WEBVTT - Kathy & Susan on Bachelor Nation News & Getting You a Date | Golden Hour

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome back to Golden Hour, and I am Kathy coming

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<v Speaker 1>from Philadelphia.

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<v Speaker 2>I guess who's with her?

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<v Speaker 1>We are here in Philadelphia. I'm at Susan's house. And

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<v Speaker 1>what have you been doing, Susan?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my goodness. So Kathy was judging the Miss New

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<v Speaker 2>Jersey competition. And I drove down after flying back from Boston,

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<v Speaker 2>turned around, I'm back redpack and headed to the beach,

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<v Speaker 2>and there she was, and she left me a ticket. However, Kat,

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<v Speaker 2>can I be honest with you? Yeah, I don't want

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<v Speaker 2>to say I'm rude, but I expect it a little

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<v Speaker 2>more posh because you told me to wear a nice

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<v Speaker 2>dress and I felt, whoa, I'm overdressed. I was thinking

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<v Speaker 2>I was going to Miss America.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, okay, well, first, let me just say I

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<v Speaker 1>judged the Miss New Jersey pageant. There were twenty two

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<v Speaker 1>beautiful young ladies from all over New Jersey, but we

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<v Speaker 1>and the paget was held with the music pier and

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<v Speaker 1>you know it was it was so much fun. I

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<v Speaker 1>literally said to the other I was one of seven

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<v Speaker 1>judges and after look at these girl cvs. I called

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<v Speaker 1>my daughter and told her she was a slacker. As

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<v Speaker 1>a joke, but let me just say, Susan came down.

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<v Speaker 2>How about the family?

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<v Speaker 1>No, no, wait, I want to talk about Susan. I

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<v Speaker 1>want to talk about you. Because the talent was amazing, Susan.

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<v Speaker 1>The parking was at a premium. So I said to Susan, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>here we go. Where did your party?

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<v Speaker 2>Please do because of those of you that are listening,

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<v Speaker 2>you could just go online because there's a video, trust me,

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<v Speaker 2>And there's so many people giving me hell for this.

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<v Speaker 2>So I am like minutes. I had to perform a

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<v Speaker 2>wedding first and a plus hour plus away. So I'm flying,

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<v Speaker 2>of course, to get there on time because at nine

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<v Speaker 2>o'clock the doors were going to be locked, correct, Kathy.

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<v Speaker 2>So now and I gotta fine parking. And right at

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<v Speaker 2>the police station, I hear public, I see public parking.

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<v Speaker 2>I pull on in park my car. I've I'm looking

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<v Speaker 2>to pay somewhere. There's nowhere to pay. Great, I run

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<v Speaker 2>up the board walk. I'm like perspiring, trying to get

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<v Speaker 2>I make it on time. Well, when we leave, there

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<v Speaker 2>was a view.

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<v Speaker 1>From the police. Yeah, so the police ask you very kindly,

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<v Speaker 1>do not part in their lot.

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<v Speaker 2>No, please move your car. This is police parking only. Asapi.

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<v Speaker 2>How sweet was that?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, so if we get so after that, we go back,

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<v Speaker 1>after the whole thing was over, we go to a

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<v Speaker 1>party with the judges. Susan goes out with some other

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<v Speaker 1>friends for dinner. We all come back to my hotel

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<v Speaker 1>room and we're all sitting out on the patio having

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<v Speaker 1>a good old time. You know, you can't really talk

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<v Speaker 1>about the pageant because that's sort of confidential how we

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<v Speaker 1>judge and all that. But the next day, Susan I

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<v Speaker 1>go to the beach. People are recognized us on the beach.

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<v Speaker 1>It was great with you know how much they love

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<v Speaker 1>the show and they want to see us back on

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<v Speaker 1>another show. So we loved her in that. Now we

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<v Speaker 1>get in the car to drive to your jersey.

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<v Speaker 2>You forgot the best part. We went to the board

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<v Speaker 2>walk in that pizza because she needs to eat.

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<v Speaker 1>Wait. Can I just ask y'all when we go to

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<v Speaker 1>sit down in this restaurant, Susan said, I'd like a.

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<v Speaker 2>Slice, nice birch beer and a coke.

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<v Speaker 1>And I said to her, what's a slice? She goes

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<v Speaker 1>a slice of pizza. I said, but what kind of

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<v Speaker 1>pizza she goes? It's a regular slice pizza. Cheese pizza.

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<v Speaker 1>I said, where I'm from, you say, I'm like a

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<v Speaker 1>piece of pepperoni pizza. I'd like a vegetarian. She goes, No, here,

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<v Speaker 1>you just say you want a slice and they give.

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<v Speaker 2>You redf you want one with? If you want it one,

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<v Speaker 2>you would say, can I have a slice with pepperoni?

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<v Speaker 2>Like we know in this land.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm telling you it is a whole different world. When

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<v Speaker 1>I arrived in Philadelphia at the parking garage, guy told

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<v Speaker 1>me not to come back. I was like, it's the

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<v Speaker 1>city of brotherly love and Philly anyway.

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<v Speaker 2>It is just how you greet them, baby girl.

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<v Speaker 1>I guess it was something.

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<v Speaker 2>Anyhow, we have a full week ahead of us. Our

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<v Speaker 2>friend Nancy's going to join us on Wednesday. We've been

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<v Speaker 2>cleaning the pool and she's rearranging my furniture because I

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<v Speaker 2>got a new umbrella for over the table. It's been crazy.

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<v Speaker 1>We get here, I'm here and Susan says, help me outside.

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<v Speaker 1>We're moving patio furniture. I'm lugging iron tables. She's power washing.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like she's having a wedding in the backyard. I said, Susan,

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<v Speaker 1>it's Nancy and me. We don't care, no, no, I

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<v Speaker 1>have to have it just right. Wait, one more thing.

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<v Speaker 1>I just want to say one more thing about the

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<v Speaker 1>trip to Jersey. First of all, Ocean Sydney, New Jersey

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<v Speaker 1>was wonderful. I've never walked on a boardwalk. It was fabulous.

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<v Speaker 1>Here's the thing. I had all this luggage because I

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<v Speaker 1>had to dress up for the pageant. Susan has a

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<v Speaker 1>two seats, it's a four seater, but it's a Mercedes convertible,

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<v Speaker 1>so it's a very small car. I've got a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of luggage from the show and now being here week,

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<v Speaker 1>Susan goes, we'll just put down the top on the

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<v Speaker 1>car and lift the luggage over. Do I need to

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<v Speaker 1>tell y'all people were standing in the parking lot laughing.

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<v Speaker 1>It truly was Ethel and Lucy trying to get this

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<v Speaker 1>luggage in the car. Hour later, we're sweating to death,

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<v Speaker 1>which we find out the top of it.

