Speaker 1: I have a small head, but the problem is I
Speaker 1: have a d in my head that makes sense. Nobody, bitch,
Speaker 1: what what's up? Y'all?
Speaker 2: It's your girl lex P.
Speaker 1: And it's your girls ra in the call and you.
Speaker 2: Are tuned in to another episode of Poor.
Speaker 1: Minds where a drunk mind speaks sober thought.
Speaker 2: We ain't got no guests today. We ain't got no
Speaker 2: guests today.
Speaker 1: I know. That's right. That's right, that's right. You know what.
Speaker 1: Though our intro sound like the beginning of a fire
Speaker 1: rap song, it is.
Speaker 2: And we're gonna We did say that on the last
Speaker 2: solo episode that we're gonna get.
Speaker 1: In the booth like y'all did not like y'all did
Speaker 1: not do y'all did not get in the booth be
Speaker 1: So obviously that's all right. I did it. I did
Speaker 1: so obviously.
Speaker 2: We just talked about this last week, but y'all know
Speaker 2: we were recording multiple episodes in the day, so we
Speaker 2: are still in shock.
Speaker 1: I shook it. Uh.
Speaker 2: We discussed it a little bit on the last week's episode,
Speaker 2: but I am just still upset. So y'all just have
Speaker 2: to bear with my energy today. I have a lot
Speaker 2: going on. Uh, but good news is. By the time
Speaker 2: y'all seen this, bro, you finished, deleted Hobby, deleite though,
Speaker 2: curse word, Hobby.
Speaker 1: You're fins off. Okay, m hmm, but you look nice.
Speaker 1: I like you.
Speaker 2: I am, and that's what I am. I'll always be
Speaker 2: an African queen and represent from my black people like
Speaker 2: I did in the booth.
Speaker 1: Amen I did too.
Speaker 2: I never want to watch an episode of I mean,
Speaker 2: the movie Coco ever again, because we know what they did.
Speaker 2: Poco Loco did not vote with us. It's not.
Speaker 1: I'm struggling. I see, we're not supposed to car deleted Hobby.
Speaker 1: That's gonna be the episode. Okay, But anyways, y'all because
Speaker 1: y'all delete because y'all was dead in the booth.
Speaker 2: No, we're not doing that. We're not doing that.
Speaker 1: The leading Hoby. Delete the whole, Delete the whole. Gosh.
Speaker 2: Okay. So by the time y'all see this, I will
Speaker 2: be back from vacation. But literally, I booked a flight.
Speaker 1: I'm leaving.
Speaker 2: I'm going on vacation. I'm going to Brazil for a
Speaker 2: week and I'm excited. I'm just the timing was perfect.
Speaker 1: What what okay? What you have? Like? Okay, we'll get
Speaker 1: it off you a little hard believe it. I ain't
Speaker 1: know what to do like you a little spicy today.
Speaker 1: I'm still I might get slept. You might know, you
Speaker 1: might get shank. You got a night you'd be walking
Speaker 1: around with me. I'm getting ready to go to London. No,
Speaker 1: you go into Brazil. Oh oh, I got a good idea.
Speaker 2: What man?
Speaker 1: I think you should do a video so beautiful because
Speaker 1: they know that's why they shot it dead. You should
Speaker 1: do that. That would go viral. I don't think about it.
Speaker 1: That ass on you that song Shorty got an ass
Speaker 1: onhu my hands on huhn on hou era? Still who
Speaker 1: that was?
Speaker 2: You?
Speaker 1: Man? Right? It was? I thought so, I don't think that.
Speaker 1: I think it was. Let's do our research and we
Speaker 1: don't have a Google team. But she thicked in the
Speaker 1: lips like jack yo, and know what he said? Are
Speaker 1: in the hips? Yeah? Man? It was Come on man, okay,
Speaker 1: you know yo history? Do you did you vote? Go
Speaker 1: ahead by Gucci? Man? That is crazy, Gucci man, come
Speaker 1: on a fun fact about me. I'm an icy girl?
Speaker 1: Are you? Because you didn't know that that was his song?
Speaker 1: You know I did know. I think it's the teremna.
Speaker 1: This eating to me.
Speaker 2: So I bought the biggest bottle of tere mana yesterday
Speaker 2: because I went to an election party. I'm not kidding.
Speaker 2: It was about this big I'm not catching.
Speaker 1: No, we did it.
Speaker 2: I made some We had some Kamala retas and.
Speaker 1: They were actually really good.
Speaker 2: I took a h a page from Tar's book. I
Speaker 2: was bartending in there. I did my thing and they
Speaker 2: were really good. They drink them all.
Speaker 1: I know, that's right. Yeah, when you're getting your bartending bag,
Speaker 1: you get seen in the other day. Yeah. Yeah, you
Speaker 1: should have put the hair behind you. Yeah. Okay.
Speaker 2: So anyways, I have some things I want to talk
Speaker 2: about before we get to the topics today. First, let's
Speaker 2: do a ketchup. What you've been up to, what's going on?
Speaker 2: Let's see.
Speaker 1: You know. Wait, I ain't really been up to nothing.
Speaker 1: Money to be Yeah, I'm just taking it day by day.
Speaker 1: I can't believe these results. I am as appalled as
Speaker 1: you are. It's crazy times that were living in one thing.
Speaker 1: I will stay though. We have our passports and our shots,
Speaker 1: so we are we might go out the country and
Speaker 1: not come back. I'm going out. I got it one way. No,
Speaker 1: I know you leaving? Yeah, like you to go. I
Speaker 1: might have to come meet you. Let's do it, and
Speaker 1: we might have to build a new life outside of
Speaker 1: you know what. At this point, I feel like poor
Speaker 1: mind is a machine.
Speaker 2: It runs. I'm sure I can find a Brazilian hobby.
Speaker 2: Hobby is close to Brazilian anyway, Hobby? Where is a Hispanic?
Speaker 2: Is Hispanic name?
Speaker 1: Hobby? Got some good hair? I see? You know, I
Speaker 1: feel like ave is a Hispanic name. It is if
Speaker 1: that and if that can cook. She's a she's more
Speaker 1: of a T o a T. She's a T. You know.
Speaker 2: You know Tom, Tom knows how to shake a good mark.
Speaker 1: We can, we can, we can take this show.
Speaker 2: All of you guys, you down a wall, all ready
Speaker 2: to go.
Speaker 1: We don't have to change your name. No, that ain't
Speaker 1: gonna work. Who is what it is gonna mean? Aljando?
Speaker 1: Do y'all remember that song.
Speaker 2: A by Lady Goga a hand.
Speaker 1: You know that I love you lady?
Speaker 2: That she had a spar song. Alejandro, what.
Speaker 1: You know that I love you boy like Mexico When
Speaker 1: you never heard that song? Oh my god, I'm more
Speaker 1: of a bad romance girl. Anda La La.
Speaker 2: We're singing that today, Rama, Mama, I hate that, thank
Speaker 2: you of it because y'all be boy with me. I
Speaker 2: don't even even talk to y'all.
Speaker 1: Girl, because you always gotta take too. I feel like
Speaker 1: we be vibing and then you always then you always
Speaker 1: just found a fall until you love me.
Speaker 2: Papa, Papa, the hits, she just kept dropping his and
Speaker 2: she did not.
Speaker 1: Nine was a great year. And I remember that because
Speaker 1: Lady got got Huh she had a telephone, she had
Speaker 1: two what was the other one? Video phone and no
Speaker 1: telephone was one of them. It was telephone and video phone.
Speaker 2: Remixt just keep him dunking, uh huh that you won't.
Speaker 1: Me from horror, remember bet phone? Uh huh. You're hunting man,
Speaker 1: you know what? And I want to ever know where
Speaker 1: these conversations be.
Speaker 2: Okay, but let me just say this. We have to
Speaker 2: give Lady god Got her flowers because please fact check
Speaker 2: me because I may be wrong.
Speaker 1: I may be wrong.
Speaker 2: But before Lady Ga Gay, I don't think Beyonce had
Speaker 2: collaborated with any women yet outside of Destiny's Child up
Speaker 2: to that point.
Speaker 1: I could be wrong. I could be wrong.
Speaker 2: She had this slim thug bun be all that stuff
Speaker 2: because this was before she did the Nicki Minaj feeling myself.
Speaker 1: You need to stop playing around with all them clowns
Speaker 1: and wan girl. Focus, girls gotta keep down.
Speaker 2: With Okay, okay, but focused. What I'm saying is before
Speaker 2: before the lady guy got collabed. I think that was
Speaker 2: the first woman that kind of was like Beyonce was like,
Speaker 2: yeah with you, because Beyonce, don't.
Speaker 1: Do I'm feeling.
Speaker 2: I'm feeling a hub.
Speaker 1: That's why quiet as It's killed. That's they be hating
Speaker 1: on baby. What I do? I know you ain't judging
Speaker 1: me after that outburst you just said, and event gonna
Speaker 1: coast sign because if that that's because you'll both leo,
Speaker 1: she's co signing your boody. I sounded amazing. Oh come
Speaker 1: on a man, run telling me I need to stay
Speaker 1: focused and doing that is all right. What you were saying,
Speaker 1: what she was saying, you were saying, Oh why is
Speaker 1: this cub? That's why they hate They be hating on Meg,
Speaker 1: because heaven, Beyonce on a track is a big feet,
Speaker 1: no shade, no tea.
Speaker 2: Of all the New Girls, nobody has a Beyonce feature
Speaker 2: except for Meg. Now we gotta give that to her.
Speaker 1: We gotta give that, We gotta give everything to her.
Speaker 1: I love me some Meg And speaking.
Speaker 2: Of come on, let's talk about it.
Speaker 1: Let's get into the dots, because we ain't chatted about
Speaker 1: the dot. We haven't chatted about the dots. Chatted about
Speaker 1: the Dotshira and Missy Elliott, Shakira.
Speaker 2: And Missy Elliott before lady, Okay.
Speaker 1: That's fair.
Speaker 2: Also, I let's not cute the drum. Okay, I forgot
Speaker 2: And what would.
Speaker 1: That fighting sensations? I'm just fighting sensation. And Missy Elliott
Speaker 1: wrote a lots and shout out to Free because that
Speaker 1: was the one song Free did and it was what
Speaker 1: is funny? First of all, that was no shade, I
Speaker 1: love me some Free like she she walked, so she
Speaker 1: walked so we could run and she never laughed at
Speaker 1: AJ with his lace front drig Okay, do you know
Speaker 1: how good of a Okay? But no, for real though,
Speaker 1: that was no shade like shout out to Free. I
Speaker 1: want me And you talked about this on a recent
Speaker 1: episode like I want to do a hit and it
Speaker 1: be like that hit. You know who else?
Speaker 2: You know who else had a hit? And hel who?
Speaker 2: Angie Martinez?
Speaker 1: Oh, good if I can go coko.
Speaker 2: Remember that song yas I first first it's ladies night.
Speaker 2: What it must be Angie on the mind like either right, Yo,
Speaker 2: I just made a move an icon and come sitting
Speaker 2: on the couch. Yes, ae and free and free and
Speaker 2: aj with your week.
Speaker 1: He ain't coming, he ain't coming, Okay, But.
Speaker 2: Back to the documentary. Let's talk about the document Let's
Speaker 2: chat about the have alopecia. That's fine, there's nothing wrong
Speaker 2: with having you know what, speaking of I'm.
Speaker 1: Not saying nothing wrong with him, but I'm saying.
Speaker 2: There's a there's a whole community of TikTokers that have
Speaker 2: millions of follower followers with alopecia, and they are so beautiful.
Speaker 2: They are I mean, she does her makeup so good.
Speaker 2: I wish I could shout out her name. I forgot.
Speaker 1: And there's so many girls with alopecia who like they rocky,
Speaker 1: They rocky, and they be rocking. I think, like, I
Speaker 1: don't think I could e a go ball. God you
Speaker 1: think so? Yes, I think it's all my head. Oh
Speaker 1: I gotta go that. I forgot.
Speaker 2: No, no, the funny no, first.
Speaker 1: Of all bach McDonald's first of all, Donald, Please bitch.
Speaker 1: First of all, first barbecue, honey, bugget Okay, okay, No,
Speaker 1: for real, dow, I I have a small head.
Speaker 2: Like whenever I get I do.
Speaker 1: I'm not saying my head all alice to be saying different.
Speaker 1: They always be like, your head is so small? You
Speaker 1: a shady beer. I'm not.
Speaker 2: I'm listening, Drea. I promise I'm listening. I haven't said
Speaker 2: a word. I haven't said a thing.
Speaker 1: I'm on your ass likely. No, for real, do I
Speaker 1: have a small head. But the problem is I have
Speaker 1: a d in my head? That makes sense? Nobody, bitch?
Speaker 1: What No? I mean like that makes sense? Why you
Speaker 1: would never do like an extremely you know? They ain't
Speaker 1: say when you have a dinny your head. Your daddy
Speaker 1: was a freaky ass nigga. He was sixty nine. No,
Speaker 1: for real, No, I do like it's right here, it
Speaker 1: a little bit dip be low. Do you have a No,
Speaker 1: I don't. You don't. You don't have a soft spot.
Speaker 1: I have a beautiful head as bad. You know what's crazy.
Speaker 2: I don't remember when I went viral on Twitter along
Speaker 2: This was years ago. I went viral because they were
Speaker 2: calling me little head bait because my head looked small
Speaker 2: because I didn't have no wig or nothing on, like, oh,
Speaker 2: head looks small. It literally went viral. They were calling
Speaker 2: me little head bait. I'm so serious.
Speaker 1: That was because the otdo No. I mean maybe so,
Speaker 1: but I that's like, but no. But what I'm saying is, okay,
Speaker 1: why did you look at me like that?
Speaker 2: When I get my hair done, they say the same thing.
Speaker 2: You know, I just got that wig made. She was like,
Speaker 2: ooh girl, you have a small head.
Speaker 1: Every time. Oh you can have a small head, but
Speaker 1: I can't. That's crazy.
Speaker 2: I didn't say you couldn't have a small head.
