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Speaker 1: Second dat up date. Everybody knows that the way to
Speaker 1: a woman's heart is car humor, and that's how Roger,
Speaker 1: the guy who's on the phone to do a second
Speaker 1: Date update today, says he scored a date with Marissa,
Speaker 1: the girl that he wants to call. He said he
Speaker 1: used car humor. I don't really know what that means.
Speaker 1: That's just what his email said, So hopefully we can
Speaker 1: get an explanation. Roger, what exactly do you mean you
Speaker 1: scored a date with her using car humor? Well, just
Speaker 1: that I made a joke. I figured she's at a
Speaker 1: car show. She likes cars. I like cars. Okay, you
Speaker 1: met her at a car show? Yes, okay, And I
Speaker 1: have to know what was your car joke? Well, it's
Speaker 1: nothing great, but it worked for her. She was standing
Speaker 1: next to this nineteen seventy Dots charger. It was gorgeous car,
Speaker 1: but she so good next to it. I already almost
Speaker 1: missed the car completely, but I just I just said
Speaker 1: I got to talk to her. So I went up
Speaker 1: and I I started some small talk and I said,
Speaker 1: you know, I'm rebuilding a car just like this. Uh,
Speaker 1: but all I've got so far as a steering wheels.
Speaker 1: Really cute. I went fall for that too. It's I
Speaker 1: know it's lame, but apparently it worked right. You guys
Speaker 1: went out, It worked okactly? We started talking. Yeah, you said,
Speaker 1: you sound charming enough to pull it off. Well, I don't.
Speaker 1: Look it would have worked better on the phone. So
Speaker 1: is the date that you want to talk about at
Speaker 1: the car show or did you guys end up actually
Speaker 1: going out? No? Yeah, the car show went great. The
Speaker 1: actual date was that weekend at a concert we went to.
Speaker 1: Oh E took her to a show? I did? She was?
Speaker 1: She was down. She said, you wanted to go to
Speaker 1: a show with me? Okay, how did the show go?
Speaker 1: It went great at first, but you know, I have
Speaker 1: to be honest. I showed up at her house on
Speaker 1: my bike. Of course. Did you say on your bike? Yes? Cycle? No? No? No, bicycle? Okay,
Speaker 1: shut up? On a bicycle. Yes, I don't. I lost
Speaker 1: my license. It's been many years ago. It's just something
Speaker 1: I'd rather not get into. But anyway, did she Did
Speaker 1: she know that you were going to show up on
Speaker 1: a bicycle. No, Okay, listen, I mean I think the
Speaker 1: bicycle's fine. If you give a girl a warning, especially
Speaker 1: if you need a man at a car show, you'd
Speaker 1: assume that he's gonna come pick you up. I don't
Speaker 1: know hit a car. I mean, I understand what you're saying,
Speaker 1: but I figured we had some good connections with good
Speaker 1: common ground that it wouldn't be a big issue. So
Speaker 1: what were you gonna do and put her on your
Speaker 1: hand tobars and take her to the concert. Well, I'm
Speaker 1: a gentleman, okay, so obviously I thought, okay, well, if
Speaker 1: she drives us, I'd be a gentleman. I'd pay for parking,
Speaker 1: I'd pay for the tickets to the show, drinks, whatever
Speaker 1: she needed. I wanted to do that, you know, at
Speaker 1: least since she was driving. Okay, Oh yeah, okay. Did
Speaker 1: you ask her beforehand a driver or did you just
Speaker 1: show up like, hey, you gotta drive us? I asked
Speaker 1: her if she could drive, but she didn't know I
Speaker 1: was going to show up to Okay, so she thought
Speaker 1: you were just being like, hey, you want to drive,
Speaker 1: because you know it'd be cool, right, okay, but she
Speaker 1: kind of had to drive, she had no choice, right,
Speaker 1: all right, So the car ride to the concert was
Speaker 1: not awkward. It was no, no, no, Like I said,
Speaker 1: it was more humor and more common ground. It was
Speaker 1: kind of everything that you think about when you think about, Hey,
Speaker 1: I just met this person. Then we're we're together going
Speaker 1: to a concert. This should be a good time. It
Speaker 1: was perfect. Okay. So she didn't seem bothered by the
Speaker 1: fact that you showed him now, not at all. That's cool.
