1 00:00:13,760 --> 00:00:14,960 Speaker 1: Hey, it's I Do Part two. 2 00:00:15,120 --> 00:00:17,360 Speaker 2: I am one of your celebrity mentors, Bob Guinea, and 3 00:00:17,520 --> 00:00:18,360 Speaker 2: I am in. 4 00:00:18,440 --> 00:00:20,239 Speaker 1: Beautiful Carmel, California. 5 00:00:21,160 --> 00:00:23,400 Speaker 2: I believe it's my fifth or sixth year here with 6 00:00:23,480 --> 00:00:26,560 Speaker 2: this awesome trip for the Pebble Beach Pro Am Golf competition, 7 00:00:26,640 --> 00:00:29,240 Speaker 2: and of course with our iHeart family, and we have 8 00:00:29,280 --> 00:00:33,239 Speaker 2: two women that we love on this pod Pod Bless America. 9 00:00:33,320 --> 00:00:37,440 Speaker 2: It's Golden's Kathy Swartz and Cindy Colors. Welcome, ladies. 10 00:00:37,560 --> 00:00:38,479 Speaker 1: Hey, how are you? 11 00:00:38,720 --> 00:00:40,919 Speaker 2: Thanks so much for I'm better now getting to talk 12 00:00:40,960 --> 00:00:43,879 Speaker 2: to you too. So okay, let's just talk about how 13 00:00:43,920 --> 00:00:45,640 Speaker 2: great this has been, right we have. We've had a 14 00:00:45,680 --> 00:00:47,519 Speaker 2: wonderful time. Did you guys get to do the shopping 15 00:00:47,760 --> 00:00:48,919 Speaker 2: always thing yesterday? 16 00:00:48,960 --> 00:00:50,440 Speaker 3: This is my third time. I think I've been to 17 00:00:50,479 --> 00:00:51,560 Speaker 3: every store now in Carmel. 18 00:00:51,720 --> 00:00:52,479 Speaker 1: I love it. 19 00:00:52,479 --> 00:00:54,920 Speaker 4: It's my first and we have had such a good time. 20 00:00:55,080 --> 00:00:56,120 Speaker 4: Did you buy some good stuff? 21 00:00:56,480 --> 00:00:58,760 Speaker 5: We all bought the same pants yesterday? 22 00:00:58,920 --> 00:00:59,760 Speaker 1: Oh, very nice. 23 00:01:00,520 --> 00:01:03,000 Speaker 3: It was the three women in the traveling pants. 24 00:01:03,080 --> 00:01:05,520 Speaker 2: Except I don't have to travel. We all take them home. Yeah, 25 00:01:05,560 --> 00:01:08,160 Speaker 2: there you go, it's perfect. Well, I loved it. I 26 00:01:08,200 --> 00:01:10,760 Speaker 2: know real quick. I know you're talking about this a 27 00:01:10,760 --> 00:01:14,120 Speaker 2: little bit last night. But uh you you two were 28 00:01:14,160 --> 00:01:18,319 Speaker 2: given an assignment by one of the producers. Probably if 29 00:01:18,319 --> 00:01:20,080 Speaker 2: I if I had to guess which producer, I bet. 30 00:01:20,000 --> 00:01:21,679 Speaker 1: I could guess which one she'd be right. 31 00:01:22,000 --> 00:01:25,080 Speaker 2: And she gave you an assignment to try and each 32 00:01:25,280 --> 00:01:29,560 Speaker 2: grab some digits while you're out in the town cavorting. 33 00:01:30,680 --> 00:01:31,960 Speaker 1: How did I go? Let's start. 34 00:01:32,040 --> 00:01:33,840 Speaker 2: Let's start with you, Sidney. Let's start with you. Were 35 00:01:33,840 --> 00:01:37,160 Speaker 2: you able to score some digits last week? Have no digits? 36 00:01:37,200 --> 00:01:39,480 Speaker 2: But I thought my I thought I had through today. 37 00:01:39,720 --> 00:01:42,720 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, if you can give you some today, I'll 38 00:01:42,760 --> 00:01:47,680 Speaker 2: get to okay, sound, we will do a follow up. 39 00:01:48,760 --> 00:01:50,760 Speaker 1: We might have someone in an early lead. 40 00:01:51,720 --> 00:01:55,760 Speaker 2: I guess you're say, apparently I gave out my digits 41 00:01:55,840 --> 00:01:57,400 Speaker 2: last night, and I was getting blown up by the 42 00:01:57,440 --> 00:01:59,960 Speaker 2: same uh same friends and family members that you were. 43 00:02:00,360 --> 00:02:04,200 Speaker 1: Yep, So let's talk about this. What you did? You 44 00:02:04,280 --> 00:02:07,640 Speaker 1: give out your number? Did you get a number? What happened? No? 45 00:02:07,840 --> 00:02:11,360 Speaker 3: I gave my number too. It was like three degrees 46 00:02:11,360 --> 00:02:15,840 Speaker 3: of separation whatever to a gentleman who you and I 47 00:02:15,880 --> 00:02:18,840 Speaker 3: were talking to him and his wife, Stephen Lee and 48 00:02:18,960 --> 00:02:24,040 Speaker 3: Stephen Lean at the bar and lovely people. And I, 49 00:02:24,280 --> 00:02:26,960 Speaker 3: of course always take every opportunity to say, do you 50 00:02:27,000 --> 00:02:28,560 Speaker 3: have any friends or family who are single? 51 00:02:28,680 --> 00:02:28,880 Speaker 1: Right? 52 00:02:29,080 --> 00:02:31,440 Speaker 3: And he said, actually I do, and took me over 53 00:02:31,480 --> 00:02:34,640 Speaker 3: and introduced me to this guy who's handsome, good looking guy. 54 00:02:35,320 --> 00:02:38,400 Speaker 3: And then Steve asked for my number, and then Steve 55 00:02:38,440 --> 00:02:39,280 Speaker 3: passed it on to him. 56 00:02:39,320 --> 00:02:42,120 Speaker 2: So we'll say, oh, well, hey, dude, if you're listening, 57 00:02:42,680 --> 00:02:45,760 Speaker 2: fire up that phone, all right, give us a call. 58 00:02:46,000 --> 00:02:49,760 Speaker 3: But now I've got another one yet two second called 59 00:02:49,800 --> 00:02:51,480 Speaker 3: me this morning. She has another one. He lives on 60 00:02:51,520 --> 00:02:54,000 Speaker 3: the golf course. Sweet, hey, zeus. So you know I 61 00:02:54,000 --> 00:02:55,040 Speaker 3: am in the early lead. 62 00:02:55,080 --> 00:02:56,760 Speaker 2: Here are we going to see this dude out there 63 00:02:56,560 --> 00:02:58,280 Speaker 2: that we're all going to a party house? 64 00:02:58,360 --> 00:03:00,160 Speaker 1: He is on the course. Wait, we are going to 65 00:03:00,200 --> 00:03:01,200 Speaker 1: his house today for a party. 66 00:03:01,280 --> 00:03:03,720 Speaker 3: Yes, that's confirmed that. I'm just waiting to hear from him. 67 00:03:04,320 --> 00:03:06,560 Speaker 3: Holy smokes, You're welcome. 68 00:03:07,360 --> 00:03:07,600 Speaker 1: Welcome. 69 00:03:07,800 --> 00:03:09,960 Speaker 2: I can't wait to meet him. I will be vetting him. 70 00:03:10,040 --> 00:03:12,280 Speaker 2: I did tell Leanne would bring you by on. Yeah, 71 00:03:12,280 --> 00:03:15,360 Speaker 2: I will be properly vetting this man. You know. I 72 00:03:15,400 --> 00:03:19,480 Speaker 2: got to say, I think it's interesting because uh, times 73 00:03:19,480 --> 00:03:22,040 Speaker 2: have changed, right, I mean, I I meet women in 74 00:03:22,040 --> 00:03:24,440 Speaker 2: the old fashioned way I hand out flowers on TV shows. 75 00:03:24,800 --> 00:03:28,639 Speaker 2: But I happen to know that, you know, the dating 76 00:03:28,680 --> 00:03:30,639 Speaker 2: apps and all that kind of stuff. Have you two 77 00:03:30,680 --> 00:03:31,959 Speaker 2: ever done the apps thing? 78 00:03:32,240 --> 00:03:32,520 Speaker 1: The day? 79 00:03:32,800 --> 00:03:34,760 Speaker 4: I think I think everybody who's single has at least 80 00:03:34,880 --> 00:03:37,680 Speaker 4: tried it. Yeah, and some of us have gotten off 81 00:03:37,720 --> 00:03:41,280 Speaker 4: of it, right, some are still participating in Kathy Kathy. 82 00:03:41,680 --> 00:03:45,560 Speaker 3: I'm it was a moment with my daughter where alcohol 83 00:03:45,680 --> 00:03:47,880 Speaker 3: was involved and she made me get on and I 84 00:03:47,920 --> 00:03:50,000 Speaker 3: am literally canceled it the next day. 85 00:03:50,040 --> 00:03:52,600 Speaker 1: Do you were you swiping? Did you do any swiping? 86 00:03:52,680 --> 00:03:52,800 Speaker 6: Oh? 87 00:03:52,840 --> 00:03:55,000 Speaker 3: I swiped a lot and a lot of these people 88 00:03:55,080 --> 00:03:57,800 Speaker 3: I think they're memes. I don't think they are real people. 89 00:03:58,000 --> 00:04:02,000 Speaker 7: Oh really, lots of catfish, lots of cat fishing, lots 90 00:04:02,040 --> 00:04:05,200 Speaker 7: of bodies without clothes, shirts on, and yeah, you know, 91 00:04:05,320 --> 00:04:08,240 Speaker 7: holding beers in the bathroom kind of guys. 92 00:04:08,960 --> 00:04:10,960 Speaker 4: And it's like people who are just wanting to get 93 00:04:11,000 --> 00:04:13,880 Speaker 4: attention and not really have a relationship. 94 00:04:13,360 --> 00:04:16,320 Speaker 2: Right, I could see that. I mean it's interesting. I 95 00:04:17,600 --> 00:04:19,880 Speaker 2: think if I were, you know, God forbid to ever 96 00:04:19,920 --> 00:04:21,840 Speaker 2: be single again. I don't know that you have. 97 00:04:21,880 --> 00:04:23,719 Speaker 3: A best whyfe you will never be single again? 