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Speaker 2: Welcome to yet another episode of for the Dad's Big Episode.

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Speaker 2: Because it is officially Spooktober, next time you see this set,

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Speaker 2: it will be covered in cobwebs, in ghosts and ghoules.

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Speaker 2: We have a new for the Dad's shirt available right

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Speaker 2: now at BWTV dot com.

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Speaker 1: I'm wearing it.

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Speaker 2: You got Willie Wolf, Willyweeshelf, the big Wolf. You got

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Speaker 2: little baby Wolf over here, and he's wearing a little

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Speaker 2: ghosty outfit. It's very cute, it's very spooky. Make sure

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Speaker 2: bussing goes Huge Spooktober drop a lot of cool stuff.

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Speaker 2: And let's send this episode to a dad that's maybe

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Speaker 2: never heard of the show. That could be our homework assignment.

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Speaker 2: Chef agrees, he says, let's send it to a dad

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Speaker 2: that's an ever heard of the show, and empty sixers

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Speaker 2: heard of the show. Guys, thank you so much for

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Speaker 2: tuning in for another week. Before the Dads, let's get

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Speaker 2: to the episode.

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Speaker 1: Papa Team six. Welcome to another episode of four The

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Speaker 1: Dad's Happy spooktober. I hope your bellies are full and

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Speaker 1: balls are empty. This is another episode this week on

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Speaker 1: four the Dads Listen. This show is free for you

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Speaker 1: show is for the intentional fathers. The fathers want, the

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Speaker 1: fathers out there wanting to be better. At the end

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Speaker 1: fuck it up and just keep showing up the next day,

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Speaker 1: because that is exactly what we do. We talk about

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Speaker 1: our failures, we talk about our wins, how areas we

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Speaker 1: have a hotline that we feature in the episode episode

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Speaker 1: called six on one The Dad's What else sherm Dog?

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Speaker 1: What else do we have?

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Speaker 2: Keanu Reeves Hardball has a great quote about showing up.

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Speaker 2: I think showing up is the main takeaway from the show.

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Speaker 2: We are not experts, absolutely not. We have a email

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Speaker 2: also for our international listeners if you do want to

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Speaker 1: And they'll be featured on the show.

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Speaker 2: They'll be featured on the show. And I actually have

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Speaker 2: one printed out thanks to Derek, hand full of cards,

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Speaker 2: handful of cards in full of comments.

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Speaker 1: Yes, because the engagement has been incredible, the community that's

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Speaker 1: building within PT six with an ST six eman Team six.

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Speaker 1: You got your captain Chef Jack back there. Uh, we

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Speaker 1: still got to figure out who who the leader leader

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Speaker 2: He's killing the Funkel game right now.

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Speaker 1: Killing the Funkel game right now, the leader of the

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Speaker 1: Funkals out there. But the engagement community that's building is incredible. Again,

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Speaker 1: Continue to leave comments, We read them all the time.

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Speaker 1: Send messages, send replies. If you see a fellow PT

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Speaker 1: sixer leaving a heartfelt message, drop replies in form, put

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Speaker 1: truly be a part of this community, the way you

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Speaker 1: do that is you go to bwtv dot com. We

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Speaker 1: got a plethora of merch out there. These hats, the

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Speaker 1: Everything is available, hats, hoodies, te's.

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Speaker 1: The Little One Scottie Joe Man ten months old. She

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Speaker 2: Before the dads way, Okay, we can't like fully tease

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Speaker 1: But the idea is have a trunk or treat because

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Speaker 1: it is it is October. First, we are in Spootober.

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Speaker 2: And I haven't done a full trunk or treat since

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Speaker 1: You can make it happen. I can't can fill the

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Speaker 2: I want twinkle lights. I need this and I want that.

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Speaker 1: Involving the kiddos. Oh yeah, dude, Like I'm just thinking,

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Speaker 2: We know some local musicians, dude, get some music going.

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Speaker 1: team Sicko and Gentry Farms has a really big parking lot. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: Great for trunk of treating and any locals that haven't

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Speaker 1: They got everything? Putt putt.

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Speaker 2: Were putting everybody on game. Everybody listening. Yeah, but it

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Speaker 2: Even if it's a I know somebody that knows somebody,

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Speaker 2: I don't blame her. That Commodore was a creepy He's

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Speaker 4: I'll be quick on this. When I was five years old,

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Speaker 1: Oh bro hey, yeah that is to me. I think

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Speaker 1: You are up for that day. As you got older,

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Speaker 2: Series based on the animatronic and I know the name

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Speaker 2: of it, Five Nights of Freddie Thank you. Oh yeah,

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Speaker 1: I didn't even know that they had like movies or

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Speaker 2: And always there was always one that was like, uh

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Speaker 2: I mean it was the scariest thing the world. You're like, oh,

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Speaker 2: why is the duck not playing? It's okay, honey, God Chucky.

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Speaker 1: You're like trying to listen to music, but the whole

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Speaker 2: I have to bring this up because I loved it

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Speaker 1: Yeah, oh dude.

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Speaker 2: I would spend a whole birthday party on that me.

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Speaker 2: I was in the Jurassic Park. That's You're like, good,

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Speaker 2: the jeep or whatever. Yes, the curtains, yeah, go inside, all.

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Speaker 1: Your stepping in there, you close the curtains. You're like, well,

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Speaker 4: It's not they give you the old like, yeah, I

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Speaker 4: remember how that taste and when.

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Speaker 1: You get older, my good, it's good. They took a drink.

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Speaker 1: Now they're gonna hate it when they're older.

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Speaker 2: My first one was a margarita. Thought it was a sprite.

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Speaker 2: It wasn't bad, but I definitely was kind of like, oh,

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Speaker 4: I don't want to our old John, but in a

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Speaker 1: Sorry dad. My parents used to own a gym when

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Speaker 2: Wait, they owned the gym.

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Speaker 1: They owned the gym. That's back when Billy c was

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Speaker 2: Rat tail in the back. No way, we have to

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Speaker 1: Oh my god. I remember coming across it in a

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Speaker 2: I won't say where, but my mullet. When I first

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Speaker 4: You found it, Yeah, I found it. Geno's where it

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Speaker 1: You're proud of it, proud scard will come across it

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Speaker 1: People talk about uh, it's like they I'm super over

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Speaker 1: Showed me back, and he's got his weightlifting buddies over.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I thought these were my dad wanted to

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Speaker 1: He was a sick yes, Arnold Schwarzenegger, Mike Mintzer, all

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Speaker 1: He doesn't so he's nervous to like fall off. He

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00:20:58,800 --> 00:21:00,720
Speaker 1: doesn't want to. I'm like, yo, daddy, it is so fun,

436
00:21:00,760 --> 00:21:03,200
Speaker 1: Like it's not hard. You sit, you sit on the raft,

437
00:21:03,320 --> 00:21:06,480
Speaker 1: like you know, whether it's like level three, four twos, whatever,

438
00:21:06,520 --> 00:21:11,119
Speaker 1: it is, like, it's it's super fun. Yeah, and he was.

439
00:21:11,480 --> 00:21:13,000
Speaker 1: He got to the point to where he was very

440
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Speaker 1: defensive and super serious, and he's like, you want me

441
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Speaker 1: to risk taking away the greatest joy in my life,

442
00:21:17,119 --> 00:21:19,239
Speaker 1: which is weightlifting, because if I hurt myself fall out.

443
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Speaker 1: He's like, I'm not doing it because he's like he

444
00:21:21,560 --> 00:21:26,439
Speaker 1: can't leg press anymore. Like he's yeah, how old are

445
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Speaker 1: you at? This is this like I'm older. I'm in

446
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Speaker 1: my twenties. Yeah, yeah, yeah, I'm in my twenties. I'm like,

447
00:21:30,800 --> 00:21:32,600
Speaker 1: I think I'm playing in the NFL. This is like

448
00:21:32,640 --> 00:21:35,560
Speaker 1: my early years. Say, we're going to playing a wedding,

449
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Speaker 1: so we're going at the Colorado Great White Water Rafting

450
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Speaker 1: out in Colorado.

451
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Speaker 2: Yeah, he's late fifties, early sixties.

452
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Speaker 1: At this point. Yeah, so he would be one of

453
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Speaker 1: my thirty five so about ten years ago. Yeah, he'd

454
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Speaker 1: be around fifty years old and he's still hitting the

455
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Speaker 1: leg presses.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah to this day, to this day, to every day,

457
00:21:55,000 --> 00:21:56,040
Speaker 2: he's a weightlifter.

458
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Speaker 1: Bro. Like he's a weightlifter, not like exercise and like

459
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Speaker 1: he go walks and gets his steps in now and

460
00:22:01,520 --> 00:22:03,520
Speaker 1: stuff like that. Yeah, but as far as like all

461
00:22:03,520 --> 00:22:05,760
Speaker 1: the mobility stuff, he would entertain it, but it's like

462
00:22:06,280 --> 00:22:09,680
Speaker 1: he's got to get his lifts in. And he said,

463
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Speaker 1: like the biggest, you know, the biggest love of my life.

464
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Speaker 1: You want me to risk taking that away to go

465
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Speaker 1: on a raft? And he was dead serious. We're laughing

466
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Speaker 1: now he might be watching a home laughing behind the

467
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Speaker 1: TV at this, but this was like this was a

468
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Speaker 1: serious moment. Yes, this wasn't like this was like all

469
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Speaker 1: right dad, like and he kind of just gotta walk

470
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Speaker 1: away from the situation. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I got really quiet in the car for like the

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Speaker 2: next twenty.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, like he almost said it with his chest to

474
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Speaker 1: where he's like, yeah, my number one love in my

475
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Speaker 1: life and like looks at my mom.

476
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Speaker 2: Like you're you have a little shaky boy.

477
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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, to where you know, you know what I mean,

478
00:22:45,200 --> 00:22:48,159
Speaker 1: like you start to your butt, your heart rate goes up,

479
00:22:48,240 --> 00:22:50,840
Speaker 1: your eyes start to shake a little bit. Yeah, to

480
00:22:50,880 --> 00:22:52,760
Speaker 1: where he just has that look to where it's like,

481
00:22:52,760 --> 00:22:59,040
Speaker 1: all right, I guess we're just not gonna billy buddy. Yeah, yeah,

482
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Speaker 1: I hear you. Vacation him is sitting in the room,

483
00:23:03,040 --> 00:23:05,080
Speaker 1: which I you know, I have half of that in me.

484
00:23:05,200 --> 00:23:06,880
Speaker 1: I'm kind of like that at times. Soon My wife

485
00:23:06,920 --> 00:23:09,800
Speaker 1: has done a great job like being adventurous and getting

486
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Speaker 1: me out and like doing all these things to experience stuff.

487
00:23:13,000 --> 00:23:16,080
Speaker 1: But we never did vacations growing up. So him, like

488
00:23:16,160 --> 00:23:18,040
Speaker 1: us going on vacation, he wants just like quiet time,

489
00:23:18,119 --> 00:23:20,399
Speaker 1: thinking we're gonna sit by the river. We're trying to

490
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Speaker 1: put together these excursions to where it's like, hey, let's

491
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Speaker 1: go to the White Wall raft and he wants no

492
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Speaker 1: part of it.

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Speaker 2: I love. I am so down for excursions. I'm kind

494
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Speaker 2: of like, uh, paint the picture for me and.

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Speaker 1: I'll do it.

496
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Speaker 2: Like I truly, Yeah, if you want to sit in

497
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Speaker 2: the hotel room all day, I totally get it.

498
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Speaker 1: But yeah, my dad.

499
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Speaker 2: And Jill's stepdad, Hey love a hotel room, dude, And

500
00:23:45,200 --> 00:23:48,199
Speaker 2: there's nothing wrong with it. But that, now that I

501
00:23:48,200 --> 00:23:51,720
Speaker 2: think about it, is such a funny premise of just

502
00:23:51,760 --> 00:23:54,040
Speaker 2: spending the money to go on vacation and then you're

503
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Speaker 2: just hanging out in this room.

504
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Speaker 1: So he's whitewater rafts. Starts he went, but after a

505
00:24:01,440 --> 00:24:05,040
Speaker 1: few minutes said pull it over, I'm getting out. No, No,

506
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Speaker 1: I had.

507
00:24:06,640 --> 00:24:08,479
Speaker 2: The life checking on everything. We had drop him off.

508
00:24:08,520 --> 00:24:10,280
Speaker 2: He had the bus had to come pick him up,

509
00:24:11,160 --> 00:24:15,760
Speaker 2: saying they busty yes. So they get on the walkie

510
00:24:15,800 --> 00:24:18,400
Speaker 2: and they go, hey mile Marker Bula, Yeah, yeah, yeah, Oh,

511
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Speaker 2: Billy C's gonna be out.

512
00:24:19,680 --> 00:24:24,040
Speaker 1: There big time vibe killer. Was he just muthering under

513
00:24:24,119 --> 00:24:27,720
Speaker 1: his yeah, like you know, it starts like rattlings. You

514
00:24:27,760 --> 00:24:31,680
Speaker 1: see him start to hang on the raft and I'm

515
00:24:31,720 --> 00:24:36,000
Speaker 1: like this, I'm like, I'm laughing, a laughing.

516
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Speaker 2: And the guy in the back on like the high

517
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Speaker 2: chair and come.

518
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Speaker 1: On, dad, Bill, seat strokes. Bill, he's just two strokes

519
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Speaker 1: on the right, Bill. We need you back there.

520
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Speaker 2: Bill, where's my anchor? Oh my god, that's so funny.

521
00:24:57,080 --> 00:24:58,760
Speaker 1: In his mind, he's just thinking I'll never be able

522
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Speaker 1: to press or squad.

523
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Speaker 2: Just imagining himself in the gym. Dude, I love that.

524
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Speaker 2: I love that I did not know that about your dad.

525
00:25:09,040 --> 00:25:11,600
Speaker 2: I really don't. Yeah, it makes sense because he is

526
00:25:11,640 --> 00:25:13,439
Speaker 2: in really good shape, like.

527
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Speaker 1: For his age he is now he wasn't for the

528
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Speaker 1: longest time. He'd like, he's somebody has to just buy

529
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Speaker 1: in to a diet, Like he's got to do everything.

530
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Speaker 1: Everything to a tea, everything to a t Yeah, because

531
00:25:23,520 --> 00:25:25,640
Speaker 1: when he was body building, you're like measuring your vegetables,

532
00:25:25,680 --> 00:25:27,919
Speaker 1: You're measuring all this shit. So if he fell off

533
00:25:27,960 --> 00:25:30,520
Speaker 1: the rocker, just be like, you know, he's off the rocker.

534
00:25:30,640 --> 00:25:33,800
Speaker 1: There's no like just getting course correct and getting back on. Yeah.

535
00:25:33,840 --> 00:25:36,000
Speaker 1: So he'd go through these phases where he loses a

536
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Speaker 1: bunch of weight and then like say he's like lost

537
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Speaker 1: thirty pounds, but then I don't know, a couple of

538
00:25:40,480 --> 00:25:42,439
Speaker 1: cheap days later or something like that. He's kind of

539
00:25:42,440 --> 00:25:44,520
Speaker 1: back on whatever he's doing because he was drinking. I mean,

540
00:25:44,560 --> 00:25:47,240
Speaker 1: he's drink forever. Yeah, But ever since he got sober

541
00:25:47,760 --> 00:25:50,720
Speaker 1: over a year ago, it's he's been he's been dialed.

542
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Speaker 2: He has dropped it, dropped it because when I started

543
00:25:54,440 --> 00:25:58,600
Speaker 2: it was that dad combine. Yeah, and then go back

544
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Speaker 2: the next year and I'm like, oh my god, gosh,

545
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Speaker 2: Bill looks incredible.

546
00:26:01,920 --> 00:26:04,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, he's always been a weightlifting sick. Oh, so that

547
00:26:04,560 --> 00:26:06,840
Speaker 1: was It was always performer, Like when his boys are

548
00:26:06,880 --> 00:26:09,080
Speaker 1: at the house, it's like, will come out here and

549
00:26:09,119 --> 00:26:12,600
Speaker 1: I gotta pause the game. Take off your shirt, show

550
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Speaker 1: me your most muscular.

551
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Speaker 2: And let's get back to this episode. I'm glad that

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Speaker 2: you brought it back to that because when you first

591
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Speaker 2: told me that story, I just imagined like Friday Friday

592
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Speaker 2: night drinking buddies coming over here and Bill being like,

593
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Speaker 2: hold on, let me go get let me go get

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Speaker 2: the kid, Let me get the kid, And all his

595
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Speaker 2: buddies are sitting there with the beer, like, Bill, you

596
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Speaker 2: really don't have to you just let him play his game.

597
00:28:35,480 --> 00:28:39,200
Speaker 2: It's okay. But then I'm like, okay, no, they're sick. Ohs.

598
00:28:39,240 --> 00:28:41,360
Speaker 2: And they're probably sitting there too, going oh, yeah, he's

599
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Speaker 2: got it. Bill, got it, He's got it.

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Speaker 1: He show him your back, showing me back. Oh yeah, Bill,

601
00:28:48,760 --> 00:28:51,320
Speaker 1: he's a chip off the block. He's a chip off

602
00:28:51,680 --> 00:28:56,040
Speaker 1: We're talking. This is potential, mister universe writer. He's got

603
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Speaker 1: the legs too, like he's got his mom legs. He

604
00:28:57,760 --> 00:28:59,520
Speaker 1: doesn't have my skinny, Like, show him your legs. I'm

605
00:28:59,520 --> 00:29:05,320
Speaker 1: sit out there flex in my quad. It's kind of rotating, dude.

606
00:29:06,000 --> 00:29:06,760
Speaker 1: Oh my god.

607
00:29:06,840 --> 00:29:09,200
Speaker 2: Time machines need to exist, just to be a fly

608
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Speaker 2: on the wall for the conversation of when you left

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Speaker 2: the room. Yeah, I'm telling you boys, he likes the

610
00:29:15,600 --> 00:29:17,640
Speaker 2: gym too. I don't even have to tell him to

611
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Speaker 2: get in there. He gets in there himself.

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Speaker 1: Let's get to some comments. Let's have some fun with six. Absolutely,

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Speaker 1: I got I got a good vibes on right here.

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Speaker 1: This one comes from Gabby Oney on YouTube Mama Mama

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Speaker 1: Team six. Here my husband and I watch every week

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Speaker 1: on YouTube together after our fifteen month old son goes

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Speaker 1: to bed. We look forward to this every week and

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Speaker 1: really give us time to talk, laugh, cry and enjoy

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Speaker 1: our time again. We love you, guys, Travis and Gabby.

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Speaker 1: Members of PT six and MPT six shout out travising.

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Speaker 2: Gabby, Yo, shout out Travis and Gabby.

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Speaker 1: Is that the same Gabby? Not the same Gabby?

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Speaker 2: Different gag Gabby Oney seven seven eight six. By the way,

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Speaker 2: the odds, what are the odds?

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Speaker 1: By Banduel on this emotional episode were placed at what

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Speaker 1: It's probably at minus three sixty right now. Yeah, all right,

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Speaker 1: we'll see. Are you is this a sad one that

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Speaker 1: you're about to read right now? No? No, no, no.

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Speaker 1: I have two coming in from the hospital. Do you

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Speaker 1: have a good vibes one?

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Speaker 2: I have a good vibes one? Michael Underscore Cody from

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Speaker 2: Instagram says wife being induced three weeks early because of

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Speaker 2: high blood pressure. Also been there, Michael bad but good

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Speaker 2: had an absolute battle with the car seat base good.

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Speaker 2: Whole house was a mess because we thought she would

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Speaker 2: go the full forty weeks good but pt six shirt

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Speaker 2: packed in my hospital bag.

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Speaker 1: Great.

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Speaker 2: Love the pod and truly appreciate y'all's vulnerability as dad's

641
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Speaker 2: excited to welcome our first child, a.

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Speaker 1: Baby boy into our life by boy, baby boy. Well, Michael,

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Speaker 1: that's so funny because you know he wrote that first line,

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Speaker 1: that first sentence like this is all blood pressure high good,

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Speaker 1: and then probably as he wrote it, he's looking like

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Speaker 1: that's a good thing.

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Speaker 2: Let me go ahead, but bad but good? Yeah, oh, Michael,

648
00:31:05,360 --> 00:31:08,280
Speaker 2: and been there. Jill literally had to do the exact

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Speaker 2: same thing. So I know how you feel and best

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Speaker 2: of luck.

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Speaker 1: To you guys. Yeah. Absolutely, I got a couple more

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Speaker 1: coming in from the hospital. I got a I burn

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Speaker 1: easy seventy three, seventy nine. Well, boys, tomorrow's episode hasn't

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Speaker 1: come yet, but here I am just sat down in

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Speaker 1: the hospital after the wife's water broke. Just wanted to

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Speaker 1: say thank you for hyping this man up to be

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Speaker 1: the greatest girl dad he can be. Can't wait to

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Speaker 1: listen to the pod tomorrow and probably comment again. In

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Speaker 1: for a long night here. Good good dude. Shout out

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Speaker 1: you man, good luck. I hope everything went well. I

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Speaker 1: hope mom and baby are doing well and healthy. But

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Speaker 1: shout out you for engaging with the PT six community.

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Speaker 1: I got another one from from Maggie Ledesma. Let's go

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Speaker 1: Baddie and Fat Stafford. PT six and MT six heading

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Speaker 1: back to the trenches for a second tour after adding

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Speaker 1: child number two right in the middle of football season.

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Speaker 1: Good two and a half year old son and one

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Speaker 1: day old daughter. My husband is now a high school

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Speaker 1: football coach and has been a Tier one listener a

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Speaker 1: bustle with the boys since his time in the in

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Speaker 1: the for the Dad's podcast. As like you guys have

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Speaker 1: stated before, it brings a perspective that we all go

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Speaker 1: through is normal, that what we all go through is normal,

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Speaker 1: and we're all doing the best we can. Thank you

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Speaker 1: for all the last and getting us through the tough times.

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Speaker 1: Parenting is hard but the best fun ever. Feel free

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Speaker 1: to post this if you feel so inclined with a

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Speaker 1: few good emojis and they're both hitting the flex pos.

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Speaker 1: They're both hitting the flex post at the hospital. Oh

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Speaker 1: my god, Mama's up and move hey, sweetheartk C. You

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Speaker 1: know baby sleeping. Let's get out. Hey, come get out, hey,

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Speaker 1: get out of the hospital post for the boys. Get up.

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Speaker 2: What a incredible photo. If there's any way that we

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Speaker 2: could get that on the Episod said to you.

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Speaker 1: Bro Godley, the dads with the with the with the

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Speaker 1: young with the young men, the boys that are old enough.

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Speaker 1: You just start witnessing dads, they thank your shirt off.

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Speaker 2: Hit the post, hit the post, hit the post, hit

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Speaker 2: the poster for that. This is for my buddies. This

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Speaker 2: is for my buddies. Honey, what are your what are

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Speaker 2: y'all doing this? Don't worry about it, sweetie. It's for

694
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Speaker 2: the boys at that age.

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Speaker 1: So it's like, you know, I'm thinking of like second grade,

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Speaker 1: third grade. I'm sitting there. It's like I was a

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Speaker 1: wrestler too, So I had the buzz head. I had

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Speaker 1: it all.

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Speaker 2: Just in what video game where you playing that you're

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Speaker 2: hitting the back then?

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Speaker 1: I mean I played them all, bro, I played all

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Speaker 1: the video games. I was a big WWF guy, WWE

703
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Speaker 1: w c W. So the wrestling games, all the football

704
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Speaker 1: games like Game Day was a staple on PlayStation for

705
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Speaker 1: me growing up. My parents got me the the Second

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Speaker 1: Genesis and I had like Mad ninety five. Maybe it

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Speaker 1: was just called Mad, and I can remember when tapping

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Speaker 1: the two buttons doing the forty yep. Then it was

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Speaker 1: Second Genesis to where your PlayStation had Jurassic Park. I

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Speaker 1: was fired up about that one. I played all the

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Speaker 1: video games, Broe. I loved video games.

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Speaker 2: They just like an image of young Willie C with

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Speaker 2: some flaming hot Cheetahs in front of the TV playing

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Speaker 2: w w F and Dad telling him to pause the game.

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Speaker 1: God he will, Yeah, do you come out of here? Second?

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Speaker 1: Why he just come out of here a second? Set

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Speaker 1: the controller down wired to the console. Yeah, hey, come here.

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Speaker 1: I wanna, I wanna, I wanna come here. I want

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Speaker 1: to I want to show you something because this is inside.

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Speaker 1: We're inside. He's got to take me out to the

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Speaker 1: ground where the boys are. He's like, oh, Dwayne, he's here.

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Speaker 1: I was telling him he wanted to see your physique,

723
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Speaker 1: Dayne's you want to see take your shirt off?

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Speaker 2: Is this the same garage that's also the weight room?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? Oh my god, God, dude, they'd have some classic

726
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Speaker 1: rock you know what I mean, some rock and roll playing.

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Speaker 2: Oh, we got to get an AI clip of that story, dude.

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Speaker 1: Like case ninety five, Bro, it was like ninety four

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Speaker 1: point seven was the rock and roll station.

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Speaker 5: Dude, dune d damn, what do I gotta just just

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Speaker 5: come on it only take a minute.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god.

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Speaker 2: A great Halloween costume too for some of the kid

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Speaker 2: I was out there b willye c in most muscular dude.

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Speaker 1: I I my mom hoped this was back. You know,

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Speaker 1: my mom was doing homemade costumes for us. But I

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Speaker 1: was the Ultimate Warrior one year, face painted ultimately woh

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Speaker 1: made me a little like paper belt that I had? Yes?

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Speaker 2: And who was the Ultimate Warrior? It was like a

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Speaker 2: well known wrestler that was dressing up as Ultimate Warrior

741
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Speaker 2: or is the Ultimate Warrior? Was his thing?

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Speaker 1: The Ultimate Warrior. What you see was hanging from the Bible. Yeah. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: they're like speedo trunks whatever you call like boots on.

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Speaker 2: Yes, champion, long hair, face painted different colors. He was

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Speaker 2: the Ultimate Warrior, the Ultimate war Okay, I was thinking,

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Speaker 2: was it the Hulkster that was like somebody else he had?

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Speaker 2: He had like an.

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Speaker 6: Altar had multiple He had cactus Jack and a bunch

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Speaker 6: of stuff there, So is that what you're thinking about?

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Speaker 1: Maybe maybe he.

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Speaker 6: Had mankind and cactus Jack and steamboat something or another

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Speaker 6: love boat something.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I don't know why. Not a big wrestling fan

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Speaker 2: growing No, not a big one growing up, but enough

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Speaker 2: to where like I was playing the WWE WWF games

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Speaker 2: like at friends houses and like play wrestling and stuff

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Speaker 2: with couch cushions.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm sure.

