WEBVTT - Conversations About Baby Mamas 0:00:00.280 --> 0:00:02.880 Watch up and welcome back to another episode and No 0:00:02.960 --> 0:00:05.960 Sillers podcast with your host. Now fun that with your 0:00:06.040 --> 0:00:17.000 low glasses Malone. Okay, so here's the question, right, is 0:00:17.000 --> 0:00:24.120 it fair to say that's your baby? Mom? Is your family? Pete? Dog? 0:00:25.400 --> 0:00:31.520 What's happening? So look right right here? I bought the homies, 0:00:31.560 --> 0:00:36.040 the l A giants right yes, in South Central Um. 0:00:36.080 --> 0:00:38.120 I fought with these niggas all the time, like day 0:00:38.159 --> 0:00:40.559 you feel me, Um. Some niggas I helped get their 0:00:40.600 --> 0:00:43.720 own label, Giant Life for me. Just some solid niggas, 0:00:43.760 --> 0:00:45.319 like they grew up in the culture, but they're not 0:00:45.360 --> 0:00:48.320 necessarily on the militant side name from No Game, but 0:00:48.400 --> 0:00:51.519 they grew up within all his relationship. Yeah, what up? 0:00:52.000 --> 0:00:54.440 What's up with it? Bro? Dude? What up? Because nobody 0:00:54.440 --> 0:01:01.560 can't see you back? What's happening? Man? Pass man too long? 0:01:02.480 --> 0:01:07.600 So Joey, look Mother's Day weekend this weekend? Right, tell 0:01:07.640 --> 0:01:11.319 me the story about what happened. So, so look, Pete. 0:01:11.319 --> 0:01:14.280 They're releasing a song, right, I know right. I saw 0:01:14.360 --> 0:01:17.679 a comment about it because called baby Mama love right 0:01:18.080 --> 0:01:21.399 this song was dope. Fucking Remind me alike, dear Mama, 0:01:21.440 --> 0:01:23.679 makes me keep your head up, like it's it's from 0:01:23.720 --> 0:01:26.839 this real, honest place, and you know nigga, like culturally, 0:01:27.520 --> 0:01:29.880 you know me and their baby mama is in our 0:01:29.920 --> 0:01:34.520 community automatically beef because the relationship didn't really work out. 0:01:34.840 --> 0:01:38.000 So that's how it comes across. But I funk with 0:01:38.080 --> 0:01:41.360 Joey right because he tries to keep a real positive 0:01:41.360 --> 0:01:43.880 relationship with raising his children. So he was telling me 0:01:43.920 --> 0:01:46.560 this crazy story. Could tell his story, can tell me? 0:01:47.400 --> 0:01:50.240 So when you showed your old lady baby mama love, 0:01:50.480 --> 0:01:55.560 what like, just tell me that story. He was telling me, Oh, 0:01:55.840 --> 0:01:57.760 keep it because don't get up with his mother because 0:01:57.760 --> 0:02:02.040 you're gonna get in trouble anyway. Yeah, it didn't really, 0:02:02.040 --> 0:02:03.880 it didn't really go too deep, you know what I'm saying. 0:02:03.920 --> 0:02:06.800 She just I could just tell that she kind of 0:02:06.800 --> 0:02:09.080 internalized it in a way to where, you know, you 0:02:09.120 --> 0:02:10.600 gotta tell the old story because they don't know what 0:02:10.600 --> 0:02:12.240 we're talking about. You have to tell the old story. 0:02:13.000 --> 0:02:16.760 Oh you mean, oh you're talking about Okay, So how 0:02:16.840 --> 0:02:19.520 the conversations like how did it start? And how to eat? 0:02:19.560 --> 0:02:23.320 All the way to tell Pete the story? Guy, give 0:02:23.360 --> 0:02:26.160 it a bean, No man, No nice guys got out 0:02:26.160 --> 0:02:27.760 to get on Joey bro because Joey trying to be 0:02:27.800 --> 0:02:30.000 a nice guy instead of just telling the guy that's 0:02:30.040 --> 0:02:33.160 a nice guy. You didn't hear how I threw myself 0:02:33.240 --> 0:02:35.639 off a cliff for the audience sake a couple episodes 0:02:35.680 --> 0:02:39.320 and go yeah, because it was it didn't it didn't 0:02:39.320 --> 0:02:41.239 get it. It didn't like, it didn't get deep like that. 0:02:41.720 --> 0:02:44.920 It was just what crazy is I because you know, 0:02:45.000 --> 0:02:48.360 of course I know my lady so already, you know, 0:02:48.560 --> 0:02:53.919 prior to right now, you know what I'm saying, you know, 0:02:54.000 --> 0:02:57.720 I she was aware of the record, and she had 0:02:57.760 --> 0:03:00.680 already kind of expressed like the tight of the record. 