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Speaker 1: Oh hey everyone, welcome to adulting. I'm Michelle Bute.

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Speaker 2: And I'm Jordan Carlos and I couldn't be happier than

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Speaker 2: to be exchanging here with my bestie Michelle.

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Speaker 3: You look nice and stripes, buddy, Thank you.

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Speaker 4: I try.

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Speaker 1: You know what, it's got to be the vertical, not

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Speaker 1: the horizontal, especially with the tatas. It's just it is

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Speaker 1: what it is, Okay, you guys, just give me a

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Speaker 1: pecking okay, please traveling And now people are starting to

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Speaker 1: like know me and want to take pictures with me,

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Speaker 1: which is very nice, but like I always got to

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Speaker 1: like have a light beat and like something nice on

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Speaker 1: which I'm not used to right, And this is by

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Speaker 1: no means like we are not getting money for this

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Speaker 1: advertisement because I'm not even like mentioning like a specific brand,

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Speaker 1: but I hate ironing so much. But these steamers have

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Speaker 1: saved my life. And now there's traveling steamers. You know,

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Speaker 1: when you steam your clothes, I always like picture a

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Speaker 1: steamer with like a big wardrobe person and you have

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Speaker 1: to like move in like very big. But now you

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Speaker 1: can just like pack a steamer. And I'm just like

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Speaker 1: I want a lot of steamers. I want them I do.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, And this is like one of.

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Speaker 1: My pet peas with comedians on stage is when they're

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Speaker 1: wearing very wrinkled clothes.

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Speaker 3: I'm sorry, I didn't mean to. I will steam my clothes.

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Speaker 2: You used to wear wrinkled clothes a lot, not anymore, yeah,

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Speaker 2: because I was in a linen phase. All right, So

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Speaker 2: let me ask you this, like what how big of

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Speaker 2: a steamer are you talking about? You mean, like as

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Speaker 2: big as a dust devil?

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Speaker 1: Ooh, I'm not a size queen when it comes to

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Speaker 1: a steamer, not at all.

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Speaker 4: You could be small and mighty. You can get the

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Speaker 4: job done. Just in my hand. You just fit my

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Speaker 4: hand and got a little carrot at the top.

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Speaker 2: Oh god, all right, listen, I just wonders. I can't

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Speaker 2: believe I'm someone's mother, And doaa is it like the

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Speaker 2: kind that come in the hotel room, the ones that

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Speaker 2: are like in the hotel class?

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Speaker 4: Where do I go from there? Where do I go

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Speaker 4: from there?

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Speaker 2: So you gotta look good out in these streets. I

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Speaker 2: understand a lot.

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Speaker 1: More hotels, especially Boutiqui hotels, are doing steamers as opposed

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Speaker 1: to irons. When you have to call down for the iron,

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Speaker 1: it's like y'all can't even keep it in the room.

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Speaker 1: You just pass the one between the ten rooms. That's

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Speaker 1: too much. Like I hope you wiping that handle.

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Speaker 4: Oh my god.

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Speaker 1: Have you ever like try to iron something and then

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Speaker 1: like there's something stuck to it and now it's all

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Speaker 1: over your shirt?

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Speaker 3: Yes, yes, I've had that happening before.

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Speaker 1: Or like when an iron doesn't iron, that's so fucking frustrating.

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Speaker 1: That's like a vacuum that doesn't pick up, or a

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Speaker 1: comedian that's not funny.

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Speaker 4: I tell you what.

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Speaker 2: I kind of went on a hiatus from ironing, of course,

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Speaker 2: as you know, because what I used to have to

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Speaker 2: do was like ironing was punishment. It was like I

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Speaker 2: had to like iron loads of clothes. I had to

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Speaker 2: iron my church clothes growing up. Yes, oh so it

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Speaker 2: was like triggering.

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Speaker 3: You're like, no, yeah, she was like iron your jeans.

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Speaker 4: Oh is that a Southern thing?

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Speaker 2: I mean there came a moment and sis men straight

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Speaker 2: dude clothing where we went from like wanting a is

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Speaker 2: that a pleat I guess in the front of the pants, yes,

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Speaker 2: to just like we want it flat, we want it flat.

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Speaker 4: Now I think plats.

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Speaker 1: It's such a strong personality choice and growing up going

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Speaker 1: to Catholic school, grade school and high school and not

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Speaker 1: even finding pants in my size and then having to

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Speaker 1: do plats really fucked me up from pleats.

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Speaker 3: And see, we have these associations, that's what it is.

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Speaker 1: And my mom, you know, because Jamaica was colonized by

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Speaker 1: the British, she doesn't say khaki.

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Speaker 4: She says cocky.

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Speaker 1: And staying cocky in Central Jersey to a bunch of

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Speaker 1: twelve year olds is like not how I ever want

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Speaker 1: to live and work. Go to the playground, and she

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Speaker 1: would yell after me, like change your cockies, and I'm

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Speaker 1: just like, but yeah, I mean I see your point.

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Speaker 4: I can not do plaid skirts anymore.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Uh Like I'm down with the button down, but I

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Speaker 2: It's down with the button down, but it's got to

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Speaker 2: be open, Okay. Yeah, yeah, we've moved away from the

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Speaker 2: button down. All my shirts now are like tease, it's casual. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: this is the most buttons I wear these days. I

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Speaker 2: don't know what happened. What happened, Michelle, because I didn't

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Speaker 2: get the memo, I didn't get the email.

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Speaker 4: Life man, I guess it wasn't an email. It was insidious.

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Speaker 3: You know is insidious?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's just like it fucking crept up on us

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Speaker 1: and all of a sudden, there's no buttons.

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Speaker 4: All of a sudden, we're naked.

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Speaker 2: I know.

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Speaker 1: Yo, you guys, if you want to see us do

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Speaker 1: naked comedy, definitely follow us in the pod adulting the

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Speaker 1: pod on Instagram and let us know if you want

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Speaker 1: to come to naked show.

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Speaker 4: People do naked shows. It's a lot.

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Speaker 3: What are you suggesting right now? What are you even saying?

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Speaker 4: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: The caffeine is hitting in weird ways, guys. Let's just

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Speaker 1: get to the live show port this EPI. I'm very excited.

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Speaker 1: Tell them who we got, Jordan, because I clearly am

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Speaker 1: a fucking mess.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna do it because it's three named Julian Shapiro, Barnum.

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Speaker 2: I can't wait for y'all to hear this discussion. It

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Speaker 2: was wonderful.

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Speaker 3: Michelle, Alright, anything to add Michelle, Oh my god?

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Speaker 4: Is he okay? Brooklyn, it's a motherfucking what I will

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Speaker 4: I will also drop it.

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Speaker 2: I love you too, bitch.

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Speaker 3: What's up?

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Speaker 4: What's up? Honey?

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Speaker 3: Oh ship hit those angles?

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Speaker 4: What's up?

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Speaker 3: Brooklyn?

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Speaker 4: Book club. Who the fuck are you on there?

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Speaker 2: I love you, Michelle? Oh my god, what's not to love?

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Speaker 2: What's not to love? Please give it up for DJ

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Speaker 2: don well over here on the words thank you, I

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Speaker 2: was like, I'm lost in your fucking eyes.

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Speaker 4: Hello, John, Will, Hey, gush? How you doing? I'm good,

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Speaker 4: you look good? Thank you?

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Speaker 3: Come on?

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Speaker 4: Did you sleep? I slept? Will? You're like, yeah, you

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Speaker 4: got a sock at eight you got eight hours? What sleep?

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Speaker 2: I went to bed at ten o'clock. So who the

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Speaker 2: fuck in this city you bed? How is that done?

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Speaker 4: Makes noise if you need eight hours? So you can't

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Speaker 4: fink county.

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Speaker 1: Makes some noise if you could do it in six hours.

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Speaker 4: Some grown ut They don't sound as excited.

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Speaker 3: They're definitely I can do a five point five.

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Speaker 4: I can do a five point five. I can do

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Speaker 4: a solid five point.

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Speaker 2: Are you on your computer or your phone in your bed? No,

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Speaker 2: I'm just meditating in the window. I definitely want on TV.

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Speaker 2: I'm watching TV and then at like twelve thirty, I'm

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Speaker 2: like I should go to bed.

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Speaker 4: That's it. You have a TV in your bedroom.

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Speaker 2: I do not have a TV in my bedroom fin shway,

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Speaker 2: and it's it's in the living room, and then I

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Speaker 2: shut that bad boy off. I shut off the TV

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Speaker 2: and the Apple TV because sometimes if you don't shut

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Speaker 2: off the Apple TV, then it plays the.

