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Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Tilly and Tanya rap An iHeartRadio podcast.

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Speaker 2: Hello, everybody, we are scrubbing in. Scrub is fixated on

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Speaker 2: herself right now.

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Speaker 3: She missed her c.

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Speaker 1: I uh, I saw myself in a mirror a few

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Speaker 1: minutes ago and was really alarmed. So you know, it's

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Speaker 1: just one of those days. But Jad, I'm just not

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Speaker 1: feeling it.

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Speaker 4: Oh you look, it's great to us.

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Speaker 2: Yeah I don't.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, thank you guys. I'm like deep luteal right now. Days.

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Speaker 2: It's interesting because I would say, what two mondays out

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Speaker 2: of every month here, you would be lutial correct based

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Speaker 2: on deep like deep in it?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Does that mean sad?

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Speaker 1: Mad?

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Speaker 3: What do you feel in deep blue?

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Speaker 2: Deal?

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Speaker 1: Like just bad? Just yeah? Yeah? All right, Well you

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Speaker 1: look great, thank you, Cozy. Yes, that's what I'm going for.

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Speaker 3: And you know, gray looks good on you.

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Speaker 2: I just had this discovery that I don't look good

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Speaker 2: in gray. Every time I wear gray, I'm like, and

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Speaker 2: I gravitate towards gray, but it doesn't like me.

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Speaker 1: So it's funny because you said that, I thought you

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Speaker 1: were pointing out that I have more gray hairs in

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Speaker 1: my head.

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Speaker 2: Oh no, well I can't. I have literally a cold

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Speaker 2: head of gray hair.

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Speaker 1: No, gray is actually a very weird color too. I don't.

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Speaker 1: I'm realizing more and more that I don't like.

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Speaker 2: It, but it I feel like it's flattering on you.

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Speaker 1: That is so kind.

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Speaker 3: I don't.

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Speaker 2: I don't feel that way, thank you. But I just

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Speaker 2: had this realization after I've been buying gray my whole life,

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Speaker 2: so it's been.

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Speaker 1: Quite the predicament.

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Speaker 2: Well, yeah, because I'm just looking at my wardrobe, going

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Speaker 2: gotta get rid of some things.

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Speaker 1: You know, I wanted to buy or not buy. What

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Speaker 1: I wanted to do was Victoria Gear always talks about

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Speaker 1: the color theory. Color theory, and I'm like, how do

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Speaker 1: I find my color?

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Speaker 3: You should go to the girl.

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Speaker 2: That girl, I mean there, I guess there's guys.

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Speaker 1: That do it, but there's multiple people.

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Speaker 3: There's a human.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's just like color theory specialist.

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Speaker 1: Because when she posts about it, I'm like, wow, that

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Speaker 1: actually that color does make her look better.

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Speaker 2: If you watch videos of people doing it, they hold

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Speaker 2: up it's it's really vulnerable because they like slick your

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Speaker 2: hair back, they put a white cape over you, and

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Speaker 2: you're not supposed to wear any makeup, so you're just

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Speaker 2: sitting there staring at yourself in the most vulnerable state.

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Speaker 2: It's like, you know when you get your hair done

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Speaker 2: never felt ugly.

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Speaker 3: Yes, it seems to be like that.

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Speaker 2: And then they hold up colors and if you watch

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Speaker 2: a video of it, it is crazy the way people's

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Speaker 2: faces and skin different.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I need to get that done.

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Speaker 2: Great podcast content, great.

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Speaker 3: Cow or I love Lucy, I love Tanya.

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Speaker 1: Show Robbie after this and be like, can we go

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Speaker 1: get our what does it call?

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Speaker 2: I imagine he won't care because he just wears black, gray,

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Speaker 2: and white, excuse.

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Speaker 1: Me, and beige.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's true, That's what I'm saying. I don't think

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Speaker 2: he's gonna want to know what colors look best on

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Speaker 2: him because he knows.

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Speaker 1: He just feels like a solo trip for me.

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Speaker 2: But when I was like, what's your favorite color that

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Speaker 2: Robbie wears and he said beige?

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Speaker 1: What's wrong with beige?

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Speaker 3: I'm just saying he's not a color guy.

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Speaker 1: No, but beige looks good on that skin tone.

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Speaker 2: Actually, he has a really nice skin tone, so I

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Speaker 2: bet I bet he would do well with most colors. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: and that's good for him, Thank you. We don't I

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Speaker 2: don't have the same privilege.

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Speaker 1: That's such the same.

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Speaker 2: Speaking of Robbie Mark, happy Father's Day.

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Speaker 4: Oh aren't you nice? Thank you very much.

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Speaker 1: Did you have a nice Father's Day?

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Speaker 4: Well, it was overshadowed by my daughter graduated and we

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Speaker 4: had a graduation party yesterday on Father's Day, which was

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Speaker 4: fine with me. That's that's how it should be. I

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Speaker 4: don't need any of that.

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Speaker 2: Well, what better gift than your daughter getting our high

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Speaker 2: school diploma.

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Speaker 4: It was glorious and my parents were there, and my

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Speaker 4: wife's parents were there, and my sister in law and

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Speaker 4: my niece and my nephew, and it was just and

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Speaker 4: we had, you know, a lot of people come to

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Speaker 4: this party.

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Speaker 1: It was great. Yeah, really don't care. Huh no.

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Speaker 4: And also nobody really cares about Father's Day. And that's fine.

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Speaker 1: What that's not true.

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Speaker 4: It is true. Father's Day is like, way way way

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Speaker 4: down the list. Like Mother's Day is one of the

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Speaker 4: top five holidays of the year. Father's days an afterthought,

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Speaker 4: and that's as it should be. Father's Day came many

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Speaker 4: years after Mother's Day. Mothers should be honored. Mothers create life,

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Speaker 4: they've brought this child.

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Speaker 1: Father, your sperm counts too.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't think fathers should get nearly the credit

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Speaker 4: that mothers should get. Well, but you know it's great.

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Speaker 4: It was fine. I stopped my daughter. She's going to

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Speaker 4: go out shopping from the best gift you could give

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Speaker 4: me is to save your money and don't spend any

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Speaker 4: of it on me. How dumb is that?

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Speaker 1: Wells, I was the presence, but I think that it

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Speaker 1: should be as celebrated as Mother's Day.

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Speaker 4: I don't agree with that.

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Speaker 2: Well, well, I think it also depends on the mother

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Speaker 2: of the father, right.

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Speaker 1: Right, exactly the mother or father that you are, I suppose.

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Speaker 1: I had a really emotional time talking to my dad

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Speaker 1: yesterday because they're in Serbia, so they weren't here, so

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Speaker 1: I was like facetiming with him, and he's just like

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Speaker 1: having this these like life epiphanies and really like talking

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Speaker 1: weird way, like he's like saying stuff about like you know,

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Speaker 1: when I look back on my I'm like, you're still

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Speaker 1: living that life, Like what are you talking about?

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Speaker 2: You know?

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Speaker 1: But it made me like really emotional, and I was

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Speaker 1: missed him a lot.

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Speaker 3: I know, when do you get to see him.

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Speaker 1: Like in a month another month?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's hard. Yeah, it's hard being away from our.

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Speaker 4: Parents official holiday. When nineteen fourteen in Father's Day nineteen

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Speaker 4: seventy two.

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Speaker 2: That's the first time woman got something before men.

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Speaker 1: I just think I see it so, like, obviously I

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Speaker 1: to celebrate her every single day. But I feel like

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Speaker 1: I have such a special connection with my dad as well,

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Speaker 1: and also like Robbie's a dad and he's like to me,

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Speaker 1: Robbie is like mom and dad, like he is just

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Speaker 1: he is everything, you know what I mean, Like he's

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Speaker 1: literally everything. And so I believe fathers they should be celebrated.

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Speaker 2: I'm curious to see if this changes once you have a.

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Speaker 1: Kid, which I'm sure, but I think it would still

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Speaker 1: be like equal.

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Speaker 4: It's not gonna be equal, but you should know that

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Speaker 2: But this is good that you have these feelings now

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Speaker 2: so you can really celebrate the dads in your life.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, but it's more about like doing

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Speaker 4: Yeah right, great, yeah right, Whereas.

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Speaker 1: Like Mother's Day, it's you know, I need like all the.

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Speaker 4: Things when you are a mother.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you'll need the red carpet later, that's right.

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Speaker 1: What did you do for Robbie? We I got like

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Speaker 1: these shirts that said like best at ever, and so

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Speaker 1: we all like wore them in the morning, surprising with

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Speaker 1: then we put like photos all around with like a

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Speaker 1: little banners. Happy Father's Day. That's kind of what we

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Speaker 1: did in the morning, made him breakfast and then we

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Speaker 1: celebrated with his dad and his family and just like

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Speaker 1: we literally barbecued the whole day noon to six.

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Speaker 3: Just like meat and treats and.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, just like eats on eats on eats.

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Speaker 3: How are you feeling during the day?

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Speaker 2: Horrible?

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Speaker 1: I got accidentally so wasted on Saturday.

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Speaker 2: This is such a great follow up from our podcast

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Speaker 2: story Sober Curious No More Sober Curious last did four

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Speaker 1: It's such as it's such an interesting relationship that I

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Speaker 3: Really, So what'd you do.

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Speaker 2: Where'd you rage?

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Speaker 3: It's fun?

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Speaker 2: Yeah. So are you back to sober curious?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? So now I'm back to being sober curious, and

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Speaker 1: I don't want to drink for at least a month.

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Speaker 2: And she goes, We're going over to celebrate Father's Day,

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Speaker 2: so it's gonna be drinking and eating.

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Speaker 3: I'm like, well, don't drink.

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Speaker 1: She's like, whoa hair of the dog.

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Speaker 2: I'll just get a glass of wine and hold on

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Speaker 1: Yeah. So that's a little bit about my weekend. How

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Speaker 3: Oh, I had a pretty fun, like chill weekend, you know.

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Speaker 2: I Friday, Ali and I played pickleball, which was hilarious.

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Speaker 2: Been wanting to play pickleball. I played in a tournament

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Speaker 2: I thought was just so cute because pickleball is one

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Speaker 2: And then yesterday I stayed at home, I did laundry,

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Speaker 1: If you guys want to know what my new pursuit is,

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Speaker 1: it's walking. I don't do enough of it. I rarely

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Speaker 3: Where do you go to and fro from?

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Speaker 2: Okay, I'm just.

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Speaker 1: General necessity stairs. No I do not. I go down

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Speaker 1: But like I don't walk day to day I don't

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Speaker 1: Where is your health app? Okay, little heart, little heart, yesterday,

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Speaker 1: it is going to be quite nothing, Okay, quite okay,

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Speaker 1: it's not even set up.

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Speaker 4: I think it's just there.

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Speaker 4: Do you have a steps free yesterday?

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, uh huh four hundred and fifty one steps yesterday.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that's almost impossible.

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Speaker 4: It's like nothing.

