WEBVTT - 2020 with Rachel Feinstein 0:00:02.400 --> 0:00:05.480 Hello, tell my Mama is welcome back to look back 0:00:05.480 --> 0:00:07.920 at it? Everyone? Sam Jay's here? 0:00:09.119 --> 0:00:13.600 Wow, else is really taking over the pot today? 0:00:13.760 --> 0:00:21.759 Okay guys, yeah, just oh my god, thank you so much. 0:00:23.440 --> 0:00:23.600 Here. 0:00:24.160 --> 0:00:25.320 Yeah, what you're worth it? 0:00:25.480 --> 0:00:25.880 Everybody. 0:00:26.239 --> 0:00:29.840 Everybody is accounted for on the pot today. Good morning, 0:00:29.920 --> 0:00:32.440 good evening, good afternoon, whatever time you are watching this. 0:00:33.320 --> 0:00:35.280 God is so good, listening watching listening to this. 0:00:36.880 --> 0:00:37.520 God is good. 0:00:37.600 --> 0:00:42.360 This is a Christmas Yes, we have Rachel Finestein on 0:00:42.479 --> 0:00:43.520 the podcast today. 0:00:44.120 --> 0:00:47.879 That's what's up, Rachel, Rachel fine. 0:00:48.760 --> 0:00:50.080 Comedian actress. 0:00:51.200 --> 0:00:51.880 Are you an author? 0:00:52.560 --> 0:00:54.360 I actually pretty days I'm writing a book right now. 0:00:54.400 --> 0:00:57.120 You're writing a book in the midst of being an author? 0:00:57.320 --> 0:00:57.920 To be author? 0:00:58.520 --> 0:01:00.760 Yes, yeah, tell my Tales. 0:01:01.040 --> 0:01:05.200 Are you an author once you begin writing or after, well, 0:01:05.680 --> 0:01:06.840 not until it's published. 0:01:07.160 --> 0:01:09.000 I don't think your published it even then. I think 0:01:09.040 --> 0:01:11.119 I'm they're going to be looking at the sideways. Yeah. 0:01:13.560 --> 0:01:15.160 I didn't even I didn't even go to college. 0:01:15.360 --> 0:01:15.560 Yeah. 0:01:16.080 --> 0:01:17.600 I remember telling my parents I was going to go 0:01:17.640 --> 0:01:19.520 to college and like breaking into them, like I sat 0:01:19.560 --> 0:01:21.480 them down. I'm like I made the choice to not 0:01:21.680 --> 0:01:23.600 pursue higher. My mom's like, oh, we know, we weren't 0:01:23.640 --> 0:01:26.280 gonna we weren't going to ask anybody. We know you 0:01:26.319 --> 0:01:28.760 wouldn't be admitted. Like they were like not surprised at all. 0:01:29.319 --> 0:01:30.800 She's like, we were going to ask about that. 0:01:30.880 --> 0:01:32.559 Do you go for a family college graduate? 0:01:32.760 --> 0:01:35.440 Yes, everybody went might well, they're all like, you know 0:01:35.640 --> 0:01:38.520 my dad was you know, they went, my mom is 0:01:38.560 --> 0:01:41.120 a social worker, since we're to social work school. You know, 0:01:41.280 --> 0:01:43.360 my dad's mainly he's a blues musician now, but he 0:01:43.560 --> 0:01:45.959 was really civil rights layer for many years. 0:01:46.240 --> 0:01:48.760 Ro oh, you have a whole active family going. 0:01:48.840 --> 0:01:51.040 Oh yeah, my dad was a federal prosecutor like in 0:01:51.240 --> 0:01:53.360 the South and everything now in the blues full time, 0:01:53.440 --> 0:01:55.440 yeah part I mean. 0:01:55.360 --> 0:01:55.880 Really all over. 0:01:55.960 --> 0:01:59.000 He thought he prosecuted a lot of KKK case, he 0:01:59.360 --> 0:02:01.280 wrote a book about prosecuting that. 0:02:02.000 --> 0:02:02.760 I had no idea. 0:02:02.920 --> 0:02:04.720 He got some clams, my dad. 0:02:05.080 --> 0:02:08.320 Yeah, how he did some ship make no mistake. Though 0:02:08.400 --> 0:02:11.560 he's still got major major nasal allergy. Like he's still 0:02:11.919 --> 0:02:14.480 just allergic jewe. So he did a lot of breast 0:02:14.560 --> 0:02:15.920 thing and came down the light fever. 0:02:16.280 --> 0:02:16.440 Yeah. 0:02:16.520 --> 0:02:20.880 White Bernie Sanders, He's uh yeah. 0:02:20.760 --> 0:02:23.480 No, he's he's like a brilliant you know, like he 0:02:23.560 --> 0:02:26.840 could tell you every single piece of litigation for and 0:02:26.919 --> 0:02:30.200 for women's activism too. But but then he'll call me 0:02:30.320 --> 0:02:33.560 Roxanne when he's anger, like something's missing. 0:02:35.120 --> 0:02:36.720 It sounds like our dad is more pro black than 0:02:36.760 --> 0:02:37.040 I am. 0:02:39.280 --> 0:02:39.679 Forget it. 0:02:39.840 --> 0:02:41.959 Yeah, my mom, my picture is not even the frame. 0:02:42.000 --> 0:02:44.000 I'm just like on a desk about the fall behind it. 0:02:44.040 --> 0:02:46.320 And then there's a picture of Obama hugging Willie Bays 0:02:46.360 --> 0:02:48.480 in the frame. I'm like, frame my picture too, in 0:02:48.639 --> 0:02:50.480 the back of Obama's heads in the front. 0:02:50.560 --> 0:02:51.640 We have that in common, Rachel. 0:02:51.680 --> 0:02:54.600 I feel like there are more pictures of Oprah and 0:02:55.040 --> 0:02:56.480 the Obama's in my parents' house. 0:02:56.560 --> 0:03:01.280 To me, I got nothing, I got. I'm about to 0:03:01.280 --> 0:03:01.840 fall behind it. 0:03:01.960 --> 0:03:04.959 My mom loves Oprah so like she has like she 0:03:05.080 --> 0:03:06.959 has had every single Oprah magazine. 0:03:07.040 --> 0:03:09.839 So yesterday we were really, we were really out of podcast. 0:03:09.520 --> 0:03:11.840 Because yeah, yeah, my mom's not gonna love what you 0:03:11.919 --> 0:03:16.359 were saying about Oprah. I gotta, I gotta, don't you know, 0:03:17.040 --> 0:03:18.040 trying to get to face. 0:03:18.080 --> 0:03:18.639 Are you crazy? 0:03:19.919 --> 0:03:21.359 Called me once and he was like, Oprah wants to 0:03:21.400 --> 0:03:23.359 meet you, and I got so excited. And then and 0:03:23.440 --> 0:03:25.560 then he's like, Oprah is intrigued by your whatever, and 0:03:26.120 --> 0:03:28.960 she's having a special dinner of people that she wants 0:03:29.000 --> 0:03:32.359 to meet and is intrigued by. And then it turns 0:03:32.400 --> 0:03:35.200 out that she mixed me up with the sculptor named 0:03:35.240 --> 0:03:37.280 Rachel Finstein. You know. 0:03:39.120 --> 0:03:41.640 What I was thinking. I was really not to be offensive, 0:03:41.720 --> 0:03:43.680 but I was like, how the fun did you land 0:03:43.720 --> 0:03:44.400 on Oprah's radar? 0:03:44.520 --> 0:03:45.920 Well, you don't think we don't think she could be 0:03:45.960 --> 0:03:50.120 an Oprah's algorithm. Scroll and see Rachel stand special on Netflix. 0:03:50.960 --> 0:03:53.000 Che nationally touring comics. 0:03:53.080 --> 0:03:57.200 She was just thinking she could pull up. Tell you 0:03:57.280 --> 0:03:57.960 what my first. 0:04:00.240 --> 0:04:00.600 Just say? 0:04:01.400 --> 0:04:04.320 Maybe she yeah, maybe she likes my loving bread bullshit. 0:04:05.520 --> 0:04:08.120 I wonder I wonder who Upra's favorite stand up comedian 0:04:08.200 --> 0:04:18.000 he is? I wonder who that is? It's Probablystone specific. 0:04:20.640 --> 0:04:21.200 I know that she. 0:04:21.640 --> 0:04:24.840 I think she loves like this is musicians, but I 0:04:24.920 --> 0:04:28.320 feel like she loves Rod Stewart for some reason because 0:04:28.360 --> 0:04:29.839 I remember watching when I was agad. 0:04:30.040 --> 0:04:31.760 I think she does, like yeah, I feel like I 0:04:31.880 --> 0:04:33.039 have a vague memory of that. 0:04:33.080 --> 0:04:35.120 As well, and they go back. You know, she likes 0:04:35.160 --> 0:04:37.719 those kind of dancers that go back to back, which makes. 0:04:39.880 --> 0:04:40.320 She likes. 0:04:42.600 --> 0:04:42.760 Yeah. 0:04:44.200 --> 0:04:47.240 Wait, so what was it like being raised by Well? Now, 0:04:47.320 --> 0:04:50.760 he's what was the pivot in some blues jazz musician 0:04:50.880 --> 0:04:51.320 for your father? 0:04:51.480 --> 0:04:55.440 Well, he played he was played piano zico accordion like 0:04:55.520 --> 0:04:58.000 he plays completely by ear. 0:04:58.360 --> 0:05:01.159 Like I'll show you like or send you like a clip. 0:05:01.240 --> 0:05:03.039 Yeah, I mean no, he's like insane on the piano, 0:05:03.080 --> 0:05:05.520 like he does all those old New Orleans style trains taught. 0:05:05.720 --> 0:05:08.320 Yeah, he's brilliant. No, he started playing like foreign queens. 0:05:08.360 --> 0:05:10.080 They put him up like the State Fair, Richie, can 0:05:10.080 --> 0:05:11.760 you please get out of here and bring your dad? 0:05:12.920 --> 0:05:20.760 Wait till it's so sick. It's crazy up here. Yeah, 0:05:21.000 --> 0:05:23.760 you can't read a note, by the way, but plays 0:05:23.800 --> 0:05:24.440 all by ear. 0:05:24.560 --> 0:05:26.040 But yeah, no ihman. Like some of the guys from 0:05:26.080 --> 0:05:27.320 the band at the Cellar were like, you've got to 0:05:27.360 --> 0:05:30.000 bring day. I just posted on Father's Day. It's on 0:05:30.040 --> 0:05:32.960 my Instagram for my daddy Hurricane. 0:05:33.000 --> 0:05:37.440 How for those who don't know, Monday Monday Monday. 0:05:37.200 --> 0:05:41.560 Nights at the Cellar, there is a live band every 0:05:41.600 --> 0:05:43.960 Monday night, and it always catches me by surprise. 0:05:44.160 --> 0:05:46.200 I always forget about it. I always I'm like when 0:05:46.240 --> 0:05:47.120 I walk, Yeah. 0:05:47.760 --> 0:05:50.240 The band, the band is amazing, but we usually want 0:05:50.279 --> 0:05:51.560 to hide a talk ship in the corner. 0:05:51.600 --> 0:05:52.520 So then we remember. 0:05:54.320 --> 0:05:56.960 They have a consistent crowd of people in there. 0:05:56.960 --> 0:06:00.000 I'm like, damn, they're good. We have a comedy show. 0:06:00.080 --> 0:06:01.280 Were here here? Yeah? 0:06:02.360 --> 0:06:05.920 Well yeah, right, So the reason you're here today is 0:06:05.960 --> 0:06:09.840 because you wanted to look back at twenty twenty. 0:06:09.880 --> 0:06:11.520 Because nobody else chose us, So I have to be 0:06:11.560 --> 0:06:13.680 thereybody want hacket. 0:06:13.720 --> 0:06:15.440 Nobody wanted to trigger themselves. Again. 0:06:16.200 --> 0:06:18.440 I was like, but I would imagine instance you chose this, 0:06:18.520 --> 0:06:20.960 that there was a specific reason, but there was what 0:06:21.160 --> 0:06:23.360 was going on with Rachel during the COVID year. 0:06:23.800 --> 0:06:24.839 Well, I was pregnant. 0:06:24.920 --> 0:06:28.120 You were pregnant while which was really volatile. Yeah, how 0:06:28.160 --> 0:06:29.000 many like would you say? 0:06:29.040 --> 0:06:31.880 Like, I had my my baby in May twenty twenty, 0:06:31.920 --> 0:06:34.200 so I was like, right, and we were about to 0:06:34.279 --> 0:06:37.040 move and like March, so I was about to We 0:06:37.160 --> 0:06:38.800 moved alone because there was nobody to move and I 0:06:38.920 --> 0:06:39.400 was pregnant. 0:06:39.400 --> 0:06:40.000 You know what I'm saying. 0:06:40.000 --> 0:06:41.960 He was on the job at the fire department or whatever. 0:06:42.080 --> 0:06:44.040 So yeah, it was a it was a wild time. 0:06:44.120 --> 0:06:47.480 And and even before that I was performing and not 0:06:47.600 --> 0:06:50.000 telling anybody. Every just thought I was getting fat. 0:06:51.880 --> 0:06:54.400 I'm gonna be honest, this is the first time I'm 0:06:54.400 --> 0:06:55.080 hearing you got a kid? 0:06:55.600 --> 0:06:55.920 Really? 0:06:56.120 --> 0:06:57.760 Yeah, I just thought you off fat and then you 0:06:57.920 --> 0:06:58.560 got it together. 0:06:59.120 --> 0:06:59.479 That is. 0:07:06.640 --> 0:07:10.040 This pilot like that, Like they had like this Fox pilot. 