WEBVTT - Ick! 0:00:13.760 --> 0:00:14.960 Hey, it's I Do Part two. 0:00:15.120 --> 0:00:17.360 I am one of your celebrity mentors, Bob Guinea, and 0:00:17.520 --> 0:00:18.360 I am in. 0:00:18.440 --> 0:00:20.239 Beautiful Carmel, California. 0:00:21.160 --> 0:00:23.400 I believe it's my fifth or sixth year here with 0:00:23.480 --> 0:00:26.560 this awesome trip for the Pebble Beach Pro Am Golf competition, 0:00:26.640 --> 0:00:29.240 and of course with our iHeart family, and we have 0:00:29.280 --> 0:00:33.239 two women that we love on this pod Pod Bless America. 0:00:33.320 --> 0:00:37.440 It's Golden's Kathy Swartz and Cindy Colors. Welcome, ladies. 0:00:37.560 --> 0:00:38.479 Hey, how are you? 0:00:38.720 --> 0:00:40.919 Thanks so much for I'm better now getting to talk 0:00:40.960 --> 0:00:43.879 to you too. So okay, let's just talk about how 0:00:43.920 --> 0:00:45.640 great this has been, right we have. We've had a 0:00:45.680 --> 0:00:47.519 wonderful time. Did you guys get to do the shopping 0:00:47.760 --> 0:00:48.919 always thing yesterday? 0:00:48.960 --> 0:00:50.440 This is my third time. I think I've been to 0:00:50.479 --> 0:00:51.560 every store now in Carmel. 0:00:51.720 --> 0:00:52.479 I love it. 0:00:52.479 --> 0:00:54.920 It's my first and we have had such a good time. 0:00:55.080 --> 0:00:56.120 Did you buy some good stuff? 0:00:56.480 --> 0:00:58.760 We all bought the same pants yesterday? 0:00:58.920 --> 0:00:59.760 Oh, very nice. 0:01:00.520 --> 0:01:03.000 It was the three women in the traveling pants. 0:01:03.080 --> 0:01:05.520 Except I don't have to travel. We all take them home. Yeah, 0:01:05.560 --> 0:01:08.160 there you go, it's perfect. Well, I loved it. I 0:01:08.200 --> 0:01:10.760 know real quick. I know you're talking about this a 0:01:10.760 --> 0:01:14.120 little bit last night. But uh you you two were 0:01:14.160 --> 0:01:18.319 given an assignment by one of the producers. Probably if 0:01:18.319 --> 0:01:20.080 I if I had to guess which producer, I bet. 0:01:20.000 --> 0:01:21.679 I could guess which one she'd be right. 0:01:22.000 --> 0:01:25.080 And she gave you an assignment to try and each 0:01:25.280 --> 0:01:29.560 grab some digits while you're out in the town cavorting. 0:01:30.680 --> 0:01:31.960 How did I go? Let's start. 0:01:32.040 --> 0:01:33.840 Let's start with you, Sidney. Let's start with you. Were 0:01:33.840 --> 0:01:37.160 you able to score some digits last week? Have no digits? 0:01:37.200 --> 0:01:39.480 But I thought my I thought I had through today. 0:01:39.720 --> 0:01:42.720 Oh yeah, if you can give you some today, I'll 0:01:42.760 --> 0:01:47.680 get to okay, sound, we will do a follow up. 0:01:48.760 --> 0:01:50.760 We might have someone in an early lead. 0:01:51.720 --> 0:01:55.760 I guess you're say, apparently I gave out my digits 0:01:55.840 --> 0:01:57.400 last night, and I was getting blown up by the 0:01:57.440 --> 0:01:59.960 same uh same friends and family members that you were. 0:02:00.360 --> 0:02:04.200 Yep, So let's talk about this. What you did? You 0:02:04.280 --> 0:02:07.640 give out your number? Did you get a number? What happened? No? 0:02:07.840 --> 0:02:11.360 I gave my number too. It was like three degrees 0:02:11.360 --> 0:02:15.840 of separation whatever to a gentleman who you and I 0:02:15.880 --> 0:02:18.840 were talking to him and his wife, Stephen Lee and 0:02:18.960 --> 0:02:24.040 Stephen Lean at the bar and lovely people. And I, 0:02:24.280 --> 0:02:26.960 of course always take every opportunity to say, do you 0:02:27.000 --> 0:02:28.560 have any friends or family who are single? 