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Speaker 1: My wife and her best friend accused me of having

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Speaker 1: This is OKOP, Home of the Craziest Stories on Earth.

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Speaker 1: I'm Sam and John. This is really special relationship episode.

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Speaker 1: We're going to go through a bunch of crazy relationship stories.

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Speaker 1: But what do you think should hope Pea's wife be

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Speaker 1: mad that he didn't have an affair.

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Speaker 2: This is the one of the dumbest premises I've ever

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Speaker 2: heard story because it's like, Wow, I found out that

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Speaker 2: you're not cheating, I'm leaving you what hey, you know what.

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Speaker 3: I'm so mad you better go and have an affair

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Speaker 3: right now to fix this.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, thank you for everyone coming through Viagra Pooh pooh

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Speaker 1: the raven I watched daily Thank you. This is a

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Speaker 1: live one and let's lively get into it. So I

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Speaker 1: thirty one male and my wife twenty nine female, had

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Speaker 1: my wife developed postpartum depression. Rough While she was originally

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Speaker 1: been struggling that we decided to wait until our daughter

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Speaker 1: to therapy weekly. With my wife home full time, I've

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Speaker 1: had to work increased hours. This is something we discussed

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Speaker 1: prior to making the decision, as she knew this from

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Speaker 1: the start, so it sounds like they had all agreed

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Speaker 1: upon it initially. A few weeks ago, my boss approached

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Speaker 1: me about a project that will require a lot of

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Speaker 1: my wife about it, and she agreed that I should

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Speaker 1: say yes to my boss and for the four weeks

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Speaker 1: i'd be working on this, my mother in law and

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Speaker 1: her best friend Jesse twenty nine female name change would

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Speaker 3: Sam, I have to say it. I have to say it,

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Speaker 3: say it.

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Speaker 2: Put in I see you in the comments right now

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Speaker 2: if you see what's about to go down. Jesse's coming in.

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Speaker 2: He's working overtime, grinding on long hours.

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Speaker 1: Looks he got to be really grinded on.

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 3: Put a nice you come on, Jessee.

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Speaker 1: It too is a stay at home bomb with a

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Speaker 1: it together. I went home that night and talked to

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Speaker 1: Definitely a sign, and I imagine a sign of jetie. Dude,

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Speaker 3: He was so he was so exasperated. Red flag.

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Speaker 1: That's like that's I feel like that's reading way too

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Speaker 2: You know, why, why do we have to do. Like, honestly,

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Speaker 2: I truly think we've read enough of these stories and

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Speaker 3: Of just want the drama.

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Speaker 2: They live for the drama, they live for the and

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Speaker 2: it really messes up the friends' lives because it's like,

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Speaker 2: if the husband is innocent, you're creating all of this

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Speaker 1: Such minute detail like he didn't greet you when he

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Speaker 3: Literally like could be tired, could be, that's not.

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Speaker 1: There's a million other things. Million And also I hate

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Speaker 3: Oh that's use saying, now, yeah, dude, a great friend.

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Speaker 2: It's like, why would you even love my fats so luckily?

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Speaker 1: Neither of these things are true. I'm trying my best

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Speaker 2: God, I mean, at that point, you do low key

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Speaker 1: But that's I'm gonna go up to strangers on the

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Speaker 3: I love that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, great exposing cheaters on the street. Great series. We

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Speaker 3: Jesse's planting this.

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Speaker 1: Jessee was panting, Yeah, because it was all fine before

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Speaker 2: They had agreed upon it. And I can also understand too,

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Speaker 3: Yes, Jesse is the crazy friend.

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Speaker 1: I asked her why she believed Jesse more than me,

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Speaker 1: But what do you think, John, Like, what do you

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Speaker 1: I would love to know from you guys. Put your

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Speaker 3: We can discuss them.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we can discuss it live because this is a

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Speaker 3: But yeah, I will say one thing really quickly to know.

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Speaker 2: Look, when when a friend is planting ideas in your

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Speaker 2: Bring that to the grandparents while they're grieving their child

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Speaker 2: And it's also like, because now you're bringing those same

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Speaker 2: Point, good point, Carr, Yeah, very good, because because.

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Speaker 1: I think you reading this next story?

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Speaker 3: Oh?

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Speaker 2: Wow?

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Speaker 3: Are we over?

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Speaker 1: We're over? Oh my, that's the last update?

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Speaker 1: Is that that that? That is the last update? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Oh wait, oh no, wait wait wait wait you missed one?

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Speaker 1: house since I kicked her out because she was offended

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Speaker 1: by my behavior. A good thing that you kicked her out,

444
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Speaker 1: but my wife does. She's clearly upset, been crying. I

445
00:21:32,080 --> 00:21:34,760
Speaker 1: asked what happened. I thought at first the house might

446
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Speaker 1: have been robbed. She starts screaming at me that I'm

447
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Speaker 1: being unfaithful and that the therapy is affront so I

448
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Speaker 1: can meet my mistress, which I imagine is planted by Jesse.

449
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Speaker 1: Oh my god. I try to calm her down and

450
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Speaker 1: tell her that's not true, but she came at me

451
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Speaker 1: and she hit me. My nose is broken, so it's

452
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Speaker 1: not even a light hit.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: She kind of realized what she did and sat down

455
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Speaker 1: on the couch and went comatose, just stared at the wall.

456
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Speaker 1: I went to my daughter's room and locked the door,

457
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Speaker 1: called my mom to tell her what happened. She was

458
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Speaker 1: already on her way, and my mother in law to

459
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Speaker 1: ask her to come over and take care of my wife.

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Speaker 1: I packed a bag for my daughter, and when my

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Speaker 1: mom got there, we left. My wife didn't even look up.

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Speaker 1: We dropped my daughter off with my dad and then

463
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Speaker 1: went to urgent care for my nose because the nose

464
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Speaker 1: is completely broken. I got blood all over my mom's

465
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Speaker 1: new Subaru. I mean, luckily superus are pretty durable, but

466
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Speaker 1: so sorry, I.

467
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Speaker 2: Just had to sell these all no responsors. No responsors

468
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Speaker 2: named the vehicle.

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Speaker 1: My daughter and I are staying. That was bad.

470
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Speaker 2: I'm sorry.

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Speaker 1: My daughter and I are staying with my parents for

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Speaker 1: a while, and my wife's staying with hers. I'm looking

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Speaker 1: into getting a restraining order against Jesse. My wife and

474
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Speaker 1: I are separating. I love her, but I won't live

475
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Speaker 1: with someone who hurts me and who could potentially hurt

476
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Speaker 1: our daughter. I am not going forward to the divorce

477
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Speaker 1: with hopes that my wife will get the treatment she

478
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Speaker 1: needs and we can work things out. My in laws

479
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Speaker 1: told me that they're looking at an impatient treatment at

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Speaker 1: a local hospital, but I also have everything well documented

481
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Speaker 1: in case of an eventual custody battle. My heart's broken

482
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Speaker 1: because I know this isn't my wife. This is a

483
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Speaker 1: sickness in her mind. But I need to keep myself

484
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Speaker 1: and our daughter safe and give her the space to recover.

485
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Speaker 1: I'm hoping that this is the right decision. Thanks everyone.

486
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Speaker 1: So I guess that's that's more of the context that

487
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Speaker 1: we kind of missed in between those two updates. But

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Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, it's it's so rough because it's like

489
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Speaker 1: you can i mean, people change, you know, in.

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Speaker 3: Terms of like Jesse, oh, in terms of in terms

491
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Speaker 3: of the wife.

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Speaker 1: It's like it's like and it's it's not it's hard

493
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Speaker 1: because it's like not really her fault at all.

494
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Speaker 2: Yeah. So I mean some people like develop schizophrenia and

495
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Speaker 2: they're like thirties and forties, you know, and it's like.

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Speaker 1: Fuck, dude, don't tell me that. I hell her around

497
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Speaker 1: the corner.

498
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Speaker 3: There we go.

499
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Speaker 2: But yeah, I mean, also this gives me even more

500
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Speaker 2: is the context. Yeah, thinking about Carr's comment of like

501
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Speaker 2: what if Jesse comes to try to ruin the funeral,

502
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Speaker 2: this makes me think even more that Jesse is going

503
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Speaker 2: to do that.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, oh yeah, I mean we just got more

505
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Speaker 1: context that like she like was driving Opie's wife, she was,

506
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Speaker 1: she possibly contributed tearing up the entire place, And what

507
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Speaker 1: I guess Opie was saying in the third update was

508
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Speaker 1: like she was the one that left the daughter home alone. Yeah.

509
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Speaker 2: Daughter, I feel like as soon as you tell the

510
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Speaker 2: grand the in laws that like, yeah, Jesse like you know,

511
00:24:42,320 --> 00:24:45,560
Speaker 2: left left her alone, that's like enough because he's left

512
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Speaker 2: her alone to prioritize stirring up the drama like that

513
00:24:49,080 --> 00:24:51,920
Speaker 2: alone should be enough to get her out of the funeral. Yea, hopefully. Yeah.

514
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Speaker 1: I feel like if I if I like, if I

515
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Speaker 1: presented this to uh the the like mother in law,

516
00:25:00,240 --> 00:25:02,439
Speaker 1: father in law, be like like, look, this is this

517
00:25:02,480 --> 00:25:05,720
Speaker 1: is my documentation of what's happened. Yes, like she cannot

518
00:25:05,720 --> 00:25:08,600
Speaker 1: be there. That's right, Dannielle said, this story is so

519
00:25:08,800 --> 00:25:12,160
Speaker 1: sad and tragic. Yeah, completely. How old is the daughter?

520
00:25:12,200 --> 00:25:15,560
Speaker 1: The daughter is a newborn, so it's like yeah, yeah, yeah,

521
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Speaker 1: so I imagine it's like maybe no more than a

522
00:25:18,720 --> 00:25:23,280
Speaker 1: year old, Yeah, probably less, but yeah, so that uh

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Speaker 1: we we just we just got we got like a

524
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Speaker 1: little bit more context and Sarah, thank you for tuning

525
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Speaker 1: into the live. Yes got her, you're here. But John,

526
00:25:32,600 --> 00:25:35,439
Speaker 1: now that we have the full story, this full sad,

527
00:25:35,800 --> 00:25:38,960
Speaker 1: sad story to start with, do you have another story

528
00:25:38,960 --> 00:25:42,200
Speaker 1: for me? Possibly that is maybe a little less sad?

529
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Speaker 2: Producer Riley, Right, do we have is our next story? How?

530
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Speaker 2: What's what's the mood? What's the vibes?

531
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Speaker 5: Yeah, you just gotta figure it out.

532
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Speaker 3: We just got to figure it out, all right, We're

533
00:25:52,000 --> 00:25:52,560
Speaker 3: gonna do that.

534
00:25:52,600 --> 00:25:56,600
Speaker 2: Nothing easy nothing easy, okay, producer Riley keeping us on

535
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Speaker 2: our toes with this story. Am I the ahole for

536
00:25:59,600 --> 00:26:02,760
Speaker 2: returning the shoes I got from my husband after he

537
00:26:02,880 --> 00:26:04,880
Speaker 2: accused me of stealing from him?

538
00:26:04,920 --> 00:26:05,280
Speaker 1: Again?

539
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Speaker 2: This is OKOP, Home of the Craziest true stories on Earth.

540
00:26:09,080 --> 00:26:12,560
Speaker 2: I'm John and Sam. Do we think the op is

541
00:26:12,600 --> 00:26:13,800
Speaker 2: a dirty, filthy thief?

542
00:26:14,720 --> 00:26:17,800
Speaker 1: Yes? Yeah, I think Op is a dirty, filthy thief

543
00:26:17,960 --> 00:26:21,160
Speaker 1: and he's trying to cover up the tracks by using

544
00:26:21,200 --> 00:26:24,399
Speaker 1: Reddit as an alibi. Wow, I wrote those Reddit posts

545
00:26:24,400 --> 00:26:26,600
Speaker 1: and it says I'm innocent. How could I not be innocent?

546
00:26:26,720 --> 00:26:28,640
Speaker 2: Well, we're about to see. We're about to get another

547
00:26:28,720 --> 00:26:31,359
Speaker 2: verdict from all of you watching me right now.

548
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Speaker 1: If my no context guess is right.

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Speaker 3: Woo.

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Speaker 2: So this is from Campfire by Lake seventy seven, who

551
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Speaker 2: says my twenty nine husband thirty six is the bread

552
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Speaker 2: winner of the family. I stay at home with the

553
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Speaker 2: kids who are preschool age. He pays for the mortgage, builds,

554
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Speaker 2: household needs, food, kids, et cetera, et cetera. He has

555
00:26:53,760 --> 00:26:56,800
Speaker 2: set a monthly budget for each category and handles getting

556
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Speaker 2: everything done. Recently, he has become overwhelmed and told me

557
00:27:00,720 --> 00:27:03,560
Speaker 2: to handle grocery shopping. But before he let me, he

558
00:27:03,680 --> 00:27:05,840
Speaker 2: asked me to write a list of all the stuff

559
00:27:05,880 --> 00:27:08,639
Speaker 2: that we need so he could calculate the total. And

560
00:27:08,800 --> 00:27:11,400
Speaker 2: also and also so he'd have an idea of how

561
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Speaker 2: much I'll be spending when I take his credit card.

562
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Speaker 2: So he's still staying on top of the budget, like

563
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Speaker 2: doing his budgeting.

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Speaker 1: It feels like too much.

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00:27:20,960 --> 00:27:25,480
Speaker 2: Uh A little bit. Well, I mean Bro was doing uh,

566
00:27:25,520 --> 00:27:28,280
Speaker 2: he was providing for the family, handling the budget and

567
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Speaker 2: handling grocery shopping.

568
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Speaker 1: Like is he handling grocery shopping?

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Speaker 3: Passing it off? Now?

570
00:27:33,840 --> 00:27:36,239
Speaker 2: I believe right, he's passing it off. Yeah, so he

571
00:27:36,320 --> 00:27:38,600
Speaker 2: was grocery shopping and he's like, this is too much.

572
00:27:38,800 --> 00:27:41,240
Speaker 2: I'm going to pass it off. But I'm I'm staying

573
00:27:41,280 --> 00:27:44,120
Speaker 2: on my budget game. Let me know so I can

574
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Speaker 2: like account for that.

575
00:27:45,200 --> 00:27:49,920
Speaker 1: Wow, that is that would be so stressful doing that

576
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Speaker 1: detailed of a budget.

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Speaker 3: I think.

578
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Speaker 2: I think what you're pointing out, which which is a

579
00:27:53,720 --> 00:27:58,040
Speaker 2: good observation, is so I can know how much to

580
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Speaker 2: expect you'll spend.

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Speaker 1: I don't know. Some people are putting financial abuse in

582
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Speaker 1: the chat. The Raven says it, Yeah, it feels like

583
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Speaker 1: it feels like a lever of control.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, because why don't is they just say like, hey,

585
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Speaker 2: we're gonna shoot for one thousand bucks a month.

586
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Speaker 3: Just try to stay beside that.

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00:28:15,840 --> 00:28:18,160
Speaker 1: That's really what he's that's reasonable. But it's like, don't

588
00:28:18,240 --> 00:28:20,679
Speaker 1: spend more than five dollars on milk a week, like

589
00:28:20,760 --> 00:28:24,760
Speaker 1: bro way way way actually know, sometimes costs more. Do

590
00:28:24,760 --> 00:28:26,920
Speaker 1: you see about the egg crisis and eggs were crazy

591
00:28:27,000 --> 00:28:28,880
Speaker 1: expensive for a while, eggs.

592
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Speaker 3: Blowing up out here. Well, back to the story.

593
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Speaker 2: I didn't have an issue with that because this way

594
00:28:35,200 --> 00:28:39,680
Speaker 2: we would watch our spending habits. However, he said, I'm

595
00:28:39,760 --> 00:28:42,360
Speaker 2: never allowed to get something that isn't on the list

596
00:28:42,440 --> 00:28:44,680
Speaker 2: unless I'm paying for it some other way.

597
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Speaker 1: And here we go, Pattison, But how how she's taking

598
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Speaker 1: care of your children?

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Speaker 2: This is this is the like financial control. This is

600
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Speaker 2: him like sinking his clawst him. Yeah, this is crazy.

601
00:28:56,960 --> 00:28:57,840
Speaker 2: This show's he's crazy.

602
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Speaker 1: That is a red flat red flags in the chat,

603
00:29:01,880 --> 00:29:04,160
Speaker 1: red flags in that seems like a red flag.

604
00:29:03,840 --> 00:29:08,080
Speaker 2: To you, giant, giant, giant red flag. Again, Like, I

605
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Speaker 2: feel like all you would need to do is be like, hey,

606
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Speaker 2: let's shoot for one thousand a month.

607
00:29:12,040 --> 00:29:13,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, if you go like.

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Speaker 1: A little bit over who cares? Actually, I don't really.

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Speaker 1: I mean I've never been married, so I don't actually

610
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Speaker 1: know how this works. Do you, like for anyone who

611
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Speaker 1: is married in the chat? Like, do you guys like

612
00:29:26,640 --> 00:29:31,440
Speaker 1: have budgets for like groceries or like budgets for especially

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Speaker 1: like stay at home moms? Like do you have like

614
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Speaker 1: budgets for how much you spend or that you agree on?

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Speaker 3: I mean people have budgets.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't even know how it works. How does

617
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Speaker 1: it work if you have budgets?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, let us know about your break Oh, share your budget,

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Speaker 2: share your budget, let us know I mean your philosophy.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you don't have to give numbers eggs every security number. Job.

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Speaker 2: Anyways, So on Friday, I was doing some grocery shopping

622
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Speaker 2: as usual, and saw that the store had some.

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Speaker 3: Nice shoes on sale.

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Speaker 2: The price was insanely low for this brand, and so

625
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Speaker 2: is it on the list.

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Speaker 3: I have a.

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Speaker 1: Suspicion it's not a less Oh my goodness.

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Speaker 2: And so I decided to grab a pair for my husband,

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Speaker 2: not even for her, yep, yep, thinking that he'd be

630
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Speaker 2: happy with them since he needed new sneakers. Anyways, I

631
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Speaker 2: bought them and When I showed them to him, he

632
00:30:25,360 --> 00:30:28,480
Speaker 2: flipped out on me, saying I made a huge mistake

633
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Speaker 2: by buying something that was not on the list.

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Speaker 1: I wonder my question is, are they like, what is

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Speaker 1: their financial situation like, are they're like super strapped? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: and so every dollar counts or does like man have

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Speaker 1: like a comfy tech job and he's just being super controlling. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it feels like it's just the controlling.

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Speaker 2: It's the controlling.

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Speaker 1: It feels like it's the control.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna kind of guess and assume that maybe they're

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Speaker 2: not like super super loaded, but it's he's this is

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Speaker 2: clearly him just doing control. I think, yeah, it wouldn't

644
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Speaker 2: even matter if he made me because there.

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Speaker 1: I feel like it feels like there's just no trust,

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Speaker 1: like financial trust in this relationship.

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Speaker 3: It's so Yeah, it's so dumb.

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Speaker 1: Because if you if you just agree upon a budget,

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Speaker 1: then there's financial trust. It's like, oh, I can I

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Speaker 1: can go about and like work within what we've agreed upon.

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00:31:19,000 --> 00:31:20,880
Speaker 1: But this is way too over there.

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Speaker 3: And why would you like it?

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Speaker 2: It would be if I was the husband, I would

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Speaker 2: be stressed out keeping track of all this. It's just

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Speaker 2: further shows he's using it as a means of control

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Speaker 2: over the life.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, let us know. Do you think it's control or

658
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Speaker 1: do you think man is just on his budget game?

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Speaker 1: But your answer to watch a lot of Dave Ramsey

660
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Speaker 1: financial guru over here. Yeah, let us know what you

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Speaker 1: think for your answers in the chat and we have

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Speaker 1: it live.

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00:31:46,720 --> 00:31:47,440
Speaker 3: We have it live.

664
00:31:48,160 --> 00:31:51,520
Speaker 2: So I agreed with him, but I thought that since

665
00:31:51,520 --> 00:31:53,600
Speaker 2: the shoes were for him, that it would be different.

666
00:31:54,040 --> 00:31:57,000
Speaker 2: He said, I screwed up and shouldn't have bought those sneakers,

667
00:31:57,080 --> 00:32:00,240
Speaker 2: even without telling them. But in my defense, I said

668
00:32:00,280 --> 00:32:02,080
Speaker 2: that the price was low, so it's not like I

669
00:32:02,120 --> 00:32:05,280
Speaker 2: spent one hundred dollars on shoes. And also I saw

670
00:32:05,320 --> 00:32:07,200
Speaker 2: that this was a great deal and wanted to and

671
00:32:07,280 --> 00:32:10,760
Speaker 2: wanted him to have those nice sneakers. He plainly said

672
00:32:11,000 --> 00:32:16,120
Speaker 2: that what I did is considered stealing, since he never

673
00:32:16,160 --> 00:32:21,800
Speaker 2: you're team y'all, you're married, you're married sense. He never

674
00:32:21,880 --> 00:32:25,160
Speaker 2: consented to having those sneakers purchased, and said that I'm

675
00:32:25,200 --> 00:32:27,920
Speaker 2: being irresponsible with his money and that is why I

676
00:32:27,960 --> 00:32:31,239
Speaker 2: no longer have an income and have my and have

677
00:32:31,320 --> 00:32:32,600
Speaker 2: my spending habits.

678
00:32:32,760 --> 00:32:35,680
Speaker 1: Needing a grib, what's a grib.

679
00:32:35,800 --> 00:32:37,160
Speaker 2: What is a grib?

680
00:32:37,560 --> 00:32:38,640
Speaker 1: Tell us what a grib is.

681
00:32:38,920 --> 00:32:43,240
Speaker 3: I'm guessing it's like guardrails a grib.

682
00:32:43,800 --> 00:32:47,800
Speaker 1: But wow, Like also just the language that he uses

683
00:32:48,040 --> 00:32:50,440
Speaker 1: my money, Like, I feel like if you're in a

684
00:32:50,600 --> 00:32:52,920
Speaker 1: if you're in a partnership, especially in this kind of partnership,

685
00:32:52,960 --> 00:32:55,440
Speaker 1: it's like like you start using words like hour, right.

686
00:32:55,560 --> 00:32:59,600
Speaker 2: This is this, it's just further further. The more this

687
00:32:59,640 --> 00:33:02,240
Speaker 2: man owns opens his mouth, the further it shows that

688
00:33:02,360 --> 00:33:04,520
Speaker 2: he's like grossly discussed.

689
00:33:04,600 --> 00:33:09,360
Speaker 1: I think Kristenrolling has a solution for us. Oh de

690
00:33:09,800 --> 00:33:16,600
Speaker 1: worse devorse de corse devorsese worse. Yeah, I agree. I

691
00:33:16,640 --> 00:33:18,680
Speaker 1: agree that I think it's a way, a way, like

692
00:33:18,760 --> 00:33:19,920
Speaker 1: definitely a method of control.

693
00:33:20,120 --> 00:33:24,840
Speaker 2: Leave this guy, my goodness, I felt hurt by what

694
00:33:24,880 --> 00:33:29,760
Speaker 2: he said, as you should, as you should. We argued

695
00:33:29,800 --> 00:33:32,200
Speaker 2: about it for hours, and he avoided speaking to me

696
00:33:32,280 --> 00:33:34,360
Speaker 2: for the rest of the day. What a baby, What

697
00:33:34,440 --> 00:33:37,680
Speaker 2: a douche? Yeah, this guy's big old doe awful. The

698
00:33:37,720 --> 00:33:40,040
Speaker 2: next day I went and returned the sneakers and took

699
00:33:40,080 --> 00:33:42,680
Speaker 2: the money back. He got home in the evening and

700
00:33:42,840 --> 00:33:45,400
Speaker 2: lost it when he found out I returned them. Yeah,

701
00:33:45,440 --> 00:33:48,080
Speaker 2: this guy, this guy's no, no, He's.

702
00:33:47,880 --> 00:33:49,720
Speaker 1: Like, I was bad that you bought the but now

703
00:33:49,720 --> 00:33:52,040
Speaker 1: I feel attached to totally my style.

704
00:33:51,920 --> 00:33:55,640
Speaker 2: Literally completely to control her, and just like it's it's

705
00:33:55,640 --> 00:33:56,840
Speaker 2: not about the shoes.

706
00:33:56,600 --> 00:33:58,840
Speaker 3: No, not about the shoes, about the money, It's.

707
00:33:58,720 --> 00:34:00,640
Speaker 1: Not about that. It is all control.

708
00:34:01,240 --> 00:34:03,040
Speaker 3: He got home in the evening and lost it when

709
00:34:03,040 --> 00:34:04,160
Speaker 3: I found out I had to return them.

710
00:34:04,400 --> 00:34:07,200
Speaker 2: He said that he couldn't believe how petty and childish

711
00:34:07,280 --> 00:34:08,480
Speaker 2: I was to actually do this.

712
00:34:08,560 --> 00:34:10,160
Speaker 3: How petty and childish are you?

713
00:34:10,320 --> 00:34:14,040
Speaker 2: Mother effort, I explained that I was just correcting my

714
00:34:14,160 --> 00:34:17,359
Speaker 2: quote unquote mistake. He tried to contact the store and

715
00:34:17,480 --> 00:34:20,239
Speaker 2: was told that the sneakers were already sold. He got

716
00:34:20,280 --> 00:34:22,640
Speaker 2: even angrier with me, and I told him that he

717
00:34:22,719 --> 00:34:25,040
Speaker 2: accused me of stealing for him when I was just

718
00:34:25,120 --> 00:34:28,240
Speaker 2: trying to do a nice gesture for him. He yelled,

719
00:34:28,320 --> 00:34:30,440
Speaker 2: saying that I had a lot of nerds, a lot

720
00:34:30,480 --> 00:34:34,280
Speaker 2: of nerve, calling what I did a nice gesture while

721
00:34:34,360 --> 00:34:38,640
Speaker 2: using his money to do it. I I told him

722
00:34:38,680 --> 00:34:41,440
Speaker 2: he had no right to yell at me. After I

723
00:34:41,480 --> 00:34:44,400
Speaker 2: corrected my quote unquote mistake and gave that back the

724
00:34:44,440 --> 00:34:48,000
Speaker 2: money he accused me of stealing. He threw a fit

725
00:34:48,080 --> 00:34:50,399
Speaker 2: and went out with his friends and came home late

726
00:34:50,440 --> 00:34:53,360
Speaker 2: at night, still not talking to me. I have something

727
00:34:53,360 --> 00:34:56,040
Speaker 2: for the breakdown. Now, Did I mess up? Maybe I

728
00:34:56,080 --> 00:34:59,120
Speaker 2: shouldn't have purchased them, knowing that they weren't on the list,

729
00:34:59,320 --> 00:35:01,480
Speaker 2: But I just wanted I just wanted him to have

730
00:35:01,520 --> 00:35:04,400
Speaker 2: those sneakers, and I thought I was doing a nice gesture.

731
00:35:05,120 --> 00:35:08,239
Speaker 2: That is the end of the story. I think that

732
00:35:08,840 --> 00:35:12,200
Speaker 2: in addition to his controlling, manipulative, just like I don't

733
00:35:12,200 --> 00:35:15,120
Speaker 2: know psychopath, I don't know the exact term psychopathic, I

734
00:35:15,160 --> 00:35:15,799
Speaker 2: don't know something.

735
00:35:15,840 --> 00:35:17,200
Speaker 1: Give us some terms we can call this.

736
00:35:17,560 --> 00:35:25,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, gross behavior. Basically, I think he's cheating and yeah,

737
00:35:25,560 --> 00:35:28,080
Speaker 2: he's like, okay, wow, look a look at what you

738
00:35:28,120 --> 00:35:31,040
Speaker 2: made me do, buying me shoes and returning I'm like,

739
00:35:31,080 --> 00:35:32,680
Speaker 2: literally all doing good things.

740
00:35:32,920 --> 00:35:34,600
Speaker 3: And then he goes out using that exchit to go

741
00:35:34,600 --> 00:35:35,919
Speaker 3: out late and cheat. Yeah.

742
00:35:36,160 --> 00:35:39,440
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know, I don't know if I

743
00:35:39,440 --> 00:35:42,840
Speaker 1: can say he's cheating quite yet, Like we just John's

744
00:35:42,880 --> 00:35:45,600
Speaker 1: going and I did. Yeah, but I mean like he's

745
00:35:45,640 --> 00:35:48,640
Speaker 1: definitely sus I mean, just to just to go out

746
00:35:48,719 --> 00:35:52,839
Speaker 1: late and do god knows what, like not not there's

747
00:35:52,920 --> 00:35:56,080
Speaker 1: another red flag it's like there's a communication breakdown too.

748
00:35:56,160 --> 00:35:59,799
Speaker 1: It's control and there's a breakdown of communication. I don't

749
00:35:59,880 --> 00:36:04,080
Speaker 1: know if it's something that the thing is like in

750
00:36:04,239 --> 00:36:08,320
Speaker 1: the case of divorce, like it's definitely going to be

751
00:36:08,320 --> 00:36:10,319
Speaker 1: because he has so much control over it's gonna be

752
00:36:10,320 --> 00:36:12,680
Speaker 1: hard for her too. Yeah, but I feel like it's

753
00:36:12,719 --> 00:36:14,080
Speaker 1: the it is the best path.

754
00:36:14,239 --> 00:36:17,680
Speaker 2: It is overall, like long term, the best solution. It

755
00:36:17,760 --> 00:36:19,360
Speaker 2: might hurt a lot more now in the meantime.

756
00:36:19,760 --> 00:36:24,719
Speaker 1: Yeah, someone said leave as soon as possible. Yeah. Jessica says,

757
00:36:24,920 --> 00:36:28,279
Speaker 1: leave as fast as possible. Yeah, I mean you gotta leave,

758
00:36:28,320 --> 00:36:31,200
Speaker 1: you gotta leave. It's it, it's it's it's terrible.

759
00:36:31,239 --> 00:36:36,319
Speaker 2: Yeah. Emotional Yeah. Someone else said emotional and financial abuse. Yeah.

760
00:36:36,400 --> 00:36:39,239
Speaker 1: Then he says, wife breathes husband. How dare you?

761
00:36:39,280 --> 00:36:42,200
Speaker 2: That's what it feels That's what it feels like.

762
00:36:42,320 --> 00:36:43,640
Speaker 3: That is exactly what's happening.

763
00:36:43,719 --> 00:36:46,520
Speaker 2: She she's literally not only is she not doing anything wrong,

764
00:36:46,840 --> 00:36:49,160
Speaker 2: she's doing things that are good because like think.

765
00:36:49,080 --> 00:36:50,719
Speaker 3: Think about this, she's fixing problems.

766
00:36:50,840 --> 00:36:52,640
Speaker 2: She saw that his shoes were old, and it's like,

767
00:36:52,640 --> 00:36:54,920
Speaker 2: we're gonna have to buy shoes anyways. These are a

768
00:36:54,920 --> 00:36:57,920
Speaker 2: good deal, so we will save money me getting this

769
00:36:58,000 --> 00:36:58,680
Speaker 2: deal right.

770
00:36:58,719 --> 00:37:02,200
Speaker 1: And the thing is he obviously liked them because he

771
00:37:02,360 --> 00:37:05,920
Speaker 1: wanted them back. Not only did she get like shoes

772
00:37:05,960 --> 00:37:08,439
Speaker 1: that were on sale and a great deal, she got

773
00:37:08,480 --> 00:37:11,360
Speaker 1: some swinky hass shoes that he was so mad that

774
00:37:11,400 --> 00:37:14,320
Speaker 1: he couldn't get back that he yelled at everyone he could.

775
00:37:14,520 --> 00:37:15,400
Speaker 2: What what? What?

776
00:37:15,560 --> 00:37:15,759
Speaker 3: More?

777
00:37:16,160 --> 00:37:18,680
Speaker 1: Like she's super thoughtful. I mean, she just has to

778
00:37:18,680 --> 00:37:20,440
Speaker 1: get out of there. I wonder if there's like, are

779
00:37:20,440 --> 00:37:24,920
Speaker 1: there like resources for like stay at home parents that

780
00:37:25,480 --> 00:37:29,600
Speaker 1: like in divorce, because like to hire a lawyer, you

781
00:37:29,680 --> 00:37:33,040
Speaker 1: need money. But if someone is super controlling of the finances, Like,

782
00:37:33,280 --> 00:37:36,040
Speaker 1: how does that? I wonder how that even works if

783
00:37:36,080 --> 00:37:38,040
Speaker 1: anyone knows, But like put your answers in the comments,

784
00:37:38,080 --> 00:37:39,839
Speaker 1: because it's like, how does that? How does that work

785
00:37:39,840 --> 00:37:42,799
Speaker 1: when you don't when when the finances are being so

786
00:37:42,960 --> 00:37:45,920
Speaker 1: controlled that you couldn't even hire a lawyer to start

787
00:37:46,120 --> 00:37:46,800
Speaker 1: to get a divorce?

788
00:37:46,960 --> 00:37:47,200
Speaker 3: Yeah?

789
00:37:47,360 --> 00:37:50,359
Speaker 2: Maybe, I mean maybe there's a public defender. I don't

790
00:37:50,360 --> 00:37:53,040
Speaker 2: know if you can get a public defender in absolutely everything.

791
00:37:53,080 --> 00:37:54,320
Speaker 3: I'm really not sure.

792
00:37:54,160 --> 00:37:58,080
Speaker 1: But yeah, I have no Yeah, I mean I imagine shelters.

793
00:37:58,280 --> 00:37:59,880
Speaker 3: Shelters, it should be a place to go.

794
00:38:00,120 --> 00:38:02,560
Speaker 1: But how do you? Yeah, but how do you like?

795
00:38:02,800 --> 00:38:04,560
Speaker 1: How do you how do you get a lawyer? You

796
00:38:04,560 --> 00:38:05,160
Speaker 1: need a lawyer?

797
00:38:05,280 --> 00:38:07,520
Speaker 2: That's the question. Yeah, that is the question.

798
00:38:07,680 --> 00:38:10,839
Speaker 1: But you know what question I have for you, John?

799
00:38:10,960 --> 00:38:11,400
Speaker 3: What is that?

800
00:38:12,040 --> 00:38:13,880
Speaker 1: Are you ready to put this next story?

801
00:38:14,120 --> 00:38:14,319
Speaker 2: No?

802
00:38:14,560 --> 00:38:19,400
Speaker 1: But do it anyway, I captain. So this is today.

803
00:38:19,440 --> 00:38:22,080
Speaker 1: I aft up by accusing my husband of cheating when

804
00:38:22,160 --> 00:38:26,160
Speaker 1: I thought I had a really good reason to be suspicious.

805
00:38:27,239 --> 00:38:27,960
Speaker 3: What is the reason.

806
00:38:28,320 --> 00:38:31,120
Speaker 1: I'm very curious about the reason. What what is a

807
00:38:31,160 --> 00:38:32,800
Speaker 1: good reason leaving? Uh?

808
00:38:33,160 --> 00:38:33,560
Speaker 2: Seeing them?

809
00:38:34,560 --> 00:38:36,440
Speaker 1: Oh, yeah, that's a pretty good reason, babe.

810
00:38:36,560 --> 00:38:39,400
Speaker 2: I was just she she had some you know, suspicious

811
00:38:39,400 --> 00:38:42,320
Speaker 2: stuff going on. I was doing a thorough inspec building

812
00:38:42,360 --> 00:38:46,360
Speaker 2: a fort. He's a doctor, and he's like, the only

813
00:38:46,440 --> 00:38:47,960
Speaker 2: way I can do this inspection, that.

814
00:38:48,320 --> 00:38:50,600
Speaker 1: Is at home inspection. He was a doctor.

815
00:38:50,640 --> 00:38:53,600
Speaker 2: He was a doctor, the doctor with a migraine. I

816
00:38:53,600 --> 00:38:55,960
Speaker 2: had to turn off all the lights and then I

817
00:38:56,040 --> 00:38:58,000
Speaker 2: was on. I didn't want her to be the only

818
00:38:58,000 --> 00:38:59,359
Speaker 2: one naked, so I had to get naked too.

819
00:38:59,440 --> 00:39:00,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, for for comfort.

820
00:39:00,760 --> 00:39:01,240
Speaker 2: For comfort.

821
00:39:02,719 --> 00:39:07,320
Speaker 1: I also put in the chat some of the best

822
00:39:07,400 --> 00:39:11,080
Speaker 1: reasons to be suspicious of a partner cheating. But my

823
00:39:11,160 --> 00:39:13,239
Speaker 1: hubby's been working late on and off for the past

824
00:39:13,280 --> 00:39:16,040
Speaker 1: few weeks, which is very new because in our nearly

825
00:39:16,200 --> 00:39:19,279
Speaker 1: twelve years together, that's a long time. The one thing

826
00:39:19,360 --> 00:39:22,799
Speaker 1: he's always been adamant about is separating his work and

827
00:39:22,880 --> 00:39:27,000
Speaker 1: his home life. Sometimes he'd stay only an hour, sometimes two,

828
00:39:27,360 --> 00:39:30,879
Speaker 1: sometimes thirty minutes. I began to grow a bit suspicious,

829
00:39:31,200 --> 00:39:34,920
Speaker 1: but I haven't said anything, so I guess it's like

830
00:39:36,320 --> 00:39:39,760
Speaker 1: he's staying over like an hour, two hours, sometimes thirty minutes.

831
00:39:39,880 --> 00:39:42,520
Speaker 1: He's like he's working late. I began to grow suspicious.

832
00:39:42,560 --> 00:39:45,799
Speaker 1: Then yesterday he stayed afterwards for about an hour, which

833
00:39:45,880 --> 00:39:49,320
Speaker 1: delayed date night that we had planned. When he came home,

834
00:39:49,640 --> 00:39:52,920
Speaker 1: I was just looking at him, admiring my man, and

835
00:39:52,960 --> 00:39:57,160
Speaker 1: then I caught a glimpse of orange in his beard.

836
00:39:59,400 --> 00:40:02,719
Speaker 1: For contact X, my hubby is not ginger, neither am I.

837
00:40:02,760 --> 00:40:05,280
Speaker 1: In fact, he is black, and his hair is black.

838
00:40:05,680 --> 00:40:08,280
Speaker 1: I looked a bit closer and there was an orange

839
00:40:08,400 --> 00:40:11,920
Speaker 1: hair in his beard. It caught the light perfectly, and

840
00:40:11,960 --> 00:40:16,800
Speaker 1: it was the confirmation of my worst fears. He's eating

841
00:40:16,800 --> 00:40:18,200
Speaker 1: out a ginger oof.

842
00:40:19,320 --> 00:40:20,719
Speaker 3: That's not if.

843
00:40:20,760 --> 00:40:27,280
Speaker 1: He did not say that, but I just said ifing

844
00:40:27,360 --> 00:40:29,799
Speaker 1: knew it, and started crying, would you be suspicious if

845
00:40:29,840 --> 00:40:35,839
Speaker 1: you saw another person's hair in someone's beard, Like if

846
00:40:35,880 --> 00:40:40,279
Speaker 1: someone's if Naima saw a long red strand of hair

847
00:40:40,360 --> 00:40:42,279
Speaker 1: in your beard, would she be mad?

848
00:40:43,080 --> 00:40:45,680
Speaker 2: I guess, I guess because you could, Like what are

849
00:40:45,680 --> 00:40:46,960
Speaker 2: the scenarios where it's innocent?

850
00:40:47,280 --> 00:40:48,120
Speaker 1: Work colleague?

851
00:40:48,120 --> 00:40:50,359
Speaker 3: You know, working? Like like, hey, all right, hey have

852
00:40:50,360 --> 00:40:50,839
Speaker 3: a good one.

853
00:40:51,040 --> 00:40:53,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, John has gets stuff in his beard all the

854
00:40:53,880 --> 00:40:54,600
Speaker 1: time too.

855
00:40:54,840 --> 00:41:01,160
Speaker 2: Damn really wait, nice, have you ever seen stuff in

856
00:41:01,200 --> 00:41:01,640
Speaker 2: my beard?

857
00:41:01,640 --> 00:41:05,359
Speaker 1: And just eating eating, I'll be like, yeah, you got

858
00:41:05,360 --> 00:41:07,360
Speaker 1: a little bit of schmutz all my beard. Boys like

859
00:41:07,400 --> 00:41:08,520
Speaker 1: they get schmutz in their beard?

860
00:41:09,360 --> 00:41:11,720
Speaker 2: What is it? Venni? Vennie says, beard is a red flag?

861
00:41:11,760 --> 00:41:15,719
Speaker 2: Sergeant guys, why what? What's that?

862
00:41:16,480 --> 00:41:19,680
Speaker 1: Just no question? Just know that it is. Oh my god.

863
00:41:19,880 --> 00:41:21,960
Speaker 1: He asked me what was wrong? And I called him

864
00:41:22,000 --> 00:41:24,600
Speaker 1: a lying cheater and he said what the F? And

865
00:41:24,719 --> 00:41:28,880
Speaker 1: I said, who's that ginger hair from? He looked confused,

866
00:41:28,880 --> 00:41:31,359
Speaker 1: and he said he knows there's a ginger hair in

867
00:41:31,400 --> 00:41:35,600
Speaker 1: his beard, and what's so bad about that? I was flabbergasted.

868
00:41:36,200 --> 00:41:39,440
Speaker 1: And then he was like, you haven't noticed this time

869
00:41:39,800 --> 00:41:45,719
Speaker 1: that I have dark orange hairs. What turns out that

870
00:41:45,760 --> 00:41:48,360
Speaker 1: his whole life. He's always had a few random orange

871
00:41:48,680 --> 00:41:51,840
Speaker 1: hairs in his beard, and that he never thought anything

872
00:41:51,880 --> 00:41:56,920
Speaker 1: about it, and I have never noticed. Nice con bro,

873
00:41:57,040 --> 00:41:59,240
Speaker 1: Now you have to dye those hairs so the rest

874
00:41:59,280 --> 00:42:00,000
Speaker 1: of your marriage.

875
00:42:00,360 --> 00:42:01,280
Speaker 2: Oh my god.

876
00:42:01,920 --> 00:42:04,359
Speaker 1: He told me to grab the hair and pull on it,

877
00:42:04,600 --> 00:42:07,520
Speaker 1: and I grab some tweezers and sure enough it was

878
00:42:07,640 --> 00:42:10,000
Speaker 1: his hair, and he even look like the rest of

879
00:42:10,040 --> 00:42:13,360
Speaker 1: his hair, coarse and curly. Man, the girl was really

880
00:42:13,719 --> 00:42:16,799
Speaker 1: he was stretching. Yeah, the last girl out here. He

881
00:42:16,880 --> 00:42:19,040
Speaker 1: showed me some of the other ginger hairs that he had.

882
00:42:19,080 --> 00:42:21,920
Speaker 1: Apparently when he shaves it off and or pulls out,

883
00:42:22,040 --> 00:42:25,280
Speaker 1: it grows back ginger. I felt like the biggest idiot

884
00:42:25,320 --> 00:42:27,719
Speaker 1: in the world. My hobby took it wonderfully, and I

885
00:42:27,760 --> 00:42:30,279
Speaker 1: apologize for being so insecure and told him that I

886
00:42:30,360 --> 00:42:33,040
Speaker 1: was feeling about, you know, she was feeling about like

887
00:42:33,120 --> 00:42:35,840
Speaker 1: him working late. He said that he knows that he

888
00:42:35,960 --> 00:42:38,640
Speaker 1: that this is a problem and he's sorry, but he's

889
00:42:38,680 --> 00:42:41,680
Speaker 1: had a couple of mortgage and investment deals lately, and

890
00:42:41,719 --> 00:42:44,480
Speaker 1: he stays behind to finish the paperwork instead of punting

891
00:42:44,480 --> 00:42:47,799
Speaker 1: it to the next workday. I love how he's apologizing

892
00:42:47,960 --> 00:42:49,800
Speaker 1: for kind of having orange.

893
00:42:49,400 --> 00:42:53,680
Speaker 2: Beard hair and and for trying to be as productive

894
00:42:53,800 --> 00:42:55,520
Speaker 2: and like he's like, you know what, I need to

895
00:42:55,520 --> 00:42:57,360
Speaker 2: get ahead of it, let me finish it today.

896
00:42:57,360 --> 00:42:58,320
Speaker 3: So that was proactive.

897
00:42:58,440 --> 00:43:02,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, this company has an app to tract time, which

898
00:43:02,239 --> 00:43:05,359
Speaker 1: worked his which his boss signs off and on of.

899
00:43:05,719 --> 00:43:07,719
Speaker 1: And he logged into his app and showed me all

900
00:43:07,760 --> 00:43:11,480
Speaker 1: the authorized overtime, which perfectly lined up with the times

901
00:43:11,480 --> 00:43:14,240
Speaker 1: he had been working late. I apologize for being insecure,

902
00:43:14,280 --> 00:43:16,400
Speaker 1: and he accepted my apology and we move and we

903
00:43:16,440 --> 00:43:19,560
Speaker 1: moved on from it. But I still cringe when thinking

904
00:43:19,560 --> 00:43:21,759
Speaker 1: about it. I suck I out. Don't kill me, y'all.

905
00:43:21,880 --> 00:43:25,040
Speaker 1: Ha ha ha ha. Question is this a red flag

906
00:43:25,080 --> 00:43:27,920
Speaker 1: for O P? I want to know what your thoughts

907
00:43:27,960 --> 00:43:30,160
Speaker 1: are in the chat? But John, do you think this

908
00:43:30,200 --> 00:43:30,880
Speaker 1: is a red flag?

909
00:43:31,200 --> 00:43:35,319
Speaker 2: I'm gonna boo. I'm gonna say red flag because the

910
00:43:36,320 --> 00:43:40,160
Speaker 2: I mean, I guess I could see the suspicion. I mean,

911
00:43:40,239 --> 00:43:44,960
Speaker 2: it's it's almost like where your mind first jumps to.

912
00:43:45,640 --> 00:43:49,399
Speaker 2: I guess like I'm just generally not observed it like that,

913
00:43:49,680 --> 00:43:51,360
Speaker 2: but like I feel like if I saw that, it

914
00:43:51,360 --> 00:43:55,960
Speaker 2: wouldn't even the synapses wouldn't synapse enough to be able

915
00:43:56,000 --> 00:43:58,400
Speaker 2: to make the cheating is so far from your mind,

916
00:43:58,560 --> 00:44:01,279
Speaker 2: so far from my mind. But I guess apparently I

917
00:44:01,360 --> 00:44:03,520
Speaker 2: have stuff in my beard all the time. You do,

918
00:44:04,000 --> 00:44:05,319
Speaker 2: and it's so suspicious.

919
00:44:05,360 --> 00:44:07,560
Speaker 1: So it is, bro you know a lot of Riley

920
00:44:07,600 --> 00:44:09,560
Speaker 1: curls in your hair every once in a while. You

921
00:44:09,680 --> 00:44:14,120
Speaker 1: never know, dude, you never know. Yeah, right, he bring

922
00:44:14,120 --> 00:44:17,960
Speaker 1: me Riley is shedding all over the place. But John,

923
00:44:18,160 --> 00:44:21,239
Speaker 1: I feel like it may be time to pull up

924
00:44:21,280 --> 00:44:22,680
Speaker 1: that next story really quick.

925
00:44:22,719 --> 00:44:27,919
Speaker 2: I gotta say, Kimberly and Brazil ginger flag orange, that's

926
00:44:28,160 --> 00:44:29,120
Speaker 2: orange flag.

927
00:44:29,520 --> 00:44:33,399
Speaker 1: But while John is pulling up this new story, I'll

928
00:44:33,440 --> 00:44:36,040
Speaker 1: read some comments from the chat. So Amy Gooseman says,

929
00:44:36,280 --> 00:44:39,279
Speaker 1: my dad's hair was different textures and colors like a

930
00:44:39,360 --> 00:44:43,239
Speaker 1: calico cat. So he kept his head and beard cut

931
00:44:43,360 --> 00:44:47,399
Speaker 1: until he retired. It happens, and why and why did

932
00:44:47,560 --> 00:44:50,319
Speaker 1: the wife not notice before? I am proud to say

933
00:44:50,360 --> 00:44:52,920
Speaker 1: I know at least ninety percent of my hubby's body,

934
00:44:53,160 --> 00:44:56,960
Speaker 1: only ninety percent. You got to explore that one hundred percent.

935
00:44:57,040 --> 00:44:58,280
Speaker 1: Go inside it out, girl.

936
00:44:58,400 --> 00:44:59,800
Speaker 3: We got to make that the deep ocean.

937
00:45:00,080 --> 00:45:02,520
Speaker 1: Yeah at all? Yeah, dud would be like James Cameron

938
00:45:02,600 --> 00:45:04,200
Speaker 1: spulunk to the bottom of the depths.

939
00:45:04,239 --> 00:45:04,719
Speaker 2: That's right.

940
00:45:04,800 --> 00:45:06,839
Speaker 1: Don't be like Ocean Gate though, because you don't want

941
00:45:06,880 --> 00:45:08,040
Speaker 1: to explode in the wrong place.

942
00:45:08,040 --> 00:45:11,719
Speaker 2: Billionaire, so goodness, graciou. Yeah, that's no good. What are

943
00:45:11,760 --> 00:45:13,200
Speaker 2: the comments we got? What do we got going on?

944
00:45:13,239 --> 00:45:13,439
Speaker 3: Yeah?

945
00:45:13,560 --> 00:45:16,320
Speaker 1: Ted ed and lime juice. How would she not notice

946
00:45:16,360 --> 00:45:19,640
Speaker 1: the hairs though, because depending on how long they've been together,

947
00:45:20,000 --> 00:45:21,960
Speaker 1: I feel like you would notice something like that.

948
00:45:22,080 --> 00:45:25,359
Speaker 2: I yeah, I feel like I feel twelve years, twelve years,

949
00:45:25,400 --> 00:45:26,640
Speaker 2: I that's a while.

950
00:45:26,960 --> 00:45:29,640
Speaker 1: I definitely feel like that's a while. But like I

951
00:45:29,680 --> 00:45:32,919
Speaker 1: don't know, some people aren't as perceptive, and especially maybe

952
00:45:32,920 --> 00:45:35,600
Speaker 1: if he's growing out the beard and doesn't know.

953
00:45:35,920 --> 00:45:39,279
Speaker 3: In twelve years, you probably have done enough if you have.

954
00:45:39,680 --> 00:45:41,640
Speaker 1: I've been able to grow a beard for at least

955
00:45:42,120 --> 00:45:46,239
Speaker 1: eight years, and I've never seen it at full length because.

956
00:45:45,920 --> 00:45:49,839
Speaker 2: You've never got Guys, put a beard man emoji if

957
00:45:49,880 --> 00:45:52,840
Speaker 2: so grow a beard, do not drop beard man emojis.

958
00:45:53,000 --> 00:45:55,719
Speaker 1: Do not drop the do not please do not make

959
00:45:55,760 --> 00:45:56,480
Speaker 1: me grow a beard.

960
00:45:56,560 --> 00:45:57,720
Speaker 3: Drop the beard man emojis.

961
00:45:57,719 --> 00:46:00,000
Speaker 2: Guys, if we get a thousand beard man emoji, Sam

962
00:46:00,080 --> 00:46:02,200
Speaker 2: will legally be forced to have.

963
00:46:02,080 --> 00:46:04,080
Speaker 3: To wear or have to grow a beard.

964
00:46:04,719 --> 00:46:07,080
Speaker 2: By the way, also can we get a quick round

965
00:46:07,080 --> 00:46:08,719
Speaker 2: of applause for producer Riley.

966
00:46:10,000 --> 00:46:13,640
Speaker 1: That, Yeah, this is our first long live stream. We're

967
00:46:13,640 --> 00:46:15,720
Speaker 1: gonna be We're gonna be live streaming for a while,

968
00:46:15,840 --> 00:46:19,040
Speaker 1: so please stick with us. We are not done yet

969
00:46:19,080 --> 00:46:23,239
Speaker 1: because John, you have a big, juicy, thick story for us.

970
00:46:23,320 --> 00:46:27,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, that is right, And that story is my ex

971
00:46:27,200 --> 00:46:31,239
Speaker 2: girlfriend told me my current girlfriend sabotaged our relationship. Am

972
00:46:31,239 --> 00:46:33,280
Speaker 2: I the a hole for getting back with my ex?

973
00:46:33,360 --> 00:46:36,640
Speaker 2: This is Okayop, we read the craziest two stories on Earth.

974
00:46:36,840 --> 00:46:41,080
Speaker 2: I'm John and Sam. Should Op get back with his X?

975
00:46:41,760 --> 00:46:41,920
Speaker 4: Uh?

976
00:46:43,680 --> 00:46:46,120
Speaker 3: Because the ex girlfriend is sabotage relationship?

977
00:46:46,960 --> 00:46:47,160
Speaker 2: Right?

978
00:46:47,360 --> 00:46:52,799
Speaker 1: The ex girl friend sabotage the ex girlfriend relationship.

979
00:46:52,920 --> 00:46:57,080
Speaker 2: That's what the eventually, that's what the ex is. Please,

980
00:46:57,520 --> 00:46:58,399
Speaker 2: I might hear her out.

981
00:46:58,560 --> 00:47:01,080
Speaker 1: I might hear her out because that at least you know,

982
00:47:01,120 --> 00:47:03,400
Speaker 1: it's a red flag for current girlfriend if it's true. Exactly,

983
00:47:03,440 --> 00:47:05,400
Speaker 1: not necessarily you should get back with the X.

984
00:47:05,480 --> 00:47:08,480
Speaker 2: But maybe if it's true, on the off chance that's true,

985
00:47:08,520 --> 00:47:09,680
Speaker 2: sit down and hear Yeah.

