1 00:00:01,160 --> 00:00:02,400 Speaker 1: On the Bobby Bones Show. 2 00:00:02,480 --> 00:00:06,560 Speaker 2: Now, yeah, did you say that? 3 00:00:08,360 --> 00:00:09,240 Speaker 1: I thought you said it. 4 00:00:09,800 --> 00:00:10,559 Speaker 2: No, I didn't. 5 00:00:10,720 --> 00:00:12,319 Speaker 3: It didn't sound like an echo something. 6 00:00:13,039 --> 00:00:13,920 Speaker 1: I'm so happy you're here. 7 00:00:14,080 --> 00:00:15,040 Speaker 2: I'm happy to be here. 8 00:00:15,080 --> 00:00:16,919 Speaker 1: We have a lot of stuff to talk about. I 9 00:00:16,920 --> 00:00:20,040 Speaker 1: would first, have you seen the video that I made you? 10 00:00:20,040 --> 00:00:21,200 Speaker 1: Never mind? Never mind? 11 00:00:21,200 --> 00:00:22,720 Speaker 2: Never no? No, no, no, no no. 12 00:00:22,800 --> 00:00:23,960 Speaker 1: If you haven't seen it yet, then maybe you're not 13 00:00:23,960 --> 00:00:24,800 Speaker 1: supposed to know about it. 14 00:00:25,360 --> 00:00:28,240 Speaker 4: Oh, I'm not supposed to know about it. 15 00:00:28,400 --> 00:00:32,760 Speaker 1: No, it's not the anniversary of your record. Never mind. 16 00:00:32,960 --> 00:00:34,800 Speaker 1: I'm not saying I'm not going to say anything about it. 17 00:00:35,000 --> 00:00:36,800 Speaker 1: I just shouldn't have said anything. I was just gonna 18 00:00:36,800 --> 00:00:39,640 Speaker 1: make a point about something. How you doing, Jody. 19 00:00:43,040 --> 00:00:43,440 Speaker 4: A minute? 20 00:00:43,440 --> 00:00:44,200 Speaker 2: What's going on? 21 00:00:44,560 --> 00:00:48,560 Speaker 1: You're about to have a big anniversary for your first album? 22 00:00:48,920 --> 00:00:49,160 Speaker 2: Yes? 23 00:00:49,840 --> 00:00:50,440 Speaker 1: How many years? 24 00:00:51,240 --> 00:00:51,640 Speaker 2: Thirty? 25 00:00:51,880 --> 00:00:54,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, which is pretty great. And so if you haven't 26 00:00:54,360 --> 00:00:55,440 Speaker 1: seen it yet, I will tell you. I did a 27 00:00:55,480 --> 00:00:57,360 Speaker 1: whole video talking about it and what it meant to 28 00:00:57,400 --> 00:00:58,920 Speaker 1: me and all of that. But if you haven't seen 29 00:00:58,920 --> 00:01:02,000 Speaker 1: it yet, one day you'll see it. I haven't seen it, Okay, 30 00:01:02,040 --> 00:01:07,840 Speaker 1: then I'll just leave it there. It was only me, okay, Okay. 31 00:01:08,600 --> 00:01:09,840 Speaker 1: I have a lot of questions for you. 32 00:01:09,959 --> 00:01:12,800 Speaker 2: Oh go go, I'm ready. I'm ready. First of all, 33 00:01:13,280 --> 00:01:14,000 Speaker 2: you know I love you. 34 00:01:15,000 --> 00:01:16,720 Speaker 1: I could not hold a mirror up and say it 35 00:01:16,760 --> 00:01:18,840 Speaker 1: back to you one hundred times over. So you're so awesome. 36 00:01:18,920 --> 00:01:22,080 Speaker 4: Same to you, and I follow you and I just 37 00:01:22,160 --> 00:01:22,840 Speaker 4: support you. 38 00:01:23,040 --> 00:01:24,160 Speaker 2: And you know that. 39 00:01:24,440 --> 00:01:25,200 Speaker 1: Thank you. 40 00:01:25,200 --> 00:01:27,399 Speaker 2: You've gotten messages for me than you can I do. 41 00:01:27,520 --> 00:01:29,320 Speaker 2: I just said, you're just such a jewel. 42 00:01:29,560 --> 00:01:31,440 Speaker 1: Well, thank you. This is not about me. I want 43 00:01:31,480 --> 00:01:32,120 Speaker 1: to make it about you. 44 00:01:32,120 --> 00:01:33,039 Speaker 2: Oh, let's make it about you. 45 00:01:33,200 --> 00:01:36,319 Speaker 1: What is it? Is it cool to be like TikTok 46 00:01:36,319 --> 00:01:41,240 Speaker 1: famous because you are you are. Your stuff goes viral 47 00:01:41,280 --> 00:01:42,800 Speaker 1: all the time. People love you on TikTok. It's like 48 00:01:42,840 --> 00:01:44,480 Speaker 1: a whole new age of people that get to like 49 00:01:44,840 --> 00:01:46,840 Speaker 1: experience what we got to experience. 50 00:01:46,920 --> 00:01:49,680 Speaker 2: The crazy dances, it's just all of it. Yeah. 51 00:01:49,720 --> 00:01:53,120 Speaker 4: Well we have a fun thing we and we haven't 52 00:01:53,160 --> 00:01:54,880 Speaker 4: put it up yet. But last weekend we played in 53 00:01:54,880 --> 00:01:58,760 Speaker 4: California and the guy that choreographed all the snow back 54 00:01:58,800 --> 00:02:01,160 Speaker 4: when I always like had Dancer is it Everything lived 55 00:02:01,160 --> 00:02:04,920 Speaker 4: out there and he choreographed a new dance to one 56 00:02:04,960 --> 00:02:06,800 Speaker 4: of the hits, and so we recorded that while we 57 00:02:06,800 --> 00:02:08,520 Speaker 4: were out doing a festival this weekend. 58 00:02:09,120 --> 00:02:10,160 Speaker 1: Your stuff pops? 59 00:02:10,639 --> 00:02:10,919 Speaker 4: Thanks? 60 00:02:11,040 --> 00:02:12,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, like you do you do? You keep track of 61 00:02:12,520 --> 00:02:14,440 Speaker 1: what your videos do, like. 62 00:02:13,919 --> 00:02:15,200 Speaker 2: Like seventy sometimes. 63 00:02:15,240 --> 00:02:18,480 Speaker 4: But it's we're moving so fast and now everything's getting 64 00:02:18,520 --> 00:02:19,079 Speaker 4: really busy. 65 00:02:19,160 --> 00:02:23,600 Speaker 1: So and this is the first record, like new new music, right. 66 00:02:23,560 --> 00:02:26,920 Speaker 4: Yes, in a long time, over ten years now. I 67 00:02:27,040 --> 00:02:28,800 Speaker 4: released something I think in. 68 00:02:28,720 --> 00:02:31,840 Speaker 2: Twenty fourteen, not a full record though, like just like 69 00:02:32,440 --> 00:02:34,799 Speaker 2: a go fundme or whatever. It was a kickstarter. 70 00:02:34,919 --> 00:02:37,560 Speaker 4: I don't even know what they's doing business, I don't know, 71 00:02:37,880 --> 00:02:41,800 Speaker 4: so something like that, but a major release label thing. 72 00:02:42,000 --> 00:02:44,079 Speaker 4: The last thing that came out I think was my 73 00:02:44,200 --> 00:02:46,360 Speaker 4: give it I'm bus said, was it two thousand and seven? 74 00:02:46,520 --> 00:02:48,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a long time. 75 00:02:49,360 --> 00:02:51,160 Speaker 1: What does it feel like to put out a new 76 00:02:51,200 --> 00:02:54,040 Speaker 1: project because it's been again we have done a full project. 77 00:02:54,080 --> 00:02:56,960 Speaker 1: Is there are their nerves? Is it excitement? Is it both? 78 00:02:57,440 --> 00:02:57,720 Speaker 2: Both? 79 00:02:57,960 --> 00:03:00,720 Speaker 1: Are there expectations other people? 80 00:03:00,840 --> 00:03:01,040 Speaker 4: Yes? 81 00:03:01,840 --> 00:03:02,880 Speaker 1: What do you mean? What do you mean? 82 00:03:04,000 --> 00:03:08,200 Speaker 4: You know, just other people have expectations for it, and 83 00:03:08,280 --> 00:03:10,320 Speaker 4: so you don't want to let people down, especially those 84 00:03:10,360 --> 00:03:12,040 Speaker 4: that are working really hard on it, you know, and 85 00:03:12,160 --> 00:03:14,760 Speaker 4: with the marketing and the promotion and that kind of stuff. 86 00:03:14,800 --> 00:03:17,360 Speaker 2: So I'm just happy to be here, Bobby, you know 87 00:03:17,400 --> 00:03:19,360 Speaker 2: that Earth or in the studio just. 88 00:03:20,840 --> 00:03:24,720 Speaker 4: The studio of course and Earth No literally every morning. 89 00:03:24,760 --> 00:03:27,360 Speaker 4: I mean I'm like, this morning I sat outside and 90 00:03:27,400 --> 00:03:28,720 Speaker 4: I was like, God, thank you for today. 91 00:03:28,800 --> 00:03:29,400 Speaker 2: I get today. 92 00:03:29,480 --> 00:03:31,520 Speaker 1: Well, today's big da because of the singles out. Yes, 93 00:03:31,639 --> 00:03:33,040 Speaker 1: the new album will be out the summer, but the 94 00:03:33,040 --> 00:03:34,399 Speaker 1: new song is out, and so we're going to play 95 00:03:34,440 --> 00:03:35,040 Speaker 1: some bridges. 96 00:03:35,760 --> 00:03:37,120 Speaker 5: So this. 97 00:03:39,640 --> 00:03:42,760 Speaker 1: It will. Yes, it feels like a wisdom song it is. 98 00:03:42,920 --> 00:03:43,600 Speaker 1: Tell me about it. 99 00:03:44,200 --> 00:03:47,120 Speaker 4: Well, you know, we grew up as you're growing up 100 00:03:47,200 --> 00:03:48,880 Speaker 4: or always told you know, don't be burning bridges. 101 00:03:48,920 --> 00:03:49,920 Speaker 2: Don't burn bridges. 102 00:03:49,960 --> 00:03:52,600 Speaker 4: You know, oh I know they you know, like with 103 00:03:52,600 --> 00:03:55,240 Speaker 4: my kids, I'm like, don't don't be rude to those 104 00:03:55,280 --> 00:03:58,160 Speaker 4: hockey players in rec hockey because you don't want to 105 00:03:58,160 --> 00:04:00,680 Speaker 4: burn those bridges because they'll probably on your team next year. 106 00:04:01,160 --> 00:04:03,080 Speaker 4: Or you know, be respectful to the coach. Don't be 107 00:04:03,120 --> 00:04:05,640 Speaker 4: burning bridges because you know you might run into them. Whatever, 108 00:04:05,680 --> 00:04:08,120 Speaker 4: and we're told, don't burn bridges you because you're not 109 00:04:08,120 --> 00:04:12,240 Speaker 4: going to find your way back. And or if you 110 00:04:12,360 --> 00:04:14,720 Speaker 4: take chances, which is so funny because I'm looking at 111 00:04:14,720 --> 00:04:17,760 Speaker 4: your book and fail until you don't if you don't 112 00:04:17,800 --> 00:04:18,320 Speaker 4: take chance. 113 00:04:18,560 --> 00:04:19,120 Speaker 2: If you take. 114 00:04:19,040 --> 00:04:20,800 Speaker 4: Chances, oh you're gonna you know, you might end up 115 00:04:20,839 --> 00:04:22,560 Speaker 4: off track. You know, you might make a mistake, you 116 00:04:22,640 --> 00:04:27,240 Speaker 4: might fail. And it's like you sometimes you have to fail, 117 00:04:27,440 --> 00:04:29,600 Speaker 4: you know, sometimes you and sometimes you have to burn 118 00:04:29,640 --> 00:04:32,320 Speaker 4: bridges if they lead you back to a place that 119 00:04:33,640 --> 00:04:35,920 Speaker 4: is harmful to you or where you lose yourself. 120 00:04:36,000 --> 00:04:37,800 Speaker 2: It's not it's not worthy. 121 00:04:38,320 --> 00:04:40,000 Speaker 1: Did you feel like this was the single when you 122 00:04:40,000 --> 00:04:41,640 Speaker 1: wrote it? Or did you get all the songs together 123 00:04:41,720 --> 00:04:42,760 Speaker 1: and then go this is the one? 124 00:04:42,960 --> 00:04:43,279 Speaker 4: Bobby? 125 00:04:43,480 --> 00:04:45,000 Speaker 2: Did we send you a link for the album? 126 00:04:45,839 --> 00:04:48,280 Speaker 1: Why do you say that it's loaded? 