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Speaker 2: I mean my mom didn't let me read Harry Potter

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Speaker 2: because it was you know, her Bible study was like

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Speaker 2: it's Waitchcraft, don't let him. Yeah, so I'm sure if

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Speaker 2: w W had been on the TV, she would have

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Speaker 2: been like Sherman, which is my dad's name. Way, what

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Speaker 2: are y'all watching?

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Speaker 1: What are you doing?

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Speaker 2: Honey? The kids love it?

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Speaker 1: Okay.

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Speaker 2: This one comes from Instagram. This is Nick spawn Seller.

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Speaker 2: He says, Hey, guys, I've been listening ever since I

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Speaker 2: found out I'm going to be a dad to a

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Speaker 2: little girl in March six.

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Speaker 1: Let's go it.

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Speaker 2: Curious on how you guys dealt with the name situation.

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Speaker 2: My fiance and I are at a spot where we

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Speaker 2: have narrowed down the top two names. The problem is

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Speaker 2: she wants one and I want the other. I want

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Speaker 2: to give in because after we are married, we want

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Speaker 2: another or I want you give in because after we

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Speaker 2: are married we want another kid. And if it's a boy,

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Speaker 2: we already have that name picked out because of me thoughts.

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00:37:50,640 --> 00:37:52,960
Speaker 2: I know we both need to agree, but curious on

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Speaker 2: any advice to get there, do you?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, this is one look if you want to have

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Speaker 1: a second kid, and let's just say the boy's name's

785
00:38:02,320 --> 00:38:05,160
Speaker 1: already dialed in, your name in it after after yourself

786
00:38:05,280 --> 00:38:07,799
Speaker 1: or whatever the boy name he has picked out, that's

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Speaker 1: gonna be what he chose. This is where it's like, hey,

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Speaker 1: you gotta this is where you've been the knee. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Like if my wife and I, like, you know, we're

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Speaker 1: going back and forth on a couple of boy names

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Speaker 1: because I've always been a fan of wanting the fourth

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Speaker 1: and so I know, no matter what, even though she

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Speaker 1: doesn't necessarily want that, Like I'm you know, I think

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Speaker 1: about both of the names that we kind of have done,

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Speaker 1: and she's always trying to get me off the step

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Speaker 1: of William Earle the fourth. Yeah, and so I know,

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Speaker 1: no matter what, like what I've done is number one.

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Speaker 1: I loved Serulium whenever she came up with cerulium. When

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Speaker 1: it was Scotti, Jolie and Billy May were the two options.

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Speaker 1: Ultimately we named her Scottie, but when it was Billy May.

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Speaker 1: But down to those two, I wanted Billy May because

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Speaker 1: I didn't know if we're gonna go for a third.

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Speaker 1: I don't know if we're gonna try again like this

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Speaker 1: would in a way pay homage was Billy with my name,

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Speaker 1: and then May is Charles middle name, So Billy May

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Speaker 1: is how we came up Billy Dang that Okay, I

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Speaker 1: want unfortunate. You know a friend that her one of

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Speaker 1: her best friends that lives in Chicago. Her sister had

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Speaker 1: a baby and named that baby Billy May. So with

810
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Speaker 1: the women, that's off limits, that's off limits. So I

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Speaker 1: had to ultimately bend the knee on Billy May and

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Speaker 1: go to Scottie Joe Lee. So in my mind, I'm

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Speaker 1: thinking it doesn't even matter whatever the next one is,

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Speaker 1: if we so happen to get a boy, like I

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Speaker 1: am naming this child no matter what. Yeah, like you

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Speaker 1: have all the leverage, like, okay, I'll do this for

817
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Speaker 1: you but I got you on the next one. I

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Speaker 1: feel the exact same way.

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Speaker 2: But my only thing was that I really wanted to

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Speaker 2: name Scarlett. I wanted to name her Sterling. That was

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Speaker 2: my great grandfather's name. And Jill was like, love Sterling,

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Speaker 2: but don't love it as a first name. We'll do

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Speaker 2: middle names. So we found like a common ground there,

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Speaker 2: and so Scarlett's name is Scarlett Sterling young ss y

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Speaker 2: like Sherman Stewart young y nice.

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Speaker 1: I like that. Yeah, that's it.

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Speaker 2: That's how we you'll fine common ground.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, because we're not in the war room. Yeah, you

829
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Speaker 1: know what I mean, we're not in the conversation like

830
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Speaker 1: you're down to two names. Do you love your name

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Speaker 1: and like the other name? Or do you love your

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Speaker 1: name and hate the other name? Yeah? And it's the

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00:40:14,040 --> 00:40:15,640
Speaker 1: same with the wife. Does she love her name and

834
00:40:15,719 --> 00:40:17,160
Speaker 1: hate your name or does she hate it?

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Speaker 2: Like and it's like I like where his head's at

836
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Speaker 2: because he's like, hey, we want to have another kid. Great,

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Speaker 2: if you're having another kid, let her get this win.

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Speaker 2: Let her have this win, and be very like, yeah,

839
00:40:31,680 --> 00:40:33,359
Speaker 2: let's go with that name because.

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Speaker 1: You're gonna love the name. Like once they're out in

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Speaker 1: the world and like, yeah, you are gonna care.

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00:40:38,600 --> 00:40:40,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, not that I was ever like, oh I don't

843
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Speaker 2: like Scarlet because I did like that name. Yeah, but yeah,

844
00:40:44,800 --> 00:40:47,080
Speaker 2: you're not gonna care because then you're you're looking at

845
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Speaker 2: your kid and you're like, that is Scarlet or that

846
00:40:49,360 --> 00:40:52,839
Speaker 2: is ye Scotti, Jojo, Scotty Jojo, scott Zilla, which is

847
00:40:52,880 --> 00:40:56,200
Speaker 2: such a good she has some really good nicknames.

848
00:40:55,920 --> 00:40:59,919
Speaker 1: Scotty Joe. Yes, love Scotty Jojo bro. But on this top,

849
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Speaker 1: if I could simplify it as much as I possibly could,

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Speaker 1: I think the lean is more the wife if it's

851
00:41:05,680 --> 00:41:07,960
Speaker 1: a daughter, yeah, Leen is more the husband if it's

852
00:41:07,960 --> 00:41:10,359
Speaker 1: a boy, yeah. And I think that is just how

853
00:41:10,360 --> 00:41:13,080
Speaker 1: you simplify it. Agreed. And I don't know if they're

854
00:41:13,120 --> 00:41:15,440
Speaker 1: telling people about names, like my wife didn't really want

855
00:41:15,520 --> 00:41:17,520
Speaker 1: us to talk names with anybody, blah blah blah. But

856
00:41:17,760 --> 00:41:19,319
Speaker 1: you know, when we're down to Billy May and Scotty Joe,

857
00:41:19,320 --> 00:41:22,480
Speaker 1: Scotti was the second one. Scotty being the second one,

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00:41:22,520 --> 00:41:25,799
Speaker 1: I felt a little more open verbally for whoever came

859
00:41:25,840 --> 00:41:27,719
Speaker 1: around that we trust. And I know Charle wouldn't care

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00:41:27,719 --> 00:41:29,000
Speaker 1: if they knew the name of Hey, what do you

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00:41:29,000 --> 00:41:33,080
Speaker 1: think out of these two, if they said Scotty about okay,

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00:41:33,280 --> 00:41:35,600
Speaker 1: then we can we can lean Scotty. Well, cause I'm

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00:41:35,600 --> 00:41:37,520
Speaker 1: thinking in my head like I think Billy may rips,

864
00:41:37,560 --> 00:41:39,400
Speaker 1: like she just she might need to hear other people

865
00:41:39,440 --> 00:41:42,120
Speaker 1: say she just doesn't get it. So you bring others in.

866
00:41:42,160 --> 00:41:43,719
Speaker 1: You kind of give them a couple options. If they

867
00:41:43,800 --> 00:41:45,919
Speaker 1: choose the one that you're you know, if they choose

868
00:41:45,920 --> 00:41:47,640
Speaker 1: the wife's side, or they're like, hey, I kind of

869
00:41:47,640 --> 00:41:49,439
Speaker 1: like this name more. You kind of go open ended. Hey,

870
00:41:49,719 --> 00:41:51,560
Speaker 1: you're not gonna know who we're leaning here. What do

871
00:41:51,560 --> 00:41:53,600
Speaker 1: you think about these two names? And the minute you

872
00:41:53,680 --> 00:41:55,239
Speaker 1: kind of hear a couple of other opinions and they

873
00:41:55,320 --> 00:41:58,040
Speaker 1: might stack up the tallies, it's like, all right, we

874
00:41:58,080 --> 00:41:58,680
Speaker 1: can go that one.

875
00:41:58,880 --> 00:42:00,439
Speaker 2: Yeah, And setting parts.

876
00:42:00,520 --> 00:42:02,280
Speaker 1: I do this when I'm trying to figure.

877
00:42:02,040 --> 00:42:04,000
Speaker 2: Out what we want for dinner as well as I

878
00:42:04,040 --> 00:42:07,680
Speaker 2: find out what Jill doesn't want for dinner first, and

879
00:42:07,760 --> 00:42:10,279
Speaker 2: so we set those parameters with name. We're like, what

880
00:42:10,280 --> 00:42:12,200
Speaker 2: are things we don't want? Well, we don't want a

881
00:42:12,239 --> 00:42:13,680
Speaker 2: girl name that ends with E.

882
00:42:14,640 --> 00:42:18,439
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, I listen, mind Scotty. So what there's there's

883
00:42:18,600 --> 00:42:20,400
Speaker 1: you guys talking about me and my wife when you

884
00:42:20,400 --> 00:42:22,520
Speaker 1: guys are in your room, I know, I know, I

885
00:42:22,560 --> 00:42:23,600
Speaker 1: go to stupid name.

886
00:42:23,680 --> 00:42:25,160
Speaker 2: Well that was Jill that said that.

887
00:42:25,160 --> 00:42:25,719
Speaker 1: That wasn't me.

888
00:42:30,239 --> 00:42:34,120
Speaker 2: I love you know, you know, I love the noise,

889
00:42:34,160 --> 00:42:36,960
Speaker 2: but that was just like a personal preference of hers.

890
00:42:36,960 --> 00:42:38,880
Speaker 2: And she was like, I don't I don't want E

891
00:42:39,080 --> 00:42:41,279
Speaker 2: at the end of it, and I want something that's

892
00:42:41,360 --> 00:42:42,880
Speaker 2: kind of like old school.

893
00:42:43,160 --> 00:42:46,920
Speaker 1: Yeah. I was like, okay, parameters set right my wife.

894
00:42:46,920 --> 00:42:50,480
Speaker 1: My wife wanted like a boy name for Scotty, like

895
00:42:50,560 --> 00:42:52,480
Speaker 1: we were kind of narrowing down boy names that can

896
00:42:52,560 --> 00:42:55,360
Speaker 1: kind of swing the other way. So, yeah, you're right,

897
00:42:55,440 --> 00:42:58,640
Speaker 1: setting up good parameters. And that's exactly what I wanted.

898
00:42:59,000 --> 00:43:02,320
Speaker 2: Also because my grandfather's name is Charlie, and I really

899
00:43:02,360 --> 00:43:07,320
Speaker 2: wanted to name Arlet Charlie Charlie for a minute. Yeah,

900
00:43:07,400 --> 00:43:11,520
Speaker 2: And Jill was like, I not not our first one,

901
00:43:11,920 --> 00:43:14,120
Speaker 2: but I'm not opposed to it. She was like, I

902
00:43:14,120 --> 00:43:16,960
Speaker 2: want to go and so yeah, I feel like I'm

903
00:43:17,000 --> 00:43:21,240
Speaker 2: in a good place name wise, that this next child.

904
00:43:21,600 --> 00:43:24,279
Speaker 2: Uh I say this next child, Jill and I do

905
00:43:24,320 --> 00:43:28,400
Speaker 2: want to have another kid, but with this perspective next kid,

906
00:43:28,960 --> 00:43:31,040
Speaker 2: I feel like I'm in a good place where I can.

907
00:43:31,360 --> 00:43:35,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, my ideas and thoughts are a bit more. Yeah,

908
00:43:35,280 --> 00:43:39,239
Speaker 1: I would say this unless it's a boy and you

909
00:43:39,320 --> 00:43:43,000
Speaker 1: want like an heir to the throne in your masculine way.

910
00:43:43,640 --> 00:43:47,480
Speaker 1: If if it's a girl, outside of that perspective, it's

911
00:43:47,680 --> 00:43:49,680
Speaker 1: your taking a back seat to what wife he wants.

912
00:43:49,880 --> 00:43:53,120
Speaker 2: Of course, and I am a junior, so like that

913
00:43:53,320 --> 00:43:56,759
Speaker 2: is on the table the third. But then Jill's maiden

914
00:43:56,840 --> 00:43:59,880
Speaker 2: name is Rambo, so I do like her maiden name

915
00:43:59,920 --> 00:44:00,640
Speaker 2: is ram.

916
00:44:00,960 --> 00:44:06,040
Speaker 1: Name is Rambo. Man I if we have a boy, I'm.

917
00:44:05,880 --> 00:44:10,040
Speaker 2: Between Sherman Stuart Young the third or Rambo Young and

918
00:44:10,080 --> 00:44:14,919
Speaker 2: he would go buy bow. Rambo goes hard, Rambo goes

919
00:44:15,000 --> 00:44:15,640
Speaker 2: hard better.

920
00:44:15,719 --> 00:44:17,600
Speaker 1: Hope I don't get a boy before you, I know,

921
00:44:18,600 --> 00:44:19,760
Speaker 1: I would name him Rambo.

922
00:44:22,520 --> 00:44:24,480
Speaker 2: Then there would be two there would be two bows,

923
00:44:24,480 --> 00:44:27,960
Speaker 2: there'd be Bo Compton and boy. I would stick with it.

924
00:44:28,080 --> 00:44:30,040
Speaker 1: Why Rambo is it? Because you've heard of me like

925
00:44:30,360 --> 00:44:36,760
Speaker 1: bo Bo Polini And you haven't seen the movie Rambosten alone.

926
00:44:36,800 --> 00:44:37,320
Speaker 1: You know I love it?

927
00:44:37,440 --> 00:44:44,000
Speaker 2: Oh, you invented Rambo copywriting? No, but I truly and sorry, shep,

928
00:44:44,040 --> 00:44:45,040
Speaker 2: I totally cut you off.

929
00:44:45,080 --> 00:44:47,360
Speaker 4: Well, No, I was just gonna ask, like the question

930
00:44:47,440 --> 00:44:51,960
Speaker 4: of as a non father. I've only thought of like

931
00:44:52,040 --> 00:44:55,040
Speaker 4: having a son. I've only thought of guy names. Yeah, yeah,

932
00:44:55,040 --> 00:44:56,560
Speaker 4: I'm never like, I don't even know what I would

933
00:44:56,600 --> 00:44:59,120
Speaker 4: do with a daughter or what I would just give

934
00:44:59,160 --> 00:45:01,960
Speaker 4: it up because I got a guy named that would rip.

935
00:45:02,080 --> 00:45:04,360
Speaker 4: And I'm like kind of like it's a liver Die Hill, Like,

936
00:45:04,400 --> 00:45:04,800
Speaker 4: I think.

937
00:45:04,880 --> 00:45:07,040
Speaker 1: Do you mind sharing with us? By the way, shout

938
00:45:07,040 --> 00:45:09,600
Speaker 1: out chef Chef has shaved his head. We know Derek's

939
00:45:09,600 --> 00:45:11,560
Speaker 1: coming in October. Sure, Hm has still yet to do it,

940
00:45:11,600 --> 00:45:13,480
Speaker 1: but he is rocking. I think it may even be

941
00:45:13,560 --> 00:45:17,160
Speaker 1: a later today thing. Oh that's awesome. We did get

942
00:45:17,760 --> 00:45:20,480
Speaker 1: I think his name was Nathan. Yeah. I saw him

943
00:45:20,520 --> 00:45:23,920
Speaker 1: tweet saying Pete six the inspiration, saw those, saw the

944
00:45:23,920 --> 00:45:26,279
Speaker 1: shaved head when yeah the trenches hit love it hit

945
00:45:26,320 --> 00:45:27,120
Speaker 1: the most scular.

946
00:45:27,239 --> 00:45:30,800
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, yeah yeah, had a couple of those this week.

947
00:45:31,120 --> 00:45:32,960
Speaker 1: But do you mind sharing with us? Yeah?

948
00:45:32,960 --> 00:45:36,319
Speaker 4: I'm a long ways out, so I think hopefully, oh yeah,

949
00:45:36,360 --> 00:45:38,359
Speaker 4: I'll share and then I'll make a decision after. But

950
00:45:38,680 --> 00:45:43,280
Speaker 4: my great on my dad's side was my great great

951
00:45:43,280 --> 00:45:48,120
Speaker 4: grandfather's Frederick law Olmstead. He designed Central Frederick Law Olmstead,

952
00:45:48,560 --> 00:45:53,320
Speaker 4: Frederick he he did. He was a famous landscape architect.

953
00:45:53,400 --> 00:45:56,880
Speaker 4: He designed Central Park, the outside of the Capitol Building,

954
00:45:56,920 --> 00:45:58,600
Speaker 4: the built Moore. He was like one of them is

955
00:45:58,640 --> 00:46:00,440
Speaker 4: the godfather of landscape.

956
00:46:00,120 --> 00:46:01,719
Speaker 2: Architect anyway, what is he to you?

957
00:46:02,719 --> 00:46:05,920
Speaker 4: Like a great great great grandfather uncle situation. This is

958
00:46:05,960 --> 00:46:08,759
Speaker 4: on my dad's side. That's but I love I love

959
00:46:08,800 --> 00:46:10,520
Speaker 4: the last name. So I think the middle name, and

960
00:46:10,560 --> 00:46:12,960
Speaker 4: I like a regal sounding kind of name for a guy.

961
00:46:13,080 --> 00:46:20,479
Speaker 4: So I'm thinking Charles Olmstead Hanning, Charles Olmsteed, Olmstead Olmsted. Yeah,

962
00:46:20,560 --> 00:46:21,200
Speaker 4: it goes hard.

963
00:46:21,360 --> 00:46:22,680
Speaker 2: That goes so hard.

964
00:46:22,880 --> 00:46:23,280
Speaker 1: Yeah.

965
00:46:23,320 --> 00:46:25,759
Speaker 4: So that one is like, that's a die by name

966
00:46:25,880 --> 00:46:27,600
Speaker 4: that I'm like, I will dive on that one. But

967
00:46:27,640 --> 00:46:29,719
Speaker 4: if it's a girl, I'm like, shit, I don't know.

968
00:46:31,040 --> 00:46:32,560
Speaker 4: That's like where I can't even.

969
00:46:32,960 --> 00:46:35,399
Speaker 1: The girl that again, it's like you have in your

970
00:46:35,480 --> 00:46:38,359
Speaker 1: mind the heir to the throne, something that you love.

971
00:46:38,480 --> 00:46:41,600
Speaker 4: I'm convinced. I just keep telling myself I'll have a boy. Yeah,

972
00:46:41,640 --> 00:46:43,040
Speaker 4: I'm just not gonna have a daughter.

973
00:46:43,120 --> 00:46:46,919
Speaker 1: I was that way too, buddy, and I'm two daughters later. Man,

974
00:46:47,360 --> 00:46:49,440
Speaker 1: So anytime once it was once it was a girl,

975
00:46:49,520 --> 00:46:52,080
Speaker 1: it's it's truly. I'm like yeah, you go ahead. As

976
00:46:52,120 --> 00:46:53,920
Speaker 1: long as I rock with the name, you can. You

977
00:46:53,920 --> 00:46:54,759
Speaker 1: can choose the name.

978
00:46:54,840 --> 00:46:57,720
Speaker 2: And the girl names are fun, yeah, like there's something

979
00:46:57,800 --> 00:47:01,200
Speaker 2: weird about Like I liked almost every single girl named

980
00:47:01,280 --> 00:47:03,000
Speaker 2: that Jill was throwing out. But then I would like

981
00:47:03,080 --> 00:47:04,880
Speaker 2: throw out a girl name and she'd be like, oh no, I.

982
00:47:04,920 --> 00:47:08,040
Speaker 1: Knew a yes, bro. That's where the women are tied

983
00:47:08,080 --> 00:47:09,759
Speaker 1: to that stuff. So it's like, Okay, I knew a

984
00:47:09,800 --> 00:47:12,600
Speaker 1: Whitney and she sucked. And I'm just making like, but

985
00:47:12,719 --> 00:47:14,360
Speaker 1: that that is common. That's common.

986
00:47:14,560 --> 00:47:17,200
Speaker 2: Yes, And there were some names that I think are

987
00:47:17,360 --> 00:47:19,799
Speaker 2: so good, and Jill was like, oh my god, I

988
00:47:19,840 --> 00:47:22,120
Speaker 2: went to camp with a you know, blah blah blah

989
00:47:22,120 --> 00:47:22,399
Speaker 2: and she.

990
00:47:22,440 --> 00:47:23,240
Speaker 1: Was the worst.

991
00:47:23,440 --> 00:47:26,120
Speaker 2: And I'm like, that's such a beautiful name.

992
00:47:26,239 --> 00:47:28,040
Speaker 4: Yeah, but there's some guys that I think of and

993
00:47:28,040 --> 00:47:30,239
Speaker 4: I'm like, I can I know, I know a guy

994
00:47:30,280 --> 00:47:30,480
Speaker 4: like that.

995
00:47:30,520 --> 00:47:33,480
Speaker 2: I can never name my son. It's so true.

996
00:47:33,560 --> 00:47:36,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, we could throw we could throw that swallow

997
00:47:36,680 --> 00:47:39,840
Speaker 1: own pill there. There. There are probably some names that

998
00:47:39,920 --> 00:47:43,800
Speaker 1: you're just like, we ain't doing that. I know what Tony.

999
00:47:45,120 --> 00:47:46,680
Speaker 1: I actually don't know what Tony that I hate.

1000
00:47:46,680 --> 00:47:52,040
Speaker 2: But to say I'm cool with any thought I got

1001
00:47:52,400 --> 00:47:56,839
Speaker 2: a comment from Chance Roy on well. Actually, first off,

1002
00:47:56,880 --> 00:47:58,839
Speaker 2: well I started reading it, so I will say this.

1003
00:47:59,440 --> 00:48:01,879
Speaker 2: Chance Roy I wrote to us from Louisiana, shout out

1004
00:48:01,880 --> 00:48:02,800
Speaker 2: to three three seven.

1005
00:48:03,840 --> 00:48:05,799
Speaker 1: He said that he loved here in my laugh.

1006
00:48:05,840 --> 00:48:07,839
Speaker 2: He listened to us on Spotify and he was like,

1007
00:48:08,080 --> 00:48:10,120
Speaker 2: I gotta see what fat Stafford looks like.

1008
00:48:11,120 --> 00:48:13,239
Speaker 1: Started watching us on YouTube and he said.

1009
00:48:13,440 --> 00:48:16,520
Speaker 2: Like even more on YouTube. So I love that comment

1010
00:48:16,560 --> 00:48:17,960
Speaker 2: that He was like, hey, I was just listening to

1011
00:48:18,040 --> 00:48:20,560
Speaker 2: the guys. Now I'm looking at him and the listening

1012
00:48:20,600 --> 00:48:21,760
Speaker 2: experience is even better.

1013
00:48:21,840 --> 00:48:24,279
Speaker 1: You have a top five laugh my friend. Thank you.

1014
00:48:24,640 --> 00:48:27,440
Speaker 2: I will take it. I will take it. I do

1015
00:48:27,680 --> 00:48:30,360
Speaker 2: have another comment. I just wanted to make sure that

1016
00:48:30,400 --> 00:48:33,040
Speaker 2: we read this one because I thought it was so

1017
00:48:33,160 --> 00:48:37,200
Speaker 2: cool how the community came around this guy. Okay, hold

1018
00:48:37,280 --> 00:48:39,560
Speaker 2: that one holding because I have a fun one.

1019
00:48:39,840 --> 00:48:42,839
Speaker 1: Fun. I listened to all my podcasts at work. This

1020
00:48:42,920 --> 00:48:46,680
Speaker 1: is from Papa John at johnny D seventy six on X.

1021
00:48:46,960 --> 00:48:49,359
Speaker 1: I'll listen to all my podcasts at work surrounded by men,

1022
00:48:49,480 --> 00:48:53,239
Speaker 1: mostly assholes. I'm a big dude, but have strong emotions.

1023
00:48:53,280 --> 00:48:55,879
Speaker 1: Every time, sure or will cry. I gotta make sure

1024
00:48:55,960 --> 00:48:57,759
Speaker 1: my face can't be seen. I cry with you guys

1025
00:48:57,760 --> 00:49:00,439
Speaker 1: every time. This is the best show. Shut Upapa John.

1026
00:49:00,560 --> 00:49:04,640
Speaker 2: Oh, Papa John, friend of Tony, friend of the show, Tony,

1027
00:49:04,719 --> 00:49:05,400
Speaker 2: Papa John.

1028
00:49:06,760 --> 00:49:07,760
Speaker 1: Thank you, Papa John.

1029
00:49:08,040 --> 00:49:09,880
Speaker 2: It's good to know that we're not alone.

1030
00:49:10,040 --> 00:49:12,720
Speaker 1: Yeah the tears. With that said, we have some sad alerts.

1031
00:49:13,400 --> 00:49:18,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, speaking of okay, this one came from j Tar

1032
00:49:18,400 --> 00:49:21,080
Speaker 2: six seven to one. This was our top comment on

1033
00:49:21,120 --> 00:49:23,840
Speaker 2: the last episode. This has been the hardest year of

1034
00:49:23,840 --> 00:49:27,400
Speaker 2: my life. My wife had a miscarriage in early January

1035
00:49:27,640 --> 00:49:28,960
Speaker 2: and I lost my job.

1036
00:49:28,760 --> 00:49:31,520
Speaker 1: Two weeks later. My wife is a stay at home wife.

1037
00:49:32,400 --> 00:49:35,359
Speaker 2: Then two months later, I lost thirty pounds, almost went

1038
00:49:35,400 --> 00:49:38,960
Speaker 2: into a diabetic coma, and was diagnosed with type one diabetes.

1039
00:49:39,719 --> 00:49:42,080
Speaker 2: Two days in the hospital to get healthy, and I

1040
00:49:42,120 --> 00:49:45,360
Speaker 2: came out still trying to find a stable job. After

1041
00:49:45,400 --> 00:49:48,960
Speaker 2: scraping by for months, I got a job in August

1042
00:49:49,120 --> 00:49:52,640
Speaker 2: and finally getting stable again. Every day feels like it

1043
00:49:52,680 --> 00:49:55,880
Speaker 2: takes extra effort. Every meal and every workout felt like

1044
00:49:55,920 --> 00:49:58,160
Speaker 2: a chour until this podcast.

1045
00:49:58,520 --> 00:49:59,320
Speaker 1: That is awesome.