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Speaker 2: It's like I've had five hundred and seventy eight just

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that makes y'all know. Sorry, that's today, Yeah, sorry, Yesterday,

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Speaker 1: Sunday Day. Sorry, yesterday, two thousand, seven hundred and eighty seven.

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Speaker 2: Becca eleven thousand, nine hundred and ninety eight.

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Speaker 5: Thousand, two seventy seven.

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Speaker 4: I think I win this one fifteen thousand, and seven

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Speaker 3: Where'd you go?

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Speaker 4: I hike every day with my dogs every day.

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Speaker 2: That's amazing.

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Speaker 1: Walk no walking, so good for you, and I don't walk.

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Speaker 4: Well, Clearly, two thousand steps is not much.

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Speaker 1: Worked. I worked out on Saturday.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you have to have your phone on your Yeah,

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Speaker 4: I try to give you it out.

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Speaker 3: Two hours for me to walk.

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Speaker 2: I'm saying like if I do it all in one

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Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying. I have it, But I'm like,

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Speaker 1: How maybe they have treadmill desks, like a desk out

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Speaker 1: Maybe I'm not gonna get ten thousand start with ten

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Speaker 2: There is something else that you do that I wanted

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Speaker 1: not you might know. I thought maybe it was like

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00:19:59,680 --> 00:20:02,120
Speaker 1: some slang term like I didn't know.

450
00:20:02,200 --> 00:20:05,280
Speaker 2: But I asked Tonya. I was like, do you do

451
00:20:05,359 --> 00:20:07,679
Speaker 2: this to anybody else? Like does Robbie get like do

452
00:20:07,760 --> 00:20:09,600
Speaker 2: you ask Robby these things? And she's like, no, it's

453
00:20:09,720 --> 00:20:11,840
Speaker 2: just you.

454
00:20:11,119 --> 00:20:13,040
Speaker 1: Literally, it's just you. But then Sam pointed out to

455
00:20:13,040 --> 00:20:14,360
Speaker 1: me that I do it at work too.

456
00:20:14,520 --> 00:20:17,200
Speaker 2: Oh okay, so it's not just me then, yeah, okay.

457
00:20:16,960 --> 00:20:18,840
Speaker 1: But at work. I think the reason why I do

458
00:20:18,880 --> 00:20:23,520
Speaker 1: it with Sam is because, like I'll be engaging in

459
00:20:23,560 --> 00:20:27,480
Speaker 1: the show and I can't like read Google stats or whatever.

460
00:20:27,520 --> 00:20:29,840
Speaker 1: So I'll slack Sam because I know she just knows everything,

461
00:20:30,200 --> 00:20:32,000
Speaker 1: and I'll be like, hey, can you confirm she only

462
00:20:32,000 --> 00:20:33,479
Speaker 1: has like two daughters or whatever?

463
00:20:34,119 --> 00:20:36,760
Speaker 3: Right, but when you ask me, you're just sitting on.

464
00:20:36,720 --> 00:20:39,560
Speaker 2: Your plenty of time to check.

465
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Speaker 4: I appreciate you not googling things during the show because

466
00:20:42,760 --> 00:20:43,320
Speaker 4: that's annoying.

467
00:20:43,520 --> 00:20:44,560
Speaker 1: Thank you so much.

468
00:20:44,640 --> 00:20:47,040
Speaker 4: Right, But if you're just home, I don't know that

469
00:20:47,080 --> 00:20:48,840
Speaker 4: you need to bother back. Do you want to know?

470
00:20:48,920 --> 00:20:51,560
Speaker 1: It's so weird though, like this is my brain, Okay,

471
00:20:51,800 --> 00:20:54,960
Speaker 1: So I'll read this whole Facebook group about this MLM

472
00:20:55,200 --> 00:20:55,480
Speaker 1: trying to.

473
00:20:55,440 --> 00:20:55,960
Speaker 4: Already got on.

474
00:20:58,119 --> 00:20:59,440
Speaker 3: The phone right in front of her.

475
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Speaker 1: And I'm reading all all this stuff and I'm like,

476
00:21:00,840 --> 00:21:04,240
Speaker 1: what is an l L MLM? And I'm reading through

477
00:21:04,280 --> 00:21:06,600
Speaker 1: the comments and I'll set fire off a text to Becca,

478
00:21:07,240 --> 00:21:10,720
Speaker 1: continue reading the threads of like everybody that's responding, and

479
00:21:10,760 --> 00:21:13,720
Speaker 1: then obviously Becca's still asleep, not responding to me. So

480
00:21:13,720 --> 00:21:15,199
Speaker 1: I just put my phone down and I go back

481
00:21:15,240 --> 00:21:17,879
Speaker 1: to and I just like rest, I don't even google it,

482
00:21:17,920 --> 00:21:20,280
Speaker 1: Like it's like I think it for one second, I

483
00:21:20,320 --> 00:21:22,680
Speaker 1: asked Becca, and then I move on with my day.

484
00:21:22,720 --> 00:21:25,840
Speaker 4: But I annoying for Becca living her life. She's just

485
00:21:25,880 --> 00:21:27,119
Speaker 4: out whatever.

486
00:21:28,000 --> 00:21:28,919
Speaker 3: I'm just a sleep.

487
00:21:28,960 --> 00:21:36,240
Speaker 2: When I don't answer, it's like two pm.

488
00:21:37,359 --> 00:21:39,119
Speaker 3: Could she wakes up?

489
00:21:39,280 --> 00:21:39,560
Speaker 4: She could.

490
00:21:41,560 --> 00:21:45,040
Speaker 2: You could be with a friend's sitting and not wanting to.

491
00:21:46,440 --> 00:21:49,640
Speaker 4: Just in bed on a Sunday morning, just relaxing. Could

492
00:21:49,680 --> 00:21:50,600
Speaker 4: be any number of things.

493
00:21:53,480 --> 00:21:55,240
Speaker 3: It was early. I think I said it early.

494
00:21:55,359 --> 00:21:56,919
Speaker 1: I felt I feel confident that you were a.

495
00:21:58,000 --> 00:22:01,800
Speaker 2: But so then I I post that I'm this is

496
00:22:01,800 --> 00:22:06,240
Speaker 2: actually funny. So I post a photo, a mirror photo

497
00:22:06,280 --> 00:22:09,399
Speaker 2: of me which I post all the time, showing my outfit, hair, whatever,

498
00:22:09,560 --> 00:22:12,000
Speaker 2: it's like in the same spot in my bathroom. And

499
00:22:12,080 --> 00:22:15,440
Speaker 2: I just said, like dinner fit or something. Tanya goes,

500
00:22:16,720 --> 00:22:19,320
Speaker 2: where are you going? Who are you going with? And

501
00:22:19,359 --> 00:22:23,040
Speaker 2: then Alie texts me where are you going? And I

502
00:22:23,160 --> 00:22:26,320
Speaker 2: say Bestia and she goes, who are you going with?

503
00:22:26,760 --> 00:22:30,600
Speaker 2: And I'm like, oh my god. So then I don't

504
00:22:30,600 --> 00:22:33,440
Speaker 2: see Tania. So then I get a text from Tanya

505
00:22:33,520 --> 00:22:36,040
Speaker 2: and it says, who are you at best deal with?

506
00:22:36,200 --> 00:22:44,000
Speaker 3: She had checked my location. God, I've been recent. I

507
00:22:44,040 --> 00:22:46,160
Speaker 3: tried to watch Baby Reindeer, but I got it got

508
00:22:46,160 --> 00:22:49,200
Speaker 3: too dark. But I was like there were some misspellings

509
00:22:49,240 --> 00:22:54,399
Speaker 3: in here. This is Martha.

510
00:22:56,320 --> 00:22:58,520
Speaker 1: And then she goes, how does it feel to be

511
00:22:58,720 --> 00:22:59,480
Speaker 1: so loved?

512
00:23:00,560 --> 00:23:02,520
Speaker 3: This does not equal love to me.

513
00:23:03,320 --> 00:23:04,800
Speaker 4: By the way, that is what talker saying.

514
00:23:07,680 --> 00:23:10,399
Speaker 1: How does it feel to be so loved by a

515
00:23:10,480 --> 00:23:12,919
Speaker 1: friend that they just want to know where you're going

516
00:23:12,960 --> 00:23:15,920
Speaker 1: and who you're going with on a Friday night? Yeah,

517
00:23:16,000 --> 00:23:17,040
Speaker 1: that's so nice.

518
00:23:17,200 --> 00:23:20,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, no, I guess it doesn't. That doesn't equal love

519
00:23:20,560 --> 00:23:20,840
Speaker 2: for me.

520
00:23:27,600 --> 00:23:29,359
Speaker 1: Well, after she didn't respond for a while, I was like,

521
00:23:29,440 --> 00:23:31,760
Speaker 1: I have her, I have her location, let's see where

522
00:23:31,760 --> 00:23:33,120
Speaker 1: she is, so.

523
00:23:33,040 --> 00:23:34,679
Speaker 3: Then you think, okay, she's at best of you.

524
00:23:35,119 --> 00:23:43,840
Speaker 2: And I was like, yeah, I'm talking to Ali about it.

525
00:23:43,880 --> 00:23:46,000
Speaker 2: I'm like both of you were like who are you with?

526
00:23:46,160 --> 00:23:48,000
Speaker 3: Where are you going? And She's like yeah.

527
00:23:48,040 --> 00:23:50,320
Speaker 2: And then Tanya texted me I think to just see

528
00:23:50,359 --> 00:23:51,600
Speaker 2: if if you were with me.

529
00:23:54,240 --> 00:23:55,879
Speaker 3: Y'all are all so unhinged.

530
00:23:57,800 --> 00:24:01,399
Speaker 2: It's so nice, And and then Banks goes, I literally

531
00:24:01,520 --> 00:24:03,400
Speaker 2: was going to text you and ask where we were

532
00:24:03,440 --> 00:24:05,520
Speaker 2: going or who you were with, but I held back,

533
00:24:06,000 --> 00:24:10,239
Speaker 2: and Ashley goes, Becca, is this exhausting for you? And

534
00:24:10,280 --> 00:24:13,639
Speaker 2: I was like, you know, it feels I'm glad that

535
00:24:13,640 --> 00:24:16,200
Speaker 2: my friends care about me. I was like, yeah, Tanya

536
00:24:16,240 --> 00:24:19,240
Speaker 2: did hit me with a d M and text, which

537
00:24:19,440 --> 00:24:21,679
Speaker 2: that was a little aggressive for me.

538
00:24:23,920 --> 00:24:26,000
Speaker 1: So yeah, so would you answered, But it didn't come

539
00:24:26,040 --> 00:24:26,840
Speaker 1: in a place of love.

540
00:24:26,880 --> 00:24:29,159
Speaker 4: Who are you a best you with? Doesn't sound like loving?

541
00:24:29,600 --> 00:24:31,040
Speaker 4: That sounds like I need.

542
00:24:30,880 --> 00:24:33,080
Speaker 3: To know you know what it makes me feel.

