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Welcome to money 20 00:01:08,800 --> 00:01:12,280 Speaker 1: making conversations. I'm your host with Sean McDonald. Each Money 21 00:01:12,280 --> 00:01:16,640 Speaker 1: Making Conversations talk shows about entrepreneurship and entertainment. I provide 22 00:01:16,640 --> 00:01:21,240 Speaker 1: the consumer and business owner access to celebrities, CEOs, entrepreneurs, 23 00:01:21,280 --> 00:01:24,520 Speaker 1: and industry decision makers. It is important to understand that 24 00:01:24,560 --> 00:01:28,080 Speaker 1: everybody travels a different path to success. That's because your 25 00:01:28,120 --> 00:01:30,840 Speaker 1: brand is different. The challenges you face in your life 26 00:01:30,840 --> 00:01:33,679 Speaker 1: are different. So stop reading other people's success stories and 27 00:01:33,720 --> 00:01:36,720 Speaker 1: start writing your own. Now. You can be motivated by 28 00:01:36,800 --> 00:01:40,080 Speaker 1: their success because their stories can offer direction and help 29 00:01:40,120 --> 00:01:43,000 Speaker 1: you reach your goals through your planning and committed effort. 30 00:01:43,400 --> 00:01:47,920 Speaker 1: The Money Making Conversation interviews provide relatable information to listen 31 00:01:47,960 --> 00:01:54,200 Speaker 1: about career and financial planning, entrepreneurship, motivation, leadership, overcoming the arts, 32 00:01:54,200 --> 00:01:57,240 Speaker 1: and how to live a balanced life. In order to 33 00:01:57,280 --> 00:01:59,280 Speaker 1: do these shows, I have to have fantastic guests, and 34 00:01:59,360 --> 00:02:01,840 Speaker 1: I have one on the line right now. My next 35 00:02:01,840 --> 00:02:05,120 Speaker 1: guest is one of the world's most requested motivational speakers. 36 00:02:05,560 --> 00:02:08,760 Speaker 1: She is a best selling author, coach, founder and CEO 37 00:02:08,919 --> 00:02:13,280 Speaker 1: of Motivating the Masses Incorporated from a struggling Sema from 38 00:02:13,280 --> 00:02:17,119 Speaker 1: a struggling single mom on public assistance to a millionaire entrepreneur. 39 00:02:17,480 --> 00:02:22,320 Speaker 1: Her global platform has reached nearly eight million, eighty million people. 40 00:02:22,840 --> 00:02:29,840 Speaker 1: Please welcome to Money Making Conversations, my dear friend, Lisa Nichols. Hello, Hello, Hello, 41 00:02:29,880 --> 00:02:31,680 Speaker 1: I'm so excited to be with you, to be shot, 42 00:02:31,919 --> 00:02:34,840 Speaker 1: Thank you, thank you. Success as uh as has been 43 00:02:34,840 --> 00:02:38,040 Speaker 1: a journey. You know, you've become a household name uh 44 00:02:38,200 --> 00:02:40,760 Speaker 1: to get everything you started here. With that being said, 45 00:02:40,800 --> 00:02:43,280 Speaker 1: what is your gift, Lisa? What would you say your 46 00:02:43,320 --> 00:02:47,480 Speaker 1: gift is? M It's a great question to start with. 47 00:02:47,600 --> 00:02:50,880 Speaker 1: I think my my gift is the ability to see 48 00:02:50,919 --> 00:02:54,560 Speaker 1: and feel uh and be with people exactly where they 49 00:02:54,639 --> 00:02:59,120 Speaker 1: are uh and and and then to be a possible 50 00:02:59,200 --> 00:03:02,400 Speaker 1: pathway to the man or the woman that they're looking 51 00:03:02,440 --> 00:03:05,320 Speaker 1: to become. So I can't be all of that to them, 52 00:03:05,360 --> 00:03:07,160 Speaker 1: but I can be right where they are with them, 53 00:03:07,480 --> 00:03:10,680 Speaker 1: hold that space, and then open up a doorway, a 54 00:03:10,720 --> 00:03:15,800 Speaker 1: conversation and action plan, a mindset on the journey to 55 00:03:15,919 --> 00:03:19,240 Speaker 1: the person that they say they want to become. I 56 00:03:19,280 --> 00:03:21,280 Speaker 1: love the way you kind of like say you kind 57 00:03:21,280 --> 00:03:24,160 Speaker 1: of hung on that word, Say you know, I'm listening 58 00:03:24,200 --> 00:03:26,399 Speaker 1: to you know you're motivator. Now, you know you don't 59 00:03:26,400 --> 00:03:28,880 Speaker 1: hang on the word that long unless it means that 60 00:03:29,200 --> 00:03:33,120 Speaker 1: people have these dreams, they have these expectations of themselves. 61 00:03:33,160 --> 00:03:36,040 Speaker 1: But is it the effort? There? Is that the plan there? 62 00:03:36,080 --> 00:03:37,760 Speaker 1: And that's what you're talking about when you're hanging on 63 00:03:37,800 --> 00:03:41,119 Speaker 1: the words say correct, right? Right? Well, first of all, yeah, 64 00:03:41,160 --> 00:03:46,160 Speaker 1: I call it a verbal highlights, the verbal highlights, and 65 00:03:46,360 --> 00:03:50,120 Speaker 1: and it's it's I understand what your intentions are. I 66 00:03:50,160 --> 00:03:52,760 Speaker 1: hear what you're saying, but it is the tongue is 67 00:03:52,800 --> 00:03:55,080 Speaker 1: the tongue in your mouth and the tongue in your 68 00:03:55,120 --> 00:03:59,800 Speaker 1: shoes going in the same direction. That's there's a beautiful 69 00:04:00,040 --> 00:04:01,720 Speaker 1: us in to have because you know, we always hear 70 00:04:01,760 --> 00:04:03,880 Speaker 1: the words if that's popular words in the UH, in 71 00:04:03,920 --> 00:04:06,600 Speaker 1: the motivational world, and that's everyday life. Now, you know, 72 00:04:06,800 --> 00:04:10,560 Speaker 1: what's your brand, what's your passion, what's your gift? Jump 73 00:04:10,600 --> 00:04:13,560 Speaker 1: for the opportunity, you know, follow your you know, follow 74 00:04:13,600 --> 00:04:16,880 Speaker 1: your lead, UH, go out on faith. These these terms 75 00:04:16,960 --> 00:04:19,280 Speaker 1: can be they can be they're they're useful, but they 76 00:04:19,279 --> 00:04:21,520 Speaker 1: can also be dangerous because just to go out on 77 00:04:21,600 --> 00:04:24,240 Speaker 1: faith without a plan, always tell people is a mistake 78 00:04:24,880 --> 00:04:28,440 Speaker 1: and also not even understanding what your brand is. And 79 00:04:28,480 --> 00:04:31,240 Speaker 1: sometimes you should like as you're growing your brand, you 80 00:04:31,240 --> 00:04:34,280 Speaker 1: should stay where you are to your your brand can 81 00:04:34,320 --> 00:04:36,919 Speaker 1: somewhat afford you an opportunity to pay some bills. So 82 00:04:36,960 --> 00:04:40,320 Speaker 1: when you're doing this whole process of traveling and meeting everybody, 83 00:04:40,440 --> 00:04:42,520 Speaker 1: like I said in your in your intro, you know, 84 00:04:42,760 --> 00:04:46,000 Speaker 1: from a struggling single mom on public assistance to a 85 00:04:46,040 --> 00:04:51,080 Speaker 1: millionaire entrepreneur, how do you balance those conversations? Lisa Nichols, 86 00:04:53,040 --> 00:04:57,760 Speaker 1: You know, I adopted a long time ago this theory 87 00:04:58,040 --> 00:05:01,000 Speaker 1: that I learned. I had never heard of it until 88 00:05:01,080 --> 00:05:04,800 Speaker 1: I was like, probably into my late thirties early forties, 89 00:05:05,400 --> 00:05:09,880 Speaker 1: and it was called it's called cognitive dissonance and cognitive dissonance. 90 00:05:09,920 --> 00:05:12,920 Speaker 1: I invite anyone who's listened to my voice look it up, 91 00:05:13,040 --> 00:05:18,960 Speaker 1: study it, and become an an avid applier of cognitive 92 00:05:18,960 --> 00:05:24,560 Speaker 1: dissonance and cognitive dissonances when you see yourself further in 93 00:05:24,600 --> 00:05:27,960 Speaker 1: front of you than you actually are, and you you 94 00:05:28,040 --> 00:05:30,960 Speaker 1: know that in order to get there you have to 95 00:05:31,000 --> 00:05:33,159 Speaker 1: do something different. So it's a disruption of the brain. 