Speaker 1: We're going to Paris.
Speaker 2: Girl.
Speaker 1: Okay, well we wee wee chantey manage. Well we won't.
Speaker 1: But it's the three of us. Let me phrase that. Wait,
Speaker 1: never out of my lads been like you was in
Speaker 1: the more One.
Speaker 2: So what is gonna be?
Speaker 1: Baby squad?
Speaker 2: We've been the goods?
Speaker 1: You running on us?
Speaker 2: God? What you need? Baby?
Speaker 1: Won't you keep me company?
Speaker 2: Give me something the jube and I just swing for
Speaker 2: you when we get home, if you let me put it.
Speaker 2: Welcome back to another episode of Humble Baddies. I am
Speaker 2: Alexis welch Stotameyer, I'm Ashley Nicole, and.
Speaker 1: I am Chara Risotto and we are the Daddies.
Speaker 2: We are freshly back landed and rested from beautiful Bourbon
Speaker 2: Street in New Orleans.
Speaker 1: Yeah, what a time we had. I mean we did
Speaker 1: so many.
Speaker 2: First, we had our first meeting Greed as the Humble
Speaker 2: Batties if we did a live on Nightcaps, so we
Speaker 2: were introduced there with Shannon and Ocho and many other guests.
Speaker 1: A few podcasts appearances.
Speaker 2: That's right, you two were on Outside the Lines, inside
Speaker 2: inside the Line.
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, got out to Altoya and her crew. That
Speaker 1: was amazing. It was such a good time.
Speaker 2: Yes, yes, we stopped by a fashion show off the
Speaker 2: Field Ladies Association.
Speaker 1: That was nice.
Speaker 2: That was that beautiful, Like we laughed and we cried.
Speaker 2: It was just it was a beautiful, beautiful event.
Speaker 1: Yeah it was.
Speaker 2: We were not ready for that, right, but they honored them,
Speaker 2: some of the victims of the attack that happened in
Speaker 2: New Orleans at the beginning of the year. So it
Speaker 2: was really good to be a part of New Orleans,
Speaker 2: have the cuisines and experience the streets and many fans
Speaker 2: from all around the world. Right, shout out our favorite restaurant.
Speaker 2: Let's out Larry Morrow. Yes, shout out, Yes, the Tomorrow
Speaker 2: is amazing. Listen, I'm still thinking about that food. My
Speaker 2: mouth is so the water app it was like, bring
Speaker 2: some mouth, keep bringing them out, bringing them out. But
Speaker 2: the hospitality he gave us, it was amazing. So if
Speaker 2: y'all ever go to New Orleans, make sure y'all check
Speaker 2: out Marrows.
Speaker 1: Yes, Creole and Cajun food with the different tastes of boys.
Speaker 1: Later the jumbala as you say, yeah, red fish. Right, Oh, yeah,
Speaker 1: everything's right. I mean, oh, it's taking me back now.
Speaker 1: I might have to go whip something up.
Speaker 2: We forgot some We're gonna have to go back and
Speaker 2: get our uh what something We just we just need
Speaker 2: an excuse to go back because you ready back. I mean,
Speaker 2: I'm sure New Orleans wants to see us again. I
Speaker 2: got to unbig, unbig this back through girl up.
Speaker 1: The food was delicious though, so yeah, shout out tomorrows.
Speaker 1: It was absolutely divine.
Speaker 2: So speaking of the big main event that just happened
Speaker 2: on Super Bowl Sunday, how you okay? So y'all see
Speaker 2: what's going on. As y'all can see, I'm a Kansas
Speaker 2: City fan, I still have love for Kansas City.
Speaker 1: We were defeated, y'all. Y'all ass got y'all, we did, thanks.
Speaker 2: And the best team won. So shout out to the Eagles. Yes,
Speaker 2: I told y'all if y'all would have listened to me,
Speaker 2: I said it. I said, the Eagles are going to
Speaker 2: come and tell that ass up.
Speaker 1: And they, you know, low key, not only did they
Speaker 1: tell that ass up, it's a lot of records broken too.
Speaker 2: It was. I mean, the sacks were outrageous. I mean,
Speaker 2: I just I was expecting a better game. I was
Speaker 2: hoping for a better game, just as a fan of football. Yeah,
Speaker 2: the game was pretty Oh my goodness, it was a
Speaker 2: sad game, zero to twenty four. At halftime, I was
Speaker 2: just like, at this point, I was like, how are
Speaker 2: we going to either get back from this or are
Speaker 2: we gonna end up like, you know, the underdog? The
Speaker 2: story of the comeback we epic, like like the Patriots
Speaker 2: and the Falcons. Correct, you remember the Falcons was ten,
Speaker 2: the Patriots up, but then the Patriots came back halftime
Speaker 2: was it halftime? Third quarter? They came back and won.
Speaker 2: So I was thinking something like that was going to happen.
Speaker 1: They do say it was scripted. That's all the Chiefs. Oh,
Speaker 1: we don't want to hear that latey'a. We're saying this
Speaker 1: that about this one. There was like what three interceptions?
Speaker 1: It was They played horrible.
Speaker 2: I've never seen a the black girl of like that
Speaker 2: in the magnitude of just heaviness of the Chiefs.
Speaker 1: So but it's okay, we have the last two rings,
Speaker 1: so not too bad. It's okay to share the wealth.
Speaker 2: They say, shout out to Jalen Hurts. He the war goes, Yes,
Speaker 2: he's the humble daddy. He's the humble daddy.