986
00:47:09,560 --> 00:47:12,400
Speaker 1: What we all recently watched The Notebook together. There was

987
00:47:12,440 --> 00:47:16,120
Speaker 1: not a dry eye in our in our house. But

988
00:47:17,040 --> 00:47:19,040
Speaker 1: she went back with Ryan Gosling at the end because

989
00:47:19,040 --> 00:47:21,880
Speaker 1: it's her first and truest love. So maybe this is

990
00:47:21,880 --> 00:47:22,720
Speaker 1: what is happening.

991
00:47:22,880 --> 00:47:24,719
Speaker 2: Wow, that's so true. And then, of course what else

992
00:47:24,760 --> 00:47:27,000
Speaker 2: is true is that everyone has commented beard emoji su

993
00:47:27,080 --> 00:47:27,520
Speaker 2: I'm not.

994
00:47:27,719 --> 00:47:32,960
Speaker 1: Know Sam is legally I will look so terrible.

995
00:47:33,280 --> 00:47:35,680
Speaker 3: Thank you, ladies and gentlemen, and as your reward, let's

996
00:47:35,680 --> 00:47:37,520
Speaker 3: get into this juicy story.

997
00:47:38,000 --> 00:47:40,560
Speaker 2: So this one comes from fur away ex girlfriend two

998
00:47:40,760 --> 00:47:44,200
Speaker 2: five three two four, who says, I, twenty eight male,

999
00:47:44,239 --> 00:47:46,920
Speaker 2: am really confused about the events of the last month.

1000
00:47:47,400 --> 00:47:50,480
Speaker 2: My ex girlfriend Julie twenty nine female thinks that my

1001
00:47:50,719 --> 00:47:56,000
Speaker 2: current girlfriend, Mindy twenty eight female is manipulative and sabotaged

1002
00:47:56,080 --> 00:47:58,760
Speaker 2: our four year relationship.

1003
00:47:59,760 --> 00:48:01,960
Speaker 3: I was Wow, that's.

1004
00:48:01,760 --> 00:48:03,720
Speaker 1: A big that's a big statement.

1005
00:48:07,160 --> 00:48:11,480
Speaker 2: I was was in a loving relationship with my ex

1006
00:48:11,520 --> 00:48:14,759
Speaker 2: girlfriend Julie for the last four years. We met through

1007
00:48:14,760 --> 00:48:18,520
Speaker 2: some mutual friends. My ex Julie and I were very

1008
00:48:18,520 --> 00:48:21,920
Speaker 2: compatible in terms of our love for outdoor activities and running.

1009
00:48:22,200 --> 00:48:25,080
Speaker 2: We have a very similar lifestyle and supported each other

1010
00:48:25,200 --> 00:48:28,520
Speaker 2: well for the last four years. We also have been

1011
00:48:28,560 --> 00:48:31,640
Speaker 2: living together for the last three of those four years.

1012
00:48:32,000 --> 00:48:35,439
Speaker 2: We even discussed getting married during the summer Everything was great,

1013
00:48:35,440 --> 00:48:38,359
Speaker 2: and I was planning to propose to her over the holidays.

1014
00:48:38,280 --> 00:48:42,279
Speaker 1: Planning to propose to the current girlfriend to Julie the

1015
00:48:42,400 --> 00:48:47,600
Speaker 1: ex Oh go great, right, Oh no, it's gonna go great, great.

1016
00:48:47,560 --> 00:48:47,880
Speaker 2: Right right?

1017
00:48:48,120 --> 00:48:50,560
Speaker 1: Rather, but I see chat. If you know where it's going,

1018
00:48:50,640 --> 00:48:51,479
Speaker 1: it's gonna go great.

1019
00:48:51,840 --> 00:48:57,920
Speaker 2: Uh. However, However, I started to see changes in behavior

1020
00:48:57,960 --> 00:49:01,960
Speaker 2: and Julie around September. She was acting quite distant and

1021
00:49:02,000 --> 00:49:04,760
Speaker 2: looked stressed. It was quite noticeable, and I was worried.

1022
00:49:05,000 --> 00:49:07,160
Speaker 2: I trust her with all of my heart, and I

1023
00:49:07,200 --> 00:49:10,839
Speaker 2: was not worried or sorry. I trust her with all

1024
00:49:10,880 --> 00:49:13,040
Speaker 2: of my heart and I could not imagine that she

1025
00:49:13,080 --> 00:49:16,520
Speaker 2: would be cheating on me. However, she did spend more

1026
00:49:16,560 --> 00:49:17,840
Speaker 2: time by herself.

1027
00:49:18,520 --> 00:49:18,840
Speaker 1: Okay.

1028
00:49:19,680 --> 00:49:24,240
Speaker 2: Around that same time, my ex Julie's friend Mindy messaged

1029
00:49:24,239 --> 00:49:26,719
Speaker 2: me privately and asked me if I could meet her

1030
00:49:26,760 --> 00:49:32,080
Speaker 2: secretly as she wanted to tell me something about Julie. Okay,

1031
00:49:33,000 --> 00:49:35,560
Speaker 2: Mindy and my ex Julie worked together, and I have

1032
00:49:35,680 --> 00:49:38,360
Speaker 2: known Mindy ever since I started dating Julie.

1033
00:49:38,520 --> 00:49:41,640
Speaker 3: I was surprised, but to be honest, I had assumed

1034
00:49:41,640 --> 00:49:42,080
Speaker 3: the worst.

1035
00:49:42,880 --> 00:49:44,960
Speaker 2: I met her at a cafe after work and she

1036
00:49:45,080 --> 00:49:47,719
Speaker 2: asked me if things were going okay between Julie and me.

1037
00:49:48,320 --> 00:49:51,879
Speaker 2: She told me that Julia had told her she was

1038
00:49:51,920 --> 00:49:53,359
Speaker 2: planning to leave me.

1039
00:49:53,440 --> 00:50:00,160
Speaker 1: So, oh, oh man, that that is ice cold. Like

1040
00:50:00,320 --> 00:50:02,120
Speaker 1: we almost need like an ice pack on one of

1041
00:50:02,160 --> 00:50:04,960
Speaker 1: these cameras to to really cool this thing down.

1042
00:50:05,000 --> 00:50:07,880
Speaker 2: Almost, it's almost it's getting it's hot, it's on fire.

1043
00:50:08,040 --> 00:50:10,000
Speaker 2: I don't know if we can bring it back down.

1044
00:50:10,280 --> 00:50:12,600
Speaker 2: We really don't know. I have a question for everyone

1045
00:50:12,600 --> 00:50:14,960
Speaker 2: in the comments right now. I mean, so she is

1046
00:50:15,560 --> 00:50:17,920
Speaker 2: going it's not even cheating. She's like, oh, she's planning

1047
00:50:17,920 --> 00:50:18,600
Speaker 2: to leave you soon.

1048
00:50:18,719 --> 00:50:21,080
Speaker 1: But that's like why would the friend do that?

1049
00:50:21,040 --> 00:50:24,560
Speaker 2: That's the thing I would I would think if it

1050
00:50:24,640 --> 00:50:26,880
Speaker 2: was like, hey, she's cheating on you, that's more of

1051
00:50:26,920 --> 00:50:29,279
Speaker 2: a reason to like actually sit sit down and get

1052
00:50:29,320 --> 00:50:29,720
Speaker 2: the one.

1053
00:50:30,239 --> 00:50:32,520
Speaker 1: But to say, like she's planning on why would And.

1054
00:50:32,480 --> 00:50:35,080
Speaker 3: Also why would you take that upon yourself?

1055
00:50:35,239 --> 00:50:37,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, is that really your place?

1056
00:50:37,400 --> 00:50:39,960
Speaker 1: That's a I would that's a red flag. Like anyone

1057
00:50:40,040 --> 00:50:41,880
Speaker 1: who told me that, I would be like, that's a

1058
00:50:41,880 --> 00:50:42,640
Speaker 1: red flag from you.

1059
00:50:43,440 --> 00:50:44,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know if I would think it's a

1060
00:50:44,600 --> 00:50:45,359
Speaker 3: red flag, but it's.

1061
00:50:45,280 --> 00:50:47,360
Speaker 1: Like I would, I would think it's a red flag

1062
00:50:47,400 --> 00:50:50,200
Speaker 1: from from the person telling me that information. Who are

1063
00:50:50,239 --> 00:50:53,279
Speaker 1: you to tell that to me? And that should be

1064
00:50:53,280 --> 00:50:57,360
Speaker 1: coming from my from my partner, if she's really planning

1065
00:50:57,360 --> 00:50:59,400
Speaker 1: on it should be it should be I don't know,

1066
00:50:59,480 --> 00:51:02,800
Speaker 1: let's see, but is it it is meddling? Yeah, thenny

1067
00:51:02,960 --> 00:51:04,600
Speaker 1: I agree with you.

1068
00:51:04,680 --> 00:51:07,320
Speaker 3: So after Oh he got this news, this.

1069
00:51:07,360 --> 00:51:09,879
Speaker 2: Was a total shock to me, I asked her if

1070
00:51:09,880 --> 00:51:12,080
Speaker 2: there was anyone else. I asked her if there was

1071
00:51:12,200 --> 00:51:16,240
Speaker 2: anyone else do? I asked her if there was anyone

1072
00:51:16,280 --> 00:51:17,920
Speaker 2: else that Julie was interested in?

1073
00:51:18,040 --> 00:51:20,520
Speaker 3: And she told me no. Julie confided in her.

1074
00:51:20,480 --> 00:51:24,600
Speaker 2: That she was not sure about marrying me. She told

1075
00:51:24,640 --> 00:51:27,040
Speaker 2: me that she just had to tell me this as

1076
00:51:27,040 --> 00:51:31,240
Speaker 2: she didn't want me to be blindsided again in the comments,

1077
00:51:31,520 --> 00:51:32,720
Speaker 2: is this Mindy's place?

1078
00:51:33,360 --> 00:51:34,200
Speaker 3: Is this Mindy's Place?

1079
00:51:34,280 --> 00:51:34,400
Speaker 2: Yes?

1080
00:51:34,520 --> 00:51:34,640
Speaker 6: Or no?

1081
00:51:35,800 --> 00:51:39,359
Speaker 1: Is it think? I think no? I think. I think

1082
00:51:39,400 --> 00:51:44,399
Speaker 1: it's definitely meddling. And I I just I don't think

1083
00:51:44,440 --> 00:51:46,720
Speaker 1: that's at all. And what happened.

1084
00:51:46,760 --> 00:51:52,839
Speaker 2: What's not meddling is the special guests that is here too, Sophia.

1085
00:51:54,040 --> 00:51:54,839
Speaker 2: Guys say hi to.

1086
00:51:54,800 --> 00:51:56,759
Speaker 1: Sophia, come over here, come over here.

1087
00:51:56,920 --> 00:51:58,240
Speaker 2: Well she's she is.

1088
00:51:58,600 --> 00:51:59,120
Speaker 1: Hi, Fea.

1089
00:52:00,080 --> 00:52:01,280
Speaker 4: I'm just delivering food.

1090
00:52:01,760 --> 00:52:03,560
Speaker 1: Thank you, and maybe that probably is going to come

1091
00:52:03,560 --> 00:52:08,040
Speaker 1: into live stream later today. Get ready, get ready. But

1092
00:52:08,160 --> 00:52:09,600
Speaker 1: let's go back into this story.

1093
00:52:10,600 --> 00:52:14,279
Speaker 2: I was devastated. I started putting more effort into making

1094
00:52:14,280 --> 00:52:17,800
Speaker 2: a relationship more exciting, planning more dates, et cetera, et cetera.

1095
00:52:18,320 --> 00:52:22,000
Speaker 2: Mindy was also helping me through this time and telling

1096
00:52:22,040 --> 00:52:24,719
Speaker 2: me more about what Julie told her.

1097
00:52:25,640 --> 00:52:29,480
Speaker 1: Oh, dude, Mindy wants some Mindy wants a piece. Yeah,

1098
00:52:29,640 --> 00:52:32,360
Speaker 1: Mindy put in the chat. Mindy wants a piece. If

1099
00:52:32,360 --> 00:52:33,239
Speaker 1: you think Mindy wants a.

1100
00:52:33,239 --> 00:52:38,080
Speaker 2: Piece, Mindy wants a piece. Eventually, before Thanksgiving, Julie told

1101
00:52:38,080 --> 00:52:40,160
Speaker 2: me that she loved me.

1102
00:52:40,360 --> 00:52:46,880
Speaker 3: Oh, Julie wants a piece. No, that's Julie so excited.

1103
00:52:46,960 --> 00:52:51,920
Speaker 2: Oh, partner, But she wanted to take a break for

1104
00:52:52,080 --> 00:52:57,840
Speaker 2: a month to live alone. So she did technically want to,

1105
00:52:57,960 --> 00:53:00,680
Speaker 2: you know, quote unquotely leave she could.

1106
00:53:01,080 --> 00:53:03,360
Speaker 3: This makes it a lot more plausible that Mindy was.

1107
00:53:04,960 --> 00:53:08,080
Speaker 1: I can we take a like a hot sec right

1108
00:53:08,120 --> 00:53:11,120
Speaker 1: here and talk about like marriage and breaks and stuff.

1109
00:53:11,600 --> 00:53:14,839
Speaker 1: I don't know if I actually necessarily see wanting to

1110
00:53:14,880 --> 00:53:18,360
Speaker 1: take a break for a little bit before getting marriage

1111
00:53:18,760 --> 00:53:22,640
Speaker 1: as necessarily a huge red flag and a relationship ender,

1112
00:53:23,160 --> 00:53:24,920
Speaker 1: especially if you're not like cooking up with people. I

1113
00:53:24,920 --> 00:53:27,000
Speaker 1: could see like just a time of I don't know,

1114
00:53:27,080 --> 00:53:29,880
Speaker 1: meditation to think about am I am I truly ready

1115
00:53:29,880 --> 00:53:32,880
Speaker 1: to commit the rest of my life to this person

1116
00:53:32,920 --> 00:53:36,759
Speaker 1: and like really take it seriously. And like I one

1117
00:53:36,760 --> 00:53:39,840
Speaker 1: of my I have a friend that took a break.

1118
00:53:39,840 --> 00:53:42,439
Speaker 1: He was dating this his current girlfriend for a couple

1119
00:53:42,440 --> 00:53:46,920
Speaker 1: of years and before they like they really were like

1120
00:53:47,000 --> 00:53:49,239
Speaker 1: getting serious and basically planning their life together. It's like, hey,

1121
00:53:49,280 --> 00:53:50,839
Speaker 1: like I need to take a break to like make

1122
00:53:50,880 --> 00:53:52,719
Speaker 1: sure that this is the right thing, and then I'm

1123
00:53:52,760 --> 00:53:55,839
Speaker 1: ready to commit. And he did, and now they're very

1124
00:53:55,880 --> 00:53:59,680
Speaker 1: happily in a relationship and like planning kids and planning

1125
00:53:59,719 --> 00:54:03,560
Speaker 1: marriage and say, like I do, I do see that

1126
00:54:04,000 --> 00:54:08,000
Speaker 1: as potentially helpful to a very very long term marriage.

1127
00:54:08,080 --> 00:54:09,920
Speaker 1: But I could also see sometimes as a red flag.

1128
00:54:09,920 --> 00:54:11,400
Speaker 1: I would love to know what you guys think.

1129
00:54:12,719 --> 00:54:14,160
Speaker 2: In the chap, but I don't know what you think, John,

1130
00:54:14,239 --> 00:54:16,680
Speaker 2: I've seen I have a story of the exact opposite,

1131
00:54:16,719 --> 00:54:19,280
Speaker 2: which was a little bit more extreme, and this man

1132
00:54:19,960 --> 00:54:23,120
Speaker 2: he was a wild boy, but he planned to get

1133
00:54:23,200 --> 00:54:25,839
Speaker 2: married to this person and basically they had a year

1134
00:54:26,480 --> 00:54:29,960
Speaker 2: of just going bananas and then you just supposed to

1135
00:54:30,000 --> 00:54:32,000
Speaker 2: come together at the end of the year, like.

1136
00:54:32,080 --> 00:54:34,120
Speaker 1: Just like hooking up with a bunch of random people.

1137
00:54:34,200 --> 00:54:37,000
Speaker 3: I think, just kind of like can do you can

1138
00:54:37,000 --> 00:54:39,279
Speaker 3: do what you want? Right?

1139
00:54:39,719 --> 00:54:42,960
Speaker 1: Was the garden and it imploded the relationship?

1140
00:54:43,200 --> 00:54:45,919
Speaker 3: Yes, yes, yeah, definitely, dude.

1141
00:54:46,360 --> 00:54:48,239
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'd imagine it doesn't always work.

1142
00:54:48,440 --> 00:54:49,560
Speaker 3: Yes, it doesn't always work.

1143
00:54:49,640 --> 00:54:51,840
Speaker 1: But did it work in this scenario We're.

1144
00:54:51,680 --> 00:54:56,640
Speaker 2: About to find out. So she said that she wanted

1145
00:54:56,640 --> 00:54:58,360
Speaker 2: to live alone for a month to make sure that

1146
00:54:58,440 --> 00:54:59,239
Speaker 2: she wanted to marry me.

1147
00:55:00,080 --> 00:55:01,560
Speaker 1: I was completely heartbroken.

1148
00:55:01,800 --> 00:55:04,000
Speaker 3: I asked her if she wanted to pursue someone else.

1149
00:55:04,520 --> 00:55:07,719
Speaker 2: She told me that that was not the case. Okay, okay,

1150
00:55:07,880 --> 00:55:12,399
Speaker 2: that's good, and I better not do anything stupid either.

1151
00:55:12,960 --> 00:55:14,800
Speaker 2: She loves me with all of her heart, but she

1152
00:55:14,920 --> 00:55:17,359
Speaker 2: says she wants to stay away from me to make

1153
00:55:17,440 --> 00:55:21,200
Speaker 2: sure that she's marrying me for love and not because

1154
00:55:21,320 --> 00:55:22,560
Speaker 2: she is used to being with me.

1155
00:55:23,200 --> 00:55:24,600
Speaker 3: I did not understand that at all.

1156
00:55:24,800 --> 00:55:27,360
Speaker 1: I think that's a good It's like, I want to

1157
00:55:27,400 --> 00:55:30,400
Speaker 1: marry you not because I'm dependent on you, but because

1158
00:55:30,480 --> 00:55:31,000
Speaker 1: I love you.

1159
00:55:31,360 --> 00:55:33,359
Speaker 3: Yeah, the reasoning is is good, I would say.

1160
00:55:33,520 --> 00:55:33,719
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1161
00:55:34,440 --> 00:55:36,319
Speaker 3: I told her that if she was not sure after

1162
00:55:36,400 --> 00:55:38,880
Speaker 3: four years, if she wants to marry me, then maybe

1163
00:55:38,960 --> 00:55:40,200
Speaker 3: we should just break up.

1164
00:55:40,400 --> 00:55:42,520
Speaker 1: Joanna says lies. Joanna doesn't believe it.

1165
00:55:42,880 --> 00:55:46,120
Speaker 3: Doesn't believe it. Yeah, doesn't believe it. Real quick.

1166
00:55:46,920 --> 00:55:50,120
Speaker 2: This is a quick tinfoil conspiracy, Very quick, very quick.

1167
00:55:50,239 --> 00:55:54,520
Speaker 2: Everyone in the comments, do they break up or stay together?

1168
00:55:54,960 --> 00:55:58,160
Speaker 2: Do they break up or stay together? Riley, get your

1169
00:55:58,239 --> 00:56:01,800
Speaker 2: get your face on the Okay, do you have conspiracymments.

1170
00:56:02,640 --> 00:56:04,960
Speaker 2: The conspiracy is the question do they break up or

1171
00:56:05,000 --> 00:56:05,479
Speaker 2: stay together?

1172
00:56:06,719 --> 00:56:12,560
Speaker 1: I feel like I feel like Mindy is the wild card.

1173
00:56:12,600 --> 00:56:14,320
Speaker 1: So I feel like they might break up because of

1174
00:56:14,360 --> 00:56:15,680
Speaker 1: some ship Mindy says m.

1175
00:56:16,280 --> 00:56:17,880
Speaker 3: Briley Producer Riley Big Protein.

1176
00:56:18,840 --> 00:56:21,880
Speaker 5: I think that they they I think they break up

1177
00:56:21,920 --> 00:56:25,120
Speaker 5: for sure. Yeah, yeah, I'm with Sam on this one.

1178
00:56:26,080 --> 00:56:29,160
Speaker 1: What do you think, John, Let's see that I already

1179
00:56:29,160 --> 00:56:31,479
Speaker 1: read a lot of people are saying break up. Let's

1180
00:56:31,680 --> 00:56:34,840
Speaker 1: uh yeah, break up, break up. Nicole says stay together,

1181
00:56:35,400 --> 00:56:38,839
Speaker 1: La and says break up. Let's see who's right?

1182
00:56:39,000 --> 00:56:41,040
Speaker 3: All right, let's take off that, go back to reality.

1183
00:56:41,120 --> 00:56:41,800
Speaker 3: Back to reality.

1184
00:56:42,280 --> 00:56:47,520
Speaker 2: Are we ready? We had a big fight and broke

1185
00:56:47,640 --> 00:56:51,160
Speaker 2: up a few days after this. Seriously done? Dune Dune

1186
00:56:51,400 --> 00:56:54,080
Speaker 2: they broke up already. They broke up already.

1187
00:56:54,160 --> 00:56:56,880
Speaker 1: I wonder what the reasons were for breaking up.

1188
00:56:57,719 --> 00:57:02,239
Speaker 3: That's a good question. Maybe what they just said. But

1189
00:57:03,080 --> 00:57:04,399
Speaker 3: also there is more.

1190
00:57:05,040 --> 00:57:07,359
Speaker 2: As our lease was ending, we decided to part ways

1191
00:57:07,360 --> 00:57:09,840
Speaker 2: in December. She got a new apartment and our and

1192
00:57:09,960 --> 00:57:11,920
Speaker 2: I kept our old apartment and just took her name

1193
00:57:11,960 --> 00:57:14,879
Speaker 2: off the lease. After the breakup, I was feeling very

1194
00:57:14,960 --> 00:57:17,320
Speaker 2: lonely as I was not used to being in the

1195
00:57:17,360 --> 00:57:18,200
Speaker 2: apartment alone.

1196
00:57:19,040 --> 00:57:25,080
Speaker 1: Mindy, big old boom coming through, Yeah, girl.

1197
00:57:26,360 --> 00:57:29,720
Speaker 2: I didn't want to keep on being sad, and hence

1198
00:57:29,880 --> 00:57:32,080
Speaker 2: invited a bunch of friends for a New Year's.

1199
00:57:31,840 --> 00:57:34,840
Speaker 1: Party, and Mindy was one of the friends.

1200
00:57:35,240 --> 00:57:39,080
Speaker 3: I also invited Mindy, Bro, they're hooking up?

1201
00:57:39,400 --> 00:57:41,000
Speaker 1: Put I see you in the chat if you think

1202
00:57:41,000 --> 00:57:41,840
Speaker 1: they're gonna hook up.

1203
00:57:42,200 --> 00:57:45,520
Speaker 2: We had a good time and my friends were doing

1204
00:57:45,600 --> 00:57:49,680
Speaker 2: their best to cheer me up. Mindy also mingled with

1205
00:57:49,800 --> 00:57:53,080
Speaker 2: my friends and it was all good. Mindy decided to

1206
00:57:53,160 --> 00:57:57,400
Speaker 2: stay back and help me clean up, and we hooked

1207
00:57:57,480 --> 00:57:58,040
Speaker 2: up that night.

1208
00:57:58,200 --> 00:58:00,640
Speaker 1: Bro, that's a classic move. Ye let me help and

1209
00:58:01,040 --> 00:58:04,400
Speaker 1: staying cleaned out? Oh oh, let me just bend over

1210
00:58:04,480 --> 00:58:07,640
Speaker 1: and just right, you're laughing too hard. At that so

1211
00:58:07,720 --> 00:58:13,120
Speaker 1: many oh look at that boom? Oh yeah, can you

1212
00:58:13,200 --> 00:58:19,840
Speaker 1: get down a little, a little further. It has never

1213
00:58:20,000 --> 00:58:20,840
Speaker 1: happened in this house.

1214
00:58:21,000 --> 00:58:24,400
Speaker 5: Wait wait, wait, wait a second, wait wait wait? How

1215
00:58:24,480 --> 00:58:26,600
Speaker 5: late were you up New Year's Eve?

1216
00:58:27,960 --> 00:58:28,000
Speaker 4: Me?

1217
00:58:28,400 --> 00:58:30,000
Speaker 3: Yeah you oh yeah, that's true.

1218
00:58:30,120 --> 00:58:32,400
Speaker 5: New Year's Day. You were sleeping the whole day because

1219
00:58:32,400 --> 00:58:32,640
Speaker 5: you were.

1220
00:58:32,600 --> 00:58:34,320
Speaker 1: Like I was late. I was up very late. I

1221
00:58:34,400 --> 00:58:36,240
Speaker 1: was up until like five six am.

1222
00:58:36,840 --> 00:58:37,400
Speaker 3: What were you doing?

1223
00:58:38,280 --> 00:58:40,400
Speaker 1: I was watching Big Lebowski. There's nothing to see here.

1224
00:58:40,320 --> 00:58:47,800
Speaker 2: Guys watching move Okay, that's okay, that's okay, okay, So

1225
00:58:48,440 --> 00:58:49,200
Speaker 2: back to the story.

1226
00:58:50,640 --> 00:58:54,960
Speaker 3: Should we do finding the story and where we left off?

1227
00:58:55,000 --> 00:58:59,600
Speaker 1: Boo boo boo boo boo boo boo boo boo booo?

1228
00:59:03,560 --> 00:59:04,920
Speaker 2: What they don't do? Do do?

1229
00:59:05,280 --> 00:59:05,320
Speaker 4: Do?

1230
00:59:05,640 --> 00:59:06,120
Speaker 2: Do? Do?

1231
00:59:10,480 --> 00:59:10,640
Speaker 3: Yes?

1232
00:59:11,240 --> 00:59:15,440
Speaker 2: Sorry, no, it's perfect. I felt guilty, but Mindy did

1233
00:59:15,600 --> 00:59:19,080
Speaker 2: cheer me up. You don't say, dude, I am don't say.

1234
00:59:20,240 --> 00:59:23,920
Speaker 2: Since then, we have hung out almost daily at my place.

1235
00:59:24,600 --> 00:59:26,960
Speaker 2: I am still sad about Julie, but I won't lie

1236
00:59:27,200 --> 00:59:29,880
Speaker 2: that being with Mindy does make me feel happy.

1237
00:59:30,480 --> 00:59:31,720
Speaker 3: She is sweet and caring.

1238
00:59:32,240 --> 00:59:32,360
Speaker 4: Bro.

1239
00:59:33,440 --> 00:59:37,760
Speaker 1: Mindy has been planting the seeds this whole time. This

1240
00:59:37,960 --> 00:59:39,360
Speaker 1: is all part of her master plan.

1241
00:59:39,760 --> 00:59:42,120
Speaker 3: Should Ope take the rebound right now? Yes?

1242
00:59:42,240 --> 00:59:42,400
Speaker 5: Or no?

1243
00:59:42,640 --> 00:59:43,240
Speaker 3: In the comments?

1244
00:59:43,280 --> 00:59:45,920
Speaker 1: And what do you mean taking the rebound?

1245
00:59:48,000 --> 00:59:49,200
Speaker 2: Should he? Should?

1246
00:59:49,280 --> 00:59:52,600
Speaker 1: He like like this is nah? I don't think so.

1247
00:59:52,720 --> 00:59:54,960
Speaker 1: I think it's way too I mean, but art isn't.

1248
00:59:55,040 --> 00:59:57,120
Speaker 1: Mindy and Julie they're friends.

1249
00:59:57,240 --> 00:59:59,800
Speaker 3: They're co workers and friends.

1250
01:00:00,000 --> 01:00:04,440
Speaker 2: I guess that's not a friend thing. They were friends,

1251
01:00:04,520 --> 01:00:05,560
Speaker 2: but not anymore.

1252
01:00:07,040 --> 01:00:09,120
Speaker 1: Okay, Yeah, don't date your ex's friends.

1253
01:00:09,640 --> 01:00:14,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, especially so soon, like so soon, so soon, it's crazy.

1254
01:00:14,880 --> 01:00:18,040
Speaker 2: Last Sunday, we woke up and someone was banging at

1255
01:00:18,200 --> 01:00:24,360
Speaker 2: the door and it was me and Mindy on the door.

1256
01:00:26,640 --> 01:00:29,320
Speaker 3: I went to open it and it was Julie.

1257
01:00:30,600 --> 01:00:32,000
Speaker 1: Was Mindy there when he opened it?

1258
01:00:32,160 --> 01:00:35,840
Speaker 3: No, they're laying in bed together. And Julie came and

1259
01:00:35,920 --> 01:00:36,600
Speaker 3: knocked on the door.

1260
01:00:36,880 --> 01:00:39,960
Speaker 1: Okay, but she she Julie hasn't seen Mindy yet.

1261
01:00:39,960 --> 01:00:42,720
Speaker 2: Not not yet, not yet unless unless you got a studio,

1262
01:00:43,560 --> 01:00:47,720
Speaker 2: so we assume not yet. She looked furious and started

1263
01:00:47,800 --> 01:00:50,760
Speaker 2: yelling at me. She kept accusing me of cheating on her.

1264
01:00:51,120 --> 01:00:53,680
Speaker 2: I told her I most certainly did not cheat on her,

1265
01:00:53,960 --> 01:00:55,600
Speaker 2: and she was the one who broke up with me.

1266
01:00:56,360 --> 01:01:02,440
Speaker 2: Mindy again was also at my apartment. Julie was just

1267
01:01:02,600 --> 01:01:05,320
Speaker 2: angry at the both of us. She started calling Mindy

1268
01:01:05,560 --> 01:01:09,280
Speaker 2: a manipulative Oh so she's been there, she sees her there.

1269
01:01:09,520 --> 01:01:12,520
Speaker 2: My goodness, this is that. She started calling Mindy a

1270
01:01:12,680 --> 01:01:15,920
Speaker 2: manipulative b and told me that Mindy was the one

1271
01:01:15,960 --> 01:01:19,160
Speaker 2: who suggested to her that we should take some time

1272
01:01:19,240 --> 01:01:21,280
Speaker 2: away for me to understand.

1273
01:01:20,960 --> 01:01:25,280
Speaker 1: Her both sides. Mindy is playing both sides. She just wanted, oh,

1274
01:01:25,320 --> 01:01:29,080
Speaker 1: pe oh, Pi is a snack dude, and everyone wants

1275
01:01:29,080 --> 01:01:30,520
Speaker 1: to bite. Every one's a little munch.

1276
01:01:30,960 --> 01:01:33,120
Speaker 3: Is Mindy a snake? Snake?

1277
01:01:33,240 --> 01:01:35,600
Speaker 1: And the chat? If you think Mindy a snake, that's right,

1278
01:01:37,440 --> 01:01:39,880
Speaker 1: a little slither pright, little slithery slitherer.

1279
01:01:40,240 --> 01:01:42,680
Speaker 2: I calmed her down and asked her to explain herself.

1280
01:01:43,120 --> 01:01:45,840
Speaker 2: She told me that ever since our marriage talk, she

1281
01:01:46,000 --> 01:01:49,200
Speaker 2: told Mindy about it, and Mindy kept on asking Julie

1282
01:01:49,360 --> 01:01:52,840
Speaker 2: if she was sure about marrying me. Mindy suggested that

1283
01:01:53,040 --> 01:01:55,880
Speaker 2: she take mandy suggestion that she takes some time to

1284
01:01:55,920 --> 01:01:57,880
Speaker 2: herself to understand her true feelings.

1285
01:01:59,480 --> 01:02:03,200
Speaker 1: Oh, this is the most manipulative ship that I have

1286
01:02:03,560 --> 01:02:04,240
Speaker 1: ever heard.

1287
01:02:04,400 --> 01:02:05,160
Speaker 2: This is insane.

1288
01:02:05,840 --> 01:02:09,920
Speaker 1: People. They do sad, They absolutely do does anyone know

1289
01:02:10,000 --> 01:02:13,120
Speaker 1: of Mindy in their life and like, please write a story. Well,

1290
01:02:13,360 --> 01:02:15,320
Speaker 1: maybe we can read a couple from you guys after

1291
01:02:15,400 --> 01:02:17,720
Speaker 1: this story. In the chat, I'm seeing a lot of

1292
01:02:19,320 --> 01:02:22,200
Speaker 1: the snake was in the grass now it's just right

1293
01:02:22,240 --> 01:02:24,640
Speaker 1: on the sidewalk. And y'all, nobody needs a step on

1294
01:02:24,720 --> 01:02:25,040
Speaker 1: that ship.

1295
01:02:26,640 --> 01:02:29,600
Speaker 2: I will understand and let me run it back a

1296
01:02:29,600 --> 01:02:31,800
Speaker 2: little bit. Mindy suggested that she take some time to

1297
01:02:31,840 --> 01:02:34,760
Speaker 2: herself to understand he drew feelings, and that I would

1298
01:02:34,960 --> 01:02:37,880
Speaker 2: understand and give her the space. When I said no,

1299
01:02:38,520 --> 01:02:41,120
Speaker 2: Mindy convinced her that I was so controlling that I

1300
01:02:41,200 --> 01:02:43,720
Speaker 2: could not even give her one month to herself and

1301
01:02:43,840 --> 01:02:49,200
Speaker 2: convinced her to break up with Mick. Wow, yep, yep.

1302
01:02:49,840 --> 01:02:52,720
Speaker 2: Mindy told me that she did not say any such

1303
01:02:52,800 --> 01:02:55,880
Speaker 2: things and these were all Julie's ideas and she was

1304
01:02:56,000 --> 01:02:57,920
Speaker 2: just there during these conversations.

1305
01:02:57,960 --> 01:03:01,040
Speaker 1: This is totally a Jesse two point zero Jesse from

1306
01:03:01,040 --> 01:03:05,240
Speaker 1: the first story. Yeah, is the Jesse here, Mindy is

1307
01:03:05,240 --> 01:03:05,600
Speaker 1: a Jesse.

1308
01:03:05,840 --> 01:03:09,040
Speaker 2: Yeah. She did tell Julie that she was about to

1309
01:03:09,120 --> 01:03:11,120
Speaker 2: take some of the things so that I could get

1310
01:03:11,160 --> 01:03:14,040
Speaker 2: a chance to make things right with her over the

1311
01:03:14,120 --> 01:03:17,560
Speaker 2: last few months. That made Julie more angry, and she

1312
01:03:17,720 --> 01:03:22,720
Speaker 2: started accusing me of emotionally cheating on her. Julie told

1313
01:03:22,800 --> 01:03:24,960
Speaker 2: me that the last few weeks have made her realize

1314
01:03:25,240 --> 01:03:27,520
Speaker 2: that we were meant to be together, but she now

1315
01:03:27,640 --> 01:03:30,360
Speaker 2: cannot believe I would move on from a four year

1316
01:03:30,440 --> 01:03:33,000
Speaker 2: relationship in one week.

1317
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Speaker 1: Ah. That is brutal. But you guys did break up.

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01:03:38,400 --> 01:03:39,040
Speaker 1: She can't be mad.

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01:03:39,680 --> 01:03:40,480
Speaker 3: They did break up.

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01:03:40,560 --> 01:03:44,080
Speaker 1: You did break up. I don't think the relationship contract.

1321
01:03:44,200 --> 01:03:46,800
Speaker 1: The relationship contract ends when you break up.

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01:03:47,280 --> 01:03:50,000
Speaker 2: I mean, imagine you have a four or even let's

1323
01:03:50,000 --> 01:03:52,920
Speaker 2: say a three year relationship and then you do a

1324
01:03:53,040 --> 01:03:56,440
Speaker 2: rebound like imagine again, even a three year relationship and

1325
01:03:56,560 --> 01:03:56,920
Speaker 2: you do that.

1326
01:03:57,360 --> 01:03:59,840
Speaker 3: Just imagine that everybody like a two year relationship.

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01:04:00,160 --> 01:04:05,880
Speaker 2: Oh oh. On one hand, I want to believe Julie,

1328
01:04:06,160 --> 01:04:08,600
Speaker 2: but she broke up with me for no fault of

1329
01:04:08,760 --> 01:04:11,600
Speaker 2: my own Mindy was there for me when I was down,

1330
01:04:11,840 --> 01:04:13,560
Speaker 2: But now I also doubt her.

1331
01:04:13,960 --> 01:04:17,880
Speaker 1: Dude, doubt her so much. Get away.

1332
01:04:19,320 --> 01:04:22,280
Speaker 2: She suddenly started talking to me out of the blue,

1333
01:04:22,440 --> 01:04:25,800
Speaker 2: as we were never really that close before, and immediately

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01:04:25,920 --> 01:04:29,200
Speaker 2: became my support after the breakup. Although Julie was her

1335
01:04:29,280 --> 01:04:33,320
Speaker 2: close friend, am I the a hole? To emotionally cheat

1336
01:04:33,360 --> 01:04:36,720
Speaker 2: on Julie. Should I have told her about Mindy's texts?

1337
01:04:37,080 --> 01:04:39,640
Speaker 2: Should I have not moved on from her so quickly?

1338
01:04:39,800 --> 01:04:42,760
Speaker 2: Even though Julie broke up with me, I was just

1339
01:04:42,920 --> 01:04:45,960
Speaker 2: hurting and Mindy was right there to support me. I

1340
01:04:46,160 --> 01:04:49,520
Speaker 2: need advice from someone with a clear mind on knowing

1341
01:04:49,800 --> 01:04:53,960
Speaker 2: what the f is going on, And ladies and gentlemen

1342
01:04:54,160 --> 01:04:58,240
Speaker 2: watching right now, we have relevant comments, we have updates,

1343
01:04:58,280 --> 01:04:59,520
Speaker 2: we have comments from you right now.

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01:05:00,000 --> 01:05:02,040
Speaker 3: We have to stop and break this down.

1345
01:05:02,920 --> 01:05:06,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, uh well, I'm a little confused on

1346
01:05:06,360 --> 01:05:08,120
Speaker 1: the emotional cheating side.

1347
01:05:07,960 --> 01:05:09,560
Speaker 3: I think because so Mindy.

1348
01:05:09,800 --> 01:05:14,880
Speaker 2: So before the the actual official breakup, Mindy was getting

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01:05:14,960 --> 01:05:17,440
Speaker 2: closer with uh Op.

1350
01:05:17,520 --> 01:05:19,520
Speaker 1: But it sounds like it was in the context of

1351
01:05:19,800 --> 01:05:23,960
Speaker 1: helping Ope through the relationship with Julie.

1352
01:05:24,320 --> 01:05:29,440
Speaker 2: Yes, And so basically that I think is was it

1353
01:05:29,600 --> 01:05:33,160
Speaker 2: emotional cheating that Op kind of accepted the help and

1354
01:05:33,280 --> 01:05:36,680
Speaker 2: became more quote unquote emotionally close with Mindy, Not that

1355
01:05:36,800 --> 01:05:38,600
Speaker 2: he was like, I don't, I don't.

1356
01:05:38,800 --> 01:05:40,520
Speaker 1: I would love to know what y'all think if you

1357
01:05:40,560 --> 01:05:43,520
Speaker 1: think it's emotional cheating or not, but I don't. I wouldn't.

1358
01:05:43,760 --> 01:05:45,160
Speaker 1: I don't think that's emotional cheating.

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01:05:45,560 --> 01:05:48,200
Speaker 2: I definitely think it is a gray area, and it

1360
01:05:48,280 --> 01:05:52,960
Speaker 2: truly depends on what are these conversations and interactions.

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01:05:52,640 --> 01:05:54,840
Speaker 1: Like, because but like what it seems like it was

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01:05:55,040 --> 01:05:57,640
Speaker 1: is like, hey, like things are hard with Julie. And

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01:05:57,760 --> 01:06:00,360
Speaker 1: then like what it seemed like the initial conver stations

1364
01:06:00,360 --> 01:06:03,160
Speaker 1: where it's like Mindy's giving just terrible advice, but like

1365
01:06:03,280 --> 01:06:06,880
Speaker 1: op is talking to Mindy to try to work on

1366
01:06:07,040 --> 01:06:09,800
Speaker 1: things with Julie. Yeah, you know, because like Mindy's like,

1367
01:06:09,840 --> 01:06:12,680
Speaker 1: she's gonna break up with you and and and OPI

1368
01:06:12,800 --> 01:06:14,440
Speaker 1: is like, oh shit, I need to step up my game.

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01:06:14,480 --> 01:06:16,160
Speaker 1: I need to make sure that I'm like there for

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01:06:16,280 --> 01:06:19,320
Speaker 1: her even more. And so he's not taking what Mindy

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01:06:19,480 --> 01:06:22,360
Speaker 1: saying to distance himself from Julie. He's taking what Mindy

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01:06:22,480 --> 01:06:25,240
Speaker 1: saying to make sure he's close. And so for that reason,

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01:06:25,560 --> 01:06:28,160
Speaker 1: I don't really think he is going into it with

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01:06:28,320 --> 01:06:32,760
Speaker 1: the idea of like, uh, or even even like subconsciously

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01:06:32,800 --> 01:06:35,680
Speaker 1: emotionally cheating. I that doesn't seem like what's happening here.

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01:06:35,840 --> 01:06:37,880
Speaker 2: It it did have the purist of intentions, and I

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01:06:38,000 --> 01:06:41,760
Speaker 2: can't I mean to I think it was after that

1378
01:06:41,880 --> 01:06:44,960
Speaker 2: it really ramped up in Mindy which probably was completely

1379
01:06:45,040 --> 01:06:48,160
Speaker 2: Mindy's intention. Yeah, was like all all, all, just get

1380
01:06:48,440 --> 01:06:51,520
Speaker 2: in there as like a supportive friend and then I'll

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01:06:51,800 --> 01:06:52,520
Speaker 2: crank it up.

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01:06:52,720 --> 01:06:56,040
Speaker 1: Yeah. No, like Mindy is a terrible person. Mindy, Mindy

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01:06:56,160 --> 01:06:58,640
Speaker 1: has been planning this from the the I think there's

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01:06:58,720 --> 01:07:02,520
Speaker 1: Op is like a little naive, a little stupid. But uh,

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01:07:02,960 --> 01:07:06,760
Speaker 1: the second question is Mindy or is hooking up with

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01:07:06,840 --> 01:07:11,200
Speaker 1: Mindy after Julie breaks up with Op a not cash

1387
01:07:11,280 --> 01:07:12,800
Speaker 1: money move, not.

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01:07:12,920 --> 01:07:13,520
Speaker 3: A great move.

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01:07:15,000 --> 01:07:18,360
Speaker 2: But I mean Op is like very heartbroken. I will,

1390
01:07:18,440 --> 01:07:21,640
Speaker 2: I will give him some like leniency, but like not

1391
01:07:22,240 --> 01:07:23,160
Speaker 2: not the best.

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01:07:23,320 --> 01:07:25,280
Speaker 1: I think what's us is it's not I don't think

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01:07:25,320 --> 01:07:29,360
Speaker 1: it's necessarily bad that he hooked up with someone after

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01:07:30,000 --> 01:07:32,720
Speaker 1: uh breaking up, Like people do that all the time.

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01:07:33,000 --> 01:07:35,000
Speaker 1: I think what's bad is he hooked up with a

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01:07:35,160 --> 01:07:38,400
Speaker 1: close friend. Yeah, I think that's a little of us. Yes,

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01:07:38,600 --> 01:07:40,560
Speaker 1: that's like I don't I don't think that's a good

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01:07:40,800 --> 01:07:42,360
Speaker 1: Like I think you could hook up with someone who

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01:07:42,400 --> 01:07:44,120
Speaker 1: was in like the general friend group, but if it's

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01:07:44,120 --> 01:07:45,880
Speaker 1: a close friend and they've hung out one on one,

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01:07:46,120 --> 01:07:47,040
Speaker 1: I don't think that's a good movie.

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01:07:47,160 --> 01:07:50,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, and just generally, yeah, it's it's given given giving

1403
01:07:50,920 --> 01:07:52,440
Speaker 2: yourself some time is.

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01:07:52,440 --> 01:07:54,560
Speaker 1: Good, but but I would wait. Should we read some

1405
01:07:54,600 --> 01:07:57,000
Speaker 1: of the comments before we dive into the to the update?

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01:07:57,440 --> 01:08:02,160
Speaker 1: Let's do it say again, Katie Lynn, Katie Lynn, I

1407
01:08:02,200 --> 01:08:05,320
Speaker 1: don't think it's emotional cheating. But this couldn't have happened

1408
01:08:05,480 --> 01:08:09,800
Speaker 1: if they spoke, If they couldn't have happened if they

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01:08:09,880 --> 01:08:13,640
Speaker 1: spoke to themselves, or if OPI asked Mindy said X

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01:08:13,760 --> 01:08:17,760
Speaker 1: y Z is this true. He also didn't seem to

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01:08:17,840 --> 01:08:21,599
Speaker 1: have thought about the feelings for Mindy until after Julie

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01:08:21,680 --> 01:08:24,360
Speaker 1: and him broke up. Seemed seemed that he knew he

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01:08:24,760 --> 01:08:28,200
Speaker 1: it was convenient and that Mindy cared about him, while

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01:08:28,240 --> 01:08:31,320
Speaker 1: OPI was happy to take the opportunity that Mindy created

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01:08:31,439 --> 01:08:34,920
Speaker 1: by being too faced. Yeah, I agree with some of that.

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01:08:35,439 --> 01:08:37,720
Speaker 1: I think I agree with some of that. And then

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01:08:37,960 --> 01:08:40,759
Speaker 1: A says if OPI and Julie were secure in the relationship,

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01:08:40,800 --> 01:08:43,559
Speaker 1: none of that would have happened. They both kept Mindy's

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01:08:43,600 --> 01:08:47,040
Speaker 1: talks to themselves instead of confronting the issue. That's kind

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01:08:47,080 --> 01:08:49,519
Speaker 1: of what the other person was saying. Like, I agree

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01:08:49,560 --> 01:08:52,240
Speaker 1: with that. If they just had communicated with about well

1422
01:08:52,400 --> 01:08:54,479
Speaker 1: what Mindy was saying, it would have been fine, but

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01:08:54,560 --> 01:08:56,080
Speaker 1: I think they were too scared to communicate.

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01:08:56,520 --> 01:08:58,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, I do not.

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01:08:58,560 --> 01:09:00,639
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, this is this is a tricky one, y'all.

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01:09:00,840 --> 01:09:01,599
Speaker 3: This is a tricky one.

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01:09:01,680 --> 01:09:05,120
Speaker 1: But John, do you have an update for me?

1428
01:09:05,360 --> 01:09:09,479
Speaker 3: We have should? We should? We have some relevant comments? Update? Good,

1429
01:09:09,560 --> 01:09:10,799
Speaker 3: let's do the relevant comments.

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01:09:11,000 --> 01:09:13,840
Speaker 2: So h b our Socks two four four five says,

1431
01:09:14,040 --> 01:09:16,400
Speaker 2: sounds like you and Julie need to talk privately and

1432
01:09:16,560 --> 01:09:18,960
Speaker 2: discuss what Mindy said to each of you. That is

1433
01:09:19,000 --> 01:09:21,120
Speaker 2: a great idea. Get get you know, get the story straight.

1434
01:09:21,240 --> 01:09:23,800
Speaker 2: Let's interrogate this bad boy. As others have said, this

1435
01:09:23,960 --> 01:09:27,240
Speaker 2: sounds all too convenient. Mindy was in both of your ears,

1436
01:09:27,320 --> 01:09:29,760
Speaker 2: telling you both what she wanted you to hear to

1437
01:09:29,920 --> 01:09:32,960
Speaker 2: orchestrate this whole thing. Please reach out to Julie and

1438
01:09:33,040 --> 01:09:35,679
Speaker 2: ask her to talk to you alone. Even if both

1439
01:09:35,720 --> 01:09:37,840
Speaker 2: of you don't get back together. I'm sure you both

1440
01:09:37,880 --> 01:09:40,000
Speaker 2: care for each other deeply, and she would want you

1441
01:09:40,439 --> 01:09:42,240
Speaker 2: to be with someone who cares about you and won't

1442
01:09:42,240 --> 01:09:42,800
Speaker 2: manipulate you.

1443
01:09:43,200 --> 01:09:46,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, Mindy is a manipulator. You should not stay with

1444
01:09:46,280 --> 01:09:47,639
Speaker 1: Mindy for sure.

1445
01:09:49,800 --> 01:09:52,720
Speaker 2: Her manipulation of you is more direct. But Julie is

1446
01:09:52,800 --> 01:09:57,240
Speaker 2: the victim as well. OPI you are right, if Julie.

1447
01:09:57,400 --> 01:10:00,400
Speaker 2: If Julie is right, I just threw a four your

1448
01:10:00,439 --> 01:10:05,400
Speaker 2: relationship under the bus in just two weeks. Artistic Asparagus

1449
01:10:05,439 --> 01:10:07,479
Speaker 2: one seventy five says, so, what's the reason for you

1450
01:10:07,600 --> 01:10:10,120
Speaker 2: sleeping with your ex's good friend weeks after the breakup.

1451
01:10:10,400 --> 01:10:14,480
Speaker 2: It's understandable you wanted to move on, but why her specifically?

1452
01:10:14,800 --> 01:10:19,320
Speaker 2: Opie says, I wasn't playing it on it convenient, convenient,

1453
01:10:19,800 --> 01:10:22,960
Speaker 2: but she just stayed back after the party and things happened.

1454
01:10:23,080 --> 01:10:23,320
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1455
01:10:23,840 --> 01:10:26,560
Speaker 2: Did I feel guilty after that? Absolutely?

1456
01:10:26,680 --> 01:10:28,559
Speaker 3: Not just kidding. Yes, I did feel guilty.

1457
01:10:29,280 --> 01:10:32,600
Speaker 2: I felt discarded and unwanted after a four year relationship

1458
01:10:32,680 --> 01:10:36,599
Speaker 2: and was just not thinking straight. So you know there's

1459
01:10:36,600 --> 01:10:39,320
Speaker 2: some more context, Yeah, I think, I think again. You know,

1460
01:10:39,520 --> 01:10:43,320
Speaker 2: Mindy was manipulating and was very intentional with all this

1461
01:10:43,360 --> 01:10:47,800
Speaker 2: stuff and catching op at the worst possible moments.

1462
01:10:47,920 --> 01:10:51,479
Speaker 1: Literally creating the worst possible creating it. I think, massive

1463
01:10:51,760 --> 01:10:55,000
Speaker 1: red flags all ends, And Lily says, why do you

1464
01:10:55,040 --> 01:10:58,120
Speaker 1: not ship merch Island? We actually just updated our merch

1465
01:10:58,200 --> 01:11:00,200
Speaker 1: link so we should be able to ship everywhere. So

1466
01:11:00,400 --> 01:11:00,920
Speaker 1: check that again.

1467
01:11:01,080 --> 01:11:03,479
Speaker 3: Very nice, it's in the description right now.

1468
01:11:04,000 --> 01:11:06,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, if you want to support the show. Check out

1469
01:11:06,360 --> 01:11:07,800
Speaker 1: the merch. We're wearing it right now.

1470
01:11:08,000 --> 01:11:09,360
Speaker 3: Red flag versus green flag.

1471
01:11:09,760 --> 01:11:10,360
Speaker 2: Pick what you want.

1472
01:11:10,520 --> 01:11:14,479
Speaker 1: Yeah, there's little hats too, that's right. But is there

1473
01:11:14,479 --> 01:11:14,880
Speaker 1: an update?

1474
01:11:14,880 --> 01:11:16,800
Speaker 3: Those are the relevant comments, and now we have the

1475
01:11:16,920 --> 01:11:18,799
Speaker 3: big Juicy update.

1476
01:11:19,040 --> 01:11:23,080
Speaker 2: Juicy I twenty eight male post of last week regarding

1477
01:11:23,120 --> 01:11:26,080
Speaker 2: my girlfriend Julie twenty nine female, accusing your friend Mindy

1478
01:11:26,200 --> 01:11:29,120
Speaker 2: of sabotaging the relationship. Julie broke up with me in

1479
01:11:29,160 --> 01:11:31,599
Speaker 2: December after a four year relationship, and Mindy reached out

1480
01:11:31,600 --> 01:11:33,920
Speaker 2: to me when I was feeling down. However, when Julie

1481
01:11:34,080 --> 01:11:36,920
Speaker 2: realized when Mindy was talking to me, she confronted both

1482
01:11:36,920 --> 01:11:38,640
Speaker 2: of us on Saturday Sunday morning and told me that

1483
01:11:39,000 --> 01:11:40,800
Speaker 2: Mindy manipulated her into breaking.

1484
01:11:40,600 --> 01:11:40,880
Speaker 1: Up with me.

1485
01:11:41,320 --> 01:11:43,719
Speaker 2: The worst part, I wasn't thinking straight after the breakup.

1486
01:11:43,760 --> 01:11:45,400
Speaker 2: It ended up hooking up with Mindy at a New

1487
01:11:45,439 --> 01:11:47,840
Speaker 2: Year's Eve party. After the incident, I asked Mindy that

1488
01:11:47,920 --> 01:11:50,000
Speaker 2: I needed some time and did not want to meet her.

1489
01:11:50,160 --> 01:11:53,240
Speaker 2: Since the following post on Reddit had three thousand people,

1490
01:11:53,720 --> 01:11:55,000
Speaker 2: call me an idiot.

1491
01:11:54,800 --> 01:11:57,840
Speaker 1: And now you have more in the chat. You're in

1492
01:11:57,840 --> 01:11:59,320
Speaker 1: an indiot. Please do not see.

1493
01:11:59,200 --> 01:12:00,960
Speaker 3: Middy indeed indeed.

1494
01:12:01,360 --> 01:12:05,240
Speaker 2: So I messaged Julie every day since then to try

1495
01:12:05,360 --> 01:12:08,040
Speaker 2: to talk to her. She did not reply to my messages.

