Speaker 1: Watch up and welcome back to another episode and No
Speaker 1: Sillers podcast with your host. Now fun that with your
Speaker 1: low glasses Malone. Okay, so here's the question, right, is
Speaker 1: it fair to say that's your baby? Mom? Is your family? Pete? Dog?
Speaker 1: What's happening? So look right right here? I bought the homies,
Speaker 1: the l A giants right yes, in South Central Um.
Speaker 1: I fought with these niggas all the time, like day
Speaker 1: you feel me, Um. Some niggas I helped get their
Speaker 1: own label, Giant Life for me. Just some solid niggas,
Speaker 1: like they grew up in the culture, but they're not
Speaker 1: necessarily on the militant side name from No Game, but
Speaker 1: they grew up within all his relationship. Yeah, what up?
Speaker 1: What's up with it? Bro? Dude? What up? Because nobody
Speaker 1: can't see you back? What's happening? Man? Pass man too long?
Speaker 1: So Joey, look Mother's Day weekend this weekend? Right, tell
Speaker 1: me the story about what happened. So, so look, Pete.
Speaker 1: They're releasing a song, right, I know right. I saw
Speaker 1: a comment about it because called baby Mama love right
Speaker 1: this song was dope. Fucking Remind me alike, dear Mama,
Speaker 1: makes me keep your head up, like it's it's from
Speaker 1: this real, honest place, and you know nigga, like culturally,
Speaker 1: you know me and their baby mama is in our
Speaker 1: community automatically beef because the relationship didn't really work out.
Speaker 1: So that's how it comes across. But I funk with
Speaker 1: Joey right because he tries to keep a real positive
Speaker 1: relationship with raising his children. So he was telling me
Speaker 1: this crazy story. Could tell his story, can tell me?
Speaker 1: So when you showed your old lady baby mama love,
Speaker 1: what like, just tell me that story. He was telling me, Oh,
Speaker 1: keep it because don't get up with his mother because
Speaker 1: you're gonna get in trouble anyway. Yeah, it didn't really,
Speaker 1: it didn't really go too deep, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: She just I could just tell that she kind of
Speaker 1: internalized it in a way to where, you know, you
Speaker 1: gotta tell the old story because they don't know what
Speaker 1: we're talking about. You have to tell the old story.
Speaker 1: Oh you mean, oh you're talking about Okay, So how
Speaker 1: the conversations like how did it start? And how to eat?
Speaker 1: All the way to tell Pete the story? Guy, give
Speaker 1: it a bean, No man, No nice guys got out
Speaker 1: to get on Joey bro because Joey trying to be
Speaker 1: a nice guy instead of just telling the guy that's
Speaker 1: a nice guy. You didn't hear how I threw myself
Speaker 1: off a cliff for the audience sake a couple episodes
Speaker 1: and go yeah, because it was it didn't it didn't
Speaker 1: get it. It didn't like, it didn't get deep like that.
Speaker 1: It was just what crazy is I because you know,
Speaker 1: of course I know my lady so already, you know,
Speaker 1: prior to right now, you know what I'm saying, you know,
Speaker 1: I she was aware of the record, and she had
Speaker 1: already kind of expressed like the tight of the record.
Speaker 1: She kind of was already expressed like, yeah, I'm not
Speaker 1: really interested in hearing that. You feel me that has
Speaker 1: to really listen to it, And I understood, you know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. I kind of just laughed it off
Speaker 1: at that time. Was it tripping? But uh, as of
Speaker 1: recent you know, we've been doing low promos and things
Speaker 1: like that and shooting videos and just so happy that
Speaker 1: we're about to you know it just it was kind
Speaker 1: of like the universe is why this single was coming
Speaker 1: out the way obviously, Yeah, and so we're dipping in
Speaker 1: the car on my way to uh you know, to
Speaker 1: go funk with the homie, and she just out the blue,
Speaker 1: just like so uh. As soon as she said so, uh,
Speaker 1: I was like I kind of you know you, I
Speaker 1: kind of knew She's like, so what what what kind
Speaker 1: of what major do I want to go with the
Speaker 1: Baby Mama love song first? You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: And I just was like, oh, well, you know it's
Speaker 1: it's marketing. I'm pretty much as told it like it
Speaker 1: was just was the best decision for us to make.
Speaker 1: It wasn't really the original decision, but yeah, right Mother's Day.
Speaker 1: Of course, the whole project, we was looking for release days.
Speaker 1: We didn't really know how he's releasing it caause we
Speaker 1: were still trying to figure out like, okay, how we
Speaker 1: gonna market this still, you know, based on you know,
Speaker 1: should we be talking about. And I just explained it
Speaker 1: to her like as Mother's Day, and we felt like
Speaker 1: it would be a it will be like smart for
Speaker 1: us to drop it around this time, and it's a
Speaker 1: you know, beautiful dedication to mother's in general, not alone
Speaker 1: you know, uh, let alone baby Mamas. So and she
Speaker 1: kind of understood, but really didn't really elaborate. After that,
Speaker 1: she kind of just like okay, and then kind of
Speaker 1: left it alone at that. You know, we didn't really
Speaker 1: and I wasn't trying to really get too deep into
Speaker 1: it after that, you know, answered the question to Kevine moving,
Speaker 1: do you think she really understood it? Honestly, No, I
Speaker 1: don't think she really understands it. I think it's just
Speaker 1: the whole idea of what the song is saying in
Speaker 1: the title, and she eternalized it as that and just
Speaker 1: kind of like that's how she hearing and see it.
