WEBVTT - SYSK Selects: How Willpower Works

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<v Speaker 1>M Hey, everybody. Welcome to Stuff you Should Know Selects.

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<v Speaker 1>This is Chuck here this week. It's my pick and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna go with how Willpower Works from February seven,

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<v Speaker 1>And frankly, I'm picking this one because I need to

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<v Speaker 1>listen to this one again because I have no willpower.

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<v Speaker 1>That's something I need to work on, so I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>check it out again. I encourage you to do the same.

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<v Speaker 1>It's uh, it's pretty neat episode. So here we go

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<v Speaker 1>with how Willpower Works. Welcome to Stuff you Should Know

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<v Speaker 1>from how Stuff Works dot Com. Hey, and welcome to

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<v Speaker 1>front load this one. Yeah alright, All that's out of

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<v Speaker 1>the way, right. Um, So, Chuck, you're doing good, you're

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<v Speaker 1>feeling well. I'm not feeling great, but you know, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you're ready to be done. No. I'm ready to talk

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<v Speaker 1>about willpower though, because it is a topic that I

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<v Speaker 1>struggle with, as do most people. I think, like you

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<v Speaker 1>struggle with the topic, or you struggle with willpower. I

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<v Speaker 1>think everybody struggles with willpower. Oh yeah, well, as a

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<v Speaker 1>matter of fact, Um, I think you're absolutely right. There

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<v Speaker 1>is a very famous guy named Plato, famous Greek philosopher Plato. Plato. Plato, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>not Plato, right, um. And Plato decided well suggested that

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<v Speaker 1>the entire human experience, that the sum of human existence

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<v Speaker 1>could be basically nailed down with just this. You have

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<v Speaker 1>a higher self and a lower self. Yeah, and your

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<v Speaker 1>purpose for living is to overcome the usually more powerful

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<v Speaker 1>urges of the lower self in order to fulfill the

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<v Speaker 1>goals of the higher self. I am down without it

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<v Speaker 1>makes uttering complete sense. I don't know about the reason

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<v Speaker 1>for living, but the struggle man struggle or at least okay, yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>like that's if you're born. You're going to face that. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but you're going to face it in varying degrees because,

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<v Speaker 1>as we found, willpower, which is what you use to

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<v Speaker 1>get over your lower urges and pursue your higher goals. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>it comes in differing amounts for differing people, different people. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and it and Robert Lamb wrote the original article from

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<v Speaker 1>House Touff works from stuff to blow your mind. And

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<v Speaker 1>he points out that we're at odds with our own

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<v Speaker 1>uh nature, as we have evolved here on the planet

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<v Speaker 1>because you know, we craved sugary sweet things because sugar

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<v Speaker 1>gave us lots of energy back in the day, and

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<v Speaker 1>back in the day they didn't have little debby cakes

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<v Speaker 1>within hands reach at all times. So we're sort of

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<v Speaker 1>at odds with ourselves. And he points out sexually as well, Um,

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<v Speaker 1>we evolved to spread the seed and procreate as much

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<v Speaker 1>as possible to ensure the survival of the species. And um,

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<v Speaker 1>nowadays you can't really do that stuff, or if you do,

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<v Speaker 1>you're a flander or a jerk or your spreading disease

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<v Speaker 1>and your public health nuisance. Yeah. So um, we're at

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<v Speaker 1>odds with ourselves, with our very existence. Yeah, and not

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<v Speaker 1>only internally, but you make the point um as a

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<v Speaker 1>society as well, I mean, society and evolution tussle. So

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<v Speaker 1>you can make the case that society represents our higher

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<v Speaker 1>self and you know, are what we are, basic instincts

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<v Speaker 1>that we've evolved to are our lower selves. So that's

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<v Speaker 1>what's going on, and it's will power, will power that

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<v Speaker 1>will get us over the bumps that come along in

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<v Speaker 1>life inevitably. Yeah, and it's I think most people relate

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<v Speaker 1>will power to things like eating or going to the gym,

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<v Speaker 1>or indulging in uh uh, sexual proclivities and things like that.

