Speaker 1: How from Danny?
Speaker 2: Hello?
Speaker 3: Hello, is this this is Danny?
Speaker 2: Do you know bro?
Speaker 3: Have we ever spoken before?
Speaker 2: Negative?
Speaker 3: What's you seem like? A You seem like a quirky
Speaker 3: little guy. What's up?
Speaker 1: Man? Oh?
Speaker 2: That's totally meaning I'm always alive with the party.
Speaker 3: Yeah, you seem like you came armed with some ship
Speaker 3: hit me perfect. All right.
Speaker 2: So here's my little dilemmo. So I've been a single
Speaker 2: for her about what three years now within a seven
Speaker 2: year relationship. Pretty much got cheated out of that one
Speaker 2: how to ediblest company whatever sold out? Besides the point
Speaker 2: right now, I work for a medical practice and that's
Speaker 2: just one of the co workers. She is very, very beautiful,
Speaker 2: right like top to bottom, very very nice girl, going
Speaker 2: to a nursing school and everything on that story right now.
Speaker 4: Uh.
Speaker 2: Anyways, me and her really click it off. But I
Speaker 2: have this thing where don't shit where you eat. Kind
Speaker 2: of did that in my job in in Las Vegas
Speaker 2: and that kind of went hell to the left. Anyways,
Speaker 2: So my dilemma right now is she's kind of like
Speaker 2: my work wife and I'm like her work husband type
Speaker 2: of situation. She's in a relationship, her parents come to
Speaker 2: the office every so often, very hispanic. Everybody's like kind
Speaker 2: of knows each other, et cetera, and so forth. Well,
Speaker 2: her parents desfides her current boyfriend. Her mom just loves
Speaker 2: me from every time that she comes to the office.
Speaker 2: But my ex, that's kind of how me and her
Speaker 2: got together for those seven years. She was kind of
Speaker 2: like in a bad relationship, and I just kind of
Speaker 2: gave her the ultimatum, was like, hey, you kind of
Speaker 2: see how I'm treating you. You kind of do appreciate that.
Speaker 2: So it's like, pick either him or me. She obviously
Speaker 2: decided to pick me. We were together for seven years.
Speaker 2: But yeah, that's kind of like I have like PTSD
Speaker 2: of like doing that all over again. So kind of
Speaker 2: need your input on that.
Speaker 3: When you what do you mean by you have PTSD
Speaker 3: from doing that? Was that? Was that that experience?
Speaker 2: Sorry? What was that meant?
Speaker 3: Go ahead? Where do you say?
Speaker 2: Can you repeat your question?
Speaker 3: Uh? You said you had PTSD, and I'm like a
Speaker 3: horrible experience for you.
Speaker 2: Not not really PTSD. I'm just kind of like scared
Speaker 2: of doing the same thing as I did with my ex,
Speaker 2: of like getting with somebody while they're with somebody else
Speaker 2: and then like you know, expecting you know, sunshines and
Speaker 2: rainbows and ship when right.
Speaker 3: People, So you have you there's there's multiple points of
Speaker 3: contention in in in this this potential whatever you want
Speaker 3: to call it, this this potential h pursuit, I mean
Speaker 3: being unfortunately, Uh and it's well, it's funny like it's
Speaker 3: nice that this girl's mom likes you, but unfortunately she
Speaker 3: can't swap her daughter's boyfriends on her behalf.
Speaker 2: Yeah. No, of course, totally understand what you're saying. But yeah,
Speaker 2: it's just yeah.
Speaker 3: Are you are you? Are you like in are you
Speaker 3: madly in love with this girl or you just think
Speaker 3: she's very pretty?
Speaker 2: No, but I can definitely see myself having a future
Speaker 2: with this person, Like I can definitely see myself growing
Speaker 2: old and having like a family. Kept the situation with her.
Speaker 3: You said, you said, no, I don't love this person,
Speaker 3: but I can see myself growing old and starting a
Speaker 3: family with them. Yeah, well, you know, how I can
Speaker 3: I ask you a question? Can ask you a question?
Speaker 3: I can I ask you a question?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 3: How many? How many girls a day? Are you imagining
Speaker 3: that you're going to grow old and have a family
Speaker 3: with Are you on the subway starting families with everyone.
Speaker 2: You see, I've only been in one serious relationship. I'm
Speaker 2: thirty two years old. And like, as far as like
Speaker 2: women I'm.
Speaker 3: Talking about, I'm just talking about as you go through
Speaker 3: your day and oh, you know look at typles.
Speaker 2: No, just pretty much as far as like relationship whise,
Speaker 2: She's probably the only person that has come into my
Speaker 2: head about those type of things.
Speaker 3: But yet you you've what does what does work wife mean?
Speaker 3: What does that even really mean?
Speaker 2: Uh, You're gonna have to help me on like explain
Speaker 2: that and to like what are you trying to refer to.
Speaker 3: You're the one that brought it up, man, when you
Speaker 3: say she's your work wife, Like, how would you describe
Speaker 3: that relationship?
Speaker 2: When I've explained it to like my other friends, that's
Speaker 2: kind of like what they refer to? What the hell
Speaker 2: that means? Not really too share?
Speaker 3: You are you saying saying there's like there's flirting, Like
Speaker 3: have you like, have you ever who is this person
Speaker 3: to you? Have you gone on like a date with
Speaker 3: her or you?
Speaker 1: No?
Speaker 2: No, nothing, nothing of that sort. I just me and her,
Speaker 2: we only I don't talk to most of the other coworkers.
Speaker 2: Just me and her. We have that kind of you know, connection,
Speaker 2: You could kind.
Speaker 1: Of say, I, I guess what I'm trying to say
Speaker 1: is should I make a move knowing that she has
Speaker 1: a boyfriend and me having these feelings that I have
Speaker 1: towards her in.
Speaker 3: A Yeah, here, here's here's here's what I'll tell you.
Speaker 3: And look, I understand that you have this, uh, this,
Speaker 3: this passionate attraction to this person, and that passionate action
Speaker 3: is a blinding force to logic. It's a blinding force
Speaker 3: to logic, and you're gonna do what you're gonna do.
Speaker 3: But I understand that you are being blinded by this
Speaker 3: attraction to the facts in front of you that spell
Speaker 3: out that this is a is going to bring you
Speaker 3: a lot of potentially potentially, I don't know. Life's weird
Speaker 3: and crazy and I don't know ship about any anything,
Speaker 3: but it has the potential to bring you, you know,
Speaker 3: pain and sadness and frustration.
Speaker 2: Pretty much more bad than good. And yeah, it's kind
Speaker 2: of like the see the song that kind of plays
Speaker 2: in my head, it's the J Cole song. It's like
Speaker 2: fool me once, shame on you for me twice, the
Speaker 2: shame on me. You know. The situation so it's kind
Speaker 2: of like, I don't have many friends, so hence why
Speaker 2: I'm asking for your advice.
