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Speaker 1: Update.

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Speaker 2: I just found out my fiance is a liar, but

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Speaker 2: I'm supposed to marry her in two weeks Part four.

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Speaker 3: Oh man, this story has been a whirlwind.

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Speaker 1: Oh it is? It is just a we've just dumped, dumped, dumped.

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Speaker 3: We heal dr for if someone's just joining us on

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Speaker 3: this one. Uh?

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Speaker 1: We do.

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Speaker 2: This is a continuation slash update from the previous story

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Speaker 2: to ODR from the last week's story, if you weren't

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Speaker 2: around to hear that. So Opi catches his fiance Sarah

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Speaker 2: helping her sister Evelyn, keep an ongoing affair secret from

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Speaker 2: Evelyn's husband, Marty the brother in law. Now Opie questions

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Speaker 2: whether he can even marry Sarah with this new knowledge.

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Speaker 2: So Opie helps Marty the brother in law gather evidence

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Speaker 2: to confront his wife. Opie is not there for the

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Speaker 2: actual confrontation, so we don't get the details. But Opie

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Speaker 2: then goes on to go home to confront his own fiance,

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Speaker 2: hazy but hated work, but heated words and tears are exchanged,

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Speaker 2: and now Opie is by himself with his phone blowing up.

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Speaker 2: OPI provides details of the confrontation in the update, and

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Speaker 2: OPI shares the confrontation with his wife. When he went

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Speaker 2: Opie played dumb at first, but eventually revealed that he

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Speaker 1: The cops end up taking Evelyn away.

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Speaker 2: Sarah tries to play dumb and salvage is the relationship,

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Speaker 2: but OPI is having none of it. Sarah also tries

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Speaker 2: but he has had a long talk with Sarah where

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Speaker 2: they both open up a lot about the history of

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Speaker 2: their relationship. The future status of them is up in

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Speaker 1: Onto the updates.

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Speaker 3: Oh, that's a long TLDR. That's that's a long tld.

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Speaker 1: I mean, there's a lot of things that happen, a lot,

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Speaker 1: a lot.

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Speaker 3: There's a lot of juice to squeeze, all.

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Speaker 1: Right, So now we're getting into the true update.

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Speaker 3: If you had to, if you had to give that

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Speaker 3: TLDR in one sentence, what would you say?

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Speaker 1: Uh?

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Speaker 2: Opi confronts the cheating sister in law, but realizes in

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Speaker 3: Yeah, because the wife is kind of an ally to

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Speaker 4: More and no kids.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, And now we're like into this scenario where he's

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Speaker 3: kind of like she's kind of saying like, oh, but

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Speaker 3: a there is a suspicion that maybe she cheated because

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Speaker 1: She's helping cheaters.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but it's actually his brother that looked at that.

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Speaker 2: Do you evidence is stacked against her potentially, but let's

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Speaker 2: slash Okay storytimes Oup read it. I have a friend, Marty,

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Speaker 2: who is currently engaged in a bitter divorce from his wife.

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Speaker 2: She was caught cheating over a month ago, and I

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Speaker 2: there's a bit of history there. They also have a

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Speaker 2: Now here's where people are going to have to start

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Speaker 1: We are currently in a it's complicated type of relationship. Oh,

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Speaker 1: it is very complicated.

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Speaker 2: Two days ago, she comes to me and says that

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Speaker 3: Custody hearing, oh, false, because she's gonna lose a custody

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Speaker 2: So they're like, hey, let's all agree, let's lie in

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Speaker 3: It's messed up. That's messed up. Wow, this is starting

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so she wants my help in turning the tables

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Speaker 2: Like I said, it's complicated now. Even though she is

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Speaker 1: Hates her sister.

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Speaker 2: You see, the sister was an accessory to one of

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Speaker 3: Right, which is good? Which well, I think she's good. Well,

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Speaker 3: So I think it's I think it's still good. But

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Speaker 2: Yeah, And I mean this would could just reignite everything.

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Speaker 1: Else that they've been going through.

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Speaker 2: So her most convincing the argument is that this opportunity

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Speaker 1: Of Sarah's motivation.

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Speaker 2: After all, she could theoretically just testify on Marty's behalf

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Speaker 3: So just how I understand really quick? So the sister

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Speaker 3: custody hearing and he potentially could get his children taken away. Yes,

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Speaker 2: It seems like she's pitching that idea to Op and

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Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, that I mean again that seems pretty good.

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Speaker 1: That's pretty good. And I guess you.

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Speaker 3: Know Bimbo Mandy. What was it bimbo wife Mandy that

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Speaker 4: John we are mostly for some reasons.

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Speaker 3: Wow.

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Speaker 1: I literally just protected you there. Wow Wow wow Wow. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I do remember John, just like really like like we

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, you know, you know I put a five

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I think those figures.

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Speaker 3: It was just like, you know, I want to help,

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Speaker 2: Watch watch the last episodes. Yeah, you'll see you'll see

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Speaker 2: the truth. Anyways. But yes, that's what's happening. It's looking bad,

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Speaker 2: and we don't know what's gonna happen.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, we don't. We don't.

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Speaker 1: We never know, We never know, except we do.

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Speaker 1: There's an update.

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Speaker 3: All right, let's get into this update.

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Speaker 2: So sorry this update took so long to get around to,

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Speaker 2: that seems to really bother people, my brother and his

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Speaker 1: Uh what do I call this? Spicy texting?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, this was like the only fans uh Bimbo wife

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Speaker 2: And yeah, the side plot was should Op basically tattle

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you've you've you've you've recreated it from memory. You've

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Speaker 2: done a charcoal sketch of every single nookranyan detail.

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Speaker 3: I will I will admit I was. I was thorough

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Speaker 3: Mandy had always been as bodacious as as she is

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Speaker 3: and six. She was a completely different woman. But today today.

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Speaker 2: Riley just pulled it up all very conservative picture it is?

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Speaker 2: It is, Dare I say, the most conservative picture, probably

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Speaker 2: the most respectful picture I could find it the most.

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Speaker 3: She is fully she is fully uh clothed? Ye?

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Speaker 1: But they hadn't they?

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Speaker 1: But back to our lady in question.

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Speaker 2: I urged my brother to tell Karen, his wife about

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Speaker 2: the spicy texting with the Australian only pants girl known

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Speaker 2: as bimbo wife Mandy, I mean bimbo wife. Many wife

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Speaker 3: Wow, her loyal simps.

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Speaker 4: That's right, dude, it's like throwing away five hundred bucks

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Speaker 1: Sam would also know my brother for his wouldn't lie

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Speaker 3: When she when she spicy tags me that like she

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Speaker 3: we will try to find Bimbo wife Mandy for her

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Speaker 4: Yeah, but he will be sitting in the corner watching.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, in my closet, And there's the closet right there,

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Speaker 2: So one hundred thousand likes. You guys know what to do.

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Speaker 2: My brother, for his part, did tell his wife what

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Speaker 2: not like he was going to run off and have

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Speaker 2: It's legal where they live. Wow, I didn't know that.

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Speaker 2: Aren't you from Australia?

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Speaker 3: I mean yes, but I visited family, not bimbo wife Mandy.

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Speaker 1: Say that one more time, Samuel Donner, I.

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Speaker 3: Did not visit Australia to see bimbo wife bandy. I promise,

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Speaker 1: How long were you there for?

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Speaker 4: You in Australia?

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Speaker 3: How long was I there for? Like? Six months that

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Speaker 4: It's a long time, Okay, this investigation passes to accomplish

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Speaker 3: We literally we all our whole thing is like, hey

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Speaker 1: We said that from the beginning, he.

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Speaker 2: Us therapy husband Sam Yep, that's Sam's use her name yep, somewhere.

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Speaker 1: Look it up.

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Speaker 2: What is the therapy you gotta find out? That'll be

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Speaker 2: five ninety nine a month. Please Now, I will strongly

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Speaker 2: in actively carrying on an affair. And I don't think

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Speaker 2: people were like, you're a total hypocrite because you expose

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Speaker 3: Wow, that's pretty extremes extreme.

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Speaker 2: My goodness, some motor boats. But anyways, Next up, I

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Speaker 2: had to call off. There isn't much to say here.

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Speaker 2: Sarah and I and our families lost our shirt on it,

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Speaker 2: Ordered all that food to either give me back a

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Speaker 2: it out to interested parties. Likewise, some Hey, that's free protein. Yeah, okay,

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Speaker 3: I remember when Jim and Pam called off their wedding,

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Speaker 2: True likewise, some wedding gifts from far away relatives arrived

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Speaker 3: in Facebook marketplace. Be up, rich, be so up.

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Speaker 2: But overall, the date just came and passed, and for

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Speaker 3: Oh, you don't need to tell work. That's not that's

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Speaker 1: Do you want to tell work?

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Speaker 3: Chat? No, don't tell work, Chack.

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Speaker 1: I'm also on NA.

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Speaker 2: want to hear what chat of court?

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Speaker 3: Of course chats gonna tell work? Oh I voted, we

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Speaker 1: Hook up on the company dime.

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Speaker 3: Ye, yes, even so, But like I still I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I feel like that's like who cares about corporate America?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it's okay to hook up on the court.

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Speaker 2: If if if a Wiley Rilson, a fictitious employee of

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Speaker 2: let's call her, would that not be worth telling the bosses.

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Speaker 3: If you had a relationship with the bosses, but like

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Speaker 2: So Wiley would have to hook up with someone, let's

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Speaker 4: Coworker, Yeah it was if it was really awesome co worker.

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Speaker 3: I'm I'm a little confused now, but I think you

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Speaker 1: It ben't don't involve yourself. Basically, I don't know.

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Speaker 2: Yea, because yeah, also, this is still the mother of

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Speaker 4: Ooh yeah yeah yeah, the sister in law and the

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Speaker 2: Yeah, So do you really want to take away the

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Speaker 3: Don't know if I want to take the livelihood away. Well,

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Speaker 3: we'll see, and Chad agrees. Chad says, most of you

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Speaker 2: So far, we haven't seen what's coming up next. Nor

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Speaker 2: something I strongly disagree with. When I questioned him about it,

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Speaker 1: After all, he has.

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Speaker 2: The text messages to photos from the pub and the

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Speaker 2: it's like, bro, you tortured me, it's my turn.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. So like he's basically like he wants to hold

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Speaker 2: Yeah, he's basically every day he wakes up and he's like,

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Speaker 3: That they have burned to the ground?

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Speaker 2: He's enjoying making Evelyn fully realize her place in the world,

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Speaker 1: Cold blooded Marty.

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Speaker 2: I'm not sure, but Marty has definitely gotten a bit

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Speaker 2: Everything I know about Evelyn is secondhand from Sarah, but

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00:21:57,640 --> 00:22:00,160
Speaker 2: the way I understand it, she is largely just going

443
00:22:00,160 --> 00:22:02,480
Speaker 2: to work and coming straight back to her parents' house

444
00:22:02,560 --> 00:22:05,880
Speaker 2: every day, like a teenager on curfew. I don't think

445
00:22:05,880 --> 00:22:08,239
Speaker 2: they're pleased with either of their daughters right now. But

446
00:22:08,280 --> 00:22:11,760
Speaker 2: oddly enough, even though the implosion of Sarah in Mine's

447
00:22:11,760 --> 00:22:14,880
Speaker 2: wedding was extremely public, I think it's being drowned out

448
00:22:14,920 --> 00:22:18,280
Speaker 2: by the constant drama that is in Evelyn's impending divorce.

