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Speaker 2: Lauren is on the phone for a first date follow

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Speaker 2: up and she's getting ghosted by a dude named Jackson. Lauren,

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Speaker 2: before we get into all the details of your date,

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Speaker 2: how long has it been since you heard from Jackson?

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Speaker 3: At this point, it's been two weeks?

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Speaker 2: Two weeks?

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Speaker 4: Okay, scale of one to ten. How hot is Jackson?

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Speaker 4: Because I've never seen a not hot Jackson.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, that's the thing he is.

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Speaker 1: He is hot, and that's why I'm also disappointed.

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Speaker 4: Okay, write that part up, my bad.

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Speaker 5: Let's hear about it. Lauren, How did you meet Jackson?

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Speaker 2: What was the date?

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Speaker 4: Like?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean the day was nice to much a

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Speaker 1: restaurant you had an advertiser than our meal, and I

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Speaker 1: thought we had a really good time. I mean we

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Speaker 1: both have like similar hobbies and like are very healthy

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Speaker 1: and fitness oriented and like have a passion for that.

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Speaker 3: So that's always nice.

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Speaker 1: You know, like if one person and is like only

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Speaker 1: eat steak and fries and the other person eats salad,

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Speaker 1: making dinner can be challenging, so it's just nice to

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Speaker 1: have similar Bostons and things to do together. I just

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Speaker 1: really can't figure out what's happening, and like why I'm

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Speaker 1: being ghosted.

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Speaker 5: Is there anything that happened on the date that you

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Speaker 5: can think of?

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Speaker 6: I'm thinking maybe there's something that I said, because like

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Speaker 6: I mentioned that I was a nurse and he said

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Speaker 6: his sister is a nurse, and like maybe he was

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Speaker 6: worried that we'd be connected, or he wants someone that

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Speaker 6: like doesn't have like a connection to his sister and

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Speaker 6: his family.

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Speaker 3: I don't I'm not really sure.

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Speaker 4: How did your date end? Like, did you guys kiss?

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Speaker 4: Was there tension?

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Speaker 3: I mean, yeah, I'm really kissed.

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Speaker 1: There was no tension, Like the conversation flowed and we

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Speaker 1: have we had a lot of fun from what I got.

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Speaker 3: And again I guess here, so I.

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Speaker 4: Guess I was talking more about like that physical attraction tension,

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Speaker 4: you know what I mean, like you just wanted each

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Speaker 4: other and like could tell.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean I definitely think it was there. Maybe

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Speaker 1: he was being polite or but you know, we just kissed.

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Speaker 1: There wasn't anything more.

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Speaker 5: So did he say he was going to call you?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: He said he was call He said he was just Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that was a nice date, Like, that's it.

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Speaker 3: So I assumed there would.

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Speaker 4: Be a call.

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Speaker 2: She just said, yeah, that was a nice date.

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Speaker 5: Yeah it doesn't.

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Speaker 2: Sound super romantic. Y if I'm being honest, Laura.

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Speaker 4: But that is mixed messaging. Yeah, that wasn't a good date.

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Speaker 4: And then let me make out you real quick. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: I mean still he did. Yeah, you guys did kiss

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Speaker 4: and stuff right, Oh yeah, okay, and now it's been

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Speaker 4: two weeks. Oh, I mean I would want to know

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Speaker 4: what happened, wouldn't you.

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Speaker 5: I would too. I mean I probably forget, but okay,

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Speaker 5: I wouldn't.

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Speaker 1: It just really seemed like he was just like the

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Speaker 1: conversation flowed. He asked questions, I asked questions. He was like, yay,

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Speaker 1: I'm out the buck, like even shears sharing like vulnerable

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Speaker 1: things about challenges. He stay this here with his job

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Speaker 1: and like how you overcame them? And it was really

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Speaker 1: like honest and a nice conversation. So so yeah, we

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Speaker 1: both love the hype and both really enjoy like working

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Speaker 1: out in the mornings. Like he was like, yeah, I'm

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Speaker 1: an early bird and I love working out in the morning.

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Speaker 1: And I was like me too, because like, you know,

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Speaker 3: That's just like not gonna work.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it was just like those little things that oh, okay,

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Speaker 1: all they compatible.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, well, we'll see if we can figure out for you.

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Speaker 2: Then we'll play us on come back, call him and

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Speaker 2: see if you'll tell us why he's ghosting you, and

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Speaker 2: then maybe get you another day if you still want it.

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Speaker 3: Okay, that would be great, thank you.

