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Speaker 1: Let's get into the calls.

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Speaker 2: nine goes to teaching you cloud in the of your life.

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Speaker 1: An expert. Hey, this is Lyle again. Just before we start,

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Speaker 1: I want to say that normally in previous podcasts between callers,

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Speaker 1: I have the little that little voice that goes call

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Speaker 1: from then and then it's got a little beving sound.

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Speaker 1: And sometimes you'll hear that on this podcast and sometimes

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Speaker 1: you won't. And it'll probably be like that on podcasts

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Speaker 1: moving forward until I figure out a different way to

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Speaker 3: All right, Thanks, Hello, there we get go. Hey, how

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Speaker 3: they're going, how are you, I'm great, thanks for taking

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Speaker 3: my call anytime. So I'm calling because I got myself

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Speaker 3: in a little bit of a predicament with a friend

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Speaker 3: of mine and I wanted your advice as to how

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Speaker 3: I should handle it. So if he's just moved to

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Speaker 3: it's obviously been a long time coming. So he wanted

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Speaker 3: to have a big housewarming party.

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Speaker 4: So he did.

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Speaker 3: And it's this big, immaculate, too story house and it's

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Speaker 3: got a big pool in the back, really decked out,

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Speaker 3: and he's barbecuing and anyway, so long story shore, I

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Speaker 3: have to go to the bathroom, so I go, I

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Speaker 3: taken a long time. I have to go really bad,

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Speaker 3: So I decide to take matters in my own hands,

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Speaker 3: and I'm like, I got to find a bathroom. I

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Speaker 3: I run and find the bathroom and go, and then

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Speaker 3: so I panic. I don't know what to do, and

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Speaker 3: I look both ways when I leave, and I no

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Speaker 3: and there they ask me like.

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Speaker 4: Oh you hear about what happened?

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Speaker 2: Was that you and I?

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Speaker 3: I denied it, but turns out they caught me on

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Speaker 3: the ring camera upstairs, where like they're like they have

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Speaker 4: So I'm a little hosed now.

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Speaker 1: And let me ask you sort of important question. When

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Speaker 1: left a turd in their bathroom, did you lie?

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Speaker 5: Yes?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, no, I ball face flied to him. And you

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Speaker 1: And how did you feel once the evidence was presented?

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Speaker 3: No, I ashamed? Ashamed? I mean I I turned red

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Speaker 3: Uh really bummed, And uh I didn't.

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Speaker 5: I didn't think that.

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Speaker 3: You know, if that happened to me, I probably brushed

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Speaker 3: I just panicked. I didn't I didn't expect it.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, they're pretty upset with me because apparently they had

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, No, I ultimately did. I and I worked

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Speaker 1: Really it's only one hundred bucks to unclog a toilet.

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Speaker 1: What I mean, you're telling me there's a guy or

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Speaker 1: You think if you do, you think the same the

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Speaker 1: for one hundred dollars they would they would just take

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Speaker 8: On a toilet?

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Speaker 3: Say what you want about capitalists, you know America or

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Speaker 1: Do you have any further plans on top of reimbursing

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Speaker 1: them for the cleanup fees to make it up to them.

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Speaker 3: I feel like I should just let the I should

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Speaker 3: just like drift away, you know, like slowly stop seeing

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Speaker 3: them as a friend, just like they I wasn't that

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Speaker 3: close for them to begin with. And this seems like

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Speaker 3: I gotta know how I can recover. You guys are

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Speaker 3: paying for it, and you know, yeah, yeah, I I

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Speaker 3: a couple of other friends, all.

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Speaker 1: Right, So some of that bad you can afford to lose.

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Speaker 1: A few friends.

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Speaker 3: Can't cut the fat.

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Speaker 1: Thank yous much for sharing.

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Speaker 9: No Matt below.

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Speaker 1: Geck Matt, it's you and me.

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Speaker 4: Dude.

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Speaker 1: Look, fuck, I know everyone's always like, oh, there's all

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Speaker 1: these people. Look forget about the people watching, Matt. It's

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Speaker 1: all about it's about nothing like you know, we got

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Speaker 1: to embrace that, Matt Man.

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Speaker 3: I'm alone in my dorm right now. It's just doing me.

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Speaker 3: We're just talking, all right.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, what's all right? You're alone in your dorm. That's

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Speaker 1: that's there's something there, there's something there. Why you know,

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Speaker 1: tell me.

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Speaker 4: I found you.

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Speaker 3: I was at the gym at my school and I

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Speaker 3: get recommended your podcast. I'm just in love with what

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Speaker 3: you're doing, and I was wondering if you had any

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Speaker 1: You have a lot of questions for you. Are you

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Speaker 1: alone in your dorm room? How does that make you feel?

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Speaker 1: Do you wish you were somewhere else? Or do you

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Speaker 1: enjoy where you are right now?

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Speaker 3: Well, well, I'm definitely introverted, so I like to have

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Speaker 1: Okay, what what do you study in school?

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Speaker 3: Engineering?

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Speaker 1: Engineering? Everyone studies engineering these days.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's uh, industrial engineering, so not as much involved

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Speaker 3: with the physics and all that more about math and

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Speaker 3: statistics and optimizing thinks sounds well, philosophy comedy podcast is

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Speaker 3: just what I needed to, you know, balance out everything?

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Speaker 1: Cool? Cool? Have you or have you been doing too

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Speaker 1: many even crunching too many numbers? Is it getting to you?

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Speaker 5: It is?

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Speaker 3: But you know it's only the third week of the semester.

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Speaker 1: So so so bittering? Is it's gonna get worse?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? You know, I'm getting into my uh, into my routine.

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Speaker 4: You know.

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Speaker 1: Okay you freshman, No, I'm a junior. Okay, okay, so

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Speaker 1: you so you've already you're you're getting into your team,

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Speaker 1: but you already sort of have had a routine for

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Speaker 1: at least a few years.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but it's it's in person, you know. So I

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Speaker 3: a zoom call with no camera.

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Speaker 10: You know?

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Speaker 1: Do you dress? Do you dress nice?

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Speaker 3: I just dressed to be confident in myself. I don't,

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Speaker 3: I don't know, I don't. I'm not buying it crazy

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Speaker 1: What are you? What are you wearing?

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Speaker 4: Right?

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Speaker 3: Now I'm wearing basketball shorts and a T shirt. That's

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Speaker 4: Wearing for two years.

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Speaker 3: That's a quarantine outfit.

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Speaker 4: I think.

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Speaker 1: Let me ask you how long? What's the longest you've

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Speaker 3: God damn, Probably be honest with me, Okay, are you

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Speaker 9: Wears out of a pair of jeans, three or four,

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Speaker 9: I mean, yeah, I am Oh, no, okay, probably I

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Speaker 9: woar a shirt for four days straight.

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Speaker 3: That's probably it.

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Speaker 1: Nice?

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Speaker 3: Nice, But I felt like a.

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Speaker 4: Piece of shit.

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Speaker 3: So I haven't done that again.

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Speaker 1: No, Well, look, I mean, if it makes you feel

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Speaker 1: I'm not just saying this as a joke. I've worn

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Speaker 3: You're showering, but you clean yourself, but you decide, you know,

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Speaker 3: I want to put on this stuff that reminds me

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Speaker 3: of when I wasn't clean.

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Speaker 1: It's more just like, you know, I think what it

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Speaker 1: is for me at least, is that there's so many

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Speaker 1: things and you know, I'm gonna get people, you know,

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Speaker 1: I get I get hate on this all the time,

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Speaker 1: but it's I think it's just how I feel. There's

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Speaker 1: so many things in life that demand of you and

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Speaker 1: I can't be bothered to do them. They you know,

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Speaker 11: I do it.

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Speaker 1: I brush my teeth twice a day. Sometimes I don't

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Speaker 3: I think the entire population can relate to that.

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Speaker 1: I don't know, taking showers, you have to make your bed,

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Speaker 1: you gotta do the just it's just too demand. It's

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Speaker 1: too demanding to like there's like there's like this standard

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Speaker 1: break so instead it's a life hack. You just bring

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Speaker 3: Absolutely. That's that's you know, I'm waiting to have that breakthrough.

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Speaker 1: It'll happen for you it'll happen for you. I believe

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Speaker 3: Well, thanks for talking, Grek, always question.

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Speaker 5: Man.

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Speaker 1: You have a good rest of the night and you're dark.

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Speaker 12: You can.

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Speaker 3: All from Emily.

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Speaker 1: Emily.

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Speaker 7: Hello, what's up?

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Speaker 1: Emily?

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Speaker 13: Oh my god?

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Speaker 7: What's up?

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Speaker 14: Grek?

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Speaker 1: You know I'm chilling in this outer space? How are you?

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Speaker 7: I'm doing good.

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Speaker 13: I'm doing good. I cannot complain. I do not think

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Speaker 1: We spoke already, din Away, Emily, No, we did not.

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Speaker 1: Like at all. This is the first time we're talking.

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Speaker 4: Yes, it is sick.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, there's someone I'll be honest with you. Somebody called

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Speaker 7: That was you.

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Speaker 4: No.

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Speaker 15: Absolutely not.

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Speaker 7: I hate I hate it.

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Speaker 1: Sure. Yeah, well I would describe that mindset.

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Speaker 12: Well.

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Speaker 13: Well, I mean.

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Speaker 13: I have, like all my family is here, sure, and

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Speaker 1: That's good. Who I mean, who in your family do

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Speaker 9: Well?

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Speaker 13: I like my mom, cool, I did like my dad,

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Speaker 13: It's just we just have that family dynamic where who

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Speaker 8: To my heart.

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Speaker 1: I personally, I've always felt as though the extended family

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Speaker 1: Yeah I used to. I've never liked I never liked

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Speaker 1: Why do I either, you like, have to love your

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Speaker 7: Like, oh, then I love you, and I'm like, it's cool.

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Speaker 13: I don't really love you. I don't have a relationship,

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Speaker 1: And they're just like, no, it's not Yeah, dude, I

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Speaker 1: I don't like these these mindsets. This goes back with

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Speaker 1: You know, you have to love your grandparents, you have

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Speaker 13: That's not thing I get made fun of because I

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Speaker 13: what's the point. Nobody's want to see my socks and

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Speaker 13: my shoes. I'm not taking my shoes off. And she's like, hey, look,

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Speaker 13: I'm wearing matching socks. I don't careful wearing a Christmas

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Speaker 13: sock and and a Haioween socks. What does it sucking matter?

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Speaker 16: It doesn't.

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Speaker 1: You're living your life the right way, Emily.

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Speaker 7: I know.

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Speaker 13: I just go through life like it is what it is, dude.

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Speaker 5: I'm just living well.

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Speaker 1: Thank you so much for calling.

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Speaker 4: Dude.

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Speaker 7: You're welcome, gig.

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Speaker 13: You have a great evening, Dude.

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Speaker 1: I'll fucking try. Thank you, Emily.

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Speaker 5: All right, by dude, Emily, Hello.

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Speaker 1: How many people are you with?

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Speaker 5: Four people?

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Speaker 1: What's your relationship to them?

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Speaker 5: My wife is here, my best friend that I've known

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Speaker 5: for fifteen years, easily, and his wife's here. I was

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Speaker 5: just curious should we have an orgy?

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Speaker 1: Should you have an orgy? Repeat? The people that are

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Speaker 5: My wife that I've known for fifteen years, my best

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Speaker 5: friend that I've known for fifteen years, yeah, like quick,

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Speaker 5: eighteen years, yourself and his wife that he's been with

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Speaker 5: for six years, six years? Okay? You we are drinking heavily, okay?

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Speaker 5: And should we have an orgy?

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Speaker 1: So it's you, your wife, your friend, your best friend,

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Speaker 1: Or is it four people total? Including you?

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Speaker 5: It's four people including me.

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Speaker 1: Have you guys ever had an orgy before?

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Speaker 12: We have?

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Speaker 1: Not? Let me talk to your wife? Oh hi, hi,

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Speaker 1: what do you think about what?

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Speaker 10: So?

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Speaker 1: Your your husband wants to have an orgy?

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Speaker 16: What do you?

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Speaker 12: What do you?

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Speaker 1: What is your opinion on this?

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Speaker 14: I mean I think I was the instigator, You were

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Speaker 1: Get Okay, so it was your idea? Yeah, okay, Now

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Speaker 1: what is it about having an orgy that is appealing

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Speaker 1: to you right now?

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Speaker 17: I don't know. He's the only guy I haven't remem.

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Speaker 1: So your husband is the only guy you've ever been with?

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Speaker 17: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Are you interested in being with with both? How close

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Speaker 1: are you with with your husband's friend and his wife? Yeah?

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Speaker 5: How close are you? How are you now? How good

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Speaker 5: and how close are you with?

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Speaker 16: Oh?

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Speaker 7: We're we're really close. We just never see each other.

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Speaker 5: M hmm.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So so this this is sort of a fleeting

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Speaker 1: opportunity because of how rare it is that you've see Yeah, okay,

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Speaker 1: let me talk to your husband's friend.

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Speaker 5: How much.

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Speaker 7: You're on?

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Speaker 5: Hello, I'm the friend.

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Speaker 1: How are you? What were you feeling about the sort

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Speaker 1: of gauging the temperature of the room here before I

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Speaker 1: I sort of give you know my thoughts?

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Speaker 4: What?

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Speaker 7: What?

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Speaker 1: How are you? How are you? How are you feeling

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Speaker 1: about the the prospect of have sex with not only

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Speaker 1: your friend, uh.

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Speaker 9: I don't know.

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Speaker 5: Okay, obviously encounter here.

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Speaker 1: Listen, talk what's what's your name? What's your name?

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Speaker 8: Elliott?

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Speaker 1: Elliott? Talk me through your thought process of the pros

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Speaker 1: you know, I can tell that.

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Speaker 5: I seem no pros or cons I see, I say,

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Speaker 5: His wife had made me unsure about this?

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Speaker 1: Okay? Why why is his wife making you unsure?

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Speaker 5: Because he thinks it's going to destroy me and his friendship.

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Speaker 5: And I already told her, which we're not bros. But

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Speaker 5: I did say it broke before host, okay. And he's

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Speaker 1: So I'm I'm surely curious if your what's your friend's name?

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Speaker 5: David?

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Speaker 1: seems easily the most excited about this. If he believes

453
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Speaker 1: if he's so excited about it, what then what what

454
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Speaker 1: makes you believe that it will ruin your friendship.

455
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Speaker 6: It's not.

456
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Speaker 5: It's not that it's his wife thinks it's going to

457
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Speaker 5: ruin me and his friendship.

458
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Speaker 1: Oh okay, so his wife thinks it's good. But it

459
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Speaker 1: was her idea.

460
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Speaker 5: No, it wasn't her idea, but she was down when

461
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Speaker 5: he mentioned it.

462
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Speaker 1: She told me that it was her idea and that

463
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Speaker 1: she is that he joked.

464
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Speaker 5: Someone.

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Speaker 1: Let me tie, Let me talk to your wife. Your

466
00:26:03,240 --> 00:26:11,440
Speaker 1: wife name, her name is Ella, bud Ella. You hear me, yeah,

467
00:26:11,480 --> 00:26:12,360
Speaker 1: I can hear you. What's your name?

468
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Speaker 5: Tabby, Gabby, Tabitha.

469
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Speaker 1: I thought your name was Ella, and it was like

470
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Speaker 1: Elliot and Ella, and I was going to say that

471
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Speaker 1: that's a weird Elliot.

472
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Speaker 7: That'd be weird if I if I, if I got

473
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Speaker 7: with a guy whose name was like mine, that would.

474
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Speaker 12: Just cause more problems and solutions.

475
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Speaker 1: Mm hmm. Okay, So Gabby, you said your.

476
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Speaker 4: Name was.

477
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Speaker 7: No, not Gabby, Tabby like a cat tea isn't tom Abby.

478
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Speaker 1: I'm I'm gonna present sort of all the information that

479
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Speaker 1: I've sort of gathered and see what your what your

480
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Speaker 1: thoughts on. Apparently the situation is that and this is

481
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Speaker 1: just for what I've been telling I'm hearing conflict stories. Now,

482
00:27:02,240 --> 00:27:08,920
Speaker 1: Apparently David's wife instigated the idea of an orgy, and

483
00:27:10,440 --> 00:27:19,000
Speaker 1: this excited David, and Elliott's is also interested in the idea,

484
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Speaker 1: but is possibly slightly worried that it will have some

485
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Speaker 1: sort of effect on his and David's friendship. And I'm

486
00:27:28,720 --> 00:27:30,919
Speaker 1: sort of curious what your thoughts.

487
00:27:30,680 --> 00:27:31,040
Speaker 5: Are on that.

488
00:27:32,960 --> 00:27:34,159
Speaker 7: All right, So let me give you a little bit

489
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Speaker 7: of background here, Bud.

490
00:27:35,760 --> 00:27:36,359
Speaker 1: Sure, So.

491
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Speaker 7: These three all know each other, they all grew up together.

492
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Speaker 14: I did not grow up with these people.

493
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Speaker 7: This is my first time meeting David and his wife.

494
00:27:49,160 --> 00:27:52,200
Speaker 7: We came out for vacations. I've never met these people.

495
00:27:52,359 --> 00:27:57,920
Speaker 7: Wonderful people, glorious people. I consider them family by now, how.

496
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Speaker 1: I've never met any of these people before.

497
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Speaker 7: First, I'm nope, nope, just Elliott.

498
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Speaker 1: Continue.

499
00:28:04,640 --> 00:28:06,640
Speaker 7: So I've never met a never met and I've talked

500
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Speaker 7: to them on the phone, but I've never met them

501
00:28:08,240 --> 00:28:11,080
Speaker 7: in person. We lived very far away from each other,

502
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Speaker 7: and we took vacation to come out and see them.

503
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Speaker 5: Got it.

504
00:28:15,280 --> 00:28:17,680
Speaker 7: But uh, this is the first time hearing about this

505
00:28:17,960 --> 00:28:21,359
Speaker 7: orgy idea. I didn't realize that this was an option.

506
00:28:22,400 --> 00:28:26,320
Speaker 7: I didn't realize that this was something to be brought up.

507
00:28:26,480 --> 00:28:28,879
Speaker 7: So I'm blindsided just as much as you are.

508
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Speaker 12: Friends.

509
00:28:32,960 --> 00:28:35,000
Speaker 1: So and so you're just hearing it out from me.

510
00:28:37,400 --> 00:28:39,640
Speaker 7: Well I'm hearing it from the room.

511
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Speaker 1: From the room, okay. And and you know, I know

512
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Speaker 1: that you're blind sided, possibly experiencing some maybe level of

513
00:28:46,920 --> 00:28:51,280
Speaker 1: of shock, not knowing that this this this was an option.

514
00:28:53,360 --> 00:28:54,960
Speaker 1: And I don't know if you've had the time to

515
00:28:55,760 --> 00:28:59,600
Speaker 1: to think about it more in depth, but yeah, to

516
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Speaker 1: process and and and if you have, I don't know

517
00:29:01,960 --> 00:29:04,080
Speaker 1: if you have, because because because it is still a

518
00:29:04,120 --> 00:29:07,640
Speaker 1: fresh idea. What what what are your thoughts and feelings?

519
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Speaker 7: I mean, well, obviously also I worry about the impact

520
00:29:13,480 --> 00:29:16,800
Speaker 7: that's going to have on our friendships. However, that being said,

521
00:29:17,960 --> 00:29:20,280
Speaker 7: we don't this is the first time I'm meeting them.

522
00:29:20,320 --> 00:29:22,320
Speaker 7: We might not see them for another year, so like,

523
00:29:22,960 --> 00:29:27,520
Speaker 7: what's the worst that can happen? Also, though we have

524
00:29:27,800 --> 00:29:31,600
Speaker 7: never dabbled in this territory, my husband and I, so

525
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Speaker 7: I don't even know how to go about this. So

526
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Speaker 7: maybe if you have some insight on how you instigate

527
00:29:40,240 --> 00:29:45,920
Speaker 7: an orgy, like things you can say, candles to light,

528
00:29:46,040 --> 00:29:48,520
Speaker 7: maybe certain music that set the mood to put people's

529
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Speaker 7: minds at ease.

530
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Speaker 1: Well, of course, Look, I mean, here's the thing, here's

531
00:29:52,440 --> 00:29:55,920
Speaker 1: here's here's my here's my genuine thoughts. Is all all

532
00:29:56,000 --> 00:30:00,200
Speaker 1: four of you, all four alcohol from all four of you.