Speaker 1: So I'm not sure if she ever because you know,
Speaker 1: I only think she really listened to the soul thoroughly
Speaker 1: to really get what the message really is. Just no,
Speaker 1: we don't have children. Okay, So pig c wait, hold on,
Speaker 1: she did you just ask do you think she really
Speaker 1: understood it? How would you ask that? I asked that, gud,
Speaker 1: That's exactly what I asked, because this this why and
Speaker 1: I noticed is right whenever I talked to Brandy right
Speaker 1: about like day perception bro about like baby Daddy's and
Speaker 1: baby Mama's is so like screwed up in our community,
Speaker 1: dog like, So I'm explaining right to Brandy's cousin, right, Meek,
Speaker 1: I'm telling me. I'm like, look, Mika, Like she was
Speaker 1: telling me she was worried about the relationship her husband
Speaker 1: shared with his baby mama, And I'm like, they got
Speaker 1: three kids, you feel me, Like, you know, obviously y'all
Speaker 1: getting you know, y'all married more than kids, right, Yeah.
Speaker 1: So she was like, well, why does he have to
Speaker 1: have a relationship with her? And I'm like, because they
Speaker 1: have three kids, Because they have three children, and it's
Speaker 1: about the kids. Yeah, and and no matter what, like
Speaker 1: you tied in permanently. And I think this was the
Speaker 1: hardest part for her understanding. This is why I wish
Speaker 1: I had a woman on this podcast. This is what's
Speaker 1: the hardest part for her to understand. I was like,
Speaker 1: their family. She's like, no, they're not family. I'm like, yes,
Speaker 1: they are, like literally, and this is before I heard
Speaker 1: y'all son, right, I was like, yeah, they have you know,
Speaker 1: they started a whole generation of kids together. That's gonna
Speaker 1: create a generation of people. And there at the you know,
Speaker 1: at the at the root of the tree, like this
Speaker 1: is how the tree is going up, you know, I
Speaker 1: mean straight from them. And she found it so hard
Speaker 1: to understand that they were a family. Just to clarify
Speaker 1: something really quickly, Joey, you were saying because at first
Speaker 1: it was kind of a little bit at least vague
Speaker 1: to me. So you're in the car with your girl
Speaker 1: and there's a song about baby mama love, and she
Speaker 1: didn't want to hear because you she thought it was
Speaker 1: about still having love with your baby mama from before.
Speaker 1: I think I think when she hears baby Mama loves,
Speaker 1: she she thinks of it as maybe it's a song
Speaker 1: about me expression like how much, maybe like I'm in
Speaker 1: love with my baby mama still is something like more
Speaker 1: like to that verss I almost sounded like knocking down
Speaker 1: your baby mama on the sneak. I was assuming this
Speaker 1: only because if that, like, why else would you? Why else?
Speaker 1: Because you have? Because you have, It's not that and
Speaker 1: this is women's this is women's life. Yeah, that too, exactly,
Speaker 1: because it's not. She knows what the song is. She
Speaker 1: obviously know you wouldn't be in the middle of what
Speaker 1: you're going through with her if you were in love
Speaker 1: with your baby mom. It's no way possible she would
Speaker 1: be okay with it. So it's no way possible she
Speaker 1: could mistake what the concept of the song is. But genuinely,
Speaker 1: and it's funny because I talked to dudes, We talked
Speaker 1: about this ship all the time. It's like, you know,
Speaker 1: you really can't like it's weird. How you know, if
Speaker 1: you and your kids mind don't work out and then
Speaker 1: you go to another relationship, you're in a situation where
Speaker 1: they almost don't want you to have a relationship with
Speaker 1: the kids parents. Yeah, yeah, unless they got if they
Speaker 1: got stuck up, if they if they could create a
Speaker 1: relationship a friendship, then it be cool. But if they
Speaker 1: don't have a friendship or they don't communicate at all,
Speaker 1: then that's where and be like, well if she ain't
Speaker 1: cool with me, then you shouldn't be cool with her.
Speaker 1: Mm hmm. Okay. Do you think that's because maybe like okay,
Speaker 1: and this is something that Mika was saying to me,
Speaker 1: do you think that is because there's a genuine like
Speaker 1: still affinity or affection between like the mom and the
Speaker 1: dad of the child, Like do you think the reason
Speaker 1: like right, your girl feel that way because it's because
Speaker 1: because like has she ever asked to meet you know,
Speaker 1: your kids? Mom? Who are you asking Joe did she
Speaker 1: asked to meet her um? She ever said, let me like, right,
Speaker 1: we together, we need I think they're planning to get married.
Speaker 1: We're gonna get married one day. Has she ever said,
Speaker 1: you know what, I need to meet my future step
Speaker 1: daughters mother. No, she didn't offer that. I kind of no,
Speaker 1: she didn't do that. I kind of just made that happen,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. When you know I was
Speaker 1: ready to make that happen. Yeah, that's more like ship.
Speaker 1: We would I curated that like that ain't something she offered, Like,
Speaker 1: but I know what you're saying, because it seems like
Speaker 1: that would make sense, Like I dealt with it. If
Speaker 1: I dealt with that on the other side, I can
Speaker 1: definitely be like I would be interested in knowing you
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. It seems like like we were
Speaker 1: like right like like yo, Like if let's say, your
Speaker 1: baby mom's right have like somebody bringing somebody around yo, yo,
Speaker 1: your son douce right? Yeah, like yo, your baby mama
Speaker 1: bringing somebody around your son? You would want of me
Speaker 1: who the dude is right back? Who is this dude
Speaker 1: that's gonna be around my son? Dealt with that? And
Speaker 1: if and if the nigga tripping like he don't want
Speaker 1: to meet me, then I feel like this nigga is
Speaker 1: some type of weirdo it has nigga or something. So,
Speaker 1: but I would meet. I immediately meet the person, exchange numbers.
