1 00:00:07,600 --> 00:00:11,040 Speaker 1: Wind Down with Janet Kramer and I'm Heeart Radio podcast. 2 00:00:12,240 --> 00:00:15,800 Speaker 2: This week's guest episode, We've got Mama June and Lauren 3 00:00:16,079 --> 00:00:17,840 Speaker 2: coming on the show. They have a new season of 4 00:00:17,880 --> 00:00:22,360 Speaker 2: Mama June Family Crisis on we TV, so let's get 5 00:00:22,400 --> 00:00:25,640 Speaker 2: them on and hear all about it. Hey, guys, I'm Jana. 6 00:00:26,560 --> 00:00:28,160 Speaker 3: Hey, I'm good. 7 00:00:28,160 --> 00:00:30,120 Speaker 4: How are you what you want to say? 8 00:00:30,440 --> 00:00:31,280 Speaker 5: I am a big fan? 9 00:00:31,680 --> 00:00:32,159 Speaker 3: Oh? 10 00:00:32,200 --> 00:00:32,599 Speaker 6: Thank you. 11 00:00:34,120 --> 00:00:36,199 Speaker 2: That's so sweet. Did you watch One Tree Hill? Were 12 00:00:36,200 --> 00:00:37,120 Speaker 2: you a One Tree Hiller? 13 00:00:37,880 --> 00:00:38,040 Speaker 7: Hi? 14 00:00:38,400 --> 00:00:40,360 Speaker 5: Yeah, we're actually just talking about that again. 15 00:00:40,400 --> 00:00:43,440 Speaker 4: Oh really, more about your music and stuff. 16 00:00:43,640 --> 00:00:47,120 Speaker 3: Oh that's sweet. Thank you. Okay. 17 00:00:47,159 --> 00:00:49,560 Speaker 2: Well, first and foremost, I just want to ask y'all, 18 00:00:50,200 --> 00:00:51,479 Speaker 2: do you guys do therapy? 19 00:00:52,320 --> 00:00:53,160 Speaker 5: No? 20 00:00:53,159 --> 00:00:55,639 Speaker 3: No, but I have you have? Okay. 21 00:00:55,960 --> 00:00:58,920 Speaker 2: I'm just curious because there's so much that you know 22 00:00:59,560 --> 00:01:02,160 Speaker 2: from from my past that I've you know, worked through 23 00:01:02,200 --> 00:01:04,880 Speaker 2: because a lot of it comes from, right the family 24 00:01:04,959 --> 00:01:07,399 Speaker 2: dynamic of things, whether it was daddy issues or this, 25 00:01:07,520 --> 00:01:09,800 Speaker 2: and then you know the childhood wounds of all of it. 26 00:01:10,160 --> 00:01:14,760 Speaker 2: So I'm curious, you know, Lauren, for you without that, like, 27 00:01:14,800 --> 00:01:18,000 Speaker 2: where do you wrestle with the things that have happened 28 00:01:18,360 --> 00:01:20,880 Speaker 2: in the family dynamic with your mom with your dad. 29 00:01:22,040 --> 00:01:26,600 Speaker 7: Right after my mom's edation and stuff, our network actually 30 00:01:27,360 --> 00:01:29,120 Speaker 7: kind of like stepped in and was like, you have 31 00:01:29,240 --> 00:01:31,800 Speaker 7: literally been through so much, like we literally don't know 32 00:01:31,800 --> 00:01:35,280 Speaker 7: how you're handling at all. So they did offer like 33 00:01:35,360 --> 00:01:38,080 Speaker 7: therapy to us. So I went through pretty much like 34 00:01:38,720 --> 00:01:41,280 Speaker 7: I was doing it twice a week. So I grew 35 00:01:41,360 --> 00:01:43,800 Speaker 7: like a really good bond with my therapist, Like she 36 00:01:43,840 --> 00:01:45,800 Speaker 7: still reaches out to me like every once in a 37 00:01:45,880 --> 00:01:47,560 Speaker 7: while and I just kind of update her all my 38 00:01:47,640 --> 00:01:50,160 Speaker 7: life and you know. And so from now, like I 39 00:01:50,280 --> 00:01:54,040 Speaker 7: learned better tools on like how to communicate and to 40 00:01:54,160 --> 00:01:57,000 Speaker 7: not like fall back through the cracks of like how 41 00:01:57,040 --> 00:01:57,920 Speaker 7: I was raised. 42 00:01:58,520 --> 00:02:01,480 Speaker 6: Yeah, and then I also like thing throughout the show, 43 00:02:01,600 --> 00:02:04,919 Speaker 6: like we do have somebody that is always on board, 44 00:02:04,960 --> 00:02:07,440 Speaker 6: Like when Anne passed away, they have somebody and every 45 00:02:07,520 --> 00:02:10,840 Speaker 6: time every season we have somebody if we choose to 46 00:02:10,919 --> 00:02:13,519 Speaker 6: talk to them, we have that on board. 47 00:02:13,880 --> 00:02:16,000 Speaker 2: Sure, And is it for something for you, Mama Jum 48 00:02:16,040 --> 00:02:18,120 Speaker 2: where you're just like I don't want to because I 49 00:02:18,120 --> 00:02:20,239 Speaker 2: don't either believe in it or because you don't think, 50 00:02:20,320 --> 00:02:21,320 Speaker 2: like what is it? 51 00:02:21,320 --> 00:02:22,520 Speaker 4: It's not that we. 52 00:02:22,520 --> 00:02:25,400 Speaker 6: Don't believe in it, she don't think she needs it, 53 00:02:25,880 --> 00:02:28,160 Speaker 6: because honestly, I have to say, they like to call 54 00:02:28,240 --> 00:02:30,960 Speaker 6: it it come to Jesus thing a few years ago 55 00:02:31,080 --> 00:02:34,320 Speaker 6: and I started, like you said, you realize, I realize 56 00:02:34,360 --> 00:02:37,520 Speaker 6: a lot of my problems, like with the relationship with 57 00:02:37,560 --> 00:02:41,600 Speaker 6: my children, relationships with me, and came from like traumas 58 00:02:41,639 --> 00:02:45,160 Speaker 6: with my mom and so like I've kind of like 59 00:02:45,360 --> 00:02:47,440 Speaker 6: worked through that on my own kind of thing. Is 60 00:02:47,480 --> 00:02:48,919 Speaker 6: I'm just one of those times of people that don't 61 00:02:48,960 --> 00:02:50,400 Speaker 6: like to talk about my emotions. 62 00:02:50,800 --> 00:02:53,440 Speaker 3: Sure, I mean that makes sense, I guess. 63 00:02:54,080 --> 00:02:54,160 Speaker 7: So. 64 00:02:54,280 --> 00:02:55,079 Speaker 3: Then for you. 65 00:02:56,520 --> 00:02:59,040 Speaker 2: Through all of this, because you've obviously had to watch 66 00:02:59,200 --> 00:03:02,600 Speaker 2: so much of your life and your kids on TV, 67 00:03:03,280 --> 00:03:05,919 Speaker 2: is there something that and you know, like your daughter 68 00:03:06,000 --> 00:03:08,960 Speaker 2: was just talking about your drug addictions, is there something 69 00:03:09,000 --> 00:03:11,400 Speaker 2: that you would want your kids to know that maybe 70 00:03:11,400 --> 00:03:16,560 Speaker 2: you haven't told them. 71 00:03:14,520 --> 00:03:17,640 Speaker 6: Not really, because like we pretty much have been open 72 00:03:17,760 --> 00:03:21,520 Speaker 6: about like certain things, and like I've even told them, 73 00:03:21,639 --> 00:03:24,000 Speaker 6: like they call my pun to Jesus meetings, Like I've 74 00:03:24,040 --> 00:03:26,800 Speaker 6: even told them about that. Like I've even went and 75 00:03:26,880 --> 00:03:28,800 Speaker 6: said so far, like hey, I don't want you all 76 00:03:28,800 --> 00:03:32,320 Speaker 6: to wake up at like forty years old or forty one. 77 00:03:32,200 --> 00:03:34,520 Speaker 4: And say, hey, like I regret. 