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Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya rat An iHeartRadio podcast.

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Speaker 2: Hello everybody, we are scrubbing it.

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Speaker 1: Scrub dub dub in the air and be tub tub tub.

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Speaker 1: That's right.

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Speaker 2: If you heard that click clock and saw sound at

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Speaker 2: the beginning of the episode, that was Tanya. That's the

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Speaker 2: sound we've been hearing of her walking around in her

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Speaker 2: shoes getting my way on over. She forgot her house slippers.

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Speaker 2: And she does not walk barefoot in homes.

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Speaker 1: No, not in my own home, not even in your

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Speaker 1: own home.

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Speaker 2: I just learned this about you. Yeah, on this trip.

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Speaker 1: I don't like my bare feet on ground like tile, one, carpet, tile,

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Speaker 1: anything like. I need them in a house slipper, I

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Speaker 1: need them in a sock. I need them in like

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Speaker 1: any form of based or texture. I honestly, I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I have no idea what neurosis it comes from, but like,

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Speaker 1: obviously it's there, sure is. I don't know what it is, though.

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Speaker 2: But let me tell you something. Eight o'clock this morning.

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Speaker 2: First sound I hear click clacking on the tie hold.

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Speaker 2: Tony got her heels on and going to the bathroom

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Speaker 2: to start her day.

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Speaker 1: Scoot moment. Yeah, Boots, Scoot and Tutin. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: So we're at an Airbnb and Pump Springs and uh,

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Speaker 2: there's three rooms.

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Speaker 1: It's me.

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Speaker 2: Well, Sam's here, but she's in.

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Speaker 1: A hotel, which we can talk about later because I

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Speaker 1: wired at a hotel. But I mean we do.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, there's a lot of beds in here. Easton and

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Speaker 2: Alison got the honeymoon suite as they are the couple.

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Speaker 3: Thank you for relinquishing that. He moves to us. We

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Speaker 3: appreciate it.

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Speaker 2: It just made sense, like putting all the room with

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Speaker 2: double beds felt awkward and strange.

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Speaker 3: I was wondering which of you were going to get

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Speaker 3: the primary bedroom.

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Speaker 1: Oh you thought we'd split up?

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Speaker 3: I did.

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Speaker 1: Interesting me too.

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Speaker 3: I've had money down that it was gonna be Beca

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Speaker 3: in the primary bedroom, Tanya in one of the other rooms,

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Speaker 3: and then Alison and I in the other, and then

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Speaker 3: we would have to share the bathroom.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that's how it goes in these parts, you know.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: So we got here and we realized, you know, there's

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Speaker 2: two bedrooms. Both of them have two beds in them, yes,

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Speaker 2: and Tnia's like, why wouldn't we share a room? And

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Speaker 2: I'm like, well, because there's a whole other room. Why

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Speaker 2: would we share a room?

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Speaker 1: In hindsight, now, aren't you so happy that we shared

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Speaker 1: a room?

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Speaker 4: Last night?

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Speaker 1: We stayed up till two am, chit chat and click clacken.

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Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, no, it's fun. Yeah, But like I just

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Speaker 2: in my mind, that's just not how my mind. I'm like,

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Speaker 2: just my own room?

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Speaker 1: So think about it. Well, now have you gone to bed?

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Speaker 1: Had we all gone to bed last night? Whatever time

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Speaker 1: like midnight? Oh no, it was like eleven. We were

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Speaker 1: all going to bed. Had you gone into your room,

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Speaker 1: closed your door, I went into my room, closed my door.

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Speaker 1: We never would have had that beautiful conversation last night. Beautiful, yeah,

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Speaker 1: just so sweet. And what did we talk about? I

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Speaker 2: We were laughing, we were giggling. But you know what,

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Speaker 2: I think we had different experiences. Whereas you were the

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Speaker 2: college girl who had the sleeping porch, loved the sleeping porch,

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Speaker 2: miss that you missed the sleeping porch, and I never

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Speaker 2: I shared room with my siblings the whole my whole life,

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Speaker 2: So I craved alone, alone time space yeah.

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Speaker 1: Like for my bachelorette, I want all of us in

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Speaker 1: one room. We can cross.

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Speaker 2: For that. But anyways, we recorded our Truth or Drink

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Speaker 2: episode last night and.

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Speaker 1: We were having second thoughts about it last night. So

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Speaker 1: Like I felt like I had no energy, low energy.

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Speaker 1: And Becca felt the same. And so we were like,

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Speaker 2: Well, there were some other things, but yeah, we were

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Speaker 2: You know, there's a lot of pressure when it comes

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Speaker 1: Is it gonna be drunk? What is it gonna be? Right?

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Speaker 1: And I felt like we were tired.

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Speaker 2: And we were like sipping the tequila shot like I

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Speaker 2: feel like when we've done Truth or Drink in the past,

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Speaker 2: it's been like.

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Speaker 1: A throwing shot back. Yeah, we did get some.

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Speaker 2: Horrible to cue that may have burned a hole in

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Speaker 2: my esophagus and stomach, but that's no excuse because when

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Speaker 2: you come for truth or drink.

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Speaker 1: Right, And we wanted it to be up to up

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Speaker 1: It's not coming out. And it came out. Yeah, I

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Speaker 1: came out, he came out.

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Speaker 2: We said, you know what for better for worse?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, well the truth is Crystal yeah listened to it

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Speaker 4: And so that's really all I needed to hear.

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Speaker 2: But Sam Easton and Allison said it was funny, and yeah.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, And I think because Sam Easton and Allison were

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I get what you're saying.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, those four years ago, we're different people. What do

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Speaker 1: you mean four years ago?

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Speaker 2: The last Pump Springs episode that was four years.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's crazy, right, and we'd been cooped up for months,

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Speaker 2: Oh I don't remember.

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Speaker 2: First of all, without an ingrown hair. Wearing standing jeans

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Speaker 2: You don't talk about those things.

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Speaker 2: We've been here in Palm Springs.

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Speaker 1: Are you gonna put your headphones in?

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Speaker 3: My lovely wife Allison putting her ear plugs in.

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Speaker 2: Well, we should take a break and then we'll tell

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Speaker 3: That stick around.

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Speaker 1: All right, we're bad.

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Speaker 2: So, as we discussed earlier in the episode, there are

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Speaker 4: I don't do that.

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Speaker 3: So I feel we I mean, I know she has

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Speaker 3: Allison is an angel sent from heaven to make everybody's

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Speaker 3: that she knows. She's like, I do not like to

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Speaker 3: It is we we And I said, I agree to that.

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Speaker 3: And I mean, just like any other guy. I think

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Speaker 1: I mean, what, like, what does that mean? Medicine?

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Speaker 2: Is it?

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Speaker 3: It's just things I haven't spoken to anyone about exclusive

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Speaker 3: legitimately have now spoken to a soul about this because

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Speaker 1: Each their own.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, if that needs to happen. Uh, I don't know.

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Speaker 3: There's a lot of hotel lobby being used.

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Speaker 2: This is what I find interesting. So I asked her.

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Speaker 2: I was like, if you're in if you're on vacation together,

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Speaker 1: Do you do?

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Speaker 2: And she was like, I'll go I like, I'd rather

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Speaker 2: I can't. I can't do that.

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Speaker 3: I mean I do the same thing.

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Speaker 2: You find a public spot post Yeah, and you'd prefer

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Speaker 3: Would. And the only time it's a problem is like

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Speaker 3: we're not laughing about this, No jokes, these are not

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Speaker 3: this is not funny. And uh, and that's fine. Uh,

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Speaker 3: and it's it's not an issue like it really, Like

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Speaker 3: are there are times where like it's physically just uncomfortable, right,

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Speaker 3: But there's always a solution.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, there always is.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, well that let that be the last of this podcast.

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Speaker 1: There's always a solution. You may think that you are

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Speaker 2: What was my solution the other night?

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Speaker 2: Yes.

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Speaker 3: We have a cabin up in Idlewild, California, and it's

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Speaker 3: so I will go up there. But then when you flush,

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Speaker 3: it's like so loud and you can eat, like you

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Speaker 2: Oh meanwhile, Robbay's just trying to brush his teeth while

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Speaker 3: Let go like going my god, wow.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I just am fascinated in the sense that, like

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Speaker 1: So I have just done that.

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Speaker 2: And Haley and I don't like we're not We don't

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Speaker 1: But if there's a situation like dinner conversation, yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, no, like we're I would say we talk about

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Speaker 2: it less than most people, but it's like it's acknowledged

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Speaker 3: Yeah, what I've said now is the most I've ever

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Speaker 2: Thank you for the vulnerability.

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Speaker 3: I've just been praying. She is not listening right now.

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Speaker 2: Rachel is playing really loud.

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Speaker 3: But but I've got like the greatest hits of like place,

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Speaker 3: you know, places with great public restrooms, like any of

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Speaker 3: the Carusoe properties, the Americana brand, the Grove Palistates Village does.

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Speaker 1: Of great rest What makes her a great restroom?

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Speaker 3: Well, I mean for that like a Florida ceiling door

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Speaker 3: this is like the smallest compromise I think anyone's ever

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Speaker 3: their life. Yeah, and this is like the one thing

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Speaker 3: Alison has asked, and I agree to it.

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Speaker 2: Respect I might incorporate this into my my relationship me too.

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Speaker 1: What are you laughing just because I'm gonna do it? Okay,

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Speaker 1: report back.

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Speaker 4: Let's see how long it last?

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Speaker 3: Can you put the toothpaste back in the tube? Though,

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Speaker 3: like that has that door is already.

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Speaker 1: Open, It's already opened, but you can always shut it.

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Speaker 1: Let that be another lesson of this podcast. You can

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Speaker 1: always shut the door, always shut the door.

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Speaker 4: You can always shut the door. You don't have to

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Speaker 4: leave any door open.

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Speaker 1: If you want, you can always leave the door open,

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Speaker 1: but you don't have to don't have to always shut

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Speaker 3: Yeah, or in this case, at least crack a window.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, at least yeah. Wow.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Well thanks for sharing. I just was like it.

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Speaker 2: It was such an interesting turn when I when I

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Speaker 3: I truly don't think it has a fact. Like we

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Speaker 3: and I really don't think I think that makes us more.

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Speaker 3: I think that makes our intimacy that much stronger because

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Speaker 1: A little well, there's some intimacy when like cook Man,

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Speaker 1: what what? I had a moment. This is not even

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Speaker 1: going on, but I was. It was I don't even

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00:22:17,400 --> 00:22:22,040
Speaker 1: need to say, but it was like not not pleasant

441
00:22:22,400 --> 00:22:24,720
Speaker 1: situation in the bathroom and I like passed out, like

442
00:22:24,760 --> 00:22:28,639
Speaker 1: I fell on the floor and like, uh, Robbie was

443
00:22:28,680 --> 00:22:30,320
Speaker 1: like helping me. He was like literally and I'm like

444
00:22:30,960 --> 00:22:33,560
Speaker 1: naked from the waist down and like not like shaking,

445
00:22:33,640 --> 00:22:35,800
Speaker 1: you know. And there's like some intimacy that comes from

446
00:22:35,840 --> 00:22:38,439
Speaker 1: like somebody seeing you like that. That vulnerable you know

447
00:22:40,520 --> 00:22:41,000
Speaker 1: mm hmmm.