127 00:04:49,160 --> 00:04:51,200 Speaker 2: I let someone else pick it because I was like, 128 00:04:51,200 --> 00:04:52,520 Speaker 2: oh I love this one. Oh I love this one. 129 00:04:52,520 --> 00:04:55,800 Speaker 4: Oh I love this So I was, yeah, They're like, boom, 130 00:04:55,880 --> 00:04:57,920 Speaker 4: let's come out with this one. 131 00:04:57,960 --> 00:05:01,440 Speaker 1: But so I wasn't Yeah, okay, So I have other 132 00:05:01,480 --> 00:05:04,760 Speaker 1: things to talk about. I want to go to Amy first. 133 00:05:04,760 --> 00:05:07,080 Speaker 1: What song comes to mind? If I just say, Jody Messina, 134 00:05:07,160 --> 00:05:09,840 Speaker 1: what's what song first comes to mind? Of all of them? 135 00:05:10,120 --> 00:05:15,080 Speaker 3: I mean, it's got to be heads Carolina. 136 00:05:15,120 --> 00:05:17,640 Speaker 1: Would you think that's common? Is it? Most? Is it 137 00:05:17,720 --> 00:05:20,159 Speaker 1: is that with most people? Because I think bye Bye 138 00:05:20,200 --> 00:05:21,719 Speaker 1: to Me is the one that comes to mind first, 139 00:05:21,920 --> 00:05:22,240 Speaker 1: good one. 140 00:05:22,279 --> 00:05:23,919 Speaker 5: I was trying to see if another would come to me, 141 00:05:23,960 --> 00:05:25,919 Speaker 5: But then that wouldn't be fair because then that the 142 00:05:25,960 --> 00:05:27,480 Speaker 5: first one was Heads Carolina. 143 00:05:27,600 --> 00:05:28,880 Speaker 1: What do you think the first one is the people? 144 00:05:29,760 --> 00:05:33,760 Speaker 4: Probably right now, Heads Carolina because of its resurgence. 145 00:05:33,960 --> 00:05:36,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, because of its resurgence and ah with Cole. 146 00:05:36,640 --> 00:05:37,640 Speaker 1: Yeah that's right. 147 00:05:37,800 --> 00:05:40,360 Speaker 4: But but if you look at you know what people 148 00:05:40,360 --> 00:05:42,919 Speaker 4: are playing from my catalog, I think Bye Bye was first. 149 00:05:42,920 --> 00:05:46,919 Speaker 2: Then I'm alright, Then Heads Carolina is, Yeah, there's a 150 00:05:46,920 --> 00:05:50,000 Speaker 2: lot of them. Then less and stampside me on the. 151 00:05:50,040 --> 00:05:58,080 Speaker 1: Rain sings all your songs back Amy and here Amy, 152 00:05:58,080 --> 00:05:58,400 Speaker 1: go ahead. 153 00:05:58,440 --> 00:06:01,640 Speaker 5: Oh, somebody's gonna give you lesson and leave some bad 154 00:06:01,720 --> 00:06:05,640 Speaker 5: He's gonna give you back you and and I'm around 155 00:06:06,480 --> 00:06:08,400 Speaker 5: to watch you knock it down. 156 00:06:08,960 --> 00:06:09,360 Speaker 1: That's it. 157 00:06:09,520 --> 00:06:10,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, I threw you off. 158 00:06:10,680 --> 00:06:13,839 Speaker 1: Sorry, No, it's no trust me. You didn't throw trust me. 159 00:06:15,720 --> 00:06:20,080 Speaker 1: That's not it at all. Are you still living away 160 00:06:20,080 --> 00:06:20,440 Speaker 1: from here? 161 00:06:20,640 --> 00:06:23,479 Speaker 2: I live here? No, now, I went I didn't. I 162 00:06:23,480 --> 00:06:24,640 Speaker 2: don't talk about this a lot, but. 163 00:06:24,640 --> 00:06:26,480 Speaker 1: Don't you it's you? No, no, no, okay. 164 00:06:26,960 --> 00:06:28,800 Speaker 2: I had a lot to Georgia for a few years. 165 00:06:28,800 --> 00:06:31,720 Speaker 4: I went down there Originally, Cancer Treatment Centers of America 166 00:06:31,839 --> 00:06:33,680 Speaker 4: was down there. They had one in Atlanta and one 167 00:06:33,680 --> 00:06:36,719 Speaker 4: in Minneapolis. Don't exist anymore, but anyways, that's why I 168 00:06:36,720 --> 00:06:38,080 Speaker 4: went there, and I was there for a few years, 169 00:06:38,080 --> 00:06:38,920 Speaker 4: and now I'm back. 170 00:06:39,080 --> 00:06:40,000 Speaker 1: How's your how's your health? 171 00:06:40,240 --> 00:06:41,520 Speaker 2: It's good right now? 172 00:06:41,600 --> 00:06:43,880 Speaker 1: Yeah? Yea monitoring always. 173 00:06:43,720 --> 00:06:44,200 Speaker 2: Once a year. 174 00:06:44,320 --> 00:06:45,920 Speaker 4: No, No, I'm to the point where it's once a year. 175 00:06:45,920 --> 00:06:48,000 Speaker 4: I go on and get checked the blood work and 176 00:06:48,600 --> 00:06:49,800 Speaker 4: scans if needed or whatever. 177 00:06:49,880 --> 00:06:51,200 Speaker 1: How do you feel physically? 178 00:06:52,720 --> 00:06:53,240 Speaker 2: Pretty good? 179 00:06:53,360 --> 00:06:53,520 Speaker 5: Yeah? 180 00:06:53,600 --> 00:06:54,080 Speaker 2: Good days? 181 00:06:54,560 --> 00:06:55,120 Speaker 1: Not good days? 182 00:06:55,200 --> 00:06:58,120 Speaker 2: No, well, the day after leg day or the second 183 00:06:58,160 --> 00:06:58,960 Speaker 2: day after leg day. 184 00:06:59,000 --> 00:07:03,640 Speaker 4: I train every day for a train every day for what? No, wait, 185 00:07:03,720 --> 00:07:04,599 Speaker 4: train like lift? No? 186 00:07:04,640 --> 00:07:07,240 Speaker 1: I know for did I say that? And I tell 187 00:07:07,279 --> 00:07:08,920 Speaker 1: them my train? They're like, why are you training? And 188 00:07:08,960 --> 00:07:10,480 Speaker 1: I'm like, I don't know, apocalypse No. 189 00:07:12,200 --> 00:07:14,840 Speaker 5: He but you act like you're training to be a 190 00:07:14,880 --> 00:07:17,960 Speaker 5: pro athlete, like we're it's like we're training for life, 191 00:07:18,000 --> 00:07:19,440 Speaker 5: like osteoporosis. 192 00:07:20,200 --> 00:07:24,600 Speaker 4: Well, actually I'm going for a look but longer, a 193 00:07:24,640 --> 00:07:26,560 Speaker 4: lot longer, and I wanted it. 194 00:07:26,480 --> 00:07:27,480 Speaker 1: Was projecting right there. 195 00:07:28,720 --> 00:07:31,640 Speaker 5: I'm well, lifting is very important for our bone house, 196 00:07:31,640 --> 00:07:32,360 Speaker 5: its women. 197 00:07:32,360 --> 00:07:35,680 Speaker 4: It's and just yeah, I have kids and you'll you'll 198 00:07:35,720 --> 00:07:37,920 Speaker 4: find this out. It's a lot of energy to came 199 00:07:38,000 --> 00:07:40,720 Speaker 4: up with them. So yeah, and I'm going to start 200 00:07:40,800 --> 00:07:42,520 Speaker 4: running with my fourteen year old. I used to be 201 00:07:42,560 --> 00:07:45,760 Speaker 4: a big time runner. I ran Boston Marathon. 202 00:07:45,520 --> 00:07:46,880 Speaker 2: Chicago Way. 203 00:07:47,600 --> 00:07:51,440 Speaker 4: I didn't qualify Bobby ran I was invited to run 204 00:07:51,520 --> 00:07:53,000 Speaker 4: because I'm from Boston, so. 205 00:07:53,280 --> 00:07:54,640 Speaker 1: I would never have qualified. 206 00:07:54,640 --> 00:07:56,760 Speaker 2: I'm wait, too slow. What was your time? I was 207 00:07:56,840 --> 00:07:57,200 Speaker 2: If you. 208 00:07:57,160 --> 00:07:59,559 Speaker 4: Go look at that year, I am the second to last, 209 00:07:59,640 --> 00:08:04,000 Speaker 4: only before my brother, who let me cross the line first. 210 00:08:04,280 --> 00:08:06,920 Speaker 4: Because they cut it off at six hours. I think 211 00:08:06,920 --> 00:08:09,040 Speaker 4: we're five hours and fifty nine minutes. I pulled my 212 00:08:09,080 --> 00:08:12,160 Speaker 4: it ban at mile six, so I'd have to stop 213 00:08:12,240 --> 00:08:15,640 Speaker 4: every like mile or so and let my leg loosen up, 214 00:08:15,720 --> 00:08:17,400 Speaker 4: let that muscle loosen up, and then start again. 215 00:08:17,920 --> 00:08:19,080 Speaker 2: But I did finish. 216 00:08:19,280 --> 00:08:20,880 Speaker 1: Did you see them shutting down and you're just trying 217 00:08:20,880 --> 00:08:22,920 Speaker 1: to beat them shutting down, taking all the all the 218 00:08:22,920 --> 00:08:25,680 Speaker 1: stuff off. I think they were waiting, but. 219 00:08:27,360 --> 00:08:28,760 Speaker 2: They're like, keep going, keep going. 220 00:08:28,600 --> 00:08:30,560 Speaker 4: Because there was like news cruise when I crossed the 221 00:08:30,560 --> 00:08:32,400 Speaker 4: finish line, and that was the last thing you want 222 00:08:32,440 --> 00:08:34,160 Speaker 4: to do is talk to somebody when you've been running 223 00:08:34,160 --> 00:08:35,000 Speaker 4: for six hours. 224 00:08:35,280 --> 00:08:36,520 Speaker 1: You were a marathon runner. 225 00:08:37,120 --> 00:08:39,320 Speaker 2: Uh yeah, I mean I was never fast. 226 00:08:39,760 --> 00:08:40,520 Speaker 1: It doesn't matter. 227 00:08:40,800 --> 00:08:42,400 Speaker 2: It's kind of the story of my life. 228 00:08:42,400 --> 00:08:44,319 Speaker 4: You just keep going, You just keep going, You just 229 00:08:44,400 --> 00:08:46,800 Speaker 4: keep going, keep going again. 230 00:08:46,800 --> 00:08:48,439 Speaker 2: I'm gonna reference your book. I love it. 231 00:08:48,720 --> 00:08:52,640 Speaker 1: Thank you biting on Amazon everybody I know, Well, until 232 00:08:52,640 --> 00:08:56,440 Speaker 1: you don't. So how many did you do? You did Boston, Chicago, Chicago? 233 00:08:56,520 --> 00:08:58,000 Speaker 4: I did the whole Chicago, I did the half of 234 00:08:58,040 --> 00:09:00,960 Speaker 4: San Antonio, cross the finish line, walked on stage and 235 00:09:00,960 --> 00:09:03,000 Speaker 4: played the show. It was a rock and roll marathon, 236 00:09:03,040 --> 00:09:04,240 Speaker 4: so they have a concert at the end. 237 00:09:04,440 --> 00:09:07,200 Speaker 2: I was it. So I had to finish my half 238 00:09:07,240 --> 00:09:09,440 Speaker 2: marathon before the set started. 239 00:09:09,840 --> 00:09:12,280 Speaker 1: So that was a little but you knew that was 240 00:09:12,480 --> 00:09:13,120 Speaker 1: like you knew. 241 00:09:13,000 --> 00:09:14,719 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, oh yeah, they hired me to go down there, 242 00:09:14,760 --> 00:09:14,920 Speaker 2: but you. 243 00:09:14,920 --> 00:09:16,680 Speaker 1: Knew you were gonna run it and then play. Yes, 244 00:09:16,720 --> 00:09:17,800 Speaker 1: How was that was it hard to do? 245 00:09:18,800 --> 00:09:20,480 Speaker 2: It was okay, It was okay. 246 00:09:20,600 --> 00:09:23,400 Speaker 4: You know, my legs started to feel a little jellowy 247 00:09:23,440 --> 00:09:24,480 Speaker 4: towards the middle of the show. 248 00:09:24,880 --> 00:09:27,679 Speaker 1: And then that's crazy that you do. You're doing a 249 00:09:27,720 --> 00:09:30,120 Speaker 1: lot of shows. I was looking at your tour schedule. 250 00:09:30,200 --> 00:09:32,760 Speaker 1: It's part of I would imagine being in shape helps 251 00:09:32,760 --> 00:09:34,920 Speaker 1: you do like a more of active show? 252 00:09:35,040 --> 00:09:37,600 Speaker 2: Right, Yes, my show is very active. 253 00:09:37,800 --> 00:09:38,520 Speaker 1: What do you mean by that? 254 00:09:39,000 --> 00:09:41,520 Speaker 4: I don't stand still. I'm like, there's two songs where 255 00:09:41,559 --> 00:09:43,720 Speaker 4: I play a guitar on and that's about the stillest 256 00:09:43,760 --> 00:09:46,160 Speaker 4: I get. And then other than that, I'm running around. 