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Speaker 3: Second date up dated.
Speaker 4: Here's a dilemma you might face in the dating world.
Speaker 4: Let's say you have.
Speaker 5: A hot date scheduled okay, but the day of you
Speaker 5: are just out of it, whether you're sick, or you're
Speaker 5: jet lagged, or just depressed because.
Speaker 4: Of what happened on Love Island earlier, whatever it is.
Speaker 4: You know you're not in the best shape. Do you cancel,
Speaker 4: you reschedule? Do you ask a friend to sub in
Speaker 4: that night for you?
Speaker 3: There's a lot of things you could do. But yeah,
Speaker 3: I wasn't.
Speaker 4: But I bring it up because one of our listeners
Speaker 4: knew he wasn't in peak form for date night, and
Speaker 4: now he needs our help. His name is Laurence So Lawrence,
Speaker 4: welcome to the show.
Speaker 6: Hey, thanks for having me.
Speaker 2: Yeah, Bro, zero to one hundred, Where are you at
Speaker 2: right now?
Speaker 6: I'm like twenty nineteen.
Speaker 2: Oh you're still wow.
Speaker 3: Most people don't.
Speaker 4: Brook doesn't normally ask people to rate the selves on
Speaker 4: attractiveness on a scale of one, But you know.
Speaker 2: It was like how he was, oh, okay.
Speaker 3: Okay, before we move on a scale of one to
Speaker 3: ten thousand. Al Right, enough with the rating scales.
Speaker 4: Tell us you said in your email that you knew
Speaker 4: you weren't in the best form the night of your day.
Speaker 3: Why did you say that?
Speaker 7: So the day before I had gotten back from this
Speaker 7: bachelor party in Vegas.
Speaker 6: It was crazy.
Speaker 2: No, you were you were hungover. I feel wayless bad.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm sorry.
Speaker 2: This is different.
Speaker 1: Why would you schedule a date the day after a
Speaker 1: bachelor party?
Speaker 7: Yeah, because I really thought this girl was cute and
Speaker 7: I thought it was my only shot.
Speaker 6: I really just wanted to meet her where she was at.
Speaker 1: And you were going to be a responsible guy at
Speaker 1: the bachelor party in Vegas.
Speaker 6: Yeah, it was a plan, but obviously I didn't follow
Speaker 6: it through.
Speaker 1: It seems like when you have a plates class in
Speaker 1: the morning after a night out, you know, you're like,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna make it.
Speaker 2: So there's more at steak when it comes to a
Speaker 2: day plus are expensive.
Speaker 4: Yeah, But at the same time, if you feel like
Speaker 4: this is my one chance to actually go out with
Speaker 4: this really cool person, you're not going to skip or
Speaker 4: like pass on it.
Speaker 3: You're going to do whatever it takes.
Speaker 6: Yeah.
Speaker 4: So I get why you would go out with her,
Speaker 4: But the Vegas thing from the night before, you were
Speaker 4: sleep deprived, that's what you were trying to tell him
Speaker 4: on top.
Speaker 7: Of ye over, Yeah, took forever to get a ride
Speaker 7: home from the airport.
Speaker 6: When I finally get home, I.
Speaker 7: Ended up staying up editing my fantasy baseball lineup, which
Speaker 7: was not a good choice.
Speaker 4: Hey, dude, you know I just took one too, so
Speaker 4: I don't blame him at all.
Speaker 3: Guys, I half an hour to.
Speaker 6: Edit your lineup.
Speaker 2: The sympathy I had is gone now.
Speaker 1: Jeff set it up like you were gonna get really
Speaker 1: sick or something out of your control happened.
Speaker 3: Yeah, well, maybe stayed up all night.
Speaker 2: Do we know?
Speaker 3: Maybe he was sick on top of all of this.
Speaker 6: Look, I came in last place last year. That can't
Speaker 6: be CAUs.
Speaker 3: Okay, okay, girls, you can understand.
Speaker 2: This is so dumb.
Speaker 7: And then I finally get to sleep and my dog
Speaker 7: woke me up in the middle of the night for
Speaker 7: no reason.
Speaker 2: I'll complain.
Speaker 4: So tell us what did you do with April? What
Speaker 4: was your date idea?
Speaker 6: I ended up taking her to do a bowling alley.
Speaker 7: I did it on purpose because it was annoys me,
Speaker 7: and you know, I wanted to get some of my
Speaker 7: energy up, and I took some of the focus off
Speaker 7: of me.
Speaker 1: I mean, the thing is you can have a couple
Speaker 1: of beers feel a little bit better. You thought, you know,
Speaker 1: like you don't have to be the entertainment because you're not.
Speaker 6: Up for that right exactly.
