1 00:00:09,959 --> 00:00:13,880 Speaker 1: If you're listening to a tenor foot TV podcast, Girls. 2 00:00:17,239 --> 00:00:20,639 Speaker 2: Krook County is released weekly and brought to you absolutely free. 3 00:00:20,840 --> 00:00:23,079 Speaker 2: But if you want to hear the whole season right now, 4 00:00:23,200 --> 00:00:26,840 Speaker 2: it's available ad free on tenderfoot Plus. For more information, 5 00:00:27,080 --> 00:00:35,560 Speaker 2: check out the show notes. Enjoy the episode. 6 00:00:34,480 --> 00:00:38,120 Speaker 3: You're listening to Krook County. The views and opinions expressed 7 00:00:38,120 --> 00:00:41,560 Speaker 3: in this podcast are solely those of the individuals participating 8 00:00:41,600 --> 00:00:45,360 Speaker 3: in the podcast. This episode also contains subject matter, including 9 00:00:45,400 --> 00:00:49,800 Speaker 3: graphic depictions of violence, which may not be suitable for everyone. Listener. 10 00:00:49,839 --> 00:00:51,280 Speaker 3: Discretion is advised. 11 00:00:54,760 --> 00:00:56,840 Speaker 2: Previously on Crook. 12 00:00:56,680 --> 00:00:59,920 Speaker 4: County for six months, he proposed to me. 13 00:01:00,280 --> 00:01:03,560 Speaker 2: Kenny, got engaged, called it off only a few months later. 14 00:01:03,720 --> 00:01:07,359 Speaker 2: He realized, at nineteen years old, what am I doing? 15 00:01:07,560 --> 00:01:11,800 Speaker 2: Being a gain aged? The cops organized a few phony busts. 16 00:01:11,720 --> 00:01:13,320 Speaker 1: So I took two of those and the girls would 17 00:01:13,319 --> 00:01:15,600 Speaker 1: come with me and you know, a little party. 18 00:01:15,639 --> 00:01:18,120 Speaker 2: Everybody be laughing, having a good time. And a robbery 19 00:01:18,160 --> 00:01:20,399 Speaker 2: at the club turned out to be an inside job. 20 00:01:20,600 --> 00:01:24,039 Speaker 1: Why Danny was working, He had someone come in and 21 00:01:24,359 --> 00:01:26,399 Speaker 1: robbed the place, so of course Dan's gotta put up 22 00:01:26,400 --> 00:01:27,679 Speaker 1: his arms, take the money and leave. 23 00:01:28,000 --> 00:01:31,439 Speaker 2: Danny had to go, and Kenny was asked to step in. 24 00:01:31,720 --> 00:01:34,240 Speaker 1: Got him in the car and drove him to one 25 00:01:34,280 --> 00:01:36,800 Speaker 1: of the chop shops, dropped him off there, and whatever 26 00:01:36,840 --> 00:01:37,559 Speaker 1: I did with him from. 27 00:01:37,440 --> 00:01:37,959 Speaker 5: There, I don't know. 28 00:01:40,800 --> 00:01:57,719 Speaker 2: I'm your host, Kyle Tequila, Welcome to Crook County. 29 00:01:58,240 --> 00:02:01,040 Speaker 6: When we were growing up, Dad was the coolest guy 30 00:02:01,120 --> 00:02:05,040 Speaker 6: in the whole town. Everybody wanted Dad as their dad, 31 00:02:05,280 --> 00:02:07,320 Speaker 6: but they didn't know what was going on at home. 32 00:02:07,680 --> 00:02:10,040 Speaker 6: The game that they played for me and Ken was 33 00:02:10,080 --> 00:02:12,239 Speaker 6: really bad. There was a loud violence. 34 00:02:22,600 --> 00:02:24,960 Speaker 2: Episode five, Bully. 35 00:02:27,359 --> 00:02:28,880 Speaker 7: You can begin to listen to that crowd. 36 00:02:28,919 --> 00:02:30,119 Speaker 5: They know they can tell. 37 00:02:30,560 --> 00:02:34,159 Speaker 6: Slowly, but surely, the nineteen seventies are disappearing. 38 00:02:35,519 --> 00:02:54,960 Speaker 7: The nineteen eighties will be upon us. He first nineteen 39 00:02:55,760 --> 00:02:56,519 Speaker 7: in America. 40 00:02:57,000 --> 00:03:00,600 Speaker 8: We have a brand new decade. 41 00:03:00,799 --> 00:03:04,720 Speaker 7: It's a whole new beginning. Everybody, please kiss your loved one, Come. 42 00:03:04,600 --> 00:03:09,000 Speaker 8: On, fish, your loved one, your husband, your sweetheart. 43 00:03:09,480 --> 00:03:12,200 Speaker 7: I don't want the last next years, everybody, let's hear it. 44 00:03:12,919 --> 00:03:18,639 Speaker 2: Everybody seen Nixon, Watergate, the end of the Vietnam War, 45 00:03:19,359 --> 00:03:26,320 Speaker 2: a global recession, gas shortages, rolling blackouts, crime waves, record unemployment, 46 00:03:26,840 --> 00:03:32,079 Speaker 2: and the ominous shadow of the Cold War, the nineteen 47 00:03:32,120 --> 00:03:35,640 Speaker 2: seventies was a decade steeped in anxiety and uncertainty, and 48 00:03:35,680 --> 00:03:41,719 Speaker 2: the curtain had been pulled back on the American dream. Hell, 49 00:03:42,600 --> 00:03:47,720 Speaker 2: even Disco was dead. History may label this decade the 50 00:03:47,840 --> 00:03:51,640 Speaker 2: Great Awakening, but for Ken, now in his mid twenties, 51 00:03:52,080 --> 00:03:55,640 Speaker 2: it felt more like some terrible dream. And while the 52 00:03:55,680 --> 00:03:59,000 Speaker 2: world was racing toward the glimmering promise of the nineteen eighties, 53 00:03:59,560 --> 00:04:05,800 Speaker 2: Ken stood still feeling nothing at all, no comfort, no hope. 54 00:04:05,880 --> 00:04:14,520 Speaker 2: He was simply numb. After they hit on Danny, the 55 00:04:14,560 --> 00:04:17,120 Speaker 2: bosses knew they could count on Kenny for heavy work, 56 00:04:17,960 --> 00:04:20,680 Speaker 2: and when the calls came, there wasn't so much of 57 00:04:20,720 --> 00:04:24,880 Speaker 2: a question as a demand, and Kenny had no choice 58 00:04:24,960 --> 00:04:29,000 Speaker 2: but to comply. As the pressures of his new reality mounted, 59 00:04:29,760 --> 00:04:33,120 Speaker 2: he withdrew further and turned a cocaine to numbs pain. 60 00:04:34,520 --> 00:04:38,480 Speaker 2: In this world, emotion was a weakness, and sympathy could 61 00:04:38,480 --> 00:04:42,080 Speaker 2: get you killed. If he wanted to stay alive in 62 00:04:42,120 --> 00:04:44,600 Speaker 2: his new role within the Outfit, he would need to 63 00:04:44,640 --> 00:04:47,000 Speaker 2: dig deep down to the darkest part of his soul 64 00:04:47,880 --> 00:04:49,920 Speaker 2: and abandon the light forever. 65 00:04:52,040 --> 00:04:54,640 Speaker 1: I could be a pretty nasty for anyway, I was 66 00:04:54,680 --> 00:04:58,680 Speaker 1: recruited into doing some hits. Okay, so there was another 67 00:04:58,720 --> 00:05:01,800 Speaker 1: part of that. So not only working and running whorehouses, 68 00:05:02,200 --> 00:05:05,960 Speaker 1: I'm doing occasional hits on the site, all right, ordered 69 00:05:06,040 --> 00:05:07,680 Speaker 1: hits our own people. 70 00:05:08,320 --> 00:05:12,320 Speaker 2: Rogue. I asked him what he means by going rogue? 71 00:05:12,960 --> 00:05:14,960 Speaker 1: So what these guys would do. These guys are the 72 00:05:15,000 --> 00:05:20,640 Speaker 1: guys that would fuck up. They'd steal, they'd rat, they 73 00:05:20,640 --> 00:05:23,200 Speaker 1: were just bad seats, or they were or they were 74 00:05:23,520 --> 00:05:27,640 Speaker 1: overly aggressive, or they became dangerous. They became rogue, meaning 75 00:05:27,680 --> 00:05:30,440 Speaker 1: they lost control of what they were doing. They just 76 00:05:30,440 --> 00:05:33,560 Speaker 1: started getting violent and you know, could start bringing the 77 00:05:33,640 --> 00:05:38,360 Speaker 1: heat down on this particular outfit that I worked for. 78 00:05:38,640 --> 00:05:40,240 Speaker 1: So we wanted to keep the heat away. So if 79 00:05:40,280 --> 00:05:44,040 Speaker 1: somebody became rogue, somebody needed to do something about these people. 