Speaker 1: Jalen Hurts through two hundred and twenty one yards. He
Speaker 1: had two touchdown Did that yeah, NBP, Yeah yeah, So
Speaker 1: shout out to Jalen Hurts. I was actually cheering for
Speaker 1: him too.
Speaker 2: I just it's because you know he has he's led
Speaker 2: by an all female team, a black agent. You know
Speaker 2: that you can see his love for his fiance, and
Speaker 2: just we love to see it. We love to see
Speaker 2: all that game.
Speaker 1: And then shout out to this game in general with
Speaker 1: two black quarterbacks. Come on now and I'm rooting for
Speaker 1: everybody black. That's right, went situation? It surely was. It
Speaker 1: sure was.
Speaker 2: I cannot complain like it was just for that overall,
Speaker 2: you know, it was definitely a vibe to be able
Speaker 2: to see it and just really understand it. And then
Speaker 2: at least us Chiefs fans, we did have something to
Speaker 2: look out for the halftime performance, right, But.
Speaker 1: Did y'all really look at like to see the halftime performance?
Speaker 2: I did absolutely that. I feel like a lot of
Speaker 2: people tune in more so for the halftime. But I
Speaker 2: feel like people was upset. Did y'all see like the
Speaker 2: Twitter the tweets? As we know, people gonna have something
Speaker 2: to say. What they were saying, what black Twitter or
Speaker 2: regular Twitter, because black Twitter is a.
Speaker 1: Whole nother they was going in. Black Twitter was going
Speaker 1: in on the performance. I loved the performance. I was turt.
Speaker 2: I was turt but I felt like it wasn't to
Speaker 2: the capacity of what a super Bowl halftime should.
Speaker 1: I disagree. I feel like Lil Wayne would have rupped
Speaker 1: it out the part, but I felt like.
Speaker 2: More people know Lil Wayne's music, and for it to
Speaker 2: be in New Orleans, I feel like it would have
Speaker 2: hit home better because they were showing like videos of
Speaker 2: like the audience, and they didn't know the music what
Speaker 2: it was. Some songs I didn't even know, Like some
Speaker 2: of the songs I didn't I know Kendrick Lamarina I knew,
Speaker 2: I knew my Dogs, But if you don't know Kendrick
Speaker 2: lamar music like that, I mean, it's hard to get
Speaker 2: in here because he's a he's a lyricist. Like you know,
Speaker 2: it's not just like music you just I don't know,
Speaker 2: it's it's very meaningful and people, I think were missing
Speaker 2: his message that he was making. I totally disagreed. One
Speaker 2: we had the sitting president sitting in the stands. You know,
Speaker 2: we're coming off of this election and inaugurguration, and I
Speaker 2: wasn't paying attention to him. I know one thing, though,
Speaker 2: we have a Pultzer Prize winning artist that is storytelling,
Speaker 2: and he had the platform on America's biggest stage, and
Speaker 2: not just America. I'm gonna just let's say the world's
Speaker 2: global stage, just the NFL. And the fact that he
Speaker 2: basically told this president in his face, respectfully, not using
Speaker 2: any curse words and using he took out a lot
Speaker 2: of major words that were catchphrases that you know, we
Speaker 2: all know to fill in the bank. Yeah, Kendrick was
Speaker 2: the epitome of social influence and standing on business and justice.
Speaker 2: He is, and I don't everybody caught it the translated.
Speaker 2: I think a lot of the people were just sitting
Speaker 2: there pay attention to Like his mic. It wasn't clear
Speaker 2: in the beginning because Kendrick is very controversial, like he'll
Speaker 2: say something like he can spit something out out of
Speaker 2: his music quick and it. Yeah, so I felt like
Speaker 2: the mic wasn't intentionally low until his last song came on,
Speaker 2: Never out of My Name like you was and the
Speaker 2: mom was I just know that pop culture and the
Speaker 2: song that everybody is talking about and off of album
Speaker 2: and song, and just like all these Grammy wins, he
Speaker 2: stood for so much and I loved it, like the
Speaker 2: fact that he was on a game controller, the fact
Speaker 2: that he.
Speaker 1: Had Samuel L. Jackson being ol Sam.
Speaker 2: How we respect Sammy l as being one of the
Speaker 2: highest He's in some of the highest grossing movies we've
Speaker 2: ever seen. You have Serena, who is the epitome of
Speaker 2: black essence, and I'm not up in the face, come on,
Speaker 2: but she's from that. It's just like Kendrick. So she's
Speaker 2: coming in there and you know.
Speaker 1: It is that's fine because you know they're just gonna
Speaker 1: let us know.
Speaker 2: And then you just had you had Scissor too, like
Speaker 2: she's also an ex known of Drake as well. Know that.
Speaker 1: So it's just like, you know, Kendrick was being petty.
Speaker 2: He was, but everyone in Unison, in that whole Super
Speaker 2: Bowl and even at home sing a minor.
Speaker 1: So if you didn't know the words, you knew those
Speaker 1: two words. See.
Speaker 2: I thought he wasn't gonna say sing it because in
Speaker 2: the beginning he said something like, you know, people like
Speaker 2: the Sioux I would sing it, but people like the
Speaker 2: sewer with the American culture sing that though.
Speaker 1: That's the American again. Yeah, he was gonna sing that song.
