1 00:00:00,160 --> 00:00:02,080 Speaker 1: Hey, it's a Second Date podcast. We got a brand 2 00:00:02,120 --> 00:00:04,320 Speaker 1: new one for you today with Brooke and Jeffrey. Of course, 3 00:00:04,360 --> 00:00:05,960 Speaker 1: we are the home of the Second Date Update. 4 00:00:06,120 --> 00:00:08,240 Speaker 2: I just gotta say that the. 5 00:00:08,200 --> 00:00:11,039 Speaker 1: End of today's date may be the most shocking thing 6 00:00:11,080 --> 00:00:11,840 Speaker 1: we've ever heard. 7 00:00:12,200 --> 00:00:13,200 Speaker 3: Really, I don't know. 8 00:00:13,560 --> 00:00:15,320 Speaker 2: It's just like I don't know who I'm more upset 9 00:00:15,360 --> 00:00:18,640 Speaker 2: for her or him? Yeah I'm messy or both of them. 10 00:00:18,880 --> 00:00:22,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, So definitely stay till the end because it will 11 00:00:22,200 --> 00:00:23,040 Speaker 1: reward you. 12 00:00:23,520 --> 00:00:23,680 Speaker 2: Now. 13 00:00:24,560 --> 00:00:27,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, we got a great message on our Instagram, actually 14 00:00:27,920 --> 00:00:30,760 Speaker 1: from Leah. She DMed us and said, hey, I found 15 00:00:30,760 --> 00:00:32,760 Speaker 1: your show on TikTok a few months back and started 16 00:00:32,760 --> 00:00:36,720 Speaker 1: listening to the Second Date updates every single one I 17 00:00:36,760 --> 00:00:41,320 Speaker 1: could find online. Yes, oh, didn't think it could get better. 18 00:00:41,400 --> 00:00:44,120 Speaker 1: But the new episodes with the friendly vibe and the 19 00:00:44,120 --> 00:00:45,879 Speaker 1: four of you is so nice to listen to. 20 00:00:46,120 --> 00:00:47,000 Speaker 4: Yeah. 21 00:00:47,040 --> 00:00:49,159 Speaker 2: So, hey, thanks for being here and sticking with us 22 00:00:49,159 --> 00:00:50,640 Speaker 2: through it all. So listen. 23 00:00:50,760 --> 00:00:52,640 Speaker 1: We love it when you like. Subscribe, and don't forget. 24 00:00:52,680 --> 00:00:54,720 Speaker 1: We got that second eight merch for sale. It's only 25 00:00:54,760 --> 00:00:56,760 Speaker 1: for a limited time, so do not live and regret. 26 00:00:57,240 --> 00:00:59,880 Speaker 1: Click the link in the show notes and order. Now 27 00:01:00,080 --> 00:01:01,600 Speaker 1: let's get your second day started. 28 00:01:02,120 --> 00:01:03,440 Speaker 3: Second date up dated. 29 00:01:04,720 --> 00:01:07,319 Speaker 4: Here's a dilemma you might face in the dating world. 30 00:01:07,760 --> 00:01:08,800 Speaker 4: Let's say you have. 31 00:01:08,800 --> 00:01:12,600 Speaker 5: A hot date scheduled okay, but the day of you 32 00:01:12,640 --> 00:01:16,520 Speaker 5: are just out of it, whether you're sick, or you're 33 00:01:16,680 --> 00:01:19,440 Speaker 5: jet lagged, or just depressed because. 34 00:01:19,240 --> 00:01:22,360 Speaker 4: Of what happened on Love Island earlier, whatever it is. 35 00:01:22,440 --> 00:01:26,160 Speaker 4: You know you're not in the best shape. Do you cancel, 36 00:01:26,600 --> 00:01:29,560 Speaker 4: you reschedule? Do you ask a friend to sub in 37 00:01:29,680 --> 00:01:30,480 Speaker 4: that night for you? 38 00:01:31,880 --> 00:01:34,679 Speaker 3: There's a lot of things you could do. But yeah, 39 00:01:35,680 --> 00:01:36,160 Speaker 3: I wasn't. 40 00:01:37,120 --> 00:01:39,280 Speaker 4: But I bring it up because one of our listeners 41 00:01:39,319 --> 00:01:43,319 Speaker 4: knew he wasn't in peak form for date night, and 42 00:01:43,400 --> 00:01:46,840 Speaker 4: now he needs our help. His name is Laurence So Lawrence, 43 00:01:46,880 --> 00:01:47,600 Speaker 4: welcome to the show. 44 00:01:48,040 --> 00:01:49,160 Speaker 6: Hey, thanks for having me. 45 00:01:49,280 --> 00:01:51,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, Bro, zero to one hundred, Where are you at 46 00:01:51,680 --> 00:01:52,040 Speaker 2: right now? 47 00:01:53,160 --> 00:01:55,360 Speaker 6: I'm like twenty nineteen. 