1496
01:12:08,400 --> 01:12:10,639
Speaker 2: I was not sure if she had blocked me. Mindy

1497
01:12:10,880 --> 01:12:13,880
Speaker 2: was constantly trying to message me, asking if we could

1498
01:12:13,920 --> 01:12:14,760
Speaker 2: meet up and talk about it.

1499
01:12:14,840 --> 01:12:18,519
Speaker 1: I wrote you for a year. I'm just quoting the notebook.

1500
01:12:18,800 --> 01:12:19,679
Speaker 1: We watched it recently.

1501
01:12:20,400 --> 01:12:24,439
Speaker 2: On Wednesday, one day after posting, I decided to message Mindy.

1502
01:12:25,040 --> 01:12:27,840
Speaker 2: I told her to tell me everything she said to

1503
01:12:27,920 --> 01:12:32,360
Speaker 2: Julie truthfully. I told her I would go no contact

1504
01:12:32,479 --> 01:12:35,120
Speaker 2: if I found out that she had been lying, which

1505
01:12:35,600 --> 01:12:38,760
Speaker 2: Mindy knows. It's like, hey, if if she was actually lying,

1506
01:12:39,120 --> 01:12:41,160
Speaker 2: they would share what each other said and they would

1507
01:12:41,160 --> 01:12:43,280
Speaker 2: figure it out. OPI and Julie would be able to

1508
01:12:43,320 --> 01:12:43,880
Speaker 2: figure it out.

1509
01:12:43,960 --> 01:12:47,040
Speaker 1: But Julie isn't talking to op Mindy.

1510
01:12:47,080 --> 01:12:51,720
Speaker 3: We don't know if that. Maybe she does. This is

1511
01:12:51,800 --> 01:12:53,320
Speaker 3: a crazy game of chicken right.

1512
01:12:53,280 --> 01:12:57,400
Speaker 1: Now, Why dude, like, go no contact now? You have

1513
01:12:57,640 --> 01:13:01,040
Speaker 1: enough information this moment to go no contact, Like, why

1514
01:13:01,080 --> 01:13:03,080
Speaker 1: would you have a person like this in your life?

1515
01:13:03,160 --> 01:13:07,080
Speaker 1: She is manipulative, she is super toxic and just like

1516
01:13:07,240 --> 01:13:08,000
Speaker 1: wants drama.

1517
01:13:08,200 --> 01:13:10,000
Speaker 3: OPI doesn't know if he believes it yet or not.

1518
01:13:10,360 --> 01:13:11,400
Speaker 3: That's why. That's why.

1519
01:13:11,439 --> 01:13:12,720
Speaker 2: I mean, I feel like I would believe it.

1520
01:13:13,360 --> 01:13:16,519
Speaker 1: Oh he'd but but dude, you know, you know she

1521
01:13:16,680 --> 01:13:17,760
Speaker 1: was talking in your ear.

1522
01:13:18,640 --> 01:13:22,120
Speaker 3: But he's still like, was she telling the truth the

1523
01:13:22,160 --> 01:13:23,960
Speaker 3: whole time? Where she wasn't?

1524
01:13:24,000 --> 01:13:26,759
Speaker 2: She was talking to both of them, but wasn't planting

1525
01:13:27,080 --> 01:13:29,679
Speaker 2: the stuff for Julie, that's the question.

1526
01:13:29,920 --> 01:13:33,000
Speaker 1: But she was regardless. She was revealing things that Julie

1527
01:13:33,040 --> 01:13:36,479
Speaker 1: probably want kept secret to Opie exactly. And that's a

1528
01:13:36,520 --> 01:13:39,400
Speaker 1: red flag because if you're revealing other people's secrets, you're

1529
01:13:39,479 --> 01:13:42,360
Speaker 1: probably revealing the secrets that you have between you and

1530
01:13:42,439 --> 01:13:42,800
Speaker 1: that person.

1531
01:13:42,920 --> 01:13:45,080
Speaker 3: You and me are on the same page. But Opie's

1532
01:13:45,120 --> 01:13:46,559
Speaker 3: getting that Mindy pom poom right now.

1533
01:13:46,720 --> 01:13:47,519
Speaker 1: That's not.

1534
01:13:50,520 --> 01:13:51,040
Speaker 3: Exactly.

1535
01:13:52,439 --> 01:13:55,720
Speaker 2: So Mindy wanted to meet me in person or talk

1536
01:13:55,800 --> 01:13:58,799
Speaker 2: to me on the phone, but I wanted everything in writing.

1537
01:13:59,520 --> 01:14:01,000
Speaker 3: That's that's a good move act.

1538
01:14:01,160 --> 01:14:04,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, So he like, she couldn't like reprogram his head

1539
01:14:05,200 --> 01:14:06,840
Speaker 1: on the back end and make it think, oh I

1540
01:14:06,920 --> 01:14:11,360
Speaker 1: didn't say that, Yeah, great, great receipts. Receipts.

1541
01:14:11,520 --> 01:14:15,400
Speaker 2: Yep. She messaged me that Julia always said good things

1542
01:14:15,439 --> 01:14:18,160
Speaker 2: about me all of these years when Julie told her

1543
01:14:18,280 --> 01:14:20,639
Speaker 2: about us talking and getting married in twenty twenty four.

1544
01:14:21,000 --> 01:14:26,519
Speaker 2: She was happy for the both of us. However, wise however,

1545
01:14:27,280 --> 01:14:29,960
Speaker 2: Julie started telling her that she had cold feet and

1546
01:14:30,160 --> 01:14:32,040
Speaker 2: was not sure if we wanted to marry me because

1547
01:14:32,080 --> 01:14:36,400
Speaker 2: of issues she observed about her parents' marriage very convenient.

1548
01:14:37,040 --> 01:14:39,760
Speaker 2: One day, Julie told me that she wanted to take

1549
01:14:39,800 --> 01:14:42,400
Speaker 2: a break from me. She was not too sure about

1550
01:14:42,400 --> 01:14:43,120
Speaker 2: her feelings for me.

1551
01:14:44,040 --> 01:14:45,920
Speaker 3: That that was this time.

1552
01:14:47,040 --> 01:14:50,240
Speaker 2: That was the time that Mindy told me about Julie's behavior,

1553
01:14:50,560 --> 01:14:53,000
Speaker 2: as she felt bad for me as we were already

1554
01:14:53,080 --> 01:14:56,559
Speaker 2: telling our families about the engagement plans. After our fight,

1555
01:14:56,800 --> 01:14:59,719
Speaker 2: she said that she said that Julie was extremely upset

1556
01:14:59,800 --> 01:15:02,439
Speaker 2: and told Mindy that she would never marry me.

1557
01:15:03,360 --> 01:15:07,400
Speaker 3: She's literally doing it again. She's literally doing it again.

1558
01:15:07,640 --> 01:15:12,479
Speaker 1: Dude, I think this is all little sauce sis. Why

1559
01:15:12,800 --> 01:15:14,920
Speaker 1: are you trusting her? This is silly.

1560
01:15:15,360 --> 01:15:18,800
Speaker 2: She said that the only reason Julie came back was

1561
01:15:18,840 --> 01:15:21,519
Speaker 2: when she heard that I was moving on, as she

1562
01:15:21,800 --> 01:15:28,800
Speaker 2: is jealous of us, bro. She she also said that

1563
01:15:29,000 --> 01:15:31,600
Speaker 2: I was a good guy, and hopefully I see that

1564
01:15:31,760 --> 01:15:32,320
Speaker 2: what we have.

1565
01:15:34,200 --> 01:15:35,080
Speaker 3: Is something special.

1566
01:15:39,560 --> 01:15:40,080
Speaker 2: What do we think?

1567
01:15:40,120 --> 01:15:42,000
Speaker 3: What do we think, Chap, what do we think?

1568
01:15:42,040 --> 01:15:48,160
Speaker 1: I'm pissed. Yeah, I'm pissed. Yeah, uh brizzle Manizzle says, supersize,

1569
01:15:48,600 --> 01:15:52,920
Speaker 1: super sauce. Let's see. Car says I don't know if

1570
01:15:53,000 --> 01:15:56,880
Speaker 1: a rebound is moving on. But go Off says burning

1571
01:15:57,000 --> 01:16:02,040
Speaker 1: rows a bunch of red flags? A merit b s Yeah,

1572
01:16:02,640 --> 01:16:07,519
Speaker 1: I agree, Rose Osbyn says red flag. Mindy Leavester says

1573
01:16:07,640 --> 01:16:11,080
Speaker 1: heck no, Kimberly fine, people like Mindy will gost both

1574
01:16:11,320 --> 01:16:13,599
Speaker 1: pretend nothing happened and find a whole new friend group

1575
01:16:13,640 --> 01:16:18,160
Speaker 1: before they face any real life consequences for their actions. Yeah,

1576
01:16:18,400 --> 01:16:22,519
Speaker 1: totally agree. Mindy is not Mindy's not even person.

1577
01:16:22,720 --> 01:16:24,439
Speaker 3: No, No, I think she's a total snake.

1578
01:16:24,520 --> 01:16:30,200
Speaker 2: And Mike mind bogglingly using this opportunity to do more

1579
01:16:30,360 --> 01:16:32,920
Speaker 2: lies to wedge them in between like that, But do

1580
01:16:33,040 --> 01:16:33,240
Speaker 2: we know?

1581
01:16:33,560 --> 01:16:35,760
Speaker 1: I mean, like, how is Opie don't I don't even

1582
01:16:35,800 --> 01:16:38,000
Speaker 1: know why he's listening, but like, how is OPI supposed

1583
01:16:38,000 --> 01:16:39,280
Speaker 1: to suss it out because he's going to talk to

1584
01:16:39,360 --> 01:16:40,840
Speaker 1: Julie and see if the story's line up.

1585
01:16:40,960 --> 01:16:44,360
Speaker 3: He's trying to Julie isn't responding.

1586
01:16:44,360 --> 01:16:46,799
Speaker 1: But can you please tell me there's a big fat, juicy,

1587
01:16:46,880 --> 01:16:50,639
Speaker 1: thick update where Julie responds and we could put Mindy

1588
01:16:50,800 --> 01:16:53,840
Speaker 1: to rest and cast her out into the open ocean,

1589
01:16:53,960 --> 01:16:56,439
Speaker 1: hoping she trowns it gets fed on by live sharks.

1590
01:16:57,040 --> 01:16:58,600
Speaker 3: There's definitely more so.

1591
01:16:59,000 --> 01:17:01,719
Speaker 2: After Mindy said that you know we have something special,

1592
01:17:02,400 --> 01:17:05,680
Speaker 2: Opie responds, I just said okay, and I told her

1593
01:17:05,720 --> 01:17:06,559
Speaker 2: that I needed time.

1594
01:17:07,040 --> 01:17:09,600
Speaker 3: I kept on messaging Julie once a day to at

1595
01:17:09,680 --> 01:17:13,080
Speaker 3: least talk to her once. It was heartbreaking to think

1596
01:17:13,120 --> 01:17:15,479
Speaker 3: that she might have blocked me and may never talk

1597
01:17:15,560 --> 01:17:16,120
Speaker 3: to me again.

1598
01:17:16,240 --> 01:17:18,639
Speaker 1: Are your text green well?

1599
01:17:19,640 --> 01:17:26,120
Speaker 2: On Friday afternoon, Julie finally replied, okay, that's good. She

1600
01:17:26,280 --> 01:17:29,000
Speaker 2: said she wanted to meet me and told me okay,

1601
01:17:29,240 --> 01:17:31,000
Speaker 2: and told me that she would come to our apartment

1602
01:17:31,120 --> 01:17:32,360
Speaker 2: on Saturday afternoon.

1603
01:17:32,479 --> 01:17:34,000
Speaker 1: Okay, this is something. This is movement.

1604
01:17:34,640 --> 01:17:37,200
Speaker 3: I cleaned up the place. Hey, buddy, cleaning got you

1605
01:17:37,280 --> 01:17:38,360
Speaker 3: in this mess in the first once.

1606
01:17:38,640 --> 01:17:40,880
Speaker 1: Be careful and helped me.

1607
01:17:41,120 --> 01:17:45,679
Speaker 2: She stayed after this, and I was just feeling deep

1608
01:17:45,880 --> 01:17:48,760
Speaker 2: guilt from the inside before facing her. When she came in,

1609
01:17:48,960 --> 01:17:52,000
Speaker 2: she looked like a shell of herself and completely broken.

1610
01:17:53,040 --> 01:17:55,479
Speaker 2: I sat on her sofa, but she chose to sit away.

1611
01:17:55,520 --> 01:17:58,760
Speaker 2: From me. We asked how each other were, but it

1612
01:17:58,840 --> 01:18:01,840
Speaker 2: was clear that neither of us were doing well. I

1613
01:18:02,000 --> 01:18:05,519
Speaker 2: started apologizing, but she stopped me. She asked to let

1614
01:18:05,560 --> 01:18:08,240
Speaker 2: her finish until not interrupt her. She had brought her

1615
01:18:08,240 --> 01:18:10,479
Speaker 2: a little notebook and had written down things that she

1616
01:18:10,560 --> 01:18:12,920
Speaker 2: had wanted to say to me. She told me that

1617
01:18:13,040 --> 01:18:16,000
Speaker 2: she truly loved me, but after we discussed getting married,

1618
01:18:16,360 --> 01:18:19,479
Speaker 2: she started feeling scared of the next big step. She

1619
01:18:19,640 --> 01:18:23,320
Speaker 2: thought it was normal, yeah iRED cold feet. She thought

1620
01:18:23,400 --> 01:18:26,760
Speaker 2: those feelings were normal and would go away, so she

1621
01:18:26,920 --> 01:18:30,479
Speaker 2: decided not to discuss her concerns with me. It kept

1622
01:18:30,640 --> 01:18:33,400
Speaker 2: on eating at her from the inside, and she made

1623
01:18:33,479 --> 01:18:36,719
Speaker 2: a mistake to talk to Mindy about them. She said

1624
01:18:36,880 --> 01:18:39,160
Speaker 2: that she wanted to. She said that she wanted to

1625
01:18:39,200 --> 01:18:42,560
Speaker 2: say everything to me now, so I don't get secondhand

1626
01:18:42,640 --> 01:18:45,479
Speaker 2: information about why she was distant and broke up with me.

1627
01:18:46,160 --> 01:18:47,600
Speaker 3: She said that her parents.

1628
01:18:47,400 --> 01:18:50,800
Speaker 2: Had a very rocky marriage, though they were together until

1629
01:18:50,840 --> 01:18:53,759
Speaker 2: her mom passed away in twenty twenty one during the pandemic.

1630
01:18:54,240 --> 01:18:57,360
Speaker 2: Her parents argued constantly, and she always thought her mom

1631
01:18:57,520 --> 01:19:01,080
Speaker 2: did not love her dad. However, her mom was extremely

1632
01:19:01,200 --> 01:19:04,000
Speaker 2: dependent on him for everything, and her dad knew it

1633
01:19:04,160 --> 01:19:08,160
Speaker 2: and hence he did not treat her well. She never

1634
01:19:08,240 --> 01:19:11,639
Speaker 2: wanted to be like her mom after seeing their marriage. However,

1635
01:19:11,920 --> 01:19:14,760
Speaker 2: as we lived together, she started seeing some of those

1636
01:19:14,840 --> 01:19:18,639
Speaker 2: issues in our relationship. For example, when we met, Julie

1637
01:19:18,720 --> 01:19:20,840
Speaker 2: had a lot of credit card debt and was bad

1638
01:19:20,880 --> 01:19:23,679
Speaker 2: at managing her money. I helped her with that, even

1639
01:19:23,760 --> 01:19:26,599
Speaker 2: though we have separate finances. I ended up managing all

1640
01:19:26,640 --> 01:19:31,000
Speaker 2: of her finances, investments, etc. At her request, to the

1641
01:19:31,120 --> 01:19:34,559
Speaker 2: point that she did not know or understand exactly where

1642
01:19:34,680 --> 01:19:36,120
Speaker 2: her money was.

1643
01:19:38,520 --> 01:19:39,719
Speaker 3: Real quick, is that a red flag?

1644
01:19:40,400 --> 01:19:43,840
Speaker 1: Is that Julie doesn't know where her money because is

1645
01:19:43,880 --> 01:19:44,600
Speaker 1: managing all it.

1646
01:19:44,800 --> 01:19:48,080
Speaker 3: OP came in at her request.

1647
01:19:48,800 --> 01:19:51,320
Speaker 2: OP came to help her manage her finances, but managed

1648
01:19:51,360 --> 01:19:54,080
Speaker 2: to finances to a point where Julie did not know

1649
01:19:54,240 --> 01:19:54,880
Speaker 2: what was going on.

1650
01:19:56,040 --> 01:20:01,080
Speaker 1: Hmmm, is that a red flag? I mean, it's definitely

1651
01:20:01,840 --> 01:20:04,400
Speaker 1: not like you should have an understanding of your finances.

1652
01:20:04,520 --> 01:20:06,920
Speaker 1: But like we were, this is not a good example,

1653
01:20:07,000 --> 01:20:10,720
Speaker 1: but we were talking about a relationship earlier where you

1654
01:20:10,880 --> 01:20:13,479
Speaker 1: had the husband managing all the finances and it was

1655
01:20:13,640 --> 01:20:17,400
Speaker 1: like a way of controlling the wife. I don't think

1656
01:20:17,439 --> 01:20:22,200
Speaker 1: this is what is happening here Necessarily but I think

1657
01:20:22,280 --> 01:20:25,080
Speaker 1: you should even you should you should know a little bit,

1658
01:20:25,240 --> 01:20:28,160
Speaker 1: even if even if like, yeah, you should know a

1659
01:20:28,160 --> 01:20:29,240
Speaker 1: little bit, you should know a little bit.

1660
01:20:29,400 --> 01:20:32,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, And I think it's it's possible. And I think

1661
01:20:32,800 --> 01:20:34,840
Speaker 2: this is what they're kind of leading up to. Uh

1662
01:20:35,240 --> 01:20:39,599
Speaker 2: that maybe Julie like doesn't you know, like budgeting and stuff,

1663
01:20:39,640 --> 01:20:41,760
Speaker 2: and so she kind of ignored it like she did

1664
01:20:41,800 --> 01:20:42,400
Speaker 2: in the first place.

1665
01:20:42,520 --> 01:20:45,000
Speaker 1: Maybe she's like, we're gonna be married, so and he's

1666
01:20:45,000 --> 01:20:47,400
Speaker 1: gonna take care of the find and finances when that happened.

1667
01:20:47,439 --> 01:20:49,000
Speaker 1: So maybe that's fine. I don't know. I don't know.

1668
01:20:49,120 --> 01:20:51,240
Speaker 1: Is that a red flag? Let's let us know in

1669
01:20:51,600 --> 01:20:52,000
Speaker 1: the comments.

1670
01:20:52,120 --> 01:20:53,320
Speaker 3: Keep telling us ldies and gentlemen.

1671
01:20:53,720 --> 01:20:54,639
Speaker 1: Baby hm.

1672
01:20:55,400 --> 01:20:58,479
Speaker 2: She also said that we always enjoy making nice meals

1673
01:20:58,520 --> 01:21:01,200
Speaker 2: for dinner every day. However, when I work late, she

1674
01:21:01,360 --> 01:21:04,120
Speaker 2: completely loses any motivation to cook and ends up eating

1675
01:21:04,200 --> 01:21:08,880
Speaker 2: cheese and crackers like a toddler for dinner. Okay. She

1676
01:21:09,080 --> 01:21:12,120
Speaker 2: also complained that in the last four years of our relationship,

1677
01:21:13,280 --> 01:21:16,280
Speaker 2: I have never said no to her for buying anything.

1678
01:21:16,760 --> 01:21:19,160
Speaker 2: She feels that I coddle her and she just got

1679
01:21:19,240 --> 01:21:22,040
Speaker 2: comfortable with all of the luxuries that I can provide

1680
01:21:22,120 --> 01:21:26,080
Speaker 2: for her, it's your fault that I'm so dependent. Stop

1681
01:21:26,200 --> 01:21:29,559
Speaker 2: buying things from me, Stop being so nice. Be mean.

1682
01:21:30,280 --> 01:21:33,000
Speaker 2: She talked about this with Mindy, and while Mindy initially

1683
01:21:33,200 --> 01:21:36,000
Speaker 2: just was just listening to her, she told her around

1684
01:21:36,040 --> 01:21:39,759
Speaker 2: September that one of her cousins also have the same issue.

1685
01:21:41,320 --> 01:21:44,120
Speaker 2: She decided to stay away from her fiance for a month,

1686
01:21:44,280 --> 01:21:47,240
Speaker 2: and within a week she realized how much she missed

1687
01:21:47,320 --> 01:21:50,640
Speaker 2: him and never had doubts again. When Julie asked for

1688
01:21:50,720 --> 01:21:53,880
Speaker 2: a break, all she wanted to do was live with

1689
01:21:54,000 --> 01:21:56,240
Speaker 2: her best friend for a few weeks to see if

1690
01:21:56,280 --> 01:21:57,960
Speaker 2: she was too co dependent on me.

1691
01:21:59,439 --> 01:22:03,240
Speaker 1: Oh, so she realizes, She's realized, like, oh, I am

1692
01:22:03,400 --> 01:22:06,559
Speaker 1: so ridiculously dependent on this person. Let me see, let

1693
01:22:06,640 --> 01:22:07,240
Speaker 1: me let me go.

1694
01:22:08,960 --> 01:22:12,000
Speaker 2: Retain or regain reclaim. There we go. Thank you my

1695
01:22:12,120 --> 01:22:16,120
Speaker 2: self sufficiency and my independence. So I'm not coming in

1696
01:22:16,240 --> 01:22:18,280
Speaker 2: as like, Okay, I'm totally dependent on you. I'm a

1697
01:22:18,360 --> 01:22:20,800
Speaker 2: whole person. You're a whole person, and we're coming together.

1698
01:22:20,880 --> 01:22:22,439
Speaker 1: YEA. Now, I don't even know if a month is

1699
01:22:22,560 --> 01:22:25,120
Speaker 1: enough time to actually like understand that about yourself.

1700
01:22:25,160 --> 01:22:27,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, that is a good question, But I'll I guess

1701
01:22:27,240 --> 01:22:29,519
Speaker 2: I could see like if he's helping with dinners and

1702
01:22:29,560 --> 01:22:32,080
Speaker 2: stuff like that, Like thirty days of her eating cheese

1703
01:22:32,080 --> 01:22:33,479
Speaker 2: and crackers every dinner.

1704
01:22:33,560 --> 01:22:36,080
Speaker 3: It's like, okay, some some of the side, I guess,

1705
01:22:36,280 --> 01:22:37,120
Speaker 3: but didn't.

1706
01:22:37,200 --> 01:22:40,120
Speaker 1: She just proved like she like hasn't been taking care

1707
01:22:40,160 --> 01:22:43,880
Speaker 1: of herself in the time that they have been apart, right, Like,

1708
01:22:44,960 --> 01:22:48,240
Speaker 1: is she actually is she actually doing anything to We

1709
01:22:48,320 --> 01:22:50,360
Speaker 1: don't know? All right, well, I don't know. I want

1710
01:22:50,360 --> 01:22:51,640
Speaker 1: to see out in folts, let's keep going.

1711
01:22:52,200 --> 01:22:55,240
Speaker 3: She knew I was planning to propose during our Christmas

1712
01:22:55,320 --> 01:22:58,719
Speaker 3: trip to my parents' house, okay, and when I told

1713
01:22:58,800 --> 01:23:01,800
Speaker 3: her that she could not take a break, she just

1714
01:23:01,920 --> 01:23:03,920
Speaker 3: freaked out and broke up with me, as she did

1715
01:23:04,000 --> 01:23:06,560
Speaker 3: not want to be engaged without knowing for sure that

1716
01:23:06,680 --> 01:23:09,360
Speaker 3: we won't end up like her parents.

1717
01:23:09,560 --> 01:23:10,599
Speaker 1: She doesn't want to be controlled.

1718
01:23:10,760 --> 01:23:13,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, she had that fear of ending up like her parents.

1719
01:23:13,200 --> 01:23:16,680
Speaker 2: Basically we all do. After this, she asked me when

1720
01:23:16,680 --> 01:23:19,720
Speaker 2: I started meeting Mindy and how many times we met?

1721
01:23:20,200 --> 01:23:22,960
Speaker 2: I opened my chat messages with Mindy. That's smart and

1722
01:23:23,120 --> 01:23:25,720
Speaker 2: handed her the phone. Complete transparency.

1723
01:23:25,880 --> 01:23:29,240
Speaker 1: That's great. Yes, transparency is the best policy with love

1724
01:23:29,560 --> 01:23:30,920
Speaker 1: absolutely romantic partners.

1725
01:23:31,360 --> 01:23:34,040
Speaker 2: I told her, I met Mindy only once in September,

1726
01:23:34,360 --> 01:23:36,559
Speaker 2: where she told me that Julie wanted to break up

1727
01:23:36,600 --> 01:23:39,120
Speaker 2: with me because she was not happy with our relationship.

1728
01:23:39,600 --> 01:23:43,040
Speaker 2: I already had noticed Julie's dishavior, and when I asked her,

1729
01:23:43,200 --> 01:23:45,960
Speaker 2: the only answer I got was, I am fine, we

1730
01:23:46,080 --> 01:23:52,240
Speaker 2: are fine. Gentlemen, There's one thing I've learned. I am fine,

1731
01:23:52,960 --> 01:23:55,479
Speaker 2: we are fine, We are fine. Doesn't all with me. Man.

1732
01:23:57,600 --> 01:24:00,640
Speaker 3: Due to my insecurities. I try to hold on to

1733
01:24:00,760 --> 01:24:02,840
Speaker 3: Julie and started coddling her more.

1734
01:24:03,600 --> 01:24:12,840
Speaker 1: Ah, So when when Mindy was all like, hey, she's

1735
01:24:12,840 --> 01:24:15,960
Speaker 1: gonna break up with you, his response was to do

1736
01:24:16,040 --> 01:24:18,639
Speaker 1: the very thing that Julie did not want. His response

1737
01:24:18,760 --> 01:24:20,280
Speaker 1: was like, oh, if she's gonna break up with me,

1738
01:24:20,360 --> 01:24:21,760
Speaker 1: I need to make sure I'm there for her more.

1739
01:24:21,760 --> 01:24:24,280
Speaker 1: I'm doing all the nice things. But that's literally like

1740
01:24:24,600 --> 01:24:27,360
Speaker 1: Julie wanted what she wanted. Yeah, Julie wanted to be

1741
01:24:27,400 --> 01:24:32,439
Speaker 1: more independent, and so he's basically like, well, not like

1742
01:24:32,560 --> 01:24:35,720
Speaker 1: not swarming her, but not like like suffocating her in

1743
01:24:35,840 --> 01:24:36,240
Speaker 1: some ways.

1744
01:24:37,360 --> 01:24:40,760
Speaker 2: Honestly, I gotta say, Mindy at that point in this

1745
01:24:41,200 --> 01:24:42,519
Speaker 2: in the storyline must have been like.

1746
01:24:43,040 --> 01:24:47,880
Speaker 1: Dude, Mindy's playing some four d relationship chess. Like, all right,

1747
01:24:48,240 --> 01:24:50,080
Speaker 1: Mindy absolute dick wad of.

1748
01:24:50,160 --> 01:24:53,479
Speaker 3: Course, but a brilliant one bro, a brilliant dick.

1749
01:24:53,520 --> 01:24:57,080
Speaker 1: Great chess player. Man, Mindy needs to lead people into

1750
01:24:57,200 --> 01:25:02,439
Speaker 1: battle and like just play some so games because it's

1751
01:25:02,479 --> 01:25:06,439
Speaker 1: giving Voldemort. She's got all the power she was in

1752
01:25:06,640 --> 01:25:09,280
Speaker 1: like the ancient lores of kings and queens. She would

1753
01:25:09,320 --> 01:25:11,600
Speaker 1: have her own fiefdom for sure, she could win the

1754
01:25:11,680 --> 01:25:14,400
Speaker 1: Game of Thrones. Oh yeah, maybe, dude, she's she's going

1755
01:25:14,520 --> 01:25:15,479
Speaker 1: for the star cast.

1756
01:25:15,640 --> 01:25:16,240
Speaker 2: That's right. See.

1757
01:25:16,360 --> 01:25:19,520
Speaker 3: I put in that reference with very little tobaccoize.

1758
01:25:19,520 --> 01:25:21,960
Speaker 1: I thought, you you've seen the first season, the first season. Yeah,

1759
01:25:22,040 --> 01:25:22,840
Speaker 1: that's enough, Stark.

1760
01:25:22,920 --> 01:25:23,760
Speaker 2: I don't even know what that is.

1761
01:25:24,120 --> 01:25:26,360
Speaker 1: That's a big people who's that put f's in the

1762
01:25:26,479 --> 01:25:29,000
Speaker 1: chat bro for John not knowing his Game of Throne knowledge.

1763
01:25:29,120 --> 01:25:29,960
Speaker 3: I don't watch things.

1764
01:25:30,520 --> 01:25:31,000
Speaker 4: We know that.

1765
01:25:32,400 --> 01:25:35,639
Speaker 2: So, due to my insecurities, I tried to hold onto

1766
01:25:35,680 --> 01:25:38,680
Speaker 2: Julie and began coddling her, planning more dates, trying to

1767
01:25:38,720 --> 01:25:40,920
Speaker 2: spend more time at home with her, et cetera, et cetera.

1768
01:25:41,320 --> 01:25:43,719
Speaker 2: When Julie asked me for a break and to stay

1769
01:25:43,800 --> 01:25:45,680
Speaker 2: away from me for a few weeks, I thought that

1770
01:25:45,840 --> 01:25:50,600
Speaker 2: this was the final step before the breakup, which I

1771
01:25:50,680 --> 01:25:53,360
Speaker 2: mean that I can't. It can mean that sometimes, and

1772
01:25:53,479 --> 01:25:56,080
Speaker 2: I broke down. I fought with her, which led to

1773
01:25:56,200 --> 01:26:00,839
Speaker 2: our breakup and her moving out. At this point, Julie's

1774
01:26:00,920 --> 01:26:04,520
Speaker 2: voice started cracking up. She asked me when Mindy contacted

1775
01:26:04,560 --> 01:26:07,519
Speaker 2: you after the breakup. I pointed her to the messages.

1776
01:26:07,920 --> 01:26:11,160
Speaker 2: Mindy initially just started sending me memes to cheer me up,

1777
01:26:11,880 --> 01:26:14,200
Speaker 2: and I just used to respond with a thanks or

1778
01:26:14,200 --> 01:26:14,800
Speaker 2: a thumbs up.

1779
01:26:15,080 --> 01:26:20,120
Speaker 1: Bro, Memes are the first step. First step are That's

1780
01:26:20,120 --> 01:26:22,320
Speaker 1: how people work their way into your life. If they

1781
01:26:22,400 --> 01:26:25,160
Speaker 1: send you pictures of seals and they send you memes,

1782
01:26:25,760 --> 01:26:30,160
Speaker 1: and all of a sudden, it's and you're blinking. However,

1783
01:26:30,680 --> 01:26:31,800
Speaker 1: the messages.

1784
01:26:31,400 --> 01:26:33,960
Speaker 2: Started getting more and more frequent, and she offered to

1785
01:26:34,080 --> 01:26:36,559
Speaker 2: talk to me in case I needed help.

1786
01:26:37,040 --> 01:26:42,360
Speaker 3: The smoking gun Mindy's under fire baby.

1787
01:26:42,720 --> 01:26:44,960
Speaker 2: She asked me what I was doing for Christmas and

1788
01:26:45,200 --> 01:26:47,200
Speaker 2: New Year's and when I told her I was inviting

1789
01:26:47,240 --> 01:26:50,000
Speaker 2: a few friends over, she told me that she didn't

1790
01:26:50,040 --> 01:26:54,120
Speaker 2: have any plans for New Years, and so I invited Mindy.

1791
01:26:54,880 --> 01:26:57,320
Speaker 1: Dude, she's playing her cards so well.

1792
01:26:58,160 --> 01:27:00,720
Speaker 2: Julie stopped me there. She told me that she did

1793
01:27:00,800 --> 01:27:03,479
Speaker 2: not need to hear the details. After that, she told

1794
01:27:03,560 --> 01:27:05,920
Speaker 2: me that when she moved out of our house after

1795
01:27:06,000 --> 01:27:08,640
Speaker 2: our fight, she thought that she was just not ready to.

1796
01:27:08,680 --> 01:27:09,320
Speaker 1: Get married to me.

1797
01:27:09,800 --> 01:27:12,000
Speaker 3: She stayed with her friend for two weeks and then

1798
01:27:12,080 --> 01:27:14,880
Speaker 3: got her own new apartment in January. She told me

1799
01:27:15,040 --> 01:27:18,160
Speaker 3: that she was miserable and missed me badly. It became

1800
01:27:18,320 --> 01:27:21,000
Speaker 3: more and more accurate when she moved into the apartment

1801
01:27:21,040 --> 01:27:23,439
Speaker 3: alone and could not stay there even one night.

1802
01:27:23,720 --> 01:27:26,439
Speaker 2: Her best friend is currently with her. Staying there in

1803
01:27:26,520 --> 01:27:29,479
Speaker 2: that new apartment, she realized she could not live without

1804
01:27:29,560 --> 01:27:32,320
Speaker 2: me within a week of living and moving in there.

1805
01:27:32,960 --> 01:27:35,479
Speaker 2: When she asked one of our mutual friends on Saturday

1806
01:27:35,520 --> 01:27:38,080
Speaker 2: about how I was doing, she told her about the

1807
01:27:38,160 --> 01:27:41,000
Speaker 2: party and told her that Mindy was there.

1808
01:27:41,800 --> 01:27:44,559
Speaker 1: Bro, why does everyone freaking stern up this drama?

1809
01:27:44,840 --> 01:27:45,320
Speaker 2: Right? Come on?

1810
01:27:45,439 --> 01:27:47,120
Speaker 3: I mean, I guess or Julie did.

1811
01:27:48,280 --> 01:27:48,439
Speaker 2: Yeah?

1812
01:27:49,120 --> 01:27:49,679
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean.

1813
01:27:51,320 --> 01:27:56,240
Speaker 2: Well, actually, uh, I don't think she asked about Mindy.

1814
01:27:56,560 --> 01:27:58,439
Speaker 2: The person just offered that Mindy was there.

1815
01:27:58,640 --> 01:27:58,880
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1816
01:27:59,000 --> 01:27:59,200
Speaker 5: Yeah.

1817
01:28:01,560 --> 01:28:03,719
Speaker 2: It did not make sense to her why Mindy would

1818
01:28:03,720 --> 01:28:06,280
Speaker 2: be at the party. She concluded that Mindy and I

1819
01:28:06,520 --> 01:28:09,760
Speaker 2: were having an affair during our relationship. And that was

1820
01:28:09,800 --> 01:28:12,200
Speaker 2: the reason Mindy must have tried to break us apart

1821
01:28:12,479 --> 01:28:15,920
Speaker 2: by constantly telling her that she should not that Julie

1822
01:28:16,000 --> 01:28:19,519
Speaker 2: should not get married if she had any doubts. When

1823
01:28:19,600 --> 01:28:22,760
Speaker 2: she saw Mindy in our apartment on Sunday.

1824
01:28:22,960 --> 01:28:24,320
Speaker 3: She completely broke down.

1825
01:28:24,439 --> 01:28:27,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, of course, of course, yes, I mean even yeah,

1826
01:28:27,680 --> 01:28:29,800
Speaker 1: that's that is like the biggest betrayal too.

1827
01:28:30,320 --> 01:28:33,439
Speaker 2: However, when she learned that Mindy was also talking to

1828
01:28:33,560 --> 01:28:36,840
Speaker 2: me and telling me the opposite of things, she realized

1829
01:28:36,920 --> 01:28:40,759
Speaker 2: how naive she was to throw everything away without properly

1830
01:28:41,040 --> 01:28:42,240
Speaker 2: talking to me first.

1831
01:28:42,520 --> 01:28:45,920
Speaker 1: Doubt the people, check with the people that like like

1832
01:28:46,120 --> 01:28:50,559
Speaker 1: get I feel like you should give if you hear

1833
01:28:50,600 --> 01:28:53,240
Speaker 1: a rumor about someone or you have like a friend

1834
01:28:53,439 --> 01:28:56,280
Speaker 1: or someone who's like, I don't know, stern up drama,

1835
01:28:57,240 --> 01:29:00,919
Speaker 1: give the opportunity for that person that is the subject

1836
01:29:01,000 --> 01:29:03,720
Speaker 1: of the drama and the subject of maybe the mistrust,

1837
01:29:04,000 --> 01:29:08,000
Speaker 1: an opportunity to defend themselves, especially if it's a long relationship,

1838
01:29:08,120 --> 01:29:11,240
Speaker 1: before you like completely cut them out just based off

1839
01:29:11,320 --> 01:29:14,680
Speaker 1: someone's word. You know, because there are manipulators and there

1840
01:29:14,680 --> 01:29:17,880
Speaker 1: are liars out there in the world. You gotta protect yourself, y'all.

1841
01:29:17,760 --> 01:29:21,880
Speaker 2: Gotta stay protected y'all, So this doesn't happen to you

1842
01:29:21,960 --> 01:29:25,880
Speaker 2: don't have Mindy's in your life. Oh goodness gracious. As

1843
01:29:26,040 --> 01:29:28,800
Speaker 2: hurt as she is seeing me with Mindy, she also

1844
01:29:29,240 --> 01:29:31,880
Speaker 2: doesn't want to lose me. And I'm reading between the lines,

1845
01:29:31,920 --> 01:29:34,799
Speaker 2: but like as a friend, as a person in her life.

1846
01:29:34,880 --> 01:29:35,840
Speaker 3: So not in a relationship.

1847
01:29:36,040 --> 01:29:38,719
Speaker 1: But I mean it's probably been It's probably a little

1848
01:29:38,720 --> 01:29:40,880
Speaker 1: bit too soon to have that kind of relationship. Yeah,

1849
01:29:40,920 --> 01:29:43,920
Speaker 1: it takes a while for the flames to die and

1850
01:29:44,040 --> 01:29:48,160
Speaker 1: the friendship to solidify.

1851
01:29:47,800 --> 01:29:48,800
Speaker 3: The embOS to a rose.

1852
01:29:48,960 --> 01:29:52,400
Speaker 2: Yeah. She kept on calling herself an idiot and apologizing

1853
01:29:52,520 --> 01:29:55,559
Speaker 2: for not telling her concerns to me. Sooner. I sat

1854
01:29:55,680 --> 01:29:58,120
Speaker 2: next door and tried to hug her, but she moved away.

1855
01:29:58,840 --> 01:30:02,679
Speaker 2: She asked if I would willing to still be together?

1856
01:30:05,120 --> 01:30:09,599
Speaker 1: Willing to still be together? Yep, So Julie, after going

1857
01:30:09,720 --> 01:30:13,719
Speaker 1: through all of this, after being lied to by Mindy,

1858
01:30:14,240 --> 01:30:18,040
Speaker 1: after breaking up with Op, She's like, I want you

1859
01:30:18,400 --> 01:30:23,679
Speaker 1: back after OPI hooked up with Mindy. I wonder if

1860
01:30:24,080 --> 01:30:26,439
Speaker 1: I mean, like, it's it's just gonna be a hard

1861
01:30:26,520 --> 01:30:28,000
Speaker 1: thing to get through, Like they're gonna have to learn

1862
01:30:28,040 --> 01:30:28,960
Speaker 1: to trust each other again.

1863
01:30:29,320 --> 01:30:29,920
Speaker 3: That is true.

1864
01:30:30,040 --> 01:30:32,320
Speaker 2: That is true. But you know what, OP said, what

1865
01:30:32,520 --> 01:30:33,800
Speaker 2: as a response, what do you say?

1866
01:30:34,920 --> 01:30:39,360
Speaker 3: And I told her I would give anything to get

1867
01:30:39,760 --> 01:30:40,479
Speaker 3: her back.

1868
01:30:40,880 --> 01:30:46,000
Speaker 1: Really really, that's great, that's great, right, I mean, I'm

1869
01:30:46,040 --> 01:30:50,880
Speaker 1: glad they're finally communicating, like so, uh Samantha. Someone said,

1870
01:30:51,320 --> 01:30:55,400
Speaker 1: they're almost thirty and they can't communicate. Yeah, burning rosaid,

1871
01:30:55,400 --> 01:30:57,840
Speaker 1: can't believe everyone here is almost thirty and they still

1872
01:30:58,120 --> 01:31:01,240
Speaker 1: don't know how to communicate. At least they're at least

1873
01:31:01,280 --> 01:31:02,080
Speaker 1: they're learning now.

1874
01:31:02,200 --> 01:31:05,599
Speaker 2: They're breaking through now, and it seems like the power

1875
01:31:05,600 --> 01:31:10,720
Speaker 2: of the relationship is still is still prevailing. Yeah, at

1876
01:31:10,720 --> 01:31:12,439
Speaker 2: the end of the day, right here, right, I mean,

1877
01:31:12,840 --> 01:31:17,560
Speaker 2: my goodness, but but bo so she told me she

1878
01:31:17,720 --> 01:31:20,920
Speaker 2: was willing to forget everything that had happened, but she

1879
01:31:21,000 --> 01:31:23,240
Speaker 2: had a few conditions. Her first condition was that I

1880
01:31:23,400 --> 01:31:26,879
Speaker 2: cut contact with Mindy fair enough I blocked her everywhere

1881
01:31:26,960 --> 01:31:30,120
Speaker 2: and never contacted her again, or that I block her

1882
01:31:30,160 --> 01:31:33,120
Speaker 2: everywhere and never contact her again. If I see her

1883
01:31:33,240 --> 01:31:35,280
Speaker 2: standing in front of me, I act as if she

1884
01:31:35,479 --> 01:31:36,160
Speaker 2: is invisible.

1885
01:31:36,520 --> 01:31:37,280
Speaker 3: I was okay with that.

1886
01:31:37,720 --> 01:31:40,640
Speaker 2: Secondly, she had already signed up for individual therapy and

1887
01:31:40,760 --> 01:31:42,519
Speaker 2: is on the wait list. She wants us to do

1888
01:31:42,640 --> 01:31:44,760
Speaker 2: couples therapy, so that way we can talk about all

1889
01:31:44,800 --> 01:31:46,479
Speaker 2: the concerns we have and work through her.

1890
01:31:46,640 --> 01:31:49,040
Speaker 1: So smart, so smart. If you're really going to rebuild

1891
01:31:49,080 --> 01:31:50,200
Speaker 1: the relationship, you need.

1892
01:31:50,160 --> 01:31:51,040
Speaker 3: That one hundred percent.

1893
01:31:52,000 --> 01:31:54,560
Speaker 2: We also decided to hold off on our engagement or

1894
01:31:54,640 --> 01:31:57,360
Speaker 2: marriage until we can both get into couple's therapy. I

1895
01:31:57,560 --> 01:32:01,920
Speaker 2: was also okay with that too, another great idea. Finally,

1896
01:32:02,040 --> 01:32:04,439
Speaker 2: she wanted me to forget the last month as a

1897
01:32:04,560 --> 01:32:07,200
Speaker 2: bad nightmare and never talk about it again.

1898
01:32:08,800 --> 01:32:10,479
Speaker 1: I mean, this is that what therapy is for? To talk?

1899
01:32:10,640 --> 01:32:10,960
Speaker 3: I think.

1900
01:32:11,280 --> 01:32:13,400
Speaker 2: I think, yeah, like it's it's it's there is a

1901
01:32:13,439 --> 01:32:15,720
Speaker 2: little bit of some counterintuitive stuff going on. It's like, hey,

1902
01:32:15,800 --> 01:32:20,479
Speaker 2: let's go to like breakdown to observe and work on all.

1903
01:32:20,560 --> 01:32:23,759
Speaker 1: I see the communication almost breaking down before our eyes

1904
01:32:23,880 --> 01:32:26,560
Speaker 1: of this paradoxical desires.

1905
01:32:26,960 --> 01:32:30,600
Speaker 2: Oh and if I ever make a we were on

1906
01:32:30,720 --> 01:32:33,200
Speaker 2: a break joke, she would punch me in the face.

1907
01:32:34,479 --> 01:32:36,879
Speaker 2: This was the first time we both smiled.

1908
01:32:37,040 --> 01:32:39,840
Speaker 1: Oh okay, at least it's going better.

1909
01:32:40,640 --> 01:32:42,240
Speaker 3: I asked her what she was going to do about

1910
01:32:42,280 --> 01:32:45,759
Speaker 3: mindy as they worked together, we cannot forget.

1911
01:32:45,960 --> 01:32:48,519
Speaker 2: Yeah, dude, that's big, Yet you totally forgot about that.

1912
01:32:48,840 --> 01:32:51,560
Speaker 2: She said that The biggest punishment was for Mindy to

1913
01:32:51,720 --> 01:32:55,360
Speaker 2: know that she did not succeed in breaking up with us.

1914
01:32:57,120 --> 01:33:00,040
Speaker 1: Yo, that's yeah, okay, all right, all right, we're getting.

1915
01:32:59,800 --> 01:33:03,120
Speaker 2: St long like I could see Julie just walking back

1916
01:33:03,680 --> 01:33:08,719
Speaker 2: some Mandy, how's the weekend. How's the weekend? You're doing

1917
01:33:09,360 --> 01:33:13,640
Speaker 2: pretty sad. She wants Mindy to see how happy she

1918
01:33:13,840 --> 01:33:15,800
Speaker 2: is with me, and she wants Mindy to be there

1919
01:33:16,000 --> 01:33:19,080
Speaker 2: when she flaunts that big old engagement ring in the

1920
01:33:19,120 --> 01:33:24,599
Speaker 2: office and gets jealous when we get married. We hugged,

1921
01:33:27,960 --> 01:33:29,960
Speaker 2: We hugged, and I felt so relieved that I had

1922
01:33:30,000 --> 01:33:32,160
Speaker 2: a chance to make things right for her. I asked

1923
01:33:32,200 --> 01:33:34,799
Speaker 2: her to stay and she agreed. The rest of the evening.

1924
01:33:34,960 --> 01:33:37,439
Speaker 2: The rest of the evening was so nice. We ordered

1925
01:33:37,520 --> 01:33:40,360
Speaker 2: door Dash and watched reruns of Top Chef while cuddling

1926
01:33:40,560 --> 01:33:41,559
Speaker 2: on Oh that's.

1927
01:33:41,479 --> 01:33:44,240
Speaker 1: Exactly what you want, So cute, that's what you love

1928
01:33:44,360 --> 01:33:45,519
Speaker 1: to hear, so cute.

1929
01:33:46,120 --> 01:33:48,200
Speaker 3: In the morning, we discussed moving back in together.

1930
01:33:48,520 --> 01:33:50,759
Speaker 2: I want her to move back into our old apartment,

1931
01:33:51,080 --> 01:33:53,519
Speaker 2: but she wants a fresh start and asked me if

1932
01:33:53,600 --> 01:33:56,439
Speaker 2: I was willing to move into her new apartment. Her

1933
01:33:56,479 --> 01:33:59,640
Speaker 2: new apartment is tiny compared to our current one and

1934
01:33:59,800 --> 01:34:02,040
Speaker 2: all also not in the best neighborhood, but we will

1935
01:34:02,120 --> 01:34:04,120
Speaker 2: decide to talk about it more and designed later.

1936
01:34:05,720 --> 01:34:07,880
Speaker 1: Well, what do you got right for us?

1937
01:34:08,520 --> 01:34:10,599
Speaker 5: She just signed a lease and she's like, I can't

1938
01:34:10,760 --> 01:34:11,960
Speaker 5: I've put a deposit down there.

1939
01:34:12,120 --> 01:34:15,360
Speaker 2: I got it has bad vibes. Let's move to the

1940
01:34:15,479 --> 01:34:19,599
Speaker 2: worst part of her a cramp place in a terrible neighborhood.

1941
01:34:19,640 --> 01:34:24,240
Speaker 2: You need a fresh start, let's freaking go. I also

1942
01:34:24,360 --> 01:34:26,840
Speaker 2: will have to deal with the issue of having two

1943
01:34:27,400 --> 01:34:29,760
Speaker 2: twelve month leases and how to get out of one

1944
01:34:29,800 --> 01:34:30,040
Speaker 2: of them.

1945
01:34:30,160 --> 01:34:33,920
Speaker 1: Dude, this seems like a bad idea. Yeah, you don't

1946
01:34:33,960 --> 01:34:36,160
Speaker 1: need to sign a new lease just because there's like

1947
01:34:36,200 --> 01:34:38,680
Speaker 1: I don't know, mindy juices or just like sad tea.

1948
01:34:38,840 --> 01:34:42,519
Speaker 2: Let's also also there's way more like happy memories of

1949
01:34:42,560 --> 01:34:44,040
Speaker 2: the relationship in the old apartment.

1950
01:34:44,200 --> 01:34:47,760
Speaker 3: Yeah. If anything, the new apartment is tainted because she

1951
01:34:48,080 --> 01:34:49,520
Speaker 3: had to get that new apartment.

1952
01:34:49,160 --> 01:34:51,479
Speaker 1: Before, I know, because of mindy. I don't know. What

1953
01:34:51,560 --> 01:34:54,120
Speaker 1: do you guys think? Are you pro get new apartment

1954
01:34:54,360 --> 01:34:56,240
Speaker 1: or are you pro keep the old place?

1955
01:34:56,360 --> 01:34:57,559
Speaker 3: A new apartment or old apartment?

1956
01:34:57,680 --> 01:34:59,840
Speaker 1: Slurp up the MINDI juice good.

1957
01:35:00,000 --> 01:35:02,360
Speaker 3: It is gracious, but.

1958
01:35:03,000 --> 01:35:05,639
Speaker 2: Currently Julie went to her apartment after we got lunch

1959
01:35:05,720 --> 01:35:07,360
Speaker 2: to get some of her stuff for the week, and

1960
01:35:07,600 --> 01:35:10,519
Speaker 2: I am now writing this post. I just feel so

1961
01:35:10,840 --> 01:35:13,840
Speaker 2: lucky that I did not lose Julie despite my terrible

1962
01:35:13,880 --> 01:35:16,439
Speaker 2: actions during the last month. I just hope that we're

1963
01:35:16,479 --> 01:35:18,920
Speaker 2: able to work things out and get married soon. And

1964
01:35:19,040 --> 01:35:21,439
Speaker 2: this whole incident is just a small bump in our

1965
01:35:21,520 --> 01:35:22,680
Speaker 2: perfect relationship.

1966
01:35:24,560 --> 01:35:29,840
Speaker 1: Perfect relationship that's a little bit of a stretch perfect

1967
01:35:30,000 --> 01:35:32,000
Speaker 1: relations I don't know about that.

1968
01:35:34,080 --> 01:35:36,599
Speaker 2: I also don't know how to address the issue where

1969
01:35:36,640 --> 01:35:39,439
Speaker 2: she feels coddled by my behavior and feels like I'm

1970
01:35:39,479 --> 01:35:41,400
Speaker 2: making her code dependent on me, which is a little

1971
01:35:41,439 --> 01:35:42,160
Speaker 2: tough because he's.

1972
01:35:42,080 --> 01:35:44,320
Speaker 1: Just, you know, kind of trying to help stop doing nice.

1973
01:35:44,680 --> 01:35:47,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's just my personality and I need to work

1974
01:35:47,760 --> 01:35:50,360
Speaker 2: on that during my couple therapy. However, any tips from

1975
01:35:50,360 --> 01:35:52,559
Speaker 2: you guys are welcome on how to make her feel

1976
01:35:53,000 --> 01:35:56,120
Speaker 2: less codependent. PS thanks to everyone who checked on my

1977
01:35:56,240 --> 01:35:58,840
Speaker 2: health during the last few days via DMS and sent

1978
01:35:58,880 --> 01:36:02,840
Speaker 2: me messages for helpliness. Don't worry, I am a marathon runner.

1979
01:36:03,040 --> 01:36:05,320
Speaker 2: I am a marathon runner, and I don't give up

1980
01:36:05,640 --> 01:36:09,120
Speaker 2: that easy. And ladies and gentlemen, ladies and gentlemen. Yeah,

1981
01:36:09,200 --> 01:36:11,760
Speaker 2: we still have a few little quick relevant comments.

1982
01:36:11,439 --> 01:36:16,120
Speaker 1: But okay, I think let's die. Then John rightly put

1983
01:36:16,200 --> 01:36:18,320
Speaker 1: the camera on John for a second, trying to check something.

1984
01:36:18,360 --> 01:36:21,439
Speaker 1: But John dive into some of the comments that the

1985
01:36:21,560 --> 01:36:22,559
Speaker 1: people have been saying.

1986
01:36:22,800 --> 01:36:26,559
Speaker 3: Absolutely, So we have a few comments here.

1987
01:36:27,439 --> 01:36:31,040
Speaker 2: We have some from Lady Hayak keep the old place,

1988
01:36:31,280 --> 01:36:35,960
Speaker 2: so I personally am pro keeping the old place. We

1989
01:36:36,040 --> 01:36:40,920
Speaker 2: also had Leslie and Macderry I totally mispronounced that sorry

1990
01:36:41,160 --> 01:36:45,639
Speaker 2: saying old apartment and Luna Moon saying old apartment is better. Yeah,

1991
01:36:45,840 --> 01:36:49,439
Speaker 2: I am one hundred percent in on moving into the

1992
01:36:49,520 --> 01:36:52,920
Speaker 2: old apartment. Again, I think that they had more happy memories.

