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Speaker 1: her name is some Maya and I'm here with my girls.
Speaker 1: Be simone, pretty be. It's your girl, just in a
Speaker 1: Valentine and I got some more questions. So we're about
Speaker 1: to get fighted. So how do y'all masturbate it? Well,
Speaker 1: all be trying to think you do y'all just be
Speaker 1: laying on yay. I'd be up in the hood the
Speaker 1: hood you were talking about. I just I just could
Speaker 1: do like a little touch. I'm not fingering myself when
Speaker 1: I do this. I'll just be like I'm like touching
Speaker 1: like that hood area. And you know, it's just real
Speaker 1: easy for me. That's why I can't believe. Like when
Speaker 1: you guys say you're not sure if you orgasm, and
Speaker 1: I'm like, the common common women have not ever had Yes,
Speaker 1: that's what I wanted to know. What have never had
Speaker 1: an orgasm? But think about it. The first time you
Speaker 1: get dick, you just know it felt good, so you
Speaker 1: settle for that. It's like everything else in life. You
Speaker 1: get a job to pay you more than you've ever had,
Speaker 1: so you stop even yes, like people are completed or
Speaker 1: it might be a great job, but that don't mean
Speaker 1: that that's it. So eight percent of women haven't had
Speaker 1: an orgasm, not at all, especially a hetero sexual sex
Speaker 1: not at all. So that's another thing. So like when
Speaker 1: absolutely insane. But that's the thing if you if you
Speaker 1: become a millionaire, right, you have to work just as
Speaker 1: hard to keep it right. So you have to keep
Speaker 1: doing the work. We get dick one time and somebody
Speaker 1: say they love us, and we be done. Oh that's
Speaker 1: my that's my baby. This is good, and you just stop.
Speaker 1: You don't even keep searching. But that's because we don't
Speaker 1: invest any time or money into our sex life because well,
Speaker 1: I mean, I got them. Guess what, anything that you get,
Speaker 1: it takes a lot to maintain it. Yes, to keep
Speaker 1: to get better. Like if you don't do, if you
Speaker 1: stop studying, if you stop doing everything that it took
Speaker 1: you to become a millionaire, you will be broke that
Speaker 1: you ain't but broke. You might have made a million dollars,
Speaker 1: but you that don't make you a millionaire. You're not
Speaker 1: gonna make another one. That's gonna be the last name.
Speaker 1: And it's just easier to talk to people about money.
Speaker 1: Didn't talk about their pussy. But if you just exchange
Speaker 1: the words, it's the same ship. And that's basically it's basically,
Speaker 1: guess what I'm doing right now? Somebody, what's what you're doing? Yes?
Speaker 1: Playing in your head? Were they with the person? We
Speaker 1: can do We can't see you something that nobody can see,
Speaker 1: playing with your busy for you, but be if you
Speaker 1: haven't been masturbated, and that thing is tight as hell.
Speaker 1: Forget about the kegles, get to the it's gonna be months.
Speaker 1: You're good. You're good, you don't need any Get whole
Speaker 1: new couch. That's good for you. You three our hold
Speaker 1: what is it? Three? Hold hope for three seconds and
Speaker 1: then release. But also doing two to three times a day,
Speaker 1: that's a really good way to milk the dick though,
Speaker 1: So like you know, milking the dick is like y'all
Speaker 1: ever be stroking the dick and y'all feel that vain
Speaker 1: pop out and oh yeah, he about to come. So
Speaker 1: you could do that like with your mouth. You can
Speaker 1: that with your pussy. You can do that with your hands,
Speaker 1: but a lot of people don't really know how to
Speaker 1: do it with your pussy, which is basically like when
Speaker 1: you're going up on the dick, Like when say you're
Speaker 1: sitting all the way on the dick when you're coming up,
Speaker 1: grip it and then she just grabbed it dick. I
Speaker 1: know y'all can't see it, but you grip it with
Speaker 1: your pussy and then like when you sit back down,
Speaker 1: let go then when you come up right. But a
Speaker 1: lot of people on the way up and that's why
Speaker 1: it's like, that's why you should practice like holding it
Speaker 1: for three seconds because otherwise you'll be real tired, um,
Speaker 1: And you just practice it over time. You just even
Speaker 1: if you don't notice it, do it with your partner,
Speaker 1: like if you if you have somebody that you fucking
Speaker 1: be like, babe, I'm really trying to up this pussy
Speaker 1: game for us, right, talk about it. Can you feel
Speaker 1: me squeezing on this dick? Now? He may say no
Speaker 1: a little bit, but just keep practicing. No, but that's cute.
