WEBVTT - Rest first, with Dr. Adam Sandell

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to Before Breakfast, a production of iHeartRadio.

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<v Speaker 2>Good Morning, This is Laura. Welcome to the Before Breakfast podcast.

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<v Speaker 2>Today's episode is going to be a slightly longer one

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<v Speaker 2>part of the series where I interview fascinating people about

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<v Speaker 2>how they take their days from great to awesome and

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<v Speaker 2>any advice they have for the rest of us. So

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<v Speaker 2>today I am delighted to walk up. Welcome doctor Adam

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<v Speaker 2>Sandal to Before Breakfast. Adam is a physician working in

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<v Speaker 2>rural Canada. He teaches at the University of British Columbia

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<v Speaker 2>and writes the Great Work newsletter on Substack. So Adam,

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<v Speaker 2>welcome to the show.

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<v Speaker 3>Thank you so much. I'm delighted to be here.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I'm decided to have you as well. Why don't

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<v Speaker 2>you tell our listeners a little bit about yourself.

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<v Speaker 3>Sure, I've had a fairly crazy life, so as anyone

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<v Speaker 3>sharped can hear. I grew up in the UK with

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<v Speaker 3>mixed British and American parentage, trained as a doctor and

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<v Speaker 3>worked as a doctor for about twenty years in the

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<v Speaker 3>UK before moving to Canada right at the beginning of

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<v Speaker 3>the pandemic. I've also the craziness, you know, I've spent

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<v Speaker 3>ten years while working as a doctor, also working as

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<v Speaker 3>a human rights lawyer. That was in the UK, and

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<v Speaker 3>I've also spent quite a lot of time in other

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<v Speaker 3>parts of the world, helping to develop healthcare services in

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<v Speaker 3>places like Africa and India in the Middle East. But

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<v Speaker 3>I now I am now in Western Canada and rural

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<v Speaker 3>Western Canada, where I work on what Americans call a reservation,

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<v Speaker 3>what Canadians call a reserve with an indigenous population here

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<v Speaker 3>in British Columbia.

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<v Speaker 1>And you are off on a tiny island, I understand, correct.

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<v Speaker 3>That's right, kind of tucked into Vancouver Island and in fact,

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<v Speaker 3>and I love telling people this. At the moment, my

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<v Speaker 3>commute to work involves me getting in a kayak and

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<v Speaker 3>kayaking across the small channel.

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<v Speaker 2>So that's your company vehicle, that's right, You're exactly right.

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<v Speaker 3>And it's my first company vehicle.

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<v Speaker 1>I was very proud when I bought it. Yeah, so

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<v Speaker 1>that's true.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, rural healthcare does not tend to come with

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<v Speaker 2>company vehicles, I suppose.

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<v Speaker 1>But maybe I can tell people what that's like.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, many of my listeners probably have more the

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<v Speaker 2>suburban or urban sorts. You know, they think about just

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<v Speaker 2>going to the doctor or hospital for healthcare? How's that

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<v Speaker 2>different in rural Canada and especially with indigenous populations.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, it's something that I didn't when I moved

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<v Speaker 3>from the UK. I didn't even know still existed in

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<v Speaker 3>high income countries where you've got doctors doing what I think,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, doctors were doing fifty years ago, in the

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<v Speaker 3>places where many of us live now, many people live

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<v Speaker 3>now just doing everything. And in fact, for several years

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<v Speaker 3>here I worked in an even more remote community than

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<v Speaker 3>I do now, where we did do everything until things

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<v Speaker 3>got beyond our expertise, and then if we could, we'd

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<v Speaker 3>fly them out to a bigger center. But it is.

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<v Speaker 3>It's a kind of medicine, a kind of healthcare that

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<v Speaker 3>I think in so always people still yearn for, where

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<v Speaker 3>you have a doctor who deals with pretty much everything

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<v Speaker 3>for you. They see you in the emergency room, they're

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<v Speaker 3>the family physician that you see in the clinic, and

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<v Speaker 3>they're doing everything in between, insofar as you're capable of

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<v Speaker 3>doing that.