1993
01:36:53,160 --> 01:36:56,120
Speaker 2: They had more good things that happened in the old

1994
01:36:56,160 --> 01:37:00,200
Speaker 2: apartment than the new apartment, which is literally completely and

1995
01:37:00,560 --> 01:37:06,439
Speaker 2: utterly tainted. I also wonder from you all if you

1996
01:37:06,479 --> 01:37:12,040
Speaker 2: could throw some hold on red flags in the comments

1997
01:37:12,080 --> 01:37:15,080
Speaker 2: below and tell me if you think it was a

1998
01:37:15,160 --> 01:37:20,800
Speaker 2: red flag for Julie no longer wanting to discuss this

1999
01:37:20,920 --> 01:37:25,439
Speaker 2: incident ever again, because I do think that you know,

2000
01:37:26,280 --> 01:37:30,120
Speaker 2: it was something that is worth discussing, especially the fact

2001
01:37:30,160 --> 01:37:30,640
Speaker 2: that they're going on.

2002
01:37:30,760 --> 01:37:33,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean it's It's like like you're gonna have

2003
01:37:33,800 --> 01:37:36,040
Speaker 1: to look under it at some point, because I think

2004
01:37:36,080 --> 01:37:37,960
Speaker 1: what will happen if you don't look at it is

2005
01:37:38,000 --> 01:37:39,160
Speaker 1: they'll be building resentment.

2006
01:37:39,720 --> 01:37:42,679
Speaker 2: What Jane Jackson says, just throw out the old sheets

2007
01:37:43,880 --> 01:37:49,920
Speaker 2: the only thing we gotta get at it here gracious,

2008
01:37:49,960 --> 01:37:52,559
Speaker 2: oh oh and then wow. Further on that, Bernie Gross says,

2009
01:37:52,640 --> 01:37:54,519
Speaker 2: buy a new mattress. I wouldn't be able to sleep

2010
01:37:54,600 --> 01:37:56,400
Speaker 2: in the same bed as Mindy. I mean, you know what,

2011
01:37:56,560 --> 01:37:58,640
Speaker 2: getting rid of the sheets, getting rid of the mattress.

2012
01:37:58,320 --> 01:38:01,920
Speaker 1: But deeper than getting a new in a bad neighborhood. Yes,

2013
01:38:02,040 --> 01:38:05,960
Speaker 1: that's all right, Yes, but I uh do have some

2014
01:38:06,040 --> 01:38:09,080
Speaker 1: relevant comments. We have some quick ones too, let's hit it.

2015
01:38:09,160 --> 01:38:12,200
Speaker 1: But we do have another story coming. So uh just

2016
01:38:12,479 --> 01:38:15,559
Speaker 1: get in your seat and get ready because we're we're going.

2017
01:38:15,600 --> 01:38:17,640
Speaker 1: We're gonna go hard on this tream. This tream is

2018
01:38:17,680 --> 01:38:20,519
Speaker 1: going for a while. That is correct, Stay around, ladies

2019
01:38:20,520 --> 01:38:23,840
Speaker 1: and gentlemen. First one comes from Debbie Coleman ten ten

2020
01:38:24,240 --> 01:38:30,479
Speaker 1: So what happened to Mindy? Op responds, no idea. As

2021
01:38:30,520 --> 01:38:32,080
Speaker 1: far as I'm concerned, she doesn't exist.

2022
01:38:32,120 --> 01:38:34,760
Speaker 2: Because remember, one of the conditions is to go completely

2023
01:38:35,000 --> 01:38:38,840
Speaker 2: no contact potentially, which is smart. Yeah. Ocean Breeze one

2024
01:38:38,880 --> 01:38:41,439
Speaker 2: two three says, so it was Mindy who suggested to

2025
01:38:41,520 --> 01:38:45,000
Speaker 2: Julie that you take the break. Op Yes, Mindy told

2026
01:38:45,120 --> 01:38:47,400
Speaker 2: Julie that she should take a break, and at the

2027
01:38:47,479 --> 01:38:50,400
Speaker 2: same time told me that Julie just wanted to break

2028
01:38:50,479 --> 01:38:52,680
Speaker 2: up with me because she was unhappy with me.

2029
01:38:53,479 --> 01:38:54,320
Speaker 3: I thought the break.

2030
01:38:55,000 --> 01:38:56,960
Speaker 2: I thought a break meant that she wanted to move

2031
01:38:57,000 --> 01:38:59,160
Speaker 2: away and I would never see her again if I

2032
01:38:59,240 --> 01:39:02,840
Speaker 2: said yes. Eight Marshmallows a great username says, I don't

2033
01:39:02,920 --> 01:39:05,280
Speaker 2: know how you can make someone who can't even stay

2034
01:39:05,320 --> 01:39:08,200
Speaker 2: alone in their part in their own apartment less codependent.

2035
01:39:08,640 --> 01:39:11,280
Speaker 2: She needs her own therapist to make that happen, or

2036
01:39:11,400 --> 01:39:14,360
Speaker 2: she will again blame you for quote unquote making her

2037
01:39:14,439 --> 01:39:17,360
Speaker 2: that way. Opie says, yes, she is looking for one

2038
01:39:17,439 --> 01:39:19,639
Speaker 2: right now. I have been in therapy and it takes

2039
01:39:19,680 --> 01:39:21,439
Speaker 2: time to find the right therapist that helps you.

2040
01:39:21,840 --> 01:39:24,880
Speaker 3: Big facts. At least now we have discussed.

2041
01:39:24,439 --> 01:39:26,600
Speaker 2: This issue, so it will be easier for us to

2042
01:39:26,680 --> 01:39:29,920
Speaker 2: see the signs and work on them together.

2043
01:39:31,040 --> 01:39:34,960
Speaker 1: All right, Well, I progress, progress, progress, and that's all

2044
01:39:35,040 --> 01:39:38,080
Speaker 1: way that we could ask for. Definitely a way better

2045
01:39:38,240 --> 01:39:43,800
Speaker 1: place than we were. Goodness, Yeah, that was That was wild.

2046
01:39:43,880 --> 01:39:45,920
Speaker 1: And I'm glad they cut off contact with Mindy, which

2047
01:39:46,200 --> 01:39:48,720
Speaker 1: seems like the right thing to do. Yes, but I

2048
01:39:48,880 --> 01:39:50,640
Speaker 1: also am glad that you guys are not cutting off

2049
01:39:50,720 --> 01:39:54,599
Speaker 1: contact with us because Jack Glen Dive, we love you too.

2050
01:39:54,680 --> 01:39:58,040
Speaker 1: Thank you for saying that you love us, And Nicole

2051
01:39:58,080 --> 01:40:02,040
Speaker 1: Stewart says, perfect long lives. I enjoy watching your videos. Well,

2052
01:40:02,200 --> 01:40:05,200
Speaker 1: get buckled out because we are about to get into

2053
01:40:05,240 --> 01:40:07,800
Speaker 1: another story. So, oh man, this is a great one.

2054
01:40:07,960 --> 01:40:12,000
Speaker 1: Am the a hole for revealing my brother's body count

2055
01:40:12,520 --> 01:40:19,840
Speaker 1: to his fiance? What do you think?

2056
01:40:19,920 --> 01:40:25,919
Speaker 2: John? Yeah? Yeah, why you gotta be This is information

2057
01:40:26,200 --> 01:40:30,080
Speaker 2: you don't need to be now. Now, Now the two

2058
01:40:30,160 --> 01:40:33,200
Speaker 2: of them in the relationship, they can discuss that.

2059
01:40:33,400 --> 01:40:36,439
Speaker 3: Discuss that totally. Hey, talk about it one hundred percent.

2060
01:40:36,680 --> 01:40:39,680
Speaker 3: But you last time I checked, my sister are not

2061
01:40:39,880 --> 01:40:41,520
Speaker 3: in mar ral matic relationships.

2062
01:40:42,360 --> 01:40:47,760
Speaker 2: Hello, Also put your body counts at the job, Sam

2063
01:40:47,840 --> 01:40:51,000
Speaker 2: and John being ready by yeah, all right, so we're

2064
01:40:51,000 --> 01:40:51,639
Speaker 2: not hydriating.

2065
01:40:52,400 --> 01:40:55,280
Speaker 1: This is actually very uh, this is this is this

2066
01:40:55,400 --> 01:40:58,160
Speaker 1: is very very recent. In January nineteen twenty twenty four,

2067
01:40:58,280 --> 01:41:01,800
Speaker 1: so I thirty female without having a girl's night with

2068
01:41:01,920 --> 01:41:06,000
Speaker 1: my little brothers. Twenty eight female, my fiance twenty four female.

2069
01:41:06,360 --> 01:41:10,160
Speaker 1: They recently got engaged after dating for about a year. Congrats,

2070
01:41:10,240 --> 01:41:12,559
Speaker 1: there you go. I enjoy hanging out with my soon

2071
01:41:12,680 --> 01:41:14,880
Speaker 1: to be sister in law, and this was one of

2072
01:41:15,000 --> 01:41:17,880
Speaker 1: the only times I've hung out with her without my

2073
01:41:18,000 --> 01:41:20,559
Speaker 1: brother in to So we were all having a ball

2074
01:41:20,680 --> 01:41:22,320
Speaker 1: and most of us were a bit tipsy, and she

2075
01:41:22,400 --> 01:41:26,120
Speaker 1: started asking me about my marriage and some more intimate

2076
01:41:26,280 --> 01:41:29,200
Speaker 1: questions like how does it feel to be with one

2077
01:41:29,360 --> 01:41:31,160
Speaker 1: person for the rest of your life? And all that

2078
01:41:31,320 --> 01:41:35,400
Speaker 1: jazz you can be able to do it. Following the conversation,

2079
01:41:35,640 --> 01:41:38,800
Speaker 1: someone in the group asked everyone how many folks each

2080
01:41:38,960 --> 01:41:43,400
Speaker 1: gal has slept with. I honestly wasn't comfortable with the conversation,

2081
01:41:43,760 --> 01:41:45,800
Speaker 1: but my soon to be sister in law sort of

2082
01:41:46,160 --> 01:41:49,120
Speaker 1: took hold of the topic and mentioned that her and

2083
01:41:49,240 --> 01:41:53,280
Speaker 1: my brother don't concern themselves with each other's pass which

2084
01:41:53,280 --> 01:41:54,599
Speaker 1: I think is someone healthy.

2085
01:41:55,040 --> 01:41:57,400
Speaker 2: Right, Yeah, it's not necessarily you're not sitting like, all right,

2086
01:41:57,720 --> 01:41:58,880
Speaker 2: how many people you bang?

2087
01:41:59,000 --> 01:41:59,200
Speaker 3: Brother?

2088
01:41:59,800 --> 01:42:04,200
Speaker 1: I don't feel like I feel like it's fairly unrelevant,

2089
01:42:04,360 --> 01:42:07,599
Speaker 1: at least to me. But her words were the past

2090
01:42:07,840 --> 01:42:10,559
Speaker 1: stays in the past, and if he slept with twenty women?

2091
01:42:11,080 --> 01:42:13,120
Speaker 1: That does not matter to her.

2092
01:42:13,520 --> 01:42:14,240
Speaker 2: What about thirty?

2093
01:42:14,640 --> 01:42:17,439
Speaker 1: What about forty? What about fifty? I actually actually have

2094
01:42:17,479 --> 01:42:20,960
Speaker 1: a question. Is there a deal breaker number for the

2095
01:42:21,080 --> 01:42:24,559
Speaker 1: amount of people someone slept with? Like, so like body

2096
01:42:24,600 --> 01:42:29,040
Speaker 1: count forty thousand? Yeah, forty thousand, assuming they're like they're like,

2097
01:42:29,120 --> 01:42:31,920
Speaker 1: you know, still healthy and all that. You know that

2098
01:42:32,040 --> 01:42:34,240
Speaker 1: all is yeah, let us know. Do you have a

2099
01:42:34,320 --> 01:42:37,759
Speaker 1: deal breaker a body count? But Opie says, I agree

2100
01:42:37,760 --> 01:42:40,960
Speaker 1: with her, But this is where I probably messed up.

2101
01:42:41,760 --> 01:42:45,799
Speaker 1: A little brother was somewhat adventurous in his late teens

2102
01:42:46,000 --> 01:42:48,920
Speaker 1: early twenties. He was a college athlete.

2103
01:42:48,600 --> 01:42:51,120
Speaker 2: And in a frat. Oh boy, but I see you

2104
01:42:51,200 --> 01:42:53,439
Speaker 2: in the comments if you know what's what we're about

2105
01:42:53,479 --> 01:42:53,800
Speaker 2: to see?

2106
01:42:53,880 --> 01:42:57,439
Speaker 1: And also, can you guess what the body count is?

2107
01:42:57,600 --> 01:42:57,920
Speaker 2: Guess it?

2108
01:42:58,439 --> 01:43:00,200
Speaker 1: As we went to the same college, we had a

2109
01:43:00,240 --> 01:43:03,040
Speaker 1: lot of mutual friends. And this is information that was

2110
01:43:03,160 --> 01:43:06,000
Speaker 1: made aware to me without my wanting. So I know

2111
01:43:06,600 --> 01:43:11,040
Speaker 1: the ballpark of his body count is well over fifty women,

2112
01:43:11,240 --> 01:43:15,120
Speaker 1: probably closer to one hundred. And my brother confirmed this

2113
01:43:15,240 --> 01:43:17,280
Speaker 1: to me when I asked him if he was being

2114
01:43:17,360 --> 01:43:19,680
Speaker 1: safe with decisions at the time, eg. Going to the

2115
01:43:19,840 --> 01:43:22,880
Speaker 1: doctor and getting tested and such. She followed up her

2116
01:43:22,920 --> 01:43:25,920
Speaker 1: comment with something like and even if it was a

2117
01:43:26,240 --> 01:43:30,000
Speaker 1: huge number like thirty five people or so, I wouldn't care.

2118
01:43:31,800 --> 01:43:36,040
Speaker 1: Her saying that prompted me to ask what if it

2119
01:43:36,200 --> 01:43:42,280
Speaker 1: was fifty? Which also at least he's using the conservative

2120
01:43:42,360 --> 01:43:45,120
Speaker 1: side to the scale, he said fifty hundred. But all right,

2121
01:43:45,640 --> 01:43:50,680
Speaker 1: stopping right here? Is it a red flag one of

2122
01:43:50,840 --> 01:43:54,240
Speaker 1: op to say this is it? And also like like,

2123
01:43:54,400 --> 01:43:57,400
Speaker 1: what do you think of op saying asking that question?

2124
01:43:58,520 --> 01:44:01,360
Speaker 3: Okay? So and again so this is Opie who is

2125
01:44:01,479 --> 01:44:02,880
Speaker 3: the sister?

2126
01:44:04,400 --> 01:44:08,200
Speaker 1: So just a reminder, I thirty female? Yep, I was

2127
01:44:08,280 --> 01:44:11,439
Speaker 1: out having a girl's net with my little brother's twenty

2128
01:44:11,560 --> 01:44:16,600
Speaker 1: eight male fiance twenty four female. So they're out, So

2129
01:44:16,800 --> 01:44:19,960
Speaker 1: thirty female Opie and twenty four female fiance.

2130
01:44:20,960 --> 01:44:21,880
Speaker 2: Opis sister.

2131
01:44:22,200 --> 01:44:23,439
Speaker 1: Opie is the sister of the brother.

2132
01:44:23,640 --> 01:44:25,840
Speaker 3: Yes, and she's the one that was like, what about fifty?

2133
01:44:25,920 --> 01:44:30,200
Speaker 1: What about fifty again? Asshole or not?

2134
01:44:30,320 --> 01:44:36,920
Speaker 2: Asshole? I would say boink, asshole and red flag because again,

2135
01:44:37,080 --> 01:44:41,280
Speaker 2: like just by saying the question, you have now revealed

2136
01:44:41,800 --> 01:44:44,640
Speaker 2: the a number a number and honestly, what is she?

2137
01:44:45,040 --> 01:44:47,120
Speaker 2: What is what would any human want to they would

2138
01:44:47,120 --> 01:44:50,200
Speaker 2: want to know, curiosity will kill the cat. Yeah, so

2139
01:44:50,439 --> 01:44:52,679
Speaker 2: if she keeps going down the rabbit hole the fiance,

2140
01:44:53,400 --> 01:44:56,120
Speaker 2: is she gonna find out that Actually we're talking about

2141
01:44:56,200 --> 01:44:59,280
Speaker 2: air arrangement fifty to one hundred bodies.

2142
01:45:01,280 --> 01:45:05,960
Speaker 1: Do you think she's going to take the bait and

2143
01:45:06,080 --> 01:45:08,680
Speaker 1: go down the rabbit hole? Is Alice falling down the

2144
01:45:08,760 --> 01:45:13,479
Speaker 1: rabbit hole? Let's put our conspiracy theory hats on. What

2145
01:45:13,560 --> 01:45:13,920
Speaker 1: do you think?

2146
01:45:15,560 --> 01:45:16,080
Speaker 2: Absolutely?

2147
01:45:16,240 --> 01:45:19,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, absolutely gonna take the bait? Absolutely? Yeah? What do

2148
01:45:19,240 --> 01:45:21,719
Speaker 1: you guys think? But your answer is in the comments.

2149
01:45:21,880 --> 01:45:25,920
Speaker 1: Jeff says, Opie has sown a seed, but not as

2150
01:45:25,960 --> 01:45:27,040
Speaker 1: many as her brother.

2151
01:45:27,200 --> 01:45:30,400
Speaker 3: So that's amazing right now, by the way, off, Yeah,

2152
01:45:30,560 --> 01:45:31,280
Speaker 3: what a cute.

2153
01:45:33,520 --> 01:45:36,960
Speaker 1: All right, let's go down this hole just like Op's okay.

2154
01:45:37,000 --> 01:45:37,360
Speaker 4: Oh uh.

2155
01:45:37,840 --> 01:45:39,920
Speaker 1: She got a sort of strange look on her face

2156
01:45:40,280 --> 01:45:45,840
Speaker 1: and mouth the word fifty fifty, But I played it

2157
01:45:45,920 --> 01:45:48,599
Speaker 1: off like I didn't know what I was talking about

2158
01:45:48,800 --> 01:45:51,760
Speaker 1: and more so curious about what her cutoff range for

2159
01:45:51,920 --> 01:45:55,560
Speaker 1: a lot is. Fast forward a few days and I

2160
01:45:55,680 --> 01:45:57,680
Speaker 1: meet them both for lunch and she seems sort of

2161
01:45:57,800 --> 01:46:01,200
Speaker 1: sullen and my brother is being short with me. When

2162
01:46:01,280 --> 01:46:03,439
Speaker 1: she goes to the bathroom, I ask my brother, what's up?

2163
01:46:03,840 --> 01:46:07,240
Speaker 1: And he basically blames me for having revealed his past

2164
01:46:07,320 --> 01:46:11,479
Speaker 1: sexual history to his fiance and now she's acting strange

2165
01:46:11,560 --> 01:46:14,200
Speaker 1: towards him, which I guess, which is, you know what

2166
01:46:14,240 --> 01:46:17,200
Speaker 1: we were saying before, like transparency with your your partner,

2167
01:46:17,920 --> 01:46:20,759
Speaker 1: Like I feel like maybe being transparent about your past

2168
01:46:21,640 --> 01:46:23,439
Speaker 1: will make it so things like this don't happen.

2169
01:46:23,560 --> 01:46:24,760
Speaker 3: Drop the BodyCount, OPI is.

2170
01:46:24,760 --> 01:46:25,400
Speaker 1: Still the A hole?

2171
01:46:25,840 --> 01:46:28,519
Speaker 2: But yes, but but if they already knew, they already

2172
01:46:28,560 --> 01:46:30,639
Speaker 2: kne wouldn't be an issue. But if they already knew,

2173
01:46:30,760 --> 01:46:31,840
Speaker 2: would they have stayed together?

2174
01:46:32,120 --> 01:46:35,240
Speaker 1: True? I explained that it was a slip of the

2175
01:46:35,320 --> 01:46:37,320
Speaker 1: tongue and I didn't confirm any number. But now he

2176
01:46:37,360 --> 01:46:39,240
Speaker 1: has pissed in a couple of our mutual friends have

2177
01:46:39,439 --> 01:46:43,000
Speaker 1: let me know I have ft up. Am I the

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Speaker 1: A hole? And there is There is a relevant some

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Speaker 1: relevant comments and an update which we will read. But

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Speaker 1: what do you guys think? Is OP the A hole?

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Speaker 3: Let us know in the comments below?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and Joe, what do you think? I?

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Speaker 2: So let's break it down a little bit. Yes, she

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Speaker 2: did like ask a question, but the thing is, she

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Speaker 2: revealed the information in the question. I truly think that

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Speaker 2: the sister should have just kept her mouth closed.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, and a whole moved to ask the question.

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Speaker 3: Here's a question.

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Speaker 2: Would she be an a hole if she went to

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Speaker 2: the brother and was like, your fiance thinks thirty five

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Speaker 2: is a high number?

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Speaker 1: Maybe that I don't think so. Yeah, I don't think so.

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01:47:23,680 --> 01:47:25,720
Speaker 1: But I think like, like, hey, maybe this is something

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01:47:25,760 --> 01:47:27,840
Speaker 1: you want to get ahead of. Someone in the chat,

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01:47:28,240 --> 01:47:31,280
Speaker 1: is right if you scroll up a little bit they

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01:47:31,320 --> 01:47:36,679
Speaker 1: said a little bit more. Yeah, Transparency. Kim Kwant says

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Speaker 1: transparency is so important relationships, And I think it is

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Speaker 1: because it's like you're the truth comes out. The truth

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Speaker 1: comes out, and if you if it comes out from you,

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01:47:45,280 --> 01:47:48,040
Speaker 1: maybe it'll thinks will be a little bit easier.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Still OPI is the a hole to be clear, but

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01:47:52,640 --> 01:47:54,519
Speaker 1: much better to be fully upfront. So I don't think

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01:47:54,560 --> 01:47:56,880
Speaker 1: OPI would be the a hole for saying like, hey,

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Speaker 1: just heads up, maybe you should get ahead of this one.

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Speaker 3: So but in reality, OPI is to a hill by

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Speaker 3: art decree.

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01:48:02,240 --> 01:48:05,719
Speaker 2: But you you disagree, you want to let's talk about

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Speaker 2: let's come on and talk about get those comments.

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Speaker 1: Dustin melbote Line says, like, why is OPI out here

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01:48:11,360 --> 01:48:16,840
Speaker 1: thorough pots. Uh, because because OPI maybe likes it. Ope,

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Speaker 1: he wants this thorough little pot. Maybe OPI he's a cook,

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01:48:18,840 --> 01:48:20,840
Speaker 1: maybe a lot of op he is being controlled by

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01:48:20,880 --> 01:48:23,599
Speaker 1: a little French rat. Who knows. But let's get into

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Speaker 1: the relevant comments. So typical Internet seven thirty says you

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01:48:26,560 --> 01:48:29,080
Speaker 1: are the asshole. But I think you wanted her to

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Speaker 1: know once she said such a low number compared to

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01:48:31,200 --> 01:48:33,559
Speaker 1: the truth. I think you believe your brother was reckless

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01:48:33,600 --> 01:48:36,960
Speaker 1: and using women, so she needed to know his past. Personally,

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01:48:37,040 --> 01:48:39,320
Speaker 1: I bet he was reckless in using women, but I

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01:48:39,400 --> 01:48:41,439
Speaker 1: have to assume it was consensual. He was given the

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Speaker 1: opportunity to have a ton of sex and he took it.

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01:48:43,600 --> 01:48:45,799
Speaker 1: But I think only he should be the one discussing

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01:48:45,920 --> 01:48:51,280
Speaker 1: numbers with maybe not future sister in law thing opie. Uh,

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01:48:52,040 --> 01:48:55,240
Speaker 1: the commenter is jumping. Once you put that number in

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01:48:55,280 --> 01:48:57,639
Speaker 1: the air, it was over. She is now obviously hurt

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Speaker 1: to hear it. She may have believed it was high,

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01:48:59,520 --> 01:49:03,320
Speaker 1: but noting was easier. This is a very tough situation now,

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01:49:03,560 --> 01:49:06,840
Speaker 1: and their relationship may never recover, which I think could

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01:49:06,880 --> 01:49:09,040
Speaker 1: be true possible, or maybe it will, but it's going

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01:49:09,120 --> 01:49:11,400
Speaker 1: to take time. You force them to have a conversation

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01:49:11,520 --> 01:49:14,000
Speaker 1: they agreed to avoid, so be prepared to lose your

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01:49:14,000 --> 01:49:17,080
Speaker 1: brother for a while or possibly forever. I don't know

2234
01:49:17,160 --> 01:49:19,560
Speaker 1: if that may be true, but maybe I'm betting you

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01:49:19,680 --> 01:49:21,280
Speaker 1: meant no harm or malice, but now you have to

2236
01:49:21,320 --> 01:49:24,439
Speaker 1: live with the repercussions. Good luck repairing a relationship, and

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01:49:24,520 --> 01:49:26,840
Speaker 1: I hope they are able to move forward with theirs

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01:49:26,880 --> 01:49:30,680
Speaker 1: and hop he does respond. Yeah, I can accept I

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01:49:30,800 --> 01:49:32,640
Speaker 1: was totally the a hole in the situation, but I

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Speaker 1: really did not mean to be the a whole. For

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Speaker 1: what is worth, My brother and soon to be sister

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01:49:36,960 --> 01:49:39,160
Speaker 1: in law are fine now. She actually did text me

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01:49:39,560 --> 01:49:42,680
Speaker 1: sort of thanking me for alluding to it. In the end,

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01:49:42,760 --> 01:49:45,240
Speaker 1: it hasn't changed anything between them. My brother and I

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01:49:45,320 --> 01:49:48,200
Speaker 1: are all right. It really was just one lunch that

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01:49:48,360 --> 01:49:50,680
Speaker 1: he was like, what the F dude. In the end,

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01:49:50,800 --> 01:49:53,559
Speaker 1: he knows it was not out of malice, which is good.

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01:49:54,000 --> 01:49:55,640
Speaker 1: That is me if the relationship was strong enough to

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Speaker 1: whather it.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, one hundred percent.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. I would hope that the brother and sister will

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01:50:00,000 --> 01:50:03,240
Speaker 2: relationship would also be able to continue, which I think

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01:50:03,280 --> 01:50:03,519
Speaker 2: it will.

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01:50:03,560 --> 01:50:06,400
Speaker 1: And there are is a more relevant comments and an

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Speaker 1: update Okay, there we go. So Bori sty seventeen says,

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Speaker 1: what was the best possible outcome for this? In your head?

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01:50:14,120 --> 01:50:17,000
Speaker 1: Opie says, there just wasn't enough thought in term for

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01:50:17,000 --> 01:50:19,360
Speaker 1: the best possible outcome. I was just taken by surprise

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01:50:19,600 --> 01:50:22,599
Speaker 1: that her high theoretical number was so much less than

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01:50:22,640 --> 01:50:26,880
Speaker 1: his actual number, his actual bottom range number, his bottom range,

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01:50:26,960 --> 01:50:33,479
Speaker 1: emphasis on bottom. But uh, we have another update, so

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01:50:33,600 --> 01:50:36,519
Speaker 1: shall we get into its? Do it all? Right? So

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01:50:36,640 --> 01:50:39,640
Speaker 1: this is January twenty second, twenty twenty four. So this

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01:50:40,000 --> 01:50:42,760
Speaker 1: this is like a few days ago, less than a

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01:50:42,840 --> 01:50:46,600
Speaker 1: week ago. That's right, Kitty B Hello, Hello to you

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01:50:46,680 --> 01:50:50,880
Speaker 1: as well. I showed my brother the post after apologizing

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01:50:50,960 --> 01:50:54,640
Speaker 1: for my mistake, and mostly he laughed but was baffled

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01:50:54,760 --> 01:50:57,800
Speaker 1: at the hostel applies. My brother and future sister in

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01:50:57,880 --> 01:50:59,760
Speaker 1: law are fine. My future sister in law actually a

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Speaker 1: pro wich me privately and let me know she was

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01:51:01,600 --> 01:51:05,639
Speaker 1: happy to have the conversation now with my brother versus later.

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01:51:06,120 --> 01:51:08,240
Speaker 1: She did say it was a shock when he told

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Speaker 1: her his sexual history, but at that point I excuse

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Speaker 1: myself out of the conversation and let her know I

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01:51:13,960 --> 01:51:16,519
Speaker 1: would not be having any discussions about my brother's sexual

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01:51:16,600 --> 01:51:19,639
Speaker 1: history from here on out. My brother is not plotting

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01:51:19,680 --> 01:51:23,600
Speaker 1: his revenge like commenters and messengers implied. Damn rudd, it

2278
01:51:23,680 --> 01:51:25,720
Speaker 1: is really going after people's throats here.

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01:51:26,200 --> 01:51:27,000
Speaker 2: Goodness geez.

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Speaker 1: He understands that although this was not in my court

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01:51:30,880 --> 01:51:33,559
Speaker 1: to say, he probably shouldn't have waved it off at

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01:51:33,560 --> 01:51:36,720
Speaker 1: the early stages of their relationship like he had done. Yes,

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01:51:36,920 --> 01:51:39,479
Speaker 1: brother and future sister in law are still together. To

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01:51:39,560 --> 01:51:45,600
Speaker 1: the internet psychologists who diagnosed me with psychopathy and narcissism,

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01:51:46,120 --> 01:51:50,360
Speaker 1: you should consider touching some grass Ooh, I love terms

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01:51:50,800 --> 01:51:52,600
Speaker 1: for what it's worth. I also got a lot of

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01:51:52,680 --> 01:51:55,839
Speaker 1: messages telling me that they wished sexual history was discussed

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01:51:55,880 --> 01:51:58,400
Speaker 1: in greater detail with their partners prior to marriage. But

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01:51:58,439 --> 01:52:00,880
Speaker 1: I think is what we're talking about, like we're talking transparency. Yes,

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01:52:01,800 --> 01:52:04,600
Speaker 1: take that as you will. I also got messages that

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01:52:04,680 --> 01:52:09,000
Speaker 1: were pretty explicit in the opposite direction. For those who

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01:52:09,120 --> 01:52:12,200
Speaker 1: try to imply my brother and I have an incestuous relationship,

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01:52:12,320 --> 01:52:16,040
Speaker 1: oh dear, please close those corn tabs and wipe the

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01:52:16,160 --> 01:52:19,160
Speaker 1: cheeto dust off your fingers. Something I didn't mention was

2295
01:52:19,200 --> 01:52:22,439
Speaker 1: that I was a college athlete myself, and word travels

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01:52:22,479 --> 01:52:24,719
Speaker 1: fast in those groups. I'm close enough to my brother

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01:52:24,840 --> 01:52:26,839
Speaker 1: to ask if he was being safe with his choices.

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01:52:27,200 --> 01:52:30,439
Speaker 1: And that's how I know about his sexual past. And

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01:52:30,560 --> 01:52:34,559
Speaker 1: there is another relevant comments. But what do you think

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01:52:34,840 --> 01:52:37,840
Speaker 1: do you think Ope and the brother are too close?

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01:52:38,680 --> 01:52:42,040
Speaker 1: Do you agree with these Reddit Internet psychologists? What do

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01:52:42,120 --> 01:52:43,000
Speaker 1: you think? You know?

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01:52:43,160 --> 01:52:45,080
Speaker 2: I think by the mere fact of her wanting to

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01:52:45,200 --> 01:52:49,040
Speaker 2: back out of these body count conversations, it's clearly no.

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01:52:49,080 --> 01:52:49,599
Speaker 3: I'm just kidding.

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01:52:49,680 --> 01:52:52,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's no, nothing's going on here, it's this is

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01:52:52,680 --> 01:52:56,360
Speaker 2: just what it is like brothers and sisters.

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01:52:57,000 --> 01:53:02,120
Speaker 1: Really, I'm not asking my sister about her body count? Sure,

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01:53:03,120 --> 01:53:06,080
Speaker 1: but actually, which should we have? Sofia swap out for

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01:53:06,600 --> 01:53:09,080
Speaker 1: you if you wanted to eat and pee, and then

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01:53:09,120 --> 01:53:11,360
Speaker 1: we can keep going and then you can swap back

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01:53:11,360 --> 01:53:11,720
Speaker 1: in for me.

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01:53:12,040 --> 01:53:13,680
Speaker 3: We we can do that, we want to do that.

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01:53:13,800 --> 01:53:15,439
Speaker 3: We can bring Sofia in on the mat.

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01:53:15,520 --> 01:53:19,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, comment Sofia if you want Sofia to come

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01:53:19,280 --> 01:53:21,479
Speaker 1: in the chat, and then Riley maybe text Sofia to

2317
01:53:21,560 --> 01:53:25,080
Speaker 1: come on up here and I can read this relevant

2318
01:53:25,120 --> 01:53:28,280
Speaker 1: comment while it is coming up, but I'll also read

2319
01:53:28,360 --> 01:53:32,559
Speaker 1: some of your relevant comments. Lady Hike says, Geez, Reddit incest,

2320
01:53:32,680 --> 01:53:35,760
Speaker 1: they seem fine yeah, read it tends to jump to

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01:53:35,880 --> 01:53:39,560
Speaker 1: the like craziest collusions possible doing the most, and we

2322
01:53:39,960 --> 01:53:43,720
Speaker 1: do have a bunch more stories for y'all, so keep

2323
01:53:43,800 --> 01:53:47,280
Speaker 1: staying tune. I'm gonna read this relevant comment. Please help

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01:53:47,479 --> 01:53:49,800
Speaker 1: thirty three. So you got all pissy that you were

2325
01:53:50,000 --> 01:53:53,040
Speaker 1: rightly judged the a hole in your previous posts. So

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01:53:53,200 --> 01:53:57,479
Speaker 1: now you've posted again attacking the commenters again. You're the

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01:53:57,560 --> 01:53:58,000
Speaker 1: a hole.

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01:53:58,160 --> 01:53:58,920
Speaker 2: Damn read it.

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01:53:59,040 --> 01:54:02,920
Speaker 1: You're really leading up, He says. I'm not pissy. I

2330
01:54:03,040 --> 01:54:06,120
Speaker 1: take responsibility for my part and was the a hole

2331
01:54:06,160 --> 01:54:08,439
Speaker 1: in that situation, no doubt about it. I post this

2332
01:54:08,600 --> 01:54:11,439
Speaker 1: update because it was suggested by a few that I do,

2333
01:54:11,920 --> 01:54:14,120
Speaker 1: and a lot of folks were making assumptions that I

2334
01:54:14,360 --> 01:54:22,120
Speaker 1: ruined his relationship. Dude, Reddit is Reddit is rough. Dude, Hey,

2335
01:54:22,240 --> 01:54:27,560
Speaker 1: doing the most Reddit is rough. But yeah, yeah, Soriah

2336
01:54:27,720 --> 01:54:33,040
Speaker 1: Jade says, reddite gets so spicy sometimes. Robert Smart says,

2337
01:54:33,080 --> 01:54:34,360
Speaker 1: I just want to say this is kind of cool.

2338
01:54:34,440 --> 01:54:37,280
Speaker 1: I've never been in the comments of a live video

2339
01:54:37,360 --> 01:54:39,800
Speaker 1: where the readers interacting with the comments, and it's one

2340
01:54:39,840 --> 01:54:42,840
Speaker 1: of my favorite channels. Thanks y'all, Oh, thank you so much.

2341
01:54:42,920 --> 01:54:48,720
Speaker 1: We heart you too. Does Sophia know to come up yet, Riley, Sophia.

2342
01:54:50,120 --> 01:54:55,720
Speaker 1: They're chanting Queen Sophia. Sophia says, bring out, Sophia, Sophia,

2343
01:54:55,800 --> 01:54:59,840
Speaker 1: get over here. We're gonna get into this next story

2344
01:55:00,080 --> 01:55:04,520
Speaker 1: in a sec. But this is should I read the

2345
01:55:04,600 --> 01:55:08,320
Speaker 1: title while we're waiting for Sophia to come in.

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01:55:09,960 --> 01:55:10,400
Speaker 2: Let's do it.

2347
01:55:10,520 --> 01:55:15,120
Speaker 1: Let's do it. Okay, are you ready? My wife booked

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01:55:15,280 --> 01:55:21,240
Speaker 1: our anniversary trip without me. M shall we do it?

2349
01:55:21,360 --> 01:55:25,640
Speaker 1: Wife booked a trip without my wife booked my anniversary

2350
01:55:25,720 --> 01:55:28,800
Speaker 1: trip without me? Is that a red flag?

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01:55:29,320 --> 01:55:31,440
Speaker 2: Who else are you booking it with? Are you booking

2352
01:55:31,480 --> 01:55:33,480
Speaker 2: it without me and with somebody else?

2353
01:55:34,200 --> 01:55:37,480
Speaker 1: I feel like most likely? I feel like most likely

2354
01:55:37,600 --> 01:55:42,480
Speaker 1: that's what it sounded like. This comes from Big Apple Parade.

2355
01:55:42,960 --> 01:55:47,680
Speaker 1: All right, So Riley is just pulling up it right here. Yeah,

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01:55:47,800 --> 01:55:52,520
Speaker 1: Limester says, this is already bad. Yeah, it feels pretty bad.

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01:55:52,760 --> 01:55:53,560
Speaker 1: It feels pretty bad.

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01:55:53,600 --> 01:55:57,080
Speaker 2: I'm seeing a lot of red flags. Red flags in

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01:55:57,120 --> 01:55:57,480
Speaker 2: a chat.

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01:55:57,760 --> 01:56:03,040
Speaker 1: All right, let's get going into this. So my wife

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01:56:03,120 --> 01:56:06,840
Speaker 1: posted a question about this somewhere on reddits maybe here,

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01:56:06,920 --> 01:56:08,800
Speaker 1: I don't know, and now I can't find it first

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01:56:08,800 --> 01:56:12,480
Speaker 1: time using Reddit welcome he yo. She posted about me

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01:56:12,600 --> 01:56:14,600
Speaker 1: not wanting to go on an anniversary trip that she

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01:56:14,680 --> 01:56:18,040
Speaker 1: had planned. She showed me the responses, and some said

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01:56:18,240 --> 01:56:20,640
Speaker 1: I was checked out of the marriage. A lot of

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01:56:20,720 --> 01:56:23,680
Speaker 1: them said just to book the trip anyways, and I'd

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01:56:23,720 --> 01:56:26,920
Speaker 1: get over it. After she showed me the responses, we

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01:56:27,040 --> 01:56:28,960
Speaker 1: tried to talk it out, but she was mad that

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01:56:29,080 --> 01:56:31,760
Speaker 1: I couldn't give her a valid reason for not wanting

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01:56:31,800 --> 01:56:37,560
Speaker 1: to go. And Sophie don't want to hop in the chair. Yeah,

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01:56:38,200 --> 01:56:40,080
Speaker 1: so John and I can eat. Yeah, I get in.

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01:56:40,720 --> 01:56:47,720
Speaker 1: Sophia's coming in. Okay, So Sophia, the question is infidel?

2374
01:56:48,560 --> 01:56:51,800
Speaker 1: My wife booked our anniversary trip without me? Is that

2375
01:56:51,880 --> 01:56:52,520
Speaker 1: a red flag?

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01:56:53,880 --> 01:56:53,920
Speaker 2: What?

2377
01:56:54,360 --> 01:56:57,280
Speaker 1: Wait? Yeah, my wife an anniversary trip without me? Is

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01:56:57,320 --> 01:56:57,920
Speaker 1: that a red flag?

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01:56:58,080 --> 01:57:02,600
Speaker 4: Yes? Right, anniversary of their relationship. Presumably that's weird.

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01:57:02,840 --> 01:57:05,440
Speaker 1: So apparently, So to catch you up, the wife posted

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01:57:05,600 --> 01:57:08,280
Speaker 1: about him not wanting to go on anniversary trip that

2382
01:57:08,440 --> 01:57:10,520
Speaker 1: she had planned, and she showed me some of the

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01:57:10,560 --> 01:57:12,760
Speaker 1: messages saying I was checked out of the marriage. So

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01:57:12,960 --> 01:57:16,800
Speaker 1: now op is being like, all right, time to defend

2385
01:57:16,920 --> 01:57:20,480
Speaker 1: myself and defend my honor. Uh huh Okay. So after

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01:57:20,640 --> 01:57:22,720
Speaker 1: she showed me the messages, we tried to talk it out,

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01:57:22,920 --> 01:57:25,320
Speaker 1: but she was mad that I couldn't give her a

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01:57:25,400 --> 01:57:28,160
Speaker 1: valid reason for not wanting to go. Also, tell John

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01:57:28,200 --> 01:57:29,920
Speaker 1: that the food is right next to the door so

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01:57:30,080 --> 01:57:30,920
Speaker 1: he doesn't get hungry.

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01:57:31,120 --> 01:57:31,600
Speaker 4: I brought it.

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01:57:33,160 --> 01:57:34,680
Speaker 1: So she was mad that I couldn't give her a

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01:57:34,760 --> 01:57:36,960
Speaker 1: valid reason for not wanting to go. She said she

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01:57:37,040 --> 01:57:40,080
Speaker 1: hasn't traveled in over five years, and she was going

2395
01:57:40,320 --> 01:57:43,280
Speaker 1: either way. I kind of thought she'd eventually get over

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01:57:43,400 --> 01:57:47,800
Speaker 1: it and forget about the trip. Well she didn't. I

2397
01:57:47,840 --> 01:57:48,800
Speaker 1: don't think she got over it.

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01:57:49,200 --> 01:57:52,160
Speaker 4: Hold on before you go on, just to just see

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01:57:52,160 --> 01:57:54,040
Speaker 4: if I get this way. So they were going to

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01:57:54,080 --> 01:57:56,120
Speaker 4: go on an anniversary trip and then the husband was

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01:57:56,160 --> 01:57:56,840
Speaker 4: like I don't Oh.

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01:57:56,920 --> 01:57:58,360
Speaker 1: He was like, I don't want to go on anymore,

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01:57:58,480 --> 01:58:02,840
Speaker 1: and then yes, uh yeah, so OPI didn't want to

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01:58:02,880 --> 01:58:07,120
Speaker 1: go on the anniversary trip. Yeah, and then uh Opee's

2405
01:58:07,520 --> 01:58:10,000
Speaker 1: wife was like, I'm gonna go on it anyway.

2406
01:58:10,120 --> 01:58:12,440
Speaker 4: Okay, actually kind of I kind of vibe with it.

2407
01:58:12,560 --> 01:58:13,080
Speaker 4: I vibe with that.

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01:58:13,640 --> 01:58:13,840
Speaker 3: Yeah.

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01:58:13,960 --> 01:58:16,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, I craved Fried trick and says, that's so strange.

2410
01:58:16,880 --> 01:58:19,520
Speaker 1: I thought she went She meant she went alone.

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01:58:19,760 --> 01:58:19,960
Speaker 2: Yeah.

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01:58:21,200 --> 01:58:23,040
Speaker 4: Yeah, I was confused at first, but I think I'm

2413
01:58:23,080 --> 01:58:25,760
Speaker 4: on the same page. Yeah, I don't know a piece

2414
01:58:25,800 --> 01:58:27,360
Speaker 4: upset about that because I feel like if you if

2415
01:58:27,400 --> 01:58:28,760
Speaker 4: you don't want to go in the relationship or on

2416
01:58:28,880 --> 01:58:31,040
Speaker 4: the trip, too bad.

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01:58:31,680 --> 01:58:36,080
Speaker 1: Yeah. I don't think she's she's gone yet. Okay, she's

2418
01:58:36,120 --> 01:58:38,240
Speaker 1: not hasn't gone yet. So after she showed me the message,

2419
01:58:38,280 --> 01:58:39,400
Speaker 1: we tried to talk about, but she was mad. I

2420
01:58:39,440 --> 01:58:41,760
Speaker 1: couldn't give her a valid reason for not wanting to go.

2421
01:58:42,240 --> 01:58:44,880
Speaker 1: She said she hasn't traveled in over five years, and

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01:58:45,000 --> 01:58:47,600
Speaker 1: she was going either way. I kind of thought she'd

2423
01:58:47,640 --> 01:58:49,560
Speaker 1: eventually get over it and forget about the trip. Well,

2424
01:58:49,800 --> 01:58:52,560
Speaker 1: she took Reddit's advice and booked the trip anyways, but

2425
01:58:52,680 --> 01:58:55,000
Speaker 1: instead of booking it for the two of us, she

2426
01:58:55,160 --> 01:59:01,000
Speaker 1: booked it for her and a male coworker. Oh yes,

2427
01:59:01,240 --> 01:59:04,800
Speaker 1: a long weekend in the Caribbean with a male co worker.

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01:59:04,840 --> 01:59:07,240
Speaker 1: We're gonna pause right here. Is this a red flag?

2429
01:59:08,680 --> 01:59:11,440
Speaker 4: It could be, Okay, I don't think that going on

2430
01:59:11,480 --> 01:59:12,960
Speaker 4: the anniversary trip is a red flag.

2431
01:59:13,040 --> 01:59:15,720
Speaker 1: I think that I think going on the anniversary tip solo,

2432
01:59:15,880 --> 01:59:16,640
Speaker 1: it's like a trip.

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01:59:17,400 --> 01:59:19,280
Speaker 4: At that point, it's just a trip, and she has

2434
01:59:19,320 --> 01:59:20,440
Speaker 4: it on a new trip, and she wants to go

2435
01:59:20,480 --> 01:59:23,840
Speaker 4: on a ship. I don't know about inviting.

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01:59:24,800 --> 01:59:28,480
Speaker 1: A male coworker that it feels like revenge. It feels

2437
01:59:28,520 --> 01:59:30,800
Speaker 1: like revenge. Let us know in the chat if you

2438
01:59:30,840 --> 01:59:34,360
Speaker 1: feel like it's revenge. It feels a little bit like revenge. Lady, yeah,

2439
01:59:34,840 --> 01:59:39,160
Speaker 1: Zodiac says Major red. Elena says yes, Kim quant red Flag,

2440
01:59:39,240 --> 01:59:42,880
Speaker 1: red fave, red Flag, red Flag ferglicious, great name, red Flag.

2441
01:59:43,000 --> 01:59:46,280
Speaker 1: But living for the petty ness we are too, And

2442
01:59:46,360 --> 01:59:48,280
Speaker 1: so we're going to get into this next bit. I

2443
01:59:48,400 --> 01:59:50,640
Speaker 1: asked her if anything was going on between them, and

2444
01:59:50,760 --> 01:59:54,680
Speaker 1: she said no. Why did you think that I had

2445
01:59:54,720 --> 01:59:57,400
Speaker 1: no reason to believe she would cheat on me until today,

2446
01:59:57,840 --> 01:59:59,960
Speaker 1: which she is clearly going to do if she goes

2447
02:00:00,120 --> 02:00:03,360
Speaker 1: to resort with him. Oh that's that's a little maybe

2448
02:00:03,400 --> 02:00:04,000
Speaker 1: it's a little much.

2449
02:00:04,120 --> 02:00:04,880
Speaker 4: Maybe that's a jump.

2450
02:00:05,120 --> 02:00:07,000
Speaker 1: She's a good looking woman, but she has been very

2451
02:00:07,080 --> 02:00:09,360
Speaker 1: loyal for the past ten years. I am shocked. What

2452
02:00:09,400 --> 02:00:11,520
Speaker 1: should I do? How can I fix this? She thought

2453
02:00:11,560 --> 02:00:13,320
Speaker 1: I was checked out of the marriage, but it's clear

2454
02:00:13,760 --> 02:00:16,080
Speaker 1: she's the one giving up. Do you think like this?

2455
02:00:16,520 --> 02:00:20,280
Speaker 1: Do you think her going on a on a all

2456
02:00:20,480 --> 02:00:24,520
Speaker 1: you know, Caribbean, a Caribbean vacation? Is that was that

2457
02:00:24,720 --> 02:00:28,560
Speaker 1: established Yes, yeah, yeah, so there, so she is she

2458
02:00:28,680 --> 02:00:32,040
Speaker 1: booked a Caribbean long weekend in the Caribbean with a

2459
02:00:32,160 --> 02:00:33,000
Speaker 1: male coworker.

2460
02:00:33,560 --> 02:00:34,600
Speaker 4: Yeah, I think I think that.

2461
02:00:34,760 --> 02:00:37,000
Speaker 1: You think it's like that it's almost positive that they're

2462
02:00:37,040 --> 02:00:37,560
Speaker 1: going to hook up.

2463
02:00:38,120 --> 02:00:41,160
Speaker 4: No, No, I don't think that's a positive. I think

2464
02:00:41,200 --> 02:00:43,600
Speaker 4: it could happen. I think it's a little bit like

2465
02:00:43,640 --> 02:00:46,600
Speaker 4: I don't know if as partner would be super comfortable.

2466
02:00:46,440 --> 02:00:47,440
Speaker 1: I would not be comfortable.

2467
02:00:47,720 --> 02:00:51,240
Speaker 4: But after after establishing that this was originally going to

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02:00:51,240 --> 02:00:53,800
Speaker 4: be an anniversary trip and now she's a trip trip.

2469
02:00:54,440 --> 02:00:57,680
Speaker 1: But I feel but I feel like the doing it

2470
02:00:57,760 --> 02:01:00,000
Speaker 1: with a male coworker is revenge. Even if they don't

2471
02:01:00,080 --> 02:01:00,440
Speaker 1: hook up.

2472
02:01:00,560 --> 02:01:01,720
Speaker 4: I don't think they're going to hook up.

2473
02:01:01,760 --> 02:01:03,920
Speaker 1: But kids, well okay, so what they're stay in the

2474
02:01:03,960 --> 02:01:09,440
Speaker 1: same room, all right, Well, let's see it's out. I

2475
02:01:09,480 --> 02:01:11,280
Speaker 1: don't want to go because it's a long weekend in

2476
02:01:11,360 --> 02:01:14,360
Speaker 1: Canada and I'd rather just hang out at my cabin. Also,

2477
02:01:14,440 --> 02:01:17,240
Speaker 1: she arranged childcare. Oh, they have kids, but this way

2478
02:01:17,320 --> 02:01:19,680
Speaker 1: we won't have to worry about having someone watch the kids.

2479
02:01:19,880 --> 02:01:22,600
Speaker 1: The coworker, I don't know anything about him. She never

2480
02:01:22,680 --> 02:01:24,640
Speaker 1: talks about work. She goes to work and comes right

2481
02:01:24,840 --> 02:01:27,040
Speaker 1: back home, or she's not at work.

2482
02:01:27,120 --> 02:01:30,080
Speaker 4: Yeah the coworker, Oh no, no, like, oh, he should

2483
02:01:30,080 --> 02:01:31,280
Speaker 4: ask questions about her life.

2484
02:01:31,440 --> 02:01:33,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, you should know about the co workers.

2485
02:01:33,400 --> 02:01:34,400
Speaker 4: He should know about her work.

2486
02:01:34,960 --> 02:01:37,160
Speaker 1: But she's not at work, she's with the kids and

2487
02:01:37,320 --> 02:01:39,000
Speaker 1: is never on her phone. So if she's having a

2488
02:01:39,120 --> 02:01:42,400
Speaker 1: fair she's really darn good at hiding it. So we're

2489
02:01:42,440 --> 02:01:45,520
Speaker 1: gonna get into the top comments and an update. But

2490
02:01:45,560 --> 02:01:46,000
Speaker 1: what do you think?

2491
02:01:46,320 --> 02:01:48,200
Speaker 4: I feel like their relationship is not very good on

2492
02:01:48,320 --> 02:01:51,520
Speaker 4: both sides. Like, I mean, again, I don't really know

2493
02:01:51,600 --> 02:01:54,080
Speaker 4: what happened in the first half of this story.

2494
02:01:55,560 --> 02:01:57,760
Speaker 1: You came close to the beginning, Okay, Okay, then I.

2495
02:01:57,760 --> 02:02:00,880
Speaker 4: Guess I do. But it seems like they don't trust

2496
02:02:00,960 --> 02:02:01,280
Speaker 4: each other.

2497
02:02:02,320 --> 02:02:05,280
Speaker 1: And yeah, yeah it feels I mean, if this is.

2498
02:02:05,360 --> 02:02:07,400
Speaker 4: A revenge thing, then that's also not like a health

2499
02:02:07,480 --> 02:02:07,960
Speaker 4: It needs.

2500
02:02:07,880 --> 02:02:09,720
Speaker 1: To be a revenge thing, right for health? I don't know,

2501
02:02:10,040 --> 02:02:11,960
Speaker 1: it has to be a revenge thing. Yeah, because like,

2502
02:02:12,040 --> 02:02:13,840
Speaker 1: I mean, why would she do that? I don't know,

2503
02:02:13,920 --> 02:02:15,680
Speaker 1: what do you guys think as a revenge thing? We'll

2504
02:02:15,760 --> 02:02:17,960
Speaker 1: lead some of the comments as Stella Davis says, I

2505
02:02:18,080 --> 02:02:20,560
Speaker 1: love kids, but I wouldn't want them on my anniversary trip.

2506
02:02:21,200 --> 02:02:21,440
Speaker 2: Yeah?

2507
02:02:21,760 --> 02:02:25,080
Speaker 1: Oh u A groovy hippie chick says, is the coworker game?

2508
02:02:25,160 --> 02:02:27,080
Speaker 4: I was, That's what I was thinking, because I think

2509
02:02:27,120 --> 02:02:30,800
Speaker 4: that does death change everything? That changes things, because that's like, oh,

2510
02:02:30,920 --> 02:02:32,600
Speaker 4: we're best he's gone on a trip.

2511
02:02:32,760 --> 02:02:33,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, I was.

2512
02:02:33,920 --> 02:02:35,920
Speaker 4: I was thinking about But shouldn't.

2513
02:02:35,520 --> 02:02:37,080
Speaker 1: They kind of like if they're going to do an

2514
02:02:37,080 --> 02:02:39,600
Speaker 1: anniversary thing, shouldn't they kind of like agree on something

2515
02:02:39,640 --> 02:02:40,680
Speaker 1: that they both would want to do?

2516
02:02:42,880 --> 02:02:44,680
Speaker 4: Yeah? Yeah, but what do you mean?