Speaker 1: That's nothing. I looked at you when I was listening.
Speaker 1: You took some no. You was like this, it's yeah.
Speaker 1: You was you. You wasn't believing. You wasn't feeling what
Speaker 1: I was saying. But that's crazy.
Speaker 2: Though.
Speaker 1: I do feel like your head used to appear smaller
Speaker 1: when your TVs they did and you had that short haircut.
Speaker 1: M I love that era.
Speaker 2: It was really like people say you look like Tony Wrexton.
Speaker 1: But it was really you. It was so crazy. Life
Speaker 1: had that short haircut.
Speaker 2: Life is so crazy because people always talk about my
Speaker 2: short haircut, how much they love it. And they're like,
Speaker 2: oh my god, Les, you were studdying breakdown.
Speaker 1: Bro.
Speaker 2: I was fucking like, let's just drink a little mimosa
Speaker 2: with bleach.
Speaker 1: That's what I was going through at that moment.
Speaker 2: So when people always bring yeah, yeah, let's talk about it.
Speaker 1: You want to chat. You wanted to have a chat
Speaker 1: about my short hair.
Speaker 2: That went let's let's talk.
Speaker 1: Let's talk. Excuse me, Oh yeah, you want.
Speaker 2: A chat, We're gonna have a chat.
Speaker 1: Yeah. No. I remember though. I remember when you called
Speaker 1: me and you had to cut your hair off, and
Speaker 1: I was like, okay, because remember I cut it, but
Speaker 1: your face is so beautiful, It's like unreal. I was like, Wow,
Speaker 1: you crazy as fuck, because miss why did you just
Speaker 1: cut your hair off? Spur and am me? I cut
Speaker 1: my hair looked so cute. I loved it. I cut
Speaker 1: my cue. Well.
Speaker 2: When I first cut my hair, I called you, but
Speaker 2: my hair was messed up because I don't know how
Speaker 2: to do hair. So once my sister heard me crying,
Speaker 2: she came upstairs.
Speaker 1: She was like, what did you just do? So my
Speaker 1: sister actually had to come and fix my hair. You
Speaker 1: thought she was a nigga from the Southwest, so big
Speaker 1: because you used to be gonna get edge of the design.
Speaker 1: I was like, girl, what the design is crazy?
Speaker 2: A design?
Speaker 1: Why would you just say that, I'm about to say,
Speaker 1: because I was about to say, child, do you lie?
Speaker 1: But I had a part? Have a video that had
Speaker 1: a part. I have a video in my phone. You
Speaker 1: definitely had a design.
Speaker 2: It wasn't a design. It was a part.
Speaker 1: A little.
Speaker 2: Moving on.
Speaker 1: You know how niggas be getting a little squiggily. I
Speaker 1: never had a squig. Never had a squig. I beg
Speaker 1: to do. I had a part. I had a part.
Speaker 1: That's not a design because who put apart in? No hair? Well,
Speaker 1: it was hair. I didn't have a fade. Why do
Speaker 1: you need a part? Because it was it was short
Speaker 1: and curly. It would look cute when I had the
Speaker 1: part and I would lay my edge and I would
Speaker 1: do a little you know, swoop with the edge so
Speaker 1: it looked cuter with the part. What do you party
Speaker 1: my hair? Because I was never bald a bit. The
Speaker 1: funny thing is, I'm talking shit, but I want to
Speaker 1: cut my hair off. I want a short haircut so bad.
Speaker 2: I hope that did just is shiny my din.
Speaker 1: Yes, it ain't gonna be that low Beach, I CEO Beach,
Speaker 1: I raise you one. Okay, Okay, let's let's take a pause.
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Speaker 1: back to the topic Meg. We didn't have no time.
Speaker 1: We did.
Speaker 2: We were talking about Meg's documentary because we never talked
Speaker 2: about it.
Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, that was a good topic. So I watched it.
Speaker 1: I watched it and it was good. First of all,
Speaker 1: I loved it. It was so good. I love the animation.
Speaker 1: I feel like it added an extra element to the
Speaker 1: doc or whatever. And then also with her like being
Speaker 1: into anime, I thought that was like pretty cool to
Speaker 1: maybe like a little animation, and it just kind of
Speaker 1: gave people a little bit more insight to the things
Speaker 1: that happened who are like more visual people who need
Speaker 1: to kind of see exactly what happens. It's just so
Speaker 1: sad to me because that girl have been through so
Speaker 1: much and people are so focused on her line about
Speaker 1: fucking that nigga when at the end of the day, Yeah,
Speaker 1: did she lie about it on gil King, She did,
Speaker 1: but she admitted to it when it mattered, which was
Speaker 1: in court. But either way, I stand with her when
Speaker 1: she said people are loose. Stay focused, y'all. Stay focused.
Speaker 1: Y'all so worried about whether or not I fucked this nigga,
Speaker 1: this man shot me in the grand scheme of things,
Speaker 1: how much do it really matter that I was fucking him?
Speaker 1: And y'all care way less about the fact that he
Speaker 1: shot me. And then in the midst of all of this,
Speaker 1: I came around a bad group of people. I started
Speaker 1: being in a wrong company because I was going through
Speaker 1: she because I lost my mother. I didn't know where
Speaker 1: life was going. I didn't know what to do. I
Speaker 1: was just looking for help. I was looking for friendship
Speaker 1: in the wrong place. And you thought that this man
Speaker 1: was your friend, and he definitely was like taking advantage
Speaker 1: of you. But at the end of the day, I
Speaker 1: just think people need more empathy for the fact that,
Speaker 1: like this girl lost everybody in her life that held
Speaker 1: her down, everybody that loved her unconditionally, like her mother,
Speaker 1: her grandmother, her dad, Like this girl really going through
Speaker 1: life by herself. You just gotta GeTe And then she
Speaker 1: was young as fucked like Meg only what twenty nine
Speaker 1: right now, not even thirty year Yeah, she's not even
Speaker 1: thirty yet, this girl is not.
Speaker 2: So I'm glad you said that. Let's take that into account.
Speaker 2: This lady is not even thirty. Yeah, yeah, she's only
Speaker 2: twenty nine. So it's like, imagine the shit all of
Speaker 2: the mistakes we made in our twenties, all of the
Speaker 2: bullshit we did in our twenties, but it wasn't documented,
Speaker 2: it wasn't on a platform for the world to see,
Speaker 2: you know what I mean.
Speaker 1: And I just feel like, did she Like she had
Speaker 1: her faults and she had her shit that she did
Speaker 1: wrong too in the situation if we being honnies, But
Speaker 1: at the end of the day, like this lady have
Speaker 1: been through so much and has persevered, you know what
Speaker 1: I mean, Like, if anything, she should be a testament
Speaker 1: or a roll like I don't want to say a
Speaker 1: role model, but because you know, but a testament to persevering, yes,
Speaker 1: and still going and still making it through. That's so
Speaker 1: hard and unfortunately for both of us, we know what
Speaker 1: that's like too, to have to like keep going in
Speaker 1: the midst of loss in the midst of grief and
Speaker 1: losing somebody that's so close to you, and I just
Speaker 1: feel like people just be so hard on this girl
Speaker 1: all the time. And it really I always liked me,
Speaker 1: but it definitely made me have a really softer or
Speaker 1: even more soft spot for her.
Speaker 2: So I'm gonna give my takeaways from a documentary.
Speaker 1: I have a few things I wanted to take away.
Speaker 2: Yeah, one, of course, the main thing that broke my heart,
Speaker 2: which I'm gonna get into at the end of my
Speaker 2: little spill, the mother thing, of course. But one thing
Speaker 2: that broke my heart was if you notice in a
Speaker 2: documentary after everything happened when she fell out with Kelsey
Speaker 2: in the court, if you notice she didn't have any
Speaker 2: friends around her.
Speaker 1: Everybody around her were people that worked for her. So yeah, the.
Speaker 2: Only person that was around her that was like a
Speaker 2: friend was her cousin. And let me tell you, somebody that.
Speaker 1: Shout out to you, Beach, but you were real.
Speaker 2: Yeah, so let me and let me say this.
Speaker 1: Herr her cousin is a real I really meant that.
Speaker 2: No, so let me finish, so I will say I say,
Speaker 2: it's so important all the time community when you're going
Speaker 2: through things, you need friends, you need your sisters, you
Speaker 2: need your aunties, you need your You cannot live this
Speaker 2: life without community. So the fact that I saw her,
Speaker 2: the fact that I saw her going through this and
Speaker 2: she didn't have community, what made me really sad.
Speaker 1: Another thing that I noticed.
Speaker 2: Specifically, remember her performing her anxiety song and she's on
Speaker 2: stage and she's performing, she's giving her and she's crying,
Speaker 2: and it made me cry because she started saying that
Speaker 2: part if I could write a letter to Heaven, you know,
Speaker 2: and she's like talking to her mom and she's just like, Mom,
Speaker 2: what am I doing? And I felt that because I've
Speaker 2: been there. And when she got off stage, everybody around
Speaker 2: her she was like, oh, did I look pretty? And
Speaker 2: she's just trying to have a moment because she's trying
Speaker 2: to cheer herself up. Everybody was like, oh, you did
Speaker 2: so good. Not one person grabbed her and hugged her,
Speaker 2: not one person and sometimes and in that moment, she
Speaker 2: didn't need to be Megan the Stallion. She needed to
Speaker 2: be Megan Pete and she needed a fucking hug. So
Speaker 2: let me say this. On top of that, the one
Speaker 2: person that I saw around her that we see that
Speaker 2: it's always been Oh my god, this woman is a
Speaker 2: machine that poured into her every time Glauri and fucking Gibson.
Speaker 2: She was constantly pouring into her and telling her how great.
Speaker 2: The reason that Meghan is so great, it's because she's
Speaker 2: Megan and she's herself. But Laurie Ann, who has created superstars,
Speaker 2: who has been in this industry, we interviewed her when
Speaker 2: we were in LA and.
Speaker 1: I'm not like funny.
Speaker 2: If you've ever been in the presence of somebody who
Speaker 2: has done great things and they're just great, being around them,
Speaker 2: you feel something like when Laurie walked up to me,
Speaker 2: it was just like, oh my god. And the way
Speaker 2: she even spoke life into us. She was like, you ladies,
Speaker 2: y'all are doing it. Y'all are beautiful. And that was
Speaker 2: the first time she met us. She was like, this
Speaker 2: is the best interview I did all day. She was like, so,
Speaker 2: everybody say, the way that Laurie Anne poured into her
Speaker 2: was very important to me, and that suck out to me.
Speaker 2: I got two more points, and I know I'm getting
Speaker 2: long winded. Second point was.
Speaker 1: Speak your peace. I am so.
Speaker 2: Glad that she showed the depths of her and Kelsey's
Speaker 2: relationship because everybody was like, oh, Meg wrong because she
Speaker 2: was having said Tory they doing that?
Speaker 1: Was it wrong? Yes, And we're not taking away that
Speaker 1: I don't know who did. But at the end of
Speaker 1: the day, we don't know who was doing what first,
Speaker 1: or what We don't know nothing about nothing all we know.
Speaker 1: We don't know nothing we can We're only going by
Speaker 1: he says. She says, But what I'm saying.
Speaker 2: Is, at the end of the day, it was weird
Speaker 2: and it was wrong because if y'all are friends, why
Speaker 2: are y'all hopping on the same X y Z. But
Speaker 2: I mean that's the and that's where I'm like, yeah, so,
Speaker 2: but let me finish.
Speaker 1: So.
Speaker 2: But my thing is because I've had somebody do this
Speaker 2: to me, for Kelsey to sit on that camera and
Speaker 2: cry about Miss Holly and say, me and Megan have
Speaker 2: been through the dirt and the trenches and when we
Speaker 2: she said, not when Meg, she said, when we lost
Speaker 2: Miss Holly, I knew I had to be here.
Speaker 1: So instead of you being by her side, you chose
Speaker 1: to take some hush money and get on that stand
Speaker 1: and not say nothing, because at the end of the day,
Speaker 1: that may do you wrong from what it comes to be.
Speaker 2: But let me tell you if that would have been.
Speaker 1: Me and Dre in that situation, first of all, that
Speaker 1: nigga would have been beat the fuck up, because ain't
Speaker 1: nobody finna pull out a gun on my friend. Somebody
Speaker 1: finish somebody gonna die tonight shout out to fifty sor
Speaker 1: if that was the situation to say, I'm having a
Speaker 1: messing with somebody, then drag go back though and she
Speaker 1: messing with him and it comes out in the car
Speaker 1: and the same thing happens. Don't care. I'm sitting on
Speaker 1: that stand and I'm telling him what he did. Now,
Speaker 1: I ain't I made sure use to never talk to
Speaker 1: you again, But deep down inside, I know what you're
Speaker 1: going through because you're going through a lot, and you've
Speaker 1: been drinking a lot and you're struggling. So I forgive
Speaker 1: you for my piece, but I'm never gonna talk to
Speaker 1: you again.
Speaker 2: But I'm gonna sit on that stand and I'm gonna
Speaker 2: give you justice because no matter what, you did not
Speaker 2: deserve to almost if.
Speaker 1: That bullet would have hit a foot higher, it could
Speaker 1: have hit an artery and that woman would have died,
Speaker 1: and the narrative would have been y'all would have needed
Speaker 1: Meg to die for y'all to care dance beat. She's
Speaker 1: crazy exactly so because what nigga, And that's probably how
Speaker 1: she responded, so because like, nigga, what are you talking about?
Speaker 1: Because I want to get out the car.
Speaker 2: And like I said, third and my last point about Kelsey,
Speaker 2: and I'm glad that she focused on that.
Speaker 1: It's just being that.
Speaker 2: Like I said, it taught me how scary people are
Speaker 2: because everybody.
Speaker 1: Has you best entries.
Speaker 2: And I've lost when like I said, I had somebody
Speaker 2: look at me in my face and said, when your
Speaker 2: mom passed, I felt like she told me to watch
Speaker 2: over you. And this person did the worst don't piss
Speaker 2: me off, worst things to me that I've ever endured
Speaker 2: and encountered.
