WEBVTT - Parental Control 0:00:00.480 --> 0:00:05.160 Hell, I suck dating with Dengler Dared Haven and I 0:00:05.280 --> 0:00:11.800 heard radio podcast. Hey, welcome to help I suck at 0:00:11.920 --> 0:00:15.320 dating Jared here. You probably know that already joined by 0:00:15.360 --> 0:00:18.000 Dean Angler. You probably knew that already as well. What 0:00:18.120 --> 0:00:20.439 you might not have known is that ann Elize is 0:00:20.520 --> 0:00:25.360 back with us. Uh analyze, I can't. I was just 0:00:25.440 --> 0:00:30.880 explaining Puccini. Thank you. Yeah, it's so bad. I again, 0:00:30.920 --> 0:00:33.440 I just blame rhode On public school systems. Anyway, we 0:00:33.479 --> 0:00:35.680 have two very special guests are gonna be with us 0:00:36.120 --> 0:00:40.880 right off the bat from the HBO Max show My Mom, 0:00:41.040 --> 0:00:44.280 Your Dad, which is like the best name ever, Karen 0:00:44.479 --> 0:00:48.519 Larrea and Brianna Simone. Brianna, Karen, thank you so much 0:00:48.560 --> 0:00:51.120 for joining us. How are you good? Thank you for 0:00:51.159 --> 0:00:54.040 having us? Thank you? Oh my god, of course. Where 0:00:54.040 --> 0:00:58.120 are you guys? Uh? Where you guys zooming from? We're 0:00:58.120 --> 0:01:02.720 in sunny Miami, Florida. Very jealous. This is like, this 0:01:02.760 --> 0:01:04.200 is a peak in of the future. In twenty years, 0:01:04.280 --> 0:01:06.120 Jared's gonna be on a TV show called Your Dad, 0:01:06.200 --> 0:01:12.240 My Mom. It's something is something went off? Something his 0:01:12.280 --> 0:01:16.319 wife wants that right. But you guys, thank you so 0:01:16.360 --> 0:01:19.399 much for joining us. So I have yet to really 0:01:19.440 --> 0:01:21.840 dive into my mom, your dad, the TV show on 0:01:22.040 --> 0:01:24.160 HBO Max. But can you guys kind of give us 0:01:24.200 --> 0:01:26.240 a like like Phillis in on what's going on with 0:01:26.280 --> 0:01:28.880 the TV show? I read like the you know, the synopsis, 0:01:28.920 --> 0:01:31.199 but I want to hear from your perspective. All right, Well, 0:01:31.240 --> 0:01:34.440 the TV show is basically our college aged children nominate 0:01:34.560 --> 0:01:36.560 us to try to find a second chance at love, 0:01:37.240 --> 0:01:40.160 and we get whisked away and we go into this 0:01:40.319 --> 0:01:43.399 second chance retreat and kind of it's like, you know, 0:01:43.560 --> 0:01:45.240 kind of like what you guys, Hey, Hi, how are you? 0:01:45.280 --> 0:01:49.480 We're living together and basically the parents are trying to 0:01:49.520 --> 0:01:53.480 find love, but we don't know at all that our 0:01:53.560 --> 0:01:55.960 children are down the street in another house. We knew 0:01:55.960 --> 0:01:57.520 they were going to be another house, but we thought 0:01:57.560 --> 0:02:00.280 that they were going to be you know, creating intent 0:02:00.320 --> 0:02:04.680 for social media, telling the dating consultants, you know, things 0:02:04.680 --> 0:02:06.720 that we like and what we like for dates, and 0:02:06.760 --> 0:02:09.360 actually they ended up being the dating consultants and they 0:02:09.400 --> 0:02:11.760 were pulling and manipulating all the strings. So either with 0:02:11.800 --> 0:02:15.240 sabotage dates, make this, make dates happen, set us up 0:02:15.240 --> 0:02:18.840 with different people, and we don't find this out at 0:02:18.880 --> 0:02:21.760 all until we leave the retreat, So this whole time 0:02:21.800 --> 0:02:25.520 we have no idea they're watching. And you know, we're 0:02:25.520 --> 0:02:28.000 a little different with people that we date than our children. 0:02:28.720 --> 0:02:31.239 Of course, that was my next question. Yeah, I was 0:02:31.280 --> 0:02:35.800 gonna Brianna, how was it watching your mom date? Well, 0:02:35.960 --> 0:02:37.760 I think before we get to that question, we have 0:02:37.840 --> 0:02:40.239 to at least make it clear if I heard you correctly, 0:02:40.760 --> 0:02:42.320 Brianna was the reason that you were on the show 0:02:42.360 --> 0:02:45.440 in the first place. Brianna came to me, yep, and 0:02:45.560 --> 0:02:48.480 she said, Mom, she saw the show on social media. 