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<v Speaker 1>But I think it's broader than that. In general. I

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<v Speaker 1>think it's the will to, like Plato said, to strive to,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess, do the right thing. Yeah, by yourself, by others,

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<v Speaker 1>by society at large. Right. And I guess also, um,

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<v Speaker 1>how often you come up against that? How often you

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<v Speaker 1>have to exercise willpower because you you just hit it

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<v Speaker 1>on the head. Will power is the act of making

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<v Speaker 1>a decision. You're deciding to do something or not to

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<v Speaker 1>do something. Um, how often you do that? It does

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<v Speaker 1>depend on how you define the world around you. Yeah, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>are these things you know? Are you surrounded by temptations

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<v Speaker 1>that you have to ward off all the time and

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<v Speaker 1>you're paying attention to it and they're always closing in? Uh?

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<v Speaker 1>If you like that, then you're going to exercise your

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<v Speaker 1>willpower a lot. If you don't see the world as temptations,

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<v Speaker 1>you give into them all the time, you're not going

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<v Speaker 1>to If you look at the world is something that

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<v Speaker 1>you can handle, You're probably not gonna have to exercise

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<v Speaker 1>your willpower too much then either. But it's all they're all.

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<v Speaker 1>Those are three different ways of of living and they

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<v Speaker 1>all are I guess described by willpower and how you

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<v Speaker 1>use it. Yeah, that's a good point. Um. Robert h

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<v Speaker 1>makes a point that has backed up somewhat by science,

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<v Speaker 1>actually completely by science. The and he he puts in

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<v Speaker 1>terms of a video game, which makes sense that if

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<v Speaker 1>you were a video game and you have a willpower meter,

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<v Speaker 1>that that willpower meter is replenished and depleted on a daily,

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<v Speaker 1>probably hourly basis. And the more you uh use your

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<v Speaker 1>willpower and say, you know what, I'm not going to

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<v Speaker 1>have that little debby cake, your little willpower meter goes

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<v Speaker 1>down and it depletes itself, so you're not going to

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<v Speaker 1>have as much willpower maybe for the next decision. Right.

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<v Speaker 1>It's really interesting. Yeah, that's um pretty new. Our understanding

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<v Speaker 1>of willpower like that is very new. The first guy

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<v Speaker 1>to really kind of put it out like that was

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<v Speaker 1>freud Um, and he basically said, uh, you we have

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<v Speaker 1>this thing called willpower. We have an ego. That's that's

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<v Speaker 1>what the Freudians associate with willpowers, the ego and your

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<v Speaker 1>ego is this finite thing. It has a finite energy reserve.

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<v Speaker 1>It uses energy, and therefore it can be sapped. And

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<v Speaker 1>then Freud fell out of fashion, and um, everybody just

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<v Speaker 1>kind of stopped looking at willpower that way. And uh,

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<v Speaker 1>it wasn't until when a Florida State University psychologist named

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<v Speaker 1>Roy uh Baumeister. He uh, he figured out through this

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<v Speaker 1>test using chocolate and randishes, I believe that, um, you,

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<v Speaker 1>if you are staving off temptation using willpower, you actually

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<v Speaker 1>do terribly on like another test of willpower. Yeah, they

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<v Speaker 1>used persistence tests, um, basically puzzles that you have to

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<v Speaker 1>just keep at it and keep at It's not something

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<v Speaker 1>you could complete immediately, and offered some people chocolate chip

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<v Speaker 1>cookies and other chocolate treats of their liking, and offered

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<v Speaker 1>other people radishes instead, which is not a fair fight, right.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, he really stacked the deck like maybe a radish,

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<v Speaker 1>a shaved radish in a salad or something. But if

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<v Speaker 1>all you're looking at is a plate of radish, then yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I would take the cookie. So what he found out though,

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<v Speaker 1>was the people who ate the radishes had more trouble

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<v Speaker 1>completing the test. I guess because I guess the ideas

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<v Speaker 1>they're using up all their willpower to not eat the cookie,

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<v Speaker 1>so they don't have time for the test the persistence.

