1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:03,600 Speaker 1: Right now, it is time to ask the COLO, our 2 00:00:03,680 --> 00:00:05,440 Speaker 1: Chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey. 3 00:00:05,680 --> 00:00:08,559 Speaker 2: Ready, COLO, yep, all right, here we go. 4 00:00:08,640 --> 00:00:13,280 Speaker 1: This is from Mignon in Sacramento. Minyong writes, I'm twenty 5 00:00:13,320 --> 00:00:16,560 Speaker 1: eight and my boyfriend is thirty two years old. We 6 00:00:16,640 --> 00:00:19,880 Speaker 1: have been together eleven years, and we have two kids. 7 00:00:19,960 --> 00:00:22,720 Speaker 1: When I talk about marriage, he says, we're not there yet. 8 00:00:22,840 --> 00:00:25,480 Speaker 1: Am I wasting my life on him? Or is it 9 00:00:25,520 --> 00:00:28,280 Speaker 1: best to stay with him for the sake of our 10 00:00:28,400 --> 00:00:29,280 Speaker 1: two children? 11 00:00:29,800 --> 00:00:33,120 Speaker 3: Well, you've been together for eleven years, you have two children. 12 00:00:33,479 --> 00:00:35,600 Speaker 3: Every time you bring up marriage, he says, we're not 13 00:00:35,720 --> 00:00:40,120 Speaker 3: there yet. That's where he's at with it. 14 00:00:40,760 --> 00:00:41,600 Speaker 4: I live with you. 15 00:00:42,920 --> 00:00:44,599 Speaker 3: Well I don't even know if they live with each other. 16 00:00:44,720 --> 00:00:47,920 Speaker 3: I don't know what they're doing. But he ain't there yet. 17 00:00:48,440 --> 00:00:50,479 Speaker 4: I see, ladies, you all got it. 18 00:00:54,000 --> 00:00:56,800 Speaker 2: She's been with him since she was seventeen. 19 00:00:57,200 --> 00:01:02,760 Speaker 3: Eleven years Yeah, I told you we not there yet. Okay, 20 00:01:02,840 --> 00:01:04,800 Speaker 3: Well if we ain't there, where are we? 21 00:01:05,120 --> 00:01:07,440 Speaker 2: Yeah? Two kids later? Yeah? 22 00:01:07,520 --> 00:01:08,320 Speaker 4: Right right. 23 00:01:08,840 --> 00:01:12,640 Speaker 3: I'm just trying to figure out where are we, what 24 00:01:12,800 --> 00:01:18,280 Speaker 3: is his playing, what is he doing? Who is and 25 00:01:18,280 --> 00:01:22,080 Speaker 3: And to be honest with you, you've waited way late. 26 00:01:22,480 --> 00:01:25,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, especially with two kids. 27 00:01:25,400 --> 00:01:28,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, y'all can see ladies, y'all need to start 28 00:01:28,680 --> 00:01:33,800 Speaker 3: having these conversations before you have kids, before you move 29 00:01:33,959 --> 00:01:36,440 Speaker 3: in all this here, y'all, you really need to start 30 00:01:36,480 --> 00:01:39,240 Speaker 3: having this guy. And I'm not trying to play righteous 31 00:01:39,319 --> 00:01:42,000 Speaker 3: or nothing like that because like that, and I'm not 32 00:01:42,120 --> 00:01:44,360 Speaker 3: knocking you or nothing like that if you've done it. 33 00:01:44,720 --> 00:01:46,679 Speaker 4: I'm just saying it's kind of. 34 00:01:46,600 --> 00:01:49,160 Speaker 3: Hard when you get way up in two kids later, 35 00:01:49,200 --> 00:01:53,040 Speaker 3: in eleven years and he still won't marry you. What's 36 00:01:53,120 --> 00:01:54,640 Speaker 3: going to make him? 37 00:01:54,840 --> 00:01:56,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, what's insive? 