Speaker 1: Actually sounds like a cool check. Well that's what I on. Yeah,
Speaker 1: And so how was the show? Well, now we come
Speaker 1: to the crux of it. You know, it was going
Speaker 1: good at first, and I was really digging music. She
Speaker 1: seemed to do that as well. And then she, you know,
Speaker 1: she kind of said she had to go to the bathroom,
Speaker 1: and so I just kind of found, you know, someone
Speaker 1: to talk to. And a few minutes go by, nothing
Speaker 1: didn't see her. So I kind of checked around and
Speaker 1: see her. I guess it was ten or fifteen minutes.
Speaker 1: I'm not sure exactly how long, but I finally got
Speaker 1: a text from her that said, you know, she didn't
Speaker 1: feel good, and then she went home and you know.
Speaker 1: Of course, my gut reaction was okay, I understand, but no,
Speaker 1: I have no ride home. I was gonna say, how
Speaker 1: did you get home from the concert when at her house? Yeah?
Speaker 1: So how'd you get home after I had to take
Speaker 1: the bus? What did you say to her? What did
Speaker 1: you text back? Well? I mean at this point, I'm
Speaker 1: still assuming she's fallen sick. I don't want to offend her.
Speaker 1: I mean I'm kind of offended myself that she didn't
Speaker 1: offered at least riding me home. So I didn't. I
Speaker 1: didn't say much. I didn't want to. I still thought
Speaker 1: I had a chance. Maybe she just felt sick. So anyway,
Speaker 1: I took a bus, got my bike, and I let
Speaker 1: her b Oh, you didn't knock on the doorway or
Speaker 1: anything when you know? No, no no, no, I letter B,
Speaker 1: I letter B. I didn't know. I didn't know how
Speaker 1: sick she was. Okay, how have you let her be
Speaker 1: since the date? Or have you tried to call her
Speaker 1: a few times? No? No, no, I made some text
Speaker 1: message advances, if you will, I made some more car
Speaker 1: humor that seemed to work the first time. I figured
Speaker 1: it would work again. You have a big library of
Speaker 1: car jokes. I pride myself on that yet. So have
Speaker 1: you heard anything from her at all? Nothing? Not a zilch. Okay,
Speaker 1: So she basically ditched you in the middle of your
Speaker 1: date at the concert and has not talked to Aret
Speaker 1: and you. There was no signs that she was having
Speaker 1: a bad time with you or that she was trying
Speaker 1: to escape for some reason. No, not at all. Are
Speaker 1: you mad at all? I'm not mad. I think I
Speaker 1: would just I mean, I'm an adult, she's an adult.
Speaker 1: I thought we kind of hit it off. I know
Speaker 1: that we didn't meet under traditional circumstances, but maybe she
Speaker 1: could be an adult and say, hey, this is what
Speaker 1: I don't like about you, or this is why when
Speaker 1: we're turning your calls, instead of being a four year
Speaker 1: old about it. All right, Well, we'll play a song,
Speaker 1: come back, find out if she can be an adult
Speaker 1: and tell us what happened on your date. Okay, all right,
Speaker 1: all right, we'll get your second day update right after this.
Speaker 1: Thank you, Rooking Jubil in the morning. Hey Roger, Hey, hey,
Speaker 1: before we make the phone call for your second day update,
Speaker 1: I wanted to first congratulate you on being the first
Speaker 1: person to do a second date. Update that has ever
Speaker 1: showed up for their first date on a bike? I
Speaker 1: was just thinking about it. We've had people show up
Speaker 1: on motorcycles before, but nobody actually show up on like
Speaker 1: a ten speed bike and then make their date drive
Speaker 1: them somewhere. Well, thanks very much. It's an honor to
Speaker 1: be the first. It's an honor to have you on
Speaker 1: the show. If you're just tuning in. Roger went on
Speaker 1: a date with a girl named Marissa. They went to
Speaker 1: a concert. He showed up to her house on a
Speaker 1: bike because he doesn't have his license, so he made
Speaker 1: her drive to the concert, but in exchange, he paid
Speaker 1: for parking, drinks, everything else. He paid for it all,
Speaker 1: but he got ditched in the middle of the concert.