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<v Speaker 1>And there was also a another kind of follow up

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<v Speaker 1>study a few years after that by UM the the

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<v Speaker 1>University of Iowa professor with the greatest name of all

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<v Speaker 1>of the faculty there, Baba shiv Um and uh Dr

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<v Speaker 1>shiv Um had a basically tested willpower by saying, this

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<v Speaker 1>group is going to remember a two digit number, and

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<v Speaker 1>this group is going to remember a seven digit number,

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<v Speaker 1>and then we're gonna test their willpower UM by tempting

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<v Speaker 1>them with chocolate cake and uh Dr Ship found that

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<v Speaker 1>there was the people who were using their working memory

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<v Speaker 1>their cognitive capacity to remember the seven digit number had

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<v Speaker 1>a harder time resisting. So it basically proves that we

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<v Speaker 1>use our working memory to resist temptation. And I guess

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<v Speaker 1>it's something like reminding yourself, you know, at the at

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<v Speaker 1>the forefront of your mind not to do something, you

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<v Speaker 1>know until the temptation past. Who knows, Yeah, maybe I

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<v Speaker 1>had that cookie yesterday, so man, I can't eat it today.

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<v Speaker 1>Or we use our working memory to remind ourselves of

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<v Speaker 1>our long term goals in the face of a short

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<v Speaker 1>term reward. Well, that's one of the big keys I think. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and uh, that's something Robert hits on, which is I

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<v Speaker 1>want that cookie now, and I know bikini seasons coming up,

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<v Speaker 1>and you see you mean a bikini. Josh, it's not pretty.

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<v Speaker 1>I will never get that out of my memory, working memory,

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<v Speaker 1>or other one, that bikini. And but that's sort of

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<v Speaker 1>what we're at odds with is the short term. I

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<v Speaker 1>think humans as a group tend to enjoy the short,

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<v Speaker 1>short term pleasures and if you truly learn to conquer

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<v Speaker 1>that in in uh lieu of long term gain, that's

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<v Speaker 1>when you're like, you're winning, is Charlie Sheen would say,

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<v Speaker 1>right exactly, although Charlie Sheen is not exactly one who's

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<v Speaker 1>known to exercise the willpower. No, you know, that was

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<v Speaker 1>a really odd person to tap for that. But well

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<v Speaker 1>I think that's the opposite he was. He thought winning

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<v Speaker 1>was the short term game. Yeah, I guess yeah. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>and that is so dated. Yeah, people like when you

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<v Speaker 1>guys record this, but it's been I think today might

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<v Speaker 1>be the very day where you could get away with it.

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<v Speaker 1>So it was perfect right the way. Um, so from

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<v Speaker 1>all these tests like when Baumeister Um put his study

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<v Speaker 1>ego depletion colon is the act of self a limited resource.

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<v Speaker 1>It just basically kicked off the slew of follow up

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<v Speaker 1>studies from Dr Shiv and others and UM. One of

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<v Speaker 1>the things that they found was that you can kind

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<v Speaker 1>of watch people exercise worldpower on the old Wonder machine yeah, UM.

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<v Speaker 1>Using m r S. They put people in and had

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<v Speaker 1>them think about, I guess a suite or a health

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<v Speaker 1>food and decide between them. Yeah, And they found that

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<v Speaker 1>the ventromedial prefrontal cortex lights up when you're making that decision,

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<v Speaker 1>when you're considering it, which made sense they I think

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<v Speaker 1>they kind of expected that, but they were also surprised

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<v Speaker 1>to find that the dorsolateral prefrontal cortex UM, which is

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<v Speaker 1>located a little further back UM, that lit up as well.

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<v Speaker 1>And they think that that has lit up for the

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<v Speaker 1>people who made a good decision only thank you. And

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<v Speaker 1>they think that that's maybe part of your that's part

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<v Speaker 1>of the working memory where you're like, no, I can't

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<v Speaker 1>eat that, because yes, that's tapping into that higher self

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<v Speaker 1>goal pursuit. That's the dorso lateral prefrontal cortex, right, you

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<v Speaker 1>did a nice job there by the ways. Uh So.

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<v Speaker 1>The bomber also went on to say that, um, he could.

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<v Speaker 1>He compares the willpower, your own willpower to a muscle

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<v Speaker 1>or something like a muscle, and you can deplete it,

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<v Speaker 1>Like you said, if you overwork your muscles, you're just

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<v Speaker 1>going to deplete your muscles and be worn out at

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<v Speaker 1>the end of the day. Or you can exercise that

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<v Speaker 1>muscle in a in a healthy way and make it

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<v Speaker 1>stronger in the long term. Um do you do this?