Speaker 1: Some hot dogs down that I was doing that to him.
Speaker 1: He's like, you just squeeze on it. Look at her
Speaker 1: blood ship strong to do that. I can like make oh,
Speaker 1: never say I had sex. I had sex in the
Speaker 1: seventh grade. I ain't gonna die. I really feel like
Speaker 1: I see it. I see how you see how her
Speaker 1: voice change or her eyes changed, like when she started
Speaker 1: talking about it, like her whole domeanor change, and it's
Speaker 1: all like real cute. I feel like I'm a freak
Speaker 1: and I never had an orgasm? What kind of stuff
Speaker 1: y'all think y'all be doing this? Like freaky? I think
Speaker 1: we should talk about before we get into it, because
Speaker 1: I want to make sure I apply. Okay, you gotta
Speaker 1: be certified to be a sexpert. You gotta be certified,
Speaker 1: or you could just be teaching it ahead and just teaching.
Speaker 1: You could be um. So it's almost like your master's degree.
Speaker 1: So if you're a certified sexologist tech, just like for
Speaker 1: your masters, you have to have coursework you have to
Speaker 1: have experience, you have to have a whole bunch of stuff.
Speaker 1: So a lot of people don't even get certified in
Speaker 1: sex work until there are years in the game. So
Speaker 1: they have a whole bunch of classes that you can
Speaker 1: take that qualify you, just like your master's degree UM
Speaker 1: to get certified. I refuse to just take any of
Speaker 1: them because they might not all be dedicated to what
Speaker 1: I like to teach. So so far, I've taken UM
Speaker 1: the Tantra certification class, and I'm a very thorough ass woman.
Speaker 1: So I like to be really good at something, and
Speaker 1: I had to retake the class because it was so
Speaker 1: much stuff to learn, and it's like it really challenged me,
Speaker 1: like the ship was hard, not because it's actually hard,
Speaker 1: but it requires you to be still and trust your body.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, Like tantric sex. Oh my god,
Speaker 1: what does that? What does that mean? Oh? My goodness?
Speaker 1: So Tan Trick, It's like, all right, so bear with me, y'all.
Speaker 1: Know how like when you go on vacation, you didn't
Speaker 1: left everything at home, you left them kids at home,
Speaker 1: you didn't let work, You ain't talking about social media,
Speaker 1: like you ain't gonna do ship phone, don't do not
Speaker 1: disturb you smell the ocean, you feel free. You breathe
Speaker 1: in deep, you take a deep breast of the air
Speaker 1: like that, let go feeling where you're very aware of
Speaker 1: everything around you. That is tantric, right, But our life
Speaker 1: has a so robotic because we have to get through
Speaker 1: the day, which is why they tell us to meditate
Speaker 1: throughout the day because it brings you back to present,
Speaker 1: which is why people bring plants to their desk to
Speaker 1: remind us that we are more than what we do. Right,
Speaker 1: when we have sex, a lot of us are kind
Speaker 1: of doing the action because we horny, and there's nothing
Speaker 1: wrong with that, but it's really great when you can
Speaker 1: calm down and feel everything your body is feeling because
Speaker 1: a lot of us have trauma. Right, So, if anybody
Speaker 1: has ever touched you inappropriately, or if you've ever felt uncomfortable,
Speaker 1: like even me with men. Men make me very uncomfortable
Speaker 1: because a lot of them are creepy. At the grocery store,
Speaker 1: you don't even realize. Sometimes you'll ask be clinched when
Speaker 1: you walk past the man because he's making you you
Speaker 1: don't like. You don't know if he's gonna say something.
Speaker 1: Sometimes he's looking at you like real weird. Well, that's
Speaker 1: another reason for the eighteen or forty minutes for four
Speaker 1: play because when you sit down with somebody, yes, you
Speaker 1: can feel it, but you really don't even know how
Speaker 1: you feel it. And you know this, this is a
Speaker 1: good way to test it. When you go to the O, B, G,
Speaker 1: Y N. Do you get horny? No, because you know
Speaker 1: how to accept when someone is touching your body and
Speaker 1: when someone is being sexual with your body. And you're
Speaker 1: crazy if you think that you can just flip that
Speaker 1: switch on and off. So tear trick practices help us
Speaker 1: get better at really feeling. It's like being super vulnerable
Speaker 1: and exposed, but you have to keep yes, and we
Speaker 1: have to keep ourselves safe during the day. So having
Speaker 1: tantric practices helps you to let go of all that
Speaker 1: hard ship when you're being central, especially with yourself. So
Speaker 1: yes so and you seem to know like yeah, and
Speaker 1: like you seem to be so nogural to like just
Speaker 1: about anatomy of like the men and the women, Like oh,
Speaker 1: the part you're talking about. I'm like, okay, she knows.