78 00:03:34,280 --> 00:03:38,240 Speaker 6: Like being this relationship that long, or I regret not 79 00:03:38,360 --> 00:03:40,800 Speaker 6: doing this or I were you know, I'm saying like, 80 00:03:40,840 --> 00:03:42,720 Speaker 6: so I have like been more open and like I 81 00:03:42,760 --> 00:03:45,160 Speaker 6: don't want them to like turn on like me at 82 00:03:45,200 --> 00:03:47,920 Speaker 6: like forty seven years old and being like I wish 83 00:03:48,000 --> 00:03:49,080 Speaker 6: I would have did something. 84 00:03:48,880 --> 00:03:53,480 Speaker 2: Different, right, And then to the viewers that watch it, 85 00:03:53,520 --> 00:03:56,760 Speaker 2: you know, because listen, I mean when you it's hard 86 00:03:56,800 --> 00:04:00,240 Speaker 2: because you're putting your life out there and there's so 87 00:04:00,320 --> 00:04:03,680 Speaker 2: much that has gone on. They are all the headlines. 88 00:04:04,120 --> 00:04:06,640 Speaker 2: What would you want the viewers to know who you are? 89 00:04:07,720 --> 00:04:11,160 Speaker 2: And with the people that you've I mean dated, I 90 00:04:11,200 --> 00:04:13,960 Speaker 2: mean the couple of them have been sex offenders, Like 91 00:04:13,960 --> 00:04:16,200 Speaker 2: how do you wrestle that with being a mom and 92 00:04:16,240 --> 00:04:17,080 Speaker 2: having kids? 93 00:04:17,600 --> 00:04:21,320 Speaker 6: I just don't like this, Like, okay, so the two 94 00:04:21,360 --> 00:04:27,520 Speaker 6: people that like Jessica and Pumpkins father that happened way 95 00:04:27,560 --> 00:04:30,640 Speaker 6: after we were together, and the deal with another one 96 00:04:30,640 --> 00:04:34,039 Speaker 6: of my axes I have that was like that was 97 00:04:34,160 --> 00:04:36,040 Speaker 6: that and I didn't know about that problem. 98 00:04:36,440 --> 00:04:40,680 Speaker 4: But anybody else like I have honestly dated, like that 99 00:04:40,839 --> 00:04:42,200 Speaker 4: is my past and. 100 00:04:42,279 --> 00:04:46,240 Speaker 6: They're in the past for a reason. And so I 101 00:04:46,279 --> 00:04:48,960 Speaker 6: don't like look at that person. I mean, I know 102 00:04:49,000 --> 00:04:51,560 Speaker 6: that's part of my past and that's who I am today. Sure, 103 00:04:51,960 --> 00:04:56,120 Speaker 6: but like I really don't like focus on that be like, Okay, 104 00:04:56,200 --> 00:04:57,480 Speaker 6: this is what I've done. 105 00:04:57,600 --> 00:04:59,480 Speaker 4: Like I just don't like be a dead horse. 106 00:04:59,520 --> 00:05:01,800 Speaker 6: That that make sense, because when you get out of 107 00:05:01,800 --> 00:05:03,320 Speaker 6: beta dead warce nothing. 108 00:05:03,480 --> 00:05:04,279 Speaker 3: Well, no, for sure. 109 00:05:04,320 --> 00:05:07,280 Speaker 2: And that's the same kind of thing with regrets, right, 110 00:05:07,320 --> 00:05:09,320 Speaker 2: Like even if you were like, Okay, what's one thing 111 00:05:09,360 --> 00:05:12,719 Speaker 2: you'd want to do differently? Well, you're here now, so 112 00:05:13,440 --> 00:05:15,760 Speaker 2: you know, it's kind of that kind of same. But 113 00:05:15,920 --> 00:05:18,400 Speaker 2: is there something where you're like, I wish I wouldn't 114 00:05:18,440 --> 00:05:19,359 Speaker 2: have done X. 115 00:05:20,760 --> 00:05:23,360 Speaker 6: I don't know, like I feel like everything that I've 116 00:05:23,400 --> 00:05:26,520 Speaker 6: done has happened for a reason. To be honest with you, 117 00:05:26,600 --> 00:05:29,440 Speaker 6: like maybe like I was at Chelly kids, like I 118 00:05:29,440 --> 00:05:31,760 Speaker 6: feel like I wish that maybe I hadn't have done 119 00:05:31,960 --> 00:05:33,760 Speaker 6: like drugs in front of them, or I wish I 120 00:05:33,800 --> 00:05:36,480 Speaker 6: wouldn't have had went down that alley as much as 121 00:05:36,520 --> 00:05:37,720 Speaker 6: I went down that alley. 122 00:05:38,520 --> 00:05:43,560 Speaker 4: But like other than that, like I have like no regrets. 123 00:05:43,080 --> 00:05:44,000 Speaker 5: If that makes sense. 124 00:05:44,360 --> 00:05:47,839 Speaker 2: Sure, Lauren, you were saying that I was reading an 125 00:05:47,920 --> 00:05:50,080 Speaker 2: article that in People you said that you you know, 126 00:05:50,240 --> 00:05:52,839 Speaker 2: I think the zech quos I felt we just handled 127 00:05:52,839 --> 00:05:55,000 Speaker 2: this on our own without it being blasted for millions 128 00:05:55,040 --> 00:05:57,559 Speaker 2: to see. So now that you guys have the show 129 00:05:58,040 --> 00:06:00,799 Speaker 2: where your where's your mindset around that, because it again 130 00:06:00,920 --> 00:06:03,600 Speaker 2: is going to be for everyone to have their opinions 131 00:06:03,680 --> 00:06:05,679 Speaker 2: while you guys go through what you're going through. 132 00:06:06,160 --> 00:06:07,919 Speaker 7: I mean, if we're being honest, I just kind of 133 00:06:07,920 --> 00:06:11,720 Speaker 7: feel like everybody has their own opinion, and I mean 134 00:06:13,080 --> 00:06:15,280 Speaker 7: people can believe what they want to believe. Like I 135 00:06:15,480 --> 00:06:17,880 Speaker 7: know what happened in my marriage and the reason that 136 00:06:17,920 --> 00:06:20,520 Speaker 7: it didn't last. I know how well I take care 137 00:06:20,560 --> 00:06:22,800 Speaker 7: of my kids. I know what kind of cycles that 138 00:06:22,839 --> 00:06:25,520 Speaker 7: I'm breaking, and like for me, I don't really have 139 00:06:25,600 --> 00:06:26,760 Speaker 7: to prove that to anybody. 