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<v Speaker 1>After reading this is sord to realize that I actually

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<v Speaker 1>kind of exercised willpower all the time. What you I

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<v Speaker 1>think you especially do so, like, for example, I have

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<v Speaker 1>a mail key that I used to go get the mail,

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<v Speaker 1>right and we keep it in our car, And I

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<v Speaker 1>had to go to the car and get the mail

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<v Speaker 1>key and then go get the mail. And it was

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<v Speaker 1>cold out yesterday, and then on the way back, I

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<v Speaker 1>could have just taken the mail key inside with me

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<v Speaker 1>and taking it back to the car, and the next

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<v Speaker 1>time I went to the car again it was very cold.

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<v Speaker 1>But instead I walked up a flight of stairs, put

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<v Speaker 1>the mail key into the car, and then went back home.

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<v Speaker 1>So you're you're you made that decision and you struggled

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<v Speaker 1>with it, even in a minor way. Yes, I did

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<v Speaker 1>it specifically because there was no reason whatsoever for me

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<v Speaker 1>to do that rationally and as far as common sense,

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<v Speaker 1>when there was no there's no purpose to it. But

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<v Speaker 1>by doing it, I basically just exercise my willpower. It

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<v Speaker 1>was something I didn't really want to do, but it

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't a big deal, but it was I could like.

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<v Speaker 1>Doing that accumulates. Yeah, I think I think you and

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<v Speaker 1>I are really different in that way. I see you

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<v Speaker 1>as someone who actively works that muscle a lot on

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<v Speaker 1>a daily basis, and I don't enough. And not that

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<v Speaker 1>I just have no willpower, but I don't give it,

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<v Speaker 1>give decisions like that enough consideration. Does that make sense completely?

0:14:35.600 --> 0:14:37.400
<v Speaker 1>I was like, yeah, I'll just go upstairs and throw

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<v Speaker 1>the key on the coffee table, which a sane person

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<v Speaker 1>she kind of has that that thought. I think that

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<v Speaker 1>puts you in the same camp. But that doesn't ensure

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<v Speaker 1>that I'm making good decisions for my life, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>But I mean, I don't think you're making bad ones.

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<v Speaker 1>But it's good to self reflect, you know, Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>do kind of. It's kind of fun, you know, it's

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<v Speaker 1>like a game. Yeah, I want to you know, it's

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<v Speaker 1>it's like how Ramrod Street can I stayd you know,

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<v Speaker 1>That's what I'm building towards. Uh So. Another thing Robert

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<v Speaker 1>points out from the science side of things is as

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<v Speaker 1>far as giving into the short term in favor of

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<v Speaker 1>the long term, is glucose plays a big part in that.

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<v Speaker 1>And I think they found that a quick um shot

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<v Speaker 1>of sugar I don't think a whole lot can sometimes

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<v Speaker 1>stave off or build up that willpower reserve in the

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<v Speaker 1>short term. Yeah, it's like, ah, you you were talking

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<v Speaker 1>about how we have like a um willpower bar and

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<v Speaker 1>every time we were this temptation is depleted a little

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<v Speaker 1>more and more. They found that a shot of glucose

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<v Speaker 1>replenishes that willpower bar. So is that in lieu of like,

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<v Speaker 1>hey boy, I really want that cupcake, but let me

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<v Speaker 1>have the juice box instead. That's the irony of it,

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<v Speaker 1>is giving into that cupcake may help you exercise you

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<v Speaker 1>wild power with other stuff later further on. Didn't that weird?

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<v Speaker 1>But yeah, I mean if you had something healthier, that

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<v Speaker 1>would be the better choice. But the point is is

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<v Speaker 1>like any kind of shot of gluco this has been

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<v Speaker 1>shown to UM to to re up your your willpower.

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<v Speaker 1>And this was very much poop pooed at first, this idea, UM,

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<v Speaker 1>I think Baumeister. This is really great article by John

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<v Speaker 1>Tierney in New York Times magazine. It's from UM the

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<v Speaker 1>August before last. It's called do You Suffer from Decision Fatigue?