1046
00:49:59,520 --> 00:50:03,160
Speaker 2: Good, I'm tired, I don't want to go to the gym. Good,

1047
00:50:03,640 --> 00:50:06,040
Speaker 2: I'm annoyed at my dietary restrictions.

1048
00:50:06,200 --> 00:50:06,600
Speaker 1: Good.

1049
00:50:07,200 --> 00:50:10,920
Speaker 2: My wife is twenty one weeks pregnant with a baby girl,

1050
00:50:11,239 --> 00:50:13,880
Speaker 2: and I couldn't be more excited. This podcast helped me

1051
00:50:13,920 --> 00:50:17,560
Speaker 2: shift my mindset to welcome the struggles. I know that

1052
00:50:17,640 --> 00:50:21,879
Speaker 2: mindset will make me a better father. Thank you. He's

1053
00:50:21,920 --> 00:50:24,480
Speaker 2: got a great profile picture too, by the way, he's out.

1054
00:50:24,400 --> 00:50:27,040
Speaker 1: Hiking with his wifey j Tar sixe.

1055
00:50:27,320 --> 00:50:31,879
Speaker 2: Jtar six seven to one. So first off, Jtar six

1056
00:50:31,920 --> 00:50:35,879
Speaker 2: seven to one. Love that comment, dude, because there is

1057
00:50:36,120 --> 00:50:38,439
Speaker 2: a lot of shit that hits us in life. Life

1058
00:50:38,520 --> 00:50:41,200
Speaker 2: is not easy, and we usually revert back to that

1059
00:50:42,719 --> 00:50:47,040
Speaker 2: speaking of Rambo, that Sylvester Saloon rocky quote of you know,

1060
00:50:47,120 --> 00:50:49,879
Speaker 2: it's about how hard you can get hit and keep

1061
00:50:49,920 --> 00:50:55,400
Speaker 2: moving forward, and there is so much beauty to life

1062
00:50:56,280 --> 00:51:00,719
Speaker 2: because of how hard life is. And I've read that

1063
00:51:00,880 --> 00:51:04,960
Speaker 2: comment a couple times on YouTube, and it just hit

1064
00:51:05,040 --> 00:51:08,920
Speaker 2: me that he is his wife is twenty one weeks

1065
00:51:08,960 --> 00:51:11,120
Speaker 2: pregnant now, like that kind of just hit me for

1066
00:51:11,160 --> 00:51:14,120
Speaker 2: the first time. And God, that baby's going to be

1067
00:51:14,160 --> 00:51:18,200
Speaker 2: so loved because of the misfortune that came before it.

1068
00:51:18,760 --> 00:51:22,040
Speaker 2: And so shout out j Tar, dude, Yeah, they're gonna

1069
00:51:22,080 --> 00:51:24,720
Speaker 2: be kick ass parents.

1070
00:51:25,280 --> 00:51:26,640
Speaker 1: This comment.

1071
00:51:26,680 --> 00:51:29,160
Speaker 2: I'm so Glad Derek printed these off. The reason we

1072
00:51:29,239 --> 00:51:31,480
Speaker 2: read that comment to you is because all these and

1073
00:51:31,520 --> 00:51:34,360
Speaker 2: I'll fly through these, but we had so many people

1074
00:51:34,400 --> 00:51:37,560
Speaker 2: underneath it. Chris break Hey, keep your head up, brother,

1075
00:51:38,120 --> 00:51:41,360
Speaker 2: goat since yo said pressure makes diamonds with the flex

1076
00:51:41,400 --> 00:51:47,960
Speaker 2: emoji pessimistic, you're a tough dad. Keep it up, Jay Cheris,

1077
00:51:48,120 --> 00:51:51,480
Speaker 2: Let's go love to see the turnaround. See Jones GBR

1078
00:51:52,520 --> 00:51:54,840
Speaker 2: Keep it up, brother, Prayers to you and your family

1079
00:51:54,880 --> 00:51:58,160
Speaker 2: and so excited for the next chapter to come. That's

1080
00:51:58,239 --> 00:52:02,200
Speaker 2: just that's ridiculu that that's going on in our comments section.

1081
00:52:02,560 --> 00:52:07,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, it's a dude. A message like that fires

1082
00:52:07,000 --> 00:52:09,319
Speaker 1: me the fuck up. And again I know he's been

1083
00:52:09,320 --> 00:52:11,960
Speaker 1: coming from a lot of hard times like the miscarriage.

1084
00:52:11,960 --> 00:52:14,839
Speaker 1: I did love the comment where it's like from chippayer brother,

1085
00:52:14,880 --> 00:52:16,440
Speaker 1: I two lost a child this year. Now my son

1086
00:52:16,520 --> 00:52:18,000
Speaker 1: is two weeks old. I will tell you.

1087
00:52:18,080 --> 00:52:21,759
Speaker 2: Can feel that guardian angel over over your baby and

1088
00:52:21,840 --> 00:52:23,920
Speaker 2: your first will always be with your family.

1089
00:52:23,920 --> 00:52:26,920
Speaker 1: Congratulations. But it's stuff like that, It's like, you know,

1090
00:52:26,960 --> 00:52:29,880
Speaker 1: this is a prime example for everybody that ends up

1091
00:52:29,880 --> 00:52:32,000
Speaker 1: picking themselves up when they're in a very dark time

1092
00:52:32,040 --> 00:52:35,359
Speaker 1: because the God's honest truth is when people start turning

1093
00:52:35,360 --> 00:52:36,920
Speaker 1: shit around. It's when you're sick and tired of being

1094
00:52:36,920 --> 00:52:39,560
Speaker 1: sick and tired. It's not because like he's not he

1095
00:52:39,640 --> 00:52:42,840
Speaker 1: came across our podcast and got say motivated right or

1096
00:52:43,000 --> 00:52:45,800
Speaker 1: say it was a breath of fresh air to see

1097
00:52:45,840 --> 00:52:48,080
Speaker 1: like a different perspective and kind of pick himself up.

1098
00:52:48,520 --> 00:52:50,719
Speaker 1: But at the end of the day, bro, And it's

1099
00:52:50,760 --> 00:52:53,200
Speaker 1: a quote that I is always at the top of

1100
00:52:53,200 --> 00:52:55,520
Speaker 1: my head, but it's nobody's coming to save you. Like

1101
00:52:55,560 --> 00:52:57,440
Speaker 1: it doesn't matter what your wife is telling you or

1102
00:52:57,440 --> 00:52:59,840
Speaker 1: people around you. You know, you can get all the

1103
00:53:00,000 --> 00:53:03,120
Speaker 1: influences in the world. It's like motivation, motivation will fail

1104
00:53:03,160 --> 00:53:06,760
Speaker 1: you the majority of the time. It's discipline that keeps

1105
00:53:06,800 --> 00:53:09,600
Speaker 1: you going, that keeps people going. So him coming across

1106
00:53:09,600 --> 00:53:13,400
Speaker 1: our poets, it's a reason we made before the Dad's brand.

1107
00:53:13,440 --> 00:53:15,960
Speaker 1: Like you know when people are asking, like what made

1108
00:53:16,000 --> 00:53:17,520
Speaker 1: you think of this idea? And it's like, I love

1109
00:53:17,560 --> 00:53:20,319
Speaker 1: creating in spaces to where I'm a consumer in because

1110
00:53:20,360 --> 00:53:22,080
Speaker 1: a lot of the times it's not like you're sitting there.

1111
00:53:22,360 --> 00:53:24,440
Speaker 1: You'll take advice from your boys or people you look

1112
00:53:24,560 --> 00:53:25,960
Speaker 1: up to and everything else, but a lot of times

1113
00:53:26,000 --> 00:53:29,080
Speaker 1: it's me in my truck when I'm feeling like, you know,

1114
00:53:29,160 --> 00:53:31,080
Speaker 1: how am I gonna find a way out of whatever

1115
00:53:31,120 --> 00:53:33,240
Speaker 1: I'm feeling that's kind of got me in a funk,

1116
00:53:33,360 --> 00:53:35,160
Speaker 1: or that's got me in or when shit is hard

1117
00:53:35,160 --> 00:53:37,840
Speaker 1: when I'm playing football, when shit is hard as a father,

1118
00:53:38,040 --> 00:53:40,879
Speaker 1: when shit is just hard with life. It's usually I'm

1119
00:53:40,960 --> 00:53:43,560
Speaker 1: grasping at things that I can listen to by myself

1120
00:53:43,640 --> 00:53:47,200
Speaker 1: or read by myself to where somebody or somebody said

1121
00:53:47,239 --> 00:53:50,719
Speaker 1: something to where it's like it just gives you perspective

1122
00:53:50,960 --> 00:53:53,160
Speaker 1: on doing something. Then at that point, when you're sick

1123
00:53:53,160 --> 00:53:54,719
Speaker 1: and tired of being sick and tired and knowing that

1124
00:53:54,760 --> 00:53:57,359
Speaker 1: it's nobody putting their arm around you or nobody saying here,

1125
00:53:57,440 --> 00:53:58,879
Speaker 1: I'm gonna hold your hand while you do this, You're

1126
00:53:58,880 --> 00:54:01,600
Speaker 1: gonna have these people comments, but these replies and comments

1127
00:54:01,600 --> 00:54:03,839
Speaker 1: aren't gonna be with you every day. No, it's not

1128
00:54:03,920 --> 00:54:06,200
Speaker 1: those things that get you going. It's you that decide that, like,

1129
00:54:06,600 --> 00:54:09,480
Speaker 1: nobody's gonna fucking do this for me except for me.

1130
00:54:10,400 --> 00:54:12,480
Speaker 1: And that's why that shit fires me up, because he

1131
00:54:12,520 --> 00:54:16,000
Speaker 1: came across this podcast and just for whatever reason, was

1132
00:54:16,040 --> 00:54:18,560
Speaker 1: just in the right frame of mind, where he's feeling down,

1133
00:54:18,600 --> 00:54:21,439
Speaker 1: whatever it is, and just like, listen to whatever part

1134
00:54:21,440 --> 00:54:23,960
Speaker 1: of the episode he heard, and it was just like,

1135
00:54:24,560 --> 00:54:27,319
Speaker 1: I love this perspective or I love this vibe, or

1136
00:54:27,320 --> 00:54:29,960
Speaker 1: I love whatever it is. And in his mind, not

1137
00:54:30,040 --> 00:54:32,879
Speaker 1: because of us, but in his mind, he's like, this

1138
00:54:32,920 --> 00:54:35,520
Speaker 1: is the moment I'm turning it around. And it's him

1139
00:54:35,840 --> 00:54:39,279
Speaker 1: because again this us are episodes. Whatever it is, that

1140
00:54:39,360 --> 00:54:43,280
Speaker 1: motivational fade, it's all gonna be that way. These the replies,

1141
00:54:43,320 --> 00:54:46,880
Speaker 1: the encouragement that's gonna fade, And truly, it's fucking you.

1142
00:54:47,080 --> 00:54:49,400
Speaker 1: It's a one player game in this world. Yes, it

1143
00:54:49,440 --> 00:54:52,000
Speaker 1: always is. It's not it's not for you to be

1144
00:54:52,040 --> 00:54:53,600
Speaker 1: the best husband you can be. It's like you have

1145
00:54:53,640 --> 00:54:55,440
Speaker 1: the greatest support of a wife that you can have.

1146
00:54:55,560 --> 00:54:57,680
Speaker 1: Sometimes it's not always going to be that way. It's

1147
00:54:57,719 --> 00:54:59,520
Speaker 1: you looking in the mirror and it's like, how am

1148
00:54:59,600 --> 00:55:03,320
Speaker 1: I gonna correct my shit? And that's the rip effects

1149
00:55:03,400 --> 00:55:05,560
Speaker 1: it starts creating. And then it's the discipline. It's you

1150
00:55:05,560 --> 00:55:07,200
Speaker 1: don't feel like it every day. You don't feel like

1151
00:55:07,239 --> 00:55:09,080
Speaker 1: working out, I don't feel like going home after a

1152
00:55:09,120 --> 00:55:12,799
Speaker 1: long day of sitting around assholes at work, and you're

1153
00:55:13,000 --> 00:55:16,799
Speaker 1: expecting everybody else to navigate or walk on eggshells around you.

1154
00:55:16,840 --> 00:55:19,040
Speaker 1: It's like, know what energy are you going to intentionally

1155
00:55:19,080 --> 00:55:22,719
Speaker 1: and consciously bring at all times? Dobson always told us

1156
00:55:22,719 --> 00:55:24,919
Speaker 1: he's our strength coach at Nebraska, and it always stuck

1157
00:55:24,960 --> 00:55:27,880
Speaker 1: with me. But a big theme was always it doesn't

1158
00:55:27,880 --> 00:55:30,279
Speaker 1: matter what the fuck is going on, you control your

1159
00:55:30,320 --> 00:55:33,000
Speaker 1: attitude and you control your effort at all times, twenty

1160
00:55:33,000 --> 00:55:36,239
Speaker 1: four to seven, hard stop period at all times. How

1161
00:55:36,239 --> 00:55:37,360
Speaker 1: are you gonna show up when you come in the

1162
00:55:37,400 --> 00:55:40,080
Speaker 1: weight room with classes going on with you just got

1163
00:55:40,080 --> 00:55:42,400
Speaker 1: your fucking hashooks and you got embarrassed out there. No

1164
00:55:42,440 --> 00:55:44,799
Speaker 1: matter what it is, Bro, it's you always control your

1165
00:55:44,800 --> 00:55:46,640
Speaker 1: attitude and effort and for him to kind of shift

1166
00:55:46,640 --> 00:55:49,239
Speaker 1: his attitude and effort, That's what fires me up about

1167
00:55:49,239 --> 00:55:49,760
Speaker 1: this comment.

1168
00:55:50,120 --> 00:55:53,200
Speaker 2: And what also fires me up about the comment is

1169
00:55:53,239 --> 00:55:55,759
Speaker 2: that this show. I know we save this a lot,

1170
00:55:55,840 --> 00:55:59,200
Speaker 2: but to this comment, this show we do not have

1171
00:55:59,239 --> 00:56:01,520
Speaker 2: some pill which trying to sell you. We don't have

1172
00:56:01,600 --> 00:56:05,279
Speaker 2: some book that has all the like. We are two

1173
00:56:05,360 --> 00:56:10,239
Speaker 2: guys that are exactly like Jtar that we wake up

1174
00:56:10,280 --> 00:56:13,680
Speaker 2: every morning thinking, man, how do how do I figure

1175
00:56:13,719 --> 00:56:15,759
Speaker 2: this out? How do I do better? At that, how

1176
00:56:15,800 --> 00:56:19,399
Speaker 2: do I and seeing comments like that and you saying

1177
00:56:19,440 --> 00:56:21,359
Speaker 2: I want to get into a space of that. I'm

1178
00:56:21,360 --> 00:56:24,160
Speaker 2: a consumer in I feel the same way when I

1179
00:56:24,200 --> 00:56:26,279
Speaker 2: read comments like that, or I feel the same way

1180
00:56:26,320 --> 00:56:27,719
Speaker 2: when I get on the show with you and I

1181
00:56:27,760 --> 00:56:32,640
Speaker 2: hear you talk like it's it's cool that we are

1182
00:56:32,680 --> 00:56:36,279
Speaker 2: all bouncing our stories off of each other and that

1183
00:56:36,440 --> 00:56:40,240
Speaker 2: this is kind of becoming a little ecosystem of Dad's

1184
00:56:40,360 --> 00:56:43,880
Speaker 2: just trying to rip and if they aren't killing it,

1185
00:56:44,120 --> 00:56:46,520
Speaker 2: that maybe their voice in that maybe they did kill

1186
00:56:46,520 --> 00:56:50,960
Speaker 2: it and they're voicing that, but just being in the

1187
00:56:51,000 --> 00:56:53,040
Speaker 2: mindset of wanting to do better to your.

1188
00:56:53,000 --> 00:56:56,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, just community, like a human need is community. Yeah,

1189
00:56:56,000 --> 00:56:57,839
Speaker 1: when you feel like you're coming across one, it's like

1190
00:56:58,239 --> 00:57:00,920
Speaker 1: we're all fucking struggling and you can listen to what

1191
00:57:01,000 --> 00:57:03,560
Speaker 1: you said, like we're all we're all j tar and

1192
00:57:03,600 --> 00:57:06,800
Speaker 1: it's like at moments in life, absolutely it's like, okay,

1193
00:57:06,840 --> 00:57:09,279
Speaker 1: well did you have a missing dude. The point is

1194
00:57:09,600 --> 00:57:12,520
Speaker 1: stress is not factual. Stress is the meaning you give

1195
00:57:12,560 --> 00:57:15,839
Speaker 1: the facts, and that is it's it's all about how

1196
00:57:15,960 --> 00:57:18,680
Speaker 1: like life is going to no matter what fucking hits

1197
00:57:18,680 --> 00:57:20,720
Speaker 1: you in the mouth. We're not sitting up here as

1198
00:57:21,240 --> 00:57:23,680
Speaker 1: perfect individuals in every area of our life, or any

1199
00:57:23,760 --> 00:57:25,800
Speaker 1: area of our life for that matter, it's you're gonna

1200
00:57:25,840 --> 00:57:27,480
Speaker 1: constantly get hit in the mouth. That it's how you

1201
00:57:27,560 --> 00:57:30,560
Speaker 1: deal as how you respond to whatever the adversity is

1202
00:57:30,640 --> 00:57:33,000
Speaker 1: at all times. Man. So people when you when you

1203
00:57:33,040 --> 00:57:35,160
Speaker 1: hear stories and then you're able to pull yourself out, like,

1204
00:57:35,400 --> 00:57:36,960
Speaker 1: I got this shit going on my life, but it

1205
00:57:36,960 --> 00:57:39,360
Speaker 1: doesn't sound nearly as bad as what this individual is

1206
00:57:39,400 --> 00:57:41,680
Speaker 1: going through. How did he get out of that? And

1207
00:57:41,720 --> 00:57:44,080
Speaker 1: then you latch onto something because you all realize we're

1208
00:57:44,120 --> 00:57:47,640
Speaker 1: all the fucking same. Yeah, And it's the meaning that

1209
00:57:47,680 --> 00:57:50,320
Speaker 1: I'm giving these facts in my life that's hold me back.

1210
00:57:50,760 --> 00:57:52,560
Speaker 1: Think about the meaning he could have been given to

1211
00:57:52,640 --> 00:57:55,400
Speaker 1: his stress and his facts if he really wanted to

1212
00:57:55,400 --> 00:57:57,520
Speaker 1: be down and out. But he fucking overcame that shit.

1213
00:57:57,600 --> 00:58:00,680
Speaker 1: Why can't I do it? Yeah? Yeah, Yeah, soup that

1214
00:58:00,760 --> 00:58:03,280
Speaker 1: juices me up. That's that's that's everything.

1215
00:58:03,040 --> 00:58:07,120
Speaker 2: That is, everything that is this show embodied and encompassed

1216
00:58:07,280 --> 00:58:09,840
Speaker 2: and manifested in that comment.

1217
00:58:09,960 --> 00:58:13,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, dude, shout out. Thank you for that comment.

1218
00:58:13,360 --> 00:58:13,720
Speaker 7: J Tar.

1219
00:58:13,840 --> 00:58:15,400
Speaker 1: I'm glad you guys are doing well. I hope you

1220
00:58:15,400 --> 00:58:17,240
Speaker 1: guys are kicking ass and rocking, and even though it's

1221
00:58:17,240 --> 00:58:20,680
Speaker 1: hard times when you're not, just just constantly do whatever

1222
00:58:20,720 --> 00:58:22,360
Speaker 1: you can to think about this shit. Maybe it's a

1223
00:58:22,360 --> 00:58:24,080
Speaker 1: few sentences you write in your notes app, take a

1224
00:58:24,080 --> 00:58:25,840
Speaker 1: screenshot and put it as a lock screen on your

1225
00:58:25,840 --> 00:58:28,240
Speaker 1: phone to remind you, because again it's hard. It's like

1226
00:58:28,280 --> 00:58:30,440
Speaker 1: you have a vision of mind. You have the processes

1227
00:58:30,440 --> 00:58:33,120
Speaker 1: and disciplines that you're gonna You tell yourself that I'm

1228
00:58:33,120 --> 00:58:34,880
Speaker 1: gonna knock this shit out of the park every day.

1229
00:58:35,160 --> 00:58:37,120
Speaker 1: But you gotta be. You gotta find a way too

1230
00:58:37,160 --> 00:58:40,040
Speaker 1: to remind yourself of why you started in the first place.

1231
00:58:40,880 --> 00:58:43,040
Speaker 1: But shout out you, bro, I'm fucking the piss is

1232
00:58:43,040 --> 00:58:46,360
Speaker 1: getting hot right now because I love this. This was

1233
00:58:46,360 --> 00:58:51,280
Speaker 1: from Garrett Frile. This is on YouTube bet bet six

1234
00:58:51,360 --> 00:58:53,920
Speaker 1: checking in. I lost my dad on Father's Day in

1235
00:58:53,960 --> 00:58:57,919
Speaker 1: twenty twenty one, one month after having my precious baby girl.

1236
00:58:59,280 --> 00:59:01,640
Speaker 1: The odds are not hitn't We're not We're not. We're

1237
00:59:01,680 --> 00:59:04,040
Speaker 1: not buying the odds on this one. God damn it,

1238
00:59:04,960 --> 00:59:07,840
Speaker 1: We'll After hearing you talk about that book your mom wrote,

1239
00:59:07,880 --> 00:59:11,959
Speaker 1: it brought me to tears because your son up a bitch.

1240
00:59:12,000 --> 00:59:20,560
Speaker 1: Garrett stay calm, stay poised. I have a voicemail for

1241
00:59:20,680 --> 00:59:25,640
Speaker 1: my dad that I haven't listened to since he passed.

1242
00:59:33,120 --> 00:59:33,880
Speaker 1: I read.

1243
00:59:34,160 --> 00:59:35,520
Speaker 2: I can read it for you if you want.

1244
00:59:42,000 --> 00:59:47,240
Speaker 1: Dude, crying's fucking cool, man, just just cry more. He

1245
00:59:47,320 --> 00:59:51,160
Speaker 1: finally listened to it, and it was him telling me

1246
00:59:54,360 --> 00:59:56,560
Speaker 1: how much he loved me and was proud of me.

1247
01:00:05,080 --> 01:00:07,600
Speaker 1: I highly suggest you go read that because it could

1248
01:00:07,640 --> 01:00:12,960
Speaker 1: brighten your day way more than it dampers it. Thank you,

1249
01:00:13,000 --> 01:00:16,720
Speaker 1: guys for being so vulnerable. Let's see. I don't know

1250
01:00:16,720 --> 01:00:19,840
Speaker 1: how you all feel hearing this voice, but it paints

1251
01:00:19,880 --> 01:00:23,160
Speaker 1: me having this. Thank you guys for being so vulnerable

1252
01:00:23,200 --> 01:00:30,080
Speaker 1: and inspiring us all to be better dads. Appreciate you. Garrett.

1253
01:00:30,120 --> 01:00:32,680
Speaker 1: That's all I got, man. Shout out Garrett.

1254
01:00:33,120 --> 01:00:39,080
Speaker 2: The got some Derek got some Tis shoes for the boys.

1255
01:00:39,640 --> 01:00:42,360
Speaker 2: And again, I mean Kleenex you got. You have such

1256
01:00:42,360 --> 01:00:47,640
Speaker 2: a big opportunity just staring right at you, dude, shout

1257
01:00:47,640 --> 01:00:53,080
Speaker 2: out fore, shout out kleen X. No, Garrett, thank you

1258
01:00:53,120 --> 01:00:57,440
Speaker 2: for that. I'm fired up, man, I fired up that

1259
01:00:57,480 --> 01:00:59,919
Speaker 2: you heard something and uh, when.

1260
01:00:59,800 --> 01:01:01,520
Speaker 1: Did you make you it? Wanted to make you go

1261
01:01:01,600 --> 01:01:07,720
Speaker 1: listen to that voicemail. I can imagine how emotional that was.

1262
01:01:09,520 --> 01:01:14,320
Speaker 1: But I also on that note, and my brother Wyatt

1263
01:01:14,680 --> 01:01:15,240
Speaker 1: texted me.

1264
01:01:17,120 --> 01:01:21,760
Speaker 2: God, did he watch the episode? Wyatt says, he's uh,

1265
01:01:21,880 --> 01:01:24,480
Speaker 2: he said, watch for the Dads. I'm low key it's

1266
01:01:24,480 --> 01:01:25,080
Speaker 2: your one fan.

1267
01:01:25,160 --> 01:01:28,280
Speaker 1: I watch everything with the crowd with the laughing cry faces.

1268
01:01:28,520 --> 01:01:31,360
Speaker 1: And he's like, totally feel you on not wanting to

1269
01:01:31,440 --> 01:01:42,200
Speaker 1: experience the emotions. Boys, God damn it. Good Ah. Let mean,

1270
01:01:42,800 --> 01:01:44,600
Speaker 1: maybe I need to put on the Bain mask because

1271
01:01:44,600 --> 01:01:49,800
Speaker 1: I read these. But he's like, totally feel you not

1272
01:01:49,840 --> 01:01:52,080
Speaker 1: wanting to experience the emotions that come with opening that

1273
01:01:52,120 --> 01:01:56,840
Speaker 1: journal for mom. But she did write it. She did

1274
01:01:56,840 --> 01:01:58,640
Speaker 1: write it, and this he's got to laugh out loud.

1275
01:01:58,680 --> 01:02:00,520
Speaker 1: I'm just in a state of emotion and right now

1276
01:02:00,520 --> 01:02:03,120
Speaker 1: that I just can't get out of it because of

1277
01:02:03,120 --> 01:02:06,120
Speaker 1: old Garrett and that thank you for sending that comment, Garrett.

1278
01:02:06,120 --> 01:02:07,360
Speaker 1: But he's like, but she did write it with the

1279
01:02:07,400 --> 01:02:08,960
Speaker 1: intemp fort you to read it. You should read it.

1280
01:02:09,080 --> 01:02:14,360
Speaker 1: Laugh out loud. That was that was it? Save me, sir?

1281
01:02:14,640 --> 01:02:17,840
Speaker 2: All right, jump in here. I'll jump out one one

1282
01:02:17,880 --> 01:02:23,480
Speaker 2: small note on the journal. I'd love that you that

1283
01:02:23,600 --> 01:02:27,440
Speaker 2: you talked about it and that it's something that's on

1284
01:02:27,520 --> 01:02:31,960
Speaker 2: your mind and just wanted to emphasize find find that

1285
01:02:32,000 --> 01:02:36,800
Speaker 2: perfect moment for it and shout out Garrett again for

1286
01:02:36,840 --> 01:02:40,680
Speaker 2: that comment, because that was that was really cool, dude.

1287
01:02:40,840 --> 01:02:45,520
Speaker 2: What what an incredible opportunity to get to be able

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01:02:45,560 --> 01:02:48,520
Speaker 2: to like celebrate somebody and remember.

