WEBVTT - Conversations About Boundaries

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<v Speaker 1>Watch up and welcome back to another episode of No

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<v Speaker 1>Sealers Podcast with your hosts now fuck that with your

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<v Speaker 1>low glasses Malone. So tell me how would a tutorial work.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean any tutorial it's.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean they tell you what to do step by step, like.

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<v Speaker 4>You know they haven't in Cosmo too that you know,

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<v Speaker 4>it'll be something like, yeah, how to pleasure your man,

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<v Speaker 4>how to pleasure your.

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<v Speaker 2>Pleasure your man's lower region. I don't know, you know

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<v Speaker 2>exactly yeah, yeah, yeah, but you know it would be

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<v Speaker 2>like I can imagine, you know, be like step by

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<v Speaker 2>step number one, oh ship, she's about to go down

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<v Speaker 2>the line. Just it's you know, no, you do be numbered,

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<v Speaker 2>like make sure that what they're warm, or you cup them,

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<v Speaker 2>I mean cup them, make sure you gently.

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<v Speaker 1>So women read instructions. That's like in women's books Cosmo,

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<v Speaker 1>Cosmo will have like how to give hand tutorious.

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<v Speaker 2>They would have they would have something yeah, or what

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<v Speaker 2>would please your man or new things that you know,

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<v Speaker 2>stuff like that.

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<v Speaker 3>How to what is that called peg?

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<v Speaker 1>That's just ridiculous. Don't know that. You're just.

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<v Speaker 2>He's a real g right there, because I don't even

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<v Speaker 2>want listen.

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<v Speaker 1>I just found out what that was last week you

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<v Speaker 1>just gave. But I can't believe they made a title

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<v Speaker 1>for being gay. Listen, swing that back to you, just.

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<v Speaker 2>Because this makes me upset every time I think of it.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm noting my man. Listen, my man's gonna fuck me.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not fucking him that type of ship. I'm not

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<v Speaker 2>inserting anything into my man. I just don't don't feel

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<v Speaker 2>right or comfortable, and I'm not going to do it.

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<v Speaker 2>And it's cool if you like it that and you

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<v Speaker 2>find someone that will love to do that to you.

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<v Speaker 2>But I didn't even like strapping on and fucking my girl,

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<v Speaker 2>So I'm definitely not gonna fuck up a man.

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<v Speaker 1>I told you I had to get excited the first

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<v Speaker 1>time you did it. You thought you was like one

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<v Speaker 1>of us.

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<v Speaker 3>I told you.

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<v Speaker 2>Let me tell you man, thank you jeez that you

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<v Speaker 2>guys have that power, because I did not know what

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<v Speaker 2>to do with that power.

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<v Speaker 3>That was a whole lot of you. Was like whoa,

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<v Speaker 3>it was really exciting.

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<v Speaker 2>It was weird at one moment. At one point it

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<v Speaker 2>was like oh ship, Like oh she liked that ship.

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<v Speaker 2>But at the same time it was like, oh, like

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<v Speaker 2>this is really weird.

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<v Speaker 1>What's crazy is when you see women doing it like

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<v Speaker 1>you know, you've seen lesbian porn and shit, they have

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<v Speaker 1>no stroke. Oh, they just be back there like a nigga,

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<v Speaker 1>like like a like a seventeen sixteen year old boy, right,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean, just hunching on somebody like yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and then they be trying to look and it's like

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<v Speaker 1>you gotta feel for it. You feel me, and you

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<v Speaker 1>gotta have a feel for it's a feel for it.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just weird.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, Yes, the rhythm, rhythm.

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<v Speaker 1>It's an underrated rhythm, and you gotta find it sometimes,

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<v Speaker 1>like you have to really work your best on finding it, yep.

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<v Speaker 2>And if you can't, then that y'all are not a

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<v Speaker 2>match because eventually, if you really, if y'all both really

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<v Speaker 2>want to find that rhythm, you will. But if it's

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<v Speaker 2>just like chaotic from the time you start to end

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<v Speaker 2>and you still can't get it together, then it's just

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<v Speaker 2>not y'all don't have that a chemistry.

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<v Speaker 4>So you think sex is the driving factor in the relationship, No.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think that sex is overrated, but I agree

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<v Speaker 2>with you. I think that sex is overrated because if

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<v Speaker 2>you're giving me the things that I really really need

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<v Speaker 2>and want. I'm that's like the sex is like the

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<v Speaker 2>cherry on the top for me, Like I want, like

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<v Speaker 2>if everything you doing everything nice, I'm just ooh, let's go.

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<v Speaker 2>But I don't know. It's just a cherry on the

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<v Speaker 2>top for me.

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<v Speaker 1>But it's not the driving well because like right when

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<v Speaker 1>you become when you get with somebody like you start

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<v Speaker 1>figuring out more ways to be intimate with them. It

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<v Speaker 1>don't just become reduced down to like it's weird. Because

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<v Speaker 1>I was talking to the homegirl Nia the other day

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<v Speaker 1>and she was saying it like she was like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, don't nobody got no business. Don't know, woman

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<v Speaker 1>got no business doing wifely duties for somebody that's not

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<v Speaker 1>their husband. And I'm like, well, what's wifey duty? She

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<v Speaker 1>was like, oh, cooking and cleaning. I'm like, well, if

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<v Speaker 1>you think about it, that shit is backwards. The only

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<v Speaker 1>wifey duty is fucking like if you you know, on

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<v Speaker 1>normal circumstances you grow up cook, your mom is showing

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<v Speaker 1>you how to nurture your family in the future, maybe

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<v Speaker 1>cook for your children. She's teaching you how she gives

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<v Speaker 1>you chores so you can learn how to clean up correctly.

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<v Speaker 1>Like you pretty much do wifey duties. If that was

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<v Speaker 1>the case your whole life. The one thing you're not

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<v Speaker 1>supposed to be doing is fucking. Fucking is the only

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<v Speaker 1>wifey duties. And we're in such a weird, like parallel universe,

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<v Speaker 1>like we're really in the upside down, just because it's

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<v Speaker 1>like people like, well, I just want to fuck him,

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<v Speaker 1>but I don't want to cook him clean. And I'm like, like,

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<v Speaker 1>people hit me back off our podcast and I was

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<v Speaker 1>like yeah. She was like, you really think we shouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>put out And I'm like, no, bro, Like, if you

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<v Speaker 1>want to see if this nigga fuck, go cooking some

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<v Speaker 1>shit that's going to determine y'all. You know y'all chemistry,

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<v Speaker 1>go clean, Like, go pick up a load of his

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<v Speaker 1>laundry and watch him. She's like, man, that just seemed

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<v Speaker 1>like such work. And I'm like, oh, you're talking about

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<v Speaker 1>fucking this nigga.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah it wasn't.

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<v Speaker 2>I think that they think like it's not as much work,

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<v Speaker 2>but honestly, you're giving yourself to someone.

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<v Speaker 3>It should be the.

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<v Speaker 2>Old But I think they're thinking of it as working,

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<v Speaker 2>like I'm doing all this work for what You're not,

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<v Speaker 2>My dude, Like you're not my husband.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but it's really that's like I'm saying, it's changing

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<v Speaker 1>a tire work if you've been changing tires your whole life, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't feel like changing a tire is work. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I'm saying. I don't feel like that.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't feel like taking out the trash.

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<v Speaker 2>You're giving too much like I'm doing all of this

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<v Speaker 2>I'm giving, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>I think that's what I think. That's what's wrong with

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<v Speaker 1>their minds, right, I think their minds are messed up.

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<v Speaker 1>Because if you think cooking a meal is more work

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<v Speaker 1>than giving up your physical and soulful energy and experience,

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<v Speaker 1>you are severely fucked up. And I know that we

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<v Speaker 1>severely fucked up until time.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, do y'all always what I always say, I

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<v Speaker 2>hate it here. I always say that because everything to

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<v Speaker 2>me is just ass backwards. Everything is just like what

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<v Speaker 2>is going on? I can't deal with it. And sometimes

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<v Speaker 2>that's probably why, like I just hang out with y'all

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<v Speaker 2>and I don't really go on social media stuff like that,

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<v Speaker 2>because I feel like once I go on social media, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>the whole energy just shift. My damn, because I wouldn't

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<v Speaker 2>even know any of that was going on to fight

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<v Speaker 2>and go look or be you.

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<v Speaker 1>Know, we had a dope. I had a conversation with

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<v Speaker 1>Sallas earlier today and I was telling him shout out

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<v Speaker 1>to Salas whatever, gulse, but I was telling him, like

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<v Speaker 1>some fun facts about content, and it's important that we're

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<v Speaker 1>talking about this. One day of social media is the

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<v Speaker 1>equivalent you take in enough, you taking enough content as

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<v Speaker 1>four real days. Oh wow, think about it. On social media.

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<v Speaker 1>You can see three motherfuckers die, you can see a

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<v Speaker 1>motherfucker get raped. You can see a shark eater person.

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<v Speaker 1>You could see a woman shaking her ass like you

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<v Speaker 1>could see this diversity, and one single day you can

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<v Speaker 1>get instructured, a lot of cook food, you could get

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<v Speaker 1>some girls somebody arguing about learning everything in one fucking day.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what I'm saying. And I was so to

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<v Speaker 1>your point. It's like when I look and I'm like, damn,

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<v Speaker 1>this shit is moving so fast, but it's not really

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<v Speaker 1>moving fast at all, Like it feels like it's moving fast,

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<v Speaker 1>but it's not. It's the same day, so you have

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<v Speaker 1>less people accomplishing true goals. Everybody is just looking the

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<v Speaker 1>part like they're accomplishing shit, but they're not really accomplishing.

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<v Speaker 3>Anything because that you get carried away.

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<v Speaker 4>I know, I've been on social media and I look

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<v Speaker 4>up and it's been like two hours. So that's why

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<v Speaker 4>I'm like, I can't even you're just scrolling. You're just

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<v Speaker 4>on it, and that's just idle time, like you could

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<v Speaker 4>be doing something else.

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<v Speaker 2>So yeah, it's and it's crazy because they say you

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<v Speaker 2>have to really be involved with it. But at the

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<v Speaker 2>same time, if you're not putting in the work as

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<v Speaker 2>far as like he said, working like the content and

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<v Speaker 2>doing the things that you need to do, it's just like, Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>you're not doing it. It don't work.

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<v Speaker 1>No ceilings, Yeah, ceilings, bread, what's adding that Red was adding?

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<v Speaker 1>I got you all in on the off day because

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<v Speaker 1>it's gonna be crazy trying to create all its content.

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<v Speaker 1>It's goin to be next level. So thank you all

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<v Speaker 1>for working with my schedule.

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<v Speaker 2>Man.

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<v Speaker 1>I really want to pick it up, you know what

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, Like my leg was hurt half of the year.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like I gotta can start controlling. I gotta start

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<v Speaker 1>controlling the swelling because it's going to I think at

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<v Speaker 1>this point it's going to swell forever. Really like not

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<v Speaker 1>all the time. But I think certain things is just

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<v Speaker 1>gonna make it swell.

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<v Speaker 4>It's like when you you have too much salt in

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<v Speaker 4>your ankle, swell up.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but oh yeah, I just want to tell you diet.

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<v Speaker 1>Well I've been I've been eating one time a day,

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<v Speaker 1>like even my in and out. I had a flying Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>a flying Dutchman is the onion, the grill onion topping autumn.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, how how was you eating and holding it?

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<v Speaker 1>Now? You just hold it like a burger.

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<v Speaker 2>You have to be careful of that g because inflammation

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<v Speaker 2>comes from like salt and like sugar and stuff like that.

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<v Speaker 2>So although you didn't have the carbs or whatnot, you

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<v Speaker 2>still are like that meat.

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<v Speaker 1>The white people don't use no sighing.

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<v Speaker 3>In and out BM meat, it's.

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<v Speaker 1>In and out. Do not see?

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<v Speaker 3>How much water are you drinking?

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<v Speaker 1>A gallon a day?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay?

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<v Speaker 1>Well I drink roughly. I drink roughly. I drink roughly

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<v Speaker 1>eighteen ounces every hour. So if I'm up ten hours,

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<v Speaker 1>I end up taking in one hundred and eighty ounces

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<v Speaker 1>of water, which is a gallon.

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<v Speaker 3>So how you feel like on that? Like, how's that

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<v Speaker 3>been going?

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<v Speaker 1>I lost more than twenty pounds? You know what. It

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<v Speaker 1>gives me greater focus. Like I hear people refer to

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<v Speaker 1>it as like an intermittent fasting. But honestly, I think

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<v Speaker 1>I told you this. I read it in a book

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<v Speaker 1>that Elijah Muhammad wrote called How To Eat to Live All.

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<v Speaker 1>Like my older brother, my older Cam, this is my

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<v Speaker 1>brother since I've been before I start rapping, you know

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<v Speaker 1>what I mean. And his younger brother, YB. That's my

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<v Speaker 1>little brother. And if you see these niggas, these niggas

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<v Speaker 1>skin be glowing. Cam is probably seventy. He looked like

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<v Speaker 1>he fucking thirty six.

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<v Speaker 3>When I seen him, his skin was glowing.

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<v Speaker 2>It was like wow, yeah, oh yeah, his freaking skin

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<v Speaker 2>is amazing.

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<v Speaker 1>That nigga might be ninety seven.

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<v Speaker 2>No, he is not that old.

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<v Speaker 1>I tell you. The nigga looked like he's thirty. So yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>they they made me read this book and they're the

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<v Speaker 1>niggas that broke me off, pork. I made a bet

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<v Speaker 1>with them that you know, I didn't grow up Muslim, right.

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<v Speaker 1>I grew up roughly Christian, not primarily because nobody took

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<v Speaker 1>us to church. But you know, if you're an American,

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<v Speaker 1>you pretty much standard come with Christian values and they

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<v Speaker 1>were telling me in the book and the Bible. They

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<v Speaker 1>was like, yo, you're not supposed to eat pork. It

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<v Speaker 1>says that even in the Bible. I'm like no, or

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<v Speaker 1>don't like. I'm thinking like I'd have been to way

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<v Speaker 1>too many Christian events and church events and ship niggas

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<v Speaker 1>got hog malls and ship and I'm like, nigga, no way.