448
00:22:41,160 --> 00:22:42,960
Speaker 2: That happened early on in Yill's relationship.

449
00:22:43,040 --> 00:22:45,480
Speaker 1: I fail, didn't it no, This that one was. The

450
00:22:45,560 --> 00:22:48,520
Speaker 1: first one was alcohol related. I was like so like drunk.

451
00:22:48,640 --> 00:22:51,480
Speaker 1: That was like vulnerable. Yeah, also vulnerable, but like this one.

452
00:22:51,560 --> 00:22:54,200
Speaker 1: The second one was like something weird. I don't know.

453
00:22:54,359 --> 00:22:55,920
Speaker 4: It was like some sort of I had some sort

454
00:22:55,920 --> 00:22:57,720
Speaker 4: of like virus or something.

455
00:22:58,080 --> 00:23:00,960
Speaker 1: Wow. Yeah, yeah, without getting graphic, you know.

456
00:23:01,119 --> 00:23:03,520
Speaker 2: Well, she said she doesn't want to watch anyone falls either.

457
00:23:03,640 --> 00:23:07,480
Speaker 2: It's like everything though it's not just that she.

458
00:23:08,280 --> 00:23:11,119
Speaker 3: I've floss in front of her all the time. I

459
00:23:11,119 --> 00:23:14,200
Speaker 3: think she'd rather not, but I do it. That's something

460
00:23:14,200 --> 00:23:15,560
Speaker 3: that I keep doing.

461
00:23:15,640 --> 00:23:17,560
Speaker 2: Or she doesn't like to fass in front of people.

462
00:23:17,840 --> 00:23:19,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, that's that's it.

463
00:23:20,240 --> 00:23:25,440
Speaker 1: It's giving missus Mazel does anybody? Nobody knows? Nobody I knows.

464
00:23:25,480 --> 00:23:26,400
Speaker 1: I never watched it.

465
00:23:26,600 --> 00:23:27,880
Speaker 3: I watched the first two seasons.

466
00:23:27,960 --> 00:23:30,880
Speaker 1: Is this that? It's like when Midge masl like they

467
00:23:30,920 --> 00:23:32,680
Speaker 1: go to bed. She goes to bed to her husband.

468
00:23:32,720 --> 00:23:34,800
Speaker 1: She has all her makeup on, her hair looks beautiful

469
00:23:34,800 --> 00:23:36,680
Speaker 1: that she lays her head on the pillow and then

470
00:23:36,960 --> 00:23:39,160
Speaker 1: she waits till he falls asleep, and then she gets

471
00:23:39,200 --> 00:23:41,080
Speaker 1: out of the bed. She goes to the bathroom, washes

472
00:23:41,119 --> 00:23:43,760
Speaker 1: off her makeup, puts her hair, and rollers gets back

473
00:23:43,760 --> 00:23:45,760
Speaker 1: in bed. Sleep sets her alarm so she can wake

474
00:23:45,840 --> 00:23:49,240
Speaker 1: up before him to put her face back on, spray

475
00:23:49,280 --> 00:23:51,040
Speaker 1: perfume on, and then gets back in bed so he

476
00:23:51,080 --> 00:23:53,240
Speaker 1: wakes up and she's like, gorgeous.

477
00:23:54,119 --> 00:23:56,040
Speaker 2: I used to do that when I first started dating Haley,

478
00:23:56,160 --> 00:23:59,200
Speaker 2: not like to that level, but like when we first

479
00:23:59,200 --> 00:24:01,400
Speaker 2: started dating and when we were saying at her place,

480
00:24:01,440 --> 00:24:02,879
Speaker 2: I'd like get up and go to the bathroom and

481
00:24:02,920 --> 00:24:05,840
Speaker 2: just like brush my teeth and like put like little

482
00:24:05,840 --> 00:24:09,640
Speaker 2: look gloss, you know, something on and like we splash

483
00:24:09,720 --> 00:24:12,919
Speaker 2: my face, tousle my hair so that she'd be like,

484
00:24:12,960 --> 00:24:16,640
Speaker 2: oh my god, this girl wakes up like Wow, I.

485
00:24:16,560 --> 00:24:18,479
Speaker 1: Wish I had that, Like, I wish I had that

486
00:24:18,560 --> 00:24:20,159
Speaker 1: chip in me. I don't have that chip in me.

487
00:24:20,200 --> 00:24:23,800
Speaker 1: I wake up looking like a gremlin. Click cluck and

488
00:24:24,160 --> 00:24:27,439
Speaker 1: clack into the bathroom. Robb's like, oh, there's my girl.

489
00:24:31,320 --> 00:24:34,520
Speaker 1: There she goes, there, she goes again.

490
00:24:35,240 --> 00:24:37,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know that Haley would have cared.

491
00:24:37,200 --> 00:24:40,040
Speaker 1: I just I cared, right, I know. That's what I'm saying.

492
00:24:40,119 --> 00:24:41,919
Speaker 1: I wish I had that chip. I do think that

493
00:24:42,000 --> 00:24:45,000
Speaker 1: you have a little bit like I wish I cared more,

494
00:24:45,359 --> 00:24:49,720
Speaker 1: you know what I mean? In general, I care a lot.

495
00:24:50,000 --> 00:24:51,680
Speaker 2: That's what Ali and I were talking about, Like how

496
00:24:52,000 --> 00:24:56,879
Speaker 2: like I will like sacrifice comfort for like even if

497
00:24:56,920 --> 00:25:02,720
Speaker 2: it's like sleeping later, I will sacrifice waking up earlier

498
00:25:03,400 --> 00:25:04,720
Speaker 2: to look to cuter.

499
00:25:04,960 --> 00:25:05,320
Speaker 1: Yeah.

500
00:25:05,400 --> 00:25:07,240
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm the complete opposite.

501
00:25:08,680 --> 00:25:11,160
Speaker 1: It's like different strokes, folks. I know, but I wish

502
00:25:11,160 --> 00:25:13,000
Speaker 1: I cared more like sometimes I think about that, like,

503
00:25:13,040 --> 00:25:14,600
Speaker 1: I'm like, I wish I cared a little bit more,

504
00:25:15,000 --> 00:25:16,240
Speaker 1: But you care perfect.

505
00:25:16,320 --> 00:25:20,920
Speaker 2: You cared the perfect amount for yourself. That's what matters.

506
00:25:21,240 --> 00:25:22,680
Speaker 1: Let that be another lesson this podcast.

507
00:25:22,720 --> 00:25:24,640
Speaker 2: We've got lessons on lessons.

508
00:25:24,840 --> 00:25:30,080
Speaker 4: This is miss missus Rachel adjacent. Right, yeah, yeah, yeah,

509
00:25:30,119 --> 00:25:31,200
Speaker 4: learning so much today.

510
00:25:31,640 --> 00:25:33,840
Speaker 2: Okay, we're gonna take a break. And what are we

511
00:25:33,880 --> 00:25:34,800
Speaker 2: doing when we come back?

512
00:25:35,880 --> 00:25:39,000
Speaker 1: So do you have any We have more drinks.

513
00:25:40,440 --> 00:25:42,920
Speaker 2: We do have the good tequila though. Yeah, all right,

514
00:25:43,000 --> 00:25:44,920
Speaker 2: let's do more to their drink. We'll be right back.

515
00:26:00,040 --> 00:26:03,160
Speaker 1: All right, we are back. Took a weird break.

516
00:26:05,119 --> 00:26:08,400
Speaker 2: Tony unfortunately showed what's on her algorithm.

517
00:26:08,440 --> 00:26:10,960
Speaker 1: But all that matters is we're back and that. Let

518
00:26:11,000 --> 00:26:13,159
Speaker 1: that be the lesson of this pot So happy to

519
00:26:13,200 --> 00:26:16,679
Speaker 1: be back, the lesson that you can go away and

520
00:26:16,760 --> 00:26:20,639
Speaker 1: you can always come back. This podcast is full of

521
00:26:20,760 --> 00:26:25,120
Speaker 1: so many life lessons. Who needs a Tony Robbins when

522
00:26:25,119 --> 00:26:25,879
Speaker 1: you have a scrubbing?

523
00:26:25,960 --> 00:26:27,679
Speaker 3: In part two.

524
00:26:30,880 --> 00:26:35,119
Speaker 2: Oh okay, we are going to do more truth or

525
00:26:35,200 --> 00:26:41,359
Speaker 2: drink and we have a fresh we have Uh I

526
00:26:41,359 --> 00:26:44,240
Speaker 2: don't like that, sorry, yeah, but that wasn't an accident.

527
00:26:44,359 --> 00:26:46,160
Speaker 1: I know, I know, I know it was a very

528
00:26:46,160 --> 00:26:47,040
Speaker 1: intentional thing.

529
00:26:47,080 --> 00:26:49,359
Speaker 2: Sorry, you touched my knee with your toe and I

530
00:26:49,400 --> 00:26:49,919
Speaker 2: don't like it.

531
00:26:50,040 --> 00:26:51,480
Speaker 1: Sorry, but you knew I would I like it. You

532
00:26:51,520 --> 00:26:52,119
Speaker 1: said sorry.

533
00:26:52,119 --> 00:26:55,280
Speaker 2: You said sorry before I even reacting, like you scraped

534
00:26:55,320 --> 00:27:00,440
Speaker 2: it away. He said sorry, I'm just tracted.

535
00:27:01,760 --> 00:27:04,240
Speaker 1: We're gonna throw it to Sam with some truth or

536
00:27:04,320 --> 00:27:05,000
Speaker 1: dream questions.

537
00:27:05,040 --> 00:27:08,400
Speaker 2: Let me pick up Sam, Sam, Sam, Becca.

538
00:27:09,240 --> 00:27:10,560
Speaker 1: Who will be your maid of honor?

539
00:27:11,359 --> 00:27:11,560
Speaker 2: Oh?

540
00:27:12,800 --> 00:27:17,719
Speaker 4: Already know who you're gonna make your sisters?

541
00:27:18,000 --> 00:27:18,200
Speaker 1: Yeah?

542
00:27:18,240 --> 00:27:21,480
Speaker 2: I'll probably do my sisters as like, uh, maids of honors?

543
00:27:21,560 --> 00:27:23,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, maids and matrons.

544
00:27:23,920 --> 00:27:26,000
Speaker 2: Matrons, matron and maids.

545
00:27:26,080 --> 00:27:31,639
Speaker 1: Yeah. Okay, yeah, thanks with it.