Speaker 1: I've been doing this for four years and it is
Speaker 1: the most liberating and humbling experience because I realized so
Speaker 1: many people think they cannot get the sex life that
Speaker 1: they want, and it's because we're scared, or we don't
Speaker 1: want to lose the love of our life or whatever.
Speaker 1: And ultimately it comes down to boundaries and confidence. A
Speaker 1: lot of the women that we see every day walking
Speaker 1: around that we want to be like, are not actually
Speaker 1: fully confident. If you deny a part of yourself, how
Speaker 1: is that confident? If you're not working on undenying that,
Speaker 1: how is that really confident? You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: So really becoming a centual, confident woman has been the
Speaker 1: most liberating, amazing experience, and it's opened so many doors
Speaker 1: for me because feminine energy is powerful, as Cleopatra was
Speaker 1: shutting down worlds with her sensuality, like starting wars over
Speaker 1: her because she knew how to control her feminine power,
Speaker 1: and me knowing when to be quiet when I need
Speaker 1: to be the bad bit in the room, knowing how
Speaker 1: to care for myself has started attracting people that see
Speaker 1: how I live and they only want to add to it.
Speaker 1: Like even the people that step to me and asked
Speaker 1: me for things, they don't do it anymore. Because they
Speaker 1: see how I carry myself. You know what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: Some like real sensuality and just even sex with your
Speaker 1: absolute feminine walking to your feminine power. And they don't
Speaker 1: even mean being girly. It don't mean being greatly at all.
Speaker 1: It means being confident in having your boundaries. And so
Speaker 1: one of the things I'm telling women, before you even
Speaker 1: talk about what you want somebody do for you, what
Speaker 1: if they only gave you everything you give yourself. What
Speaker 1: if they was like, hey, I took this off your plate,
Speaker 1: so I did everything that you do for yourself this month,
Speaker 1: what would you have? You know what I'm saying. And
Speaker 1: we really just have to be more accountable about our
Speaker 1: sex life. So for me, I went on this journey
Speaker 1: like in the last year, right, and I got my
Speaker 1: house and I got to interior decorator. I said, I
Speaker 1: want my house to look like a grown ass woman,
Speaker 1: a central ass room. You know what I'm saying. There
Speaker 1: is not a lot of stuff in my room, but
Speaker 1: it looks sexy as Hell's pictures of me in some
Speaker 1: of my best photo shoots and stuff on my wall
Speaker 1: that makes me feel so sexy. You know, it's mirrors
Speaker 1: all over my house. My house smells good as fun.
Speaker 1: It's candles, extra beads. When I washed my clothes, the
Speaker 1: plug ins. My car is always clean because it's sexy.
Speaker 1: It looks good, it smells good. I started making a
Speaker 1: little chalkoochie boards by myself. That tastes good, it looks sexy,
Speaker 1: like I love getting on the gram and making a
Speaker 1: little picture. They're like, damn where you're at, bitch at
Speaker 1: home like that? Like, because I'm doing all the ship
Speaker 1: that I wish somebody would do for me. And then
Speaker 1: I realized, like, you can start doing that by yourself.
Speaker 1: Now people are approaching me that already liked that. They
Speaker 1: like that too. Now we have something in common versus
Speaker 1: me not doing anything, and so anybody is approaching me
Speaker 1: who am I? Who am I? The way that I
Speaker 1: played with my pussy? If somebody like even when you
Speaker 1: talk get to know what dude, y'all talk about how
Speaker 1: y'all are sexually and stuff like that, when I start
Speaker 1: the conversation with well, yeah, I was just masturbating for
Speaker 1: our what you do today, I've been changed the whole
Speaker 1: fucking game. Like, ain't nobody coming to me without half
Speaker 1: fast dick? Because I've said the President. You know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying, life, I really want women and men to
Speaker 1: like really get in their bag on just learning how
Speaker 1: to voice what they want, making boundaries politely with other people,
Speaker 1: and also saying I totally understand that you don't want
Speaker 1: to do that, but that's not gonna work for me. Yes,
Speaker 1: I need to hear more about that. So we're gonna
Speaker 1: take a quick break. Y'all will be right back with
Speaker 1: some Maya the sexpert, and you don't want to miss this.
