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Speaker 2: it on to Seve Harvey got a radio show. Five
Speaker 2: things that I know successful people have to do to
Speaker 2: be successful. The principles are the same. You can apply
Speaker 2: it to anything, you know, if you want to be
Speaker 2: happily married, you know, whatever it is. The principles of
Speaker 2: success are the same. There are a series of things
Speaker 2: that you have to do. You cannot skip the steps
Speaker 2: of success. If you do, you're going to have to
Speaker 2: go back and step on them anyway. So here's here's
Speaker 2: here's a part man that I want you all to
Speaker 2: understand about me and and and and about how to
Speaker 2: look at it. You know, you you cannot under estimate
Speaker 2: faith and prayer. You just can't. You cannot underestimate the
Speaker 2: power of faith and the power of prayer. See for me.
Speaker 2: This is just for me. Now, this ain't in the
Speaker 2: scripture nowhere. This is just something I discovered. What prayer
Speaker 2: did for me was was it tied me to my creator.
Speaker 2: It gave me a sense and I'm describing it this way,
Speaker 2: but I'm telling you it's deeper than this. But it
Speaker 2: gave me a sense that I wasn't alone, and at
Speaker 2: actuality I wasn't. But prayer helped connect me to the
Speaker 2: power source that was available to me to get through,
Speaker 2: get around, or get over whatever it was that was
Speaker 2: in the way, whether it was just a period I stretched,
Speaker 2: I had to go through hard work, It had to
Speaker 2: period I had to go through to learn some lessons,
Speaker 2: some periods I had to go through from having to
Speaker 2: pay for some of the mistakes I've made. Whatever the
Speaker 2: case may be, prayer gave me a decided advantage, especially
Speaker 2: oh here we go, especially over my enemies. Now, the
Speaker 2: majority of people in my life that were my enemies.
Speaker 2: I didn't want them to be my enemies, make no
Speaker 2: mistake about this. But through the thing called life, some
Speaker 2: things went down. Some things happened from here and then
Speaker 2: went over here. That way and a person became my enemy.
Speaker 2: The majority of enemies I had came out of nowhere.
Speaker 2: I have no reason to even see why they are
Speaker 2: my enemies. But you know, life goes on, man. It
Speaker 2: happens from time to time. Some people just won't let
Speaker 2: it go. See some people, in their quest to do
Speaker 2: something to you or to to make you pay, they
Speaker 2: just won't let it go. What it may cause you
Speaker 2: some discomforting and some of it may be lies about
Speaker 2: you at all of this and all of that, but
Speaker 2: that that can't prohibit you from going forward. So what
Speaker 2: I'm saying is prayer gave me the strength of wisdom
Speaker 2: understanding the carriage to either go through it, go around it,
Speaker 2: or go over it. But it happened. I do not
Speaker 2: know how I could have made it without faith and
Speaker 2: without prayer. It would have something would have got me.
Speaker 2: YouTube would have got me. The bloggers would have got me.
Speaker 2: My partners that I grew up with that used to
Speaker 2: laugh behind my back, they would have got me. My
Speaker 2: friend that went over my mother's house one time and
Speaker 2: told her, you know what Steve's problem is, he out
Speaker 2: there on them jokes. He just lazy. He don't want
Speaker 2: to work that would have got me. They didn't know.
Speaker 2: I ain't really mad at them because they were just
Speaker 2: All they was doing was based in their conversations and
Speaker 2: pasting judgment based on what they knew, based on what
Speaker 2: they believed. They didn't believe I was gonna make it.
Speaker 2: But that's them though. If it was not for the faith,
Speaker 2: which is the belief in things that you cannot see,
Speaker 2: I wouldn't have made it because I would have listened
Speaker 2: to everybody else who didn't see me get in here
Speaker 2: and went along with it. And then prayer. Oh my goodness, man,
Speaker 2: how many times has prayer bailed me out? Prayer has
Speaker 2: bailed me out, press still bailing me out. Tell you
Speaker 2: the truth, man, quiet as it's kept prayer, that connection
Speaker 2: to your heavily Father, that connection to your creator, that
Speaker 2: connection to that source of power and inspiration, that connection
Speaker 2: of never feeling that you were alone. You know. I
Speaker 2: was watching the Bishop Jakes on TV yesterday and it
Speaker 2: was a repeat, and one of the things he was
Speaker 2: talking about, well, let me just get to the gist
Speaker 2: of it. I was going through a portion of my
Speaker 2: life and I went through it for some years, y'all.
Speaker 2: I had gotten myself into a jam that lasted for years.
Speaker 2: I'm telling you, for years, with some serious consequences to follow.
Speaker 4: For years.
Speaker 2: And I was so busy looking at where I was at.
Speaker 2: I was sulking sometimes, Man, I'd get on the radio, Man,
Speaker 2: I'd be just done. I was sulking. My my, my
Speaker 2: spirit had gotten low. I had gotten tired of the
Speaker 2: fight and would I would come on some morn as man,
Speaker 2: and I would try try not to let on, but
Speaker 2: I was hurting. I was because I had been in
Speaker 2: it for years. Man, I had been in this thing
Speaker 2: for years, and one thing I was doing. I was
Speaker 2: so busy looking at where I was at. And when
Speaker 2: I was watching Bishop Jakes, he preached this sermon. He
Speaker 2: was talking about so busy looking at where you at
Speaker 2: that you don't even realize that God has been with
Speaker 2: you the entire time. And you know what, Man, just yesterday,
Speaker 2: just yesterday, I heard this and I text him. I
Speaker 2: text Bishop Jakes, and I thanked him because it was
Speaker 2: an old message I could tell and I called. I
Speaker 2: text him up in I said, Man, thank you so much.
Speaker 2: I was just watching you on TV and you told me, Man,
Speaker 2: something that I that I'll always remember that whatever you're
Speaker 2: going through that he's there with you the whole time.
Speaker 2: But see when sometimes when you're so busy looking at
Speaker 2: where you at, you don't even notice where he is.
Speaker 2: And see sometimes, Man, that helped me, and that's going
Speaker 2: to help me in the future to realize that what
Speaker 2: I'm going through, that he's there. He's there with me,
Speaker 2: and he gonna protect me, and he ain't gonna let
Speaker 2: my enemies overcome me, and he ain't gonna let nobody
Speaker 2: overtake me, and he ain't gonna let me go under
Speaker 2: because he's there. It's just you can't be so busy
Speaker 2: looking at where you at that you don't take notice
Speaker 2: of where he at. God is always there, He's always available,
Speaker 2: And the best way to tap into that and know
Speaker 2: it is you got to pray. Prayer has changed my life.
Speaker 2: Prayer can change your life. You can become something if
Speaker 2: you just pray.
Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
Speaker 2: Ladies and Gentlemen, boys and girls.
Speaker 8: The Mac is back.
Speaker 2: Good, Yeah, the Mac is back baby, full of vivid
Speaker 2: and living color, full of gratitude. Man, God takes care
Speaker 2: of me. Didn't go nowhere this year, just sp just
Speaker 2: did a health vacation. Just trying to get myself back healthy. Man,
Speaker 2: feel good about everything, man, God and the blessing business
Speaker 2: waking me up every day. Who man, man o man
Speaker 2: on man and waking up is big? It is big man. Anyway,
Speaker 2: we hear ladies and gentlemen, Steve Hart, Marta Show, Shirley
Speaker 2: Strawberry calling for real Mississippi Monica Junior Tommy ain't here today,
Speaker 2: ladies and gentlemen.
Speaker 9: But I am.
Speaker 2: It's what's going on, Jr.
Speaker 4: Man, I'm good man.
Speaker 8: I was a little worried about you while I was gone,
Speaker 8: you know, you dip in and out.
Speaker 6: No, dog, I was.
Speaker 4: I was good man.
Speaker 1: You know, had had a little had a.
Speaker 4: Little issue, you know, but we were good that. Yeah,
Speaker 4: it was cool. Yeah, it's good man.
Speaker 10: How you been feeling, man, What you been doing on
Speaker 10: a health vakation?
Speaker 6: What is that?
Speaker 1: What all go into that?
Speaker 2: Fishing?
Speaker 8: Ain't nothing, ain't nothing healthier than fishing.
Speaker 3: Fishing.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I took my boat out, second time I took
Speaker 2: my boat out. Getting it broke in good, Okay, got
Speaker 2: me a bass boat. So but it's a little hot
Speaker 2: right now in the summer. So I go out there.
Speaker 8: If you get out there, early in the morning you
Speaker 8: can get them. But after that they they gone lock it.
Speaker 2: In for the day. Yeah. Yeah, that's all I did, man,
Speaker 2: just enjoyed myself, you know, stayed out the limelight on
Speaker 2: on they went to Washington, d C into London.
Speaker 6: That was it.
Speaker 1: Oh, that's it.
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's that's yeah.
Speaker 1: That's the one little O trips.
Speaker 2: We went to a tennis match, in a tennis match
Speaker 2: in d C, and uh did the coin toss for
Speaker 2: the beginning of the match. I never knew they had
Speaker 2: a coin toss.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 1: You just see them playe who will serve?
Speaker 8: And yeah that's what you do. You flip the coin
Speaker 8: and see who serves first.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know.
Speaker 1: Did you enjoy yourself?
Speaker 6: Yeah?
Speaker 8: Fun, yeah yeah.
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah yeah. I had a good time.
Speaker 9: Man.
Speaker 2: I'm famous in d C. That's for show, and no
Speaker 2: mistake about that. They found out they will fly me
Speaker 2: up there and found out, Oh lord, we need security. Yeah,
Speaker 2: I told y'all. And I went to London. Let's take something.
Speaker 2: I went to London, Uh to a place called green
Speaker 2: Year Green Year, and it's the home it's five minutes
Speaker 2: away from them where they manufactured rolls. Royce is at
Speaker 2: Oh said I wasn't there for that. I was there
Speaker 2: for the horse show. I was so disappointed and the
Speaker 2: horse show because I was going to make a Rolls Royce.
Speaker 2: They drove me through the facility and.
Speaker 1: I drove round it.
Speaker 2: No, I didn't make one. I won't to though.
Speaker 11: Oh lord, I want to Steve Harvey Edition coming soon,
Speaker 11: Limited edition.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I wanted to, But nah, not not you at
Speaker 2: any time for that.
Speaker 1: All right, Well you heard him.
Speaker 11: Return of the mac Steve is back, return out to
Speaker 11: mac Age. Coming up in thirty two minutes after the hour,
Speaker 11: Junior is in for the nephew to run that prank
Speaker 11: back right after this.
Speaker 1: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show.
