WEBVTT - My Birthday Celebration in Greece 0:00:03.720 --> 0:00:06.880 We decided on It is definitely a party town, and 0:00:06.960 --> 0:00:09.520 I wanted to have both, like relaxing time, but since 0:00:09.560 --> 0:00:11.440 I was going with like a group of friends, I 0:00:11.560 --> 0:00:15.640 wanted to have some fun. So I'm very happy to 0:00:15.800 --> 0:00:18.079 say that despite that there were so many of us, 0:00:18.360 --> 0:00:23.239 the trip was drama free, psich. We had like quiet time. 0:00:23.360 --> 0:00:26.120 We had our little teas in the morning, we were chilling. 0:00:26.600 --> 0:00:28.680 It was like perfect because we had party, we had 0:00:28.720 --> 0:00:30.640 friend time, we had alone time. 0:00:31.000 --> 0:00:38.240 It was nice. 0:00:38.920 --> 0:00:42.000 What up y'all and happy Monday. I hope you all 0:00:42.040 --> 0:00:45.680 are having a great summer so far, especially my fellow cancers. 0:00:46.120 --> 0:00:49.080 Speaking of cancers, I'm a cancer. I'm actually a jum cancer. 0:00:49.120 --> 0:00:50.920 So my birthday was just a couple of weeks ago, 0:00:51.040 --> 0:00:53.120 and guys, I spent it in Greece. 0:00:53.680 --> 0:00:54.840 I had the best. 0:00:54.600 --> 0:00:56.120 Time, and I can't wait to tell you guys all 0:00:56.160 --> 0:00:59.120 about it on today's episode. So let's get to it. 0:00:59.280 --> 0:01:08.880 This is cheek and chill. Every year I try to 0:01:08.920 --> 0:01:11.480 take a really memorable birthday trip. Last year I went 0:01:11.520 --> 0:01:14.440 to the Dominican Republic with some friends. And this year 0:01:14.560 --> 0:01:17.200 I wanted to spend my thirty eighth birthday, Yes thirty eight, 0:01:17.200 --> 0:01:19.200 you guys, I know, you can't believe it in Greece. 0:01:19.760 --> 0:01:22.360 I had been to Greece before, but to Athens, and 0:01:22.680 --> 0:01:27.360 I wanted to do, you know, either Santorini or Mykonos, 0:01:27.600 --> 0:01:29.800 and I wanted to do both, but I didn't have 0:01:29.920 --> 0:01:33.039 enough time because I had to come back because I 0:01:33.040 --> 0:01:35.840 got to work, you know. So we decided on Miconos 0:01:35.880 --> 0:01:40.560 because it's almost like Vegas, Las Vegas of like Greece. 0:01:41.080 --> 0:01:43.000 And it is definitely a party town. 0:01:43.160 --> 0:01:45.679 And I wanted to have both like relaxing time, but 0:01:45.840 --> 0:01:47.960 also since I was going with like a group of friends, 0:01:48.720 --> 0:01:50.960 I wanted to have some fun, you know. And then 0:01:51.000 --> 0:01:56.040 I had taken like a rest from alcohol and you know, marijuana, 0:01:56.240 --> 0:01:58.960 you guys, it is as you know, I'm from California, 0:01:59.040 --> 0:02:02.360 so it is legoing can So I was taking a 0:02:02.480 --> 0:02:05.000 huge break, and I did it for my birthday so 0:02:05.360 --> 0:02:07.680 I could just like really enjoy myself. So I really 0:02:07.720 --> 0:02:09.880 wanted to like kind of party a little bit. So 0:02:09.919 --> 0:02:12.920 I was already like mentally prepared to have fun. And 0:02:13.000 --> 0:02:14.760 let me tell you, guys, I had so much fun. 0:02:14.880 --> 0:02:16.440 Maybe a little bit too much fun, because now I'm 0:02:16.440 --> 0:02:18.720 feeling it. The jet lag is real, y'all. It is 0:02:18.880 --> 0:02:22.280 freaking real. So anyways, I am a procrastinator when it 0:02:22.280 --> 0:02:22.960 comes to packing. 0:02:23.080 --> 0:02:26.560 I pack last minute travel vacation. 0:02:27.120 --> 0:02:30.440 I either pack of the day i'm leaving, like early 0:02:30.480 --> 0:02:31.040 in the morning. 0:02:31.639 --> 0:02:32.560 Yeah, that's what I do. 0:02:32.720 --> 0:02:34.560 Because I was about to say maybe the night before, 0:02:34.800 --> 0:02:37.040 I like maybe pre pack or prepare a little bit, 0:02:37.160 --> 0:02:40.080 but no, I'm a packer like the day of. 0:02:41.120 --> 0:02:42.919 And I'm a heavy packer. 