Speaker 1: You know, we cool, like you know my my baby
Speaker 1: mama's um daughter. She has a kid that she had
Speaker 1: after she we had a kid. So her kids, her
Speaker 1: daughter's father, Me and this nigga cool. We topped it
Speaker 1: up and all that. You know what I mean. We talked,
Speaker 1: we we we were straight. Yeah. Okay, So Joey, let
Speaker 1: me ask you a better question. Did joe baby mom
Speaker 1: asked to meet your girl eventually? Yeah, once she thought
Speaker 1: of real she said I need to meet her. Yeah,
Speaker 1: she was. She was comfortable with when she was really
Speaker 1: ready to meet her, she would wanted to meet her. No,
Speaker 1: not not wheading. Did she ever press you to like
Speaker 1: you need to set up a meeting so I can
Speaker 1: see who's gonna be around my daughter? Um, I'm trying
Speaker 1: to remember this has been a few years now. Not like,
Speaker 1: did you ever feel that pressure, like the pressure you
Speaker 1: would like, let's say somebody around your daughter? Right? Um?
Speaker 1: So dude, So Pete, Joey got a daughter. Dudes got
Speaker 1: a son. Did like when she met a dude right
Speaker 1: and you realized he was gonna be around you dressed right.
Speaker 1: That's what I'm trying to figure out, right, because I
Speaker 1: don't got no kids, so I'm trying to figure out
Speaker 1: why are we so conscious as men right now? I
Speaker 1: can't say this is generalization because I would hope some
Speaker 1: other mothers would press you, like, who was this nick
Speaker 1: who was just brought theories? And be careful with the generalizations. Man,
Speaker 1: you know they'd be tripping. That's why any specifying that ship.
Speaker 1: But I'm trying to make a fall every time. That's
Speaker 1: why they're grasping at alibis. They need us a reason
Speaker 1: to pull out a complaint against you down the road.
Speaker 1: So that's that's university. So what's your general theories, Pete?
Speaker 1: I think because a lot of men have a minority
Speaker 1: share of time with the kids, that they value their
Speaker 1: role in raising the kid more. It's a little bit
Speaker 1: more of a pure selfless interest. And I think a
Speaker 1: lot of the women feel that they're saddled with the
Speaker 1: responsibility of having this kid like of the time or
Speaker 1: whatever the hell, and they has a lot of resentment,
Speaker 1: and the and the parenting dynamic becomes a lot more
Speaker 1: selfish on their side with regard to their perspective a
Speaker 1: lot because they're saddled with having to do a lot
Speaker 1: more of the day to day you know, heavy lifting,
Speaker 1: so to speak, just by nature of the way most um,
Speaker 1: what do you call it, custody dynamics are well, I mean,
Speaker 1: women carry the baby for ten months. You don't even
Speaker 1: get to be a parent at best during the pregnancy.
Speaker 1: You could be a husband or a boyfriend, right, you
Speaker 1: can't be apparent when somebody pregnant. They they women get
Speaker 1: a ten month hand started being a parent before you
Speaker 1: ever get a chance. But you don't think most of it, Pete,
Speaker 1: comes from the fact that that um that women like
Speaker 1: outside of the custody stuff, that women literally are parents
Speaker 1: for like a four ten months versus men not at all,
Speaker 1: not really, And I don't see how that correlates with
Speaker 1: them being disinterested with who the other parents are bringing
Speaker 1: around the kid and being less territorial. If anything, it
Speaker 1: would it would be the opposite. Yeah, it seems like
Speaker 1: it would make you more territorial. Yeah, but they are territorial, right,
Speaker 1: that's why women tend to selectively. Yeah, I feel like
Speaker 1: they're territorial in a self serving way more so than
Speaker 1: territorial in the kids serving way. And a lot of occasions,
Speaker 1: is that why you never had a get well, I
Speaker 1: never had a kid. The reason why I never had
Speaker 1: a kid was because I'm not going to have a
Speaker 1: kid if I'm not married and I'm not gonna do
Speaker 1: all that stuff if I'm not financially prepared to like
Speaker 1: be able to for sure guarantee that I can provide
Speaker 1: on a standard that I feel I need to provide
Speaker 1: on it, like like like to meet the responsibility threshold
Speaker 1: that I have for myself. So since I wasn't there,
Speaker 1: it was never even a question. You would think, right,
Speaker 1: because you know how your baby mom is, right, they
Speaker 1: if you noticed, women feel like it's their kid, right
Speaker 1: for the most part, and you know, they pretty much
Speaker 1: issue you out kind of how you interact, right you
Speaker 1: you have to literally fight to get that right, And
Speaker 1: I get it. You would just think that they would
Speaker 1: be more worried and concerned about who's around the kid. Okay, Pete,
Speaker 1: I got you. Hold up, what about the fact that
Speaker 1: they know the kid is with the father and the
Speaker 1: father is a different power dynamic, So maybe that's why
Speaker 1: they're not as worried. That's true. And I think that
Speaker 1: women probably have less of a prejudicial concern over other
Speaker 1: women being predatory versus men looking at other strange men
Speaker 1: being predatory towards kids. That's probably also real. Sure, So
Speaker 1: let me ask you a questions. Only when the song
Speaker 1: come out and she hears it, how do you deal
Speaker 1: with if she's gonna trip? I mean, I know this
Speaker 1: is all all ideally because this is like you move
Speaker 1: into a different direction and this is a song showing
Speaker 1: love to the person again you were thinking would make sense.
Speaker 1: She was like, Okay, she understands the blessing even as
Speaker 1: a woman, right, she would hope that even if her
Speaker 1: and her guy right didn't. I don't even think they
Speaker 1: think that far it. That's another story. But I'm saying,
Speaker 1: you would think that somebody would have love for them
Speaker 1: giving them a child, Like I like, how does this
Speaker 1: play out? Honestly, man, I'm not even thinking about that
Speaker 1: at this point. My intentions is pure. It's it's my creation,
Speaker 1: it's my art, and that's what it is, you know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, Like, I haven't really been dripping off.