38 00:01:56,720 --> 00:01:58,960 Speaker 3: Yeah, he's got you think he can keep telling you 39 00:01:59,040 --> 00:02:02,400 Speaker 3: that forever and energy he getting away with it. We 40 00:02:02,440 --> 00:02:05,400 Speaker 3: ain't there yet. Well when we're gonna be that, nah, 41 00:02:05,560 --> 00:02:08,200 Speaker 3: I'll let you know. Okay, Now that's ignorant. 42 00:02:08,480 --> 00:02:11,280 Speaker 4: Yes, And see, women think that they put in. 43 00:02:11,280 --> 00:02:13,600 Speaker 2: This time, so it's like all this time. 44 00:02:13,760 --> 00:02:16,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, so now she doesn't want to let him go 45 00:02:16,880 --> 00:02:18,440 Speaker 1: and then somebody else gets them. 46 00:02:18,880 --> 00:02:21,320 Speaker 3: Right, But here's here's the problem with putting in all 47 00:02:21,360 --> 00:02:25,760 Speaker 3: that time. Are you ready to do eleven more years? 48 00:02:26,080 --> 00:02:26,880 Speaker 3: Just like eleven? 49 00:02:27,000 --> 00:02:31,680 Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah, it was way too long exactly. Yeah. 50 00:02:31,560 --> 00:02:36,040 Speaker 1: When she was young, very very young, I wish someone 51 00:02:36,160 --> 00:02:42,720 Speaker 1: had been there to tell her at that age, you know, yeah. 52 00:02:41,760 --> 00:02:44,560 Speaker 4: Oh somebody said something. Somebody did. 53 00:02:45,880 --> 00:02:47,960 Speaker 2: Somebody told her at seventeen. 54 00:02:49,000 --> 00:02:52,920 Speaker 1: He said it was eighteen, nineteen, twenty twenty one. 55 00:02:53,400 --> 00:02:57,000 Speaker 2: Right, and now they have two kids. All right? 56 00:02:57,240 --> 00:02:57,520 Speaker 4: Wow. 57 00:02:58,120 --> 00:03:01,560 Speaker 1: Moving on to Lauren and Edison, Lauren writes, after forty 58 00:03:01,600 --> 00:03:04,600 Speaker 1: years of marriage, my husband stopped being passionate and. 59 00:03:04,520 --> 00:03:06,519 Speaker 2: He skips the pregame activities. 60 00:03:06,840 --> 00:03:08,880 Speaker 1: He reaches over and pulls me to him in the 61 00:03:08,919 --> 00:03:11,959 Speaker 1: bed and thinks, I'm supposed to perform on demand? 62 00:03:12,280 --> 00:03:14,279 Speaker 2: How do I get him to be more considerate? 63 00:03:15,080 --> 00:03:23,000 Speaker 3: Okay, now, go, Yeah, that ain't I've wanted it to 64 00:03:23,040 --> 00:03:25,000 Speaker 3: work like that many times. 65 00:03:25,360 --> 00:03:26,280 Speaker 1: No, that ain't. 66 00:03:26,360 --> 00:03:27,040 Speaker 4: Hide go. 67 00:03:28,400 --> 00:03:32,079 Speaker 3: Bro, you're gonna have to put the pregame package back together. Yeah, 68 00:03:32,560 --> 00:03:35,640 Speaker 3: you got to get you some commercials and sponsors for 69 00:03:35,680 --> 00:03:38,480 Speaker 3: the program. You gotta do that. You just can't come 70 00:03:38,480 --> 00:03:40,800 Speaker 3: in here start running no TV show and. 71 00:03:41,240 --> 00:03:44,360 Speaker 2: Actually right, we don't have an on switch, no. 72 00:03:44,640 --> 00:03:47,040 Speaker 4: Dog, and ma'am. 73 00:03:47,200 --> 00:03:52,600 Speaker 3: All you got to do is start this is what No, No, Actually. 74 00:03:52,280 --> 00:03:54,240 Speaker 4: You have to you have to just put a stop 75 00:03:54,280 --> 00:03:54,440 Speaker 4: to that. 76 00:03:54,880 --> 00:03:57,320 Speaker 2: Actually, you got to get some sponsors. 