WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: Serious About South America

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<v Speaker 1>Second dat Date. You know, normally during a second date update,

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<v Speaker 1>we talk about what happened during the date. Today's a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit different though, because Patrick is on the phone.

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<v Speaker 1>He wants to call a girl today that he met

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<v Speaker 1>off of Tender. Apparently they had a great date, but

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<v Speaker 1>it's what happened after everything was done that gets really

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<v Speaker 1>strange for him. Patrick, how are you, hey? Guys? How

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<v Speaker 1>you doing good? Man? So you met this girl on Tender? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I did all right? And your email said that this

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<v Speaker 1>girl was different than other girls that you've met on Tinder.

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<v Speaker 1>Why is that? Well, I don't know if you've been

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<v Speaker 1>on Tender, but this girl is classy, he's educated, she's funny,

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<v Speaker 1>she's smart's great. So it's not so somebody that you

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to hook up with. No, I mean I likes

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<v Speaker 1>her a lot. Actually, did she seem like, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>impressed by you or pleasantly surprised? Well, she said it

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<v Speaker 1>was her first time on Tinder. So you're all right, man,

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<v Speaker 1>let me show you out tender works, come back to

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<v Speaker 1>my place. Did I'd be so nervous if I was

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<v Speaker 1>going out on my first Tinder date? Was she like

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<v Speaker 1>hesitant at all? Well maybe at the start she was,

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<v Speaker 1>but aswer some wine and some more wine and some

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<v Speaker 1>more wine. It always seems to help. Yeah. So your

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<v Speaker 1>email says that you guys had a great time during

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<v Speaker 1>your date and everything went well. But the weird part

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<v Speaker 1>was after the date. What do you mean by yeah? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>there the night, I put her in a cab and

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<v Speaker 1>you know, we had a make passionate kiss, liked bye,

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<v Speaker 1>and then you know, the next day I started getting

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<v Speaker 1>some really bizarre text exchanges with her. I mean, just weird.

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<v Speaker 1>Did she text you first? No? I actually texted her

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<v Speaker 1>and said, hey, I had a fantastic time. Can we

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<v Speaker 1>see each other again? That's super weird? Yeah, crazy? No,

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<v Speaker 1>no here? Oh you know what, let let me bring

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<v Speaker 1>it home? Um here? And then her response after I

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<v Speaker 1>said that was would you go to South America? With me?

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<v Speaker 1>What was she joking? Exactly? So I text back, Lol,

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<v Speaker 1>you're funny, and then she text back I'm serious. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean obviously at the point, You're like, what are

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<v Speaker 1>you talking about? We went on one date and you

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<v Speaker 1>want to go to South America. That's exactly what I said.

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<v Speaker 1>I said, you're not serious, lol. We just had our

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<v Speaker 1>first date. And then I wait a while, and then

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<v Speaker 1>she text back never mind, and I text right back,

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<v Speaker 1>how about we hang out within the country somewhere. Lol.

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<v Speaker 1>I think that's a good response. Yeah, I talked to

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<v Speaker 1>it too, right, So I'm waiting and I'm waiting, and

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<v Speaker 1>the whole day goes by twenty four hours and she

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<v Speaker 1>finally gets back to me, and this is her text.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't see you anymore. You're a real great guy.

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<v Speaker 1>Good luck in the future. What that is? Weird? So

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<v Speaker 1>she asked you to go to South America. You were like,

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<v Speaker 1>are you joking? She said no, I'm serious. And then

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<v Speaker 1>because you wouldn't go, she said, I don't want to

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<v Speaker 1>see you anymore. That's what it seems like. And I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>what's the You know, I texted and a call and

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<v Speaker 1>she won't return any of my calls or texts, So

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, what's the I have no idea. What is

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<v Speaker 1>that the first time you guys talked to I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>like did you know she's going on vacation in South

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<v Speaker 1>America or she's moving that the first time ever? Heuth America?

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<v Speaker 1>So you met her off a tender How much do

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<v Speaker 1>you know about her? How much did you discuss about

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<v Speaker 1>her personal life when you were on your date? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, we joked about our families and our jobs,

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<v Speaker 1>and you know where we went to school. So I

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<v Speaker 1>mean I kind of feel like I got to know her.

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<v Speaker 1>I guess what I'm asking is is she rich? And

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<v Speaker 1>was she like a rich girl who was like I

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<v Speaker 1>like this guy, I'm gonna take him to South America?