0:07:10.080 --> 0:07:11.520 And I didn't want to tell them because it was 0:07:11.560 --> 0:07:13.360 like supposed to shoot around me, not you know. 0:07:13.680 --> 0:07:15.800 Yeah you behind counters behind me. 0:07:17.000 --> 0:07:18.640 And I ended up telling them and they were like, oh, 0:07:18.640 --> 0:07:21.280 we don't want to shoot around the pregnancy. And so 0:07:21.800 --> 0:07:23.720 we had a They were like, let's just wait and 0:07:23.720 --> 0:07:25.240 then we'll order it in a few more months. We 0:07:25.280 --> 0:07:27.120 had a script deal. But you know, I mean it 0:07:27.200 --> 0:07:29.600 was all verbal, but it was like I was going 0:07:29.640 --> 0:07:30.600 around dressing. 0:07:30.520 --> 0:07:34.920 Like b Arthur just I was speaking paula Poer. I 0:07:34.960 --> 0:07:35.880 was dressed by Paul. 0:07:37.600 --> 0:07:40.720 Yeah, just lying to everybody, and everybody just thought I 0:07:40.760 --> 0:07:41.280 was getting wrong. 0:07:41.320 --> 0:07:43.000 I don't think I saw you pregnant every. 0:07:42.880 --> 0:07:46.440 Time seven months I hit it. Yeah, yeah, it was. 0:07:46.520 --> 0:07:48.600 I was a little psychotic. But then I was on 0:07:48.720 --> 0:07:51.720 stage at Gotham in the middle of my show. She 0:07:51.800 --> 0:07:53.360 did not mean to tell the story, but it's pretty 0:07:53.400 --> 0:07:55.240 fucked up. I've ever talked about it in a podcast, 0:07:55.320 --> 0:07:57.400 but in the middle of my show at got Them, 0:07:57.600 --> 0:08:00.520 I was like, oh, wait, is that blood like and 0:08:00.720 --> 0:08:04.360 I was pregnant, and here's what a comic I am. 0:08:04.480 --> 0:08:06.080 I was like, I just like put my legs together. 0:08:06.080 --> 0:08:08.320 I was like, okay, you finish the set, get on stage, 0:08:08.320 --> 0:08:10.480 then you go to the hospital because like, did your 0:08:10.560 --> 0:08:11.080 water break? 0:08:11.480 --> 0:08:13.440 No, it wasn't. It was it was like I thought 0:08:13.480 --> 0:08:16.480 I was having a miscarri is not a girl. 0:08:17.200 --> 0:08:17.760 I wasn't sure. 0:08:18.080 --> 0:08:20.560 So you were like in full possible miscarriage and you're like, 0:08:21.000 --> 0:08:22.320 go finish. 0:08:22.080 --> 0:08:27.720 The like piano moments like this here, Like I'm like, okay, 0:08:27.760 --> 0:08:29.480 it's all funny, this is great. 0:08:30.920 --> 0:08:31.560 I can't believe it. 0:08:31.800 --> 0:08:34.080 You were like you got a woman being a pregnant woman. 0:08:34.120 --> 0:08:36.520 Economy one talks about this. Yeah. 0:08:36.600 --> 0:08:38.400 I was on stage and all of a sudden, I 0:08:38.520 --> 0:08:41.360 was like, you know, and you know those bouncers at Gotham, 0:08:41.480 --> 0:08:43.319 I was like, I can't go telling these guys I 0:08:43.440 --> 0:08:44.680 might be having a miscarrier. 0:08:44.679 --> 0:08:45.959 I don't want to talk to some guy who was. 0:08:46.080 --> 0:08:48.280 He's like, you know, they always have like the numb 0:08:48.360 --> 0:08:49.920 trucks of the I can't go talk to one of 0:08:49.960 --> 0:08:52.679 the figure dumb about possible care. 0:08:54.080 --> 0:08:54.280 Yeah. 0:08:54.840 --> 0:08:57.360 So I was just like, allright, finish your fucking seven 0:08:57.400 --> 0:08:59.079 minutes and I was in there like oh, and so 0:08:59.679 --> 0:09:02.199 I was like, oh, it's not you know, I have 0:09:02.280 --> 0:09:03.760 to go straight to the hospital because he was he 0:09:03.960 --> 0:09:06.360 was at a fire. He's happier, he was happy to 0:09:06.440 --> 0:09:08.640 tell about that. But I was gonna interrupt this fucking 0:09:08.679 --> 0:09:12.839 beloved fire. I never loved me as much as claim. 0:09:14.640 --> 0:09:16.400 I think he was at a fire, and he goes, oh, yeah, 0:09:16.400 --> 0:09:18.120 then we caught a nice accident on the FDR. 0:09:18.160 --> 0:09:19.240 I'm like, all right, whatever, but. 0:09:19.360 --> 0:09:22.719 That is truly how at their work, right. Tragedy is 0:09:22.760 --> 0:09:25.719 like wow, Like I'm so excited. I getting ready to 0:09:25.760 --> 0:09:27.439 say people like people are dying. 0:09:28.000 --> 0:09:30.480 Seeing in their fucking boots, yeah, without their wives that 0:09:30.520 --> 0:09:32.319 are pissed off with them for being emotional? 0:09:33.920 --> 0:09:35.760 Yeah, so what what was what was the issue? 0:09:36.080 --> 0:09:38.520 So I was on stage and so I finished the 0:09:39.000 --> 0:09:41.240 set because I was like headlining, like you're you're sitting 0:09:41.280 --> 0:09:42.680 there thinking like, oh, I have to do my job, 0:09:42.800 --> 0:09:45.560 like I can't run off. But I was like wearing 0:09:45.640 --> 0:09:47.679 a skirt, and I was like and then I just 0:09:47.800 --> 0:09:49.480 ran off, and I and then I and then these 0:09:49.600 --> 0:09:51.840 drunk twats were like trying to take pictures like. 0:09:51.840 --> 0:09:53.719 They were like, we're funny, and I was like I 0:09:53.760 --> 0:09:54.719 can't do that. I gotta go. 0:09:54.880 --> 0:09:56.360 I just took an uber at the hospital and I 0:09:56.400 --> 0:09:58.199 got to the hospital and they hooked me up to 0:09:58.240 --> 0:09:59.959 all these machines and then I saw I remember see 0:10:00.120 --> 0:10:05.120 on the screen it says Finestein vadge bleed. 0:10:05.240 --> 0:10:08.320 And I'm like, that's what I'm being three words. 0:10:08.640 --> 0:10:11.760 That's that sounds that sounds like an entry on your 0:10:11.760 --> 0:10:12.280 set list. 0:10:16.000 --> 0:10:19.120 You're right, but I was like, and then they basically 0:10:19.160 --> 0:10:20.599 I was there all night and then they told me, 0:10:21.600 --> 0:10:24.679 you know, there's not They said, uh, your baby's not 0:10:24.679 --> 0:10:25.079 gonna make it. 0:10:25.120 --> 0:10:25.480 What she did? 0:10:25.520 --> 0:10:28.960 I have a six year older, but yeah, she's fun. 0:10:29.200 --> 0:10:29.760 I gotta tell you. 0:10:30.559 --> 0:10:33.439 Take your order at the so during it was so 0:10:33.559 --> 0:10:36.240 funny during the super Bowl party at this at the seller, 0:10:36.720 --> 0:10:39.880 she was taking everybody's like orders, like taking everybody's order. 0:10:40.720 --> 0:10:43.920 She came over to me, She's like, what will you 0:10:44.040 --> 0:10:47.000 have now? I don't have kids. I'm not ever really 0:10:47.080 --> 0:10:51.760 around kids. So I was like, oh girl, I'm good already. 0:10:51.920 --> 0:10:54.800 Before I got here, she was like, we're pretending. 0:10:57.000 --> 0:11:00.079 So Frankant got me got me to get that. 0:11:00.200 --> 0:11:00.880 I was it. 0:11:00.960 --> 0:11:03.200 Really it really exposed. She really held the mirror up 0:11:03.200 --> 0:11:06.760 to me. She was like, you fucking single guy with 0:11:06.920 --> 0:11:07.559 no children. 0:11:07.679 --> 0:11:08.559 My daughter would say that. 0:11:08.760 --> 0:11:10.679 She straight up looked me up and now she was like, 0:11:11.000 --> 0:11:13.080 we're pretending. And I was like, you know what, I'll 0:11:13.120 --> 0:11:14.840 have this salic and she came home. 0:11:15.320 --> 0:11:17.800 Probably cheating to me. 0:11:17.920 --> 0:11:21.199 When she goes, just say anything, I'm just going to 0:11:21.240 --> 0:11:23.439 bring some She goes, I'm gonna bring some nonsense. 0:11:23.760 --> 0:11:24.640 And I like that. 0:11:24.840 --> 0:11:28.160 She knows it's non's daughters. 0:11:29.840 --> 0:11:30.280 Yeah, I. 0:11:34.040 --> 0:11:36.120 Know this is about you, but I've been put on 0:11:36.160 --> 0:11:36.680 a roller coaster. 0:11:36.720 --> 0:11:36.800 Right. 0:11:36.880 --> 0:11:38.959 I did not know you were pregnant. I did not 0:11:39.120 --> 0:11:40.640 know you're almost unpregnant. 0:11:40.800 --> 0:11:41.960 She's learning about you again. 0:11:44.600 --> 0:11:47.120 Then it lived and lived and now it's sick. 0:11:47.040 --> 0:11:47.880 And she and she's sick. 0:11:48.080 --> 0:11:48.240 Yeah. 0:11:48.320 --> 0:11:49.920 By the way, when I went to see if I 0:11:49.960 --> 0:11:52.840 could have a baby, the doctor was like some nurse 0:11:52.880 --> 0:11:55.040 comment that was blood tests and this nurse callment. She's like, 0:11:55.200 --> 0:11:57.880 I'm sorry, you know you score. She told me the score, 0:11:57.920 --> 0:11:59.679 but I'm like, again, I fell out of school. I'm like, 0:11:59.679 --> 0:12:01.719 just some what that means. Don't tell me about charts something. 0:12:01.760 --> 0:12:02.760 They score your pussy. 0:12:02.960 --> 0:12:05.040 They gave me a score. They gave you a pusscard. 0:12:05.160 --> 0:12:08.080 Whoa ship like you did it's not enough eggs you got. 0:12:07.960 --> 0:12:10.319 Like I didn't have enough eggs or something, and but 0:12:10.400 --> 0:12:12.079 then I just got pregnant naturally. So they don't know 0:12:12.120 --> 0:12:13.400 what they're talking about in them hospitals. 0:12:13.480 --> 0:12:14.319 God's a chart. 0:12:17.040 --> 0:12:17.360 Fired. 0:12:17.679 --> 0:12:20.040 You got that fire. We're getting close, They're closer to 0:12:20.120 --> 0:12:22.160 this being a Christian podcast, right. 0:12:22.559 --> 0:12:23.800 So I prayed with my little daughter. 0:12:23.880 --> 0:12:25.720 We go back, we have to do a little prayers 0:12:25.720 --> 0:12:27.640 and we put them on a little god box and stuff. 0:12:27.800 --> 0:12:30.000 She'll also tell me things she wants me to put 0:12:30.040 --> 0:12:32.800 in my godbox, like that you need that you need. Yeah, 0:12:32.880 --> 0:12:34.079 I'm like, you know, don't worry about. 0:12:34.000 --> 0:12:35.320 What I need to pray myself. 0:12:36.559 --> 0:12:38.079 You don't know what you want. You don't know what 0:12:38.160 --> 0:12:40.120 you need. I know you need, well do you? 0:12:40.360 --> 0:12:42.640 I was gonna ask you too, because like I've gotten 0:12:42.679 --> 0:12:44.520 to know, I've gotten the meat franky bunch. And she's 0:12:44.600 --> 0:12:47.840 sweet and very smart. She's whipped smart already. 0:12:48.400 --> 0:12:50.560 She will talk to every guy and have the pretty 0:12:50.679 --> 0:12:52.040 pictures of her dog because she's used to be in 0:12:52.120 --> 0:12:53.719 the firehouse and he's been going on the road with 0:12:53.800 --> 0:12:54.240 me everywhere. 0:12:54.440 --> 0:12:56.000 I have to teach her that like manner bad. 0:12:56.200 --> 0:12:57.679 Like she just walked up as. 0:12:59.400 --> 0:13:01.719 No, no, you have better a little bad yeah, yeah, 0:13:01.760 --> 0:13:02.880 be careful. Yeah. 0:13:03.040 --> 0:13:05.439 Well, as I say, like, do you because you know 0:13:06.240 --> 0:13:09.400 kids who during COVID who were because she wasn't. 0:13:09.480 --> 0:13:11.120 She wasn't around for COVID. 0:13:11.559 --> 0:13:15.560 So there is now a generation of children her age 0:13:16.080 --> 0:13:19.800 who even though they did not they weren't online learning, 0:13:19.880 --> 0:13:22.960 they weren't doing their kind of back into a society 0:13:23.120 --> 0:13:26.880 that was posted that. Do you see anything that any 0:13:26.920 --> 0:13:30.079 signs early on that is she going to be like 0:13:30.400 --> 0:13:32.520 is her generation going to be like us? 0:13:33.040 --> 0:13:33.400 Normal? 0:13:33.800 --> 0:13:35.480 I mean, I think we're all screwed. 0:13:35.640 --> 0:13:35.720 But. 0:13:37.840 --> 0:13:38.720 Clinical diagnosis. 