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<v Speaker 2>Won't go down, won't go down, it will not work

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<v Speaker 2>right anyway, get broken. But it's all good. Now, everything

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<v Speaker 2>is perfect.

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<v Speaker 1>Anyway. We are now in Philadelphia waiting for Nancy to arrive.

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<v Speaker 2>You're gonna have fun this week. Stay tuned because we'll

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<v Speaker 2>talk about that as well.

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<v Speaker 1>So one thing has changed. Dating has not changing our

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<v Speaker 1>life so well.

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<v Speaker 2>And this week that's what we're going to talk about.

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<v Speaker 2>Finding the right person and how you know if they

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<v Speaker 2>actually are That's something, Kathy, I'll never know because I

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<v Speaker 2>keep trying.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, So a little story that just happened, which didn't

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<v Speaker 1>even know we were going to be talking about this.

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<v Speaker 1>A very good girlfriend of mine just called me. She's

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<v Speaker 1>been dating this guy. He's very jealous, no matter if

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<v Speaker 1>she talks to another client, whatever, and she keeps breaking

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<v Speaker 1>up and going back, breaking up and going back. So

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, get on a new dating app. Let's hop, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>why do you keep dating the same person and thinking

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<v Speaker 1>it's gonna change?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's the story of my life. So, Kathy, if

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<v Speaker 2>dating apps existed when we were in our twenties, do

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<v Speaker 2>you think he would abuse them?

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<v Speaker 1>I was married in my twenties. I was married.

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<v Speaker 2>Nothing ever applies to her. She's been married since she

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<v Speaker 2>was born.

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<v Speaker 1>But wait a second, let me say to you. I

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<v Speaker 1>think in our twenties computers were not a thing. Everything

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<v Speaker 1>was more organic. When you and I were young, you

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<v Speaker 1>went to bars technology. That's what I'm saying so if

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<v Speaker 1>dating apps had existed, I actually do think people would

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<v Speaker 1>have used them twenty year olds. Yea, I wouldn't tried it.

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<v Speaker 1>I think I would have tried it. But when we

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<v Speaker 1>were young, did you want a lot of blind dates?

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<v Speaker 2>Never?

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<v Speaker 1>You know, it's so funny you said that the only

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<v Speaker 1>blind day day ever went on was the guy I

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<v Speaker 1>ended up marrying. I met him on a bike.

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<v Speaker 2>He walked into a room and saw him across the

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<v Speaker 2>room and said, I'm going to marry that man.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what it was. But they had set me up.

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<v Speaker 1>They want my roommate knew they all those three knew

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<v Speaker 1>each other, so it was just coincidental. I looked across

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<v Speaker 1>the room and yeah, I guess it was sort of

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<v Speaker 1>half a blind date. I don't know. Okay, So what's

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<v Speaker 1>scared do you? If you've never had a blind date?

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<v Speaker 1>What would be scared of you? Walking into a blind

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<v Speaker 1>date or creating your own profile for a dating app?

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<v Speaker 2>Walking into a blind date? Creating a profiles? Easy?

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<v Speaker 1>So okay, so I've been on would you consider a

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<v Speaker 1>day that a guy that you meet on a dating app?

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<v Speaker 1>Would you consider that a blind date?

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<v Speaker 2>No? Definitely not. So I used to say when I

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<v Speaker 2>was on the dating apps and I used to say,

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<v Speaker 2>we're going to have a meet and then we will

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<v Speaker 2>decide at that time whether we want to plan a date.

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<v Speaker 2>That's not a date. Everybody thinks, oh I have a date.

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<v Speaker 2>I have a date. You didn't even meet him yet,

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<v Speaker 2>it's not a date, okay, And some people could tell

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<v Speaker 2>him five minutes.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. Well, so, so do you think dating apps have

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<v Speaker 1>ruined romance? Because I think so. You know, let's face it,

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<v Speaker 1>a swipe is real easy, right. You know, we'll talk

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<v Speaker 1>about this a little bit later but in this podcast.

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<v Speaker 1>But swiping, I think it's like it's almost like you're

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<v Speaker 1>interviewing for a job. Does it doesn't feel romantic to me?

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<v Speaker 2>It doesn't feel doesn't swiping to me. It's all about

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<v Speaker 2>what I see. So it's only a picture. And more

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<v Speaker 2>times than not, if you met somebody that wasn't as

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<v Speaker 2>strikingly handsome to you, yet you were talking to them

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<v Speaker 2>and got to know them, they're great, and all of

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<v Speaker 2>a sudden they become better looking because of their personality. Yes,

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<v Speaker 2>that's what's lacking on the dating apps. And I feel

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<v Speaker 2>like men and women as well, don't give it any time.

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<v Speaker 2>They don't try at all, because it's too much easier

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<v Speaker 2>to go back. There's twenty thousand more out there, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, that's what I'm saying, there's too much. There's such

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<v Speaker 1>a thing as too much choice. But it also, like

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<v Speaker 1>you just said, it makes looks the primary thing where

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<v Speaker 1>if you talk to someone, you might really engage with

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<v Speaker 1>him and feel like, oh, I don't know what this

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<v Speaker 1>guy looks like, but you know he's interesting, he's fun.

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<v Speaker 1>I'd like to meet him. I don't know. To me, Ugh,

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<v Speaker 1>there's for me.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not let's get into the pet peeves. Holy smokes.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean I did notice. Sometimes men will put pictures

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<v Speaker 2>and you're like, okay, okay, and you're going down, You're

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<v Speaker 2>going down. They're getting older, they're getting older, and then

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<v Speaker 2>last one is like the real I go, oh my god.

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<v Speaker 1>That oh no, Susan. The pet peeve should be when

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<v Speaker 1>the guy puts a really good way, which is what

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<v Speaker 1>happens to me. The guy it's a really good picture. Guys,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, he might be in his sixties, but he's

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<v Speaker 1>a good sixties looking and you think, oh, this guy's

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<v Speaker 1>good looking. Then you scroll and you get pictures him

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<v Speaker 1>when he was twenty in his Weenie grabberr bathing suit.

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<v Speaker 1>And then you see one picture when he's sting the grandchildren.

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<v Speaker 1>I know, I said, but the first one really engages you.

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<v Speaker 1>My pet peeve is not that. My pet peeve is

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<v Speaker 1>when the guy I literally when I see a guy

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<v Speaker 1>holding a bear can wearing a baseball cap on backwards.

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<v Speaker 2>And holding on holding the fish.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I'll tell you that guy's out for me. It's like,

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<v Speaker 1>look what I caught, And I'm like, you're not catching me.

