WEBVTT - Second Date Update UPDATE: Age Is Just A Bummer

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<v Speaker 1>We're just riding the high right now. Thank you so

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<v Speaker 1>much again for all of your support. This Spotify wrapped

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<v Speaker 1>has got us just in the fields.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, comments, all your love. Honestly, it reminds us why

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<v Speaker 2>we do this and that is so cool.

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<v Speaker 3>So somebody asked me how many minutes I have listened to.

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<v Speaker 2>Our Yes, all of them.

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<v Speaker 3>I was like, I literally, it's not in my top

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<v Speaker 3>and they were shocked.

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<v Speaker 2>I do the show.

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<v Speaker 3>You think I go home.

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<v Speaker 4>But these people beat us because they listen back years

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<v Speaker 4>and years and years, so they actually win.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Absolutely, Well, welcome to the Second Date podcast. Thank you

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<v Speaker 1>so much for being here. Before we get to a

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<v Speaker 1>brand new update update, remember the way this works is

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<v Speaker 1>we're going to air the original time that the couple

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<v Speaker 1>was on the show, and then in part three, we're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna have them back on the phone to see what's

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<v Speaker 1>happened since, and.

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<v Speaker 4>There's gonna be a little commercial in between.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, so listen to it, you know whatever you want?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, exactly, and comment yes, Cindy said.

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<v Speaker 4>Spotify says, I'm in the top one percent of Second

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<v Speaker 4>Date Update listeners this point. I'm emotionally invested in strangers

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<v Speaker 4>who can't text back.

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<v Speaker 2>Yep, that's it. That's it. That's the whole thing.

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<v Speaker 4>Love from South Africa.

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<v Speaker 2>That's yeah, that's the other cool thing.

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<v Speaker 1>We've reached over one hundred and sixty five countries this year,

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<v Speaker 1>which is crazy.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't even know there was that many, like twenty.

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<v Speaker 4>I love looking at the list of there's like two

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<v Speaker 4>listeners in one country and I'm like, I need to

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<v Speaker 4>meet those two people.

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<v Speaker 2>Absolutely, so thank you again for being here. Your brand

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<v Speaker 2>new update update starts right now.

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<v Speaker 3>Sometimes at the end of a nice dinner date, your

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<v Speaker 3>waiter will come and say something that just makes you

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<v Speaker 3>feel both like really really good, you know, like you

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<v Speaker 3>two make a really cute couple.

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<v Speaker 5>Nice.

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<v Speaker 3>You are my favorite table tonight by far gosh, I

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<v Speaker 3>would love to secretly film YouTube kissing. That's a cute couple.

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<v Speaker 3>That's nice. Well, it went a little bit differently for

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<v Speaker 3>the people on the phone with us today. They got

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<v Speaker 3>maybe the most awkward cringe comment a server could possibly

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<v Speaker 3>say to a couple at the end of their night.

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<v Speaker 6>Wow.

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<v Speaker 3>And yet still they made it through. Wow, and they

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<v Speaker 3>are back to give us a special second date Update

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<v Speaker 3>Update day, and who knows what comment will say at

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<v Speaker 3>the end of it. You're gonna hear it right after

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<v Speaker 3>this second date update. Brooke, what's that filter that you

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<v Speaker 3>like to use on Instagram to make yourself look like

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<v Speaker 3>fifteen years younger.

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<v Speaker 2>There's no filter, sweetheart, it's just life.

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<v Speaker 3>It's the FaceTime filter that you pay extra for because

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<v Speaker 3>the live filtering on the videos that costs a lot more.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't use a filter, Jeff, Sure, yeah, FaceTime?

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<v Speaker 2>Is you mean face two? I think is actually what

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<v Speaker 2>you mean?

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>Whatever, it's broken morning the mic over there. But I

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<v Speaker 3>only bring it up because in today's second date update,

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<v Speaker 3>age was at the forefront of the conversation, at least

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<v Speaker 3>in the email that I just read from our listener, Phil.

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<v Speaker 3>And I've learn from experience if people get a little

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<v Speaker 3>spicy when you talk about age. Jeff a little bit,

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<v Speaker 3>but apparently I don't know. He is worried that it

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<v Speaker 3>may have been a factor during his date. So let's

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<v Speaker 3>talk to him, Phil, Phil, welcome to the show. Can

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<v Speaker 3>you hear me talking to the bottom part of the phone.

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<v Speaker 8>I'm not okay, So here's what happened.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, we haven't asked you that question yet. You're gonna

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<v Speaker 3>look quick.

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<v Speaker 2>Can you take us off speaker?

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<v Speaker 3>Here?