533
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Speaker 1: From what I've gathered over the course of my conversation

534
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Speaker 1: with all of you, seem like very open minded people,

535
00:30:09,440 --> 00:30:14,480
Speaker 1: very open people. This this conversation is happening, you know,

536
00:30:14,640 --> 00:30:19,160
Speaker 1: in plain view, it's happening very openly, and everyone seems

537
00:30:19,200 --> 00:30:22,600
Speaker 1: to be on board. And I think, look, that's the

538
00:30:22,640 --> 00:30:26,360
Speaker 1: most important thing is that everyone's on board. Everyone's committed

539
00:30:26,400 --> 00:30:32,320
Speaker 1: to the idea obvious. And once, once, once that's established,

540
00:30:32,960 --> 00:30:39,240
Speaker 1: once any sort of possible issues are brought to the

541
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Speaker 1: table and resolved, I mean, you guys can just sort

542
00:30:44,320 --> 00:30:46,320
Speaker 1: of go wild and start fucking and sucking each other.

543
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Speaker 6: All right.

544
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Speaker 7: Let me ask you, though, in your personal life, have

545
00:30:54,600 --> 00:31:00,480
Speaker 7: you ever had a multiple partner experience? I can ask

546
00:31:00,560 --> 00:31:03,280
Speaker 7: him questions. I'm asking him for his advice. I want

547
00:31:03,320 --> 00:31:04,880
Speaker 7: to know if he has any background on.

548
00:31:05,000 --> 00:31:06,160
Speaker 5: The advice he's giving.

549
00:31:07,000 --> 00:31:07,840
Speaker 8: I'm not being agreed.

550
00:31:09,960 --> 00:31:12,680
Speaker 1: Well, how do you how do you feel right now?

551
00:31:12,920 --> 00:31:13,520
Speaker 1: What is the room?

552
00:31:13,600 --> 00:31:13,720
Speaker 9: You know?

553
00:31:13,800 --> 00:31:21,440
Speaker 5: Actually back to date, Fine, yo.

554
00:31:23,240 --> 00:31:26,120
Speaker 1: All right, So, David, after having discussed it with with

555
00:31:26,360 --> 00:31:33,120
Speaker 1: every party involved, I mean everyone, everyone seems on board.

556
00:31:33,200 --> 00:31:36,600
Speaker 1: I think you're definitely on board. Your wife instigated the idea,

557
00:31:36,640 --> 00:31:40,960
Speaker 1: so I assume she's on board. Elliott seems on board.

558
00:31:42,360 --> 00:31:44,200
Speaker 1: Cabby was it Tabby or Cabby?

559
00:31:46,360 --> 00:31:47,160
Speaker 5: Cabby with a T.

560
00:31:48,080 --> 00:31:51,680
Speaker 1: Cabby seems kind of down. I mean, I would confirm

561
00:31:51,760 --> 00:31:58,440
Speaker 1: it with everyone first, but I mean, look, here's the

562
00:31:58,560 --> 00:32:00,480
Speaker 1: here's the truth of the matter. I'm not involved.

563
00:32:00,720 --> 00:32:05,560
Speaker 5: Have you ever done it? I know you're not involved,

564
00:32:05,600 --> 00:32:07,480
Speaker 5: but have you ever done something like this?

565
00:32:09,240 --> 00:32:09,680
Speaker 6: What did you say?

566
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Speaker 10: Name was again, David, listen, call back next week and

567
00:32:19,880 --> 00:32:25,600
Speaker 10: let me know how it was all from Sydney, Sydney.

568
00:32:27,080 --> 00:32:30,600
Speaker 1: Hi, how the hell are you doing, Sydney?

569
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Speaker 13: What's up?

570
00:32:32,560 --> 00:32:34,000
Speaker 18: I'm doing good. How the hell are you?

571
00:32:35,040 --> 00:32:35,200
Speaker 4: Man?

572
00:32:35,400 --> 00:32:38,360
Speaker 1: I'm a gecko. I'm floating around in the sky. I'm

573
00:32:38,400 --> 00:32:43,280
Speaker 1: on the internet talking to strangers on the phone. Sydney.

574
00:32:44,440 --> 00:32:49,920
Speaker 1: It's everything, it's nothing. We're together in this moment digitally

575
00:32:50,080 --> 00:32:54,080
Speaker 1: on the internet. You know, there's no expectations. I don't

576
00:32:54,120 --> 00:32:57,080
Speaker 1: know what you know, Sydney. It's so crazy. After all

577
00:32:57,160 --> 00:33:00,360
Speaker 1: these words that we've all said, not just me, not

578
00:33:00,520 --> 00:33:04,000
Speaker 1: just you, but they're out all of human history. I mean, Sidney,

579
00:33:04,080 --> 00:33:07,240
Speaker 1: is there anything even left to say of all the

580
00:33:07,440 --> 00:33:09,719
Speaker 1: after all these years and all these words that are

581
00:33:09,880 --> 00:33:11,280
Speaker 1: said and done.

582
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Speaker 18: Absolutely not. I'm less, completely speechless. There are no words

583
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Speaker 18: left to be said at all.

584
00:33:20,880 --> 00:33:22,360
Speaker 1: I was about to say that that's a problem, but

585
00:33:22,440 --> 00:33:25,520
Speaker 1: maybe it's not. Maybe we maybe maybe we should just

586
00:33:25,560 --> 00:33:29,640
Speaker 1: start to accept certain things that we that we ultimately

587
00:33:29,720 --> 00:33:31,280
Speaker 1: know to be true, like the fact that there are

588
00:33:31,400 --> 00:33:34,320
Speaker 1: no words. There are no more words to be said,

589
00:33:34,400 --> 00:33:36,280
Speaker 1: but we can repeat some of the words that have

590
00:33:36,360 --> 00:33:41,080
Speaker 1: already been said, just for fun, for a nostalgia's sense.

591
00:33:41,840 --> 00:33:45,600
Speaker 18: What do you think, I concur I agree.

592
00:33:46,400 --> 00:33:47,200
Speaker 1: What's your talent?

593
00:33:49,400 --> 00:33:53,760
Speaker 18: I am a painter. I love to paint. I like

594
00:33:53,840 --> 00:33:57,480
Speaker 18: to think you're pretty good at it. Yeah, that's my talent.

595
00:33:58,160 --> 00:33:59,000
Speaker 1: What do you paint.

596
00:34:00,800 --> 00:34:01,280
Speaker 12: Portraits?

597
00:34:01,480 --> 00:34:07,960
Speaker 18: I love painting people faces things. I'm really bad at finishing.

598
00:34:08,280 --> 00:34:10,160
Speaker 18: Like I feel like I'm one of those people that

599
00:34:10,360 --> 00:34:13,799
Speaker 18: like get halfway through their painting, but like it's kind

600
00:34:13,800 --> 00:34:16,160
Speaker 18: of my thing. Like if I look at my wall

601
00:34:16,280 --> 00:34:19,719
Speaker 18: right now, I have like at least three paintings that

602
00:34:19,880 --> 00:34:24,479
Speaker 18: are like unfinished, but just enough that like it's cool

603
00:34:24,560 --> 00:34:25,520
Speaker 18: that they're unfinished.

604
00:34:26,040 --> 00:34:28,040
Speaker 1: I was about to say, you know what. By the way,

605
00:34:29,040 --> 00:34:34,000
Speaker 1: you are a perfect example of one of my favorite concepts,

606
00:34:34,840 --> 00:34:38,080
Speaker 1: which is turning weaknesses into strengths, which is good to

607
00:34:38,160 --> 00:34:41,360
Speaker 1: do in arts because it's so subjective. You're taking the

608
00:34:41,520 --> 00:34:43,680
Speaker 1: fact that you don't know how to finish or that

609
00:34:43,760 --> 00:34:49,440
Speaker 1: you rarely are able to finish your paint things, and

610
00:34:49,560 --> 00:34:56,520
Speaker 1: turning it into a intentional artistic decision. Thank you, And

611
00:34:56,600 --> 00:35:00,400
Speaker 1: you're presenting it as an intentional artistic decision.

612
00:35:03,000 --> 00:35:05,440
Speaker 18: Yes, exactly, You're so smart.

613
00:35:07,080 --> 00:35:08,320
Speaker 1: That's smart. That's smart you.

614
00:35:13,960 --> 00:35:17,840
Speaker 18: But yeah, I think painting is kind of underrated. I

615
00:35:17,960 --> 00:35:20,480
Speaker 18: feel like it was kind of on and pop in

616
00:35:20,760 --> 00:35:24,719
Speaker 18: and like the Renaissance, but like I feel like nowadays

617
00:35:24,800 --> 00:35:26,720
Speaker 18: a lot of people are scared to become artists.

618
00:35:28,360 --> 00:35:29,000
Speaker 1: Really are you?

619
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Speaker 18: Why do you think they're scared, because I'm also scared

620
00:35:33,040 --> 00:35:33,920
Speaker 18: to become an artist.

621
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Speaker 1: You are an artist?

622
00:35:37,320 --> 00:35:38,600
Speaker 13: Well, I mean yeah, But like.

623
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Speaker 18: I want to go, Like I'm kind of torn between.

624
00:35:41,920 --> 00:35:44,720
Speaker 18: So I'm in the process of like applying to college

625
00:35:46,880 --> 00:35:50,239
Speaker 18: and like a lot of times I'm like, damn, like

626
00:35:51,200 --> 00:35:51,920
Speaker 18: what do I want to do?

627
00:35:52,440 --> 00:35:53,960
Speaker 7: Like do I want to go to art school?

628
00:35:54,160 --> 00:35:54,600
Speaker 13: Do I not?

629
00:35:55,680 --> 00:35:57,440
Speaker 18: And like a lot of people would try to talk

630
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Speaker 18: to me out of like art school because it's kind

631
00:36:00,680 --> 00:36:03,120
Speaker 18: of like a waste of money in a lot of

632
00:36:03,160 --> 00:36:05,400
Speaker 18: people's eyes, so it's really discouraging.

633
00:36:07,000 --> 00:36:10,320
Speaker 1: See, Okay, here's my opinion, and if you want it,

634
00:36:12,840 --> 00:36:18,319
Speaker 1: pursuing pursuing a career in the arts is not even

635
00:36:18,440 --> 00:36:22,319
Speaker 1: kind of a waste of time, you know. And there

636
00:36:22,360 --> 00:36:26,120
Speaker 1: and and also by the way, financially invest by the way,

637
00:36:26,440 --> 00:36:31,520
Speaker 1: financially investing in a career in the arts is not

638
00:36:31,800 --> 00:36:38,920
Speaker 1: a waste of money. But there, keep in mind there

639
00:36:38,960 --> 00:36:42,840
Speaker 1: are many different ways to financially invest in a career

640
00:36:43,560 --> 00:36:47,960
Speaker 1: in the arts than just going to arts school. Does

641
00:36:48,040 --> 00:36:48,560
Speaker 1: that make sense?

642
00:36:50,000 --> 00:36:53,239
Speaker 18: Yes, Because like again I was like, why would I

643
00:36:53,280 --> 00:36:56,200
Speaker 18: waste so much money? Not waste money, but spend money

644
00:36:56,719 --> 00:37:01,759
Speaker 18: and be taught and criticize stuff that I already.

645
00:37:01,520 --> 00:37:01,960
Speaker 7: Know how to do.

646
00:37:02,719 --> 00:37:06,360
Speaker 18: You know, Like that's also an argument that I have

647
00:37:06,400 --> 00:37:09,280
Speaker 18: about myself, because like I could just like free lance

648
00:37:09,480 --> 00:37:11,320
Speaker 18: or like sell art whenever, why do I need to

649
00:37:11,360 --> 00:37:13,399
Speaker 18: go to school to do it? Because then I thought

650
00:37:13,560 --> 00:37:21,520
Speaker 18: like maybe getting like some sort of education like certification

651
00:37:21,719 --> 00:37:26,600
Speaker 18: would be good, because education is like that's never gonna die.

652
00:37:26,800 --> 00:37:30,280
Speaker 18: Everybody always wants to learn, so it's like I'll always

653
00:37:30,400 --> 00:37:33,840
Speaker 18: have a backup if I don't make it. Like selling

654
00:37:34,000 --> 00:37:36,280
Speaker 18: art privately, I could be like an art teacher.

655
00:37:39,160 --> 00:37:41,759
Speaker 1: Do you how do you sell art now? Do you

656
00:37:41,920 --> 00:37:43,120
Speaker 1: use the TikTok and the.

657
00:37:44,680 --> 00:37:48,520
Speaker 18: Inst I'm trying to get into it. I have like

658
00:37:49,480 --> 00:37:56,360
Speaker 18: Instagram for my paintings, but it's it's mainly local stuff.

659
00:37:56,600 --> 00:37:59,600
Speaker 18: Like my mom is like one of my biggest fans,

660
00:38:00,000 --> 00:38:03,720
Speaker 18: always like tells everybody my daughter. She's an artist, she paints,

661
00:38:03,760 --> 00:38:08,800
Speaker 18: she does this, and she's like my like Mamager. I

662
00:38:08,920 --> 00:38:11,120
Speaker 18: love her very much. Shout out to my mom.

663
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Speaker 1: Well, listen, you know, I I I as a fan

664
00:38:20,160 --> 00:38:22,719
Speaker 1: as as just because you're such a case study of

665
00:38:24,000 --> 00:38:29,120
Speaker 1: turning the weakness into the strength via your signature unfinished paintings.

666
00:38:31,239 --> 00:38:35,239
Speaker 1: I hope that you succeed because that will inspire me

667
00:38:35,680 --> 00:38:41,520
Speaker 1: in my own, you know, in presenting my you know,

668
00:38:41,640 --> 00:38:47,279
Speaker 1: laziness as as an intentional decision in the things that

669
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Speaker 1: I do as well.

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Speaker 6: Thank you.

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Speaker 18: I appreciate that there's no crime in being easy at all.

672
00:38:54,360 --> 00:38:59,680
Speaker 18: I feel like if I feel like, if you feel

673
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Speaker 18: like being lazy is what's best for you in the moment,

674
00:39:02,960 --> 00:39:03,279
Speaker 18: then you.

675
00:39:03,400 --> 00:39:04,200
Speaker 12: Do what's best for you.

676
00:39:04,440 --> 00:39:09,760
Speaker 1: Gak what did you say? Her name was Sydney, Sydney.

677
00:39:09,920 --> 00:39:10,480
Speaker 1: Good luck to you.

678
00:39:11,920 --> 00:39:13,400
Speaker 18: Thank you so much, Jack, I love you.

679
00:39:18,400 --> 00:39:18,840
Speaker 1: How are you.

680
00:39:21,360 --> 00:39:23,520
Speaker 6: Not doing too bad about yourself?

681
00:39:25,320 --> 00:39:31,120
Speaker 1: I'm chilling. I'm doing all right, you know. I it's

682
00:39:31,160 --> 00:39:35,799
Speaker 1: been some good calls today, you know, trying to stay

683
00:39:35,800 --> 00:39:42,880
Speaker 1: in the groove. Yeah, I agree, it's chilling. I'm just

684
00:39:42,920 --> 00:39:45,640
Speaker 1: a hanging. I'm just chilling, man. Honestly, I'm just having

685
00:39:45,680 --> 00:39:46,360
Speaker 1: a good time.

686
00:39:46,560 --> 00:39:46,759
Speaker 10: Man.

687
00:39:47,400 --> 00:39:49,080
Speaker 1: So life's alid doubts, just fucking you.

688
00:39:52,520 --> 00:39:57,320
Speaker 6: I couldn't agree, And yeah, no I do. I totally agree.

689
00:39:58,200 --> 00:39:59,880
Speaker 6: I guess I should ask do you prefer going by

690
00:40:00,080 --> 00:40:03,960
Speaker 6: Lyle or I'd rather I'd rather address you man.

691
00:40:04,000 --> 00:40:06,359
Speaker 1: Look, you can call me whatever you want. Man, These

692
00:40:06,480 --> 00:40:09,960
Speaker 1: just labels. Man, I'm I'm just a guy. It's a

693
00:40:10,040 --> 00:40:13,439
Speaker 1: Gecko guy, you know. Come on, man, it's all good.

694
00:40:13,840 --> 00:40:15,400
Speaker 6: Yeah, No, you know you're not wrong.

695
00:40:17,239 --> 00:40:20,719
Speaker 7: On no.

696
00:40:21,480 --> 00:40:24,040
Speaker 6: So I guess I appreciate you taking the call first

697
00:40:24,040 --> 00:40:30,680
Speaker 6: and foremost. And I guess i'll just lay it out

698
00:40:30,719 --> 00:40:37,640
Speaker 6: for you. Two. Uh, single father And that was in

699
00:40:37,800 --> 00:40:41,160
Speaker 6: a five year relationship with somebody whom I lived with.

700
00:40:42,080 --> 00:40:44,560
Speaker 6: And I'm just getting real bad mixed signals. I guess

701
00:40:44,680 --> 00:40:48,800
Speaker 6: where she tells me one thing, but her actions speak another.

702
00:40:49,239 --> 00:40:50,839
Speaker 6: And this has been going on for probably a year

703
00:40:50,840 --> 00:40:52,239
Speaker 6: and a half now, and I just need to know

704
00:40:52,719 --> 00:40:58,600
Speaker 6: from a neutral standpoint. You know, if you have any

705
00:40:58,680 --> 00:41:02,800
Speaker 6: personal experiences with then a get go relationships. You know

706
00:41:03,200 --> 00:41:05,720
Speaker 6: what I should do for myself or what I should

707
00:41:05,719 --> 00:41:06,560
Speaker 6: try to do for myself.

708
00:41:08,040 --> 00:41:10,080
Speaker 1: Okay, So you are telling me that you are in

709
00:41:10,400 --> 00:41:14,960
Speaker 1: a you are currently in a relationship with this person.

710
00:41:15,120 --> 00:41:16,719
Speaker 1: You were in a relationship with this person. You said

711
00:41:16,719 --> 00:41:18,120
Speaker 1: you have You said you're twenty two and you have

712
00:41:18,160 --> 00:41:19,240
Speaker 1: a kid. How old is the kid.

713
00:41:21,400 --> 00:41:22,880
Speaker 6: I had when I was sixteen? Believe it or not,

714
00:41:23,640 --> 00:41:27,759
Speaker 6: he is six Okay, I'll be turning twenty three next

715
00:41:27,800 --> 00:41:29,200
Speaker 6: week if that matters.

716
00:41:29,400 --> 00:41:35,400
Speaker 1: Happy fucking birthday, dude, I appreciate it. And uh, and

717
00:41:35,680 --> 00:41:38,959
Speaker 1: so what's the deal with with with this woman? She's

718
00:41:39,480 --> 00:41:43,600
Speaker 1: your chai? Are you with her? Is she your child's.

719
00:41:45,320 --> 00:41:46,520
Speaker 5: No, this is mother.

720
00:41:46,840 --> 00:41:50,319
Speaker 6: So after a child was born, No, not my child's mother,

721
00:41:50,400 --> 00:41:53,319
Speaker 6: but my child does see her as a mother, if

722
00:41:53,360 --> 00:41:56,120
Speaker 6: that makes sense. I was with her for five years.

723
00:41:58,080 --> 00:42:02,000
Speaker 6: And because the relationship with my child's mother ended quickly

724
00:42:02,040 --> 00:42:03,719
Speaker 6: after he was born, I did everything I could to

725
00:42:03,760 --> 00:42:06,120
Speaker 6: make it work, but it didn't. It is what it is.

726
00:42:06,719 --> 00:42:12,640
Speaker 6: And yeah, no, we actually have a I would say

727
00:42:12,680 --> 00:42:18,239
Speaker 6: a good relationship now and everybody liked each other. Yeah no,

728
00:42:18,360 --> 00:42:21,920
Speaker 6: I actually fought in court and thankfully I had a

729
00:42:21,960 --> 00:42:24,800
Speaker 6: good support system where you know, I was able to

730
00:42:24,880 --> 00:42:29,560
Speaker 6: fund uh court fees through high school and I fought

731
00:42:29,640 --> 00:42:33,320
Speaker 6: for a good two and a half three years for

732
00:42:33,640 --> 00:42:34,880
Speaker 6: joint legal physical custody.

733
00:42:35,440 --> 00:42:36,320
Speaker 1: M okay.

734
00:42:39,520 --> 00:42:41,120
Speaker 6: And the only reason I guess I point that fact

735
00:42:41,160 --> 00:42:44,840
Speaker 6: out is because I guess by now X she was

736
00:42:44,960 --> 00:42:48,600
Speaker 6: with me throughout that time and helped support me, because

737
00:42:48,640 --> 00:42:52,360
Speaker 6: you know, that's quite a difficult thing to do, especially

738
00:42:52,480 --> 00:42:55,200
Speaker 6: as you know, a teenager.