Speaker 3: Well there, Well that's another fucking thing, man, is if
Speaker 3: you don't have any friend that's if, like, if you
Speaker 3: don't have any friends, dude, it's just it's it sounds
Speaker 3: like and forgive me if I'm making an assumption here,
Speaker 3: because I don't like to do that, but if if you,
Speaker 3: if you don't have a lot of friends in your
Speaker 3: life as a whole is not where you want it
Speaker 3: to be. And you're kind of looking at this, this
Speaker 3: passion that you have for this person as like, oh,
Speaker 3: I'm gonna I'm gonna you know, this woman is going
Speaker 3: to fix my entire life. She's gonna make me not
Speaker 3: feel sad and alone anymore, and it's going to be
Speaker 3: an easy lane to everlasting, eternal happiness. It's like you
Speaker 3: wish that that were true, but it never is, And
Speaker 3: so I would. I would if I were you, And
Speaker 3: I don't know if you'll do this because you're you're,
Speaker 3: like we talked about, blinded by you know, these these
Speaker 3: other forces. If I were you, I would I would
Speaker 3: take a step back and go, well, what else needs
Speaker 3: to receive some of my attention right now in my life.
Speaker 2: Definitely, bro, totally totally agree with you on that fact.
Speaker 2: That's why I really haven't. I mean, I've been in
Speaker 2: the office for almost a year. That's really why I
Speaker 2: haven't done any move.
Speaker 3: Go to a go play a forget, Go play a
Speaker 3: fucking pinball game, go like do it? Do do literally
Speaker 3: anything else? You know?
Speaker 2: Oh no, dude, I've just been making basically just playing
Speaker 2: video games on my spare time whenever I have to.
Speaker 3: Okay, well, I don't know, I guess maybe something that
Speaker 3: do you really have? Do you really have no friends?
Speaker 2: Yeah? No, I really I I literally had.
Speaker 3: This give zero.
Speaker 2: Literal people, like literal zero. Like if I were to
Speaker 2: show you my calllogue right now, it's probably just my
Speaker 2: parents that I talked to and I live, you know
Speaker 2: what I mean.
Speaker 3: Okay, I understand that you like this girl, but Ash's
Speaker 3: boyfriends and that's not that's just a recipe for disaster.
Speaker 2: Yeahah, I don't want to be so and uh.
Speaker 3: You know, b you I think before you start trying to,
Speaker 3: you know, get get wiped up. You know, you gotta
Speaker 3: you gotta, you gotta make some friends.
Speaker 4: Man.
Speaker 2: I I appreciate the imp.
Speaker 3: Oh, look, you seem like a nice You don't seem
Speaker 3: like I just if I could give you a compliment,
Speaker 3: and this is one of my highest compliments. You don't
Speaker 3: seem like a sociopath. Man. I think I think if
Speaker 3: you put yourself out there, you could make some homies.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what all my patients tell me, that I'm
Speaker 2: a genuine good human being. I guess you could say
Speaker 2: that's what they say.
Speaker 3: I'm very ugr real quick patients. What are you?
Speaker 2: Oh, I'm a medical assistant.
Speaker 3: Okay, all right, continue, what are you going to say?
Speaker 2: But no, Yeah, like how you said, the way that
Speaker 2: I just come off, that's who I normally am. I
Speaker 2: don't have any issues socializing. It's just more of the
Speaker 2: way that I've been fucked over in the past. It's
Speaker 2: just some things that I guess I still have yet
Speaker 2: to get over that little speed bump. So I know
Speaker 2: when I get over there, I'll be okay. But it's
Speaker 2: just I guess it's the factor of being alone for
Speaker 2: in a sense of relationship for the past three years
Speaker 2: and then seeing somebody who you could kind of see
Speaker 2: yourself with is kind of like those ideas just kind
Speaker 2: of keep circling in your head and not having friends,
Speaker 2: you kind of like make this ideolic fantasy of what
Speaker 2: possibly could be, and you meet people like yourself to
Speaker 2: just fucking put you in the right fucking headspace. You know.
Speaker 3: Yeah, we all know we all fall victims to those
Speaker 3: We all fall victim to those fantasies. Yeah, and they're blind,
Speaker 3: they're blinding fantasy. I fallen victim to to, you know,
Speaker 3: blinding fantasies myself and I, you know, whether whether the
Speaker 3: decisions yeah, yeah, go for it.
Speaker 2: With hinder and basically the whole Internet and technology being
Speaker 2: taken the the face of socializing as far as like physically,
Speaker 2: what's like, what's your recommendation or like, well, I know
Speaker 2: you do stand up and stuff like that, but like
Speaker 2: someone like myself.
Speaker 3: Like you know, to make friends.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I guess, I don't know.
Speaker 3: Brother, It's it's very It's like I might tell you,
Speaker 3: it's funny that we're having this.
Speaker 2: I know.
Speaker 3: I'm like, I I'm feeling myself tonight, so I'm talking
Speaker 3: like I'm in expert, But I, buddy, I got no
Speaker 3: goddamn idea. I was thinking that myself. I'm not my
Speaker 3: studio apartment, going like, how do I make fucking friends? Yeah?
Speaker 2: Trust me, I guess it's also where you live, because
Speaker 2: when I live by myself in Vegas, it wasn't that much.
Speaker 2: I guess it's you know, people out there more social.
Speaker 2: I guess that was where I am. Now I feel
Speaker 2: more entrapped being Miami and just not feeling it down here.
Speaker 2: But uh, but yeah, that's that's. Yeah, that's my situation.
Speaker 3: And I ask when you say, I'll just when you
Speaker 3: bring up the internet, And yeah, there's a lot of
Speaker 3: like back and forth discourse on this kind of thing,
Speaker 3: but when you bring up the internet, you can I
Speaker 3: kind of think it's a choice between if you want
Speaker 3: to be optimistic about it or pessimistic about it. Because
Speaker 3: if you could be pessimistic about it, and you can
Speaker 3: go like, well, everyone's you know, on discord for you know,
Speaker 3: twenty hours a day and there's no reason to ever
Speaker 3: leave your house, and so that that's you know, it's
Speaker 3: a it's a plight to socialization. Or you could be
Speaker 3: an optimist about it and you can go, oh, there's
Speaker 3: meetup dot com, there's Facebook tubes, there's ways to start
Speaker 3: events and spread awareness about the event, like there's so
Speaker 3: many ways that social media actually can you know, bring
Speaker 3: people together. So it's I think it's kind.
Speaker 2: Of it's just I suck at elaborating and expressing myself typing.
Speaker 2: I'm better speaking it, so it's easier for me to
Speaker 2: be in front of somebody and talking. I come from Cuba,
Speaker 2: so English is not my first language. So it's hard
Speaker 2: to me. Like some humor and stuff like that that
Speaker 2: people type, I don't get it. So but sometimes when
Speaker 2: I'm in front of them, they're explaining IM, I get
Speaker 2: the emotion behind it.