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<v Speaker 2>And now we're going to talk about time management in

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<v Speaker 2>a minute, because you had told me that you thought

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<v Speaker 2>you were not so good at time management.

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<v Speaker 1>But it tells me, you know, you're dealing with you

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<v Speaker 1>never know going into a day what is going to happen.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, you're dealing with every single ailment that could

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<v Speaker 2>befall a community or people's regular run of show health needs.

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<v Speaker 2>So how does one even think about time when a

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<v Speaker 2>day could bring truly anything.

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<v Speaker 3>It's such a great question that and I think you

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<v Speaker 3>know some of it. In really reactive jobs like that,

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<v Speaker 3>all you can do is figure out what the most

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<v Speaker 3>important thing to do next is and then do that.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, and there's always the most important thing to

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<v Speaker 3>do next, and you just do one of those after

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<v Speaker 3>the other after the other, and you hope that at

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<v Speaker 3>some point you come up for a and have got

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<v Speaker 3>through your responsibilities that day or that night or that

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<v Speaker 3>or that shift. But there's a you know, there's there's

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<v Speaker 3>a skill to doing that, it seems to me, because

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<v Speaker 3>you can get so submerged in it that you stop

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<v Speaker 3>being aware of who you are and how you are doing.

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<v Speaker 3>And you know, when I was a resident, it took

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<v Speaker 3>me a while to realize that actually you have to

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<v Speaker 3>go to the bathroom and if you're you know, if

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<v Speaker 3>you're working really long shifts, you have to have breaks

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<v Speaker 3>and eat because because otherwise you are going to start work,

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<v Speaker 3>You're going to feel terrible, and you're going to start

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<v Speaker 3>working really and effectively, and actually you're going to have

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<v Speaker 3>a much worse day than you otherwise would be. So

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<v Speaker 3>there is this thing of kind of maintaining kind of

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<v Speaker 3>higher out tude view of how you're doing and thinking, no,

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<v Speaker 3>even though there are still people waiting, I have to

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<v Speaker 3>stop now, and I need to drink some fluids, and

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<v Speaker 3>I need to just pause and not think about the

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<v Speaker 3>next thing I'm worrying about, just for a few minutes

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<v Speaker 3>so I can get my head straightened out.

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<v Speaker 2>A very important lesson for sure. Well let's talk about

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<v Speaker 2>time management. Though.

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<v Speaker 1>What if you found hardest about time management?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I mean I think there are a bunch of things,

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<v Speaker 3>and one of them for me was thinking that there

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<v Speaker 3>was one change that I could make which was going

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<v Speaker 3>to fix everything. And I'm you know, I love reading,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, listening to podcasts like this one and reading

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<v Speaker 3>books about how I can improve my life, and when

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<v Speaker 3>you do, you have this kind of honeymoon effect of

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<v Speaker 3>thinking that everything is going to be You've solved the

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<v Speaker 3>problem and everything's going to get better. And it took

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<v Speaker 3>me some time and then it does for a little bit,

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<v Speaker 3>you feel more in control, and then a few weeks

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<v Speaker 3>later things are not that much different. And it took

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<v Speaker 3>me some time to realize that this is a life's project.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, you haven't failed by not solving the problem

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<v Speaker 3>overnight by reading someone's fantastic book. And these are fantastic

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<v Speaker 3>books and you know, and podcasts and advice advice that

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<v Speaker 3>people have, but there isn't one solution. This is a

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<v Speaker 3>you know, this is a process that you learn and

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<v Speaker 3>you gradually get better at it. And I've been doing

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<v Speaker 3>this for you know, nearly thirty years now, and I

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<v Speaker 3>am so much better than I was. But that wasn't

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<v Speaker 3>That wasn't you know, one big jump that I suddenly

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<v Speaker 3>made when someone's brain, you know, wonderful idea change transformed

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<v Speaker 3>my life. It was a series of small, incremental things,

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<v Speaker 3>you know. So that's one thing. And then another thing

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<v Speaker 3>I think for me has been recognizing that this isn't