0:02:28.680 --> 0:02:28.880 Right? 0:02:29.080 --> 0:02:31.440 And he said, actually I do, and took me over 0:02:31.480 --> 0:02:34.640 and introduced me to this guy who's handsome, good looking guy. 0:02:35.320 --> 0:02:38.400 And then Steve asked for my number, and then Steve 0:02:38.440 --> 0:02:39.280 passed it on to him. 0:02:39.320 --> 0:02:42.120 So we'll say, oh, well, hey, dude, if you're listening, 0:02:42.680 --> 0:02:45.760 fire up that phone, all right, give us a call. 0:02:46.000 --> 0:02:49.760 But now I've got another one yet two second called 0:02:49.800 --> 0:02:51.480 me this morning. She has another one. He lives on 0:02:51.520 --> 0:02:54.000 the golf course. Sweet, hey, zeus. So you know I 0:02:54.000 --> 0:02:55.040 am in the early lead. 0:02:55.080 --> 0:02:56.760 Here are we going to see this dude out there 0:02:56.560 --> 0:02:58.280 that we're all going to a party house? 0:02:58.360 --> 0:03:00.160 He is on the course. Wait, we are going to 0:03:00.200 --> 0:03:01.200 his house today for a party. 0:03:01.280 --> 0:03:03.720 Yes, that's confirmed that. I'm just waiting to hear from him. 0:03:04.320 --> 0:03:06.560 Holy smokes, You're welcome. 0:03:07.360 --> 0:03:07.600 Welcome. 0:03:07.800 --> 0:03:09.960 I can't wait to meet him. I will be vetting him. 0:03:10.040 --> 0:03:12.280 I did tell Leanne would bring you by on. Yeah, 0:03:12.280 --> 0:03:15.360 I will be properly vetting this man. You know. I 0:03:15.400 --> 0:03:19.480 got to say, I think it's interesting because uh, times 0:03:19.480 --> 0:03:22.040 have changed, right, I mean, I I meet women in 0:03:22.040 --> 0:03:24.440 the old fashioned way I hand out flowers on TV shows. 0:03:24.800 --> 0:03:28.639 But I happen to know that, you know, the dating 0:03:28.680 --> 0:03:30.639 apps and all that kind of stuff. Have you two 0:03:30.680 --> 0:03:31.959 ever done the apps thing? 0:03:32.240 --> 0:03:32.520 The day? 0:03:32.800 --> 0:03:34.760 I think I think everybody who's single has at least 0:03:34.880 --> 0:03:37.680 tried it. Yeah, and some of us have gotten off 0:03:37.720 --> 0:03:41.280 of it, right, some are still participating in Kathy Kathy. 0:03:41.680 --> 0:03:45.560 I'm it was a moment with my daughter where alcohol 0:03:45.680 --> 0:03:47.880 was involved and she made me get on and I 0:03:47.920 --> 0:03:50.000 am literally canceled it the next day. 0:03:50.040 --> 0:03:52.600 Do you were you swiping? Did you do any swiping? 0:03:52.680 --> 0:03:52.800 Oh? 0:03:52.840 --> 0:03:55.000 I swiped a lot and a lot of these people 0:03:55.080 --> 0:03:57.800 I think they're memes. I don't think they are real people. 0:03:58.000 --> 0:04:02.000 Oh really, lots of catfish, lots of cat fishing, lots 0:04:02.040 --> 0:04:05.200 of bodies without clothes, shirts on, and yeah, you know, 0:04:05.320 --> 0:04:08.240 holding beers in the bathroom kind of guys. 0:04:08.960 --> 0:04:10.960 And it's like people who are just wanting to get 0:04:11.000 --> 0:04:13.880 attention and not really have a relationship. 0:04:13.360 --> 0:04:16.320 Right, I could see that. I mean it's interesting. I 0:04:17.600 --> 0:04:19.880 think if I were, you know, God forbid to ever 0:04:19.920 --> 0:04:21.840 be single again. I don't know that you have. 0:04:21.880 --> 0:04:23.719 A best whyfe you will never be single again? 0:04:23.839 --> 0:04:26.640 Yeah? Well, she gets kind of tired of my antics. 