Speaker 2: Do y'all feel like it was intentionally like to basically
Speaker 2: let Drake like with Drake. Do y'all feel like after
Speaker 2: this Super Bowl performance his music career went down the drink.
Speaker 2: Absolutely not. This is what we need to see for
Speaker 2: the culture. This is what we need to see for
Speaker 2: music and entertainment. And what better way to really capture
Speaker 2: this on live TV and where now we're talking about
Speaker 2: it the next day.
Speaker 1: You know, I think it was like a big embarrassment
Speaker 1: for Drake.
Speaker 2: Absolutely not. This is a form of arts now. I
Speaker 2: can't wait to hear what Drake is gonna come back with.
Speaker 2: Drake has so many levels too, being an actor being
Speaker 2: you know, he can sing, he can touch the ladies,
Speaker 2: he can be Champagne poppy, but he can get in
Speaker 2: his bag too.
Speaker 1: And I can't wait to see because the whole point
Speaker 1: is he's been on the top.
Speaker 2: Drake has been the number one you know, really not
Speaker 2: the enemy, I don't want to say the enemy, but
Speaker 2: the goal. Hence why he's bringing on people as features
Speaker 2: and elevating them and giving them a different vibe. We're
Speaker 2: playing Drake on yachts, playing Drake in clubs in Europe,
Speaker 2: in Greece, things like that.
Speaker 1: You know, so I see it happening. It's Drake, like
Speaker 1: he's amazing.
Speaker 2: So it's so how do you feel when everyone, all
Speaker 2: the top dogs basically are against you.
Speaker 1: Now, Like, I don't think it's an against thing.
Speaker 2: I just think it's really like it's still competition at
Speaker 2: the end of the day, and they always going to
Speaker 2: come after the top and right now it's Kendrick. So
Speaker 2: that means everyone has to get their pins together, their
Speaker 2: thoughts together, that they their their words and their ammission
Speaker 2: ammumission together, so that way they can come to the
Speaker 2: top spot.
Speaker 1: That's what rap game is about.
Speaker 2: Especially with the men, they like to go back and
Speaker 2: forth and have that banter and me versus you, whereas
Speaker 2: the ladies, for example, they can go on tour and
Speaker 2: sell out and like come together and battle and do
Speaker 2: their thing, but like have a nurturing spirit.
Speaker 1: So like I just see it more as a sport.
Speaker 2: I feel like I feel like Drake could have it
Speaker 2: could have reversed a little bit. I know, Boots, he
Speaker 2: came out and said nobody stood up for Drake. Whatever,
Speaker 2: but I feel like that's false because DJ Kellett came
Speaker 2: out and said, hey, I got two songs that's kept
Speaker 2: coming out with Drake or whatever, and Drake came back
Speaker 2: and responded. He came back and responded and was like,
Speaker 2: you must be talking about Drake Bell. Like that's a
Speaker 2: slap in the face because DJ everybody know DJ Kelly
Speaker 2: is that boy. And for you to go back and
Speaker 2: reply and make a statement like that, like damn, like
Speaker 2: he basically there for you. He's telling people even though
Speaker 2: he's friends with your Drake came back and said he
Speaker 2: came back and come in and he was like, you
Speaker 2: must be talking.
Speaker 1: About Drake Bell. I'm sure they have. So I don't know.
Speaker 2: All I know is I thought the super Bowl performance
Speaker 2: was black as fuck, and I love like, even if
Speaker 2: you didn't get like the deeper subliminal messages that he
Speaker 2: was obviously displaying, I just felt like it was amazing
Speaker 2: to see, you know, the all the black dancers. They
Speaker 2: were all black, Yes, they were all How they did
Speaker 2: the flag and blue soldiers right, yeah.
Speaker 1: Like there's there.
Speaker 2: All of it was just very much just I don't know,
Speaker 2: it was raw, it was black, and yeah, yes, I
Speaker 2: love that about it. It was a it was a
Speaker 2: good super Bowl. It's just it was just different from
Speaker 2: like I probably would have preferred Lowayne to be just
Speaker 2: because it was in New Orleans, New Orleans, and I
Speaker 2: feel like Lowayne is more entertaining. Yeah, probably are more
Speaker 2: it's music, it's more relatable. So you think he should
Speaker 2: be next? No, I think somebody else should be next. Okay,
Speaker 2: should be next.
Speaker 1: Chris Brown.
Speaker 2: Oh, it's definitely Chris Brice. Brown's definitely Chris Brown. Chris
Speaker 2: Brown is is like top tier up there with Michael Jackson.
Speaker 2: I agree he gets performance as he's a performer, he
Speaker 2: can sing, and I just feel like, you know, he
Speaker 2: deserves a chance.
Speaker 1: I agree he should be next. That That would be
Speaker 1: my pick too, because it's just everything he can do flip.
Speaker 2: He got the energy, like the crowd gonna stay going
Speaker 2: from from start to end. And he's a generational talent,
Speaker 2: right we all appreciated decade.
Speaker 1: Yes, and he wants some Grammys so that's the big thing.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: So yeah, so it's just it's his time. It's definitely
Speaker 1: he should be next.
Speaker 2: So we're gonna were gonna put that out there for
Speaker 2: the universe as well as the committee.
Speaker 1: We want to see Chris Brown, right, ladies, Chris Brown CV.
Speaker 1: We want we want to see it. Gonna be hard,
Speaker 1: but they need to bring Chris Brown there. Who picked
Speaker 1: is it? There's a committee? I believe that Z.