449
00:22:19,920 --> 00:22:22,520
Speaker 2: Sarah said it almost seemed like they forgot about her

450
00:22:22,600 --> 00:22:25,200
Speaker 2: once they realized that Marty was seriously taking steps to

451
00:22:25,240 --> 00:22:28,400
Speaker 2: divorce Evelyn, and they're concern about having access to their granddaughter.

452
00:22:28,760 --> 00:22:31,560
Speaker 2: I sort of get that they are very doting grandparents,

453
00:22:31,640 --> 00:22:34,119
Speaker 2: and I'm sure their anger at Evelyn is compounded by

454
00:22:34,160 --> 00:22:37,240
Speaker 2: the fact that the access to their grandchildren is going

455
00:22:37,280 --> 00:22:40,240
Speaker 2: to be essentially cut in half. We have seen We've

456
00:22:40,240 --> 00:22:43,720
Speaker 2: seen grandparents go crazy yep, over those grand babies.

457
00:22:44,040 --> 00:22:46,840
Speaker 1: We've seen it before. Lying in court would be a first, though,

458
00:22:47,119 --> 00:22:48,879
Speaker 1: that would be a first and okase story time history.

459
00:22:49,200 --> 00:22:53,080
Speaker 3: Well, dude, I did not realize like how big grand

460
00:22:53,119 --> 00:22:57,080
Speaker 3: baby fever was until this pod. Grand printal rights, yeap,

461
00:22:57,200 --> 00:22:59,720
Speaker 3: grand printal rights. It's real to real thing, it exists,

462
00:22:59,760 --> 00:23:01,600
Speaker 3: not believe exists, but it is.

463
00:23:01,680 --> 00:23:02,120
Speaker 1: But it's true.

464
00:23:02,160 --> 00:23:04,000
Speaker 2: If there's so many there's so many legal things. We

465
00:23:04,040 --> 00:23:05,600
Speaker 2: thought were like, that can't be the killing. It was like,

466
00:23:05,640 --> 00:23:06,879
Speaker 2: oh that is very raal.

467
00:23:07,160 --> 00:23:07,720
Speaker 1: Yeah.

468
00:23:07,840 --> 00:23:11,560
Speaker 2: Now on to the big event Sarah and I. First off,

469
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Speaker 2: I don't think that this update is likely to make

470
00:23:13,800 --> 00:23:16,520
Speaker 2: anyone happy, not the people who urged me to yeat

471
00:23:16,600 --> 00:23:18,960
Speaker 2: or out of my life, nor the people whose demands

472
00:23:19,000 --> 00:23:22,360
Speaker 2: I treat her with sympathy and compassion for her obviously

473
00:23:22,400 --> 00:23:23,800
Speaker 2: screwed up mental issues.

474
00:23:23,840 --> 00:23:24,560
Speaker 1: Oh my goodness.

475
00:23:24,640 --> 00:23:27,040
Speaker 2: The facts are the asides from the lying and hiding

476
00:23:27,040 --> 00:23:29,600
Speaker 2: the affair. What shook me the most was probably the

477
00:23:29,600 --> 00:23:32,600
Speaker 2: way she carried on with her sister in those text messages.

478
00:23:33,000 --> 00:23:35,239
Speaker 2: Maybe people would understand me better if I shared them,

479
00:23:35,280 --> 00:23:37,640
Speaker 2: but I simply refuse to repeat it, and I don't

480
00:23:37,680 --> 00:23:40,600
Speaker 2: want to get into arguments over their content. Suffice it

481
00:23:40,640 --> 00:23:43,600
Speaker 2: to say it was enough for me to reconsider Sarah's

482
00:23:43,680 --> 00:23:48,200
Speaker 2: complete character, which is largely where I'm at today, still

483
00:23:48,440 --> 00:23:52,119
Speaker 2: considering it. That's not to say that we are still together.

484
00:23:52,359 --> 00:23:54,760
Speaker 2: Definitely not in the way when we were engaged couple,

485
00:23:54,920 --> 00:23:57,600
Speaker 2: but we haven't completely closed the door on the relationship either.

486
00:23:58,800 --> 00:24:01,000
Speaker 2: I've come to understand a bit more about what kind

487
00:24:01,000 --> 00:24:03,080
Speaker 2: of person Sarah is and which parts of her are

488
00:24:03,160 --> 00:24:06,879
Speaker 2: genuine and which parts are facsimile constructed in order for

489
00:24:06,920 --> 00:24:11,440
Speaker 2: her to ingratiate herself to people her sister included. Basically,

490
00:24:11,480 --> 00:24:13,199
Speaker 2: it helps to be able to put a name to

491
00:24:13,240 --> 00:24:16,440
Speaker 2: what's going on with her, this people pleasing behavior, because

492
00:24:16,480 --> 00:24:18,720
Speaker 2: remember how she was like so people pleasing. It's like, oh,

493
00:24:18,760 --> 00:24:22,200
Speaker 2: I'll go along and aid my sister in her cheating endeavors.

494
00:24:22,640 --> 00:24:25,199
Speaker 3: And it was because of the dynamic of like we

495
00:24:25,240 --> 00:24:28,320
Speaker 3: also got like a history of that dynamic between them

496
00:24:28,320 --> 00:24:30,720
Speaker 3: where she always felt that if she didn't do what

497
00:24:30,760 --> 00:24:33,639
Speaker 3: her sister wanted, she would like her sister would go crazy.

498
00:24:33,880 --> 00:24:35,840
Speaker 2: Yes, it was like from child to like kind of

499
00:24:35,840 --> 00:24:39,920
Speaker 2: baked into her software. Basically, so we heard her family

500
00:24:39,960 --> 00:24:43,159
Speaker 2: with copious examples were told me, and it further helps

501
00:24:43,320 --> 00:24:45,919
Speaker 2: that she is actively seeking help for all this. On

502
00:24:45,960 --> 00:24:48,560
Speaker 2: top of that, even though I found her behavior extremely

503
00:24:48,600 --> 00:24:51,040
Speaker 2: gross and inappropriate, I give her a lot of credit

504
00:24:51,080 --> 00:24:53,040
Speaker 2: for how she dealt with the situation when I came

505
00:24:53,080 --> 00:24:55,560
Speaker 2: home that night to find her in efflin on our couch.

506
00:24:55,920 --> 00:24:59,360
Speaker 2: She didn't lie, she didn't minimize, She largely took accountability

507
00:24:59,400 --> 00:25:01,919
Speaker 2: for what she did. Remember at the time, she didn't

508
00:25:01,920 --> 00:25:04,199
Speaker 2: know that I had seen her text messages with Evelyn,

509
00:25:04,480 --> 00:25:07,240
Speaker 2: and she definitely could have tried to omit her participation

510
00:25:07,400 --> 00:25:09,920
Speaker 2: or minimize it in some way, but she didn't because

511
00:25:09,960 --> 00:25:15,760
Speaker 2: when Op caught them, he was basically playing dummy to see.

512
00:25:15,560 --> 00:25:18,280
Speaker 3: How she would lie or what and she and she didn't.

513
00:25:18,359 --> 00:25:20,200
Speaker 3: She basically told.

514
00:25:20,000 --> 00:25:21,560
Speaker 1: Everything yeah that he asked.

515
00:25:22,359 --> 00:25:25,040
Speaker 2: She was truthful to me, even when she knew it

516
00:25:25,040 --> 00:25:27,680
Speaker 2: would make her look bad. This actually counts for a

517
00:25:27,720 --> 00:25:29,560
Speaker 2: lot in my book, which is why I'm looking at

518
00:25:29,600 --> 00:25:33,040
Speaker 2: simply changing the chapter instead of closing it. To be clear,

519
00:25:33,320 --> 00:25:36,520
Speaker 2: this isn't victory for the forgive her and blame everything

520
00:25:36,560 --> 00:25:39,520
Speaker 2: on your sister crowd, because frankly I haven't forgiven her,

521
00:25:39,560 --> 00:25:42,280
Speaker 2: and our situation is very different now she has moved

522
00:25:42,320 --> 00:25:44,960
Speaker 2: back into her old room at her parents' house, much

523
00:25:45,040 --> 00:25:47,400
Speaker 2: like Evelyn, although Sarah will probably be out of there

524
00:25:47,400 --> 00:25:49,720
Speaker 2: in a couple of weeks because she says the environment

525
00:25:49,760 --> 00:25:51,600
Speaker 2: is not good for her mental health and getting help

526
00:25:51,640 --> 00:25:52,200
Speaker 2: with her issues.

527
00:25:52,240 --> 00:25:53,359
Speaker 1: I can't imagine it would be.

528
00:25:53,720 --> 00:25:56,119
Speaker 2: And I am paying back her equity in the house

529
00:25:56,600 --> 00:26:00,520
Speaker 2: in two in bi weekly installments out of my pay

530
00:26:00,600 --> 00:26:03,080
Speaker 2: until we're all caught up, which will help her defray

531
00:26:03,119 --> 00:26:05,399
Speaker 2: the cost of getting an apartment on her own. We

532
00:26:05,480 --> 00:26:09,160
Speaker 2: are definitely not together right now, quote unquote. Sarah really

533
00:26:09,200 --> 00:26:10,919
Speaker 2: did not want to accept this at first, and I

534
00:26:10,920 --> 00:26:13,679
Speaker 2: can see her point of view, even be sympathetic to it.

535
00:26:13,880 --> 00:26:16,600
Speaker 2: But also if she really has these emotional problems, and

536
00:26:16,640 --> 00:26:19,040
Speaker 2: it appears she does, then I felt like that pushing

537
00:26:19,040 --> 00:26:21,119
Speaker 2: the issue could be the way to light a fire

538
00:26:21,200 --> 00:26:23,919
Speaker 2: under her pants to get her to finally seek some

539
00:26:24,040 --> 00:26:27,159
Speaker 2: real help for them. And just forgiving her would be

540
00:26:27,200 --> 00:26:29,840
Speaker 2: tantamount to sweeping everything under the rug, which in the

541
00:26:29,880 --> 00:26:32,360
Speaker 2: long run would spill a disaster for our relationship, which

542
00:26:32,359 --> 00:26:33,239
Speaker 2: I think I agree with.

543
00:26:33,480 --> 00:26:34,560
Speaker 1: Like it did.

544
00:26:34,800 --> 00:26:39,160
Speaker 2: Force her to like actually like confront, do therapy, take time,

545
00:26:39,440 --> 00:26:41,560
Speaker 2: separate away, and like work on all this.

546
00:26:41,720 --> 00:26:46,760
Speaker 3: Yeah, and she has been working has been working, and like,

547
00:26:46,840 --> 00:26:50,639
Speaker 3: I feel like everything from the initial it's like it

548
00:26:50,640 --> 00:26:54,360
Speaker 3: feels like after the initial discovery of like the bad behavior,

549
00:26:54,600 --> 00:26:56,719
Speaker 3: everything since then has actually been pretty good behavior.

550
00:26:57,880 --> 00:27:01,360
Speaker 4: But once she I think, once she realized how severe

551
00:27:01,440 --> 00:27:04,399
Speaker 4: her relationship with her sister was, she turned it right around.