96 00:05:33,600 --> 00:05:36,560 Speaker 1: The brain is seeing you in a space that you 97 00:05:36,680 --> 00:05:41,080 Speaker 1: physically are not, financially or not, and you know that 98 00:05:41,120 --> 00:05:44,320 Speaker 1: if that's who you are to become, you need to 99 00:05:44,440 --> 00:05:47,200 Speaker 1: do some things that you're not doing stop doing something 100 00:05:47,320 --> 00:05:49,800 Speaker 1: that you are doing, begin to adopt some ways of 101 00:05:49,839 --> 00:05:52,680 Speaker 1: thinking that you haven't adopted yet. That literally, there is 102 00:05:52,720 --> 00:05:57,279 Speaker 1: a mental discomfort because the way you're living, being, operating, 103 00:05:57,320 --> 00:06:01,040 Speaker 1: and what your experience is incongruent to who you know 104 00:06:01,160 --> 00:06:07,240 Speaker 1: yourself to be. So I, early on Rashan adopted that 105 00:06:08,160 --> 00:06:13,000 Speaker 1: behavior and mindset. Right now, you're The interesting thing about 106 00:06:13,040 --> 00:06:15,400 Speaker 1: that is that so because you used the word early on. 107 00:06:15,440 --> 00:06:17,240 Speaker 1: So let's go back to your background a little bit, 108 00:06:17,480 --> 00:06:19,240 Speaker 1: because there are a lot of people want to be you, 109 00:06:19,480 --> 00:06:22,800 Speaker 1: our version of you, or feel that they can do this. 110 00:06:22,920 --> 00:06:25,160 Speaker 1: They can motivate people because people call my show. They 111 00:06:25,160 --> 00:06:27,720 Speaker 1: stopped in the streets, they know who I am. To go, Hey, 112 00:06:27,760 --> 00:06:30,479 Speaker 1: I want to get into motivational speaking business. I have 113 00:06:30,560 --> 00:06:32,760 Speaker 1: some things I want to say. So how did you 114 00:06:33,000 --> 00:06:37,960 Speaker 1: tell us about your background and how did you get started? Lisa? Well, 115 00:06:37,960 --> 00:06:41,760 Speaker 1: you know it's funny because I didn't. I didn't step 116 00:06:41,800 --> 00:06:46,160 Speaker 1: into motivation, inspiration or transformation. Those are all you know 117 00:06:46,240 --> 00:06:51,800 Speaker 1: in the same zip code right now. I didn't step 118 00:06:51,920 --> 00:06:56,160 Speaker 1: into this community saying I wanted to be this person. 119 00:06:56,560 --> 00:07:00,680 Speaker 1: I stepped into into this community working to save my 120 00:07:00,800 --> 00:07:06,000 Speaker 1: own life. So I am a wounded healer. I am 121 00:07:06,320 --> 00:07:10,160 Speaker 1: a victim who just kept going to victor, and I 122 00:07:10,360 --> 00:07:13,480 Speaker 1: sat down the victim conversation and picked up the I 123 00:07:13,520 --> 00:07:16,320 Speaker 1: want to be a champion for this kind of experience 124 00:07:16,360 --> 00:07:19,240 Speaker 1: for others because I came through it. So um, I 125 00:07:19,480 --> 00:07:23,400 Speaker 1: discovered motivation because I was so depressed and I was 126 00:07:23,480 --> 00:07:26,800 Speaker 1: so sad, and I was broken broken, and then I 127 00:07:26,880 --> 00:07:31,400 Speaker 1: became tired of being broken broken. It didn't happen overnight 128 00:07:31,480 --> 00:07:36,720 Speaker 1: that I knew how to stop being broken broken. I 129 00:07:36,800 --> 00:07:41,560 Speaker 1: just started a quest to one discover Who could I 130 00:07:41,640 --> 00:07:46,119 Speaker 1: be if I stopped being this this frustrated, angry, hurt, 131 00:07:46,600 --> 00:07:50,160 Speaker 1: scared person. Who could I become? Who could I become? 132 00:07:50,440 --> 00:07:52,920 Speaker 1: If I stopped demming my light and only showing you 133 00:07:53,000 --> 00:07:56,679 Speaker 1: half of my lights so that I don't impose on 134 00:07:56,680 --> 00:07:59,040 Speaker 1: on your effort to find your own life? Who can 135 00:07:59,080 --> 00:08:03,080 Speaker 1: I become? Um? If I gave myself a thousand second 136 00:08:03,120 --> 00:08:07,120 Speaker 1: chances because I keep falling down. But if I stopped 137 00:08:07,120 --> 00:08:09,480 Speaker 1: counting the fall downs, and I stopped counting and I 138 00:08:09,520 --> 00:08:11,840 Speaker 1: start counting the get ups, who could I be? So 139 00:08:11,880 --> 00:08:14,240 Speaker 1: I just kept I put on my door the explorer 140 00:08:14,240 --> 00:08:16,200 Speaker 1: hat Rashan, and I turned the light on the on 141 00:08:16,280 --> 00:08:18,760 Speaker 1: the front of it, and I just began to explore 142 00:08:19,240 --> 00:08:23,640 Speaker 1: who Lisa can become as a single mother, as someone 143 00:08:23,720 --> 00:08:26,800 Speaker 1: born in in South central and live between the Harlem 144 00:08:26,840 --> 00:08:29,160 Speaker 1: cript thirties and the role in sixties. Who had three 145 00:08:29,160 --> 00:08:31,560 Speaker 1: fights a week to get home from school, who's function 146 00:08:31,600 --> 00:08:38,079 Speaker 1: who is functionally dyslexic? Who could she become? So really, 147 00:08:38,120 --> 00:08:41,839 Speaker 1: I started this journey just in discovery of who can 148 00:08:42,040 --> 00:08:44,160 Speaker 1: I become. I'm I'm gonna be honest with you. I 149 00:08:44,200 --> 00:08:47,679 Speaker 1: didn't started saying I'm a favorite world, I'm inspired the world, 150 00:08:48,000 --> 00:08:51,120 Speaker 1: I'm gonna be a millionaire. No, I said, I'm gonna 151 00:08:51,120 --> 00:08:54,160 Speaker 1: get off government's assistance. I'm gonna stop you. I'm gonna 152 00:08:54,200 --> 00:08:57,920 Speaker 1: stop meeting wick when women infinite children. I'm gonna stop 153 00:08:58,160 --> 00:09:00,560 Speaker 1: thinking I'm not beautiful in my moca skin, in my 154 00:09:00,679 --> 00:09:02,720 Speaker 1: full lips, with my round hips and my kinky here. 155 00:09:02,960 --> 00:09:06,040 Speaker 1: I'm gonna stop so my. The first part of my journey, 156 00:09:06,520 --> 00:09:10,720 Speaker 1: I was running away from all my chaos, and then 157 00:09:10,800 --> 00:09:14,240 Speaker 1: I bumped into possibility and I liked the way it felt. 158 00:09:14,520 --> 00:09:16,560 Speaker 1: And then I start pursuing something new. I'm gonna be 159 00:09:16,960 --> 00:09:20,160 Speaker 1: perfectly I'm well, that's how it started. Everybody in the 160 00:09:20,200 --> 00:09:23,160 Speaker 1: booth got the hand up. They got the hand up, Lisa, 161 00:09:23,520 --> 00:09:26,000 Speaker 1: they got the hand up. Now you know everybody in 162 00:09:26,040 --> 00:09:30,480 Speaker 1: the booth, white people, black people, everybody got the hand up. 163 00:09:31,679 --> 00:09:34,679 Speaker 1: That's a relatable speech here, that's a relatable speech. You know. 164 00:09:34,679 --> 00:09:37,120 Speaker 1: I'm saying, it's not a black thing. It's not a white, 165 00:09:37,679 --> 00:09:39,720 Speaker 1: a Christian thing, it's not a Buddha thing. It's not 166 00:09:39,760 --> 00:09:42,240 Speaker 1: a woman thing. It's not it's a human spirit, my 167 00:09:42,440 --> 00:09:46,720 Speaker 1: human spirit. When I discovered that my human spirit is unbreakable, 168 00:09:47,120 --> 00:09:51,319 Speaker 1: it's unshakable, and it's unavailable to my bank account balance, 169 00:09:51,559 --> 00:09:53,760 Speaker 1: that has broke down relationship that I may have been 170 00:09:53,800 --> 00:09:56,120 Speaker 1: in how much I was winning at the time. My 171 00:09:56,240 --> 00:10:00,520 Speaker 1: human spirit has always and will always simp We asked 172 00:10:00,559 --> 00:10:03,960 Speaker 1: for the command. What are we going to conquer next? 173 00:10:04,200 --> 00:10:07,040 Speaker 1: Give me a command? When I figured that our shine. 174 00:10:07,040 --> 00:10:10,040 Speaker 1: When I figured that out, man, I just I was like, 175 00:10:10,400 --> 00:10:12,319 Speaker 1: it was like the new It was a new drug 176 00:10:12,440 --> 00:10:14,680 Speaker 1: for me. It literally was a new drug for me. 177 00:10:14,720 --> 00:10:16,360 Speaker 1: I was like, Oh, I'm gonna take this in every day. 178 00:10:16,400 --> 00:10:18,960 Speaker 1: I'm anna inhale, I'm gonna drink it. I'm a I'm aware, 179 00:10:18,960 --> 00:10:20,559 Speaker 1: and I'm gonna rub it on. I'm a bathe in 180 00:10:20,640 --> 00:10:23,679 Speaker 1: at possibility, and when I realized that if I can 181 00:10:23,760 --> 00:10:26,439 Speaker 1: think about it, but not just think about it, if 182 00:10:26,440 --> 00:10:29,040 Speaker 1: I could see it clearly, clear colors, if I could 183 00:10:29,080 --> 00:10:31,120 Speaker 1: smell it, I didn't want to just see my dreams. 