0:02:48.880 --> 0:02:50.480 I think it's like on Instagram, I want to do 0:02:50.480 --> 0:02:52.320 this show. Let's sign up for it, you know, let's 0:02:52.320 --> 0:02:54.040 see if you tried all kinds of dating. And I 0:02:54.080 --> 0:02:56.519 was like, you know what, that's probably fraud. I don't 0:02:56.520 --> 0:02:58.000 even want to go there. I'm like, it's probably not 0:02:58.040 --> 0:02:59.880 even legit. And it's like, come on, mom, and I 0:03:00.000 --> 0:03:01.680 you know what, go ahead send it anyways. If it's legit, 0:03:01.720 --> 0:03:05.040 we're not going to get picked. Yeah. Picked. So I 0:03:05.080 --> 0:03:07.120 think I think that's an important distinction to make before 0:03:07.160 --> 0:03:10.400 we hear from Brianna, because everything that you see your 0:03:10.440 --> 0:03:12.520 mom do, you kind of have to go like realize 0:03:12.520 --> 0:03:16.040 that you set this up for yourself. Yeah. The whole 0:03:16.080 --> 0:03:19.240 time we were saying there, I was like, we're watching 0:03:19.240 --> 0:03:20.840 your parents, and we're all saying that we don't want 0:03:20.840 --> 0:03:23.720 to watch our parents make out with each other, Like 0:03:23.960 --> 0:03:25.639 the producers sitting there like, yeah, but this is when 0:03:25.680 --> 0:03:29.440 you signed up. Oh, you don't really have a choice. Nice, 0:03:29.919 --> 0:03:32.639 but it was it was awkward. It was definitely really awkward. Well, 0:03:32.680 --> 0:03:34.240 so to Jared's question, then what was it like kind 0:03:34.240 --> 0:03:37.320 of pulling the strings behind the scenes. It was fun 0:03:37.400 --> 0:03:42.040 pulling the strings because it was so powerful we were Honestly, 0:03:42.040 --> 0:03:43.720 it was just we just want to mess with our 0:03:43.760 --> 0:03:46.560 parents and let them go on dates that are going 0:03:46.560 --> 0:03:49.800 to get them out of their comfort zone and stuff 0:03:49.840 --> 0:03:53.640 that they usually wouldn't do on dates. But then you 0:03:54.160 --> 0:03:58.000 watch it and then like you're just wow, I'm watching 0:03:58.040 --> 0:04:01.560 my mom date and she has as absolutely no clue 0:04:01.560 --> 0:04:05.800 that I'm watching. Yeah, my mom doesn't. My mom's a 0:04:05.800 --> 0:04:08.200 different person when I'm not around. That's what I was 0:04:08.200 --> 0:04:09.960 going to say, is how different did you feel like 0:04:10.000 --> 0:04:13.200 your mom was watching her date versus just like how 0:04:13.240 --> 0:04:15.000 she is or how you thought she Because I know 0:04:15.080 --> 0:04:16.640 my mom is always like you have no game, and 0:04:16.640 --> 0:04:18.560 I'm like, you have no idea what I'm like when 0:04:18.600 --> 0:04:23.080 I'm like trying to pick up someone. So how different 0:04:23.160 --> 0:04:26.200 was it? It was? It was very different. I mean 0:04:26.480 --> 0:04:29.320 you always see your mom and parenting like they're taking 0:04:29.360 --> 0:04:32.799 care of you, they're driving you to school and whatnot. 0:04:32.960 --> 0:04:35.599 And then I'm watching her date just like me, and 0:04:35.640 --> 0:04:41.279 I'm like, do I look at that currnty? Yeah? I 0:04:41.320 --> 0:04:44.560 think the answer to that is yes, probably that's part 0:04:44.560 --> 0:04:46.599 of dating. Yes, you can get a little cringey, especially 0:04:46.800 --> 0:04:52.000 to the third party perspective hair flipping, So yeah, exactly, Brian, 0:04:52.080 --> 0:04:54.039 I gotta ask them, what was the reason for you 0:04:54.520 --> 0:04:56.240 wanting to nominate your mom for the show or like 0:04:56.240 --> 0:04:59.240 getting involved in the show. I mean, my mom just 0:04:59.240 --> 0:05:03.240 doesn't have the fuck what do you doing? And she 0:05:03.360 --> 0:05:07.719 just never really listens to