0:04:27.200 --> 0:04:29.960 But I always think I often wonder like what would 0:04:29.960 --> 0:04:31.440 I do? Would I go on a thing like that. 0:04:31.480 --> 0:04:34.800 I don't think I would, only because I feel like 0:04:35.360 --> 0:04:37.640 for me it'd be easier to But I say this, 0:04:37.760 --> 0:04:39.800 but you're right, I mean, it's not easy to do. 0:04:40.160 --> 0:04:41.880 I always think it maybe be easier to meet through 0:04:41.880 --> 0:04:43.919 friends and family, right or whatever. 0:04:44.080 --> 0:04:46.720 But maybe now friends have known this for we both 0:04:46.760 --> 0:04:48.800 lived in the same neighborhood for a long time. I've 0:04:48.800 --> 0:04:51.880 lived in Austin for thirty years. So if somebody has 0:04:51.920 --> 0:04:54.680 a single friend, I've probably exhausted that resource by. 0:04:54.560 --> 0:04:57.479 Now exhausted that right. And she and I've been in 0:04:57.520 --> 0:04:58.760 Austin twenty five plus. 0:04:58.800 --> 0:05:01.599 Heres and Cindy, he has handed me all her rejects 0:05:01.600 --> 0:05:02.600 and they haven't worked out either. 0:05:02.720 --> 0:05:07.880 Yeah, okay, twice two million or so. Yeah, jeez, it's 0:05:07.920 --> 0:05:10.680 tough out there, it is, right. Well, it's probably not 0:05:10.760 --> 0:05:15.680 tough to meet I mean, it's going to sound inappropriate, 0:05:15.839 --> 0:05:17.120 but it's probably not tough to meet. 0:05:16.960 --> 0:05:17.719 Someone to hook up with. 0:05:17.760 --> 0:05:20.080 But it's probably tough to meet someone to actually have 0:05:20.120 --> 0:05:21.279 a relationship with, right. 0:05:22.400 --> 0:05:24.480 I mean, I wouldn't say we're not meeting to hook 0:05:24.560 --> 0:05:31.159 up any of them but for yourself. You can meet people, 0:05:31.279 --> 0:05:34.919 and so you do, like have a couple of dates. 0:05:35.000 --> 0:05:37.320 It's just getting past that second date, third date and 0:05:37.360 --> 0:05:40.760 really looking at compatibility. You know, especially Kathy is a 0:05:40.839 --> 0:05:42.839 unique person, right, I'm going to put a plug in 0:05:42.880 --> 0:05:45.599 for her because it's going to take a really special 0:05:45.680 --> 0:05:48.680 man to capture her attention and to make a good 0:05:48.720 --> 0:05:51.600 partner for her. But when you do find a partner, 0:05:51.640 --> 0:05:54.040 you're going to be the best partner. So I think 0:05:54.040 --> 0:05:56.640 we're going to have to expand our search outside of Austin. 0:05:56.720 --> 0:05:59.920 How about I want to do to Carmel, California. We're starting, 0:06:00.360 --> 0:06:02.680 we're gonna be walking the golf course. Right, there's a 0:06:02.720 --> 0:06:06.520 lot of a lot of there's a lot of tall men, 0:06:06.880 --> 0:06:09.599 very tall. Well in the particular circle you're hanging out, 0:06:09.600 --> 0:06:11.680 and yes, we're all we're all tall drinks of water. 0:06:11.960 --> 0:06:13.360 But yeah, I can see you know, you walk in 0:06:13.400 --> 0:06:14.839 on the golf course, you think the golf course. 0:06:14.680 --> 0:06:15.719 Would be a good place to meet. 0:06:16.000 --> 0:06:18.960 I mean, then why not? I think a lot of men, 0:06:19.160 --> 0:06:20.719 single men are going to be out on this golf 0:06:20.760 --> 0:06:22.520 course either, right, but how do we really know that 0:06:22.520 --> 0:06:23.120 they're single? 0:06:23.600 --> 0:06:26.919 A lot of men at our age category have stopped 0:06:26.960 --> 0:06:29.479 wearing their wedding rings even if they are married, and 0:06:29.520 --> 0:06:31.680 I think they don't realize that they can get them resized, 0:06:31.880 --> 0:06:34.200 just get the resizing on the ring, so they stop, 0:06:34.520 --> 0:06:36.400 they stop wearing them, and then they give the signal 0:06:36.400 --> 0:06:37.240 that they might be sing. 0:06:37.400 --> 0:06:40.600 Cindy, how long do you think would take either one 0:06:40.640 --> 0:06:43.159 of us to figure out if a guy is married? 