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<v Speaker 1>Everybody just ain't breaking rule. He like, Nigga, I'm telling you,

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<v Speaker 1>they just breaking the rules because of how they interpret

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<v Speaker 1>what Jesus talked about in the New Testament. I'm like, no, sir.

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<v Speaker 1>And he showed it to me in Leviticus and we bet.

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<v Speaker 1>He's like, well, bet if I if I show it

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<v Speaker 1>to you, you wanna eat port. And it's so funny

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<v Speaker 1>because me and here used to go to Chili's every

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<v Speaker 1>week and get like they used to have this maple

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<v Speaker 1>apple bacon and it's these big pieces of bacon. We

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<v Speaker 1>would just get a lot of them, just bacon ship

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<v Speaker 1>one day of the week. And we lost that bet

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<v Speaker 1>and me and him never ate bacon again. Me and

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<v Speaker 1>dj Haad never ate bacon after that bet. Damn Like

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<v Speaker 1>we lost the bet, so we never Scripture is that

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<v Speaker 1>it's in Leviticus. I'll find it for you. But it's

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<v Speaker 1>it's it's dope.

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<v Speaker 2>Because listen, they're not stating it. And now I'm all

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<v Speaker 2>that I wasn't. I didn't eat red meat for a

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<v Speaker 2>long as time, and then when the pandemic hit, it

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<v Speaker 2>was bored. It was bored. We started looking at the recipes.

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<v Speaker 2>Me agent was making food every day like everything, Oh,

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<v Speaker 2>we're gonna try it is tonight. Hey. We had fun.

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<v Speaker 2>People was hating. We had a lot of fun doing

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<v Speaker 2>the pandemic.

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<v Speaker 1>We didn't well because you really get to see who

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<v Speaker 1>you like and who you didn't like.

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<v Speaker 3>We got to be we knew what we always.

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<v Speaker 1>Know what I'm saying, but you really get to see

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<v Speaker 1>how much you like somebody.

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<v Speaker 2>That's so true.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just you and them, and you get to see

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<v Speaker 1>if you can exist. The pandemic broke a lot of.

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<v Speaker 3>That's that's how That's how.

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<v Speaker 2>Me and my man got so close because we were

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<v Speaker 2>together all the time, that's right. So it was like, okay, wow,

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<v Speaker 2>I think our first was your birthday when we went

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<v Speaker 2>during the pandemic where we actually it's like fixed with

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<v Speaker 2>people and we were still scared, but we still we

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<v Speaker 2>was like we were like that we a airbnb and

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<v Speaker 2>we just had a good time and wee it was good.

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<v Speaker 2>It was it was nice.

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<v Speaker 1>So I wanted to talk to you about boundaries, boundaries, boundaries.

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<v Speaker 2>Talk about this, talk about it.

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<v Speaker 1>I was looking at some shit social media and they

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<v Speaker 1>were talking about boundaries between like a couple. I think

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<v Speaker 1>they were married, and I'm like, I thought that was

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<v Speaker 1>just so crazy to have a boundary between married couples.

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm like, well, you know, if you think of

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<v Speaker 1>the kind of the the idea behind boundaries using them

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<v Speaker 1>in like this human space that we use them in,

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<v Speaker 1>it would to it would signify that the properties are different, right,

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<v Speaker 1>it would signify that there were two separate sets of

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<v Speaker 1>you know, like boundaries of a property. Right. But if

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<v Speaker 1>you guys are together, how do you set boundaries in

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<v Speaker 1>a relationship, in a marriage, a marriage, a relationship, any

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<v Speaker 1>of the above. Because if you playing house, y'all married, right, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>I see that a lot right now? Oh you know

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<v Speaker 1>what if he not married? You single?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, wait, so let's go into the actual what they

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<v Speaker 2>say boundaries a line that marks the limits of an area,

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<v Speaker 2>a divided line, or a limit of a subject. So yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>line that marks the limits of an area.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's like properties.

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<v Speaker 3>So boundaries in a marriage, I.

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<v Speaker 2>Mean, so personal boundaries are the limits and rules we

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<v Speaker 2>set for ourselves within relationships.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, but that don't make sense. Like this is

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<v Speaker 1>one of those things that I'm saying, our conflicting ideas

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<v Speaker 1>to the general concept.

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<v Speaker 4>Of being in a relationship or being married.

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<v Speaker 1>What's a lot of things like that, you know what

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, we're talking about this one specifically, Like how

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<v Speaker 1>do you have personal boundaries in a true marriage or relationship?

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<v Speaker 1>Like the point is you become one.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, I know you can become one, but that don't

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<v Speaker 2>mean you lose yourself though.

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<v Speaker 1>G I think the point is to submerge yourself into

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<v Speaker 1>someone else. I think that's the point of the merger itself.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe that's why I ain't fucking married. I gotta submerge myself.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I think that's the point of it, right.

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<v Speaker 2>Asking is that where I'm what I'm missing? I gotta

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<v Speaker 2>submerge myself. You were getting ready to tell him something.

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<v Speaker 2>You let him switch you what you were going to say?

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<v Speaker 2>You got me drinking? I p A. I will never drink.

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<v Speaker 1>I p A's first, it's not like a beer.

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<v Speaker 2>It's well we're trying a beer. It's an actual it's

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<v Speaker 2>a banana, I pa, that's why I want to try it.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh yeah, somebody say, I don't remember now.

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<v Speaker 1>Just because Okay, so this is what you were saying.

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<v Speaker 1>You were saying something about, you know, personal boundaries in

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<v Speaker 1>a relationship.

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<v Speaker 3>So I don't lose yourself.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you don't want to lose yourself.

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<v Speaker 1>I think the point of a relationship or a marriage

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<v Speaker 1>is to lose yourself.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, So I'm gonna tell you this, and you tell

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<v Speaker 2>me if that means. I don't really know, so my

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<v Speaker 2>I just give this example. So my grandparents, right, my

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<v Speaker 2>grandpa's a really like laid back, chill dude, don't really

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<v Speaker 2>like to go out of like that. My grandmother was

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<v Speaker 2>more of like she liked to travels, you know, stuff

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<v Speaker 2>like that, but she always maintained the household, do the

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<v Speaker 2>things that he liked, like makes his favorite meals or whatever.

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<v Speaker 2>If she's gonna go somewhere, she's packing up meal, prepping everything,

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<v Speaker 2>make sure he has everything he needs before she leaves.

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<v Speaker 2>But she's gonna go and he didn't care. But that

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<v Speaker 2>was something that they self like. It was him.

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<v Speaker 1>That's not really a boundary.

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<v Speaker 2>Though, But I'm just saying, but it was separate lives, though.

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<v Speaker 4>The boundary would be like, okay, so when she's out, okay, well,

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<v Speaker 4>personal boundary against them.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay.

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<v Speaker 4>So I guess if she's out and she's entertaining someone

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<v Speaker 4>else or that's that's.

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<v Speaker 1>Not a personal boundary, And that's what I'm saying. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>that's my point.

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<v Speaker 4>I'd be like, don't come in the bathroom when I'm

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<v Speaker 4>using the bathroom because I need.

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<v Speaker 2>My Oh well, then that's a fucking boundary, think you know. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm sorry. I was so like I said, I p a.

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<v Speaker 2>I apologize, y'all who is listening, I apologize, But no, no,

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<v Speaker 2>that's a fucking boundary. Don't come in the bathroom when

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<v Speaker 2>I'm in the bathroom, bro, I don't come in the

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<v Speaker 2>bathroom when you're in the bathroom.

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<v Speaker 1>That's like you're like nine, No, it's I always think

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<v Speaker 1>that's the worst like perspective of a comis. I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>do that to you, nigga, I did it to you.

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<v Speaker 1>You're not me.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean I don't.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't want to. I don't want to, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>ship while you're in the bathroom.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't want to do that.

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<v Speaker 1>He's putting your vagina in his mouth.

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<v Speaker 4>My space to have my own time to do that

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<v Speaker 4>with you around, you know, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>So let me get this. Obviously, we're not talking about

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<v Speaker 1>him coming and sitting there and talk to you.

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<v Speaker 4>Because but there's where they want to come.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's not talk to you while you're trying to get out.

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<v Speaker 3>I've done that, though.

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<v Speaker 2>I want to go talk to you, you know, I

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<v Speaker 2>want to come in there while you're taking a douce.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not coming in there while my dude is taking

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<v Speaker 2>the duce to talk about that. It's something that I

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<v Speaker 2>need to explain him because he's about to jump in

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<v Speaker 2>the shower after or something.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean being that if he crossed that boundary, Are

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<v Speaker 1>you gonna break up with him?

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<v Speaker 2>No, I've never I'm not gonna break it with him

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<v Speaker 2>because of it's a human.

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<v Speaker 3>You gotta ship. There's boundaries with money?

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<v Speaker 1>Is there really boundaries with money?

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<v Speaker 4>I mean there there are some situations where you know

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<v Speaker 4>it's like, Okay, this.

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<v Speaker 3>Is my account.

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<v Speaker 1>That's not a bound like, don't touch my account. But

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<v Speaker 1>I think we're having situations where we're trying to coexist

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<v Speaker 1>in spaces that we're supposed to.

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<v Speaker 2>They're seeing like, like I said, they say, personal boundaries

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<v Speaker 2>are rules ourselves within relationship. Yes, you don't.

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<v Speaker 1>You really don't, Like you're not in a relationship.

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<v Speaker 2>Person, How do you have a rule?

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<v Speaker 3>What what rule do you have in your relationship?

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<v Speaker 2>I don't have a rule.

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<v Speaker 3>Do you not have a rule? Okay?

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know what you mean. Okay, Like, okay, I

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<v Speaker 2>give a rule, like okay, if I go out, I

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<v Speaker 2>ain't supposed to be coming in, like the fucking son

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<v Speaker 2>should not be beating me? Like the fuck that's what

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<v Speaker 2>you But I'm saying, I don't have.

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<v Speaker 1>Rules, Like I was talking. Rule, That's what I said.

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<v Speaker 1>I was talking to somebody was like, well, my boundary

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<v Speaker 1>if somebody is not cheating, that's a.

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<v Speaker 3>Part of a relation.

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<v Speaker 2>I know what dislikes and likes.

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<v Speaker 3>Are not cheating. My boundaries are not cheating.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like that. I was like, okay, I think

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<v Speaker 1>that goes against the consensus of a relations relationship, of

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<v Speaker 1>a committed situation. So is that really a boundary? Like, well,

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<v Speaker 1>you know sometimes you know some girls, I'm like, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't think no girls like people cheating.

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<v Speaker 3>There could be sexual boundaries.

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<v Speaker 4>There could be you know, boundaries where like you know,

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<v Speaker 4>the woman she doesn't want anal sex. You know there's

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<v Speaker 4>a boundary I don't or you know, for a man

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<v Speaker 4>even though you should know.

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<v Speaker 1>But that's what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 3>Where we're at.

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<v Speaker 2>Now, no, so you might have to think, but you know,

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<v Speaker 2>you think about it. Where we're at right now, you may.

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<v Speaker 3>Have to tell.

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<v Speaker 1>So you have person you're in.

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<v Speaker 3>A relationship, don't touch my ass because may.

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<v Speaker 2>Don't want yeah, or some crazy shit like you know

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<v Speaker 2>you know that your women like women before she's by,

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<v Speaker 2>but yeah, you want to try to make it to

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<v Speaker 2>where you want a threesome.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not a bound like I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 2>It happens, that's not but that's.

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<v Speaker 1>Not I think we're in this weird space we are

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<v Speaker 1>to where it's like some of this ship is ridiculous,

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<v Speaker 1>Like come on, like listen, I bounded, Like what kind

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<v Speaker 1>of boundary?

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<v Speaker 2>I don't honestly, I can't really think of a boundary

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<v Speaker 2>like that. I just like I said, like, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>when you're with someone what they like and dislike or

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<v Speaker 2>whatever like that, You know what I mean? So I

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<v Speaker 2>mean you just try most times.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean you can have a boundary if I mean,

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<v Speaker 4>you're not living with the person you guys are dating,

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<v Speaker 4>and you're saying, you know.

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<v Speaker 2>Exactly, don't pop up my house for setting that boundary

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<v Speaker 2>right there. Yeah, you don't know, like it said this

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<v Speaker 2>personal don't come out, don't look hey, listen, whatever your

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<v Speaker 2>personal rules are.

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<v Speaker 1>That So then at that point, you're not trying to

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<v Speaker 1>become one? Why do you want a relationship at that point?

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<v Speaker 1>Is it just for your time?

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<v Speaker 2>Like?

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<v Speaker 1>Is it just for your enjoyment when you feel like

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<v Speaker 1>being bothered?

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<v Speaker 2>Right? And most of the time when that that's yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>when you you don't think about that. But when you

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<v Speaker 2>think about it now you're like, did I fucking did

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<v Speaker 2>I want a relationship?

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<v Speaker 4>I'm telling you no, don't show up here, no, don't

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<v Speaker 4>come more.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm mad, you know, you know stuff.

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<v Speaker 3>Like now I don't care, come.

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<v Speaker 1>No. But I'm saying like, at that point, how are

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<v Speaker 1>you trying to become one by still becoming yourself? Like

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<v Speaker 1>what's the And I think this is all part of

0:22:55.080 --> 0:22:57.800
<v Speaker 1>the same ship, right, Like I think everybody's playing to

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<v Speaker 1>lose You mean by that, it's like that's why you're

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<v Speaker 1>scared to lose yourself. You like, well, if I lose

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<v Speaker 1>myself if we felt, if we don't work, then I

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<v Speaker 1>lost my.

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<v Speaker 3>Son and I lost myself.