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<v Speaker 8>We goes. That's way better.

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<v Speaker 2>Good job, man can teach old dogs new trick.

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<v Speaker 3>All right, man, officially, welcome to the show. How you

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<v Speaker 3>doing today?

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<v Speaker 8>Doing good? Doing good?

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<v Speaker 2>Are you doing all of that?

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<v Speaker 3>You still like us and you even sound younger off speaking,

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<v Speaker 3>So let's go straight to your date here. Tell us

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<v Speaker 3>about the girl that you met recently. What's her name?

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<v Speaker 7>Mandy?

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<v Speaker 6>Man?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, Mandy?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, good, And I'm guessing you didn't meet Mandy on

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<v Speaker 2>that app?

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<v Speaker 8>I did meet Mayby?

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<v Speaker 3>Was it the app Coffee Meets Metamucil?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's too low.

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<v Speaker 7>No, it was tender.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I deserve that. I like Phil spicy.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, that's good, we like it. Okay, So walk us

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<v Speaker 3>through the meeting and the meet up with Mandy.

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<v Speaker 7>Yes, so we went to this really great seafood spot.

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<v Speaker 2>It's a dinner date. And what were you feeling before,

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<v Speaker 2>Henry nervous? Excited?

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah, you know, recently divorced.

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<v Speaker 7>It's been a long time since I had a first date,

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<v Speaker 7>so I'm a little nervous.

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<v Speaker 2>Congratulations like getting back out there.

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<v Speaker 8>Thank you?

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, okay, nice to hear something nice.

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<v Speaker 3>Eventually we become kind.

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<v Speaker 2>We actually got your back, Phil, We got your back.

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<v Speaker 3>That's good. So you go to the seafood restaurant where

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<v Speaker 3>food is easy to chew, and how did it go.

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<v Speaker 8>The conversation's good. There is some talk about social media. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 8>it was really interesting. She really liked the TikTok. I'm

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<v Speaker 8>more of a Facebook guy.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, I actually downloaded it. She got me, you know,

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<v Speaker 7>interested in No matter what, I'm gonna thank Mandy for that.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you guys able to connect over other things?

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 7>You know, we talked about a lot of stuff. It

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<v Speaker 7>goes really good. We talked about like our first concerts.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, I bet that was a big difference.

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<v Speaker 7>Mine was Aerosmith in eighty nine when.

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<v Speaker 8>Rock was real.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh okay, okay, and hers was in.

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<v Speaker 7>Fact ariana grande Okay, okay, age a little bit.

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<v Speaker 2>But hey, like we said, you were honest. You knew

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<v Speaker 2>what she was getting into.

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<v Speaker 3>That's good. And the fact that you're connecting is a

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<v Speaker 3>great sign. No matter what it is you're talking about.

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<v Speaker 3>As long as the conversation is going smoothly, that's perfect.

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<v Speaker 3>So take us to the end of the day. How

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<v Speaker 3>did you wrap it up?

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<v Speaker 7>So that was where it got a little embarrassing.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, how it happened.

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<v Speaker 7>A little embarrassing. The waiter came to give us our bill,

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<v Speaker 7>and then he said, we.

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<v Speaker 8>Hope you and your daughter have enjoyed this meals.

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<v Speaker 3>So now you're in a tough position because you can

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<v Speaker 3>either let it slide and just brush it off, or

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<v Speaker 3>you confront the situation head on.

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<v Speaker 2>And tell them just start making out and really, like

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<v Speaker 2>what how did you handle it?

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<v Speaker 6>Phil?

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<v Speaker 8>You know, sometimes you just have to take it on

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<v Speaker 8>the chin.

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<v Speaker 2>Did you get any read on her reaction to that moment?

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<v Speaker 3>Not really.

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<v Speaker 7>I was a little taken aback. I was a little

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<v Speaker 7>embarrassed myself.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, okay, do you think when you're out some whe

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<v Speaker 2>older you expect it?

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<v Speaker 4>Like everybody plays that game where you see a couple

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<v Speaker 4>like that out and you're like you think they're a

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<v Speaker 4>couple or.

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<v Speaker 2>Just yeah, you see people in line.

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<v Speaker 3>Sometimes it's fun to play that game.

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<v Speaker 2>So okay, okay, have you reached out to her since

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<v Speaker 2>the date?

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<v Speaker 7>I have. I just haven't heard back, And I don't

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<v Speaker 7>want to be one of those people that overtech.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, what are you doing? Are you just doing

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<v Speaker 3>straight phone calls?

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<v Speaker 7>I can text?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh really, we're acting like he's eighty five years old.