140 00:06:26,800 --> 00:06:28,400 Speaker 5: I don't have to prove that I'm a good mom. 141 00:06:28,480 --> 00:06:31,240 Speaker 7: I don't have to prove that I did everything that 142 00:06:31,240 --> 00:06:34,039 Speaker 7: I could in my marriage before I decided, Hey, divorce 143 00:06:34,160 --> 00:06:37,200 Speaker 7: is my final say so, like I was just telling 144 00:06:37,279 --> 00:06:39,400 Speaker 7: people last week in New York, for me, you know 145 00:06:39,839 --> 00:06:43,040 Speaker 7: a lot of the times women are done way way 146 00:06:43,080 --> 00:06:46,279 Speaker 7: longer before men are, And Josh was still kind of 147 00:06:46,279 --> 00:06:49,560 Speaker 7: processing that, which one thousand percent he has the right to, 148 00:06:49,839 --> 00:06:52,400 Speaker 7: he has everything to do that. But for me, like 149 00:06:52,640 --> 00:06:55,240 Speaker 7: I have moved on and I am in a much 150 00:06:55,279 --> 00:06:58,279 Speaker 7: happier place, and I feel like, for the one time 151 00:06:58,320 --> 00:07:01,279 Speaker 7: in my life, for me, it's like I'm not having 152 00:07:01,320 --> 00:07:04,160 Speaker 7: to fix somebody else. I'm not having to fill up 153 00:07:04,160 --> 00:07:06,560 Speaker 7: somebody else's cup and then feel empty at the end 154 00:07:06,600 --> 00:07:09,960 Speaker 7: of the day, like like I genuinely feel. 155 00:07:09,960 --> 00:07:11,840 Speaker 3: Happier, you know, Yeah, no, I get that. 156 00:07:11,880 --> 00:07:13,600 Speaker 2: I mean I went through a very public divorce, tu 157 00:07:13,640 --> 00:07:16,800 Speaker 2: And it's like people, people will always have their own perception, 158 00:07:16,920 --> 00:07:19,960 Speaker 2: but you don't know what's inside the four walls besides 159 00:07:20,080 --> 00:07:22,560 Speaker 2: you exactly, you know. And I think it's it's you 160 00:07:22,560 --> 00:07:25,120 Speaker 2: can beat a dead horse saying like no, I'm a 161 00:07:25,160 --> 00:07:26,920 Speaker 2: good mom and I'm doing this and this is what happened. 162 00:07:26,920 --> 00:07:28,480 Speaker 2: This is the real truth. This is what I'm trying 163 00:07:28,520 --> 00:07:29,560 Speaker 2: to protect the kids from. 164 00:07:29,840 --> 00:07:32,040 Speaker 7: But even if you tell them real truth, they're still 165 00:07:32,080 --> 00:07:33,400 Speaker 7: going to believe what they want to believe. 166 00:07:33,480 --> 00:07:35,680 Speaker 4: So it's like, I'm not going to keep arguing with you. 167 00:07:35,800 --> 00:07:36,600 Speaker 5: I know the truth. 168 00:07:36,680 --> 00:07:38,280 Speaker 7: I know that my kids are taken care of, and 169 00:07:38,320 --> 00:07:40,280 Speaker 7: I know that again at the end of the day, 170 00:07:40,320 --> 00:07:42,440 Speaker 7: as a woman and as an adult, there was things 171 00:07:42,480 --> 00:07:44,120 Speaker 7: that I could have done differently in. 172 00:07:44,120 --> 00:07:46,720 Speaker 5: My marriage and vice versa. I'm both ends. 173 00:07:46,840 --> 00:07:50,040 Speaker 7: So for me, it's just you just make the opinion 174 00:07:50,120 --> 00:07:51,200 Speaker 7: you want to make, you know. 175 00:07:51,640 --> 00:07:56,200 Speaker 6: And all the time is like you know, they are 176 00:07:56,240 --> 00:07:58,560 Speaker 6: telling the story that they want you to know. I 177 00:07:58,600 --> 00:08:01,200 Speaker 6: mean they slung it off out there her or Josh 178 00:08:01,240 --> 00:08:03,119 Speaker 6: slung it out there just like me. If I slung 179 00:08:03,160 --> 00:08:06,200 Speaker 6: it all out there at you, y'all would be like whirlwinded. 180 00:08:06,400 --> 00:08:10,400 Speaker 6: And you know with this, I mean, y'all don't have 181 00:08:10,480 --> 00:08:13,560 Speaker 6: to know the full one truth. And I even told 182 00:08:13,560 --> 00:08:15,520 Speaker 6: her that when she decided to go and tell her 183 00:08:15,600 --> 00:08:18,200 Speaker 6: the poor story on, I said, look, you and Josh 184 00:08:18,240 --> 00:08:21,800 Speaker 6: sit down and y'all can tell whatever you know part 185 00:08:21,880 --> 00:08:23,600 Speaker 6: that y'all want to tell the world. You don't have 186 00:08:23,640 --> 00:08:25,160 Speaker 6: to tell every single detail. 187 00:08:26,160 --> 00:08:40,400 Speaker 3: No, that makes sense, Mama Dune. 188 00:08:40,440 --> 00:08:44,400 Speaker 2: Do you think that the drug use came from being 189 00:08:44,640 --> 00:08:47,760 Speaker 2: on the like having the public life that you had 190 00:08:47,880 --> 00:08:50,200 Speaker 2: and all the pressures and the comments and the was 191 00:08:50,200 --> 00:08:51,679 Speaker 2: that a source of like numbing or. 192 00:08:53,360 --> 00:08:54,280 Speaker 8: Like for me? 193 00:08:54,760 --> 00:08:57,200 Speaker 6: Like I always tell you all, I tell myself at fourteen, 194 00:08:57,240 --> 00:08:59,319 Speaker 6: I would never be on any you know, drugs or 195 00:08:59,320 --> 00:09:01,800 Speaker 6: anything like that because I have two sisters that I 196 00:09:01,880 --> 00:09:03,880 Speaker 6: had a pill addiction and boom at twenty. 197 00:09:03,920 --> 00:09:05,960 Speaker 8: I was on math and did that for four or 198 00:09:05,960 --> 00:09:06,840 Speaker 8: five years and then. 199 00:09:06,760 --> 00:09:07,719 Speaker 4: Went to cocaine. 200 00:09:08,480 --> 00:09:11,360 Speaker 6: Was I around a lot in this industry? Yes, and 201 00:09:11,400 --> 00:09:13,640 Speaker 6: you being in the industry, you know that they're at 202 00:09:13,720 --> 00:09:16,800 Speaker 6: every party. That's not a thing I don't think because 203 00:09:16,800 --> 00:09:20,560 Speaker 6: I was in this industry. But once I got in 204 00:09:20,600 --> 00:09:23,240 Speaker 6: that lifestyle, I realized that I could do more. 205 00:09:23,360 --> 00:09:26,120 Speaker 4: I could make more money, I could be more like, 206 00:09:27,000 --> 00:09:28,640 Speaker 4: I could be just, I could be more time. 207 00:09:28,679 --> 00:09:31,160 Speaker 6: They feel like I had more time to do more things. 208 00:09:31,400 --> 00:09:34,480 Speaker 5: So yes and no, if that makes sense. But as 209 00:09:34,520 --> 00:09:35,760 Speaker 5: far as noting the pain. 210 00:09:35,760 --> 00:09:38,320 Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, well I mean listen, because it's like, at 211 00:09:38,360 --> 00:09:41,360 Speaker 2: the end of the day, we're all human and it's yes, 212 00:09:41,520 --> 00:09:44,280 Speaker 2: you guys chose to put your life out there in public, 213 00:09:44,960 --> 00:09:48,960 Speaker 2: and it's not easy to read things at least you know. 214 00:09:49,080 --> 00:09:51,520 Speaker 2: I don't like seeing negative comments. It sucks, you know, 215 00:09:52,960 --> 00:09:55,480 Speaker 2: So you know, I can't even imagine. What is the 216 00:09:55,480 --> 00:09:57,679 Speaker 2: biggest misconception you want to clear. 