Speaker 1: Sol Please don't piece me off. Well, no, I'm just
Speaker 1: saying no, I'm talking about it. It was a guy.
Speaker 2: I'm talking about what she was saying the same. Yeah,
Speaker 2: it was kind of the same. I had a lot
Speaker 2: of people the year my mom passed.
Speaker 1: And I had to get out of my mom always
Speaker 1: told me hate this is a strong word. I don't hate her.
Speaker 1: I strongly dislike, strongly disliked it.
Speaker 2: But I'll say this about Kelsey. I'm glad that she
Speaker 2: showed that because there was a lot of things that
Speaker 2: the stands and fans wanted her to focus on. She
Speaker 2: didn't post like the beef with Nikki, she didn't post
Speaker 2: her with party because none of that matters. Yeah, what
Speaker 2: hurt her was that Kelsey sat on that stand and
Speaker 2: act like you didn't know nothing, and I could have
Speaker 2: lost my life and no matter what beef or whatever transpired,
Speaker 2: you could have served justice and made sure that justice
Speaker 2: was served a lot easier.
Speaker 1: Well, you know what justice was her? It was No
Speaker 1: I'm saying you know what justice was her. At the
Speaker 1: end of the day, losers gonna be losers only for
Speaker 1: you to be online, take a whole photo shoot with
Speaker 1: Nikki shoes, and Nikki to come out and say I
Speaker 1: didn't ask her to do that. Because one thing I
Speaker 1: can say about.
Speaker 2: Nicki Nikki on tour, she doing her thing like you
Speaker 2: were trying to be shaity. You thought Nikki was Finn
Speaker 2: the key key with you, but that and shout out
Speaker 2: to Nikky. We love us some meg and we love
Speaker 2: us an.
Speaker 1: Yeah, we don't choose sides over here, hotfully, I really
Speaker 1: hope they can get cool at some point, because a
Speaker 1: collab would be fine. Her Girl Summer was a bop
Speaker 1: and we need to run it back a collab, a
Speaker 1: new collab. But either way, if.
Speaker 2: Last point I want to make you called me, well, no,
Speaker 2: I think I called. We talked the next day, maybe
Speaker 2: after the documentary.
Speaker 1: No, because I hadn't I don't think I have Oh
Speaker 1: oh yeah, I hadn't watched the Egg. Yeah, but you
Speaker 1: were your reaction, Oh my god, Please, I don't want
Speaker 1: to get emotional. This is not bach. I make up
Speaker 1: then and I got last's on. I don't want to.
Speaker 1: I don't want to get emotional. But like your your wait,
Speaker 1: maybe it's the leak.
Speaker 2: You don't be crying for real, Like what the going on?
Speaker 1: Okay? So like your response was just so thank you, Ty.
Speaker 1: Your response was just so triggering for me because oh
Speaker 1: my god, what No, you want to start crying to
Speaker 1: my tears don't fall me? Oh my god. Okay. So
Speaker 1: maybe this is a good thing because a lot of
Speaker 1: people don't really see this side. Yeah, okay, so people
Speaker 1: think I don't have the side which you see this
Speaker 1: side of me all the time.
Speaker 2: But we needed to talk about it.
Speaker 1: So you've been through so much. We both have, you know,
Speaker 1: like losing my dad was so fucking hard, and then
Speaker 1: it's like I kind of was prepared for it a
Speaker 1: little bit because I knew my dad was sick, but
Speaker 1: like still when it happened, it was like what the fuck? Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: you know, crazy thing about me. I recorded the same day,
Speaker 1: and then we didn't talk about it for like two
Speaker 1: months or whatever. A lot of people didn't even know
Speaker 1: because I'm just that type of person. I'm like I
Speaker 1: got to keep myself busy to keep my mind off
Speaker 1: of things. So I feel like for a long time,
Speaker 1: I didn't even deal with the death of my dad.
Speaker 1: And so right when I felt like we was kind
Speaker 1: of like get into a good space with the head,
Speaker 1: like the situation which your mom happened, which was like
Speaker 1: so fucking crazy still to this day, because it just happened.
Speaker 1: I don't know it. Yeah, yeah, we was all so
Speaker 1: fucking shocked, and like, so when you called me about
Speaker 1: the documentary, I was just like, oh, like it was
Speaker 1: so triggering because I could tell you was really like
Speaker 1: experiencing it all over because you and men kind of
Speaker 1: have like the same story a little bit. You know,
Speaker 1: and it was just like, I don't know, bro, I
Speaker 1: just be feeling for you so bad because I know,
Speaker 1: like the thing with me is it's not to say
Speaker 1: that I don't I don't go through the same things
Speaker 1: and like miss my dad and but I just feel
Speaker 1: like me and you are just so different, Like I'm
Speaker 1: a little bit more like hard yeah yeah, you know,
Speaker 1: like I go through it, but I'm just able to
Speaker 1: like maneuver, yeah, and I feel like for you, it's
Speaker 1: like a little bit harder. And which is so crazy
Speaker 1: because I think when people see us, like you're older
Speaker 1: than me, you you the think you you to stay
Speaker 1: in like people think that you're gonna be like the
Speaker 1: tougher one, but in reality it's me, Like I feel
Speaker 1: like I'm like your little and I just always worry
Speaker 1: about you. I guess it's what I was my whole
Speaker 1: point in saying all of these. I just always worry
Speaker 1: about you because I'm okay. Yeah, Like I'm at a
Speaker 1: point where I have accepted it and I've accepted what
Speaker 1: it is, and I'm okay. Like I have my moments
Speaker 1: where I'm sad and I some days I don't want
Speaker 1: to get out of bed still too but I'm okay
Speaker 1: with you. I just don't never know if you're gonna
Speaker 1: be okay, and it worries me so much. Also, I'm
Speaker 1: never gonna like to tell your business. But like even
Speaker 1: when it first happened, like what you shared with me,
Speaker 1: I was.
Speaker 2: Just like, yeah, it was.
Speaker 1: I think it was a lot for everybody around well,
Speaker 1: even like because you was like, I'm so glad that
Speaker 1: you came. Yeah, yeah, yeah, when you came, and I'm
Speaker 1: just like, yeah, it just always scared. I just never know.
Speaker 2: I think I think with this and like I said,
Speaker 2: I've worked through a lot of things, and with the documentary,
Speaker 2: it was.
Speaker 1: It was.
Speaker 2: Shocking because I went through the same thing. You know,
Speaker 2: Meg lost her dad at a young age. I lost
Speaker 2: my dad at a young age. And you know, when
Speaker 2: you when you don't have two parents and you have
Speaker 2: one parent that I mean, my mom would if you
Speaker 2: if y'all go scroll back far enough, y'all can literally
Speaker 2: go in eighty five South comments and see my mom
Speaker 2: and they're arguing down when you have somebody.
Speaker 1: The last post on your mom's page and.
Speaker 2: Literally me Her and Ryan, and when you have a
Speaker 2: parent that just believed in you and would go to
Speaker 2: war about you and was your best friend and your everything.
Speaker 2: So the way that Megan's relationship was with her mom,
Speaker 2: I saw that because her mom was.
Speaker 1: Like twirk uh dance shake that ass.
Speaker 2: My mom was like the same thing with like when
Speaker 2: you go and you crack them jokes like you need
Speaker 2: to be like you can't.
Speaker 1: You know she used to.
Speaker 2: They used to call my mom like, oh, Lex got
Speaker 2: a potty mouth. And they wouldn't call me legs. You know,
Speaker 2: they would be like, you know, she got a potty
Speaker 2: mouth and she's.
Speaker 1: So she doing her thing. Let her do her and
Speaker 1: shout out to mothers like that. Because I feel like
Speaker 1: my mom liked that. Yeah, like she come to all
Speaker 1: our shows. She'd be there, like, shout out to having
Speaker 1: mothers that support your dreams and your virgin and your
Speaker 1: mom was a real wins.
Speaker 2: So the fact that when meg lost her mom, she
Speaker 2: kind of had to she couldn't stop.
Speaker 1: And I know that feeling because.
Speaker 2: I had nothing, and when I moved out to Atlanta
Speaker 2: was like, oh my god, we're getting ready to go
Speaker 2: on tour. I could not stop because not only was
Speaker 2: it I have a business partner, I have a team
Speaker 2: around me. I got people that got to get paid,
Speaker 2: And I knew the same thing that Meg said. If
Speaker 2: I would have stayed home and cried for the summer,
Speaker 2: my mom would have been so mad at me.
Speaker 1: Yeah, she would have been.
Speaker 2: Like, what the act did you learn anything from me,
Speaker 2: you dumb ass beach. That's exactly what she would have said.
Speaker 2: And so I understood that feeling of I have to
Speaker 2: keep going because this is what you prepared me for
Speaker 2: and this is what you said I was built for.
Speaker 1: But also it's like you have no guidance. I have
Speaker 1: no guidance. You really okay? So like, oh my god,
Speaker 1: I don't want to start crying, like lord please, you
Speaker 1: really broke my heart when you was like, I just
Speaker 1: feel like everybody around me that can like call people, yeah,
Speaker 1: you know, like you even with me, like it's like, okay,
Speaker 1: my dad did pass away, but I can still call
Speaker 1: my mom, you know. So you were like everybody around me, like,
Speaker 1: if y'all going through something, if y'are dealing with something,
Speaker 1: you can call people, be trying to get on Google,
Speaker 1: and I'm and when I was talking about that, I'm
Speaker 1: talking about but that was such I mean, it's real,
Speaker 1: real thing, because I feel like so many people you like,
Speaker 1: are are dealing with that. Like it's like, what the
Speaker 1: fuck do I do?
Speaker 2: As we're being I'm sorry, don't mean to inter but
Speaker 2: as we're adults. We're adults, right, So you go to
Speaker 2: the doctor or your emergency contact you like, oh mom,
Speaker 2: when was the last time? Or oh man, what's my
Speaker 2: blood type? Oh man, what's this?
Speaker 1: Mam? What's that? What's the I don't I don't get that. Yeah,
Speaker 1: And it hits.
Speaker 2: Me all the time, like when whenever my health had
Speaker 2: went to shit, I'm trying to figure out X y Z,
Speaker 2: and I'm like, fuck, this is stuff that my mom
Speaker 2: knows I don't have.
Speaker 1: I got to get on Google.
Speaker 2: When I'm trying to figure out stuff with my taxes,
Speaker 2: stuff with her house, or stuff with medical and this
Speaker 2: and that, I gotta get on fucking Google, or I
Speaker 2: gotta call and hope my sister can help me with something.
Speaker 1: But shit, she got she got two kids, she got
Speaker 1: a husband, she got you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2: So it's just like I have to navigate this alone.
Speaker 2: And I'm sorry, but and I say, because I'm watching
Speaker 2: Meg and I'm watching her and I'm not even on
Speaker 2: nowhere near the level of her, and I'm watching her
Speaker 2: become a global superstar. Because also when you make money,
Speaker 2: you gotta learn how to keep it. You gotta learn
Speaker 2: how to multiply it. You gotta learn how not to
Speaker 2: lose it. You gotta learn all this stuff. So on
Speaker 2: top of being relevant and making good music, having good episodes,
Speaker 2: dropping good episodes, I'm trying to learn how to make
Speaker 2: money now.
Speaker 1: And all I was gonna say, like, I'm not, you know,
Speaker 1: trying to cut you off or anything, but like be
Speaker 1: shout out to you, Shout out to it, Shout out
Speaker 1: to you too, Shout out to you too, tied because
Speaker 1: I think we may have talked about this one episode.
Speaker 1: I can't remember. I think we did talk to you
Speaker 1: about this on the episode though, but I know you
Speaker 1: lost your mom too, And shout out to y'all and
Speaker 1: shout out to me, because all y'all doing a great job.
Speaker 1: Y'all moms would be so proud of y'all.
Speaker 2: Like, and even when you.
Speaker 1: Doubt yourself, I just always be wanting to let you know, like,
Speaker 1: be you doing a good job like you are at
Speaker 1: the end of the day, we have been dealt unfair cards.
Speaker 1: I think anybody that lost one of their parents at
Speaker 1: a young age, has been dealt an unfair hand, you
Speaker 1: know what I mean. But we doing the best with
Speaker 1: the cards that we've been dealed, and that's all we
Speaker 1: could do. You know, it's unfortunate. It's like people who
Speaker 1: get to grow all with their parents. You're so lucky,
Speaker 1: and y'all don't really y'all do not realize how amazing
Speaker 1: that is and what a blessing that is, you know
Speaker 1: what I mean, Because it's hard out here, like losing
Speaker 1: your parents. You do be feeling like, how the fuck
Speaker 1: am I supposed to keep going? How am I supposed
Speaker 1: to go on in life? Like I don't know if
Speaker 1: I'm doing the right thing. And it's like the same
Speaker 1: thing you said with your mom. That's how I be
Speaker 1: feeling about my dad. Losing my dad, Like me and
Speaker 1: my dad were so close. Yeah, he always had my back,
Speaker 1: he was always there for me. I could always call
Speaker 1: him right or wrong. He always had my back and
Speaker 1: always had my best interest. And it's just hard. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's a hard thing.
Speaker 2: And like I said the last point, I wanted to hate.
Speaker 1: I hate that this conversation went here because I know
Speaker 1: you don't like talking about it. I can't feel about
Speaker 1: your face too. No, it's okay.
Speaker 2: I'm just trying to finish my thought and the last
Speaker 2: like I said, the last thing, I'll say, then we
Speaker 2: can wrap this up and move on. When Meg said,
Speaker 2: what does she say? She said, you know, you can
Speaker 2: be doing all these amazing things and you're so used
Speaker 2: to having your mom and your parents be like, Okay.
Speaker 1: You're doing a good job. You're doing a good job.
Speaker 2: So it hits a little different when you don't have
Speaker 2: that like somebody who literally pushed you out and you
Speaker 2: don't get that, you know what I'm saying, Like I
Speaker 2: say all that to say, it just be hard because.