739
00:42:55,760 --> 00:43:02,040
Speaker 1: Right, all right, So so oh, okay, so you have

740
00:43:02,280 --> 00:43:06,040
Speaker 1: sort of split custody with the kids, with the kid

741
00:43:07,080 --> 00:43:11,800
Speaker 1: with uh uh with the kid's mother who you have

742
00:43:11,880 --> 00:43:15,920
Speaker 1: a good relationship with. And then, okay, tell me about

743
00:43:16,719 --> 00:43:19,880
Speaker 1: this person that you say you have a toxic relationship with.

744
00:43:25,640 --> 00:43:29,080
Speaker 6: Well, I think she's a great person. She challenges me,

745
00:43:29,360 --> 00:43:31,839
Speaker 6: like mentally, like when we have conversations and I think,

746
00:43:32,120 --> 00:43:35,279
Speaker 6: you know, we don't flash so to say, but you know,

747
00:43:35,440 --> 00:43:40,879
Speaker 6: we see each other's point of view, and I don't

748
00:43:40,880 --> 00:43:44,279
Speaker 6: want to say it's so much toxic, but I guess, well, no,

749
00:43:44,320 --> 00:43:46,440
Speaker 6: I guess it is toxic if you really think about it.

750
00:43:47,719 --> 00:43:52,040
Speaker 6: But it hasn't always been. We lived together up until

751
00:43:52,200 --> 00:43:55,080
Speaker 6: COVID hit. I was a I worked in a hospital.

752
00:43:55,320 --> 00:43:57,960
Speaker 6: I won't specify really what I did, but I worked

753
00:43:57,960 --> 00:44:00,680
Speaker 6: at clinical position in a hospital that was there when

754
00:44:00,760 --> 00:44:05,320
Speaker 6: COVID all first started. And unfortunately for myself my family,

755
00:44:05,480 --> 00:44:07,279
Speaker 6: at the time, I was helping take care of my

756
00:44:07,320 --> 00:44:10,560
Speaker 6: grandmother who had cancer. So I decided to leave my

757
00:44:10,640 --> 00:44:14,040
Speaker 6: position at the hospital so I could do that more effectively.

758
00:44:15,040 --> 00:44:16,839
Speaker 6: So then I was out of a job, and then

759
00:44:17,040 --> 00:44:19,640
Speaker 6: she in turn lost her job, and we had lost

760
00:44:19,800 --> 00:44:22,440
Speaker 6: our house after that and had to move back in

761
00:44:22,520 --> 00:44:23,040
Speaker 6: with my parents.

762
00:44:25,080 --> 00:44:28,680
Speaker 1: So why is this, why is this a toxic relationship?

763
00:44:32,040 --> 00:44:36,000
Speaker 6: For right now, it's been about a over a year

764
00:44:36,680 --> 00:44:41,040
Speaker 6: and she gives me verbal communication that she doesn't want anything,

765
00:44:42,840 --> 00:44:47,759
Speaker 6: but then she still comes over. She will spend the

766
00:44:47,840 --> 00:44:51,680
Speaker 6: night and we'll you know, do our college homework together.

767
00:44:51,960 --> 00:44:56,800
Speaker 6: We'll get dinner, we'll see movies. She still is around

768
00:44:56,880 --> 00:45:01,280
Speaker 6: my kid occasionally, and it's it's to like doing everything

769
00:45:01,880 --> 00:45:05,040
Speaker 6: that you would do in a relationship without actually being

770
00:45:06,120 --> 00:45:06,920
Speaker 6: in a relationship.

771
00:45:07,200 --> 00:45:09,879
Speaker 1: You're saying this as if she's like doing these things

772
00:45:09,960 --> 00:45:10,839
Speaker 1: against your will.

773
00:45:13,040 --> 00:45:15,279
Speaker 6: No, No, she's not. I don't take it that way.

774
00:45:15,400 --> 00:45:17,759
Speaker 6: That's not what I mean by that. I mean I

775
00:45:17,960 --> 00:45:21,480
Speaker 6: enjoy it, like I enjoy her genuinely as a person, right, Okay,

776
00:45:21,680 --> 00:45:30,840
Speaker 6: like I think in general? Yeah, no, nothing nothing, you know?

777
00:45:31,000 --> 00:45:33,520
Speaker 1: And then what that is your what is? What is

778
00:45:33,560 --> 00:45:34,080
Speaker 1: your issue?

779
00:45:34,120 --> 00:45:34,400
Speaker 12: What is?

780
00:45:34,719 --> 00:45:36,760
Speaker 1: Why? Why do you claim that she's being toxic?

781
00:45:44,320 --> 00:45:46,440
Speaker 6: Because she'll tell me, like I said, she'll tell me

782
00:45:46,520 --> 00:45:48,560
Speaker 6: one thing, like I'm trying to think of the good examples,

783
00:45:48,600 --> 00:45:51,680
Speaker 6: will tell me, you know, she doesn't want a relationship

784
00:45:51,760 --> 00:45:56,279
Speaker 6: right now, and I try to respect that, and I

785
00:45:56,360 --> 00:45:58,640
Speaker 6: try to respect that boundary. But you know, we'll go home.

786
00:45:59,480 --> 00:46:01,440
Speaker 6: They'll have to will be like over dinner, right because

787
00:46:01,480 --> 00:46:03,479
Speaker 6: she asked to go to dinner, or I had asked

788
00:46:03,480 --> 00:46:05,080
Speaker 6: to go to dinner. Because you know, I'm guilty of

789
00:46:05,160 --> 00:46:06,839
Speaker 6: that too. I'm not gonna lie. I'm trying to lay

790
00:46:06,840 --> 00:46:07,879
Speaker 6: all the shape.

791
00:46:07,920 --> 00:46:10,840
Speaker 1: So all right, So here's here's what I'm hearing is

792
00:46:10,920 --> 00:46:12,759
Speaker 1: that this girl has told you a bunch of times

793
00:46:12,800 --> 00:46:14,759
Speaker 1: that she doesn't want a relationship, but you guys are

794
00:46:14,760 --> 00:46:17,879
Speaker 1: still doing relationship things, and that's bothering you because she's

795
00:46:17,960 --> 00:46:21,279
Speaker 1: being unclear, and don't put don't put up with that.

796
00:46:21,400 --> 00:46:23,439
Speaker 1: I I people have called in about that. I hate

797
00:46:23,480 --> 00:46:25,560
Speaker 1: that stuff. Don't put up with that, you know, like

798
00:46:25,880 --> 00:46:28,279
Speaker 1: it's not good for anybody, you know, Just don't don't

799
00:46:28,360 --> 00:46:31,080
Speaker 1: don't don't put up with that. Like if you're gonna

800
00:46:31,800 --> 00:46:33,239
Speaker 1: if you look, if you guys are gonna hang out

801
00:46:33,280 --> 00:46:35,480
Speaker 1: and be friends, like hang out and be friends, you know,

802
00:46:35,600 --> 00:46:37,680
Speaker 1: if you guys are gonna be in a relationship, be

803
00:46:38,000 --> 00:46:40,400
Speaker 1: in a relationship, don't do this thing that's gonna just

804
00:46:40,640 --> 00:46:43,480
Speaker 1: fuck with both of you where you're like on the

805
00:46:44,040 --> 00:46:48,680
Speaker 1: fence about things. And I get that it's complicated, you know,

806
00:46:49,040 --> 00:46:51,680
Speaker 1: but just like what do you what are you living

807
00:46:51,719 --> 00:46:52,640
Speaker 1: in limbo for?

808
00:46:53,880 --> 00:46:54,040
Speaker 10: You know?

809
00:46:54,239 --> 00:46:56,040
Speaker 1: I mean also if she doesn't want if she's telling

810
00:46:56,080 --> 00:46:59,040
Speaker 1: you that she doesn't want a relationship, and you say

811
00:46:59,080 --> 00:47:02,800
Speaker 1: that you want to respect that, then like, look, you know,

812
00:47:02,960 --> 00:47:04,920
Speaker 1: if she says like, hey, do you want to like

813
00:47:06,080 --> 00:47:08,400
Speaker 1: hang out and sleep when she next time she's like, hey,

814
00:47:08,440 --> 00:47:10,319
Speaker 1: can I come over and sleep with you in your bed?

815
00:47:11,640 --> 00:47:16,600
Speaker 1: Be like, hey, you know, I I love you, I

816
00:47:17,160 --> 00:47:18,680
Speaker 1: really do. But if we're not going to be in

817
00:47:18,719 --> 00:47:22,279
Speaker 1: a relationship. You know, I can't do relationship be kind

818
00:47:22,320 --> 00:47:24,560
Speaker 1: of things with you like that, you know, you got

819
00:47:24,719 --> 00:47:26,840
Speaker 1: I think you gotta be firm about that, you know,

820
00:47:27,080 --> 00:47:27,600
Speaker 1: or else.

821
00:47:32,120 --> 00:47:34,040
Speaker 4: You know, I gotcha.

822
00:47:34,320 --> 00:47:38,279
Speaker 6: Yeah no, And I think I struggle with that, and

823
00:47:38,400 --> 00:47:39,320
Speaker 6: I acknowledge it.

824
00:47:40,080 --> 00:47:44,040
Speaker 1: I mean, it's hard because what you're really what what

825
00:47:44,239 --> 00:47:46,520
Speaker 1: you're really sort of being tasked with here is like

826
00:47:46,640 --> 00:47:50,280
Speaker 1: being honest about how you feel, you know, and straight

827
00:47:50,320 --> 00:47:52,319
Speaker 1: out and being honest about how you feel is really hard,

828
00:47:55,680 --> 00:47:59,200
Speaker 1: understandably so, but it's it's.

829
00:48:00,160 --> 00:48:02,279
Speaker 6: A child in the equation is just a lot harder

830
00:48:02,320 --> 00:48:04,480
Speaker 6: because you know, like I said before, my my kid

831
00:48:04,640 --> 00:48:11,640
Speaker 6: sees her as like a mother, and it just complicates

832
00:48:11,719 --> 00:48:13,920
Speaker 6: things so much more. And like I've been trying to

833
00:48:14,040 --> 00:48:17,800
Speaker 6: do better as a father, you know, between work and

834
00:48:17,920 --> 00:48:20,440
Speaker 6: my college studies. You know, I'm trying to do my

835
00:48:20,600 --> 00:48:24,359
Speaker 6: best there and put him first, you know, because as

836
00:48:24,400 --> 00:48:27,360
Speaker 6: you do with a child, And like part of me

837
00:48:27,440 --> 00:48:30,120
Speaker 6: in the back of my head just kind of chirps

838
00:48:30,160 --> 00:48:33,160
Speaker 6: at me because he's always asking about her, Like even now,

839
00:48:33,880 --> 00:48:36,640
Speaker 6: like he you know, we his mother, and I got

840
00:48:36,719 --> 00:48:39,400
Speaker 6: him like a cell phone. He's like he talks to

841
00:48:39,440 --> 00:48:40,680
Speaker 6: her on the phone.

842
00:48:41,840 --> 00:48:45,719
Speaker 1: He talks to her on the fext her. Yeah, how

843
00:48:45,760 --> 00:48:47,200
Speaker 1: old to see You said he was five.

844
00:48:48,800 --> 00:48:51,239
Speaker 6: He's six, he'll be turning seven. We got him just

845
00:48:51,280 --> 00:48:53,920
Speaker 6: like a cell phone, like an old cell phone, just.

846
00:48:54,000 --> 00:48:57,279
Speaker 1: An old cell phone. I couldn't even use an old

847
00:48:57,360 --> 00:48:59,240
Speaker 1: cell phone, you mean want like the fucking flip phone

848
00:48:59,280 --> 00:49:03,120
Speaker 1: where every like word that you no, no, it fucking.

849
00:49:05,080 --> 00:49:07,120
Speaker 6: It's it's to be. But it's an old iPhone, to

850
00:49:07,200 --> 00:49:09,960
Speaker 6: be clear. He uses the He can text small words

851
00:49:10,120 --> 00:49:13,239
Speaker 6: like high by stuff, but he mostly uses like the

852
00:49:13,360 --> 00:49:17,400
Speaker 6: voice chat, I guess, and we specifically got it for

853
00:49:17,520 --> 00:49:21,960
Speaker 6: him so he can communicate with his mother and myself

854
00:49:22,640 --> 00:49:26,160
Speaker 6: when he's not in our homes or with you know,

855
00:49:26,360 --> 00:49:28,920
Speaker 6: with the other families. And that's you know, we monitor

856
00:49:29,000 --> 00:49:31,440
Speaker 6: the contacts and stuff, you know all that.

857
00:49:33,120 --> 00:49:34,280
Speaker 1: Okay, I'm kind of curious.

858
00:49:34,280 --> 00:49:36,279
Speaker 6: I don't want to rip that away.

859
00:49:37,239 --> 00:49:39,680
Speaker 1: You don't want to rip away the relationship that your

860
00:49:39,760 --> 00:49:43,239
Speaker 1: son has with uh this this this woman.

861
00:49:44,920 --> 00:49:46,440
Speaker 6: Yeah, because I don't think that's healthy.

862
00:49:46,880 --> 00:49:49,880
Speaker 1: I mean, you know, I mean look, here's here's the

863
00:49:51,040 --> 00:49:52,600
Speaker 1: here's the thing. Okay, So when you say you don't

864
00:49:52,600 --> 00:49:54,040
Speaker 1: think it's healthy, like you don't think it's healthy for

865
00:49:54,160 --> 00:49:56,239
Speaker 1: him to like develop this relationship with this person and

866
00:49:56,280 --> 00:49:58,040
Speaker 1: then for you to rip it away. Because here's the thing.

867
00:49:58,200 --> 00:50:00,759
Speaker 1: If he's developing this relationship with this part on the

868
00:50:00,960 --> 00:50:07,320
Speaker 1: on a foundation of this is like a motherish figure

869
00:50:08,520 --> 00:50:13,000
Speaker 1: because this woman is romantically involved with my dad and

870
00:50:13,120 --> 00:50:17,560
Speaker 1: that's like the foundation of that relationship that I mean,

871
00:50:17,600 --> 00:50:22,600
Speaker 1: that is a lie unless a few guys actually are together.

872
00:50:23,480 --> 00:50:27,080
Speaker 1: So even if like you might think that by taking

873
00:50:27,160 --> 00:50:30,920
Speaker 1: that away you're doing him a disservice, it's possible that

874
00:50:30,960 --> 00:50:32,759
Speaker 1: you would be doing him a disservice by letting him

875
00:50:32,760 --> 00:50:37,240
Speaker 1: to continue sort of thinking about the relationship in those terms,

876
00:50:37,280 --> 00:50:40,120
Speaker 1: if that's not the truth. And another thing is like

877
00:50:40,200 --> 00:50:43,520
Speaker 1: if this, if this lady is gonna, you know, commit

878
00:50:43,640 --> 00:50:45,920
Speaker 1: to like being a part of your life and a

879
00:50:46,000 --> 00:50:50,640
Speaker 1: part of your son's life, like I think, and I don't,

880
00:50:50,640 --> 00:50:52,239
Speaker 1: I don't know, Like I'm not telling you, you know,

881
00:50:52,440 --> 00:50:55,359
Speaker 1: I would never. I don't even like giving advice to people,

882
00:50:55,400 --> 00:50:58,560
Speaker 1: even though I fucking have this stupid advice show. But like,

883
00:50:59,200 --> 00:51:04,880
Speaker 1: if if it's in important for you to have this,

884
00:51:05,480 --> 00:51:07,200
Speaker 1: for this woman to have a relationship with your son,

885
00:51:07,320 --> 00:51:10,439
Speaker 1: like like you know, she's got to kind of kind

886
00:51:10,480 --> 00:51:14,000
Speaker 1: of commit to it, you know, That's what I think, at.

887
00:51:14,040 --> 00:51:20,560
Speaker 6: Least you know, Yeah, then I guess you know, I

888
00:51:20,640 --> 00:51:23,040
Speaker 6: guess the only thing the matter is time at this point,

889
00:51:23,080 --> 00:51:24,839
Speaker 6: and only time will tell them because we can't tell

890
00:51:24,840 --> 00:51:27,719
Speaker 6: what the future is. At least that's the way I

891
00:51:27,800 --> 00:51:30,480
Speaker 6: see it. But you know, at least in the moment,

892
00:51:30,800 --> 00:51:34,000
Speaker 6: right it's it difficult to know which way you know

893
00:51:34,040 --> 00:51:40,160
Speaker 6: what passed the take with with because I mean, I

894
00:51:40,200 --> 00:51:41,759
Speaker 6: don't know the right w orown decision no matter.

895
00:51:42,880 --> 00:51:47,040
Speaker 1: Here's from what you've told me, and correct me if

896
00:51:47,080 --> 00:51:51,560
Speaker 1: I'm wrong. It sounds like hanging out with this woman

897
00:51:52,480 --> 00:51:57,920
Speaker 1: while not knowing what your relationship with her is is

898
00:51:58,080 --> 00:51:58,640
Speaker 1: bothering you?

899
00:51:59,719 --> 00:52:00,279
Speaker 5: Is true?

900
00:52:02,000 --> 00:52:04,520
Speaker 6: Summed up? Yes, I think that's a great assssment that.

901
00:52:04,800 --> 00:52:08,719
Speaker 1: Okay, if that's if that's bothering you, I think you

902
00:52:08,800 --> 00:52:10,880
Speaker 1: should tell her. I don't know if you've told her already.

903
00:52:11,520 --> 00:52:18,400
Speaker 1: If that's bothering you, then you should communicate that to her.

904
00:52:19,000 --> 00:52:21,600
Speaker 1: Have you guys had a conversation about that? Like, have

905
00:52:21,960 --> 00:52:24,239
Speaker 1: you talked to her and been like, we've had you know,

906
00:52:27,120 --> 00:52:27,799
Speaker 1: what were you gonna say?

907
00:52:28,480 --> 00:52:28,719
Speaker 6: Yeah?

908
00:52:29,520 --> 00:52:30,319
Speaker 3: No, no, I won't say.

909
00:52:30,560 --> 00:52:32,839
Speaker 6: We had plenty of conversations and most of the time,

910
00:52:34,680 --> 00:52:37,040
Speaker 6: whenever something gets brought up, it's more so I don't

911
00:52:37,040 --> 00:52:39,040
Speaker 6: want to talk about this anymore and I have too

912
00:52:39,120 --> 00:52:41,359
Speaker 6: much on my plate already, or you know, it gets

913
00:52:41,400 --> 00:52:45,040
Speaker 6: cut off rather abruptly, and I guess she had told me,

914
00:52:46,880 --> 00:52:50,320
Speaker 6: you know, five minutes in person is okay, but you know,

915
00:52:50,440 --> 00:52:52,160
Speaker 6: I can't really do anything.

916
00:52:51,880 --> 00:52:56,160
Speaker 1: More than that, Like, yeah, what do you mean by

917
00:52:56,239 --> 00:52:58,480
Speaker 1: five minutes in person is okay? What does that mean?

918
00:52:59,239 --> 00:53:03,319
Speaker 6: Well, the last conversation we had, I was just talking

919
00:53:03,360 --> 00:53:04,920
Speaker 6: to her over the phone and it got brought up.

920
00:53:05,239 --> 00:53:08,080
Speaker 6: We talked about stuff about twenty minutes, and at the

921
00:53:08,120 --> 00:53:12,520
Speaker 6: end of the conversation she was quite upset and she

922
00:53:12,640 --> 00:53:15,239
Speaker 6: had said, listen, you know, talking about this stuff with

923
00:53:15,320 --> 00:53:17,200
Speaker 6: you for five minutes, you know, face to face is

924
00:53:17,239 --> 00:53:19,120
Speaker 6: one thing, but I can't talk about it, you know,

925
00:53:19,280 --> 00:53:23,319
Speaker 6: for X you know, twenty thirty minutes. It's just too much.

926
00:53:26,239 --> 00:53:28,200
Speaker 6: So it almost it feels like he's trying to avoid it.

927
00:53:28,719 --> 00:53:31,120
Speaker 1: If this, if this is bothering you, like I think

928
00:53:31,160 --> 00:53:33,839
Speaker 1: you need to talk about it. That's that's that's sort

929
00:53:33,880 --> 00:53:36,359
Speaker 1: of what I'll leave you with, even if it's hard.

930
00:53:36,640 --> 00:53:38,960
Speaker 1: You know, I don't have is typically the one you

931
00:53:39,080 --> 00:53:41,600
Speaker 1: have to have, which is annoying. I don't like that either.

932
00:53:41,680 --> 00:53:43,120
Speaker 1: Did I try to have I run away from that

933
00:53:43,120 --> 00:53:44,680
Speaker 1: ship in my own life, I try to have those

934
00:53:44,680 --> 00:53:45,120
Speaker 1: all the time.

935
00:53:46,000 --> 00:53:47,840
Speaker 6: But yeah, just try to.

936
00:53:49,120 --> 00:53:52,200
Speaker 1: Keep some open communication going, you know.