257 00:09:46,240 --> 00:09:47,839 Speaker 4: I'm headbanging. 258 00:09:49,280 --> 00:09:50,920 Speaker 2: You'll see a lot of pictures my hair flying. 259 00:09:51,600 --> 00:09:53,480 Speaker 1: What do you do as your not a beauty show 260 00:09:53,520 --> 00:09:55,240 Speaker 1: by any means, I want to spoil it, But what 261 00:09:55,280 --> 00:09:58,120 Speaker 1: do you do? You have so many big songs, what's 262 00:09:58,160 --> 00:09:59,400 Speaker 1: the what do you do as your final song? 263 00:10:01,679 --> 00:10:02,720 Speaker 2: Final song of the night? 264 00:10:02,840 --> 00:10:03,840 Speaker 1: Yeah? Is this a spoiler? 265 00:10:04,520 --> 00:10:05,640 Speaker 2: No, it's not my song. 266 00:10:06,360 --> 00:10:10,560 Speaker 4: Okay, I give a little pep talk to the audience. 267 00:10:10,679 --> 00:10:12,480 Speaker 4: I'm like, if you have dreams and the things that 268 00:10:12,520 --> 00:10:14,600 Speaker 4: you want to do, surround yourself with positive people. 269 00:10:14,640 --> 00:10:17,480 Speaker 1: Can I guess? Then? Yeah, give me the pep talk. 270 00:10:17,200 --> 00:10:21,079 Speaker 4: So okay, Oh well it ends with okay. So I 271 00:10:21,120 --> 00:10:22,679 Speaker 4: mentioned you know, if you have something that you want 272 00:10:22,720 --> 00:10:25,640 Speaker 4: to do, don't surround yourself with naysayers because there's plenty 273 00:10:25,640 --> 00:10:27,400 Speaker 4: of people that will say, well, that won't work. Because 274 00:10:27,840 --> 00:10:29,960 Speaker 4: and I always tell my team, I'm like, please don't 275 00:10:30,000 --> 00:10:31,440 Speaker 4: tell me, Why not tell me? 276 00:10:31,920 --> 00:10:33,360 Speaker 2: How you want people. 277 00:10:33,400 --> 00:10:35,960 Speaker 4: And I'm like, look, God's word tells us that the 278 00:10:36,040 --> 00:10:37,440 Speaker 4: tongue has the power of life and death. 279 00:10:37,600 --> 00:10:40,240 Speaker 2: You that have people around you that are like, oh, yeah, well, 280 00:10:40,400 --> 00:10:42,680 Speaker 2: not sure that's gonna work out, or that's dumb, nobody's 281 00:10:42,720 --> 00:10:44,160 Speaker 2: doing that, or you. 282 00:10:44,120 --> 00:10:46,120 Speaker 4: Have people that are like, you can do it, You've 283 00:10:46,160 --> 00:10:48,360 Speaker 4: got this. No, And I do say to the audience, 284 00:10:48,400 --> 00:10:50,680 Speaker 4: I'm like, I'm not saying you're the greatest in the world. 285 00:10:50,760 --> 00:10:54,280 Speaker 4: I was never said. My sister was my greatest support. 286 00:10:54,360 --> 00:10:57,400 Speaker 4: She's like fifteen years older than me, and she never 287 00:10:57,559 --> 00:10:59,560 Speaker 4: was like, oh, you're such a great singer. She's just like, 288 00:10:59,800 --> 00:11:01,960 Speaker 4: you just gotta keep going. And I remember I got 289 00:11:02,000 --> 00:11:03,560 Speaker 4: turned down by a record label in Nashville. 290 00:11:03,600 --> 00:11:06,160 Speaker 2: They said it was too fat, and I. 291 00:11:06,160 --> 00:11:09,400 Speaker 4: Was actually said that they told my producer that, oh, 292 00:11:09,400 --> 00:11:11,720 Speaker 4: if she was ten pounds to the lighter, my designer 293 00:11:11,880 --> 00:11:12,520 Speaker 4: is what they said. 294 00:11:13,040 --> 00:11:14,959 Speaker 2: So and I was devastated. 295 00:11:14,960 --> 00:11:17,920 Speaker 4: And she's like, I said, I did this showcase and 296 00:11:18,840 --> 00:11:21,680 Speaker 4: I didn't get the record daily passed And she's like yes. 297 00:11:22,080 --> 00:11:24,400 Speaker 2: I was like, what do you mean. Yes, She's like, oh. 298 00:11:24,240 --> 00:11:25,800 Speaker 4: They say you have to get passed on a thousand 299 00:11:25,880 --> 00:11:27,480 Speaker 4: times before you get a deal. 300 00:11:27,520 --> 00:11:29,040 Speaker 2: She's like, now you only have nine hundred and ninety 301 00:11:29,080 --> 00:11:29,480 Speaker 2: nine left. 302 00:11:29,920 --> 00:11:32,480 Speaker 4: Just keep going, just keep going. And I was like, 303 00:11:32,520 --> 00:11:34,199 Speaker 4: and whatever you do, don't stop believing. 304 00:11:34,480 --> 00:11:36,040 Speaker 1: Oh well, now we know the song. Don't stop believing. 305 00:11:36,120 --> 00:11:37,239 Speaker 2: That's the end. 306 00:11:37,720 --> 00:11:39,440 Speaker 1: Well yeah, but you could you could have not said 307 00:11:39,440 --> 00:11:39,800 Speaker 1: that part. 308 00:11:39,840 --> 00:11:41,880 Speaker 2: I don't know the name was it. 309 00:11:42,160 --> 00:11:43,599 Speaker 1: You know what I was going to guess though the 310 00:11:43,679 --> 00:11:46,800 Speaker 1: climb Miley Cyrus's gonna. 311 00:11:46,520 --> 00:11:52,720 Speaker 2: Ben up bad, always going on to make you. Hey, 312 00:11:52,720 --> 00:11:54,800 Speaker 2: the hand of Montana thing is coming back. We gotta 313 00:11:54,840 --> 00:11:58,200 Speaker 2: do the dance. Did you see that on TikTok? Only 314 00:11:58,240 --> 00:11:59,640 Speaker 2: took us four hours turn? 315 00:12:00,480 --> 00:12:03,400 Speaker 1: So you'll practice, you'll practice a long time for your tiktoks. 316 00:12:03,600 --> 00:12:04,839 Speaker 2: Well, that one was long. 317 00:12:04,960 --> 00:12:08,160 Speaker 4: I never I didn't know it at all, and then 318 00:12:08,880 --> 00:12:11,040 Speaker 4: we learned it. We're on the road, boy, my legs. 319 00:12:10,880 --> 00:12:12,720 Speaker 3: Are so the next day the hand him Montana dance. 320 00:12:13,200 --> 00:12:15,360 Speaker 1: Who says to you, this should be the next TikTok 321 00:12:15,360 --> 00:12:15,760 Speaker 1: that we do. 322 00:12:17,920 --> 00:12:20,400 Speaker 2: I don't know. I don't know if we do. 323 00:12:20,440 --> 00:12:22,040 Speaker 1: You doom scroll on TikTok? 324 00:12:22,200 --> 00:12:26,040 Speaker 2: I don't. I don't have time and scroll. But uh, 325 00:12:26,200 --> 00:12:27,320 Speaker 2: the one that dances with me. 326 00:12:27,400 --> 00:12:32,479 Speaker 4: Sometimes we'll have suggestions. Yeah, probably he would be the most. 327 00:12:32,320 --> 00:12:35,880 Speaker 1: When you moved to town. How long until you had 328 00:12:35,920 --> 00:12:37,440 Speaker 1: any sort of traction at all? 329 00:12:41,040 --> 00:12:42,480 Speaker 2: Four years? 330 00:12:42,679 --> 00:12:44,280 Speaker 1: Did that four years feel like forty years? 331 00:12:44,280 --> 00:12:44,680 Speaker 2: It did? 332 00:12:44,880 --> 00:12:48,000 Speaker 4: I remember my first year was all about trying to survive, 333 00:12:48,920 --> 00:12:51,360 Speaker 4: finding a place to live, pay in the bills. Like, 334 00:12:51,440 --> 00:12:53,719 Speaker 4: I didn't sing, and there weren't as many places. We 335 00:12:53,760 --> 00:12:58,240 Speaker 4: didn't have Broadway Broadway was Tutsi's I think that was it. 336 00:12:58,280 --> 00:13:00,960 Speaker 4: And then Ernest Tub's Record shop or whatever. It wasn't 337 00:13:01,000 --> 00:13:03,480 Speaker 4: like fifty thousand bars with you know, open twenty four 338 00:13:03,480 --> 00:13:05,760 Speaker 4: hours and different shifts or whatever, so there wasn't a 339 00:13:05,800 --> 00:13:06,680 Speaker 4: lot of places to sing. 340 00:13:06,720 --> 00:13:06,880 Speaker 2: Back. 341 00:13:06,920 --> 00:13:09,199 Speaker 1: Then once he got here, where did you sing? Then? 342 00:13:09,720 --> 00:13:14,679 Speaker 4: Uh, talent nights I'd perform. I needed money for rent, 343 00:13:14,760 --> 00:13:16,760 Speaker 4: so I would do the talent contests. 344 00:13:16,960 --> 00:13:19,400 Speaker 1: Oh you wouldn't try to win? Did you win? 345 00:13:19,520 --> 00:13:19,840 Speaker 2: Yes? 346 00:13:20,520 --> 00:13:23,400 Speaker 4: Yes I did, And that's how I got my start. 347 00:13:23,400 --> 00:13:25,320 Speaker 4: I want a chance to perform on a radio show 348 00:13:25,360 --> 00:13:27,160 Speaker 4: as well. And then the radio show had me back 349 00:13:27,280 --> 00:13:30,760 Speaker 4: every Saturday night. It was called Live Libby's from Daysville, Kentucky. 350 00:13:31,080 --> 00:13:34,640 Speaker 4: It's gone, but that's where my producer, Barron Gallimore heard me, 351 00:13:35,160 --> 00:13:37,880 Speaker 4: who was producing Tim McGrath at the time, and then 352 00:13:37,920 --> 00:13:40,240 Speaker 4: I took a meeting with him and then he's like, hey, 353 00:13:40,320 --> 00:13:41,559 Speaker 4: let's work on a demo. 354 00:13:42,559 --> 00:13:46,400 Speaker 1: So what would you sing to win these competitions? Because 355 00:13:46,400 --> 00:13:48,800 Speaker 1: I like, what was your go to? Oh my gosh, 356 00:13:48,960 --> 00:13:51,480 Speaker 1: rumor has it not adel? 357 00:13:53,240 --> 00:13:55,720 Speaker 2: Rumor? Has it you? 358 00:13:56,800 --> 00:13:59,600 Speaker 1: And would you know they would that you'd melt them 359 00:13:59,600 --> 00:13:59,719 Speaker 1: with that? 360 00:14:00,720 --> 00:14:00,920 Speaker 4: No? 361 00:14:01,080 --> 00:14:04,120 Speaker 2: I was always terrified. Yeah, I was always ri Did 362 00:14:04,160 --> 00:14:04,640 Speaker 2: you lose? 363 00:14:05,280 --> 00:14:08,679 Speaker 1: Yeah? Did you ever lose? Anybody else that ended up 364 00:14:08,679 --> 00:14:09,000 Speaker 1: making it? 365 00:14:10,480 --> 00:14:10,760 Speaker 2: No. 366 00:14:11,120 --> 00:14:15,000 Speaker 4: There was one girl that I had done something with 367 00:14:15,240 --> 00:14:15,760 Speaker 4: a long time. 368 00:14:15,840 --> 00:14:19,720 Speaker 2: We were on a competition and she is nasty. She 369 00:14:19,880 --> 00:14:22,920 Speaker 2: is mean. And then later after I had Carolina came out. 370 00:14:22,960 --> 00:14:25,680 Speaker 4: She got a record deal, but it didn't work out 371 00:14:25,880 --> 00:14:29,960 Speaker 4: so good. I didn't say that I did good, but 372 00:14:30,040 --> 00:14:33,240 Speaker 4: she's so mean good she had money I didn't. So 373 00:14:33,280 --> 00:14:35,120 Speaker 4: she had like the fancy guitar on the fancy clothes 374 00:14:35,160 --> 00:14:36,880 Speaker 4: and was like, yeah, you're like. 375 00:14:38,360 --> 00:14:40,240 Speaker 2: And so she's just not nice. 376 00:14:40,520 --> 00:14:44,600 Speaker 1: How does somebody from Massachusetts, That's exactly what I was 377 00:14:44,640 --> 00:14:47,880 Speaker 1: going to ask you, how did they get into country music? 378 00:14:48,320 --> 00:14:48,480 Speaker 5: Well? 379 00:14:48,520 --> 00:14:50,840 Speaker 4: I had gone to a boarding school and there were 380 00:14:50,880 --> 00:14:52,880 Speaker 4: kids from all over the country there, and one of 381 00:14:52,920 --> 00:14:54,520 Speaker 4: them was from like the South and would listen to 382 00:14:54,520 --> 00:14:57,320 Speaker 4: country music. And I just loved it because I was like, Oh, 383 00:14:57,320 --> 00:15:00,600 Speaker 4: they're singing about me, They're singing about my life. And 384 00:15:00,680 --> 00:15:02,080 Speaker 4: so I would gravitate towards that. 385 00:15:02,360 --> 00:15:06,400 Speaker 1: Even though you lived in Massachusetts, like your rural Massachusetts. 