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Speaker 3: Thank you of you. Subject. How do I temporarily break

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Speaker 3: up with him?

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Speaker 1: Dear Stephen Shirley, I've been dating a preacher's kid for

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Speaker 1: eight months and we've been to Christian counseling and everything

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Speaker 1: in hopes of getting married soon. I'm thirty four years old,

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Speaker 1: and before I met this man, I have been single

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Speaker 1: for five years because I'm attracted to men that aren't

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Speaker 1: ready to settle down. And counseling, I learned that I

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Speaker 1: was attracting what I put out there For that reason,

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Speaker 1: I don't want to lose this man, but there are

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Speaker 1: some things I need to get out of my system

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Speaker 1: before I become a wife. The main thing I want

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Speaker 1: and need to do would definitely end my relationship with

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Speaker 1: my man. There is an annual HBCU game in Miami

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Speaker 1: around Labor Day, and I'm going to the game with

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Speaker 1: it's guys too, and we're getting an airbnb on the water.

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Speaker 1: I'm the DJ of the crew, so I can't miss out.

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Speaker 1: I haven't even told my boyfriend that I'm going because

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Speaker 1: he will automatically go into planning mode. I will have

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Speaker 1: submissive to him, but not yet. Before all of that happens,

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Speaker 1: I need to have sex with my ex one or.

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Speaker 3: Two more times in Miami.

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Speaker 1: He will be staying in our airbnb, so it's bound

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Speaker 1: to happen. I need just one week where I'm single

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Speaker 1: quality time with my friends.

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Speaker 3: I can't control social.

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Speaker 1: Media pictures, so I have to come up with a

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Speaker 1: good lie to cover up anything he might see. I

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Speaker 1: need three or four days. So how do I temporarily

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Speaker 1: break up with him? Okay, temporarily break up with him,

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Speaker 1: permanently break up with him. One of those is going

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Speaker 1: to happen over this weekend if you do this, because

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Speaker 1: I can't believe you're serious. You're kidding, right? I mean,

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Speaker 1: what a way to start a new life with this guy?

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Speaker 1: What a way you guys are talking about marriage? What

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Speaker 1: a way to start a marriage right after you sleep

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Speaker 1: I do appreciate the fact that you're trying to do

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Speaker 1: but it really doesn't sound like you're ready to be

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Speaker 1: going to tell him already. Why don't you just wait

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Speaker 1: a while before you marry him? What's what's the rush?

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Speaker 1: What is the rush with this guy? Then you could

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Speaker 1: do whatever you want to, Okay, And have you ever

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Speaker 1: thought what would happen if you get caught? You know,

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Speaker 1: in all these lies and stuff that you're planning out.

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Speaker 1: This sounds like a good man to have. He does

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Speaker 1: sound like a good guy. So maybe there's something you're

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Speaker 1: not satisfied with. Is he not good in bed or something?

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Speaker 1: Is that why you want to go back.

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Speaker 3: With your ex?

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Speaker 1: Maybe you're just greedy. You want everything, you want everybody.

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Speaker 1: He's already introduced you to his family and his friends

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Speaker 1: and doesn't deserve to be cheated on or treated like this.

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Speaker 1: Is your ex still interested in you? Or does he

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Speaker 3: You know when you.

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Speaker 1: Guys hook up like this, I don't know you're talking

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Speaker 4: Steve, Well, I'll see what's happening in this letter. So

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Speaker 4: let's just going to get to it. See, she set

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Speaker 4: it up, but this is the preface. I've been dating

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Speaker 4: See this was a setup. He's a preacher's kid, not her.

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Speaker 4: So because it's a preacher's kids. They've been going to

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Speaker 4: thirty four, and before I met this man, she said,

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Speaker 2: Now what that means is for the.

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Speaker 4: Past five years, everybody she don't dated was just there

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Speaker 2: That's what this line mean. She said.