552
00:27:04,600 --> 00:27:04,840
Speaker 3: Yeah.

553
00:27:05,600 --> 00:27:08,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, So with that being said, break up or naw

554
00:27:08,160 --> 00:27:08,560
Speaker 1: right now?

555
00:27:10,160 --> 00:27:14,640
Speaker 3: If it was me, I would not break up. I'll

556
00:27:14,640 --> 00:27:16,679
Speaker 3: break up, but I think i'd still call off the

557
00:27:16,720 --> 00:27:18,320
Speaker 3: engagement smart.

558
00:27:18,960 --> 00:27:19,919
Speaker 4: What if you were evil?

559
00:27:19,960 --> 00:27:20,440
Speaker 1: Sam?

560
00:27:20,600 --> 00:27:21,800
Speaker 3: What if I was evil Sam?

561
00:27:22,240 --> 00:27:22,760
Speaker 1: Jam?

562
00:27:23,160 --> 00:27:26,080
Speaker 3: I would break up and then I would tell every

563
00:27:26,160 --> 00:27:30,880
Speaker 3: one of her exes her evil deeds of helping cheaters,

564
00:27:30,960 --> 00:27:34,520
Speaker 3: and then I would make posters and I would say,

565
00:27:34,840 --> 00:27:37,199
Speaker 3: I would put up her face and say, this person

566
00:27:37,280 --> 00:27:41,320
Speaker 3: helped cheaters. If you want to cheat, call this number.

567
00:27:41,359 --> 00:27:43,080
Speaker 3: And I would put her number everywhere, and then I

568
00:27:43,080 --> 00:27:46,840
Speaker 3: would put it on every door in the town. And

569
00:27:46,880 --> 00:27:49,399
Speaker 3: then people would start calling her number, and either it

570
00:27:49,400 --> 00:27:51,680
Speaker 3: would be like people wanting to go cheat with someone

571
00:27:51,680 --> 00:27:54,680
Speaker 3: else or people wanting to cheat with her, and so

572
00:27:54,720 --> 00:27:57,159
Speaker 3: she would be bombarded by messages and then she'd have

573
00:27:57,200 --> 00:27:59,600
Speaker 3: to change her phone number. But then I would find

574
00:27:59,640 --> 00:28:02,040
Speaker 3: that phone number using like a public data check thing,

575
00:28:02,280 --> 00:28:04,159
Speaker 3: and then I would do it again and again, and

576
00:28:04,240 --> 00:28:07,440
Speaker 3: eventually I would hire college kids to just put those

577
00:28:07,480 --> 00:28:09,479
Speaker 3: posters up for free, and they would just do it

578
00:28:09,520 --> 00:28:12,800
Speaker 3: as like an internship. I would build an empire of

579
00:28:12,920 --> 00:28:16,040
Speaker 3: putting this photo everywhere. I would do it in every city,

580
00:28:16,160 --> 00:28:17,960
Speaker 3: I would do it, in every country. I would do,

581
00:28:18,200 --> 00:28:20,440
Speaker 3: I would do, I would I would like make sure

582
00:28:20,480 --> 00:28:22,639
Speaker 3: that I would have SOPs for this, and then it

583
00:28:22,720 --> 00:28:25,520
Speaker 3: would be little like communes like in every in every

584
00:28:25,560 --> 00:28:28,479
Speaker 3: major city in every country around the world, and I

585
00:28:28,480 --> 00:28:30,320
Speaker 3: wouldn't stop until I died.

586
00:28:30,400 --> 00:28:31,680
Speaker 4: Would you get with her sister too?

587
00:28:32,000 --> 00:28:36,159
Speaker 1: Yep, not too, Ladies. Don't cheat on Sam.

588
00:28:36,320 --> 00:28:37,000
Speaker 3: Oh, that was bad.

589
00:28:37,080 --> 00:28:38,240
Speaker 1: Same, this is a warning.

590
00:28:38,440 --> 00:28:39,280
Speaker 3: That was bad, Sam.

591
00:28:39,520 --> 00:28:40,480
Speaker 1: You've been warned.

592
00:28:42,400 --> 00:28:44,720
Speaker 2: He lives in there under the happy flower on his

593
00:28:44,880 --> 00:28:51,360
Speaker 2: chest is a dark brag, Soaula. But back to Opie,

594
00:28:51,440 --> 00:28:53,600
Speaker 2: he says, I really wish that she had opened up

595
00:28:53,640 --> 00:28:56,080
Speaker 2: to me earlier about all of this, before this all

596
00:28:56,160 --> 00:28:58,680
Speaker 2: hit the fan, because I'd much rather handle the problem

597
00:28:58,720 --> 00:29:01,080
Speaker 2: as a loving partner and support or more closely. But

598
00:29:01,160 --> 00:29:03,479
Speaker 2: she really didn't give me the opportunity to do that,

599
00:29:03,720 --> 00:29:05,640
Speaker 2: which is a shame. So this is the best I

600
00:29:05,680 --> 00:29:08,040
Speaker 2: can do. At this point. So basically, my situation is

601
00:29:08,080 --> 00:29:10,120
Speaker 2: more or less a wait and see on the Sarah front.

602
00:29:10,360 --> 00:29:12,720
Speaker 2: Maybe one or both of us will get tired of

603
00:29:12,720 --> 00:29:14,920
Speaker 2: this and completely throw in the towel and move on completely.

604
00:29:15,040 --> 00:29:17,440
Speaker 2: It could almost certainly be me, but frankly, I have

605
00:29:17,520 --> 00:29:20,440
Speaker 2: no desire to further complicate my life by being intimate

606
00:29:20,480 --> 00:29:23,360
Speaker 2: with any other women right now. So I think, if anything,

607
00:29:23,480 --> 00:29:25,440
Speaker 2: we're looking at a period of months down the line

608
00:29:25,480 --> 00:29:28,040
Speaker 2: until we get a firm resolution one way or another

609
00:29:28,080 --> 00:29:28,600
Speaker 2: on this front.

610
00:29:28,640 --> 00:29:29,840
Speaker 1: And frankly, I'm fine with that.

611
00:29:30,200 --> 00:29:32,920
Speaker 2: Not everything needs to be progressed at a hyper emotional

612
00:29:32,960 --> 00:29:36,800
Speaker 2: breakneck pace. And if I look at my situation, I'm fine. Financially,

613
00:29:36,840 --> 00:29:40,120
Speaker 2: We're separated, we're not living together anymore. I'm cautiously cynical

614
00:29:40,120 --> 00:29:43,240
Speaker 2: about the entire situation, and I'm also not kidding myself.

615
00:29:43,400 --> 00:29:45,640
Speaker 2: If at any point I think that Sarah's issues are

616
00:29:45,760 --> 00:29:48,880
Speaker 2: bit are too big of a deal, or that I

617
00:29:48,880 --> 00:29:51,640
Speaker 2: can't see us rebuilding trust with each other, then I'll

618
00:29:51,680 --> 00:29:55,840
Speaker 2: dip Opi'll frickin' cut and leave. I have no interest

619
00:29:55,880 --> 00:29:58,440
Speaker 2: in prolonging a situation that I see as hopeless, which

620
00:29:58,480 --> 00:30:00,000
Speaker 2: I guess says it all I don't.

621
00:30:00,000 --> 00:30:00,920
Speaker 1: I think it's hopeless.

622
00:30:01,120 --> 00:30:02,920
Speaker 2: I just think it's going to be difficult, and I'm

623
00:30:02,960 --> 00:30:05,040
Speaker 2: open to waiting a bit to see how it plays out,

624
00:30:05,240 --> 00:30:07,440
Speaker 2: to the point even where I am seeking my own

625
00:30:07,480 --> 00:30:09,560
Speaker 2: counselor to help me process the events of the last

626
00:30:09,600 --> 00:30:11,880
Speaker 2: few weeks, as well as looking into how Sarah and

627
00:30:11,920 --> 00:30:15,000
Speaker 2: I interacted with each other, because I do actually believe

628
00:30:15,040 --> 00:30:17,440
Speaker 2: that while I might have been fooled by her, it

629
00:30:17,560 --> 00:30:20,520
Speaker 2: was partially a willing deception on my part because who

630
00:30:20,520 --> 00:30:23,560
Speaker 2: wouldn't love a girlfriend who never disagrees with him? Because

631
00:30:23,600 --> 00:30:26,480
Speaker 2: remember we were questioning Ope, because he's like, well, she

632
00:30:26,560 --> 00:30:29,480
Speaker 2: was a people pleaser, but she was pleasing me, so.

633
00:30:29,760 --> 00:30:32,960
Speaker 1: I didn't really ask about it. Yeah, for six years.

634
00:30:33,200 --> 00:30:37,440
Speaker 3: It's crazy how little he knew about her. Yeah, that

635
00:30:37,560 --> 00:30:39,000
Speaker 3: was a red flag. In the last one.

636
00:30:39,040 --> 00:30:45,160
Speaker 2: It was absolutely see Opie's not getting out scott free here,

637
00:30:45,320 --> 00:30:45,800
Speaker 2: Like what do you.

638
00:30:45,720 --> 00:30:47,840
Speaker 4: Do when you go home? Just do your own thing?

639
00:30:48,280 --> 00:30:50,360
Speaker 2: He just sits and the wife is just like cooking,

640
00:30:50,720 --> 00:30:53,000
Speaker 2: you know, turning on the TV, like.

641
00:30:52,960 --> 00:30:54,040
Speaker 3: Giving foot massages.

642
00:30:54,200 --> 00:30:56,840
Speaker 1: Oh, would you look into the drink, sir, that's what's

643
00:30:56,840 --> 00:30:57,440
Speaker 1: happening in there.

644
00:30:58,200 --> 00:31:00,280
Speaker 2: Always wants to do what they do and go out

645
00:31:00,280 --> 00:31:02,240
Speaker 2: of their way to make sure you're happy before. She

646
00:31:02,360 --> 00:31:04,960
Speaker 2: is type of person. The thing I am struggling with,

647
00:31:05,000 --> 00:31:07,000
Speaker 2: and maybe Sarah as well, is how much of that

648
00:31:07,040 --> 00:31:09,480
Speaker 2: is genuine love she has for me and how much

649
00:31:09,480 --> 00:31:11,920
Speaker 2: of it is just a deeply ingrained need to please

650
00:31:12,000 --> 00:31:15,320
Speaker 2: other people born out of her fear of rejection or anxiety.

651
00:31:15,400 --> 00:31:16,960
Speaker 1: That is a.

652
00:31:16,360 --> 00:31:20,040
Speaker 2: Beautiful mix of both, probably an important and deep question.

653
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00:31:46,680 --> 00:31:48,880
Speaker 3: And you can listen while you're cooking, while you're cleaning,

663
00:31:48,920 --> 00:31:52,280
Speaker 3: while you're working, while you're like trying to listen to

664
00:31:52,320 --> 00:31:53,960
Speaker 3: your boss. We really don't want through, so you just

665
00:31:53,960 --> 00:31:56,080
Speaker 3: listen to us instead, Like you could do it while

666
00:31:56,080 --> 00:31:59,760
Speaker 3: you're anywhere, while you're apputuring your streaks anything.

667
00:32:00,080 --> 00:32:01,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, people have done it.