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<v Speaker 2>Well guess what. Hopefully, if any men or listener or

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<v Speaker 2>any women that have men friends, please educate them. Don't

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<v Speaker 2>take a selfie in the bathroom without a shirt on,

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<v Speaker 2>especially with a towel wrapped around. Okay, you have a

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<v Speaker 2>great body, but you're flawing it. It's stupid. We can't

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<v Speaker 2>even take you seriously. Right.

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<v Speaker 1>Another pet peeve of mine is you get a picture

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<v Speaker 1>of four guys standing on a golf course. You don't

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<v Speaker 1>know what exactly they have sunglasses on, and you know

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<v Speaker 1>their their golf cap. Okay, was it?

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<v Speaker 2>Any meanie?

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<v Speaker 1>MINEU? Moe? Like, how do you pick one? And like,

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<v Speaker 1>of course I want to go after the one that

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<v Speaker 1>looks the best and it's always the guy who is

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<v Speaker 1>holding a dead fish that is going to be.

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<v Speaker 2>What would you say would make a good profile for you? Like,

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<v Speaker 2>what if you're scrolling?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, Susan, that is so easy for me. I have

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<v Speaker 1>dated because I have dated men who write absolutely nothing,

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<v Speaker 1>and that is not a good dating profile. I've dated

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<v Speaker 1>guys who wrote, you know, the next American great novel

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<v Speaker 1>or should I say autobiography. I'm bored to tears, because

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<v Speaker 1>then there's nothing to talk about when you meet them.

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<v Speaker 1>If I know everything about them. What I want to

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<v Speaker 1>know when I read a guy's profile, I want to

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<v Speaker 1>see a little humor. I want to see that the

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<v Speaker 1>guy's adventurous. Like I don't need your trip journal from

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<v Speaker 1>the last twenty years of every country you've been to,

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<v Speaker 1>Just telling me you like to travel, maybe your favorite country,

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<v Speaker 1>if you like to cook, tell me some of your hobbies.

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<v Speaker 1>One thing I love when a guy writes his idea

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<v Speaker 1>of a perfect first date. That tells me a lot. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>what about you? I like, what do you like?

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<v Speaker 2>Well? I do so, as I said I was guilty of.

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<v Speaker 2>If somebody cut my eye a little bit, I would

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<v Speaker 2>scroll down and then read I want to know how

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<v Speaker 2>tall he is, I want to know where he's located. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>then I'll read his words and not until then because

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<v Speaker 2>if it's too far away or and we all know

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<v Speaker 2>how that works with me with the long distance thing,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm living and learning. But it would have to be

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<v Speaker 2>somebody that I caught my eye, that I slowed down

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<v Speaker 2>and I want to read about, and like I said,

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<v Speaker 2>age distance.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, so wait a minute. So for you in your

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<v Speaker 1>dating profile, you're absolutely going by looks because if I

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<v Speaker 1>see a guy, even if he's not the best looking.

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<v Speaker 2>But yeah, that's what I said. If somebody's okay looking,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm going to slow down and read about it.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I mean if a guy. I'm being honest. Guys,

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<v Speaker 1>if you want a woman, unless you have a checkbook

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<v Speaker 1>with a lot of zeros, and then you can probably

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<v Speaker 1>have whoever you want. Not me, but you can have

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<v Speaker 1>most other women if you have a big fat checkbook.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't have to be fit, you don't have to

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<v Speaker 1>do anything. Just put your bank balance as your profile

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<v Speaker 1>and say women interesting.

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<v Speaker 2>That's right, you'll track the wrong people. Well, I do

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<v Speaker 2>have a question for you, Kathy, when being on one

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<v Speaker 2>of these Okay, is there such a thing as etiquette,

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<v Speaker 2>dating app etiquette. It should be a law.

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<v Speaker 1>Actually, but well, no etiquette to me in dating apps. Wait, wait,

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<v Speaker 1>I want to just go back in a profile. Height

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<v Speaker 1>at our, age still matters to you. I just want

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<v Speaker 1>to go back for one seconds. I had a follow

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<v Speaker 1>up for me.

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<v Speaker 2>It does.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, how tall? How short will you go? How tall

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<v Speaker 1>will you go?

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<v Speaker 2>I wouldn't go my height. It would have to be

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<v Speaker 2>at least three inches taller.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>Somebody don't mind being taller than the man, and God

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<v Speaker 2>bless him, but me, I mind, that's all. Although I'm strong,

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<v Speaker 2>so it's not even that difficult anymore.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, so I am, I'm five eight. I will date

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<v Speaker 1>it five to nine. I don't care if he's got

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<v Speaker 1>the right personality and everything else, so I'm out the height.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not that important to me. I'm looking for you

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<v Speaker 1>profile some guy that isn't writing, like it's a brief

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<v Speaker 1>for a law review, like some interest do you want? Like?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you looking for some guy who might be funny, humored?

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<v Speaker 1>Does that matter to it all?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh? Got yes, But I can't tell that by words.

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<v Speaker 2>Sometimes they'll put that if they're if they're really good,

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<v Speaker 2>they know how to write and they know how to

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<v Speaker 2>express themselves. But I give most men the benefit of

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<v Speaker 2>the doubt. They don't know how to put that on paper.

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<v Speaker 2>So you have to have some kind of an interest

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<v Speaker 2>and then go meet. And that's where you can tell

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not one to do emails or text messages or

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<v Speaker 2>any of that. Let's do this, let's meet. We can

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<v Speaker 2>meet at a coffee shop. I don't care if we

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<v Speaker 2>can do a drive by dunk a Donuts or that's

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<v Speaker 2>interesting to see if we're interested in you know.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, well I'm still not done. On a dating app.

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<v Speaker 1>How do you put down your age preference? How how

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<v Speaker 1>old will you go?

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<v Speaker 2>Yes?

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<v Speaker 1>How much older?

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<v Speaker 2>Twelve years younger, up to ten years older?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, so so there's not.

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<v Speaker 2>That many men left out there, so you have to

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<v Speaker 2>expand on the age.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, if I go, you know, twelve years older, you

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<v Speaker 1>know I'm going to be buying them pushing a wheelchair

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<v Speaker 1>for them years older? Yeah, I can't. And but but

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<v Speaker 1>I also think what turns me off? And maybe it's

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<v Speaker 1>my age, but you know, I'm nothing to be honest

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<v Speaker 1>when I see a guy who's in their mid sixties,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, sixty five, sixty eight, Yeah, and I think

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<v Speaker 1>that's a good looking and then I go down and

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<v Speaker 1>I have literally read this on dating app looking for

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<v Speaker 1>women from fifty to fifty eight. And then I go

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<v Speaker 1>back and I go, wait a minute, this guy, so

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<v Speaker 1>that guy for me, even though I'm out at that.

