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Speaker 1: Minds where a drunk mind speaks sober thought.

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Speaker 2: And we're gonna We did say that on the last

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Speaker 1: I like you.

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Speaker 2: I am, and that's what I am. I'll always be

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Speaker 2: It runs. I'm sure I can find a Brazilian hobby.

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Speaker 1: You need to stop playing around with all them clowns

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Speaker 1: Why would you just say that, I'm about to say,

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Speaker 1: because I was about to say, child, do you lie?

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Speaker 1: But I had a part? Have a video that had

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Speaker 1: You know how niggas be getting a little squiggily. I

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Speaker 1: into anime, I thought that was like pretty cool to

434
00:24:22,040 --> 00:24:24,320
Speaker 1: maybe like a little animation, and it just kind of

435
00:24:24,640 --> 00:24:27,400
Speaker 1: gave people a little bit more insight to the things

436
00:24:27,440 --> 00:24:30,440
Speaker 1: that happened who are like more visual people who need

437
00:24:30,400 --> 00:24:34,439
Speaker 1: to kind of see exactly what happens. It's just so

438
00:24:34,640 --> 00:24:37,600
Speaker 1: sad to me because that girl have been through so

439
00:24:37,760 --> 00:24:42,600
Speaker 1: much and people are so focused on her line about

440
00:24:42,680 --> 00:24:45,400
Speaker 1: fucking that nigga when at the end of the day, Yeah,

441
00:24:45,520 --> 00:24:47,960
Speaker 1: did she lie about it on gil King, She did,

442
00:24:48,680 --> 00:24:52,359
Speaker 1: but she admitted to it when it mattered, which was

443
00:24:52,359 --> 00:24:56,720
Speaker 1: in court. But either way, I stand with her when

444
00:24:56,720 --> 00:25:02,439
Speaker 1: she said people are loose. Stay focused, y'all. Stay focused.

445
00:25:02,680 --> 00:25:05,439
Speaker 1: Y'all so worried about whether or not I fucked this nigga,

446
00:25:05,760 --> 00:25:10,600
Speaker 1: this man shot me in the grand scheme of things,

447
00:25:11,920 --> 00:25:15,280
Speaker 1: how much do it really matter that I was fucking him?

448
00:25:15,640 --> 00:25:17,840
Speaker 1: And y'all care way less about the fact that he

449
00:25:17,960 --> 00:25:23,359
Speaker 1: shot me. And then in the midst of all of this,

450
00:25:24,520 --> 00:25:30,240
Speaker 1: I came around a bad group of people. I started

451
00:25:30,400 --> 00:25:33,080
Speaker 1: being in a wrong company because I was going through

452
00:25:33,080 --> 00:25:36,600
Speaker 1: she because I lost my mother. I didn't know where

453
00:25:36,680 --> 00:25:38,919
Speaker 1: life was going. I didn't know what to do. I

454
00:25:39,000 --> 00:25:42,000
Speaker 1: was just looking for help. I was looking for friendship

455
00:25:42,480 --> 00:25:44,840
Speaker 1: in the wrong place. And you thought that this man

456
00:25:44,920 --> 00:25:48,640
Speaker 1: was your friend, and he definitely was like taking advantage

457
00:25:48,680 --> 00:25:50,119
Speaker 1: of you. But at the end of the day, I

458
00:25:50,200 --> 00:25:52,199
Speaker 1: just think people need more empathy for the fact that,

459
00:25:52,280 --> 00:25:58,720
Speaker 1: like this girl lost everybody in her life that held

460
00:25:58,760 --> 00:26:03,480
Speaker 1: her down, everybody that loved her unconditionally, like her mother,

461
00:26:04,160 --> 00:26:07,720
Speaker 1: her grandmother, her dad, Like this girl really going through

462
00:26:07,760 --> 00:26:10,720
Speaker 1: life by herself. You just gotta GeTe And then she

463
00:26:10,840 --> 00:26:13,520
Speaker 1: was young as fucked like Meg only what twenty nine

464
00:26:13,640 --> 00:26:15,800
Speaker 1: right now, not even thirty year Yeah, she's not even

465
00:26:15,840 --> 00:26:17,199
Speaker 1: thirty yet, this girl is not.

466
00:26:17,400 --> 00:26:20,440
Speaker 2: So I'm glad you said that. Let's take that into account.

467
00:26:20,440 --> 00:26:24,680
Speaker 2: This lady is not even thirty. Yeah, yeah, she's only

468
00:26:24,720 --> 00:26:27,399
Speaker 2: twenty nine. So it's like, imagine the shit all of

469
00:26:27,440 --> 00:26:30,480
Speaker 2: the mistakes we made in our twenties, all of the

470
00:26:30,520 --> 00:26:34,000
Speaker 2: bullshit we did in our twenties, but it wasn't documented,

471
00:26:34,080 --> 00:26:36,800
Speaker 2: it wasn't on a platform for the world to see,

472
00:26:37,240 --> 00:26:37,840
Speaker 2: you know what I mean.

473
00:26:37,840 --> 00:26:45,080
Speaker 1: And I just feel like, did she Like she had

474
00:26:45,080 --> 00:26:47,040
Speaker 1: her faults and she had her shit that she did

475
00:26:47,080 --> 00:26:50,080
Speaker 1: wrong too in the situation if we being honnies, But

476
00:26:50,160 --> 00:26:53,040
Speaker 1: at the end of the day, like this lady have

477
00:26:53,200 --> 00:26:56,560
Speaker 1: been through so much and has persevered, you know what

478
00:26:56,600 --> 00:26:59,280
Speaker 1: I mean, Like, if anything, she should be a testament

479
00:26:59,680 --> 00:27:01,480
Speaker 1: or a roll like I don't want to say a

480
00:27:01,560 --> 00:27:09,520
Speaker 1: role model, but because you know, but a testament to persevering, yes,

481
00:27:10,640 --> 00:27:13,080
Speaker 1: and still going and still making it through. That's so

482
00:27:13,359 --> 00:27:16,359
Speaker 1: hard and unfortunately for both of us, we know what

483
00:27:16,400 --> 00:27:19,800
Speaker 1: that's like too, to have to like keep going in

484
00:27:19,840 --> 00:27:22,920
Speaker 1: the midst of loss in the midst of grief and

485
00:27:22,920 --> 00:27:24,840
Speaker 1: losing somebody that's so close to you, and I just

486
00:27:24,840 --> 00:27:27,280
Speaker 1: feel like people just be so hard on this girl

487
00:27:27,480 --> 00:27:30,520
Speaker 1: all the time. And it really I always liked me,

488
00:27:31,600 --> 00:27:35,680
Speaker 1: but it definitely made me have a really softer or

489
00:27:35,760 --> 00:27:37,200
Speaker 1: even more soft spot for her.

490
00:27:37,800 --> 00:27:41,520
Speaker 2: So I'm gonna give my takeaways from a documentary.

491
00:27:41,520 --> 00:27:43,240
Speaker 1: I have a few things I wanted to take away.

492
00:27:43,400 --> 00:27:48,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, one, of course, the main thing that broke my heart,

493
00:27:48,480 --> 00:27:50,639
Speaker 2: which I'm gonna get into at the end of my

494
00:27:50,680 --> 00:27:54,520
Speaker 2: little spill, the mother thing, of course. But one thing

495
00:27:54,560 --> 00:27:59,199
Speaker 2: that broke my heart was if you notice in a

496
00:27:59,280 --> 00:28:03,520
Speaker 2: documentary after everything happened when she fell out with Kelsey

497
00:28:03,560 --> 00:28:06,120
Speaker 2: in the court, if you notice she didn't have any

498
00:28:06,119 --> 00:28:06,920
Speaker 2: friends around her.

499
00:28:07,200 --> 00:28:12,280
Speaker 1: Everybody around her were people that worked for her. So yeah, the.

500
00:28:12,200 --> 00:28:13,879
Speaker 2: Only person that was around her that was like a

501
00:28:13,920 --> 00:28:18,960
Speaker 2: friend was her cousin. And let me tell you, somebody that.

502
00:28:19,040 --> 00:28:21,600
Speaker 1: Shout out to you, Beach, but you were real.

503
00:28:21,880 --> 00:28:23,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, so let me and let me say this.

504
00:28:24,720 --> 00:28:29,840
Speaker 1: Herr her cousin is a real I really meant that.

505
00:28:30,840 --> 00:28:35,440
Speaker 2: No, so let me finish, so I will say I say,

506
00:28:35,480 --> 00:28:39,120
Speaker 2: it's so important all the time community when you're going

507
00:28:39,160 --> 00:28:42,120
Speaker 2: through things, you need friends, you need your sisters, you

508
00:28:42,200 --> 00:28:46,000
Speaker 2: need your aunties, you need your You cannot live this

509
00:28:46,080 --> 00:28:49,120
Speaker 2: life without community. So the fact that I saw her,

510
00:28:52,440 --> 00:28:54,120
Speaker 2: the fact that I saw her going through this and

511
00:28:54,200 --> 00:28:57,640
Speaker 2: she didn't have community, what made me really sad.

512
00:28:57,720 --> 00:28:59,240
Speaker 1: Another thing that I noticed.

513
00:28:59,600 --> 00:29:04,080
Speaker 2: Specifically, remember her performing her anxiety song and she's on

514
00:29:04,160 --> 00:29:06,840
Speaker 2: stage and she's performing, she's giving her and she's crying,

515
00:29:07,200 --> 00:29:09,479
Speaker 2: and it made me cry because she started saying that

516
00:29:09,520 --> 00:29:12,239
Speaker 2: part if I could write a letter to Heaven, you know,

517
00:29:12,360 --> 00:29:14,640
Speaker 2: and she's like talking to her mom and she's just like, Mom,

518
00:29:14,680 --> 00:29:17,000
Speaker 2: what am I doing? And I felt that because I've

519
00:29:17,040 --> 00:29:21,640
Speaker 2: been there. And when she got off stage, everybody around

520
00:29:21,760 --> 00:29:24,080
Speaker 2: her she was like, oh, did I look pretty? And

521
00:29:24,120 --> 00:29:25,880
Speaker 2: she's just trying to have a moment because she's trying

522
00:29:25,920 --> 00:29:27,840
Speaker 2: to cheer herself up. Everybody was like, oh, you did

523
00:29:27,880 --> 00:29:29,920
Speaker 2: so good. Not one person grabbed her and hugged her,

524
00:29:30,280 --> 00:29:33,800
Speaker 2: not one person and sometimes and in that moment, she

525
00:29:33,840 --> 00:29:35,800
Speaker 2: didn't need to be Megan the Stallion. She needed to

526
00:29:35,800 --> 00:29:39,120
Speaker 2: be Megan Pete and she needed a fucking hug. So

527
00:29:39,240 --> 00:29:41,520
Speaker 2: let me say this. On top of that, the one

528
00:29:41,560 --> 00:29:44,360
Speaker 2: person that I saw around her that we see that

529
00:29:44,600 --> 00:29:47,239
Speaker 2: it's always been Oh my god, this woman is a

530
00:29:47,360 --> 00:29:52,480
Speaker 2: machine that poured into her every time Glauri and fucking Gibson.

531
00:29:53,000 --> 00:29:58,320
Speaker 2: She was constantly pouring into her and telling her how great.

532
00:29:59,280 --> 00:30:02,760
Speaker 2: The reason that Meghan is so great, it's because she's

533
00:30:02,800 --> 00:30:08,280
Speaker 2: Megan and she's herself. But Laurie Ann, who has created superstars,

534
00:30:08,320 --> 00:30:10,560
Speaker 2: who has been in this industry, we interviewed her when

535
00:30:10,560 --> 00:30:14,400
Speaker 2: we were in LA and.

536
00:30:13,320 --> 00:30:14,480
Speaker 1: I'm not like funny.

537
00:30:14,680 --> 00:30:17,760
Speaker 2: If you've ever been in the presence of somebody who

538
00:30:17,840 --> 00:30:21,200
Speaker 2: has done great things and they're just great, being around them,

539
00:30:21,200 --> 00:30:23,760
Speaker 2: you feel something like when Laurie walked up to me,

540
00:30:25,160 --> 00:30:27,200
Speaker 2: it was just like, oh my god. And the way

541
00:30:27,320 --> 00:30:30,480
Speaker 2: she even spoke life into us. She was like, you ladies,

542
00:30:30,680 --> 00:30:33,280
Speaker 2: y'all are doing it. Y'all are beautiful. And that was

543
00:30:33,280 --> 00:30:34,640
Speaker 2: the first time she met us. She was like, this

544
00:30:34,720 --> 00:30:37,720
Speaker 2: is the best interview I did all day. She was like, so,

545
00:30:38,360 --> 00:30:41,760
Speaker 2: everybody say, the way that Laurie Anne poured into her

546
00:30:41,840 --> 00:30:44,720
Speaker 2: was very important to me, and that suck out to me.

547
00:30:47,600 --> 00:30:49,280
Speaker 2: I got two more points, and I know I'm getting

548
00:30:49,320 --> 00:30:50,880
Speaker 2: long winded. Second point was.

549
00:30:52,360 --> 00:30:53,960
Speaker 1: Speak your peace. I am so.

550
00:30:54,120 --> 00:30:58,280
Speaker 2: Glad that she showed the depths of her and Kelsey's

551
00:30:58,280 --> 00:31:04,720
Speaker 2: relationship because everybody was like, oh, Meg wrong because she

552
00:31:04,960 --> 00:31:07,160
Speaker 2: was having said Tory they doing that?

553
00:31:08,320 --> 00:31:10,720
Speaker 1: Was it wrong? Yes, And we're not taking away that

554
00:31:11,000 --> 00:31:12,920
Speaker 1: I don't know who did. But at the end of

555
00:31:12,960 --> 00:31:15,320
Speaker 1: the day, we don't know who was doing what first,

556
00:31:15,360 --> 00:31:19,040
Speaker 1: or what We don't know nothing about nothing all we know.

557
00:31:19,360 --> 00:31:22,600
Speaker 1: We don't know nothing we can We're only going by

558
00:31:22,640 --> 00:31:24,880
Speaker 1: he says. She says, But what I'm saying.

559
00:31:24,720 --> 00:31:27,480
Speaker 2: Is, at the end of the day, it was weird

560
00:31:27,520 --> 00:31:31,160
Speaker 2: and it was wrong because if y'all are friends, why

561
00:31:31,160 --> 00:31:33,560
Speaker 2: are y'all hopping on the same X y Z. But

562
00:31:33,600 --> 00:31:37,560
Speaker 2: I mean that's the and that's where I'm like, yeah, so,

563
00:31:37,640 --> 00:31:38,520
Speaker 2: but let me finish.

564
00:31:38,920 --> 00:31:39,080
Speaker 1: So.

565
00:31:39,320 --> 00:31:42,600
Speaker 2: But my thing is because I've had somebody do this

566
00:31:42,640 --> 00:31:46,760
Speaker 2: to me, for Kelsey to sit on that camera and

567
00:31:46,880 --> 00:31:49,720
Speaker 2: cry about Miss Holly and say, me and Megan have

568
00:31:49,840 --> 00:31:52,920
Speaker 2: been through the dirt and the trenches and when we

569
00:31:53,280 --> 00:31:56,000
Speaker 2: she said, not when Meg, she said, when we lost

570
00:31:56,040 --> 00:31:58,800
Speaker 2: Miss Holly, I knew I had to be here.

571
00:32:00,120 --> 00:32:03,719
Speaker 1: So instead of you being by her side, you chose

572
00:32:03,800 --> 00:32:07,160
Speaker 1: to take some hush money and get on that stand

573
00:32:08,280 --> 00:32:10,120
Speaker 1: and not say nothing, because at the end of the day,

574
00:32:10,160 --> 00:32:12,640
Speaker 1: that may do you wrong from what it comes to be.

575
00:32:12,720 --> 00:32:14,280
Speaker 2: But let me tell you if that would have been.

576
00:32:14,200 --> 00:32:16,280
Speaker 1: Me and Dre in that situation, first of all, that

577
00:32:16,360 --> 00:32:18,800
Speaker 1: nigga would have been beat the fuck up, because ain't

578
00:32:18,840 --> 00:32:21,840
Speaker 1: nobody finna pull out a gun on my friend. Somebody

579
00:32:21,920 --> 00:32:31,000
Speaker 1: finish somebody gonna die tonight shout out to fifty sor

580
00:32:36,600 --> 00:32:38,840
Speaker 1: if that was the situation to say, I'm having a

581
00:32:38,960 --> 00:32:41,440
Speaker 1: messing with somebody, then drag go back though and she

582
00:32:41,560 --> 00:32:43,120
Speaker 1: messing with him and it comes out in the car

583
00:32:43,200 --> 00:32:47,040
Speaker 1: and the same thing happens. Don't care. I'm sitting on

584
00:32:47,080 --> 00:32:49,400
Speaker 1: that stand and I'm telling him what he did. Now,

585
00:32:49,440 --> 00:32:51,200
Speaker 1: I ain't I made sure use to never talk to

586
00:32:51,240 --> 00:32:54,800
Speaker 1: you again, But deep down inside, I know what you're

587
00:32:54,840 --> 00:32:56,320
Speaker 1: going through because you're going through a lot, and you've

588
00:32:56,320 --> 00:33:00,520
Speaker 1: been drinking a lot and you're struggling. So I forgive

589
00:33:00,560 --> 00:33:02,760
Speaker 1: you for my piece, but I'm never gonna talk to

590
00:33:02,760 --> 00:33:03,080
Speaker 1: you again.

591
00:33:03,120 --> 00:33:04,800
Speaker 2: But I'm gonna sit on that stand and I'm gonna

592
00:33:04,800 --> 00:33:07,120
Speaker 2: give you justice because no matter what, you did not

593
00:33:07,280 --> 00:33:09,240
Speaker 2: deserve to almost if.

594
00:33:09,080 --> 00:33:14,000
Speaker 1: That bullet would have hit a foot higher, it could

595
00:33:14,040 --> 00:33:15,760
Speaker 1: have hit an artery and that woman would have died,

596
00:33:15,920 --> 00:33:18,440
Speaker 1: and the narrative would have been y'all would have needed

597
00:33:18,480 --> 00:33:21,200
Speaker 1: Meg to die for y'all to care dance beat. She's

598
00:33:21,280 --> 00:33:26,040
Speaker 1: crazy exactly so because what nigga, And that's probably how

599
00:33:26,040 --> 00:33:29,280
Speaker 1: she responded, so because like, nigga, what are you talking about?

600
00:33:29,320 --> 00:33:30,680
Speaker 1: Because I want to get out the car.

601
00:33:31,080 --> 00:33:34,200
Speaker 2: And like I said, third and my last point about Kelsey,

602
00:33:34,240 --> 00:33:35,920
Speaker 2: and I'm glad that she focused on that.

603
00:33:36,800 --> 00:33:37,920
Speaker 1: It's just being that.

604
00:33:38,080 --> 00:33:44,280
Speaker 2: Like I said, it taught me how scary people are

605
00:33:44,320 --> 00:33:45,280
Speaker 2: because everybody.

606
00:33:45,040 --> 00:33:47,280
Speaker 1: Has you best entries.

607
00:33:47,280 --> 00:33:51,400
Speaker 2: And I've lost when like I said, I had somebody

608
00:33:51,400 --> 00:33:53,480
Speaker 2: look at me in my face and said, when your

609
00:33:53,480 --> 00:33:56,040
Speaker 2: mom passed, I felt like she told me to watch

610
00:33:56,080 --> 00:33:58,200
Speaker 2: over you. And this person did the worst don't piss

611
00:33:58,280 --> 00:34:02,400
Speaker 2: me off, worst things to me that I've ever endured

612
00:34:02,400 --> 00:34:03,080
Speaker 2: and encountered.

613
00:34:03,320 --> 00:34:06,400
Speaker 1: Sol Please don't piece me off. Well, no, I'm just

614
00:34:06,440 --> 00:34:08,799
Speaker 1: saying no, I'm talking about it. It was a guy.

615
00:34:08,840 --> 00:34:13,279
Speaker 2: I'm talking about what she was saying the same. Yeah,

616
00:34:13,320 --> 00:34:14,640
Speaker 2: it was kind of the same. I had a lot

617
00:34:14,680 --> 00:34:16,520
Speaker 2: of people the year my mom passed.

618
00:34:16,200 --> 00:34:18,320
Speaker 1: And I had to get out of my mom always

619
00:34:18,320 --> 00:34:20,080
Speaker 1: told me hate this is a strong word. I don't hate her.

620
00:34:20,440 --> 00:34:23,359
Speaker 1: I strongly dislike, strongly disliked it.

621
00:34:24,320 --> 00:34:26,279
Speaker 2: But I'll say this about Kelsey. I'm glad that she

622
00:34:26,360 --> 00:34:28,440
Speaker 2: showed that because there was a lot of things that

623
00:34:28,840 --> 00:34:31,080
Speaker 2: the stands and fans wanted her to focus on. She

624
00:34:31,080 --> 00:34:33,600
Speaker 2: didn't post like the beef with Nikki, she didn't post

625
00:34:33,760 --> 00:34:37,080
Speaker 2: her with party because none of that matters. Yeah, what

626
00:34:37,239 --> 00:34:40,200
Speaker 2: hurt her was that Kelsey sat on that stand and

627
00:34:40,239 --> 00:34:42,120
Speaker 2: act like you didn't know nothing, and I could have

628
00:34:42,200 --> 00:34:45,640
Speaker 2: lost my life and no matter what beef or whatever transpired,

629
00:34:46,400 --> 00:34:50,479
Speaker 2: you could have served justice and made sure that justice

630
00:34:50,600 --> 00:34:51,920
Speaker 2: was served a lot easier.

631
00:34:52,120 --> 00:34:54,839
Speaker 1: Well, you know what justice was her? It was No

632
00:34:54,920 --> 00:34:56,960
Speaker 1: I'm saying you know what justice was her. At the

633
00:34:57,040 --> 00:34:59,239
Speaker 1: end of the day, losers gonna be losers only for

634
00:34:59,280 --> 00:35:02,960
Speaker 1: you to be online, take a whole photo shoot with

635
00:35:03,120 --> 00:35:04,960
Speaker 1: Nikki shoes, and Nikki to come out and say I

636
00:35:04,960 --> 00:35:12,239
Speaker 1: didn't ask her to do that. Because one thing I

637
00:35:12,280 --> 00:35:12,960
Speaker 1: can say about.

638
00:35:12,800 --> 00:35:15,200
Speaker 2: Nicki Nikki on tour, she doing her thing like you

639
00:35:15,239 --> 00:35:17,000
Speaker 2: were trying to be shaity. You thought Nikki was Finn

640
00:35:17,000 --> 00:35:20,000
Speaker 2: the key key with you, but that and shout out

641
00:35:20,000 --> 00:35:22,960
Speaker 2: to Nikky. We love us some meg and we love

642
00:35:23,040 --> 00:35:23,319
Speaker 2: us an.

643
00:35:23,560 --> 00:35:26,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, we don't choose sides over here, hotfully, I really

644
00:35:26,239 --> 00:35:28,480
Speaker 1: hope they can get cool at some point, because a

645
00:35:28,560 --> 00:35:30,959
Speaker 1: collab would be fine. Her Girl Summer was a bop

646
00:35:31,239 --> 00:35:34,120
Speaker 1: and we need to run it back a collab, a

647
00:35:34,120 --> 00:35:35,879
Speaker 1: new collab. But either way, if.

648
00:35:37,640 --> 00:35:41,960
Speaker 2: Last point I want to make you called me, well, no,

649
00:35:42,000 --> 00:35:43,879
Speaker 2: I think I called. We talked the next day, maybe

650
00:35:43,920 --> 00:35:45,160
Speaker 2: after the documentary.

651
00:35:45,640 --> 00:35:48,040
Speaker 1: No, because I hadn't I don't think I have Oh

652
00:35:48,080 --> 00:35:50,960
Speaker 1: oh yeah, I hadn't watched the Egg. Yeah, but you

653
00:35:51,040 --> 00:35:54,560
Speaker 1: were your reaction, Oh my god, Please, I don't want

654
00:35:54,560 --> 00:35:56,759
Speaker 1: to get emotional. This is not bach. I make up

655
00:35:56,800 --> 00:36:00,000
Speaker 1: then and I got last's on. I don't want to.