Speaker 1: You're like, but am I doing a good job?
Speaker 2: Because the person who raised you, who saw you through
Speaker 2: all all your chapters, all they see that growth and
Speaker 2: they see like, you know, you see me from you know,
Speaker 2: twenty six, twenty seven to now.
Speaker 1: Which is a lot of growth, by the way, but
Speaker 1: you know on you since it was twenty five.
Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying, a lot of growth, so ten
Speaker 2: years now. But sometimes like when I'm not when I'm
Speaker 2: doing something that everybody looks like as right, my mom
Speaker 2: was there to be like this, Yeah, that ain't it,
Speaker 2: And so you're like, am I doing a good job?
Speaker 1: Though? Like am I?
Speaker 2: Cause like I said, I don't have that.
Speaker 1: I don't.
Speaker 2: You don't you need that motherly guidance. I don't have
Speaker 2: that motherly guidance. And I think that's what broke my
Speaker 2: heart because it's I could never be Meg because I
Speaker 2: get hundreds of people saying mean things to me, and
Speaker 2: I'll be ready to break down. Imagine millions of people
Speaker 2: on the internet tearing you down, and all youre trying
Speaker 2: to do is grieve your mother. All you was trying
Speaker 2: to do is go out and have a good time.
Speaker 2: If somebody shot you, all you're trying to do is
Speaker 2: just do what you want for a living. All you're
Speaker 2: just trying to do is fucking exist in this world.
Speaker 1: And this world is hard. It's hard to exist.
Speaker 2: So to close the documentary out it was great. I
Speaker 2: think it humanized Meg a lot. And I'm not saying
Speaker 2: if you don't like her or whatever, that's your opinion.
Speaker 2: But to people that have lost dads, mothers and we
Speaker 2: still have to show up to do our job, just
Speaker 2: go a little bit easy on people. All that comments
Speaker 2: that y'all be saying I be sometimes like when the
Speaker 2: documentary jobs, I searched to end her words hashtag because
Speaker 2: I knew we were gonna talk about on the show.
Speaker 1: It was I saw some nasty things. I mean, and
Speaker 1: I'm gonna say this too because not that I care
Speaker 1: that much, because again, I feel like I'm a very like, strong,
Speaker 1: resilient person. But I feel like the the response that
Speaker 1: you get with you losing your mom is not the
Speaker 1: same response I get with me losing my dad. Really no,
Speaker 1: because I feel like you get such an outpour and
Speaker 1: good love all the time from listeners from people like, oh, Lex,
Speaker 1: I feel like you know you're doing such a great
Speaker 1: job and you lost your mom or whatever, and b ch,
Speaker 1: I never get did well.
Speaker 2: You know what, people don't understand how close you and
Speaker 2: your dad were, because.
Speaker 1: How bitch I have that? Nigga? No, no, I know.
Speaker 2: But what I'm say I'm saying is people perceive, you know,
Speaker 2: like we were talking about with him last week, people
Speaker 2: think that dad's aren't in the home or they don't
Speaker 2: so they assumed they don't know how much your dad
Speaker 2: loved you and how close y'all were. Yeah, so that's
Speaker 2: not nothing to do with you that's more so how
Speaker 2: people perceive black no.
Speaker 1: No, And that's the thing I was gonna say, friend,
Speaker 1: I don't take it personally, yeah yeah, But it's the
Speaker 1: reason that I brought it up is because it's just
Speaker 1: interesting to me, Like it's interesting that we've both been
Speaker 1: through technically the same thing, you know what I mean, Like, no,
Speaker 1: it wasn't my mom, but it was my dad, And
Speaker 1: like I knew this nigga my whole life, Like I
Speaker 1: never knew a life without him. I never knew a
Speaker 1: life where I couldn't call my dad, talk to him,
Speaker 1: go see him whatever. And then I lost this person.
Speaker 1: But it's just interesting the difference in support that we get,
Speaker 1: you know, like you losing your mom versus me losing
Speaker 1: my dad. It's just interesting when I be peeping it
Speaker 1: from like the comments and all of that stuff. It's
Speaker 1: just an interesting thing. It's interesting because I think people
Speaker 1: don't feel like they need to offer the same support,
Speaker 1: like you said, when you lose your dad versus when
Speaker 1: you lose your mom. It's like when it's your mom,
Speaker 1: it's like, oh my god. I think it's like because
Speaker 1: she cares you. It's just a different type of relationship.
Speaker 1: It's a different type of relationship, and I think it's
Speaker 1: different with men. But to me, that's sad. And going
Speaker 1: back to the conversation that we had with the ball,
Speaker 1: I mean the bell, It's like, why though, men, men
Speaker 1: who are present in the home, men who are real fathers.
Speaker 1: When you lose your dad, it's the same effect on
Speaker 1: the person. It's the same thing. It's a it's a
Speaker 1: huge loss. But why, I mean because I'm close to
Speaker 1: you and I.
Speaker 2: Saw how bad it was. I saw how bad it
Speaker 2: was for you. Yeah, And like I said, I think
Speaker 2: that's more of just like a community thing and just
Speaker 2: I think it's how we present as well. I was like,
Speaker 2: you're you're strong, and theyve My sister is the same
Speaker 2: way in the family. When we going around the family,
Speaker 2: everybody be crowding around me because I'm just I've always
Speaker 2: been open about my struggles and I'm sensitive, but I'm
Speaker 2: always like, if I'm going through it, I'll let you know.
Speaker 2: My sister is very much like, I gotta pick it up.
Speaker 2: I got two boys. I gotta keep it pushing that
Speaker 2: tourist energy. She's like, I gotta keep it pushing, like
Speaker 2: I can't stop. I can't which we're both the same
Speaker 2: like that. But my sister's just.
Speaker 1: Like I was gonna say, give yourself a little more
Speaker 1: credit because you are like that.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean I am like that to a certain extent.
Speaker 1: I like you. I think you like that.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah you don't.
Speaker 1: Go home and yeah, I'm definitely gonna go home and craft.
Speaker 1: But but one thing I will say about you thought, no,
Speaker 1: I'm getting the boot bitch y'all didn't. I'm not doing
Speaker 1: with y'all yet.
Speaker 2: But I would need it though, because everybody's like, oh,
Speaker 2: d don't give a fuck about nothing. She's strong. She
Speaker 2: did she that, so not saying I thought, but still
Speaker 2: I definitely a few like I never I never thought
Speaker 2: about that, But now that you say that, it does
Speaker 2: make sense.
Speaker 1: But like I said, I.
Speaker 2: Think that's just how people perceive us. But that goes
Speaker 2: with people just they know you online and they don't
Speaker 2: know you in real life. Because I know how close
Speaker 2: you and your dad were. I saw how it affects you.
Speaker 2: I saw it still affects you. You know, you still
Speaker 2: have your days. We both still have our days. Like
Speaker 2: like I said, the day you called me and you
Speaker 2: were like, girl, I'm just checking on you. Cause where
Speaker 2: you've been, I know something going on because you just
Speaker 2: know me and you were like I'm I know you.
Speaker 1: And then anytime you are a person unfortunately where I
Speaker 1: won't say everybody but people that know you can look
Speaker 1: at your social media until when you're not in a
Speaker 1: good space. Well like what that's something about you that
Speaker 1: has been that way forever, like ever since I've known you,
Speaker 1: Like bitch, I can get on your I can get
Speaker 1: on your Instagram, I can get on your Twitter, and
Speaker 1: I know when my friend not in a good mood,
Speaker 1: like I know when you. I know when you dealing
Speaker 1: with something. I know when you're going through something. So
Speaker 1: but you also you're an interesting person because you're a
Speaker 1: person where it's like people got to check on you.
Speaker 1: People also gotta give you your space. Yeah, so whenever
Speaker 1: you say stuff online and I know you going through something,
Speaker 1: I will check on you. But then I'll also be
Speaker 1: trying to give you time.
Speaker 2: And I think with social media too, you everybody knows
Speaker 2: it's about me too. I've always hate I don't like
Speaker 2: social media.
Speaker 1: So it's like I'll be.
Speaker 2: Active on there now because it's my job and I
Speaker 2: have to. So when I'm like extremely active and I'm
Speaker 2: like doing my job. It's because like I'm laughing, I'm joking,
Speaker 2: I'm having fun. But like when I do like the
Speaker 2: bare minimum, that's when I just be like, I hate this.
Speaker 2: I hate talking to y'all. I hate everything. I hate
Speaker 2: you know. So I think like with social media, like
Speaker 2: you can tell you because you know me, but people
Speaker 2: will be you know, they just a lex me and
Speaker 2: goofy lex me and silly lets me and x y
Speaker 2: z because.
Speaker 1: Silly because sometimes you tweet a lot of the time.
Speaker 1: For me, you tweet like, well I'll sit yeah, but
Speaker 1: you will say, like.
Speaker 2: I mean, but one thing I will say, I do
Speaker 2: tweet about my mom all the time. Ye I'll be
Speaker 2: like I miss my mom, Like oh my god, I
Speaker 2: cannot like because I'll be in the best space in
Speaker 2: my life and then I'll just be thinking about my
Speaker 2: mom and I all like tweet that. So I think
Speaker 2: that's why they don't notice it. But you can tell
Speaker 2: the difference in my tone like just because like I said,
Speaker 2: you know me, but other people like.
Speaker 1: They don't be knowing. They don't see it. And it's
Speaker 1: crazy because we're gonna move on. But I mean, it's fine.
Speaker 1: I think this was a really good conversation.
Speaker 2: But I will say when that documentary drop, When that
Speaker 2: documentary job, y'all, don't. I got so many messages. I
Speaker 2: got so many message just from a lot of people
Speaker 2: that went to that first tour. And it was one
Speaker 2: girl who messaged me. She was like, lex, I don't
Speaker 2: know if you remember, but it was right whenever your
Speaker 2: mom had passed. I don't mean to bring it up,
Speaker 2: but she was like, I was in the audience and
Speaker 2: I remember somebody asked you, like how you were doing
Speaker 2: and you had to get off stage. She was like,
Speaker 2: and I'm waiting on the side. She was like, and
Speaker 2: I saw the guy hug you. She told about Ryan,
Speaker 2: because like, uh oh, I don't want to get emotional,
Speaker 2: but like when I ran off of stage or Ryan
Speaker 2: just hug me.
Speaker 1: And it made me sad because.
Speaker 2: Like I said, I thought in that moment about Meg,
Speaker 2: I'm like, when you run off stage and you're overwhelmed.
Speaker 2: I needed that hug and the fact that nobody was
Speaker 2: there to hug her it made me so sad. And
Speaker 2: one thing I can say that I'm grateful for is
Speaker 2: because I get to do this with you. I got girl,
Speaker 2: nobody it's the truth. Though I had to go on
Speaker 2: tour Goodness and I'm struggling. I'm having breakdowns every day.
Speaker 2: But I got somebody knocking on my door.
Speaker 1: Like what you need?
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm here. Yeah, and I And, like I said,
Speaker 2: I know, I keep bringing it back to me because
Speaker 2: I really wanted to talk about this because I hate
Speaker 2: the way people treat her, because y'all don't know how
Speaker 2: it feels to not have nothing. Yeah, and the fact
Speaker 2: that well no, let me know when I say nothing,
Speaker 2: Well no, well let me say this. They don't know
Speaker 2: what it's like to not have nothing, but look like
Speaker 2: you have everything everything. And I think that's where people
Speaker 2: lack empathy. People like us, people like me beautiful.
Speaker 1: It's like, what, bro, how are you complaining when you
Speaker 1: have this platform and you're doing X, Y and Z
Speaker 1: and all of these people are watching you. Y'all are successful,
Speaker 1: and y'all making money and y'all are beautiful, Like, what
Speaker 1: the fuck are y'all complaining about? Perception is everything? Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's where that's where people lack empathy.
Speaker 2: Yeah, And I, like I said, I hate the way
Speaker 2: that they treat her, But my heart goes out to
Speaker 2: her because she was on tour by herself, and that's
Speaker 2: the point I was making. That's why I was like,
Speaker 2: I didn't have to go on tour by myself.
Speaker 1: I have my sister with me, you.
Speaker 2: Know, like I obviously like you're like you're not. It's
Speaker 2: beyond business, it's beyond a friendship, like you're like my family.
Speaker 2: Like And when I think about that tour, and when
Speaker 2: I think about that whole year, it was such a
Speaker 2: blur for me. But I think about how I was
Speaker 2: on the edge and I was there, and I was like,
Speaker 2: there's no point. I don't have no point, and but
Speaker 2: I could just like I could wake up and I
Speaker 2: could get through the day because like I had somebody
Speaker 2: to pick me up.
Speaker 1: I had that.
Speaker 2: I had that community. And I don't have a big
Speaker 2: community still to this day.
Speaker 1: I don't because you don't need one.
Speaker 2: I mean I don't need one, but I didn't have
Speaker 2: one because that year when I lost my mother, I
Speaker 2: had people, like I said, look at me in my
Speaker 2: face and say things only to stab me in the back.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: So I say all that to say because this documentary
Speaker 2: made me realize how evil people can be just because,
Speaker 2: like you said, they think that they have it all,
Speaker 2: but like I said, my heart goes out to make
Speaker 2: because she didn't have a community. And when, like I said,
Speaker 2: the biggest part that stuck out to me was when
Speaker 2: she walked backstage after that performance and not one person
Speaker 2: hugged her. And it broke my heart because when I
Speaker 2: walked backstage, I had somebody there that I met him
Speaker 2: through work, but he flew his ass out to Houston
Speaker 2: and drove to Orange and was at my mom's memorial
Speaker 2: like I had that everybody like showed up for me.
Speaker 2: Everybody showed up for me, And yeah, my heart broke
Speaker 2: for her. But I think that, like I said, if
Speaker 2: you're indifferent about Meg, you don't like. I'm not saying
Speaker 2: you have to like her, but just give people a break.
Speaker 2: We're all human. Life is hard for all of us.