0:03:01.400 --> 0:03:03.600 She kind of was already expressed like, yeah, I'm not 0:03:03.680 --> 0:03:07.600 really interested in hearing that. You feel me that has 0:03:07.639 --> 0:03:10.720 to really listen to it, And I understood, you know 0:03:10.760 --> 0:03:12.240 what I'm saying. I kind of just laughed it off 0:03:12.280 --> 0:03:15.320 at that time. Was it tripping? But uh, as of 0:03:15.360 --> 0:03:17.720 recent you know, we've been doing low promos and things 0:03:17.760 --> 0:03:19.840 like that and shooting videos and just so happy that 0:03:19.960 --> 0:03:22.120 we're about to you know it just it was kind 0:03:22.120 --> 0:03:24.359 of like the universe is why this single was coming 0:03:24.360 --> 0:03:29.760 out the way obviously, Yeah, and so we're dipping in 0:03:29.800 --> 0:03:31.720 the car on my way to uh you know, to 0:03:31.760 --> 0:03:36.040 go funk with the homie, and she just out the blue, 0:03:36.200 --> 0:03:39.080 just like so uh. As soon as she said so, uh, 0:03:39.120 --> 0:03:41.240 I was like I kind of you know you, I 0:03:41.280 --> 0:03:44.160 kind of knew She's like, so what what what kind 0:03:44.160 --> 0:03:45.640 of what major do I want to go with the 0:03:45.680 --> 0:03:49.160 Baby Mama love song first? You know what I'm saying. 0:03:49.160 --> 0:03:51.400 And I just was like, oh, well, you know it's 0:03:51.440 --> 0:03:54.280 it's marketing. I'm pretty much as told it like it 0:03:54.320 --> 0:03:56.440 was just was the best decision for us to make. 0:03:56.480 --> 0:04:01.400 It wasn't really the original decision, but yeah, right Mother's Day. 0:04:01.400 --> 0:04:05.960 Of course, the whole project, we was looking for release days. 0:04:05.960 --> 0:04:07.600 We didn't really know how he's releasing it caause we 0:04:07.640 --> 0:04:09.280 were still trying to figure out like, okay, how we 0:04:09.320 --> 0:04:12.240 gonna market this still, you know, based on you know, 0:04:12.480 --> 0:04:15.520 should we be talking about. And I just explained it 0:04:15.560 --> 0:04:17.360 to her like as Mother's Day, and we felt like 0:04:17.400 --> 0:04:19.960 it would be a it will be like smart for 0:04:20.040 --> 0:04:21.880 us to drop it around this time, and it's a 0:04:22.480 --> 0:04:26.360 you know, beautiful dedication to mother's in general, not alone 0:04:26.480 --> 0:04:31.000 you know, uh, let alone baby Mamas. So and she 0:04:31.080 --> 0:04:33.479 kind of understood, but really didn't really elaborate. After that, 0:04:33.520 --> 0:04:36.080 she kind of just like okay, and then kind of 0:04:36.160 --> 0:04:38.080 left it alone at that. You know, we didn't really 0:04:38.320 --> 0:04:40.080 and I wasn't trying to really get too deep into 0:04:40.080 --> 0:04:42.640 it after that, you know, answered the question to Kevine moving, 0:04:43.880 --> 0:04:50.440 do you think she really understood it? Honestly, No, I 0:04:50.480 --> 0:04:53.200 don't think she really understands it. I think it's just 0:04:53.279 --> 0:04:56.640 the whole idea of what the song is saying in 0:04:56.680 --> 0:05:00.479 the title, and she eternalized it as that and just 0:05:00.600 --> 0:05:02.760 kind of like that's how she hearing and see it. 0:05:03.400 --> 0:05:05.640 So I'm not sure if she ever because you know, 0:05:05.680 --> 0:05:09.600 I only think she really listened to the soul thoroughly 0:05:09.680 --> 0:05:16.240 to really get what the message really is. Just no, 0:05:16.360 --> 0:05:20.080 we don't have children. Okay, So pig c wait, hold on, 0:05:20.279 --> 0:05:23.440 she did you just ask do you think she really 0:05:23.520 --> 0:05:30.680 understood it? How would you ask that? I asked that, gud, 0:05:31.200 --> 0:05:35.120 That's exactly what I asked, because this this why and 0:05:35.160 --> 0:05:40.400 I noticed is right whenever I talked to Brandy right 0:05:40.440 --> 0:05:47.760 