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<v Speaker 2>Age range, and even message that guy.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh no, sometimes I'll see it. I'll see it. But

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<v Speaker 1>it's interesting to me that on dating apps, men often

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<v Speaker 1>put such particulars that they want yeah, and they're fine

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<v Speaker 1>too much. Well, that's because you're in filling the one.

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<v Speaker 2>I put that too much, even for my own when

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<v Speaker 2>I have a dating app, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not on Are you on dating apps? Do you

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<v Speaker 1>have dating apps? I'm not on dating apps right now?

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<v Speaker 2>Just break, took a break. Okay, let's atiquette.

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<v Speaker 1>Back to your question, right kid, Who.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you think should send the first message?

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<v Speaker 1>I think either person can send that. I have sent

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<v Speaker 1>the first message, I've received the first message. The hard

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<v Speaker 1>part for me is when I when I send up

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<v Speaker 1>the first message, I would say seventy five percent of

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<v Speaker 1>the time I got a response, and then we start talking.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think I think we're in a modern era

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<v Speaker 1>where you can send out the verset texts.

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<v Speaker 2>They so proud of that. Kathy, do you do with

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<v Speaker 2>my old school girlfriend? And I am very.

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<v Speaker 1>From in Philly? When in Philly do as Philadelphians do.

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<v Speaker 1>I told you I will send the first message or not.

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<v Speaker 1>Either way, I'm asking you if you will ever send

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<v Speaker 1>a first message?

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<v Speaker 2>Most definitely. I feel like if I swipe somebody that

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<v Speaker 2>I liked and then it's a match, of course I'm

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<v Speaker 2>going to send it out. Who knows when he swiped,

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<v Speaker 2>and you know he didn't see I was here, He

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<v Speaker 2>might have given up by then. Yeah, here's where you.

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<v Speaker 1>And I are going to differ. Here's okay, here's where

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<v Speaker 1>you and I are going to differ. I will chat

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<v Speaker 1>a couple of times I've honestly gone to I told

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<v Speaker 1>you I have a Google phone number, so I will

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<v Speaker 1>chat in the app once or twice. Then I'll say,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what, here's my phone number. Let's chat on

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<v Speaker 1>the punk. And oftentimes, once I've had that phone chat,

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<v Speaker 1>I can tell whether or not I want to meet them.

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<v Speaker 1>What do you do? How off? How fat quickly do you.

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<v Speaker 2>Meet sooner rather than later? Even for five minutes? Just

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<v Speaker 2>let's get a quick cope. It's easy. You go in,

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<v Speaker 2>buy coffee, chat for a minute, and let's set up

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<v Speaker 2>a date. If we like each other, the chemistry feels good,

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<v Speaker 2>then okay, let's set get your calendar out, I'll get

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<v Speaker 2>mine now. I don't think that's difficult at all. I

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<v Speaker 2>don't think it's difficult if you want to mind, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>but I don't want to waste anybody's time. So if

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<v Speaker 2>you couldn't, okay, So by the phone, I've chatted with

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<v Speaker 2>people and I was really excited. Yeah, and then you

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<v Speaker 2>go and it was a disappointment. So I'd rather just

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<v Speaker 2>get the eyed eye contact is what I'm about.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, you know, Susan, I'm hitting you with the question here,

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<v Speaker 1>be honest when you've met with somebody and it's a no,

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<v Speaker 1>And be honest. You set a five minute cup of coffee.

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<v Speaker 1>You can't even drink a cup of coffee in five minutes.

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<v Speaker 1>What is the shortest state you've ever had when you

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<v Speaker 1>met a gui?

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<v Speaker 2>Probably fifteen that you didn't want to see a guy?

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, yeah, twenty minutes.

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<v Speaker 1>And at the end of that you say, what, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't think we're gonna make it.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm guilty. I'm going to be honest because I'm sixty

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<v Speaker 2>nine years old, and honesty is the best way to go.

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<v Speaker 2>Don't judge me or judge me. I don't care. Yes,

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<v Speaker 2>I feel bad sometimes when I know I'm not interested,

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<v Speaker 2>but not one hundred percent. There was no ick. I

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<v Speaker 2>just didn't really think I was gonna want to. But

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<v Speaker 2>if they ask, not everybody asked. Sometimes it's mutual. Sometimes

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<v Speaker 2>we'll go, well, we'll text each other and let each

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<v Speaker 2>other know, you know, think about it or whatever, and

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<v Speaker 2>that's the easy way out. This is why I don't

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<v Speaker 2>understand why men can't take the easy way out and

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<v Speaker 2>send a little message. Just didn't feel the spark, just

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<v Speaker 2>not that into you. I'm sorry, I'm glad we met,

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<v Speaker 2>but I'm not feeling it. Whatever. A text is easy,

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<v Speaker 2>and you haven't spent time with somebody. So sometimes I

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<v Speaker 2>say yeah, let's get yeah, sure text me, And then

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<v Speaker 2>when they did it, then I say it because I

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<v Speaker 2>feel bad telling them face to.

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<v Speaker 1>Faces on that. I don't think that's bad. I think

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<v Speaker 1>that allows them and you to say face okay, do

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<v Speaker 1>you think you should? And do you date multiple people

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<v Speaker 1>at once?

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not against other people. I guess they do it.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't understand it. I don't date multiple people. I'm

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<v Speaker 2>a one on one person. I feel like, if you

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<v Speaker 2>want to date me, then you date me until you

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<v Speaker 2>make a decision whether you want to be with me

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<v Speaker 2>or not. But you can't date me on Friday night

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<v Speaker 2>and date Kathy on Saturday night and then Wednesday night

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<v Speaker 2>call Nancy. That doesn't work well.

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<v Speaker 1>If they date you Friday at me Saturday night, you're

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<v Speaker 1>out of the picture and they're never calling dance. I'm it. No,

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<v Speaker 1>here's what.

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<v Speaker 2>It's the only old school values.

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<v Speaker 1>To I was gonna say, because you and I, as

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<v Speaker 1>much as we love each other, we are different on

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<v Speaker 1>several things. I think, unless and I've done it a

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<v Speaker 1>few times, it's hard to keep you know, Jim and John.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I might mix up the names, But I

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<v Speaker 1>think until you're actually dating someone you really like. I

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<v Speaker 1>used to think when I first got on dating apps,

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<v Speaker 1>date them until you don't want to date them, then

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<v Speaker 1>go back to the app. But in the most recent

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<v Speaker 1>time I've been on dating app, I have to be honest.

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<v Speaker 1>I had a couple of dates with different guys because

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<v Speaker 1>I figure, you know, why why limit it? See if

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<v Speaker 1>you like the guy? And then if I've gone out

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<v Speaker 1>with them a few times, then I say goodbye to

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<v Speaker 1>the other one. I don't think either way is wrong, though,

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<v Speaker 1>I think you can do it either.