48 00:01:55,520 --> 00:01:57,440 Speaker 2: Oh you're still wow. 49 00:01:57,600 --> 00:01:58,240 Speaker 3: Most people don't. 50 00:01:58,400 --> 00:02:00,760 Speaker 4: Brook doesn't normally ask people to rate the selves on 51 00:02:00,800 --> 00:02:03,840 Speaker 4: attractiveness on a scale of one, But you know. 52 00:02:05,520 --> 00:02:08,120 Speaker 2: It was like how he was, oh, okay. 53 00:02:07,800 --> 00:02:09,640 Speaker 3: Okay, before we move on a scale of one to 54 00:02:09,720 --> 00:02:13,760 Speaker 3: ten thousand. Al Right, enough with the rating scales. 55 00:02:13,840 --> 00:02:15,960 Speaker 4: Tell us you said in your email that you knew 56 00:02:15,960 --> 00:02:18,359 Speaker 4: you weren't in the best form the night of your day. 57 00:02:18,760 --> 00:02:19,720 Speaker 3: Why did you say that? 58 00:02:20,280 --> 00:02:22,320 Speaker 7: So the day before I had gotten back from this 59 00:02:22,440 --> 00:02:24,040 Speaker 7: bachelor party in Vegas. 60 00:02:24,200 --> 00:02:25,119 Speaker 6: It was crazy. 61 00:02:26,720 --> 00:02:29,600 Speaker 2: No, you were you were hungover. I feel wayless bad. 62 00:02:29,760 --> 00:02:31,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm sorry. 63 00:02:31,400 --> 00:02:32,080 Speaker 2: This is different. 64 00:02:32,160 --> 00:02:34,639 Speaker 1: Why would you schedule a date the day after a 65 00:02:34,680 --> 00:02:35,720 Speaker 1: bachelor party? 66 00:02:35,960 --> 00:02:39,080 Speaker 7: Yeah, because I really thought this girl was cute and 67 00:02:39,160 --> 00:02:40,720 Speaker 7: I thought it was my only shot. 68 00:02:41,440 --> 00:02:44,920 Speaker 6: I really just wanted to meet her where she was at. 69 00:02:44,800 --> 00:02:47,079 Speaker 1: And you were going to be a responsible guy at 70 00:02:47,080 --> 00:02:48,560 Speaker 1: the bachelor party in Vegas. 71 00:02:49,200 --> 00:02:51,440 Speaker 6: Yeah, it was a plan, but obviously I didn't follow 72 00:02:51,440 --> 00:02:51,720 Speaker 6: it through. 73 00:02:52,680 --> 00:02:54,160 Speaker 1: It seems like when you have a plates class in 74 00:02:54,160 --> 00:02:56,280 Speaker 1: the morning after a night out, you know, you're like, 75 00:02:56,320 --> 00:02:57,120 Speaker 1: I'm gonna make it. 76 00:02:57,120 --> 00:02:59,000 Speaker 2: So there's more at steak when it comes to a 77 00:02:59,080 --> 00:03:00,400 Speaker 2: day plus are expensive. 78 00:03:00,680 --> 00:03:02,840 Speaker 4: Yeah, But at the same time, if you feel like 79 00:03:02,919 --> 00:03:05,480 Speaker 4: this is my one chance to actually go out with 80 00:03:05,520 --> 00:03:07,960 Speaker 4: this really cool person, you're not going to skip or 81 00:03:08,080 --> 00:03:08,720 Speaker 4: like pass on it. 82 00:03:08,840 --> 00:03:10,040 Speaker 3: You're going to do whatever it takes. 83 00:03:10,120 --> 00:03:10,360 Speaker 6: Yeah. 84 00:03:10,440 --> 00:03:12,560 Speaker 4: So I get why you would go out with her, 85 00:03:12,840 --> 00:03:15,640 Speaker 4: But the Vegas thing from the night before, you were 86 00:03:15,680 --> 00:03:17,400 Speaker 4: sleep deprived, that's what you were trying to tell him 87 00:03:17,560 --> 00:03:18,160 Speaker 4: on top. 88 00:03:17,960 --> 00:03:20,760 Speaker 7: Of ye over, Yeah, took forever to get a ride 89 00:03:20,760 --> 00:03:21,640 Speaker 7: home from the airport. 90 00:03:21,720 --> 00:03:23,520 Speaker 6: When I finally get home, I. 91 00:03:23,680 --> 00:03:27,440 Speaker 7: Ended up staying up editing my fantasy baseball lineup, which 92 00:03:27,480 --> 00:03:28,680 Speaker 7: was not a good choice. 93 00:03:28,680 --> 00:03:30,640 Speaker 4: Hey, dude, you know I just took one too, so 94 00:03:30,680 --> 00:03:31,680 Speaker 4: I don't blame him at all. 95 00:03:31,760 --> 00:03:33,240 Speaker 3: Guys, I half an hour to. 96 00:03:33,240 --> 00:03:33,880 Speaker 6: Edit your lineup. 97 00:03:33,919 --> 00:03:35,720 Speaker 2: The sympathy I had is gone now. 98 00:03:35,840 --> 00:03:37,320 Speaker 1: Jeff set it up like you were gonna get really 99 00:03:37,360 --> 00:03:39,440 Speaker 1: sick or something out of your control happened. 