0:13:38.760 --> 0:13:40.960 But no, I think that I think that I lucked 0:13:41.000 --> 0:13:43.160 out having her because when she was a baby. 0:13:43.559 --> 0:13:45.520 Look, it sucks for the mom, but for the baby, 0:13:45.559 --> 0:13:46.199 they're good to go. 0:13:46.440 --> 0:13:48.880 Like I mean, and I mean and and honestly, there 0:13:48.920 --> 0:13:51.079 are some perks too, because it's like I had no 0:13:51.160 --> 0:13:53.440 fear of missing out the moment I had a baby. 0:13:53.440 --> 0:13:55.240 I didn't miss out anything in my work, nothing else. 0:13:55.280 --> 0:13:58.679 So those years, that whole first year, yeah, I was 0:13:58.720 --> 0:14:01.800 just dialed in bringing Yeah, in a lot of ways, 0:14:01.880 --> 0:14:04.760 it was because you know everybody, I was hiding it 0:14:04.840 --> 0:14:07.240 up to six seven months. If you're like a little taller, 0:14:07.360 --> 0:14:10.120 you can also hide it, you know. But then and 0:14:10.200 --> 0:14:12.280 then when I had her, but you know, it was 0:14:12.360 --> 0:14:14.319 like the perfect time no one wanted. Guess there's some 0:14:14.400 --> 0:14:15.479 weird perks actually. 0:14:15.200 --> 0:14:15.840 For the too. 0:14:15.920 --> 0:14:17.719 Yeah, like nobody could just be like, oh yeah, we're 0:14:17.720 --> 0:14:18.840 trying not to kill her or whatever. 0:14:19.800 --> 0:14:21.920 Even though my husband probably did not believe in COVID, 0:14:21.960 --> 0:14:24.240 I don't think he washed his hands during the entire time. 0:14:24.480 --> 0:14:25.960 Yeah, I mean, I don't know. 0:14:26.000 --> 0:14:28.400 If you're like pulling people out of fires, I'm pretty 0:14:28.480 --> 0:14:29.080 much like, come. 0:14:28.960 --> 0:14:32.320 On anything else. Yeah, exactly. 0:14:32.520 --> 0:14:34.160 It's like it's like when I told him the whole story, 0:14:34.160 --> 0:14:35.440 if like I'm at the hospital or whatever, he. 0:14:35.480 --> 0:14:36.720 Fell asleep at the firehouse. 0:14:36.800 --> 0:14:39.640 You know, like I was like, follow up, bitch, because 0:14:39.720 --> 0:14:41.800 anything that's not like he's like, oh so, you know, 0:14:42.320 --> 0:14:45.400 like anything that's like if you're not exploding, he's like 0:14:45.480 --> 0:14:46.120 not worried about it. 0:14:46.160 --> 0:14:46.480 You know what. 0:14:46.680 --> 0:14:47.720 It is like a condition. 0:14:48.800 --> 0:14:49.920 It's just a conditioning thing. 0:14:49.920 --> 0:14:52.000 Because I'm the same way with like health stuff, because 0:14:52.040 --> 0:14:54.000 I went, like my mom died of lupas, and I 0:14:54.040 --> 0:14:56.160 did a lot of back and forth to the hospital 0:14:56.200 --> 0:14:58.960 and stuff going through that, and then I have lupus 0:14:59.000 --> 0:15:00.240 and I had to go through my own backing for 0:15:00.360 --> 0:15:02.560 hospital things. So like my girl will be like, ya, 0:15:02.600 --> 0:15:04.200 I don't feel good. I think I should go to 0:15:04.240 --> 0:15:05.880 the Hospital'm like, yeah, like holler at me when you 0:15:06.400 --> 0:15:09.680 find out what's going on. But this is like serious, 0:15:09.760 --> 0:15:12.040 and I'm like, but it's not you Just you go there, 0:15:13.880 --> 0:15:15.800 you'll find out and they'll let you know. And it's like, 0:15:15.880 --> 0:15:17.480 I just can't react like that where I see other 0:15:17.520 --> 0:15:19.200 people as soon as they hear hospital, they're like, oh 0:15:19.240 --> 0:15:20.240 my god, you know what I mean. 0:15:20.720 --> 0:15:23.960 Yeah that makes sense. I mean, but because you took 0:15:24.000 --> 0:15:26.880 care of your mom. It's these are both pretty noble reasons. 0:15:26.880 --> 0:15:28.120 I mean, you were taking care of your mom, it 0:15:28.160 --> 0:15:30.080 makes sense. You're not just like emotionally, you know. 0:15:30.440 --> 0:15:32.280 Yeah, the hospital doesn't get me all round up. 0:15:32.600 --> 0:15:33.480 Nah, but he doesn't. 0:15:33.840 --> 0:15:33.880 No. 0:15:34.000 --> 0:15:36.560 I mean, I have gestational diabetes and I had to 0:15:36.920 --> 0:15:39.480 keep taking my because I couldn't go for the extra appointments. 0:15:39.520 --> 0:15:40.960 I was just taking my own blood at home all 0:15:40.960 --> 0:15:41.840 the time, and I was like, oh, this. 0:15:41.880 --> 0:15:45.240 Score is really low. I could be like it's like, 0:15:45.320 --> 0:15:46.880 you know, I could be at risk for a seizure. 0:15:47.120 --> 0:15:49.400 Do you know my husband said, he goes do you 0:15:49.480 --> 0:15:52.480 think this plunger would look better in the front bedroom. 0:15:54.760 --> 0:15:55.600 That was his answer. 0:15:55.680 --> 0:15:57.800 I'm like, bitch, you guys, you guys. You guys are 0:15:57.840 --> 0:16:00.320 on the same TV show, but in totally different. 0:16:02.760 --> 0:16:04.520 I was I needed to be with comedians. 0:16:04.560 --> 0:16:05.120 Like so I was. 0:16:07.040 --> 0:16:08.040 This got when I was pregnant. 0:16:08.080 --> 0:16:08.920 I was losing my mind. 0:16:24.120 --> 0:16:25.960 Remember that week where it was like the Golden State 0:16:26.040 --> 0:16:28.440 Warriors got it and then Tom Hanks and everyone's like. 0:16:28.400 --> 0:16:30.800 Well that, yeah, yeah, you have so much in common. 0:16:31.000 --> 0:16:32.040 Yeah, yeah, yeah. 0:16:32.040 --> 0:16:33.800 It was like that weekend and I had a show 0:16:33.840 --> 0:16:35.880 in Florida and I was playing and I was like, 0:16:35.920 --> 0:16:37.280 in the middle of my weekend, I'm like, he was 0:16:37.320 --> 0:16:37.520 with me. 0:16:37.560 --> 0:16:38.600 I was like I think I should stop. 0:16:38.680 --> 0:16:38.800 You know. 0:16:38.880 --> 0:16:41.040 He's like, hey, keep going through your skits. Let's make 0:16:41.080 --> 0:16:43.360 it life. And I was like, I don't. I didn't 0:16:43.400 --> 0:16:43.840 understand it. 0:16:43.920 --> 0:16:45.920 It wasn't kind of wild to like the there was 0:16:46.040 --> 0:16:48.880 like these moments. There was like people were dying, especially 0:16:48.920 --> 0:16:53.040 in New York, Like we knew it was going down, 0:16:53.160 --> 0:16:56.720 but it was like like Tom Hanks had the world 0:16:56.760 --> 0:16:57.280 on notice. 0:16:57.440 --> 0:16:59.760 It was like we might lose Tom Hanks to this. 0:17:00.080 --> 0:17:02.480 I know, we got to get it together, we got 0:17:02.600 --> 0:17:05.840 to get it was the moment that mom my mom 0:17:06.040 --> 0:17:07.080 was one of got it. 0:17:07.400 --> 0:17:09.440 Yeah, we gotta get in line. 0:17:09.720 --> 0:17:11.680 Yeah, my mom was one of the first, like I 0:17:11.800 --> 0:17:13.720 want to say, like groups of people that got it, 0:17:13.720 --> 0:17:16.240 because she got it in she she I know she 0:17:16.359 --> 0:17:19.040 got it in like December of twenty nineteen because she 0:17:19.160 --> 0:17:22.800 had just had like diroid surgery a few weeks prior, 0:17:23.520 --> 0:17:27.359 and she had then been complaining about losing her taste 0:17:27.400 --> 0:17:30.280 and her smell. And we did not have cold, We 0:17:30.320 --> 0:17:32.000 didn't have the language, we didn't know what was going on, 0:17:32.480 --> 0:17:33.879 and so my mom had been in and out of 0:17:33.920 --> 0:17:37.200 the doctor being like not the doctor couldn't tell her anything. 0:17:37.280 --> 0:17:39.040 They didn't know, they didn't didn't they did not have 0:17:39.680 --> 0:17:42.000 the verbiage for like what was going on. And we 0:17:42.119 --> 0:17:46.159 kept thinking that it was like a side effect. This 0:17:46.280 --> 0:17:47.840 was like this is December, this is because it was 0:17:47.880 --> 0:17:48.960 around because I got. 0:17:48.920 --> 0:17:51.720 Really around then too, and something else recently pointed out 0:17:51.720 --> 0:17:53.040 to me that a lot of people were properly that 0:17:53.119 --> 0:17:53.960 was like the first wave of this. 0:17:55.840 --> 0:17:56.520 Ever, I never did. 0:17:56.600 --> 0:17:57.159 I never try that. 0:17:57.560 --> 0:17:58.760 I got cold three times. 0:17:58.840 --> 0:18:00.800 Yeah was about as many times as I got that. 0:18:01.040 --> 0:18:04.280 I never lost my taste or you get really sick. 0:18:04.960 --> 0:18:07.720 I never really got really sick either, And I was 0:18:07.760 --> 0:18:09.920 worried because I have lufus and his pulmonary so I 0:18:10.040 --> 0:18:11.640 was like, oh, if I get this, I'm gonna. 0:18:11.480 --> 0:18:13.000 Like, oh, you had to be really careful. 0:18:13.080 --> 0:18:15.560 But I never got really sick. 0:18:16.000 --> 0:18:17.879 Here's my question. Are people still getting COVID? 0:18:18.200 --> 0:18:19.520 I think it doesn't matter. 0:18:19.640 --> 0:18:19.680 No. 0:18:20.760 --> 0:18:23.400 Yeah, it's like you know, listen, I saw somebody walking 0:18:23.400 --> 0:18:24.439 around with a gas masket. 0:18:26.280 --> 0:18:29.000 Somebody got tested recently. I was like, forest for COVID. 0:18:30.080 --> 0:18:32.240 I said, I had it like three times, but I'm 0:18:32.280 --> 0:18:34.880 pretty sure I had it. Like it's like women who 0:18:34.920 --> 0:18:38.680 get tested for HPVs, like, bitch, we all got it. 0:18:38.960 --> 0:18:41.520 What are you running around testing for that? Or yes, 0:18:43.840 --> 0:18:44.959 it turns into a cancer. 0:18:46.119 --> 0:18:50.720 Yeah, relaxed, that's so funny. No, but I'm not a 0:18:50.800 --> 0:18:55.080 person that's like paranoid. I'm not a hyperchontract I mean 0:18:55.160 --> 0:18:58.240 I am in social ways, but not with that. I've 0:18:58.280 --> 0:19:00.800 never I don't even think about. My therapist asked me 0:19:00.800 --> 0:19:02.320 if I was afraid of death. I'm like, no, I'm 0:19:02.359 --> 0:19:04.520 more like worried if people are mad at me. And 0:19:04.640 --> 0:19:06.000 he's like, that's more alarming. 0:19:07.520 --> 0:19:08.159 Let's talk about that. 0:19:09.320 --> 0:19:11.800 So I want I want to go back to children, 0:19:11.920 --> 0:19:14.760 and I want like, I'm just I'm curious too, because 0:19:15.320 --> 0:19:17.800 like gin outfitt, this is what this is what? 0:19:18.160 --> 0:19:20.560 Yeah is Well, so I don't think she was affected 0:19:20.640 --> 0:19:22.240 by that because she was inside, But. 0:19:22.280 --> 0:19:26.159 What is it like raising the youngest generation? Now, like 0:19:26.480 --> 0:19:28.840 that did exist in this moment? Do you see do 0:19:28.840 --> 0:19:33.200 you see yet any like stark differences in how. 0:19:33.560 --> 0:19:35.840 I mean raised. I mean my mom. 0:19:35.920 --> 0:19:37.399 If we were in trouble, my mom would just put 0:19:37.480 --> 0:19:39.240 us in the backyard. That was an answer to everything. 0:19:39.600 --> 0:19:46.879 My My mom was like yeah, and she was a therapist, 0:19:47.400 --> 0:19:49.119 treated you like black people treat dogs. 0:19:52.080 --> 0:19:54.480 Was banging on the doors, and my mom was like 0:19:54.600 --> 0:19:56.520 and like arguing my mom about whether to take my 0:19:56.600 --> 0:19:58.639 brother back. And my brother was always bright red and 0:19:58.720 --> 0:20:01.320 a diaper, just in the backyard three years. He was 0:20:01.480 --> 0:20:06.280 always backyard and not worth coming back back. Yeah, And 0:20:06.400 --> 0:20:08.320 she's like she's like take like he's like, you gotta 0:20:08.320 --> 0:20:10.160 take it back in Karen, he's making too much noise 0:20:10.200 --> 0:20:12.040 that And my mom is like, Bruce, I'm making a 0:20:12.119 --> 0:20:14.600 cast role. Give me fifteen flipping minutes like she was 0:20:14.720 --> 0:20:15.639 arguing the neighbor. 