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<v Speaker 2>You've got to be in like your fifties or something,

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<v Speaker 2>right your sixties.

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<v Speaker 3>No comment, no, okay, all right, Well a lot of

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<v Speaker 3>times a good way to like reach people now is

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<v Speaker 3>through DMS.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, just but he has your number. He called a

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<v Speaker 2>radio station. He's cool enough to listen to our show.

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<v Speaker 2>We're gonna call it.

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<v Speaker 3>It's just because we're calling from a random number. She

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<v Speaker 3>might not pick up when we dial her, but maybe

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<v Speaker 3>she will. Maybe she'll give us a chance and we

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<v Speaker 3>can talk to her and hopefully get an answer for

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<v Speaker 3>why she hasn't called you back to hang out again.

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<v Speaker 3>Because you sound like a great guy.

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<v Speaker 8>Well, thanks for that. It's once again nice to hear

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<v Speaker 8>a second nice thing.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe by the end of this you'll have your whole

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<v Speaker 1>finger nice thing. You're dounting, brother.

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<v Speaker 3>We're gonna think of lots of compliments to give to

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<v Speaker 3>you and about you when we called Mandy and get

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<v Speaker 3>you your second date update right after this. Okay, all right,

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<v Speaker 3>all right, man, hold on second date update.

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<v Speaker 1>You're in the middle of a second date update update,

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<v Speaker 1>and we're gonna find out.

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<v Speaker 2>How the couple is doing right after you.

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<v Speaker 3>Here Part two, playing a little aerosmith for our listener, Phil. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>really right in honor of the very first concert that

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<v Speaker 3>he ever went to back in nineteen eighty nine. And

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<v Speaker 3>I bet he never thought back then that he'd be

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<v Speaker 3>on a hot date today with a cute girl named

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<v Speaker 3>Mandy whose first concert was Ariana Grande. A little bit

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<v Speaker 3>of an age difference there, which only came to light

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<v Speaker 3>when their waiter dropped off the bill at their table

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<v Speaker 3>and said, we hope you and your daughter enjoyed your

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<v Speaker 3>time here. So kind of an awkward moment, but hey,

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<v Speaker 3>Phil rolled with it. Unfortunately, though, he's not getting a

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<v Speaker 3>response back from Mandy afterwards. And that's where we come

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<v Speaker 3>in trying to help Phil. Every word she is.

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<v Speaker 2>Hitting him up it on TikTok, and guy, stop it.

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<v Speaker 2>He is not that old. I mean, he's rusty because

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<v Speaker 2>he was divorced. And this is just right.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, the one thing you may not understand is

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<v Speaker 1>that there's a lot of like ghosting in dating now,

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<v Speaker 1>Like it's pretty normal and.

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<v Speaker 4>Some people just like to go out for a dinner.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, that's a good point. Ptil did you know that?

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<v Speaker 8>Did I know that the thing that happened to me happens.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, it happens all the time, and you shouldn't take

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<v Speaker 1>it personally because it's not a reflection.

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<v Speaker 2>Of who you are or what you can offer in

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<v Speaker 2>a relationship.

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<v Speaker 3>That was a little spicy and phil, if we can

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<v Speaker 3>get her, I'm not going to bring up the age

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<v Speaker 3>thing at all to her unless she says it first.

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<v Speaker 8>Is that good?

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<v Speaker 3>Is that cool with you?

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 5>Well?

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<v Speaker 1>And because if it's not about the age and bring

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<v Speaker 1>it up, it shouldn't be because she again, you are

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<v Speaker 1>when you meet on a dating now you're forgetting.

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<v Speaker 3>It's not surprised.

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<v Speaker 7>I was completely truthful about it.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, good. So I'd love to hear what excuse she

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<v Speaker 3>has for not calling a great guy like you back.

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<v Speaker 3>Let's figure it out. I'm going to dial her number

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<v Speaker 3>right now. Okay, here we go. Hello, Hey, we're going

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<v Speaker 3>to talk with Mandy. This is a radio show called

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<v Speaker 3>Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. He Hi, Hey, is

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<v Speaker 3>it okay if we chat with you for a bit?

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<v Speaker 9>I guess I don't have a lot of time, but okay, okay, Well.

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<v Speaker 3>This shouldn't take long because we're doing something called a

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<v Speaker 3>second date update, and we're trying to help out one

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<v Speaker 3>of our listeners that you went out with the other night.

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<v Speaker 3>And we heard it was actually pretty.

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<v Speaker 2>Fun, fancy seafood date.