100 00:03:41,160 --> 00:03:42,840 Speaker 3: Yeah, well, maybe stayed up all night. 101 00:03:42,960 --> 00:03:43,440 Speaker 2: Do we know? 102 00:03:44,120 --> 00:03:45,840 Speaker 3: Maybe he was sick on top of all of this. 103 00:03:46,320 --> 00:03:48,920 Speaker 6: Look, I came in last place last year. That can't 104 00:03:49,320 --> 00:03:50,000 Speaker 6: be CAUs. 105 00:03:50,160 --> 00:03:52,240 Speaker 3: Okay, okay, girls, you can understand. 106 00:03:52,520 --> 00:03:53,520 Speaker 2: This is so dumb. 107 00:03:53,560 --> 00:03:56,280 Speaker 7: And then I finally get to sleep and my dog 108 00:03:56,320 --> 00:03:57,640 Speaker 7: woke me up in the middle of the night for 109 00:03:57,720 --> 00:03:58,240 Speaker 7: no reason. 110 00:04:00,000 --> 00:04:00,600 Speaker 2: I'll complain. 111 00:04:00,720 --> 00:04:03,200 Speaker 4: So tell us what did you do with April? What 112 00:04:03,280 --> 00:04:04,200 Speaker 4: was your date idea? 113 00:04:04,560 --> 00:04:06,880 Speaker 6: I ended up taking her to do a bowling alley. 114 00:04:07,120 --> 00:04:08,920 Speaker 7: I did it on purpose because it was annoys me, 115 00:04:09,040 --> 00:04:10,640 Speaker 7: and you know, I wanted to get some of my 116 00:04:10,840 --> 00:04:12,920 Speaker 7: energy up, and I took some of the focus off 117 00:04:12,960 --> 00:04:13,160 Speaker 7: of me. 118 00:04:15,920 --> 00:04:17,599 Speaker 1: I mean, the thing is you can have a couple 119 00:04:17,600 --> 00:04:21,000 Speaker 1: of beers feel a little bit better. You thought, you know, 120 00:04:21,279 --> 00:04:23,920 Speaker 1: like you don't have to be the entertainment because you're not. 121 00:04:24,080 --> 00:04:25,760 Speaker 6: Up for that right exactly. 122 00:04:26,240 --> 00:04:28,280 Speaker 1: You know, as soon as she turns around to throw 123 00:04:28,320 --> 00:04:29,240 Speaker 1: a strike, you could just. 124 00:04:29,240 --> 00:04:30,080 Speaker 2: Take a little nap. 125 00:04:32,000 --> 00:04:34,480 Speaker 3: So tell us how how was the vibe between you 126 00:04:34,560 --> 00:04:35,120 Speaker 3: and April? 127 00:04:35,520 --> 00:04:38,360 Speaker 7: It was good? If I remembered anything that she said, 128 00:04:38,640 --> 00:04:41,280 Speaker 7: or like anything betimes inside of my eye. 129 00:04:41,560 --> 00:04:43,840 Speaker 1: Okay, anytime someone says it was good. But I don't 130 00:04:43,839 --> 00:04:45,119 Speaker 1: remember anything she said. 131 00:04:45,360 --> 00:04:47,880 Speaker 6: I'm exaggerating a little bit. I remember some of it, 132 00:04:47,920 --> 00:04:51,080 Speaker 6: but I being really tired and not being best. 133 00:04:51,480 --> 00:04:53,440 Speaker 2: Okay, what do you remember? 134 00:04:54,800 --> 00:04:57,960 Speaker 8: I remember we ended up having some greasy food, had 135 00:04:58,000 --> 00:05:00,640 Speaker 8: some laugh and then after that we left and I 136 00:05:00,680 --> 00:05:03,480 Speaker 8: was walking out of the bowling at alley and as 137 00:05:03,520 --> 00:05:05,479 Speaker 8: she was leaving, I guess she thought I was funny 138 00:05:05,560 --> 00:05:06,960 Speaker 8: or something, so she was like, do you want to 139 00:05:06,960 --> 00:05:08,640 Speaker 8: get another drink somewhere else? 140 00:05:08,920 --> 00:05:11,960 Speaker 2: Okay, sign, that's a great sign. 141 00:05:12,440 --> 00:05:15,479 Speaker 6: And my mouth said yes, but my body was like 142 00:05:15,640 --> 00:05:16,000 Speaker 6: hell no. 143 00:05:17,560 --> 00:05:20,160 Speaker 4: She could just tell yeah, my mouth does stuff that 144 00:05:20,240 --> 00:05:22,440 Speaker 4: my brain never agrees to you all the time, so 145 00:05:22,960 --> 00:05:24,520 Speaker 4: I'm I. 146 00:05:24,520 --> 00:05:25,839 Speaker 3: Know, but you know, it's life. 147 00:05:26,200 --> 00:05:28,480 Speaker 4: Okay, So now you're going out for another drink even 148 00:05:28,520 --> 00:05:30,360 Speaker 4: though you don't really feel up for it, or did 149 00:05:30,360 --> 00:05:31,120 Speaker 4: you go? Yeah? 150 00:05:31,400 --> 00:05:32,839 Speaker 6: No, we went out for another drink. 