Speaker 1: As soon as we get back, we're gonna have some
Speaker 1: Maya put us onto a game with female ejaculations and
Speaker 1: all the different types. I think we're gonna get into
Speaker 1: monogamy as well, So y'all keep a lots. We're back
Speaker 1: with the women a while in our podcast, it's your
Speaker 1: girl be semone. I got my girl pretty being Dustine
Speaker 1: and Valentine. We are with the sex experts some Maya
Speaker 1: and we are talking sex baby. So monogamy does not
Speaker 1: work for me. I am not a one person. I
Speaker 1: love anybody because I'm a person that can connect with
Speaker 1: this is how you got that way right, which is
Speaker 1: really dangerous. But now that I've learned to control it.
Speaker 1: I realized that I love different people for different things.
Speaker 1: So like I may have one partner, like at one
Speaker 1: point I had a husband and a boyfriend, right, so
Speaker 1: like I had one partner that was these things, and
Speaker 1: I realized the relationship was just so much better when
Speaker 1: I wasn't trying to force them to do things or
Speaker 1: be somebody who they weren't weren't so like I love
Speaker 1: to read. At that time, that part the main person
Speaker 1: did not like to read. That's not the thing that
Speaker 1: like video stuff that I'm just not like that. I
Speaker 1: still use pen and paper. I'm old school. My boyfriends,
Speaker 1: I would be like, oh, do you like to read?
Speaker 1: Like that's something I want to do. Sometimes I want
Speaker 1: to get dick afterwards, so yes, like, yes, you can
Speaker 1: read with your friends, but sometimes I want to read.
Speaker 1: We have our little book of love and then you
Speaker 1: dig me down. And that's that's my progative. That's okay
Speaker 1: for me and a lot of people I don't know
Speaker 1: how to voice, or they think they're cheaters or everybody
Speaker 1: in the world thinks they cheaters when really maybe you
Speaker 1: were never a monogamous you know. So I help people
Speaker 1: even explore their sexuality to figure out, hey is what
Speaker 1: I'm doing. Yes, you only know Western culture. You only
Speaker 1: only grew up one way, and we make changes everywhere
Speaker 1: else in our life. Some of us grew up broke.
Speaker 1: But guess what we're balling now. You didn't just stick.
Speaker 1: You don't ever just stick with anything that you learned.
Speaker 1: If you even when you have kids, you think about
Speaker 1: what I didn't like about growing up and what I
Speaker 1: want to make different now. Same thing with your sexuality.
Speaker 1: And sexuality includes more than just fucking. It's who you
Speaker 1: would like to date, what your relationships look like. Are
Speaker 1: you polyamorous or you know? Like I just interviewed a
Speaker 1: lady the other day. She got a husband and a boyfriend.
Speaker 1: They all live together. They find every Yes, they all
Speaker 1: live together. They find all of them fine, Like do
Speaker 1: they have other girlfriends? They're looking for one girl I
Speaker 1: put in my application. I'll let you know how to go.
Speaker 1: So do the guys hook up as well or just sometimes?
Speaker 1: Like it depends on the situation. So in her situation,
Speaker 1: her partners are fluid, but in everybody's no, like in
Speaker 1: my situation before, No, they weren't fluid, like I dealt
Speaker 1: with them separately, but we were all, you know, they
Speaker 1: all knew about each other, everything, knew about everything, like
Speaker 1: I've never I've never lied about who I was. And
Speaker 1: when I started telling the truth because at some point
Speaker 1: you don't really lie about who you are. You just
Speaker 1: don't really share it because you think like they ain't
Speaker 1: gonna go for this. Well, ain't nobody gonna go for
Speaker 1: nothing if you don't really explain it to them. And
Speaker 1: also if you don't walk in that truth, you know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, Like I don't have it. You have
Speaker 1: to walk in the truth. And the thing about it
Speaker 1: is when I, um, when I was in my relationship,
Speaker 1: he didn't know I had so much kids, So I
Speaker 1: said kids, daddy, Ena, I can't let you. I'm over her,
Speaker 1: lifting to like girl, I'm over here, Like okay, so
Speaker 1: she got some kids, all right? So are you dealing
Speaker 1: with somebody right now? And I I just broke up
Speaker 1: with someone and I chose and it was like one
Speaker 1: of the loves of my life. And I separated because
Speaker 1: I was like, um, I want to focus on me
Speaker 1: and I'm not getting everything that I want. This is
Speaker 1: who I am, and I don't feel like you're really
Speaker 1: supporting that. The best so let's get in some space
Speaker 1: and if it come back, it come back. Like That's
Speaker 1: one of the great things about being Polly is that,
Speaker 1: like things come back to me all the time. But
Speaker 1: I don't ever want to force nothing because then I
Speaker 1: get off my purpose or I'm not concentrated and I'm
Speaker 1: trying to be a rich bitch, like like I want
Speaker 1: all my things. Okay, so if my relationship is getting
Speaker 1: in a way of that, then it's not gonna work,
Speaker 1: you know. So I'm also exploring dating a couple. I
Speaker 1: think that may be best for me next, like a
Speaker 1: couple that's looking for a girlfriend, because they already have
Speaker 1: their main relationships so they don't need as much for me.