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<v Speaker 3>it's not just about techniques, it's about perspectives. So you know, you, yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>you can learn how to time box, and that's great,

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<v Speaker 3>and that helps you if you're a time boxy kind

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<v Speaker 3>of person. And I think if you're not a time

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<v Speaker 3>I am a bit. If you're not a time boxy

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<v Speaker 3>kind of person, then it's terrifying and awful. But but

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<v Speaker 3>you need to understand why you're doing that and have

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<v Speaker 3>have that kind of perspective shift that goes with it,

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<v Speaker 3>and one that you know you You make this point

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<v Speaker 3>I think in several of your books, including Big Time,

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<v Speaker 3>which I've just read and I love, which is that

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<v Speaker 3>you have enough time. The problem is not that you

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<v Speaker 3>don't have enough time. And I you know, fundamentally agree

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<v Speaker 3>with you about that, but it took me a long

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<v Speaker 3>time to learn it that if you're you're fretting about

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<v Speaker 3>not having enough time, you are fretting about the wrong problem.

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<v Speaker 3>That that's not that's not how you need to solve

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<v Speaker 3>your time management problems.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, we're going to take a quick break and then

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<v Speaker 2>we're going to think about how we do solve our

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<v Speaker 2>time management problems. Right after this, well, I am back

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<v Speaker 2>talking with doctor Adam Sandal, who is a physician practice

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<v Speaker 2>thing in rural Canada.

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<v Speaker 1>He is also the author of the Great Work newsletter

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<v Speaker 1>on Substack.

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<v Speaker 2>So you mentioned that in your time management journey there

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<v Speaker 2>had been a lot of small incremental steps that were helpful.

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<v Speaker 2>I wonder if you can share one or two of

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<v Speaker 2>those that were helpful for you, and that might be

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<v Speaker 2>helpful for other people who are listening to this.

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<v Speaker 3>The biggest one for me has been recognizing how important

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<v Speaker 3>rest is, that how important breaks are, and making sure

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<v Speaker 3>that I adequately prioritize them, because my instinct always when

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<v Speaker 3>I feel as though I have too much to do,

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<v Speaker 3>is to do the stuff that I feel like I

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<v Speaker 3>need to be doing. And you know, there's a bunch

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<v Speaker 3>of problems with that, one of which is that there

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<v Speaker 3>are always more than you can ever possibly do, so

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<v Speaker 3>you have to prioritize. And the second is that if

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<v Speaker 3>you don't, if you don't make sure if rest and

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<v Speaker 3>breaks and things that allow you to feel better and

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<v Speaker 3>then in fact make life meaningful aren't in there, then

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<v Speaker 3>they're not going to get done. So so that that

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<v Speaker 3>that piece of advice, which to me feels like permission

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<v Speaker 3>to do what I actually want to do, which is

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<v Speaker 3>to sit on the deck and read a book, or

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<v Speaker 3>go for a walk, or spend time with my partner

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<v Speaker 3>or you know, whatever it may be, that that recognition

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<v Speaker 3>that actually that's at least as important as all of

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<v Speaker 3>the other things that I'm worrying about getting done. That's

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<v Speaker 3>been a huge transformative thing for me.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, and that's interesting that you refer to those as rest,

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<v Speaker 2>because those are activities. The three things you just mentioned

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<v Speaker 2>that reading a book, yep, going for a walk, spending

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<v Speaker 2>time with a loved one. Yeah, that's that's not lying

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<v Speaker 2>on the bed watching TV. I mean, those are all

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<v Speaker 2>active choices. So I'm curious if you can talk a

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<v Speaker 2>little bit about this idea of rest as a category

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<v Speaker 2>that's about rejuvenation and not so much about just doing nothing,

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<v Speaker 2>if it were even possible to do nothing.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, And people use all kinds of terminology for this

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<v Speaker 3>and distinguish between rest and leisure, and you know, and

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<v Speaker 3>I think it's easy to get a little bit kind

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<v Speaker 3>of hung up on that. I guess I'm talking about

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<v Speaker 3>doing the things that I most want to be doing

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<v Speaker 3>that don't feel like obligations, you know, because there's a

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<v Speaker 3>sense much I love my work, and I you know,

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<v Speaker 3>I love doing stuff like this, but it's it's you know,

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<v Speaker 3>it keeps me alert and active and having to think

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<v Speaker 3>hard about it. And I guess the things that are

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<v Speaker 3>most important to me, and I think to all of us.