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<v Speaker 1>And did you just pass up an opportunity of a lifetime?

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<v Speaker 1>I hope not? My guy, He's like, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>why did I say yes? I should have said yes.

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<v Speaker 1>I never thought of that. I mean that would not

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<v Speaker 1>be true because I would actually love to go to

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<v Speaker 1>South America. Yeah, you should have just played a long

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<v Speaker 1>and said absolutely, I'll go to South America? Are you

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<v Speaker 1>paying because I will go? Well? That is strange, and

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<v Speaker 1>you haven't heard anything from her other than after her

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<v Speaker 1>that text exchange going like sorry, I can't see any more.

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<v Speaker 1>Good luck. She has not responded. Maybe she found a

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<v Speaker 1>South American replacement taking somebody else down there? Did she

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<v Speaker 1>come off as someone who is like a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>spur of the moment decision? No, I mean it was

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<v Speaker 1>it was one date. I mean I don't know that

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<v Speaker 1>much about her, but she seemed sane. Yeah, until you

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<v Speaker 1>read those texts and then you're like, are you sure

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<v Speaker 1>you want to call her? You sure you want to

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<v Speaker 1>try to get her on the phone. I want to

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<v Speaker 1>know what the hell I mean, what was kind of

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<v Speaker 1>all about? Okay, so you do want a second date maybe,

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<v Speaker 1>but you also are just like why the invite to

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<v Speaker 1>South America and then blowing me off after yes and yes? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, well well play a song, come back, call

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<v Speaker 1>her and get your second day update? All right? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>say ye hang looking jubil in the morning. The guy

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<v Speaker 1>on the phone for a second day update today passed

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<v Speaker 1>up the opportunity of a lifetime, in all expense paid

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<v Speaker 1>trip to beautiful South America. That's right. Have you met

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<v Speaker 1>a girl on tender? They went out for a fabulous date.

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<v Speaker 1>According to him, everything went fine, even into the night,

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<v Speaker 1>with a passionate kiss, and then it was what happened

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<v Speaker 1>after the date that was strange. He got invited on

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<v Speaker 1>a trip to beautiful South America, and he said no,

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<v Speaker 1>and then she won't talk to him ever again, Right, Patrick,

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<v Speaker 1>that's what happened. Yep, yep, I thought he was joking.

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<v Speaker 1>So Patrick went on a date with a girl. They

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<v Speaker 1>off tender. They had a good time, but after the date,

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<v Speaker 1>they were texting back and forth, and out of the blue,

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<v Speaker 1>she asked if he would go to South America with her.

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<v Speaker 1>He said no, thinking she was joking, but apparently she

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<v Speaker 1>was serious because it pissed her off, and she's never

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<v Speaker 1>talked to him since. You know, I don't even know

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<v Speaker 1>if we're gonna be able to do the second day update,

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<v Speaker 1>because I'm assuming we're gonna call her, she's gonna be

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<v Speaker 1>in South America and her phone's gonna be off. Patrick. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>that'll be an answer. I guess I really want to

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<v Speaker 1>know why she would invite you to South America the

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<v Speaker 1>day she met you. You want to know? Yet? Are

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<v Speaker 1>you regretting turning her down already? You guys keep patching

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<v Speaker 1>like I was offered a trip from a game show

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<v Speaker 1>or something. I mean, I don't think she was kidding.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't even know. All right, Well, I'm gonna down

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<v Speaker 1>the phone number right now, see if we can get

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<v Speaker 1>her on the phone and get your second date update.

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<v Speaker 1>You're ready to go? Yeah? Hello? What was this? Can

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<v Speaker 1>I speak to please? Yeah? This is hi. How are you?

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<v Speaker 1>This is Jewil from Brook and Jewil in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm I'm sorry. This is Jewbil from Brook and Jewil

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<v Speaker 1>in the Morning. How are you doing today? I think

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry. I can give a wrong number. I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>sign up for anything. I'm sorry. I know you didn't

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<v Speaker 1>sign up for anything, but somebody sort of signed you

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<v Speaker 1>up for something. Okay, well I'm sorry. If that's true,

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<v Speaker 1>then you can take me off the list. I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>really interested. Unfortunately, I can't take you off the list

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<v Speaker 1>because this is a morning radio show and you recently

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<v Speaker 1>went out with one of our listeners but aren't calling

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<v Speaker 1>him back. So he asked us to get you on

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<v Speaker 1>the phone and find out why. I'm not. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know if I'm I don't know. If I's comfortable with this,

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<v Speaker 1>I'll give you. I'll give you a little bit. I'll

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<v Speaker 1>give you a little background first. Okay, his name is Patrick.