Speaker 2: I don't care how much money you got. I don't
Speaker 2: care how beautiful you are. I don't care here any
Speaker 2: king your race. Life is fucking hard. Give people a break.
Speaker 1: Yet he was some grace, you know, because this shit.
Speaker 2: Is and and also and like I said, especially for you.
Speaker 2: And I want to say this to you because I
Speaker 2: talked about this even when your dad passed. I ain't
Speaker 2: never seen no shit like that in my life because
Speaker 2: when my mom passed, bitch, I canceled the photo shoot.
Speaker 1: I canceled the photo shoot.
Speaker 2: We had a photo shoot that day. I was driving
Speaker 2: to the photo shoot, about to go to area and
Speaker 2: I and my sister called me and I literally had
Speaker 2: to pull on the side of the road. I pulled
Speaker 2: in the gas station and I just broke down. I
Speaker 2: called Dre. I was screaming. I said, I don't know,
Speaker 2: I don't even know.
Speaker 1: It was such a blur, but I remember what you said.
Speaker 1: It was just kind of like you didn't know if
Speaker 1: your mom was okay because y'all talking to rout chair
Speaker 1: all the time. And I'm just like, oh, you know,
Speaker 1: just me because one thing about me, y'all I'm always
Speaker 1: like optimistic, her overly optimistic, over manifested, Like that's just me,
Speaker 1: Like everything everything is gonna be okay, it's fine. And
Speaker 1: so I'm just like, oh, friend, like it's fine. Maybe
Speaker 1: her phone dead, Like I just knew it. Yeah, And
Speaker 1: you said that. I just knew you said that, And like,
Speaker 1: my god, this is just such an emotional It was
Speaker 1: because I don't want to start crying again, be like
Speaker 1: you did. You was like, I just know something is wrong,
Speaker 1: like I know something is wrong. And I was just like, no,
Speaker 1: it's fine, Like it's fine, like maybe her phone is dead,
Speaker 1: like she's okay whatever, And then you ended up was
Speaker 1: you was like, Oh, my sister's gonna do a wellness
Speaker 1: check or whatever. She's gonna get the police to go
Speaker 1: or emergency people to go do a willness chick. And
Speaker 1: then they went did the wellness chick and he called
Speaker 1: me back. He was just screaming, and I just knew
Speaker 1: what it was, you know, like it was just.
Speaker 2: Crazy and like And that's why I'm saying as far
Speaker 2: as you, because like the morning you called me, you
Speaker 2: were crying and I was like.
Speaker 1: No, I was a circle. I was, ay, no, that's
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. You were that's my friend, I know,
Speaker 1: because you.
Speaker 2: Were crying and you were like I couldn't understand you.
Speaker 2: And I kept saying what, Dre. I kept saying what,
Speaker 2: and you would I'm like what, I'm like, what is
Speaker 2: going on? I couldn't hear like you just kept you
Speaker 2: were saying something. I'm just like, Drea, please, I said,
Speaker 2: please just breathe and slow down, and you finally like
Speaker 2: got it out and you said it, and I said, Okay,
Speaker 2: we don't have to record today, we don't. You said no,
Speaker 2: We're still going to go to the studio, and I'm like,
Speaker 2: what the actual fuck? Like I tried to cancel.
Speaker 1: I'm like, yeah, no, you were very I was like, no, we're.
Speaker 2: Not going to this. I'm like, bro, we're not going
Speaker 2: to record. We're not going You're like, no, we got
Speaker 2: to go record because this is during the time this was.
Speaker 1: I mean, we didn't have We used to record on Mondays. Yeah,
Speaker 1: on Wednesdays. Yeah, we hadn't. We hadn't work. We had
Speaker 1: it did the eighty five episode where like the ship
Speaker 1: went viral. Yeah, we had to just talking to on
Speaker 1: the episode with the bell like we hadn't need the
Speaker 1: eighty five episode, it was just us. We was in
Speaker 1: a BOOTHBA. We was in the booth Unmike y'all, and
Speaker 1: like they was used to like getting episodes every week.
Speaker 1: So I'm just like I was willing to go.
Speaker 2: I was like, me and Marine can do the episode.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: I was like, but you showed up because I couldn't
Speaker 2: show up.
Speaker 1: And people still to this day, like when I talk
Speaker 1: about that situation, because even if you go back and
Speaker 1: watch it, you are always like you would never know.
Speaker 1: Dre just found that out.
Speaker 2: So I think, like I said, when anybody has lost anybody,
Speaker 2: y'all have to be just nice and stop just assuming things.
Speaker 2: And we are more all of the stories. We all
Speaker 2: going through it. So thank you Meg for being vulnerable
Speaker 2: and being open. It's not easy. We rarely talk about
Speaker 2: our parents on the show. We'll crack a little joke
Speaker 2: oop here and there. But I think the world needed
Speaker 2: to see that.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think people never really see us talk about
Speaker 1: it for I mean, they saw a little bit on
Speaker 1: the Melissa episode that I feel the first time we
Speaker 1: talked it. Yeah, but I feel like I didn't really
Speaker 1: get that emotional on this episode. But I just get
Speaker 1: emotional when it comes to you in the situation because
Speaker 1: like I said earlier, for me as your friend, as
Speaker 1: one of your best friends, I and I feel like
Speaker 1: out of all of your best friends, I'm around you
Speaker 1: the most. Yeah, because I'm out here believe they all
Speaker 1: the rest of them live in Houston, So it's like
Speaker 1: I see you every day and like I just don't
Speaker 1: even knowing if you Yeah, I mean, and it stressed
Speaker 1: me out because It's always like a thing that I'm
Speaker 1: always thinking about. Like whenever I'm not around you, I
Speaker 1: just be like, oh, I wonder it. Really it's okay,
Speaker 1: and that's the fair.
Speaker 2: And like I said, I'm not I appreciate you for that.
Speaker 2: I mean my fa the same way my sister be
Speaker 2: having whole breakdowns cause she'd be like instoer the phone
Speaker 2: or this and that, and I'll.
Speaker 1: Just be like, no, if you wanted them people to like, yes,
Speaker 1: I'll be just when you don't answer the phone, I'll
Speaker 1: be like, oh no, let me call again. Yeah, okay,
Speaker 1: dark humor never relax. No, I mean we both have
Speaker 1: dark humor, so I get like I can laugh for
Speaker 1: I know. But but I'll say this other victory all people.
Speaker 1: But I'll say this.
Speaker 2: I will say this, I think I have come a
Speaker 2: long way with my mental health and my journey. And
Speaker 2: I will say I know I understand now that I'm
Speaker 2: more blessed than I'm not. I am more blessed than
Speaker 2: I am not. And like I said, I think this
Speaker 2: sometimes it sounds so weird. And I remember talking to
Speaker 2: you on the phone the other day when you called me,
Speaker 2: you were like and I was just crying and I'm like,
Speaker 2: I know it sounds so stupid because I'm crying over
Speaker 2: this Meg documentary and I don't even know her, but
Speaker 2: I'm like, certain things will trigger you, and certain things
Speaker 2: will make you realize things and see things.
Speaker 1: And I'm like, and in this moment, Meg, I'm thinking
Speaker 1: she has the world.
Speaker 2: She got Grammy, she got me say, and I'm looking
Speaker 2: in this moment as somebody who has no parents either,
Speaker 2: I got half the shit she got. And I'm feeling
Speaker 2: sorry for her because all the things in the world,
Speaker 2: and you couldn't get a hug, Fitch, they couldn't hug you.
Speaker 2: You couldn't get a hug. And one thing about it,
Speaker 2: I got plenty people to hug me now and that's
Speaker 2: a blessing.
Speaker 1: And I hate the fact that she she has.
Speaker 2: To practice discernment now, she has to watch she was
Speaker 2: around her, But I think that was maybe a lesson
Speaker 2: that she needed to learn because she's young, she's not
Speaker 2: even thirty yet. The fact that she's going through this.
Speaker 2: I lost my mom when I was with thirty two
Speaker 2: thirty three. I lost it as a full blown woman.
Speaker 2: I know what is going on, and I was still
Speaker 2: going through it. So the fact that she lost her
Speaker 2: mom so young, and she has to navigate an industry
Speaker 2: that's actually worse than our industry. The music industry is
Speaker 2: horrible and she's navigating that.
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Speaker 1: Are we going to whoop our kids? A little? Bilt
Speaker 1: to ask? Ain't never hurt nobody? I mean it hurt
Speaker 1: a little bit. Did I get whoopings? How did you
Speaker 1: get whoopings? BITCHA got but I got them now, bitch,
Speaker 1: I got hello whoopings. Let me tell you, I have
Speaker 1: vivid memories of whoopings, and that's why I think they were.
Speaker 1: Did they because it's yeah, because it's certain ones I remember,
Speaker 1: and it still put the fear of God in me.
Speaker 1: Like I got whooped one time in the bathtub. I
Speaker 1: no matter for belt, bitch, yes don't. No matter how
Speaker 1: long I live, I will never forget that ass whop me.
Speaker 1: Ma Mama said she had said something to me. Now,
Speaker 1: what I will say is I don't remember all of
Speaker 1: the context of the conversation, but she says something to me,
Speaker 1: and I was like, girl, whatever in a please? Whatever?
Speaker 1: In the back in the bath why even taking a bag?
Speaker 1: How old were you? I had to be like between
Speaker 1: eight and teen? Bad between eighteen, but she was. She
Speaker 1: was saying something and I was like, girl, whatever, And
Speaker 1: I remember I heard my daddy y'all because and maybe
Speaker 1: that's one of the main reasons why I missed my
Speaker 1: dad so much, because that was my nigga. Like when
Speaker 1: I say always had my back my mama, I heard
Speaker 1: her say, oh, hell Na, and my daddy was like,
Speaker 1: wait a minute, wait a minute, just calm down. Down.
Speaker 1: She was like, no, I'm about the whoop plass.
Speaker 2: She was tired of you because you always used to
Speaker 2: run to your daddy.
Speaker 1: My dad was my daddy. Yeah, he used to always
Speaker 1: like have my bag. Like. My dad was the reason
Speaker 1: that I didn't get a lot of whooping because he
Speaker 1: would talk my mama down. So he so he was like, no,
Speaker 1: just calmed I could hear it. I was like he
Speaker 1: was like, no, just calmed down. I was in, yeah,
Speaker 1: she ain't gonna come in here.
Speaker 2: Worried about her.
Speaker 1: And then she came in there when you was wet
Speaker 1: and I was wet and naked, naked and afraid. That
Speaker 1: was me eb She was the first season. I was
Speaker 1: the first season of Naked in a Fray Bitch. What
Speaker 1: they talk about right now? Okay, So let's go back
Speaker 1: to two thousand and one. Are you gonna whoop your kids?
Speaker 2: Though? Whenever you have home? Exactly? I want to try,
Speaker 2: because like.
Speaker 1: It was more it was more frightening than anything, but
Speaker 1: not frightening enough to where I still wasn't gonna cut up.
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying, like I'm not gonna lie. I
Speaker 1: vividly remember the whoopings, but it stopped me from being bad. No,
Speaker 1: you know what really stopped me more when I would
Speaker 1: get shipped taken away, Like when I would get punished
Speaker 1: and my mom would take well, she would be like,
Speaker 1: are we taking your TV? Got your room? You couldn't
Speaker 1: watch smart girl? Life is about the end? Or why
Speaker 1: does she see that intro? So bad?
Speaker 2: She's saying really bad on that intro? Who was that?
Speaker 1: I don't know? I know the master TJ. Henderson, super
Speaker 1: intelligent and fine, young gentleman. Why do you remember that
Speaker 1: the girl was so bad? I do not even remember
Speaker 1: that she. But Tina is what fucked me up. That
Speaker 1: was my she, Tina, And as told by Gingers, it's
Speaker 1: always green. It was. I mean, that's what really used
Speaker 1: to that, not being able to play snake on my
Speaker 1: Nokia Yo. Okay, hey, so it's just like that used
Speaker 1: to fuck me up more than anything, and that's not
Speaker 1: being able to go outside all hang out with my friend.
Speaker 2: I can go to the scale.
Speaker 1: I used to think my world was gonna end, and
Speaker 1: especially when you go to school on Monday and it
Speaker 1: was like, oh, yeah, we had such a good time
Speaker 1: and you just sitting there like, can't relate. I'm so lame.
Speaker 1: But okay, but I'm not whooping my kids. I have
Speaker 1: two nephews, okay, and one of them back Jackson and Rode.
Speaker 2: Right, I can. I made why you don't want to
Speaker 2: whoop the bad because let me tell you why. I
Speaker 2: let me tell you how you sed to spank Jackson.
Speaker 1: You always say he bed.
Speaker 2: Let me tell you how you sued to spank Jackson.
Speaker 2: I used to be like this, and that's what I
Speaker 2: would do to him, and it wasn't a spanking for real.
Speaker 2: But I couldn't spank him because he was just my
Speaker 2: sweet that's my I will cry my sweet baby.
Speaker 1: But you always say he's sweet and right. I never
Speaker 1: I never spank Jackson.
Speaker 2: My sister. My sister don't spank either one of them.
Speaker 2: Never spank Jackson.
Speaker 1: And when I tell you now, he's still a kid,
Speaker 1: you know he's still but he's so.
Speaker 2: Well behaved, he's so respectful. He's an angel walking this earth.
Speaker 1: Yeah, the sweetest baby.
Speaker 2: And I never until this day Jackson, Yes, ma'am, No,
Speaker 2: ma'am yet angel baby.
Speaker 1: Rod Junior, that little one. It's something about that second child.
Speaker 1: Know you're the oldest nigga.
Speaker 2: Still bad, shit don't work, nothing.
Speaker 1: Works and bad. And I was the only child, baddest, fuzzed.
Speaker 1: Nothing works, bad, nothing bad. So I feel like, honestly,
Speaker 1: it doesn't matter. It matters more about the child. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but spanking, it don't really do it, don't really do
Speaker 1: too much.
Speaker 2: It don't do too much.
