WEBVTT - Get In The Booth

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<v Speaker 1>I have a small head, but the problem is I

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<v Speaker 1>have a d in my head that makes sense. Nobody, bitch,

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<v Speaker 1>what what's up? Y'all?

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<v Speaker 2>It's your girl lex P.

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<v Speaker 1>And it's your girls ra in the call and you.

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<v Speaker 2>Are tuned in to another episode of Poor.

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<v Speaker 1>Minds where a drunk mind speaks sober thought.

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<v Speaker 2>We ain't got no guests today. We ain't got no

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<v Speaker 2>guests today.

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<v Speaker 1>I know. That's right. That's right, that's right. You know what.

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<v Speaker 1>Though our intro sound like the beginning of a fire

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<v Speaker 1>rap song, it is.

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<v Speaker 2>And we're gonna We did say that on the last

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<v Speaker 2>solo episode that we're gonna get.

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<v Speaker 1>In the booth like y'all did not like y'all did

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<v Speaker 1>not do y'all did not get in the booth be

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<v Speaker 1>So obviously that's all right. I did it. I did

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<v Speaker 1>so obviously.

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<v Speaker 2>We just talked about this last week, but y'all know

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<v Speaker 2>we were recording multiple episodes in the day, so we

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<v Speaker 2>are still in shock.

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<v Speaker 1>I shook it. Uh.

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<v Speaker 2>We discussed it a little bit on the last week's episode,

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<v Speaker 2>but I am just still upset. So y'all just have

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<v Speaker 2>to bear with my energy today. I have a lot

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<v Speaker 2>going on. Uh, but good news is. By the time

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<v Speaker 2>y'all seen this, bro, you finished, deleted Hobby, deleite though,

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<v Speaker 2>curse word, Hobby.

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<v Speaker 1>You're fins off. Okay, m hmm, but you look nice.

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<v Speaker 1>I like you.

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<v Speaker 2>I am, and that's what I am. I'll always be

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<v Speaker 2>an African queen and represent from my black people like

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<v Speaker 2>I did in the booth.

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<v Speaker 1>Amen I did too.

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<v Speaker 2>I never want to watch an episode of I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>the movie Coco ever again, because we know what they did.

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<v Speaker 2>Poco Loco did not vote with us. It's not.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm struggling. I see, we're not supposed to car deleted Hobby.

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<v Speaker 1>That's gonna be the episode. Okay, But anyways, y'all because

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<v Speaker 1>y'all delete because y'all was dead in the booth.

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<v Speaker 2>No, we're not doing that. We're not doing that.

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<v Speaker 1>The leading Hoby. Delete the whole, Delete the whole. Gosh.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay. So by the time y'all see this, I will

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<v Speaker 2>be back from vacation. But literally, I booked a flight.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm leaving.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm going on vacation. I'm going to Brazil for a

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<v Speaker 2>week and I'm excited. I'm just the timing was perfect.

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<v Speaker 1>What what okay? What you have? Like? Okay, we'll get

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<v Speaker 1>it off you a little hard believe it. I ain't

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<v Speaker 1>know what to do like you a little spicy today.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm still I might get slept. You might know, you

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<v Speaker 1>might get shank. You got a night you'd be walking

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<v Speaker 1>around with me. I'm getting ready to go to London. No,

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<v Speaker 1>you go into Brazil. Oh oh, I got a good idea.

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<v Speaker 2>What man?

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<v Speaker 1>I think you should do a video so beautiful because

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<v Speaker 1>they know that's why they shot it dead. You should

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<v Speaker 1>do that. That would go viral. I don't think about it.

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<v Speaker 1>That ass on you that song Shorty got an ass

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<v Speaker 1>onhu my hands on huhn on hou era? Still who

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<v Speaker 1>that was?

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<v Speaker 2>You?

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<v Speaker 1>Man? Right? It was? I thought so, I don't think that.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it was. Let's do our research and we

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<v Speaker 1>don't have a Google team. But she thicked in the

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<v Speaker 1>lips like jack yo, and know what he said? Are

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<v Speaker 1>in the hips? Yeah? Man? It was Come on man, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>you know yo history? Do you did you vote? Go

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<v Speaker 1>ahead by Gucci? Man? That is crazy, Gucci man, come

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<v Speaker 1>on a fun fact about me. I'm an icy girl?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you? Because you didn't know that that was his song?

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<v Speaker 1>You know I did know. I think it's the teremna.

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<v Speaker 1>This eating to me.

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<v Speaker 2>So I bought the biggest bottle of tere mana yesterday

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<v Speaker 2>because I went to an election party. I'm not kidding.

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<v Speaker 2>It was about this big I'm not catching.

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<v Speaker 1>No, we did it.

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<v Speaker 2>I made some We had some Kamala retas and.

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<v Speaker 1>They were actually really good.

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<v Speaker 2>I took a h a page from Tar's book. I

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<v Speaker 2>was bartending in there. I did my thing and they

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<v Speaker 2>were really good. They drink them all.

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<v Speaker 1>I know, that's right. Yeah, when you're getting your bartending bag,

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<v Speaker 1>you get seen in the other day. Yeah. Yeah, you

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<v Speaker 1>should have put the hair behind you. Yeah. Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>So anyways, I have some things I want to talk

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<v Speaker 2>about before we get to the topics today. First, let's

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<v Speaker 2>do a ketchup. What you've been up to, what's going on?

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<v Speaker 2>Let's see.

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<v Speaker 1>You know. Wait, I ain't really been up to nothing.

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<v Speaker 1>Money to be Yeah, I'm just taking it day by day.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't believe these results. I am as appalled as

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<v Speaker 1>you are. It's crazy times that were living in one thing.

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<v Speaker 1>I will stay though. We have our passports and our shots,

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<v Speaker 1>so we are we might go out the country and

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<v Speaker 1>not come back. I'm going out. I got it one way. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I know you leaving? Yeah, like you to go. I

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<v Speaker 1>might have to come meet you. Let's do it, and

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<v Speaker 1>we might have to build a new life outside of

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<v Speaker 1>you know what. At this point, I feel like poor

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<v Speaker 1>mind is a machine.

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<v Speaker 2>It runs. I'm sure I can find a Brazilian hobby.

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<v Speaker 2>Hobby is close to Brazilian anyway, Hobby? Where is a Hispanic?

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<v Speaker 2>Is Hispanic name?

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<v Speaker 1>Hobby? Got some good hair? I see? You know, I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like ave is a Hispanic name. It is if

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<v Speaker 1>that and if that can cook. She's a she's more

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<v Speaker 1>of a T o a T. She's a T. You know.

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<v Speaker 2>You know Tom, Tom knows how to shake a good mark.

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<v Speaker 1>We can, we can, we can take this show.

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<v Speaker 2>All of you guys, you down a wall, all ready

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<v Speaker 2>to go.

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<v Speaker 1>We don't have to change your name. No, that ain't

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<v Speaker 1>gonna work. Who is what it is gonna mean? Aljando?

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<v Speaker 1>Do y'all remember that song.

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<v Speaker 2>A by Lady Goga a hand.

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<v Speaker 1>You know that I love you lady?

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<v Speaker 2>That she had a spar song. Alejandro, what.

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<v Speaker 1>You know that I love you boy like Mexico When

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<v Speaker 1>you never heard that song? Oh my god, I'm more

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<v Speaker 1>of a bad romance girl. Anda La La.

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<v Speaker 2>We're singing that today, Rama, Mama, I hate that, thank

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<v Speaker 2>you of it because y'all be boy with me. I

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<v Speaker 2>don't even even talk to y'all.

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<v Speaker 1>Girl, because you always gotta take too. I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>we be vibing and then you always then you always

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<v Speaker 1>just found a fall until you love me.

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<v Speaker 2>Papa, Papa, the hits, she just kept dropping his and

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<v Speaker 2>she did not.

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<v Speaker 1>Nine was a great year. And I remember that because

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<v Speaker 1>Lady got got Huh she had a telephone, she had

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<v Speaker 1>two what was the other one? Video phone and no

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<v Speaker 1>telephone was one of them. It was telephone and video phone.

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<v Speaker 2>Remixt just keep him dunking, uh huh that you won't.

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<v Speaker 1>Me from horror, remember bet phone? Uh huh. You're hunting man,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what? And I want to ever know where

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<v Speaker 1>these conversations be.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, but let me just say this. We have to

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<v Speaker 2>give Lady god Got her flowers because please fact check

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<v Speaker 2>me because I may be wrong.

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<v Speaker 1>I may be wrong.

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<v Speaker 2>But before Lady Ga Gay, I don't think Beyonce had

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<v Speaker 2>collaborated with any women yet outside of Destiny's Child up

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<v Speaker 2>to that point.

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<v Speaker 1>I could be wrong. I could be wrong.

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<v Speaker 2>She had this slim thug bun be all that stuff

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<v Speaker 2>because this was before she did the Nicki Minaj feeling myself.

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<v Speaker 1>You need to stop playing around with all them clowns

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<v Speaker 1>and wan girl. Focus, girls gotta keep down.

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<v Speaker 2>With Okay, okay, but focused. What I'm saying is before

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<v Speaker 2>before the lady guy got collabed. I think that was

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<v Speaker 2>the first woman that kind of was like Beyonce was like,

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<v Speaker 2>yeah with you, because Beyonce, don't.

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<v Speaker 1>Do I'm feeling.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm feeling a hub.

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<v Speaker 1>That's why quiet as It's killed. That's they be hating

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<v Speaker 1>on baby. What I do? I know you ain't judging

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<v Speaker 1>me after that outburst you just said, and event gonna

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<v Speaker 1>coast sign because if that that's because you'll both leo,

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<v Speaker 1>she's co signing your boody. I sounded amazing. Oh come

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<v Speaker 1>on a man, run telling me I need to stay

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<v Speaker 1>focused and doing that is all right. What you were saying,

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<v Speaker 1>what she was saying, you were saying, Oh why is

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<v Speaker 1>this cub? That's why they hate They be hating on Meg,

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<v Speaker 1>because heaven, Beyonce on a track is a big feet,

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<v Speaker 1>no shade, no tea.

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<v Speaker 2>Of all the New Girls, nobody has a Beyonce feature

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<v Speaker 2>except for Meg. Now we gotta give that to her.

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<v Speaker 1>We gotta give that, We gotta give everything to her.

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<v Speaker 1>I love me some Meg And speaking.

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<v Speaker 2>Of come on, let's talk about it.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's get into the dots, because we ain't chatted about

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<v Speaker 1>the dot. We haven't chatted about the dots. Chatted about

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<v Speaker 1>the Dotshira and Missy Elliott, Shakira.

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<v Speaker 2>And Missy Elliott before lady, Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>That's fair.

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<v Speaker 2>Also, I let's not cute the drum. Okay, I forgot

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<v Speaker 2>And what would.

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<v Speaker 1>That fighting sensations? I'm just fighting sensation. And Missy Elliott

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<v Speaker 1>wrote a lots and shout out to Free because that

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<v Speaker 1>was the one song Free did and it was what

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<v Speaker 1>is funny? First of all, that was no shade, I

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<v Speaker 1>love me some Free like she she walked, so she

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<v Speaker 1>walked so we could run and she never laughed at

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<v Speaker 1>AJ with his lace front drig Okay, do you know

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<v Speaker 1>how good of a Okay? But no, for real though,

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<v Speaker 1>that was no shade like shout out to Free. I

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<v Speaker 1>want me And you talked about this on a recent

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<v Speaker 1>episode like I want to do a hit and it

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<v Speaker 1>be like that hit. You know who else?

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<v Speaker 2>You know who else had a hit? And hel who?

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<v Speaker 2>Angie Martinez?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, good if I can go coko.

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<v Speaker 2>Remember that song yas I first first it's ladies night.

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<v Speaker 2>What it must be Angie on the mind like either right, Yo,

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<v Speaker 2>I just made a move an icon and come sitting

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<v Speaker 2>on the couch. Yes, ae and free and free and

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<v Speaker 2>aj with your week.

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<v Speaker 1>He ain't coming, he ain't coming, Okay, But.

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<v Speaker 2>Back to the documentary. Let's talk about the document Let's

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<v Speaker 2>chat about the have alopecia. That's fine, there's nothing wrong

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<v Speaker 2>with having you know what, speaking of I'm.

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<v Speaker 1>Not saying nothing wrong with him, but I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 2>There's a there's a whole community of TikTokers that have

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<v Speaker 2>millions of follower followers with alopecia, and they are so beautiful.

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<v Speaker 2>They are I mean, she does her makeup so good.

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<v Speaker 2>I wish I could shout out her name. I forgot.

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<v Speaker 1>And there's so many girls with alopecia who like they rocky,

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<v Speaker 1>They rocky, and they be rocking. I think, like, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't think I could e a go ball. God you

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<v Speaker 1>think so? Yes, I think it's all my head. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>I gotta go that. I forgot.

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<v Speaker 2>No, no, the funny no, first.

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<v Speaker 1>Of all bach McDonald's first of all, Donald, Please bitch.

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<v Speaker 1>First of all, first barbecue, honey, bugget Okay, okay, No,

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<v Speaker 1>for real, dow, I I have a small head.

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<v Speaker 2>Like whenever I get I do.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not saying my head all alice to be saying different.

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<v Speaker 1>They always be like, your head is so small? You

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<v Speaker 1>a shady beer. I'm not.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm listening, Drea. I promise I'm listening. I haven't said

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<v Speaker 2>a word. I haven't said a thing.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm on your ass likely. No, for real, do I

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<v Speaker 1>have a small head. But the problem is I have

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<v Speaker 1>a d in my head? That makes sense? Nobody, bitch?

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<v Speaker 1>What No? I mean like that makes sense? Why you

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<v Speaker 1>would never do like an extremely you know? They ain't

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<v Speaker 1>say when you have a dinny your head. Your daddy

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<v Speaker 1>was a freaky ass nigga. He was sixty nine. No,

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<v Speaker 1>for real, No, I do like it's right here, it

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit dip be low. Do you have a No,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't. You don't. You don't have a soft spot.

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<v Speaker 1>I have a beautiful head as bad. You know what's crazy.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't remember when I went viral on Twitter along

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<v Speaker 2>This was years ago. I went viral because they were

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<v Speaker 2>calling me little head bait because my head looked small

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<v Speaker 2>because I didn't have no wig or nothing on, like, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>head looks small. It literally went viral. They were calling

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<v Speaker 2>me little head bait. I'm so serious.

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<v Speaker 1>That was because the otdo No. I mean maybe so,

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<v Speaker 1>but I that's like, but no. But what I'm saying is, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>why did you look at me like that?

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<v Speaker 2>When I get my hair done, they say the same thing.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, I just got that wig made. She was like,

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<v Speaker 2>ooh girl, you have a small head.

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<v Speaker 1>Every time. Oh you can have a small head, but

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<v Speaker 1>I can't. That's crazy.

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't say you couldn't have a small head.

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<v Speaker 1>That's nothing. I looked at you when I was listening.

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<v Speaker 1>You took some no. You was like this, it's yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>You was you. You wasn't believing. You wasn't feeling what

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<v Speaker 1>I was saying. But that's crazy.

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<v Speaker 2>Though.

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<v Speaker 1>I do feel like your head used to appear smaller

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<v Speaker 1>when your TVs they did and you had that short haircut.

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<v Speaker 1>M I love that era.

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<v Speaker 2>It was really like people say you look like Tony Wrexton.

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<v Speaker 1>But it was really you. It was so crazy. Life

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<v Speaker 1>had that short haircut.

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<v Speaker 2>Life is so crazy because people always talk about my

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<v Speaker 2>short haircut, how much they love it. And they're like,

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<v Speaker 2>oh my god, Les, you were studdying breakdown.

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<v Speaker 1>Bro.

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<v Speaker 2>I was fucking like, let's just drink a little mimosa

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<v Speaker 2>with bleach.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what I was going through at that moment.

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<v Speaker 2>So when people always bring yeah, yeah, let's talk about it.

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<v Speaker 1>You want to chat. You wanted to have a chat

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<v Speaker 1>about my short hair.

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<v Speaker 2>That went let's let's talk.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's talk. Excuse me, Oh yeah, you want.

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<v Speaker 2>A chat, We're gonna have a chat.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. No. I remember though. I remember when you called

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<v Speaker 1>me and you had to cut your hair off, and

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, okay, because remember I cut it, but

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<v Speaker 1>your face is so beautiful, It's like unreal. I was like, Wow,

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<v Speaker 1>you crazy as fuck, because miss why did you just

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<v Speaker 1>cut your hair off? Spur and am me? I cut

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<v Speaker 1>my hair looked so cute. I loved it. I cut

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<v Speaker 1>my cue. Well.

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<v Speaker 2>When I first cut my hair, I called you, but

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<v Speaker 2>my hair was messed up because I don't know how

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<v Speaker 2>to do hair. So once my sister heard me crying,

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<v Speaker 2>she came upstairs.

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<v Speaker 1>She was like, what did you just do? So my

0:16:39.840 --> 0:16:42.200
<v Speaker 1>sister actually had to come and fix my hair. You

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<v Speaker 1>thought she was a nigga from the Southwest, so big

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<v Speaker 1>because you used to be gonna get edge of the design.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, girl, what the design is crazy?

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<v Speaker 2>A design?

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<v Speaker 1>Why would you just say that, I'm about to say,

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<v Speaker 1>because I was about to say, child, do you lie?

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<v Speaker 1>But I had a part? Have a video that had

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<v Speaker 1>a part. I have a video in my phone. You

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<v Speaker 1>definitely had a design.

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<v Speaker 2>It wasn't a design. It was a part.

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<v Speaker 1>A little.

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<v Speaker 2>Moving on.

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<v Speaker 1>You know how niggas be getting a little squiggily. I

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<v Speaker 1>never had a squig. Never had a squig. I beg

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<v Speaker 1>to do. I had a part. I had a part.

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<v Speaker 1>That's not a design because who put apart in? No hair? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>it was hair. I didn't have a fade. Why do

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<v Speaker 1>you need a part? Because it was it was short

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<v Speaker 1>and curly. It would look cute when I had the

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<v Speaker 1>part and I would lay my edge and I would

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<v Speaker 1>do a little you know, swoop with the edge so

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<v Speaker 1>it looked cuter with the part. What do you party

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<v Speaker 1>my hair? Because I was never bald a bit. The

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<v Speaker 1>funny thing is, I'm talking shit, but I want to

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<v Speaker 1>cut my hair off. I want a short haircut so bad.

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<v Speaker 2>I hope that did just is shiny my din.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, it ain't gonna be that low Beach, I CEO Beach,

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<v Speaker 1>This was good? I like that like anyway. So this

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<v Speaker 1>I'm about to this. Hello, y'all. The drink of the

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<v Speaker 1>Bod the fireside. It's high and garnish it with a

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<v Speaker 1>up to everything? Yeah, about you? Books and bees literally everywhere,

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<v Speaker 1>be there, but she don't be there, if that makes sense.

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<v Speaker 1>for Brady and to bed. Yeah, love to be We

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you know what we need to low key work on,

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<v Speaker 2>like all four of us. We need to do a

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<v Speaker 1>You mentioned that. Let's do it, ladies. All right, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>back to the topic Meg. We didn't have no time.

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<v Speaker 1>We did.

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<v Speaker 2>We were talking about Meg's documentary because we never talked

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<v Speaker 2>about it.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, yeah, that was a good topic. So I watched it.

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<v Speaker 1>I watched it and it was good. First of all,

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<v Speaker 1>I loved it. It was so good. I love the animation.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like it added an extra element to the

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<v Speaker 1>doc or whatever. And then also with her like being

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<v Speaker 1>into anime, I thought that was like pretty cool to

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<v Speaker 1>maybe like a little animation, and it just kind of

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<v Speaker 1>gave people a little bit more insight to the things

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<v Speaker 1>that happened who are like more visual people who need

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<v Speaker 1>to kind of see exactly what happens. It's just so

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<v Speaker 1>sad to me because that girl have been through so

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<v Speaker 1>much and people are so focused on her line about

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<v Speaker 1>fucking that nigga when at the end of the day, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>did she lie about it on gil King, She did,

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<v Speaker 1>but she admitted to it when it mattered, which was

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<v Speaker 1>in court. But either way, I stand with her when

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<v Speaker 1>she said people are loose. Stay focused, y'all. Stay focused.

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<v Speaker 1>Y'all so worried about whether or not I fucked this nigga,

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<v Speaker 1>this man shot me in the grand scheme of things,

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<v Speaker 1>how much do it really matter that I was fucking him?

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<v Speaker 1>And y'all care way less about the fact that he

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<v Speaker 1>shot me. And then in the midst of all of this,

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<v Speaker 1>I came around a bad group of people. I started

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<v Speaker 1>being in a wrong company because I was going through

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<v Speaker 1>she because I lost my mother. I didn't know where

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<v Speaker 1>life was going. I didn't know what to do. I

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<v Speaker 1>was just looking for help. I was looking for friendship

0:25:42.480 --> 0:25:44.840
<v Speaker 1>in the wrong place. And you thought that this man

0:25:44.920 --> 0:25:48.640
<v Speaker 1>was your friend, and he definitely was like taking advantage

0:25:48.680 --> 0:25:50.119
<v Speaker 1>of you. But at the end of the day, I

0:25:50.200 --> 0:25:52.199
<v Speaker 1>just think people need more empathy for the fact that,

0:25:52.280 --> 0:25:58.720
<v Speaker 1>like this girl lost everybody in her life that held

0:25:58.760 --> 0:26:03.480
<v Speaker 1>her down, everybody that loved her unconditionally, like her mother,

0:26:04.160 --> 0:26:07.720
<v Speaker 1>her grandmother, her dad, Like this girl really going through

0:26:07.760 --> 0:26:10.720
<v Speaker 1>life by herself. You just gotta GeTe And then she

0:26:10.840 --> 0:26:13.520
<v Speaker 1>was young as fucked like Meg only what twenty nine

0:26:13.640 --> 0:26:15.800
<v Speaker 1>right now, not even thirty year Yeah, she's not even

0:26:15.840 --> 0:26:17.199
<v Speaker 1>thirty yet, this girl is not.

0:26:17.400 --> 0:26:20.440
<v Speaker 2>So I'm glad you said that. Let's take that into account.

0:26:20.440 --> 0:26:24.680
<v Speaker 2>This lady is not even thirty. Yeah, yeah, she's only

0:26:24.720 --> 0:26:27.399
<v Speaker 2>twenty nine. So it's like, imagine the shit all of

0:26:27.440 --> 0:26:30.480
<v Speaker 2>the mistakes we made in our twenties, all of the

0:26:30.520 --> 0:26:34.000
<v Speaker 2>bullshit we did in our twenties, but it wasn't documented,

0:26:34.080 --> 0:26:36.800
<v Speaker 2>it wasn't on a platform for the world to see,

0:26:37.240 --> 0:26:37.840
<v Speaker 2>you know what I mean.

