Speaker 1: We're just riding the high right now. Thank you so
Speaker 1: much again for all of your support. This Spotify wrapped
Speaker 1: has got us just in the fields.
Speaker 2: Yeah, comments, all your love. Honestly, it reminds us why
Speaker 2: we do this and that is so cool.
Speaker 3: So somebody asked me how many minutes I have listened to.
Speaker 2: Our Yes, all of them.
Speaker 3: I was like, I literally, it's not in my top
Speaker 3: and they were shocked.
Speaker 2: I do the show.
Speaker 3: You think I go home.
Speaker 4: But these people beat us because they listen back years
Speaker 4: and years and years, so they actually win.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Absolutely, Well, welcome to the Second Date podcast. Thank you
Speaker 1: so much for being here. Before we get to a
Speaker 1: brand new update update, remember the way this works is
Speaker 1: we're going to air the original time that the couple
Speaker 1: was on the show, and then in part three, we're
Speaker 1: gonna have them back on the phone to see what's
Speaker 1: happened since, and.
Speaker 4: There's gonna be a little commercial in between.
Speaker 2: Yes, so listen to it, you know whatever you want?
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, exactly, and comment yes, Cindy said.
Speaker 4: Spotify says, I'm in the top one percent of Second
Speaker 4: Date Update listeners this point. I'm emotionally invested in strangers
Speaker 4: who can't text back.
Speaker 2: Yep, that's it. That's it. That's the whole thing.
Speaker 4: Love from South Africa.
Speaker 2: That's yeah, that's the other cool thing.
Speaker 1: We've reached over one hundred and sixty five countries this year,
Speaker 1: which is crazy.
Speaker 3: I don't even know there was that many, like twenty.
Speaker 4: I love looking at the list of there's like two
Speaker 4: listeners in one country and I'm like, I need to
Speaker 4: meet those two people.
Speaker 2: Absolutely, so thank you again for being here. Your brand
Speaker 2: new update update starts right now.
Speaker 3: Sometimes at the end of a nice dinner date, your
Speaker 3: waiter will come and say something that just makes you
Speaker 3: feel both like really really good, you know, like you
Speaker 3: two make a really cute couple.
Speaker 5: Nice.
Speaker 3: You are my favorite table tonight by far gosh, I
Speaker 3: would love to secretly film YouTube kissing. That's a cute couple.
Speaker 3: That's nice. Well, it went a little bit differently for
Speaker 3: the people on the phone with us today. They got
Speaker 3: maybe the most awkward cringe comment a server could possibly
Speaker 3: say to a couple at the end of their night.
Speaker 6: Wow.
Speaker 3: And yet still they made it through. Wow, and they
Speaker 3: are back to give us a special second date Update
Speaker 3: Update day, and who knows what comment will say at
Speaker 3: the end of it. You're gonna hear it right after
Speaker 3: this second date update. Brooke, what's that filter that you
Speaker 3: like to use on Instagram to make yourself look like
Speaker 3: fifteen years younger.
Speaker 2: There's no filter, sweetheart, it's just life.
Speaker 3: It's the FaceTime filter that you pay extra for because
Speaker 3: the live filtering on the videos that costs a lot more.
Speaker 1: Don't use a filter, Jeff, Sure, yeah, FaceTime?
Speaker 2: Is you mean face two? I think is actually what
Speaker 2: you mean?
Speaker 7: Yeah?
Speaker 3: Whatever, it's broken morning the mic over there. But I
Speaker 3: only bring it up because in today's second date update,
Speaker 3: age was at the forefront of the conversation, at least
Speaker 3: in the email that I just read from our listener, Phil.
Speaker 3: And I've learn from experience if people get a little
Speaker 3: spicy when you talk about age. Jeff a little bit,
Speaker 3: but apparently I don't know. He is worried that it
Speaker 3: may have been a factor during his date. So let's
Speaker 3: talk to him, Phil, Phil, welcome to the show. Can
Speaker 3: you hear me talking to the bottom part of the phone.
Speaker 8: I'm not okay, So here's what happened.
Speaker 3: Okay, we haven't asked you that question yet. You're gonna
Speaker 3: look quick.
Speaker 2: Can you take us off speaker?
Speaker 3: Here?
Speaker 8: We goes. That's way better.
Speaker 2: Good job, man can teach old dogs new trick.