0:06:43.279 --> 0:06:46.640 Just take how many minutes that you guys two questions? 0:06:46.720 --> 0:06:48.200 Yeah there you got, there, you got. 0:06:48.120 --> 0:06:48.680 I can see that. 0:06:48.720 --> 0:06:51.400 And the difference between Cindy and one of the differences 0:06:51.880 --> 0:06:55.520 is she will give a guy like two or three days. 0:06:55.520 --> 0:06:56.320 We've talked about this. 0:06:56.920 --> 0:06:59.280 I can tell you, like the guy last night at 0:06:59.279 --> 0:07:03.640 the bar, I locked eyes with him, and when you 0:07:03.800 --> 0:07:07.520 brought me back in to meet Leanne and Steve brought 0:07:07.520 --> 0:07:09.279 me over to meet him, that was the same guy 0:07:09.279 --> 0:07:11.880 that I locked eyes with. But so I know really 0:07:11.960 --> 0:07:14.160 quickly if I'm interested in somebody, I don't need to 0:07:14.160 --> 0:07:16.880 go on two or three dates, right And I and I. 0:07:16.800 --> 0:07:20.240 Don't dude, were you two friends before? Never met her? 0:07:20.320 --> 0:07:23.760 Never looking the same zip code. We have a couple 0:07:23.880 --> 0:07:26.080 mutual friends, but not too many. But the first time 0:07:26.080 --> 0:07:28.720 we met was when Kathy came to the mansion during 0:07:29.160 --> 0:07:31.720 can put the Pajama party. 0:07:31.800 --> 0:07:33.840 And you were and that's when you were like everybody, 0:07:33.960 --> 0:07:36.680 let's let's give three cheers for Mel's get on the 0:07:36.680 --> 0:07:39.440 bel train the train, and then some people got off 0:07:39.440 --> 0:07:41.720 with the train. Yes, yes they did, all right, So 0:07:41.800 --> 0:07:44.200 let's talk about this when it comes to men, what 0:07:44.280 --> 0:07:48.520 are your biggest ick things? I have the hardest time 0:07:48.560 --> 0:07:51.760 saying ick, But what is your biggest ick and what 0:07:51.800 --> 0:07:53.000 are your biggest turn ons? 0:07:53.840 --> 0:07:54.360 Wow? 0:07:54.920 --> 0:07:58.880 Okay, so a man who knows how to manage me 0:07:59.080 --> 0:08:01.960 and handle me is my biggest turn on. Okay, somebody 0:08:02.000 --> 0:08:07.560 knows how to like touch me appropriately, like move me around, 0:08:07.960 --> 0:08:10.960 look at me. Oh that connection, I miss it. That 0:08:11.040 --> 0:08:13.600 is the biggest turnout turn on? What about you, Kathy? 0:08:14.640 --> 0:08:18.800 My biggest turn on is probably a man who I meet, 0:08:19.360 --> 0:08:23.720 looks me in the eye, smiles like that connection. That's 0:08:23.960 --> 0:08:27.360 not a guy who and my biggest turn off. It 0:08:27.360 --> 0:08:29.400 goes with that, because my biggest turn off is a 0:08:29.400 --> 0:08:31.640 guy that I meet and all he wants to tell 0:08:31.680 --> 0:08:35.199 me about is his money and his cars and his 0:08:36.280 --> 0:08:41.000 It's superficial, superficial stuff. Because at our age, we've got 0:08:41.000 --> 0:08:45.040 what we've got. I'm looking for a genuinely kind human 0:08:45.080 --> 0:08:46.720 being who's interested. 0:08:46.400 --> 0:08:48.160 So not gonna be impressed by somebody. 0:08:48.640 --> 0:08:51.000 I mean, do I want a guy to have enough 0:08:51.080 --> 0:08:53.560 money to take me to a nice restaurant and open 0:08:53.559 --> 0:08:55.480 the door for me and you know, not put me 0:08:55.520 --> 0:08:57.520 in his VW bug where my legs are coming through 0:08:57.520 --> 0:09:01.440 the windshill. Yes, but that's not you know, it's not 0:09:01.679 --> 0:09:04.360 that's not going to money is not going to make 0:09:04.400 --> 0:09:05.000 the guy for me. 0:09:05.320 --> 0:09:06.800 Right, I think that makes sense. 