me, so like it's work, 0:05:07.760 --> 0:05:11.680 will help me get her to listen to me, And okay, 0:05:11.880 --> 0:05:14.080 it was. It was. I just found it on Instagram 0:05:14.080 --> 0:05:18.200 and I was like, I mean, this might be legitate, 0:05:18.279 --> 0:05:19.560 but it might not be, but I'm just going to 0:05:19.640 --> 0:05:21.479 sign up for it then. So, Karen, how does it 0:05:21.480 --> 0:05:23.040 feel hearing your daughter say that that you don't have 0:05:23.080 --> 0:05:24.719 the best luck do you agree with her or are 0:05:24.760 --> 0:05:28.240 you kind of like, well, um, I absolutely agree. It's 0:05:28.240 --> 0:05:31.720 been eight years since I've been divorced. Here, i am single. 0:05:32.240 --> 0:05:36.440 I don't make the best choices sometimes, um, or you 0:05:36.440 --> 0:05:39.200 know the majority of the time, and this is why 0:05:39.200 --> 0:05:41.640 I'm here or why I was on this dating show. 0:05:42.200 --> 0:05:44.240 Are you dating during those eight years or were you 0:05:44.360 --> 0:05:50.560 kind of like no dating? Yeah, getting yourself out there, Yeah, 0:05:50.600 --> 0:05:53.320 putting myself out there, dating, healing, being in relationships and 0:05:53.400 --> 0:05:56.359 the wrong people with the wrong people, absolutely getting crushed, 0:05:56.600 --> 0:05:59.480 getting okay, then getting crushed and then you know, wrong 0:05:59.520 --> 0:06:05.440 people wrong. Just yeah, good choices, Brianna, it seems like 0:06:05.520 --> 0:06:08.599 you guys are obviously very very close. How much did 0:06:08.640 --> 0:06:11.760 you feel like you because watching your mom date over 0:06:11.760 --> 0:06:14.479 the last eight years, did you feel like, I know 0:06:14.560 --> 0:06:16.520 what she needs, I know what she wants? Like did 0:06:16.520 --> 0:06:18.640 you feel like when you were in the power position 0:06:19.200 --> 0:06:23.159 watching that, you you were like, that's that could be 0:06:23.200 --> 0:06:25.440 the person for her. Like did you feel like you 0:06:25.520 --> 0:06:29.240 knew what was best for her? I mean not to 0:06:29.279 --> 0:06:32.320 sound coffee, but like, yeah, I definitely know wrest for her. 0:06:32.360 --> 0:06:34.760 I've I've watched her through I mean I've watched her 0:06:34.800 --> 0:06:37.520 with my dad and then also passed my dad. And 0:06:37.520 --> 0:06:40.320 it's just I feel like I know what she needs 0:06:40.360 --> 0:06:43.640 and she just needs to listen to me. And you'll 0:06:43.640 --> 0:06:45.560 see in the show she doesn't even listen to me 0:06:45.560 --> 0:06:48.000 in the show sometimes, so and she didn't even know 0:06:48.040 --> 0:06:50.839 it was me. So I mean, I'm I have a 0:06:51.080 --> 0:06:54.000 I have a mom who was I was like a 0:06:54.040 --> 0:06:57.560 single child parent situation for a long time. So I 0:06:57.600 --> 0:07:00.200 saw my mom date all the time, and I if 0:07:00.200 --> 0:07:02.039 we would have had this show, oh my gosh, it 0:07:02.080 --> 0:07:04.719 would have been wild because I would remember. I remember 0:07:04.800 --> 0:07:06.920 she'd come back and I'm like, oh, he's awful. You 0:07:06.920 --> 0:07:09.960 shouldn't date him. And you know, you're totally watching it, 0:07:10.040 --> 0:07:12.200 and you you do, you know, I feel like that 0:07:12.320 --> 0:07:15.680 mother daughter bond, you sort of know, like I want 0:07:15.720 --> 0:07:17.560 to see you with this type of person, or this 0:07:17.600 --> 0:07:20.160 would be good for you, now, you know. So, um, 0:07:20.320 --> 0:07:22.520 I think it's really it's so cool, but I know 0:07:22.680 --> 0:07:25.360 it would have been crazy for me. So I give 0:07:25.400 --> 0:07:28.080 you guys kudos for doing this. I can't imagine how 0:07:28.120 --> 0:07:31.120 like cringe e it was, but also how kind of 0:07:31.160 --> 0:07:33.800 cool to like be a part of that. Yeah, And 0:07:34.280 --> 0:07:37.600 so she says that I date that I put blinders 0:07:37.600 --> 0:07:40.880 