Speaker 1: You know, as soon as she turns around to throw
Speaker 1: a strike, you could just.
Speaker 2: Take a little nap.
Speaker 3: So tell us how how was the vibe between you
Speaker 3: and April?
Speaker 7: It was good? If I remembered anything that she said,
Speaker 7: or like anything betimes inside of my eye.
Speaker 1: Okay, anytime someone says it was good. But I don't
Speaker 1: remember anything she said.
Speaker 6: I'm exaggerating a little bit. I remember some of it,
Speaker 6: but I being really tired and not being best.
Speaker 2: Okay, what do you remember?
Speaker 8: I remember we ended up having some greasy food, had
Speaker 8: some laugh and then after that we left and I
Speaker 8: was walking out of the bowling at alley and as
Speaker 8: she was leaving, I guess she thought I was funny
Speaker 8: or something, so she was like, do you want to
Speaker 8: get another drink somewhere else?
Speaker 2: Okay, sign, that's a great sign.
Speaker 6: And my mouth said yes, but my body was like
Speaker 6: hell no.
Speaker 4: She could just tell yeah, my mouth does stuff that
Speaker 4: my brain never agrees to you all the time, so
Speaker 4: I'm I.
Speaker 3: Know, but you know, it's life.
Speaker 4: Okay, So now you're going out for another drink even
Speaker 4: though you don't really feel up for it, or did
Speaker 4: you go? Yeah?
Speaker 6: No, we went out for another drink.
Speaker 7: We went to this too little bourbon bar that she's
Speaker 7: been dying to go to, and we had a couple
Speaker 7: more drinks.
Speaker 1: Is this a moment of regret like things had gone well,
Speaker 1: you should have just chopped it up to a victory.
Speaker 6: Yeah, that would have been smart.
Speaker 7: I just wanted to do anything that she suggested because
Speaker 7: she was so cute.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Did she know you were at a bachelor party the
Speaker 2: night before?
Speaker 6: No?
Speaker 7: I didn't tell her that because I didn't want her
Speaker 7: to get the wrong idea about what we were doing there.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, why would that be the I don't get it.
Speaker 6: It was chill. We just played pop golf and dragged.
Speaker 8: But honestly, that's not.
Speaker 6: What people think of when they say bachelor party.
Speaker 3: Right, lots of glitter at those talk golf places. It
Speaker 3: gets on your your He's really tired.
Speaker 4: So anyway, let's fast forward to the end. When you
Speaker 4: and April left from each other.
Speaker 3: How did that go?
Speaker 7: So we were leaving the little bourbon bar, and I
Speaker 7: walked her to her car.
Speaker 6: And we had a nice hug and that felt good.
Speaker 7: And then I went home and I slept for fifteen hours.
Speaker 3: My god, wow, so good.
Speaker 6: Yeah, it really, it felt so good.
Speaker 7: But then when I woke up and I texted her,
Speaker 7: she didn't answer. And then she hasn't answered me since. Okay,
Speaker 7: that's why I contacted you guys, so you can call
Speaker 7: her and find out what's up.
Speaker 1: And she hasn't even gotten full you you know night
Speaker 1: that night when you're on it's gonna be great.
Speaker 3: Yeah, let's do that for you. We're gonna reach out
Speaker 3: to April.
Speaker 4: You get about three minutes to take a quick nap,
Speaker 4: so you're at one hundred percent when we come back. Everybody, Yeah,
Speaker 4: we'll all do it, and then full energy for our
Speaker 4: second date update when we continue right after this hold
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Speaker 4: But if you missed it, our listener, Lawrence was dead
Speaker 4: tired going into his date night with April after his
Speaker 4: bachelor party experience, but he powered through and the hangout
Speaker 4: at the bowling alley and the bourbon bar was fun,
Speaker 4: at least the parts that he can remember from that.
Speaker 4: But we're gonna try and step up and save it
Speaker 4: for him.
Speaker 6: He is the deal, guys. April super cute.
Speaker 7: I don't know if I did something wrong or if
Speaker 7: she got back together with like an action or something.
Speaker 2: Okay, I don't think that's it, my man. I mean.
Speaker 1: I think that maybe a good area of growth for
Speaker 1: you would be maybe admitting when you made a mistake.
Speaker 3: It's a second date update, not a therapy. Well, I just.
Speaker 1: Say he played victim a lot to those fantasy baseball teams, victim.
Speaker 2: To the bachelor.
Speaker 1: Nothing is more unattractive than someone playing victim of stuff
Speaker 1: like that. I am with you there, like, those are
Speaker 1: your choices, and you made bad ones and that's fine.
Speaker 6: And maybe I made a bad decision coming to this.
Speaker 6: I don't need to hear this from my mom.