2517
02:02:44,840 --> 02:02:45,040
Speaker 2: Yeah?

2518
02:02:45,600 --> 02:02:48,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, of course, I mean who who like, you don't

2519
02:02:48,520 --> 02:02:51,360
Speaker 1: book an anniversary trip for yourself? You you decide together

2520
02:02:51,440 --> 02:02:51,880
Speaker 1: on something.

2521
02:02:52,040 --> 02:02:56,600
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's true. I guess is the trip like coinciding

2522
02:02:56,720 --> 02:03:00,560
Speaker 4: exactly with the anniversary? Yes, okay, that's I don't know.

2523
02:03:00,680 --> 02:03:04,600
Speaker 1: Is it a red flag? Ben on the Move says,

2524
02:03:04,680 --> 02:03:07,920
Speaker 1: I think it's revenge. Janey Jackson says are they in

2525
02:03:07,960 --> 02:03:10,600
Speaker 1: an open relationship? I don't think so. There's no mention

2526
02:03:10,720 --> 02:03:13,800
Speaker 1: of that, And Sarah Badov says he's trying to save money.

2527
02:03:14,080 --> 02:03:16,680
Speaker 1: Do you know how much a cabin slash second house costs?

2528
02:03:16,760 --> 02:03:16,880
Speaker 2: Here?

2529
02:03:17,200 --> 02:03:17,680
Speaker 4: Where's here?

2530
02:03:18,240 --> 02:03:18,600
Speaker 1: Canada?

2531
02:03:19,600 --> 02:03:19,800
Speaker 2: Yeah?

2532
02:03:19,800 --> 02:03:24,840
Speaker 1: They're in Canada. Okay, so top comments Overrated New four

2533
02:03:24,960 --> 02:03:26,960
Speaker 1: two three said, why would you not want to go

2534
02:03:27,080 --> 02:03:28,600
Speaker 1: on a romantic trip with your wife?

2535
02:03:29,120 --> 02:03:31,000
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's what I was thinking. I'm like, why wouldn't

2536
02:03:31,000 --> 02:03:32,760
Speaker 4: you want to go on a fun little adventure.

2537
02:03:32,880 --> 02:03:36,960
Speaker 1: I don't know, maybe a homebody. Maybe Bodacius Shield says

2538
02:03:37,240 --> 02:03:40,080
Speaker 1: he'd rather sit around his cabin doing nothing, apparently, while

2539
02:03:40,120 --> 02:03:43,600
Speaker 1: I wonder why his wife is losing interest in this marriage.

2540
02:03:43,800 --> 02:03:46,160
Speaker 1: And Bella Burr says, your wife brought up a want

2541
02:03:46,240 --> 02:03:48,600
Speaker 1: to you. You didn't listen, ignored her and couldn't explain

2542
02:03:48,640 --> 02:03:51,120
Speaker 1: to her why you can't meet her, and and are

2543
02:03:51,240 --> 02:03:53,480
Speaker 1: shocked she is checking out of the marriage.

2544
02:03:54,160 --> 02:03:55,360
Speaker 4: Wow, they really read him.

2545
02:03:55,600 --> 02:03:57,680
Speaker 1: They really they tore Meto pieces. I mean, I think

2546
02:03:58,160 --> 02:04:00,320
Speaker 1: I think there's blame on both sides. Like I said,

2547
02:04:00,400 --> 02:04:02,760
Speaker 1: I think they're not communicating with each other factory. Yeah,

2548
02:04:02,760 --> 02:04:04,160
Speaker 1: I think it's not a great What do you think?

2549
02:04:04,200 --> 02:04:04,360
Speaker 2: Who?

2550
02:04:04,480 --> 02:04:06,280
Speaker 1: I mean? Do you think they're both to blame? Do

2551
02:04:06,320 --> 02:04:09,880
Speaker 1: you think only one of them? Sarah Jade says, these

2552
02:04:09,880 --> 02:04:11,440
Speaker 1: two needs some damn therapy.

2553
02:04:12,320 --> 02:04:14,280
Speaker 4: Yeah, therapy therapy therapy.

2554
02:04:14,480 --> 02:04:17,720
Speaker 1: Chance their therapy therapy therapy.

2555
02:04:18,200 --> 02:04:19,440
Speaker 4: There. Oh sorry.

2556
02:04:21,800 --> 02:04:24,680
Speaker 1: I was chanting and I was getting up all right, anyway,

2557
02:04:25,080 --> 02:04:28,400
Speaker 1: let's get into the update. I'm really embarrassed about all

2558
02:04:28,440 --> 02:04:32,880
Speaker 1: of this. A few things. My husband doesn't use social media.

2559
02:04:33,480 --> 02:04:36,640
Speaker 1: I'm surprised he made a Reddit account at all. Oh, whoa, whoa.

2560
02:04:37,240 --> 02:04:40,000
Speaker 1: This is from the wife's perspective. Whoa, I was thin

2561
02:04:40,800 --> 02:04:45,040
Speaker 1: so uh Op posted on January twenty second, which is

2562
02:04:45,120 --> 02:04:49,440
Speaker 1: the husband. The wife posted on January twenty third the

2563
02:04:49,560 --> 02:04:50,080
Speaker 1: next day.

2564
02:04:50,960 --> 02:04:51,760
Speaker 4: That's crazy.

2565
02:04:52,040 --> 02:04:54,200
Speaker 1: This is kind of cute. I don't know. It's like

2566
02:04:54,200 --> 02:04:59,160
Speaker 1: they're setting letters. Did they pronounce oas? Do you like

2567
02:04:59,520 --> 02:05:02,800
Speaker 1: pene escape? Yeah? They're like like, this is like the

2568
02:05:02,920 --> 02:05:07,040
Speaker 1: new version of writing letters to each other in the newspaper.

2569
02:05:07,160 --> 02:05:10,440
Speaker 1: They're on a Reddit together. Shit, all right, we're about

2570
02:05:10,440 --> 02:05:12,840
Speaker 1: to get some tea, y'all. Put some tea in the chatter.

2571
02:05:12,880 --> 02:05:13,400
Speaker 1: You're excited.

2572
02:05:13,400 --> 02:05:13,760
Speaker 4: A trick.

2573
02:05:14,480 --> 02:05:18,320
Speaker 1: So one. My husband doesn't use social media. I'm surprised

2574
02:05:18,360 --> 02:05:20,880
Speaker 1: he made a Reddit account at all. Obviously, you guys

2575
02:05:20,920 --> 02:05:23,520
Speaker 1: don't know each other very well and are communicating. When

2576
02:05:23,560 --> 02:05:25,960
Speaker 1: I saw the post, I confronted him about it. He

2577
02:05:26,040 --> 02:05:28,800
Speaker 1: said he made the post to prove a point, but

2578
02:05:29,040 --> 02:05:33,480
Speaker 1: clearly stop reading the responses early on, because I guess

2579
02:05:33,520 --> 02:05:35,080
Speaker 1: he didn't see all the back last year.

2580
02:05:35,080 --> 02:05:36,400
Speaker 4: Oh I thought you. I thought it was gonna be

2581
02:05:36,480 --> 02:05:38,920
Speaker 4: that she like posted something in the respect.

2582
02:05:38,960 --> 02:05:41,240
Speaker 1: Oh no, I don't think so. Two. I only made

2583
02:05:41,280 --> 02:05:43,960
Speaker 1: my initial post to try to show him that wanting

2584
02:05:44,040 --> 02:05:47,240
Speaker 1: to go on a ten year anniversary trip wasn't asking

2585
02:05:47,320 --> 02:05:50,000
Speaker 1: a lot. I deleted the post because I was embarrassed

2586
02:05:50,000 --> 02:05:53,240
Speaker 1: he didn't want to travel with me. I know, I know,

2587
02:05:54,200 --> 02:05:56,720
Speaker 1: I know now not to get marriage advice from Reddit

2588
02:05:57,040 --> 02:05:59,640
Speaker 1: of all places, but I always like to hear other

2589
02:05:59,760 --> 02:06:00,840
Speaker 1: p bull's point of view.

2590
02:06:01,000 --> 02:06:02,240
Speaker 4: Get your marriage advice from us.

2591
02:06:02,520 --> 02:06:05,360
Speaker 1: And three, this is what we've all been waiting for.

2592
02:06:05,640 --> 02:06:11,160
Speaker 1: My coworker is gay. My husband knows. That husband was

2593
02:06:11,240 --> 02:06:14,600
Speaker 1: intentionally uh not giving that information.

2594
02:06:15,160 --> 02:06:17,280
Speaker 4: He said. First of all, he said that, oh, I

2595
02:06:17,360 --> 02:06:20,640
Speaker 4: don't know anything about my wife's coworker or anything about

2596
02:06:20,640 --> 02:06:21,080
Speaker 4: her jobs.

2597
02:06:21,120 --> 02:06:22,600
Speaker 1: He's trying to paint the wife as bad.

2598
02:06:22,760 --> 02:06:24,720
Speaker 4: And then he was like, they're definitely good at cheat.

2599
02:06:24,840 --> 02:06:26,960
Speaker 4: He literally seems like they're absolutely good cheating.

2600
02:06:27,040 --> 02:06:30,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, what what Riley?

2601
02:06:31,600 --> 02:06:33,640
Speaker 5: What about what if he's what if it's an act

2602
02:06:35,200 --> 02:06:38,560
Speaker 5: he's actually not gay? You know how like, oh, likely

2603
02:06:38,920 --> 02:06:41,240
Speaker 5: they'll be like, oh I'm gay, invite me to the sleepover,

2604
02:06:42,160 --> 02:06:43,720
Speaker 5: the sleepover, the trip.

2605
02:06:45,520 --> 02:06:47,760
Speaker 1: Maybe I don't know. Do you think this is the

2606
02:06:47,880 --> 02:06:53,080
Speaker 1: long con? Yeah from U. Now, op the wife gay

2607
02:06:53,160 --> 02:06:56,280
Speaker 1: coworker is actually straight and is in this for the

2608
02:06:56,320 --> 02:07:00,120
Speaker 1: long that that that is. That is a conspiracy if

2609
02:07:00,120 --> 02:07:03,160
Speaker 1: I've ever heard that's a conspiracy, if I ever heard one.

2610
02:07:03,240 --> 02:07:07,120
Speaker 1: I don't know if I completely agree, but uh, Stella

2611
02:07:07,200 --> 02:07:09,560
Speaker 1: Davis says, Riley, do not be a Jesse. The Jesse

2612
02:07:09,800 --> 02:07:13,760
Speaker 1: was from the first story who was super manipulative. Yeah,

2613
02:07:14,480 --> 02:07:17,320
Speaker 1: do not be a Jesse or what was it, Miley?

2614
02:07:17,760 --> 02:07:18,360
Speaker 1: What's her name?

2615
02:07:19,240 --> 02:07:20,839
Speaker 5: Uh Mindy, Mindy.

2616
02:07:21,040 --> 02:07:22,600
Speaker 1: Don't be a Jesse or a Mindy.

2617
02:07:22,960 --> 02:07:26,080
Speaker 4: Yeah, I agree, Sydney. I can't durand yeah, no one

2618
02:07:26,120 --> 02:07:27,680
Speaker 4: actually does that. No one actually does that.

2619
02:07:27,760 --> 02:07:29,760
Speaker 1: That's like a that's just like a trope from like

2620
02:07:29,960 --> 02:07:33,800
Speaker 1: bad eighties movies. Yeah, but hey, that's why we were

2621
02:07:33,840 --> 02:07:38,480
Speaker 1: putting the conspiracy hats one. So let's keep going. My

2622
02:07:38,600 --> 02:07:41,480
Speaker 1: husband knows that I've known him for four years and

2623
02:07:41,680 --> 02:07:46,400
Speaker 1: talk about him all the time. He paid his own way,

2624
02:07:46,480 --> 02:07:48,480
Speaker 1: and it is only going because none of my friends

2625
02:07:48,520 --> 02:07:51,240
Speaker 1: could go mom life and wanted to check out the

2626
02:07:51,360 --> 02:07:54,840
Speaker 1: island as he's getting married there next fall to another man.

2627
02:07:55,080 --> 02:07:58,320
Speaker 4: So not only is this man gay, but he's in

2628
02:07:58,400 --> 02:07:59,320
Speaker 4: a relationship.

2629
02:07:59,760 --> 02:08:02,160
Speaker 1: My husband doesn't want me traveling with some guy he

2630
02:08:02,240 --> 02:08:04,160
Speaker 1: never met, but none of my girlfriends could go, and

2631
02:08:04,240 --> 02:08:07,640
Speaker 1: I didn't want to go alone. Four I'm standing firm

2632
02:08:07,920 --> 02:08:10,240
Speaker 1: that I need a vacation. Yes, I wanted a ten

2633
02:08:10,320 --> 02:08:13,000
Speaker 1: year anniversary vacation to our honeymoon spot. And I'm really

2634
02:08:13,000 --> 02:08:16,240
Speaker 1: sad it's not happening. It's been five years since my

2635
02:08:16,400 --> 02:08:19,080
Speaker 1: last vacation, and that was a visit family. So really

2636
02:08:19,200 --> 02:08:22,440
Speaker 1: seven years since my last fun vacation. I've had two kids,

2637
02:08:22,480 --> 02:08:25,200
Speaker 1: survived to pandemic, and work my butt off to get

2638
02:08:25,240 --> 02:08:28,400
Speaker 1: an executive level job. I'm getting the hell out of

2639
02:08:28,480 --> 02:08:30,280
Speaker 1: here for a few days. It's only a few days.

2640
02:08:30,400 --> 02:08:33,360
Speaker 4: It's only a few days in OP or old op.

2641
02:08:34,200 --> 02:08:38,160
Speaker 1: Yeah. Also, like I love how this update just completely

2642
02:08:38,800 --> 02:08:40,840
Speaker 1: trashes the initial ope.

2643
02:08:41,040 --> 02:08:43,280
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, Well, I feel like most people in the

2644
02:08:43,320 --> 02:08:45,520
Speaker 4: comments of the original post kind of.

2645
02:08:45,920 --> 02:08:46,960
Speaker 1: Called trash him too.

2646
02:08:47,160 --> 02:08:47,360
Speaker 2: Yeah.

2647
02:08:48,000 --> 02:08:50,200
Speaker 1: Five, What the F is this about him wanting to

2648
02:08:50,280 --> 02:08:52,240
Speaker 1: go to his cabin. He never told me that. Plus,

2649
02:08:52,320 --> 02:08:54,520
Speaker 1: he goes there at least eight times a year. I

2650
02:08:54,600 --> 02:08:57,160
Speaker 1: asked him about that and he said that it's because

2651
02:08:57,320 --> 02:08:59,760
Speaker 1: it's because he enjoys doing that. And he didn't want

2652
02:08:59,800 --> 02:09:02,360
Speaker 1: to tell me because I would make him feel bad. Anyway,

2653
02:09:02,440 --> 02:09:05,680
Speaker 1: this whole thing is embarrassing. We'll probably delete this post

2654
02:09:06,000 --> 02:09:09,400
Speaker 1: later and there are some top comments. But damn if

2655
02:09:09,440 --> 02:09:13,040
Speaker 1: this is addition your private relationship, stop to the whole

2656
02:09:13,080 --> 02:09:15,080
Speaker 1: group of people. I don't know what is Yeah, this

2657
02:09:15,280 --> 02:09:17,680
Speaker 1: is getting. This is public fighting taken to a whole

2658
02:09:17,720 --> 02:09:19,760
Speaker 1: new level. Yeah, do you have a comment that you

2659
02:09:19,880 --> 02:09:20,360
Speaker 1: left at.

2660
02:09:20,840 --> 02:09:23,200
Speaker 4: Oh no, I was just laughing at their relationships.

2661
02:09:23,320 --> 02:09:29,800
Speaker 1: Oh yeah yeah. Kim Quant says divorce, divorce, devorce, devorse.

2662
02:09:30,280 --> 02:09:35,520
Speaker 1: Gracie Macus says, I've waited for this all week. Shyler says,

2663
02:09:35,560 --> 02:09:38,040
Speaker 1: oh wow, he really was selective with the truth.

2664
02:09:38,160 --> 02:09:41,280
Speaker 4: Yeah, true, yeah, No, Also, wait did I I don't

2665
02:09:41,280 --> 02:09:43,000
Speaker 4: know if I understood this correctly, but he was going

2666
02:09:43,080 --> 02:09:44,600
Speaker 4: to a cabin and he wasn't telling her.

2667
02:09:45,440 --> 02:09:47,280
Speaker 1: I think he just wanted to go to a cabin

2668
02:09:47,400 --> 02:09:49,280
Speaker 1: instead of going like he goes to a cabin all

2669
02:09:49,280 --> 02:09:51,400
Speaker 1: the time. He's like, I'd rather go to the cabin

2670
02:09:51,800 --> 02:09:55,360
Speaker 1: than like go on an anniversary trip. He sounds selfish

2671
02:09:55,400 --> 02:09:55,560
Speaker 1: on it.

2672
02:09:55,720 --> 02:09:58,040
Speaker 4: Yeah, He's like, well that's not what I want.

2673
02:09:57,920 --> 02:10:02,360
Speaker 1: To do, so no, yeah, he sounds selfish. He sounds

2674
02:10:02,400 --> 02:10:05,280
Speaker 1: like he doesn't listen. Yeah, and he sounds like he's

2675
02:10:05,320 --> 02:10:10,480
Speaker 1: being selective with his truths. But also, maybe y'all instead

2676
02:10:10,520 --> 02:10:12,640
Speaker 1: of like dishing your stuff out on Reddit, which hey,

2677
02:10:12,680 --> 02:10:14,000
Speaker 1: you know what, I shouldn't be saying that because I'm

2678
02:10:14,000 --> 02:10:15,520
Speaker 1: glad I got to read it. But maybe you should

2679
02:10:15,520 --> 02:10:16,480
Speaker 1: go to a terra beens.

2680
02:10:16,640 --> 02:10:16,840
Speaker 2: Yeah.

2681
02:10:17,240 --> 02:10:20,480
Speaker 4: Yeah, why why are we getting both halfs of this marriage?

2682
02:10:20,720 --> 02:10:24,600
Speaker 1: It seems Yeah, it took a foot one says their

2683
02:10:24,640 --> 02:10:26,320
Speaker 1: lives are not aligned. Yeah, I think so.

2684
02:10:26,520 --> 02:10:31,280
Speaker 4: No, it's like that moon chart trends.

2685
02:10:30,080 --> 02:10:34,400
Speaker 1: The moon chart like, oh like it fits your yeah

2686
02:10:34,480 --> 02:10:38,240
Speaker 1: yeah yeah. Do people know about the moon art chart trend?

2687
02:10:38,640 --> 02:10:39,560
Speaker 1: Let let us know if you did.

2688
02:10:39,600 --> 02:10:41,839
Speaker 4: It was really funny because whenever people posted those videos,

2689
02:10:41,960 --> 02:10:44,120
Speaker 4: they were like, look, we fit perfectly, and it was

2690
02:10:44,280 --> 02:10:47,000
Speaker 4: just overlapping, like it was.

2691
02:10:47,080 --> 02:10:47,600
Speaker 2: Just the moon.

2692
02:10:47,880 --> 02:10:48,120
Speaker 5: Yeah.

2693
02:10:48,800 --> 02:10:51,360
Speaker 1: But you know what I want to look at is

2694
02:10:51,400 --> 02:10:54,480
Speaker 1: these top comments. So cart Grinder says, yeah, even his

2695
02:10:54,640 --> 02:10:57,879
Speaker 1: post from his perspective made him look lazy and or selfish.

2696
02:10:57,920 --> 02:11:00,480
Speaker 1: I hope you have a pleasant vacation op and said.

2697
02:11:00,920 --> 02:11:03,240
Speaker 1: Lucy says, I knew this guy was gay. I mean

2698
02:11:03,280 --> 02:11:05,640
Speaker 1: I showed the other post to my husband. And told

2699
02:11:05,720 --> 02:11:07,840
Speaker 1: him that the friend was probably gay and the husband

2700
02:11:07,880 --> 02:11:10,360
Speaker 1: didn't know. He was like, I know who your gay

2701
02:11:10,400 --> 02:11:13,680
Speaker 1: friends are, and I answered telling him that he liked

2702
02:11:13,720 --> 02:11:16,600
Speaker 1: me and wanted to go a place with me, unlike

2703
02:11:16,680 --> 02:11:18,800
Speaker 1: that guy. I hope you have a great vacation, Ope,

2704
02:11:19,360 --> 02:11:22,160
Speaker 1: and zaf Fodd says, this is the update I've been

2705
02:11:22,200 --> 02:11:24,480
Speaker 1: looking for. Thank you. I hope you have a really

2706
02:11:24,680 --> 02:11:31,240
Speaker 1: enjoyable solo anniversary trip, which it seems like OPI will have.

2707
02:11:31,960 --> 02:11:33,800
Speaker 1: But you know what I want you to have, Sophia,

2708
02:11:34,600 --> 02:11:38,200
Speaker 1: This next story, this next story, we're gonna get into it,

2709
02:11:38,320 --> 02:11:41,520
Speaker 1: Sofia is going to be reading. But just look at

2710
02:11:41,560 --> 02:11:44,800
Speaker 1: some comments from y'all. Burning Roe said, never heard of it,

2711
02:11:44,960 --> 02:11:45,840
Speaker 1: loll the.

2712
02:11:45,880 --> 02:11:48,120
Speaker 4: Moon, It's just like a TikTok thing.

2713
02:11:48,320 --> 02:11:51,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, classic TikTok. Let's with their TikTok gen Z with

2714
02:11:51,880 --> 02:11:56,600
Speaker 1: their TikTok trends. Tody is young gen Z too, Gracie macisays,

2715
02:11:56,640 --> 02:11:59,320
Speaker 1: getting ready chickens, Yeah, we're freaking getting ready for this

2716
02:11:59,440 --> 02:12:03,160
Speaker 1: next story. And Innocent Star says both their posts make

2717
02:12:03,240 --> 02:12:05,400
Speaker 1: it sound like the husband would rather be alone than

2718
02:12:05,480 --> 02:12:09,040
Speaker 1: with his wife. That totally sounds true, and he does

2719
02:12:09,120 --> 02:12:11,600
Speaker 1: not sound innocent at all. But so via, do you

2720
02:12:11,640 --> 02:12:12,880
Speaker 1: want to hit me with this next story?

2721
02:12:13,000 --> 02:12:14,520
Speaker 4: I do want to hit you with this next story.

2722
02:12:16,440 --> 02:12:18,720
Speaker 4: I found out I was the mistress in college and

2723
02:12:18,840 --> 02:12:21,160
Speaker 4: he wanted to be my sugar daddy. I said no,

2724
02:12:21,520 --> 02:12:23,840
Speaker 4: but kept the motorcycle. Am I the a hole?

2725
02:12:24,040 --> 02:12:29,880
Speaker 1: I love the motorcycles? Yeah, and kept the motorcycle. Oh okay,

2726
02:12:30,120 --> 02:12:33,040
Speaker 1: I guess the sugar daddy is like giving motorcycles as

2727
02:12:33,120 --> 02:12:34,720
Speaker 1: a form of sugar daddy payment.

2728
02:12:35,040 --> 02:12:39,080
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, no, okay, so yeah, he was like, here's

2729
02:12:39,120 --> 02:12:41,320
Speaker 4: a motorcycle if you'll be my sugar baby, and she

2730
02:12:41,440 --> 02:12:44,360
Speaker 4: was like, no, but I'll take the motorcic. I'm gona

2731
02:12:44,400 --> 02:12:45,840
Speaker 4: keep the motorcle'll keep the motorcycle.

2732
02:12:46,520 --> 02:12:47,440
Speaker 2: Not that what he got?

2733
02:12:47,480 --> 02:12:48,080
Speaker 1: What do you got for us?

2734
02:12:48,160 --> 02:12:49,120
Speaker 5: Guess where this came from?

2735
02:12:49,720 --> 02:12:49,880
Speaker 2: Oh?

2736
02:12:50,480 --> 02:12:52,640
Speaker 1: Is this an R slash okop show?

2737
02:12:53,960 --> 02:12:54,080
Speaker 2: Yo?

2738
02:12:54,600 --> 02:12:55,880
Speaker 4: I wonder if they're on right now?

2739
02:12:56,000 --> 02:12:57,720
Speaker 1: Yeah? Who does it come from?

2740
02:12:57,760 --> 02:12:57,800
Speaker 5: What?

2741
02:12:58,040 --> 02:13:02,080
Speaker 1: What's the one done? Meleni one done? Millennial one done millennial?

2742
02:13:02,160 --> 02:13:05,360
Speaker 1: If you are in the chat right now, please let

2743
02:13:05,480 --> 02:13:10,080
Speaker 1: us know. Hopefully you're probably watching or listening so or

2744
02:13:10,080 --> 02:13:12,280
Speaker 1: at least at least at a later time. Yes, but

2745
02:13:12,840 --> 02:13:16,320
Speaker 1: let's get into it. Let's go. If you want to

2746
02:13:16,320 --> 02:13:18,240
Speaker 1: submit your story, go to our sash O Kop show

2747
02:13:18,560 --> 02:13:21,280
Speaker 1: or call us at four tour zero five or eight

2748
02:13:21,360 --> 02:13:23,080
Speaker 1: six five six seven.

2749
02:13:23,800 --> 02:13:27,120
Speaker 4: Yep, and let's get to the story.

2750
02:13:27,240 --> 02:13:27,680
Speaker 1: Let's get it.

2751
02:13:28,400 --> 02:13:30,440
Speaker 4: So I got it. So I got inspired by the

2752
02:13:30,480 --> 02:13:33,320
Speaker 4: show today to write about this experience from ten years ago.

2753
02:13:33,680 --> 02:13:38,000
Speaker 4: Buckle up, it is a bit long. Everyone, get your buckles.

2754
02:13:38,360 --> 02:13:40,480
Speaker 4: I went to college in a small Asian area. I

2755
02:13:40,560 --> 02:13:43,280
Speaker 4: am from the USA. Funnily enough, I actually moved to

2756
02:13:43,360 --> 02:13:45,480
Speaker 4: that area to be with my high school boyfriend who

2757
02:13:45,560 --> 02:13:48,440
Speaker 4: was from that country, but we broke up my freshman year.

2758
02:13:48,560 --> 02:13:51,000
Speaker 4: Crazy story there too. If you want that story later,

2759
02:13:51,120 --> 02:13:53,720
Speaker 4: we do. Anyway, I was in my third year of college,

2760
02:13:53,760 --> 02:13:56,000
Speaker 4: paying my way tutoring English on the side, as it

2761
02:13:56,040 --> 02:13:58,680
Speaker 4: was common way for expat college kids to make money there.

2762
02:13:59,160 --> 02:14:00,920
Speaker 4: I was heading to class one day when a man

2763
02:14:01,040 --> 02:14:03,600
Speaker 4: stopped me. This was not unusual, as many wanted to

2764
02:14:03,680 --> 02:14:06,240
Speaker 4: practice talking English with me as soon as they saw

2765
02:14:06,280 --> 02:14:08,240
Speaker 4: I was foreign. But this was the only But this

2766
02:14:08,440 --> 02:14:10,840
Speaker 4: was only the second time that the person actually wanted

2767
02:14:10,880 --> 02:14:13,360
Speaker 4: my number. I'm not a bad looking person, but I

2768
02:14:13,440 --> 02:14:17,520
Speaker 4: am not thin nor stereotypically attractive. I enjoy weightlifting and

2769
02:14:17,600 --> 02:14:20,440
Speaker 4: martial arts, and my one six, one hundred and sixty

2770
02:14:20,440 --> 02:14:22,240
Speaker 4: five center of your frame has been able to pick

2771
02:14:22,320 --> 02:14:26,200
Speaker 4: up ninety two kilogram dad since I was eleven. Oh,

2772
02:14:26,280 --> 02:14:27,720
Speaker 4: you were able to pick up your dad.

2773
02:14:28,280 --> 02:14:29,000
Speaker 2: You're so strong.

2774
02:14:29,240 --> 02:14:33,360
Speaker 1: I think. I think op is saying I'm super hitting

2775
02:14:33,440 --> 02:14:34,280
Speaker 1: on her at eleven.

2776
02:14:34,520 --> 02:14:36,720
Speaker 4: No, no, no, no, she's saying that.

2777
02:14:37,880 --> 02:14:38,600
Speaker 1: Repeat that line.

2778
02:14:38,800 --> 02:14:41,640
Speaker 4: Yeah, I enjoy weightlifting and martial arts, and my one

2779
02:14:41,760 --> 02:14:43,800
Speaker 4: hundred and sixty five center of your frame has been

2780
02:14:43,840 --> 02:14:46,760
Speaker 4: able to pick up my ninety two kilogram dad since

2781
02:14:46,800 --> 02:14:47,360
Speaker 4: I was eleven.

2782
02:14:47,400 --> 02:14:51,680
Speaker 1: Oh, okay, you're so strong, able to pick up dads?

2783
02:14:52,720 --> 02:14:54,320
Speaker 4: Yes, muzzlemummy, so true.

2784
02:14:54,400 --> 02:14:54,600
Speaker 2: Yeah.

2785
02:14:54,720 --> 02:14:54,960
Speaker 1: Facts.

2786
02:14:55,480 --> 02:14:57,280
Speaker 4: So I ended up agreeing to meet up with this

2787
02:14:57,400 --> 02:15:00,160
Speaker 4: man for lunch one day between classes. He looked a

2788
02:15:00,200 --> 02:15:02,360
Speaker 4: little older, but anyone who has spent time in Asia

2789
02:15:02,360 --> 02:15:04,520
Speaker 4: and knows it's very hard to tell age and gender.

2790
02:15:04,960 --> 02:15:06,760
Speaker 4: Even I have two stories on that, but my friends

2791
02:15:06,800 --> 02:15:09,640
Speaker 4: have better ones. So this was where the red flags

2792
02:15:09,640 --> 02:15:12,760
Speaker 4: would start and never stop. But my dumb college self

2793
02:15:12,880 --> 02:15:15,440
Speaker 4: was being an idiot. On the first meeting, he wants

2794
02:15:15,480 --> 02:15:17,440
Speaker 4: to take his car to the restaurant from my college.

2795
02:15:17,840 --> 02:15:19,600
Speaker 4: I knew this was suspicious to hop in a car

2796
02:15:19,680 --> 02:15:20,320
Speaker 4: with a stranger.

2797
02:15:20,440 --> 02:15:24,560
Speaker 1: But I already yeah super suspicious. Wait wait wait with

2798
02:15:24,680 --> 02:15:25,720
Speaker 1: a stranger dude.

2799
02:15:25,760 --> 02:15:28,760
Speaker 4: Okay, but I already had my second black belt at

2800
02:15:28,800 --> 02:15:29,120
Speaker 4: the time.

2801
02:15:30,240 --> 02:15:32,720
Speaker 1: Sop. He is a muscle bomby, as Jem said.

2802
02:15:32,520 --> 02:15:35,520
Speaker 4: Oh, he's like I could handle myself. I could take

2803
02:15:35,560 --> 02:15:37,040
Speaker 4: a man down with two moves.

2804
02:15:37,120 --> 02:15:38,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean I could pick up all these dats.

2805
02:15:39,360 --> 02:15:42,080
Speaker 4: Yeah. When we parked and walked towards a restaurant, it

2806
02:15:42,160 --> 02:15:44,440
Speaker 4: kept feeling like his hand would knock into my butt

2807
02:15:44,520 --> 02:15:47,400
Speaker 4: ew It was weird. But the sidewalks are small, and

2808
02:15:47,520 --> 02:15:51,120
Speaker 4: I am not I think he I you know, I.

2809
02:15:51,120 --> 02:15:53,000
Speaker 1: Don't know if you're big enough. I don't know if

2810
02:15:53,040 --> 02:15:55,920
Speaker 1: your ass so thick that it takes up the whole

2811
02:15:55,960 --> 02:15:58,400
Speaker 1: sidewalk that he can't help but bump his hands like.

2812
02:15:58,440 --> 02:16:01,360
Speaker 2: Oh sorry, sorry.

2813
02:16:02,360 --> 02:16:05,600
Speaker 4: Anyway, it all seemed to go well, so I agreed

2814
02:16:05,640 --> 02:16:06,840
Speaker 4: to meet him again. A week later.

2815
02:16:06,920 --> 02:16:09,360
Speaker 1: It's going well him this old man touching your booty.

2816
02:16:09,480 --> 02:16:09,640
Speaker 4: Yeah.

2817
02:16:10,960 --> 02:16:11,080
Speaker 1: Uh.

2818
02:16:11,200 --> 02:16:13,320
Speaker 4: This time he took me to love hotel.

2819
02:16:14,240 --> 02:16:16,320
Speaker 1: Oh that's like a like a japan.

2820
02:16:16,080 --> 02:16:18,760
Speaker 4: Thing, right, I don't know anything about it.

2821
02:16:18,920 --> 02:16:20,880
Speaker 1: If you know what a love hotel is. Put in

2822
02:16:20,920 --> 02:16:22,560
Speaker 1: the comments, I think I've.

2823
02:16:22,480 --> 02:16:25,960
Speaker 4: Heard of it, but I don't know exactly, but claimed

2824
02:16:26,000 --> 02:16:28,960
Speaker 4: it was because we could sing karaoke in private there.

2825
02:16:29,360 --> 02:16:32,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, we're going to Love Hotel for the karaoke. It

2826
02:16:32,440 --> 02:16:34,360
Speaker 1: like I'm going to the strip club for the hot wings.

2827
02:16:37,040 --> 02:16:39,640
Speaker 4: Honestly should have ducked out then, but I made it

2828
02:16:39,720 --> 02:16:42,320
Speaker 4: clear nothing was happening that day, though he still tried

2829
02:16:42,360 --> 02:16:45,160
Speaker 4: a few times. I didn't hurt him, but was for

2830
02:16:46,840 --> 02:16:48,160
Speaker 4: She's like, I didn't use any of.

2831
02:16:48,160 --> 02:16:51,480
Speaker 1: My black Yeah, it was on lethal weapons.

2832
02:16:52,000 --> 02:16:53,000
Speaker 4: I made it pretty clear.

2833
02:16:55,320 --> 02:16:55,800
Speaker 1: Where was it.

2834
02:16:56,200 --> 02:16:58,440
Speaker 4: Oh. At this point I had asked his age and

2835
02:16:58,520 --> 02:17:00,680
Speaker 4: he claimed he was twenty nine, and I would have

2836
02:17:00,760 --> 02:17:03,560
Speaker 4: guessed early to mid thirties, but I have embarrassed myself

2837
02:17:03,640 --> 02:17:06,000
Speaker 4: before guessing too old. It was like that John Mulaney

2838
02:17:06,200 --> 02:17:09,119
Speaker 4: snl skit where he's like, yeah, I get tired going

2839
02:17:09,440 --> 02:17:13,000
Speaker 4: on thirty six that one. I did end up caving

2840
02:17:13,040 --> 02:17:15,520
Speaker 4: the next time he met, almost a week later though stupid,

2841
02:17:15,600 --> 02:17:17,480
Speaker 4: I know, but he did kind of spoil me and

2842
02:17:17,600 --> 02:17:20,080
Speaker 4: we texted a lot. The next time we met, he

2843
02:17:20,240 --> 02:17:22,320
Speaker 4: ended up at my place, but he didn't stay the night,

2844
02:17:22,400 --> 02:17:24,680
Speaker 4: even though I offered. At the time, I thought maybe

2845
02:17:24,680 --> 02:17:26,920
Speaker 4: he was still scared of my cat. He had jumped

2846
02:17:26,920 --> 02:17:28,280
Speaker 4: on the couch when he first saw her.

2847
02:17:28,680 --> 02:17:33,280
Speaker 1: Why hat man, just like so frail sounding. Yeah, it

2848
02:17:33,360 --> 02:17:35,160
Speaker 1: was like I was firm. I didn't hurt him though.

2849
02:17:35,440 --> 02:17:37,160
Speaker 1: He was scared of my cat. But don't worry. The

2850
02:17:37,200 --> 02:17:38,000
Speaker 1: cat didn't heurt of either.

2851
02:17:38,080 --> 02:17:41,680
Speaker 4: The cat also knows black but that's true black belt cat. Yeah, yeah,

2852
02:17:41,879 --> 02:17:42,960
Speaker 4: you don't know. You don't know.

2853
02:17:43,160 --> 02:17:46,920
Speaker 1: It's like that cat in Kung Fu Panda, the snow leopard. Man,

2854
02:17:47,120 --> 02:17:49,959
Speaker 1: it's not a cat snow so it is a big cat.

2855
02:17:50,080 --> 02:17:50,640
Speaker 4: It's a big cat.

2856
02:17:50,720 --> 02:17:51,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, that is a cat.

2857
02:17:51,840 --> 02:17:52,120
Speaker 2: You know what.

2858
02:17:52,480 --> 02:17:54,960
Speaker 1: Hey, I know my cat knowledge. It is a big cat.

2859
02:17:55,040 --> 02:17:55,560
Speaker 1: You're right, you're so.

2860
02:17:55,640 --> 02:17:56,040
Speaker 5: I'm sorry.

2861
02:17:56,080 --> 02:17:58,880
Speaker 4: I'm so sorry. Then I didn't hear for then I

2862
02:17:58,920 --> 02:17:59,320
Speaker 4: didn't he.

2863
02:17:59,400 --> 02:18:02,560
Speaker 1: Could he said, Macca says he can't handle the pussy.

2864
02:18:02,959 --> 02:18:04,120
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's a.

2865
02:18:06,160 --> 02:18:06,680
Speaker 1: Nice one.

2866
02:18:10,360 --> 02:18:12,240
Speaker 4: Then I didn't hear from him for three days, and

2867
02:18:12,320 --> 02:18:14,240
Speaker 4: I was pretty upset. When we got back in touch.

2868
02:18:14,360 --> 02:18:16,240
Speaker 4: He claimed it was a business trip, so he got

2869
02:18:16,280 --> 02:18:18,240
Speaker 4: scared of the can and then he ghosted her.

2870
02:18:18,240 --> 02:18:18,760
Speaker 2: For three days.

2871
02:18:18,879 --> 02:18:21,800
Speaker 4: Okay, I guess, but he said he was.

2872
02:18:22,040 --> 02:18:23,960
Speaker 1: He said, I mean he could legitimately be on a

2873
02:18:24,000 --> 02:18:25,959
Speaker 1: business yeah, I mean three days.

2874
02:18:26,000 --> 02:18:28,080
Speaker 4: I was on a business trip, but he wasn't texting her.

2875
02:18:28,400 --> 02:18:30,320
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't respond to people for multiple days.

2876
02:18:30,360 --> 02:18:32,439
Speaker 4: But that's just you because you're bad at responding.

2877
02:18:32,720 --> 02:18:32,920
Speaker 2: Yeah.

2878
02:18:34,160 --> 02:18:36,199
Speaker 4: We met up this time because he was curious about

2879
02:18:36,240 --> 02:18:39,280
Speaker 4: my motorcycle and he wanted to try riding it. Oh

2880
02:18:39,400 --> 02:18:42,800
Speaker 4: he sounds you. This is one of the okop fans. Yeah,

2881
02:18:43,320 --> 02:18:47,080
Speaker 4: you sound so cool, I know, like black like the

2882
02:18:47,280 --> 02:18:52,680
Speaker 4: more that you you got a motorcycle, you're so cool. Like, uh, okay.

2883
02:18:54,120 --> 02:18:55,959
Speaker 4: We met up this time because he was curious about

2884
02:18:55,959 --> 02:18:58,160
Speaker 4: my motorcycle and he wanted to try riding it. It

2885
02:18:58,240 --> 02:19:00,320
Speaker 4: was a twenty year old one hundred and fifty cc,

2886
02:19:00,640 --> 02:19:02,840
Speaker 4: so if something happened, it wasn't that big a deal,

2887
02:19:02,959 --> 02:19:05,240
Speaker 4: so I agreed. We hung out for a bit while

2888
02:19:05,240 --> 02:19:08,080
Speaker 4: I taught him how to ride. Like two days later, though,

2889
02:19:08,200 --> 02:19:10,920
Speaker 4: my motorcycle's engine broke down and could only be fixed

2890
02:19:10,920 --> 02:19:13,280
Speaker 4: by replacing the engine. I did not have that kind

2891
02:19:13,320 --> 02:19:15,680
Speaker 4: of money, so guess who comes in to buy me

2892
02:19:15,760 --> 02:19:18,560
Speaker 4: a new motorcycle with everything in my.

2893
02:19:23,560 --> 02:19:25,240
Speaker 1: Can't help? Boy.

2894
02:19:25,879 --> 02:19:28,360
Speaker 4: It was just another little one hundred and fifty cc,

2895
02:19:28,640 --> 02:19:30,960
Speaker 4: but it was brand new, so I was half in

2896
02:19:31,080 --> 02:19:33,080
Speaker 4: love even though I only knew this guy for like

2897
02:19:33,200 --> 02:19:37,080
Speaker 4: three weeks. This is when everything starts going to a

2898
02:19:37,160 --> 02:19:41,880
Speaker 4: real Are we allowed to swear on this swear? Oh

2899
02:19:42,080 --> 02:19:47,400
Speaker 4: my god? You know he now starts talking about how

2900
02:19:47,440 --> 02:19:49,760
Speaker 4: he prefers dogs to cats, so I should get rid

2901
02:19:49,800 --> 02:19:51,440
Speaker 4: of my cat so he can get me a dog.

2902
02:19:52,000 --> 02:19:55,120
Speaker 4: That's weird. I adopted her from the shelter and she

2903
02:19:55,280 --> 02:19:56,199
Speaker 4: was blind.

2904
02:19:58,360 --> 02:19:59,840
Speaker 1: And she's still knew CROs.

2905
02:20:01,560 --> 02:20:03,720
Speaker 4: Then he thinks my flat is too far away, small

2906
02:20:03,760 --> 02:20:06,760
Speaker 4: and cheap. I am, I'm in college overseas, so duh.

2907
02:20:07,120 --> 02:20:08,920
Speaker 1: And he's like, I will get you a new flat.

2908
02:20:09,120 --> 02:20:11,600
Speaker 4: Yeah no, yeah, so he wants to buy me a

2909
02:20:11,680 --> 02:20:15,160
Speaker 4: flat in the city. At this point, bye bye. So

2910
02:20:15,280 --> 02:20:17,520
Speaker 4: he's got he's got a new motorcycle. He's trying to

2911
02:20:17,560 --> 02:20:19,279
Speaker 4: get rid of the cat, which is weird.

2912
02:20:19,560 --> 02:20:21,119
Speaker 1: How rich is this dude?

2913
02:20:21,280 --> 02:20:24,400
Speaker 4: He's got money. He hasn't got muscles, but he's got money.

2914
02:20:24,480 --> 02:20:24,680
Speaker 2: Yeah.

2915
02:20:24,680 --> 02:20:27,440
Speaker 1: What he lacks and muscles and courage he makes up

2916
02:20:27,520 --> 02:20:28,760
Speaker 1: for dollar bells.

2917
02:20:30,280 --> 02:20:32,120
Speaker 4: Yeah, so he wants to buy me a flat in

2918
02:20:32,200 --> 02:20:34,480
Speaker 4: the city. At this point, alarm bells are ringing in

2919
02:20:34,600 --> 02:20:37,640
Speaker 4: my head because who does this Three weeks into knowing a.

2920
02:20:37,640 --> 02:20:39,240
Speaker 1: Person, dude, like a billionaire.

2921
02:20:39,320 --> 02:20:43,080
Speaker 4: A billionaire. So I confront him. Turns out he's forty

2922
02:20:43,160 --> 02:20:44,000
Speaker 4: one and married.

2923
02:20:45,480 --> 02:20:46,400
Speaker 2: That's crazy.

2924
02:20:47,120 --> 02:20:51,320
Speaker 4: Yeah yeah, get yeah, get get all the things you

2925
02:20:51,400 --> 02:20:54,440
Speaker 4: can get. Well the motorcycles in her name, which you

2926
02:20:54,520 --> 02:21:00,480
Speaker 4: know might season why that's importantly, He colors, Sorry, I

2927
02:21:00,640 --> 02:21:01,640
Speaker 4: see you in the comments.

2928
02:21:01,680 --> 02:21:03,080
Speaker 1: But I see you in the comments, and you see

2929
02:21:03,080 --> 02:21:03,520
Speaker 1: what's coming.

2930
02:21:03,640 --> 02:21:04,000
Speaker 4: I see it.

2931
02:21:04,120 --> 02:21:06,200
Speaker 1: Also, do you think he's going to get the flat?

2932
02:21:07,040 --> 02:21:09,160
Speaker 4: I hope so, I don't. I think it might be too.

2933
02:21:09,760 --> 02:21:11,160
Speaker 4: I think that was what we talked about.

2934
02:21:11,280 --> 02:21:13,240
Speaker 1: I feel. But also it's like, no free lunch. You

2935
02:21:13,280 --> 02:21:15,480
Speaker 1: don't just get a flat for free.

2936
02:21:15,520 --> 02:21:16,840
Speaker 4: You got a motorcycle?

2937
02:21:17,160 --> 02:21:19,760
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, you get a motorcycle over eve, no flat.

2938
02:21:19,959 --> 02:21:23,039
Speaker 4: Yeah. He claims he hasn't been sleeping with his wife

2939
02:21:23,080 --> 02:21:25,360
Speaker 4: since meeting me, and that I'm the only girl for him.

2940
02:21:26,040 --> 02:21:28,480
Speaker 1: I swear I haven't been cheating on you with my wife.

2941
02:21:31,600 --> 02:21:34,480
Speaker 4: Yeah right, buddy. I immediately break up with him, and

2942
02:21:34,520 --> 02:21:36,120
Speaker 4: you would think that would be the end, but no,

2943
02:21:36,600 --> 02:21:38,560
Speaker 4: he decides the best way to try to get me

2944
02:21:38,640 --> 02:21:40,880
Speaker 4: back is to stalk me for the next five months.

2945
02:21:41,240 --> 02:21:44,840
Speaker 4: Why would you stalk a black belt? That's silly.

2946
02:21:46,360 --> 02:21:49,640
Speaker 1: Your nose broken. Yeah, would stalk? I think that's my

2947
02:21:49,760 --> 02:21:53,720
Speaker 1: favorite Sophia quote. Why would you stock get on her shirt?

2948
02:21:53,920 --> 02:21:54,120
Speaker 2: Yeah?

2949
02:21:54,240 --> 02:21:58,400
Speaker 4: No, this man is crazy. So he got Oh where

2950
02:21:58,560 --> 02:22:01,840
Speaker 4: was I? So he just I stupidly thought the breakup

2951
02:22:01,920 --> 02:22:03,280
Speaker 4: was the end of it, so I didn't tell the

2952
02:22:03,320 --> 02:22:05,480
Speaker 4: guards at my flat right away not to let him in.

2953
02:22:06,879 --> 02:22:09,280
Speaker 4: So he got into my flat one night and tried

2954
02:22:09,320 --> 02:22:10,960
Speaker 4: to get me to have sex with him again by

2955
02:22:11,040 --> 02:22:14,760
Speaker 4: stripping down and chasing me. He just assaulted you. That's horrible.

2956
02:22:15,360 --> 02:22:18,480
Speaker 1: Bro use some of that karate chop his bick off.

2957
02:22:18,680 --> 02:22:20,920
Speaker 4: I back kicked him, broke his rib, and then locked

2958
02:22:21,000 --> 02:22:23,000
Speaker 4: myself in my room with my cat till he left me.

2959
02:22:25,560 --> 02:22:29,960
Speaker 4: I yes, very badass. Also, I'm so sorry that happened

2960
02:22:30,000 --> 02:22:34,400
Speaker 4: you because that fully assaulted you. Yeah, that's horrible, but

2961
02:22:34,520 --> 02:22:39,440
Speaker 4: I'm glad you Yeah, yeah, okay, very strong. Yeah no,

2962
02:22:39,640 --> 02:22:42,200
Speaker 4: this is I hope he goes to jail. I immediately

2963
02:22:42,280 --> 02:22:44,720
Speaker 4: told the guards not to let him in anymore after that.

2964
02:22:44,879 --> 02:22:47,360
Speaker 4: So he started leaving presents on my motorbike, the one

2965
02:22:47,440 --> 02:22:50,440
Speaker 4: he bought, yes, and showing up at my college he

2966
02:22:50,520 --> 02:22:53,920
Speaker 4: even brought. He even bought himself a Honda CBR six

2967
02:22:54,040 --> 02:22:56,800
Speaker 4: hundred to try to impress me and offered to let

2968
02:22:56,840 --> 02:23:00,000
Speaker 4: me ride it. Yeah, no, thanks, buddy. I finally got

2969
02:23:00,240 --> 02:23:01,840
Speaker 4: him to stop while I was at my agents.

2970
02:23:02,000 --> 02:23:04,800
Speaker 1: I feel like a broken rib would be enough of

2971
02:23:04,840 --> 02:23:07,000
Speaker 1: a signal like, hey, I'm not interested.

2972
02:23:07,120 --> 02:23:11,320
Speaker 4: Well, no, this guy is horrible person and obviously preditor. Yeah,

2973
02:23:11,560 --> 02:23:12,080
Speaker 4: very much so.

2974
02:23:12,320 --> 02:23:15,080
Speaker 1: I think this is probably what I can't imagine. OPI

2975
02:23:15,200 --> 02:23:17,840
Speaker 1: is the first person that he's done this too.

2976
02:23:18,000 --> 02:23:20,760
Speaker 4: No, No, he like has a wife and he's probably

2977
02:23:20,879 --> 02:23:24,040
Speaker 4: like kind of you know, going after these young college girls,

2978
02:23:24,080 --> 02:23:27,200
Speaker 4: it seems, and it just it. Fortunately, Opie is is

2979
02:23:27,240 --> 02:23:29,240
Speaker 4: a black belt, a black belt, you know, so he

2980
02:23:29,360 --> 02:23:31,240
Speaker 4: can't do that. But no, this is horrible.

2981
02:23:31,720 --> 02:23:33,080
Speaker 1: He needs to break more than his ribs.

2982
02:23:33,200 --> 02:23:40,360
Speaker 4: Yeah, the Jesus. I finally got him to stop. While

2983
02:23:40,400 --> 02:23:42,080
Speaker 4: I was at my agents. She set me up with

2984
02:23:42,120 --> 02:23:45,359
Speaker 4: tutoring jobs and another tutor was there. I was complaining

2985
02:23:45,400 --> 02:23:47,720
Speaker 4: to them about the guy, and the other tutor offered

2986
02:23:47,760 --> 02:23:50,160
Speaker 4: to take a picture together like we were dating. The

2987
02:23:50,240 --> 02:23:52,120
Speaker 4: guy didn't believe it at first, but only kept up

2988
02:23:52,160 --> 02:23:54,280
Speaker 4: the Shenanigans for another week, So that was the end

2989
02:23:54,320 --> 02:23:56,800
Speaker 4: of it. I sold the motorbike when I graduated and

2990
02:23:56,920 --> 02:23:59,440
Speaker 4: left the country. I never tried to find or tell

2991
02:23:59,520 --> 02:24:01,920
Speaker 4: his wife, and not because I didn't want to. But

2992
02:24:02,040 --> 02:24:04,240
Speaker 4: in certain countries, including the area I was in, the

2993
02:24:04,320 --> 02:24:07,279
Speaker 4: wife cannot sue or divorce her husband with the reason

2994
02:24:07,320 --> 02:24:10,720
Speaker 4: and cheating. Oh wow, she can, however, sue the mistress,

2995
02:24:11,040 --> 02:24:13,000
Speaker 4: so I was advised to not try to find her

2996
02:24:13,080 --> 02:24:14,720
Speaker 4: in case she decided to blame me.

2997
02:24:14,920 --> 02:24:15,920
Speaker 2: That is whack.

2998
02:24:16,120 --> 02:24:17,720
Speaker 1: There's some whack laws right there.

2999
02:24:17,800 --> 02:24:20,680
Speaker 4: That's horrible. I know it has been ten years, but

3000
02:24:20,720 --> 02:24:22,680
Speaker 4: I hope she found out what a piece of garbage

3001
02:24:22,680 --> 02:24:24,039
Speaker 4: she is and left his ass.

3002
02:24:25,040 --> 02:24:25,320
Speaker 2: Dang.

3003
02:24:25,800 --> 02:24:28,800
Speaker 1: Wow, that is rough. Okay, I mean, uh one, how

3004
02:24:29,360 --> 02:24:31,480
Speaker 1: how do you think you avoid situations like this? But

3005
02:24:31,600 --> 02:24:34,320
Speaker 1: your answers in the comments, I would love to hear

3006
02:24:34,920 --> 02:24:38,320
Speaker 1: what you should do? But that is like like and

3007
02:24:38,400 --> 02:24:41,400
Speaker 1: and do we know what country? Ope's in Japan?

3008
02:24:41,560 --> 02:24:42,720
Speaker 4: He did not say it.

3009
02:24:42,840 --> 02:24:46,200
Speaker 1: Probably not. It isn't Japan. I can't imagine Japan's divorce

3010
02:24:46,280 --> 02:24:46,880
Speaker 1: laws are like that.

3011
02:24:47,240 --> 02:24:50,520
Speaker 4: No, they didn't say they just a small Asian area.

3012
02:24:50,920 --> 02:24:52,879
Speaker 1: Yeah, so we don't know. If I wonder if there's

3013
02:24:52,879 --> 02:24:55,640
Speaker 1: anyone have any guesses what country this could be? And

3014
02:24:55,720 --> 02:24:58,440
Speaker 1: it's also I would does anyone have any sugar Daddy

3015
02:24:58,800 --> 02:25:02,360
Speaker 1: stories stories. I remember this girl in college got like

3016
02:25:02,600 --> 02:25:05,600
Speaker 1: like one of my I lived with an ex girlfriend

3017
02:25:05,720 --> 02:25:08,240
Speaker 1: for like a year in college, and so we had

3018
02:25:08,360 --> 02:25:10,720
Speaker 1: all these other girls that were living with us, and

3019
02:25:11,480 --> 02:25:13,760
Speaker 1: one of the girls had this is okay story time.