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<v Speaker 3>We need to have time to do this are time

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<v Speaker 3>to allow our minds to wander into daydream or to

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<v Speaker 3>think the big thoughts, so you know, and that may

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<v Speaker 3>that definitely does include you know, watching We're watching six

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<v Speaker 3>feet under It at the moment, which I've never seen

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<v Speaker 3>before and I'm loving and that, you know, I get

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<v Speaker 3>a huge amount from that. And that's one of those

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<v Speaker 3>things for me. Going for a walk, Yeah, is it

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<v Speaker 3>an activity? I suppose so, but it's not a chore.

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<v Speaker 3>It's something I just love doing, you know, and or

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<v Speaker 3>you know, or reading, reading, reading a good book, or

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<v Speaker 3>you know, even sometimes I can find just doing stuff

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<v Speaker 3>pottering around in the garden, you know, mowing the lawn

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<v Speaker 3>that you know, that actually just gets me outside and

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<v Speaker 3>it's a little bit physical and that feels good. So

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<v Speaker 3>what it is for you and what it is for

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<v Speaker 3>me are probably going to be different. Although interestingly, when

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<v Speaker 3>big surveys are done on this, we they it often

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<v Speaker 3>boils down to you know, half a dozen or a

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<v Speaker 3>dozen things that most of us would identify as things

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<v Speaker 3>that you know, make us feel better. But the key

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<v Speaker 3>thing is to you know, it's not scrolling Instagram. You know,

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<v Speaker 3>that may be a break. But it isn't. It doesn't

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<v Speaker 3>leave you feeling invigorated and energized and that the life

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<v Speaker 3>is good when you finish doing it. You could just

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<v Speaker 3>kind of feel slightly dirty and ashamed of yourself.

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<v Speaker 1>Sometimes we are deer.

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<v Speaker 2>So another topic you talk about, you said, it's the reaction,

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<v Speaker 2>not the stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>What do you mean by that?

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<v Speaker 3>So I'm unashamed to say that I have often found

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<v Speaker 3>my work stressful, and I think that goes for many

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<v Speaker 3>of us, you know, no matter what what your job

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<v Speaker 3>may be. And and there was a you know, this

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<v Speaker 3>was one of those perspective shifts that I was talking

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<v Speaker 3>about a moment ago that was, you know, part of

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<v Speaker 3>this kind of cumulative life changing, life changing thing that

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<v Speaker 3>that often when you are getting stressed about something, if

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<v Speaker 3>you look at your reaction the stress first, it will

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<v Speaker 3>it turns out that whatever you are getting stressed about

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<v Speaker 3>is much less of a thing than you were thinking

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<v Speaker 3>it was. And you know this is you know, there

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<v Speaker 3>is strains of this in Buddhist and Stoic philosophy. There's

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<v Speaker 3>that quote from Hamlet, which I think I can get

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<v Speaker 3>away with because of my accent. There is nothing either

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<v Speaker 3>good or bad, but thinking makes it. So it's you know,

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<v Speaker 3>you find it in a lot of modern day thinking

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<v Speaker 3>about about how we can live our lives better, including

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<v Speaker 3>cognitive behavioral therapy that you know, that most effective, most

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<v Speaker 3>evidence based form of psychological therapy that you know, if

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<v Speaker 3>you are worried that you have done something wrong and

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<v Speaker 3>you are going to get in huge trouble or this

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<v Speaker 3>is going to have an enormous impact on your career

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<v Speaker 3>or on the people your work serves, and you're losing

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<v Speaker 3>sleep over that, Actually unpicking that and figuring out whether

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<v Speaker 3>that is really accurate and thinking about how helpful to

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<v Speaker 3>you the reaction that you are having to it is

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<v Speaker 3>being can often be the most helpful thing you can

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<v Speaker 3>do in that situation.