Speaker 1: And I'm so busy, and that's usually the problem a
Speaker 1: lot of people like, damgn you ain't got no time
Speaker 1: for this, time for that? Well I go and you know,
Speaker 1: so yeah, but with a couple, look at things. They
Speaker 1: already have a life, they already have a relationship, and
Speaker 1: then I get to pop in and they can support me.
Speaker 1: And that's another thing. I don't want to date nobody
Speaker 1: that can't do what I could do for me. A
Speaker 1: couple got two incomes, they can do for me what
Speaker 1: I do for. So somebody I have a question about,
Speaker 1: like um with with like the masturbation courses and everything.
Speaker 1: I was like thinking about it the whole time while
Speaker 1: you were talking. Is there like a success rate would
Speaker 1: you say of like how many people like because you
Speaker 1: said percent of women just haven't had an orgasm yet?
Speaker 1: So when they come to you, is it like are
Speaker 1: able to learn after that? Never had I've never money back. No,
Speaker 1: no, no no, I've never actually had anybody to say they
Speaker 1: didn't when they did, I talk to them. I'm super accessible.
Speaker 1: So like if you d M me, I'm the one
Speaker 1: who responds to you. Um. Yeah, Like people hit me
Speaker 1: up all the time. I just I have my boundary,
Speaker 1: so I when I'm busy, I don't answer, but I
Speaker 1: just always respond back. But anybody that comes to me
Speaker 1: like I didn't come, I do that conversation we talked
Speaker 1: about earlier, and they're like, yeah, I I only did
Speaker 1: it once, and I'm like, okay, we'll do it, like help.
Speaker 1: First of all, it's a lot of blue check marks
Speaker 1: in my d M s. Let's start there. Um and yes,
Speaker 1: and everybody everybody when they do the work, they get
Speaker 1: the result. I don't think I've ever had anybody say like,
Speaker 1: it just never worked for me. Now, some people may
Speaker 1: not squirt, but they're ejaculating, and that's the thing. Everybody
Speaker 1: thinks that, oh, I'm gonna squirt data. Everybody's so focused
Speaker 1: on squirting when squirting don't even mean you had an orgasm.
Speaker 1: So how about we focus on you having an orgasm
Speaker 1: term you know, what I'm squirting is the liquid that
Speaker 1: comes out of your urethra. But they're being already started
Speaker 1: with this early. There are four different types of ejaculation.
Speaker 1: Let's clear this ship up right now. So everybody chasing
Speaker 1: squirt and ain't even caught a nut. Right, So squirting
Speaker 1: can happen voluntarily or involuntarily, right, So some people just
Speaker 1: natural squarters. I am not a natural squirter, but I
Speaker 1: was like, you have to, I know how to make
Speaker 1: my body get to that point. There are some people
Speaker 1: that just know how to press their pussy in a
Speaker 1: certain way and it just happens. I don't. I don't
Speaker 1: got pushed to start pussy, Okay, I don't. My ship
Speaker 1: is not pushed to start. So having a stronger orgasm
Speaker 1: ups the chances of you having a like a squirting
Speaker 1: orgasm or squirting period. But the thing is because they're
Speaker 1: not even having orgasms, they don't know how to squirt,
Speaker 1: So it's like you're trying to make yourself squirt. You
Speaker 1: either are a natural squirter or you're not. So there
Speaker 1: are two people about a class. You Either a natural squirter,
Speaker 1: so you're not taking it for the squirting part, you're
Speaker 1: taking it for the masturbation part, or either you're looking
Speaker 1: to squirt. If you're looking to squirt, that means that
Speaker 1: you're not a natural squarter, because you would already know
Speaker 1: you were a naturally squirter, right, So if you're not
Speaker 1: a natural more exactly so, if you're not a natural squirter,
Speaker 1: I'm going to teach you how to have a strong
Speaker 1: gass orgasm and how to make your body naturally do it,
Speaker 1: and we're just going to confuse your body. I'm going
Speaker 1: to make you have one orgasm, then I'm have two orgasms.