0:02:43.800 --> 0:02:46.240 I guess you could say I'm high maintenance because I 0:02:46.320 --> 0:02:48.119 take you know, I need my hair stuff, I need 0:02:48.120 --> 0:02:50.480 my skincare, I need my body stuff. I need like 0:02:50.600 --> 0:02:53.440 extra stuff just in case you never know what will happen. 0:02:53.560 --> 0:02:54.000 I don't know. 0:02:54.680 --> 0:02:56.760 You know, if I'm going to be there for eight days, 0:02:56.800 --> 0:02:59.160 you better believe I'm gonna take fourteen pairs of underwear 0:02:59.200 --> 0:03:01.680 because you just know you can poop on yourself or 0:03:01.680 --> 0:03:03.680 maybe your friend needs an underwear. So I always take 0:03:03.760 --> 0:03:06.800 extra everything. And I told myself this time, I'm not 0:03:06.840 --> 0:03:09.160 going to overpack. I'm only gonna take what I need. 0:03:09.200 --> 0:03:11.519 I'm gonna try on all my clothes and my outfits, 0:03:12.120 --> 0:03:14.320 and I'm only going to take the amount of clothes 0:03:14.320 --> 0:03:16.840 that I would need per day. And then I was 0:03:16.919 --> 0:03:19.320 packing and all the outfits were so cute that I 0:03:19.360 --> 0:03:21.560 was like, oh, I take this one too, this one 0:03:21.840 --> 0:03:24.880 just in case, you guys, Just for myself, I took 0:03:25.120 --> 0:03:29.760 Oh my god, I took two large suitcases and a 0:03:29.800 --> 0:03:33.120 carry on and a big ass bag and I even 0:03:33.160 --> 0:03:35.280 got some space on Emilios. I was like, can you 0:03:35.320 --> 0:03:39.880 take an extra like suitcase? So yeah, I am definitely 0:03:39.960 --> 0:03:44.240 like a heavy packer. And I was only there for okay. 0:03:44.280 --> 0:03:47.080 We left the twenty fourth of June and we didn't 0:03:47.120 --> 0:03:51.520 get to Greece until the twenty fifth, because I mean, 0:03:51.520 --> 0:03:54.000 it's a long ass flat, you guys. So I was 0:03:54.040 --> 0:03:56.880 there the twenty fifth, the twenty sixth, twenty seventh or 0:03:56.960 --> 0:03:59.400 twenty six is my birthday, twenty seven, twenty eight, twenty nine. 0:04:00.480 --> 0:04:03.080 We came back on the thirtieth and then landed in 0:04:03.200 --> 0:04:07.360 La on the first. It was crazy, and my friend, 0:04:07.680 --> 0:04:09.200 one of my really good friends, who had just gone 0:04:09.240 --> 0:04:11.600 to Greece. I asked her for some tips because I 0:04:11.600 --> 0:04:13.480 was like, you know, I don't want to be jet lagged. 0:04:13.480 --> 0:04:15.560 I have a show on the second July second it's 0:04:15.560 --> 0:04:17.279 my mom's birthday. I was like, can I have a show? 0:04:17.440 --> 0:04:20.320 And I cannot be tired? And the crazy thing is 0:04:20.680 --> 0:04:25.320 I was totally fine. We landed pretty early on July first, 0:04:26.040 --> 0:04:28.640 and it was like around one. By the time we 0:04:28.640 --> 0:04:30.800 got home, it was four and all I did was sleep. 0:04:30.920 --> 0:04:32.360 I got home and I was like, I need a 0:04:32.400 --> 0:04:34.240 sleep because I have a show the next day. 0:04:34.160 --> 0:04:36.640 Or tomorrow, and I was fine. 0:04:36.720 --> 0:04:39.480 I think it just I'm barely feeling it now, like 0:04:39.520 --> 0:04:41.680 they say that jet lag like takes like two or 0:04:41.680 --> 0:04:43.279 three days for you to fill it when you're back home, 0:04:43.360 --> 0:04:46.960 and definitely I'm feeling it, but I'm happy because I 0:04:46.960 --> 0:04:49.119 got home. We celebrated my mom's birthday on the second. 