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01:02:48,320 --> 01:02:50,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, and Garrett, I will say like that comment, and

1290
01:02:50,880 --> 01:02:53,200
Speaker 1: I've done it several times with that comment in particular.

1291
01:02:53,280 --> 01:02:54,920
Speaker 1: It's like, I sit there, I read the comment and

1292
01:02:54,960 --> 01:02:56,680
Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm like, you know when you're talking to

1293
01:02:56,680 --> 01:02:58,640
Speaker 1: yourself and you kind of just whisper out loud, and

1294
01:02:58,640 --> 01:03:01,680
Speaker 1: I'm just like, I gotta read that journal because like

1295
01:03:01,720 --> 01:03:03,440
Speaker 1: I'm reading that comment. It's like I went back and

1296
01:03:03,440 --> 01:03:08,120
Speaker 1: listened to the voicemail and yeah, man, I can't I

1297
01:03:08,160 --> 01:03:09,400
Speaker 1: can't wait for you to read it.

1298
01:03:09,400 --> 01:03:12,280
Speaker 2: And I'll move on, but I can't wait for you

1299
01:03:12,320 --> 01:03:14,160
Speaker 2: to read it because I feel like some really cool

1300
01:03:14,200 --> 01:03:16,840
Speaker 2: stuff is going to come from it. That's the last

1301
01:03:16,840 --> 01:03:20,160
Speaker 2: thing I'll say about that, but I'm excited for you

1302
01:03:20,200 --> 01:03:22,360
Speaker 2: will and Garrett, You're the man.

1303
01:03:22,640 --> 01:03:26,600
Speaker 1: I do have a dad hack off of the journal,

1304
01:03:27,720 --> 01:03:30,080
Speaker 1: off of the journal reference because I did see, like

1305
01:03:30,160 --> 01:03:33,800
Speaker 1: I again, I logged on, I peeped into the comments

1306
01:03:33,840 --> 01:03:37,680
Speaker 1: that are on Spotify because oh yeah, yeah yeah, and

1307
01:03:38,000 --> 01:03:40,360
Speaker 1: Quinn sent this. It's a dad hack. The journal app

1308
01:03:40,400 --> 01:03:42,000
Speaker 1: on the iPhone. You can set it up give you

1309
01:03:42,000 --> 01:03:43,680
Speaker 1: a reminder every day, and it will also give you

1310
01:03:43,720 --> 01:03:46,960
Speaker 1: suggestions based on photos and locations that you have visited

1311
01:03:47,000 --> 01:03:49,240
Speaker 1: each day. Most of the work is done, you just

1312
01:03:49,320 --> 01:03:51,240
Speaker 1: had a little commentary in there each day. I've been

1313
01:03:51,240 --> 01:03:54,200
Speaker 1: trying to write a little each time since my daughter

1314
01:03:54,280 --> 01:03:56,960
Speaker 1: was born last December. When she turns one, I'm planning

1315
01:03:57,000 --> 01:03:59,200
Speaker 1: to print it out. I'm planning to print out the

1316
01:03:59,280 --> 01:04:02,120
Speaker 1: journals and make it a booklet and hope to have

1317
01:04:02,160 --> 01:04:04,640
Speaker 1: one for each year of her life. Oh my god,

1318
01:04:04,720 --> 01:04:07,960
Speaker 1: that is solid dad game, Quinn, And thank you for

1319
01:04:08,000 --> 01:04:08,800
Speaker 1: sending that comment.

1320
01:04:08,960 --> 01:04:12,479
Speaker 2: Yeah, solid dad game. And to that same point, Dan

1321
01:04:13,160 --> 01:04:15,080
Speaker 2: more of Itz. This is a longer email. I know

1322
01:04:15,160 --> 01:04:19,560
Speaker 2: we've been doing a lot of these comments, so I'll paraphrase,

1323
01:04:21,240 --> 01:04:25,040
Speaker 2: but Dan essentially wrote to us saying that his dad

1324
01:04:25,080 --> 01:04:28,000
Speaker 2: passed away when he was twenty three, and his dad

1325
01:04:28,080 --> 01:04:31,240
Speaker 2: was a very quiet man. He was very close with them,

1326
01:04:31,280 --> 01:04:34,960
Speaker 2: but he wasn't the dad wasn't a man of many words,

1327
01:04:35,080 --> 01:04:37,760
Speaker 2: and he wished that he had had a bit more

1328
01:04:38,240 --> 01:04:41,200
Speaker 2: from his dad, and so to that point, he actually

1329
01:04:41,240 --> 01:04:44,520
Speaker 2: started he set up an email in a Google Drive

1330
01:04:44,880 --> 01:04:48,960
Speaker 2: to Derek's point last week for his baby girl. He

1331
01:04:49,040 --> 01:04:55,080
Speaker 2: started writing and dumping picks in therefore, and I just

1332
01:04:55,080 --> 01:04:58,560
Speaker 2: think that that's so cool that he also says GBR

1333
01:04:59,320 --> 01:05:01,160
Speaker 2: But I think that's it's so cool that something that

1334
01:05:01,200 --> 01:05:05,280
Speaker 2: you brought up on the podcast has other people wanting

1335
01:05:05,360 --> 01:05:07,160
Speaker 2: to do the same for their kids.

1336
01:05:07,320 --> 01:05:10,800
Speaker 1: And yeah, it's cool, dude. I can't stop get I

1337
01:05:10,800 --> 01:05:12,840
Speaker 1: can't get out of this emotional state I'm in right now.

1338
01:05:13,200 --> 01:05:15,680
Speaker 2: You want me to move on to Alan Tucker from YouTube?

1339
01:05:16,880 --> 01:05:18,200
Speaker 1: Is that a sad one?

1340
01:05:19,760 --> 01:05:19,840
Speaker 2: That?

1341
01:05:19,920 --> 01:05:22,720
Speaker 1: Is that one? It's just, you know, if you've lost

1342
01:05:22,720 --> 01:05:26,120
Speaker 1: a parent, and anybody that has heard me talk about

1343
01:05:26,120 --> 01:05:39,640
Speaker 1: my mom knows that I struggle, and it's like all

1344
01:05:39,720 --> 01:05:46,680
Speaker 1: of this stuff is great, and there's so much of

1345
01:05:46,680 --> 01:05:54,240
Speaker 1: a battle that goes on because it's like seeing people

1346
01:05:54,280 --> 01:05:57,600
Speaker 1: open up about you know, the ones they cared about.

1347
01:05:58,600 --> 01:06:08,600
Speaker 1: And my mom to me was she's one of the

1348
01:06:08,640 --> 01:06:12,280
Speaker 1: best people ever. She was everything to me. So there's

1349
01:06:12,320 --> 01:06:19,959
Speaker 1: like this in moments that like I'm having now, which

1350
01:06:20,000 --> 01:06:24,640
Speaker 1: happened every now and then, but it just reminds you

1351
01:06:24,680 --> 01:06:28,040
Speaker 1: that life is so precious because there's this like fight

1352
01:06:28,080 --> 01:06:30,840
Speaker 1: that goes on when I'm thinking about her to where

1353
01:06:31,600 --> 01:06:35,920
Speaker 1: I love that people share that I get to just

1354
01:06:36,000 --> 01:06:38,720
Speaker 1: sit with my emotion on it. Yeah, because there's also

1355
01:06:38,760 --> 01:06:43,600
Speaker 1: this person that's fighting that just is so angry that

1356
01:06:43,600 --> 01:06:54,760
Speaker 1: they're not here anymore. And so that's what this is,

1357
01:06:54,480 --> 01:06:59,680
Speaker 1: this kind of feeling that I'm having. It's just you know,

1358
01:06:59,720 --> 01:07:02,280
Speaker 1: I'm sure sure all love. I know, I'll love reading

1359
01:07:02,320 --> 01:07:09,640
Speaker 1: whatever's in there, but again it's like another reminder that

1360
01:07:09,640 --> 01:07:23,160
Speaker 1: that she's gone. And personally, it's, uh, I think to myself, like,

1361
01:07:24,600 --> 01:07:29,720
Speaker 1: when will I not feel so much emotion? You know

1362
01:07:29,720 --> 01:07:34,240
Speaker 1: what I mean? Yeah? Oh fuck man.

1363
01:07:35,880 --> 01:07:41,560
Speaker 2: You know the emotion will always uh, the emotion will

1364
01:07:41,560 --> 01:07:50,440
Speaker 2: always be there because you love her. And I can

1365
01:07:50,520 --> 01:07:55,200
Speaker 2: tell that there is anger there, frustration there because it's

1366
01:07:55,240 --> 01:08:01,080
Speaker 2: it doesn't feel fair, and there will be something that

1367
01:08:01,160 --> 01:08:04,840
Speaker 2: you have to let go in that moment that you

1368
01:08:04,960 --> 01:08:06,240
Speaker 2: read the journal.

1369
01:08:06,520 --> 01:08:07,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, but.

1370
01:08:10,080 --> 01:08:13,320
Speaker 2: It will bring so much life, It will create so

1371
01:08:13,440 --> 01:08:17,920
Speaker 2: much life. When you do something will be bored out

1372
01:08:17,920 --> 01:08:18,439
Speaker 2: of it.

1373
01:08:18,479 --> 01:08:20,720
Speaker 1: No question. A lot of things I feel like have

1374
01:08:20,800 --> 01:08:25,599
Speaker 1: been from that moment been bored out of it for good.

1375
01:08:25,800 --> 01:08:29,040
Speaker 1: For the ripple effect, how she impacted me in my

1376
01:08:29,120 --> 01:08:31,120
Speaker 1: life and how I wanted to impact my kids, and

1377
01:08:31,160 --> 01:08:33,760
Speaker 1: how I hold it so much closer now because that

1378
01:08:33,800 --> 01:08:37,000
Speaker 1: moment happened that I'm like, I sit back and I'm like,

1379
01:08:38,000 --> 01:08:40,760
Speaker 1: am I who I am as a dad if she's

1380
01:08:40,800 --> 01:08:43,120
Speaker 1: still alive? Not like, am I a bad dad? But

1381
01:08:43,240 --> 01:08:46,559
Speaker 1: since this is, since it's happened, it's like it's so

1382
01:08:46,760 --> 01:08:51,320
Speaker 1: much at the forefront of my mind at all times. Yeah,

1383
01:08:52,360 --> 01:08:54,439
Speaker 1: it's one of those things I'm sure people out there

1384
01:08:55,720 --> 01:08:58,439
Speaker 1: who have lost a parent that are truly so near

1385
01:08:58,479 --> 01:09:00,920
Speaker 1: and dear to their heart to where there's also a

1386
01:09:00,960 --> 01:09:04,080
Speaker 1: part of me that's like, it upsets me how much

1387
01:09:04,120 --> 01:09:06,559
Speaker 1: I loved her because I have to feel so much pain,

1388
01:09:07,640 --> 01:09:10,920
Speaker 1: and I feel like that's a normal I tell myself

1389
01:09:10,920 --> 01:09:13,679
Speaker 1: this is probably a normal thing, because it's like because

1390
01:09:13,760 --> 01:09:15,800
Speaker 1: quickly I'm like, I'm glad I loved her so much.

1391
01:09:15,840 --> 01:09:18,200
Speaker 1: But part of you, when you're in those moments, you

1392
01:09:18,320 --> 01:09:21,639
Speaker 1: just you also get angry because it's like, fuck, man,

1393
01:09:23,800 --> 01:09:26,120
Speaker 1: why did I have to love her so much? Because

1394
01:09:26,160 --> 01:09:28,080
Speaker 1: you do feel so much pain. It's such like a

1395
01:09:28,320 --> 01:09:32,280
Speaker 1: double edged sword when understanding how precious everything is and

1396
01:09:32,280 --> 01:09:34,800
Speaker 1: how much you just love on people and they could

1397
01:09:34,800 --> 01:09:38,240
Speaker 1: be fucking gone and it's unfair and it's not fair

1398
01:09:38,320 --> 01:09:44,040
Speaker 1: and yeah, I don't know. This is just like the

1399
01:09:44,040 --> 01:09:46,960
Speaker 1: inside of my brain just talking on from every angle

1400
01:09:47,040 --> 01:09:49,040
Speaker 1: right now, trying to talk to this on the podcast

1401
01:09:49,080 --> 01:09:52,000
Speaker 1: and I do whatever is in this episode. I appreciate

1402
01:09:52,000 --> 01:09:55,559
Speaker 1: everybody being patient with me because that was a Yeah,

1403
01:09:55,640 --> 01:09:56,559
Speaker 1: that was a real moment.

1404
01:09:58,240 --> 01:10:02,679
Speaker 2: I think that it's losing someone is sad. I think

1405
01:10:02,720 --> 01:10:05,080
Speaker 2: it is a blessing. There is a blessing to be

1406
01:10:05,120 --> 01:10:08,680
Speaker 2: found in it of just like what a benchmark she

1407
01:10:09,040 --> 01:10:13,680
Speaker 2: said in your life, and that you have full appreciation

1408
01:10:13,920 --> 01:10:18,559
Speaker 2: for her, that you just want to be such an

1409
01:10:18,560 --> 01:10:23,000
Speaker 2: incredible parent like she was. And I think that's really

1410
01:10:23,040 --> 01:10:27,720
Speaker 2: really cool. I think it's really awesome the way that

1411
01:10:27,760 --> 01:10:31,920
Speaker 2: you're able to work through your emotions on it and

1412
01:10:32,000 --> 01:10:38,759
Speaker 2: identify how you're feeling on it. And I'm just proud

1413
01:10:38,800 --> 01:10:40,960
Speaker 2: of you because it ain't easy. I know I cry

1414
01:10:41,000 --> 01:10:43,960
Speaker 2: at the drop of the hat, but Will Compton does not.

1415
01:10:44,840 --> 01:10:47,960
Speaker 2: And based on these episodes we've been doing it, I

1416
01:10:48,000 --> 01:10:49,760
Speaker 2: don't see a crier that.

1417
01:10:49,920 --> 01:10:51,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, that one was a different.

1418
01:10:51,640 --> 01:10:54,640
Speaker 2: That was different. I just want you to know that

1419
01:10:54,880 --> 01:10:59,280
Speaker 2: you're the man and the love you have for your

1420
01:10:59,280 --> 01:11:04,280
Speaker 2: mom's a real thing. And I'm just excited to hear

1421
01:11:04,320 --> 01:11:07,600
Speaker 2: and see what or not see, but hear what was

1422
01:11:07,600 --> 01:11:08,599
Speaker 2: in those journals for you.

1423
01:11:08,840 --> 01:11:10,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, I am too. And it's like I sit there

1424
01:11:10,720 --> 01:11:13,920
Speaker 1: and I read Garrett Garrett's comment and he lost his

1425
01:11:14,040 --> 01:11:16,800
Speaker 1: dad on Father's Day and it was one month after

1426
01:11:16,840 --> 01:11:20,639
Speaker 1: having his girl, his baby girl, And that's just another

1427
01:11:20,680 --> 01:11:23,800
Speaker 1: thing that angers you because I just know she would

1428
01:11:23,800 --> 01:11:26,960
Speaker 1: have been such a kick ass grandma. And it's my

1429
01:11:27,080 --> 01:11:29,000
Speaker 1: kids will never get to know where, They'll get to

1430
01:11:29,040 --> 01:11:34,080
Speaker 1: know where through me, and it just sucks. God, that

1431
01:11:34,080 --> 01:11:36,479
Speaker 1: part sucks, man. So I'm sure it sounds like Garrett

1432
01:11:36,479 --> 01:11:38,800
Speaker 1: was super close with his dad. Yeah, So I know

1433
01:11:38,920 --> 01:11:43,080
Speaker 1: that pain and that anger that you will sporadically have

1434
01:11:43,160 --> 01:11:47,680
Speaker 1: at times because that part just sucks. Bro. You can

1435
01:11:47,760 --> 01:11:49,880
Speaker 1: have all the teddy bears that are wrapped in you know,

1436
01:11:50,520 --> 01:11:56,759
Speaker 1: her dresses, insane insanely awesome gifts to remember and remind

1437
01:11:56,800 --> 01:11:59,800
Speaker 1: and try and constantly talk about Grandma, but just know

1438
01:12:00,160 --> 01:12:04,200
Speaker 1: that you never get to meet the person and I would.

1439
01:12:04,439 --> 01:12:08,320
Speaker 1: I'm it's like I'm hopeful that my girls, like even

1440
01:12:08,360 --> 01:12:11,160
Speaker 1: if I'm this way for the rest of time, like

1441
01:12:11,200 --> 01:12:13,920
Speaker 1: it makes him that much more curious about how Grandma was,

1442
01:12:14,800 --> 01:12:20,679
Speaker 1: because like man Dad, he feels when he talks about Mom.

1443
01:12:20,880 --> 01:12:23,120
Speaker 2: Well if it makes if it makes you feel any better.

1444
01:12:23,360 --> 01:12:29,519
Speaker 2: My grandfather, Charlie, who I wanted to That's where the

1445
01:12:29,600 --> 01:12:32,680
Speaker 2: name Charlie came from. He had Parkinson's and he was

1446
01:12:32,720 --> 01:12:35,639
Speaker 2: in late Parkinson's when I met him, so I never

1447
01:12:35,680 --> 01:12:38,600
Speaker 2: really knew him, knew him. And when he passed my

1448
01:12:38,720 --> 01:12:42,000
Speaker 2: I mean my mom, she would share this is why

1449
01:12:42,000 --> 01:12:44,519
Speaker 2: I'm sharing it. She was on the couch for three

1450
01:12:44,600 --> 01:12:48,599
Speaker 2: or four weeks straight and I was just coming to

1451
01:12:48,640 --> 01:12:51,960
Speaker 2: an age where I was able to like see emotion,

1452
01:12:52,320 --> 01:12:55,800
Speaker 2: understand emotion. So I remember laying beside her on the

1453
01:12:55,840 --> 01:12:58,280
Speaker 2: couch and why you you know, why you cry?

1454
01:12:58,360 --> 01:12:58,599
Speaker 1: Mom?

1455
01:12:58,800 --> 01:13:02,559
Speaker 2: And just the way that she spoke about her dad

1456
01:13:04,080 --> 01:13:06,920
Speaker 2: in the stories. It did make me more interested in Charlie,

1457
01:13:07,600 --> 01:13:11,200
Speaker 2: and I did go through his things when I got older,

1458
01:13:11,240 --> 01:13:13,280
Speaker 2: and I wanted to know about He was an engineer

1459
01:13:13,320 --> 01:13:15,800
Speaker 2: and I wanted to know all about the bridges that

1460
01:13:15,880 --> 01:13:18,719
Speaker 2: he was building in Alabama and learning about the company

1461
01:13:18,760 --> 01:13:23,880
Speaker 2: they started. And I bet Rue and Scotti will have

1462
01:13:24,680 --> 01:13:29,000
Speaker 2: that same thing of like just wanting to know about

1463
01:13:29,040 --> 01:13:33,320
Speaker 2: her teaching and wanting to know more about your mom.

1464
01:13:33,640 --> 01:13:35,000
Speaker 2: So I think that will.

1465
01:13:34,760 --> 01:13:37,240
Speaker 1: Happen just quickly.

1466
01:13:37,280 --> 01:13:41,040
Speaker 4: I actually exact same situation as Shuram, and I'll talk

1467
01:13:41,080 --> 01:13:42,720
Speaker 4: to my dad and see if he's okay with this sin.

1468
01:13:42,840 --> 01:13:46,080
Speaker 4: I don't see why he wouldn't. But my grandfather had

1469
01:13:46,120 --> 01:13:49,800
Speaker 4: Parkinson's died when I was five. It was the same thing.

1470
01:13:49,880 --> 01:13:53,559
Speaker 4: I faint memories, but he was If anyone that has

1471
01:13:53,600 --> 01:13:54,280
Speaker 4: been touched.

1472
01:13:54,080 --> 01:13:55,519
Speaker 2: By Parkinson's, they know how.

1473
01:13:57,040 --> 01:14:01,360
Speaker 4: Awful that diseases, and it just takes away. But as

1474
01:14:01,400 --> 01:14:05,840
Speaker 4: I gotten older, like that memory through my dad lives

1475
01:14:05,840 --> 01:14:09,320
Speaker 4: pretty strong, and there's a real curiosity within my grandmother.

1476
01:14:09,800 --> 01:14:12,439
Speaker 4: I always got to talk to her about him, and

1477
01:14:12,479 --> 01:14:16,360
Speaker 4: whether it's stories or great memories. You know, you learn

1478
01:14:16,439 --> 01:14:18,840
Speaker 4: so much and there's not a day goodbye that you're like, man,

1479
01:14:18,880 --> 01:14:21,840
Speaker 4: I wish I got to know him really well. But

1480
01:14:22,040 --> 01:14:25,080
Speaker 4: that memory that lives through others, it's really important, you know,

1481
01:14:25,160 --> 01:14:28,400
Speaker 4: And it's not it's one of those things that you

1482
01:14:28,439 --> 01:14:32,240
Speaker 4: grow up and you just try to take the good

1483
01:14:32,240 --> 01:14:35,320
Speaker 4: that you hear from others and like, yeah, it's you know,

1484
01:14:35,680 --> 01:14:38,720
Speaker 4: would you want another way, of course? But at the

1485
01:14:38,760 --> 01:14:42,760
Speaker 4: same time, like having that presence through your parents is

1486
01:14:42,800 --> 01:14:46,479
Speaker 4: like an amazing thing to have. I would never want

1487
01:14:46,479 --> 01:14:50,840
Speaker 4: it a different way where no one talked about, you know,

1488
01:14:51,160 --> 01:14:53,920
Speaker 4: my grandfather. I would always, you know, want it to

1489
01:14:53,960 --> 01:14:56,320
Speaker 4: be talked about and laugh and share stories and.

1490
01:14:56,800 --> 01:14:58,280
Speaker 2: The best to hear about.

1491
01:14:58,400 --> 01:15:03,880
Speaker 1: So I appreciate you guys, man, yeah seriously, because it

1492
01:15:04,280 --> 01:15:07,040
Speaker 1: feel like you know when that like there's an awkward

1493
01:15:07,080 --> 01:15:10,360
Speaker 1: part of me too, that when I'm kind of breaking down.

1494
01:15:10,400 --> 01:15:12,680
Speaker 1: But I appreciate you guys kind of sitting that with

1495
01:15:12,800 --> 01:15:18,400
Speaker 1: me and giving giving your thoughts and encouragement. You guys

1496
01:15:18,439 --> 01:15:20,760
Speaker 1: are good dudes. You as well, Derek. I mean, we've

1497
01:15:20,760 --> 01:15:23,599
Speaker 1: known each other, not even that long. I'll look back,

1498
01:15:23,760 --> 01:15:25,120
Speaker 1: I see I can't break.

1499
01:15:24,920 --> 01:15:27,200
Speaker 6: It down with me to make you in this state,

1500
01:15:27,320 --> 01:15:30,120
Speaker 6: But I oftentimes like being the new guy here. I

1501
01:15:30,200 --> 01:15:32,720
Speaker 6: like driving in. I don't think you guys, and I

1502
01:15:32,760 --> 01:15:35,519
Speaker 6: know you do, but like realize the impact you have

1503
01:15:36,200 --> 01:15:38,920
Speaker 6: on just like everyday people. And so I was contemplating

1504
01:15:38,920 --> 01:15:41,439
Speaker 6: that that common obviously, but like the fact that you

1505
01:15:41,560 --> 01:15:45,160
Speaker 6: even going through your situation made someone else do that

1506
01:15:45,360 --> 01:15:47,559
Speaker 6: like I was. I was crying reading it, like it's

1507
01:15:47,600 --> 01:15:50,400
Speaker 6: it's unbelievable what you guys and chef two, Like the

1508
01:15:50,439 --> 01:15:52,680
Speaker 6: three of you have started and done here, and you're

1509
01:15:52,760 --> 01:15:56,080
Speaker 6: changing people's lives just by doing something that you guys

1510
01:15:56,080 --> 01:15:56,680
Speaker 6: wanted to do.

1511
01:15:56,960 --> 01:15:58,280
Speaker 2: It's fucking awesome.

1512
01:15:59,360 --> 01:15:59,719
Speaker 1: Derek.

1513
01:15:59,840 --> 01:16:13,839
Speaker 2: I felt composure. I felt very spoiled yesterday because Derek

1514
01:16:14,479 --> 01:16:20,000
Speaker 2: brought a message from a girl who was getting picked

1515
01:16:20,000 --> 01:16:22,680
Speaker 2: on at school. And I'll leave names out of it

1516
01:16:22,680 --> 01:16:23,920
Speaker 2: because I don't know if he wanted it on the

1517
01:16:23,960 --> 01:16:26,360
Speaker 2: podcast or not, but he had reached out to the

1518
01:16:26,400 --> 01:16:31,120
Speaker 2: four of the dad's phone basically saying, Hey, my little

1519
01:16:31,120 --> 01:16:35,000
Speaker 2: girl had a dead tooth from when she fell. She

1520
01:16:35,080 --> 01:16:39,200
Speaker 2: was getting bullied at school. We went to the dentist,

1521
01:16:39,280 --> 01:16:42,839
Speaker 2: she got it pulled. She was very brave and would

1522
01:16:43,160 --> 01:16:48,800
Speaker 2: anyone affiliated with the show. I want to send her

1523
01:16:48,800 --> 01:16:52,439
Speaker 2: a message and just tell her what a great job

1524
01:16:52,520 --> 01:16:55,120
Speaker 2: she did because she watches the show with me.

1525
01:17:06,640 --> 01:17:10,439
Speaker 1: H Cryan's cool, big dog.

1526
01:17:12,720 --> 01:17:16,840
Speaker 2: The parlay we could have built with all these breakdowns, the.

1527
01:17:16,960 --> 01:17:19,559
Speaker 1: Car we're hitting the para double.

1528
01:17:22,400 --> 01:17:27,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, but just getting just in that video was very

1529
01:17:28,000 --> 01:17:40,200
Speaker 2: cool and like, uh, like truly, who are we to

1530
01:17:40,280 --> 01:17:43,840
Speaker 2: be put in a situation like that? It's cool, It's

1531
01:17:43,960 --> 01:17:50,559
Speaker 2: very cool. Composure. I can't even look at Will. I'm

1532
01:17:50,560 --> 01:17:55,799
Speaker 2: now just looking at the chef because they're crying lesson

1533
01:17:55,880 --> 01:18:01,719
Speaker 2: will Is, But yeah, there's really cool. And his daughter

1534
01:18:02,640 --> 01:18:07,920
Speaker 2: sit a video back and uh it's like the best

1535
01:18:08,080 --> 01:18:09,759
Speaker 2: two minute video I've ever watched.

1536
01:18:10,840 --> 01:18:19,000
Speaker 1: So this year we're just we're in a big therapy session.