656
00:36:00,719 --> 00:36:10,240
Speaker 1: I don't want to get emotional. But like your your wait,

657
00:36:10,440 --> 00:36:11,600
Speaker 1: maybe it's the leak.

658
00:36:12,640 --> 00:36:15,600
Speaker 2: You don't be crying for real, Like what the going on?

659
00:36:17,719 --> 00:36:24,279
Speaker 1: Okay? So like your response was just so thank you, Ty.

660
00:36:24,800 --> 00:36:31,880
Speaker 1: Your response was just so triggering for me because oh

661
00:36:31,920 --> 00:36:36,160
Speaker 1: my god, what No, you want to start crying to

662
00:36:38,120 --> 00:36:42,319
Speaker 1: my tears don't fall me? Oh my god. Okay. So

663
00:36:44,920 --> 00:36:46,239
Speaker 1: maybe this is a good thing because a lot of

664
00:36:46,280 --> 00:36:50,120
Speaker 1: people don't really see this side. Yeah, okay, so people

665
00:36:50,120 --> 00:36:51,799
Speaker 1: think I don't have the side which you see this

666
00:36:51,840 --> 00:36:52,960
Speaker 1: side of me all the time.

667
00:36:53,080 --> 00:36:55,480
Speaker 2: But we needed to talk about it.

668
00:36:56,760 --> 00:37:01,480
Speaker 1: So you've been through so much. We both have, you know,

669
00:37:01,760 --> 00:37:06,280
Speaker 1: like losing my dad was so fucking hard, and then

670
00:37:06,600 --> 00:37:08,520
Speaker 1: it's like I kind of was prepared for it a

671
00:37:08,520 --> 00:37:12,279
Speaker 1: little bit because I knew my dad was sick, but

672
00:37:12,520 --> 00:37:16,440
Speaker 1: like still when it happened, it was like what the fuck? Yeah, yeah,

673
00:37:16,480 --> 00:37:22,719
Speaker 1: you know, crazy thing about me. I recorded the same day,

674
00:37:23,200 --> 00:37:24,879
Speaker 1: and then we didn't talk about it for like two

675
00:37:24,920 --> 00:37:27,600
Speaker 1: months or whatever. A lot of people didn't even know

676
00:37:27,960 --> 00:37:29,440
Speaker 1: because I'm just that type of person. I'm like I

677
00:37:29,440 --> 00:37:31,759
Speaker 1: got to keep myself busy to keep my mind off

678
00:37:31,760 --> 00:37:33,120
Speaker 1: of things. So I feel like for a long time,

679
00:37:33,160 --> 00:37:34,680
Speaker 1: I didn't even deal with the death of my dad.

680
00:37:35,200 --> 00:37:39,239
Speaker 1: And so right when I felt like we was kind

681
00:37:39,239 --> 00:37:42,520
Speaker 1: of like get into a good space with the head,

682
00:37:42,680 --> 00:37:46,239
Speaker 1: like the situation which your mom happened, which was like

683
00:37:46,560 --> 00:37:51,280
Speaker 1: so fucking crazy still to this day, because it just happened.

684
00:37:51,280 --> 00:37:53,799
Speaker 1: I don't know it. Yeah, yeah, we was all so

685
00:37:53,960 --> 00:37:57,959
Speaker 1: fucking shocked, and like, so when you called me about

686
00:37:58,000 --> 00:38:01,840
Speaker 1: the documentary, I was just like, oh, like it was

687
00:38:01,880 --> 00:38:05,000
Speaker 1: so triggering because I could tell you was really like

688
00:38:06,560 --> 00:38:09,719
Speaker 1: experiencing it all over because you and men kind of

689
00:38:09,760 --> 00:38:12,600
Speaker 1: have like the same story a little bit. You know,

690
00:38:13,360 --> 00:38:17,360
Speaker 1: and it was just like, I don't know, bro, I

691
00:38:17,520 --> 00:38:19,719
Speaker 1: just be feeling for you so bad because I know,

692
00:38:19,920 --> 00:38:23,640
Speaker 1: like the thing with me is it's not to say

693
00:38:23,680 --> 00:38:27,080
Speaker 1: that I don't I don't go through the same things

694
00:38:27,120 --> 00:38:30,120
Speaker 1: and like miss my dad and but I just feel

695
00:38:30,160 --> 00:38:32,239
Speaker 1: like me and you are just so different, Like I'm

696
00:38:32,280 --> 00:38:36,279
Speaker 1: a little bit more like hard yeah yeah, you know,

697
00:38:36,560 --> 00:38:39,520
Speaker 1: like I go through it, but I'm just able to

698
00:38:39,680 --> 00:38:42,799
Speaker 1: like maneuver, yeah, and I feel like for you, it's

699
00:38:42,880 --> 00:38:45,400
Speaker 1: like a little bit harder. And which is so crazy

700
00:38:45,440 --> 00:38:48,200
Speaker 1: because I think when people see us, like you're older

701
00:38:48,200 --> 00:38:52,200
Speaker 1: than me, you you the think you you to stay

702
00:38:52,239 --> 00:38:56,000
Speaker 1: in like people think that you're gonna be like the

703
00:38:56,120 --> 00:38:59,040
Speaker 1: tougher one, but in reality it's me, Like I feel

704
00:38:59,080 --> 00:39:04,440
Speaker 1: like I'm like your little and I just always worry

705
00:39:04,480 --> 00:39:07,640
Speaker 1: about you. I guess it's what I was my whole

706
00:39:07,680 --> 00:39:10,080
Speaker 1: point in saying all of these. I just always worry

707
00:39:10,080 --> 00:39:16,799
Speaker 1: about you because I'm okay. Yeah, Like I'm at a

708
00:39:16,800 --> 00:39:21,520
Speaker 1: point where I have accepted it and I've accepted what

709
00:39:21,600 --> 00:39:24,040
Speaker 1: it is, and I'm okay. Like I have my moments

710
00:39:24,080 --> 00:39:26,480
Speaker 1: where I'm sad and I some days I don't want

711
00:39:26,480 --> 00:39:28,920
Speaker 1: to get out of bed still too but I'm okay

712
00:39:29,880 --> 00:39:33,320
Speaker 1: with you. I just don't never know if you're gonna

713
00:39:33,320 --> 00:39:39,680
Speaker 1: be okay, and it worries me so much. Also, I'm

714
00:39:40,000 --> 00:39:42,719
Speaker 1: never gonna like to tell your business. But like even

715
00:39:42,760 --> 00:39:45,080
Speaker 1: when it first happened, like what you shared with me,

716
00:39:45,200 --> 00:39:45,560
Speaker 1: I was.

717
00:39:45,560 --> 00:39:46,640
Speaker 2: Just like, yeah, it was.

718
00:39:46,760 --> 00:39:50,359
Speaker 1: I think it was a lot for everybody around well,

719
00:39:50,480 --> 00:39:52,719
Speaker 1: even like because you was like, I'm so glad that

720
00:39:52,760 --> 00:39:57,279
Speaker 1: you came. Yeah, yeah, yeah, when you came, and I'm

721
00:39:57,360 --> 00:40:01,160
Speaker 1: just like, yeah, it just always scared. I just never know.

722
00:40:01,640 --> 00:40:08,800
Speaker 2: I think I think with this and like I said,

723
00:40:09,480 --> 00:40:13,360
Speaker 2: I've worked through a lot of things, and with the documentary,

724
00:40:14,120 --> 00:40:14,839
Speaker 2: it was.

725
00:40:16,840 --> 00:40:17,600
Speaker 1: It was.

726
00:40:19,160 --> 00:40:25,319
Speaker 2: Shocking because I went through the same thing. You know,

727
00:40:25,440 --> 00:40:27,480
Speaker 2: Meg lost her dad at a young age. I lost

728
00:40:27,560 --> 00:40:30,000
Speaker 2: my dad at a young age. And you know, when

729
00:40:30,000 --> 00:40:34,239
Speaker 2: you when you don't have two parents and you have

730
00:40:34,280 --> 00:40:39,520
Speaker 2: one parent that I mean, my mom would if you

731
00:40:39,600 --> 00:40:42,080
Speaker 2: if y'all go scroll back far enough, y'all can literally

732
00:40:42,080 --> 00:40:44,160
Speaker 2: go in eighty five South comments and see my mom

733
00:40:44,160 --> 00:40:47,120
Speaker 2: and they're arguing down when you have somebody.

734
00:40:46,920 --> 00:40:49,200
Speaker 1: The last post on your mom's page and.

735
00:40:49,480 --> 00:40:53,160
Speaker 2: Literally me Her and Ryan, and when you have a

736
00:40:53,200 --> 00:40:55,680
Speaker 2: parent that just believed in you and would go to

737
00:40:55,800 --> 00:41:00,640
Speaker 2: war about you and was your best friend and your everything.

738
00:41:00,760 --> 00:41:03,719
Speaker 2: So the way that Megan's relationship was with her mom,

739
00:41:03,800 --> 00:41:07,000
Speaker 2: I saw that because her mom was.

740
00:41:07,000 --> 00:41:11,200
Speaker 1: Like twirk uh dance shake that ass.

741
00:41:11,239 --> 00:41:12,839
Speaker 2: My mom was like the same thing with like when

742
00:41:12,840 --> 00:41:15,000
Speaker 2: you go and you crack them jokes like you need

743
00:41:15,040 --> 00:41:16,120
Speaker 2: to be like you can't.

744
00:41:16,280 --> 00:41:19,560
Speaker 1: You know she used to.

745
00:41:19,680 --> 00:41:21,719
Speaker 2: They used to call my mom like, oh, Lex got

746
00:41:21,719 --> 00:41:24,160
Speaker 2: a potty mouth. And they wouldn't call me legs. You know,

747
00:41:24,160 --> 00:41:25,600
Speaker 2: they would be like, you know, she got a potty

748
00:41:25,600 --> 00:41:26,280
Speaker 2: mouth and she's.

749
00:41:26,120 --> 00:41:29,600
Speaker 1: So she doing her thing. Let her do her and

750
00:41:29,680 --> 00:41:31,480
Speaker 1: shout out to mothers like that. Because I feel like

751
00:41:31,520 --> 00:41:34,600
Speaker 1: my mom liked that. Yeah, like she come to all

752
00:41:34,680 --> 00:41:38,560
Speaker 1: our shows. She'd be there, like, shout out to having

753
00:41:39,120 --> 00:41:42,480
Speaker 1: mothers that support your dreams and your virgin and your

754
00:41:42,480 --> 00:41:43,560
Speaker 1: mom was a real wins.

755
00:41:43,680 --> 00:41:47,640
Speaker 2: So the fact that when meg lost her mom, she

756
00:41:47,760 --> 00:41:49,880
Speaker 2: kind of had to she couldn't stop.

757
00:41:51,480 --> 00:41:53,520
Speaker 1: And I know that feeling because.

758
00:41:54,680 --> 00:41:59,880
Speaker 2: I had nothing, and when I moved out to Atlanta

759
00:42:00,120 --> 00:42:01,680
Speaker 2: was like, oh my god, we're getting ready to go

760
00:42:01,719 --> 00:42:05,560
Speaker 2: on tour. I could not stop because not only was

761
00:42:05,600 --> 00:42:07,479
Speaker 2: it I have a business partner, I have a team

762
00:42:07,520 --> 00:42:09,200
Speaker 2: around me. I got people that got to get paid,

763
00:42:10,120 --> 00:42:14,200
Speaker 2: And I knew the same thing that Meg said. If

764
00:42:14,280 --> 00:42:17,120
Speaker 2: I would have stayed home and cried for the summer,

765
00:42:17,400 --> 00:42:19,400
Speaker 2: my mom would have been so mad at me.

766
00:42:20,040 --> 00:42:21,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, she would have been.

767
00:42:21,600 --> 00:42:24,400
Speaker 2: Like, what the act did you learn anything from me,

768
00:42:24,480 --> 00:42:26,640
Speaker 2: you dumb ass beach. That's exactly what she would have said.

769
00:42:27,480 --> 00:42:30,080
Speaker 2: And so I understood that feeling of I have to

770
00:42:30,160 --> 00:42:32,399
Speaker 2: keep going because this is what you prepared me for

771
00:42:32,440 --> 00:42:33,920
Speaker 2: and this is what you said I was built for.

772
00:42:34,080 --> 00:42:39,719
Speaker 1: But also it's like you have no guidance. I have

773
00:42:39,800 --> 00:42:43,799
Speaker 1: no guidance. You really okay? So like, oh my god,

774
00:42:43,800 --> 00:42:49,440
Speaker 1: I don't want to start crying, like lord please, you

775
00:42:49,600 --> 00:42:52,560
Speaker 1: really broke my heart when you was like, I just

776
00:42:52,560 --> 00:42:58,200
Speaker 1: feel like everybody around me that can like call people, yeah,

777
00:42:58,280 --> 00:43:01,360
Speaker 1: you know, like you even with me, like it's like, okay,

778
00:43:01,719 --> 00:43:03,799
Speaker 1: my dad did pass away, but I can still call

779
00:43:03,880 --> 00:43:07,920
Speaker 1: my mom, you know. So you were like everybody around me, like,

780
00:43:08,200 --> 00:43:10,640
Speaker 1: if y'all going through something, if y'are dealing with something,

781
00:43:10,680 --> 00:43:13,480
Speaker 1: you can call people, be trying to get on Google,

782
00:43:14,880 --> 00:43:16,960
Speaker 1: and I'm and when I was talking about that, I'm

783
00:43:16,960 --> 00:43:20,040
Speaker 1: talking about but that was such I mean, it's real,

784
00:43:20,200 --> 00:43:25,640
Speaker 1: real thing, because I feel like so many people you like,

785
00:43:25,719 --> 00:43:28,279
Speaker 1: are are dealing with that. Like it's like, what the

786
00:43:28,280 --> 00:43:29,080
Speaker 1: fuck do I do?

787
00:43:29,280 --> 00:43:31,360
Speaker 2: As we're being I'm sorry, don't mean to inter but

788
00:43:31,360 --> 00:43:34,440
Speaker 2: as we're adults. We're adults, right, So you go to

789
00:43:34,480 --> 00:43:37,759
Speaker 2: the doctor or your emergency contact you like, oh mom,

790
00:43:37,840 --> 00:43:39,520
Speaker 2: when was the last time? Or oh man, what's my

791
00:43:39,560 --> 00:43:40,840
Speaker 2: blood type? Oh man, what's this?

792
00:43:41,040 --> 00:43:44,239
Speaker 1: Mam? What's that? What's the I don't I don't get that. Yeah,

793
00:43:44,280 --> 00:43:45,320
Speaker 1: And it hits.

794
00:43:45,120 --> 00:43:47,520
Speaker 2: Me all the time, like when whenever my health had

795
00:43:47,560 --> 00:43:50,480
Speaker 2: went to shit, I'm trying to figure out X y Z,

796
00:43:50,680 --> 00:43:52,439
Speaker 2: and I'm like, fuck, this is stuff that my mom

797
00:43:52,520 --> 00:43:53,799
Speaker 2: knows I don't have.

798
00:43:54,000 --> 00:43:54,879
Speaker 1: I got to get on Google.

799
00:43:54,880 --> 00:43:56,800
Speaker 2: When I'm trying to figure out stuff with my taxes,

800
00:43:56,840 --> 00:43:59,640
Speaker 2: stuff with her house, or stuff with medical and this

801
00:43:59,719 --> 00:44:02,600
Speaker 2: and that, I gotta get on fucking Google, or I

802
00:44:02,600 --> 00:44:05,040
Speaker 2: gotta call and hope my sister can help me with something.

803
00:44:05,080 --> 00:44:08,479
Speaker 1: But shit, she got she got two kids, she got

804
00:44:08,560 --> 00:44:10,279
Speaker 1: a husband, she got you know what I'm saying.

805
00:44:10,280 --> 00:44:15,680
Speaker 2: So it's just like I have to navigate this alone.

806
00:44:16,600 --> 00:44:20,760
Speaker 2: And I'm sorry, but and I say, because I'm watching

807
00:44:20,880 --> 00:44:23,480
Speaker 2: Meg and I'm watching her and I'm not even on

808
00:44:23,600 --> 00:44:25,359
Speaker 2: nowhere near the level of her, and I'm watching her

809
00:44:25,400 --> 00:44:29,000
Speaker 2: become a global superstar. Because also when you make money,

810
00:44:29,040 --> 00:44:31,920
Speaker 2: you gotta learn how to keep it. You gotta learn

811
00:44:32,000 --> 00:44:34,200
Speaker 2: how to multiply it. You gotta learn how not to

812
00:44:34,280 --> 00:44:37,759
Speaker 2: lose it. You gotta learn all this stuff. So on

813
00:44:37,920 --> 00:44:41,520
Speaker 2: top of being relevant and making good music, having good episodes,

814
00:44:41,600 --> 00:44:45,200
Speaker 2: dropping good episodes, I'm trying to learn how to make

815
00:44:45,320 --> 00:44:45,839
Speaker 2: money now.

816
00:44:47,840 --> 00:44:50,600
Speaker 1: And all I was gonna say, like, I'm not, you know,

817
00:44:50,719 --> 00:44:52,800
Speaker 1: trying to cut you off or anything, but like be

818
00:44:52,920 --> 00:44:56,399
Speaker 1: shout out to you, Shout out to it, Shout out

819
00:44:56,440 --> 00:44:58,920
Speaker 1: to you too, Shout out to you too, tied because

820
00:44:59,760 --> 00:45:02,800
Speaker 1: I think we may have talked about this one episode.

821
00:45:02,840 --> 00:45:04,920
Speaker 1: I can't remember. I think we did talk to you

822
00:45:05,000 --> 00:45:06,840
Speaker 1: about this on the episode though, but I know you

823
00:45:06,920 --> 00:45:09,920
Speaker 1: lost your mom too, And shout out to y'all and

824
00:45:09,920 --> 00:45:13,240
Speaker 1: shout out to me, because all y'all doing a great job.

825
00:45:13,840 --> 00:45:15,720
Speaker 1: Y'all moms would be so proud of y'all.

826
00:45:16,239 --> 00:45:18,640
Speaker 2: Like, and even when you.

827
00:45:18,719 --> 00:45:21,719
Speaker 1: Doubt yourself, I just always be wanting to let you know, like,

828
00:45:21,760 --> 00:45:25,200
Speaker 1: be you doing a good job like you are at

829
00:45:25,239 --> 00:45:30,720
Speaker 1: the end of the day, we have been dealt unfair cards.

830
00:45:31,000 --> 00:45:33,600
Speaker 1: I think anybody that lost one of their parents at

831
00:45:33,640 --> 00:45:37,440
Speaker 1: a young age, has been dealt an unfair hand, you

832
00:45:37,480 --> 00:45:39,319
Speaker 1: know what I mean. But we doing the best with

833
00:45:39,640 --> 00:45:42,279
Speaker 1: the cards that we've been dealed, and that's all we

834
00:45:42,320 --> 00:45:47,399
Speaker 1: could do. You know, it's unfortunate. It's like people who

835
00:45:47,440 --> 00:45:50,520
Speaker 1: get to grow all with their parents. You're so lucky,

836
00:45:51,120 --> 00:45:57,360
Speaker 1: and y'all don't really y'all do not realize how amazing

837
00:45:57,400 --> 00:45:59,400
Speaker 1: that is and what a blessing that is, you know

838
00:45:59,520 --> 00:46:02,640
Speaker 1: what I mean, Because it's hard out here, like losing

839
00:46:02,680 --> 00:46:05,120
Speaker 1: your parents. You do be feeling like, how the fuck

840
00:46:06,320 --> 00:46:09,879
Speaker 1: am I supposed to keep going? How am I supposed

841
00:46:09,960 --> 00:46:12,640
Speaker 1: to go on in life? Like I don't know if

842
00:46:12,680 --> 00:46:14,479
Speaker 1: I'm doing the right thing. And it's like the same

843
00:46:14,480 --> 00:46:16,120
Speaker 1: thing you said with your mom. That's how I be

844
00:46:16,160 --> 00:46:18,719
Speaker 1: feeling about my dad. Losing my dad, Like me and

845
00:46:18,760 --> 00:46:22,160
Speaker 1: my dad were so close. Yeah, he always had my back,

846
00:46:22,280 --> 00:46:24,279
Speaker 1: he was always there for me. I could always call

847
00:46:24,360 --> 00:46:29,360
Speaker 1: him right or wrong. He always had my back and

848
00:46:29,400 --> 00:46:34,319
Speaker 1: always had my best interest. And it's just hard. Yeah,

849
00:46:34,360 --> 00:46:35,000
Speaker 1: it's a hard thing.

850
00:46:35,239 --> 00:46:38,000
Speaker 2: And like I said the last point, I wanted to hate.

851
00:46:38,280 --> 00:46:41,200
Speaker 1: I hate that this conversation went here because I know

852
00:46:41,239 --> 00:46:42,879
Speaker 1: you don't like talking about it. I can't feel about

853
00:46:42,880 --> 00:46:44,160
Speaker 1: your face too. No, it's okay.

854
00:46:44,280 --> 00:46:48,080
Speaker 2: I'm just trying to finish my thought and the last

855
00:46:48,200 --> 00:46:49,480
Speaker 2: like I said, the last thing, I'll say, then we

856
00:46:49,480 --> 00:46:55,040
Speaker 2: can wrap this up and move on. When Meg said,

857
00:46:55,880 --> 00:46:58,120
Speaker 2: what does she say? She said, you know, you can

858
00:46:58,160 --> 00:47:03,920
Speaker 2: be doing all these amazing things and you're so used

859
00:47:03,960 --> 00:47:07,120
Speaker 2: to having your mom and your parents be like, Okay.

860
00:47:06,840 --> 00:47:09,080
Speaker 1: You're doing a good job. You're doing a good job.

861
00:47:09,520 --> 00:47:12,200
Speaker 2: So it hits a little different when you don't have

862
00:47:12,280 --> 00:47:16,920
Speaker 2: that like somebody who literally pushed you out and you

863
00:47:16,960 --> 00:47:19,960
Speaker 2: don't get that, you know what I'm saying, Like I

864
00:47:20,040 --> 00:47:23,040
Speaker 2: say all that to say, it just be hard because.

865
00:47:22,760 --> 00:47:24,840
Speaker 1: You're like, but am I doing a good job?

866
00:47:25,120 --> 00:47:27,560
Speaker 2: Because the person who raised you, who saw you through

867
00:47:27,760 --> 00:47:32,880
Speaker 2: all all your chapters, all they see that growth and

868
00:47:32,920 --> 00:47:35,920
Speaker 2: they see like, you know, you see me from you know,

869
00:47:36,280 --> 00:47:38,160
Speaker 2: twenty six, twenty seven to now.

870
00:47:38,320 --> 00:47:41,719
Speaker 1: Which is a lot of growth, by the way, but

871
00:47:42,000 --> 00:47:43,480
Speaker 1: you know on you since it was twenty five.

872
00:47:43,560 --> 00:47:45,600
Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying, a lot of growth, so ten

873
00:47:45,719 --> 00:47:53,120
Speaker 2: years now. But sometimes like when I'm not when I'm

874
00:47:53,160 --> 00:47:55,440
Speaker 2: doing something that everybody looks like as right, my mom

875
00:47:55,520 --> 00:47:59,239
Speaker 2: was there to be like this, Yeah, that ain't it,

876
00:48:00,480 --> 00:48:02,080
Speaker 2: And so you're like, am I doing a good job?

877
00:48:02,120 --> 00:48:02,920
Speaker 1: Though? Like am I?

878
00:48:03,719 --> 00:48:05,160
Speaker 2: Cause like I said, I don't have that.

879
00:48:05,280 --> 00:48:05,560
Speaker 1: I don't.

880
00:48:05,560 --> 00:48:08,560
Speaker 2: You don't you need that motherly guidance. I don't have

881
00:48:08,560 --> 00:48:10,640
Speaker 2: that motherly guidance. And I think that's what broke my

882
00:48:10,680 --> 00:48:16,520
Speaker 2: heart because it's I could never be Meg because I

883
00:48:16,520 --> 00:48:18,360
Speaker 2: get hundreds of people saying mean things to me, and

884
00:48:18,400 --> 00:48:21,040
Speaker 2: I'll be ready to break down. Imagine millions of people

885
00:48:21,080 --> 00:48:23,319
Speaker 2: on the internet tearing you down, and all youre trying

886
00:48:23,360 --> 00:48:25,520
Speaker 2: to do is grieve your mother. All you was trying

887
00:48:25,520 --> 00:48:27,000
Speaker 2: to do is go out and have a good time.