543
00:24:33,160 --> 00:24:35,879
Speaker 4: No more reasons are jealousy. Reasons are something It doesn't

544
00:24:35,880 --> 00:24:38,439
Speaker 4: sound like. I hope you're having a I see your

545
00:24:38,480 --> 00:24:40,440
Speaker 4: at best you. I hope you're having a great time

546
00:24:40,520 --> 00:24:43,400
Speaker 4: Like that sounds like it's coming from okay the.

547
00:24:46,240 --> 00:24:47,640
Speaker 3: I would like to go back.

548
00:24:47,720 --> 00:24:49,760
Speaker 2: I don't think she needs to let me know she's

549
00:24:49,800 --> 00:24:52,640
Speaker 2: seen me that that could.

550
00:24:52,480 --> 00:24:55,040
Speaker 1: Get your took a level too far.

551
00:24:55,680 --> 00:24:57,000
Speaker 2: No, you cannot take.

552
00:24:56,840 --> 00:24:59,639
Speaker 1: Me off my friends. I actually would like us to

553
00:24:59,680 --> 00:25:04,000
Speaker 1: move to Life three sixty notes because that shows me

554
00:25:04,119 --> 00:25:08,639
Speaker 1: like where when you're driving, how fast you looking a

555
00:25:08,680 --> 00:25:17,240
Speaker 1: little lower? Your phone battery is dying charge.

556
00:25:19,960 --> 00:25:22,359
Speaker 2: I literally have full body chills and the worst I

557
00:25:22,480 --> 00:25:23,359
Speaker 2: think about this.

558
00:25:24,160 --> 00:25:27,720
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, Really though, Live three sixty would be.

559
00:25:29,200 --> 00:25:31,399
Speaker 2: Like you're on thin ice with the fight my friends.

560
00:25:31,440 --> 00:25:32,160
Speaker 3: Right, well, if I.

561
00:25:32,119 --> 00:25:35,159
Speaker 1: Said the only thing I want for my birthday in

562
00:25:35,240 --> 00:25:37,200
Speaker 1: the whole wide world.

563
00:25:37,240 --> 00:25:38,760
Speaker 2: You're not getting your birthday wishes.

564
00:25:38,840 --> 00:25:41,720
Speaker 1: You turn back up to follow me, follow you on

565
00:25:42,320 --> 00:25:48,080
Speaker 1: the thing, took your way of privileges. Okay, it's fine.

566
00:25:48,119 --> 00:25:52,240
Speaker 1: So now I know that freaked you out, and I

567
00:25:52,240 --> 00:25:55,359
Speaker 1: will take that as a lesson and moving forward, I

568
00:25:55,400 --> 00:26:03,280
Speaker 1: will keep that to my son. I will respect your privacy.

569
00:26:03,359 --> 00:26:07,560
Speaker 1: But no, I keep following you, friend, but I'll keep it.

570
00:26:07,440 --> 00:26:08,040
Speaker 3: To my saying.

571
00:26:08,119 --> 00:26:10,600
Speaker 2: I mean, the whole reason of Find my Friends is

572
00:26:10,640 --> 00:26:13,240
Speaker 2: so that you if you're like, where's Mecca, Oh, I'll

573
00:26:13,280 --> 00:26:15,440
Speaker 2: just check the app because she gave me access to that.

574
00:26:15,600 --> 00:26:17,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, And I was like, oh my gosh, BESSI yet

575
00:26:17,040 --> 00:26:20,240
Speaker 1: that's Robbie's favorite restaurant, Like maybe I can come join you, like, you.

576
00:26:20,200 --> 00:26:22,920
Speaker 3: Know, but if I wanted that, I would have asked you,

577
00:26:22,920 --> 00:26:23,119
Speaker 3: you know.

578
00:26:23,359 --> 00:26:25,400
Speaker 1: Yeah. I just didn't get a response for like many

579
00:26:25,440 --> 00:26:28,119
Speaker 1: many hours. So I was like, that ship has sailed.

580
00:26:28,560 --> 00:26:30,680
Speaker 1: It was my pajama's watching Survivor.

581
00:26:30,720 --> 00:26:34,920
Speaker 2: I understand why that's his favorite restaurant. My first time there. Yeah,

582
00:26:35,119 --> 00:26:38,960
Speaker 2: it's such a cool vibe, so fun. Yeah. So yeah,

583
00:26:39,000 --> 00:26:41,320
Speaker 2: I did try to start a baby Reindeer.

584
00:26:41,760 --> 00:26:44,080
Speaker 3: A little too dark for me personally.

585
00:26:43,720 --> 00:26:45,640
Speaker 1: Way too dark for I think it's episode four.

586
00:26:46,520 --> 00:26:49,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, that was it. I think I was done after

587
00:26:49,520 --> 00:26:49,800
Speaker 3: that one.

588
00:26:49,920 --> 00:26:51,479
Speaker 1: Yeah, I didn't finish either. I don't even know how

589
00:26:51,480 --> 00:26:51,840
Speaker 1: to ends.

590
00:26:51,960 --> 00:26:54,240
Speaker 3: What are you watching right now? Any news shows?

591
00:26:54,400 --> 00:26:59,119
Speaker 1: Okay? So glad you asked. There's actually two seasons of

592
00:26:59,160 --> 00:27:01,960
Speaker 1: Love Island happening at the exact same time right now,

593
00:27:02,480 --> 00:27:04,919
Speaker 1: Love Island UKH and Love Island USA.

594
00:27:05,119 --> 00:27:06,680
Speaker 2: I thought you don't like USA, so I don't.

595
00:27:08,000 --> 00:27:10,960
Speaker 1: Yes, actually I don't know about USA. I don't know

596
00:27:11,000 --> 00:27:14,680
Speaker 1: because I've never watched one. I've watched one episode. Can

597
00:27:14,680 --> 00:27:17,879
Speaker 1: you check on that for me? Thank you? Okay, So

598
00:27:18,560 --> 00:27:22,760
Speaker 1: I don't like USA right However, I've been watching Love

599
00:27:22,800 --> 00:27:26,720
Speaker 1: Island UK this season, and I no, I cannot connect

600
00:27:26,720 --> 00:27:29,639
Speaker 1: to any character on the show right now. Like I

601
00:27:29,640 --> 00:27:31,600
Speaker 1: don't hate any of them, but I'm not in love

602
00:27:31,640 --> 00:27:33,560
Speaker 1: with any of them. And I'm usually like so in

603
00:27:33,600 --> 00:27:35,440
Speaker 1: love with a handful by now.

604
00:27:35,640 --> 00:27:39,760
Speaker 2: I love how you call them characters like literally just people.

605
00:27:40,720 --> 00:27:44,439
Speaker 1: So I'm concerned about this season. So I posted this

606
00:27:44,480 --> 00:27:48,480
Speaker 1: on Instagram, and I had a slew of messages of

607
00:27:48,480 --> 00:27:50,920
Speaker 1: people saying that they felt the exact same way, and

608
00:27:50,960 --> 00:27:56,520
Speaker 1: actually that this season of USA is way better. So

609
00:27:56,880 --> 00:27:59,480
Speaker 1: I think I'm gonna I think I'm gonna jump ship,

610
00:28:00,080 --> 00:28:02,280
Speaker 1: dip my toe into Love Island USA.

611
00:28:02,440 --> 00:28:05,760
Speaker 4: The sixth season premiere two and eleventh new episodes drop

612
00:28:05,880 --> 00:28:09,080
Speaker 4: every day for the rest of the week at six pm.

613
00:28:09,680 --> 00:28:13,000
Speaker 4: New episodes waste Thursdays through Tuesdays, giving viewers a break

614
00:28:13,000 --> 00:28:15,040
Speaker 4: on Wednesdays.

615
00:28:14,160 --> 00:28:15,359
Speaker 1: Only one day off.

616
00:28:15,440 --> 00:28:16,240
Speaker 4: One day off.

617
00:28:16,480 --> 00:28:17,359
Speaker 1: That's glorious.

618
00:28:17,480 --> 00:28:19,040
Speaker 4: That's a lot.

619
00:28:19,280 --> 00:28:23,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a lot. Okay. So I know that there

620
00:28:23,040 --> 00:28:25,159
Speaker 1: are a lot of Love Island fans out there in

621
00:28:25,200 --> 00:28:28,119
Speaker 1: the universe, and I think I'm going to give USA

622
00:28:28,200 --> 00:28:29,359
Speaker 1: a shot this season.

623
00:28:29,920 --> 00:28:33,159
Speaker 3: All right, stay tuned for updates. You're on scrubbing in?

624
00:28:33,320 --> 00:28:39,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, probably not on talks to herself? Yeah about but wow.

625
00:28:39,160 --> 00:28:43,400
Speaker 1: And there's a guy from Trader's UK season two that

626
00:28:43,600 --> 00:28:47,440
Speaker 1: is on Love Island USA this season. Who say his

627
00:28:47,520 --> 00:28:50,400
Speaker 1: name is Aaron? Aaron or Alex something with an A.

628
00:28:51,000 --> 00:28:54,360
Speaker 2: He was on the Celebrity No oh.

629
00:28:54,120 --> 00:28:56,520
Speaker 1: Yeah season two and now he's on Love Island USA.

630
00:28:56,800 --> 00:28:57,040
Speaker 3: Nothing.

631
00:28:57,280 --> 00:28:59,640
Speaker 2: Who won because Haley just finished it?

632
00:29:00,360 --> 00:29:05,800
Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, then cried, I have no idea.

633
00:29:05,920 --> 00:29:06,440
Speaker 1: Oh my god.

634
00:29:08,000 --> 00:29:10,320
Speaker 2: Okay, remember last week when we were talking about how

635
00:29:10,320 --> 00:29:12,120
Speaker 2: hard it would be, we were talking about Glenn Powell

636
00:29:12,160 --> 00:29:13,560
Speaker 2: and how he was saying he would have to date

637
00:29:13,560 --> 00:29:18,040
Speaker 2: someone who really understood his dynamics with co stars or whatever.

638
00:29:18,640 --> 00:29:24,520
Speaker 2: So the uh stars of Bridgerton season three, Nicola Coglin

639
00:29:24,800 --> 00:29:29,400
Speaker 2: and Luke Newton are lovers on the show and they've

640
00:29:29,440 --> 00:29:32,440
Speaker 2: been doing all the press together and they're like holding hand.

641
00:29:32,520 --> 00:29:35,240
Speaker 2: You can tell they're really close. But he has a girlfriend.

642
00:29:36,520 --> 00:29:36,920
Speaker 1: Correct?

643
00:29:37,040 --> 00:29:38,520
Speaker 3: Does she have a boyfriend? Do we know this?

644
00:29:38,640 --> 00:29:39,280
Speaker 2: Or she?

645
00:29:39,280 --> 00:29:40,200
Speaker 4: She is single? Now?

646
00:29:40,440 --> 00:29:41,200
Speaker 3: Okay, she's single.