0:04:49.200 --> 0:04:51.400 All my siblings were there at my concert. It was 0:04:51.520 --> 0:04:54.440 so awesome. And then on the third, my siblings did 0:04:54.480 --> 0:04:57.960 like this little like surprise birthday party. Well not really surprised. 0:04:57.960 --> 0:05:00.120 I knew that they were going to do something. I 0:05:00.160 --> 0:05:02.440 just didn't know what. But when I got home, because 0:05:02.440 --> 0:05:05.000 Emilio was like polted, like take me away for the day. 0:05:05.240 --> 0:05:07.440 So we left the house and then when we got back, 0:05:07.760 --> 0:05:11.360 everything was like decorated and Jenica was cooking because I 0:05:11.400 --> 0:05:13.760 love when she cooks for me, like it's my favorite. 0:05:13.920 --> 0:05:16.120 She made me some like green and chila las with 0:05:16.480 --> 0:05:20.440 you know aros Rojo, red Rice and my siblings were 0:05:20.440 --> 0:05:21.719 here and the kids were here and they got in 0:05:21.720 --> 0:05:23.240 the pool and it was just so beautiful. 0:05:23.720 --> 0:05:26.000 And then the next day it was July fourth, and we. 0:05:26.000 --> 0:05:28.440 Partied and I partied really hard, so I think that's 0:05:28.440 --> 0:05:30.880 why now my body's filling it. But anyways, back to 0:05:30.920 --> 0:05:34.440 Greece and Mikonos okay, so I went with It was 0:05:34.480 --> 0:05:37.400 a total of ten of us. So it was Vanessa, 0:05:37.440 --> 0:05:40.919 Michael Madre, and business partner Rose, who used to be 0:05:41.440 --> 0:05:44.520 my manager back in the days when I first kind 0:05:44.520 --> 0:05:47.880 of started my career. One of our really good friends, 0:05:48.600 --> 0:05:50.480 his name is Antonio. I don't know if you guys 0:05:50.520 --> 0:05:52.960 have ever heard of the Estrato twins, but they are 0:05:53.480 --> 0:05:57.840 amazing designers. So one of the brothers, Antonio, went with us. Helen, 0:05:57.960 --> 0:06:00.000 my friend Helen, who was also a singer we've had 0:06:00.080 --> 0:06:04.320 here on the podcast before. Her husband Brianna and her husband, 0:06:04.360 --> 0:06:06.800 they were actually celebrating ten years of marriage, you guys, 0:06:06.839 --> 0:06:08.960 so it was their first time in Greece as well. 0:06:09.400 --> 0:06:12.320 So they went for their wedding anniversary which was on 0:06:12.400 --> 0:06:15.160 June twenty ninth, so they were celebrating ten years. So 0:06:15.160 --> 0:06:17.520 we were celebrating a lot, and then Helen and JP 0:06:18.200 --> 0:06:21.760 they stayed and went to like I think Madrid. I 0:06:21.760 --> 0:06:23.640 don't know where else they went. So a few of 0:06:23.680 --> 0:06:25.960 them stayed, Vanessa stayed, a bunch of people stayed behind. 0:06:26.000 --> 0:06:27.920 I had to come back and work. Oh in Oscar 0:06:27.960 --> 0:06:29.359 from nilos por la muska. 0:06:29.440 --> 0:06:31.960 If you guys don't know, it's like an organization in 0:06:32.040 --> 0:06:36.440 Riverside and yeah, so I think that was it. I 0:06:36.520 --> 0:06:40.440 was not expecting you guys to completely disconnect. I had 0:06:40.440 --> 0:06:42.720 told even my manager, mister Bowle. Richard Bull was like, 0:06:42.720 --> 0:06:45.560 don't worry, go ahead and send me a message, email me. 0:06:45.640 --> 0:06:47.040 I'll be on my phone here and there. I'm not 0:06:47.080 --> 0:06:49.560 going to be on as much, but I will be on. 0:06:49.960 --> 0:06:52.520 But no, it didn't work out like that. The time 0:06:52.600 --> 0:06:56.440 zone was so different obviously, so I think we're like, 0:06:56.440 --> 0:06:59.719 what ten hours ahead over there? We were ten hours ahead. 0:07:00.160 --> 0:07:01.680 I just said fit. I was like, you know what, 0:07:01.839 --> 0:07:03.800 my phone went black. I was like, I'm going to 0:07:03.920 --> 0:07:05.800 leave it alone. By the end of the trip, you guys, 0:07:05.800 --> 0:07:10.320 I had over three hundred messages and like a thousand emails. 