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Speaker 1: Welcome to Reasonably Shady mail bag.

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Speaker 2: Boo boo, boo boo.

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Speaker 1: All right, guys, we got some mail and we about

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Speaker 1: to read it.

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Speaker 2: Yes we do. You've got mail, Yes we do.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So letters first, Yeah, we love you guys. Letters first,

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Speaker 1: it's from Jesse Sandoval. I don't believe that that's the

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Speaker 1: last thing. There's only one Sandal Is.

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Speaker 2: It just one? I'm just thinking you think he's that

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Speaker 2: special has been lately, by the way, he'll be a

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Speaker 2: Bravo con of course because the traders.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but like, I don't know, he's been going from

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Speaker 1: the world. We're talking about Tom Sandman.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know. He's been gone.

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Speaker 1: And his girlfriend's ex girlfriend has been all over the place.

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Speaker 1: Oh I know, yeah, that's kind of that's kind of hurt.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's crazy how that happened.

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Speaker 1: Hello again from the at X, my beautiful, lovely ladies.

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Speaker 1: I don't know what at X is is that that's Austin.

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Speaker 1: ATX is Austin. Okay, I want to come back again

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Speaker 1: and say how amazing y'all are doing in so excited.

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Speaker 1: Reasonable Shady made it to episode two hundred with many

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Speaker 1: more to come. Thank you, Still going strong, with keeping

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Speaker 1: up and also going back and listening to the past

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Speaker 1: pot past episodes. Y'all are doing great and love to

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Speaker 1: hear the next new episode every Monday as I leave

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Speaker 1: my overnight twelve hour shift. It really helps decompress from

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Speaker 1: the stressful night. On my way home, I saw that

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Speaker 1: my Green Eye Bandits will be at.

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Speaker 2: Bravo Con twenty twenty five. Yes, I had, I had.

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Speaker 1: I got tickets to go as early as an early

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Speaker 1: birthday gift to myself and hopefully get to see the

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Speaker 1: best and most beautiful housewives of all the franchises. Okay,

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Speaker 1: so thank you, Jesse. If you if you see us,

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Speaker 1: make sure you tell us that you.

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Speaker 2: Wrote the letcher Jesse. Yeah, okay.

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Speaker 1: As my birthday is the following week after Bravo, Cohn

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Speaker 1: wanted to see if I could offer you both a

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Speaker 1: drink or a shot with y'all to help celebrate my

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Speaker 1: twenty fifth birthday. I can't think of anyone else I

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Speaker 1: would want it with then the best ladies I know

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Speaker 1: we'd love to celebrate with y'all. Love y'all so much

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Speaker 1: and thank you for helping us get through the hard

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Speaker 1: times with laughs. Okay, bite me ps, my friend Lauren

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Speaker 1: Dominguez asked if y'all would give her a shot shout

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Speaker 1: out as I got her to start listening to the pod,

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Speaker 1: so she just got the shout out with up girl

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Speaker 1: love Jesse. Okay, so, Jess, if you see us at

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Speaker 1: Bravo Cohn, let us know who what you are.

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Speaker 2: I wonder if he's because you know, we have like

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Speaker 2: do we have those we have the photo op. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: so we'll be together. We have a photo op, and

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Speaker 2: then do we have like one of those we have

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Speaker 2: a panel like mingling. No, we have a mix and

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Speaker 2: mingle thing in the room. Yeah, so I don't know

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Speaker 2: is the photo some of that is like VI I P.

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Speaker 2: I don't know if he's yeah, I don't know it

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Speaker 2: works like I don't know. Are you allowed to like

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Speaker 2: pick ones that you want to go to? Yeah? I

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Speaker 2: think so, you know what. I think there's levels too.

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Speaker 2: I know the mix and mingle is like a VIP status. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: and if he's or she, I don't know if Jesse

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Speaker 1: But anyway, if you're if you just want to like

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Speaker 1: say hi, I take a picture. I think that's open

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Speaker 1: to everybody, right, Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Okay, well we have a, you have a couple opportunities

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Speaker 2: to get us together. So I don't know if there's

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Speaker 2: like a schedule you can look at and find us.