on and I have tunnel vision, and I tell her 0:07:40.960 --> 0:07:43.280 it's different dating in your twenties where you want to 0:07:43.400 --> 0:07:47.320 date four and five people. When your forties, I'm like, 0:07:47.480 --> 0:07:49.920 I need to focus. Like, if I like him and 0:07:50.000 --> 0:07:52.400 we're passed on date two, that's who I'm gonna date. 0:07:52.520 --> 0:07:55.000 I can't be dating three guys at the same time. 0:07:55.080 --> 0:07:57.960 That's just not It's not my generation. It's just not 0:07:58.040 --> 0:08:01.400 me personally. There's like you tunnel vision and you get 0:08:01.440 --> 0:08:03.640 focused on one person. I'm like, it's just that there's 0:08:03.680 --> 0:08:06.560 a different dating when you're your twenties versus when you're 0:08:06.560 --> 0:08:10.400 in your fourties and you have all this baggage. Karen, 0:08:10.440 --> 0:08:12.000 did you rect know that you were going on the show? 0:08:12.400 --> 0:08:14.160 He did not know what was coming much on the show. 0:08:16.760 --> 0:08:18.800 What I saw a reaction out of the two of you. 0:08:18.840 --> 0:08:26.360 What why the reaction? I I mean, it's it's just 0:08:26.720 --> 0:08:30.560 it was just really funny because he had absolutely no clue. 0:08:31.640 --> 0:08:34.800 And I have a I have a difficult relationship with 0:08:34.840 --> 0:08:39.560 my father, so I even though from me so um. 0:08:39.600 --> 0:08:45.240 Actually my brother is the one who showed him he 0:08:45.360 --> 0:08:47.560 was He was like, oh, remember when mommy and my 0:08:47.600 --> 0:08:51.800 sister went to l A to go work. Well, they 0:08:51.800 --> 0:08:53.960 went on a show and then like pressed play and 0:08:54.000 --> 0:08:56.840 then my mom went to cross the screen was like hey, 0:08:57.320 --> 0:08:59.599 and my brother was like texting me, like live texting me. 0:08:59.679 --> 0:09:01.920 He was like, just did this, And I was like, yeah, 0:09:02.040 --> 0:09:03.760 you did not just do Like those are my kids. 0:09:03.920 --> 0:09:06.880 I mean he was going to find out sooner or later. Yeah. Yeah, 0:09:07.120 --> 0:09:10.120 And honestly, it's been eight years. Is it really his boss? 0:09:12.240 --> 0:09:15.200 Can you reach out to you or anything at all? Oh? No, 0:09:15.960 --> 0:09:20.200 really sorry? Yeah, yeah I did get the intel that 0:09:20.280 --> 0:09:22.800 he sat there and watched the whole season though. Nice, 0:09:23.200 --> 0:09:26.560 that's mean curiosity killed the cat. Yeah. I would have 0:09:26.559 --> 0:09:28.640 done the exact same thing. I would have watched. Oh no, 0:09:28.679 --> 0:09:30.280 I wouldn't have watch what I said. I would have 0:09:30.320 --> 0:09:31.800 totally done it too. I would have sat there and 0:09:31.840 --> 0:09:34.640 watched the whole thing. It was like an ex husband 0:09:34.720 --> 0:09:37.360 with kids. Okay, yeah, it was just like a random 0:09:37.360 --> 0:09:39.360 ex boyfriend. Now, But if it was like I was 0:09:39.440 --> 0:09:41.480 married with kids and I would sit down and watched, 0:09:42.320 --> 0:09:44.360 especially your daughter's on it, you know, you were on 0:09:44.440 --> 0:09:48.319 it and pulling the strings. That's that's big. But I'm 0:09:48.320 --> 0:09:51.079 sure he was curious, like what you guys talked about, 0:09:51.080 --> 0:09:55.040 what you what you share. Are you guys like in 0:09:55.120 --> 0:09:58.040 your relationship on the show. So I guess you don't 0:09:58.040 --> 0:09:59.800 really talk to each other on the show, right because 0:09:59.800 --> 0:10:02.320 you don't even know that your daughter is there. But 0:10:02.440 --> 0:10:04.720 outside of the shower, you guys were really open about 0:10:05.360 --> 0:10:09.920 like sex and dating, like with both of you were 0:10:09.920 --> 0:10:15.840 open with dating. I think that just because the way 0:10:16.200 --> 0:10:20.240 that she was raised, she's not pretty open about like 0:10:20.320 --> 0:10:23.960 the whole details