Speaker 3: I don't know if that makes me me When did
Speaker 3: you When did you move to America ninety eight?
Speaker 2: I was born in ninety one.
Speaker 3: I came at the age of Oh, okay, I see
Speaker 3: been here for a long time.
Speaker 2: Yeah, no, I've been here for a long time. But
Speaker 2: as far as like you know, growing up and like
Speaker 2: you know, the typical like American humor, learn stuff like that,
Speaker 2: it's hard for me to kind of like relate one another.
Speaker 5: Sometimes.
Speaker 3: The point wait real quick before before we what's like
Speaker 3: an what's an example of a like joke that somebody
Speaker 3: told you that you didn't get that you later had
Speaker 3: to explain to you.
Speaker 2: Like dad jokes, dad jokes items that are not available
Speaker 2: in Cuba orself or that whatever it may be, making
Speaker 2: you know, whether it maybe like a specific type of
Speaker 2: food or something like that. Not knowing what that thing
Speaker 2: might be and then trying to comprehend what the joke
Speaker 2: is about with something that you don't know, it becomes
Speaker 2: challenging at times.
Speaker 3: What city do you live in, Mammy, You live in Miami. Yeah,
Speaker 3: it is a strong Cuban population in Miami. Right, there's
Speaker 3: what's the name of that. What is a little Havana?
Speaker 2: Yeah, Littlevana.
Speaker 3: Dude, I had some sick Cuban food in Little Havana.
Speaker 2: Oh, dude, bro Versailles. It is probably one of the best,
Speaker 2: i mean, rage of one of the best spots down here.
Speaker 3: But anyway, look, I just I'll just say this if
Speaker 3: I can, if I can say anything practical. You live
Speaker 3: in a major, major, major United States city. I don't
Speaker 3: know what your schedule is like outside of uh curing
Speaker 3: people who have aids. But go go do some stuff.
Speaker 5: Man.
Speaker 3: There's like there's I bet there's a billion I bet
Speaker 3: there's art galleries, there's meetups, there's I mean, I don't
Speaker 3: know if you're you're probably assume you're not a clubbing guy.
Speaker 3: I know Miami is big for that. But go just
Speaker 3: go get the fuck out of the house, go do stuff,
Speaker 3: you know, and and stop fantasizing about this late.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I really do. Yeah, I even have like all
Speaker 2: these things I used to do photography, have like a
Speaker 2: personal trainer that's a degree. And yeah, I just got
Speaker 2: to get the fuck out and socialize myself more.
Speaker 3: What's your name again, Danny? Danny? Danny? Was good talking
Speaker 3: to you. I'm rooting for you. I think, once again,
Speaker 3: you seem sane and that means a lot in this world.
Speaker 2: I appreciate that, bro, You know, I I tell myself
Speaker 2: that everything's going to be okay and that eventually somebody
Speaker 2: that will find my craziness dash you know, sanity appreciable
Speaker 2: and yeah, but besides that, man, I really do appreciate
Speaker 2: just giving me your input in saying, how don't have
Speaker 2: anybody else telling you kind of of course?
Speaker 3: You know, when I'm when I'm blinded by my own fantasies,
Speaker 3: I'll call you and you can smack me across the face.
Speaker 2: Yeah, for sure, No, I'll tell you straight. I'll let
Speaker 2: you know when the green is just not green enough
Speaker 2: in the face. Are you know? I'll let you know
Speaker 2: how it is.
Speaker 4: Bro.
Speaker 3: Thanks man, chat you all have a great one of them.
Speaker 3: You two take care. I don't know why I said that.
Speaker 3: That guy cures aids. Maybe he does. I don't know.
Speaker 3: I don't know his life. Oh okay, held on this person.
Speaker 3: I need to call immediately.
Speaker 2: Hello.
Speaker 3: Hey, what's that?
Speaker 2: Man?
Speaker 4: Hey?
Speaker 5: What's up?
Speaker 3: You texted me and you said I want to talk
Speaker 3: about how I've been eating Reeses every day for twelve years?
Speaker 5: Yeah, you know, I mean it's the good stuff.
Speaker 3: Is that true? Is that true? Please? Please don't tell
Speaker 3: me you're lying to me.
Speaker 4: No, I would not lie about this.
Speaker 5: You could ask anybody who knows me. It's it's kind
Speaker 5: of my thing.
Speaker 3: Are you eating? Are you eating just the cups or
Speaker 3: are you eating a morad of different Reeses products?
Speaker 5: No?
Speaker 2: I I eat.
Speaker 5: I'm pretty particular and I taste as specifically. The seasonal
Speaker 5: ones are my favorite ones.
Speaker 3: And oh my god, the pumpkins, the trees, what else?
Speaker 3: The easter eggs?
Speaker 5: Oh yeah, all the.
Speaker 3: Imagine that would probably be delicious. I would eat it. Candleball,
Speaker 3: candle Oh.
Speaker 5: Yeah, no, we'd be in trouble we'd be going in such.
Speaker 3: Such So it's the seasonal one. So are you eating variations?
Speaker 3: Are you eating the fast break, the nut rageous, the outrageous?
Speaker 5: Yeah? No, I mean I'll mess around with those, you know,
Speaker 5: when there's no other options, But ultimately I'm just always
Speaker 5: going for the seasonal ones. But you know, during those
Speaker 5: long stretches between holidays and then they get out stock
Speaker 5: and stores. But then I recently found out I can
Speaker 5: buy it online. People are stock buying it there, and
Speaker 5: so I just order some and it comes right to
Speaker 5: my door.
Speaker 3: Holy fuck, you can order Pumpkins's cups any time of.
Speaker 5: Year, anytime you want. Dude, have you.
Speaker 3: Had the ones? Have you had the ones where the
Speaker 3: chocolate is orange?
Speaker 4: Oh?
Speaker 5: No, I actually I haven't cried those long yet.
Speaker 3: I think I want to say that they do that
Speaker 3: for kit Kat and for Reeses. They make a version
Speaker 3: of it where the chocolate is orange. It might be
Speaker 3: it might be like a white chocolate. I don't know
Speaker 3: if it tastes orange necessarily a.
Speaker 5: Cosmetic thing, I'd give it a dry that's for sure.
Speaker 4: All right.
Speaker 3: So what's your routine like? Is there a time of
Speaker 3: day you typically eat the reses. What how does how
Speaker 3: do you do this? Oh?
Speaker 5: Yeah, you know, I'm a I'm a creature of routine
Speaker 5: for sure. Yeah. So you know, in the work days,
Speaker 5: I kind of go through my day. I try not
Speaker 5: to bring the reeses to work because that's dangerous. I
Speaker 5: can't control myself, right, So I need that time to, like,
Speaker 5: you know, kind of kind of a reset my tolerance,
Speaker 5: if you will. And then I get home and then boom,
Speaker 5: crack one open right away and enjoy it. And then uh,
Speaker 5: and then I'll you know, have dinner, and then you know,
Speaker 5: I have another post dinner races and then uh and
Speaker 5: then nighttime comes and I'm in bed and I'm down
Speaker 5: in another too easy king size of course.