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<v Speaker 3>Mm hmmm, good conversation. Well, TikTok action with a guy

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<v Speaker 3>named Phil.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh no, not Phil, Yes, you mean, oh yes philw Like,

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<v Speaker 5>I know, Phil's a little bit bummed because you guys

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<v Speaker 5>haven't arranged a second meetup.

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<v Speaker 3>And if you don't want to, that's up to you,

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<v Speaker 3>but it would really help him out if you could

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<v Speaker 3>give an explanation for why.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I mean, remember, this is a guy who's back

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<v Speaker 1>in the dating world these lord and.

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<v Speaker 2>Some new things.

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<v Speaker 3>You have to admit he's a really nice guy, right.

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<v Speaker 1>I guess guess wasn't he nice on the date?

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<v Speaker 9>I mean, I'm into dating older guys. But Phil's picture

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<v Speaker 9>it was a lot younger than what he made it out.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, so he was older than you would normally date basically.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, so maybe he chose an older photo of himself

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<v Speaker 3>because he liked how he looked however many years ago,

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<v Speaker 3>which I think a lot of people do. But yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>I mean we spoke to him and like, his personality

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<v Speaker 3>seemed very vibrant and young.

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<v Speaker 2>Really.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, remember Brock like so was a side he's on

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<v Speaker 3>TikTok Now, Yeah, like he sounds cool.

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<v Speaker 9>Well, here's the weird thing.

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<v Speaker 10>I was showing him how to do the TikTok and

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<v Speaker 10>he basically ordered a glass of milk.

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<v Speaker 3>From that's such an old child.

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<v Speaker 10>Yeah, kid, a parogize for the battery being too low.

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<v Speaker 10>And he pulls out a full fanny pack and pack

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<v Speaker 10>from the fanny pack and he carries a super pack,

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<v Speaker 10>not just like a tiny one. It was a super

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<v Speaker 10>pack and the fanny pack.

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<v Speaker 6>Everything.

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<v Speaker 2>So he ordered milk and had a man fanny pack.

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<v Speaker 9>And then on top of all that, the waiter he

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<v Speaker 9>made a comment, like a weird comment that.

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<v Speaker 2>Was that was really embarrassing for him.

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<v Speaker 9>If I was waiting on that table, I would think

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<v Speaker 9>the same thing.

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<v Speaker 2>Not a good response in.

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<v Speaker 3>His back pocket, Old guys, we keep a tube of grease.

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<v Speaker 2>Your hair a grandfather?

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<v Speaker 3>Is he?

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<v Speaker 10>Well I don't know, but look, well he did start

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<v Speaker 10>talking about my credit score and my IRRA.

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<v Speaker 3>That's important.

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<v Speaker 9>Yeah, you're probably really did for my future. But you

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<v Speaker 9>know that's not romantic.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, Well he's just a little too get It's good

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<v Speaker 3>that you're sharing this with us, because Phil really did

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<v Speaker 3>need to hear I think some of those things because

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<v Speaker 3>you m you might not know he is on the

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<v Speaker 3>other line right now listening to this phone call many.

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<v Speaker 9>Oh my gosh, not Phil.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, no, it's it's a good thing because he really

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<v Speaker 3>did need to hear some of this stuff.

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<v Speaker 2>He's old.

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<v Speaker 3>Why to hear that, Je, he's new to online dating.

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<v Speaker 3>He needs to learn like what to do and what

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<v Speaker 3>not to do as he goes forward in.

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<v Speaker 2>The dating age brackets.

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<v Speaker 3>Going forward, Phil, talk to Mandy. She's on the phone

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<v Speaker 3>right now. You can have a conversation. Go ahead.

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<v Speaker 8>So you're making fun of a fanny pack on the radio,

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<v Speaker 8>It's not about that.

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<v Speaker 9>It was a big charger and I feel.

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<v Speaker 8>Like I like you, but it was a charger. A

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<v Speaker 8>lot can fit in that fanny.

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<v Speaker 3>Pat, Do you have it right?

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<v Speaker 5>Brooks?

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<v Speaker 3>Getting turned on.

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<v Speaker 2>Your fie pack too?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, Phil, how did you feel hearing Mandy say all

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<v Speaker 3>that just a moment ago.

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<v Speaker 8>I'm not gonna lie. It hurt a little bit. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 8>and some of that sounds a little unfair, really.

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<v Speaker 3>Part was the glass of milk cold or was it warm?

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<v Speaker 8>One glass of milk before seafood.

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<v Speaker 2>It helps with the gut, Okay, I didn't mean for

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<v Speaker 2>you to.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay it, Phil? Yeah, yeah, yeah, no, we got it,

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<v Speaker 3>we got it, We got it.

