1 00:00:01,920 --> 00:00:07,120 Speaker 1: Wind Down with Janet Kramer and I'm Heeart Radio Podcast. Hello, 2 00:00:07,920 --> 00:00:09,959 Speaker 1: happy post, fourth of July. 3 00:00:11,480 --> 00:00:14,160 Speaker 2: Hi guys, my remote location. 4 00:00:14,520 --> 00:00:16,759 Speaker 1: I know we're all on remote. Sorry, I'm still at 5 00:00:16,800 --> 00:00:18,640 Speaker 1: the lake, which is why I look like I just 6 00:00:19,040 --> 00:00:20,400 Speaker 1: I look like a wet rag. 7 00:00:21,040 --> 00:00:23,320 Speaker 2: You actually just look like a postcard from the lake. 8 00:00:23,360 --> 00:00:25,400 Speaker 2: I'm here for it exactly. 9 00:00:25,640 --> 00:00:27,280 Speaker 1: Yeah. No, how is everyone's fourth? 10 00:00:27,600 --> 00:00:31,720 Speaker 3: Mine was just super simple, easy, we just had. It 11 00:00:31,760 --> 00:00:34,200 Speaker 3: was kind of sad though, because you know, Cayden's gone, 12 00:00:34,960 --> 00:00:37,760 Speaker 3: you know, he's not He's never home anymore, and you know, 13 00:00:37,840 --> 00:00:38,559 Speaker 3: so that was kind of sad. 14 00:00:38,560 --> 00:00:41,280 Speaker 4: So it was just me Cayden and no Me, Nick 15 00:00:41,360 --> 00:00:42,040 Speaker 4: and Ramsey. 16 00:00:43,479 --> 00:00:45,280 Speaker 3: So we just kind of did some fireworks and just 17 00:00:45,320 --> 00:00:47,240 Speaker 3: kept it super simple at home. 18 00:00:47,400 --> 00:00:48,120 Speaker 4: How about you, Kabe? 19 00:00:48,800 --> 00:00:51,200 Speaker 2: I think my heart got broken forth of July. Guys, 20 00:00:51,680 --> 00:00:55,240 Speaker 2: what happened? Well, I'm good. I'm being dramatic about that. 21 00:00:55,280 --> 00:00:59,400 Speaker 2: So before everybody comes, I mean, this is so I know, 22 00:00:59,520 --> 00:01:01,520 Speaker 2: but I have to lead with like I need to 23 00:01:01,520 --> 00:01:04,319 Speaker 2: remind everyone like I did go like for broadcasting, so 24 00:01:04,360 --> 00:01:05,480 Speaker 2: I do love like a little lake. 25 00:01:05,800 --> 00:01:06,520 Speaker 1: Well that's what people. 26 00:01:07,520 --> 00:01:10,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, so I know I'm saying that very dramatic. And 27 00:01:10,080 --> 00:01:11,360 Speaker 2: then what I'm about to say is not going to 28 00:01:11,400 --> 00:01:14,880 Speaker 2: feel that dramatic. But this is the first fourth of 29 00:01:14,959 --> 00:01:17,880 Speaker 2: July that Love wanted to watch fireworks with her friends. 30 00:01:18,319 --> 00:01:19,399 Speaker 1: Oh I love that. 31 00:01:19,680 --> 00:01:22,720 Speaker 2: And it was weird, like we of course just stayed 32 00:01:22,720 --> 00:01:25,160 Speaker 2: in our neighborhood, which is like the easiest. I actually 33 00:01:25,160 --> 00:01:26,800 Speaker 2: it's becoming a little bit of a tradition and I 34 00:01:26,880 --> 00:01:28,120 Speaker 2: kind of like it because, you know, then I can 35 00:01:28,160 --> 00:01:30,480 Speaker 2: get a baby to sleep, and I'm I can watch 36 00:01:30,520 --> 00:01:32,280 Speaker 2: all the fireworks from my front porch, which is just 37 00:01:32,360 --> 00:01:35,080 Speaker 2: hashtag blessed, you know. But she was like, Mom, I 38 00:01:35,160 --> 00:01:36,880 Speaker 2: really want to go over to the Green Space