Speaker 1: She left and said that she felt sick, and he
Speaker 1: hasn't talked to her since. We're about to call her
Speaker 1: and find out if something went wrong on that first date.
Speaker 1: And am I clear, no one in this room believes
Speaker 1: that she was actually sick, like everybody thinks it was
Speaker 1: an excuse. Yeah, it has to be. When was this date,
Speaker 1: by the way, how long ago? This was two weeks ago?
Speaker 1: Two weeks okay, so maybe she got like that weird
Speaker 1: two week flu that's called and she hasn't been able
Speaker 1: to call you. All right, I'm gonna dollar phone number
Speaker 1: right now here we go. Hello. Hi is this Marissa? Yeah?
Speaker 1: Speaking him Marissa. My name is Jubil from brook and
Speaker 1: Jewil in the morning. Seriously. Yes, how are you? I
Speaker 1: know you guys? You do? Oh awesome? How are you doing?
Speaker 1: I'm I'm doing pretty good. Nice good, Nice to meet you.
Speaker 1: You as well. Have any idea why I might be
Speaker 1: calling you today? Um? Well, I guess there's probably a
Speaker 1: lot of reasons you could be called. I'm calling you
Speaker 1: today because somebody emailed us for a second date update.
Speaker 1: Oh my god. Have you heard second date updates before? Oh? Yeah, totally.
Speaker 1: I listen to them all the time. Never thought that
Speaker 1: I would be on it though. How many dates have
Speaker 1: you been on in the last like two weeks? Um too? Two? Okay?
Speaker 1: And of those two was one of them named Roger? Yes?
Speaker 1: All right, Well Roger would be the one that emailed
Speaker 1: us for a second date update. Yeah, I bet he did.
Speaker 1: He told us that you ditched him, and then well
Speaker 1: he said that you said you got sick. But we're
Speaker 1: all assuming that you ditched him. In the middle of
Speaker 1: a concert. Yeah, was it that subtle? Is that cool?
Speaker 1: You were his ride? Man? You can't just leave somebody stranded. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I know, you know. I'm usually a good person, but
Speaker 1: like this is bad. You guys. I don't know what
Speaker 1: he told you, but I would love to tell you
Speaker 1: the true story. Okay, so tell us what happened. So
Speaker 1: I don't know if he told you is but we
Speaker 1: met at a car show, so I'm pretty surprised when
Speaker 1: he shows it to my door on a bicycle. He
Speaker 1: actually told us that. He said that he showed up
Speaker 1: on a bike and asked you to drive to the concert. Oh, okay,
Speaker 1: he told you that. What else did he tell you?
Speaker 1: He told us that, and he told us that you
Speaker 1: guys went to a concert and then that you ditched
Speaker 1: him like pretty soon after you got there. So he
Speaker 1: didn't tell you anything about the car ride to the concert, No, nothing,
Speaker 1: Are you serious? He didn't say anything about the car
Speaker 1: ride and what he told me? No he didn't. He
Speaker 1: just he actually said that you guys had a nice
Speaker 1: conversation on the way there. Well, we have very different
Speaker 1: definitions of a nice conversation. So what happened in the
Speaker 1: car then? So we're in the car and we're driving,
Speaker 1: and he was talking about how expensive drinks that the
Speaker 1: concert were, so he wanted to stop at a liquor
Speaker 1: store on the way and pick up six packs and
Speaker 1: have me smuggle it in in my purse into the concert.