184 00:10:31,160 --> 00:10:33,600 Speaker 1: I wanted to smell them. I wanted to taste them. 185 00:10:33,640 --> 00:10:36,280 Speaker 1: So I would go to people's house that live like 186 00:10:36,400 --> 00:10:38,800 Speaker 1: I wanted to live. I find a way to get in. 187 00:10:39,280 --> 00:10:41,480 Speaker 1: I find a way to get in resin and I 188 00:10:41,720 --> 00:10:46,160 Speaker 1: rubbed on their furniture. I would club on their center islands. 189 00:10:46,520 --> 00:10:48,920 Speaker 1: I would drew up on their cars. And I'm not materialistic, 190 00:10:49,240 --> 00:10:51,360 Speaker 1: but I believe that the God that I served says, 191 00:10:51,400 --> 00:10:53,520 Speaker 1: if there's zero distance between you and it, and it 192 00:10:53,600 --> 00:10:55,760 Speaker 1: is available to you. So I just put zero distance 193 00:10:55,960 --> 00:10:59,040 Speaker 1: between me and all the things I dreamt about, the lifestyle, 194 00:10:59,120 --> 00:11:01,880 Speaker 1: the people to love, and then I felt it. I 195 00:11:01,920 --> 00:11:04,280 Speaker 1: could taste it, I could see it, I could smell it. 196 00:11:04,440 --> 00:11:06,360 Speaker 1: I took a picture next to it, and then I 197 00:11:06,360 --> 00:11:09,040 Speaker 1: brought it back into my hemisphere in my mindset, and 198 00:11:09,120 --> 00:11:13,040 Speaker 1: then I adopted cognitive dissonance. Please look that up, y'all, 199 00:11:13,400 --> 00:11:16,520 Speaker 1: I said, who do I have to become? What do 200 00:11:16,640 --> 00:11:19,920 Speaker 1: I have to do to shorten the distance between me 201 00:11:20,160 --> 00:11:22,600 Speaker 1: and it. I'm just telling you, I'm coming to be quiet. 202 00:11:22,600 --> 00:11:26,560 Speaker 1: Now let you talk. I got excited, Lisa, Lisa, you know, 203 00:11:26,760 --> 00:11:28,520 Speaker 1: let me tell yourself. That's what I love you. I'm 204 00:11:28,600 --> 00:11:30,959 Speaker 1: telling you right, you know I got to I got 205 00:11:30,960 --> 00:11:33,280 Speaker 1: this chance to see you live several years ago at ESSs, 206 00:11:33,320 --> 00:11:35,240 Speaker 1: just sitting in the back of the room, just sitting 207 00:11:35,320 --> 00:11:38,760 Speaker 1: are having the same motivational tone, having people stand up 208 00:11:38,800 --> 00:11:44,600 Speaker 1: point at you. Yeah girl, do it dood You know. 209 00:11:44,760 --> 00:11:46,640 Speaker 1: You know when people get motivated, they don't say much word, 210 00:11:46,640 --> 00:11:49,760 Speaker 1: They don't say many since they just go tall, point 211 00:11:49,800 --> 00:11:53,000 Speaker 1: at you and just look around, get your little shake 212 00:11:53,080 --> 00:11:55,719 Speaker 1: your hand left and right. Come on now, come on now. 213 00:11:56,200 --> 00:11:59,880 Speaker 1: Because that's the blessing of being able to find your guilt, 214 00:12:00,160 --> 00:12:03,640 Speaker 1: find your passion, or or build upon it. Because when 215 00:12:03,640 --> 00:12:05,720 Speaker 1: I hear you talk. You know, like I tell people 216 00:12:05,720 --> 00:12:08,199 Speaker 1: in high school, I should drive around in different neighborhoods. 217 00:12:08,240 --> 00:12:11,200 Speaker 1: I used to cut out cars or that I didn't 218 00:12:11,800 --> 00:12:13,520 Speaker 1: I just liked them. I just knew this type of 219 00:12:13,520 --> 00:12:17,079 Speaker 1: car I wanted if I had money, to be in it, 220 00:12:17,320 --> 00:12:19,880 Speaker 1: to experience it, to deliver it, to be it. And 221 00:12:19,920 --> 00:12:22,040 Speaker 1: I always tell peoplehen I walk around in people houses 222 00:12:22,040 --> 00:12:24,199 Speaker 1: where they have more money than me, you know, I 223 00:12:24,200 --> 00:12:26,760 Speaker 1: I just visualize how they would look. And so so 224 00:12:26,800 --> 00:12:28,960 Speaker 1: when I when I buy something that I want is 225 00:12:29,000 --> 00:12:31,800 Speaker 1: at that level, then I'm already there mentally. And so 226 00:12:31,800 --> 00:12:34,160 Speaker 1: I always tell people, don't deny what you can get 227 00:12:34,400 --> 00:12:36,720 Speaker 1: just because you think you don't have it currently. And 228 00:12:36,800 --> 00:12:38,760 Speaker 1: that's what that means. You're shutting down your future. You're 229 00:12:38,760 --> 00:12:41,760 Speaker 1: shutting down your options to be successful. And that's the 230 00:12:41,800 --> 00:12:43,760 Speaker 1: wrong way to think. And so when I look at 231 00:12:43,800 --> 00:12:46,600 Speaker 1: people talking about visionary boards, vision boards and all that, 232 00:12:46,800 --> 00:12:50,160 Speaker 1: you know, that's nothing new. We just we just you know, 233 00:12:50,200 --> 00:12:52,360 Speaker 1: it's just that's just a fancy word. They put on 234 00:12:52,640 --> 00:12:55,079 Speaker 1: a dream, that's just a fancy word. They put on 235 00:12:55,120 --> 00:12:58,080 Speaker 1: the world a goal. You know. Vision boards have been 236 00:12:58,120 --> 00:13:01,040 Speaker 1: in the you know Ford he had a vision you 237 00:13:01,080 --> 00:13:03,679 Speaker 1: know Edison he had a vision board, you know. And 238 00:13:03,720 --> 00:13:05,719 Speaker 1: so now we put all these words and we give 239 00:13:05,760 --> 00:13:09,120 Speaker 1: too much power to these little fancy words like brands 240 00:13:09,160 --> 00:13:12,920 Speaker 1: and gifts and and uh and envision boards and really 241 00:13:12,960 --> 00:13:15,000 Speaker 1: just go back to who you are, what you want 242 00:13:15,000 --> 00:13:18,080 Speaker 1: to be, what your dreams are capable of achieving, and 243 00:13:18,160 --> 00:13:20,760 Speaker 1: not what you're living at currently, and get rid of 244 00:13:20,760 --> 00:13:23,680 Speaker 1: those nay says, because you know when you were starting 245 00:13:23,720 --> 00:13:26,080 Speaker 1: to turn that corner, Lisa, then they say it was 246 00:13:26,080 --> 00:13:29,520 Speaker 1: coming out girl. What you're trying to do? You hear 247 00:13:29,559 --> 00:13:31,720 Speaker 1: about that? You better stay where you at? How do 248 00:13:31,760 --> 00:13:35,520 Speaker 1: you fight off those nay says Lisa, Well, first of all, 249 00:13:35,840 --> 00:13:40,959 Speaker 1: you know, going back to your visualizing and understanding about 250 00:13:41,000 --> 00:13:46,320 Speaker 1: having things, I realized that there's a complete distinction between wealth. 251 00:13:46,520 --> 00:13:51,240 Speaker 1: Wealth is a unilateral conversation around money and possessions. That's wealth. 252 00:13:51,440 --> 00:13:54,480 Speaker 1: And while that's an indicator of some level of success, 253 00:13:54,920 --> 00:13:58,520 Speaker 1: wealth is not the ultimate indicator of success. Abundance is 254 00:13:59,120 --> 00:14:03,640 Speaker 1: um abundant. End is not just the unilateral UH category 255 00:14:03,720 --> 00:14:08,920 Speaker 1: called wealth, money UH and possessions. Abundance is abundance in 256 00:14:08,960 --> 00:14:13,720 Speaker 1: your relationships, abundant, in having health wealth abundant, and having 257 00:14:13,800 --> 00:14:17,959 Speaker 1: spiritual wealth abundance, and having financial wealth. It's one category 258 00:14:18,000 --> 00:14:20,200 Speaker 1: of a very large picture. So I want to just 259 00:14:20,320 --> 00:14:22,960 Speaker 1: be very clear that that what I pursue and what 260 00:14:23,040 --> 00:14:25,080 Speaker 1: I have pursued for the last twenty five years, and 261 00:14:25,080 --> 00:14:27,640 Speaker 1: what I teach my students who step onto my multiple 262 00:14:28,160 --> 00:14:32,000 Speaker 1: multiple forms in my campus is let's pursue abundance, because 263 00:14:32,040 --> 00:14:34,760 Speaker 1: abundance is gonna feel a whole lot better than wealth. 