3020
02:25:13,959 --> 02:25:17,080
Speaker 1: One of the girls literally got everything paid for by

3021
02:25:17,160 --> 02:25:20,720
Speaker 1: her sugar Daddy, like everything, and got a monthly allowance

3022
02:25:20,760 --> 02:25:23,680
Speaker 1: of like two grand. Wow. Yeah, isn't crazy crazy?

3023
02:25:23,959 --> 02:25:27,200
Speaker 4: See, I feel like the benefits of sugar Daddy being

3024
02:25:27,320 --> 02:25:30,280
Speaker 4: seem nice, but I just don't think I could. I mean,

3025
02:25:30,320 --> 02:25:31,840
Speaker 4: I'm an actor. I don't think I could act that.

3026
02:25:32,240 --> 02:25:33,040
Speaker 1: You can act that.

3027
02:25:33,120 --> 02:25:35,200
Speaker 4: I don't know, dude, I don't think I could do that.

3028
02:25:35,320 --> 02:25:38,560
Speaker 1: But wait, I want to see. So Zodiac says China.

3029
02:25:38,320 --> 02:25:41,080
Speaker 4: Could be someone other persons of South Korea because you

3030
02:25:41,120 --> 02:25:42,480
Speaker 4: can sue the mistress.

3031
02:25:43,560 --> 02:25:46,360
Speaker 1: And then Eric says, f y, there is an update

3032
02:25:46,440 --> 02:25:49,080
Speaker 1: to the wife abandoning op and traveling around the world

3033
02:25:49,480 --> 02:25:53,600
Speaker 1: because she thought she was going to get dementia. This

3034
02:25:53,800 --> 02:25:56,200
Speaker 1: last story that we read, oh at the anniversary, I

3035
02:25:56,240 --> 02:25:59,560
Speaker 1: think for this, I think, And then Sydney says, why

3036
02:25:59,600 --> 02:26:00,760
Speaker 1: can't she at a restraining order?

3037
02:26:00,879 --> 02:26:01,600
Speaker 4: That's what I was wondering.

3038
02:26:01,680 --> 02:26:02,879
Speaker 1: I think it's because of the country.

3039
02:26:03,000 --> 02:26:06,039
Speaker 4: It might be the country specifically, because this all feels

3040
02:26:06,080 --> 02:26:08,879
Speaker 4: like things that you know, at least here you could.

3041
02:26:08,800 --> 02:26:10,120
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, you could get a restraining order.

3042
02:26:10,200 --> 02:26:12,160
Speaker 4: You know, you get a restraining order even well, I

3043
02:26:12,200 --> 02:26:13,720
Speaker 4: mean that's grounds for going to the police.

3044
02:26:13,840 --> 02:26:18,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, but you know what, definitely I have grounds for Sophia.

3045
02:26:19,360 --> 02:26:22,440
Speaker 1: That was a weird lead in this reading. Next story,

3046
02:26:22,879 --> 02:26:26,160
Speaker 1: give me that phone, no the red flag? All right,

3047
02:26:26,400 --> 02:26:30,200
Speaker 1: let us hit this next story. I'm so glad everyone

3048
02:26:30,320 --> 02:26:32,200
Speaker 1: is here on the Live. By the way, the call

3049
02:26:32,240 --> 02:26:34,560
Speaker 1: in number I crave Fried Chicken is four for zero

3050
02:26:35,000 --> 02:26:37,400
Speaker 1: five zero eight six by six hundred. And also we're

3051
02:26:37,440 --> 02:26:40,480
Speaker 1: at five hundred and ninety four people on the between

3052
02:26:40,560 --> 02:26:45,280
Speaker 1: like Facebook, YouTube, and Twitch. So if let's let's see

3053
02:26:45,360 --> 02:26:47,160
Speaker 1: if we can get to six hundred. So stay on

3054
02:26:47,240 --> 02:26:50,960
Speaker 1: the line because we got some more juicy stories for you.

3055
02:26:51,879 --> 02:26:54,360
Speaker 1: This is today. I afked up by telling my girlfriend

3056
02:26:54,560 --> 02:27:00,960
Speaker 1: I knew she cheated on me Juicy, Juicy Juicy, approximately

3057
02:27:01,040 --> 02:27:03,400
Speaker 1: six years ago. I was laughing about it with my

3058
02:27:03,480 --> 02:27:07,880
Speaker 1: friend today, who recommended that I posted here, So let's

3059
02:27:08,000 --> 02:27:08,680
Speaker 1: all laugh at it.

3060
02:27:09,560 --> 02:27:12,120
Speaker 4: I am not cold, I'm sorry, I'm just just sitting

3061
02:27:12,280 --> 02:27:14,280
Speaker 4: like that someone asked if I was cool. Yeah, it's

3062
02:27:14,320 --> 02:27:14,920
Speaker 4: actually quite hot.

3063
02:27:15,000 --> 02:27:17,720
Speaker 1: Now I'm actually burning up in this butter. And then

3064
02:27:17,920 --> 02:27:21,080
Speaker 1: Riley after this story, maybe John can sub for me

3065
02:27:21,200 --> 02:27:25,560
Speaker 1: because I need to eat, y'all. So flashback to undergrad.

3066
02:27:26,000 --> 02:27:28,600
Speaker 1: Things are good and I just started dating this beautiful

3067
02:27:28,640 --> 02:27:31,840
Speaker 1: girl that I had met in class. I was enamored

3068
02:27:31,920 --> 02:27:34,400
Speaker 1: with her, shocked that I loved her so fast, and

3069
02:27:34,560 --> 02:27:37,840
Speaker 1: amazed that she even wanted to date me. The first

3070
02:27:37,920 --> 02:27:41,080
Speaker 1: months are amazing. We can't keep our hands off of

3071
02:27:41,160 --> 02:27:43,800
Speaker 1: each other and never seem to be sick of each

3072
02:27:43,800 --> 02:27:47,160
Speaker 1: other's company. After a few months into our relationship, I

3073
02:27:47,280 --> 02:27:53,320
Speaker 1: started to notice some concerning symptoms, as you can probably hypothesize.

3074
02:27:53,760 --> 02:27:56,520
Speaker 1: When I peeded, it burned.

3075
02:27:57,160 --> 02:27:59,440
Speaker 4: Oh oh man, yeah, wakes.

3076
02:28:00,200 --> 02:28:01,320
Speaker 1: You want that to be gone.

3077
02:28:02,160 --> 02:28:03,280
Speaker 4: You should go to the doctor about that.

3078
02:28:03,440 --> 02:28:06,160
Speaker 1: Us gone rhea. At first, I just assumed it must

3079
02:28:06,200 --> 02:28:08,280
Speaker 1: have been something weird to my diet. To be sure,

3080
02:28:08,760 --> 02:28:12,280
Speaker 1: I decided to stop taking creatine just in case. But

3081
02:28:12,400 --> 02:28:14,959
Speaker 1: as time went on a few days later, the burning

3082
02:28:15,400 --> 02:28:16,440
Speaker 1: became unbearable.

3083
02:28:17,040 --> 02:28:17,400
Speaker 4: Yikes.

3084
02:28:17,800 --> 02:28:22,000
Speaker 1: Love is a burning thing, yeah, and it makes a

3085
02:28:22,200 --> 02:28:26,320
Speaker 1: fiery sting. I would literally be struggling to stand while

3086
02:28:26,320 --> 02:28:30,000
Speaker 1: I peeded because the pain was so intense. After I

3087
02:28:30,040 --> 02:28:32,240
Speaker 1: would literally lay in my bed in the fetal position

3088
02:28:32,440 --> 02:28:35,440
Speaker 1: until the pain subsided. It was bad. Oh you go

3089
02:28:35,520 --> 02:28:36,080
Speaker 1: to a doctor.

3090
02:28:36,680 --> 02:28:37,200
Speaker 4: Oh my god.

3091
02:28:37,400 --> 02:28:39,560
Speaker 1: Well, at least this point, I was no longer convinced

3092
02:28:39,600 --> 02:28:43,120
Speaker 1: that my diet was causing the symptoms. No, it had

3093
02:28:43,160 --> 02:28:48,680
Speaker 1: to be what I thought was unfathomable. My girlfriend must

3094
02:28:48,760 --> 02:28:49,520
Speaker 1: have cheated on me.

3095
02:28:49,720 --> 02:28:50,039
Speaker 4: Yikes.

3096
02:28:50,240 --> 02:28:51,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, what would you think in the situation.

3097
02:28:52,760 --> 02:28:54,480
Speaker 4: Well, I would have gone to the doctor right away.

3098
02:28:54,640 --> 02:28:58,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, your put your curiosity to rest. Just find

3099
02:28:58,440 --> 02:29:02,200
Speaker 1: out under score fifty five Nope, had to be a uti.

3100
02:29:02,320 --> 02:29:04,920
Speaker 1: It could be a UTI. Yeah, it doesn't necessarily have

3101
02:29:05,040 --> 02:29:05,800
Speaker 1: to be cheating.

3102
02:29:07,320 --> 02:29:11,320
Speaker 4: That it's true. Yeah, but you can only find out

3103
02:29:11,360 --> 02:29:12,080
Speaker 4: if you go to the doctor.

3104
02:29:12,400 --> 02:29:13,080
Speaker 2: Go to the doctor.

3105
02:29:13,160 --> 02:29:15,920
Speaker 4: Op it tested regardless, even if it was like something

3106
02:29:15,959 --> 02:29:18,160
Speaker 4: in your diet. I feel like, if if it was concous,

3107
02:29:18,520 --> 02:29:18,680
Speaker 4: just go.

3108
02:29:18,720 --> 02:29:19,240
Speaker 2: To a doctor.

3109
02:29:19,560 --> 02:29:21,360
Speaker 1: I hadn't been with anyone else. I hadn't been with

3110
02:29:21,400 --> 02:29:24,880
Speaker 1: anyone else since I began pursuing her months before we

3111
02:29:24,920 --> 02:29:29,520
Speaker 1: became exclusive. I was shocked. Things seemed to be so perfect.

3112
02:29:30,000 --> 02:29:33,800
Speaker 1: She seemed like such a good person. Where had I

3113
02:29:33,959 --> 02:29:38,680
Speaker 1: gone wrong? The thought made my blood boil until I

3114
02:29:38,800 --> 02:29:42,080
Speaker 1: outright confronted her. I told her I knew she must

3115
02:29:42,120 --> 02:29:44,800
Speaker 1: have been unfaithful because of my symptoms and asked her

3116
02:29:44,879 --> 02:29:50,920
Speaker 1: if she had similar symptoms. She told me no. Yeah.

3117
02:29:51,000 --> 02:29:53,520
Speaker 1: Someone asked, is it koalape again? We had a story

3118
02:29:53,560 --> 02:29:56,720
Speaker 1: about koala is peeing on some line. What do you

3119
02:29:56,760 --> 02:29:58,480
Speaker 1: guys think it is? Put your answer to the comments.

3120
02:29:58,959 --> 02:30:03,039
Speaker 1: Way actually a conspiracy theories? Okay, what do you think?

3121
02:30:03,040 --> 02:30:03,240
Speaker 2: For you?

3122
02:30:03,720 --> 02:30:06,200
Speaker 4: Wait, so he did he say that he has gone

3123
02:30:06,240 --> 02:30:06,959
Speaker 4: to the doctor yet or.

3124
02:30:07,040 --> 02:30:08,560
Speaker 1: Hasn't gone a doctor. He's about to figure it find

3125
02:30:08,560 --> 02:30:08,880
Speaker 1: it out though?

3126
02:30:09,879 --> 02:30:11,760
Speaker 4: Uh oh after going What do you mean.

3127
02:30:12,040 --> 02:30:14,440
Speaker 1: He hasn't found out yet what it is?

3128
02:30:14,520 --> 02:30:14,600
Speaker 2: Oh?

3129
02:30:14,680 --> 02:30:16,680
Speaker 4: From the Okay? Okay, Yeah, I think you got to

3130
02:30:16,760 --> 02:30:19,560
Speaker 4: wait until you get your stuff back from the doctor

3131
02:30:19,600 --> 02:30:21,440
Speaker 4: before you go accusing anyone.

3132
02:30:21,879 --> 02:30:24,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, it could be a It could be an urinary

3133
02:30:24,720 --> 02:30:27,320
Speaker 1: track infection. It could it could be an SDD. It

3134
02:30:27,360 --> 02:30:31,240
Speaker 1: could just be like I don't know, acid p is

3135
02:30:31,280 --> 02:30:31,880
Speaker 1: the place.

3136
02:30:32,000 --> 02:30:32,480
Speaker 4: Who knows?

3137
02:30:32,600 --> 02:30:34,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, it could be a million things. The only way

3138
02:30:34,560 --> 02:30:35,800
Speaker 1: to truly know is go to a doctor.

3139
02:30:35,920 --> 02:30:37,360
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, I don't know.

3140
02:30:37,400 --> 02:30:38,920
Speaker 1: What do you guys think? Put your answers in the

3141
02:30:38,959 --> 02:30:42,400
Speaker 1: comments but we're gonna go back to a reality. April says,

3142
02:30:42,440 --> 02:30:44,680
Speaker 1: it could be a kidney infection. So, yeah, there's a

3143
02:30:44,720 --> 02:30:47,280
Speaker 1: bunch of things that gave things so many things. So

3144
02:30:49,400 --> 02:30:51,600
Speaker 1: she told me, no, I don't have the same symptoms.

3145
02:30:51,680 --> 02:30:53,360
Speaker 1: I demanded that she come with me to a clinic,

3146
02:30:53,480 --> 02:30:55,680
Speaker 1: that we both take a test and share results, and

3147
02:30:55,760 --> 02:30:56,360
Speaker 1: she said sure.

3148
02:30:57,480 --> 02:31:01,879
Speaker 4: She seems too calm for, you know, her to actually

3149
02:31:01,920 --> 02:31:02,360
Speaker 4: be cheating.

3150
02:31:03,160 --> 02:31:05,600
Speaker 1: So you think it is not a red flag? You

3151
02:31:05,680 --> 02:31:09,840
Speaker 1: think that her saying sure is a green flag.

3152
02:31:10,280 --> 02:31:14,199
Speaker 4: Yeah, I think I don't think she cheated personally.

3153
02:31:13,879 --> 02:31:15,720
Speaker 1: Because I think she's so down to go. Yeah, yeah,

3154
02:31:15,760 --> 02:31:20,800
Speaker 1: she's lazy. Fine, So we agreed to go the next day.

3155
02:31:21,920 --> 02:31:24,200
Speaker 1: Looking back at this, I feel like a complete dick.

3156
02:31:24,280 --> 02:31:27,520
Speaker 1: Maybe some foreshadowing. The same night I confront of my girlfriend,

3157
02:31:27,600 --> 02:31:29,880
Speaker 1: my roommate's girlfriend came over to stay at our place.

3158
02:31:30,320 --> 02:31:32,040
Speaker 1: She was being nice and went to do some of

3159
02:31:32,040 --> 02:31:35,360
Speaker 1: the dishes for us. Around the time, my roommates and

3160
02:31:35,440 --> 02:31:38,200
Speaker 1: I had just moved into the new house. In the

3161
02:31:38,400 --> 02:31:43,200
Speaker 1: process of all of her belongings getting shuffled around, she

3162
02:31:43,360 --> 02:31:47,440
Speaker 1: went to get some dish washing pods and exclaimed, why

3163
02:31:47,680 --> 02:31:53,240
Speaker 1: are you guys washing your dishes with laundry detergent. I

3164
02:31:53,400 --> 02:31:59,520
Speaker 1: heard that and it clicked, Holy shit, I've been pissing

3165
02:31:59,560 --> 02:32:00,440
Speaker 1: out each.

3166
02:32:01,959 --> 02:32:02,760
Speaker 4: Oh my god.

3167
02:32:03,080 --> 02:32:06,359
Speaker 1: I instantly felt ashamed and immediately apologized to my girlfriend.

3168
02:32:06,400 --> 02:32:08,640
Speaker 1: She took it really well, laughed at the situation, and

3169
02:32:08,760 --> 02:32:11,160
Speaker 1: we forgot about it. Sure Enough, a few days later,

3170
02:32:11,280 --> 02:32:14,160
Speaker 1: after our dishes slash cups were no longer saturated with

3171
02:32:14,280 --> 02:32:17,640
Speaker 1: bleach residue, my symptoms disappeared.

3172
02:32:17,800 --> 02:32:19,240
Speaker 4: He was micro doosing bleach.

3173
02:32:19,360 --> 02:32:23,400
Speaker 1: Micro dosing bleach, which I've heard, Wow, is not very healthy.

3174
02:32:24,800 --> 02:32:26,920
Speaker 4: I heard that's not very good. I'm not a doctor.

3175
02:32:27,680 --> 02:32:29,280
Speaker 1: A doctor, I mean, it's not very good for you.

3176
02:32:29,680 --> 02:32:32,200
Speaker 1: It could be a you know, a cool trend that

3177
02:32:32,480 --> 02:32:35,200
Speaker 1: the kids are doing these days, you know microsa Yeah,

3178
02:32:35,240 --> 02:32:37,720
Speaker 1: you know, like how like all the kids they're like,

3179
02:32:37,840 --> 02:32:41,320
Speaker 1: oh like, let's uh uh eat tide pods.

3180
02:32:41,480 --> 02:32:43,600
Speaker 2: Let's micro dos b Actually did that? Who?

3181
02:32:43,720 --> 02:32:46,160
Speaker 4: Actually? I feel like that was sensationalized?

3182
02:32:46,400 --> 02:32:47,560
Speaker 1: What tie pods?

3183
02:32:47,760 --> 02:32:47,960
Speaker 2: Yeah?

3184
02:32:48,400 --> 02:32:50,720
Speaker 1: I don't know. I seeing it all over TikTok exactly.

3185
02:32:51,040 --> 02:32:53,240
Speaker 4: Everything on TikTok is sensationalized.

3186
02:32:53,360 --> 02:32:56,920
Speaker 1: No, everything on TikTok is true and nothing but the

3187
02:32:57,040 --> 02:32:59,720
Speaker 1: true sofia. But leave the TikTok said bleach.

3188
02:32:59,600 --> 02:33:01,640
Speaker 4: Maxim, I just want I don't know if you guys

3189
02:33:01,680 --> 02:33:04,440
Speaker 4: have seen the Curtis Connor Look Mac, look Mac. I

3190
02:33:04,480 --> 02:33:07,920
Speaker 4: can't speak Max in video. It's like this thing on

3191
02:33:08,000 --> 02:33:12,320
Speaker 4: TikTok where people are just trying to look better but

3192
02:33:12,840 --> 02:33:17,280
Speaker 4: with makeup. No, like they're doing like jaw exercise. Yeah,

3193
02:33:17,400 --> 02:33:17,879
Speaker 4: the mewing.

3194
02:33:20,920 --> 02:33:22,080
Speaker 1: Do we look mute beautiful?

3195
02:33:24,160 --> 02:33:24,360
Speaker 3: Yeah?

3196
02:33:24,520 --> 02:33:27,080
Speaker 1: That yeah? I think that That is why you don't

3197
02:33:27,120 --> 02:33:31,720
Speaker 1: jump to conclusions before seeing it, Octor. But Sophia, you

3198
02:33:31,800 --> 02:33:33,440
Speaker 1: know what you should see right now.

3199
02:33:33,760 --> 02:33:35,600
Speaker 4: You could have said you know what you should jump to.

3200
02:33:35,920 --> 02:33:37,640
Speaker 1: You know what you should jump through? There go this

3201
02:33:37,840 --> 02:33:38,280
Speaker 1: next door?

3202
02:33:39,320 --> 02:33:39,720
Speaker 2: All right?

3203
02:33:39,879 --> 02:33:40,240
Speaker 1: Here you go?

3204
02:33:40,720 --> 02:33:41,440
Speaker 4: Are you John?

3205
02:33:41,640 --> 02:33:43,720
Speaker 1: This is a thick, juicy one. If John wants to

3206
02:33:43,800 --> 02:33:47,360
Speaker 1: come in and relieve me so I can eat. I

3207
02:33:47,760 --> 02:33:50,480
Speaker 1: have been doing this for like hours and hours. I

3208
02:33:50,600 --> 02:33:54,360
Speaker 1: haven't peeded. I haven't eaten the things we sacrifice for you,

3209
02:33:55,360 --> 02:33:57,400
Speaker 1: and we love doing it. But I I really I

3210
02:33:57,520 --> 02:33:59,760
Speaker 1: need to go to the bathroom. So if John can,

3211
02:34:00,040 --> 02:34:01,880
Speaker 1: you could start reading, Sofia, because we didn't get into

3212
02:34:01,920 --> 02:34:04,000
Speaker 1: this next door because the live stream death that stopped.

3213
02:34:04,040 --> 02:34:06,039
Speaker 1: Y'all stop.

3214
02:34:08,560 --> 02:34:12,280
Speaker 4: Right now, let's go hold on hold on. There is

3215
02:34:12,320 --> 02:34:14,760
Speaker 4: a little skit that I guess someone wrote where it

3216
02:34:14,800 --> 02:34:17,520
Speaker 4: says John, you know what's worse than cyberbuwling?

3217
02:34:17,959 --> 02:34:18,279
Speaker 2: Sam?

3218
02:34:19,440 --> 02:34:22,360
Speaker 4: Insert Sam improv I don't know.

3219
02:34:22,520 --> 02:34:27,320
Speaker 1: What's worse than cyber bowling. No, cy cybercheating.

3220
02:34:27,480 --> 02:34:28,600
Speaker 4: No, you didn't do the impress.

3221
02:34:28,640 --> 02:34:31,960
Speaker 1: And with that, I think I have to cheat on

3222
02:34:32,200 --> 02:34:35,800
Speaker 1: my co host by go snacking on some food. So

3223
02:34:35,959 --> 02:34:38,920
Speaker 1: John comes suing to me, it's about to start this.

3224
02:34:39,080 --> 02:34:44,160
Speaker 4: Next door, someone says they did their dishes with chlorine

3225
02:34:44,240 --> 02:34:45,920
Speaker 4: and my pe doesn't burn. I don't know if you

3226
02:34:45,959 --> 02:34:46,720
Speaker 4: should be doing that.

3227
02:34:47,200 --> 02:34:50,880
Speaker 5: Wait, I'm sorry, John. Do you sit there? Should you

3228
02:34:50,920 --> 02:34:52,960
Speaker 5: sit where Sophia is? Because this hurts my head?

3229
02:34:58,000 --> 02:35:01,440
Speaker 1: Just thank you little musical chairs. Also, you can see

3230
02:35:01,480 --> 02:35:04,879
Speaker 1: we all live together, we're all in all in the same.

3231
02:35:04,959 --> 02:35:07,440
Speaker 1: Sam's gonna get a ut I here soon. Why would

3232
02:35:07,480 --> 02:35:08,680
Speaker 1: you put that into the universe?

3233
02:35:09,720 --> 02:35:18,320
Speaker 4: Knocking was I'm knocking on the doubly So that's not everyone, Sophia.

3234
02:35:18,760 --> 02:35:19,160
Speaker 4: What's up?

3235
02:35:19,280 --> 02:35:19,880
Speaker 3: How's it been going?

3236
02:35:19,959 --> 02:35:22,920
Speaker 4: It's been going well. Just did the skit that someone wrote?

3237
02:35:23,320 --> 02:35:25,039
Speaker 3: Nice? Oh that's amazing.

3238
02:35:25,160 --> 02:35:27,720
Speaker 4: Yeah, you're here, here, here, we'll do it again. Because

3239
02:35:27,760 --> 02:35:29,320
Speaker 4: Sam did a horrible chump.

3240
02:35:29,400 --> 02:35:32,680
Speaker 2: All right, let's try this the real way, y'all. You

3241
02:35:32,760 --> 02:35:35,560
Speaker 2: know what's worse than cyberbillying? I don't know.

3242
02:35:36,200 --> 02:35:44,359
Speaker 4: Uh, cyber tech, No, cyber.

3243
02:35:44,200 --> 02:35:47,120
Speaker 3: Cheating, and let me tell you all about it.

3244
02:35:47,400 --> 02:35:48,960
Speaker 4: You can only think of cyber rats, which is a

3245
02:35:49,040 --> 02:35:49,800
Speaker 4: doctor who's right?

3246
02:35:49,920 --> 02:35:52,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, pirting, pirate, cyber pirting.

3247
02:35:52,520 --> 02:35:54,480
Speaker 4: Cyber which cyber Wait?

3248
02:35:54,720 --> 02:36:01,200
Speaker 2: Wait done, dun dun. Okay. So this next story, which

3249
02:36:01,200 --> 02:36:04,560
Speaker 2: we're about to get into, right, yes, yes it is.

3250
02:36:05,080 --> 02:36:07,880
Speaker 2: My wife is texting her classmate every day and spending

3251
02:36:08,080 --> 02:36:09,039
Speaker 2: lots of time with him.

3252
02:36:09,280 --> 02:36:09,920
Speaker 1: What should I do?

3253
02:36:10,240 --> 02:36:12,720
Speaker 2: This is Okayop, we read the craziest true stories on

3254
02:36:12,800 --> 02:36:17,280
Speaker 2: Earth again, I'm John, this is Sofia, Sofia. What should

3255
02:36:17,320 --> 02:36:20,360
Speaker 2: this person do? They're texting with the classmate all the time, Like,

3256
02:36:23,959 --> 02:36:24,480
Speaker 2: what should they do?

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02:36:25,080 --> 02:36:33,000
Speaker 4: I think they need to Actually, I totally zone. I

3258
02:36:33,120 --> 02:36:34,600
Speaker 4: was looking at the comments and I do.

3259
02:36:34,680 --> 02:36:36,440
Speaker 3: It is a lot, right, it's a lot to keep up.

3260
02:36:37,320 --> 02:36:39,640
Speaker 4: I'm in a new place right now in the chair.

3261
02:36:39,879 --> 02:36:42,080
Speaker 3: Yes, you're gonna have to read. We're back into reality.

3262
02:36:42,120 --> 02:36:43,440
Speaker 3: So basically, here's the situation.

3263
02:36:43,600 --> 02:36:47,440
Speaker 2: So the wife is texting this new classmate every day, right,

3264
02:36:47,840 --> 02:36:50,000
Speaker 2: and the husband is like, yo, why are you Why

3265
02:36:50,040 --> 02:36:52,880
Speaker 2: are you texting every day? Why are you that they're

3266
02:36:52,879 --> 02:36:55,160
Speaker 2: both close? Yeah, I don't know if they're both in

3267
02:36:55,200 --> 02:36:58,039
Speaker 2: college yet we have no Remember this is our no context.

3268
02:36:57,680 --> 02:36:59,040
Speaker 3: No context, no context zone.

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02:36:59,480 --> 02:37:00,760
Speaker 1: I think that.

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02:37:02,800 --> 02:37:04,560
Speaker 4: Yeah, don't maybe don't text them every day.

3271
02:37:04,600 --> 02:37:06,720
Speaker 3: Don't text them every day, Maybe every two days.

3272
02:37:06,720 --> 02:37:11,080
Speaker 4: Text your your husband every one day, yes, and your

3273
02:37:12,200 --> 02:37:13,400
Speaker 4: school friend every two days.

3274
02:37:13,600 --> 02:37:16,640
Speaker 2: Fulfill the quota. Yeah, every day with the hobby. You

3275
02:37:16,760 --> 02:37:18,119
Speaker 2: heard it here first, ladies and gentlemen.

3276
02:37:18,600 --> 02:37:19,880
Speaker 4: Put it on your Google calendar.

3277
02:37:20,240 --> 02:37:21,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, the same way.

3278
02:37:23,120 --> 02:37:25,879
Speaker 2: All right. So let's get into this story from fit

3279
02:37:26,040 --> 02:37:30,360
Speaker 2: Cherry seventy eight sixty two, who says, we me thirty

3280
02:37:30,440 --> 02:37:34,320
Speaker 2: male and my wife twenty five female, have been married

3281
02:37:34,400 --> 02:37:37,920
Speaker 2: for around three years. We recently moved across the country

3282
02:37:38,000 --> 02:37:40,880
Speaker 2: so my wife could attend grad school. I found a

3283
02:37:40,959 --> 02:37:43,520
Speaker 2: career job in the new location and have been financially

3284
02:37:43,560 --> 02:37:45,080
Speaker 2: supporting us for the most part.

3285
02:37:45,959 --> 02:37:48,680
Speaker 3: She had been on her phone a lot more over

3286
02:37:48,720 --> 02:37:49,440
Speaker 3: the last few months.

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02:37:49,520 --> 02:37:52,640
Speaker 2: Suspicious, suspicious. I've asked a few times who she was

3288
02:37:52,720 --> 02:37:55,960
Speaker 2: texting all the time, and she says, it's just a

3289
02:37:56,000 --> 02:37:56,640
Speaker 2: friend from school.

3290
02:37:58,480 --> 02:37:59,039
Speaker 3: This is a friend.

3291
02:38:00,360 --> 02:38:01,840
Speaker 4: It's just a friend from school. They're working on a

3292
02:38:01,879 --> 02:38:02,400
Speaker 4: group project.

3293
02:38:02,480 --> 02:38:05,120
Speaker 2: That's it, group projects. Okay, we can it takes two

3294
02:38:05,400 --> 02:38:07,360
Speaker 2: to make a group project project.

3295
02:38:07,480 --> 02:38:11,040
Speaker 3: Uh oh. When I ask more questions, she starts to

3296
02:38:11,080 --> 02:38:11,720
Speaker 3: get defensive.

3297
02:38:12,520 --> 02:38:16,520
Speaker 2: Wasn't sure what else to do, so unfortunately I took

3298
02:38:16,600 --> 02:38:18,720
Speaker 2: a peek through her phone.

3299
02:38:20,400 --> 02:38:23,080
Speaker 3: Oh that is that a red flag alert?

3300
02:38:23,840 --> 02:38:27,640
Speaker 2: Where are we here? We are as a red flat.

3301
02:38:27,879 --> 02:38:30,279
Speaker 2: Everyone drop your red flags if you believe it is Sophia,

3302
02:38:30,360 --> 02:38:31,080
Speaker 2: give us a breakdown.

3303
02:38:31,280 --> 02:38:35,039
Speaker 4: I okay, I don't think that you should ever be look.

3304
02:38:35,120 --> 02:38:37,800
Speaker 4: I think you should talk to your I don't know.

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02:38:38,080 --> 02:38:40,600
Speaker 4: I think that looking through your partner's phone is kind

3306
02:38:40,640 --> 02:38:42,720
Speaker 4: of like end of relationship signs.

3307
02:38:43,000 --> 02:38:48,440
Speaker 2: Do you think that there's any scenario where like this

3308
02:38:48,560 --> 02:38:51,160
Speaker 2: one it was just like texting someone a lot, But

3309
02:38:51,280 --> 02:38:54,080
Speaker 2: do you think there are other scenarios where it's like

3310
02:38:54,160 --> 02:38:55,120
Speaker 2: a lot more evident.

3311
02:38:56,720 --> 02:38:57,920
Speaker 1: I think it's okay.

3312
02:38:58,120 --> 02:38:59,520
Speaker 4: I think you just have to be like I think

3313
02:38:59,560 --> 02:39:01,680
Speaker 4: there could be scenarios where you're like, know, this person

3314
02:39:01,800 --> 02:39:03,879
Speaker 4: is cheating and the gaslighting me and all this stuff,

3315
02:39:03,920 --> 02:39:06,400
Speaker 4: and I just need some proof. Yes, but you have

3316
02:39:06,560 --> 02:39:09,400
Speaker 4: to know that that's going to be like your relationships.

3317
02:39:09,080 --> 02:39:10,840
Speaker 2: You're kind of locked and like maybe maybe you have

3318
02:39:11,560 --> 02:39:13,680
Speaker 2: U anecdotal proof that you don't have like a written

3319
02:39:13,720 --> 02:39:15,800
Speaker 2: record of or something like that. Yeah, it's it's like

3320
02:39:16,000 --> 02:39:19,360
Speaker 2: very specific situations maybe, but you know is key.

3321
02:39:19,640 --> 02:39:22,039
Speaker 4: Yes, I think someone also said in the Burning Rose.

3322
02:39:22,200 --> 02:39:24,440
Speaker 2: Shout out, Burning Burning Rose has been going crazy this

3323
02:39:24,560 --> 02:39:28,400
Speaker 2: whole thea whole thing. Yes, it's a tricky one. It's

3324
02:39:28,400 --> 02:39:32,879
Speaker 2: a tricky one, y'all. Yeah, Oh, y'all are so funny.

3325
02:39:33,959 --> 02:39:37,000
Speaker 2: No free sponsors. Yes, we love zoctoc, we love doc talk. Okay,

3326
02:39:37,160 --> 02:39:40,199
Speaker 2: So I wasn't your what else to do? So importantly,

3327
02:39:40,320 --> 02:39:43,320
Speaker 2: unfortunately took a peek through the phone. I found out

3328
02:39:43,640 --> 02:39:46,040
Speaker 2: that she has been texting some guy from her school

3329
02:39:46,560 --> 02:39:50,680
Speaker 2: all day, every day and night. The text lasts from

3330
02:39:50,800 --> 02:39:56,160
Speaker 2: seven am to twelve am every day, seven am to midnight.

3331
02:39:56,520 --> 02:39:57,480
Speaker 4: Whoa wait.

3332
02:39:58,959 --> 02:39:59,520
Speaker 1: Like you?

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02:39:59,720 --> 02:40:03,520
Speaker 2: They make up and then good morning? How's that school?

3334
02:40:03,520 --> 02:40:04,640
Speaker 3: How's that group project going?

3335
02:40:05,120 --> 02:40:05,760
Speaker 4: They wake up?

3336
02:40:06,160 --> 02:40:08,320
Speaker 1: Morning, good morning, good night?

3337
02:40:08,560 --> 02:40:12,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, great jobs studying hard on that group project.

3338
02:40:13,440 --> 02:40:15,520
Speaker 3: Wink wink wink.

3339
02:40:17,120 --> 02:40:18,320
Speaker 2: So yeah, are we are we innocent?

3340
02:40:18,840 --> 02:40:23,840
Speaker 4: Aren't even talking about friends that much? Right?

3341
02:40:24,000 --> 02:40:24,200
Speaker 2: Yeah?

3342
02:40:24,320 --> 02:40:27,280
Speaker 4: And I'm pretty good at communicating with most times.

3343
02:40:27,520 --> 02:40:32,320
Speaker 2: Imagine texting someone every day, ok? Bored from seven am

3344
02:40:32,400 --> 02:40:33,520
Speaker 2: to Yeah, who.

3345
02:40:33,520 --> 02:40:34,320
Speaker 3: Is that interesting that?

3346
02:40:34,400 --> 02:40:38,720
Speaker 4: You know what? Truly, one is interesting.

3347
02:40:38,440 --> 02:40:41,240
Speaker 3: Unless they got something specifically that they're interested in.

3348
02:40:41,400 --> 02:40:45,280
Speaker 4: Unless they're giving you, I don't know, like government secrets.

3349
02:40:45,520 --> 02:40:48,400
Speaker 2: Oh that would be pretty interesting. Actually, I would like

3350
02:40:48,480 --> 02:40:49,640
Speaker 2: to get government secrets.

3351
02:40:49,720 --> 02:40:52,120
Speaker 5: Yeah, Riley, I have tons of government secrets.

3352
02:40:52,160 --> 02:40:53,000
Speaker 2: You have tons of governments.

3353
02:40:53,160 --> 02:40:55,040
Speaker 5: But everyone's like, those aren't real.

3354
02:40:55,480 --> 02:40:56,600
Speaker 4: Those are conspirraits.

3355
02:40:57,040 --> 02:40:59,440
Speaker 3: Okay, conspiracies coming after this story.

3356
02:41:01,200 --> 02:41:07,040
Speaker 2: So the texts seem innocent overall, Okay, nothing sexual or

3357
02:41:07,040 --> 02:41:09,320
Speaker 2: anything like that, but there're worth a few things that

3358
02:41:09,400 --> 02:41:10,080
Speaker 2: were bothering me.

3359
02:41:10,720 --> 02:41:13,760
Speaker 3: I went all the way to the beginning of the thread.

3360
02:41:13,879 --> 02:41:17,800
Speaker 2: Mind you, this is a text thread that is, uh,

3361
02:41:18,560 --> 02:41:21,360
Speaker 2: seven am to midnight every single day.

3362
02:41:21,600 --> 02:41:25,800
Speaker 4: That's a long text thread. Presumably they're not talking every

3363
02:41:25,879 --> 02:41:28,080
Speaker 4: single minute from seven am to twelve am not.

3364
02:41:28,280 --> 02:41:31,880
Speaker 2: But like, but like that's how long it is, Like

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02:41:32,040 --> 02:41:34,000
Speaker 2: I think, I think, yeah, maybe it's like it ends

3366
02:41:34,320 --> 02:41:35,160
Speaker 2: at like midnight.

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02:41:35,240 --> 02:41:36,240
Speaker 4: That's what I've understood.

3368
02:41:36,440 --> 02:41:42,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, that'd be crazy. Every god, he keeps going, yeah,

3369
02:41:42,280 --> 02:41:43,080
Speaker 3: you're just like eating.

3370
02:41:43,959 --> 02:41:47,640
Speaker 2: Okay, I gotta keep responding because not us doing the

3371
02:41:47,680 --> 02:41:48,400
Speaker 2: live stream right now.

3372
02:41:48,640 --> 02:41:51,320
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's seven am to midnight. Livestream.

3373
02:41:51,520 --> 02:41:57,280
Speaker 2: Yes, so you're ready, Riley, Hey, a lot of Celsius

3374
02:41:57,360 --> 02:41:58,920
Speaker 2: for this guy, I mean a lot of energy drinks,

3375
02:41:58,959 --> 02:42:00,920
Speaker 2: no free sponsors, so.

3376
02:42:02,520 --> 02:42:05,280
Speaker 4: Just a generalized energy drink.

3377
02:42:05,560 --> 02:42:09,039
Speaker 3: I am drinking sports drink today. Now.

3378
02:42:09,280 --> 02:42:11,800
Speaker 2: The first issue is that the texting started when my

3379
02:42:11,920 --> 02:42:14,480
Speaker 2: wife asked a friend for this guy's number and then

3380
02:42:14,560 --> 02:42:19,600
Speaker 2: started texting him randomly. Next, she is always the one

3381
02:42:19,640 --> 02:42:22,520
Speaker 2: to text him first, and she double texts him every

3382
02:42:22,600 --> 02:42:24,680
Speaker 2: time that he stops responding.

3383
02:42:24,840 --> 02:42:30,119
Speaker 4: Oh, that's just well, that's like on their own separate plane.

3384
02:42:30,640 --> 02:42:31,680
Speaker 4: That's a little embarrassing.

3385
02:42:32,000 --> 02:42:38,039
Speaker 2: Yeah right, I mean I wish, I wish I were

3386
02:42:38,160 --> 02:42:40,920
Speaker 2: exaggerating because he said every single time, Yeah.

3387
02:42:41,280 --> 02:42:44,240
Speaker 3: She'll never respawn. I've also never met this guy, don't

3388
02:42:44,280 --> 02:42:46,600
Speaker 3: know how old he is, don't know what he looks like.

3389
02:42:47,080 --> 02:42:47,320
Speaker 1: Yeah.

3390
02:42:47,600 --> 02:42:50,000
Speaker 4: No, I honestly, I think even if it is innocent,

3391
02:42:50,160 --> 02:42:54,000
Speaker 4: that's a little bit or innocent seem Yeah, I think

3392
02:42:54,040 --> 02:42:57,160
Speaker 4: it's a little suspicious because you can tell. You can

3393
02:42:57,240 --> 02:43:01,520
Speaker 4: tell when something is, you know, flirty. Yeah, if it's

3394
02:43:01,560 --> 02:43:02,640
Speaker 4: not outright flirty.

3395
02:43:02,400 --> 02:43:04,560
Speaker 2: You can, especially if you're reading all of their like

3396
02:43:05,280 --> 02:43:08,560
Speaker 2: tens of thousands of texts. You could probably download the

3397
02:43:08,680 --> 02:43:10,959
Speaker 2: vibe of what's going on? Rightly, could you put yourself

3398
02:43:11,040 --> 02:43:13,720
Speaker 2: on the screen real quick. There's another there's another big

3399
02:43:13,760 --> 02:43:17,080
Speaker 2: issue here, Sophia. Op just said they don't know what

3400
02:43:17,160 --> 02:43:21,440
Speaker 2: the guy looks like. Unfortunately, it looks like this right here.

3401
02:43:22,959 --> 02:43:27,240
Speaker 2: You're gonna be you gotta be worried. Op, it's over. Sorry, buddy,

3402
02:43:27,360 --> 02:43:28,879
Speaker 2: sorry buddy, Thank you Rightley for let me use your

3403
02:43:28,879 --> 02:43:34,120
Speaker 2: beautiful face. Although the conversation seem innocent, it seems like

3404
02:43:34,240 --> 02:43:37,160
Speaker 2: she randomly texts him just to start a conversation, often

3405
02:43:37,240 --> 02:43:39,840
Speaker 2: tells him about her school drama, et cetera, et cetera.

3406
02:43:40,680 --> 02:43:42,680
Speaker 2: It also seems like they spend a lot of time

3407
02:43:42,760 --> 02:43:46,560
Speaker 2: at school together playing some card game, a card game,

3408
02:43:47,120 --> 02:43:51,880
Speaker 2: some card game, playing backgame in all day Beckham was

3409
02:43:51,959 --> 02:43:52,720
Speaker 2: not a card game, is it.

3410
02:43:53,760 --> 02:43:54,840
Speaker 4: I don't believe so.

3411
02:43:55,160 --> 02:43:55,520
Speaker 3: I don't know.

3412
02:43:56,240 --> 02:43:58,120
Speaker 4: I don't think so. Isn't it that one it's like

3413
02:43:58,200 --> 02:44:00,800
Speaker 4: a it's like a board. Yeah, yeah, it's like and

3414
02:44:00,840 --> 02:44:02,520
Speaker 4: it's not like those little spikes on it.

3415
02:44:02,800 --> 02:44:05,480
Speaker 3: We're trying, y'all, we're trying to remember what games are

3416
02:44:05,520 --> 02:44:06,240
Speaker 3: cards and notts.

3417
02:44:07,440 --> 02:44:09,120
Speaker 4: I know all the card games she does.

3418
02:44:09,720 --> 02:44:10,640
Speaker 3: Sophia is actually very good.

3419
02:44:10,760 --> 02:44:12,400
Speaker 4: I'm very good at card games. It's my only thing.

3420
02:44:15,000 --> 02:44:17,160
Speaker 2: Uh oh, put in the comments what a card game

3421
02:44:17,200 --> 02:44:19,400
Speaker 2: you think you could beat Sophia at? And I'll let

3422
02:44:19,440 --> 02:44:21,279
Speaker 2: you know that he won't.

3423
02:44:22,520 --> 02:44:23,160
Speaker 4: People to bring me in.

3424
02:44:25,000 --> 02:44:27,360
Speaker 2: She has even left dinner with me early to go

3425
02:44:27,520 --> 02:44:29,440
Speaker 2: back to school and play cards with him.

3426
02:44:30,280 --> 02:44:32,800
Speaker 3: Whoa, whoa, what.

3427
02:44:32,920 --> 02:44:34,280
Speaker 4: If I'm so obsessed with cards?

3428
02:44:34,680 --> 02:44:35,959
Speaker 2: They just love it? Oh yeah.

3429
02:44:36,120 --> 02:44:38,200
Speaker 4: There in the chat they're like, hey, do you want

3430
02:44:38,240 --> 02:44:42,440
Speaker 4: to go play cards? That's actually a really good point.

3431
02:44:43,400 --> 02:44:44,840
Speaker 3: That's a tinfoil hack, conspiracy.

3432
02:44:45,080 --> 02:44:50,480
Speaker 2: I don't know, it's right there, you know how like.

3433
02:44:52,920 --> 02:44:57,200
Speaker 5: You know how like there's a lot of like card games. Yes,

3434
02:44:57,320 --> 02:44:59,720
Speaker 5: so like there's a lot of other things you could

3435
02:44:59,720 --> 02:45:02,879
Speaker 5: do with year alone with people. So each card game

3436
02:45:03,000 --> 02:45:04,960
Speaker 5: is a different I think.

3437
02:45:05,440 --> 02:45:08,520
Speaker 4: Oh so they have they have specific code language.

3438
02:45:08,879 --> 02:45:18,640
Speaker 2: They're like, oh yeah, yes, solo solo. Wait wait, oh

3439
02:45:18,760 --> 02:45:22,960
Speaker 2: I'm tired of playing and Solitaire. I'm ready to play.

3440
02:45:23,160 --> 02:45:26,800
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, They're like, I've been playing Solitaire for all week.

3441
02:45:27,840 --> 02:45:32,400
Speaker 3: Let's play war, Let's play Egyptian Rats, lab.

3442
02:45:33,959 --> 02:45:40,959
Speaker 5: O, Rummy, go fish, not the fish?

3443
02:45:41,560 --> 02:45:43,760
Speaker 4: Are you wait? Are you listening? Just card games that

3444
02:45:43,800 --> 02:45:44,400
Speaker 4: they could be playing.

3445
02:45:44,400 --> 02:45:46,280
Speaker 5: I'm just trying to make INDI windows out of these

3446
02:45:46,400 --> 02:45:47,400
Speaker 5: and this is the best.

3447
02:45:47,560 --> 02:45:49,360
Speaker 3: We're trying to find out. We're trying to break their

3448
02:45:49,440 --> 02:45:49,800
Speaker 3: code here.

3449
02:45:49,920 --> 02:45:51,680
Speaker 4: Yeah, you're right, Sarah, I've been slacking.

3450
02:45:51,760 --> 02:45:54,800
Speaker 2: No sex, no guys. Can you can you put down

3451
02:45:54,920 --> 02:45:57,959
Speaker 2: what code what card games for? What code words you think.

3452
02:45:57,920 --> 02:45:59,280
Speaker 5: Is happening right now? I would love to see that

3453
02:45:59,320 --> 02:46:00,920
Speaker 5: cards against men. Great, that's everything.

3454
02:46:01,040 --> 02:46:03,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's everything. That's that's that's an all.

3455
02:46:03,040 --> 02:46:05,000
Speaker 2: Of them is.

3456
02:46:05,040 --> 02:46:08,440
Speaker 4: That's a human. It's Egyptian rat screw and Egyptian rat slabo.

3457
02:46:09,240 --> 02:46:11,800
Speaker 4: There are multiple names for this game. I've heard them all.

3458
02:46:12,040 --> 02:46:12,560
Speaker 2: That's true.

3459
02:46:12,760 --> 02:46:15,320
Speaker 3: Good one human great user name.

3460
02:46:16,720 --> 02:46:19,560
Speaker 2: So she invites him to She invites him to spend

3461
02:46:19,600 --> 02:46:22,080
Speaker 2: one on one time, whether it's at school, at the bar,

3462
02:46:22,680 --> 02:46:25,400
Speaker 2: or wherever. When her parents came into town, she even

3463
02:46:25,440 --> 02:46:27,960
Speaker 2: invited this guy to the bar with her and her

3464
02:46:28,120 --> 02:46:30,320
Speaker 2: parents to meet the parents she is.

3465
02:46:30,360 --> 02:46:33,160
Speaker 4: She invited the got the friend to meet her parents.

3466
02:46:33,360 --> 02:46:35,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, I gotta have my best friend meet my parents

3467
02:46:35,879 --> 02:46:44,120
Speaker 2: before I you know, before my husband. Joking further, she

3468
02:46:44,360 --> 02:46:48,000
Speaker 2: baked cookies for this guy, whoa Sophia.

3469
02:46:48,360 --> 02:46:49,640
Speaker 3: We have a master baker in the room.

3470
02:46:49,840 --> 02:46:51,600
Speaker 4: I would bake cookies.

3471
02:46:51,760 --> 02:46:53,720
Speaker 2: That's all right, anyone.

3472
02:46:54,000 --> 02:46:54,680
Speaker 3: You heard it here?

3473
02:46:54,760 --> 02:46:57,400
Speaker 4: First, ladies and gentlemen actually bike cookies for everyone, So

3474
02:46:57,640 --> 02:46:58,000
Speaker 4: that's true.

3475
02:46:58,080 --> 02:46:58,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know.

3476
02:46:58,800 --> 02:47:00,520
Speaker 4: She was just taking cookies, and I don't know.

3477
02:47:01,000 --> 02:47:02,720
Speaker 3: It's it's I think these are targeted.

3478
02:47:02,959 --> 02:47:05,760
Speaker 4: If they're targeted, targeted cookies, thots a little. I've never

3479
02:47:05,879 --> 02:47:06,960
Speaker 4: targeted my cookies.

3480
02:47:07,200 --> 02:47:09,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's like, hey everyone, it's open.

3481
02:47:10,959 --> 02:47:12,400
Speaker 4: It's an open cookie call.

3482
02:47:12,760 --> 02:47:14,240
Speaker 3: Yeah, exactly, Yeah, come on.

3483
02:47:14,720 --> 02:47:17,840
Speaker 2: Yeah. She loves to bake, and I remember her one

3484
02:47:17,920 --> 02:47:20,720
Speaker 2: day baking a type of cookie that she had never

3485
02:47:20,760 --> 02:47:23,080
Speaker 2: baked before, special cookie.

3486
02:47:23,840 --> 02:47:26,400
Speaker 4: Why was I And I remember she baked a cookie

3487
02:47:26,480 --> 02:47:31,120
Speaker 4: she had never made before, and that was suspicious, trying

3488
02:47:31,200 --> 02:47:31,960
Speaker 4: new recipes.

3489
02:47:32,120 --> 02:47:34,280
Speaker 3: It was September twenty fast. She had never seen a

3490
02:47:34,360 --> 02:47:35,640
Speaker 3: meccadamia in her life.

3491
02:47:38,200 --> 02:47:39,880
Speaker 2: While I assumed that she was baking them for a

3492
02:47:39,959 --> 02:47:41,440
Speaker 2: party that she was going to go to that night,

3493
02:47:41,680 --> 02:47:44,360
Speaker 2: the text showed me that she was baking them just

3494
02:47:44,480 --> 02:47:44,959
Speaker 2: for this guy.

3495
02:47:45,080 --> 02:47:46,840
Speaker 3: Oh, that's right, a party for two.

3496
02:47:47,320 --> 02:47:49,400
Speaker 4: What is he still looking at the text chain.

3497
02:47:50,200 --> 02:47:52,879
Speaker 2: He's referencing that. I think he's read the entire thing

3498
02:47:53,000 --> 02:47:55,080
Speaker 2: at this point. I think he's gone all the way.

3499
02:47:55,000 --> 02:47:55,680
Speaker 3: Top to bottom.

3500
02:47:56,240 --> 02:47:58,480
Speaker 2: What makes it worse is the fact that she went

3501
02:47:58,560 --> 02:48:00,600
Speaker 2: out of her way to do it. I had the

3502
02:48:00,680 --> 02:48:03,000
Speaker 2: car that night, so she walked to the store in

3503
02:48:03,160 --> 02:48:06,480
Speaker 2: the rain to get the ingredients, baked the cookies, and

3504
02:48:06,560 --> 02:48:09,440
Speaker 2: then brought them over to his apartment, where she stayed

3505
02:48:09,600 --> 02:48:10,440
Speaker 2: for two hours.

3506
02:48:10,640 --> 02:48:14,200
Speaker 3: She likes this guy, Yeah right, I mean yeah, does

3507
02:48:14,280 --> 02:48:17,120
Speaker 3: she like them? Growing in the comments below, does she

3508
02:48:17,360 --> 02:48:17,640
Speaker 3: like them?

3509
02:48:18,360 --> 02:48:18,600
Speaker 4: Yeah?

3510
02:48:21,800 --> 02:48:24,320
Speaker 2: She did go to the party afterwards, but only stayed

3511
02:48:24,360 --> 02:48:27,160
Speaker 2: for a few minutes to say high and then leave.

3512
02:48:28,000 --> 02:48:29,080
Speaker 4: She was making appearances.

3513
02:48:29,320 --> 02:48:31,640
Speaker 2: Oh no, she stayed at his house for two hours

3514
02:48:31,680 --> 02:48:33,440
Speaker 2: and literally stayed at the party for two minutes.

3515
02:48:33,520 --> 02:48:34,000
Speaker 3: That's crazy.

3516
02:48:35,040 --> 02:48:37,040
Speaker 2: One thing I've been a bit insecure about is the

3517
02:48:37,120 --> 02:48:40,680
Speaker 2: fact that my profession does not pay great. She lived

3518
02:48:40,760 --> 02:48:44,720
Speaker 2: a very privileged, privileged life scott lifestyle through her parents

3519
02:48:44,760 --> 02:48:47,120
Speaker 2: before meeting me. And she is in grad school for

3520
02:48:47,160 --> 02:48:50,039
Speaker 2: a profession that pays significantly more than.

3521
02:48:50,000 --> 02:48:53,040
Speaker 3: Mine, like five times what I make.

3522
02:48:53,440 --> 02:48:56,959
Speaker 2: Oh wow, she will make more in her summer internship

3523
02:48:57,360 --> 02:49:00,840
Speaker 2: than I will make this entire year. Uh.

3524
02:49:01,000 --> 02:49:02,720
Speaker 4: And now he's signing insecure, which is.

3525
02:49:03,040 --> 02:49:05,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, a lot of things are out of it. And

3526
02:49:05,480 --> 02:49:08,480
Speaker 2: and and mind you, this guy goes to her program

3527
02:49:08,959 --> 02:49:10,840
Speaker 2: a ka will earn the same amount.