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<v Speaker 1>How could you lose yourself? Like, if you really want

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<v Speaker 1>to be a wife, you could never lose yourself. How

0:23:16.359 --> 0:23:20.639
<v Speaker 1>could you? Like, how is that possible? Like is this

0:23:21.119 --> 0:23:23.240
<v Speaker 1>the goal? Like who goes into the game and doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>shoot be cause they're like, oh, you know what, I

0:23:24.560 --> 0:23:27.359
<v Speaker 1>might not make it, you know what I'm saying, or

0:23:27.440 --> 0:23:29.840
<v Speaker 1>let me let me you know, you don't focus on

0:23:29.920 --> 0:23:32.359
<v Speaker 1>your follow through, so you shoot the shot and you

0:23:32.359 --> 0:23:34.280
<v Speaker 1>you're so busy trying to chase the rebound that you

0:23:34.320 --> 0:23:36.680
<v Speaker 1>did miss the damn shot on purpose trying to get

0:23:36.680 --> 0:23:39.760
<v Speaker 1>the rebound. And I think that's how like Britt, when

0:23:39.800 --> 0:23:42.639
<v Speaker 1>you talk sometimes specifically you in this case, right, I

0:23:42.680 --> 0:23:45.480
<v Speaker 1>think you going to relationships worried about missing the shot.

0:23:46.840 --> 0:23:50.040
<v Speaker 2>No, you're right, so you're right, Like I'm not.

0:23:50.040 --> 0:23:52.439
<v Speaker 1>Like some kind of I don't like when no seller's

0:23:52.480 --> 0:23:55.040
<v Speaker 1>go into relationships. But I just was thinking about boundaries

0:23:55.080 --> 0:23:57.680
<v Speaker 1>and I was like like, yo, what's the fear? Like

0:23:58.560 --> 0:24:01.359
<v Speaker 1>these are really simple rules. I remember I was on

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<v Speaker 1>Live and I was telling the girls like, yeah, well,

0:24:03.400 --> 0:24:05.280
<v Speaker 1>just don't put out She's like, ain't nobody gonna wait?

0:24:05.480 --> 0:24:07.280
<v Speaker 1>I'm like the wrong people not gonna wait.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I wouldn't, I wilsh I definitely wouldn't worry about

0:24:11.200 --> 0:24:13.840
<v Speaker 2>like that situation like that, Like if I don't want

0:24:13.840 --> 0:24:15.920
<v Speaker 2>to fuck on you and you want to hang out,

0:24:16.280 --> 0:24:18.359
<v Speaker 2>if you want to hang out, we're gonna hang out.

0:24:18.560 --> 0:24:20.600
<v Speaker 2>And if not, you want some other shit, then whatever.

0:24:20.840 --> 0:24:23.040
<v Speaker 2>But you're not gonna make me feel any type of

0:24:23.040 --> 0:24:24.600
<v Speaker 2>way because I don't want to give you no vagina.

0:24:24.680 --> 0:24:26.679
<v Speaker 2>You can go over there, but I don't girls that

0:24:26.680 --> 0:24:27.119
<v Speaker 2>will give you.

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<v Speaker 1>But I don't think nobody who really want to fuck

0:24:29.600 --> 0:24:31.640
<v Speaker 1>with you that would matter.

0:24:32.119 --> 0:24:33.560
<v Speaker 2>That's why I don't care.

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<v Speaker 1>I think you'll start really filtering. We had this conversation

0:24:36.840 --> 0:24:42.440
<v Speaker 1>about again bringing it back. Attention and connection. There used

0:24:42.440 --> 0:24:45.640
<v Speaker 1>to be exclusive agents of care, you know what I mean.

0:24:45.720 --> 0:24:48.000
<v Speaker 1>Like if somebody paid attention, you knew they cared about you.

0:24:48.080 --> 0:24:51.000
<v Speaker 1>If somebody connected with you, you knew they cared about you.

0:24:51.160 --> 0:24:55.360
<v Speaker 1>And that is far gone. It's it's attention and connection

0:24:55.440 --> 0:24:59.560
<v Speaker 1>are literally like McDonald's. They on every corner, so eventually

0:24:59.760 --> 0:25:01.720
<v Speaker 1>where down and you're not even eating food no more.

0:25:01.760 --> 0:25:03.120
<v Speaker 1>It's not a part of care. Anymore.

0:25:03.760 --> 0:25:09.480
<v Speaker 4>Right, So you can reach everybody anytime.

0:25:10.040 --> 0:25:11.640
<v Speaker 1>Entirely to accession.

0:25:11.880 --> 0:25:14.600
<v Speaker 2>Remember before you would see somebody at a spot somewhere.

0:25:14.960 --> 0:25:17.440
<v Speaker 2>Remember you see somebody, and then if you didn't see

0:25:17.440 --> 0:25:19.400
<v Speaker 2>them at the next spot or somewhere, you wouldn't see

0:25:19.400 --> 0:25:22.920
<v Speaker 2>them no more. Now you can find them on social media.

0:25:23.000 --> 0:25:25.240
<v Speaker 2>If you don't even know they handler, you can search

0:25:25.240 --> 0:25:26.880
<v Speaker 2>the event that they were at and you might see

0:25:26.880 --> 0:25:27.520
<v Speaker 2>a picture.

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<v Speaker 1>That she or you might know a nigga that she

0:25:29.480 --> 0:25:31.320
<v Speaker 1>was with, that he was with, and.

0:25:31.280 --> 0:25:33.920
<v Speaker 2>It's right there, bam now in your DM, like damn,

0:25:33.960 --> 0:25:35.840
<v Speaker 2>I saw you the other night, And.

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<v Speaker 1>So at that point, that's what I'm saying. It's like

0:25:39.240 --> 0:25:42.040
<v Speaker 1>all of these things, like even that concept like if

0:25:42.040 --> 0:25:44.240
<v Speaker 1>somebody just want to fuck on you, they don't really

0:25:44.320 --> 0:25:44.960
<v Speaker 1>just fuck.

0:25:44.760 --> 0:25:47.440
<v Speaker 3>With you, right, they just yeah, they just.

0:25:47.400 --> 0:25:49.639
<v Speaker 1>Want you become serviceable, not only me wrong. You can

0:25:49.640 --> 0:25:51.440
<v Speaker 1>get them some pussy and they could fuck with you later.

0:25:51.520 --> 0:25:55.680
<v Speaker 1>But most likely, like we had this conversation, men used

0:25:55.680 --> 0:25:59.800
<v Speaker 1>to get married just to have consistent pussy, like pussy

0:25:59.800 --> 0:26:02.639
<v Speaker 1>would soul like rare, you know what I mean, and

0:26:03.720 --> 0:26:05.919
<v Speaker 1>scoured after it was special, you know what I mean.

0:26:06.000 --> 0:26:09.560
<v Speaker 1>You either was gonna marry a bitch or pay a prostitute,

0:26:09.720 --> 0:26:11.200
<v Speaker 1>you know what I'm saying. That was it, and now

0:26:11.240 --> 0:26:14.119
<v Speaker 1>you have this like this middle ground. Like I said,

0:26:14.160 --> 0:26:16.880
<v Speaker 1>where it came from that seventies, that woman independence movement

0:26:16.920 --> 0:26:19.160
<v Speaker 1>where white women was trying to get the same pay

0:26:19.200 --> 0:26:22.159
<v Speaker 1>as their husbands. And it turned into we want the

0:26:22.200 --> 0:26:24.480
<v Speaker 1>same pay as men, to we want we are the

0:26:24.520 --> 0:26:27.639
<v Speaker 1>same as men. And then like I've said this a

0:26:27.680 --> 0:26:30.720
<v Speaker 1>million times to y'all, Right, it's like men and women

0:26:30.800 --> 0:26:35.080
<v Speaker 1>are not equal. Like women are greater literally right, like

0:26:35.280 --> 0:26:38.240
<v Speaker 1>you could bring like literally we could have sex and

0:26:38.720 --> 0:26:41.159
<v Speaker 1>it takes me two seconds. I can nut and you

0:26:41.160 --> 0:26:45.000
<v Speaker 1>could hatch a child and bring a child into the universe. Nigga,

0:26:45.040 --> 0:26:45.639
<v Speaker 1>we are different.

0:26:45.960 --> 0:26:46.800
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, So the.

0:26:46.800 --> 0:26:48.720
<v Speaker 1>Way I can treat my body versus the way you

0:26:48.720 --> 0:26:51.840
<v Speaker 1>should treat your body, I don't care what nobody preached.

0:26:52.080 --> 0:26:54.480
<v Speaker 1>The way we treat our bodies should be completely different. Look,

0:26:54.520 --> 0:26:58.720
<v Speaker 1>your body is completely different and special. This motherfucker is nothing.

0:26:58.760 --> 0:27:00.480
<v Speaker 1>It's meant to be beat up on. It's meant to

0:27:00.520 --> 0:27:03.600
<v Speaker 1>put three hundred pounds on shoulders. It's meant to just

0:27:04.160 --> 0:27:06.880
<v Speaker 1>busting up and keep on moving and not y'all. Shit

0:27:07.000 --> 0:27:10.320
<v Speaker 1>is meant to like bring life. Sure, why the fuck

0:27:10.359 --> 0:27:14.879
<v Speaker 1>would you step down to a man's standard, like we're lowered.

0:27:16.200 --> 0:27:21.720
<v Speaker 1>That's but again, that's not a compliment. It's a responsibility.

0:27:21.880 --> 0:27:28.720
<v Speaker 1>And you don't you know, yes, not a negatives like

0:27:28.920 --> 0:27:30.800
<v Speaker 1>you and you treat it like a ship.

0:27:30.920 --> 0:27:31.360
<v Speaker 3>Wow.

0:27:31.920 --> 0:27:34.359
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you just treat it like ship. Yeah, you just

0:27:34.400 --> 0:27:36.800
<v Speaker 1>treat it like shit. And it's like, I'm not complimenting

0:27:36.840 --> 0:27:38.760
<v Speaker 1>you by saying you greater. I mean, I guess that's

0:27:38.800 --> 0:27:40.800
<v Speaker 1>a compliment if it matters to be greater or lesser

0:27:40.800 --> 0:27:44.640
<v Speaker 1>than somebody, But I'm saying your responsibility on the planet

0:27:44.680 --> 0:27:46.240
<v Speaker 1>Earth it's more important.

0:27:46.520 --> 0:27:46.960
<v Speaker 3>It is.

0:27:47.320 --> 0:27:49.919
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I mean, it takes both of us to make

0:27:49.960 --> 0:27:52.959
<v Speaker 1>a child an inception, but all we could do an

0:27:53.000 --> 0:27:55.159
<v Speaker 1>inception is make a child, and then you have to

0:27:55.200 --> 0:27:58.800
<v Speaker 1>do ten months of the fucking work. So if you

0:27:58.840 --> 0:28:02.199
<v Speaker 1>treat your body like I treat minds, we got a problem.

0:28:02.680 --> 0:28:04.359
<v Speaker 1>I mean, it's one thing to treat the interior of

0:28:04.440 --> 0:28:06.480
<v Speaker 1>this car. Certain, it's another thing to fuck with the

0:28:06.520 --> 0:28:09.600
<v Speaker 1>engine or the transmission or that we're in or any

0:28:09.640 --> 0:28:15.040
<v Speaker 1>of the drive trained components. So it's it's it bothers

0:28:15.080 --> 0:28:18.520
<v Speaker 1>me because like we're so out of whack, right, and

0:28:18.800 --> 0:28:22.280
<v Speaker 1>people obviously make me you know, the villain, that the

0:28:22.359 --> 0:28:26.040
<v Speaker 1>anti hero whatever. But it's like I ain't telling somebody

0:28:26.119 --> 0:28:30.240
<v Speaker 1>something that ain't like this the truth, like it's a fact.

0:28:30.920 --> 0:28:34.080
<v Speaker 3>Just you just put it out there and it's very.

0:28:35.440 --> 0:28:35.720
<v Speaker 2>Real.

0:28:36.119 --> 0:28:36.400
<v Speaker 3>You know.

0:28:36.680 --> 0:28:39.240
<v Speaker 1>You know why they get you know why they get

0:28:39.240 --> 0:28:43.280
<v Speaker 1>nobody pregnant because I think, like other colors in the

0:28:43.320 --> 0:28:45.480
<v Speaker 1>in the in the world, like if I got you pregnant,

0:28:45.520 --> 0:28:48.880
<v Speaker 1>we getting married because I'll be damn you fuck up

0:28:48.920 --> 0:28:51.280
<v Speaker 1>my kid. M you know what I'm saying. I'm not

0:28:51.320 --> 0:28:53.000
<v Speaker 1>gonna let you do that. We're gonna get me a doner. Fuck.

0:28:53.080 --> 0:28:55.440
<v Speaker 1>We don't even love each other, just like anybody else,

0:28:55.760 --> 0:28:57.040
<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean. We're gonna make this work

0:28:57.080 --> 0:29:01.360
<v Speaker 1>because we thene fucked up already. So that's why I'm

0:29:01.360 --> 0:29:04.920
<v Speaker 1>at permanently, Like if I was to mess up, like yo,

0:29:05.000 --> 0:29:07.440
<v Speaker 1>we're getting married. Whatever I got going on is irrelevant.

0:29:07.440 --> 0:29:10.640
<v Speaker 1>We getting married, Yeah, I mean, because I'm not gonna

0:29:10.720 --> 0:29:15.360
<v Speaker 1>let you raise my seed by yourself. If you ever notice,

0:29:15.400 --> 0:29:18.160
<v Speaker 1>like women don't, I mean, I think y'all want I

0:29:18.200 --> 0:29:22.680
<v Speaker 1>think women want children for company. Men look at children

0:29:22.760 --> 0:29:26.440
<v Speaker 1>as a extension of lineage legacy. Ye, I mean air

0:29:26.600 --> 0:29:28.640
<v Speaker 1>y'all don't be doing that. That's why y'all don't name

0:29:28.720 --> 0:29:32.040
<v Speaker 1>kids after y'allself. Brick, you be MATHI move, you name

0:29:32.080 --> 0:29:33.800
<v Speaker 1>your daughter little Britt, you'd be like, I don't want

0:29:33.800 --> 0:29:37.440
<v Speaker 1>another little meat. This little bitch is how to control all.