about like day perception bro about like baby Daddy's and 0:05:47.800 --> 0:05:51.640 baby Mama's is so like screwed up in our community, 0:05:51.720 --> 0:05:57.000 dog like, So I'm explaining right to Brandy's cousin, right, Meek, 0:05:57.040 --> 0:06:00.159 I'm telling me. I'm like, look, Mika, Like she was 0:06:00.200 --> 0:06:03.440 telling me she was worried about the relationship her husband 0:06:03.720 --> 0:06:07.520 shared with his baby mama, And I'm like, they got 0:06:07.560 --> 0:06:11.800 three kids, you feel me, Like, you know, obviously y'all 0:06:11.800 --> 0:06:15.600 getting you know, y'all married more than kids, right, Yeah. 0:06:15.839 --> 0:06:19.120 So she was like, well, why does he have to 0:06:19.160 --> 0:06:23.320 have a relationship with her? And I'm like, because they 0:06:23.360 --> 0:06:28.760 have three kids, Because they have three children, and it's 0:06:28.800 --> 0:06:32.160 about the kids. Yeah, and and no matter what, like 0:06:32.400 --> 0:06:35.039 you tied in permanently. And I think this was the 0:06:35.040 --> 0:06:36.920 hardest part for her understanding. This is why I wish 0:06:36.920 --> 0:06:39.200 I had a woman on this podcast. This is what's 0:06:39.240 --> 0:06:41.720 the hardest part for her to understand. I was like, 0:06:41.800 --> 0:06:46.320 their family. She's like, no, they're not family. I'm like, yes, 0:06:46.360 --> 0:06:49.359 they are, like literally, and this is before I heard 0:06:49.880 --> 0:06:53.159 y'all son, right, I was like, yeah, they have you know, 0:06:53.200 --> 0:06:56.920 they started a whole generation of kids together. That's gonna 0:06:56.920 --> 0:07:01.120 create a generation of people. And there at the you know, 0:07:01.440 --> 0:07:03.640 at the at the root of the tree, like this 0:07:03.680 --> 0:07:05.080 is how the tree is going up, you know, I 0:07:05.120 --> 0:07:08.159 mean straight from them. And she found it so hard 0:07:08.760 --> 0:07:13.160 to understand that they were a family. Just to clarify 0:07:13.280 --> 0:07:16.640 something really quickly, Joey, you were saying because at first 0:07:16.680 --> 0:07:18.400 it was kind of a little bit at least vague 0:07:18.440 --> 0:07:21.480 to me. So you're in the car with your girl 0:07:22.400 --> 0:07:25.880 and there's a song about baby mama love, and she 0:07:25.920 --> 0:07:28.160 didn't want to hear because you she thought it was 0:07:28.200 --> 0:07:32.080 about still having love with your baby mama from before. 0:07:32.440 --> 0:07:34.800 I think I think when she hears baby Mama loves, 0:07:34.880 --> 0:07:37.200 she she thinks of it as maybe it's a song 0:07:37.280 --> 0:07:41.480 about me expression like how much, maybe like I'm in 0:07:41.640 --> 0:07:43.880 love with my baby mama still is something like more 0:07:44.000 --> 0:07:48.480 like to that verss I almost sounded like knocking down 0:07:48.520 --> 0:07:51.600 your baby mama on the sneak. I was assuming this 0:07:51.800 --> 0:07:56.800 only because if that, like, why else would you? Why else? 0:07:57.080 --> 0:08:03.120 Because you have? Because you have, It's not that and 0:08:03.360 --> 0:08:07.640 this is women's this is women's life. Yeah, that too, exactly, 0:08:07.760 --> 0:08:10.840 because it's not. She knows what the song is. She 0:08:10.960 --> 0:08:13.720 obviously know you wouldn't be in the middle of what 0:08:13.800 --> 0:08:16.200 you're going through with her if you were in love 0:08:16.280 --> 0:08:18.720 with your baby mom. It's no way possible she would 0:08:18.720 --> 0:08:22.160 be okay with it. So it's no way possible she 0:08:22.200 --> 0:08:27.360 could mistake what the concept of the song is. But genuinely, 0:08:27.880 --> 0:08:30.120 and it's funny because I talked to dudes, We talked 0:08:30.160 --> 0:08:32.800 about this ship all the time. It's like, you know, 0:08:32.960 --> 0:08:37.439 you really can't like it's weird. How you know, if 0:08:37.480 --> 0:08:39.880 you and your kids mind don't work out and then 0:08:39.920 --> 