Speaker 11: Spending time outdoors, and let's talk about skin cancer. Non
Speaker 11: melanoma skin cancers or nmsc's, including basils cell carcinoma and
Speaker 11: cutaneous squamous cell carcinoma, are the most common cancers in
Speaker 11: the US and can become harder to treat if left undetective.
Speaker 1: That's why sun protection and timely detection matter.
Speaker 11: Our sponsor, Regeneron, is raising awareness about advanced nmsc's. Learn
Speaker 11: more and take the pledge to see a dermatologist annually
Speaker 11: at let's get real about skin cancer dot com. It
Speaker 11: is time now to run that prank back with Junior
Speaker 11: in for the nets. You Junior, what you got for us?
Speaker 2: All right?
Speaker 12: Shirley, Well, you know, and the nephews and not here today,
Speaker 12: but he did leave us, So run that prank back.
Speaker 12: And the prank is the postman always rings twice? Okay,
Speaker 12: postman always rings twice?
Speaker 6: Come on, gay, Hello, Hello, I'm trying to read the Carlos.
Speaker 6: My name Benny Man, Benny Phipps. Hey you I want
Speaker 6: to make sure I got the right person.
Speaker 13: You.
Speaker 6: You work for a post office, right?
Speaker 14: Uh?
Speaker 6: Yeah, okay? Do you deliver a mail off of Murphy
Speaker 6: Road sometime? Yeah?
Speaker 7: Yeah, okay, I.
Speaker 6: Live it well. First of all, I wanted to make
Speaker 6: sure I had to write postman. Now it's been brought
Speaker 6: to my attention that there's a postman that has been
Speaker 6: stopping by my house. And I'm what I'm not understanding
Speaker 6: is why are you bringing mail to my door? The
Speaker 6: post she just putting mail in the mailboxes on the
Speaker 6: street where everybody got their mailboxes at. What do you say?
Speaker 9: Is that it again?
Speaker 6: I live at Murphy Road, perfect road.
Speaker 9: Yeah, I deliver over there. But you say, delivering package
Speaker 9: at your house.
Speaker 6: No, I said, you've been bringing mail to my house
Speaker 6: and the poll. Here's what I'm trying to tell your carlos.
Speaker 6: My wife is at home all day, she don't work.
Speaker 6: And my understanding is you've been stopping by there on
Speaker 6: more than one occasion, on a daily basis. You're coming
Speaker 6: by there two three times, you know. But when I'm understanding,
Speaker 6: it ain't no mail being brought over that. I'm trying
Speaker 6: to figure out, what are you doing at my house?
Speaker 9: Now?
Speaker 6: What really didn't been brought? All this to a head
Speaker 6: because I already know what's going on. Let me go on,
Speaker 6: let you know that call. I do know what's going on.
Speaker 6: I picked up the clothes from the cleaners this morning,
Speaker 6: and to my attention, it's a man's post office shirt
Speaker 6: in my pack.
Speaker 7: What color was it?
Speaker 6: It's blue, light blue?
Speaker 7: I got a blue Okay, explain this to me.
Speaker 6: How your shirt get in my house? Do you have
Speaker 6: my name on it?
Speaker 9: Because that could be anybody's shirt.
Speaker 6: Okay, So so hold on. What you're trying to say
Speaker 6: is some it's more postman stopping by my heart? See it?
Speaker 14: Man?
Speaker 9: Sometimes sometime, you know, we do have different guys in
Speaker 9: that in that neighborhood.
Speaker 6: You know because I hear my problem. Man. My problem
Speaker 6: is this is that my wife is at home all
Speaker 6: day every day. And my understanding is is that you
Speaker 6: stopping body bringing more.
Speaker 9: First of all about it. You can call you can
Speaker 9: call the one eight hundred numbers, because how do you
Speaker 9: get my number?
Speaker 14: Do?
Speaker 2: Hey?
Speaker 6: I don't worry about that. I find ways. How you
Speaker 6: how you get my address? That you stopping by that
Speaker 6: every morning?
Speaker 9: I just deliver what they give me to deliver, and
Speaker 9: do I put another number box and list is a package.
Speaker 9: I don't get out.
Speaker 7: Excuse me, I don't do that.
Speaker 9: That that wasn't me, dude.
Speaker 7: I just you're cleaner this.
Speaker 6: Morning and pick up clothes. And it is a post
Speaker 6: office shirt in there that belonged ever then that belonged
Speaker 6: to a man. That's got to be it must be yours.
Speaker 9: That's none of mine, man, that's not mine.
Speaker 7: I have all mine.
Speaker 6: Okay, okay, okay, I'll tell you what this we're gonna do.
Speaker 6: Carlos to Carlos, see what, let me tell you something.
Speaker 6: I know you're lying. See and what you're doing is
Speaker 6: you're delivering more than mail at my house, and I
Speaker 6: know it. Carlos. You understand me, So listen, not me.
Speaker 9: Excuse me, that's not me.
Speaker 7: You can't be me.
Speaker 6: Let me. Let me tell you something. When you come
Speaker 6: on Murphy Road tomorrow, okay, I'm gonna be out there
Speaker 6: at them at the mailboxes waiting on you for what
Speaker 6: it me and you're gonna have this problem that we
Speaker 6: got tomorrow morning when you bring the mail. So when
Speaker 6: you bring the mail, bring you too.
Speaker 7: Okay, Carlos, old of them ain't threatening me.
Speaker 6: I'm telling you, when you bring the mail, bring your two.
Speaker 9: Dude, come at you like that. You ain't gotta come
Speaker 9: to me like that.
Speaker 6: Dude. Hey man, you came up in my house and
Speaker 6: I know you said, but off my shirt in my house.
Speaker 9: Dude, that was not me. I don't know where you live.
Speaker 9: I don't know who the you are, but you threatened me.
Speaker 1: Dude.
Speaker 6: Dude, hey man, I'll see you in the morning at
Speaker 6: the mailbox. Bring your Carlos.
Speaker 7: I'm off tomorrow, but I would come to your house.
Speaker 9: We're playing clothes on and whoop yo.
Speaker 6: What you say you weren't for me?
Speaker 9: Hey, you own where you meet running road.
Speaker 6: I will tease the perfect roads bring your because what
Speaker 6: you're not gonna keep doing is running up in my
Speaker 6: house while I'm out at work trying to earn a
Speaker 6: living for my family, and you up in my house
Speaker 6: laying up and you're leaving your clothes. I found some
Speaker 6: mason now, I guess that's what you use when you
Speaker 6: spray on them dogs. I found that too.
Speaker 9: I'm gonna bring some extra mates.
Speaker 7: I'm gonna spray up with that.
Speaker 6: Mate.
Speaker 9: You will knock you out.
Speaker 7: But you're this.
Speaker 6: I told you.
Speaker 7: I'm gonna be run in intim waiting.
Speaker 14: Car.
Speaker 9: I can't wait till tomorrow.
Speaker 6: Exhoot me.
Speaker 9: It's a I told you I wasn't the one. But
Speaker 9: if you want to put me wrong for.
Speaker 7: Real, okay, cool, I'll give on when I see you
Speaker 7: work the office. When I see you tomorrow, it's oh, it's.
Speaker 9: Whatever, hey, you sending to me all this. I tell
Speaker 9: you what. I will come over there some playing clothing
Speaker 9: with me because you're not gonna make me lose my job.
Speaker 6: Dog, I'm telling job whatever it's got to be. I
Speaker 6: don't care if you if you're in the post office,
Speaker 6: you the farm, I don't give it. You and your pajamas.
Speaker 6: Carlos but when you come to that mailbox and I
Speaker 6: find you out there by the mailboxes, that show man,
Speaker 6: because I know you've been in my house, Carlos, I'm
Speaker 6: telling you I'm therere okay, so be it? Then, so
Speaker 6: be it. I got I got one more thing else
Speaker 6: I want to tell you when you before you get there.
Speaker 9: Tell me what you know I recall me.
Speaker 6: Is you listening to me?
Speaker 13: Yeah?
Speaker 6: That his nephew Tommy from the Steve Harby Morning Show.
Speaker 6: You just got pranked by your coworker. You You.
Speaker 9: Ain't. This ain't.
Speaker 7: From my I loved you all.
Speaker 9: Right, man, Ah dude, I'm driving, pull over to the
Speaker 9: side of the road. I'm hanging out the truck.
Speaker 7: I'm about to go crazy.
Speaker 9: I don't want my wad of your house right now.
Speaker 9: Put on my radio house. I know, God for work,
Speaker 9: Damn I forget.
Speaker 6: Oh man, I got one more thing to ask you, man,
Speaker 6: what is what is the baddest radio show in the land.
Speaker 9: Steve Harvey Morning Radio Show, No doubt all the way?
Speaker 9: All right?
Speaker 10: Sureley there you having postman always rings.
Speaker 4: Twice at the nephew left. You know, is there is
Speaker 4: there a reason the nephew ain't here on a Tuesday.
Speaker 4: Did we discuss that?
Speaker 1: Didn't he tell us that he wasn't probably gonna be here.
Speaker 10: He told me, I thought, I know, I came back
Speaker 10: you said yesterday.
Speaker 1: But now he's not gonna be here today because Steve
Speaker 1: is back.
Speaker 2: It's too much pressure on him. You know, little man
Speaker 2: somewhere laid.
Speaker 8: Two weeks trying to be almost kill this silk.
Speaker 2: Is sound boy.
Speaker 8: He got laid down. He lost his voice and everything.
Speaker 1: Okay, I shooes around.
Speaker 2: It's hard when you're trying to step in new shot.
Speaker 8: Don't all right?
Speaker 11: Well, Steve is back, as you can hear uh coming
Speaker 11: up next? It is asked the CLO or Chief Love Officer,
Speaker 11: Steve Harvey in the building.
Speaker 1: Right after this, you're.
Speaker 11: Listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Spending time outdoors,
Speaker 11: and let's talk about skin cancer. Non melanoma skin cancers
Speaker 11: or n m scs, including basal cell carcinoma and cutaneous
Speaker 11: squamous cell carcinoma, are the most common cancers in the
Speaker 11: US and can become harder to treat if left undetected.
Speaker 1: That's why sun protection and timely detection matter.
Speaker 11: Our sponsor, Regeneron, is raising awareness about advanced nmsc's learn
Speaker 11: more and take the pledge to see a dermatologists annually
Speaker 11: at Let's Get Real about skin cancer dot Com Coming
Speaker 11: up at the top of the hour. In entertainment and
Speaker 11: some trending headline news, Nolan Wells's parents received support at
Speaker 11: the Omega Psy five Fraternity Incorporated eighty fifth Grand Conclave.
Speaker 1: We'll talk about that.
Speaker 11: Also, still trending, doctor Fauci pleading the Fifth Amendment during
Speaker 11: a Senate Committee hearing. And in entertainment news, have you
Speaker 11: ever been a matchmaker for your friends? Sierra and Russell
Speaker 11: Wilson were matchmakers for newlyweds Coco Jones and Donovan Mitchell.