888
00:48:27,000 --> 00:48:29,640
Speaker 2: If somebody shot you, all you're trying to do is

889
00:48:29,719 --> 00:48:32,399
Speaker 2: just do what you want for a living. All you're

890
00:48:32,400 --> 00:48:34,800
Speaker 2: just trying to do is fucking exist in this world.

891
00:48:34,800 --> 00:48:39,200
Speaker 1: And this world is hard. It's hard to exist.

892
00:48:39,520 --> 00:48:44,040
Speaker 2: So to close the documentary out it was great. I

893
00:48:44,040 --> 00:48:48,520
Speaker 2: think it humanized Meg a lot. And I'm not saying

894
00:48:48,520 --> 00:48:50,680
Speaker 2: if you don't like her or whatever, that's your opinion.

895
00:48:51,320 --> 00:48:55,799
Speaker 2: But to people that have lost dads, mothers and we

896
00:48:55,920 --> 00:48:58,560
Speaker 2: still have to show up to do our job, just

897
00:48:58,560 --> 00:49:01,640
Speaker 2: go a little bit easy on people. All that comments

898
00:49:01,680 --> 00:49:04,000
Speaker 2: that y'all be saying I be sometimes like when the

899
00:49:04,120 --> 00:49:06,839
Speaker 2: documentary jobs, I searched to end her words hashtag because

900
00:49:06,840 --> 00:49:08,160
Speaker 2: I knew we were gonna talk about on the show.

901
00:49:08,719 --> 00:49:11,359
Speaker 1: It was I saw some nasty things. I mean, and

902
00:49:11,400 --> 00:49:14,279
Speaker 1: I'm gonna say this too because not that I care

903
00:49:14,400 --> 00:49:17,600
Speaker 1: that much, because again, I feel like I'm a very like, strong,

904
00:49:17,719 --> 00:49:25,080
Speaker 1: resilient person. But I feel like the the response that

905
00:49:25,200 --> 00:49:28,200
Speaker 1: you get with you losing your mom is not the

906
00:49:28,239 --> 00:49:32,280
Speaker 1: same response I get with me losing my dad. Really no,

907
00:49:34,400 --> 00:49:36,440
Speaker 1: because I feel like you get such an outpour and

908
00:49:36,440 --> 00:49:41,440
Speaker 1: good love all the time from listeners from people like, oh, Lex,

909
00:49:41,560 --> 00:49:43,799
Speaker 1: I feel like you know you're doing such a great

910
00:49:43,920 --> 00:49:49,160
Speaker 1: job and you lost your mom or whatever, and b ch,

911
00:49:49,239 --> 00:49:50,239
Speaker 1: I never get did well.

912
00:49:50,239 --> 00:49:53,239
Speaker 2: You know what, people don't understand how close you and

913
00:49:53,280 --> 00:49:54,839
Speaker 2: your dad were, because.

914
00:49:54,520 --> 00:49:58,520
Speaker 1: How bitch I have that? Nigga? No, no, I know.

915
00:49:59,480 --> 00:50:02,640
Speaker 2: But what I'm say I'm saying is people perceive, you know,

916
00:50:02,760 --> 00:50:05,720
Speaker 2: like we were talking about with him last week, people

917
00:50:05,920 --> 00:50:07,759
Speaker 2: think that dad's aren't in the home or they don't

918
00:50:08,120 --> 00:50:10,520
Speaker 2: so they assumed they don't know how much your dad

919
00:50:10,600 --> 00:50:13,279
Speaker 2: loved you and how close y'all were. Yeah, so that's

920
00:50:13,360 --> 00:50:16,120
Speaker 2: not nothing to do with you that's more so how

921
00:50:16,160 --> 00:50:17,800
Speaker 2: people perceive black no.

922
00:50:17,800 --> 00:50:19,640
Speaker 1: No, And that's the thing I was gonna say, friend,

923
00:50:19,880 --> 00:50:22,960
Speaker 1: I don't take it personally, yeah yeah, But it's the

924
00:50:23,400 --> 00:50:25,400
Speaker 1: reason that I brought it up is because it's just

925
00:50:25,600 --> 00:50:30,040
Speaker 1: interesting to me, Like it's interesting that we've both been

926
00:50:30,120 --> 00:50:35,120
Speaker 1: through technically the same thing, you know what I mean, Like, no,

927
00:50:35,239 --> 00:50:37,440
Speaker 1: it wasn't my mom, but it was my dad, And

928
00:50:37,520 --> 00:50:39,920
Speaker 1: like I knew this nigga my whole life, Like I

929
00:50:39,960 --> 00:50:43,000
Speaker 1: never knew a life without him. I never knew a

930
00:50:43,040 --> 00:50:45,560
Speaker 1: life where I couldn't call my dad, talk to him,

931
00:50:46,000 --> 00:50:48,880
Speaker 1: go see him whatever. And then I lost this person.

932
00:50:49,280 --> 00:50:54,080
Speaker 1: But it's just interesting the difference in support that we get,

933
00:50:54,360 --> 00:50:56,920
Speaker 1: you know, like you losing your mom versus me losing

934
00:50:56,920 --> 00:51:00,560
Speaker 1: my dad. It's just interesting when I be peeping it

935
00:51:00,600 --> 00:51:04,040
Speaker 1: from like the comments and all of that stuff. It's

936
00:51:04,320 --> 00:51:07,320
Speaker 1: just an interesting thing. It's interesting because I think people

937
00:51:07,360 --> 00:51:10,600
Speaker 1: don't feel like they need to offer the same support,

938
00:51:11,040 --> 00:51:14,359
Speaker 1: like you said, when you lose your dad versus when

939
00:51:14,360 --> 00:51:16,760
Speaker 1: you lose your mom. It's like when it's your mom,

940
00:51:16,840 --> 00:51:19,760
Speaker 1: it's like, oh my god. I think it's like because

941
00:51:19,760 --> 00:51:25,560
Speaker 1: she cares you. It's just a different type of relationship.

942
00:51:25,840 --> 00:51:27,959
Speaker 1: It's a different type of relationship, and I think it's

943
00:51:28,080 --> 00:51:31,239
Speaker 1: different with men. But to me, that's sad. And going

944
00:51:31,280 --> 00:51:33,560
Speaker 1: back to the conversation that we had with the ball,

945
00:51:33,719 --> 00:51:39,279
Speaker 1: I mean the bell, It's like, why though, men, men

946
00:51:39,360 --> 00:51:43,319
Speaker 1: who are present in the home, men who are real fathers.

947
00:51:43,640 --> 00:51:47,239
Speaker 1: When you lose your dad, it's the same effect on

948
00:51:47,400 --> 00:51:50,440
Speaker 1: the person. It's the same thing. It's a it's a

949
00:51:50,520 --> 00:51:55,120
Speaker 1: huge loss. But why, I mean because I'm close to

950
00:51:55,160 --> 00:51:55,640
Speaker 1: you and I.

951
00:51:55,560 --> 00:51:58,239
Speaker 2: Saw how bad it was. I saw how bad it

952
00:51:58,360 --> 00:52:01,359
Speaker 2: was for you. Yeah, And like I said, I think

953
00:52:01,360 --> 00:52:05,880
Speaker 2: that's more of just like a community thing and just

954
00:52:05,960 --> 00:52:08,160
Speaker 2: I think it's how we present as well. I was like,

955
00:52:08,280 --> 00:52:11,799
Speaker 2: you're you're strong, and theyve My sister is the same

956
00:52:11,840 --> 00:52:14,800
Speaker 2: way in the family. When we going around the family,

957
00:52:14,880 --> 00:52:17,920
Speaker 2: everybody be crowding around me because I'm just I've always

958
00:52:17,920 --> 00:52:20,680
Speaker 2: been open about my struggles and I'm sensitive, but I'm

959
00:52:20,680 --> 00:52:22,680
Speaker 2: always like, if I'm going through it, I'll let you know.

960
00:52:23,080 --> 00:52:26,400
Speaker 2: My sister is very much like, I gotta pick it up.

961
00:52:26,400 --> 00:52:28,400
Speaker 2: I got two boys. I gotta keep it pushing that

962
00:52:28,520 --> 00:52:30,799
Speaker 2: tourist energy. She's like, I gotta keep it pushing, like

963
00:52:30,840 --> 00:52:33,680
Speaker 2: I can't stop. I can't which we're both the same

964
00:52:33,840 --> 00:52:35,120
Speaker 2: like that. But my sister's just.

965
00:52:35,040 --> 00:52:36,680
Speaker 1: Like I was gonna say, give yourself a little more

966
00:52:36,680 --> 00:52:37,640
Speaker 1: credit because you are like that.

967
00:52:37,719 --> 00:52:39,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean I am like that to a certain extent.

968
00:52:41,040 --> 00:52:42,879
Speaker 1: I like you. I think you like that.

969
00:52:44,080 --> 00:52:45,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah you don't.

970
00:52:45,280 --> 00:52:47,399
Speaker 1: Go home and yeah, I'm definitely gonna go home and craft.

971
00:52:47,520 --> 00:52:52,640
Speaker 1: But but one thing I will say about you thought, no,

972
00:52:52,719 --> 00:52:55,919
Speaker 1: I'm getting the boot bitch y'all didn't. I'm not doing

973
00:52:55,960 --> 00:52:57,440
Speaker 1: with y'all yet.

974
00:52:57,080 --> 00:52:59,719
Speaker 2: But I would need it though, because everybody's like, oh,

975
00:52:59,800 --> 00:53:01,880
Speaker 2: d don't give a fuck about nothing. She's strong. She

976
00:53:02,000 --> 00:53:05,719
Speaker 2: did she that, so not saying I thought, but still

977
00:53:06,080 --> 00:53:10,439
Speaker 2: I definitely a few like I never I never thought

978
00:53:10,480 --> 00:53:12,839
Speaker 2: about that, But now that you say that, it does

979
00:53:13,000 --> 00:53:13,600
Speaker 2: make sense.

980
00:53:13,880 --> 00:53:14,640
Speaker 1: But like I said, I.

981
00:53:14,640 --> 00:53:17,279
Speaker 2: Think that's just how people perceive us. But that goes

982
00:53:17,320 --> 00:53:19,439
Speaker 2: with people just they know you online and they don't

983
00:53:19,440 --> 00:53:21,759
Speaker 2: know you in real life. Because I know how close

984
00:53:21,840 --> 00:53:23,680
Speaker 2: you and your dad were. I saw how it affects you.

985
00:53:23,760 --> 00:53:26,200
Speaker 2: I saw it still affects you. You know, you still

986
00:53:26,239 --> 00:53:28,920
Speaker 2: have your days. We both still have our days. Like

987
00:53:28,920 --> 00:53:31,319
Speaker 2: like I said, the day you called me and you

988
00:53:31,360 --> 00:53:32,920
Speaker 2: were like, girl, I'm just checking on you. Cause where

989
00:53:32,960 --> 00:53:34,680
Speaker 2: you've been, I know something going on because you just

990
00:53:34,760 --> 00:53:36,839
Speaker 2: know me and you were like I'm I know you.

991
00:53:36,920 --> 00:53:46,640
Speaker 1: And then anytime you are a person unfortunately where I

992
00:53:46,680 --> 00:53:51,160
Speaker 1: won't say everybody but people that know you can look

993
00:53:51,200 --> 00:53:53,160
Speaker 1: at your social media until when you're not in a

994
00:53:53,160 --> 00:53:57,759
Speaker 1: good space. Well like what that's something about you that

995
00:53:59,040 --> 00:54:03,120
Speaker 1: has been that way forever, like ever since I've known you,

996
00:54:03,160 --> 00:54:05,040
Speaker 1: Like bitch, I can get on your I can get

997
00:54:05,080 --> 00:54:07,200
Speaker 1: on your Instagram, I can get on your Twitter, and

998
00:54:07,239 --> 00:54:09,200
Speaker 1: I know when my friend not in a good mood,

999
00:54:09,239 --> 00:54:11,520
Speaker 1: like I know when you. I know when you dealing

1000
00:54:11,560 --> 00:54:14,760
Speaker 1: with something. I know when you're going through something. So

1001
00:54:15,800 --> 00:54:19,960
Speaker 1: but you also you're an interesting person because you're a

1002
00:54:20,000 --> 00:54:22,120
Speaker 1: person where it's like people got to check on you.

1003
00:54:22,440 --> 00:54:27,600
Speaker 1: People also gotta give you your space. Yeah, so whenever

1004
00:54:27,640 --> 00:54:30,400
Speaker 1: you say stuff online and I know you going through something,

1005
00:54:33,120 --> 00:54:36,360
Speaker 1: I will check on you. But then I'll also be

1006
00:54:36,360 --> 00:54:37,840
Speaker 1: trying to give you time.

1007
00:54:38,120 --> 00:54:41,279
Speaker 2: And I think with social media too, you everybody knows

1008
00:54:41,320 --> 00:54:43,160
Speaker 2: it's about me too. I've always hate I don't like

1009
00:54:43,200 --> 00:54:43,880
Speaker 2: social media.

1010
00:54:44,360 --> 00:54:45,440
Speaker 1: So it's like I'll be.

1011
00:54:45,440 --> 00:54:47,480
Speaker 2: Active on there now because it's my job and I

1012
00:54:47,600 --> 00:54:51,200
Speaker 2: have to. So when I'm like extremely active and I'm

1013
00:54:51,200 --> 00:54:52,960
Speaker 2: like doing my job. It's because like I'm laughing, I'm joking,

1014
00:54:52,960 --> 00:54:54,440
Speaker 2: I'm having fun. But like when I do like the

1015
00:54:54,440 --> 00:54:56,839
Speaker 2: bare minimum, that's when I just be like, I hate this.

1016
00:54:57,400 --> 00:54:59,680
Speaker 2: I hate talking to y'all. I hate everything. I hate

1017
00:54:59,760 --> 00:55:02,440
Speaker 2: you know. So I think like with social media, like

1018
00:55:02,520 --> 00:55:06,960
Speaker 2: you can tell you because you know me, but people

1019
00:55:06,960 --> 00:55:09,200
Speaker 2: will be you know, they just a lex me and

1020
00:55:09,239 --> 00:55:10,960
Speaker 2: goofy lex me and silly lets me and x y

1021
00:55:11,040 --> 00:55:11,600
Speaker 2: z because.

1022
00:55:11,840 --> 00:55:15,600
Speaker 1: Silly because sometimes you tweet a lot of the time.

1023
00:55:16,480 --> 00:55:20,680
Speaker 1: For me, you tweet like, well I'll sit yeah, but

1024
00:55:20,800 --> 00:55:21,919
Speaker 1: you will say, like.

1025
00:55:22,560 --> 00:55:24,600
Speaker 2: I mean, but one thing I will say, I do

1026
00:55:24,640 --> 00:55:26,560
Speaker 2: tweet about my mom all the time. Ye I'll be

1027
00:55:26,640 --> 00:55:28,680
Speaker 2: like I miss my mom, Like oh my god, I

1028
00:55:28,719 --> 00:55:31,680
Speaker 2: cannot like because I'll be in the best space in

1029
00:55:31,719 --> 00:55:33,960
Speaker 2: my life and then I'll just be thinking about my

1030
00:55:33,960 --> 00:55:35,399
Speaker 2: mom and I all like tweet that. So I think

1031
00:55:35,400 --> 00:55:37,960
Speaker 2: that's why they don't notice it. But you can tell

1032
00:55:37,960 --> 00:55:40,320
Speaker 2: the difference in my tone like just because like I said,

1033
00:55:40,400 --> 00:55:42,480
Speaker 2: you know me, but other people like.

1034
00:55:42,920 --> 00:55:44,879
Speaker 1: They don't be knowing. They don't see it. And it's

1035
00:55:45,000 --> 00:55:50,000
Speaker 1: crazy because we're gonna move on. But I mean, it's fine.

1036
00:55:50,040 --> 00:55:51,600
Speaker 1: I think this was a really good conversation.

1037
00:55:51,640 --> 00:55:54,520
Speaker 2: But I will say when that documentary drop, When that

1038
00:55:54,600 --> 00:55:58,200
Speaker 2: documentary job, y'all, don't. I got so many messages. I

1039
00:55:58,200 --> 00:56:01,000
Speaker 2: got so many message just from a lot of people

1040
00:56:01,040 --> 00:56:03,759
Speaker 2: that went to that first tour. And it was one

1041
00:56:03,800 --> 00:56:06,200
Speaker 2: girl who messaged me. She was like, lex, I don't

1042
00:56:06,200 --> 00:56:08,799
Speaker 2: know if you remember, but it was right whenever your

1043
00:56:08,800 --> 00:56:10,480
Speaker 2: mom had passed. I don't mean to bring it up,

1044
00:56:10,480 --> 00:56:12,160
Speaker 2: but she was like, I was in the audience and

1045
00:56:12,200 --> 00:56:14,759
Speaker 2: I remember somebody asked you, like how you were doing

1046
00:56:14,800 --> 00:56:16,239
Speaker 2: and you had to get off stage. She was like,

1047
00:56:16,280 --> 00:56:18,000
Speaker 2: and I'm waiting on the side. She was like, and

1048
00:56:18,040 --> 00:56:20,080
Speaker 2: I saw the guy hug you. She told about Ryan,

1049
00:56:20,400 --> 00:56:22,680
Speaker 2: because like, uh oh, I don't want to get emotional,

1050
00:56:22,719 --> 00:56:24,560
Speaker 2: but like when I ran off of stage or Ryan

1051
00:56:24,680 --> 00:56:25,200
Speaker 2: just hug me.

1052
00:56:25,840 --> 00:56:27,720
Speaker 1: And it made me sad because.

1053
00:56:27,760 --> 00:56:30,360
Speaker 2: Like I said, I thought in that moment about Meg,

1054
00:56:31,360 --> 00:56:35,080
Speaker 2: I'm like, when you run off stage and you're overwhelmed.

1055
00:56:35,480 --> 00:56:38,719
Speaker 2: I needed that hug and the fact that nobody was

1056
00:56:38,760 --> 00:56:41,920
Speaker 2: there to hug her it made me so sad. And

1057
00:56:42,000 --> 00:56:45,040
Speaker 2: one thing I can say that I'm grateful for is

1058
00:56:45,080 --> 00:56:49,400
Speaker 2: because I get to do this with you. I got girl,

1059
00:56:49,760 --> 00:56:52,480
Speaker 2: nobody it's the truth. Though I had to go on

1060
00:56:52,680 --> 00:56:56,719
Speaker 2: tour Goodness and I'm struggling. I'm having breakdowns every day.

1061
00:56:56,760 --> 00:56:58,759
Speaker 2: But I got somebody knocking on my door.

1062
00:56:58,480 --> 00:56:59,839
Speaker 1: Like what you need?

1063
00:57:00,560 --> 00:57:03,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm here. Yeah, and I And, like I said,

1064
00:57:03,239 --> 00:57:04,959
Speaker 2: I know, I keep bringing it back to me because

1065
00:57:05,000 --> 00:57:07,880
Speaker 2: I really wanted to talk about this because I hate

1066
00:57:07,920 --> 00:57:10,359
Speaker 2: the way people treat her, because y'all don't know how

1067
00:57:10,400 --> 00:57:14,560
Speaker 2: it feels to not have nothing. Yeah, and the fact

1068
00:57:14,600 --> 00:57:18,200
Speaker 2: that well no, let me know when I say nothing,

1069
00:57:18,800 --> 00:57:21,280
Speaker 2: Well no, well let me say this. They don't know

1070
00:57:21,320 --> 00:57:25,040
Speaker 2: what it's like to not have nothing, but look like

1071
00:57:25,080 --> 00:57:28,600
Speaker 2: you have everything everything. And I think that's where people

1072
00:57:28,720 --> 00:57:33,520
Speaker 2: lack empathy. People like us, people like me beautiful.

1073
00:57:34,160 --> 00:57:37,880
Speaker 1: It's like, what, bro, how are you complaining when you

1074
00:57:37,960 --> 00:57:40,200
Speaker 1: have this platform and you're doing X, Y and Z

1075
00:57:40,320 --> 00:57:42,840
Speaker 1: and all of these people are watching you. Y'all are successful,

1076
00:57:42,880 --> 00:57:46,360
Speaker 1: and y'all making money and y'all are beautiful, Like, what

1077
00:57:46,520 --> 00:57:50,439
Speaker 1: the fuck are y'all complaining about? Perception is everything? Yeah,

1078
00:57:50,960 --> 00:57:53,240
Speaker 1: that's where that's where people lack empathy.

1079
00:57:53,320 --> 00:57:56,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, And I, like I said, I hate the way

1080
00:57:56,040 --> 00:57:59,800
Speaker 2: that they treat her, But my heart goes out to

1081
00:57:59,880 --> 00:58:02,960
Speaker 2: her because she was on tour by herself, and that's

1082
00:58:02,960 --> 00:58:04,680
Speaker 2: the point I was making. That's why I was like,

1083
00:58:05,400 --> 00:58:06,840
Speaker 2: I didn't have to go on tour by myself.

1084
00:58:06,880 --> 00:58:08,520
Speaker 1: I have my sister with me, you.

1085
00:58:08,480 --> 00:58:11,560
Speaker 2: Know, like I obviously like you're like you're not. It's

1086
00:58:11,600 --> 00:58:15,200
Speaker 2: beyond business, it's beyond a friendship, like you're like my family.

1087
00:58:15,360 --> 00:58:19,880
Speaker 2: Like And when I think about that tour, and when

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00:58:19,880 --> 00:58:22,280
Speaker 2: I think about that whole year, it was such a

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00:58:22,320 --> 00:58:26,440
Speaker 2: blur for me. But I think about how I was

1090
00:58:26,480 --> 00:58:31,240
Speaker 2: on the edge and I was there, and I was like,

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00:58:32,000 --> 00:58:35,720
Speaker 2: there's no point. I don't have no point, and but

1092
00:58:36,040 --> 00:58:38,480
Speaker 2: I could just like I could wake up and I

1093
00:58:38,520 --> 00:58:42,080
Speaker 2: could get through the day because like I had somebody

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00:58:42,080 --> 00:58:42,720
Speaker 2: to pick me up.

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00:58:42,760 --> 00:58:43,439
Speaker 1: I had that.

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00:58:43,640 --> 00:58:46,400
Speaker 2: I had that community. And I don't have a big

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00:58:46,440 --> 00:58:47,720
Speaker 2: community still to this day.

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Speaker 1: I don't because you don't need one.

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00:58:49,920 --> 00:58:51,600
Speaker 2: I mean I don't need one, but I didn't have

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00:58:51,640 --> 00:58:54,440
Speaker 2: one because that year when I lost my mother, I

1101
00:58:54,480 --> 00:58:56,240
Speaker 2: had people, like I said, look at me in my

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00:58:56,280 --> 00:58:59,720
Speaker 2: face and say things only to stab me in the back.

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00:59:00,040 --> 00:59:00,520
Speaker 1: Yeah.

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00:59:00,560 --> 00:59:03,640
Speaker 2: So I say all that to say because this documentary

1105
00:59:03,640 --> 00:59:08,360
Speaker 2: made me realize how evil people can be just because,

1106
00:59:08,440 --> 00:59:10,320
Speaker 2: like you said, they think that they have it all,

1107
00:59:10,720 --> 00:59:12,560
Speaker 2: but like I said, my heart goes out to make

1108
00:59:12,560 --> 00:59:15,720
Speaker 2: because she didn't have a community. And when, like I said,

1109
00:59:15,720 --> 00:59:17,560
Speaker 2: the biggest part that stuck out to me was when

1110
00:59:17,600 --> 00:59:22,840
Speaker 2: she walked backstage after that performance and not one person

1111
00:59:22,920 --> 00:59:25,920
Speaker 2: hugged her. And it broke my heart because when I

1112
00:59:25,960 --> 00:59:29,880
Speaker 2: walked backstage, I had somebody there that I met him

1113
00:59:29,880 --> 00:59:34,520
Speaker 2: through work, but he flew his ass out to Houston

1114
00:59:34,720 --> 00:59:37,200
Speaker 2: and drove to Orange and was at my mom's memorial

1115
00:59:37,600 --> 00:59:40,760
Speaker 2: like I had that everybody like showed up for me.

