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The results are in. 0:01:05.080 --> 0:01:08.240 It's Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning, because recent studies 0:01:08.280 --> 0:01:12.440 have shown about fifty percent of couples now meet online 0:01:12.920 --> 0:01:16.760 compared to just twenty two percent only five years ago. 0:01:17.160 --> 0:01:21.160 That's crazy. That's a huge John. It's like the pandemic, 0:01:21.280 --> 0:01:22.399 like super. 0:01:22.360 --> 0:01:24.960 Yeah, it made a really normal, really quick Yeah. So 0:01:25.200 --> 0:01:27.200 now going forward, Brook, if you want to spice up 0:01:27.240 --> 0:01:29.800 the relationship with your husband, you're gonna have to make 0:01:29.880 --> 0:01:31.280 him a dating profile. 0:01:31.440 --> 0:01:35.400 Oh okay, you know, I think I could make him 0:01:35.400 --> 0:01:36.200 a really good one. 0:01:36.319 --> 0:01:38.880 I mean to be honest, Well, I think joke's on you. 0:01:38.920 --> 0:01:39.679 He already has one. 0:01:39.720 --> 0:01:42.400 Wait whoa apparently guy. 0:01:42.000 --> 0:01:44.200 You're looking for a third right now, according to him. 0:01:44.240 --> 0:01:46.520 And we're not going to go into that because I 0:01:46.560 --> 0:01:49.920 want to talk right now because to Jordy, the listener 0:01:49.920 --> 0:01:52.800 who wrote into our show because apparently he met a 0:01:52.880 --> 0:01:57.160 girl out in real life, bucking all of the latest trends, you're. 0:01:57.040 --> 0:01:59.840 The minority now, irl, Jeordy, good work. 0:02:00.000 --> 0:02:00.680 Welcome to the show. 0:02:01.240 --> 0:02:04.840 Hey guys, so where'd you meet this woman? So? 0:02:04.920 --> 0:02:07.000 I met Harper at this German bar. 0:02:07.160 --> 0:02:10.120 Actually, uh, you know, I was playing bachi ball. Do 0:02:10.160 --> 0:02:11.040 you guys know what that is? 0:02:13.120 --> 0:02:15.639 You have bought you ball on my rooftop of my apartment. 0:02:15.840 --> 0:02:18.600 Like you tossed big these like big colorful balls onto 0:02:18.600 --> 0:02:20.400 like a field and you try to toss other balls 0:02:20.440 --> 0:02:21.160 towards the ball. 0:02:22.560 --> 0:02:25.000 It's an Italian game playing at a German bar. But 0:02:25.040 --> 0:02:25.600 what happened? 0:02:27.040 --> 0:02:30.320 Yeah, yeah, okay, So you said her name was Harper? 0:02:30.960 --> 0:02:33.640 Yeah, yeah, she was actually a waitress there. 0:02:34.000 --> 0:02:36.440 Oh oh, I assumed that she was going to be 0:02:36.480 --> 0:02:37.760 like playing in the stall next year or. 0:02:37.680 --> 0:02:38.160 Something like that. 0:02:38.200 --> 0:02:39.919 Right, No, no, no, no, no. 0:02:40.520 --> 0:02:43.080 She was super cute, and I mean she was super 0:02:43.080 --> 0:02:45.480 helpful too, because I actually had to have this like 0:02:45.639 --> 0:02:47.639 long cock with her to tell her to cut off 0:02:47.919 --> 0:02:49.000 one of my drunk friends. 0:02:51.520 --> 0:02:54.120 Friend, you had to do it. 0:02:54.040 --> 0:02:56.919 Like nicely, like I told you, I'm sure that's happened 0:02:56.919 --> 0:02:59.800 to you and you just don't if you have good friends. 0:02:59.800 --> 0:03:01.600 If I think it probably makes you look kind of 0:03:01.639 --> 0:03:04.800 good to her because you seem like a responsible guy exactly. 