264 00:14:35,040 --> 00:14:38,440 Speaker 1: I coach a lot of very very wealthy people how 265 00:14:38,480 --> 00:14:41,560 Speaker 1: to have abundance. And so I just want to make 266 00:14:41,600 --> 00:14:44,120 Speaker 1: that very clear that that's the thing that I value 267 00:14:44,160 --> 00:14:47,640 Speaker 1: most in my life is that this past weekend, while 268 00:14:48,120 --> 00:14:52,120 Speaker 1: I spoke for an event that had forty six different 269 00:14:52,120 --> 00:14:56,880 Speaker 1: countries present, the most exciting part about my weekend was 270 00:14:56,960 --> 00:15:01,040 Speaker 1: on Friday night, for the first time and forty plus years, 271 00:15:01,080 --> 00:15:03,600 Speaker 1: my father finally let me shave his beard. He finally 272 00:15:03,640 --> 00:15:07,640 Speaker 1: trust me enough to shave his beer. And and that 273 00:15:07,760 --> 00:15:10,920 Speaker 1: was the highlight of my weekend. While I was talking 274 00:15:10,960 --> 00:15:13,880 Speaker 1: to thousands and thousands of people in generating thousands and 275 00:15:13,920 --> 00:15:18,480 Speaker 1: thousands of dollars, that was the highlights. So I'm very clear, UM, naysayers, 276 00:15:19,240 --> 00:15:22,760 Speaker 1: So let me just first set a tone that, UM, 277 00:15:22,880 --> 00:15:27,160 Speaker 1: you can never have someone who has a UM, you 278 00:15:27,200 --> 00:15:31,840 Speaker 1: can never put your sixty four ounce dreams and someone 279 00:15:31,880 --> 00:15:35,680 Speaker 1: who has a twenty four ounce capacity. So so so 280 00:15:35,760 --> 00:15:37,560 Speaker 1: let's let's let's just start with the truth, because the 281 00:15:37,560 --> 00:15:39,520 Speaker 1: truth will set of soft free. So I heard somewhere, 282 00:15:39,920 --> 00:15:42,840 Speaker 1: so you will have if you have a sixty four 283 00:15:42,920 --> 00:15:46,240 Speaker 1: ounce dream, then only give twenty four ounces of that 284 00:15:46,360 --> 00:15:48,320 Speaker 1: dream to someone who is a twenty four ounce thinker. 285 00:15:50,200 --> 00:15:53,960 Speaker 1: Go find go find a hundred and twenty ounce thinker 286 00:15:54,240 --> 00:15:56,920 Speaker 1: and give them your sixty four I was drinking and 287 00:15:57,000 --> 00:16:00,480 Speaker 1: watch them expanded. So, first of all, don't don't do 288 00:16:00,560 --> 00:16:03,920 Speaker 1: a disservice to the twenty four hours thinker or to 289 00:16:04,040 --> 00:16:07,920 Speaker 1: you by giving your dream that's out of their capacity 290 00:16:08,000 --> 00:16:10,680 Speaker 1: to someone. And I'm not saying anything negative about the 291 00:16:10,680 --> 00:16:13,400 Speaker 1: twenty four hours thinker. They're not thinking small. They're twenty 292 00:16:13,400 --> 00:16:17,280 Speaker 1: four hours is a hundred, there's twenty four hours, and 293 00:16:17,320 --> 00:16:19,760 Speaker 1: they're totally fine until you go and try to cram 294 00:16:19,800 --> 00:16:23,320 Speaker 1: your sixty four hours instead the twenty four our capacities. 295 00:16:23,720 --> 00:16:26,240 Speaker 1: Love them and be with them right where they are. 296 00:16:26,320 --> 00:16:28,840 Speaker 1: So I'm gonna say that and then say, the people 297 00:16:28,920 --> 00:16:31,520 Speaker 1: in your life did not sign up to be your 298 00:16:31,560 --> 00:16:34,040 Speaker 1: business partner. They don't sign up to be your fans. 299 00:16:34,200 --> 00:16:35,880 Speaker 1: They don't sign up to be the first readers of 300 00:16:35,960 --> 00:16:37,720 Speaker 1: your book. They don't sign up to make your book 301 00:16:37,720 --> 00:16:40,320 Speaker 1: a best seller. They decided to be your student. Allow 302 00:16:40,480 --> 00:16:43,160 Speaker 1: them to be who they are. That's that's number two. 303 00:16:43,360 --> 00:16:49,080 Speaker 1: Number three is your job is to be born into 304 00:16:49,160 --> 00:16:54,400 Speaker 1: a community biological, geographical, spiritual culture. That's the community you 305 00:16:54,440 --> 00:16:57,960 Speaker 1: were born into allow that community to coexist with you. 306 00:16:57,960 --> 00:17:01,160 Speaker 1: Your second job is to go find your second community 307 00:17:01,480 --> 00:17:04,480 Speaker 1: that's gonna make you stand on your tippy toes. That's 308 00:17:04,520 --> 00:17:07,080 Speaker 1: what I did, And when I found that second community, 309 00:17:07,200 --> 00:17:10,240 Speaker 1: lowers the hold. It was a conference. I was the 310 00:17:10,280 --> 00:17:13,360 Speaker 1: only one of three women. I was the only person 311 00:17:13,560 --> 00:17:18,359 Speaker 1: of any color, So that's that's a cross Latin Asian Indians, 312 00:17:18,600 --> 00:17:21,159 Speaker 1: no color but me. And then I was the youngest 313 00:17:21,160 --> 00:17:24,480 Speaker 1: person by eighteen years. So I felt like an alien 314 00:17:24,680 --> 00:17:28,360 Speaker 1: on an entirely different planet. And they were speaking an 315 00:17:28,600 --> 00:17:32,159 Speaker 1: entirely different language. No oblo espagno. I didn't know what 316 00:17:32,200 --> 00:17:35,600 Speaker 1: they were talking about. Still talking about PPM term agreements, 317 00:17:35,920 --> 00:17:40,120 Speaker 1: r o I, revenue streams, um of revenue paths and 318 00:17:40,119 --> 00:17:41,880 Speaker 1: and p n l s And I'm like, what are 319 00:17:41,920 --> 00:17:45,760 Speaker 1: they talking about? But I didn't run. I didn't run 320 00:17:45,800 --> 00:17:48,600 Speaker 1: because I was different. I didn't run because I stood out. 321 00:17:48,720 --> 00:17:51,159 Speaker 1: I didn't run because I was lonely. I would go 322 00:17:51,240 --> 00:17:54,439 Speaker 1: to the conference. I would spend three thousand, seven hundred 323 00:17:54,480 --> 00:17:57,480 Speaker 1: and eighty two dollars that I didn't have. I would 324 00:17:57,480 --> 00:17:59,920 Speaker 1: go there for eight days, and I would feel lone 325 00:18:00,160 --> 00:18:04,080 Speaker 1: and out of place. But I knew that group was 326 00:18:04,320 --> 00:18:09,320 Speaker 1: causing me to stand roshan on my tippy toes. They 327 00:18:09,400 --> 00:18:12,520 Speaker 1: caused me to stay up at night and research what 328 00:18:12,640 --> 00:18:15,480 Speaker 1: does PPM mean term agreement r O I, what does 329 00:18:15,520 --> 00:18:18,080 Speaker 1: it mean to have seven revenue streams? What does it 330 00:18:18,200 --> 00:18:20,119 Speaker 1: mean to have a p n L? I had no 331 00:18:20,200 --> 00:18:23,200 Speaker 1: idea what this stuff was. So this group, by being 332 00:18:23,320 --> 00:18:28,840 Speaker 1: in their physical proximity, they kept me in cognitive dissonance. 333 00:18:29,000 --> 00:18:32,680 Speaker 1: They kept me uncomfortable in who I could become if 334 00:18:32,720 --> 00:18:35,680 Speaker 1: I stood around long enough. People often think when they 335 00:18:35,720 --> 00:18:40,200 Speaker 1: become uncomfortable, they back away, and I say, don't back away, 336 00:18:40,320 --> 00:18:43,800 Speaker 1: don't back away from the discomfort. It's simply It simply 337 00:18:44,000 --> 00:18:46,680 Speaker 1: means that you're conviction and you're convenience. As you heard 338 00:18:46,720 --> 00:18:48,879 Speaker 1: me say, don't live on the same block. You're not 339 00:18:48,920 --> 00:18:51,919 Speaker 1: gonna be convenience on your way to the greatest version 340 00:18:52,200 --> 00:18:54,399 Speaker 1: of you. I'll say that again. You're not gonna be 341 00:18:54,480 --> 00:18:59,639 Speaker 1: convenience on on the journey to the greatest version of 342 00:19:01,080 --> 00:19:04,800 Speaker 1: your greatness lives on the outside of your comfort zone. 343 00:19:05,160 --> 00:19:08,520 Speaker 1: What you've already done, you've already done. So if you're comfortable, 344 00:19:08,720 --> 00:19:11,880 Speaker 1: it's because you ain't growing. If you complain it, if 345 00:19:11,880 --> 00:19:14,800 Speaker 1: you feel good everything, Oh, everything is good. All things 346 00:19:14,800 --> 00:19:17,520 Speaker 1: are good. That means you're not at the edge of 347 00:19:17,640 --> 00:19:20,040 Speaker 1: your boss. I'm not saying feel bad, but i am 348 00:19:20,080 --> 00:19:23,000 Speaker 1: saying feel stretched. My dear talking to the amazing and 349 00:19:23,000 --> 00:19:27,359 Speaker 1: put the word amazing in front of her. Amazing. Lisa Nichols, bookselling, 350 00:19:27,640 --> 00:19:31,880 Speaker 1: bestselling author, coach, founder, motivational speaker, founding CEO of Motivating 351 00:19:31,920 --> 00:19:33,919 Speaker 1: the Masters. When we come back, she got a lot 352 00:19:33,960 --> 00:19:35,320 Speaker 1: of the things that are coming up in the fall, 353 00:19:35,440 --> 00:19:41,880 Speaker 1: the extraordinary, you, elevate speakers, mastermind, powerhouse, motivating, the teen spirit. 