0:09:07.080 --> 0:09:10.520 Well, we've got Cosmo came out with twenty seven of 0:09:10.559 --> 0:09:14.120 the biggest X. So the twenty oh wait see here 0:09:14.520 --> 0:09:16.880 just came out with twenty seven men on their dating 0:09:17.160 --> 0:09:22.079 X and non negotiables who some of them were expecting 0:09:22.120 --> 0:09:25.640 sex on the first date. This individual said, maybe I'm 0:09:25.679 --> 0:09:28.480 an anomaly, but that's not my initial desire when meeting someone. 0:09:28.520 --> 0:09:33.120 It's actually to connect and build a bond first. Another 0:09:33.160 --> 0:09:36.080 one here was being overly interested in my financial situation. 0:09:36.360 --> 0:09:38.880 Yep, so kind of like what you said. I think. 0:09:38.920 --> 0:09:41.480 For if this is coming from a guy saying, and right, 0:09:41.800 --> 0:09:44.840 I think the guy it's interesting because you know, I 0:09:44.840 --> 0:09:49.120 think there's a lot of people think certain things about guys, right, 0:09:49.120 --> 0:09:51.160 And for a guy to say, expecting sex on the 0:09:51.160 --> 0:09:54.000 first date would be a turnoff for him. That's interesting 0:09:54.040 --> 0:09:56.880 to me. I get the being overly interested in my 0:09:56.920 --> 0:09:59.120 financial situation. That's kind of like what we're talking about 0:09:59.360 --> 0:10:01.520 last night, when and we were kind of hitting on 0:10:01.559 --> 0:10:04.440 some different hot button topics. And if a woman, you know, 0:10:04.640 --> 0:10:06.520 for me, when I was single, if I met a 0:10:06.559 --> 0:10:09.240 woman and she would immediately be like, you know, so 0:10:09.280 --> 0:10:10.559 what is this, I'd. 0:10:10.400 --> 0:10:12.280 Be like, well, it's nothing. The hell are you talking about? 0:10:12.400 --> 0:10:14.240 You know? And I was like, it is what it is. 0:10:14.400 --> 0:10:15.800 And I don't know what that is yet because I 0:10:15.800 --> 0:10:18.719 met you fifteen minutes ago or whatever, or but I 0:10:18.720 --> 0:10:20.280 would think of that same moment if someone were to 0:10:20.320 --> 0:10:24.560 be like, so tell me about your you know, your portfolio, Like, 0:10:24.760 --> 0:10:26.600 what the hell are you talking about? You know, there 0:10:26.600 --> 0:10:28.480 are certain things I think would be major turnoffs in 0:10:28.480 --> 0:10:30.079 that regard, and those are two of them. You already 0:10:30.120 --> 0:10:34.760 kind of addressed that absolutely. Oh are there of you 0:10:34.840 --> 0:10:38.480 cat ladies? I have two geriatric cats, geriatric cats, so 0:10:38.520 --> 0:10:40.640 you're you. I am not a cat lady. They're not 0:10:40.679 --> 0:10:42.400 a cat lady, but you're just taking care of some. 0:10:43.880 --> 0:10:46.840 I rescued these cats, I fostered them when they were 0:10:47.800 --> 0:10:51.360 three weeks old, fostered them. Yeah, and they never left 0:10:51.920 --> 0:10:53.840 now thirteen and a half and I love them. But 0:10:55.040 --> 0:10:56.760 you know, to me, being a cat that has this 0:10:56.880 --> 0:11:00.920 pejorative connotations and I am not that cat lady. 0:11:01.040 --> 0:11:03.839 There was a thing I saw a dating app profile 0:11:04.000 --> 0:11:05.840 that was it went viral and I don't know if 0:11:05.880 --> 0:11:07.959 any of you guys are I'm sure how they saw it, 0:11:08.040 --> 0:11:11.120 but it was like this thing where the woman was like, Hi, 0:11:11.200 --> 0:11:15.120 my name's Debbie. I am a nurse and I have 0:11:15.160 --> 0:11:15.880 two cats and. 0:11:15.920 --> 0:11:19.800 