and 39 00:01:36,959 --> 00:01:40,319 Speaker 2: watch the fireworks with my friends and these moms I 40 00:01:40,360 --> 00:01:43,160 Speaker 2: love and trust, which is big for me. And I said, well, okay, 41 00:01:43,200 --> 00:01:45,679 Speaker 2: yeah for sure. And then it was like Leggie and 42 00:01:45,680 --> 00:01:48,000 Speaker 2: out I out there doing a Sparkler, and I just 43 00:01:48,080 --> 00:01:51,040 Speaker 2: had this moment where I was like, I'm okay, right, 44 00:01:51,120 --> 00:01:53,800 Speaker 2: like I'm already I'm already coming into the fourth feeling 45 00:01:53,840 --> 00:01:57,840 Speaker 2: a certain way. And then Love is out just living 46 00:01:57,840 --> 00:01:59,880 Speaker 2: her best life. She's literally a block over. I know, 47 00:02:00,080 --> 00:02:02,880 Speaker 2: the psychopath, but it just really got me. I thought, man, 48 00:02:03,080 --> 00:02:05,920 Speaker 2: I actually thought of you, Kat, because I thought this 49 00:02:06,160 --> 00:02:09,840 Speaker 2: is so what you're used to, like you're in the 50 00:02:09,880 --> 00:02:12,919 Speaker 2: teenage years, you know, like I hear about it and listen, 51 00:02:12,960 --> 00:02:15,960 Speaker 2: this is nothing, and I know it's like so minuscule, 52 00:02:16,000 --> 00:02:19,120 Speaker 2: but I just it's the first fourth that she hasn't 53 00:02:19,120 --> 00:02:21,240 Speaker 2: watched fireworks with me, and I just had a minute like, 54 00:02:21,480 --> 00:02:23,960 Speaker 2: as my heart broke, do I need to I probably 55 00:02:24,000 --> 00:02:25,560 Speaker 2: just need to take magnesium and go to bed. So 56 00:02:25,600 --> 00:02:26,120 Speaker 2: that's what I did. 57 00:02:26,240 --> 00:02:29,239 Speaker 3: Well, It's interesting because it kind of started with fourth 58 00:02:29,280 --> 00:02:32,160 Speaker 3: of July for us, So that's why I starting the 59 00:02:32,240 --> 00:02:35,400 Speaker 3: year after fifth grade with Emmy. That's why we started 60 00:02:35,400 --> 00:02:37,560 Speaker 3: having the party at our house because she wanted to 61 00:02:38,120 --> 00:02:40,000 Speaker 3: watch them with her friends. So we started having the 62 00:02:40,040 --> 00:02:42,760 Speaker 3: party at our house every year. But then now it's 63 00:02:42,840 --> 00:02:45,239 Speaker 3: kind of morphed, you know, like the parties are a 64 00:02:45,280 --> 00:02:47,880 Speaker 3: little bit different. They're getting a little bit older, you know, 65 00:02:47,919 --> 00:02:49,119 Speaker 3: so it was kind of one of those she didn't 66 00:02:49,120 --> 00:02:51,519 Speaker 3: even know what she was doing until like two days before, 67 00:02:51,800 --> 00:02:53,400 Speaker 3: you know, like who's how she was going to what 68 00:02:53,480 --> 00:02:56,200 Speaker 3: she was doing? And then Ramsey was kind of well 69 00:02:56,200 --> 00:02:57,600 Speaker 3: what about me? And I was like, well, why don't 70 00:02:57,639 --> 00:03:00,680 Speaker 3: we start yours next year? We'll start having your parties 71 00:03:00,680 --> 00:03:03,760 Speaker 3: at our house next year. So that's why it's kind 72 00:03:03,760 --> 00:03:05,800 Speaker 3: of for whatever reason out and if it's the summer 73 00:03:05,880 --> 00:03:07,919 Speaker 3: as they really grow up, you know, when they really 74 00:03:07,960 --> 00:03:10,160 Speaker 3: get older and then they it just started with Fourth 75 00:03:10,200 --> 00:03:12,119 Speaker 3: of July for us too, it's always. 