151 00:05:32,880 --> 00:05:35,479 Speaker 7: We went to this too little bourbon bar that she's 152 00:05:35,520 --> 00:05:38,159 Speaker 7: been dying to go to, and we had a couple 153 00:05:38,200 --> 00:05:38,880 Speaker 7: more drinks. 154 00:05:39,160 --> 00:05:42,039 Speaker 1: Is this a moment of regret like things had gone well, 155 00:05:42,120 --> 00:05:44,360 Speaker 1: you should have just chopped it up to a victory. 156 00:05:45,000 --> 00:05:46,839 Speaker 6: Yeah, that would have been smart. 157 00:05:47,600 --> 00:05:50,719 Speaker 7: I just wanted to do anything that she suggested because 158 00:05:50,720 --> 00:05:51,760 Speaker 7: she was so cute. 159 00:05:51,880 --> 00:05:52,960 Speaker 3: Yeah. 160 00:05:53,000 --> 00:05:54,960 Speaker 2: Did she know you were at a bachelor party the 161 00:05:55,040 --> 00:05:55,479 Speaker 2: night before? 162 00:05:56,000 --> 00:05:56,200 Speaker 6: No? 163 00:05:56,360 --> 00:05:58,280 Speaker 7: I didn't tell her that because I didn't want her 164 00:05:58,279 --> 00:06:00,400 Speaker 7: to get the wrong idea about what we were doing there. 165 00:06:00,520 --> 00:06:05,120 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, why would that be the I don't get it. 166 00:06:05,120 --> 00:06:08,280 Speaker 6: It was chill. We just played pop golf and dragged. 167 00:06:08,520 --> 00:06:10,880 Speaker 8: But honestly, that's not. 168 00:06:11,000 --> 00:06:13,560 Speaker 6: What people think of when they say bachelor party. 169 00:06:13,520 --> 00:06:16,080 Speaker 3: Right, lots of glitter at those talk golf places. It 170 00:06:16,120 --> 00:06:22,440 Speaker 3: gets on your your He's really tired. 171 00:06:22,480 --> 00:06:26,320 Speaker 4: So anyway, let's fast forward to the end. When you 172 00:06:26,440 --> 00:06:28,040 Speaker 4: and April left from each other. 173 00:06:28,080 --> 00:06:28,640 Speaker 3: How did that go? 174 00:06:29,279 --> 00:06:32,480 Speaker 7: So we were leaving the little bourbon bar, and I 175 00:06:32,560 --> 00:06:33,920 Speaker 7: walked her to her car. 176 00:06:34,360 --> 00:06:37,119 Speaker 6: And we had a nice hug and that felt good. 177 00:06:37,440 --> 00:06:40,239 Speaker 7: And then I went home and I slept for fifteen hours. 178 00:06:41,400 --> 00:06:44,720 Speaker 3: My god, wow, so good. 179 00:06:44,880 --> 00:06:46,920 Speaker 6: Yeah, it really, it felt so good. 180 00:06:47,000 --> 00:06:49,120 Speaker 7: But then when I woke up and I texted her, 181 00:06:49,320 --> 00:06:53,520 Speaker 7: she didn't answer. And then she hasn't answered me since. Okay, 182 00:06:54,120 --> 00:06:56,400 Speaker 7: that's why I contacted you guys, so you can call 183 00:06:56,440 --> 00:06:57,760 Speaker 7: her and find out what's up. 184 00:06:58,480 --> 00:07:03,720 Speaker 1: And she hasn't even gotten full you you know night 185 00:07:03,960 --> 00:07:06,679 Speaker 1: that night when you're on it's gonna be great. 186 00:07:06,760 --> 00:07:09,200 Speaker 3: Yeah, let's do that for you. We're gonna reach out 187 00:07:09,200 --> 00:07:09,680 Speaker 3: to April. 188 00:07:09,720 --> 00:07:12,000 Speaker 4: You get about three minutes to take a quick nap, 189 00:07:12,040 --> 00:07:16,000 Speaker 4: so you're at one hundred percent when we come back. Everybody, Yeah, 190 00:07:16,000 --> 00:07:18,680 Speaker 4: we'll all do it, and then full energy for our 191 00:07:18,760 --> 00:07:21,160 Speaker 4: second date update when we continue right after this hold 192 00:07:21,200 --> 00:07:26,400 Speaker 4: on Second Date update. 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April super cute. 213 00:08:22,320 --> 00:08:24,320 Speaker 7: I don't know if I did something wrong or if 214 00:08:24,360 --> 00:08:26,920 Speaker 7: she got back together with like an action or something. 