0:26:37.840 --> 0:26:45.080
<v Speaker 1>And I just feel like, did she Like she had

0:26:45.080 --> 0:26:47.040
<v Speaker 1>her faults and she had her shit that she did

0:26:47.080 --> 0:26:50.080
<v Speaker 1>wrong too in the situation if we being honnies, But

0:26:50.160 --> 0:26:53.040
<v Speaker 1>at the end of the day, like this lady have

0:26:53.200 --> 0:26:56.560
<v Speaker 1>been through so much and has persevered, you know what

0:26:56.600 --> 0:26:59.280
<v Speaker 1>I mean, Like, if anything, she should be a testament

0:26:59.680 --> 0:27:01.480
<v Speaker 1>or a roll like I don't want to say a

0:27:01.560 --> 0:27:09.520
<v Speaker 1>role model, but because you know, but a testament to persevering, yes,

0:27:10.640 --> 0:27:13.080
<v Speaker 1>and still going and still making it through. That's so

0:27:13.359 --> 0:27:16.359
<v Speaker 1>hard and unfortunately for both of us, we know what

0:27:16.400 --> 0:27:19.800
<v Speaker 1>that's like too, to have to like keep going in

0:27:19.840 --> 0:27:22.920
<v Speaker 1>the midst of loss in the midst of grief and

0:27:22.920 --> 0:27:24.840
<v Speaker 1>losing somebody that's so close to you, and I just

0:27:24.840 --> 0:27:27.280
<v Speaker 1>feel like people just be so hard on this girl

0:27:27.480 --> 0:27:30.520
<v Speaker 1>all the time. And it really I always liked me,

0:27:31.600 --> 0:27:35.680
<v Speaker 1>but it definitely made me have a really softer or

0:27:35.760 --> 0:27:37.200
<v Speaker 1>even more soft spot for her.

0:27:37.800 --> 0:27:41.520
<v Speaker 2>So I'm gonna give my takeaways from a documentary.

0:27:41.520 --> 0:27:43.240
<v Speaker 1>I have a few things I wanted to take away.

0:27:43.400 --> 0:27:48.440
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, one, of course, the main thing that broke my heart,

0:27:48.480 --> 0:27:50.639
<v Speaker 2>which I'm gonna get into at the end of my

0:27:50.680 --> 0:27:54.520
<v Speaker 2>little spill, the mother thing, of course. But one thing

0:27:54.560 --> 0:27:59.199
<v Speaker 2>that broke my heart was if you notice in a

0:27:59.280 --> 0:28:03.520
<v Speaker 2>documentary after everything happened when she fell out with Kelsey

0:28:03.560 --> 0:28:06.120
<v Speaker 2>in the court, if you notice she didn't have any

0:28:06.119 --> 0:28:06.920
<v Speaker 2>friends around her.

0:28:07.200 --> 0:28:12.280
<v Speaker 1>Everybody around her were people that worked for her. So yeah, the.

0:28:12.200 --> 0:28:13.879
<v Speaker 2>Only person that was around her that was like a

0:28:13.920 --> 0:28:18.960
<v Speaker 2>friend was her cousin. And let me tell you, somebody that.

0:28:19.040 --> 0:28:21.600
<v Speaker 1>Shout out to you, Beach, but you were real.

0:28:21.880 --> 0:28:23.760
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so let me and let me say this.

0:28:24.720 --> 0:28:29.840
<v Speaker 1>Herr her cousin is a real I really meant that.

0:28:30.840 --> 0:28:35.440
<v Speaker 2>No, so let me finish, so I will say I say,

0:28:35.480 --> 0:28:39.120
<v Speaker 2>it's so important all the time community when you're going

0:28:39.160 --> 0:28:42.120
<v Speaker 2>through things, you need friends, you need your sisters, you

0:28:42.200 --> 0:28:46.000
<v Speaker 2>need your aunties, you need your You cannot live this

0:28:46.080 --> 0:28:49.120
<v Speaker 2>life without community. So the fact that I saw her,

0:28:52.440 --> 0:28:54.120
<v Speaker 2>the fact that I saw her going through this and

0:28:54.200 --> 0:28:57.640
<v Speaker 2>she didn't have community, what made me really sad.

0:28:57.720 --> 0:28:59.240
<v Speaker 1>Another thing that I noticed.

0:28:59.600 --> 0:29:04.080
<v Speaker 2>Specifically, remember her performing her anxiety song and she's on

0:29:04.160 --> 0:29:06.840
<v Speaker 2>stage and she's performing, she's giving her and she's crying,

0:29:07.200 --> 0:29:09.479
<v Speaker 2>and it made me cry because she started saying that

0:29:09.520 --> 0:29:12.239
<v Speaker 2>part if I could write a letter to Heaven, you know,

0:29:12.360 --> 0:29:14.640
<v Speaker 2>and she's like talking to her mom and she's just like, Mom,

0:29:14.680 --> 0:29:17.000
<v Speaker 2>what am I doing? And I felt that because I've

0:29:17.040 --> 0:29:21.640
<v Speaker 2>been there. And when she got off stage, everybody around

0:29:21.760 --> 0:29:24.080
<v Speaker 2>her she was like, oh, did I look pretty? And

0:29:24.120 --> 0:29:25.880
<v Speaker 2>she's just trying to have a moment because she's trying

0:29:25.920 --> 0:29:27.840
<v Speaker 2>to cheer herself up. Everybody was like, oh, you did

0:29:27.880 --> 0:29:29.920
<v Speaker 2>so good. Not one person grabbed her and hugged her,

0:29:30.280 --> 0:29:33.800
<v Speaker 2>not one person and sometimes and in that moment, she

0:29:33.840 --> 0:29:35.800
<v Speaker 2>didn't need to be Megan the Stallion. She needed to

0:29:35.800 --> 0:29:39.120
<v Speaker 2>be Megan Pete and she needed a fucking hug. So

0:29:39.240 --> 0:29:41.520
<v Speaker 2>let me say this. On top of that, the one

0:29:41.560 --> 0:29:44.360
<v Speaker 2>person that I saw around her that we see that

0:29:44.600 --> 0:29:47.239
<v Speaker 2>it's always been Oh my god, this woman is a

0:29:47.360 --> 0:29:52.480
<v Speaker 2>machine that poured into her every time Glauri and fucking Gibson.

0:29:53.000 --> 0:29:58.320
<v Speaker 2>She was constantly pouring into her and telling her how great.

0:29:59.280 --> 0:30:02.760
<v Speaker 2>The reason that Meghan is so great, it's because she's

0:30:02.800 --> 0:30:08.280
<v Speaker 2>Megan and she's herself. But Laurie Ann, who has created superstars,

0:30:08.320 --> 0:30:10.560
<v Speaker 2>who has been in this industry, we interviewed her when

0:30:10.560 --> 0:30:14.400
<v Speaker 2>we were in LA and.

0:30:13.320 --> 0:30:14.480
<v Speaker 1>I'm not like funny.

0:30:14.680 --> 0:30:17.760
<v Speaker 2>If you've ever been in the presence of somebody who

0:30:17.840 --> 0:30:21.200
<v Speaker 2>has done great things and they're just great, being around them,

0:30:21.200 --> 0:30:23.760
<v Speaker 2>you feel something like when Laurie walked up to me,

0:30:25.160 --> 0:30:27.200
<v Speaker 2>it was just like, oh my god. And the way

0:30:27.320 --> 0:30:30.480
<v Speaker 2>she even spoke life into us. She was like, you ladies,

0:30:30.680 --> 0:30:33.280
<v Speaker 2>y'all are doing it. Y'all are beautiful. And that was

0:30:33.280 --> 0:30:34.640
<v Speaker 2>the first time she met us. She was like, this

0:30:34.720 --> 0:30:37.720
<v Speaker 2>is the best interview I did all day. She was like, so,

0:30:38.360 --> 0:30:41.760
<v Speaker 2>everybody say, the way that Laurie Anne poured into her

0:30:41.840 --> 0:30:44.720
<v Speaker 2>was very important to me, and that suck out to me.

0:30:47.600 --> 0:30:49.280
<v Speaker 2>I got two more points, and I know I'm getting

0:30:49.320 --> 0:30:50.880
<v Speaker 2>long winded. Second point was.

0:30:52.360 --> 0:30:53.960
<v Speaker 1>Speak your peace. I am so.

0:30:54.120 --> 0:30:58.280
<v Speaker 2>Glad that she showed the depths of her and Kelsey's

0:30:58.280 --> 0:31:04.720
<v Speaker 2>relationship because everybody was like, oh, Meg wrong because she

0:31:04.960 --> 0:31:07.160
<v Speaker 2>was having said Tory they doing that?

0:31:08.320 --> 0:31:10.720
<v Speaker 1>Was it wrong? Yes, And we're not taking away that

0:31:11.000 --> 0:31:12.920
<v Speaker 1>I don't know who did. But at the end of

0:31:12.960 --> 0:31:15.320
<v Speaker 1>the day, we don't know who was doing what first,

0:31:15.360 --> 0:31:19.040
<v Speaker 1>or what We don't know nothing about nothing all we know.

0:31:19.360 --> 0:31:22.600
<v Speaker 1>We don't know nothing we can We're only going by

0:31:22.640 --> 0:31:24.880
<v Speaker 1>he says. She says, But what I'm saying.

0:31:24.720 --> 0:31:27.480
<v Speaker 2>Is, at the end of the day, it was weird

0:31:27.520 --> 0:31:31.160
<v Speaker 2>and it was wrong because if y'all are friends, why

0:31:31.160 --> 0:31:33.560
<v Speaker 2>are y'all hopping on the same X y Z. But

0:31:33.600 --> 0:31:37.560
<v Speaker 2>I mean that's the and that's where I'm like, yeah, so,

0:31:37.640 --> 0:31:38.520
<v Speaker 2>but let me finish.

0:31:38.920 --> 0:31:39.080
<v Speaker 1>So.

0:31:39.320 --> 0:31:42.600
<v Speaker 2>But my thing is because I've had somebody do this

0:31:42.640 --> 0:31:46.760
<v Speaker 2>to me, for Kelsey to sit on that camera and

0:31:46.880 --> 0:31:49.720
<v Speaker 2>cry about Miss Holly and say, me and Megan have

0:31:49.840 --> 0:31:52.920
<v Speaker 2>been through the dirt and the trenches and when we

0:31:53.280 --> 0:31:56.000
<v Speaker 2>she said, not when Meg, she said, when we lost

0:31:56.040 --> 0:31:58.800
<v Speaker 2>Miss Holly, I knew I had to be here.

0:32:00.120 --> 0:32:03.719
<v Speaker 1>So instead of you being by her side, you chose

0:32:03.800 --> 0:32:07.160
<v Speaker 1>to take some hush money and get on that stand

0:32:08.280 --> 0:32:10.120
<v Speaker 1>and not say nothing, because at the end of the day,

0:32:10.160 --> 0:32:12.640
<v Speaker 1>that may do you wrong from what it comes to be.

0:32:12.720 --> 0:32:14.280
<v Speaker 2>But let me tell you if that would have been.

0:32:14.200 --> 0:32:16.280
<v Speaker 1>Me and Dre in that situation, first of all, that

0:32:16.360 --> 0:32:18.800
<v Speaker 1>nigga would have been beat the fuck up, because ain't

0:32:18.840 --> 0:32:21.840
<v Speaker 1>nobody finna pull out a gun on my friend. Somebody

0:32:21.920 --> 0:32:31.000
<v Speaker 1>finish somebody gonna die tonight shout out to fifty sor

0:32:36.600 --> 0:32:38.840
<v Speaker 1>if that was the situation to say, I'm having a

0:32:38.960 --> 0:32:41.440
<v Speaker 1>messing with somebody, then drag go back though and she

0:32:41.560 --> 0:32:43.120
<v Speaker 1>messing with him and it comes out in the car

0:32:43.200 --> 0:32:47.040
<v Speaker 1>and the same thing happens. Don't care. I'm sitting on

0:32:47.080 --> 0:32:49.400
<v Speaker 1>that stand and I'm telling him what he did. Now,

0:32:49.440 --> 0:32:51.200
<v Speaker 1>I ain't I made sure use to never talk to

0:32:51.240 --> 0:32:54.800
<v Speaker 1>you again, But deep down inside, I know what you're

0:32:54.840 --> 0:32:56.320
<v Speaker 1>going through because you're going through a lot, and you've

0:32:56.320 --> 0:33:00.520
<v Speaker 1>been drinking a lot and you're struggling. So I forgive

0:33:00.560 --> 0:33:02.760
<v Speaker 1>you for my piece, but I'm never gonna talk to

0:33:02.760 --> 0:33:03.080
<v Speaker 1>you again.

0:33:03.120 --> 0:33:04.800
<v Speaker 2>But I'm gonna sit on that stand and I'm gonna

0:33:04.800 --> 0:33:07.120
<v Speaker 2>give you justice because no matter what, you did not

0:33:07.280 --> 0:33:09.240
<v Speaker 2>deserve to almost if.

0:33:09.080 --> 0:33:14.000
<v Speaker 1>That bullet would have hit a foot higher, it could

0:33:14.040 --> 0:33:15.760
<v Speaker 1>have hit an artery and that woman would have died,

0:33:15.920 --> 0:33:18.440
<v Speaker 1>and the narrative would have been y'all would have needed

0:33:18.480 --> 0:33:21.200
<v Speaker 1>Meg to die for y'all to care dance beat. She's

0:33:21.280 --> 0:33:26.040
<v Speaker 1>crazy exactly so because what nigga, And that's probably how

0:33:26.040 --> 0:33:29.280
<v Speaker 1>she responded, so because like, nigga, what are you talking about?

0:33:29.320 --> 0:33:30.680
<v Speaker 1>Because I want to get out the car.

0:33:31.080 --> 0:33:34.200
<v Speaker 2>And like I said, third and my last point about Kelsey,

0:33:34.240 --> 0:33:35.920
<v Speaker 2>and I'm glad that she focused on that.

0:33:36.800 --> 0:33:37.920
<v Speaker 1>It's just being that.

0:33:38.080 --> 0:33:44.280
<v Speaker 2>Like I said, it taught me how scary people are

0:33:44.320 --> 0:33:45.280
<v Speaker 2>because everybody.

0:33:45.040 --> 0:33:47.280
<v Speaker 1>Has you best entries.

0:33:47.280 --> 0:33:51.400
<v Speaker 2>And I've lost when like I said, I had somebody

0:33:51.400 --> 0:33:53.480
<v Speaker 2>look at me in my face and said, when your

0:33:53.480 --> 0:33:56.040
<v Speaker 2>mom passed, I felt like she told me to watch

0:33:56.080 --> 0:33:58.200
<v Speaker 2>over you. And this person did the worst don't piss

0:33:58.280 --> 0:34:02.400
<v Speaker 2>me off, worst things to me that I've ever endured

0:34:02.400 --> 0:34:03.080
<v Speaker 2>and encountered.

0:34:03.320 --> 0:34:06.400
<v Speaker 1>Sol Please don't piece me off. Well, no, I'm just

0:34:06.440 --> 0:34:08.799
<v Speaker 1>saying no, I'm talking about it. It was a guy.

0:34:08.840 --> 0:34:13.279
<v Speaker 2>I'm talking about what she was saying the same. Yeah,

0:34:13.320 --> 0:34:14.640
<v Speaker 2>it was kind of the same. I had a lot

0:34:14.680 --> 0:34:16.520
<v Speaker 2>of people the year my mom passed.

0:34:16.200 --> 0:34:18.320
<v Speaker 1>And I had to get out of my mom always

0:34:18.320 --> 0:34:20.080
<v Speaker 1>told me hate this is a strong word. I don't hate her.

0:34:20.440 --> 0:34:23.359
<v Speaker 1>I strongly dislike, strongly disliked it.

0:34:24.320 --> 0:34:26.279
<v Speaker 2>But I'll say this about Kelsey. I'm glad that she

0:34:26.360 --> 0:34:28.440
<v Speaker 2>showed that because there was a lot of things that

0:34:28.840 --> 0:34:31.080
<v Speaker 2>the stands and fans wanted her to focus on. She

0:34:31.080 --> 0:34:33.600
<v Speaker 2>didn't post like the beef with Nikki, she didn't post

0:34:33.760 --> 0:34:37.080
<v Speaker 2>her with party because none of that matters. Yeah, what

0:34:37.239 --> 0:34:40.200
<v Speaker 2>hurt her was that Kelsey sat on that stand and

0:34:40.239 --> 0:34:42.120
<v Speaker 2>act like you didn't know nothing, and I could have

0:34:42.200 --> 0:34:45.640
<v Speaker 2>lost my life and no matter what beef or whatever transpired,

0:34:46.400 --> 0:34:50.479
<v Speaker 2>you could have served justice and made sure that justice

0:34:50.600 --> 0:34:51.920
<v Speaker 2>was served a lot easier.

0:34:52.120 --> 0:34:54.839
<v Speaker 1>Well, you know what justice was her? It was No

0:34:54.920 --> 0:34:56.960
<v Speaker 1>I'm saying you know what justice was her. At the

0:34:57.040 --> 0:34:59.239
<v Speaker 1>end of the day, losers gonna be losers only for

0:34:59.280 --> 0:35:02.960
<v Speaker 1>you to be online, take a whole photo shoot with

0:35:03.120 --> 0:35:04.960
<v Speaker 1>Nikki shoes, and Nikki to come out and say I

0:35:04.960 --> 0:35:12.239
<v Speaker 1>didn't ask her to do that. Because one thing I

0:35:12.280 --> 0:35:12.960
<v Speaker 1>can say about.

0:35:12.800 --> 0:35:15.200
<v Speaker 2>Nicki Nikki on tour, she doing her thing like you

0:35:15.239 --> 0:35:17.000
<v Speaker 2>were trying to be shaity. You thought Nikki was Finn

0:35:17.000 --> 0:35:20.000
<v Speaker 2>the key key with you, but that and shout out

0:35:20.000 --> 0:35:22.960
<v Speaker 2>to Nikky. We love us some meg and we love

0:35:23.040 --> 0:35:23.319
<v Speaker 2>us an.

0:35:23.560 --> 0:35:26.200
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we don't choose sides over here, hotfully, I really

0:35:26.239 --> 0:35:28.480
<v Speaker 1>hope they can get cool at some point, because a

0:35:28.560 --> 0:35:30.959
<v Speaker 1>collab would be fine. Her Girl Summer was a bop

0:35:31.239 --> 0:35:34.120
<v Speaker 1>and we need to run it back a collab, a

0:35:34.120 --> 0:35:35.879
<v Speaker 1>new collab. But either way, if.

0:35:37.640 --> 0:35:41.960
<v Speaker 2>Last point I want to make you called me, well, no,

0:35:42.000 --> 0:35:43.879
<v Speaker 2>I think I called. We talked the next day, maybe

0:35:43.920 --> 0:35:45.160
<v Speaker 2>after the documentary.

0:35:45.640 --> 0:35:48.040
<v Speaker 1>No, because I hadn't I don't think I have Oh

0:35:48.080 --> 0:35:50.960
<v Speaker 1>oh yeah, I hadn't watched the Egg. Yeah, but you

0:35:51.040 --> 0:35:54.560
<v Speaker 1>were your reaction, Oh my god, Please, I don't want

0:35:54.560 --> 0:35:56.759
<v Speaker 1>to get emotional. This is not bach. I make up

0:35:56.800 --> 0:36:00.000
<v Speaker 1>then and I got last's on. I don't want to.

0:36:00.719 --> 0:36:10.240
<v Speaker 1>I don't want to get emotional. But like your your wait,

0:36:10.440 --> 0:36:11.600
<v Speaker 1>maybe it's the leak.

0:36:12.640 --> 0:36:15.600
<v Speaker 2>You don't be crying for real, Like what the going on?

0:36:17.719 --> 0:36:24.279
<v Speaker 1>Okay? So like your response was just so thank you, Ty.

0:36:24.800 --> 0:36:31.880
<v Speaker 1>Your response was just so triggering for me because oh

0:36:31.920 --> 0:36:36.160
<v Speaker 1>my god, what No, you want to start crying to

0:36:38.120 --> 0:36:42.319
<v Speaker 1>my tears don't fall me? Oh my god. Okay. So

0:36:44.920 --> 0:36:46.239
<v Speaker 1>maybe this is a good thing because a lot of

0:36:46.280 --> 0:36:50.120
<v Speaker 1>people don't really see this side. Yeah, okay, so people

0:36:50.120 --> 0:36:51.799
<v Speaker 1>think I don't have the side which you see this

0:36:51.840 --> 0:36:52.960
<v Speaker 1>side of me all the time.

0:36:53.080 --> 0:36:55.480
<v Speaker 2>But we needed to talk about it.

0:36:56.760 --> 0:37:01.480
<v Speaker 1>So you've been through so much. We both have, you know,

0:37:01.760 --> 0:37:06.280
<v Speaker 1>like losing my dad was so fucking hard, and then

0:37:06.600 --> 0:37:08.520
<v Speaker 1>it's like I kind of was prepared for it a

0:37:08.520 --> 0:37:12.279
<v Speaker 1>little bit because I knew my dad was sick, but

0:37:12.520 --> 0:37:16.440
<v Speaker 1>like still when it happened, it was like what the fuck? Yeah, yeah,

0:37:16.480 --> 0:37:22.719
<v Speaker 1>you know, crazy thing about me. I recorded the same day,

0:37:23.200 --> 0:37:24.879
<v Speaker 1>and then we didn't talk about it for like two

0:37:24.920 --> 0:37:27.600
<v Speaker 1>months or whatever. A lot of people didn't even know

0:37:27.960 --> 0:37:29.440
<v Speaker 1>because I'm just that type of person. I'm like I

0:37:29.440 --> 0:37:31.759
<v Speaker 1>got to keep myself busy to keep my mind off

0:37:31.760 --> 0:37:33.120
<v Speaker 1>of things. So I feel like for a long time,

0:37:33.160 --> 0:37:34.680
<v Speaker 1>I didn't even deal with the death of my dad.

0:37:35.200 --> 0:37:39.239
<v Speaker 1>And so right when I felt like we was kind

0:37:39.239 --> 0:37:42.520
<v Speaker 1>of like get into a good space with the head,

0:37:42.680 --> 0:37:46.239
<v Speaker 1>like the situation which your mom happened, which was like

0:37:46.560 --> 0:37:51.280
<v Speaker 1>so fucking crazy still to this day, because it just happened.