668
00:32:01,560 --> 00:32:05,480
Speaker 3: People have done it. We have had cleep clap, cleep

669
00:32:05,520 --> 00:32:10,000
Speaker 3: clock clap. Cheat clappers. Yes, there we go cheak clappers

670
00:32:10,040 --> 00:32:11,720
Speaker 3: on on the on the pod before, but.

671
00:32:11,720 --> 00:32:14,640
Speaker 2: You know, cheat clappers aside Sam in our amazing long

672
00:32:14,680 --> 00:32:19,200
Speaker 2: deep catalog. We have just a a tenz morsel left

673
00:32:19,240 --> 00:32:23,760
Speaker 2: in the story. But where are we feeling about to

674
00:32:23,800 --> 00:32:25,080
Speaker 2: reach the finish line?

675
00:32:25,560 --> 00:32:29,920
Speaker 3: Where am I feeling we're about to reach the finish line? Yeah,

676
00:32:29,240 --> 00:32:32,800
Speaker 3: I feel like I feel like, uh, I feel like

677
00:32:32,800 --> 00:32:36,040
Speaker 3: op is going to stay with his his boo. Yeah,

678
00:32:36,120 --> 00:32:37,760
Speaker 3: I feel like there's enough change so.

679
00:32:39,040 --> 00:32:41,440
Speaker 2: And it seems like Opie's mind state has been like

680
00:32:42,120 --> 00:32:44,440
Speaker 2: just wait and see in all of the waiting period,

681
00:32:44,520 --> 00:32:47,520
Speaker 2: she has done positive things in that time. So I

682
00:32:47,520 --> 00:32:49,240
Speaker 2: feel like it might take a long time, but I

683
00:32:49,280 --> 00:32:51,920
Speaker 2: feel like he will ultimately eventually come back to her,

684
00:32:51,920 --> 00:32:53,120
Speaker 2: whether we see it here or not.

685
00:32:53,520 --> 00:32:56,320
Speaker 3: Could be could be years, but would be years.

686
00:32:56,360 --> 00:32:57,120
Speaker 1: I think. I agree.

687
00:32:57,200 --> 00:32:58,920
Speaker 2: I think that's what op He's going to do. Let

688
00:32:59,000 --> 00:33:00,480
Speaker 2: us know in the comments what you think is gonna do.

689
00:33:00,640 --> 00:33:03,640
Speaker 2: But let's get into the last little morsel of this

690
00:33:04,120 --> 00:33:10,000
Speaker 2: Eat it up four parts, drinkha I drink it up. So,

691
00:33:11,240 --> 00:33:13,840
Speaker 2: I guess, barring throwing in the towel, when we reach

692
00:33:13,920 --> 00:33:18,040
Speaker 2: the bottom of that question, we will know the answer

693
00:33:18,080 --> 00:33:20,720
Speaker 2: to Sarah and Mine's relationship. I know it's not the

694
00:33:20,800 --> 00:33:23,520
Speaker 2: update that everyone wanted, but that's all I got. Maybe

695
00:33:23,600 --> 00:33:25,160
Speaker 2: check this space in a few months and we'll see

696
00:33:25,160 --> 00:33:27,320
Speaker 2: how it plays out. Once again, thanks to everyone who

697
00:33:27,360 --> 00:33:30,600
Speaker 2: sent me supportive messages and a pox on the rest

698
00:33:30,600 --> 00:33:30,920
Speaker 2: of you.

699
00:33:31,840 --> 00:33:33,080
Speaker 3: Low a pox.

700
00:33:33,800 --> 00:33:36,440
Speaker 2: So you guys thought we were ending the series here, No,

701
00:33:37,040 --> 00:33:38,120
Speaker 2: you're freaking wrong.

702
00:33:38,400 --> 00:33:38,920
Speaker 1: No way.

703
00:33:39,160 --> 00:33:42,240
Speaker 2: We will never leave. We will be in your ears

704
00:33:42,880 --> 00:33:45,720
Speaker 2: all the livelong day and maybe we'll see it coming

705
00:33:45,720 --> 00:33:49,280
Speaker 2: into your mountain. Whoa coming around your mountain? You have

706
00:33:49,720 --> 00:33:54,280
Speaker 2: spend too much time with missus wife.

707
00:33:53,960 --> 00:33:58,680
Speaker 3: Mandy and her mountains. That's too much much. I always

708
00:33:58,720 --> 00:34:01,240
Speaker 3: want to be coming around you out of twin people,

709
00:34:02,160 --> 00:34:06,960
Speaker 3: around the mountain when she comes around the mountain. When

710
00:34:07,000 --> 00:34:10,400
Speaker 3: she got the song, we'll be coming in your mountain.

711
00:34:10,480 --> 00:34:13,440
Speaker 3: We'll be coming in. You're a mountain, o'be wailing around

712
00:34:13,520 --> 00:34:14,960
Speaker 3: the mountain when she comes.

713
00:34:15,160 --> 00:34:18,640
Speaker 1: Yeehaw, ladies, gentlemen, the wait is over. Let's get into

714
00:34:18,680 --> 00:34:19,799
Speaker 1: the next part. Update two.

715
00:34:20,040 --> 00:34:21,680
Speaker 2: I just found out my fancy is a liar, but

716
00:34:21,680 --> 00:34:24,319
Speaker 2: I'm supposed to marry in two weeks, so it was

717
00:34:24,360 --> 00:34:27,920
Speaker 2: almost two months ago when I made my original post

718
00:34:27,960 --> 00:34:30,560
Speaker 2: about my former fiance reaching out to me asking for

719
00:34:30,600 --> 00:34:32,719
Speaker 2: help in regards to her issue in the family. By

720
00:34:32,719 --> 00:34:34,160
Speaker 2: the way, of course, it comes from one top thirty

721
00:34:34,239 --> 00:34:36,320
Speaker 2: nine thirty four on the Arts. That's okay, George, I'm sobert.

722
00:34:36,760 --> 00:34:39,240
Speaker 2: I think some people have had decent advice in that thread,

723
00:34:39,320 --> 00:34:41,200
Speaker 2: and it really helped me clarify my own thoughts of

724
00:34:41,239 --> 00:34:44,480
Speaker 2: the matter. Basically, my distrust in the sincerity of Sarah's

725
00:34:44,520 --> 00:34:48,040
Speaker 2: intentions was both probably overblown on my part as well

726
00:34:48,080 --> 00:34:50,520
Speaker 2: as immaterial to what I really should be doing as

727
00:34:50,560 --> 00:34:53,560
Speaker 2: a friend to both her and Marty. In regards to Sarah,

728
00:34:53,719 --> 00:34:55,400
Speaker 2: I think that it was very apparent to me that

729
00:34:55,440 --> 00:34:58,480
Speaker 2: her relationship with me wasn't as important of a motivator

730
00:34:58,520 --> 00:35:02,000
Speaker 2: and her actions as I was self a assuming she

731
00:35:02,200 --> 00:35:05,240
Speaker 2: had and still has, to be honest, a huge beef

732
00:35:05,239 --> 00:35:08,080
Speaker 2: with her sister and feels incredibly horrible about not just

733
00:35:08,120 --> 00:35:11,520
Speaker 2: her part in Marty's current situation, but how the uppeople

734
00:35:11,560 --> 00:35:12,680
Speaker 2: has affected her three.

735
00:35:12,600 --> 00:35:13,280
Speaker 1: Year old niece.

736
00:35:13,800 --> 00:35:16,920
Speaker 2: Add on to that a lifetime of family resentment, and

737
00:35:16,960 --> 00:35:20,040
Speaker 2: I think she was keen to do something anything to

738
00:35:20,239 --> 00:35:23,160
Speaker 2: screw over Evelyn. We fully flipped to the other side.

739
00:35:23,200 --> 00:35:26,120
Speaker 2: Oh wow, waiting for it.

740
00:35:26,280 --> 00:35:28,040
Speaker 1: Wait, just chomping at the bit.

741
00:35:28,960 --> 00:35:31,359
Speaker 2: Who wouldn't be Her reaching out to me was more

742
00:35:31,440 --> 00:35:33,759
Speaker 2: or less because of all the people she knows, I

743
00:35:33,800 --> 00:35:35,480
Speaker 2: would be one of the most likely to help and

744
00:35:35,520 --> 00:35:38,320
Speaker 2: offer good advice. All ad meant to being overly cynical

745
00:35:38,360 --> 00:35:41,200
Speaker 2: of her trying to see the situation to appear like

746
00:35:41,280 --> 00:35:43,800
Speaker 2: she was making amends to people and working on her issues.

747
00:35:44,120 --> 00:35:46,759
Speaker 2: But upon reflection, I realized that not everything in her

748
00:35:46,760 --> 00:35:49,000
Speaker 2: life revolved around me or our relationship.

749
00:35:49,880 --> 00:35:51,080
Speaker 1: Oh pee, looking at that ego.

750
00:35:51,360 --> 00:35:54,320
Speaker 2: Basically, I need to chill on being distrustful of people

751
00:35:54,320 --> 00:35:56,920
Speaker 2: when they are finally doing what I would be liking

752
00:35:56,960 --> 00:35:59,520
Speaker 2: them to do. Lesson learn for anyone who has felt betrayed.

753
00:35:59,560 --> 00:36:01,920
Speaker 2: You can write up yourself of a positive emotion by

754
00:36:01,960 --> 00:36:03,360
Speaker 2: living in the past and not the present.

755
00:36:03,600 --> 00:36:06,200
Speaker 3: Oh good, listen, that is true. The more that your

756
00:36:06,239 --> 00:36:09,160
Speaker 3: mind is in the present, the happier you are. That's right,

757
00:36:09,239 --> 00:36:12,120
Speaker 3: because you need less to be happy in the present.

758
00:36:12,160 --> 00:36:15,200
Speaker 3: You can just look at a nice rock yeah, and.

759
00:36:15,040 --> 00:36:18,120
Speaker 1: Or just replace that O with an A and you're

760
00:36:18,160 --> 00:36:19,080
Speaker 1: with bimbo wife Mandy.

761
00:36:19,600 --> 00:36:23,560
Speaker 2: That's a nice rack. When Sam is with Bimber wife Mandy.

762
00:36:23,600 --> 00:36:24,640
Speaker 2: He has always been present.

763
00:36:24,760 --> 00:36:28,239
Speaker 3: I'm focused, I am focused focused, well aft you know,

764
00:36:28,280 --> 00:36:30,200
Speaker 3: I'm not focused because like the mind should be focused

765
00:36:30,239 --> 00:36:32,720
Speaker 3: in the present moment on one thing. And Bimbo Mandy,

766
00:36:32,800 --> 00:36:33,960
Speaker 3: she's got me focus on too.

767
00:36:34,040 --> 00:36:34,320
Speaker 1: See.

768
00:36:34,320 --> 00:36:37,319
Speaker 2: That's the that's the spiritual experience. You're you're, you're, You're

769
00:36:37,360 --> 00:36:38,680
Speaker 2: able to focus on two things at once.

770
00:36:38,800 --> 00:36:41,640
Speaker 1: Wow, it's like you guess who say that? Guess or

771
00:36:41,680 --> 00:36:42,000
Speaker 1: said that?

772
00:36:42,080 --> 00:36:44,520
Speaker 4: Kanye? Kanye said that in one of the songs, and

773
00:36:44,560 --> 00:36:46,759
Speaker 4: I knew you were about to mention it. I think

774
00:36:47,280 --> 00:36:50,000
Speaker 4: he says, he says, I love your because that means

775
00:36:50,040 --> 00:36:51,560
Speaker 4: I can focus on two things at once.