Speaker 1: Then I'll make you have two types of orgasms at
Speaker 1: one time, like a vaginal orgasm and a clitter orgasm.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna teach you all the things if you do
Speaker 1: what I asked you to do, And that's why I
Speaker 1: asked people. I don't I don't want to talk about
Speaker 1: how I feel, how you feel, or none of that
Speaker 1: measurable points. Did you do what I asked you to do?
Speaker 1: Did you do it as often as I asked you
Speaker 1: to do it? I'm like a trainer. You know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying. I'm not gonna down you. You're gonna do
Speaker 1: it in your own time. But don't ever come to
Speaker 1: me talking about what didn't happen when you didn't do
Speaker 1: what I asked you to do. Yeah, like, I ain't
Speaker 1: got no ask, you didn't sat, you didn't square that girl.
Speaker 1: Even still sometimes that ask don't be coming in. But
Speaker 1: but I ain't been wrong about no pussy yet. So
Speaker 1: everyone that's game you has masturbated, I mean, has had
Speaker 1: an orgasm if they talked to me, Yes, there has
Speaker 1: not been anything. Yes, That's why I'm like because I
Speaker 1: was like, girl, what I tell you the first day
Speaker 1: we talked, I said, girl, if you take the class, now,
Speaker 1: you go orgasm, not if you want to do I
Speaker 1: was like, bait, that was a month ago, I said,
Speaker 1: give me. So this is the other thing. Y'all realized
Speaker 1: that a lot of us are only chasing orgasm we
Speaker 1: don't really know what anything feels like. We just are
Speaker 1: looking for the orgasm. We don't know what pleasure feels like.
Speaker 1: Usually getting dick is the only pleasure we feel because
Speaker 1: it's a consistent going in and out and it's like
Speaker 1: a massage on the inside. Right, But when we masturbate
Speaker 1: or play with our pussy, we don't have the same patients.
Speaker 1: We're just looking like, dang, I ain't come yet. Did
Speaker 1: you pay attention though, because your orgasms have characteristics, so
Speaker 1: you know, like I know that when I'm about to come,
Speaker 1: I'll feel, um. It's almost like a cartoon when a thermometer,
Speaker 1: you know, it get red red red red, and then
Speaker 1: it blows yes like buzz bunny or something. Right, I
Speaker 1: can tell when I'm about to orgasm because I feel
Speaker 1: that pressure, like actually starting to rise. But that's because
Speaker 1: I stopped looking for it. You need to pay attention
Speaker 1: and slow down to see how your body is feeling,
Speaker 1: because then when you have sex with somebody, you can
Speaker 1: recognize those signs like hey, we whoa stay there like
Speaker 1: you know, like we're getting there, and so it's like, yes,
Speaker 1: it's not just about orgasm at all, because mind you,
Speaker 1: those masterclasses are the basics. If you don't handle that properly,
Speaker 1: when you get into that Patreon, baby, you're gonna be
Speaker 1: so overwhelmed, like you ain't gonna know where to start.
Speaker 1: You're gonna be wondering why stuff don't work because you're
Speaker 1: trying to skip ship like so impatient. It's so much information.
Speaker 1: But somebodya what we do before every the end of
Speaker 1: every single podcast, before we do you talk to us
Speaker 1: about a lot of stuff. And there was actually a
Speaker 1: lot of bombom quotes that you said. But we want
Speaker 1: our guests to give us a quote like to end
Speaker 1: with on a positive note. So give us like if
Speaker 1: you could leave anybody that wants to orgasm out there, beginners,
Speaker 1: anybody a bomb quote? What would you live in with?