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<v Speaker 1>So tell me how you started the great work substack.

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<v Speaker 1>What led to your decision to try and share your

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<v Speaker 1>ideas on you know, time and management with other people.

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<v Speaker 3>This crazy career that I have had has taken me

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<v Speaker 3>to an awful lot of different work settings of one

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<v Speaker 3>sort or another, in medicine and in law, and in

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<v Speaker 3>different continents and just very different approaches to doing things.

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<v Speaker 3>And I, you know, after some years, began to realize

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<v Speaker 3>that the struggles that I have with my working life

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<v Speaker 3>are struggles that lots of people have with their working

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<v Speaker 3>lives and that and I have got this kind of

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<v Speaker 3>engineering mindset where if I've got a problem, I kind

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<v Speaker 3>of try and figure out ways to fix it, and

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<v Speaker 3>I'm interested in evidence based ways that actually do work.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm one of those people who gets put off by

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<v Speaker 3>wo and pseudoscience, but I want something practical that I

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<v Speaker 3>can do that makes a difference. And there came a

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<v Speaker 3>point where I felt that I'd figured out enough of

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<v Speaker 3>these people and increasingly had enough of these problems, and

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<v Speaker 3>increasingly had helped enough for other people to figure out

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<v Speaker 3>solutions to their own problems that I thought there's something

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<v Speaker 3>here that I want to start sharing with people, And

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<v Speaker 3>so started the sub stack and working on a book

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<v Speaker 3>about the same stuff, and have been delighted to discover

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<v Speaker 3>that this is things. This is information that people really

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<v Speaker 3>want to hear and seem to find useful if it's practical.

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<v Speaker 2>Absolutely, people always like practical things. We're all about practical

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<v Speaker 2>here absolutely. And another thing we also like here before

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<v Speaker 2>breakfast is morning routines. And I understand that you have one.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, And I'm slightly obsessive about it and get a

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<v Speaker 3>little bit stressed if I am unable to follow it

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<v Speaker 3>and then tell myself, no, it's the reaction, not the stuff.

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<v Speaker 3>Today is going to be fine. Yeah, I mean, and

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<v Speaker 3>this is kind of slowly evolved, and it will probably

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<v Speaker 3>continue to involve to evolve. I get up, and I'm

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<v Speaker 3>pretty disciplined about not switching on devices or checking anything

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<v Speaker 3>for a while, just so that I have a little

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<v Speaker 3>bit of mourning before I start to get consumed. I meditate.

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<v Speaker 3>I do some mindfulness meditation literally for maybe no more

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<v Speaker 3>than two or three minutes. Sometimes it's significantly longer than that,

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<v Speaker 3>but two or three minutes makes a huge difference to

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<v Speaker 3>my day. Recently, because I'm in my fifties now, started

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<v Speaker 3>doing again just a few minutes of yoga every morning,

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<v Speaker 3>and that makes me feel way better for the rest

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<v Speaker 3>of the day too. And two or three times a

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<v Speaker 3>week we'll lift some weights. All of this is just

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<v Speaker 3>for a few minutes. The whole thing is just, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>it's brief, it's easy to fit in there. And then

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<v Speaker 3>I sit down and I have this quite formulaic process

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<v Speaker 3>that I go through. I start by writing just a

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<v Speaker 3>few pages of I don't know, it's a cross between

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<v Speaker 3>diary and what people call morning pages, just getting stuff

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<v Speaker 3>out there. And I do find, as people who do

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<v Speaker 3>morning pages do that if there's something that if there's

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<v Speaker 3>a decision that I've been struggling with, often just a

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<v Speaker 3>few sentences on the page and it's figured out for

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<v Speaker 3>me in my mind. And then you know, I have

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<v Speaker 3>a task management app on my phone and my computer

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<v Speaker 3>and I have a look at what's popped up today