386 00:15:06,040 --> 00:15:08,000 Speaker 2: About thirty thirty miles outside of Boston. 387 00:15:08,040 --> 00:15:09,840 Speaker 1: Then how was it your life? What would you hear 388 00:15:09,920 --> 00:15:10,440 Speaker 1: that would reo? 389 00:15:11,880 --> 00:15:14,120 Speaker 2: Would I hear baby alone? 390 00:15:14,720 --> 00:15:16,200 Speaker 1: When I told you. 391 00:15:16,120 --> 00:15:19,560 Speaker 2: I could walk away? Remember that one? No, you don't. 392 00:15:20,800 --> 00:15:21,360 Speaker 2: It's a song. 393 00:15:21,600 --> 00:15:22,520 Speaker 1: I know a song. 394 00:15:22,600 --> 00:15:26,120 Speaker 2: Break it to me gently, remember that. 395 00:15:26,240 --> 00:15:32,160 Speaker 1: No one, No, I think Amy's hybriding songs. 396 00:15:32,160 --> 00:15:35,480 Speaker 4: Now, No, I feel like the recommend And then I 397 00:15:35,520 --> 00:15:37,480 Speaker 4: remember Alabama came out with rul Ow. 398 00:15:37,760 --> 00:15:40,920 Speaker 2: I was like, oh, this is so cool. And the Judge, 399 00:15:40,960 --> 00:15:43,120 Speaker 2: the Judgs came out too. Love that. 400 00:15:43,520 --> 00:15:45,440 Speaker 1: We had a lot of Judge in my house, my 401 00:15:45,480 --> 00:15:48,760 Speaker 1: mom and my grandma. It was all Judges all the time. 402 00:15:48,960 --> 00:15:52,760 Speaker 2: Yeah. Then that I loved it, and so I gravitated towards. 403 00:15:52,640 --> 00:15:54,800 Speaker 1: Were you singing in high school? Like in school I was. 404 00:15:54,920 --> 00:15:58,080 Speaker 4: I started performing out in clubs when I was thirteen 405 00:15:58,160 --> 00:15:58,920 Speaker 4: or fourteen. 406 00:15:59,120 --> 00:16:04,840 Speaker 2: My mother would drive me. I'd sleep through class. It 407 00:16:04,920 --> 00:16:06,760 Speaker 2: does not advice for those listening. 408 00:16:07,240 --> 00:16:09,080 Speaker 4: But anyways, my mom would drive me out to open 409 00:16:09,080 --> 00:16:10,840 Speaker 4: mic nights and I'd sit in with bands, and then 410 00:16:11,600 --> 00:16:14,280 Speaker 4: my brother and my sister and myself put a band together, 411 00:16:15,080 --> 00:16:17,040 Speaker 4: and then I'd ride with my older siblings. 412 00:16:17,160 --> 00:16:19,040 Speaker 1: You had a family band kind of. 413 00:16:19,120 --> 00:16:21,320 Speaker 2: Yeah. We hired a guitar player, but my sister played 414 00:16:21,360 --> 00:16:22,760 Speaker 2: the bass, my brother played the drums. 415 00:16:22,800 --> 00:16:26,520 Speaker 1: Did they not want to pursue it farther because they 416 00:16:26,520 --> 00:16:27,920 Speaker 1: didn't move down for music, did they? 417 00:16:28,000 --> 00:16:28,520 Speaker 2: They did not. 418 00:16:28,920 --> 00:16:31,320 Speaker 4: They live here or now, but they did not. I think, 419 00:16:31,440 --> 00:16:32,920 Speaker 4: you know, it was just a time where you just 420 00:16:32,920 --> 00:16:33,880 Speaker 4: got to get a real job. 421 00:16:34,280 --> 00:16:34,600 Speaker 1: Yeah. 422 00:16:34,600 --> 00:16:36,720 Speaker 4: And so my brothers had the same job since he 423 00:16:36,800 --> 00:16:41,320 Speaker 4: was eighteen and he's a little older now, and like 424 00:16:41,360 --> 00:16:44,800 Speaker 4: he was programming computers for the government or something, you 425 00:16:44,840 --> 00:16:46,360 Speaker 4: know what I mean. He was a computer programmer and 426 00:16:46,400 --> 00:16:49,480 Speaker 4: does that still to this day, same job, same never 427 00:16:49,600 --> 00:16:50,280 Speaker 4: left that job. 428 00:16:50,680 --> 00:16:52,720 Speaker 1: I My theory is there has to be a screw 429 00:16:52,760 --> 00:16:56,640 Speaker 1: loose to even pursue what this is, right, it's got 430 00:16:56,640 --> 00:16:59,400 Speaker 1: to be the right screw. But to pursue any sort 431 00:16:59,400 --> 00:17:02,000 Speaker 1: of art, there's to be a screw loose, Yeah, because 432 00:17:02,040 --> 00:17:04,800 Speaker 1: you have to have like this wild belief in yourself 433 00:17:05,440 --> 00:17:07,119 Speaker 1: that that even other people may not have. Like you 434 00:17:07,160 --> 00:17:08,320 Speaker 1: have to believe in yourself so much. 435 00:17:09,520 --> 00:17:11,600 Speaker 2: Do you just in yourself or do you just have 436 00:17:11,640 --> 00:17:12,399 Speaker 2: to want the dream? 437 00:17:12,560 --> 00:17:13,960 Speaker 1: It can be? But I don't think you can even 438 00:17:14,200 --> 00:17:16,600 Speaker 1: understand the want of it if you don't believe in yourself. 439 00:17:17,000 --> 00:17:19,840 Speaker 4: Really, because I'm really insecure even today. 440 00:17:19,920 --> 00:17:23,119 Speaker 1: But I'm really insecure too. I think insecurity fuels me. 441 00:17:23,480 --> 00:17:25,800 Speaker 1: I'm embarrassed by everything that I do. It's a weird 442 00:17:25,880 --> 00:17:28,360 Speaker 1: juxposition of I believe in myself more than anybody ever, 443 00:17:28,400 --> 00:17:29,640 Speaker 1: but also hate everything about me. 444 00:17:30,280 --> 00:17:31,439 Speaker 2: Right, I hear you. 445 00:17:31,680 --> 00:17:33,399 Speaker 4: I didn't mean that, and I didn't mean way she 446 00:17:33,480 --> 00:17:37,000 Speaker 4: like hate yet, No, no, but I get it because 447 00:17:37,040 --> 00:17:39,320 Speaker 4: you know, I'm looking at myself in the whatever in 448 00:17:39,320 --> 00:17:41,080 Speaker 4: the room. I got my picture taken next to yours 449 00:17:41,080 --> 00:17:43,320 Speaker 4: sign and I was like, I look awful. 450 00:17:43,600 --> 00:17:44,160 Speaker 2: You know what I mean. 451 00:17:44,160 --> 00:17:47,959 Speaker 4: You're your own worst critic, and so that that circle 452 00:17:48,040 --> 00:17:50,520 Speaker 4: just keeps going on and on in your head, even 453 00:17:50,560 --> 00:17:52,960 Speaker 4: when you're standing in front of tens of thousands of people. 454 00:17:53,119 --> 00:17:55,440 Speaker 2: I remember playing on Texas Stadium. 455 00:17:55,600 --> 00:17:57,960 Speaker 4: For the first time, and I stood there at the 456 00:17:58,040 --> 00:18:01,639 Speaker 4: edge of the stage and people were like screaming and cheering. 457 00:18:01,680 --> 00:18:04,719 Speaker 4: It was so loud it like rumbled the stage, and 458 00:18:04,800 --> 00:18:06,879 Speaker 4: I'm like, what am I doing here? 459 00:18:07,560 --> 00:18:10,480 Speaker 2: Like I don't belong here? Like did they? And none 460 00:18:10,480 --> 00:18:11,960 Speaker 2: of these people realize. 461 00:18:11,520 --> 00:18:15,960 Speaker 1: That, and you can't let them out know that you're thinking. 462 00:18:15,640 --> 00:18:17,399 Speaker 2: That, Yeah, well I didn't. 463 00:18:17,400 --> 00:18:21,639 Speaker 1: Now, Yeah, I think that. I think that happens with 464 00:18:21,680 --> 00:18:23,600 Speaker 1: a lot of artists though that when you, for me, 465 00:18:23,680 --> 00:18:26,920 Speaker 1: especially when I got to a point, you start to go, man, 466 00:18:26,960 --> 00:18:29,120 Speaker 1: I don't like, does this kind of crazy? I don't 467 00:18:29,119 --> 00:18:32,080 Speaker 1: know if I'm actually good enough, but I believe I 468 00:18:32,600 --> 00:18:34,920 Speaker 1: at least believed I was good enough at some point. 469 00:18:35,119 --> 00:18:37,760 Speaker 4: I think there's a point of gratitude too, where the 470 00:18:37,800 --> 00:18:40,680 Speaker 4: gratitude kicks in. So if you go see my show now, 471 00:18:40,760 --> 00:18:43,920 Speaker 4: it isn't really hey look at me, I'm up here. 472 00:18:44,080 --> 00:18:46,400 Speaker 4: It's like, oh my gosh, we're gonna have so much fun, 473 00:18:46,880 --> 00:18:48,840 Speaker 4: you know, and I do. We have a blast with 474 00:18:48,880 --> 00:18:49,440 Speaker 4: the audience. 475 00:18:49,560 --> 00:18:51,840 Speaker 1: But for you to move down here, uh huh and 476 00:18:51,920 --> 00:18:54,159 Speaker 1: want to be a singer and also have to have 477 00:18:54,160 --> 00:18:56,040 Speaker 1: a job to make money again, you didn't have the 478 00:18:56,080 --> 00:18:59,080 Speaker 1: benefit of having your bills paid for and still pursuing 479 00:18:59,080 --> 00:19:02,600 Speaker 1: this like there's a there's a small screw loose to 480 00:19:02,640 --> 00:19:03,560 Speaker 1: think you could do that. 481 00:19:04,520 --> 00:19:05,879 Speaker 2: I think it was naive. 482 00:19:06,720 --> 00:19:07,800 Speaker 1: It was that's a superpower. 483 00:19:07,800 --> 00:19:08,000 Speaker 5: Though. 484 00:19:08,880 --> 00:19:11,400 Speaker 4: If I knew that everyone that I ran into in 485 00:19:11,440 --> 00:19:13,920 Speaker 4: town was in town for the same reason, I probably 486 00:19:14,359 --> 00:19:16,680 Speaker 4: my insecurity would have kicked in and I'd be like, no, no, no, 487 00:19:16,720 --> 00:19:19,159 Speaker 4: I can't compete with all those people, right, But I 488 00:19:19,200 --> 00:19:21,080 Speaker 4: didn't know, so I was like, Oh, I have in 489 00:19:21,200 --> 00:19:22,920 Speaker 4: order to get a record deal, I gotta go to Nashville. 490 00:19:22,960 --> 00:19:27,159 Speaker 2: So okay, I'm going to Nashville, me and fifty thousand 491 00:19:27,200 --> 00:19:27,760 Speaker 2: other people. 492 00:19:28,160 --> 00:19:30,200 Speaker 1: Did you get down and see other people and go, 493 00:19:30,280 --> 00:19:33,720 Speaker 1: oh wow, the competition is pretty tough. 494 00:19:33,800 --> 00:19:35,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, they're talented. Oh yeah. 495 00:19:36,240 --> 00:19:39,080 Speaker 4: I'd go to these talent contests and I'd be like, oh, 496 00:19:39,160 --> 00:19:40,520 Speaker 4: I'll just put my name on the list. 497 00:19:40,920 --> 00:19:41,520 Speaker 2: Something to do. 498 00:19:41,520 --> 00:19:42,520 Speaker 1: Did you ever almost go home? 499 00:19:43,880 --> 00:19:47,080 Speaker 2: No, because I loved to sing. I loved to perform. 500 00:19:47,240 --> 00:19:49,000 Speaker 4: So that's what would fuel me and keep me in 501 00:19:49,000 --> 00:19:50,960 Speaker 4: the room, was my chance to sing. 502 00:19:51,280 --> 00:19:53,720 Speaker 5: That record label story is still thinking about them that 503 00:19:53,880 --> 00:19:57,720 Speaker 5: said you were ten pounds. If I was, would have 504 00:19:57,760 --> 00:20:01,160 Speaker 5: signed me like that, Like whenever you did get your 505 00:20:01,160 --> 00:20:03,000 Speaker 5: first hit, did you ever think, like, you know, having 506 00:20:03,080 --> 00:20:04,400 Speaker 5: like a pretty woman moment with them? 507 00:20:04,400 --> 00:20:06,960 Speaker 3: Of like big mistake, huge, Like I have to go 508 00:20:07,040 --> 00:20:07,879 Speaker 3: make music. 