0:29:37.320 --> 0:29:39.840
<v Speaker 2>My girls that have little girls. I always say that

0:29:39.760 --> 0:29:42.480
<v Speaker 2>that's their mini means, and I always say I'm so

0:29:42.520 --> 0:29:43.720
<v Speaker 2>happy I to have them mini me.

0:29:44.360 --> 0:29:46.280
<v Speaker 1>And even when they say that, they be thinking, they

0:29:46.360 --> 0:29:49.400
<v Speaker 1>be just like this motherfucker. Because mostly you watch people

0:29:49.440 --> 0:29:52.720
<v Speaker 1>try to discipline themselves out of their children. That's the

0:29:52.800 --> 0:29:55.160
<v Speaker 1>fucking funniest shit they trying. People be trying to discipline

0:29:55.200 --> 0:29:57.280
<v Speaker 1>themselves out of their children, and you be just looking

0:29:57.280 --> 0:30:00.800
<v Speaker 1>and they be like this, motherfucking I be looking like this, motherfucker.

0:30:00.920 --> 0:30:04.400
<v Speaker 1>You you motherfucker, You know what I mean? And they

0:30:04.480 --> 0:30:07.880
<v Speaker 1>never see that like that. They never see it like that.

0:30:08.240 --> 0:30:13.000
<v Speaker 1>But I just so many weird terms are being manipulated

0:30:13.080 --> 0:30:16.680
<v Speaker 1>to make people feel good about every dumb ass thing

0:30:16.680 --> 0:30:19.360
<v Speaker 1>they're doing. And boundaries is one of those terms.

0:30:19.960 --> 0:30:22.560
<v Speaker 3>It just make people boundaries in the relationship.

0:30:22.640 --> 0:30:25.680
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's like that goes against the concept of a

0:30:25.720 --> 0:30:29.720
<v Speaker 1>committed relationship. It goes against the concept of a marriage.

0:30:30.120 --> 0:30:32.680
<v Speaker 4>So is that I guess that's where you set boundaries

0:30:32.760 --> 0:30:33.400
<v Speaker 4>during dating.

0:30:34.640 --> 0:30:37.400
<v Speaker 1>But at that point are you really setting boundaries? I

0:30:37.440 --> 0:30:40.680
<v Speaker 1>guess you could, yeah, because because you're a separate person.

0:30:40.480 --> 0:30:44.160
<v Speaker 4>Saying okay, this is what this is what I want,

0:30:44.480 --> 0:30:48.560
<v Speaker 4>and then you everybody has a decision to decide I

0:30:48.600 --> 0:30:48.960
<v Speaker 4>want to.

0:30:48.880 --> 0:30:50.880
<v Speaker 3>Move forward like with this relationship or.

0:30:50.880 --> 0:30:53.040
<v Speaker 4>We're dating to talk to see if we want to.

0:30:53.440 --> 0:30:56.600
<v Speaker 1>But what what what boundaries if you're if you're dating

0:30:56.680 --> 0:30:58.840
<v Speaker 1>or courting correctly right, because those are two different, but

0:30:58.880 --> 0:31:02.959
<v Speaker 1>I guess we interchange to use them. If you're like

0:31:03.200 --> 0:31:04.920
<v Speaker 1>what would be a boundary in dating?

0:31:06.840 --> 0:31:10.960
<v Speaker 2>There's a lot like what like what like A just said,

0:31:10.960 --> 0:31:12.040
<v Speaker 2>don't pop up in my house?

0:31:13.160 --> 0:31:15.680
<v Speaker 1>If somebody here dating and courting, do they pop up

0:31:15.720 --> 0:31:16.240
<v Speaker 1>at your house?

0:31:16.440 --> 0:31:19.520
<v Speaker 2>You don't know? There's motherfuckers that probably was in the neighborhood.

0:31:19.560 --> 0:31:21.400
<v Speaker 3>They're not eve gonna know where I live. If I'm dating,

0:31:21.920 --> 0:31:22.440
<v Speaker 3>you would.

0:31:22.240 --> 0:31:24.440
<v Speaker 1>Think like why do people know what? You know? Where

0:31:24.480 --> 0:31:25.000
<v Speaker 1>you live.

0:31:26.760 --> 0:31:27.360
<v Speaker 2>Is a boundary.

0:31:27.560 --> 0:31:30.600
<v Speaker 1>But this is my point, we're getting out of fucking like,

0:31:30.640 --> 0:31:33.160
<v Speaker 1>why the fuck would you be telling somebody that not

0:31:33.240 --> 0:31:35.440
<v Speaker 1>pop up at your house? If you if you don't

0:31:35.440 --> 0:31:37.680
<v Speaker 1>trust them enough to not pop up you out. Why

0:31:37.720 --> 0:31:39.160
<v Speaker 1>the fuck would you tell them where you live.

0:31:39.760 --> 0:31:42.320
<v Speaker 2>Hey, I'm just saying, you know, but the point.

0:31:42.680 --> 0:31:44.800
<v Speaker 1>I can't give you a gun. I can't give you

0:31:44.800 --> 0:31:45.400
<v Speaker 1>a gun.

0:31:45.280 --> 0:31:48.400
<v Speaker 3>Don't you might, that's what.

0:31:48.920 --> 0:31:50.320
<v Speaker 1>That's okay, walk down the.

0:31:50.280 --> 0:31:53.840
<v Speaker 2>Streets, fuck up. They might fuck up. Like you might

0:31:53.880 --> 0:31:57.080
<v Speaker 2>say most of the time, like let's just go back

0:31:57.160 --> 0:32:01.400
<v Speaker 2>whenever somewhere where I'm at.

0:32:02.120 --> 0:32:03.120
<v Speaker 3>What an event?

0:32:03.320 --> 0:32:05.560
<v Speaker 2>Well, you can't say that because anybody can go to

0:32:05.600 --> 0:32:07.840
<v Speaker 2>an event. A flyer is a flyer, even know you

0:32:07.840 --> 0:32:08.160
<v Speaker 2>were there.

0:32:08.400 --> 0:32:10.360
<v Speaker 1>That shouldn't be a boundary that you said, I want

0:32:10.400 --> 0:32:12.680
<v Speaker 1>to like you say that to people like.

0:32:12.640 --> 0:32:15.160
<v Speaker 4>Hey, don't I'm not going to say that, like you

0:32:15.400 --> 0:32:17.479
<v Speaker 4>don't pop up at the I'm not going to say that.

0:32:17.560 --> 0:32:20.320
<v Speaker 3>But would a boundary be like let me know if

0:32:20.360 --> 0:32:20.840
<v Speaker 3>you're coming.

0:32:21.200 --> 0:32:22.880
<v Speaker 2>No, that's not even a boundary because you would want

0:32:22.920 --> 0:32:24.200
<v Speaker 2>to know that too. I was about saying, what if

0:32:24.200 --> 0:32:26.880
<v Speaker 2>someone said some shit like you know, like who is

0:32:26.920 --> 0:32:29.280
<v Speaker 2>that they seeing you out and they like ask you

0:32:29.360 --> 0:32:30.160
<v Speaker 2>questions ship.

0:32:30.040 --> 0:32:33.080
<v Speaker 4>And you're saying you're saying, I mean and you know what,

0:32:33.200 --> 0:32:35.560
<v Speaker 4>I have actually been with somebody and I have said,

0:32:35.960 --> 0:32:37.520
<v Speaker 4>don't ask me no question.

0:32:37.640 --> 0:32:39.560
<v Speaker 2>Ship, Yah man, you told him no.

0:32:39.920 --> 0:32:44.400
<v Speaker 3>I mean when somebody I was dating that's X, tell

0:32:44.600 --> 0:32:46.680
<v Speaker 3>man that you can't.

0:32:47.720 --> 0:32:50.640
<v Speaker 2>They want to know. They want to know girl, and

0:32:50.640 --> 0:32:51.560
<v Speaker 2>I'm finding this out.

0:32:51.600 --> 0:32:53.160
<v Speaker 1>They want to know.

0:32:54.040 --> 0:32:55.560
<v Speaker 3>He wasn't gonna ask me about it.

0:32:55.640 --> 0:32:57.960
<v Speaker 2>I don't give a fuck. I'm gonna take you.

0:32:58.120 --> 0:33:01.600
<v Speaker 1>Maybe he's super interested then and invested in right y'all

0:33:01.720 --> 0:33:04.520
<v Speaker 1>be in courting for six months and you see him

0:33:04.600 --> 0:33:07.160
<v Speaker 1>hugging and kissing some girl, You're not like, who is that?

0:33:07.760 --> 0:33:10.720
<v Speaker 2>You're definitely asking who the fuck is that? How you doing?

0:33:11.080 --> 0:33:16.600
<v Speaker 1>So I'm saying, are boundaries rooted in insecurities or boundaries

0:33:16.680 --> 0:33:19.720
<v Speaker 1>rooted in the fact of Are they rooted in securities

0:33:19.800 --> 0:33:22.800
<v Speaker 1>or they rooted in trauma? Like why do you I

0:33:22.840 --> 0:33:25.960
<v Speaker 1>think they're rooted in trauma like a failure. But again,

0:33:26.040 --> 0:33:29.440
<v Speaker 1>it's like who goes up taking shots worried about missing?

0:33:31.920 --> 0:33:35.400
<v Speaker 1>Like if you missed the first seven shots, but then

0:33:35.440 --> 0:33:39.280
<v Speaker 1>you might go ten for twenty you feel me like

0:33:39.320 --> 0:33:41.200
<v Speaker 1>you have to shoot the ball. But if you like, oh,

0:33:41.200 --> 0:33:42.920
<v Speaker 1>I miss the first seven shots and now you're going

0:33:42.960 --> 0:33:44.480
<v Speaker 1>to the game, like, don't pass it to me there,

0:33:44.680 --> 0:33:46.920
<v Speaker 1>don't pass it to me here. I can't shoot right here.

0:33:46.920 --> 0:33:49.400
<v Speaker 1>I can't shoot right here. Guess what, It's gonna be

0:33:49.400 --> 0:33:52.520
<v Speaker 1>tough for you to have a great game. It's gonna

0:33:52.520 --> 0:33:53.680
<v Speaker 1>be tough for you to have a great game.

0:33:54.280 --> 0:33:58.040
<v Speaker 4>And that's why getting back out there dating was like

0:33:58.160 --> 0:34:01.360
<v Speaker 4>big for you know, that.

0:34:01.400 --> 0:34:02.000
<v Speaker 1>Was big for her.

0:34:02.080 --> 0:34:03.520
<v Speaker 2>That was that was big for.

0:34:03.480 --> 0:34:04.840
<v Speaker 1>Me because you was traumatized.

0:34:04.880 --> 0:34:07.280
<v Speaker 2>I was very traumatized. I talked about it. You laughed

0:34:07.280 --> 0:34:09.279
<v Speaker 2>at me when I almost cried on this Like.

0:34:09.480 --> 0:34:11.680
<v Speaker 1>I definitely laughed, but I didn't laugh at you, like

0:34:12.400 --> 0:34:13.520
<v Speaker 1>I didn't laugh at your pain.

0:34:13.600 --> 0:34:15.719
<v Speaker 2>It's just like I know you like you.

0:34:15.719 --> 0:34:19.880
<v Speaker 4>You got it well because it was just because laughing.

0:34:21.640 --> 0:34:25.280
<v Speaker 1>It's not laughing at I wasn't like cackle. It wasn't

0:34:25.280 --> 0:34:28.960
<v Speaker 1>like laughing. But it was just surprising that terminator actually

0:34:29.000 --> 0:34:30.359
<v Speaker 1>have emotions.

0:34:29.880 --> 0:34:31.400
<v Speaker 2>To have feelings and emotion.

0:34:32.760 --> 0:34:34.160
<v Speaker 1>Brit is the fucking terminator.

0:34:34.200 --> 0:34:35.359
<v Speaker 2>Listen, let me tell you if.

0:34:35.280 --> 0:34:37.120
<v Speaker 1>I want to fuck on a nigga, I want to

0:34:37.120 --> 0:34:37.880
<v Speaker 1>funk on the nigga.

0:34:38.200 --> 0:34:41.759
<v Speaker 4>No this, brit even though you guys even knowing six

0:34:41.880 --> 0:34:46.080
<v Speaker 4>point long time, this bridge is different from when we

0:34:46.160 --> 0:34:46.680
<v Speaker 4>first met.

0:34:46.920 --> 0:34:48.800
<v Speaker 1>Six points different than brid two point.

0:34:48.680 --> 0:34:52.279
<v Speaker 3>Oh, very very rich. I can't wait for ten because

0:34:52.320 --> 0:34:52.919
<v Speaker 3>y'all not ready.

0:34:53.120 --> 0:34:56.040
<v Speaker 1>Let me ask you a question. If all the software

0:34:56.120 --> 0:34:59.239
<v Speaker 1>updates rooted in progress and evolution or they rooted in

0:34:59.239 --> 0:35:01.600
<v Speaker 1>trauma to where you literally gonna get in your way

0:35:01.960 --> 0:35:03.400
<v Speaker 1>of operating properly.

0:35:03.520 --> 0:35:07.000
<v Speaker 2>Okay, so I've left that trauma alone, Like that's why?

0:35:07.120 --> 0:35:08.520
<v Speaker 1>What was the trauma you left alone?

0:35:08.840 --> 0:35:10.759
<v Speaker 2>It's a lot of different things. Give me too, but

0:35:10.880 --> 0:35:11.799
<v Speaker 2>that's a whole show.

0:35:11.840 --> 0:35:12.960
<v Speaker 1>Well give me, give me too.

0:35:13.120 --> 0:35:15.840
<v Speaker 2>I have a lot of trauma, man, Like, what's the worst.

0:35:15.600 --> 0:35:17.399
<v Speaker 1>Thing that you feel like happened to you with a guy?

0:35:19.160 --> 0:35:22.000
<v Speaker 1>He was like, I cannot believe this happened to me.