thing and like sex thing because my 0:10:24.040 --> 0:10:26.800 mom grew up in a Latin household. That's not what 0:10:26.920 --> 0:10:31.760 you do Catholic Latina households, so that's not what you do. 0:10:31.840 --> 0:10:35.360 So she's not into that. So then I'm not I'm 0:10:35.400 --> 0:10:37.600 not comfortable going to her about that. But like, if 0:10:37.600 --> 0:10:39.840 I'm dating somewhere, I'm sure that someone, I'll definitely go 0:10:39.920 --> 0:10:55.920 to her, but I'm not gonna get into the So 0:10:56.000 --> 0:10:58.880 now that Briannaette you have set up Karen on a 0:10:59.000 --> 0:11:02.640 date quote unquote, how does that play back to you, Karen? 0:11:02.640 --> 0:11:04.320 Are you setting her up on dates? Are you more 0:11:04.360 --> 0:11:09.400 involved in her dating life? Now? She's she's will like 0:11:09.440 --> 0:11:12.480 even showing it's not so cute, and I'm like, are 0:11:12.520 --> 0:11:15.520 you blind? I have been listen, I'm guilty of being 0:11:15.520 --> 0:11:17.520 like at restaurants or something and I see a kid 0:11:17.600 --> 0:11:19.839 and I'm just like, I have a daughter, and she's like, 0:11:19.840 --> 0:11:23.560 I'm gonna kill you. But but here's my thing. Don't 0:11:23.559 --> 0:11:26.080 you think, Brianna, don't you think that since you put 0:11:26.080 --> 0:11:28.040 her in that situation, she's allowed to put you in 0:11:28.040 --> 0:11:30.280 a similar situation at least once or twice, just to 0:11:30.320 --> 0:11:34.880 see how it works out. Oh, I like you good. 0:11:35.120 --> 0:11:37.040 I think you know that too, or just at least 0:11:37.080 --> 0:11:38.920 a little bit. I mean, like, I'll do it once 0:11:38.960 --> 0:11:41.720 for like, I mean, she doesn't have great taste for herself, 0:11:41.760 --> 0:11:45.200 so I pick someone A lot of times. We're better 0:11:45.280 --> 0:11:47.840 with other we're better like giving advice to other people, 0:11:47.840 --> 0:11:51.360 who taking her own, So maybe she'd be good. You know, 0:11:51.440 --> 0:11:54.400 you hit the nail right there, And we're great at 0:11:54.400 --> 0:11:58.120 giving advice to other people, but we don't take it ourselves. Yeah, 0:11:58.240 --> 0:12:00.600 I give her all advice, don't take my own? Is that? 0:12:00.880 --> 0:12:02.400 Isn't it funny how that works out? Because I feel 0:12:02.400 --> 0:12:04.800 like it's just so true. Um okay, so you guys, 0:12:04.880 --> 0:12:07.040 So just to reiterate to our listeners out there, the 0:12:07.080 --> 0:12:09.680 show is called My Mom Your Dad, streaming on HBO 0:12:09.760 --> 0:12:13.120 max um it sounds like all the episodes already out 0:12:13.120 --> 0:12:16.600 there on HBO Max. Right, So if we were to 0:12:16.600 --> 0:12:18.280 binge it today, what would we see. I mean, obviously, 0:12:18.320 --> 0:12:21.280 don't spoil anything for us, but like give us like 0:12:21.320 --> 0:12:23.040 some of the nitty gritty, you know, like what we 0:12:23.040 --> 0:12:25.520 can expect when you start watching it. You're going to 0:12:25.640 --> 0:12:28.160 see a lot of cringe genus. Of course, that's what 0:12:28.200 --> 0:12:30.000 we tune in for, is the cringe genus of course. 0:12:30.200 --> 0:12:35.280 Of course. Um, you're gonna see the parents get messed 0:12:35.320 --> 0:12:40.200 with a lot on their dates, and it's it's pretty hysterical. 0:12:40.360 --> 0:12:42.720 I remember sitting in the house just watching it and 0:12:43.120 --> 0:12:46.839 we were just crying laughing because of like the things 0:12:46.880 --> 0:12:50.640 that that just they would come up with for us 0:12:50.720 --> 0:12:54.200 meddling with our parents. It was it was really hysterical. 