0:03:04.800 --> 0:03:06.880 It's like watching Jerry Fringer. It's like you look better 0:03:06.919 --> 0:03:07.520 than those people. 0:03:07.960 --> 0:03:10.040 Oh can I ask real quick? 0:03:10.320 --> 0:03:12.799 Was there an indication that she was interested in you? 0:03:12.840 --> 0:03:16.000 Because cute waitresses get hit on all the time. 0:03:15.880 --> 0:03:19.320 And they smile and there everyone thinks they're getting brook 0:03:19.320 --> 0:03:22.040 tries to get them to be the third in her relationship. 0:03:23.040 --> 0:03:25.720 Harper. I mean, Harper is a hot name. 0:03:25.800 --> 0:03:29.040 But again, sorry, that is a conversation for another day. 0:03:29.960 --> 0:03:32.560 Tell us, how did you work Harper? That's not the 0:03:32.600 --> 0:03:33.480 right way. 0:03:33.800 --> 0:03:35.080 How did Jack? 0:03:35.880 --> 0:03:38.080 How did you get Harper to agree to a date? 0:03:38.440 --> 0:03:38.640 There? 0:03:38.640 --> 0:03:39.040 It is? 0:03:39.080 --> 0:03:41.480 Well, I just simply asked her on the way out. 0:03:41.520 --> 0:03:44.840 I was like, look are you single? And she said 0:03:45.000 --> 0:03:45.640 who's asking? 0:03:45.800 --> 0:03:49.440 And I said I am good. 0:03:50.280 --> 0:03:52.600 Yeah, And I just said I'd love to take you 0:03:52.640 --> 0:03:54.840 out sometime, and she actually gave me her number. 0:03:55.000 --> 0:04:03.640 Oh dude, if we done this and it's our loser line, is. 0:04:03.600 --> 0:04:05.800 That your only meet up? Or did you guys actually 0:04:05.840 --> 0:04:06.320 have a date. 0:04:06.680 --> 0:04:07.680 No, no, we had a date. 0:04:07.760 --> 0:04:10.240 Okay, so it is her numbers. 0:04:09.960 --> 0:04:12.000 Because we all know she probably gave your number to 0:04:12.000 --> 0:04:12.440 get ridy. 0:04:12.920 --> 0:04:13.920 So what did you do? 0:04:14.600 --> 0:04:17.120 We went out for drinks, little food. You know, she 0:04:17.240 --> 0:04:19.400 looked amazing. I mean when she was like out of 0:04:19.440 --> 0:04:20.800 her waiter outfits. 0:04:20.839 --> 0:04:22.040 You didn't need to mention the second part. 0:04:24.120 --> 0:04:24.600 She knows. 0:04:24.920 --> 0:04:27.640 Yeah, I mean I did have one embarrassing moment on 0:04:27.640 --> 0:04:28.000 the date. 0:04:28.080 --> 0:04:32.280 We tried to order some keyshe Lorraine, and I said, quickie, Loran, 0:04:34.279 --> 0:04:35.880 you know I didn't take French in high school, Like 0:04:35.920 --> 0:04:37.760 excuse me, Yeah, well, you're. 0:04:37.600 --> 0:04:40.000 Also clashing with the batch you ball in the Germans. 0:04:40.880 --> 0:04:43.440 Don't want to be elitist by being able to say keish. 0:04:46.200 --> 0:04:49.240 Tough. What was her reaction, She totally laughed it off. 0:04:49.320 --> 0:04:51.880 It was a little embarrassing, but after that, like, I 0:04:51.880 --> 0:04:53.760 think it kind of lightened the mood a little bit, 0:04:53.800 --> 0:04:54.960 and from there the. 0:04:54.960 --> 0:04:57.600 Date was great, especially if you can be self deprecating 0:04:57.640 --> 0:04:59.400 about it, you know what I mean, Like it could 0:04:59.440 --> 0:05:02.080 almost even turn into like your inside joke together. 