0:08:42.679 you go to another relationship, you're in a situation where 0:08:43.720 --> 0:08:46.439 they almost don't want you to have a relationship with 0:08:46.480 --> 0:08:53.360 the kids parents. Yeah, yeah, unless they got if they 0:08:53.480 --> 0:08:57.080 got stuck up, if they if they could create a 0:08:57.240 --> 0:09:02.160 relationship a friendship, then it be cool. But if they 0:09:02.160 --> 0:09:04.800 don't have a friendship or they don't communicate at all, 0:09:05.320 --> 0:09:08.480 then that's where and be like, well if she ain't 0:09:08.480 --> 0:09:10.840 cool with me, then you shouldn't be cool with her. 0:09:12.080 --> 0:09:20.600 Mm hmm. Okay. Do you think that's because maybe like okay, 0:09:20.640 --> 0:09:22.600 and this is something that Mika was saying to me, 0:09:22.920 --> 0:09:25.480 do you think that is because there's a genuine like 0:09:25.640 --> 0:09:29.439 still affinity or affection between like the mom and the 0:09:29.559 --> 0:09:32.840 dad of the child, Like do you think the reason 0:09:33.360 --> 0:09:36.200 like right, your girl feel that way because it's because 0:09:38.280 --> 0:09:42.120 because like has she ever asked to meet you know, 0:09:42.200 --> 0:09:47.560 your kids? Mom? Who are you asking Joe did she 0:09:47.760 --> 0:09:51.760 asked to meet her um? She ever said, let me like, right, 0:09:51.800 --> 0:09:56.120 we together, we need I think they're planning to get married. 0:09:56.120 --> 0:09:58.240 We're gonna get married one day. Has she ever said, 0:09:58.559 --> 0:10:02.280 you know what, I need to meet my future step 0:10:02.440 --> 0:10:07.559 daughters mother. No, she didn't offer that. I kind of no, 0:10:07.800 --> 0:10:10.600 she didn't do that. I kind of just made that happen, 0:10:11.000 --> 0:10:13.640 you know what I'm saying. When you know I was 0:10:13.679 --> 0:10:16.559 ready to make that happen. Yeah, that's more like ship. 0:10:16.600 --> 0:10:20.280 We would I curated that like that ain't something she offered, Like, 0:10:20.360 --> 0:10:22.920 but I know what you're saying, because it seems like 0:10:23.000 --> 0:10:26.240 that would make sense, Like I dealt with it. If 0:10:26.280 --> 0:10:28.000 I dealt with that on the other side, I can 0:10:28.080 --> 0:10:31.160 definitely be like I would be interested in knowing you 0:10:31.160 --> 0:10:33.040 know what I'm saying. It seems like like we were 0:10:33.120 --> 0:10:37.000 like right like like yo, Like if let's say, your 0:10:37.000 --> 0:10:40.960 baby mom's right have like somebody bringing somebody around yo, yo, 0:10:41.080 --> 0:10:44.280 your son douce right? Yeah, like yo, your baby mama 0:10:44.280 --> 0:10:47.280 bringing somebody around your son? You would want of me 0:10:47.320 --> 0:10:49.240 who the dude is right back? Who is this dude 0:10:49.240 --> 0:10:52.600 that's gonna be around my son? Dealt with that? And 0:10:52.640 --> 0:10:55.319 if and if the nigga tripping like he don't want 0:10:55.320 --> 0:10:57.200 to meet me, then I feel like this nigga is 0:10:57.200 --> 0:10:59.800 some type of weirdo it has nigga or something. So, 0:11:00.559 --> 0:11:05.240 but I would meet. I immediately meet the person, exchange numbers. 0:11:05.559 --> 0:11:08.920 You know, we cool, like you know my my baby 0:11:08.960 --> 0:11:12.840 mama's um daughter. She has a kid that she had 0:11:12.960 --> 0:11:17.720 after she we had a kid. So her kids, her 0:11:17.800 --> 0:11:20.600 daughter's father, Me and this nigga cool. We topped it 0:11:20.679 --> 0:11:22.959 up and all that. You know what I mean. We talked, 0:11:23.000 --> 0:11:27.679 we we we were straight. Yeah. Okay, So Joey, let 0:11:27.679 --> 0:11:31.880 me ask you a better question. Did joe baby mom 0:11:32.040 --> 0:11:40.440 asked to meet your girl eventually? Yeah, once she thought 0:11:40.440 --> 0:11:44.400 of real she said I need to meet her. Yeah, 0:11:44.440 --> 0:11:46.800 she was. She was comfortable with when she was really 0:11:47.040 --> 0:11:50.560 ready to