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Speaker 4: Whole too much, bad, too much, too much, too much.

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Speaker 4: Say you shut then relate. Nobody talks about Apple as

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Speaker 4: much as you do.

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Speaker 2: I know that's not true.

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Speaker 3: Okay, thank you. There's one other person in the crowd.

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Speaker 4: There's another club.

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Speaker 2: No, but I'm so sick of it, Like the Vision Pro.

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Speaker 2: I'm very mad at the Vision Pro.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I can't.

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Speaker 1: I'm wearing keels. We got to talk about something else.

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Speaker 1: I'm so bored. And I have a really cute outfit

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Speaker 1: on Wild Bang. I mean, you know, it is like

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Speaker 1: a fucking plus last episode of Circus Sole when I

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Speaker 1: have to pee.

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Speaker 4: But that's okay. You gotta make sure you put it up.

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Speaker 1: Piano peel on your neck, you know what I mean,

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Speaker 1: aren't you back?

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Speaker 4: I wore this on the airplane one time.

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Speaker 1: I was like, oh, I fucked up, hold it.

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Speaker 4: I was making so much noise. People straight up thought

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Speaker 4: I was like jerking off. I just I don't. I

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Speaker 4: don't want. I don't.

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Speaker 2: I don't like scatological humor, you know, I don't like skaters, scaters.

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Speaker 1: What co I just I love it because it is

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Speaker 1: always giving, Like you know, black mister Rogers, you know

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Speaker 1: what I mean?

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Speaker 3: Wow?

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Speaker 4: Wow, Wow, I'm black mister. I'm black Rogers. I'm black Rogers.

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Speaker 2: Now now I'm like realizing I am black, mister Rogers.

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Speaker 2: I am blacks is like a Meiser technique exercise.

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Speaker 4: I am Jordan. What's good?

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Speaker 1: I haven't seen you since the last show it was

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Speaker 1: told out. We had Vanessa Williams and her daughter Julia Hervey.

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Speaker 1: It was very fucking exciting. Too bad you weren't here.

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Speaker 4: It was a snow day.

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Speaker 3: How did you know that?

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Speaker 4: How brokers ship?

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Speaker 2: She's right, it was a snow day. It was an

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Speaker 2: official snow day in the city of New York.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it was.

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Speaker 2: The mayor said that the kids had to go to

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Speaker 2: school online anyway, right, and may America Eric Adam. We

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Speaker 2: don't like him and not at all, not at all.

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Speaker 2: We can we can come out and just.

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Speaker 3: Say he sucks. I think at this point, what is

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Speaker 3: he doing.

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Speaker 1: He's like the indecisive friend at a restaurant. It's like, bitch,

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Speaker 1: make a decision and make it good.

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Speaker 2: Then he got mad at the parents for not being

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Speaker 2: able to navigate the website that crashed in the first place.

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Speaker 2: He's like, if you cannot get your child on them,

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Speaker 2: your child.

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Speaker 4: On the computer with your child.

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Speaker 2: I was like, what in the city workers ship? He

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Speaker 2: was wearing a Fendy scarf the whole time from Canal Street,

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Speaker 2: Like he didn't why you were coming for us. We

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Speaker 2: love the mayor. We just no, no, we just love

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Speaker 2: them to do something else. I just wanted to do

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Speaker 2: something else.

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Speaker 4: Your child.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, I think you just came up with

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Speaker 1: your sn l augic ship.

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Speaker 4: I think I did.

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Speaker 1: That was good. I felt it. Yeah, you got a

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Speaker 1: call black.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that goddamn mayor.

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Speaker 4: But we can't talk about because it's black. You know

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Speaker 4: what I'm saying that part. I guess we can. Okaya,

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Speaker 4: Oh we.

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Speaker 3: Already had, we already had one Mayor Dinkins, So you're right,

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Speaker 3: you're right.

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Speaker 4: I like it. I like the aggression.

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Speaker 2: We're doing it. We're doing it.

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Speaker 4: Where to go.

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Speaker 3: You asked me how I was doing, Like how my

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Speaker 2: It's a black history first, another black history first. I

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Speaker 2: I was like, I didn't even know I was gonna

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Speaker 4: Okay, Africabody's been on Black's Widow.

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Speaker 3: And I know it's like being from Texas. I love

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Speaker 4: Stop.

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Speaker 1: I love it when like Jordan's Edibles kicking the fucking.

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Speaker 4: You know it's gonna be motherfucking show.

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Speaker 2: It's a it's a low grade two point five, okay,

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Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying. Yeah, And when you know

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Speaker 5: Man?

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Speaker 4: It was it was we don't we don't have to. Okay.

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Speaker 2: We we went skiing. There was fresh I went skiing

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Speaker 2: There's white people in the audience. I'm trying to hit

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Speaker 4: All the dems. And I'm just, yeah, where is my popcorn?

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Speaker 2: Okay, No, I'm just my son said something very beautiful,

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Speaker 2: he speaks like Elmer Fudd, but it's so beautiful, and

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Speaker 2: can I ask you a question?

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Speaker 3: I'm like, you can ask me a question, and he goes, Okay.

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Speaker 2: Sometimes I feel like explorwing and eventuals, and sometimes I

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Speaker 2: feel like I want safety and secuity, which one is.

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Speaker 4: Bet Oh my god, what's bet Ale?

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Speaker 3: And I was like, you sound ridiculous. No, I don't know, no,

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Speaker 1: So cute and if y'all ovaries ain't high five and

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Speaker 2: Sign I just told him that's a wonderful question to raise,

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Speaker 2: your life, you know what I'm saying. But it's beautiful

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you know what I'm saying, Like, Oh, I love that,

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Speaker 4: What what now?

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Speaker 1: Like you only you can't even hear, and it is triggering,

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Speaker 2: Well, because they ask for mom the most. They ask

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Speaker 2: what I'm saying, to a point where my wife is like,

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Speaker 2: Like it's true, it's true.

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Speaker 4: Do you get called on the most? I do? But

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Speaker 1: Like I'm I'm also very fond, and my whole body

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Speaker 4: So get in here, you know what I mean.

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Speaker 1: But they're starting to they're starting to get real fucking sassy,

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Speaker 1: and I never know what they're getting.

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Speaker 4: It's not from me, Okay.

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Speaker 2: They're five, it's from your Dutch husband. Heist he's maybe

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Speaker 4: It's not me. Yeah, he's a little white boy sassy.

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Speaker 1: Sometimes I'm like, the fuck I was trying to put

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Speaker 1: I was trying to put the kids to bed, and

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Speaker 1: I was like, you don't need another story, you don't

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Speaker 4: We could go to fuck to bed. Yeah, I want

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Speaker 4: to watch Love Is Blind?

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Speaker 3: Where is it this year?

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Speaker 5: Go?

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Speaker 4: I need to see a d and her lashes? Let me.

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Speaker 1: Just do this, and Otis goes, Mama, do you know

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Speaker 4: Oh?

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Speaker 3: Oh bird?

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Speaker 4: Oh?

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Speaker 1: And you know I didn't realize just those times where

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Speaker 1: I didn't say anything. I was like, you know what,

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Speaker 1: what a great question. I'll be right back. And I

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Speaker 4: Go to sleep, Yes, go to sleep. Go the fuck

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Speaker 4: to sleep. Please, they won't do it.

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Speaker 3: My son is always like, can I get cold?

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Speaker 4: Fresh water? Cold and fresh? Asking too much? Call them fresh?

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Speaker 4: You're asking too much. That's too that's one thing to

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Speaker 3: Done.

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Speaker 4: Don got a kid, Don got a rome kid?

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Speaker 2: I got a fourteen year old. Goddamn, that's crazy. She

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Speaker 2: is spicy and sassy.

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Speaker 4: That's fun. We'll talk later.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I can't believe a fourteen year old.

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Speaker 4: Donna's seventy five. Everyone, we just aged well.

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Speaker 3: Genetic baby freezer.

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Speaker 4: Let's get to our guests. This is the very tech show.

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Speaker 1: Hold up, before we bring our guests out, make some

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Speaker 1: no If you have been to adulting.

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Speaker 3: Before, thank you.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, the minormity makes some noise. If you've

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Speaker 1: never been to adulting, look at that. Look at god,

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Speaker 1: make some noise if you have listened to the podcast.

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Speaker 1: So I'm very excited to bring our first guest.

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Speaker 2: Yes, you might know them from their hit Instagram show

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Speaker 2: Recess Therapy five million followers. Please give it up for

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Speaker 2: Julian Shapiro Barnos. Let's go.

