1 00:00:00,200 --> 00:00:04,080 Speaker 1: Okay, opie, grandparents deserve a vote in baby names. 2 00:00:04,320 --> 00:00:06,040 Speaker 2: Okay, let's hold a vote. 3 00:00:06,120 --> 00:00:07,160 Speaker 3: Yeah, hold that vote. 4 00:00:07,200 --> 00:00:12,120 Speaker 1: Kid democracy, democracy, in action for the baby, for the kids. Bro. 5 00:00:12,320 --> 00:00:14,520 Speaker 1: When I was pregnant, my mother in law asked us 6 00:00:14,640 --> 00:00:16,919 Speaker 1: what names we were thinking of for the baby. My 7 00:00:17,040 --> 00:00:19,479 Speaker 1: husband and I had decided on a name, which she 8 00:00:19,680 --> 00:00:22,600 Speaker 1: didn't like because she wanted to name the baby after 9 00:00:22,680 --> 00:00:23,160 Speaker 1: her mother. 10 00:00:23,360 --> 00:00:26,000 Speaker 3: Mother in laws be like that, they'd be difficult. 11 00:00:26,040 --> 00:00:28,400 Speaker 1: I held firm and my husband did too, but she 12 00:00:28,480 --> 00:00:31,040 Speaker 1: cried wind enough to him that he started to cave. 13 00:00:31,280 --> 00:00:33,400 Speaker 1: We were at her home for Sunday dinner when she 14 00:00:33,520 --> 00:00:35,960 Speaker 1: started in on me again. I asked her why her 15 00:00:36,000 --> 00:00:39,479 Speaker 1: wish as a grandmother was more important than mine, and 16 00:00:39,720 --> 00:00:44,120 Speaker 1: she said they aren't. I just think grandparents deserve a 17 00:00:44,400 --> 00:00:45,080 Speaker 1: vaulte off. 18 00:00:45,080 --> 00:00:47,120 Speaker 4: All right, Let's just have the grandparents vote and then 19 00:00:47,280 --> 00:00:49,800 Speaker 4: or like, the grandma vote, and then the two parents vote, 20 00:00:49,840 --> 00:00:50,920 Speaker 4: and then oh, you're all voted. 21 00:00:51,440 --> 00:00:51,960 Speaker 2: I am sure. 22 00:00:52,000 --> 00:00:54,360 Speaker 1: She said this because she knew my husband was going 23 00:00:54,440 --> 00:00:57,440 Speaker 1: to take her side, but her brain didn't realize that 24 00:00:57,480 --> 00:01:00,280 Speaker 1: she's not the only grandpa. I told her I would 25 00:01:00,320 --> 00:01:02,440 Speaker 1: think about it and we could regroup at the next 26 00:01:02,440 --> 00:01:03,040 Speaker 1: week's dinner. 27 00:01:03,080 --> 00:01:04,760 Speaker 2: She was absolutely giddy. 28 00:01:05,400 --> 00:01:08,680 Speaker 4: She's like, now I would have my way democracy in action, ha. 29 00:01:09,319 --> 00:01:12,000 Speaker 1: I let my parents know the situation, and then I 30 00:01:12,160 --> 00:01:15,080 Speaker 1: called my father in law divorced from my mother in 31 00:01:15,160 --> 00:01:17,400 Speaker 1: law and let him know the situation too. I let 32 00:01:17,440 --> 00:01:20,120 Speaker 1: my mother in law and husband know I'd like to 33 00:01:20,200 --> 00:01:22,600 Speaker 1: do a grandparents dinner at our home where we could 34 00:01:22,680 --> 00:01:25,720 Speaker 1: talk about the baby and our plans for the labor, delivery, 35 00:01:25,800 --> 00:01:26,520 Speaker 1: et cetera. 36 00:01:26,440 --> 00:01:28,880 Speaker 3: Really including all the grandparents, counsel of elders. 37 00:01:28,920 --> 00:01:31,039 Speaker 2: For sure, this baby shall be. 38 00:01:31,440 --> 00:01:34,399 Speaker 1: At dinner, we discussed some of the logistics. I announced 39 00:01:34,400 --> 00:01:36,400 Speaker 1: that there was a name that we had picked and 40 00:01:36,480 --> 00:01:38,720 Speaker 1: a name that mother in law picked, and I had 41 00:01:38,720 --> 00:01:41,319 Speaker 1: agreed with her that grandparents deserve a vote. 42 00:01:41,319 --> 00:01:45,680 Speaker 2: So let's do a vote right now. I freaking now, baby. 43 00:01:46,360 --> 00:01:49,440 Speaker 2: The change in her facial expression was amazing. 44 00:01:50,200 --> 00:01:51,360 Speaker 3: Relish that moment. 45 00:01:53,120 --> 00:01:55,840 Speaker 2: I first asked, any other names you want to throw 46 00:01:55,880 --> 00:01:56,320 Speaker 2: in the ring? 47 00:01:56,520 --> 00:02:00,280 Speaker 1: No, no one did. That's right, I said, raise your 48 00:02:00,280 --> 00:02:02,680 Speaker 1: hand for mother in law's name. My mother in law 49 00:02:02,720 --> 00:02:06,560 Speaker 1: and husband raised their hands looking like eor the husband. 50 00:02:07,000 --> 00:02:09,720 Speaker 2: The husband signed with the mom, dude, that's not okay. 51 00:02:09,880 --> 00:02:11,440 Speaker 3: I mean, I guess it's it's his mom. 52 00:02:11,560 --> 00:02:14,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, but it's like that's also his baby, like his child. 53 00:02:14,480 --> 00:02:16,280 Speaker 1: So like, I mean, maybe he liked the name, and 54 00:02:16,520 --> 00:02:21,160 Speaker 1: guess what happened what obviously four to two wins. Isn't 55 00:02:21,160 --> 00:02:22,320 Speaker 1: democracy beautiful? 56 00:02:23,200 --> 00:02:25,520 Speaker 3: I wonder what the name was or oh it was. 57 00:02:25,840 --> 00:02:28,840 Speaker 1: No, she just said to your so I thought it 58 00:02:28,919 --> 00:02:30,520 Speaker 1: was for a split second when I was reading it back. 59 00:02:30,639 --> 00:02:32,799 Speaker 3: Oh my god, that'll be funny though, that'd be hilarious.