354 00:19:41,920 --> 00:19:43,840 Speaker 1: We're gonna talk about all that in the next break. 355 00:19:44,000 --> 00:19:49,120 Speaker 1: She's amazing. Right back with more money making conversations. 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I just Rashan McDonald. You're listening 400 00:22:18,800 --> 00:22:21,800 Speaker 1: to Money Making Conversation, the show I created to provide 401 00:22:21,800 --> 00:22:24,840 Speaker 1: information to individuals like you who are listening. There are 402 00:22:24,840 --> 00:22:26,880 Speaker 1: people out there who are successful. There are people who 403 00:22:26,880 --> 00:22:29,880 Speaker 1: have traveled some paths that you want to travel. They 404 00:22:29,920 --> 00:22:32,600 Speaker 1: have dreams that you want to achieve. They have goals 405 00:22:32,640 --> 00:22:35,560 Speaker 1: that you want to set. That's what money making conversations 406 00:22:35,640 --> 00:22:38,320 Speaker 1: is all about. More importantly, they motivate you, not only 407 00:22:38,400 --> 00:22:42,440 Speaker 1: which with your spirit, but information information that it's tied 408 00:22:42,480 --> 00:22:44,560 Speaker 1: to work. You gotta have work ethic, you have to 409 00:22:44,600 --> 00:22:47,120 Speaker 1: have a You can't limit yourself based on I don't 410 00:22:47,119 --> 00:22:49,720 Speaker 1: have enough time. I'm not an early morning person. You 411 00:22:49,760 --> 00:22:52,840 Speaker 1: can't have excuses in your path to success. That's what 412 00:22:53,040 --> 00:22:55,080 Speaker 1: That's what money The main conversation is all about. One 413 00:22:55,119 --> 00:22:58,240 Speaker 1: of the leaders in that one of the true Queens, 414 00:22:58,359 --> 00:23:04,879 Speaker 1: Captain's Admira was President's UH Diamond Club member. Amazing is 415 00:23:04,920 --> 00:23:07,800 Speaker 1: the incredible Lisa Nichols. Lisa, welcome back to the show. 416 00:23:08,680 --> 00:23:11,600 Speaker 1: Thank you so much for having me. I want to 417 00:23:11,640 --> 00:23:13,720 Speaker 1: talk about this right quickly. Let's talk about the impact 418 00:23:13,760 --> 00:23:17,200 Speaker 1: you have had on the teens through your nonprofit foundation, 419 00:23:17,280 --> 00:23:20,080 Speaker 1: Motivating the Teen Spirit. You have touched the lives over 420 00:23:20,119 --> 00:23:23,920 Speaker 1: over two hundred and seventy thousand teens, prevented over thirty 421 00:23:23,920 --> 00:23:28,600 Speaker 1: eight hundred teen suicide, supported hundred dropouts and returning them 422 00:23:28,640 --> 00:23:33,320 Speaker 1: to school, and it's helped thousands to reunite with their families. Okay, 423 00:23:33,320 --> 00:23:38,359 Speaker 1: that's a yeah, ok yeah yeah, but that you know 424 00:23:38,520 --> 00:23:43,640 Speaker 1: when you said I filled my heart expans at nineteen, um, 425 00:23:43,640 --> 00:23:48,400 Speaker 1: I had already been you know, um superachiever in some 426 00:23:48,480 --> 00:23:52,359 Speaker 1: areas in school, as a track, as an as an athlete, 427 00:23:52,560 --> 00:23:56,080 Speaker 1: um uh, as a as a social leader in school, 428 00:23:56,080 --> 00:23:59,440 Speaker 1: though I struggle academically and a lot of areas I 429 00:23:59,720 --> 00:24:03,760 Speaker 1: see to be very happy. And at nineteen I found 430 00:24:03,760 --> 00:24:07,640 Speaker 1: myself um in a very dark place, and I even 431 00:24:07,640 --> 00:24:12,320 Speaker 1: contemplated suicide. And I remember standing in the bathroom with 432 00:24:12,440 --> 00:24:16,119 Speaker 1: a handful of Thailand All and I wasn't sure if 433 00:24:16,160 --> 00:24:18,280 Speaker 1: they would do the trick at eate thailand All to 434 00:24:18,280 --> 00:24:21,160 Speaker 1: be exact and extra strength thailand on. I wasn't sure 435 00:24:21,200 --> 00:24:24,520 Speaker 1: if this will be enough. But I realized I didn't 436 00:24:24,560 --> 00:24:26,399 Speaker 1: really want to die. I just wanted the pain that 437 00:24:26,480 --> 00:24:30,720 Speaker 1: I felt in my soul to stop. And I remember 438 00:24:30,720 --> 00:24:33,119 Speaker 1: falling to my knees and crying out to God in 439 00:24:33,200 --> 00:24:36,080 Speaker 1: my little one bit room house that my dad and 440 00:24:36,160 --> 00:24:38,640 Speaker 1: I lived in, when I said, God, if you helped 441 00:24:38,680 --> 00:24:41,400 Speaker 1: to relieve me of this pain right now, I'll spend 442 00:24:41,440 --> 00:24:44,920 Speaker 1: the rest of my life helping teams be emotionally healthy, 443 00:24:45,080 --> 00:24:47,760 Speaker 1: to find joy, to be able to discover how to 444 00:24:47,800 --> 00:24:52,520 Speaker 1: have healthy conversations. I'll be a part of the solution. God, 445 00:24:52,560 --> 00:24:55,640 Speaker 1: I remember that day like it were yesterday. Rashan and 446 00:24:56,200 --> 00:25:00,119 Speaker 1: I went on for uh. I got up, got through that. 447 00:25:00,119 --> 00:25:02,640 Speaker 1: I got through that dark moment, and ten years later, 448 00:25:02,760 --> 00:25:05,640 Speaker 1: I'm busy, you know, started getting my life together. I'm 449 00:25:05,640 --> 00:25:08,879 Speaker 1: a new mom. Jelani is just one years old. And 450 00:25:09,040 --> 00:25:14,320 Speaker 1: I feeled it's not And it was God's saying, it's 451 00:25:14,320 --> 00:25:17,760 Speaker 1: time for you to pay on that promise you made right. 452 00:25:19,480 --> 00:25:22,080 Speaker 1: And he didn't have to knock hard. He didn't have 453 00:25:22,119 --> 00:25:24,920 Speaker 1: to knock loud. He didn't have to knock loud. Yeah yeah, yeah, 454 00:25:24,960 --> 00:25:26,840 Speaker 1: yeah yeah. And you know I shrugged it off the 455 00:25:26,840 --> 00:25:28,960 Speaker 1: first a couple of times. God, wait, hold on, I'm 456 00:25:28,960 --> 00:25:32,040 Speaker 1: just finding my rhythm. I stop this job. I'm making 457 00:25:32,040 --> 00:25:34,159 Speaker 1: six figures. I was thinking a hundred and ten thousand 458 00:25:34,200 --> 00:25:36,000 Speaker 1: dollars at the time. I was excited. I'm like, God, 459 00:25:36,040 --> 00:25:40,720 Speaker 1: I'm getting off, you know, government's assistance. Finally, I'll pay 460 00:25:40,760 --> 00:25:45,320 Speaker 1: you back later, I promise you. I promise it. Hearing 461 00:25:45,359 --> 00:25:51,359 Speaker 1: that knock and uh and so I created motivating the 462 00:25:51,400 --> 00:25:54,359 Speaker 1: team spirit um and Motivating the Team Spirit as an 463 00:25:54,400 --> 00:25:57,560 Speaker 1: emotional literacy program. It's I want to be very clear, 464 00:25:57,600 --> 00:26:00,439 Speaker 1: it's not for it's not a youth intervention program. So 465 00:26:00,480 --> 00:26:03,920 Speaker 1: it's not a place for teens who have behavioral challenges 466 00:26:04,320 --> 00:26:06,040 Speaker 1: or for kids who have just been in trouble to 467 00:26:06,119 --> 00:26:09,040 Speaker 1: come while it is their haven, so that they can 468 00:26:09,080 --> 00:26:12,760 Speaker 1: find their own emotional intelligence. We for every team we 469 00:26:12,840 --> 00:26:16,520 Speaker 1: have that in academic or social trouble, we're sitting next 470 00:26:16,520 --> 00:26:18,119 Speaker 1: to them as a as a child who has a 471 00:26:18,160 --> 00:26:21,679 Speaker 1: four point for g P A and so Motivating the 472 00:26:21,720 --> 00:26:24,800 Speaker 1: Team Spirit is designed to be the one of the 473 00:26:24,880 --> 00:26:28,520 Speaker 1: few spaces where teens and young adults because now we 474 00:26:28,600 --> 00:26:34,399 Speaker 1: go up to age, they can discover how to distinguish 475 00:26:34,520 --> 00:26:38,119 Speaker 1: between their negative self talk and their powerful self talk UM, 476 00:26:38,160 --> 00:26:41,960 Speaker 1: how to access their self esteem when it's been challenged 477 00:26:41,960 --> 00:26:45,680 Speaker 1: by something that's occurred, how to get back in integrity 478 00:26:45,760 --> 00:26:49,680 Speaker 1: when they've broken an integrity contract something that's never spoken 479 00:26:49,720 --> 00:26:52,520 Speaker 1: of and never mentioned, but when you break it, it 480 00:26:52,680 --> 00:26:56,119 Speaker 1: risks a relationship. So teaching them the