Speaker 1: If anything traumatized your kid. I was like, I still
Speaker 1: to this day, my mama used to somebody go like, hey,
Speaker 1: what's up, drag You'd be like, I'm telling you. Me
Speaker 1: and my mama used to be in a car together.
Speaker 1: I'll never forget it was another time. At this point,
Speaker 1: I'm like fourteen, Oh.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I was in ho That's when that ass started
Speaker 2: coming in.
Speaker 1: I was in the car with my mama. She said
Speaker 1: something to me. I said something back. She ain't like
Speaker 1: she you helped me in them off. So like still
Speaker 1: to this day, when I be in a car with
Speaker 1: her and she say something, I'd be like.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but you still got a smart ass mouth.
Speaker 1: No, I don't say nothing, but to her it was
Speaker 1: to teach you to not have a smart ass mouth.
Speaker 2: But you know what, But you know what.
Speaker 1: I'll tell you though, and maybe I'll be wrong, maybe
Speaker 1: people in the comments will disagree with me. I think
Speaker 1: you need to be scared of your parents. I do too.
Speaker 1: You need that little I think sometimes that's the fucking problem.
Speaker 1: And I'm not trying to say, like, my parents definitely
Speaker 1: made they mistakes by societal standard. If you analyze how
Speaker 1: they raised me, a lot of people will probably say, oh,
Speaker 1: it's certain she they did wrong. Nobody is perfect, you
Speaker 1: know what I mean? Like, my parents were not perfect,
Speaker 1: but there's no such a thing as perfect. But I
Speaker 1: ain't gonna look at the material they did something they
Speaker 1: did a little one too, and I was scared of
Speaker 1: my parents, like I But I say on that to say,
Speaker 1: you know, there's a study they have twins in a
Speaker 1: home that were raised the same and one twin goes
Speaker 1: off to be a multi millionaire and other twin on
Speaker 1: the side of the corner popping perks. I feel like you. Okay,
Speaker 1: So the whole parenting thing where like people want their
Speaker 1: kids to be their friend, I stand on the side
Speaker 1: of history where it's like, I'm not your little friend. Yeah, nah,
Speaker 1: I agree with I don't want my I don't want
Speaker 1: my kids to think I'm their little friend. My mom was.
Speaker 2: She was cool when I got older.
Speaker 1: But did you get with me?
Speaker 2: Hell yeah, But that's what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: With a switch. Though I'm from the country, I used
Speaker 1: to get whipped with switches. Oh, let me tell y'all something,
Speaker 1: and it ain't gonna probably be in the comments like,
Speaker 1: oh you was abuse I got with the extension cord
Speaker 1: before extend Yeah, yeah, I.
Speaker 2: Got whipped with y'all. I used to and then they
Speaker 2: used to make me.
Speaker 1: Go pick the switch out. Don't pick the small one
Speaker 1: because those hurt the worst. Yeah, And so it's like,
Speaker 1: I don't know, like I personally for me, I'm not
Speaker 1: going to whoop my kids if I can help you,
Speaker 1: Like if shit got to get to that, you bad
Speaker 1: as fu Yeah, like you bad as fun coming from
Speaker 1: somebody like the the like people that I've dated dealing
Speaker 1: with their kids.
Speaker 2: Whooping don't work. Take that iPad, Oh they finna they
Speaker 2: feelna be the sweetest thing you ever met. A take
Speaker 2: away things that they value. But to me, temporary, temporary
Speaker 2: pain is just that's what it is. It's temporary.
Speaker 1: It's temporary. You gonna still do what you wanna do.
Speaker 1: Because my own whooped my ass with the extension court
Speaker 1: at this time, and I still snuk that boy in
Speaker 1: the house when I was fifteen, like you goat you
Speaker 1: you ain't and got caught and got caught with that too,
Speaker 1: then then then got caught to the two was hot,
Speaker 1: then got caught with that, then went to high school.
Speaker 1: They got me a car. They was like, oh, you
Speaker 1: need to be home at eleven o'clock every day. Stive
Speaker 1: was coming home at twelve.
Speaker 2: Like because she was like, I'm gonna eat this whooping.
Speaker 2: You're gonna eat that whooping. You get whooped a lot.
Speaker 2: It's momentary. But that's what I'm saying to me, whoopings
Speaker 2: don't do nothing. Now they like to call it trauma
Speaker 2: and abuse, and I don't disagree with that whatever. I
Speaker 2: don't like to call people whatever you want to call it,
Speaker 2: But to me, it's more effective. If you have to
Speaker 2: go dazed with feeling something. I used to have to
Speaker 2: go dazed without my car whenever. When I got older,
Speaker 2: my mom stopped.
Speaker 1: Last time I.
Speaker 2: Got a whooping, I was in like second or third grade.
Speaker 2: Once I got older, she would take away things from me.
Speaker 2: So when I did something bad, I had to go
Speaker 2: two weeks without my car.
Speaker 1: I was hurt, bitch, first and foremost. I am with
Speaker 1: you because imagine sitting in your room with nothing to watch.
Speaker 1: You're just looking at the wall, and then you hear
Speaker 1: your mom in the living room listening to uh, well, no,
Speaker 1: what was the name of that show with deliries ain't
Speaker 1: on the Law down the Road angel theme?
Speaker 2: So that'sh My angel was such a good angel.
Speaker 1: Imagine sitting in your room, no TV.
Speaker 2: At the log No she died, my girl, she was
Speaker 2: so good.
Speaker 1: My pinker too. He y'all say whooping? You mean like
Speaker 1: full whooping? Yeah? Or are you saying you don't even
Speaker 1: spank your kids? Like? Is it the same?
Speaker 2: I'm not doing I don't want to put hands and
Speaker 2: feet on.
Speaker 1: My I'm not doing that if I can avoid it,
Speaker 1: because my I'm gonna put hands feet. She put other
Speaker 1: objects too, because she threw a boombox at me once
Speaker 1: and I would say, and I kind of think, shit,
Speaker 1: me a little too far, like traumatizing, And I love
Speaker 1: my mama, like this is no shame, y'all know I traumatized, No,
Speaker 1: but that was I'm not traumatized because the thing about
Speaker 1: I had a good mother. My mama loved me. Like
Speaker 1: everything that she did, I feel like she did because
Speaker 1: at that time, she thought she was parenting to the
Speaker 1: best of her ability, and she thought she was trying
Speaker 1: to get me right and get me in line so
Speaker 1: that I wouldn't become a fucked up adult. I truly
Speaker 1: do think that, even though I would not necessarily do
Speaker 1: some of those things with my own kids, I think
Speaker 1: that people are only a product of what they've been
Speaker 1: through and what they've seen. From what my mom tells
Speaker 1: me about how my grandparents disciplined her and her five siblings,
Speaker 1: that was the she that they got, That's how they
Speaker 1: got the I think I am not a parent obviously.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but I raised my nephew right before like my
Speaker 2: I was there, like it was me and Mama. We
Speaker 2: were there, and I never had to spank him like
Speaker 2: I said I would do like this, Yeah, I literally
Speaker 2: do like this, and he would laugh and it's still
Speaker 2: an inside joke to this day. But I got the
Speaker 2: most out of him to be in respect because I
Speaker 2: take things away. Now he's on my phone bill your
Speaker 2: grade's right, because I'm not gonna pay this bill.
Speaker 1: And he loved his phone, he loved his game, so.
Speaker 2: He gets straight a's because he don't want his phone
Speaker 2: taken away. I feel like there's more effective things to
Speaker 2: do to do then.
Speaker 1: And that's what I was gonna say. Although to a
Speaker 1: certain extent, I feel like it kind of works, kind of,
Speaker 1: but to the point that I was making, I still
Speaker 1: win indeed other sheet afterwards, you know, but I feel
Speaker 1: like she was. But I feel like she she was
Speaker 1: doing what she felt like was the best thing to do.
Speaker 1: Now that we're in a different generation and we in
Speaker 1: a different time, I no longer feel like that's necessarily
Speaker 1: the best thing to do. So you're not no, how
Speaker 1: are you whooping your Are you the first time I've
Speaker 1: ever considered it?
Speaker 2: My initial sponsors?
Speaker 1: Yeah, right, But I'm also not into although I was
Speaker 1: whooped with belts, extension cords, whatever they could reach and
Speaker 1: full I don't think I would do that, But I
Speaker 1: feel like if they're small enough, a nice little especially
Speaker 1: when it's stuff. Now, if it's something that they're trying
Speaker 1: to touch, yeah, I'm trying to teach you don't touch this.
Speaker 2: I'll pop their heads. Yeah no, because that's stuff that
Speaker 2: you have to learn. But it's like if you're doing something.
Speaker 2: I went to a private school till I was in
Speaker 2: sixth grade. They used corporal punishments, so when you were bad,
Speaker 2: you got pops.
Speaker 1: Shout out to miss Flucy. I'm always remember that, like
Speaker 1: miss Cook. Miss miss Flucy used to pop us on
Speaker 1: the fun the path. Oh no, we had she had
Speaker 1: she had a she had a little stick and she
Speaker 1: used to call it cotch machine. We had paddles and
Speaker 1: she used to anytime you use me band, she'd be like,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna pull out the cotch machine and like my mom.
Speaker 1: But but the thing about her which shout out to
Speaker 1: her too, because she your parents had to give her permission.
Speaker 1: Like she would talk to the parents and be like, okay,
Speaker 1: so I have a certain way of how I were
Speaker 1: PM and the kids get them in line. But if
Speaker 1: you're not okay with it, and I ain't gonna do it.
Speaker 1: And she told my mom, and my alm was like, oh,
Speaker 1: we'll playing go ahead, Barbro exactly, because I know you
Speaker 1: was bad. I seen your baby pictures.
Speaker 2: You was giving chucky me what you were so cute,
Speaker 2: but you just looked bad.
Speaker 1: Oh I was bad. I was a terrible time. I
Speaker 1: went to a private school. Hero get niggas because I
Speaker 1: was like, I was cute. You ain't see me. You
Speaker 1: just like you used to bite people? You I did?
Speaker 1: And then you know what funny story? Real quick, I
Speaker 1: used to bite people all the time. And my mom
Speaker 1: was like, you used to think that shit was funny,
Speaker 1: Like you would bite people and be laughing because you
Speaker 1: thought it was until the day I'll beat your ass
Speaker 1: bag exactly. And she beat me back and she was like,
Speaker 1: you ain't need that shit was funny, and you ain't
Speaker 1: do it no more. I so I.
Speaker 2: Went to a private school. They didn't have to get
Speaker 2: nothing approved from the patare That's what I'm saying. So,
Speaker 2: but let me tell you something about miss Cook.
Speaker 1: Is it abuse or is it because she beat me back?
Speaker 1: Any words?
Speaker 2: Let me tell you something about this cook though, Miss Cook.
Speaker 1: Now that I look back on it and I think
Speaker 1: about it, I know what Miss Cook went into the
Speaker 1: boof and did he was cookie.
Speaker 2: No, miss Cook went to the booth and didn't vote
Speaker 2: while she was supposed to vote.
Speaker 1: Okay, because you know miss Cook still alive. Don't go.
Speaker 1: Don't say that. Fuck her fucker.
Speaker 2: I hope my mama up there whooping her ass right now.
Speaker 2: Because let me say this, it's about miss Cook.
Speaker 1: It don't matter what I did go to the office
Speaker 1: to get pops. She wouldn't say nothing. She would just
Speaker 1: be like terror go to the office to get pops.
Speaker 1: Damn bitch. Let me get my joke off. Whole ad nigga,
Speaker 1: I'm trying to tell a funny ass knock knock joke.
Speaker 1: I just looked up in my little book that my
Speaker 1: mom about me Christmas. I'm getting these jokes off. Well,
Speaker 1: I know you was mad. That's the whole nother topic
Speaker 1: for you. But what I'm saying is I wasn't doing
Speaker 1: When I think about the reason she used to give
Speaker 1: me pops, it was so like I'm being a kid
Speaker 1: now if I was going around terrorizing biting people, girl,
Speaker 1: excuse I just you, guys, I wasn't biting nobody. I'm
Speaker 1: telling jokes. I'm now.
Speaker 2: I was loud and obnoxious.
Speaker 1: I was that kid. I was no. But but but
Speaker 1: what I'm saying is, now that I think about it,
Speaker 1: Miss Cook, it was given like send this to the office.
Speaker 2: She was white out.
Speaker 1: She was white yes, Miss Fosi.
Speaker 2: That's why your mom came to the school. My mom
Speaker 2: came up to the school and raised hell because she
Speaker 2: started to figure out. She was like, I feel like,
Speaker 2: y'all are picking on my child. Why is my child
Speaker 2: always in the office and I'm asking what's going on?
Speaker 2: And they just talking about because she's talking loud.
Speaker 1: The little bitch loud bitch you was still is so
Speaker 1: TI is thinking now? So now you're reframing, Yeah, because
Speaker 1: I think there is better ways, especially nowadays because now
Speaker 1: kids have way more things that they're so attached to
Speaker 1: as well, So it's like, oh, you're taking my iPad.
Speaker 1: Oh you know, like now they feel like there's something
Speaker 1: more to work towards. But I still agree your kids
Speaker 1: should fear you in some capacity, And it's like, how
Speaker 1: do you have that? How do you find that balance? Yeah?
Speaker 1: I'm honest though, cause like whenever you post pictures in
Speaker 1: your mom and stuff, I'm like, your mom looks so sweet,
Speaker 1: so cool, Like I can't believe she used to be
Speaker 1: whooping your ass. I mean Barbara looks sweet too. No,
Speaker 1: yes she does. And when you talk to Barbara, oh
Speaker 1: you okay again? Funny I went to Houston a few
Speaker 1: weeks ago. Don't do her. Me and my mom. So
Speaker 1: my mom, you know, she's up in age now, so
Speaker 1: she'd be having to go to like routine doctor music's
Speaker 1: all the time. That's why I be fooling when people
Speaker 1: be like old people always want to doctor because they is.
Speaker 1: So she was like, oh, I want you to come
Speaker 1: to the doctor with me. So I was like, okay. Cool.