meet her, she would wanted to meet her. No, 0:11:50.760 --> 0:11:53.160 not not wheading. Did she ever press you to like 0:11:54.040 --> 0:11:55.440 you need to set up a meeting so I can 0:11:55.480 --> 0:12:00.720 see who's gonna be around my daughter? Um, I'm trying 0:12:00.720 --> 0:12:05.560 to remember this has been a few years now. Not like, 0:12:05.600 --> 0:12:08.200 did you ever feel that pressure, like the pressure you 0:12:08.200 --> 0:12:11.880 would like, let's say somebody around your daughter? Right? Um? 0:12:11.920 --> 0:12:15.640 So dude, So Pete, Joey got a daughter. Dudes got 0:12:15.640 --> 0:12:19.160 a son. Did like when she met a dude right 0:12:19.160 --> 0:12:22.199 and you realized he was gonna be around you dressed right. 0:12:22.960 --> 0:12:24.559 That's what I'm trying to figure out, right, because I 0:12:24.559 --> 0:12:26.280 don't got no kids, so I'm trying to figure out 0:12:27.880 --> 0:12:30.400 why are we so conscious as men right now? I 0:12:30.440 --> 0:12:32.760 can't say this is generalization because I would hope some 0:12:32.840 --> 0:12:34.920 other mothers would press you, like, who was this nick 0:12:35.040 --> 0:12:39.600 who was just brought theories? And be careful with the generalizations. Man, 0:12:39.640 --> 0:12:45.840 you know they'd be tripping. That's why any specifying that ship. 0:12:45.920 --> 0:12:47.760 But I'm trying to make a fall every time. That's 0:12:47.760 --> 0:12:50.880 why they're grasping at alibis. They need us a reason 0:12:50.920 --> 0:12:54.200 to pull out a complaint against you down the road. 0:12:54.880 --> 0:12:59.360 So that's that's university. So what's your general theories, Pete? 0:12:59.800 --> 0:13:04.840 I think because a lot of men have a minority 0:13:05.040 --> 0:13:09.760 share of time with the kids, that they value their 0:13:09.920 --> 0:13:12.439 role in raising the kid more. It's a little bit 0:13:12.440 --> 0:13:15.640 more of a pure selfless interest. And I think a 0:13:15.640 --> 0:13:18.120 lot of the women feel that they're saddled with the 0:13:18.200 --> 0:13:21.520 responsibility of having this kid like of the time or 0:13:21.520 --> 0:13:23.520 whatever the hell, and they has a lot of resentment, 0:13:23.559 --> 0:13:26.360 and the and the parenting dynamic becomes a lot more 0:13:26.400 --> 0:13:31.640 selfish on their side with regard to their perspective a 0:13:31.640 --> 0:13:34.120 lot because they're saddled with having to do a lot 0:13:34.160 --> 0:13:37.400 more of the day to day you know, heavy lifting, 0:13:37.480 --> 0:13:41.200 so to speak, just by nature of the way most um, 0:13:41.400 --> 0:13:44.760 what do you call it, custody dynamics are well, I mean, 0:13:44.800 --> 0:13:47.600 women carry the baby for ten months. You don't even 0:13:47.640 --> 0:13:50.480 get to be a parent at best during the pregnancy. 0:13:50.520 --> 0:13:55.160 You could be a husband or a boyfriend, right, you 0:13:55.240 --> 0:13:58.480 can't be apparent when somebody pregnant. They they women get 0:13:58.520 --> 0:14:00.720 a ten month hand started being a parent before you 0:14:00.760 --> 0:14:03.680 ever get a chance. But you don't think most of it, Pete, 0:14:03.720 --> 0:14:07.640 comes from the fact that that um that women like 0:14:08.080 --> 0:14:12.120 outside of the custody stuff, that women literally are parents 0:14:12.120 --> 0:14:15.920 for like a four ten months versus men not at all, 0:14:17.400 --> 0:14:21.080 not really, And I don't see how that correlates with 0:14:21.120 --> 0:14:25.000 them being disinterested with who the other parents are bringing 0:14:25.000 --> 0:14:28.640 around the kid and being less territorial. If anything, it 0:14:28.640 --> 0:14:30.440 would it would be the opposite. Yeah, it seems like 0:14:30.480 --> 0:14:34.240 it would make you more territorial. Yeah, but they are territorial, right, 0:14:34.360 --> 0:14:40.440 that's why women tend to selectively. Yeah, I feel like 0:14:40.480 --> 0:14:43.920 they're territorial in a