Speaker 2: I think that's part of that. Yeah, it's like a committee.
Speaker 2: And I feel like they haven't missed yet.
Speaker 1: I really do. Like I appreciated Kendrick. It was great
Speaker 1: timing just off of when they go to Atlanta. I'm
Speaker 1: gonna need g Z. I'm gonna need Yeah, you know,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna need some real Atlanta there. Okay, who else?
Speaker 1: What y'all do? Like future? Would y'all do?
Speaker 2: Like?
Speaker 1: No, big Boy take it back? Should we take it back?
Speaker 1: I did it the last like, I don't know if
Speaker 1: it was it was.
Speaker 2: Andre three thousand and I thought Andre. I think Big
Speaker 2: Boy did it. I don't know if Andre was on there.
Speaker 2: I can't recall, but because it was with Maroon five,
Speaker 2: remember that year.
Speaker 1: Okay? So anyways, next comments to Atlanta a couple of
Speaker 1: years now. I think it's.
Speaker 2: Twenty eight, it's going to be there, and so we
Speaker 2: really need we going some real Atlanta artists to be
Speaker 2: in the building.
Speaker 1: Okay, So we're gonna put out the play. Too many
Speaker 1: great Atlanta artists for them not to bring somebody from it.
Speaker 1: Would you mix new and old? Yeah sure, yeah, I love,
Speaker 1: I love, but we got to have old. You gotta
Speaker 1: have the main I agree to bring out all the
Speaker 1: rest of them. I agree.
Speaker 2: Who would be that main one? I would like for
Speaker 2: GenZ to be the main one? GENC needs to redo
Speaker 2: the seven, brang out the whole.
Speaker 1: That's a vibe. I think it should be out casts
Speaker 1: or a GZ Yeah, I like that. I like that.
Speaker 2: I wouldn't mind Jeezy Man the main I think that
Speaker 2: would be dope because he brings a different vibe to
Speaker 2: the city.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think that. I think that would be a good,
Speaker 1: a good look.
Speaker 2: But he have a mixture of the old street hood
Speaker 2: music and then the commercialized music.
Speaker 1: Yeah, so it'll be a good bland. I love that.
Speaker 2: Okay, Well we didn't. We didn't skip from next year.
Speaker 2: We didn't plan the whole. Actually, I'm not bad. Yes, yes,
Speaker 2: they need to put us on the committee. Yes, we'll
Speaker 2: get it done.
Speaker 1: That's what we do.
Speaker 2: So while we were on Nightcab, there was a big announcement.
Speaker 2: Anyone here, ladies want to let the announcement. Yes, well
Speaker 2: it's already out. But shout out to Shannon Sharp and
Speaker 2: his brother both. This is the first time ever, breaking history,
Speaker 2: both brothers are in the Hall of Fame. Now, that
Speaker 2: was the first time that their brothers inducted into the hallway. Yes, really, yes,
Speaker 2: here it was made. Wow.
Speaker 1: Congratulations to the Shark brothers. It was nice to be
Speaker 1: there to witness that and hear his words from both
Speaker 1: of them. You know, it was emotional.
Speaker 2: It was to hear how Shennon felt, you know about
Speaker 2: having his brother there, you know, basically saying if it
Speaker 2: wasn't for his brother, he probably wouldn't be where he is.
Speaker 2: And he speaks highy about him, like every time you
Speaker 2: hear him talk about his brother, it's like it's amazing, Like, dang,
Speaker 2: I wish I had like a sibling that I can
Speaker 2: speak highly like that about. But that's that was a blessing.
Speaker 2: So shout out to the Sharp brothers both. Yes, congratulates everything. Yeah,
Speaker 2: both absolutely congratula.
Speaker 1: I think Nick Sweeler, Okay, I know that's sorry. Speaking
Speaker 1: to next. I think next it probably would be the
Speaker 1: man and brothers.
Speaker 2: Okay, so they're bringing Eli next. I don't know, I'm
Speaker 2: just the dad is too. Is Archie in the Hall
Speaker 2: of Fame. So the fact that it'd be a father
Speaker 2: son and the father son probably would be dian and
Speaker 2: and his son. Yeah huh chador shadoor shador. Okay, well
Speaker 2: we shall see to be continued. So Bourbon Street was popping.
Speaker 2: They did close off the streets so the fans can
Speaker 2: roam the streets and really take in that essence of
Speaker 2: the French culture. The Marty Guard beads the slushies on
Speaker 2: the streets. Slushies, I mean just to just go around
Speaker 2: and see.
Speaker 1: You know what I want to say this shout out
Speaker 1: to the City of New Orleans.
Speaker 2: You guys did a great job of hosting this year
Speaker 2: and accommodating everybody and making everything centrally located.
Speaker 1: Right when you guys saw Stace officers.
Speaker 2: There was.
Speaker 1: There was police on like every corner, every block.
Speaker 2: I felt so safe, very safe, and they were very
Speaker 2: help for two A few times we were lost and
Speaker 2: we would ask like the National Guard and they would
Speaker 2: be like, come on, you know, we'll show you where
Speaker 2: to go. They walked us down through the restaurant. So
Speaker 2: shout out to the National Guard for holding it down
Speaker 2: and just that Southern hospitality from these handsome brothers that
Speaker 2: were out there.
Speaker 1: And just seeing something like you know I did and
Speaker 1: didn't you know what I'm saying. But just overall everybody
Speaker 1: was just very warm.