546
00:27:31,640 --> 00:27:34,679
Speaker 4: It's good because it's your wedding and you can do

547
00:27:34,720 --> 00:27:35,360
Speaker 4: whatever you want.

548
00:27:35,440 --> 00:27:39,560
Speaker 1: Thank you. Will you have other bridesmaids? Yes?

549
00:27:39,720 --> 00:27:48,080
Speaker 2: Okay, Donya will be one, Okay.

550
00:27:48,200 --> 00:27:49,120
Speaker 1: How many will you have?

551
00:27:50,240 --> 00:27:53,919
Speaker 2: I don't know, as many as I want or as

552
00:27:53,960 --> 00:27:54,640
Speaker 2: little as I want.

553
00:27:54,720 --> 00:27:58,359
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's right, Yeah, you tell them. Will there be

554
00:27:58,359 --> 00:27:59,560
Speaker 1: even sets on each side?

555
00:27:59,680 --> 00:28:03,320
Speaker 2: I love that for the symmetry, Okay, But I also

556
00:28:03,560 --> 00:28:07,040
Speaker 2: if if we decided to do something where the people

557
00:28:07,440 --> 00:28:09,719
Speaker 2: the bridal parties weren't standing up there with us, then

558
00:28:09,720 --> 00:28:12,920
Speaker 2: I wouldn't need it to be even Yeah, yeah, thank

559
00:28:12,960 --> 00:28:14,120
Speaker 2: you so much for asking.

560
00:28:14,080 --> 00:28:19,040
Speaker 8: Have the Tanya, Yes, Sam, craziest place you've had sex?

561
00:28:19,720 --> 00:28:25,520
Speaker 1: Okay, so this might be shocking to everybody, but nowhere

562
00:28:25,560 --> 00:28:29,080
Speaker 1: that crazy, like on a floor of a bedroom. Like, No,

563
00:28:29,240 --> 00:28:33,280
Speaker 1: I've never had sex in like a I don't even

564
00:28:33,320 --> 00:28:37,119
Speaker 1: think in public spaces. No, I've done. I've given a

565
00:28:37,119 --> 00:28:39,920
Speaker 1: blowjob in a like a massage waiting room.

566
00:28:40,040 --> 00:28:44,120
Speaker 4: But I guess that's probably the weirdest one.

567
00:28:44,240 --> 00:28:44,600
Speaker 3: I'd say.

568
00:28:44,920 --> 00:28:49,600
Speaker 1: Okay, the waiting room, like you know, the like put couples,

569
00:28:50,440 --> 00:28:52,440
Speaker 1: oh like in the in the room to wait for

570
00:28:52,480 --> 00:28:56,320
Speaker 1: their couple's massage, the one that everyone goes into. Yeah,

571
00:28:56,320 --> 00:28:58,560
Speaker 1: but they were the weirdly they had like beds for

572
00:28:58,600 --> 00:29:00,200
Speaker 1: you to wait, and the beds had like the can

573
00:29:00,360 --> 00:29:03,840
Speaker 1: be bad so you could like close the things. That

574
00:29:04,040 --> 00:29:08,920
Speaker 1: is so risky. Whoa do what you do? That's pretty Yeah?

575
00:29:10,080 --> 00:29:12,000
Speaker 3: All the way it completed it?

576
00:29:13,280 --> 00:29:16,760
Speaker 1: Yes, all right? Was it like a close call.

577
00:29:16,800 --> 00:29:18,920
Speaker 4: I'll leave no job unfinished, you know what I'm saying.

578
00:29:19,080 --> 00:29:22,240
Speaker 1: Oh my god, let that be a lesson to everybody listening.

579
00:29:23,240 --> 00:29:25,280
Speaker 1: If you have a job, make sure you get it done.

580
00:29:26,360 --> 00:29:33,719
Speaker 1: Otherwise keep trying like did the messuse coming right after? Like, no,

581
00:29:33,800 --> 00:29:35,400
Speaker 1: we had so much time. We were just like in there,

582
00:29:35,480 --> 00:29:43,719
Speaker 1: we had time to kill just kept it going, honestly, Well, okay,

583
00:29:44,000 --> 00:29:44,920
Speaker 1: this was back in the day.

584
00:29:47,120 --> 00:29:51,080
Speaker 4: Your girl was young, foolish, free.

585
00:29:51,120 --> 00:29:57,480
Speaker 1: Hungry Becca. What is the last fight you and Tanya had?

586
00:29:57,960 --> 00:29:59,880
Speaker 2: Oh?

587
00:30:00,160 --> 00:30:09,160
Speaker 1: Take a drink? Okay?

588
00:30:09,840 --> 00:30:10,360
Speaker 3: Wow?

589
00:30:10,600 --> 00:30:14,000
Speaker 2: You so the rules of you drink You have to

590
00:30:14,000 --> 00:30:15,280
Speaker 2: do half of what that is.

591
00:30:15,200 --> 00:30:16,840
Speaker 1: And you didn't even bring a lime to chase it

592
00:30:16,880 --> 00:30:17,200
Speaker 1: down with.

593
00:30:17,960 --> 00:30:19,840
Speaker 2: Wow, you can just chase it with your beverage.

594
00:30:20,000 --> 00:30:26,800
Speaker 1: Okay, your tequila beverage, Tanya, What really happened with doctor

595
00:30:26,960 --> 00:30:33,200
Speaker 1: w Oh? This is a good one, I know, because

596
00:30:33,240 --> 00:30:35,600
Speaker 1: it's like, it's not my story to tell, do you

597
00:30:35,600 --> 00:30:40,960
Speaker 1: know what I mean? Well, no, I can tell. We

598
00:30:41,080 --> 00:30:47,400
Speaker 1: had different interests of what we just had different interests in.

599
00:30:50,600 --> 00:30:55,080
Speaker 1: I'm gonna because I actually here's something. At the end

600
00:30:55,120 --> 00:30:57,440
Speaker 1: of the day, I like the guy, and like I

601
00:30:57,480 --> 00:31:01,080
Speaker 1: still keep in touch with him sporadically randomly, like, and

602
00:31:01,160 --> 00:31:03,280
Speaker 1: I don't think he's not a bad guy, and I

603
00:31:04,000 --> 00:31:06,360
Speaker 1: quite like him. It just was not a match. It

604
00:31:06,520 --> 00:31:11,240
Speaker 1: just was not a match. Okay, different, Yeah, but like

605
00:31:11,320 --> 00:31:12,960
Speaker 1: there's so much more to the story. But it's just

606
00:31:13,000 --> 00:31:14,440
Speaker 1: not my it's not my you know, it's not my

607
00:31:14,480 --> 00:31:15,160
Speaker 1: story to tell.

608
00:31:15,560 --> 00:31:21,480
Speaker 8: Okay, Yeah, that was not really what happened then, Becca, Yeah,

609
00:31:21,840 --> 00:31:29,760
Speaker 8: f Mary kill Bachelor host Edition, Chris Harrison, Jesse Palmer,

610
00:31:30,640 --> 00:31:31,480
Speaker 8: Caitlin Bristow.

611
00:31:32,200 --> 00:31:32,600
Speaker 1: Mm hmm.

612
00:31:37,520 --> 00:31:40,600
Speaker 2: I'm gonna marry Caitlyn. Oh, I'm gonna kiss Chris.

613
00:31:40,680 --> 00:31:44,560
Speaker 1: I'm gonna kill kiss f whatever. Oh kiss Chris.

614
00:31:44,600 --> 00:31:47,080
Speaker 2: Okay, And I'll kill Jesse just because I don't I

615
00:31:47,120 --> 00:31:47,720
Speaker 2: don't know him.

616
00:31:47,920 --> 00:31:49,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, Sol's easy.

617
00:31:49,360 --> 00:31:51,920
Speaker 2: I was just debating who who went in the other spots.

618
00:31:52,040 --> 00:31:56,880
Speaker 3: I love to scandalous, but we're killing somebody.

619
00:31:57,400 --> 00:31:58,960
Speaker 1: Well, I always, we always do.

620
00:31:59,120 --> 00:32:01,280
Speaker 2: I've always heard kids Mary kill, so I always just

621
00:32:02,200 --> 00:32:03,960
Speaker 2: whatever you want to say, we should.

622
00:32:03,720 --> 00:32:05,880
Speaker 1: Change it, like our scrubbing in addition should not be

623
00:32:06,840 --> 00:32:11,760
Speaker 1: kill like it should be get rid of, like put away,

624
00:32:12,000 --> 00:32:12,800
Speaker 1: kick or something.

625
00:32:13,360 --> 00:32:15,440
Speaker 3: Kick to the curb is when we came to the curb.

626
00:32:15,560 --> 00:32:19,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, it could be like Mary, Yeah, kiss kick to

627
00:32:19,480 --> 00:32:22,160
Speaker 1: the Because I like Jesse, I don't want to kill him, right,

628
00:32:22,200 --> 00:32:23,200
Speaker 1: and you just don't know him.

629
00:32:23,200 --> 00:32:24,560
Speaker 2: I don't have any attachment to him.

630
00:32:24,640 --> 00:32:26,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, I would be right there with you. Thank you

631
00:32:26,680 --> 00:32:27,040
Speaker 1: so much.

632
00:32:27,960 --> 00:32:32,720
Speaker 8: Okay, great, Tanya, what's the dirtiest thing Robbie's ever said

633
00:32:32,760 --> 00:32:33,000
Speaker 8: to you.

634
00:32:34,000 --> 00:32:39,320
Speaker 1: I just know this is gonna be I just a drink.

635
00:32:39,720 --> 00:32:41,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, well yeah, I don't know either way.

636
00:32:44,520 --> 00:32:53,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's gonna Oh my gosh, clutching my pearls, I'm

637
00:32:53,080 --> 00:32:55,560
Speaker 1: not the only dirty one.

638
00:32:56,800 --> 00:32:58,800
Speaker 2: You should probably finish it if we did half of

639
00:32:58,880 --> 00:32:59,640
Speaker 2: the other one.

640
00:33:00,040 --> 00:33:03,280
Speaker 1: As much as I could do right there, I'm so sorry. Okay,

641
00:33:03,520 --> 00:33:05,560
Speaker 1: you do not remind you that just hours ago I

642
00:33:05,640 --> 00:33:10,479
Speaker 1: was having my thunderstorm. So let's just let's be gentle

643
00:33:10,520 --> 00:33:14,560
Speaker 1: with thunderstorm, with everythine. Okay, gentle with ever thine?

644
00:33:15,240 --> 00:33:37,440
Speaker 7: Okay, Tanya, Yeah, reveal Whoston your butterfly was or Drake.

645
00:33:40,040 --> 00:33:42,520
Speaker 1: If I'm being totally honest right now, I can tell

646
00:33:42,560 --> 00:33:45,400
Speaker 1: you his first name was Jeff. I do not know

647
00:33:45,440 --> 00:33:46,760
Speaker 1: his last name anymore.