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<v Speaker 3>and sort them out and cross off a bunch of

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<v Speaker 3>things or postpone them and have a think about how

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<v Speaker 3>my day is going to go. I also look at

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<v Speaker 3>a list that I keep, just a short bullet point

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<v Speaker 3>thing of my big priorities in life, and I look

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<v Speaker 3>at that every morning. And the reason I do that

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<v Speaker 3>is that it is so easy to get off track,

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<v Speaker 3>especially during busy or stressful times, and I just find

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<v Speaker 3>it helpful each morning to look at that list of

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<v Speaker 3>what is my life, what do I want my life

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<v Speaker 3>to be about, and make sure that things are as

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<v Speaker 3>on track as they can be, and if not, think well,

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<v Speaker 3>what am I going to do about that today? How

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<v Speaker 3>am I going to fit in an hour of whatever

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<v Speaker 3>it is that's most important to me today? And that's

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<v Speaker 3>and By the end of that process, I feel like

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<v Speaker 3>I'm ready to get going with to.

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<v Speaker 1>Day for sure.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, it's always good to look at our goals and

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<v Speaker 2>refamiliarize ourselves with them. We're going to take a quick

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<v Speaker 2>ad break and then I'll be back with more from

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<v Speaker 2>doctor Adam Sandal. Well, I am back talking with doctor

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<v Speaker 2>Adam Sandal who is a physician in rural Canada, teaches

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<v Speaker 2>at the University of British Columbia, and writes the Great

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<v Speaker 2>Work newsletter on substack.

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<v Speaker 1>So you've seen a lot of time management.

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<v Speaker 2>Advice, You've seen you've read a lot of productivity and

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<v Speaker 2>self help books over the years. I'm curious if you

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<v Speaker 2>tried something that most definitely did not work for you.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh wow, what a good question. Let me think that through.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean the things that the things that I find

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<v Speaker 3>in the hardest are things that just come across to

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<v Speaker 3>me as too tree hugging and pseudoscientific. And I mean,

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<v Speaker 3>I'll give you one. I'll give you one example. I

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<v Speaker 3>was involved in a great team building session led by

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<v Speaker 3>an external facilitator recently which suddenly dove into the world

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<v Speaker 3>of polyvagel theory. Now, I don't know if you've heard

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<v Speaker 3>of polyvagel theory, but it's big out there in in

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<v Speaker 3>kind of work performance kind of psychology stuff, and it's

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<v Speaker 3>made up. It's pseudoscience. And what it does is it

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<v Speaker 3>slaps a fancy sounding scientific, key sounding label on some

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<v Speaker 3>kind of basically good advice and makes it way more

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<v Speaker 3>complicated than it needs to be. And I can't stand

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<v Speaker 3>that because I think it's dishonest. I think it it

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<v Speaker 3>doesn't actually help people to it to attach labels, and

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<v Speaker 3>it warps the advice away from what might be the

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<v Speaker 3>most useful to make it sound like this kind of special,

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<v Speaker 3>fancy kind of science y thing, and I find it

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<v Speaker 3>very difficult to engage with that. And goodness me, I

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<v Speaker 3>had to bite my tongue because actually this was a

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<v Speaker 3>really good session and I didn't want to undermine that

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<v Speaker 3>or the facilitator, but that that stuff I find really

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<v Speaker 3>And I know I'm coming at this as a doctor,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, as someone as someone who is a bit

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<v Speaker 3>sciencing myself, but that really turns me off.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, well, I think the group facilitation right there probably

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<v Speaker 2>turned me off. I'm really not into any sort of

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<v Speaker 2>forced group bonding activity, but good.

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<v Speaker 1>For you for being part of it. So Adam.

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<v Speaker 2>I ask, oh, my guests, what is something you have

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<v Speaker 2>done recently to take a day from great to awesome?

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<v Speaker 1>We know that this.

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<v Speaker 2>Pseudoscience group facilitation stuff was taking a day maybe a

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<v Speaker 2>little worse. What's something you've had a good day and

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<v Speaker 2>made it better.