1116
00:59:41,240 --> 00:59:45,520
Speaker 2: Everybody showed up for me, And yeah, my heart broke

1117
00:59:45,560 --> 00:59:49,560
Speaker 2: for her. But I think that, like I said, if

1118
00:59:49,600 --> 00:59:51,480
Speaker 2: you're indifferent about Meg, you don't like. I'm not saying

1119
00:59:51,480 --> 00:59:53,400
Speaker 2: you have to like her, but just give people a break.

1120
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Speaker 2: We're all human. Life is hard for all of us.

1121
00:59:56,120 --> 00:59:58,040
Speaker 2: I don't care how much money you got. I don't

1122
00:59:58,040 --> 01:00:01,040
Speaker 2: care how beautiful you are. I don't care here any

1123
01:00:01,120 --> 01:00:06,520
Speaker 2: king your race. Life is fucking hard. Give people a break.

1124
01:00:07,360 --> 01:00:11,280
Speaker 1: Yet he was some grace, you know, because this shit.

1125
01:00:11,160 --> 01:00:15,840
Speaker 2: Is and and also and like I said, especially for you.

1126
01:00:15,880 --> 01:00:17,320
Speaker 2: And I want to say this to you because I

1127
01:00:17,600 --> 01:00:19,880
Speaker 2: talked about this even when your dad passed. I ain't

1128
01:00:19,880 --> 01:00:22,400
Speaker 2: never seen no shit like that in my life because

1129
01:00:22,880 --> 01:00:25,360
Speaker 2: when my mom passed, bitch, I canceled the photo shoot.

1130
01:00:27,040 --> 01:00:28,320
Speaker 1: I canceled the photo shoot.

1131
01:00:28,360 --> 01:00:29,960
Speaker 2: We had a photo shoot that day. I was driving

1132
01:00:30,000 --> 01:00:32,000
Speaker 2: to the photo shoot, about to go to area and

1133
01:00:32,040 --> 01:00:35,480
Speaker 2: I and my sister called me and I literally had

1134
01:00:35,480 --> 01:00:37,040
Speaker 2: to pull on the side of the road. I pulled

1135
01:00:37,040 --> 01:00:40,160
Speaker 2: in the gas station and I just broke down. I

1136
01:00:40,240 --> 01:00:43,600
Speaker 2: called Dre. I was screaming. I said, I don't know,

1137
01:00:43,640 --> 01:00:44,320
Speaker 2: I don't even know.

1138
01:00:44,400 --> 01:00:46,560
Speaker 1: It was such a blur, but I remember what you said.

1139
01:00:46,600 --> 01:00:50,320
Speaker 1: It was just kind of like you didn't know if

1140
01:00:50,320 --> 01:00:52,280
Speaker 1: your mom was okay because y'all talking to rout chair

1141
01:00:52,320 --> 01:00:55,480
Speaker 1: all the time. And I'm just like, oh, you know,

1142
01:00:55,800 --> 01:00:58,480
Speaker 1: just me because one thing about me, y'all I'm always

1143
01:00:58,560 --> 01:01:05,240
Speaker 1: like optimistic, her overly optimistic, over manifested, Like that's just me,

1144
01:01:05,480 --> 01:01:08,200
Speaker 1: Like everything everything is gonna be okay, it's fine. And

1145
01:01:08,240 --> 01:01:10,760
Speaker 1: so I'm just like, oh, friend, like it's fine. Maybe

1146
01:01:10,760 --> 01:01:13,320
Speaker 1: her phone dead, Like I just knew it. Yeah, And

1147
01:01:13,360 --> 01:01:15,880
Speaker 1: you said that. I just knew you said that, And like,

1148
01:01:17,160 --> 01:01:18,800
Speaker 1: my god, this is just such an emotional It was

1149
01:01:18,920 --> 01:01:20,600
Speaker 1: because I don't want to start crying again, be like

1150
01:01:20,920 --> 01:01:24,320
Speaker 1: you did. You was like, I just know something is wrong,

1151
01:01:24,480 --> 01:01:26,800
Speaker 1: like I know something is wrong. And I was just like, no,

1152
01:01:27,040 --> 01:01:30,720
Speaker 1: it's fine, Like it's fine, like maybe her phone is dead,

1153
01:01:30,920 --> 01:01:34,720
Speaker 1: like she's okay whatever, And then you ended up was

1154
01:01:34,840 --> 01:01:37,920
Speaker 1: you was like, Oh, my sister's gonna do a wellness

1155
01:01:38,000 --> 01:01:40,440
Speaker 1: check or whatever. She's gonna get the police to go

1156
01:01:40,560 --> 01:01:43,840
Speaker 1: or emergency people to go do a willness chick. And

1157
01:01:43,840 --> 01:01:46,960
Speaker 1: then they went did the wellness chick and he called

1158
01:01:46,960 --> 01:01:49,560
Speaker 1: me back. He was just screaming, and I just knew

1159
01:01:50,320 --> 01:01:52,760
Speaker 1: what it was, you know, like it was just.

1160
01:01:52,720 --> 01:01:55,200
Speaker 2: Crazy and like And that's why I'm saying as far

1161
01:01:55,240 --> 01:01:59,520
Speaker 2: as you, because like the morning you called me, you

1162
01:01:59,600 --> 01:02:02,160
Speaker 2: were crying and I was like.

1163
01:02:03,120 --> 01:02:05,120
Speaker 1: No, I was a circle. I was, ay, no, that's

1164
01:02:05,160 --> 01:02:07,320
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. You were that's my friend, I know,

1165
01:02:07,720 --> 01:02:08,320
Speaker 1: because you.

1166
01:02:08,320 --> 01:02:11,480
Speaker 2: Were crying and you were like I couldn't understand you.

1167
01:02:11,560 --> 01:02:13,760
Speaker 2: And I kept saying what, Dre. I kept saying what,

1168
01:02:14,360 --> 01:02:16,480
Speaker 2: and you would I'm like what, I'm like, what is

1169
01:02:16,520 --> 01:02:19,680
Speaker 2: going on? I couldn't hear like you just kept you

1170
01:02:19,680 --> 01:02:22,280
Speaker 2: were saying something. I'm just like, Drea, please, I said,

1171
01:02:22,280 --> 01:02:25,160
Speaker 2: please just breathe and slow down, and you finally like

1172
01:02:25,440 --> 01:02:27,080
Speaker 2: got it out and you said it, and I said, Okay,

1173
01:02:27,080 --> 01:02:28,960
Speaker 2: we don't have to record today, we don't. You said no,

1174
01:02:29,360 --> 01:02:31,080
Speaker 2: We're still going to go to the studio, and I'm like,

1175
01:02:31,120 --> 01:02:34,880
Speaker 2: what the actual fuck? Like I tried to cancel.

1176
01:02:35,080 --> 01:02:38,440
Speaker 1: I'm like, yeah, no, you were very I was like, no, we're.

1177
01:02:38,240 --> 01:02:40,520
Speaker 2: Not going to this. I'm like, bro, we're not going

1178
01:02:40,520 --> 01:02:42,480
Speaker 2: to record. We're not going You're like, no, we got

1179
01:02:42,480 --> 01:02:45,280
Speaker 2: to go record because this is during the time this was.

1180
01:02:45,320 --> 01:02:50,640
Speaker 1: I mean, we didn't have We used to record on Mondays. Yeah,

1181
01:02:51,000 --> 01:02:55,360
Speaker 1: on Wednesdays. Yeah, we hadn't. We hadn't work. We had

1182
01:02:55,360 --> 01:02:58,040
Speaker 1: it did the eighty five episode where like the ship

1183
01:02:58,120 --> 01:03:00,640
Speaker 1: went viral. Yeah, we had to just talking to on

1184
01:03:00,800 --> 01:03:03,520
Speaker 1: the episode with the bell like we hadn't need the

1185
01:03:03,520 --> 01:03:06,880
Speaker 1: eighty five episode, it was just us. We was in

1186
01:03:06,920 --> 01:03:09,280
Speaker 1: a BOOTHBA. We was in the booth Unmike y'all, and

1187
01:03:09,400 --> 01:03:12,680
Speaker 1: like they was used to like getting episodes every week.

1188
01:03:12,880 --> 01:03:14,880
Speaker 1: So I'm just like I was willing to go.

1189
01:03:14,960 --> 01:03:16,560
Speaker 2: I was like, me and Marine can do the episode.

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01:03:16,640 --> 01:03:16,880
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1191
01:03:17,040 --> 01:03:19,640
Speaker 2: I was like, but you showed up because I couldn't

1192
01:03:19,640 --> 01:03:20,120
Speaker 2: show up.

1193
01:03:20,600 --> 01:03:22,400
Speaker 1: And people still to this day, like when I talk

1194
01:03:22,440 --> 01:03:24,320
Speaker 1: about that situation, because even if you go back and

1195
01:03:24,360 --> 01:03:26,400
Speaker 1: watch it, you are always like you would never know.

1196
01:03:26,600 --> 01:03:28,040
Speaker 1: Dre just found that out.

1197
01:03:28,280 --> 01:03:31,200
Speaker 2: So I think, like I said, when anybody has lost anybody,

1198
01:03:31,280 --> 01:03:34,840
Speaker 2: y'all have to be just nice and stop just assuming things.

1199
01:03:34,960 --> 01:03:38,320
Speaker 2: And we are more all of the stories. We all

1200
01:03:38,360 --> 01:03:41,160
Speaker 2: going through it. So thank you Meg for being vulnerable

1201
01:03:41,200 --> 01:03:45,240
Speaker 2: and being open. It's not easy. We rarely talk about

1202
01:03:45,240 --> 01:03:47,120
Speaker 2: our parents on the show. We'll crack a little joke

1203
01:03:47,160 --> 01:03:50,680
Speaker 2: oop here and there. But I think the world needed

1204
01:03:50,720 --> 01:03:51,200
Speaker 2: to see that.

1205
01:03:53,080 --> 01:03:55,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think people never really see us talk about

1206
01:03:55,200 --> 01:03:56,880
Speaker 1: it for I mean, they saw a little bit on

1207
01:03:56,960 --> 01:03:59,760
Speaker 1: the Melissa episode that I feel the first time we

1208
01:03:59,760 --> 01:04:02,120
Speaker 1: talked it. Yeah, but I feel like I didn't really

1209
01:04:02,120 --> 01:04:04,840
Speaker 1: get that emotional on this episode. But I just get

1210
01:04:05,040 --> 01:04:09,600
Speaker 1: emotional when it comes to you in the situation because

1211
01:04:09,640 --> 01:04:13,919
Speaker 1: like I said earlier, for me as your friend, as

1212
01:04:13,960 --> 01:04:17,560
Speaker 1: one of your best friends, I and I feel like

1213
01:04:17,560 --> 01:04:19,800
Speaker 1: out of all of your best friends, I'm around you

1214
01:04:19,840 --> 01:04:23,760
Speaker 1: the most. Yeah, because I'm out here believe they all

1215
01:04:23,840 --> 01:04:25,760
Speaker 1: the rest of them live in Houston, So it's like

1216
01:04:26,120 --> 01:04:31,200
Speaker 1: I see you every day and like I just don't

1217
01:04:31,200 --> 01:04:34,800
Speaker 1: even knowing if you Yeah, I mean, and it stressed

1218
01:04:34,840 --> 01:04:38,680
Speaker 1: me out because It's always like a thing that I'm

1219
01:04:38,720 --> 01:04:40,800
Speaker 1: always thinking about. Like whenever I'm not around you, I

1220
01:04:40,920 --> 01:04:42,600
Speaker 1: just be like, oh, I wonder it. Really it's okay,

1221
01:04:43,360 --> 01:04:44,040
Speaker 1: and that's the fair.

1222
01:04:44,120 --> 01:04:46,480
Speaker 2: And like I said, I'm not I appreciate you for that.

1223
01:04:46,520 --> 01:04:48,320
Speaker 2: I mean my fa the same way my sister be

1224
01:04:48,320 --> 01:04:51,200
Speaker 2: having whole breakdowns cause she'd be like instoer the phone

1225
01:04:51,320 --> 01:04:52,600
Speaker 2: or this and that, and I'll.

1226
01:04:52,480 --> 01:04:54,720
Speaker 1: Just be like, no, if you wanted them people to like, yes,

1227
01:04:54,760 --> 01:04:56,800
Speaker 1: I'll be just when you don't answer the phone, I'll

1228
01:04:56,800 --> 01:05:04,000
Speaker 1: be like, oh no, let me call again. Yeah, okay,

1229
01:05:04,280 --> 01:05:09,560
Speaker 1: dark humor never relax. No, I mean we both have

1230
01:05:09,680 --> 01:05:14,400
Speaker 1: dark humor, so I get like I can laugh for

1231
01:05:15,280 --> 01:05:19,680
Speaker 1: I know. But but I'll say this other victory all people.

1232
01:05:20,440 --> 01:05:21,240
Speaker 1: But I'll say this.

1233
01:05:21,480 --> 01:05:23,520
Speaker 2: I will say this, I think I have come a

1234
01:05:23,560 --> 01:05:26,360
Speaker 2: long way with my mental health and my journey. And

1235
01:05:28,160 --> 01:05:30,600
Speaker 2: I will say I know I understand now that I'm

1236
01:05:30,640 --> 01:05:34,120
Speaker 2: more blessed than I'm not. I am more blessed than

1237
01:05:34,160 --> 01:05:37,400
Speaker 2: I am not. And like I said, I think this

1238
01:05:38,200 --> 01:05:40,920
Speaker 2: sometimes it sounds so weird. And I remember talking to

1239
01:05:40,920 --> 01:05:42,400
Speaker 2: you on the phone the other day when you called me,

1240
01:05:42,520 --> 01:05:44,760
Speaker 2: you were like and I was just crying and I'm like,

1241
01:05:44,760 --> 01:05:46,600
Speaker 2: I know it sounds so stupid because I'm crying over

1242
01:05:46,680 --> 01:05:49,080
Speaker 2: this Meg documentary and I don't even know her, but

1243
01:05:49,120 --> 01:05:52,040
Speaker 2: I'm like, certain things will trigger you, and certain things

1244
01:05:52,040 --> 01:05:53,880
Speaker 2: will make you realize things and see things.

1245
01:05:53,920 --> 01:05:57,880
Speaker 1: And I'm like, and in this moment, Meg, I'm thinking

1246
01:05:57,920 --> 01:05:58,640
Speaker 1: she has the world.

1247
01:05:58,760 --> 01:06:01,240
Speaker 2: She got Grammy, she got me say, and I'm looking

1248
01:06:01,280 --> 01:06:03,920
Speaker 2: in this moment as somebody who has no parents either,

1249
01:06:04,560 --> 01:06:07,440
Speaker 2: I got half the shit she got. And I'm feeling

1250
01:06:07,680 --> 01:06:11,720
Speaker 2: sorry for her because all the things in the world,

1251
01:06:11,800 --> 01:06:15,520
Speaker 2: and you couldn't get a hug, Fitch, they couldn't hug you.

1252
01:06:15,520 --> 01:06:17,800
Speaker 2: You couldn't get a hug. And one thing about it,

1253
01:06:18,360 --> 01:06:20,560
Speaker 2: I got plenty people to hug me now and that's

1254
01:06:20,560 --> 01:06:21,120
Speaker 2: a blessing.

1255
01:06:22,160 --> 01:06:25,120
Speaker 1: And I hate the fact that she she has.

1256
01:06:25,040 --> 01:06:27,120
Speaker 2: To practice discernment now, she has to watch she was

1257
01:06:27,160 --> 01:06:29,720
Speaker 2: around her, But I think that was maybe a lesson

1258
01:06:29,760 --> 01:06:31,680
Speaker 2: that she needed to learn because she's young, she's not

1259
01:06:31,720 --> 01:06:34,320
Speaker 2: even thirty yet. The fact that she's going through this.

1260
01:06:34,480 --> 01:06:36,720
Speaker 2: I lost my mom when I was with thirty two

1261
01:06:36,800 --> 01:06:41,760
Speaker 2: thirty three. I lost it as a full blown woman.

1262
01:06:41,880 --> 01:06:46,920
Speaker 2: I know what is going on, and I was still

1263
01:06:46,960 --> 01:06:48,840
Speaker 2: going through it. So the fact that she lost her

1264
01:06:48,880 --> 01:06:51,960
Speaker 2: mom so young, and she has to navigate an industry

1265
01:06:52,000 --> 01:06:54,920
Speaker 2: that's actually worse than our industry. The music industry is

1266
01:06:54,960 --> 01:06:57,200
Speaker 2: horrible and she's navigating that.

1267
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Speaker 1: Yeah, but to be tvh same thing, sigme thing, music industry,

1268
01:07:05,360 --> 01:07:07,560
Speaker 1: media industry is all the same. Like I feel like

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01:07:54,640 --> 01:07:58,360
Speaker 2: better help hch lp dot com slash poor minds. Okay,

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01:07:58,400 --> 01:07:59,160
Speaker 2: so topic to.

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01:08:00,640 --> 01:08:05,040
Speaker 1: Are we going to whoop our kids? A little? Bilt

1293
01:08:05,120 --> 01:08:08,480
Speaker 1: to ask? Ain't never hurt nobody? I mean it hurt

1294
01:08:08,480 --> 01:08:11,840
Speaker 1: a little bit. Did I get whoopings? How did you

1295
01:08:11,880 --> 01:08:17,599
Speaker 1: get whoopings? BITCHA got but I got them now, bitch,

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01:08:17,600 --> 01:08:19,720
Speaker 1: I got hello whoopings. Let me tell you, I have

1297
01:08:19,920 --> 01:08:22,479
Speaker 1: vivid memories of whoopings, and that's why I think they were.

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01:08:23,520 --> 01:08:27,040
Speaker 1: Did they because it's yeah, because it's certain ones I remember,

1299
01:08:29,080 --> 01:08:31,000
Speaker 1: and it still put the fear of God in me.

1300
01:08:31,640 --> 01:08:34,559
Speaker 1: Like I got whooped one time in the bathtub. I

1301
01:08:35,280 --> 01:08:39,200
Speaker 1: no matter for belt, bitch, yes don't. No matter how

1302
01:08:39,280 --> 01:08:42,479
Speaker 1: long I live, I will never forget that ass whop me.

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01:08:43,240 --> 01:08:46,240
Speaker 1: Ma Mama said she had said something to me. Now,

1304
01:08:46,240 --> 01:08:47,880
Speaker 1: what I will say is I don't remember all of

1305
01:08:47,880 --> 01:08:52,400
Speaker 1: the context of the conversation, but she says something to me,

1306
01:08:52,520 --> 01:08:56,920
Speaker 1: and I was like, girl, whatever in a please? Whatever?

1307
01:08:58,280 --> 01:09:01,000
Speaker 1: In the back in the bath why even taking a bag?

1308
01:09:01,479 --> 01:09:05,679
Speaker 1: How old were you? I had to be like between

1309
01:09:05,680 --> 01:09:09,479
Speaker 1: eight and teen? Bad between eighteen, but she was. She

1310
01:09:09,640 --> 01:09:13,120
Speaker 1: was saying something and I was like, girl, whatever, And

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01:09:13,160 --> 01:09:16,519
Speaker 1: I remember I heard my daddy y'all because and maybe

1312
01:09:16,520 --> 01:09:18,439
Speaker 1: that's one of the main reasons why I missed my

1313
01:09:18,560 --> 01:09:21,080
Speaker 1: dad so much, because that was my nigga. Like when

1314
01:09:21,120 --> 01:09:25,040
Speaker 1: I say always had my back my mama, I heard

1315
01:09:25,040 --> 01:09:28,280
Speaker 1: her say, oh, hell Na, and my daddy was like,

1316
01:09:28,320 --> 01:09:30,559
Speaker 1: wait a minute, wait a minute, just calm down. Down.

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01:09:30,560 --> 01:09:32,400
Speaker 1: She was like, no, I'm about the whoop plass.

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01:09:32,600 --> 01:09:34,320
Speaker 2: She was tired of you because you always used to

1319
01:09:34,400 --> 01:09:35,360
Speaker 2: run to your daddy.

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01:09:35,720 --> 01:09:39,360
Speaker 1: My dad was my daddy. Yeah, he used to always

1321
01:09:39,479 --> 01:09:41,559
Speaker 1: like have my bag. Like. My dad was the reason

1322
01:09:41,560 --> 01:09:44,280
Speaker 1: that I didn't get a lot of whooping because he

1323
01:09:44,280 --> 01:09:48,439
Speaker 1: would talk my mama down. So he so he was like, no,

1324
01:09:48,680 --> 01:09:50,320
Speaker 1: just calmed I could hear it. I was like he

1325
01:09:50,400 --> 01:09:55,679
Speaker 1: was like, no, just calmed down. I was in, yeah,

1326
01:09:55,720 --> 01:09:59,000
Speaker 1: she ain't gonna come in here.

1327
01:09:57,720 --> 01:09:58,439
Speaker 2: Worried about her.

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01:10:00,800 --> 01:10:05,559
Speaker 1: And then she came in there when you was wet

1329
01:10:05,600 --> 01:10:13,920
Speaker 1: and I was wet and naked, naked and afraid. That

1330
01:10:14,160 --> 01:10:16,600
Speaker 1: was me eb She was the first season. I was

1331
01:10:16,640 --> 01:10:19,160
Speaker 1: the first season of Naked in a Fray Bitch. What

1332
01:10:19,200 --> 01:10:22,519
Speaker 1: they talk about right now? Okay, So let's go back

1333
01:10:22,560 --> 01:10:25,639
Speaker 1: to two thousand and one. Are you gonna whoop your kids?

1334
01:10:25,680 --> 01:10:29,720
Speaker 2: Though? Whenever you have home? Exactly? I want to try,

1335
01:10:29,760 --> 01:10:30,599
Speaker 2: because like.

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01:10:32,320 --> 01:10:41,559
Speaker 1: It was more it was more frightening than anything, but

1337
01:10:41,680 --> 01:10:44,080
Speaker 1: not frightening enough to where I still wasn't gonna cut up.

1338
01:10:44,800 --> 01:10:47,479
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying, like I'm not gonna lie. I

1339
01:10:47,640 --> 01:10:52,960
Speaker 1: vividly remember the whoopings, but it stopped me from being bad. No,

1340
01:10:53,600 --> 01:10:56,160
Speaker 1: you know what really stopped me more when I would

1341
01:10:56,160 --> 01:10:58,879
Speaker 1: get shipped taken away, Like when I would get punished

1342
01:10:58,880 --> 01:11:00,800
Speaker 1: and my mom would take well, she would be like,

1343
01:11:00,840 --> 01:11:03,719
Speaker 1: are we taking your TV? Got your room? You couldn't

1344
01:11:03,760 --> 01:11:11,760
Speaker 1: watch smart girl? Life is about the end? Or why

1345
01:11:11,800 --> 01:11:14,559
Speaker 1: does she see that intro? So bad?

1346
01:11:16,439 --> 01:11:18,800
Speaker 2: She's saying really bad on that intro? Who was that?

1347
01:11:19,240 --> 01:11:22,599
Speaker 1: I don't know? I know the master TJ. Henderson, super

1348
01:11:22,600 --> 01:11:25,240
Speaker 1: intelligent and fine, young gentleman. Why do you remember that

1349
01:11:26,400 --> 01:11:28,920
Speaker 1: the girl was so bad? I do not even remember

1350
01:11:28,920 --> 01:11:36,439
Speaker 1: that she. But Tina is what fucked me up. That

1351
01:11:36,600 --> 01:11:44,240
Speaker 1: was my she, Tina, And as told by Gingers, it's

1352
01:11:44,320 --> 01:11:49,760
Speaker 1: always green. It was. I mean, that's what really used

1353
01:11:49,760 --> 01:11:53,120
Speaker 1: to that, not being able to play snake on my

1354
01:11:53,160 --> 01:12:00,760
Speaker 1: Nokia Yo. Okay, hey, so it's just like that used

1355
01:12:00,760 --> 01:12:02,680
Speaker 1: to fuck me up more than anything, and that's not

1356
01:12:02,960 --> 01:12:05,920
Speaker 1: being able to go outside all hang out with my friend.

1357
01:12:05,960 --> 01:12:07,360
Speaker 2: I can go to the scale.