98 00:04:23,839 --> 00:04:26,640 Speaker 2: Yeah? Well, she gets kind of tired of my antics. 99 00:04:27,200 --> 00:04:29,960 Speaker 2: But I always think I often wonder like what would 100 00:04:29,960 --> 00:04:31,440 Speaker 2: I do? Would I go on a thing like that. 101 00:04:31,480 --> 00:04:34,800 Speaker 2: I don't think I would, only because I feel like 102 00:04:35,360 --> 00:04:37,640 Speaker 2: for me it'd be easier to But I say this, 103 00:04:37,760 --> 00:04:39,800 Speaker 2: but you're right, I mean, it's not easy to do. 104 00:04:40,160 --> 00:04:41,880 Speaker 2: I always think it maybe be easier to meet through 105 00:04:41,880 --> 00:04:43,919 Speaker 2: friends and family, right or whatever. 106 00:04:44,080 --> 00:04:46,720 Speaker 4: But maybe now friends have known this for we both 107 00:04:46,760 --> 00:04:48,800 Speaker 4: lived in the same neighborhood for a long time. I've 108 00:04:48,800 --> 00:04:51,880 Speaker 4: lived in Austin for thirty years. So if somebody has 109 00:04:51,920 --> 00:04:54,680 Speaker 4: a single friend, I've probably exhausted that resource by. 110 00:04:54,560 --> 00:04:57,479 Speaker 1: Now exhausted that right. And she and I've been in 111 00:04:57,520 --> 00:04:58,760 Speaker 1: Austin twenty five plus. 112 00:04:58,800 --> 00:05:01,599 Speaker 3: Heres and Cindy, he has handed me all her rejects 113 00:05:01,600 --> 00:05:02,600 Speaker 3: and they haven't worked out either. 114 00:05:02,720 --> 00:05:07,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, twice two million or so. Yeah, jeez, it's 115 00:05:07,920 --> 00:05:10,680 Speaker 2: tough out there, it is, right. Well, it's probably not 116 00:05:10,760 --> 00:05:15,680 Speaker 2: tough to meet I mean, it's going to sound inappropriate, 117 00:05:15,839 --> 00:05:17,120 Speaker 2: but it's probably not tough to meet. 118 00:05:16,960 --> 00:05:17,719 Speaker 1: Someone to hook up with. 119 00:05:17,760 --> 00:05:20,080 Speaker 2: But it's probably tough to meet someone to actually have 120 00:05:20,120 --> 00:05:21,279 Speaker 2: a relationship with, right. 121 00:05:22,400 --> 00:05:24,480 Speaker 4: I mean, I wouldn't say we're not meeting to hook 122 00:05:24,560 --> 00:05:31,159 Speaker 4: up any of them but for yourself. You can meet people, 123 00:05:31,279 --> 00:05:34,919 Speaker 4: and so you do, like have a couple of dates. 124 00:05:35,000 --> 00:05:37,320 Speaker 4: It's just getting past that second date, third date and 125 00:05:37,360 --> 00:05:40,760 Speaker 4: really looking at compatibility. You know, especially Kathy is a 126 00:05:40,839 --> 00:05:42,839 Speaker 4: unique person, right, I'm going to put a plug in 127 00:05:42,880 --> 00:05:45,599 Speaker 4: for her because it's going to take a really special 128 00:05:45,680 --> 00:05:48,680 Speaker 4: man to capture her attention and to make a good 129 00:05:48,720 --> 00:05:51,600 Speaker 4: partner for her. But when you do find a partner, 130 00:05:51,640 --> 00:05:54,040 Speaker 4: you're going to be the best partner. So I think 131 00:05:54,040 --> 00:05:56,640 Speaker 4: we're going to have to expand our search outside of Austin. 132 00:05:56,720 --> 00:05:59,920 Speaker 2: How about I want to do to Carmel, California. We're starting, 133 00:06:00,360 --> 00:06:02,680 Speaker 2: we're gonna be walking the golf course. Right, there's a 134 00:06:02,720 --> 00:06:06,520 Speaker 2: lot of a lot of there's a lot of tall men, 135 00:06:06,880 --> 00:06:09,599 Speaker 2: very tall. Well in the particular circle you're hanging out, 136 00:06:09,600 --> 00:06:11,680 Speaker 2: and yes, we're all we're all tall drinks of water. 137 00:06:11,960 --> 00:06:13,360 Speaker 2: But yeah, I can see you know, you walk in 138 00:06:13,400 --> 00:06:14,839 Speaker 2: on the golf course, you think the golf course. 139 00:06:14,680 --> 00:06:15,719 Speaker 1: Would be a good place to meet. 140 00:06:16,000 --> 00:06:18,960 Speaker 3: I mean, then why not? I think a lot of men, 141 00:06:19,160 --> 00:06:20,719 Speaker 3: single men are going to be out on this golf 142 00:06:20,760 --> 00:06:22,520 Speaker 3: course either, right, but how do we really know that 143 00:06:22,520 --> 00:06:23,120 Speaker 3: they're single? 144 00:06:23,600 --> 00:06:26,919 Speaker 4: A lot of men at our age category have stopped 145 00:06:26,960 --> 00:06:29,479 Speaker 4: wearing their wedding rings even if they are married, and 146 00:06:29,520 --> 00:06:31,680 Speaker 4: I think they don't realize that they can get them resized, 147 00:06:31,880 --> 00:06:34,200 Speaker 4: just get the resizing on the ring, so they stop, 148 00:06:34,520 --> 00:06:36,400 Speaker 4: they stop wearing them, and then they give the signal 149 00:06:36,400 --> 00:06:37,240 Speaker 4: that they might be sing. 150 00:06:37,400 --> 00:06:40,600 Speaker 3: Cindy, how long do you think would take either one 151 00:06:40,640 --> 00:06:43,159 Speaker 3: of us to figure out if a guy is married? 152 00:06:43,279 --> 00:06:46,640 Speaker 3: Just take how many minutes that you guys two questions? 153 00:06:46,720 --> 00:06:48,200 Speaker 3: Yeah there you got, there, you got. 154 00:06:48,120 --> 00:06:48,680 Speaker 1: I can see that. 155 00:06:48,720 --> 00:06:51,400 Speaker 3: And the difference between Cindy and one of the differences 156 00:06:51,880 --> 00:06:55,520 Speaker 3: is she will give a guy like two or three days. 157 00:06:55,520 --> 00:06:56,320 Speaker 1: We've talked about this. 158 00:06:56,920 --> 00:06:59,280 Speaker 3: I can tell you, like the guy last night at 159 00:06:59,279 --> 00:07:03,640 Speaker 3: the bar, I locked eyes with him, and when you 160 00:07:03,800 --> 00:07:07,520 Speaker 3: brought me back in to meet Leanne and Steve brought 161 00:07:07,520 --> 00:07:09,279 Speaker 3: me over to meet him, that was the same guy 162 00:07:09,279 --> 00:07:11,880 Speaker 3: that I locked eyes with. But so I know really 163 00:07:11,960 --> 00:07:14,160 Speaker 3: quickly if I'm interested in somebody, I don't need to 164 00:07:14,160 --> 00:07:16,880 Speaker 3: go on two or three dates, right And I and I. 165 00:07:16,800 --> 00:07:20,240 Speaker 1: Don't dude, were you two friends before? Never met her? 166 00:07:20,320 --> 00:07:23,760 Speaker 4: Never looking the same zip code. We have a couple 167 00:07:23,880 --> 00:07:26,080 Speaker 4: mutual friends, but not too many. But the first time 168 00:07:26,080 --> 00:07:28,720 Speaker 4: we met was when Kathy came to the mansion during 169 00:07:29,160 --> 00:07:31,720 Speaker 4: can put the Pajama party. 170 00:07:31,800 --> 00:07:33,840 Speaker 2: And you were and that's when you were like everybody, 171 00:07:33,960 --> 00:07:36,680 Speaker 2: let's let's give three cheers for Mel's get on the 172 00:07:36,680 --> 00:07:39,440 Speaker 2: bel train the train, and then some people got off 173 00:07:39,440 --> 00:07:41,720 Speaker 2: with the train. Yes, yes they did, all right, So 174 00:07:41,800 --> 00:07:44,200 Speaker 2: let's talk about this when it comes to men, what 175 00:07:44,280 --> 00:07:48,520 Speaker 2: are your biggest ick things? I have the hardest time 176 00:07:48,560 --> 00:07:51,760 Speaker 2: saying ick, But what is your biggest ick and what 177 00:07:51,800 --> 00:07:53,000 Speaker 2: are your biggest turn ons? 178 00:07:53,840 --> 00:07:54,360 Speaker 5: Wow? 179 00:07:54,920 --> 00:07:58,880 Speaker 4: Okay, so a man who knows how to manage me 180 00:07:59,080 --> 00:08:01,960 Speaker 4: and handle me is my biggest turn on. Okay, somebody 181 00:08:02,000 --> 00:08:07,560 Speaker 4: knows how to like touch me appropriately, like move me around, 182 00:08:07,960 --> 00:08:10,960 Speaker 4: look at me. Oh that connection, I miss it. That 183 00:08:11,040 --> 00:08:13,600 Speaker 4: is the biggest turnout turn on? What about you, Kathy? 184 00:08:14,640 --> 00:08:18,800 Speaker 3: My biggest turn on is probably a man who I meet, 185 00:08:19,360 --> 00:08:23,720 Speaker 3: looks me in the eye, smiles like that connection. That's 186 00:08:23,960 --> 00:08:27,360 Speaker 3: not a guy who and my biggest turn off. It 187 00:08:27,360 --> 00:08:29,400 Speaker 3: goes with that, because my biggest turn off is a 188 00:08:29,400 --> 00:08:31,640 Speaker 3: guy that I meet and all he wants to tell 189 00:08:31,680 --> 00:08:35,199 Speaker 3: me about is his money and his cars and his 190 00:08:36,280 --> 00:08:41,000 Speaker 3: It's superficial, superficial stuff. Because at our age, we've got 191 00:08:41,000 --> 00:08:45,040 Speaker 3: what we've got. I'm looking for a genuinely kind human 192 00:08:45,080 --> 00:08:46,720 Speaker 3: being who's interested. 