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<v Speaker 1>Our buddy Chad loves this proselytized this article. Remember, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>this is the one, so I strongly recommend everybody to read.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a good one. But UM and and it it

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<v Speaker 1>talks about Baumeister like thinking that you know glucose has

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<v Speaker 1>something to do with this UM and it was poop

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<v Speaker 1>pooed at first, because everybody knows the brain uses the

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<v Speaker 1>same amount of energy pretty much all day long. So

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<v Speaker 1>that didn't make any sense. Like if you're if you're

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<v Speaker 1>ego depleted and you're you're suffering from some sort of

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<v Speaker 1>willpower fatigue, but your brain still using the same amount

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<v Speaker 1>of energy, those two don't jibe. Again with the m

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<v Speaker 1>r I. What they found was somebody suffering from ego

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<v Speaker 1>depletion from willpower fatigue who took a shot of gluco

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<v Speaker 1>or whatever UM their brains lit up in areas that

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<v Speaker 1>had to do with exercising will power. So while your

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<v Speaker 1>brain was using the same amount of energy, it was

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<v Speaker 1>using them in different places when your willpower was fatigued.

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<v Speaker 1>And that glutecast basically was like spinach to popeye for

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<v Speaker 1>that part of your brain that's charged with exercising willpower.

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<v Speaker 1>Isn't that? Yeah? So what do you carry on a

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<v Speaker 1>packet sugar with you at all times? Come on still

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<v Speaker 1>with sugar right now? Um? Also, uh, the in that

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<v Speaker 1>same article they talk about this, uh, this kind of

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<v Speaker 1>landmark study of an Israeli parole board, and um, they

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<v Speaker 1>found that you if you were a parole e and

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<v Speaker 1>you came to them after it had been a while

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<v Speaker 1>since a break or lunch or breakfast, your chances of

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<v Speaker 1>being paroled dropped by like fifty or sixt oh if

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<v Speaker 1>the parole board had not had breakfast, yes or no.

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<v Speaker 1>If they if you came to them like right after

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<v Speaker 1>things got started after breakfast or after lunch, your chances

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<v Speaker 1>of being paroled were like fifty to fifty greater than

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<v Speaker 1>people who came to them for identical crimes like a

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<v Speaker 1>couple of hours later. I'm sure that makes the criminals

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<v Speaker 1>of the world feel pretty great. Yeah, exactly, so arbitrary.

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<v Speaker 1>And they what they found is it's not laziness. It's

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<v Speaker 1>not like physical fatigue, where like you can tell you're tired.

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<v Speaker 1>What our brains do is they employ the strategy where

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<v Speaker 1>you you are, you become risk averse, like you don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to make a decision, so you say, you know what,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just gonna put this off. You're gonna go back

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<v Speaker 1>to jail. I'm not going to grant your parole because

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<v Speaker 1>that's risky behavior to let you back out in the world.

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm just I've made too many decisions today. But

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<v Speaker 1>you're not thinking this. They just say parole to nine

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<v Speaker 1>and you have no idea why. It just makes sense

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<v Speaker 1>to you at the time. But if you had had

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<v Speaker 1>some glucoset that same instance, you may you may be like, well, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I think you're you're ready to come back out in society.

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<v Speaker 1>That reminds me of the band Rush, Yes, that we

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<v Speaker 1>talked about before. I remember this from when I was

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<v Speaker 1>a teenager. You know the lyric um Man, what song

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<v Speaker 1>is it? If you choose not to decide, you still

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<v Speaker 1>have made a choice free will. Oh yeah, that's from

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<v Speaker 1>that song of course. I think on the original album

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<v Speaker 1>jacket it says if you choose not to decide, you

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<v Speaker 1>cannot have made a choice. Is there. Yeah, my brother

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<v Speaker 1>and I used to laugh that. I think Neil Perd

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<v Speaker 1>actually wrote a lot of the lyrics back then that

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<v Speaker 1>Getty Lee justlike you know, edged it out with events.

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<v Speaker 1>But it's the complete opposite meanings. So it's interesting that

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<v Speaker 1>at some point Rush I guess that maybe a band

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<v Speaker 1>argument or something. I'm glad Getty Lee one, Yeah, you

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<v Speaker 1>have made a choice. No, you cannot have made a choice.