Speaker 3: So how many cups per day is that? You know?
Speaker 5: And then other week id of eating more. I mean
Speaker 5: on average, I'll have probably four day during the week
Speaker 5: and then on the weekend sometimes like five or six.
Speaker 3: What do you look like, six.
Speaker 5: Foot one eighty relatively slender.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 5: People don't understand it, but I probably consume like a
Speaker 5: thousand calories and rases a day sometimes. But I also
Speaker 5: like plan out my diet, so you know, I don't
Speaker 5: drink any liquids, I have sugar and sugar in them,
Speaker 5: so I'm like, I'm going saving it for the best.
Speaker 5: You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 3: Do you drink alcohol?
Speaker 5: No, I don't drink alcohol.
Speaker 3: What do you eat when you're not eating reses? What's
Speaker 3: the rest of your diet look like?
Speaker 5: Oh? Man, I mean it's not great. I would say
Speaker 5: it's like the average that you know, take out here
Speaker 5: and there and then cooking. I tried to cook three
Speaker 5: times a week. I have a decent breakfast, eat a
Speaker 5: banana every day. That's also my thing. I just love
Speaker 5: peanut butter generally, so you have banana and peanut butter
Speaker 5: almost every day as well.
Speaker 3: In the warnings, do you think this will have any
Speaker 3: kind of long term impact on your health?
Speaker 5: I don't know. I think it'll be negligible. Honestly, I
Speaker 5: don't think they're that bad of a candy. I think
Speaker 5: people who are you drinking mountain dews and stuff every day?
Speaker 5: I'll be right in line with them. You know, It's
Speaker 5: not like I'm if you look at it like the
Speaker 5: sugar and calories and the one mountain dew is like
Speaker 5: you know, two or three greases? Meybe not calories wise,
Speaker 5: but you know the young cuts in toda.
Speaker 3: Have you ever spoken to a doctor about this?
Speaker 5: Ah, you know what, I actually haven't. I would be
Speaker 5: really interested to see what he said.
Speaker 3: You know, it's funny. I'm actually looking I'm actually looking
Speaker 3: it up right now and all right, here are the
Speaker 3: nutritional facts of a king size raes, which would be
Speaker 3: four cups. Wait a minute, these are the these are
Speaker 3: these aren't They're not really you're not eating like the
Speaker 3: miniature cups right, these are full cups.
Speaker 5: No end of the seasonal one, so like I mean,
Speaker 5: technically like the king size seasonal ones, they're just bigger breases,
Speaker 5: so you only get two in the king size. But
Speaker 5: I guess there's probably to the regular cups.
Speaker 3: You know what, There's four hundred calories, there's forty four
Speaker 3: grams of carbs, thirty nine grams of sugar. So it's
Speaker 3: like you, this is basically the same thing as I think.
Speaker 3: I don't know, I'm I'm I'm clearly not a nutritionist
Speaker 3: of any kind. What it just like if you drink
Speaker 3: a like, drink a bottle of coke every day? Pretty much?
Speaker 5: Yeah, that's what I'm saying.
Speaker 3: You know, maybe a little worse.
Speaker 5: Very very maybe a little worse, but you know, at
Speaker 5: least it's you know, it's given me. It's given me energy.
Speaker 5: You know, there's there's a little bit of protein in there.
Speaker 3: Where do you buy these reeses at?
Speaker 4: Uh?
Speaker 5: Anywhere? I look around for the sales, So like the
Speaker 5: best thing to do is like right after Halloween or whatever,
Speaker 5: where all the stores put their the reeses on clearance
Speaker 5: and then I just go and I clean them out,
Speaker 5: and yeah, anywhere I get my hands on them, though,
Speaker 5: But yeah, if you don't look for the sales, I mean,
Speaker 5: it starts getting pretty pricey. So I try.
Speaker 3: And yeah, what are the other what are the other
Speaker 3: people in your life think about this?
Speaker 5: They think it's a little ridiculous, but I mean they
Speaker 5: all got their Starbucks or their fast food, you know,
Speaker 5: if they're you know, i'd probably say most people are
Speaker 5: have something comparable, you know, or they're smoking cigarettes every day.
Speaker 2: I don't know.
Speaker 5: I don't really myself don't believe it's that crazy. It's
Speaker 5: just something I love so much. And I think ever
Speaker 5: since I was an adult, and like I said, I'm
Speaker 5: not joking. I'm thirty one now, and ever since I
Speaker 5: was nineteen eighteen. Since I've got my own plate and
Speaker 5: got my own pay check, I was just getting them
Speaker 5: every day because it's like, it's just what I enjoy.
Speaker 5: It's not like something I purposely set out to do.
Speaker 5: But then after a while, it's kind of like, well,
Speaker 5: let's just keep this thing going.
Speaker 3: You're like the kid who had this fantasy that he
Speaker 3: would eat ice cream for dinner every single day, and
Speaker 3: you're living that fantasy.
Speaker 5: You're absolutely right, And that's the beautiful thing about being
Speaker 5: an adult. You just get to do that stuff. Wow,
Speaker 5: well I wanted to do. There's two more things that
Speaker 5: I just want to bring up about this. One my record.
Speaker 5: You didn't ask my record of like in one sitting,
Speaker 5: and if you're curious, it's seventeen. That's kind of like
Speaker 5: my limit I found. That's when they come back up
Speaker 5: and a.
Speaker 3: Snowboyno, when they come back up, do you make it
Speaker 3: eighteen nineteen twenty, the puked up reeses?
Speaker 5: No, No, I don't do that. I'm not that crazy.
Speaker 5: And then also I'm also really particular, like a lot
Speaker 5: of people like their reeses frozen, you know, which is
Speaker 5: it's is fine, it's decent, but like I'll even I
Speaker 5: prefer my room tempter, like right before it gets to
Speaker 5: that melting points. Right, So sometimes I'll like, I don't know,
Speaker 5: take my reces in with me in the package still,
Speaker 5: like while I go and take a shower, and then
Speaker 5: they get a little bit more warmed up, and then
Speaker 5: as soon as they hit the mouth, you know, they're
Speaker 5: just melting away.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I saw the set once that was pretty funny.
Speaker 3: That said something like, there's something extremely sexy about taking
Speaker 3: the mini skirt off the Reese's miniature.
Speaker 5: That's great, that's great when going if you be feeling
Speaker 5: a little guilty now when I'm taking undressing it.
Speaker 3: Now seventeen in one sitting.
Speaker 5: You said, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 3: And you threw it. You threw them up after.
Speaker 5: The words yeah no it didn't. Yeah it didn't end.
Speaker 5: Well that's that's my limit. But I had to know.
Speaker 5: They're just so good, you know, I mean, I know,
Speaker 5: you know that's what we're talking about it right now.