509 00:20:07,680 --> 00:20:12,280 Speaker 5: Now because I I can'ce on thinking about how I mean, 510 00:20:12,320 --> 00:20:15,879 Speaker 5: I know that's the reality for a lot of women 511 00:20:16,000 --> 00:20:19,160 Speaker 5: in the business pop country. We've heard a lot of people, 512 00:20:19,320 --> 00:20:22,000 Speaker 5: especially now that they're older, they're like, oh, yeah, when 513 00:20:22,000 --> 00:20:23,679 Speaker 5: I was first starting out, I heard this from my 514 00:20:23,680 --> 00:20:25,240 Speaker 5: record label, this from my management team. 515 00:20:25,400 --> 00:20:27,199 Speaker 2: I wasn't to wear my hair this way. I had 516 00:20:27,240 --> 00:20:28,359 Speaker 2: to wear these clothes. I had to. 517 00:20:28,600 --> 00:20:30,920 Speaker 3: Yeah, So I mean, did you I don't know, did 518 00:20:30,960 --> 00:20:32,080 Speaker 3: you just like let it go or. 519 00:20:33,840 --> 00:20:36,240 Speaker 2: It's thirty years later, I'm still talking about it. 520 00:20:38,400 --> 00:20:40,280 Speaker 3: I didn't let it go, or like you run into 521 00:20:40,320 --> 00:20:41,480 Speaker 3: them like kind of just. 522 00:20:41,920 --> 00:20:43,400 Speaker 1: You a feel like it's not happening now too. 523 00:20:43,560 --> 00:20:45,600 Speaker 5: Oh yeah, no, I'm sure. I guess I just have 524 00:20:45,640 --> 00:20:47,080 Speaker 5: a little bit of hope that maybe we progress a 525 00:20:47,119 --> 00:20:50,840 Speaker 5: little bit. But you're right, we probably as much as 526 00:20:50,880 --> 00:20:53,200 Speaker 5: I would like to think, the does still happen. 527 00:20:53,440 --> 00:20:56,480 Speaker 4: Actually on my record there is I was talking to 528 00:20:56,560 --> 00:20:59,080 Speaker 4: an artist and she's like, man, I just you know, 529 00:20:59,520 --> 00:21:01,240 Speaker 4: I can't do this, I can't do that. I was 530 00:21:01,280 --> 00:21:04,600 Speaker 4: just Oh, she's like exhausted, and I said, whatever you do, 531 00:21:04,600 --> 00:21:07,240 Speaker 4: don't let him hide you're beautiful. And then we wrote 532 00:21:07,240 --> 00:21:08,600 Speaker 4: a song that's actually a song on the album. 533 00:21:08,680 --> 00:21:09,760 Speaker 1: I believe it's track three. 534 00:21:10,040 --> 00:21:14,600 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, there you go, you know everything, but yeah, 535 00:21:14,600 --> 00:21:17,399 Speaker 2: that's where that song came from, with someone being told by. 536 00:21:17,240 --> 00:21:19,240 Speaker 4: Everyone else, no, this is what you need to do, 537 00:21:19,280 --> 00:21:20,720 Speaker 4: this is how you have to look, this is what 538 00:21:20,760 --> 00:21:22,600 Speaker 4: you should do, this is where you should be, this 539 00:21:22,680 --> 00:21:25,080 Speaker 4: is you know. And she's like, none of it's me, 540 00:21:26,040 --> 00:21:26,960 Speaker 4: you know what are they selling? 541 00:21:27,000 --> 00:21:27,399 Speaker 2: It's not me? 542 00:21:27,680 --> 00:21:31,760 Speaker 4: And I was like, well, don't let them hide you're beautiful. 543 00:21:32,119 --> 00:21:34,080 Speaker 1: Was there a time when you got to town where 544 00:21:34,200 --> 00:21:37,040 Speaker 1: you had so much success that you started to feel 545 00:21:37,200 --> 00:21:40,000 Speaker 1: a bit bulletproof because you had you had a run 546 00:21:40,200 --> 00:21:43,000 Speaker 1: like a multi week it's like never been done before, 547 00:21:43,000 --> 00:21:44,560 Speaker 1: where it's like number one for Muti Week, number one 548 00:21:44,600 --> 00:21:45,960 Speaker 1: for multi Week, nombre from multi Week. 549 00:21:46,320 --> 00:21:49,160 Speaker 4: Well, and that's the thing in when you I remember 550 00:21:49,760 --> 00:21:52,159 Speaker 4: Byron Gallamar telling me my producers saying, I was like, 551 00:21:52,240 --> 00:21:53,399 Speaker 4: oh man, it would be so great to have a 552 00:21:53,440 --> 00:21:54,760 Speaker 4: number one record, and he goes yeah, but then you 553 00:21:54,760 --> 00:21:57,399 Speaker 4: got to have another one, and so you were so 554 00:21:57,760 --> 00:22:00,720 Speaker 4: in the chase for the next one for me, and 555 00:22:00,760 --> 00:22:03,880 Speaker 4: then again you're insecure, right, so you were like, oh gosh, 556 00:22:03,880 --> 00:22:05,760 Speaker 4: I gotta have another one, or else I'm done or else. 557 00:22:05,840 --> 00:22:09,479 Speaker 4: What I remember Downtime came out and it peaked at 558 00:22:09,560 --> 00:22:11,960 Speaker 4: number eight. What I would do for a number eight 559 00:22:12,080 --> 00:22:14,320 Speaker 4: song right now? Not really, I mean, but it would 560 00:22:14,359 --> 00:22:16,320 Speaker 4: be such a thrill to have her number eight song, 561 00:22:16,440 --> 00:22:18,960 Speaker 4: right I'd be like, oh my gosh. But as soon 562 00:22:19,000 --> 00:22:21,320 Speaker 4: as that song maxed out at number eight, they're like, well, 563 00:22:21,320 --> 00:22:25,160 Speaker 4: she's done, she's done, she's over again. 564 00:22:25,200 --> 00:22:28,920 Speaker 2: That was like twenty years ago, but still. 565 00:22:29,400 --> 00:22:32,240 Speaker 4: At that point, you know, everyone was so disappointed, and 566 00:22:32,280 --> 00:22:33,760 Speaker 4: I felt like they were disappointed in me. 567 00:22:34,119 --> 00:22:36,199 Speaker 2: I was like, I am a failure. I am you know. 568 00:22:36,400 --> 00:22:38,200 Speaker 4: So I don't know that there ever was a point 569 00:22:39,840 --> 00:22:41,440 Speaker 4: where I felt bulletproof. Now. 570 00:22:41,800 --> 00:22:43,600 Speaker 2: It was always about working harder. 571 00:22:43,760 --> 00:22:46,159 Speaker 1: If you could do it again, or you could tell 572 00:22:46,440 --> 00:22:48,960 Speaker 1: you back then, like right when it was starting to hit, 573 00:22:49,560 --> 00:22:51,480 Speaker 1: like right before you get your first number one, you 574 00:22:51,480 --> 00:22:53,840 Speaker 1: have a deal. What advice would you give yourself? Then? 575 00:22:56,359 --> 00:22:58,000 Speaker 4: I always say this, don't sell out who you are 576 00:22:58,119 --> 00:22:59,440 Speaker 4: just to be successful. 577 00:23:00,000 --> 00:23:01,040 Speaker 1: Do you feel like you did that? 578 00:23:02,560 --> 00:23:05,040 Speaker 2: I think there were moments, yes, where I. 579 00:23:05,040 --> 00:23:07,080 Speaker 4: Did that, and then I would look at pictures and 580 00:23:07,119 --> 00:23:09,680 Speaker 4: be like, oh boy, I remember that, you know, there 581 00:23:09,720 --> 00:23:12,480 Speaker 4: was a point where I was myself. Then we went 582 00:23:12,720 --> 00:23:14,919 Speaker 4: had some success and then all of a sudden the 583 00:23:15,160 --> 00:23:18,320 Speaker 4: people would flock and be like wear this, do that. 584 00:23:18,400 --> 00:23:20,320 Speaker 4: We had a photo shoot and I remember looking at 585 00:23:20,320 --> 00:23:24,080 Speaker 4: these photos. My hair was bone straight long down to 586 00:23:24,119 --> 00:23:26,359 Speaker 4: hear all these like coutore clothes, and I was like, 587 00:23:27,080 --> 00:23:29,240 Speaker 4: I don't know who that is. And they're like, oh, 588 00:23:29,320 --> 00:23:32,400 Speaker 4: but you look beautiful. I'm like, yeah, but I don't 589 00:23:32,440 --> 00:23:34,119 Speaker 4: know who she is. Like, I don't know who that is? 590 00:23:34,119 --> 00:23:35,960 Speaker 4: Who is that I can't I said, I don't go 591 00:23:36,000 --> 00:23:37,000 Speaker 4: to Kroger looking like this. 592 00:23:37,600 --> 00:23:40,280 Speaker 2: You know, people they would never see me look like that. 593 00:23:40,680 --> 00:23:42,959 Speaker 4: You know, I can't sell them. Why would I represent 594 00:23:43,040 --> 00:23:46,320 Speaker 4: something that I'm not? Ooh, which that was then then 595 00:23:46,400 --> 00:23:49,080 Speaker 4: back then it was like, oh, you're being difficult. Oh 596 00:23:49,160 --> 00:23:51,240 Speaker 4: she's hard to work with. And it was really just 597 00:23:51,720 --> 00:23:54,960 Speaker 4: I can't pretend. I can't pretend to be something that 598 00:23:55,000 --> 00:23:55,280 Speaker 4: i'm not. 599 00:23:56,160 --> 00:23:57,639 Speaker 1: Were there a group of women that kind of had 600 00:23:57,680 --> 00:24:00,240 Speaker 1: each other's back? Did you have at all? Or we're 601 00:24:00,240 --> 00:24:01,280 Speaker 1: just so competitive? 602 00:24:01,760 --> 00:24:03,159 Speaker 2: No, it wasn't. I don't know that. 603 00:24:03,200 --> 00:24:06,080 Speaker 4: It was like backbiting competitive and I don't even know 604 00:24:06,119 --> 00:24:07,679 Speaker 4: if it's that way now. I think a lot of 605 00:24:07,720 --> 00:24:11,640 Speaker 4: social media creates those scenarios where it's like I see 606 00:24:11,680 --> 00:24:14,200 Speaker 4: all these girls and just I love them. Be course, 607 00:24:14,200 --> 00:24:17,199 Speaker 4: I'm a little older, so I'm gonna you know, they 608 00:24:17,200 --> 00:24:17,679 Speaker 4: don't see me. 609 00:24:17,720 --> 00:24:19,400 Speaker 2: I was like, I wanna get out of my way. 610 00:24:20,000 --> 00:24:22,399 Speaker 4: But I think at that point, again, I was just 611 00:24:22,520 --> 00:24:25,680 Speaker 4: running so hard for the end zone that I didn't 612 00:24:25,760 --> 00:24:26,680 Speaker 4: really I'm. 613 00:24:26,520 --> 00:24:27,399 Speaker 2: Always on the road. 614 00:24:27,680 --> 00:24:30,119 Speaker 4: I was always, you know, touring always, or in the 615 00:24:30,160 --> 00:24:33,040 Speaker 4: studio or whatever. I didn't have time to be like, hey, 616 00:24:33,080 --> 00:24:35,479 Speaker 4: how's it going, And I was terrified, you know it 617 00:24:35,560 --> 00:24:39,640 Speaker 4: Actually okay, back to the insecurity. There was one one 618 00:24:39,960 --> 00:24:42,320 Speaker 4: award show I remember I shared a dressing room with 619 00:24:42,440 --> 00:24:44,560 Speaker 4: Trisha Yearwood, Martine McBride, faith Hill. 620 00:24:44,560 --> 00:24:47,760 Speaker 2: You would talk about beautiful women. Colley stand next to 621 00:24:47,760 --> 00:24:48,880 Speaker 2: faith Hill. I never will. 622 00:24:48,920 --> 00:24:54,240 Speaker 4: She's still stunning. And I had a curtained off section 623 00:24:54,359 --> 00:24:57,399 Speaker 4: in the back corner and I didn't come out. I 624 00:24:57,520 --> 00:24:59,480 Speaker 4: was just I did not feel worthy enough to be 625 00:24:59,520 --> 00:25:01,639 Speaker 4: in the room with those girls. And so they but 626 00:25:01,760 --> 00:25:05,119 Speaker 4: they read it probably this is just that, Oh she 627 00:25:05,200 --> 00:25:07,080 Speaker 4: thinks she's all that, and I wasn't all that. 628 00:25:07,240 --> 00:25:09,960 Speaker 2: I was just like, oh my gosh, I'm hiding from 629 00:25:09,960 --> 00:25:11,840 Speaker 2: these beautiful talented girls. 