Speaker 2: Okay, slow it down. You opened my thoughts, and that
Speaker 2: was my honest thoughts.
Speaker 4: Well, maybe you can sugarcoat them a little bit for
Speaker 4: our lovely listeners.
Speaker 1: If people want advice, they need to be open to criticism.
Speaker 2: Anyone that comes on our show does know, all right?
Speaker 6: You know? Bottom line, I don't think she knew I
Speaker 6: was tired. I think it's something else, something else that
Speaker 6: did wrong.
Speaker 3: Ruely. Okay, there we go.
Speaker 1: All right, see, and that's being open and I appreciate
Speaker 1: there's other options.
Speaker 4: It's the optimism that we've been waiting for for the
Speaker 4: first three minutes.
Speaker 3: Now, let's just dial your date, April.
Speaker 4: We'll see if she answers, and hopefully we can get
Speaker 4: some information out of her.
Speaker 3: Here we go dialing you right now. Hello, Hey, is
Speaker 3: this April?
Speaker 7: Does is she? Who's this?
Speaker 3: Hey? April?
Speaker 4: We're actually an entire morning radio show called Brook and
Speaker 4: Jeffrey in the Morning.
Speaker 2: Hey, welcome to the show April.
Speaker 9: Good morning, Hi am, I only a right now.
Speaker 4: You sure are with the most positive and optimistic, uplifting
Speaker 4: show that you will ever talk to.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what we're known for.
Speaker 9: It is Okay, what's going on?
Speaker 6: What is this?
Speaker 4: Well, this is a segment that we do called second
Speaker 4: Date Update. I don't know if you've ever heard of
Speaker 4: that before, but basically it's where we try to help
Speaker 4: our listeners get back in touch with somebody after going
Speaker 4: on a great first date with them.
Speaker 2: Well, I mean, we hope that it's great.
Speaker 4: Okay, Sorry, I didn't say who who you went out
Speaker 4: with the other night. It's one of our our friends
Speaker 4: named Lawrence.
Speaker 3: Ah, okay, right, you guys went bowling. Oh she means
Speaker 3: that not sarcastically anyway.
Speaker 2: I didn't actually mean sarcasm, though it sounded like a
Speaker 2: fun night.
Speaker 4: We're wondering to get your perspective on how the whole
Speaker 4: evening went.
Speaker 1: The fine, mostly fine, mostly fine, okay, okay, like mostly fine.
Speaker 2: Like I'm planning on calling him back.
Speaker 9: I mean, I don't know, I just I'm mostly like.
Speaker 9: This is kind of strange to be like blasting out
Speaker 9: on the radio, you know what I mean?
Speaker 4: Yeah, and all we're really looking for is to help
Speaker 4: out Lawrence because he is a little bit confused.
Speaker 9: Okay, well, I mean, look, most of the date was positive.
Speaker 9: He's a fun guy, he's cute, good okay, but I
Speaker 9: mean I'm surprised that he doesn't know, Like I mean,
Speaker 9: I think there was a point where we kind of
Speaker 9: at least I definitely couldn't and I thought he probably
Speaker 9: also felt we could not come back from.
Speaker 2: Oh oh.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you can't come back from Could you tell us
Speaker 1: more about that?
Speaker 9: It's pretty bad?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 9: All right, Well we went out to you know whatever,
Speaker 9: We're out for the whole night, and he walks me
Speaker 9: to my car.
Speaker 2: Okay, this is the very very end of the evening.
Speaker 9: It's the very end of the evening, and I like
Speaker 9: things had gone well. We were certainly flirty and.
Speaker 2: At that point where you're like hoping for a kiss
Speaker 2: or like.
Speaker 9: How well, that's the vibe I was getting for sure.
Speaker 9: And then we get to my car and he just
Speaker 9: kind of stands there and I'm like, okay, I'll make
Speaker 9: the first move. I lean in to kiss him, and
Speaker 9: he was very like what I thought was polite, like
Speaker 9: just like being very gentle and he's just kind of
Speaker 9: like not really doing too much with the kissing, and
Speaker 9: then it's kind of just like not much.
Speaker 8: As happy at all.
Speaker 6: And then my eyes well, yeah.
Speaker 9: You could say that, because when I opened my eyes,
Speaker 9: I realized that he's sleeping. He has fallen asleep.
Speaker 2: Oh wait, standing up.
Speaker 9: I mean he was kind of leaning against my cars.
Speaker 6: But he was out.
Speaker 4: He fell asleep mid kiss.
Speaker 2: Focused a lot. When did he wake up?
Speaker 9: When I was like, dude, are you asleep? And then
Speaker 9: he just kind of like opened his eyes and laughed
Speaker 9: a little bit and was like, okay, see ya.