self serving way more so than 0:14:44.080 --> 0:14:46.880 territorial in the kids serving way. And a lot of occasions, 0:14:47.720 --> 0:14:50.200 is that why you never had a get well, I 0:14:50.280 --> 0:14:52.520 never had a kid. The reason why I never had 0:14:52.520 --> 0:14:54.680 a kid was because I'm not going to have a 0:14:54.760 --> 0:14:56.440 kid if I'm not married and I'm not gonna do 0:14:56.480 --> 0:14:58.840 all that stuff if I'm not financially prepared to like 0:14:58.960 --> 0:15:02.480 be able to for sure guarantee that I can provide 0:15:02.520 --> 0:15:04.960 on a standard that I feel I need to provide 0:15:04.960 --> 0:15:08.160 on it, like like like to meet the responsibility threshold 0:15:08.240 --> 0:15:10.920 that I have for myself. So since I wasn't there, 0:15:10.960 --> 0:15:13.800 it was never even a question. You would think, right, 0:15:14.000 --> 0:15:16.040 because you know how your baby mom is, right, they 0:15:16.120 --> 0:15:18.840 if you noticed, women feel like it's their kid, right 0:15:18.920 --> 0:15:22.080 for the most part, and you know, they pretty much 0:15:22.120 --> 0:15:25.880 issue you out kind of how you interact, right you 0:15:25.880 --> 0:15:27.960 you have to literally fight to get that right, And 0:15:28.000 --> 0:15:31.040 I get it. You would just think that they would 0:15:31.040 --> 0:15:36.280 be more worried and concerned about who's around the kid. Okay, Pete, 0:15:36.280 --> 0:15:38.920 I got you. Hold up, what about the fact that 0:15:38.960 --> 0:15:41.080 they know the kid is with the father and the 0:15:41.200 --> 0:15:45.120 father is a different power dynamic, So maybe that's why 0:15:45.120 --> 0:15:47.440 they're not as worried. That's true. And I think that 0:15:47.480 --> 0:15:52.480 women probably have less of a prejudicial concern over other 0:15:52.520 --> 0:15:55.920 women being predatory versus men looking at other strange men 0:15:55.960 --> 0:16:02.800 being predatory towards kids. That's probably also real. Sure, So 0:16:02.920 --> 0:16:04.800 let me ask you a questions. Only when the song 0:16:04.880 --> 0:16:10.240 come out and she hears it, how do you deal 0:16:10.320 --> 0:16:12.200 with if she's gonna trip? I mean, I know this 0:16:12.280 --> 0:16:15.200 is all all ideally because this is like you move 0:16:15.240 --> 0:16:17.880 into a different direction and this is a song showing 0:16:17.920 --> 0:16:21.280 love to the person again you were thinking would make sense. 0:16:21.320 --> 0:16:24.080 She was like, Okay, she understands the blessing even as 0:16:24.080 --> 0:16:26.320 a woman, right, she would hope that even if her 0:16:26.320 --> 0:16:28.200 and her guy right didn't. I don't even think they 0:16:28.240 --> 0:16:30.920 think that far it. That's another story. But I'm saying, 0:16:31.360 --> 0:16:33.600 you would think that somebody would have love for them 0:16:33.640 --> 0:16:39.120 giving them a child, Like I like, how does this 0:16:39.160 --> 0:16:44.760 play out? Honestly, man, I'm not even thinking about that 0:16:45.400 --> 0:16:49.480 at this point. My intentions is pure. It's it's my creation, 0:16:49.520 --> 0:16:52.720 it's my art, and that's what it is, you know 0:16:52.760 --> 0:16:55.000 what I'm saying, Like, I haven't really been dripping off. 0:16:55.640 --> 0:16:59.000 I tried to ask Elna feel about it. Yeah, I'm 0:16:59.040 --> 0:17:03.080 not really worried about something I havn't you know occurred 0:17:03.160 --> 0:17:04.960 at this point, you know, because that should have making 0:17:05.000 --> 0:17:08.280 my anxiety already bad. So I don't need I don't 0:17:08.280 --> 0:17:10.000 need to be worried. I don't need to be worried 0:17:10.000 --> 0:17:12.320 about that. You know what I'm saying. I believe in 0:17:12.359 --> 0:17:14.520 the record. You know what I'm saying. It's getting great 0:17:14.520 --> 0:17:18.399 responses from people who has heard it. And what is 0:17:18.400 --> 0:17:21.160 your bad mama think of the record? And I don't 