0:07:10.480 --> 0:07:13.840 It was insane. I was so overwhelmed. But I needed 0:07:13.880 --> 0:07:17.680 to just be I just needed to be. We got 0:07:17.680 --> 0:07:20.920 an airbnb and it was a beautiful big house. What 0:07:20.960 --> 0:07:23.680 I love about Mikonos, you guys, is that everything is 0:07:23.760 --> 0:07:26.720 so close. I mean, you're on an island. Everything is 0:07:26.760 --> 0:07:29.080 pretty much walking distance. But I mean, of course we 0:07:29.160 --> 0:07:32.240 took like shuttles everywhere. But it was so cool. The 0:07:32.280 --> 0:07:36.600 food was amazing. The sunsets and the sunrises were great. 0:07:36.680 --> 0:07:39.640 I meditated every day when I was out there. It 0:07:39.760 --> 0:07:43.000 was just so nice and everyone had their own room 0:07:43.040 --> 0:07:43.960 and we had our own. 0:07:43.800 --> 0:07:45.800 Space, and the pool was really nice. 0:07:46.200 --> 0:07:48.120 And I loved it because I even, you guys, I'm 0:07:48.160 --> 0:07:49.840 not a huge runner, Like I don't really like to 0:07:49.920 --> 0:07:52.920 run like at all actually or like jog but Emilio 0:07:52.960 --> 0:07:55.600 and I took two jogs out there. I was like, okay, 0:07:55.600 --> 0:07:57.080 I was like, I feel like I want to go run. 0:07:57.160 --> 0:08:00.840 So it's like I feel like Mykonos made me want 0:08:00.880 --> 0:08:02.160 to become like a jogger. 0:08:02.680 --> 0:08:05.200 It's really weird, but I really enjoyed it. 0:08:05.240 --> 0:08:07.600 I was like in my little sports bra the sun, 0:08:07.800 --> 0:08:09.240 like I got a little bit of a tan. You 0:08:09.240 --> 0:08:11.400 can't really tell because I'm really like fair, but I 0:08:11.400 --> 0:08:14.000 got a little tan, and I don't know. It was 0:08:14.080 --> 0:08:19.800 really nice and Gomtandrico. You guys, like the food is Mediterranean, 0:08:20.320 --> 0:08:23.160 so there's like a lot of yogurts and tomato and 0:08:23.240 --> 0:08:26.440 goat cheese and it was just so delicious and the chicken. 0:08:26.520 --> 0:08:29.680 Everything was just so good. When I went to the 0:08:29.720 --> 0:08:32.080 American Republic, we had like a chef and that was awesome. 0:08:32.080 --> 0:08:34.440 The service was great. But this time we only had 0:08:34.480 --> 0:08:37.160 like a chef. I think the day of my birthday, 0:08:37.760 --> 0:08:39.800 on the twenty six, we had them make like a 0:08:39.800 --> 0:08:41.560 little bit of breakfast and then after that we would 0:08:41.600 --> 0:08:44.880 just go out on the town and you know, have 0:08:45.040 --> 0:08:47.560 lunch and have dinner and it was chill. We went 0:08:47.600 --> 0:08:50.040 to the grocery store. Of course, I went crazy and 0:08:50.040 --> 0:08:52.360 got all kinds of things and I cooked a little 0:08:52.360 --> 0:08:52.880 bit out there. 0:08:53.520 --> 0:08:53.880 I did. 0:08:54.000 --> 0:08:56.600 I felt like for me in order to feel like 0:08:56.960 --> 0:09:00.400 on vacation. It's weird because like Vanessa said, what are 0:09:00.440 --> 0:09:02.400 you doing, Like why are you cooking? I'm like, it 0:09:02.440 --> 0:09:04.440 makes me feel good, like I want to feel like 0:09:04.480 --> 0:09:06.360 I'm at home. Like the only thing was I didn't 0:09:06.400 --> 0:09:08.320 have all my spices. I just I had to work 0:09:08.360 --> 0:09:11.959 with pepper and salt. But I made it work and 0:09:12.000 --> 0:09:14.240 I made everyone like you know, pasta and then I 0:09:14.280 --> 0:09:16.880 made burgers and what else did I make? I made 0:09:16.880 --> 0:09:19.280 eggs one day, like you know, with turkey, some like 0:09:19.440 --> 0:09:22.160 you know, eggs, sangwiches. I don't know, it just I'm 0:09:22.200 --> 0:09:23.960 