937
00:53:53,440 --> 00:53:56,240
Speaker 6: Yeah, no, I try that, And obviously.

938
00:53:57,040 --> 00:53:59,000
Speaker 1: Good luck in the future. It seems like you're doing

939
00:53:59,040 --> 00:54:00,759
Speaker 1: the best you can for your son. It seems like

940
00:54:00,840 --> 00:54:03,640
Speaker 1: you actually care. If I were sixteen and I had

941
00:54:03,680 --> 00:54:07,200
Speaker 1: a kid, I would I don't even know what I

942
00:54:07,239 --> 00:54:09,560
Speaker 1: would do. So you know, you're handling your your your

943
00:54:10,800 --> 00:54:13,279
Speaker 1: You're you're fucking handling it as well as you can,

944
00:54:13,520 --> 00:54:14,880
Speaker 1: so you know, take solace in that.

945
00:54:17,400 --> 00:54:19,840
Speaker 6: Yeah, No, I appreciate that, and I just would like

946
00:54:20,160 --> 00:54:21,600
Speaker 6: to stay for the record, I'm not trying to bad

947
00:54:21,680 --> 00:54:24,000
Speaker 6: mouth her, right, I'm not trying to put her you

948
00:54:24,080 --> 00:54:24,399
Speaker 6: know here.

949
00:54:24,560 --> 00:54:26,520
Speaker 1: No, I don't think anyone thinks you're doing that.

950
00:54:28,280 --> 00:54:31,520
Speaker 6: And I still respect this woman and I still hold

951
00:54:31,560 --> 00:54:33,080
Speaker 6: her at a very high standard, and I don't want

952
00:54:33,080 --> 00:54:34,960
Speaker 6: anybody else to think that badly of her for what

953
00:54:35,080 --> 00:54:37,040
Speaker 6: she you know, because at the end of the day,

954
00:54:37,120 --> 00:54:42,360
Speaker 6: you know, we're all people, and we make our own decisions,

955
00:54:42,800 --> 00:54:44,600
Speaker 6: and you know it's all of our lives.

956
00:54:46,719 --> 00:54:48,560
Speaker 1: Well, listen, man, Thank you very much for calling, and

957
00:54:48,840 --> 00:54:49,360
Speaker 1: good luck to you.

958
00:54:51,480 --> 00:54:54,000
Speaker 6: Well, I do appreciate it. You take care and have

959
00:54:54,040 --> 00:54:55,960
Speaker 6: a wonderful night, and good luck to everybody else going

960
00:54:56,000 --> 00:54:57,759
Speaker 6: through anything out there.

961
00:54:58,640 --> 00:55:00,919
Speaker 1: Thank you man, You take care. Hey, folks, it's Lyle

962
00:55:01,000 --> 00:55:04,520
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973
00:55:42,200 --> 00:55:45,800
Speaker 5: Hello, how are you? I'm good to carry you.

974
00:55:49,440 --> 00:55:53,520
Speaker 8: I'm a gecko er facts.

975
00:55:55,760 --> 00:55:56,560
Speaker 12: And you're on the internet.

976
00:55:59,400 --> 00:55:59,880
Speaker 4: No person?

977
00:56:01,480 --> 00:56:02,480
Speaker 1: Do you like being a person?

978
00:56:05,880 --> 00:56:07,240
Speaker 3: Oh it's okay.

979
00:56:07,520 --> 00:56:09,160
Speaker 12: I think at times I'd rather.

980
00:56:09,120 --> 00:56:09,560
Speaker 4: Be a gecko.

981
00:56:11,640 --> 00:56:14,680
Speaker 1: Why you don't know what it's like to be a

982
00:56:14,719 --> 00:56:15,040
Speaker 1: get go.

983
00:56:17,239 --> 00:56:20,200
Speaker 12: You know what you're You're absolutely right, You're one hundred

984
00:56:20,200 --> 00:56:23,360
Speaker 12: percent right. But you know, I was, you know, I

985
00:56:23,520 --> 00:56:26,240
Speaker 12: was calling because I was having a bad day. Somebody

986
00:56:26,320 --> 00:56:30,360
Speaker 12: broke into my truck stole some stuff, and then, you know,

987
00:56:31,000 --> 00:56:36,080
Speaker 12: in the back of my head, I was thinking, if

988
00:56:36,480 --> 00:56:39,520
Speaker 12: you know, somebody stole from get what could they steal?

989
00:56:41,200 --> 00:56:42,160
Speaker 1: What did they steal from you?

990
00:56:45,239 --> 00:56:45,399
Speaker 19: Uh?

991
00:56:46,200 --> 00:56:50,000
Speaker 12: Well, that would being too specific. Some some pew pew stuff,

992
00:56:50,760 --> 00:56:53,880
Speaker 12: a firearm that I had in the vehicle, and some

993
00:56:54,120 --> 00:56:55,520
Speaker 12: other little things that had in there.

994
00:56:58,360 --> 00:56:59,759
Speaker 1: They stole a gun from your car?

995
00:57:02,120 --> 00:57:02,359
Speaker 4: Yep.

996
00:57:03,880 --> 00:57:05,120
Speaker 1: Do they steal drugs from your car?

997
00:57:07,840 --> 00:57:07,880
Speaker 9: No?

998
00:57:08,680 --> 00:57:12,600
Speaker 12: No, Well, I know the gun makes it look like I'm,

999
00:57:12,960 --> 00:57:16,640
Speaker 12: you know, some sort of criminal, but in reality, you know,

1000
00:57:16,680 --> 00:57:19,440
Speaker 12: I live in Texas. I'm always at farms and ranches,

1001
00:57:19,480 --> 00:57:21,360
Speaker 12: so I usually have a gun on me because, you know,

1002
00:57:21,520 --> 00:57:24,800
Speaker 12: we have a lot of wild animals that are keen

1003
00:57:24,880 --> 00:57:26,240
Speaker 12: on attacking humans down here.

1004
00:57:27,680 --> 00:57:33,240
Speaker 1: Have you by wild animal? I'm sorry, have you ever

1005
00:57:33,280 --> 00:57:34,520
Speaker 1: been attacked by wild animal?

1006
00:57:36,360 --> 00:57:36,560
Speaker 4: I have.

1007
00:57:36,800 --> 00:57:40,640
Speaker 12: Actually, we go hog hunting. You know, they're an evasive

1008
00:57:40,680 --> 00:57:43,680
Speaker 12: species down here. There's way too many of them, and

1009
00:57:45,880 --> 00:57:49,920
Speaker 12: they're not very nice, you know, and I've been you know,

1010
00:57:50,000 --> 00:57:52,360
Speaker 12: you get too close to them and they're mean. They

1011
00:57:52,440 --> 00:57:54,280
Speaker 12: they'll charge you, and then you kind of just got

1012
00:57:54,400 --> 00:57:57,400
Speaker 12: to do this thing where you run and shoot behind

1013
00:57:57,480 --> 00:57:59,920
Speaker 12: you and just hope that they don't catch up to you.

1014
00:58:02,080 --> 00:58:03,480
Speaker 12: It's it's not the safest.

1015
00:58:03,160 --> 00:58:11,840
Speaker 1: Thing, which I don't understand. H you're but so if

1016
00:58:11,920 --> 00:58:17,880
Speaker 1: you're going hog hunting, why are how are you then running?

1017
00:58:18,840 --> 00:58:19,840
Speaker 1: Oh you're how are you?

1018
00:58:20,040 --> 00:58:20,080
Speaker 12: Like?

1019
00:58:20,200 --> 00:58:22,600
Speaker 1: You're running away? Shouldn't they be running away from you

1020
00:58:22,760 --> 00:58:24,320
Speaker 1: if you're hunting them?

1021
00:58:26,560 --> 00:58:31,480
Speaker 12: You would think so, But in this instance, they are

1022
00:58:31,800 --> 00:58:37,480
Speaker 12: the alpha creature. You know, they they're very tasty, but

1023
00:58:37,840 --> 00:58:40,280
Speaker 12: you know you do have to walk around and kind

1024
00:58:40,280 --> 00:58:43,920
Speaker 12: of look for them, and you know, you would think

1025
00:58:43,960 --> 00:58:48,480
Speaker 12: that they would run away, and some do, but some

1026
00:58:48,960 --> 00:58:51,400
Speaker 12: are just just not very nice, and then they run

1027
00:58:51,480 --> 00:58:54,880
Speaker 12: after you and the hunter becomes the hunted.

1028
00:58:55,800 --> 00:58:59,800
Speaker 1: I feel like the alpha creature is the one with

1029
00:59:00,080 --> 00:59:00,439
Speaker 1: the gun.

1030
00:59:03,000 --> 00:59:06,760
Speaker 12: You would think so, but but you know, pig like.

1031
00:59:08,440 --> 00:59:09,840
Speaker 1: A bigger gun.

1032
00:59:14,280 --> 00:59:15,960
Speaker 8: You know, you make a good.

1033
00:59:15,840 --> 00:59:21,000
Speaker 12: Point there and and I could see you, I can

1034
00:59:21,080 --> 00:59:23,680
Speaker 12: see where you're coming from. But at the same time,

1035
00:59:25,280 --> 00:59:27,400
Speaker 12: it's kind of you know, you kind of just have

1036
00:59:27,560 --> 00:59:31,840
Speaker 12: to be there. They're they're they're big, they're mean. There's

1037
00:59:31,920 --> 00:59:34,280
Speaker 12: instances where you can shoot them and they don't care

1038
00:59:34,400 --> 00:59:37,200
Speaker 12: and they just keep running after you. They're they're they're

1039
00:59:37,680 --> 00:59:40,520
Speaker 12: mean and they're tough. But I do see where you're

1040
00:59:40,560 --> 00:59:40,960
Speaker 12: coming from.

1041
00:59:42,240 --> 00:59:44,600
Speaker 1: How big is the biggest pig that you've been attached?

1042
00:59:44,720 --> 00:59:48,600
Speaker 1: Who would win in a fight between one of these

1043
00:59:48,680 --> 00:59:50,439
Speaker 1: pigs and a bear?

1044
00:59:53,760 --> 00:59:53,880
Speaker 4: Well?

1045
00:59:53,920 --> 00:59:55,680
Speaker 12: I think the bear one hundred percent. You know, the

1046
00:59:56,440 --> 01:00:00,080
Speaker 12: thing with the bear is that he's basically got hands, know,

1047
01:00:00,200 --> 01:00:03,360
Speaker 12: he's got the palls, and he could pin him down

1048
01:00:03,680 --> 01:00:09,600
Speaker 12: and then he could fight him. The hog resilient as

1049
01:00:09,680 --> 01:00:14,400
Speaker 12: they are very tough. I still feel like like the bear,

1050
01:00:15,560 --> 01:00:17,200
Speaker 12: one could take a hog.

1051
01:00:17,920 --> 01:00:25,960
Speaker 1: Okay, but you say that the hogs are the alpha creatures, but.

1052
01:00:26,680 --> 01:00:29,080
Speaker 12: Yeah, sometimes sometimes they are.

1053
01:00:29,440 --> 01:00:32,640
Speaker 1: But typically when you go to fight the hogs, you win,

1054
01:00:34,760 --> 01:00:35,800
Speaker 1: probably because you have a gun.

1055
01:00:35,920 --> 01:00:39,240
Speaker 12: For the most part, yes, for the most part, yes,

1056
01:00:41,680 --> 01:00:45,360
Speaker 12: they are the alpha creature when they're running after and

1057
01:00:45,520 --> 01:00:50,640
Speaker 12: those instances, yes, But and the instances where I'm running

1058
01:00:50,760 --> 01:00:56,000
Speaker 12: and they're running behind me, you know, then they become

1059
01:00:56,040 --> 01:00:56,440
Speaker 12: the alpha.

1060
01:00:58,400 --> 01:00:59,800
Speaker 5: But you're the alpha.

1061
01:01:00,040 --> 01:01:01,800
Speaker 1: But you're running from them and you're shooting at them

1062
01:01:01,840 --> 01:01:06,960
Speaker 1: with a gun and the bullet is faster than them.

1063
01:01:09,000 --> 01:01:11,200
Speaker 12: True, But the gun is the I don't know if

1064
01:01:11,200 --> 01:01:11,680
Speaker 12: you've ever.

1065
01:01:13,480 --> 01:01:16,080
Speaker 1: Maybe not you you know what you're you know, honestly,

1066
01:01:16,120 --> 01:01:18,000
Speaker 1: I think if you didn't, I think I think you're

1067
01:01:18,040 --> 01:01:20,440
Speaker 1: only correct if you don't have the gun. I think

1068
01:01:20,440 --> 01:01:25,000
Speaker 1: if it's just you versus the pig, then I could

1069
01:01:25,040 --> 01:01:26,600
Speaker 1: see the pig being make a good point, But the

1070
01:01:26,680 --> 01:01:34,240
Speaker 1: gun itself gives you a pretty clear advantage.

1071
01:01:33,760 --> 01:01:34,160
Speaker 4: Over the pig.

1072
01:01:36,680 --> 01:01:37,240
Speaker 5: That's true.

1073
01:01:37,920 --> 01:01:38,320
Speaker 16: That's true.

1074
01:01:38,520 --> 01:01:40,480
Speaker 12: You know, you make a very good point there. The

1075
01:01:40,600 --> 01:01:43,640
Speaker 12: only the only difference is that when you're trying to

1076
01:01:43,760 --> 01:01:46,760
Speaker 12: run and also shoot the thing that's running after you,

1077
01:01:47,200 --> 01:01:49,760
Speaker 12: you know, there's a lot of bouncing around, a lot

1078
01:01:49,800 --> 01:01:51,200
Speaker 12: of sometimes, you know, you don't.

1079
01:01:51,000 --> 01:01:52,080
Speaker 4: Always get that shot off.

1080
01:01:52,720 --> 01:01:55,560
Speaker 12: If I was sitting still, then I could hit him.

1081
01:01:55,680 --> 01:01:58,960
Speaker 12: But when you're trying to run and shoot the thing

1082
01:01:59,000 --> 01:02:03,000
Speaker 12: that's running after you, you it's it's kind of like

1083
01:02:03,080 --> 01:02:09,080
Speaker 12: a unversus Oh, it is, it is, but it's it's

1084
01:02:09,160 --> 01:02:11,600
Speaker 12: one of those things that it's just it's just fun,

1085
01:02:12,000 --> 01:02:16,960
Speaker 12: you know, it's it's one hundred extremely unsafe.

1086
01:02:21,640 --> 01:02:26,000
Speaker 1: So someone broke into your car and stole the gun

1087
01:02:27,160 --> 01:02:30,560
Speaker 1: that you use to run away from pigs while you

1088
01:02:30,640 --> 01:02:35,640
Speaker 1: shoot them. What do you what do you think that

1089
01:02:35,680 --> 01:02:36,160
Speaker 1: they're going to.

1090
01:02:36,200 --> 01:02:36,480
Speaker 12: Do with it?

1091
01:02:39,480 --> 01:02:39,920
Speaker 5: I don't know.

1092
01:02:40,280 --> 01:02:43,000
Speaker 12: I would assume crime, seeing as how they were already

1093
01:02:43,080 --> 01:02:46,560
Speaker 12: committing a crime. I would assume that that they're either

1094
01:02:46,680 --> 01:02:49,640
Speaker 12: going to try and sell it or or commit.

1095
01:02:49,480 --> 01:02:50,200
Speaker 4: Crimes with it.

1096
01:02:50,440 --> 01:02:55,320
Speaker 1: You know, what kind of crimes do you think that

1097
01:02:55,360 --> 01:02:56,000
Speaker 1: will commit with it?

1098
01:02:58,400 --> 01:03:03,520
Speaker 12: I'm not sure. You know, there's a there's a long

1099
01:03:03,600 --> 01:03:06,640
Speaker 12: list of things of crimes that you can commit with

1100
01:03:06,800 --> 01:03:10,360
Speaker 12: a firearm. You know, I'm not sure what they would

1101
01:03:10,440 --> 01:03:11,080
Speaker 12: or would not do.

1102
01:03:18,840 --> 01:03:20,360
Speaker 1: So what's your plan? Are you going to get a

1103
01:03:20,400 --> 01:03:20,720
Speaker 1: new one?

1104
01:03:24,600 --> 01:03:24,960
Speaker 16: I'm night?

1105
01:03:25,080 --> 01:03:28,360
Speaker 12: I mean I have others. Actually, I actually just got

1106
01:03:28,520 --> 01:03:32,080
Speaker 12: that one, and I had it in the vehicle that

1107
01:03:32,280 --> 01:03:35,200
Speaker 12: they primarily because I was going to go to the

1108
01:03:35,240 --> 01:03:39,440
Speaker 12: shooting range later and try it out. But that that

1109
01:03:39,640 --> 01:03:42,440
Speaker 12: did that didn't work out, seeing as how it was stolen.

1110
01:03:43,960 --> 01:03:48,360
Speaker 1: You know, my gut reaction to the idea of you

1111
01:03:48,480 --> 01:03:51,840
Speaker 1: going to shoot pigs for fun is to be appalled.

1112
01:03:52,560 --> 01:03:58,040
Speaker 12: But well, well, but spots, I'm not shooting them for fun.

1113
01:03:58,480 --> 01:04:08,880
Speaker 1: You just said you're shooting I eat bacon also for fun,

1114
01:04:10,240 --> 01:04:12,320
Speaker 1: so I so I don't know if that makes me

1115
01:04:12,520 --> 01:04:13,040
Speaker 1: any better.

1116
01:04:16,800 --> 01:04:19,280
Speaker 12: Well, I don't shoot them for fun. It's fun to

1117
01:04:19,400 --> 01:04:25,040
Speaker 12: go on the hunt. But no, I say going out

1118
01:04:25,080 --> 01:04:28,439
Speaker 12: and shooting them is fun. That the hunt itself is fun.

1119
01:04:28,600 --> 01:04:31,160
Speaker 12: But I don't kill them just for fun. I don't

1120
01:04:31,240 --> 01:04:31,600
Speaker 12: leave them.

1121
01:04:31,680 --> 01:04:31,880
Speaker 4: I do.

1122
01:04:32,320 --> 01:04:33,120
Speaker 12: I do eat them.

1123
01:04:34,680 --> 01:04:35,520
Speaker 4: They're very tasty.

1124
01:04:36,040 --> 01:04:37,680
Speaker 1: Should lock your car doors next.

1125
01:04:37,520 --> 01:04:41,600
Speaker 3: Time, m they were loock they broke my window.

1126
01:04:42,600 --> 01:04:46,880
Speaker 1: Should lock your windows from the good point.

1127
01:04:46,880 --> 01:04:47,960
Speaker 5: I hadn't thought of that.

1128
01:04:49,320 --> 01:04:50,160
Speaker 1: You can do it next time.

1129
01:04:50,920 --> 01:04:57,200
Speaker 12: Thank you for calling, Thank you, O good night, geck Allie.

1130
01:04:59,320 --> 01:05:07,560
Speaker 1: You know, Pauline was supposed to be the main love

1131
01:05:07,680 --> 01:05:13,680
Speaker 1: interest of Mario throughout the Mario series, but she had

1132
01:05:15,680 --> 01:05:18,040
Speaker 1: her very first appearance in like the very first Mario game,

1133
01:05:18,080 --> 01:05:20,080
Speaker 1: which was Donkey Kong or I guess that was a

1134
01:05:20,120 --> 01:05:22,560
Speaker 1: Donkey No, it's a fucking Mario game. But then she

1135
01:05:22,680 --> 01:05:26,400
Speaker 1: got Pauline's kind of made a comeback though, because she

1136
01:05:26,600 --> 01:05:31,040
Speaker 1: was featured heavily in the uh Super Mario Odyssey, where

1137
01:05:31,080 --> 01:05:31,880
Speaker 1: she's like the Mayor.

1138
01:05:35,760 --> 01:05:36,120
Speaker 4: Is that so?

1139
01:05:37,760 --> 01:05:38,000
Speaker 10: Yeah?

1140
01:05:38,360 --> 01:05:40,520
Speaker 1: I mean she's got She's sort of like become one

1141
01:05:40,560 --> 01:05:44,520
Speaker 1: of the lines of like peripheral sort of princesses to

1142
01:05:44,600 --> 01:05:50,400
Speaker 1: Princess Peach, like Rosalina and and then Pauline. But you know,

1143
01:05:50,520 --> 01:05:51,160
Speaker 1: I can see, I.

1144
01:05:51,200 --> 01:05:53,840
Speaker 11: Can see might be interesting, but I gotta cut you off.

1145
01:05:54,120 --> 01:05:54,960
Speaker 11: I gotta cut you off.

1146
01:05:55,000 --> 01:05:55,840
Speaker 16: I don't have much time.