0:12:54.320 --> 0:12:59.120 And it's all genuine too. And I I, yeah, reality shows, 0:12:59.200 --> 0:13:02.559 you're like, it's probably kind of fake, but genuinely, this 0:13:02.920 --> 0:13:08.000 really you can't really tell like forty fifty year olds 0:13:08.040 --> 0:13:10.200 what to do. And then like us kids are kind 0:13:10.200 --> 0:13:12.160 of just sitting there like we're just here to mess 0:13:12.200 --> 0:13:15.320 with our parents. It was fun. I gotta ask them, 0:13:15.360 --> 0:13:16.840 what was your main goal out of the show? Was 0:13:16.840 --> 0:13:18.720 it to mess with your mom or was it to 0:13:18.800 --> 0:13:22.120 find her a partner? I mean it was more important 0:13:22.200 --> 0:13:24.719 you think. I mean, like I definitely was trying to 0:13:24.760 --> 0:13:27.400 find her someone or at least get her to open 0:13:27.520 --> 0:13:31.240 up options. But I mean once I got there and 0:13:31.240 --> 0:13:33.160 I learned that I had this power, I was like, 0:13:33.400 --> 0:13:36.520 I'm doing I'm messed with her, and I did. So 0:13:36.920 --> 0:13:38.800 you'll have to watch out for that in the show, 0:13:38.840 --> 0:13:41.800 because I I mess with her pretty good. And they 0:13:41.800 --> 0:13:44.280 didn't find out going in. They had no clue they 0:13:44.280 --> 0:13:46.960 were going to have this power over. They found out 0:13:47.080 --> 0:13:50.240 once they were at their own house, So they had 0:13:50.280 --> 0:13:52.240 no clue at that point, you know. And and for 0:13:52.280 --> 0:13:55.400 the parents, there was for us a lot of heartfelt moments, 0:13:56.080 --> 0:13:58.360 a lot of emotional moments, you know, some digging in 0:13:58.480 --> 0:14:03.120 deep emotional moments as well. Um some sweet moments, obviously, 0:14:03.200 --> 0:14:05.959 some falling for each other moments. There's some shocking moments 0:14:05.960 --> 0:14:08.200 that happened in the in the in the series, so 0:14:08.480 --> 0:14:11.640 some crying, a lot of crying, lots of crying. Well 0:14:11.640 --> 0:14:14.160 I gotta I gotta say, you give any child even 0:14:14.200 --> 0:14:16.920 a small sliver of power over their parents, and they're 0:14:16.960 --> 0:14:19.120 going to squeeze every ounce that they can out of that, 0:14:19.240 --> 0:14:21.240 So I can't blame I can't blame you, Brianna Adam, 0:14:21.280 --> 0:14:23.880 not at all. Um, So does the does the show 0:14:23.960 --> 0:14:26.080 end well for you? Again no spoilers, but does it 0:14:26.200 --> 0:14:27.800 end well to the maybe? Like, are you happy that 0:14:27.840 --> 0:14:30.800 you're you did the show at all? I'm absolutely happy 0:14:30.840 --> 0:14:34.200 that we did the show. Definitely need the viewers to 0:14:34.240 --> 0:14:38.800 watch all the way through. We're gonna, We're gonna, Okay, 0:14:39.320 --> 0:14:42.360 some great moments in there. Nice. What is the biggest 0:14:42.360 --> 0:14:44.960 thing each of you learned about yourselves or each other? 0:14:47.720 --> 0:14:51.600 I mean, for myself, I really learned to be more vulnerable, 0:14:51.640 --> 0:14:53.440 which I have a lot of hard It's really hard 0:14:53.480 --> 0:14:55.400 for me to be vulnerable from being hurt so much 0:14:55.680 --> 0:14:59.680 and putting my walls down, and that for myself I learned. 0:15:00.320 --> 0:15:05.440 Um for you, I think being in a house full 0:15:05.480 --> 0:15:08.160 of kids that also have gone through the same experiences 0:15:08.200 --> 0:15:11.520 and watching their parents who have also gone through the 0:15:11.560 --> 0:15:15.840 same or similar ish experiences of going through a divorce 0:15:15.920 --> 0:15:19.560 with kids and being a single parent and being part 0:15:19.840 --> 0:15:22.360 of a single parent household and watching your parents go 0:15:22.520 --> 0:15:25.920 through divorce. I think that really brought us together because 0:15:25.920 --> 0:15:28.800 there were moments that we would sit there and we 0:15:29.120 --> 0:15:35.160 would get really deep into each other and the the 0:15:35.640 --> 0:15:39.120 trauma that being through a divorce does bring for kids. 0:15:39.160 --> 0:15:43.200 I think that brought us way closer then if it 0:15:43.320 --> 0:15:47.120 wasn't about our single parents, if you just throw the kids, 0:15:47.160 --> 0:15:50.120 I think we probably wouldn't have gotten as close if 0:15:50.160 --> 0:15:54.760 it wasn't for that's similar instance that we got went there. Yeah, 0:15:54.880 --> 0:15:57.120 it's definitely, uh, definitely helps when you can bond over 0:15:57.160 --> 0:15:59.480 like a shared experience, whether it's positive or negative. But 0:16:00.240 --> 0:16:04.040 was there any was there any? Was there any sparks 0:16:04.160 --> 0:16:09.080 or love connection among the kids in like the producer room? 0:16:09.240 --> 0:16:15.480 There there was some love connections. Okay for the kids, Um, 0:16:15.520 --> 0:16:18.440 not for me personally. I did go on the show 0:16:18.480 --> 0:16:21.840 with a boyfriend, but I am single. Now that's not 0:16:21.960 --> 0:16:27.080 with what are you letting America know that you're single? Well? Yeah, 0:16:27.120 --> 0:16:28.760 I mean all of America does listen to this podcast. 0:16:28.840 --> 0:16:32.280 It's good to know Brianna's single. Is it is it 0:16:32.360 --> 0:16:35.800 because of the show or is it just something else? No, 0:16:36.080 --> 0:16:40.280 you just you have to learn that you're you are 0:16:40.360 --> 0:16:44.280 worth more than some things that people give you. Well, 0:16:44.280 --> 0:16:46.040 I've got a I've got a favorite ask of you. 0:16:46.240 --> 0:16:47.840 Next time your mother tries to set you up with 0:16:47.880 --> 0:16:50.680 a cute young man. Maybe just just humor her for 0:16:50.720 --> 0:16:56.440 a little bit, you know. That's all we that's all 0:16:56.480 --> 0:16:58.200 we can ask is just a little just try at 0:16:58.240 --> 0:17:02.520 least a little bit. Um. Well, great, So you guys listeners, 0:17:02.560 --> 0:17:05.359 My mom, your dad now streaming on HBO, Max, Karen 0:17:05.359 --> 0:17:07.000 and Brianna. Thank you guys so much for joining us. 0:17:07.000 --> 0:17:09.600 You really appreciate it. It It sounds like it sounds hilarious, 0:17:09.640 --> 0:17:13.240 it sounds tear jerking. Um, my girlfriend is a sucker 0:17:13.320 --> 0:17:16.080 for reality TV shows, and this sounds like definitely something 0:17:16.119 --> 0:17:20.120 we're all gonna binge, probably within a couple of days. So, um, 0:17:20.320 --> 0:17:22.040 we're excited to watch. We're excited to watch your love 0:17:22.080 --> 0:17:24.520 story unfold. Karen. I can't wait for you guys to 0:17:24.520 --> 0:17:26.719 watch it. Yeah, thank you guys for joining us. We 0:17:26.720 --> 0:17:29.720 appreciate you so much, Thank you so much, so much fun. 0:17:29.760 --> 0:17:33.199 Thank you guys. Commutly, we'll see you next time for 0:17:33.240 --> 0:17:35.600 the for the sequel. When it's uh, I guess what 0:17:36.040 --> 0:17:37.840 would be what we name it? My kid? Your kid? 0:17:37.920 --> 0:17:41.720 I guess my dad, your mom? Mike. Well, Karen's setting 0:17:41.760 --> 0:17:43.679 up Brianna. That's what I'm saying. That's it's gotta be 0:17:44.200 --> 0:17:48.320 the kid centric show. My daughter, your son, Brianna's got 0:17:48.480 --> 0:17:50.400 she's got she's got it, she's got it up there. 0:17:50.720 --> 0:17:52.240 All right, guys, well, thank you so much for joining us. 0:17:52.280 --> 0:17:54.840 We hope to hear from you again soon. Yeah, absolutely, 0:17:54.880 --> 0:18:00.440 thank you so much. Yeah, of course, yeah. Fine. You know, 0:18:00.480 --> 0:18:03.360 I was thinking as a I would love to see 0:18:03.400 --> 0:18:08.199 that show, but from the perspective of an overprotective father, 0:18:08.680 --> 0:18:12.120 and the show title would be my daughter your son 0:18:12.280 --> 0:18:19.160 dot dot dot dies or uh my daughter my shotgun. 