80 00:05:44,400 --> 00:05:47,640 Speaker 1: My job was to be the heat, be the heat 81 00:05:47,680 --> 00:05:52,080 Speaker 1: for my particular outfit. You know, I got a reputation 82 00:05:52,160 --> 00:05:54,640 Speaker 1: though after a while, where you know, if they knew 83 00:05:54,640 --> 00:05:55,839 Speaker 1: I was coming, he were running. 84 00:06:01,840 --> 00:06:04,080 Speaker 2: I remembered something he used to tell my brother and 85 00:06:04,120 --> 00:06:07,400 Speaker 2: I when we were kids. He would say when he 86 00:06:07,480 --> 00:06:10,400 Speaker 2: was young that he was the bully of the bullies 87 00:06:10,440 --> 00:06:14,080 Speaker 2: at his school and if we ever saw someone getting 88 00:06:14,120 --> 00:06:17,360 Speaker 2: bullied at our school, that we should step in and 89 00:06:17,440 --> 00:06:20,320 Speaker 2: stop it. He was quite proud of this bit of 90 00:06:20,400 --> 00:06:23,760 Speaker 2: parenting advice, and to be honest, I was quite proud 91 00:06:23,760 --> 00:06:26,680 Speaker 2: of him too. I always admired him for it, and 92 00:06:26,800 --> 00:06:30,000 Speaker 2: to this day I think about those very words. I 93 00:06:30,040 --> 00:06:32,960 Speaker 2: even taught that same lesson to my own kid, defend 94 00:06:33,000 --> 00:06:35,320 Speaker 2: the weak and have the courage to fight against those 95 00:06:35,360 --> 00:06:39,440 Speaker 2: who would fight against you. And now, more than twenty 96 00:06:39,560 --> 00:06:41,960 Speaker 2: years later, here is my dad telling me that he 97 00:06:42,080 --> 00:06:44,800 Speaker 2: was hired to apply a version of that logic to 98 00:06:44,880 --> 00:06:50,000 Speaker 2: the metaphorical bullies of the outfit. At least that's what 99 00:06:50,080 --> 00:06:53,240 Speaker 2: he's telling me. It is very possible that he's just 100 00:06:53,320 --> 00:06:55,440 Speaker 2: softening the blow about the kind of people that were 101 00:06:55,440 --> 00:06:58,800 Speaker 2: in his crosshairs. I mean, does it really make me 102 00:06:58,840 --> 00:07:01,120 Speaker 2: feel any better that the only people he killed were 103 00:07:01,120 --> 00:07:06,880 Speaker 2: bad guys? Honestly, the answer is yes, it does. But 104 00:07:06,920 --> 00:07:09,760 Speaker 2: the simple fact is I will never really know if 105 00:07:09,800 --> 00:07:12,840 Speaker 2: any of this stuff is true. All I can do 106 00:07:13,400 --> 00:07:14,400 Speaker 2: is take him at his word. 107 00:07:18,600 --> 00:07:21,520 Speaker 1: Whether it was a hit, whether it was a beating, 108 00:07:22,120 --> 00:07:24,080 Speaker 1: just depend on what the punishment was called. Now, I 109 00:07:24,120 --> 00:07:27,200 Speaker 1: never decided what the punishment was. I was always given 110 00:07:27,240 --> 00:07:31,000 Speaker 1: the punishment on a little piece of paper by a 111 00:07:31,000 --> 00:07:35,280 Speaker 1: guy named He always gave me my assignment big fat. 112 00:07:39,160 --> 00:07:42,080 Speaker 2: And now let me introduce you to the next character 113 00:07:42,160 --> 00:07:45,840 Speaker 2: in our story, a feared boss within the outfit and 114 00:07:45,920 --> 00:07:48,280 Speaker 2: a man who would make an enormous impact on the 115 00:07:48,320 --> 00:07:53,360 Speaker 2: life of young Kenny. Paul Taglia, which I will remind 116 00:07:53,400 --> 00:07:56,240 Speaker 2: you for the safety of everyone involved, is not his 117 00:07:56,280 --> 00:07:56,800 Speaker 2: real name. 118 00:07:58,120 --> 00:08:01,680 Speaker 1: I would get a phone call, get on the phone, 119 00:08:02,520 --> 00:08:04,400 Speaker 1: meet me, and I knew exactly where. 120 00:08:04,280 --> 00:08:05,480 Speaker 2: To meet him. 121 00:08:05,880 --> 00:08:09,560 Speaker 1: And I'd meet him in a parking lot and one 122 00:08:09,600 --> 00:08:11,680 Speaker 1: of the houses were there, one of the whorehouses were there. 123 00:08:11,720 --> 00:08:14,160 Speaker 1: I meet him at a parking lot. I'd walk up 124 00:08:14,160 --> 00:08:19,960 Speaker 1: to his big fucking Cadillac and he'd rolled on his window, 125 00:08:20,000 --> 00:08:21,520 Speaker 1: hand me a little piece of paper, and then he'd 126 00:08:21,560 --> 00:08:25,280 Speaker 1: drive away. And on a piece of paper was where 127 00:08:25,360 --> 00:08:29,760 Speaker 1: the person was going to be, the type of car 128 00:08:29,880 --> 00:08:34,360 Speaker 1: he drove, and license plates, and that would and that 129 00:08:34,559 --> 00:08:37,440 Speaker 1: What all that did was made me do more work. 130 00:08:37,480 --> 00:08:40,960 Speaker 1: But it kept them even, kept them more and kept 131 00:08:40,959 --> 00:08:44,000 Speaker 1: them further away from the hit. So because now I 132 00:08:44,000 --> 00:08:45,480 Speaker 1: had to do all the leg work, So I'd have 133 00:08:45,559 --> 00:08:48,720 Speaker 1: to go look for the car, look for the license plate, 134 00:08:48,760 --> 00:08:52,040 Speaker 1: wait for the person, get in there, scope them, watch them. Okay, 135 00:08:52,079 --> 00:08:53,440 Speaker 1: that's so I got to hit. I gotta hit that 136 00:08:53,480 --> 00:08:57,000 Speaker 1: guy right there, based on the license plate and the 137 00:08:57,079 --> 00:08:59,839 Speaker 1: car description. Okay, so I know I got a description 138 00:08:59,920 --> 00:09:02,679 Speaker 1: a guy I have to hit, and then I would 139 00:09:03,439 --> 00:09:06,840 Speaker 1: do my due diligence for about two weeks, follow him around, 140 00:09:06,880 --> 00:09:11,360 Speaker 1: get a pattern, and then after I figured out how 141 00:09:11,400 --> 00:09:12,879 Speaker 1: I was going to do it, and I always did 142 00:09:12,880 --> 00:09:17,280 Speaker 1: it one way. I would uh, I would do it. 143 00:09:17,240 --> 00:09:18,839 Speaker 1: It's all that was to it. It didn't happen a lot, 144 00:09:18,880 --> 00:09:20,520 Speaker 1: but it happened to people. It happened enough for it 145 00:09:20,719 --> 00:09:24,240 Speaker 1: and or it really bothers me. It really bothers me 146 00:09:24,280 --> 00:09:24,520 Speaker 1: a lot. 147 00:09:27,839 --> 00:09:29,439 Speaker 2: I don't like to talk about this. I don't want 148 00:09:29,439 --> 00:09:30,800 Speaker 2: to talk about that shit. Man. 149 00:09:35,480 --> 00:09:37,800 Speaker 1: First of all, I'm trying desperately to forget all this stuff. 150 00:09:38,800 --> 00:09:40,520 Speaker 1: A therapist is probably gonna tell me, no, you need 151 00:09:40,559 --> 00:09:42,719 Speaker 1: to spit it out and then deal with it. Well, 152 00:09:42,760 --> 00:09:44,520 Speaker 1: I think I've already dealt with it, but I'm still 153 00:09:44,520 --> 00:09:47,719 Speaker 1: trying to bury it because it because it's not a 154 00:09:47,719 --> 00:09:50,000 Speaker 1: pleasant thought. It's not something that I'm very proud of 155 00:09:50,040 --> 00:09:52,599 Speaker 1: at all. And I got don't take a quick break. 