1147
01:05:56,360 --> 01:05:56,880
Speaker 1: Why don't you have?

1148
01:05:57,720 --> 01:05:59,920
Speaker 11: At any moment, someone could come in and tell me

1149
01:06:00,080 --> 01:06:01,840
Speaker 11: to do something, so making it quick?

1150
01:06:02,480 --> 01:06:05,480
Speaker 5: All right, click, I got a true story for you,

1151
01:06:06,040 --> 01:06:06,400
Speaker 5: all right?

1152
01:06:07,240 --> 01:06:07,600
Speaker 16: All right?

1153
01:06:07,840 --> 01:06:10,600
Speaker 11: This girl I've been talking to, we split up about

1154
01:06:10,640 --> 01:06:13,920
Speaker 11: two months ago. We've been talking about getting back together,

1155
01:06:14,880 --> 01:06:17,520
Speaker 11: and you know, we talked on and off every day,

1156
01:06:18,240 --> 01:06:20,960
Speaker 11: and we decided that tomorrow was the day we were

1157
01:06:21,000 --> 01:06:24,960
Speaker 11: gonna move back in, gonna go over there, help remove

1158
01:06:25,000 --> 01:06:28,320
Speaker 11: her stuff, you know, get everything moved in. I have

1159
01:06:28,480 --> 01:06:31,440
Speaker 11: now been ghosted for all day today. I've heard a

1160
01:06:31,480 --> 01:06:35,160
Speaker 11: single thing from her, and that's where we're at. I

1161
01:06:35,280 --> 01:06:38,000
Speaker 11: feel so fucking stupid. I want to blow my fucking

1162
01:06:38,080 --> 01:06:40,360
Speaker 11: brains out, but I'm not going to. But it's it's, yeah,

1163
01:06:41,040 --> 01:06:42,480
Speaker 11: how do you recover from being so?

1164
01:06:43,760 --> 01:06:44,120
Speaker 1: I don't know?

1165
01:06:44,600 --> 01:06:45,480
Speaker 5: Where are you? Where would you?

1166
01:06:45,520 --> 01:06:47,600
Speaker 3: What would you do as a get go in this situation?

1167
01:06:50,760 --> 01:06:53,800
Speaker 1: I think she was in a Mario Kart game. She

1168
01:06:54,120 --> 01:06:57,120
Speaker 1: was okay, she was she was in Mario cart eight Deluxe.

1169
01:06:58,200 --> 01:07:00,560
Speaker 11: Yeah, Hey, I gotta go have a great night you too.

1170
01:07:03,200 --> 01:07:05,360
Speaker 1: Call from THEO.

1171
01:07:06,800 --> 01:07:07,080
Speaker 15: Heo.

1172
01:07:08,440 --> 01:07:16,440
Speaker 3: How Hello, Hey, Hi, I'm.

1173
01:07:17,440 --> 01:07:17,680
Speaker 4: Hello.

1174
01:07:18,640 --> 01:07:21,320
Speaker 3: Yes, how are you doing today?

1175
01:07:21,560 --> 01:07:23,240
Speaker 1: Look? No, you know what, you don't have to ask

1176
01:07:23,280 --> 01:07:24,800
Speaker 1: me how I'm doing because you came in here with

1177
01:07:24,880 --> 01:07:28,160
Speaker 1: this energy that made that where you really just wanted

1178
01:07:28,200 --> 01:07:29,960
Speaker 1: to get into it, and I'm with you. Let's get

1179
01:07:30,000 --> 01:07:30,320
Speaker 1: into it.

1180
01:07:31,480 --> 01:07:32,360
Speaker 5: Okay, thank you.

1181
01:07:34,160 --> 01:07:38,240
Speaker 17: So, I personally don't have any problems with anything, but

1182
01:07:40,320 --> 01:07:43,400
Speaker 17: I have this one X that I broke up with

1183
01:07:43,520 --> 01:07:48,200
Speaker 17: a few months ago, and she obviously still has feelings

1184
01:07:48,240 --> 01:07:50,360
Speaker 17: for me, and I don't.

1185
01:07:52,320 --> 01:07:54,600
Speaker 3: She's she's she's in the dark place.

1186
01:07:54,440 --> 01:07:55,880
Speaker 17: And I feel guilty about it?

1187
01:07:55,920 --> 01:07:57,760
Speaker 5: And what should I do about it?

1188
01:08:03,840 --> 01:08:06,320
Speaker 1: You feel guilty for breaking up with your ex girlfriend

1189
01:08:06,760 --> 01:08:11,560
Speaker 1: because she's in a place. Yeah, I mean I don't

1190
01:08:11,760 --> 01:08:17,240
Speaker 1: really know. Well, here's here's one thing I will tell you, okay,

1191
01:08:17,520 --> 01:08:20,840
Speaker 1: is that and this is my own personal belief, is that, Look,

1192
01:08:21,320 --> 01:08:24,840
Speaker 1: you have your reasons for breaking up with her, correct. Yeah,

1193
01:08:26,320 --> 01:08:31,160
Speaker 1: And I'm sure that those reasons are meaningful to you. Right,

1194
01:08:32,200 --> 01:08:35,439
Speaker 1: you're because here's here's why you shouldn't feel bad about

1195
01:08:35,439 --> 01:08:36,840
Speaker 1: this is because.

1196
01:08:38,680 --> 01:08:39,040
Speaker 10: You are.

1197
01:08:41,120 --> 01:08:44,479
Speaker 1: You feel guilty because you're breaking up with her, because

1198
01:08:44,520 --> 01:08:49,040
Speaker 1: you're like, but, but, but you being in a relationship

1199
01:08:49,080 --> 01:08:52,560
Speaker 1: with her is of no use to her if the

1200
01:08:52,640 --> 01:08:56,000
Speaker 1: relationship is not working, which I assume it's not because

1201
01:08:56,040 --> 01:08:58,320
Speaker 1: of the reasons that you have decided to break up

1202
01:08:58,320 --> 01:09:01,599
Speaker 1: with her, So okay, does that make sense?

1203
01:09:02,400 --> 01:09:03,559
Speaker 5: Like it doesn't make.

1204
01:09:03,520 --> 01:09:06,559
Speaker 1: Sense you And look, you know, I don't know why

1205
01:09:06,600 --> 01:09:08,000
Speaker 1: you're breaking up with her. You don't have to tell

1206
01:09:08,080 --> 01:09:12,920
Speaker 1: me for you know me to say this, but you

1207
01:09:13,040 --> 01:09:17,519
Speaker 1: have your the relationship is just not working out. Yeah,

1208
01:09:17,920 --> 01:09:22,240
Speaker 1: and that's why. That's why it's being ended. And you

1209
01:09:22,320 --> 01:09:25,360
Speaker 1: know it's probably not working out for reasons that are

1210
01:09:25,479 --> 01:09:29,200
Speaker 1: like I'm assuming, sort of out of your control. And

1211
01:09:29,240 --> 01:09:33,000
Speaker 1: I would consider like feelings, you know, maybe you're not

1212
01:09:33,120 --> 01:09:36,879
Speaker 1: feeling it anymore or something like that. I would consider

1213
01:09:36,960 --> 01:09:38,320
Speaker 1: that not out of your control. I think you can.

1214
01:09:38,360 --> 01:09:40,240
Speaker 1: I don't think you can force yourself to love anyone.

1215
01:09:40,600 --> 01:09:45,560
Speaker 1: So look, you're kind of like it would not It

1216
01:09:45,600 --> 01:09:48,679
Speaker 1: would not be helpful to her or helpful to anyone

1217
01:09:49,280 --> 01:09:51,840
Speaker 1: for you to simply stay in a relationship that's not

1218
01:09:52,040 --> 01:09:55,519
Speaker 1: working because you feel bad or because you think it

1219
01:09:55,560 --> 01:09:58,720
Speaker 1: would help. It would Actually it's like ripping a band

1220
01:09:58,720 --> 01:10:03,120
Speaker 1: aid off, like you know, like you just got to

1221
01:10:03,200 --> 01:10:05,680
Speaker 1: do it. You know, it doesn't help to stay in

1222
01:10:05,760 --> 01:10:08,120
Speaker 1: a bad relationship because this person's in a bad place.

1223
01:10:09,040 --> 01:10:11,240
Speaker 15: But the thing is, I've already broken up with her.

1224
01:10:11,680 --> 01:10:13,160
Speaker 5: I've moved on with my life.

1225
01:10:13,240 --> 01:10:16,920
Speaker 15: It's been months already. But she feels like she doesn't

1226
01:10:17,000 --> 01:10:22,120
Speaker 15: have anyone she it was a long distance and she's

1227
01:10:22,160 --> 01:10:25,280
Speaker 15: been complaining about she doesn't have any friends or anything.

1228
01:10:25,400 --> 01:10:30,560
Speaker 15: And I feel like I'm the only person else or

1229
01:10:30,720 --> 01:10:33,479
Speaker 15: she makes me feel like I'm the only person that

1230
01:10:33,600 --> 01:10:36,640
Speaker 15: she cares about. And I just want her to like

1231
01:10:37,560 --> 01:10:43,320
Speaker 15: associate and socialize with other people better and just move

1232
01:10:43,360 --> 01:10:45,760
Speaker 15: away from me and move on, and so we could

1233
01:10:45,840 --> 01:10:47,000
Speaker 15: just go our separate ways.

1234
01:10:47,680 --> 01:10:53,800
Speaker 1: I think it's very sweet that you care about this person.

1235
01:10:53,920 --> 01:10:56,200
Speaker 1: I can tell you care about this person. I think

1236
01:10:56,240 --> 01:11:02,200
Speaker 1: it's nice, but a like you're this this sort of

1237
01:11:02,439 --> 01:11:06,880
Speaker 1: like I I maybe you could call it a pity

1238
01:11:07,760 --> 01:11:12,040
Speaker 1: relationship or friendship. Even that she's trying to form with

1239
01:11:12,120 --> 01:11:15,559
Speaker 1: you is of is as I've said, no use to her,

1240
01:11:16,240 --> 01:11:22,200
Speaker 1: because it's it is not genuine from you. Yeah, because

1241
01:11:22,200 --> 01:11:24,520
Speaker 1: it comes from a place of pity, which is ingenuine.

1242
01:11:25,160 --> 01:11:27,880
Speaker 1: So so it's it's even if you were to like,

1243
01:11:29,120 --> 01:11:32,720
Speaker 1: you know, be sympathetic to these these things that she's

1244
01:11:32,840 --> 01:11:37,400
Speaker 1: telling you. You know, it's it. It just naturally is

1245
01:11:37,520 --> 01:11:43,200
Speaker 1: not coming from a place that's useful to either of you.

1246
01:11:43,800 --> 01:11:46,160
Speaker 1: You know. And look, I think it's sweet that you care.

1247
01:11:46,240 --> 01:11:48,680
Speaker 1: I really do, And it really seems like you care

1248
01:11:48,720 --> 01:11:51,479
Speaker 1: about this person and you've done all that you reasonably can.

1249
01:11:52,080 --> 01:11:54,160
Speaker 1: But if you're gonna move on with your life, you

1250
01:11:54,280 --> 01:11:56,439
Speaker 1: got to just move on with your life. This is

1251
01:11:56,520 --> 01:11:57,000
Speaker 1: my opinion.

1252
01:11:57,840 --> 01:11:59,960
Speaker 3: I've moved on, but I don't know if she has.

1253
01:12:01,760 --> 01:12:05,880
Speaker 1: At a certain point. It's not your responsibility. Okay, thank

1254
01:12:05,920 --> 01:12:09,800
Speaker 1: you for that, of course, have a nice stick you

1255
01:12:09,880 --> 01:12:13,679
Speaker 1: as well. Man. I wish I could have said something

1256
01:12:13,800 --> 01:12:15,800
Speaker 1: like that to the guy who was asking me who

1257
01:12:15,840 --> 01:12:17,519
Speaker 1: I was, said the Mario Kart thing too?

1258
01:12:18,120 --> 01:12:20,280
Speaker 12: Aw from Glynn Walker?

1259
01:12:21,040 --> 01:12:22,519
Speaker 3: What did Walker?

1260
01:12:23,040 --> 01:12:23,320
Speaker 7: What did?

1261
01:12:24,920 --> 01:12:25,200
Speaker 4: Hello?

1262
01:12:28,400 --> 01:12:31,720
Speaker 5: Hi? Hey, how's it going?

1263
01:12:36,200 --> 01:12:46,880
Speaker 1: Well? How's it going? I mean, look, you know, I'm

1264
01:12:46,960 --> 01:12:51,960
Speaker 1: sort of you know it's going on, It's going how

1265
01:12:52,040 --> 01:12:54,240
Speaker 1: it goes? You know, I'm a gacko on the computer

1266
01:12:54,320 --> 01:13:00,400
Speaker 1: talking to people on the phone. Absolutely, absolutely, I can't

1267
01:13:00,439 --> 01:13:02,840
Speaker 1: believe I got through am I on speakerphone right now?

1268
01:13:04,760 --> 01:13:05,040
Speaker 1: You are.

1269
01:13:05,160 --> 01:13:06,680
Speaker 8: Let me turn the volume down a little bit of

1270
01:13:06,720 --> 01:13:09,080
Speaker 8: my phone is like fucked up, and like, oh, go

1271
01:13:09,320 --> 01:13:09,760
Speaker 8: ahead to be.

1272
01:13:09,760 --> 01:13:11,880
Speaker 1: A favor to take me off of speakerphone real quick.

1273
01:13:14,200 --> 01:13:15,799
Speaker 5: Okay, let me see.

1274
01:13:17,680 --> 01:13:18,200
Speaker 4: Is this better?

1275
01:13:18,800 --> 01:13:25,599
Speaker 1: Much better? I'm Jonathan? Jonathan are wearing shoes right now?

1276
01:13:27,800 --> 01:13:28,200
Speaker 5: I am not?

1277
01:13:28,680 --> 01:13:32,200
Speaker 1: Actually no, why are you wearing shoes right now? Jonathan?

1278
01:13:33,880 --> 01:13:39,240
Speaker 8: Because I am laying on the bed and I just

1279
01:13:39,320 --> 01:13:41,640
Speaker 8: didn't didn't seem right, And honestly, I was like a

1280
01:13:41,680 --> 01:13:46,519
Speaker 8: little warm, and your body temperature is actually heavily affected

1281
01:13:46,600 --> 01:13:48,439
Speaker 8: by your feet, and so I took the shoes off

1282
01:13:48,479 --> 01:13:49,439
Speaker 8: to cool my body down.

1283
01:13:51,200 --> 01:13:54,320
Speaker 1: That's a very well thought out answer to that question.

1284
01:13:55,880 --> 01:13:57,479
Speaker 8: Thank you, Thank you very much.

1285
01:13:58,280 --> 01:13:59,760
Speaker 1: Do you typically put a lot of thought into the

1286
01:13:59,760 --> 01:14:02,519
Speaker 1: answer that you provide? Very fust two? Do you typically

1287
01:14:02,560 --> 01:14:04,880
Speaker 1: put a lot of Do you typically put a lot

1288
01:14:04,920 --> 01:14:07,960
Speaker 1: of thought into the answers that you provide to various questions.

1289
01:14:10,760 --> 01:14:14,479
Speaker 8: It just depends on the question, I guess when.

1290
01:14:14,320 --> 01:14:16,880
Speaker 1: You say it depends on the question. What criteria must

1291
01:14:16,920 --> 01:14:18,840
Speaker 1: a question have for you to put thought into it?

1292
01:14:20,880 --> 01:14:23,720
Speaker 8: I guess how much of an impact it has on

1293
01:14:23,920 --> 01:14:25,760
Speaker 8: the other person in the conversation?

1294
01:14:26,400 --> 01:14:34,320
Speaker 1: Interesting? Interesting, Do you believe that when you say impact?

1295
01:14:34,439 --> 01:14:36,320
Speaker 1: What sort of impact.

1296
01:14:38,080 --> 01:14:41,360
Speaker 8: So I mean, if it's a if it's like a

1297
01:14:41,400 --> 01:14:45,120
Speaker 8: personal question, if someone's wanting like a you know, an

1298
01:14:45,160 --> 01:14:49,000
Speaker 8: opinion on a personal matter, you know, I'm gonna gonna

1299
01:14:49,000 --> 01:14:52,920
Speaker 8: give that a little more thought. But if they have

1300
01:14:53,120 --> 01:14:55,400
Speaker 8: like a general question like hey, do you do you

1301
01:14:55,520 --> 01:14:57,160
Speaker 8: like this shirt? You know, it's just gonna be like

1302
01:14:57,240 --> 01:15:00,400
Speaker 8: an off the rip, like yeah or no? Or do

1303
01:15:00,520 --> 01:15:02,479
Speaker 8: you like the shirt? Because that's what really matters.

1304
01:15:03,120 --> 01:15:06,120
Speaker 1: Interesting, because I feel as though, all right, so I

1305
01:15:06,240 --> 01:15:08,920
Speaker 1: asked you why you are not currently wearing shoes, and

1306
01:15:08,960 --> 01:15:11,479
Speaker 1: you give me a very well thought out answer, And

1307
01:15:13,360 --> 01:15:17,439
Speaker 1: did you do so because you rated the impact of

1308
01:15:18,920 --> 01:15:21,720
Speaker 1: the answer to the question on me as very high?

1309
01:15:24,000 --> 01:15:27,160
Speaker 8: No, I actually I answered it just because that was

1310
01:15:27,720 --> 01:15:29,200
Speaker 8: it didn't really require much thought.

1311
01:15:29,479 --> 01:15:29,640
Speaker 6: You know.

1312
01:15:29,920 --> 01:15:35,920
Speaker 8: It's like I know that like body temperature depends, like

1313
01:15:36,000 --> 01:15:38,760
Speaker 8: I said, heavily on your feet and also on the

1314
01:15:38,800 --> 01:15:41,519
Speaker 8: top of your head. And so if you want to

1315
01:15:41,720 --> 01:15:44,080
Speaker 8: cool down, you know, if you're wearing a hat, take

1316
01:15:44,120 --> 01:15:46,400
Speaker 8: off your hat and take off your shoes and socks,

1317
01:15:47,200 --> 01:15:48,960
Speaker 8: and if you want to warm up, you know, maybe

1318
01:15:49,000 --> 01:15:50,000
Speaker 8: throw a hat on, throw.

1319
01:15:49,920 --> 01:15:50,439
Speaker 5: Some shoes on.

1320
01:15:51,800 --> 01:15:56,840
Speaker 1: It's just well, you again, it feels as though you

1321
01:15:57,000 --> 01:15:59,519
Speaker 1: gave me yet another well thought out answer. I feel

1322
01:15:59,560 --> 01:16:00,320
Speaker 1: like you're very good at this.

1323
01:16:02,000 --> 01:16:05,519
Speaker 8: I guess I'm just naturally naturally talented, maybe because I

1324
01:16:05,560 --> 01:16:08,320
Speaker 8: don't feel like I'm thinking too hard about it, just trying.

1325
01:16:08,120 --> 01:16:10,519
Speaker 1: To go with the flow, you know, exactly. Well, maybe

1326
01:16:10,560 --> 01:16:11,840
Speaker 1: that's your talent, is going with the flow.

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Speaker 4: Hey, appreciate that.

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Speaker 7: Man.

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Speaker 1: What do you do for a living?

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01:16:19,560 --> 01:16:19,720
Speaker 13: Ah?

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01:16:19,920 --> 01:16:20,120
Speaker 3: Wow?

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01:16:20,520 --> 01:16:23,839
Speaker 5: What do I do for a living? Currently?

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01:16:24,240 --> 01:16:28,000
Speaker 8: I work as a prep cook at a conference center,

1334
01:16:28,160 --> 01:16:30,720
Speaker 8: and I actually have you mentioned Chick fil earlier? I

1335
01:16:30,760 --> 01:16:35,240
Speaker 8: actually have an interview with Chick fil A on Friday

1336
01:16:35,920 --> 01:16:39,680
Speaker 8: for a second job because I'm trying to trying to.

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01:16:39,760 --> 01:16:41,320
Speaker 3: Save up some money, and.

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01:16:42,920 --> 01:16:46,320
Speaker 8: They're paying nineteen dollars an hour, which is like unheard

1339
01:16:46,360 --> 01:16:49,000
Speaker 8: of these days, so it's kind of nice. I'm hoping

1340
01:16:49,240 --> 01:16:53,000
Speaker 8: hoping that I get that. So, but you know, what

1341
01:16:53,120 --> 01:16:58,040
Speaker 8: I'm doing for a living is whatever I can whatever

1342
01:16:58,120 --> 01:17:01,200
Speaker 8: I can find that you know, helps me out the

1343
01:17:01,280 --> 01:17:04,800
Speaker 8: most and my future successes.