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<v Speaker 3>There's I mean, there's two things I want to say,

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<v Speaker 3>and one I'm just going to say in passing because

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<v Speaker 3>any day in which I can walk in nature for

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<v Speaker 3>the purposes of walking, so I'm not getting somewhere necessarily,

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<v Speaker 3>but just for the purpose of walking, that is going

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<v Speaker 3>to be a great day. But from from great to awesome.

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<v Speaker 3>And I thought about this a little bit because I

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<v Speaker 3>knew you were going to ask me this. From great

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<v Speaker 3>too awesome. I think any day where I have spent

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<v Speaker 3>time with someone else helping them figure something out. I

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<v Speaker 3>cannot tell you why that gives me the buzz it does,

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<v Speaker 3>but research tells us that actually that gives all of

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<v Speaker 3>us a buzz. There's wonderful search on this and I so,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, I do a bit of coaching and mentoring

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<v Speaker 3>of other health care providers in British Columbia, and you know,

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<v Speaker 3>there was a recent day where I spent an hour

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<v Speaker 3>with someone on Zoom, helping them figure out an approach

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<v Speaker 3>to clinical problems that they needed to have, and I

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<v Speaker 3>just felt for days afterwards. I felt good about it

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<v Speaker 3>because I knew that something, something useful had happened there

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<v Speaker 3>and we'd done it together.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, helping other people and being useful is amazing, and

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<v Speaker 2>I'm sure one of the upsides of being in a

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<v Speaker 2>rural physician is you do that every day, right, I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>you are clearly solving people's problems every.

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<v Speaker 3>Day, and I'm sure that's why I chose that as

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<v Speaker 3>a career. I didn't know it at the time, but yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>I get it. I get every every day I go

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<v Speaker 3>into work, I get energized by that. And it's great.

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<v Speaker 3>And it's weird for an introvert because actually I really

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<v Speaker 3>love spending time on my own, but there is something

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<v Speaker 3>very meaningful about that kind of one on one helping

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<v Speaker 3>people fix things.

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<v Speaker 1>Absolutely. What are you looking forward to right now?

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<v Speaker 3>I am. I'm loving doing the writing and connecting with

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<v Speaker 3>people who are interested in this stuff. So that's really

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<v Speaker 3>that's really exciting for me, and I'm just continuing to

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<v Speaker 3>enjoy that this time of year for me, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>part of the reason I'm in British Columbia is it's

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<v Speaker 3>one of the most beautiful places in the world and

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<v Speaker 3>this time of year is just fantastic. The nature and

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<v Speaker 3>the wildlife and the views and the scenery and the outdoors.

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<v Speaker 3>What else can I tell you that I'm excited about

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<v Speaker 3>at the moment, I guess the biggest excitement in my

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<v Speaker 3>life is I'm trying to turn all of this into

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<v Speaker 3>a book, and that feels like it's going really well,

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<v Speaker 3>and I'm excited to see how that may unfold.

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<v Speaker 1>Wonderful, absolutely well. Let people know where they can find you.

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<v Speaker 3>So the best place to find me is on my website,

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<v Speaker 3>which is Adamsandal dot com Adam Sandel l dot com

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<v Speaker 3>and you can connect with me there. You can also

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<v Speaker 3>sign up for the substack, and if you prefer that

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<v Speaker 3>as a podcast, then that's embedded in the substackle. You

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<v Speaker 3>can find in the emails, or you can find it

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<v Speaker 3>in all the places where people find podcasts.

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<v Speaker 2>Wonderful well, Adam, thank you so much for joining us,

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you to everyone for listening. If you have feedback

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<v Speaker 2>about this or any other episode, you can always reach

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<v Speaker 2>me at Laura at Laura vandercam dot com.

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<v Speaker 1>In the meantime, this is Laura.

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<v Speaker 2>Thanks for listening, and here's to making the most of

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<v Speaker 2>our time. Thanks for listening to Before Breakfast. If you've

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<v Speaker 2>got questions, ideas, or feedback, you can reach me at

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