Speaker 1: And you weren't down with that. No, I said no,
Speaker 1: like I didn't want to get caught and kicked out
Speaker 1: of the concert. And beyond that, when I told him no,
Speaker 1: he called me a wet lanket. Do sounds a little
Speaker 1: straight lace when you're so adamant against smuggling beer in. Well,
Speaker 1: you know, you just meet someone and let's be honest,
Speaker 1: it was not a small venue, Like I've been there before,
Speaker 1: they check persons. I knew it wasn't gonna work. What's
Speaker 1: the fun? So he insulted you out to like, jeez,
Speaker 1: just trying to save some money on beer, you wet blanket? Yeah,
Speaker 1: but it's almost like, you know, like I'm driving, I'm
Speaker 1: trying to go with the flow of the night. We're
Speaker 1: gonna go to a concert and it's cool, so I'm
Speaker 1: trying to like be open and brush it off a
Speaker 1: little bit. But then we get into the concert and
Speaker 1: you know, It's about fifteen minutes into the show. Things
Speaker 1: haven't really built up yet, and he tries to pick
Speaker 1: me up and crowd surf me, like hand me off
Speaker 1: to another person. Yeah, no one else is doing this yet.
Speaker 1: I just met this guy, you know, like he doesn't
Speaker 1: know me. It's not like I was like, let me
Speaker 1: do it. You know, helped me. I'm trying to picture this.
Speaker 1: So he just got behind you and try to lift
Speaker 1: you up, and yeah, I was like, what are you
Speaker 1: doing crowdsurfs anymore? Anyway, I don't know crowdsurfing is still
Speaker 1: a thing it at that point, Like I was a
Speaker 1: little annoyed, but I was like trying to let it go.
Speaker 1: And then the final straw comes, right, so he tries
Speaker 1: to get me to flash the band yes to them, Yeah,
Speaker 1: what did he say to you? He was like, hey,
Speaker 1: she was a band. Your why he kept telling me
Speaker 1: it would be hilarious if I showed the band my boot. Yeah, okay,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna I'm gonna fall for that one. Thanks budding.
Speaker 1: Is that when you left? Yes, I said I had
Speaker 1: to go the bathroom, and I just went straight for
Speaker 1: the accent. I thought about like calling a friend, getting
Speaker 1: a second opinion. But no, I was just out of there.
Speaker 1: Oh he sounded so charming and lovable when we talked
Speaker 1: to him. I'm like shocked by this information. Yeah, he
Speaker 1: sounded that way at the car show to me too.
Speaker 1: But like you know, doctor jack l, mister Hydeman, show
Speaker 1: him your babes. You know that he's actually on the
Speaker 1: other line listening to this conversation and wants to talk
Speaker 1: to you. Oh yeah, I know. Okay, you do know
Speaker 1: the second date updates? Roger? Yeah, Hey, hey man, Marissa,
Speaker 1: really did it take this to discuss it with you?
Speaker 1: Let's let's go over this. So, so what was it?
Speaker 1: What was the first turn off for you? I mean
Speaker 1: icicle and knee driving? Okay, all right, so I have
Speaker 1: a troubled pass, Like I feel like you were a
Speaker 1: grown up, you were adult. Maybe you understand you. Hey,
Speaker 1: I'm I'm I'm moving on, but want to talk about it.
Speaker 1: You're talking about adulthood when you're the one that's telling
Speaker 1: her to show the band her boobs. Okay, Well, on
Speaker 1: that particular note, I thought it would be cool that
Speaker 1: if she showed the band her boobs, then we could
Speaker 1: maybe get like a backstage pass. I would really press
Speaker 1: Marissa's not impressing me if I'm the one doing the work.
Speaker 1: If something is like smuggling beer, but I have to
Speaker 1: put my life on the line for going into the
Speaker 1: show or not. It's not putting your life on the line.