1537
01:18:19,479 --> 01:18:22,479
Speaker 1: I love it. I know whoever's been sticking with us

1538
01:18:22,479 --> 01:18:25,000
Speaker 1: and sitting through its tears in their eyes and it's

1539
01:18:25,040 --> 01:18:27,880
Speaker 1: just we're just having We're just all having a moment together. Man.

1540
01:18:30,479 --> 01:18:35,519
Speaker 2: Yeah, Dad Loss, I haven't done my laundry in a while,

1541
01:18:35,520 --> 01:18:37,360
Speaker 2: and I think Jill's trying to teach me a lesson

1542
01:18:37,400 --> 01:18:39,040
Speaker 2: by not doing it for me. So I'm out of

1543
01:18:39,160 --> 01:18:44,920
Speaker 2: underwear and shout out my friend Colin. He jokingly sent

1544
01:18:45,000 --> 01:18:51,280
Speaker 2: me a European style swimsuit uh the other month, and Colin,

1545
01:18:51,320 --> 01:18:54,360
Speaker 2: I'm currently wearing that European south swimsuit as underwear right

1546
01:18:54,439 --> 01:18:55,839
Speaker 2: now because I'm all out of underwear.

1547
01:18:56,479 --> 01:18:57,160
Speaker 7: Uh.

1548
01:18:57,280 --> 01:18:59,679
Speaker 2: That is my dad Loss for the week.

1549
01:19:00,920 --> 01:19:03,679
Speaker 1: Get on the laundry, buddy, I gotta get on it, buddy.

1550
01:19:04,160 --> 01:19:04,960
Speaker 2: What am I doing?

1551
01:19:05,240 --> 01:19:08,479
Speaker 1: Yeah? What are you doing? I'm bro I the pile

1552
01:19:08,520 --> 01:19:14,360
Speaker 1: of my laundry. It sits all year round, like where

1553
01:19:14,400 --> 01:19:17,160
Speaker 1: like maybe once maybe twice a year. It's like I'll

1554
01:19:17,160 --> 01:19:20,680
Speaker 1: have the switch will flip and it's gonna be a

1555
01:19:20,680 --> 01:19:23,439
Speaker 1: clean closet. But that's the only time I'll ever be clean,

1556
01:19:24,200 --> 01:19:25,560
Speaker 1: cause I'll like, you know, I'll rip a couple of

1557
01:19:25,560 --> 01:19:28,120
Speaker 1: loads of laundry. But once I'm like, okay, it's like

1558
01:19:28,120 --> 01:19:31,479
Speaker 1: the whites, some colors, and then I'll be good. I'll

1559
01:19:31,520 --> 01:19:33,080
Speaker 1: be good to go, and then I don't get to

1560
01:19:33,120 --> 01:19:35,479
Speaker 1: the stuff that I'm like I need to do. You know,

1561
01:19:35,479 --> 01:19:37,840
Speaker 1: whether it's hoodies, if it's springing summertime, it's like hood

1562
01:19:37,920 --> 01:19:41,360
Speaker 1: the hoodie pile and jeans from whatever I ended on before,

1563
01:19:41,840 --> 01:19:44,000
Speaker 1: they sit there all year round until it's hoodie and

1564
01:19:44,080 --> 01:19:48,559
Speaker 1: jean time. Yeah. But I think I think a lot

1565
01:19:48,600 --> 01:19:51,120
Speaker 1: of the boys out there struggle with the laundry. Oh dude,

1566
01:19:51,240 --> 01:19:54,519
Speaker 1: I and like, got my pile that sits by the bed.

1567
01:19:54,640 --> 01:19:57,080
Speaker 1: I'm gonna wear you know, you without out of underwear.

1568
01:19:57,120 --> 01:19:59,160
Speaker 1: Your underwear now is sitting on the side of your bed.

1569
01:19:59,240 --> 01:20:02,120
Speaker 1: Your underwear. So so maybe I'll wear these gym shorts again.

1570
01:20:02,160 --> 01:20:03,760
Speaker 1: It's gonna sit next to my bed. Why don't you

1571
01:20:03,760 --> 01:20:05,479
Speaker 1: pick that up? I might wear it later in the week.

1572
01:20:05,600 --> 01:20:08,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, And I woke up. This morning, I went over

1573
01:20:08,400 --> 01:20:10,519
Speaker 2: to our Jill does a good job of like we

1574
01:20:10,600 --> 01:20:14,080
Speaker 2: have a dirty clothes hamper for Jill me and then

1575
01:20:14,160 --> 01:20:17,600
Speaker 2: towels and sheets. And I saw mine as I was

1576
01:20:17,640 --> 01:20:20,559
Speaker 2: walking out of the house and it's just like a

1577
01:20:20,680 --> 01:20:24,400
Speaker 2: volcano slowly oozing lava out of it. And I'm like,

1578
01:20:25,280 --> 01:20:28,280
Speaker 2: I get hey, I got the message, Honey, I'll do

1579
01:20:28,400 --> 01:20:29,040
Speaker 2: my laundry.

1580
01:20:29,160 --> 01:20:31,439
Speaker 1: Yeah. You take your clothes off, and you're like, all right,

1581
01:20:31,479 --> 01:20:33,080
Speaker 1: it's kind of looks like it might tip over. Let

1582
01:20:33,160 --> 01:20:35,360
Speaker 1: me just rebalance it by placing my clothes here so

1583
01:20:35,400 --> 01:20:37,160
Speaker 1: it doesn't fall over. You kind of like smush it

1584
01:20:37,200 --> 01:20:38,840
Speaker 1: down a little. The morning, you step back and look

1585
01:20:38,880 --> 01:20:40,880
Speaker 1: at it, and you're like, all right, I can I'll

1586
01:20:40,880 --> 01:20:42,160
Speaker 1: do the laundry tomorrow. Tomorrow.

1587
01:20:42,400 --> 01:20:45,519
Speaker 2: A very humbling reminder to you, because I told Chef

1588
01:20:45,720 --> 01:20:50,759
Speaker 2: this this morning. I have like twenty five pairs of underwear.

1589
01:20:52,080 --> 01:20:54,320
Speaker 2: If that'll lets you know how long.

1590
01:20:54,200 --> 01:20:57,360
Speaker 1: It's been since I've done laundry. That's a scary thought.

1591
01:20:57,520 --> 01:20:59,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, if it makes y'all feel any better.

1592
01:20:59,439 --> 01:21:03,160
Speaker 4: The uh came up she got in last night, but yesterday,

1593
01:21:03,200 --> 01:21:05,559
Speaker 4: before I came in, I was playing out coming in

1594
01:21:05,600 --> 01:21:07,479
Speaker 4: at like want like one or socause we have the

1595
01:21:07,560 --> 01:21:11,760
Speaker 4: stream and uh ends up. I wake up and I realized, like,

1596
01:21:11,920 --> 01:21:16,000
Speaker 4: how no Launders done? Room's a mess. I was pulling

1597
01:21:16,040 --> 01:21:19,120
Speaker 4: like a risky business, like trying to get everything clean

1598
01:21:19,120 --> 01:21:21,360
Speaker 4: as fast as possible. So the girlfriend Nick come home

1599
01:21:21,360 --> 01:21:24,760
Speaker 4: and be like, could have you know picked.

1600
01:21:24,560 --> 01:21:30,080
Speaker 2: Up a little bro also shout out that Alex right

1601
01:21:30,120 --> 01:21:33,080
Speaker 2: there that is st six, shout out that Alex is

1602
01:21:33,120 --> 01:21:34,880
Speaker 2: in town. And we gotta get the girls on a

1603
01:21:34,920 --> 01:21:37,200
Speaker 2: Majong game we have we have to make. It was

1604
01:21:37,400 --> 01:21:38,800
Speaker 2: crazy that they both played Majo.

1605
01:21:39,360 --> 01:21:42,360
Speaker 1: Does your girl play Majong? Derek? What is Majohn?

1606
01:21:42,600 --> 01:21:44,320
Speaker 6: That was gonna be my exact question? Is that the

1607
01:21:44,439 --> 01:21:45,160
Speaker 6: dragon dice?

1608
01:21:45,640 --> 01:21:49,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, dude, it's like it's this it's Chinese, I believe

1609
01:21:49,520 --> 01:21:54,760
Speaker 2: of origin. It's like Chinese uh board game and it's too.

1610
01:21:54,760 --> 01:21:55,920
Speaker 1: Like to record.

1611
01:21:55,960 --> 01:21:59,960
Speaker 2: I'm pretty sure the oldest board game that's like Circuit

1612
01:22:00,400 --> 01:22:04,160
Speaker 2: still to this day, and it's basically like a Chinese

1613
01:22:04,280 --> 01:22:10,360
Speaker 2: version of Dominoes on steroids of like you have these

1614
01:22:10,360 --> 01:22:12,680
Speaker 2: certain patterns that you've got to match, and you have

1615
01:22:12,760 --> 01:22:16,840
Speaker 2: a card that's roughly this size that lets you know

1616
01:22:17,000 --> 01:22:20,519
Speaker 2: all the matching sequences that you can do. And each

1617
01:22:20,720 --> 01:22:26,280
Speaker 2: matching sequence is a certain amount of points, and you

1618
01:22:26,360 --> 01:22:30,479
Speaker 2: have some pieces, they have some pieces. You're trying to

1619
01:22:30,479 --> 01:22:34,559
Speaker 2: go for this one strategy that I could pick up

1620
01:22:34,600 --> 01:22:37,200
Speaker 2: that you're trying to go for it, so then I

1621
01:22:37,240 --> 01:22:40,639
Speaker 2: can go for another strategy because now all the pieces

1622
01:22:40,680 --> 01:22:43,599
Speaker 2: that you don't want, those are the pieces that I need.

1623
01:22:44,040 --> 01:22:45,840
Speaker 2: And so you could think that you're doing a really

1624
01:22:45,880 --> 01:22:46,320
Speaker 2: good job.

1625
01:22:46,360 --> 01:22:48,440
Speaker 1: But really a strategy.

1626
01:22:48,080 --> 01:22:51,479
Speaker 4: Game, it's very convoluted and it's a big learning curve.

1627
01:22:51,560 --> 01:22:53,320
Speaker 4: It's kind of like trying to learn how to play poker,

1628
01:22:53,680 --> 01:22:55,639
Speaker 4: like legitimate, like when you play with the actual people.

1629
01:22:55,760 --> 01:22:55,840
Speaker 1: Know.

1630
01:22:56,240 --> 01:22:58,800
Speaker 4: Well, let me say, once you get it down, it

1631
01:22:58,960 --> 01:23:01,519
Speaker 4: rips and some highly competitive game, you.

1632
01:23:01,400 --> 01:23:04,080
Speaker 2: Get some cold ones, dud, because I like with board games,

1633
01:23:04,120 --> 01:23:06,040
Speaker 2: I can just play and have fun. I don't have

1634
01:23:06,120 --> 01:23:08,680
Speaker 2: to win. And it's one of those games that you

1635
01:23:08,680 --> 01:23:10,680
Speaker 2: can have some cold ones ripping the whole time, or

1636
01:23:10,680 --> 01:23:11,400
Speaker 2: some wine.

1637
01:23:11,920 --> 01:23:13,000
Speaker 1: It's fun. Dude.

1638
01:23:13,000 --> 01:23:15,400
Speaker 6: Well have you seen Crazy Rich Asians? Yeah, it's the

1639
01:23:15,439 --> 01:23:17,600
Speaker 6: game they're playing at the end with the daughter who's like,

1640
01:23:17,600 --> 01:23:18,120
Speaker 6: you don't know.

1641
01:23:18,120 --> 01:23:20,960
Speaker 1: Me, okay, yeah, the only way I know it. But yeah,

1642
01:23:21,040 --> 01:23:23,920
Speaker 1: all right, yeah, yeah Crazy Ridges. Of course, my wife's

1643
01:23:23,960 --> 01:23:25,840
Speaker 1: at Filipino. You don't think we were in there opening

1644
01:23:25,960 --> 01:23:29,000
Speaker 1: night watching Crazy Riches. Hey, come on, great movie.

1645
01:23:29,120 --> 01:23:29,880
Speaker 2: I need to see that.

1646
01:23:31,800 --> 01:23:34,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, Scale, I need to see that. And it's like

1647
01:23:34,560 --> 01:23:37,479
Speaker 1: they're they're in Bro, you would love it. That's a great,

1648
01:23:37,760 --> 01:23:39,840
Speaker 1: great movie for you guys this weekend. Swear to god,

1649
01:23:39,840 --> 01:23:43,599
Speaker 1: it's a great it's a romantic, it's it's everything. It's

1650
01:23:43,640 --> 01:23:46,000
Speaker 1: a really good movie. I need to watch that. I've

1651
01:23:46,080 --> 01:23:49,200
Speaker 1: yet to watch it. And it's like they're in Singapore,

1652
01:23:49,280 --> 01:23:53,120
Speaker 1: right Bro. The food scene in Singapore, it's like, I'm

1653
01:23:53,120 --> 01:23:54,880
Speaker 1: looking at Singapore and my baby, we need to get

1654
01:23:54,880 --> 01:23:56,479
Speaker 1: out to Singapore.

1655
01:23:57,080 --> 01:24:00,360
Speaker 2: Could not be more correct on that, any type of

1656
01:24:00,840 --> 01:24:08,080
Speaker 2: cuisine that's like Indonesian, Southeast Asian, Like, Bro, watch Crazy

1657
01:24:08,160 --> 01:24:13,800
Speaker 2: Rich Asians. Good funny, I need a laugh. Great wrong com.

1658
01:24:14,000 --> 01:24:15,120
Speaker 2: It is a great rom com.

1659
01:24:15,479 --> 01:24:15,759
Speaker 1: Honey.

1660
01:24:15,800 --> 01:24:17,600
Speaker 4: How we didn't even put it to a like a

1661
01:24:17,680 --> 01:24:21,519
Speaker 4: rom com. I think it's like I always think it's

1662
01:24:21,560 --> 01:24:23,960
Speaker 4: it's it's a rom com. But I'd almost put it

1663
01:24:24,000 --> 01:24:26,400
Speaker 4: over more on the like it's no, I'd put it

1664
01:24:26,439 --> 01:24:28,679
Speaker 4: more as like just an I feel like rom coms

1665
01:24:28,680 --> 01:24:31,080
Speaker 4: are like, yeah, I see what you're saying, Like you

1666
01:24:31,120 --> 01:24:33,599
Speaker 4: don't call get Out a true horror movie like a slasher,

1667
01:24:33,640 --> 01:24:36,559
Speaker 4: because get Out it's like an incredible It's almost like

1668
01:24:36,560 --> 01:24:38,280
Speaker 4: a step up, because I feel like when you genre

1669
01:24:38,320 --> 01:24:41,760
Speaker 4: a movie like that, yeah, I'm weird ramble here. I

1670
01:24:41,800 --> 01:24:43,360
Speaker 4: feel like you're putting it to like a shelf. I

1671
01:24:43,400 --> 01:24:44,759
Speaker 4: would put crazy rich Asians.

1672
01:24:44,800 --> 01:24:47,240
Speaker 1: I agree with you, like you were saying, if people

1673
01:24:47,320 --> 01:24:49,519
Speaker 1: hear the rom com tag, then it's like, all right,

1674
01:24:49,560 --> 01:24:51,719
Speaker 1: the expectation of the seriousness is down.

1675
01:24:51,840 --> 01:24:53,639
Speaker 4: Yes, yeah, I'm gonna go as certain and they all

1676
01:24:53,760 --> 01:24:55,280
Speaker 4: follow a very specific pattern.

1677
01:24:55,360 --> 01:24:56,599
Speaker 2: I would put this movie like a.

1678
01:24:56,520 --> 01:24:59,000
Speaker 4: Step above, yes, and I'm not a huge romp like

1679
01:24:59,479 --> 01:25:01,679
Speaker 4: rom com guy. I would put it like Star is Born,

1680
01:25:02,080 --> 01:25:04,679
Speaker 4: Like that's another one, which that one's not in comedy really,

1681
01:25:04,720 --> 01:25:05,959
Speaker 4: but that one's depressing.

1682
01:25:06,200 --> 01:25:09,040
Speaker 2: I have like how to Lose a guy in ten

1683
01:25:09,120 --> 01:25:13,080
Speaker 2: days and in that like upper echelon ten things I

1684
01:25:13,080 --> 01:25:14,960
Speaker 2: hate about you and that upper echelon.

1685
01:25:15,280 --> 01:25:17,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, this it's a great one. You, you and Jill

1686
01:25:17,400 --> 01:25:19,800
Speaker 1: should definitely snuggle up and watch it this weekend. It's

1687
01:25:19,800 --> 01:25:20,240
Speaker 1: that good.

1688
01:25:20,320 --> 01:25:23,559
Speaker 2: It's that good, like a hey weekend movie. We gotta

1689
01:25:23,600 --> 01:25:25,680
Speaker 2: watch this one. I'm not trying to be TMI dude,

1690
01:25:25,720 --> 01:25:27,880
Speaker 2: but Jill and I have been snuggling a lot, dude,

1691
01:25:29,200 --> 01:25:30,040
Speaker 2: just saying.

1692
01:25:30,000 --> 01:25:32,400
Speaker 1: All right, big, and I don't mean it like that.

1693
01:25:32,840 --> 01:25:35,400
Speaker 2: All right, big, I don't mean it like that.

1694
01:25:35,520 --> 01:25:36,200
Speaker 1: I'm dead to you.

1695
01:25:38,120 --> 01:25:42,479
Speaker 2: There's nothing better than snuggling and watching movies. Oh, really quick,

1696
01:25:42,960 --> 01:25:45,360
Speaker 2: I'll keep this so quick. We gotta keep it under

1697
01:25:45,400 --> 01:25:48,360
Speaker 2: that week you do under an hour. Jill would not

1698
01:25:48,560 --> 01:25:51,000
Speaker 2: watch Severance. I couldn't get this girl in Severance to

1699
01:25:51,200 --> 01:25:55,000
Speaker 2: save her life. And I'm sitting there, I'm talking about

1700
01:25:55,000 --> 01:25:58,799
Speaker 2: how great Severance is and she she got five minutes

1701
01:25:58,800 --> 01:26:02,000
Speaker 2: into the first episode one. This was way back, like

1702
01:26:02,200 --> 01:26:07,240
Speaker 2: your side, keep it quick. Yeah. Anyways, Jared comes over

1703
01:26:08,120 --> 01:26:11,920
Speaker 2: shout out demon and he's like, hey, y'all should watch Severance.

1704
01:26:11,960 --> 01:26:13,519
Speaker 2: It's a really good show. Well, all of a sudden,

1705
01:26:13,560 --> 01:26:15,519
Speaker 2: it's the best idea in the world. And Jill's like,

1706
01:26:15,680 --> 01:26:18,519
Speaker 2: we should watch Severance. That sounds great. I bit my

1707
01:26:18,600 --> 01:26:23,120
Speaker 2: tongue so hard. And then she started it like four days.

1708
01:26:23,160 --> 01:26:27,960
Speaker 2: Agaess she already finished postseasons. It's the best show ever. Yeah, well,

1709
01:26:27,960 --> 01:26:31,719
Speaker 2: I mean she's on maternity lead. Yeah, you know, good

1710
01:26:31,760 --> 01:26:34,000
Speaker 2: for her, bro Truman, it's the best show ever. I

1711
01:26:34,000 --> 01:26:35,360
Speaker 2: can't believe you didn't tell me about this.

1712
01:26:35,560 --> 01:26:38,240
Speaker 1: I'm just what you say to it.

1713
01:26:38,520 --> 01:26:43,919
Speaker 2: I said, bitch. Sorry into the mic, I said bitch.

1714
01:26:44,720 --> 01:26:46,320
Speaker 2: But I truly was like.

1715
01:26:46,680 --> 01:26:47,240
Speaker 1: Oh my god.

1716
01:26:47,320 --> 01:26:49,760
Speaker 2: And now whenever we see Adam Scott on TV, she's

1717
01:26:49,800 --> 01:26:53,160
Speaker 2: like Mark Ass, I'm like, you think you.

1718
01:26:53,160 --> 01:26:53,559
Speaker 1: Know, you.

1719
01:26:55,040 --> 01:26:55,519
Speaker 2: Don't know.

1720
01:26:57,000 --> 01:26:59,880
Speaker 1: Let's talk about some dad life. Yeah, let's talk about dad.

1721
01:27:00,760 --> 01:27:01,760
Speaker 1: I did my dad loss?

1722
01:27:01,800 --> 01:27:02,920
Speaker 2: Did you have a dad loss?

1723
01:27:03,280 --> 01:27:06,240
Speaker 1: More of like a not like a dad loss, but

1724
01:27:06,280 --> 01:27:08,599
Speaker 1: more of like a dad guilt creeps in when you're

1725
01:27:08,680 --> 01:27:12,080
Speaker 1: kiddo's sick and I like, we traveling to New York,

1726
01:27:12,160 --> 01:27:14,000
Speaker 1: oh yeah, yea, having the stream that we have to

1727
01:27:14,080 --> 01:27:17,919
Speaker 1: do to where char was on well shooting on the bedtime,

1728
01:27:18,920 --> 01:27:21,000
Speaker 1: the bedtime leaks over whenever I have to leave to

1729
01:27:21,000 --> 01:27:22,439
Speaker 1: go to New York. Yeah, because the way we try

1730
01:27:22,439 --> 01:27:24,519
Speaker 1: to fly to New York, plane doesn't leave until like

1731
01:27:24,560 --> 01:27:26,559
Speaker 1: eight thirty, so that way I could do bedtime at home.

1732
01:27:27,760 --> 01:27:29,800
Speaker 1: And then she was on bedtime duty when we were

1733
01:27:29,800 --> 01:27:32,880
Speaker 1: doing the Thursday night stream, which it's like this part

1734
01:27:32,920 --> 01:27:35,280
Speaker 1: of you as a parent that's like, oh, you know,

1735
01:27:36,560 --> 01:27:38,360
Speaker 1: fortunately I'm not at the house dealing with this. And

1736
01:27:38,360 --> 01:27:40,960
Speaker 1: there there's the other side that's the guilt side, like

1737
01:27:41,040 --> 01:27:43,759
Speaker 1: that's funny, but that's also like a real thing too, truly,

1738
01:27:44,280 --> 01:27:48,320
Speaker 1: And it's like I'm feeling guilty because Scotty got like

1739
01:27:48,360 --> 01:27:50,960
Speaker 1: a hand mouthfoot, which is like this sickness is illness,

1740
01:27:51,000 --> 01:27:53,479
Speaker 1: this disease where you can have I typed it into

1741
01:27:53,479 --> 01:27:55,200
Speaker 1: so that way I can give to people some information.

1742
01:27:55,760 --> 01:27:59,320
Speaker 1: The symptoms of hand fout mouthfoot are hand foot mouth,

1743
01:28:00,040 --> 01:28:04,559
Speaker 1: beaver sore throat, painful mouth, ulcers, rash with small blisters

1744
01:28:04,600 --> 01:28:08,520
Speaker 1: on the hands, feet, and but drooling, loss of appetite.

1745
01:28:09,000 --> 01:28:13,439
Speaker 1: And Scotty currently has that. So I've like felt bad

1746
01:28:13,560 --> 01:28:16,080
Speaker 1: not getting to be at home on some of those nights,

1747
01:28:16,120 --> 01:28:19,240
Speaker 1: like truly, because she gets fussy. She's not taking a bottle.

1748
01:28:19,280 --> 01:28:20,679
Speaker 1: We have to feed her like kind of a cold

1749
01:28:20,680 --> 01:28:22,800
Speaker 1: bottles now so she'll drinking because of the sores in

1750
01:28:22,800 --> 01:28:26,040
Speaker 1: her mouth. She's been eating pretty good for the most part.

1751
01:28:26,040 --> 01:28:27,800
Speaker 1: And then it's like the things you worry about when

1752
01:28:27,800 --> 01:28:30,680
Speaker 1: they have a foot in mouth is like hydration, So

1753
01:28:30,720 --> 01:28:32,479
Speaker 1: if they're not drinking their bottle or nothing like that,

1754
01:28:32,520 --> 01:28:34,640
Speaker 1: like trying to get her to drink water, say, off

1755
01:28:34,680 --> 01:28:36,120
Speaker 1: the top of that, because she's not like wetting or

1756
01:28:36,200 --> 01:28:39,439
Speaker 1: diaper as much, but just real fussy. You kind of

1757
01:28:39,439 --> 01:28:42,160
Speaker 1: have them asleep in your arms and then you put

1758
01:28:42,200 --> 01:28:43,760
Speaker 1: them down the crib. And the moment you put them

1759
01:28:43,760 --> 01:28:46,160
Speaker 1: in the crib and you're trying to like you know,

1760
01:28:46,280 --> 01:28:48,920
Speaker 1: get like a mission impossible sneak out, they notice you're

1761
01:28:48,920 --> 01:28:51,439
Speaker 1: not holding them. They start crying. And Scotty's been a

1762
01:28:51,479 --> 01:28:54,000
Speaker 1: tremendous sleeper, like once you get her to sleep, put

1763
01:28:54,000 --> 01:28:57,719
Speaker 1: her in the crib, done deal, twelve hours and she's

1764
01:28:57,800 --> 01:28:59,600
Speaker 1: just been really fussy to where you put it on

1765
01:28:59,600 --> 01:29:01,880
Speaker 1: the crib. Moment you like your hands leaver, she wakes

1766
01:29:01,960 --> 01:29:04,040
Speaker 1: up and nose and starts crying. Or you got we

1767
01:29:04,120 --> 01:29:06,479
Speaker 1: just got a little you know, like the little cracking

1768
01:29:06,520 --> 01:29:08,759
Speaker 1: noise in our door as you're opening that little squeak

1769
01:29:09,760 --> 01:29:12,160
Speaker 1: once you open it, and then those next three inches

1770
01:29:12,240 --> 01:29:14,200
Speaker 1: might have a squeak to where you try and open

1771
01:29:14,240 --> 01:29:15,680
Speaker 1: it really fast just to get the other side and

1772
01:29:15,720 --> 01:29:18,640
Speaker 1: hopefully they don't hear it, but then she'll hear it,

1773
01:29:18,680 --> 01:29:21,080
Speaker 1: wakes up, just been really fussy and been hard to

1774
01:29:21,080 --> 01:29:23,680
Speaker 1: put down at night. Yeah, so the dad loss is

1775
01:29:23,720 --> 01:29:26,360
Speaker 1: more of like a dad guilt because like we're watching

1776
01:29:26,360 --> 01:29:28,720
Speaker 1: the fucking Thursday night football stream and She's like, you

1777
01:29:28,760 --> 01:29:32,240
Speaker 1: can't like go late to it or help me out

1778
01:29:32,360 --> 01:29:34,639
Speaker 1: or like help out doing this, And I'm just like, sweetheart,

1779
01:29:34,720 --> 01:29:37,519
Speaker 1: I gotta gotta good. I gotta do X Y and

1780
01:29:37,680 --> 01:29:40,360
Speaker 1: Z for the stream, whether it's a social ad or

1781
01:29:40,400 --> 01:29:42,360
Speaker 1: thanks for FanDuel that we got to deliver and do.