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<v Speaker 2>Way, I guess and for me, what I don't know

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<v Speaker 2>don't hurt me. So I want to know.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, okay, Susan, Yes, honest engine because I will be

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<v Speaker 1>honest as well. Have you ever googled someone before a

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<v Speaker 1>first date?

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<v Speaker 2>Not until I met you?

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<v Speaker 1>How? How does that mean?

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<v Speaker 2>I never did that. Didn't want to know. And you

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<v Speaker 2>always say you got to find out this, or my

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<v Speaker 2>other girlfriend says she's in a real estate Oh, I

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<v Speaker 2>could find out. This is like go whoa, wha what

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<v Speaker 2>that's a lot.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a lot I find out. Let me just tell

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<v Speaker 1>you something, especially if you're going to die when I

0:23:34.680 --> 0:23:37.399
<v Speaker 1>say this. But gosh, you all know out there that

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<v Speaker 1>Kathy speaks truth. When I'm interested in the guy and

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<v Speaker 1>I and I can tell someone's by their profile, if

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<v Speaker 1>I like the humor, if I like what their career was,

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<v Speaker 1>if I like their attitude, and then if I've talked

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<v Speaker 1>to him on the phone one time and we're going

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<v Speaker 1>to meet up, Oh yes, I I do, Susan. Have

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<v Speaker 1>a friend and I call my friend and I find out. You.

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<v Speaker 1>I have found out everything their ex wives, where they

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<v Speaker 1>how many homes where they lived, if they've ever been arrested.

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<v Speaker 1>Because I don't want to waste time on someone that

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<v Speaker 1>you know has a ward out for his arrest in

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<v Speaker 1>six states, you know what I mean? So I find out,

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<v Speaker 1>I find out. I find out. And there was one

0:24:18.920 --> 0:24:22.560
<v Speaker 1>guy I found out and I was called when we

0:24:22.560 --> 0:24:24.879
<v Speaker 1>were set up the date. I said, you know, I

0:24:24.960 --> 0:24:27.320
<v Speaker 1>was nice about it. I said, I've done some more

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<v Speaker 1>thinking and I actually don't think we're a very good match.

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<v Speaker 1>And you know why I'm able to do that because

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<v Speaker 1>I have a Google phone number and Google is not

0:24:36.200 --> 0:24:39.399
<v Speaker 1>paying me to say this, folks, But Google you can't trace,

0:24:39.760 --> 0:24:42.719
<v Speaker 1>So when a guy calls me on my Google phone number,

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<v Speaker 1>he cannot find out anything about me. I don't give

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<v Speaker 1>a guy my real phone number.

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<v Speaker 2>And that's fair that you can google them and they

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<v Speaker 2>can't google you.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, it's fair. Go get a Google phone number, buddy,

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<v Speaker 1>if you don't want me to find it out.

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<v Speaker 2>My oh god, I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 1>All right?

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<v Speaker 2>That How about if each of us, I don't know

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<v Speaker 2>even know how I'm going to do this, but come

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<v Speaker 2>up with a dating app Hot take talk to me

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<v Speaker 2>about what would be a hot take for a dating Okay,

0:25:12.400 --> 0:25:14.119
<v Speaker 2>I wish I could just own one because I do

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<v Speaker 2>things a lot.

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<v Speaker 1>Different real, but that's what you know I should do, Susan. Okay.

0:25:18.400 --> 0:25:22.480
<v Speaker 1>One of my hot takes is, uh, we already talked

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<v Speaker 1>about a little bit. You know, the men that put

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<v Speaker 1>pictures from antiquity on their profile and I'm looking and going, yeah,

0:25:28.720 --> 0:25:30.680
<v Speaker 1>you wish you look like that. That is a hot

0:25:30.720 --> 0:25:33.360
<v Speaker 1>take that men do not for the most and women too.

0:25:33.359 --> 0:25:36.239
<v Speaker 1>I shouldn't just say, man, I've seen women who you know,

0:25:36.320 --> 0:25:38.960
<v Speaker 1>are forty pounds heavier or thinner, whatever it is, they

0:25:38.960 --> 0:25:41.639
<v Speaker 1>don't look like they're pictures my I think my biggest

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<v Speaker 1>hot take for me is that men in their sixties

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<v Speaker 1>there if they even know how to get on a

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<v Speaker 1>dating app or take pictures and aren't sideways. Men just

0:25:52.720 --> 0:25:59.240
<v Speaker 1>aren't really computer savvy. They're not app savvy, so it's hard.

0:25:59.520 --> 0:26:03.679
<v Speaker 1>There's more women on dating apps than men at all ages,

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<v Speaker 1>I think.

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<v Speaker 2>And some that try to get on don't really know

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<v Speaker 2>what they're doing and they're embarrassed to tell another dude

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<v Speaker 2>take my picture for a dating app. I mean, the

0:26:14.400 --> 0:26:17.560
<v Speaker 2>younger people don't think twice about it. But people are aged.

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<v Speaker 2>It's something that's out of the comfort zone. So I

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<v Speaker 2>would like my hot take would be as a senior,

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<v Speaker 2>an older dating app. And I know they have them

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<v Speaker 2>out there right well there are helping the people with

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<v Speaker 2>their profile. Who's because sometimes they don't know how to

0:26:37.080 --> 0:26:39.960
<v Speaker 2>take a picture. Nobody told the guy don't do it

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<v Speaker 2>in the bathroom because there's a mirror, or in the

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<v Speaker 2>restroom at the gas station, like keep the fish out

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<v Speaker 2>of it. Although although Kathy, when you said the fish part,

0:26:52.240 --> 0:26:56.199
<v Speaker 2>if that's what they're into, that's their life. Maybe the

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<v Speaker 2>fish thing is a couple of pictures.

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<v Speaker 1>Well know that. Ahead of Tize said, let me just say,

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<v Speaker 1>if all the guys that have swiped on me that

0:27:04.880 --> 0:27:08.240
<v Speaker 1>I've looked at as many of them are holding fish,

0:27:08.880 --> 0:27:12.120
<v Speaker 1>if they are all serious deep sea fishermen, and it's

0:27:12.160 --> 0:27:16.000
<v Speaker 1>not just a nacation pick, the ocean should be devoid

0:27:16.040 --> 0:27:18.840
<v Speaker 1>of fish, and oh probably another five minutes. I mean,

0:27:19.440 --> 0:27:21.720
<v Speaker 1>no way, I'm not buying it. They just think, hey,

0:27:21.760 --> 0:27:25.199
<v Speaker 1>look at me, I'm manly. I look at this, you know,

0:27:25.440 --> 0:27:29.240
<v Speaker 1>eighteen inch cod that I caught, you know whatever, you

0:27:29.240 --> 0:27:31.400
<v Speaker 1>know what I'd love to do Susan swear to God

0:27:31.560 --> 0:27:33.840
<v Speaker 1>we should do this. We're going to run a boat,

0:27:34.200 --> 0:27:37.000
<v Speaker 1>We're going to go out and we're going to somehow

0:27:37.440 --> 0:27:39.680
<v Speaker 1>catch a shark and we're gonna say.