I love them so much. I don't understand why men 0:11:19.880 --> 0:11:24.240 don't like her. It's like, have you heard your story 0:11:24.280 --> 0:11:24.880 about cats? 0:11:24.960 --> 0:11:25.000 You? 0:11:26.080 --> 0:11:26.640 Yeah? Cats? 0:11:26.679 --> 0:11:28.760 For some reason there is You're right, there is quite 0:11:28.800 --> 0:11:30.480 a thought process there with cats. 0:11:30.480 --> 0:11:32.800 I'll let it be known. I'm I'm putting it out 0:11:32.800 --> 0:11:33.280 there right now. 0:11:33.360 --> 0:11:37.679 I'm not a crazy cat, not a crazy cat lady. 0:11:46.280 --> 0:11:46.840 Oh, here you go. 0:11:46.920 --> 0:11:49.160 This is a good one. Here picks being fake right, 0:11:49.200 --> 0:11:54.200 pictures being fake, filtered, faked or filter faked or filtered right. 0:11:56.840 --> 0:11:59.600 College And here's I just have to ask, that is 0:11:59.640 --> 0:12:01.839 a huge turn off to me to go and meet 0:12:01.880 --> 0:12:03.920 a man. And we've talked about this, Cindy, go and 0:12:03.960 --> 0:12:07.120 meet a man, and literally this has happened to me. 0:12:07.520 --> 0:12:10.680 I walk right by him because the guy that's there 0:12:11.240 --> 0:12:15.839 does not resemble in any way the guy how we 0:12:15.920 --> 0:12:16.920 portrayed himself in his. 0:12:17.120 --> 0:12:19.320 Do you FaceTime men before you meet them? 0:12:19.559 --> 0:12:21.640 I talked to them on the phone. Okay, maybe I 0:12:21.640 --> 0:12:22.160 should do that. 0:12:22.240 --> 0:12:24.880 I think if you FaceTime then you would then you know, 0:12:25.000 --> 0:12:25.559 see their real s. 0:12:25.720 --> 0:12:27.440 That's good question. Can I tell you what I do? 0:12:27.559 --> 0:12:31.320 And this is a PSA for all single women. I 0:12:31.520 --> 0:12:36.040 have a Google phone number, and when I it doesn't 0:12:36.080 --> 0:12:38.520 matter where I meet him. Except for the guy last night, 0:12:38.559 --> 0:12:42.520 I give him my real number. But I do make exceptions. 0:12:43.679 --> 0:12:47.920 But with a Google phone number, you cannot find, you 0:12:47.960 --> 0:12:52.040 cannot research, You cannot find your name, your address, anything 0:12:52.040 --> 0:12:55.480 about you. With a cell number, you would not believe 0:12:55.760 --> 0:12:58.960 how much information you can find out about selling. So so, 0:12:59.080 --> 0:13:01.360 and I've taated a couple of guys. One guy, when 0:13:01.400 --> 0:13:03.680 he called me said, because you have what happens is 0:13:03.720 --> 0:13:06.200 they call you and they have to give their name 0:13:06.360 --> 0:13:08.199 and you can choose to accept or reject the. 0:13:08.120 --> 0:13:09.880 Oh okay, okay, so that's interesting. 0:13:09.920 --> 0:13:13.439 I had a guy who called and he when I answered, 0:13:13.480 --> 0:13:16.320 he said, wait, what is this, and I explained that 0:13:16.400 --> 0:13:19.120 my children are really concerned about my safety and it 0:13:19.160 --> 0:13:21.480 was my kid's idea, and he said, yeah, well that's 0:13:21.480 --> 0:13:22.560 not going to work for me. I said, it's been 0:13:22.640 --> 0:13:23.640 so nice chatting click. 0:13:23.960 --> 0:13:25.280 Yeah. Yeah, you know that. 0:13:25.400 --> 0:13:27.000 It says a lot about a man who doesn't care 0:13:27.000 --> 0:13:28.120 about your right, it's safety. 0:13:28.160 --> 0:13:30.240 You know, they should be as protective of as even 0:13:30.240 --> 0:13:31.160 if they don't know us. 0:13:31.240 --> 0:13:31.720 Right, that's. 0:13:34.600 --> 0:13:37.880 Offer me a guy that has a problem with a 0:13:37.920 --> 0:13:38.480 Google phone. 