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Speaker 2: All right, we'll get your first day follow up right

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Speaker 2: after this. Right in the middle of your first day

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Speaker 2: follow up if you're just joining us. Lauren is on

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Speaker 2: the phone and she's getting ghosted by a dude named Jackson.

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Speaker 2: So we're about to call him and see if he'll

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Speaker 2: tell us why he's ghosting her and maybe get her

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Speaker 2: another date if she's still interested. After she hears the reason,

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Speaker 2: and before we call him, Lauren, why don't you refresh

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Speaker 2: everybody's memory and tell him about your time with Jackson.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, we have a lovely time.

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Speaker 1: We had a lot in common, like both really love fitness,

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Speaker 1: like both.

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Speaker 3: Work out in the morning. He's a early bird, eat healthy.

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Speaker 1: You know.

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Speaker 3: We had we had a really nice date and he

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Speaker 3: said that he had a.

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Speaker 1: Nice time so I figured it out, you're back, and

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Speaker 1: then it's been two weeks.

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Speaker 3: And I haven't heart back.

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Speaker 2: All right, cool, Well we're about to call him right

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Speaker 2: now and see if we can figure figure it out

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Speaker 2: for you, maybe get you another date. Here we go, Hi,

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Speaker 2: I speak to Jackson. Please, Hey man, what's up? How

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Speaker 2: are you? My name is Jewbel from a radio show

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Speaker 2: called The jubilsh The Jubile.

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Speaker 4: Show has a few people on it. By the way,

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Speaker 4: I'm Nina and I'm one of those people.

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Speaker 1: Hi.

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Speaker 5: Hi, I'm Victoria. I'm another one of those what's up?

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Speaker 7: Not so much. I'm just a little, a little starstruck.

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Speaker 7: I love the show.

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Speaker 2: Oh all right, well, thank you man. Have you ever

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Speaker 2: heard her first day follow up before? I have?

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Speaker 7: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: What do you think of them?

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Speaker 7: And I'm assuming I'm in.

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Speaker 2: One now Jackson, we got an email about you, man.

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Speaker 7: From Lauren.

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Speaker 2: What'd you do, jack, Yes, it's from Lauren.

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Speaker 7: I figured it was the.

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Speaker 8: Last date I was on, so yeah, So what did

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Speaker 8: what did Lauren have to say?

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Speaker 4: Well, she had a great time, Jackson. She said, you

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Speaker 4: guys even had a nice little kiss at the end.

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Speaker 4: You guys like to work out and stuff. But she's

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Speaker 4: kind of confused. Why haven't you hit her up?

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Speaker 7: Yeah? She was right. The date was great, very conversational.

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Speaker 8: She's beautiful both inside and out, which is important. She's

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Speaker 8: a really good person. She's a nurse. I got a

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Speaker 8: We got to talk a little bit about that. So

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Speaker 8: here's where things kind of broke down for me. We

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Speaker 8: went to a nice restaurant, not a super nice restaurant,

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Speaker 8: and we go to order and she orders off the

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Speaker 8: kids meal and she's ordered chicken fingers and fries. And

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Speaker 8: she had talked about how health conscious she was and

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Speaker 8: maybe maybe she's not as health conscious, and I kind

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Speaker 8: of need someone who's health conscious of the cheat meal.

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Speaker 4: I'm just saying, you're gonna chicken finger shame this girl

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Speaker 4: sometimes the girls her chicken fingers and fries.

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Speaker 2: I never heard of chicken finger shaming before, but I

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Speaker 7: Yeah, No it's not. I mean, I'm not trying to

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Speaker 8: Part of me is like, if you're gonna cheat, cheat

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Speaker 8: with something good chicken fingers and fries, and like you're

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Speaker 8: a nice restaurant, I'm sure they have some really good

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Speaker 8: chees chicken fingers, and it's all fried food. And if

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Speaker 7: I can't. It has taken way too long for me

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Speaker 7: to get into shape. I grew up a really big kid.

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Speaker 8: I was a really big adult for a long time,

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Speaker 7: I'm five to six, so that's that's huge.

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Speaker 8: And now I've had to really cut out everything for help,

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Speaker 4: Right or a former smoker and all that kind of stuff.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, I can't be around that because then I will

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Speaker 8: and I just can't.

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Speaker 2: You liked her, though, I did.

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Speaker 7: She was a really cool person.

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Speaker 2: Like one time with the chicken fingers, you don't want

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Speaker 8: A one time thing, you know, she's like, no, this

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Speaker 8: And and and that's my bad for not conveying or

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Speaker 7: I just I just kind of panicked.