Speaker 1: I tried to ask Elna feel about it. Yeah, I'm
Speaker 1: not really worried about something I havn't you know occurred
Speaker 1: at this point, you know, because that should have making
Speaker 1: my anxiety already bad. So I don't need I don't
Speaker 1: need to be worried. I don't need to be worried
Speaker 1: about that. You know what I'm saying. I believe in
Speaker 1: the record. You know what I'm saying. It's getting great
Speaker 1: responses from people who has heard it. And what is
Speaker 1: your bad mama think of the record? And I don't
Speaker 1: know if she heard it yet? So you you so
Speaker 1: the one motherfucker you ain't you made the record that
Speaker 1: inspired you to make the record. You ain't let that
Speaker 1: motherfucker here, dude, your baby one record here, No dude,
Speaker 1: bad MoMA heard the record, I think, so just cam
Speaker 1: here your record. How many motherfucker's the record besides your
Speaker 1: baby mama? A lot of people heard that motherfucker. So
Speaker 1: let me this right. The one motherfucker who inspired the
Speaker 1: record hasn't heard neither one of you niggas played the
Speaker 1: record for them. Man, niggas ain't going out that way
Speaker 1: to be like, look at the Hey, hey, look at
Speaker 1: this record I made. You mean you're not going out
Speaker 1: to your way to show your baby mama looven start
Speaker 1: at the trouble, the beginning with love. Yeah. Now, I
Speaker 1: mean my daughter heard it. My daughter took his dope.
Speaker 1: She probably mentioned it or something, But I didn't go
Speaker 1: on my way to say shout my ship my daughter
Speaker 1: in the video. Yea froendsu ship. How I mean it's
Speaker 1: coming out nig ship and seeing what you got, gonna
Speaker 1: see your baby mama the video ahead of time. Man,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna getting edited still nigga. Yes, like they catch
Speaker 1: they catch the nigga. Y'all just debuted the video at
Speaker 1: Crest Grooves. Nigga in front of fifteen thousand people. How
Speaker 1: to fund your babby? Mama didn't see the video? Well,
Speaker 1: y ain't ship man, man, Man, that's rough ship. It's nice. Uh,
Speaker 1: it's rough man. You can't just see your baby like okay,
Speaker 1: So what stops you? Is it? Because I think it's
Speaker 1: one of the situations where just like when they come out,
Speaker 1: they're gonna get you know, how did you put too
Speaker 1: much start into that? Either? Like I could send it
Speaker 1: without a problem. You know what I'm saying, especially now
Speaker 1: that I got the link where you know it's kind
Speaker 1: of clearer and ship, Um, I can send it, but
Speaker 1: I just didn't I want a tripping like that. I
Speaker 1: know what had come across her radar when it was
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, I'm talking about telling my
Speaker 1: daughter to the dentist and ship like that. We didn't
Speaker 1: talking about videos. You gotta deal with. You gotta deal
Speaker 1: with why I wasn't in the video and ship, I
Speaker 1: wouldn't worry about that, but you know what, he might
Speaker 1: be right. You never know, women are dnist why I
Speaker 1: wasn't in the video, or under selling a woman's desire
Speaker 1: to complain about something. It's not a wise you know
Speaker 1: a way to go. Um yeah, man, they're gonna find
Speaker 1: something to complain about the show. So is it. We
Speaker 1: didn't mention my whole name and the song so obviously
Speaker 1: obviously right, y'all got kids, We don't got kids, so
Speaker 1: obviously y'all really grateful for your kids for sure. Of
Speaker 1: course we love our kids. Which is I mean, you
Speaker 1: gotta think, man, with your kids. Man, that's the that's
Speaker 1: really the glue, and that's what the other the other yo, Yo,
Speaker 1: your new relationship. You know, don't understand that it's really
Speaker 1: the kid, because if the kid wasn't involved, then your
Speaker 1: connection would be less. The song wouldn't exist. What a
Speaker 1: connection would be less if if you didn't have a
Speaker 1: kid with your baby mama. You wouldn't deal with your
Speaker 1: baby mama's as much if you didn't have kids with them,
Speaker 1: that would just be an X. Yeah. So the song
Speaker 1: ain't tell my ex I love her, so I mean yeah,
Speaker 1: and then you know one of them songs like man,
Speaker 1: you know it meet some songs like that. Man, it's
Speaker 1: hard for me to be um like that ship That
Speaker 1: was Joe idea bro. Like at first, I was like,
Speaker 1: all right, bro, that's what you're doing. Hi. He was like, no,
Speaker 1: you gotta get on this. I'm like, and I just
Speaker 1: did it, like fucking I'm gonna just keep it real
Speaker 1: with going to get it off the way. How was
Speaker 1: the writing process for it though, Like you know, like
Speaker 1: the writing process for throwing the lyrics together versus on
Speaker 1: the topic. It was just quick. It was just like
Speaker 1: fucking just keep it really, keep going. It wasn't really
Speaker 1: like your big thought thought out thing, you know what
Speaker 1: I mean. I had to make that nigga get on
Speaker 1: the song. Man, I nig you don't like being vulnerable?
Speaker 1: I just told him, well, I didn't hear it, my bad.