0:37:51.280 --> 0:37:53.799
<v Speaker 1>I don't know it. Yeah, yeah, we was all so

0:37:53.960 --> 0:37:57.959
<v Speaker 1>fucking shocked, and like, so when you called me about

0:37:58.000 --> 0:38:01.840
<v Speaker 1>the documentary, I was just like, oh, like it was

0:38:01.880 --> 0:38:05.000
<v Speaker 1>so triggering because I could tell you was really like

0:38:06.560 --> 0:38:09.719
<v Speaker 1>experiencing it all over because you and men kind of

0:38:09.760 --> 0:38:12.600
<v Speaker 1>have like the same story a little bit. You know,

0:38:13.360 --> 0:38:17.360
<v Speaker 1>and it was just like, I don't know, bro, I

0:38:17.520 --> 0:38:19.719
<v Speaker 1>just be feeling for you so bad because I know,

0:38:19.920 --> 0:38:23.640
<v Speaker 1>like the thing with me is it's not to say

0:38:23.680 --> 0:38:27.080
<v Speaker 1>that I don't I don't go through the same things

0:38:27.120 --> 0:38:30.120
<v Speaker 1>and like miss my dad and but I just feel

0:38:30.160 --> 0:38:32.239
<v Speaker 1>like me and you are just so different, Like I'm

0:38:32.280 --> 0:38:36.279
<v Speaker 1>a little bit more like hard yeah yeah, you know,

0:38:36.560 --> 0:38:39.520
<v Speaker 1>like I go through it, but I'm just able to

0:38:39.680 --> 0:38:42.799
<v Speaker 1>like maneuver, yeah, and I feel like for you, it's

0:38:42.880 --> 0:38:45.400
<v Speaker 1>like a little bit harder. And which is so crazy

0:38:45.440 --> 0:38:48.200
<v Speaker 1>because I think when people see us, like you're older

0:38:48.200 --> 0:38:52.200
<v Speaker 1>than me, you you the think you you to stay

0:38:52.239 --> 0:38:56.000
<v Speaker 1>in like people think that you're gonna be like the

0:38:56.120 --> 0:38:59.040
<v Speaker 1>tougher one, but in reality it's me, Like I feel

0:38:59.080 --> 0:39:04.440
<v Speaker 1>like I'm like your little and I just always worry

0:39:04.480 --> 0:39:07.640
<v Speaker 1>about you. I guess it's what I was my whole

0:39:07.680 --> 0:39:10.080
<v Speaker 1>point in saying all of these. I just always worry

0:39:10.080 --> 0:39:16.799
<v Speaker 1>about you because I'm okay. Yeah, Like I'm at a

0:39:16.800 --> 0:39:21.520
<v Speaker 1>point where I have accepted it and I've accepted what

0:39:21.600 --> 0:39:24.040
<v Speaker 1>it is, and I'm okay. Like I have my moments

0:39:24.080 --> 0:39:26.480
<v Speaker 1>where I'm sad and I some days I don't want

0:39:26.480 --> 0:39:28.920
<v Speaker 1>to get out of bed still too but I'm okay

0:39:29.880 --> 0:39:33.320
<v Speaker 1>with you. I just don't never know if you're gonna

0:39:33.320 --> 0:39:39.680
<v Speaker 1>be okay, and it worries me so much. Also, I'm

0:39:40.000 --> 0:39:42.719
<v Speaker 1>never gonna like to tell your business. But like even

0:39:42.760 --> 0:39:45.080
<v Speaker 1>when it first happened, like what you shared with me,

0:39:45.200 --> 0:39:45.560
<v Speaker 1>I was.

0:39:45.560 --> 0:39:46.640
<v Speaker 2>Just like, yeah, it was.

0:39:46.760 --> 0:39:50.359
<v Speaker 1>I think it was a lot for everybody around well,

0:39:50.480 --> 0:39:52.719
<v Speaker 1>even like because you was like, I'm so glad that

0:39:52.760 --> 0:39:57.279
<v Speaker 1>you came. Yeah, yeah, yeah, when you came, and I'm

0:39:57.360 --> 0:40:01.160
<v Speaker 1>just like, yeah, it just always scared. I just never know.

0:40:01.640 --> 0:40:08.800
<v Speaker 2>I think I think with this and like I said,

0:40:09.480 --> 0:40:13.360
<v Speaker 2>I've worked through a lot of things, and with the documentary,

0:40:14.120 --> 0:40:14.839
<v Speaker 2>it was.

0:40:16.840 --> 0:40:17.600
<v Speaker 1>It was.

0:40:19.160 --> 0:40:25.319
<v Speaker 2>Shocking because I went through the same thing. You know,

0:40:25.440 --> 0:40:27.480
<v Speaker 2>Meg lost her dad at a young age. I lost

0:40:27.560 --> 0:40:30.000
<v Speaker 2>my dad at a young age. And you know, when

0:40:30.000 --> 0:40:34.239
<v Speaker 2>you when you don't have two parents and you have

0:40:34.280 --> 0:40:39.520
<v Speaker 2>one parent that I mean, my mom would if you

0:40:39.600 --> 0:40:42.080
<v Speaker 2>if y'all go scroll back far enough, y'all can literally

0:40:42.080 --> 0:40:44.160
<v Speaker 2>go in eighty five South comments and see my mom

0:40:44.160 --> 0:40:47.120
<v Speaker 2>and they're arguing down when you have somebody.

0:40:46.920 --> 0:40:49.200
<v Speaker 1>The last post on your mom's page and.

0:40:49.480 --> 0:40:53.160
<v Speaker 2>Literally me Her and Ryan, and when you have a

0:40:53.200 --> 0:40:55.680
<v Speaker 2>parent that just believed in you and would go to

0:40:55.800 --> 0:41:00.640
<v Speaker 2>war about you and was your best friend and your everything.

0:41:00.760 --> 0:41:03.719
<v Speaker 2>So the way that Megan's relationship was with her mom,

0:41:03.800 --> 0:41:07.000
<v Speaker 2>I saw that because her mom was.

0:41:07.000 --> 0:41:11.200
<v Speaker 1>Like twirk uh dance shake that ass.

0:41:11.239 --> 0:41:12.839
<v Speaker 2>My mom was like the same thing with like when

0:41:12.840 --> 0:41:15.000
<v Speaker 2>you go and you crack them jokes like you need

0:41:15.040 --> 0:41:16.120
<v Speaker 2>to be like you can't.

0:41:16.280 --> 0:41:19.560
<v Speaker 1>You know she used to.

0:41:19.680 --> 0:41:21.719
<v Speaker 2>They used to call my mom like, oh, Lex got

0:41:21.719 --> 0:41:24.160
<v Speaker 2>a potty mouth. And they wouldn't call me legs. You know,

0:41:24.160 --> 0:41:25.600
<v Speaker 2>they would be like, you know, she got a potty

0:41:25.600 --> 0:41:26.280
<v Speaker 2>mouth and she's.

0:41:26.120 --> 0:41:29.600
<v Speaker 1>So she doing her thing. Let her do her and

0:41:29.680 --> 0:41:31.480
<v Speaker 1>shout out to mothers like that. Because I feel like

0:41:31.520 --> 0:41:34.600
<v Speaker 1>my mom liked that. Yeah, like she come to all

0:41:34.680 --> 0:41:38.560
<v Speaker 1>our shows. She'd be there, like, shout out to having

0:41:39.120 --> 0:41:42.480
<v Speaker 1>mothers that support your dreams and your virgin and your

0:41:42.480 --> 0:41:43.560
<v Speaker 1>mom was a real wins.

0:41:43.680 --> 0:41:47.640
<v Speaker 2>So the fact that when meg lost her mom, she

0:41:47.760 --> 0:41:49.880
<v Speaker 2>kind of had to she couldn't stop.

0:41:51.480 --> 0:41:53.520
<v Speaker 1>And I know that feeling because.

0:41:54.680 --> 0:41:59.880
<v Speaker 2>I had nothing, and when I moved out to Atlanta

0:42:00.120 --> 0:42:01.680
<v Speaker 2>was like, oh my god, we're getting ready to go

0:42:01.719 --> 0:42:05.560
<v Speaker 2>on tour. I could not stop because not only was

0:42:05.600 --> 0:42:07.479
<v Speaker 2>it I have a business partner, I have a team

0:42:07.520 --> 0:42:09.200
<v Speaker 2>around me. I got people that got to get paid,

0:42:10.120 --> 0:42:14.200
<v Speaker 2>And I knew the same thing that Meg said. If

0:42:14.280 --> 0:42:17.120
<v Speaker 2>I would have stayed home and cried for the summer,

0:42:17.400 --> 0:42:19.400
<v Speaker 2>my mom would have been so mad at me.

0:42:20.040 --> 0:42:21.720
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, she would have been.

0:42:21.600 --> 0:42:24.400
<v Speaker 2>Like, what the act did you learn anything from me,

0:42:24.480 --> 0:42:26.640
<v Speaker 2>you dumb ass beach. That's exactly what she would have said.

0:42:27.480 --> 0:42:30.080
<v Speaker 2>And so I understood that feeling of I have to

0:42:30.160 --> 0:42:32.399
<v Speaker 2>keep going because this is what you prepared me for

0:42:32.440 --> 0:42:33.920
<v Speaker 2>and this is what you said I was built for.

0:42:34.080 --> 0:42:39.719
<v Speaker 1>But also it's like you have no guidance. I have

0:42:39.800 --> 0:42:43.799
<v Speaker 1>no guidance. You really okay? So like, oh my god,

0:42:43.800 --> 0:42:49.440
<v Speaker 1>I don't want to start crying, like lord please, you

0:42:49.600 --> 0:42:52.560
<v Speaker 1>really broke my heart when you was like, I just

0:42:52.560 --> 0:42:58.200
<v Speaker 1>feel like everybody around me that can like call people, yeah,

0:42:58.280 --> 0:43:01.360
<v Speaker 1>you know, like you even with me, like it's like, okay,

0:43:01.719 --> 0:43:03.799
<v Speaker 1>my dad did pass away, but I can still call

0:43:03.880 --> 0:43:07.920
<v Speaker 1>my mom, you know. So you were like everybody around me, like,

0:43:08.200 --> 0:43:10.640
<v Speaker 1>if y'all going through something, if y'are dealing with something,

0:43:10.680 --> 0:43:13.480
<v Speaker 1>you can call people, be trying to get on Google,

0:43:14.880 --> 0:43:16.960
<v Speaker 1>and I'm and when I was talking about that, I'm

0:43:16.960 --> 0:43:20.040
<v Speaker 1>talking about but that was such I mean, it's real,

0:43:20.200 --> 0:43:25.640
<v Speaker 1>real thing, because I feel like so many people you like,

0:43:25.719 --> 0:43:28.279
<v Speaker 1>are are dealing with that. Like it's like, what the

0:43:28.280 --> 0:43:29.080
<v Speaker 1>fuck do I do?

0:43:29.280 --> 0:43:31.360
<v Speaker 2>As we're being I'm sorry, don't mean to inter but

0:43:31.360 --> 0:43:34.440
<v Speaker 2>as we're adults. We're adults, right, So you go to

0:43:34.480 --> 0:43:37.759
<v Speaker 2>the doctor or your emergency contact you like, oh mom,

0:43:37.840 --> 0:43:39.520
<v Speaker 2>when was the last time? Or oh man, what's my

0:43:39.560 --> 0:43:40.840
<v Speaker 2>blood type? Oh man, what's this?

0:43:41.040 --> 0:43:44.239
<v Speaker 1>Mam? What's that? What's the I don't I don't get that. Yeah,

0:43:44.280 --> 0:43:45.320
<v Speaker 1>And it hits.

0:43:45.120 --> 0:43:47.520
<v Speaker 2>Me all the time, like when whenever my health had

0:43:47.560 --> 0:43:50.480
<v Speaker 2>went to shit, I'm trying to figure out X y Z,

0:43:50.680 --> 0:43:52.439
<v Speaker 2>and I'm like, fuck, this is stuff that my mom

0:43:52.520 --> 0:43:53.799
<v Speaker 2>knows I don't have.

0:43:54.000 --> 0:43:54.879
<v Speaker 1>I got to get on Google.

0:43:54.880 --> 0:43:56.800
<v Speaker 2>When I'm trying to figure out stuff with my taxes,

0:43:56.840 --> 0:43:59.640
<v Speaker 2>stuff with her house, or stuff with medical and this

0:43:59.719 --> 0:44:02.600
<v Speaker 2>and that, I gotta get on fucking Google, or I

0:44:02.600 --> 0:44:05.040
<v Speaker 2>gotta call and hope my sister can help me with something.

0:44:05.080 --> 0:44:08.479
<v Speaker 1>But shit, she got she got two kids, she got

0:44:08.560 --> 0:44:10.279
<v Speaker 1>a husband, she got you know what I'm saying.

0:44:10.280 --> 0:44:15.680
<v Speaker 2>So it's just like I have to navigate this alone.

0:44:16.600 --> 0:44:20.760
<v Speaker 2>And I'm sorry, but and I say, because I'm watching

0:44:20.880 --> 0:44:23.480
<v Speaker 2>Meg and I'm watching her and I'm not even on

0:44:23.600 --> 0:44:25.359
<v Speaker 2>nowhere near the level of her, and I'm watching her

0:44:25.400 --> 0:44:29.000
<v Speaker 2>become a global superstar. Because also when you make money,

0:44:29.040 --> 0:44:31.920
<v Speaker 2>you gotta learn how to keep it. You gotta learn

0:44:32.000 --> 0:44:34.200
<v Speaker 2>how to multiply it. You gotta learn how not to

0:44:34.280 --> 0:44:37.759
<v Speaker 2>lose it. You gotta learn all this stuff. So on

0:44:37.920 --> 0:44:41.520
<v Speaker 2>top of being relevant and making good music, having good episodes,

0:44:41.600 --> 0:44:45.200
<v Speaker 2>dropping good episodes, I'm trying to learn how to make

0:44:45.320 --> 0:44:45.839
<v Speaker 2>money now.

0:44:47.840 --> 0:44:50.600
<v Speaker 1>And all I was gonna say, like, I'm not, you know,

0:44:50.719 --> 0:44:52.800
<v Speaker 1>trying to cut you off or anything, but like be

0:44:52.920 --> 0:44:56.399
<v Speaker 1>shout out to you, Shout out to it, Shout out

0:44:56.440 --> 0:44:58.920
<v Speaker 1>to you too, Shout out to you too, tied because

0:44:59.760 --> 0:45:02.800
<v Speaker 1>I think we may have talked about this one episode.

0:45:02.840 --> 0:45:04.920
<v Speaker 1>I can't remember. I think we did talk to you

0:45:05.000 --> 0:45:06.840
<v Speaker 1>about this on the episode though, but I know you

0:45:06.920 --> 0:45:09.920
<v Speaker 1>lost your mom too, And shout out to y'all and

0:45:09.920 --> 0:45:13.240
<v Speaker 1>shout out to me, because all y'all doing a great job.

0:45:13.840 --> 0:45:15.720
<v Speaker 1>Y'all moms would be so proud of y'all.

0:45:16.239 --> 0:45:18.640
<v Speaker 2>Like, and even when you.

0:45:18.719 --> 0:45:21.719
<v Speaker 1>Doubt yourself, I just always be wanting to let you know, like,

0:45:21.760 --> 0:45:25.200
<v Speaker 1>be you doing a good job like you are at

0:45:25.239 --> 0:45:30.720
<v Speaker 1>the end of the day, we have been dealt unfair cards.

0:45:31.000 --> 0:45:33.600
<v Speaker 1>I think anybody that lost one of their parents at

0:45:33.640 --> 0:45:37.440
<v Speaker 1>a young age, has been dealt an unfair hand, you

0:45:37.480 --> 0:45:39.319
<v Speaker 1>know what I mean. But we doing the best with

0:45:39.640 --> 0:45:42.279
<v Speaker 1>the cards that we've been dealed, and that's all we

0:45:42.320 --> 0:45:47.399
<v Speaker 1>could do. You know, it's unfortunate. It's like people who

0:45:47.440 --> 0:45:50.520
<v Speaker 1>get to grow all with their parents. You're so lucky,

0:45:51.120 --> 0:45:57.360
<v Speaker 1>and y'all don't really y'all do not realize how amazing

0:45:57.400 --> 0:45:59.400
<v Speaker 1>that is and what a blessing that is, you know

0:45:59.520 --> 0:46:02.640
<v Speaker 1>what I mean, Because it's hard out here, like losing

0:46:02.680 --> 0:46:05.120
<v Speaker 1>your parents. You do be feeling like, how the fuck

0:46:06.320 --> 0:46:09.879
<v Speaker 1>am I supposed to keep going? How am I supposed

0:46:09.960 --> 0:46:12.640
<v Speaker 1>to go on in life? Like I don't know if

0:46:12.680 --> 0:46:14.479
<v Speaker 1>I'm doing the right thing. And it's like the same

0:46:14.480 --> 0:46:16.120
<v Speaker 1>thing you said with your mom. That's how I be

0:46:16.160 --> 0:46:18.719
<v Speaker 1>feeling about my dad. Losing my dad, Like me and

0:46:18.760 --> 0:46:22.160
<v Speaker 1>my dad were so close. Yeah, he always had my back,

0:46:22.280 --> 0:46:24.279
<v Speaker 1>he was always there for me. I could always call

0:46:24.360 --> 0:46:29.360
<v Speaker 1>him right or wrong. He always had my back and

0:46:29.400 --> 0:46:34.319
<v Speaker 1>always had my best interest. And it's just hard. Yeah,

0:46:34.360 --> 0:46:35.000
<v Speaker 1>it's a hard thing.

0:46:35.239 --> 0:46:38.000
<v Speaker 2>And like I said the last point, I wanted to hate.

0:46:38.280 --> 0:46:41.200
<v Speaker 1>I hate that this conversation went here because I know

0:46:41.239 --> 0:46:42.879
<v Speaker 1>you don't like talking about it. I can't feel about

0:46:42.880 --> 0:46:44.160
<v Speaker 1>your face too. No, it's okay.

0:46:44.280 --> 0:46:48.080
<v Speaker 2>I'm just trying to finish my thought and the last

0:46:48.200 --> 0:46:49.480
<v Speaker 2>like I said, the last thing, I'll say, then we

0:46:49.480 --> 0:46:55.040
<v Speaker 2>can wrap this up and move on. When Meg said,

0:46:55.880 --> 0:46:58.120
<v Speaker 2>what does she say? She said, you know, you can

0:46:58.160 --> 0:47:03.920
<v Speaker 2>be doing all these amazing things and you're so used

0:47:03.960 --> 0:47:07.120
<v Speaker 2>to having your mom and your parents be like, Okay.

0:47:06.840 --> 0:47:09.080
<v Speaker 1>You're doing a good job. You're doing a good job.

0:47:09.520 --> 0:47:12.200
<v Speaker 2>So it hits a little different when you don't have

0:47:12.280 --> 0:47:16.920
<v Speaker 2>that like somebody who literally pushed you out and you

0:47:16.960 --> 0:47:19.960
<v Speaker 2>don't get that, you know what I'm saying, Like I

0:47:20.040 --> 0:47:23.040
<v Speaker 2>say all that to say, it just be hard because.

0:47:22.760 --> 0:47:24.840
<v Speaker 1>You're like, but am I doing a good job?

0:47:25.120 --> 0:47:27.560
<v Speaker 2>Because the person who raised you, who saw you through

0:47:27.760 --> 0:47:32.880
<v Speaker 2>all all your chapters, all they see that growth and

0:47:32.920 --> 0:47:35.920
<v Speaker 2>they see like, you know, you see me from you know,

0:47:36.280 --> 0:47:38.160
<v Speaker 2>twenty six, twenty seven to now.

0:47:38.320 --> 0:47:41.719
<v Speaker 1>Which is a lot of growth, by the way, but

0:47:42.000 --> 0:47:43.480
<v Speaker 1>you know on you since it was twenty five.

0:47:43.560 --> 0:47:45.600
<v Speaker 2>That's what I'm saying, a lot of growth, so ten

0:47:45.719 --> 0:47:53.120
<v Speaker 2>years now. But sometimes like when I'm not when I'm

0:47:53.160 --> 0:47:55.440
<v Speaker 2>doing something that everybody looks like as right, my mom

0:47:55.520 --> 0:47:59.239
<v Speaker 2>was there to be like this, Yeah, that ain't it,

0:48:00.480 --> 0:48:02.080
<v Speaker 2>And so you're like, am I doing a good job?

0:48:02.120 --> 0:48:02.920
<v Speaker 1>Though? Like am I?

0:48:03.719 --> 0:48:05.160
<v Speaker 2>Cause like I said, I don't have that.

0:48:05.280 --> 0:48:05.560
<v Speaker 1>I don't.

0:48:05.560 --> 0:48:08.560
<v Speaker 2>You don't you need that motherly guidance. I don't have

0:48:08.560 --> 0:48:10.640
<v Speaker 2>that motherly guidance. And I think that's what broke my

0:48:10.680 --> 0:48:16.520
<v Speaker 2>heart because it's I could never be Meg because I

0:48:16.520 --> 0:48:18.360
<v Speaker 2>get hundreds of people saying mean things to me, and

0:48:18.400 --> 0:48:21.040
<v Speaker 2>I'll be ready to break down. Imagine millions of people

0:48:21.080 --> 0:48:23.319
<v Speaker 2>on the internet tearing you down, and all youre trying

0:48:23.360 --> 0:48:25.520
<v Speaker 2>to do is grieve your mother. All you was trying

0:48:25.520 --> 0:48:27.000
<v Speaker 2>to do is go out and have a good time.

0:48:27.000 --> 0:48:29.640
<v Speaker 2>If somebody shot you, all you're trying to do is

0:48:29.719 --> 0:48:32.399
<v Speaker 2>just do what you want for a living. All you're

0:48:32.400 --> 0:48:34.800
<v Speaker 2>just trying to do is fucking exist in this world.

0:48:34.800 --> 0:48:39.200
<v Speaker 1>And this world is hard. It's hard to exist.

0:48:39.520 --> 0:48:44.040
<v Speaker 2>So to close the documentary out it was great. I

0:48:44.040 --> 0:48:48.520
<v Speaker 2>think it humanized Meg a lot. And I'm not saying

0:48:48.520 --> 0:48:50.680
<v Speaker 2>if you don't like her or whatever, that's your opinion.

0:48:51.320 --> 0:48:55.799
<v Speaker 2>But to people that have lost dads, mothers and we

0:48:55.920 --> 0:48:58.560
<v Speaker 2>still have to show up to do our job, just

0:48:58.560 --> 0:49:01.640
<v Speaker 2>go a little bit easy on people. All that comments

0:49:01.680 --> 0:49:04.000
<v Speaker 2>that y'all be saying I be sometimes like when the

0:49:04.120 --> 0:49:06.839
<v Speaker 2>documentary jobs, I searched to end her words hashtag because

0:49:06.840 --> 0:49:08.160
<v Speaker 2>I knew we were gonna talk about on the show.

0:49:08.719 --> 0:49:11.359
<v Speaker 1>It was I saw some nasty things. I mean, and

0:49:11.400 --> 0:49:14.279
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna say this too because not that I care

0:49:14.400 --> 0:49:17.600
<v Speaker 1>that much, because again, I feel like I'm a very like, strong,

0:49:17.719 --> 0:49:25.080
<v Speaker 1>resilient person. But I feel like the the response that

0:49:25.200 --> 0:49:28.200
<v Speaker 1>you get with you losing your mom is not the

0:49:28.239 --> 0:49:32.280
<v Speaker 1>same response I get with me losing my dad. Really no,

0:49:34.400 --> 0:49:36.440
<v Speaker 1>because I feel like you get such an outpour and

0:49:36.440 --> 0:49:41.440
<v Speaker 1>good love all the time from listeners from people like, oh, Lex,

0:49:41.560 --> 0:49:43.799
<v Speaker 1>I feel like you know you're doing such a great

0:49:43.920 --> 0:49:49.160
<v Speaker 1>job and you lost your mom or whatever, and b ch,

0:49:49.239 --> 0:49:50.239
<v Speaker 1>I never get did well.

0:49:50.239 --> 0:49:53.239
<v Speaker 2>You know what, people don't understand how close you and

0:49:53.280 --> 0:49:54.839
<v Speaker 2>your dad were, because.

0:49:54.520 --> 0:49:58.520
<v Speaker 1>How bitch I have that? Nigga? No, no, I know.

0:49:59.480 --> 0:50:02.640
<v Speaker 2>But what I'm say I'm saying is people perceive, you know,

0:50:02.760 --> 0:50:05.720
<v Speaker 2>like we were talking about with him last week, people

0:50:05.920 --> 0:50:07.759
<v Speaker 2>think that dad's aren't in the home or they don't

0:50:08.120 --> 0:50:10.520
<v Speaker 2>so they assumed they don't know how much your dad

0:50:10.600 --> 0:50:13.279
<v Speaker 2>loved you and how close y'all were. Yeah, so that's

0:50:13.360 --> 0:50:16.120
<v Speaker 2>not nothing to do with you that's more so how

0:50:16.160 --> 0:50:17.800
<v Speaker 2>people perceive black no.