on vacation and I want to cook, like I just 0:09:24.000 --> 0:09:25.880 I don't know. I feel it made me feel good 0:09:26.160 --> 0:09:28.720 this time because in Dominican Republic, I was like, okay, yeah, 0:09:28.760 --> 0:09:30.760 I want you know, they come and they would bring 0:09:30.840 --> 0:09:32.560 us out like little fruit plates while we were at 0:09:32.559 --> 0:09:34.520 the pool, and we didn't have that. But I didn't 0:09:34.520 --> 0:09:36.600 miss it either. It was like it was different. It 0:09:36.679 --> 0:09:39.480 was just this vacation was just different. And I don't 0:09:39.520 --> 0:09:41.280 know if it was because like I said, we were 0:09:41.280 --> 0:09:43.960 ten hours ahead over there that it was just so 0:09:44.080 --> 0:09:46.200 weird for me to get on Instagram and do my 0:09:46.200 --> 0:09:49.319 god mornings. I just felt like very I guess out 0:09:49.320 --> 0:09:51.200 of my element in a way, you know, And I 0:09:51.240 --> 0:09:55.160 was like I couldn't like I couldn't find myself. So 0:09:55.200 --> 0:09:56.600 I was like, you know, I'm just going to stay off. 0:09:57.280 --> 0:09:59.439 But then you stay off and it's great while you're there, 0:09:59.440 --> 0:10:01.000 and then you come and you're like, oh my god. 0:10:01.040 --> 0:10:04.720 I felt so like backed up with everything, but then 0:10:04.760 --> 0:10:05.920 I had to remind myself. 0:10:06.040 --> 0:10:07.079 I was like, just breathe. 0:10:07.800 --> 0:10:09.640 I had to tell myself a lot of times out there, 0:10:09.640 --> 0:10:11.280 you guys, well, I was meditating and it helped me 0:10:11.320 --> 0:10:14.200 so much that I was meditating and taking that time 0:10:14.240 --> 0:10:17.360 in the morning before I went and partied to just 0:10:17.520 --> 0:10:21.960 like breathe and remind myself everything can wait. If I 0:10:21.960 --> 0:10:24.920 don't have my phone right now, it's okay. If it's 0:10:24.960 --> 0:10:28.200 an emergency, God forbid. I just would pray for my siblings, 0:10:28.200 --> 0:10:30.679 for their children, for everyone. I was like, I put 0:10:30.720 --> 0:10:33.760 them in your hands God, And I was like, if 0:10:33.960 --> 0:10:36.880 they need me, they'll reach out to either to any 0:10:36.920 --> 0:10:39.200 of us, to Emilio, you know. Like I had to 0:10:39.320 --> 0:10:44.520 really work on just completely disconnecting, and I'm glad I did. 0:10:45.040 --> 0:10:46.119 And I had fun. 0:10:52.760 --> 0:10:55.480 For my birthday. We went to this really cool, like 0:10:55.600 --> 0:10:59.080 low key bar. There was no one in there. We 0:10:59.080 --> 0:11:03.840 were like looking through like the whole little town, like 0:11:03.840 --> 0:11:07.040 where are we gonna go? And we found this really small, 0:11:07.800 --> 0:11:11.480 chill ass bar. No one was in there. We got 0:11:11.520 --> 0:11:14.120 some hookah and that's how I burned my finger with 0:11:14.160 --> 0:11:16.480 the hookah. Oh my god, I don't know what I 0:11:16.520 --> 0:11:18.480 was doing. I don't know how my finger. Oh it 0:11:18.520 --> 0:11:21.600 was like half a second and it burned. It hurts 0:11:21.640 --> 0:11:24.400 so bad. It still hurts. But anyways, that night was 0:11:24.440 --> 0:11:28.800 so freaking fun. We danced all damn night. I don't 0:11:28.960 --> 0:11:30.920 Emilio dance. We were all having a great time. The 0:11:31.000 --> 0:11:33.320 music was fabulous. I even tipped the DJ. He was 0:11:33.360 --> 0:11:35.920 so damn good. But it was like the crazy part 0:11:36.040 --> 0:11:37.760 is like it wasn't like a place that was super 0:11:37.800 --> 0:11:40.520 packed or like super happening. It was just the place 0:11:40.559 --> 0:11:42.920 that we needed to be. It was so magical. That 0:11:42.960 --> 0:11:45.679 was one of my favorite nights. And you know, despite 0:11:45.679 --> 0:11:48.800 the fact that there were so many of us, I 0:11:48.840 --> 0:11:52.160 can proudly and happily say that it was. 0:11:52.160 --> 0:11:54.360 Drama free psych. 