Speaker 2: We will walk into a store and the ladies are
Speaker 2: turning up, Yes, having a good time. They had us
Speaker 2: dancing in their vibe. Different slush, uh taste taste of
Speaker 2: the slush. Yes, it was a good little vibe, very
Speaker 2: accommodating to us to just make me feel like I
Speaker 2: was back at home, because I'm like, this is how
Speaker 2: like the Southern hospitality, this is how it is back
Speaker 2: at home. Everybody speaking to everybody that ain't nobody and
Speaker 2: then just saying yea.
Speaker 1: It's like it's like family.
Speaker 2: Yes. I just feel like they New Orleans did a
Speaker 2: great job. And the weather was very fair to us.
Speaker 2: It was warmer than we thought. Ye you wake up
Speaker 2: and you see this fog that just kind of is
Speaker 2: part of New Orleans and these these weeping willow trees
Speaker 2: hanging over and just the architecture was insane.
Speaker 1: The jazz culture, just the vibrancy, you know, it's just
Speaker 1: it was fun.
Speaker 2: It was.
Speaker 1: It's a good city. A good super Bowl.
Speaker 2: She was was so shout out again to the mayor
Speaker 2: as well as the state. Thank you for accommodating all
Speaker 2: of us.
Speaker 1: Thank you.
Speaker 2: Yes, okay, guys, it's time for hot girl headlines. My
Speaker 2: favorite part of the show during this Super Bowl. I
Speaker 2: don't know if y'all guys noticed, but Taylor Swift was
Speaker 2: shown on camera and they bowed her and she.
Speaker 1: Was looking at.
Speaker 2: Yeah, ice face was looking like they going, you girl,
Speaker 2: not not me. You know, It's funny because I'm sure
Speaker 2: she just brushed out on off. I mean it's Taylor's
Speaker 2: with like, has she ever been booed that?
Speaker 1: That probably was no.
Speaker 2: I mean Philly is known for like because they big haters,
Speaker 2: because because it was predominantly Eagle fans in.
Speaker 1: So she did get in that.
Speaker 2: Uh well that treatment. You're getting the rowdiest Kansas City.
Speaker 2: So the Eagles, like, ah, you get Eagles are known
Speaker 2: to be rowdy in your face and very boisterous, and
Speaker 2: then you have Kansas City is known to be the
Speaker 2: loudest stadium and the loudest fans in the NFL.
Speaker 1: That so the mixture of both of them is a
Speaker 1: combination that the NFL.
Speaker 2: Just like appreciates like it was. I heard that he
Speaker 2: was supposed to propose to her too. I mean, you
Speaker 2: don't know, Yeah, that's what they were saying. Well, Winds
Speaker 2: maybe wanted him to propose.
Speaker 1: I would thinking I don't know, I don't think that's happening.
Speaker 1: I would, I wouldn't do it.
Speaker 2: There. That's how he got And then they said he
Speaker 2: got his hair and plants done. I saw a memes
Speaker 2: he should they have saying he should have been rehearsing
Speaker 2: and practicing instead of getting.
Speaker 1: His hair lyne fixed. But now he has a whole
Speaker 1: full head of hair. Did y'all see that? I just
Speaker 1: see that. Yeah, you need to do a little pantinge
Speaker 1: commercial or something.
Speaker 2: Now it's been big haters just because Taylor has definitely
Speaker 2: brought up influx of fans. I saw many little girls
Speaker 2: h in a kelsey jersey with their little skirts to
Speaker 2: all their beads, and the show.
Speaker 1: I don't know how that.
Speaker 2: Doing too, because they show her and commercials and stuff
Speaker 2: you know there put her on camera.
Speaker 1: I forgot that they just basics.
Speaker 2: But last year when she started coming to the games,
Speaker 2: it showed like a big and jumps in the jersey
Speaker 2: and the purchase.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, so okay. Shout outs of Taylor.
Speaker 2: So also in attendance. Jay Z was there with Blue
Speaker 2: Ivy and Roomy.
Speaker 1: So cute, so cute. Yeah, Gaddy did care. He does that.
Speaker 1: He's he's known to bring them to and Blue Ibby
Speaker 1: is his. Oh my goodness, so big, beautiful, she's so nice,
Speaker 1: young lady.
Speaker 2: She's not there because we know she's probably, you know,
Speaker 2: rehearsing for the Cowboy Carter tour.
Speaker 1: We're going. We're going to be there. Yeah, I'm let
Speaker 1: her be there, listen, but we all like where we going.
Speaker 1: We're going to Paris?
Speaker 2: Girl, Okay, well we we wait, yeah, chant, we won't
Speaker 2: be twelve three you know, let me phrase that.
Speaker 1: And Patty, yes, not wait for that. And so also
Speaker 1: we had.
Speaker 2: Doci and Lady got God we're seeing taking pictures in
Speaker 2: their sweet for the super Bowl And Doci just won
Speaker 2: a Grammy for Best Rap Album and she is literally
Speaker 2: the third female to win list.
Speaker 1: China corn Hill and Cardi B. So shut up.
Speaker 2: Yes, and she's a tamp she's a Tampa native. Gave
Speaker 2: a big shout out during her speech to shout out
Speaker 2: to Lady Goa.
Speaker 1: I meant girl, he loved but this is Doci's time.
Speaker 1: She oh yeah.
Speaker 2: She gave a big shout out to Tampa during her speech.