0:50:17.800 --> 0:50:19.640
<v Speaker 1>No, And that's the thing I was gonna say, friend,

0:50:19.880 --> 0:50:22.960
<v Speaker 1>I don't take it personally, yeah yeah, But it's the

0:50:23.400 --> 0:50:25.400
<v Speaker 1>reason that I brought it up is because it's just

0:50:25.600 --> 0:50:30.040
<v Speaker 1>interesting to me, Like it's interesting that we've both been

0:50:30.120 --> 0:50:35.120
<v Speaker 1>through technically the same thing, you know what I mean, Like, no,

0:50:35.239 --> 0:50:37.440
<v Speaker 1>it wasn't my mom, but it was my dad, And

0:50:37.520 --> 0:50:39.920
<v Speaker 1>like I knew this nigga my whole life, Like I

0:50:39.960 --> 0:50:43.000
<v Speaker 1>never knew a life without him. I never knew a

0:50:43.040 --> 0:50:45.560
<v Speaker 1>life where I couldn't call my dad, talk to him,

0:50:46.000 --> 0:50:48.880
<v Speaker 1>go see him whatever. And then I lost this person.

0:50:49.280 --> 0:50:54.080
<v Speaker 1>But it's just interesting the difference in support that we get,

0:50:54.360 --> 0:50:56.920
<v Speaker 1>you know, like you losing your mom versus me losing

0:50:56.920 --> 0:51:00.560
<v Speaker 1>my dad. It's just interesting when I be peeping it

0:51:00.600 --> 0:51:04.040
<v Speaker 1>from like the comments and all of that stuff. It's

0:51:04.320 --> 0:51:07.320
<v Speaker 1>just an interesting thing. It's interesting because I think people

0:51:07.360 --> 0:51:10.600
<v Speaker 1>don't feel like they need to offer the same support,

0:51:11.040 --> 0:51:14.359
<v Speaker 1>like you said, when you lose your dad versus when

0:51:14.360 --> 0:51:16.760
<v Speaker 1>you lose your mom. It's like when it's your mom,

0:51:16.840 --> 0:51:19.760
<v Speaker 1>it's like, oh my god. I think it's like because

0:51:19.760 --> 0:51:25.560
<v Speaker 1>she cares you. It's just a different type of relationship.

0:51:25.840 --> 0:51:27.959
<v Speaker 1>It's a different type of relationship, and I think it's

0:51:28.080 --> 0:51:31.239
<v Speaker 1>different with men. But to me, that's sad. And going

0:51:31.280 --> 0:51:33.560
<v Speaker 1>back to the conversation that we had with the ball,

0:51:33.719 --> 0:51:39.279
<v Speaker 1>I mean the bell, It's like, why though, men, men

0:51:39.360 --> 0:51:43.319
<v Speaker 1>who are present in the home, men who are real fathers.

0:51:43.640 --> 0:51:47.239
<v Speaker 1>When you lose your dad, it's the same effect on

0:51:47.400 --> 0:51:50.440
<v Speaker 1>the person. It's the same thing. It's a it's a

0:51:50.520 --> 0:51:55.120
<v Speaker 1>huge loss. But why, I mean because I'm close to

0:51:55.160 --> 0:51:55.640
<v Speaker 1>you and I.

0:51:55.560 --> 0:51:58.239
<v Speaker 2>Saw how bad it was. I saw how bad it

0:51:58.360 --> 0:52:01.359
<v Speaker 2>was for you. Yeah, And like I said, I think

0:52:01.360 --> 0:52:05.880
<v Speaker 2>that's more of just like a community thing and just

0:52:05.960 --> 0:52:08.160
<v Speaker 2>I think it's how we present as well. I was like,

0:52:08.280 --> 0:52:11.799
<v Speaker 2>you're you're strong, and theyve My sister is the same

0:52:11.840 --> 0:52:14.800
<v Speaker 2>way in the family. When we going around the family,

0:52:14.880 --> 0:52:17.920
<v Speaker 2>everybody be crowding around me because I'm just I've always

0:52:17.920 --> 0:52:20.680
<v Speaker 2>been open about my struggles and I'm sensitive, but I'm

0:52:20.680 --> 0:52:22.680
<v Speaker 2>always like, if I'm going through it, I'll let you know.

0:52:23.080 --> 0:52:26.400
<v Speaker 2>My sister is very much like, I gotta pick it up.

0:52:26.400 --> 0:52:28.400
<v Speaker 2>I got two boys. I gotta keep it pushing that

0:52:28.520 --> 0:52:30.799
<v Speaker 2>tourist energy. She's like, I gotta keep it pushing, like

0:52:30.840 --> 0:52:33.680
<v Speaker 2>I can't stop. I can't which we're both the same

0:52:33.840 --> 0:52:35.120
<v Speaker 2>like that. But my sister's just.

0:52:35.040 --> 0:52:36.680
<v Speaker 1>Like I was gonna say, give yourself a little more

0:52:36.680 --> 0:52:37.640
<v Speaker 1>credit because you are like that.

0:52:37.719 --> 0:52:39.640
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I mean I am like that to a certain extent.

0:52:41.040 --> 0:52:42.879
<v Speaker 1>I like you. I think you like that.

0:52:44.080 --> 0:52:45.400
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah you don't.

0:52:45.280 --> 0:52:47.399
<v Speaker 1>Go home and yeah, I'm definitely gonna go home and craft.

0:52:47.520 --> 0:52:52.640
<v Speaker 1>But but one thing I will say about you thought, no,

0:52:52.719 --> 0:52:55.919
<v Speaker 1>I'm getting the boot bitch y'all didn't. I'm not doing

0:52:55.960 --> 0:52:57.440
<v Speaker 1>with y'all yet.

0:52:57.080 --> 0:52:59.719
<v Speaker 2>But I would need it though, because everybody's like, oh,

0:52:59.800 --> 0:53:01.880
<v Speaker 2>d don't give a fuck about nothing. She's strong. She

0:53:02.000 --> 0:53:05.719
<v Speaker 2>did she that, so not saying I thought, but still

0:53:06.080 --> 0:53:10.439
<v Speaker 2>I definitely a few like I never I never thought

0:53:10.480 --> 0:53:12.839
<v Speaker 2>about that, But now that you say that, it does

0:53:13.000 --> 0:53:13.600
<v Speaker 2>make sense.

0:53:13.880 --> 0:53:14.640
<v Speaker 1>But like I said, I.

0:53:14.640 --> 0:53:17.279
<v Speaker 2>Think that's just how people perceive us. But that goes

0:53:17.320 --> 0:53:19.439
<v Speaker 2>with people just they know you online and they don't

0:53:19.440 --> 0:53:21.759
<v Speaker 2>know you in real life. Because I know how close

0:53:21.840 --> 0:53:23.680
<v Speaker 2>you and your dad were. I saw how it affects you.

0:53:23.760 --> 0:53:26.200
<v Speaker 2>I saw it still affects you. You know, you still

0:53:26.239 --> 0:53:28.920
<v Speaker 2>have your days. We both still have our days. Like

0:53:28.920 --> 0:53:31.319
<v Speaker 2>like I said, the day you called me and you

0:53:31.360 --> 0:53:32.920
<v Speaker 2>were like, girl, I'm just checking on you. Cause where

0:53:32.960 --> 0:53:34.680
<v Speaker 2>you've been, I know something going on because you just

0:53:34.760 --> 0:53:36.839
<v Speaker 2>know me and you were like I'm I know you.

0:53:36.920 --> 0:53:46.640
<v Speaker 1>And then anytime you are a person unfortunately where I

0:53:46.680 --> 0:53:51.160
<v Speaker 1>won't say everybody but people that know you can look

0:53:51.200 --> 0:53:53.160
<v Speaker 1>at your social media until when you're not in a

0:53:53.160 --> 0:53:57.759
<v Speaker 1>good space. Well like what that's something about you that

0:53:59.040 --> 0:54:03.120
<v Speaker 1>has been that way forever, like ever since I've known you,

0:54:03.160 --> 0:54:05.040
<v Speaker 1>Like bitch, I can get on your I can get

0:54:05.080 --> 0:54:07.200
<v Speaker 1>on your Instagram, I can get on your Twitter, and

0:54:07.239 --> 0:54:09.200
<v Speaker 1>I know when my friend not in a good mood,

0:54:09.239 --> 0:54:11.520
<v Speaker 1>like I know when you. I know when you dealing

0:54:11.560 --> 0:54:14.760
<v Speaker 1>with something. I know when you're going through something. So

0:54:15.800 --> 0:54:19.960
<v Speaker 1>but you also you're an interesting person because you're a

0:54:20.000 --> 0:54:22.120
<v Speaker 1>person where it's like people got to check on you.

0:54:22.440 --> 0:54:27.600
<v Speaker 1>People also gotta give you your space. Yeah, so whenever

0:54:27.640 --> 0:54:30.400
<v Speaker 1>you say stuff online and I know you going through something,

0:54:33.120 --> 0:54:36.360
<v Speaker 1>I will check on you. But then I'll also be

0:54:36.360 --> 0:54:37.840
<v Speaker 1>trying to give you time.

0:54:38.120 --> 0:54:41.279
<v Speaker 2>And I think with social media too, you everybody knows

0:54:41.320 --> 0:54:43.160
<v Speaker 2>it's about me too. I've always hate I don't like

0:54:43.200 --> 0:54:43.880
<v Speaker 2>social media.

0:54:44.360 --> 0:54:45.440
<v Speaker 1>So it's like I'll be.

0:54:45.440 --> 0:54:47.480
<v Speaker 2>Active on there now because it's my job and I

0:54:47.600 --> 0:54:51.200
<v Speaker 2>have to. So when I'm like extremely active and I'm

0:54:51.200 --> 0:54:52.960
<v Speaker 2>like doing my job. It's because like I'm laughing, I'm joking,

0:54:52.960 --> 0:54:54.440
<v Speaker 2>I'm having fun. But like when I do like the

0:54:54.440 --> 0:54:56.839
<v Speaker 2>bare minimum, that's when I just be like, I hate this.

0:54:57.400 --> 0:54:59.680
<v Speaker 2>I hate talking to y'all. I hate everything. I hate

0:54:59.760 --> 0:55:02.440
<v Speaker 2>you know. So I think like with social media, like

0:55:02.520 --> 0:55:06.960
<v Speaker 2>you can tell you because you know me, but people

0:55:06.960 --> 0:55:09.200
<v Speaker 2>will be you know, they just a lex me and

0:55:09.239 --> 0:55:10.960
<v Speaker 2>goofy lex me and silly lets me and x y

0:55:11.040 --> 0:55:11.600
<v Speaker 2>z because.

0:55:11.840 --> 0:55:15.600
<v Speaker 1>Silly because sometimes you tweet a lot of the time.

0:55:16.480 --> 0:55:20.680
<v Speaker 1>For me, you tweet like, well I'll sit yeah, but

0:55:20.800 --> 0:55:21.919
<v Speaker 1>you will say, like.

0:55:22.560 --> 0:55:24.600
<v Speaker 2>I mean, but one thing I will say, I do

0:55:24.640 --> 0:55:26.560
<v Speaker 2>tweet about my mom all the time. Ye I'll be

0:55:26.640 --> 0:55:28.680
<v Speaker 2>like I miss my mom, Like oh my god, I

0:55:28.719 --> 0:55:31.680
<v Speaker 2>cannot like because I'll be in the best space in

0:55:31.719 --> 0:55:33.960
<v Speaker 2>my life and then I'll just be thinking about my

0:55:33.960 --> 0:55:35.399
<v Speaker 2>mom and I all like tweet that. So I think

0:55:35.400 --> 0:55:37.960
<v Speaker 2>that's why they don't notice it. But you can tell

0:55:37.960 --> 0:55:40.320
<v Speaker 2>the difference in my tone like just because like I said,

0:55:40.400 --> 0:55:42.480
<v Speaker 2>you know me, but other people like.

0:55:42.920 --> 0:55:44.879
<v Speaker 1>They don't be knowing. They don't see it. And it's

0:55:45.000 --> 0:55:50.000
<v Speaker 1>crazy because we're gonna move on. But I mean, it's fine.

0:55:50.040 --> 0:55:51.600
<v Speaker 1>I think this was a really good conversation.

0:55:51.640 --> 0:55:54.520
<v Speaker 2>But I will say when that documentary drop, When that

0:55:54.600 --> 0:55:58.200
<v Speaker 2>documentary job, y'all, don't. I got so many messages. I

0:55:58.200 --> 0:56:01.000
<v Speaker 2>got so many message just from a lot of people

0:56:01.040 --> 0:56:03.759
<v Speaker 2>that went to that first tour. And it was one

0:56:03.800 --> 0:56:06.200
<v Speaker 2>girl who messaged me. She was like, lex, I don't

0:56:06.200 --> 0:56:08.799
<v Speaker 2>know if you remember, but it was right whenever your

0:56:08.800 --> 0:56:10.480
<v Speaker 2>mom had passed. I don't mean to bring it up,

0:56:10.480 --> 0:56:12.160
<v Speaker 2>but she was like, I was in the audience and

0:56:12.200 --> 0:56:14.759
<v Speaker 2>I remember somebody asked you, like how you were doing

0:56:14.800 --> 0:56:16.239
<v Speaker 2>and you had to get off stage. She was like,

0:56:16.280 --> 0:56:18.000
<v Speaker 2>and I'm waiting on the side. She was like, and

0:56:18.040 --> 0:56:20.080
<v Speaker 2>I saw the guy hug you. She told about Ryan,

0:56:20.400 --> 0:56:22.680
<v Speaker 2>because like, uh oh, I don't want to get emotional,

0:56:22.719 --> 0:56:24.560
<v Speaker 2>but like when I ran off of stage or Ryan

0:56:24.680 --> 0:56:25.200
<v Speaker 2>just hug me.

0:56:25.840 --> 0:56:27.720
<v Speaker 1>And it made me sad because.

0:56:27.760 --> 0:56:30.360
<v Speaker 2>Like I said, I thought in that moment about Meg,

0:56:31.360 --> 0:56:35.080
<v Speaker 2>I'm like, when you run off stage and you're overwhelmed.

0:56:35.480 --> 0:56:38.719
<v Speaker 2>I needed that hug and the fact that nobody was

0:56:38.760 --> 0:56:41.920
<v Speaker 2>there to hug her it made me so sad. And

0:56:42.000 --> 0:56:45.040
<v Speaker 2>one thing I can say that I'm grateful for is

0:56:45.080 --> 0:56:49.400
<v Speaker 2>because I get to do this with you. I got girl,

0:56:49.760 --> 0:56:52.480
<v Speaker 2>nobody it's the truth. Though I had to go on

0:56:52.680 --> 0:56:56.719
<v Speaker 2>tour Goodness and I'm struggling. I'm having breakdowns every day.

0:56:56.760 --> 0:56:58.759
<v Speaker 2>But I got somebody knocking on my door.

0:56:58.480 --> 0:56:59.839
<v Speaker 1>Like what you need?

0:57:00.560 --> 0:57:03.200
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I'm here. Yeah, and I And, like I said,

0:57:03.239 --> 0:57:04.959
<v Speaker 2>I know, I keep bringing it back to me because

0:57:05.000 --> 0:57:07.880
<v Speaker 2>I really wanted to talk about this because I hate

0:57:07.920 --> 0:57:10.359
<v Speaker 2>the way people treat her, because y'all don't know how

0:57:10.400 --> 0:57:14.560
<v Speaker 2>it feels to not have nothing. Yeah, and the fact

0:57:14.600 --> 0:57:18.200
<v Speaker 2>that well no, let me know when I say nothing,

0:57:18.800 --> 0:57:21.280
<v Speaker 2>Well no, well let me say this. They don't know

0:57:21.320 --> 0:57:25.040
<v Speaker 2>what it's like to not have nothing, but look like

0:57:25.080 --> 0:57:28.600
<v Speaker 2>you have everything everything. And I think that's where people

0:57:28.720 --> 0:57:33.520
<v Speaker 2>lack empathy. People like us, people like me beautiful.

0:57:34.160 --> 0:57:37.880
<v Speaker 1>It's like, what, bro, how are you complaining when you

0:57:37.960 --> 0:57:40.200
<v Speaker 1>have this platform and you're doing X, Y and Z

0:57:40.320 --> 0:57:42.840
<v Speaker 1>and all of these people are watching you. Y'all are successful,

0:57:42.880 --> 0:57:46.360
<v Speaker 1>and y'all making money and y'all are beautiful, Like, what

0:57:46.520 --> 0:57:50.439
<v Speaker 1>the fuck are y'all complaining about? Perception is everything? Yeah,

0:57:50.960 --> 0:57:53.240
<v Speaker 1>that's where that's where people lack empathy.

0:57:53.320 --> 0:57:56.040
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, And I, like I said, I hate the way

0:57:56.040 --> 0:57:59.800
<v Speaker 2>that they treat her, But my heart goes out to

0:57:59.880 --> 0:58:02.960
<v Speaker 2>her because she was on tour by herself, and that's

0:58:02.960 --> 0:58:04.680
<v Speaker 2>the point I was making. That's why I was like,

0:58:05.400 --> 0:58:06.840
<v Speaker 2>I didn't have to go on tour by myself.

0:58:06.880 --> 0:58:08.520
<v Speaker 1>I have my sister with me, you.

0:58:08.480 --> 0:58:11.560
<v Speaker 2>Know, like I obviously like you're like you're not. It's

0:58:11.600 --> 0:58:15.200
<v Speaker 2>beyond business, it's beyond a friendship, like you're like my family.

0:58:15.360 --> 0:58:19.880
<v Speaker 2>Like And when I think about that tour, and when

0:58:19.880 --> 0:58:22.280
<v Speaker 2>I think about that whole year, it was such a

0:58:22.320 --> 0:58:26.440
<v Speaker 2>blur for me. But I think about how I was

0:58:26.480 --> 0:58:31.240
<v Speaker 2>on the edge and I was there, and I was like,

0:58:32.000 --> 0:58:35.720
<v Speaker 2>there's no point. I don't have no point, and but

0:58:36.040 --> 0:58:38.480
<v Speaker 2>I could just like I could wake up and I

0:58:38.520 --> 0:58:42.080
<v Speaker 2>could get through the day because like I had somebody

0:58:42.080 --> 0:58:42.720
<v Speaker 2>to pick me up.

0:58:42.760 --> 0:58:43.439
<v Speaker 1>I had that.

0:58:43.640 --> 0:58:46.400
<v Speaker 2>I had that community. And I don't have a big

0:58:46.440 --> 0:58:47.720
<v Speaker 2>community still to this day.

0:58:47.760 --> 0:58:49.720
<v Speaker 1>I don't because you don't need one.

0:58:49.920 --> 0:58:51.600
<v Speaker 2>I mean I don't need one, but I didn't have

0:58:51.640 --> 0:58:54.440
<v Speaker 2>one because that year when I lost my mother, I

0:58:54.480 --> 0:58:56.240
<v Speaker 2>had people, like I said, look at me in my

0:58:56.280 --> 0:58:59.720
<v Speaker 2>face and say things only to stab me in the back.

0:59:00.040 --> 0:59:00.520
<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

0:59:00.560 --> 0:59:03.640
<v Speaker 2>So I say all that to say because this documentary

0:59:03.640 --> 0:59:08.360
<v Speaker 2>made me realize how evil people can be just because,

0:59:08.440 --> 0:59:10.320
<v Speaker 2>like you said, they think that they have it all,

0:59:10.720 --> 0:59:12.560
<v Speaker 2>but like I said, my heart goes out to make

0:59:12.560 --> 0:59:15.720
<v Speaker 2>because she didn't have a community. And when, like I said,

0:59:15.720 --> 0:59:17.560
<v Speaker 2>the biggest part that stuck out to me was when

0:59:17.600 --> 0:59:22.840
<v Speaker 2>she walked backstage after that performance and not one person

0:59:22.920 --> 0:59:25.920
<v Speaker 2>hugged her. And it broke my heart because when I

0:59:25.960 --> 0:59:29.880
<v Speaker 2>walked backstage, I had somebody there that I met him

0:59:29.880 --> 0:59:34.520
<v Speaker 2>through work, but he flew his ass out to Houston

0:59:34.720 --> 0:59:37.200
<v Speaker 2>and drove to Orange and was at my mom's memorial

0:59:37.600 --> 0:59:40.760
<v Speaker 2>like I had that everybody like showed up for me.

0:59:41.240 --> 0:59:45.520
<v Speaker 2>Everybody showed up for me, And yeah, my heart broke

0:59:45.560 --> 0:59:49.560
<v Speaker 2>for her. But I think that, like I said, if

0:59:49.600 --> 0:59:51.480
<v Speaker 2>you're indifferent about Meg, you don't like. I'm not saying

0:59:51.480 --> 0:59:53.400
<v Speaker 2>you have to like her, but just give people a break.

0:59:53.400 --> 0:59:56.120
<v Speaker 2>We're all human. Life is hard for all of us.

0:59:56.120 --> 0:59:58.040
<v Speaker 2>I don't care how much money you got. I don't

0:59:58.040 --> 1:00:01.040
<v Speaker 2>care how beautiful you are. I don't care here any

1:00:01.120 --> 1:00:06.520
<v Speaker 2>king your race. Life is fucking hard. Give people a break.

1:00:07.360 --> 1:00:11.280
<v Speaker 1>Yet he was some grace, you know, because this shit.

1:00:11.160 --> 1:00:15.840
<v Speaker 2>Is and and also and like I said, especially for you.

1:00:15.880 --> 1:00:17.320
<v Speaker 2>And I want to say this to you because I

1:00:17.600 --> 1:00:19.880
<v Speaker 2>talked about this even when your dad passed. I ain't

1:00:19.880 --> 1:00:22.400
<v Speaker 2>never seen no shit like that in my life because

1:00:22.880 --> 1:00:25.360
<v Speaker 2>when my mom passed, bitch, I canceled the photo shoot.

1:00:27.040 --> 1:00:28.320
<v Speaker 1>I canceled the photo shoot.

1:00:28.360 --> 1:00:29.960
<v Speaker 2>We had a photo shoot that day. I was driving

1:00:30.000 --> 1:00:32.000
<v Speaker 2>to the photo shoot, about to go to area and

1:00:32.040 --> 1:00:35.480
<v Speaker 2>I and my sister called me and I literally had

1:00:35.480 --> 1:00:37.040
<v Speaker 2>to pull on the side of the road. I pulled

1:00:37.040 --> 1:00:40.160
<v Speaker 2>in the gas station and I just broke down. I

1:00:40.240 --> 1:00:43.600
<v Speaker 2>called Dre. I was screaming. I said, I don't know,

1:00:43.640 --> 1:00:44.320
<v Speaker 2>I don't even know.

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<v Speaker 1>It was such a blur, but I remember what you said.