0:17:21.160 --> 0:17:24.760 know if she heard it yet? So you you so 0:17:25.040 --> 0:17:28.960 the one motherfucker you ain't you made the record that 0:17:29.080 --> 0:17:31.439 inspired you to make the record. You ain't let that 0:17:31.520 --> 0:17:36.200 motherfucker here, dude, your baby one record here, No dude, 0:17:36.440 --> 0:17:42.400 bad MoMA heard the record, I think, so just cam 0:17:42.480 --> 0:17:50.320 here your record. How many motherfucker's the record besides your 0:17:50.359 --> 0:17:55.320 baby mama? A lot of people heard that motherfucker. So 0:17:55.400 --> 0:17:58.760 let me this right. The one motherfucker who inspired the 0:17:58.840 --> 0:18:02.639 record hasn't heard neither one of you niggas played the 0:18:02.640 --> 0:18:05.200 record for them. Man, niggas ain't going out that way 0:18:05.200 --> 0:18:06.840 to be like, look at the Hey, hey, look at 0:18:06.880 --> 0:18:08.960 this record I made. You mean you're not going out 0:18:08.960 --> 0:18:13.000 to your way to show your baby mama looven start 0:18:13.000 --> 0:18:17.040 at the trouble, the beginning with love. Yeah. Now, I 0:18:17.080 --> 0:18:19.120 mean my daughter heard it. My daughter took his dope. 0:18:19.320 --> 0:18:21.560 She probably mentioned it or something, But I didn't go 0:18:21.600 --> 0:18:24.040 on my way to say shout my ship my daughter 0:18:24.080 --> 0:18:28.800 in the video. Yea froendsu ship. How I mean it's 0:18:28.840 --> 0:18:31.640 coming out nig ship and seeing what you got, gonna 0:18:31.640 --> 0:18:35.600 see your baby mama the video ahead of time. Man, 0:18:35.640 --> 0:18:40.560 I'm gonna getting edited still nigga. Yes, like they catch 0:18:40.760 --> 0:18:43.719 they catch the nigga. Y'all just debuted the video at 0:18:43.760 --> 0:18:47.640 Crest Grooves. Nigga in front of fifteen thousand people. How 0:18:47.680 --> 0:18:54.240 to fund your babby? Mama didn't see the video? Well, 0:18:54.320 --> 0:19:04.640 y ain't ship man, man, Man, that's rough ship. It's nice. Uh, 0:19:04.840 --> 0:19:09.000 it's rough man. You can't just see your baby like okay, 0:19:09.040 --> 0:19:12.320 So what stops you? Is it? Because I think it's 0:19:12.320 --> 0:19:14.760 one of the situations where just like when they come out, 0:19:14.800 --> 0:19:16.320 they're gonna get you know, how did you put too 0:19:16.400 --> 0:19:18.239 much start into that? Either? Like I could send it 0:19:18.280 --> 0:19:20.000 without a problem. You know what I'm saying, especially now 0:19:20.000 --> 0:19:22.600 that I got the link where you know it's kind 0:19:22.600 --> 0:19:27.040 of clearer and ship, Um, I can send it, but 0:19:27.160 --> 0:19:29.359 I just didn't I want a tripping like that. I 0:19:29.359 --> 0:19:31.199 know what had come across her radar when it was 0:19:31.359 --> 0:19:33.159 you know what I'm saying, I'm talking about telling my 0:19:33.240 --> 0:19:35.040 daughter to the dentist and ship like that. We didn't 0:19:35.040 --> 0:19:38.360 talking about videos. You gotta deal with. You gotta deal 0:19:38.440 --> 0:19:42.600 with why I wasn't in the video and ship, I 0:19:42.640 --> 0:19:44.840 wouldn't worry about that, but you know what, he might 0:19:44.880 --> 0:19:47.560 be right. You never know, women are dnist why I 0:19:47.640 --> 0:19:52.080 wasn't in the video, or under selling a woman's desire 0:19:52.160 --> 0:19:55.359 to complain about something. It's not a wise you know 0:19:55.520 --> 0:20:01.160 a way to go. Um yeah, man, they're gonna find 0:20:01.200 --> 0:20:03.720 something to complain about the show. So is it. We 0:20:03.720 --> 0:20:06.800 didn't mention my whole name and the song so obviously 0:20:07.080 --> 0:20:09.600 obviously right, y'all got kids, We don't got kids, so 0:20:09.680 --> 0:20:13.119 obviously y'all really grateful for your kids for sure. Of 0:20:13.160 --> 0:20:17.320 course we love our kids. Which is I mean, you 0:20:17.359 --> 0:20:21.120 gotta think, man, with your kids. Man, that's the that's 0:20:21.160 --> 0:20:25.960 really the glue, and that's what the other the other yo, Yo, 0:20:26.160 --> 0:20:30.639 your new relationship. You know, don't understand that it's really 0:20:30.680 --> 0:20:35.080 the kid, because if the kid wasn't involved, then your 0:20:35.119 --> 0:20:39.000 connection would be less. The song wouldn't exist. What a 0:20:39.080 --> 0:20:42.280 connection would be less if if you didn't have a 0:20:42.359 --> 0:20:45.359 kid with your baby mama. You wouldn't deal with your 0:20:45.400 --> 0:20:48.800 baby mama's as much if you didn't have kids with them, 0:20:48.880 --> 0:20:53.880 that would just be an X. Yeah. So the song 0:20:53.960 --> 0:20:57.240 ain't tell my ex I love her, so I mean yeah, 0:20:57.280 --> 0:20:59.640 and then you know one of them songs like man, 0:20:59.680 --> 0:21:02.480 you know it meet some songs like that. Man, it's 0:21:02.520 --> 0:21:05.520 hard for me to be um like that ship That 0:21:05.640 --> 0:21:08.639 was Joe idea bro. Like at first, I was like, 0:21:08.720 --> 0:21:12.919 all right, bro, that's what you're doing. Hi. He was like, no, 0:21:13.000 --> 0:21:17.000 you gotta get on this. I'm like, and I just 0:21:17.000 --> 0:21:18.760 did it, like fucking I'm gonna just keep it real 0:21:18.840 --> 0:21:21.119 with going to get it off the way. How was 0:21:21.160 --> 0:21:24.840 the writing process for it though, Like you know, like 0:21:24.880 --> 0:21:27.600 the writing process for throwing the lyrics together versus on 0:21:27.640 --> 0:21:30.880 the topic. It was just quick. It was just like 0:21:30.920 --> 0:21:33.760 fucking just keep it really, keep going. It wasn't really 0:21:33.800 --> 0:21:36.760 like your big thought thought out thing, you know what 0:21:36.800 --> 0:21:38.359 I mean. I had to make that nigga get on 0:21:38.400 --> 0:21:40.280 the song. Man, I nig you don't like being vulnerable? 0:21:40.440 --> 0:21:43.440 I just told him, well, I didn't hear it, my bad. 0:21:45.119 --> 0:21:48.639 How you gonna like being vulnerable? And that that is 0:21:48.720 --> 0:21:50.600 just I don't know, man, I could have been could 0:21:50.640 --> 0:21:54.840 have been just a sitit of waste in that hand. Sure, sure, 0:21:55.040 --> 0:21:56.760 and you know, like funck man, you want me to 0:21:56.800 --> 0:21:59.200 rap about this ship, but I just said, fucking kept 0:21:59.200 --> 0:22:04.879 it real. I can't even say, you know what I'm 0:22:05.000 --> 0:22:08.360 gonna do this ship and after hearing this song right 0:22:08.800 --> 0:22:12.000 because I felt like my contribution to it would would 0:22:12.040 --> 0:22:15.120 give you know how you know, you know, you know personally, 0:22:15.160 --> 0:22:20.800 so you know it gave my character. Yeah, yeah, the 0:22:20.880 --> 0:22:23.000 interesting story. Man, I'm like, bro, I see, I thought 0:22:23.040 --> 0:22:25.040 it was dope. I thought as hearing the song, I 0:22:25.080 --> 0:22:27.240 thought the nigga did a good job because showing love 0:22:27.800 --> 0:22:30.920 to the mother of his child. Um, because it was 0:22:30.960 --> 0:22:34.760 oh you always donna have love for them? Sure, yeah, 0:22:34.800 --> 0:22:38.240 yeah you suppose. Okay, you know your nerves or weather whatever, 0:22:38.400 --> 0:22:40.600 you know what I mean. It used to be bad 0:22:40.640 --> 0:22:43.439 where you're just mother, get the tripping, you cuss their 0:22:43.480 --> 0:22:45.800 grass out, and then you just grow past it, like 0:22:45.840 --> 0:22:48.080 you know, what's get to tripping. I'm just gonna hang up. 0:22:48.160 --> 0:22:51.600 Or once once y'all move once, y'all move past the 0:22:51.640 --> 0:22:58.520 concept of being together again. You could coexistent peace. Here's 0:22:58.520 --> 0:23:03.120 a question, right, is it fair to say that your 0:23:03.160 --> 0:23:09.199 baby mom is your family? Yeah? Because you got Okay, 0:23:11.119 --> 0:23:18.200 where on the list of family would they come as priority? Right? Now? Look, 0:23:18.280 --> 0:23:20.679