Speaker 2: It was so here during her speech, it was very touching.
Speaker 2: She seemed just very humble, very grateful. So she's our
Speaker 2: humble Boddy of the week.
Speaker 1: Shout out to the.
Speaker 2: Girl. Yes, I'm a fan, so we love Doci. Maybe
Speaker 2: we get a lady guy got and Dochi Collase. Maybe
Speaker 2: for Super Bowl one year.
Speaker 1: Okay, you.
Speaker 2: Speaking into existence for you, Doc, Yes, but before we
Speaker 2: close it, did y'all see the the scrimmage, Tianna Taylor
Speaker 2: was out there.
Speaker 1: She was out there. She almost shook me.
Speaker 2: And the life was she has a little jersey until
Speaker 2: of course that Yeah. It was the celebrity football flag
Speaker 2: football game that took play as Saturday night, and.
Speaker 1: It was so much fun. It was filled with so
Speaker 1: many influencers you had.
Speaker 2: I mean, we need to be and we need any
Speaker 2: of these because these times ladies right here can play.
Speaker 1: You have to Taylor, shake it up, Jordan Childs like
Speaker 1: it was. It was a fun time. Shout out to
Speaker 1: Kiafa and Michael Vick.
Speaker 2: Michael Vick was one of the quarterbacks against Cam Newton
Speaker 2: for the Black team, so listen, Mike, I was able
Speaker 2: to you on the next one. Were trying to place
Speaker 2: a little screamage. So were they playing tackle or was
Speaker 2: it no flag? Team was let me show you about
Speaker 2: killing it. She crept coming over trying to like coach,
Speaker 2: took me out. She was playing defense, she was playing offense.
Speaker 1: She was ready.
Speaker 2: She was because the person that you want, you gonna
Speaker 2: pick first if you need the last one, like girl,
Speaker 2: come over here, because your ass athletics out there tackling
Speaker 2: and it was not tackle.
Speaker 1: I love that.
Speaker 2: Shut out to t and I'm wearing her shoes, by
Speaker 2: the way, so shout out to Tiana. But yeah, we
Speaker 2: need to play the next one, y'all avoiding that question. No,
Speaker 2: I'm down to play.
Speaker 1: Come on, now, you already know every day in my house.
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Speaker 1: scoring record was just broken back in my high school.
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Speaker 2: Got videos of me crossing people up and hills and everything.
Speaker 2: I might have to play that again, all right, all right.
Speaker 1: Never out of my name like you was, and the
Speaker 1: mom was, all right, you guys, you know what time
Speaker 1: it is? Oh, what time is it? It's time for reals?
Speaker 1: Red flag flag? We need to get you some green flags.
Speaker 2: Well, well we're gonna determine if it's a red flag
Speaker 2: or a green flag. Okay, I'm gonna give you guys
Speaker 2: some scenarioka, and y'all tell me perfect red flag or
Speaker 2: green flag or whole aps. Okay, the first one. He
Speaker 2: never plans a date, but always wants to chill at
Speaker 2: your place.
Speaker 1: It's already trying to live at it. Yeah, red flat okay.
Speaker 2: I mean unless he's watching wax Riches on Netflix, and
Speaker 2: maybe we got somes and to talk out. No red
Speaker 2: flag we gotta be outside is at your place? First
Speaker 2: of all, he don't got no house o it's giving
Speaker 2: with his mama in exactly. That's what it sounds like.
Speaker 2: It's giving.
Speaker 1: You don't got no house, no thank you, And it.
Speaker 2: Takes prep, you know, to be at your own space,
Speaker 2: clean up, get ready for that, get the mood right
Speaker 2: yeah no.
Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, no, trying over that, eat, sleep and shit. Yeah.
Speaker 1: Red No, that's a hall ass.
Speaker 2: The next one, you've been dating for months but he
Speaker 2: hasn't introduced.
Speaker 1: You to any of his friends or family. Yellow flag.
Speaker 1: That's adoption. You can make it because I faint hall ass. Yeah,
Speaker 1: yellow flag.
Speaker 2: I mean I feel like it depends because some people,
Speaker 2: if he lets you know, like his intentions in the beginning,
Speaker 2: maybe he's he told you he's moving slow, that that's serious.
Speaker 1: Everybody don't need to meet your family true exactly. So
Speaker 1: I agree with that. I don't think that's, you know,
Speaker 1: a bad thing, but it just depends. Make sure what
Speaker 1: y'all paint is in the beginning.
Speaker 2: If he told you, like, you know, this is how
Speaker 2: I'm moving, and I'll play green flag. But if it's
Speaker 2: like you haven't disclosed anything, then what you got over there,
Speaker 2: what you got going on over there? I definitely would
Speaker 2: say red flag instead of hall ass, and I like,
Speaker 2: you're yellow, so we maybe we're gonna implement that. But
Speaker 2: I would say red flag just because I wouldn't want
Speaker 2: my children to meet someone, for example, so like I
Speaker 2: would include that as family. So it takes time to
Speaker 2: really understand about trust and also about just really who
Speaker 2: you were letting in your space, so it wouldn't be
Speaker 2: a hall ass yet I feel like it does take
Speaker 2: a lot more investment in the relationship before you introduce
Speaker 2: in the family.
Speaker 1: That's true. Yeah, that's true.