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<v Speaker 1>It was just kind of like you didn't know if

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<v Speaker 1>your mom was okay because y'all talking to rout chair

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<v Speaker 1>all the time. And I'm just like, oh, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>just me because one thing about me, y'all I'm always

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<v Speaker 1>like optimistic, her overly optimistic, over manifested, Like that's just me,

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<v Speaker 1>Like everything everything is gonna be okay, it's fine. And

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<v Speaker 1>so I'm just like, oh, friend, like it's fine. Maybe

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<v Speaker 1>her phone dead, Like I just knew it. Yeah, And

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<v Speaker 1>you said that. I just knew you said that, And like,

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<v Speaker 1>my god, this is just such an emotional It was

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<v Speaker 1>because I don't want to start crying again, be like

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<v Speaker 1>you did. You was like, I just know something is wrong,

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<v Speaker 1>like I know something is wrong. And I was just like, no,

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<v Speaker 1>it's fine, Like it's fine, like maybe her phone is dead,

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<v Speaker 1>like she's okay whatever, And then you ended up was

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<v Speaker 1>you was like, Oh, my sister's gonna do a wellness

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<v Speaker 1>check or whatever. She's gonna get the police to go

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<v Speaker 1>or emergency people to go do a willness chick. And

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<v Speaker 1>then they went did the wellness chick and he called

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<v Speaker 1>me back. He was just screaming, and I just knew

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<v Speaker 1>what it was, you know, like it was just.

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<v Speaker 2>Crazy and like And that's why I'm saying as far

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<v Speaker 2>as you, because like the morning you called me, you

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<v Speaker 2>were crying and I was like.

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<v Speaker 1>No, I was a circle. I was, ay, no, that's

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<v Speaker 1>what I'm saying. You were that's my friend, I know,

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<v Speaker 1>because you.

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<v Speaker 2>Were crying and you were like I couldn't understand you.

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<v Speaker 2>And I kept saying what, Dre. I kept saying what,

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<v Speaker 2>and you would I'm like what, I'm like, what is

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<v Speaker 2>going on? I couldn't hear like you just kept you

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<v Speaker 2>were saying something. I'm just like, Drea, please, I said,

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<v Speaker 2>please just breathe and slow down, and you finally like

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<v Speaker 2>got it out and you said it, and I said, Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>we don't have to record today, we don't. You said no,

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<v Speaker 2>We're still going to go to the studio, and I'm like,

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<v Speaker 2>what the actual fuck? Like I tried to cancel.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, yeah, no, you were very I was like, no, we're.

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<v Speaker 2>Not going to this. I'm like, bro, we're not going

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<v Speaker 2>to record. We're not going You're like, no, we got

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<v Speaker 2>to go record because this is during the time this was.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, we didn't have We used to record on Mondays. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>on Wednesdays. Yeah, we hadn't. We hadn't work. We had

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<v Speaker 1>it did the eighty five episode where like the ship

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<v Speaker 1>went viral. Yeah, we had to just talking to on

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<v Speaker 1>the episode with the bell like we hadn't need the

1:03:03.520 --> 1:03:06.880
<v Speaker 1>eighty five episode, it was just us. We was in

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<v Speaker 1>a BOOTHBA. We was in the booth Unmike y'all, and

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<v Speaker 1>like they was used to like getting episodes every week.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm just like I was willing to go.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, me and Marine can do the episode.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, but you showed up because I couldn't

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<v Speaker 2>show up.

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<v Speaker 1>And people still to this day, like when I talk

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<v Speaker 1>about that situation, because even if you go back and

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<v Speaker 1>watch it, you are always like you would never know.

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<v Speaker 1>Dre just found that out.

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<v Speaker 2>So I think, like I said, when anybody has lost anybody,

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<v Speaker 2>y'all have to be just nice and stop just assuming things.

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<v Speaker 2>And we are more all of the stories. We all

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<v Speaker 2>going through it. So thank you Meg for being vulnerable

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<v Speaker 2>and being open. It's not easy. We rarely talk about

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<v Speaker 2>our parents on the show. We'll crack a little joke

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<v Speaker 2>oop here and there. But I think the world needed

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<v Speaker 2>to see that.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I think people never really see us talk about

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<v Speaker 1>it for I mean, they saw a little bit on

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<v Speaker 1>the Melissa episode that I feel the first time we

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<v Speaker 1>talked it. Yeah, but I feel like I didn't really

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<v Speaker 1>get that emotional on this episode. But I just get

1:04:05.040 --> 1:04:09.600
<v Speaker 1>emotional when it comes to you in the situation because

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<v Speaker 1>like I said earlier, for me as your friend, as

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<v Speaker 1>one of your best friends, I and I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>out of all of your best friends, I'm around you

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<v Speaker 1>the most. Yeah, because I'm out here believe they all

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<v Speaker 1>the rest of them live in Houston, So it's like

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<v Speaker 1>I see you every day and like I just don't

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<v Speaker 1>even knowing if you Yeah, I mean, and it stressed

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<v Speaker 1>me out because It's always like a thing that I'm

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<v Speaker 1>always thinking about. Like whenever I'm not around you, I

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<v Speaker 1>just be like, oh, I wonder it. Really it's okay,

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<v Speaker 1>and that's the fair.

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<v Speaker 2>And like I said, I'm not I appreciate you for that.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean my fa the same way my sister be

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<v Speaker 2>having whole breakdowns cause she'd be like instoer the phone

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<v Speaker 2>or this and that, and I'll.

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<v Speaker 1>Just be like, no, if you wanted them people to like, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>I'll be just when you don't answer the phone, I'll

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<v Speaker 1>be like, oh no, let me call again. Yeah, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>dark humor never relax. No, I mean we both have

1:05:09.680 --> 1:05:14.400
<v Speaker 1>dark humor, so I get like I can laugh for

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<v Speaker 1>I know. But but I'll say this other victory all people.

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<v Speaker 1>But I'll say this.

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<v Speaker 2>I will say this, I think I have come a

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<v Speaker 2>long way with my mental health and my journey. And

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<v Speaker 2>I will say I know I understand now that I'm

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<v Speaker 2>more blessed than I'm not. I am more blessed than

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<v Speaker 2>I am not. And like I said, I think this

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<v Speaker 2>sometimes it sounds so weird. And I remember talking to

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<v Speaker 2>you on the phone the other day when you called me,

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<v Speaker 2>you were like and I was just crying and I'm like,

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<v Speaker 2>I know it sounds so stupid because I'm crying over

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<v Speaker 2>this Meg documentary and I don't even know her, but

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, certain things will trigger you, and certain things

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<v Speaker 2>will make you realize things and see things.

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm like, and in this moment, Meg, I'm thinking

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<v Speaker 1>she has the world.

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<v Speaker 2>She got Grammy, she got me say, and I'm looking

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<v Speaker 2>in this moment as somebody who has no parents either,

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<v Speaker 2>I got half the shit she got. And I'm feeling

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<v Speaker 2>sorry for her because all the things in the world,

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<v Speaker 2>and you couldn't get a hug, Fitch, they couldn't hug you.

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<v Speaker 2>You couldn't get a hug. And one thing about it,

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<v Speaker 2>I got plenty people to hug me now and that's

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<v Speaker 2>a blessing.

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<v Speaker 1>And I hate the fact that she she has.

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<v Speaker 2>To practice discernment now, she has to watch she was

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<v Speaker 2>around her, But I think that was maybe a lesson

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<v Speaker 2>that she needed to learn because she's young, she's not

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<v Speaker 2>even thirty yet. The fact that she's going through this.

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<v Speaker 2>I lost my mom when I was with thirty two

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<v Speaker 2>thirty three. I lost it as a full blown woman.

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<v Speaker 2>I know what is going on, and I was still

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<v Speaker 2>going through it. So the fact that she lost her

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<v Speaker 2>mom so young, and she has to navigate an industry

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<v Speaker 2>that's actually worse than our industry. The music industry is

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<v Speaker 2>horrible and she's navigating that.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but to be tvh same thing, sigme thing, music industry,

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<v Speaker 2>so topic to.

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<v Speaker 1>Are we going to whoop our kids? A little? Bilt

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<v Speaker 1>to ask? Ain't never hurt nobody? I mean it hurt

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit. Did I get whoopings? How did you

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<v Speaker 1>get whoopings? BITCHA got but I got them now, bitch,

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<v Speaker 1>I got hello whoopings. Let me tell you, I have

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<v Speaker 1>vivid memories of whoopings, and that's why I think they were.

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<v Speaker 1>Did they because it's yeah, because it's certain ones I remember,

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<v Speaker 1>and it still put the fear of God in me.

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<v Speaker 1>Like I got whooped one time in the bathtub. I

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<v Speaker 1>no matter for belt, bitch, yes don't. No matter how

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<v Speaker 1>long I live, I will never forget that ass whop me.

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<v Speaker 1>Ma Mama said she had said something to me. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>what I will say is I don't remember all of

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<v Speaker 1>the context of the conversation, but she says something to me,

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<v Speaker 1>and I was like, girl, whatever in a please? Whatever?

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<v Speaker 1>In the back in the bath why even taking a bag?

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<v Speaker 1>How old were you? I had to be like between

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<v Speaker 1>eight and teen? Bad between eighteen, but she was. She

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<v Speaker 1>was saying something and I was like, girl, whatever, And

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<v Speaker 1>I remember I heard my daddy y'all because and maybe

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<v Speaker 1>that's one of the main reasons why I missed my

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<v Speaker 1>dad so much, because that was my nigga. Like when

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<v Speaker 1>I say always had my back my mama, I heard

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<v Speaker 1>her say, oh, hell Na, and my daddy was like,

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<v Speaker 1>wait a minute, wait a minute, just calm down. Down.

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<v Speaker 1>She was like, no, I'm about the whoop plass.

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<v Speaker 2>She was tired of you because you always used to

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<v Speaker 2>run to your daddy.

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<v Speaker 1>My dad was my daddy. Yeah, he used to always

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<v Speaker 1>like have my bag. Like. My dad was the reason

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<v Speaker 1>that I didn't get a lot of whooping because he

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<v Speaker 1>would talk my mama down. So he so he was like, no,

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<v Speaker 1>just calmed I could hear it. I was like he

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<v Speaker 1>was like, no, just calmed down. I was in, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>she ain't gonna come in here.

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<v Speaker 2>Worried about her.

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<v Speaker 1>And then she came in there when you was wet

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<v Speaker 1>and I was wet and naked, naked and afraid. That

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<v Speaker 1>was me eb She was the first season. I was

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<v Speaker 1>the first season of Naked in a Fray Bitch. What

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<v Speaker 1>they talk about right now? Okay, So let's go back

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<v Speaker 1>to two thousand and one. Are you gonna whoop your kids?

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<v Speaker 2>Though? Whenever you have home? Exactly? I want to try,

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<v Speaker 2>because like.

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<v Speaker 1>It was more it was more frightening than anything, but

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<v Speaker 1>not frightening enough to where I still wasn't gonna cut up.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what I'm saying, like I'm not gonna lie. I

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<v Speaker 1>vividly remember the whoopings, but it stopped me from being bad. No,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what really stopped me more when I would

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<v Speaker 1>get shipped taken away, Like when I would get punished

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<v Speaker 1>and my mom would take well, she would be like,

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<v Speaker 1>are we taking your TV? Got your room? You couldn't

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<v Speaker 1>watch smart girl? Life is about the end? Or why

1:11:11.800 --> 1:11:14.559
<v Speaker 1>does she see that intro? So bad?

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<v Speaker 2>She's saying really bad on that intro? Who was that?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know? I know the master TJ. Henderson, super

1:11:22.600 --> 1:11:25.240
<v Speaker 1>intelligent and fine, young gentleman. Why do you remember that

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<v Speaker 1>the girl was so bad? I do not even remember

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<v Speaker 1>that she. But Tina is what fucked me up. That

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<v Speaker 1>was my she, Tina, And as told by Gingers, it's

1:11:44.320 --> 1:11:49.760
<v Speaker 1>always green. It was. I mean, that's what really used

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<v Speaker 1>to that, not being able to play snake on my

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<v Speaker 1>Nokia Yo. Okay, hey, so it's just like that used

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<v Speaker 1>to fuck me up more than anything, and that's not

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<v Speaker 1>being able to go outside all hang out with my friend.

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<v Speaker 2>I can go to the scale.

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<v Speaker 1>I used to think my world was gonna end, and

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<v Speaker 1>especially when you go to school on Monday and it

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<v Speaker 1>was like, oh, yeah, we had such a good time

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<v Speaker 1>and you just sitting there like, can't relate. I'm so lame.

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<v Speaker 1>But okay, but I'm not whooping my kids. I have

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<v Speaker 1>two nephews, okay, and one of them back Jackson and Rode.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, I can. I made why you don't want to

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<v Speaker 2>whoop the bad because let me tell you why. I

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<v Speaker 2>let me tell you how you sed to spank Jackson.

1:12:38.040 --> 1:12:39.080
<v Speaker 1>You always say he bed.

1:12:39.240 --> 1:12:40.679
<v Speaker 2>Let me tell you how you sued to spank Jackson.

1:12:40.680 --> 1:12:44.680
<v Speaker 2>I used to be like this, and that's what I

1:12:44.680 --> 1:12:47.720
<v Speaker 2>would do to him, and it wasn't a spanking for real.

1:12:47.760 --> 1:12:49.400
<v Speaker 2>But I couldn't spank him because he was just my

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<v Speaker 2>sweet that's my I will cry my sweet baby.

1:12:53.479 --> 1:12:58.200
<v Speaker 1>But you always say he's sweet and right. I never

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<v Speaker 1>I never spank Jackson.

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<v Speaker 2>My sister. My sister don't spank either one of them.

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<v Speaker 2>Never spank Jackson.

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<v Speaker 1>And when I tell you now, he's still a kid,

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<v Speaker 1>you know he's still but he's so.

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<v Speaker 2>Well behaved, he's so respectful. He's an angel walking this earth.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, the sweetest baby.

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<v Speaker 2>And I never until this day Jackson, Yes, ma'am, No,

1:13:20.760 --> 1:13:23.440
<v Speaker 2>ma'am yet angel baby.

1:13:25.000 --> 1:13:30.640
<v Speaker 1>Rod Junior, that little one. It's something about that second child.

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<v Speaker 1>Know you're the oldest nigga.

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<v Speaker 2>Still bad, shit don't work, nothing.

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<v Speaker 1>Works and bad. And I was the only child, baddest, fuzzed.

1:13:40.320 --> 1:13:44.280
<v Speaker 1>Nothing works, bad, nothing bad. So I feel like, honestly,

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<v Speaker 1>it doesn't matter. It matters more about the child. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but spanking, it don't really do it, don't really do

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<v Speaker 1>too much.

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<v Speaker 2>It don't do too much.

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<v Speaker 1>If anything traumatized your kid. I was like, I still

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<v Speaker 1>to this day, my mama used to somebody go like, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>what's up, drag You'd be like, I'm telling you. Me

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<v Speaker 1>and my mama used to be in a car together.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll never forget it was another time. At this point,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like fourteen, Oh.

1:14:11.640 --> 1:14:13.400
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I was in ho That's when that ass started

1:14:13.439 --> 1:14:13.840
<v Speaker 2>coming in.

1:14:17.080 --> 1:14:21.439
<v Speaker 1>I was in the car with my mama. She said

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<v Speaker 1>something to me. I said something back. She ain't like

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<v Speaker 1>she you helped me in them off. So like still

1:14:28.320 --> 1:14:30.320
<v Speaker 1>to this day, when I be in a car with

1:14:30.400 --> 1:14:32.040
<v Speaker 1>her and she say something, I'd be like.

1:14:32.520 --> 1:14:34.760
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but you still got a smart ass mouth.

1:14:35.080 --> 1:14:38.320
<v Speaker 1>No, I don't say nothing, but to her it was

1:14:38.360 --> 1:14:39.880
<v Speaker 1>to teach you to not have a smart ass mouth.

1:14:39.960 --> 1:14:41.120
<v Speaker 2>But you know what, But you know what.

1:14:41.160 --> 1:14:43.760
<v Speaker 1>I'll tell you though, and maybe I'll be wrong, maybe

1:14:43.880 --> 1:14:46.960
<v Speaker 1>people in the comments will disagree with me. I think

1:14:47.040 --> 1:14:49.519
<v Speaker 1>you need to be scared of your parents. I do too.

1:14:49.600 --> 1:14:53.959
<v Speaker 1>You need that little I think sometimes that's the fucking problem.

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm not trying to say, like, my parents definitely

1:14:57.360 --> 1:15:01.920
<v Speaker 1>made they mistakes by societal standard. If you analyze how

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<v Speaker 1>they raised me, a lot of people will probably say, oh,

1:15:05.120 --> 1:15:07.560
<v Speaker 1>it's certain she they did wrong. Nobody is perfect, you

1:15:07.640 --> 1:15:10.880
<v Speaker 1>know what I mean? Like, my parents were not perfect,

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<v Speaker 1>but there's no such a thing as perfect. But I

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<v Speaker 1>ain't gonna look at the material they did something they

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<v Speaker 1>did a little one too, and I was scared of

1:15:19.720 --> 1:15:23.120
<v Speaker 1>my parents, like I But I say on that to say,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, there's a study they have twins in a

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<v Speaker 1>home that were raised the same and one twin goes

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<v Speaker 1>off to be a multi millionaire and other twin on

1:15:31.280 --> 1:15:36.120
<v Speaker 1>the side of the corner popping perks. I feel like you. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So the whole parenting thing where like people want their

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<v Speaker 1>kids to be their friend, I stand on the side

1:15:44.640 --> 1:15:47.760
<v Speaker 1>of history where it's like, I'm not your little friend. Yeah, nah,

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<v Speaker 1>I agree with I don't want my I don't want

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<v Speaker 1>my kids to think I'm their little friend. My mom was.

1:15:53.080 --> 1:15:54.679
<v Speaker 2>She was cool when I got older.

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<v Speaker 1>But did you get with me?

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<v Speaker 2>Hell yeah, But that's what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 1>With a switch. Though I'm from the country, I used

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<v Speaker 1>to get whipped with switches. Oh, let me tell y'all something,

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<v Speaker 1>and it ain't gonna probably be in the comments like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh you was abuse I got with the extension cord

1:16:10.000 --> 1:16:14.559
<v Speaker 1>before extend Yeah, yeah, I.

1:16:14.560 --> 1:16:16.599
<v Speaker 2>Got whipped with y'all. I used to and then they

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<v Speaker 2>used to make me.

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<v Speaker 1>Go pick the switch out. Don't pick the small one

1:16:21.680 --> 1:16:24.600
<v Speaker 1>because those hurt the worst. Yeah, And so it's like,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, like I personally for me, I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>going to whoop my kids if I can help you,

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<v Speaker 1>Like if shit got to get to that, you bad

1:16:37.160 --> 1:16:41.080
<v Speaker 1>as fu Yeah, like you bad as fun coming from

1:16:41.120 --> 1:16:44.080
<v Speaker 1>somebody like the the like people that I've dated dealing

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<v Speaker 1>with their kids.

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<v Speaker 2>Whooping don't work. Take that iPad, Oh they finna they

1:16:50.920 --> 1:16:53.960
<v Speaker 2>feelna be the sweetest thing you ever met. A take

1:16:54.000 --> 1:16:59.320
<v Speaker 2>away things that they value. But to me, temporary, temporary

1:16:59.360 --> 1:17:01.200
<v Speaker 2>pain is just that's what it is. It's temporary.

1:17:01.240 --> 1:17:03.280
<v Speaker 1>It's temporary. You gonna still do what you wanna do.

1:17:03.280 --> 1:17:05.439
<v Speaker 1>Because my own whooped my ass with the extension court

1:17:05.439 --> 1:17:07.600
<v Speaker 1>at this time, and I still snuk that boy in

1:17:07.600 --> 1:17:12.240
<v Speaker 1>the house when I was fifteen, like you goat you

1:17:12.240 --> 1:17:14.920
<v Speaker 1>you ain't and got caught and got caught with that too,

1:17:15.800 --> 1:17:19.320
<v Speaker 1>then then then got caught to the two was hot,

1:17:19.439 --> 1:17:22.800
<v Speaker 1>then got caught with that, then went to high school.

1:17:23.040 --> 1:17:25.840
<v Speaker 1>They got me a car. They was like, oh, you

1:17:25.840 --> 1:17:29.280
<v Speaker 1>need to be home at eleven o'clock every day. Stive

1:17:29.400 --> 1:17:30.800
<v Speaker 1>was coming home at twelve.

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<v Speaker 2>Like because she was like, I'm gonna eat this whooping.

1:17:33.479 --> 1:17:36.120
<v Speaker 2>You're gonna eat that whooping. You get whooped a lot.

1:17:36.280 --> 1:17:39.639
<v Speaker 2>It's momentary. But that's what I'm saying to me, whoopings

1:17:39.640 --> 1:17:41.920
<v Speaker 2>don't do nothing. Now they like to call it trauma

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<v Speaker 2>and abuse, and I don't disagree with that whatever. I

1:17:44.439 --> 1:17:46.840
<v Speaker 2>don't like to call people whatever you want to call it,

1:17:47.160 --> 1:17:50.160
<v Speaker 2>But to me, it's more effective. If you have to

1:17:50.200 --> 1:17:52.559
<v Speaker 2>go dazed with feeling something. I used to have to

1:17:52.560 --> 1:17:55.360
<v Speaker 2>go dazed without my car whenever. When I got older,

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<v Speaker 2>my mom stopped.

1:17:56.160 --> 1:17:56.640
<v Speaker 1>Last time I.

1:17:56.600 --> 1:17:58.759
<v Speaker 2>Got a whooping, I was in like second or third grade.

1:17:58.920 --> 1:18:01.439
<v Speaker 2>Once I got older, she would take away things from me.

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<v Speaker 2>So when I did something bad, I had to go

1:18:03.520 --> 1:18:04.599
<v Speaker 2>two weeks without my car.

1:18:05.479 --> 1:18:09.040
<v Speaker 1>I was hurt, bitch, first and foremost. I am with

1:18:09.200 --> 1:18:13.000
<v Speaker 1>you because imagine sitting in your room with nothing to watch.

1:18:13.400 --> 1:18:15.280
<v Speaker 1>You're just looking at the wall, and then you hear

1:18:15.320 --> 1:18:18.840
<v Speaker 1>your mom in the living room listening to uh, well, no,

1:18:18.880 --> 1:18:23.639
<v Speaker 1>what was the name of that show with deliries ain't

1:18:23.840 --> 1:18:31.240
<v Speaker 1>on the Law down the Road angel theme?

1:18:31.400 --> 1:18:34.400
<v Speaker 2>So that'sh My angel was such a good angel.

1:18:34.640 --> 1:18:36.720
<v Speaker 1>Imagine sitting in your room, no TV.

1:18:37.400 --> 1:18:40.280
<v Speaker 2>At the log No she died, my girl, she was

1:18:40.320 --> 1:18:40.760
<v Speaker 2>so good.

1:18:41.600 --> 1:18:44.920
<v Speaker 1>My pinker too. He y'all say whooping? You mean like

1:18:45.280 --> 1:18:47.320
<v Speaker 1>full whooping? Yeah? Or are you saying you don't even

1:18:47.360 --> 1:18:50.000
<v Speaker 1>spank your kids? Like? Is it the same?

1:18:50.400 --> 1:18:52.280
<v Speaker 2>I'm not doing I don't want to put hands and

1:18:52.280 --> 1:18:52.840
<v Speaker 2>feet on.