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<v Speaker 2>Freak Caddy. I want no parts of it, No way.

0:27:42.119 --> 0:27:44.439
<v Speaker 2>I was a lot of my friend's boat and they

0:27:44.440 --> 0:27:47.200
<v Speaker 2>were shark honey. I was like, are you kidding me?

0:27:47.240 --> 0:27:54.840
<v Speaker 2>Why am I here? Why am I here? What is

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<v Speaker 2>the funniest or oddest or most bizarre excuse someone ever

0:28:02.000 --> 0:28:05.280
<v Speaker 2>gave you for flaking on a date?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay? So the truth is I have actually never had

0:28:12.200 --> 0:28:14.760
<v Speaker 1>a date flake out on me. I just haven't had that.

0:28:15.400 --> 0:28:20.919
<v Speaker 1>But I have gotten out of some bad dates in

0:28:21.080 --> 0:28:22.640
<v Speaker 1>very humorous ways to want to hear.

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<v Speaker 2>Wait, were you already on the date? Yes? Or okay?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, okay, okay. So when I first started dating, I

0:28:29.760 --> 0:28:32.000
<v Speaker 1>didn't know, you know, I was married for almost forty

0:28:32.040 --> 0:28:34.240
<v Speaker 1>six years. I had no idea what I was doing.

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<v Speaker 1>So I would give either Mike, one of my kids,

0:28:37.520 --> 0:28:40.880
<v Speaker 1>or a friend tell them what was up, and say

0:28:42.080 --> 0:28:44.280
<v Speaker 1>I'm going to text you. I'd go to the bathroom

0:28:44.320 --> 0:28:46.520
<v Speaker 1>and I'd say it's all good. You don't have to

0:28:46.560 --> 0:28:50.440
<v Speaker 1>call or nine one one call me so i'd go

0:28:50.520 --> 0:28:53.040
<v Speaker 1>back to the table, and this one time it was

0:28:53.080 --> 0:28:54.959
<v Speaker 1>a nine to one one. Get me the hell out

0:28:55.000 --> 0:28:57.640
<v Speaker 1>of here. So I went back to the table and

0:28:57.680 --> 0:29:00.200
<v Speaker 1>I said, give me five minutes so it doesn't look bad.

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<v Speaker 1>Five minutes later, my phone rings, it's my friend, it's

0:29:03.640 --> 0:29:07.360
<v Speaker 1>not my kid. I answer it and I went, hello, Oh,

0:29:07.480 --> 0:29:09.880
<v Speaker 1>I said to the date, I'm sorry, I have to

0:29:09.920 --> 0:29:12.880
<v Speaker 1>answer this call. This is I remember when I said,

0:29:12.920 --> 0:29:15.720
<v Speaker 1>but I said, a damn's call. And I answered, I went,

0:29:17.640 --> 0:29:22.840
<v Speaker 1>you're oh my god, are you okay? Okay, calm down, Oh.

0:29:22.920 --> 0:29:24.400
<v Speaker 2>Calm down, make it sound good.

0:29:24.480 --> 0:29:28.520
<v Speaker 1>I will be the yes, No, it's okay. He'll certainly

0:29:28.600 --> 0:29:32.239
<v Speaker 1>understand it's okay. Literally, because you know me, Susan, I

0:29:32.240 --> 0:29:33.920
<v Speaker 1>can like I can do it on the spur of

0:29:33.960 --> 0:29:37.320
<v Speaker 1>the moment. And I hung up. I said, I am

0:29:37.600 --> 0:29:41.320
<v Speaker 1>so sorry, John, Tom, whatever your name is. My daughter

0:29:41.400 --> 0:29:44.520
<v Speaker 1>has had an emergency. She's pregnant and I don't know

0:29:44.560 --> 0:29:46.560
<v Speaker 1>if she's going into labor. I have to go. Her

0:29:46.640 --> 0:29:49.480
<v Speaker 1>husband's out of town. I need to go. I am

0:29:49.560 --> 0:29:52.200
<v Speaker 1>so sorry. I'd love to pay for the you know

0:29:52.280 --> 0:29:54.320
<v Speaker 1>whatever got up that I was out of there in

0:29:54.360 --> 0:29:57.360
<v Speaker 1>five minutes. Have you ever done it, by the way

0:29:58.480 --> 0:29:58.960
<v Speaker 1>a charm.

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<v Speaker 2>I usually go the bathroom and my phone's blowing up

0:30:02.320 --> 0:30:04.160
<v Speaker 2>and I have to give them a heads up, like

0:30:04.200 --> 0:30:07.800
<v Speaker 2>a thumbs up or you know, it's okay, but I'm

0:30:07.840 --> 0:30:11.840
<v Speaker 2>good because most of it was about they were paranoid

0:30:11.920 --> 0:30:14.560
<v Speaker 2>I was safe or not. Yeah, I do that, but

0:30:14.640 --> 0:30:19.640
<v Speaker 2>I don't think i've ever I cut it short and said, listen.

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<v Speaker 1>See, I'm not good at that. You and I've talked

0:30:21.360 --> 0:30:24.320
<v Speaker 1>about this. I'm not really good at looking at my

0:30:24.480 --> 0:30:27.720
<v Speaker 1>watch and saying, gee, it's getting light. I'm not really

0:30:27.760 --> 0:30:30.360
<v Speaker 1>good at that. I and I don't remember. This was

0:30:30.400 --> 0:30:33.720
<v Speaker 1>when I first started dating, and when you haven't dated

0:30:33.760 --> 0:30:37.360
<v Speaker 1>in a long time, navigating those waters are not easy

0:30:37.600 --> 0:30:39.120
<v Speaker 1>and that I feel uncomfortable.

0:30:39.320 --> 0:30:40.680
<v Speaker 2>Was not there to hurt anything.

0:30:40.680 --> 0:30:42.760
<v Speaker 1>And I don't remember who this guy was, but I

0:30:42.840 --> 0:30:46.720
<v Speaker 1>remember talking about uh. I met him on a dating app,

0:30:47.040 --> 0:30:50.600
<v Speaker 1>and I remember he sat there on this this was

0:30:50.640 --> 0:30:54.200
<v Speaker 1>our first date, talking about how I was the woman

0:30:54.280 --> 0:30:57.160
<v Speaker 1>he was looking for, and I thought, oh, this is

0:30:57.240 --> 0:30:59.800
<v Speaker 1>not happening. So I was, so, what about you? You

0:30:59.800 --> 0:31:01.040
<v Speaker 1>guys have a good story for me.