Speaker 3: Yeah, well, well the second thing was the second thing?
Speaker 5: Oh crap? Oh yeah no. And I can even taste
Speaker 5: like the differences, like depending on where they're manufactured, there's
Speaker 5: slight differences between them. So once I find like a
Speaker 5: good batche In my opinion, I'll speak out like those
Speaker 5: specific breezes from that store, trying to stock up on
Speaker 5: those because they do have, you know, their own tolerances
Speaker 5: in which they're you know, manufacturing these, and some of
Speaker 5: them are quite as good as the others.
Speaker 3: Is this your like special interest?
Speaker 4: Dude?
Speaker 5: If if if mister Hershey himself came to me and
Speaker 5: said please work for me, I would that would make
Speaker 5: that would be the ultimate goal in the dream come true.
Speaker 3: Have you ever been to Hershey Park in Hershey, Pennsylvania.
Speaker 5: I have not.
Speaker 3: You gotta go, dude, you gotta go because there's a ride.
Speaker 3: I don't you ever been to Disney World?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 3: You ever play the buzz Lightyear ride where you have
Speaker 3: all this you have a crappy plastic when you shoot
Speaker 3: crappy you know I'm talking about they have this ride?
Speaker 3: Oh my god, you have kids, all right? Look at
Speaker 3: this guy, he's able to reproduce.
Speaker 6: Yeah.
Speaker 5: Absolutely.
Speaker 3: There's a ride at Hershey Park called the Reese's Cup
Speaker 3: Extreme Challenge where it's like a it's like a Reese's
Speaker 3: Cup themed shooting ride. It's like the buzz Light Your ride.
Speaker 3: And I don't know if they still do this. I
Speaker 3: don't know if they still do this, but I think
Speaker 3: they give you a Reese's cup afterwards. But you didn't
Speaker 3: hear from me.
Speaker 5: Oh, I'm gonna have a look into this. I appreciate.
Speaker 3: Tell me again about this thing. You can tell where
Speaker 3: they're manufactured from that you can tell if they were
Speaker 3: like made in China or whatever.
Speaker 5: No, I mean I would know. I can't tell where
Speaker 5: their manufactured from. I can just tell like the differences,
Speaker 5: like like, oh, this must have been one batch from
Speaker 5: a certain facility. I have no idea, but I can
Speaker 5: just tell people.
Speaker 3: Do you know the name? Do you know the names
Speaker 3: of facilities around the country that manufacture Reese's cups?
Speaker 5: I mean a few, like in my local area.
Speaker 2: Sure.
Speaker 3: And you can tell what state do you.
Speaker 5: Live in Illinois?
Speaker 3: How many Hershey manufacturing plants are there in Illinois?
Speaker 5: I mean like three that I know about that that
Speaker 5: distribute They Yeah, at least distributors. I should and I
Speaker 5: shouldn't say they necessarily like you know, make them there,
Speaker 5: but they're a distributor.
Speaker 3: And you can tell which you can tell which Reeses
Speaker 3: are from which factory, like if we at.
Speaker 5: Which point in time, right, because like there's a different
Speaker 5: consistency in the peanut butter sometimes.
Speaker 2: I don't know if you ever noticed, Like some.
Speaker 5: Are just like team more like oily or more crumbly.
Speaker 3: Is it like is it like rings on a tree?
Speaker 3: Like if you see rings on the cup it was
Speaker 3: years ago.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 5: Usually if I crinkle the wrapper too, and I listened
Speaker 5: really closely to kind of speaks to me.
Speaker 3: I don't know if you're joking.
Speaker 5: I'm joking about that one.
Speaker 3: If if you, if you told me you're like, I
Speaker 3: can tell from just by rubbing the rapper what state
Speaker 3: this Reese's cup was made in, I would I don't
Speaker 3: know if I'd.
Speaker 5: Be impressed that one was a little extra.
Speaker 3: God damn. What do you think about Reese's puffs?
Speaker 4: Uh?
Speaker 2: Decent?
Speaker 5: I mean it is a solid cereal? Yeah, no, you know,
Speaker 5: I wouldn't say it's my favorite, surprisingly, but I mean
Speaker 5: it's definitely solid zereal. I'll take it any day, you know.
Speaker 3: I once a long time ago. I buy a long
Speaker 3: time ago. I mean like a year or two ago.
Speaker 3: I did a stream on Twitch where I bought one
Speaker 3: of every Reese's product at my local grocery store, mixed
Speaker 3: them into a big fucking bowl and microwaved and took
Speaker 3: a spoon and just went to down on it.
Speaker 5: Oh you stud you stud lyle. That sounds crazy. There's
Speaker 5: like seventy eight different kinds of reces or something like that.
Speaker 3: I know there's there, really are there, actually are There's
Speaker 3: a lot, there's. What do you think about Reese's pieces? Oh?
Speaker 5: Yeah, definitely solid. But actually when it comes to that,
Speaker 5: I'm actually fan of that peanut butter M and ms
Speaker 5: just because they store they pack more peanut butter at them.
Speaker 3: You're a fucking poser, dude. Don't say that, you know.
Speaker 5: Okay, okay, okay, I'm sorry. I'll take that back. Just
Speaker 5: just clicking the cut that out.
Speaker 3: No, what do you think about? Have you ever had
Speaker 3: Reese's peanut butter, like there's the actual peanut butter.
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah I have, and it's not the same. It's
Speaker 5: not like the candied peanut butter, right, but it's very good.
Speaker 5: But yeah, I definitely mess dude. If they sold the
Speaker 5: jar of like the true candied peanut butter they put
Speaker 5: in Reese's, that's when teams would probably spiral out of control.
Speaker 3: How old is your daughter?
Speaker 5: She's coming up on five on Halloween.
Speaker 3: Has she ever had a Reese's Cup before? Oh?
Speaker 4: Dude? Did dude?
Speaker 5: Any speaking of like the wrinkle of that rapper, I
Speaker 5: have her conditioned on, you know, not trying to. But
Speaker 5: if I'm like within two rooms of her and I'm
Speaker 5: opening up a resist, She'll come running and she's like, yeah,
Speaker 5: I give me a bite, and I'm like, oh my gosh,
Speaker 5: I gotta share this now.
Speaker 1: But she loves it.
Speaker 3: See that's funny to me because I would have maybe
Speaker 3: when she gets older she'll feel this way. But I
Speaker 3: would have thought it would be like you know how
Speaker 3: there are some people whose parents are alcoholics, so they
Speaker 3: just have never tached a drink in their life. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 3: I would I would have thought I'd be more like that,
Speaker 3: Like she would hate them because they cause sugar rage
Speaker 3: cost a lot.
Speaker 5: I definitely have turned my fiance against anything peanut butter.
Speaker 5: So there's a little bit of that there are, so
Speaker 5: I can see that. I can see that.
Speaker 3: Well, listen, let me know when you turn seventy years old,
Speaker 3: because if I find out that you lived that long,
Speaker 3: I'm going to start eating four Reese's cups a day too.