1:18:52.760 --> 1:18:54.519
<v Speaker 1>My I'm not doing that if I can avoid it,

1:18:54.520 --> 1:18:57.000
<v Speaker 1>because my I'm gonna put hands feet. She put other

1:18:57.080 --> 1:18:59.840
<v Speaker 1>objects too, because she threw a boombox at me once

1:19:01.360 --> 1:19:03.479
<v Speaker 1>and I would say, and I kind of think, shit,

1:19:03.560 --> 1:19:07.639
<v Speaker 1>me a little too far, like traumatizing, And I love

1:19:07.720 --> 1:19:11.320
<v Speaker 1>my mama, like this is no shame, y'all know I traumatized, No,

1:19:11.479 --> 1:19:14.479
<v Speaker 1>but that was I'm not traumatized because the thing about

1:19:14.520 --> 1:19:17.360
<v Speaker 1>I had a good mother. My mama loved me. Like

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<v Speaker 1>everything that she did, I feel like she did because

1:19:20.680 --> 1:19:23.760
<v Speaker 1>at that time, she thought she was parenting to the

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<v Speaker 1>best of her ability, and she thought she was trying

1:19:26.320 --> 1:19:28.160
<v Speaker 1>to get me right and get me in line so

1:19:28.200 --> 1:19:30.679
<v Speaker 1>that I wouldn't become a fucked up adult. I truly

1:19:30.720 --> 1:19:34.519
<v Speaker 1>do think that, even though I would not necessarily do

1:19:34.560 --> 1:19:37.080
<v Speaker 1>some of those things with my own kids, I think

1:19:37.080 --> 1:19:39.519
<v Speaker 1>that people are only a product of what they've been

1:19:39.560 --> 1:19:42.160
<v Speaker 1>through and what they've seen. From what my mom tells

1:19:42.240 --> 1:19:46.160
<v Speaker 1>me about how my grandparents disciplined her and her five siblings,

1:19:46.439 --> 1:19:48.280
<v Speaker 1>that was the she that they got, That's how they

1:19:48.320 --> 1:19:53.520
<v Speaker 1>got the I think I am not a parent obviously.

1:19:53.720 --> 1:19:56.519
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but I raised my nephew right before like my

1:19:56.640 --> 1:19:58.360
<v Speaker 2>I was there, like it was me and Mama. We

1:19:58.360 --> 1:20:01.560
<v Speaker 2>were there, and I never had to spank him like

1:20:01.560 --> 1:20:04.000
<v Speaker 2>I said I would do like this, Yeah, I literally

1:20:04.000 --> 1:20:06.040
<v Speaker 2>do like this, and he would laugh and it's still

1:20:06.080 --> 1:20:08.880
<v Speaker 2>an inside joke to this day. But I got the

1:20:08.880 --> 1:20:10.560
<v Speaker 2>most out of him to be in respect because I

1:20:10.640 --> 1:20:13.080
<v Speaker 2>take things away. Now he's on my phone bill your

1:20:13.080 --> 1:20:14.960
<v Speaker 2>grade's right, because I'm not gonna pay this bill.

1:20:15.439 --> 1:20:17.599
<v Speaker 1>And he loved his phone, he loved his game, so.

1:20:17.439 --> 1:20:20.080
<v Speaker 2>He gets straight a's because he don't want his phone

1:20:20.160 --> 1:20:22.840
<v Speaker 2>taken away. I feel like there's more effective things to

1:20:22.880 --> 1:20:24.559
<v Speaker 2>do to do then.

1:20:25.479 --> 1:20:28.200
<v Speaker 1>And that's what I was gonna say. Although to a

1:20:28.200 --> 1:20:32.120
<v Speaker 1>certain extent, I feel like it kind of works, kind of,

1:20:32.760 --> 1:20:35.160
<v Speaker 1>but to the point that I was making, I still

1:20:35.360 --> 1:20:38.479
<v Speaker 1>win indeed other sheet afterwards, you know, but I feel

1:20:38.479 --> 1:20:41.400
<v Speaker 1>like she was. But I feel like she she was

1:20:41.439 --> 1:20:43.400
<v Speaker 1>doing what she felt like was the best thing to do.

1:20:44.880 --> 1:20:46.840
<v Speaker 1>Now that we're in a different generation and we in

1:20:46.880 --> 1:20:50.640
<v Speaker 1>a different time, I no longer feel like that's necessarily

1:20:50.680 --> 1:20:55.720
<v Speaker 1>the best thing to do. So you're not no, how

1:20:55.720 --> 1:20:58.120
<v Speaker 1>are you whooping your Are you the first time I've

1:20:58.160 --> 1:20:59.280
<v Speaker 1>ever considered it?

1:20:59.400 --> 1:21:00.600
<v Speaker 2>My initial sponsors?

1:21:00.840 --> 1:21:04.840
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, right, But I'm also not into although I was

1:21:04.840 --> 1:21:07.720
<v Speaker 1>whooped with belts, extension cords, whatever they could reach and

1:21:07.760 --> 1:21:10.160
<v Speaker 1>full I don't think I would do that, But I

1:21:10.200 --> 1:21:15.799
<v Speaker 1>feel like if they're small enough, a nice little especially

1:21:15.800 --> 1:21:17.920
<v Speaker 1>when it's stuff. Now, if it's something that they're trying

1:21:17.920 --> 1:21:20.880
<v Speaker 1>to touch, yeah, I'm trying to teach you don't touch this.

1:21:21.040 --> 1:21:23.760
<v Speaker 2>I'll pop their heads. Yeah no, because that's stuff that

1:21:23.800 --> 1:21:25.960
<v Speaker 2>you have to learn. But it's like if you're doing something.

1:21:26.280 --> 1:21:28.120
<v Speaker 2>I went to a private school till I was in

1:21:28.160 --> 1:21:31.679
<v Speaker 2>sixth grade. They used corporal punishments, so when you were bad,

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<v Speaker 2>you got pops.

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<v Speaker 1>Shout out to miss Flucy. I'm always remember that, like

1:21:36.680 --> 1:21:41.600
<v Speaker 1>miss Cook. Miss miss Flucy used to pop us on

1:21:42.280 --> 1:21:44.960
<v Speaker 1>the fun the path. Oh no, we had she had

1:21:45.200 --> 1:21:47.080
<v Speaker 1>she had a she had a little stick and she

1:21:47.160 --> 1:21:51.120
<v Speaker 1>used to call it cotch machine. We had paddles and

1:21:51.200 --> 1:21:53.439
<v Speaker 1>she used to anytime you use me band, she'd be like,

1:21:53.479 --> 1:21:56.280
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna pull out the cotch machine and like my mom.

1:21:56.760 --> 1:21:59.240
<v Speaker 1>But but the thing about her which shout out to

1:21:59.280 --> 1:22:03.960
<v Speaker 1>her too, because she your parents had to give her permission.

1:22:04.600 --> 1:22:07.240
<v Speaker 1>Like she would talk to the parents and be like, okay,

1:22:07.600 --> 1:22:10.439
<v Speaker 1>so I have a certain way of how I were

1:22:10.479 --> 1:22:13.040
<v Speaker 1>PM and the kids get them in line. But if

1:22:13.040 --> 1:22:16.160
<v Speaker 1>you're not okay with it, and I ain't gonna do it.

1:22:16.680 --> 1:22:18.320
<v Speaker 1>And she told my mom, and my alm was like, oh,

1:22:18.360 --> 1:22:23.000
<v Speaker 1>we'll playing go ahead, Barbro exactly, because I know you

1:22:23.160 --> 1:22:24.919
<v Speaker 1>was bad. I seen your baby pictures.

1:22:25.000 --> 1:22:28.240
<v Speaker 2>You was giving chucky me what you were so cute,

1:22:28.320 --> 1:22:29.719
<v Speaker 2>but you just looked bad.

1:22:30.080 --> 1:22:33.400
<v Speaker 1>Oh I was bad. I was a terrible time. I

1:22:33.439 --> 1:22:37.280
<v Speaker 1>went to a private school. Hero get niggas because I

1:22:37.320 --> 1:22:39.760
<v Speaker 1>was like, I was cute. You ain't see me. You

1:22:39.880 --> 1:22:42.479
<v Speaker 1>just like you used to bite people? You I did?

1:22:42.920 --> 1:22:47.519
<v Speaker 1>And then you know what funny story? Real quick, I

1:22:47.640 --> 1:22:50.320
<v Speaker 1>used to bite people all the time. And my mom

1:22:50.520 --> 1:22:52.759
<v Speaker 1>was like, you used to think that shit was funny,

1:22:52.880 --> 1:22:55.040
<v Speaker 1>Like you would bite people and be laughing because you

1:22:55.040 --> 1:22:57.360
<v Speaker 1>thought it was until the day I'll beat your ass

1:22:57.439 --> 1:23:01.080
<v Speaker 1>bag exactly. And she beat me back and she was like,

1:23:01.120 --> 1:23:02.920
<v Speaker 1>you ain't need that shit was funny, and you ain't

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<v Speaker 1>do it no more. I so I.

1:23:05.040 --> 1:23:06.519
<v Speaker 2>Went to a private school. They didn't have to get

1:23:06.560 --> 1:23:09.360
<v Speaker 2>nothing approved from the patare That's what I'm saying. So,

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<v Speaker 2>but let me tell you something about miss Cook.

1:23:11.120 --> 1:23:14.360
<v Speaker 1>Is it abuse or is it because she beat me back?

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<v Speaker 1>Any words?

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<v Speaker 2>Let me tell you something about this cook though, Miss Cook.

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<v Speaker 1>Now that I look back on it and I think

1:23:20.479 --> 1:23:22.760
<v Speaker 1>about it, I know what Miss Cook went into the

1:23:22.760 --> 1:23:26.520
<v Speaker 1>boof and did he was cookie.

1:23:26.840 --> 1:23:29.000
<v Speaker 2>No, miss Cook went to the booth and didn't vote

1:23:29.000 --> 1:23:30.240
<v Speaker 2>while she was supposed to vote.

1:23:30.320 --> 1:23:33.800
<v Speaker 1>Okay, because you know miss Cook still alive. Don't go.

1:23:34.040 --> 1:23:37.120
<v Speaker 1>Don't say that. Fuck her fucker.

1:23:37.320 --> 1:23:39.599
<v Speaker 2>I hope my mama up there whooping her ass right now.

1:23:40.360 --> 1:23:42.160
<v Speaker 2>Because let me say this, it's about miss Cook.

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<v Speaker 1>It don't matter what I did go to the office

1:23:46.280 --> 1:23:48.640
<v Speaker 1>to get pops. She wouldn't say nothing. She would just

1:23:48.640 --> 1:23:50.759
<v Speaker 1>be like terror go to the office to get pops.

1:23:50.880 --> 1:23:53.759
<v Speaker 1>Damn bitch. Let me get my joke off. Whole ad nigga,

1:23:54.320 --> 1:23:56.439
<v Speaker 1>I'm trying to tell a funny ass knock knock joke.

1:23:56.760 --> 1:23:59.200
<v Speaker 1>I just looked up in my little book that my

1:23:59.280 --> 1:24:02.280
<v Speaker 1>mom about me Christmas. I'm getting these jokes off. Well,

1:24:02.720 --> 1:24:05.080
<v Speaker 1>I know you was mad. That's the whole nother topic

1:24:05.160 --> 1:24:07.840
<v Speaker 1>for you. But what I'm saying is I wasn't doing

1:24:09.000 --> 1:24:11.200
<v Speaker 1>When I think about the reason she used to give

1:24:11.240 --> 1:24:14.719
<v Speaker 1>me pops, it was so like I'm being a kid

1:24:15.120 --> 1:24:19.160
<v Speaker 1>now if I was going around terrorizing biting people, girl,

1:24:19.400 --> 1:24:25.680
<v Speaker 1>excuse I just you, guys, I wasn't biting nobody. I'm

1:24:25.720 --> 1:24:27.360
<v Speaker 1>telling jokes. I'm now.

1:24:27.400 --> 1:24:28.920
<v Speaker 2>I was loud and obnoxious.

1:24:28.960 --> 1:24:39.640
<v Speaker 1>I was that kid. I was no. But but but

1:24:39.760 --> 1:24:42.000
<v Speaker 1>what I'm saying is, now that I think about it,

1:24:42.040 --> 1:24:45.559
<v Speaker 1>Miss Cook, it was given like send this to the office.

1:24:45.680 --> 1:24:47.000
<v Speaker 2>She was white out.

1:24:48.439 --> 1:24:52.120
<v Speaker 1>She was white yes, Miss Fosi.

1:24:52.920 --> 1:24:58.120
<v Speaker 2>That's why your mom came to the school. My mom

1:24:58.160 --> 1:25:00.120
<v Speaker 2>came up to the school and raised hell because she

1:25:00.200 --> 1:25:01.960
<v Speaker 2>started to figure out. She was like, I feel like,

1:25:02.000 --> 1:25:04.519
<v Speaker 2>y'all are picking on my child. Why is my child

1:25:04.600 --> 1:25:06.720
<v Speaker 2>always in the office and I'm asking what's going on?

1:25:07.000 --> 1:25:09.000
<v Speaker 2>And they just talking about because she's talking loud.

1:25:09.080 --> 1:25:15.840
<v Speaker 1>The little bitch loud bitch you was still is so

1:25:16.080 --> 1:25:20.240
<v Speaker 1>TI is thinking now? So now you're reframing, Yeah, because

1:25:20.280 --> 1:25:23.720
<v Speaker 1>I think there is better ways, especially nowadays because now

1:25:23.800 --> 1:25:26.720
<v Speaker 1>kids have way more things that they're so attached to

1:25:27.000 --> 1:25:29.160
<v Speaker 1>as well, So it's like, oh, you're taking my iPad.

1:25:29.240 --> 1:25:31.679
<v Speaker 1>Oh you know, like now they feel like there's something

1:25:31.680 --> 1:25:35.559
<v Speaker 1>more to work towards. But I still agree your kids

1:25:35.600 --> 1:25:38.280
<v Speaker 1>should fear you in some capacity, And it's like, how

1:25:38.280 --> 1:25:41.200
<v Speaker 1>do you have that? How do you find that balance? Yeah?

1:25:41.240 --> 1:25:45.200
<v Speaker 1>I'm honest though, cause like whenever you post pictures in

1:25:45.240 --> 1:25:47.519
<v Speaker 1>your mom and stuff, I'm like, your mom looks so sweet,

1:25:48.360 --> 1:25:50.200
<v Speaker 1>so cool, Like I can't believe she used to be

1:25:50.240 --> 1:25:53.120
<v Speaker 1>whooping your ass. I mean Barbara looks sweet too. No,

1:25:53.560 --> 1:25:57.680
<v Speaker 1>yes she does. And when you talk to Barbara, oh

1:25:57.880 --> 1:26:02.320
<v Speaker 1>you okay again? Funny I went to Houston a few

1:26:02.360 --> 1:26:05.760
<v Speaker 1>weeks ago. Don't do her. Me and my mom. So

1:26:05.880 --> 1:26:08.680
<v Speaker 1>my mom, you know, she's up in age now, so

1:26:08.680 --> 1:26:11.080
<v Speaker 1>she'd be having to go to like routine doctor music's

1:26:11.120 --> 1:26:13.320
<v Speaker 1>all the time. That's why I be fooling when people

1:26:13.360 --> 1:26:15.280
<v Speaker 1>be like old people always want to doctor because they is.

1:26:16.960 --> 1:26:18.920
<v Speaker 1>So she was like, oh, I want you to come

1:26:18.920 --> 1:26:22.840
<v Speaker 1>to the doctor with me. So I was like, okay. Cool.

1:26:23.360 --> 1:26:26.679
<v Speaker 1>So we was getting in the car and I can't

1:26:26.720 --> 1:26:28.400
<v Speaker 1>remember what we was talking about. We talking about something

1:26:28.400 --> 1:26:31.160
<v Speaker 1>and she was like, yeah, all your friends they always

1:26:31.240 --> 1:26:34.200
<v Speaker 1>love me. They be like your mama's so sweet, so cool.

1:26:34.560 --> 1:26:37.479
<v Speaker 1>And I was like yep, oh my god. We was

1:26:37.520 --> 1:26:40.519
<v Speaker 1>talking about these so about whooping your kings, and I

1:26:40.640 --> 1:26:43.080
<v Speaker 1>was saying how I was not gonna whoop my kids,

1:26:43.280 --> 1:26:45.519
<v Speaker 1>and my mom was like for real and I was

1:26:45.560 --> 1:26:45.880
<v Speaker 1>like yeah.

1:26:45.920 --> 1:26:47.040
<v Speaker 2>And I was like, when they come to.

1:26:47.000 --> 1:26:50.120
<v Speaker 1>Your house, you bet not whoop them neither, because I'm

1:26:50.120 --> 1:26:52.120
<v Speaker 1>not gonna whoop them. And she was like, well, I

1:26:52.160 --> 1:26:53.960
<v Speaker 1>feel like you turned out alright. She was like, but

1:26:54.000 --> 1:26:56.559
<v Speaker 1>it's so funny because when I meet all your friends,

1:26:56.600 --> 1:26:58.960
<v Speaker 1>they'd be like, yo, ma, I'm so sweet. And she

1:26:59.120 --> 1:27:00.479
<v Speaker 1>was like and I was like, yeah, yeah, and I'll

1:27:00.520 --> 1:27:03.280
<v Speaker 1>be telling them like you really a minis you do

1:27:03.439 --> 1:27:08.200
<v Speaker 1>be saying that because y'all don't know. Y'all don't, but no,

1:27:08.280 --> 1:27:09.519
<v Speaker 1>I'll be seeing it now.

1:27:09.600 --> 1:27:12.040
<v Speaker 2>When we go out to e I'll be around Miss Barbara.

1:27:12.520 --> 1:27:13.719
<v Speaker 2>I'll be seeing that little minute.

1:27:13.720 --> 1:27:16.880
<v Speaker 1>I'll be like, okay, this is will Barbara be cutting

1:27:16.960 --> 1:27:17.519
<v Speaker 1>up a little bit.

1:27:17.720 --> 1:27:18.200
<v Speaker 2>This is my.

1:27:18.280 --> 1:27:22.400
<v Speaker 1>Theory though with people. When people get old, they become nier.

1:27:23.439 --> 1:27:26.519
<v Speaker 1>But y'all have only know, like you gotta think about it. Friend,

1:27:26.680 --> 1:27:28.880
<v Speaker 1>Like when me and you became friends. My mom is

1:27:28.920 --> 1:27:32.040
<v Speaker 1>seventy five. She just turned seventy five in October. So

1:27:32.360 --> 1:27:37.000
<v Speaker 1>when me and you met in twenty what fifteen sixteen,

1:27:37.000 --> 1:27:38.439
<v Speaker 1>But I don't think you met my mom un till

1:27:38.479 --> 1:27:41.280
<v Speaker 1>like two three years late. It wasn't until you moved

1:27:41.320 --> 1:27:44.200
<v Speaker 1>to it that you met my mom for the first time.

1:27:44.479 --> 1:27:47.639
<v Speaker 1>So like when you met my mom she was already

1:27:47.640 --> 1:27:52.160
<v Speaker 1>in her sixties. You don't know the forty something your

1:27:52.240 --> 1:27:55.120
<v Speaker 1>old version of her and my mom will tell you like,

1:27:55.200 --> 1:27:57.120
<v Speaker 1>I would actually love to have her on the show

1:27:57.200 --> 1:27:59.080
<v Speaker 1>one day because she will tell you like, when she

1:27:59.200 --> 1:28:01.599
<v Speaker 1>was younger, she was a fighter. She used to be fighting.

1:28:01.640 --> 1:28:03.759
<v Speaker 1>She used to get out there, she used to be outside.

1:28:03.760 --> 1:28:06.519
<v Speaker 1>She hey, what I told her about my granny, But

1:28:07.040 --> 1:28:11.479
<v Speaker 1>like she used to be outside. Like y'all be under estimating.

1:28:11.560 --> 1:28:13.880
<v Speaker 1>My mama was a fool when I was younger. God, no,

1:28:14.080 --> 1:28:16.639
<v Speaker 1>you know, the signs of my daddy was the cool ones.

1:28:17.000 --> 1:28:17.160
<v Speaker 1>You know.

1:28:17.240 --> 1:28:20.120
<v Speaker 2>The signs of a good grandma is when you see

1:28:20.160 --> 1:28:20.880
<v Speaker 2>a grandchild and.

1:28:20.840 --> 1:28:24.200
<v Speaker 1>They be greasy, you know, grand bag, that's a love child.

1:28:26.800 --> 1:28:27.679
<v Speaker 1>Oh my god.

1:28:27.840 --> 1:28:30.320
<v Speaker 2>Every time my sister would come home from work, when

1:28:30.320 --> 1:28:32.000
<v Speaker 2>we would both be up where we would come home

1:28:32.080 --> 1:28:34.479
<v Speaker 2>and Jackson used to be a little greasy, and my

1:28:34.560 --> 1:28:35.040
<v Speaker 2>mom used.

1:28:34.920 --> 1:28:37.200
<v Speaker 1>To be like, he looks look ye me ain't dry.

1:28:37.880 --> 1:28:40.280
<v Speaker 2>I'm a good grinned If y'all greanny, grease yr baby up,

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<v Speaker 2>they good to go.

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<v Speaker 1>September second, it's going down. Thanks, Now it's time to

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<v Speaker 1>get into the bop the bowl about about Okay, what's

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<v Speaker 1>about what you're listening to? Oh? Well, okay, this is

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<v Speaker 1>like a song that's not necessarily new, but I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like it fits the episode, and I don't feel like

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<v Speaker 1>we've ever had this. It's about why are you making

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<v Speaker 1>that thing? Because I'm scared you've been cutting up today

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<v Speaker 1>because you done crack about thirty jokes, you done cry.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't curse me out the fuck am I. I

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<v Speaker 1>know you ain't cut up till you said you hurt

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<v Speaker 1>my feelings. You did. I'm sorry because that's the thing

1:31:43.840 --> 1:31:46.080
<v Speaker 1>people don't know about you. And I'm gonna go on

1:31:46.120 --> 1:31:48.360
<v Speaker 1>here and say I ain't trying to throw no shade,

1:31:48.360 --> 1:31:54.519
<v Speaker 1>but like les be mean, y'all, sometimes you do. And

1:31:54.560 --> 1:31:57.559
<v Speaker 1>the funny thing is people think I'm mean, people think

1:31:57.640 --> 1:32:00.520
<v Speaker 1>I'm the mean one, when really and for real, for real,

1:32:01.400 --> 1:32:08.760
<v Speaker 1>than you, absolute fuck lutely bitch, absolutely one, because when

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<v Speaker 1>you and Yo Mo, people know not to fuck with you.

1:32:11.800 --> 1:32:18.080
<v Speaker 1>People know just be like, look at Ta, Look than Drea, damn,

1:32:18.640 --> 1:32:22.000
<v Speaker 1>thank you Ta. I feel like I'm not gonna lie.

1:32:22.200 --> 1:32:23.519
<v Speaker 1>What's the name. What was the name of that movie

1:32:23.600 --> 1:32:25.080
<v Speaker 1>Jamie Fox was in? Was it redemn she?

1:32:26.040 --> 1:32:26.400
<v Speaker 2>Mm hmm?

1:32:27.320 --> 1:32:30.320
<v Speaker 1>What happened? Was it Jamie Falk? What movie? It was

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<v Speaker 1>a movie?

1:32:30.880 --> 1:32:32.280
<v Speaker 2>It was a movie called Bitch.