76 00:03:11,880 --> 00:03:13,480 Speaker 4: Kind of I don't know why, but. 77 00:03:14,360 --> 00:03:17,079 Speaker 1: I feel like that's Halloween for me. I feel like, see, 78 00:03:17,080 --> 00:03:20,160 Speaker 1: that's that started for Halloween, do you know what I mean? 79 00:03:20,560 --> 00:03:22,680 Speaker 1: The first time my kids like, oh wait, you don't 80 00:03:22,680 --> 00:03:24,000 Speaker 1: want to trick or treat with us, It's like no, 81 00:03:24,000 --> 00:03:25,240 Speaker 1: they want to go off with their friends. So I 82 00:03:25,240 --> 00:03:28,840 Speaker 1: feel like that was that was kind of our very 83 00:03:28,880 --> 00:03:31,400 Speaker 1: far thing because for fourth like we're always gone, so 84 00:03:32,560 --> 00:03:34,480 Speaker 1: it's a little it's a little different for us because 85 00:03:34,480 --> 00:03:36,960 Speaker 1: we don't stay home. So I feel like that's kind 86 00:03:36,960 --> 00:03:39,080 Speaker 1: of like the equivalent for us for Halloween. 87 00:03:39,720 --> 00:03:41,440 Speaker 2: Well in our true fashion. I like that we're not 88 00:03:41,480 --> 00:03:43,080 Speaker 2: at the same time, so we can dig each other 89 00:03:43,080 --> 00:03:45,680 Speaker 2: out of emotional turmoil. So I'll take over Fourth of 90 00:03:45,760 --> 00:03:47,680 Speaker 2: July and you can dig me out, and then I'll 91 00:03:47,680 --> 00:03:49,080 Speaker 2: see you at Halloween. I'll dig you out. 92 00:03:49,320 --> 00:03:50,840 Speaker 1: I'm good though, Like I you know what I mean. 93 00:03:50,880 --> 00:03:53,119 Speaker 1: I think it's like I think it's a beautiful thing. 94 00:03:53,240 --> 00:03:55,200 Speaker 1: Like to see them. I know it's still hard, but 95 00:03:55,240 --> 00:03:57,720 Speaker 1: like it's so great to watch them run off and 96 00:03:57,840 --> 00:03:58,320 Speaker 1: have fun. 97 00:03:58,760 --> 00:04:01,360 Speaker 2: I know, it's just bitterswee parenthood. Yeah, like if you're 98 00:04:01,360 --> 00:04:03,400 Speaker 2: doing it well, this is what they do. But if 99 00:04:03,440 --> 00:04:05,840 Speaker 2: you're doing it well, then you're also going wait, I'm 100 00:04:05,880 --> 00:04:08,120 Speaker 2: down a little headcount, and I don't like it. 101 00:04:08,600 --> 00:04:08,840 Speaker 5: I know. 102 00:04:08,880 --> 00:04:10,600 Speaker 1: I was reading a book to Roman the other night 103 00:04:10,800 --> 00:04:13,000 Speaker 1: and it was all about the last. It was actually 104 00:04:13,080 --> 00:04:15,120 Speaker 1: it was a Karen Kingsbury book. It's a She's got 105 00:04:15,160 --> 00:04:18,159 Speaker 1: to tell their book out and it was all about 106 00:04:18,200 --> 00:04:20,440 Speaker 1: like soaking in because I don't know when and it'll 107 00:04:20,440 --> 00:04:22,640 Speaker 1: be the last, like the last that you do this 108 00:04:22,760 --> 00:04:25,000 Speaker 1: or the last time you do this. And so I 109 00:04:25,040 --> 00:04:28,360 Speaker 1: swear Roman and I sang songs for like twenty minutes 110 00:04:28,480 --> 00:04:30,320 Speaker 1: because I'm like, one day