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Speaker 1: They're calling it an't I like the world they're calling it.

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Speaker 1: The Internet's calling it poor people habits.

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Speaker 2: Now I don't like.

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Speaker 1: I don't like to see it that way, because there

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Speaker 1: Let's call it frugality. Let's call it frugal. Okay, maybe

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Speaker 1: you have money and you still do this stuff. But

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Speaker 1: what is something that you do? Maybe maybe you came

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Speaker 1: from humble beginnings and now you're wildly wealthy. Maybe you

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Speaker 1: came from humble beginning to now you can just afford

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Speaker 2: Maybe not.

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Speaker 1: You could be very rich and do this, you could

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Speaker 1: still not have a lot of money. Eight five five

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Speaker 1: five five. What is something that you realize that you

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Speaker 1: do cheap? I go with cheap install I think the

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Speaker 1: word cheap is better to me than poor. Yeah, for example,

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Speaker 1: but my house plastic container and then this is not

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Speaker 1: my house, my mom. Plastic containers from almost anywhere tend

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Speaker 1: to get watched and reused on a regular basis, So

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Speaker 1: you don't have to buy tupperware. I wouldn't say that.

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Speaker 1: I wouldn't it's poor, I mean maybe, but cheap, like

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Speaker 1: it's you You could go and you get on Amazon,

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Speaker 1: if for not very much money, get yourself a couple

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Speaker 1: of containers. Right, No, not in our house. There was

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Speaker 1: a time when when cups that some might believe should

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Speaker 2: Were being washed and reused.

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Speaker 3: That's true.

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Speaker 2: There was a time. There was a time.

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Speaker 1: Now I would have thought that it was a kind

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Speaker 1: in college. It just kind of goes away. But no,

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Speaker 1: it was viewed by some in our home growing up

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Speaker 1: as something that could be washed and reused. There's nothing

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Speaker 1: anything that you do and it's probably it's probably from

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Speaker 4: I own a dishwasher, and like most people do in

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Speaker 5: I never like, it never comes to me to do it.

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Speaker 4: My body like rejects turning to put it in the dishwashing.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, because you think it's too expensive to run it

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Speaker 5: I just never used one growing up.

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Speaker 2: So I think it's more efficient than washing it yourself.

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Speaker 4: I should be using it, like that's what it's there for,

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Speaker 5: But also I'm like, no, like put the dishes in

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Speaker 4: I'm gonna get my little sponge, the sponge that I

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Speaker 4: have to use until it like fall apart, and I'll

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Speaker 5: I can't use a dishwasher.

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Speaker 6: It's so hard for me. It's trauma thing. We had

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Speaker 1: I know some people use it as a like another cabinet, yeah,

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Speaker 1: like and some people would seek the storage. Yeah, this

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Speaker 3: People did that you could never use it.

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Speaker 2: And it wasn't a money thing in her mind.

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Speaker 6: Yes, so ever since that moment, I don't use my

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Speaker 6: I mean, it's you just got to take some napkins

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's why Subway gives you the napkins so they

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Speaker 2: Fast food chain does, oh for sure, for this reason.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so some examples were to use every single drop

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Speaker 3: What we don't want you doing that?

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Speaker 2: Now, nice tougher out here, but they're not that tough.

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Speaker 5: No, I need real less job. I can't wait.

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Speaker 1: But it goes to show that normally when I would say, okay,

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Speaker 1: I never have a backup. It seems like, I mean,

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Speaker 1: In fact, sometimes you go to the clearance eyele and

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Speaker 3: Yeah, target heads and figure it out.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, keeping leftover screws, nuts and bolts from furniture, kids

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Speaker 1: Except when do you ever wind up using? Very rarely?

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Speaker 1: Never wasting food again. This is like this is a

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Speaker 3: Yeah I do that. Yeah you have to.

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Speaker 7: And I also use them to like pack my shoes,

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Speaker 7: Like I'll keep that plastic bags and then if I pack,

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Speaker 1: Okay. Checking restaurant prices before looking at the menu. I mean,

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Speaker 2: I've done that before.

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Speaker 1: Usually if there's an accent mark in the restaurant or

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Speaker 5: How many money signs?

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Speaker 1: the complimentary soaps and products at hotels. Well, that used

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Speaker 1: that it's grosser. Let me see what else here? Fixing

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Speaker 1: Turning off lights when leaving a room, yes, yeah, walking everywhere,

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Speaker 1: My mom has a cabinet in her house that's like

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Speaker 1: any any wrapping paper or usually it's tissue paper that

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Speaker 3: Oh that's I'm hungry.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's because I'm a fan of you. Has nothing

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Speaker 5: Yeah, everything clean, my play.

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Speaker 1: I watched plastic baggies and reuse dilute or dilute shampoo

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Speaker 2: I only watch free TV.

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Speaker 1: I never eat out, go to free summer concerts, thrift

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Speaker 1: on Facebook. And this person will probably die with eight

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Speaker 2: Yeah, they talk better than they tell me. These are

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Speaker 6: You got this when I think of preacher, when I

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Speaker 1: Either involved or you get out Mike the mechanics. You

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Speaker 2: I'm a little nervous, but we'll see how it goes.

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Speaker 2: You're gonna be fine. Thanks, You're gonna be great. You're

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Speaker 2: gonna be great.

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Speaker 1: Now you're gonna wear like a full like you're gonna

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Speaker 1: have like a chalice and you're gonna wear like a

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Speaker 1: full robe.

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Speaker 2: I wanted to give Popolo like, that's what I wanted to, but.

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Speaker 1: With the white hat, I think they wouldn't let me.

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Speaker 1: But really that's mainly because it's like religious. But other

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Speaker 1: than that, never mind.

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Speaker 2: Oh, we gotta hit at church.

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Speaker 1: So I remember when we married the uh it was

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Speaker 1: when gay marriage became legal in Illinois, and we paid

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Speaker 1: for and we married three lesbian couples at once. And

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Speaker 1: I remember we did the rehearsal and the people, like

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Speaker 1: the parents were like not into it because they didn't

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Speaker 1: think I was gonna take it seriously. They were like,

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Speaker 1: this is some kind of joke for you. And I

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Speaker 1: remember at the end of it, one of the mothers

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Speaker 1: of the bride, it was not nice to me.

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Speaker 2: She was rude to me the whole time.

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Speaker 1: Wow, because I think she thought it was a joke.

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Speaker 1: I think she thought I thought it was a joke

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Speaker 1: and I did not. I took it very seriously. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: And at the end of it she was like, wow,

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Speaker 1: like I couldn't believe how heartfelt that was. Like you

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Speaker 1: really take it seriously, and like, yes, I take other

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Speaker 1: people's love very seriously.

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Speaker 2: I do. I take other people's lifelong commitment seriously. My

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Speaker 2: own not really