156 00:09:52,719 --> 00:09:53,359 Speaker 9: Yeah, I gotta. 157 00:09:54,360 --> 00:10:00,160 Speaker 2: Swallow over so stupid, we decided to break for the day. 158 00:10:00,959 --> 00:10:06,160 Speaker 2: He's exhausted, and honestly so am I. There's so much 159 00:10:06,199 --> 00:10:08,839 Speaker 2: to unpack here and I don't even nowhere to begin. 160 00:10:10,000 --> 00:10:13,400 Speaker 2: I started recording these interviews back in twenty seventeen, and 161 00:10:13,559 --> 00:10:16,319 Speaker 2: it was apparent then that his health was failing him. 162 00:10:17,120 --> 00:10:20,640 Speaker 2: Since then, he's continued to decline, and I honestly don't 163 00:10:20,679 --> 00:10:24,280 Speaker 2: know how long he has left. He recently showed me 164 00:10:24,319 --> 00:10:27,000 Speaker 2: an entire backpack full of prescriptions he's taken for a 165 00:10:27,040 --> 00:10:33,920 Speaker 2: dozen or so conditions. He's pale, swollen, shakes uncontrollably. His 166 00:10:34,040 --> 00:10:37,239 Speaker 2: legs are covered in red marks and bruises, and he's 167 00:10:37,280 --> 00:10:40,720 Speaker 2: a hard time walking. He's about the furthest thing you 168 00:10:40,760 --> 00:10:43,280 Speaker 2: can get from the Fearless Mafia, heavy of his youth. 169 00:10:45,240 --> 00:10:48,840 Speaker 2: What the hell happened to this man? How was he 170 00:10:48,880 --> 00:10:52,560 Speaker 2: able to do the things he did? What kind of 171 00:10:52,599 --> 00:10:57,680 Speaker 2: person is my father? And what kind of person does 172 00:10:57,719 --> 00:10:58,240 Speaker 2: that make me? 173 00:11:15,000 --> 00:11:15,920 Speaker 7: Look at this guy? 174 00:11:16,199 --> 00:11:16,400 Speaker 5: Man? 175 00:11:16,959 --> 00:11:18,400 Speaker 9: How are you doing? 176 00:11:18,439 --> 00:11:18,559 Speaker 5: Bud? 177 00:11:19,640 --> 00:11:22,520 Speaker 2: Goodness to you? All right, it's been way, way too long. 178 00:11:22,880 --> 00:11:27,880 Speaker 2: I'm back in Chicago visiting my uncle, rich Ken's twin brother. 179 00:11:28,920 --> 00:11:29,239 Speaker 4: Long ago. 180 00:11:29,559 --> 00:11:31,679 Speaker 6: Yeah, I got married and well I left school in 181 00:11:32,000 --> 00:11:34,839 Speaker 6: oh seven, and I moved to Atlanta all right, pretty. 182 00:11:34,599 --> 00:11:37,960 Speaker 2: Much came back like maybe once and there was too 183 00:11:38,040 --> 00:11:39,520 Speaker 2: much shrama, and so I never came back. 184 00:11:41,480 --> 00:11:44,880 Speaker 6: I left high school, never even looked over my shoulder. 185 00:11:45,199 --> 00:11:46,800 Speaker 6: It's like, fuck you, I'm out. 186 00:11:47,079 --> 00:11:51,280 Speaker 2: It's his birthday, that's right, Yeah, you remember that. What 187 00:11:51,360 --> 00:11:52,160 Speaker 2: it's like in two days? 188 00:11:52,199 --> 00:11:58,119 Speaker 4: Isn't it today? 189 00:11:54,559 --> 00:12:01,120 Speaker 7: You probably should? 190 00:12:02,319 --> 00:12:08,400 Speaker 2: Oh? My god, nice going, Kyle boy. 191 00:12:08,439 --> 00:12:10,959 Speaker 6: You look like your dad. 192 00:12:11,040 --> 00:12:11,719 Speaker 7: That look? 193 00:12:12,120 --> 00:12:14,280 Speaker 4: That look? Did I just give you the Ken look? 194 00:12:15,199 --> 00:12:15,439 Speaker 2: Look? 195 00:12:15,520 --> 00:12:17,439 Speaker 4: Holy shit? Is it going to give you the chills? 196 00:12:24,760 --> 00:12:25,959 Speaker 7: And that's a Ken look too. 197 00:12:28,160 --> 00:12:31,840 Speaker 2: I am my father's son. We spent some time catching 198 00:12:31,920 --> 00:12:33,960 Speaker 2: up and cracking jokes about my old man. 199 00:12:34,240 --> 00:12:37,360 Speaker 4: What's the project again? So what's a podcast? So what's 200 00:12:37,400 --> 00:12:37,800 Speaker 4: the deal? 201 00:12:38,719 --> 00:12:40,520 Speaker 2: I can tell Rich is a bit hesitant to dig 202 00:12:40,599 --> 00:12:43,239 Speaker 2: up the past like this, and I get it from 203 00:12:43,280 --> 00:12:45,280 Speaker 2: what I've been hearing. It's not like they had the 204 00:12:45,319 --> 00:12:46,359 Speaker 2: happiest childhood. 205 00:12:48,480 --> 00:12:49,200 Speaker 4: My name's Rich. 206 00:12:49,880 --> 00:12:56,959 Speaker 6: I'm the oldest twin Ken's fraternal twin brother by how long. 207 00:12:59,319 --> 00:13:00,640 Speaker 4: Six minutes? I believe it is. 208 00:13:01,000 --> 00:13:04,040 Speaker 6: And since I came out first, I've always said that 209 00:13:04,120 --> 00:13:05,880 Speaker 6: the problems I have with my my back of my 210 00:13:05,920 --> 00:13:08,560 Speaker 6: neck and stuff for your dad's fault, because you know 211 00:13:08,599 --> 00:13:10,720 Speaker 6: he was stepping on me that whole time. 212 00:13:10,760 --> 00:13:11,320 Speaker 4: In the womb. 213 00:13:12,920 --> 00:13:15,920 Speaker 2: They were the firstborns of the family, followed by younger 214 00:13:15,959 --> 00:13:17,319 Speaker 2: brothers Stan and. 215 00:13:17,280 --> 00:13:21,520 Speaker 6: Matt Stands five years younger than myself and your dad, 216 00:13:21,640 --> 00:13:24,000 Speaker 6: and then eleven years for Matt. 217 00:13:24,360 --> 00:13:26,160 Speaker 2: He tells me there was a joke in the family 218 00:13:26,240 --> 00:13:28,359 Speaker 2: that Ken must have had a different father. 219 00:13:30,360 --> 00:13:35,040 Speaker 6: Because Ken and I are so different. We don't look 220 00:13:35,079 --> 00:13:37,559 Speaker 6: the same, we don't act the same. I mean, there 221 00:13:37,640 --> 00:13:40,079 Speaker 6: was nothing about us at that point that was even 222 00:13:40,120 --> 00:13:44,479 Speaker 6: close to being twin material. So yeah, it always pissed 223 00:13:44,480 --> 00:13:47,880 Speaker 6: off Mile though when we would say that, what's a 224 00:13:47,880 --> 00:13:48,480 Speaker 6: family joke? 225 00:13:48,679 --> 00:13:50,800 Speaker 2: So she's probably like, wait today, now. 226 00:13:53,839 --> 00:13:54,520 Speaker 4: There was. 227 00:13:54,880 --> 00:13:58,119 Speaker 6: You know, that's kind of funny because you know there 228 00:13:58,280 --> 00:14:04,040 Speaker 6: was some kind of half truth meaning behind our thought process. 229 00:14:04,160 --> 00:14:05,280 Speaker 1: But you know. 230 00:14:08,160 --> 00:14:11,439 Speaker 2: That's interesting. If you remember from episode one, Kenny was 231 00:14:11,520 --> 00:14:13,720 Speaker 2: kicked out of his house by his mom for accusing 232 00:14:13,760 --> 00:14:17,280 Speaker 2: her of having an affair, which she was and which 233 00:14:17,319 --> 00:14:19,400 Speaker 2: of course started off this whole chain of events that 234 00:14:19,520 --> 00:14:21,720 Speaker 2: led to Ken joining the Outfit in the first place. 