1358
01:12:08,160 --> 01:12:10,000
Speaker 1: I used to think my world was gonna end, and

1359
01:12:10,040 --> 01:12:11,560
Speaker 1: especially when you go to school on Monday and it

1360
01:12:11,680 --> 01:12:14,160
Speaker 1: was like, oh, yeah, we had such a good time

1361
01:12:14,200 --> 01:12:18,000
Speaker 1: and you just sitting there like, can't relate. I'm so lame.

1362
01:12:18,960 --> 01:12:24,000
Speaker 1: But okay, but I'm not whooping my kids. I have

1363
01:12:24,040 --> 01:12:27,920
Speaker 1: two nephews, okay, and one of them back Jackson and Rode.

1364
01:12:28,040 --> 01:12:31,720
Speaker 2: Right, I can. I made why you don't want to

1365
01:12:31,720 --> 01:12:36,599
Speaker 2: whoop the bad because let me tell you why. I

1366
01:12:36,680 --> 01:12:38,000
Speaker 2: let me tell you how you sed to spank Jackson.

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01:12:38,040 --> 01:12:39,080
Speaker 1: You always say he bed.

1368
01:12:39,240 --> 01:12:40,679
Speaker 2: Let me tell you how you sued to spank Jackson.

1369
01:12:40,680 --> 01:12:44,680
Speaker 2: I used to be like this, and that's what I

1370
01:12:44,680 --> 01:12:47,720
Speaker 2: would do to him, and it wasn't a spanking for real.

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01:12:47,760 --> 01:12:49,400
Speaker 2: But I couldn't spank him because he was just my

1372
01:12:49,760 --> 01:12:53,840
Speaker 2: sweet that's my I will cry my sweet baby.

1373
01:12:53,479 --> 01:12:58,200
Speaker 1: But you always say he's sweet and right. I never

1374
01:12:58,640 --> 01:12:59,960
Speaker 1: I never spank Jackson.

1375
01:13:00,080 --> 01:13:02,479
Speaker 2: My sister. My sister don't spank either one of them.

1376
01:13:03,080 --> 01:13:04,320
Speaker 2: Never spank Jackson.

1377
01:13:04,400 --> 01:13:06,200
Speaker 1: And when I tell you now, he's still a kid,

1378
01:13:06,560 --> 01:13:08,040
Speaker 1: you know he's still but he's so.

1379
01:13:08,040 --> 01:13:13,160
Speaker 2: Well behaved, he's so respectful. He's an angel walking this earth.

1380
01:13:13,240 --> 01:13:15,639
Speaker 1: Yeah, the sweetest baby.

1381
01:13:15,880 --> 01:13:20,600
Speaker 2: And I never until this day Jackson, Yes, ma'am, No,

1382
01:13:20,760 --> 01:13:23,440
Speaker 2: ma'am yet angel baby.

1383
01:13:25,000 --> 01:13:30,640
Speaker 1: Rod Junior, that little one. It's something about that second child.

1384
01:13:30,680 --> 01:13:32,439
Speaker 1: Know you're the oldest nigga.

1385
01:13:32,479 --> 01:13:35,560
Speaker 2: Still bad, shit don't work, nothing.

1386
01:13:35,320 --> 01:13:39,559
Speaker 1: Works and bad. And I was the only child, baddest, fuzzed.

1387
01:13:40,320 --> 01:13:44,280
Speaker 1: Nothing works, bad, nothing bad. So I feel like, honestly,

1388
01:13:44,360 --> 01:13:48,240
Speaker 1: it doesn't matter. It matters more about the child. Yeah,

1389
01:13:48,439 --> 01:13:51,280
Speaker 1: but spanking, it don't really do it, don't really do

1390
01:13:51,360 --> 01:13:52,200
Speaker 1: too much.

1391
01:13:52,360 --> 01:13:54,000
Speaker 2: It don't do too much.

1392
01:13:53,840 --> 01:13:57,120
Speaker 1: If anything traumatized your kid. I was like, I still

1393
01:13:57,200 --> 01:14:00,880
Speaker 1: to this day, my mama used to somebody go like, hey,

1394
01:14:00,920 --> 01:14:04,000
Speaker 1: what's up, drag You'd be like, I'm telling you. Me

1395
01:14:04,040 --> 01:14:05,519
Speaker 1: and my mama used to be in a car together.

1396
01:14:05,640 --> 01:14:08,639
Speaker 1: I'll never forget it was another time. At this point,

1397
01:14:08,720 --> 01:14:12,799
Speaker 1: I'm like fourteen, Oh.

1398
01:14:11,640 --> 01:14:13,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, I was in ho That's when that ass started

1399
01:14:13,439 --> 01:14:13,840
Speaker 2: coming in.

1400
01:14:17,080 --> 01:14:21,439
Speaker 1: I was in the car with my mama. She said

1401
01:14:21,479 --> 01:14:23,720
Speaker 1: something to me. I said something back. She ain't like

1402
01:14:23,840 --> 01:14:28,280
Speaker 1: she you helped me in them off. So like still

1403
01:14:28,320 --> 01:14:30,320
Speaker 1: to this day, when I be in a car with

1404
01:14:30,400 --> 01:14:32,040
Speaker 1: her and she say something, I'd be like.

1405
01:14:32,520 --> 01:14:34,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, but you still got a smart ass mouth.

1406
01:14:35,080 --> 01:14:38,320
Speaker 1: No, I don't say nothing, but to her it was

1407
01:14:38,360 --> 01:14:39,880
Speaker 1: to teach you to not have a smart ass mouth.

1408
01:14:39,960 --> 01:14:41,120
Speaker 2: But you know what, But you know what.

1409
01:14:41,160 --> 01:14:43,760
Speaker 1: I'll tell you though, and maybe I'll be wrong, maybe

1410
01:14:43,880 --> 01:14:46,960
Speaker 1: people in the comments will disagree with me. I think

1411
01:14:47,040 --> 01:14:49,519
Speaker 1: you need to be scared of your parents. I do too.

1412
01:14:49,600 --> 01:14:53,959
Speaker 1: You need that little I think sometimes that's the fucking problem.

1413
01:14:54,240 --> 01:14:57,320
Speaker 1: And I'm not trying to say, like, my parents definitely

1414
01:14:57,360 --> 01:15:01,920
Speaker 1: made they mistakes by societal standard. If you analyze how

1415
01:15:01,920 --> 01:15:05,040
Speaker 1: they raised me, a lot of people will probably say, oh,

1416
01:15:05,120 --> 01:15:07,560
Speaker 1: it's certain she they did wrong. Nobody is perfect, you

1417
01:15:07,640 --> 01:15:10,880
Speaker 1: know what I mean? Like, my parents were not perfect,

1418
01:15:11,160 --> 01:15:13,600
Speaker 1: but there's no such a thing as perfect. But I

1419
01:15:13,600 --> 01:15:17,599
Speaker 1: ain't gonna look at the material they did something they

1420
01:15:17,600 --> 01:15:19,680
Speaker 1: did a little one too, and I was scared of

1421
01:15:19,720 --> 01:15:23,120
Speaker 1: my parents, like I But I say on that to say,

1422
01:15:23,160 --> 01:15:26,519
Speaker 1: you know, there's a study they have twins in a

1423
01:15:26,600 --> 01:15:28,840
Speaker 1: home that were raised the same and one twin goes

1424
01:15:28,840 --> 01:15:31,200
Speaker 1: off to be a multi millionaire and other twin on

1425
01:15:31,280 --> 01:15:36,120
Speaker 1: the side of the corner popping perks. I feel like you. Okay,

1426
01:15:36,200 --> 01:15:39,760
Speaker 1: So the whole parenting thing where like people want their

1427
01:15:39,880 --> 01:15:44,639
Speaker 1: kids to be their friend, I stand on the side

1428
01:15:44,640 --> 01:15:47,760
Speaker 1: of history where it's like, I'm not your little friend. Yeah, nah,

1429
01:15:47,760 --> 01:15:50,200
Speaker 1: I agree with I don't want my I don't want

1430
01:15:50,200 --> 01:15:52,760
Speaker 1: my kids to think I'm their little friend. My mom was.

1431
01:15:53,080 --> 01:15:54,679
Speaker 2: She was cool when I got older.

1432
01:15:54,720 --> 01:15:55,680
Speaker 1: But did you get with me?

1433
01:15:56,560 --> 01:15:58,480
Speaker 2: Hell yeah, But that's what I'm saying.

1434
01:15:58,200 --> 01:16:00,640
Speaker 1: With a switch. Though I'm from the country, I used

1435
01:16:00,680 --> 01:16:03,200
Speaker 1: to get whipped with switches. Oh, let me tell y'all something,

1436
01:16:03,240 --> 01:16:05,080
Speaker 1: and it ain't gonna probably be in the comments like,

1437
01:16:05,160 --> 01:16:09,960
Speaker 1: oh you was abuse I got with the extension cord

1438
01:16:10,000 --> 01:16:14,559
Speaker 1: before extend Yeah, yeah, I.

1439
01:16:14,560 --> 01:16:16,599
Speaker 2: Got whipped with y'all. I used to and then they

1440
01:16:16,680 --> 01:16:17,439
Speaker 2: used to make me.

1441
01:16:17,360 --> 01:16:21,639
Speaker 1: Go pick the switch out. Don't pick the small one

1442
01:16:21,680 --> 01:16:24,600
Speaker 1: because those hurt the worst. Yeah, And so it's like,

1443
01:16:26,120 --> 01:16:31,160
Speaker 1: I don't know, like I personally for me, I'm not

1444
01:16:31,240 --> 01:16:33,519
Speaker 1: going to whoop my kids if I can help you,

1445
01:16:34,040 --> 01:16:37,120
Speaker 1: Like if shit got to get to that, you bad

1446
01:16:37,160 --> 01:16:41,080
Speaker 1: as fu Yeah, like you bad as fun coming from

1447
01:16:41,120 --> 01:16:44,080
Speaker 1: somebody like the the like people that I've dated dealing

1448
01:16:44,080 --> 01:16:45,120
Speaker 1: with their kids.

1449
01:16:45,400 --> 01:16:50,840
Speaker 2: Whooping don't work. Take that iPad, Oh they finna they

1450
01:16:50,920 --> 01:16:53,960
Speaker 2: feelna be the sweetest thing you ever met. A take

1451
01:16:54,000 --> 01:16:59,320
Speaker 2: away things that they value. But to me, temporary, temporary

1452
01:16:59,360 --> 01:17:01,200
Speaker 2: pain is just that's what it is. It's temporary.

1453
01:17:01,240 --> 01:17:03,280
Speaker 1: It's temporary. You gonna still do what you wanna do.

1454
01:17:03,280 --> 01:17:05,439
Speaker 1: Because my own whooped my ass with the extension court

1455
01:17:05,439 --> 01:17:07,600
Speaker 1: at this time, and I still snuk that boy in

1456
01:17:07,600 --> 01:17:12,240
Speaker 1: the house when I was fifteen, like you goat you

1457
01:17:12,240 --> 01:17:14,920
Speaker 1: you ain't and got caught and got caught with that too,

1458
01:17:15,800 --> 01:17:19,320
Speaker 1: then then then got caught to the two was hot,

1459
01:17:19,439 --> 01:17:22,800
Speaker 1: then got caught with that, then went to high school.

1460
01:17:23,040 --> 01:17:25,840
Speaker 1: They got me a car. They was like, oh, you

1461
01:17:25,840 --> 01:17:29,280
Speaker 1: need to be home at eleven o'clock every day. Stive

1462
01:17:29,400 --> 01:17:30,800
Speaker 1: was coming home at twelve.

1463
01:17:30,840 --> 01:17:32,639
Speaker 2: Like because she was like, I'm gonna eat this whooping.

1464
01:17:33,479 --> 01:17:36,120
Speaker 2: You're gonna eat that whooping. You get whooped a lot.

1465
01:17:36,280 --> 01:17:39,639
Speaker 2: It's momentary. But that's what I'm saying to me, whoopings

1466
01:17:39,640 --> 01:17:41,920
Speaker 2: don't do nothing. Now they like to call it trauma

1467
01:17:41,960 --> 01:17:44,439
Speaker 2: and abuse, and I don't disagree with that whatever. I

1468
01:17:44,439 --> 01:17:46,840
Speaker 2: don't like to call people whatever you want to call it,

1469
01:17:47,160 --> 01:17:50,160
Speaker 2: But to me, it's more effective. If you have to

1470
01:17:50,200 --> 01:17:52,559
Speaker 2: go dazed with feeling something. I used to have to

1471
01:17:52,560 --> 01:17:55,360
Speaker 2: go dazed without my car whenever. When I got older,

1472
01:17:55,400 --> 01:17:56,080
Speaker 2: my mom stopped.

1473
01:17:56,160 --> 01:17:56,640
Speaker 1: Last time I.

1474
01:17:56,600 --> 01:17:58,759
Speaker 2: Got a whooping, I was in like second or third grade.

1475
01:17:58,920 --> 01:18:01,439
Speaker 2: Once I got older, she would take away things from me.

1476
01:18:01,720 --> 01:18:03,479
Speaker 2: So when I did something bad, I had to go

1477
01:18:03,520 --> 01:18:04,599
Speaker 2: two weeks without my car.

1478
01:18:05,479 --> 01:18:09,040
Speaker 1: I was hurt, bitch, first and foremost. I am with

1479
01:18:09,200 --> 01:18:13,000
Speaker 1: you because imagine sitting in your room with nothing to watch.

1480
01:18:13,400 --> 01:18:15,280
Speaker 1: You're just looking at the wall, and then you hear

1481
01:18:15,320 --> 01:18:18,840
Speaker 1: your mom in the living room listening to uh, well, no,

1482
01:18:18,880 --> 01:18:23,639
Speaker 1: what was the name of that show with deliries ain't

1483
01:18:23,840 --> 01:18:31,240
Speaker 1: on the Law down the Road angel theme?

1484
01:18:31,400 --> 01:18:34,400
Speaker 2: So that'sh My angel was such a good angel.

1485
01:18:34,640 --> 01:18:36,720
Speaker 1: Imagine sitting in your room, no TV.

1486
01:18:37,400 --> 01:18:40,280
Speaker 2: At the log No she died, my girl, she was

1487
01:18:40,320 --> 01:18:40,760
Speaker 2: so good.

1488
01:18:41,600 --> 01:18:44,920
Speaker 1: My pinker too. He y'all say whooping? You mean like

1489
01:18:45,280 --> 01:18:47,320
Speaker 1: full whooping? Yeah? Or are you saying you don't even

1490
01:18:47,360 --> 01:18:50,000
Speaker 1: spank your kids? Like? Is it the same?

1491
01:18:50,400 --> 01:18:52,280
Speaker 2: I'm not doing I don't want to put hands and

1492
01:18:52,280 --> 01:18:52,840
Speaker 2: feet on.

1493
01:18:52,760 --> 01:18:54,519
Speaker 1: My I'm not doing that if I can avoid it,

1494
01:18:54,520 --> 01:18:57,000
Speaker 1: because my I'm gonna put hands feet. She put other

1495
01:18:57,080 --> 01:18:59,840
Speaker 1: objects too, because she threw a boombox at me once

1496
01:19:01,360 --> 01:19:03,479
Speaker 1: and I would say, and I kind of think, shit,

1497
01:19:03,560 --> 01:19:07,639
Speaker 1: me a little too far, like traumatizing, And I love

1498
01:19:07,720 --> 01:19:11,320
Speaker 1: my mama, like this is no shame, y'all know I traumatized, No,

1499
01:19:11,479 --> 01:19:14,479
Speaker 1: but that was I'm not traumatized because the thing about

1500
01:19:14,520 --> 01:19:17,360
Speaker 1: I had a good mother. My mama loved me. Like

1501
01:19:17,439 --> 01:19:20,120
Speaker 1: everything that she did, I feel like she did because

1502
01:19:20,680 --> 01:19:23,760
Speaker 1: at that time, she thought she was parenting to the

1503
01:19:23,800 --> 01:19:26,280
Speaker 1: best of her ability, and she thought she was trying

1504
01:19:26,320 --> 01:19:28,160
Speaker 1: to get me right and get me in line so

1505
01:19:28,200 --> 01:19:30,679
Speaker 1: that I wouldn't become a fucked up adult. I truly

1506
01:19:30,720 --> 01:19:34,519
Speaker 1: do think that, even though I would not necessarily do

1507
01:19:34,560 --> 01:19:37,080
Speaker 1: some of those things with my own kids, I think

1508
01:19:37,080 --> 01:19:39,519
Speaker 1: that people are only a product of what they've been

1509
01:19:39,560 --> 01:19:42,160
Speaker 1: through and what they've seen. From what my mom tells

1510
01:19:42,240 --> 01:19:46,160
Speaker 1: me about how my grandparents disciplined her and her five siblings,

1511
01:19:46,439 --> 01:19:48,280
Speaker 1: that was the she that they got, That's how they

1512
01:19:48,320 --> 01:19:53,520
Speaker 1: got the I think I am not a parent obviously.

1513
01:19:53,720 --> 01:19:56,519
Speaker 2: Yeah, but I raised my nephew right before like my

1514
01:19:56,640 --> 01:19:58,360
Speaker 2: I was there, like it was me and Mama. We

1515
01:19:58,360 --> 01:20:01,560
Speaker 2: were there, and I never had to spank him like

1516
01:20:01,560 --> 01:20:04,000
Speaker 2: I said I would do like this, Yeah, I literally

1517
01:20:04,000 --> 01:20:06,040
Speaker 2: do like this, and he would laugh and it's still

1518
01:20:06,080 --> 01:20:08,880
Speaker 2: an inside joke to this day. But I got the

1519
01:20:08,880 --> 01:20:10,560
Speaker 2: most out of him to be in respect because I

1520
01:20:10,640 --> 01:20:13,080
Speaker 2: take things away. Now he's on my phone bill your

1521
01:20:13,080 --> 01:20:14,960
Speaker 2: grade's right, because I'm not gonna pay this bill.

1522
01:20:15,439 --> 01:20:17,599
Speaker 1: And he loved his phone, he loved his game, so.

1523
01:20:17,439 --> 01:20:20,080
Speaker 2: He gets straight a's because he don't want his phone

1524
01:20:20,160 --> 01:20:22,840
Speaker 2: taken away. I feel like there's more effective things to

1525
01:20:22,880 --> 01:20:24,559
Speaker 2: do to do then.

1526
01:20:25,479 --> 01:20:28,200
Speaker 1: And that's what I was gonna say. Although to a

1527
01:20:28,200 --> 01:20:32,120
Speaker 1: certain extent, I feel like it kind of works, kind of,

1528
01:20:32,760 --> 01:20:35,160
Speaker 1: but to the point that I was making, I still

1529
01:20:35,360 --> 01:20:38,479
Speaker 1: win indeed other sheet afterwards, you know, but I feel

1530
01:20:38,479 --> 01:20:41,400
Speaker 1: like she was. But I feel like she she was

1531
01:20:41,439 --> 01:20:43,400
Speaker 1: doing what she felt like was the best thing to do.

1532
01:20:44,880 --> 01:20:46,840
Speaker 1: Now that we're in a different generation and we in

1533
01:20:46,880 --> 01:20:50,640
Speaker 1: a different time, I no longer feel like that's necessarily

1534
01:20:50,680 --> 01:20:55,720
Speaker 1: the best thing to do. So you're not no, how

1535
01:20:55,720 --> 01:20:58,120
Speaker 1: are you whooping your Are you the first time I've

1536
01:20:58,160 --> 01:20:59,280
Speaker 1: ever considered it?

1537
01:20:59,400 --> 01:21:00,600
Speaker 2: My initial sponsors?

1538
01:21:00,840 --> 01:21:04,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, right, But I'm also not into although I was

1539
01:21:04,840 --> 01:21:07,720
Speaker 1: whooped with belts, extension cords, whatever they could reach and

1540
01:21:07,760 --> 01:21:10,160
Speaker 1: full I don't think I would do that, But I

1541
01:21:10,200 --> 01:21:15,799
Speaker 1: feel like if they're small enough, a nice little especially

1542
01:21:15,800 --> 01:21:17,920
Speaker 1: when it's stuff. Now, if it's something that they're trying

1543
01:21:17,920 --> 01:21:20,880
Speaker 1: to touch, yeah, I'm trying to teach you don't touch this.

1544
01:21:21,040 --> 01:21:23,760
Speaker 2: I'll pop their heads. Yeah no, because that's stuff that

1545
01:21:23,800 --> 01:21:25,960
Speaker 2: you have to learn. But it's like if you're doing something.

1546
01:21:26,280 --> 01:21:28,120
Speaker 2: I went to a private school till I was in

1547
01:21:28,160 --> 01:21:31,679
Speaker 2: sixth grade. They used corporal punishments, so when you were bad,

1548
01:21:31,800 --> 01:21:32,719
Speaker 2: you got pops.

1549
01:21:32,920 --> 01:21:36,240
Speaker 1: Shout out to miss Flucy. I'm always remember that, like

1550
01:21:36,680 --> 01:21:41,600
Speaker 1: miss Cook. Miss miss Flucy used to pop us on

1551
01:21:42,280 --> 01:21:44,960
Speaker 1: the fun the path. Oh no, we had she had

1552
01:21:45,200 --> 01:21:47,080
Speaker 1: she had a she had a little stick and she

1553
01:21:47,160 --> 01:21:51,120
Speaker 1: used to call it cotch machine. We had paddles and

1554
01:21:51,200 --> 01:21:53,439
Speaker 1: she used to anytime you use me band, she'd be like,

1555
01:21:53,479 --> 01:21:56,280
Speaker 1: I'm gonna pull out the cotch machine and like my mom.

1556
01:21:56,760 --> 01:21:59,240
Speaker 1: But but the thing about her which shout out to

1557
01:21:59,280 --> 01:22:03,960
Speaker 1: her too, because she your parents had to give her permission.

1558
01:22:04,600 --> 01:22:07,240
Speaker 1: Like she would talk to the parents and be like, okay,

1559
01:22:07,600 --> 01:22:10,439
Speaker 1: so I have a certain way of how I were

1560
01:22:10,479 --> 01:22:13,040
Speaker 1: PM and the kids get them in line. But if

1561
01:22:13,040 --> 01:22:16,160
Speaker 1: you're not okay with it, and I ain't gonna do it.

1562
01:22:16,680 --> 01:22:18,320
Speaker 1: And she told my mom, and my alm was like, oh,

1563
01:22:18,360 --> 01:22:23,000
Speaker 1: we'll playing go ahead, Barbro exactly, because I know you

1564
01:22:23,160 --> 01:22:24,919
Speaker 1: was bad. I seen your baby pictures.

1565
01:22:25,000 --> 01:22:28,240
Speaker 2: You was giving chucky me what you were so cute,

1566
01:22:28,320 --> 01:22:29,719
Speaker 2: but you just looked bad.

1567
01:22:30,080 --> 01:22:33,400
Speaker 1: Oh I was bad. I was a terrible time. I

1568
01:22:33,439 --> 01:22:37,280
Speaker 1: went to a private school. Hero get niggas because I

1569
01:22:37,320 --> 01:22:39,760
Speaker 1: was like, I was cute. You ain't see me. You

1570
01:22:39,880 --> 01:22:42,479
Speaker 1: just like you used to bite people? You I did?

1571
01:22:42,920 --> 01:22:47,519
Speaker 1: And then you know what funny story? Real quick, I

1572
01:22:47,640 --> 01:22:50,320
Speaker 1: used to bite people all the time. And my mom

1573
01:22:50,520 --> 01:22:52,759
Speaker 1: was like, you used to think that shit was funny,

1574
01:22:52,880 --> 01:22:55,040
Speaker 1: Like you would bite people and be laughing because you

1575
01:22:55,040 --> 01:22:57,360
Speaker 1: thought it was until the day I'll beat your ass

1576
01:22:57,439 --> 01:23:01,080
Speaker 1: bag exactly. And she beat me back and she was like,

1577
01:23:01,120 --> 01:23:02,920
Speaker 1: you ain't need that shit was funny, and you ain't

1578
01:23:02,960 --> 01:23:05,120
Speaker 1: do it no more. I so I.

1579
01:23:05,040 --> 01:23:06,519
Speaker 2: Went to a private school. They didn't have to get

1580
01:23:06,560 --> 01:23:09,360
Speaker 2: nothing approved from the patare That's what I'm saying. So,

1581
01:23:09,400 --> 01:23:11,000
Speaker 2: but let me tell you something about miss Cook.