3528
02:49:11,360 --> 02:49:14,279
Speaker 4: Oh, Sam's here, Sam, He's here in the corner.

3529
02:49:14,480 --> 02:49:16,760
Speaker 3: Yes, a little sneaky Sam.

3530
02:49:17,440 --> 02:49:25,440
Speaker 2: Hello all together? Yay, Oh yeah, we are all Yes,

3531
02:49:25,600 --> 02:49:32,560
Speaker 2: we are indubitably Yes, she is enthused. This guy that

3532
02:49:32,840 --> 02:49:35,680
Speaker 2: she is texting is in the same profession, So there

3533
02:49:35,720 --> 02:49:38,600
Speaker 2: you go. Reading these messages made me feel sick to

3534
02:49:38,720 --> 02:49:40,760
Speaker 2: my stomach. I just wanted to post here to see

3535
02:49:40,760 --> 02:49:43,880
Speaker 2: if this sounds fishy to anyone else. I'm not sure

3536
02:49:43,920 --> 02:49:46,760
Speaker 2: if anything physical has happened, but she has crossed some

3537
02:49:46,840 --> 02:49:52,080
Speaker 2: boundaries either way. How should I handle this? And we

3538
02:49:52,640 --> 02:49:57,119
Speaker 2: do have a few little little edits, uh so quick edit.

3539
02:49:57,600 --> 02:50:00,040
Speaker 2: The meetup with the parents never actually happened. She he

3540
02:50:00,120 --> 02:50:02,160
Speaker 2: did try to get him to the bar, but that

3541
02:50:02,280 --> 02:50:05,080
Speaker 2: plan fell through. Also, in reading the text, it seems

3542
02:50:05,160 --> 02:50:07,280
Speaker 2: like the guy tried to keep her at arm's length

3543
02:50:08,000 --> 02:50:11,600
Speaker 2: at first, keeping conversations short and not engaging too much,

3544
02:50:11,840 --> 02:50:15,600
Speaker 2: but over time to becoming much much more repetitive and

3545
02:50:15,800 --> 02:50:19,640
Speaker 2: interested in actually talking. This all happened over the course

3546
02:50:20,040 --> 02:50:23,480
Speaker 2: of about five or six months. I'm not paying for

3547
02:50:23,560 --> 02:50:25,280
Speaker 2: a school, just our living expenses.

3548
02:50:25,360 --> 02:50:28,400
Speaker 3: For the most part. We have an update, but we

3549
02:50:28,680 --> 02:50:31,240
Speaker 3: have Yeah, we have to pause here, and we just

3550
02:50:31,320 --> 02:50:33,119
Speaker 3: got Sam. We just got Sam Sam.

3551
02:50:33,200 --> 02:50:35,840
Speaker 4: We have to update him on everything that's going on.

3552
02:50:36,120 --> 02:50:41,279
Speaker 2: Yes, So are you ready for a little TLDR Sami boy. So, basically,

3553
02:50:42,840 --> 02:50:47,800
Speaker 2: Op thirty mail uh is paying for his his lovely

3554
02:50:47,879 --> 02:50:51,040
Speaker 2: lady twenty five female, he's making all the money. She's

3555
02:50:51,120 --> 02:50:54,960
Speaker 2: going to school, and she started texting this guy seven

3556
02:50:55,000 --> 02:50:56,560
Speaker 2: am to midnight, seven.

3557
02:50:56,440 --> 02:50:56,880
Speaker 3: Days a week.

3558
02:50:58,200 --> 02:51:00,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, seven am to midnight am the mid nice seven

3559
02:51:00,720 --> 02:51:04,400
Speaker 2: days a week. So it's a lot, it's a lot. Uh.

3560
02:51:04,720 --> 02:51:08,240
Speaker 2: So now we have to figure out if Opie should

3561
02:51:08,240 --> 02:51:11,480
Speaker 2: be worried or not. I think should op be worried

3562
02:51:11,560 --> 02:51:13,720
Speaker 2: or not? I mean, of course.

3563
02:51:15,040 --> 02:51:15,879
Speaker 1: Is there even a question?

3564
02:51:16,280 --> 02:51:18,439
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean it's clear.

3565
02:51:18,280 --> 02:51:19,080
Speaker 2: That she likes this guy.

3566
02:51:19,600 --> 02:51:22,200
Speaker 4: Yeah. I think. Also, it seems like in the beginning

3567
02:51:22,360 --> 02:51:25,880
Speaker 4: the school friend was trying to maintain a boundary and

3568
02:51:25,920 --> 02:51:27,680
Speaker 4: then she was like no, I.

3569
02:51:27,720 --> 02:51:31,640
Speaker 2: Mean, she was double texting him every time he didn't responds.

3570
02:51:31,920 --> 02:51:34,959
Speaker 2: Every time he read the entire six month chat.

3571
02:51:34,840 --> 02:51:38,360
Speaker 1: History in the in the post no No no.

3572
02:51:40,000 --> 02:51:44,400
Speaker 4: Ang story, her pictures from the entire chain for five months.

3573
02:51:44,560 --> 02:51:46,520
Speaker 2: He read them on his own to get the full

3574
02:51:46,600 --> 02:51:52,080
Speaker 2: download on like everything that happened. Basically, So that's rough.

3575
02:51:52,360 --> 02:51:55,640
Speaker 2: That is rough, right, Sophia, what do we what do

3576
02:51:55,760 --> 02:51:58,480
Speaker 2: we think Opie should do at this point? I think

3577
02:51:58,600 --> 02:52:03,520
Speaker 2: that op needs talk to his girlfriend and he sit down, conversation.

3578
02:52:03,680 --> 02:52:06,960
Speaker 4: Sit down, yeah, say hey, I don't know. I don't

3579
02:52:07,080 --> 02:52:08,279
Speaker 4: like this funny business.

3580
02:52:08,040 --> 02:52:12,280
Speaker 3: That's going on. Yeah, sit down and have a top.

3581
02:52:13,520 --> 02:52:14,560
Speaker 4: It seems like he's going there.

3582
02:52:14,879 --> 02:52:18,200
Speaker 2: Protein put your beautiful face on. There also also a

3583
02:52:18,360 --> 02:52:22,520
Speaker 2: very important information. So the other guy looks like looks

3584
02:52:22,560 --> 02:52:26,879
Speaker 2: like this, looks like that. So it's it's it's it's

3585
02:52:26,879 --> 02:52:29,840
Speaker 2: an issue, it's over. Give up now, right, give up now?

3586
02:52:30,520 --> 02:52:32,720
Speaker 2: Knowing that the man looks exactly like you and it's

3587
02:52:32,720 --> 02:52:36,080
Speaker 2: equally sexy. What should op do in the scenario, Riley,

3588
02:52:37,440 --> 02:52:38,199
Speaker 2: I should.

3589
02:52:38,000 --> 02:52:41,360
Speaker 5: Run or fight him. But if he looks like me,

3590
02:52:41,520 --> 02:52:42,440
Speaker 5: he's gonna have a art time.

3591
02:52:42,760 --> 02:52:44,680
Speaker 2: He's going to be too powerful, Riley, he looks like you,

3592
02:52:44,760 --> 02:52:47,080
Speaker 2: he's going to be too strong. So all you all

3593
02:52:47,120 --> 02:52:50,480
Speaker 2: you can do is so seriously, like do you try

3594
02:52:50,520 --> 02:52:50,760
Speaker 2: to do?

3595
02:52:50,800 --> 02:52:50,840
Speaker 1: You?

3596
02:52:50,920 --> 02:52:51,520
Speaker 3: Try to sit down?

3597
02:52:51,560 --> 02:52:53,840
Speaker 5: And I would try to sit down and first talk

3598
02:52:53,920 --> 02:52:56,840
Speaker 5: to his it's wife, right, yeah, I would talk to

3599
02:52:56,920 --> 02:52:59,520
Speaker 5: the wife be like, hey, I don't feel comfortable with this,

3600
02:53:00,160 --> 02:53:04,680
Speaker 5: and then after that, if it's not working, like, try

3601
02:53:04,720 --> 02:53:06,800
Speaker 5: to get the parents involved, maybe because like I don't

3602
02:53:07,080 --> 02:53:11,960
Speaker 5: also the parents. Let's talk about that, but talk about it.

3603
02:53:12,200 --> 02:53:15,560
Speaker 5: Why why are we hanging out with Opie's parents at

3604
02:53:15,600 --> 02:53:17,480
Speaker 5: the bar with her friend?

3605
02:53:17,600 --> 02:53:19,680
Speaker 2: Like that's yeah, it's a little weird.

3606
02:53:19,720 --> 02:53:21,280
Speaker 5: Why are they letting that go? I know she's like

3607
02:53:21,360 --> 02:53:23,720
Speaker 5: twenty five and he's like thirty, but still like people

3608
02:53:23,760 --> 02:53:26,000
Speaker 5: should have developed brains by now and know better.

3609
02:53:26,240 --> 02:53:28,160
Speaker 4: Yeah, we talked about this in some of the earlier

3610
02:53:28,200 --> 02:53:31,080
Speaker 4: stories that Riley and I filmed this morning were Yeah,

3611
02:53:31,440 --> 02:53:32,920
Speaker 4: people people old people.

3612
02:53:32,800 --> 02:53:34,520
Speaker 5: Don't have developed brains.

3613
02:53:34,800 --> 02:53:37,640
Speaker 1: Someone commented on the livestream is like, these people are

3614
02:53:37,959 --> 02:53:41,240
Speaker 1: thirty plus. Should they should know better, They should know

3615
02:53:41,320 --> 02:53:42,560
Speaker 1: how to communicate, but they don't.

3616
02:53:42,760 --> 02:53:43,520
Speaker 5: They're acting like this.

3617
02:53:43,879 --> 02:53:46,360
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah they sin red flag.

3618
02:53:46,600 --> 02:53:48,240
Speaker 3: They are thirty and twenty five, but.

3619
02:53:48,400 --> 02:53:51,400
Speaker 5: Try to talk some cinciner. If you can't, not the

3620
02:53:51,480 --> 02:53:54,680
Speaker 5: person you want to be with. Exactly, baking cookies for

3621
02:53:54,800 --> 02:53:57,640
Speaker 5: the people. I would have left personally as soon as

3622
02:53:57,680 --> 02:54:00,520
Speaker 5: the cookies dropped. That was the final straw. Riley maybe

3623
02:54:00,560 --> 02:54:02,520
Speaker 5: scrolls scroll through some of the comments that we can

3624
02:54:02,560 --> 02:54:07,240
Speaker 5: see here. Let's see here, so we got from Gracie mecha,

3625
02:54:07,720 --> 02:54:08,200
Speaker 5: just give up.

3626
02:54:08,360 --> 02:54:11,160
Speaker 2: Yep, laughing emoji. You know that does seem to be

3627
02:54:11,360 --> 02:54:14,520
Speaker 2: a common thread on Burning Rose John stopped Bowling Riley.

3628
02:54:14,760 --> 02:54:16,600
Speaker 3: It is actually me loving him to death and thinking

3629
02:54:16,640 --> 02:54:17,320
Speaker 3: he is so beautiful.

3630
02:54:17,360 --> 02:54:18,320
Speaker 5: You should see us off game.

3631
02:54:18,520 --> 02:54:20,519
Speaker 1: It's it's it's like a big brother relationship.

3632
02:54:20,640 --> 02:54:23,400
Speaker 3: That's right, that's right, lady, hatch John is my fave.

3633
02:54:23,560 --> 02:54:25,840
Speaker 3: Not gonna lie. Those glorious locks are better than mine.

3634
02:54:26,000 --> 02:54:27,080
Speaker 3: What products does he use?

3635
02:54:27,520 --> 02:54:28,040
Speaker 2: Y'all? No?

3636
02:54:28,200 --> 02:54:28,959
Speaker 3: Free sponsors?

3637
02:54:28,959 --> 02:54:31,680
Speaker 2: All right, we can't we can't.

3638
02:54:31,520 --> 02:54:34,480
Speaker 4: Even do that, and choosing what kind of comics.

3639
02:54:34,600 --> 02:54:38,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's the ones that are flattering himself, not not me.

3640
02:54:39,000 --> 02:54:40,760
Speaker 2: Kicking off the comment reading on this one.

3641
02:54:40,720 --> 02:54:44,680
Speaker 4: What about the common from CM that said they really

3642
02:54:44,760 --> 02:54:45,520
Speaker 4: love redvines?

3643
02:54:46,320 --> 02:54:50,360
Speaker 2: Uh, so let's have a quick conversation. Red vines are disgusting.

3644
02:54:50,680 --> 02:54:53,600
Speaker 2: Uh and anyone who likes them is just an incorrect

3645
02:54:53,680 --> 02:54:56,240
Speaker 2: human being. Well, because you're you're on Twizzler game, I am,

3646
02:54:56,560 --> 02:54:59,760
Speaker 2: I am Team twist. Whistlers tastes like plastic bro that

3647
02:55:00,040 --> 02:55:05,000
Speaker 2: tastes like chalk, that tastes like so good. No, no, no,

3648
02:55:05,600 --> 02:55:11,680
Speaker 2: I will accept no, I can't accept anything. Actually, yeah, yeah,

3649
02:55:11,760 --> 02:55:15,879
Speaker 2: Twizzlers are red vine because these are Twizzlers. Sucke, you're

3650
02:55:15,920 --> 02:55:21,600
Speaker 2: talking about my boys seem come on, come, come to

3651
02:55:21,640 --> 02:55:24,240
Speaker 2: the come to the light side. Anyone else do we have? Okay,

3652
02:55:24,680 --> 02:55:26,640
Speaker 2: red vines and twizzlers are red flags?

3653
02:55:26,760 --> 02:55:30,040
Speaker 4: Oh no, see, I am a proponent of the age

3654
02:55:30,120 --> 02:55:35,200
Speaker 4: old Red Vine fan club from star Kid, which you

3655
02:55:35,240 --> 02:55:35,720
Speaker 4: guys won't know.

3656
02:55:35,879 --> 02:55:36,440
Speaker 1: But nope.

3657
02:55:36,640 --> 02:55:39,120
Speaker 4: Yeah, if you've seen star Kid, you know you know

3658
02:55:39,240 --> 02:55:40,199
Speaker 4: all about the red vines.

3659
02:55:40,240 --> 02:55:41,320
Speaker 1: I have no idea what that is.

3660
02:55:42,120 --> 02:55:43,800
Speaker 4: Yeah, a very pun of musical.

3661
02:55:44,400 --> 02:55:46,600
Speaker 2: All I know is that bed Wolf said twizzlers. That's

3662
02:55:46,760 --> 02:55:49,640
Speaker 2: that's all I know. You know, all licorice is gross.

3663
02:55:49,879 --> 02:55:51,840
Speaker 2: I never even thought about that possibility.

3664
02:55:52,120 --> 02:55:56,240
Speaker 4: I actually I think beyond twizzlers and red vines, I

3665
02:55:56,320 --> 02:55:58,320
Speaker 4: prefer like the real to you know, like the liquors

3666
02:55:58,360 --> 02:55:59,480
Speaker 4: that you get from Trader Joe's.

3667
02:55:59,640 --> 02:56:02,600
Speaker 3: That Yeah, like that I don't even know. So strong,

3668
02:56:02,640 --> 02:56:06,080
Speaker 3: it's almost like alcohol and a Yeah, twisty two is strong.

3669
02:56:06,360 --> 02:56:12,199
Speaker 3: It is strong. There is an update which Sam's face

3670
02:56:12,360 --> 02:56:13,480
Speaker 3: is needed to access.

3671
02:56:13,959 --> 02:56:17,560
Speaker 1: Everyone has my phone and computer in here, so I

3672
02:56:18,000 --> 02:56:18,680
Speaker 1: have nothing.

3673
02:56:19,200 --> 02:56:19,800
Speaker 3: He has nothing.

3674
02:56:19,879 --> 02:56:21,760
Speaker 1: I have nothing, Well my red vines.

3675
02:56:22,600 --> 02:56:23,040
Speaker 2: Here we go.

3676
02:56:24,080 --> 02:56:27,400
Speaker 3: So update. I ended up deleting the original post.

3677
02:56:27,760 --> 02:56:30,120
Speaker 2: Sorry, but I was able, But I was able to

3678
02:56:30,200 --> 02:56:33,800
Speaker 2: have a conversation with a guy that she has been texting.

3679
02:56:36,320 --> 02:56:38,760
Speaker 2: I got his number off of her phone and just

3680
02:56:38,879 --> 02:56:44,400
Speaker 2: texted him saying, ah, heys, this is my wife's husband.

3681
02:56:45,400 --> 02:56:47,320
Speaker 2: I caught wind of what's been going on between you

3682
02:56:47,400 --> 02:56:49,199
Speaker 2: two and just wanted to see if you'd be willing

3683
02:56:49,280 --> 02:56:53,320
Speaker 2: to be honest with me about what has happened. He

3684
02:56:54,440 --> 02:56:56,840
Speaker 2: responded pretty quickly and was willing to meet with me

3685
02:56:56,920 --> 02:56:58,400
Speaker 2: for lunch in a public place.

3686
02:56:58,879 --> 02:57:02,879
Speaker 3: So we met. Ye are you ready for this next part?

3687
02:57:03,240 --> 02:57:04,280
Speaker 3: Are you ready for this next part?

3688
02:57:04,320 --> 02:57:06,320
Speaker 2: Are you ready for this next part? Can?

3689
02:57:06,480 --> 02:57:06,600
Speaker 1: Can?

3690
02:57:06,680 --> 02:57:06,960
Speaker 2: We? Can?

3691
02:57:07,000 --> 02:57:08,080
Speaker 1: We conspiracy theorize?

3692
02:57:08,080 --> 02:57:09,680
Speaker 2: All right, all right, let's get the hats. Let's get

3693
02:57:09,680 --> 02:57:12,520
Speaker 2: the hats, break them out, break them out.

3694
02:57:12,560 --> 02:57:13,360
Speaker 4: Okay, I don't get.

3695
02:57:17,560 --> 02:57:17,760
Speaker 2: There.

3696
02:57:17,840 --> 02:57:19,840
Speaker 3: We go nice throw What have we got?

3697
02:57:19,959 --> 02:57:20,160
Speaker 2: Sam?

3698
02:57:22,320 --> 02:57:27,160
Speaker 1: I think red flag that he is asking for a

3699
02:57:27,360 --> 02:57:31,760
Speaker 1: public place, like specifically not not, because I feel like

3700
02:57:31,800 --> 02:57:36,480
Speaker 1: that means there's gonna be some crazy revelations of what

3701
02:57:36,680 --> 02:57:41,160
Speaker 1: has happened, because you wouldn't like if it, like, you know, yeah,

3702
02:57:41,200 --> 02:57:44,240
Speaker 1: he's like, because what I'm about to say is gonna

3703
02:57:44,240 --> 02:57:46,640
Speaker 1: piss you off that you're gonna want to kill me. Yeah,

3704
02:57:46,760 --> 02:57:48,400
Speaker 1: but we're gonna be in a public place, so you can't.

3705
02:57:48,800 --> 02:57:49,000
Speaker 2: Yeah.

3706
02:57:49,240 --> 02:57:51,720
Speaker 3: Red flag is in like a warning sign of what's

3707
02:57:51,800 --> 02:57:52,039
Speaker 3: to come.

3708
02:57:52,240 --> 02:57:54,960
Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, I feel I feel like there's gonna be

3709
02:57:55,160 --> 02:57:58,120
Speaker 1: some some sauce that is spilt in public.

3710
02:57:58,200 --> 02:57:59,080
Speaker 3: What do you think the sauces?

3711
02:58:02,840 --> 02:58:07,520
Speaker 2: Chocolate, sonce, for the cookies, for the cookies. It all

3712
02:58:07,640 --> 02:58:11,000
Speaker 2: comes back to the cookies, cokies. All right, guys, are

3713
02:58:11,040 --> 02:58:12,640
Speaker 2: you ready? You got you all aren't ready for this

3714
02:58:12,760 --> 02:58:17,080
Speaker 2: next line? It's too perfect. He is twenty three years

3715
02:58:17,120 --> 02:58:20,360
Speaker 2: old and a very good looking man. I happen to

3716
02:58:20,400 --> 02:58:22,520
Speaker 2: know someone else that is those exact same things.

3717
02:58:23,400 --> 02:58:25,760
Speaker 1: Hey, how he said that.

3718
02:58:25,959 --> 02:58:27,360
Speaker 4: He was like, he's twenty three es.

3719
02:58:28,000 --> 02:58:33,120
Speaker 3: Yes, yes, he literally can't help it, he said, I'll

3720
02:58:33,160 --> 02:58:34,680
Speaker 3: give him that. He can't help. He can't help, but

3721
02:58:34,720 --> 02:58:35,160
Speaker 3: acknowledge it.

3722
02:58:35,280 --> 02:58:35,800
Speaker 2: I'll give him that.

3723
02:58:36,120 --> 02:58:37,359
Speaker 1: Yeah, he's gorgeous.

3724
02:58:38,360 --> 02:58:40,800
Speaker 2: When we met for lunch, I started the conversation by

3725
02:58:40,840 --> 02:58:43,440
Speaker 2: asking him if he could give me his perspective on

3726
02:58:43,560 --> 02:58:46,840
Speaker 2: what's been happening between him and my wife. He started

3727
02:58:46,920 --> 02:58:50,240
Speaker 2: with a disclaimer that nothing physical has happened between them,

3728
02:58:52,440 --> 02:58:55,760
Speaker 2: and honestly I believe him. He seems like a decent guy.

3729
02:58:56,160 --> 02:58:58,280
Speaker 2: He told me he respects me and never wanted to

3730
02:58:58,280 --> 02:59:00,600
Speaker 2: get involved with a married woman. When he started the

3731
02:59:00,640 --> 02:59:03,840
Speaker 2: story from the very beginning, I'll tell it as if

3732
02:59:03,879 --> 02:59:07,920
Speaker 2: he were telling it five months ago. It goes like this,

3733
02:59:08,400 --> 02:59:11,800
Speaker 2: and that is a direct quote. I approached her at

3734
02:59:11,840 --> 02:59:14,400
Speaker 2: the beginning of school because I found her attractive. I

3735
02:59:14,440 --> 02:59:17,160
Speaker 2: don't remember whether she was wearing a wedding ring. I'm

3736
02:59:17,200 --> 02:59:19,120
Speaker 2: not used to checking for that because most people my

3737
02:59:19,240 --> 02:59:22,400
Speaker 2: age generally aren't married. Is that true rally?

3738
02:59:22,920 --> 02:59:28,440
Speaker 5: Yeah, But the women I look for, oh kind of there.

3739
02:59:30,840 --> 02:59:32,440
Speaker 1: Well, because they're older, they're older.

3740
02:59:32,560 --> 02:59:34,800
Speaker 4: That was the no that didn't know.

3741
02:59:35,360 --> 02:59:39,320
Speaker 1: You're just in the married women, older women married? Why

3742
02:59:39,360 --> 02:59:41,520
Speaker 1: are they're older? Married woman?

3743
02:59:42,440 --> 02:59:44,879
Speaker 5: I'm just saying, I'm look like the type of women

3744
02:59:44,959 --> 02:59:48,760
Speaker 5: that I'm looking for, or older, the probably have wedding rings,

3745
02:59:48,800 --> 02:59:50,040
Speaker 5: but if they're older, they don't have one.

3746
02:59:50,120 --> 02:59:52,880
Speaker 2: I'm like, hello, there it is.

3747
02:59:53,000 --> 02:59:55,160
Speaker 1: I heard Riley hits on women with wedding ring.

3748
02:59:57,440 --> 03:00:00,800
Speaker 5: I'm a gentleman. I'm a gentleman. I'm a gentleman.

3749
03:00:00,800 --> 03:00:03,320
Speaker 4: I would never but you're a gemini.

3750
03:00:04,640 --> 03:00:07,920
Speaker 5: Gentlemen, what does that have to do with anything?

3751
03:00:08,040 --> 03:00:11,440
Speaker 4: I'm a Gemini I would never missus.

3752
03:00:11,440 --> 03:00:14,400
Speaker 1: Stella Davis says, big protein on the prowl for some

3753
03:00:14,560 --> 03:00:15,680
Speaker 1: feisty cougars.

3754
03:00:17,240 --> 03:00:19,480
Speaker 5: Dude, I am close to Malibu. If you know any

3755
03:00:19,600 --> 03:00:23,200
Speaker 5: Malibou hoogers, please let me know, let me know me,

3756
03:00:23,520 --> 03:00:26,160
Speaker 5: I will talk to them. Yeah, sorry, go ahead.

3757
03:00:28,840 --> 03:00:33,640
Speaker 2: But when I approached her, this is again the possible

3758
03:00:33,640 --> 03:00:39,600
Speaker 2: affair partners. She seemed very interested, absolutely zero indication from

3759
03:00:39,640 --> 03:00:41,920
Speaker 2: her part that she made have that she may have

3760
03:00:42,000 --> 03:00:44,879
Speaker 2: been in a relationship. When she found out I had

3761
03:00:44,959 --> 03:00:48,560
Speaker 2: a post job, a post grad job offer, she was

3762
03:00:48,879 --> 03:00:53,080
Speaker 2: overly congratulatory back to the money she made him cookies.

3763
03:00:54,440 --> 03:00:56,760
Speaker 2: After talking to her more over the next few days,

3764
03:00:56,959 --> 03:00:59,920
Speaker 2: I asked for her Instagram, which she seemed hesitant to give,

3765
03:01:00,320 --> 03:01:01,800
Speaker 2: But she gave me her Instagram.

3766
03:01:01,520 --> 03:01:03,360
Speaker 4: Anyways because she didn't want him to find out that

3767
03:01:03,640 --> 03:01:04,480
Speaker 4: she had a partner.

3768
03:01:04,840 --> 03:01:08,560
Speaker 2: Yes, true, Yeah, always observant. When I followed her, I

3769
03:01:08,680 --> 03:01:11,680
Speaker 2: immediately realized that she was married. I was floored due

3770
03:01:11,680 --> 03:01:14,600
Speaker 2: to her behavior, but I decided to fall back. After

3771
03:01:14,760 --> 03:01:17,280
Speaker 2: falling back, I heard from some mutual friends that she

3772
03:01:17,400 --> 03:01:19,680
Speaker 2: seemed to be a bit offended that I stopped talking

3773
03:01:19,720 --> 03:01:22,720
Speaker 2: to her after finding out that she was married. I

3774
03:01:22,840 --> 03:01:26,320
Speaker 2: found that a bit strange, but whatever, some drama transpired,

3775
03:01:26,440 --> 03:01:28,360
Speaker 2: so I went out of my way to avoid her

3776
03:01:28,480 --> 03:01:30,880
Speaker 2: for about a month or so. But after a while

3777
03:01:31,040 --> 03:01:33,200
Speaker 2: I felt the beef was a waste of time, so

3778
03:01:33,800 --> 03:01:36,280
Speaker 2: I decided to give her a compliment to kind of

3779
03:01:36,320 --> 03:01:40,720
Speaker 2: communicate that I don't mind being cordial with her. Hey,

3780
03:01:40,840 --> 03:01:44,520
Speaker 2: you look sexy today. Your eyes reminded me of the sea,

3781
03:01:44,680 --> 03:01:46,480
Speaker 2: and I want to swim beef over.

3782
03:01:47,040 --> 03:01:48,000
Speaker 3: The beef has been ended.

3783
03:01:49,040 --> 03:01:52,680
Speaker 2: She seemed ecstatic about the compliment, and I heard from

3784
03:01:52,760 --> 03:01:55,720
Speaker 2: mutual friends that she was going around telling people that

3785
03:01:55,840 --> 03:01:56,640
Speaker 2: we were friends again.

3786
03:01:57,240 --> 03:01:59,959
Speaker 3: I also found that strange. I just wanted to be courty.

3787
03:02:00,879 --> 03:02:05,360
Speaker 2: So he started with a compliment. Come on, like be like, hey, uh,

3788
03:02:06,480 --> 03:02:08,080
Speaker 2: how's it going? I don't know, I don't know, like

3789
03:02:08,200 --> 03:02:10,199
Speaker 2: anything talk yeah, small.

3790
03:02:10,040 --> 03:02:12,879
Speaker 3: Talk, small talk. Oh this man, this tests been hard

3791
03:02:12,920 --> 03:02:17,040
Speaker 3: this semester. Like, how's it been going? Did you get yeah?

3792
03:02:18,879 --> 03:02:19,400
Speaker 1: Yeah? Yeah?

3793
03:02:19,440 --> 03:02:20,000
Speaker 3: Any tips?

3794
03:02:20,600 --> 03:02:22,680
Speaker 1: Yeah for you?

3795
03:02:22,920 --> 03:02:24,240
Speaker 2: Oh god, there he is.

3796
03:02:25,640 --> 03:02:26,760
Speaker 3: I just wanted to be cordial.

3797
03:02:26,959 --> 03:02:29,960
Speaker 2: Anyways, we made up, and shortly thereafter I got random

3798
03:02:30,000 --> 03:02:32,800
Speaker 2: text from her telling me that she got my number

3799
03:02:32,920 --> 03:02:36,560
Speaker 2: from someone else. Third thing that I found strange.

3800
03:02:37,200 --> 03:02:41,040
Speaker 4: Everyone's getting this guy's number from a second party.

3801
03:02:41,320 --> 03:02:44,080
Speaker 2: Again, he's a little he's a little beautiful, so it's hard.

3802
03:02:44,200 --> 03:02:45,000
Speaker 2: It's gorgeous.

3803
03:02:45,160 --> 03:02:45,320
Speaker 3: Yes.

3804
03:02:46,440 --> 03:02:49,760
Speaker 2: The text started pretty infrequent, but gradually progressed or her

3805
03:02:49,840 --> 03:02:53,680
Speaker 2: texting him every single day, double texting and all. She

3806
03:02:53,840 --> 03:02:57,480
Speaker 2: even seemed really pressed about me meeting her parents when

3807
03:02:57,520 --> 03:03:00,200
Speaker 2: they came into town. Again me being you know, the

3808
03:03:00,520 --> 03:03:03,400
Speaker 2: not a fair partner. Yes, the gorgeous guy. I am

3809
03:03:03,520 --> 03:03:06,120
Speaker 2: still not sure that what that was even about. But

3810
03:03:06,200 --> 03:03:09,160
Speaker 2: I dodged invite and it never happened. So he was

3811
03:03:09,200 --> 03:03:10,200
Speaker 2: the reason that never happened.

3812
03:03:10,200 --> 03:03:10,480
Speaker 3: Good to know.

3813
03:03:11,000 --> 03:03:13,440
Speaker 2: Hey, At this point, it seemed like she was very

3814
03:03:13,560 --> 03:03:16,200
Speaker 2: interested in me, but I was, But I wasn't very

3815
03:03:16,280 --> 03:03:20,000
Speaker 2: responsive over text because she is married. Over time, however,

3816
03:03:20,440 --> 03:03:24,080
Speaker 2: my wall broke down slowly because I did enjoy the attention.

3817
03:03:24,800 --> 03:03:27,440
Speaker 2: She's inviting me to hang out one on one playing

3818
03:03:27,560 --> 03:03:30,120
Speaker 2: cards with me, offering to bake me cookies.

3819
03:03:32,600 --> 03:03:35,680
Speaker 4: I mean, it's just good old fashioned cards.

3820
03:03:36,840 --> 03:03:39,360
Speaker 2: We asked people to I don't know if we had any,

3821
03:03:39,440 --> 03:03:42,520
Speaker 2: but put in euphemisms for card games that they had.

3822
03:03:43,640 --> 03:03:45,800
Speaker 2: We did fight, We did see Egyptian rat screw.

3823
03:03:47,360 --> 03:03:49,000
Speaker 4: Oh is that a joke? I thought you?

3824
03:03:49,680 --> 03:03:49,840
Speaker 2: Oh?

3825
03:03:49,959 --> 03:03:51,200
Speaker 1: No, Oh no, that was.

3826
03:03:52,840 --> 03:03:55,360
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's a Gyptian rat slab and Egyptian rat screw.

3827
03:03:55,520 --> 03:03:57,840
Speaker 3: Well those both work in that and that's the.

3828
03:04:00,120 --> 03:04:01,040
Speaker 2: Poker. There you go.

3829
03:04:01,320 --> 03:04:03,599
Speaker 3: Okay, space spades, spades.

3830
03:04:03,560 --> 03:04:04,120
Speaker 1: Question mark.

3831
03:04:04,520 --> 03:04:06,840
Speaker 5: I think baby slapped jack.

3832
03:04:08,680 --> 03:04:11,279
Speaker 3: There we go, some someone's jack is getting slapped.

3833
03:04:11,920 --> 03:04:14,560
Speaker 2: She told me how upset she was over the fact

3834
03:04:14,640 --> 03:04:17,920
Speaker 2: that apparently you two had planned a trip for Thanksgiving

3835
03:04:18,000 --> 03:04:20,640
Speaker 2: to see her friends, but didn't end up going because

3836
03:04:20,680 --> 03:04:23,480
Speaker 2: of a tight budget. She also told me that she

3837
03:04:23,480 --> 03:04:27,040
Speaker 2: would sleep on the couch a lot. This is a

3838
03:04:27,080 --> 03:04:30,039
Speaker 2: lot of information to share in your class.

3839
03:04:30,160 --> 03:04:30,360
Speaker 1: Yeah.

3840
03:04:32,120 --> 03:04:35,000
Speaker 2: Nice. We didn't talk much over the final exams due

3841
03:04:35,040 --> 03:04:36,960
Speaker 2: to being busy, and we really didn't talk much over

3842
03:04:37,000 --> 03:04:39,879
Speaker 2: the winter break. However, at the start of the new semester,

3843
03:04:40,240 --> 03:04:43,640
Speaker 2: the texting all day, every day and double texting came

3844
03:04:43,720 --> 03:04:46,680
Speaker 2: back in full force. At this point I kind of

3845
03:04:46,760 --> 03:04:50,920
Speaker 2: felt like she was pursuing me, but I enjoyed the attention.

3846
03:04:51,440 --> 03:04:53,440
Speaker 2: She baked me the cookies the first week of school,

3847
03:04:53,800 --> 03:04:56,120
Speaker 2: brought them over and sat on my bed for over

3848
03:04:56,280 --> 03:05:02,800
Speaker 2: two hours, but nothing physical happen, but she wanted something

3849
03:05:02,879 --> 03:05:04,959
Speaker 2: physical to happen for sure. You don't sit on someone's

3850
03:05:05,000 --> 03:05:07,519
Speaker 2: bed for two hours, it's comfortable.

3851
03:05:08,959 --> 03:05:12,680
Speaker 4: Two hours before the party that yeah, for two minutes,

3852
03:05:12,879 --> 03:05:15,840
Speaker 4: Like come on, yeah, she's not she's not interested in

3853
03:05:15,879 --> 03:05:17,080
Speaker 4: relationship with her husband anymore.

3854
03:05:17,120 --> 03:05:20,600
Speaker 2: Does Well, here's here's what a beautiful man goes on

3855
03:05:20,680 --> 03:05:24,160
Speaker 2: to say. She honestly didn't seem interested and sex at all,

3856
03:05:24,640 --> 03:05:26,480
Speaker 2: even though I kind of wanted it to happen at

3857
03:05:26,480 --> 03:05:30,640
Speaker 2: that point. But here we are now she still texts

3858
03:05:30,680 --> 03:05:33,520
Speaker 2: me every day, and honestly it has become more frequent

3859
03:05:33,640 --> 03:05:38,000
Speaker 2: than ever before. That is the end of beautiful Man's story.

3860
03:05:38,680 --> 03:05:40,280
Speaker 2: Maybe we take a quick pause right there.

3861
03:05:41,480 --> 03:05:45,800
Speaker 4: The beautiful man, I think regardless of whether it's like

3862
03:05:45,879 --> 03:05:48,800
Speaker 4: there's a physical aspect to the relationship, I think it's

3863
03:05:48,800 --> 03:05:49,720
Speaker 4: still emotion cheating.

3864
03:05:50,720 --> 03:05:54,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, right, like it's I think at this point, like

3865
03:05:55,280 --> 03:05:58,440
Speaker 2: do we think I mean, definitely the woman has like

3866
03:05:58,640 --> 03:06:02,440
Speaker 2: pursued him heavily by is a beautiful man still in

3867
03:06:02,760 --> 03:06:06,199
Speaker 2: the wrong here? I mean I think.

3868
03:06:07,560 --> 03:06:09,600
Speaker 1: Slightly, slightly because he knew.

3869
03:06:09,920 --> 03:06:12,000
Speaker 4: Slightly because he knew that there was a husband in

3870
03:06:12,000 --> 03:06:14,640
Speaker 4: the picture. But I think it's like obviously more on

3871
03:06:15,240 --> 03:06:17,280
Speaker 4: the people in the relationships.

3872
03:06:17,600 --> 03:06:20,200
Speaker 2: From a woman's perspective, from a woman, a woman, I

3873
03:06:20,280 --> 03:06:23,280
Speaker 2: am a woman what do you think, uh beautiful man

3874
03:06:23,400 --> 03:06:24,120
Speaker 2: should have done.

3875
03:06:27,560 --> 03:06:30,480
Speaker 4: I mean, I've been in this situation where, like I thought,

3876
03:06:30,520 --> 03:06:34,760
Speaker 4: I was like talking to someone in like a friendship aspect,

3877
03:06:34,840 --> 03:06:35,800
Speaker 4: you had a partner.

3878
03:06:37,800 --> 03:06:38,960
Speaker 2: Are we talking about Belgium?

3879
03:06:39,000 --> 03:06:42,000
Speaker 1: Boy? This is a different scenario where.

3880
03:06:41,879 --> 03:06:45,480
Speaker 4: This happened because I thought because like we were, we

3881
03:06:45,600 --> 03:06:50,200
Speaker 4: had like the you know, theater stuff, so I would

3882
03:06:50,200 --> 03:06:52,760
Speaker 4: see him reach all the time, and so I was like, yeah,

3883
03:06:52,760 --> 03:06:54,520
Speaker 4: this is my friend. And I literally like I was like,

3884
03:06:54,600 --> 03:06:57,600
Speaker 4: this is my older brother type figure, right, And I

3885
03:06:57,680 --> 03:06:59,920
Speaker 4: remember actually one time he was like, I'm not your

3886
03:07:00,000 --> 03:07:02,400
Speaker 4: older brother with which should have been his son. You

3887
03:07:02,480 --> 03:07:05,119
Speaker 4: really on him well because.

3888
03:07:07,080 --> 03:07:09,720
Speaker 2: And he was older than me, he was in a relationship, Okay.

3889
03:07:10,040 --> 03:07:13,160
Speaker 4: I was like, yeah, we were pals. And then I

3890
03:07:13,200 --> 03:07:14,760
Speaker 4: found out that he cheated on his girlfriend, and I

3891
03:07:14,840 --> 03:07:17,600
Speaker 4: was like, he's getting a little too you know friendly.

3892
03:07:17,680 --> 03:07:19,560
Speaker 4: I was like, okay, this, yeah, so I would have

3893
03:07:19,600 --> 03:07:21,360
Speaker 4: pulled if I was gorgeous guy, I would have.

3894
03:07:21,360 --> 03:07:22,360
Speaker 3: Pulled back, pulled back.

3895
03:07:22,680 --> 03:07:24,160
Speaker 1: How is he getting too friendly? What happened?

3896
03:07:24,520 --> 03:07:26,160
Speaker 4: He was not not in the sense that he was,

3897
03:07:26,240 --> 03:07:28,640
Speaker 4: you know, trying to start anything, but he was texting

3898
03:07:28,680 --> 03:07:30,560
Speaker 4: me a lot and stuff, and I was like, and

3899
03:07:31,040 --> 03:07:33,359
Speaker 4: after I found out that he had cheated on his girlfriend.

3900
03:07:33,000 --> 03:07:35,080
Speaker 3: I was like, this, you know it, all the glass

3901
03:07:35,160 --> 03:07:35,560
Speaker 3: was broken.

3902
03:07:35,720 --> 03:07:35,920
Speaker 1: Yeah.

3903
03:07:36,040 --> 03:07:37,360
Speaker 4: I was like, I don't know if this guy wants

3904
03:07:37,360 --> 03:07:38,000
Speaker 4: to be friends with me.

3905
03:07:39,000 --> 03:07:41,000
Speaker 1: He wanted more, but can you also tell your Belgian

3906
03:07:41,040 --> 03:07:45,320
Speaker 1: boys story so that I don't know? Yeah, both people

3907
03:07:45,360 --> 03:07:46,720
Speaker 1: haven't heard. I love that story.

3908
03:07:47,280 --> 03:07:48,200
Speaker 4: It doesn't even relate.

3909
03:07:48,800 --> 03:07:52,080
Speaker 1: Yes, it does. He had a girlfriend, yeah, okay, and

3910
03:07:52,160 --> 03:07:53,120
Speaker 1: then she texted you.

3911
03:07:53,440 --> 03:07:56,560
Speaker 4: Okay, do we save it for half of the story?

3912
03:07:57,280 --> 03:07:58,920
Speaker 3: Okay, story time? Okay, story time?

3913
03:07:59,040 --> 03:07:59,680
Speaker 4: It slightly doesn't.

3914
03:07:59,680 --> 03:08:01,880
Speaker 2: Really, that's right, And Sam, you have been gifted your

3915
03:08:01,920 --> 03:08:07,720
Speaker 2: phone back. Congratulations. Yes, so all right, here we are

3916
03:08:07,840 --> 03:08:10,720
Speaker 2: ladies and gentlemen, just heard beautiful man's story. Now we're

3917
03:08:10,760 --> 03:08:14,080
Speaker 2: back to Ope. This seems pretty consistent with the text

3918
03:08:14,240 --> 03:08:17,320
Speaker 2: that I read as well. I don't really know what

3919
03:08:17,520 --> 03:08:19,360
Speaker 2: to think of this, but it kind of seems like

3920
03:08:19,440 --> 03:08:21,640
Speaker 2: she's playing the long game with him in order to

3921
03:08:21,680 --> 03:08:23,880
Speaker 2: get him to fall in love with her so she

3922
03:08:24,080 --> 03:08:26,959
Speaker 2: can leave me. I appreciate the guy's willingness to meet

3923
03:08:27,000 --> 03:08:29,400
Speaker 2: with me, and honestly, I do believe what he is

3924
03:08:29,480 --> 03:08:32,080
Speaker 2: telling me. Seems like this is beyond the point of

3925
03:08:32,160 --> 03:08:35,880
Speaker 2: no return. I plan on talking to her tomorrow, but

3926
03:08:36,080 --> 03:08:38,640
Speaker 2: I think that this is it for me. I don't

3927
03:08:38,640 --> 03:08:40,959
Speaker 2: think there's anything she can say that will change my mind.

3928
03:08:41,000 --> 03:08:43,880
Speaker 2: At this point, it's over. I will give an update

3929
03:08:44,120 --> 03:08:46,320
Speaker 2: if I feel up to it. And ladies and gentlemen,

3930
03:08:46,400 --> 03:08:49,160
Speaker 2: there is another update.

3931
03:08:49,040 --> 03:08:52,080
Speaker 4: Also a non Reddit poster. Hit is Live.

3932
03:08:52,480 --> 03:08:56,879
Speaker 1: It's so freakin' live. Yeah, lady hike. Okay, story time,

3933
03:08:56,920 --> 03:08:58,360
Speaker 1: We're gonna get to Sophia's Belgian story.

3934
03:08:58,959 --> 03:09:02,280
Speaker 4: He's three pm Pacific Standard time.

3935
03:09:02,440 --> 03:09:07,200
Speaker 3: Yes, come into your live. Yeah, so okay, starting time?

3936
03:09:08,040 --> 03:09:09,680
Speaker 2: Oh yes, yes.

3937
03:09:10,640 --> 03:09:14,600
Speaker 4: Anyway, I was in London with Sam and we met

3938
03:09:14,760 --> 03:09:18,520
Speaker 4: this guy from Belgium and I chatted with him and

3939
03:09:18,600 --> 03:09:22,880
Speaker 4: he was being dirty and then I followed him on

3940
03:09:23,080 --> 03:09:25,320
Speaker 4: Instagram and immediately saw that he had a girlfriend. So

3941
03:09:25,360 --> 03:09:29,080
Speaker 4: I was like no, and so then he kept trying

3942
03:09:29,080 --> 03:09:30,480
Speaker 4: to text me and I was like, I'm not interested.

3943
03:09:31,120 --> 03:09:34,480
Speaker 4: And then a couple months later I received a random

3944
03:09:34,600 --> 03:09:38,080
Speaker 4: DM from this girl and I was like, who is this?

3945
03:09:38,200 --> 03:09:41,200
Speaker 4: And so I accepted it because I saw that she

3946
03:09:41,360 --> 03:09:46,640
Speaker 4: was following the guy, and she basically, very nicely, was like, hey,

3947
03:09:47,320 --> 03:09:49,920
Speaker 4: I just wanted to ask if you know, like I

3948
03:09:50,040 --> 03:09:52,320
Speaker 4: know that my boyfriend met you in London, which I

3949
03:09:52,360 --> 03:09:56,800
Speaker 4: didn't know how she knew because we didn't follow. Yeah,

3950
03:09:56,840 --> 03:09:58,400
Speaker 4: I guess we're following each other. But I only saw

3951
03:09:58,480 --> 03:10:02,480
Speaker 4: him for one day, and she was like, did anything happen?

3952
03:10:02,720 --> 03:10:04,320
Speaker 4: Like I just want to know, like I'm not sure

3953
03:10:04,360 --> 03:10:07,600
Speaker 4: if something's going on, and I was like, nothing happened.

3954
03:10:08,120 --> 03:10:10,879
Speaker 4: I'm so sorry. I hope everything's okay. But I feel

3955
03:10:10,879 --> 03:10:12,600
Speaker 4: like he was probably you know, he probably she'd done

3956
03:10:12,640 --> 03:10:13,879
Speaker 4: her if she was asking those questions.

3957
03:10:14,160 --> 03:10:14,400
Speaker 2: Yeah.

3958
03:10:15,600 --> 03:10:18,000
Speaker 4: Yeah, So that's the long and short of it of

3959
03:10:18,080 --> 03:10:19,480
Speaker 4: the Belgian Boys story.

3960
03:10:19,680 --> 03:10:22,920
Speaker 2: The Belgian Boys story. By the way, I love Fried

3961
03:10:23,000 --> 03:10:25,480
Speaker 2: Chickens said they have a story. If you all watching

3962
03:10:25,560 --> 03:10:28,760
Speaker 2: right now have a story, please share it in the

3963
03:10:28,800 --> 03:10:32,040
Speaker 2: comments below and we just might take a look at it.

3964
03:10:33,000 --> 03:10:36,800
Speaker 3: Kaz also has a story. So guys, chumps, bring them on.

3965
03:10:36,959 --> 03:10:40,440
Speaker 4: Yeah, Chump says, it's ten forty four am Australian Eastern daylights.

3966
03:10:40,760 --> 03:10:42,640
Speaker 3: Ay, shout out to you, chumps.

3967
03:10:43,200 --> 03:10:47,280
Speaker 4: Let's go, and it's hold on, hold on, and hold on,

3968
03:10:47,440 --> 03:10:49,960
Speaker 4: World o'clock, New York at six forty five pm, Los

3969
03:10:50,000 --> 03:10:53,360
Speaker 4: Angeles be already established Melbourne. Yeah, it's ten forty five

3970
03:10:53,560 --> 03:10:54,720
Speaker 4: London eleven forty five.

3971
03:10:55,200 --> 03:10:57,520
Speaker 3: All right, now is that a thing now we read

3972
03:10:58,400 --> 03:11:00,800
Speaker 3: times is proved that lies?

3973
03:11:01,120 --> 03:11:02,840
Speaker 2: Yes, in case you in case.

3974
03:11:02,720 --> 03:11:03,880
Speaker 3: You were confused. Y.

3975
03:11:04,560 --> 03:11:05,760
Speaker 4: So now now we're up to date.

3976
03:11:06,280 --> 03:11:07,920
Speaker 3: But you know what else is up to date?

3977
03:11:08,640 --> 03:11:12,119
Speaker 4: This next up update up to date, up to date.

3978
03:11:15,520 --> 03:11:16,440
Speaker 3: Okay, So.

3979
03:11:18,040 --> 03:11:23,040
Speaker 2: I had the talk with her yesterday, the talk, and

3980
03:11:24,120 --> 03:11:28,560
Speaker 2: it's over. Yeah, as crazy as it is. The guy

3981
03:11:28,720 --> 03:11:31,280
Speaker 2: actually didn't give her any heads up that we met,

3982
03:11:31,520 --> 03:11:32,840
Speaker 2: which I appreciated.

3983
03:11:33,800 --> 03:11:37,000
Speaker 4: Which in all that time texting, I wonder if they

3984
03:11:37,000 --> 03:11:39,760
Speaker 4: were still texting after they met up or if he

3985
03:11:39,920 --> 03:11:41,440
Speaker 4: was like, I'm not going to text her at all.

3986
03:11:41,840 --> 03:11:45,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I mean he didn't message her about that

3987
03:11:45,760 --> 03:11:48,520
Speaker 2: heads up, so it might have just been ready, might

3988
03:11:48,640 --> 03:11:51,520
Speaker 2: have been Basically, I sat with her at the dining

3989
03:11:51,560 --> 03:11:53,920
Speaker 2: room table and started by telling her I heard what's

3990
03:11:53,959 --> 03:11:54,800
Speaker 2: going on with.

3991
03:11:54,920 --> 03:11:57,360
Speaker 3: Her and beautiful man, beautiful man.

3992
03:11:57,760 --> 03:11:59,920
Speaker 2: When she asked what I was talking about, I kind

3993
03:11:59,959 --> 03:12:02,520
Speaker 2: of just went through all the highlights of the emotional affair,

3994
03:12:02,879 --> 03:12:06,800
Speaker 2: highlighting the cookie situation, meeting the parents, in cessant texting,

3995
03:12:07,160 --> 03:12:10,080
Speaker 2: disguising him as just a friend, et cetera, et cetera.

3996
03:12:10,560 --> 03:12:12,280
Speaker 2: When I told her that it seemed to me as

3997
03:12:12,320 --> 03:12:14,680
Speaker 2: if she was obsessed with the guy, maybe even in

3998
03:12:14,840 --> 03:12:19,400
Speaker 2: love with him, and seemingly planning for my replacement. She

3999
03:12:19,680 --> 03:12:25,040
Speaker 2: immediately broke down crying. Ooh. I almost felt kind of bad,

4000
03:12:25,360 --> 03:12:29,160
Speaker 2: but also didn't at the same time. She then told

4001
03:12:29,240 --> 03:12:31,800
Speaker 2: me that she only did it because she liked the

4002
03:12:31,879 --> 03:12:34,840
Speaker 2: attention and nothing more, and that she would cut him

4003
03:12:34,879 --> 03:12:38,640
Speaker 2: off immediately. I shook my head.

4004
03:12:39,040 --> 03:12:40,920
Speaker 4: Yeah, I think it's too little, too late.

4005
03:12:40,840 --> 03:12:44,560
Speaker 2: Too little too late. Is there anything that she could

4006
03:12:44,640 --> 03:12:48,920
Speaker 2: do to, like, even attempt to salvage what's happened.

4007
03:12:48,600 --> 03:12:51,640
Speaker 4: At this point, only if he had been more receptive

4008
03:12:51,720 --> 03:12:52,959
Speaker 4: to it, But it seems like he's.

4009
03:12:52,879 --> 03:12:55,040
Speaker 3: Already Yeah, he kind of made up his mind.

4010
03:12:55,120 --> 03:12:56,959
Speaker 4: He had already made up his mind before this. Yeah,

4011
03:12:57,640 --> 03:13:00,480
Speaker 4: if he had been like, like, is this I don't know,

4012
03:13:00,959 --> 03:13:02,560
Speaker 4: if you had gone into it with a little bit

4013
03:13:02,560 --> 03:13:05,080
Speaker 4: more hesitancy, But it seems like he just wanted to

4014
03:13:05,160 --> 03:13:08,280
Speaker 4: tell her that he knew. Yeah, see how you know?

4015
03:13:08,760 --> 03:13:10,760
Speaker 3: Yeah, he like if he came in and gave her

4016
03:13:10,879 --> 03:13:12,280
Speaker 3: room to try to be like, all right, I earn

4017
03:13:12,360 --> 03:13:14,880
Speaker 3: my trust back or something, then it's like, okay, I

4018
03:13:14,959 --> 03:13:16,920
Speaker 3: could try to do something.

4019
03:13:16,800 --> 03:13:17,440
Speaker 4: But I don't think so.

4020
03:13:18,200 --> 03:13:18,680
Speaker 3: It's tough.

4021
03:13:19,879 --> 03:13:23,400
Speaker 2: She offered to find a couple's therapists, which while still

4022
03:13:23,480 --> 03:13:26,360
Speaker 2: belligerently crying, and I told her it seems like we

4023
03:13:26,440 --> 03:13:30,200
Speaker 2: are past that point already. Didn't really care whether she

4024
03:13:30,400 --> 03:13:33,320
Speaker 2: slept with a guy or not. This emotional situation was

4025
03:13:33,520 --> 03:13:36,840
Speaker 2: enough for me. I told her I'll be contacting an

4026
03:13:36,840 --> 03:13:39,119
Speaker 2: attorney this week and that she should do the same.

4027
03:13:39,200 --> 03:13:42,160
Speaker 2: Remember there married, yeah, in a relation. I forgot for

4028
03:13:42,240 --> 03:13:45,040
Speaker 2: a second too, honestly, and I walked out the door

4029
03:13:45,280 --> 03:13:48,360
Speaker 2: with her chasing me. I didn't have anywhere to go,

4030
03:13:48,760 --> 03:13:51,200
Speaker 2: but I needed to just leave before she tried me,

4031
03:13:52,120 --> 03:13:54,720
Speaker 2: before she tried to convince me any further to stay.