648
00:33:48,640 --> 00:33:51,040
Speaker 4: I want to say Propes, but that's the host.

649
00:33:53,360 --> 00:33:58,360
Speaker 1: So I'm like, that's like hand Bible right now? What

650
00:33:58,480 --> 00:34:00,280
Speaker 1: are you looking him up online? I think I could

651
00:34:00,280 --> 00:34:03,960
Speaker 1: find him on Instagram. Yeah, well, we don't have to

652
00:34:04,000 --> 00:34:08,520
Speaker 1: name last names. It was something easy though, But that's

653
00:34:08,560 --> 00:34:10,560
Speaker 1: crazy that I don't even remember.

654
00:34:11,280 --> 00:34:13,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't, I don't know. I don't know if

655
00:34:13,080 --> 00:34:16,600
Speaker 2: I ever knew. Yeah, yeah, I have no idea.

656
00:34:17,080 --> 00:34:20,560
Speaker 1: He wasn't. He's not public. He's he did come to

657
00:34:20,600 --> 00:34:23,480
Speaker 1: your house, Yeah, but he's not like a public figure

658
00:34:23,520 --> 00:34:24,239
Speaker 1: or anything like that.

659
00:34:24,920 --> 00:34:26,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, don't know, dog, you can't find him. I was

660
00:34:26,719 --> 00:34:28,359
Speaker 2: trying to find him on someone's Instagram. That does.

661
00:34:28,480 --> 00:34:30,120
Speaker 1: Wow, what a great That's a great place to be

662
00:34:30,200 --> 00:34:31,320
Speaker 1: where you like don't remember.

663
00:34:32,080 --> 00:34:34,240
Speaker 2: That's kind of weird a little bit to me really,

664
00:34:34,360 --> 00:34:36,960
Speaker 2: because you were like devastated over him. I was.

665
00:34:37,080 --> 00:34:38,879
Speaker 1: It just goes to show you I was devastated until

666
00:34:38,920 --> 00:34:41,839
Speaker 1: I wasn't until Robbie came in. That's what I meant

667
00:34:41,880 --> 00:34:42,680
Speaker 1: to be like.

668
00:34:42,760 --> 00:34:46,120
Speaker 2: For me, the people that I have been devastated over,

669
00:34:46,400 --> 00:34:48,120
Speaker 2: I know, at least.

670
00:34:47,840 --> 00:34:51,239
Speaker 4: Through I'm sure if I thought about it, I could

671
00:34:51,280 --> 00:34:51,879
Speaker 4: figure it out.

672
00:34:52,040 --> 00:34:55,600
Speaker 3: But I searched Senor Butterfly in my texts and the

673
00:34:55,640 --> 00:34:59,120
Speaker 3: description from when we did the friends thing in New York. Yeah, yeah, yeah,

674
00:34:59,480 --> 00:35:01,239
Speaker 3: we didn't have to on sendy your butterfly. Is he

675
00:35:01,320 --> 00:35:02,200
Speaker 3: Tinya's lobster?

676
00:35:02,640 --> 00:35:06,000
Speaker 1: Oh yeah? And he has not spoilerer It wasn't. But

677
00:35:06,040 --> 00:35:08,600
Speaker 1: it's so true. I feel like all of these guys

678
00:35:09,520 --> 00:35:12,640
Speaker 1: were such a like devastating heartbreak and then Robbie came

679
00:35:12,640 --> 00:35:15,120
Speaker 1: into the picture, and like he's literally like where it

680
00:35:15,120 --> 00:35:17,319
Speaker 1: started for me? Do you know what I mean? Like

681
00:35:17,400 --> 00:35:20,399
Speaker 1: I know like obviously dated people and like I've been

682
00:35:20,440 --> 00:35:22,799
Speaker 1: with other people and like they exist, but like he

683
00:35:22,920 --> 00:35:25,080
Speaker 1: is like, really where my story started for me? I

684
00:35:25,120 --> 00:35:27,600
Speaker 1: forgot that you existed. Yeah, I literally forgot that they

685
00:35:27,640 --> 00:35:33,520
Speaker 1: all existed, Like nobody. My love life didn't start until Robbie.

686
00:35:33,800 --> 00:35:37,480
Speaker 1: Well that's romantic. It's pretty powerful. I have moments. Did

687
00:35:37,480 --> 00:35:41,280
Speaker 1: I tell you that? Like it's pretty powerful. It's pretty powerful.

688
00:35:41,360 --> 00:35:44,520
Speaker 1: Like I had moments where we're like on vacation, our

689
00:35:44,600 --> 00:35:47,279
Speaker 1: last two vacations, where I just sit there and I

690
00:35:47,360 --> 00:35:50,560
Speaker 1: start crying out of nowhere and he's like are you okay?

691
00:35:50,600 --> 00:35:53,000
Speaker 1: And I'm like I don't think you understand. Like I

692
00:35:53,040 --> 00:35:58,239
Speaker 1: was like I spent like all my twenties just like working. No,

693
00:35:58,400 --> 00:36:00,520
Speaker 1: it's like so crazy, and I'm like now I'm like

694
00:36:00,640 --> 00:36:03,440
Speaker 1: finally like getting to enjoy like my life with somebody

695
00:36:03,440 --> 00:36:05,279
Speaker 1: that I love so much, and like it makes me

696
00:36:05,360 --> 00:36:11,000
Speaker 1: emotional crying now just took a turn. I'm also a

697
00:36:11,040 --> 00:36:14,960
Speaker 1: little drunk, but this is like legit, what's happened on

698
00:36:15,080 --> 00:36:17,120
Speaker 1: like our last two trips, and I'm like, I just

699
00:36:17,160 --> 00:36:18,120
Speaker 1: feel very grateful.

700
00:36:19,480 --> 00:36:22,360
Speaker 2: I feel very grateful for him too, for you.

701
00:36:23,760 --> 00:36:25,600
Speaker 1: And I'm like, it's weird because I feel like when

702
00:36:25,640 --> 00:36:27,800
Speaker 1: you meet the person, like I met him in my thirties,

703
00:36:27,800 --> 00:36:29,400
Speaker 1: and I'm like, wow, like what life would have been

704
00:36:29,440 --> 00:36:31,400
Speaker 1: like if I had met him in my twenties. But

705
00:36:31,440 --> 00:36:32,640
Speaker 1: I'm like, I don't think I would have been able

706
00:36:32,680 --> 00:36:35,000
Speaker 1: to like appreciate him or the relationship had I met

707
00:36:35,040 --> 00:36:37,040
Speaker 1: him in my twenties, you know what I mean, Right,

708
00:36:37,239 --> 00:36:38,400
Speaker 1: I was so head down.

709
00:36:38,680 --> 00:36:41,120
Speaker 2: I think all the other people too that you dated,

710
00:36:41,120 --> 00:36:42,960
Speaker 2: that you were like trying to force to be like

711
00:36:43,040 --> 00:36:44,360
Speaker 2: your puzzle.

712
00:36:43,960 --> 00:36:48,439
Speaker 1: Piece gave you the.

713
00:36:47,360 --> 00:36:49,920
Speaker 2: Perspective of what you were looking for when you finally

714
00:36:50,000 --> 00:36:51,880
Speaker 2: met the person, you know. Yeah, and I think you

715
00:36:51,960 --> 00:36:55,200
Speaker 2: knew that when you met Robbie. Yeah, because of those

716
00:36:55,239 --> 00:36:56,439
Speaker 2: people and experiences.

717
00:36:56,680 --> 00:37:00,400
Speaker 1: Yeah. So it's like it's it's weird because because like

718
00:37:00,480 --> 00:37:02,320
Speaker 1: you know, you have those thoughts of like, oh I

719
00:37:02,360 --> 00:37:04,239
Speaker 1: wish I would have met you sooner, you know, but

720
00:37:04,280 --> 00:37:06,440
Speaker 1: then it's like it just wouldn't have I wouldn't have

721
00:37:06,480 --> 00:37:07,880
Speaker 1: appreciated it. I don't think like this.

722
00:37:08,080 --> 00:37:10,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, I agree. I think we meet when we're supposed

723
00:37:10,120 --> 00:37:14,160
Speaker 2: to meet people. Yeah, yeah, you need a tissue.

724
00:37:14,400 --> 00:37:17,600
Speaker 1: No, I'm good. Okay, does it look bad? That looks scary?

725
00:37:17,600 --> 00:37:22,879
Speaker 1: Its tears streaming, thunderstorm. Now we've got the rainstorm.

726
00:37:23,200 --> 00:37:26,640
Speaker 2: This this actually, this episode has a musical aspect to it,

727
00:37:26,680 --> 00:37:28,680
Speaker 2: and it started from the beginning with the click clack

728
00:37:28,800 --> 00:37:32,200
Speaker 2: because Sam and I realized it's like the click clack.

729
00:37:38,719 --> 00:37:40,480
Speaker 4: Yeah, I know the song, but it's not ringing a

730
00:37:40,480 --> 00:37:40,960
Speaker 4: bell to me.

731
00:37:41,440 --> 00:37:45,920
Speaker 2: You'll know when you're hear it you've been doing.

732
00:37:45,960 --> 00:37:49,439
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, geez wow.

733
00:37:49,760 --> 00:37:55,239
Speaker 8: Well, speaking of Becca, is ninety five P still the

734
00:37:55,360 --> 00:37:56,200
Speaker 8: number for Haley?

735
00:37:57,560 --> 00:37:57,640
Speaker 2: No?

736
00:37:57,760 --> 00:37:58,960
Speaker 1: I feel like one hundred P.

737
00:38:00,200 --> 00:38:04,920
Speaker 2: Whoa, that's the present we talked about like forever and

738
00:38:05,040 --> 00:38:09,200
Speaker 2: stuff like ninete my p was so crazy because we

739
00:38:09,200 --> 00:38:11,080
Speaker 2: we weren't out yet, we didn't live together.

740
00:38:11,120 --> 00:38:12,160
Speaker 1: There was like so.

741
00:38:12,160 --> 00:38:14,200
Speaker 2: Many elements that were going to make it challenging. But

742
00:38:14,239 --> 00:38:16,840
Speaker 2: I was so stressed in that moment of like, what's

743
00:38:16,880 --> 00:38:18,640
Speaker 2: not going to get me in trouble? I can't drink

744
00:38:18,640 --> 00:38:20,640
Speaker 2: because she's staring at me. She was like dead center

745
00:38:20,719 --> 00:38:25,359
Speaker 2: in this audience, like looking, what will she say?

746
00:38:26,760 --> 00:38:30,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, such a gorgeous picture of her.