Speaker 5: I you know, I think you should it mean to me,
Speaker 5: it's worth the risk, you know, It's just it's the best.
Speaker 3: Is there anything else you want to say to the
Speaker 3: people as the computer before we go?
Speaker 5: No, I'm just I'm actually really happy that I'm talking
Speaker 5: to you right now. What you do listening to h Yeah?
Speaker 5: And thank you? And also people on the computer, if
Speaker 5: you don't like Reese's, you're probably wrong. And with that,
Speaker 5: that's all I got.
Speaker 3: Have it going, man, take our h See. I'm a
Speaker 3: big fan of the Reese's fast break I used to
Speaker 3: eat those for breakfast and look at me now, I'm
Speaker 3: in the best shape of my life. That's not true
Speaker 3: at all. I might be in the worst shape of
Speaker 3: my life, but that's that's mainly due to fast food
Speaker 3: than Reese's or both. Hello, Hey, what's up?
Speaker 2: Hi?
Speaker 4: How are you?
Speaker 3: What's going on? Oh?
Speaker 4: Not much, just laying around in the dark.
Speaker 3: What's your name?
Speaker 4: I put Sippy?
Speaker 3: What's going on with you? Sippy?
Speaker 4: Oh? I don't know. I mean, I guess I have
Speaker 4: a little moment at work today that I'm kind of
Speaker 4: playing over in my head. Maybe I shouldn't have said
Speaker 4: some things that I said.
Speaker 3: What was the moment?
Speaker 4: Well, I work with a lot of girls, a lot
Speaker 4: of girls that are into like a lot of New
Speaker 4: Age stuff, which is pretty typical of uh, you know
Speaker 4: girls and I guess people in general these days. But
Speaker 4: one of these coworkers said that she was going to
Speaker 4: uh have an aura reading or like an aura photo
Speaker 4: photo taken, and I was like, oh, no, no, you
Speaker 4: should not do that. That's do you even know like
Speaker 4: where the concept of auras like came from, like because
Speaker 4: they're basically invented by like a white supremacist, a white
Speaker 4: supremacist in America, you know, like, yeah, it's true, you know, like, yeah,
Speaker 4: most people maybe they thought it came from some like
Speaker 4: Eastern religion or you know whatever. It seems like some
Speaker 4: mystical concept. But uh no, it was.
Speaker 3: What What's Who's this white supremacist that came up with auras?
Speaker 4: His name is CW. Ledbetter And yeah, basically in the
Speaker 4: early nineteen hundreds, he just took some ideas from theosophy,
Speaker 4: from you know, an earlier religion of sorts, our New
Speaker 4: Age way of thinking, and he kind of saw how
Speaker 4: this movement was spreading in America and how he could
Speaker 4: maybe take advantage of it. And this is the concept
Speaker 4: that he kind of came up with. And you know,
Speaker 4: I don't know. I'm not the one to come and
Speaker 4: explain everything to you right now, but you know, I'm
Speaker 4: not very good at sitting out the details. But yeah,
Speaker 4: it's this interesting. It's just interesting that you know how
Speaker 4: ideas like this like spread in the world.
Speaker 3: And what did you say? I said, I said, so
Speaker 3: this this coworker was getting an or an aura photo taken.
Speaker 3: What even is that?
Speaker 4: It's what it sounds like. I mean, apparently you go
Speaker 4: and there's a little camera hooked up to a laptop
Speaker 4: and they take a picture of you, or sometimes you
Speaker 4: put your hand on something and it like gives you
Speaker 4: a little color print out and then that tells you,
Speaker 4: like what colors your aura is and what that says
Speaker 4: about you, which is fine, and it's fun, you know whatever.
Speaker 4: It's fun and cool, and but I don't know, you know,
Speaker 4: these are things that you know, she's probably paying money
Speaker 4: for it, you know, a bunch of money just for
Speaker 4: some crap.
Speaker 3: So what did you say that?
Speaker 1: I just said, don't do that.
Speaker 4: And honestly, I think I'm just you know, it was
Speaker 4: fine in the moment, you know, and it's just like, do.
Speaker 5: You even know where this comes.
Speaker 4: From, like you know, these crazy bou ideas, Like I
Speaker 4: just listened to these girls talk about the shit all
Speaker 4: day and I don't know. I'm just like, I don't know.
Speaker 4: I just feel like if they said that, like Jesus
Speaker 4: is going to read your aura, it would be like
Speaker 4: no way. And not like I'm all for Jesus or anything,
Speaker 4: but I just feel like we just don't question like
Speaker 4: a lot of things that are wrapped up and you
Speaker 4: know the wu.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know. I kind of am of the
Speaker 3: opinion that like, look and I actually I kind of
Speaker 3: think most people are of this opinion of like I
Speaker 3: don't really give a fuck who you are, what you do,
Speaker 3: what you think, unless if it starts to you know,
Speaker 3: actually affect me or other people, you know.
Speaker 4: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah whatever.
Speaker 3: If people want to like pay well, yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 3: If people want to like pay money for like stones
Speaker 3: that they think will make them live forever, then you
Speaker 3: know that's between them and the stone people.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 4: And I've come full circle with a lot of like
Speaker 4: the New Age shit too, where it's like, yeah, you
Speaker 4: know what I can like I've gone from being like
Speaker 4: total total skeptic and like just like wanting to learn
Speaker 4: about things like what, you know, these different experiences that
Speaker 4: people have like actually really are and just come back
Speaker 4: full circle of being like, well, you just can't explain
Speaker 4: a lot of these things, but I don't know this
Speaker 4: is what it's. I just feel like I don't know.
Speaker 4: There's just a lot of bullshit, you.
Speaker 3: Know, don't you don't you wish though, Like sometimes I
Speaker 3: wish that I did believe in it, Like I wish
Speaker 3: I was into that. I wish that I could just
Speaker 3: hold a bunch of stones and feel better.
Speaker 4: That's the thing, dude. I literally just like bought a
Speaker 4: rock like two weeks ago because I'm trying to come
Speaker 4: back around to like what I can connect with, you know,
Speaker 4: and not feeling like, you know, that it's all bullshit
Speaker 4: because I realized, no, it's not fun. It's not fun
Speaker 4: to have to tell somebody that like, yeah, like do
Speaker 4: you even fucking know what you're talking about? Like, you know,
Speaker 4: it's not fun to tell people that like their experiences
Speaker 4: are crap, and you know what, Like I said, like
Speaker 4: I kind of feel bad about it. I just feel
Speaker 4: like and I don't think it was as big of
Speaker 4: a deal in the end, as I thought.
Speaker 3: You know, you know it sucks what you and me
Speaker 3: both know that those rocks don't do shit.
Speaker 4: They don't do shit, but they're cool. Like that's the thing.