0:05:02.320 --> 0:05:04.760 Yeah, the next thing, I speak German and then. 0:05:04.720 --> 0:05:05.560 You just ruin it. 0:05:05.760 --> 0:05:08.440 Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. So we actually like kissed at 0:05:08.440 --> 0:05:10.440 the end of the day, so that was nice. 0:05:10.839 --> 0:05:13.520 And she was the one who texted me that night 0:05:13.640 --> 0:05:16.880 saying that she got home safe and that she certain 0:05:16.960 --> 0:05:17.520 wait to see me. 0:05:17.680 --> 0:05:21.120 So whoa, Like, it seems super clear, right, Are. 0:05:21.000 --> 0:05:22.360 You sure you didn't read that wrong too? 0:05:23.160 --> 0:05:26.240 There's no way to read that I. 0:05:26.240 --> 0:05:28.200 Was in English, I think. 0:05:28.720 --> 0:05:32.680 Okay, so you've you've had a solid first date. You 0:05:32.760 --> 0:05:34.720 kissed her at the end of it. She's the one 0:05:34.760 --> 0:05:37.160 saying I can't wait to hang out again, and how 0:05:37.200 --> 0:05:37.880 long has it been? 0:05:38.360 --> 0:05:41.159 It's been like ten days or so, well. 0:05:41.080 --> 0:05:43.480 Something must have happened in her life, Like I already 0:05:43.480 --> 0:05:44.960 have a feeling this is not your fault. 0:05:45.040 --> 0:05:47.640 I oh, I can see that where I don't know, 0:05:47.640 --> 0:05:50.120 maybe work got crazy or there's a family emergency. 0:05:50.200 --> 0:05:53.440 She kindled something and was just like, yeah, but what's 0:05:53.480 --> 0:05:55.839 happened in those ten days? That's a long time. Have 0:05:55.920 --> 0:05:57.040 you asked her like what. 0:05:57.040 --> 0:05:57.920 Have you doe? Yeah? 0:05:57.960 --> 0:05:59.800 I mean there was one time where I thought one 0:06:00.120 --> 0:06:01.880 date was gonna work, but then she asked about a 0:06:01.920 --> 0:06:03.520 different date, So I don't. 0:06:03.360 --> 0:06:06.520 Know, all player came into her work. 0:06:09.400 --> 0:06:11.839 Might be Okay, Well, we can reach out to Harper 0:06:11.839 --> 0:06:13.960 for you and see if she agrees to going out 0:06:13.960 --> 0:06:16.640 with you one more time. If not, then you might 0:06:16.680 --> 0:06:19.240 have a backup. Often because Brooke and her husband. 0:06:18.920 --> 0:06:19.600 You know, but. 0:06:21.240 --> 0:06:22.440 Jeff not online. 0:06:22.640 --> 0:06:23.479 Oh that's right. 0:06:23.720 --> 0:06:26.159 Yeah, we only like the online one. 0:06:26.440 --> 0:06:29.479 To be able to keep some distance. Sorry, but you 0:06:29.520 --> 0:06:31.560 know what, We'll work on Harper first and try and 0:06:31.600 --> 0:06:35.400 get you your second date update. Right after this second 0:06:35.560 --> 0:06:39.160 date update, we're in the middle of a second date 0:06:39.240 --> 0:06:44.120 update with our listener Jordy, and Jordy likes cute waitresses 0:06:44.200 --> 0:06:48.719 at German bachi ball bars. He likes to mispronounce keish 0:06:48.880 --> 0:06:51.760 lorraine just to seem vulnerable and flawed. 0:06:52.200 --> 0:06:53.760 How did he say something? 