647
00:29:41,720 --> 00:29:45,040
Speaker 2: So I was like, I just it would be so

648
00:29:45,200 --> 00:29:47,880
Speaker 2: hard and I'm so curious how I would love to

649
00:29:47,920 --> 00:29:49,400
Speaker 2: talk to his girlfriend about this.

650
00:29:49,640 --> 00:29:52,480
Speaker 1: So I think I think I have a theory because

651
00:29:52,520 --> 00:29:54,680
Speaker 1: you know how Glenn Powell and Sidney Sweeney did this

652
00:29:54,920 --> 00:29:57,320
Speaker 1: when their movie was coming out. It's for PR, It's

653
00:29:57,320 --> 00:29:57,760
Speaker 1: for PR.

654
00:29:58,280 --> 00:30:00,320
Speaker 2: So do you think he just tells her like, hey.

655
00:30:00,240 --> 00:30:02,640
Speaker 1: Hey, babe, nothing, we got to get the ratings up

656
00:30:02,640 --> 00:30:08,239
Speaker 1: for this season. I'm gonna like do a little hand holding.

657
00:30:07,840 --> 00:30:10,240
Speaker 3: Or whatever they do a little handy.

658
00:30:10,240 --> 00:30:14,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, little handy, But I got you, there's nothing going

659
00:30:14,280 --> 00:30:17,360
Speaker 1: on there. We're just like really doing it for the show.

660
00:30:17,440 --> 00:30:18,920
Speaker 2: Would that work for you? No?

661
00:30:21,080 --> 00:30:24,000
Speaker 3: Con would work No, I'd be like, let me show

662
00:30:24,040 --> 00:30:28,080
Speaker 3: you the door. Yeah, I would know you want it.

663
00:30:28,640 --> 00:30:30,960
Speaker 1: There's no way I could handle that. But you kind

664
00:30:30,960 --> 00:30:35,800
Speaker 1: of have to handle that. Yeah, yeah, yeah, and how

665
00:30:36,040 --> 00:30:36,720
Speaker 1: how is it?

666
00:30:36,920 --> 00:30:39,160
Speaker 2: I haven't had to handle that, but I I do

667
00:30:39,240 --> 00:30:42,040
Speaker 2: think if Haley had a conversation was like, hey, this

668
00:30:42,080 --> 00:30:45,160
Speaker 2: is for pr we have to sell this romance to

669
00:30:45,200 --> 00:30:49,080
Speaker 2: the public, and you're safe. Come come with us, like

670
00:30:49,160 --> 00:30:52,040
Speaker 2: you can watch be a part of everything, you know,

671
00:30:52,160 --> 00:30:53,320
Speaker 2: I'd feel safer.

672
00:30:53,520 --> 00:30:57,200
Speaker 3: But I don't think i'd like the fan edits and stuff.

673
00:30:57,640 --> 00:30:58,360
Speaker 2: That would be hard.

674
00:30:58,440 --> 00:31:01,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, just scrolling endlessly to like your partner.

675
00:31:02,200 --> 00:31:03,960
Speaker 2: I wasn't even thinking about so you know how we

676
00:31:04,000 --> 00:31:06,320
Speaker 2: had Shannon Beverage on the show. Yeah, I was thinking

677
00:31:06,360 --> 00:31:08,320
Speaker 2: about how she will always be attached to.

678
00:31:08,800 --> 00:31:11,640
Speaker 3: Fletcher and how no matter who.

679
00:31:11,560 --> 00:31:13,800
Speaker 1: She dates, there will always be those people.

680
00:31:13,480 --> 00:31:16,160
Speaker 3: Who stand her and Fletcher.

681
00:31:16,480 --> 00:31:21,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, and that'll just forever be a part of it forever. Damn.

682
00:31:21,400 --> 00:31:23,480
Speaker 1: I know you know who else we stand?

683
00:31:24,080 --> 00:31:25,120
Speaker 3: The Rodent boyfriends.

684
00:31:25,240 --> 00:31:28,360
Speaker 1: No, yeah, we can talk about that, but Jason Tarctic

685
00:31:28,440 --> 00:31:30,600
Speaker 1: and his girlfriend their.

686
00:31:30,360 --> 00:31:34,160
Speaker 2: Official yeah Instagram official. Okay, she met the family this weekend.

687
00:31:34,280 --> 00:31:37,320
Speaker 1: I saw that. Did anybody listen? Oh, you were in

688
00:31:37,320 --> 00:31:37,640
Speaker 1: the room.

689
00:31:37,720 --> 00:31:39,280
Speaker 5: Ethan I did listen.

690
00:31:39,360 --> 00:31:43,719
Speaker 1: Yes, do you remember when Jason Tarctic came on and

691
00:31:43,760 --> 00:31:47,160
Speaker 1: I asked him about this said relationship, and he said,

692
00:31:47,200 --> 00:31:51,000
Speaker 1: I want to keep a private but the minute it's not,

693
00:31:51,400 --> 00:31:55,360
Speaker 1: i'll come here. You'll be the first to know. Do

694
00:31:55,440 --> 00:31:55,959
Speaker 1: you remember that.

695
00:31:56,080 --> 00:31:58,600
Speaker 5: I remember him like all but confirming.

696
00:31:58,080 --> 00:32:00,720
Speaker 1: It right, but saying like it'll be here that I

697
00:32:00,800 --> 00:32:01,120
Speaker 1: do it.

698
00:32:01,840 --> 00:32:05,360
Speaker 2: I don't remember that specifically his own podcast and he's

699
00:32:05,360 --> 00:32:07,800
Speaker 2: going to break the news on scrubbing in. Why would

700
00:32:07,800 --> 00:32:12,200
Speaker 2: he say that because he's nice and he's charming and

701
00:32:12,240 --> 00:32:14,720
Speaker 2: he's like, I know what will make Donya so happy.

702
00:32:15,520 --> 00:32:17,960
Speaker 1: Well I saw the news break and I'm like, this

703
00:32:18,080 --> 00:32:20,080
Speaker 1: is not scrubbing in, Broya.

704
00:32:20,360 --> 00:32:24,640
Speaker 2: I just kills me that you this is sound cute.

705
00:32:25,120 --> 00:32:28,760
Speaker 2: This is getting sud cute. That like Camilla said, let's

706
00:32:28,760 --> 00:32:32,960
Speaker 2: watch Grays together, and you she did.

707
00:32:33,720 --> 00:32:35,880
Speaker 1: She did say let's watch it together.

708
00:32:38,640 --> 00:32:41,000
Speaker 3: It's like whying out never.

709
00:32:42,600 --> 00:32:44,840
Speaker 1: But why say it? Like you can be nice and

710
00:32:44,920 --> 00:32:47,560
Speaker 1: be like it was so lovely to meet. You think

711
00:32:47,680 --> 00:32:48,640
Speaker 1: you have a nice day.

712
00:32:48,720 --> 00:32:50,480
Speaker 2: Well I think you kind of go like we should

713
00:32:50,480 --> 00:32:54,640
Speaker 2: watch Grace together and she's like, I don't know how to.

714
00:32:55,720 --> 00:33:02,480
Speaker 1: I don't think I do that Okay, so nobody remembers

715
00:33:02,520 --> 00:33:04,400
Speaker 1: Jason Tartik saying that just me?

716
00:33:04,880 --> 00:33:08,680
Speaker 3: Well either way, he they had been dating.

717
00:33:08,720 --> 00:33:11,480
Speaker 2: I think for a minute when you even did that interview,

718
00:33:11,480 --> 00:33:14,400
Speaker 2: I feel correct because like if she's already met the family,

719
00:33:14,440 --> 00:33:17,840
Speaker 2: feels like they've been together for a while, right.

720
00:33:18,000 --> 00:33:20,360
Speaker 1: Yeah. But you know what's really cute is they posted

721
00:33:20,400 --> 00:33:24,640
Speaker 1: this video of them like talking about the post, like

722
00:33:24,800 --> 00:33:27,840
Speaker 1: the caption, like all that stuff. Did you and Haley

723
00:33:27,840 --> 00:33:29,880
Speaker 1: ever like do that when you guys before you did

724
00:33:29,920 --> 00:33:32,440
Speaker 1: you remember your first post when you like made it public?

725
00:33:33,120 --> 00:33:34,120
Speaker 1: You remember it exactly?

726
00:33:35,200 --> 00:33:35,400
Speaker 2: Yeah?

727
00:33:35,440 --> 00:33:39,479
Speaker 1: Did you guys do a joint a joint post? No?

728
00:33:39,600 --> 00:33:41,200
Speaker 3: I think I just did. It's just me.

729
00:33:41,360 --> 00:33:42,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, I love that.

730
00:33:43,000 --> 00:33:45,440
Speaker 3: Thank you so much? An independent woman, that's right.

731
00:33:46,320 --> 00:33:46,400
Speaker 1: No.

732
00:33:46,520 --> 00:33:50,280
Speaker 2: I had made a video, the video collage of us,

733
00:33:50,400 --> 00:33:54,560
Speaker 2: and just because her music video was gonna come out,

734
00:33:54,760 --> 00:33:56,680
Speaker 2: and so I kind of was like, I guess we're

735
00:33:56,680 --> 00:33:59,640
Speaker 2: gonna we're gonna be going public at some point around this.

736
00:34:01,000 --> 00:34:04,760
Speaker 2: And so the night after the the music video went up,

737
00:34:04,960 --> 00:34:09,239
Speaker 2: I just launched it. And my captain was like, I

738
00:34:09,239 --> 00:34:11,360
Speaker 2: don't know if it's a hard launch or a soft launch,

739
00:34:11,440 --> 00:34:12,240
Speaker 2: but it's a launch.

740
00:34:13,160 --> 00:34:14,920
Speaker 1: And how long did they take you to think that

741
00:34:15,800 --> 00:34:18,480
Speaker 1: it was pretty quick? Really? Yeah?

742
00:34:18,480 --> 00:34:19,440
Speaker 3: I didn't overthink it.

743
00:34:20,239 --> 00:34:22,080
Speaker 4: You go to your friends and have them come up

744
00:34:22,120 --> 00:34:23,000
Speaker 4: with ideas.

745
00:34:22,760 --> 00:34:25,960
Speaker 1: Or brainstorming meetings.

746
00:34:26,640 --> 00:34:30,759
Speaker 2: No, no, no, I'm pretty I'm pretty confident in my

747
00:34:30,920 --> 00:34:35,200
Speaker 2: like social media and stuff, you know. But I did

748
00:34:35,239 --> 00:34:38,040
Speaker 2: like some of their options. I loved cats out of

749
00:34:38,080 --> 00:34:38,359
Speaker 2: the bag.

750
00:34:38,400 --> 00:34:40,400
Speaker 1: I know that one was so cl What did they

751
00:34:40,440 --> 00:34:41,000
Speaker 1: end up going with.

752
00:34:41,480 --> 00:34:44,080
Speaker 3: I think it just said happy or something.