Speaker 1: So we was getting in the car and I can't
Speaker 1: remember what we was talking about. We talking about something
Speaker 1: and she was like, yeah, all your friends they always
Speaker 1: love me. They be like your mama's so sweet, so cool.
Speaker 1: And I was like yep, oh my god. We was
Speaker 1: talking about these so about whooping your kings, and I
Speaker 1: was saying how I was not gonna whoop my kids,
Speaker 1: and my mom was like for real and I was
Speaker 1: like yeah.
Speaker 2: And I was like, when they come to.
Speaker 1: Your house, you bet not whoop them neither, because I'm
Speaker 1: not gonna whoop them. And she was like, well, I
Speaker 1: feel like you turned out alright. She was like, but
Speaker 1: it's so funny because when I meet all your friends,
Speaker 1: they'd be like, yo, ma, I'm so sweet. And she
Speaker 1: was like and I was like, yeah, yeah, and I'll
Speaker 1: be telling them like you really a minis you do
Speaker 1: be saying that because y'all don't know. Y'all don't, but no,
Speaker 1: I'll be seeing it now.
Speaker 2: When we go out to e I'll be around Miss Barbara.
Speaker 2: I'll be seeing that little minute.
Speaker 1: I'll be like, okay, this is will Barbara be cutting
Speaker 1: up a little bit.
Speaker 2: This is my.
Speaker 1: Theory though with people. When people get old, they become nier.
Speaker 1: But y'all have only know, like you gotta think about it. Friend,
Speaker 1: Like when me and you became friends. My mom is
Speaker 1: seventy five. She just turned seventy five in October. So
Speaker 1: when me and you met in twenty what fifteen sixteen,
Speaker 1: But I don't think you met my mom un till
Speaker 1: like two three years late. It wasn't until you moved
Speaker 1: to it that you met my mom for the first time.
Speaker 1: So like when you met my mom she was already
Speaker 1: in her sixties. You don't know the forty something your
Speaker 1: old version of her and my mom will tell you like,
Speaker 1: I would actually love to have her on the show
Speaker 1: one day because she will tell you like, when she
Speaker 1: was younger, she was a fighter. She used to be fighting.
Speaker 1: She used to get out there, she used to be outside.
Speaker 1: She hey, what I told her about my granny, But
Speaker 1: like she used to be outside. Like y'all be under estimating.
Speaker 1: My mama was a fool when I was younger. God, no,
Speaker 1: you know, the signs of my daddy was the cool ones.
Speaker 1: You know.
Speaker 2: The signs of a good grandma is when you see
Speaker 2: a grandchild and.
Speaker 1: They be greasy, you know, grand bag, that's a love child.
Speaker 1: Oh my god.
Speaker 2: Every time my sister would come home from work, when
Speaker 2: we would both be up where we would come home
Speaker 2: and Jackson used to be a little greasy, and my
Speaker 2: mom used.
Speaker 1: To be like, he looks look ye me ain't dry.
Speaker 2: I'm a good grinned If y'all greanny, grease yr baby up,
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Speaker 1: get into the bop the bowl about about Okay, what's
Speaker 1: about what you're listening to? Oh? Well, okay, this is
Speaker 1: like a song that's not necessarily new, but I feel
Speaker 1: like it fits the episode, and I don't feel like
Speaker 1: we've ever had this. It's about why are you making
Speaker 1: that thing? Because I'm scared you've been cutting up today
Speaker 1: because you done crack about thirty jokes, you done cry.
Speaker 1: You don't curse me out the fuck am I. I
Speaker 1: know you ain't cut up till you said you hurt
Speaker 1: my feelings. You did. I'm sorry because that's the thing
Speaker 1: people don't know about you. And I'm gonna go on
Speaker 1: here and say I ain't trying to throw no shade,
Speaker 1: but like les be mean, y'all, sometimes you do. And
Speaker 1: the funny thing is people think I'm mean, people think
Speaker 1: I'm the mean one, when really and for real, for real,
Speaker 1: than you, absolute fuck lutely bitch, absolutely one, because when
Speaker 1: you and Yo Mo, people know not to fuck with you.
Speaker 1: People know just be like, look at Ta, Look than Drea, damn,
Speaker 1: thank you Ta. I feel like I'm not gonna lie.
Speaker 1: What's the name. What was the name of that movie
Speaker 1: Jamie Fox was in? Was it redemn she?
Speaker 2: Mm hmm?
Speaker 1: What happened? Was it Jamie Falk? What movie? It was
Speaker 1: a movie?
Speaker 2: It was a movie called Bitch.
Speaker 1: It was a movie called redem She And I feel
Speaker 1: like I'm having my redem she moment because everybody feel
Speaker 1: like I'm mean. I'm the mean one when in real
Speaker 1: life les meaner than me on camera. No, okay, let
Speaker 1: me say that, but in real life, lets not with
Speaker 1: the bullshe.
Speaker 2: Okay, I'm not gonna lie and I do own. I
Speaker 2: did go off this morning. I went off real bad
Speaker 2: this morning. We had our makeup. What's the wake up artist?
Speaker 2: What's his name?
Speaker 1: Ohky good to good did our makeup today?
Speaker 2: And he saw me go off, so he's probably he
Speaker 2: probably thinks I'm a bitch too. I didn't go off
Speaker 2: on him. It had nothing to do with him, but
Speaker 2: I was going off. Maybe I am a little bit.
Speaker 2: I'm working on it. I'm working on it.
Speaker 1: You're a little more mean and like you'll be mean
Speaker 1: to me. Like one thing about me that I think
Speaker 1: I mean to everybody? Shane thought I was meaning to
Speaker 1: her one time. Remember you do me being mean? To
Speaker 1: being mean to shame. Mm hmm, well, oh my god,
Speaker 1: you m h okay twitch time? Have I been mean
Speaker 1: to you before? But but let me ask, have I
Speaker 1: ever been meaning the y'all? Oh my god?
Speaker 2: Say have I ever been mean to you?
Speaker 1: And I don't. I don't think you mean either. It's
Speaker 1: time to work, nah, And when you were and I
Speaker 1: think that'd be the thing too, when you be ready
Speaker 1: to go? Oh, it's me okay, But let me say this.
Speaker 1: We're not about being ready to go. I'd be ready
Speaker 1: because exactly I'm always ready to go, but I be
Speaker 1: ready to work. Let's get this work.
Speaker 2: Done so motherfuckers can go home.
Speaker 1: Nah. But the thing is, nobody be tripping on going home,
Speaker 1: but you no. You don't know that though, because they
Speaker 1: they work for us essentially, so they can't be like
Speaker 1: I want to go home.
Speaker 2: Let's get these people in and out.
Speaker 1: Hello. So, yes, it comes off a little mean, but
Speaker 1: let's get this show on the fucking road. Fifteen. Men's
Speaker 1: let's get back to well, going back to our relationship,
Speaker 1: because id ain't I don't work for you, but you
Speaker 1: still like it's you, don't. You were spicy earlier in
Speaker 1: this episode, and I all.
Speaker 2: No, I wasn't spicy episode. I was emotional because I
Speaker 2: was like, you know, no, this is what you said.
Speaker 1: How are you gonna might help? Well, he don't got
Speaker 1: to delete this part, but no, you was like, what
Speaker 1: if I could say, no, I can finish. If I
Speaker 1: can finish, I thought yeah, because I was trying to
Speaker 1: because I know we when we have conversations, we cut
Speaker 1: each other off. But I was trying to get my
Speaker 1: points about the documentary off, and so it was an
Speaker 1: emotional conversation, so I wanted to get out.
Speaker 2: I was just saying, let me finish. It wasn't like
Speaker 2: I didn't say it like that.
Speaker 1: Well girl, first and foremost, you ain't gotta talk me
Speaker 1: down because I know you. That's and I'm also not
Speaker 1: really that sensity. But I was just saying, whenever you
Speaker 1: be in your little mood, i'd be like, got in
Speaker 1: the mold though, no, you not right now, but I'm
Speaker 1: saying whenever you do be ill, just be like, okay, bitch, bye,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna talk to you later because I just thought
Speaker 1: we having time for it and I've learned how to
Speaker 1: deal with you. But your ass is way meaner than
Speaker 1: me because I'm what think about me. I don't stay mad,
Speaker 1: you know, oh fuck, no mad for like a day.
Speaker 1: That's a long time.
Speaker 2: That's not a long time.
Speaker 1: I don't stay mad for hours. Like It'll be like
Speaker 1: hours later and I'll be like, okay, hey girl drinks. No, no,
Speaker 1: you're bad. I'll see you them all. No, you'll be
Speaker 1: like BD, y'all see you next Wednesday. Possibly you be mad.
Speaker 1: I don't be mad. I'm not mad, but like, like,
Speaker 1: get away from me, not you, just people in general. No,
Speaker 1: me too, just people in general. No, not you. I've
Speaker 1: learned so like I.
Speaker 2: Know you though, do you see that's a thought of mine.
Speaker 1: I feel like I've talked about that before on the show,
Speaker 1: like I've gotten into it. My men about the hill
Speaker 1: of Times. He'd be like, one, think about you. You
Speaker 1: don't take shit serious, Like it's not you just don't
Speaker 1: like you think like you think that we can have
Speaker 1: a conversation. And then because we had the conversation tomorrow
Speaker 1: we gonna talk and it's like the bad but you
Speaker 1: know that means like you push stuff under the rood.
Speaker 1: You know that mean from what's her name? Juicy? And
Speaker 1: she walked in room, She's like, hey, how y'all doing it.
Speaker 1: That's you.
Speaker 2: So it's not that you mean any harm.
Speaker 1: You just be like, Okay, we talked about it. It's good. Hey,
Speaker 1: we'll say I mean and let me know if y'all wrong.
Speaker 1: I would like to say, because people always be lucky,
Speaker 1: y'all be taking surveys, but who let's take a survey?
Speaker 1: A Am I wrong? Like I feel like once we
Speaker 1: have a conversation about some shit, it's over.
Speaker 2: No, let me process that conversation and let me sit
Speaker 2: in my feelings of how you made me feel and
Speaker 2: your reaction to it.
Speaker 1: Let me process that. That's it.
Speaker 2: You gotta sit any Yeah, I gotta sit in my emotions.
Speaker 2: I gotta sit in my feelings and sometimes I gotta
Speaker 2: let shit go because if I talk to you right now,
Speaker 2: I'm gonna go off. So let me sit with We know, yeah, I.
Speaker 1: Go off all the time, but I'm also we know
Speaker 1: I need a moment. Give me a fucking moment, and
Speaker 1: I don't go off at all. I just be like, hey, hey, y'all,
Speaker 1: i'd be like, get them. But you know, whenever people
Speaker 1: say we don't look quote unquote like like we're in
Speaker 1: our thirties, I feel like people be wanting to know
Speaker 1: my skin care regimen effects that I don't give. What
Speaker 1: is your bob of the week. How do we get
Speaker 1: on this? Oh? Birds of a feather.
Speaker 2: At your bob?
Speaker 1: Yes? Yes, Oh well okay, it's gonna be sisters, I
Speaker 1: mean my sisters. What's this on my brandy whenever I'm down? Yeah,
Speaker 1: none of the best friend, that's myself. Okay for the week.
Speaker 1: I love you. I love you two sister. We haven't
Speaker 1: been through a lot. Oh you're gonna make me cry again.
Speaker 1: Don don't do that. Okay, my bbo Festa eight down.
Speaker 2: I cannot believe peoples in the comments, like is legs
Speaker 2: going through something? The one week I was actually happy
Speaker 2: because they thought that you didn't.
Speaker 1: Dress up and you weird. That's all I say.
Speaker 2: First of all, weak asshole. I mean, well, I'm not mean.
Speaker 1: I'm responding to the what Johnson said and to the
Speaker 1: hit us. So Grandma, First of all, bitch, I did
Speaker 1: dress I was more T shirt. You know what.
Speaker 2: I'm gonna get to my bob. But I'm just over
Speaker 2: being a bad bitch for Halloween. I ain't never over
Speaker 2: being a baby relate, I know, I just.
Speaker 1: Feel like being a bad bitch for Halloween, and like,
Speaker 1: why you're supposed to be fucking Tommy Pickles. Why is
Speaker 1: your ass hanging out of your diaper? Bitch? Why is
Speaker 1: your pussy lip out of your diaper? Why do I
Speaker 1: see your nipples through your baby shirt? Bitch?
Speaker 2: First supposed to be Tommy Pickles. Like, I'm just I
Speaker 2: just like, don't get it twisted. If you're in your
Speaker 2: twenties whatever, thirties, everybody had fun with it. But when
Speaker 2: you a bad bitch every day, do something.
Speaker 1: Outside the bar. Well first and foremost, that's real rich
Speaker 1: coming from BBL Fester bb.
Speaker 2: But I wasn't attractive at all.
Speaker 1: You was though, because your ass was still asked, but
Speaker 1: because I had to do that. But I covered it
Speaker 1: up as much as I could. But Fester was still
Speaker 1: gonna shake a tail fever. I ain't bl Fester was
Speaker 1: a crazy name because it sounded like a disease festering,
Speaker 1: anything festering. But like I saidn't sound right. I'm making
Speaker 1: some challenge to all the batties of the world next Halloween.
Speaker 1: Do something outside the box, be something really horrifying and scary.
Speaker 1: Get the booth, bitch.
Speaker 2: I ain't been a Battie for a long time in Halloween.
Speaker 2: Oh it's been two years.
Speaker 1: Because last year, because you was at the schoolgirl and
Speaker 1: I was like, oh, you had the ass. Oh we
Speaker 1: went outside, you had the whole ash.
Speaker 2: That was so lame calling me okay, my bop of
Speaker 2: the week, y'all know, I love a good TikTok bob because,
Speaker 2: let me tell you, TikTok will put you on some
Speaker 2: amazing artists. These are small artists that just post their songs.
Speaker 2: They happen to go viral. So my bop of the
Speaker 2: week it's called I Love You I'm Sorry by Gracie Abrams.