215 00:08:27,360 --> 00:08:30,200 Speaker 2: Okay, I don't think that's it, my man. I mean. 216 00:08:31,880 --> 00:08:35,200 Speaker 1: I think that maybe a good area of growth for 217 00:08:35,320 --> 00:08:38,680 Speaker 1: you would be maybe admitting when you made a mistake. 218 00:08:39,400 --> 00:08:42,160 Speaker 3: It's a second date update, not a therapy. Well, I just. 219 00:08:42,200 --> 00:08:46,840 Speaker 1: Say he played victim a lot to those fantasy baseball teams, victim. 220 00:08:46,559 --> 00:08:47,240 Speaker 2: To the bachelor. 221 00:08:47,280 --> 00:08:50,080 Speaker 1: Nothing is more unattractive than someone playing victim of stuff 222 00:08:50,120 --> 00:08:51,720 Speaker 1: like that. I am with you there, like, those are 223 00:08:51,760 --> 00:08:54,600 Speaker 1: your choices, and you made bad ones and that's fine. 224 00:08:54,600 --> 00:08:56,640 Speaker 6: And maybe I made a bad decision coming to this. 225 00:08:56,840 --> 00:08:58,880 Speaker 6: I don't need to hear this from my mom. 226 00:08:59,080 --> 00:09:03,439 Speaker 2: Okay, slow it down. You opened my thoughts, and that 227 00:09:03,640 --> 00:09:04,480 Speaker 2: was my honest thoughts. 228 00:09:04,600 --> 00:09:06,760 Speaker 4: Well, maybe you can sugarcoat them a little bit for 229 00:09:06,840 --> 00:09:07,880 Speaker 4: our lovely listeners. 230 00:09:08,080 --> 00:09:11,760 Speaker 1: If people want advice, they need to be open to criticism. 231 00:09:11,920 --> 00:09:13,959 Speaker 2: Anyone that comes on our show does know, all right? 232 00:09:14,040 --> 00:09:16,240 Speaker 6: You know? Bottom line, I don't think she knew I 233 00:09:16,280 --> 00:09:18,920 Speaker 6: was tired. I think it's something else, something else that 234 00:09:19,080 --> 00:09:19,560 Speaker 6: did wrong. 235 00:09:19,720 --> 00:09:21,319 Speaker 3: Ruely. Okay, there we go. 236 00:09:21,440 --> 00:09:24,280 Speaker 1: All right, see, and that's being open and I appreciate 237 00:09:24,400 --> 00:09:25,760 Speaker 1: there's other options. 238 00:09:25,760 --> 00:09:28,240 Speaker 4: It's the optimism that we've been waiting for for the 239 00:09:28,240 --> 00:09:29,040 Speaker 4: first three minutes. 240 00:09:29,080 --> 00:09:30,760 Speaker 3: Now, let's just dial your date, April. 241 00:09:30,760 --> 00:09:33,480 Speaker 4: We'll see if she answers, and hopefully we can get 242 00:09:33,480 --> 00:09:34,440 Speaker 4: some information out of her. 243 00:09:34,480 --> 00:09:47,200 Speaker 3: Here we go dialing you right now. Hello, Hey, is 244 00:09:47,200 --> 00:09:47,720 Speaker 3: this April? 245 00:09:49,000 --> 00:09:49,840 Speaker 7: Does is she? Who's this? 246 00:09:50,200 --> 00:09:50,760 Speaker 3: Hey? April? 247 00:09:50,960 --> 00:09:53,920 Speaker 4: We're actually an entire morning radio show called Brook and 248 00:09:53,960 --> 00:09:55,040 Speaker 4: Jeffrey in the Morning. 249 00:09:55,240 --> 00:09:57,200 Speaker 2: Hey, welcome to the show April. 250 00:09:57,240 --> 00:10:00,480 Speaker 9: Good morning, Hi am, I only a right now. 251 00:10:00,920 --> 00:10:05,640 Speaker 4: You sure are with the most positive and optimistic, uplifting 252 00:10:05,720 --> 00:10:07,040 Speaker 4: show that you will ever talk to. 253 00:10:07,400 --> 00:10:08,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what we're known for. 254 00:10:09,080 --> 00:10:11,160 Speaker 9: It is Okay, what's going on? 255 00:10:11,200 --> 00:10:11,680 Speaker 6: What is this? 256 00:10:11,760 --> 00:10:13,800 Speaker 4: Well, this is a segment that we do called second 257 00:10:13,840 --> 00:10:16,000 Speaker 4: Date Update. I don't know if you've ever heard of 258 00:10:16,000 --> 00:10:18,200 Speaker 4: that before, but basically it's where we try to help 259 00:10:18,200 --> 00:10:21,320 Speaker 4: our listeners get back in touch with somebody after going 260 00:10:21,360 --> 00:10:23,920 Speaker 4: on a great first date with them. 261 00:10:26,679 --> 00:10:30,839 Speaker 2: Well, I mean, we hope that it's great. 