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01:17:06,080 --> 01:17:08,160
Speaker 1: Whatever helps you out the most in your future successes.

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01:17:09,000 --> 01:17:12,519
Speaker 1: Your future successes, tell me about them? What do they

1346
01:17:12,560 --> 01:17:12,840
Speaker 1: look like?

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01:17:14,640 --> 01:17:14,800
Speaker 5: Oh?

1348
01:17:15,200 --> 01:17:16,439
Speaker 3: Well, I.

1349
01:17:18,360 --> 01:17:23,160
Speaker 8: I love music. I'm a musician, and so I work

1350
01:17:23,640 --> 01:17:27,240
Speaker 8: hard at that. So I'd love to have some sort

1351
01:17:27,280 --> 01:17:30,479
Speaker 8: of like a like a B tier career as a musician.

1352
01:17:32,120 --> 01:17:35,000
Speaker 8: But for me, success really is like getting like a

1353
01:17:35,120 --> 01:17:38,560
Speaker 8: large plot of land and building a homestead on it

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01:17:39,640 --> 01:17:43,680
Speaker 8: and being able to live off that land and you know,

1355
01:17:43,920 --> 01:17:49,720
Speaker 8: potentially provide jobs for friends and family and you know,

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01:17:49,920 --> 01:17:52,400
Speaker 8: set other people up for success with my success.

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Speaker 1: So a sort of sustainable farming thing where all of

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01:17:57,280 --> 01:17:59,479
Speaker 1: your food would be grown on the land in which

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01:17:59,520 --> 01:17:59,800
Speaker 1: you live.

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01:18:01,160 --> 01:18:03,880
Speaker 8: Yeah, yeah, yeah, absolutely, And I mean on the land

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01:18:03,920 --> 01:18:05,479
Speaker 8: you know. I want to do like a like a

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01:18:05,560 --> 01:18:09,320
Speaker 8: solar farm because in many states you can get like

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01:18:09,360 --> 01:18:12,040
Speaker 8: a nice tax credit for that, and also would be

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Speaker 8: able to provide power for myself. You know, maybe even

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01:18:14,960 --> 01:18:19,200
Speaker 8: like if it's big enough land, you know, maybe I

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01:18:19,240 --> 01:18:22,320
Speaker 8: could even have like a music venue there and do

1367
01:18:22,520 --> 01:18:26,600
Speaker 8: like some some concerts and festivals and stuff like that.

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01:18:26,760 --> 01:18:29,640
Speaker 8: It all just depends on the the size of the

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01:18:29,800 --> 01:18:32,800
Speaker 8: land and the resources that I have available to me.

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01:18:33,439 --> 01:18:38,400
Speaker 1: I like that Duncan's Farm Music Festival.

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01:18:40,800 --> 01:18:43,439
Speaker 8: Duncan Am I going to be sponsored by like Dunkin Donuts.

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01:18:47,680 --> 01:18:50,600
Speaker 1: Do you feel as though there will be enough electrical outlets,

1373
01:18:51,080 --> 01:18:55,080
Speaker 1: like if you're doing this in like a farm that

1374
01:18:55,240 --> 01:18:58,280
Speaker 1: was a dumb question. Answer it anyway.

1375
01:18:58,520 --> 01:19:04,800
Speaker 4: There's no such thing as dumb question, is there?

1376
01:19:05,080 --> 01:19:06,040
Speaker 8: That's what my teachers told me.

1377
01:19:06,080 --> 01:19:08,599
Speaker 1: Anyways, What else did teacher tell you that you remember?

1378
01:19:10,560 --> 01:19:10,760
Speaker 10: Oh?

1379
01:19:10,880 --> 01:19:11,080
Speaker 12: Man?

1380
01:19:13,479 --> 01:19:17,240
Speaker 8: What else did my teachers tell me? Why equals MX

1381
01:19:17,320 --> 01:19:19,280
Speaker 8: plus b Uh?

1382
01:19:20,160 --> 01:19:22,200
Speaker 3: I remember that? I don't.

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01:19:22,320 --> 01:19:23,240
Speaker 8: I think that's slope?

1384
01:19:23,880 --> 01:19:24,719
Speaker 5: Uh intercept?

1385
01:19:27,400 --> 01:19:27,960
Speaker 12: I remember that?

1386
01:19:31,240 --> 01:19:31,680
Speaker 4: What are they?

1387
01:19:32,560 --> 01:19:32,880
Speaker 3: You know what?

1388
01:19:33,360 --> 01:19:33,400
Speaker 20: Like?

1389
01:19:34,920 --> 01:19:36,960
Speaker 8: None of my teachers really had too much of an impact,

1390
01:19:37,040 --> 01:19:40,599
Speaker 8: but my my high school principal had a huge impact

1391
01:19:40,680 --> 01:19:44,880
Speaker 8: on me. And you know, he uh, he gave me

1392
01:19:44,920 --> 01:19:46,960
Speaker 8: a guitar for my eighteenth birthday and he just told

1393
01:19:47,000 --> 01:19:50,720
Speaker 8: me to make sure to pay it forward and to

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01:19:50,960 --> 01:19:53,519
Speaker 8: just be good to people. And so I've kind of, uh,

1395
01:19:54,120 --> 01:19:58,560
Speaker 8: that's really stuck with me. But yeah, I mean I

1396
01:19:58,640 --> 01:20:02,599
Speaker 8: can't really remember much of much else of what teachers told.

1397
01:20:02,520 --> 01:20:04,320
Speaker 1: Me, you know, I guess, like I have two questions

1398
01:20:04,400 --> 01:20:10,439
Speaker 1: to that. Okay, first question, Your high school principal gave

1399
01:20:10,520 --> 01:20:15,600
Speaker 1: you a guitar for your eighteenth birthday? Yes, sir, you

1400
01:20:15,680 --> 01:20:20,439
Speaker 1: had a pretty close relationship with them. Yeah.

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01:20:21,360 --> 01:20:24,160
Speaker 8: So for my junior and senior year of high school,

1402
01:20:24,160 --> 01:20:27,479
Speaker 8: I was teaching myself to play guitar, and I would

1403
01:20:27,520 --> 01:20:32,320
Speaker 8: borrow friends guitars and during Spirit Week I would go

1404
01:20:32,439 --> 01:20:36,679
Speaker 8: around to classrooms and stuff and play guitar and play

1405
01:20:36,760 --> 01:20:39,920
Speaker 8: like covers and stuff to raise money for the said

1406
01:20:40,040 --> 01:20:43,760
Speaker 8: charity of that year. And he knew that I borrowed

1407
01:20:43,840 --> 01:20:46,599
Speaker 8: guitar to be able to do that, and he knew

1408
01:20:46,600 --> 01:20:51,480
Speaker 8: that I was like teaching myself, and so he decided

1409
01:20:51,520 --> 01:20:55,400
Speaker 8: that he he he asked me, you know, he's like,

1410
01:20:55,439 --> 01:20:57,519
Speaker 8: what's a good guitar. I'm gonna get my son a guitar,

1411
01:20:57,680 --> 01:21:01,360
Speaker 8: you know, and like, I'd really like to know your opinion.

1412
01:21:01,439 --> 01:21:04,040
Speaker 8: And I told him, like, a Taylor, you know, do

1413
01:21:04,120 --> 01:21:06,240
Speaker 8: you know much about guitars? Do you know anything about guitars?

1414
01:21:06,320 --> 01:21:08,080
Speaker 1: I don't know a single thing about guitars.

1415
01:21:09,200 --> 01:21:11,840
Speaker 8: Okay, So, like two of the most popular acoustic guitars

1416
01:21:11,880 --> 01:21:15,320
Speaker 8: are Tailors and Martin's, and Tailors have a really nice,

1417
01:21:15,960 --> 01:21:18,479
Speaker 8: bright sound to them. And so I told him that

1418
01:21:18,600 --> 01:21:20,479
Speaker 8: one and he kind of just played it off as

1419
01:21:20,520 --> 01:21:22,880
Speaker 8: if he was getting his son a gift, right, And

1420
01:21:23,040 --> 01:21:27,360
Speaker 8: so one day he he's like, Hey, I got my

1421
01:21:27,439 --> 01:21:29,120
Speaker 8: son this guitar. I'd love to know what you think.

1422
01:21:29,360 --> 01:21:31,200
Speaker 8: Can you check it out? And I was like, yeah, sure,

1423
01:21:31,240 --> 01:21:34,719
Speaker 8: And so he handed me the guitar and I played

1424
01:21:34,720 --> 01:21:36,360
Speaker 8: around on a little bit and I mean it sounded

1425
01:21:37,200 --> 01:21:38,120
Speaker 8: it sounded so good.

1426
01:21:38,479 --> 01:21:40,160
Speaker 5: And he was like, what do you think of that?

1427
01:21:40,960 --> 01:21:42,960
Speaker 8: And I was like, I think he'll like it a lot.

1428
01:21:43,240 --> 01:21:45,320
Speaker 8: It's a really nice guitar. You did a good job.

1429
01:21:45,439 --> 01:21:49,400
Speaker 8: And he he said, well, actually that's.

1430
01:21:49,280 --> 01:21:51,160
Speaker 18: For you, and he.

1431
01:21:53,240 --> 01:21:53,960
Speaker 4: He purchased it.

1432
01:21:54,080 --> 01:21:57,360
Speaker 8: It was either him or him in the administration of

1433
01:21:57,479 --> 01:22:00,439
Speaker 8: the school got together and purchased it. Because they were

1434
01:22:00,479 --> 01:22:03,120
Speaker 8: all standing behind me like filming it on there like

1435
01:22:03,280 --> 01:22:07,280
Speaker 8: iPhone threes or fours or whatever it was at that time,

1436
01:22:07,400 --> 01:22:10,679
Speaker 8: like ten years ago, and it was like a big surprise.

1437
01:22:11,200 --> 01:22:14,519
Speaker 8: And I'm actually looking at the guitar right now. I

1438
01:22:14,600 --> 01:22:18,280
Speaker 8: still have it. But I thought that was really cool.

1439
01:22:18,720 --> 01:22:23,200
Speaker 8: I don't think many people get that experience from teachers

1440
01:22:23,280 --> 01:22:26,600
Speaker 8: or administrators in that school. And you know, he he

1441
01:22:26,760 --> 01:22:28,360
Speaker 8: was a really good guy. I got to shout him out,

1442
01:22:28,439 --> 01:22:32,160
Speaker 8: like Stephen Chamnis. He passed away like two or three

1443
01:22:32,240 --> 01:22:35,760
Speaker 8: years ago, but he really cared, you know, and it

1444
01:22:36,200 --> 01:22:40,320
Speaker 8: made a big impact on me. And yeah, it's the

1445
01:22:40,479 --> 01:22:42,360
Speaker 8: cherished memory and a cherished.

1446
01:22:42,040 --> 01:22:42,720
Speaker 4: Item of mine.

1447
01:22:45,160 --> 01:22:48,479
Speaker 1: Now tell me you say that what was his name

1448
01:22:48,479 --> 01:22:53,160
Speaker 1: against Stephen. Yes, Stephen, what you did? You you you

1449
01:22:53,520 --> 01:22:57,160
Speaker 1: must have called him mister what was his last name? Tamness,

1450
01:22:57,720 --> 01:23:04,160
Speaker 1: mister Chamnis, Yes, sir, mister Chamnas, So, mister Shamnis. He

1451
01:23:04,280 --> 01:23:08,800
Speaker 1: told you to pay forward? Yes, Do you feel as

1452
01:23:08,840 --> 01:23:11,280
Speaker 1: though you have made efforts to pay forward?

1453
01:23:13,800 --> 01:23:19,280
Speaker 8: I definitely feel as if I've made efforts. I to me,

1454
01:23:19,560 --> 01:23:24,960
Speaker 8: like paying it forward would be to eventually buy someone

1455
01:23:25,000 --> 01:23:29,600
Speaker 8: else's guitar or invest in someone else's like dreams in

1456
01:23:29,680 --> 01:23:34,439
Speaker 8: the way that he did for me. Unfortunately, I've had

1457
01:23:34,920 --> 01:23:39,439
Speaker 8: a lot of struggles financially and self admittedly in my

1458
01:23:39,520 --> 01:23:42,720
Speaker 8: early twenties, you know, a lot of that was pure

1459
01:23:42,840 --> 01:23:49,479
Speaker 8: financial irresponsibility, you know, and then pandemic kind of threw

1460
01:23:49,560 --> 01:23:53,040
Speaker 8: everything out of whack. And so I'm working on getting

1461
01:23:53,080 --> 01:23:55,280
Speaker 8: all of that together now so that i can do

1462
01:23:55,360 --> 01:23:58,760
Speaker 8: a better job. But I've always done my best to

1463
01:23:58,920 --> 01:24:02,280
Speaker 8: like live past passionately and just just show love to

1464
01:24:02,360 --> 01:24:07,920
Speaker 8: people in general, like as a as an immediate you know,

1465
01:24:08,640 --> 01:24:11,920
Speaker 8: response to meeting someone. You know, it's like you never

1466
01:24:12,040 --> 01:24:14,280
Speaker 8: know what somebody's going through in life, and you know,

1467
01:24:14,320 --> 01:24:16,639
Speaker 8: if somebody is like in a in a crappy mood

1468
01:24:16,760 --> 01:24:19,240
Speaker 8: and projecting it onto you. That doesn't necessarily mean that

1469
01:24:19,320 --> 01:24:23,640
Speaker 8: it's towards you. You're just unfortunately the one receiving that

1470
01:24:23,840 --> 01:24:26,880
Speaker 8: from them, you know. And it's like I've just done

1471
01:24:26,920 --> 01:24:29,680
Speaker 8: my best to to show love to people and to

1472
01:24:30,479 --> 01:24:32,760
Speaker 8: encourage people and to uh.

1473
01:24:33,240 --> 01:24:37,760
Speaker 1: Just be what I feel is a good person, beautiful

1474
01:24:39,120 --> 01:24:41,400
Speaker 1: well said, thank you, duncan.

1475
01:24:43,200 --> 01:24:44,320
Speaker 8: Thank you very much man?

1476
01:24:46,000 --> 01:24:46,559
Speaker 7: Then uh.

1477
01:24:48,000 --> 01:24:49,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, Doug, real quickly, is.

1478
01:24:49,960 --> 01:24:51,680
Speaker 8: There anything that you'd like to talk about, anything that

1479
01:24:51,720 --> 01:24:53,800
Speaker 8: you have on your mind, like could.

1480
01:24:53,439 --> 01:24:55,560
Speaker 1: Give some one My question for you, is there a

1481
01:24:55,600 --> 01:25:00,320
Speaker 1: particular animal that you are most excited to have on

1482
01:25:00,400 --> 01:25:04,640
Speaker 1: this farm, either to kill their meat or toss it?

1483
01:25:08,800 --> 01:25:08,840
Speaker 9: So?

1484
01:25:11,400 --> 01:25:13,479
Speaker 8: Can I split that into two questions, like a particular

1485
01:25:13,520 --> 01:25:16,920
Speaker 8: animal to like raise for livestock in a particular animal

1486
01:25:17,000 --> 01:25:18,760
Speaker 8: to have like as a as a pet.

1487
01:25:19,560 --> 01:25:20,000
Speaker 1: No, it's just.

1488
01:25:22,560 --> 01:25:23,519
Speaker 8: Just the livestock one.

1489
01:25:23,840 --> 01:25:24,639
Speaker 1: Just a livestock one.

1490
01:25:25,800 --> 01:25:29,920
Speaker 8: Okay, hm hmm.

1491
01:25:33,960 --> 01:25:34,519
Speaker 5: That's tough.

1492
01:25:35,640 --> 01:25:39,360
Speaker 8: I don't necessarily love the idea of of killing animals,

1493
01:25:39,400 --> 01:25:41,240
Speaker 8: but I also am more.

1494
01:25:41,160 --> 01:25:44,559
Speaker 1: Keen to animals, or I mean, I guess you could.

1495
01:25:46,479 --> 01:25:53,600
Speaker 8: Well like so the farm primarily is for uh like paeonies,

1496
01:25:53,880 --> 01:25:58,600
Speaker 8: so like flowers, and so me and my partner have

1497
01:25:59,400 --> 01:26:04,000
Speaker 8: talked about, you know, getting into that business because weddings

1498
01:26:04,640 --> 01:26:08,760
Speaker 8: like those flowers, and they typically sell for anywhere between.

1499
01:26:09,800 --> 01:26:11,519
Speaker 1: Hearing that you say that you want to that you're

1500
01:26:11,600 --> 01:26:12,800
Speaker 1: very excited to kill a chicken.

1501
01:26:13,960 --> 01:26:15,439
Speaker 8: Yes, I'm super excited.

1502
01:26:16,320 --> 01:26:18,720
Speaker 1: Beautiful. Thank you so much for saying anything, DOUNC and

1503
01:26:18,760 --> 01:26:19,519
Speaker 1: I really appreciate it.

1504
01:26:20,600 --> 01:26:21,639
Speaker 8: Hey, thank you so much.

1505
01:26:21,680 --> 01:26:21,840
Speaker 7: Man.

1506
01:26:21,880 --> 01:26:23,360
Speaker 8: You have a blast night you as well.

1507
01:26:26,280 --> 01:26:26,439
Speaker 5: Hello.

1508
01:26:27,840 --> 01:26:36,320
Speaker 19: Hi, how's it going, gek, how's it going? How's it going?

1509
01:26:36,760 --> 01:26:39,080
Speaker 19: How's it going? How's it going? How's it going?

1510
01:26:43,960 --> 01:26:44,200
Speaker 10: You know.

1511
01:26:47,040 --> 01:26:51,200
Speaker 1: It's gone. I'm a gecko on the computer.

1512
01:26:55,040 --> 01:26:58,519
Speaker 4: You are a gecko on the computers? The fact?

1513
01:27:00,520 --> 01:27:03,800
Speaker 1: Is it a fact? Do you do you? Do you

1514
01:27:03,880 --> 01:27:05,920
Speaker 1: believe it is objective reality?

1515
01:27:12,160 --> 01:27:12,360
Speaker 4: Yeah?

1516
01:27:15,720 --> 01:27:15,920
Speaker 14: I do?

1517
01:27:21,080 --> 01:27:27,160
Speaker 1: Thank you. Do you believe that reality is a democracy?

1518
01:27:31,439 --> 01:27:31,599
Speaker 19: Uh?

1519
01:27:32,240 --> 01:27:37,719
Speaker 4: I don't even really understand what that question means.

1520
01:27:38,640 --> 01:27:43,280
Speaker 1: I think what it means is that, like the uh okay,

1521
01:27:43,320 --> 01:27:48,280
Speaker 1: so the acceptance of what is? Do you think that

1522
01:27:48,720 --> 01:27:52,320
Speaker 1: everyone sort of gets to vote on what is? Or

1523
01:27:52,360 --> 01:27:54,560
Speaker 1: do you think everyone in their own mind gets to

1524
01:27:54,800 --> 01:27:56,760
Speaker 1: sort of decide and have their own experience of what

1525
01:27:56,920 --> 01:27:59,240
Speaker 1: is and that there is a difference and that there

1526
01:27:59,400 --> 01:28:05,840
Speaker 1: is a diff definitive reality versus everyone's perception just combined together.

1527
01:28:07,160 --> 01:28:08,800
Speaker 1: What did you want to You had a thing? Do

1528
01:28:08,840 --> 01:28:16,519
Speaker 1: you know what? Lou is your name? Yes, tell me

1529
01:28:16,560 --> 01:28:20,120
Speaker 1: about the thing that you told our dear friends that

1530
01:28:20,160 --> 01:28:21,000
Speaker 1: you wanted to talk about.

1531
01:28:23,160 --> 01:28:25,240
Speaker 4: Yeah, the new calling system.

1532
01:28:25,320 --> 01:28:27,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, questions of reality.

1533
01:28:28,040 --> 01:28:31,479
Speaker 4: I do like that. The new calling system. I yeah,

1534
01:28:31,520 --> 01:28:34,719
Speaker 4: I told them about the first time I got arrested.

1535
01:28:36,800 --> 01:28:38,920
Speaker 4: Should just get into it, to just get get right

1536
01:28:38,960 --> 01:28:39,280
Speaker 4: into it.

1537
01:28:41,280 --> 01:28:44,519
Speaker 1: I feel like we've already gotten into it, depending on

1538
01:28:44,600 --> 01:28:45,000
Speaker 1: what it is.