1782
01:29:42,560 --> 01:29:45,240
Speaker 1: And you just feel bad that I'm coming home because

1783
01:29:45,280 --> 01:29:48,240
Speaker 1: the day that, like we did, I go to New York.

1784
01:29:48,560 --> 01:29:51,120
Speaker 1: She's struggling with Scotti at nighttime to where ultimately she

1785
01:29:51,160 --> 01:29:52,439
Speaker 1: has to get Scotty out of the crib and she

1786
01:29:52,439 --> 01:29:54,519
Speaker 1: sleeps with her in bed throughout the night because she's

1787
01:29:54,560 --> 01:29:59,080
Speaker 1: only seeming to sleep when she's in one of our arms. Yeah,

1788
01:29:59,280 --> 01:30:01,760
Speaker 1: and then the the next day, it's like we have

1789
01:30:01,840 --> 01:30:03,400
Speaker 1: get up, we do all the ESPN stuff, we have

1790
01:30:03,439 --> 01:30:05,639
Speaker 1: to fly back. It's early afternoon. We have an interview

1791
01:30:05,640 --> 01:30:07,519
Speaker 1: we got to do with the Zach Brown Band with

1792
01:30:07,600 --> 01:30:10,400
Speaker 1: Zach Brown. That's at like two thirty. So you're getting

1793
01:30:10,400 --> 01:30:12,040
Speaker 1: home and I'm only home for a couple hours to

1794
01:30:12,040 --> 01:30:13,920
Speaker 1: where I'm able to play with everybody, to hang out

1795
01:30:13,920 --> 01:30:16,599
Speaker 1: and be dad, be husband. And then after dinner it's

1796
01:30:16,640 --> 01:30:18,160
Speaker 1: like I got to go into the shop and you

1797
01:30:18,240 --> 01:30:21,160
Speaker 1: stream and you're just she's on double bedtime duty and

1798
01:30:21,200 --> 01:30:23,080
Speaker 1: you just know as a parent, you know how hard

1799
01:30:23,080 --> 01:30:25,200
Speaker 1: that shit is. Yeah, to kind of man the ship

1800
01:30:25,200 --> 01:30:27,680
Speaker 1: with the kiddos when your partner has to go to

1801
01:30:27,720 --> 01:30:29,720
Speaker 1: work or has to leave town, whatever the case may be.

1802
01:30:30,280 --> 01:30:32,519
Speaker 1: And so it's more of like the dad losses, like

1803
01:30:32,560 --> 01:30:33,680
Speaker 1: the dad guilt.

1804
01:30:33,680 --> 01:30:35,880
Speaker 2: Because say it was like a one off, it's like, oh,

1805
01:30:35,920 --> 01:30:38,000
Speaker 2: they're being fussy, and you kind of like think to yourself,

1806
01:30:38,000 --> 01:30:38,840
Speaker 2: you might be leaning more.

1807
01:30:38,920 --> 01:30:41,519
Speaker 1: Oh thank God, like I don't have to I get

1808
01:30:41,520 --> 01:30:43,400
Speaker 1: to go and like sleep in a hotel at night.

1809
01:30:44,479 --> 01:30:46,880
Speaker 1: But when it's like the kiddo's sick and you just

1810
01:30:47,040 --> 01:30:49,960
Speaker 1: know they're in it, and like I'm you know, whenever

1811
01:30:49,960 --> 01:30:51,720
Speaker 1: we would have breaks and like texting her like hey,

1812
01:30:52,000 --> 01:30:54,440
Speaker 1: get in a pulse check. Please tell me you relaxing

1813
01:30:54,520 --> 01:30:57,160
Speaker 1: downstairs like by yourself. But it took her kind of

1814
01:30:57,160 --> 01:30:59,000
Speaker 1: an extra hour to get Scottie down. She's sleeping a

1815
01:30:59,000 --> 01:31:01,800
Speaker 1: lot better, she's eating a lot better, good cold bottles,

1816
01:31:03,960 --> 01:31:06,040
Speaker 1: just getting her going because it's so sad having a

1817
01:31:06,040 --> 01:31:09,400
Speaker 1: sick kiddo and when they just want to cuddle, you know,

1818
01:31:09,680 --> 01:31:12,960
Speaker 1: if we set her down or put her somewhere else,

1819
01:31:13,040 --> 01:31:14,240
Speaker 1: or like put her in a seat to where we

1820
01:31:14,280 --> 01:31:16,240
Speaker 1: have to do something around the kitchen or around the house,

1821
01:31:16,560 --> 01:31:18,280
Speaker 1: and she just kind of, you know, it has kind

1822
01:31:18,280 --> 01:31:20,519
Speaker 1: of like a sour, sad cry going on because they

1823
01:31:20,560 --> 01:31:22,800
Speaker 1: just want to be held. It's the saddest thing, bro.

1824
01:31:23,120 --> 01:31:26,000
Speaker 1: The only experience I have with that is when.

1825
01:31:26,160 --> 01:31:30,240
Speaker 2: Uh uh Scarlett had jaundice, so she had to be

1826
01:31:30,320 --> 01:31:33,480
Speaker 2: under those billy lights, those blue lights at the hospital

1827
01:31:33,600 --> 01:31:35,599
Speaker 2: and just not being able to pick her up and

1828
01:31:35,640 --> 01:31:37,320
Speaker 2: having to just hold her hands.

1829
01:31:37,400 --> 01:31:37,639
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1830
01:31:37,680 --> 01:31:40,880
Speaker 2: Man, as she's under the billy lights, just screaming and

1831
01:31:40,920 --> 01:31:41,760
Speaker 2: you're like, oh, I.

1832
01:31:41,840 --> 01:31:44,800
Speaker 1: Just want to saddest thing in the world. So it's

1833
01:31:44,840 --> 01:31:47,519
Speaker 1: kind of like my dad lost, Like dad guilt is

1834
01:31:47,560 --> 01:31:51,280
Speaker 1: a little Scottie Joe was currently currently under the weather

1835
01:31:51,920 --> 01:31:54,240
Speaker 1: just seeing the rashes on their little feet and stuff.

1836
01:31:55,040 --> 01:31:57,040
Speaker 1: They're not bothering her, but it's just it's just like

1837
01:31:57,080 --> 01:31:59,400
Speaker 1: a sad scene. You're like, oh, poor little Scottie Jojo.

1838
01:31:59,640 --> 01:32:03,240
Speaker 2: Also more more important for you because you have a

1839
01:32:03,280 --> 01:32:09,280
Speaker 2: buzz head it on. Adults can appear on your scalp,

1840
01:32:09,600 --> 01:32:11,040
Speaker 2: so just be on the lookout for that.

1841
01:32:11,160 --> 01:32:13,679
Speaker 1: Okay, I've done, We've done a great job, like staying

1842
01:32:13,760 --> 01:32:16,000
Speaker 1: like I can't I'm not able to get sick because

1843
01:32:16,000 --> 01:32:18,160
Speaker 1: I'm thinking I'm like getting I would like get worried, Like, hey,

1844
01:32:18,160 --> 01:32:19,600
Speaker 1: i gotta flood in New York. I'm not gonna be

1845
01:32:19,600 --> 01:32:21,800
Speaker 1: sick in the morning. She's like, no, no, it's not like that.

1846
01:32:21,920 --> 01:32:26,639
Speaker 2: Well, it's only contagious when they liked or have a

1847
01:32:26,680 --> 01:32:27,640
Speaker 2: fever with it.

1848
01:32:27,760 --> 01:32:30,000
Speaker 1: Yeah. So like if she's past the fever stage, you're five,

1849
01:32:30,080 --> 01:32:35,200
Speaker 1: Yeah she is. Yeah, but sad scene, bro, because you

1850
01:32:35,240 --> 01:32:37,639
Speaker 1: used know to your little kiddo, like Scotty's a trooper,

1851
01:32:37,680 --> 01:32:40,080
Speaker 1: it's scott Zilla. So when she's down and out, it's

1852
01:32:40,120 --> 01:32:43,200
Speaker 1: like you just know something. So she's struggling, You're just like, man,

1853
01:32:43,240 --> 01:32:46,360
Speaker 1: you just know she's hurting. She's struggling, but.

1854
01:32:48,840 --> 01:32:55,360
Speaker 2: Cry like her daddy, like a daddy, right like her daddy.

1855
01:32:55,439 --> 01:32:59,120
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, no, but yeah that was that was my

1856
01:32:59,200 --> 01:33:01,160
Speaker 1: dad lost sixers.

1857
01:33:01,200 --> 01:33:05,719
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Speaker 1: But my crack of cold one this week is when

1879
01:34:45,680 --> 01:34:50,200
Speaker 1: your oldest understands the mission like I was experiencing it

1880
01:34:50,200 --> 01:34:52,640
Speaker 1: when I was solo with the kids last week, and

1881
01:34:52,760 --> 01:34:55,639
Speaker 1: even like you're getting reu ready for batting everything else.

1882
01:34:55,640 --> 01:34:58,600
Speaker 1: But when your oldest understands what's at stake, whether I

1883
01:34:58,640 --> 01:35:00,640
Speaker 1: got to put the youngest down, fir, and you're just

1884
01:35:00,760 --> 01:35:02,519
Speaker 1: kind of giving them the roll deecks of the rules

1885
01:35:02,600 --> 01:35:04,640
Speaker 1: or the timeline of the structure of what bedtime' is

1886
01:35:04,640 --> 01:35:06,760
Speaker 1: gonna look like, and Roode knocks it out of the

1887
01:35:06,760 --> 01:35:09,200
Speaker 1: park on her own to where they're excited and they

1888
01:35:09,200 --> 01:35:11,320
Speaker 1: want to come show you that they're dressing their pjs,

1889
01:35:11,520 --> 01:35:14,519
Speaker 1: you know, taking off their clothes, going potty, coming back out,

1890
01:35:14,560 --> 01:35:17,439
Speaker 1: putting her pull up on, putting her pjs on, coming

1891
01:35:17,479 --> 01:35:19,880
Speaker 1: at you with just a brush left, because they've done

1892
01:35:19,920 --> 01:35:22,120
Speaker 1: absolutely everything to get ready for bed. They know it's

1893
01:35:22,120 --> 01:35:24,360
Speaker 1: like story time and hair brush and everything else. But

1894
01:35:24,400 --> 01:35:28,679
Speaker 1: when your oldest understands the mission on how hey listen,

1895
01:35:28,680 --> 01:35:30,559
Speaker 1: mom and dad is going gonna go on a date.

1896
01:35:31,240 --> 01:35:34,280
Speaker 1: Our babysitter came over, took Charo to Taro, and I

1897
01:35:34,320 --> 01:35:37,120
Speaker 1: went to Oku for a little date night one night

1898
01:35:37,280 --> 01:35:40,760
Speaker 1: this past week. And that sounds sick, by the way,

1899
01:35:40,800 --> 01:35:45,040
Speaker 1: What is that Oku? Yeah, it's like a sushi spot

1900
01:35:45,400 --> 01:35:50,920
Speaker 1: sushi Asian Japanese cuisine very good, highly recommend. Good ambiance,

1901
01:35:51,000 --> 01:35:55,800
Speaker 1: great scene. Yeah, definitely a figure snapper. But the babysitter

1902
01:35:55,880 --> 01:35:57,479
Speaker 1: came over and I'm like having a one on one

1903
01:35:57,479 --> 01:35:59,760
Speaker 1: with Rue, and like, you know house, she's got to

1904
01:35:59,760 --> 01:36:02,800
Speaker 1: help Ava and everything else. The Nava comes over and

1905
01:36:02,840 --> 01:36:05,080
Speaker 1: I kind of tell her that the quick rundown with Scotty.

1906
01:36:05,120 --> 01:36:06,640
Speaker 1: She's dealt with Scotti before, but give her to the

1907
01:36:06,680 --> 01:36:08,920
Speaker 1: quick how to change her, like, you know, change her

1908
01:36:08,920 --> 01:36:12,760
Speaker 1: on the changing table, sleepsack, pajamas, milk, get the sound

1909
01:36:12,840 --> 01:36:15,200
Speaker 1: machine on, close the blinds, blah blah, all that the

1910
01:36:15,200 --> 01:36:18,000
Speaker 1: whole rundown. And I'm like and I just tell her confidently.

1911
01:36:18,360 --> 01:36:19,960
Speaker 1: I'm like, and then you go in with Rue, like

1912
01:36:20,040 --> 01:36:23,200
Speaker 1: let ru use a TV coupon like while you're doing Scottie.

1913
01:36:24,160 --> 01:36:26,519
Speaker 1: And then when you get to Rue, rull do a

1914
01:36:26,520 --> 01:36:28,760
Speaker 1: great job of walking you through everything. Yeah, and then

1915
01:36:28,800 --> 01:36:31,000
Speaker 1: sure sure is shit enough, Like you get a text

1916
01:36:31,000 --> 01:36:32,760
Speaker 1: message when you're at dinner, how was Rue? And she

1917
01:36:32,880 --> 01:36:36,200
Speaker 1: was like she walked me through every step that she

1918
01:36:36,280 --> 01:36:38,680
Speaker 1: had to do. Oh yeah, every step and then like

1919
01:36:38,720 --> 01:36:40,559
Speaker 1: you know, read read me a book and then we

1920
01:36:40,600 --> 01:36:42,960
Speaker 1: go brush your teeth, uh huh, brush your hair, all

1921
01:36:43,000 --> 01:36:45,080
Speaker 1: that stuff. But Rue is flawless. So my crack of

1922
01:36:45,120 --> 01:36:47,679
Speaker 1: cold one is when the oldest understands the mission.

1923
01:36:48,120 --> 01:36:52,080
Speaker 2: Oh dude, well done, real shot, shout out real And

1924
01:36:52,240 --> 01:36:56,919
Speaker 2: I would love to just be walked through the bedtime

1925
01:36:57,000 --> 01:37:00,360
Speaker 2: routine by Rue. I'm sure she does a fabulous you

1926
01:37:00,400 --> 01:37:03,080
Speaker 2: know she has dialed in Charles like, did you you

1927
01:37:03,080 --> 01:37:04,599
Speaker 2: feel like Abe is good with everything?

1928
01:37:04,680 --> 01:37:06,479
Speaker 1: Did you give her a rundown and Scotty? And I

1929
01:37:06,520 --> 01:37:08,000
Speaker 1: was like, I mean I gave a rundown to Scotti

1930
01:37:08,040 --> 01:37:10,160
Speaker 1: and then I just told her that Rue will handle

1931
01:37:10,200 --> 01:37:12,920
Speaker 1: it when it comes to putting Rue down. No, no,

1932
01:37:12,960 --> 01:37:17,240
Speaker 1: a brush our teeth? Yeah yeah, oh read two books

1933
01:37:17,280 --> 01:37:18,559
Speaker 1: first and we go brush our teeth.

1934
01:37:21,360 --> 01:37:24,120
Speaker 2: Dude, that's so sick. And that's a shout out to

1935
01:37:24,160 --> 01:37:27,439
Speaker 2: you in Charo. I'll say that part because I mean, y'all,

1936
01:37:27,600 --> 01:37:29,200
Speaker 2: y'all set up that.

1937
01:37:30,720 --> 01:37:37,160
Speaker 1: What's it called routine structure, structure, thank you the discipline, discipline.

1938
01:37:37,560 --> 01:37:40,080
Speaker 1: But yeah, that's so sick, dude. In those moments, I'm

1939
01:37:40,160 --> 01:37:43,680
Speaker 1: I'm truly like, I trust Ruth's going to handle all

1940
01:37:43,720 --> 01:37:45,360
Speaker 1: of this. Yeah, then you kind of give her a

1941
01:37:45,360 --> 01:37:48,080
Speaker 1: one on one conversation before she comes over. She's going

1942
01:37:48,160 --> 01:37:50,880
Speaker 1: to really need your help because she doesn't know because

1943
01:37:50,920 --> 01:37:53,040
Speaker 1: she doesn't know. Yeah, and that mom and dadd like

1944
01:37:53,520 --> 01:37:55,719
Speaker 1: God day night, and you know, Mama Dada always comes

1945
01:37:55,720 --> 01:37:57,120
Speaker 1: back home. We let her know. She's like, I don't

1946
01:37:57,160 --> 01:37:59,760
Speaker 1: want you to leave. We always come back home. Yeah,

1947
01:38:00,080 --> 01:38:01,880
Speaker 1: we're gonna run right upstairshen we get home, we're gonna

1948
01:38:01,880 --> 01:38:03,680
Speaker 1: give you a hug, kiss and three squeezes while you're

1949
01:38:03,720 --> 01:38:07,160
Speaker 1: in bed. But whenever Avia comes over, sweetheart, she doesn't

1950
01:38:07,160 --> 01:38:09,000
Speaker 1: know how to do bedtime, So you gotta you gotta

1951
01:38:09,000 --> 01:38:11,320
Speaker 1: walk her through the process of how you do bedtime.

1952
01:38:11,360 --> 01:38:13,400
Speaker 1: And I trust you. I trust that you know how

1953
01:38:13,439 --> 01:38:15,680
Speaker 1: to do that and that you can lead her in

1954
01:38:15,720 --> 01:38:20,040
Speaker 1: the right direction. Can you do that for dead? Yeah? Okay, boom,

1955
01:38:20,160 --> 01:38:22,799
Speaker 1: what a lockstep. Once I walk away from that conversation,

1956
01:38:22,840 --> 01:38:24,599
Speaker 1: I'm like, sweetheart, we're good to go. Real.

1957
01:38:24,720 --> 01:38:28,240
Speaker 2: Seems like a true uh firstborn and her yeah uh

1958
01:38:29,000 --> 01:38:32,240
Speaker 2: personality Yeah yeah yeah she is. My brother was a

1959
01:38:32,320 --> 01:38:36,320
Speaker 2: true firstborn as well, so which will help Scotti jojo?

1960
01:38:36,520 --> 01:38:37,080
Speaker 1: Yeah?

1961
01:38:37,120 --> 01:38:42,519
Speaker 2: Absolutely, Oh yeah, all right, I let's do Oh what

1962
01:38:42,600 --> 01:38:45,160
Speaker 2: are the odds because I didn't do it last week?

1963
01:38:45,520 --> 01:38:47,040
Speaker 2: And correct me if I'm wrong, if I didn't do

1964
01:38:47,040 --> 01:38:47,679
Speaker 2: it last week.

1965
01:38:47,720 --> 01:38:48,960
Speaker 1: And the way we have a what are the odds?

1966
01:38:48,960 --> 01:38:50,240
Speaker 1: With us crying every episode?

1967
01:38:50,320 --> 01:38:53,400
Speaker 2: We do have a what are the odds? Uh?

1968
01:38:53,520 --> 01:38:55,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, seriously, keep it under an hour, Keep an under

1969
01:38:56,000 --> 01:38:56,320
Speaker 1: an hour.

1970
01:38:57,640 --> 01:39:01,519
Speaker 2: J Merk, who is an air Zona State Sun devil,

1971
01:39:02,200 --> 01:39:05,680
Speaker 2: he bet me on the diaper bet. I am zero

1972
01:39:05,720 --> 01:39:08,880
Speaker 2: for two on diaper bets. Uh. For those that don't

1973
01:39:08,880 --> 01:39:11,120
Speaker 2: know on social media, I will take up a bet.

1974
01:39:11,160 --> 01:39:16,000
Speaker 2: College football wise, Baylor was playing Arizona State, uh and

1975
01:39:16,040 --> 01:39:19,920
Speaker 2: they lost in the last second field goal. Jamrk, I am.

1976
01:39:20,320 --> 01:39:23,439
Speaker 2: Today is Friday when we're recording this. I'm actually shipping

1977
01:39:23,600 --> 01:39:29,360
Speaker 2: your two cases of size for Huggies today. Shout outs Hugies,

1978
01:39:29,680 --> 01:39:33,960
Speaker 2: no free shout outs to Huggies and also just a

1979
01:39:34,080 --> 01:39:36,200
Speaker 2: huge shout out to Jamrk. It was my first time

1980
01:39:36,240 --> 01:39:39,560
Speaker 2: doing this, but uh, we're talking about the FaceTime and

1981
01:39:39,640 --> 01:39:44,040
Speaker 2: the call feature on Twitter. I called Jaymrk on game day,

1982
01:39:44,680 --> 01:39:47,320
Speaker 2: so how the diaper bet works. As usually somebody will

1983
01:39:47,360 --> 01:39:49,639
Speaker 2: call me out on social media and say, hey, I'll

1984
01:39:49,680 --> 01:39:53,320
Speaker 2: take you straight up. Jaymerk seemed like a very nice

1985
01:39:53,320 --> 01:39:56,559
Speaker 2: guy and I gave him a little call on the

1986
01:39:56,600 --> 01:39:58,800
Speaker 2: morning of game day and we just talked ball for

1987
01:39:58,840 --> 01:40:02,160
Speaker 2: a little bit, but we're talking shop about Baylor, a

1988
01:40:02,280 --> 01:40:04,519
Speaker 2: s U. And then we started talking about PT six

1989
01:40:04,520 --> 01:40:08,000
Speaker 2: a little bit Nashville, and then uh, he's in Texas

1990
01:40:08,080 --> 01:40:10,599
Speaker 2: right now. It was sick dude. It was just fun

1991
01:40:10,720 --> 01:40:15,360
Speaker 2: like getting to interact with a PT sicko. And he's

1992
01:40:15,400 --> 01:40:18,680
Speaker 2: a deserving winner. So we'll be shipping his diaper. But

1993
01:40:18,720 --> 01:40:22,200
Speaker 2: what are the odds that I'll go over on diaper bets?

1994
01:40:23,479 --> 01:40:25,240
Speaker 1: Baylor will get you. You'll be all right?

1995
01:40:25,280 --> 01:40:27,920
Speaker 2: I do have I have an Oklahom mistake Siico that's

1996
01:40:27,960 --> 01:40:28,720
Speaker 2: in my d MS.

1997
01:40:28,920 --> 01:40:31,880
Speaker 4: I told SUREM. I was like, this is the week

1998
01:40:31,920 --> 01:40:35,880
Speaker 4: where you go all out, Hey, all you fuckers out

1999
01:40:35,920 --> 01:40:39,040
Speaker 4: there and still Water. He wants some yeah takes. I

2000
01:40:39,080 --> 01:40:42,120
Speaker 4: would double any dads out there in still Water. You

2001
01:40:42,160 --> 01:40:43,200
Speaker 4: want a piece of this ship?

2002
01:40:45,360 --> 01:40:48,400
Speaker 2: Any pokes out there dumb enough to take a triple

2003
01:40:48,520 --> 01:40:52,559
Speaker 2: down diaper bet? Yeah, I'm about to get like four

2004
01:40:52,560 --> 01:40:53,679
Speaker 2: months worth of diapers.

2005
01:40:53,840 --> 01:40:55,960
Speaker 4: Yeah, in the week that you play Texas tech Ego.

2006
01:40:56,600 --> 01:40:58,040
Speaker 4: Uh yeah, if anyone wants to do.

2007
01:40:58,640 --> 01:41:02,519
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, I don't think we're doing diaper anywhere, guys.

2008
01:41:02,880 --> 01:41:08,519
Speaker 1: I got a survival kit. Yes, Pepperonis, Oh, Pepperoni's bro.

2009
01:41:09,040 --> 01:41:14,120
Speaker 1: Round of applause for Pepperoni, Round of appause for Pepperoni's. Pepperonis.

2010
01:41:14,640 --> 01:41:16,759
Speaker 1: But if you want a nice little go to snack

2011
01:41:16,840 --> 01:41:19,680
Speaker 1: to get some of their protein in, Pepperoni's is a

2012
01:41:19,680 --> 01:41:23,480
Speaker 1: good one. We get ours the from Applegate, the Applegate

2013
01:41:23,560 --> 01:41:27,120
Speaker 1: Turkey uncured Pepperoni's, the Applegate brands.

2014
01:41:27,200 --> 01:41:30,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, oh that sounds so good, dude. Any it's a

2015
01:41:30,920 --> 01:41:32,280
Speaker 2: staple and rouse lunch box.

2016
01:41:32,479 --> 01:41:37,000
Speaker 1: Any char cute type of meat. Yeah, oh, the Pepperonis

2017
01:41:37,840 --> 01:41:40,559
Speaker 1: rust big on cheese sticks. She'll get her PEB and J.

2018
01:41:40,840 --> 01:41:42,759
Speaker 1: But it's like, you want to pack a little extra

2019
01:41:42,800 --> 01:41:48,639
Speaker 1: protein Pepperonis, keep it under an hour. But another layer

2020
01:41:48,720 --> 01:41:51,240
Speaker 1: to that, dad hack. My mam always used to do

2021
01:41:51,320 --> 01:41:54,960
Speaker 1: poo poo platters and she'd get the Pepperonis the cheese sticks,

2022
01:41:54,960 --> 01:41:57,040
Speaker 1: but she would cut up the cheese sticks. You get

2023
01:41:57,040 --> 01:41:59,920
Speaker 1: it real fancy on Like, yeah, board, I feel like

2024
01:42:00,360 --> 01:42:03,479
Speaker 1: we go nuts over that. Yeah. Well, like when I'm

2025
01:42:03,479 --> 01:42:05,760
Speaker 1: doing her lunchbox, it's like I'll throw in the Peppinoni's,

2026
01:42:06,240 --> 01:42:08,920
Speaker 1: slice up some of her cheese stick, mix it in

2027
01:42:08,960 --> 01:42:11,160
Speaker 1: there together where she has a couple of little pockets

2028
01:42:11,439 --> 01:42:15,120
Speaker 1: and she's always bragging she's in the CPC every day

2029
01:42:15,120 --> 01:42:16,280
Speaker 1: when she gets home from school.

2030
01:42:17,040 --> 01:42:23,320
Speaker 2: What's the CPC Clean Plate Club? Buddy, that's from last week, sherman. Yeah,

2031
01:42:23,320 --> 01:42:26,840
Speaker 2: on a show that you're on Clean Plate Club. It's

2032
01:42:26,840 --> 01:42:28,880
Speaker 2: all about the Clean Plate Club. You want that cookie,

2033
01:42:28,920 --> 01:42:31,280
Speaker 2: you got to get in the CPC. Come on, come on,

2034
01:42:32,400 --> 01:42:37,439
Speaker 2: my you did to attack my survival kid. Scarlet's getting

2035
01:42:37,439 --> 01:42:40,360
Speaker 2: to the size where she hasn't outgrown the Douna, but

2036
01:42:40,439 --> 01:42:42,680
Speaker 2: she's gotten to the weight where she can now be

2037
01:42:42,960 --> 01:42:49,240
Speaker 2: in the Nuna as well. The Nuna stroller is just

2038
01:42:49,360 --> 01:42:52,400
Speaker 2: a game changer. And it's nothing against the Douna. Dude,

2039
01:42:52,960 --> 01:42:56,439
Speaker 2: love the Douna, but the nunas like real high up

2040
01:42:56,880 --> 01:42:59,800
Speaker 2: and it just kind of feels like the Cadillac of strollers.