0:20:15.440 --> 0:20:20.760 But her own child back in the house back minutes. 0:20:21.440 --> 0:20:23.000 I got to hit the list clayboard out. 0:20:23.200 --> 0:20:26.320 What was Bruce doing outside that he needed I thought there. 0:20:26.320 --> 0:20:28.560 Was screaming so loud. Maybe he was in his backyard. 0:20:28.640 --> 0:20:29.520 You know, it's a good question. 0:20:29.600 --> 0:20:38.560 Actually we looked back at it right revisited, and it. 0:20:38.720 --> 0:20:40.479 Was guess what was going on if you grew up 0:20:40.520 --> 0:20:42.440 in the nineties, was anyone's good? I had a Matt Toute. 0:20:42.440 --> 0:20:44.000 You were talking about this in the previous episode. 0:20:44.080 --> 0:20:45.720 Yeah, I talked about this on stage like I had 0:20:45.760 --> 0:20:46.280 a Matt Tutor. 0:20:46.280 --> 0:20:50.160 I found out years later he molested like a gaggle loose, 0:20:50.200 --> 0:20:53.119 doesn't I guess all these girls didn't even look at 0:20:53.160 --> 0:20:53.960 my knee nothing. 0:20:54.000 --> 0:20:55.680 I think it's because I was so dumb at math 0:20:55.760 --> 0:20:56.520 that I pissed him up. 0:20:56.560 --> 0:20:59.840 Do you always think about how you dodged the molestation? 0:21:00.040 --> 0:21:01.879 And that's what I'm saying. I was around, I was 0:21:01.960 --> 0:21:03.119 around some molesters. 0:21:03.480 --> 0:21:04.680 I'm like, what was it? 0:21:05.560 --> 0:21:08.320 I I It doesn't hurt me. 0:21:08.400 --> 0:21:09.560 I feel like about me. 0:21:10.640 --> 0:21:13.960 I actually feel like maybe it's my ego, but I'm 0:21:14.000 --> 0:21:15.760 like that nigga knew he couldn't get away with that 0:21:15.800 --> 0:21:16.200 ship with me. 0:21:16.440 --> 0:21:20.600 I would never try. I'm like, because you would, Yeah, yeah, 0:21:20.640 --> 0:21:21.280 you know that. 0:21:22.080 --> 0:21:25.399 Yeah, my mom was big because the whole way through 0:21:25.520 --> 0:21:26.679 like like you'asty. 0:21:26.880 --> 0:21:29.920 My mom was going, my mom, my mom adopted. She 0:21:30.000 --> 0:21:31.560 and I play that ship. She was like, if someone 0:21:31.640 --> 0:21:33.119 touches you say. 0:21:33.080 --> 0:21:35.800 Something, yeah, yeah, I tell probably that. 0:21:37.640 --> 0:21:39.360 My mom was like, it's not a youth thing. It's 0:21:39.400 --> 0:21:45.000 like like they're the problem. You're not the problem. You're gross, right, 0:21:45.200 --> 0:21:46.520 you know for sure? 0:21:46.920 --> 0:21:47.120 Yeah. 0:21:47.160 --> 0:21:48.080 She would just drive me. 0:21:48.080 --> 0:21:50.480 Off with some man's unfinished basement like I'm like, and 0:21:50.560 --> 0:21:53.040 then the Clayborne outlets. 0:21:53.119 --> 0:21:55.880 I'm like what she's like, my last year, don't I'll 0:21:55.880 --> 0:21:56.800 be back in a few hours. 0:21:58.640 --> 0:22:02.239 So No, in my childhood, these keys, your daughters, these 0:22:02.280 --> 0:22:03.119 are indoor keys. 0:22:04.760 --> 0:22:06.679 Goes out guys a lot. I do think that they 0:22:06.760 --> 0:22:08.560 are indoor. 0:22:08.640 --> 0:22:09.439 Their air tagged. 0:22:09.520 --> 0:22:14.960 You put I tagged her, tag her up. Yeah, but 0:22:15.240 --> 0:22:17.200 I don't know. I put her, I put the little 0:22:17.240 --> 0:22:18.200 things in her shoes and all that. 0:22:18.359 --> 0:22:20.199 Yeah, don't tell them molesters where they're at. 0:22:21.160 --> 0:22:23.680 Yeah, oh yeah, you're I can't. Sorry. But in the 0:22:23.800 --> 0:22:25.639 area where I live, just. 0:22:27.240 --> 0:22:31.680 To us Sam, I'm just gonna say Queens. 0:22:31.680 --> 0:22:34.440 I'll be real vague, but we live in this area 0:22:34.560 --> 0:22:37.240 of kind of residential Queens where I do feel like 0:22:38.359 --> 0:22:40.720 the kids still go outside. All the kids their parents 0:22:40.800 --> 0:22:43.280 work at like the airport, So I kind of like that. 0:22:43.320 --> 0:22:45.879 It's like they're just normal ask people, you know what 0:22:45.880 --> 0:22:49.280 I mean, Like like they're not like like I don't like, 0:22:49.440 --> 0:22:52.880 they're not uh far right, they're not overly woke where 0:22:52.880 --> 0:22:56.920 everything's discussed. They're just they go outside, they play. You know, 0:22:56.960 --> 0:22:58.080 everybody works at LaGuardia. 0:22:59.040 --> 0:23:02.000 But I honestly think that's like most people. I think 0:23:02.040 --> 0:23:06.800 that's most of America is that focused on these extremities 0:23:06.880 --> 0:23:09.800 on both sides. Most of America's just like I'm going 0:23:09.920 --> 0:23:11.879 to work. I just want to like live, and I 0:23:12.000 --> 0:23:14.760 want stuff to be cheaper and I want my kid 0:23:14.840 --> 0:23:15.040 to be. 0:23:16.320 --> 0:23:17.000 Yeah, that's why. 0:23:17.119 --> 0:23:20.080 That's why I do feel like people as comedians and 0:23:20.160 --> 0:23:25.800 I want that with crowds, right, what you say, Yeah. 0:23:26.560 --> 0:23:29.080 I feel like I saw a burro on Subway Takes 0:23:29.160 --> 0:23:31.200 kind of recently saying a similar thing. It's just like 0:23:31.320 --> 0:23:35.440 it's this isn't as extremes as people make it. 0:23:35.720 --> 0:23:35.920 You know. 0:23:36.600 --> 0:23:38.399 I think COVID really blewed the door down or all 0:23:38.440 --> 0:23:41.560 of that too, because we were inside. Everybody's online, no one. 0:23:42.960 --> 0:23:43.320 To hate that. 0:23:43.680 --> 0:23:47.800 Everybody's mad black people are upset being murdered and everything 0:23:47.880 --> 0:23:51.080 is like the internet really like took our brains over 0:23:51.200 --> 0:23:53.119 during COVID where we were like just all kind of 0:23:53.200 --> 0:23:53.920 yelling at each other. 0:23:54.480 --> 0:23:58.040 Yeah, but also just like it's just like everybody's brain. 0:23:58.440 --> 0:23:58.840 Everybody. 0:23:59.680 --> 0:24:03.359 It's not like the like, uh, the right mind or 0:24:03.400 --> 0:24:06.919 a little it's like no, everybody just got crazy. 0:24:07.640 --> 0:24:08.840 Yeah, I know I was. 0:24:08.960 --> 0:24:10.960 I was just rocking in a window, like when I 0:24:11.040 --> 0:24:12.720 when I was pregnant, because this guy's locked up with 0:24:12.880 --> 0:24:16.040 him and he was just kept doing relays about the pregnancy. 0:24:16.119 --> 0:24:17.560 Was he had a timer. He's like, we gotta go 0:24:17.720 --> 0:24:20.680 start taking you seriously, I beat it. 0:24:20.800 --> 0:24:22.520 Fuck you growing a child. 0:24:22.320 --> 0:24:24.560 Get out of But he was like doing a pack 0:24:24.600 --> 0:24:27.240 and play taping how long it's well, he's. 0:24:27.119 --> 0:24:29.480 More involved in most men are, and we talk. We're 0:24:29.480 --> 0:24:30.479 talking not in during it pan. 0:24:30.640 --> 0:24:33.000 Yeah, but just like, bitch, I need a hug, you know, 0:24:33.119 --> 0:24:34.440 my fucking gym T shirt. 0:24:35.760 --> 0:24:36.600 To whip you into shape. 0:24:37.560 --> 0:24:39.720 Was rocking in the window, just smoking just sort of 0:24:39.800 --> 0:24:43.560 like rocking, like it's not actually smoking cigarettes, but just 0:24:43.880 --> 0:24:46.240 sitting in the window like this, pretending that I could 0:24:46.240 --> 0:24:46.840 have a cigarette. 0:24:46.880 --> 0:24:48.400 That's all I wanted was a cigarette the entire time 0:24:48.400 --> 0:24:48.879 I was pregnant. 0:24:48.920 --> 0:24:50.479 I need to make it clear to actually what were 0:24:50.480 --> 0:24:50.919 your craving? 0:24:51.560 --> 0:24:54.399 I want a cigarette and I have cigarette pretty rarely, 0:24:54.520 --> 0:24:56.600 like if I'm maybe if I'm drunk or something. The 0:24:56.600 --> 0:24:58.119 whole time, I want a cigarette, and I would go 0:24:58.200 --> 0:24:59.920 like this to help my call my nerves and like 0:25:00.119 --> 0:25:02.879 just do the motion of smoking out the window, and 0:25:03.000 --> 0:25:03.359 I kind. 0:25:03.280 --> 0:25:03.680 Of just rocks. 0:25:03.720 --> 0:25:05.439 Do you think heroin addicts do that same thing? 0:25:06.119 --> 0:25:06.919 I was jacked off? 0:25:07.000 --> 0:25:09.920 If they can't like gets to heroin, do they mime it? 0:25:10.480 --> 0:25:11.560 That's probably I would think. 0:25:11.640 --> 0:25:11.680 So. 0:25:12.080 --> 0:25:13.920 I mean, if she's doing cigarettes, there has to be 0:25:14.000 --> 0:25:14.679 somebody out there. 0:25:15.119 --> 0:25:17.399 And I hadn't even when I got rant, but it 0:25:17.480 --> 0:25:19.840 was just my anxiety was so high and in times 0:25:19.880 --> 0:25:22.000 of my life where I've been very anxiety read and I. 0:25:22.080 --> 0:25:24.600 Used because you were also going you were you were 0:25:24.680 --> 0:25:26.720 dealing I mean, pregnant women definitely were dealing with a 0:25:26.760 --> 0:25:29.000 lot during COVID because it was like dealing with a 0:25:29.040 --> 0:25:31.720 pregnancy as well as the fear of like dying from 0:25:32.040 --> 0:25:32.639 well that's what I was. 0:25:32.640 --> 0:25:35.120 About to say, Like it's kind of like interesting, you're 0:25:35.280 --> 0:25:38.240 not like the fear of dying of COVID, but like 0:25:38.320 --> 0:25:41.200 you're I would think you're bringing life into the world 0:25:41.280 --> 0:25:42.480 with so much death going. 0:25:42.600 --> 0:25:45.720 It was exactly That's that's what I you know, that's 0:25:45.760 --> 0:25:48.440 exactly what I was actually writing about. The book was 0:25:48.480 --> 0:25:51.000 like it was like everything was like it was just yeah, 0:25:51.280 --> 0:25:54.119 I remember, I feel like that's why people were so 0:25:54.320 --> 0:25:56.120 kind to us, because it was like people just wanted 0:25:56.160 --> 0:25:56.920 something some happy. 0:25:57.080 --> 0:25:57.280 Yeah. 0:25:57.440 --> 0:26:02.040 Yeah, so somebody did, like like Yamanique and Marina did 0:26:02.119 --> 0:26:04.760 like this, like Zoom because my Little Baby Shower got canceled, 0:26:04.800 --> 0:26:07.160 they made a Zoom Baby shower for me, and all 0:26:07.320 --> 0:26:09.760 these comics came out on and they were so lovely. 0:26:10.280 --> 0:26:12.119 I was so sad that I was gonna miss my 0:26:12.200 --> 0:26:14.840 little shower moment. And I had this like you know, 0:26:15.240 --> 0:26:19.000 sad little Amazon, you know, registry, and people were blowing 0:26:19.040 --> 0:26:21.000 it up and getting more and more stuff, and people 0:26:21.040 --> 0:26:21.920 were so lovely. 0:26:22.440 --> 0:26:24.520 You were like a rail of light and like it 0:26:24.640 --> 0:26:29.600 was like yeah, I mean, I will say, yeah, its 0:26:29.760 --> 0:26:32.880 as bad as it was the things the way people 0:26:32.960 --> 0:26:36.639 got creative and Zoom decided like I was on the 0:26:36.680 --> 0:26:37.080 part of couple. 0:26:37.119 --> 0:26:38.919 I was a part of a couple of Zoom birthdays. 0:26:39.880 --> 0:26:42.480 You just kind of we were just desperate to be like, oh, 0:26:42.560 --> 0:26:44.959 I guess, but also talking to each other right now 0:26:45.040 --> 0:26:45.720 but I'm at home. 0:26:45.920 --> 0:26:48.320 But also it kind of funds up because some stuff 0:26:48.400 --> 0:26:49.840 should go back and it hasn't. 0:26:49.960 --> 0:26:51.440 Like we still shouldn't be doing zoom. 0:26:51.760 --> 0:26:55.360 We haven't learned people pop. 0:26:57.200 --> 0:27:04.320 Wedding comedy shows are still happening. Just asked to do 0:27:04.400 --> 0:27:07.320 some zoom comedies. I'm like, what do I think? I'm 0:27:07.400 --> 0:27:08.320 not doing that anymore. 