0:18:19.359 --> 0:18:24.160 I don't know. Uh. Well, we're gonna take one quick break, 0:18:24.280 --> 0:18:26.240 I think, and then we're gonna get right back to it. 0:18:26.280 --> 0:18:39.359 So stay tuned through this break. All right, everybody, welcome 0:18:39.400 --> 0:18:42.280 back to help. I suck at dating and I just 0:18:42.280 --> 0:18:45.160 got to get out with it and say I feel bad, 0:18:45.320 --> 0:18:49.960 I feel guilty. I feel like I withheld everyone's favorite 0:18:49.960 --> 0:18:53.440 part of this podcast on last episode because we didn't 0:18:53.440 --> 0:18:56.879 get to the emails. So bonus segment. We're going to 0:18:56.920 --> 0:19:00.960 get to one email before we say goodbye. So I 0:19:00.960 --> 0:19:02.840 think Easton's out there. Easton, what you read an email 0:19:02.880 --> 0:19:05.240 for us? I am out here, and I think he 0:19:05.680 --> 0:19:09.680 blurred background for all the listeners out there. He's like 0:19:09.880 --> 0:19:11.840 he's got on a portrait mode or something like that. 0:19:11.880 --> 0:19:15.960 He said, his room's messy. Oh my gosh, this is 0:19:16.000 --> 0:19:20.000 of course, and we had to see it makes us 0:19:20.040 --> 0:19:22.320 more curious. Come on, everyone's listening to the podcast, No 0:19:22.320 --> 0:19:25.399 one's going to see this. Okay, for everyone listening at home, 0:19:25.440 --> 0:19:30.080 I'm gonna unblur my background. Oh there's a day that 0:19:30.160 --> 0:19:32.600 as I made. There's a there's a closet that is 0:19:32.600 --> 0:19:36.800 slightly opened. There's a box back there. My god, it's hideous. 0:19:37.000 --> 0:19:42.560 My wife's gonna kick You can't handle this anymore. Oh wait, 0:19:42.640 --> 0:19:45.400 actually I mean carry Bradshaw's apartment now, Oh my goodness, 0:19:45.400 --> 0:19:49.280 look at that. And that is where I shall remain. Okay, 0:19:49.400 --> 0:19:50.879 before you read the email, have you been watching the 0:19:50.920 --> 0:19:54.359 new Sex in the City? Unfortunately? Yes, I give me 0:19:54.440 --> 0:19:58.200 fifteen seconds of your thoughts. It's an abomination. It shouldn't exist. 0:19:58.240 --> 0:20:00.000 It's horrible. It's the worst thing that's ever been can 0:20:00.000 --> 0:20:04.120 addito television? That truth? Because Caitlin's been watching it too, 0:20:05.400 --> 0:20:06.960 I'd love to talk to Kalen about it. If she 0:20:07.040 --> 0:20:09.400 likes it, I think that's grounds to have her committed. 0:20:09.440 --> 0:20:13.880 It's it's terrible. Okay, Well, maybe guy can talk about 0:20:13.880 --> 0:20:17.960 it all right, Cools. I've been texting Ashley quite a 0:20:17.960 --> 0:20:19.760 bit about it, and she she's on the same page. 0:20:19.880 --> 0:20:24.639 She's not happy anyway. This is from anonymous. I've been 0:20:24.720 --> 0:20:27.000 dating my girlfriend for only six months. It is a 0:20:27.040 --> 0:20:30.000 super new relationship, but so far things are going great. 0:20:30.320 --> 0:20:32.040 Over the holiday, as I was over at her parents 0:20:32.160 --> 0:20:34.680 house in Oregon, my girlfriend and I left the house 0:20:34.720 --> 0:20:37.320 to go grab coffee and one morning, but I forgot 0:20:37.320 --> 0:20:39.040 my phone inside, so I ran back into the house 0:20:39.080 --> 0:20:41.400 to grab it. Obviously, her dad didn't know. I came 0:20:41.400 --> 0:20:43.320 back into the house and I overheard him on the 0:20:43.320 --> 0:20:45.720 phone in the living room talking to someone, and he said, 0:20:46.040 --> 0:20:48.399 my wife won't be home from the third to the fifth, 0:20:48.520 --> 0:20:52.920 so come over then. I miss you. It sounds bad, 0:20:53.000 --> 0:20:55.359 but I don't want to jump to any conclusions. Should 0:20:55.359 --> 0:20:57.159 I bring this up to my girlfriend, I don't even 0:20:57.200 --> 0:20:58.600 know what I would say, and I don't want her 0:20:58.600 --> 0:21:01.240 to think I'm accusing her dad off something. If I'm mistaken. 0:21:01.680 --> 0:21:03.640 Maybe I would feel more comfortable if we'd been dating 0:21:03.680 --> 0:21:05.720 for longer, but I guess if she were in my isshoes, 0:21:06.040 --> 0:21:08.040 I would want her to tell me I'm stuck. What 0:21:08.119 --> 0:21:12.960 should I do scary Well, firstly, don't drop to conclusions, 0:21:12.960 --> 0:21:14.920