Speaker 1: We'll talk about all of these stories at the top
Speaker 1: of the hour. How sweet is that?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 11: But right now it is time to ask the CLO.
Speaker 11: He is back our Chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey. This
Speaker 11: is from Asia in Lake Charles. Asia writes, I dated
Speaker 11: a guide that never took me on date. He said
Speaker 11: he couldn't afford it, and he asked me to be patient,
Speaker 11: but I couldn't. Two years later, he has a great
Speaker 11: job and he just bought a house. I think he
Speaker 11: still hates me. How do I get a second chance.
Speaker 2: No, no, no, he still hate you. Guys don't remember
Speaker 2: guys remember that kind of stuff?
Speaker 1: Uh huh.
Speaker 2: Back then they didn't want me. Now I'm hot, they
Speaker 2: all on me.
Speaker 1: Mike Jones.
Speaker 2: And that BIPs. Some things you just never forget. Yeah,
Speaker 2: didn't go to the junior.
Speaker 6: Prom with me.
Speaker 2: And I asked her why. The one that said yeah,
Speaker 2: she told me she said. I asked her why. She said,
Speaker 2: I just don't want to go there, and I kept
Speaker 2: pressing her.
Speaker 14: Uh huh.
Speaker 2: So she went on and told me I don't like
Speaker 2: your facial features. Jesus, I never recovered from that.
Speaker 6: How you could I.
Speaker 2: Never recall you don't like my facial features.
Speaker 1: Because I can't change them. They weren't doing.
Speaker 2: You know, I made it. I was in Cleveland selling
Speaker 2: out the State the State Theater, and she came backstage. Lord,
Speaker 2: she was fine.
Speaker 1: How many years later?
Speaker 2: Oh, let me see, that happened when I was fifteen,
Speaker 2: So I came back I was probably forty oh wow,
Speaker 2: five years later? Yeah, yeah, ooh lord, she was fine.
Speaker 1: So she came backstage and did you you know.
Speaker 2: You remember when I said, oh I ain't that big?
Speaker 2: Wow man? This girl fine? Of course, I said, man,
Speaker 2: this this one right here? Fine, So she asked me
Speaker 2: to did I want to go get some neat? I
Speaker 2: told I wasn't hung. Then she said how about coffee?
Speaker 2: I told I stopped drinking coffee, which is not.
Speaker 1: You were in revenge mode.
Speaker 2: And then she said, well, if you ever want to
Speaker 2: reach out, She gave me a number and walked up.
Speaker 2: My boy said, man, what is the wrong with you?
Speaker 2: I said, no, man, that's she didn't like my facial features,
Speaker 2: so keep don't like them now either. They are definite.
Speaker 2: I know they're bigger now.
Speaker 1: So so's your bank account?
Speaker 2: All right? What you got?
Speaker 6: All right?
Speaker 1: Ronnie and Brooklyn?
Speaker 6: Right?
Speaker 11: So I told my wife I was at Jeff's house,
Speaker 11: and she didn't believe me. She called Jeff's wife in
Speaker 11: my face and asked her if I'd been there. Jeff's
Speaker 11: wife said yes, I owe Jeff's wife's dinner soon. But
Speaker 11: how do I deal with my wife for checking up
Speaker 11: on me all the time and brouh.
Speaker 2: I can't help you with that. Your wife has trust issues, yes,
Speaker 2: and I could be baggage from a previous relationship. It
Speaker 2: could have been something that you did in the past.
Speaker 2: One of them two things is in play and I
Speaker 2: cannot help you with that.
Speaker 6: Man.
Speaker 2: If you don't want to check it up on you,
Speaker 2: take are where you go? That worked?
Speaker 8: Okay?
Speaker 1: All right? No, see, but he wasn't she that Steff's
Speaker 1: wife said he was there.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and she over there just checking up on him? Anyway?
Speaker 2: How do I stop her from checking on me?
Speaker 14: You know?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 3: All right?
Speaker 11: Moving on to Christy and Seattle, Crystal writes, my boyfriend's
Speaker 11: ex wife still hangs out with their old friends group.
Speaker 11: My boyfriend's ex wife still hangs out with their old
Speaker 11: friend group. Okay, yeah, she was at a party Saturday,
Speaker 11: and my boyfriend said she had a right to be
Speaker 11: at the party. He said, it's just something that I
Speaker 11: have to deal with. Should I tolerate it or break
Speaker 11: up with him?
Speaker 1: M wow?
Speaker 2: Extremes, Oh well, I mean it seems to be bothering you.
Speaker 2: Now this is his ex wife.
Speaker 1: Yeah, his ex wife.
Speaker 6: Is not.
Speaker 1: He can't do anything about that, yeah, Lessing.
Speaker 2: He's still friends with the friend group, and so she's
Speaker 2: still friends because she knew some of the women. Now
Speaker 2: he got you, you the new girl. What he can't
Speaker 2: tell her where to go? That's why they divorce. Now
Speaker 2: he can't tell her nothing.
Speaker 1: And she didn't say anyone bothered her or said anything
Speaker 1: to her.
Speaker 6: No, this is her.
Speaker 2: She's uncomfortable. The new girlfriend is right, So you're going
Speaker 2: to give up a good man because you can't pull
Speaker 2: yourself together.
Speaker 1: Yeah, she's sick.
Speaker 6: She and that X.
Speaker 1: Yeah she got the party.
Speaker 2: Yeah and she fine yah.
Speaker 1: Ah that yeah?
Speaker 2: All right, last one, because that ex come in there
Speaker 2: in her best the X don't come in that plane.
Speaker 8: But she's not finna come in there and looking like
Speaker 8: second class. She up in there with it all.
Speaker 1: Let me show you what you missed, what you divorced.
Speaker 4: God.
Speaker 1: This is the last one, Steve. This is from Nick
Speaker 1: in Cleveland. You might know him.
Speaker 11: Nick writes, My sixteen year old daughter is on punishment
Speaker 11: for going to the mall in her bonnet. I took
Speaker 11: her phone for a week, and I have been arguing
Speaker 11: with my wife over this because she thinks I'm.
Speaker 1: Too strict and it's not that serious. Is it punishment
Speaker 1: too harsh?
Speaker 13: No?
Speaker 2: Not, if that's your rule, you got every right, you know.
Speaker 2: Look y'all, let's have some dick. They changed the dress
Speaker 2: codeed Tuskegee.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah we are.
Speaker 2: Yeah, no more bonnets, No more do rags, no more
Speaker 2: house slippers to class, and it's really not been a
Speaker 2: controversial decision, most of the kids going along with it.
Speaker 2: You know. Look, man, you gotta have some standards somewhere.
Speaker 2: But if you're so busy trying to be your child's friend,
Speaker 2: they let them do what they want to do. But
Speaker 2: she wore bonnet to the mall.
Speaker 11: Why Yeah, so he took her phone for a week
Speaker 11: and he and his wife have been arguing because his
Speaker 11: wife thinks he's too strict.
Speaker 2: Look, okay, okay, tell your children not to do something,
Speaker 2: let them do it anyway and then have no consequences
Speaker 2: and watch how they turn out.
Speaker 1: Yeah, so you're saying you don't want the rule. The
Speaker 1: rule is the rule.
Speaker 13: As a parent, you break the rule, you gotta deal
Speaker 13: with the consequences.
Speaker 1: Yeah, punishment, you too strict. Yeah, just don't wear your
Speaker 1: bonnet to the mall.
Speaker 2: I mean that's not anyway. All the rest of the
Speaker 2: class list people got it on hard.
Speaker 4: The father's mad. Yeah, I don't blame, but this.
Speaker 1: Is causing a problem in your marriage though.
Speaker 2: Well, listen, I think the parents have to sit down
Speaker 2: and get on the same page. Yes, so they can
Speaker 2: have a united front in front of a child. You
Speaker 2: might not do. You might disagree with what the husband said,
Speaker 2: but let her serve the punishment for the week, and
Speaker 2: then y'all work out how you're gonna move forward from now.
Speaker 11: All right, all right, thank you, colo appreciate it. Coming
Speaker 11: up as.
Speaker 8: As she owned her computer talking now, I just won't
Speaker 8: let you know I'm not coming up.
Speaker 11: At the top of the hour, we'll have some entertainment
Speaker 11: news and some trending headline news for you right after this.
Speaker 11: You're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. Well during the
Speaker 11: Omega Sci Fi Fraternity, Inc. Eighty fifth Grand Conclave the Inn, Cincinnati, Ohio,
Speaker 11: Christine and Elmore Wansley, the parents of Nolan Wells, spoke
Speaker 11: alongside civil rights attorney Ben Crump during the fraternity's community rallied.
Speaker 11: According to the Greeks Informed Instagram page, members of Omega
Speaker 11: Sci Fi embraced and uplifted the Wells family, reassuring them
Speaker 11: that they are not alone in their fight and that
Speaker 11: the fraternity will continue standing beside them. As we previously reported,
Speaker 11: Christina and Elmore Wansley have also launched their own independent investigation,
Speaker 11: citing a lack of trust in law enforcement and pointing
Speaker 11: to Mississippi's long history of racial injustice.
Speaker 2: I mean, it's such a crazy story.
Speaker 13: You know.
Speaker 1: If this were reversed, Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 2: Let's say it's five black boys go to an island
Speaker 2: with their white friend. They come back with the white
Speaker 2: friend's telephone, but no white friend. How you think this
Speaker 2: would go?
Speaker 1: Those boys would be in jail right now?
Speaker 2: We all know, yeah, right now, because Trump wanted to
Speaker 2: get rid of the five in New York over an accusation.
Speaker 8: Oh yeah, all you need is the accusation.
Speaker 1: You remember that, Yeah, for sure.
Speaker 4: Yeah, you know.
Speaker 2: It's it's alarming, man. How people and this this former
Speaker 2: cop what's his name, Tatum.
Speaker 4: Alive?
Speaker 14: Yeah?
Speaker 2: Yeah, this dude right here is black with his son had.
Speaker 2: I mean, man, look, if you want to be white,
Speaker 2: it's okay, it's okay. But now I'm telling you they're
Speaker 2: not going to let you in mm hmm. They will
Speaker 2: use you for a purpose and then you have to
Speaker 2: get back in your place. You can ask herschel Walker.
Speaker 2: They bought him a house in Georgia. They put him
Speaker 2: all up. They found out he couldn't talk, and then
Speaker 2: they found out he couldn't win. Where is herschel Where what.
Speaker 3: Have you done?
Speaker 1: What did he have a big buss?
Speaker 4: That's that first?