0:06:53.880 --> 0:06:57.520 Yeah, he said, you said quickly? What did you say, Jordie, 0:06:58.040 --> 0:07:04.359 I said quick loran quickly. And he really likes to 0:07:04.400 --> 0:07:08.000 receive texts saying I can't wait to see you again, 0:07:08.240 --> 0:07:10.920 because that's exactly what is dade, Harper said to him 0:07:10.960 --> 0:07:14.280 after they went out. So why is she not jumping 0:07:14.320 --> 0:07:16.200 at the chance to hang out again? 0:07:16.440 --> 0:07:18.640 Yeah, she's the one that said she wanted to Jeordy. 0:07:18.720 --> 0:07:21.640 You think there's another guy who mispronounces French words even 0:07:21.680 --> 0:07:23.920 worse than you do. Maybe that's her thing. 0:07:24.480 --> 0:07:28.000 Yeah, maybe, Yeah. 0:07:26.800 --> 0:07:29.520 He tried to order me a quabernet, having gone. 0:07:29.280 --> 0:07:31.120 Oh oh yeah, that's hot. 0:07:31.240 --> 0:07:35.400 Yeah, dude, I don't even know how you have mispronounced 0:07:36.240 --> 0:07:37.640 so much yeah pronounced. 0:07:38.760 --> 0:07:41.920 I mean, look, Harper's a really cute waitress. She probably 0:07:42.000 --> 0:07:44.480 has a lot of guys asking her out. 0:07:44.600 --> 0:07:47.240 Oh my god, I bet she's saying no fifty times 0:07:47.240 --> 0:07:48.480 a day, every other table. 0:07:48.520 --> 0:07:49.239 It's so annoying. 0:07:49.240 --> 0:07:51.280 But that's why you're so special, is that she said 0:07:51.360 --> 0:07:53.200 yes to you and you guys had a great day. 0:07:53.200 --> 0:07:57.120 Issue she said, yeah, But like look, guys, if that's it, 0:07:57.200 --> 0:07:59.280 if that's the thing where she has another guy, like, 0:08:00.120 --> 0:08:05.040 just convince her that I'm a good guy, you know. 0:08:05.320 --> 0:08:08.160 In the five minutes we've spent with you, totally will 0:08:08.240 --> 0:08:11.120 vouch for you. Thank you, You're welcome, like. 0:08:11.000 --> 0:08:14.120 A good guy, honestly, not even kidding. Yeah, a lot 0:08:14.120 --> 0:08:19.320 of good guys insist how good they are. So we're 0:08:19.360 --> 0:08:21.240 just gonna trust you on that, and we're gonna call Harper. 0:08:21.280 --> 0:08:23.960 Let's see if she answers. Okay, I don't know you. 0:08:24.120 --> 0:08:27.120 I mean you seem nice from a little bit be spoken. Okay, 0:08:27.560 --> 0:08:29.200 you just stay where you're at, though, buddy, we don't 0:08:29.240 --> 0:08:29.600 know you that. 0:08:29.680 --> 0:08:30.720 Let's get her on the phone. 0:08:30.720 --> 0:08:42.560 Hello, Hey, is this Harper? 0:08:43.320 --> 0:08:43.560 Yeah? 0:08:43.600 --> 0:08:44.200 Who's calling? 0:08:44.640 --> 0:08:47.040 We're a radio show calling called Brook and Jeffrey in 0:08:47.040 --> 0:08:47.440 the morning. 0:08:47.880 --> 0:08:49.480 Good morning, Hi Harper. 0:08:50.000 --> 0:08:51.760 That half of the room isn't very excited to talk 0:08:51.760 --> 0:08:52.760 to you, obviously, but. 0:08:52.800 --> 0:08:54.040 I don't think she talked to us. 0:08:54.080 --> 0:08:55.439 This half of the room very good. 0:08:55.840 --> 0:08:58.080 I just don't want to come into jeff what are 0:08:58.080 --> 0:08:59.280 you calling for? See? 0:08:59.400 --> 0:09:01.959 Yeah, this is this is something we do call the 0:09:02.040 --> 0:09:05.040 second Date Update. And one of our listeners named Jordi 0:09:05.280 --> 0:09:09.079 asked us to reach out to you? 0:09:09.080 --> 0:09:10.000 Were you anyone else? 0:09:10.120 --> 0:09:15.400 I said, what do you want me to say? 0:09:15.760 --> 0:09:18.559 Okay, we're just trying to help him out because according 0:09:18.600 --> 0:09:21.200 to Jeordi, he says he's been putting in a lot 0:09:21.200 --> 0:09:23.280 of effort trying to figure out a good time that 0:09:23.280 --> 0:09:26.600 would work for you to meet up just because he 0:09:26.640 --> 0:09:28.280 felt like you guys bonded connected. 