Speaker 4: Like I've I'm like, I you know, they're fun and
Speaker 4: tarot cards are cool, but like I'm like, don't pa,
Speaker 4: I'm like, just go buy like a nice dinner for
Speaker 4: you and your friends, like, don't get a stupid picture
Speaker 4: and like, you know, a print house that's going to
Speaker 4: tell you that, like you're passionate. Like I don't know,
Speaker 4: you know, like I don't have a problem with like
Speaker 4: astrology and like, you know, like a lot of it.
Speaker 4: I don't have a problem with if you just like
Speaker 4: take it and like interpret it for like yourself. I
Speaker 4: don't know, but I think there's just so much grift.
Speaker 4: There's so much grift, and like, yeah, there's it's a
Speaker 4: struggle because yeah, I do want to believe. I do
Speaker 4: want to hold the rock and I do want to believe,
Speaker 4: but at the same time, like what are you fucking
Speaker 4: talking about? You know?
Speaker 3: So, yeah, it's hard for me to have strong opinions
Speaker 3: about this stuff because I've thought about it and like
Speaker 3: I don't what I don't subscribe to any of it.
Speaker 3: There's a lot like I'm not into woo woo shit.
Speaker 3: Like I've had people call in to tell me about
Speaker 3: like ghost sightings or demon possessions, and you know, I'm like,
Speaker 3: if someone's gonna call me and they're gonna you know,
Speaker 3: you know, put themselves out there and be vulnerable and
Speaker 3: sharing the state degree, I'm not gonna I'm not gonna
Speaker 3: be like, I'm not gonna be like fuck you, that's
Speaker 3: not real. But in my own personal head when there's
Speaker 3: nobody else around, i mean, no, that shit's you know,
Speaker 3: not real.
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, well that's the thing too. It's like, no,
Speaker 4: I don't believe in ghosts. But then like sometimes like
Speaker 4: someone you know who's like totally rational, Yeah yeah, you know,
Speaker 4: like they tell you a story that you know, you're like, wow,
Speaker 4: I actually totally totally believe that. And then you know,
Speaker 4: you think, oh, I've never seen a ghost, but like, oh,
Speaker 4: I've definitely had unexplainable things happen.
Speaker 1: To me and everything.
Speaker 4: But but that's where like this christy shit comes in.
Speaker 4: That's where this new age shit comes and sneaks in.
Speaker 4: It's you know, that's where it tries to tell you
Speaker 4: that like, oh, well that unexplainable thing you know is
Speaker 4: this and it means this, and you know.
Speaker 3: Well that's another thing, is I I also, you know,
Speaker 3: look again, in my own personal head, I'm like, Noah,
Speaker 3: none of that shit's real. But also in my own
Speaker 3: personal head, you know, I think I'm a total idiot.
Speaker 3: I don't know anything at all. Maybe stones work, maybe
Speaker 3: there's ghosts whatever.
Speaker 2: I don't.
Speaker 3: I don't win any I don't I gain absolutely nothing
Speaker 3: from refuting or accepting the existence of ghosts and spirits
Speaker 3: and SAgs whatever that is.
Speaker 4: I know, And I don't gain anything by telling my
Speaker 4: friend not to go get her Ora read. But I
Speaker 4: guess I just like, I don't know. I've been super
Speaker 4: into like learning about like religion and belief from everything
Speaker 4: from like like fucking auras to aliens, from ours to aliens. Ghek.
Speaker 4: I want to know about it all, and some of
Speaker 4: it is pretty cool and some of it is total bullshit,
Speaker 4: and I want to I don't know. Yeah, sometimes I
Speaker 4: do want to be the person that is just like
Speaker 4: wants to say yes and have the aura reading. But
Speaker 4: I don't know. I guess I can't be That's what
Speaker 4: it comes down to.
Speaker 3: Does anything do you do you care about anything? What
Speaker 3: do you what things do you think are real?
Speaker 4: Hmm, that's a good question. I think you're I think
Speaker 4: having fun with your friends is real. I know that's
Speaker 4: so cheesy, but like I just think, like I don't
Speaker 4: want to say being a good person, because you know,
Speaker 4: you bring up on the on your show a lot.
Speaker 4: How like it's fun to be mean, and it's totally fun.
Speaker 1: To be mean.
Speaker 4: Like I've like wanted to call in and just like
Speaker 4: talk about that. But you know, this happened today, so
Speaker 4: it's on my mind. It's what I need therapy for.
Speaker 3: It was a little bit fun to be me. I
Speaker 3: was thinking about that. I was I was watching George
Speaker 3: Carlin last night talk about twenty people who ought to
Speaker 3: be killed. That was su the routine he was doing,
Speaker 3: and I could imagine him doing, like saying something like
Speaker 3: these people who warship stones should be thrown out of
Speaker 3: a helicopter, and it's like he doesn't mean And that's
Speaker 3: the thing is he doesn't mean it what he's talking
Speaker 3: about all these he's like he says, like people who
Speaker 3: wear advisors should be shot in the face, and like
Speaker 3: obviously he doesn't mean it, but it's so fun.
Speaker 4: To say, of course, but it's just funny that you
Speaker 4: said something about people who worship stones, because I don't
Speaker 4: know if God. I literally this is my problem. I
Speaker 4: listened to too many podcasts. But I was listening to
Speaker 4: a podcast the other day that brought up the fact
Speaker 4: that I and I heard this too in the George
Speaker 4: Carlin documentary that came out this past year or so,
Speaker 4: that he was a hardcore atheist for most of his life,
Speaker 4: but after his first after his wife died, he had
Speaker 4: another girlfriend who was really into like crystals and new
Speaker 4: as shit, and now he like when he died, you know,
Speaker 4: he was into carrying around courts like he always had
Speaker 4: courts with him.
Speaker 3: Really, see, there we go there it is.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm like, okay, like there's something but that you know,
Speaker 4: but that's what I'm saying. It's like, I don't know, Yeah,
Speaker 4: I feel like maybe there is something to rocks. But
Speaker 4: who said that there's something to rocks? Well, probably a
Speaker 4: lot of people over time, Like you can't just trace
Speaker 4: it back to one guy at the beginning of you know,
Speaker 4: the twentieth century who's decided that he could take advantage
Speaker 4: of people, you know, I don't know. I don't know.
Speaker 3: What do you know? What do you know for sure?
Speaker 4: Hmm? I know that I love my bunny.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think I'm with you. I'm with you on that.
Speaker 3: I'm with you on that. There's some I think. I
Speaker 3: think love is real, so not like not like romantic love.
Speaker 3: I don't think that's real. I think if you have
Speaker 3: like I don't think. I don't think you really love
Speaker 3: your boyfriend or girlfriends. But I think you love you
Speaker 3: can love a dog and that's real.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 3: I don't know what. I'm sorry, I'm just fucking no.
Speaker 4: What you're saying is like, no, I know. I think
Speaker 4: what you're saying is that, like a relationship is something
Speaker 4: that you have to work at, but love it's just there.
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I guess. So are you Are you married?