1582
01:23:11,120 --> 01:23:14,360
Speaker 1: Is it abuse or is it because she beat me back?

1583
01:23:14,360 --> 01:23:14,960
Speaker 1: Any words?

1584
01:23:15,680 --> 01:23:18,160
Speaker 2: Let me tell you something about this cook though, Miss Cook.

1585
01:23:18,479 --> 01:23:20,439
Speaker 1: Now that I look back on it and I think

1586
01:23:20,479 --> 01:23:22,760
Speaker 1: about it, I know what Miss Cook went into the

1587
01:23:22,760 --> 01:23:26,520
Speaker 1: boof and did he was cookie.

1588
01:23:26,840 --> 01:23:29,000
Speaker 2: No, miss Cook went to the booth and didn't vote

1589
01:23:29,000 --> 01:23:30,240
Speaker 2: while she was supposed to vote.

1590
01:23:30,320 --> 01:23:33,800
Speaker 1: Okay, because you know miss Cook still alive. Don't go.

1591
01:23:34,040 --> 01:23:37,120
Speaker 1: Don't say that. Fuck her fucker.

1592
01:23:37,320 --> 01:23:39,599
Speaker 2: I hope my mama up there whooping her ass right now.

1593
01:23:40,360 --> 01:23:42,160
Speaker 2: Because let me say this, it's about miss Cook.

1594
01:23:42,800 --> 01:23:46,280
Speaker 1: It don't matter what I did go to the office

1595
01:23:46,280 --> 01:23:48,640
Speaker 1: to get pops. She wouldn't say nothing. She would just

1596
01:23:48,640 --> 01:23:50,759
Speaker 1: be like terror go to the office to get pops.

1597
01:23:50,880 --> 01:23:53,759
Speaker 1: Damn bitch. Let me get my joke off. Whole ad nigga,

1598
01:23:54,320 --> 01:23:56,439
Speaker 1: I'm trying to tell a funny ass knock knock joke.

1599
01:23:56,760 --> 01:23:59,200
Speaker 1: I just looked up in my little book that my

1600
01:23:59,280 --> 01:24:02,280
Speaker 1: mom about me Christmas. I'm getting these jokes off. Well,

1601
01:24:02,720 --> 01:24:05,080
Speaker 1: I know you was mad. That's the whole nother topic

1602
01:24:05,160 --> 01:24:07,840
Speaker 1: for you. But what I'm saying is I wasn't doing

1603
01:24:09,000 --> 01:24:11,200
Speaker 1: When I think about the reason she used to give

1604
01:24:11,240 --> 01:24:14,719
Speaker 1: me pops, it was so like I'm being a kid

1605
01:24:15,120 --> 01:24:19,160
Speaker 1: now if I was going around terrorizing biting people, girl,

1606
01:24:19,400 --> 01:24:25,680
Speaker 1: excuse I just you, guys, I wasn't biting nobody. I'm

1607
01:24:25,720 --> 01:24:27,360
Speaker 1: telling jokes. I'm now.

1608
01:24:27,400 --> 01:24:28,920
Speaker 2: I was loud and obnoxious.

1609
01:24:28,960 --> 01:24:39,640
Speaker 1: I was that kid. I was no. But but but

1610
01:24:39,760 --> 01:24:42,000
Speaker 1: what I'm saying is, now that I think about it,

1611
01:24:42,040 --> 01:24:45,559
Speaker 1: Miss Cook, it was given like send this to the office.

1612
01:24:45,680 --> 01:24:47,000
Speaker 2: She was white out.

1613
01:24:48,439 --> 01:24:52,120
Speaker 1: She was white yes, Miss Fosi.

1614
01:24:52,920 --> 01:24:58,120
Speaker 2: That's why your mom came to the school. My mom

1615
01:24:58,160 --> 01:25:00,120
Speaker 2: came up to the school and raised hell because she

1616
01:25:00,200 --> 01:25:01,960
Speaker 2: started to figure out. She was like, I feel like,

1617
01:25:02,000 --> 01:25:04,519
Speaker 2: y'all are picking on my child. Why is my child

1618
01:25:04,600 --> 01:25:06,720
Speaker 2: always in the office and I'm asking what's going on?

1619
01:25:07,000 --> 01:25:09,000
Speaker 2: And they just talking about because she's talking loud.

1620
01:25:09,080 --> 01:25:15,840
Speaker 1: The little bitch loud bitch you was still is so

1621
01:25:16,080 --> 01:25:20,240
Speaker 1: TI is thinking now? So now you're reframing, Yeah, because

1622
01:25:20,280 --> 01:25:23,720
Speaker 1: I think there is better ways, especially nowadays because now

1623
01:25:23,800 --> 01:25:26,720
Speaker 1: kids have way more things that they're so attached to

1624
01:25:27,000 --> 01:25:29,160
Speaker 1: as well, So it's like, oh, you're taking my iPad.

1625
01:25:29,240 --> 01:25:31,679
Speaker 1: Oh you know, like now they feel like there's something

1626
01:25:31,680 --> 01:25:35,559
Speaker 1: more to work towards. But I still agree your kids

1627
01:25:35,600 --> 01:25:38,280
Speaker 1: should fear you in some capacity, And it's like, how

1628
01:25:38,280 --> 01:25:41,200
Speaker 1: do you have that? How do you find that balance? Yeah?

1629
01:25:41,240 --> 01:25:45,200
Speaker 1: I'm honest though, cause like whenever you post pictures in

1630
01:25:45,240 --> 01:25:47,519
Speaker 1: your mom and stuff, I'm like, your mom looks so sweet,

1631
01:25:48,360 --> 01:25:50,200
Speaker 1: so cool, Like I can't believe she used to be

1632
01:25:50,240 --> 01:25:53,120
Speaker 1: whooping your ass. I mean Barbara looks sweet too. No,

1633
01:25:53,560 --> 01:25:57,680
Speaker 1: yes she does. And when you talk to Barbara, oh

1634
01:25:57,880 --> 01:26:02,320
Speaker 1: you okay again? Funny I went to Houston a few

1635
01:26:02,360 --> 01:26:05,760
Speaker 1: weeks ago. Don't do her. Me and my mom. So

1636
01:26:05,880 --> 01:26:08,680
Speaker 1: my mom, you know, she's up in age now, so

1637
01:26:08,680 --> 01:26:11,080
Speaker 1: she'd be having to go to like routine doctor music's

1638
01:26:11,120 --> 01:26:13,320
Speaker 1: all the time. That's why I be fooling when people

1639
01:26:13,360 --> 01:26:15,280
Speaker 1: be like old people always want to doctor because they is.

1640
01:26:16,960 --> 01:26:18,920
Speaker 1: So she was like, oh, I want you to come

1641
01:26:18,920 --> 01:26:22,840
Speaker 1: to the doctor with me. So I was like, okay. Cool.

1642
01:26:23,360 --> 01:26:26,679
Speaker 1: So we was getting in the car and I can't

1643
01:26:26,720 --> 01:26:28,400
Speaker 1: remember what we was talking about. We talking about something

1644
01:26:28,400 --> 01:26:31,160
Speaker 1: and she was like, yeah, all your friends they always

1645
01:26:31,240 --> 01:26:34,200
Speaker 1: love me. They be like your mama's so sweet, so cool.

1646
01:26:34,560 --> 01:26:37,479
Speaker 1: And I was like yep, oh my god. We was

1647
01:26:37,520 --> 01:26:40,519
Speaker 1: talking about these so about whooping your kings, and I

1648
01:26:40,640 --> 01:26:43,080
Speaker 1: was saying how I was not gonna whoop my kids,

1649
01:26:43,280 --> 01:26:45,519
Speaker 1: and my mom was like for real and I was

1650
01:26:45,560 --> 01:26:45,880
Speaker 1: like yeah.

1651
01:26:45,920 --> 01:26:47,040
Speaker 2: And I was like, when they come to.

1652
01:26:47,000 --> 01:26:50,120
Speaker 1: Your house, you bet not whoop them neither, because I'm

1653
01:26:50,120 --> 01:26:52,120
Speaker 1: not gonna whoop them. And she was like, well, I

1654
01:26:52,160 --> 01:26:53,960
Speaker 1: feel like you turned out alright. She was like, but

1655
01:26:54,000 --> 01:26:56,559
Speaker 1: it's so funny because when I meet all your friends,

1656
01:26:56,600 --> 01:26:58,960
Speaker 1: they'd be like, yo, ma, I'm so sweet. And she

1657
01:26:59,120 --> 01:27:00,479
Speaker 1: was like and I was like, yeah, yeah, and I'll

1658
01:27:00,520 --> 01:27:03,280
Speaker 1: be telling them like you really a minis you do

1659
01:27:03,439 --> 01:27:08,200
Speaker 1: be saying that because y'all don't know. Y'all don't, but no,

1660
01:27:08,280 --> 01:27:09,519
Speaker 1: I'll be seeing it now.

1661
01:27:09,600 --> 01:27:12,040
Speaker 2: When we go out to e I'll be around Miss Barbara.

1662
01:27:12,520 --> 01:27:13,719
Speaker 2: I'll be seeing that little minute.

1663
01:27:13,720 --> 01:27:16,880
Speaker 1: I'll be like, okay, this is will Barbara be cutting

1664
01:27:16,960 --> 01:27:17,519
Speaker 1: up a little bit.

1665
01:27:17,720 --> 01:27:18,200
Speaker 2: This is my.

1666
01:27:18,280 --> 01:27:22,400
Speaker 1: Theory though with people. When people get old, they become nier.

1667
01:27:23,439 --> 01:27:26,519
Speaker 1: But y'all have only know, like you gotta think about it. Friend,

1668
01:27:26,680 --> 01:27:28,880
Speaker 1: Like when me and you became friends. My mom is

1669
01:27:28,920 --> 01:27:32,040
Speaker 1: seventy five. She just turned seventy five in October. So

1670
01:27:32,360 --> 01:27:37,000
Speaker 1: when me and you met in twenty what fifteen sixteen,

1671
01:27:37,000 --> 01:27:38,439
Speaker 1: But I don't think you met my mom un till

1672
01:27:38,479 --> 01:27:41,280
Speaker 1: like two three years late. It wasn't until you moved

1673
01:27:41,320 --> 01:27:44,200
Speaker 1: to it that you met my mom for the first time.

1674
01:27:44,479 --> 01:27:47,639
Speaker 1: So like when you met my mom she was already

1675
01:27:47,640 --> 01:27:52,160
Speaker 1: in her sixties. You don't know the forty something your

1676
01:27:52,240 --> 01:27:55,120
Speaker 1: old version of her and my mom will tell you like,

1677
01:27:55,200 --> 01:27:57,120
Speaker 1: I would actually love to have her on the show

1678
01:27:57,200 --> 01:27:59,080
Speaker 1: one day because she will tell you like, when she

1679
01:27:59,200 --> 01:28:01,599
Speaker 1: was younger, she was a fighter. She used to be fighting.

1680
01:28:01,640 --> 01:28:03,759
Speaker 1: She used to get out there, she used to be outside.

1681
01:28:03,760 --> 01:28:06,519
Speaker 1: She hey, what I told her about my granny, But

1682
01:28:07,040 --> 01:28:11,479
Speaker 1: like she used to be outside. Like y'all be under estimating.

1683
01:28:11,560 --> 01:28:13,880
Speaker 1: My mama was a fool when I was younger. God, no,

1684
01:28:14,080 --> 01:28:16,639
Speaker 1: you know, the signs of my daddy was the cool ones.

1685
01:28:17,000 --> 01:28:17,160
Speaker 1: You know.

1686
01:28:17,240 --> 01:28:20,120
Speaker 2: The signs of a good grandma is when you see

1687
01:28:20,160 --> 01:28:20,880
Speaker 2: a grandchild and.

1688
01:28:20,840 --> 01:28:24,200
Speaker 1: They be greasy, you know, grand bag, that's a love child.

1689
01:28:26,800 --> 01:28:27,679
Speaker 1: Oh my god.

1690
01:28:27,840 --> 01:28:30,320
Speaker 2: Every time my sister would come home from work, when

1691
01:28:30,320 --> 01:28:32,000
Speaker 2: we would both be up where we would come home

1692
01:28:32,080 --> 01:28:34,479
Speaker 2: and Jackson used to be a little greasy, and my

1693
01:28:34,560 --> 01:28:35,040
Speaker 2: mom used.

1694
01:28:34,920 --> 01:28:37,200
Speaker 1: To be like, he looks look ye me ain't dry.

1695
01:28:37,880 --> 01:28:40,280
Speaker 2: I'm a good grinned If y'all greanny, grease yr baby up,

1696
01:28:40,360 --> 01:28:41,040
Speaker 2: they good to go.

1697
01:28:41,240 --> 01:28:43,479
Speaker 1: What's up? Y'all? Iss your girl XP and it's your

1698
01:28:43,520 --> 01:28:45,200
Speaker 1: girl dray and the call And it is the.

1699
01:28:45,160 --> 01:28:47,479
Speaker 2: Holiday season, so you know we have to put y'all

1700
01:28:47,520 --> 01:28:52,080
Speaker 2: on the perfect stocking stuffer. Thanks to manscape dot com.

1701
01:28:51,800 --> 01:28:55,040
Speaker 1: Yes you have to get your men the manscaped products.

1702
01:28:55,080 --> 01:28:58,080
Speaker 1: You who wants somebody with a furry face? All that

1703
01:28:58,280 --> 01:29:01,960
Speaker 1: double scratching you you know of the place. You know

1704
01:29:02,000 --> 01:29:02,599
Speaker 1: what I'm saying.

1705
01:29:02,920 --> 01:29:04,640
Speaker 2: So the best thing about it is they can do

1706
01:29:04,680 --> 01:29:07,040
Speaker 2: this at home and it has a charger so if

1707
01:29:07,040 --> 01:29:07,759
Speaker 2: they want to take.

1708
01:29:07,640 --> 01:29:09,120
Speaker 1: It on the go, they can do it on the

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Speaker 1: We have a brand new show dropping. Yes, we have

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Speaker 1: a brand new shout dropping y'all on Patreon. It's gonna

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Speaker 1: air on September second, and it's called Poor Chronicles. We're

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Speaker 1: gonna be doing so much stuff on there. We're gonna

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Speaker 1: be doing talk to me, chit chat with me. We're

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Speaker 1: gonna be feeling a little little tea. Oh my girl,

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Speaker 1: Now you didn't god everything y'all been wanting to see,

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Speaker 1: y'all ask us for so much.

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Speaker 2: Well, we've been to give it to y'all every single Monday,

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Speaker 2: and it's gonna be a time.

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Speaker 1: Y'all know. Poor Minds has grown.

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Speaker 2: Into its own little entity where we're gonna have a

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Speaker 2: lot of fun still over.

1745
01:30:51,360 --> 01:30:54,120
Speaker 1: Here at Poor Chronicles. So make sure y'all tune in

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Speaker 1: September second, it's going down. Thanks, Now it's time to

1747
01:31:06,120 --> 01:31:14,559
Speaker 1: get into the bop the bowl about about Okay, what's

1748
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Speaker 1: about what you're listening to? Oh? Well, okay, this is

1749
01:31:18,040 --> 01:31:21,599
Speaker 1: like a song that's not necessarily new, but I feel

1750
01:31:21,640 --> 01:31:23,360
Speaker 1: like it fits the episode, and I don't feel like

1751
01:31:23,400 --> 01:31:27,080
Speaker 1: we've ever had this. It's about why are you making

1752
01:31:27,080 --> 01:31:30,800
Speaker 1: that thing? Because I'm scared you've been cutting up today

1753
01:31:31,320 --> 01:31:34,320
Speaker 1: because you done crack about thirty jokes, you done cry.

1754
01:31:35,120 --> 01:31:37,760
Speaker 1: You don't curse me out the fuck am I. I

1755
01:31:37,960 --> 01:31:39,920
Speaker 1: know you ain't cut up till you said you hurt

1756
01:31:39,920 --> 01:31:43,760
Speaker 1: my feelings. You did. I'm sorry because that's the thing

1757
01:31:43,840 --> 01:31:46,080
Speaker 1: people don't know about you. And I'm gonna go on

1758
01:31:46,120 --> 01:31:48,360
Speaker 1: here and say I ain't trying to throw no shade,

1759
01:31:48,360 --> 01:31:54,519
Speaker 1: but like les be mean, y'all, sometimes you do. And

1760
01:31:54,560 --> 01:31:57,559
Speaker 1: the funny thing is people think I'm mean, people think

1761
01:31:57,640 --> 01:32:00,520
Speaker 1: I'm the mean one, when really and for real, for real,

1762
01:32:01,400 --> 01:32:08,760
Speaker 1: than you, absolute fuck lutely bitch, absolutely one, because when

1763
01:32:08,760 --> 01:32:11,360
Speaker 1: you and Yo Mo, people know not to fuck with you.

1764
01:32:11,800 --> 01:32:18,080
Speaker 1: People know just be like, look at Ta, Look than Drea, damn,

1765
01:32:18,640 --> 01:32:22,000
Speaker 1: thank you Ta. I feel like I'm not gonna lie.

1766
01:32:22,200 --> 01:32:23,519
Speaker 1: What's the name. What was the name of that movie

1767
01:32:23,600 --> 01:32:25,080
Speaker 1: Jamie Fox was in? Was it redemn she?

1768
01:32:26,040 --> 01:32:26,400
Speaker 2: Mm hmm?

1769
01:32:27,320 --> 01:32:30,320
Speaker 1: What happened? Was it Jamie Falk? What movie? It was

1770
01:32:30,360 --> 01:32:30,799
Speaker 1: a movie?

1771
01:32:30,880 --> 01:32:32,280
Speaker 2: It was a movie called Bitch.

1772
01:32:32,280 --> 01:32:33,880
Speaker 1: It was a movie called redem She And I feel

1773
01:32:33,880 --> 01:32:37,080
Speaker 1: like I'm having my redem she moment because everybody feel

1774
01:32:37,200 --> 01:32:40,559
Speaker 1: like I'm mean. I'm the mean one when in real

1775
01:32:40,640 --> 01:32:47,400
Speaker 1: life les meaner than me on camera. No, okay, let

1776
01:32:47,439 --> 01:32:49,920
Speaker 1: me say that, but in real life, lets not with

1777
01:32:49,960 --> 01:32:50,720
Speaker 1: the bullshe.

1778
01:32:50,760 --> 01:32:53,240
Speaker 2: Okay, I'm not gonna lie and I do own. I

1779
01:32:53,280 --> 01:32:55,639
Speaker 2: did go off this morning. I went off real bad

1780
01:32:55,640 --> 01:32:59,400
Speaker 2: this morning. We had our makeup. What's the wake up artist?

1781
01:32:59,439 --> 01:32:59,960
Speaker 2: What's his name?

1782
01:33:00,479 --> 01:33:02,719
Speaker 1: Ohky good to good did our makeup today?

1783
01:33:02,800 --> 01:33:05,640
Speaker 2: And he saw me go off, so he's probably he

1784
01:33:05,640 --> 01:33:07,160
Speaker 2: probably thinks I'm a bitch too. I didn't go off

1785
01:33:07,160 --> 01:33:09,280
Speaker 2: on him. It had nothing to do with him, but

1786
01:33:09,360 --> 01:33:11,280
Speaker 2: I was going off. Maybe I am a little bit.

1787
01:33:11,360 --> 01:33:13,240
Speaker 2: I'm working on it. I'm working on it.

1788
01:33:13,880 --> 01:33:16,479
Speaker 1: You're a little more mean and like you'll be mean

1789
01:33:16,560 --> 01:33:18,880
Speaker 1: to me. Like one thing about me that I think

1790
01:33:18,880 --> 01:33:20,840
Speaker 1: I mean to everybody? Shane thought I was meaning to

1791
01:33:20,880 --> 01:33:23,559
Speaker 1: her one time. Remember you do me being mean? To

1792
01:33:24,360 --> 01:33:31,559
Speaker 1: being mean to shame. Mm hmm, well, oh my god,

1793
01:33:32,360 --> 01:33:42,280
Speaker 1: you m h okay twitch time? Have I been mean

1794
01:33:42,320 --> 01:33:47,280
Speaker 1: to you before? But but let me ask, have I

1795
01:33:47,320 --> 01:33:54,679
Speaker 1: ever been meaning the y'all? Oh my god?

1796
01:33:55,479 --> 01:33:57,000
Speaker 2: Say have I ever been mean to you?

1797
01:33:59,040 --> 01:34:03,599
Speaker 1: And I don't. I don't think you mean either. It's

1798
01:34:03,640 --> 01:34:05,640
Speaker 1: time to work, nah, And when you were and I

1799
01:34:05,680 --> 01:34:08,040
Speaker 1: think that'd be the thing too, when you be ready

1800
01:34:08,040 --> 01:34:11,680
Speaker 1: to go? Oh, it's me okay, But let me say this.

1801
01:34:11,920 --> 01:34:16,080
Speaker 1: We're not about being ready to go. I'd be ready

1802
01:34:16,640 --> 01:34:19,360
Speaker 1: because exactly I'm always ready to go, but I be

1803
01:34:19,439 --> 01:34:21,879
Speaker 1: ready to work. Let's get this work.

1804
01:34:21,640 --> 01:34:23,240
Speaker 2: Done so motherfuckers can go home.

1805
01:34:23,360 --> 01:34:26,439
Speaker 1: Nah. But the thing is, nobody be tripping on going home,

1806
01:34:26,479 --> 01:34:30,679
Speaker 1: but you no. You don't know that though, because they

1807
01:34:31,000 --> 01:34:33,040
Speaker 1: they work for us essentially, so they can't be like

1808
01:34:33,400 --> 01:34:34,320
Speaker 1: I want to go home.

1809
01:34:34,920 --> 01:34:37,760
Speaker 2: Let's get these people in and out.

1810
01:34:40,120 --> 01:34:43,360
Speaker 1: Hello. So, yes, it comes off a little mean, but

1811
01:34:43,439 --> 01:34:46,240
Speaker 1: let's get this show on the fucking road. Fifteen. Men's

1812
01:34:46,360 --> 01:34:49,160
Speaker 1: let's get back to well, going back to our relationship,

1813
01:34:49,160 --> 01:34:52,200
Speaker 1: because id ain't I don't work for you, but you

1814
01:34:52,400 --> 01:34:57,519
Speaker 1: still like it's you, don't. You were spicy earlier in

1815
01:34:57,520 --> 01:34:58,720
Speaker 1: this episode, and I all.

1816
01:34:58,840 --> 01:35:02,200
Speaker 2: No, I wasn't spicy episode. I was emotional because I

1817
01:35:02,280 --> 01:35:06,080
Speaker 2: was like, you know, no, this is what you said.

1818
01:35:07,479 --> 01:35:09,639
Speaker 1: How are you gonna might help? Well, he don't got

1819
01:35:09,640 --> 01:35:12,920
Speaker 1: to delete this part, but no, you was like, what

1820
01:35:13,040 --> 01:35:15,640
Speaker 1: if I could say, no, I can finish. If I

1821
01:35:15,640 --> 01:35:20,040
Speaker 1: can finish, I thought yeah, because I was trying to

1822
01:35:20,200 --> 01:35:23,360
Speaker 1: because I know we when we have conversations, we cut

1823
01:35:23,400 --> 01:35:26,280
Speaker 1: each other off. But I was trying to get my

1824
01:35:26,400 --> 01:35:29,160
Speaker 1: points about the documentary off, and so it was an

1825
01:35:29,160 --> 01:35:31,120
Speaker 1: emotional conversation, so I wanted to get out.

1826
01:35:31,160 --> 01:35:33,320
Speaker 2: I was just saying, let me finish. It wasn't like

1827
01:35:34,240 --> 01:35:35,160
Speaker 2: I didn't say it like that.