Speaker 1: So James Clear is my obsession right now about habits right,
Speaker 1: Um he wrote Atomic Habits and the quote that I've
Speaker 1: been hanging on myself, Yes it's an amazing book. Um,
Speaker 1: is that if you show me your accents, I'll show
Speaker 1: you who you are as well as who you are
Speaker 1: is nothing but the compound interest of what you do
Speaker 1: every single day. So you can lie to me, you
Speaker 1: can lie to the world, but in life You're going
Speaker 1: to get what you put in. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: So you stop expecting people to put more into your
Speaker 1: sex life, Your sensuality, your confidence, pour into you. Make
Speaker 1: sure your cup is full before you start working with
Speaker 1: anybody else, because then you will actually stop criticizing people
Speaker 1: as much. You will really see the love that they
Speaker 1: have for you. If they're trying to feel the cup
Speaker 1: that you should have been born, you know, like your
Speaker 1: your regular cup that should already been feeling, they'll never
Speaker 1: do a good enough job because they're not you. Only
Speaker 1: you know what you need and so be more accountable today.
Speaker 1: I want you to ask yourself, am I doing the work?
Speaker 1: When is the last time I paid for something that
Speaker 1: contributes to my sexuality? When is the last time I
Speaker 1: looked up how to buy a sex toy? What's a
Speaker 1: good sex toy? When is the last time I asked
Speaker 1: my partner how satisfied are they? How am I doing
Speaker 1: with communication? Does my partner feel comfortable enough to come
Speaker 1: and talk to me and say, hey, I actually didn't
Speaker 1: have an orgasm? Or am I walking through this life
Speaker 1: assuming if you want to have a good sex life,
Speaker 1: didn't do the work. I'm not asking you to figure
Speaker 1: it out. I'm just asking you to start. And I
Speaker 1: got all the answers. I have all the answers. All
Speaker 1: you gotta do is do it. But don't come to
Speaker 1: me with that excuses. Ship. It don't work for nothing
Speaker 1: else in life, and it don't work on this. But see,
Speaker 1: I love that period me for you. Um, if you
Speaker 1: can't hit it like a theme, you could always flick
Speaker 1: your on. Mean, I love that. We're gonna have to
Speaker 1: put that on a shirt, could you. I'm a medi,
Speaker 1: I'm a media huh me, and I got you. Yeah,
Speaker 1: we'll have like the little bean with his little thing
Speaker 1: is like this, we got to call this episode bad
Speaker 1: bitches bus Can we do that? That's cute? Is it
Speaker 1: a bbll BBB? So? Where can people find you? Give
Speaker 1: them your socials? Absolutely so. You can find me on
Speaker 1: Instagram at sexual centrals all one word. Anything else is
Speaker 1: a fake account. Um in my bio. Um there's a
Speaker 1: link and it has my website, it has the master
Speaker 1: classes and um my Patreon link which is fifteen American dollars.
Speaker 1: That is how much it costs me to get my
Speaker 1: eyebrows wext. Okay, so very reasonable? Yes, information, Yes, there
Speaker 1: are over two hundred classes on their their guests on there,
Speaker 1: and I know that you're probably don't know how we're
Speaker 1: gonna get you to be this hot sex machine, but
Speaker 1: don't where. I already got to cover its working classes
Speaker 1: on there, how to take better selfies like in nudes
Speaker 1: and data ideas. There are guests teachers. There are actual
Speaker 1: demonstrations with women who have actually donated their pussy to science,
Speaker 1: which is me. Uh. And I actually performed some of
Speaker 1: the classes that I'm teaching, y'all. Um, I put the
Speaker 1: real human. Yes, I had two women bott into their
Speaker 1: body to me. I went to Atlanta. We covered their face.
Speaker 1: One woman had never had an orgasm. She left there
Speaker 1: with like four orgasms that day. Um and huh. And
Speaker 1: then on the other woman, the other woman, I felt
Speaker 1: so bad for her because her demonstration was about um
Speaker 1: orgasm denial and I showed people how they can use
Speaker 1: this to their benefit and really change things. So she
Speaker 1: was like miserable by the time she was done. So
Speaker 1: all kinds of different things. I teach all this stuff,
Speaker 1: um and most of his on Patreon. And yeah, so
Speaker 1: my website is the Sexual Essentials dot com And hit
Speaker 1: me up and it's a whole bunch of free information
Speaker 1: on my Instagram, Like it's so many videos. Yeah, y'all
Speaker 1: gotta follow her on Instagramy, you don't want to ex
Speaker 1: positions of the day, all kind of stuff. I've on
Speaker 1: the position of the day. Yes, I'm looking at the
Speaker 1: same thing that girl. Yes, you know busting that naked
Speaker 1: looking come Benamota, let him nut look at us ship nasty.