life skills around 481 00:26:56,200 --> 00:27:01,040 Speaker 1: emotional intelligence UM and UM, I'm super. We do our 482 00:27:01,080 --> 00:27:03,760 Speaker 1: events three times a year in San Diego, and we 483 00:27:03,840 --> 00:27:07,960 Speaker 1: also travel and bring those same um trainings and workshops, 484 00:27:07,960 --> 00:27:11,840 Speaker 1: emotional literacy workshops to your community near you. Um, what 485 00:27:11,920 --> 00:27:14,359 Speaker 1: I'm excited about is that the lead trainer and the 486 00:27:14,400 --> 00:27:17,240 Speaker 1: director of moving the team spirit now is my twenty 487 00:27:17,240 --> 00:27:21,280 Speaker 1: five year old son and Jilani. And so he now 488 00:27:21,400 --> 00:27:25,240 Speaker 1: teaches the curriculum I teach beside him sometimes. Um, but 489 00:27:25,400 --> 00:27:26,879 Speaker 1: he grew up in it, you know. It was a 490 00:27:26,960 --> 00:27:29,440 Speaker 1: thing that shapes his character. So he hasn't steeped in 491 00:27:29,560 --> 00:27:31,960 Speaker 1: him more than it was even steeped in me. Um 492 00:27:32,040 --> 00:27:34,040 Speaker 1: and so um, it's some of the work that I 493 00:27:34,080 --> 00:27:37,440 Speaker 1: am the most, I'm the proudest of. So you've heard 494 00:27:37,440 --> 00:27:40,080 Speaker 1: that David preachers kids. So he's a motivation kid. He's 495 00:27:40,080 --> 00:27:44,639 Speaker 1: an MK. Yeah, you know what, let me go a 496 00:27:44,640 --> 00:27:48,040 Speaker 1: step further. He's a t K. He's a transformational kid. 497 00:27:49,520 --> 00:27:52,760 Speaker 1: He Mama wasn't. Mama just wasn't into the raw rob 498 00:27:52,880 --> 00:27:57,080 Speaker 1: mama substance. I said, son, your character is defined by 499 00:27:57,080 --> 00:27:58,600 Speaker 1: what you do in the dark of the night when 500 00:27:58,600 --> 00:28:00,280 Speaker 1: no one's looking. I don't care what you do when 501 00:28:00,280 --> 00:28:01,679 Speaker 1: the lights are on you. I want to know the 502 00:28:01,720 --> 00:28:04,520 Speaker 1: decisions you make when no one's looking. So he's a teacher, 503 00:28:04,720 --> 00:28:07,280 Speaker 1: he's a transformational there you go, there you go, and 504 00:28:07,520 --> 00:28:09,199 Speaker 1: you know, you know, we're just reading some of the 505 00:28:09,280 --> 00:28:11,240 Speaker 1: questions that they sent over, and that was talking about 506 00:28:11,280 --> 00:28:13,439 Speaker 1: retreats that you do and uh, and I wanted to 507 00:28:13,440 --> 00:28:15,440 Speaker 1: talk about you have. It was kind of broken down 508 00:28:15,480 --> 00:28:17,600 Speaker 1: in a way and said, you have black women only 509 00:28:18,200 --> 00:28:21,479 Speaker 1: and you have a different one for men and women. 510 00:28:21,920 --> 00:28:25,399 Speaker 1: Explain that rationale and also tell us what exactly is 511 00:28:25,440 --> 00:28:29,359 Speaker 1: your or your retreats. So the so the second retreat 512 00:28:29,480 --> 00:28:31,520 Speaker 1: that you mentioned is really my first retreat, and that's 513 00:28:31,520 --> 00:28:33,320 Speaker 1: what we call our breakthrough retreat. And we're on our 514 00:28:33,359 --> 00:28:36,719 Speaker 1: way to our breakthrough retreating a couple of weeks here 515 00:28:36,760 --> 00:28:38,440 Speaker 1: and then we have another one coming up. But our 516 00:28:38,480 --> 00:28:41,920 Speaker 1: Breakthrough Retreat is designed for everyone, men, woman, black, white, 517 00:28:41,960 --> 00:28:44,560 Speaker 1: Asian lathy on everyone, and it's a place where super 518 00:28:44,640 --> 00:28:49,080 Speaker 1: heroes and supersroes come to take your take off. So 519 00:28:49,520 --> 00:28:52,560 Speaker 1: the exclusivity I have with all my retreats is that 520 00:28:52,600 --> 00:28:55,840 Speaker 1: I want game changers to come only. I want movers 521 00:28:55,840 --> 00:28:58,520 Speaker 1: and shakers. I want people who are the answer to 522 00:28:58,600 --> 00:29:01,400 Speaker 1: other people's challenges. Mean, if you're the one who gets 523 00:29:01,400 --> 00:29:03,880 Speaker 1: the calls to get things done, if you're the one 524 00:29:03,920 --> 00:29:06,680 Speaker 1: whose everyone else's answer, if you're the one that in 525 00:29:06,720 --> 00:29:08,760 Speaker 1: the middle of your crisis, you're still trying to help 526 00:29:08,760 --> 00:29:12,840 Speaker 1: other people. This retreat is for you. And so this 527 00:29:13,000 --> 00:29:16,680 Speaker 1: retreat is a retreat where you come and at the door, 528 00:29:17,040 --> 00:29:20,080 Speaker 1: at the door you metaphorically take your cape off and 529 00:29:20,120 --> 00:29:22,280 Speaker 1: set it down and we put it away for a week. 530 00:29:22,760 --> 00:29:25,240 Speaker 1: And then what I do is I helped to heal 531 00:29:25,320 --> 00:29:31,160 Speaker 1: the healers. I helped to restore those who restore others. So, um, 532 00:29:31,240 --> 00:29:34,560 Speaker 1: you come and I we we create a safe space 533 00:29:34,680 --> 00:29:41,960 Speaker 1: for you to um reignite, rejuvenate, recharge, recommit, redesign your 534 00:29:42,120 --> 00:29:46,560 Speaker 1: life as is or what's next. And so really, um 535 00:29:46,560 --> 00:29:50,760 Speaker 1: my last retreat had seven doctors there. March retreat before 536 00:29:50,840 --> 00:29:53,920 Speaker 1: that had a gentleman who have been the counsel to 537 00:29:54,240 --> 00:29:59,640 Speaker 1: eight presidents. Um uh, people who work at Nassau, people 538 00:29:59,640 --> 00:30:03,000 Speaker 1: who people who are entrepreneurs who are serving thousands and 539 00:30:03,040 --> 00:30:06,040 Speaker 1: thousands of people like yourself. So it's a place where 540 00:30:06,440 --> 00:30:10,200 Speaker 1: where leaders, movers and shakers, game changes, gladigators and unicorns 541 00:30:10,240 --> 00:30:12,560 Speaker 1: come to take our kpof. So that's the break to 542 00:30:12,640 --> 00:30:16,240 Speaker 1: retreat that's for everyone. And then I have the exact 543 00:30:16,240 --> 00:30:19,240 Speaker 1: same experience, but I have it exclusive for a Mover 544 00:30:19,360 --> 00:30:22,240 Speaker 1: and Shaker black women. And that was the thing that 545 00:30:22,280 --> 00:30:25,600 Speaker 1: I created just because I know her, I am her 546 00:30:26,120 --> 00:30:29,400 Speaker 1: um and it's no discount to any other gender, any 547 00:30:29,440 --> 00:30:32,360 Speaker 1: other nationality. I just knew that I needed a place 548 00:30:32,640 --> 00:30:37,800 Speaker 1: where I can restore my faith and sisterhood. And I 549 00:30:37,840 --> 00:30:41,680 Speaker 1: can and and and not everyone, not many people. Matter 550 00:30:41,680 --> 00:30:44,240 Speaker 1: of fact, only one kind of person can get in 551 00:30:44,600 --> 00:30:48,480 Speaker 1: a Black woman who's into leadership's faith. And that's another 552 00:30:48,560 --> 00:30:52,080 Speaker 1: Black woman that's in leadership that she trusts her man. 553 00:30:52,320 --> 00:30:57,160 Speaker 1: Her man can't get in her faith, you know, you know. 554 00:30:57,280 --> 00:31:00,880 Speaker 1: And so I really I didn't create that that retreat. 