262 00:10:31,880 --> 00:10:35,959 Speaker 4: Okay, Sorry, I didn't say who who you went out 263 00:10:35,960 --> 00:10:37,680 Speaker 4: with the other night. It's one of our our friends 264 00:10:37,760 --> 00:10:38,520 Speaker 4: named Lawrence. 265 00:10:39,679 --> 00:10:47,120 Speaker 3: Ah, okay, right, you guys went bowling. Oh she means 266 00:10:47,160 --> 00:10:49,240 Speaker 3: that not sarcastically anyway. 267 00:10:49,559 --> 00:10:53,360 Speaker 2: I didn't actually mean sarcasm, though it sounded like a 268 00:10:53,440 --> 00:10:53,839 Speaker 2: fun night. 269 00:10:53,880 --> 00:10:56,480 Speaker 4: We're wondering to get your perspective on how the whole 270 00:10:56,480 --> 00:10:57,040 Speaker 4: evening went. 271 00:10:59,240 --> 00:11:04,520 Speaker 1: The fine, mostly fine, mostly fine, okay, okay, like mostly fine. 272 00:11:04,559 --> 00:11:06,280 Speaker 2: Like I'm planning on calling him back. 273 00:11:07,160 --> 00:11:08,760 Speaker 9: I mean, I don't know, I just I'm mostly like. 274 00:11:08,840 --> 00:11:10,719 Speaker 9: This is kind of strange to be like blasting out 275 00:11:10,760 --> 00:11:11,760 Speaker 9: on the radio, you know what I mean? 276 00:11:13,720 --> 00:11:16,520 Speaker 4: Yeah, and all we're really looking for is to help 277 00:11:16,559 --> 00:11:19,200 Speaker 4: out Lawrence because he is a little bit confused. 278 00:11:20,600 --> 00:11:25,040 Speaker 9: Okay, well, I mean, look, most of the date was positive. 279 00:11:25,120 --> 00:11:28,760 Speaker 9: He's a fun guy, he's cute, good okay, but I 280 00:11:28,760 --> 00:11:32,320 Speaker 9: mean I'm surprised that he doesn't know, Like I mean, 281 00:11:32,360 --> 00:11:34,640 Speaker 9: I think there was a point where we kind of 282 00:11:35,440 --> 00:11:38,120 Speaker 9: at least I definitely couldn't and I thought he probably 283 00:11:38,200 --> 00:11:39,800 Speaker 9: also felt we could not come back from. 284 00:11:40,240 --> 00:11:40,680 Speaker 2: Oh oh. 285 00:11:42,880 --> 00:11:45,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, you can't come back from Could you tell us 286 00:11:46,160 --> 00:11:46,840 Speaker 1: more about that? 287 00:11:47,520 --> 00:11:48,400 Speaker 9: It's pretty bad? 288 00:11:52,559 --> 00:11:53,280 Speaker 3: Yeah? 289 00:11:53,360 --> 00:11:56,880 Speaker 9: All right, Well we went out to you know whatever, 290 00:11:56,920 --> 00:11:59,120 Speaker 9: We're out for the whole night, and he walks me 291 00:11:59,360 --> 00:12:00,280 Speaker 9: to my car. 292 00:12:00,480 --> 00:12:02,840 Speaker 2: Okay, this is the very very end of the evening. 293 00:12:03,320 --> 00:12:04,760 Speaker 9: It's the very end of the evening, and I like 294 00:12:04,800 --> 00:12:07,240 Speaker 9: things had gone well. We were certainly flirty and. 295 00:12:07,559 --> 00:12:09,400 Speaker 2: At that point where you're like hoping for a kiss 296 00:12:09,559 --> 00:12:10,240 Speaker 2: or like. 297 00:12:10,200 --> 00:12:12,440 Speaker 9: How well, that's the vibe I was getting for sure. 298 00:12:13,000 --> 00:12:15,240 Speaker 9: And then we get to my car and he just 299 00:12:15,320 --> 00:12:18,200 Speaker 9: kind of stands there and I'm like, okay, I'll make 300 00:12:18,200 --> 00:12:21,959 Speaker 9: the first move. I lean in to kiss him, and 301 00:12:22,720 --> 00:12:25,200 Speaker 9: he was very like what I thought was polite, like 302 00:12:25,360 --> 00:12:28,160 Speaker 9: just like being very gentle and he's just kind of 303 00:12:28,200 --> 00:12:31,120 Speaker 9: like not really doing too much with the kissing, and 304 00:12:31,160 --> 00:12:33,400 Speaker 9: then it's kind of just like not much. 305 00:12:33,280 --> 00:12:34,000 Speaker 8: As happy at all. 306 00:12:34,600 --> 00:12:37,239 Speaker 6: And then my eyes well, yeah. 307 00:12:37,240 --> 00:12:39,120 Speaker 9: You could say that, because when I opened my eyes, 308 00:12:39,240 --> 00:12:43,079 Speaker 9: I realized that he's sleeping. He has fallen asleep. 