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Speaker 1: Welcome to PM mood, the no Talking Points, no Bullshit

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Speaker 1: podcast that takes you behind the curtain, off the red carpet,

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Speaker 1: and to the front lines of progress with change makers

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Speaker 1: and innovators that are doing the work to shift our

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Speaker 1: culture and expand our social impact. I am so excited

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Speaker 1: to welcome to PM Mood Khalila Wright, who is the

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Speaker 1: founder and CEO of the expressive brand Meth in a Bottle.

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Speaker 1: I love Mess in a Bottle so much. If you

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Speaker 1: are not following them on Instagram, you should because the

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Speaker 1: quotes are funny, are insightful, are amazing. Khalila, Welcome to

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Speaker 1: PM Mood. Hi, thank you guys so much for having me.

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Speaker 1: So you are Jamaican, I am. I was born in

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Speaker 1: Jamaica and I migrated to the United States around five

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Speaker 1: years old. So I'm Jamaican. I don't know that. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: my parents came to the United States in nineteen seventy

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Speaker 1: so I was born in the States, but they Jamaican. Jamaican,

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Speaker 1: So you can up yourself. Yes, I love it. I

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Speaker 1: love it. So tell me about the idea behind Mess

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Speaker 1: and a Bottle. You are this incredible black woman entrepreneur.

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Speaker 1: Tell me how Mess and a bottle came to be

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Speaker 1: so mess and a Bottle we started in twenty sixteen

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Speaker 1: and in twenty fifteen the Freddy Gray Riots here in Baltimore, Maryland.

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Speaker 1: I really just wanted to figure out a way of

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Speaker 1: being expressive. And you know, after the Freddy Gray Riots,

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Speaker 1: people were kind of walking around like almost on shore

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Speaker 1: of how to say how they felt. And I think

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Speaker 1: that the riots made people a bit stifled, like they

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Speaker 1: didn't have a voice. So I created mess in a

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Speaker 1: Bottle as a way of giving a voice to the

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Speaker 1: voice less. And so I just started creating messages and

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Speaker 1: putting them on T shirts and people were very intrigued

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Speaker 1: and they were like, this is how I feel, Thank

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Speaker 1: you for saying it. So, you know, that was my

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Speaker 1: way of being able to give a voice to the

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Speaker 1: voice less and getting people to say something without saying

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Speaker 1: anything at all. I love the fact that your products

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Speaker 1: come in a bottle. Yes, tell me about that, because

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Speaker 1: that's so interesting. And one of the things that I

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Speaker 1: followed as I was following your Instagram was your first

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Speaker 1: just thought this was, like, your concepts are so cool,

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Speaker 1: So tell me about how well about the idea of

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Speaker 1: putting the products, putting the shirts and everything inside of

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Speaker 1: an actual bottle. Well, that happens because I am an

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Speaker 1: architect and designer by trade, and I used to work

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Speaker 1: for under Armour. And while I was at under Armour,

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Speaker 1: I was listening to music and I had no idea

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Speaker 1: who the person was, what the album was. But when

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Speaker 1: I looked down at the screen, it was an album

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Speaker 1: called Surf from Chance to Wrapper and it had you know,

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Speaker 1: it was like a bottle in the ocean, in the sands,

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Speaker 1: and it was like a message in a bottle. And

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Speaker 1: it just really quick that these messages that I was

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Speaker 1: And so this was my way of kind of giving

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Speaker 1: a form of communication in the twenty first century way

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Speaker 1: of like this three hundred and ten DC concepts of

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Speaker 1: receiving a message in the ocean. And so, you know,

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Speaker 1: I decided, I was like, okay, I want to name

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Speaker 1: the company message in a bottle. But of course, you know,

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Speaker 1: brand wise, there's a lot of messages. Ian quickly realized

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Speaker 1: that I'm a mess, Like this is a mess is

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Speaker 1: company Mess in a Bottle, and I was like, okay, well,

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Speaker 1: you know, such a mess and a bottle, you gotta

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Speaker 1: have it in a bottle. So initially when we started out,

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Speaker 1: we did these glass bottles from Ikea with like a

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Speaker 1: manufacturing our own plastic bottles. And that is how Mess

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Speaker 1: and a Bottle was birth. I just I love it

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Speaker 1: so much because, you know, it conjures up memories of

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Speaker 1: my childhood going to the beach. I grew up on

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Speaker 1: Like I literally did this was you know, before we

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Speaker 1: understood you know, pollution is bad, but I did. I

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Speaker 1: I was so excited for you and for your brand

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Speaker 1: when Serena Williams wore one of your jackets, Queen what it? Queen?

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Speaker 1: Don't be afraid to rule like a king. Tell me

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Speaker 1: about that particular message. And then also you're feeling that

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Speaker 1: So you know, the whole evolution of Serena, it's quite

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Speaker 1: You know, I had a run in with her at

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Speaker 1: And then I have a really good friend who's now

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Speaker 1: a friend, Bozoma Saint John. She is great friends with Serena,

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Speaker 1: and so Bozoma had on my queens don't be afraid

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Speaker 1: And that is exactly how the connection happened. And so

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Speaker 1: It's really a message that's saying like the strength of

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Speaker 1: Don't apologize for that, be unapologetic. So I think that

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Speaker 1: how the vending machine also played into part. I did

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Speaker 1: so how did you make that or do you feel

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Speaker 1: like it's even a transition from designer of buildings right

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Speaker 1: So those are all things that architecture really has helped me,

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Speaker 1: I just think that that's extraordinary, the fact that you

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Speaker 1: just think that that's so incredibly cool. As a black

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Speaker 1: then within our sector, it just feels like we aren't

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Speaker 1: and I'm four years you know, we've been in business

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Speaker 1: So yes, I did. Yeah, that's extraordinary. That's that Jamaican

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