630 00:25:12,359 --> 00:25:15,359 Speaker 4: So it wasn't it wasn't cutthroat or anything. It was 631 00:25:15,440 --> 00:25:18,200 Speaker 4: just keep your eye on your own on your own 632 00:25:18,200 --> 00:25:19,720 Speaker 4: game at that point. 633 00:25:19,480 --> 00:25:21,000 Speaker 1: When you decide that you're going to do a new 634 00:25:21,040 --> 00:25:23,560 Speaker 1: album or was it an album because it could have 635 00:25:23,560 --> 00:25:25,080 Speaker 1: just been a couple songs, and I kept growing like 636 00:25:25,119 --> 00:25:25,560 Speaker 1: what was this? 637 00:25:26,840 --> 00:25:29,600 Speaker 4: It turned out I started writing a lot with people 638 00:25:29,640 --> 00:25:31,639 Speaker 4: in town, and then someone's like, you should record this. 639 00:25:31,720 --> 00:25:33,639 Speaker 4: You should record this, this is a hit, you should 640 00:25:33,640 --> 00:25:35,919 Speaker 4: record this. And then it just started to roll into 641 00:25:36,119 --> 00:25:39,560 Speaker 4: a full project because I was like, whoa, I don't 642 00:25:39,800 --> 00:25:41,199 Speaker 4: you know. I'm just here to write. I just love 643 00:25:41,240 --> 00:25:43,680 Speaker 4: to write, you know. I'm still out touring, always been touring. 644 00:25:44,720 --> 00:25:46,360 Speaker 4: And so then they were like, you should really put 645 00:25:46,400 --> 00:25:48,000 Speaker 4: this together as a as a record, and I was like, 646 00:25:48,000 --> 00:25:49,520 Speaker 4: I don't know if anyone who wants to hear a 647 00:25:49,520 --> 00:25:51,879 Speaker 4: record for me, and they're like, just do it, so 648 00:25:52,080 --> 00:25:52,640 Speaker 4: we did. 649 00:25:52,920 --> 00:25:55,800 Speaker 1: So have you put any expectations on yourself with this record? You? 650 00:25:55,880 --> 00:25:58,600 Speaker 1: I'm asking you again, not anybody else like it? Or 651 00:25:58,640 --> 00:26:01,879 Speaker 1: has the expectation been met already by just creating it. 652 00:26:04,760 --> 00:26:08,480 Speaker 4: I would love to hear how people like yourself like 653 00:26:08,560 --> 00:26:11,480 Speaker 4: the record. You know, of course you're always so kind, 654 00:26:11,560 --> 00:26:14,320 Speaker 4: so you wouldn't be like, well, this sucks so not 655 00:26:14,400 --> 00:26:17,680 Speaker 4: to my face, but I'd love to hear that because 656 00:26:17,760 --> 00:26:21,479 Speaker 4: I wrote everything on the record, and it's never happened before. 657 00:26:21,640 --> 00:26:23,840 Speaker 4: I've never written every I've never been able to like 658 00:26:24,119 --> 00:26:27,399 Speaker 4: pour my entire guts into an album. And that's the 659 00:26:27,440 --> 00:26:31,040 Speaker 4: difference between now and then, or then and now or whatever. 660 00:26:32,080 --> 00:26:34,520 Speaker 4: Is a lot of stuff that I recorded was written 661 00:26:34,520 --> 00:26:37,480 Speaker 4: by other people and staff writers at certain places where 662 00:26:37,600 --> 00:26:40,920 Speaker 4: that were the great songwriters. Nowadays, the artists write most 663 00:26:40,920 --> 00:26:43,240 Speaker 4: of their records, and I was like, oh, can I 664 00:26:43,320 --> 00:26:43,600 Speaker 4: do that? 665 00:26:43,680 --> 00:26:45,119 Speaker 2: I can do that? This is great. 666 00:26:45,520 --> 00:26:47,280 Speaker 4: So this is the first time I've ever had a 667 00:26:47,280 --> 00:26:49,199 Speaker 4: write There's one song I didn't write, but for the 668 00:26:49,200 --> 00:26:51,040 Speaker 4: rest of the record, I wrote everything on there. 669 00:26:51,160 --> 00:26:53,320 Speaker 1: So this is way more vulnerable, I think than you've 670 00:26:53,359 --> 00:26:54,880 Speaker 1: ever been as far as a creator. 671 00:26:55,200 --> 00:26:59,960 Speaker 4: Probably. Yeah, there's a song on there. Yeah, there's a song. 672 00:27:00,160 --> 00:27:02,520 Speaker 4: I share this in the live show. It's called if 673 00:27:02,560 --> 00:27:05,360 Speaker 4: He Knew Jesus, And it came out of a conversation 674 00:27:06,520 --> 00:27:08,520 Speaker 4: that I had with somebody and they're like, oh, you know, 675 00:27:08,600 --> 00:27:10,199 Speaker 4: would you ever consider, you know, going out with so 676 00:27:10,240 --> 00:27:11,920 Speaker 4: and so and this. I was like, oh no, no, no, no, 677 00:27:12,480 --> 00:27:15,359 Speaker 4: they gotta love Jesus said, because I've been down that road. 678 00:27:15,880 --> 00:27:18,159 Speaker 4: And so I walked into the writing room and I 679 00:27:18,200 --> 00:27:20,679 Speaker 4: said I have an idea. I said, what if we 680 00:27:20,720 --> 00:27:23,240 Speaker 4: wrote and I'm gonna start crying. I said, I have 681 00:27:23,280 --> 00:27:24,919 Speaker 4: this idea of a song and it and it just 682 00:27:24,960 --> 00:27:30,480 Speaker 4: starts off, well, if he knew Jesus, there'd be no 683 00:27:30,680 --> 00:27:36,000 Speaker 4: raisin these babies alone. And so I still again started crying, 684 00:27:36,040 --> 00:27:38,160 Speaker 4: like I'm crying here, sorry, And. 685 00:27:38,200 --> 00:27:39,560 Speaker 2: The guys looked at me and they're like, oh man, 686 00:27:39,560 --> 00:27:42,640 Speaker 2: it's gonna be a long day. But it wasn't. 687 00:27:42,640 --> 00:27:44,520 Speaker 1: But they knew that was a song. But that's what 688 00:27:44,520 --> 00:27:45,719 Speaker 1: they meant though, right, like see me a long day 689 00:27:45,720 --> 00:27:46,960 Speaker 1: because they're gonna write that song with you. 690 00:27:47,000 --> 00:27:49,000 Speaker 4: Well they're well, just because they're like, oh man, we 691 00:27:49,040 --> 00:27:52,760 Speaker 4: got to deal with her emotion, but we made it through. 692 00:27:53,080 --> 00:27:53,840 Speaker 2: We made it through. 693 00:27:53,920 --> 00:27:57,800 Speaker 4: And then there's a there's a verse in the I'm 694 00:27:57,840 --> 00:27:59,560 Speaker 4: sorry the bridge that's like. 695 00:28:00,680 --> 00:28:02,679 Speaker 2: Well, he might go to church know the words in 696 00:28:02,680 --> 00:28:05,560 Speaker 2: the Bible, but only if he knew the man or whatever. 697 00:28:05,600 --> 00:28:08,159 Speaker 4: And then one of the guys was like, Okay, this 698 00:28:08,280 --> 00:28:10,600 Speaker 4: is making me second, guess myself here. 699 00:28:11,600 --> 00:28:14,160 Speaker 1: So it was just he found salvation and you're writing. 700 00:28:13,960 --> 00:28:16,320 Speaker 4: Oh, that's my that is my hope. What is your 701 00:28:16,359 --> 00:28:18,720 Speaker 4: big What is my biggest hope for this project? And 702 00:28:18,760 --> 00:28:21,919 Speaker 4: I'll be really, really honest is and it might be 703 00:28:21,960 --> 00:28:22,960 Speaker 4: too honest and you can. 704 00:28:22,960 --> 00:28:24,040 Speaker 2: Edit it out if you want. 705 00:28:24,560 --> 00:28:27,719 Speaker 4: Is to be relevant enough to share the gospel with 706 00:28:27,760 --> 00:28:28,760 Speaker 4: people behind the scenes. 707 00:28:29,720 --> 00:28:30,639 Speaker 2: You know my heart on that. 708 00:28:30,800 --> 00:28:32,399 Speaker 1: What do you mean behind the scenes. 709 00:28:32,480 --> 00:28:37,359 Speaker 4: Well, you know, I think because like a lot of 710 00:28:37,359 --> 00:28:39,840 Speaker 4: the new artists, I want to be a safe place 711 00:28:40,240 --> 00:28:43,240 Speaker 4: for them to go when they're like, oh my gosh, 712 00:28:43,360 --> 00:28:48,000 Speaker 4: how do I handle all this? Because they're inundated with 713 00:28:48,200 --> 00:28:51,520 Speaker 4: requests and demands and requirements and all this other stuff, 714 00:28:51,760 --> 00:28:54,720 Speaker 4: and it's like an opportunity to say, hold on a second, 715 00:28:55,280 --> 00:28:59,640 Speaker 4: you're okay, You're okay. I just did a show with 716 00:29:00,800 --> 00:29:06,040 Speaker 4: Carter Faith and I was like, here's my number. Things 717 00:29:06,080 --> 00:29:07,600 Speaker 4: are about to get crazy for you. 718 00:29:07,640 --> 00:29:09,600 Speaker 2: And if you need a safe space, please call me. 719 00:29:10,200 --> 00:29:10,960 Speaker 2: And that's what I want. 720 00:29:11,040 --> 00:29:14,800 Speaker 4: That's my heart's desire is to be a safe place 721 00:29:15,320 --> 00:29:18,040 Speaker 4: for people who are spinning around so fast within the 722 00:29:18,120 --> 00:29:21,640 Speaker 4: industry that they need to step away for a second. 723 00:29:21,760 --> 00:29:24,080 Speaker 4: You know, just realize who they who they really are 724 00:29:24,720 --> 00:29:25,480 Speaker 4: in the midst of it. 725 00:29:25,680 --> 00:29:26,880 Speaker 1: Why would we edit that out? 726 00:29:27,360 --> 00:29:30,600 Speaker 2: Oh, I don't know. I don't like to talk about. 727 00:29:31,880 --> 00:29:34,960 Speaker 4: But that's that's my heart because that's what happened with me. 728 00:29:35,360 --> 00:29:37,760 Speaker 4: I know the road that they're walking. I know that 729 00:29:37,800 --> 00:29:39,920 Speaker 4: the demands that are that are on them and the 730 00:29:40,000 --> 00:29:43,000 Speaker 4: expectation on an everyday basis. I know what it's like 731 00:29:43,080 --> 00:29:48,480 Speaker 4: to have things said that aren't necessarily accurate, and it's hurts. 732 00:29:48,920 --> 00:29:51,600 Speaker 4: It hurts, and so you start to get a hard heart, 733 00:29:51,880 --> 00:29:53,640 Speaker 4: and then you start to get you know, a little 734 00:29:53,680 --> 00:29:55,800 Speaker 4: bit feistier and a little bit and then before you 735 00:29:55,840 --> 00:29:57,800 Speaker 4: know it, you're you don't even know who you are anymore. 736 00:29:58,280 --> 00:30:01,720 Speaker 4: And so just when that understands what they're walking through 737 00:30:02,040 --> 00:30:04,920 Speaker 4: and can give them a safe place to just decompress 738 00:30:04,920 --> 00:30:06,640 Speaker 4: and be themselves, that's awesome. 739 00:30:07,040 --> 00:30:07,680 Speaker 2: That's my heart. 740 00:30:07,920 --> 00:30:14,240 Speaker 1: Yeah. Did CMT make being famous easier and harder? 741 00:30:15,360 --> 00:30:15,880 Speaker 2: In what way? 742 00:30:16,040 --> 00:30:18,520 Speaker 1: People knew who you were because of videos? 