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Speaker 4: Hi.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, Hi, everybody, see you look great?

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Speaker 6: Are people supposed to wait backstage and come out or

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Speaker 6: is it normal to.

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Speaker 4: G there's no rule. The only rules wash your hands.

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Speaker 6: It feels crazy to be sitting backstage like I'm going

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Speaker 4: That's every comedian. That's why I wanted to be in

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Speaker 4: the audience. But we want.

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Speaker 2: To Julian write that down.

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Speaker 3: Okay, yeah by Clarks.

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Speaker 4: Black Love a good Clark moment all up in London.

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Speaker 2: I like your pants though they're they're cool blue. I

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Speaker 2: like what you're doing. I like a lot of what

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Speaker 2: you're doing. I didn't know what you're doing. This is

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Speaker 2: about you. I like what both of you are doing.

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Speaker 2: I think what you're doing too. Okay, what you're doing,

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Speaker 2: thank you pretty good.

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Speaker 4: That is what you guys are doing. Thank you. We're trying.

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Speaker 3: We we have history, we do what.

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Speaker 4: How do y'all have so everyone has with you? Everybody me?

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Speaker 4: How do y'all know each other? You can tell you.

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Speaker 4: We got to commercial real quick.

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Speaker 6: This really crazy thing happened that I got to share

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Speaker 6: with you, which was we won Webbies for Internet Things

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Speaker 6: very good. And we were sitting next to each other

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Speaker 6: at the table and then they called Don up and.

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Speaker 4: He like went up with a lot of beautiful energy.

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Speaker 4: Thank you.

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Speaker 6: And then you, Jennifer Lawrence, you fell backwards on the

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Speaker 4: Or like Jennifer Lawrence and Queens.

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Speaker 6: Both both I'm sure Jennifer and Queens also. But you

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Speaker 6: got up and you did say anything, and you gave

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Speaker 4: I didn't phil flat on my back at the Webby.

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Speaker 2: Before giving my acceptance speech, hopped up, gave my speech

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Speaker 2: and went back to the table, and Julian said, was

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Speaker 2: that planned?

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Speaker 4: It was? Wait?

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Speaker 3: You fell?

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Speaker 4: I feel I thought Jennifer fell like.

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Speaker 6: Jennifer fell at the But we run into each other

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Speaker 4: That's beautiful. And now how do y'all know each other?

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Speaker 3: Oh?

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Speaker 4: Okay, so if I may.

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Speaker 2: I was taking my kids to the Spike Lee exhibit

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Speaker 2: because I live in Brooklyn, and so we're at we're

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Speaker 2: by Granary Plaza and Julian stops my kids and he's like,

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Speaker 2: can I interview your children?

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Speaker 4: So that's what I do for work?

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Speaker 6: That's feel you were looking to hire people for your

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Speaker 6: startup company?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, tell everybody what you do.

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Speaker 6: I have a show online where I interview children about

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Speaker 6: all types of things, Uh, silly and serious.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and it's so good.

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Speaker 1: It's so hard, so pure. It makes you feel like

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I hope it's They have so many beautiful, brilliant

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Speaker 6: things to say, and I try to put it out

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Speaker 6: there so people can hear it.

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Speaker 2: As my wife would say, it's wholesome as fuck, and

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00:22:05,480 --> 00:22:07,760
Speaker 2: we love it. And you might you might know the

450
00:22:07,840 --> 00:22:11,359
Speaker 2: video about corn, Like he interviews the young man about corn.

451
00:22:11,400 --> 00:22:16,280
Speaker 2: He's like, you might recognize my arm from Yeah, Oh

452
00:22:16,400 --> 00:22:17,879
Speaker 2: my god, now do you know who I am?

453
00:22:18,200 --> 00:22:20,439
Speaker 4: Yeah? How did you come up with this idea?

454
00:22:21,520 --> 00:22:24,880
Speaker 6: I was in college and I was doing a lot

455
00:22:24,880 --> 00:22:27,800
Speaker 6: of on the street interview stuff, and I was interviewing

456
00:22:27,800 --> 00:22:30,600
Speaker 6: with a lot of adults and they weren't very uplifting,

457
00:22:32,880 --> 00:22:35,040
Speaker 6: and they seemed to feel as bad as I did.

458
00:22:36,440 --> 00:22:38,280
Speaker 4: And then the truth that I don't often.

459
00:22:38,040 --> 00:22:39,720
Speaker 6: Say is I was like, I'm going to interview like

460
00:22:39,800 --> 00:22:42,400
Speaker 6: elderly folks, and I got yelled at.

461
00:22:43,760 --> 00:22:45,240
Speaker 4: Yeah, in New York City.

462
00:22:45,359 --> 00:22:50,840
Speaker 6: I went to school in uh, near Cambridge. Is this

463
00:22:50,880 --> 00:22:53,359
Speaker 6: how you tell us you went to Harvard? No, I

464
00:22:53,400 --> 00:23:01,040
Speaker 6: went to Boston University. I was like near Cambridge comfortable.

465
00:23:01,119 --> 00:23:04,560
Speaker 6: I also went to school near New Haven. Oh yeah,

466
00:23:04,760 --> 00:23:07,000
Speaker 6: near a couple hours near ish.

467
00:23:07,119 --> 00:23:07,800
Speaker 4: I have a question.

468
00:23:07,960 --> 00:23:10,479
Speaker 1: You said you said you were interviewing adults and they

469
00:23:10,480 --> 00:23:11,439
Speaker 1: were feeling as bad as you.

470
00:23:11,480 --> 00:23:16,040
Speaker 4: What were you feeling bad about? Was twenty twenty? Yeah,

471
00:23:16,400 --> 00:23:22,199
Speaker 4: so what happened then? And I don't know?

472
00:23:22,400 --> 00:23:24,600
Speaker 3: Okay, so you switched to kids, And I have to

473
00:23:24,600 --> 00:23:25,000
Speaker 3: say this.

474
00:23:26,040 --> 00:23:26,719
Speaker 4: I have to say this.

475
00:23:26,800 --> 00:23:30,960
Speaker 2: I love talking to kids because they're so original, Like

476
00:23:31,040 --> 00:23:35,760
Speaker 2: they're just a jukebox of wild shit. And like, what's

477
00:23:35,760 --> 00:23:38,320
Speaker 2: been your wildest interview that you haven't been able to

478
00:23:38,920 --> 00:23:41,360
Speaker 2: put out yet? Like you're like, I just can't put

479
00:23:41,359 --> 00:23:44,200
Speaker 2: this out, like truthfully, there's so many we can't.

480
00:23:44,359 --> 00:23:45,080
Speaker 4: I have a question.

481
00:23:45,359 --> 00:23:48,720
Speaker 1: Are you obviously happy to talk to children? Do you

482
00:23:48,840 --> 00:23:51,040
Speaker 1: wish that somebody would have talked to you like that?

483
00:23:51,320 --> 00:23:53,680
Speaker 6: I did get talked to you like that. I come

484
00:23:53,680 --> 00:23:55,440
Speaker 6: from a very large family.

485
00:23:55,520 --> 00:23:57,600
Speaker 4: I think your family's fascinating.

486
00:23:57,600 --> 00:24:01,080
Speaker 6: Not everybody knows dads might be here. But I have

487
00:24:01,119 --> 00:24:03,080
Speaker 6: five parents. I don't know.

488
00:24:03,280 --> 00:24:04,560
Speaker 4: I said they might be out.

489
00:24:04,600 --> 00:24:08,119
Speaker 6: There's one and there's the others.

490
00:24:08,119 --> 00:24:16,560
Speaker 4: Playing your family dynamic. So so I have three moms,

491
00:24:16,560 --> 00:24:20,320
Speaker 4: two dads. Uh wow? Yeah, queer family.

492
00:24:21,840 --> 00:24:23,679
Speaker 6: I had two moms. They wanted to have a baby.

493
00:24:24,240 --> 00:24:25,840
Speaker 6: They asked my dad, the sperm donor.

494
00:24:26,119 --> 00:24:31,560
Speaker 4: He had hi his husband. My other dad is the

495
00:24:31,600 --> 00:24:32,200
Speaker 4: other dad.

496
00:24:32,960 --> 00:24:34,600
Speaker 6: My mom's broke up when I was two and met

497
00:24:34,600 --> 00:24:36,760
Speaker 6: other women and they all raised us. And I say

498
00:24:36,800 --> 00:24:38,919
Speaker 6: I got that because I felt like in having so

499
00:24:38,960 --> 00:24:41,919
Speaker 6: many parents, I was really listened to and like given

500
00:24:41,960 --> 00:24:44,160
Speaker 6: a lot of space to share my ideas.