0:27:08.440 --> 0:27:12.800 You should definitely stop streaming go to it that don't go. 0:27:13.440 --> 0:27:16.840 This leads me from the house. This leads me to 0:27:16.920 --> 0:27:20.200 my yeah, that's crazy. 0:27:20.560 --> 0:27:23.560 Why this leads me to my question, to the question 0:27:23.640 --> 0:27:27.680 that we usually asked here, have we learned anything. 0:27:27.720 --> 0:27:29.960 From our time in COVID. 0:27:30.080 --> 0:27:33.959 I'm gonna say we've learned very little, because people are 0:27:34.280 --> 0:27:36.920 still showing up to work sick. People are back to 0:27:37.040 --> 0:27:40.120 standing way too close in lines, people are actually doing 0:27:40.560 --> 0:27:43.960 I'd say people are actually worse. People are behaving worse 0:27:44.440 --> 0:27:47.960 than before than pre than pre And then during. 0:27:49.760 --> 0:27:50.360 Think what do you think? 0:27:50.359 --> 0:27:50.880 What do you say? 0:27:51.840 --> 0:27:55.679 I think we learned that life is short, so seople 0:27:55.720 --> 0:28:00.600 are turning up my face. I think it like I'm 0:28:00.640 --> 0:28:02.000 gonna just live how I want to live. 0:28:02.200 --> 0:28:06.000 I feel a three year different. I feel a three 0:28:06.040 --> 0:28:07.879 year of society. I think people are really like, I'm 0:28:07.920 --> 0:28:10.080 gonna live how I want. Like there's a lot of 0:28:10.119 --> 0:28:14.119 people who just never to work, use, a lot of 0:28:14.160 --> 0:28:16.520 people who never went back to a lot of people 0:28:16.560 --> 0:28:18.440 just started going like I'm just live my life. 0:28:18.440 --> 0:28:23.600 And I fit like, yeah, you're right about people being 0:28:23.680 --> 0:28:25.720 sick though for work, because like I I don't really 0:28:25.800 --> 0:28:28.080 care about germs, Like I'm just like whatever, Like when 0:28:28.119 --> 0:28:30.560 there was that big I'll sip off anyone's drink. I 0:28:32.280 --> 0:28:34.840 always just assume I'm the grocer one. I'm like, oh whatever, Yeah, 0:28:34.880 --> 0:28:38.120 So I'm not too worried about germs. But I mean, 0:28:38.160 --> 0:28:39.160 I'm not like Rancid. 0:28:39.240 --> 0:28:41.640 Let me make let me make it Clarence that I'm 0:28:41.720 --> 0:28:42.160 worried about. 0:28:42.800 --> 0:28:43.480 I watched. 0:28:44.720 --> 0:28:48.480 Yeah see with Rachel and she jumps off the cliff 0:28:48.560 --> 0:28:50.840 and then she's like, wait, wait, wait, wait, let me 0:28:50.960 --> 0:28:52.600 try to drag myself back up. 0:28:53.080 --> 0:28:55.600 I've met your daughter. She really told me about myself. 0:28:55.640 --> 0:28:57.320 I was like, you know what I've I got. I 0:28:57.400 --> 0:29:00.880 got to be more whimsic, cool, I got I gotta pretend. 0:29:01.120 --> 0:29:06.080 When is the last time I don't pretend? I live. 0:29:06.360 --> 0:29:09.320 Really, I turned that. I just got out of it later. 0:29:11.520 --> 0:29:14.040 I have to let kids will take you out of 0:29:14.080 --> 0:29:17.160 yourself for it's I can remind you it's your imagination, 0:29:17.280 --> 0:29:21.840 you dumb fuck. You're right, that's Jen Alpha. That's Jen 0:29:21.880 --> 0:29:25.480 Alpha right there. These are smart kids. These kids, I'd say, 0:29:25.800 --> 0:29:29.400 I'd say I'm predicted Jenny Alpha better than gen Z. 0:29:30.000 --> 0:29:31.000 You think so, I think so. 0:29:31.320 --> 0:29:33.200 I mean because these are I think, because this, this 0:29:33.280 --> 0:29:36.120 is more to what I I'm so happy that these 0:29:36.160 --> 0:29:38.280 mother because I turn in thirty, I'm so happy that 0:29:38.320 --> 0:29:39.000 they're turning thirty. 0:29:39.040 --> 0:29:39.160 Now. 0:29:39.240 --> 0:29:40.080 Oh, I can't handle that. 0:29:40.320 --> 0:29:42.760 They're very this is a very arrogant generation. And I'm 0:29:42.800 --> 0:29:44.680 not trying to sell like an old man. But they're like, 0:29:44.800 --> 0:29:46.880 oh yeah, oh. I'm like, they're way. 0:29:47.120 --> 0:29:49.760 Into their own boundaries. It's like, you know what work, 0:29:49.880 --> 0:29:51.480 there are certain comments that have opened for me or 0:29:51.520 --> 0:29:53.200 something like that. They're just like, it's all about what 0:29:53.400 --> 0:29:55.080 they need. And I'm like, when I was opening on 0:29:55.160 --> 0:29:57.840 the road, I was staying at AIDS hotels and whatever 0:29:57.960 --> 0:29:58.840 that headliner need. 0:29:59.120 --> 0:30:00.680 I love that g snitches. 0:30:02.840 --> 0:30:04.400 They don't know how to just take a l they 0:30:04.400 --> 0:30:08.240 don't know how It was like weirdly groped and just 0:30:08.360 --> 0:30:09.800 go like I was fucked up. 0:30:10.720 --> 0:30:13.560 That was fucked up. That was fucked up. I don't 0:30:13.560 --> 0:30:14.840 know if I'll be around that got drunk. 0:30:15.520 --> 0:30:17.600 Yeah, you just kind of move on, you know what 0:30:17.640 --> 0:30:22.400 I mean? He was just drunk. Whatever, it's not it's 0:30:22.440 --> 0:30:24.560 never just that. It's never just that just happened. Like 0:30:24.600 --> 0:30:27.040 it's always like a gen z. 0:30:27.120 --> 0:30:31.680 Er snitch about my grope in their snitch. And then 0:30:32.240 --> 0:30:35.280 and me and I got weirdly groped and I was like, 0:30:35.320 --> 0:30:36.000 I'm gonna let it go. 0:30:36.880 --> 0:30:37.680 But he was drunk. 0:30:39.280 --> 0:30:44.600 It wasn't cool. But first time I've been groped. Maybe 0:30:45.600 --> 0:30:46.920 it was in myn L years. 0:30:47.000 --> 0:30:50.640 Okay, that was like they grabbed your weird It was 0:30:50.680 --> 0:30:53.400 a situation that's wasn't cool. 0:30:53.520 --> 0:30:55.400 Okay, wasn't cool. 0:30:55.680 --> 0:30:58.680 But I was like, yo eight the first time. Yeah, 0:30:58.880 --> 0:31:00.200 only won't be the last. 0:31:02.480 --> 0:31:02.720 Woman. 0:31:02.880 --> 0:31:06.400 Yeah, with it my way when I when I deal 0:31:06.440 --> 0:31:06.640 with it. 0:31:07.480 --> 0:31:10.320 Then one of these ziers was in their own situation, 0:31:11.280 --> 0:31:14.000 pulled me into the situation like and Sam got groat. 0:31:14.240 --> 0:31:15.360 I don't know, I don't. 0:31:15.200 --> 0:31:18.840 Fucking know what the no, that's your goddamn sorry, I'm 0:31:18.840 --> 0:31:20.160 trying to use you as a credit. 0:31:20.280 --> 0:31:28.840 Grow Sorry, that's how these gen Z's role. 0:31:29.240 --> 0:31:32.520 Then I get a call someone said you got grope 0:31:33.080 --> 0:31:36.080 and I'm like, but I say it, and they're like, 0:31:36.160 --> 0:31:37.480 do you want to come in and talk about it? 0:31:37.520 --> 0:31:39.880 I was like no, I like ye don't, like are 0:31:39.920 --> 0:31:43.200 you sure? And I'm like, now there's someone higher up 0:31:43.320 --> 0:31:46.880 somewhere that got me on a list of growed up people. 0:31:47.520 --> 0:31:52.560 Grow use your credit? 0:31:52.720 --> 0:31:54.520 Did use your credit? 0:31:56.520 --> 0:31:58.560 That's your goddamn Like this is. 0:31:58.720 --> 0:32:01.520 Just like an overcorrection of like everything, and it's like, 0:32:01.800 --> 0:32:03.960 I feel like gen z kind of exists in this 0:32:04.080 --> 0:32:07.280 world where everything must be fixed and everything everybody has 0:32:07.360 --> 0:32:10.480 to like, you know, they're very they're very conservative. They're 0:32:10.600 --> 0:32:12.760 a lot more conservative than they would give themselves. 0:32:12.920 --> 0:32:16.240 The creative for these kids aren't fucking. They're they're not drinking. 0:32:16.320 --> 0:32:20.280 They're not they're not having you're not drinking and drinking. 0:32:21.200 --> 0:32:21.880 They're fruits. 0:32:22.160 --> 0:32:24.040 They're not they're not drinking. 0:32:24.560 --> 0:32:26.480 They all look like they're in their forties. Have you 0:32:26.640 --> 0:32:27.400 have you seen them? 0:32:27.560 --> 0:32:29.840 They look all as ship They are way older than us. 0:32:29.960 --> 0:32:31.600 Yo. I've been on like I've been on this they 0:32:31.640 --> 0:32:32.360 haven't had someone. 0:32:32.480 --> 0:32:32.560 Yo. 0:32:32.640 --> 0:32:34.800 I've been on these dating apps like age range on 0:32:34.840 --> 0:32:36.560 dating apps are usually like, you know, anywhere between like 0:32:36.640 --> 0:32:37.120 twenty four. 0:32:37.200 --> 0:32:39.880 They're like my age, little older, fasty boy. 0:32:39.960 --> 0:32:41.800 But I'm looking at twenty five year olds and I'm like, 0:32:42.600 --> 0:32:45.520 it'll say twenty five, and I'm like, ain't no way 0:32:45.600 --> 0:32:47.760 you twenty five with these bags under your eyes like this? 0:32:47.920 --> 0:32:48.880 How do you look older than me? 0:32:49.040 --> 0:32:51.120 Your way? I do think it's because they're not getting out. 0:32:51.240 --> 0:32:52.200 They're not getting sunlight. 0:32:52.320 --> 0:32:55.400 They're like son, they're not getting semen, they're not getting 0:32:55.440 --> 0:32:59.080 pushed all the things that are vital. 0:32:59.200 --> 0:33:01.480 They're not getting they're not getting fingered. In middle school, 0:33:01.560 --> 0:33:03.840 they're not They're not if you're not. 0:33:03.800 --> 0:33:07.880 Getting figured on here, these kids are literally not being 0:33:08.040 --> 0:33:09.680 sexual way before they should be sexual. 0:33:09.840 --> 0:33:11.280 But we were sexualized. 0:33:12.120 --> 0:33:15.160 I was like prude, but like I I but I 0:33:15.200 --> 0:33:17.560 would would get fingered. Was just part of the high school. 0:33:17.640 --> 0:33:20.040 First of all, I wouldn't I wouldn't maybe go all 0:33:20.120 --> 0:33:22.120 the way. But I was always being fingered on the 0:33:22.160 --> 0:33:22.920 hell somewhere every time. 0:33:25.000 --> 0:33:28.280 By the time I don't know, we were like eleven, 0:33:28.760 --> 0:33:30.760 we're playing seven minutes seven, you're getting locked off. 0:33:30.840 --> 0:33:32.320 Hell yeah, but you're getting growth. 0:33:32.600 --> 0:33:35.840 I have to the correction here, I have to make 0:33:35.880 --> 0:33:38.800 the correction here, not all of gen Z. I would 0:33:38.800 --> 0:33:40.959 I will say not all gen Z because I am 0:33:41.080 --> 0:33:45.440 an avid Love Island watcher. In this season, they are fingering, 0:33:46.000 --> 0:33:48.200 they are fingering on love body and Love Island is 0:33:48.240 --> 0:33:49.600 gen z Z. 0:33:49.800 --> 0:33:53.000 I'm saying, these people are on TV there getting fingers. 0:33:53.880 --> 0:33:54.880 Their fingers wrong. 0:33:56.160 --> 0:33:58.160 But here's the thing, I don't think the debates do 0:33:58.240 --> 0:34:02.080 they ever finger you like they're fingering now at. 0:34:02.000 --> 0:34:07.880 Like almost two. That's that's because Love Island. 0:34:10.080 --> 0:34:10.800 Going at fourteen. 0:34:10.920 --> 0:34:15.520 Yeah, they're they're they're late bloomers. They're late bloomers. 0:34:15.719 --> 0:34:18.040 Interesting because like we had to teach them everything. 0:34:18.040 --> 0:34:19.120 I don't know if it was just guys because I 0:34:19.200 --> 0:34:21.280 used to hang out with skaters a lot of escape because. 0:34:21.080 --> 0:34:24.480 Skateboarders were like you your a skateboarders skateboard I always. 0:34:24.200 --> 0:34:26.560 Say that skateboarders were like the stand up comics of high. 0:34:26.440 --> 0:34:27.680 School skateboard. 