776
00:36:52,600 --> 00:36:55,080
Speaker 1: I did not even think about that at all, because it's.

777
00:36:55,040 --> 00:36:57,480
Speaker 4: Ingrained in you, because that's who you are, because it

778
00:36:57,520 --> 00:36:58,239
Speaker 4: was what you know.

779
00:36:58,360 --> 00:37:02,560
Speaker 2: Yet artist you know to this day, my favorite artist ever.

780
00:37:02,920 --> 00:37:03,480
Speaker 1: Not really.

781
00:37:03,880 --> 00:37:07,600
Speaker 2: But anyways, as for Martie, given that Sarah has given

782
00:37:07,600 --> 00:37:09,800
Speaker 2: me the heads up about her sister and parents plot

783
00:37:09,880 --> 00:37:12,920
Speaker 2: to try and file a false report accusing him of

784
00:37:13,360 --> 00:37:18,360
Speaker 2: child abuse, I was one hundred percent set on informing

785
00:37:18,400 --> 00:37:22,360
Speaker 2: him as soon as I could, regardless of Sarah's desire

786
00:37:22,440 --> 00:37:25,040
Speaker 2: to be more subtle. That being said, I did make

787
00:37:25,120 --> 00:37:27,759
Speaker 2: one last stitch effort to get Sarah to be the

788
00:37:27,800 --> 00:37:29,759
Speaker 2: one to reach out and do this, as I thought

789
00:37:29,760 --> 00:37:32,000
Speaker 2: it might help her men to the relationship with her

790
00:37:32,080 --> 00:37:34,480
Speaker 2: soon to be former brother in law and help the

791
00:37:34,520 --> 00:37:37,120
Speaker 2: process of making amends to both him and her niece.

792
00:37:38,000 --> 00:37:41,080
Speaker 2: As I guessed her hesitancy as well as why she

793
00:37:41,120 --> 00:37:43,840
Speaker 2: wanted my help was because her parents were more or

794
00:37:43,960 --> 00:37:46,719
Speaker 2: less fully on board with his plan, so she's have

795
00:37:46,800 --> 00:37:49,680
Speaker 2: to conspire against the parents. Meanwhile, she's living with them,

796
00:37:50,000 --> 00:37:53,200
Speaker 2: by the way, and she wasn't quite emotionally strong enough

797
00:37:53,200 --> 00:37:55,439
Speaker 2: to deal with any of the potential fallout from them,

798
00:37:55,600 --> 00:37:58,480
Speaker 2: particularly since she had spent her entire life being bullied

799
00:37:58,520 --> 00:38:00,960
Speaker 2: by her family, and to make matters, she was at

800
00:38:01,000 --> 00:38:04,040
Speaker 2: their mercy since she was living with them. We discussed it,

801
00:38:04,080 --> 00:38:06,040
Speaker 2: and I gave her a promise that if this came

802
00:38:06,080 --> 00:38:07,959
Speaker 2: back to her, that I would get her a place

803
00:38:08,000 --> 00:38:11,160
Speaker 2: to live if she needed it. She asked me if

804
00:38:11,200 --> 00:38:13,680
Speaker 2: I would go with her when she faced Marty, and

805
00:38:13,719 --> 00:38:17,360
Speaker 2: I almost said yes out of habit, but I declined.

806
00:38:17,600 --> 00:38:19,360
Speaker 4: Interesting I declined.

807
00:38:19,719 --> 00:38:21,399
Speaker 2: I told her that I thought it would be better

808
00:38:21,480 --> 00:38:24,000
Speaker 2: for everyone if she faced this alone.

809
00:38:23,800 --> 00:38:27,320
Speaker 1: And she reluctantly agreed. Do we agree with that.

810
00:38:28,760 --> 00:38:30,520
Speaker 3: If she that she would face this as better that

811
00:38:30,600 --> 00:38:32,080
Speaker 3: she face this alone.

812
00:38:31,880 --> 00:38:36,720
Speaker 2: Because she's basically coming out of this like insane people pleasing,

813
00:38:37,400 --> 00:38:39,239
Speaker 2: you know, mind state, and she's like, hey, can I

814
00:38:39,320 --> 00:38:41,160
Speaker 2: just like have your help for you to come with

815
00:38:41,200 --> 00:38:43,680
Speaker 2: me when I share this with Marty And he's like, no,

816
00:38:44,120 --> 00:38:44,560
Speaker 2: you need.

817
00:38:44,440 --> 00:38:45,160
Speaker 1: To do this on your own.

818
00:38:45,239 --> 00:38:49,960
Speaker 3: Basically, I mean, it depends where he is in that relationship.

819
00:38:50,000 --> 00:38:53,239
Speaker 3: If he's trying to get closer with her, then like

820
00:38:53,320 --> 00:38:56,560
Speaker 3: it's probably not a good move. But if he's kind

821
00:38:56,560 --> 00:38:58,279
Speaker 3: of putting a boundary up and say, hey, go to

822
00:38:58,360 --> 00:39:01,239
Speaker 3: your work by yourself and maybe I'll think about getting

823
00:39:01,280 --> 00:39:05,399
Speaker 3: back together with you, like maybe maybe it's a good thing.

824
00:39:05,640 --> 00:39:08,200
Speaker 1: Because he told her to do this, Yeah, he told

825
00:39:08,280 --> 00:39:08,799
Speaker 1: he told her.

826
00:39:08,840 --> 00:39:12,120
Speaker 2: Because it's basically like it's kind of like a test, like, hey,

827
00:39:12,160 --> 00:39:13,080
Speaker 2: go do this on your own.

828
00:39:13,600 --> 00:39:15,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know.

829
00:39:15,520 --> 00:39:17,480
Speaker 1: I feel like I would go with her, to be honest.

830
00:39:17,600 --> 00:39:19,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, well yeah, but you're you're you're you're trying to

831
00:39:19,800 --> 00:39:21,880
Speaker 3: be you're thinking through the lens of being a good boyfriend.

832
00:39:22,440 --> 00:39:25,399
Speaker 3: That's true. I think I think he's trying to he's

833
00:39:25,400 --> 00:39:28,480
Speaker 3: trying to feel out whether he even wants to be

834
00:39:28,520 --> 00:39:31,799
Speaker 3: with this person, and so's I think.

835
00:39:31,840 --> 00:39:34,880
Speaker 1: Can she do the hard thing an uncomfortable position?

836
00:39:35,520 --> 00:39:42,319
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm I'm feeling I don't like this whole like, oh,

837
00:39:42,360 --> 00:39:45,239
Speaker 3: you need to prove to me. But I see why

838
00:39:45,320 --> 00:39:46,399
Speaker 3: OPI is saying this.

839
00:39:46,840 --> 00:39:48,839
Speaker 1: Yeah, I understand what he says.

840
00:39:48,840 --> 00:39:50,239
Speaker 3: He says, I would have gone, but I get why

841
00:39:50,200 --> 00:39:53,560
Speaker 3: I op said nah, which I think I feel the

842
00:39:53,560 --> 00:39:54,000
Speaker 3: same way.

843
00:39:54,320 --> 00:39:59,239
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, Well, OPI says. Obviously I wasn't there when

844
00:39:59,239 --> 00:40:01,200
Speaker 2: Sarah and Marty met, but I do know it took

845
00:40:01,239 --> 00:40:03,799
Speaker 2: place at his parents' house. His parents obviously knew about

846
00:40:03,800 --> 00:40:06,840
Speaker 2: Sarah's role and covering up for Evelyn's infidelity, and that

847
00:40:06,880 --> 00:40:08,520
Speaker 2: there was some choice words pointed at her.

848
00:40:08,640 --> 00:40:10,920
Speaker 1: Fair enough, Sarah told Marty about the plot.

849
00:40:11,000 --> 00:40:13,400
Speaker 2: Then they called Marty's lawyer and she gave a statement

850
00:40:13,719 --> 00:40:14,960
Speaker 2: for all the drama preceding it.

851
00:40:15,000 --> 00:40:16,480
Speaker 1: The meeting was over as quick as that.

852
00:40:17,080 --> 00:40:19,239
Speaker 2: One thing that Sarah did say, however, was that she

853
00:40:19,360 --> 00:40:21,320
Speaker 2: was grateful that Marty let her play.

854
00:40:21,160 --> 00:40:21,680
Speaker 1: With her niece.

855
00:40:21,920 --> 00:40:23,480
Speaker 2: He didn't have to do that, but it meant a

856
00:40:23,520 --> 00:40:26,680
Speaker 2: lot to her. I could literally hear the sorrow in

857
00:40:26,719 --> 00:40:29,040
Speaker 2: her voice, to the point where I had a fleeting

858
00:40:29,080 --> 00:40:32,560
Speaker 2: thought that maybe Sarah is carrying too much of a

859
00:40:32,600 --> 00:40:37,120
Speaker 2: burden on her shoulders for what ultimately were Evelyn's actions.

860
00:40:38,080 --> 00:40:40,000
Speaker 2: To be frank, I don't know how to address this

861
00:40:40,360 --> 00:40:43,520
Speaker 2: or if I should. Yeah, it's like, are we charging

862
00:40:43,560 --> 00:40:45,960
Speaker 2: the accomplice with the crime?

863
00:40:46,080 --> 00:40:46,600
Speaker 1: The crime?

864
00:40:47,719 --> 00:40:50,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, but she was, But like, I don't know if

865
00:40:50,160 --> 00:40:52,560
Speaker 3: that's completely true. I feel like that's walking it back

866
00:40:52,600 --> 00:40:57,000
Speaker 3: too much because she was actively helping her cheat.

867
00:40:57,080 --> 00:40:59,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, and actively trashing Marty.

868
00:40:59,600 --> 00:41:03,279
Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah, so like that that that comes with with

869
00:41:03,640 --> 00:41:06,320
Speaker 3: you know, uh, that comes with consequences.

870
00:41:06,360 --> 00:41:08,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, pretty pretty big charge of your own. Maybe not

871
00:41:08,280 --> 00:41:11,560
Speaker 2: the full crime, but pretty big charge. I'll try to

872
00:41:11,560 --> 00:41:13,760
Speaker 2: finish this up quickly since there is a word limit.

873
00:41:14,080 --> 00:41:17,640
Speaker 2: Several weeks have passed. My offer to a place to

874
00:41:17,680 --> 00:41:20,279
Speaker 2: stay wasn't needed. Sarah managed to get on her own

875
00:41:20,320 --> 00:41:23,120
Speaker 2: apartment not long after we spoke, although I did speed

876
00:41:23,160 --> 00:41:24,759
Speaker 2: up the money I was paying back to her by

877
00:41:24,760 --> 00:41:27,840
Speaker 2: a couple of weeks to help facilitate this. Anyways, shortly

878
00:41:27,840 --> 00:41:32,200
Speaker 2: after she moves out, Evelyn finally makes her move. I

879
00:41:32,239 --> 00:41:35,640
Speaker 2: don't want to get into exactly what she accused Marty of,

880
00:41:36,280 --> 00:41:37,680
Speaker 2: but it was pretty vile.

881
00:41:37,960 --> 00:41:38,240
Speaker 3: Wow.

882
00:41:38,280 --> 00:41:41,600
Speaker 2: As in something that would get unalived in prison.