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Speaker 4: In counseling, I learned that I was attracting what I

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Speaker 4: I don't know what this counselor said it made you

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Speaker 4: we know that's how you are right For that reason,

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Speaker 4: I don't want to lose this man, but there are

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Speaker 4: some things I need to get out of my system

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Speaker 4: before I become a wife. Now, if you already know

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Speaker 4: that there's something you need to get out your system,

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Speaker 4: why are you talking about becoming anybody's wife.

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Speaker 2: Before it's out your system?

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Speaker 4: Y'all already in Christian counseling that ain't doing no damn wood,

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Speaker 4: So you know you might as well. All you to

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Speaker 4: won't have nothing to do with you except do But

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Speaker 4: you still got that in your system because that's what

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Speaker 4: need to do definitely well in my relationship with my man.

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Speaker 4: There's an annual HBCU game in Miami around Labor Day,

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Speaker 4: and I'm going to the game with my crew from college.

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Speaker 4: The crew is not just girls, it's guys too, and

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Speaker 4: were getting an Airbnb on the walk all y'all. All,

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Speaker 4: y'all in the same the whole crew. You the dj

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Speaker 4: ED crew, so I can't miss out. I haven't told

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Speaker 4: to play any more. Well, I know what you and

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Speaker 4: the crew do. See you and this crew, y'all been

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Speaker 4: doing this for a long time. This HBCU game is

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Speaker 4: where y'all go get buck wow, and you've been doing

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Speaker 2: Well, we come back, I'll tell you how this is

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Speaker 2: gonna go.

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Speaker 1: All right, we'll have part two of your response, Steve

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Speaker 1: coming up at twenty three minutes after the hour today.

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Speaker 1: Strawberry letter, subject, how do I temporarily break up with him.

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Speaker 1: We'll get back into it right after this.

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Speaker 3: You're listening hard Morning Show.

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Speaker 1: All right, Come on, Steve, let's recap today's strawberry letter.

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Speaker 1: The subject is, how do I temporarily break up with him?

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Speaker 4: Well, this lady thirty four years old, dating this preacher's kid.

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Speaker 4: They've been going to Christian counseling, which is obviously his idea.

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Speaker 2: They talking about getting married soon. Now.

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Speaker 4: When she met this preacher's kid, she had been single

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Speaker 4: for five years prior, and all she was attracting that

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Speaker 4: men that aren't ready to settle down.

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Speaker 2: So what that means is all her.

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Speaker 4: Relationship with all these men for five years is they

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Speaker 4: were just doing so now and then she found out

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Speaker 4: in counseling that she was attracting what she put out there.

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Speaker 4: So and then for that reason, she says, she don't

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Speaker 4: want to lose this man, this preacher's kid, but it's

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Speaker 4: something in her system she need to get out before

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Speaker 4: she become a wife. It's a HBCU game going down

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Speaker 4: college is going. She can't miss it because she the

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Speaker 4: DJ and and that's why she came missing. Well, that

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Speaker 4: ain't why your ass came missing. I ain't told your

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Speaker 4: planet mode. I'm gonna have to tell him that he's

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Speaker 4: his parents. I love how this man loves me, and

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Speaker 4: I can see myself being submissed to it, but not yet.

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Speaker 2: Well, then you ain't ready to get married. So what

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Speaker 2: y'all ain't counseling for.

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Speaker 4: People go to marriage counsel when they talking about getting married.

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Speaker 4: Why are you talking about getting married?

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Speaker 2: You ain't ready?

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Speaker 4: You say, before all that happens, I need to have

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Speaker 4: sex with my ex one or two more times. Well

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Speaker 4: that could be five or six, probably eight or nine

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Speaker 4: because your ex was bragging. But he your ex for

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Speaker 4: a reason. But you don't know how to leave well

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Speaker 4: enough alone. You got a man that treats you well

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Speaker 4: and everything, and you say you love the way this

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Speaker 2: You you want to go and get done.