77 00:03:57,880 --> 00:03:58,880 Speaker 4: Yeah, you got to do all that. 78 00:03:59,040 --> 00:04:04,640 Speaker 3: Sponsor got some commercial breaks. You need the executive producer 79 00:04:04,640 --> 00:04:07,360 Speaker 3: in there. You know, you gotta stuff lined up. You 80 00:04:07,400 --> 00:04:10,480 Speaker 3: got to get a director. Yeah, I just he and 81 00:04:10,560 --> 00:04:11,680 Speaker 3: he just want the show. 82 00:04:12,040 --> 00:04:12,680 Speaker 4: Wrap it up. 83 00:04:14,000 --> 00:04:16,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, this is too much, all right. 84 00:04:16,279 --> 00:04:20,479 Speaker 1: Moving on to Elijah in Wilmington, Elijah writes, during an argument, 85 00:04:20,880 --> 00:04:24,479 Speaker 1: my wife called me an ahle uh. We've been married 86 00:04:24,520 --> 00:04:27,320 Speaker 1: for almost twenty years and I've never heard her curse. 87 00:04:27,640 --> 00:04:30,760 Speaker 1: She told me to get used to it. I think 88 00:04:30,839 --> 00:04:33,560 Speaker 1: reality TV is a bad influence. Am I supposed to 89 00:04:33,600 --> 00:04:35,120 Speaker 1: be okay with the name calling? 90 00:04:35,680 --> 00:04:38,600 Speaker 4: She done got to a finger. Yeah, then you did 91 00:04:38,680 --> 00:04:39,480 Speaker 4: something though. 92 00:04:39,480 --> 00:04:41,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, oh this is on him. 93 00:04:42,160 --> 00:04:44,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, you don't push her to the point that ain't 94 00:04:44,560 --> 00:04:48,560 Speaker 3: just coming from nowhere, and that ain't reality TV real housewife, 95 00:04:48,920 --> 00:04:54,240 Speaker 3: that's your real housewife. Yeah, but she's about to get 96 00:04:54,360 --> 00:04:58,840 Speaker 3: used to it though, well because obviously he's done something. 97 00:04:59,160 --> 00:05:01,600 Speaker 4: But bruh, we women don't. 98 00:05:01,960 --> 00:05:05,080 Speaker 3: Women don't do that out of nowhere. 99 00:05:04,800 --> 00:05:07,680 Speaker 2: We have we have a reason to all of us 100 00:05:07,760 --> 00:05:09,039 Speaker 2: if we haven't been doing. 101 00:05:09,120 --> 00:05:12,200 Speaker 3: Just get used to it, because obviously you've made her 102 00:05:12,279 --> 00:05:13,280 Speaker 3: get used to something. 103 00:05:13,800 --> 00:05:14,920 Speaker 1: Mmmmm. 104 00:05:15,560 --> 00:05:17,800 Speaker 4: And so now she's going no, no, no, you get 105 00:05:17,880 --> 00:05:18,520 Speaker 4: used to it too. 106 00:05:19,440 --> 00:05:24,200 Speaker 2: So yeah, yeah, okay, go ahead, all right? 107 00:05:24,279 --> 00:05:28,359 Speaker 1: Last one Steve Last one June, and Portland writes, I 108 00:05:28,440 --> 00:05:31,080 Speaker 1: work nights, and when I got up this morning, I 109 00:05:31,160 --> 00:05:34,640 Speaker 1: noticed water dripping from my husband's car in the garage 110 00:05:35,000 --> 00:05:37,520 Speaker 1: like he had just come in. There was nothing on 111 00:05:37,560 --> 00:05:40,600 Speaker 1: the cameras, and he got defensive when I questioned him, 112 00:05:41,200 --> 00:05:43,480 Speaker 1: is he's sneaking out at night? 