555 00:31:01,040 --> 00:31:03,360 Speaker 1: That retreat came after me and got me because I 556 00:31:03,400 --> 00:31:06,520 Speaker 1: spoke at all these conferences with with with black women 557 00:31:06,640 --> 00:31:10,600 Speaker 1: leadership from at Black Enterprise, a b et at all 558 00:31:10,600 --> 00:31:14,040 Speaker 1: of these conferences where that Mover and Shaker black women go, 559 00:31:14,400 --> 00:31:16,800 Speaker 1: and they kept following me saying, you need a place 560 00:31:16,840 --> 00:31:19,200 Speaker 1: to create a place where you can deep dive with 561 00:31:19,280 --> 00:31:22,240 Speaker 1: us because we trust you, Lisa, And so I didn't 562 00:31:22,280 --> 00:31:25,800 Speaker 1: design that as a new program. These sisters came and 563 00:31:25,840 --> 00:31:28,320 Speaker 1: got me and said, we choose you as the person 564 00:31:28,360 --> 00:31:32,280 Speaker 1: who can check us, love us, require us to heal, 565 00:31:32,920 --> 00:31:35,800 Speaker 1: help us heal and then allow us to hold each 566 00:31:35,800 --> 00:31:40,320 Speaker 1: other's hands while we heal. And I just answered, Okay, wow, 567 00:31:40,480 --> 00:31:42,320 Speaker 1: that's powerful. And there's a couple of things that you're 568 00:31:42,320 --> 00:31:44,160 Speaker 1: doing that I really want to get the message the 569 00:31:44,520 --> 00:31:48,080 Speaker 1: information out about it is called the Speaker's Mastermind Program, 570 00:31:48,120 --> 00:31:51,520 Speaker 1: which is an exclusive live training workshop to help speakers 571 00:31:51,760 --> 00:31:55,160 Speaker 1: take themselves to a new level. And you're launching the Elevate, 572 00:31:55,440 --> 00:31:58,680 Speaker 1: an online personal development program and this year June of 573 00:31:58,760 --> 00:32:02,120 Speaker 1: this year, so this with the Peak Speaker's Mastermind Program 574 00:32:02,200 --> 00:32:05,600 Speaker 1: and then the slide over to the Elevate. So so 575 00:32:05,680 --> 00:32:09,240 Speaker 1: many people are aspiring to be speakers as now. There's 576 00:32:09,280 --> 00:32:13,040 Speaker 1: two types of speakers. There's the non platform speaker, and 577 00:32:13,120 --> 00:32:16,760 Speaker 1: that's everybody. That's anyone who opens their mouths and they 578 00:32:16,800 --> 00:32:20,640 Speaker 1: want to convince, inspire, motivate, or educate someone. So that's 579 00:32:20,640 --> 00:32:24,400 Speaker 1: the school teacher, that's the judge, that's the person who 580 00:32:24,440 --> 00:32:27,920 Speaker 1: works in automotive. That's the salesman, that's the saleswoman, that's 581 00:32:27,960 --> 00:32:30,760 Speaker 1: that's multiple level marketing on any level. Anyone who ever 582 00:32:30,800 --> 00:32:33,560 Speaker 1: gets a network marketing, direct sales, and you are a 583 00:32:33,560 --> 00:32:37,600 Speaker 1: speaker because you want to convince, inspire, motivate someone to 584 00:32:37,760 --> 00:32:40,720 Speaker 1: take action. That's the school teacher. And so there's the 585 00:32:40,840 --> 00:32:45,080 Speaker 1: non platform speaker. They need to master their speaking. You 586 00:32:45,120 --> 00:32:47,479 Speaker 1: want to be a masterful speaker when you open your 587 00:32:47,520 --> 00:32:51,160 Speaker 1: mouth even though you're not on stage. And then there's 588 00:32:51,200 --> 00:32:54,360 Speaker 1: the platform speaker, and that would be you and me 589 00:32:54,760 --> 00:32:58,280 Speaker 1: and those who want to create a platform from their speaking. 590 00:32:58,520 --> 00:33:02,280 Speaker 1: So there's non platform speaking and platform speakers. Either way. 591 00:33:02,320 --> 00:33:04,200 Speaker 1: I want to train. I want to train you to 592 00:33:04,400 --> 00:33:07,520 Speaker 1: master your voice and master your message. And what I 593 00:33:07,600 --> 00:33:11,360 Speaker 1: broke down were the fourteen points that turns the body 594 00:33:11,400 --> 00:33:14,719 Speaker 1: of speaking into the art and science of speaking. I 595 00:33:14,760 --> 00:33:16,920 Speaker 1: looked at everything with Seawan that I had done over 596 00:33:16,960 --> 00:33:20,480 Speaker 1: the last twenty five years that kept making everything I 597 00:33:20,600 --> 00:33:23,200 Speaker 1: touched turned to goal. How did I go? How did 598 00:33:23,200 --> 00:33:25,760 Speaker 1: I get the chicken soup for the sole offer? How 599 00:33:25,760 --> 00:33:27,800 Speaker 1: did I get the secret offer? How did I be 600 00:33:27,840 --> 00:33:30,520 Speaker 1: a standout on Oprah? How did I get to Larry King? 601 00:33:31,080 --> 00:33:33,800 Speaker 1: I took all the years, and I looked back and 602 00:33:33,840 --> 00:33:37,080 Speaker 1: I said, let me bottle up. If I could bottle 603 00:33:37,200 --> 00:33:41,600 Speaker 1: up what I was doing unconsciously, it was my unconscious competence. 604 00:33:41,840 --> 00:33:45,720 Speaker 1: If I can make my unconscious competence a conscious competence 605 00:33:46,000 --> 00:33:48,760 Speaker 1: and then share that with someone what would it look 606 00:33:48,800 --> 00:33:51,720 Speaker 1: like and that speaker's mastermind. Well, you know, the beauty 607 00:33:51,760 --> 00:33:54,360 Speaker 1: of this conversation I'm having with you is that you 608 00:33:54,400 --> 00:33:58,040 Speaker 1: know they have singing coaches and classes and I know 609 00:33:58,120 --> 00:33:59,960 Speaker 1: when I was in l A, i want to act 610 00:34:00,040 --> 00:34:03,440 Speaker 1: and acting acting classes. You know, you want to train 611 00:34:03,600 --> 00:34:07,040 Speaker 1: as a stay in shape and you want to that's all. 612 00:34:07,040 --> 00:34:09,440 Speaker 1: That's all you're saying that this is a this is 613 00:34:09,440 --> 00:34:11,560 Speaker 1: a speech speaker. You want to be the best at it. 614 00:34:11,640 --> 00:34:14,759 Speaker 1: You know, platform, a non platform person that comes come. 615 00:34:15,120 --> 00:34:18,840 Speaker 1: We finally have that resource. You finally have you know, events, 616 00:34:18,960 --> 00:34:21,880 Speaker 1: the body of speakers, you know out there telling you 617 00:34:21,960 --> 00:34:24,400 Speaker 1: come in here. Because I always tell people, you know, 618 00:34:24,640 --> 00:34:27,399 Speaker 1: it's really interesting. Once that has been a former stand 619 00:34:27,480 --> 00:34:29,200 Speaker 1: up comic. Once you know how to tell a joke, 620 00:34:29,239 --> 00:34:30,919 Speaker 1: you can actually tell us aboudy how to tell a joke. 621 00:34:31,560 --> 00:34:33,920 Speaker 1: And because they're right will's and wrong ways, and you 622 00:34:33,920 --> 00:34:35,800 Speaker 1: can be funny or you're gonna be funny for a 623 00:34:35,840 --> 00:34:37,600 Speaker 1: short amount of time on stage, or you're gonna be 624 00:34:37,640 --> 00:34:39,640 Speaker 1: funny for a long period of time on the stage. 625 00:34:39,840 --> 00:34:42,600 Speaker 1: And when you're doing these mastermind and speakers, mastermind and 626 00:34:42,680 --> 00:34:46,160 Speaker 1: you're the correct tide of program elevating and in an 627 00:34:46,200 --> 00:34:49,080 Speaker 1: exclusive training workshop to help speakers take themselves to a 628 00:34:49,080 --> 00:34:52,719 Speaker 1: new level. It's important to understand that that you know, 629 00:34:52,800 --> 00:34:54,840 Speaker 1: you can top off, or you can level off, or 630 00:34:54,880 --> 00:34:58,280 Speaker 1: you can like stop growing. And it takes an expert. 631 00:34:58,360 --> 00:35:01,920 Speaker 1: It takes a person being able to see themselves or 632 00:35:01,960 --> 00:35:03,960 Speaker 1: see you at the next level. I was watching this 633 00:35:04,239 --> 00:35:07,680 Speaker 1: Bradley Cooper when he was talking about his acting coach. Uh, 634 00:35:07,880 --> 00:35:11,920 Speaker 1: she's a female, and how she wasn't able to get 635 00:35:12,000 --> 00:35:14,440 Speaker 1: him to turn the corner because he was Oh, he 636 00:35:14,520 --> 00:35:16,719 Speaker 1: never had faith in hiself. He's always break down, which 637 00:35:16,760 --> 00:35:20,000 Speaker 1: somehow she was able to let him see the light, 638 00:35:20,120 --> 00:35:21,960 Speaker 1: let him see his ability, to let him walk through 639 00:35:22,000 --> 00:35:25,560 Speaker 1: his fears. And he's an Oscar winner. You know the director, 640 00:35:25,560 --> 00:35:27,799 Speaker 1: you know, one of the major players. And that's all 641 00:35:27,840 --> 00:35:32,919 Speaker 1: you're saying at the Speaker's Mastermind program, correct, yep, absolutely, 642 00:35:32,960 --> 00:35:38,240 Speaker 1: And we have speakers Mastermind UH is four concentrated days 643 00:35:38,320 --> 00:35:42,520 Speaker 1: together with me where I lead you through all the 644 00:35:42,560 --> 00:35:46,280 Speaker 1: techniques on that I've broken down to the science of speaking. 645 00:35:46,520 --> 00:35:48,960 Speaker 1: But what I love about the training uh. And we 646 00:35:49,000 --> 00:35:51,279 Speaker 1: do have an online live version of that where I 647 00:35:51,280 --> 00:35:53,360 Speaker 1: teach you online live. If you're out of the country. 