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Speaker 1: Second dat Date. You know, normally during a second date update,

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Speaker 1: strange for him. Patrick, how are you, hey? Guys? How

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Speaker 1: you doing good? Man? So you met this girl on Tender? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I did all right? And your email said that this

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Speaker 1: Why is that? Well, I don't know if you've been

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Speaker 1: You're ready to go? Yeah? Hello? What was this? Can

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry. I can give a wrong number. I didn't

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Speaker 1: You guys met on tender. You know. I'm sorry. I'm

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Speaker 1: I'll have to do his email the show Brook and

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Speaker 1: Jewel at Moving nine to five dot com. We will

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