. What did you want to know about

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01:07:23,320 --> 01:07:27,080
Speaker 1: all of our weddings and the celebrations, So stick around.

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Speaker 1: That'll be coming up in a future episode. But until then,

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Speaker 1: I'll talk to you next time because we have a

1443
01:07:32,640 --> 01:07:35,440
Speaker 1: lot more to talk about. Thanks for listening. Follow us

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01:07:35,440 --> 01:07:38,280
Speaker 1: on Instagram at the most Dramatic pod ever and make

1445
01:07:38,320 --> 01:07:40,680
Speaker 1: sure to write us a review and leave us five stars.

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Speaker 1: I'll talk to you next time.