Speaker 3: All right, man, officially, welcome to the show. How you
Speaker 3: doing today?
Speaker 8: Doing good? Doing good?
Speaker 2: Are you doing all of that?
Speaker 3: You still like us and you even sound younger off speaking,
Speaker 3: So let's go straight to your date here. Tell us
Speaker 3: about the girl that you met recently. What's her name?
Speaker 7: Mandy?
Speaker 6: Man?
Speaker 3: Okay, Mandy?
Speaker 2: Okay, good, And I'm guessing you didn't meet Mandy on
Speaker 2: that app?
Speaker 8: I did meet Mayby?
Speaker 3: Was it the app Coffee Meets Metamucil?
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's too low.
Speaker 7: No, it was tender.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I deserve that. I like Phil spicy.
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's good, we like it. Okay, So walk us
Speaker 3: through the meeting and the meet up with Mandy.
Speaker 7: Yes, so we went to this really great seafood spot.
Speaker 2: It's a dinner date. And what were you feeling before,
Speaker 2: Henry nervous? Excited?
Speaker 8: Yeah, you know, recently divorced.
Speaker 7: It's been a long time since I had a first date,
Speaker 7: so I'm a little nervous.
Speaker 2: Congratulations like getting back out there.
Speaker 8: Thank you?
Speaker 7: Yeah, okay, nice to hear something nice.
Speaker 3: Eventually we become kind.
Speaker 2: We actually got your back, Phil, We got your back.
Speaker 3: That's good. So you go to the seafood restaurant where
Speaker 3: food is easy to chew, and how did it go.
Speaker 8: The conversation's good. There is some talk about social media. Yeah,
Speaker 8: it was really interesting. She really liked the TikTok. I'm
Speaker 8: more of a Facebook guy.
Speaker 7: Yeah, I actually downloaded it. She got me, you know,
Speaker 7: interested in No matter what, I'm gonna thank Mandy for that.
Speaker 2: Do you guys able to connect over other things?
Speaker 8: Yeah?
Speaker 7: You know, we talked about a lot of stuff. It
Speaker 7: goes really good. We talked about like our first concerts.
Speaker 2: Oh, I bet that was a big difference.
Speaker 7: Mine was Aerosmith in eighty nine when.
Speaker 8: Rock was real.
Speaker 3: Oh okay, okay, and hers was in.
Speaker 7: Fact ariana grande Okay, okay, age a little bit.
Speaker 2: But hey, like we said, you were honest. You knew
Speaker 2: what she was getting into.
Speaker 3: That's good. And the fact that you're connecting is a
Speaker 3: great sign. No matter what it is you're talking about.
Speaker 3: As long as the conversation is going smoothly, that's perfect.
Speaker 3: So take us to the end of the day. How
Speaker 3: did you wrap it up?
Speaker 7: So that was where it got a little embarrassing.
Speaker 2: Okay, how it happened.
Speaker 7: A little embarrassing. The waiter came to give us our bill,
Speaker 7: and then he said, we.
Speaker 8: Hope you and your daughter have enjoyed this meals.
Speaker 3: So now you're in a tough position because you can
Speaker 3: either let it slide and just brush it off, or
Speaker 3: you confront the situation head on.
Speaker 2: And tell them just start making out and really, like
Speaker 2: what how did you handle it?
Speaker 6: Phil?
Speaker 8: You know, sometimes you just have to take it on
Speaker 8: the chin.
Speaker 2: Did you get any read on her reaction to that moment?
Speaker 3: Not really.
Speaker 7: I was a little taken aback. I was a little
Speaker 7: embarrassed myself.
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, do you think when you're out some whe
Speaker 2: older you expect it?
Speaker 4: Like everybody plays that game where you see a couple
Speaker 4: like that out and you're like you think they're a
Speaker 4: couple or.
Speaker 2: Just yeah, you see people in line.
Speaker 3: Sometimes it's fun to play that game.
Speaker 2: So okay, okay, have you reached out to her since
Speaker 2: the date?
Speaker 7: I have. I just haven't heard back, And I don't
Speaker 7: want to be one of those people that overtech.
Speaker 3: You know, what are you doing? Are you just doing
Speaker 3: straight phone calls?
Speaker 7: I can text?
Speaker 1: Oh really, we're acting like he's eighty five years old.
Speaker 2: You've got to be in like your fifties or something,
Speaker 2: right your sixties.