1:32:32.280 --> 1:32:33.880
<v Speaker 1>It was a movie called redem She And I feel

1:32:33.880 --> 1:32:37.080
<v Speaker 1>like I'm having my redem she moment because everybody feel

1:32:37.200 --> 1:32:40.559
<v Speaker 1>like I'm mean. I'm the mean one when in real

1:32:40.640 --> 1:32:47.400
<v Speaker 1>life les meaner than me on camera. No, okay, let

1:32:47.439 --> 1:32:49.920
<v Speaker 1>me say that, but in real life, lets not with

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<v Speaker 1>the bullshe.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, I'm not gonna lie and I do own. I

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<v Speaker 2>did go off this morning. I went off real bad

1:32:55.640 --> 1:32:59.400
<v Speaker 2>this morning. We had our makeup. What's the wake up artist?

1:32:59.439 --> 1:32:59.960
<v Speaker 2>What's his name?

1:33:00.479 --> 1:33:02.719
<v Speaker 1>Ohky good to good did our makeup today?

1:33:02.800 --> 1:33:05.640
<v Speaker 2>And he saw me go off, so he's probably he

1:33:05.640 --> 1:33:07.160
<v Speaker 2>probably thinks I'm a bitch too. I didn't go off

1:33:07.160 --> 1:33:09.280
<v Speaker 2>on him. It had nothing to do with him, but

1:33:09.360 --> 1:33:11.280
<v Speaker 2>I was going off. Maybe I am a little bit.

1:33:11.360 --> 1:33:13.240
<v Speaker 2>I'm working on it. I'm working on it.

1:33:13.880 --> 1:33:16.479
<v Speaker 1>You're a little more mean and like you'll be mean

1:33:16.560 --> 1:33:18.880
<v Speaker 1>to me. Like one thing about me that I think

1:33:18.880 --> 1:33:20.840
<v Speaker 1>I mean to everybody? Shane thought I was meaning to

1:33:20.880 --> 1:33:23.559
<v Speaker 1>her one time. Remember you do me being mean? To

1:33:24.360 --> 1:33:31.559
<v Speaker 1>being mean to shame. Mm hmm, well, oh my god,

1:33:32.360 --> 1:33:42.280
<v Speaker 1>you m h okay twitch time? Have I been mean

1:33:42.320 --> 1:33:47.280
<v Speaker 1>to you before? But but let me ask, have I

1:33:47.320 --> 1:33:54.679
<v Speaker 1>ever been meaning the y'all? Oh my god?

1:33:55.479 --> 1:33:57.000
<v Speaker 2>Say have I ever been mean to you?

1:33:59.040 --> 1:34:03.599
<v Speaker 1>And I don't. I don't think you mean either. It's

1:34:03.640 --> 1:34:05.640
<v Speaker 1>time to work, nah, And when you were and I

1:34:05.680 --> 1:34:08.040
<v Speaker 1>think that'd be the thing too, when you be ready

1:34:08.040 --> 1:34:11.680
<v Speaker 1>to go? Oh, it's me okay, But let me say this.

1:34:11.920 --> 1:34:16.080
<v Speaker 1>We're not about being ready to go. I'd be ready

1:34:16.640 --> 1:34:19.360
<v Speaker 1>because exactly I'm always ready to go, but I be

1:34:19.439 --> 1:34:21.879
<v Speaker 1>ready to work. Let's get this work.

1:34:21.640 --> 1:34:23.240
<v Speaker 2>Done so motherfuckers can go home.

1:34:23.360 --> 1:34:26.439
<v Speaker 1>Nah. But the thing is, nobody be tripping on going home,

1:34:26.479 --> 1:34:30.679
<v Speaker 1>but you no. You don't know that though, because they

1:34:31.000 --> 1:34:33.040
<v Speaker 1>they work for us essentially, so they can't be like

1:34:33.400 --> 1:34:34.320
<v Speaker 1>I want to go home.

1:34:34.920 --> 1:34:37.760
<v Speaker 2>Let's get these people in and out.

1:34:40.120 --> 1:34:43.360
<v Speaker 1>Hello. So, yes, it comes off a little mean, but

1:34:43.439 --> 1:34:46.240
<v Speaker 1>let's get this show on the fucking road. Fifteen. Men's

1:34:46.360 --> 1:34:49.160
<v Speaker 1>let's get back to well, going back to our relationship,

1:34:49.160 --> 1:34:52.200
<v Speaker 1>because id ain't I don't work for you, but you

1:34:52.400 --> 1:34:57.519
<v Speaker 1>still like it's you, don't. You were spicy earlier in

1:34:57.520 --> 1:34:58.720
<v Speaker 1>this episode, and I all.

1:34:58.840 --> 1:35:02.200
<v Speaker 2>No, I wasn't spicy episode. I was emotional because I

1:35:02.280 --> 1:35:06.080
<v Speaker 2>was like, you know, no, this is what you said.

1:35:07.479 --> 1:35:09.639
<v Speaker 1>How are you gonna might help? Well, he don't got

1:35:09.640 --> 1:35:12.920
<v Speaker 1>to delete this part, but no, you was like, what

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<v Speaker 1>if I could say, no, I can finish. If I

1:35:15.640 --> 1:35:20.040
<v Speaker 1>can finish, I thought yeah, because I was trying to

1:35:20.200 --> 1:35:23.360
<v Speaker 1>because I know we when we have conversations, we cut

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<v Speaker 1>each other off. But I was trying to get my

1:35:26.400 --> 1:35:29.160
<v Speaker 1>points about the documentary off, and so it was an

1:35:29.160 --> 1:35:31.120
<v Speaker 1>emotional conversation, so I wanted to get out.

1:35:31.160 --> 1:35:33.320
<v Speaker 2>I was just saying, let me finish. It wasn't like

1:35:34.240 --> 1:35:35.160
<v Speaker 2>I didn't say it like that.

1:35:35.320 --> 1:35:37.760
<v Speaker 1>Well girl, first and foremost, you ain't gotta talk me

1:35:37.800 --> 1:35:40.479
<v Speaker 1>down because I know you. That's and I'm also not

1:35:40.560 --> 1:35:43.640
<v Speaker 1>really that sensity. But I was just saying, whenever you

1:35:43.760 --> 1:35:45.320
<v Speaker 1>be in your little mood, i'd be like, got in

1:35:45.360 --> 1:35:47.760
<v Speaker 1>the mold though, no, you not right now, but I'm

1:35:47.760 --> 1:35:50.479
<v Speaker 1>saying whenever you do be ill, just be like, okay, bitch, bye,

1:35:50.479 --> 1:35:53.559
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna talk to you later because I just thought

1:35:53.600 --> 1:35:55.640
<v Speaker 1>we having time for it and I've learned how to

1:35:55.680 --> 1:35:58.639
<v Speaker 1>deal with you. But your ass is way meaner than

1:35:58.640 --> 1:36:01.599
<v Speaker 1>me because I'm what think about me. I don't stay mad,

1:36:02.360 --> 1:36:07.280
<v Speaker 1>you know, oh fuck, no mad for like a day.

1:36:08.240 --> 1:36:09.439
<v Speaker 1>That's a long time.

1:36:10.080 --> 1:36:11.080
<v Speaker 2>That's not a long time.

1:36:11.200 --> 1:36:14.080
<v Speaker 1>I don't stay mad for hours. Like It'll be like

1:36:14.200 --> 1:36:18.479
<v Speaker 1>hours later and I'll be like, okay, hey girl drinks. No, no,

1:36:18.640 --> 1:36:21.880
<v Speaker 1>you're bad. I'll see you them all. No, you'll be

1:36:21.960 --> 1:36:25.559
<v Speaker 1>like BD, y'all see you next Wednesday. Possibly you be mad.

1:36:25.840 --> 1:36:28.120
<v Speaker 1>I don't be mad. I'm not mad, but like, like,

1:36:28.280 --> 1:36:32.200
<v Speaker 1>get away from me, not you, just people in general. No,

1:36:32.320 --> 1:36:35.559
<v Speaker 1>me too, just people in general. No, not you. I've

1:36:35.680 --> 1:36:37.320
<v Speaker 1>learned so like I.

1:36:37.360 --> 1:36:39.439
<v Speaker 2>Know you though, do you see that's a thought of mine.

1:36:39.760 --> 1:36:41.759
<v Speaker 1>I feel like I've talked about that before on the show,

1:36:41.800 --> 1:36:43.880
<v Speaker 1>like I've gotten into it. My men about the hill

1:36:43.880 --> 1:36:46.559
<v Speaker 1>of Times. He'd be like, one, think about you. You

1:36:46.680 --> 1:36:49.960
<v Speaker 1>don't take shit serious, Like it's not you just don't

1:36:50.280 --> 1:36:53.439
<v Speaker 1>like you think like you think that we can have

1:36:53.479 --> 1:36:57.240
<v Speaker 1>a conversation. And then because we had the conversation tomorrow

1:36:57.280 --> 1:37:01.080
<v Speaker 1>we gonna talk and it's like the bad but you

1:37:01.120 --> 1:37:03.000
<v Speaker 1>know that means like you push stuff under the rood.

1:37:03.080 --> 1:37:06.040
<v Speaker 1>You know that mean from what's her name? Juicy? And

1:37:06.080 --> 1:37:09.160
<v Speaker 1>she walked in room, She's like, hey, how y'all doing it.

1:37:09.520 --> 1:37:10.600
<v Speaker 1>That's you.

1:37:10.600 --> 1:37:12.200
<v Speaker 2>So it's not that you mean any harm.

1:37:12.240 --> 1:37:14.880
<v Speaker 1>You just be like, Okay, we talked about it. It's good. Hey,

1:37:15.120 --> 1:37:17.880
<v Speaker 1>we'll say I mean and let me know if y'all wrong.

1:37:17.880 --> 1:37:19.559
<v Speaker 1>I would like to say, because people always be lucky,

1:37:19.600 --> 1:37:22.519
<v Speaker 1>y'all be taking surveys, but who let's take a survey?

1:37:23.120 --> 1:37:30.080
<v Speaker 1>A Am I wrong? Like I feel like once we

1:37:30.200 --> 1:37:33.080
<v Speaker 1>have a conversation about some shit, it's over.

1:37:33.240 --> 1:37:37.160
<v Speaker 2>No, let me process that conversation and let me sit

1:37:37.200 --> 1:37:39.720
<v Speaker 2>in my feelings of how you made me feel and

1:37:39.760 --> 1:37:40.840
<v Speaker 2>your reaction to it.

1:37:40.920 --> 1:37:44.880
<v Speaker 1>Let me process that. That's it.

1:37:45.120 --> 1:37:47.639
<v Speaker 2>You gotta sit any Yeah, I gotta sit in my emotions.

1:37:47.640 --> 1:37:49.400
<v Speaker 2>I gotta sit in my feelings and sometimes I gotta

1:37:49.479 --> 1:37:52.000
<v Speaker 2>let shit go because if I talk to you right now,

1:37:52.040 --> 1:37:58.120
<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna go off. So let me sit with We know, yeah, I.

1:37:58.120 --> 1:38:00.599
<v Speaker 1>Go off all the time, but I'm also we know

1:38:01.320 --> 1:38:03.680
<v Speaker 1>I need a moment. Give me a fucking moment, and

1:38:03.760 --> 1:38:09.519
<v Speaker 1>I don't go off at all. I just be like, hey, hey, y'all,

1:38:10.400 --> 1:38:13.920
<v Speaker 1>i'd be like, get them. But you know, whenever people

1:38:13.920 --> 1:38:16.320
<v Speaker 1>say we don't look quote unquote like like we're in

1:38:16.360 --> 1:38:19.120
<v Speaker 1>our thirties, I feel like people be wanting to know

1:38:19.160 --> 1:38:25.240
<v Speaker 1>my skin care regimen effects that I don't give. What

1:38:25.360 --> 1:38:26.840
<v Speaker 1>is your bob of the week. How do we get

1:38:26.840 --> 1:38:29.080
<v Speaker 1>on this? Oh? Birds of a feather.

1:38:30.400 --> 1:38:32.280
<v Speaker 2>At your bob?

1:38:32.880 --> 1:38:36.920
<v Speaker 1>Yes? Yes, Oh well okay, it's gonna be sisters, I

1:38:36.960 --> 1:38:43.519
<v Speaker 1>mean my sisters. What's this on my brandy whenever I'm down? Yeah,

1:38:45.280 --> 1:38:49.160
<v Speaker 1>none of the best friend, that's myself. Okay for the week.

1:38:49.880 --> 1:38:52.160
<v Speaker 1>I love you. I love you two sister. We haven't

1:38:52.160 --> 1:38:54.240
<v Speaker 1>been through a lot. Oh you're gonna make me cry again.

1:38:54.320 --> 1:38:59.920
<v Speaker 1>Don don't do that. Okay, my bbo Festa eight down.

1:39:01.320 --> 1:39:03.320
<v Speaker 2>I cannot believe peoples in the comments, like is legs

1:39:03.360 --> 1:39:05.639
<v Speaker 2>going through something? The one week I was actually happy

1:39:05.880 --> 1:39:07.280
<v Speaker 2>because they thought that you didn't.

1:39:07.160 --> 1:39:09.040
<v Speaker 1>Dress up and you weird. That's all I say.

1:39:09.040 --> 1:39:14.320
<v Speaker 2>First of all, weak asshole. I mean, well, I'm not mean.

1:39:14.479 --> 1:39:18.000
<v Speaker 1>I'm responding to the what Johnson said and to the

1:39:18.080 --> 1:39:24.080
<v Speaker 1>hit us. So Grandma, First of all, bitch, I did

1:39:24.200 --> 1:39:28.080
<v Speaker 1>dress I was more T shirt. You know what.

1:39:29.000 --> 1:39:30.960
<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna get to my bob. But I'm just over

1:39:31.000 --> 1:39:34.120
<v Speaker 2>being a bad bitch for Halloween. I ain't never over

1:39:34.160 --> 1:39:36.360
<v Speaker 2>being a baby relate, I know, I just.

1:39:36.280 --> 1:39:38.320
<v Speaker 1>Feel like being a bad bitch for Halloween, and like,

1:39:38.800 --> 1:39:47.840
<v Speaker 1>why you're supposed to be fucking Tommy Pickles. Why is

1:39:47.840 --> 1:39:50.600
<v Speaker 1>your ass hanging out of your diaper? Bitch? Why is

1:39:50.640 --> 1:39:53.320
<v Speaker 1>your pussy lip out of your diaper? Why do I

1:39:53.320 --> 1:39:56.519
<v Speaker 1>see your nipples through your baby shirt? Bitch?

1:39:56.680 --> 1:39:59.680
<v Speaker 2>First supposed to be Tommy Pickles. Like, I'm just I

1:39:59.800 --> 1:40:01.800
<v Speaker 2>just like, don't get it twisted. If you're in your

1:40:01.800 --> 1:40:05.080
<v Speaker 2>twenties whatever, thirties, everybody had fun with it. But when

1:40:05.080 --> 1:40:07.640
<v Speaker 2>you a bad bitch every day, do something.

1:40:07.360 --> 1:40:10.599
<v Speaker 1>Outside the bar. Well first and foremost, that's real rich

1:40:10.720 --> 1:40:13.200
<v Speaker 1>coming from BBL Fester bb.

1:40:13.320 --> 1:40:14.880
<v Speaker 2>But I wasn't attractive at all.

1:40:14.960 --> 1:40:17.479
<v Speaker 1>You was though, because your ass was still asked, but

1:40:17.760 --> 1:40:21.160
<v Speaker 1>because I had to do that. But I covered it

1:40:21.240 --> 1:40:24.760
<v Speaker 1>up as much as I could. But Fester was still

1:40:24.760 --> 1:40:29.360
<v Speaker 1>gonna shake a tail fever. I ain't bl Fester was

1:40:29.360 --> 1:40:33.360
<v Speaker 1>a crazy name because it sounded like a disease festering,

1:40:33.520 --> 1:40:37.000
<v Speaker 1>anything festering. But like I saidn't sound right. I'm making

1:40:37.040 --> 1:40:39.960
<v Speaker 1>some challenge to all the batties of the world next Halloween.

1:40:40.080 --> 1:40:44.320
<v Speaker 1>Do something outside the box, be something really horrifying and scary.

1:40:44.400 --> 1:40:45.360
<v Speaker 1>Get the booth, bitch.

1:40:46.520 --> 1:40:48.639
<v Speaker 2>I ain't been a Battie for a long time in Halloween.

1:40:48.640 --> 1:40:49.919
<v Speaker 2>Oh it's been two years.

1:40:50.240 --> 1:40:52.920
<v Speaker 1>Because last year, because you was at the schoolgirl and

1:40:52.960 --> 1:40:56.960
<v Speaker 1>I was like, oh, you had the ass. Oh we

1:40:57.000 --> 1:40:59.000
<v Speaker 1>went outside, you had the whole ash.

1:40:59.160 --> 1:41:03.720
<v Speaker 2>That was so lame calling me okay, my bop of

1:41:03.760 --> 1:41:06.040
<v Speaker 2>the week, y'all know, I love a good TikTok bob because,

1:41:06.080 --> 1:41:07.880
<v Speaker 2>let me tell you, TikTok will put you on some

1:41:07.960 --> 1:41:12.080
<v Speaker 2>amazing artists. These are small artists that just post their songs.

1:41:12.120 --> 1:41:14.760
<v Speaker 2>They happen to go viral. So my bop of the

1:41:14.760 --> 1:41:18.880
<v Speaker 2>week it's called I Love You I'm Sorry by Gracie Abrams.

1:41:19.360 --> 1:41:21.760
<v Speaker 2>She's like an indie artist, y'all. This song is so

1:41:21.920 --> 1:41:25.400
<v Speaker 2>good because I love a good like heartbreak song. I

1:41:25.560 --> 1:41:27.920
<v Speaker 2>love to sit in my room and listen to good

1:41:28.439 --> 1:41:31.000
<v Speaker 2>lyrics and good I love girls who play the guitar.

1:41:31.640 --> 1:41:33.640
<v Speaker 2>It's something about a girl that can pick up a

1:41:33.680 --> 1:41:40.880
<v Speaker 2>guitar and pluck some strings. That's why I was gonna say,

1:41:40.880 --> 1:41:42.000
<v Speaker 2>India already need to come back.

1:41:42.000 --> 1:41:46.519
<v Speaker 1>But she'd be wildling some songs, she be saying some

1:41:46.600 --> 1:41:51.519
<v Speaker 1>crazy shit. Well what I will say is what was it?

1:41:51.800 --> 1:41:55.280
<v Speaker 1>Sometimes I camb my head and sometimes I don't hate that.

1:41:55.520 --> 1:41:58.439
<v Speaker 2>Uh, it's something about women who play the guitar. Doesn't

1:41:58.439 --> 1:42:00.840
<v Speaker 2>Summer Walker play the guitar, do she?

1:42:01.120 --> 1:42:05.360
<v Speaker 1>Yes? Yes, I mean it's something about women that play

1:42:05.400 --> 1:42:05.799
<v Speaker 1>the guitar.

1:42:06.760 --> 1:42:11.160
<v Speaker 2>They be wilding though any I read is just a

1:42:11.280 --> 1:42:13.800
<v Speaker 2>mad that's an artist. That's when we used to.

1:42:13.840 --> 1:42:17.840
<v Speaker 1>Make me a beautiful woman inside, Like, well you don't.

1:42:17.880 --> 1:42:20.559
<v Speaker 2>You can't say inside you don't know her. You don't

1:42:20.560 --> 1:42:24.639
<v Speaker 2>know that lady. Well from what I see, but she's

1:42:24.680 --> 1:42:27.479
<v Speaker 2>beautiful on the outside, beautiful. I loved her. I remember

1:42:27.479 --> 1:42:27.840
<v Speaker 2>growing up.

1:42:27.880 --> 1:42:30.080
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, from what I see, I think she is

1:42:30.120 --> 1:42:31.400
<v Speaker 1>beautiful on the inside.

1:42:31.439 --> 1:42:33.519
<v Speaker 2>What I seen, she she used to be online wild

1:42:33.560 --> 1:42:37.360
<v Speaker 2>and that's why I said what I said, the beautiful lady.

1:42:37.360 --> 1:42:39.360
<v Speaker 2>I used to love her hair and how she would

1:42:39.360 --> 1:42:42.759
<v Speaker 2>just like have it up and the big ear rings

1:42:42.800 --> 1:42:44.320
<v Speaker 2>and I was just like, oh my god.

1:42:44.560 --> 1:42:47.800
<v Speaker 1>And a skin tone like I'm like that was.

1:42:47.800 --> 1:42:49.400
<v Speaker 2>Like when I used to look at her like that

1:42:49.520 --> 1:42:52.880
<v Speaker 2>is what like a beautiful woman, Like that's a beautiful woman.

1:42:53.160 --> 1:42:56.960
<v Speaker 1>So your legs though, don't listen to that part.

1:42:57.479 --> 1:43:01.040
<v Speaker 2>I see brown skin was a hip Okay, yeah, my

1:43:01.080 --> 1:43:01.639
<v Speaker 2>bop of the week.

1:43:01.680 --> 1:43:02.000
<v Speaker 1>I love you.

1:43:02.040 --> 1:43:02.880
<v Speaker 2>I'm sorry. Gracie A.

1:43:03.000 --> 1:43:03.280
<v Speaker 1>Rooms.

1:43:03.280 --> 1:43:05.280
<v Speaker 2>It's like going crazy on TikTok and it's such a

1:43:05.280 --> 1:43:07.280
<v Speaker 2>good song. It's like a little indie song. So I

1:43:07.280 --> 1:43:11.000
<v Speaker 2>think y'all all like it. Okay, you know what I had? No,

1:43:11.320 --> 1:43:13.640
<v Speaker 2>we're not doing this. Let's right, Okay, real quick, I

1:43:13.680 --> 1:43:14.439
<v Speaker 2>gotta go to Brazil.

1:43:14.600 --> 1:43:19.280
<v Speaker 1>This is my sorry for two thousand and four and

1:43:19.479 --> 1:43:21.519
<v Speaker 1>nine on a mess of no More.

1:43:22.920 --> 1:43:27.599
<v Speaker 2>This year, I'm gonna say my home time to make

1:43:27.640 --> 1:43:28.240
<v Speaker 2>it real.

1:43:28.560 --> 1:43:34.000
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I'm sorry. I'm sorry, but Jue, I'm sorry, but

1:43:34.160 --> 1:43:41.559
<v Speaker 1>you lie. I'm sorry in case I don't well that

1:43:41.560 --> 1:43:43.639
<v Speaker 1>that song that you had reminded me of that because

1:43:43.640 --> 1:43:45.479
<v Speaker 1>it was like, I love you, I'm sorry. And I

1:43:45.520 --> 1:43:48.000
<v Speaker 1>was like, what about Ruben Study? Somebody said on Twitter

1:43:48.080 --> 1:43:51.000
<v Speaker 1>the other day and I concur They said, Rupert Study

1:43:51.040 --> 1:43:52.960
<v Speaker 1>it ain't nothing. I mean, rod Wave ain't nothing.

1:43:53.000 --> 1:43:56.000
<v Speaker 2>But why was I gett my lashes done? Shout out

1:43:56.000 --> 1:43:58.240
<v Speaker 2>to Jay? I started get my lashes done again and

1:43:58.320 --> 1:44:00.600
<v Speaker 2>she was playing rod Wave. I'm like, what are you

1:44:00.680 --> 1:44:01.600
<v Speaker 2>so angry?