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<v Speaker 1>Just shut up, play drums. Your voice is weird. I

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<v Speaker 1>remember hearing that the first time. I was like, oh man,

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<v Speaker 1>oh yeah, blew me away? Yeah yeah, free will I

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<v Speaker 1>can't believe I didn't remember the name. And you're like,

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<v Speaker 1>I can't think of the name of this song, but

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<v Speaker 1>it's about free will? Yeah? Was it Red bar Chetta?

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<v Speaker 1>All right? Oh? I didn't really fully get the um

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<v Speaker 1>the Stanford UH psychologist Walton and Dweck and then is Dweck.

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<v Speaker 1>It sounds like saying direct wrong. Um. I didn't fully

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<v Speaker 1>get that that they they said that people UH who

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<v Speaker 1>have will fund willpower fatigue tend to slack off when

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<v Speaker 1>they felt their resolve wavering, but then people who felt

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<v Speaker 1>their resolve was limitless pressed on. I like that, just

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<v Speaker 1>I don't get the point there. It seems like a

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<v Speaker 1>no brainer. So yeah, I think I think it is.

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<v Speaker 1>You may just be looking too deeply. It was like

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<v Speaker 1>what I was talking about earlier at the beginning, where like,

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<v Speaker 1>depending on how you see the world, like do you

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<v Speaker 1>see the world is like, like you have willpower, so

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<v Speaker 1>you can overcome any temptation. You're going to last longer

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<v Speaker 1>on tests of will power than somebody who is like, um,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm feeling kind of weak today, you know, and then

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<v Speaker 1>you're just gonna give in. Okay, So it is pretty simple. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, I thought it was a dummy. Not only

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<v Speaker 1>is it simple, I managed to make it more complex

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<v Speaker 1>and talk about it at length. Uh. They do know

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<v Speaker 1>that people, generally there is some genetic component involved, Like

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<v Speaker 1>if your parents are super self disciplined, then you were

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<v Speaker 1>more likely to turn out that way. I found that

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<v Speaker 1>to be true from friends of mine whose parents were

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<v Speaker 1>like super self discipline and their kids kind of turned

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<v Speaker 1>out that way too. Yeah, but I wonder, and Robert

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<v Speaker 1>makes a point in the article like is it genetic

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<v Speaker 1>or epigenetic. Yeah, I don't know, probably both would be

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<v Speaker 1>my guests. We just chose not to decide. We cannot

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<v Speaker 1>have made a choice. Uh. And then the old marshmallow

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<v Speaker 1>experiment this uh Stanford, not the prison experiment, but the

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<v Speaker 1>marshmallow experiment from the nineteen sixties, very famous one where

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<v Speaker 1>they placed these uh tortured these kids basically by placing

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<v Speaker 1>a marshmallow in front of them and saying, if you

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<v Speaker 1>hold off on eating that marshmallow in fifteen minutes, you

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<v Speaker 1>will have too. And of course not many of the

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<v Speaker 1>kids could hold out, but they found that the ones

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<v Speaker 1>who did hold out of the second marshmallow went on

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<v Speaker 1>in life to greater successes, at least if you count

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<v Speaker 1>s a T scores as a measure of success, two

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<v Speaker 1>points higher than the ones who chowed down on the marshmallow.

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<v Speaker 1>And the ones who ate the marshmallow later on had

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<v Speaker 1>struggles with relationships and stress and uh attention. Yeah, so

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<v Speaker 1>I wonder if that has even do with like you know,

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<v Speaker 1>O c D. I wonder as well, I wonder how

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<v Speaker 1>much um of our modern problems are really just crises

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<v Speaker 1>of willpower? I wonder, um. There was a follow up

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<v Speaker 1>to that sixties experiment. There's been a bunch, but there

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<v Speaker 1>was one in at the University of Rochester that was

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<v Speaker 1>carried out last year that um found we are more

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<v Speaker 1>willing to exercise willpower if we think that what we're

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<v Speaker 1>holding out for is actually going to happen, you know. Uh,

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<v Speaker 1>And they did that by this is hilarious. It's funny.