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<v Speaker 2>No, that's pretty much it. I like I said, give

0:31:04.240 --> 0:31:06.520
<v Speaker 2>the thumbs up in the bathroom or I can't wait

0:31:06.560 --> 0:31:08.520
<v Speaker 2>to get out of here kind of thing, and I

0:31:08.640 --> 0:31:10.840
<v Speaker 2>just speed it up and I'm finished by dinner and

0:31:10.880 --> 0:31:13.680
<v Speaker 2>I ask for coffee. Cut me out of here.

0:31:14.760 --> 0:31:18.960
<v Speaker 1>You know, I don't think. I think sometimes before we

0:31:19.040 --> 0:31:21.040
<v Speaker 1>move on to the next section, I gotta say this.

0:31:21.520 --> 0:31:27.959
<v Speaker 1>I think sometimes some men are so clueless and or

0:31:28.160 --> 0:31:31.520
<v Speaker 1>desperate to find a partner. And I'm guessing some women

0:31:31.600 --> 0:31:33.480
<v Speaker 1>are too. But you and I are we want the

0:31:33.560 --> 0:31:35.840
<v Speaker 1>right guy, or we don't want a guy, And so

0:31:37.160 --> 0:31:39.440
<v Speaker 1>I know you don't waste time. I don't waste time,

0:31:39.880 --> 0:31:41.760
<v Speaker 1>but I don't want to be mean about it. I

0:31:41.800 --> 0:31:42.600
<v Speaker 1>want to get on it, and.

0:31:42.640 --> 0:31:44.560
<v Speaker 2>I don't want to waste anyone else's time.

0:31:44.680 --> 0:31:45.360
<v Speaker 1>That's what I'm saying.

0:31:45.440 --> 0:31:48.760
<v Speaker 2>I don't wait about that before about at the end

0:31:48.760 --> 0:31:50.920
<v Speaker 2>of the date, when I always say no, no, no, no,

0:31:50.960 --> 0:31:53.840
<v Speaker 2>why insist let me pay for my share? You know,

0:31:53.880 --> 0:31:55.960
<v Speaker 2>because if I know I'm never going to see them again,

0:31:56.160 --> 0:32:00.480
<v Speaker 2>I'm not dating for dinners or appetizers. You know.

0:32:00.840 --> 0:32:04.080
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I'm with you. Hell oh gosh, all right, Well

0:32:04.360 --> 0:32:09.120
<v Speaker 1>on that happy note. Every week we answer questions from

0:32:09.200 --> 0:32:11.840
<v Speaker 1>listeners y'all know that, and we give them some expert

0:32:11.920 --> 0:32:16.160
<v Speaker 1>golden advice. We have a doozy of a question here tonight, Susan,

0:32:16.280 --> 0:32:17.440
<v Speaker 1>were really for And this.

0:32:17.520 --> 0:32:21.880
<v Speaker 2>Is from Mazie and she's from Scottsdale. I keep seeing

0:32:21.960 --> 0:32:25.840
<v Speaker 2>the same people on dating apps year after year. At

0:32:25.840 --> 0:32:30.920
<v Speaker 2>this point I know their jobs, their dogs' names, and

0:32:30.960 --> 0:32:36.239
<v Speaker 2>which photos they've been recycling since twenty twenty one. Is

0:32:36.320 --> 0:32:40.080
<v Speaker 2>this just the reality of modern dating? Or should I

0:32:40.200 --> 0:32:43.320
<v Speaker 2>take it as a sign that everyone worth dating has

0:32:43.600 --> 0:32:49.160
<v Speaker 2>already left the apps? You know, Katy, It's funny after

0:32:49.280 --> 0:32:51.720
<v Speaker 2>a few year break and I go back on, they're

0:32:51.760 --> 0:32:55.520
<v Speaker 2>the same bee ball, nothing change. They don't even update

0:32:55.560 --> 0:32:57.520
<v Speaker 2>their app, I mean, their their profile.

0:32:57.960 --> 0:33:00.720
<v Speaker 1>Well, first of all, Daisy, you're in scott so go

0:33:00.760 --> 0:33:03.560
<v Speaker 1>hang out at golf course. You'll find some great guys.

0:33:03.560 --> 0:33:08.680
<v Speaker 1>That's my first advice to you. I I think there

0:33:08.800 --> 0:33:14.360
<v Speaker 1>are a lot of repeat offenders on the on the apps,

0:33:14.440 --> 0:33:20.240
<v Speaker 1>but I also think that at our age it's tough

0:33:20.320 --> 0:33:23.920
<v Speaker 1>to find the person you're looking for. Sure is so

0:33:25.160 --> 0:33:27.400
<v Speaker 1>those guys that are still on are.

0:33:27.360 --> 0:33:29.400
<v Speaker 2>Maybe not enough people our age on.

0:33:29.640 --> 0:33:32.080
<v Speaker 1>That's what I'm saying, you know, That's what I'm saying.

0:33:32.120 --> 0:33:36.920
<v Speaker 1>And so you and I specifically we're looking for we're

0:33:36.960 --> 0:33:40.400
<v Speaker 1>looking for a special guy who matches our energy and

0:33:40.440 --> 0:33:42.719
<v Speaker 1>all that. Right, Well, there aren't that many guys, so

0:33:43.240 --> 0:33:45.280
<v Speaker 1>we look at him or like that guy's been here,

0:33:45.400 --> 0:33:48.000
<v Speaker 1>Because that guy's been here. Maybe he just doesn't know

0:33:48.000 --> 0:33:49.440
<v Speaker 1>how to date. Maybe he doesn't.

0:33:50.280 --> 0:33:52.360
<v Speaker 2>And what, guys, those of you listen, if you have

0:33:52.400 --> 0:33:55.480
<v Speaker 2>a story for us, you know what to do. Send

0:33:55.560 --> 0:33:59.800
<v Speaker 2>that story in or your question in Bachelor nation dot

0:33:59.840 --> 0:34:04.120
<v Speaker 2>com slash Golding hour old on Katy, we would take

0:34:04.200 --> 0:34:05.320
<v Speaker 2>that in a minute.

0:34:05.440 --> 0:34:10.040
<v Speaker 1>Wait a second, Hold on, are you saying that if

0:34:10.080 --> 0:34:13.120
<v Speaker 1>a guy has been there since twenty twenty one and

0:34:13.160 --> 0:34:16.040
<v Speaker 1>he sent us his story, you're going for that guy.