309 00:12:43,120 --> 00:12:44,760 Speaker 2: Oh wait, standing up. 310 00:12:45,160 --> 00:12:48,120 Speaker 9: I mean he was kind of leaning against my cars. 311 00:12:47,800 --> 00:12:49,200 Speaker 6: But he was out. 312 00:12:49,400 --> 00:12:56,120 Speaker 4: He fell asleep mid kiss. 313 00:12:55,960 --> 00:12:59,240 Speaker 2: Focused a lot. When did he wake up? 314 00:12:59,640 --> 00:13:02,760 Speaker 9: When I was like, dude, are you asleep? And then 315 00:13:02,800 --> 00:13:04,360 Speaker 9: he just kind of like opened his eyes and laughed 316 00:13:04,360 --> 00:13:06,160 Speaker 9: a little bit and was like, okay, see ya. 317 00:13:07,120 --> 00:13:12,880 Speaker 6: Oh god, yeah, this is a little awkward. But are 318 00:13:12,880 --> 00:13:13,400 Speaker 6: we kidding? 319 00:13:13,520 --> 00:13:17,440 Speaker 5: Okay, yeah, wait is that him? 320 00:13:17,559 --> 00:13:17,719 Speaker 9: Yes? 321 00:13:17,800 --> 00:13:18,120 Speaker 3: Sorry. 322 00:13:18,960 --> 00:13:21,080 Speaker 4: The way the segment works is we have the other 323 00:13:21,120 --> 00:13:23,600 Speaker 4: person waiting on hold on the other line to talk 324 00:13:23,640 --> 00:13:25,720 Speaker 4: to you, and normally we call them in. 325 00:13:25,760 --> 00:13:29,520 Speaker 3: But you had to say something, Lawrence, Are. 326 00:13:29,360 --> 00:13:31,480 Speaker 9: You joking me right now? He's been listening this whole time. 327 00:13:31,559 --> 00:13:33,760 Speaker 2: He needed to hear it. He really did. 328 00:13:34,480 --> 00:13:36,760 Speaker 3: He doesn't even remember kissing you, Lawrence. You didn't bring 329 00:13:36,840 --> 00:13:38,880 Speaker 3: up anything about a first kiss when we talked to. 330 00:13:38,880 --> 00:13:41,920 Speaker 6: You because I thought it was a super long hug. 331 00:13:42,120 --> 00:13:45,040 Speaker 6: I don't know, Oh. 332 00:13:44,600 --> 00:13:47,679 Speaker 9: My god, This is exactly This is exactly what I'm 333 00:13:47,679 --> 00:13:49,240 Speaker 9: talking about. This is humiliating. 334 00:13:50,679 --> 00:13:54,400 Speaker 2: It's embarrassing to him. Not to you, it's actually impressive. Yeah, Laurence, 335 00:13:54,480 --> 00:13:55,760 Speaker 2: you've got to explain to her. 336 00:13:56,400 --> 00:13:58,360 Speaker 6: Oh oh, here's what you don't know. 337 00:13:58,640 --> 00:14:02,240 Speaker 7: Okay, Oh God to a batchelor party the night before 338 00:14:02,480 --> 00:14:06,280 Speaker 7: in Vegas, and then when I got back finally, I 339 00:14:06,400 --> 00:14:09,000 Speaker 7: was up until like four in the morning editing my 340 00:14:09,080 --> 00:14:10,520 Speaker 7: fantasy baseball. 341 00:14:11,400 --> 00:14:12,000 Speaker 3: Yeah. 342 00:14:12,920 --> 00:14:15,280 Speaker 6: I didn't really get a lot of rest the night before, 343 00:14:15,360 --> 00:14:16,480 Speaker 6: but I just. 344 00:14:16,360 --> 00:14:19,400 Speaker 8: Thought you were so cute and funny and I just 345 00:14:19,440 --> 00:14:20,480 Speaker 8: wanted to power through. 346 00:14:20,880 --> 00:14:25,200 Speaker 6: I really liked you, and I'm sorry, and okay, okay, 347 00:14:25,200 --> 00:14:26,200 Speaker 6: it wasn't my best. 348 00:14:26,360 --> 00:14:29,880 Speaker 3: All right, that was a lot. 349 00:14:30,360 --> 00:14:32,360 Speaker 4: I was expecting you to say that much. But April, 350 00:14:32,600 --> 00:14:34,760 Speaker 4: do you hear what he's saying. He was exhausted from 351 00:14:34,760 --> 00:14:35,640 Speaker 4: a long trip before. 352 00:14:36,320 --> 00:14:39,000 Speaker 9: Yeah, I mean, I'm hearing him. It sounds like he's 353 00:14:39,080 --> 00:14:43,840 Speaker 9: super responsible. I mean fantasy baseball priorities. No, I get it. 354 00:14:44,200 --> 00:14:45,280 Speaker 2: Well, he showed up. 355 00:14:45,520 --> 00:14:49,200 Speaker 4: Yeah, it was so important for him to meet you that, 356 00:14:49,400 --> 00:14:51,880 Speaker 4: despite how tired he was, he was willing to do 357 00:14:51,920 --> 00:14:52,480 Speaker 4: this anyway. 