0:11:55.679 --> 0:11:58.800 When there are so many people, of course they're gonna 0:11:58.840 --> 0:12:02.080 be like little disagreement or little things, and especially when 0:12:02.120 --> 0:12:04.720 there's alcohol involved. You guys, and I'm not gonna say names, 0:12:05.320 --> 0:12:12.640 but there was a little bit of maybe discomfort between 0:12:12.920 --> 0:12:15.960 two people. It was fine when we first got there, 0:12:16.040 --> 0:12:17.920 and then one of the people, I'm gonna say a 0:12:17.960 --> 0:12:20.079 guy or a girl had too much to drink and 0:12:20.160 --> 0:12:23.680 they were being a little bit too touchy and someone 0:12:23.720 --> 0:12:28.400 else didn't like it. So it you know, but two 0:12:28.520 --> 0:12:33.640 days later the other person apologized and everything's fine now. 0:12:34.240 --> 0:12:37.400 But I was just I'm like, okay, what is happening here? 0:12:38.000 --> 0:12:41.839 But everything I think was pretty chill for the most part. 0:12:42.000 --> 0:12:44.520 And then Emilio and I, I'm trying to think, did 0:12:44.520 --> 0:12:46.280 we argue? Oh my god, yes, okay, you guys, so 0:12:46.280 --> 0:12:48.839 I'm gonna be honest. Okay, Emilio and I argued once 0:12:49.080 --> 0:12:53.840 the entire trip. Okay, we argued because my crazy little 0:12:53.880 --> 0:12:57.040 buzzedass felt that he was too nice to the waitress 0:12:57.040 --> 0:12:58.880 at the hookah bar, you know, because she was really 0:12:58.920 --> 0:13:00.840 sweet and she was very pretty. The girls there, Oh 0:13:00.840 --> 0:13:02.199 my god, let me tell you, guys, the people that 0:13:02.280 --> 0:13:06.000 are very beautiful, respectfully, the women and the men muypatasilo, 0:13:06.120 --> 0:13:10.760 mui wappos mu moherez like very beautiful people. So the 0:13:10.800 --> 0:13:12.760 girl that was helping us at the hookah bar, she 0:13:12.880 --> 0:13:15.360 was cute, she was very nice, very friendly, you know, 0:13:15.440 --> 0:13:19.000 she was sert like being really really like attentive with everyone. 0:13:19.360 --> 0:13:21.959 So we were leaving and Emilio I felt like Emilia 0:13:22.000 --> 0:13:24.200 went like way at his way to say bye, like 0:13:24.280 --> 0:13:25.680 he turned around and everything. 0:13:25.720 --> 0:13:26.839 We were already leaving, and I was. 0:13:26.800 --> 0:13:30.160 Like, okay, like he was like bye, like I'm like, okay, okay, 0:13:30.280 --> 0:13:31.680 I'm like and I'm not gonna lie. I was like 0:13:31.960 --> 0:13:36.920 was that necessary? Was that really necessary? And we kind 0:13:36.920 --> 0:13:38.560 of got in like a little you know argument. 0:13:38.559 --> 0:13:39.520 He's like, what are you talking about? 0:13:39.520 --> 0:13:41.200 I was just and he's just very nice and polite, 0:13:41.200 --> 0:13:43.240 you guys, and usually I don't get like that. But 0:13:43.280 --> 0:13:45.280 I think it was just I hadn't drank in a while, okay, 0:13:45.640 --> 0:13:49.040 in my defense, and you know, I was like, hmm, 0:13:49.559 --> 0:13:52.400 and she's cute, you know, but it's okay. 0:13:52.640 --> 0:13:56.040 He just you know, he apologized, although. 0:13:57.480 --> 0:13:59.599 You know, between you and I, I don't feel like 0:13:59.640 --> 0:14:01.640 he needed to really apologize because I think I was 0:14:01.720 --> 0:14:03.600 just being silly, you know, and I think it was 0:14:03.640 --> 0:14:05.240 just the alcohol because then after I was like the 0:14:05.240 --> 0:14:07.280 next morning, I'm like, Emelia, I'm so sorry, Like that's 0:14:07.400 --> 0:14:09.160 just so dumb, like I don't know why, you know 0:14:09.240 --> 0:14:11.840 what happened. And he's like, no, it's okay. I understand. 