1:44:02.000 --> 1:44:05.160
<v Speaker 1>They was like Ridewave ain't nothing but room and studded remastered.

1:44:05.360 --> 1:44:11.200
<v Speaker 1>He said the circle and people came over, but no

1:44:11.240 --> 1:44:15.120
<v Speaker 1>one was but it was all for and the young

1:44:15.200 --> 1:44:19.000
<v Speaker 1>kids be like and it was all fun road Wave

1:44:19.760 --> 1:44:22.080
<v Speaker 1>and will be over here. Like when he was sitting

1:44:22.080 --> 1:44:24.439
<v Speaker 1>on the stage and he was in that house and

1:44:24.439 --> 1:44:25.640
<v Speaker 1>he fell backwards.

1:44:26.880 --> 1:44:28.639
<v Speaker 2>I said, move on that mattress.

1:44:29.040 --> 1:44:33.400
<v Speaker 1>You need say that. See niggas was laughing. Dre was like,

1:44:34.280 --> 1:44:39.240
<v Speaker 1>let me call. I'm telling y'all any any wrong move

1:44:39.320 --> 1:44:45.519
<v Speaker 1>legs make I'd be like, hey girl, how you doing?

1:44:45.520 --> 1:44:49.760
<v Speaker 2>And hay, okay, okay, But shout out to rod Wave

1:44:49.800 --> 1:44:53.080
<v Speaker 2>because you know what rod Wave like. You know what

1:44:53.160 --> 1:44:58.840
<v Speaker 2>rod Wave is. No, No, he's not. Road Wave is

1:44:58.920 --> 1:45:03.759
<v Speaker 2>just an intern national or global or national. Zero Zero

1:45:04.960 --> 1:45:08.040
<v Speaker 2>chose to be a huge cause he's Zero is content.

1:45:08.080 --> 1:45:11.479
<v Speaker 2>He like fans music, and he chose to stay in

1:45:11.560 --> 1:45:14.320
<v Speaker 2>Houston and to stay you know, in the southern regions.

1:45:14.360 --> 1:45:17.320
<v Speaker 2>But people love Zero all around the world. But he

1:45:17.439 --> 1:45:20.040
<v Speaker 2>chose not to take that route of being a literally

1:45:20.040 --> 1:45:22.920
<v Speaker 2>global superstar because he wanted to do Ship his way.

1:45:23.240 --> 1:45:25.400
<v Speaker 1>I know Zero is a real nigga.

1:45:25.400 --> 1:45:28.439
<v Speaker 2>Who's he know that real depression Roadway be a little

1:45:28.479 --> 1:45:29.000
<v Speaker 2>fake with it.

1:45:29.680 --> 1:45:35.120
<v Speaker 1>Row and Trey as wholes of my nation, no doubt.

1:45:35.760 --> 1:45:43.520
<v Speaker 1>Tell me you.

1:45:40.560 --> 1:45:46.080
<v Speaker 2>When not hold Minna lay with that ship.

1:45:47.000 --> 1:45:52.599
<v Speaker 1>I hate you, Beach. I hate you, Beach. I never

1:45:52.720 --> 1:45:56.479
<v Speaker 1>thought I say I hate you big like.

1:45:56.600 --> 1:45:59.639
<v Speaker 2>That's a real depressed nigga roadway time.

1:46:00.000 --> 1:46:02.599
<v Speaker 1>That's a time I don't want to grind for you clean.

1:46:03.320 --> 1:46:09.040
<v Speaker 1>That's what I'm trying to do, the y'all and mom man,

1:46:10.320 --> 1:46:13.720
<v Speaker 1>trying to do all that I can, but you like

1:46:13.760 --> 1:46:22.120
<v Speaker 1>you ain't up. Y'all, niggas don't have to fuck with

1:46:22.560 --> 1:46:32.320
<v Speaker 1>me because I can do bed just being one deep

1:46:33.240 --> 1:46:36.519
<v Speaker 1>that y'all. Niggas ain't got to fuck with me. That's

1:46:36.560 --> 1:46:37.280
<v Speaker 1>how that nigga was.

1:46:37.240 --> 1:46:39.400
<v Speaker 2>Like, I don't fuck with y'all, and that's how they.

1:46:39.360 --> 1:46:42.559
<v Speaker 1>Feeling about you, niggas my whole life. That's why you

1:46:42.640 --> 1:46:45.120
<v Speaker 1>was biting niggas. Tell them that's why I was by you.

1:46:45.160 --> 1:46:46.519
<v Speaker 1>Niggas gotta fuck with me.

1:46:46.840 --> 1:46:49.559
<v Speaker 2>So yes, shout out to no and this is no

1:46:49.640 --> 1:46:50.960
<v Speaker 2>shape to road wave. I was joking.

1:46:51.040 --> 1:46:51.600
<v Speaker 1>Rod wave is.

1:46:52.560 --> 1:46:55.519
<v Speaker 2>These are amazing artists, amazing artists, but I do feel like,

1:46:55.920 --> 1:46:58.000
<v Speaker 2>you know, rod wave is like the new age Zero.

1:46:58.800 --> 1:47:01.400
<v Speaker 2>If you really listen to zero music, if you are

1:47:01.520 --> 1:47:04.320
<v Speaker 2>a young press, if you're a young person and you

1:47:04.400 --> 1:47:07.200
<v Speaker 2>love rod Wave, go listen to Zero. I guarantee you'll

1:47:07.240 --> 1:47:07.479
<v Speaker 2>like it.

1:47:07.760 --> 1:47:10.360
<v Speaker 1>We putting y'all like, seriously, we're putting y'all on some

1:47:10.400 --> 1:47:13.960
<v Speaker 1>new shit. Go listen. If you love for our wave,

1:47:14.040 --> 1:47:15.559
<v Speaker 1>you gonna love zero.

1:47:15.640 --> 1:47:21.439
<v Speaker 2>Love it love forty five. That was a lot of lighters.

1:47:21.479 --> 1:47:23.560
<v Speaker 1>Bitch, well, bitch where you got some?

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<v Speaker 2>Twenty twenty five was alike, but you.

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<v Speaker 1>Said some of them happened to that because time.

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<v Speaker 2>First of all, she played wine.

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<v Speaker 1>It's top fall. I get it. I know it is

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<v Speaker 2>can wrap this up. I gotta go to Brazil.

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<v Speaker 1>Who he right legs Heylex Andrea.

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<v Speaker 2>First of all, thank you both so much for everything

1:49:47.760 --> 1:49:50.120
<v Speaker 2>you do with your show. You both truly make me

1:49:50.160 --> 1:49:52.439
<v Speaker 2>feel seen, make me laugh, and make me feel included

1:49:52.479 --> 1:49:55.240
<v Speaker 2>as a black woman, and I love y'all down. So

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<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna try to make this short, but it's a

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<v Speaker 2>toughee to me.

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<v Speaker 1>Lol.

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<v Speaker 2>So I have a male best friend since middle school.

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<v Speaker 2>We've been knowing each other for maybe seventeen years now.

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<v Speaker 2>Like all friendships, we've had our ups and downs and

1:50:07.280 --> 1:50:09.479
<v Speaker 2>phases where we're closer at times than others.

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<v Speaker 1>Lately we've been in a good place, but I can't

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<v Speaker 1>help the fact that sometimes he irritates these shit out

1:50:15.640 --> 1:50:18.880
<v Speaker 1>of me with his flamboyance and sometimes as if he

1:50:18.880 --> 1:50:21.639
<v Speaker 1>doesn't make an effort to be happy or pour into

1:50:21.720 --> 1:50:24.640
<v Speaker 1>me as I do him. Let me give you some examples.

1:50:24.760 --> 1:50:26.960
<v Speaker 1>We live in two different states, so when we talk

1:50:27.000 --> 1:50:29.360
<v Speaker 1>on the phone, it's about work and our social life.

1:50:29.439 --> 1:50:31.960
<v Speaker 2>And I know his manhood and confidence is low. So

1:50:32.000 --> 1:50:34.040
<v Speaker 2>I always make it a point to uplift him and

1:50:34.120 --> 1:50:37.800
<v Speaker 2>validate him and congratulate him on his work, accomplishments and

1:50:38.120 --> 1:50:41.080
<v Speaker 2>adversities that he has. But I feel like he doesn't

1:50:41.080 --> 1:50:43.680
<v Speaker 2>return the favor, Like when he was interviewing for an

1:50:43.720 --> 1:50:47.679
<v Speaker 2>assistant director position for months. I listened and validated him

1:50:48.040 --> 1:50:50.599
<v Speaker 2>and even helped him interview prep. But when I tell

1:50:50.680 --> 1:50:54.479
<v Speaker 2>him about my work, adversities or accomplishments, he's very dry

1:50:54.720 --> 1:50:58.400
<v Speaker 2>and doesn't inquire. More then, the masculinity thing is so

1:50:58.560 --> 1:51:02.160
<v Speaker 2>frustrating because he says he's not gay but hasn't had

1:51:02.200 --> 1:51:05.120
<v Speaker 2>sex in eight years. He has piercings all over and

1:51:05.200 --> 1:51:08.759
<v Speaker 2>carries himself like a woman with his mannerisms, hand moveings,

1:51:08.800 --> 1:51:11.040
<v Speaker 2>and even the way he touches himself or looks in

1:51:11.080 --> 1:51:14.160
<v Speaker 2>the mirror or inquires about his clothes. My question is,

1:51:14.360 --> 1:51:16.439
<v Speaker 2>am I just being a bitch and not accepting him?

1:51:16.640 --> 1:51:18.400
<v Speaker 2>Can you give me ways to find out how to

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<v Speaker 2>accept him a bit more? Or should I just put

1:51:20.240 --> 1:51:23.160
<v Speaker 2>boundaries in place? Hope to hear back? Love y'all so bad?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm by I was with you with egones and you

1:51:25.439 --> 1:51:26.880
<v Speaker 1>can gonna get the hell I was with you in

1:51:26.920 --> 1:51:30.439
<v Speaker 1>the first half, but you was being real with you

1:51:30.479 --> 1:51:31.240
<v Speaker 1>in the first half.

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<v Speaker 2>But that last part rubbed me the wrong way because

1:51:35.280 --> 1:51:38.640
<v Speaker 2>who cares that he has feminine mannerisms, he has piercings,

1:51:38.840 --> 1:51:41.080
<v Speaker 2>he hasn't had sex. Let him be comfortable and when

1:51:41.080 --> 1:51:43.400
<v Speaker 2>he's ready to talk to you about whatever it is,

1:51:44.720 --> 1:51:46.840
<v Speaker 2>y'all have to learn how to be better friends. I

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<v Speaker 2>will say this this The reason that I said what

1:51:50.360 --> 1:51:52.759
<v Speaker 2>I said initially is because if you don't like it,

1:51:52.880 --> 1:51:54.360
<v Speaker 2>just stop being his friend.

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<v Speaker 1>You're well? Is that like you asking us like how

1:51:57.400 --> 1:52:00.760
<v Speaker 1>should you navigate the situation? Bitch? If you don't want

1:52:00.760 --> 1:52:02.479
<v Speaker 1>to be friends with him, if you don't like all

1:52:02.520 --> 1:52:06.080
<v Speaker 1>of these things, this laundry lease of things, stop being

1:52:06.120 --> 1:52:08.760
<v Speaker 1>this nigga friend like you ain't gotta beat nobody forcing you,

1:52:08.880 --> 1:52:16.559
<v Speaker 1>nobody forcing me, Zero or or ay. First things first,

1:52:16.600 --> 1:52:20.639
<v Speaker 1>I'm quing goo to ghetto. I say first things first

1:52:20.640 --> 1:52:24.320
<v Speaker 1>on Marollas, Okay, you know Zero said first things first,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm the king good to ghetto.

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<v Speaker 2>First days. First off's what do it first?

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<v Speaker 1>Mitch? I don't know because that's biggie. What's the song?

1:52:31.720 --> 1:52:35.240
<v Speaker 1>First things first? I feaks all the honey that's what

1:52:35.280 --> 1:52:38.800
<v Speaker 1>it is. Mom time wanting money? Those the ones I

1:52:38.880 --> 1:52:41.839
<v Speaker 1>like because they don't get a Nathan but penetration unless

1:52:41.840 --> 1:52:47.280
<v Speaker 1>it smells like sanitation, black and ugly as ever, however,

1:52:47.520 --> 1:52:50.880
<v Speaker 1>I say, cut you down to the song. Oh okay,

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<v Speaker 1>Like no, I just feel like, what the fuck is

1:52:55.240 --> 1:52:59.599
<v Speaker 1>wrong with people like y'all. I love y'all for real,

1:53:00.000 --> 1:53:01.960
<v Speaker 1>shout out some money, girl, come on the show.

1:53:04.560 --> 1:53:05.679
<v Speaker 2>I love y'all for real.

1:53:06.280 --> 1:53:09.720
<v Speaker 1>But when y'all be writing us sometimes I'd be like,

1:53:10.600 --> 1:53:14.400
<v Speaker 1>do you really need advice on this? Like you what's

1:53:14.880 --> 1:53:18.400
<v Speaker 1>best for you? Well, no, if you need a little guidance,

1:53:18.439 --> 1:53:21.040
<v Speaker 1>So I'll say this if you don't like this, But

1:53:21.080 --> 1:53:23.200
<v Speaker 1>if you don't like this, but she it seems like

1:53:23.240 --> 1:53:24.840
<v Speaker 1>she loves him because they've been friends for so long,

1:53:24.880 --> 1:53:26.880
<v Speaker 1>So let me say this, but you don't because all

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<v Speaker 1>that extra sheet.

1:53:28.040 --> 1:53:30.240
<v Speaker 2>But the first half.

1:53:30.280 --> 1:53:32.479
<v Speaker 1>I'm not gonna lie. If I'm talking to a friend

1:53:32.479 --> 1:53:34.920
<v Speaker 1>and they don't inquire what I have going on, I'm

1:53:34.960 --> 1:53:37.400
<v Speaker 1>gonna say, like, honestly, I feel like I'm always pouring

1:53:37.439 --> 1:53:40.400
<v Speaker 1>into you and you don't give that back. Tell him,

1:53:40.840 --> 1:53:42.000
<v Speaker 1>tell him how you feel.

1:53:42.200 --> 1:53:45.240
<v Speaker 2>If nothing changes, set a boundary, and if nothing changes

1:53:45.240 --> 1:53:48.240
<v Speaker 2>from that cut him off. But now I do disagree

1:53:48.280 --> 1:53:51.679
<v Speaker 2>with you as far as how he dresses, piercings.

1:53:51.680 --> 1:53:53.760
<v Speaker 1>Who cares if he's gay or not? That doesn't his

1:53:53.880 --> 1:53:55.000
<v Speaker 1>sexuality doesn't matter.

1:53:55.040 --> 1:53:55.800
<v Speaker 2>Are you fucking him?

1:53:55.840 --> 1:53:58.880
<v Speaker 1>No? Who cares? But that's the point that I was

1:53:58.880 --> 1:54:02.320
<v Speaker 1>about to make. I would never write an email to

1:54:02.360 --> 1:54:05.439
<v Speaker 1>somebody asking for advice on my friendship and and being like, yeah,

1:54:05.479 --> 1:54:07.519
<v Speaker 1>but you know, she don't fuck mad niggas or she

1:54:07.560 --> 1:54:10.200
<v Speaker 1>don't need X, Y and Z. Why is that like

1:54:10.240 --> 1:54:15.599
<v Speaker 1>a pre Rick Withe? Why is this Kelsey? Why did

1:54:15.600 --> 1:54:17.280
<v Speaker 1>you put that in? Why did you put that in

1:54:17.320 --> 1:54:21.200
<v Speaker 1>the message to begin with? Because his sexual orientation and

1:54:21.240 --> 1:54:24.479
<v Speaker 1>what he liked, it's not gonna make me and Licks

1:54:24.560 --> 1:54:27.040
<v Speaker 1>make a different like you know what I mean, It's

1:54:27.080 --> 1:54:29.479
<v Speaker 1>not gonna have It's not gonna make us form a

1:54:29.520 --> 1:54:32.880
<v Speaker 1>different opinion about the situation. One thing I always say, right,

1:54:34.120 --> 1:54:37.000
<v Speaker 1>And it's so funny because I feel like as the

1:54:37.040 --> 1:54:39.400
<v Speaker 1>show has evolved, I too have evolved because we don't

1:54:39.400 --> 1:54:42.320
<v Speaker 1>get these comments anymore. I used to always tell people

1:54:42.800 --> 1:54:45.800
<v Speaker 1>lead that nigga lead that situation like that was always

1:54:45.840 --> 1:54:49.480
<v Speaker 1>my advice. I feel that way still though I feel

1:54:49.480 --> 1:54:54.480
<v Speaker 1>like now I try to give more of depths. Yeah,

1:54:54.600 --> 1:54:57.880
<v Speaker 1>more of an in depth analysis, an in depth response.

1:54:58.360 --> 1:55:03.000
<v Speaker 1>But I truly feel like people's number one problem is

1:55:03.080 --> 1:55:05.840
<v Speaker 1>like y'all be acting like y'all so afraid to leave

1:55:05.920 --> 1:55:09.280
<v Speaker 1>situations that no longer serve you if you feel all

1:55:09.280 --> 1:55:11.200
<v Speaker 1>of these ways, because I feel like all of that

1:55:11.280 --> 1:55:14.240
<v Speaker 1>stuff that you said, and since I fuck with you,

1:55:14.400 --> 1:55:16.760
<v Speaker 1>I appreciate the fact that you're a listener of the show,

1:55:17.000 --> 1:55:19.240
<v Speaker 1>but sometimes I feel like y'all just need you real advice.

1:55:19.840 --> 1:55:22.160
<v Speaker 1>You said all of that and then you brought it

1:55:22.240 --> 1:55:27.880
<v Speaker 1>down to like his sexual orienta. I kind of just

1:55:27.920 --> 1:55:29.760
<v Speaker 1>feel like you don't even really want to be friends

1:55:29.760 --> 1:55:31.640
<v Speaker 1>with him, you know how you feel like y'all have

1:55:31.760 --> 1:55:34.680
<v Speaker 1>had a long standing relationship, so like, let me work

1:55:34.680 --> 1:55:38.040
<v Speaker 1>this out. That doesn't matter if it doesn't serve you anymore.

1:55:38.920 --> 1:55:40.880
<v Speaker 2>You know, you know you don't like somebody no more

1:55:41.120 --> 1:55:44.560
<v Speaker 2>when literally like everything and it gets on your nerves.

1:55:44.560 --> 1:55:46.280
<v Speaker 2>They can say, hey, and it gets on your nerve.

1:55:46.360 --> 1:55:47.720
<v Speaker 2>You don't like him no more because you're talking about

1:55:47.760 --> 1:55:50.560
<v Speaker 2>his mannerisms. I can't help my mannerisms. This is who

1:55:50.600 --> 1:55:52.640
<v Speaker 2>I am, it's me. But just reevaluate that.

1:55:52.640 --> 1:55:55.160
<v Speaker 1>Friendship and I think you need to take an exit.

1:55:55.520 --> 1:55:59.440
<v Speaker 1>I think all right, y'all.

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<v Speaker 2>Go to music Collection dot com. Lovelexp dropping soon, Drea's

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<v Speaker 2>we have a lot of good stuff cooking up for y'all,

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<v Speaker 2>If you see at poor Minds with no underscore, that

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<v Speaker 1>Do not follow that page.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, they block me Andrea and the poor Minds page

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<v Speaker 2>on both so we only have one Instagram, one Twitter

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<v Speaker 2>one TikTok AND's p O you are underscore were in

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<v Speaker 1>Right, and we gotta hell a fake Facebook page on

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<v Speaker 1>the Facebook pages. It's our face. The crazy thing is

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<v Speaker 1>So if you're on face, the one that's ours got

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<v Speaker 1>us got like two hundred and fifty. Thou make if

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<v Speaker 1>you actually look at the content, because the caption is

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<v Speaker 1>are like bumba Claude, should men? Should men pay bill?

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<v Speaker 1>Should men pay bill? Yes?

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<v Speaker 2>No? Check answer below block blocky Like that's literally what

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<v Speaker 2>the captions?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, what that DG is?

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<v Speaker 2>Bumba Claude, bumba claud who.

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<v Speaker 1>Caught in a barrel mash caught in a man ra

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<v Speaker 1>row my rub my mother, God wat man ro rub

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<v Speaker 1>my mother. I want your uglad. I want y'all to say.

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<v Speaker 2>I want y'all everything as long as it's free.

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<v Speaker 1>I want you a lie, live, live love. I want you.

1:58:31.040 --> 1:58:35.160
<v Speaker 2>I want your drama, the touch of your hair, I

1:58:35.280 --> 1:58:37.960
<v Speaker 2>want your leather started kissing the side.

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<v Speaker 1>I want you all love, love love, I watch all

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<v Speaker 1>live pen Israela.

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<v Speaker 2>You know that I want you.

1:58:49.240 --> 1:58:56.480
<v Speaker 1>You know that I need you. Oh your love it.

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<v Speaker 1>I want your revenge. You and me can have a

1:59:00.440 --> 1:59:06.360
<v Speaker 1>row man. How watch your love he loves revenge. You

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<v Speaker 1>and me could have a bedroom man.

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<v Speaker 2>Call in a bedroom man, Oh, call in a barrel.

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<v Speaker 1>Man, raw roman was a broom man.

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<v Speaker 2>How watch your horror? I watch all lie cut your

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<v Speaker 2>rock crab my not as long as your mine.

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<v Speaker 1>I want you all live, live, live love, I watch

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<v Speaker 1>all live. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>How want your cyga, your verder Costaire Hock. Want your

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<v Speaker 2>my row window. Baby you're sick. I want your live

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<v Speaker 2>Oh love, love love.

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<v Speaker 1>I want your love. Yeah, you know you know that

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<v Speaker 1>I need you. I want it bad, your bad romance Israel.

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<v Speaker 2>I want your loveing now want your revenge. You with

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<v Speaker 2>me could have a bed romance.

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<v Speaker 1>I want your love man, now want your revenge. You

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<v Speaker 1>with me?

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<v Speaker 2>Ride a bellman, It's all right.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, card in a barrow man, card in a barrow man.

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<v Speaker 4>Horrah Rama, run my mock god god la la want

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<v Speaker 4>your barrol mass roll rub my ma rama, run my mock.

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<v Speaker 2>Laa watch your barron mask walk fashion baby working move

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<v Speaker 2>that bitch is crazy walk walk fashion baby working move

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<v Speaker 2>that bitch is crazy walk fashion baby working move.

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<v Speaker 1>That bitch is crazy walk walk passion baby working.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm a free bitch, baby.

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<v Speaker 1>I want your love. A watch your rip band. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know how this spark goes. Huh, just to them all,

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<v Speaker 1>that's just to fashit. That's your foe, shitty. Just suit

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<v Speaker 1>them on. I don't want to be Roun.

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<v Speaker 4>What of for Roun Man, Watch out for Roun, Watch

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<v Speaker 4>up for Roun.

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<v Speaker 1>We love you, You're amazing. Watch for Roun. You signed

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<v Speaker 1>my boob period? We ate that a real bad See

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<v Speaker 1>y'all next week. I broke my dress, I broke my draft.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah they right now is bing bing bing