0:34:28.880 --> 0:34:30.839 When I was in middle school, absolutely ska, I want 0:34:30.840 --> 0:34:31.920 to get another, I want to get back. 0:34:32.280 --> 0:34:34.080 I had one to had a little Jason leeboard with 0:34:34.200 --> 0:34:37.080 like black and white check her cowl side. 0:34:37.160 --> 0:34:40.920 Yeah, they were I wasn't good. I could do like 0:34:40.960 --> 0:34:41.880 a maybe I could. 0:34:41.719 --> 0:34:44.480 Do like a flip but that was Yeah, but I 0:34:44.600 --> 0:34:45.960 just want to be around them because they were so 0:34:46.120 --> 0:34:46.839 funny and hot. 0:34:47.040 --> 0:34:49.839 Skateboarder. If you okay, if we're talking types, you ask 0:34:49.880 --> 0:34:50.640 me want type. 0:34:50.600 --> 0:34:51.560 Skateboards, skateboarders. 0:34:51.680 --> 0:34:54.200 I love, I love, I love in New York City. 0:34:54.239 --> 0:34:55.680 I love kind of like you know, sitting like and 0:34:55.800 --> 0:34:58.240 watching the Square Park, or like look at the skateboards 0:34:58.239 --> 0:34:59.200 at a little long teeth. 0:34:59.239 --> 0:35:02.080 Like no no show, sunny day. That's the kind of 0:35:02.120 --> 0:35:06.279 white way I like to long pants. You know, no job, 0:35:06.640 --> 0:35:07.480 just a degenerate and. 0:35:10.520 --> 0:35:11.360 Yeah, and they're funny. 0:35:11.360 --> 0:35:13.000 And for the same reason you're saying, they don't look 0:35:13.040 --> 0:35:15.359 like they're not all telling on each other, like they're 0:35:15.440 --> 0:35:17.719 just like it was when I was I skipped. I 0:35:17.760 --> 0:35:20.080 mean I was did terribly in school. Every time when 0:35:20.080 --> 0:35:21.560 I go to summer school, I had a little summer 0:35:21.560 --> 0:35:22.040 school dance. 0:35:22.080 --> 0:35:23.359 That's how much they knew I was coming. 0:35:23.400 --> 0:35:25.799 They'd be like, no, they had like everything dance when 0:35:25.800 --> 0:35:28.640 they walked in, and the skateboarders would be it was 0:35:28.800 --> 0:35:31.840 very much of like they never even tried with Like 0:35:31.920 --> 0:35:34.600 they were like, it's us versus them, that's not our thing. 0:35:34.719 --> 0:35:36.719 We're not telling them ship. We used to have this 0:35:36.920 --> 0:35:37.920 lady Mean Jean, some. 0:35:38.040 --> 0:35:41.440 Old arthritic woman would chases around a Cadillac where we're 0:35:41.520 --> 0:35:44.239 skipping again, What the why was that the choice they 0:35:44.280 --> 0:35:47.640 made and a public, public high school, they decided this 0:35:47.920 --> 0:35:49.759 curled elder would be the one to find. We were 0:35:49.880 --> 0:35:54.160 terrified with this bitch. She would come around of this cadillac. 0:35:54.239 --> 0:35:56.080 We called her Mean Jene and she and she tried 0:35:56.080 --> 0:35:59.920 to find that a picture maker up in my mind, 0:36:00.280 --> 0:36:03.239 Shirt's right, no idea how she got that job. 0:36:03.719 --> 0:36:04.719 And I asked my brother. 0:36:04.760 --> 0:36:06.239 I was like, why why was she called me j 0:36:06.400 --> 0:36:08.319 And my brother was like, well, because you know she's 0:36:08.360 --> 0:36:10.600 born ready to rumble, like I guess, like the wrestler 0:36:10.680 --> 0:36:11.000 out there. 0:36:14.480 --> 0:36:15.800 I was, come on. 0:36:16.440 --> 0:36:18.759 But but when Meji would come looking for us in 0:36:18.880 --> 0:36:20.719 her fucking suit and her teals pants suit. 0:36:20.800 --> 0:36:22.640 But the skaters were always it was always about like 0:36:22.760 --> 0:36:25.640 us versus them, versus authority. They weren't all telling on 0:36:25.719 --> 0:36:27.600 each other and deciding who's good or bad. They were 0:36:27.760 --> 0:36:28.719 just a good fucking hang. 0:36:28.840 --> 0:36:34.239 Mean Jane was like Omar from the wires coming Mean 0:36:34.360 --> 0:36:35.920 jan She. 0:36:35.960 --> 0:36:37.719 Had a I don't even think there's anybody on the 0:36:37.800 --> 0:36:40.719 other end of her walking. She was like rough up 0:36:41.520 --> 0:36:42.759 th ched somebody up. 0:36:44.320 --> 0:36:47.600 Against no stairs. 0:36:47.680 --> 0:36:50.399 Was always good when like someone would be like, yo, yeah, 0:36:51.880 --> 0:36:58.080 choke Scott like me, she choked Scott like whatever. 0:36:58.160 --> 0:37:00.480 I was that that type of person you heard like 0:37:00.520 --> 0:37:03.000 they got physical with the kid the muscle. 0:37:03.719 --> 0:37:06.840 Yeah yeah, Jean Jeane had I mean she was in 0:37:06.960 --> 0:37:07.799 it to win it for sure. 0:37:07.920 --> 0:37:10.920 I remember like she had this little like air freshener 0:37:10.960 --> 0:37:13.800 he car that had put put christ back in Christmas. 0:37:14.080 --> 0:37:17.560 And I do believe that her goal in life was 0:37:17.680 --> 0:37:19.960 to put us back in then the classrooms. 0:37:20.000 --> 0:37:20.480 She wanted us not. 0:37:20.640 --> 0:37:22.360 She wanted to pick us up from being fingered on 0:37:22.440 --> 0:37:24.200 a hill somewhere with were smearing off ideas. 0:37:25.600 --> 0:37:27.600 She was back in geometry. 0:37:28.040 --> 0:37:28.719 She didn't like that. 0:37:29.040 --> 0:37:33.040 She want us holding you know, a pro like order. Yeah, 0:37:33.400 --> 0:37:36.200 not getting ran through. She want us getting passed around 0:37:36.239 --> 0:37:36.680 those hills. 0:37:37.440 --> 0:37:39.279 She was like, that's not that's not what you want 0:37:39.320 --> 0:37:42.320 in your life. Dirty skater fingers all in that badge. 0:37:45.719 --> 0:37:48.640 Yeah, Jeane did not play. I was terrified. Jane. 0:37:49.040 --> 0:37:51.560 Yeah, skaters could hang pretty well. I can't even remember 0:37:51.600 --> 0:37:52.680 what the question is you asked me. 0:37:53.200 --> 0:37:54.319 No, no, it doesn't even matter. 0:37:56.200 --> 0:38:15.160 Sure, well, Rachel, so like I know, for me, like 0:38:16.040 --> 0:38:19.319 I was by myself like everybody else. I was very 0:38:19.400 --> 0:38:21.520 much alone in my apartment, and I was like, what 0:38:21.920 --> 0:38:22.720 were you eating? 0:38:23.040 --> 0:38:25.320 What were you doing? Were you cooking? Were you were like? 0:38:25.320 --> 0:38:29.480 Because I don't making salads. I was making salads and 0:38:29.600 --> 0:38:33.640 aperol spices every day. So lovely, that's thebody who really 0:38:33.640 --> 0:38:36.680 don't want to cook a whole lot. You know, where 0:38:36.760 --> 0:38:39.520 did you have to go to stuff parliaments? 0:38:39.760 --> 0:38:43.360 No, I actually did get into. 0:38:45.239 --> 0:38:48.720 Being an asshole. No, I actually did get very into 0:38:50.800 --> 0:38:54.279 baking because I couldn't eat anything. I like sweets a lot, 0:38:54.320 --> 0:38:56.560 but I couldn't because I was diabetic. I had all 0:38:56.560 --> 0:38:58.360 these weird new rules. So I went out and I 0:38:58.440 --> 0:39:01.239 got I like made a diabetic cake. I mean, I 0:39:01.360 --> 0:39:03.120 was real crazy at that point because I was just 0:39:03.680 --> 0:39:06.120 such a crazy feeling to be pregnant. I just remember 0:39:06.320 --> 0:39:10.080 like it felt like this like this big, like you know, scary, 0:39:10.280 --> 0:39:12.279 terrifying thing to like walk to the store and get 0:39:12.360 --> 0:39:14.920 some fucking you know big. Yeah, it felt like this 0:39:15.040 --> 0:39:15.879 defiant act. 0:39:16.120 --> 0:39:16.319 Yeah. 0:39:16.360 --> 0:39:20.479 I did watch the growing inside my body and living 0:39:20.640 --> 0:39:23.799 off of me grosses me out. I like a part 0:39:23.840 --> 0:39:26.080 of me feels like I don't know, I couldn't hear 0:39:26.160 --> 0:39:27.440 that's like, it's so nasty to me. 0:39:27.560 --> 0:39:29.880 I did not enjoy it being pregnant. I felt the 0:39:29.880 --> 0:39:31.200 same way you felt. It felt crazy. 0:39:31.320 --> 0:39:31.880 I didn't like it. 0:39:32.400 --> 0:39:35.680 The more I felt like get men, I had her like, 0:39:35.920 --> 0:39:38.160 I think because I was so full of fear the 0:39:38.200 --> 0:39:41.960 whole time, and I'd considered all the negative aspects of 0:39:42.120 --> 0:39:45.000 like I love kids, but I considered all the negative 0:39:45.000 --> 0:39:46.719 aspects of my career. And I was so full of 0:39:46.920 --> 0:39:50.759 every different potential negative scenario on top of COVID that 0:39:50.960 --> 0:39:53.960 it I was like pleasantly surprised because I think a 0:39:54.000 --> 0:39:55.680 lot of women put it on this pedestal and then 0:39:55.719 --> 0:39:58.200 when they have the baby, they like kind of fall. 0:39:58.719 --> 0:40:00.600 But I was the opposite where I was sitting there 0:40:00.640 --> 0:40:03.359 thinking of every worst case scenario. But I never liked 0:40:03.440 --> 0:40:04.200 being pregnant. 0:40:04.480 --> 0:40:06.279 You know, there was a special badge of honor to 0:40:06.360 --> 0:40:08.279 be pregnant during COVID. Y'all really good, I did. 0:40:08.320 --> 0:40:11.600 I did appreciate those looks I got, was like they 0:40:11.640 --> 0:40:12.680 felt so sorry for you. 0:40:12.880 --> 0:40:15.040 Yeah, I told me while you were like, this is 0:40:15.080 --> 0:40:16.040 the best time to be doing this. 0:40:16.520 --> 0:40:18.800 Yeah, I would hold my little gentle floral. I just 0:40:18.880 --> 0:40:20.279 do a lapper on my own block. And like a 0:40:20.400 --> 0:40:23.799 gentle flora, just so I could get a man looking 0:40:23.800 --> 0:40:27.719 at me like, oh I loved it. 0:40:27.800 --> 0:40:29.040 I loved but they'll take it. 0:40:29.239 --> 0:40:31.560 Have you spoken to Frankie about COVID? Does she know 0:40:31.640 --> 0:40:35.360 about you as funny as I've never I never had process. 0:40:35.400 --> 0:40:36.520 No, I've never told her any of that. 0:40:36.600 --> 0:40:38.160 She'll learned about it, and she'll learn about it in 0:40:38.280 --> 0:40:41.360 history class at some point if we still have history class. 0:40:41.840 --> 0:40:43.160 Yeah, I don't like, I. 0:40:43.200 --> 0:40:46.879 Don't tell her a lot about yeah, because I think 0:40:46.920 --> 0:40:49.479 also my mom, like, I mean, she's a good woman, 0:40:49.520 --> 0:40:51.000 but she would overshare with me a lot. 0:40:51.320 --> 0:40:52.839 How was your mother as a grandparent. 0:40:53.400 --> 0:40:55.560 Oh, my mom's a great grandparent. But you know, I mean, 0:40:55.719 --> 0:40:58.839 I'm like, yeah, that ship. Like Frankie said to me once, 0:40:58.920 --> 0:41:01.960 she goes, I want a toy every single day, and 0:41:02.080 --> 0:41:07.040 I go, well, life doesn't work like that. And my 0:41:07.160 --> 0:41:08.520 mom was like, tread lightly. 0:41:09.400 --> 0:41:14.319 I'm like, bitch, please, I'm want to traders brains. 0:41:14.360 --> 0:41:16.200 Grandma brain. You're like, well, it could it could be. 0:41:16.600 --> 0:41:17.480 It could be every day. 0:41:18.080 --> 0:41:19.520 Lightly. I'm like, oh my. 0:41:19.600 --> 0:41:22.040 God, please watch how you talk to my granddaughter. 