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<v Speaker 1>You guys met on tender. You know. I'm sorry. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>really not I'm not comfortable talking about this. I'm not interested.

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<v Speaker 1>Can I just ask you one question. I'm just curious

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<v Speaker 1>about the text messages that you sent him after your

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<v Speaker 1>date when you invited him to South America? Were you

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<v Speaker 1>being serious? Whoa ile? Patrick? You must have really pissed

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<v Speaker 1>her off by not agreeing to go to South America.

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<v Speaker 1>This is getting even weirder. All right, I'm gonna try

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<v Speaker 1>to call her back it. Look, I'm not trying to

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<v Speaker 1>be a If I'm going to talk to you, I

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<v Speaker 1>need you guys to beleeve my name out. Okay, that's fine,

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<v Speaker 1>I can beap your name out. You're pretty much I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>you're anonymous anyway. Nobody really knows who you are. Do

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<v Speaker 1>you have friends that listen to the show? I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't even know who you guys are. So you're

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<v Speaker 1>pretty much anonymous. Well, I promise you if you let

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<v Speaker 1>us talk to you for a minute, I will beep

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<v Speaker 1>your name out. Nobody will know who you are. So

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<v Speaker 1>what do you need to know? Well, I'm curious about

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<v Speaker 1>the text messages that you sent to Patrick. So we

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<v Speaker 1>talked to him about your date. He said that it

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<v Speaker 1>was great, and then he told us after your date,

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<v Speaker 1>you asked him to go to South America. He thought

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<v Speaker 1>you were joking, and then it sounded like you were serious,

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<v Speaker 1>and that's the last he's heard from you. Those were

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<v Speaker 1>private messages, and I don't he probably shouldn't have shared

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<v Speaker 1>them with you, okay, but he did, and he liked

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<v Speaker 1>you a lot, so he asked us to get you

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<v Speaker 1>on the phone. Do you not like Patrick? No? I thought,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I thought Patrick was a really cool guy.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought he was, you know, cute and funny and smart.

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<v Speaker 1>Um okay, And were you serious about the invite to

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<v Speaker 1>South America? I? Um, you know, I'm just my life's

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<v Speaker 1>been pretty complicated lately, and it's just I'm just going

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<v Speaker 1>through some weird stuff right now. So I don't okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to get into all your personal stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>I appreciate you taking the time to talk to us.

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<v Speaker 1>If you liked Patrick, though, can you help us give

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<v Speaker 1>him some sort of explanation, because he really enjoyed your

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<v Speaker 1>time together somewhat so that he emailed us to get

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<v Speaker 1>you on the phone. And I feel super shy. I didn't.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't want him to feel I don't want him

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<v Speaker 1>feel bone off. I don't him to feel like he's

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<v Speaker 1>not a good guy. He is. It has absolutely nothing

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<v Speaker 1>to do with him. If Jess has to do with

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<v Speaker 1>what I'm dealing with right now. Okay, can you give

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<v Speaker 1>me anything that I can say to him? Though, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>just just tell me what I can tell him so

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<v Speaker 1>that he can feel good about it and move on

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<v Speaker 1>if you don't want to see him again. I I, um,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm getting married in two weeks. And what You're getting

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<v Speaker 1>married in two weeks? Oh? Girl, Yeah, I'm I'm yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm getting I'm yeah, I'm getting married in two weeks. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I only did it once. I just I'm just having

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of second thoughts. And um, Patrick seemed like

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<v Speaker 1>a really cool guy after talking, and I figured if

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<v Speaker 1>I went on one last date, um, maybe if I

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<v Speaker 1>liked it, the universe to tell me where I was

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<v Speaker 1>supposed to be, whether it was eating or getting married.

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<v Speaker 1>And so you were kind of having second thoughts about

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<v Speaker 1>getting married, and thought, I'll try one more date. If

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<v Speaker 1>it's good, that means I shouldn't get married. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know what I was thinking. I just it's been a

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<v Speaker 1>really stressful time and I know it was too good married.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't get married? If you're kissing another guy, don't get married.