0:35:24.200 --> 0:35:27.600
<v Speaker 1>That's that was so unique within the landscape of motherfucker's

0:35:27.680 --> 0:35:30.000
<v Speaker 1>Dayton that you ain't seen a movie, TV show or

0:35:30.000 --> 0:35:33.279
<v Speaker 1>nothing that the same shit happened into someone. So then

0:35:33.320 --> 0:35:36.160
<v Speaker 1>why the fuck would you be trauma traumatized on things

0:35:36.160 --> 0:35:37.920
<v Speaker 1>that's happening in traumatized?

0:35:38.640 --> 0:35:41.520
<v Speaker 2>It hurt me, like the person, the person I was

0:35:41.560 --> 0:35:44.160
<v Speaker 2>in love with. I gave my you know everything too

0:35:44.400 --> 0:35:45.359
<v Speaker 2>what happened, But.

0:35:45.400 --> 0:35:49.040
<v Speaker 3>Speak it out, let it, Okay. I know it's already released.

0:35:49.120 --> 0:35:51.080
<v Speaker 2>I mean it's been released, but I don't know. I

0:35:51.120 --> 0:35:52.960
<v Speaker 2>just had a lot of trust issues. I feel like

0:35:54.560 --> 0:35:56.200
<v Speaker 2>a lot of the well not even a lot of them,

0:35:56.200 --> 0:35:58.239
<v Speaker 2>because I haven't had many relationships, but the relationships that

0:35:58.239 --> 0:35:59.920
<v Speaker 2>I did have, Like, I just feel like.

0:36:02.200 --> 0:36:03.520
<v Speaker 1>Was that the one you was telling me where you

0:36:03.560 --> 0:36:05.319
<v Speaker 1>went to the club and the girls at the club

0:36:05.320 --> 0:36:06.680
<v Speaker 1>with him and he was at the club with the.

0:36:06.640 --> 0:36:09.440
<v Speaker 2>Girl and oh shit, that was yeah he was there.

0:36:09.520 --> 0:36:11.319
<v Speaker 2>Yeah that was one. That's the same one.

0:36:11.480 --> 0:36:12.120
<v Speaker 3>That's serious.

0:36:13.040 --> 0:36:16.759
<v Speaker 1>But this is my point, like right, and this is

0:36:16.800 --> 0:36:19.160
<v Speaker 1>what I'll be telling Red, because why are you taking

0:36:19.200 --> 0:36:22.400
<v Speaker 1>your funky ass to the club In a relationship, Like

0:36:22.760 --> 0:36:25.640
<v Speaker 1>some of this ship, we have to get to a

0:36:25.680 --> 0:36:28.359
<v Speaker 1>space to where we stopped being, we stopped wanting it all,

0:36:29.360 --> 0:36:31.960
<v Speaker 1>we choose and again part of the.

0:36:34.040 --> 0:36:36.640
<v Speaker 2>Relationship. So maybe that's a boundary and rule for you.

0:36:36.880 --> 0:36:38.359
<v Speaker 1>It's not a boundary or rule.

0:36:38.480 --> 0:36:40.680
<v Speaker 2>I'm just saying that's for you because you're saying.

0:36:40.400 --> 0:36:42.920
<v Speaker 1>I'm asking you, why would you go to a place

0:36:43.440 --> 0:36:45.239
<v Speaker 1>people strangers?

0:36:45.520 --> 0:36:45.680
<v Speaker 2>Bro?

0:36:45.800 --> 0:36:47.799
<v Speaker 1>You can hang out a thousand people, Like why would

0:36:47.840 --> 0:36:50.040
<v Speaker 1>you go to Hell to watch a football game? Bro?

0:36:50.160 --> 0:36:52.600
<v Speaker 1>They have a thousand fucking other places that.

0:36:54.040 --> 0:36:56.319
<v Speaker 2>You don't dream, You don't party like that, you don't, I.

0:36:56.360 --> 0:37:00.359
<v Speaker 1>Guess guess why guess fucking why, that's guess why, guess

0:37:00.360 --> 0:37:03.400
<v Speaker 1>why you make bad decisions on top of bad decisions,

0:37:03.880 --> 0:37:04.359
<v Speaker 1>Why the fu?

0:37:05.000 --> 0:37:06.759
<v Speaker 2>You may go for a birth like right now, we

0:37:06.800 --> 0:37:09.719
<v Speaker 2>don't club at all, so if you do, it's for

0:37:09.840 --> 0:37:11.720
<v Speaker 2>we're celebrating Christ.

0:37:11.880 --> 0:37:14.959
<v Speaker 1>Like drinking is not some kind of fun even talking

0:37:14.960 --> 0:37:17.360
<v Speaker 1>about it. But you missing.

0:37:17.760 --> 0:37:18.880
<v Speaker 3>Celebrate a birthday.

0:37:19.120 --> 0:37:20.120
<v Speaker 2>If you hit me.

0:37:20.640 --> 0:37:23.520
<v Speaker 1>As a grown ass man, I'm not having no fucking

0:37:23.560 --> 0:37:27.879
<v Speaker 1>birthday party clubs. You're missing the point because you're so

0:37:27.960 --> 0:37:30.600
<v Speaker 1>busy defending something you hold on to that's cast nothing

0:37:30.640 --> 0:37:34.560
<v Speaker 1>but trauma in your life. The club has literally been

0:37:34.600 --> 0:37:37.000
<v Speaker 1>the place of nothing but traumatic. Experience is whether you

0:37:37.080 --> 0:37:40.000
<v Speaker 1>understand you poison yourself in there and meet strangers and

0:37:40.040 --> 0:37:40.959
<v Speaker 1>throw your life away.

0:37:41.600 --> 0:37:44.120
<v Speaker 3>Well, I don't really hook up with guys from clubs.

0:37:43.800 --> 0:37:46.839
<v Speaker 2>Of course, you know, we don't all the time.

0:37:47.760 --> 0:37:48.600
<v Speaker 1>Of course you have.

0:37:49.400 --> 0:37:51.839
<v Speaker 3>You're not being a relationship with anybody, but.

0:37:51.760 --> 0:37:54.600
<v Speaker 1>You have literally gave yourself away to people you met

0:37:54.600 --> 0:37:55.000
<v Speaker 1>at the club.

0:37:55.080 --> 0:37:57.320
<v Speaker 3>I never actually hooked up with anybody.

0:37:57.600 --> 0:38:01.000
<v Speaker 1>No, you've never met, no knowing. But you missing a

0:38:01.040 --> 0:38:04.959
<v Speaker 1>point because okay, you're right, you're not. I have met

0:38:05.120 --> 0:38:08.799
<v Speaker 1>I have met guy and then y'all hung out. That's

0:38:08.840 --> 0:38:11.680
<v Speaker 1>not the point. Again, Again, you're missing the point of

0:38:11.719 --> 0:38:14.080
<v Speaker 1>the fact, right. The fact is it wasn't.

0:38:14.239 --> 0:38:17.960
<v Speaker 4>But I knew that they were not the relationship type

0:38:17.960 --> 0:38:19.759
<v Speaker 4>of person that I wanted to be with because I

0:38:19.800 --> 0:38:20.640
<v Speaker 4>met them in the club.

0:38:20.760 --> 0:38:21.600
<v Speaker 3>I never would have.

0:38:22.239 --> 0:38:24.400
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but you don't. But you don't understand what happens, right,

0:38:24.440 --> 0:38:27.000
<v Speaker 1>What happens in that situation is now when you finding

0:38:27.040 --> 0:38:29.239
<v Speaker 1>me the decent guy, you start comparing them to the

0:38:29.320 --> 0:38:30.760
<v Speaker 1>fucked up niggas you had before.

0:38:31.560 --> 0:38:35.400
<v Speaker 2>No, yes, not comparing nobody. That's that has been my growth. No,

0:38:35.560 --> 0:38:37.600
<v Speaker 2>I used to I don't compare any.

0:38:37.760 --> 0:38:41.319
<v Speaker 1>Stop argument for two seconds, I know, but just listen

0:38:41.400 --> 0:38:45.839
<v Speaker 1>to these hardcore facts. Just these are facts. One, yes,

0:38:45.880 --> 0:38:47.680
<v Speaker 1>you have you both met people in the club and

0:38:47.719 --> 0:38:51.720
<v Speaker 1>games and pussy problem to one that you're missing a point.

0:38:52.160 --> 0:38:54.239
<v Speaker 1>You're missing the point of things that I'm telling you.

0:38:54.280 --> 0:38:58.520
<v Speaker 1>Why a club causes trauma. It's a traumatizing thing that

0:38:58.560 --> 0:39:01.000
<v Speaker 1>we have normalized into a space that we think is fun.

0:39:01.239 --> 0:39:03.239
<v Speaker 1>That's why you have to poison yourself to do it.

0:39:03.320 --> 0:39:06.560
<v Speaker 1>Drinking is poisoning yourself. I'm not knocking alcohol.

0:39:06.160 --> 0:39:08.560
<v Speaker 3>Like everybody to drinks, but.

0:39:08.520 --> 0:39:14.600
<v Speaker 1>You're missing a point drink, just like just like everybody

0:39:14.600 --> 0:39:16.359
<v Speaker 1>don't go to the crack spot to buy a crack,

0:39:16.480 --> 0:39:19.359
<v Speaker 1>but most people buying crack. I used to go hang

0:39:19.360 --> 0:39:22.799
<v Speaker 1>out at the crackspot with Miamis. But it's a crack spot, right,

0:39:22.840 --> 0:39:25.920
<v Speaker 1>So I'm not knocking you, right, Listen to what I'm saying.

0:39:26.040 --> 0:39:30.440
<v Speaker 1>You literally go to a place you poison yourself to

0:39:30.640 --> 0:39:34.400
<v Speaker 1>enhance having like it's so you don't have a conscious

0:39:34.440 --> 0:39:37.640
<v Speaker 1>about the things going on, right, that's the point of it.

0:39:37.640 --> 0:39:41.319
<v Speaker 1>It's for people and strangers to meet. That's the that's

0:39:41.360 --> 0:39:45.600
<v Speaker 1>the creation of the establishment. So why the fuck if

0:39:45.640 --> 0:39:49.120
<v Speaker 1>you met a person, right, and you have a person,

0:39:49.200 --> 0:39:51.520
<v Speaker 1>why would you go to the place where strangers meet

0:39:51.560 --> 0:39:54.320
<v Speaker 1>each other? And it's because you're holding on to something

0:39:54.600 --> 0:39:57.279
<v Speaker 1>that doesn't make sense. I understand. It's not about it

0:39:57.280 --> 0:39:59.920
<v Speaker 1>if you think it's fun or not. Like Seven Street cripping,

0:40:00.120 --> 0:40:01.799
<v Speaker 1>being a game bag hand on the seven is fun

0:40:01.840 --> 0:40:03.920
<v Speaker 1>to me, but I lost a lot of fucking friends.

0:40:03.960 --> 0:40:05.840
<v Speaker 1>That don't mean it's not a traumatizing spot that I

0:40:05.920 --> 0:40:09.279
<v Speaker 1>go back to. But I'm also not delusional thinking that

0:40:09.320 --> 0:40:12.760
<v Speaker 1>it's someplace that's all fun. Like I have not convinced myself,

0:40:12.920 --> 0:40:16.440
<v Speaker 1>even though more days than not it's fun. On the

0:40:16.480 --> 0:40:18.400
<v Speaker 1>seven it was fun. I made money.

0:40:18.480 --> 0:40:19.400
<v Speaker 4>It's not fun anymore.

0:40:19.680 --> 0:40:23.719
<v Speaker 1>I made money. I made money, I have my child,

0:40:23.800 --> 0:40:27.440
<v Speaker 1>my lifelong friends. But it's trauma, jail, people going to

0:40:28.000 --> 0:40:30.960
<v Speaker 1>you know, getting shot at, friends getting shot, friends going

0:40:30.960 --> 0:40:34.759
<v Speaker 1>to prison, friends dying right fucking there. So I am

0:40:34.840 --> 0:40:38.080
<v Speaker 1>not confused on it. So I don't go there with

0:40:38.120 --> 0:40:40.960
<v Speaker 1>the mentality of I understand what it represents, and when

0:40:40.960 --> 0:40:42.520
<v Speaker 1>I go there, I go there for that person. It's

0:40:42.600 --> 0:40:44.600
<v Speaker 1>like I don't go to soul for new I don't

0:40:44.600 --> 0:40:48.080
<v Speaker 1>go to Soulful for nutrition. I go to Soulful to

0:40:48.800 --> 0:40:51.600
<v Speaker 1>think about the struggle of black people in this country.

0:40:51.680 --> 0:40:54.840
<v Speaker 4>I can't believe that people are really going to go

0:40:54.920 --> 0:40:56.920
<v Speaker 4>to the club and think that they're, oh, I'm gonna

0:40:56.920 --> 0:40:58.280
<v Speaker 4>find somebody that I'm.

0:40:58.239 --> 0:41:00.160
<v Speaker 1>People go to the club all all that.

0:41:01.040 --> 0:41:04.720
<v Speaker 3>Most people they're going, most.

0:41:04.400 --> 0:41:07.359
<v Speaker 1>People are open. So this is the worst part.

0:41:07.480 --> 0:41:10.359
<v Speaker 2>You can meet somebody, But to think like, okay, well

0:41:10.440 --> 0:41:14.360
<v Speaker 2>I'm you know, I'm going to find my husband.

0:41:14.080 --> 0:41:16.400
<v Speaker 1>Then why the fuck else would you be going?

0:41:16.640 --> 0:41:19.279
<v Speaker 2>You know, the younger most times if you club it.

0:41:19.400 --> 0:41:21.960
<v Speaker 2>Most times when you're clubbing, you're younger. You're going out,

0:41:22.000 --> 0:41:22.759
<v Speaker 2>and that's what you're doing.

0:41:22.840 --> 0:41:25.280
<v Speaker 1>You're going out, so you're just going out to throw

0:41:25.560 --> 0:41:29.680
<v Speaker 1>away your life time experience.

0:41:29.880 --> 0:41:32.640
<v Speaker 2>You what I say before, yolo is not really when

0:41:32.640 --> 0:41:33.800
<v Speaker 2>we're younger, you say yolo.