1828
01:35:35,320 --> 01:35:37,760
Speaker 1: Well girl, first and foremost, you ain't gotta talk me

1829
01:35:37,800 --> 01:35:40,479
Speaker 1: down because I know you. That's and I'm also not

1830
01:35:40,560 --> 01:35:43,640
Speaker 1: really that sensity. But I was just saying, whenever you

1831
01:35:43,760 --> 01:35:45,320
Speaker 1: be in your little mood, i'd be like, got in

1832
01:35:45,360 --> 01:35:47,760
Speaker 1: the mold though, no, you not right now, but I'm

1833
01:35:47,760 --> 01:35:50,479
Speaker 1: saying whenever you do be ill, just be like, okay, bitch, bye,

1834
01:35:50,479 --> 01:35:53,559
Speaker 1: I'm gonna talk to you later because I just thought

1835
01:35:53,600 --> 01:35:55,640
Speaker 1: we having time for it and I've learned how to

1836
01:35:55,680 --> 01:35:58,639
Speaker 1: deal with you. But your ass is way meaner than

1837
01:35:58,640 --> 01:36:01,599
Speaker 1: me because I'm what think about me. I don't stay mad,

1838
01:36:02,360 --> 01:36:07,280
Speaker 1: you know, oh fuck, no mad for like a day.

1839
01:36:08,240 --> 01:36:09,439
Speaker 1: That's a long time.

1840
01:36:10,080 --> 01:36:11,080
Speaker 2: That's not a long time.

1841
01:36:11,200 --> 01:36:14,080
Speaker 1: I don't stay mad for hours. Like It'll be like

1842
01:36:14,200 --> 01:36:18,479
Speaker 1: hours later and I'll be like, okay, hey girl drinks. No, no,

1843
01:36:18,640 --> 01:36:21,880
Speaker 1: you're bad. I'll see you them all. No, you'll be

1844
01:36:21,960 --> 01:36:25,559
Speaker 1: like BD, y'all see you next Wednesday. Possibly you be mad.

1845
01:36:25,840 --> 01:36:28,120
Speaker 1: I don't be mad. I'm not mad, but like, like,

1846
01:36:28,280 --> 01:36:32,200
Speaker 1: get away from me, not you, just people in general. No,

1847
01:36:32,320 --> 01:36:35,559
Speaker 1: me too, just people in general. No, not you. I've

1848
01:36:35,680 --> 01:36:37,320
Speaker 1: learned so like I.

1849
01:36:37,360 --> 01:36:39,439
Speaker 2: Know you though, do you see that's a thought of mine.

1850
01:36:39,760 --> 01:36:41,759
Speaker 1: I feel like I've talked about that before on the show,

1851
01:36:41,800 --> 01:36:43,880
Speaker 1: like I've gotten into it. My men about the hill

1852
01:36:43,880 --> 01:36:46,559
Speaker 1: of Times. He'd be like, one, think about you. You

1853
01:36:46,680 --> 01:36:49,960
Speaker 1: don't take shit serious, Like it's not you just don't

1854
01:36:50,280 --> 01:36:53,439
Speaker 1: like you think like you think that we can have

1855
01:36:53,479 --> 01:36:57,240
Speaker 1: a conversation. And then because we had the conversation tomorrow

1856
01:36:57,280 --> 01:37:01,080
Speaker 1: we gonna talk and it's like the bad but you

1857
01:37:01,120 --> 01:37:03,000
Speaker 1: know that means like you push stuff under the rood.

1858
01:37:03,080 --> 01:37:06,040
Speaker 1: You know that mean from what's her name? Juicy? And

1859
01:37:06,080 --> 01:37:09,160
Speaker 1: she walked in room, She's like, hey, how y'all doing it.

1860
01:37:09,520 --> 01:37:10,600
Speaker 1: That's you.

1861
01:37:10,600 --> 01:37:12,200
Speaker 2: So it's not that you mean any harm.

1862
01:37:12,240 --> 01:37:14,880
Speaker 1: You just be like, Okay, we talked about it. It's good. Hey,

1863
01:37:15,120 --> 01:37:17,880
Speaker 1: we'll say I mean and let me know if y'all wrong.

1864
01:37:17,880 --> 01:37:19,559
Speaker 1: I would like to say, because people always be lucky,

1865
01:37:19,600 --> 01:37:22,519
Speaker 1: y'all be taking surveys, but who let's take a survey?

1866
01:37:23,120 --> 01:37:30,080
Speaker 1: A Am I wrong? Like I feel like once we

1867
01:37:30,200 --> 01:37:33,080
Speaker 1: have a conversation about some shit, it's over.

1868
01:37:33,240 --> 01:37:37,160
Speaker 2: No, let me process that conversation and let me sit

1869
01:37:37,200 --> 01:37:39,720
Speaker 2: in my feelings of how you made me feel and

1870
01:37:39,760 --> 01:37:40,840
Speaker 2: your reaction to it.

1871
01:37:40,920 --> 01:37:44,880
Speaker 1: Let me process that. That's it.

1872
01:37:45,120 --> 01:37:47,639
Speaker 2: You gotta sit any Yeah, I gotta sit in my emotions.

1873
01:37:47,640 --> 01:37:49,400
Speaker 2: I gotta sit in my feelings and sometimes I gotta

1874
01:37:49,479 --> 01:37:52,000
Speaker 2: let shit go because if I talk to you right now,

1875
01:37:52,040 --> 01:37:58,120
Speaker 2: I'm gonna go off. So let me sit with We know, yeah, I.

1876
01:37:58,120 --> 01:38:00,599
Speaker 1: Go off all the time, but I'm also we know

1877
01:38:01,320 --> 01:38:03,680
Speaker 1: I need a moment. Give me a fucking moment, and

1878
01:38:03,760 --> 01:38:09,519
Speaker 1: I don't go off at all. I just be like, hey, hey, y'all,

1879
01:38:10,400 --> 01:38:13,920
Speaker 1: i'd be like, get them. But you know, whenever people

1880
01:38:13,920 --> 01:38:16,320
Speaker 1: say we don't look quote unquote like like we're in

1881
01:38:16,360 --> 01:38:19,120
Speaker 1: our thirties, I feel like people be wanting to know

1882
01:38:19,160 --> 01:38:25,240
Speaker 1: my skin care regimen effects that I don't give. What

1883
01:38:25,360 --> 01:38:26,840
Speaker 1: is your bob of the week. How do we get

1884
01:38:26,840 --> 01:38:29,080
Speaker 1: on this? Oh? Birds of a feather.

1885
01:38:30,400 --> 01:38:32,280
Speaker 2: At your bob?

1886
01:38:32,880 --> 01:38:36,920
Speaker 1: Yes? Yes, Oh well okay, it's gonna be sisters, I

1887
01:38:36,960 --> 01:38:43,519
Speaker 1: mean my sisters. What's this on my brandy whenever I'm down? Yeah,

1888
01:38:45,280 --> 01:38:49,160
Speaker 1: none of the best friend, that's myself. Okay for the week.

1889
01:38:49,880 --> 01:38:52,160
Speaker 1: I love you. I love you two sister. We haven't

1890
01:38:52,160 --> 01:38:54,240
Speaker 1: been through a lot. Oh you're gonna make me cry again.

1891
01:38:54,320 --> 01:38:59,920
Speaker 1: Don don't do that. Okay, my bbo Festa eight down.

1892
01:39:01,320 --> 01:39:03,320
Speaker 2: I cannot believe peoples in the comments, like is legs

1893
01:39:03,360 --> 01:39:05,639
Speaker 2: going through something? The one week I was actually happy

1894
01:39:05,880 --> 01:39:07,280
Speaker 2: because they thought that you didn't.

1895
01:39:07,160 --> 01:39:09,040
Speaker 1: Dress up and you weird. That's all I say.

1896
01:39:09,040 --> 01:39:14,320
Speaker 2: First of all, weak asshole. I mean, well, I'm not mean.

1897
01:39:14,479 --> 01:39:18,000
Speaker 1: I'm responding to the what Johnson said and to the

1898
01:39:18,080 --> 01:39:24,080
Speaker 1: hit us. So Grandma, First of all, bitch, I did

1899
01:39:24,200 --> 01:39:28,080
Speaker 1: dress I was more T shirt. You know what.

1900
01:39:29,000 --> 01:39:30,960
Speaker 2: I'm gonna get to my bob. But I'm just over

1901
01:39:31,000 --> 01:39:34,120
Speaker 2: being a bad bitch for Halloween. I ain't never over

1902
01:39:34,160 --> 01:39:36,360
Speaker 2: being a baby relate, I know, I just.

1903
01:39:36,280 --> 01:39:38,320
Speaker 1: Feel like being a bad bitch for Halloween, and like,

1904
01:39:38,800 --> 01:39:47,840
Speaker 1: why you're supposed to be fucking Tommy Pickles. Why is

1905
01:39:47,840 --> 01:39:50,600
Speaker 1: your ass hanging out of your diaper? Bitch? Why is

1906
01:39:50,640 --> 01:39:53,320
Speaker 1: your pussy lip out of your diaper? Why do I

1907
01:39:53,320 --> 01:39:56,519
Speaker 1: see your nipples through your baby shirt? Bitch?

1908
01:39:56,680 --> 01:39:59,680
Speaker 2: First supposed to be Tommy Pickles. Like, I'm just I

1909
01:39:59,800 --> 01:40:01,800
Speaker 2: just like, don't get it twisted. If you're in your

1910
01:40:01,800 --> 01:40:05,080
Speaker 2: twenties whatever, thirties, everybody had fun with it. But when

1911
01:40:05,080 --> 01:40:07,640
Speaker 2: you a bad bitch every day, do something.

1912
01:40:07,360 --> 01:40:10,599
Speaker 1: Outside the bar. Well first and foremost, that's real rich

1913
01:40:10,720 --> 01:40:13,200
Speaker 1: coming from BBL Fester bb.

1914
01:40:13,320 --> 01:40:14,880
Speaker 2: But I wasn't attractive at all.

1915
01:40:14,960 --> 01:40:17,479
Speaker 1: You was though, because your ass was still asked, but

1916
01:40:17,760 --> 01:40:21,160
Speaker 1: because I had to do that. But I covered it

1917
01:40:21,240 --> 01:40:24,760
Speaker 1: up as much as I could. But Fester was still

1918
01:40:24,760 --> 01:40:29,360
Speaker 1: gonna shake a tail fever. I ain't bl Fester was

1919
01:40:29,360 --> 01:40:33,360
Speaker 1: a crazy name because it sounded like a disease festering,

1920
01:40:33,520 --> 01:40:37,000
Speaker 1: anything festering. But like I saidn't sound right. I'm making

1921
01:40:37,040 --> 01:40:39,960
Speaker 1: some challenge to all the batties of the world next Halloween.

1922
01:40:40,080 --> 01:40:44,320
Speaker 1: Do something outside the box, be something really horrifying and scary.

1923
01:40:44,400 --> 01:40:45,360
Speaker 1: Get the booth, bitch.

1924
01:40:46,520 --> 01:40:48,639
Speaker 2: I ain't been a Battie for a long time in Halloween.

1925
01:40:48,640 --> 01:40:49,919
Speaker 2: Oh it's been two years.

1926
01:40:50,240 --> 01:40:52,920
Speaker 1: Because last year, because you was at the schoolgirl and

1927
01:40:52,960 --> 01:40:56,960
Speaker 1: I was like, oh, you had the ass. Oh we

1928
01:40:57,000 --> 01:40:59,000
Speaker 1: went outside, you had the whole ash.

1929
01:40:59,160 --> 01:41:03,720
Speaker 2: That was so lame calling me okay, my bop of

1930
01:41:03,760 --> 01:41:06,040
Speaker 2: the week, y'all know, I love a good TikTok bob because,

1931
01:41:06,080 --> 01:41:07,880
Speaker 2: let me tell you, TikTok will put you on some

1932
01:41:07,960 --> 01:41:12,080
Speaker 2: amazing artists. These are small artists that just post their songs.

1933
01:41:12,120 --> 01:41:14,760
Speaker 2: They happen to go viral. So my bop of the

1934
01:41:14,760 --> 01:41:18,880
Speaker 2: week it's called I Love You I'm Sorry by Gracie Abrams.

1935
01:41:19,360 --> 01:41:21,760
Speaker 2: She's like an indie artist, y'all. This song is so

1936
01:41:21,920 --> 01:41:25,400
Speaker 2: good because I love a good like heartbreak song. I

1937
01:41:25,560 --> 01:41:27,920
Speaker 2: love to sit in my room and listen to good

1938
01:41:28,439 --> 01:41:31,000
Speaker 2: lyrics and good I love girls who play the guitar.

1939
01:41:31,640 --> 01:41:33,640
Speaker 2: It's something about a girl that can pick up a

1940
01:41:33,680 --> 01:41:40,880
Speaker 2: guitar and pluck some strings. That's why I was gonna say,

1941
01:41:40,880 --> 01:41:42,000
Speaker 2: India already need to come back.

1942
01:41:42,000 --> 01:41:46,519
Speaker 1: But she'd be wildling some songs, she be saying some

1943
01:41:46,600 --> 01:41:51,519
Speaker 1: crazy shit. Well what I will say is what was it?

1944
01:41:51,800 --> 01:41:55,280
Speaker 1: Sometimes I camb my head and sometimes I don't hate that.

1945
01:41:55,520 --> 01:41:58,439
Speaker 2: Uh, it's something about women who play the guitar. Doesn't

1946
01:41:58,439 --> 01:42:00,840
Speaker 2: Summer Walker play the guitar, do she?

1947
01:42:01,120 --> 01:42:05,360
Speaker 1: Yes? Yes, I mean it's something about women that play

1948
01:42:05,400 --> 01:42:05,799
Speaker 1: the guitar.

1949
01:42:06,760 --> 01:42:11,160
Speaker 2: They be wilding though any I read is just a

1950
01:42:11,280 --> 01:42:13,800
Speaker 2: mad that's an artist. That's when we used to.

1951
01:42:13,840 --> 01:42:17,840
Speaker 1: Make me a beautiful woman inside, Like, well you don't.

1952
01:42:17,880 --> 01:42:20,559
Speaker 2: You can't say inside you don't know her. You don't

1953
01:42:20,560 --> 01:42:24,639
Speaker 2: know that lady. Well from what I see, but she's

1954
01:42:24,680 --> 01:42:27,479
Speaker 2: beautiful on the outside, beautiful. I loved her. I remember

1955
01:42:27,479 --> 01:42:27,840
Speaker 2: growing up.

1956
01:42:27,880 --> 01:42:30,080
Speaker 1: I'm like, from what I see, I think she is

1957
01:42:30,120 --> 01:42:31,400
Speaker 1: beautiful on the inside.

1958
01:42:31,439 --> 01:42:33,519
Speaker 2: What I seen, she she used to be online wild

1959
01:42:33,560 --> 01:42:37,360
Speaker 2: and that's why I said what I said, the beautiful lady.

1960
01:42:37,360 --> 01:42:39,360
Speaker 2: I used to love her hair and how she would

1961
01:42:39,360 --> 01:42:42,759
Speaker 2: just like have it up and the big ear rings

1962
01:42:42,800 --> 01:42:44,320
Speaker 2: and I was just like, oh my god.

1963
01:42:44,560 --> 01:42:47,800
Speaker 1: And a skin tone like I'm like that was.

1964
01:42:47,800 --> 01:42:49,400
Speaker 2: Like when I used to look at her like that

1965
01:42:49,520 --> 01:42:52,880
Speaker 2: is what like a beautiful woman, Like that's a beautiful woman.

1966
01:42:53,160 --> 01:42:56,960
Speaker 1: So your legs though, don't listen to that part.

1967
01:42:57,479 --> 01:43:01,040
Speaker 2: I see brown skin was a hip Okay, yeah, my

1968
01:43:01,080 --> 01:43:01,639
Speaker 2: bop of the week.

1969
01:43:01,680 --> 01:43:02,000
Speaker 1: I love you.

1970
01:43:02,040 --> 01:43:02,880
Speaker 2: I'm sorry. Gracie A.

1971
01:43:03,000 --> 01:43:03,280
Speaker 1: Rooms.

1972
01:43:03,280 --> 01:43:05,280
Speaker 2: It's like going crazy on TikTok and it's such a

1973
01:43:05,280 --> 01:43:07,280
Speaker 2: good song. It's like a little indie song. So I

1974
01:43:07,280 --> 01:43:11,000
Speaker 2: think y'all all like it. Okay, you know what I had? No,

1975
01:43:11,320 --> 01:43:13,640
Speaker 2: we're not doing this. Let's right, Okay, real quick, I

1976
01:43:13,680 --> 01:43:14,439
Speaker 2: gotta go to Brazil.

1977
01:43:14,600 --> 01:43:19,280
Speaker 1: This is my sorry for two thousand and four and

1978
01:43:19,479 --> 01:43:21,519
Speaker 1: nine on a mess of no More.

1979
01:43:22,920 --> 01:43:27,599
Speaker 2: This year, I'm gonna say my home time to make

1980
01:43:27,640 --> 01:43:28,240
Speaker 2: it real.

1981
01:43:28,560 --> 01:43:34,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm sorry. I'm sorry, but Jue, I'm sorry, but

1982
01:43:34,160 --> 01:43:41,559
Speaker 1: you lie. I'm sorry in case I don't well that

1983
01:43:41,560 --> 01:43:43,639
Speaker 1: that song that you had reminded me of that because

1984
01:43:43,640 --> 01:43:45,479
Speaker 1: it was like, I love you, I'm sorry. And I

1985
01:43:45,520 --> 01:43:48,000
Speaker 1: was like, what about Ruben Study? Somebody said on Twitter

1986
01:43:48,080 --> 01:43:51,000
Speaker 1: the other day and I concur They said, Rupert Study

1987
01:43:51,040 --> 01:43:52,960
Speaker 1: it ain't nothing. I mean, rod Wave ain't nothing.

1988
01:43:53,000 --> 01:43:56,000
Speaker 2: But why was I gett my lashes done? Shout out

1989
01:43:56,000 --> 01:43:58,240
Speaker 2: to Jay? I started get my lashes done again and

1990
01:43:58,320 --> 01:44:00,600
Speaker 2: she was playing rod Wave. I'm like, what are you

1991
01:44:00,680 --> 01:44:01,600
Speaker 2: so angry?

1992
01:44:02,000 --> 01:44:05,160
Speaker 1: They was like Ridewave ain't nothing but room and studded remastered.

1993
01:44:05,360 --> 01:44:11,200
Speaker 1: He said the circle and people came over, but no

1994
01:44:11,240 --> 01:44:15,120
Speaker 1: one was but it was all for and the young

1995
01:44:15,200 --> 01:44:19,000
Speaker 1: kids be like and it was all fun road Wave

1996
01:44:19,760 --> 01:44:22,080
Speaker 1: and will be over here. Like when he was sitting

1997
01:44:22,080 --> 01:44:24,439
Speaker 1: on the stage and he was in that house and

1998
01:44:24,439 --> 01:44:25,640
Speaker 1: he fell backwards.

1999
01:44:26,880 --> 01:44:28,639
Speaker 2: I said, move on that mattress.

2000
01:44:29,040 --> 01:44:33,400
Speaker 1: You need say that. See niggas was laughing. Dre was like,

2001
01:44:34,280 --> 01:44:39,240
Speaker 1: let me call. I'm telling y'all any any wrong move

2002
01:44:39,320 --> 01:44:45,519
Speaker 1: legs make I'd be like, hey girl, how you doing?

2003
01:44:45,520 --> 01:44:49,760
Speaker 2: And hay, okay, okay, But shout out to rod Wave

2004
01:44:49,800 --> 01:44:53,080
Speaker 2: because you know what rod Wave like. You know what

2005
01:44:53,160 --> 01:44:58,840
Speaker 2: rod Wave is. No, No, he's not. Road Wave is

2006
01:44:58,920 --> 01:45:03,759
Speaker 2: just an intern national or global or national. Zero Zero

2007
01:45:04,960 --> 01:45:08,040
Speaker 2: chose to be a huge cause he's Zero is content.

2008
01:45:08,080 --> 01:45:11,479
Speaker 2: He like fans music, and he chose to stay in

2009
01:45:11,560 --> 01:45:14,320
Speaker 2: Houston and to stay you know, in the southern regions.

2010
01:45:14,360 --> 01:45:17,320
Speaker 2: But people love Zero all around the world. But he

2011
01:45:17,439 --> 01:45:20,040
Speaker 2: chose not to take that route of being a literally

2012
01:45:20,040 --> 01:45:22,920
Speaker 2: global superstar because he wanted to do Ship his way.

2013
01:45:23,240 --> 01:45:25,400
Speaker 1: I know Zero is a real nigga.

2014
01:45:25,400 --> 01:45:28,439
Speaker 2: Who's he know that real depression Roadway be a little

2015
01:45:28,479 --> 01:45:29,000
Speaker 2: fake with it.

2016
01:45:29,680 --> 01:45:35,120
Speaker 1: Row and Trey as wholes of my nation, no doubt.

2017
01:45:35,760 --> 01:45:43,520
Speaker 1: Tell me you.

2018
01:45:40,560 --> 01:45:46,080
Speaker 2: When not hold Minna lay with that ship.

2019
01:45:47,000 --> 01:45:52,599
Speaker 1: I hate you, Beach. I hate you, Beach. I never

2020
01:45:52,720 --> 01:45:56,479
Speaker 1: thought I say I hate you big like.

2021
01:45:56,600 --> 01:45:59,639
Speaker 2: That's a real depressed nigga roadway time.

2022
01:46:00,000 --> 01:46:02,599
Speaker 1: That's a time I don't want to grind for you clean.

2023
01:46:03,320 --> 01:46:09,040
Speaker 1: That's what I'm trying to do, the y'all and mom man,

2024
01:46:10,320 --> 01:46:13,720
Speaker 1: trying to do all that I can, but you like

2025
01:46:13,760 --> 01:46:22,120
Speaker 1: you ain't up. Y'all, niggas don't have to fuck with

2026
01:46:22,560 --> 01:46:32,320
Speaker 1: me because I can do bed just being one deep

2027
01:46:33,240 --> 01:46:36,519
Speaker 1: that y'all. Niggas ain't got to fuck with me. That's

2028
01:46:36,560 --> 01:46:37,280
Speaker 1: how that nigga was.

2029
01:46:37,240 --> 01:46:39,400
Speaker 2: Like, I don't fuck with y'all, and that's how they.

2030
01:46:39,360 --> 01:46:42,559
Speaker 1: Feeling about you, niggas my whole life. That's why you

2031
01:46:42,640 --> 01:46:45,120
Speaker 1: was biting niggas. Tell them that's why I was by you.

2032
01:46:45,160 --> 01:46:46,519
Speaker 1: Niggas gotta fuck with me.

2033
01:46:46,840 --> 01:46:49,559
Speaker 2: So yes, shout out to no and this is no

2034
01:46:49,640 --> 01:46:50,960
Speaker 2: shape to road wave. I was joking.

2035
01:46:51,040 --> 01:46:51,600
Speaker 1: Rod wave is.

2036
01:46:52,560 --> 01:46:55,519
Speaker 2: These are amazing artists, amazing artists, but I do feel like,

2037
01:46:55,920 --> 01:46:58,000
Speaker 2: you know, rod wave is like the new age Zero.

2038
01:46:58,800 --> 01:47:01,400
Speaker 2: If you really listen to zero music, if you are

2039
01:47:01,520 --> 01:47:04,320
Speaker 2: a young press, if you're a young person and you

2040
01:47:04,400 --> 01:47:07,200
Speaker 2: love rod Wave, go listen to Zero. I guarantee you'll

2041
01:47:07,240 --> 01:47:07,479
Speaker 2: like it.

2042
01:47:07,760 --> 01:47:10,360
Speaker 1: We putting y'all like, seriously, we're putting y'all on some

2043
01:47:10,400 --> 01:47:13,960
Speaker 1: new shit. Go listen. If you love for our wave,

2044
01:47:14,040 --> 01:47:15,559
Speaker 1: you gonna love zero.

2045
01:47:15,640 --> 01:47:21,439
Speaker 2: Love it love forty five. That was a lot of lighters.

2046
01:47:21,479 --> 01:47:23,560
Speaker 1: Bitch, well, bitch where you got some?

2047
01:47:23,680 --> 01:47:26,439
Speaker 2: Twenty twenty five was alike, but you.

2048
01:47:26,400 --> 01:47:30,719
Speaker 1: Said some of them happened to that because time.

2049
01:47:30,800 --> 01:47:32,160
Speaker 2: First of all, she played wine.