Speaker 2: She's like an indie artist, y'all. This song is so
Speaker 2: good because I love a good like heartbreak song. I
Speaker 2: love to sit in my room and listen to good
Speaker 2: lyrics and good I love girls who play the guitar.
Speaker 2: It's something about a girl that can pick up a
Speaker 2: guitar and pluck some strings. That's why I was gonna say,
Speaker 2: India already need to come back.
Speaker 1: But she'd be wildling some songs, she be saying some
Speaker 1: crazy shit. Well what I will say is what was it?
Speaker 1: Sometimes I camb my head and sometimes I don't hate that.
Speaker 2: Uh, it's something about women who play the guitar. Doesn't
Speaker 2: Summer Walker play the guitar, do she?
Speaker 1: Yes? Yes, I mean it's something about women that play
Speaker 1: the guitar.
Speaker 2: They be wilding though any I read is just a
Speaker 2: mad that's an artist. That's when we used to.
Speaker 1: Make me a beautiful woman inside, Like, well you don't.
Speaker 2: You can't say inside you don't know her. You don't
Speaker 2: know that lady. Well from what I see, but she's
Speaker 2: beautiful on the outside, beautiful. I loved her. I remember
Speaker 2: growing up.
Speaker 1: I'm like, from what I see, I think she is
Speaker 1: beautiful on the inside.
Speaker 2: What I seen, she she used to be online wild
Speaker 2: and that's why I said what I said, the beautiful lady.
Speaker 2: I used to love her hair and how she would
Speaker 2: just like have it up and the big ear rings
Speaker 2: and I was just like, oh my god.
Speaker 1: And a skin tone like I'm like that was.
Speaker 2: Like when I used to look at her like that
Speaker 2: is what like a beautiful woman, Like that's a beautiful woman.
Speaker 1: So your legs though, don't listen to that part.
Speaker 2: I see brown skin was a hip Okay, yeah, my
Speaker 2: bop of the week.
Speaker 1: I love you.
Speaker 2: I'm sorry. Gracie A.
Speaker 1: Rooms.
Speaker 2: It's like going crazy on TikTok and it's such a
Speaker 2: good song. It's like a little indie song. So I
Speaker 2: think y'all all like it. Okay, you know what I had? No,
Speaker 2: we're not doing this. Let's right, Okay, real quick, I
Speaker 2: gotta go to Brazil.
Speaker 1: This is my sorry for two thousand and four and
Speaker 1: nine on a mess of no More.
Speaker 2: This year, I'm gonna say my home time to make
Speaker 2: it real.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm sorry. I'm sorry, but Jue, I'm sorry, but
Speaker 1: you lie. I'm sorry in case I don't well that
Speaker 1: that song that you had reminded me of that because
Speaker 1: it was like, I love you, I'm sorry. And I
Speaker 1: was like, what about Ruben Study? Somebody said on Twitter
Speaker 1: the other day and I concur They said, Rupert Study
Speaker 1: it ain't nothing. I mean, rod Wave ain't nothing.
Speaker 2: But why was I gett my lashes done? Shout out
Speaker 2: to Jay? I started get my lashes done again and
Speaker 2: she was playing rod Wave. I'm like, what are you
Speaker 2: so angry?
Speaker 1: They was like Ridewave ain't nothing but room and studded remastered.
Speaker 1: He said the circle and people came over, but no
Speaker 1: one was but it was all for and the young
Speaker 1: kids be like and it was all fun road Wave
Speaker 1: and will be over here. Like when he was sitting
Speaker 1: on the stage and he was in that house and
Speaker 1: he fell backwards.
Speaker 2: I said, move on that mattress.
Speaker 1: You need say that. See niggas was laughing. Dre was like,
Speaker 1: let me call. I'm telling y'all any any wrong move
Speaker 1: legs make I'd be like, hey girl, how you doing?
Speaker 2: And hay, okay, okay, But shout out to rod Wave
Speaker 2: because you know what rod Wave like. You know what
Speaker 2: rod Wave is. No, No, he's not. Road Wave is
Speaker 2: just an intern national or global or national. Zero Zero
Speaker 2: chose to be a huge cause he's Zero is content.
Speaker 2: He like fans music, and he chose to stay in
Speaker 2: Houston and to stay you know, in the southern regions.
Speaker 2: But people love Zero all around the world. But he
Speaker 2: chose not to take that route of being a literally
Speaker 2: global superstar because he wanted to do Ship his way.
Speaker 1: I know Zero is a real nigga.
Speaker 2: Who's he know that real depression Roadway be a little
Speaker 2: fake with it.
Speaker 1: Row and Trey as wholes of my nation, no doubt.
Speaker 1: Tell me you.
Speaker 2: When not hold Minna lay with that ship.
Speaker 1: I hate you, Beach. I hate you, Beach. I never
Speaker 1: thought I say I hate you big like.
Speaker 2: That's a real depressed nigga roadway time.
Speaker 1: That's a time I don't want to grind for you clean.
Speaker 1: That's what I'm trying to do, the y'all and mom man,
Speaker 1: trying to do all that I can, but you like
Speaker 1: you ain't up. Y'all, niggas don't have to fuck with
Speaker 1: me because I can do bed just being one deep
Speaker 1: that y'all. Niggas ain't got to fuck with me. That's
Speaker 1: how that nigga was.
Speaker 2: Like, I don't fuck with y'all, and that's how they.
Speaker 1: Feeling about you, niggas my whole life. That's why you
Speaker 1: was biting niggas. Tell them that's why I was by you.
Speaker 1: Niggas gotta fuck with me.
Speaker 2: So yes, shout out to no and this is no
Speaker 2: shape to road wave. I was joking.
Speaker 1: Rod wave is.
Speaker 2: These are amazing artists, amazing artists, but I do feel like,
Speaker 2: you know, rod wave is like the new age Zero.
Speaker 2: If you really listen to zero music, if you are
Speaker 2: a young press, if you're a young person and you
Speaker 2: love rod Wave, go listen to Zero. I guarantee you'll
Speaker 2: like it.
Speaker 1: We putting y'all like, seriously, we're putting y'all on some
Speaker 1: new shit. Go listen. If you love for our wave,
Speaker 1: you gonna love zero.
Speaker 2: Love it love forty five. That was a lot of lighters.
Speaker 1: Bitch, well, bitch where you got some?
Speaker 2: Twenty twenty five was alike, but you.
Speaker 1: Said some of them happened to that because time.
Speaker 2: First of all, she played wine.
Speaker 1: It's top fall. I get it. I know it is
Speaker 1: her fault tie Why why talk? Why Emony? Why have
Speaker 1: y'all a Sugarl XP and it's Sugarl dre and the
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Speaker 2: There all right by y'all read one today so we
Speaker 2: can wrap this up. I gotta go to Brazil.
Speaker 1: Who he right legs Heylex Andrea.
Speaker 2: First of all, thank you both so much for everything
Speaker 2: you do with your show. You both truly make me
Speaker 2: feel seen, make me laugh, and make me feel included
Speaker 2: as a black woman, and I love y'all down. So
Speaker 2: I'm gonna try to make this short, but it's a
Speaker 2: toughee to me.
Speaker 1: Lol.
Speaker 2: So I have a male best friend since middle school.
Speaker 2: We've been knowing each other for maybe seventeen years now.
Speaker 2: Like all friendships, we've had our ups and downs and
Speaker 2: phases where we're closer at times than others.
Speaker 1: Lately we've been in a good place, but I can't
Speaker 1: help the fact that sometimes he irritates these shit out
Speaker 1: of me with his flamboyance and sometimes as if he
Speaker 1: doesn't make an effort to be happy or pour into
Speaker 1: me as I do him. Let me give you some examples.
Speaker 1: We live in two different states, so when we talk
Speaker 1: on the phone, it's about work and our social life.
Speaker 2: And I know his manhood and confidence is low. So
Speaker 2: I always make it a point to uplift him and
Speaker 2: validate him and congratulate him on his work, accomplishments and
Speaker 2: adversities that he has. But I feel like he doesn't
Speaker 2: return the favor, Like when he was interviewing for an
Speaker 2: assistant director position for months. I listened and validated him
Speaker 2: and even helped him interview prep. But when I tell
Speaker 2: him about my work, adversities or accomplishments, he's very dry
Speaker 2: and doesn't inquire. More then, the masculinity thing is so
Speaker 2: frustrating because he says he's not gay but hasn't had
Speaker 2: sex in eight years. He has piercings all over and
Speaker 2: carries himself like a woman with his mannerisms, hand moveings,
Speaker 2: and even the way he touches himself or looks in
Speaker 2: the mirror or inquires about his clothes. My question is,
Speaker 2: am I just being a bitch and not accepting him?
Speaker 2: Can you give me ways to find out how to
Speaker 2: accept him a bit more? Or should I just put
Speaker 2: boundaries in place? Hope to hear back? Love y'all so bad?
Speaker 1: I'm by I was with you with egones and you
Speaker 1: can gonna get the hell I was with you in
Speaker 1: the first half, but you was being real with you
Speaker 1: in the first half.
Speaker 2: But that last part rubbed me the wrong way because
Speaker 2: who cares that he has feminine mannerisms, he has piercings,
Speaker 2: he hasn't had sex. Let him be comfortable and when
Speaker 2: he's ready to talk to you about whatever it is,
Speaker 2: y'all have to learn how to be better friends. I
Speaker 2: will say this this The reason that I said what
Speaker 2: I said initially is because if you don't like it,
Speaker 2: just stop being his friend.
Speaker 1: You're well? Is that like you asking us like how
Speaker 1: should you navigate the situation? Bitch? If you don't want
Speaker 1: to be friends with him, if you don't like all
Speaker 1: of these things, this laundry lease of things, stop being
Speaker 1: this nigga friend like you ain't gotta beat nobody forcing you,
Speaker 1: nobody forcing me, Zero or or ay. First things first,
Speaker 1: I'm quing goo to ghetto. I say first things first
Speaker 1: on Marollas, Okay, you know Zero said first things first,
Speaker 1: I'm the king good to ghetto.
Speaker 2: First days. First off's what do it first?
Speaker 1: Mitch? I don't know because that's biggie. What's the song?
Speaker 1: First things first? I feaks all the honey that's what
Speaker 1: it is. Mom time wanting money? Those the ones I
Speaker 1: like because they don't get a Nathan but penetration unless
Speaker 1: it smells like sanitation, black and ugly as ever, however,
Speaker 1: I say, cut you down to the song. Oh okay,
Speaker 1: Like no, I just feel like, what the fuck is
Speaker 1: wrong with people like y'all. I love y'all for real,
Speaker 1: shout out some money, girl, come on the show.
Speaker 2: I love y'all for real.
Speaker 1: But when y'all be writing us sometimes I'd be like,
Speaker 1: do you really need advice on this? Like you what's
Speaker 1: best for you? Well, no, if you need a little guidance,
Speaker 1: So I'll say this if you don't like this, But
Speaker 1: if you don't like this, but she it seems like
Speaker 1: she loves him because they've been friends for so long,
Speaker 1: So let me say this, but you don't because all
Speaker 1: that extra sheet.
Speaker 2: But the first half.
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie. If I'm talking to a friend
Speaker 1: and they don't inquire what I have going on, I'm
Speaker 1: gonna say, like, honestly, I feel like I'm always pouring
Speaker 1: into you and you don't give that back. Tell him,
Speaker 1: tell him how you feel.
Speaker 2: If nothing changes, set a boundary, and if nothing changes
Speaker 2: from that cut him off. But now I do disagree
Speaker 2: with you as far as how he dresses, piercings.
Speaker 1: Who cares if he's gay or not? That doesn't his
Speaker 1: sexuality doesn't matter.
Speaker 2: Are you fucking him?
Speaker 1: No? Who cares? But that's the point that I was
Speaker 1: about to make. I would never write an email to
Speaker 1: somebody asking for advice on my friendship and and being like, yeah,
Speaker 1: but you know, she don't fuck mad niggas or she
Speaker 1: don't need X, Y and Z. Why is that like
Speaker 1: a pre Rick Withe? Why is this Kelsey? Why did
Speaker 1: you put that in? Why did you put that in
Speaker 1: the message to begin with? Because his sexual orientation and
Speaker 1: what he liked, it's not gonna make me and Licks
Speaker 1: make a different like you know what I mean, It's
Speaker 1: not gonna have It's not gonna make us form a
Speaker 1: different opinion about the situation. One thing I always say, right,
Speaker 1: And it's so funny because I feel like as the
Speaker 1: show has evolved, I too have evolved because we don't
Speaker 1: get these comments anymore. I used to always tell people
Speaker 1: lead that nigga lead that situation like that was always
Speaker 1: my advice. I feel that way still though I feel
Speaker 1: like now I try to give more of depths. Yeah,
Speaker 1: more of an in depth analysis, an in depth response.
Speaker 1: But I truly feel like people's number one problem is
Speaker 1: like y'all be acting like y'all so afraid to leave
Speaker 1: situations that no longer serve you if you feel all
Speaker 1: of these ways, because I feel like all of that
Speaker 1: stuff that you said, and since I fuck with you,
Speaker 1: I appreciate the fact that you're a listener of the show,
Speaker 1: but sometimes I feel like y'all just need you real advice.
Speaker 1: You said all of that and then you brought it
Speaker 1: down to like his sexual orienta. I kind of just
Speaker 1: feel like you don't even really want to be friends
Speaker 1: with him, you know how you feel like y'all have
Speaker 1: had a long standing relationship, so like, let me work
Speaker 1: this out. That doesn't matter if it doesn't serve you anymore.
Speaker 2: You know, you know you don't like somebody no more
Speaker 2: when literally like everything and it gets on your nerves.
Speaker 2: They can say, hey, and it gets on your nerve.
Speaker 2: You don't like him no more because you're talking about
Speaker 2: his mannerisms. I can't help my mannerisms. This is who
Speaker 2: I am, it's me. But just reevaluate that.
Speaker 1: Friendship and I think you need to take an exit.
Speaker 1: I think all right, y'all.
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Speaker 1: Right, and we gotta hell a fake Facebook page on
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