Speaker 1: How you gonna like being vulnerable? And that that is
Speaker 1: just I don't know, man, I could have been could
Speaker 1: have been just a sitit of waste in that hand. Sure, sure,
Speaker 1: and you know, like funck man, you want me to
Speaker 1: rap about this ship, but I just said, fucking kept
Speaker 1: it real. I can't even say, you know what I'm
Speaker 1: gonna do this ship and after hearing this song right
Speaker 1: because I felt like my contribution to it would would
Speaker 1: give you know how you know, you know, you know personally,
Speaker 1: so you know it gave my character. Yeah, yeah, the
Speaker 1: interesting story. Man, I'm like, bro, I see, I thought
Speaker 1: it was dope. I thought as hearing the song, I
Speaker 1: thought the nigga did a good job because showing love
Speaker 1: to the mother of his child. Um, because it was
Speaker 1: oh you always donna have love for them? Sure, yeah,
Speaker 1: yeah you suppose. Okay, you know your nerves or weather whatever,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. It used to be bad
Speaker 1: where you're just mother, get the tripping, you cuss their
Speaker 1: grass out, and then you just grow past it, like
Speaker 1: you know, what's get to tripping. I'm just gonna hang up.
Speaker 1: Or once once y'all move once, y'all move past the
Speaker 1: concept of being together again. You could coexistent peace. Here's
Speaker 1: a question, right, is it fair to say that your
Speaker 1: baby mom is your family? Yeah? Because you got Okay,
Speaker 1: where on the list of family would they come as priority? Right? Now? Look,
Speaker 1: let me this is why, because it's a good question,
Speaker 1: and I was thinking about talking to me about this.
Speaker 1: So right, you got right, your old lady at the top, right,
Speaker 1: and then you got you know, a homie at the bottom. Right,
Speaker 1: So you keep going, you know the most important motherfucker. Right,
Speaker 1: You probably got your kids at the top. Yeah, you
Speaker 1: shouldn't have your kids at the top. That's a mistake.
Speaker 1: You shouldn't have your kids over yesterday. Yeah, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: but it's true. You shouldn't have your kids over your
Speaker 1: old day. That's a horrible thing that people do. Don't
Speaker 1: don't have your kids over your own It's a different top, right, No,
Speaker 1: it's only one top. Well, you got here on the top.
Speaker 1: You know what. That's a difference between men and women,
Speaker 1: because if you ask a hundred women who's at the top,
Speaker 1: they're gonna say their kids. If you ask a hundred
Speaker 1: men who's at the top, they're gonna say that girl. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's that's the That's also it depends on the type
Speaker 1: of woman, like you know, most women don't put they
Speaker 1: most women won't put their kids over It's like you
Speaker 1: know what mean they hell, yeah, well women put their
Speaker 1: kids over their spouse. On the long sure, it's gonna
Speaker 1: be the overwhelming majority. We're gonna have to pall this.
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't think so you think you think
Speaker 1: extremely confident about this? You think what women would put
Speaker 1: their kids above their husband? Fu? Yeah, you know what
Speaker 1: it's like. It's like it's like you got the immediate
Speaker 1: family that's gonna like they don't. Really, it's not like
Speaker 1: positions until a situation occurred, so the position you you
Speaker 1: kind of divvy it up in positions like right now,
Speaker 1: my son needs more attention than you do it. Right
Speaker 1: now you need more attention than he do. And it
Speaker 1: depends on the situation. No, not and and this is
Speaker 1: because that's that's too far, right, because let's just say
Speaker 1: on the on the on the spectrum, right, because really,
Speaker 1: in theory, if the kid needs attention, y'all supposed to
Speaker 1: pay attention to the kid. Right. I got a couple
Speaker 1: of ideas I wanted to go over. If your babby
Speaker 1: mom said she needed a thousand dollars and you had
Speaker 1: twelve hundred dollars saved, is she that much family? No,
Speaker 1: you're not getting You're not getting the hold. You've only
Speaker 1: got twelve and she need the whole g Now, I
Speaker 1: got something on that g Okay needed a thousand and
Speaker 1: you only got twelve hundred saved? Are we living together?
Speaker 1: She gonna get the gil already that your kid needed
Speaker 1: a thousand dollars. The kid need a thousand dollars. Fun,
Speaker 1: that's okay, okay. Oh, note, so their dad is playing
Speaker 1: hid from the Penhouse players. Click all right, sign the ruthless,
Speaker 1: go do your homework. You you heard of him, You
Speaker 1: know what it is. Let's say Ham needed twelve hundred
Speaker 1: thousand dollars and you only had twelve hundred dollars. I
Speaker 1: got something on that thousand, because that's the same thing
Speaker 1: he would do for me, Duce twelve, Ham needed a thousand.
Speaker 1: I've been on White needed last. I'm saying. I'm saying
Speaker 1: he's not gonna come to you white need. He just
Speaker 1: needed thousand dollars. I'm gonna give it back to you.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna give it back to you in two months.
Speaker 1: Twelve hundreds. Make it interesting. Let's make it interesting. It's
Speaker 1: it's a it's a thousand dollar co pay for a
Speaker 1: medical fact. All. You gotta get that to everybody. Oh yeah,
Speaker 1: you gotta get that to everybody. I gotta get that
Speaker 1: to my friend. That's not fair. You got a lot
Speaker 1: of money. Yeah, medical coday, like your life. A lot
Speaker 1: of people. I get that too. I'm gonna have to
Speaker 1: ask for that thousand then, and didn't get that thousand.
Speaker 1: I'm so I can still keep that sweat. Okay, so
Speaker 1: we go, We're gonna make it happen. Okay, So listen,
Speaker 1: So let's say out of twelve hundred dollars you got
Speaker 1: saved up right, your baby mama says she needs a thousand. Now,
Speaker 1: mind you, they don't have to tell you what it's for.
Speaker 1: They just need twelve hundred dollars, right, i'bout a thousand
Speaker 1: dollars out of twelve hundred saved. That's why I ain't
Speaker 1: gotta tell her all. Your old lady get the whole rap.
Speaker 1: How much of it would you give your baby mama,
Speaker 1: keep it a being cause don't get up on your life?