Speaker 6: Oh god, yeah, this is a little awkward. But are
Speaker 6: we kidding?
Speaker 5: Okay, yeah, wait is that him?
Speaker 9: Yes?
Speaker 3: Sorry.
Speaker 4: The way the segment works is we have the other
Speaker 4: person waiting on hold on the other line to talk
Speaker 4: to you, and normally we call them in.
Speaker 3: But you had to say something, Lawrence, Are.
Speaker 9: You joking me right now? He's been listening this whole time.
Speaker 2: He needed to hear it. He really did.
Speaker 3: He doesn't even remember kissing you, Lawrence. You didn't bring
Speaker 3: up anything about a first kiss when we talked to.
Speaker 6: You because I thought it was a super long hug.
Speaker 6: I don't know, Oh.
Speaker 9: My god, This is exactly This is exactly what I'm
Speaker 9: talking about. This is humiliating.
Speaker 2: It's embarrassing to him. Not to you, it's actually impressive. Yeah, Laurence,
Speaker 2: you've got to explain to her.
Speaker 6: Oh oh, here's what you don't know.
Speaker 7: Okay, Oh God to a batchelor party the night before
Speaker 7: in Vegas, and then when I got back finally, I
Speaker 7: was up until like four in the morning editing my
Speaker 7: fantasy baseball.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 6: I didn't really get a lot of rest the night before,
Speaker 6: but I just.
Speaker 8: Thought you were so cute and funny and I just
Speaker 8: wanted to power through.
Speaker 6: I really liked you, and I'm sorry, and okay, okay,
Speaker 6: it wasn't my best.
Speaker 3: All right, that was a lot.
Speaker 4: I was expecting you to say that much. But April,
Speaker 4: do you hear what he's saying. He was exhausted from
Speaker 4: a long trip before.
Speaker 9: Yeah, I mean, I'm hearing him. It sounds like he's
Speaker 9: super responsible. I mean fantasy baseball priorities. No, I get it.
Speaker 2: Well, he showed up.
Speaker 4: Yeah, it was so important for him to meet you that,
Speaker 4: despite how tired he was, he was willing to do
Speaker 4: this anyway.
Speaker 1: That's a good angle, know, if we can spin it
Speaker 1: that way. I mean I think more is that he
Speaker 1: made a mistake and he would love a redo, right
Speaker 1: because he he screwed it up.
Speaker 6: Well, I didn't kiss there better than I thought, so
Speaker 6: I didn't really screw that.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean ninety percent of the date was awesome.
Speaker 7: You don't remember the kiss.
Speaker 9: You definitely don't get to count it. And no, you're
Speaker 9: not getting like points for that at all.
Speaker 1: She said you were a bad kisser, dude, because you're
Speaker 1: basically like kissing a dead person.
Speaker 3: Well, she was the one who initiated the kiss.
Speaker 6: I was a dead person.
Speaker 7: But the next time I will be fully a lot.
Speaker 9: I mean, he did have pretty nice lips.
Speaker 4: But still, you did stick around for a very long
Speaker 4: time with a very tired man. Just imagine how great
Speaker 4: he's gonna be when he's fully rested at one hundred percent, right,
Speaker 4: be a bowling.
Speaker 2: I actually, Jeff on that.
Speaker 1: I mean, like you wanted that kiss at the end
Speaker 1: of the night. I mean, sure it was the death
Speaker 1: of the date, but if you could redo it, it may
Speaker 1: be great.
Speaker 4: I bet on the next date he'll even let you
Speaker 4: change his fantasy baseball lineup for him.
Speaker 3: No, that is not cool.
Speaker 4: Well, Okay, you know, okay, maybe that's date three material,
Speaker 4: but we are interested in date number two, April.
Speaker 3: He's not lying.
Speaker 4: We really want you to go out with him again,
Speaker 4: and we'll pay for it if you say yes.
Speaker 9: I mean, can you promise that you're gonna get a
Speaker 9: full night's sleep? And like, never ever tell anybody besides
Speaker 9: everybody that's listening to the show that you fell asleep
Speaker 9: during our first kiss.
Speaker 2: Would be a great story.
Speaker 6: I will not do that again.
Speaker 3: All right.
Speaker 9: The promise is there, April, all right, but I'm not
Speaker 9: paying for a single thing, not one single thing.
Speaker 4: Okay, you're like all the women that we have on
Speaker 4: this show. Awesome, congratulations you two, you're going out again.
Speaker 4: Day Alexis, do you approve of this couple?
Speaker 1: You?
Speaker 2: You would like a wreck like him?
Speaker 3: Brooking Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 2: Brooking Jeffrey in the morning.