501
00:24:44,520 --> 00:24:50,000
Speaker 4: It's beautiful. Airhorn e airorn. So they're they're all five

502
00:24:50,040 --> 00:24:50,800
Speaker 4: are here? No?

503
00:24:50,800 --> 00:24:52,639
Speaker 3: No, no, just my dad's are here. Okay.

504
00:24:52,640 --> 00:24:56,480
Speaker 6: My mom bought a ticket and did not come that

505
00:24:56,600 --> 00:25:00,679
Speaker 6: They're welcome. That's a move. I boy take us to

506
00:25:00,720 --> 00:25:02,600
Speaker 6: one love and never went. I just want to support.

507
00:25:03,119 --> 00:25:05,440
Speaker 6: She's loving you for So, who's the fun one.

508
00:25:05,880 --> 00:25:12,280
Speaker 4: They're all equally fun. That's really good. You are very.

509
00:25:12,359 --> 00:25:16,160
Speaker 1: Very diplomatic, and they might all be fun. That's wonderful.

510
00:25:16,320 --> 00:25:19,760
Speaker 4: They are all fun, genuinely. Oh my goodness, I gotta

511
00:25:19,800 --> 00:25:21,800
Speaker 4: get to it. What's dating? Like?

512
00:25:22,400 --> 00:25:26,160
Speaker 6: Oh whoa, yeah, it's all right.

513
00:25:28,400 --> 00:25:32,399
Speaker 4: I just went through a big breakup, so I'm like

514
00:25:32,720 --> 00:25:33,920
Speaker 4: figuring that out.

515
00:25:34,240 --> 00:25:37,600
Speaker 1: Oh my goodness, did you know? Did you know for

516
00:25:37,640 --> 00:25:39,119
Speaker 1: a while that it wasn't working out? Or was it

517
00:25:39,160 --> 00:25:39,680
Speaker 1: a surprise.

518
00:25:40,280 --> 00:25:44,359
Speaker 6: No, and it was a very amicable, healthy breakup and

519
00:25:44,400 --> 00:25:45,720
Speaker 6: we're still good friends.

520
00:25:46,160 --> 00:25:49,840
Speaker 3: What is it like, did they meet all five parentals?

521
00:25:49,920 --> 00:25:50,040
Speaker 5: Oh?

522
00:25:50,080 --> 00:25:54,479
Speaker 6: Of course they were very very in the in the scene.

523
00:25:54,720 --> 00:25:56,160
Speaker 4: And it's a lot. You have to meet a lot

524
00:25:56,160 --> 00:25:57,960
Speaker 4: of people. You think it's a lot of parents. There's

525
00:25:58,000 --> 00:26:01,360
Speaker 4: a lot of extended family. There's yeah, there's a lot

526
00:26:01,400 --> 00:26:01,720
Speaker 4: going on.

527
00:26:01,880 --> 00:26:06,199
Speaker 2: Walk us through, Like, okay, so you have five parents,

528
00:26:06,240 --> 00:26:07,800
Speaker 2: like so much more extended family.

529
00:26:07,800 --> 00:26:10,040
Speaker 3: Do you need like a map or something like that?

530
00:26:10,119 --> 00:26:13,240
Speaker 4: Flow chart? Right? Dad? There is?

531
00:26:13,480 --> 00:26:16,000
Speaker 1: What's the float is it? Because my float chart is

532
00:26:16,000 --> 00:26:21,560
Speaker 1: not your float chart. I'm gonna just put it out

533
00:26:21,600 --> 00:26:22,080
Speaker 1: there like that.

534
00:26:24,840 --> 00:26:29,200
Speaker 4: Oh my god, hello mother nature. I'm sorry, it was

535
00:26:29,280 --> 00:26:30,040
Speaker 4: father time.

536
00:26:30,240 --> 00:26:34,120
Speaker 1: What do we what's your float chart?

537
00:26:34,160 --> 00:26:39,520
Speaker 6: We'll compare, do a float chart for either of your families,

538
00:26:39,560 --> 00:26:40,200
Speaker 6: just to keep track.

539
00:26:40,880 --> 00:26:42,679
Speaker 2: I have a Yeah, I like, I married into a

540
00:26:42,680 --> 00:26:45,080
Speaker 2: giant family, a giant ass family.

541
00:26:45,160 --> 00:26:46,800
Speaker 4: I just backed up and do it. And now I have.

542
00:26:46,920 --> 00:26:55,440
Speaker 5: Like like it's like three grandma's and like, uh, three

543
00:26:55,440 --> 00:26:58,880
Speaker 5: grandpa's until recently, and they can't get away with anything,

544
00:26:59,200 --> 00:27:01,280
Speaker 5: you know, do you you'll like because you have five

545
00:27:01,359 --> 00:27:04,240
Speaker 5: people watching you, like you couldn't get away with much.

546
00:27:04,200 --> 00:27:05,000
Speaker 4: Or how did you feel?

547
00:27:05,320 --> 00:27:09,600
Speaker 6: I think things were pretty loose, really within reason.

548
00:27:09,720 --> 00:27:10,240
Speaker 4: Tell me more.

549
00:27:10,320 --> 00:27:13,199
Speaker 6: Yeah, I think, honestly, not to be so boring, I

550
00:27:13,200 --> 00:27:14,760
Speaker 6: think I was like pretty chill.

551
00:27:15,080 --> 00:27:17,600
Speaker 4: Yeah, you seem pretty chill. You seem pretty chill.

552
00:27:17,920 --> 00:27:22,080
Speaker 1: And it seems like dating you. It seems like dating you.

553
00:27:24,040 --> 00:27:25,359
Speaker 1: It seems like a lot of communication.

554
00:27:25,440 --> 00:27:25,960
Speaker 4: And I like that.

555
00:27:26,320 --> 00:27:28,439
Speaker 1: Yes, and I like that a good health and I

556
00:27:28,560 --> 00:27:32,280
Speaker 1: like and I like a healthy dose of communication.

557
00:27:39,280 --> 00:27:45,359
Speaker 4: Do you? And I am just I'm just curious. Do

558
00:27:45,400 --> 00:27:48,040
Speaker 4: you find it hard to be casual to date?

559
00:27:48,240 --> 00:27:48,480
Speaker 3: Well?

560
00:27:48,640 --> 00:27:53,200
Speaker 4: I was a serial I am No, I'm not. I

561
00:27:53,480 --> 00:27:56,600
Speaker 4: was a serial monogamoiust I was in a lot. Okay,

562
00:27:56,880 --> 00:28:00,800
Speaker 4: you have that vibe and but I'm done, Okay, I'm done.

563
00:28:01,040 --> 00:28:03,720
Speaker 6: Okay, why I'm you're young?

564
00:28:04,080 --> 00:28:08,000
Speaker 4: Oh right, I'm twenty four. Yeah, Oh my gosh, twenty

565
00:28:08,040 --> 00:28:09,520
Speaker 4: four is a good time for a whole phase.

566
00:28:09,880 --> 00:28:14,400
Speaker 6: Yes, sure, see what's happening right now, what your guys

567
00:28:14,400 --> 00:28:17,280
Speaker 6: are hitting up becaus is I'm like, I'm a kid's

568
00:28:17,359 --> 00:28:17,960
Speaker 6: show host.

569
00:28:18,359 --> 00:28:19,359
Speaker 4: And then I'm like I'm.

570
00:28:19,240 --> 00:28:23,040
Speaker 1: So sorry, no, no, no, no, you're right, and I'm like, ballowches,

571
00:28:23,200 --> 00:28:24,280
Speaker 1: let's go no, no, no, no.

572
00:28:25,600 --> 00:28:29,240
Speaker 6: I've like really trained myself to like not say ship,

573
00:28:29,720 --> 00:28:31,359
Speaker 6: but I will whatever you want to know.

574
00:28:31,400 --> 00:28:35,000
Speaker 4: I'm an open book. Okay, all right, so yah, I

575
00:28:35,000 --> 00:28:35,280
Speaker 4: get it.

576
00:28:35,320 --> 00:28:38,080
Speaker 2: Wait wait wait do people uh okay, people that you

577
00:28:38,160 --> 00:28:43,440
Speaker 2: date now that you're in your your whole face, you

578
00:28:43,520 --> 00:28:44,360
Speaker 2: can't say it either.