113 00:05:44,360 --> 00:05:44,560 Speaker 2: Huh? 114 00:05:44,560 --> 00:05:45,960 Speaker 4: A lot of different from the car? 115 00:05:46,560 --> 00:05:50,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm you ain't touch the hood? 116 00:05:50,560 --> 00:05:56,120 Speaker 4: Wow, store white as the bottom of that car. He's 117 00:05:56,120 --> 00:05:56,920 Speaker 4: gonna have to start with. 118 00:05:57,120 --> 00:05:58,919 Speaker 2: And if she had touched the hood, what what are 119 00:05:58,960 --> 00:05:59,280 Speaker 2: you saying? 120 00:05:59,279 --> 00:06:01,880 Speaker 4: Then that tells you the car being out because the 121 00:06:01,920 --> 00:06:04,720 Speaker 4: hood gonna be hot. Why's you gotta go through all that? 122 00:06:04,839 --> 00:06:13,680 Speaker 2: Get life? You'll see that a mechanic. 123 00:06:15,400 --> 00:06:19,479 Speaker 1: Yeah, the water was dripping from the car. 124 00:06:21,080 --> 00:06:22,560 Speaker 4: I don't understand that. 125 00:06:22,960 --> 00:06:24,960 Speaker 2: Yeah it was it rainy, I mean. 126 00:06:26,680 --> 00:06:31,400 Speaker 4: Rain. Yeah, I got leak in the radiator. What you 127 00:06:31,400 --> 00:06:32,000 Speaker 4: want me to do? 128 00:06:33,760 --> 00:06:37,279 Speaker 3: You can't come up to me with that, Especially back 129 00:06:37,279 --> 00:06:40,520 Speaker 3: in the day, every car had. 130 00:06:40,440 --> 00:06:44,800 Speaker 2: Leaked, leaked water, dripping water. 131 00:06:44,880 --> 00:06:51,919 Speaker 3: Transmission fluid break fluid, radiator fluid and free all water, 132 00:06:52,480 --> 00:06:57,600 Speaker 3: she said, holding the gas in the garage. 133 00:06:58,800 --> 00:07:01,520 Speaker 4: Oh you know what I'm staying. Every leak you had 134 00:07:01,839 --> 00:07:06,159 Speaker 4: great flu, so. 135 00:07:06,320 --> 00:07:08,520 Speaker 2: There was nothing on the cameras though. 136 00:07:09,040 --> 00:07:13,400 Speaker 3: See that's too much work. I'm go it is get 137 00:07:13,480 --> 00:07:18,080 Speaker 3: you as the cameras and don't I don't even know 138 00:07:18,080 --> 00:07:20,960 Speaker 3: what that three sixty is, but I'm gonna go to 139 00:07:21,000 --> 00:07:23,600 Speaker 3: her video anti spask the spots. 140 00:07:23,920 --> 00:07:26,560 Speaker 2: You didn't put all family members on it, though. 141 00:07:26,560 --> 00:07:28,200 Speaker 4: But that's what you think. 142 00:07:29,520 --> 00:07:32,600 Speaker 1: Is it unreasonable for her for her to think that 143 00:07:32,680 --> 00:07:34,840 Speaker 1: he might be sneaking out at night if she works 144 00:07:34,920 --> 00:07:38,000 Speaker 1: at night and he can't doesn't know. But the cameras 145 00:07:38,000 --> 00:07:38,920 Speaker 1: didn't show anything. 146 00:07:39,520 --> 00:07:42,080 Speaker 3: If the cameras don't show you nothing, then what are 147 00:07:42,120 --> 00:07:42,920 Speaker 3: you talking about. 148 00:07:43,720 --> 00:07:45,200 Speaker 4: I'm out from getting in my uber. 149 00:07:46,840 --> 00:07:52,960 Speaker 1: I'm going going that's the yeah, you're going. All right, guys, 150 00:07:53,360 --> 00:07:56,160 Speaker 1: Thank you, Celo, thank you so much. Coming up at 151 00:07:56,160 --> 00:07:58,320 Speaker 1: the top of the hour, we will have some entertainment 152 00:07:58,360 --> 00:07:58,840 Speaker 1: news for you. 153 00:07:59,000 --> 00:08:03,040 Speaker 2: Right after this. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.