747
00:38:31,400 --> 00:38:33,600
Speaker 2: And then I was like I don't want to say

748
00:38:33,600 --> 00:38:36,959
Speaker 2: too low, but I mean, I don't know. I can't

749
00:38:36,960 --> 00:38:43,359
Speaker 2: say a hundred yet, so I feel confident saying a hundred. Yay, yeah,

750
00:38:45,000 --> 00:38:50,600
Speaker 2: thank you for the enthusiast yaya moment. I feel like

751
00:38:50,840 --> 00:38:52,839
Speaker 2: I just think it's funny that that's a surprise when

752
00:38:52,880 --> 00:38:56,120
Speaker 2: we talk about like all the things I've said about her,

753
00:38:56,160 --> 00:38:57,920
Speaker 2: and that's that's the big that's.

754
00:38:57,760 --> 00:39:00,480
Speaker 1: The big one. Don't get more hondo.

755
00:39:00,760 --> 00:39:02,640
Speaker 2: No. I was saying, you know how we used to

756
00:39:02,719 --> 00:39:05,839
Speaker 2: like reference the nicknames all the time, like the Palm

757
00:39:05,920 --> 00:39:10,080
Speaker 2: Springs episode. I'm like red Star. Yeah, so funny. We

758
00:39:10,120 --> 00:39:11,200
Speaker 2: all did that for a long time.

759
00:39:11,480 --> 00:39:16,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, some red stars in my wedding. Huh, you don't

760
00:39:16,520 --> 00:39:18,480
Speaker 1: have to. I don't have butterflies there.

761
00:39:18,600 --> 00:39:21,319
Speaker 8: Yeah, that should be your gift little bags of red

762
00:39:21,360 --> 00:39:24,400
Speaker 8: star burst.

763
00:39:24,880 --> 00:39:27,879
Speaker 1: Oh in the gift bags like the welcome get welcome things.

764
00:39:27,960 --> 00:39:28,120
Speaker 2: Yeah.

765
00:39:28,360 --> 00:39:33,280
Speaker 1: I was gonna say, we're not doing gifts gifts, Okay,

766
00:39:33,320 --> 00:39:35,919
Speaker 1: we can do some both, okay.

767
00:39:36,480 --> 00:39:43,480
Speaker 8: Fmk or tick to the curb all too well. Champagne problems,

768
00:39:43,880 --> 00:39:45,479
Speaker 8: cruel Summer, Oh my.

769
00:39:45,400 --> 00:39:48,239
Speaker 2: God, that is the hardest one for me ever. I

770
00:39:48,239 --> 00:39:50,520
Speaker 2: think that was really directed towards me because those are

771
00:39:50,520 --> 00:39:51,759
Speaker 2: my top those are.

772
00:39:51,760 --> 00:39:52,359
Speaker 1: My top five.

773
00:39:53,280 --> 00:39:54,640
Speaker 2: I'll let you take it away, go ahead.

774
00:39:55,000 --> 00:39:59,680
Speaker 1: So it's all too well, Well, I would marry cruel summer,

775
00:39:59,800 --> 00:40:03,040
Speaker 1: I would f and champion problems like to the curb.

776
00:40:04,680 --> 00:40:06,600
Speaker 2: This is so hard, I can't do it.

777
00:40:06,600 --> 00:40:09,680
Speaker 1: I might have to drink on this. There are my fate.

778
00:40:09,760 --> 00:40:11,680
Speaker 2: Those are like my I would say, like my is

779
00:40:11,680 --> 00:40:13,000
Speaker 2: it l version?

780
00:40:13,200 --> 00:40:13,719
Speaker 1: Yes?

781
00:40:13,880 --> 00:40:25,320
Speaker 5: Yes, oh she's.

782
00:40:25,600 --> 00:40:28,799
Speaker 1: Every podcast must start with some sort of sound. I'm

783
00:40:28,840 --> 00:40:32,440
Speaker 1: gonna drink because I literally you can't answer that, like

784
00:40:32,480 --> 00:40:35,520
Speaker 1: this is so crazy to me, you want to get drunk. No,

785
00:40:35,600 --> 00:40:36,719
Speaker 1: that's what I gathered there.

786
00:40:36,840 --> 00:40:39,480
Speaker 2: Just I can't think of one that I would feel

787
00:40:39,520 --> 00:40:42,399
Speaker 2: fine never hearing again down the house.

788
00:40:47,040 --> 00:40:51,879
Speaker 1: I know, I will say, I question Alison's judgment after

789
00:40:51,920 --> 00:40:55,920
Speaker 1: her tequilote testing this morning, So we're gonna we're just

790
00:40:56,000 --> 00:41:01,800
Speaker 1: gonna keep that in the back burner. Okay, name someone

791
00:41:01,840 --> 00:41:05,399
Speaker 1: from Bachelor Nation. You do not like that. I do

792
00:41:05,440 --> 00:41:10,839
Speaker 1: not like Oh I know Wan Pablo, although I kind

793
00:41:10,840 --> 00:41:14,759
Speaker 1: of like him now because like he had the daughter

794
00:41:14,840 --> 00:41:20,760
Speaker 1: on American Idol. Yeah I was, Okay, so that doesn't count.

795
00:41:21,680 --> 00:41:24,160
Speaker 2: There's got to be someone from I mean, I don't know,

796
00:41:24,200 --> 00:41:25,239
Speaker 2: I can.

797
00:41:25,160 --> 00:41:25,839
Speaker 3: I answer this one.

798
00:41:25,920 --> 00:41:33,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, Nick Vayel, Wow, tell us more.

799
00:41:35,440 --> 00:41:38,319
Speaker 3: I don't want to go into detail. I strongly do

800
00:41:38,320 --> 00:41:41,279
Speaker 3: not like Nick Vayel personal experience.

801
00:41:41,400 --> 00:41:44,960
Speaker 1: Wow. Whoa, I'm gonna I'm gonna.

802
00:41:45,080 --> 00:41:46,600
Speaker 3: I think I've said this on the air before. Maybe,

803
00:41:47,719 --> 00:41:50,080
Speaker 3: well that's I was not asked this question, but that's

804
00:41:50,120 --> 00:41:52,560
Speaker 3: my answer, Nick Vayel, whoa.

805
00:41:53,160 --> 00:41:55,040
Speaker 2: I guess there was a guy on JoJo's season I

806
00:41:55,040 --> 00:41:56,200
Speaker 2: didn't like Chad Johnson.

807
00:41:57,160 --> 00:41:58,280
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, he's like a villain.

808
00:41:58,360 --> 00:42:05,880
Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, and James H. Taylor Taylor, Yeah, James Taylor.

809
00:42:06,360 --> 00:42:08,280
Speaker 2: I imagine they were thinking about someone a little.

810
00:42:08,080 --> 00:42:18,520
Speaker 5: More juicy, like, name one quality you wish the other

811
00:42:18,600 --> 00:42:22,080
Speaker 5: person was able to release or shift a little because

812
00:42:22,120 --> 00:42:24,279
Speaker 5: you think you would make their lives easier or more

813
00:42:24,400 --> 00:42:28,959
Speaker 5: enjoyable in some way, and explain why I would.

814
00:42:29,360 --> 00:42:32,120
Speaker 1: Are we talking about each other? Yes, I was gonna say.

815
00:42:32,160 --> 00:42:33,920
Speaker 8: She was quick to They said, it's like a twist.

816
00:42:34,840 --> 00:42:37,239
Speaker 8: It's like a twist on asking about a weakness or

817
00:42:37,360 --> 00:42:40,239
Speaker 8: least favorite quality. It feels like a nicer way to

818
00:42:40,239 --> 00:42:40,560
Speaker 8: say that.

819
00:42:41,080 --> 00:42:44,160
Speaker 2: Oh but I like that because that really is what

820
00:42:44,239 --> 00:42:46,920
Speaker 2: a weakness, or at least like a quality is.

821
00:42:47,000 --> 00:42:49,520
Speaker 1: So rephrase the question for me, so I can understand.

822
00:42:49,280 --> 00:42:51,600
Speaker 2: It's like something you'd want me to change that would

823
00:42:51,600 --> 00:42:53,480
Speaker 2: make my life easier if it was if I had

824
00:42:53,480 --> 00:42:55,680
Speaker 2: a different personality, like it would make things easier for me.

825
00:42:55,960 --> 00:42:58,600
Speaker 1: Oh, okay, I know I would like for you to

826
00:42:58,600 --> 00:42:59,640
Speaker 1: not be a people pleaser.

827
00:43:00,400 --> 00:43:02,960
Speaker 2: That's fair. Yeah, I would like for you to like

828
00:43:03,000 --> 00:43:03,719
Speaker 2: go of control.

829
00:43:07,800 --> 00:43:10,320
Speaker 1: It's gonna make in that way.

830
00:43:10,160 --> 00:43:14,120
Speaker 2: Like feeling like you have like I feel like sometimes

831
00:43:14,600 --> 00:43:18,520
Speaker 2: you like to have control over situations, but that extend

832
00:43:18,600 --> 00:43:24,120
Speaker 2: sometimes into like wanting to control like the environment around

833
00:43:24,160 --> 00:43:26,040
Speaker 2: you that sometimes you just don't have control over because

834
00:43:26,040 --> 00:43:28,920
Speaker 2: people have like different personalities and interests.

835
00:43:28,480 --> 00:43:31,799
Speaker 1: And like ways of doing things. Because I think you

836
00:43:31,880 --> 00:43:37,400
Speaker 1: would relax more and have like peace peace. Yeah, it

837
00:43:37,520 --> 00:43:41,560
Speaker 1: does disrupture peace a little bit. Yeah, the lack of

838
00:43:41,920 --> 00:43:43,320
Speaker 1: being able to control everything.

839
00:43:43,400 --> 00:43:47,799
Speaker 2: Yeah, I have it too, you do, Yeah, but in

840
00:43:47,840 --> 00:43:51,239
Speaker 2: a different way. Explain like I have, I have less

841
00:43:51,280 --> 00:43:54,640
Speaker 2: than you, as in I have less of that than you.

842
00:43:54,840 --> 00:43:57,280
Speaker 4: Yeah, I have it in the high gear.

843
00:43:57,200 --> 00:43:59,560
Speaker 2: And like you have people please or mentality too, it's

844
00:43:59,600 --> 00:44:00,400
Speaker 2: just less than me.

845
00:44:01,840 --> 00:44:04,239
Speaker 1: I don't think I have people please their mentality care

846
00:44:04,280 --> 00:44:07,719
Speaker 1: to an extent you think, so, I would say I

847
00:44:07,760 --> 00:44:11,160
Speaker 1: wish I cared more. They know what you know?

848
00:44:11,719 --> 00:44:13,879
Speaker 2: Yeah I do, I'm saying as someone who does.

849
00:44:13,920 --> 00:44:17,240
Speaker 1: You don't, Oh okay, I'm like, yeah I do. Sometimes

850
00:44:17,280 --> 00:44:19,040
Speaker 1: I go to work and I'm like, man, I should

851
00:44:19,040 --> 00:44:21,279
Speaker 1: have like taken just for me.

852
00:44:21,280 --> 00:44:24,160
Speaker 2: To be like, people please are big time with work.