193 00:08:46,400 --> 00:08:48,160 Speaker 1: So not gonna be impressed by somebody. 194 00:08:48,640 --> 00:08:51,000 Speaker 3: I mean, do I want a guy to have enough 195 00:08:51,080 --> 00:08:53,560 Speaker 3: money to take me to a nice restaurant and open 196 00:08:53,559 --> 00:08:55,480 Speaker 3: the door for me and you know, not put me 197 00:08:55,520 --> 00:08:57,520 Speaker 3: in his VW bug where my legs are coming through 198 00:08:57,520 --> 00:09:01,440 Speaker 3: the windshill. Yes, but that's not you know, it's not 199 00:09:01,679 --> 00:09:04,360 Speaker 3: that's not going to money is not going to make 200 00:09:04,400 --> 00:09:05,000 Speaker 3: the guy for me. 201 00:09:05,320 --> 00:09:06,800 Speaker 1: Right, I think that makes sense. 202 00:09:07,080 --> 00:09:10,520 Speaker 2: Well, we've got Cosmo came out with twenty seven of 203 00:09:10,559 --> 00:09:14,120 Speaker 2: the biggest X. So the twenty oh wait see here 204 00:09:14,520 --> 00:09:16,880 Speaker 2: just came out with twenty seven men on their dating 205 00:09:17,160 --> 00:09:22,079 Speaker 2: X and non negotiables who some of them were expecting 206 00:09:22,120 --> 00:09:25,640 Speaker 2: sex on the first date. This individual said, maybe I'm 207 00:09:25,679 --> 00:09:28,480 Speaker 2: an anomaly, but that's not my initial desire when meeting someone. 208 00:09:28,520 --> 00:09:33,120 Speaker 2: It's actually to connect and build a bond first. Another 209 00:09:33,160 --> 00:09:36,080 Speaker 2: one here was being overly interested in my financial situation. 210 00:09:36,360 --> 00:09:38,880 Speaker 1: Yep, so kind of like what you said. I think. 211 00:09:38,920 --> 00:09:41,480 Speaker 2: For if this is coming from a guy saying, and right, 212 00:09:41,800 --> 00:09:44,840 Speaker 2: I think the guy it's interesting because you know, I 213 00:09:44,840 --> 00:09:49,120 Speaker 2: think there's a lot of people think certain things about guys, right, 214 00:09:49,120 --> 00:09:51,160 Speaker 2: And for a guy to say, expecting sex on the 215 00:09:51,160 --> 00:09:54,000 Speaker 2: first date would be a turnoff for him. That's interesting 216 00:09:54,040 --> 00:09:56,880 Speaker 2: to me. I get the being overly interested in my 217 00:09:56,920 --> 00:09:59,120 Speaker 2: financial situation. That's kind of like what we're talking about 218 00:09:59,360 --> 00:10:01,520 Speaker 2: last night, when and we were kind of hitting on 219 00:10:01,559 --> 00:10:04,440 Speaker 2: some different hot button topics. And if a woman, you know, 220 00:10:04,640 --> 00:10:06,520 Speaker 2: for me, when I was single, if I met a 221 00:10:06,559 --> 00:10:09,240 Speaker 2: woman and she would immediately be like, you know, so 222 00:10:09,280 --> 00:10:10,559 Speaker 2: what is this, I'd. 223 00:10:10,400 --> 00:10:12,280 Speaker 1: Be like, well, it's nothing. The hell are you talking about? 224 00:10:12,400 --> 00:10:14,240 Speaker 1: You know? And I was like, it is what it is. 225 00:10:14,400 --> 00:10:15,800 Speaker 2: And I don't know what that is yet because I 226 00:10:15,800 --> 00:10:18,719 Speaker 2: met you fifteen minutes ago or whatever, or but I 227 00:10:18,720 --> 00:10:20,280 Speaker 2: would think of that same moment if someone were to 228 00:10:20,320 --> 00:10:24,560 Speaker 2: be like, so tell me about your you know, your portfolio, Like, 229 00:10:24,760 --> 00:10:26,600 Speaker 2: what the hell are you talking about? You know, there 230 00:10:26,600 --> 00:10:28,480 Speaker 2: are certain things I think would be major turnoffs in 231 00:10:28,480 --> 00:10:30,079 Speaker 2: that regard, and those are two of them. You already 232 00:10:30,120 --> 00:10:34,760 Speaker 2: kind of addressed that absolutely. Oh are there of you 233 00:10:34,840 --> 00:10:38,480 Speaker 2: cat ladies? I have two geriatric cats, geriatric cats, so 234 00:10:38,520 --> 00:10:40,640 Speaker 2: you're you. I am not a cat lady. They're not 235 00:10:40,679 --> 00:10:42,400 Speaker 2: a cat lady, but you're just taking care of some. 236 00:10:43,880 --> 00:10:46,840 Speaker 3: I rescued these cats, I fostered them when they were 237 00:10:47,800 --> 00:10:51,360 Speaker 3: three weeks old, fostered them. Yeah, and they never left 238 00:10:51,920 --> 00:10:53,840 Speaker 3: now thirteen and a half and I love them. But 239 00:10:55,040 --> 00:10:56,760 Speaker 3: you know, to me, being a cat that has this 240 00:10:56,880 --> 00:11:00,920 Speaker 3: pejorative connotations and I am not that cat lady. 241 00:11:01,040 --> 00:11:03,839 Speaker 2: There was a thing I saw a dating app profile 242 00:11:04,000 --> 00:11:05,840 Speaker 2: that was it went viral and I don't know if 243 00:11:05,880 --> 00:11:07,959 Speaker 2: any of you guys are I'm sure how they saw it, 244 00:11:08,040 --> 00:11:11,120 Speaker 2: but it was like this thing where the woman was like, Hi, 245 00:11:11,200 --> 00:11:15,120 Speaker 2: my name's Debbie. I am a nurse and I have 246 00:11:15,160 --> 00:11:15,880 Speaker 2: two cats and. 247 00:11:15,920 --> 00:11:19,800 Speaker 1: I love them so much. I don't understand why men 248 00:11:19,880 --> 00:11:24,240 Speaker 1: don't like her. It's like, have you heard your story 249 00:11:24,280 --> 00:11:24,880 Speaker 1: about cats? 250 00:11:24,960 --> 00:11:25,000 Speaker 2: You? 251 00:11:26,080 --> 00:11:26,640 Speaker 1: Yeah? Cats? 252 00:11:26,679 --> 00:11:28,760 Speaker 2: For some reason there is You're right, there is quite 253 00:11:28,800 --> 00:11:30,480 Speaker 2: a thought process there with cats. 254 00:11:30,480 --> 00:11:32,800 Speaker 1: I'll let it be known. I'm I'm putting it out 255 00:11:32,800 --> 00:11:33,280 Speaker 1: there right now. 256 00:11:33,360 --> 00:11:37,679 Speaker 2: I'm not a crazy cat, not a crazy cat lady. 257 00:11:46,280 --> 00:11:46,840 Speaker 1: Oh, here you go. 258 00:11:46,920 --> 00:11:49,160 Speaker 2: This is a good one. Here picks being fake right, 259 00:11:49,200 --> 00:11:54,200 Speaker 2: pictures being fake, filtered, faked or filter faked or filtered right. 260 00:11:56,840 --> 00:11:59,600 Speaker 3: College And here's I just have to ask, that is 261 00:11:59,640 --> 00:12:01,839 Speaker 3: a huge turn off to me to go and meet 262 00:12:01,880 --> 00:12:03,920 Speaker 3: a man. And we've talked about this, Cindy, go and 263 00:12:03,960 --> 00:12:07,120 Speaker 3: meet a man, and literally this has happened to me. 264 00:12:07,520 --> 00:12:10,680 Speaker 3: I walk right by him because the guy that's there 265 00:12:11,240 --> 00:12:15,839 Speaker 3: does not resemble in any way the guy how we 266 00:12:15,920 --> 00:12:16,920 Speaker 3: portrayed himself in his. 267 00:12:17,120 --> 00:12:19,320 Speaker 5: Do you FaceTime men before you meet them? 268 00:12:19,559 --> 00:12:21,640 Speaker 3: I talked to them on the phone. Okay, maybe I 269 00:12:21,640 --> 00:12:22,160 Speaker 3: should do that. 270 00:12:22,240 --> 00:12:24,880 Speaker 5: I think if you FaceTime then you would then you know, 271 00:12:25,000 --> 00:12:25,559 Speaker 5: see their real s. 272 00:12:25,720 --> 00:12:27,440 Speaker 3: That's good question. Can I tell you what I do? 273 00:12:27,559 --> 00:12:31,320 Speaker 3: And this is a PSA for all single women. I 274 00:12:31,520 --> 00:12:36,040 Speaker 3: have a Google phone number, and when I it doesn't 275 00:12:36,080 --> 00:12:38,520 Speaker 3: matter where I meet him. Except for the guy last night, 276 00:12:38,559 --> 00:12:42,520 Speaker 3: I give him my real number. But I do make exceptions. 277 00:12:43,679 --> 00:12:47,920 Speaker 3: But with a Google phone number, you cannot find, you 278 00:12:47,960 --> 00:12:52,040 Speaker 3: cannot research, You cannot find your name, your address, anything 279 00:12:52,040 --> 00:12:55,480 Speaker 3: about you. With a cell number, you would not believe 280 00:12:55,760 --> 00:12:58,960 Speaker 3: how much information you can find out about selling. So so, 281 00:12:59,080 --> 00:13:01,360 Speaker 3: and I've taated a couple of guys. One guy, when 282 00:13:01,400 --> 00:13:03,680 Speaker 3: he called me said, because you have what happens is 283 00:13:03,720 --> 00:13:06,200 Speaker 3: they call you and they have to give their name 284 00:13:06,360 --> 00:13:08,199 Speaker 3: and you can choose to accept or reject the. 285 00:13:08,120 --> 00:13:09,880 Speaker 1: Oh okay, okay, so that's interesting. 