579
00:28:44,400 --> 00:28:47,120
Speaker 1: He can't say sex or fucking. He says celebrating each

580
00:28:47,120 --> 00:28:47,760
Speaker 1: other's bodyes.

581
00:28:48,840 --> 00:28:52,040
Speaker 4: What's wrong with that? And what's wrong that? That's awful?

582
00:28:52,240 --> 00:28:54,760
Speaker 4: Do you say, oh, do you want to fuck? Or

583
00:28:54,800 --> 00:28:57,200
Speaker 4: do you wanna? Do you like, hey, you want to

584
00:28:57,200 --> 00:28:59,080
Speaker 4: come back to mind so I can celebrate your body?

585
00:29:00,280 --> 00:29:02,720
Speaker 4: I don't have that much confidence. I don't have that much.

586
00:29:03,000 --> 00:29:05,560
Speaker 2: I'm like, I have an original copy of the Age

587
00:29:05,560 --> 00:29:09,120
Speaker 2: of in house to like to see it.

588
00:29:10,080 --> 00:29:11,600
Speaker 4: I don't. I don't have that kind of compident.

589
00:29:12,040 --> 00:29:16,280
Speaker 2: But maybe you would like I could make you a

590
00:29:16,360 --> 00:29:17,800
Speaker 2: nice tea with a bunch of ebels.

591
00:29:18,200 --> 00:29:22,680
Speaker 4: You know those are T traps? What's that?

592
00:29:22,880 --> 00:29:23,040
Speaker 3: Man?

593
00:29:23,400 --> 00:29:27,520
Speaker 4: T traps? Do you wrong? No?

594
00:29:27,680 --> 00:29:31,239
Speaker 2: I'm curious as to like if people have seen you

595
00:29:31,320 --> 00:29:34,800
Speaker 2: on IG and then does that ever color the dating situation?

596
00:29:34,960 --> 00:29:38,280
Speaker 4: I wish I could show you, guys the repulsive d MS.

597
00:29:38,320 --> 00:29:39,600
Speaker 3: I received daily.

598
00:29:40,400 --> 00:29:47,240
Speaker 6: It is scary from everyone or not well. I mean,

599
00:29:47,800 --> 00:29:51,000
Speaker 6: I've never responded to a d M like that because

600
00:29:51,040 --> 00:29:53,760
Speaker 6: I don't want to open that door. People are so

601
00:29:53,840 --> 00:29:56,800
Speaker 6: much more confident than I would imagine they would be

602
00:29:57,080 --> 00:29:58,920
Speaker 6: with what they can say to a stranger on the internet.

603
00:29:59,000 --> 00:30:00,280
Speaker 4: The thing is not.

604
00:30:00,360 --> 00:30:02,760
Speaker 1: That's why they're saying it to you and ida kid.

605
00:30:02,800 --> 00:30:04,480
Speaker 1: They would never be able to stay it to your face.

606
00:30:05,240 --> 00:30:08,440
Speaker 1: And I feel as a parent, I thought it would

607
00:30:08,520 --> 00:30:12,600
Speaker 1: be like, you know, figuring out how to walk my

608
00:30:12,760 --> 00:30:17,480
Speaker 1: kid through being bullied, racism, misogyny, whatever. But at the

609
00:30:17,480 --> 00:30:20,000
Speaker 1: top of my list, I have to help them define

610
00:30:20,000 --> 00:30:23,440
Speaker 1: their worth without social media.

611
00:30:23,720 --> 00:30:26,520
Speaker 6: It's so I hate social media. I work on social

612
00:30:26,520 --> 00:30:28,000
Speaker 6: media and I hate social media.

613
00:30:28,240 --> 00:30:28,760
Speaker 4: That's good.

614
00:30:28,800 --> 00:30:31,040
Speaker 1: That's a good relationship to have with social media, to

615
00:30:31,080 --> 00:30:31,840
Speaker 1: be honest.

616
00:30:32,840 --> 00:30:34,800
Speaker 2: How are you able to talk to kids though? Because

617
00:30:34,800 --> 00:30:36,800
Speaker 2: I glitch up when it's not mine. I'm always like

618
00:30:36,880 --> 00:30:42,479
Speaker 2: you a small human. We have limonade in the kitchen

619
00:30:42,520 --> 00:30:46,480
Speaker 2: if you like other sundry items.

620
00:30:49,320 --> 00:30:52,000
Speaker 4: I think I was bad at it, and then it

621
00:30:52,040 --> 00:30:52,880
Speaker 4: was like a reps.

622
00:30:53,200 --> 00:30:57,000
Speaker 6: I taught kids improv when I was younger, and so

623
00:30:57,040 --> 00:31:00,160
Speaker 6: I like got really good. I think at like making

624
00:31:00,480 --> 00:31:03,400
Speaker 6: kids feel like what they were saying was like something

625
00:31:03,400 --> 00:31:06,440
Speaker 6: that I was excited to hear. Yeah, and I feel

626
00:31:06,440 --> 00:31:08,480
Speaker 6: like that's what I do when I meet them, like

627
00:31:08,520 --> 00:31:08,840
Speaker 6: I want.

628
00:31:09,120 --> 00:31:10,480
Speaker 4: I feel like so often kids.

629
00:31:10,200 --> 00:31:12,720
Speaker 6: Aren't given like twenty minutes to say what they think,

630
00:31:13,440 --> 00:31:16,640
Speaker 6: and I think it's really exciting to be given that opportunity. Yeah,

631
00:31:18,720 --> 00:31:21,480
Speaker 6: and some of it's just pretending. I think sometimes people

632
00:31:21,480 --> 00:31:22,600
Speaker 6: ask me, like, how do you talk to kids? And

633
00:31:22,600 --> 00:31:24,400
Speaker 6: I was like, just be interested in what they're interested in,

634
00:31:24,480 --> 00:31:25,560
Speaker 6: even if it's not interesting to you.

635
00:31:26,040 --> 00:31:29,280
Speaker 4: Roadblocks not into it.

636
00:31:29,280 --> 00:31:31,760
Speaker 6: Maybe that doesn't hit everybody, but I have I have

637
00:31:31,760 --> 00:31:33,080
Speaker 6: to hear about this all the time.

638
00:31:33,760 --> 00:31:37,200
Speaker 4: The kids seem to be into robots, lava, dinosaurs.

639
00:31:36,680 --> 00:31:42,480
Speaker 6: Roadblocks, roost roadblocks, Fortnite Fortnite.

640
00:31:42,480 --> 00:31:46,960
Speaker 2: Absolutely yeah, right, So you you you speak in this

641
00:31:47,040 --> 00:31:49,720
Speaker 2: kind of language, this child language.

642
00:31:49,760 --> 00:31:51,719
Speaker 4: It's English, literally speaks English.

643
00:31:53,120 --> 00:31:56,200
Speaker 6: They're talking about a certain way of speaking this foreign

644
00:31:56,600 --> 00:31:57,720
Speaker 6: literally it's just like.

645
00:31:57,640 --> 00:31:58,880
Speaker 4: How was your day, dude?

646
00:31:58,960 --> 00:32:05,400
Speaker 1: Like, so, we got questions from the audience and we

647
00:32:05,400 --> 00:32:06,800
Speaker 1: answer them and I'm not able to show agree.

648
00:32:06,840 --> 00:32:08,160
Speaker 4: Oh my god, thank you for doing your home of

649
00:32:08,200 --> 00:32:09,280
Speaker 4: course you're doing your homework.

650
00:32:09,400 --> 00:32:12,320
Speaker 3: Okay, all right, So here's a question.

651
00:32:12,680 --> 00:32:18,280
Speaker 2: Yay, okay, how many days a week slash month slash

652
00:32:18,360 --> 00:32:19,880
Speaker 2: year are you having sex?

653
00:32:20,400 --> 00:32:24,479
Speaker 4: Oh? Just a question for us? Yeah, you know what

654
00:32:24,480 --> 00:32:24,720
Speaker 4: it is.

655
00:32:24,760 --> 00:32:27,239
Speaker 2: So it feels like how many days every single day

656
00:32:27,240 --> 00:32:30,640
Speaker 2: of the week.

657
00:32:32,480 --> 00:32:33,880
Speaker 4: You're twenty four? I get it in and I was like,

658
00:32:33,920 --> 00:32:36,480
Speaker 4: but you are here on time? Oh face? Do it now?

659
00:32:36,640 --> 00:32:39,120
Speaker 4: Do it now? How many days a week? Having sex?

660
00:32:39,600 --> 00:32:39,880
Speaker 4: To me?

661
00:32:40,160 --> 00:32:43,040
Speaker 1: What I hear is how often should I be having sex?