Speaker 3: No comment, no, okay, all right, Well a lot of
Speaker 3: times a good way to like reach people now is
Speaker 3: through DMS.
Speaker 2: Yeah, just but he has your number. He called a
Speaker 2: radio station. He's cool enough to listen to our show.
Speaker 2: We're gonna call it.
Speaker 3: It's just because we're calling from a random number. She
Speaker 3: might not pick up when we dial her, but maybe
Speaker 3: she will. Maybe she'll give us a chance and we
Speaker 3: can talk to her and hopefully get an answer for
Speaker 3: why she hasn't called you back to hang out again.
Speaker 3: Because you sound like a great guy.
Speaker 8: Well, thanks for that. It's once again nice to hear
Speaker 8: a second nice thing.
Speaker 1: Maybe by the end of this you'll have your whole
Speaker 1: finger nice thing. You're dounting, brother.
Speaker 3: We're gonna think of lots of compliments to give to
Speaker 3: you and about you when we called Mandy and get
Speaker 3: you your second date update right after this. Okay, all right,
Speaker 3: all right, man, hold on second date update.
Speaker 1: You're in the middle of a second date update update,
Speaker 1: and we're gonna find out.
Speaker 2: How the couple is doing right after you.
Speaker 3: Here Part two, playing a little aerosmith for our listener, Phil. Yeah,
Speaker 3: really right in honor of the very first concert that
Speaker 3: he ever went to back in nineteen eighty nine. And
Speaker 3: I bet he never thought back then that he'd be
Speaker 3: on a hot date today with a cute girl named
Speaker 3: Mandy whose first concert was Ariana Grande. A little bit
Speaker 3: of an age difference there, which only came to light
Speaker 3: when their waiter dropped off the bill at their table
Speaker 3: and said, we hope you and your daughter enjoyed your
Speaker 3: time here. So kind of an awkward moment, but hey,
Speaker 3: Phil rolled with it. Unfortunately, though, he's not getting a
Speaker 3: response back from Mandy afterwards. And that's where we come
Speaker 3: in trying to help Phil. Every word she is.
Speaker 2: Hitting him up it on TikTok, and guy, stop it.
Speaker 2: He is not that old. I mean, he's rusty because
Speaker 2: he was divorced. And this is just right.
Speaker 1: I mean, the one thing you may not understand is
Speaker 1: that there's a lot of like ghosting in dating now,
Speaker 1: Like it's pretty normal and.
Speaker 4: Some people just like to go out for a dinner.
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, that's a good point. Ptil did you know that?
Speaker 8: Did I know that the thing that happened to me happens.
Speaker 1: Well, it happens all the time, and you shouldn't take
Speaker 1: it personally because it's not a reflection.
Speaker 2: Of who you are or what you can offer in
Speaker 2: a relationship.
Speaker 3: That was a little spicy and phil, if we can
Speaker 3: get her, I'm not going to bring up the age
Speaker 3: thing at all to her unless she says it first.
Speaker 8: Is that good?
Speaker 3: Is that cool with you?
Speaker 8: Yeah?
Speaker 5: Well?
Speaker 1: And because if it's not about the age and bring
Speaker 1: it up, it shouldn't be because she again, you are
Speaker 1: when you meet on a dating now you're forgetting.
Speaker 3: It's not surprised.
Speaker 7: I was completely truthful about it.
Speaker 3: Okay, good. So I'd love to hear what excuse she
Speaker 3: has for not calling a great guy like you back.
Speaker 3: Let's figure it out. I'm going to dial her number
Speaker 3: right now. Okay, here we go. Hello, Hey, we're going
Speaker 3: to talk with Mandy. This is a radio show called
Speaker 3: Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. He Hi, Hey, is
Speaker 3: it okay if we chat with you for a bit?
Speaker 9: I guess I don't have a lot of time, but okay, okay, Well.
Speaker 3: This shouldn't take long because we're doing something called a
Speaker 3: second date update, and we're trying to help out one
Speaker 3: of our listeners that you went out with the other night.
Speaker 3: And we heard it was actually pretty.
Speaker 2: Fun, fancy seafood date.
Speaker 3: Mm hmmm, good conversation. Well, TikTok action with a guy
Speaker 3: named Phil.