1539
01:28:45,000 --> 01:28:52,599
Speaker 4: All right, Okay, So I was a freshman in college

1540
01:28:52,960 --> 01:28:58,400
Speaker 4: and I was tailgating a football game. We're out there

1541
01:28:59,240 --> 01:29:02,559
Speaker 4: having a good time, hanging out, drinking some beers and whatnot,

1542
01:29:02,720 --> 01:29:06,120
Speaker 4: and then games about to start. We're heading home. We

1543
01:29:06,200 --> 01:29:11,799
Speaker 4: see the team walking into the stadium, and for whatever reason,

1544
01:29:11,920 --> 01:29:15,960
Speaker 4: I decided I was gonna follow them and go walk

1545
01:29:16,080 --> 01:29:19,160
Speaker 4: on to the field with them. And somehow I successfully

1546
01:29:19,320 --> 01:29:22,840
Speaker 4: managed to get through the tunnel and walk through with

1547
01:29:23,040 --> 01:29:25,519
Speaker 4: the team. I walked all the way around the field

1548
01:29:25,520 --> 01:29:28,679
Speaker 4: and I was hanging out for like ten fifteen minutes,

1549
01:29:28,760 --> 01:29:32,200
Speaker 4: maybe handing them waters and whatnot. I took a video

1550
01:29:32,280 --> 01:29:34,920
Speaker 4: of myself down there and then put a hand on

1551
01:29:35,000 --> 01:29:38,679
Speaker 4: my shoulder, got dragged out, gave me a good old

1552
01:29:38,800 --> 01:29:43,160
Speaker 4: sobriety test. There's a group of like eighth graders, there's

1553
01:29:43,240 --> 01:29:46,640
Speaker 4: some some somewhere in that age range watching me, and

1554
01:29:46,720 --> 01:29:50,559
Speaker 4: I just felt so disappointed at that moment. And then

1555
01:29:50,600 --> 01:29:53,000
Speaker 4: I get thrown on a bench. Look up and one

1556
01:29:53,040 --> 01:29:55,200
Speaker 4: of my friends so I was hanging out with earlier,

1557
01:29:56,000 --> 01:29:59,519
Speaker 4: also was arrested at the same time, completely different thing.

1558
01:29:59,600 --> 01:30:01,880
Speaker 4: And then we spent the night in jail together, and

1559
01:30:02,000 --> 01:30:04,600
Speaker 4: it was quite an experience.

1560
01:30:07,120 --> 01:30:08,320
Speaker 1: Would you ever go back to jail?

1561
01:30:11,040 --> 01:30:13,320
Speaker 4: I did go back to jail, but I do not

1562
01:30:13,479 --> 01:30:17,120
Speaker 4: plan on going back any more. Times. I've been to

1563
01:30:17,240 --> 01:30:19,799
Speaker 4: jail enough for a lifetime.

1564
01:30:21,000 --> 01:30:22,400
Speaker 1: Tell me about the second time you went to jail.

1565
01:30:26,080 --> 01:30:29,479
Speaker 4: The times not as on that. When I was just

1566
01:30:29,800 --> 01:30:33,000
Speaker 4: we were just having a party, had some jungle juice.

1567
01:30:33,040 --> 01:30:36,320
Speaker 4: We decided that we were going to go to McDonald's

1568
01:30:36,320 --> 01:30:41,000
Speaker 4: at like four am, and so I grabbed one of

1569
01:30:41,080 --> 01:30:44,200
Speaker 4: my roommate's keys. We and me and a bunch of

1570
01:30:44,320 --> 01:30:46,800
Speaker 4: dudes packed up in the car, started driving around and

1571
01:30:46,960 --> 01:30:50,120
Speaker 4: they drove around for a little bit on some third roads.

1572
01:30:50,160 --> 01:30:53,960
Speaker 4: We're going really fast, and we finally bombed up. Started

1573
01:30:54,040 --> 01:30:57,040
Speaker 4: driving to McDonald's and then I cop pulled this over

1574
01:30:57,120 --> 01:31:00,400
Speaker 4: and then I got arrested for that, which that one

1575
01:31:00,520 --> 01:31:01,240
Speaker 4: just kind of sucks.

1576
01:31:01,360 --> 01:31:12,920
Speaker 1: But did you experience anything in the joint that changed you?

1577
01:31:17,439 --> 01:31:21,519
Speaker 4: In the joint? Kind of You meet a lot of

1578
01:31:21,600 --> 01:31:24,800
Speaker 4: interesting people in there, because well, at least the way

1579
01:31:24,800 --> 01:31:27,120
Speaker 4: they did it where I got arrested, we all just

1580
01:31:27,200 --> 01:31:31,200
Speaker 4: kind of got put in one cell together and had

1581
01:31:31,240 --> 01:31:33,560
Speaker 4: to wait for the nights. You meet a lot of

1582
01:31:33,640 --> 01:31:36,360
Speaker 4: interesting people like that. I met a guy. There's some

1583
01:31:36,439 --> 01:31:39,000
Speaker 4: few people who are like regulars at the tail and

1584
01:31:39,080 --> 01:31:41,960
Speaker 4: this is something that I've found other people I know

1585
01:31:42,000 --> 01:31:45,920
Speaker 4: who've gotten arrested have also experienced, and that those those

1586
01:31:45,960 --> 01:31:51,360
Speaker 4: people are quite interesting and give you a good change

1587
01:31:51,400 --> 01:31:52,800
Speaker 4: of perspective on life.

1588
01:31:54,080 --> 01:31:56,839
Speaker 1: Tell me about any one of these people in particular

1589
01:31:56,920 --> 01:31:58,720
Speaker 1: that you met and what Liza that told you that

1590
01:31:59,000 --> 01:31:59,839
Speaker 1: changed your perspective.

1591
01:32:04,960 --> 01:32:08,360
Speaker 4: One of the guys who's in there got He claimed

1592
01:32:08,439 --> 01:32:12,000
Speaker 4: that he got hit by a train and something like that,

1593
01:32:12,439 --> 01:32:16,760
Speaker 4: and I don't know, I don't know what the whole

1594
01:32:17,240 --> 01:32:22,719
Speaker 4: deal was with that, but it's just interesting to see

1595
01:32:22,800 --> 01:32:26,040
Speaker 4: how like why they how do you keep ending up

1596
01:32:26,080 --> 01:32:30,120
Speaker 4: in jail? You know, like what what forces are at

1597
01:32:30,160 --> 01:32:42,400
Speaker 4: play that causes someone to do that, but I also did.

1598
01:32:42,479 --> 01:32:44,840
Speaker 4: That's why why don't I understand that? I don't know.

1599
01:32:46,040 --> 01:32:49,280
Speaker 4: Maybe that's something I should go talk to a therapist about.

1600
01:32:52,240 --> 01:32:53,720
Speaker 1: If you were to go to jail third time, what

1601
01:32:53,760 --> 01:32:54,519
Speaker 1: do you think it would be for?

1602
01:33:01,439 --> 01:33:06,840
Speaker 4: It would have to be something. It would be something big,

1603
01:33:07,040 --> 01:33:11,519
Speaker 4: like money laundering, or it'd have to be really worth

1604
01:33:11,560 --> 01:33:15,639
Speaker 4: it to go to jail for a third time. Maybe,

1605
01:33:15,760 --> 01:33:19,400
Speaker 4: Like I've always liked mob movies and stuff. If I

1606
01:33:19,400 --> 01:33:21,519
Speaker 4: could be in the mob, that would be that'd be cool.

1607
01:33:23,479 --> 01:33:24,760
Speaker 1: What do you think you would do for the mob?

1608
01:33:30,600 --> 01:33:34,760
Speaker 4: Shake guys down, you know, burn down buildings for insurance money,

1609
01:33:39,560 --> 01:33:42,840
Speaker 4: the sort of mob stuff. Maybe on a strip club?

1610
01:33:44,680 --> 01:33:45,760
Speaker 1: Would you cook for the mob?

1611
01:33:50,520 --> 01:33:53,240
Speaker 4: If I had, I maybe own a restaurant the mob

1612
01:33:53,320 --> 01:33:55,640
Speaker 4: would let the mob to hang out in, But personally

1613
01:33:55,840 --> 01:33:59,400
Speaker 4: I would not. I would not like cooking for the mob.

1614
01:33:59,840 --> 01:34:02,880
Speaker 4: I I did. I did work as a coke once.

1615
01:34:02,920 --> 01:34:06,360
Speaker 4: It was just I liked it, but it was not

1616
01:34:06,720 --> 01:34:10,040
Speaker 4: It was not something I could do long term, especially

1617
01:34:10,160 --> 01:34:15,080
Speaker 4: for mob people, because then you know that they got

1618
01:34:15,240 --> 01:34:18,040
Speaker 4: they got high standards, and if you don't live up

1619
01:34:18,080 --> 01:34:20,720
Speaker 4: to that time, that's not It's not good for you.

1620
01:34:21,920 --> 01:34:30,240
Speaker 1: Do you think the mob would like you? No, I

1621
01:34:30,280 --> 01:34:30,560
Speaker 1: don't know.

1622
01:34:30,720 --> 01:34:35,320
Speaker 4: That's that's that's for the mob. Maybe, I don't know.

1623
01:34:40,000 --> 01:34:42,880
Speaker 4: Depends on if I things go well for me, if

1624
01:34:42,960 --> 01:34:44,960
Speaker 4: I if I was doing a good job, or if

1625
01:34:45,000 --> 01:34:47,479
Speaker 4: I blew it on my first job, and maybe they

1626
01:34:47,520 --> 01:34:48,599
Speaker 4: wouldn't like me so much.

1627
01:34:51,400 --> 01:34:51,880
Speaker 1: I like you.

1628
01:34:55,280 --> 01:35:02,280
Speaker 4: I like you too, GEK, thank you. I wonder I

1629
01:35:02,400 --> 01:35:05,479
Speaker 4: wonder if those those people have been I'm still thinking

1630
01:35:05,520 --> 01:35:09,720
Speaker 4: about those those two married couples. Did that did that

1631
01:35:09,880 --> 01:35:15,519
Speaker 4: thing or not? I hope they called back. Sorry to

1632
01:35:15,640 --> 01:35:20,640
Speaker 4: change the subjects. That just popped into my mind. Is

1633
01:35:20,680 --> 01:35:29,759
Speaker 4: this just am I cutting out? He was quiet? What? Okay?

1634
01:35:30,080 --> 01:35:32,680
Speaker 4: I didn't know if my phone was cutting out? If

1635
01:35:32,680 --> 01:35:34,679
Speaker 4: we were just we were just quiet.

1636
01:35:37,240 --> 01:35:38,720
Speaker 1: Would you kill someone for the mob?

1637
01:35:44,560 --> 01:35:46,840
Speaker 4: Yeah? Probably if they paid me off, not not if

1638
01:35:46,880 --> 01:35:49,120
Speaker 4: it was just like if it was like another mob

1639
01:35:49,240 --> 01:35:53,519
Speaker 4: guy who like killed someone in my mob group, then

1640
01:35:53,560 --> 01:35:55,160
Speaker 4: I would I would kill that guy. But if it

1641
01:35:55,240 --> 01:35:58,120
Speaker 4: was just like, hey, this guy didn't pass money, you

1642
01:35:58,200 --> 01:35:58,840
Speaker 4: should kill him.

1643
01:35:58,840 --> 01:36:00,559
Speaker 20: I don't know if I would do that, but then

1644
01:36:02,680 --> 01:36:05,920
Speaker 20: they might kill me, so maybe I would. The mob

1645
01:36:06,040 --> 01:36:08,040
Speaker 20: might kill me if I didn't kill that person. You know,

1646
01:36:08,240 --> 01:36:10,880
Speaker 20: maybe if I was, if I was in that deep,

1647
01:36:10,960 --> 01:36:12,560
Speaker 20: then maybe I would I would have to do that.

1648
01:36:13,680 --> 01:36:16,040
Speaker 1: What about for one hundred thousand dollars.

1649
01:36:19,080 --> 01:36:25,760
Speaker 4: Mm hmm, Yeah, probably if I was in the MOB,

1650
01:36:25,840 --> 01:36:28,320
Speaker 4: I'd probably I would probably be I'd probably do that.

1651
01:36:31,960 --> 01:36:35,080
Speaker 4: They probably pay less people, they'd probably pay people less.

1652
01:36:36,840 --> 01:36:42,120
Speaker 4: I feel I think that would be a good on

1653
01:36:42,240 --> 01:36:48,479
Speaker 4: the high end of pay for a job like that. Well,

1654
01:36:48,520 --> 01:36:54,720
Speaker 4: thank you so much, MOB, Thank thanks for having me.

1655
01:36:54,840 --> 01:36:57,599
Speaker 1: Kay, of course, I hope you have a good rest

1656
01:36:57,600 --> 01:36:57,920
Speaker 1: of the night.

1657
01:36:59,640 --> 01:37:00,960
Speaker 4: HM as usual.

1658
01:37:02,000 --> 01:37:07,599
Speaker 14: Hey, hey, I want your opinion on something. Oh sure,

1659
01:37:10,360 --> 01:37:14,320
Speaker 14: So I background, I'm eighteen, right, I'm a senior high

1660
01:37:14,320 --> 01:37:18,439
Speaker 14: school and obviously this year's a little messed up because

1661
01:37:18,439 --> 01:37:28,000
Speaker 14: of COVID, and they decided to change up homecoming. And

1662
01:37:28,360 --> 01:37:31,519
Speaker 14: what they decided to do is instead of have it

1663
01:37:31,760 --> 01:37:34,360
Speaker 14: in the gym like they usually do, we have a

1664
01:37:34,400 --> 01:37:37,360
Speaker 14: pretty big gym, so it's not like that crowded. They

1665
01:37:37,520 --> 01:37:41,840
Speaker 14: decided to have us have it have it be a

1666
01:37:41,920 --> 01:37:46,000
Speaker 14: formal event, so like suit and kai event, but we

1667
01:37:46,400 --> 01:37:50,000
Speaker 14: are going to our local zoo to do it outside

1668
01:37:50,080 --> 01:37:51,200
Speaker 14: their rain or shine.

1669
01:37:53,600 --> 01:37:54,840
Speaker 1: You're having homecoming at the zoo.

1670
01:37:57,000 --> 01:38:03,439
Speaker 14: Yeah, Homecoming at the zoo okay, and I recently changed

1671
01:38:03,479 --> 01:38:07,200
Speaker 14: my mind about it. I was like, at first, I

1672
01:38:07,360 --> 01:38:09,000
Speaker 14: was like, I think this is a lot of other

1673
01:38:09,080 --> 01:38:12,519
Speaker 14: people who were in my grade as well. It was

1674
01:38:12,600 --> 01:38:15,439
Speaker 14: just like, oh, like hell, now, like that's so stupid,

1675
01:38:15,600 --> 01:38:18,960
Speaker 14: that's like what are they doing? What are they thinking?

1676
01:38:20,000 --> 01:38:22,160
Speaker 14: But now I'm kind of like.

1677
01:38:22,840 --> 01:38:31,639
Speaker 1: See what's your name again, Grant? Grant? Here's my fear

1678
01:38:32,280 --> 01:38:35,040
Speaker 1: for you? Do you have a date? You have a

1679
01:38:35,120 --> 01:38:35,720
Speaker 1: date to home coming?

1680
01:38:38,000 --> 01:38:38,760
Speaker 4: I do not know.

1681
01:38:39,479 --> 01:38:39,920
Speaker 12: M hmm.

1682
01:38:40,640 --> 01:38:43,840
Speaker 1: Here's my fear for you is, let's say I don't know.

1683
01:38:43,920 --> 01:38:45,479
Speaker 1: Maybe maybe there's a girl you have a crush on,

1684
01:38:46,520 --> 01:38:51,040
Speaker 1: and you're you're and you go and you ask her

1685
01:38:51,080 --> 01:38:56,240
Speaker 1: out Tom coming out the zoo and and she says,

1686
01:38:56,240 --> 01:39:00,479
Speaker 1: you know what, you seem like a sweet guy. Grant Grant?

1687
01:39:00,800 --> 01:39:04,120
Speaker 4: Right, Yeah, g r A n T.

1688
01:39:04,600 --> 01:39:06,400
Speaker 1: Grant. He said you seemed like a sweet guy. G

1689
01:39:06,560 --> 01:39:09,519
Speaker 1: r A n T. Why not? What the hell?

1690
01:39:10,320 --> 01:39:10,439
Speaker 4: You know?

1691
01:39:10,600 --> 01:39:13,920
Speaker 1: Nobody else asked me. I'll go with you, sure, I

1692
01:39:14,040 --> 01:39:15,080
Speaker 1: might have a good time. I'll try to have a

1693
01:39:15,120 --> 01:39:19,439
Speaker 1: good time. You guys get there. Yeah, And on site,

1694
01:39:20,920 --> 01:39:35,400
Speaker 1: she locks eyes with a cheetah with chisels abs in

1695
01:39:35,479 --> 01:39:41,000
Speaker 1: a high level of charisma, speed, athleticism, a degree to

1696
01:39:41,080 --> 01:39:45,760
Speaker 1: which he literally physically could not match. And she goes,

1697
01:39:46,320 --> 01:39:51,080
Speaker 1: She turns to Grant, she says, hold on my minute,

1698
01:39:51,080 --> 01:39:55,720
Speaker 1: I gotta I gotta go to the bathroom. And then

1699
01:39:56,360 --> 01:39:59,800
Speaker 1: you know, half an hour passes something like that. You're like,

1700
01:40:00,200 --> 01:40:06,040
Speaker 1: where the hell dos you go? And then, uh, you

1701
01:40:06,120 --> 01:40:12,080
Speaker 1: know you maybe you go outside to smoke a cigarette.

1702
01:40:12,080 --> 01:40:15,240
Speaker 1: I don't know, you're eighteen, you can do that outside.

1703
01:40:15,280 --> 01:40:24,000
Speaker 1: And you see her making out heavily with this cheetah,

1704
01:40:24,840 --> 01:40:27,519
Speaker 1: which is by the way, not only I mean because

1705
01:40:27,520 --> 01:40:30,000
Speaker 1: that's that's not only a sort of a physical attraction,

1706
01:40:30,080 --> 01:40:32,880
Speaker 1: that's a very emotional attraction too, because to make out

1707
01:40:32,920 --> 01:40:39,639
Speaker 1: with the cheetah requires a deep level of trust, because

1708
01:40:39,680 --> 01:40:44,240
Speaker 1: the cheetah could easily, you know, bite her face and

1709
01:40:44,320 --> 01:40:48,519
Speaker 1: rip it off, or a deep or a deep level

1710
01:40:48,560 --> 01:40:51,240
Speaker 1: of lust. Maybe maybe she's so attractive to the cheetah

1711
01:40:51,280 --> 01:40:57,000
Speaker 1: that that she's willing to risk it. And you feel

1712
01:40:57,040 --> 01:40:58,800
Speaker 1: heartbroken because you look at that, and you go, will

1713
01:40:58,840 --> 01:41:03,760
Speaker 1: anyone ever trust me the way that the way that

1714
01:41:03,840 --> 01:41:04,679
Speaker 1: she trust that cheetah.

1715
01:41:08,920 --> 01:41:14,640
Speaker 14: I think that is a valid fear. I like, like,

1716
01:41:14,920 --> 01:41:17,439
Speaker 14: I know, I can't run with it, like sixty five

1717
01:41:17,479 --> 01:41:18,599
Speaker 14: miles an hour, cheating.

1718
01:41:18,439 --> 01:41:20,439
Speaker 4: Torn or something like that.

1719
01:41:20,920 --> 01:41:23,679
Speaker 1: Bring it up to the principal. Tell them everything I said,

1720
01:41:24,320 --> 01:41:27,519
Speaker 1: because look, there's gonna be a lot of broken hearts

1721
01:41:27,520 --> 01:41:37,439
Speaker 1: that night. Yeah, you know, human people are just not

1722
01:41:37,520 --> 01:41:38,360
Speaker 1: as sexy as.

1723
01:41:40,280 --> 01:41:40,479
Speaker 4: You know.

1724
01:41:42,120 --> 01:41:43,759
Speaker 1: Cheetahs, jeesus.

1725
01:41:47,960 --> 01:41:53,799
Speaker 14: If I'm being honest, I prefer I'll prefer another animal

1726
01:41:54,000 --> 01:41:56,640
Speaker 14: other than the cheetah. I don't know what animal that

1727
01:41:56,840 --> 01:42:00,360
Speaker 14: is yet, but I know it's had to do. And

1728
01:42:00,479 --> 01:42:05,040
Speaker 14: my my initial my initial thought is monkeys.

1729
01:42:06,960 --> 01:42:09,160
Speaker 1: Well, Grant, I thought that's something you should talk about

1730
01:42:09,200 --> 01:42:09,800
Speaker 1: in real therapy.

1731
01:42:12,720 --> 01:42:15,320
Speaker 14: H That's probably right because you're not a therapist.