753
00:34:44,280 --> 00:34:45,640
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, she makes me? Yeah?

754
00:34:45,680 --> 00:34:48,319
Speaker 2: What was it like, I'm so happy?

755
00:34:50,760 --> 00:34:54,120
Speaker 1: Oh no? The caption was hardest full, Oh, hardest full. Yeah,

756
00:34:54,239 --> 00:34:55,880
Speaker 1: I feel like not so clever.

757
00:34:56,280 --> 00:34:59,320
Speaker 3: That's sweet and simple. Okay.

758
00:34:59,400 --> 00:35:00,920
Speaker 1: They wanted to take a funny approach and then they

759
00:35:00,920 --> 00:35:01,680
Speaker 1: were like, let's just be.

760
00:35:01,719 --> 00:35:05,800
Speaker 2: Like he seems more like serious and straight to the point,

761
00:35:05,920 --> 00:35:08,960
Speaker 2: and he's more like selling goofy to me, which he

762
00:35:09,000 --> 00:35:10,720
Speaker 2: made a call. He said a comment like I'm gonna

763
00:35:10,719 --> 00:35:13,160
Speaker 2: have to like up my game or something.

764
00:35:13,520 --> 00:35:17,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, we don't have two jokesters.

765
00:35:18,120 --> 00:35:20,080
Speaker 2: Yeah no, no, no, no, no, no, no no. Who's the

766
00:35:20,200 --> 00:35:21,360
Speaker 2: jokester of you and Robbie?

767
00:35:23,160 --> 00:35:25,440
Speaker 1: Robbie me.

768
00:35:25,719 --> 00:35:28,080
Speaker 4: Tany's funny, but she's not a jokester. I'm not jokes,

769
00:35:28,080 --> 00:35:29,319
Speaker 4: I would say, Robbie.

770
00:35:29,080 --> 00:35:33,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, I agree. Yeah, this goes back to Tanya is

771
00:35:33,640 --> 00:35:40,360
Speaker 2: so funny, but it's not it's not intentional. She's just funny,

772
00:35:40,560 --> 00:35:43,200
Speaker 2: but Robbie's more like an intentionally funny.

773
00:35:43,200 --> 00:35:48,080
Speaker 1: It's like it's a humor. Actually, yeah, a.

774
00:35:48,040 --> 00:35:50,880
Speaker 3: Lot of times you are.

775
00:35:52,280 --> 00:35:54,239
Speaker 2: Like, for instance, the video we did last week where

776
00:35:54,280 --> 00:35:58,320
Speaker 2: we all planned to point at you for everything so rude.

777
00:35:58,840 --> 00:36:02,160
Speaker 1: The fact that I didn't catch off, it's like, actually really

778
00:36:02,200 --> 00:36:06,040
Speaker 1: said why you're funny? That was sad, Like I was like,

779
00:36:06,080 --> 00:36:09,239
Speaker 1: how did I not realize this two seconds in?

780
00:36:10,280 --> 00:36:12,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, like when they said there was a few that

781
00:36:13,000 --> 00:36:17,480
Speaker 2: felt so obvious. But then you just started braining like

782
00:36:17,880 --> 00:36:25,880
Speaker 2: not me, most likely to break someone's not me? You

783
00:36:25,920 --> 00:36:29,359
Speaker 2: were shocked. But also someone said something really funny because

784
00:36:29,360 --> 00:36:31,239
Speaker 2: it was like who's most likely to get pregnant a

785
00:36:31,239 --> 00:36:33,080
Speaker 2: one night's stand? And like I would be the only

786
00:36:33,160 --> 00:36:35,960
Speaker 2: person and I'm dating a woman, so like it just

787
00:36:36,120 --> 00:36:39,360
Speaker 2: was so funny that you acted shocked that you would be.

788
00:36:39,360 --> 00:36:41,799
Speaker 3: The one because you literally were the only one.

789
00:36:46,560 --> 00:36:48,600
Speaker 1: You have a little discussion little pow wow while I

790
00:36:48,640 --> 00:36:52,239
Speaker 1: went to the bathroom. Yeah, so how did not go

791
00:36:52,280 --> 00:36:54,440
Speaker 1: to the bathroom? You would not have played text them before.

792
00:36:56,120 --> 00:36:59,160
Speaker 4: Yeah, just kind of go over the details.

793
00:36:59,360 --> 00:37:01,880
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, it was just a little a little bonus.

794
00:37:01,920 --> 00:37:03,600
Speaker 1: Yeah. I was like, I'm never going to the bathroom again.

795
00:37:05,560 --> 00:37:06,319
Speaker 1: Ut is in here?

796
00:37:06,440 --> 00:37:06,720
Speaker 3: Okay.

797
00:37:06,800 --> 00:37:12,680
Speaker 2: So, so there's a thing that's a hot rodent boyfriend

798
00:37:12,719 --> 00:37:15,719
Speaker 2: and it's hot Rodent Summer, and you brought this to

799
00:37:15,800 --> 00:37:18,920
Speaker 2: my attention, So can you inform the people of what

800
00:37:19,040 --> 00:37:19,319
Speaker 2: this is?

801
00:37:19,440 --> 00:37:20,440
Speaker 4: Take a break before we get to.

802
00:37:41,120 --> 00:37:46,160
Speaker 3: All right, we are Tony Goes. You've really never heard

803
00:37:46,200 --> 00:37:48,279
Speaker 3: of hot road and boyfriend. I'm like, I was just

804
00:37:48,280 --> 00:37:50,000
Speaker 3: trying to give you a moment.

805
00:37:50,120 --> 00:37:53,560
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, so Shine.

806
00:37:54,440 --> 00:37:59,400
Speaker 1: Okay, So the hot rodent boyfriend is the celebrities that

807
00:37:59,480 --> 00:38:03,439
Speaker 1: are considered to be hot but they vaguely resemble rodents.

808
00:38:03,920 --> 00:38:06,759
Speaker 2: So give us some examples.

809
00:38:06,840 --> 00:38:10,160
Speaker 1: So example, Jeremy Allen White, you may know him from

810
00:38:10,280 --> 00:38:14,160
Speaker 1: the Bear Hot Rodent Boyfriend. Okay, So I want to

811
00:38:14,200 --> 00:38:18,279
Speaker 1: say it's like there are characteristics that are usually kind

812
00:38:18,280 --> 00:38:21,799
Speaker 1: of like sharp features, sharp nose, sunken in eyes a

813
00:38:21,800 --> 00:38:25,680
Speaker 1: little bit and chee cheek bones and then maybe like

814
00:38:25,719 --> 00:38:34,200
Speaker 1: some rascally hair, so very Keyogan another hot and boyfriend. Okay, Okay,

815
00:38:34,200 --> 00:38:38,280
Speaker 1: so you may know him from Saltburn or Sabrina Carpenter's

816
00:38:38,920 --> 00:38:45,560
Speaker 1: boyfriend Timothy Shallome another hot road and boyfriend. Get it, Yes,

817
00:38:45,719 --> 00:38:46,800
Speaker 1: Mattie Healy, which.

818
00:38:46,680 --> 00:38:49,040
Speaker 4: By the way, sounds like we're insulting them, but they're

819
00:38:49,040 --> 00:38:51,000
Speaker 4: like the hottest guys in the world right now, we're yes.

820
00:38:52,080 --> 00:38:56,200
Speaker 1: Okay, So rodent handsome men are usually more smelt than muscular,

821
00:38:56,760 --> 00:39:01,840
Speaker 1: more pinched angular features. They're off been not conventionally handsome,

822
00:39:02,000 --> 00:39:04,279
Speaker 1: but this makes them more hot.

823
00:39:04,640 --> 00:39:09,239
Speaker 3: M okay. So I brought this up in Tahoe.

824
00:39:09,400 --> 00:39:13,560
Speaker 2: But there's this other thing on TikTok that says you're

825
00:39:13,719 --> 00:39:15,279
Speaker 2: everyone's either a rat or a.

826
00:39:15,200 --> 00:39:18,479
Speaker 1: Frog, and it really makes sense.

827
00:39:18,520 --> 00:39:18,840
Speaker 4: Really.

828
00:39:18,920 --> 00:39:20,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm a frog.

829
00:39:21,360 --> 00:39:23,880
Speaker 4: I think I'm a frog.

830
00:39:25,160 --> 00:39:25,760
Speaker 2: You're a frog?

831
00:39:25,920 --> 00:39:26,160
Speaker 4: Yeah.

832
00:39:26,239 --> 00:39:27,400
Speaker 2: I think we're all frogs?

833
00:39:27,440 --> 00:39:27,759
Speaker 1: Are we?

834
00:39:27,840 --> 00:39:31,280
Speaker 2: I think it's a frog frog brought us together?

835
00:39:31,440 --> 00:39:33,399
Speaker 1: Yeah, Robby is a rat.

836
00:39:33,520 --> 00:39:38,080
Speaker 2: Robbie is a Taylor Swift rat. Yeah, and neither's neither

837
00:39:38,120 --> 00:39:41,920
Speaker 2: of them sound great, but if you see once, you

838
00:39:41,960 --> 00:39:44,399
Speaker 2: see it, you see it, Yeah, and you can name them.

839
00:39:44,560 --> 00:39:47,200
Speaker 1: Just Haley's a frog frog? Yeah?

840
00:39:47,440 --> 00:39:47,760
Speaker 2: Yeah?

841
00:39:47,920 --> 00:39:49,000
Speaker 1: Who else can we go through?

842
00:39:50,000 --> 00:39:51,719
Speaker 3: Alison frog.

843
00:39:57,920 --> 00:40:00,560
Speaker 4: Animal? Guess he's a frog like.

844
00:40:00,560 --> 00:40:04,640
Speaker 1: Jennifer Lopez frog Ben affleck.

845
00:40:05,000 --> 00:40:06,280
Speaker 4: Is it facial features?

846
00:40:06,680 --> 00:40:08,080
Speaker 1: Yes, I don't know.

847
00:40:08,239 --> 00:40:10,280
Speaker 3: It's just something because I get.

848
00:40:10,080 --> 00:40:11,600
Speaker 4: It with Timmy the ones you just rat.

849
00:40:13,640 --> 00:40:16,000
Speaker 1: So like with ratten frog, you either like get it

850
00:40:16,120 --> 00:40:18,799
Speaker 1: or you don't. Do you know what I mean? Like,

851
00:40:18,880 --> 00:40:23,120
Speaker 1: it's just like people to me are hybrids. No, I've

852
00:40:23,160 --> 00:40:25,360
Speaker 1: never even looked glance at a hybrid.

853
00:40:26,120 --> 00:40:28,600
Speaker 2: Robbie said I was a cat, and I said that's

854
00:40:28,640 --> 00:40:32,960
Speaker 2: not it's an option, thank you, though I do appreciate that.

855
00:40:32,920 --> 00:40:35,719
Speaker 4: That's Kayla, Mikayla. Did she hear us? What is she?