0:41:33.840 --> 0:41:36.080
<v Speaker 1>When you get you realized life could be long. That

0:41:36.080 --> 0:41:38.520
<v Speaker 1>that life you said you only live once, but every

0:41:38.640 --> 0:41:41.760
<v Speaker 1>bad ass decision you make can make that life long.

0:41:42.400 --> 0:41:45.720
<v Speaker 1>And lord knows if you're wrong. You had to double

0:41:45.760 --> 0:41:47.560
<v Speaker 1>back with the same dumb ass shit you went through,

0:41:47.560 --> 0:41:49.560
<v Speaker 1>and you take that same dumb ass trauma into the

0:41:49.600 --> 0:41:52.359
<v Speaker 1>next lifetime. See, they say you only live once, so

0:41:52.480 --> 0:41:55.239
<v Speaker 1>they say, but we don't know what this motherfucker is,

0:41:55.239 --> 0:41:57.960
<v Speaker 1>so you gotta live every day like you possibly might

0:41:58.000 --> 0:42:01.120
<v Speaker 1>be here tomorrow, just might. And a lot of times

0:42:01.120 --> 0:42:03.040
<v Speaker 1>we feel like, oh fun lies on the other side

0:42:03.080 --> 0:42:05.360
<v Speaker 1>of when we don't make oh fun lies on, Like

0:42:05.400 --> 0:42:07.200
<v Speaker 1>if I didn't try cocaine, I might have missed out

0:42:07.200 --> 0:42:08.680
<v Speaker 1>on some fun. No, I didn't.

0:42:12.360 --> 0:42:15.799
<v Speaker 2>No, But everybody has their own definition of they're fun like.

0:42:15.880 --> 0:42:19.280
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but fun but fun but fun and happiness are cheap.

0:42:20.000 --> 0:42:22.640
<v Speaker 1>They're like cheap like when because you.

0:42:22.600 --> 0:42:25.520
<v Speaker 2>Don't know most times, you don't need anything to have

0:42:25.680 --> 0:42:26.480
<v Speaker 2>fun most.

0:42:26.320 --> 0:42:28.960
<v Speaker 1>Times, or to be happy. Right, But but we have

0:42:29.120 --> 0:42:32.560
<v Speaker 1>convinced ourselves that we do. So we go to a

0:42:32.600 --> 0:42:35.759
<v Speaker 1>place where we poison ourselves to go there, right, We

0:42:35.920 --> 0:42:38.680
<v Speaker 1>poison ourselves literally. And I'm not talking shit about I mean,

0:42:39.200 --> 0:42:39.560
<v Speaker 1>I mean.

0:42:39.520 --> 0:42:40.600
<v Speaker 3>You know you've been to clubs.

0:42:40.840 --> 0:42:42.800
<v Speaker 2>You've been to clubs. You just go to clubs.

0:42:42.800 --> 0:42:43.399
<v Speaker 3>You didn't drink.

0:42:43.480 --> 0:42:45.520
<v Speaker 1>And I watched a bunch of people be poisoned. And

0:42:45.560 --> 0:42:48.280
<v Speaker 1>then they acting and being dumb, look like they're halfway

0:42:48.280 --> 0:42:52.160
<v Speaker 1>to death leaning over on you, right, they are looking

0:42:52.200 --> 0:42:56.680
<v Speaker 1>like zombies. And then they be all, I'm not.

0:42:56.600 --> 0:43:00.200
<v Speaker 2>Going no club because he would sit there people I

0:43:00.280 --> 0:43:01.240
<v Speaker 2>say some deep.

0:43:01.040 --> 0:43:04.680
<v Speaker 1>Ship while you I'm not gonna say nothing there. I wouldn't.

0:43:04.719 --> 0:43:06.680
<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't even dare talk to a drunk person.

0:43:07.520 --> 0:43:08.520
<v Speaker 2>No, you don't have to be drunk.

0:43:09.360 --> 0:43:12.000
<v Speaker 1>If somebody is, if somebody drinking, I'm not talking to.

0:43:15.520 --> 0:43:17.760
<v Speaker 2>Everybody is not embarrassing when they.

0:43:18.120 --> 0:43:23.480
<v Speaker 1>Every last person breathing air is embarrassing when they're poisoned.

0:43:23.920 --> 0:43:25.840
<v Speaker 2>You of course you don't drink, so you're probably like

0:43:25.920 --> 0:43:27.640
<v Speaker 2>you've probably picking apart everything.

0:43:27.920 --> 0:43:30.479
<v Speaker 1>It's not picking apart. They're not themselves. That's the point.

0:43:30.480 --> 0:43:33.200
<v Speaker 1>They don't even have the simple things as batter No, that.

0:43:33.360 --> 0:43:37.560
<v Speaker 2>Them being drunk might actually be themselves. They say, what

0:43:37.600 --> 0:43:39.359
<v Speaker 2>do they say about the drunk? Look?

0:43:39.719 --> 0:43:41.360
<v Speaker 1>Wo when I tell you when I was, when I

0:43:41.360 --> 0:43:44.160
<v Speaker 1>was just telling people just pass bad advice and bad expersons,

0:43:44.320 --> 0:43:47.960
<v Speaker 1>that's one of them. People might be themselves when they drunk,

0:43:49.200 --> 0:43:51.319
<v Speaker 1>when they poison themselves, you might be your real self,

0:43:51.680 --> 0:43:52.399
<v Speaker 1>they say, like.

0:43:52.320 --> 0:43:57.480
<v Speaker 2>You speak your real self whatever, like a drug, a.

0:43:57.480 --> 0:43:58.480
<v Speaker 1>Drug mind speaks.

0:43:58.640 --> 0:44:02.080
<v Speaker 4>So to say that with them voka goggles you.

0:44:04.640 --> 0:44:07.400
<v Speaker 1>See, but you so, you're so, you're saying you so.

0:44:07.480 --> 0:44:09.680
<v Speaker 1>In other words, you're saying people really be wholes, but

0:44:10.200 --> 0:44:12.600
<v Speaker 1>not being a drunk is how they keep it in.

0:44:12.880 --> 0:44:13.880
<v Speaker 2>That's not what she said?

0:44:14.239 --> 0:44:15.280
<v Speaker 1>Is that? Roughly an idea?

0:44:16.400 --> 0:44:17.160
<v Speaker 2>That's what you said?

0:44:17.360 --> 0:44:21.880
<v Speaker 1>Oh godly right? Like you're saying like not, you know,

0:44:22.239 --> 0:44:24.359
<v Speaker 1>like you're really a whole, but you be fighting when

0:44:24.400 --> 0:44:26.879
<v Speaker 1>you sober, but then you drink, your true wholeness come out.

0:44:27.040 --> 0:44:35.080
<v Speaker 2>What I can't remember why I said, damn, ship, he

0:44:35.160 --> 0:44:37.799
<v Speaker 2>broke down the different holes. I gotta look at that, damn.

0:44:37.840 --> 0:44:39.160
<v Speaker 2>But that was funny.

0:44:39.200 --> 0:44:40.279
<v Speaker 1>I got that riding.

0:44:42.239 --> 0:44:42.680
<v Speaker 3>Drunks.

0:44:42.880 --> 0:44:45.080
<v Speaker 1>You did well. We we we we started with the

0:44:45.120 --> 0:44:48.080
<v Speaker 1>conversation of why, like why would you take your mate?

0:44:48.160 --> 0:44:50.000
<v Speaker 1>And I've talked to about this, like I've talked to

0:44:50.040 --> 0:44:52.400
<v Speaker 1>you about this. Why would you take your spouse to

0:44:52.480 --> 0:44:53.200
<v Speaker 1>a fucking club.

0:44:53.200 --> 0:44:54.880
<v Speaker 2>I'm not taking my dudes to a club. He crazy?

0:44:55.480 --> 0:44:57.880
<v Speaker 1>Why are you going in the clubs? Why are you

0:44:58.000 --> 0:45:01.160
<v Speaker 1>doing these things if you have a spouse and these.

0:45:01.000 --> 0:45:03.000
<v Speaker 3>Are some of it. That was the first time.

0:45:03.680 --> 0:45:06.960
<v Speaker 1>I'm not saying it. I'm saying that's not the point though, right,

0:45:07.040 --> 0:45:10.279
<v Speaker 1>I'm just saying the fracture things because it's not specifically

0:45:10.360 --> 0:45:12.200
<v Speaker 1>about but it's not fun.

0:45:12.440 --> 0:45:14.200
<v Speaker 2>Just want it's.

0:45:14.000 --> 0:45:16.279
<v Speaker 1>Not just stop saying stop staying stop, because that's that's

0:45:16.280 --> 0:45:18.879
<v Speaker 1>the same reason why niggas cheats. Sometimes you just want

0:45:18.920 --> 0:45:22.799
<v Speaker 1>to He wanted to come. No, they the point we

0:45:22.920 --> 0:45:24.000
<v Speaker 1>never want to come.

0:45:24.520 --> 0:45:26.560
<v Speaker 2>We don't know going.

0:45:26.960 --> 0:45:29.320
<v Speaker 1>That's because he's smart, Like I'm gonna go watch my bitch.

0:45:29.920 --> 0:45:34.239
<v Speaker 2>That's what it was. He had watch oh ship. I

0:45:34.239 --> 0:45:37.239
<v Speaker 2>mean I didn't find out so after why do I

0:45:37.239 --> 0:45:39.560
<v Speaker 2>want to go? If he think you gotta watch me,

0:45:39.640 --> 0:45:41.840
<v Speaker 2>He's just not gonna let me go, not like no,

0:45:42.040 --> 0:45:45.200
<v Speaker 2>not going like.

0:45:44.040 --> 0:45:47.560
<v Speaker 3>He said, Why would I Why would be stupid?

0:45:48.360 --> 0:45:51.080
<v Speaker 1>Never talked to clubs about this in my life and

0:45:51.160 --> 0:45:51.440
<v Speaker 1>I know.

0:45:51.440 --> 0:45:53.480
<v Speaker 2>Exactly what you're saying.

0:45:53.560 --> 0:45:55.239
<v Speaker 3>That makes sense. Perfect, you don't want to go.

0:45:55.760 --> 0:45:57.360
<v Speaker 2>He didn't want to go, but he was like, no,

0:45:57.560 --> 0:45:58.840
<v Speaker 2>you think you want by yourself.

0:45:59.320 --> 0:46:03.400
<v Speaker 1>The club is a traumatic experience for ninety percent of

0:46:03.440 --> 0:46:06.600
<v Speaker 1>the people who go. They just don't know what trauma is.

0:46:06.760 --> 0:46:08.760
<v Speaker 3>Not a club, like, he's not it's.

0:46:08.560 --> 0:46:10.640
<v Speaker 1>Not, it's not he's a club. There's no such thing

0:46:10.680 --> 0:46:12.560
<v Speaker 1>as he.

0:46:12.600 --> 0:46:15.680
<v Speaker 2>Does not really, it's not really special occasions he drink.

0:46:15.920 --> 0:46:20.120
<v Speaker 1>You know, people who ninety nine percent of people who

0:46:20.200 --> 0:46:23.520
<v Speaker 1>don't enjoy the club don't drink. There's one percent of

0:46:23.600 --> 0:46:25.759
<v Speaker 1>people who don't drink that actually enjoy the club, and

0:46:25.760 --> 0:46:29.520
<v Speaker 1>they enjoy fucking bitches. Don't nobody go? Don't know. Women

0:46:29.560 --> 0:46:31.680
<v Speaker 1>will tell you they go to the club to hear music.

0:46:32.239 --> 0:46:35.160
<v Speaker 1>I'm telling you the facts. I'm not giving you something.

0:46:35.680 --> 0:46:38.279
<v Speaker 1>Oh I'm not hating, like I'm not hating because I

0:46:38.320 --> 0:46:38.759
<v Speaker 1>don't like it.

0:46:40.200 --> 0:46:41.520
<v Speaker 2>Girls stop going to the club.

0:46:42.280 --> 0:46:46.360
<v Speaker 1>God damn y'all go to the club. Every girl said,

0:46:46.600 --> 0:46:47.759
<v Speaker 1>I want to go to the club because they got

0:46:47.840 --> 0:46:49.879
<v Speaker 1>drinks or you could have drinks at home. I want

0:46:49.920 --> 0:46:51.239
<v Speaker 1>to go to the clubs they got music when you

0:46:51.239 --> 0:46:53.279
<v Speaker 1>can have music at home. Why want all that, right,

0:46:53.320 --> 0:46:56.359
<v Speaker 1>But then the thing is, it don't matter why you're

0:46:56.400 --> 0:46:59.520
<v Speaker 1>in the club. It matters why every nigga in the

0:46:59.560 --> 0:47:02.640
<v Speaker 1>club is there, right, And that's the point if you

0:47:02.680 --> 0:47:05.120
<v Speaker 1>don't accept that, like like, we can want to go

0:47:05.200 --> 0:47:07.160
<v Speaker 1>to a park, right to just have a good time,

0:47:07.320 --> 0:47:09.920
<v Speaker 1>but this white man could come into the park like

0:47:10.000 --> 0:47:14.080
<v Speaker 1>I'm going to murder niggas. So if you don't care

0:47:14.120 --> 0:47:16.880
<v Speaker 1>about what else is going on and what the intenses

0:47:16.920 --> 0:47:20.000
<v Speaker 1>of people that are in the vicinity in those boundaries

0:47:20.120 --> 0:47:23.840
<v Speaker 1>that we you know, falsely using relationships or but the

0:47:24.000 --> 0:47:25.960
<v Speaker 1>but the but the boundaries of a park, if you

0:47:25.960 --> 0:47:28.839
<v Speaker 1>don't care why nobody else is going fimi, you might

0:47:28.880 --> 0:47:30.719
<v Speaker 1>find yourself in a lot of dumb ship. And I

0:47:30.760 --> 0:47:32.399
<v Speaker 1>think that's why I said, as much as you feel

0:47:32.440 --> 0:47:35.360
<v Speaker 1>like the club was this fantastic experience and you have

0:47:35.480 --> 0:47:38.600
<v Speaker 1>fond memories of it, that's like I got fond memories equipment.