217 00:09:58,200 --> 00:10:01,440 Speaker 7: I think the biggest misconception for me is that a 218 00:10:01,480 --> 00:10:03,000 Speaker 7: lot of people are. 219 00:10:04,000 --> 00:10:06,559 Speaker 4: Oh, you've turned off to just be just like your mom. 220 00:10:07,080 --> 00:10:11,320 Speaker 7: You're choosing me in like, no, I'm choosing myself and 221 00:10:11,360 --> 00:10:13,840 Speaker 7: I really wish people would like to see that because 222 00:10:13,880 --> 00:10:17,400 Speaker 7: for so long, like I raised my own kids, I 223 00:10:17,440 --> 00:10:20,800 Speaker 7: helped raise Lana, Like you know, now I do help 224 00:10:20,840 --> 00:10:23,079 Speaker 7: out with Kaitlyn and my mama and then and stuff 225 00:10:23,160 --> 00:10:25,720 Speaker 7: need help, like so I am always a helping hand 226 00:10:25,800 --> 00:10:28,600 Speaker 7: everywhere else. And for the first time, like I picked 227 00:10:28,679 --> 00:10:31,440 Speaker 7: myself and I'm not asking like everybody in the world 228 00:10:31,480 --> 00:10:33,760 Speaker 7: to be okay with my decision or who I'm with 229 00:10:33,960 --> 00:10:36,360 Speaker 7: or whatever, because like, I know how happy I am 230 00:10:36,360 --> 00:10:38,400 Speaker 7: at the end of the day. But for me, it's 231 00:10:38,400 --> 00:10:40,000 Speaker 7: just like everybody's like, you're just like your mom. And 232 00:10:40,040 --> 00:10:42,440 Speaker 7: if you would sit back and look at how many 233 00:10:42,480 --> 00:10:46,240 Speaker 7: like generational curses that I have broken, Like I'm actually 234 00:10:46,280 --> 00:10:48,080 Speaker 7: kind of'm proud to be standing here and being where 235 00:10:48,120 --> 00:10:48,560 Speaker 7: I am. 236 00:10:48,760 --> 00:10:51,560 Speaker 1: Sure absolutely, and I would ever have to say for 237 00:10:51,720 --> 00:10:55,400 Speaker 1: me is the worst thing that anybody says, Like if 238 00:10:55,440 --> 00:10:58,080 Speaker 1: I talk or I make a video a different way 239 00:10:58,240 --> 00:11:00,120 Speaker 1: or you know, they all. 240 00:11:00,160 --> 00:11:02,120 Speaker 6: Say, oh, well, she's using drugs. I'm five and a 241 00:11:02,160 --> 00:11:05,960 Speaker 6: half years clean, sober. I don't even smoke cigarettes, drink nothing, 242 00:11:06,360 --> 00:11:08,760 Speaker 6: And they were like, oh, she's back using drugs because 243 00:11:08,760 --> 00:11:09,800 Speaker 6: she's talking too fast. 244 00:11:10,360 --> 00:11:12,079 Speaker 5: Oh her I twitch. I'm like. 245 00:11:13,840 --> 00:11:18,119 Speaker 6: Really, like that is like the most stupidest thing anybody says. 246 00:11:18,360 --> 00:11:20,600 Speaker 2: Right, Well, and I'm and I'm sure that piece too 247 00:11:20,720 --> 00:11:23,720 Speaker 2: is it's hard because you're like, no, I am sober, 248 00:11:24,040 --> 00:11:26,320 Speaker 2: but you can't again you have to just rest in 249 00:11:26,360 --> 00:11:29,240 Speaker 2: what you know to be the truth rather than these other. 250 00:11:30,280 --> 00:11:32,800 Speaker 7: Like honestly, I'm not sure you know you've been You've 251 00:11:32,800 --> 00:11:34,880 Speaker 7: been in the public eye too, so like for you, 252 00:11:35,000 --> 00:11:37,280 Speaker 7: it's like you consistently keep saying that, like at some 253 00:11:37,400 --> 00:11:38,880 Speaker 7: point I'm going to get. 254 00:11:38,760 --> 00:11:40,679 Speaker 5: Sick of A and A and trying to defend myself. 255 00:11:40,760 --> 00:11:44,839 Speaker 2: Right, exactly, how was it taking in your sister, because 256 00:11:44,840 --> 00:11:47,480 Speaker 2: I you know, I have my girl, Savannah Crystal, you know, 257 00:11:47,520 --> 00:11:50,720 Speaker 2: she took in you know her her you know, her 258 00:11:50,760 --> 00:11:53,600 Speaker 2: brother's kids and when their parents were in prison and stuff. 259 00:11:53,640 --> 00:11:55,240 Speaker 2: But for you, was there a piece where it was 260 00:11:55,280 --> 00:11:58,000 Speaker 2: obviously that was your you know, the big sister, that 261 00:11:58,080 --> 00:12:01,200 Speaker 2: was what you did. But was there was that challenging 262 00:12:01,280 --> 00:12:03,679 Speaker 2: for you to kind of wrestle with why you were 263 00:12:03,679 --> 00:12:04,360 Speaker 2: having to do that. 264 00:12:05,920 --> 00:12:07,880 Speaker 7: Yeah, I definitely thought that that was probably one of 265 00:12:07,960 --> 00:12:11,320 Speaker 7: the biggest challenges like in my life, amongst a few 266 00:12:11,320 --> 00:12:16,360 Speaker 7: other things of course, but like managing just getting married, 267 00:12:16,640 --> 00:12:19,560 Speaker 7: managing like still trying to figure that out because we 268 00:12:19,600 --> 00:12:23,120 Speaker 7: were very young, still trying to figure out, like my 269 00:12:23,280 --> 00:12:26,800 Speaker 7: first kid, figure out how like action parent and the 270 00:12:26,880 --> 00:12:29,760 Speaker 7: right way to do things and things like that, and 271 00:12:29,800 --> 00:12:34,439 Speaker 7: then like I don't know, for me one hundred of percent, 272 00:12:34,520 --> 00:12:36,560 Speaker 7: it is like kind of hard to navigate. 273 00:12:36,720 --> 00:12:40,800 Speaker 2: You know, Yeah, that would, Yeah, I would, I would 274 00:12:40,960 --> 00:12:44,880 Speaker 2: think that so well, First of all, I am sorry 275 00:12:45,000 --> 00:12:46,880 Speaker 2: as well about your sister and your daughter. I can't 276 00:12:46,880 --> 00:12:51,480 Speaker 2: even imagine losing a child, losing a sibling, so you 277 00:12:51,480 --> 00:12:55,800 Speaker 2: know that is again I cannot even imagine that pain. 278 00:12:56,559 --> 00:12:59,400 Speaker 2: Has there been a moment And I know this is 279 00:12:59,440 --> 00:13:04,480 Speaker 2: like such a weird question, but when there is that, 280 00:13:05,800 --> 00:13:08,080 Speaker 2: I guess was there piece at the end for you 281 00:13:08,120 --> 00:13:11,680 Speaker 2: guys relationally? And then have you felt anything post like 282 00:13:11,720 --> 00:13:13,200 Speaker 2: has she come to like she has she come in 283 00:13:13,200 --> 00:13:14,000 Speaker 2: to dream of yours? 284 00:13:14,000 --> 00:13:16,120 Speaker 3: Has she done. 285 00:13:16,679 --> 00:13:17,360 Speaker 5: All the time? 286 00:13:18,280 --> 00:13:18,559 Speaker 8: Okay? 287 00:13:18,920 --> 00:13:23,800 Speaker 6: For an instance, Okay, Monday, last Monday, we got Caylen's 288 00:13:23,800 --> 00:13:24,360 Speaker 6: hair done. 289 00:13:24,440 --> 00:13:24,800 Speaker 5: Okay. 290 00:13:25,920 --> 00:13:30,439 Speaker 6: Her thing is it's sweet Little Poison, and the song pretty. 291 00:13:30,160 --> 00:13:32,760 Speaker 7: Little Sorry, Pretty Little Poison was the song. 292 00:13:32,600 --> 00:13:33,760 Speaker 5: That we played at her funeral. 