853
00:44:25,400 --> 00:44:27,520
Speaker 2: That's where I actually find that you people please more

854
00:44:27,520 --> 00:44:28,040
Speaker 2: than anything.

855
00:44:28,120 --> 00:44:30,600
Speaker 1: So it's funny you see it as people pleasing. It's

856
00:44:30,719 --> 00:44:36,480
Speaker 1: less people pleasing and like more of this mentality of like.

857
00:44:37,200 --> 00:44:40,000
Speaker 1: And I think it's because of like the boss that

858
00:44:40,040 --> 00:44:42,480
Speaker 1: I had when I was hired, who made me feel

859
00:44:42,480 --> 00:44:45,920
Speaker 1: like I was small. That's where I got my imposter syndrome.

860
00:44:45,960 --> 00:44:48,080
Speaker 1: So I feel like everything that I do is like

861
00:44:48,480 --> 00:44:50,680
Speaker 1: I have to do it because I am. I am.

862
00:44:50,719 --> 00:44:52,680
Speaker 1: I should be grateful and I should be on my knee,

863
00:44:52,719 --> 00:44:55,520
Speaker 1: like grateful, begging on my knees to just do whatever

864
00:44:56,320 --> 00:44:59,080
Speaker 1: because I'm lucky to have to have the position that

865
00:44:59,120 --> 00:45:01,600
Speaker 1: I have. Does that make sense? Like it's not like

866
00:45:01,680 --> 00:45:04,239
Speaker 1: I shouldn't have the position that I have. So it's

867
00:45:04,320 --> 00:45:07,440
Speaker 1: less people pleasing and more like it comes from that

868
00:45:07,560 --> 00:45:11,200
Speaker 1: like imposter syndromesness inside me where I feel like I

869
00:45:11,239 --> 00:45:15,160
Speaker 1: can't speak up necessarily for myself or you know, like

870
00:45:15,560 --> 00:45:18,040
Speaker 1: I want to say, make demands, but just stand up

871
00:45:18,080 --> 00:45:20,000
Speaker 1: for myself in ways because I feel like I need

872
00:45:20,040 --> 00:45:23,000
Speaker 1: to still be small in some ways.

873
00:45:23,400 --> 00:45:26,640
Speaker 2: But that ultimately is pleasing people who make you feel small.

874
00:45:26,840 --> 00:45:29,160
Speaker 1: But it's not people pleasing. It's a different do get,

875
00:45:29,920 --> 00:45:30,880
Speaker 1: but it's a form.

876
00:45:30,960 --> 00:45:33,120
Speaker 2: It's like a form because you're trying to please other

877
00:45:33,160 --> 00:45:35,120
Speaker 2: people because they make you feel small.

878
00:45:35,320 --> 00:45:38,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's not pleasing. Care about that judgment or like

879
00:45:38,520 --> 00:45:40,440
Speaker 1: I care about what they think of me. It's like

880
00:45:40,520 --> 00:45:42,960
Speaker 1: I feel like I should be like I don't know.

881
00:45:43,000 --> 00:45:47,120
Speaker 1: It's like that thing about keep keepers keep a person

882
00:45:47,160 --> 00:45:49,399
Speaker 1: in their place so that they always feel like they're

883
00:45:49,440 --> 00:45:51,040
Speaker 1: like indebted to you. Do you know what I mean?

884
00:45:51,800 --> 00:45:53,040
Speaker 2: We can agree to disagree?

885
00:45:53,360 --> 00:45:55,359
Speaker 1: Does that make sense? I get what you're saying.

886
00:45:55,400 --> 00:45:57,640
Speaker 2: I'm just saying I find it to be a form

887
00:45:57,680 --> 00:45:59,399
Speaker 2: of people pleasing. But I get what you're saying. It's

888
00:45:59,440 --> 00:46:02,960
Speaker 2: different how people please. Yeah, but it's still people pleasing

889
00:46:04,400 --> 00:46:05,000
Speaker 2: that I.

890
00:46:05,000 --> 00:46:10,600
Speaker 1: Really don't that's okay? Agree? Does this agree? Does anybody

891
00:46:10,680 --> 00:46:11,680
Speaker 1: understand where I'm coming from?

892
00:46:11,760 --> 00:46:13,359
Speaker 2: I promise people understand where you're coming from.

893
00:46:13,360 --> 00:46:14,160
Speaker 1: Okay, they always do.

894
00:46:15,080 --> 00:46:17,120
Speaker 2: That's what we love about the Tots.

895
00:46:17,120 --> 00:46:23,320
Speaker 1: Love the Tots. Uh, most awkward interview you've ever had.

896
00:46:23,320 --> 00:46:27,319
Speaker 2: Doctor Drew. I'll never forget it almostly was like what

897
00:46:27,360 --> 00:46:32,319
Speaker 2: are we doing here? We gotta quit? He was so

898
00:46:32,360 --> 00:46:35,319
Speaker 2: short and snappy, remember the Yeah, we were so like

899
00:46:35,920 --> 00:46:36,480
Speaker 2: taken a back.

900
00:46:36,920 --> 00:46:39,839
Speaker 1: Yeah, like thank god we weren't filming the podcast back then,

901
00:46:39,840 --> 00:46:42,480
Speaker 1: because my faith my I was like, gobsmack, I don't

902
00:46:42,480 --> 00:46:44,799
Speaker 1: even remember you speaking. I think you just shut down

903
00:46:44,880 --> 00:46:47,360
Speaker 1: and I was left on my own. Yeah, you were

904
00:46:47,440 --> 00:46:49,200
Speaker 1: left on an island. Yeah, I was.

905
00:46:49,840 --> 00:46:53,160
Speaker 2: He was very intimidating, very short, very like snappy, and

906
00:46:53,200 --> 00:46:55,360
Speaker 2: I think if we had had him in person, it

907
00:46:55,360 --> 00:46:58,839
Speaker 2: would have been less a little less abrasive because it

908
00:46:58,840 --> 00:47:02,120
Speaker 2: it was just our the phone. Yeah, and I doubt

909
00:47:02,120 --> 00:47:04,480
Speaker 2: my questions were super intelligent, and he was like what

910
00:47:04,560 --> 00:47:06,000
Speaker 2: am I doing here? Right?

911
00:47:06,200 --> 00:47:08,000
Speaker 1: So it was our fall totally.

912
00:47:08,239 --> 00:47:11,360
Speaker 2: But it was I remember being like, oh what, I

913
00:47:11,360 --> 00:47:12,560
Speaker 2: don't want to do this anymore.

914
00:47:12,840 --> 00:47:17,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, mine was busy, phillips. And what's so interesting is

915
00:47:17,480 --> 00:47:19,359
Speaker 1: like I do have a different perspective on it now

916
00:47:19,400 --> 00:47:21,520
Speaker 1: than I had. A part of that was no I

917
00:47:21,560 --> 00:47:23,920
Speaker 1: did it for the morning show. I was sent out.

918
00:47:23,960 --> 00:47:26,160
Speaker 1: It was like my first red carpet that I ever worked.

919
00:47:26,920 --> 00:47:30,080
Speaker 1: And this was like back in the day when like

920
00:47:30,280 --> 00:47:34,040
Speaker 1: salacious headlines were like what you wanted, you ask people

921
00:47:34,239 --> 00:47:38,160
Speaker 1: uncomfortable questions, which is like so sick. But I was

922
00:47:38,200 --> 00:47:39,920
Speaker 1: new and it was like my first red carpet and

923
00:47:39,960 --> 00:47:43,000
Speaker 1: they basically said you have one. Everybody everybody there had

924
00:47:43,040 --> 00:47:46,440
Speaker 1: one question to ask her. And I asked her about

925
00:47:46,520 --> 00:47:49,480
Speaker 1: like her best friend dating her other best friend. I

926
00:47:49,480 --> 00:47:51,000
Speaker 1: can't remember who it was at the time. Was it

927
00:47:51,040 --> 00:47:56,799
Speaker 1: Michelle somebody, some other guy she's or something. Were there

928
00:47:56,880 --> 00:47:59,640
Speaker 1: rumors that they were dating? They did date? Oh, they dated, Okay,

929
00:47:59,680 --> 00:48:01,600
Speaker 1: so it was probably It was definitely then about that.

930
00:48:02,400 --> 00:48:06,080
Speaker 1: And she shut me down so hard and like, look

931
00:48:06,160 --> 00:48:08,480
Speaker 1: me that I made me feel like a total piece

932
00:48:08,480 --> 00:48:12,160
Speaker 1: of shit. I can't remember now, like talk like why

933
00:48:12,200 --> 00:48:14,560
Speaker 1: would you ask me about something? Like yeah, something very

934
00:48:14,680 --> 00:48:16,759
Speaker 1: much like why would you ever ask me about that?

935
00:48:16,920 --> 00:48:20,800
Speaker 1: Like check yourself? And it was my first red carpet,

936
00:48:20,920 --> 00:48:22,920
Speaker 1: so it was like I was so upset and I

937
00:48:23,000 --> 00:48:26,640
Speaker 1: just felt like so like to me, I think also

938
00:48:26,680 --> 00:48:28,640
Speaker 1: because I'm on the other side of it, like as

939
00:48:28,680 --> 00:48:31,279
Speaker 1: an interviewer, as a journalist, on the other side, it's

940
00:48:31,360 --> 00:48:34,479
Speaker 1: like you can't hate on people and make them feel

941
00:48:34,480 --> 00:48:36,879
Speaker 1: bad for asking the question. It's their job. There's some

942
00:48:36,880 --> 00:48:40,160
Speaker 1: sometimes people, I know, certain outlets that like make you

943
00:48:40,200 --> 00:48:42,000
Speaker 1: ask certain questions like that wasn't the case for me.

944
00:48:42,040 --> 00:48:44,520
Speaker 1: Nobody made me ask that, But I know that there

945
00:48:44,520 --> 00:48:47,399
Speaker 1: are places that make you ask like those those kind

946
00:48:47,480 --> 00:48:50,920
Speaker 1: of questions, and it's like it's your job as the

947
00:48:50,960 --> 00:48:53,200
Speaker 1: person that's walking the red carpet to know how to

948
00:48:53,320 --> 00:48:55,880
Speaker 1: navigate those questions. Like people have asked me questions on

949
00:48:55,960 --> 00:48:58,319
Speaker 1: carpets and stuff about Ryan that I'm not comfortable with,

950
00:48:58,760 --> 00:49:02,520
Speaker 1: But I it's my job to navigate my answer to that,

951
00:49:02,680 --> 00:49:04,279
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, Like it's yeah, she all

952
00:49:04,360 --> 00:49:06,279
Speaker 1: she had to say was even like you, Like people

953
00:49:06,320 --> 00:49:08,279
Speaker 1: would ask meself about you before you and Haley were out,

954
00:49:08,320 --> 00:49:10,920
Speaker 1: and it's like, yeah, they made me uncomfortable, But it's

955
00:49:10,960 --> 00:49:13,520
Speaker 1: on me to navigate those questions in a way that's

956
00:49:13,560 --> 00:49:15,400
Speaker 1: like comfortable for me, you know, Like I'm never going

957
00:49:15,480 --> 00:49:18,040
Speaker 1: to make the reporter or the journalists feel any type

958
00:49:18,080 --> 00:49:22,640
Speaker 1: of way. So I just remember vividly like not liking

959
00:49:22,680 --> 00:49:24,520
Speaker 1: her for a very long time because of it. But

960
00:49:24,560 --> 00:49:26,680
Speaker 1: I do have a different perspective on it now. I

961
00:49:26,680 --> 00:49:29,600
Speaker 1: don't know. Maybe because I'm older, she wants to just

962
00:49:29,600 --> 00:49:32,160
Speaker 1: protect her friends. But I still think the approach could

963
00:49:32,160 --> 00:49:33,719
Speaker 1: have been she.