286 00:13:09,920 --> 00:13:13,439 Speaker 3: I had a guy who called and he when I answered, 287 00:13:13,480 --> 00:13:16,320 Speaker 3: he said, wait, what is this, and I explained that 288 00:13:16,400 --> 00:13:19,120 Speaker 3: my children are really concerned about my safety and it 289 00:13:19,160 --> 00:13:21,480 Speaker 3: was my kid's idea, and he said, yeah, well that's 290 00:13:21,480 --> 00:13:22,560 Speaker 3: not going to work for me. I said, it's been 291 00:13:22,640 --> 00:13:23,640 Speaker 3: so nice chatting click. 292 00:13:23,960 --> 00:13:25,280 Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, you know that. 293 00:13:25,400 --> 00:13:27,000 Speaker 3: It says a lot about a man who doesn't care 294 00:13:27,000 --> 00:13:28,120 Speaker 3: about your right, it's safety. 295 00:13:28,160 --> 00:13:30,240 Speaker 4: You know, they should be as protective of as even 296 00:13:30,240 --> 00:13:31,160 Speaker 4: if they don't know us. 297 00:13:31,240 --> 00:13:31,720 Speaker 1: Right, that's. 298 00:13:34,600 --> 00:13:37,880 Speaker 3: Offer me a guy that has a problem with a 299 00:13:37,920 --> 00:13:38,480 Speaker 3: Google phone. 300 00:13:38,480 --> 00:13:42,160 Speaker 1: Now I can see that. Oh it's interesting. 301 00:13:42,360 --> 00:13:44,480 Speaker 2: There's there's two about texting on here that I think 302 00:13:44,480 --> 00:13:48,000 Speaker 2: are pretty interesting. One is being a slow Texter is 303 00:13:48,000 --> 00:13:50,839 Speaker 2: a nick to this guy. Everyone always has her phone 304 00:13:50,880 --> 00:13:52,200 Speaker 2: on him all the time. There are very few reasons 305 00:13:52,240 --> 00:13:53,720 Speaker 2: why it would take you a day to reply to me. 306 00:13:53,760 --> 00:13:54,800 Speaker 1: Can I have this guy's number? 307 00:13:55,559 --> 00:13:58,040 Speaker 2: I'm just going to assume you're not interested? So that 308 00:13:58,240 --> 00:13:59,760 Speaker 2: was his thing. What do you think of that, Sime. 309 00:14:00,160 --> 00:14:01,480 Speaker 5: I'm kind of busy, yeh. 310 00:14:01,559 --> 00:14:03,160 Speaker 4: And when I'm with people, I try not to have 311 00:14:03,160 --> 00:14:05,520 Speaker 4: my phone out so there will be delays and when 312 00:14:05,520 --> 00:14:06,280 Speaker 4: I respond back to. 313 00:14:06,320 --> 00:14:08,160 Speaker 1: You, well see that's kind of a thing too. 314 00:14:08,200 --> 00:14:11,560 Speaker 2: That's a that's an age thing, right, because I think 315 00:14:11,920 --> 00:14:15,800 Speaker 2: younger people today like they never are they will set 316 00:14:15,800 --> 00:14:17,480 Speaker 2: their phone down that if it goes there in the 317 00:14:17,480 --> 00:14:19,360 Speaker 2: middle of a conversation, you're telling them something meaningful and 318 00:14:19,360 --> 00:14:22,000 Speaker 2: they're like texting. Whereas I love that. I love when 319 00:14:22,000 --> 00:14:23,920 Speaker 2: people like put their phone away and don't look at it. 320 00:14:23,960 --> 00:14:26,160 Speaker 2: I think that's pretty awesome. That's another rick for me. 321 00:14:26,240 --> 00:14:29,120 Speaker 3: If I go out to dinner or have a drink 322 00:14:29,120 --> 00:14:31,040 Speaker 3: with a guy and his phone's there and he's checking 323 00:14:31,040 --> 00:14:33,120 Speaker 3: his phone, he'll never see me again. 324 00:14:33,200 --> 00:14:35,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, well, yeah, it used to be that you would. 325 00:14:35,440 --> 00:14:37,440 Speaker 2: There was like a three day rule, right, like if 326 00:14:37,480 --> 00:14:40,120 Speaker 2: you like someone and you can active that in three days. 327 00:14:40,120 --> 00:14:41,240 Speaker 1: I can't wait days. 328 00:14:41,240 --> 00:14:44,080 Speaker 5: Well, back in the answering machines, I have an answering machine. 329 00:14:43,800 --> 00:14:45,440 Speaker 1: Message, I can tell you. 330 00:14:45,560 --> 00:14:48,760 Speaker 3: We talk about this women, my friends, my single friends, 331 00:14:48,800 --> 00:14:51,880 Speaker 3: and I'm much more. I'm just going to answer right now. 332 00:14:51,920 --> 00:14:55,040 Speaker 3: I'm not playing games. I think a day to wait, 333 00:14:55,080 --> 00:14:58,480 Speaker 3: a whole day. I think that's probably game playing, because 334 00:14:58,480 --> 00:15:00,760 Speaker 3: if you're not picking up your phone in a day, 335 00:15:01,680 --> 00:15:02,800 Speaker 3: then you're playing one. 336 00:15:03,680 --> 00:15:07,560 Speaker 4: I do think what they're probably alluding to is playing games. Yeah, yeah, 337 00:15:07,600 --> 00:15:09,920 Speaker 4: how long it takes? And especially, don't you hate it 338 00:15:09,960 --> 00:15:12,200 Speaker 4: when although I people text you and you answer back 339 00:15:12,240 --> 00:15:14,920 Speaker 4: and you see the bubbles yea, and then they don't 340 00:15:14,960 --> 00:15:15,600 Speaker 4: send anything. 341 00:15:16,120 --> 00:15:18,400 Speaker 3: I know you saw it. But here's my question. And 342 00:15:18,480 --> 00:15:21,240 Speaker 3: you are the guru. Bops, you tell us I'm the guru. 343 00:15:21,320 --> 00:15:26,120 Speaker 3: You are do the guys. If you answer right back, 344 00:15:26,120 --> 00:15:29,360 Speaker 3: when is now the chase over? Like, oh, no, she's 345 00:15:29,360 --> 00:15:29,880 Speaker 3: too weaker? 346 00:15:30,640 --> 00:15:31,800 Speaker 1: Question? I don't think so. 347 00:15:32,200 --> 00:15:34,360 Speaker 2: I think if you're texting in the first place, you're 348 00:15:34,360 --> 00:15:38,600 Speaker 2: looking for a response, right, unless it's an informational text, right, 349 00:15:38,600 --> 00:15:41,760 Speaker 2: But if it's if I'm texting someone, If I'm texting someone, 350 00:15:42,760 --> 00:15:46,240 Speaker 2: I think I would like a response, you know, I mean, ultimately, 351 00:15:46,280 --> 00:15:48,400 Speaker 2: that's why you're sending them a message in the first. 352 00:15:48,240 --> 00:15:50,360 Speaker 3: You know, you wouldn't think like, oh, she's pretty eager, 353 00:15:50,640 --> 00:15:51,360 Speaker 3: maybe she's too weak. 354 00:15:51,480 --> 00:15:53,800 Speaker 1: Now. I don't ever think things though. I'm a pretty 355 00:15:53,800 --> 00:15:54,360 Speaker 1: simple guy. 356 00:15:54,600 --> 00:15:58,160 Speaker 2: I would say an hour or two is okay from 357 00:15:58,160 --> 00:16:00,840 Speaker 2: a standpoint of someone me toeking someone and then not 358 00:16:01,080 --> 00:16:03,520 Speaker 2: replying right away, or or you know, if life gets 359 00:16:03,520 --> 00:16:06,400 Speaker 2: in the way and they're busy, or if they have obligations. 360 00:16:06,440 --> 00:16:07,160 Speaker 1: I totally get that. 361 00:16:07,280 --> 00:16:09,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, But if we're in the middle of texting and 362 00:16:09,440 --> 00:16:12,240 Speaker 2: then all of a sudden that person just bails a 363 00:16:12,320 --> 00:16:14,200 Speaker 2: day later, I'm going to be kind of like, well, 364 00:16:14,200 --> 00:16:14,920 Speaker 2: screw this person. 365 00:16:15,280 --> 00:16:17,640 Speaker 1: You know, I will tell on the dading app. 366 00:16:17,760 --> 00:16:21,040 Speaker 3: I had a guy reach out to me and literally 367 00:16:21,680 --> 00:16:25,240 Speaker 3: it was probably forty minutes later he said Hi, I 368 00:16:25,240 --> 00:16:27,360 Speaker 3: didn't see it thirty forty minutes later and then he 369 00:16:27,400 --> 00:16:29,840 Speaker 3: wrote back, thanks for not answering. 370 00:16:30,520 --> 00:16:30,840 Speaker 1: It's like. 371 00:16:32,320 --> 00:16:34,760 Speaker 6: Texting question for you all that I have to ask, 372 00:16:34,840 --> 00:16:39,640 Speaker 6: as singles and a non single good morning and good 373 00:16:39,720 --> 00:16:42,520 Speaker 6: night texts, how are our feelings about that? 374 00:16:45,200 --> 00:16:46,760 Speaker 5: Well, I've I. 375 00:16:46,760 --> 00:16:49,360 Speaker 1: Would say, are you from two situations? 376 00:16:49,440 --> 00:16:49,560 Speaker 8: Right? 