293 00:13:33,760 --> 00:13:36,120 Speaker 6: Okay, and that is her song that she shows up 294 00:13:36,160 --> 00:13:39,079 Speaker 6: with every time she was talk with So Kaitlin was 295 00:13:39,080 --> 00:13:40,720 Speaker 6: getting her hair done and we was at the end 296 00:13:40,760 --> 00:13:42,720 Speaker 6: of the pointment and she was the girl was like, 297 00:13:42,800 --> 00:13:46,120 Speaker 6: you like it? And then all of a sudden there's 298 00:13:46,160 --> 00:13:50,439 Speaker 6: different music playing and putting the song displayed and it 299 00:13:50,520 --> 00:13:52,680 Speaker 6: was just like, Okay, this is your mama just telling 300 00:13:52,720 --> 00:13:55,719 Speaker 6: you that she likes her hair. Or like when her 301 00:13:55,920 --> 00:14:00,600 Speaker 6: when Caitlyn's birthday was July twenty sixth, was in Colorado, 302 00:14:00,920 --> 00:14:03,280 Speaker 6: it got me in a lot of it played three 303 00:14:03,520 --> 00:14:06,079 Speaker 6: times back to back when we were going to gearon Nelson. 304 00:14:06,480 --> 00:14:07,880 Speaker 6: It messed me in a lot of a lot of 305 00:14:07,920 --> 00:14:10,679 Speaker 6: missed the exit three times to get in Nelson because 306 00:14:10,679 --> 00:14:11,559 Speaker 6: they paid three times. 307 00:14:11,559 --> 00:14:13,760 Speaker 4: I said, Caitlyn is your moment telling you, hey, birthday. 308 00:14:14,000 --> 00:14:15,439 Speaker 4: Trust me, she shows up. 309 00:14:15,640 --> 00:14:17,000 Speaker 5: Yeah, she definitely shows up. 310 00:14:17,000 --> 00:14:19,760 Speaker 7: And one hundred percent think that like all of us 311 00:14:19,800 --> 00:14:23,720 Speaker 7: write piece because like literally everything she asked for, like 312 00:14:23,800 --> 00:14:26,480 Speaker 7: we had done, we still she asked to go. 313 00:14:26,760 --> 00:14:29,880 Speaker 5: To Gatlinburg, Tennessee, before she passed. We all went and 314 00:14:29,920 --> 00:14:31,440 Speaker 5: spent a week out there with her. 315 00:14:31,640 --> 00:14:33,960 Speaker 7: I mean she was in a wheelchair, she could hardly 316 00:14:34,000 --> 00:14:35,040 Speaker 7: really move and. 317 00:14:35,040 --> 00:14:37,600 Speaker 5: Had the ability to even do that. So like for 318 00:14:37,640 --> 00:14:39,800 Speaker 5: her to get up, we all spent time together. We 319 00:14:39,840 --> 00:14:41,080 Speaker 5: all played cards. 320 00:14:40,760 --> 00:14:44,000 Speaker 7: Together, like really in her final moments, I feel like 321 00:14:44,320 --> 00:14:46,520 Speaker 7: we done literally all that we could do. 322 00:14:47,040 --> 00:14:49,960 Speaker 3: Yeah, I love that. That's that's beautiful. Yeah. 323 00:14:49,960 --> 00:14:52,600 Speaker 2: I always just love those hearing those stories because I 324 00:14:52,640 --> 00:14:54,560 Speaker 2: believe in that. I always think every time the light 325 00:14:55,120 --> 00:14:58,880 Speaker 2: you know, like you know, twitches, it's my grandpa, you know. 326 00:14:58,920 --> 00:15:01,600 Speaker 2: So I'm always yeah, and whenever I need them, I'm like, oh, 327 00:15:01,640 --> 00:15:02,040 Speaker 2: there he is. 328 00:15:02,160 --> 00:15:05,000 Speaker 3: Hey, Hey, yeah, I know. 329 00:15:05,120 --> 00:15:09,000 Speaker 2: But so for you guys, like, what are you excited about, 330 00:15:09,400 --> 00:15:12,320 Speaker 2: because that's obviously there's been a lot of hardships and 331 00:15:12,600 --> 00:15:15,760 Speaker 2: addictions and relationships stuff like what what are you guys 332 00:15:16,560 --> 00:15:18,000 Speaker 2: like excited about for the season? 333 00:15:18,960 --> 00:15:21,480 Speaker 7: I think for this season, I am excited for people 334 00:15:21,520 --> 00:15:24,160 Speaker 7: to see a different side of me that like, even 335 00:15:24,200 --> 00:15:28,240 Speaker 7: though the bravest person in the family has kept everybody 336 00:15:28,240 --> 00:15:31,280 Speaker 7: together for seven seasons, it's okay for them to also 337 00:15:31,320 --> 00:15:33,840 Speaker 7: fall apart two because I do feel like that were 338 00:15:33,880 --> 00:15:34,960 Speaker 7: always played. 339 00:15:34,600 --> 00:15:35,760 Speaker 5: By a lot of people. 340 00:15:36,200 --> 00:15:38,080 Speaker 7: And the only reason you know, a lot of people 341 00:15:38,080 --> 00:15:40,560 Speaker 7: hear my story is because I'm on TV. But there's 342 00:15:40,600 --> 00:15:43,160 Speaker 7: a lot of people that I have known and connected 343 00:15:43,200 --> 00:15:46,320 Speaker 7: with over this time that have like, hey, a guy 344 00:15:46,320 --> 00:15:48,960 Speaker 7: I've had to raise seven of my siblings. The mom 345 00:15:49,040 --> 00:15:51,880 Speaker 7: passed away, the dad passed away. You know, it's like 346 00:15:52,000 --> 00:15:55,000 Speaker 7: and they're still doing it, but they don't get the 347 00:15:55,040 --> 00:15:58,120 Speaker 7: recognition that I get. So for me, it is wanting 348 00:15:58,160 --> 00:16:01,200 Speaker 7: to open up and share that with everybody and be like, 349 00:16:01,560 --> 00:16:03,480 Speaker 7: it's okay to not always have to. 350 00:16:03,440 --> 00:16:04,320 Speaker 5: Have it all together. 351 00:16:04,760 --> 00:16:09,040 Speaker 3: Sure, Mama June, I wasn't the same. 352 00:16:08,880 --> 00:16:09,360 Speaker 8: Thing with her. 353 00:16:09,520 --> 00:16:11,960 Speaker 4: It's yeah, you just don't have to have it all together. 354 00:16:11,680 --> 00:16:12,280 Speaker 5: All the time. 355 00:16:12,560 --> 00:16:15,360 Speaker 2: And how is your relationship? Like, what is what is 356 00:16:15,440 --> 00:16:18,840 Speaker 2: amazing about your man that you wish you would have 357 00:16:18,840 --> 00:16:21,160 Speaker 2: had in the path, Like what what is what makes 358 00:16:21,160 --> 00:16:22,840 Speaker 2: this relationship. 359 00:16:24,080 --> 00:16:24,200 Speaker 5: Like? 360 00:16:24,280 --> 00:16:26,760 Speaker 6: He is like really like good, Like with the kids, 361 00:16:26,800 --> 00:16:29,440 Speaker 6: they will definitely call him before they call me. 362 00:16:32,400 --> 00:16:33,560 Speaker 5: They definitely will. 363 00:16:34,400 --> 00:16:37,320 Speaker 2: That's sweet, and you're happy that your mom's happy, obviously 364 00:16:37,800 --> 00:16:39,480 Speaker 2: you guys. You guys walked her down the aisle. So 365 00:16:39,520 --> 00:16:42,880 Speaker 2: that's a sweet little moment there. Yes, I love that 366 00:16:42,920 --> 00:16:45,480 Speaker 2: so much. Well, ladies, thank you so much for coming on. 367 00:16:45,520 --> 00:16:49,200 Speaker 2: I really appreciate it. I'll be tuning in Mama June 368 00:16:49,200 --> 00:16:52,200 Speaker 2: Family Crisis new episodes Friday at eight pm on WE TV. 369 00:16:52,880 --> 00:16:54,960 Speaker 3: Than day, are you too? 370 00:16:55,520 --> 00:16:57,160 Speaker 2: Let's take a break, and then when we come back, 371 00:16:57,200 --> 00:17:14,879 Speaker 2: we're going to get Alana and Jessica on Hi Friends. Jessica, 372 00:17:14,880 --> 00:17:16,520 Speaker 2: I actually want to start with you, if that's okay, 373 00:17:17,000 --> 00:17:23,080 Speaker 2: because I was just reading up on your story and 374 00:17:24,040 --> 00:17:25,919 Speaker 2: I did not know that you didn't know who your 375 00:17:25,920 --> 00:17:28,040 Speaker 2: father was until you were your real father until you 376 00:17:28,040 --> 00:17:29,880 Speaker 2: went fourteen fifteen. 