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Speaker 2: But happy birthday, Jesse if yes, see you.

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Speaker 1: Totally And to uh Loreen Domingez, yes, yes, thanks for.

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Speaker 2: You know listening. Oh wait, is it Jesse's birthday or

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Speaker 2: Loreen's birthday or both? No? No, no, Loreen got the shot out? Yeah,

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Speaker 2: got shot started listening and Jesse Jesse wants to offer

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Speaker 2: us a shot? How nice? Oh? Yes, yes, for Jesse's birthday.

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Speaker 1: Yes, I want top shelf shot and I'll pay for it. Okay, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I can't let you. That's the that's the whole thing. Remember,

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Speaker 1: he says, your birthday. Yeah, we have to pay.

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Speaker 2: For you right? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: How did I just wrote myself into this? He Jesse offered, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: But that would be the birth that would be a

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Speaker 2: gift to oh that we did it together. Yes, okay,

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Speaker 2: but what we'll see, we'll make app we'll figure out

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Speaker 2: So you know we have old, old, old letters too

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Speaker 2: that we like to read. Because we held onto them. Yes,

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Speaker 2: all right, so this is from Crystal. This is from

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Speaker 2: July twenty twenty four. So something we talked about back then,

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Speaker 2: she said, about rude things. I guess we were talking

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Speaker 2: about things that we find rude. Yes, rude to Okay,

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Speaker 2: go ahead, she said, I was surprised that some of

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Speaker 2: your answers it is. It is totally rude to talk

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Speaker 2: your business? And I don't go into people's homes empty handed. However,

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Speaker 2: I so agree with Robin about cashiers and clerks saying

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Speaker 2: nothing when you step up to the counter. That's rude.

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Speaker 2: I always greet that and sometimes get no response. Agreed

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Speaker 2: that strong perfume on public transit is rude. It gives

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Speaker 2: me a headache. I love you both. Okay, okay, let's

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Speaker 2: start for the beginning. We got a few things to

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Speaker 2: talk about, yes, okay, So what was the first one?

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Speaker 2: The speaker phone? Speakerphone? Okay, So for years.

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Speaker 1: My phone I couldn't hear anyone unless it was on speaker.

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Speaker 1: Oh really, yeah, that was like even five in my house.

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Speaker 1: Like if I'm not if I have no one around me,

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Speaker 1: I cannot hear it because my phone was broke.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so suck it right, it is what it is. Sorry, Okay,

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Speaker 2: I'm sorry. I you know, I am like the rude police.

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Speaker 2: Sometimes I find certain things to be rude. But that

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Speaker 2: I I don't like. Yes, if it's rude, I'm sorry.

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Speaker 2: It's just what's the difference between if Giselle and I

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Speaker 2: a conversation on the phone. Yes, speaker, it's like the

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Speaker 2: same thing. So it's totally the same thing. So pretend

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Speaker 2: I was in an airport from my early flight not

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Speaker 2: too long ago, and there was four people, two couples,

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Speaker 1: This is like five o'clock in the morning, guys, and

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Speaker 1: the lady is so loud and she's laughing like I

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Speaker 1: promise you I want to get up and smack her.

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Speaker 1: Like I just was like, lady, it's too loud for

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Speaker 2: I don't want the little radio waves. I don't want

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Speaker 1: You know, because they're saying, oh oh, speaking of that,

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Speaker 1: we off digress are They're saying they're saying that athletes

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Speaker 1: now don't use the earbuds, they use the the cord,

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Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, I mean for me, it's like these this

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Speaker 2: I just I don't I don't want it next to

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Speaker 2: So that's why I use airbuds. Do you have the

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Speaker 2: wire I don't use. I don't. That's the thing. I

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Speaker 2: don't like anything on my ears nothing. I don't like.