377 00:16:49,600 --> 00:16:51,480 Speaker 2: So a good morning good night text from a guy? 378 00:16:51,640 --> 00:16:54,760 Speaker 2: Maybe you just met too much? Good morning again? We 379 00:16:54,920 --> 00:16:57,000 Speaker 2: just said that too much? 380 00:16:57,040 --> 00:17:00,280 Speaker 4: You've just met, But it is nice sometime during the day, Hey, 381 00:17:00,320 --> 00:17:05,200 Speaker 4: thinking about you, you know, looking forward to having a 382 00:17:05,240 --> 00:17:08,440 Speaker 4: live chat later or dinner this weekender. 383 00:17:09,000 --> 00:17:10,000 Speaker 5: You Wednesday or whatever. 384 00:17:10,080 --> 00:17:10,840 Speaker 1: But I will tell you. 385 00:17:10,840 --> 00:17:14,320 Speaker 3: It irritates me if even if I'm I have to 386 00:17:14,359 --> 00:17:16,800 Speaker 3: be in really deep like I met last night, he 387 00:17:16,840 --> 00:17:17,920 Speaker 3: can say good morning, good night? 388 00:17:20,720 --> 00:17:21,919 Speaker 1: Can you tell? This a repeating thing? 389 00:17:22,160 --> 00:17:25,240 Speaker 3: But no, Seriously, if if I don't know a guy, well, 390 00:17:25,560 --> 00:17:29,040 Speaker 3: I find it annoying. I really do find it annoying 391 00:17:29,080 --> 00:17:31,719 Speaker 3: if they're good morning, Kathy, thinking about you. I'm like, 392 00:17:32,240 --> 00:17:36,000 Speaker 3: I just met, we haven't even met, just talked, texted. 393 00:17:36,359 --> 00:17:38,760 Speaker 3: But what I do, and I told you this, I 394 00:17:38,800 --> 00:17:41,840 Speaker 3: have a new thing that I do when whether whatever 395 00:17:41,880 --> 00:17:44,800 Speaker 3: it is, when I meet a guy or this horrible 396 00:17:44,840 --> 00:17:49,040 Speaker 3: dating app that's about to expire. Thank god, I only 397 00:17:49,080 --> 00:17:51,639 Speaker 3: text a few times and then I say, you know, 398 00:17:51,720 --> 00:17:54,240 Speaker 3: why don't we chat on the phone. And I get 399 00:17:54,280 --> 00:17:57,119 Speaker 3: it so quickly. I can tell just by the conversation 400 00:17:57,200 --> 00:17:58,240 Speaker 3: if I want to go down the road. 401 00:17:58,400 --> 00:18:00,399 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's a good that's probably a good thing. I 402 00:18:00,440 --> 00:18:00,880 Speaker 1: would say. 403 00:18:00,880 --> 00:18:04,719 Speaker 2: From a married guy perspective, the good morning and good 404 00:18:04,800 --> 00:18:07,960 Speaker 2: night texts, I would probably be welcoming of them, because 405 00:18:08,000 --> 00:18:09,720 Speaker 2: my wife completely ignores me. 406 00:18:14,040 --> 00:18:14,639 Speaker 1: Oh yeah she is. 407 00:18:17,680 --> 00:18:20,520 Speaker 3: Well what I'm like, hold on, I'm going to defend 408 00:18:20,560 --> 00:18:23,040 Speaker 3: your fabulous wife. First of all, the poor thing is 409 00:18:23,080 --> 00:18:25,280 Speaker 3: sick as a dog and on the sofa, and I'm. 410 00:18:25,119 --> 00:18:29,800 Speaker 4: Sure you sent her phone in her hand, and I'm like, 411 00:18:29,840 --> 00:18:31,840 Speaker 4: she's probably too weak to get up. She's too weak. 412 00:18:31,920 --> 00:18:34,360 Speaker 1: Oh, there's a nanny there, give me a break. Did 413 00:18:34,359 --> 00:18:36,560 Speaker 1: you send her get well flowers? I'm thinking of you. 414 00:18:36,640 --> 00:18:39,280 Speaker 1: I love Oh I sent her. 415 00:18:40,400 --> 00:18:42,280 Speaker 2: You might be coming up on my dating now she's 416 00:18:42,280 --> 00:18:44,480 Speaker 2: gotta get well flight credit coming her way for missing 417 00:18:44,520 --> 00:18:44,840 Speaker 2: her flight. 418 00:18:45,480 --> 00:18:47,800 Speaker 1: No, I would say, uh, I welcome it. 419 00:18:47,880 --> 00:18:51,200 Speaker 2: I welcome a good morning organ night text, but it's 420 00:18:51,240 --> 00:18:53,800 Speaker 2: it's from a different place, like for example, like this morning, 421 00:18:53,840 --> 00:18:55,560 Speaker 2: I wanted to talk to my kids this morning before 422 00:18:55,560 --> 00:18:57,400 Speaker 2: they went to school. I want to check on my wife, 423 00:18:57,440 --> 00:19:00,119 Speaker 2: make sure she was feeling okay and that our or 424 00:19:00,240 --> 00:19:01,520 Speaker 2: nanny was there to help with the kids that get 425 00:19:01,600 --> 00:19:03,680 Speaker 2: him off to school and stuff, because we originally hired 426 00:19:03,680 --> 00:19:05,640 Speaker 2: her to be there for us being out of town. 427 00:19:06,040 --> 00:19:08,240 Speaker 2: But then when when Jessica was sick, I was like, well, 428 00:19:08,320 --> 00:19:11,520 Speaker 2: let's just keep Katrina there and she can help you, 429 00:19:11,520 --> 00:19:11,760 Speaker 2: you know. 430 00:19:11,840 --> 00:19:14,640 Speaker 5: So so what a guy, I'm very sweet like. 431 00:19:14,600 --> 00:19:18,800 Speaker 2: That's and next way, she doesn't expect flowers, right, totally kidding, No, 432 00:19:18,920 --> 00:19:21,840 Speaker 2: But I think it is different depending on your relationship 433 00:19:21,840 --> 00:19:22,639 Speaker 2: status with someone. 434 00:19:22,680 --> 00:19:23,840 Speaker 1: But I will say that. 435 00:19:24,440 --> 00:19:27,080 Speaker 4: In a relationship, I do prefer that the man send 436 00:19:27,200 --> 00:19:28,600 Speaker 4: the good morning good night. 437 00:19:28,760 --> 00:19:29,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't. 438 00:19:29,320 --> 00:19:31,280 Speaker 4: I don't like to initiate that. I feel like that's 439 00:19:31,280 --> 00:19:33,520 Speaker 4: something that the man should initiate. 440 00:19:35,359 --> 00:19:37,040 Speaker 1: This is interesting, This is a question for me. 441 00:19:39,119 --> 00:19:42,320 Speaker 2: Do men want a woman that embraces her feminine side, 442 00:19:42,840 --> 00:19:46,720 Speaker 2: or do men like women that are always taking charge? 443 00:19:46,880 --> 00:19:50,440 Speaker 2: That's a loaded question to me because I am used 444 00:19:50,480 --> 00:19:53,359 Speaker 2: to very strong women in my life, my mom, my sister, 445 00:19:54,040 --> 00:19:58,040 Speaker 2: my wife. But I also I like it both ways. 446 00:19:58,200 --> 00:20:01,760 Speaker 2: I like her to occasionally allow me to take charge 447 00:20:01,800 --> 00:20:04,440 Speaker 2: and take the lead. But there are times when I'll say, 448 00:20:04,560 --> 00:20:06,520 Speaker 2: you know, where should go for dinner? And I don't 449 00:20:06,560 --> 00:20:07,920 Speaker 2: want her to say I don't care wherever. 450 00:20:07,720 --> 00:20:09,280 Speaker 1: You want to go. That's not what I want. I 451 00:20:09,280 --> 00:20:11,960 Speaker 1: want to say Mexican. Yeah, awesome. But here's the thing. 452 00:20:11,880 --> 00:20:16,439 Speaker 3: That you just said that you talk about taking charge 453 00:20:16,560 --> 00:20:20,359 Speaker 3: feminine and you can address it, but femininity does not 454 00:20:20,560 --> 00:20:26,160 Speaker 3: necessarily it's not necessarily in contention or again, they don't 455 00:20:26,160 --> 00:20:29,399 Speaker 3: have to be exactly, they're the same. To me, A 456 00:20:29,400 --> 00:20:32,120 Speaker 3: strong woman is a feminine woman, sure, or Kenby doesn't 457 00:20:32,160 --> 00:20:34,439 Speaker 3: have to be. But to your question, I mean finding 458 00:20:34,440 --> 00:20:35,520 Speaker 3: where you want to go to dinner? 459 00:20:35,600 --> 00:20:39,240 Speaker 4: That is probably one of the top fights that couples always, always, always, 460 00:20:39,320 --> 00:20:41,800 Speaker 4: so in that situation, if you don't want to pick, 461 00:20:42,240 --> 00:20:43,720 Speaker 4: is there a different way that you could bring it 462 00:20:43,720 --> 00:20:44,320 Speaker 4: out in your wife? 463 00:20:45,480 --> 00:20:49,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, Like, for example, I'm thinking of chopsticks or tacos perfect. 464 00:20:49,680 --> 00:20:52,119 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like what you do with the two year old, 465 00:20:52,280 --> 00:20:53,920 Speaker 1: you know either or yeah, you always get me. 466 00:20:54,480 --> 00:20:56,480 Speaker 4: And I can tell you from a feminine perspective, if 467 00:20:56,520 --> 00:20:59,800 Speaker 4: I wanted to pick a place, but I don't want 468 00:20:59,840 --> 00:21:01,960 Speaker 4: to take a place, I would say, I bet you 469 00:21:02,000 --> 00:21:04,240 Speaker 4: know exactly where I want to go to dinner tonight. 470 00:21:04,840 --> 00:21:06,800 Speaker 1: Right where do you think? What do you think? Where 471 00:21:06,800 --> 00:21:07,040 Speaker 1: do you think? 472 00:21:07,080 --> 00:21:09,880 Speaker 4: I'm thinking Mexican or talking or a Mexican right, yeah, 473 00:21:10,680 --> 00:21:13,200 Speaker 4: And I can say, oh my gosh, that would be perfect. 