Speaker 1: It's having a little fun risk and need to lighten
Speaker 1: up a little bit, live a little bit. I mean
Speaker 1: you smuggling beer. Everybody smuggles beer. Put in your purse,
Speaker 1: your socks. I don't care if you're hoodie. Okay, maybe
Speaker 1: that was an overstatement, but come on, man, you've never
Speaker 1: been to that venue before. They were checking everything. It
Speaker 1: was just a stupid idea. Mersa, do you even hear
Speaker 1: what you're saying? You're talking like somebody who doesn't know
Speaker 1: how to experience life to the soul? Is I mean,
Speaker 1: you're gonna stay there if you don't need up. Maybe
Speaker 1: your definition of living life to the fullest and mine
Speaker 1: are a little bit different. And why wouldn't you be
Speaker 1: You have socks, You could smuggle beer yourself. Why does
Speaker 1: she have to do it. She's a gorgeous female. She
Speaker 1: can get away with a lot more than I can.
Speaker 1: Oh god, okay, thank you for the compliment. I appreciate that.
Speaker 1: But like beer aside, there were so many other things
Speaker 1: wrong with the date, Marissa. I feel like I just
Speaker 1: feel like if you loosen up, live a little bit,
Speaker 1: have a little fun, we could have a little date
Speaker 1: and we'd have a good time. I just feel like
Speaker 1: you were too tight laced. It it's her fault. Good show, ample, Marissa,
Speaker 1: what's your problem? Yourself? A little bit for some backstage passes? Amen,
Speaker 1: I was being sarcastic. If I really got boring? Why
Speaker 1: do you want to go out on a day with
Speaker 1: me again? Because you're at a car show? Most girls
Speaker 1: don't go to car shows, so boom right there, you're
Speaker 1: my material? Oh my god. Yeah, and I thought you
Speaker 1: were my material too. But you don't even own a car.
Speaker 1: But he's got car jokes for days. I have a car, Marissa.
Speaker 1: It's a nice car. I just can't drive it. Okay, Marissa,
Speaker 1: would you like to go out with Roger again? Who
Speaker 1: will pay for a second day? No, I'm not up
Speaker 1: to being told how boring I am for another date.
Speaker 1: It's probably a good call, Merissa. If you had done
Speaker 1: the things I told you to, you would have had
Speaker 1: the time of your life. It wouldn't have been boring
Speaker 1: at all. Sorry, my definition of fun just isn't crowdsurfing
Speaker 1: and stowing my boots the stranger. You know what you do?
Speaker 1: Sound a little boring, Marissa, I gotta say sorry, Roger,
Speaker 1: no second date, man. Come on, Marissa, thank you for
Speaker 1: listening and thank you for telling us what happened on
Speaker 1: your date. I appreciate it. Oh my pleasure. Sounds like it, Roger.
Speaker 1: Good luck in the future. I'm sure you'll be able
Speaker 1: to find a nice lady who will let you chow
Speaker 1: her boobs to strangers. Exactly. That's what we need more
Speaker 1: open this country. Support you on text in at seven eight,
Speaker 1: five to nine two says I'll go out with Roger.
Speaker 1: I have a six pack of beer in my purse
Speaker 1: right now and I'll flash anybody. Sounds like there's somebody
Speaker 1: out there for everyone talking about today's second day update.
Speaker 1: If you missed it, this dude, Roger wanted to call Marissa.
Speaker 1: They went to a concert together and she actually ditched
Speaker 1: him because he called her a wet blanket because she
Speaker 1: wouldn't sneak a six pack of beer into the concert
Speaker 1: inside her purse. Then he tried to pick her up
Speaker 1: and make her crowd surf. She wasn't into that. And
Speaker 1: then the final straw was when he told her to
Speaker 1: flash the band because he thought it would be funny.
Speaker 1: And then she just left and when we got her
Speaker 1: on the phone, they talked about it and he still
Speaker 1: thought that she was being way too uptight. Wow. She
Speaker 1: just did not want to go out with Roger again.
Speaker 1: And he just sounds like a guy that never stops. Yeah. Yeah,
Speaker 1: remember if you want to do a second at update,
Speaker 1: just emailed the show and we will call the person
Speaker 1: who didn't call you back. Two point five