1732
01:42:16,800 --> 01:42:18,280
Speaker 1: But thank you very much for calling. And I hope

1733
01:42:18,320 --> 01:42:19,400
Speaker 1: you have a wonder for us of the night.

1734
01:42:21,000 --> 01:42:22,599
Speaker 14: Thank you, thank you for listening. I hope I hope

1735
01:42:22,600 --> 01:42:23,320
Speaker 14: you have a great night too.

1736
01:42:23,360 --> 01:42:27,000
Speaker 1: While thank you, grand I know when that hot line

1737
01:42:27,040 --> 01:42:30,080
Speaker 1: ghak that it cannot.

1738
01:42:33,160 --> 01:42:33,360
Speaker 6: Hello.

1739
01:42:34,360 --> 01:42:38,559
Speaker 1: I know when the hot line it can only mean

1740
01:42:38,640 --> 01:42:41,080
Speaker 1: one thing. Did what rhymes with ghak.

1741
01:42:43,479 --> 01:42:47,200
Speaker 16: Uh mech deck shrek?

1742
01:42:51,560 --> 01:42:51,720
Speaker 8: Hello?

1743
01:42:54,240 --> 01:43:01,000
Speaker 1: So spec speck rhymes with ghak about Shrek Dick doesn't

1744
01:43:01,040 --> 01:43:04,200
Speaker 1: rhyme with dick. Shrek rhymes with ghek. But it wouldn't work,

1745
01:43:04,520 --> 01:43:06,120
Speaker 1: I know in the hotline.

1746
01:43:05,720 --> 01:43:11,200
Speaker 16: GEK, I yeah, that goes pretty well.

1747
01:43:11,960 --> 01:43:15,519
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know what who That's the real question I

1748
01:43:15,560 --> 01:43:17,479
Speaker 1: want to know is is you know I want to

1749
01:43:17,520 --> 01:43:20,479
Speaker 1: know from you like who cares about anything ever in life?

1750
01:43:20,560 --> 01:43:20,720
Speaker 12: You know?

1751
01:43:21,439 --> 01:43:22,479
Speaker 1: That's what I want to know from you.

1752
01:43:23,439 --> 01:43:28,760
Speaker 16: I mean, I mean, it depends what your priorities are.

1753
01:43:28,840 --> 01:43:32,240
Speaker 16: I guess because I guess something's really important to you,

1754
01:43:32,400 --> 01:43:33,439
Speaker 16: then you could.

1755
01:43:33,280 --> 01:43:33,720
Speaker 3: Care for you.

1756
01:43:33,760 --> 01:43:38,240
Speaker 1: You know, you told one of my two fine, shout

1757
01:43:38,240 --> 01:43:39,880
Speaker 1: out real by the way, I even shout out real quick,

1758
01:43:39,880 --> 01:43:41,320
Speaker 1: becase I don't know if I've given the shout out yet,

1759
01:43:41,320 --> 01:43:45,200
Speaker 1: but shout out to K. Lizard and Tim shuts the door.

1760
01:43:46,600 --> 01:43:49,519
Speaker 1: They've been screening the phone calls tonight doing a wonderful job.

1761
01:43:50,080 --> 01:43:51,920
Speaker 1: Shout out to them. Shout out to them. You told.

1762
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Speaker 1: I don't know which one you talked to, but you

1763
01:43:53,240 --> 01:43:58,160
Speaker 1: told one of them that you need you are. You're

1764
01:43:58,160 --> 01:44:02,840
Speaker 1: a college man, you're educated, you're young, you're bright, your spry.

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01:44:03,000 --> 01:44:05,479
Speaker 1: Your brain is enormous.

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Speaker 16: I mean, i'd say my brain could be a little

1767
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Speaker 16: smooth at times. I mean it has its ridges, but

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Speaker 16: uh yeah, man, I'm going to college. It's going to

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01:44:19,360 --> 01:44:21,160
Speaker 16: be a pretty interesting experience.

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Speaker 17: Mm hmm.

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Speaker 1: Okay, what's are you gonna?

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01:44:27,320 --> 01:44:27,439
Speaker 20: Uh?

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01:44:29,600 --> 01:44:30,000
Speaker 6: Have you ever?

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01:44:30,520 --> 01:44:30,560
Speaker 12: What?

1775
01:44:32,040 --> 01:44:32,160
Speaker 10: Uh?

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01:44:33,640 --> 01:44:36,080
Speaker 1: Let me ask you something, I mean deep down really

1777
01:44:36,280 --> 01:44:37,920
Speaker 1: like what you called in right?

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01:44:40,000 --> 01:44:40,400
Speaker 3: Mm hmm?

1779
01:44:41,280 --> 01:44:41,320
Speaker 17: What?

1780
01:44:41,640 --> 01:44:41,800
Speaker 1: How?

1781
01:44:42,320 --> 01:44:42,840
Speaker 10: What do you do?

1782
01:44:42,920 --> 01:44:45,680
Speaker 1: You want something? Out of the What can I? What

1783
01:44:45,800 --> 01:44:46,960
Speaker 1: can I do for you? That's why?

1784
01:44:47,080 --> 01:44:47,479
Speaker 10: What can I?

1785
01:44:47,720 --> 01:44:48,640
Speaker 1: What can I do for you?

1786
01:44:49,200 --> 01:44:49,600
Speaker 10: What can I?

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01:44:49,920 --> 01:44:53,120
Speaker 1: What can a guy on the computer? What can I

1788
01:44:53,600 --> 01:44:56,720
Speaker 1: of the limited sort of resources that we have, of

1789
01:44:56,840 --> 01:45:01,160
Speaker 1: my limited you know, at personal education and life experience

1790
01:45:01,680 --> 01:45:04,000
Speaker 1: and the fact that we're a digital medium medium, I mean,

1791
01:45:04,120 --> 01:45:07,479
Speaker 1: just with what we've got, the situation we're in. How

1792
01:45:07,760 --> 01:45:08,800
Speaker 1: what can I do for you?

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01:45:11,360 --> 01:45:11,559
Speaker 17: Hmm?

1794
01:45:12,439 --> 01:45:15,080
Speaker 16: I mean you're a get go. I'm a geck and

1795
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Speaker 16: I get goo knows how to survive, and I'm trying

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01:45:18,160 --> 01:45:20,000
Speaker 16: to survive in college, but I know.

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Speaker 1: How to survive to the age that I am. I'm

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01:45:22,160 --> 01:45:24,360
Speaker 1: sorry you were going you did exactly what I was

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01:45:24,400 --> 01:45:25,920
Speaker 1: trying to get you to do, and then I completely

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01:45:25,960 --> 01:45:27,160
Speaker 1: interrupted you. What were you saying?

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01:45:29,439 --> 01:45:29,559
Speaker 10: Uh?

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01:45:29,880 --> 01:45:32,839
Speaker 16: You know, I just need survival tips from the survivor

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01:45:32,880 --> 01:45:35,200
Speaker 16: man himself, the get go You.

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01:45:35,280 --> 01:45:37,439
Speaker 1: Need survival tips. Okay, what are you trying to survive?

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01:45:40,080 --> 01:45:43,839
Speaker 16: I mean, you know, I'm now a broke college students,

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01:45:44,560 --> 01:45:47,760
Speaker 16: so you know I need a survive you know, how

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01:45:47,800 --> 01:45:48,439
Speaker 16: to get food?

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01:45:49,040 --> 01:45:49,200
Speaker 4: You know?

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01:45:49,640 --> 01:45:52,519
Speaker 16: I just no, I just I feel like a rat

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01:45:52,560 --> 01:45:54,360
Speaker 16: scavenging for parts.

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Speaker 1: You mean literally survive.

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01:45:58,960 --> 01:46:01,800
Speaker 16: Yes, or just metaphorically as well.

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01:46:01,880 --> 01:46:05,960
Speaker 1: You know, whether it's mental I mean metaphorically or literally?

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Speaker 4: You know?

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01:46:06,320 --> 01:46:11,439
Speaker 1: Are you are you actually struggling to find food every day?

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01:46:12,720 --> 01:46:12,880
Speaker 6: Oh?

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01:46:13,800 --> 01:46:14,519
Speaker 8: Not every day?

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Speaker 16: I mean it could be occasional, but it depends how

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01:46:17,200 --> 01:46:19,559
Speaker 16: much I have in my wealthy you know, what are

1820
01:46:19,560 --> 01:46:23,759
Speaker 16: you going to school for mechanical engineering?

1821
01:46:24,680 --> 01:46:25,599
Speaker 12: Okay? Engineering?

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01:46:31,040 --> 01:46:36,120
Speaker 1: Well, here's the thing, and I went to school for film,

1823
01:46:37,160 --> 01:46:41,920
Speaker 1: so mentally surviving going through film school super easy, like

1824
01:46:42,000 --> 01:46:45,960
Speaker 1: way easier than mechanical engineering, So you could do that.

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01:46:46,040 --> 01:46:50,920
Speaker 1: I mean, here's the thing. Is you chose, uh, I

1826
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Speaker 1: assume for good reasons. I don't know the reasons why

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01:46:53,640 --> 01:46:55,880
Speaker 1: you choose, Why you choose to do the things that

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01:46:55,920 --> 01:46:58,559
Speaker 1: you do in your life, because I don't. I mean,

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01:46:58,560 --> 01:46:59,800
Speaker 1: you can always tell me, but as of right now,

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Speaker 1: I no, you chose to do something really hard mechanical engineering.

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01:47:04,680 --> 01:47:07,120
Speaker 1: I'd never do that's too hard, but you chose to

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Speaker 1: do it. Why did you choose to do it.

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Speaker 16: So I like taking things apart and I like putting

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Speaker 16: them back together in new ways, whether it's cars or bikes, anything.

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Speaker 1: Really, that's a wonderful reason. That's a wonderful reason. Okay, great.

1836
01:47:22,560 --> 01:47:25,920
Speaker 1: So you have chosen to do something because you like

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Speaker 1: doing it, and you've made that intentional choice, and you

1838
01:47:28,680 --> 01:47:32,200
Speaker 1: seem as though the choice, even though it leaves you

1839
01:47:32,280 --> 01:47:38,439
Speaker 1: in a state of struggle, was being made for intentional reasons.

1840
01:47:38,479 --> 01:47:41,120
Speaker 1: Your struggleing. No, I'm dead serious right now, your struggle

1841
01:47:41,240 --> 01:47:44,120
Speaker 1: is intentional. That's the most important part.

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Speaker 16: Uh, I guess that's true. Yeah, it was made out

1843
01:47:48,000 --> 01:47:49,799
Speaker 16: of my own decisions exactly.

1844
01:47:50,280 --> 01:47:54,520
Speaker 1: That's the most important part. I think your struggles intentional.

1845
01:47:54,800 --> 01:47:59,320
Speaker 1: You chose to go to school for mechanical engineering and

1846
01:47:59,400 --> 01:48:02,439
Speaker 1: suffer because because it was important to you. You know,

1847
01:48:03,360 --> 01:48:05,960
Speaker 1: sufferings inherent, I think, and uh, you know, we get

1848
01:48:06,000 --> 01:48:08,400
Speaker 1: to choose how we suffer sometimes if you're lucky.

1849
01:48:11,200 --> 01:48:11,599
Speaker 4: That's right.

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Speaker 16: Why did you choose film? Was it easier or did

1851
01:48:14,760 --> 01:48:15,680
Speaker 16: you have a passion in it?

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01:48:16,880 --> 01:48:19,439
Speaker 1: Why did I choose film? I think I don't know.

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01:48:19,600 --> 01:48:21,040
Speaker 1: That was just sort of if I went to college

1854
01:48:21,080 --> 01:48:22,680
Speaker 1: because it just felt like the next thing to do.

1855
01:48:24,840 --> 01:48:34,719
Speaker 1: But now an internet gecko guy. But enough about me. Okay, well, okay,

1856
01:48:34,880 --> 01:48:36,320
Speaker 1: did you eat? What did you eat today? What did

1857
01:48:36,360 --> 01:48:36,880
Speaker 1: you eat today?

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01:48:39,120 --> 01:48:42,040
Speaker 16: I'm gonna be straight up. I had two pieces of

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01:48:42,120 --> 01:48:45,600
Speaker 16: bread and then I put ham in the middle, and

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01:48:45,680 --> 01:48:49,040
Speaker 16: then I got another piece of bread, put cream cheese

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Speaker 16: strawberry cream cheese in there, and then I had some

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Speaker 16: flam I mean I got it off the safeway.

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01:48:55,080 --> 01:48:59,519
Speaker 1: But you know, some flam it stelling me right there. Yeah,

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01:48:59,640 --> 01:49:01,880
Speaker 1: flam like like the cake flan.

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Speaker 16: I mean, I wouldn't consider it a cake. It's more

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01:49:06,920 --> 01:49:07,680
Speaker 16: like gelatinous.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Okay, look, dude, you're by the way, you don't

1868
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Speaker 1: have to be a shamed when you're talking to me

1869
01:49:13,200 --> 01:49:17,360
Speaker 1: about this kind of shit I eat. I'll just I had,

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Speaker 1: Actually I had a kind of similar.

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Speaker 4: Thing.

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Speaker 1: That's what I ate today. Is I ate two pieces

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01:49:23,960 --> 01:49:26,760
Speaker 1: of bread with ham and like some parmesan cheese on it,

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01:49:26,840 --> 01:49:29,960
Speaker 1: and then I just took another piece of bread, put

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Speaker 1: a piece, put a couple pieces of turkey in it,

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01:49:32,640 --> 01:49:35,160
Speaker 1: sprinkled some mozzarella cheese on it, and then just folded

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Speaker 1: it and ate it. And the dishes. It was like

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01:49:38,000 --> 01:49:42,880
Speaker 1: a sandwich and a half, all right, so you can

1879
01:49:43,040 --> 01:49:46,439
Speaker 1: afford bread, you can afford multiple pieces of bread.

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01:49:48,600 --> 01:49:51,720
Speaker 16: Yes, substance, well, temporary substance.

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01:49:52,360 --> 01:49:59,120
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, all substance is temporary. There's no such thing

1882
01:49:59,160 --> 01:50:00,479
Speaker 1: as permanent food.

1883
01:50:03,280 --> 01:50:06,160
Speaker 16: Unless you're a plant. Well no, no, never mind, I

1884
01:50:06,240 --> 01:50:06,760
Speaker 16: take that back.

1885
01:50:09,080 --> 01:50:11,479
Speaker 1: That would be very cost efficient though permanent food.

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01:50:14,200 --> 01:50:14,640
Speaker 5: It would be.

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01:50:15,000 --> 01:50:17,040
Speaker 16: Then you wouldn't have to worry about food.

1888
01:50:17,760 --> 01:50:17,920
Speaker 5: Yeah.

1889
01:50:18,040 --> 01:50:20,640
Speaker 1: Imagine if you could just eat a sandwich permanently.

1890
01:50:23,439 --> 01:50:25,759
Speaker 16: Man, I feel like you get tired of it really quickly,

1891
01:50:26,400 --> 01:50:30,040
Speaker 16: Like like you'd lose dopening from eating that.

1892
01:50:30,240 --> 01:50:33,599
Speaker 1: Like, I don't know, you wouldn't know. It's the exact opposite.

1893
01:50:33,680 --> 01:50:35,840
Speaker 1: You wouldn't lose you wouldn't get tired of it all

1894
01:50:35,880 --> 01:50:37,120
Speaker 1: because you only have to eat it once.

1895
01:50:39,760 --> 01:50:42,920
Speaker 16: Oh I thought you meant like consistently eating it. Oh okay,

1896
01:50:43,000 --> 01:50:45,559
Speaker 16: never mind. Yeah, so the sandwich would be pretty dope.

1897
01:50:45,640 --> 01:50:45,800
Speaker 6: Yeah.

1898
01:50:48,520 --> 01:50:50,439
Speaker 1: I actually think the opposite is quite tiring, having to

1899
01:50:53,080 --> 01:50:57,400
Speaker 1: scavenge for food all the time.

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01:50:57,920 --> 01:51:00,960
Speaker 16: Yeah, it's like you're a little ratt in the supers,

1901
01:51:01,800 --> 01:51:04,200
Speaker 16: just looking around trying to get what you can.

1902
01:51:05,240 --> 01:51:06,880
Speaker 1: You said you feel like a rat. You told me

1903
01:51:06,920 --> 01:51:17,120
Speaker 1: that earlier, Yeah, I do. Unfortunately, do you think that

1904
01:51:17,200 --> 01:51:18,160
Speaker 1: this will be your life forever.

1905
01:51:21,280 --> 01:51:25,160
Speaker 16: I mean, I actually it's temporary. I mean, life is suffering.

1906
01:51:25,240 --> 01:51:29,560
Speaker 16: But I wouldn't I mean, I wouldn't really put it

1907
01:51:30,240 --> 01:51:32,880
Speaker 16: like to say it's permanent. I mean, this is just

1908
01:51:32,960 --> 01:51:34,120
Speaker 16: going to be four years in my life.

1909
01:51:35,160 --> 01:51:40,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, what look for very intentional.

1910
01:51:42,240 --> 01:51:44,280
Speaker 16: Struggle field, Yes, very intentional years.

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Speaker 1: That's the most part of that. Look, because here's the thing.

1912
01:51:46,880 --> 01:51:49,840
Speaker 1: Here's what you could have done. Is you could have actually,

1913
01:51:49,840 --> 01:51:51,080
Speaker 1: actually I don't know, I don't know what you could

1914
01:51:51,080 --> 01:51:52,479
Speaker 1: have done. I don't really know your life well enough

1915
01:51:52,520 --> 01:51:54,840
Speaker 1: to tell you what you could have done. But I

1916
01:51:54,920 --> 01:51:56,880
Speaker 1: mean I'm sure that maybe I actually I'm not sure.

1917
01:51:56,880 --> 01:51:58,080
Speaker 1: I don't know anything of your life. But you know,

1918
01:51:58,120 --> 01:52:02,080
Speaker 1: you could have pursued more comfortable options prob Maybe I

1919
01:52:02,120 --> 01:52:08,759
Speaker 1: don't know. You could have comfortable options, but you didn't.

1920
01:52:08,840 --> 01:52:11,000
Speaker 1: You chose a harder thing because it was important to you.

1921
01:52:11,280 --> 01:52:15,120
Speaker 1: So look, here's the thing. When you're eating shitty fucking

1922
01:52:15,280 --> 01:52:20,680
Speaker 1: sandwiches and scravenging for food and struggling, uh, let it

1923
01:52:20,960 --> 01:52:24,599
Speaker 1: let it be of some amount of condolence to you. Hopefully,

1924
01:52:24,920 --> 01:52:27,679
Speaker 1: Hopefully this can can get you through when the times

1925
01:52:27,720 --> 01:52:29,680
Speaker 1: are tough, to the to the light at the end

1926
01:52:29,720 --> 01:52:31,720
Speaker 1: of the tunnel in which the times are maybe a

1927
01:52:31,760 --> 01:52:35,000
Speaker 1: little less tough. Is the fact that you chose this struggle,

1928
01:52:35,640 --> 01:52:38,479
Speaker 1: you know, That's the thing. Revel in the autonomy of

1929
01:52:39,520 --> 01:52:50,880
Speaker 1: of the horrible situation that you are in until until, until,

1930
01:52:51,560 --> 01:52:53,200
Speaker 1: until you reach the light at the end of the

1931
01:52:53,240 --> 01:52:57,799
Speaker 1: tunnel where you get to be a mechanical engineer.

1932
01:52:57,880 --> 01:53:02,840
Speaker 16: Man, M exactly, Bro, you know, just four years and

1933
01:53:02,880 --> 01:53:03,960
Speaker 16: then after this I won't have to.

1934
01:53:03,920 --> 01:53:04,439
Speaker 4: Worry about it.

1935
01:53:08,640 --> 01:53:11,000
Speaker 1: Or you have a brand aneurysm, or you get cancer

1936
01:53:11,080 --> 01:53:13,840
Speaker 1: and die, or someone kills you, you get hit by

1937
01:53:13,880 --> 01:53:16,880
Speaker 1: a car. I mean, look, death, this is an ever

1938
01:53:17,040 --> 01:53:25,120
Speaker 1: present thing, you know, so joy enjoy life while it lasts.

1939
01:53:26,040 --> 01:53:29,920
Speaker 16: M hey man, Same for you, Man, you're the guy

1940
01:53:30,040 --> 01:53:30,559
Speaker 16: trick man.

1941
01:53:31,200 --> 01:53:32,880
Speaker 1: Thank you, Man. You have a the rest of the night,

1942
01:53:34,960 --> 01:53:35,280
Speaker 1: you too.

1943
01:53:35,320 --> 01:53:40,559
Speaker 2: Bro goes on the line, taking your phone calls every

1944
01:53:40,680 --> 01:53:45,000
Speaker 2: night ever, teaching your