474 00:21:13,280 --> 00:21:15,360 Speaker 4: And actually that sounds great. But I was thinking sushi. 475 00:21:15,400 --> 00:21:17,600 Speaker 4: But you're right, Mexican would be great. But no, no, babe, 476 00:21:17,760 --> 00:21:18,879 Speaker 4: let'sh no. 477 00:21:19,000 --> 00:21:20,440 Speaker 1: I like that. Men. 478 00:21:20,640 --> 00:21:22,600 Speaker 3: Let me just say, I've known a lot of men 479 00:21:22,880 --> 00:21:26,040 Speaker 3: who are not who want you. They want the woman 480 00:21:26,160 --> 00:21:28,480 Speaker 3: to say. They don't want to play that game. They 481 00:21:28,520 --> 00:21:30,480 Speaker 3: want Kathy, where do you want to go for dinner? 482 00:21:30,560 --> 00:21:32,800 Speaker 3: I'm not a foodie, so I really don't care. Yeah, 483 00:21:32,840 --> 00:21:35,800 Speaker 3: but I'm learning that I have to because men say 484 00:21:35,800 --> 00:21:38,440 Speaker 3: it annoys them. If you say I don't care, they 485 00:21:38,560 --> 00:21:42,760 Speaker 3: want you to. Well, I think it's yeah, I get that, 486 00:21:42,840 --> 00:21:43,360 Speaker 3: I don't care. 487 00:21:43,440 --> 00:21:47,440 Speaker 2: Part if you if you genuinely could eat a twinkie 488 00:21:47,680 --> 00:21:50,200 Speaker 2: or have you know, a steak dinner. But if you 489 00:21:50,680 --> 00:21:53,360 Speaker 2: throw out a couple options, I think that's kind of nice, 490 00:21:53,440 --> 00:21:54,919 Speaker 2: and then you could still let the guy decide. 491 00:21:55,000 --> 00:21:55,160 Speaker 8: Right. 492 00:21:55,200 --> 00:21:56,960 Speaker 2: So it's like, well, I don't know, I would I 493 00:21:57,000 --> 00:21:58,960 Speaker 2: would like sushi or I would even love a steakhouse. 494 00:21:58,960 --> 00:22:00,919 Speaker 2: Either one would be great, awesome. Well let's go to 495 00:22:01,119 --> 00:22:03,199 Speaker 2: the stage. Oh no, no, no, no, you both have it 496 00:22:03,240 --> 00:22:05,640 Speaker 2: all wrong. What you want to do is say how 497 00:22:05,720 --> 00:22:07,040 Speaker 2: high do you want my heels tonight? 498 00:22:07,080 --> 00:22:07,399 Speaker 5: Babe? 499 00:22:09,080 --> 00:22:13,920 Speaker 1: That should determine where we go. That's nice. Oh nice. 500 00:22:14,160 --> 00:22:16,880 Speaker 3: Let me tell you something. Cindy has this scam down. 501 00:22:17,720 --> 00:22:20,520 Speaker 4: It's not a game. It's a dynamic. It's a ying 502 00:22:20,600 --> 00:22:23,080 Speaker 4: and yang, it's a back and forth. It's a play 503 00:22:23,160 --> 00:22:25,600 Speaker 4: that I really enjoy. I really, it's I don't feel 504 00:22:25,600 --> 00:22:27,119 Speaker 4: it's a game. I think it should be how we 505 00:22:27,200 --> 00:22:30,520 Speaker 4: look a fun game? Yeah, relationship dynamic. 506 00:22:31,160 --> 00:22:32,800 Speaker 2: You know, I agree with you because I think the 507 00:22:32,840 --> 00:22:36,840 Speaker 2: relationships should be fun, and they're not fun, you know 508 00:22:36,840 --> 00:22:37,119 Speaker 2: what I mean? 509 00:22:37,160 --> 00:22:37,600 Speaker 1: Exactly? 510 00:22:37,720 --> 00:22:40,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, we can probably have a lot of fun by ourselves. 511 00:22:40,160 --> 00:22:41,720 Speaker 2: You have to be with someone who you can't have 512 00:22:41,760 --> 00:22:42,760 Speaker 2: fun with, So it's like. 513 00:22:43,160 --> 00:22:45,359 Speaker 1: And I will tell you that is so high on 514 00:22:45,400 --> 00:22:47,120 Speaker 1: my list. I have dated men. 515 00:22:47,200 --> 00:22:50,000 Speaker 3: We talked about this, so it's like somebody who wrote 516 00:22:50,240 --> 00:22:51,360 Speaker 3: answers these questions. 517 00:22:51,520 --> 00:22:52,560 Speaker 1: You were reading our minds. 518 00:22:53,160 --> 00:22:57,800 Speaker 3: Men always say how I'm so funny and I make 519 00:22:57,840 --> 00:22:58,280 Speaker 3: them laugh? 520 00:22:58,400 --> 00:22:59,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, you know what? 521 00:22:59,040 --> 00:23:01,920 Speaker 3: I want? Guy that makes me laugh? Sure, I want 522 00:23:01,920 --> 00:23:03,960 Speaker 3: a guy who's playful. I want a guy who's fun. 523 00:23:04,080 --> 00:23:04,320 Speaker 1: Yeah. 524 00:23:04,440 --> 00:23:06,280 Speaker 3: It's not enough for me to be fun and playful. 525 00:23:06,320 --> 00:23:07,560 Speaker 3: I need them to be that way. 526 00:23:07,600 --> 00:23:09,280 Speaker 2: Well, and you feed off of it a little bit too, 527 00:23:09,320 --> 00:23:11,520 Speaker 2: like as being someone who I love making people laugh. 528 00:23:11,560 --> 00:23:13,840 Speaker 2: It's like sometimes I want someone who gives as good 529 00:23:13,840 --> 00:23:15,640 Speaker 2: as it gets, you know, and then I can be like, Okay, 530 00:23:15,720 --> 00:23:16,600 Speaker 2: I got a partner here. 531 00:23:16,640 --> 00:23:17,320 Speaker 1: This is gonna be fun. 532 00:23:17,400 --> 00:23:19,639 Speaker 2: Yeah, and it can be a romantic relationship of friendship 533 00:23:19,680 --> 00:23:22,280 Speaker 2: whatever it is. Still, I still want someone to make 534 00:23:22,320 --> 00:23:22,880 Speaker 2: me laugh too. 535 00:23:22,960 --> 00:23:23,560 Speaker 1: Yeah. 536 00:23:24,359 --> 00:23:25,840 Speaker 4: But your kids get older and you have it with 537 00:23:25,880 --> 00:23:27,800 Speaker 4: your kids. Yeah, Oh, I mean you probably already do. 538 00:23:27,880 --> 00:23:31,040 Speaker 4: I dynamic my boys are pretty funny kids. 539 00:23:31,119 --> 00:23:42,600 Speaker 8: I gotta be honest, all right. 540 00:23:42,520 --> 00:23:46,080 Speaker 2: So brand new year ahead, Right, We're in February, so 541 00:23:46,119 --> 00:23:47,879 Speaker 2: we've got ten months to go. 542 00:23:48,240 --> 00:23:49,560 Speaker 1: Eleven months if you count February. 543 00:23:49,600 --> 00:23:52,280 Speaker 2: I guess, what are some of your goals like for 544 00:23:52,320 --> 00:23:55,159 Speaker 2: each of you, Like if you have some goals around dating, 545 00:23:55,240 --> 00:23:58,560 Speaker 2: around relationships, just you know, it doesn't have to necessarily 546 00:23:58,600 --> 00:24:01,639 Speaker 2: be a romantic relationship, but around what you want to 547 00:24:01,680 --> 00:24:04,840 Speaker 2: accomplish this year from a standpoint of putting your heart 548 00:24:04,840 --> 00:24:05,200 Speaker 2: out there. 549 00:24:05,800 --> 00:24:08,000 Speaker 4: Well, I have to get some digits today, you do. 550 00:24:08,080 --> 00:24:10,119 Speaker 4: I have to get two sets of digits today. So 551 00:24:10,200 --> 00:24:13,520 Speaker 4: that's goal number one. Yes, you know, I don't really 552 00:24:14,000 --> 00:24:16,600 Speaker 4: I don't really play the New Year's resolution thing. Last year, 553 00:24:16,680 --> 00:24:18,439 Speaker 4: you know what I did? It actually was such a 554 00:24:18,440 --> 00:24:21,280 Speaker 4: great idea depended on TikTok. All things good on TikTok. 555 00:24:21,920 --> 00:24:24,919 Speaker 4: I did a Bingo card. So instead of having a 556 00:24:24,960 --> 00:24:27,919 Speaker 4: set of resolutions, I put together a Bingo card of 557 00:24:28,000 --> 00:24:30,480 Speaker 4: all the things that I wanted to accomplish. Some were professionals, 558 00:24:30,560 --> 00:24:33,640 Speaker 4: some were personal, some were seeing my children, some were 559 00:24:33,720 --> 00:24:35,960 Speaker 4: learning how to arrange flowers, and I put them in 560 00:24:36,040 --> 00:24:38,800 Speaker 4: little blocks on the Bingo card and I would cross 561 00:24:38,840 --> 00:24:41,960 Speaker 4: them out. Such a great sense of accomplishment. But you 562 00:24:42,040 --> 00:24:44,919 Speaker 4: hit all the I hit all the categories of my life. 563 00:24:44,840 --> 00:24:45,040 Speaker 7: Yeah. 564 00:24:45,119 --> 00:24:45,880 Speaker 5: Actually I did it. 565 00:24:45,840 --> 00:24:47,600 Speaker 4: After I got off the show as well, because I 566 00:24:47,680 --> 00:24:50,119 Speaker 4: kind of felt like I needed something to stable sure 567 00:24:50,280 --> 00:24:52,960 Speaker 4: and to recharge yourself a little to get it. 568 00:24:53,160 --> 00:24:55,840 Speaker 3: That's a great Yeah, I'm a little bit. I also 569 00:24:56,000 --> 00:24:58,199 Speaker 3: do not make New Year's resolutions. I think every day 570 00:24:58,280 --> 00:25:00,479 Speaker 3: is a brand new day and if you don't like something, 571 00:25:01,160 --> 00:25:02,359 Speaker 3: today's the day to change it. 572 00:25:02,880 --> 00:25:04,280 Speaker 1: So that's how I live my life. 573 00:25:04,320 --> 00:25:06,679 Speaker 3: But for dating, for me, believe it or not, as 574 00:25:06,760 --> 00:25:10,280 Speaker 3: outgoing as I am, I have a really hard time 575 00:25:11,680 --> 00:25:13,200 Speaker 3: initiating going up to a man or. 576 00:25:13,560 --> 00:25:15,840 Speaker 5: Oh no, no, oh no. 577 00:25:16,400 --> 00:25:19,560 Speaker 4: We traveled together here, so we live in Austin, but 578 00:25:19,560 --> 00:25:20,520 Speaker 4: we don't live together. 