0:09:28.559 --> 0:09:30.560 Is it just something where the schedules aren't aligning. 0:09:31.679 --> 0:09:34.600 No, there was just like a lot of effort. 0:09:35.400 --> 0:09:38.280 That's kind of a problem too much. 0:09:38.720 --> 0:09:39.240 What do you mean? 0:09:39.480 --> 0:09:40.720 Yeah, can you elaborate? 0:09:41.040 --> 0:09:44.439 I mean, like on the surface when I met him, 0:09:44.480 --> 0:09:47.520 like I was working and then we went and hung 0:09:47.559 --> 0:09:50.040 out and like he was a good guy, and well 0:09:50.080 --> 0:09:51.560 that's what I was looking for. 0:09:51.840 --> 0:09:54.240 Yeah, like he's what you were looking for. I mean, 0:09:54.800 --> 0:09:57.880 like I thought, so okay, so what changed? 0:09:58.559 --> 0:10:01.960 So we hung out and it It wasn't until after 0:10:02.679 --> 0:10:04.160 that I realized something was off. 0:10:04.960 --> 0:10:08.199 What Like I had every intention to go out again. 0:10:08.640 --> 0:10:11.760 Okay, okay, what's the problem. Is it something about him? 0:10:13.000 --> 0:10:13.240 Yeah? 0:10:13.280 --> 0:10:16.480 He gave me three options to hang out all in 0:10:16.559 --> 0:10:19.360 a row, like Friday, Saturday, Sunday. 0:10:19.400 --> 0:10:21.040 Like why is he so available? 0:10:22.280 --> 0:10:23.280 Wait? What do you hold on? 0:10:23.320 --> 0:10:25.360 Did he want a three day date, or he was 0:10:25.400 --> 0:10:27.199 just like pick a day and we can do that one. 0:10:27.240 --> 0:10:30.160 No, he was like, these are all the days that 0:10:30.200 --> 0:10:33.320 I'm available, and I have to believe me and my 0:10:33.440 --> 0:10:37.480 friends do that. There's a guy between the age twenty 0:10:37.559 --> 0:10:40.840 four and thirty two ish. If they have that much 0:10:40.880 --> 0:10:43.520 time to hang out, it really means that he's a loser. 0:10:43.880 --> 0:10:49.080 Oh oh wait, wait a a loser. Wow, you're calling 0:10:49.160 --> 0:10:52.480 him a loser because he gave you multiple options of 0:10:52.559 --> 0:10:56.000 times where he wants to hang out because he likes you. 0:10:56.520 --> 0:10:59.920 Yeah, because like they're all in a row, and it's like, Okay, 0:11:00.160 --> 0:11:05.320 he should be grinding away planning for his future, maybe 0:11:05.440 --> 0:11:09.480 not working or like working on a promotion or getting somewhere. 0:11:09.880 --> 0:11:13.679 Maybe he is like, in my mind, you're a waitress. 0:11:13.720 --> 0:11:16.080 So he's probably just trying to give you options because 0:11:16.120 --> 0:11:20.040 it's probably hard to align schedules, Like he probably figures 0:11:20.040 --> 0:11:21.160 you work on the weekends. 