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<v Speaker 1>Studies with kids are always they're so cruel and funny,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean not the really truly cruel ones that any

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<v Speaker 1>psychic logical study that has new kids almost invariably has

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<v Speaker 1>some cruel aspect to it, and this one was no, uh,

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<v Speaker 1>was no exception. Basically, Uh, they said, here's the control group,

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<v Speaker 1>here's here's the experimental group, and the control group. We

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<v Speaker 1>want to give you some extra art supplies. Let us

0:23:18.119 --> 0:23:20.000
<v Speaker 1>go get them. And they came back with some extra

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<v Speaker 1>art supplies. The experimental group. They said, hey, we're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>get you some more art supplies. We'll be right back.

0:23:25.680 --> 0:23:27.320
<v Speaker 1>And they came back. They're like, we don't have any

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<v Speaker 1>more art supplies. We know you were really excited, but sorry,

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<v Speaker 1>you're gonna have to make do with that old red pen.

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<v Speaker 1>And then they tested them with the marshmallow experiment and

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<v Speaker 1>found that the ones who had gotten the art supplies

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<v Speaker 1>the promise hadn't been broken. Sure, uh, they held out

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<v Speaker 1>longer than the ones who have been lied to. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>they're like, screw that, you're not bringing me to marshmallows.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't in this marshmallow right now. Exactly, I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>kick you in the ship afterwards too, I'll show you. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's not cruel on the level. What was that one?

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<v Speaker 1>The one kid, remember the that we talked about that

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<v Speaker 1>was tested on like oh, kept in a closet. No,

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<v Speaker 1>they tested fear conditioning and extinction and the kid it

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<v Speaker 1>was a little Albert where they like they would put

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<v Speaker 1>a bunny in his lap and then bang the bar

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<v Speaker 1>of metal with a hammer and scare the Jesus out

0:24:18.800 --> 0:24:21.760
<v Speaker 1>of him. And it came to like fear rabbits, Like

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<v Speaker 1>there was a search for him, right, and they eventually

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<v Speaker 1>found him, they thought, I think, so, I don't remember

0:24:26.200 --> 0:24:29.159
<v Speaker 1>I wrote a blog post that I'll have to republish

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<v Speaker 1>or whatever because it's been a while. I don't remember.

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<v Speaker 1>But yeah, they figured out who it was pretty much.

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<v Speaker 1>So this isn't on that level. No, no, no, this

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<v Speaker 1>is just marshmallows. Yes. Um. So oh, there was one

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<v Speaker 1>other point I wanted to bring up that I thought

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<v Speaker 1>was pretty interesting and horrible from that John Tierney article.

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<v Speaker 1>Um where with with decision fatigue, with exercising willpower disproportionately

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<v Speaker 1>affects the poor and they think that possibly now, uh,

0:24:56.560 --> 0:25:01.040
<v Speaker 1>that poverty exists in a cycle because is if you're

0:25:01.040 --> 0:25:03.959
<v Speaker 1>a poor person, you have to exercise willpower. You have

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<v Speaker 1>to make more decisions than somebody who has more resources,

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<v Speaker 1>more money. Like say you're walking through the grocery store. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I want the soap and this food. If

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<v Speaker 1>you're poor, you might have to say I want both,

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<v Speaker 1>but I have to just buy one. I don't have

0:25:19.040 --> 0:25:20.680
<v Speaker 1>enough for both. So how much is it going to be?

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<v Speaker 1>And their willpower there there there, their resources of of

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<v Speaker 1>willpower of decision making become fatigued a lot faster because

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<v Speaker 1>they have to exercise it a lot more and they

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<v Speaker 1>don't have the uh, the resources to get themselves out

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<v Speaker 1>of poverty, to indulge or to like study or do

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<v Speaker 1>you know, do more. That they already have the deck

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<v Speaker 1>stecked against them resource wise, But then you throw in

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<v Speaker 1>this this idea of willpower, possibly that's that makes it

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<v Speaker 1>even more difficult. I never really thought about that. It's

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<v Speaker 1>pretty interesting stuff. It makes you, It makes me, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>you feel for him even more. Yeah, and it makes

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<v Speaker 1>me feel bad when say, do I want the peanut

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<v Speaker 1>butter ganosh cupcake or chocolate? You know what? Just go