0:34:17.480 --> 0:34:20.440
<v Speaker 2>No, I'm saying people out there listening to these stories,

0:34:20.640 --> 0:34:24.080
<v Speaker 2>if they have a story that we'd like to talk about,

0:34:24.160 --> 0:34:26.960
<v Speaker 2>we will share it like this is funny, you know

0:34:27.040 --> 0:34:27.480
<v Speaker 2>what I mean?

0:34:27.719 --> 0:34:28.040
<v Speaker 1>Got it?

0:34:28.080 --> 0:34:30.319
<v Speaker 2>I'm just reminding them where to send it down.

0:34:30.520 --> 0:34:33.480
<v Speaker 1>Not just your stories. We want your questions, your contents,

0:34:33.560 --> 0:34:36.319
<v Speaker 1>We want it all and by the way, we might

0:34:36.840 --> 0:34:39.879
<v Speaker 1>actually answer your question and we definitely want to hear

0:34:39.960 --> 0:34:40.560
<v Speaker 1>your stories.

0:34:40.680 --> 0:34:42.759
<v Speaker 2>All right, God, all right here, we got we got

0:34:42.800 --> 0:34:46.080
<v Speaker 2>a game. Okay, you ready, yep? All right, We're going

0:34:46.160 --> 0:34:50.880
<v Speaker 2>to tell each other what their answer should be based

0:34:50.920 --> 0:34:55.400
<v Speaker 2>off the prompt that we say. All right, So Kathy's

0:34:55.480 --> 0:35:00.560
<v Speaker 2>profile for me, Susan will brag about you to her

0:35:00.719 --> 0:35:01.800
<v Speaker 2>friends if.

0:35:06.239 --> 0:35:09.799
<v Speaker 1>You are handsome, have a home in the Hamptons and

0:35:09.880 --> 0:35:17.200
<v Speaker 1>a very large checkbook. All right, that's you think it's.

0:35:18.400 --> 0:35:21.000
<v Speaker 2>Susan is weirdly attracted to.

0:35:23.760 --> 0:35:27.120
<v Speaker 1>Men who can dance and cook.

0:35:28.440 --> 0:35:30.440
<v Speaker 2>That's a good one. That one you got the first one.

0:35:30.440 --> 0:35:34.080
<v Speaker 2>You're wrong, but go ahead. The key to her heart is.

0:35:34.600 --> 0:35:37.640
<v Speaker 1>Giving her lots and lots and lots. How much time

0:35:37.680 --> 0:35:39.280
<v Speaker 1>do we have of attention?

0:35:39.840 --> 0:35:40.279
<v Speaker 2>Very good?

0:35:40.360 --> 0:35:45.160
<v Speaker 1>All right, you go. Okay, Susan's app for Kathy, Kathy

0:35:45.239 --> 0:35:46.480
<v Speaker 1>goes crazy.

0:35:46.200 --> 0:35:58.280
<v Speaker 2>For smart, smart men that have had a successful career.

0:35:59.520 --> 0:36:01.360
<v Speaker 1>That's all. How about kind?

0:36:02.080 --> 0:36:04.359
<v Speaker 2>All right, well that's what I first thought of. All right,

0:36:04.400 --> 0:36:05.680
<v Speaker 2>go ahead to the next one.

0:36:06.120 --> 0:36:09.160
<v Speaker 1>Kathy's biggest pet peeve is.

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<v Speaker 2>You got a lot of them. Somebody that doesn't tell

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<v Speaker 2>the truth, Somebody that can't afford life. Somebody that says

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<v Speaker 2>he's a go get her and a doer and he

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<v Speaker 2>sits on the couch. What's your phrase that you say?

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<v Speaker 1>I used to be I used to guy. Now, my

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<v Speaker 1>biggest pet peeve is a guy who says he's it's

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<v Speaker 1>they used to be one who says he's all that

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<v Speaker 1>is all right, Kathy, answer nicely, Susan. Kathy winds down.

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<v Speaker 2>By pouring a glass of wine and having some.

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<v Speaker 1>Nuts, or she's right, or chat with a good friend.

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<v Speaker 2>But yeah, getting on the phone.

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<v Speaker 1>Or needle point. All right, well there's you know, we

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<v Speaker 1>gotta play that.

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<v Speaker 2>Game again again. Let's free dude. Susan's first one. Susan

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<v Speaker 2>will brag about you to her friends if.

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<v Speaker 1>You are kind and generous to her. No, okay, what

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<v Speaker 1>I would say to that? Okay?

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<v Speaker 2>What if you make her laugh?

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<v Speaker 1>Susan? Everyone makes you laugh?

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<v Speaker 2>No, I make everyone laugh. But somebody that makes me

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<v Speaker 2>laugh and can dance, forget about I'm going to brag

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<v Speaker 2>about you. We had so much fun.

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<v Speaker 1>Really, that's it. If they make you laugh.

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<v Speaker 2>I love a man that could make me laugh.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, so why but I would not say that's the

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<v Speaker 1>first thing. I wouldn't know.

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<v Speaker 2>It's not the first. It's saying I would brag about

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<v Speaker 2>him to my friends.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't need it.

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<v Speaker 2>When I when I had met Fred a long time ago,

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<v Speaker 2>I brag, Oh my god, it was so great. We laughed.

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<v Speaker 2>We couldn't understand each other. We dance. It was like that.

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<v Speaker 1>See I will say that's why I said, a guy

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<v Speaker 1>who will give you a lot of attention, who will

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<v Speaker 1>cook for you.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, the attention part was definitely right.

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<v Speaker 1>Definitely listen. Now that we know what our profiles are

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<v Speaker 1>for each other.

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<v Speaker 2>Send somebody our way.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you please, and in the meantime, thank you all

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<v Speaker 1>for joining us for Bachelor Golden Hour. It's always so

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<v Speaker 1>much fun.

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<v Speaker 2>It definitely is, and you guys hear me every week,

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<v Speaker 2>so I'm going to do it again. Make sure to

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<v Speaker 2>rate us, review us, and subscribe wherever you listen to

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<v Speaker 2>your podcast and.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what to do. You can follow Golden Hour

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<v Speaker 1>on social media at Bachelor Happy Hour and at Bachelor Nation.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, and don't forget about our Bachelor Nation cruise. It's

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<v Speaker 2>creeping up on us. But you know what I heard,

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<v Speaker 2>it was sold out. Kat.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll tell you know what. You and I are gonna

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<v Speaker 1>have so much fun. We're gonna do a live podcast there,

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<v Speaker 1>but until next week, until we see you again, Susan

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<v Speaker 1>and I will both be winding down right here.

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<v Speaker 2>I think I got to open the wine. I'm going

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<v Speaker 2>to cook her dinner though, actually so We will see

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<v Speaker 2>you next week.

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<v Speaker 1>Everybody, mhm.