883
00:41:41,320 --> 00:41:47,640
Speaker 3: If I can't believe, well, that's what they chose.

884
00:41:47,680 --> 00:41:52,239
Speaker 2: What little like just like microscopic shred of respect I

885
00:41:52,280 --> 00:41:56,400
Speaker 2: had for Evelyn Is? Now you you accuse that to

886
00:41:56,800 --> 00:42:02,120
Speaker 2: the father of your children, knowing it's a complete blatant line. Also,

887
00:42:02,320 --> 00:42:06,120
Speaker 2: she is she's not just losing custody, but like she

888
00:42:06,719 --> 00:42:09,080
Speaker 2: is she going She already went to jail once because

889
00:42:09,120 --> 00:42:09,560
Speaker 2: she attacked.

890
00:42:09,600 --> 00:42:12,360
Speaker 1: Ope, she going to jail again for lying.

891
00:42:12,160 --> 00:42:15,719
Speaker 3: In court and about something so serious too, Like I

892
00:42:15,760 --> 00:42:16,720
Speaker 3: feel like there's.

893
00:42:16,520 --> 00:42:22,240
Speaker 1: Got to be some sort of yeah, yeah, hmm. Frankly,

894
00:42:22,360 --> 00:42:23,560
Speaker 1: I was shocked.

895
00:42:23,200 --> 00:42:25,799
Speaker 2: When I heard it, because as despicable as Evelyn is,

896
00:42:26,160 --> 00:42:29,160
Speaker 2: I never thought she was that horrid, nor her parents, who.

897
00:42:29,120 --> 00:42:30,920
Speaker 1: Seemingly were going along with this.

898
00:42:31,480 --> 00:42:34,120
Speaker 2: As you can imagine, there was an emergency child custody

899
00:42:34,120 --> 00:42:36,480
Speaker 2: hearing in front of a judge that night. As they

900
00:42:36,480 --> 00:42:40,240
Speaker 2: were discussing the charges, Marty's lawyer pulls out a dated

901
00:42:40,320 --> 00:42:45,000
Speaker 2: and notarized affidavit from Sarah detailing the plot, as well

902
00:42:45,040 --> 00:42:50,520
Speaker 2: as a recorded interview on a USB stick smart receipts.

903
00:42:50,800 --> 00:42:51,560
Speaker 1: Receipts.

904
00:42:51,600 --> 00:42:54,200
Speaker 2: Maybe it's how you get it done now, I would

905
00:42:54,200 --> 00:42:56,279
Speaker 2: love to say that Evelyn ended up in jail or

906
00:42:56,320 --> 00:42:59,000
Speaker 2: driven out of town, or got her justicerts in some

907
00:42:59,120 --> 00:43:01,719
Speaker 2: other way. But in truth, we don't know yet. She

908
00:43:01,840 --> 00:43:04,319
Speaker 2: does have some charges against her from the stunt, and

909
00:43:04,360 --> 00:43:06,680
Speaker 2: I'm not privy exactly to what they are, but in

910
00:43:06,680 --> 00:43:09,080
Speaker 2: all likelihood, I don't have much hope that she'll get

911
00:43:09,080 --> 00:43:11,400
Speaker 2: more than a slap on the wrist, since otherwise our

912
00:43:11,440 --> 00:43:18,640
Speaker 2: prisons would be filled with acrimonious divorcees. That's true, filled

913
00:43:18,680 --> 00:43:19,840
Speaker 2: with Karen's.

914
00:43:20,880 --> 00:43:21,480
Speaker 1: And Ken's.

915
00:43:22,040 --> 00:43:25,799
Speaker 2: That being said, the custody hearing did not go Evelyn's way,

916
00:43:26,239 --> 00:43:29,120
Speaker 2: and now there's a court order in place granting Marty

917
00:43:29,360 --> 00:43:33,319
Speaker 2: primary custody and Evan that's right, that's right.

918
00:43:33,800 --> 00:43:36,480
Speaker 3: Marty needs a win, bro, Marty needs a win.

919
00:43:37,040 --> 00:43:41,080
Speaker 2: My boy, nothing wrong and been through the fire and

920
00:43:41,160 --> 00:43:46,120
Speaker 2: the flames, Oh my god. This order will be in

921
00:43:46,160 --> 00:43:49,120
Speaker 2: place until the divorce is finalized, which might be coming

922
00:43:49,160 --> 00:43:52,359
Speaker 2: up soon. I think getting caught out so badly has

923
00:43:52,440 --> 00:43:55,160
Speaker 2: taken a lot of wind out of Evelyn's sales to make.

924
00:43:55,000 --> 00:43:56,120
Speaker 1: This divorce difficult.

925
00:43:56,680 --> 00:43:59,439
Speaker 2: Marty says that her lawyer has been in contact about

926
00:43:59,440 --> 00:44:03,080
Speaker 2: discussing settlement, which is a positive sign. Yeah, she there's

927
00:44:03,120 --> 00:44:06,680
Speaker 2: there's no way she's she's taken a bunch from Marty. No,

928
00:44:06,880 --> 00:44:08,719
Speaker 2: like when they go to court, like, yeah, so you

929
00:44:08,800 --> 00:44:10,760
Speaker 2: cheated on him and accused him of that.

930
00:44:11,840 --> 00:44:14,080
Speaker 3: I feel like she should get nothing she should get.

931
00:44:14,120 --> 00:44:17,560
Speaker 3: I mean like that that must like in in custody

932
00:44:17,600 --> 00:44:22,080
Speaker 3: battle and also in uh getting like the like payment

933
00:44:22,200 --> 00:44:25,520
Speaker 3: or whatever, and like that must not be in your favor.

934
00:44:25,760 --> 00:44:26,160
Speaker 1: It can't be.

935
00:44:26,360 --> 00:44:29,640
Speaker 2: And she still has now active charges against her. Yeah,

936
00:44:29,680 --> 00:44:31,600
Speaker 2: so she's going to divorce court. But it's like, yo,

937
00:44:31,640 --> 00:44:33,680
Speaker 2: you already got these. There's there's no way.

938
00:44:33,560 --> 00:44:34,840
Speaker 3: There's no way she gets anything.

939
00:44:34,920 --> 00:44:39,120
Speaker 2: I pray, I pray, but well, actually they're discussing a settlement,

940
00:44:39,600 --> 00:44:41,920
Speaker 2: but she's not going to get much in that settlement.

941
00:44:43,040 --> 00:44:45,640
Speaker 1: Probably I hope not hopefully virtually zero.

942
00:44:45,560 --> 00:44:47,360
Speaker 3: Well because I mean, like I guess it's you know,

943
00:44:47,400 --> 00:44:49,440
Speaker 3: it's out of court, so it could be it could

944
00:44:49,480 --> 00:44:51,279
Speaker 3: be could be as good as yeah, it could be

945
00:44:51,280 --> 00:44:53,799
Speaker 3: anything they agreed to, but like she must know that

946
00:44:53,880 --> 00:44:56,880
Speaker 3: if it goes to actual court, like she's screwed, dude.

947
00:44:56,880 --> 00:45:00,600
Speaker 2: What if she's like, uh, that settlement number is too low,

948
00:45:01,040 --> 00:45:02,920
Speaker 2: I'm going to court and then tries to pull like

949
00:45:03,000 --> 00:45:05,560
Speaker 2: basically the same stunt, but with a different accusation.

950
00:45:06,960 --> 00:45:11,760
Speaker 3: No so she gets Land wins. No way, zero zero percent,

951
00:45:11,920 --> 00:45:13,399
Speaker 3: zero percent conspiracy theory.

952
00:45:13,440 --> 00:45:19,680
Speaker 2: I'm just I'm going, I'm going absolutely absolutely hail Mary, guys,

953
00:45:20,760 --> 00:45:22,920
Speaker 2: I am I know this is out there, I know

954
00:45:23,040 --> 00:45:26,160
Speaker 2: this is outlandish, but I'm putting on the hat and

955
00:45:26,200 --> 00:45:27,320
Speaker 2: we're going to see if it happens.

956
00:45:28,400 --> 00:45:30,160
Speaker 1: So that's pretty much where we are today.

957
00:45:30,400 --> 00:45:33,640
Speaker 2: As you can imagine, Sarah is pretty much a Persona

958
00:45:33,920 --> 00:45:36,759
Speaker 2: is pretty much persona on Grada with her family right now,

959
00:45:36,920 --> 00:45:38,759
Speaker 2: and that's not likely to change, even though it is

960
00:45:38,800 --> 00:45:41,360
Speaker 2: the holidays. She accepted that this would likely be the

961
00:45:41,400 --> 00:45:43,360
Speaker 2: fact that if she went ahead and gave a statement.

962
00:45:43,840 --> 00:45:44,399
Speaker 1: Uh so.

963
00:45:44,480 --> 00:45:46,759
Speaker 2: She says she was prepared for it, but I can

964
00:45:46,800 --> 00:45:49,640
Speaker 2: tell that even though her family was largely treated has

965
00:45:49,719 --> 00:45:52,320
Speaker 2: largely treated her like dog crap most of her lives,

966
00:45:52,640 --> 00:45:54,920
Speaker 2: it still pains her to have contact cut like this.

967
00:45:55,600 --> 00:45:58,000
Speaker 2: She jokes to me that it's helping me get past

968
00:45:58,040 --> 00:46:00,000
Speaker 2: my issues with them, but I can tell that it's

969
00:46:00,080 --> 00:46:02,640
Speaker 2: still hurts a lot of people who know my backstory

970
00:46:02,880 --> 00:46:05,800
Speaker 2: here probably will be pissed about this. But I rather

971
00:46:05,920 --> 00:46:09,560
Speaker 2: impulsively offered for Sarah to help me spend my parents'

972
00:46:09,560 --> 00:46:13,520
Speaker 2: airline miles and travel with me to Australia to visit

973
00:46:13,600 --> 00:46:17,080
Speaker 2: my brother and his family a little Vaca. I honestly

974
00:46:17,320 --> 00:46:20,839
Speaker 2: don't think she would accept, because she's a teacher and

975
00:46:20,960 --> 00:46:24,440
Speaker 2: they're not quite on break yet, but she surprised me.

976
00:46:25,200 --> 00:46:27,920
Speaker 2: My brother has a very large property in semi le

977
00:46:28,000 --> 00:46:31,120
Speaker 2: Queensland with a few bungalows on it. We cleaned out

978
00:46:31,160 --> 00:46:34,280
Speaker 2: the snakes yesterday and Sarah and I and our neighbors

979
00:46:34,440 --> 00:46:36,640
Speaker 2: who are very much looking forward to doing some surfing

980
00:46:36,680 --> 00:46:40,000
Speaker 2: on Christmas Day. Now that is a freakin' fire christmaification

981
00:46:40,200 --> 00:46:40,800
Speaker 2: if you ask.

982
00:46:40,760 --> 00:46:42,319
Speaker 3: Me, sound pretty good.

983
00:46:42,400 --> 00:46:43,120
Speaker 1: Sounds pretty good.