Speaker 2: So you know this this I Tatum what's his name?
Speaker 4: Podcast?
Speaker 2: Him and Jason Whitlock, the sports commentator. I just I
Speaker 2: don't understand their views. Man, I don't understand how you
Speaker 2: always every time there's a black subject in the news,
Speaker 2: you find a way to minimize, criticize and ostracized the
Speaker 2: entire black community because of it, and you act right
Speaker 2: and you act like this just can't happen. When I
Speaker 2: heard him say that there's no systemic racism in America,
Speaker 2: when I heard a white guy said, do you do
Speaker 2: realize that Charlie Kirk said that black people were better
Speaker 2: off doing slavery than they are now, And this fool said, yes,
Speaker 2: I agree one hundred. I said, Okay, that's that's what
Speaker 2: I know. You if your desire is just to be white,
Speaker 2: if you've wanted it since you were a child, it's
Speaker 2: been burning in you, go ahead, you go over there,
Speaker 2: you can vote with him, be whatever you want to.
Speaker 2: But when they can't use you no more, they gonna
Speaker 2: they're gonna let you know right who you are and
Speaker 2: where you are.
Speaker 3: Yep.
Speaker 2: But now your problem is you can't come back.
Speaker 3: Over here.
Speaker 4: Now, that's the problem you're facing, that you can't come back.
Speaker 1: That's sad. Yeah, that's a shame.
Speaker 11: Yeah, but again, thank you to your fraternity, Steve Omega
Speaker 11: Sci Fi Fraternity, Inc. And you know first sticking by
Speaker 11: and standing by the Wansley's Christina Elman.
Speaker 2: I wasn't at the clave this year of a man.
Speaker 2: I saw nothing but great stuff online.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, that's good. All right, Well, moving on and
Speaker 1: still trending.
Speaker 11: Last week, doctor Anthony Fauci invoked the Fifth Amendment and
Speaker 11: refused to answer questions at a Senate hearing on COVID nineteen.
Speaker 11: In an opening statement, Fauci said Senator Ram Paul's goal
Speaker 11: was to get him to say, quote, something, anything that
Speaker 11: could vindicate his repeated public pledges that I end up
Speaker 11: in his words behind bars. Fauci then announced he would
Speaker 11: invoke his constitutional rights to remain silent. The hearing focused
Speaker 11: on the origins of COVID nineteen and the federal government's
Speaker 11: pandemic response, issues that have fueled years of clashes between
Speaker 11: Fauci and Republican lawmakers. So yeah, he's just been taking
Speaker 11: the Fifth. I take the fifth, I take the fifth.
Speaker 1: What is this about?
Speaker 4: Okay, what you want him to say?
Speaker 1: Well, exactly, because COVID nineteen happened, and we were in
Speaker 1: a pandemic and.
Speaker 13: The scientists, the first responders, the doctors working around the
Speaker 13: clock to try to save people lives, and y'all trying
Speaker 13: to put this man in jail.
Speaker 2: Well, because they're saying that the vaccine was a hoax,
Speaker 2: that wearing these masks was a hoax. You know that's
Speaker 2: Trump's been selling that for a long time.
Speaker 1: Yeah, let's put.
Speaker 2: And how fake. The vaccines were, ineffective, The vaccines caused
Speaker 2: some problems for some people. You know that that actually
Speaker 2: is factual.
Speaker 1: And some people lives were saying yeah.
Speaker 2: And some people's lives were saved.
Speaker 7: Yeah.
Speaker 4: So and so you know, we getting we getting on faucia.
Speaker 4: But we're not gonna see nothing about Trump said, we
Speaker 4: can get rid of it.
Speaker 1: We just drink some bleach the administration handling.
Speaker 4: He's not going to testify.
Speaker 2: I still can't believe that we've gotten three thousand pages
Speaker 2: of the Epstein's files just removed so we can't even
Speaker 2: read them. And in them three thousand pages, you don't
Speaker 2: think Donald Trump's name is mentioned oh.
Speaker 11: Ya, a scientist and Jill oh Man. All right, thank
Speaker 11: you guys. We're moving on now. Coming up, have you
Speaker 11: guys ever match made? Did any matchmaking for your friends?
Speaker 11: We'll talk about that coming up right after this. You're
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Speaker 13: So you guys have probably heard about Sierra and her
Speaker 13: husband Russell Wilson. They've been credited as matchmakers for Newlywed's
Speaker 13: R and B singer Coco Jones and Cleveland Cavaliers guard.
Speaker 11: Donovan Mitchell married. Yeah, they got married over the weekend. Yes,
Speaker 11: congratulations to them this past weekend.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 11: So a relationship experts are saying that your friends can
Speaker 11: be effective matchmakers because they know you better than anyone
Speaker 11: else and they can spot compatibility where a dating app
Speaker 11: might miss. So the question is, have you, guys ever
Speaker 11: been matchmakers to any of your friends? Have you put
Speaker 11: people together?
Speaker 4: Have you done that?
Speaker 12: My partner with I mean I really didn't matchmaker. It
Speaker 12: is the fact that he had somebody liked him. He
Speaker 12: had no other option.
Speaker 4: Ugly he had to take it. There was no other choice.
Speaker 4: What do you mean? I couldn't believe we all she
Speaker 4: even liked you.
Speaker 1: Come on, now, no other nofter you.
Speaker 4: Come on somebody like you?
Speaker 6: Come on?
Speaker 4: You ain't count him. I don't know what you mean.
Speaker 14: You do know?
Speaker 10: Yeah, I don't see nobody else beating your dough down.
Speaker 4: That's it he talking about. I'm not sure about her.
Speaker 4: We showed him.
Speaker 1: So did they marry? Did they get married?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 1: They are they still still married? Yeah, Well yeah that
Speaker 1: works out?
Speaker 4: Where else he gonna go? Shirley, what's y'all show you
Speaker 4: made you know him?
Speaker 10: Dave, He can't found no divorce papers, Steve.
Speaker 1: Have you ever match made for for for any of
Speaker 1: your friends?
Speaker 6: Yeah?
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, man, years most of them cool. Got a
Speaker 2: couple of partner y'all don't know him, Dan ain't famous.
Speaker 2: A couple of partners I grew up with, looked him over.
Speaker 2: Some chicks in there and you know, some shit, A
Speaker 2: couple of them divorced. Uh, you know what happened? It's what?
Speaker 3: Oh?
Speaker 14: What? What?
Speaker 2: This was the most alarming thing. I thought this was
Speaker 2: the sweetest girl in the world. She went to jail
Speaker 2: for spousal abuse. The woman what ah?
Speaker 14: Wow?
Speaker 2: I mean she was just jacking old boy up?
Speaker 1: And he didn't tell you guys, he was ashamed. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: like you.
Speaker 2: And then we was getting ready to go out to
Speaker 2: dinner one time we said, hey, man, where is she at?
Speaker 2: Hey man, let me holler at you by yourself. Okay,
Speaker 2: what a man? She in jail? No, no, no, no dog, no,
Speaker 2: no doubt your wife? Wait, where's your wife? She in jail?
Speaker 2: She in jail for what?
Speaker 14: For?
Speaker 2: Abuse? Who she hit? He say me who? And so
Speaker 2: I went, God, no, I thought she was fine as
Speaker 2: all out does I'm sure glad, I ain't want to.
Speaker 4: You would have been even.
Speaker 2: Everybody be in jail.
Speaker 1: All right, guys, thank you.
Speaker 11: Coming up with thirty four minutes after we'll have some
Speaker 11: random questions for the crew.
Speaker 1: Right after this. Steve's back. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show.
Speaker 11: So guys, here we go. Here's some random questions for you.
Speaker 11: What's the quote? Give me a quote that has stuck
Speaker 11: with you for the majority of your life. Someone said
Speaker 11: something to you, or you read something, or you know,
Speaker 11: what's that quote that sticks with you.
Speaker 1: All the time? Junior?
Speaker 2: Wow, man, I got so many. I don't know if
Speaker 2: there are quotes the scripture that sticks with me. That's
Speaker 2: what then kept me as some scriptures, okay, you I
Speaker 2: mean I got some poems that I live by. Don't
Speaker 2: quit invictis, you know, stuff I learned when I was pledging. Uh,
Speaker 2: but man, them scriptures, Man, scriptures, you know when I'm
Speaker 2: going through it. Man, you know Isaiah fifty four seventeen
Speaker 2: my favorite scripture, no weapon formed against me, She'll prosper. Yeah,
Speaker 2: and it hasn't. And then Isaiah forty three one and two.
Speaker 2: I can walk through the fire and not get burned,
Speaker 2: noble kindling set upon my clothing. I mean I can well.
Speaker 2: I walked through some fire and come out the other side,
Speaker 2: and there was no kindling on my clothing. It ain't
Speaker 2: even looked like I had been through nothing.
Speaker 1: Yes, I don't look like you've been through man, all right.
Speaker 2: So those two have really kept me. Of course, you know,
Speaker 2: Psalms keeps me. You know, all Proverbs is Proverbs is
Speaker 2: the only book in the Bible I've read, uh, cover
Speaker 2: to cover. I have a surprise, guys, that should be
Speaker 2: finished in a couple of weeks, and I'm just gonna
Speaker 2: show you a picture of what I did. Okay, all right,
Speaker 2: but it will have it has something to do with Proverbs.
Speaker 1: With Proverbs. Okay, all right, Junior, what quote has stuck
Speaker 1: with you?
Speaker 4: Well, I'll tell you one that my mom and daddy
Speaker 4: gave me that stuck with me.
Speaker 1: Do it again.
Speaker 12: See if I'm kid, that's that has been that entire
Speaker 12: until I'm forty eight. That's been there the whole time.
Speaker 4: Okay, do it again.
Speaker 11: Oh, Steve, By the way, I don't know if you
Speaker 11: knew this, but Junior grew up with white kids. A
Speaker 11: white family raised him. We found that out last week
Speaker 11: and yeah.
Speaker 8: Yeah, yeah, I knew that.
Speaker 1: Oh we did. We didn't know, Yeah, we never knew that.
Speaker 2: You can't tell no, how can you tell you?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 1: What what would be?
Speaker 2: Let something bad happen to him? And watch his reaction?
Speaker 4: Watch white, I can't believe.
Speaker 11: All right, we're asking you, guys some random questions. What's
Speaker 11: your favorite line from a song? Your favorite line from
Speaker 11: a song?
Speaker 6: You know?
Speaker 2: How many?
Speaker 1: How many?
Speaker 14: I know?
Speaker 4: Narrow down?
Speaker 1: Give us your favorite, all time favorite line from a song.
Speaker 8: I can't know all time favorite I got about Funnio.
Speaker 12: Okay, Junior, it's been an hour since you've been gone,
Speaker 12: So baby, come back home.