Speaker 2: He's great in person, but he's dry, and he's a discant,
Speaker 2: and he's very discant over text. I don't see a
Speaker 2: problem with that. I mean, I feel like if he's
Speaker 2: good in person, that's good enough. I mean a text
Speaker 2: to me, because some people are the opposite. They're better
Speaker 2: in text than in person. They dry, right, Yeah, I
Speaker 2: would say green flag too, because I like in person person.
Speaker 1: I prefer I prefer in person. I feel like we're
Speaker 1: old school.
Speaker 2: We like the like the chase, we like intention, we
Speaker 2: like time being spent and yeah, so yeah, i'd rather
Speaker 2: that over tech. I like to check in in tech,
Speaker 2: you know, if it's quick, because we can't always just
Speaker 2: be on the phone or always in person, but I
Speaker 2: don't want to.
Speaker 1: I don't want that to be the form of communication true.
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, Yeah, A friend always disappears when you're going
Speaker 2: through tough times but expects you to be there for her.
Speaker 2: I feel like I'm that friend that is always pouring
Speaker 2: into everybody, but then when it's time for me to
Speaker 2: be poured into, it's like a ghost town. Really, I do, yeah,
Speaker 2: just because I think I try to handle things on
Speaker 2: my own too, you know, so I think it's partly
Speaker 2: on me, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but I've definitely poured into a lot of people,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel like I pre pour into friends, but
Speaker 2: not enough because I'm so busy. So I wouldn't call
Speaker 2: it a red flat because I know, like I have
Speaker 2: so much going on. But if my friend like really
Speaker 2: really really really and they like, Sharilla, I need you,
Speaker 2: but they hate asking me for my help work because
Speaker 2: they know how busy I am. But I'm inconsiderate a
Speaker 2: red flag. But I know those are things that I
Speaker 2: had to sit back and look at because I do
Speaker 2: have friends that it's for. It's like, hey, Sharrell, like
Speaker 2: I really need you and it could. It has called
Speaker 2: some friendships, and we were on the thin line of
Speaker 2: I was on the thin line.
Speaker 1: Of losing friendships.
Speaker 2: So it's just I had to pull back and be like,
Speaker 2: you know, you got to take time out, put your
Speaker 2: your busy miss away, and take time out for your friends.
Speaker 2: So I've been a victim of, you know, not being
Speaker 2: there when my friends were going through things.
Speaker 1: But it wasn't intentional, understand.
Speaker 2: I think with friendships, everybody is going to feel that
Speaker 2: at some point, like everybody's going to feel like somebody
Speaker 2: could have been there for you more, or you could
Speaker 2: have been there for somebody more, you know, because life
Speaker 2: be lifing and we all be going through stuff. And
Speaker 2: I have just learned to just you got to meet
Speaker 2: people where they're at. And you know, I don't hold
Speaker 2: it against people anymore. I feel like when you expect
Speaker 2: a lot or expect something from somebody, you just set
Speaker 2: yourself up for disappointment.
Speaker 1: So I take what I can from my friends.
Speaker 2: And you know, I might can get something from you
Speaker 2: that I can't get from you, and I might can
Speaker 2: get something from you that I can't get from you.
Speaker 2: So I just try to, you know, fill my cup
Speaker 2: with everybody that God puts in my life, you know
Speaker 2: what I mean, and get what I can from who
Speaker 2: I need. And a lot of times if I still
Speaker 2: feel like I'm lacking, then I feel like I should
Speaker 2: just like pray about it, go to the Lord, because
Speaker 2: I'm probably looking in the wrong spots anyway for things
Speaker 2: that I need. So I wouldn't say like it's a
Speaker 2: red flag, like you know, everybody feels that way, and
Speaker 2: I think that that's normal and that's human. And I
Speaker 2: think that's my biggest thing because I've ran into situations
Speaker 2: like after things have happened and we talked about things,
Speaker 2: I need to learn how to be more soft. My
Speaker 2: biggest thing is my friends are I wouldn't say afraid,
Speaker 2: but they don't like to come to me because I
Speaker 2: show too much tough love. And I'm trying to work
Speaker 2: on like just softening myself and just being more soft
Speaker 2: and agree and come off more.
Speaker 1: I'm working on it, Leo.
Speaker 2: Being around you ladies, it's hard, like but I can
Speaker 2: see and I do hear my friends out and I
Speaker 2: hear when y'all say, like you know your deliverance it's
Speaker 2: too strong. So that's what I'm working on as a friend,
Speaker 2: as a mom, as a future wife. We're I'm often
Speaker 2: work off where we're all. That's very humble, baddy of you, Cherrelle.
Speaker 2: You I'm not a mean girl, no, but on some
Speaker 2: real stuff. That is something that I'm truly working on
Speaker 2: as a person.
Speaker 1: I agree. All right, you guys, that is enough of
Speaker 1: real red flags.
Speaker 2: If you all have any red flag scenarios questions, reach
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Speaker 1: Thank you real for your red flag scenarios. What y'all think?
Speaker 1: Those were good? Nice and juicy.
Speaker 2: Now it's time for Humble Batties mail. So we got
Speaker 2: we have Michelle from Salt Lake City, Utah. Just there, Hey,
Speaker 2: Humble Batties. I love the podcast and plan to watch
Speaker 2: the Netflix show soon. I need some advice. My fiance
Speaker 2: and I are disagreeing about finance. We're planning to buy
Speaker 2: a house, but I have no idea where his money goes.
Speaker 2: So I just suggested we share a bank account. He
Speaker 2: got really defensive. Do you think couples should share finances,
Speaker 2: have access to each other's accounts, or keep everything separate.