662
00:32:43,600 --> 00:32:44,600
Speaker 1: And that's really up to you.

663
00:32:44,760 --> 00:32:46,520
Speaker 4: That's really up to you.

664
00:32:46,520 --> 00:32:49,920
Speaker 1: You know, like you can watch music videos or movies

665
00:32:49,960 --> 00:32:52,360
Speaker 1: and be like, oh my god, that's what they say,

666
00:32:52,400 --> 00:32:54,479
Speaker 1: but like it's really up to you. It's how you feel.

667
00:32:54,600 --> 00:32:57,440
Speaker 1: So whatever is good for you, do that, you know

668
00:32:57,480 --> 00:33:00,400
Speaker 1: what I mean? And yeah, I just I just hate

669
00:33:00,400 --> 00:33:02,520
Speaker 1: when people are just like every day or four tones.

670
00:33:02,640 --> 00:33:05,040
Speaker 1: It's like, whatever you need do that?

671
00:33:05,120 --> 00:33:07,280
Speaker 4: Do you have a number? Do you have a number yourself?

672
00:33:07,320 --> 00:33:07,360
Speaker 5: No?

673
00:33:08,200 --> 00:33:09,360
Speaker 4: Actually, like an equation.

674
00:33:11,600 --> 00:33:15,080
Speaker 6: I have a mathematical proof I use to figure out

675
00:33:15,520 --> 00:33:17,560
Speaker 6: the right amount for each Oh cool.

676
00:33:17,760 --> 00:33:21,040
Speaker 4: That's what that's not my flowchart? Yeah?

677
00:33:22,440 --> 00:33:25,960
Speaker 1: Okay, did you battle imposter syndrome when you first started acting?

678
00:33:26,400 --> 00:33:29,120
Speaker 1: How do you get over picking yourself? Apart on screen,

679
00:33:31,280 --> 00:33:34,640
Speaker 1: I'm struggling. Bree like the cheese, Hi Brie, like the cheese.

680
00:33:35,000 --> 00:33:39,600
Speaker 1: I mean, imposter syndrome comes from good old fashioned insecurity

681
00:33:40,280 --> 00:33:44,120
Speaker 1: and you're really just building up this story that like

682
00:33:44,280 --> 00:33:46,720
Speaker 1: someone's gonna like reject you before it even happens. And

683
00:33:46,760 --> 00:33:49,040
Speaker 1: so I always say, don't tell yourself no before someone

684
00:33:49,040 --> 00:33:50,920
Speaker 1: else tells you no. Just go in there with like

685
00:33:50,920 --> 00:33:54,640
Speaker 1: a yeah, why not, you know what I mean? And

686
00:33:54,800 --> 00:33:58,080
Speaker 1: also like for real, for real, have fucking fun, Like

687
00:33:58,240 --> 00:34:01,240
Speaker 1: look at you, you are beautiful. They would be fucking

688
00:34:01,440 --> 00:34:03,880
Speaker 1: lucky to have you, do you know what I mean,

689
00:34:03,960 --> 00:34:07,719
Speaker 1: Like lucky to have you. So yeah, you're not taking

690
00:34:07,880 --> 00:34:10,680
Speaker 1: You're not taking up their time, They're taking up your time.

691
00:34:11,960 --> 00:34:13,040
Speaker 1: So have fucking fun.

692
00:34:13,680 --> 00:34:17,240
Speaker 6: Can I share a half big thought about imposter syndrome

693
00:34:18,000 --> 00:34:21,839
Speaker 6: something that I've been thinking about, Like recently, I've been

694
00:34:21,880 --> 00:34:25,280
Speaker 6: in like a lot of situations where I've like felt

695
00:34:25,560 --> 00:34:29,080
Speaker 6: impostery or like kind of higher profile scenes.

696
00:34:28,800 --> 00:34:32,960
Speaker 4: Where I'm like, oh, I don't belong here. What am

697
00:34:32,960 --> 00:34:36,640
Speaker 4: I trying to say? They're something good here? Like don't.

698
00:34:36,680 --> 00:34:39,440
Speaker 6: What I'm saying is like, don't like know what makes

699
00:34:39,800 --> 00:34:43,600
Speaker 6: you unique and special? And like don't because you feel

700
00:34:43,680 --> 00:34:45,360
Speaker 6: like people are being a different way, like don't like

701
00:34:45,440 --> 00:34:48,640
Speaker 6: bend to that way, like their insecurity.

702
00:34:48,760 --> 00:34:50,040
Speaker 4: It's like, yeah, exactly, that's what.

703
00:34:50,040 --> 00:34:52,560
Speaker 1: I realized, you know, being the only child, being the

704
00:34:52,560 --> 00:34:55,120
Speaker 1: biggest person, being the only black one, being all this same.

705
00:34:55,480 --> 00:34:57,160
Speaker 1: After a whiles, it's like I just had a smile

706
00:34:57,200 --> 00:34:59,160
Speaker 1: because I'm just like, why is everyone bringing their fucking

707
00:34:59,239 --> 00:35:00,160
Speaker 1: trauma here?

708
00:35:00,520 --> 00:35:01,120
Speaker 4: Like leave it?

709
00:35:01,280 --> 00:35:01,480
Speaker 5: Hi?

710
00:35:01,760 --> 00:35:02,360
Speaker 1: How are you?

711
00:35:02,520 --> 00:35:03,240
Speaker 4: How you doing?

712
00:35:03,960 --> 00:35:06,200
Speaker 1: Like I don't like, you know, you could be this

713
00:35:06,320 --> 00:35:09,400
Speaker 1: or this by this and the great thing about being

714
00:35:09,520 --> 00:35:11,799
Speaker 1: forty six, Oh my god, my abortion is twenty five

715
00:35:11,880 --> 00:35:12,400
Speaker 1: years old.

716
00:35:15,760 --> 00:35:16,400
Speaker 4: Older than me.

717
00:35:18,080 --> 00:35:28,239
Speaker 2: That deserves an airhorn right there, twenty six airhorn, you.

718
00:35:28,200 --> 00:35:31,080
Speaker 1: Know, doing crowd work from stage, especially doing stand up.

719
00:35:31,239 --> 00:35:33,359
Speaker 1: For some reason, I don't know when, how or why.

720
00:35:33,400 --> 00:35:35,680
Speaker 1: I think it's probably having kids too, because I'm able

721
00:35:35,719 --> 00:35:37,839
Speaker 1: to connect with my inner child, I can see other

722
00:35:37,880 --> 00:35:40,719
Speaker 1: people's inner child, So I'm like, we don't gotta do

723
00:35:40,800 --> 00:35:43,160
Speaker 1: this whatever you think this is. We could just be

724
00:35:43,719 --> 00:35:46,600
Speaker 1: and it's so much more fun, Like I laugh so much,

725
00:35:46,840 --> 00:35:50,040
Speaker 1: like everyone just has more fun. So like, yeah, it

726
00:35:50,080 --> 00:35:53,200
Speaker 1: ain't that deep, to be honest, everyone's got insecurity.

727
00:35:53,440 --> 00:35:57,880
Speaker 4: Thank you so much, Mary J. Blige. Okay, this is

728
00:35:58,000 --> 00:36:01,160
Speaker 4: going Okay, Yeah, I do it. Okay, should this is

729
00:36:01,600 --> 00:36:01,919
Speaker 4: the one?

730
00:36:01,960 --> 00:36:05,240
Speaker 2: Should I meet the ex husband if he isn't ready

731
00:36:05,280 --> 00:36:08,600
Speaker 2: to meet me? My girlfriend has two kids with him.

732
00:36:10,640 --> 00:36:11,319
Speaker 2: That's a hard one.

733
00:36:11,360 --> 00:36:14,600
Speaker 4: Now, it's hard. I wrote about it in my show

734
00:36:14,719 --> 00:36:15,440
Speaker 4: because it's hard.

735
00:36:15,640 --> 00:36:19,080
Speaker 2: Now you have I have a daughter and I have

736
00:36:19,120 --> 00:36:26,319
Speaker 2: a girlfriend, two different relationships. Yeah, and they met. Yeah,

737
00:36:25,920 --> 00:36:30,040
Speaker 2: the girlfriend and my daughter's mom met.

738
00:36:30,280 --> 00:36:32,400
Speaker 4: It was fine. It was fine. Yeah.

739
00:36:32,560 --> 00:36:35,080
Speaker 1: Blending families as your family was able to do so well,

740
00:36:35,480 --> 00:36:36,840
Speaker 1: it's not fucking easy.