Speaker 4: I can't live with.
Speaker 1: Yeah, we knew it was Joe back all right, So
Speaker 1: how far? Here's another question, guys.
Speaker 2: Whoa whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa whoa.
Speaker 8: It's so many songs you can't hide love?
Speaker 1: Yeah, I bet you.
Speaker 2: I bet you well. You dance around all this.
Speaker 1: You can't high love?
Speaker 2: I pet you?
Speaker 6: Yeah?
Speaker 2: I would you mind if I touched, if I kids,
Speaker 2: if I held you tight till the morning, light the fire?
Speaker 1: What about that? Lenny Williams, Steve.
Speaker 6: Girl, you know.
Speaker 2: No matter what you do, But but the line in
Speaker 2: it was, what's that line where he says, uh, when
Speaker 2: the tears fill up in the whales of my eyes,
Speaker 2: that boyfriend to cry, God, I don't fell them well
Speaker 2: up in there?
Speaker 1: How far didn't go to try to get you back?
Speaker 1: How far would they do?
Speaker 8: She didn't try to get me back, but she tried
Speaker 8: to destroy me.
Speaker 1: Oh okay, all right, on that note, we're gonna end
Speaker 1: it all right.
Speaker 11: Coming up, Junior's in for the Nephew with today's prank
Speaker 11: phone Call.
Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
Speaker 11: Coming up at the top of the hour, right about
Speaker 11: four minutes after it is my Strawberry letter for today,
Speaker 11: and the subject is why is he blaming it on me?
Speaker 13: Why?
Speaker 11: We'll get into that find out what that's all about.
Speaker 11: Wait till year this story, this letter. Wow, in just
Speaker 11: a few because right now it is time for Junior
Speaker 11: in for the Nephew with today's prank phone call.
Speaker 1: Junior, what you got?
Speaker 6: All right?
Speaker 12: So before I get to the prank phone call, can
Speaker 12: I just say this, man? Oh, you should be really
Speaker 12: proud of nephew. Tell me while you was out, man,
Speaker 12: he did such an excellent job. He was really really good.
Speaker 12: I'm telling you long got here today. But I just
Speaker 12: want to say, you know, you should be proud of him.
Speaker 12: And then he he led us the way he could
Speaker 12: lead us. And I just want you to know that
Speaker 12: you should be really proud of your nephew. Man, he
Speaker 12: really stepped up in your absence.
Speaker 2: And well, yeah yeah, clap clap, clap, clap clap. Oh yeah,
Speaker 2: all that's good time to get paid.
Speaker 1: You mean for doing this?
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, Excuse me, Shirley, you want to complete your sentence.
Speaker 11: You can't just take a moment to say yeah, to
Speaker 11: give your nephew some a little praise, pat.
Speaker 4: On the back.
Speaker 2: He was at work.
Speaker 3: Let's see.
Speaker 13: So you don't believe that your employees should get knowledged
Speaker 13: in addition to receiving a paycheck.
Speaker 1: Well done.
Speaker 2: Let me give all the four of you on an example.
Speaker 2: Right now, I came back. Anybody said a thing about that?
Speaker 1: What we've been saying it all morning?
Speaker 14: No?
Speaker 2: No, no, no no, I said I'm back return to
Speaker 2: the mac ain'tybody said nothing about me being back?
Speaker 12: Are you?
Speaker 2: You know why you don't say that? Because I get back,
Speaker 2: because I get paid. I get paid to be here.
Speaker 2: I don't get paid. And now y'all in up Hill
Speaker 2: want me to give round applause somebody doing the job if.
Speaker 11: In junior you won't say it about yourself, but you
Speaker 11: did an outstanding job as well.
Speaker 10: I get paid. I get paid again again. You got
Speaker 10: it's metro fast.
Speaker 4: I get paid.
Speaker 9: Man.
Speaker 2: You have to give man. Yeah, you know they were
Speaker 2: great in my absence, you know they they did so
Speaker 2: many outstanding things. Oh, they were exceptionally funny.
Speaker 4: Oh they job?
Speaker 2: Then what they do they?
Speaker 8: If they ain't funny, what is they?
Speaker 13: What are they own?
Speaker 6: Here?
Speaker 1: Fulk? What are they? And we're so happy to have
Speaker 1: you back.
Speaker 2: Well okay, well let me tell you what they didn't do.
Speaker 1: Okay, you're so happy you're back.
Speaker 2: Okay, let me tell you what they didn't do.
Speaker 1: What didn't they do?
Speaker 2: They ain't take no extra risk? What they didn't try
Speaker 2: to cross the line?
Speaker 4: Oh all right the radio job? Yeah about active he's saying.
Speaker 2: Oh no yah, talking about on the show. Well, they
Speaker 2: ain't make no controversial remarks.
Speaker 1: All that for you?
Speaker 12: Well, yeah, let's talk about that. After the prank, he
Speaker 12: would go today's prank phok call.
Speaker 10: He left his drawers, He left his drawers come on cat.
Speaker 14: Hello, yes, yes, hey, this is the door man mark
Speaker 14: your building. Okay, I have a mistress here who is
Speaker 14: trying to get buzzed up to your unit. Are you
Speaker 14: Are you at home right now?
Speaker 9: Sir?
Speaker 15: No, no, no, sir, I'm not a who a mister?
Speaker 14: Sorry, and he wants he buzzed up. Supposedly he left
Speaker 14: some articles in the room or in your unit a
Speaker 14: couple of days ago.
Speaker 15: And I was out of town a couple of days ago.
Speaker 15: What day are we talking about? Uh so, what you actually?
Speaker 14: He started Wednesday, Thursday and Friday.
Speaker 15: He was there all three days. You guys let him
Speaker 15: into my apartment for three days he was in my place.
Speaker 6: No mischief.
Speaker 14: We don't let anybody in and let someone in the
Speaker 14: unit allow them to be buzzed up. That's the rules
Speaker 14: here of the building. So we definitely didn't do anything.
Speaker 15: Out of chi Who let him in?
Speaker 9: Who buzzed him?
Speaker 14: Indy, sir, I hate to say it, but I'm assuming
Speaker 14: your wife must to buzz him up.
Speaker 15: You mean my wife was not there three days ago.
Speaker 15: She was on a business trip. She was not at
Speaker 15: the apartment three days ago.
Speaker 14: No, sir, your wife was here. I've actually seen your
Speaker 14: wife come in and out. Okay, the dude is there
Speaker 14: right now, he's downstairs. He's here right now with me, sir.
Speaker 2: What did he leave him?
Speaker 6: Late? Okay?
Speaker 14: Once, miss, actually leave this part fair.
Speaker 9: Pants and and what else?
Speaker 2: He says?
Speaker 14: He left, uh a pair of pants, so underwear in
Speaker 14: the tooth forrush shirt. Sir, it's still hill till.
Speaker 15: He's there right now. Let me talk to him. Put
Speaker 15: him on the phone, let me talk to god.
Speaker 3: You know what, missus.
Speaker 14: Right now we're listening to you, and I rate the
Speaker 14: way you're saying. I don't want to put this guy
Speaker 14: on the phone.
Speaker 15: Mark, if you want to keep your job at the building,
Speaker 15: you're gonna put him on.
Speaker 9: The phone now, sir.
Speaker 14: Sorry, miss he's actually leaving out of the building now
Speaker 14: he's leave, he's walking out.
Speaker 15: I don't know she put him on the phone.
Speaker 9: What is your problem?
Speaker 15: You got videos to vailis right? You got video footage
Speaker 15: of everybody that comes.
Speaker 14: In and out of the building, right, yes, sir, But
Speaker 14: you know, if if nothing occurs, we I think we
Speaker 14: should have footage that goes back at least two weeks,
Speaker 14: so we should be able to pull some things up
Speaker 14: for you, sir.
Speaker 16: Yeah, I'm gonna need you to get that, and I
Speaker 16: need they hit over to me right now. I'm at
Speaker 16: my work email. I need it today because this is
Speaker 16: some y'all let some apartment and it's like, what kind
Speaker 16: of the income fool are you? What kind of d
Speaker 16: before are you?
Speaker 6: Sir?
Speaker 14: Missus missus s all right, well please hear me out, sir,
Speaker 14: hear me out.
Speaker 9: I have We haven't just let.
Speaker 14: Someone in, someone in your unit, buzz someone up. We
Speaker 14: didn't just let anyone up. Now, I know you don't
Speaker 14: want to hear it, but I'm assuming your wife buzz
Speaker 14: this guy just turned up. We didn't do that.
Speaker 15: You shut up and get me what I asked for
Speaker 15: and then we're done. Okay.
Speaker 14: Well, well, you know you're saying I have a problem.
Speaker 14: Maybe you have a problem. Please and your wife and
Speaker 14: that's why.
Speaker 9: She's buzzing other people.
Speaker 14: Oh you talking to me like that, you sir, you're
Speaker 14: being respectful to me as well, sir.
Speaker 2: No, no, no, no.
Speaker 15: The disrespectful is you coming and letting people I'm gon
Speaker 15: to my buildings.
Speaker 2: That you know is now.
Speaker 14: I haven't let anybody up here. I can't stop your
Speaker 14: wife from doing what she's doing.
Speaker 15: That's okay.
Speaker 14: And what you're thinking and taking out on me and
Speaker 14: what you should be saying to your wife. Somebody has
Speaker 14: got to dress up all the time and always buzzing
Speaker 14: somebody up to the room when you're guard.
Speaker 15: That's what showed me to.
Speaker 9: The door man.
Speaker 15: Mister you you you know what, I'm the only around
Speaker 15: here busting my take care. Damn man, I'm over here
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Speaker 9: Well, you might be handling then, but I'm a dinner
Speaker 9: you're not.
Speaker 14: You're not handling your business at home. That's why she
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Speaker 6: Sir.
Speaker 15: You know what, what the business I'm a handle when
Speaker 15: I get home today is show them the door.
Speaker 14: The man your your wife has been sir.
Speaker 7: You're gonna quit.
Speaker 14: Calling me the door man.
Speaker 6: Okay.
Speaker 9: You want doorman, what's your position?
Speaker 15: What you do for a living? I'm a doorman door
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Speaker 15: too much respect.
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Speaker 12: Ladies, gentlemen, it is time for the Strawberry Letter with
Speaker 12: my good friend Shirley Strawberry.
Speaker 1: Thank you my good friend. Junior.
Speaker 11: Subject why is he blaming it on me? Dear Stephen, Shirley,
Speaker 11: I'm thirty seven and my husband is thirty eight. He's
Speaker 11: not a muscular man, but back in the day he
Speaker 11: used to fight everyone in school and he eventually got
Speaker 11: expelled from school for fighting. He and I started dating
Speaker 11: ten years after we graduated. I got pregnant, so we
Speaker 11: got married. While I was pregnant, he assaulted a guy
Speaker 11: that gave me a compliment, and he ended up spending
Speaker 11: almost three years in jail because he was already on probation.