0:14:11.840 --> 0:14:14.679 He was really understanding and let me just have my moment. 0:14:15.360 --> 0:14:16.800 I don't like to be like a jealous girl. I 0:14:16.800 --> 0:14:18.440 don't want to be that type of girl, Like, even 0:14:18.440 --> 0:14:20.240 if there are beautiful girls like, I don't want to 0:14:20.280 --> 0:14:23.360 be that girl where I'm just like se Losa and 0:14:23.400 --> 0:14:24.880 like I don't want him to feel like he's walking 0:14:24.920 --> 0:14:26.480 on eggshells. Like and I don't want to feel that 0:14:26.520 --> 0:14:28.600 way either, you know, because I'm friendly, you know, and 0:14:28.640 --> 0:14:31.720 I say hello and like, you know, but I just 0:14:31.840 --> 0:14:33.840 I don't know, Like now that I think about it, 0:14:33.920 --> 0:14:35.400 like it was just kind of like a little bit 0:14:35.480 --> 0:14:36.440 too much, you. 0:14:36.400 --> 0:14:40.200 Know, I'm like, okay, we're already leaving. But anyways, I 0:14:40.240 --> 0:14:42.160 got over it. We were fine. 0:14:42.840 --> 0:14:45.120 It was a little just a little argument, nothing crazy, 0:14:45.560 --> 0:14:47.400 but that was it didn't last too long. 0:14:47.480 --> 0:14:48.960 We were just we got over it. We're like, okay, 0:14:49.040 --> 0:14:50.920 let's talk it out. And that was that. 0:14:51.400 --> 0:14:52.800 The good thing is that we were all kind of 0:14:52.840 --> 0:14:55.520 like on the same page. Like the couples. We had 0:14:55.760 --> 0:14:57.640 a day where we were like, okay, let's just go 0:14:57.960 --> 0:15:00.680 do a couple things and go eat and just have 0:15:00.800 --> 0:15:02.520 more of like a chill time because I didn't want 0:15:02.520 --> 0:15:04.280 to party every single day too hard. 0:15:04.320 --> 0:15:05.520 I needed a break in between. 0:15:06.240 --> 0:15:08.160 And everyone just kind of did their thing, and it 0:15:08.240 --> 0:15:11.040 was like That's what I like about my friendships. 0:15:11.320 --> 0:15:13.000 We're very mature and. 0:15:12.960 --> 0:15:15.200 We're transparent and we're like, look, I don't feel like 0:15:15.240 --> 0:15:18.040 doing that y'all go ahead and no one gets hurt, 0:15:18.400 --> 0:15:20.360 you know, And that's what I liked. You have to 0:15:20.360 --> 0:15:22.120 be really careful with the people that you travel with, 0:15:22.200 --> 0:15:24.560 like you have to know who you're traveling with. And 0:15:24.600 --> 0:15:27.400 I feel like everyone everything was cool, like there was 0:15:27.440 --> 0:15:30.680 no pressure, no one felt left out, no one felt like. 0:15:30.800 --> 0:15:32.680 I think it was good, you know what I mean. 0:15:32.720 --> 0:15:35.280 And I think the amount of days together was enough, 0:15:35.480 --> 0:15:37.280 you know, because maybe a few more days we probably 0:15:37.320 --> 0:15:38.880 would have just choked each other out or something. 0:15:38.920 --> 0:15:39.360 I don't know. 0:15:39.520 --> 0:15:46.360 AnyWho, the night life in Mikono's amazing. You guys so 0:15:46.520 --> 0:15:49.600 much fun. The bars are so cool. Like I didn't 0:15:49.600 --> 0:15:51.200 stay out till five in the morning. Some of my 0:15:51.200 --> 0:15:54.600 friends did, I did it. I honestly can't hang I 0:15:54.600 --> 0:15:56.560 think I probably the latest I stayed up was like 0:15:56.680 --> 0:16:00.000 three o'clock. Max, I was already kind of like by 0:16:00.200 --> 0:16:02.120 or two. I'm like, I want to go lay down. 0:16:02.320 --> 0:16:05.440 I'm not trying to like not wake up early tomorrow 0:16:05.440 --> 0:16:06.880 because I want to see I wanted. 