Speaker 1: How much enough to know when y'are lying? So? How
Speaker 1: much of a thousand would you give? Let's say you
Speaker 1: don't give it a whole thousand. How much of the
Speaker 1: thousand do you give? Right? I got this, I give
Speaker 1: up five? That's their respectable. It depends on all right,
Speaker 1: she what you can do and didn't get back at me. No,
Speaker 1: she says she needs what you can give her right now.
Speaker 1: This is in addition to you being on time with
Speaker 1: all your payments and all your support and all that
Speaker 1: other ship. Right now, I got folks, not five folks. Okay,
Speaker 1: what you got for your baby mom? Mac she I
Speaker 1: need it now due whatever you give me, I need
Speaker 1: it now. I need a thousand, feel me, But I
Speaker 1: need whatever you get me right now. It depends on
Speaker 1: what I gotta do. This is what I'm say. You
Speaker 1: got twelve hundred saved up? This ain't got this your savings?
Speaker 1: This ain't you ain't got to do nothing for your
Speaker 1: baby mama's transmission. No, don't don't say the reason. Okay, man,
Speaker 1: you know what? It just depends with me, bro, because
Speaker 1: I'll be looking at ship, like if you gotta if
Speaker 1: you got a man or something that exil with like,
Speaker 1: what does God like? You can't just call me calling
Speaker 1: her babies? Father? Bro, I ain't tripping what I when? It?
Speaker 1: Probably like? I respect your number? What's your number? Duce
Speaker 1: by about Phoe, He'll be like, here goes your zello
Speaker 1: over four hundred. Okay. Let's say your pops you need
Speaker 1: a thousand here, no phoone, now you need six? That's fair. Okay.
Speaker 1: Let's say your pops leading up, I don't need the whole.
Speaker 1: They're just trying to see how must take it? Get
Speaker 1: anyway you're going with that, but don't start with that
Speaker 1: black cynic ship. Let's take Let's say Pops needed a thousand.
Speaker 1: He's not telling you the reason. You know it ain't
Speaker 1: You know he ain't about to die for he just
Speaker 1: needed a thousand. How much you giving Pops? I shoot,
Speaker 1: if I got twelve hundred, shade the pops need thousand? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I probably sent him six. I give him half. Okay, Okay, dudes,
Speaker 1: um if he needs a lie because my pops and
Speaker 1: my mama man probably the own thousand. Bro Okay, okay,
Speaker 1: because I don't really be tripping, and I'm like, he
Speaker 1: here if I got it here? Okay, okay, okay. What
Speaker 1: about Uncle Freggie Fred thousand Twitter? He ain't telling you why.
Speaker 1: You know, he's not gonna die if he don't get it.
Speaker 1: That getting a hunted in fifty, that nigger getting the
Speaker 1: whole conversation exactly believe that. Okay, okay, hold up, hold up, okay,
Speaker 1: let's me up out of my sleep with this bullshit man. Okay, okay,
Speaker 1: break your cousin by the way that okay, so cousin freak,
Speaker 1: So cousin Freak is good for a buck fifty for
Speaker 1: you cause nothing. Okay, okay, what about Uncle Carl? But
Speaker 1: what about Uncle Carl? Huh what about Uncle Carl? Uncle
Speaker 1: Carl got he got, he got it, he got something coming,
Speaker 1: he got probably he got he probably got like three
Speaker 1: real numbers, man, real numbers, three or four. He'd probably
Speaker 1: get half. You get half. Okay, okay, what about your sister.
Speaker 1: She's getting about three or four. Everybody is getting about
Speaker 1: three or four, my nigga. Okay, what about your daughter.
Speaker 1: She's not telling you why I just need a thousand, daddy.
Speaker 1: She's not getting what you need a thousand. So she's
Speaker 1: getting the conversation. Okay, okay, okay, okay. What about your
Speaker 1: cousin You already asked about him? Oh yeah that was U.
Speaker 1: No no, no, you're right because Fred Okay, I got Fred. Okay,
Speaker 1: what about what about? No? No, no no, what about cheese?
Speaker 1: My nigga, I'm gonna give me huh. I'll break bread
Speaker 1: with cheese, and cheese are doing for me? I'm saying
Speaker 1: out of the whole he needed a thousand. He's not
Speaker 1: telling you why. You know, he's not gonna die. We're like, man,
Speaker 1: I need a thousand, he get three or four? Two?
Speaker 1: If he if he called me that okay, yeah, okay,
Speaker 1: where you at? Who me? Yeah? Uh? Based on me
Speaker 1: and cheese relationship, I'll probably just shoot him the rack
Speaker 1: because he's gonna get he If he said he's gonna
Speaker 1: give me back in two or three days, he's gonna
Speaker 1: do it. Okay. So Babby Mama falls between cousin and daughter,
Speaker 1: cousin and kid as family. That's not bad. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: mean pretty much. Whenever your baby mama hits you up
Speaker 1: and she needs some help with something, obviously she really
Speaker 1: needs that help because nine times out of ten sometime
Speaker 1: they don't be want to ask for that ship anyway
Speaker 1: because that thousand eight you're gonna have to look out.
Speaker 1: That's a good baby mama. I would dispute that precedent
Speaker 1: because they don't be woting that don't need other little ship.