235 00:14:22,360 --> 00:14:25,240 Speaker 2: I asked Ritch what he remembers I. 236 00:14:25,320 --> 00:14:29,120 Speaker 6: Was out So when I came home, I walked through 237 00:14:29,360 --> 00:14:31,720 Speaker 6: because I would always come in the basement door. And 238 00:14:31,760 --> 00:14:35,120 Speaker 6: when I walked into the basement door, I heard screaming 239 00:14:35,160 --> 00:14:38,080 Speaker 6: and yelling from the kitchen. So as you walk up 240 00:14:38,120 --> 00:14:41,440 Speaker 6: the stairs, you walk right into the kitchen on you know, 241 00:14:41,640 --> 00:14:44,840 Speaker 6: one end of the kitchen was Mom with Dad's forty five, 242 00:14:45,640 --> 00:14:49,600 Speaker 6: just screaming, bloody murder and pointing to gun, just shaking, 243 00:14:49,720 --> 00:14:52,440 Speaker 6: you know. And Ken was in the ollow corner of 244 00:14:52,440 --> 00:14:54,720 Speaker 6: the kitchen, just you know, in the back. I don't 245 00:14:54,720 --> 00:14:57,440 Speaker 6: remember anything that was said, just a lot of noise 246 00:14:57,480 --> 00:15:01,200 Speaker 6: and stuff. And I walked up to mother and she's 247 00:15:01,280 --> 00:15:04,040 Speaker 6: like this, I just stepped right in front of her. 248 00:15:04,200 --> 00:15:06,920 Speaker 6: So now I got a gun pointing right at my chest. 249 00:15:07,320 --> 00:15:10,600 Speaker 6: I grabbed her hand, I lifted them up so her 250 00:15:10,600 --> 00:15:13,840 Speaker 6: hands are now over her head and I'm holding her 251 00:15:13,880 --> 00:15:17,880 Speaker 6: hands on the gun compared to Ken said you should leave, 252 00:15:18,960 --> 00:15:19,280 Speaker 6: and he. 253 00:15:19,280 --> 00:15:25,080 Speaker 2: Left and that was it and he never came back. Wow. Wow, WOWOW. 254 00:15:28,160 --> 00:15:32,640 Speaker 2: I loved my Grandma Adele. She was the sweetest old 255 00:15:32,640 --> 00:15:36,720 Speaker 2: woman you could ever meet. She loved science and history 256 00:15:36,960 --> 00:15:40,880 Speaker 2: and Native American culture. The stories of her younger years 257 00:15:40,880 --> 00:15:43,960 Speaker 2: are full of intrigue and adventure. She moved out to 258 00:15:44,000 --> 00:15:46,200 Speaker 2: California in her late teens and was one of the 259 00:15:46,240 --> 00:15:49,800 Speaker 2: first women ever to work at NASA. She then took 260 00:15:49,800 --> 00:15:52,320 Speaker 2: a job in the FBI and was only one of 261 00:15:52,360 --> 00:15:56,520 Speaker 2: a handful of women there. She was a trailblazer and 262 00:15:56,600 --> 00:16:00,240 Speaker 2: painted beautiful landscapes inspired by all her travels that filled 263 00:16:00,240 --> 00:16:02,920 Speaker 2: the walls of her home. She taught me how to 264 00:16:02,920 --> 00:16:06,840 Speaker 2: play piano and to appreciate the wild beauty of nature, 265 00:16:08,320 --> 00:16:11,280 Speaker 2: and to picture this saint of a woman pointing a 266 00:16:11,320 --> 00:16:15,120 Speaker 2: gun at her teenage son is completely unbelievable to me. 267 00:16:16,560 --> 00:16:19,200 Speaker 2: But if I've learned anything at this point, it's that 268 00:16:19,480 --> 00:16:24,120 Speaker 2: nobody is exactly who you think they are. And apparently 269 00:16:24,280 --> 00:16:27,960 Speaker 2: my sweet old grandma wasn't always so sweet. 270 00:16:29,160 --> 00:16:32,400 Speaker 6: Did she ever tell you the stories about her brawling 271 00:16:32,760 --> 00:16:35,760 Speaker 6: in Chicago and stuff, the street fights everything? 272 00:16:37,520 --> 00:16:38,320 Speaker 4: Never heard about that? 273 00:16:38,400 --> 00:16:38,560 Speaker 5: Huh? 274 00:16:39,600 --> 00:16:39,759 Speaker 7: Yeah? 275 00:16:39,800 --> 00:16:42,920 Speaker 6: I remember my telling me that her and her friend's 276 00:16:43,040 --> 00:16:46,840 Speaker 6: pals whatever would go out for the street fights, and 277 00:16:47,120 --> 00:16:50,680 Speaker 6: the girls would take towels and they would wrap up 278 00:16:50,720 --> 00:16:53,640 Speaker 6: their boobs, I mean, like tape them down, you know, 279 00:16:53,800 --> 00:16:55,920 Speaker 6: so that there was nothing hanging out there, nothing to 280 00:16:55,920 --> 00:16:58,680 Speaker 6: grab on, its nothing to get hurt. Basically before they 281 00:16:58,720 --> 00:17:00,520 Speaker 6: went to their street fights. 282 00:17:01,280 --> 00:17:02,440 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, she. 283 00:17:02,480 --> 00:17:03,160 Speaker 4: Was a badass. 284 00:17:03,520 --> 00:17:07,199 Speaker 6: We're talking knives and clubs and all sorts of stuff, 285 00:17:08,920 --> 00:17:12,919 Speaker 6: you bet, Oh yeah, yeah, sweep my ass. 286 00:17:13,080 --> 00:17:13,960 Speaker 4: You didn't grow up with. 287 00:17:13,960 --> 00:17:20,159 Speaker 2: Her, Okay. So if Grandma was some sort of fearless 288 00:17:20,280 --> 00:17:23,600 Speaker 2: knife fighting street pirate, then I guess you can argue 289 00:17:23,639 --> 00:17:26,280 Speaker 2: that a hot temper is just in our blood, and 290 00:17:26,520 --> 00:17:28,439 Speaker 2: Ken was just to chip off the old block. 291 00:17:29,280 --> 00:17:35,119 Speaker 6: Anything could set him off, anything, blind rage, out of 292 00:17:35,159 --> 00:17:40,240 Speaker 6: control could not stop him temper, And until he got 293 00:17:40,359 --> 00:17:43,719 Speaker 6: past that rage, you couldn't stop him. It's like he 294 00:17:43,760 --> 00:17:45,320 Speaker 6: didn't even know what he was doing. 295 00:17:45,399 --> 00:17:45,999 Speaker 4: Practically. 296 00:17:47,040 --> 00:17:49,600 Speaker 2: He tells me a few old stories, like Ken punching 297 00:17:49,639 --> 00:17:52,840 Speaker 2: out a gym teacher in high school, or stealing Rich's 298 00:17:52,960 --> 00:17:56,800 Speaker 2: car at sixteen and disappearing for a week, apparently driving 299 00:17:56,800 --> 00:17:58,600 Speaker 2: it all the way to California, and. 300 00:17:58,639 --> 00:18:02,480 Speaker 4: I was gonna have him arrested for car theft, you know. 301 00:18:02,840 --> 00:18:04,720 Speaker 2: And then showing up like nothing happened. 302 00:18:04,879 --> 00:18:08,000 Speaker 6: Hey kids, Hot, eh raight, what's going on, buddy? 303 00:18:08,200 --> 00:18:11,800 Speaker 4: Thing's fine. I'm like, fucking an asshole, you stole my 304 00:18:11,840 --> 00:18:12,639 Speaker 4: fucking car. 305 00:18:13,200 --> 00:18:15,000 Speaker 2: And stories of cruel violence. 306 00:18:15,520 --> 00:18:17,520 Speaker 4: He shot me once, he stabbed me once. 307 00:18:18,359 --> 00:18:20,560 Speaker 2: That was fun. He just stopped there. You have to 308 00:18:20,600 --> 00:18:22,240 Speaker 2: tell me the story. 309 00:18:22,320 --> 00:18:23,880 Speaker 6: It was a BB gun, but it was a BB 310 00:18:23,960 --> 00:18:25,880 Speaker 6: gun that could go halfway through a two by four. 311 00:18:27,040 --> 00:18:29,959 Speaker 6: I still have that BB gun, by the way, it's downstairs. 