856
00:40:35,719 --> 00:40:38,200
Speaker 4: She can't hear us? Are you a rat? Is she

857
00:40:38,239 --> 00:40:41,840
Speaker 4: a rater of frog? She can't hear? See? Is she

858
00:40:41,880 --> 00:40:43,959
Speaker 4: a rater of frog? So that's why better she can't

859
00:40:43,960 --> 00:40:44,319
Speaker 4: hear it?

860
00:40:46,040 --> 00:40:46,920
Speaker 1: I think she's a frog.

861
00:40:47,000 --> 00:40:48,240
Speaker 3: I think frog frog?

862
00:40:48,560 --> 00:40:49,680
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah.

863
00:40:49,840 --> 00:40:51,359
Speaker 4: What about our other friend over here?

864
00:40:51,880 --> 00:40:52,520
Speaker 3: Is that Sammy?

865
00:40:52,640 --> 00:40:52,839
Speaker 1: Yeah?

866
00:40:54,480 --> 00:40:54,840
Speaker 2: Please?

867
00:40:55,239 --> 00:40:55,920
Speaker 4: Rather a frog?

868
00:40:57,719 --> 00:40:58,560
Speaker 3: Sammy's rat?

869
00:40:58,880 --> 00:40:59,120
Speaker 1: Yeah?

870
00:40:59,239 --> 00:41:02,319
Speaker 4: Real rat. I don't understand this. I thought I knew

871
00:41:02,320 --> 00:41:04,000
Speaker 4: it when when you gave me Jeremy on and White

872
00:41:04,000 --> 00:41:06,439
Speaker 4: and Timothy Shallman was like, I get it. They look

873
00:41:06,520 --> 00:41:08,920
Speaker 4: like rodents, but Samy does not look like.

874
00:41:11,600 --> 00:41:14,719
Speaker 1: It's too separate. Sorry, it's a rat or frogs? I'm

875
00:41:14,719 --> 00:41:15,520
Speaker 1: going to go through, like.

876
00:41:15,560 --> 00:41:19,320
Speaker 4: So rodent boyfriends is different, Yes, but all.

877
00:41:19,239 --> 00:41:21,800
Speaker 2: Those guys would be rats naturally.

878
00:41:22,239 --> 00:41:22,520
Speaker 4: Yes.

879
00:41:22,880 --> 00:41:25,080
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, hold on, let me do another example. So,

880
00:41:25,160 --> 00:41:30,800
Speaker 1: Brita Carpenter, Oh, frog, Kim Kardashian.

881
00:41:30,440 --> 00:41:32,239
Speaker 2: Rat, rat, rat?

882
00:41:32,719 --> 00:41:33,960
Speaker 1: How do you get it?

883
00:41:34,280 --> 00:41:40,080
Speaker 4: Very comfortable? What is the what is what makes someone

884
00:41:40,080 --> 00:41:41,000
Speaker 4: a rat or a frog?

885
00:41:41,160 --> 00:41:42,879
Speaker 3: I don't know. You you just see it?

886
00:41:43,239 --> 00:41:44,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, you just see it.

887
00:41:45,239 --> 00:41:45,680
Speaker 2: I don't know.

888
00:41:45,680 --> 00:41:48,160
Speaker 3: How else do you have a list of rat or frogs?

889
00:41:48,160 --> 00:41:56,359
Speaker 1: What about a worm? That's not the option. It's I'm

890
00:41:56,360 --> 00:41:57,040
Speaker 1: trying to find like.

891
00:41:57,040 --> 00:41:59,919
Speaker 5: Other people, I see BuzzFeed saying it's either rat or frog?

892
00:42:00,080 --> 00:42:03,880
Speaker 4: Pretty, which I pretty prettier frog.

893
00:42:04,080 --> 00:42:08,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's Richie frog. Interesting. So I was thinking rat

894
00:42:09,719 --> 00:42:11,320
Speaker 1: interesting interesting?

895
00:42:11,800 --> 00:42:15,759
Speaker 4: Not really, it may not be interesting. I'm wondering if

896
00:42:16,080 --> 00:42:18,319
Speaker 4: it's not. I can't find it interesting if I don't

897
00:42:18,360 --> 00:42:18,880
Speaker 4: understand it.

898
00:42:19,239 --> 00:42:21,359
Speaker 1: Well, Buck explained it to me, and I just understood it,

899
00:42:21,440 --> 00:42:22,080
Speaker 1: so I know.

900
00:42:22,200 --> 00:42:23,839
Speaker 3: So I guess you either understand it or you don't.

901
00:42:24,239 --> 00:42:32,520
Speaker 3: I don't think it's just a want to take She's

902
00:42:32,560 --> 00:42:33,000
Speaker 3: not one.

903
00:42:33,880 --> 00:42:36,040
Speaker 1: It's like a look thing. I think I get it. Yeah,

904
00:42:36,080 --> 00:42:37,760
Speaker 1: I think I'm like a rat kind.

905
00:42:37,600 --> 00:42:39,600
Speaker 3: Of Oh she thinks you think rat.

906
00:42:40,239 --> 00:42:41,880
Speaker 1: I mean, I guess I I have a round face.

907
00:42:42,040 --> 00:42:43,799
Speaker 1: But I would think maybe is.

908
00:42:43,760 --> 00:42:46,040
Speaker 4: That it is the angle of the shape of your face.

909
00:42:46,520 --> 00:42:50,040
Speaker 4: I don't think that's what I'm trying to establish the criteria.

910
00:42:50,360 --> 00:42:55,600
Speaker 2: It's like in essence then, because it's not a rat

911
00:42:55,680 --> 00:42:58,880
Speaker 2: or frog essence, it's just rat or frog.

912
00:43:00,760 --> 00:43:01,520
Speaker 3: And you said.

913
00:43:01,320 --> 00:43:03,600
Speaker 2: Yourself, you said I'm a frog, so you get it

914
00:43:03,640 --> 00:43:04,240
Speaker 2: to an extent.

915
00:43:04,400 --> 00:43:05,960
Speaker 4: I think I thought it was because I have a

916
00:43:06,040 --> 00:43:07,000
Speaker 4: rounder face.

917
00:43:07,360 --> 00:43:11,240
Speaker 1: You know, rounder versus like like skinning.

918
00:43:11,239 --> 00:43:12,680
Speaker 4: I thought I was a frog. I don't look like

919
00:43:12,760 --> 00:43:15,560
Speaker 4: jeremyll and white and Tamoy shallow. So therefore, by process

920
00:43:15,560 --> 00:43:19,960
Speaker 4: of elimination, right, you're there like easter and I could

921
00:43:19,960 --> 00:43:20,439
Speaker 4: see rat.

922
00:43:20,920 --> 00:43:22,480
Speaker 1: I could see rat with east two because you have

923
00:43:22,480 --> 00:43:24,920
Speaker 1: a lit your face is like not so round?

924
00:43:25,120 --> 00:43:26,520
Speaker 4: Would that be if I was a rat? Would that

925
00:43:26,600 --> 00:43:28,120
Speaker 4: be better? Would that be better for anyone?

926
00:43:28,280 --> 00:43:30,279
Speaker 1: I mean they're both kind of weird.

927
00:43:30,440 --> 00:43:33,480
Speaker 4: But everyone is that. Everyone's one or the other and great?

928
00:43:34,360 --> 00:43:39,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, all are great? Did you say neither is great?

929
00:43:39,320 --> 00:43:39,959
Speaker 2: All are great?

930
00:43:40,000 --> 00:43:40,600
Speaker 4: All are great?

931
00:43:40,719 --> 00:43:42,240
Speaker 5: You love all rats and all frogs?

932
00:43:43,520 --> 00:43:46,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, we're like one like Zendia.

933
00:43:48,800 --> 00:43:51,040
Speaker 5: N Dance seems like a like a jellyfish to me.

934
00:43:51,520 --> 00:43:53,959
Speaker 2: Oh my god, nobody understand that maybe it's a girl

935
00:43:54,080 --> 00:43:55,399
Speaker 2: thing that girls get it, and.

936
00:43:56,920 --> 00:44:01,080
Speaker 1: Jellyfish is not an option because Rob say cat, I'm like,

937
00:44:01,200 --> 00:44:02,240
Speaker 1: that's not an option.

938
00:44:02,400 --> 00:44:05,239
Speaker 2: Wow, this is inter this enters a new dimension. Is

939
00:44:05,280 --> 00:44:06,279
Speaker 2: it just something that.

940
00:44:06,320 --> 00:44:09,680
Speaker 1: Men are from Mars, men are from Venus? That just

941
00:44:09,719 --> 00:44:10,800
Speaker 1: sums it up right there.

942
00:44:11,440 --> 00:44:15,080
Speaker 2: But anyways, the rodent boyfriend is not a rude thing.

943
00:44:15,280 --> 00:44:18,000
Speaker 3: It is the girls are into it.

944
00:44:18,000 --> 00:44:20,160
Speaker 1: It's what It's like, My gosh, everyone's going fair all

945
00:44:20,160 --> 00:44:20,919
Speaker 1: over it right now.

946
00:44:21,080 --> 00:44:27,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, not everyone like me, but right others others.

947
00:44:27,680 --> 00:44:29,799
Speaker 1: When I say everyone, I mean like the collective, the

948
00:44:29,840 --> 00:44:30,520
Speaker 1: general public.

949
00:44:30,600 --> 00:44:36,400
Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, Joe Allen has broken his silence.

950
00:44:37,000 --> 00:44:43,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, so boring to me. Yeah, but like.

951
00:44:45,200 --> 00:44:46,359
Speaker 3: What is he supposed to do?

952
00:44:46,440 --> 00:44:49,440
Speaker 1: There's a part of me that wishes Joe Alwyn just

953
00:44:49,520 --> 00:44:52,200
Speaker 1: spoke so much, Like I just wish he was like

954
00:44:52,280 --> 00:44:55,000
Speaker 1: on Twitter tweeting. I wish he was on in social

955
00:44:55,040 --> 00:44:57,759
Speaker 1: media doing Q and a's like I wish, you know

956
00:44:57,800 --> 00:44:59,640
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, Like, there's a part of me that

957
00:44:59,719 --> 00:45:02,439
Speaker 1: just like wish that he spoke more.

958
00:45:03,200 --> 00:45:04,920
Speaker 2: But she hasn't really talked about Joe.

959
00:45:05,800 --> 00:45:07,879
Speaker 1: I know, but she has her music, I know.

960
00:45:07,880 --> 00:45:10,440
Speaker 3: But even most of which was like it was about.

961
00:45:10,800 --> 00:45:12,880
Speaker 1: Mattie No, I know, I know, but there are some

962
00:45:12,960 --> 00:45:13,919
Speaker 1: of that where about Joe.

963
00:45:14,480 --> 00:45:17,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, but she's never publicly said so it was all

964
00:45:17,160 --> 00:45:18,000
Speaker 2: just speculations.