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<v Speaker 1>What are you thinking? That's the worst decision you could

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<v Speaker 1>ever possibly make. You know, as I already feel, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't even want making me feel far right, We're not

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<v Speaker 1>trying to We're not trying to make you feel We're

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<v Speaker 1>not trying to make you feel crappy about it. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>want to keep rolling full. I'm not trying to make

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<v Speaker 1>you feel We're not trying to make you feel crappy

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<v Speaker 1>about it, I promise. And I appreciate you taking the

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<v Speaker 1>time to tell us what happened, because then I can

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<v Speaker 1>go back to Patrick and sort of explain things to him.

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<v Speaker 1>I do have a question about the South America thing.

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<v Speaker 1>Can you shed any light on that? Um? You know,

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<v Speaker 1>I just thought we had a connection. I thought he

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<v Speaker 1>was really special and I figured if we were both

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<v Speaker 1>willing to drop everything and just leave and go be

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<v Speaker 1>ourselves elsewhere, then maybe maybe that would make us happy.

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<v Speaker 1>And I thought maybe he said yes. I thought, Um,

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<v Speaker 1>he said that you guys had a lot of wine.

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<v Speaker 1>Was it the alcohol talking that night? No? I was

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<v Speaker 1>sober when I texted him. You were sober when you

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<v Speaker 1>texted him about South America? So good? In your mind,

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<v Speaker 1>if you, guys ran away to get like you were

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<v Speaker 1>willing to run away with him if he said yes.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought, if he said yes, that would be where

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<v Speaker 1>we were supposed to be. So you're just gonna run

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<v Speaker 1>away from all your problems, leave everything in the dust.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's kind of sing to say, I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 1>What look I I whatever you're going through, you're going through.

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<v Speaker 1>I appreciate you staying on the phone with us, and

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<v Speaker 1>I appreciate you talking to us. Okay, yeah, I just yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want him to think it's him. It's not him. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>well you can actually tell him that because he's on

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<v Speaker 1>the other line listening. It was almost really true. Are

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<v Speaker 1>you kidding me? It's Patrick. I'm so confused right now.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry, guys, I don't I don't want to talk

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<v Speaker 1>to I don't want to talk to you Patrick, and

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<v Speaker 1>I d'n't. I'd love to talk to you. Can we

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<v Speaker 1>get together or oh? No? Hello? Wow? Patrick? What you devil? You?

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<v Speaker 1>You almost got a girl that's getting married to leave

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<v Speaker 1>the country with you and ditch your husband. Yeah, it is,

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<v Speaker 1>it's all your fault. Patrick. You didn't throw those away. Guys.

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<v Speaker 1>I am blown away. You had no idea that she

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<v Speaker 1>was in another relationship, like, none at all. I had

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<v Speaker 1>no idea. I had no idea. I'm like freaked out right, Wow,

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<v Speaker 1>not only was she in another relationship, engaged to be married,

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<v Speaker 1>and was thinking about leaving her husband and the country

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<v Speaker 1>with you. I really want to talk to her again.

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<v Speaker 1>Why what do you want to talk to her about?

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<v Speaker 1>What are you going to say? Because I felt the

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<v Speaker 1>same way. I don't know. Why would you want to

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<v Speaker 1>run away with a woman who's about to get married

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<v Speaker 1>in two weeks. I don't know what to think. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I really liked this girl, but then again, I mean

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<v Speaker 1>it was only one date, and I mean I don't

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<v Speaker 1>think I'm ready to run away to South America with her.

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<v Speaker 1>But I mean she shouldn't even get married into the

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<v Speaker 1>sky if she feels that way. Yeah, that sucks for

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<v Speaker 1>that dude. Now, if she would have been on the

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<v Speaker 1>date with you and told you, I'm assuming you would

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<v Speaker 1>say no, but I don't know, and told you, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm about to get married, but I really like you,

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<v Speaker 1>and I think that I would leave him for you.

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<v Speaker 1>What would you have done? I have no idea? Oh

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<v Speaker 1>my god, why would you know, you say, no, why

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<v Speaker 1>are men so attracted to crazy women? That girl is

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<v Speaker 1>a nut job? I am sorry, works in mysterious ways. Patrick.