2050
01:47:33,120 --> 01:47:35,240
Speaker 1: It's top fall. I get it. I know it is

2051
01:47:35,280 --> 01:47:41,400
Speaker 1: her fault tie Why why talk? Why Emony? Why have

2052
01:47:41,560 --> 01:47:44,320
Speaker 1: y'all a Sugarl XP and it's Sugarl dre and the

2053
01:47:44,400 --> 01:47:45,400
Speaker 1: call y'all know.

2054
01:47:45,439 --> 01:47:48,040
Speaker 2: We have a segment on Poor Minds called Item of

2055
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Speaker 2: the Week. But do you have a product or something

2056
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Speaker 2: that you want to promote and you want it featured

2057
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Speaker 2: on Poor Minds.

2058
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Speaker 1: Your opportunity is here period. If you have an item

2059
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Speaker 1: or you have a business and you want to get

2060
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Speaker 1: it promoted, we are now having's available one the Poor

2061
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Speaker 1: Minds episode. So if you would like to get your

2062
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Speaker 1: product featured for Item of the Week, all you need

2063
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Speaker 1: to do is send an email to Item of the

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Speaker 1: Week PM at gmail dot com. That's I T E

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Speaker 1: M O F T H E W E E k

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Speaker 1: PM at gmail dot com. Send us an email and

2067
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Speaker 1: your product, get your business sponsored, and yeah, make you

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Speaker 2: We love to more a small business man.

2071
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Speaker 1: And a black business at that, but I mean a

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Speaker 2: There all right by y'all read one today so we

2090
01:49:38,560 --> 01:49:40,680
Speaker 2: can wrap this up. I gotta go to Brazil.

2091
01:49:41,200 --> 01:49:45,519
Speaker 1: Who he right legs Heylex Andrea.

2092
01:49:45,680 --> 01:49:47,759
Speaker 2: First of all, thank you both so much for everything

2093
01:49:47,760 --> 01:49:50,120
Speaker 2: you do with your show. You both truly make me

2094
01:49:50,160 --> 01:49:52,439
Speaker 2: feel seen, make me laugh, and make me feel included

2095
01:49:52,479 --> 01:49:55,240
Speaker 2: as a black woman, and I love y'all down. So

2096
01:49:55,280 --> 01:49:56,920
Speaker 2: I'm gonna try to make this short, but it's a

2097
01:49:56,960 --> 01:49:57,600
Speaker 2: toughee to me.

2098
01:49:58,000 --> 01:49:58,439
Speaker 1: Lol.

2099
01:49:58,800 --> 01:50:02,160
Speaker 2: So I have a male best friend since middle school.

2100
01:50:02,240 --> 01:50:04,679
Speaker 2: We've been knowing each other for maybe seventeen years now.

2101
01:50:05,000 --> 01:50:07,280
Speaker 2: Like all friendships, we've had our ups and downs and

2102
01:50:07,280 --> 01:50:09,479
Speaker 2: phases where we're closer at times than others.

2103
01:50:09,760 --> 01:50:12,240
Speaker 1: Lately we've been in a good place, but I can't

2104
01:50:12,240 --> 01:50:15,599
Speaker 1: help the fact that sometimes he irritates these shit out

2105
01:50:15,640 --> 01:50:18,880
Speaker 1: of me with his flamboyance and sometimes as if he

2106
01:50:18,880 --> 01:50:21,639
Speaker 1: doesn't make an effort to be happy or pour into

2107
01:50:21,720 --> 01:50:24,640
Speaker 1: me as I do him. Let me give you some examples.

2108
01:50:24,760 --> 01:50:26,960
Speaker 1: We live in two different states, so when we talk

2109
01:50:27,000 --> 01:50:29,360
Speaker 1: on the phone, it's about work and our social life.

2110
01:50:29,439 --> 01:50:31,960
Speaker 2: And I know his manhood and confidence is low. So

2111
01:50:32,000 --> 01:50:34,040
Speaker 2: I always make it a point to uplift him and

2112
01:50:34,120 --> 01:50:37,800
Speaker 2: validate him and congratulate him on his work, accomplishments and

2113
01:50:38,120 --> 01:50:41,080
Speaker 2: adversities that he has. But I feel like he doesn't

2114
01:50:41,080 --> 01:50:43,680
Speaker 2: return the favor, Like when he was interviewing for an

2115
01:50:43,720 --> 01:50:47,679
Speaker 2: assistant director position for months. I listened and validated him

2116
01:50:48,040 --> 01:50:50,599
Speaker 2: and even helped him interview prep. But when I tell

2117
01:50:50,680 --> 01:50:54,479
Speaker 2: him about my work, adversities or accomplishments, he's very dry

2118
01:50:54,720 --> 01:50:58,400
Speaker 2: and doesn't inquire. More then, the masculinity thing is so

2119
01:50:58,560 --> 01:51:02,160
Speaker 2: frustrating because he says he's not gay but hasn't had

2120
01:51:02,200 --> 01:51:05,120
Speaker 2: sex in eight years. He has piercings all over and

2121
01:51:05,200 --> 01:51:08,759
Speaker 2: carries himself like a woman with his mannerisms, hand moveings,

2122
01:51:08,800 --> 01:51:11,040
Speaker 2: and even the way he touches himself or looks in

2123
01:51:11,080 --> 01:51:14,160
Speaker 2: the mirror or inquires about his clothes. My question is,

2124
01:51:14,360 --> 01:51:16,439
Speaker 2: am I just being a bitch and not accepting him?

2125
01:51:16,640 --> 01:51:18,400
Speaker 2: Can you give me ways to find out how to

2126
01:51:18,439 --> 01:51:20,240
Speaker 2: accept him a bit more? Or should I just put

2127
01:51:20,240 --> 01:51:23,160
Speaker 2: boundaries in place? Hope to hear back? Love y'all so bad?

2128
01:51:23,520 --> 01:51:25,439
Speaker 1: I'm by I was with you with egones and you

2129
01:51:25,439 --> 01:51:26,880
Speaker 1: can gonna get the hell I was with you in

2130
01:51:26,920 --> 01:51:30,439
Speaker 1: the first half, but you was being real with you

2131
01:51:30,479 --> 01:51:31,240
Speaker 1: in the first half.

2132
01:51:31,280 --> 01:51:35,040
Speaker 2: But that last part rubbed me the wrong way because

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Speaker 2: who cares that he has feminine mannerisms, he has piercings,

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01:51:38,840 --> 01:51:41,080
Speaker 2: he hasn't had sex. Let him be comfortable and when

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01:51:41,080 --> 01:51:43,400
Speaker 2: he's ready to talk to you about whatever it is,

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01:51:44,720 --> 01:51:46,840
Speaker 2: y'all have to learn how to be better friends. I

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01:51:46,880 --> 01:51:50,280
Speaker 2: will say this this The reason that I said what

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01:51:50,360 --> 01:51:52,759
Speaker 2: I said initially is because if you don't like it,

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01:51:52,880 --> 01:51:54,360
Speaker 2: just stop being his friend.

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01:51:54,720 --> 01:51:57,400
Speaker 1: You're well? Is that like you asking us like how

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01:51:57,400 --> 01:52:00,760
Speaker 1: should you navigate the situation? Bitch? If you don't want

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01:52:00,760 --> 01:52:02,479
Speaker 1: to be friends with him, if you don't like all

2143
01:52:02,520 --> 01:52:06,080
Speaker 1: of these things, this laundry lease of things, stop being

2144
01:52:06,120 --> 01:52:08,760
Speaker 1: this nigga friend like you ain't gotta beat nobody forcing you,

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01:52:08,880 --> 01:52:16,559
Speaker 1: nobody forcing me, Zero or or ay. First things first,

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01:52:16,600 --> 01:52:20,639
Speaker 1: I'm quing goo to ghetto. I say first things first

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01:52:20,640 --> 01:52:24,320
Speaker 1: on Marollas, Okay, you know Zero said first things first,

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01:52:24,360 --> 01:52:25,479
Speaker 1: I'm the king good to ghetto.

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01:52:25,640 --> 01:52:28,920
Speaker 2: First days. First off's what do it first?

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Speaker 1: Mitch? I don't know because that's biggie. What's the song?

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01:52:31,720 --> 01:52:35,240
Speaker 1: First things first? I feaks all the honey that's what

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01:52:35,280 --> 01:52:38,800
Speaker 1: it is. Mom time wanting money? Those the ones I

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01:52:38,880 --> 01:52:41,839
Speaker 1: like because they don't get a Nathan but penetration unless

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01:52:41,840 --> 01:52:47,280
Speaker 1: it smells like sanitation, black and ugly as ever, however,

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01:52:47,520 --> 01:52:50,880
Speaker 1: I say, cut you down to the song. Oh okay,

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01:52:50,960 --> 01:52:55,240
Speaker 1: Like no, I just feel like, what the fuck is

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01:52:55,240 --> 01:52:59,599
Speaker 1: wrong with people like y'all. I love y'all for real,

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01:53:00,000 --> 01:53:01,960
Speaker 1: shout out some money, girl, come on the show.

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01:53:04,560 --> 01:53:05,679
Speaker 2: I love y'all for real.

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01:53:06,280 --> 01:53:09,720
Speaker 1: But when y'all be writing us sometimes I'd be like,

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01:53:10,600 --> 01:53:14,400
Speaker 1: do you really need advice on this? Like you what's

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01:53:14,880 --> 01:53:18,400
Speaker 1: best for you? Well, no, if you need a little guidance,

2163
01:53:18,439 --> 01:53:21,040
Speaker 1: So I'll say this if you don't like this, But

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01:53:21,080 --> 01:53:23,200
Speaker 1: if you don't like this, but she it seems like

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01:53:23,240 --> 01:53:24,840
Speaker 1: she loves him because they've been friends for so long,

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01:53:24,880 --> 01:53:26,880
Speaker 1: So let me say this, but you don't because all

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01:53:26,960 --> 01:53:28,040
Speaker 1: that extra sheet.

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01:53:28,040 --> 01:53:30,240
Speaker 2: But the first half.

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01:53:30,280 --> 01:53:32,479
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie. If I'm talking to a friend

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01:53:32,479 --> 01:53:34,920
Speaker 1: and they don't inquire what I have going on, I'm

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01:53:34,960 --> 01:53:37,400
Speaker 1: gonna say, like, honestly, I feel like I'm always pouring

2172
01:53:37,439 --> 01:53:40,400
Speaker 1: into you and you don't give that back. Tell him,

2173
01:53:40,840 --> 01:53:42,000
Speaker 1: tell him how you feel.

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01:53:42,200 --> 01:53:45,240
Speaker 2: If nothing changes, set a boundary, and if nothing changes

2175
01:53:45,240 --> 01:53:48,240
Speaker 2: from that cut him off. But now I do disagree

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01:53:48,280 --> 01:53:51,679
Speaker 2: with you as far as how he dresses, piercings.

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01:53:51,680 --> 01:53:53,760
Speaker 1: Who cares if he's gay or not? That doesn't his

2178
01:53:53,880 --> 01:53:55,000
Speaker 1: sexuality doesn't matter.

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01:53:55,040 --> 01:53:55,800
Speaker 2: Are you fucking him?

2180
01:53:55,840 --> 01:53:58,880
Speaker 1: No? Who cares? But that's the point that I was

2181
01:53:58,880 --> 01:54:02,320
Speaker 1: about to make. I would never write an email to

2182
01:54:02,360 --> 01:54:05,439
Speaker 1: somebody asking for advice on my friendship and and being like, yeah,

2183
01:54:05,479 --> 01:54:07,519
Speaker 1: but you know, she don't fuck mad niggas or she

2184
01:54:07,560 --> 01:54:10,200
Speaker 1: don't need X, Y and Z. Why is that like

2185
01:54:10,240 --> 01:54:15,599
Speaker 1: a pre Rick Withe? Why is this Kelsey? Why did

2186
01:54:15,600 --> 01:54:17,280
Speaker 1: you put that in? Why did you put that in

2187
01:54:17,320 --> 01:54:21,200
Speaker 1: the message to begin with? Because his sexual orientation and

2188
01:54:21,240 --> 01:54:24,479
Speaker 1: what he liked, it's not gonna make me and Licks

2189
01:54:24,560 --> 01:54:27,040
Speaker 1: make a different like you know what I mean, It's

2190
01:54:27,080 --> 01:54:29,479
Speaker 1: not gonna have It's not gonna make us form a

2191
01:54:29,520 --> 01:54:32,880
Speaker 1: different opinion about the situation. One thing I always say, right,

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01:54:34,120 --> 01:54:37,000
Speaker 1: And it's so funny because I feel like as the

2193
01:54:37,040 --> 01:54:39,400
Speaker 1: show has evolved, I too have evolved because we don't

2194
01:54:39,400 --> 01:54:42,320
Speaker 1: get these comments anymore. I used to always tell people

2195
01:54:42,800 --> 01:54:45,800
Speaker 1: lead that nigga lead that situation like that was always

2196
01:54:45,840 --> 01:54:49,480
Speaker 1: my advice. I feel that way still though I feel

2197
01:54:49,480 --> 01:54:54,480
Speaker 1: like now I try to give more of depths. Yeah,

2198
01:54:54,600 --> 01:54:57,880
Speaker 1: more of an in depth analysis, an in depth response.

2199
01:54:58,360 --> 01:55:03,000
Speaker 1: But I truly feel like people's number one problem is

2200
01:55:03,080 --> 01:55:05,840
Speaker 1: like y'all be acting like y'all so afraid to leave

2201
01:55:05,920 --> 01:55:09,280
Speaker 1: situations that no longer serve you if you feel all

2202
01:55:09,280 --> 01:55:11,200
Speaker 1: of these ways, because I feel like all of that

2203
01:55:11,280 --> 01:55:14,240
Speaker 1: stuff that you said, and since I fuck with you,

2204
01:55:14,400 --> 01:55:16,760
Speaker 1: I appreciate the fact that you're a listener of the show,

2205
01:55:17,000 --> 01:55:19,240
Speaker 1: but sometimes I feel like y'all just need you real advice.

2206
01:55:19,840 --> 01:55:22,160
Speaker 1: You said all of that and then you brought it

2207
01:55:22,240 --> 01:55:27,880
Speaker 1: down to like his sexual orienta. I kind of just

2208
01:55:27,920 --> 01:55:29,760
Speaker 1: feel like you don't even really want to be friends

2209
01:55:29,760 --> 01:55:31,640
Speaker 1: with him, you know how you feel like y'all have

2210
01:55:31,760 --> 01:55:34,680
Speaker 1: had a long standing relationship, so like, let me work

2211
01:55:34,680 --> 01:55:38,040
Speaker 1: this out. That doesn't matter if it doesn't serve you anymore.

2212
01:55:38,920 --> 01:55:40,880
Speaker 2: You know, you know you don't like somebody no more

2213
01:55:41,120 --> 01:55:44,560
Speaker 2: when literally like everything and it gets on your nerves.

2214
01:55:44,560 --> 01:55:46,280
Speaker 2: They can say, hey, and it gets on your nerve.

2215
01:55:46,360 --> 01:55:47,720
Speaker 2: You don't like him no more because you're talking about

2216
01:55:47,760 --> 01:55:50,560
Speaker 2: his mannerisms. I can't help my mannerisms. This is who

2217
01:55:50,600 --> 01:55:52,640
Speaker 2: I am, it's me. But just reevaluate that.

2218
01:55:52,640 --> 01:55:55,160
Speaker 1: Friendship and I think you need to take an exit.

2219
01:55:55,520 --> 01:55:59,440
Speaker 1: I think all right, y'all.

2220
01:55:59,480 --> 01:56:03,000
Speaker 2: Go to music Collection dot com. Lovelexp dropping soon, Drea's

2221
01:56:03,040 --> 01:56:04,240
Speaker 2: YouTube dropping soon, Dre.

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01:56:04,200 --> 01:56:04,600
Speaker 1: And the Car.

2223
01:56:06,920 --> 01:56:10,400
Speaker 2: Follow poor Minds. We're going on tour soon. Dates dropping soon.

2224
01:56:11,080 --> 01:56:14,560
Speaker 2: Go to Patreon dot com backslash poor Minds. New episodes

2225
01:56:14,600 --> 01:56:19,920
Speaker 2: drop every Monday. Early episodes drop on Wednesday. And yeah,

2226
01:56:19,960 --> 01:56:22,000
Speaker 2: we have a lot of good stuff cooking up for y'all,

2227
01:56:22,040 --> 01:56:23,360
Speaker 2: and I love y'all.

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01:56:23,920 --> 01:56:24,160
Speaker 1: Y'all.

2229
01:56:24,200 --> 01:56:28,920
Speaker 2: Make sure y'all share the content, like subscribe, follow all

2230
01:56:28,960 --> 01:56:30,520
Speaker 2: that good stuff. And let me say this before we

2231
01:56:30,560 --> 01:56:34,600
Speaker 2: close out, y'all. There is one Twitter account that is

2232
01:56:34,640 --> 01:56:38,560
Speaker 2: connected to poor Minds. It's p O you are underscore

2233
01:56:39,000 --> 01:56:42,760
Speaker 2: in my nds. Y'all are tagging the wrong poor Minds page.

2234
01:56:42,960 --> 01:56:45,480
Speaker 2: If you see at poor Minds with no underscore, that

2235
01:56:45,560 --> 01:56:46,320
Speaker 2: is at fake page.

2236
01:56:46,360 --> 01:56:47,480
Speaker 1: Do not follow that page.

2237
01:56:47,520 --> 01:56:51,480
Speaker 2: Okay, they block me Andrea and the poor Minds page

2238
01:56:51,520 --> 01:56:56,080
Speaker 2: on both so we only have one Instagram, one Twitter

2239
01:56:56,880 --> 01:57:00,280
Speaker 2: one TikTok AND's p O you are underscore were in

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01:57:00,320 --> 01:57:01,200
Speaker 2: my nds all.

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01:57:01,200 --> 01:57:04,480
Speaker 1: Right, and we gotta hell a fake Facebook page on

2242
01:57:04,600 --> 01:57:07,720
Speaker 1: the Facebook pages. It's our face. The crazy thing is

2243
01:57:07,800 --> 01:57:10,960
Speaker 1: our Facebook page. Actually have the least amount of file sports,

2244
01:57:11,000 --> 01:57:13,520
Speaker 1: So if you're on face, the one that's ours got

2245
01:57:13,520 --> 01:57:15,600
Speaker 1: the least amount of file, but the one that's not

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01:57:15,800 --> 01:57:18,760
Speaker 1: us got like two hundred and fifty. Thou make if

2247
01:57:18,800 --> 01:57:20,920
Speaker 1: you actually look at the content, because the caption is

2248
01:57:20,960 --> 01:57:23,880
Speaker 1: like whoever it is, don't speak English, because their captures

2249
01:57:23,920 --> 01:57:27,120
Speaker 1: are like bumba Claude, should men? Should men pay bill?

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01:57:28,280 --> 01:57:29,640
Speaker 1: Should men pay bill? Yes?

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01:57:29,720 --> 01:57:36,920
Speaker 2: No? Check answer below block blocky Like that's literally what

2252
01:57:37,000 --> 01:57:37,560
Speaker 2: the captions?

2253
01:57:37,720 --> 01:57:39,280
Speaker 1: I'm like, what that DG is?

2254
01:57:39,360 --> 01:57:41,880
Speaker 2: Bumba Claude, bumba claud who.

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01:57:46,560 --> 01:57:58,440
Speaker 1: Caught in a barrel mash caught in a man ra

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01:58:00,520 --> 01:58:09,200
Speaker 1: row my rub my mother, God wat man ro rub

2257
01:58:09,280 --> 01:58:17,160
Speaker 1: my mother. I want your uglad. I want y'all to say.

2258
01:58:18,440 --> 01:58:21,280
Speaker 2: I want y'all everything as long as it's free.

2259
01:58:21,480 --> 01:58:26,040
Speaker 1: I want you a lie, live, live love. I want you.

2260
01:58:31,040 --> 01:58:35,160
Speaker 2: I want your drama, the touch of your hair, I

2261
01:58:35,280 --> 01:58:37,960
Speaker 2: want your leather started kissing the side.

2262
01:58:38,120 --> 01:58:42,840
Speaker 1: I want you all love, love love, I watch all

2263
01:58:42,880 --> 01:58:45,960
Speaker 1: live pen Israela.

2264
01:58:47,200 --> 01:58:49,240
Speaker 2: You know that I want you.

2265
01:58:49,240 --> 01:58:56,480
Speaker 1: You know that I need you. Oh your love it.

2266
01:58:56,760 --> 01:58:59,760
Speaker 1: I want your revenge. You and me can have a

2267
01:59:00,440 --> 01:59:06,360
Speaker 1: row man. How watch your love he loves revenge. You

2268
01:59:06,520 --> 01:59:09,080
Speaker 1: and me could have a bedroom man.

2269
01:59:15,200 --> 01:59:25,160
Speaker 2: Call in a bedroom man, Oh, call in a barrel.

2270
01:59:24,960 --> 01:59:34,920
Speaker 1: Man, raw roman was a broom man.

2271
01:59:35,520 --> 01:59:39,960
Speaker 2: How watch your horror? I watch all lie cut your

2272
01:59:40,120 --> 01:59:42,440
Speaker 2: rock crab my not as long as your mine.

2273
01:59:42,640 --> 01:59:47,160
Speaker 1: I want you all live, live, live love, I watch

2274
01:59:47,200 --> 01:59:50,480
Speaker 1: all live. Yeah.

2275
01:59:51,640 --> 01:59:56,360
Speaker 2: How want your cyga, your verder Costaire Hock. Want your

2276
01:59:56,480 --> 01:59:59,760
Speaker 2: my row window. Baby you're sick. I want your live

2277
02:00:00,080 --> 02:00:02,720
Speaker 2: Oh love, love love.

2278
02:00:02,800 --> 02:00:10,280
Speaker 1: I want your love. Yeah, you know you know that

2279
02:00:10,360 --> 02:00:15,400
Speaker 1: I need you. I want it bad, your bad romance Israel.

2280
02:00:15,880 --> 02:00:19,160
Speaker 2: I want your loveing now want your revenge. You with

2281
02:00:19,400 --> 02:00:21,720
Speaker 2: me could have a bed romance.

2282
02:00:24,000 --> 02:00:27,080
Speaker 1: I want your love man, now want your revenge. You

2283
02:00:27,240 --> 02:00:27,600
Speaker 1: with me?

2284
02:00:28,240 --> 02:00:31,360
Speaker 2: Ride a bellman, It's all right.

2285
02:00:31,840 --> 02:00:47,440
Speaker 3: Oh, card in a barrow man, card in a barrow man.

2286
02:00:47,920 --> 02:00:54,400
Speaker 4: Horrah Rama, run my mock god god la la want

2287
02:00:54,480 --> 02:00:59,959
Speaker 4: your barrol mass roll rub my ma rama, run my mock.

2288
02:01:01,520 --> 02:01:06,720
Speaker 2: Laa watch your barron mask walk fashion baby working move

2289
02:01:06,800 --> 02:01:10,760
Speaker 2: that bitch is crazy walk walk fashion baby working move

2290
02:01:10,840 --> 02:01:15,000
Speaker 2: that bitch is crazy walk fashion baby working move.

2291
02:01:14,880 --> 02:01:18,480
Speaker 1: That bitch is crazy walk walk passion baby working.

2292
02:01:18,680 --> 02:01:20,280
Speaker 2: I'm a free bitch, baby.

2293
02:01:21,000 --> 02:01:25,160
Speaker 1: I want your love. A watch your rip band. I

2294
02:01:25,200 --> 02:01:30,040
Speaker 1: don't know how this spark goes. Huh, just to them all,

2295
02:01:30,120 --> 02:01:33,320
Speaker 1: that's just to fashit. That's your foe, shitty. Just suit

2296
02:01:33,400 --> 02:01:36,120
Speaker 1: them on. I don't want to be Roun.

2297
02:01:38,680 --> 02:01:46,400
Speaker 4: What of for Roun Man, Watch out for Roun, Watch

2298
02:01:46,480 --> 02:01:47,760
Speaker 4: up for Roun.

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02:01:48,440 --> 02:01:52,640
Speaker 1: We love you, You're amazing. Watch for Roun. You signed

2300
02:01:52,640 --> 02:01:55,800
Speaker 1: my boob period? We ate that a real bad See

2301
02:01:55,840 --> 02:01:59,360
Speaker 1: y'all next week. I broke my dress, I broke my draft.

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Speaker 1: Yeah they right now is bing bing bing