Speaker 11: While he was gone, I had the baby and I
Speaker 11: started dating that man that he beat up for complimenting me.
Speaker 11: I got pregnant by that man and had a son,
Speaker 11: and while my husband was still in All while my
Speaker 11: husband was still in jail. When he got out of jail,
Speaker 11: I did not ever tell him about the rendezvous with
Speaker 11: the other man and my son that the other man
Speaker 11: is raising. My husband's attitude was a lot better, and
Speaker 11: we barely argued. Our marriage was great until two months
Speaker 11: ago when my husband ran into my other child's father
Speaker 11: and my son was with him. My son is my twin,
Speaker 11: and everyone can see it. No one has ever mentioned it.
Speaker 14: It was.
Speaker 11: It was a rumor around town, but I guess everyone
Speaker 11: was too scared of my husband to mention it to him.
Speaker 11: My husband came home and asked me about the boy,
Speaker 11: so I admitted everything to him. He was unusually calm,
Speaker 11: and he left the house. I called to see where
Speaker 11: he went, and he said he was outside of the
Speaker 11: man's house. I got scared, so I dialed nine one
Speaker 11: one and rushed to the man's house. My husband wasn't there.
Speaker 11: I went home and he was back, sitting in the
Speaker 11: driveway crying. He said he didn't want to go back
Speaker 11: to jail, so it was best to leave me alone.
Speaker 11: Then he filed for divorce and moved out. He said,
Speaker 11: I'm the reason our marriage ended. He was in jail,
Speaker 11: So what did he expect me to do? Why is
Speaker 11: he blaming it on me? You know, I get your
Speaker 11: husband was in jail and life goes on for you.
Speaker 11: I get that, But did you have to get with
Speaker 11: the man your husband beat up and went to jail
Speaker 11: four and did you have to have his baby too?
Speaker 11: I'm just not understanding why you went back to that
Speaker 11: particular guy.
Speaker 4: Did you have.
Speaker 1: Did you leave something out of this letter? Do you
Speaker 1: guys have history?
Speaker 11: Because you just casually say some guy gave you a
Speaker 11: compliment and your husband beat him up and went to
Speaker 11: jail because he was already on probation. Then, to make
Speaker 11: matters worse, you never even told your husband about the
Speaker 11: baby you had with the guy. The father may be
Speaker 11: raising the child, but don't you ever see your son.
Speaker 11: Doesn't he spend time with you ever? I mean, you're
Speaker 11: his mom. How did you think your husband wouldn't find
Speaker 11: out that you had another baby while he was locked up?
Speaker 11: I mean, thank god he didn't get violent with your
Speaker 11: baby daddy again for fear of going back to jail.
Speaker 1: Why is your husband blaming you?
Speaker 11: You ask, because you should have told him what was
Speaker 11: up and not let him find out this way. You
Speaker 11: knew he was going to get out of jail someday.
Speaker 11: I mean, how did you think you could keep a
Speaker 11: whole baby from him? I don't get it. You said
Speaker 11: your husband has changed for the better, but obviously you haven't,
Speaker 11: and that's why he's divorcing you and saying it's all
Speaker 11: your fault.
Speaker 1: Steve.
Speaker 2: This letter amazes me because the writer of the letter,
Speaker 2: who is this woman? She don't see nothing she did
Speaker 2: in this whole letter. She just And the question is,
Speaker 2: why is he blaming it on me? Did you read
Speaker 2: what you're typed? Why is he let's keep that theme running?
Speaker 2: Why is he blaming it on me? I'm thirty seven
Speaker 2: My husband is thirty eight. He's not a muscular man.
Speaker 2: But back in the day, you used to fight everybody
Speaker 2: in school. Eventually got expelled for fighting. Here and I
Speaker 2: started dating. Ten years after we graduated, I got pregnant
Speaker 2: and we got married. Listen to me.
Speaker 8: We got pregnant and we got got married.
Speaker 2: While I was pregnant, he assaulted a guy that gave
Speaker 2: me a compliment, and he ended up spending almost three
Speaker 2: years in jail because he was already on probation. All right,
Speaker 2: now these are the facts. All these are facts. They're married,
Speaker 2: they got a child, he got a temper, he fight
Speaker 2: all the time. God complimented you while you was pregnant.
Speaker 2: He assaulted the guy and went to jail for almost
Speaker 2: three years because he was on probation. After this, this
Speaker 2: is when the letter takes a turn to where we
Speaker 2: just don't know why she stopped understanding while he was gone.
Speaker 8: I had the baby and I started dating that man
Speaker 8: that he beat up.
Speaker 2: For complimenting you. What compliment did he give you that
Speaker 2: made you go.
Speaker 16: Ooh?
Speaker 2: Soon as he go to jail, I got to see
Speaker 2: what he was talking about. Now I had the baby
Speaker 2: and I started dating that man. Did he beat up
Speaker 2: for compliment me. Then listen to this, y'all. I got
Speaker 2: pregnant by that man and had a son all while
Speaker 2: my husband was in jail subject of the letter. Why
Speaker 2: is he blaming it on me? The last line in
Speaker 2: the letter is he said, I'm the reason our marriage ended.
Speaker 2: He was in jail, So what did he expect me
Speaker 2: to do? Why is he blaming it on me? Because
Speaker 2: while he was in jail serving time, you got with
Speaker 2: the guy that complimented you. You had a son by
Speaker 2: this man all while he was in jail. You don't
Speaker 2: see that.
Speaker 1: Hang on, Steve, hang on.
Speaker 11: We'll have part two of your response coming up in
Speaker 11: twenty three minutes after today's Strawberry letter subject why is
Speaker 11: he blaming it on me?
Speaker 1: We'll get back into it right after this. You're listening
Speaker 1: to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
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Speaker 11: Let's recap today's strawberry letter. The subject is why is
Speaker 11: he blaming it on me?
Speaker 2: This is a letter that's written by a delusional woman
Speaker 2: who does not want to take responsibility for her actions.
Speaker 2: The name of the letters why is he blaming on me?
Speaker 2: Let's go, let's keep that theme in this letter. You
Speaker 2: thirty seven, your husband thirty eight. Y'all knew each other
Speaker 2: in high school. He's not a muscular guy, but he's
Speaker 2: fight all the time. He has a temper problem. Ten
Speaker 2: years after y'all graduate, y'all get together, y'all getting married.
Speaker 2: You get pregnant, so y'all get married. While you was pregnant,
Speaker 2: he assaulted a guy that complimented you while you was
Speaker 2: in full pregnancy, and he went to jail for almost
Speaker 2: three years because he was on probation. Now, just these
Speaker 2: are the only facts in the letter. After this, the
Speaker 2: letter just takes a nosedive. Now, while he was gone,
Speaker 2: I had the baby day baby, and then she started
Speaker 2: dating the man that he beat up for complimenting you.
Speaker 8: I got pregnant by that man and had a son.
Speaker 2: A is it three years, girl, because you just got
Speaker 2: the baby, got pregnant, had another one. I got pregnant
Speaker 2: by that man and had a son, all while.
Speaker 8: My husband was in jail. The name of this letter
Speaker 8: is why is he blaming on me?
Speaker 2: You don't see none of that. You don't You don't
Speaker 2: see what happened, why he was in jail. When he
Speaker 2: got out of jail, I did not ever tell him
Speaker 2: about the rendezvous with the other man and my son
Speaker 2: that the other man is raising. Surely made the best point.
Speaker 2: You don't see your son, you don't visit your son.
Speaker 2: You're just letting him raise him. What's happening here? My
Speaker 2: husband's attitude was a lot better, and we barely argued.
Speaker 2: Is that what jail do a lot of time? Jail
Speaker 2: worked for some people some people that don't. But most
Speaker 2: people I know that been to jail in prison, it
Speaker 2: worked ree herbilitating Now, is it the good system in prison?
Speaker 2: Absolutely not? Is it fair? Absolutely not of abuse? Yes
Speaker 2: it is, but some guys get out and sweat. I
Speaker 2: ain't never going back. Now, you got a high retention high.
Speaker 2: I don't know what. Yeah, that word right there, they
Speaker 2: got that high. People go back. Yeah, they're gonna do
Speaker 2: that licitis. I call it revisitism and they coming back.
Speaker 13: So uh.
Speaker 2: Our marriage was great until two months ago when my
Speaker 2: husband ran into the other child's father and son was
Speaker 2: with him. My son is my twin and everybody can
Speaker 2: see it, but no one has ever mentioned it. It
Speaker 2: was a rumor around town, but I guess everybody was
Speaker 2: too scared of my husband to mention it to him. Yeah,
Speaker 2: he just got out of jail. Fuck whooping. Somebody there
Speaker 2: made the people you want to try to see if
Speaker 2: the rehab has kicked in. My husband came home and
Speaker 2: asked me about the boy. Who's this little boy? He
Speaker 2: got he looked just like you. So I admitted everything
Speaker 2: to him. He was unusually calm, and he left the house.
Speaker 2: I called to see where it went, and he said
Speaker 2: he was outside the man's house. Now he's sitting out there,
Speaker 2: he thinking about it. I got scared, if down nine
Speaker 2: one one and rushed to the man's house. My husband
Speaker 2: wasn't there. I went home and he was sitting in
Speaker 2: the driveway crime. He said he didn't want to go
Speaker 2: back to jail, so it was best to leave me alone.
Speaker 2: So then your husband filed for divorce, moved out, and
Speaker 2: he said, you're the reason our marriage ended.
Speaker 1: He was in jail.
Speaker 2: What did you expect me to do? Why is he
Speaker 2: blaming it on me? This woman is so delusional. You
Speaker 2: are the reason that the marriage ended. He was in jail.
Speaker 2: But what did he expect you to do? Let me
Speaker 2: tell you what he didn't expect. He didn't expect you
Speaker 2: to start dating the man that he beat up. He
Speaker 2: didn't expect you to start dating him. He didn't expect
Speaker 2: you to get pregnant by the man that he beat up.