377 00:17:30,440 --> 00:17:31,159 Speaker 4: Oh I think. 378 00:17:31,320 --> 00:17:33,760 Speaker 9: Actually a little before that, Mama always told us who 379 00:17:33,760 --> 00:17:34,119 Speaker 9: he was. 380 00:17:34,600 --> 00:17:37,200 Speaker 4: Oh like I never met him. I didn't have a 381 00:17:37,240 --> 00:17:37,760 Speaker 4: reason to him. 382 00:17:37,760 --> 00:17:39,280 Speaker 9: And if you waited that long to try to make 383 00:17:39,320 --> 00:17:42,280 Speaker 9: a connection with me, I mean, what's the point now? 384 00:17:42,600 --> 00:17:45,800 Speaker 2: Uh huh, yeah, no that makes sense. So where okay? 385 00:17:45,880 --> 00:17:48,720 Speaker 2: So where are you at then with your relationship with 386 00:17:49,960 --> 00:17:54,160 Speaker 2: because you from the show, you were wanting sperm from 387 00:17:54,200 --> 00:17:59,000 Speaker 2: your sisters now soon to be ex husband. Is that 388 00:17:59,160 --> 00:18:01,119 Speaker 2: something where it's like is it off the table? Like 389 00:18:01,320 --> 00:18:03,840 Speaker 2: now that now that they're getting divorced, is like, is 390 00:18:03,880 --> 00:18:05,639 Speaker 2: the sperm for sure now off the table? 391 00:18:06,520 --> 00:18:08,679 Speaker 4: It's pretty much off the table. I think we're just 392 00:18:08,720 --> 00:18:11,480 Speaker 4: stuck with you know, no kids, running man, not on. 393 00:18:11,640 --> 00:18:14,960 Speaker 2: Any Would you want to go to a sperm bank 394 00:18:15,359 --> 00:18:17,000 Speaker 2: or do you want to know the person? Is that 395 00:18:17,200 --> 00:18:18,800 Speaker 2: kind of why you were going that route. 396 00:18:19,160 --> 00:18:20,560 Speaker 4: That's what it was. You wanted to kind of know 397 00:18:20,600 --> 00:18:21,080 Speaker 4: the person. 398 00:18:21,680 --> 00:18:22,560 Speaker 3: I mean that makes sense. 399 00:18:24,000 --> 00:18:25,440 Speaker 4: You don't know where people come. 400 00:18:25,280 --> 00:18:30,520 Speaker 2: From, right, No, I mean that that makes sense. And Alana, 401 00:18:30,640 --> 00:18:34,320 Speaker 2: for you, I mean you this was I mean you 402 00:18:34,400 --> 00:18:37,640 Speaker 2: grew up obviously in the spotlight. This has been your 403 00:18:37,680 --> 00:18:39,000 Speaker 2: life since. How old were you. 404 00:18:39,000 --> 00:18:42,440 Speaker 3: When you did that show? I was six six years old? 405 00:18:42,960 --> 00:18:45,480 Speaker 8: Yes, yeah, I'm now nineteen. 406 00:18:47,240 --> 00:18:51,359 Speaker 2: What has been the biggest I guess hurdle for you 407 00:18:51,880 --> 00:18:53,440 Speaker 2: doing growing up. 408 00:18:55,000 --> 00:18:55,520 Speaker 3: On TV? 409 00:18:56,840 --> 00:18:59,600 Speaker 8: I would just probably say that, like people just have 410 00:18:59,640 --> 00:19:02,480 Speaker 8: a big conception of like that I'm still that six 411 00:19:02,520 --> 00:19:05,600 Speaker 8: year old little girl, and that just kind of sucks 412 00:19:05,680 --> 00:19:06,880 Speaker 8: just because like I'm grown now. 413 00:19:07,000 --> 00:19:07,800 Speaker 5: I'm in college. 414 00:19:08,359 --> 00:19:13,480 Speaker 8: I'm almost done with college, so I mean I'm growing up. 415 00:19:13,640 --> 00:19:15,400 Speaker 8: I'm not that six year old little girl anymore. 416 00:19:15,760 --> 00:19:20,919 Speaker 2: Do you ever look back on the episodes and watch them. 417 00:19:19,280 --> 00:19:21,920 Speaker 8: Not really like when we're all together. I can say 418 00:19:21,960 --> 00:19:24,240 Speaker 8: that's probably like when we really watch them, because I 419 00:19:24,280 --> 00:19:26,560 Speaker 8: would just think it's funny. But like I see it 420 00:19:26,600 --> 00:19:29,760 Speaker 8: on TikTok or like YouTube and stuff sometimes and I'll 421 00:19:29,800 --> 00:19:31,800 Speaker 8: look it, but I don't sit there and just like 422 00:19:31,840 --> 00:19:32,639 Speaker 8: binge watch it. 423 00:19:32,960 --> 00:19:35,040 Speaker 2: Sure, Sure, I'm just curious if there was anything that 424 00:19:35,080 --> 00:19:37,520 Speaker 2: you've watched where you're like, oh, I feel sad for 425 00:19:37,600 --> 00:19:38,280 Speaker 2: that little girl. 426 00:19:38,520 --> 00:19:39,600 Speaker 5: I mean, yeah, there was. 427 00:19:39,920 --> 00:19:42,520 Speaker 8: There was definitely times for sure, and I mean it 428 00:19:42,600 --> 00:19:44,600 Speaker 8: was hard to grow up in the spotlight and just 429 00:19:44,640 --> 00:19:47,840 Speaker 8: everybody know everything about you. But I mean I did it, 430 00:19:47,960 --> 00:19:49,960 Speaker 8: and I don't think I'd want to live my life 431 00:19:50,000 --> 00:19:52,080 Speaker 8: any other way because, like, if I'm being honest, I 432 00:19:52,080 --> 00:19:54,960 Speaker 8: don't know my life outside of being on TV. So 433 00:19:55,480 --> 00:19:57,640 Speaker 8: I don't even, I guess know what a normal life 434 00:19:57,640 --> 00:19:58,280 Speaker 8: would look like. 435 00:19:58,960 --> 00:20:00,000 Speaker 3: No, I mean that makes sense. 436 00:20:00,040 --> 00:20:02,360 Speaker 2: And Jessica, for you, I mean, has was it hard 437 00:20:02,720 --> 00:20:05,159 Speaker 2: because at first it started with just obviously. 438 00:20:04,800 --> 00:20:06,439 Speaker 3: You know Alana and Mama June. 439 00:20:06,480 --> 00:20:10,439 Speaker 2: So was it something where was it difficult being just 440 00:20:10,520 --> 00:20:14,040 Speaker 2: kind of one of the sisters and them having this fame? 441 00:20:14,320 --> 00:20:14,840 Speaker 3: I guess. 442 00:20:15,080 --> 00:20:16,800 Speaker 9: I mean it was a difficult, I mean because we 443 00:20:16,840 --> 00:20:19,280 Speaker 9: all kind of got brought into it. Sure, But I 444 00:20:19,359 --> 00:20:22,119 Speaker 9: mean you just you get used to it after a while, 445 00:20:22,119 --> 00:20:23,640 Speaker 9: like it's your life. You like I want to said, 446 00:20:23,640 --> 00:20:26,600 Speaker 9: you don't know any different. Yeah, that's what you're that's 447 00:20:26,600 --> 00:20:28,840 Speaker 9: what your that's new life. 448 00:20:29,080 --> 00:20:31,760 Speaker 8: It just becomes like part of your routine. 