312 00:18:30,080 --> 00:18:33,160 Speaker 4: You still have the BB in your flash. And all 313 00:18:33,280 --> 00:18:35,520 Speaker 4: that we dug out is that way. 314 00:18:35,639 --> 00:18:37,600 Speaker 2: So did the stabb income because he did. 315 00:18:37,680 --> 00:18:39,480 Speaker 4: That was a different That was a different time. 316 00:18:39,680 --> 00:18:39,840 Speaker 7: No. 317 00:18:39,960 --> 00:18:42,960 Speaker 6: He he stabbed me with a needle. The needle was 318 00:18:43,000 --> 00:18:47,560 Speaker 6: probably about eight inches long, and he just, you know, 319 00:18:47,680 --> 00:18:52,719 Speaker 6: in his blank rage wisdom. I was walking up the 320 00:18:52,720 --> 00:18:55,239 Speaker 6: stairs and he just came up behind me and just 321 00:18:55,280 --> 00:18:55,879 Speaker 6: stabbed me right. 322 00:18:55,920 --> 00:18:56,840 Speaker 4: And he asked, what. 323 00:18:58,359 --> 00:19:01,719 Speaker 2: I'm beginning to doubt my dad's bully of the bullies claim. 324 00:19:02,200 --> 00:19:04,080 Speaker 2: The story has always been he was the bully of 325 00:19:04,080 --> 00:19:05,920 Speaker 2: the bullies, and you would beat up like the bullies 326 00:19:05,920 --> 00:19:08,119 Speaker 2: at school. And as you know, he's the protector of 327 00:19:08,159 --> 00:19:09,239 Speaker 2: the innocent at school, he. 328 00:19:09,359 --> 00:19:12,960 Speaker 4: Particular through the innocent. He was a freaking cycle. 329 00:19:15,040 --> 00:19:18,719 Speaker 7: Protector of the innocent. Did he tell you that the. 330 00:19:18,720 --> 00:19:21,840 Speaker 4: Bully he was the bully? Yeah, he was a bully. 331 00:19:22,960 --> 00:19:25,919 Speaker 2: Yeah, this one hurt. I know it may sound silly 332 00:19:25,920 --> 00:19:29,639 Speaker 2: after everything else we've heard, but this one positive character. 333 00:19:29,680 --> 00:19:33,040 Speaker 2: Trait was something I held onto my whole life. It 334 00:19:33,119 --> 00:19:35,520 Speaker 2: was foundational to the image I had of my father, 335 00:19:36,399 --> 00:19:39,199 Speaker 2: and to learn it was complete bullshit. It's a fucking 336 00:19:39,320 --> 00:19:41,720 Speaker 2: hard pill to swallow. 337 00:19:43,560 --> 00:19:43,760 Speaker 1: You know. 338 00:19:43,800 --> 00:19:45,720 Speaker 6: As he got older, I'm sure he learned how to 339 00:19:45,800 --> 00:19:48,439 Speaker 6: control it and use it to his advantage. But you know, 340 00:19:48,480 --> 00:19:51,800 Speaker 6: as we were growing up, just totally out of control. 341 00:19:52,480 --> 00:19:54,640 Speaker 6: There was a lot of pain in agony, and yeah, 342 00:19:54,760 --> 00:19:55,800 Speaker 6: there was a lot of violence. 343 00:19:57,480 --> 00:20:02,040 Speaker 2: Violence, both physical and emotional, was a constant part of 344 00:20:02,080 --> 00:20:06,639 Speaker 2: their daily lives. The father would beat the kid's bloody wap. 345 00:20:06,600 --> 00:20:10,199 Speaker 4: Right across the head against the wall, knock me up. 346 00:20:10,560 --> 00:20:14,120 Speaker 2: And their mother, as we've learned, was just as cruel, and. 347 00:20:14,119 --> 00:20:16,239 Speaker 6: She picked up a kitchen chair and she was going 348 00:20:16,320 --> 00:20:17,760 Speaker 6: to crack me over the head with it. 349 00:20:18,280 --> 00:20:21,399 Speaker 2: They would starve their kids while mom and dad ate 350 00:20:21,440 --> 00:20:22,159 Speaker 2: a nice meal. 351 00:20:22,680 --> 00:20:25,159 Speaker 6: I remember eating dog food because I was so damn hungry, 352 00:20:25,840 --> 00:20:28,439 Speaker 6: Or when i'd give the dog a treat, I would. 353 00:20:28,240 --> 00:20:31,040 Speaker 4: Bite the ends off and I would eat it before 354 00:20:31,080 --> 00:20:32,200 Speaker 4: I would give it to the dog. 355 00:20:33,399 --> 00:20:37,800 Speaker 2: I was hungry, and at times two things so horrible 356 00:20:38,440 --> 00:20:40,639 Speaker 2: my uncle won't even speak of them. 357 00:20:40,760 --> 00:20:40,919 Speaker 5: You know. 358 00:20:40,960 --> 00:20:44,679 Speaker 6: Some of the torture stuff I wouldn't. I'd never speak 359 00:20:44,720 --> 00:20:49,359 Speaker 6: of it ever, Yeah, because I don't really want, you know, 360 00:20:49,480 --> 00:20:53,040 Speaker 6: mom and Dad to be portrayed as you know, animal 361 00:20:54,080 --> 00:20:55,080 Speaker 6: child abusers. 362 00:20:55,119 --> 00:20:57,120 Speaker 4: Even though it was kind of like. 363 00:20:57,119 --> 00:20:59,679 Speaker 6: That, you know, we probably would have been taken away, 364 00:21:00,280 --> 00:21:03,080 Speaker 6: you know, in today's day and age. You know, I'm 365 00:21:03,119 --> 00:21:05,359 Speaker 6: sure we would have taken away if somebody had said something. 366 00:21:06,920 --> 00:21:08,560 Speaker 6: But that's not how it was back then. 367 00:21:11,240 --> 00:21:11,560 Speaker 4: I Mean, the. 368 00:21:11,560 --> 00:21:14,399 Speaker 2: Amazing thing is is I don't I don't see you 369 00:21:14,440 --> 00:21:19,920 Speaker 2: as having any of this volatility and in his violence. 370 00:21:19,720 --> 00:21:20,840 Speaker 4: And like that. 371 00:21:22,359 --> 00:21:23,759 Speaker 2: D he never struck us. 372 00:21:24,920 --> 00:21:25,600 Speaker 4: That's amazing. 373 00:21:25,680 --> 00:21:26,600 Speaker 2: He never struck us. 374 00:21:26,680 --> 00:21:28,800 Speaker 4: Yeah, he made And that's another thing that so bizarre 375 00:21:28,840 --> 00:21:29,159 Speaker 4: about this. 376 00:21:29,200 --> 00:21:32,639 Speaker 2: It's like, why again, why we never even like, you know, 377 00:21:32,639 --> 00:21:35,000 Speaker 2: I've seen him beat up a guy or two or 378 00:21:35,080 --> 00:21:36,520 Speaker 2: three or five, But. 379 00:21:37,920 --> 00:21:39,479 Speaker 6: Did he tell you about beat the guy up and 380 00:21:39,520 --> 00:21:40,640 Speaker 6: left him on the hood of his car? 381 00:21:40,720 --> 00:21:41,160 Speaker 4: Do you know why? 382 00:21:41,200 --> 00:21:41,639 Speaker 2: That one? 383 00:21:42,080 --> 00:21:43,879 Speaker 6: This was when we were working at the bar up 384 00:21:43,879 --> 00:21:46,520 Speaker 6: in Northbrook at the hotel. Ken and I were both 385 00:21:46,560 --> 00:21:48,720 Speaker 6: working there, and you know, they had cops that would 386 00:21:48,720 --> 00:21:51,879 Speaker 6: come in and they would be the security, you know, 387 00:21:51,960 --> 00:21:54,720 Speaker 6: part time job stuff. And he was telling me about 388 00:21:54,760 --> 00:21:58,680 Speaker 6: this quality had that there was a guy passed out 389 00:21:58,720 --> 00:22:00,359 Speaker 6: on the hood of his car in the middle of 390 00:22:00,399 --> 00:22:04,800 Speaker 6: an intersection, and oh, okay, fine. Well the next day 391 00:22:05,080 --> 00:22:07,159 Speaker 6: I'm talking to Ken and he's telling me about this 392 00:22:07,200 --> 00:22:10,080 Speaker 6: guy who he dragged out of the window of his car, 393 00:22:10,320 --> 00:22:12,119 Speaker 6: beat the shit out of him, and left him on 394 00:22:12,119 --> 00:22:13,560 Speaker 6: the hood of his car in the intersection. 