Speaker 2: He didn't expect you to have a baby by the
Speaker 2: man he beat up. He didn't expect to run up
Speaker 2: into the man outside after he had been home for
Speaker 2: two months. And then the boy looked just like you,
Speaker 2: So he come on to ask you about it. You
Speaker 2: admit to everything. Now all of a sudden, why is
Speaker 2: he blaming it on me? Did you know what you
Speaker 2: admitted to? Were you in the presence of your brain
Speaker 2: when you told him your baby while you was away
Speaker 2: for three years? We knew it was three years. But
Speaker 2: what you want me to do? I can't wait no
Speaker 2: three years and don't get no action. I got to
Speaker 2: get touched up. Can't sit up here and wait no
Speaker 2: three years on you and without getting touched up. And
Speaker 2: it got crazy one night and we ain't had nothing
Speaker 2: on it. Then I'm pregnant. You know how much I
Speaker 2: love kids. He's gonna sit up and ask me how
Speaker 2: this is my father? I love kids. So I went
Speaker 2: on to had this other baby, but I gave him
Speaker 2: to the daddy because I knew you was coming home.
Speaker 2: Why you run up into him somewhere? Where was you at?
Speaker 2: Where you running all up into people?
Speaker 3: But see, huh?
Speaker 1: Why this guy though? The guy that got it?
Speaker 2: The reason because of the compliment he gave her while
Speaker 2: she was pregnant. I don't know what he said.
Speaker 1: Yeah, what could he have said?
Speaker 2: Girl, girl girl? What's under all that stomach? I don't
Speaker 2: know what you could say to a pregnant woman to
Speaker 2: turn him off? Girl girl girl?
Speaker 8: What is under all that stomach?
Speaker 1: What your comment on today?
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Speaker 1: It is time now for Junior and Sports Talk. Junior,
Speaker 1: what do you have?
Speaker 12: Well, you know unk you've been going. I know you've
Speaker 12: missed some things. Let me ask you how you felt
Speaker 12: about some of these things that have happened. First of all,
Speaker 12: how do you feel about Lebron James going to Philly
Speaker 12: and not to Cleveland, not to Miami, and not to Milwaukee.
Speaker 4: How did you feel when you heard the news?
Speaker 2: And what was you doing? I was stunned, really, I
Speaker 2: was completely stunned. Then he went to Philly. I knew
Speaker 2: he was going back to Cleveland. Oh oh man, Yeah,
Speaker 2: I knew it, y'all. I mean, you know it's his business.
Speaker 2: Is me and Lebron friends? We've never been friends. I
Speaker 2: don't have his number, nothing like that. Well, we are
Speaker 2: cool when I seen. I'm a fan of his. You know,
Speaker 2: I think he's had the greatest career of all time,
Speaker 2: you know, And I hope when he get in Philly,
Speaker 2: I hope they die dogs. You know what happened?
Speaker 1: Yeah, he heard Cleveland.
Speaker 8: Yeah, go to Cleveland. So so what what you want
Speaker 8: me to feel?
Speaker 9: Now?
Speaker 8: I'm signed w d AS and I know y'all overjoy.
Speaker 1: Yes they are, but not going to Cleveland championship.
Speaker 4: He said they hope they die.
Speaker 2: Dog's death job depth.
Speaker 12: Okay, all right, I'm talking to me about this the
Speaker 12: quarterback controversy in Cleveland. Speaking of Cleveland between Deshaun Watson
Speaker 12: and sha Door Sanders, do you feel we should move
Speaker 12: off from Deshaun and say he may be QB one
Speaker 12: or they're gonna have it in the open competition?
Speaker 4: It could be your door. Which one would you prefer?
Speaker 4: How do you feel about this?
Speaker 2: I don't know, man. I just want to win some games,
Speaker 2: you know. I thought I could complete some passes, I go.
Speaker 2: I just want some wins.
Speaker 8: I've never met neither one of them. I've never met
Speaker 8: neither one of them. Yeah, but I am dear friends,
Speaker 8: which should do us?
Speaker 2: Father? Yeah, and Prime chop it up all the time.
Speaker 2: So I'm pulling for should do it, especially for the
Speaker 2: way they did it. So I'm pulling for him. But
Speaker 2: if Deshaun Watson still has it, then let's have it, Okay.
Speaker 2: But I think here's what I think is going to happen.
Speaker 2: What I would prefer that they do is just going
Speaker 2: and give should do it a wheel from the outgo.
Speaker 2: But I don't think that's what they're gonna do. They
Speaker 2: got to try to get something out of this contract.
Speaker 2: Football is a business. They can't trade DeShawn. Don't nobody
Speaker 2: want that contract.
Speaker 1: Congratulations to Lebron, you know, I.
Speaker 8: Mean congratulations and all that, but you know, y'all ain't.
Speaker 1: Gonna all right.
Speaker 3: Thank you.
Speaker 11: Coming up at the top of the how a woman
Speaker 11: on social media needs some advice, she says three dates
Speaker 11: were three too many. We'll talk about it right after this.
Speaker 11: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show Shannon and
Speaker 11: Steve Harvey FM.
Speaker 3: Wright.
Speaker 11: I've been married for just over two years, and last
Speaker 11: week I found out my husband had recently gone to
Speaker 11: dinner with another woman. When I confronted him, he admitted
Speaker 11: he's gone out with her three times, but insisted nothing
Speaker 11: physical ever happened.
Speaker 1: He says they were just quote dinners.
Speaker 11: And that he never planned for it to go any further,
Speaker 11: not that it matters, but he also said that the
Speaker 11: woman had no idea he was married. I packed a
Speaker 11: bag that night, moved back in with my parents, and
Speaker 11: even met with a lawyer. My husband says I never
Speaker 11: even gave him a chance to make things right. But
Speaker 11: the way I see it, he didn't accidentally end up
Speaker 11: on three dinner dates with someone who thought he was single.
Speaker 11: We have no children. Am I overreacting by wanting to
Speaker 11: end my marriage over this?
Speaker 2: Well, it's not an overreaction. Here's here's the problem that
Speaker 2: he created for himself. This is where the unbelievability, this
Speaker 2: is where the unbelievability factor comes into play. You go
Speaker 2: on three dates me and don't do anything for no reason.
Speaker 2: So three dates looking for that three dayoff for no reason.
Speaker 2: They was just dennis, I had no intention. But then
Speaker 2: you ain't telling you was married. That's where the that's
Speaker 2: where the coin toss come here at you know, if
Speaker 2: it didn't mean nothing, Hey, I enjoy your company. I'm married,
Speaker 2: you know, I just really want to have company and
Speaker 2: have some dinner with you. He didn't tell her she
Speaker 2: was married, and now we're on the third date.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but married people don't even do this.
Speaker 8: I mean, I mean I know they do, but married
Speaker 8: people don't do what.
Speaker 1: Yeah date three dates with a woman? I mean I
Speaker 1: know they do. I mean I know they do. But
Speaker 1: come on, now he's dating and he's married.
Speaker 2: But you know, like the reason you don't tell him
Speaker 2: you married is so that they can act towards you
Speaker 2: as they would if you were single. So hopefully after
Speaker 2: one of the dates, she's gonna go, hey, you want
Speaker 2: to come over? Hm, exactly, and then I can assure
Speaker 2: you when she says, Hey, you want to come over.
Speaker 2: He won't say I'm married something to tell you.
Speaker 8: He might get over there when they get finished.
Speaker 2: Yeah, tell yourself.
Speaker 4: I feel bad.
Speaker 2: They'll tell you that, but he ain't gonna tell you
Speaker 2: be photo.
Speaker 1: So the wife is right. Yeah, one hundred pers red flags.
Speaker 5: And he didn't.
Speaker 2: He said, you didn't give me a chance to make
Speaker 2: it right? Make what right?
Speaker 1: What you want me to get you to trade? Yeah,
Speaker 1: you should have thought.
Speaker 2: About that, y'all. Ain't got no kids, y'all, you.
Speaker 11: Can go ahead on yeah, yeah, okay, yeah, No dating
Speaker 11: while marriage unless you're dating your spouse. What in the
Speaker 11: world no dating during marriage? I mean, this is craziness. Okay,
Speaker 11: we have time for another one, Steve. This is from
Speaker 11: Luke on Steve Harvey FM. Luke says, one of my
Speaker 11: best friends is getting married in six months and he's
Speaker 11: putting the word out that he's looking for groomsmen. There's
Speaker 11: a catch, though. He wants his bachelor party to be
Speaker 11: a week long event, meaning that in order to be
Speaker 11: a groomsman. Groomsman, you need to commit to taking a
Speaker 11: week of vacation from work. I can't justify taking a
Speaker 11: week of vacation away from my wife and kids so
Speaker 11: I can go on a one week adventure with my boys.
Speaker 11: How do I tell my homeboys stop tripping? And he's
Speaker 11: doing too much?
Speaker 2: Yeah he is. Because if a guy got a family
Speaker 2: and he gets a weak vacation, how you going there
Speaker 2: and tell your wife we ain't going on vacation this year.
Speaker 2: I'm gonna do a week long with my boy just
Speaker 2: to just say nothing, all y'all. Finn to get a divorce. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 2: you know. And he is tripping and that's too much,
Speaker 2: and and but he's soliciting grooms though. Yeah, no, man,
Speaker 2: you need to your wedding should be in your freeing group. Man,
Speaker 2: you need to and dog, no man gets to do
Speaker 2: a whole week of you get one night doog all
Speaker 2: week and that's now. Now we gotta get this tuks.
Speaker 2: We gotta pay for this trip. We gotta be down
Speaker 2: here for man.
Speaker 1: No, it's a note for you. Steve. All right, thank you.
Speaker 1: We'll have more of the Steve.
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Speaker 11: wide primary, Michigan state wide primary, Missouri state White Primary,
Speaker 11: Virginia State White Primary, and Washington state wide primary. And
Speaker 11: on Thursday, this coming Thursday, it's Tennessee's primary. Remember the
Speaker 11: midterm elections are about ninety one days away, that's what
Speaker 11: three months from now, So have your voting plan together.
Speaker 11: Start getting it together now. If you don't or get
Speaker 11: registered to vote. Remember there are thirty three Senate seats
Speaker 11: on the ballot and all four hundred and thirty five
Speaker 11: House of Representative seats. Okay, so we really have to
Speaker 11: be involved for this midterm election coming up. And it's just,
Speaker 11: like like I said, ninety one days away. That seems
Speaker 11: like a lot of time.
Speaker 2: But want to do is start now with the right
Speaker 2: website to send everybody too so they can get real
Speaker 2: voting information to make sure they're register because you know,
Speaker 2: these disadministrators are doing everything.
Speaker 8: They're trying to knock out mail in voting.
Speaker 2: They're trying to knock down the ballot boxes, they're trying
Speaker 2: to knock down ballid drop off places, they trying to
Speaker 2: do it. They district can. They're doing everything man to
Speaker 2: make us ivalid because this guy wants to run a
Speaker 2: third time.
Speaker 13: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, you're right. But we got to
Speaker 13: get out and vote this November for the midterms. That's
Speaker 13: where it starts.
Speaker 1: Yeah, start your plans now.
Speaker 11: That's right, all right, coming up, we'll play around it.