965
00:45:18,600 --> 00:45:20,120
Speaker 1: But that's what I'm saying. If he were like in

966
00:45:20,200 --> 00:45:22,080
Speaker 1: social media and doing cusas like.

967
00:45:22,280 --> 00:45:24,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, but I'm sure if he was a musician, he'd

968
00:45:24,120 --> 00:45:27,640
Speaker 2: probably have if he was a lyrical genius slash musician, that.

969
00:45:27,920 --> 00:45:29,640
Speaker 1: He gave had a little bit of genius in it

970
00:45:29,719 --> 00:45:33,400
Speaker 1: because he said, uh, what did he say, the loving

971
00:45:33,520 --> 00:45:36,640
Speaker 1: committed six year relationship? You know? He said that because

972
00:45:36,680 --> 00:45:39,560
Speaker 1: he just wanted to like debunk all the rumors.

973
00:45:40,560 --> 00:45:43,120
Speaker 2: Were there rumors about that, Yeah, that he wasn't faithful.

974
00:45:43,520 --> 00:45:46,200
Speaker 2: Oh I didn't even know that. Yeah, well he said

975
00:45:46,239 --> 00:45:46,720
Speaker 2: what he said.

976
00:45:46,760 --> 00:45:49,040
Speaker 1: He said what he said without saying much at all,

977
00:45:49,080 --> 00:45:52,480
Speaker 1: exactly as I'm saying. He might be a like wordsmith.

978
00:45:54,360 --> 00:45:57,360
Speaker 2: I mean, he did write Exile correct.

979
00:45:57,120 --> 00:45:59,520
Speaker 1: And other songs too, I know, but nothing though.

980
00:45:59,680 --> 00:46:04,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's just yeah, legendary, it was legendary.

981
00:46:05,239 --> 00:46:07,040
Speaker 1: I think we should come back with an email.

982
00:46:07,800 --> 00:46:09,879
Speaker 4: All right, we're here, let's stay right here.

983
00:46:10,600 --> 00:46:11,960
Speaker 3: My email last.

984
00:46:11,760 --> 00:46:13,440
Speaker 1: Time, I didn't want to go. Now you don't want

985
00:46:13,480 --> 00:46:13,879
Speaker 1: me to leave.

986
00:46:14,200 --> 00:46:17,720
Speaker 2: It's mixed, some mixed feelings. Mark, it's giving our frog,

987
00:46:20,160 --> 00:46:22,279
Speaker 2: all right, take it away, all.

988
00:46:22,239 --> 00:46:23,840
Speaker 4: Right, Becka, thank you very much. I come to you

989
00:46:23,880 --> 00:46:26,959
Speaker 4: as a loyal listener since the podcast inception. That's very nice.

990
00:46:27,040 --> 00:46:29,799
Speaker 4: Needing guidance through this dilemma. I met a guy eight

991
00:46:29,880 --> 00:46:33,200
Speaker 4: years ago. We immediately hit it off and began progressing

992
00:46:33,239 --> 00:46:36,160
Speaker 4: towards a relationship. I didn't have any relationship experience. This

993
00:46:36,280 --> 00:46:39,080
Speaker 4: freaked me out and I ended things throughout the next year.

994
00:46:39,120 --> 00:46:41,520
Speaker 4: We tried rekindling a couple of times, but it never

995
00:46:41,560 --> 00:46:43,760
Speaker 4: worked out. We've did good friends. I knew every detail

996
00:46:43,760 --> 00:46:46,439
Speaker 4: about his life, including every girl he's dated. He loves

997
00:46:46,480 --> 00:46:48,479
Speaker 4: my family to the point where he makes jokes about

998
00:46:48,480 --> 00:46:51,560
Speaker 4: them adopting him, and they're all convinced we'll end up together. Lately,

999
00:46:51,920 --> 00:46:54,160
Speaker 4: I've been feeling like my family might be right. We've

1000
00:46:54,200 --> 00:46:55,920
Speaker 4: grown a lot since we were twenty two, and I

1001
00:46:55,920 --> 00:47:00,120
Speaker 4: feel like maybe the timing was just off. However, he

1002
00:47:00,160 --> 00:47:03,479
Speaker 4: recently met a girl and is convinced she is the one.

1003
00:47:04,080 --> 00:47:05,879
Speaker 4: We're going to a football game together in a couple

1004
00:47:05,920 --> 00:47:07,440
Speaker 4: of months, and I was waiting to feel out the

1005
00:47:07,520 --> 00:47:11,080
Speaker 4: vibes in person, but now I am panicking above all else.

1006
00:47:11,120 --> 00:47:12,920
Speaker 4: I don't want to completely ruin our friendship if he

1007
00:47:12,920 --> 00:47:14,880
Speaker 4: doesn't feel remotely the same way, but I feel like

1008
00:47:14,920 --> 00:47:17,440
Speaker 4: he might if I just spoke up. Help, what do

1009
00:47:17,560 --> 00:47:18,040
Speaker 4: I do?

1010
00:47:21,280 --> 00:47:21,879
Speaker 3: Here's the thing.

1011
00:47:23,200 --> 00:47:25,759
Speaker 2: If he's dating someone new and he feels like she's

1012
00:47:25,800 --> 00:47:29,960
Speaker 2: the one, you're if you feel like you need to

1013
00:47:29,960 --> 00:47:32,320
Speaker 2: say something, then I think you take the risk of

1014
00:47:32,400 --> 00:47:33,320
Speaker 2: ruining the friendship.

1015
00:47:34,080 --> 00:47:41,120
Speaker 1: I would have said to do the same. However, the

1016
00:47:41,160 --> 00:47:43,680
Speaker 1: fact that he's dating someone and he thinks that she's

1017
00:47:43,760 --> 00:47:47,160
Speaker 1: the one, I feel like it's not nice karma, like

1018
00:47:48,040 --> 00:47:49,360
Speaker 1: maybe the ship has sailed.

1019
00:47:49,600 --> 00:47:49,920
Speaker 3: I know.

1020
00:47:50,160 --> 00:47:53,120
Speaker 2: It's just one of those things though, where if she

1021
00:47:53,320 --> 00:47:56,120
Speaker 2: feels that he might feel the same way and he

1022
00:47:56,320 --> 00:47:59,680
Speaker 2: just didn't know that she had those feelings, wouldn't you

1023
00:47:59,760 --> 00:48:01,960
Speaker 2: rather get it off your chest before they.

1024
00:48:01,960 --> 00:48:03,000
Speaker 3: Get married or something.

1025
00:48:03,000 --> 00:48:05,799
Speaker 2: It feels like it's a new thing, So if they

1026
00:48:05,840 --> 00:48:07,600
Speaker 2: have a time together to just be like.

1027
00:48:07,560 --> 00:48:09,239
Speaker 1: I just I don't know, I don't know, I'm I know,

1028
00:48:09,360 --> 00:48:11,000
Speaker 1: I know because.

1029
00:48:10,880 --> 00:48:12,399
Speaker 2: I'm with you. Part of me is like, just let

1030
00:48:12,400 --> 00:48:14,040
Speaker 2: it be. You didn't you didn't speak up and he's

1031
00:48:14,080 --> 00:48:14,520
Speaker 2: moved on.

1032
00:48:14,640 --> 00:48:17,040
Speaker 1: Like be a girl's girl, and like, don't intrude on

1033
00:48:18,400 --> 00:48:20,759
Speaker 1: this new relationship. That's like where my head I know.

1034
00:48:20,880 --> 00:48:23,279
Speaker 2: But my thought is she can confess her feelings. And

1035
00:48:23,320 --> 00:48:26,480
Speaker 2: if he's like, I really appreciate you saying that, I'm

1036
00:48:26,520 --> 00:48:28,399
Speaker 2: really into the skry. I do think she's the one,

1037
00:48:28,520 --> 00:48:30,440
Speaker 2: and you've gotten off your chest, then I think you

1038
00:48:30,520 --> 00:48:34,040
Speaker 2: can close that door it with and he lock a

1039
00:48:34,440 --> 00:48:39,120
Speaker 2: y slight it so in the motion, and and just

1040
00:48:39,640 --> 00:48:44,280
Speaker 2: take some space to not be friends for the time being,

1041
00:48:44,360 --> 00:48:47,640
Speaker 2: and maybe you know the natural friendship will come up and.

1042
00:48:47,520 --> 00:48:52,040
Speaker 3: You'll you'll have moved on, because I don't think you could.

1043
00:48:52,080 --> 00:48:54,200
Speaker 2: If you have feelings where you think you're the you're

1044
00:48:54,239 --> 00:48:56,040
Speaker 2: gonna end up with this person, how do you have

1045
00:48:56,080 --> 00:49:00,000
Speaker 2: a friendship with them while they're dating someone else.

1046
00:49:00,080 --> 00:49:01,279
Speaker 1: You don't, That's what I'm saying.

1047
00:49:01,440 --> 00:49:03,799
Speaker 2: So it's either just confess your feelings. If you think

1048
00:49:03,800 --> 00:49:06,840
Speaker 2: he might feel the same way, you don't know. I

1049
00:49:06,840 --> 00:49:09,600
Speaker 2: think this ship has sailed. That's sad, but I think

1050
00:49:09,640 --> 00:49:10,200
Speaker 2: it has sailed.

1051
00:49:10,239 --> 00:49:12,160
Speaker 4: I don't think you can do that because yes, you

1052
00:49:12,239 --> 00:49:15,479
Speaker 4: will get closure, but at what cost. You're gonna drop

1053
00:49:15,480 --> 00:49:18,240
Speaker 4: a hand grenade into their relationship, so you can get closure.

1054
00:49:18,320 --> 00:49:20,279
Speaker 2: But now she's gonna be best still try to be

1055
00:49:20,280 --> 00:49:22,520
Speaker 2: best friends with him without confessing her feelings.

1056
00:49:22,280 --> 00:49:23,840
Speaker 1: Or you're not going to be You're not going to

1057
00:49:23,840 --> 00:49:27,319
Speaker 1: be the minute's somebody. Yeah. When they get into a relationship.

1058
00:49:26,840 --> 00:49:29,920
Speaker 4: That just falls, it just falls, it just falls off.

1059
00:49:30,000 --> 00:49:33,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, she just needs to say I missed my mark.

1060
00:49:33,880 --> 00:49:36,320
Speaker 1: If it's meant to be, he'll come back around me.

1061
00:49:36,440 --> 00:49:38,600
Speaker 2: I don't like that though, because if it comes at

1062
00:49:38,640 --> 00:49:41,520
Speaker 2: the thought of one drunken night they both are like

1063
00:49:41,600 --> 00:49:43,239
Speaker 2: I love you and he's like I love you, why

1064
00:49:43,239 --> 00:49:47,720
Speaker 2: don't you say anything, then it's horrible for the other girl.

1065
00:49:48,920 --> 00:49:51,560
Speaker 4: But her confessing her feelings would also be horrible for

1066
00:49:51,600 --> 00:49:52,080
Speaker 4: the other girl.