648 00:35:53,400 --> 00:35:55,160 Speaker 1: If you or if you want to do a different 649 00:35:55,239 --> 00:35:57,719 Speaker 1: version of it, um, I teach you and then you 650 00:35:57,800 --> 00:36:00,360 Speaker 1: apply it. I teach you and your apply. I'm a coach, 651 00:36:00,840 --> 00:36:02,840 Speaker 1: so I like you to just I want you to 652 00:36:02,880 --> 00:36:05,160 Speaker 1: discover your own muscles. I want you to build your 653 00:36:05,200 --> 00:36:07,440 Speaker 1: own apps. I want you to do your own curls. 654 00:36:07,600 --> 00:36:10,120 Speaker 1: So at the end of the program, you're lifting more 655 00:36:10,120 --> 00:36:13,120 Speaker 1: than you've ever lifted before. You you've surpassed where you 656 00:36:13,160 --> 00:36:15,359 Speaker 1: were when we started together. And so what I love 657 00:36:15,400 --> 00:36:19,359 Speaker 1: about the training is that it's interactive, experiential. It's not 658 00:36:19,480 --> 00:36:23,640 Speaker 1: just theory, it's not just concept. It's not just you know, academia. 659 00:36:23,719 --> 00:36:26,319 Speaker 1: It's no applied learning. Show me your video, let me 660 00:36:26,320 --> 00:36:28,520 Speaker 1: give you feedback on your video. Show me your life 661 00:36:28,520 --> 00:36:30,239 Speaker 1: stand up, let me give you feedback on it. So 662 00:36:30,560 --> 00:36:33,000 Speaker 1: it's one of the most engaging platforms that I have 663 00:36:33,680 --> 00:36:36,840 Speaker 1: watching your technique grow. And so I'm super excited that 664 00:36:36,880 --> 00:36:40,719 Speaker 1: I finally was able. This is after sixteen years of 665 00:36:40,760 --> 00:36:43,200 Speaker 1: people asking me to show them how to do what 666 00:36:43,280 --> 00:36:45,920 Speaker 1: I do. How do your videos go viral with forty 667 00:36:46,000 --> 00:36:49,239 Speaker 1: seven million views in seven days? And for a long time, 668 00:36:49,280 --> 00:36:50,800 Speaker 1: I was like, I'm not sure than I thought you 669 00:36:52,080 --> 00:36:54,319 Speaker 1: let me go back and let me do my let 670 00:36:54,320 --> 00:36:58,960 Speaker 1: me do the work. Yeah. So it took me five 671 00:36:59,080 --> 00:37:02,919 Speaker 1: years to come with this process that I can walk 672 00:37:02,960 --> 00:37:06,560 Speaker 1: people through that says you will not cannot fully participate 673 00:37:06,600 --> 00:37:09,800 Speaker 1: in this program and be the same level speaker, whether 674 00:37:09,840 --> 00:37:13,360 Speaker 1: it's non platform or platform speaker as you were before 675 00:37:13,440 --> 00:37:16,200 Speaker 1: you came in. There's no way possible. Um. And so 676 00:37:16,280 --> 00:37:19,200 Speaker 1: I'm super excited about it. It's gonna be my legacy. 677 00:37:19,440 --> 00:37:21,760 Speaker 1: It's going to be the thing I leave to the industry. 678 00:37:21,760 --> 00:37:24,319 Speaker 1: I leave through you know, speaking as the wild wild West. 679 00:37:24,400 --> 00:37:26,839 Speaker 1: There's the structure in it. It's too new, and so 680 00:37:26,960 --> 00:37:29,680 Speaker 1: I feel like I want to give the industry, give 681 00:37:29,760 --> 00:37:32,800 Speaker 1: the for all the people who feel like they're terrified 682 00:37:32,840 --> 00:37:35,640 Speaker 1: as speaking. I want to give them some formulas that 683 00:37:35,719 --> 00:37:38,320 Speaker 1: will reduce their fears, because they will replace their fears 684 00:37:38,320 --> 00:37:40,000 Speaker 1: with skill sets. And then I want to give the 685 00:37:40,000 --> 00:37:42,200 Speaker 1: people who love to speak. I want to give them 686 00:37:42,239 --> 00:37:44,200 Speaker 1: some formulas and tools so they can take it to 687 00:37:44,239 --> 00:37:46,880 Speaker 1: the next level. Not so that they can shine brighter, 688 00:37:47,120 --> 00:37:49,920 Speaker 1: but so that everyone can serve higher. I want to 689 00:37:49,920 --> 00:37:52,000 Speaker 1: close out talking about this. One event is coming up 690 00:37:52,000 --> 00:37:55,360 Speaker 1: in May May first to the third, just in Los Angeles. 691 00:37:55,680 --> 00:37:58,120 Speaker 1: Come on now, I gotta help you promote this girl, Okay, 692 00:37:58,160 --> 00:38:01,040 Speaker 1: so make sure you sent me feel we could. Also 693 00:38:01,080 --> 00:38:02,400 Speaker 1: you can come back on the show as well, but 694 00:38:02,400 --> 00:38:04,000 Speaker 1: I'm sure it's gonna be so love by the end. 695 00:38:04,040 --> 00:38:09,160 Speaker 1: It's called Extraordinary You Personal Development Live Event May first, 696 00:38:09,320 --> 00:38:12,080 Speaker 1: the third in Los Angeles is your show tell Us 697 00:38:12,080 --> 00:38:17,440 Speaker 1: about Lisa Wow. So it is the first ever personal Mastery, 698 00:38:17,760 --> 00:38:22,160 Speaker 1: life gain changing three day UM conference that I've ever 699 00:38:22,280 --> 00:38:24,959 Speaker 1: done like this. So this is the culmination of all 700 00:38:25,000 --> 00:38:27,600 Speaker 1: the YouTube videos that I put out there that people love, 701 00:38:28,000 --> 00:38:29,719 Speaker 1: all of the things that they've seen on stage when 702 00:38:29,760 --> 00:38:30,960 Speaker 1: he can say, oh my god, you have to get 703 00:38:31,000 --> 00:38:32,759 Speaker 1: up again, Oh my god, let me wait my hands, 704 00:38:32,760 --> 00:38:34,560 Speaker 1: Oh my god, you have to get out of this like, 705 00:38:34,560 --> 00:38:36,600 Speaker 1: oh my god, you got me standing my greatness. So, 706 00:38:36,719 --> 00:38:39,480 Speaker 1: for the first time ever, I'm gonna say, if I've 707 00:38:39,520 --> 00:38:41,880 Speaker 1: done anything like that for you, or you want that 708 00:38:41,920 --> 00:38:45,720 Speaker 1: in your life, come and we're gonna spend three days 709 00:38:45,760 --> 00:38:50,080 Speaker 1: simply elevating and igniting and put setting your life on fire. 710 00:38:50,200 --> 00:38:52,880 Speaker 1: We're gonna do some interactive things that are gonna literally 711 00:38:52,920 --> 00:38:56,080 Speaker 1: have you break through old belief systems, have you continue 712 00:38:56,120 --> 00:38:58,520 Speaker 1: going where you normally would stop, have you adopt a 713 00:38:58,520 --> 00:39:01,360 Speaker 1: new way of thinking. We're gonna come front and push 714 00:39:01,400 --> 00:39:05,120 Speaker 1: past cognitive dissonance in the room. But the most important 715 00:39:05,120 --> 00:39:07,160 Speaker 1: thing I think happens there is that I have the 716 00:39:07,160 --> 00:39:10,759 Speaker 1: ability to gather some of the best game changers and 717 00:39:10,880 --> 00:39:14,759 Speaker 1: movers and shakers, gladiators and unicorns on the planet. Will 718 00:39:14,760 --> 00:39:18,000 Speaker 1: have at least fourteen different countries in the room to 719 00:39:18,160 --> 00:39:21,000 Speaker 1: now be available to be added to your Rolo deck. 720 00:39:21,520 --> 00:39:25,440 Speaker 1: I encourage and design a time for you to commune 721 00:39:25,440 --> 00:39:30,720 Speaker 1: with people, exchange information, find out what you're doing, become international, 722 00:39:30,960 --> 00:39:34,279 Speaker 1: expand your own platform. So it's when I tell you 723 00:39:34,600 --> 00:39:37,200 Speaker 1: it's gonna be three days of sheer fire. This morning, 724 00:39:37,200 --> 00:39:40,440 Speaker 1: I just secured one of the baddest brothers I've ever 725 00:39:40,600 --> 00:39:45,719 Speaker 1: met inside Transformation for Men to Men and he just said, yes, 726 00:39:45,840 --> 00:39:49,120 Speaker 1: I'm there. So I'm super excited, super excited. If you 727 00:39:49,160 --> 00:39:51,960 Speaker 1: want to know about it, it's not even publicized yet, 728 00:39:52,200 --> 00:39:55,239 Speaker 1: it will sell out. We are always a fire has 729 00:39:55,239 --> 00:39:57,400 Speaker 1: that we always be shut down by the fire department. 730 00:39:57,440 --> 00:39:59,239 Speaker 1: I love it. They don't shut the event down. They 731 00:39:59,280 --> 00:40:00,800 Speaker 1: just tell us no more people can come and do 732 00:40:01,000 --> 00:40:04,319 Speaker 1: more people standing in front of the door, right they 733 00:40:04,320 --> 00:40:06,160 Speaker 1: stand up from the door. 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