0:13:38.480 --> 0:13:42.160 Now I can see that. Oh it's interesting. 0:13:42.360 --> 0:13:44.480 There's there's two about texting on here that I think 0:13:44.480 --> 0:13:48.000 are pretty interesting. One is being a slow Texter is 0:13:48.000 --> 0:13:50.839 a nick to this guy. Everyone always has her phone 0:13:50.880 --> 0:13:52.200 on him all the time. There are very few reasons 0:13:52.240 --> 0:13:53.720 why it would take you a day to reply to me. 0:13:53.760 --> 0:13:54.800 Can I have this guy's number? 0:13:55.559 --> 0:13:58.040 I'm just going to assume you're not interested? So that 0:13:58.240 --> 0:13:59.760 was his thing. What do you think of that, Sime. 0:14:00.160 --> 0:14:01.480 I'm kind of busy, yeh. 0:14:01.559 --> 0:14:03.160 And when I'm with people, I try not to have 0:14:03.160 --> 0:14:05.520 my phone out so there will be delays and when 0:14:05.520 --> 0:14:06.280 I respond back to. 0:14:06.320 --> 0:14:08.160 You, well see that's kind of a thing too. 0:14:08.200 --> 0:14:11.560 That's a that's an age thing, right, because I think 0:14:11.920 --> 0:14:15.800 younger people today like they never are they will set 0:14:15.800 --> 0:14:17.480 their phone down that if it goes there in the 0:14:17.480 --> 0:14:19.360 middle of a conversation, you're telling them something meaningful and 0:14:19.360 --> 0:14:22.000 they're like texting. Whereas I love that. I love when 0:14:22.000 --> 0:14:23.920 people like put their phone away and don't look at it. 0:14:23.960 --> 0:14:26.160 I think that's pretty awesome. That's another rick for me. 0:14:26.240 --> 0:14:29.120 If I go out to dinner or have a drink 0:14:29.120 --> 0:14:31.040 with a guy and his phone's there and he's checking 0:14:31.040 --> 0:14:33.120 his phone, he'll never see me again. 0:14:33.200 --> 0:14:35.400 Yeah, well, yeah, it used to be that you would. 0:14:35.440 --> 0:14:37.440 There was like a three day rule, right, like if 0:14:37.480 --> 0:14:40.120 you like someone and you can active that in three days. 0:14:40.120 --> 0:14:41.240 I can't wait days. 0:14:41.240 --> 0:14:44.080 Well, back in the answering machines, I have an answering machine. 0:14:43.800 --> 0:14:45.440 Message, I can tell you. 0:14:45.560 --> 0:14:48.760 We talk about this women, my friends, my single friends, 0:14:48.800 --> 0:14:51.880 and I'm much more. I'm just going to answer right now. 0:14:51.920 --> 0:14:55.040 I'm not playing games. I think a day to wait, 0:14:55.080 --> 0:14:58.480 a whole day. I think that's probably game playing, because 0:14:58.480 --> 0:15:00.760 if you're not picking up your phone in a day, 0:15:01.680 --> 0:15:02.800 then you're playing one. 0:15:03.680 --> 0:15:07.560 I do think what they're probably alluding to is playing games. Yeah, yeah, 0:15:07.600 --> 0:15:09.920 how long it takes? And especially, don't you hate it 0:15:09.960 --> 0:15:12.200 when although I people text you and you answer back 0:15:12.240 --> 0:15:14.920 and you see the bubbles yea, and then they don't 0:15:14.960 --> 0:15:15.600 send anything. 0:15:16.120 --> 0:15:18.400 I know you saw it. But here's my question. And 0:15:18.480 --> 0:15:21.240 you are the guru. Bops, you tell us I'm the guru. 0:15:21.320 --> 0:15:26.120 You are do the guys. If you answer right back, 0:15:26.120 --> 0:15:29.360 when is now the chase over? Like, oh, no, she's 0:15:29.360 --> 0:15:29.880 too weaker? 0:15:30.640 --> 0:15:31.800 Question? I don't think so. 0:15:32.200 --> 0:15:34.360 I think if you're texting in the first place, you're 0:15:34.360 --> 0:15:38.600 looking for a response, right, unless it's an informational text, right, 0:15:38.600 --> 0:15:41.760 But if it's if I'm texting someone, If I'm texting someone, 0:15:42.760 --> 0:15:46.240 I think I would like a response, you know, I mean, ultimately, 0:15:46.280 --> 0:15:48.400 that's why you're sending them a message in the first. 