Speaker 5: Oh no, not Phil, Yes, you mean, oh yes philw Like,
Speaker 5: I know, Phil's a little bit bummed because you guys
Speaker 5: haven't arranged a second meetup.
Speaker 3: And if you don't want to, that's up to you,
Speaker 3: but it would really help him out if you could
Speaker 3: give an explanation for why.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, remember, this is a guy who's back
Speaker 1: in the dating world these lord and.
Speaker 2: Some new things.
Speaker 3: You have to admit he's a really nice guy, right.
Speaker 1: I guess guess wasn't he nice on the date?
Speaker 9: I mean, I'm into dating older guys. But Phil's picture
Speaker 9: it was a lot younger than what he made it out.
Speaker 2: Okay, so he was older than you would normally date basically.
Speaker 3: Okay, so maybe he chose an older photo of himself
Speaker 3: because he liked how he looked however many years ago,
Speaker 3: which I think a lot of people do. But yeah,
Speaker 3: I mean we spoke to him and like, his personality
Speaker 3: seemed very vibrant and young.
Speaker 2: Really.
Speaker 3: Yeah, remember Brock like so was a side he's on
Speaker 3: TikTok Now, Yeah, like he sounds cool.
Speaker 9: Well, here's the weird thing.
Speaker 10: I was showing him how to do the TikTok and
Speaker 10: he basically ordered a glass of milk.
Speaker 3: From that's such an old child.
Speaker 10: Yeah, kid, a parogize for the battery being too low.
Speaker 10: And he pulls out a full fanny pack and pack
Speaker 10: from the fanny pack and he carries a super pack,
Speaker 10: not just like a tiny one. It was a super
Speaker 10: pack and the fanny pack.
Speaker 6: Everything.
Speaker 2: So he ordered milk and had a man fanny pack.
Speaker 9: And then on top of all that, the waiter he
Speaker 9: made a comment, like a weird comment that.
Speaker 2: Was that was really embarrassing for him.
Speaker 9: If I was waiting on that table, I would think
Speaker 9: the same thing.
Speaker 2: Not a good response in.
Speaker 3: His back pocket, Old guys, we keep a tube of grease.
Speaker 2: Your hair a grandfather?
Speaker 3: Is he?
Speaker 10: Well I don't know, but look, well he did start
Speaker 10: talking about my credit score and my IRRA.
Speaker 3: That's important.
Speaker 9: Yeah, you're probably really did for my future. But you
Speaker 9: know that's not romantic.
Speaker 3: Okay, Well he's just a little too get It's good
Speaker 3: that you're sharing this with us, because Phil really did
Speaker 3: need to hear I think some of those things because
Speaker 3: you m you might not know he is on the
Speaker 3: other line right now listening to this phone call many.
Speaker 9: Oh my gosh, not Phil.
Speaker 3: Yeah, no, it's it's a good thing because he really
Speaker 3: did need to hear some of this stuff.
Speaker 2: He's old.
Speaker 3: Why to hear that, Je, he's new to online dating.
Speaker 3: He needs to learn like what to do and what
Speaker 3: not to do as he goes forward in.
Speaker 2: The dating age brackets.
Speaker 3: Going forward, Phil, talk to Mandy. She's on the phone
Speaker 3: right now. You can have a conversation. Go ahead.
Speaker 8: So you're making fun of a fanny pack on the radio,
Speaker 8: It's not about that.
Speaker 9: It was a big charger and I feel.
Speaker 8: Like I like you, but it was a charger. A
Speaker 8: lot can fit in that fanny.
Speaker 3: Pat, Do you have it right?
Speaker 5: Brooks?
Speaker 3: Getting turned on.
Speaker 2: Your fie pack too?
Speaker 3: Okay, Phil, how did you feel hearing Mandy say all
Speaker 3: that just a moment ago.
Speaker 8: I'm not gonna lie. It hurt a little bit. Yeah,
Speaker 8: and some of that sounds a little unfair, really.
Speaker 3: Part was the glass of milk cold or was it warm?
Speaker 8: One glass of milk before seafood.
Speaker 2: It helps with the gut, Okay, I didn't mean for
Speaker 2: you to.
Speaker 3: Okay it, Phil? Yeah, yeah, yeah, no, we got it,
Speaker 3: we got it, We got it.
Speaker 5: Phil.
Speaker 3: It just sounds like maybe between you and Mandy, there
Speaker 3: wasn't so much romantic feelings going on. It was more
Speaker 3: like a father figure wanting to help a younger person out.