984
00:46:43,280 --> 00:46:45,880
Speaker 2: Our relationship is still very much it's complicated, hence the

985
00:46:45,880 --> 00:46:49,080
Speaker 2: separate accommodations, but I have to admit that I'm feeling

986
00:46:49,120 --> 00:46:52,200
Speaker 2: better about things in general. My biggest issue with Sarah

987
00:46:52,480 --> 00:46:55,120
Speaker 2: and why I canceled our wedding, was because I didn't

988
00:46:55,200 --> 00:46:58,080
Speaker 2: understand how she could act how she did with her sister. Now,

989
00:46:58,160 --> 00:47:01,040
Speaker 2: knowing the backstory here between the two, and furthermore seeing

990
00:47:01,080 --> 00:47:03,920
Speaker 2: her literally torch the relationship with the theory of a

991
00:47:04,000 --> 00:47:06,799
Speaker 2: thousand suns, it's hard for me to be seriously worried

992
00:47:06,800 --> 00:47:09,759
Speaker 2: about Evelyn's influence on her. It'd require a degree of

993
00:47:09,800 --> 00:47:13,000
Speaker 2: paranoia that not only I don't possess, but one that

994
00:47:13,040 --> 00:47:16,960
Speaker 2: would probably be qualified as a mental illness. Still, we're

995
00:47:17,000 --> 00:47:19,319
Speaker 2: both taking it slow, and to be frank, we're in

996
00:47:19,400 --> 00:47:22,680
Speaker 2: this sort of weird, exclusive platonic relationship.

997
00:47:23,800 --> 00:47:25,840
Speaker 1: Oh wow. It obviously can't last.

998
00:47:25,880 --> 00:47:28,200
Speaker 2: And while Sarah has pretty much made it clear how

999
00:47:28,200 --> 00:47:30,320
Speaker 2: she would like to resolve the situation.

1000
00:47:30,520 --> 00:47:32,120
Speaker 1: I'm being a bit cagy.

1001
00:47:33,160 --> 00:47:36,520
Speaker 2: So we're not fully back to fully back in the relationship.

1002
00:47:36,560 --> 00:47:39,360
Speaker 2: Yet it's not like I don't love her, and that

1003
00:47:39,440 --> 00:47:40,520
Speaker 2: hasn't been an issue.

1004
00:47:40,640 --> 00:47:41,719
Speaker 1: I can't say even that.

1005
00:47:41,760 --> 00:47:44,160
Speaker 2: It's not that I don't even that I don't trust her,

1006
00:47:44,560 --> 00:47:46,840
Speaker 2: since most of the reasons why I felt the way

1007
00:47:46,960 --> 00:47:51,560
Speaker 2: I have has been removed like a tumor. It's just

1008
00:47:51,600 --> 00:47:53,040
Speaker 2: that I am unsure about the.

1009
00:47:52,920 --> 00:47:54,560
Speaker 1: Trajectory of our relationship.

1010
00:47:54,840 --> 00:47:57,799
Speaker 2: I'm not hankering to rush back to the altar anytime soon,

1011
00:47:58,160 --> 00:48:00,480
Speaker 2: and I think most of my friends would just if

1012
00:48:00,520 --> 00:48:02,800
Speaker 2: I did, given I just canceled a wedding at the

1013
00:48:02,880 --> 00:48:05,400
Speaker 2: last moment a few months ago. Sarah knows this, and

1014
00:48:05,440 --> 00:48:08,120
Speaker 2: she's largely accepting of it. But even if she tells

1015
00:48:08,160 --> 00:48:10,840
Speaker 2: me that she doesn't care about getting married, I can't

1016
00:48:10,880 --> 00:48:14,879
Speaker 2: help but feel like she secretly does, because.

1017
00:48:14,680 --> 00:48:16,640
Speaker 4: She's still trying to be people pleasing and stay in

1018
00:48:16,640 --> 00:48:19,640
Speaker 4: the relationship and say that to make him feel good.

1019
00:48:20,840 --> 00:48:23,280
Speaker 3: I mean, dude, it's really hard to break your people

1020
00:48:23,320 --> 00:48:27,160
Speaker 3: pleasing habits. So I imagine, I imagine you know. It

1021
00:48:27,200 --> 00:48:28,560
Speaker 3: doesn't happen overnight.

1022
00:48:28,200 --> 00:48:30,040
Speaker 2: And this is a big one. That's a big one

1023
00:48:30,080 --> 00:48:31,640
Speaker 2: to not please people with.

1024
00:48:33,440 --> 00:48:37,359
Speaker 1: Facts. Shout out, Bimbo Wifie, the.

1025
00:48:37,360 --> 00:48:41,520
Speaker 4: Most sponsorship I've ever sing Everbo wife Mandy.

1026
00:48:41,960 --> 00:48:45,600
Speaker 2: I guess the best way for me to explain my

1027
00:48:45,719 --> 00:48:48,160
Speaker 2: thinking is that the relationship we had, which had.

1028
00:48:48,080 --> 00:48:50,759
Speaker 1: Put us on a path to marriage, is done and gone.

1029
00:48:51,400 --> 00:48:53,360
Speaker 2: Maybe we will make another one that will head in

1030
00:48:53,360 --> 00:48:55,680
Speaker 2: the same direction someday, but I'm no longer sure that

1031
00:48:55,800 --> 00:48:58,360
Speaker 2: this is something I want, and it's not just Sarah,

1032
00:48:59,080 --> 00:48:59,880
Speaker 2: it's with anyone.

1033
00:49:01,480 --> 00:49:03,120
Speaker 1: Oh wow, I don't know if we want to ever

1034
00:49:03,200 --> 00:49:03,640
Speaker 1: get married.

1035
00:49:03,760 --> 00:49:07,400
Speaker 3: Oh wow. Op, he is literally calling off marriage in

1036
00:49:07,520 --> 00:49:10,440
Speaker 3: its entirety because he just saw what can happen in

1037
00:49:10,520 --> 00:49:13,840
Speaker 3: a marriage. Oh oh man, he just saw a first

1038
00:49:14,040 --> 00:49:16,880
Speaker 3: hand front row seede e is.

1039
00:49:18,480 --> 00:49:19,600
Speaker 1: V IP ticket.

1040
00:49:19,760 --> 00:49:25,160
Speaker 3: Maybe that's sad. I mean, no, marriage is a tough institutions.

1041
00:49:25,719 --> 00:49:27,239
Speaker 3: It's not an easy one to get behind him.

1042
00:49:27,239 --> 00:49:28,000
Speaker 1: That is very true.

1043
00:49:28,160 --> 00:49:32,000
Speaker 4: He has like two sides. He has his girlfriend's side

1044
00:49:32,480 --> 00:49:34,680
Speaker 4: and then his brother's side, where like the brother's side

1045
00:49:34,719 --> 00:49:37,400
Speaker 4: has problems but they work through it. But then Evelyn

1046
00:49:37,560 --> 00:49:40,280
Speaker 4: and her husband, you know, Like it's.

1047
00:49:40,239 --> 00:49:42,960
Speaker 2: True, but I feel like Evelyn and Marty are probably

1048
00:49:43,400 --> 00:49:44,839
Speaker 2: more seared into his mind.

1049
00:49:45,000 --> 00:49:48,879
Speaker 3: Yeah, God, this is what marriage is. No, thank you. Yeah,

1050
00:49:48,960 --> 00:49:51,600
Speaker 3: I'll take girlfriends for a for the rest of my

1051
00:49:51,680 --> 00:49:56,640
Speaker 3: life apparently, or the the.

1052
00:49:56,840 --> 00:49:59,920
Speaker 1: The mutual exclusive platonic relationship.

1053
00:50:00,080 --> 00:50:04,520
Speaker 3: Wait, Kimberly finds this most sponsored episode since the Mercedes

1054
00:50:04,880 --> 00:50:07,680
Speaker 3: same motor in the front end, though, come.

1055
00:50:10,120 --> 00:50:13,000
Speaker 1: Go on the cme rely fine ladies and gentlemen.

1056
00:50:14,520 --> 00:50:17,320
Speaker 2: So I guess all the marital problems I've seen in

1057
00:50:17,360 --> 00:50:19,399
Speaker 2: this last year have left a bad taste in my mouth.

1058
00:50:20,280 --> 00:50:23,080
Speaker 2: In any case, whatever future we do have together, we'll

1059
00:50:23,160 --> 00:50:25,400
Speaker 2: have to accommodate these feelings, and I want to be

1060
00:50:25,520 --> 00:50:28,200
Speaker 2: certain that I'm not wasting her time or leading her on.

1061
00:50:28,880 --> 00:50:31,799
Speaker 2: I guess time will tell anyway. Thanks so to five

1062
00:50:31,880 --> 00:50:33,840
Speaker 2: people who are still invested in this crappy story.

1063
00:50:33,960 --> 00:50:34,880
Speaker 3: Hey, We're invested.

1064
00:50:34,960 --> 00:50:38,239
Speaker 2: You got tens of thousands of people invested, rightested. Come on,

1065
00:50:39,200 --> 00:50:41,879
Speaker 2: and there's three people in this room. If something else

1066
00:50:42,000 --> 00:50:44,480
Speaker 2: interesting or exciting happens, I'll probably just post it on

1067
00:50:44,560 --> 00:50:46,960
Speaker 2: my profile. It's been a wild ride, but all of

1068
00:50:47,040 --> 00:50:49,360
Speaker 2: the support I've gotten from the broader reddit community has

1069
00:50:49,400 --> 00:50:49,840
Speaker 2: been awesome.

1070
00:50:50,040 --> 00:50:52,239
Speaker 1: Thanks again. And by the way, if you want the

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Speaker 2: You'll never have to stop. You'll be listening to our

1078
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Speaker 2: show until you do it. But Sam, uh, last week

1079
00:51:16,120 --> 00:51:17,920
Speaker 2: we got to this point. We thought it was the

1080
00:51:18,000 --> 00:51:20,440
Speaker 2: end of the series. Turns out it wasn't. Turns out

1081
00:51:20,480 --> 00:51:24,400
Speaker 2: there was a surprise update hidden in the bushes like Pokemon?

1082
00:51:24,600 --> 00:51:27,200
Speaker 3: Is there another surprise update hidden the bushes like a Pokemon?

1083
00:51:27,840 --> 00:51:28,560
Speaker 3: So edit?

1084
00:51:29,080 --> 00:51:34,279
Speaker 2: This is on December seventh, twenty twenty three. Okay, So

1085
00:51:34,360 --> 00:51:36,440
Speaker 2: I just found out something today from Sarah that I

1086
00:51:36,520 --> 00:51:40,520
Speaker 2: didn't know but I feel is pretty relevant to this discussion. Basically,

1087
00:51:40,960 --> 00:51:44,120
Speaker 2: Marti's lawyer presented dude a lot more evidence than just

1088
00:51:44,239 --> 00:51:48,040
Speaker 2: Sarah's testimony. They had also had his kids screened and

1089
00:51:48,120 --> 00:51:51,560
Speaker 2: examined by two different psychologists within the week, and they

1090
00:51:51,640 --> 00:51:55,960
Speaker 2: had found out about the impending accusations. During the process,

1091
00:51:56,040 --> 00:51:59,480
Speaker 2: some stuff came out, basically that their daughter caught Evelyn

1092
00:51:59,560 --> 00:52:05,640
Speaker 2: and a fair partner in Freglant de Lisito aka the

1093
00:52:05,719 --> 00:52:10,919
Speaker 2: Spicy Sleep. Multiple times. The tiny, tiny baby daughter saw

1094
00:52:11,719 --> 00:52:17,600
Speaker 2: her mom hooking up the affair partner multiple times. You

1095
00:52:17,960 --> 00:52:23,000
Speaker 2: two jazz times, multiple times her mom was giving her

1096
00:52:23,080 --> 00:52:27,640
Speaker 2: ice cream to not say anything. Marty's lawyer read some

1097
00:52:27,800 --> 00:52:32,560
Speaker 2: from a transcript of one of the psychologist interviews, and well,

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Speaker 2: I will just say the phrase big we wi came up.