579 00:25:21,119 --> 00:25:24,200 Speaker 3: You say this, This was my quote unquote New Year's 580 00:25:24,240 --> 00:25:27,680 Speaker 3: resolution to force myself to do it. And I've done 581 00:25:27,720 --> 00:25:30,920 Speaker 3: it a couple of times. It gets somewhere, but I'm 582 00:25:30,960 --> 00:25:33,719 Speaker 3: telling you I've done it like twice, and I'm so 583 00:25:33,800 --> 00:25:35,919 Speaker 3: my goal is kind of to do that, to go 584 00:25:36,000 --> 00:25:40,200 Speaker 3: up and say hello, and you know, it doesn't go anywhere. 585 00:25:40,400 --> 00:25:42,199 Speaker 1: I'm no worse off and it might go somewhere. 586 00:25:42,280 --> 00:25:44,080 Speaker 2: So but I feel like you're like me though, Kathy, 587 00:25:44,119 --> 00:25:46,919 Speaker 2: Like I talk to everybody. So it's like said, you know, 588 00:25:46,920 --> 00:25:48,840 Speaker 2: at the end of the day, is a guy standing 589 00:25:48,840 --> 00:25:49,840 Speaker 2: next to me, like, Hey, how you doing. 590 00:25:49,880 --> 00:25:53,399 Speaker 3: Man, It's not like I do hit, but see if 591 00:25:53,440 --> 00:25:56,200 Speaker 3: I'm interested. Absolutely, you and I are very similar. I 592 00:25:56,560 --> 00:25:58,919 Speaker 3: have never met a stranger. But if I like that 593 00:25:58,920 --> 00:26:02,000 Speaker 3: guy last night, then it was a little bit more 594 00:26:02,720 --> 00:26:04,760 Speaker 3: tentative because sikes were a little hot, stakes are a 595 00:26:04,760 --> 00:26:05,160 Speaker 3: little hot. 596 00:26:05,359 --> 00:26:05,800 Speaker 1: Interesting. 597 00:26:05,840 --> 00:26:07,879 Speaker 3: But I still do it and I didn't used to 598 00:26:07,960 --> 00:26:10,080 Speaker 3: do that, So that's kind of my dating. 599 00:26:10,200 --> 00:26:13,600 Speaker 4: You're doing well, yeah, I mean you're taking up the 600 00:26:13,640 --> 00:26:14,200 Speaker 4: pace today. 601 00:26:14,240 --> 00:26:15,880 Speaker 3: I'm going to just see if I can like push 602 00:26:15,920 --> 00:26:17,119 Speaker 3: you out of the contest totally. 603 00:26:17,119 --> 00:26:18,400 Speaker 1: And just you know, when I. 604 00:26:18,320 --> 00:26:21,200 Speaker 2: Was single, so my wife used to say this about 605 00:26:21,200 --> 00:26:23,639 Speaker 2: me because we were really kind of like friends with 606 00:26:23,680 --> 00:26:25,600 Speaker 2: benefits before we were dating. 607 00:26:25,640 --> 00:26:28,880 Speaker 1: Well, then she loves you putting that out. She knows. 608 00:26:29,760 --> 00:26:32,479 Speaker 2: But I was always so noncommittal, right, and she would go, 609 00:26:32,960 --> 00:26:36,560 Speaker 2: you just like flirt with everybody. I'm like, yeah, but 610 00:26:36,600 --> 00:26:38,080 Speaker 2: it was true, like I'd be like, hey, how you doing, 611 00:26:38,400 --> 00:26:41,119 Speaker 2: and it was and so I was never thinking. I 612 00:26:41,160 --> 00:26:42,840 Speaker 2: was never putting too much on it. Like it wasn't 613 00:26:42,880 --> 00:26:45,200 Speaker 2: like I was trying to sleep with this girl. And 614 00:26:45,240 --> 00:26:47,160 Speaker 2: that's why I'm going to talk to her, right, I 615 00:26:47,200 --> 00:26:49,320 Speaker 2: was just talking to her and if it went somewhere else. 616 00:26:49,320 --> 00:26:51,320 Speaker 2: Great if it didn't, I'm totally fine with that too. 617 00:26:51,400 --> 00:26:53,560 Speaker 4: Will they say, that's really important when you have any 618 00:26:53,600 --> 00:26:56,600 Speaker 4: conversation to forget about the outcome. You're not doing it 619 00:26:56,600 --> 00:26:59,200 Speaker 4: with the intent of I'm going to get a date 620 00:26:59,240 --> 00:27:01,119 Speaker 4: from this. I'm going to have a friend from this. Like, 621 00:27:01,200 --> 00:27:03,320 Speaker 4: just forget the outcome, Just enjoy people. 622 00:27:03,119 --> 00:27:05,840 Speaker 2: Enjoy the moment and be in the moment right, and 623 00:27:06,400 --> 00:27:08,240 Speaker 2: put your phone down and be in the moment right, 624 00:27:08,440 --> 00:27:09,120 Speaker 2: But make sure you. 625 00:27:09,119 --> 00:27:11,080 Speaker 1: Text back in ten minutes exactly. Yeah, don't. 626 00:27:12,080 --> 00:27:15,520 Speaker 2: I just kidding, all right, So, uh, let's ask for 627 00:27:15,600 --> 00:27:19,520 Speaker 2: some advice here. You two obviously masterful at. 628 00:27:19,400 --> 00:27:20,240 Speaker 1: The game of dating. 629 00:27:21,160 --> 00:27:22,040 Speaker 5: I'm still single. 630 00:27:22,320 --> 00:27:26,520 Speaker 2: Well, that's because that chicly until yeah, only until the 631 00:27:26,600 --> 00:27:29,439 Speaker 2: end of today, That's right. If you have people out 632 00:27:29,440 --> 00:27:32,199 Speaker 2: there that are listening that are are just ready to 633 00:27:32,200 --> 00:27:34,360 Speaker 2: give up on love, right, they're just like, I'm done. 634 00:27:35,359 --> 00:27:39,520 Speaker 1: Don't don't give up on love. It's it's every day, 635 00:27:40,920 --> 00:27:41,080 Speaker 1: you know. 636 00:27:41,240 --> 00:27:43,560 Speaker 3: I'm gonna be honest, I don't like when people say 637 00:27:44,240 --> 00:27:46,760 Speaker 3: manifest that's almost a four letter word to me at 638 00:27:46,760 --> 00:27:50,399 Speaker 3: this point. Sure, I just believe, if believe that's my 639 00:27:50,600 --> 00:27:54,680 Speaker 3: work for twenty twenty six belief. Just live your life 640 00:27:54,720 --> 00:28:01,359 Speaker 3: with intention, enjoy who you are, and and good things 641 00:28:01,400 --> 00:28:03,600 Speaker 3: and bad things will come into your life. But don't 642 00:28:03,600 --> 00:28:07,640 Speaker 3: give up, because you're not even giving yourself an opportunity 643 00:28:08,080 --> 00:28:10,560 Speaker 3: if you give up. And there's so much I mean, 644 00:28:10,640 --> 00:28:12,800 Speaker 3: I'm just so grateful for every day of my life 645 00:28:13,240 --> 00:28:17,120 Speaker 3: that I thoroughly enjoy every day, and good people come 646 00:28:17,119 --> 00:28:19,640 Speaker 3: into my life and great opportunities come into my life. 647 00:28:19,640 --> 00:28:21,199 Speaker 3: But if you sit home and say I give up, 648 00:28:22,640 --> 00:28:24,040 Speaker 3: it's not in my vocabulary. 649 00:28:24,200 --> 00:28:28,480 Speaker 4: I just also enjoy this season of being single, right, Yeah, 650 00:28:28,720 --> 00:28:31,560 Speaker 4: don't continue to put a really long winner. It's a 651 00:28:32,040 --> 00:28:35,280 Speaker 4: very long season sometimes and sometimes a short win. But 652 00:28:35,760 --> 00:28:38,520 Speaker 4: you know, if it ends, you will probably miss this time. 653 00:28:38,600 --> 00:28:40,080 Speaker 4: I was at church the other day. I've told this 654 00:28:40,080 --> 00:28:42,200 Speaker 4: story a couple of times. There was a man like 655 00:28:42,320 --> 00:28:45,600 Speaker 4: man spreading. He was like, legs apart, touching my leg. 656 00:28:45,640 --> 00:28:47,800 Speaker 4: I'm a stranger. He's making all these noises. 657 00:28:48,400 --> 00:28:51,400 Speaker 1: I'm like, you forget, Did you give me your digits? 658 00:28:51,920 --> 00:28:52,640 Speaker 1: Did not give No. 659 00:28:52,680 --> 00:28:55,760 Speaker 5: He was with his family, but yeah, even weirder. 660 00:28:56,040 --> 00:28:59,720 Speaker 4: So sometimes it's okay to be single, and we should 661 00:28:59,800 --> 00:29:02,080 Speaker 4: just appreciate the love that we have in our life 662 00:29:02,120 --> 00:29:05,680 Speaker 4: and if it's not the partner love, still be open 663 00:29:05,760 --> 00:29:08,000 Speaker 4: to it, but don't rely on it again, let go 664 00:29:08,080 --> 00:29:08,600 Speaker 4: the outcome. 