Speaker 1: All the talk up dudes, they goes he sit all
Speaker 1: the time. So, uh, they asked it for this thousand bro,
Speaker 1: what about whatever little tools and fused in between time
Speaker 1: that they need. That's true, That's true. So it ain't
Speaker 1: like they just that's all they're gonna ever get. You
Speaker 1: feel me? Yeah? But but but you're moving right that
Speaker 1: that situation where you look, we'll see. If your kids
Speaker 1: live with the baby mama, then that's a little bit
Speaker 1: different because now he's involved, right, So if he lives
Speaker 1: with you, if your kid is with you, then she
Speaker 1: get less money. She don't have to really need some money,
Speaker 1: but she's gonna have to be fucked up like my
Speaker 1: son with me. What the funk you need? That's you
Speaker 1: feel me? And if she got more than one baby daddy,
Speaker 1: she you want to divvy this ship up. But that's
Speaker 1: why I thousand. If you give her what you say,
Speaker 1: you're number one six, no hive. I said she only
Speaker 1: even needs six. I'm saying, I'm saying five four was
Speaker 1: your number. Okay, so yeah, she only got got sick,
Speaker 1: she got Okay, that's not bad though. That's a respectable
Speaker 1: number your savings. That's like, that's still a respectable numbers.
Speaker 1: But that's why I said, that's a respectable number, feel
Speaker 1: me because of everything, oh you're going through. I can
Speaker 1: respect that. And it still put them on that family.
Speaker 1: I was just trying to figure out where amongst the
Speaker 1: family treat that you have them. And then she is
Speaker 1: you hoping she come up with like seven fifty so
Speaker 1: you can just give up to fifty. You're hoping she
Speaker 1: discloses she came oh my god, or hits you with that.
Speaker 1: Never mind, I made it happen. Yeah, that's the worst one.
Speaker 1: That's what they always anyway. Yeah, I'd rather hear that
Speaker 1: bullshit and keep the money and be like, oh, I
Speaker 1: didn't have to a percentage of your savings, my nigga,
Speaker 1: like that ship, you know, like thirty like because it's
Speaker 1: not really that I mean, unless they say they're gonna
Speaker 1: give it back. No, no, I'm not talking about they
Speaker 1: gonna give it back. I'm talking about they just tell
Speaker 1: you they need this. Yeah, yeah, yeah, so you gotta
Speaker 1: just give them what you really can afford at that time.
Speaker 1: Got to no, I see it, like I see, I
Speaker 1: see what you said, Pops. You gotta give him the
Speaker 1: whole thing. Your old lady gotta give her the whole thing. Already,
Speaker 1: your old lady already got it. Well, that's what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: I'm just saying, So that's the that's the ranking. I'm saying.
Speaker 1: That was dope. That thing was on the family tree.
Speaker 1: That's all. She don't really count because she already if
Speaker 1: y'all live together, it's already herts. You already know how
Speaker 1: that go. Yeah I could. Yeah, yeah, you don't even
Speaker 1: have had no kids, you just yeah, that's how she didn't.
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, what's George is Hurts and what's hers is hers?
Speaker 1: Yeah for sure, both ways, both ways that way, but
Speaker 1: you know always Yeah, that's a that's a great two
Speaker 1: way street. That that that's a to a street like
Speaker 1: a border crossing at an international border. Yeah, man, get interested.
Speaker 1: I wonder how Winden was fl about that, like if
Speaker 1: like no, just thinking that way, like do you think
Speaker 1: yo yo yo, lady, think of your baby mom like that,
Speaker 1: Well that's his family. Hell no, they're not never gonna
Speaker 1: together like that unless they become family. Hawever, the way
Speaker 1: they see it, See, they they already kind of family,
Speaker 1: but in the state, they ain't given it that type.
Speaker 1: They ain't giving it that title unless it becomes that
Speaker 1: unless they become friends. See, if they become friends, then
Speaker 1: it's cool. But if they don't become friends, and then
Speaker 1: we're living in a different day and age where they're
Speaker 1: not gonna be like my mom and my dad. You know,
Speaker 1: you don't if they don't look at it like that.
Speaker 1: It's just so much ship going on in the world.
Speaker 1: And they're get on Facebook and ask Facebook what they
Speaker 1: think about this, and then Facebook get the strangers get
Speaker 1: to giving them all type of crazy ship and if it,
Speaker 1: if it agree with anything, if it's one percent of
Speaker 1: what they feel, they're gonna run with that. My feelings
Speaker 1: and that ship. You know, if they get their feelings validated. Strange,
Speaker 1: they're running with that. Motherfucking yeah. Yeah yeah, social media.
Speaker 1: But the co part is they'll take that. They use
Speaker 1: they used the ship of social media right to like,
Speaker 1: try to use that to life. They try to use it, yeah,
Speaker 1: to validate their motions. Yeah, it's a validate they ship,
Speaker 1: but then in real life they don't even really be
Speaker 1: like that. It just be like that moment that they
Speaker 1: just need that ship for that moment. They just need
Speaker 1: to feel good for that little bullshit because they'll, man,
Speaker 1: they don't even really be feeling like that. You know
Speaker 1: how you would tell tell you a woman something or
Speaker 1: a woman something that in your face they not agreeing
Speaker 1: with ship, but beyond your back, they spreading that ship
Speaker 1: and they're smiling when they're telling the next person. They're
Speaker 1: sharing it all over. But is with women, you know
Speaker 1: what I mean in general is they're not going to
Speaker 1: tell the whole story because they don't want really great advice.
Speaker 1: They don't want anybody They want people to appeal to
Speaker 1: their emotions. So that's why people tell one side of
Speaker 1: the story because they don't want to show their card
Speaker 1: because they oftentimes feel like if it's something negotiable or
Speaker 1: something that involves a sharing or an agreement or whatever
Speaker 1: between you and her, but they're never gonna let you
Speaker 1: think that. They don't think that they're worth more than
Speaker 1: what they settled for. What it is is they're gonna
Speaker 1: have to be accountable and we always talk about ain't
Speaker 1: doing that. That is true. I've been hearing that a
Speaker 1: lot women settled, and it's like, really, if you think
Speaker 1: about it, no human being really settled or every human
Speaker 1: being settled at all times. Was I feel like we're
Speaker 1: the ones hold the ship together, because really the nigger
Speaker 1: walk away. I mean, women don't usually just leave a man. Well,
Speaker 1: I've been on records saying a great marriage or a
Speaker 1: great relationship with a woman for a man is a
Speaker 1: woman walking through the dark and a man holding a
Speaker 1: flashlight to try to show where she's going. That's my oldt.