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Speaker 2: This poor kid, No one deserves crap a crap mother

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Speaker 2: like that. Now, the fact that she only gets court

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Speaker 2: supervised visitation makes a lot of sense.

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Speaker 1: Bro, don't even let her do that big we wi

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Speaker 1: like like they were.

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Speaker 2: It was in the room while they were going at it,

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Speaker 2: and she and the kid shared that with the psychologists

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Speaker 2: were like, hey, what did you see?

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Speaker 3: Oh my gosh.

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Speaker 2: So Sarah says that it sounds like she saw she

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Speaker 2: just saw them doing it. A couple of times, not

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Speaker 2: that he did anything to her. Needless to say, I

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Speaker 2: think Evelyn is in the royal crap right now. I

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Speaker 2: am surprised, Yes, good, Yes, I'm surprised her parents haven't

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Speaker 2: booted her butt from their home.

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Speaker 1: That is the end of this story. But it's not episode.

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Speaker 3: Because we got more of this story to come right

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Speaker 3: into your ear holes. Oh yes, in the next episode.

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Speaker 3: And this is my episode. This is where this episode.

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Speaker 2: Ends, but where the actual decisions of the court case

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Speaker 2: we were just talking about happens.

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Speaker 3: So if you love us, make sure to subscribe, we love.

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Speaker 1: You, and say tomorrow.

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Speaker 3: This is an episode from Deep within the Archives.

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Speaker 2: Time for okop Rewash. Santa calls the police on a crackhead.

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Speaker 2: It doesn't end well. Well that that's that sounds like

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Speaker 2: a precarious scenario.

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Speaker 3: I think you should make sure that crackhead has a

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00:54:20,840 --> 00:54:23,200
Speaker 3: white Christmas and give them all the jack they can

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Speaker 3: ever want.

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Speaker 1: That's that's so true. That's so true.

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Speaker 3: Sanna got in a sack. Oh oh crack.

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Speaker 2: By the way, this is a this is a real

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Speaker 2: life story sent in by the r slash okop shows subredd.

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Speaker 2: It's very own flufy Kenzo flopy Kenzo, so big shot,

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Speaker 2: appreciate you. I'm pointing at you at the camera, but

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00:54:45,880 --> 00:54:48,120
Speaker 2: most of your probably listening audio. We hear you, and

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Speaker 2: we love you, and yeah, we can't wait to read

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Speaker 2: your story. That's right, and now onto the crackhead.

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Speaker 3: Let's do it. Let's hear this. Crackhead.

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Speaker 2: I was looking through my old yearbook from fifth grade

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Speaker 2: and it triggered a rather funny memory. Okay, I any

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00:55:00,200 --> 00:55:03,040
Speaker 2: male have graduated high school two years ago now, but

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Speaker 2: back when I was in fifth grade, I had the

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00:55:05,120 --> 00:55:08,279
Speaker 2: most strange and funny accounter with a lady Hi on

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Speaker 2: crack ah crack eye.

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Speaker 3: I love crack eye.

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00:55:11,480 --> 00:55:13,759
Speaker 2: It's my favorite kind of I At the time, my

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00:55:13,840 --> 00:55:15,560
Speaker 2: old house was in front of a park where the

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Speaker 2: bus stop was for school. Me and this other kid

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Speaker 2: were the only ones at the stop. I don't remember

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Speaker 2: his name, so I'll call him crackhead Timmy, Timmy the

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Speaker 2: crack egg.

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Speaker 1: How's a ring to it? Yeah, it does. You see.

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Speaker 1: Timmy is a little strange.

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Speaker 2: Oh, he had a weird obsession with Nicki Minaj when

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00:55:36,600 --> 00:55:38,480
Speaker 2: she was a pop star and not doing as much

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Speaker 2: rap like she does now. Okay, Uh, not that strange

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Speaker 2: to be not Timmy the fifth grade crack This is

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Speaker 2: the guy that's him to his bus stop. Okay, okay,

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Speaker 2: we're up this speed now, Oh my god, that's funny. Uh.

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Speaker 3: And this particular morning was routine, just like any other,

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Speaker 3: or so I thought. Inter crazy lady on crack a

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00:56:15,719 --> 00:56:17,600
Speaker 3: crazy crack lady, let's go that's right.

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Speaker 2: At the same time, the Karen term didn't exist, but

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Speaker 2: looking back then, she perfectly fit the description hair and everything.

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Speaker 3: Crack you heard of cancer, Karen, heard of crackhead Karen.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, a new a new characters into the sphere. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: ok universe. What what is it like like an MCU

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Speaker 2: or whatever? Ok O P you okyo pu.

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Speaker 3: That's funny.

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Speaker 2: It stinks like.

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Speaker 1: Throwback to the last point five episode.

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Speaker 2: She just she was just like a Karen, except uh

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Speaker 2: instead of crack yeah, instead of for acting like a

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Speaker 2: wild Karen. She began to drill me and Timmy about

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Speaker 2: a guy named Robert who owed her fifty thousand dollars.

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Speaker 3: A lot of that money, you really can't.

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Speaker 2: Both of us were pretty confused, and it got weirder

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Speaker 2: when she asked about Robert, and she asked about what

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Speaker 2: we were talking about.

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Speaker 3: Cold on, crackhead Karen, your business.

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Speaker 2: We figured out that she was doing lines of snow,

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Speaker 2: and she was straight up offered us some We were

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Speaker 2: ten to eleven Jesus, and also.

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Speaker 3: Hey, that's a hospitable thing to do. I mean that's

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Speaker 3: you know, sharing is Karen if you ask me, yeah,

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Speaker 3: sharing is Karen.

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Speaker 2: Sharing is Karen. It also happened to be garbage day,

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Speaker 2: so a garbage truck rolled down the street and she

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Speaker 2: told us wait here, I'm gonna ask him about Robert.

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Speaker 2: The nearest trash can away from us was like half

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Speaker 2: way down the street, relatively far. We were so confused

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Speaker 2: as she suddenly remember remember this mysterious Robert. We received

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Speaker 2: a shock when she ran chasing the garbage truck on foot.

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Speaker 2: Now mind you, this garbage truck was probably going fifty

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Speaker 2: to twenty miles per hour yo.

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Speaker 1: And she kept it up with Joe.

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Speaker 3: Crackhead Karen, she needs to go to the Olympics, the

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Speaker 3: crack Olympic.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, Oh my god, oh my god.

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Speaker 3: I would I would pay to see that.

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Speaker 1: Honestly, watched south to the centure way.

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Speaker 3: More than the regular place. Oh oh my god.

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Speaker 2: We both hastily got our stuff and made our way

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Speaker 2: to the bus before crackhead Karen Cuckoo Coov return. Our

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Speaker 2: bus driver, whom we called Sam Santa due to his

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Speaker 2: spitting image, was theirs normal and said good morning. Santa

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Speaker 2: is pretty nice, but piss him off and he's no

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Speaker 2: jolly Satan.

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Speaker 1: Nick.

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Speaker 2: As we climbed into the stairs of the bus, let

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Speaker 2: me pointed out that this lady's zipper was undone. I

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Speaker 2: could only guess that she did the nasty with Robert,

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Speaker 2: and he gave her crack and enclreaded her, owed her

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Speaker 2: fifty thousand dollars.

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Speaker 3: Oh, Robert indulged to oh, this woman fifty thousand dollars

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Speaker 3: in crash gravy.

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Speaker 1: To my surprise, she suddenly appeared on the bus. She

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Speaker 1: just operated.

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Speaker 3: Inside that this is impressive, and she freaking ran all

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Speaker 3: the way back, all the.

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Speaker 1: Way back and just like appeared to the bus. She

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Speaker 1: must have gained super speed because she was pretty far

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Speaker 1: away talking to the garbage man.

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Speaker 3: He's doing more than talking.

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Speaker 1: Seriously. Santa saw her and asked, what are you doing

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Speaker 1: in my bus? Are you the parent of Jimmy? Which

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Speaker 1: is so sad because he had just assumed, like I guess,

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Speaker 1: with the strangeness. That was his mom.

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Speaker 2: I moved to the back with my friend we'll call

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Speaker 2: him Bob, and I watched. She responded, claiming she was

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Speaker 2: the FBI and she was escorting two children to school.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, this is so dangerous, bro, this is

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Speaker 3: really bad.

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Speaker 2: She must have forgot about me because she pointed to

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Speaker 2: Timmy and in some other random kids. Santa asked her

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Speaker 2: to leave, but she got got angry. After the third time.

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Speaker 2: He threatened to call the police, and he did when

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Speaker 2: she decided to.

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Speaker 1: Take an empty seat. Oh my god.

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Speaker 2: I don't remember much about that time, but what from

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Speaker 2: Timmy told me. She was taken off the bus by

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Speaker 2: two officers, attempted to run, and was tasered to stop

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Speaker 2: her from getting away. I remember this vividly because of

1244
01:00:42,360 --> 01:00:45,520
Speaker 2: how creepy and funny this whole thing was about how

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Speaker 2: Santa had a crackhead arrested.

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Speaker 3: Wow, oh my dude, that sounds dangerous.

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01:00:52,640 --> 01:00:55,560
Speaker 1: Dude, I'm worried about you.

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01:00:55,680 --> 01:00:59,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, please stay safe. Those crackheads are an old Joe dude,

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01:01:01,000 --> 01:01:02,200
Speaker 3: just for real, for real.

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Speaker 5: Actually, one of my friends in college, Ehon, was walking

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Speaker 5: down the street and there was just like crackhead that

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Speaker 5: was like making like like sexual comments to some of

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Speaker 5: his girlfriends as they were walking, and he was like heyo, dude,

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01:01:17,760 --> 01:01:18,520
Speaker 5: like stop doing that.

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Speaker 3: And the guy was like, let me tell you. Something

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01:01:20,960 --> 01:01:21,480
Speaker 3: goes up to you.

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Speaker 5: Shan just clowks him in the face, punches him right

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01:01:25,280 --> 01:01:28,480
Speaker 5: in the face and was like, you know, wrestled and

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01:01:28,520 --> 01:01:31,840
Speaker 5: he's like a decently strong guy and was about to

1260
01:01:31,960 --> 01:01:34,880
Speaker 5: like clap back, but then his girlfriend's like, dude, it's

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01:01:34,920 --> 01:01:36,080
Speaker 5: not worth it. Don't get in a fight with a

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01:01:36,120 --> 01:01:39,080
Speaker 5: homeless man and he's got nothing to lose. Oh my,

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Speaker 5: and then left but like, like you know, they could

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Speaker 5: go violin pretty quick. So stay safe from the crackheads

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Speaker 5: out there. And if you really want to stay safe

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Speaker 5: and add some extra good luck for your day, go

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Speaker 5: to our sas Okop show and literally say your stories

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Speaker 5: so we could read them.

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Speaker 1: That's right, Send him in, baby,