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Speaker 2: the probably the only time that I do use them,

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Speaker 2: but I use them. I only use it on the plane.

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Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, yeah, that would be the only time. But

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Speaker 2: yesterday with my armband on with my music playing. But

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Speaker 2: I'm not being rude because they're playing music like throughout

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Speaker 2: It's not what was anybody around? You know. It's not

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Speaker 2: the music that's already playing in the gym. Gym? Are

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Speaker 2: you in lifetime? Okay? So they're playing is it loud?

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Speaker 2: Is that their music loud? It's not super loud, but

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Speaker 2: it's still loud enough that my little music on my

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Speaker 1: It's gonna bother her what's her name again, Crystal Crystal.

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Speaker 1: And I'm gonna wear whatever perfume I want to wear.

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Speaker 1: And I'm gonna spray as many sprays as I want to.

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Speaker 2: Okay. See, so I had to tell one the other day.

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Speaker 2: He had this new cologne on that I hadn't really

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Speaker 2: and I was like, if I say something, he's going

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Speaker 2: So we got home. I was like, can I tell

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Speaker 1: But you're so nice around because I would have been like, uh,

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Speaker 1: that shit stink.

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Speaker 2: Though. I'm like this new cologne that you're wearing, it's

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Speaker 2: a little strong for me. It's giving me a headache,

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Speaker 2: and I don't really like the scent. I'm like, I'm

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Speaker 2: like what is it? Like where did this come from?

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Speaker 2: Because I've never really felt that way about his sense before,

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Speaker 2: And like I could tell instantly he was like, oh,

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Speaker 2: It's like he was, like, didn't even want me to

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Speaker 2: tell me where it was from. Yeah, and now I

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Speaker 2: know why. This is Like Louis Vauton cologne costs like

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Speaker 2: four hundred dollars and I'm over here telling him.

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Speaker 1: That it stinks like that it's which one because I

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Speaker 1: have like three of theirs that I love.

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Speaker 2: Corey has one that one BA that I like. But

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Speaker 2: this scent, whatever it is, it's something in it that

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Speaker 2: just like you don't like it. It's too much for me.

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Speaker 2: So I don't know. I think sometimes when people when

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Speaker 2: you think they're wearing too much perfume, it's not that

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Speaker 2: it's like not agreeing, it's just that it's not agreeing

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Speaker 2: with you, you know, because I've never had that complaint

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Speaker 2: with him before on anything else. It was just whatever

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Speaker 2: that scent was, it was too strong. Has he wanted again? No, Oh,

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Speaker 2: so that's I say. He said, Now you got me.

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Speaker 2: Now I can't wear my Colonne anymore. I said, well,

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Speaker 2: maybe try like just use it a little bit, like

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Speaker 2: or mix it, tell them to mix it or something else. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 2: people's houses empty handed. I'm sorry. Yeah, I guess I'm rude.

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Speaker 1: Well it depends if are you there every week and

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Speaker 2: do we cover all of hers? Yeah? Pre okay, all right,

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Speaker 2: from Lilyhi Lily again. This is from this is older.

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Speaker 2: This is from August of twenty twenty four. She said, Hey, ladies,

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Speaker 2: I was excited to hear you might be on the

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Speaker 2: next season of The Traders, whatever project you were working on.

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Speaker 2: You know, I'll be watching, just like I did when

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Speaker 2: you were on Ultimate Girls Trip, which is ou Now.

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Speaker 2: sign what y'all have been saying about j Lo lately.

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Speaker 2: noticed that y'all have sometimes been hard on women in

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Speaker 2: there's no way that's real. People what okay? People are

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Speaker 1: Okay, So Jennifer recently, I wanted to talk about this

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Speaker 1: And in a relationship, there's no like perfection there, there's

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Speaker 1: But I've been in a but slow of relationship, right,

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Speaker 1: I would understand that even though I've been together forever,

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