0:11:21.440 --> 0:11:23.839 I mean that sounds like an excuse he to use. 0:11:23.920 --> 0:11:27.560 I guess well, it sounds like he's doing it for you. 0:11:27.640 --> 0:11:30.080 Because nowadays we hear from a lot of women who 0:11:30.120 --> 0:11:32.680 tell us guys don't put in enough effort. They want 0:11:32.679 --> 0:11:35.599 the easy thing. They don't really care. Geordy sounds like 0:11:35.640 --> 0:11:38.720 the total opposite, like he's willing to do whatever just 0:11:38.760 --> 0:11:39.280 to see you. 0:11:39.840 --> 0:11:42.160 Make plans the other days that you say you can't. 0:11:42.320 --> 0:11:43.520 Yeah, but he didn't say that. 0:11:43.640 --> 0:11:46.040 He was like, I'm wide open, and I'm like, well, 0:11:46.080 --> 0:11:49.120 what else are you doing with your life? Just pursuing me? 0:11:52.360 --> 0:11:52.400 What? 0:11:52.960 --> 0:11:53.320 Okay? 0:11:53.440 --> 0:11:56.600 Sadly this makes sense, but doesn't mean we agree with it. 0:11:56.720 --> 0:11:58.680 I don't know that it does make sense to me. 0:11:59.160 --> 0:12:02.120 He's not a sir like you liked him, You liked 0:12:02.160 --> 0:12:07.600 everything about him. You said that he checked all your boxes. Basically, yeah, 0:12:07.679 --> 0:12:08.440 I mean he did. 0:12:08.600 --> 0:12:11.040 He actually had decent hygiene. 0:12:10.559 --> 0:12:15.920 Which okay, But but he's too available for you. 0:12:16.000 --> 0:12:17.560 Maybe that's why it's hygiene is so good. He has 0:12:17.600 --> 0:12:18.120 got time for it. 0:12:19.160 --> 0:12:20.480 I mean, again, you don't want date someone who wants 0:12:20.480 --> 0:12:22.839 to hang out every single day sometimes like they need 0:12:22.880 --> 0:12:23.400 to have a life. 0:12:23.559 --> 0:12:27.960 Well sure, oh god, and especially in the beginning getting 0:12:28.000 --> 0:12:29.679 to know who they are, and it just seems like 0:12:29.760 --> 0:12:30.199 he's just. 0:12:30.200 --> 0:12:31.560 Wide open to do whatever. 0:12:31.679 --> 0:12:34.160 And okay, but we're trying to build who we are 0:12:34.280 --> 0:12:34.920 as people. 0:12:35.640 --> 0:12:39.560 What would you want his response to be when you say, hey, 0:12:39.679 --> 0:12:40.959 I can't wait to see you again. 0:12:41.120 --> 0:12:42.000 What should he have. 0:12:41.960 --> 0:12:44.319 Written back to He shouldn't have. He should have just 0:12:44.400 --> 0:12:45.319 let me hang for a bit. 0:12:47.400 --> 0:12:48.400 That was a red flag. 0:12:48.480 --> 0:12:50.600 Okay, well it's cutting like a game. 0:12:50.760 --> 0:12:53.240 I don't I don't want to tell you this because 0:12:54.000 --> 0:12:56.200 it's not that he's like super available to talk to you. 0:12:57.120 --> 0:12:58.240 That's not what this is. 0:12:58.520 --> 0:13:00.400 He was so busy. It's like I had to call 0:13:00.440 --> 0:13:02.679 him so many times just in. 0:13:02.640 --> 0:13:05.480 The middle of his extremely hectic day. He's taken a 0:13:05.520 --> 0:13:07.160 little bit of time to jump on the phone right 0:13:07.200 --> 0:13:09.839 now to talk to you because Jordie's there. 0:13:10.480 --> 0:13:13.240 Hey, Harper, Oh so you've. 0:13:13.040 --> 0:13:18.000 Been on the phone just a little bit barely. 0:13:18.200 --> 0:13:20.080 I heard you call me a loser who has too 0:13:20.120 --> 0:13:21.120 much time on his hands. 