741
00:36:37,200 --> 00:36:37,440
Speaker 5: You know.

742
00:36:37,680 --> 00:36:39,319
Speaker 1: You want to start it right away because you're like,

743
00:36:39,360 --> 00:36:41,319
Speaker 1: how could they not love this person that loves me

744
00:36:41,360 --> 00:36:42,000
Speaker 1: and I love them?

745
00:36:42,320 --> 00:36:44,200
Speaker 4: But that could also affect a relationship.

746
00:36:44,239 --> 00:36:46,200
Speaker 1: So I just say take a little bit more time,

747
00:36:46,680 --> 00:36:48,920
Speaker 1: and definitely don't do it at like a big family

748
00:36:48,960 --> 00:36:51,439
Speaker 1: event because everyone wants to like stake their claim of.

749
00:36:51,400 --> 00:36:54,560
Speaker 4: Like you know who they are. Yeah, don't do it

750
00:36:54,600 --> 00:36:56,160
Speaker 4: on a big day. Yeah, don't do it in a

751
00:36:56,160 --> 00:36:57,759
Speaker 4: big day. I think with.

752
00:36:59,200 --> 00:37:01,000
Speaker 2: I have to say, yeah, probably a lot of egos

753
00:37:01,000 --> 00:37:05,600
Speaker 2: and attitudes there, because I'm just gonna say, like, sis,

754
00:37:05,640 --> 00:37:10,360
Speaker 2: straight dudes aren't always the best.

755
00:37:10,920 --> 00:37:12,799
Speaker 4: They can be brittle, you know, what they can be.

756
00:37:12,840 --> 00:37:15,040
Speaker 2: I'm gonna, yeah, yeah, I'm gonna go out on a

757
00:37:15,120 --> 00:37:19,480
Speaker 2: limb and just say they can they can handle situations

758
00:37:19,520 --> 00:37:20,799
Speaker 2: out in the best possible way.

759
00:37:20,880 --> 00:37:21,040
Speaker 4: Right.

760
00:37:21,120 --> 00:37:24,560
Speaker 2: So if like, okay, you've met the kids and then

761
00:37:24,680 --> 00:37:27,400
Speaker 2: like you're with the mom and like he sees you

762
00:37:27,480 --> 00:37:28,040
Speaker 2: and he's.

763
00:37:27,840 --> 00:37:30,239
Speaker 4: Like, oh my god, he's getting with my ex wife and.

764
00:37:30,239 --> 00:37:32,840
Speaker 3: He's probably throwing a football with mystun. You know, like

765
00:37:33,960 --> 00:37:34,480
Speaker 3: there's not an.

766
00:37:34,440 --> 00:37:37,520
Speaker 4: Episode of Fridnight Lights. But where the fuck did you

767
00:37:37,600 --> 00:37:41,840
Speaker 4: just go, Captain. I'm just saying it. Probably it probably

768
00:37:41,920 --> 00:37:45,640
Speaker 4: sends us. I hope that dad is.

769
00:37:45,680 --> 00:37:47,799
Speaker 2: Going to therapy because it's like you gotta let go,

770
00:37:47,960 --> 00:37:50,040
Speaker 2: you gotta let go and like God and let life

771
00:37:50,080 --> 00:37:52,200
Speaker 2: move on. But if you're not ready to meet them,

772
00:37:52,400 --> 00:37:53,960
Speaker 2: I'm gonna I'm a bet they aren't either.

773
00:37:54,040 --> 00:37:54,600
Speaker 4: Yeah, don't do it.

774
00:37:54,880 --> 00:37:59,239
Speaker 1: Don't don't do it, I say, And it's hard, and

775
00:37:59,280 --> 00:38:02,000
Speaker 1: then they like go on your Instagram and trying to

776
00:38:02,000 --> 00:38:03,279
Speaker 1: figure out who it's hot.

777
00:38:03,440 --> 00:38:05,440
Speaker 4: This is the stage of life that I've not gotten.

778
00:38:06,920 --> 00:38:14,920
Speaker 4: I'm like, oh man, that's hard. You said you're okay.

779
00:38:14,960 --> 00:38:18,680
Speaker 1: Any advice for couples in interracial relationships. I'm black and

780
00:38:18,719 --> 00:38:26,880
Speaker 1: white he's white but Italian l O L.

781
00:38:26,880 --> 00:38:35,680
Speaker 4: No, No, I don't know. I've heard jokes before. What

782
00:38:35,719 --> 00:38:37,520
Speaker 4: do you think, Oh, any.

783
00:38:37,320 --> 00:38:40,840
Speaker 1: Advice for inn racial relationships? You know what I wasn't

784
00:38:41,040 --> 00:38:44,600
Speaker 1: I really wasn't prepared because I was such an equal

785
00:38:44,600 --> 00:38:49,239
Speaker 1: opportunity ho like it really was. It really was like

786
00:38:49,280 --> 00:38:51,319
Speaker 1: a game of musical chairs. Like the music stopped. I

787
00:38:51,360 --> 00:38:55,759
Speaker 1: was like, oh, you know, it's so I didn't know.

788
00:38:56,280 --> 00:38:59,240
Speaker 1: You know, I have been accused of whitewashing my family

789
00:38:59,320 --> 00:39:02,839
Speaker 1: because I'm skined. He I was like, no, it's a dick,

790
00:39:03,239 --> 00:39:05,560
Speaker 1: and then no.

791
00:39:05,640 --> 00:39:09,120
Speaker 4: Oh my god, you know, and.

792
00:39:09,040 --> 00:39:11,120
Speaker 1: Then like you have to explain yourself. But I'm like,

793
00:39:11,160 --> 00:39:12,920
Speaker 1: but now we're ten years in and he loves me,

794
00:39:12,960 --> 00:39:14,919
Speaker 1: Like he's picked me up off the floor, he's held

795
00:39:14,960 --> 00:39:17,280
Speaker 1: my hair back, we've been through four miscarriages.

796
00:39:17,480 --> 00:39:19,120
Speaker 4: Like he's a good ass dude.

797
00:39:19,320 --> 00:39:21,319
Speaker 1: When I come home tonight, he has my bonnet ling

798
00:39:21,360 --> 00:39:24,759
Speaker 1: on a fucking pillow for me. Like at the end

799
00:39:24,800 --> 00:39:26,800
Speaker 1: of the day, it's just like if that's your person,

800
00:39:27,239 --> 00:39:28,839
Speaker 1: like you figure out you always kind of figure out

801
00:39:28,880 --> 00:39:30,879
Speaker 1: how you have to defend yourself, like an elevator pitch,

802
00:39:30,920 --> 00:39:33,080
Speaker 1: like in one line, you know what I mean? And

803
00:39:33,280 --> 00:39:36,360
Speaker 1: anybody that always has something to say about my interracial

804
00:39:36,400 --> 00:39:38,120
Speaker 1: relationship is always single.

805
00:39:43,239 --> 00:39:44,400
Speaker 3: I didn't write that question.

806
00:39:44,719 --> 00:39:50,839
Speaker 2: Okay, don do you have any advice? Yeah, I'm not

807
00:39:50,920 --> 00:39:57,359
Speaker 2: an interracial relationship. I'm sorry you ever have you ever

808
00:39:57,440 --> 00:40:00,319
Speaker 2: been in an interracial relationship? Not saying that a good

809
00:40:00,400 --> 00:40:03,360
Speaker 2: enough to give any advice about being all I have.

810
00:40:03,520 --> 00:40:07,680
Speaker 2: I have several julian racial friendships, yes, Julian.

811
00:40:07,760 --> 00:40:09,680
Speaker 3: Have you ever been in an interracial relationship?

812
00:40:09,840 --> 00:40:14,799
Speaker 4: Yes, but I don't know if I have. I want

813
00:40:14,800 --> 00:40:18,200
Speaker 4: to offer to our guests. What would I say? Here's

814
00:40:18,200 --> 00:40:18,760
Speaker 4: some tips.

815
00:40:18,840 --> 00:40:21,719
Speaker 2: The amount of board games that you're asked to play.

816
00:40:22,640 --> 00:40:28,680
Speaker 2: Oh my god, board is right. Okay, I know it's

817
00:40:28,680 --> 00:40:32,080
Speaker 2: a hominem. I know it's a hominem, but like stop,

818
00:40:32,360 --> 00:40:34,799
Speaker 2: I know when you play board games, I know you

819
00:40:34,880 --> 00:40:38,479
Speaker 2: have perfect credit. Okay, I get it. You're like, let's

820
00:40:38,800 --> 00:40:42,920
Speaker 2: let's have a little panic in the room. Let's i'm

821
00:40:42,920 --> 00:40:43,840
Speaker 2: a little dilemma.