449 00:20:31,600 --> 00:20:35,560 Speaker 2: Right, you got the money back from Dancing with the Stars, 450 00:20:36,040 --> 00:20:39,480 Speaker 2: Is there any outstanding payments that you're like, I still 451 00:20:39,520 --> 00:20:43,000 Speaker 2: feel like I'm not owed, Like I haven't been paid, 452 00:20:44,800 --> 00:20:45,480 Speaker 2: not really. 453 00:20:45,560 --> 00:20:48,920 Speaker 8: You know, I just gotta take it as a loss 454 00:20:48,920 --> 00:20:52,040 Speaker 8: and move on. You know, I'm doing really good for 455 00:20:52,119 --> 00:20:55,240 Speaker 8: myself right now, So I just, like I said, take 456 00:20:55,280 --> 00:20:56,240 Speaker 8: it as a loss of move on. 457 00:20:56,840 --> 00:21:00,000 Speaker 2: How do you deal with conflict with your mom getting 458 00:21:00,080 --> 00:21:02,200 Speaker 2: been everything that's happened for both of you, guys? 459 00:21:02,240 --> 00:21:03,719 Speaker 3: Like, how do you guys walk through that? 460 00:21:03,800 --> 00:21:07,119 Speaker 2: Obviously she's in a better place and she's but there's 461 00:21:07,320 --> 00:21:10,280 Speaker 2: you know, again, we've talked about therapy so much on here. 462 00:21:10,320 --> 00:21:13,959 Speaker 2: It's we I'm aware of what childhood wounds can do 463 00:21:14,200 --> 00:21:18,120 Speaker 2: in adult life, So how do you walk through what 464 00:21:18,160 --> 00:21:21,000 Speaker 2: you've been through because of the things that your mom did? 465 00:21:22,160 --> 00:21:24,119 Speaker 8: I think, like I said at the end of my movie, 466 00:21:24,200 --> 00:21:26,080 Speaker 8: I do love my mama, and she's my mom at 467 00:21:26,119 --> 00:21:28,440 Speaker 8: the end of the day, but I just no longer 468 00:21:28,440 --> 00:21:31,280 Speaker 8: have any expectations from her because you never know what 469 00:21:31,359 --> 00:21:32,240 Speaker 8: can happen with her. 470 00:21:33,440 --> 00:21:36,080 Speaker 5: So that's just how I just have to live life 471 00:21:36,119 --> 00:21:36,679 Speaker 5: with her, you know. 472 00:21:37,080 --> 00:21:38,879 Speaker 2: But I think that's also kind of a sad place 473 00:21:38,920 --> 00:21:41,199 Speaker 2: to be. Too though, Like, yes, it's like I do 474 00:21:41,240 --> 00:21:43,160 Speaker 2: the same thing with my dad. I don't expect him 475 00:21:43,200 --> 00:21:45,119 Speaker 2: to say the things that I would like him to 476 00:21:45,160 --> 00:21:48,760 Speaker 2: say and as and it's still sad to feel that 477 00:21:48,760 --> 00:21:50,479 Speaker 2: that's just my only expectation of it. 478 00:21:51,400 --> 00:21:54,040 Speaker 8: I mean, yeah, at times it is. But I also 479 00:21:54,200 --> 00:21:55,800 Speaker 8: like to look at where we are today. We are 480 00:21:55,800 --> 00:21:58,600 Speaker 8: in a really good spot right now. I'm very proud 481 00:21:58,640 --> 00:22:01,840 Speaker 8: of where my mom is right now. She's clean, very sober. 482 00:22:02,000 --> 00:22:04,720 Speaker 8: So where she is right now to compare to where 483 00:22:04,760 --> 00:22:07,920 Speaker 8: she was almost even two years from now, like from 484 00:22:07,920 --> 00:22:10,560 Speaker 8: where she was, I mean, I'm just proud of her. 485 00:22:11,160 --> 00:22:15,040 Speaker 9: It's just a girl like you from there. So the past, 486 00:22:15,119 --> 00:22:17,040 Speaker 9: basically the past is back there. We just got to 487 00:22:17,080 --> 00:22:18,400 Speaker 9: make it better. 488 00:22:18,560 --> 00:22:31,680 Speaker 3: Right Jessica? 489 00:22:31,760 --> 00:22:32,040 Speaker 7: For you? 490 00:22:32,119 --> 00:22:33,840 Speaker 3: What is you know? Is is it? 491 00:22:34,040 --> 00:22:34,240 Speaker 8: That? 492 00:22:34,359 --> 00:22:36,960 Speaker 2: Is it just focusing on what's kind of in front 493 00:22:36,960 --> 00:22:37,359 Speaker 2: of y'all? 494 00:22:38,000 --> 00:22:39,679 Speaker 4: Yeah, this Verden was in front of us. 495 00:22:39,720 --> 00:22:41,440 Speaker 9: I mean, the past has already got and we can't 496 00:22:41,520 --> 00:22:43,879 Speaker 9: go back and change what she done, you, you know, 497 00:22:43,920 --> 00:22:45,320 Speaker 9: we can only just make things better. 498 00:22:46,040 --> 00:22:49,200 Speaker 2: Is there anything that you would have wanted or need 499 00:22:49,680 --> 00:22:52,000 Speaker 2: to like heal a piece of anything that might still 500 00:22:52,040 --> 00:22:55,160 Speaker 2: be unhealed with you guys with y'all's relationship, Like, would 501 00:22:55,200 --> 00:22:57,480 Speaker 2: you want to hear like or has she already said 502 00:22:57,520 --> 00:22:58,800 Speaker 2: she's sorry for X, Y and Z. 503 00:22:59,480 --> 00:23:03,160 Speaker 9: She's already, She's sitting there. She told us know she's 504 00:23:03,200 --> 00:23:05,240 Speaker 9: sorry for all of the sorry. 505 00:23:05,040 --> 00:23:06,320 Speaker 5: All the time, all the time. 506 00:23:06,520 --> 00:23:08,000 Speaker 4: Definitely does say that she's sorry. 507 00:23:08,000 --> 00:23:10,600 Speaker 8: And I can one hundred percent say she's now starting 508 00:23:10,640 --> 00:23:13,439 Speaker 8: to take accountability for what she did. She tells us 509 00:23:13,480 --> 00:23:15,360 Speaker 8: all the time, she's like, Hey, I know I messed up, 510 00:23:15,400 --> 00:23:17,280 Speaker 8: but I'm trying to better myself for everyone. 511 00:23:17,440 --> 00:23:20,160 Speaker 4: Let me fix this now before out. 512 00:23:20,800 --> 00:23:22,960 Speaker 2: Well, and that's a blessing too, because listen, I mean 513 00:23:23,000 --> 00:23:25,840 Speaker 2: as a mom, like I'm constantly like, hey, guys, I'm sorry, 514 00:23:25,920 --> 00:23:27,679 Speaker 2: mom lost her ship, you know what I mean, Like 515 00:23:27,760 --> 00:23:30,200 Speaker 2: I am, I am sorry. And I think there's there's 516 00:23:30,240 --> 00:23:33,800 Speaker 2: such beauty and accountability and now instead because it could 517 00:23:33,960 --> 00:23:36,080 Speaker 2: she could not take accountability and she could continue the 518 00:23:36,080 --> 00:23:38,560 Speaker 2: things she's doing and then then there's no relationship. So 519 00:23:38,560 --> 00:23:41,000 Speaker 2: I think that's a really beautiful thing that she's given 520 00:23:41,040 --> 00:23:43,520 Speaker 2: to you all to at least have this, you know, 521 00:23:43,800 --> 00:23:44,960 Speaker 2: foundation to move forward. 522 00:23:45,200 --> 00:23:46,960 Speaker 5: Sure, yeah, it's one percent. 