0:41:22.239 --> 0:41:24.400 Yeah, we got whenever we wanted toy, we got. We 0:41:24.520 --> 0:41:27.800 went to this store and Gaither's word Maryland called toy Traders, 0:41:27.800 --> 0:41:29.359 where we had to get a used toy and bring 0:41:29.440 --> 0:41:32.640 it back to trade it in for another toy. And 0:41:33.360 --> 0:41:36.160 everything was about like activism in my family, but to 0:41:36.239 --> 0:41:38.000 a point that's like just let us enjoy being kids, 0:41:38.040 --> 0:41:39.719 you know, Like I'm like, I'm like six, I can't 0:41:39.719 --> 0:41:41.600 start watching Eyes on the Prize yet, Like it's too much. 0:41:42.320 --> 0:41:44.880 It was intense, and it was always these stories about 0:41:44.920 --> 0:41:46.880 like suffering, and you know, it's like I think that 0:41:47.360 --> 0:41:48.200 my dad wasn't like that. 0:41:48.320 --> 0:41:50.440 He was just separated his work from his home, but 0:41:50.560 --> 0:41:52.040 my mom was just every time. 0:41:52.120 --> 0:41:55.799 Because you're right, actually, you're actually. 0:41:58.640 --> 0:42:00.320 I was like I need to put this down because 0:42:00.360 --> 0:42:01.920 I really saw somebody you know what. 0:42:02.040 --> 0:42:03.000 I think You're absolutely right. 0:42:04.760 --> 0:42:06.480 Yeah, that's because that makes sense because that's how my 0:42:06.600 --> 0:42:08.760 husband is, Like he doesn't want to talk about anything 0:42:09.080 --> 0:42:11.400 because he's his day is so crazy with the emergency, 0:42:11.520 --> 0:42:12.600 Like he doesn't want to talk about that. 0:42:13.560 --> 0:42:14.479 Yeah, you're right, that's why. 0:42:14.400 --> 0:42:16.200 Your little fake seizures mean nothing. 0:42:17.680 --> 0:42:18.600 Like seizures. 0:42:19.160 --> 0:42:23.319 He's like, get out of that ship, your season, get 0:42:23.400 --> 0:42:27.439 out of my just zoomed the seventh story house along fire. 0:42:27.800 --> 0:42:28.560 I'll know if the. 0:42:30.400 --> 0:42:35.640 Calm, put your feet up, shut it up. 0:42:37.200 --> 0:42:39.319 Exactly you want my mom like. 0:42:41.920 --> 0:42:43.920 He's a then shut the funk up. 0:42:45.280 --> 0:42:46.960 People always ask like, how does he feel about what 0:42:47.000 --> 0:42:47.239 you say it? 0:42:47.280 --> 0:42:48.600 But I'm on the stage, I'm like, he doesn't give 0:42:48.640 --> 0:42:52.000 a ship. You couldn't give a funk. I'm trying to get. 0:42:53.600 --> 0:42:57.200 On the planet. Your husband. I feel like he is 0:42:57.280 --> 0:42:59.400 so I've never seen a man so unflappable. 0:43:00.040 --> 0:43:06.080 It's like bitcoins down. Oh he's got che best believe 0:43:08.640 --> 0:43:09.560 there's two wellves. 0:43:10.760 --> 0:43:13.239 But yeah, but he doesn't like you know, I came 0:43:13.280 --> 0:43:16.319 from overshares and his family. It's like, you know, yeah, 0:43:16.480 --> 0:43:19.719 nothing's ever just he has no idea what's happened to ye? 0:43:20.080 --> 0:43:21.760 Anyone's guess what's happened to my husband? 0:43:23.400 --> 0:43:26.360 That case, he's not No. 0:43:26.520 --> 0:43:29.160 He goes to Trader Joe's and he loves to small talking. 0:43:29.239 --> 0:43:30.839 It's great because he doesn't all for me on the road. 0:43:31.360 --> 0:43:33.319 He'll go to Trader Joe's and be like, you haven't 0:43:33.360 --> 0:43:35.719 met the real Trader Joe. I'm like, I will put 0:43:35.760 --> 0:43:38.960 you down like a dog. He keeps saying that cashier 0:43:39.160 --> 0:43:40.120 just hates him so much. 0:43:40.640 --> 0:43:42.560 Yeah, maybe you could try to meet them like Pete 0:43:42.640 --> 0:43:45.480 for the lock. He knows she hates him. 0:43:48.040 --> 0:43:50.120 I would meant the real traded Joe. 0:43:50.239 --> 0:43:54.959 I mean, come on, eat me stinks. I'm like stop, 0:43:55.120 --> 0:43:57.600 but no he doesn't. But my mom was like overshared. 0:43:57.640 --> 0:43:59.000 So I try not to do that with my daughter 0:43:59.000 --> 0:44:01.719 because I remember she, you know, like she picked me 0:44:01.760 --> 0:44:03.120 up from like a plate date and she was like, 0:44:03.640 --> 0:44:07.520 you know, did I tell you that missus Wexler was raped. 0:44:07.640 --> 0:44:10.880 I'm like, well, uh, I'm I'm a lever for wallet. 0:44:12.080 --> 0:44:14.239 No you didn't. And then she's like, well, it really 0:44:14.360 --> 0:44:16.799 her sex life with Roger. And I'm like and now 0:44:16.880 --> 0:44:19.160 I'll ask her about this, and I'm like, mom, why 0:44:19.200 --> 0:44:21.520 did you tell me that? I was in six? I 0:44:21.560 --> 0:44:23.480 didn't need to hear that her rape in her sex life. 0:44:23.560 --> 0:44:25.080 You had sext, you had the sex talk early with 0:44:25.800 --> 0:44:26.520 I don't know that was it. 0:44:28.400 --> 0:44:30.839 Rachel hears about this rape and now she can't get 0:44:30.880 --> 0:44:31.319 fingers on. 0:44:31.360 --> 0:44:34.960 The hill that day, like your mother, your mother? Did 0:44:35.360 --> 0:44:39.400 you what the gen z did that woman's gave me. 0:44:39.960 --> 0:44:44.600 He was like yeah, it was like I was a. 0:44:46.520 --> 0:44:49.520 You're like no, no, yeah, I was always thinking about 0:44:49.520 --> 0:44:52.560 something fucking weird trauma that wasn't She like, yeah, everything 0:44:53.760 --> 0:44:55.200 that that are words you just told me. 0:44:55.360 --> 0:44:56.759 What is that? Yeah? 0:44:56.800 --> 0:44:59.319 She always had yellow kitchen gloves on all the time, 0:44:59.360 --> 0:45:01.040 and she walking in my room and always brings something 0:45:01.080 --> 0:45:02.080 around to some tragedy. 0:45:02.520 --> 0:45:02.920 She'd be like. 0:45:03.080 --> 0:45:04.319 I'd be like, I don't feel well. 0:45:04.400 --> 0:45:06.080 She's like, well, sweetheart, I don't know if you know 0:45:06.160 --> 0:45:09.400 what this flippant administration is doing a Nicaragua right now. 0:45:09.440 --> 0:45:10.520 I'm like no, I don't know. 0:45:10.719 --> 0:45:13.719 Yeah, but everything was like she always was, was was 0:45:13.920 --> 0:45:15.719 bringing Republicans in a ship that had nothing to do 0:45:15.800 --> 0:45:17.560 with them, like we she picked me up my friend's 0:45:17.600 --> 0:45:19.960 house and her mom had like like big fake tis. 0:45:20.080 --> 0:45:23.840 My mom was like, oh, like republicans get arrest surgery. 0:45:23.920 --> 0:45:25.480 I'm like, I'm pretty sure that's kind of like a 0:45:25.640 --> 0:45:27.440 oh my god, yeah, I think that goes through. 0:45:27.719 --> 0:45:29.600 She's gonna maybe say Frankie and come back home one 0:45:29.640 --> 0:45:31.720 day and Franki's gonna know everything about the Green Party. 0:45:32.440 --> 0:45:36.000 She's gonna be so well versed, well versed because grandma 0:45:36.040 --> 0:45:37.400 and Grandma has told me something new. 0:45:37.560 --> 0:45:39.480 My mom was gonna just give her a storybook like 0:45:39.560 --> 0:45:41.560 Steve Beeko did not die Vage. It's just be all 0:45:41.600 --> 0:45:45.480 black by carried coffins. Yeah, no, she kept it really intense. 0:45:45.560 --> 0:45:47.640 So for my daughter, I want I'm like, I want 0:45:47.680 --> 0:45:50.439 it light now. My mom was, She's an amazing mom. 0:45:50.560 --> 0:45:52.640 She was a social worker. She worked like sixty hours 0:45:52.640 --> 0:45:55.520 a week. Like my parents truly care, like they're like 0:45:55.760 --> 0:45:58.759 like they're like that generation of hippies that wasn't out 0:45:58.760 --> 0:46:00.520 there telling everybody what's wrong with them and who's good 0:46:00.560 --> 0:46:03.800 and who's bad. Like they were genuinely wor white people. 0:46:04.560 --> 0:46:07.000 But yeah, but they told us some Yeah my mom, 0:46:07.239 --> 0:46:09.239 not my dad, but yeah, she would keep it. She 0:46:09.280 --> 0:46:11.640 would tell me way too much about heavy ship. So 0:46:11.760 --> 0:46:12.759 with Frankie, I. 0:46:12.920 --> 0:46:14.600 Just try to keep it late. 0:46:14.840 --> 0:46:16.960 If there's something that she doesn't I always try to 0:46:17.040 --> 0:46:19.080 keep the door open to talk about everything. You know, 0:46:19.120 --> 0:46:20.640 we do a little Rose and Thorne at the end 0:46:20.640 --> 0:46:21.120 of every day. 0:46:21.520 --> 0:46:22.480 But I don't want to tell her. 0:46:22.400 --> 0:46:25.000 About This is why I think Jane out for parents. Parents. 0:46:25.280 --> 0:46:26.880 I think because there's gonna be I think there's going 0:46:26.920 --> 0:46:28.600 to be a you're an example. I think there's going 0:46:28.680 --> 0:46:33.080 to be a return to some sort of normalcy, you know. 0:46:33.440 --> 0:46:35.360 I try to balance it where we could talk about feelings, 0:46:35.360 --> 0:46:36.920 but I'm not telling her about my ship or things 0:46:36.960 --> 0:46:39.959 that she doesn't heard, unnecessary tragedy. You know what I'm saying, 0:46:40.320 --> 0:46:42.400 Let just enjoy being a kid because. 0:46:42.120 --> 0:46:42.440 Some of that. 0:46:43.280 --> 0:46:47.080 I think this generation, because our generation did everything late late, 0:46:47.560 --> 0:46:50.200 lates of stuff, lates of kids, late everything, because we 0:46:50.280 --> 0:46:53.600 were very self indulgent, a very self indulgent generation. 0:46:53.360 --> 0:46:56.880 Of like me until yeah I can take care of I. 0:46:56.920 --> 0:46:59.680 Want, I want mine. Yeah, yeah, they're right, I gotta 0:46:59.680 --> 0:47:03.759 get mind. So we're now like the people raising these 0:47:04.040 --> 0:47:07.360 alpha kids. So I think you there will be some 0:47:07.520 --> 0:47:12.239 type of return to the real hope because we were 0:47:12.840 --> 0:47:14.480 we were fingered on on hilltop. 0:47:14.760 --> 0:47:14.960 Yeah. 0:47:15.160 --> 0:47:17.279 Actually, And I honestly believe because like we know what 0:47:17.320 --> 0:47:22.160 I'm saying, we because we I want her to be proven. 0:47:22.200 --> 0:47:22.920 I want her to be gay. 0:47:24.000 --> 0:47:26.840 Yes, nothing would be Christmas morning if she's the lesbian 0:47:26.840 --> 0:47:29.200 placed your god, I dealing with men. 0:47:29.920 --> 0:47:31.640 Sorry, I think we could. 0:47:32.160 --> 0:47:35.440 I think millennials are the perfect generation to rise kids 0:47:35.760 --> 0:47:38.560 because we remember a time pre and post internet. We 0:47:38.760 --> 0:47:40.800 know what we know what the world. We know what 0:47:41.440 --> 0:47:43.399 phones were before they we had them on our hip 0:47:43.440 --> 0:47:45.480 all the time. We know how to exist, we know 0:47:45.600 --> 0:47:48.360 how to cook, we know how to be people. J 0:47:48.680 --> 0:47:49.840 I don't know how they're gonna. 0:47:49.600 --> 0:47:52.720 Be his parents. They're gonna be their own kids. 0:47:54.600 --> 0:47:55.880 No contact with their own children. 0:47:58.200 --> 0:48:01.000 It's not supposed to go to supposed to contact with you. 0:48:02.160 --> 0:48:05.200 It's gonna be a lot of very confusing court cases. 0:48:06.440 --> 0:48:09.120 Like who is the parent? Who's the parent in this situation. 0:48:09.880 --> 0:48:11.440 They're going to be really bad parents. 0:48:12.600 --> 0:48:14.320 They're not going to be that non buyinary. 0:48:14.680 --> 0:48:15.640 Yeah yeah, j Z. 0:48:16.000 --> 0:48:17.759 I think gen z are going to be worse than 0:48:17.760 --> 0:48:20.560 boomers when they get they're gonna be You're gonna suck 0:48:20.600 --> 0:48:20.920 as old. 0:48:21.560 --> 0:48:23.560 I don't even know because they're not gonna understand that. 0:48:23.680 --> 0:48:25.560 Like when you're tired because your baby's crying, and that 0:48:25.640 --> 0:48:28.000 doesn't mean that you need to detach from the situation. 