Speaker 3: That was the vibe that she was getting.
Speaker 8: Yeah, so what do you want?
Speaker 5: Many?
Speaker 7: How do How do I be more romantic towards you?
Speaker 3: Shift a little? Just have to think about it differently, Mandy.
Speaker 3: He's not an older guy. He's just classic.
Speaker 2: He's like the most interesting man in the world.
Speaker 3: Yeah, sexy. No, you gotta look at it in a
Speaker 3: positive way, like you will never get a two am
Speaker 3: hey you up text from Phil. But yeah, he'll come
Speaker 3: at five thirty. But that's fine.
Speaker 8: You guys are supposed to be helping me, help me
Speaker 8: get a date with it.
Speaker 3: Okay, we're trying. So we're just gonna ask Mandy. Phil
Speaker 3: seems like a really cool, nice guy, and you admit
Speaker 3: yourself that you like older men.
Speaker 5: Yeah, not that old.
Speaker 3: Well, we still don't know what that number is, and
Speaker 3: we would like to offer to send you out on
Speaker 3: another date with Phil that we pay for.
Speaker 10: Give Phil one more chance, you know what, as a wingwoman,
Speaker 10: not any romance.
Speaker 2: All right, you need that right now.
Speaker 1: Listen, if you surround yourself with friends that are young,
Speaker 1: you look younger.
Speaker 3: Yeah, Brook know it's from experience. So there you go.
Speaker 5: She hangs out with us all the time, brooking Jeffrey
Speaker 5: in the morning.
Speaker 3: After the call that we just heard, did anybody expect
Speaker 3: to hear from Phil and Mandy again?
Speaker 2: I mean, if they're friends on the phone, I expected it.
Speaker 3: Date here they are, both of them are back to
Speaker 3: give us an update on their life. I don't know, like,
Speaker 3: are you two together now?
Speaker 5: No?
Speaker 9: No, no, even he said, god no, not a relationship.
Speaker 3: All right, that's clear.
Speaker 5: All right.
Speaker 3: Well, last time we spoke to you, Mandy said she
Speaker 3: wouldn't date you, Phil, but she would wing woman for you.
Speaker 3: Did that happen?
Speaker 5: Best wing woman I ever?
Speaker 3: Best wing woman ever?
Speaker 2: Really did?
Speaker 10: What did she do?
Speaker 3: What did you do?
Speaker 2: Mandy?
Speaker 9: I definitely introduced him to my aunt Sadie.
Speaker 3: You introduced him to your.
Speaker 5: Aunt, that's all.
Speaker 3: She's rich.
Speaker 2: Aunt Sadie is very wealthy. Okay, dude, that's awesome. So
Speaker 2: what you hooked Phil up with your aunt?
Speaker 5: Yeah?
Speaker 9: Definitely it was. I set him up really equally.
Speaker 3: I don't know about a wing woman. Okay, if you
Speaker 3: can get a date for a friend, or if you
Speaker 3: just passed her off to your aunt.
Speaker 2: Yeah, details, Are you in a relationship with her aunt?
Speaker 5: Oh yeah?
Speaker 6: Oh god, answer, Oh my god, smoking hot smoking.
Speaker 3: Family huh.
Speaker 1: Is it awkward like in a family thing when you
Speaker 1: know that you went on a date with your aunt's
Speaker 1: now but boyfriend.
Speaker 10: Well, as weird as it seems, are actually really cute together.
Speaker 8: Exactly.
Speaker 9: They came over for Thanksgiving this year and it was
Speaker 9: really fun.
Speaker 2: Oh wow, I bet he had his fanny pack fill
Speaker 2: of pepto bismo running.
Speaker 8: Yeah, Phil, you dog gotta stay prepared.
Speaker 3: That's such a cute. Not the happy ending I saw coming,
Speaker 3: but it's much better than when I was happy ending.
Speaker 3: So congratulations.
Speaker 2: Okay, so all right, all right, Yeah, it's gotta be one.
Speaker 3: He definitely checks out, definitely keep us updated on what
Speaker 3: happens between Phil and your aunt Sadie. And yeah, that's
Speaker 3: really cool.
Speaker 2: Do we need more updates?
Speaker 3: I don't know, Maybe just send it in like a
Speaker 3: text message to