665 00:29:08,800 --> 00:29:13,680 Speaker 3: And I would add to that, love yourself. Just now, downstairs, 666 00:29:14,840 --> 00:29:18,520 Speaker 3: one of the men who works at this hotel said 667 00:29:18,560 --> 00:29:21,280 Speaker 3: to me, do you have a hard time dating? I 668 00:29:21,280 --> 00:29:23,040 Speaker 3: don't know why, he asked me, and I said, you know, 669 00:29:23,080 --> 00:29:26,120 Speaker 3: I gave the answer, and then he said, well, you 670 00:29:26,160 --> 00:29:27,800 Speaker 3: know what there is You're fabulous. 671 00:29:27,800 --> 00:29:28,920 Speaker 1: There is a guy out there for you. 672 00:29:29,200 --> 00:29:31,560 Speaker 3: And I looked at him and I said, I hope 673 00:29:31,560 --> 00:29:35,120 Speaker 3: there is, but if there isn't, I'm still happy. It's 674 00:29:35,320 --> 00:29:39,160 Speaker 3: being happy with who you are regardless. A man is 675 00:29:39,200 --> 00:29:41,480 Speaker 3: not going to make me complete. I am complete, you 676 00:29:41,560 --> 00:29:45,480 Speaker 3: we are all complete. It's finding someone that adds to 677 00:29:45,600 --> 00:29:48,040 Speaker 3: your life, right, That's that's you know. 678 00:29:48,160 --> 00:29:51,440 Speaker 2: A great former bachelor once said, it's amazing what a 679 00:29:51,440 --> 00:29:52,520 Speaker 2: difference a year makes. 680 00:29:52,800 --> 00:29:56,960 Speaker 1: Right, Yeah, I think he even wrote a book sounds 681 00:29:56,920 --> 00:29:59,320 Speaker 1: like sounds I think it's. 682 00:29:59,480 --> 00:30:02,480 Speaker 3: I think it's this guy that's really smart and has 683 00:30:02,520 --> 00:30:05,240 Speaker 3: a fabulous he's so funny. 684 00:30:05,520 --> 00:30:06,160 Speaker 4: So I. 685 00:30:07,800 --> 00:30:10,240 Speaker 2: Say that because I was in like, you know, I 686 00:30:10,320 --> 00:30:11,920 Speaker 2: was going through a divorce. 687 00:30:12,040 --> 00:30:13,440 Speaker 1: I'm like, what is going on? And then all of 688 00:30:13,440 --> 00:30:13,760 Speaker 1: a sudden. 689 00:30:13,800 --> 00:30:16,120 Speaker 2: A year later, I'm sitting on Oprah's couch and everyone 690 00:30:16,200 --> 00:30:17,680 Speaker 2: wants me to be the bachelor. 691 00:30:17,400 --> 00:30:18,680 Speaker 1: Right, And so that's what I did. 692 00:30:19,120 --> 00:30:22,480 Speaker 2: But it was kind of interesting because when you let 693 00:30:22,520 --> 00:30:24,560 Speaker 2: go of the outcome and when you just embrace the 694 00:30:24,600 --> 00:30:27,960 Speaker 2: fact that, you know what, I'm a good person, and 695 00:30:28,160 --> 00:30:30,479 Speaker 2: I know that, you know, if somebody's out there, I'll 696 00:30:30,480 --> 00:30:32,600 Speaker 2: find them, and if they're not, I'm fine with myself. 697 00:30:32,640 --> 00:30:33,920 Speaker 1: I'm perfectly happy, right. 698 00:30:34,280 --> 00:30:37,360 Speaker 2: And it's amazing if you give yourself that grace and 699 00:30:37,440 --> 00:30:41,240 Speaker 2: allow yourself to, you know, just sort of embrace life 700 00:30:41,240 --> 00:30:43,440 Speaker 2: and do whatever you got to do to wake up 701 00:30:43,480 --> 00:30:45,080 Speaker 2: every day and put a smile on your face and 702 00:30:45,080 --> 00:30:46,960 Speaker 2: get out there and say hi to a couple of people. 703 00:30:47,360 --> 00:30:49,240 Speaker 2: It's amazing the great things that can come your way. 704 00:30:49,280 --> 00:30:51,160 Speaker 4: I remember telling my kids when they're in middle school, 705 00:30:51,200 --> 00:30:53,920 Speaker 4: everybody has to take that public speaking class. 706 00:30:54,040 --> 00:30:56,640 Speaker 1: I taught it. 707 00:30:54,680 --> 00:30:58,600 Speaker 4: You tell me this, I told my kids all the time. 708 00:30:58,680 --> 00:31:02,480 Speaker 4: Nobody wants to watch a nervous speaker. It's so uncomfortable 709 00:31:02,520 --> 00:31:05,600 Speaker 4: for everyone to watch that. And no one wants to 710 00:31:05,680 --> 00:31:09,760 Speaker 4: look at a desperate dater. Now you can tell those 711 00:31:09,760 --> 00:31:13,240 Speaker 4: people who are desperate to have a relationship. Live your life, 712 00:31:13,280 --> 00:31:15,960 Speaker 4: be happy, be confident in who you are, and that's 713 00:31:16,080 --> 00:31:19,240 Speaker 4: so much more attractive. It's so much more alluring and magnetic. 714 00:31:19,280 --> 00:31:21,960 Speaker 3: But even but see, even when you said that, Cindy, 715 00:31:22,000 --> 00:31:25,080 Speaker 3: it's it's it's and I know this isn't what you mean, 716 00:31:25,080 --> 00:31:28,240 Speaker 3: but it sounds like you're saying that to attract someone. 717 00:31:28,400 --> 00:31:30,560 Speaker 1: I'm saying, lively happy. 718 00:31:30,280 --> 00:31:33,840 Speaker 3: With yourself for yourself, not for the attraction of other people, 719 00:31:33,960 --> 00:31:38,200 Speaker 3: because because if you're happy with yourself, that radiates and 720 00:31:38,800 --> 00:31:41,480 Speaker 3: that and that's something I've learned actually since my husband died. 721 00:31:42,080 --> 00:31:46,239 Speaker 3: Uh And and so I do it for me, you know, 722 00:31:46,440 --> 00:31:47,960 Speaker 3: I wake up and put a smile on my face 723 00:31:48,040 --> 00:31:50,480 Speaker 3: for me. Yeah, I think it's a great way to 724 00:31:50,520 --> 00:31:53,520 Speaker 3: live your life. Well, guys, I love you both. This 725 00:31:53,560 --> 00:31:54,600 Speaker 3: has been really great for me. 726 00:31:54,840 --> 00:31:56,160 Speaker 5: We we love you too. 727 00:31:56,280 --> 00:31:56,760 Speaker 1: Thank you. 728 00:31:56,880 --> 00:31:58,840 Speaker 3: And I know that you have to run because you 729 00:31:58,880 --> 00:32:01,680 Speaker 3: have to call you your wife and find out what 730 00:32:01,720 --> 00:32:09,160 Speaker 3: she wants for Balentine's Day. 731 00:32:04,720 --> 00:32:15,239 Speaker 2: Yeah, yes, for sure, some digits do we have to 732 00:32:15,280 --> 00:32:16,320 Speaker 2: give or get digits? 733 00:32:17,160 --> 00:32:18,240 Speaker 1: I think we're good either way. 734 00:32:19,200 --> 00:32:22,160 Speaker 2: It's just digit digital change. 735 00:32:23,040 --> 00:32:24,960 Speaker 1: So you have to get theirs and give. Well, no, 736 00:32:25,000 --> 00:32:27,880 Speaker 1: I don't have to get digits. We have to yeah, 737 00:32:28,800 --> 00:32:30,080 Speaker 1: give or get Yes. 738 00:32:30,240 --> 00:32:32,800 Speaker 4: Well, you know, I'm going to be at a party 739 00:32:33,200 --> 00:32:35,120 Speaker 4: on the course, so I hope he has friends. 740 00:32:37,000 --> 00:32:39,520 Speaker 1: Well, I appreciate you ladies coming on. Thank you so much. 741 00:32:39,680 --> 00:32:42,440 Speaker 2: We love everyone knows how to follow you guys on online? 742 00:32:42,600 --> 00:32:43,680 Speaker 1: Follow you on the socials? 743 00:32:43,760 --> 00:32:43,920 Speaker 7: Right? 744 00:32:44,440 --> 00:32:45,320 Speaker 1: What is what is yours? 745 00:32:46,000 --> 00:32:46,080 Speaker 2: My? 746 00:32:46,360 --> 00:32:51,440 Speaker 3: I'm KB Swarts. You can find me on on on Facebook, Instagram. 747 00:32:52,840 --> 00:32:54,320 Speaker 1: They can tune in and listen. You can tune in 748 00:32:54,320 --> 00:32:54,840 Speaker 1: and listen. 749 00:32:54,680 --> 00:32:58,160 Speaker 3: To our podcast which is under Batchel Happy Hour, Golden Hour. 750 00:32:58,280 --> 00:33:01,520 Speaker 3: The we talk about dating and we have a great 751 00:33:01,520 --> 00:33:02,240 Speaker 3: time with that too. 752 00:33:02,520 --> 00:33:05,440 Speaker 5: So I am more obscure. I'm obscure. 753 00:33:05,440 --> 00:33:08,160 Speaker 4: You're gonna have to look for me under CM colors 754 00:33:08,200 --> 00:33:10,680 Speaker 4: but spelled differently. I know what was I thinking? I 755 00:33:10,680 --> 00:33:13,680 Speaker 4: should change it C M C U L L E 756 00:33:13,800 --> 00:33:16,240 Speaker 4: R S okay, and they'll be able to find me. 757 00:33:16,320 --> 00:33:18,360 Speaker 1: This is how they slide into our dm This is 758 00:33:18,440 --> 00:33:19,360 Speaker 1: how we want them. 759 00:33:19,640 --> 00:33:22,040 Speaker 2: Well, let's ask our producer to sliding into their d 760 00:33:22,240 --> 00:33:25,320 Speaker 2: ms count as an exchange of digital information. 761 00:33:26,320 --> 00:33:30,160 Speaker 1: No, okay, why not? You know what our producer I 762 00:33:30,200 --> 00:33:34,120 Speaker 1: think was of the high school. Oh yeah, and when 763 00:33:34,200 --> 00:33:37,560 Speaker 1: eight am, when bell rang those doors were locked. 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