395 00:22:14,399 --> 00:22:15,639 Speaker 7: I'm like, oh, that was you. 396 00:22:20,040 --> 00:22:22,919 Speaker 2: What's interesting about this incident is it would have been 397 00:22:22,920 --> 00:22:25,679 Speaker 2: in those early years after Ken joined the outfit, so 398 00:22:25,760 --> 00:22:29,600 Speaker 2: it's very possible it was mob related. I asked him 399 00:22:29,680 --> 00:22:32,040 Speaker 2: if he knew what his brother was into at that time. 400 00:22:33,520 --> 00:22:37,480 Speaker 4: I knew that he was definitely dealing drugs. I knew 401 00:22:37,520 --> 00:22:38,280 Speaker 4: that he was. 402 00:22:39,720 --> 00:22:44,040 Speaker 6: Working quote unquote in a whorehouse. But I never got 403 00:22:44,040 --> 00:22:45,240 Speaker 6: into any of those details. 404 00:22:45,280 --> 00:22:46,239 Speaker 4: I really didn't want to know. 405 00:22:47,000 --> 00:22:50,560 Speaker 6: You know, it just it wasn't my lifestyle. You know, 406 00:22:50,720 --> 00:22:54,040 Speaker 6: it was nothing I really cared about. You know, that's 407 00:22:54,040 --> 00:22:54,720 Speaker 6: what you want to. 408 00:22:54,680 --> 00:22:55,719 Speaker 2: Do, that's what you do. 409 00:22:58,080 --> 00:22:59,920 Speaker 4: You could see why he could be. 410 00:22:59,840 --> 00:23:08,160 Speaker 6: An enforcer because he just had that mentality, very violent mentality. 411 00:23:16,000 --> 00:23:17,840 Speaker 5: I should have word more in you were a man? 412 00:23:18,359 --> 00:23:22,040 Speaker 2: Oh high? Yeah, yeah, I don't need to worry about 413 00:23:22,320 --> 00:23:24,080 Speaker 2: some contagione. 414 00:23:24,879 --> 00:23:25,760 Speaker 5: Nice to meet you. 415 00:23:25,840 --> 00:23:28,080 Speaker 7: Well, I have met you several times, but you. 416 00:23:28,040 --> 00:23:29,560 Speaker 4: Were a child, I was a baby. 417 00:23:29,639 --> 00:23:30,879 Speaker 7: Huh. 418 00:23:30,240 --> 00:23:30,440 Speaker 9: Yeah. 419 00:23:30,920 --> 00:23:34,600 Speaker 2: This is Maureen, my dad's high school girlfriend. 420 00:23:34,920 --> 00:23:37,320 Speaker 7: Thank you for having me and doing this. I don't 421 00:23:37,399 --> 00:23:39,800 Speaker 7: know what I'm doing. I don't know what you're doing here. 422 00:23:39,960 --> 00:23:41,680 Speaker 5: Your father wouldn't tell me anything. 423 00:23:41,800 --> 00:23:44,800 Speaker 7: He was very short and said, I don't have time. 424 00:23:45,560 --> 00:23:46,440 Speaker 7: I will tell you. 425 00:23:46,359 --> 00:23:48,399 Speaker 2: Everything, all right. 426 00:23:48,480 --> 00:23:49,119 Speaker 7: Well that's true. 427 00:23:49,119 --> 00:23:53,160 Speaker 2: I will tell you everything, and hopefully you'll tell me everything. Maureen. 428 00:23:53,920 --> 00:23:56,239 Speaker 2: It was a name that would occasionally echo through our 429 00:23:56,320 --> 00:24:00,279 Speaker 2: childhood home. She was like this mythical creature who at 430 00:24:00,280 --> 00:24:02,520 Speaker 2: the very mention of her cursed name would send my 431 00:24:02,600 --> 00:24:05,999 Speaker 2: mother into fits of rage and jealousy. And I just 432 00:24:06,159 --> 00:24:07,439 Speaker 2: I feel so bad that she. 433 00:24:07,720 --> 00:24:12,080 Speaker 5: I know, oh how much time she spent hating me, 434 00:24:12,480 --> 00:24:16,720 Speaker 5: hating him, thinking, you know thoughts. I'm a woman, I 435 00:24:17,159 --> 00:24:20,959 Speaker 5: know how women think. And if there's one regret that 436 00:24:21,080 --> 00:24:25,080 Speaker 5: I have is that I feel bad that your mom 437 00:24:25,159 --> 00:24:31,600 Speaker 5: thought Kenny and I were having interfere And we never did, never, ever, ever, ever, 438 00:24:32,520 --> 00:24:36,280 Speaker 5: not since we were high school sweethearts at sixteen and 439 00:24:36,359 --> 00:24:37,760 Speaker 5: seventeen years old. 440 00:24:40,560 --> 00:24:41,480 Speaker 3: Tell me about it. 441 00:24:43,240 --> 00:24:46,119 Speaker 5: We were just we were like the movie Grease. You know, 442 00:24:47,040 --> 00:24:49,720 Speaker 5: it was like sort of like John Travolta and Olivia Newton. 443 00:24:49,840 --> 00:24:58,600 Speaker 2: John, No, stop stop, stop, stop, stop stoping. No, I'm 444 00:24:58,639 --> 00:25:01,600 Speaker 2: not doing this again. First, my dad is John Travolta 445 00:25:01,639 --> 00:25:05,639 Speaker 2: from Saturday Night Fever. Okay, fine, but now you're telling 446 00:25:05,680 --> 00:25:09,919 Speaker 2: me he's John Travolta from Greece. I just I can't. 447 00:25:10,399 --> 00:25:13,119 Speaker 2: I'm not going to do it. Okay, let's move on. 448 00:25:15,720 --> 00:25:18,159 Speaker 5: He was cool, He was a real cool kid. He 449 00:25:18,399 --> 00:25:20,800 Speaker 5: was my first boyfriend. 450 00:25:22,399 --> 00:25:23,959 Speaker 7: And it was fun. 451 00:25:24,240 --> 00:25:26,479 Speaker 5: We had fun, and we had good times, and of 452 00:25:26,480 --> 00:25:28,800 Speaker 5: course we wanted to grow up and get married and 453 00:25:28,920 --> 00:25:32,160 Speaker 5: have a household of kids and just didn't work out 454 00:25:32,200 --> 00:25:32,600 Speaker 5: that way. 455 00:25:33,720 --> 00:25:36,719 Speaker 2: I have a million questions for Maureen because she has 456 00:25:36,760 --> 00:25:40,400 Speaker 2: a truly unique perspective in all this, as someone who 457 00:25:40,560 --> 00:25:44,479 Speaker 2: saw a softer side of Kenny during those formative teenage years. 458 00:25:44,760 --> 00:25:47,520 Speaker 5: I don't think I've ever loved anybody as much as 459 00:25:47,520 --> 00:25:49,600 Speaker 5: a friend as him. You know, they say that you've 460 00:25:49,639 --> 00:25:52,439 Speaker 5: got if you've got five good friends on one hand, 461 00:25:52,720 --> 00:25:53,800 Speaker 5: you're a lucky person. 462 00:25:54,320 --> 00:25:55,960 Speaker 4: And he's one of them. 463 00:25:56,760 --> 00:26:00,760 Speaker 2: He's been we've been good friends. I asked her about 464 00:26:00,840 --> 00:26:02,719 Speaker 2: Kenny's fabled hot temper. 465 00:26:03,159 --> 00:26:08,999 Speaker 5: I never saw him with a temper or being aggressive 466 00:26:09,359 --> 00:26:11,040 Speaker 5: or anything like that. 467 00:26:12,000 --> 00:26:14,280 Speaker 2: Or if she was aware of the abuse the brothers 468 00:26:14,320 --> 00:26:15,480 Speaker 2: were victims of at home. 469 00:26:16,560 --> 00:26:19,080 Speaker 5: He didn't want to be at home. He didn't like 470 00:26:19,159 --> 00:26:21,840 Speaker 5: being there. He liked being at our house. My mom 471 00:26:21,879 --> 00:26:24,200 Speaker 5: would come into my room at ten or eleven o'clock 472 00:26:24,240 --> 00:26:28,280 Speaker 5: and say, we're in someone's in the backyard. First, I 473 00:26:28,320 --> 00:26:30,280 Speaker 5: looked out the front window, and I see his car, 474 00:26:30,920 --> 00:26:32,440 Speaker 5: and I go in the back. He used to take 475 00:26:32,440 --> 00:26:37,000 Speaker 5: a tent and tent in our backyard and sleep. Wow, 476 00:26:37,040 --> 00:26:41,000 Speaker 5: I didn't know that. Yeah, yeah, my mom said that 477 00:26:41,080 --> 00:26:43,159 Speaker 5: she had seen it a few times, but it was 478 00:26:43,200 --> 00:26:46,280 Speaker 5: too late to wake me up. And then that was 479 00:26:46,359 --> 00:26:47,240 Speaker 5: and I went in there. 