4032
03:13:55,080 --> 03:13:58,640
Speaker 2: I didn't want to hear any bs received. Doesn't of

4033
03:13:58,760 --> 03:14:03,840
Speaker 2: calls say again another card? Another card game? God, please,

4034
03:14:04,520 --> 03:14:08,200
Speaker 2: somebody finished it already. We know who the joker in

4035
03:14:08,280 --> 03:14:08,520
Speaker 2: the deck?

4036
03:14:08,680 --> 03:14:12,680
Speaker 4: Wash? Who's the beautiful man?

4037
03:14:13,640 --> 03:14:17,279
Speaker 3: Dang, he's the king damage he's too beautiful.

4038
03:14:18,280 --> 03:14:20,760
Speaker 2: I received dozens of calls and texts while I was gone,

4039
03:14:20,840 --> 03:14:23,320
Speaker 2: and when I came back, she seemed devastated.

4040
03:14:23,400 --> 03:14:23,680
Speaker 3: Still.

4041
03:14:24,040 --> 03:14:25,840
Speaker 2: I got calls from her parents to day as well,

4042
03:14:25,959 --> 03:14:28,000
Speaker 2: which I ignored. I haven't kicked her out of the

4043
03:14:28,040 --> 03:14:30,360
Speaker 2: house or anything, not really sure what I want to

4044
03:14:30,440 --> 03:14:33,440
Speaker 2: do about that. Yet I don't want her to be

4045
03:14:33,640 --> 03:14:35,480
Speaker 2: with I don't want her to be this guy or

4046
03:14:35,600 --> 03:14:38,600
Speaker 2: anyone else's burden. I'm just kind of feeling lost at

4047
03:14:38,640 --> 03:14:42,240
Speaker 2: the at this point, it's wild, how truly absurd this

4048
03:14:42,560 --> 03:14:46,080
Speaker 2: just ended After all this time. I moved to the

4049
03:14:46,160 --> 03:14:50,360
Speaker 2: state solely to support her, and now I'm just here.

4050
03:14:50,959 --> 03:14:53,520
Speaker 2: The majority of my friends and family are still across

4051
03:14:53,560 --> 03:14:56,240
Speaker 2: the country. Maybe I should have seen the writing on

4052
03:14:56,280 --> 03:14:59,600
Speaker 2: the wall. Our relationship wasn't perfect. I've been pretty busy

4053
03:14:59,600 --> 03:15:01,680
Speaker 2: over the last year or so with work, and it

4054
03:15:01,760 --> 03:15:04,160
Speaker 2: seems like she took every chance she could to go

4055
03:15:04,240 --> 03:15:07,800
Speaker 2: to every single school party slash outing she could without

4056
03:15:07,879 --> 03:15:13,160
Speaker 2: inviting me. Ninety five percent of the time. Ouch, she

4057
03:15:13,320 --> 03:15:15,920
Speaker 2: was never home, and every time I asked any questions,

4058
03:15:16,040 --> 03:15:19,119
Speaker 2: she would chalk it up to studying quote unquote. How

4059
03:15:19,240 --> 03:15:22,160
Speaker 2: could I really argue with that when she's in grad school.

4060
03:15:24,360 --> 03:15:26,560
Speaker 2: It may not be entirely her fault. But I'm glad

4061
03:15:26,600 --> 03:15:28,680
Speaker 2: I'm getting But I'm glad I'm getting out of us

4062
03:15:28,720 --> 03:15:31,600
Speaker 2: before it got any worse. Three years isn't a crazy

4063
03:15:31,640 --> 03:15:33,879
Speaker 2: amount of time, and now it's time to go find

4064
03:15:33,920 --> 03:15:37,000
Speaker 2: myself again. This does suck, though, Thank you all for

4065
03:15:37,160 --> 03:15:39,920
Speaker 2: your support. This has really helped me come to terms

4066
03:15:40,440 --> 03:15:42,039
Speaker 2: with this ending.

4067
03:15:43,400 --> 03:15:43,640
Speaker 1: Yeah.

4068
03:15:44,120 --> 03:15:46,360
Speaker 4: No, I think I think she had a lot of

4069
03:15:46,400 --> 03:15:49,720
Speaker 4: red flags and she wasn't really focused on the relationship

4070
03:15:49,840 --> 03:15:50,680
Speaker 4: for a while, it seems.

4071
03:15:51,160 --> 03:15:57,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, at least I'm curious on would you all stay

4072
03:15:57,680 --> 03:16:04,320
Speaker 2: or work on the reallyationship? Because nice to producer Riley

4073
03:16:04,480 --> 03:16:05,640
Speaker 2: just on top of his game.

4074
03:16:06,440 --> 03:16:07,240
Speaker 3: Oh so we have a few.

4075
03:16:07,280 --> 03:16:10,840
Speaker 2: Then Burning Rose says she's not sorry it happened. She's

4076
03:16:11,040 --> 03:16:15,680
Speaker 2: sorry that she got caught. Yeah, I mean it kind

4077
03:16:15,720 --> 03:16:19,120
Speaker 2: of seems like that is the case. And then uh,

4078
03:16:20,520 --> 03:16:24,760
Speaker 2: Karima Corenza Bond says, Burning Rose, you one hundred percent right,

4079
03:16:24,879 --> 03:16:26,560
Speaker 2: so basically.

4080
03:16:26,480 --> 03:16:27,800
Speaker 3: Uh plus wanting that.

4081
03:16:29,080 --> 03:16:33,160
Speaker 2: Soriah Jade says she would have absolutely eventually slept with

4082
03:16:33,200 --> 03:16:36,560
Speaker 2: beautiful man if she hadn't have got caught. Look, it's

4083
03:16:36,640 --> 03:16:37,640
Speaker 2: hard to resist.

4084
03:16:37,320 --> 03:16:39,840
Speaker 3: Sleep sleeping with beautiful man. If I do say so myself,

4085
03:16:40,360 --> 03:16:42,400
Speaker 3: it's it's it's really tough.

4086
03:16:44,560 --> 03:16:46,440
Speaker 4: Yeah, but it's tough that he like he moved out

4087
03:16:46,480 --> 03:16:48,879
Speaker 4: to this place and then she didn't try to include

4088
03:16:48,920 --> 03:16:49,959
Speaker 4: him in her life at all.

4089
03:16:50,480 --> 03:16:54,480
Speaker 5: And like another point is like Bro's like thirty because

4090
03:16:54,480 --> 03:16:57,440
Speaker 5: she's twenty five, and everyone that's like in college is like, yeah,

4091
03:16:57,480 --> 03:16:58,800
Speaker 5: well on a college scene, you know.

4092
03:16:59,280 --> 03:17:02,080
Speaker 4: It is school. So I mean based off of like

4093
03:17:02,160 --> 03:17:05,120
Speaker 4: theater grad school, there are it ranges from you know,

4094
03:17:06,080 --> 03:17:09,320
Speaker 4: mid twenties to thirties. Yeah, I just broke something.

4095
03:17:09,520 --> 03:17:11,840
Speaker 2: Oh that's okay, we can destroy the Harry Potter Fortress.

4096
03:17:12,840 --> 03:17:16,840
Speaker 4: Yeah, so I think that there's I don't think his

4097
03:17:16,959 --> 03:17:20,320
Speaker 4: age would have been a huge problem problem in grad school.

4098
03:17:20,360 --> 03:17:22,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, there's probably people in grad school I guess that

4099
03:17:22,040 --> 03:17:24,600
Speaker 3: are like twenty eight or I know.

4100
03:17:24,680 --> 03:17:27,560
Speaker 4: Thirty year olds in you see it's grad school.

4101
03:17:28,200 --> 03:17:29,600
Speaker 2: True and over thirty true.

4102
03:17:30,080 --> 03:17:32,120
Speaker 4: Yeah, I know people who were in their like forties

4103
03:17:32,160 --> 03:17:35,560
Speaker 4: who were in undergrad So you know, I yeah, I

4104
03:17:35,600 --> 03:17:38,040
Speaker 4: think it's like less of a deal, especially in grad school.

4105
03:17:38,360 --> 03:17:38,880
Speaker 4: Your age.

4106
03:17:39,240 --> 03:17:42,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, but if you're a beautiful man, yeah, that's all

4107
03:17:42,879 --> 03:17:47,039
Speaker 2: that matters. That is really all that matters. That really

4108
03:17:47,080 --> 03:17:49,800
Speaker 2: sucks for But you know what else matters a lot?

4109
03:17:50,280 --> 03:17:52,360
Speaker 2: This next story, this next story.

4110
03:17:52,600 --> 03:17:54,119
Speaker 3: Do we need to queue it up here?

4111
03:17:54,440 --> 03:17:56,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, let's do that.

4112
03:17:56,640 --> 03:18:03,440
Speaker 3: Three hundo and story number two. Here we go, Sophia,

4113
03:18:03,640 --> 03:18:04,800
Speaker 3: the floor is yours, thank you?

4114
03:18:05,040 --> 03:18:08,520
Speaker 4: Mm hm oh right, am I the a hole for

4115
03:18:08,640 --> 03:18:12,440
Speaker 4: overreacting to my wife's friends. Oh, to my wife's friends

4116
03:18:12,520 --> 03:18:17,760
Speaker 4: snooping on my laptop? No, I think, what's your thoughts

4117
03:18:17,840 --> 03:18:18,600
Speaker 4: before we get into it?

4118
03:18:18,720 --> 03:18:20,959
Speaker 2: If the if the wife's friend is snooping on the laptop,

4119
03:18:21,600 --> 03:18:25,320
Speaker 2: don't don't why why why are you snooping on my laptop?

4120
03:18:25,480 --> 03:18:25,720
Speaker 4: Yeah?

4121
03:18:25,959 --> 03:18:29,600
Speaker 2: That's right, d Yeah, it's like yeah. Is it almost

4122
03:18:29,720 --> 03:18:31,480
Speaker 2: worse that it's like the wife's friend and not.

4123
03:18:31,520 --> 03:18:32,160
Speaker 3: Even the wife.

4124
03:18:32,240 --> 03:18:34,720
Speaker 4: Yeah, because she's sending someone else to do well, we

4125
03:18:34,760 --> 03:18:35,160
Speaker 4: don't know this.

4126
03:18:35,400 --> 03:18:35,720
Speaker 2: We don't know.

4127
03:18:35,920 --> 03:18:37,920
Speaker 4: I don't want to make assumptions. Good conspiracy theory, but

4128
03:18:38,080 --> 03:18:42,080
Speaker 4: I was gonna say, maybe she's sending him. Maybe, but

4129
03:18:42,879 --> 03:18:43,560
Speaker 4: let's read on.

4130
03:18:43,760 --> 03:18:45,400
Speaker 3: It's fine, I do it so.

4131
03:18:45,720 --> 03:18:49,600
Speaker 4: Level reaction forty five sixty nine says I twenty six male,

4132
03:18:49,720 --> 03:18:52,080
Speaker 4: have been with my wife, twenty four female for a

4133
03:18:52,120 --> 03:18:55,119
Speaker 4: little under five years, dating for three, engaged for one,

4134
03:18:55,240 --> 03:18:58,000
Speaker 4: and married just under one. She is the love of

4135
03:18:58,040 --> 03:18:59,640
Speaker 4: my life and I know her like the back of

4136
03:18:59,720 --> 03:19:01,800
Speaker 4: my hand, and I know her needs. Once when she

4137
03:19:01,840 --> 03:19:04,160
Speaker 4: would prefer water over diet coke, when she is starting

4138
03:19:04,200 --> 03:19:07,480
Speaker 4: to slip into a depressive state, anxiety triggers et cetera,

4139
03:19:08,840 --> 03:19:12,240
Speaker 4: pretty good he knows everything about his wife.

4140
03:19:12,360 --> 03:19:12,560
Speaker 3: Yeah.

4141
03:19:13,280 --> 03:19:15,200
Speaker 4: One thing she's always worried about is that I will

4142
03:19:15,280 --> 03:19:18,279
Speaker 4: leave her or cheat on her. Her parents had issues,

4143
03:19:18,320 --> 03:19:20,480
Speaker 4: and she thinks I'll be the same. To combat this,

4144
03:19:20,800 --> 03:19:24,240
Speaker 4: she has full access to my phone and personal computer. However,

4145
03:19:24,480 --> 03:19:27,040
Speaker 4: my work computer is completely off limits due to the

4146
03:19:27,120 --> 03:19:30,040
Speaker 4: nature of my job. Ooh, what type of job is that?

4147
03:19:31,600 --> 03:19:32,840
Speaker 3: Secret nuclear missiles?

4148
03:19:33,920 --> 03:19:36,480
Speaker 4: And she's like, no, playing around with my computer. I

4149
03:19:36,600 --> 03:19:37,320
Speaker 4: launched the missile.

4150
03:19:37,440 --> 03:19:38,680
Speaker 2: If you want to live.

4151
03:19:40,040 --> 03:19:42,360
Speaker 4: That's I also, just before we go on, I think

4152
03:19:42,440 --> 03:19:46,160
Speaker 4: that's that's very kind of him to give her full access.

4153
03:19:46,200 --> 03:19:47,840
Speaker 4: But I think that's also something she should be in

4154
03:19:47,920 --> 03:19:51,000
Speaker 4: therapy for, Like, if you're expecting the worst out of relationship,

4155
03:19:52,280 --> 03:19:57,040
Speaker 4: then that's a great sung Yeah all right, so OPI continues.

4156
03:19:57,400 --> 03:19:59,600
Speaker 4: I recently got a promotion and now have people who

4157
03:19:59,720 --> 03:20:02,520
Speaker 4: report to me. One of these people is female. Sometimes,

4158
03:20:02,560 --> 03:20:04,720
Speaker 4: if I'm away from my computer and they have a question,

4159
03:20:04,879 --> 03:20:07,520
Speaker 4: they will call or text my personal phone and I

4160
03:20:07,680 --> 03:20:10,120
Speaker 4: typically reply with let me get online and we can

4161
03:20:10,200 --> 03:20:14,120
Speaker 4: talk over teams, our company's communication platform. Recently, she has

4162
03:20:14,160 --> 03:20:15,960
Speaker 4: looked through my phone and saw that the girl who

4163
03:20:16,080 --> 03:20:18,360
Speaker 4: reports to me has texted me quite a few times.

4164
03:20:18,560 --> 03:20:21,160
Speaker 4: Since she is new, and I always say I'll be online.

4165
03:20:21,200 --> 03:20:25,840
Speaker 4: Shortly my wife showed my Uh my wife showed her

4166
03:20:25,879 --> 03:20:27,920
Speaker 4: friends the text thread and they all think that it

4167
03:20:28,080 --> 03:20:30,200
Speaker 4: is sus and they were talking about stuff on the

4168
03:20:30,240 --> 03:20:33,440
Speaker 4: one device. I never let my wife see. When this

4169
03:20:33,680 --> 03:20:35,640
Speaker 4: is brought to my attention, I showed her text for

4170
03:20:35,760 --> 03:20:38,480
Speaker 4: my other reports. And I always say I'll talk online.

4171
03:20:40,879 --> 03:20:43,480
Speaker 4: There's just so much lack of trust in this relationship.

4172
03:20:43,640 --> 03:20:43,840
Speaker 2: Yeah.

4173
03:20:44,440 --> 03:20:47,920
Speaker 4: Yeah. The reason I always say I'll talk online is

4174
03:20:48,000 --> 03:20:50,520
Speaker 4: because of the technical data I deal with. My company

4175
03:20:50,600 --> 03:20:54,080
Speaker 4: takes cybersecurity very seriously. To log in in the morning,

4176
03:20:54,120 --> 03:20:56,320
Speaker 4: there are three passwords I need to input. Because it

4177
03:20:56,400 --> 03:20:58,560
Speaker 4: takes so long to log in, I typically will just

4178
03:20:58,640 --> 03:21:01,360
Speaker 4: turn off my screen. I walk away instead of looking

4179
03:21:01,520 --> 03:21:04,320
Speaker 4: locking it. I figure I am in my own house

4180
03:21:04,400 --> 03:21:06,840
Speaker 4: and typically the only people with me are my dogs

4181
03:21:06,959 --> 03:21:09,400
Speaker 4: or my wife. Can you trust the dogs though, No,

4182
03:21:09,720 --> 03:21:13,360
Speaker 4: they're always snooping. It's obviously that movie Cats Versus Dogs.

4183
03:21:15,040 --> 03:21:17,000
Speaker 4: You're so right, Yeah, and the cats, I think we're

4184
03:21:17,040 --> 03:21:19,320
Speaker 4: trying to destroy the world. I think they were trying

4185
03:21:19,360 --> 03:21:20,600
Speaker 4: to start a nuclear war.

4186
03:21:20,720 --> 03:21:22,600
Speaker 3: Right, what's up with the cat?

4187
03:21:23,120 --> 03:21:23,320
Speaker 1: Don't?

4188
03:21:23,640 --> 03:21:24,760
Speaker 4: I don't know if that's fully true.

4189
03:21:24,800 --> 03:21:27,000
Speaker 3: But I think that's what we're going with that version

4190
03:21:27,000 --> 03:21:27,680
Speaker 3: of the True Cats.

4191
03:21:27,720 --> 03:21:29,360
Speaker 4: We're starting a cold war.

4192
03:21:29,800 --> 03:21:33,320
Speaker 3: Yes, yeah, it was very bad.

4193
03:21:33,480 --> 03:21:36,680
Speaker 2: I also have an okay story time related to Op's

4194
03:21:36,840 --> 03:21:37,520
Speaker 2: super secret.

4195
03:21:37,640 --> 03:21:40,840
Speaker 4: Okay, well, anyway, information. Let's see what happens if these

4196
03:21:40,920 --> 03:21:45,879
Speaker 4: dogs were the culprits. Let's see the other day, I'm

4197
03:21:45,920 --> 03:21:48,520
Speaker 4: working at my in my in home office while my

4198
03:21:48,600 --> 03:21:50,160
Speaker 4: wife has some friends over and I have to go

4199
03:21:50,240 --> 03:21:52,200
Speaker 4: to the bathroom, so I turn off my screen and

4200
03:21:52,280 --> 03:21:55,160
Speaker 4: go relieve myself. I decide to also grab a coffee

4201
03:21:55,200 --> 03:21:57,440
Speaker 4: from the kitchen, and when I come back, I see

4202
03:21:57,480 --> 03:21:59,920
Speaker 4: my wife at my desk with her friends around her.

4203
03:22:00,480 --> 03:22:02,880
Speaker 4: I flip out and ask what they think they're doing,

4204
03:22:03,080 --> 03:22:07,640
Speaker 4: and they're reading my messages with my coworkers. Again. These

4205
03:22:07,760 --> 03:22:11,320
Speaker 4: messages contain technical data that isn't open to the public.

4206
03:22:11,840 --> 03:22:13,400
Speaker 4: I kick her friends out of the house and tell

4207
03:22:13,440 --> 03:22:15,119
Speaker 4: them that they may have put my job in jeopardy

4208
03:22:15,200 --> 03:22:17,680
Speaker 4: since I now have to report a breach of security.

4209
03:22:18,080 --> 03:22:20,600
Speaker 4: Her friends argue they were just looking out for my wife,

4210
03:22:20,720 --> 03:22:25,920
Speaker 4: as it's suspicious. I always answer, on the computer, where else?

4211
03:22:26,080 --> 03:22:27,119
Speaker 3: Why is that suspicious?

4212
03:22:27,160 --> 03:22:29,400
Speaker 4: Where else? Would he answer? I?

4213
03:22:31,120 --> 03:22:34,680
Speaker 3: Like, who cares? What device? You're answering from yeah, right,

4214
03:22:35,200 --> 03:22:36,160
Speaker 3: this is like a word.

4215
03:22:36,000 --> 03:22:39,920
Speaker 4: I don't know. This is I understand that there might

4216
03:22:39,959 --> 03:22:42,800
Speaker 4: be cases where people are cheating, right, but like, if

4217
03:22:42,879 --> 03:22:45,320
Speaker 4: you have zero trust in your partner.

4218
03:22:46,400 --> 03:22:47,840
Speaker 3: What are we doing? What's the point?

4219
03:22:48,040 --> 03:22:51,720
Speaker 2: I also just put together that they're they're basically saying like, oh,

4220
03:22:51,840 --> 03:22:53,720
Speaker 2: you use this one device so you can hide all

4221
03:22:53,760 --> 03:22:54,520
Speaker 2: the messages and.

4222
03:22:54,680 --> 03:22:56,560
Speaker 4: Right right, right, yeah, but it's still like what like.

4223
03:22:58,080 --> 03:23:01,080
Speaker 3: Why why not just yeah, come on now?

4224
03:23:01,400 --> 03:23:03,440
Speaker 4: All in all, I kicked her friends out and told

4225
03:23:03,480 --> 03:23:05,680
Speaker 4: them to never come back. I caught my boss with

4226
03:23:05,800 --> 03:23:08,080
Speaker 4: my wife and told my boss everything and made my

4227
03:23:08,200 --> 03:23:11,920
Speaker 4: wife tell which tell me which conversation conversations she read

4228
03:23:12,280 --> 03:23:14,920
Speaker 4: to determine what she saw. My boss told me I

4229
03:23:15,000 --> 03:23:17,600
Speaker 4: got lucky and nothing too sensitive was in the messages

4230
03:23:17,680 --> 03:23:19,640
Speaker 4: and in private, he told me to go to couple's

4231
03:23:19,720 --> 03:23:24,720
Speaker 4: counseling my wife. My wife told her friends what I

4232
03:23:24,760 --> 03:23:26,840
Speaker 4: made her do, and they all think I overreacted and

4233
03:23:27,600 --> 03:23:30,880
Speaker 4: am a complete ass for embarrassing her. To my boss, No,

4234
03:23:31,120 --> 03:23:33,920
Speaker 4: I think that I think she deserved that. I think

4235
03:23:34,040 --> 03:23:36,360
Speaker 4: that this relationship I one. I think they need to

4236
03:23:36,400 --> 03:23:39,240
Speaker 4: go to coumple's counseling because this wife and this wife

4237
03:23:39,280 --> 03:23:42,280
Speaker 4: needs to go to therapy. Yes, definitely if you have

4238
03:23:42,440 --> 03:23:45,959
Speaker 4: zero trust in your relationship, it's just with no evidence.

4239
03:23:45,600 --> 03:23:47,400
Speaker 2: With no ope. Yeah, and just for like you as

4240
03:23:47,440 --> 03:23:50,160
Speaker 2: a person, like like being able to like you know,

4241
03:23:50,400 --> 03:23:53,480
Speaker 2: work through those issues and then live a life where

4242
03:23:53,520 --> 03:23:56,800
Speaker 2: you're not constantly like looking over someone's shoulder, just at

4243
03:23:56,840 --> 03:23:59,119
Speaker 2: least make make progress in the in the right direction.

4244
03:23:59,520 --> 03:24:01,720
Speaker 4: And the fact that the wife's friends were like encouraging

4245
03:24:01,800 --> 03:24:03,279
Speaker 4: this behavior is wild.

4246
03:24:03,720 --> 03:24:06,520
Speaker 2: I feel like I wonder if because we actually read

4247
03:24:06,520 --> 03:24:08,240
Speaker 2: a bunch of stories earlier today at the top of

4248
03:24:08,320 --> 03:24:12,400
Speaker 2: the stream where the friends were the one that were

4249
03:24:12,480 --> 03:24:15,520
Speaker 2: planting all of these ideas, Like it didn't come from

4250
03:24:15,760 --> 03:24:17,680
Speaker 2: like the wife of the significant other. It was like

4251
03:24:17,879 --> 03:24:22,200
Speaker 2: the friend or friend group, Yeah, feeding that information to them.

4252
03:24:22,320 --> 03:24:23,880
Speaker 4: It seems like they might have done that. I wouldn't

4253
03:24:23,920 --> 03:24:25,119
Speaker 4: I wouldn't put it past.

4254
03:24:25,280 --> 03:24:26,680
Speaker 3: See is that the end of end of this story?

4255
03:24:26,800 --> 03:24:28,560
Speaker 4: That is the end of this story?

4256
03:24:28,680 --> 03:24:31,160
Speaker 2: Uhhh well, I do have an okay storytime related to this,

4257
03:24:31,520 --> 03:24:35,680
Speaker 2: so so obviously there's the breach of trust of going

4258
03:24:35,959 --> 03:24:40,200
Speaker 2: into the laptop, but a company I used to work

4259
03:24:40,280 --> 03:24:42,840
Speaker 2: for had I don't know if this is the same thing.

4260
03:24:42,920 --> 03:24:45,720
Speaker 2: It's called like sock two. It's basically like a big

4261
03:24:45,920 --> 03:24:49,320
Speaker 2: security thing, and they send people to your office and

4262
03:24:49,440 --> 03:24:53,240
Speaker 2: sometimes to your house like like to inspect your place,

4263
03:24:53,400 --> 03:24:56,600
Speaker 2: like house secure because think about like in this dude's case,

4264
03:24:56,840 --> 03:24:59,320
Speaker 2: he's like, oh, my house seems secure. But so they

4265
03:24:59,640 --> 03:25:02,600
Speaker 2: literally fly people out sometimes to inspect and be like

4266
03:25:02,800 --> 03:25:04,960
Speaker 2: is there any is there anything that might be a

4267
03:25:05,040 --> 03:25:06,480
Speaker 2: breach of security?

4268
03:25:06,959 --> 03:25:10,400
Speaker 4: And the whole zoom testing protocol, the.

4269
03:25:10,480 --> 03:25:11,560
Speaker 3: Zoom testing protocol.

4270
03:25:11,640 --> 03:25:13,920
Speaker 4: Yeah, like they have they make you have the camera

4271
03:25:14,000 --> 03:25:16,720
Speaker 4: on oh mart.

4272
03:25:16,840 --> 03:25:23,440
Speaker 3: Smart z z okay ah, I found guys, I fell

4273
03:25:23,520 --> 03:25:23,720
Speaker 3: for it.

4274
03:25:24,280 --> 03:25:24,520
Speaker 4: I am.

4275
03:25:24,680 --> 03:25:27,400
Speaker 2: I am a millennial. Okay, all accept it? Can we

4276
03:25:27,480 --> 03:25:30,880
Speaker 2: accept millennial? Can we accept millennial? Come on?

4277
03:25:31,160 --> 03:25:31,879
Speaker 1: Ninety six?

4278
03:25:32,080 --> 03:25:34,880
Speaker 3: You can be a cusper cut That's what a millennial is.

4279
03:25:35,000 --> 03:25:38,360
Speaker 2: I know, but I don't like the words Elena, how

4280
03:25:38,440 --> 03:25:40,959
Speaker 2: millennial of me to say, Zeleni, y am I as millennial?

4281
03:25:41,040 --> 03:25:44,240
Speaker 4: Thanks Riley John, Now what's the cutoff? Because John says

4282
03:25:44,280 --> 03:25:48,080
Speaker 4: it's nineteen ninety, nineteen ninety six, nineteen ninety six, nineteen

4283
03:25:48,120 --> 03:25:48,680
Speaker 4: ninety seven.

4284
03:25:49,400 --> 03:25:51,560
Speaker 2: Y'all don't even know how Back in the day people

4285
03:25:51,640 --> 03:25:55,040
Speaker 2: were throwing ninety six down, throwing down ninety six. Oh,

4286
03:25:55,160 --> 03:25:59,119
Speaker 2: it was crazy mad surveys and stuff saying nineteen ninety

4287
03:25:59,160 --> 03:26:02,280
Speaker 2: six is a cutoff from millennials. But now everyone switched up.

4288
03:26:02,520 --> 03:26:05,360
Speaker 2: Everyone switched up, and uh they said that all people

4289
03:26:05,400 --> 03:26:07,760
Speaker 2: are just people are just roasted me in the chat

4290
03:26:07,879 --> 03:26:08,160
Speaker 2: right now.

4291
03:26:08,320 --> 03:26:11,120
Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't know. Some people are saying that my

4292
03:26:11,280 --> 03:26:12,040
Speaker 4: mic is quiet.

4293
03:26:12,800 --> 03:26:14,280
Speaker 2: I don't know speak.

4294
03:26:14,800 --> 03:26:16,800
Speaker 4: I'm trying. I'm speaking fairly loud.

4295
03:26:17,200 --> 03:26:19,680
Speaker 3: Guys, how is how is the volume?

4296
03:26:19,800 --> 03:26:19,920
Speaker 1: Now?

4297
03:26:20,040 --> 03:26:20,240
Speaker 4: Yeah?

4298
03:26:20,280 --> 03:26:20,640
Speaker 1: Let us know.

4299
03:26:21,480 --> 03:26:25,959
Speaker 2: Uh, it's ninety six ninety six is Isn't it all right?

4300
03:26:27,160 --> 03:26:28,840
Speaker 4: I'll give it to you John, that's right.

4301
03:26:28,920 --> 03:26:29,240
Speaker 2: Oh man.

4302
03:26:29,280 --> 03:26:30,640
Speaker 3: People are really going crazy.

4303
03:26:30,400 --> 03:26:34,040
Speaker 2: Over the gen Z minal thing Millennial light pausing a

4304
03:26:34,560 --> 03:26:37,000
Speaker 2: Milennial light upgrade.

4305
03:26:36,640 --> 03:26:38,800
Speaker 4: To pro everyone wants to be a gen Z.

4306
03:26:39,840 --> 03:26:42,720
Speaker 2: Yeah. But to put a pin in my story, yeah,

4307
03:26:42,800 --> 03:26:46,119
Speaker 2: like it could have not just cost him his job,

4308
03:26:46,560 --> 03:26:49,840
Speaker 2: but if they lost like this certification, like in my case,

4309
03:26:50,200 --> 03:26:52,560
Speaker 2: they would have lost like a lot of their customers.

4310
03:26:52,600 --> 03:26:54,840
Speaker 3: It literally could have killed the company. Yeah, like all

4311
03:26:54,879 --> 03:26:55,959
Speaker 3: of the people working.

4312
03:26:55,760 --> 03:26:59,200
Speaker 2: For that company could have could have been could have

4313
03:26:59,240 --> 03:27:03,240
Speaker 2: been you know, lost their job technically, dude.

4314
03:27:03,280 --> 03:27:08,120
Speaker 4: And depending on how you know, how secure this company

4315
03:27:08,400 --> 03:27:09,240
Speaker 4: could have gotten.

4316
03:27:09,120 --> 03:27:12,560
Speaker 3: Legal trouble too, legal trouble like legal trouble.

4317
03:27:12,720 --> 03:27:17,440
Speaker 2: Bad, It's bad. One more one so from Pixie Pan.

4318
03:27:17,800 --> 03:27:20,960
Speaker 2: My daughter was born in ninety five. She's an older millennial,

4319
03:27:21,120 --> 03:27:23,600
Speaker 2: per her twelve year old brother who keeps calling her

4320
03:27:24,080 --> 03:27:27,240
Speaker 2: elderly older millennial. Now, older millennials are.

4321
03:27:27,160 --> 03:27:27,720
Speaker 3: Like thirty eight.

4322
03:27:28,240 --> 03:27:32,400
Speaker 4: That's a young millennial, a young millennial ninety five exactly,

4323
03:27:32,440 --> 03:27:34,160
Speaker 4: That's what I'm saying. That's a young millennial.

4324
03:27:34,280 --> 03:27:37,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, but they're they're twelve year old brothers gaslighting them

4325
03:27:37,440 --> 03:27:38,920
Speaker 2: and thinking they're.

4326
03:27:39,640 --> 03:27:44,520
Speaker 5: Like like some other people I know, John, I would never.

4327
03:27:45,080 --> 03:27:49,520
Speaker 3: Anyway, Coke, Hey, do you gotta have this story?

4328
03:27:49,879 --> 03:27:50,120
Speaker 1: We do?

4329
03:27:51,720 --> 03:27:52,520
Speaker 5: Let's do it.

4330
03:27:53,320 --> 03:27:56,000
Speaker 3: Okay, that is okay, the calls can wait. The people

4331
03:27:56,040 --> 03:27:56,920
Speaker 3: are here for content.

4332
03:27:57,280 --> 03:27:59,440
Speaker 4: Do we want to read any comments? Uh?

4333
03:27:59,560 --> 03:28:00,480
Speaker 5: Yes, read them?

4334
03:28:00,760 --> 03:28:03,720
Speaker 4: Well you find the new Okay, move the mic closer

4335
03:28:03,760 --> 03:28:06,800
Speaker 4: to your mouth. It is, in fact right next to

4336
03:28:06,920 --> 03:28:14,760
Speaker 4: my now. Uh nineties rule I've never been Yep, nda

4337
03:28:14,920 --> 03:28:18,520
Speaker 4: are real and it can be bad. So true. I

4338
03:28:18,600 --> 03:28:20,720
Speaker 4: have a password for my oh who's this from kid?

4339
03:28:22,920 --> 03:28:25,440
Speaker 4: Raise aicon? I have? Yeah, I have a password for

4340
03:28:25,560 --> 03:28:27,440
Speaker 4: my phone and then another pass code to get into

4341
03:28:27,480 --> 03:28:30,720
Speaker 4: my business WhatsApp because I'm a psychologist, and I need

4342
03:28:30,800 --> 03:28:33,640
Speaker 4: as many locks on my phone as possible. My ex

4343
03:28:33,720 --> 03:28:36,600
Speaker 4: partner understood that. Yeah, yeah, I feel like, yeah, it

4344
03:28:36,720 --> 03:28:40,320
Speaker 4: makes sense if you have like very sensitive sensitive information

4345
03:28:40,440 --> 03:28:41,240
Speaker 4: that's like, hey, I want.

4346
03:28:41,120 --> 03:28:44,280
Speaker 2: To protect you know, my clients sharing very confidential things

4347
03:28:44,400 --> 03:28:47,520
Speaker 2: like it's good. It's good ladies and gentlemen respect. But

4348
03:28:47,680 --> 03:28:48,720
Speaker 2: what else is good?

4349
03:28:49,240 --> 03:28:51,040
Speaker 4: Is this next story?

4350
03:28:51,480 --> 03:28:56,480
Speaker 2: That's right, let's get into it, short and sweet title. Today,

4351
03:28:57,000 --> 03:29:02,840
Speaker 2: I afked up by sexting my step mom. Ah ah,

4352
03:29:03,800 --> 03:29:04,240
Speaker 2: did you know?

4353
03:29:04,560 --> 03:29:06,280
Speaker 4: Did you know that they were your stuck?

4354
03:29:10,640 --> 03:29:14,160
Speaker 2: Change the learn, Oh did you know that you were there?

4355
03:29:14,240 --> 03:29:16,720
Speaker 2: Your step I'm going to assume it's an accident because

4356
03:29:16,720 --> 03:29:19,720
Speaker 2: today I afked up. Otherwise it would be like today

4357
03:29:19,760 --> 03:29:20,520
Speaker 2: I succeeded.

4358
03:29:22,120 --> 03:29:23,600
Speaker 4: You didn't get to my step mom.

4359
03:29:24,360 --> 03:29:28,879
Speaker 2: Oh goodness, gracious. Well, let's get into this one from

4360
03:29:29,000 --> 03:29:33,480
Speaker 2: crazy squirrel Girl, who says my sister was getting married

4361
03:29:33,520 --> 03:29:35,760
Speaker 2: and all of us ladies went to get mayonies and

4362
03:29:36,040 --> 03:29:40,520
Speaker 2: petties together. Oh yeah, my step mom, all the bridesmaids,

4363
03:29:40,640 --> 03:29:43,879
Speaker 2: my sister, and I. So because there was a flock

4364
03:29:43,920 --> 03:29:46,000
Speaker 2: of eight of us, they sat a few of us

4365
03:29:46,120 --> 03:29:48,160
Speaker 2: in the petticure chairs to soak the feet. While we

4366
03:29:48,240 --> 03:29:51,840
Speaker 2: waited for a manicurist to become available, I decided I

4367
03:29:52,000 --> 03:29:54,360
Speaker 2: had had a long wait and I was bored. I

4368
03:29:54,720 --> 03:29:57,160
Speaker 2: really don't know the bridesmaids, only my sister and my

4369
03:29:57,240 --> 03:30:00,400
Speaker 2: step mom, so I would sext my husban has been.

4370
03:30:02,280 --> 03:30:07,680
Speaker 4: Oh, I see where this is going. I put I

4371
03:30:07,760 --> 03:30:10,840
Speaker 4: see you in the comments because I see I see.

4372
03:30:10,760 --> 03:30:12,959
Speaker 3: You drop them, drop them.

4373
03:30:14,160 --> 03:30:18,760
Speaker 2: Well, I started sending very descriptive messages to him at.

4374
03:30:18,680 --> 03:30:23,240
Speaker 4: The Manny Petty. During the Manny Petty, at the nail.

4375
03:30:23,120 --> 03:30:24,280
Speaker 2: Salon, she was going in.

4376
03:30:24,879 --> 03:30:29,920
Speaker 4: She's getting her feet painted, her nails painted.

4377
03:30:30,000 --> 03:30:31,720
Speaker 2: Painting something red.

4378
03:30:31,879 --> 03:30:34,400
Speaker 5: I will say. Whenever John went to get his nails done,

4379
03:30:34,440 --> 03:30:37,960
Speaker 5: he did say he was thirsty, so for water.

4380
03:30:38,160 --> 03:30:39,720
Speaker 2: Riley sure.

4381
03:30:40,720 --> 03:30:42,920
Speaker 4: I was also while we were talking about the Manny petties,

4382
03:30:43,000 --> 03:30:44,800
Speaker 4: I was thinking of I'm.

4383
03:30:44,720 --> 03:30:48,840
Speaker 2: Sorry, never apologize, it's destroyed, Scott.

4384
03:30:49,520 --> 03:30:52,160
Speaker 4: I was thinking about an alternate video where you guys

4385
03:30:52,280 --> 03:30:55,000
Speaker 4: get four inch nails on your toes and you walk

4386
03:30:55,040 --> 03:30:57,360
Speaker 4: around like little What are.

4387
03:30:57,400 --> 03:30:58,840
Speaker 3: Feet challenges that we could do?

4388
03:31:00,120 --> 03:31:02,360
Speaker 4: You're like tipping and tapping right?

4389
03:31:02,520 --> 03:31:02,640
Speaker 1: Oh?

4390
03:31:02,760 --> 03:31:03,400
Speaker 3: Tap dancing?

4391
03:31:03,840 --> 03:31:06,520
Speaker 4: Oh no, I just meant like tipping and tapping in general.

4392
03:31:06,680 --> 03:31:08,840
Speaker 3: Oh, because of our giant blompers.

4393
03:31:08,920 --> 03:31:10,320
Speaker 5: If you do something with your feet, you have to

4394
03:31:10,600 --> 03:31:14,480
Speaker 5: like then do a foot finder like promotion.

4395
03:31:14,800 --> 03:31:17,640
Speaker 3: That's true. I really, I really don't know if you

4396
03:31:17,720 --> 03:31:18,320
Speaker 3: guys want that.

4397
03:31:18,879 --> 03:31:20,680
Speaker 4: No, I'm sorry, this was just my like. I don't

4398
03:31:20,680 --> 03:31:21,560
Speaker 4: want you to actually do it.

4399
03:31:22,560 --> 03:31:25,560
Speaker 5: Sure, Okay, now she's back pedaling.

4400
03:31:27,600 --> 03:31:30,920
Speaker 2: Well you know what Erica Taylor Allen says, I see

4401
03:31:30,959 --> 03:31:36,600
Speaker 2: today is Bully John Day vindication. Vindication.

4402
03:31:38,040 --> 03:31:39,280
Speaker 3: Hey, shout out to you, Erica.

4403
03:31:40,120 --> 03:31:45,000
Speaker 4: I would never I feel Jenna Marbles would get four

4404
03:31:45,040 --> 03:31:46,240
Speaker 4: inch nails on hurt.

4405
03:31:47,080 --> 03:31:48,440
Speaker 2: Oh that's true.

4406
03:31:48,520 --> 03:31:51,200
Speaker 4: I want that video. Where is Jenna? I miss her?

4407
03:31:51,560 --> 03:31:56,400
Speaker 3: We got to get her on the show. See you

4408
03:31:56,560 --> 03:32:00,880
Speaker 3: do you want Jenner Marbles on the show. Jenna Marble?

4409
03:32:00,959 --> 03:32:01,640
Speaker 4: I love you, Jenna.

4410
03:32:01,840 --> 03:32:02,720
Speaker 3: Yes, let's get it wrong.

4411
03:32:02,760 --> 03:32:04,879
Speaker 4: I watched. I've watched all your videos.

4412
03:32:04,959 --> 03:32:05,520
Speaker 3: Let's get it wrong.

4413
03:32:05,560 --> 03:32:08,840
Speaker 5: Hell yeah, we're gonna let's go commoner.

4414
03:32:09,040 --> 03:32:09,560
Speaker 2: Get out of here.

4415
03:32:10,400 --> 03:32:14,039
Speaker 4: She did, I'm getting four inch nails on her toes.

4416
03:32:15,080 --> 03:32:15,920
Speaker 4: Maybe I haven't watched.

4417
03:32:16,879 --> 03:32:17,840
Speaker 3: We got to run the catalog.

4418
03:32:18,000 --> 03:32:20,000
Speaker 4: Sorry, okay, okay, continue, Yes.

4419
03:32:20,080 --> 03:32:23,320
Speaker 2: So where you know we sent the hot and hot

4420
03:32:23,360 --> 03:32:26,520
Speaker 2: and heavy messages. He wasn't responding, but the messages were

4421
03:32:26,560 --> 03:32:29,640
Speaker 2: marked as red, so I knew or so I thought

4422
03:32:30,040 --> 03:32:32,360
Speaker 2: that he was with my dad, and I figured that

4423
03:32:32,480 --> 03:32:35,440
Speaker 2: I would be evil and make it up to him later.

4424
03:32:36,520 --> 03:32:39,800
Speaker 2: After the fifth message, my stepmom, who is two petty

4425
03:32:39,879 --> 03:32:42,760
Speaker 2: chairs over from me, leans over and clears your throat.

4426
03:32:44,920 --> 03:32:45,959
Speaker 2: That was a terrible thirt clear.

4427
03:32:47,360 --> 03:32:50,120
Speaker 4: Oh pe I do I did not know you were

4428
03:32:50,240 --> 03:32:51,040
Speaker 4: that flexible?

4429
03:32:51,200 --> 03:32:53,160
Speaker 3: You have quite worths.

4430
03:32:55,879 --> 03:33:03,520
Speaker 6: Oh, oh my gosh, quite away with words, quite away,

4431
03:33:03,560 --> 03:33:07,560
Speaker 6: with words meaning there's just you know, she's she's breaking

4432
03:33:07,640 --> 03:33:08,000
Speaker 6: it down.

4433
03:33:09,200 --> 03:33:09,840
Speaker 3: Horrified.

4434
03:33:10,240 --> 03:33:12,199
Speaker 4: I would. I would leave the relationship.

4435
03:33:12,920 --> 03:33:15,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, leave the room, leave the relationship, leave the planet.

4436
03:33:16,600 --> 03:33:20,680
Speaker 4: Oh wait, they're not in a relationship, isn't step Mom? Sorry?

4437
03:33:20,720 --> 03:33:26,520
Speaker 3: I was thinking, are we sparking the flames of munos?

4438
03:33:26,879 --> 03:33:26,920
Speaker 2: You?

4439
03:33:27,080 --> 03:33:27,120
Speaker 1: No?

4440
03:33:27,200 --> 03:33:32,360
Speaker 4: I would. I would leave the country. Yeah, go off

4441
03:33:32,400 --> 03:33:35,160
Speaker 4: the grid, Yes, off the grid and start a farm.

4442
03:33:35,320 --> 03:33:35,720
Speaker 3: There we go.

4443
03:33:35,920 --> 03:33:36,360
Speaker 2: I like that.

4444
03:33:36,920 --> 03:33:39,280
Speaker 3: I feel like that's Riley's answer as well. Start a farm.

4445
03:33:39,360 --> 03:33:40,360
Speaker 3: That's like Riley's default.

4446
03:33:40,560 --> 03:33:43,959
Speaker 5: I feel like in the Appalachian Mountains there.

4447
03:33:43,840 --> 03:33:48,199
Speaker 2: He is horrified. I looked at my phone and see

4448
03:33:48,240 --> 03:33:51,080
Speaker 2: her name and not my husband's. We all ended up

4449
03:33:51,160 --> 03:33:54,480
Speaker 2: laughing until tears were streaming down our faces.

4450
03:33:54,720 --> 03:33:54,920
Speaker 1: Wow.

4451
03:33:55,240 --> 03:33:55,800
Speaker 3: So yeah.

4452
03:33:55,959 --> 03:33:58,880
Speaker 2: Now my stepmom thinks I'm an info and when I

4453
03:33:59,040 --> 03:34:02,720
Speaker 2: do text her will always respond immediately. You do know

4454
03:34:02,920 --> 03:34:06,280
Speaker 2: you're texting me, right, Thank goodness we do not live

4455
03:34:06,640 --> 03:34:08,240
Speaker 2: in the same states.

4456
03:34:09,480 --> 03:34:13,320
Speaker 4: Yeahs uh yeah, ows uh, that's tough.

4457
03:34:13,600 --> 03:34:13,800
Speaker 2: Yeah.

4458
03:34:14,320 --> 03:34:15,920
Speaker 4: I always check who you're texting to.

4459
03:34:16,280 --> 03:34:17,600
Speaker 2: Always always check.

4460
03:34:17,560 --> 03:34:20,560
Speaker 4: Especially when you're texting those those texts.

4461
03:34:20,280 --> 03:34:25,480
Speaker 3: Those those you're naughty texts. Do not send those, that is,

4462
03:34:26,400 --> 03:34:27,360
Speaker 3: to your step mom.

4463
03:34:27,480 --> 03:34:29,440
Speaker 4: Yeah no, no, send them to whoever you'd like.

4464
03:34:29,879 --> 03:34:32,279
Speaker 3: Maybe not your step mom, yeah, or maybe not whoever

4465
03:34:32,440 --> 03:34:32,840
Speaker 3: you'd like.

4466
03:34:33,040 --> 03:34:37,400
Speaker 2: But send them to anyone you want to send them.

4467
03:34:41,080 --> 03:34:44,880
Speaker 4: Send them to people who consent and want them, but

4468
03:34:45,040 --> 03:34:48,440
Speaker 4: not your sem that's right, even even if she cons

4469
03:34:49,000 --> 03:34:51,280
Speaker 4: even if she asked for it, don't send them. You

4470
03:34:51,360 --> 03:34:51,560
Speaker 4: know what.

4471
03:34:51,959 --> 03:34:54,480
Speaker 2: Take a step back and say, yeah, I'm good.

4472
03:34:54,720 --> 03:34:58,119
Speaker 4: I'm glad that those stepmom was good with it, though

4473
03:34:58,480 --> 03:34:59,160
Speaker 4: she laughed about it.

4474
03:34:59,320 --> 03:35:00,240
Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, and everyone.

4475
03:35:00,280 --> 03:35:02,120
Speaker 2: It seems like everyone had a good, good sense humor.

4476
03:35:02,240 --> 03:35:03,480
Speaker 4: Everyone laughed about it.

4477
03:35:03,600 --> 03:35:08,039
Speaker 2: What are the good people saying? Lemester Limester says, oh

4478
03:35:08,120 --> 03:35:10,720
Speaker 2: my lord, I felt my face hot from that one.

4479
03:35:11,000 --> 03:35:13,360
Speaker 3: That is so funny. Though at least she didn't call

4480
03:35:13,440 --> 03:35:15,440
Speaker 3: her a floozy or something. That's true.

4481
03:35:16,040 --> 03:35:18,240
Speaker 2: It could have gone like very left, something we see.

4482
03:35:18,080 --> 03:35:18,480
Speaker 3: All the time.

4483
03:35:18,680 --> 03:35:20,120
Speaker 4: Yeah, she couldn't be worried about it.

4484
03:35:20,160 --> 03:35:21,360
Speaker 1: But she was chill. She was chill.

4485
03:35:21,400 --> 03:35:23,400
Speaker 4: She chill step mom. She's like, I'm a cool mom,

4486
03:35:23,600 --> 03:35:24,400
Speaker 4: don worry about it.

4487
03:35:24,680 --> 03:35:28,039
Speaker 2: Yeah. Who else do we got?

4488
03:35:28,760 --> 03:35:28,880
Speaker 1: Oh?

4489
03:35:28,920 --> 03:35:29,520
Speaker 2: Where's the one?

4490
03:35:30,400 --> 03:35:33,039
Speaker 3: Here we go? Uh, you want to take that one?

4491
03:35:33,720 --> 03:35:37,480
Speaker 4: Kim Kwant says. I sent hey I'm in the closet

4492
03:35:37,640 --> 03:35:39,640
Speaker 4: to my work chat one time when I was trying

4493
03:35:39,680 --> 03:35:46,720
Speaker 4: to tell my friend who had just come over, so oh, oh,

4494
03:35:46,800 --> 03:35:49,320
Speaker 4: I'm in the closet, like when you get here. But

4495
03:35:49,560 --> 03:35:58,160
Speaker 4: she said, hey, guys, I'm in the closet. I'm imagining

4496
03:35:58,240 --> 03:35:59,280
Speaker 4: I'm in the closet.

4497
03:35:59,320 --> 03:36:02,040
Speaker 3: I'll be out in the yeah, right, Oh my gosh,

4498
03:36:02,240 --> 03:36:03,200
Speaker 3: that is hilarious.

4499
03:36:04,680 --> 03:36:05,640
Speaker 2: Jem oh my god.

4500
03:36:05,760 --> 03:36:08,080
Speaker 3: I want to know the flexible thing that she could do.

4501
03:36:09,360 --> 03:36:12,560
Speaker 4: Yeah, because I was confused by that because if it's

4502
03:36:12,680 --> 03:36:14,880
Speaker 4: just text, but if it's I was thinking maybe there

4503
03:36:14,879 --> 03:36:16,920
Speaker 4: were pictures, and that's what I think.

4504
03:36:16,959 --> 03:36:20,439
Speaker 2: It was all all uh, all descriptive.

4505
03:36:20,640 --> 03:36:24,000
Speaker 4: Oh oh, she was telling Yes, she was describing what

4506
03:36:24,200 --> 03:36:25,440
Speaker 4: she was going to do, and she was like, wow,

4507
03:36:25,560 --> 03:36:26,520
Speaker 4: you'll flex flexible.

4508
03:36:27,040 --> 03:36:28,960
Speaker 2: The raven said, it was a little bit down. The

4509
03:36:29,040 --> 03:36:32,440
Speaker 2: Raven said, I'm a cool mom. Won any snacks? Condoms?

4510
03:36:32,720 --> 03:36:33,600
Speaker 3: You crazy kids?

4511
03:36:34,240 --> 03:36:35,920
Speaker 2: Well, Raymond is a cool mom.

4512
03:36:36,080 --> 03:36:37,160
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, it's true.

4513
03:36:37,520 --> 03:36:38,560
Speaker 2: That's great, that's great.

4514
03:36:38,640 --> 03:36:39,800
Speaker 4: The cringe, I'm cringing.

4515
03:36:40,600 --> 03:36:44,800
Speaker 2: Crystal Light says, God, love it me do so are we?

4516
03:36:45,000 --> 03:36:46,760
Speaker 3: Do we have any more stories? Wow?

4517
03:36:47,680 --> 03:36:49,400
Speaker 4: Wow, we've read all the stories.

4518
03:36:49,360 --> 03:36:50,160
Speaker 2: Ladies and gentlemen.

4519
03:36:50,600 --> 03:36:52,160
Speaker 5: We could go, we could keep going.

4520
03:36:52,280 --> 03:36:57,040
Speaker 2: It's all good. We've done. Guys, well, never stop, Riley, Riley,

4521
03:36:57,080 --> 03:36:59,120
Speaker 2: get get on the get on the stream. Let me

4522
03:36:59,120 --> 03:37:01,039
Speaker 2: see your people face there there he is right there.

4523
03:37:01,280 --> 03:37:01,920
Speaker 1: You go an hour.

4524
03:37:02,440 --> 03:37:03,480
Speaker 3: Actually go small again.

4525
03:37:03,320 --> 03:37:03,760
Speaker 2: So we can see.

4526
03:37:03,800 --> 03:37:03,840
Speaker 6: So.

4527
03:37:03,959 --> 03:37:07,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, great, ladies and gentlemen, thank you for joining us

4528
03:37:07,480 --> 03:37:09,680
Speaker 2: on our first like I would say, our first.

4529
03:37:09,480 --> 03:37:12,240
Speaker 4: Like official true, yeah, because I'm here.

4530
03:37:12,320 --> 03:37:16,879
Speaker 2: Yes, because you are one hundred percent right. How could

4531
03:37:16,920 --> 03:37:19,440
Speaker 2: we ever think? And you know what to close it out?

4532
03:37:19,560 --> 03:37:23,360
Speaker 2: We have the entire crew, the entire okay, fa.

4533
03:37:23,440 --> 03:37:26,760
Speaker 4: Here, Oh sorry, Estella Davis says, wait, we haven't gotten

4534
03:37:26,800 --> 03:37:29,560
Speaker 4: to Bully Sam yet. Don't worry. I beat you to it.

4535
03:37:29,800 --> 03:37:32,000
Speaker 2: There it is there, it is. It was Bully John

4536
03:37:32,080 --> 03:37:34,880
Speaker 2: Day and Sam will have his day, ladies and gentlemen.

4537
03:37:36,200 --> 03:37:39,480
Speaker 2: But a few quick reminders. We are going to be

4538
03:37:39,560 --> 03:37:43,400
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4539
03:37:43,680 --> 03:37:46,760
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4540
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4541
03:37:47,879 --> 03:37:50,240
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4542
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4543
03:37:55,120 --> 03:37:59,440
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4544
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4546
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4548
03:38:15,320 --> 03:38:15,600
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4549
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4552
03:38:27,680 --> 03:38:31,119
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4553
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