2041
01:43:00,080 --> 01:43:01,479
Speaker 2: I really have to brag on it.

2042
01:43:01,560 --> 01:43:03,680
Speaker 1: I need to let me search this up because I'm

2043
01:43:03,680 --> 01:43:04,639
Speaker 1: wondering if I have a Nuna.

2044
01:43:04,800 --> 01:43:08,800
Speaker 2: The Nuna also it has like a seat adjuster to

2045
01:43:08,840 --> 01:43:11,400
Speaker 2: where you can kind of go up and down leverage

2046
01:43:11,400 --> 01:43:14,719
Speaker 2: wise on how high up your child sitting.

2047
01:43:15,000 --> 01:43:16,599
Speaker 6: There was a comment I did not print it out

2048
01:43:16,600 --> 01:43:18,200
Speaker 6: for it. There was a gentleman in the comment saying

2049
01:43:18,240 --> 01:43:21,120
Speaker 6: that the Nuna can be used with the base and

2050
01:43:21,280 --> 01:43:23,240
Speaker 6: without the base four seat belts.

2051
01:43:23,320 --> 01:43:23,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, I know.

2052
01:43:23,760 --> 01:43:26,280
Speaker 6: The last week we talked about we'll talk about the

2053
01:43:26,320 --> 01:43:28,559
Speaker 6: Nuna base and things like that. There was a comment

2054
01:43:28,640 --> 01:43:30,640
Speaker 6: saying that, so I didn't put it in there, but

2055
01:43:30,680 --> 01:43:32,960
Speaker 6: to bring it up if we're talking Nuna apparently.

2056
01:43:33,040 --> 01:43:36,240
Speaker 2: Dude, the thing Nuna is crazy and it is a

2057
01:43:36,360 --> 01:43:39,320
Speaker 2: more expensive stroller than the Duna. Like, you'll have to

2058
01:43:39,360 --> 01:43:42,320
Speaker 2: shell out and I will save this on the pod.

2059
01:43:42,520 --> 01:43:44,439
Speaker 2: I did not spend my own money on it. It

2060
01:43:44,479 --> 01:43:46,840
Speaker 2: was a gift from my dad. So shout out Papa.

2061
01:43:46,840 --> 01:43:49,519
Speaker 1: Sheirm, Oh, buddy, we got the Nuna. Dude.

2062
01:43:49,560 --> 01:43:55,599
Speaker 2: The Nuna rips, it rips and the weight wise, like

2063
01:43:55,640 --> 01:43:59,240
Speaker 2: I'm pretty sure Rue, like Ru's probably not in a

2064
01:43:59,280 --> 01:44:00,360
Speaker 2: stroller anymore.

2065
01:44:00,080 --> 01:44:03,240
Speaker 1: But real, no, we have we have a double. Oh

2066
01:44:03,320 --> 01:44:05,280
Speaker 1: it's not I don't think it's the Nuna one. It

2067
01:44:05,360 --> 01:44:06,280
Speaker 1: might be hell at all.

2068
01:44:06,400 --> 01:44:08,559
Speaker 2: But like, wait, wise Rube being a three year old,

2069
01:44:08,600 --> 01:44:11,839
Speaker 2: like she could still fit in Nuna. Like they're dude

2070
01:44:12,600 --> 01:44:16,000
Speaker 2: and just pushing uh. Like I love doing walks, dude,

2071
01:44:16,040 --> 01:44:19,559
Speaker 2: And now that it's getting colder, Oh, I'm gonna be

2072
01:44:19,600 --> 01:44:23,200
Speaker 2: taking Scarlet on so many walks. I'm very excited for that.

2073
01:44:24,200 --> 01:44:26,559
Speaker 1: Yeah, bro, we got the we got the Nuna. It

2074
01:44:26,680 --> 01:44:28,600
Speaker 1: is the Cadillac. We got the one that kind of

2075
01:44:28,640 --> 01:44:31,040
Speaker 1: like looks like a bass in that too. Yes, and

2076
01:44:31,040 --> 01:44:35,320
Speaker 1: that's a big dog. I'm talking about compliments everywhere. Oh yeah,

2077
01:44:35,600 --> 01:44:37,920
Speaker 1: people like, oh, that's like the Ferrari strollers. I'm like,

2078
01:44:38,000 --> 01:44:39,000
Speaker 1: you're goddamn righting.

2079
01:44:39,439 --> 01:44:42,240
Speaker 2: Yeah. It truly like if you're going to it's got

2080
01:44:42,240 --> 01:44:46,640
Speaker 2: some suspension to it. In our trunk or treat, the

2081
01:44:46,720 --> 01:44:49,519
Speaker 2: PG six trunk re treat. If people are rolling up

2082
01:44:49,520 --> 01:44:51,680
Speaker 2: in the Nuna, you're gonna have like eight dads kind

2083
01:44:51,720 --> 01:44:53,760
Speaker 2: of standing there with their hands on their hips looking

2084
01:44:53,800 --> 01:44:58,640
Speaker 2: at the Yeah, that's pretty nice. And what year is that?

2085
01:44:58,720 --> 01:45:01,200
Speaker 2: What models? Yeah, yeah, this is twenty five.

2086
01:45:01,439 --> 01:45:04,040
Speaker 1: Yeah it is good. Good shout out, good survival. Get

2087
01:45:04,120 --> 01:45:06,360
Speaker 1: right there. Uh do we want to do six on

2088
01:45:06,439 --> 01:45:08,439
Speaker 1: one the Dad's call in? Yeah, because we do have

2089
01:45:08,479 --> 01:45:10,080
Speaker 1: a dad hack. I heard it within the call in,

2090
01:45:10,160 --> 01:45:12,080
Speaker 1: So let's get do Let's lean into the people for

2091
01:45:12,200 --> 01:45:12,920
Speaker 1: some dad hacks.

2092
01:45:13,000 --> 01:45:15,720
Speaker 2: All right, this first one I have heard tailed that

2093
01:45:15,840 --> 01:45:19,360
Speaker 2: this first one is legendary.

2094
01:45:20,960 --> 01:45:23,720
Speaker 8: What's up, guys, This is logan from Virginia Beach. I'm

2095
01:45:23,720 --> 01:45:26,599
Speaker 8: currently a member of Buds, hoping to joining Pt six soon.

2096
01:45:26,600 --> 01:45:28,679
Speaker 8: I got a story that reminded me a little bit

2097
01:45:28,760 --> 01:45:31,679
Speaker 8: of the Willi one Shelf story. So it happened about

2098
01:45:31,720 --> 01:45:34,120
Speaker 8: a year ago, but I could see the conversation coming

2099
01:45:34,160 --> 01:45:38,280
Speaker 8: back up. My wife decided to attack my manhood when

2100
01:45:38,280 --> 01:45:40,360
Speaker 8: I let her know I did not feel safe hanging

2101
01:45:40,479 --> 01:45:43,000
Speaker 8: Christmas lights on our Manserd roof. If you don't know

2102
01:45:43,040 --> 01:45:45,240
Speaker 8: what a Mansard roof is, go ahead look it up.

2103
01:45:45,600 --> 01:45:48,439
Speaker 8: I'm no task rabbit gooner like Willly one Shelf. I

2104
01:45:48,560 --> 01:45:51,480
Speaker 8: put in an outdoor couch last year, built it myself,

2105
01:45:51,560 --> 01:45:54,320
Speaker 8: hung the outdoor TV, built a fire pit. I like

2106
01:45:54,400 --> 01:45:56,800
Speaker 8: doing those things, but I'm no expert. That's how I

2107
01:45:56,840 --> 01:45:59,920
Speaker 8: am somewhat risk prone. That same fire pit I built

2108
01:45:59,920 --> 01:46:04,439
Speaker 8: I caught on fire about two three years ago, burn

2109
01:46:04,520 --> 01:46:05,960
Speaker 8: twenty two percent of my body.

2110
01:46:06,000 --> 01:46:10,760
Speaker 2: Pretty good, We're back one, Joe. What I'm asking is

2111
01:46:10,760 --> 01:46:11,720
Speaker 2: is it unreasonable?

2112
01:46:12,000 --> 01:46:13,960
Speaker 8: And I told my wife I did not feel safe

2113
01:46:14,000 --> 01:46:16,439
Speaker 8: hanging these Christmas lights on the second story of a

2114
01:46:16,479 --> 01:46:21,600
Speaker 8: man's third roof because she thinks that, you know, not

2115
01:46:21,720 --> 01:46:24,479
Speaker 8: quite a man, because I couldn't do that. That's all

2116
01:46:24,520 --> 01:46:26,800
Speaker 8: I'm asking. Let me know your take on it. Go Pat,

2117
01:46:26,880 --> 01:46:28,800
Speaker 8: go on Wisconsin, see you soon.

2118
01:46:29,720 --> 01:46:32,960
Speaker 2: Do shut out, Logan, shout out, Logan a badger. You

2119
01:46:33,000 --> 01:46:35,280
Speaker 2: don't want to get on that roof. You don't get

2120
01:46:35,280 --> 01:46:37,320
Speaker 2: on that roof. You take your ass up that roof?

2121
01:46:37,360 --> 01:46:39,280
Speaker 1: Sweet, are you want to hang these Christmas lights? I'm

2122
01:46:39,320 --> 01:46:41,679
Speaker 1: task grabbinging these Christmas lights?

2123
01:46:41,800 --> 01:46:43,720
Speaker 2: Answered roof looks insane.

2124
01:46:43,920 --> 01:46:45,639
Speaker 1: You know I'm not getting on the roof.

2125
01:46:46,840 --> 01:46:50,479
Speaker 2: That's a sheer drop off, Like there's no that you

2126
01:46:50,520 --> 01:46:54,920
Speaker 2: can't walk on that. Yeah, logan, listen, if we need

2127
01:46:54,920 --> 01:46:57,560
Speaker 2: to get if we need to get some kind of speakerphone,

2128
01:46:57,800 --> 01:46:59,000
Speaker 2: we all get a hop.

2129
01:46:58,800 --> 01:46:59,240
Speaker 1: On the phone.

2130
01:46:59,320 --> 01:47:01,840
Speaker 2: We just have a carnversation with the wipey. We can

2131
01:47:01,920 --> 01:47:05,120
Speaker 2: corner and we get Yeah, we get corner straight up

2132
01:47:05,200 --> 01:47:07,880
Speaker 2: and we'll just act like we're friends from high school. Hey,

2133
01:47:07,960 --> 01:47:10,320
Speaker 2: and they own a roofing company. Let me call the

2134
01:47:10,520 --> 01:47:14,719
Speaker 2: I mean, you know, let's bounce some ideas off. Yeah, now, logan,

2135
01:47:14,760 --> 01:47:18,360
Speaker 2: did you say you have a manswer? Oh shit, I

2136
01:47:18,400 --> 01:47:18,800
Speaker 2: don't know.

2137
01:47:18,920 --> 01:47:21,600
Speaker 1: Man, get the boys you might have might have to

2138
01:47:21,640 --> 01:47:23,920
Speaker 1: get a just wearing the Bain mask while you're talking

2139
01:47:24,040 --> 01:47:24,960
Speaker 1: standing behind you.

2140
01:47:26,120 --> 01:47:32,000
Speaker 2: We're on face time. You need a time scrap it.

2141
01:47:32,080 --> 01:47:41,840
Speaker 1: Look, yeah, the fuck that straight up, sweetheart. This is pt.

2142
01:47:42,040 --> 01:47:43,719
Speaker 1: Six and we were meeting you in the A gap

2143
01:47:43,720 --> 01:47:45,760
Speaker 1: on this situation. If your man does not want to

2144
01:47:45,760 --> 01:47:47,800
Speaker 1: get on the roof dan Christmas lights because he's a

2145
01:47:47,800 --> 01:47:50,559
Speaker 1: little wrist prone, he burnt twenty two percent of his body,

2146
01:47:50,680 --> 01:47:53,000
Speaker 1: he might be a little intimidated by heights, you take

2147
01:47:53,040 --> 01:47:54,880
Speaker 1: your candy ass up there if you want those lights on.

2148
01:47:55,439 --> 01:47:58,479
Speaker 1: But if not, we're dealing. We're we're we're dealing this out.

2149
01:47:58,560 --> 01:48:00,000
Speaker 1: We're getting a third party involved.

2150
01:48:00,160 --> 01:48:03,040
Speaker 2: And listen that you may be sitting at home going,

2151
01:48:03,080 --> 01:48:05,759
Speaker 2: oh well, of course, Willie one shelve's gonna say. Listen,

2152
01:48:06,520 --> 01:48:09,519
Speaker 2: I've hung some shelves. I love doing it myself. But

2153
01:48:09,920 --> 01:48:12,479
Speaker 2: this roof is staring me down in the A gap.

2154
01:48:12,640 --> 01:48:16,000
Speaker 2: Hell no, hell no, I'm not getting on that roof.

2155
01:48:16,479 --> 01:48:21,400
Speaker 2: That's crazy to Clark Griswold roof. Yes, I mean, that's

2156
01:48:21,439 --> 01:48:24,839
Speaker 2: a fall off the ladder. That's a broken neck waiting

2157
01:48:24,960 --> 01:48:25,519
Speaker 2: to happen.

2158
01:48:26,720 --> 01:48:28,760
Speaker 1: And look there's some one shelfers out there. My damn,

2159
01:48:28,760 --> 01:48:31,000
Speaker 1: my old man, he's a one shelfer. Like when Christmas

2160
01:48:31,040 --> 01:48:32,599
Speaker 1: time was coming around, you know who's on the roof

2161
01:48:33,040 --> 01:48:39,880
Speaker 1: My mom what she really Yeah, I belved that belt

2162
01:48:41,320 --> 01:48:43,280
Speaker 1: belt needed to be fixed on the in the vehicle.

2163
01:48:43,439 --> 01:48:46,080
Speaker 1: You know who's doing it, my mom? Yeah?

2164
01:48:46,080 --> 01:48:46,759
Speaker 2: By hand?

2165
01:48:47,120 --> 01:48:50,840
Speaker 1: Yes, bro, my mom would attack anything in everything in

2166
01:48:50,920 --> 01:48:53,760
Speaker 1: the a gap. What a legend. Not the old man.

2167
01:48:54,040 --> 01:48:56,559
Speaker 1: Not the old man. He's a one shelfer. He's a

2168
01:48:56,680 --> 01:48:57,960
Speaker 1: that's where I get that gene.

2169
01:48:58,040 --> 01:48:59,600
Speaker 2: You take the hat off and kind of scratch the

2170
01:48:59,640 --> 01:49:05,880
Speaker 2: head is yeah.

2171
01:49:03,640 --> 01:49:04,280
Speaker 1: Give me a beer.

2172
01:49:07,600 --> 01:49:11,479
Speaker 2: That's great, logan. Yeah, stay off that roof.

2173
01:49:11,600 --> 01:49:14,760
Speaker 1: Stay off the roof, Logan. Ten toes down, bro, Yes,

2174
01:49:15,280 --> 01:49:18,280
Speaker 1: And if you show this clip, give her some context too,

2175
01:49:18,320 --> 01:49:20,519
Speaker 1: like we're not actually coming at your wife. No, this

2176
01:49:20,600 --> 01:49:21,479
Speaker 1: is all in good fun.

2177
01:49:21,600 --> 01:49:23,720
Speaker 2: This is all just like I'm sure she isn't, you know,

2178
01:49:23,760 --> 01:49:25,599
Speaker 2: sitting there with the cattle pro trying to get him

2179
01:49:25,640 --> 01:49:25,920
Speaker 2: up there.

2180
01:49:26,000 --> 01:49:27,439
Speaker 1: Yeah, we love you, missus, logan.

2181
01:49:27,520 --> 01:49:28,840
Speaker 2: We do love you, missus Logan.

2182
01:49:28,920 --> 01:49:31,040
Speaker 1: But give your boy a break, Give your boy break

2183
01:49:31,080 --> 01:49:32,840
Speaker 1: on that. Just one thing he does all it sounds

2184
01:49:32,880 --> 01:49:35,000
Speaker 1: like he's this is a man's man right here. He'll

2185
01:49:35,000 --> 01:49:36,120
Speaker 1: do anything. He'll burn his.

2186
01:49:36,120 --> 01:49:40,360
Speaker 2: Skin for you, outdoor sofa, outdoor fire pit. There was

2187
01:49:40,400 --> 01:49:43,160
Speaker 2: one other thing. I was like, this guy's handy handy

2188
01:49:43,160 --> 01:49:43,479
Speaker 2: as hell.

2189
01:49:43,760 --> 01:49:46,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, no, Willie, one shell.

2190
01:49:46,240 --> 01:49:49,639
Speaker 2: He ain't no one shelf gooner like one shelf demon.

2191
01:49:52,200 --> 01:49:52,320
Speaker 7: Uh.

2192
01:49:52,400 --> 01:49:53,719
Speaker 1: This one comes from Ben.

2193
01:49:56,400 --> 01:49:59,080
Speaker 7: Hey, what's up, boys? This is Ben down here in

2194
01:49:59,080 --> 01:50:02,639
Speaker 7: North Carolina. Love the Pod. It's been such a light

2195
01:50:02,680 --> 01:50:05,439
Speaker 7: in my life. Love hearing the stories every week. Got

2196
01:50:05,439 --> 01:50:09,160
Speaker 7: me real excited for fatherhood, expecting a child any day now,

2197
01:50:10,920 --> 01:50:13,679
Speaker 7: you know, it's very excited. But I have a serious,

2198
01:50:13,880 --> 01:50:16,720
Speaker 7: unseerious question for you. I grew up a Dallas Cowboys fan.

2199
01:50:16,800 --> 01:50:19,799
Speaker 7: Unfortunately for the last thirty years, I've just been miserable

2200
01:50:19,840 --> 01:50:23,760
Speaker 7: my entire life. Yeah, but being here in North Carolina,

2201
01:50:23,800 --> 01:50:26,439
Speaker 7: you know, obviously the Panthers are the team, even though

2202
01:50:26,439 --> 01:50:29,759
Speaker 7: they're not really that good. But everyone's really passionate about

2203
01:50:29,800 --> 01:50:33,680
Speaker 7: it down here, and I was wondering, do I brainwash

2204
01:50:33,760 --> 01:50:36,400
Speaker 7: my child from an early age to be a Cowboys

2205
01:50:36,400 --> 01:50:39,240
Speaker 7: fan and be ostracized by their peers like I was

2206
01:50:39,280 --> 01:50:43,040
Speaker 7: growing up, or do I raise them to be a

2207
01:50:43,040 --> 01:50:47,519
Speaker 7: Panthers fan despite their old man being a Cowboys fan,

2208
01:50:47,720 --> 01:50:50,080
Speaker 7: but accepted by the peers. Would love to hear the vice.

2209
01:50:50,160 --> 01:50:52,639
Speaker 7: Thanks guys, Love the Pod, peace out.

2210
01:50:52,960 --> 01:50:55,639
Speaker 2: That's a tough question. It is a tough question because

2211
01:50:55,640 --> 01:50:59,799
Speaker 2: if the kiddo's growing up in panther country.

2212
01:51:00,120 --> 01:51:03,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel like there's just more respect for people

2213
01:51:03,280 --> 01:51:06,160
Speaker 1: that grow up and their fans of their teams. What's

2214
01:51:06,200 --> 01:51:10,439
Speaker 1: his name again, Ben Ben? I too was a Dallas

2215
01:51:10,479 --> 01:51:12,920
Speaker 1: fan growing up. I forgot about that and doctorated by

2216
01:51:13,000 --> 01:51:16,920
Speaker 1: my old man. Come on, and uh, I'm sure my

2217
01:51:17,000 --> 01:51:20,639
Speaker 1: man been there. Cowboys, a lot of all their success

2218
01:51:20,720 --> 01:51:23,519
Speaker 1: was really in the nineties. He's really hanging on to

2219
01:51:23,680 --> 01:51:26,240
Speaker 1: goddamn it. If Romo would have just held that ball

2220
01:51:26,360 --> 01:51:30,360
Speaker 1: down on the field goal, they would have beat Seattle.

2221
01:51:31,320 --> 01:51:33,479
Speaker 1: Because I watched that too of my living room, just

2222
01:51:33,600 --> 01:51:36,240
Speaker 1: jumping like yelling, because there's even a moment to where

2223
01:51:36,680 --> 01:51:38,880
Speaker 1: Tony gets and he's running. He's like he's gonna get

2224
01:51:38,880 --> 01:51:42,320
Speaker 1: the end zone. Yes, that's the last strong moment, right

2225
01:51:42,560 --> 01:51:44,360
Speaker 1: Or is it DEAs Bryant with the one handed catch

2226
01:51:44,400 --> 01:51:45,280
Speaker 1: against the pack.

2227
01:51:45,200 --> 01:51:47,519
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's definitely it's the Packers game.

2228
01:51:47,640 --> 01:51:49,439
Speaker 1: Those are the two moments that live in your head

2229
01:51:49,439 --> 01:51:51,320
Speaker 1: as a Dallas fan for if you have some kind

2230
01:51:51,360 --> 01:51:54,160
Speaker 1: of success either way, I think you're in a good spot.

2231
01:51:54,240 --> 01:51:56,120
Speaker 1: Here's where I know you're in a good spot because

2232
01:51:56,120 --> 01:52:01,400
Speaker 1: both teams are shitty they will be by the darkness,

2233
01:52:02,080 --> 01:52:07,040
Speaker 1: which is what you want. Yeah, you think darkness is

2234
01:52:07,080 --> 01:52:07,519
Speaker 1: your ad.

2235
01:52:08,720 --> 01:52:13,960
Speaker 2: You think Jerry Jones is a problem as a cowboy's

2236
01:52:14,040 --> 01:52:18,760
Speaker 2: hand growing up, and I'm anybody in this office would

2237
01:52:18,760 --> 01:52:21,120
Speaker 2: tell you, Sherman saw a real Cowboys fan. Okay, I'll

2238
01:52:21,160 --> 01:52:23,800
Speaker 2: take that. I grew up as a Cowboys fan, though,

2239
01:52:23,880 --> 01:52:27,960
Speaker 2: and all they did was break my heart. However, it

2240
01:52:28,120 --> 01:52:31,120
Speaker 2: was fun being a fan of the local team. That's

2241
01:52:31,200 --> 01:52:32,400
Speaker 2: my only two cents.

2242
01:52:32,439 --> 01:52:35,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, Like, because I always I didn't feel weird, but

2243
01:52:35,280 --> 01:52:37,560
Speaker 1: it just I'm always asking why am I such a

2244
01:52:37,600 --> 01:52:39,880
Speaker 1: Cowboys fans? Because my dad was a Cowboys fan with

2245
01:52:40,360 --> 01:52:42,640
Speaker 1: his dad when there was like the Steel Curtain the

2246
01:52:42,760 --> 01:52:47,240
Speaker 1: Dallas Cowboys going back and forth yep, and uh yeah

2247
01:52:47,320 --> 01:52:51,080
Speaker 1: yeah the Steel Curtain, Yeah, Pittsburgh. And so that's how

2248
01:52:51,120 --> 01:52:52,280
Speaker 1: I kind of grew up. I kind of grew up

2249
01:52:52,280 --> 01:52:53,840
Speaker 1: in it, kind of just grew up a Dallas fan,

2250
01:52:53,880 --> 01:52:56,040
Speaker 1: like in Missouri when everybody else it's like, I felt

2251
01:52:56,040 --> 01:52:58,000
Speaker 1: like a fraudulent Rams fan when it was the greatest

2252
01:52:58,040 --> 01:52:59,679
Speaker 1: show on turf and they're going to the super Bowl.

2253
01:53:01,800 --> 01:53:04,719
Speaker 1: So yeah, that is a tough well, great question, great

2254
01:53:04,800 --> 01:53:06,880
Speaker 1: question when that you're gonna have to figure out handle

2255
01:53:06,960 --> 01:53:07,479
Speaker 1: on your own.

2256
01:53:07,680 --> 01:53:11,160
Speaker 2: If I had to give an answer, I'd say go Panthers,

2257
01:53:11,240 --> 01:53:14,959
Speaker 2: just because I loved like going to the game.

2258
01:53:15,960 --> 01:53:19,840
Speaker 1: Said voicemail. For two reasons. One cat and I had this.

2259
01:53:20,280 --> 01:53:22,679
Speaker 6: My fiance had this conversation about the Titans verse Steelers,

2260
01:53:22,680 --> 01:53:25,080
Speaker 6: and I said, if my kid, where's Titans. He's not

2261
01:53:25,160 --> 01:53:27,679
Speaker 6: my kid, not a bad Titan thing, just we're Steelers

2262
01:53:27,720 --> 01:53:30,559
Speaker 6: fans too. I came in this morning, chef and beat

2263
01:53:30,560 --> 01:53:32,639
Speaker 6: me in. I was like, hey, Chef, voicemails are in there.

2264
01:53:32,640 --> 01:53:34,800
Speaker 6: We always go over them together. He goes, cool, I'll

2265
01:53:34,880 --> 01:53:36,360
Speaker 6: check it out a couple of minutes. Good bye, here

2266
01:53:36,840 --> 01:53:37,639
Speaker 6: fucking neither.

2267
01:53:38,240 --> 01:53:45,000
Speaker 2: I love how I said, be a Panthers fan, and

2268
01:53:45,400 --> 01:53:47,920
Speaker 2: please cut back to that camera to get his reaction.

2269
01:53:47,960 --> 01:53:49,919
Speaker 1: As soon as I said, he goes what.

2270
01:53:51,920 --> 01:53:52,200
Speaker 2: I like.

2271
01:53:52,240 --> 01:53:54,040
Speaker 4: I have talk and shit too, and I'm a Titans fan.

2272
01:53:55,240 --> 01:53:59,600
Speaker 4: We're all miserable, Yeah we are. My thing was my

2273
01:53:59,760 --> 01:54:01,720
Speaker 4: things like, might as well make him a Cowboys fan.

2274
01:54:01,880 --> 01:54:05,000
Speaker 4: I was indoctrinated. I was a Tennessee fan for you know,

2275
01:54:05,040 --> 01:54:08,679
Speaker 4: we've had four decent we've had four good years.

2276
01:54:09,240 --> 01:54:09,800
Speaker 1: I don't even know why.

2277
01:54:09,840 --> 01:54:12,760
Speaker 2: I was about to stay decent. Yeah, I went through

2278
01:54:12,800 --> 01:54:13,639
Speaker 2: shit my whole life.

2279
01:54:13,640 --> 01:54:15,479
Speaker 4: I was made fun of being a Balls fan and

2280
01:54:15,520 --> 01:54:17,720
Speaker 4: I lived in the state of Tennessee. That's how bad

2281
01:54:17,760 --> 01:54:19,920
Speaker 4: we were. Oh, but I didn't have a choice. And

2282
01:54:19,960 --> 01:54:21,080
Speaker 4: that's what you love about it.