480 00:26:47,080 --> 00:26:48,440 Speaker 2: And I was like, what are you doing? He said, 481 00:26:48,440 --> 00:26:51,399 Speaker 2: I don't want to go home. Or if she knew 482 00:26:51,480 --> 00:26:53,440 Speaker 2: of his ties to the mafia. 483 00:26:53,760 --> 00:26:56,159 Speaker 5: There would be no way Ken would do any of 484 00:26:56,200 --> 00:27:01,480 Speaker 5: those things. Everybody adored him, They loved him, They cared 485 00:27:01,520 --> 00:27:04,480 Speaker 5: about him, and they trusted him. 486 00:27:04,840 --> 00:27:07,520 Speaker 2: She goes on to say that she only recently heard 487 00:27:07,560 --> 00:27:10,520 Speaker 2: about it from Kenny's mother, Adele, when he. 488 00:27:10,480 --> 00:27:13,240 Speaker 5: Went over to Calibournia. She started calling me and telling 489 00:27:13,280 --> 00:27:15,080 Speaker 5: me all these things, and that's when I found out 490 00:27:15,119 --> 00:27:19,520 Speaker 5: about the mafia. That's when I found out about drugs. 491 00:27:20,920 --> 00:27:23,720 Speaker 5: She said, well, you know he was junkie. I said, no, 492 00:27:23,840 --> 00:27:25,800 Speaker 5: I didn't know that, but now I do. I guess. 493 00:27:26,960 --> 00:27:34,200 Speaker 5: And she also told me that he murdered someone. Oh 494 00:27:34,280 --> 00:27:36,719 Speaker 5: my god, I can't believe cute people. 495 00:27:38,359 --> 00:27:47,399 Speaker 2: Oh my god, how did he get that way? She's 496 00:27:47,440 --> 00:27:54,040 Speaker 2: crying and takes a moment to collect herself, and then 497 00:27:54,520 --> 00:27:58,159 Speaker 2: suddenly she remembers something from long ago. 498 00:27:59,680 --> 00:28:01,720 Speaker 5: Did he ever tell you a story of Kenny Mindelki, 499 00:28:01,879 --> 00:28:12,520 Speaker 5: the boy that drowned? No, it was his best friend. 500 00:28:14,320 --> 00:28:15,520 Speaker 7: They were all. 501 00:28:15,359 --> 00:28:18,520 Speaker 5: Set to go scuba diving. There were like five boys, 502 00:28:19,240 --> 00:28:22,360 Speaker 5: and I had to work that day, and my parents 503 00:28:22,359 --> 00:28:24,080 Speaker 5: had to work at the restaurant. There was no one 504 00:28:24,119 --> 00:28:27,600 Speaker 5: to watch my four siblings. And I said to Kenny, 505 00:28:28,200 --> 00:28:30,480 Speaker 5: said would you do me a big favor and watch 506 00:28:30,560 --> 00:28:33,759 Speaker 5: the kids? And he said, I'm already written signed up 507 00:28:33,800 --> 00:28:36,399 Speaker 5: to go scuba diving with Mendelki and the rest of 508 00:28:36,440 --> 00:28:39,840 Speaker 5: the guys. And I said please, and he said, okay, 509 00:28:39,840 --> 00:28:45,480 Speaker 5: I'll do it. So he stayed home. The equipment that 510 00:28:45,560 --> 00:28:51,519 Speaker 5: he was to have used was given to Mendelki, his buddy, 511 00:28:53,000 --> 00:28:57,240 Speaker 5: and Mendelki's equipment failed and he was like, he's dead 512 00:28:59,200 --> 00:29:02,279 Speaker 5: and it should have been Kenny. That should have been 513 00:29:02,320 --> 00:29:04,280 Speaker 5: the equipment that he should have used. 514 00:29:05,960 --> 00:29:08,000 Speaker 2: And it was really bad. 515 00:29:08,040 --> 00:29:10,200 Speaker 5: But that was the first time that Kenny had to 516 00:29:10,240 --> 00:29:13,719 Speaker 5: deal with death of a friend of a good friend. 517 00:29:14,480 --> 00:29:18,760 Speaker 5: And also he felt guilty that if he would have gone, 518 00:29:19,240 --> 00:29:22,360 Speaker 5: you know, Mondelki would have lived. And he and then 519 00:29:22,440 --> 00:29:25,720 Speaker 5: he took off. And I think now that I think 520 00:29:25,760 --> 00:29:30,400 Speaker 5: in in hindsight where him taking off. He took off 521 00:29:30,920 --> 00:29:32,600 Speaker 5: in his car and he was gone for like two 522 00:29:32,680 --> 00:29:37,840 Speaker 5: days after the funeral. Right after the funeral, nobody knew 523 00:29:37,840 --> 00:29:40,840 Speaker 5: where he was. Richie went out for like a day 524 00:29:40,880 --> 00:29:43,240 Speaker 5: looking for him. I think he ended up in Iowa 525 00:29:43,520 --> 00:29:44,400 Speaker 5: or somewhere. 526 00:29:45,080 --> 00:29:45,760 Speaker 7: He just ran. 527 00:29:46,120 --> 00:29:48,160 Speaker 5: He just kept running and running and running until he 528 00:29:48,160 --> 00:29:51,400 Speaker 5: probably ran out of money and gas and came back 529 00:29:53,320 --> 00:30:00,160 Speaker 5: and probably be the start of major issues because that 530 00:30:00,360 --> 00:30:02,920 Speaker 5: was hard on him, really really hard. 531 00:30:13,280 --> 00:30:16,280 Speaker 6: You know, I'm glad you brought up workout martial arts stuff, 532 00:30:16,360 --> 00:30:19,640 Speaker 6: because that's something I actually completely forgot about. 533 00:30:20,360 --> 00:30:21,760 Speaker 1: Well, how do you think I could have done half 534 00:30:21,800 --> 00:30:23,239 Speaker 1: the shit I did if I didn't have all that 535 00:30:23,280 --> 00:30:25,320 Speaker 1: martial arts training. Well, that's what I want to talk 536 00:30:25,360 --> 00:30:27,760 Speaker 1: to mom about that I had years of martial arts training, 537 00:30:28,000 --> 00:30:31,400 Speaker 1: years martial arts training. I was a beast. 538 00:30:32,000 --> 00:30:34,400 Speaker 2: It was widely known around the family that Ken was 539 00:30:34,400 --> 00:30:37,920 Speaker 2: a fourth degree black belt. There were legends about his 540 00:30:38,000 --> 00:30:41,920 Speaker 2: prowess on the mat, how even defeated his own master 541 00:30:42,120 --> 00:30:45,680 Speaker 2: at one point. Even the style of martial arts he 542 00:30:45,760 --> 00:30:48,920 Speaker 2: practiced sounded exotic and dangerous to us as kids. 543 00:30:49,240 --> 00:30:50,880 Speaker 1: Was that Chung mu kwan was a really soft form. 544 00:30:50,920 --> 00:30:52,920 Speaker 1: It was it was comfortul it wasn't a hard form. 545 00:30:53,000 --> 00:30:55,800 Speaker 1: Caught it bullshit well, almost like a. 546 00:30:55,840 --> 00:31:00,080 Speaker 2: Dance dance like movement. Chung mu kwan. I had never 547 00:31:00,120 --> 00:31:02,680 Speaker 2: heard of it before and never had a reason to 548 00:31:02,720 --> 00:31:05,560 Speaker 2: look into it until, of course, I started down this 549 00:31:05,600 --> 00:31:09,280 Speaker 2: insane family rabbit hole of mine. I wasn't expecting to 550 00:31:09,320 --> 00:31:12,719 Speaker 2: find anything interesting at all, to be honest, but when 551 00:31:12,760 --> 00:31:16,080 Speaker 2: I learned the history of this mysterious brand of kung fu, 552 00:31:16,680 --> 00:31:19,600 Speaker 2: I was absolutely shocked at what I found. 553 00:31:24,760 --> 00:31:27,719 Speaker 10: Many students are attracted to Chung mu kwan because the 554 00:31:27,800 --> 00:31:31,520 Speaker 10: training looks impressive. The schools say that by developing a 555 00:31:31,600 --> 00:31:35,280 Speaker 10: strong mind and body, you not only learn self defense, 556 00:31:35,640 --> 00:31:39,880 Speaker 10: but also learn to understand yourself and find fue happiness. 