0:48:28.200 --> 0:48:30.759 Maybe doesn't understand mental health. I'm saying a boundary right 0:48:30.800 --> 0:48:33.920 now because I need a baby. I have to have 0:48:34.000 --> 0:48:36.400 to think about mental health right now. I can't. I'm like, 0:48:36.440 --> 0:48:38.000 your baby's crying, you're. 0:48:37.800 --> 0:48:39.520 Gonna be They're gonna be on the chat. 0:48:40.800 --> 0:48:45.359 My baby's crying. I think it's on the spectrum. Est Ah. 0:48:45.560 --> 0:48:46.719 You know what I don't care for if they tell 0:48:46.800 --> 0:48:49.000 the truth, whether whether I mean they tell you the 0:48:49.080 --> 0:48:50.359 truth when you're calling and said to work. 0:48:50.400 --> 0:48:52.520 It's like build a fucking old fashioned live and. 0:48:52.960 --> 0:48:55.919 Kill a relatively sad today. 0:48:55.920 --> 0:48:59.960 I'm like, I don't care. When you're as to work, 0:49:00.719 --> 0:49:02.120 then they'll then you're in trouble. 0:49:02.680 --> 0:49:05.719 I can't We're gonna call it. 0:49:07.400 --> 0:49:07.880 Grandmat. 0:49:08.960 --> 0:49:12.440 They will sue you right now, seriously. 0:49:14.080 --> 0:49:17.279 And he's going through like this whole thing at his job, 0:49:18.200 --> 0:49:20.080 and he's like, yeah, man, one of these one of 0:49:20.160 --> 0:49:23.400 these little gen Z babies got me in this bullshit. 0:49:23.800 --> 0:49:25.560 And I'm like going, I have to go through all 0:49:25.560 --> 0:49:27.520 this hr ship and he's like, I have all the proof. 0:49:28.120 --> 0:49:31.960 But basically he was her boss and he kind of 0:49:32.040 --> 0:49:35.359 reprimanded this person. And then they were like, yeah, I'm 0:49:35.400 --> 0:49:39.239 being discriminated against because I'm non binary and I'm gay. 0:49:39.400 --> 0:49:41.319 And I was like talking about homie and I said, 0:49:41.360 --> 0:49:43.239 did you know even of these things about this person? 0:49:43.280 --> 0:49:47.480 He said no, he said no, and I had nothing 0:49:47.560 --> 0:49:49.719 to I don't. I didn't care. That doesn't have anything 0:49:49.719 --> 0:49:50.880 to do with them doing their job and not do 0:49:50.920 --> 0:49:52.840 the job. He's like, so no, I did not know. 0:49:53.840 --> 0:49:56.520 But now he's in this position where. 0:49:56.480 --> 0:50:00.719 It's just fascinating case or some shit. 0:50:00.800 --> 0:50:03.800 He had no idea it was even going on Oh my, 0:50:04.120 --> 0:50:07.279 this individual all because he was like, you're not doing 0:50:07.360 --> 0:50:08.759 your job and you'd like me. 0:50:08.920 --> 0:50:09.320 To do it. 0:50:09.520 --> 0:50:12.200 No, my friend's daughter was she was like, she got 0:50:12.280 --> 0:50:16.279 accused at her school of, you know, co opting queer 0:50:16.320 --> 0:50:17.399 culture without coming out. 0:50:17.440 --> 0:50:21.440 Meanwhile, she's a lesbian. Okay, she was out coming out? 0:50:21.600 --> 0:50:22.480 She what is that? 0:50:22.600 --> 0:50:25.280 What all those words? 0:50:25.320 --> 0:50:27.759 I'm like, like lighting up a little on her. She's 0:50:27.880 --> 0:50:28.520 lesbian by the way. 0:50:28.560 --> 0:50:31.360 Her friends are just into like they're talking about exploit 0:50:31.400 --> 0:50:33.959 whatever she is. You could tell from when she was little, 0:50:34.360 --> 0:50:37.000 you know, my friend's daughter and she and she just 0:50:37.120 --> 0:50:39.960 hasn't talked about it openly, but but she's they're like 0:50:40.160 --> 0:50:41.799 saying that she's dressing by the way. 0:50:42.000 --> 0:50:43.120 But again it gets offensive. 0:50:43.160 --> 0:50:44.840 It's like being you know, it's like, how are you 0:50:44.880 --> 0:50:47.120 deciding what's gay dressing or what's not what I'm saying. 0:50:47.520 --> 0:50:49.239 But yeah, So basically they were like, you know, you 0:50:49.320 --> 0:50:50.719 need to come out if you're going to co opt 0:50:50.800 --> 0:50:51.320 queer culture. 0:50:51.600 --> 0:50:53.319 She's only real lesbian in the coup. 0:50:53.440 --> 0:50:55.000 I'm gonna say it. I'm gonna say it. 0:50:55.760 --> 0:50:59.719 Drag these kids by the like by their hair by 0:51:00.360 --> 0:51:06.160 like just just get them out of here, like where we're. 0:51:09.040 --> 0:51:12.879 Shot of style, throw them off a clips, just start over. 0:51:15.600 --> 0:51:18.080 We can move we can move down a little crazy. 0:51:18.120 --> 0:51:19.280 People are getting a little nuts. 0:51:19.480 --> 0:51:21.919 Yeah, you know if somebody messaged me back, I felt 0:51:22.040 --> 0:51:23.640 unsafe when I told a certain joke. 0:51:23.719 --> 0:51:25.319 I was like, bitch, I don't need. 0:51:25.280 --> 0:51:28.720 To know that you also a woman. You feel unsafe 0:51:28.800 --> 0:51:30.520 every day walking around. 0:51:30.680 --> 0:51:34.960 But also this idea that you're not ever supposed to 0:51:35.040 --> 0:51:36.400 feel unsafe. 0:51:36.440 --> 0:51:37.680 Exactly, that's part of what. 0:51:41.120 --> 0:51:41.759 Are you talking about? 0:51:42.080 --> 0:51:43.720 My daughter, I was like, if you're if you're scared 0:51:43.760 --> 0:51:45.800 to do something and you do it, you know that 0:51:46.160 --> 0:51:47.960 that makes you stronger. I just keep it really like 0:51:48.080 --> 0:51:50.320 simple like that, like we talk about everything. But I'm like, no, 0:51:50.400 --> 0:51:52.200 that's good, you're supposed to be And I'm always I 0:51:52.320 --> 0:51:54.040 was like always telling her, if you work hard, you 0:51:54.040 --> 0:51:54.960 get a little bit stronger. 0:51:55.080 --> 0:51:57.200 You know you're to do something. You talk to somebody. 0:51:57.280 --> 0:51:59.920 Every space is supposed to accommodate gen Zy. They think 0:52:01.360 --> 0:52:03.080 every space is supposed to comment Like. 0:52:03.080 --> 0:52:04.920 They get into a space and they're like, this space 0:52:05.040 --> 0:52:05.800 needs to suit me. 0:52:06.000 --> 0:52:08.839 There's no margin mirror, there's no margin of eraror at 0:52:08.880 --> 0:52:11.840 all types. There's no room for mistakes, there's no margin 0:52:11.960 --> 0:52:15.080 for mistakes. There's no there's no like grace, yeah, anybody 0:52:15.200 --> 0:52:15.680 like And I'm just like. 0:52:16.520 --> 0:52:19.360 On Instagram, who I cannot relate to this idea of like, 0:52:19.400 --> 0:52:20.160 oh I gotta weep. 0:52:20.320 --> 0:52:22.840 Let me go open my browser. Bro, it's like you 0:52:22.880 --> 0:52:23.759 have a private cry. 0:52:24.000 --> 0:52:25.120 That's that's nuts. 0:52:25.320 --> 0:52:26.680 I'm watching random celebrities. 0:52:27.040 --> 0:52:29.520 It's very I can't believe in you. You're checking the 0:52:29.640 --> 0:52:33.520 angle on the cry. I don't know how committed you 0:52:33.680 --> 0:52:35.080 are to what's actually going. 0:52:34.920 --> 0:52:37.319 On, or how or how bad you feel about whatever 0:52:37.360 --> 0:52:40.480 it is. I don't believe me that you want to 0:52:40.600 --> 0:52:41.279 share it with the world. 0:52:41.320 --> 0:52:42.959 But my dad is picking up ship for them because 0:52:43.000 --> 0:52:46.440 my dad on Facebook, which is the geriatric fucking yes, yeah, yes, 0:52:46.640 --> 0:52:48.200 But my dad to go on Facebook and be like, 0:52:48.360 --> 0:52:50.680 I won't be posting on Sunday. 0:52:50.719 --> 0:52:52.520 I'm gonna go to cheple with my wife and we're 0:52:52.520 --> 0:52:54.080 supposed to meet up for dinner and our friends. 0:52:54.239 --> 0:52:57.200 And my dad goes softly into the night. No one 0:52:58.200 --> 0:53:01.080 needs the announcement. Nobody's know you have tennis class at 0:53:01.120 --> 0:53:02.520 the y six followers. 0:53:03.440 --> 0:53:07.759 Facebook has truly become the retirement home. I still have one, 0:53:07.800 --> 0:53:09.839 but I learn I truly just make sure it's how 0:53:09.880 --> 0:53:11.120 I know my parents are alive. 0:53:11.560 --> 0:53:12.680 You know, my mother. 0:53:12.800 --> 0:53:15.920 Mostly I'm like, Okay, she's living, she's breathing, she's posting. 0:53:16.200 --> 0:53:16.560 It's true. 0:53:16.719 --> 0:53:19.440 People are about to die that are like in hospice 0:53:19.480 --> 0:53:20.919 and they're like, I feel like it's like a dating 0:53:20.960 --> 0:53:22.719 site for really old people, like, oh, Patty had some 0:53:22.840 --> 0:53:26.800 fat chips and I should look her up. Yeah, yeah, Facebook, 0:53:27.000 --> 0:53:28.640 fat tists. I'm just saying it's like. 0:53:28.640 --> 0:53:34.560 A dating Yeah. I think it's a dating good. I 0:53:34.640 --> 0:53:37.080 thought fat tits, Oh my god, let's go to a collar. 0:53:38.120 --> 0:53:38.839 We'll be right back. 0:53:39.520 --> 0:53:40.719 Do we want the tits fat? 0:53:41.160 --> 0:53:43.680 I mean, I mean, I guess fat tits are good, right, Like, 0:53:43.840 --> 0:53:44.719 let us know from home. 0:53:48.200 --> 0:53:50.120 I don't know if I just like I'll be like, oh, 0:53:50.200 --> 0:53:52.279 she got like some tips, so she got like some 0:53:52.480 --> 0:53:53.160 juicy tips. 0:53:53.560 --> 0:54:01.600 I mean, ass has had a there's been an ass revolution, Yeah, 0:54:01.760 --> 0:54:03.399 to the to the point where we've kind of gone 0:54:03.480 --> 0:54:06.359 overboard the BB a little it all. I think we're 0:54:06.400 --> 0:54:07.160 turning a corner. 0:54:07.760 --> 0:54:08.120 I think. 0:54:09.520 --> 0:54:13.080 As the the the ass thing is the problem. People 0:54:13.120 --> 0:54:14.360 want that kind of crazy. 0:54:14.760 --> 0:54:15.920 That's not crazy. 0:54:16.120 --> 0:54:18.520 It's kind of sick because maybe even I didn't even 0:54:18.560 --> 0:54:23.080 say maybe small tits are kind of what's happening right now? 0:54:23.120 --> 0:54:25.640 A nice perky tip, a nice perky little bo Yeah. 0:54:25.640 --> 0:54:28.640 I think it's not about size, It's just about you know, character. 0:54:28.760 --> 0:54:30.120 What the fuck am I talking about right now? 0:54:31.840 --> 0:54:32.120 So much? 0:54:33.600 --> 0:54:36.560 Now we're on a couple of stare personally, what kind. 0:54:36.400 --> 0:54:38.280 Of who the fuck do I think I have? Diane 0:54:38.320 --> 0:54:40.759 Sawyer over here? What an asshole I am? 0:54:41.600 --> 0:54:43.719 It's not it's about the character of the cans Well. 0:54:43.800 --> 0:54:47.520 Yeah, that that that had a lot to do with COVID. 0:54:48.560 --> 0:54:50.319 Sorry, we were all over the map. 0:54:50.680 --> 0:54:52.840 We did, and I'm so glad we did, and we 0:54:52.960 --> 0:54:56.000 were so happy to have had you with us today. 0:54:56.080 --> 0:54:56.759 Right, So thank you. 0:54:57.160 --> 0:54:59.239 Tell the people are wonderful. 0:55:00.080 --> 0:55:00.200 Uh. 0:55:00.840 --> 0:55:05.120 I love this buttery voice. You do have a slow 0:55:05.200 --> 0:55:05.680 jam voice. 0:55:05.719 --> 0:55:07.359 He goes into this whole thing. 0:55:07.640 --> 0:55:11.920 I took one radio TV classidge and you know your 0:55:12.080 --> 0:55:13.960 you have your mic, boy, you put it on. 0:55:14.120 --> 0:55:16.400 You know you on stage, you know you have to 0:55:16.680 --> 0:55:18.560 from a diaphragm, but into the mic. 0:55:18.640 --> 0:55:19.640 This is your drunk dialing. 0:55:20.520 --> 0:55:26.040 This at the time, the weather, in the time for today, Rachel, 0:55:26.120 --> 0:55:29.560 thank you for joining us today. Tell them every everywhere 0:55:29.600 --> 0:55:30.680 they can find you, which. 0:55:30.480 --> 0:55:34.239 You have Rachel find Steign Underscore is my Instagram. 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