0:16:06.640 --> 0:16:08.800 To like lay out in tan and enjoy. 0:16:09.240 --> 0:16:11.480 And one of the mornings, Emilio and I everyone was 0:16:11.520 --> 0:16:13.840 asleep because they stayed up till like really late. I 0:16:13.880 --> 0:16:15.880 think him and I were by the pool. We woke 0:16:15.920 --> 0:16:20.720 up around I don't know, like nine am, and we 0:16:20.720 --> 0:16:23.920 were out by the pool alone, just him and I 0:16:24.000 --> 0:16:26.240 till like two pm, till everyone woke up. And it 0:16:26.280 --> 0:16:28.640 was nice because we had like quiet time. We had 0:16:28.680 --> 0:16:31.840 our little teas in the morning, we were chilling, took 0:16:31.880 --> 0:16:34.920 a nap. It was like perfect because we had party, 0:16:34.960 --> 0:16:37.240 we had friend time, we had alone time. 0:16:38.000 --> 0:16:41.280 It was nice. It was just something. 0:16:40.960 --> 0:16:44.680 I hadn't really like. I didn't know what it was 0:16:44.720 --> 0:16:47.720 going to be like, but it was perfect. It was 0:16:47.760 --> 0:16:49.440 a little bit of everything. Oh and then we went 0:16:49.600 --> 0:16:54.120 on a yacht the day of Brianna and Rob's anniversary, 0:16:54.160 --> 0:16:56.680 which was the twenty ninth. I got a yacht for us, 0:16:56.720 --> 0:16:57.880 and I was like, you know what, she had never 0:16:57.920 --> 0:16:59.400 been on a yacht, and I wanted her to like 0:16:59.560 --> 0:17:01.800 enjoy It was like my birthday trip, but I wanted 0:17:01.800 --> 0:17:04.320 her to enjoy her anniversary because I feel like ten 0:17:04.400 --> 0:17:07.280 years of marriage, that's a huge accomplishment, you guys. And 0:17:07.280 --> 0:17:09.640 they're young, they're a young couple. They have three young, 0:17:09.680 --> 0:17:12.480 beautiful little boys, one of them is my godson. And 0:17:12.640 --> 0:17:14.600 I was like, I just want her to enjoy, you 0:17:14.640 --> 0:17:17.639 know and oh my god to see her just so 0:17:17.800 --> 0:17:19.720 happy and so free. She kept saying, She's like, oh 0:17:19.800 --> 0:17:21.320 my god, I never want to leave. She's like, I 0:17:21.359 --> 0:17:23.480 missed my boys. I love them. But she felt like 0:17:23.520 --> 0:17:26.680 I think like herself again, you know, like she's been 0:17:26.720 --> 0:17:29.600 in mom mode and wife mode, which is great, but 0:17:29.960 --> 0:17:32.040 I think she came back to like herself. And we 0:17:32.040 --> 0:17:34.400 were on the yacht and we got in the ocean 0:17:34.720 --> 0:17:38.000 and it was freaking The water was so clear. I 0:17:38.040 --> 0:17:40.359 thought the most beautiful water I've ever seen was in 0:17:40.520 --> 0:17:42.960 Boro Kai when we went to the Philippines, but I 0:17:43.040 --> 0:17:46.800 think this, like it was just so much nicer. El 0:17:46.840 --> 0:17:49.480 Maristaa Ramoso. It was so nice and cold. It was 0:17:49.520 --> 0:17:52.160 like a cold plunge and it was nice. I only 0:17:52.160 --> 0:17:53.320 got in it once. I was like, I'm going to 0:17:53.359 --> 0:17:55.359 get in because then I start thinking of like what's 0:17:55.440 --> 0:17:56.960 under me, and I just I get in my head. 0:17:56.960 --> 0:17:58.040 So I'm like, Okay, I'm going to get in for 0:17:58.080 --> 0:17:59.680 a little bit. I want to touch the waters here 0:17:59.680 --> 0:18:01.320 in great and then I'm gonna get back on the 0:18:01.359 --> 0:18:01.800 damn yacht. 0:18:02.280 --> 0:18:03.480 But it was fun. 0:18:03.960 --> 0:18:07.040 We had a great time and she was like so happy. 0:18:07.520 --> 0:18:09.600 So we did a little bit of everything, I'm telling you, like, 0:18:10.240 --> 0:18:13.200 the only thing that I was thinking was I feel 0:18:13.359 --> 0:18:16.159 like we didn't enjoy the house as much as I 0:18:16.200 --> 0:18:17.840