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<v Speaker 5>Phil.

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<v Speaker 3>It just sounds like maybe between you and Mandy, there

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<v Speaker 3>wasn't so much romantic feelings going on. It was more

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<v Speaker 3>like a father figure wanting to help a younger person out.

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<v Speaker 3>That was the vibe that she was getting.

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah, so what do you want?

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<v Speaker 5>Many?

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<v Speaker 7>How do How do I be more romantic towards you?

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<v Speaker 3>Shift a little? Just have to think about it differently, Mandy.

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<v Speaker 3>He's not an older guy. He's just classic.

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<v Speaker 2>He's like the most interesting man in the world.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, sexy. No, you gotta look at it in a

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<v Speaker 3>positive way, like you will never get a two am

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<v Speaker 3>hey you up text from Phil. But yeah, he'll come

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<v Speaker 3>at five thirty. But that's fine.

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<v Speaker 8>You guys are supposed to be helping me, help me

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<v Speaker 8>get a date with it.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, we're trying. So we're just gonna ask Mandy. Phil

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<v Speaker 3>seems like a really cool, nice guy, and you admit

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<v Speaker 3>yourself that you like older men.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, not that old.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, we still don't know what that number is, and

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<v Speaker 3>we would like to offer to send you out on

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<v Speaker 3>another date with Phil that we pay for.

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<v Speaker 10>Give Phil one more chance, you know what, as a wingwoman,

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<v Speaker 10>not any romance.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, you need that right now.

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<v Speaker 1>Listen, if you surround yourself with friends that are young,

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<v Speaker 1>you look younger.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, Brook know it's from experience. So there you go.

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<v Speaker 5>She hangs out with us all the time, brooking Jeffrey

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<v Speaker 5>in the morning.

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<v Speaker 3>After the call that we just heard, did anybody expect

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<v Speaker 3>to hear from Phil and Mandy again?

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, if they're friends on the phone, I expected it.

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<v Speaker 3>Date here they are, both of them are back to

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<v Speaker 3>give us an update on their life. I don't know, like,

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<v Speaker 3>are you two together now?

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<v Speaker 5>No?

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<v Speaker 9>No, no, even he said, god no, not a relationship.

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<v Speaker 3>All right, that's clear.

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<v Speaker 5>All right.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, last time we spoke to you, Mandy said she

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<v Speaker 3>wouldn't date you, Phil, but she would wing woman for you.

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<v Speaker 3>Did that happen?

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<v Speaker 5>Best wing woman I ever?

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<v Speaker 3>Best wing woman ever?

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<v Speaker 2>Really did?

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<v Speaker 10>What did she do?

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<v Speaker 3>What did you do?

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<v Speaker 2>Mandy?

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<v Speaker 9>I definitely introduced him to my aunt Sadie.

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<v Speaker 3>You introduced him to your.

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<v Speaker 5>Aunt, that's all.

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<v Speaker 3>She's rich.

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<v Speaker 2>Aunt Sadie is very wealthy. Okay, dude, that's awesome. So

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<v Speaker 2>what you hooked Phil up with your aunt?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 9>Definitely it was. I set him up really equally.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know about a wing woman. Okay, if you

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<v Speaker 3>can get a date for a friend, or if you

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<v Speaker 3>just passed her off to your aunt.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, details, Are you in a relationship with her aunt?

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<v Speaker 5>Oh yeah?

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<v Speaker 6>Oh god, answer, Oh my god, smoking hot smoking.

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<v Speaker 3>Family huh.

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<v Speaker 1>Is it awkward like in a family thing when you

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<v Speaker 1>know that you went on a date with your aunt's

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<v Speaker 1>now but boyfriend.

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<v Speaker 10>Well, as weird as it seems, are actually really cute together.

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<v Speaker 8>Exactly.

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<v Speaker 9>They came over for Thanksgiving this year and it was

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<v Speaker 9>really fun.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh wow, I bet he had his fanny pack fill

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<v Speaker 2>of pepto bismo running.

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah, Phil, you dog gotta stay prepared.

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<v Speaker 3>That's such a cute. Not the happy ending I saw coming,

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<v Speaker 3>but it's much better than when I was happy ending.

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<v Speaker 3>So congratulations.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, so all right, all right, Yeah, it's gotta be one.

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<v Speaker 3>He definitely checks out, definitely keep us updated on what

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<v Speaker 3>happens between Phil and your aunt Sadie. And yeah, that's

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<v Speaker 3>really cool.

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<v Speaker 2>Do we need more updates?

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know, Maybe just send it in like a

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<v Speaker 3>text message to