743 00:30:18,640 --> 00:30:25,920 Speaker 2: Videos? No, I don't know the easier or harder or both. 744 00:30:26,000 --> 00:30:27,640 Speaker 1: But easier because they now knew who you were as 745 00:30:27,640 --> 00:30:28,920 Speaker 1: a face. For harder because now you had to deal 746 00:30:28,960 --> 00:30:31,440 Speaker 1: with the fame because there weren't really a lot of 747 00:30:32,120 --> 00:30:35,440 Speaker 1: until CMT or MTV. Sometimes you wouldn't know what an RS 748 00:30:35,480 --> 00:30:35,800 Speaker 1: look like. 749 00:30:35,960 --> 00:30:40,560 Speaker 4: Right, Hence the Christopher Cross you know syndrome that happened. 750 00:30:40,600 --> 00:30:42,480 Speaker 4: There was a big singer in a name Christopher Cross, 751 00:30:42,520 --> 00:30:44,959 Speaker 4: and then someone said as soon as the video aspect 752 00:30:45,000 --> 00:30:47,800 Speaker 4: came out, you know, that's when he lost some traction. 753 00:30:47,880 --> 00:30:50,480 Speaker 4: And I was like, well, that doesn't seem fair, but 754 00:30:50,560 --> 00:30:52,560 Speaker 4: it did. It did put a lot of expectation on 755 00:30:52,600 --> 00:30:55,200 Speaker 4: the way you carry yourself and the way you know 756 00:30:55,000 --> 00:30:57,000 Speaker 4: you you have to look and et cetera. It did 757 00:30:57,040 --> 00:31:00,560 Speaker 4: put all that added pressure on you. But also it 758 00:31:00,640 --> 00:31:04,880 Speaker 4: was good for you know, people recognizing you and familiarity 759 00:31:04,880 --> 00:31:07,000 Speaker 4: in the sense of getting shows and getting work. 760 00:31:07,160 --> 00:31:09,400 Speaker 1: Did you ever have like valets handing you music and 761 00:31:09,440 --> 00:31:10,560 Speaker 1: stuff all the time? 762 00:31:10,640 --> 00:31:13,240 Speaker 2: Still they dropped stuff in my mail, in. 763 00:31:13,200 --> 00:31:16,600 Speaker 1: Your mailbox, I got your home yes, Oh no, I 764 00:31:16,600 --> 00:31:17,080 Speaker 1: don't like it. 765 00:31:18,600 --> 00:31:18,920 Speaker 5: I like. 766 00:31:19,080 --> 00:31:22,360 Speaker 4: The latest was the insect guy that came over and 767 00:31:22,360 --> 00:31:24,080 Speaker 4: he's like, hey, yeah, so here will you go check 768 00:31:24,080 --> 00:31:26,600 Speaker 4: out myself on this website. 769 00:31:26,160 --> 00:31:28,960 Speaker 2: Pest control like pest Control. Yes, the insect guy. 770 00:31:29,120 --> 00:31:31,760 Speaker 1: He's a singer too, sounds like right, But was he pest. 771 00:31:31,480 --> 00:31:35,240 Speaker 2: Controlling my house. Yes, and then he sprayed the house. Okay, 772 00:31:35,320 --> 00:31:39,160 Speaker 2: he was like, and don't forget listen to myself. I mean, 773 00:31:39,200 --> 00:31:39,840 Speaker 2: I guess. Yeah. 774 00:31:39,840 --> 00:31:42,160 Speaker 5: They show up and then they realized like, okay, whoa, 775 00:31:42,200 --> 00:31:43,800 Speaker 5: this is Jody Messina's house. 776 00:31:43,840 --> 00:31:45,520 Speaker 3: Like maybe I should choot my shot. 777 00:31:46,120 --> 00:31:48,040 Speaker 2: But what can I do? I'm like, I can't do 778 00:31:48,080 --> 00:31:52,640 Speaker 2: anything for myself. I never I don't know. 779 00:31:52,720 --> 00:31:55,320 Speaker 1: That's not true. That's funny, but that's not true. 780 00:31:55,400 --> 00:31:57,560 Speaker 2: It's kind of true, right. 781 00:31:58,000 --> 00:32:00,880 Speaker 1: I don't think so because you play these where tons 782 00:32:00,920 --> 00:32:03,520 Speaker 1: of people come you're you're so again. I made the 783 00:32:03,520 --> 00:32:06,560 Speaker 1: comment earlier, you're now TikTok relevant, which is hard, the 784 00:32:06,560 --> 00:32:09,640 Speaker 1: hardest thing to be, Like, you just have all these 785 00:32:09,680 --> 00:32:13,920 Speaker 1: different different avenues because fame is so fractured now, it 786 00:32:14,000 --> 00:32:16,520 Speaker 1: is more fractured than I've ever seen it. Somebody could 787 00:32:16,520 --> 00:32:17,920 Speaker 1: be famous to somebody and then the person next to 788 00:32:17,920 --> 00:32:19,400 Speaker 1: them has no idea who they are. Yet this person 789 00:32:19,480 --> 00:32:21,560 Speaker 1: is freaking out because this person that they follow on 790 00:32:21,640 --> 00:32:24,560 Speaker 1: tech talk And so I think you're you're now so 791 00:32:24,960 --> 00:32:28,040 Speaker 1: tucked strongly into these areas of like new versions of fame, 792 00:32:28,280 --> 00:32:29,959 Speaker 1: Like I see people freaking out about you on TikTok 793 00:32:29,960 --> 00:32:31,720 Speaker 1: and I'm like, oh, dang, this is like a whole 794 00:32:31,720 --> 00:32:35,960 Speaker 1: different world of fame versus what the fame that you 795 00:32:36,440 --> 00:32:38,520 Speaker 1: have had for the past twenty twenty five, thirty years 796 00:32:38,600 --> 00:32:38,840 Speaker 1: or so. 797 00:32:39,520 --> 00:32:39,960 Speaker 2: You're right. 798 00:32:40,240 --> 00:32:42,479 Speaker 4: I love that that it's fractured because it used to be, 799 00:32:42,840 --> 00:32:45,600 Speaker 4: you know, so many TV shows and everyone would watch 800 00:32:45,680 --> 00:32:49,960 Speaker 4: them and everyone either had new them or didn't you 801 00:32:50,000 --> 00:32:51,560 Speaker 4: know what I mean. It was like, it's not like 802 00:32:51,720 --> 00:32:54,000 Speaker 4: you know you now have you find your celebrity here, 803 00:32:54,200 --> 00:32:56,479 Speaker 4: you find your music there, or you find you know. 804 00:32:56,720 --> 00:32:59,640 Speaker 4: So that's a great way of describing that's so great. 805 00:33:01,360 --> 00:33:04,320 Speaker 4: But I love it in the sense of people are like, well, 806 00:33:04,360 --> 00:33:07,520 Speaker 4: we think your demographic is da da da da, and 807 00:33:07,560 --> 00:33:09,560 Speaker 4: then you come to and a lot of these people 808 00:33:09,560 --> 00:33:13,240 Speaker 4: don't come to the show. So my old thing is look. 809 00:33:13,080 --> 00:33:15,960 Speaker 2: At the first fifty rows. Yeah, I'm like, we got 810 00:33:16,040 --> 00:33:17,320 Speaker 2: six year olds. 811 00:33:17,200 --> 00:33:20,840 Speaker 4: With their moms and their grandmothers, so we're coming. So 812 00:33:20,880 --> 00:33:23,280 Speaker 4: I think with all those different social media platforms, we're 813 00:33:23,280 --> 00:33:26,320 Speaker 4: able to hit different demographics. And you know what, these 814 00:33:26,400 --> 00:33:29,040 Speaker 4: kids still love Bye Bye and they still love I'm 815 00:33:29,040 --> 00:33:31,400 Speaker 4: all Right and they are singing it, so L like, 816 00:33:31,880 --> 00:33:34,200 Speaker 4: it's crazy the way they find music now. They're saying 817 00:33:34,440 --> 00:33:36,920 Speaker 4: like deep cuts all the words. I'm like, I don't 818 00:33:36,920 --> 00:33:37,600 Speaker 4: even know the words. 819 00:33:38,000 --> 00:33:40,560 Speaker 1: So that's why you were being too harsh on yourself 820 00:33:40,600 --> 00:33:42,360 Speaker 1: when you said you can't even do things for you. You're 821 00:33:42,280 --> 00:33:45,800 Speaker 1: doing massive, great, wonderful things right now. 822 00:33:46,720 --> 00:33:48,920 Speaker 4: I think I live in a bubble, so like I 823 00:33:49,000 --> 00:33:51,440 Speaker 4: just post my little through my little dance, you know, 824 00:33:51,800 --> 00:33:53,959 Speaker 4: and I then I go bring my kids to school, 825 00:33:56,640 --> 00:33:57,280 Speaker 4: and that's true. 826 00:33:57,320 --> 00:33:59,200 Speaker 2: You know, I'm at the rink. I'm at the hockey 827 00:33:59,240 --> 00:34:00,320 Speaker 2: rink or whatever. 828 00:34:00,400 --> 00:34:01,120 Speaker 1: Kids play hockey. 829 00:34:01,400 --> 00:34:03,840 Speaker 2: Yes, so I see Dirk's Bentley quite a bit. 830 00:34:05,400 --> 00:34:07,200 Speaker 1: Do you play against Dirk's kids or the same team? 831 00:34:07,280 --> 00:34:10,960 Speaker 4: Well his kids are younger son of younger, so but 832 00:34:11,000 --> 00:34:12,640 Speaker 4: they're you know, it's so funny. 833 00:34:12,680 --> 00:34:14,040 Speaker 2: One time I was like, are you at the rink? 834 00:34:14,360 --> 00:34:14,400 Speaker 4: He? 835 00:34:14,920 --> 00:34:16,560 Speaker 2: I texted him and he texted me back. He's like, 836 00:34:16,800 --> 00:34:17,719 Speaker 2: I'm always at the rink. 837 00:34:18,000 --> 00:34:20,040 Speaker 1: I'm like, I get you. So do your kids play 838 00:34:20,040 --> 00:34:22,239 Speaker 1: hockey because they have fallen in love with it because 839 00:34:22,239 --> 00:34:24,399 Speaker 1: of Nashville or because you come from a hockey place 840 00:34:24,400 --> 00:34:26,000 Speaker 1: and you pass it down the road. 841 00:34:26,080 --> 00:34:28,080 Speaker 4: They discovered it on the room. They discovered it when 842 00:34:28,120 --> 00:34:31,840 Speaker 4: we lived in Georgia. They started with inline hockey, which. 843 00:34:31,640 --> 00:34:34,560 Speaker 1: I don't know what that is, like a roller blade? 844 00:34:34,719 --> 00:34:35,120 Speaker 1: Got it? 845 00:34:35,160 --> 00:34:37,200 Speaker 4: And then they wanted to play ice So when we 846 00:34:37,239 --> 00:34:41,080 Speaker 4: moved back here, they play ice hockey. 847 00:34:41,080 --> 00:34:44,239 Speaker 1: Disc too cold for me? You think if I got 848 00:34:44,360 --> 00:34:45,959 Speaker 1: to wear a coat to go watch a game, ain't 849 00:34:45,960 --> 00:34:46,200 Speaker 1: for me? 850 00:34:46,680 --> 00:34:48,720 Speaker 4: Well, sometimes you don't have to wear a coat, but sometimes, 851 00:34:48,760 --> 00:34:50,320 Speaker 4: you know, sometimes they keep those rinks. 852 00:34:50,400 --> 00:34:51,799 Speaker 1: Do you travel or you travel parent? 853 00:34:52,560 --> 00:34:54,160 Speaker 2: No, because I travel for work. 854 00:34:54,480 --> 00:34:56,480 Speaker 4: So my kids were not able to try out for 855 00:34:56,520 --> 00:34:57,360 Speaker 4: the travel teams. 856 00:34:57,640 --> 00:34:58,359 Speaker 1: That's probably better. 857 00:34:59,080 --> 00:35:00,319 Speaker 2: Well yeah, and. 858 00:35:00,280 --> 00:35:02,760 Speaker 4: I wasn't gonna let them, like, hey, go to you know, 859 00:35:03,160 --> 00:35:06,680 Speaker 4: Detroit by yourself with people that I don't know and 860 00:35:06,800 --> 00:35:07,640 Speaker 4: all that stuff. 861 00:35:07,680 --> 00:35:10,920 Speaker 1: But well, I'm so happy that one you're here. You 862 00:35:10,920 --> 00:35:12,239 Speaker 1: have a box of gifts? Do you I mean, do 863 00:35:12,239 --> 00:35:13,400 Speaker 1: you want to give it to us now? Or do 864 00:35:13,440 --> 00:35:14,920 Speaker 1: you want to give to us after? I don't know 865 00:35:14,960 --> 00:35:15,440 Speaker 1: what it is. 866 00:35:15,800 --> 00:35:17,759 Speaker 2: Oh, it would be on the high it would be 867 00:35:17,840 --> 00:35:18,279 Speaker 2: on the air. 868 00:35:18,440 --> 00:35:18,600 Speaker 5: Luck. 869 00:35:18,640 --> 00:35:19,640 Speaker 2: You could see my pants. 