822
00:40:43,920 --> 00:40:44,960
Speaker 3: We have to figure out.

823
00:40:47,239 --> 00:40:48,919
Speaker 4: Hey, you know what you bar.

824
00:40:50,719 --> 00:40:50,879
Speaker 2: Bar?

825
00:40:51,719 --> 00:40:56,520
Speaker 6: That's that's my culture right there. Okay, I understand where

826
00:40:56,560 --> 00:41:01,200
Speaker 6: you're coming from, but please a little respects, all right.

827
00:41:02,440 --> 00:41:07,800
Speaker 4: I can't do it. I can't do that many.

828
00:41:07,640 --> 00:41:12,560
Speaker 1: Games Anyways, we asked all our guests, and you've been

829
00:41:12,560 --> 00:41:18,280
Speaker 1: a wonderful guest, thinking so much. What is the most

830
00:41:18,360 --> 00:41:20,360
Speaker 1: adult thing you want to do for yourself that you

831
00:41:20,400 --> 00:41:21,960
Speaker 1: haven't had time to do this year?

832
00:41:21,960 --> 00:41:23,879
Speaker 4: And it could be anything big or small.

833
00:41:24,560 --> 00:41:29,920
Speaker 6: I want to, Uh, I rent an I rent an

834
00:41:29,920 --> 00:41:35,200
Speaker 6: office space, right, okay, rights, it fields adult, that's wrong.

835
00:41:35,480 --> 00:41:38,799
Speaker 6: But I think I get less work done there. So

836
00:41:38,840 --> 00:41:43,560
Speaker 6: I want to challenge myself to not just use the printer.

837
00:41:45,840 --> 00:41:50,400
Speaker 6: And it's so cool that they have not because I

838
00:41:50,400 --> 00:41:55,280
Speaker 6: don't have that. But yeah, and really harness the power

839
00:41:55,320 --> 00:42:01,280
Speaker 6: of productivity. But I'll want to be last of an adult.

840
00:42:01,320 --> 00:42:03,680
Speaker 6: I think adult is bad. It's bad. It's bad.

841
00:42:03,760 --> 00:42:05,279
Speaker 4: Don't do it.

842
00:42:05,280 --> 00:42:10,120
Speaker 6: It's called adulting, I know, and I actually against that word.

843
00:42:11,560 --> 00:42:12,359
Speaker 4: Well, thank you for.

844
00:42:16,560 --> 00:42:18,160
Speaker 1: But you know what, you know what the key is,

845
00:42:18,200 --> 00:42:22,040
Speaker 1: Really it should be fun being an adult because growing

846
00:42:22,080 --> 00:42:23,160
Speaker 1: old is a privilege.

847
00:42:23,480 --> 00:42:30,279
Speaker 4: Yeah, all right, give it up for joy. Give it a.

848
00:42:35,680 --> 00:42:39,800
Speaker 2: Good talking to JSB. That was so cool. What a nice,

849
00:42:40,040 --> 00:42:41,120
Speaker 2: warm and kind person.

850
00:42:41,400 --> 00:42:41,960
Speaker 4: Yes, you know what.

851
00:42:42,000 --> 00:42:42,319
Speaker 3: I love.

852
00:42:42,640 --> 00:42:48,720
Speaker 1: I love how open discussions of therapy are right now,

853
00:42:49,080 --> 00:42:51,319
Speaker 1: because when I was growing up, it was like, oh

854
00:42:51,360 --> 00:42:54,760
Speaker 1: my god, are your parents getting divorced, you know, shame, yes,

855
00:42:54,880 --> 00:42:57,839
Speaker 1: and then like it's scarlet and then like therapy, Oh

856
00:42:57,880 --> 00:42:58,799
Speaker 1: my god, what's wrong with you?

857
00:42:58,800 --> 00:42:59,400
Speaker 4: Are you crazy?

858
00:42:59,440 --> 00:43:01,520
Speaker 1: And so you know, when I was growing up, it

859
00:43:01,560 --> 00:43:04,560
Speaker 1: was like slim fast and the only thing we should

860
00:43:04,600 --> 00:43:06,120
Speaker 1: take care of is like we're trying to work on

861
00:43:06,239 --> 00:43:11,760
Speaker 1: is like being thin. And the importance of on around

862
00:43:11,920 --> 00:43:15,880
Speaker 1: mental health right now, especially with social media and such,

863
00:43:16,480 --> 00:43:19,040
Speaker 1: I think is it's wonderful.

864
00:43:19,280 --> 00:43:21,680
Speaker 4: It's fucking wonderful and necessary.

865
00:43:21,719 --> 00:43:24,040
Speaker 1: And so you know, if I have to think about

866
00:43:24,040 --> 00:43:27,479
Speaker 1: something positive about the youth and the future, it would

867
00:43:27,520 --> 00:43:28,279
Speaker 1: definitely be that.

868
00:43:28,360 --> 00:43:30,640
Speaker 4: It definitely be the vocabulary.

869
00:43:30,880 --> 00:43:33,800
Speaker 2: Oh absolutely. I mean, look, the thing I love about

870
00:43:34,120 --> 00:43:37,720
Speaker 2: kids is there always going to say something original.

871
00:43:37,280 --> 00:43:39,879
Speaker 4: Yeah, not extra crispy, not extra.

872
00:43:40,120 --> 00:43:43,080
Speaker 2: Not extra crispys, not going to be just like something

873
00:43:43,080 --> 00:43:46,320
Speaker 2: they heard in like an echo chamber. Yeah, it's so cool.

874
00:43:46,600 --> 00:43:48,880
Speaker 2: And I didn't know how much I needed that in

875
00:43:48,920 --> 00:43:51,399
Speaker 2: my life. You know, yeah, I have it, but to

876
00:43:51,440 --> 00:43:54,359
Speaker 2: hear it on ig. What Julian brings is like this

877
00:43:54,600 --> 00:43:57,920
Speaker 2: quilt work of children, you know, Yeah, they're understanding of

878
00:43:57,960 --> 00:44:00,680
Speaker 2: the world around them. It's like we are just trying

879
00:44:00,719 --> 00:44:02,480
Speaker 2: to get back there as adults.

880
00:44:02,680 --> 00:44:04,799
Speaker 4: We are our inner child needs a hug.

881
00:44:04,880 --> 00:44:06,520
Speaker 3: Oh my god, my inter middle child.

882
00:44:06,640 --> 00:44:09,520
Speaker 4: We are hugging your inner child today. All right, everyone,

883
00:44:09,719 --> 00:44:10,320
Speaker 4: take care.

884
00:44:10,160 --> 00:44:12,160
Speaker 3: Bye and don't forget.

885
00:44:12,560 --> 00:44:15,840
Speaker 1: No, no, not not every episode, not every episode.

886
00:44:15,880 --> 00:44:18,759
Speaker 4: It's too much. Oh my god, Jesus Christ.

887
00:44:22,680 --> 00:44:24,280
Speaker 3: This has been an exactly right production.

888
00:44:24,600 --> 00:44:26,400
Speaker 4: Our senior producer is G. Howley.

889
00:44:26,800 --> 00:44:28,640
Speaker 3: Art Associate producer is Christina Chamberlain.

890
00:44:28,880 --> 00:44:30,960
Speaker 4: This episode was mixed by John Bradley.

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00:44:31,320 --> 00:44:32,800
Speaker 3: Our guest booker is Patrick Cotner.

892
00:44:32,920 --> 00:44:35,360
Speaker 4: Additional production support from Hannah Kyle Crichton.

893
00:44:35,600 --> 00:44:38,399
Speaker 3: Theme song and live show DJing is by DJ Don will.

894
00:44:38,680 --> 00:44:40,680
Speaker 4: Our live producer is Makala Konozovich.

895
00:44:41,040 --> 00:44:42,320
Speaker 3: Artwork by Jamie Bechtel.

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00:44:42,600 --> 00:44:44,920
Speaker 4: Photography by Heis vander Most.

897
00:44:45,200 --> 00:44:48,920
Speaker 2: Executive produced by Karen Kilgera, Georgia Hartstar and Daniel Kramer.

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00:44:49,160 --> 00:44:51,600
Speaker 4: Follow the show on Instagram at Adulting the Pod.

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00:44:51,960 --> 00:44:55,640
Speaker 3: Email your questions to Adulting Questions at gmail dot com.

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00:44:55,760 --> 00:44:56,360
Speaker 4: Mmmmm