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Speaker 2: Well, well let's see, let's talk to her about it,

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Speaker 7: Oh yeah, hi, oh yeah, yeah, of course she is.

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Speaker 3: Hi.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, So seriously, you're ghosting me because I have like

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Speaker 3: I don't have a cheatmail often, and maybe I should.

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Speaker 1: Have qualified it, but like, yeah, chicken fingers is something

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Speaker 1: and this is like the first time in two weeks.

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Speaker 3: I get it.

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Speaker 8: You have your.

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Speaker 1: Background and your history and you're careful and you don't

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Speaker 1: want to go down to the very slope.

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Speaker 3: But like, why you didn't even give me a chance

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Speaker 3: to clain myself. You just like mixed me.

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Speaker 8: No, And you're absolutely right, to be fair. I didn't

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Speaker 8: know it was a cheap meal and you know it's

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Speaker 8: a date.

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Speaker 7: I don't.

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Speaker 8: I don't know. I just thought, and you're right, you're right.

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Speaker 8: I should have I should have asked. I should have

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Speaker 8: I should have kept talking.

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Speaker 1: I shouldn't have to explain myself, like on what I'm ordering.

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Speaker 1: I'm I'm not asking antonomy.

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Speaker 7: You're You're absolutely right.

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Speaker 8: But I don't have to explain to you why I

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Speaker 8: don't want to be with somebody who's going to eat

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Speaker 9: but you should like clarify at least sure, But if

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Speaker 8: I don't like guns. I don't like that, and somebody is.

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Speaker 8: I find somebody who dates, they don't have to justify

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Speaker 8: be a part of that, So you don't. You're right,

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Speaker 8: You're absolutely right. You don't have to justify. You don't

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Speaker 8: have to say anything explain to why you eat.

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Speaker 2: You just compare the hunter to a chicken finger eater.

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Speaker 7: It's the same point.

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Speaker 5: Well, why didn't you at least extra back then? And

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Speaker 5: they say hey, man, Like I'm not the chicken finger style,

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Speaker 5: like I can't.

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Speaker 7: Honestly, I just or like clarify like this.

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Speaker 1: You mentioned that you're into health and business. Is just

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Speaker 1: how but like I'm a little.

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Speaker 6: Confused you had ordered chicken fingers.

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Speaker 1: Like I really do like new clarify Like I noticed

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Speaker 1: you ordered to Is that normally howat?

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Speaker 7: Or is that where you like.

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Speaker 3: Having a little cheat meal. I guess I would have

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Speaker 3: gotten a little more think more luxurious.

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Speaker 7: You're right I should have.

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Speaker 8: I'm admitting I messed up on how I handled it,

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Speaker 8: but I did.

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Speaker 3: I feel very tossed, like something so small.

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Speaker 8: This was a one date. This wasn't like we're dating

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Speaker 8: for six months and I'm like, you know what you have?

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Speaker 8: Chicken fingers were out you have?

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Speaker 6: I know?

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Speaker 2: So yeah, that one time on a first date is

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Speaker 2: I mean, you're allowed to choose however you need to.

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Speaker 4: I guess it's just does feel a little silly, especially

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Speaker 4: since you said she was so wonderful and beautiful and

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Speaker 4: all of those things that feel like they would outweigh

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Speaker 4: a chicken fingers And.

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Speaker 7: See, you guys are making it about the chicken fingers

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Speaker 7: and fries. It's not about the chicken fingers and fries

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Speaker 7: for me.

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Speaker 2: It's about the one time if you've ever.

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Speaker 4: Had if that was the one time saying I mean,

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Speaker 4: he's right, we're being a little bit hard on him,

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Speaker 4: especially since that is a big hard note for him.

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Speaker 2: That's fine.

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Speaker 4: No, Lauren, are you willing not to eat chicken fingers

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Speaker 4: around this guy? Or do you want to live your

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Speaker 4: life how you want to?

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Speaker 3: Absolutely you are. I can respect that.

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Speaker 1: It's just I wish I would have known, and so like,

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Speaker 1: maybe moving forward we have more conversation.

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Speaker 2: Jackson, would you like to go on another day with Lauren?

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Speaker 2: Will pay for it?

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Speaker 7: I would love it. I would love it.

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Speaker 8: If you want to give me a second opportunity to

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Speaker 8: communicate better, that'd be great.

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Speaker 1: I uh yeah, Well, and I will keep my salad

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Speaker 1: with you and my chicken fingers on my own, all right.

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Speaker 2: Congratulations. Jule's first date follow up