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<v Speaker 1>ahead and give me both, right, exactly, Well, you can

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<v Speaker 1>buy both and then just take one to somebody who's

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<v Speaker 1>struggling in the grocery store trying to figure out they're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna buy soap for food. It's a good idea. Yeah, uh,

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<v Speaker 1>you got anything else? Man? No, this is this is

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<v Speaker 1>a good one. Yeah. I like wildpower. It's fun. Go

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<v Speaker 1>out and exercise it in little ways. It's fun. Or

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<v Speaker 1>don't either that or um strap of car battery to

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<v Speaker 1>your inner thighs. It's just fun. Uh okay. Well, if

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<v Speaker 1>you want to learn more about willpower and made this

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<v Speaker 1>good article by Robert Lamb, you can type in willpower

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<v Speaker 1>in the search bar at how stuff works dot com

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<v Speaker 1>and it will bring it up. And I said search bar.

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<v Speaker 1>So it's time for a listener mail, yeah, Josh. Quickly,

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<v Speaker 1>before we do that, we need to say a special

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<v Speaker 1>thank you to a fan of ours who helped us

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<v Speaker 1>out with our Wikipedia page. Oh nice, thank you, And

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<v Speaker 1>he was very cool and and his name and he's

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<v Speaker 1>been mentioned on tech stuff evidently too. Oh wow, this

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<v Speaker 1>guy's a star and we're not gonna hold that against him.

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<v Speaker 1>And this is how he His name is spelled A

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<v Speaker 1>N T R I K s h yadaf y A

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<v Speaker 1>d A B. And he says, you pronounce it won trick.

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<v Speaker 1>The t is soft though, as in math Son tri trip.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah there you go, he he phonetically spelled out. He

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<v Speaker 1>told you what it sounded like. And I still can't

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<v Speaker 1>quite do it. So we just want to say thanks

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<v Speaker 1>a lot for helping us with the Wikipedia page. And

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<v Speaker 1>now a listener mail that I'm gonna call That's why

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<v Speaker 1>sk can help you get ladies. This from Todd in

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<v Speaker 1>Oklahoma City. Guys and Jerry. I've come to the conclusion

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<v Speaker 1>that I may owe you a big thank you. Your

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<v Speaker 1>podcast has created the impression, whether fiction or reality, that

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<v Speaker 1>I am somehow a guy who knows about stuff with

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<v Speaker 1>the ladies. My new girlfriend, in fact, mentions as one

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<v Speaker 1>of my winning traits that I'm often saying interesting things.

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<v Speaker 1>And this really interested me, so I asked her for

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<v Speaker 1>some examples of things that I say, and it was

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<v Speaker 1>notable that every example that she cided was something that

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<v Speaker 1>I learned listening to your podcast at work. So it

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<v Speaker 1>is quite possible, Sirs, that you and your podcast made

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<v Speaker 1>my baby fall in love with me. I'd like to

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<v Speaker 1>shake your hands. Every single guy should listen to your

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<v Speaker 1>podcast because it may at least get you a second date.

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<v Speaker 1>And that is Todd from Oklahoma City, who is banking

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<v Speaker 1>on our knowledge to woo women, and I guess he

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<v Speaker 1>got a girlfriend of it. Good going, Todd. Good for you.

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<v Speaker 1>We're glad we could help. Man. We're married, dude, so

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<v Speaker 1>we we live vicariously through these emails. That's not true. Well, no,

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's great. I'm happy for Todd. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>mean I live vicariously and said I wish. No. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I just mean like, that's great. I'm glad someone out

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<v Speaker 1>there is getting a date because of this. Yeah. I

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<v Speaker 1>love helping people find love connections. Yeah, as a matter

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<v Speaker 1>of fact, we should do a speed dating episode. I

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<v Speaker 1>wrote an article on it once and it's pretty neat. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>my friend p J. You met p J. He uh,

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<v Speaker 1>he just texted me yesterday and said, Hey, this girl

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<v Speaker 1>he does a lot of online dating. He said part

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<v Speaker 1>of her profiles that she's like a huge fan of

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<v Speaker 1>you guys, And I said data. Yeah, well I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know data. There you go. You're doing it all over

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<v Speaker 1>the place. Man's right. Um, let's see if we have

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