1067
00:49:52,160 --> 00:49:54,000
Speaker 2: No, it's not because if he doesn't feel the same.

1068
00:49:53,800 --> 00:49:55,840
Speaker 4: Way, I think it would be bad. I think that

1069
00:49:55,920 --> 00:49:57,360
Speaker 4: would be I think I don't think you would like

1070
00:49:57,400 --> 00:50:00,319
Speaker 4: it if somebody from Haley's past a friend. Yeah, Durrance,

1071
00:50:00,360 --> 00:50:01,799
Speaker 4: And by the way, I've been in love with you for.

1072
00:50:02,000 --> 00:50:02,680
Speaker 1: Since day one.

1073
00:50:02,719 --> 00:50:07,000
Speaker 2: I've been you are not hanging out with this person anymore. Absolutely, Yeah,

1074
00:50:07,040 --> 00:50:13,279
Speaker 2: So that's what I'm saying. No, but I'm saying I

1075
00:50:13,320 --> 00:50:15,360
Speaker 2: did have a visceral reaction to that. I know, but

1076
00:50:15,440 --> 00:50:18,400
Speaker 2: I'm saying because my first thing was you take a

1077
00:50:18,480 --> 00:50:19,759
Speaker 2: risk and ruin the friendship.

1078
00:50:20,760 --> 00:50:22,920
Speaker 4: But but it's not respectful to the person.

1079
00:50:22,960 --> 00:50:25,319
Speaker 1: He's correct, I mean too, I'm about ruining the relation

1080
00:50:25,520 --> 00:50:28,160
Speaker 1: or ruining the friendship, ruin all the friendships.

1081
00:50:28,960 --> 00:50:31,560
Speaker 2: If Hailey was like, I appreciate you telling me that,

1082
00:50:31,640 --> 00:50:33,600
Speaker 2: but we can't be friends anymore, and I'm in love

1083
00:50:33,600 --> 00:50:36,279
Speaker 2: with Becca, like I'm not doing anything, then what do

1084
00:50:36,360 --> 00:50:37,239
Speaker 2: I have to be mad about?

1085
00:50:37,360 --> 00:50:38,400
Speaker 3: I think you would, Haley.

1086
00:50:38,560 --> 00:50:42,359
Speaker 4: I think Haley, you're mad at.

1087
00:50:43,400 --> 00:50:44,920
Speaker 3: Two Here's that's not my friend.

1088
00:50:45,560 --> 00:50:48,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, but it adds a layer of not nice.

1089
00:50:47,960 --> 00:50:51,200
Speaker 4: And jealousy and suspicion and weirdness, because if that person

1090
00:50:51,239 --> 00:50:53,520
Speaker 4: even exists in your world in any way, you're gonna

1091
00:50:53,600 --> 00:50:55,680
Speaker 4: you're not gonna want them around. There's gonna be a lot.

1092
00:50:55,520 --> 00:50:56,680
Speaker 3: Of weird I'm saying.

1093
00:50:57,520 --> 00:51:00,000
Speaker 2: If I watched them flirt and they're like, well they're

1094
00:51:00,000 --> 00:51:02,360
Speaker 2: there's nothing here, there's no feelings. If they say friends

1095
00:51:02,440 --> 00:51:05,920
Speaker 2: and she this other girl comes around and I eventually

1096
00:51:06,000 --> 00:51:08,280
Speaker 2: find out the feelings, I'm gonna.

1097
00:51:08,080 --> 00:51:08,799
Speaker 3: Be mad either way.

1098
00:51:09,600 --> 00:51:12,640
Speaker 2: I'd I'd rather be like confessed and me deal with

1099
00:51:12,719 --> 00:51:15,439
Speaker 2: it than like always assume like did they have a thing.

1100
00:51:16,160 --> 00:51:18,200
Speaker 2: They're kind of flirty, what's going on here?

1101
00:51:18,560 --> 00:51:20,319
Speaker 4: And he can say, no, we never had a thing

1102
00:51:21,840 --> 00:51:23,480
Speaker 4: because they never did, or did they?

1103
00:51:23,560 --> 00:51:25,160
Speaker 2: And then one night it sounds like.

1104
00:51:25,120 --> 00:51:31,600
Speaker 4: That a little minithing. Yeah, but anything I like on

1105
00:51:31,600 --> 00:51:34,080
Speaker 4: this tiebreaker, it's not really.

1106
00:51:33,920 --> 00:51:35,920
Speaker 1: A tie because it's like two ones.

1107
00:51:36,080 --> 00:51:40,719
Speaker 5: But I mean, I don't think I don't think she

1108
00:51:40,760 --> 00:51:44,520
Speaker 5: should say anything because she says like he recently made

1109
00:51:44,520 --> 00:51:46,359
Speaker 5: a girling. It's convinced she's the one. I just think

1110
00:51:46,400 --> 00:51:50,000
Speaker 5: the likelihood of him being like, I'm with this new girl,

1111
00:51:50,080 --> 00:51:52,359
Speaker 5: she's the one. Oh wait, friend, actually you're the one,

1112
00:51:52,520 --> 00:51:54,359
Speaker 5: you know. I just feel like he's I think he's

1113
00:51:54,360 --> 00:51:56,960
Speaker 5: made up his mind. This is gonna. I just I

1114
00:51:57,160 --> 00:51:59,719
Speaker 5: think you need to distance yourself from him. If you're

1115
00:51:59,719 --> 00:52:01,000
Speaker 5: having feelings.

1116
00:52:00,560 --> 00:52:02,640
Speaker 4: And it's not your guy, and that's okay, Yeah there's

1117
00:52:02,719 --> 00:52:04,880
Speaker 4: other If it was your guy, this would have happened,

1118
00:52:04,920 --> 00:52:06,840
Speaker 4: and it didn't happen for whatever reason.

1119
00:52:07,000 --> 00:52:10,480
Speaker 2: I just don't think you need to be friends with them, period, period.

1120
00:52:11,000 --> 00:52:12,520
Speaker 4: You're not gonna have a choice about that anyway.

1121
00:52:12,640 --> 00:52:13,040
Speaker 1: That's true.

1122
00:52:13,120 --> 00:52:13,680
Speaker 4: It's all over.

1123
00:52:13,960 --> 00:52:16,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's tough. It's tough.

1124
00:52:16,880 --> 00:52:20,880
Speaker 4: Now you find he finds himself single six months because.

1125
00:52:20,640 --> 00:52:22,479
Speaker 2: We all know if the girl sees him as.

1126
00:52:22,400 --> 00:52:24,600
Speaker 1: The correct.

1127
00:52:26,200 --> 00:52:27,160
Speaker 4: There's something.

1128
00:52:27,280 --> 00:52:30,040
Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, so if it's meant to be, maybe it

1129
00:52:30,040 --> 00:52:31,560
Speaker 2: won't work out with this girl and then you have

1130
00:52:31,680 --> 00:52:32,160
Speaker 2: your chance.

1131
00:52:32,200 --> 00:52:33,240
Speaker 3: But for now he.

1132
00:52:33,719 --> 00:52:36,160
Speaker 1: Feels like bad dating karma that you just don't want.

1133
00:52:36,600 --> 00:52:41,040
Speaker 1: You know, no one needs bad dating karma.

1134
00:52:41,640 --> 00:52:43,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, you're right. One time this girl confessed that she

1135
00:52:44,440 --> 00:52:54,040
Speaker 2: like Taylor and I got yeah, exactly, Okay, Okay, Hey guys,

1136
00:52:54,040 --> 00:52:58,560
Speaker 2: sometimes you know, out talk out. I just had this

1137
00:52:58,680 --> 00:53:01,399
Speaker 2: vision of like April and Jackson at the wedding when he.

1138
00:53:01,400 --> 00:53:03,839
Speaker 3: Was gonna mar she was gonna marry math.

1139
00:53:03,880 --> 00:53:07,279
Speaker 2: You know, I'm like, how selfish to wait until this

1140
00:53:07,400 --> 00:53:08,359
Speaker 2: point to say it.

1141
00:53:09,280 --> 00:53:12,680
Speaker 1: That's also television. I'm just saying, these are real people,

1142
00:53:12,719 --> 00:53:13,840
Speaker 1: these are real characters.

1143
00:53:14,080 --> 00:53:18,720
Speaker 3: Yeah, these are characters, These real characters. Okay.

1144
00:53:18,960 --> 00:53:21,760
Speaker 2: So we were supposed to have an episode this Thursday,

1145
00:53:21,840 --> 00:53:23,520
Speaker 2: but our guest has fallen ill.

1146
00:53:23,719 --> 00:53:25,280
Speaker 1: Yeah it's okay.

1147
00:53:25,400 --> 00:53:30,600
Speaker 2: We had my co mo, your co mo coming into

1148
00:53:30,640 --> 00:53:36,560
Speaker 2: the studio, Paulina, but she fell ill over the weekend, so.

1149
00:53:36,920 --> 00:53:39,279
Speaker 4: We could have played who knows Tanya best for like

1150
00:53:39,480 --> 00:53:41,960
Speaker 4: Supreme Maid of honor.

1151
00:53:42,280 --> 00:53:45,920
Speaker 1: Well, Ben, I don't even know if I know myself best,

1152
00:53:46,320 --> 00:53:48,120
Speaker 1: Like what kind of questions are like right, like what's

1153
00:53:48,160 --> 00:53:53,200
Speaker 1: my favorite color? To where to see like some good questions.

1154
00:53:53,640 --> 00:53:56,480
Speaker 3: Well it's still coming great. Yeah, all the time in

1155
00:53:56,520 --> 00:53:56,799
Speaker 3: the world.

1156
00:53:56,800 --> 00:53:58,359
Speaker 1: We're going to get our back, like she's gonna be on.

1157
00:53:58,400 --> 00:53:59,279
Speaker 1: We just don't know when.

1158
00:53:59,400 --> 00:54:01,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, So we will don't have a Thursday episode, but

1159
00:54:01,200 --> 00:54:04,160
Speaker 2: we will be back next Monday, and then next Thursday

1160
00:54:04,280 --> 00:54:05,640
Speaker 2: we will be having.

1161
00:54:05,560 --> 00:54:06,960
Speaker 1: Their birds by.

1162
00:54:10,239 --> 00:54:13,919
Speaker 2: A very requested Oh Sarah Nicole Landry. She's a very

1163
00:54:14,080 --> 00:54:17,200
Speaker 2: requested guest from the Scrubbers for a long time. She

1164
00:54:17,239 --> 00:54:21,600
Speaker 2: and Tony were both Swim Swim Week models together and

1165
00:54:21,800 --> 00:54:24,600
Speaker 2: she's coming in studio, so we're very excited for that.

1166
00:54:24,800 --> 00:54:27,719
Speaker 2: So I hope you all have a wonderful week. We

1167
00:54:27,840 --> 00:54:30,800
Speaker 2: love you so much and we'll be back Monday.

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Speaker 1: Love you bye,