964
00:49:33,680 --> 00:49:36,359
Speaker 2: Also didn't know, as you're first, right, you know, right?

965
00:49:36,440 --> 00:49:38,000
Speaker 2: Maybe I would like to think if she knew that,

966
00:49:38,040 --> 00:49:40,120
Speaker 2: she would have been like, oh, you know, let's let's skip.

967
00:49:39,880 --> 00:49:44,120
Speaker 1: That, right, yeah, in a nicer tone. Yeah, wow, heal

968
00:49:44,800 --> 00:49:47,280
Speaker 1: you ask me? Yeah? It was like very like gnarly.

969
00:49:47,320 --> 00:49:50,400
Speaker 1: I was like, I don't know why I asked you that.

970
00:49:55,320 --> 00:49:58,840
Speaker 8: Which celebrity would you give your partners a whole pass for?

971
00:49:59,440 --> 00:49:59,520
Speaker 2: No?

972
00:49:59,680 --> 00:50:02,520
Speaker 1: Never? And which celebrity would you want a hall pass

973
00:50:02,600 --> 00:50:04,080
Speaker 1: for none?

974
00:50:04,880 --> 00:50:09,120
Speaker 4: I don't want whole pass.

975
00:50:07,600 --> 00:50:11,160
Speaker 2: I would give Haley a Hall pass? Or so, are

976
00:50:11,200 --> 00:50:11,680
Speaker 2: you drinking?

977
00:50:11,880 --> 00:50:13,160
Speaker 1: No? I have. That's my answer.

978
00:50:13,239 --> 00:50:16,360
Speaker 2: That's a total fair answer, not an answer game.

979
00:50:17,760 --> 00:50:20,520
Speaker 1: That's not how you play this game. It's my truth.

980
00:50:20,560 --> 00:50:24,080
Speaker 1: You can't take my truth away from me, then drink.

981
00:50:25,120 --> 00:50:27,799
Speaker 1: That's my truthful answer. Just take a little sip. Oh

982
00:50:27,920 --> 00:50:29,400
Speaker 1: my gosh.

983
00:50:29,640 --> 00:50:32,719
Speaker 2: I could have played every question like my truth is

984
00:50:32,760 --> 00:50:34,160
Speaker 2: that I don't want to answer.

985
00:50:34,560 --> 00:50:36,279
Speaker 1: No. I didn't say I don't want to answer, but

986
00:50:36,320 --> 00:50:38,680
Speaker 1: my truth is I would not be comfortable giving Robbie

987
00:50:38,680 --> 00:50:41,320
Speaker 1: a Hall pass for anyone, and I don't want a

988
00:50:41,360 --> 00:50:43,279
Speaker 1: hall pass in my relationship.

989
00:50:43,280 --> 00:50:44,440
Speaker 3: That is the game though, that you have to be

990
00:50:44,520 --> 00:50:47,120
Speaker 3: uncomfortable with the answer kind of.

991
00:50:48,320 --> 00:50:51,440
Speaker 1: I think my I'd give him Jenna Ortega and I would.

992
00:50:51,239 --> 00:50:55,080
Speaker 3: Take wow, whoa, whoa?

993
00:50:57,200 --> 00:50:59,200
Speaker 1: Was that weird? I don't know if she's on of mine.

994
00:50:59,239 --> 00:51:00,880
Speaker 1: She's on top of my mine because she's on all

995
00:51:00,880 --> 00:51:01,400
Speaker 1: the sebrine.

996
00:51:01,960 --> 00:51:04,359
Speaker 2: You're saying you would just pick her for him, Yeah

997
00:51:04,360 --> 00:51:05,400
Speaker 2: he has sure.

998
00:51:05,440 --> 00:51:08,120
Speaker 4: No, No, I don't think so. Oh news to me.

999
00:51:08,320 --> 00:51:12,279
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, give him Jenna Ortega. She young.

1000
00:51:12,320 --> 00:51:14,160
Speaker 4: Actually it might being young.

1001
00:51:14,200 --> 00:51:16,839
Speaker 1: That's why I think we were all just shook right there.

1002
00:51:17,120 --> 00:51:19,120
Speaker 1: I was one, oh.

1003
00:51:20,480 --> 00:51:22,719
Speaker 4: Yeah, well okay, sure, still feels a little weird, but

1004
00:51:22,719 --> 00:51:22,960
Speaker 4: it was.

1005
00:51:22,960 --> 00:51:25,240
Speaker 8: Just from you going from like no One, no one general,

1006
00:51:26,760 --> 00:51:30,200
Speaker 8: like a fresh conversation.

1007
00:51:30,239 --> 00:51:32,239
Speaker 1: She's fresh on my mind because I'm seeing all these

1008
00:51:32,280 --> 00:51:35,600
Speaker 1: like things because she was in Sabrina Carpenter's video. I'm

1009
00:51:35,600 --> 00:51:38,760
Speaker 1: just seeing Jenna or take on all my Okay, change

1010
00:51:38,760 --> 00:51:40,880
Speaker 1: to Casey musk Graves. I'll give him Kasey musk Graves.

1011
00:51:41,560 --> 00:51:44,960
Speaker 1: These were so like that everywhere, okay, because people thought

1012
00:51:44,960 --> 00:51:48,360
Speaker 1: it was Casey musk Graves in the in the photo first, Oh,

1013
00:51:48,640 --> 00:51:51,080
Speaker 1: Sabrina's posted like a teaser of the video, and I

1014
00:51:51,120 --> 00:51:52,399
Speaker 1: don't that was Casey musk Graves.

1015
00:51:52,400 --> 00:51:54,799
Speaker 2: Okay, so you'll give him Casey musk Graves and you'll

1016
00:51:54,840 --> 00:51:56,080
Speaker 2: take Harry Styles.

1017
00:51:56,480 --> 00:52:05,200
Speaker 1: Oh my god, she is hot. Whoa Okay, yeah, follow

1018
00:52:05,239 --> 00:52:09,040
Speaker 1: that up. I'll give both me and Haley, Jennifer and Neiston.

1019
00:52:10,480 --> 00:52:11,160
Speaker 1: That's not fair.

1020
00:52:11,960 --> 00:52:14,360
Speaker 2: I'll give Haley.

1021
00:52:15,200 --> 00:52:19,800
Speaker 1: I'm trying to think who Haley like, Like Sandra Bullock.

1022
00:52:20,320 --> 00:52:22,759
Speaker 2: I don't know if she'd want that type like a

1023
00:52:23,160 --> 00:52:27,160
Speaker 2: past all right, maybe like Margot Robbie.

1024
00:52:27,920 --> 00:52:30,239
Speaker 1: That's Robbie's too, that's a cele.

1025
00:52:30,160 --> 00:52:34,600
Speaker 2: She's everybody's I would love as well. And I would

1026
00:52:34,640 --> 00:52:41,319
Speaker 2: take Chris Hemsworth. Great answer, Wow, Jenniferson, I'll take Jennifermeston.

1027
00:52:43,280 --> 00:52:45,880
Speaker 1: Put your together, he gets too.

1028
00:52:49,680 --> 00:52:52,680
Speaker 2: That was a friend's reference when he's like this or this,

1029
00:52:52,840 --> 00:52:54,520
Speaker 2: he's like, put your hands together.

1030
00:52:55,680 --> 00:52:59,600
Speaker 8: Yeah, your last Google search.

1031
00:53:00,480 --> 00:53:01,600
Speaker 2: It was gonna be so boring.

1032
00:53:01,640 --> 00:53:03,400
Speaker 1: I know mine too. It's gonna be like define.

1033
00:53:03,480 --> 00:53:08,040
Speaker 2: Oh, Jason Stackhouse after because we're talking about Troublo and

1034
00:53:08,120 --> 00:53:09,680
Speaker 2: I thought he was I remember watching it.

1035
00:53:09,680 --> 00:53:10,840
Speaker 1: I thought he was so cute.

1036
00:53:11,239 --> 00:53:14,160
Speaker 2: His name is Ryan Clantonton, So that's all right.

1037
00:53:14,320 --> 00:53:17,440
Speaker 1: Mine is uh pinterest because Becca told me to get

1038
00:53:17,520 --> 00:53:29,839
Speaker 1: pinterest to dot com because Becca told me to look

1039
00:53:29,840 --> 00:53:33,319
Speaker 1: at pinterests of Mexico wedding bridesmaid dresses.

1040
00:53:33,160 --> 00:53:37,000
Speaker 2: Because Tanya wants a black tie wedding but in Mexico

1041
00:53:37,080 --> 00:53:40,040
Speaker 2: and she was thinking about wanting black bridesmaids dresses and

1042
00:53:40,239 --> 00:53:42,360
Speaker 2: it's not gonna look weird. I was like, look on

1043
00:53:42,400 --> 00:53:43,520
Speaker 2: pinters and see there's photos.

1044
00:53:43,520 --> 00:53:46,640
Speaker 4: So she made me down that app and remember my password.

1045
00:53:47,000 --> 00:53:49,200
Speaker 2: I think everyone will be shocked to know that you

1046
00:53:49,239 --> 00:53:51,120
Speaker 2: didn't already have pinterest downloaded it.

1047
00:53:51,200 --> 00:53:54,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, no, did not remember your old pinchers. More than

1048
00:53:54,000 --> 00:53:57,000
Speaker 1: we've discovered what's wrong with Google, Like why, like what's

1049
00:53:57,040 --> 00:53:59,960
Speaker 1: wrong with Google? Why does everything have to be pincher.

1050
00:54:00,040 --> 00:54:01,960
Speaker 1: It's like, why can't you just Google images of like

1051
00:54:02,440 --> 00:54:02,799
Speaker 1: you can?

1052
00:54:02,960 --> 00:54:05,640
Speaker 2: But pinterress has like a aesthetic that you can like

1053
00:54:05,840 --> 00:54:07,840
Speaker 2: curate more than Google images.