0:13:21.679 --> 0:13:24.520 Well, yeah, they asked me to be honest, and I 0:13:24.640 --> 0:13:26.640 was honest. She didn't asked me what. 0:13:26.559 --> 0:13:30.960 Was I mean, that's what Jordie wanted. He wanted to know. 0:13:31.920 --> 0:13:34.240 So, do you think I'm a loser because I want 0:13:34.280 --> 0:13:35.320 to go out a second time? 0:13:35.400 --> 0:13:36.960 Like that part doesn't make any sense. 0:13:37.320 --> 0:13:41.240 No, it's just it's just a little red flaggy to 0:13:41.360 --> 0:13:43.360 be able to hang out three nights in a row, 0:13:43.559 --> 0:13:44.840 and like, my perfect. 0:13:44.520 --> 0:13:45.679 Guy would never do that. 0:13:46.280 --> 0:13:48.480 He shouldn't have all the time in the world for me, you. 0:13:48.440 --> 0:13:53.079 Know, I'm sorry, shouldn't have all the. 0:13:54.440 --> 0:13:55.920 To be totally clear, I didn't want to hang out 0:13:55.920 --> 0:13:57.800 with you three nights, and I gave you three options. 0:13:57.960 --> 0:13:59.240 Okay, you're just. 0:13:59.160 --> 0:14:01.280 Being a little weight to chill at this time in 0:14:01.320 --> 0:14:01.880 your life. 0:14:01.960 --> 0:14:04.000 You know, now the time is to work hard and 0:14:04.000 --> 0:14:05.080 we're going to chill later. 0:14:05.559 --> 0:14:08.800 Yeah, well, well you're servant. Stein's in a German bar, like, 0:14:08.880 --> 0:14:15.040 I mean, she probably makes more than I do here. 0:14:15.120 --> 0:14:18.520 Yeah, well, it's just the what are you doing to 0:14:18.600 --> 0:14:19.440 do the same thing. 0:14:19.680 --> 0:14:21.240 Well, you don't even know me, so how about you 0:14:21.280 --> 0:14:21.920 shut your mouth? 0:14:22.680 --> 0:14:25.200 Yeah, shut your mouth, Michael. Who are you complaining about 0:14:25.200 --> 0:14:26.560 the people bringing you alcohol? 0:14:28.160 --> 0:14:30.000 I think being a server is a great job. 0:14:30.040 --> 0:14:32.640 But she's like expecting him to like do all these 0:14:32.640 --> 0:14:36.080 big great things, like what are you doing to plan 0:14:36.160 --> 0:14:36.960 for your future? 0:14:36.800 --> 0:14:39.200 You stay in your lane and keep not tipping people. 0:14:43.760 --> 0:14:45.760 I just like, I hate when people do that. 0:14:45.920 --> 0:14:48.520 This is about Jordie, Jordi. She's concerned that you're too 0:14:48.560 --> 0:14:50.880 free and you're too available. Prove to her that that's 0:14:50.960 --> 0:14:54.120 not true. And how much you got going on? 0:14:54.520 --> 0:14:55.360 You don't want to date? 0:14:55.480 --> 0:14:57.120 Yeah, I mean, it sounds like that would be more 0:14:57.160 --> 0:14:59.040 attractive to you. I mean, I just don't know why 0:14:59.040 --> 0:15:00.840 you want to play these games. Like we met in 0:15:00.920 --> 0:15:02.880 real life, I thought you were a good person. 0:15:03.240 --> 0:15:06.440 Okay, that's actually a point. How busy are you right now? 0:15:06.840 --> 0:15:08.960 I mean I'm kind of busy. I'm not totally busy. 0:15:09.000 --> 0:15:09.320 I mean. 0:15:11.720 --> 0:15:14.000 He's super busy, right slam? 0:15:14.040 --> 0:15:19.600 Okay, Like, look, I'm looking to get busier, all right, 0:15:21.040 --> 0:15:22.000 red flaggy much? 0:15:22.360 --> 0:15:25.200 Oh god, he sounds like a nice guy. 0:15:25.520 --> 0:15:27.960 That's not what she wants. She doesn't want that, but 0:15:28.040 --> 0:15:29.320 you did want it that night. 