Speaker 3: Do you have a boyfriend?
Speaker 4: No, I am not. I am single. I'm like chronically single,
Speaker 4: have them for a long time, and you know, I'm
Speaker 4: just stop the plant where I'm okay with it and
Speaker 4: you know what, that's it too. I work with these
Speaker 4: girls that are a little bit younger and they're in
Speaker 4: the spot right now where they're searching. They want to
Speaker 4: get their ores red and get acupuncture and shit, and
Speaker 4: I'm like, I did that.
Speaker 1: I did that.
Speaker 4: You know it can be okay. Like I did a
Speaker 4: little searching, I did a little yoga. They're good, It's fine.
Speaker 4: Just don't go.
Speaker 3: Too far, do you do you are you? Are you
Speaker 3: scared for? Like when you were these girls's age, were
Speaker 3: you into all? You said you were searching? Do you
Speaker 3: and you kind of see them searching in the same
Speaker 3: way that you were, and you're like, oh, you have
Speaker 3: no idea?
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean, like I said, I mean when I
Speaker 4: say searching, I would say like not searching for like
Speaker 4: a spirituality in that aspect. I don't think that of
Speaker 4: like me or the girls that I speaking of, But
Speaker 4: you know, they're just looking for like something to connect
Speaker 4: with or something to make them feel good, or something
Speaker 4: that's gonna like I don't know, just like cure like
Speaker 4: a sadness that you have, like at that age where
Speaker 4: you just feel like, oh man, you've tried a lot
Speaker 4: of things or like you know, you thought you had
Speaker 4: yourself set up and these relationships and then you failed
Speaker 4: and like you know, okay, now you've got to like
Speaker 4: try again or start something else. And yeah, you're just
Speaker 4: you know, looking around and giving things a try, and
Speaker 4: that's okay, that's fine, but it's also just a slipperty.
Speaker 4: It's it's a slippery time, you know. That's a spot
Speaker 4: where you can just like you know, get taken advantage
Speaker 4: of easily. And you could just be taken advantage of
Speaker 4: by like another person or another relationship. That doesn't have
Speaker 4: to be an idea or a philosophy.
Speaker 3: Are you familiar with the with anxious attachment.
Speaker 4: Hmm? I mean no, not not formally I can guess no.
Speaker 3: No, no, not anxious avoid No, no, not anxious avoidant attachment
Speaker 3: theory hmmm. Not exactly the whole thing of like your
Speaker 3: you're avoiding like you know, attachments or or certain loves
Speaker 3: or certain things because you are afraid that they will
Speaker 3: turn out to be like you know, like like like
Speaker 3: you're avoiding like crystals because you are afraid it's going
Speaker 3: to turn out to be a sham or relationship because
Speaker 3: you're afraid it's gonna fuck you over in some way,
Speaker 3: you know what I'm talking about.
Speaker 4: Totally? Yeah, yeah, totally. I mean I've been thinking about
Speaker 4: that recently just in like, you know, my own life
Speaker 4: was like what am I going to do, like, maybe
Speaker 4: I should take a risk and like just try to
Speaker 4: like work for myself, be my own boss.
Speaker 3: What's a risk look like for you? Sippy? Tell me?
Speaker 3: Tell me your risk?
Speaker 4: Well, I mean, I don't know. I mean I'm at
Speaker 4: this point where I worked at my job for a while,
Speaker 4: you know, quite a few years, and I'm just kind
Speaker 4: of like, you know, it's not something I can do forever.
Speaker 4: There's no up. I mean, you know, there's nowhere to go,
Speaker 4: and I just don't, you know, I'm my interests are
Speaker 4: changing and my priorities are changing, and my sense of
Speaker 4: I don't know. I wanted to say sense of security,
Speaker 4: but I don't know if that makes sense. But I
Speaker 4: just thought like, oh, what would it be like if
Speaker 4: I tried to like have my own little business or
Speaker 4: I don't know, start a podcast or do anything. Just
Speaker 4: do something. Yeah, just fucking do something. Because for a
Speaker 4: long time, I'm just like, yeah, fucking do something. But
Speaker 4: the thing is, I just have like a new interest
Speaker 4: like every three weeks. So it's hard to commit. But
Speaker 4: I just got to commit to something that sticks. You know,
Speaker 4: you know what we should do?
Speaker 3: You know what we should do? You know what we
Speaker 3: should do, Sippy, what should we do? We should go
Speaker 3: out and get stones of of of patients and of wisdom,
Speaker 3: and they will show us the way.
Speaker 4: Can we put them on Temple University's campus and then
Speaker 4: kids can get stoned by them?
Speaker 3: What are you talking about Temple University for?
Speaker 4: Do you go to Templeversity?
Speaker 3: Oh shit? I live like so close to Oh shit,
Speaker 3: Well I was just there, dude. Yeah. Man, whatever, whatever
Speaker 3: you feel like, here's what here's what you should do.
Speaker 3: Anytime you're feeling crazy, just take your bunny, go to
Speaker 3: the the the nook where everyone goes to get high
Speaker 3: and hang out, and everything will be be peaceful.
Speaker 4: People will be like, you're too old to be hanging
Speaker 4: out here with a bunny. You're looking like you're like
Speaker 4: one time I told my mom that I it was
Speaker 4: really hot and silly, and I think it was a
Speaker 4: day when I was taking my bunny because it's bet
Speaker 4: and on the way home, I like stopped and I
Speaker 4: sat on a bench at the park and kind of
Speaker 4: like readjusted like her carrier and make it easier just
Speaker 4: like to carry. And I was hot, and like a
Speaker 4: girl came over and was like, oh, can I pet
Speaker 4: your rabbit, and I was like, oh, sure, whatever, And
Speaker 4: I told my mom about this later and she was like, oh,
Speaker 4: you better be careful. People are going to think that
Speaker 4: you're trying to like attract children to you with your rabbit.
Speaker 6: And I was like, okay, yeah, well, Sippy, is there
Speaker 6: anything else that you want to say to the people
Speaker 6: of the computer or just in general before we go?
Speaker 4: Just just think critically, you know, just think a little
Speaker 4: bit deeper, be a little bit you don't have fun,
Speaker 4: but I don't know, don't live your life in fear,
Speaker 4: but just ask questions.
Speaker 3: I like that, have a good night, citing you too,
Speaker 3: Bye bye, take care. I don't even know what I
Speaker 3: said during that call, So if I said anything stupid,
Speaker 3: you know, but this is actually just a deep This
Speaker 3: is a disclaimer for this entire podcast. I don't know.
Speaker 3: I don't have any idea what I'm talking about anytime
Speaker 3: I say words. So if you heard me say something,
Speaker 3: you're like, what the fuck is he talking about? That's
Speaker 3: why that is Okay. I feel better now. I'm gonna
Speaker 3: put this on the internet. Calls every night everything get
Speaker 3: goes to on his eye. He's teaching you cloud ever
Speaker 3: your life. But he's not really an expert.