0:47:39.440 --> 0:47:41.719
<v Speaker 1>I do like most of the days it was fun.

0:47:43.000 --> 0:47:45.080
<v Speaker 2>Those moments where you're like, girl, remember we went here

0:47:45.160 --> 0:47:48.279
<v Speaker 2>or there? But you're right, I mean, after why you'd

0:47:48.280 --> 0:47:50.560
<v Speaker 2>be like there, you know what, be.

0:47:50.600 --> 0:47:56.279
<v Speaker 1>There the same trauma, the same bullshit, the same and

0:47:56.400 --> 0:47:58.080
<v Speaker 1>you the same motherfucker.

0:47:58.440 --> 0:48:01.040
<v Speaker 2>What the fuck are you still here?

0:48:01.200 --> 0:48:02.040
<v Speaker 1>Nigga?

0:48:02.160 --> 0:48:05.279
<v Speaker 2>I've been going for three three and a half years.

0:48:05.800 --> 0:48:08.879
<v Speaker 2>As I come back, this nigga still damn you still here?

0:48:09.200 --> 0:48:10.960
<v Speaker 1>Yes he is? You thought he was playing?

0:48:11.000 --> 0:48:12.080
<v Speaker 2>I thought, I guess not.

0:48:12.880 --> 0:48:14.960
<v Speaker 1>You thought the nigga was playing, didn't you know?

0:48:15.040 --> 0:48:17.160
<v Speaker 3>I just told Bred On the way over here. I'm like,

0:48:17.200 --> 0:48:18.400
<v Speaker 3>what clubs is going on?

0:48:18.520 --> 0:48:20.840
<v Speaker 2>I have actually no idea, girl, I am out the

0:48:20.880 --> 0:48:23.920
<v Speaker 2>little you know. I had the best time of my

0:48:23.960 --> 0:48:25.120
<v Speaker 2>life at the Winery though.

0:48:25.480 --> 0:48:28.960
<v Speaker 4>I just saw some it's some club in Hollywood.

0:48:28.960 --> 0:48:31.960
<v Speaker 3>I had to figure it out because it's a couple

0:48:32.000 --> 0:48:34.080
<v Speaker 3>of them. But I just seen.

0:48:35.719 --> 0:48:39.040
<v Speaker 4>Some videos, some photos for one that looked really fun.

0:48:39.239 --> 0:48:40.920
<v Speaker 4>I just want to go and see, like what kind

0:48:40.920 --> 0:48:41.719
<v Speaker 4>of music.

0:48:42.440 --> 0:48:44.439
<v Speaker 3>Not like like I know what they're playing.

0:48:44.520 --> 0:48:46.279
<v Speaker 2>I know what music they're playing, but I want to

0:48:46.280 --> 0:48:48.040
<v Speaker 2>see because the last time I was in the club.

0:48:47.840 --> 0:48:51.799
<v Speaker 4>They don't dance. It's just more so everybody sitting down

0:48:51.840 --> 0:48:52.640
<v Speaker 4>looking at each other.

0:48:52.760 --> 0:48:56.560
<v Speaker 2>And when you go to the older crowd, like like

0:48:56.600 --> 0:48:58.640
<v Speaker 2>the TG three, like like thirty five and older, the

0:48:58.640 --> 0:49:01.319
<v Speaker 2>motherfuckers still party. They still dan't. They still you know,

0:49:02.160 --> 0:49:03.839
<v Speaker 2>they still mingle, but they come from that air.

0:49:04.000 --> 0:49:06.640
<v Speaker 3>You're about to bring that dance back to.

0:49:10.160 --> 0:49:15.280
<v Speaker 1>The irony? Is the coolest thing about clubs is gone? Yes,

0:49:15.640 --> 0:49:18.520
<v Speaker 1>the thing that made it innocent and kind of okay

0:49:18.920 --> 0:49:21.880
<v Speaker 1>for like twenty thirty forty one hundred fucking years. However

0:49:21.960 --> 0:49:25.480
<v Speaker 1>long nightclub's been going, maybe seventy what's dancing? And guess

0:49:25.480 --> 0:49:26.280
<v Speaker 1>the first thing.

0:49:26.200 --> 0:49:27.520
<v Speaker 3>That left rancing?

0:49:27.680 --> 0:49:29.520
<v Speaker 2>That sucks it really.

0:49:29.440 --> 0:49:31.960
<v Speaker 1>Because niggas never stopped going because you know why, because

0:49:32.120 --> 0:49:36.000
<v Speaker 1>no fucking body was going to dance. It was always

0:49:36.000 --> 0:49:39.440
<v Speaker 1>a lie in the first place. You know, that was

0:49:39.480 --> 0:49:40.879
<v Speaker 1>just a liar. That was a lie.

0:49:40.960 --> 0:49:42.920
<v Speaker 2>You told you to get close to the women.

0:49:42.840 --> 0:49:44.719
<v Speaker 1>You want to get on some masks exactly. He was

0:49:44.760 --> 0:49:46.960
<v Speaker 1>trying to get the vibe and we went.

0:49:46.840 --> 0:49:50.440
<v Speaker 2>For We went to dance like I used to carry

0:49:50.440 --> 0:49:53.680
<v Speaker 2>my scringey with me and my brush of my damn

0:49:53.719 --> 0:49:56.520
<v Speaker 2>purse because I'm gonna come I already knew I'm gonna

0:49:56.520 --> 0:49:58.160
<v Speaker 2>come in there in my hair like fuck it up.

0:49:58.280 --> 0:49:59.680
<v Speaker 2>My shit was gonna be fucked up by the end

0:49:59.680 --> 0:50:03.200
<v Speaker 2>the night. Dance all night, I guess all night.

0:50:03.520 --> 0:50:06.359
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, But again, like I might go into a crack

0:50:06.440 --> 0:50:11.080
<v Speaker 1>spot to watch the super Bowl for real, like I've

0:50:11.080 --> 0:50:13.160
<v Speaker 1>went to my homeboys Crackspot and watched the Super Bowl.

0:50:13.440 --> 0:50:16.680
<v Speaker 1>But if the police raid, I'd be hard pressed to

0:50:16.760 --> 0:50:18.520
<v Speaker 1>go in there and say, hey, you know, I see

0:50:18.520 --> 0:50:20.719
<v Speaker 1>customers coming in and out buying cracking. I'm watching the

0:50:20.760 --> 0:50:23.120
<v Speaker 1>game like nothing going on, and then the police rad

0:50:23.200 --> 0:50:24.720
<v Speaker 1>I was like, well, I came to watch the game.

0:50:25.640 --> 0:50:26.520
<v Speaker 2>You going to jail.

0:50:26.800 --> 0:50:31.200
<v Speaker 1>Yep, you going to jail, going to jail. I don't

0:50:31.239 --> 0:50:33.200
<v Speaker 1>care why you went. I don't care if you went

0:50:33.280 --> 0:50:35.359
<v Speaker 1>to dance. I don't care if you went to just drink.

0:50:35.400 --> 0:50:37.080
<v Speaker 1>I don't care if you want to just hear music.

0:50:37.320 --> 0:50:39.960
<v Speaker 1>I don't care if you want to celebrate your fucking

0:50:40.000 --> 0:50:47.520
<v Speaker 1>funky ass friend birthday. The niggas are there to hunt.

0:50:46.640 --> 0:50:48.560
<v Speaker 4>But we just because they're there to hunt don't mean

0:50:48.640 --> 0:50:51.640
<v Speaker 4>you know it's going to celebrate our friend.

0:50:51.760 --> 0:50:55.360
<v Speaker 3>Leave us alone. We're not talking to you, just enjoying.

0:50:55.440 --> 0:50:56.759
<v Speaker 1>That's just a horrible music.

0:50:56.800 --> 0:50:58.239
<v Speaker 2>Guys don't even you don't have to worry about that

0:50:58.280 --> 0:50:59.640
<v Speaker 2>now because guys don't even approach you.

0:51:00.680 --> 0:51:02.879
<v Speaker 1>But to me, the fact that y'all still can get

0:51:02.920 --> 0:51:05.960
<v Speaker 1>past that and make like that don't matter. It's just

0:51:06.040 --> 0:51:08.239
<v Speaker 1>a which is the point of what I'm saying. The

0:51:08.280 --> 0:51:12.560
<v Speaker 1>issues in society is it's literally delusional and ridiculous and selfish.

0:51:12.920 --> 0:51:15.480
<v Speaker 1>The way y'all think it is horrible, not like horrible

0:51:15.480 --> 0:51:18.040
<v Speaker 1>as humans, but like like you're like, well, even though

0:51:18.080 --> 0:51:20.239
<v Speaker 1>every nigga here is trying to fuck, that don't mean

0:51:20.280 --> 0:51:23.120
<v Speaker 1>I gotta fuck. Why would you want to put them?

0:51:23.239 --> 0:51:25.640
<v Speaker 1>I'm asking you? Why the fuck would you put yourself

0:51:25.640 --> 0:51:27.799
<v Speaker 1>somewhere where everybody want to fuck you? How does that

0:51:27.840 --> 0:51:29.200
<v Speaker 1>even make sense to your life?

0:51:29.360 --> 0:51:30.919
<v Speaker 2>Because they want to fuck you don't mean you can't

0:51:30.960 --> 0:51:33.440
<v Speaker 2>be somewhere the fuck. That's not your problem that that

0:51:33.480 --> 0:51:34.359
<v Speaker 2>person want to fuck you.

0:51:34.400 --> 0:51:36.719
<v Speaker 1>Why would you want to be there when that's the energy.

0:51:37.000 --> 0:51:39.560
<v Speaker 2>I could go anywhere a motherucker might want to fuck me,

0:51:39.600 --> 0:51:40.320
<v Speaker 2>so it doesn't matter.

0:51:40.360 --> 0:51:41.960
<v Speaker 1>So would you go to a klu Klux Clan bar

0:51:42.000 --> 0:51:43.040
<v Speaker 1>because you wanted to fucking drink?

0:51:43.320 --> 0:51:43.520
<v Speaker 3>Want to?

0:51:43.840 --> 0:51:45.560
<v Speaker 2>You might want to do something to me afterwards, but

0:51:45.600 --> 0:51:47.440
<v Speaker 2>he still might want to tap that.

0:51:47.600 --> 0:51:49.120
<v Speaker 1>I'm asking you, So would you go to a klu

0:51:49.200 --> 0:51:51.360
<v Speaker 1>Klux Clan bard to have a drink because you like drinking?

0:51:52.960 --> 0:51:55.040
<v Speaker 1>So then what the fuck? Why does it make sense there?

0:51:55.080 --> 0:51:58.640
<v Speaker 1>But that's because you don't dislike the attention no I'm

0:51:58.640 --> 0:52:00.640
<v Speaker 1>giving you I'm giving you obvious.

0:52:00.400 --> 0:52:02.439
<v Speaker 2>To be way over here, you have to go well,

0:52:02.440 --> 0:52:04.160
<v Speaker 2>and of course nobody's gonna go to kou clus that

0:52:04.200 --> 0:52:06.239
<v Speaker 2>I'm black. Why would I go to kuklus here bar?

0:52:06.320 --> 0:52:09.440
<v Speaker 1>Because you like drinking, bro, because you love drinking bro.

0:52:09.320 --> 0:52:11.080
<v Speaker 2>Because you like alcohol, love drinking.

0:52:11.160 --> 0:52:12.919
<v Speaker 1>What if they got three dollars hennessy shot?

0:52:13.000 --> 0:52:14.719
<v Speaker 2>Now I don't know that ain't worth it?

0:52:15.760 --> 0:52:16.960
<v Speaker 1>Okay? What's your drink.

0:52:18.239 --> 0:52:18.960
<v Speaker 2>And where is it?

0:52:19.040 --> 0:52:21.239
<v Speaker 1>Okay? So what if they got what if they got

0:52:21.280 --> 0:52:23.839
<v Speaker 1>that little vase, that vase tequila and they got six

0:52:23.920 --> 0:52:27.439
<v Speaker 1>dollars shots that that you know, that tequila that costs

0:52:27.440 --> 0:52:28.400
<v Speaker 1>two hundred dollars, It.

0:52:28.400 --> 0:52:30.520
<v Speaker 2>Don't matter that, Like I don't she.

0:52:30.400 --> 0:52:33.840
<v Speaker 1>Ain't so because the reality is all I've tried to

0:52:33.880 --> 0:52:36.880
<v Speaker 1>get you guys to explain, was you like the fucking

0:52:36.920 --> 0:52:39.719
<v Speaker 1>attention and you like turning it fucking down. So why

0:52:39.719 --> 0:52:42.280
<v Speaker 1>don't you fucking be honest and say it to niggas

0:52:42.360 --> 0:52:44.439
<v Speaker 1>so they could actually make it quite a decision about

0:52:44.440 --> 0:52:46.520
<v Speaker 1>who you are and if they want to be invested

0:52:46.520 --> 0:52:50.600
<v Speaker 1>with somebody that's that thirsty. Because that's the truth. The

0:52:50.600 --> 0:52:52.759
<v Speaker 1>reason you wouldn't go to a klu klux Klan bar

0:52:52.880 --> 0:52:55.279
<v Speaker 1>bridge is because you know it's dangerous, you know it

0:52:55.280 --> 0:52:58.240
<v Speaker 1>could cause a problem in your life.

0:53:00.520 --> 0:53:03.400
<v Speaker 2>They know what time it is, bang bang exactly.

0:53:03.560 --> 0:53:05.520
<v Speaker 1>You feel me, They know that you bring your ass

0:53:05.600 --> 0:53:07.480
<v Speaker 1>up in here. You know what's going happening.

0:53:07.760 --> 0:53:09.640
<v Speaker 2>Listen, I'm not doing I listen.

0:53:10.000 --> 0:53:12.719
<v Speaker 1>It's funny that you can't see these obvious truths for

0:53:12.760 --> 0:53:13.960
<v Speaker 1>the sake of just thirsty.