Speaker 11: Would you rather? Right after this, you're listening to the
Speaker 11: Steve Harvey Morning Show. Spending time outdoors and let's talk
Speaker 11: about skin cancer. Non melanoma skin cancers, or nmscs, including
Speaker 11: basil cell carcinoma and cutaneous squamous cell carcinoma, are the
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Speaker 11: dot com. It is time now for a round of
Speaker 11: would you rather? Would you rather have crumbs in your
Speaker 11: bed or pebbles in your shoes for the next ninety days.
Speaker 2: No, we're gonna go and take them crumbs in. That's
Speaker 2: a hard sleep.
Speaker 6: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Uh huh, especially if you have to wear heels. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you know all right.
Speaker 11: Would you rather sleep with someone on the first date
Speaker 11: or would you rather wait a whole year.
Speaker 1: To sleep with them?
Speaker 4: Well, it's going to be the first date. I'd rather
Speaker 4: do that.
Speaker 1: Reit some on the first day.
Speaker 4: Yeah, the way the whole year?
Speaker 6: Yeah?
Speaker 1: Well you know why?
Speaker 4: Well, you know, I wait a whole year, I might
Speaker 4: be in hospital. I can't wait that long, might do
Speaker 4: I'm healthy.
Speaker 10: I'm here any way, I'm sitting up here waiting then,
Speaker 10: you know, for November.
Speaker 4: I can't do that. I'll be in there. I'm healthy.
Speaker 4: Now let's do different.
Speaker 8: Now, you gotta get yours here right now, right now?
Speaker 11: Okay, junior, I'm sorry. I apologize beforehand. Would you rather
Speaker 11: have a receding hairline or would you just rather cut
Speaker 11: it all off and be bald again?
Speaker 2: Well that said, so that's a one man decision on
Speaker 2: this was right here, I.
Speaker 1: Apologize and you would you would do this over the day?
Speaker 10: He do come back, he would, saying right in front
Speaker 10: of him, you know, I'm gonna come on.
Speaker 6: I'm just.
Speaker 1: My hand's fine.
Speaker 4: I don't know what y'all be looking at.
Speaker 14: It.
Speaker 2: No, it's not fine.
Speaker 8: And you don't know where we looking at. We don't
Speaker 8: know where you ain't looking talking about your hands. Fine,
Speaker 8: I come back to work and.
Speaker 2: You still ain't cut your hair. I just knew when
Speaker 2: I came back. I said, you know what, now that
Speaker 2: Jillian head by Now, oh man, I come back. He
Speaker 2: still got that little oh.
Speaker 10: Ahead, Sure, that's not even what I'm saying, unk is
Speaker 10: that I have I why is it bald?
Speaker 4: I have a right to keep my hair. I think
Speaker 4: my hair is fine.
Speaker 12: No, just because you say you want me to go ball,
Speaker 12: I'm gonna be I should go ball, I should should should.
Speaker 2: Keep No no, no, no, no, no, no, no no no,
Speaker 2: I'm not saying you should go ball.
Speaker 8: You are going.
Speaker 1: Let's be clear the hell you.
Speaker 2: Mean I'm saying this is not a conversation. This ain't
Speaker 2: cause I'm talking about it makes it so Yeah, talking
Speaker 2: about just because you're saying I'm a alone, got me
Speaker 2: saying nothing.
Speaker 8: This is az on the target and the target.
Speaker 4: Wow, he just came back.
Speaker 1: All right, I'm gonna say that's today's round them. Would
Speaker 1: you rather coming up next? We'll close out the show
Speaker 1: because it is our last break of the day. Steve
Speaker 1: Harvey's closing remarks, I do right to this Ti female
Speaker 1: hus a game here, Joa King?
Speaker 6: What I thought it? Your boy, big snoop dog.
Speaker 7: And you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
Speaker 11: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Spending time
Speaker 11: outdoors And let's talk about skin cancer. Non melanoma skin cancers,
Speaker 11: or n m scs, including basil cell carcinoma and cutaneous
Speaker 11: squamous cell carcinoma, are the most common cancers in the
Speaker 11: US and can become harder to treat if left undetected.
Speaker 11: That's why sun protection and timely detection matter. Our sponsor, Regeneron,
Speaker 11: is raising awareness about advanced n m s c s.
Speaker 11: Learn more and take the pledge to see a dermatologists
Speaker 11: annually at Let's get real about skin cancer dot com.
Speaker 11: Here we are our last break of the day. Steve
Speaker 11: Harvey is back. We've had a great day. Yeah, yep,
Speaker 11: you were missed, Steve, you were missed, you were missed.
Speaker 1: Glad you're back.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm glad. I'm back. Yeah, I'm back.
Speaker 1: Like you know what Cadillac seats? What suits?
Speaker 6: Yeah?
Speaker 2: Now, like Junior's hairline.
Speaker 4: Yeah, anything back to normal.
Speaker 3: Man, I turned.
Speaker 2: Somebody got to keep your focused. I go away and
Speaker 2: you do real good on the radio. Don't nobody mention
Speaker 2: your hairline? Because I just knew when we came back,
Speaker 2: I said, sure, we're gonna have a haircut off I
Speaker 2: get back. I said, you know, I'm looking forward to
Speaker 2: getting back. You're gonna have a bad head. And but
Speaker 2: then you know, he was out there Raheem devon concert
Speaker 2: and people was complimenting you. You know, I don't know
Speaker 2: what you're talking about. Your hair look fine. Obviously they
Speaker 2: short it in him. No way you could see what
Speaker 2: I see and not realize there is a problem.
Speaker 1: There is no way.
Speaker 8: From this view up here that you.
Speaker 2: Don't recognize the problem. I want to say a couple
Speaker 2: of things in my clothes, remarks that I wasn't able
Speaker 2: to say because I've been going away, the passing of
Speaker 2: some old friends of mine. There's a couple uh Doctor
Speaker 2: Melanie Macklin who used to be a correspond on this
Speaker 2: show for skincare for Health and Beauty. She had a
Speaker 2: brand called Bellinutrie that I've used, very very good products.
Speaker 2: I just since I wasn't here, I wasn't able to
Speaker 2: do this, but now I'm back. I want to say
Speaker 2: condolences to her, her family, her husband, her daughter, who
Speaker 2: graduated from Howard. She was a Howard University graduate. She
Speaker 2: was also a proud member of AKA and just a
Speaker 2: super dope person, man, I mean a super dope person.
Speaker 2: Her husband actually text me the morning that she passed
Speaker 2: and just wanted to let you know, man, my queen
Speaker 2: has gone on to see the Lord. And it threw
Speaker 2: me because I went like, Wow, that really really threw me, man,
Speaker 2: because she was such a kind person. I knew. I
Speaker 2: didn't know anything about her illness or nothing, so I'm
Speaker 2: assuming it was sudden. But what a sweetheart of a person.
Speaker 3: Man.
Speaker 2: I met them when I was performing at Dark Constitution
Speaker 2: Hall in DC one night and they just came backstage
Speaker 2: and we stayed cool every since. And just so a
Speaker 2: bright woman, man, Just such a I mean a glowing personality.
Speaker 6: Man.
Speaker 2: Doctor Melanie Macklin from Howard University and AKA passed away,
Speaker 2: and that really that really bothered me. So I wanted
Speaker 2: to come back on the radio and say something about
Speaker 2: her and condolences to her and her family. She had
Speaker 2: a beautiful daughter, everything, man, So I know it's tough,
Speaker 2: and I have no words except to just keep talking
Speaker 2: to God. God can get you through anything. The second
Speaker 2: thing that I wanted to say was the passing of
Speaker 2: Minister Lewis Farrakahn's wife, mother khadizah Or, who I've met
Speaker 2: several times at their ranch, who I met several times
Speaker 2: in La sitting in hotel rooms, spend a lot of
Speaker 2: time talking at the hospital once. What a wonderful, wonderful woman,
Speaker 2: mother Khadiza was. She was the wife of Minister Lewis
Speaker 2: fair Khan. What an incredibly wonderful woman this was. You know,
Speaker 2: you can't you can't understand how important a wife or
Speaker 2: a woman is to a person like that, a man
Speaker 2: with this magnitude, this much of a public figure. That
Speaker 2: woman is so critical. Man. She was just a really
Speaker 2: really kind person, man, really kind person. She was the
Speaker 2: only person that I knew could make him do something.
Speaker 2: It was so funny, man, I'd be sitting with such
Speaker 2: a powerful man listening to him, and she'll go, she'll
Speaker 2: lean over, go We're not gonna do that, and then
Speaker 2: he'll just go, okay, baby. It was just amazing to
Speaker 2: watch how she was and her so I knew him.
Speaker 2: I was the closest with Musta for soul, I knew
Speaker 2: the other ones. You know, I'm not gonna call you
Speaker 2: by name, but all of y'all, man, condolences to everybody
Speaker 2: in the Nation of Islam who suffered his loss, but
Speaker 2: especially to my brother Minister Lewis Farha Khan. I just
Speaker 2: wanted to say I've been off the air, and I
Speaker 2: didn't get a chance to say it. But when I
Speaker 2: came back, I wanted to make sure. I wanted to
Speaker 2: say deepest condolences to one of the most beautiful souls
Speaker 2: I've ever met. I mean, this woman was a beautiful soul.
Speaker 2: Man they called the mother Khadesion. I did too, So
Speaker 2: I just wanted to say condolences to them. And so
Speaker 2: those are the two things I wanted to pay tribute
Speaker 2: to when I came back. Also want to mention man
Speaker 2: that we have got to get ourselves together on the
Speaker 2: front line over here. Our culture is under attack, our
Speaker 2: whole existence in this country is under attack. All of
Speaker 2: the strides we've made is under attack, and we've got
Speaker 2: to be conscious, man, of what this administration really is
Speaker 2: towards us and to all people. Because I don't understand
Speaker 2: latinos for Trump. I don't understand blacks for Trump. If
Speaker 2: you could tell me why you are black for Trump,
Speaker 2: please call the show and explain to me. And if
Speaker 2: you're an a Latino for Trump, could you please call
Speaker 2: the show and explain it to me. Tell me what
Speaker 2: good this man is doing for you in any capacity
Speaker 2: so I can understand how you feel what you feel.
Speaker 2: I just wanted to say that. So we've got to
Speaker 2: get on point with this voting. We have a chance
Speaker 2: to bring back some control in the Senate and the House,
Speaker 2: and we got to get the voting man. It's the
Speaker 2: only real chance. Hey man, I'm.
Speaker 8: Back return of the MAC. Y'all feel good about yourself.
Speaker 1: Talk to God today.
Speaker 2: You'd absolutely love to hear from you.
Speaker 8: Junioryard hanging that boy hanging there.
Speaker 2: Because it ain't.
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