2283
01:54:21,200 --> 01:54:23,760
Speaker 2: Well, and there are those Cowboys fans and for any

2284
01:54:23,800 --> 01:54:27,679
Speaker 2: Texans out there, they'll understand this. Bad buddies from San

2285
01:54:27,680 --> 01:54:30,679
Speaker 2: Angelo that would they would drive up for every Dallas

2286
01:54:30,760 --> 01:54:33,320
Speaker 2: Cowboys game. That's like a four or five hour drive.

2287
01:54:33,800 --> 01:54:37,720
Speaker 2: They've drive up for every single one. And it's got

2288
01:54:37,760 --> 01:54:39,880
Speaker 2: a really cool history. The Cowboys do have a really

2289
01:54:39,880 --> 01:54:42,920
Speaker 2: cool history. I'm spoiled by it because geographically I was

2290
01:54:42,920 --> 01:54:45,360
Speaker 2: born in DFW, so it was just kind of like, yeah,

2291
01:54:45,400 --> 01:54:47,880
Speaker 2: that's my team. But did he say he grew he

2292
01:54:48,160 --> 01:54:50,840
Speaker 2: grew up in It didn't sound like it because he

2293
01:54:50,920 --> 01:54:54,600
Speaker 2: said he actually was ostracized by his peers being a

2294
01:54:54,640 --> 01:54:56,880
Speaker 2: Cowboys fan, So it sounds more similar to you.

2295
01:54:57,080 --> 01:54:59,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's a tough one, bro.

2296
01:55:00,080 --> 01:55:00,560
Speaker 2: A tough one.

2297
01:55:00,640 --> 01:55:01,800
Speaker 1: But it's kind of fun.

2298
01:55:02,000 --> 01:55:04,160
Speaker 2: Like when you do get kiddo to Dallas and you

2299
01:55:04,160 --> 01:55:06,000
Speaker 2: get him to Mecca and he gets to go to

2300
01:55:06,080 --> 01:55:09,080
Speaker 2: Jerry's world, Like right, it's a cool spot.

2301
01:55:09,160 --> 01:55:13,800
Speaker 1: Absolutely it's sick. Absolutely, And that's tough, man. Yeah, that's

2302
01:55:13,800 --> 01:55:17,120
Speaker 1: tough because not like my dad went into any Dallas games.

2303
01:55:17,120 --> 01:55:19,320
Speaker 1: He was just a Dallas Cowboys fan. Has he been

2304
01:55:19,360 --> 01:55:21,360
Speaker 1: to a Dallas Well yeah, when he did, it was

2305
01:55:21,400 --> 01:55:24,800
Speaker 1: when Washington played at Dallas. So he wasn't a Cowboys fan.

2306
01:55:25,000 --> 01:55:27,640
Speaker 1: That's right. It was pretty easy for him. It hit

2307
01:55:27,800 --> 01:55:30,040
Speaker 1: like his in his words, it was pretty easy for

2308
01:55:30,120 --> 01:55:34,440
Speaker 1: him to just be on board with Washington and everything else. Yeah. Yeah, yeah,

2309
01:55:34,440 --> 01:55:35,360
Speaker 1: that's a tough one, bro.

2310
01:55:35,560 --> 01:55:36,240
Speaker 2: That is tough.

2311
01:55:38,200 --> 01:55:41,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like if he grew up there. Yeah, I

2312
01:55:41,520 --> 01:55:44,520
Speaker 1: don't know. I don't know. And because you you could

2313
01:55:44,560 --> 01:55:47,400
Speaker 1: have more moments with your kiddo going to Panthers games.

2314
01:55:47,720 --> 01:55:52,040
Speaker 2: Yes, and I don't dude. So many people would be like, oh,

2315
01:55:52,120 --> 01:55:56,000
Speaker 2: come on, Sherman. But I'm fine with being a fan

2316
01:55:56,200 --> 01:55:58,920
Speaker 2: of a team and going and supporting the local team.

2317
01:55:59,440 --> 01:56:02,440
Speaker 2: I've been right right, I've been to three Titans games.

2318
01:56:02,560 --> 01:56:03,760
Speaker 2: Warn of Titans Jersey.

2319
01:56:04,160 --> 01:56:04,720
Speaker 1: I love it.

2320
01:56:05,360 --> 01:56:08,160
Speaker 2: Am I a Titans fan though, But I have fun

2321
01:56:09,200 --> 01:56:12,240
Speaker 2: going to the games and cheering on the Titans and wanting.

2322
01:56:12,000 --> 01:56:14,880
Speaker 1: Them to win. Maybe that's the game you play. You

2323
01:56:15,040 --> 01:56:19,000
Speaker 1: just you know, your old man is a massive Dallas fan. Yeah,

2324
01:56:19,440 --> 01:56:23,640
Speaker 1: you're not fully trying to ostracize him. They're letting you like,

2325
01:56:23,680 --> 01:56:25,600
Speaker 1: you know, you're taking them to Carolina, you're taking them

2326
01:56:25,600 --> 01:56:27,560
Speaker 1: to the Panthers games, or growing up, maybe they just

2327
01:56:27,920 --> 01:56:30,000
Speaker 1: are a Panthers fan and they realize their old man's

2328
01:56:30,040 --> 01:56:31,680
Speaker 1: just a sickle for Dallas. But there could be a

2329
01:56:31,680 --> 01:56:33,480
Speaker 1: part of the it could be a part of the

2330
01:56:33,560 --> 01:56:36,120
Speaker 1: kiddoh that just wants to be in the trenches with

2331
01:56:36,160 --> 01:56:38,080
Speaker 1: you when you're worried about Dallas all the time.

2332
01:56:38,200 --> 01:56:41,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, and you're not growing up in like DC or

2333
01:56:41,600 --> 01:56:42,640
Speaker 2: like San Francisco.

2334
01:56:42,760 --> 01:56:44,160
Speaker 4: I was about to say, if you're a pat, like,

2335
01:56:44,480 --> 01:56:47,200
Speaker 4: it's not like you're in Wisconsin or Baltimore.

2336
01:56:47,960 --> 01:56:50,800
Speaker 2: You're in Charlotte. Yeah, I love Charlotte, great city.

2337
01:56:50,800 --> 01:56:54,280
Speaker 4: But it's not it's like a I agree with what

2338
01:56:54,320 --> 01:56:57,160
Speaker 4: Sherm said on the NFL side, At least for me,

2339
01:56:57,200 --> 01:56:59,000
Speaker 4: it's like unless you're in one of those cities that

2340
01:56:59,040 --> 01:57:01,280
Speaker 4: it's like, you know, the history of the team. College

2341
01:57:01,320 --> 01:57:03,839
Speaker 4: football is a different deal. In my book, college football

2342
01:57:03,920 --> 01:57:09,040
Speaker 4: is if you're in conference, no outside of conference, like

2343
01:57:09,120 --> 01:57:11,760
Speaker 4: I wear the I have a us USF shirt on.

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01:57:11,920 --> 01:57:15,240
Speaker 4: Yeah that's fine, but It's like where I start to

2345
01:57:15,280 --> 01:57:17,440
Speaker 4: go is like, Hey, we live in Mississippi, but I

2346
01:57:17,480 --> 01:57:19,680
Speaker 4: grew up in Baton Rouge went to LSU. My son,

2347
01:57:19,800 --> 01:57:23,000
Speaker 4: I'm thinking about not in doctrinated to be a Tiger

2348
01:57:23,120 --> 01:57:24,600
Speaker 4: and he would be a rev instead.

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Speaker 1: That's insane. Yeah. Yeah, my kids are gonna be Huscar fans.

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01:57:30,400 --> 01:57:33,800
Speaker 2: And we had Zach Brown. Uh he's the episode that

2351
01:57:33,880 --> 01:57:35,920
Speaker 2: just dropped on Tuesday, and he was talking to He's

2352
01:57:35,960 --> 01:57:38,760
Speaker 2: a major Bulldog fan. He's got a kid at UT

2353
01:57:38,920 --> 01:57:41,280
Speaker 2: and a kid at Old miss He said, Georgia Tech,

2354
01:57:41,640 --> 01:57:46,520
Speaker 2: Georgia Tech, Georgia Tech in Texas. Yes, sorry, I said,

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Speaker 2: U T. I have a bad habit of that. Uh

2356
01:57:49,480 --> 01:57:52,920
Speaker 2: U T around here? Tennacly evolves Yeah, U T around here?

2357
01:57:52,960 --> 01:57:56,000
Speaker 2: I learned about it differently here too. It's Tennessee University, Tennessee.

2358
01:57:56,160 --> 01:57:56,920
Speaker 2: So sorry, U T.

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01:57:57,240 --> 01:58:00,840
Speaker 1: Austin or otherwise known you Versity of Texas.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I was it if I'm a bulldog and not

2361
01:58:08,440 --> 01:58:13,120
Speaker 2: on her mind going to Georgia Tech. Your face too.

2362
01:58:13,160 --> 01:58:15,840
Speaker 2: When he said that on the bus, you're like Georgia Tech.

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01:58:17,240 --> 01:58:20,520
Speaker 1: He yelled it. He needed the he needed the bedtime story.

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01:58:20,560 --> 01:58:22,960
Speaker 1: You raise him up. The bad guys and good guys,

2365
01:58:23,000 --> 01:58:25,680
Speaker 1: and good guys are your team, and that's what we did.

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Speaker 2: If we're just gonna give this thing an answer, he

2367
01:58:28,560 --> 01:58:30,440
Speaker 2: just needs to cook up a little bedtime I don't

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01:58:30,480 --> 01:58:31,000
Speaker 2: know how old.

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01:58:31,080 --> 01:58:34,440
Speaker 1: But again, he's trying to make the decision what should

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01:58:34,520 --> 01:58:36,400
Speaker 1: he do? So he right now he's trying to figure

2371
01:58:36,400 --> 01:58:38,080
Speaker 1: out who should the good guys be?

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Speaker 2: Just well, in that case, just make sure that the

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Speaker 2: bad guys if you're a sick o Dallas fan, the

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01:58:43,920 --> 01:58:47,600
Speaker 2: bad guys are, you know, the Commanders, the forty Eagles,

2375
01:58:47,640 --> 01:58:53,360
Speaker 2: giants hit all those things. And then uh yeah, and

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01:58:53,400 --> 01:58:55,360
Speaker 2: then who's Carolina's rival?

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01:58:55,400 --> 01:59:00,240
Speaker 1: I'm so sorry they're in the south of the Buccaneers Falcons. Yeah,

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01:59:00,240 --> 01:59:01,320
Speaker 1: that's right. Saints.

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01:59:02,760 --> 01:59:03,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know.

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01:59:04,040 --> 01:59:07,800
Speaker 1: That's a tough one. That's a tough question for Olsen man.

2381
01:59:08,600 --> 01:59:12,520
Speaker 1: But see Olson. If I'm Olsen, I would say it's

2382
01:59:12,560 --> 01:59:16,960
Speaker 1: Carolina because he played at Carolina. Yeah, he's a sicko

2383
01:59:17,040 --> 01:59:20,280
Speaker 1: fan of Dallas, not knowing if he grew up in Texas.

2384
01:59:20,400 --> 01:59:24,200
Speaker 1: That got, you know, ostracized in the Dallas community. Which

2385
01:59:24,240 --> 01:59:26,320
Speaker 1: is a fun thing. And be fans of both.

2386
01:59:26,360 --> 01:59:28,840
Speaker 2: Man, be fans of both, and maybe it's fun to

2387
01:59:28,840 --> 01:59:32,520
Speaker 2: be ostracized. I know, I see an Eagles Giants game,

2388
01:59:32,520 --> 01:59:35,000
Speaker 2: and I'll see in the stands at an Eagles game

2389
01:59:35,120 --> 01:59:39,240
Speaker 2: just some Sikka sikos in Cowboys jerseys, like the Cowboys

2390
01:59:39,240 --> 01:59:40,640
Speaker 2: aren't even playing and they're just there.

2391
01:59:40,680 --> 01:59:43,840
Speaker 1: And Cowboys are definitely a much more fun like organization

2392
01:59:43,960 --> 01:59:46,440
Speaker 1: and brand in general because of the history, the fund,

2393
01:59:46,600 --> 01:59:49,840
Speaker 1: the America's team, even though they're not America's team right now.

2394
01:59:50,360 --> 01:59:52,720
Speaker 1: Jerry Jones, you got the documentaries, you got a lot

2395
01:59:52,760 --> 01:59:55,600
Speaker 1: more things to lean on to learn and grow fandom

2396
01:59:55,600 --> 01:59:57,680
Speaker 1: in the Cowboys universe, and you do the Panthers.

2397
01:59:58,240 --> 02:00:01,360
Speaker 2: Yes, And the bad side of that Cowboys fantdom is

2398
02:00:01,400 --> 02:00:03,360
Speaker 2: I feel like there are a ton of Cowboys fans

2399
02:00:03,400 --> 02:00:07,320
Speaker 2: that love putting on that star and living in Philly

2400
02:00:07,400 --> 02:00:10,480
Speaker 2: and just walking into a Philly sports bar. Yeah, and

2401
02:00:10,560 --> 02:00:14,720
Speaker 2: the chatters started happening and they're like, yeah, yeah.

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02:00:14,040 --> 02:00:17,879
Speaker 1: We're talking way too much about this Carolina Dallas situation.

2403
02:00:18,280 --> 02:00:22,400
Speaker 2: True, embrace them both. Embrace them both. Do we want

2404
02:00:22,440 --> 02:00:23,640
Speaker 2: to move on to lesson of the week?

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02:00:24,000 --> 02:00:26,760
Speaker 1: Would love to because we are times a ticken, times

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02:00:26,760 --> 02:00:29,080
Speaker 1: a ticket times of ticken.

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02:00:29,760 --> 02:00:31,360
Speaker 2: Do you do you want to start first? Or I

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02:00:31,400 --> 02:00:33,640
Speaker 2: can start first, you go ahead. I don't really, I

2409
02:00:33,640 --> 02:00:35,840
Speaker 2: don't really have one. I guess my my lesson is

2410
02:00:35,920 --> 02:00:36,720
Speaker 2: living with your pain.

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02:00:38,080 --> 02:00:38,680
Speaker 1: That's a good one.

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Speaker 2: Mine's quick. Mine comes from Mike Leach, one of my

2413
02:00:43,120 --> 02:00:47,640
Speaker 2: favorite coaches. He has a book, Swing Your Sword, that

2414
02:00:47,640 --> 02:00:49,840
Speaker 2: I've yet to read, and I really want to read it.

2415
02:00:49,920 --> 02:00:53,200
Speaker 2: But here's a quote from legendary football coach Mike Leach.

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02:00:53,320 --> 02:00:56,120
Speaker 2: It is swing your sword. Don't sit around waiting for

2417
02:00:56,160 --> 02:00:59,720
Speaker 2: the perfect moment, because it's never going to come. You

2418
02:00:59,760 --> 02:01:02,680
Speaker 2: have to live life with courage, cut through the clutter,

2419
02:01:02,840 --> 02:01:06,240
Speaker 2: and chase the things that actually matter to you. Half

2420
02:01:06,240 --> 02:01:08,400
Speaker 2: the people in the world are going to tell you

2421
02:01:08,560 --> 02:01:11,720
Speaker 2: it can't be done, and the other half will be

2422
02:01:11,760 --> 02:01:15,320
Speaker 2: too scared to try themselves. But that's not your problem.

2423
02:01:15,640 --> 02:01:19,160
Speaker 2: Your problem is whether you've got the guts to keep

2424
02:01:19,240 --> 02:01:23,520
Speaker 2: going when it's hard, to embrace adversity instead of running

2425
02:01:23,560 --> 02:01:26,960
Speaker 2: from it, and to keep swinging no matter how messy

2426
02:01:27,000 --> 02:01:30,240
Speaker 2: it gets. You don't win at life by being careful.

2427
02:01:30,600 --> 02:01:31,880
Speaker 2: You win by going for it.

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02:01:32,320 --> 02:01:36,600
Speaker 1: M very well said, I think there's a too good thing.

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02:01:36,960 --> 02:01:39,960
Speaker 1: Two things that stand out to me with you reading

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Speaker 1: that one, I'm thinking about the comment we got earlier

2431
02:01:42,640 --> 02:01:45,600
Speaker 1: from was it Jtar? Yeah, Jtar swinging the sword and

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02:01:45,720 --> 02:01:48,120
Speaker 1: him swinging the sword and knowing that adversity is always

2433
02:01:48,160 --> 02:01:50,360
Speaker 1: going to be there no matter what. It's truly up

2434
02:01:50,360 --> 02:01:54,360
Speaker 1: to you. And I think the second thing that stood out,

2435
02:01:54,400 --> 02:02:00,440
Speaker 1: like as a dad, you battle with conversation is all

2436
02:02:00,480 --> 02:02:04,520
Speaker 1: the time with am I doing enough? Am I being enough?

2437
02:02:05,240 --> 02:02:07,080
Speaker 1: Am I who I think I am? You hear a

2438
02:02:07,080 --> 02:02:09,120
Speaker 1: lot of dad advice. You hear a lot of things

2439
02:02:09,160 --> 02:02:11,840
Speaker 1: that your boys do or your boys say, whatever it is.

2440
02:02:12,640 --> 02:02:15,160
Speaker 1: And it's like something that jumps out to me when

2441
02:02:15,160 --> 02:02:20,920
Speaker 1: you read that is prioritizing, Like you can prioritize and

2442
02:02:20,960 --> 02:02:24,160
Speaker 1: this is something that you constantly have to work on

2443
02:02:24,200 --> 02:02:27,320
Speaker 1: as a dad because there'll be moments throughout the week

2444
02:02:27,360 --> 02:02:32,280
Speaker 1: to where where whether guilt creeps in or I'm feeling like, man,

2445
02:02:32,280 --> 02:02:34,200
Speaker 1: am I doing enough here? Am I doing enough there?

2446
02:02:34,200 --> 02:02:36,680
Speaker 1: And it's like if I don't have it prioritized in

2447
02:02:36,720 --> 02:02:39,560
Speaker 1: my life, then I'm never going to be intentional about

2448
02:02:39,600 --> 02:02:44,640
Speaker 1: doing X, Y and Z, like bouncing work, being a husband,

2449
02:02:45,080 --> 02:02:49,480
Speaker 1: a father, a friend, all those buckets that we constantly

2450
02:02:49,560 --> 02:02:56,160
Speaker 1: talk about. It's like, find your priorities and swing your

2451
02:02:56,240 --> 02:03:00,560
Speaker 1: sword from that lesson. Yes, because I was watching a

2452
02:03:00,640 --> 02:03:02,560
Speaker 1: video and it was a dad basically talking like do

2453
02:03:02,640 --> 02:03:05,520
Speaker 1: any other dads out there struggle with Like you're wanting

2454
02:03:05,560 --> 02:03:08,040
Speaker 1: to provide and give them a life that they deserve.

2455
02:03:08,560 --> 02:03:10,680
Speaker 1: Well at the same time, am I working so much

2456
02:03:10,760 --> 02:03:15,080
Speaker 1: that I'm working? I'm working through years of such importance.

2457
02:03:15,080 --> 02:03:17,440
Speaker 1: And I want to say his daughter was two, it's

2458
02:03:17,440 --> 02:03:20,840
Speaker 1: like they're just they're developing and growing, and he doesn't

2459
02:03:20,840 --> 02:03:22,920
Speaker 1: feel like he's missing moments. But it's more so do

2460
02:03:23,040 --> 02:03:24,760
Speaker 1: I feel like I'm doing enough? And it's like those

2461
02:03:24,800 --> 02:03:27,760
Speaker 1: conversations I feel like every dad has and it's just

2462
02:03:27,800 --> 02:03:31,480
Speaker 1: such a good reminder to constantly think that way and

2463
02:03:31,560 --> 02:03:37,880
Speaker 1: question yourself, but then directed towards prioritizing your yes. It's

2464
02:03:37,920 --> 02:03:40,160
Speaker 1: basically things that you are going to say yes to

2465
02:03:40,560 --> 02:03:43,240
Speaker 1: and anything that falls outside of those boundaries those are

2466
02:03:43,320 --> 02:03:46,080
Speaker 1: easy nos for you. Yeah, It's been a big learning

2467
02:03:46,080 --> 02:03:49,320
Speaker 1: curve in my life. It's something I'm still constantly trying

2468
02:03:49,320 --> 02:03:52,200
Speaker 1: to work through. Like as we get new opportunities with

2469
02:03:52,560 --> 02:03:55,080
Speaker 1: busting with the boys for the dads, the locker room,

2470
02:03:55,200 --> 02:03:59,440
Speaker 1: the college, the NFL, the ESPN, and you know, we

2471
02:03:59,480 --> 02:04:01,160
Speaker 1: get to do a lot of cool things and we're

2472
02:04:01,200 --> 02:04:04,400
Speaker 1: getting a lot of cool opportunities, and again it's like

2473
02:04:05,200 --> 02:04:08,120
Speaker 1: making a decision on if it falls out of this boundary,

2474
02:04:08,240 --> 02:04:11,280
Speaker 1: it's got to be a no. A quick example is

2475
02:04:11,320 --> 02:04:13,520
Speaker 1: like the other day, we're like run through guests that

2476
02:04:13,520 --> 02:04:15,520
Speaker 1: we can have on the podcast for Busting with the Boys,

2477
02:04:15,560 --> 02:04:16,960
Speaker 1: and this one was brought up and it was a

2478
02:04:17,000 --> 02:04:21,160
Speaker 1: big time defensive player that hey, we could interview him

2479
02:04:21,200 --> 02:04:23,920
Speaker 1: at six pm on Monday. And then we did the

2480
02:04:23,960 --> 02:04:25,400
Speaker 1: team meeting and we did all that stuff, and then

2481
02:04:25,440 --> 02:04:27,960
Speaker 1: afterwards I just told I told Clump, I'm like, hey,

2482
02:04:28,520 --> 02:04:30,360
Speaker 1: the six pm interview on a Monday is a no.

2483
02:04:31,160 --> 02:04:33,240
Speaker 1: And the thoughts of it is like, you know, are

2484
02:04:33,280 --> 02:04:36,720
Speaker 1: you sure? It's like you know what that work capacity

2485
02:04:36,800 --> 02:04:39,840
Speaker 1: or that work mind inside you is are you doing enough?

2486
02:04:40,360 --> 02:04:42,080
Speaker 1: Like hey, if we want to push the boat in

2487
02:04:42,120 --> 02:04:44,120
Speaker 1: the direction for the brand, And then I think to

2488
02:04:44,160 --> 02:04:47,320
Speaker 1: myself the way I compartmentalize is, man, I had these boundaries.

2489
02:04:47,720 --> 02:04:49,400
Speaker 1: If I'm going to be home in the afternoon on

2490
02:04:49,480 --> 02:04:53,480
Speaker 1: Mondays and in the evenings, those are my yeses. Everything

2491
02:04:53,480 --> 02:04:56,320
Speaker 1: else is a no. Yeah, it's an interview could be

2492
02:04:56,360 --> 02:04:58,560
Speaker 1: an awesome one, but that's one where it's like you

2493
02:04:58,640 --> 02:05:01,400
Speaker 1: got to stand strong and what your priorities are, because

2494
02:05:01,440 --> 02:05:04,879
Speaker 1: my priority in that at that moment, on that particular

2495
02:05:04,960 --> 02:05:07,360
Speaker 1: day is that priority is at home, and so it

2496
02:05:07,440 --> 02:05:11,400
Speaker 1: has to be whether or not it's felt differently anywhere else.

2497
02:05:11,440 --> 02:05:13,960
Speaker 1: It's like, man, interviews are gonna come and go, bro,

2498
02:05:14,040 --> 02:05:16,600
Speaker 1: But if I'm wanting to be intentional about being at home,

2499
02:05:16,680 --> 02:05:20,160
Speaker 1: especially during the football season, this is where the power

2500
02:05:20,160 --> 02:05:22,800
Speaker 1: of no kicks in it falls outside of my standard

2501
02:05:22,960 --> 02:05:25,720
Speaker 1: or outside of my boundary. It's this is why it's

2502
02:05:25,720 --> 02:05:31,160
Speaker 1: a no. Yeah, so great lesson. Great quote. Yes, great quote.

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02:05:31,520 --> 02:05:35,400
Speaker 2: Loved your addition to it. And the only addition I

2504
02:05:35,400 --> 02:05:39,240
Speaker 2: would give is Mike Leach has also a great quote

2505
02:05:39,280 --> 02:05:42,400
Speaker 2: about swinging your sword to add on to this is

2506
02:05:42,960 --> 02:05:46,280
Speaker 2: he said that when you see the pirates in the

2507
02:05:46,280 --> 02:05:48,760
Speaker 2: movies or the Knights in the movies, they aren't swinging

2508
02:05:48,800 --> 02:05:51,840
Speaker 2: their sword like this. And he's got like little alligator arms.

2509
02:05:51,840 --> 02:05:54,960
Speaker 2: He's like, they're like this, And I just love that

2510
02:05:56,040 --> 02:05:58,960
Speaker 2: illustration of like, hey, and when you do commit and

2511
02:05:59,000 --> 02:06:03,040
Speaker 2: when you do like be confident, Yeah, like swing your

2512
02:06:03,080 --> 02:06:06,840
Speaker 2: sword and whatever it is, uh, do it with confidence

2513
02:06:06,920 --> 02:06:12,080
Speaker 2: and that belief in self and belief and decision on

2514
02:06:12,120 --> 02:06:16,080
Speaker 2: your part. So like you know, being able to have that. Yeah,

2515
02:06:16,320 --> 02:06:20,000
Speaker 2: absolutely conversation. Yeah, great sod, great sip.

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Speaker 1: Leave comments, continue to engage. Yeah, shut up, bet six man.

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Speaker 1: You guys are awesome. Sorry if that episode got off

2518
02:06:28,280 --> 02:06:30,960
Speaker 1: the rails for a moment there, but I appreciate all

2519
02:06:31,000 --> 02:06:32,240
Speaker 1: of you guys. I know we both do.

2520
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Speaker 2: Yes, very lucky to be doing this show. Very blessed

2521
02:06:36,800 --> 02:06:41,280
Speaker 2: to be doing the show and share it with friends.

2522
02:06:41,480 --> 02:06:44,400
Speaker 2: Keep on commenting. Yeah, throw some pumpkins in the chat

2523
02:06:44,520 --> 02:06:47,400
Speaker 2: if you want. If you want a trunk or treat,

2524
02:06:47,400 --> 02:06:48,200
Speaker 2: throw a pumpkin.

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Speaker 1: In the chat. Yeah. We need to get Yeah, we

2526
02:06:49,840 --> 02:06:51,640
Speaker 1: need to put pressure on ourselves and get it done.

2527
02:06:51,800 --> 02:06:53,800
Speaker 1: But make sure the trash you're taken out lay with

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Speaker 1: your wife. Beat six Albums