870 00:35:19,960 --> 00:35:20,880 Speaker 1: Know your pants are awesome. 871 00:35:20,960 --> 00:35:22,440 Speaker 2: I wear happy pants. 872 00:35:23,400 --> 00:35:27,160 Speaker 4: I lead worship at a school and so there's eighteen 873 00:35:27,239 --> 00:35:30,759 Speaker 4: months to eighth grade kids that I lead worship with 874 00:35:30,800 --> 00:35:33,000 Speaker 4: and I always wear my happy pants for them mostly 875 00:35:33,120 --> 00:35:34,640 Speaker 4: the middle school who could care less? 876 00:35:34,640 --> 00:35:37,279 Speaker 2: But the little ones like my pants. 877 00:35:37,160 --> 00:35:39,160 Speaker 1: And we're like your little ones. We're we act like 878 00:35:40,800 --> 00:35:41,960 Speaker 1: it's our whole situation here. 879 00:35:42,320 --> 00:35:44,359 Speaker 2: Did you get to all your questions? Oh? 880 00:35:44,400 --> 00:35:45,480 Speaker 1: I could just for two hours? 881 00:35:45,600 --> 00:35:49,919 Speaker 2: Oh I can. We could fire them. I'll tend words less. 882 00:35:50,040 --> 00:35:52,080 Speaker 1: Did you ever, like way back in the day, talk 883 00:35:52,120 --> 00:35:53,600 Speaker 1: about doing Dancing with the Stars? 884 00:35:54,400 --> 00:35:59,719 Speaker 2: Oh my yes, yeah they never I wasn't ever. 885 00:36:00,120 --> 00:36:02,560 Speaker 1: Did they not approach they approach you or no, they 886 00:36:02,560 --> 00:36:03,480 Speaker 1: never approached you about it? 887 00:36:03,520 --> 00:36:03,640 Speaker 2: No? 888 00:36:03,840 --> 00:36:05,680 Speaker 4: They I've got I went out there a few times 889 00:36:05,719 --> 00:36:08,960 Speaker 4: too so to support people, and they still never call. 890 00:36:09,120 --> 00:36:12,280 Speaker 4: See okay, I'd like to see maybe they saw my TikTok. 891 00:36:13,520 --> 00:36:16,399 Speaker 1: It hasn't been up long enough. I think I think 892 00:36:16,440 --> 00:36:18,960 Speaker 1: you would be excellent for the show. Oh I did 893 00:36:18,960 --> 00:36:19,399 Speaker 1: you do it now? 894 00:36:19,520 --> 00:36:20,359 Speaker 2: Oh? Yeah, it would be fun. 895 00:36:20,400 --> 00:36:23,759 Speaker 1: Okay. I mean I know people, so I'll just send 896 00:36:23,760 --> 00:36:25,640 Speaker 1: out a text and be like hey, because they do 897 00:36:25,719 --> 00:36:28,200 Speaker 1: look for different areas, right, They look for somebody in 898 00:36:28,239 --> 00:36:31,040 Speaker 1: country music every other year. They do look for like 899 00:36:31,080 --> 00:36:33,359 Speaker 1: an athlete. And I'll just feel like, hey, keep joy 900 00:36:33,400 --> 00:36:35,600 Speaker 1: Ben seeing in mind. If you wouldn't mind me doing that, 901 00:36:36,000 --> 00:36:37,560 Speaker 1: go for it. I don't want to do that, and then. 902 00:36:37,600 --> 00:36:38,080 Speaker 2: Go for it. 903 00:36:38,080 --> 00:36:39,719 Speaker 1: It'd be fun because if they came to you and 904 00:36:39,760 --> 00:36:41,279 Speaker 1: you said no, then I'd look bad. Then I'd have 905 00:36:41,360 --> 00:36:42,800 Speaker 1: to be like boycott Jody. 906 00:36:47,360 --> 00:36:48,640 Speaker 2: I don't even have a response. 907 00:36:48,840 --> 00:36:50,759 Speaker 1: Okay, the boycott thing. 908 00:36:50,800 --> 00:36:52,000 Speaker 2: I thought i'd have a quick comeback. 909 00:36:52,040 --> 00:36:52,440 Speaker 4: I needn't. 910 00:36:52,960 --> 00:36:55,000 Speaker 1: The album just has out this summer. I don't know 911 00:36:55,000 --> 00:36:58,279 Speaker 1: what that means any date yet, which when you just 912 00:36:58,280 --> 00:36:58,719 Speaker 1: want to wait? 913 00:36:58,960 --> 00:37:01,879 Speaker 2: Yeah, Sarah, Sarah, what do you think? 914 00:37:01,960 --> 00:37:03,919 Speaker 1: You don't have to say it now you can tell you. 915 00:37:04,040 --> 00:37:06,600 Speaker 2: Sarah's like the mastermind behind all the marketing. 916 00:37:07,640 --> 00:37:09,279 Speaker 1: I just heard way their close to confirmings. I don't 917 00:37:09,320 --> 00:37:10,760 Speaker 1: say yeah, okay, I heard in my ear. 918 00:37:10,640 --> 00:37:12,480 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, there is something in the works there. 919 00:37:12,520 --> 00:37:14,640 Speaker 1: Do you play any of the new shows live? 920 00:37:15,440 --> 00:37:17,799 Speaker 2: Now that it's out, We're going to do the whole song. 921 00:37:17,960 --> 00:37:20,640 Speaker 4: That's awesome, But people were so frustrated because I would 922 00:37:20,719 --> 00:37:23,839 Speaker 4: just do a little bit of the chorus and then 923 00:37:23,840 --> 00:37:26,719 Speaker 4: the hook and then would end it and they're no, 924 00:37:27,719 --> 00:37:28,879 Speaker 4: they've never heard the whole thing. 925 00:37:29,400 --> 00:37:29,879 Speaker 2: Till you're a. 926 00:37:29,800 --> 00:37:33,120 Speaker 1: Show Amy, any question for Jodie before she goes. 927 00:37:33,920 --> 00:37:38,120 Speaker 3: Yeah, well your energy, Like, where does that come from? 928 00:37:38,200 --> 00:37:38,399 Speaker 5: Yeah? 929 00:37:38,400 --> 00:37:39,719 Speaker 2: How do you do it like gratitude? 930 00:37:39,760 --> 00:37:44,799 Speaker 5: I think, oh yeah, okay, so it's just pure like 931 00:37:44,800 --> 00:37:48,680 Speaker 5: like it's joy. It's not there's a happiness joy content, 932 00:37:48,840 --> 00:37:50,640 Speaker 5: Like would you describe yourself as content? 933 00:37:50,960 --> 00:37:53,479 Speaker 2: I somebody said, why is it taking ten years? 934 00:37:53,480 --> 00:37:54,840 Speaker 4: And I was like, well, I don't know. I've just 935 00:37:54,920 --> 00:37:57,759 Speaker 4: kind of been content. You know, I'm happy. So when 936 00:37:57,800 --> 00:37:59,279 Speaker 4: I say I'm happy to be here, I'm happy to 937 00:37:59,320 --> 00:38:03,160 Speaker 4: be here the Bobby Bones Show and happy to be here. 938 00:38:03,760 --> 00:38:05,560 Speaker 3: You know, well, there is just different energy about you. 939 00:38:05,719 --> 00:38:07,200 Speaker 5: Like sometimes people come in and they're happy and it 940 00:38:07,239 --> 00:38:09,920 Speaker 5: feels a little manufactured or just like they're putting it on, 941 00:38:10,160 --> 00:38:12,920 Speaker 5: and like you're just like I feel the energy. 942 00:38:13,040 --> 00:38:17,919 Speaker 4: So that's that's Jesus joy. That joy that comes from 943 00:38:17,920 --> 00:38:20,719 Speaker 4: within is not like, oh he makes me so happy. 944 00:38:20,440 --> 00:38:23,920 Speaker 2: Because he gave me a new car. I don't have 945 00:38:23,960 --> 00:38:25,839 Speaker 2: a new car. He bought it used, it's five years older. 946 00:38:26,920 --> 00:38:30,360 Speaker 4: But it isn't that. It's not happy. Happiness is depending 947 00:38:30,480 --> 00:38:36,000 Speaker 4: on your situation. It's joy where and perspective too. Just 948 00:38:36,040 --> 00:38:38,600 Speaker 4: grateful and grateful I get to sit here with you. 949 00:38:39,320 --> 00:38:42,200 Speaker 4: I'm like, that's a gift that it really is. And 950 00:38:42,239 --> 00:38:44,280 Speaker 4: you know that I love you. And I see maybe once. 951 00:38:44,160 --> 00:38:48,680 Speaker 2: Every couple of years, and it's so this moment is awesome. 952 00:38:49,040 --> 00:38:50,839 Speaker 1: It's weird. Just do you say that, because you're right, 953 00:38:50,880 --> 00:38:53,160 Speaker 1: that's absolutely right. But I social media allows you to 954 00:38:53,160 --> 00:38:55,680 Speaker 1: feel like you're closer to somebody because we know each other. 955 00:38:55,680 --> 00:38:56,920 Speaker 1: But I see all this that you're doing, so I 956 00:38:56,920 --> 00:38:58,640 Speaker 1: don't I don't feel like it's been a couple of years. 957 00:38:58,640 --> 00:39:00,920 Speaker 1: But you're right. I think we've hugged each other. It's 958 00:39:00,920 --> 00:39:03,719 Speaker 1: been a couple of years. Yeah, but I do like 959 00:39:03,960 --> 00:39:07,359 Speaker 1: keep up so it doesn't feel like we're so disconnected. 960 00:39:07,400 --> 00:39:08,600 Speaker 1: And I also feel like I could just message you 961 00:39:08,600 --> 00:39:09,160 Speaker 1: and be like, hey. 962 00:39:09,080 --> 00:39:13,160 Speaker 2: What up. Yeah, yeah, I said, Bobby message. 963 00:39:14,400 --> 00:39:17,800 Speaker 1: That's not weird. That's because that's because we know each other. Well. 964 00:39:18,040 --> 00:39:19,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, I like to think. 965 00:39:19,120 --> 00:39:21,080 Speaker 4: I like to think so because there are moments where 966 00:39:21,080 --> 00:39:23,520 Speaker 4: I just reach out or I think when you announced, 967 00:39:23,920 --> 00:39:26,200 Speaker 4: when you guys made your announcement, I was like heng 968 00:39:26,239 --> 00:39:29,560 Speaker 4: on brother, where I was about to change my wife 969 00:39:29,600 --> 00:39:32,880 Speaker 4: getting pregnant. Yes, because let me tell you, there's a 970 00:39:32,920 --> 00:39:36,360 Speaker 4: part of your heart. You love your wife and you 971 00:39:36,480 --> 00:39:37,319 Speaker 4: think you know what. 972 00:39:37,239 --> 00:39:39,080 Speaker 2: Love feels like, but there's a part of your heart 973 00:39:39,080 --> 00:39:42,080 Speaker 2: that you don't even know exists until that child comes 974 00:39:42,120 --> 00:39:44,879 Speaker 2: and then you're like, where what is this? Where did 975 00:39:44,880 --> 00:39:46,160 Speaker 2: this come from? 976 00:39:46,200 --> 00:39:46,400 Speaker 4: You know? 977 00:39:46,640 --> 00:39:48,920 Speaker 2: And so I'm so excited for thank you because you're 978 00:39:49,000 --> 00:39:49,759 Speaker 2: such a good guy. 979 00:39:49,880 --> 00:39:51,759 Speaker 1: Well I appreciate you saying that. Thank you very much. 980 00:39:51,920 --> 00:39:54,239 Speaker 1: You're the best. We love having you in. We can't 981 00:39:54,239 --> 00:39:57,680 Speaker 1: wait for the album. And everybody check out Strain the 982 00:39:57,680 --> 00:39:59,480 Speaker 1: new song some Bridges. She's going to play it in 983 00:39:59,480 --> 00:40:01,480 Speaker 1: her live shit and you're again. I looked at your 984 00:40:01,520 --> 00:40:04,120 Speaker 1: tour schedule. You have so many shows, So go to 985 00:40:04,160 --> 00:40:06,800 Speaker 1: jodymasina dot com. Shows all the way up until October. 986 00:40:06,840 --> 00:40:08,240 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, follow me on Socials. 987 00:40:08,239 --> 00:40:08,640 Speaker 5: You'll get to. 988 00:40:08,640 --> 00:40:09,640 Speaker 2: See my dance. 989 00:40:12,320 --> 00:40:15,160 Speaker 1: Jody Messina. Jody, great to see you. Thank you so much. 990 00:40:16,200 --> 00:40:17,279 Speaker 1: Everybody