0:53:14.280 --> 0:53:15.439
<v Speaker 2>I get it, just.

0:53:15.360 --> 0:53:18.440
<v Speaker 1>Thirsty, and I swear to God, I'm not saying it's

0:53:18.440 --> 0:53:23.359
<v Speaker 1>not just y'all. Listen, I'm not singling out y'all. I'm

0:53:23.360 --> 0:53:27.560
<v Speaker 1>telling you women as a gender, women as a gender.

0:53:28.320 --> 0:53:32.400
<v Speaker 1>You guys are completely thirsty, and it's fucking horrible that

0:53:32.440 --> 0:53:34.839
<v Speaker 1>you need this much thirst And I don't know if

0:53:34.840 --> 0:53:37.960
<v Speaker 1>it's our faught or God's fault. I don't know if

0:53:38.000 --> 0:53:41.240
<v Speaker 1>God made y'all thirsty, like as a as a gender,

0:53:41.280 --> 0:53:44.600
<v Speaker 1>as a sex. If you want to go to a

0:53:44.640 --> 0:53:46.759
<v Speaker 1>place where everybody want to fuck you, but you just

0:53:46.800 --> 0:53:48.600
<v Speaker 1>want to be there for the sake of something else,

0:53:48.600 --> 0:53:49.239
<v Speaker 1>you don't care.

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<v Speaker 2>They're fully covered. Why the fuck would you go there?

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<v Speaker 1>So my homie invited me to the fucking game, So

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<v Speaker 1>I'll just take her out to dinner. A Super Bowl game.

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<v Speaker 2>Because Super Bowl game, because he does not I'm not thirsty,

0:54:09.760 --> 0:54:11.040
<v Speaker 2>so he doesn't see I'm not.

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<v Speaker 4>You're not who you to be thirsty going to the

0:54:14.560 --> 0:54:16.120
<v Speaker 4>super Bowl crackhouse.

0:54:16.160 --> 0:54:18.520
<v Speaker 1>I'm not. I get it because it's a fucking crackhouse.

0:54:19.360 --> 0:54:23.480
<v Speaker 1>I care about when I was ignorant and dumb and

0:54:23.520 --> 0:54:25.880
<v Speaker 1>I told you. The difference is, I'm not lying, and

0:54:25.880 --> 0:54:28.759
<v Speaker 1>I'm not trying to explain why it makes sense, like

0:54:28.800 --> 0:54:30.080
<v Speaker 1>I'm not trying to find it.

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<v Speaker 3>Be thirsty.

0:54:31.400 --> 0:54:34.200
<v Speaker 1>I was no, yes, because I wanted to hang around

0:54:34.200 --> 0:54:36.640
<v Speaker 1>my homeboard. I wanted to be in my hood. I'm

0:54:36.680 --> 0:54:39.160
<v Speaker 1>a fucking rapper with a fucking multi a million dollar,

0:54:39.239 --> 0:54:41.080
<v Speaker 1>multi million dollar deal and I'm sitting in a fucking

0:54:41.080 --> 0:54:43.239
<v Speaker 1>crackhouse watching the game because I still want to be

0:54:43.280 --> 0:54:47.160
<v Speaker 1>Glasses from Seventh Street every day. The difference is I

0:54:47.200 --> 0:54:49.200
<v Speaker 1>know it, and I'm just telling you, like it's a

0:54:49.239 --> 0:54:52.040
<v Speaker 1>thirst like women naturally are thirsty. You guys wear ship

0:54:52.160 --> 0:54:55.120
<v Speaker 1>for strangers to compliment you. You're thirsty, and it's okay.

0:54:55.320 --> 0:54:58.440
<v Speaker 1>It's way deeper than just attention. But I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>if it's men fora like my I fought or God's fought.

0:55:01.600 --> 0:55:03.840
<v Speaker 1>I don't know if he made you thirsty or somewhere

0:55:03.840 --> 0:55:06.200
<v Speaker 1>along the line that Thursty became y'all.

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<v Speaker 2>Defining blame y'all. I think it's God we didn't care

0:55:12.040 --> 0:55:17.000
<v Speaker 2>about bbls and fucking all this extra ship trying to

0:55:17.040 --> 0:55:19.560
<v Speaker 2>look like the next girl. Like what's his name just

0:55:19.960 --> 0:55:22.920
<v Speaker 2>said I was the first one to put a woman

0:55:23.200 --> 0:55:25.279
<v Speaker 2>for with a BBO. We talk about Buffy the body

0:55:25.320 --> 0:55:26.880
<v Speaker 2>and all stuff like that. So we're seeing all this

0:55:26.920 --> 0:55:32.400
<v Speaker 2>ship and all this. But I'm saying, but I'm that's stupid.

0:55:32.600 --> 0:55:34.839
<v Speaker 2>But I'm saying, we're seeing this, and we're seeing that

0:55:34.840 --> 0:55:36.839
<v Speaker 2>that's what y'all are liking or going to. So it's

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<v Speaker 2>like if I go out with her, right and we

0:55:39.040 --> 0:55:40.520
<v Speaker 2>go to a club and I see like all these

0:55:40.560 --> 0:55:42.239
<v Speaker 2>girls with all these bodies, and we see all these

0:55:42.280 --> 0:55:45.920
<v Speaker 2>men just going after them, is that that is that

0:55:45.960 --> 0:55:48.000
<v Speaker 2>because they're thirsty? Is that what you're meaning? And we're

0:55:48.120 --> 0:55:53.160
<v Speaker 2>just bystanders what I'm saying, Okay, So what I'm saying

0:55:53.200 --> 0:55:55.600
<v Speaker 2>is these girls be up in there, have they cleave it,

0:55:55.680 --> 0:55:58.719
<v Speaker 2>y'all whatever, whatever, trying to get attention. And so that's

0:55:58.760 --> 0:56:02.879
<v Speaker 2>thirsty and in a regular outfit, why would you same

0:56:02.920 --> 0:56:04.920
<v Speaker 2>spot you're saying that that's still thirsty.

0:56:05.000 --> 0:56:07.520
<v Speaker 1>Why would you want to be at a Like everybody

0:56:07.560 --> 0:56:11.520
<v Speaker 1>in the crack house ain't necessarily buying or selling crack.

0:56:11.600 --> 0:56:14.400
<v Speaker 1>They could be watching the game too, So what the

0:56:14.400 --> 0:56:16.920
<v Speaker 1>fuck difference did that make when a police raid the house?

0:56:17.000 --> 0:56:20.560
<v Speaker 1>Why would you be somewhere so unsavory? What is wrong

0:56:20.600 --> 0:56:23.719
<v Speaker 1>with you? I mean now, I mean ever in your

0:56:23.880 --> 0:56:26.799
<v Speaker 1>every in your life, like ever in your life? Why

0:56:26.800 --> 0:56:27.799
<v Speaker 1>would be?

0:56:27.800 --> 0:56:31.719
<v Speaker 2>Before I was younger, like you said, I was young

0:56:31.760 --> 0:56:32.359
<v Speaker 2>and I didn't get.

0:56:32.320 --> 0:56:33.719
<v Speaker 1>So why are you defending it now?

0:56:33.920 --> 0:56:37.839
<v Speaker 2>I'm I'm saying, like, what's the problem though? I mean,

0:56:37.880 --> 0:56:38.680
<v Speaker 2>it's not nothing.

0:56:38.719 --> 0:56:43.800
<v Speaker 1>You just thirsty, thirsty? You take your thirsty ass somewhere.

0:56:43.920 --> 0:56:46.080
<v Speaker 1>If I take my thirsty ass to a crack house

0:56:46.080 --> 0:56:47.840
<v Speaker 1>today right now, knowing what I got to lose to

0:56:47.880 --> 0:56:50.600
<v Speaker 1>watch the Super Bowl game, I got everything my stupid

0:56:50.600 --> 0:56:54.280
<v Speaker 1>ass got coming to me because we could take already

0:56:54.360 --> 0:56:56.360
<v Speaker 1>somewhere else and watch the goddamn.

0:56:55.880 --> 0:56:58.759
<v Speaker 2>Gay Basically, if you go the club and you meet

0:56:58.760 --> 0:57:01.720
<v Speaker 2>a guy and he do you wrong, you was thirsty

0:57:01.760 --> 0:57:06.120
<v Speaker 2>and at home, well you know what he's thinking. Can't

0:57:06.120 --> 0:57:07.640
<v Speaker 2>be aske at home? Why would you talking to a guy?

0:57:08.400 --> 0:57:10.719
<v Speaker 2>Agent said, I don't even I already know what time

0:57:10.760 --> 0:57:12.279
<v Speaker 2>it is. When niggas in the club, I don't talk

0:57:12.320 --> 0:57:12.680
<v Speaker 2>to do.

0:57:12.760 --> 0:57:15.759
<v Speaker 1>Except you literally participated, did it? Of course you have.

0:57:15.840 --> 0:57:17.480
<v Speaker 1>You met niggas in the club and you knocked them

0:57:17.520 --> 0:57:20.400
<v Speaker 1>down before. Now I'm not saying you knocked them down

0:57:20.480 --> 0:57:22.880
<v Speaker 1>the same night. I'm saying, but you met guys that

0:57:23.000 --> 0:57:24.880
<v Speaker 1>was looking for girls to knock down, and then you

0:57:24.960 --> 0:57:27.919
<v Speaker 1>knocked them down. You became a part of the statistics.

0:57:28.320 --> 0:57:30.920
<v Speaker 1>That was Yes, that was the point of it. That's

0:57:30.920 --> 0:57:34.160
<v Speaker 1>why niggas go niggas for now. Listen, you might find

0:57:34.240 --> 0:57:36.200
<v Speaker 1>a woman or two that's crazy to be like because

0:57:36.240 --> 0:57:38.000
<v Speaker 1>I hear pooring old women be like I can't wait

0:57:38.000 --> 0:57:39.960
<v Speaker 1>to find my husband and be like, girl, you make porn.

0:57:41.000 --> 0:57:42.960
<v Speaker 1>I'm not saying poor women can't find husband. I'm just

0:57:42.960 --> 0:57:46.800
<v Speaker 1>saying that's just a weird But that's just a weird thought,

0:57:47.160 --> 0:57:48.880
<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean. And I think it's because

0:57:49.600 --> 0:57:52.440
<v Speaker 1>because we're so far about what marriage is, we're so

0:57:52.600 --> 0:57:55.680
<v Speaker 1>far trying to keep redefining words. Hell, you can't even

0:57:55.680 --> 0:57:58.000
<v Speaker 1>say what a man or a woman is. So that's

0:57:58.040 --> 0:58:00.240
<v Speaker 1>why you thought that so freely, Like you just say it,

0:58:00.320 --> 0:58:02.120
<v Speaker 1>like why would you be giving away the one thing

0:58:02.160 --> 0:58:04.720
<v Speaker 1>that this nigga's supposed to have, its special that's the

0:58:04.760 --> 0:58:07.360
<v Speaker 1>point of marriage. You're supposed to give yourself to somebody.

0:58:07.560 --> 0:58:10.880
<v Speaker 1>If you gave it to every other nigga, it is

0:58:10.960 --> 0:58:13.520
<v Speaker 1>not the greatest present that you could keep rewrapping that

0:58:13.560 --> 0:58:16.520
<v Speaker 1>dirty motherfucker handing it off. It's going to lose value

0:58:16.520 --> 0:58:18.600
<v Speaker 1>because it's dirty. Cause you to let all these dirty

0:58:18.640 --> 0:58:20.200
<v Speaker 1>niggas you made in the club tagging.

0:58:21.800 --> 0:58:21.960
<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

0:58:21.960 --> 0:58:25.760
<v Speaker 1>But again it goes back to the but it goes

0:58:25.800 --> 0:58:28.160
<v Speaker 1>back to the point of what I'm saying initially, Right,

0:58:28.280 --> 0:58:31.600
<v Speaker 1>we're not you nigga. You are the bearer. You bring

0:58:32.400 --> 0:58:35.360
<v Speaker 1>life into the universe. Why would you compare yourself?

0:58:36.800 --> 0:58:39.120
<v Speaker 2>You and you can have your dirty dick and bring

0:58:39.200 --> 0:58:41.000
<v Speaker 2>or whatever the fuck. So it don't matter.

0:58:41.320 --> 0:58:43.680
<v Speaker 1>The difference is your silly ass is not doing it.

0:58:44.600 --> 0:58:46.640
<v Speaker 1>So your nigga could be a fuck up, but you

0:58:46.680 --> 0:58:48.919
<v Speaker 1>shouldn't be a fuck up because it's your fucking body,

0:58:48.960 --> 0:58:52.240
<v Speaker 1>it's your property. It's the way somebody else treat your car,

0:58:52.320 --> 0:58:54.760
<v Speaker 1>so way you supposed to treat your care. You shouldn't

0:58:54.760 --> 0:58:57.919
<v Speaker 1>be treating your car the way a motherfucker that don't

0:58:57.920 --> 0:58:59.440
<v Speaker 1>respect cars treat cars.

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<v Speaker 2>Keep that thing right. You never know.

0:59:06.760 --> 0:59:07.479
<v Speaker 1>Jesus Christ.

0:59:07.600 --> 0:59:09.760
<v Speaker 2>Blame the I P A man. I told you she

0:59:09.800 --> 0:59:11.720
<v Speaker 2>gave me I P A. I never had this. It's

0:59:11.840 --> 0:59:12.440
<v Speaker 2>just bomb.

0:59:12.440 --> 0:59:13.760
<v Speaker 3>What's that same right?

0:59:14.480 --> 0:59:15.640
<v Speaker 2>That ain't right, y'all?

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<v Speaker 1>So you're just poisoned now.

0:59:17.280 --> 0:59:20.000
<v Speaker 2>I'm poisoned tonight and I ain't at the club. I'm

0:59:20.040 --> 0:59:23.200
<v Speaker 2>at the studio, not at the club.

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<v Speaker 1>Good looking out for tuning into The note Seller's podcast.

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<v Speaker 1>This episode was recorded right here on the West coast

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<v Speaker 1>of the USA and produced by my homeboys A King

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