523 00:23:47,520 --> 00:23:50,080 Speaker 8: We're really happy that she was able to feel comfortable 524 00:23:50,160 --> 00:23:52,520 Speaker 8: enough to have like that with us, and I can't 525 00:23:52,520 --> 00:23:54,520 Speaker 8: have a lot of it to Justin. I like, Justin 526 00:23:54,560 --> 00:23:56,280 Speaker 8: definitely holds her accountable for. 527 00:23:56,520 --> 00:23:59,080 Speaker 4: You make her own to her mistakes for sure. 528 00:23:59,320 --> 00:24:02,399 Speaker 2: For sure we need good guys like that not to 529 00:24:02,440 --> 00:24:06,520 Speaker 2: bring up. And speaking of good guys, uh, Bibbs, your 530 00:24:06,640 --> 00:24:09,080 Speaker 2: your dude had a little hit and run DUI situation. 531 00:24:09,880 --> 00:24:13,160 Speaker 2: How are you dealing with backlash of that, because that 532 00:24:13,240 --> 00:24:16,320 Speaker 2: seems like a lot of trouble and people are look 533 00:24:16,359 --> 00:24:17,919 Speaker 2: elson also want to look out for you. 534 00:24:18,880 --> 00:24:21,320 Speaker 4: Yes, one hundred percent. 535 00:24:21,480 --> 00:24:23,959 Speaker 8: And I think at the end of the day, Dreylen 536 00:24:24,000 --> 00:24:26,480 Speaker 8: one hundred percent did wrong and he will admit to 537 00:24:26,560 --> 00:24:28,679 Speaker 8: that any day that he did wrong and he should 538 00:24:28,680 --> 00:24:29,960 Speaker 8: have never did what he did. 539 00:24:30,800 --> 00:24:32,040 Speaker 5: But and I'm also not. 540 00:24:31,920 --> 00:24:34,240 Speaker 8: Trying to justify it, but he was young. I think 541 00:24:34,280 --> 00:24:37,399 Speaker 8: he just made a dumb mistake. He's definitely learned from it, 542 00:24:37,560 --> 00:24:41,440 Speaker 8: he knows that to never do that again. And I mean, 543 00:24:41,760 --> 00:24:43,760 Speaker 8: at the end of the day, I mean, you're young, 544 00:24:43,840 --> 00:24:46,320 Speaker 8: You're dumb, and I mean you make mistakes. 545 00:24:46,400 --> 00:24:47,560 Speaker 5: Not everybody's perfect. 546 00:24:47,680 --> 00:24:51,280 Speaker 8: And he's now doing what he needs to do to 547 00:24:51,359 --> 00:24:55,240 Speaker 8: handle his situation. And I'm very proud of how far 548 00:24:55,280 --> 00:24:56,920 Speaker 8: he's come from when. 549 00:24:56,720 --> 00:24:59,720 Speaker 2: He did that, and for you in this relationship, is 550 00:24:59,760 --> 00:25:03,280 Speaker 2: there are there red flags or things that if he 551 00:25:03,359 --> 00:25:05,560 Speaker 2: does break this boundary, like you're like, I'm out. I'm 552 00:25:05,560 --> 00:25:07,439 Speaker 2: not dealing with this because you are. You have a 553 00:25:07,520 --> 00:25:11,680 Speaker 2: very forgiving heart, given for sure sure your entire life. 554 00:25:11,800 --> 00:25:14,639 Speaker 2: And so there's also a piece where you know you 555 00:25:14,960 --> 00:25:18,480 Speaker 2: are now coming into being strong and older. So what 556 00:25:18,720 --> 00:25:20,720 Speaker 2: would be like a deal breaker like I'm out. 557 00:25:21,000 --> 00:25:25,280 Speaker 8: I definitely think there are boundaries. I definitely make sure 558 00:25:25,320 --> 00:25:29,639 Speaker 8: that he holds himself accountable for sure. I like, I 559 00:25:29,640 --> 00:25:31,800 Speaker 8: don't I guess like if the boundaries would be like 560 00:25:32,119 --> 00:25:33,720 Speaker 8: if he didn't want to show up to court, like no, 561 00:25:33,800 --> 00:25:35,600 Speaker 8: I'm out, Like I'm not gonna bit a man that 562 00:25:35,600 --> 00:25:37,160 Speaker 8: doesn't want to show up to court or that wants 563 00:25:37,240 --> 00:25:40,320 Speaker 8: to go and run, you know. But he hasn't done that. 564 00:25:40,400 --> 00:25:43,679 Speaker 8: He's been very very like on time to his coordinate. 565 00:25:43,720 --> 00:25:45,760 Speaker 8: It's been there every single time he needs to be there. 566 00:25:46,160 --> 00:25:49,240 Speaker 8: Make sure he's like good with his lawyer. So I mean, 567 00:25:49,920 --> 00:25:53,280 Speaker 8: he hasn't broken any boundaries, but I there definitely are boundaries, 568 00:25:53,320 --> 00:25:57,080 Speaker 8: and if they were to be overstep, there's definitely things 569 00:25:57,119 --> 00:25:57,640 Speaker 8: like if. 570 00:25:57,560 --> 00:26:04,720 Speaker 3: He cheats you're out. Oh peace, babe, peace good. 571 00:26:05,240 --> 00:26:06,879 Speaker 5: That's not me. That is not me. 572 00:26:07,200 --> 00:26:09,359 Speaker 2: Yeah, listen, I'll tell you right now, you're gonna be 573 00:26:09,359 --> 00:26:10,480 Speaker 2: stuck in that wheel forever. 574 00:26:10,640 --> 00:26:11,439 Speaker 3: You don't get out of that. 575 00:26:11,640 --> 00:26:15,680 Speaker 2: So for sure, learn take my lessons. Let me big 576 00:26:15,720 --> 00:26:18,040 Speaker 2: Mama you right now, I'm taking your lessons. Okay, don't 577 00:26:18,040 --> 00:26:20,439 Speaker 2: do that? Does it go for you? What are you 578 00:26:20,640 --> 00:26:22,919 Speaker 2: excited about? The pe for people to see this season? 579 00:26:24,000 --> 00:26:27,159 Speaker 9: Just that we all we're all real, are real people, 580 00:26:27,320 --> 00:26:29,760 Speaker 9: like some people think that we're not who would say 581 00:26:29,800 --> 00:26:31,800 Speaker 9: we are. We don't go through things they go through. 582 00:26:32,080 --> 00:26:34,200 Speaker 9: We all go through the same thing, even though we're 583 00:26:34,240 --> 00:26:34,680 Speaker 9: on TV. 584 00:26:35,400 --> 00:26:36,560 Speaker 4: Our life's not perfect. 585 00:26:36,960 --> 00:26:40,919 Speaker 3: Yes, yeah, amen to that. Same with you, Alanna. 586 00:26:41,600 --> 00:26:43,080 Speaker 4: Yeah, I would probably say that to you. 587 00:26:43,119 --> 00:26:45,560 Speaker 8: A lot of people just get the misconception of like 588 00:26:45,600 --> 00:26:49,639 Speaker 8: we're just these rich, famous celebrities. And it's like, I mean, 589 00:26:49,680 --> 00:26:51,439 Speaker 8: I'm not gonna say I'm poor, but I'm not going 590 00:26:51,520 --> 00:26:53,520 Speaker 8: to say I'm rich either, you know sure. 591 00:26:54,359 --> 00:26:56,600 Speaker 2: I mean, listen, you're a college girl. You guys are 592 00:26:56,640 --> 00:26:59,880 Speaker 2: all doing your thing, and so thank you for coming. 593 00:27:00,200 --> 00:27:03,800 Speaker 2: Appreciate y'all and everyone make sure to watch Mama June 594 00:27:03,800 --> 00:27:06,359 Speaker 2: Family Crisis, New episodes Friday at eight pm on wee TV. 595 00:27:06,600 --> 00:27:09,640 Speaker 2: Thanks ladies, thank you all right, appreciate y'all. 596 00:27:10,040 --> 00:27:11,880 Speaker 3: Bye bye, bye bye by