557 00:31:40,440 --> 00:31:44,400 Speaker 10: A school brochure says Chung Mu Kwuan is an investment 558 00:31:44,520 --> 00:31:45,240 Speaker 10: in life. 559 00:31:45,640 --> 00:31:48,640 Speaker 2: I found this investigative news report from nineteen eighty nine 560 00:31:48,800 --> 00:31:51,480 Speaker 2: about Chung Mu Kwan. It's fascinating. 561 00:31:52,400 --> 00:31:55,360 Speaker 10: There are ten Chung Mu Kuan schools in the Chicago 562 00:31:55,480 --> 00:32:00,920 Speaker 10: area and a dozen others across the country. They were 563 00:32:01,000 --> 00:32:05,040 Speaker 10: founded here in the late nineteen seventies by John C. Kim, 564 00:32:05,400 --> 00:32:08,760 Speaker 10: a former maintenance man who promotes him as a. 565 00:32:08,760 --> 00:32:10,000 Speaker 7: Martial arts master. 566 00:32:10,640 --> 00:32:14,040 Speaker 10: His followers say he has supernatural powers. 567 00:32:14,720 --> 00:32:16,160 Speaker 5: His powers are phenomenal. 568 00:32:16,760 --> 00:32:20,160 Speaker 8: They made him seem like a god to us. 569 00:32:20,600 --> 00:32:23,760 Speaker 10: We talked to dozens of former students and instructors who've 570 00:32:23,760 --> 00:32:26,520 Speaker 10: been with Chung Mu Kwan over the last twelve years. 571 00:32:26,920 --> 00:32:30,560 Speaker 10: Most of them asked us to disguise their identities. They 572 00:32:30,560 --> 00:32:33,840 Speaker 10: say they're afraid because the schools they were at thrived 573 00:32:33,880 --> 00:32:36,600 Speaker 10: on an atmosphere of intimidation and violence. 574 00:32:37,000 --> 00:32:38,520 Speaker 3: Our investigation found. 575 00:32:38,240 --> 00:32:41,400 Speaker 10: That some of the schools have also exploited students to 576 00:32:41,520 --> 00:32:44,720 Speaker 10: take their money and to take over their minds. That's 577 00:32:44,760 --> 00:32:46,680 Speaker 10: why experts call it a cult. 578 00:32:48,560 --> 00:32:50,920 Speaker 2: So not only is my dad and the mob, which 579 00:32:50,920 --> 00:32:53,239 Speaker 2: is bad enough, by the way, he's also in some 580 00:32:53,320 --> 00:32:58,120 Speaker 2: goddamn kung fu mind control cult. Jesus fucking Christ. He's 581 00:32:58,160 --> 00:33:01,120 Speaker 2: either an evil genius or the unluckiest man alive. 582 00:33:01,840 --> 00:33:04,560 Speaker 10: Experts say that some Chung mu Quan students seem to 583 00:33:04,600 --> 00:33:07,920 Speaker 10: be subjected to a form of mind control that begins 584 00:33:08,200 --> 00:33:12,600 Speaker 10: the martial arts training, for example, constantly repeating a movement 585 00:33:12,920 --> 00:33:17,040 Speaker 10: or holding poses for long periods on orders from their instructor. 586 00:33:18,280 --> 00:33:21,200 Speaker 2: Okay, let's stop there for a second. Now, listen to 587 00:33:21,240 --> 00:33:23,600 Speaker 2: this clip for my dad. You would do a. 588 00:33:23,520 --> 00:33:25,360 Speaker 1: Form for an hour, hour and a half. It's all 589 00:33:25,360 --> 00:33:28,440 Speaker 1: you would do, is a form, A form? Is this movement? 590 00:33:29,080 --> 00:33:32,480 Speaker 1: So constant movement for an hour and a half. 591 00:33:34,600 --> 00:33:36,920 Speaker 11: What happens is that they go into an altered state 592 00:33:36,960 --> 00:33:42,240 Speaker 11: of consciousness. In that type of altered state, they're very 593 00:33:42,280 --> 00:33:46,440 Speaker 11: susceptible to suggestions. It's the same kind of thing that 594 00:33:46,520 --> 00:33:48,800 Speaker 11: takes place in a hypnotic trance. 595 00:33:49,800 --> 00:33:52,880 Speaker 2: Now, let's go back to episode one. Well, my dad 596 00:33:52,920 --> 00:33:55,960 Speaker 2: talks about mentally preparing himself for a hit. 597 00:33:58,640 --> 00:34:00,520 Speaker 1: I sit in my car and I do what I 598 00:34:00,560 --> 00:34:06,360 Speaker 1: always do. I breathe, I make myself aware. I heighten 599 00:34:06,440 --> 00:34:11,719 Speaker 1: my senses, my sight, my smell, my hearing. I don't 600 00:34:11,720 --> 00:34:15,719 Speaker 1: know how I do it, but I do it. As 601 00:34:15,720 --> 00:34:18,279 Speaker 1: I'm listening to the music, I feel my senses start 602 00:34:18,320 --> 00:34:23,719 Speaker 1: to kick in. As they kick in, the moment arises. 603 00:34:24,320 --> 00:34:26,200 Speaker 1: The moment always hits me. I don't know how it 604 00:34:26,279 --> 00:34:29,200 Speaker 1: hits me, but I know when I'm ready for the. 605 00:34:29,120 --> 00:34:36,319 Speaker 2: Moment, and there it is. This whole time, I've been 606 00:34:36,360 --> 00:34:40,040 Speaker 2: struggling to understand just how he could take that enormous 607 00:34:40,120 --> 00:34:43,719 Speaker 2: leap from doorman to hip man, or how he could 608 00:34:43,800 --> 00:34:47,160 Speaker 2: jump back and forth so easily from mob life to 609 00:34:47,279 --> 00:34:50,720 Speaker 2: family life without us ever even coming close to knowing. 610 00:34:51,600 --> 00:34:53,959 Speaker 11: What happens is that they go into an altered state 611 00:34:54,000 --> 00:34:57,480 Speaker 11: of consciousness. It's the same kind of thing that takes 612 00:34:57,520 --> 00:34:59,480 Speaker 11: place in a hypnotic trance. 613 00:34:59,880 --> 00:35:05,399 Speaker 2: Not a trance, not every trance. I think it was 614 00:35:05,680 --> 00:35:13,359 Speaker 2: the perfect storm of terrible childhood, abusive parents, hitting the 615 00:35:13,400 --> 00:35:17,920 Speaker 2: streets as a kid, no prospects finding a father figure, 616 00:35:18,200 --> 00:35:20,600 Speaker 2: which just happens to be in the outfit, and then 617 00:35:20,640 --> 00:35:26,759 Speaker 2: you introduce Chung Mu Kwan and it's meditative mind control techniques, but. 618 00:35:27,000 --> 00:35:29,480 Speaker 1: You know it taught to you know all the points, 619 00:35:29,520 --> 00:35:33,160 Speaker 1: all the all the all the points that can name kill, 620 00:35:34,200 --> 00:35:38,879 Speaker 1: temporarily put somebody out of business. I always had that advantage. 621 00:35:40,520 --> 00:35:43,160 Speaker 1: I had no fear at all, and that really got 622 00:35:43,160 --> 00:35:43,759 Speaker 1: me through a lot. 623 00:35:45,680 --> 00:35:48,319 Speaker 2: Next week on Crooked County. 624 00:35:54,960 --> 00:35:56,839 Speaker 1: He was fucking up made guy or not, he was 625 00:35:56,880 --> 00:36:01,000 Speaker 1: fucking up man, and eventually it was going to catch 626 00:36:01,080 --> 00:36:18,719 Speaker 1: up to him, but I took care of it myselfe. 627 00:36:14,960 --> 00:36:15,000 Speaker 5: No. 628 00:36:16,560 --> 00:36:20,160 Speaker 2: Crook County is a production of iHeart Podcasts and Tenderfoot 629 00:36:20,200 --> 00:36:24,759 Speaker 2: TV in association with Common Enemy. All episodes are written, produced, 630 00:36:24,840 --> 00:36:28,960 Speaker 2: and hosted by Me Kyle Tequila. Executive producers are Donald 631 00:36:28,960 --> 00:36:33,040 Speaker 2: Albright and Payne Lindsay. 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