Speaker 1: I love it. I love that for you and for him.
Speaker 1: Thank you so much to mine for coming through. And
Speaker 1: I must have to subscribe so I can learn how
Speaker 1: to squirt. I have no problem master me, but I
Speaker 1: might want to send him on a waterfall. Night night night, y'all.
Speaker 1: We're having a bomb ass time this conversation, but we
Speaker 1: gotta take a break. We'll be back right after this
Speaker 1: with more Women a While and Out podcast? What's popping? Y'all?
Speaker 1: What back with the Women a While and Out podcast?
Speaker 1: And we just had some Maya a sexpert that's a
Speaker 1: sex expert find her instagram just scrolling just like people
Speaker 1: were sending me, sending her page to me because I
Speaker 1: was saying I never had an orcasm? Got you? Okay?
Speaker 1: So what do you think about her classes? Are they like, No,
Speaker 1: they're good. I'm on video number seven, so we're gonna
Speaker 1: see you when I get to the the end, I might
Speaker 1: have to sign up. See how menight you need? You
Speaker 1: need to really finish tonight. I'm gonna try. I gotta
Speaker 1: know what i'd be doing. It's okay organs, I'm not
Speaker 1: whatever squirting and I cannot believe, like y'all haven't ever
Speaker 1: had an orgasm before. That's just insane, man, I promise you.
Speaker 1: I don't know like when I be um, I told
Speaker 1: her like when I'll be doing it, like when when
Speaker 1: I used to I haven't had sex in a couple
Speaker 1: of months now, so like five but literally no four,
Speaker 1: But um, get your list because I said, I don't
Speaker 1: I want clarity from to dude, I don't want to
Speaker 1: keep doing so um right, Literally when I was doing it,
Speaker 1: like I was like, I'm like something coming out like
Speaker 1: a pin or something like, it's something coming out. But
Speaker 1: one of the beforehand vy did you never had like
Speaker 1: like legs used to be shaking all that stuff, But
Speaker 1: I don't know what was coming out. So I was
Speaker 1: listening to somebody. I don't be able to get put
Speaker 1: up all game just as well as y'all, and because
Speaker 1: I don't want him, he just feels always have Nigga's
Speaker 1: button that though I ain't no one that girl, like
Speaker 1: you're gonna do it again, We're gonna do it again.
Speaker 1: I'm not going to be MoMA to be. Yeah, you're
Speaker 1: gonna do we can turn not when you got me
Speaker 1: on my da, I'm on a good Friday. She definitely
Speaker 1: knows the stuff though. It's interesting to see, like all
Speaker 1: the parts she was showing, like the hood and the
Speaker 1: peak comes out the hood and then the labias and
Speaker 1: what's inside. She has a real model, Like that's crazy
Speaker 1: to me. You're never like a real human model. Oh yeah,
Speaker 1: that when she said she had one live in person. Yeah,
Speaker 1: even though they cover their faces like work, a little
Speaker 1: strand of hair is sticking out tattoo cover. I don't
Speaker 1: wear a mask covered my face. You should only be
Speaker 1: able to like when you go to the doctor, you
Speaker 1: can only see a little hole, a little through. That's it.
Speaker 1: That's wild. I got too many tattoos down there. I can't.
Speaker 1: She got like a cross, and she got like I
Speaker 1: wasn't a clock. Yeah, I don't have no tattoos, so
Speaker 1: I can get away with it. I'm definitely excited. Beat
Speaker 1: it like, um here, how you end off on the journey.
Speaker 1: And she does say that she has a hundred percent
Speaker 1: success rate, so you can't be her. Yeah, you're not
Speaker 1: gonna be her only field case. She's gonna make sure
Speaker 1: she gets you going on only field case. Friend, give
Speaker 1: me some good energy from Tom. I can't do that.
Speaker 1: I don't know how to mass. I just I'm excited.
Speaker 1: I'll be walking around like on that beach. I just came.
Speaker 1: I think what she's saying bad bitches bus So, y'all,
Speaker 1: that was an amazing show. The women while on our podcast,
Speaker 1: thank you out so much for tuning in. It's your
Speaker 1: girl be Samon with my girl Justina Valentine and my
Speaker 1: girl be Hey hey hey, but we love y'all. Thank
Speaker 1: you a for tuning in and we'll see you next time.
Speaker 1: We out Peace on the b