Speaker 2: Would love to hear your thoughts, ladies, what are your
Speaker 2: thoughts on this? Let's help Miss Michelle out Hey, Michelle Girl, Hey,
Speaker 2: Michelle bo.
Speaker 1: Did you say that this was her boyfriend? She said fiance?
Speaker 2: Yeah, Well, I feel like for this to be your fiance,
Speaker 2: you guys should have kind of already been aligned in
Speaker 2: what your plans were as far as buying a house
Speaker 2: and your finances. So since you don't know, you need
Speaker 2: to get one that asap. Y'all both need to sit
Speaker 2: down and have a conversation and you know, really make
Speaker 2: sure that you know what you guys have planned for
Speaker 2: your financials. It's just a little scary that y'all are
Speaker 2: already like engaged and you don't know that because finances
Speaker 2: are a big part of a relationship and can really
Speaker 2: like you know, make break, make a break.
Speaker 1: Yeah, exactly your situation.
Speaker 2: So I would say, before y'all even get to talking
Speaker 2: about a house, y'all need to have a conversation about
Speaker 2: how you guys go about handling your financial situation, Like,
Speaker 2: are you guys going to share a bank account?
Speaker 1: Why is he so.
Speaker 2: You know, why did he get upset about even wanting
Speaker 2: to discuss it and you know, sharing your accounts, you
Speaker 2: know what is that all about? So I think there's
Speaker 2: some things that y'all need to tackle before y'all even
Speaker 2: start talking about buying a house together. I feel like,
Speaker 2: and I agree with you, Ashley, definitely discuss finances is
Speaker 2: a big topic and it can make a break a relationship.
Speaker 2: It's hard to answer that question in your scenario because
Speaker 2: it is he giving a problem where he can't put
Speaker 2: money down like are though that was not discussed. So
Speaker 2: if he's not responsible with his money, then yes, that's
Speaker 2: when you should be questioning where his money goes. But
Speaker 2: if he's responsible for his money, that at the end
Speaker 2: of the day, that's his money. Some people don't like
Speaker 2: sharre bank accounts. Some people just Okay, this is my responsibility,
Speaker 2: this is what I'm gonna take care of. This is
Speaker 2: your responsibility, this is what you're going to take care of.
Speaker 2: But if it comes to a point where he feels
Speaker 2: where you feel like, where y'all he's not meeting his
Speaker 2: end of the bargain or whatever, then yeah, then I
Speaker 2: will question it and and go in like what the
Speaker 2: hell is going on?
Speaker 1: But with my situation when I was you know, when
Speaker 1: Chad and I was together.
Speaker 2: Hell, I still got access to to his accounts or whatever,
Speaker 2: because I still help he's busy, I help him pay accounts.
Speaker 2: But and it's a trust, yes, But I think it's
Speaker 2: something like Ashley say, you guys, this is something in
Speaker 2: the beginning of your relationship that y'all should discuss.
Speaker 1: I feel transparency is key.
Speaker 2: I mean, the number one reason for divorce is finances
Speaker 2: still to this day, and it has been for years.
Speaker 2: And you're bringing into different incomes, you're merging two lives.
Speaker 2: You have to agree or disagree, but you have to
Speaker 2: agree on some sort of transparency, whatever that could be,
Speaker 2: and come to a conclusion of this is what we
Speaker 2: need to do. Maybe it's a joint account and you
Speaker 2: still have separate accounts, but maybe for that household account
Speaker 2: or just something like that. I just feel like you
Speaker 2: have to be honest and open about both of you
Speaker 2: guys's situations. Because when it is time to buy a home,
Speaker 2: y'all know this. It is the biggest purchase of your life,
Speaker 2: the most right. So it's like this is a that's
Speaker 2: a commitment. Sometimes it's a thirty year commitment. You never
Speaker 2: know what can happen when you never know, so it
Speaker 2: definitely needs to be transparency on all those lines.
Speaker 1: Yeah, how do y'all feel about buying a house with
Speaker 1: somebody that's not your spouse? I never need it, but
Speaker 1: would you.
Speaker 2: If I see, Well, it's hard for me because I'm
Speaker 2: gonna take advantage of that va.
Speaker 1: Long every time. Yeah, so you Well, for me, you
Speaker 1: would have to I would have to.
Speaker 2: Be married to that person, unless it's investment properties that
Speaker 2: we're going after. I'm big on, you know, going business deals,
Speaker 2: but I'm talking about purchasing your home with somebody that's
Speaker 2: not your spouse.
Speaker 1: That's kind of hard. That's tough. That's a big purchase. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but if you're yeah, that's a huge purchase.
Speaker 2: I would say if you're like, say it's a second spot,
Speaker 2: Like if I have my primary, I would be willing
Speaker 2: to do a secondary not but it would if I
Speaker 2: did that, we would have to get a lot of
Speaker 2: stuff in write in before Exactly.
Speaker 1: It has to be a fractual agreement.
Speaker 2: Yeah, for sure, sure, because they can up and leave
Speaker 2: any time, and if you don't have nothing in place,
Speaker 2: it's like, you know, your reliable just as much as
Speaker 2: they are. Yeah, long for it, just as much as
Speaker 2: they are. So that's a great question and use ladies thoughts.
Speaker 2: Thanks Michelle for your question. Thank you Michelle thalt Lake
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Speaker 1: Absolutely, yes, yes.
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