0:15:48.240 --> 0:15:50.360 You know, you wouldn't think like, oh, she's pretty eager, 0:15:50.640 --> 0:15:51.360 maybe she's too weak. 0:15:51.480 --> 0:15:53.800 Now. I don't ever think things though. I'm a pretty 0:15:53.800 --> 0:15:54.360 simple guy. 0:15:54.600 --> 0:15:58.160 I would say an hour or two is okay from 0:15:58.160 --> 0:16:00.840 a standpoint of someone me toeking someone and then not 0:16:01.080 --> 0:16:03.520 replying right away, or or you know, if life gets 0:16:03.520 --> 0:16:06.400 in the way and they're busy, or if they have obligations. 0:16:06.440 --> 0:16:07.160 I totally get that. 0:16:07.280 --> 0:16:09.400 Yeah, But if we're in the middle of texting and 0:16:09.440 --> 0:16:12.240 then all of a sudden that person just bails a 0:16:12.320 --> 0:16:14.200 day later, I'm going to be kind of like, well, 0:16:14.200 --> 0:16:14.920 screw this person. 0:16:15.280 --> 0:16:17.640 You know, I will tell on the dading app. 0:16:17.760 --> 0:16:21.040 I had a guy reach out to me and literally 0:16:21.680 --> 0:16:25.240 it was probably forty minutes later he said Hi, I 0:16:25.240 --> 0:16:27.360 didn't see it thirty forty minutes later and then he 0:16:27.400 --> 0:16:29.840 wrote back, thanks for not answering. 0:16:30.520 --> 0:16:30.840 It's like. 0:16:32.320 --> 0:16:34.760 Texting question for you all that I have to ask, 0:16:34.840 --> 0:16:39.640 as singles and a non single good morning and good 0:16:39.720 --> 0:16:42.520 night texts, how are our feelings about that? 0:16:45.200 --> 0:16:46.760 Well, I've I. 0:16:46.760 --> 0:16:49.360 Would say, are you from two situations? 0:16:49.440 --> 0:16:49.560 Right? 0:16:49.600 --> 0:16:51.480 So a good morning good night text from a guy? 0:16:51.640 --> 0:16:54.760 Maybe you just met too much? Good morning again? We 0:16:54.920 --> 0:16:57.000 just said that too much? 0:16:57.040 --> 0:17:00.280 You've just met, But it is nice sometime during the day, Hey, 0:17:00.320 --> 0:17:05.200 thinking about you, you know, looking forward to having a 0:17:05.240 --> 0:17:08.440 live chat later or dinner this weekender. 0:17:09.000 --> 0:17:10.000 You Wednesday or whatever. 0:17:10.080 --> 0:17:10.840 But I will tell you. 0:17:10.840 --> 0:17:14.320 It irritates me if even if I'm I have to 0:17:14.359 --> 0:17:16.800 be in really deep like I met last night, he 0:17:16.840 --> 0:17:17.920 can say good morning, good night? 0:17:20.720 --> 0:17:21.919 Can you tell? This a repeating thing? 0:17:22.160 --> 0:17:25.240 But no, Seriously, if if I don't know a guy, well, 0:17:25.560 --> 0:17:29.040 I find it annoying. I really do find it annoying 0:17:29.080 --> 0:17:31.719 if they're good morning, Kathy, thinking about you. I'm like, 0:17:32.240 --> 0:17:36.000 I just met, we haven't even met, just talked, texted. 0:17:36.359 --> 0:17:38.760 But what I do, and I told you this, I 0:17:38.800 --> 0:17:41.840 have a new thing that I do when whether whatever 0:17:41.880 --> 0:17:44.800 it is, when I meet a guy or this horrible 0:17:44.840 --> 0:17:49.040 dating app that's about to expire. Thank god, I only 0:17:49.080 --> 0:17:51.639 text a few times and then I say, you know, 0:17:51.720 --> 0:17:54.240 why don't we chat on the phone. And I get 0:17:54.280 --> 0:17:57.119 it so quickly. I can tell just by the conversation 0:17:57.200 --> 0:17:58.240 if I want to go down the road. 0:17:58.400 --> 0:18:00.399