1054
00:54:09,040 --> 00:54:10,920
Speaker 3: I think we've realized that I just felt to Google

1055
00:54:10,920 --> 00:54:13,759
Speaker 3: too for everything, and I saw that like more more

1056
00:54:13,800 --> 00:54:17,400
Speaker 3: young people are using TikTok instead of like before Google,

1057
00:54:17,680 --> 00:54:19,000
Speaker 3: like that's the top search engine.

1058
00:54:19,040 --> 00:54:23,759
Speaker 1: That's how my Paulina looks up stuff. Like recommendations like

1059
00:54:23,800 --> 00:54:25,880
Speaker 1: restaurants and stuff. She'll go to TikTok. Yeah, I do

1060
00:54:25,920 --> 00:54:26,239
Speaker 1: that too.

1061
00:54:26,719 --> 00:54:28,719
Speaker 2: I do that too, Yeah, because I like to see

1062
00:54:28,760 --> 00:54:30,360
Speaker 2: like actual reviews from people.

1063
00:54:31,160 --> 00:54:33,000
Speaker 3: See I tried that one. It is like how do

1064
00:54:33,040 --> 00:54:35,200
Speaker 3: I get ketchup out of my jeans? And it's like,

1065
00:54:35,239 --> 00:54:37,200
Speaker 3: you know, some person doing weird dance and pointing at

1066
00:54:37,200 --> 00:54:40,960
Speaker 3: a thing. I like use vinegar Like, I was like,

1067
00:54:41,040 --> 00:54:43,680
Speaker 3: I can just google this information.

1068
00:54:45,400 --> 00:54:48,160
Speaker 8: Have you ever lied about where you've been to Haley

1069
00:54:48,360 --> 00:54:49,000
Speaker 8: or Robbie?

1070
00:54:49,719 --> 00:54:53,239
Speaker 2: Yes, because I was trying to surprise her. I used

1071
00:54:53,280 --> 00:54:55,480
Speaker 2: to surprise her all the time when she was on tour,

1072
00:54:55,840 --> 00:54:57,240
Speaker 2: and so I'd always have to lie.

1073
00:54:57,600 --> 00:55:01,480
Speaker 1: Oh wow, Yeah, I don't think I have about where

1074
00:55:01,520 --> 00:55:04,520
Speaker 1: I've been. We have life three sixty so we can

1075
00:55:04,560 --> 00:55:06,560
Speaker 1: see where each other are at all times at the day,

1076
00:55:06,680 --> 00:55:10,120
Speaker 1: when we're in the car, when we're walking. It's glorious.

1077
00:55:11,040 --> 00:55:14,120
Speaker 2: I will never do that, but I'm happy for both

1078
00:55:14,160 --> 00:55:16,520
Speaker 2: of you. I'm glad that you found someone that was

1079
00:55:16,560 --> 00:55:17,440
Speaker 2: happy to do that with you.

1080
00:55:17,600 --> 00:55:19,839
Speaker 1: Well, if it's if I'm being honest, it was not

1081
00:55:20,440 --> 00:55:22,600
Speaker 1: to really share with me, it is to share with

1082
00:55:22,600 --> 00:55:23,399
Speaker 1: the kids.

1083
00:55:24,120 --> 00:55:28,440
Speaker 9: Just snuck it right in there and sharing each other

1084
00:55:28,520 --> 00:55:30,040
Speaker 9: and now so like all four of us are in

1085
00:55:30,080 --> 00:55:33,080
Speaker 9: a like a family one, so all of us can

1086
00:55:33,160 --> 00:55:34,880
Speaker 9: like see where four of us are yet.

1087
00:55:34,840 --> 00:55:38,479
Speaker 1: Great, Yeah it really worked out for me. Somebody gonna

1088
00:55:38,480 --> 00:55:39,080
Speaker 1: met your freak?

1089
00:55:39,239 --> 00:55:39,560
Speaker 2: Really?

1090
00:55:41,360 --> 00:55:42,040
Speaker 1: Yeah?

1091
00:55:42,120 --> 00:55:45,000
Speaker 8: Okay, so this will be the last one, and it's

1092
00:55:45,239 --> 00:55:48,560
Speaker 8: make it good. Sam, it's the same but different. Becca,

1093
00:55:48,719 --> 00:55:53,960
Speaker 8: you have to erase one memory meeting Haley or getting Phoebe.

1094
00:55:55,200 --> 00:55:57,320
Speaker 1: Tanya, you have to erase.

1095
00:55:57,040 --> 00:56:01,319
Speaker 8: One memory meeting Robbie or getting Sonny.

1096
00:56:01,560 --> 00:56:06,120
Speaker 1: Let me grab my shot glass. I wouldn't even have

1097
00:56:06,160 --> 00:56:12,160
Speaker 1: an answer to that. That's an impossible question. Go ahead

1098
00:56:12,200 --> 00:56:20,480
Speaker 1: and finish that little ships there, she goes sad. The

1099
00:56:20,920 --> 00:56:22,319
Speaker 1: sweet thing about Sonny is like.

1100
00:56:25,200 --> 00:56:29,840
Speaker 4: That memory.

1101
00:56:30,000 --> 00:56:34,279
Speaker 1: This was so crazy. We were at Jay Shetty's live show.

1102
00:56:34,920 --> 00:56:38,799
Speaker 1: He'd went on tour. This was probably last year, and

1103
00:56:38,800 --> 00:56:40,719
Speaker 1: he does like a very immersive experience where like ask

1104
00:56:40,760 --> 00:56:43,480
Speaker 1: the audience to close your eyes and then picture yourself

1105
00:56:43,719 --> 00:56:47,920
Speaker 1: in like your favorite memory of your life, Like what's

1106
00:56:48,000 --> 00:56:51,000
Speaker 1: the one memory that you have in your head that

1107
00:56:51,200 --> 00:56:53,600
Speaker 1: where you had ever Like it was like everybody, it

1108
00:56:53,680 --> 00:56:58,279
Speaker 1: was like your happiest, most loving, fondest memory in your brain.

1109
00:56:58,360 --> 00:57:00,440
Speaker 1: And so he starts you have to think about that.

1110
00:57:00,480 --> 00:57:03,360
Speaker 1: And then he's asking all these questions about that, and

1111
00:57:03,880 --> 00:57:06,799
Speaker 1: Robbie and I asked each other, like when we were

1112
00:57:06,840 --> 00:57:09,040
Speaker 1: done with all the stuff that we had to do

1113
00:57:09,239 --> 00:57:12,840
Speaker 1: through it, what that memory was. And I was like

1114
00:57:12,880 --> 00:57:14,960
Speaker 1: convinced it was like when like I just did not

1115
00:57:15,040 --> 00:57:17,400
Speaker 1: think that we had the same memory and both of

1116
00:57:17,440 --> 00:57:21,920
Speaker 1: our same memory was when we got Sonny, Oh my gosh.

1117
00:57:21,920 --> 00:57:24,480
Speaker 1: And it was because it really was kind of like

1118
00:57:24,520 --> 00:57:27,400
Speaker 1: the first time where we really felt like a family

1119
00:57:27,480 --> 00:57:29,000
Speaker 1: of four, you know what I mean, Like it was

1120
00:57:29,040 --> 00:57:33,760
Speaker 1: like the first time that like I think Sonny because

1121
00:57:33,800 --> 00:57:36,160
Speaker 1: the kids had been wanting a puppy for so long

1122
00:57:36,240 --> 00:57:39,360
Speaker 1: and like they were begging their dad, and I think

1123
00:57:39,440 --> 00:57:42,080
Speaker 1: they always thank me because they were like, he never

1124
00:57:42,120 --> 00:57:44,760
Speaker 1: would have gotten a dog if you weren't in the picture.

1125
00:57:45,440 --> 00:57:49,800
Speaker 1: And so there's this like bond that that whole experience

1126
00:57:49,840 --> 00:57:52,120
Speaker 1: gave us, where like it really made us a family

1127
00:57:52,160 --> 00:57:54,640
Speaker 1: for the first time. Like that whole weekend was just

1128
00:57:54,680 --> 00:57:57,000
Speaker 1: like I don't know, it was the first time that

1129
00:57:57,000 --> 00:57:59,360
Speaker 1: we really felt like a family, and like that is

1130
00:57:59,400 --> 00:58:02,160
Speaker 1: like it was is such a beautiful thing that we had.

1131
00:58:02,520 --> 00:58:06,720
Speaker 1: That's so sweet. I know, Yeah, it was like the

1132
00:58:06,760 --> 00:58:10,560
Speaker 1: whole experience really just made us feel like and she

1133
00:58:10,920 --> 00:58:13,240
Speaker 1: is that thing for all four of us because we

1134
00:58:13,400 --> 00:58:16,680
Speaker 1: all love her so much, like she is like the

1135
00:58:16,800 --> 00:58:18,800
Speaker 1: light of all of our lives, and so it's like

1136
00:58:18,840 --> 00:58:21,439
Speaker 1: that thing that bonds us. Obviously we love each other.

1137
00:58:21,880 --> 00:58:23,320
Speaker 2: She's the nucleus of the thing.

1138
00:58:23,440 --> 00:58:28,760
Speaker 1: She really is the nucleus. Yeah, so sweet.

1139
00:58:29,240 --> 00:58:33,200
Speaker 2: I'm a little drunk and I was precious and ready

1140
00:58:33,200 --> 00:58:34,520
Speaker 2: to eat some chips.

1141
00:58:34,600 --> 00:58:39,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm not to go away by the pool. So yeah, uh,

1142
00:58:39,320 --> 00:58:41,760
Speaker 1: that's all for now. That's all from Palm Spring. You

1143
00:58:41,840 --> 00:58:44,680
Speaker 1: never know, we might do one more. Yeah, if we're

1144
00:58:44,680 --> 00:58:50,880
Speaker 1: feeling it in this airbnb on the we have plenty

1145
00:58:50,920 --> 00:58:53,360
Speaker 1: of hours left. So you're still out.

1146
00:58:53,720 --> 00:58:55,480
Speaker 2: The mics are hot, and they're out.

1147
00:58:56,720 --> 00:58:58,840
Speaker 4: Exactly, exactly exactly.

1148
00:59:01,720 --> 00:59:04,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's good. End clicking all right.

1149
00:59:06,560 --> 00:59:08,600
Speaker 3: Again, you'll be hearing the click.

1150
00:59:09,200 --> 00:59:11,480
Speaker 1: Walking out to the further away.

1151
00:59:11,720 --> 00:59:15,360
Speaker 2: Okay, hold on, we need a distant a distant clink.

1152
00:59:16,560 --> 00:59:21,919
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, there she goes. That's the end of the pond,

1153
00:59:22,000 --> 00:59:28,400
Speaker 2: right there, folks. She's all shuffling and clicking the shuffle, click.

1154
00:59:30,600 --> 00:59:34,680
Speaker 1: The old shovel and click. Al right, we'll have so

1155
00:59:34,800 --> 00:59:35,000
Speaker 1: much