Speaker 1: That's really what it is. And if we turn them
Speaker 1: motherfucking light off, they crashing. Bro. Yeah, for sure, for sure,
Speaker 1: for sure. I looked at the me and the other
Speaker 1: day on Facebook. I looked at it me and the
Speaker 1: other day on Facebook, and it showed a happily married
Speaker 1: woman right sitting up there smiling with her husband. It
Speaker 1: was funny because it's like four means and one and
Speaker 1: all the means were like these perfectly fit women, perfectly
Speaker 1: fit women that had three kids, perfectly fit women at
Speaker 1: this But I thought that was so funny, like y'all, basically,
Speaker 1: it wasn't real women? Is it just sent ship that
Speaker 1: suck me up? What they're doing is so hilarious to me,
Speaker 1: how they're trying to search for their identity after being
Speaker 1: on the planet Earth for thousands of thousands of thousands
Speaker 1: of thousands of thousands of years and they're still trying
Speaker 1: to search for their identity of what validates them or
Speaker 1: making saying it's a successful woman. And it's funny to me,
Speaker 1: right because there was a year this woman who was
Speaker 1: at her job. You know, she has a good job,
Speaker 1: she was successful. The one that was happily married, I
Speaker 1: guess you know, insinuating the housewife. You know she was happy, Um,
Speaker 1: the one that And it's so funny to me that
Speaker 1: they really feel like they have to tell each other this.
Speaker 1: That'ship's hilarious because I cried, laughed, and honestly, it's so
Speaker 1: weird to me, right because women are really the ship,
Speaker 1: like they do a lot of things to make themselves
Speaker 1: not the ship naturally out of the box. Women are
Speaker 1: the ship right off the assembly line of gods. To
Speaker 1: send me a line. They are the ship. They are
Speaker 1: created in the ship image. They are the greatest thing
Speaker 1: smoking and every day they on planet Earth. They figure
Speaker 1: out a way to ruin it, They're gonna ask some
Speaker 1: bullshit to it every time. They like, oh God, got
Speaker 1: it too exactly how I supposed to be. I need
Speaker 1: to figure out how to make it look like that.
Speaker 1: It's because the nature of the beasts, evolutionarily speaking, is
Speaker 1: that I told you this before. Men are producers and
Speaker 1: women are consumers. Women are governed by what they want
Speaker 1: to do, and men are governed by what they have
Speaker 1: to do. I mean, there's only so much of that before,
Speaker 1: you know, certain principles start to unravel and certain others
Speaker 1: tend to hold fast. That's true. That's true. That makes sense.
Speaker 1: So Pete, let me ask you a question. H and
Speaker 1: they can do I gotta shape. It's all good. We'll
Speaker 1: just last question. Let me ask you a question, Pete.
Speaker 1: Can you imagine having a black child? Because it could
Speaker 1: really happens mine, Yes, that's yours. Let's say you can't
Speaker 1: imagine having a hundred percent black child. It's mind. That
Speaker 1: is a stretch of the imagination. If yo child got
Speaker 1: pis with saying black, that's a nigger. Don't ever get
Speaker 1: to hear you. That's actually that's a funny comedy bit
Speaker 1: that I was trying to play with like several years ago.
Speaker 1: But yeah, nonetheless, I mean, yeah, that's that's not a
Speaker 1: bunch of cool comedy sketches. Pete with a black so
Speaker 1: I got, I got them all written, I got a
Speaker 1: hunt of them. You could just like right every day
Speaker 1: you can put on on Instagram every day, just all
Speaker 1: the bullshin you're gonna get yourself into. Yeah, I pray
Speaker 1: to God you have a black kid. I thought you
Speaker 1: loved black children. I pray to God you just because
Speaker 1: I think you would be such a good dad. But
Speaker 1: I think it would help you see a little bit
Speaker 1: more of what it's like for us, because I think
Speaker 1: you do a really good job. Like all the homies
Speaker 1: love you to death. Everybody I ever introduce you to
Speaker 1: love you to death. You seel me. But you know
Speaker 1: the people who do who I feel like, dude, be like, well,
Speaker 1: I don't know about Peter is because I tell Pete.
Speaker 1: I tell people all the time Pete is really a
Speaker 1: white man, Like Pete is not a white man acting
Speaker 1: like a nigger. Not none that Pete is really a
Speaker 1: white man. He just a real smooth, motherfucking person like
Speaker 1: he you know, he's not ignorant like he he may
Speaker 1: don't know what it's like to be us, but he's
Speaker 1: been around us to know who we are. Right. So
Speaker 1: I was saying, I was like, if you had a
Speaker 1: black child, it would kind of broaden your your ship.
Speaker 1: You'll be like, oh, I see what the mother be
Speaker 1: talking about? This is some bullshit. Yeah, No, I mean, look,
Speaker 1: in real life, I do see a lot of what
Speaker 1: you guys are talking like, Like, I really do a
Speaker 1: lot of where we verbally disagree, it's usually it's because
Speaker 1: when I don't disagree, I'm not saying anything because they're
Speaker 1: already saying it. No, I know, I know you see
Speaker 1: a lot of it. But also for you to have
Speaker 1: a black baby mama would be classic. Yeah, that's old class.
Speaker 1: That would be the real comedy skids that that would
Speaker 1: be where I wish he was from the projects to
Speaker 1: which was close pick it's close. They'd probably be I mean,
Speaker 1: I'm in Miami now, they'd probably be from Pork and
Speaker 1: Beans or something like that. Over town are over there?
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