358 00:14:52,600 --> 00:14:54,320 Speaker 1: That's a good angle, know, if we can spin it 359 00:14:54,360 --> 00:14:56,280 Speaker 1: that way. I mean I think more is that he 360 00:14:56,320 --> 00:14:59,480 Speaker 1: made a mistake and he would love a redo, right 361 00:14:59,520 --> 00:15:01,000 Speaker 1: because he he screwed it up. 362 00:15:01,400 --> 00:15:03,560 Speaker 6: Well, I didn't kiss there better than I thought, so 363 00:15:03,600 --> 00:15:04,440 Speaker 6: I didn't really screw that. 364 00:15:04,800 --> 00:15:07,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean ninety percent of the date was awesome. 365 00:15:07,880 --> 00:15:09,400 Speaker 7: You don't remember the kiss. 366 00:15:09,520 --> 00:15:11,560 Speaker 9: You definitely don't get to count it. And no, you're 367 00:15:11,560 --> 00:15:14,240 Speaker 9: not getting like points for that at all. 368 00:15:14,240 --> 00:15:16,560 Speaker 1: She said you were a bad kisser, dude, because you're 369 00:15:16,600 --> 00:15:18,520 Speaker 1: basically like kissing a dead person. 370 00:15:18,680 --> 00:15:22,080 Speaker 3: Well, she was the one who initiated the kiss. 371 00:15:22,920 --> 00:15:24,360 Speaker 6: I was a dead person. 372 00:15:24,480 --> 00:15:28,520 Speaker 7: But the next time I will be fully a lot. 373 00:15:30,280 --> 00:15:32,640 Speaker 9: I mean, he did have pretty nice lips. 374 00:15:32,680 --> 00:15:36,600 Speaker 4: But still, you did stick around for a very long 375 00:15:36,640 --> 00:15:39,360 Speaker 4: time with a very tired man. Just imagine how great 376 00:15:39,400 --> 00:15:42,320 Speaker 4: he's gonna be when he's fully rested at one hundred percent, right, 377 00:15:42,400 --> 00:15:42,920 Speaker 4: be a bowling. 378 00:15:43,000 --> 00:15:44,480 Speaker 2: I actually, Jeff on that. 379 00:15:44,520 --> 00:15:46,520 Speaker 1: I mean, like you wanted that kiss at the end 380 00:15:46,600 --> 00:15:48,920 Speaker 1: of the night. I mean, sure it was the death 381 00:15:48,960 --> 00:15:51,640 Speaker 1: of the date, but if you could redo it, it may 382 00:15:51,720 --> 00:15:52,280 Speaker 1: be great. 383 00:15:52,720 --> 00:15:54,520 Speaker 4: I bet on the next date he'll even let you 384 00:15:54,640 --> 00:15:57,040 Speaker 4: change his fantasy baseball lineup for him. 385 00:15:57,080 --> 00:15:59,840 Speaker 3: No, that is not cool. 386 00:15:59,280 --> 00:16:05,400 Speaker 4: Well, Okay, you know, okay, maybe that's date three material, 387 00:16:05,520 --> 00:16:08,040 Speaker 4: but we are interested in date number two, April. 388 00:16:08,200 --> 00:16:09,080 Speaker 3: He's not lying. 389 00:16:09,440 --> 00:16:11,200 Speaker 4: We really want you to go out with him again, 390 00:16:11,240 --> 00:16:12,760 Speaker 4: and we'll pay for it if you say yes. 391 00:16:13,680 --> 00:16:16,480 Speaker 9: I mean, can you promise that you're gonna get a 392 00:16:16,480 --> 00:16:19,360 Speaker 9: full night's sleep? And like, never ever tell anybody besides 393 00:16:19,360 --> 00:16:21,400 Speaker 9: everybody that's listening to the show that you fell asleep 394 00:16:21,440 --> 00:16:22,320 Speaker 9: during our first kiss. 395 00:16:23,800 --> 00:16:24,800 Speaker 2: Would be a great story. 396 00:16:26,000 --> 00:16:27,680 Speaker 6: I will not do that again. 397 00:16:28,000 --> 00:16:28,400 Speaker 3: All right. 398 00:16:29,200 --> 00:16:31,920 Speaker 9: The promise is there, April, all right, but I'm not 399 00:16:31,960 --> 00:16:34,680 Speaker 9: paying for a single thing, not one single thing. 400 00:16:34,880 --> 00:16:38,160 Speaker 4: Okay, you're like all the women that we have on 401 00:16:38,200 --> 00:16:42,240 Speaker 4: this show. Awesome, congratulations you two, you're going out again. 402 00:16:42,440 --> 00:16:45,920 Speaker 4: Day Alexis, do you approve of this couple? 403 00:16:45,960 --> 00:16:46,000 Speaker 1: You? 404 00:16:46,560 --> 00:16:49,840 Speaker 2: You would like a wreck like him? 405 00:16:51,560 --> 00:16:53,040 Speaker 3: Brooking Jeffrey in the morning. 406 00:16:53,720 --> 00:16:55,280 Speaker 2: Brooking Jeffrey in the morning.