0:15:29.680 --> 0:15:32.040 Look, look, Harper, let's rewind. Pretend I didn't call you 0:15:32.080 --> 0:15:32.840 for two weeks. 0:15:32.920 --> 0:15:36.000 Are you turned on now weeks? 0:15:36.080 --> 0:15:38.680 It's only been ten days. 0:15:39.840 --> 0:15:41.960 We're imagining, Harper. 0:15:42.200 --> 0:15:44.600 I mean, the reality is you sent me a lot 0:15:44.600 --> 0:15:46.840 of freaking texts with like a lot of freaking days, 0:15:46.840 --> 0:15:48.840 and now you have me on a radio show. 0:15:49.640 --> 0:15:53.680 It does look bad. It's pretty bad. You know what 0:15:53.720 --> 0:15:55.720 The thing is? We made him do it. Yeah, we 0:15:55.800 --> 0:15:57.200 got all the time in the world. He didn't even 0:15:57.240 --> 0:15:57.600 want to. 0:15:57.560 --> 0:16:00.400 Be here, he didn't have time, no, but he. 0:16:00.480 --> 0:16:02.680 Was kind enough to take a little bit of time 0:16:02.720 --> 0:16:04.520 out to do this with us. Just so that I 0:16:04.560 --> 0:16:06.920 could ask you if you would like to see Jordi 0:16:07.040 --> 0:16:09.400 one more time, and we would pay for that date. 0:16:09.600 --> 0:16:12.240 I don't even know if he's free. Honestly, Jordy, are 0:16:12.240 --> 0:16:12.880 you even free? 0:16:13.240 --> 0:16:13.720 Interested? 0:16:13.840 --> 0:16:15.560 Not anymore? I'm all booked up. 0:16:19.080 --> 0:16:22.080 I'm sorry. She's like, so I'll see you next weekend. 0:16:23.120 --> 0:16:25.200 I mean, I'm not really into these games that he's 0:16:25.200 --> 0:16:26.920 playing with me, and I'm not going to follow. 0:16:29.840 --> 0:16:31.920 Sweetie. 0:16:30.480 --> 0:16:37.160 Oh God, that was talking like Brooke. Now this is okay, 0:16:37.320 --> 0:16:42.960 you know what. No, second day, this is going bad. 0:16:44.320 --> 0:16:44.680 Looking. 0:16:44.800 --> 0:16:47.080 Jeffrey in the morning got a text into seventy eighty 0:16:47.080 --> 0:16:49.120 five nine two that says, with that out look, I 0:16:49.120 --> 0:16:50.760 hope she's ready to die alone. 0:16:51.120 --> 0:16:54.080 God No, I mean, honestly, I think she just doesn't 0:16:54.120 --> 0:16:55.200 actually want a boyfriend. 0:16:55.440 --> 0:16:57.640 Yeah, you know, likebody's. 0:16:57.040 --> 0:16:58.320 Saying that she's like looking. 0:16:58.480 --> 0:17:01.800 She says she's looking for something, but she found it because. 0:17:01.920 --> 0:17:04.560 What she just wants to be wanted. And the outlook 0:17:04.640 --> 0:17:06.480 that I think they're referring to is the theory that 0:17:06.560 --> 0:17:09.479 if a guy says he's available to hang out with 0:17:09.520 --> 0:17:12.159 you multiple nights in a row, that means he's a 0:17:12.240 --> 0:17:14.800 loser and must have absolutely nothing going on. 0:17:15.040 --> 0:17:16.919 You correct that, because when girls try to hang out 0:17:16.920 --> 0:17:18.400 with me and I tell him I'm sorry, I got 0:17:18.400 --> 0:17:21.040 two jobs. I'm streaming video games every single night, it 0:17:21.080 --> 0:17:21.800 also deters that. 0:17:25.880 --> 0:17:28.399 Yes, it also matters what you're busy doing. 0:17:29.760 --> 0:17:33.040 My D and D club on Friday on Saturday night, 0:17:33.119 --> 0:17:33.920