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Speaker 4: At this air being that you say, before all that happens,

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Speaker 4: I need to have sex with my X one or

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Speaker 4: two more times. In Miami, he gonna be staying at

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Speaker 4: our Airbnb, so it's bound to happen. Well, it's gonna

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Speaker 4: y'all do at the HBCU game in Miami. Your crew

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Speaker 4: I just need one weekend where I'm single and I

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Speaker 4: I'm thinking of starting an argument and telling him he

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Speaker 4: time with my friends.

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Speaker 2: Now, watch this stupid ass statement.

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Speaker 4: I can't control social media pictures, so I have to

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Speaker 4: he might see. I need three or four days, So

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Speaker 4: how do I temporarily break up with him?

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Speaker 2: You don't. Why don't you just break up with it?

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Speaker 4: Why aren't you just telling him you're going somewhere. You

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Speaker 4: need time to think, and you do. And what you

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Speaker 4: need to think about is how you really don't need

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Speaker 4: to be married right now because you don't have a

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Speaker 4: mental capacity for marriage. If you get married right now,

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Speaker 4: you're gonna cheat on it because you don't even want

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Speaker 4: belong to you.

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Speaker 2: See, you want to just keep doing you.

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Speaker 4: And you can't use the word break up with a

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Speaker 4: man that's in love with you because all he gonna

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Speaker 4: hear is you gone. And you need more than counseling.

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Speaker 4: That's what you need. You need to have a real

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Speaker 2: You ain't wifey material. You just not. Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Really, you need just gone and just be and just

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Speaker 4: be the chick you are. Yeah, because you ain't ready

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Speaker 4: gonna get caught because you ain't good.

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Speaker 2: No, you ain't good at this at all.

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Speaker 4: First of all, you wrote us or who in here

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Speaker 4: don't know about the Airbnb at the Waterfront down in

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Speaker 4: Miami doing it?

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Speaker 2: You see, you gave it on Labor Day weekend.

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Speaker 4: It's easy to figure out who this crew is. And

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Speaker 4: you the DJ and you're thirty four. You put all

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Speaker 4: this in a letter. You don't even know how to lie.

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Speaker 4: You told too much truth to start lying now, you dumb,

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Speaker 4: you dumb.

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Speaker 2: Somebody listening to this show that know.

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Speaker 4: You herd did you right in to Steve because you

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Speaker 4: know he's thirty four?

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Speaker 2: You got this dude that's.

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Speaker 4: A preacher's kid.

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Speaker 3: He's a good man.

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Speaker 4: You ain't counselor your is gonna be at that A, A,

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Speaker 4: B and B and you finna go back to this fool.

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Speaker 4: Hear he didn't want you when you was with him,

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Speaker 4: that's why y'all broke up. But I just want to

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Speaker 4: be with him just one or two more time. But

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Speaker 4: you're gonna lose your good man, you stupid.

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Speaker 3: That's how they're gonna say, why are we.

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Speaker 2: Talking to you?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: You ain't wifey Materia, you know, why don't you tell

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Speaker 2: the preachers here?

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Speaker 4: Hey, look, I just say, wife, I could see myself

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Speaker 4: submitted to him.

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Speaker 2: But not yet.

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Speaker 3: He takes her to all his family functions to.

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Speaker 4: You want to go to Miami by yourself gone and

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Speaker 4: go matter of fact, why don't you let this dude though,

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Speaker 4: because you hear a good dude man, you know he

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Speaker 4: deserves somebody else he deserves somebody that want help. I

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Speaker 4: hate to see men going through it like this. Women

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Speaker 4: hate to see women going through it. But all women

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Speaker 4: listening to this letter going, You got it man, You

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Speaker 4: finish traded me in for some trick move over Labor

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Speaker 4: Day weekend.

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Speaker 2: You stupid. Wait that damn good of a DJ. I

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Speaker 2: don't get.

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Speaker 3: You really haven't got that many songs.

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Speaker 4: All all the records you got everybody that kid can

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Speaker 4: we got them saying songs they get Dougie fresh and

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Speaker 4: show enough turn up?

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Speaker 2: All right?

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