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<v Speaker 1>She was hot, wasn't she? She was extremely hot. There

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<v Speaker 1>you go, That's what it is. Normally, this is the

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<v Speaker 1>time where I ask if you want to go out

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<v Speaker 1>on a second date. But she's not on the phone

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<v Speaker 1>and she's gonna be being married, so probably not interested

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<v Speaker 1>in another date with you. I guess I'll ask the

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<v Speaker 1>listeners text in seven eight, five nine two? What should

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<v Speaker 1>we do from here? Oh my god, Yes, that is

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<v Speaker 1>what I call a second date success? No that yeah? Wow.

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<v Speaker 1>So if you tuned in like in the middle of that,

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<v Speaker 1>you didn't know what was going on. Sky Patrick went

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<v Speaker 1>out with this girl. We had to beat her name,

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<v Speaker 1>otherwise she wouldn't let us er it at all. But

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<v Speaker 1>we beat her name anyway. They went out. They met

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<v Speaker 1>off a tender. After their date, she said, come with

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<v Speaker 1>me to South America and he was like, uh huh.

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<v Speaker 1>We went out on one date. I'm are you serious?

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<v Speaker 1>She said, yes, I'm serious, come with me to South America?

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<v Speaker 1>And he said, how about we just hang out in

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<v Speaker 1>the States and maybe someday later we could go to

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<v Speaker 1>South America, and then she was like, it's not going

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<v Speaker 1>to work and stop texting him back. The reason being

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<v Speaker 1>she it's about to get married and was having second

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<v Speaker 1>thoughts and thought that maybe he was the one for

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<v Speaker 1>her and wanted to run away with him to beautiful

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<v Speaker 1>South America. I'm sorry, after one day you don't think

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<v Speaker 1>he's the one. You just want any excuse to get

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<v Speaker 1>out of the marriage period, like you're trying to let

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<v Speaker 1>yourself talk yourself out of it. And people are getting

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<v Speaker 1>mad at me because I was saying that she's crazy.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry. Oh, she's absolutely crazy. She's definitely crazy nuts,

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<v Speaker 1>but she was hot, so he wants He actually at

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<v Speaker 1>the end of that was thinking that he would actually

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<v Speaker 1>be interested in a relationship with her. Still, it is

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<v Speaker 1>amazing what men will say yes too when you've got

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<v Speaker 1>the right size waist in a nice rack. Is like,

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<v Speaker 1>the power of that is beyond compare and crazy girls

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<v Speaker 1>in the bedroom a plus and we all know that. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but in you're if you're gonna plan on breaking up

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<v Speaker 1>somebody's marriage, chances are she's gonna want to marry you next. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>she's gonna want to marry you, and then you're going

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<v Speaker 1>to be about to get married to her, and she's

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<v Speaker 1>gonna do the same thing to another guy, try to

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<v Speaker 1>whisk him away to South America so that she can

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<v Speaker 1>get out of getting married. I feel bad for her husband.

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<v Speaker 1>There's no idea. Yeah, I'm sorry, but people keep texting

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<v Speaker 1>in brook. I can't believe you said that to her.

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<v Speaker 1>She already felt bad about it. Well, she was playing

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<v Speaker 1>She was playing the victim role big time. It wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>about the fact that, oh, I'm kind of a d

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<v Speaker 1>bag to my husband who I'm about to marry right

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<v Speaker 1>now by wanting to run away with this guy. It

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<v Speaker 1>was like, I just it's so hard for me and

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what to do. The craziest thing is,

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<v Speaker 1>like you said, though the other guy was actually like,

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<v Speaker 1>well I felt that connection. I know you. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like, what do you mean you don't know? Dude,

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<v Speaker 1>crazy has a funny way of finding more crazy. That

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<v Speaker 1>is a very that is eloquent. And two I could

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<v Speaker 1>have sent them on a second date to South America

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<v Speaker 1>or just even a South American restaurant in town. We

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<v Speaker 1>asked what we should do? We said, text in its

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<v Speaker 1>seventy five too. What should we do? A lot of

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<v Speaker 1>people are saying, crash the wedding, show up at the

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<v Speaker 1>wedding and play the audio of the second date update.

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<v Speaker 1>Another person said pay for that dude to go to

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<v Speaker 1>her wedding, and another said send him to South America. No,

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<v Speaker 1>he blew his shot at that he had a chance

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<v Speaker 1>to go South America. Wherever you want a second date update,

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<v Speaker 1>I'll have to do his email the show Brook and

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<v Speaker 1>Jewel at Moving nine to five dot com. We will

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<v Speaker 1>call the person who didn't call you back.