he's not going to be 111 00:04:30,320 --> 00:04:33,000 Speaker 1: singing the song because he's just growing up so fast. 112 00:04:33,040 --> 00:04:34,560 Speaker 1: I mean, and all the kids are too, you know. 113 00:04:34,600 --> 00:04:37,240 Speaker 1: I mean even on the lake. Jolie's got her sweet 114 00:04:37,240 --> 00:04:40,160 Speaker 1: little lake friends, which I love, so does Jace, and 115 00:04:40,400 --> 00:04:42,000 Speaker 1: you know, she's like, I'm just gonna go paddle over there. 116 00:04:42,040 --> 00:04:43,520 Speaker 1: I'm like, do you want to paddle board with mama 117 00:04:43,920 --> 00:04:45,120 Speaker 1: and she's like no, She's like, I want to go 118 00:04:45,120 --> 00:04:47,200 Speaker 1: over to my friends. I'm like, okay, Like so it 119 00:04:47,200 --> 00:04:49,640 Speaker 1: does like it is changing. But it's great though too, 120 00:04:49,680 --> 00:04:53,400 Speaker 1: Like I love that they have the sweetest little community 121 00:04:53,440 --> 00:04:55,720 Speaker 1: here to like hang with, makes it better. 122 00:04:56,440 --> 00:04:59,719 Speaker 3: It's just such a sweet stage. Like I love it too, 123 00:04:59,839 --> 00:05:04,160 Speaker 3: Like I probably enjoy this stage the most. Yeah, but 124 00:05:04,480 --> 00:05:07,240 Speaker 3: it's like you said, it's still bittersweet. It's still you know, 125 00:05:07,400 --> 00:05:10,320 Speaker 3: like you know, Kate, And I'm like I definitely had 126 00:05:10,320 --> 00:05:12,200 Speaker 3: that moment of oh my god, this is our last summer. Well, 127 00:05:12,200 --> 00:05:14,040 Speaker 3: I mean we'll have next summer right before he goes 128 00:05:14,080 --> 00:05:16,920 Speaker 3: to college. But I'm just like, what is happening? How 129 00:05:16,960 --> 00:05:17,920 Speaker 3: did we get here? 130 00:05:18,360 --> 00:05:21,719 Speaker 1: I feel so old, i know, and. 131 00:05:21,680 --> 00:05:24,800 Speaker 3: Like he's just been gone for like two weeks, you know, 132 00:05:24,880 --> 00:05:26,440 Speaker 3: and he does that a lot in the summer. 133 00:05:26,480 --> 00:05:28,400 Speaker 4: But I'm just like it just hit me. I was 134 00:05:28,480 --> 00:05:29,680 Speaker 4: just like I love this stage. 135 00:05:29,680 --> 00:05:31,000 Speaker 3: But I'm like, oh my gosh that it just comes 136 00:05:31,040 --> 00:05:32,880 Speaker 3: to this like abrupt end, Like now I just have 137 00:05:33,000 --> 00:05:34,479 Speaker 3: to send them off next year. 138 00:05:35,000 --> 00:05:36,960 Speaker 1: I mean, the last time the kids come to the 139 00:05:37,040 --> 00:05:38,719 Speaker 1: lake because they're going to go to college, I'll be 140 00:05:39,120 --> 00:05:40,760 Speaker 1: probably a mess or when they don't want to come 141 00:05:40,800 --> 00:05:41,400 Speaker 1: to the lake. 142 00:05:43,200 --> 00:05:43,679 Speaker 5: So hard. 143 00:05:44,120 --> 00:05:45,680 Speaker 3: I'm sure they'll want to come to the lake though, 144 00:05:45,880 --> 00:05:47,600 Speaker 3: And I just keep telling myself they'll want to come 145 00:05:47,640 --> 00:05:49,520 Speaker 3: home for summers, right, I mean, I guess you never know. 146 00:05:50,320 --> 00:05:53,000 Speaker 4: You just assume, but you never know. They may just 147 00:05:53,040 --> 00:05:53,640 Speaker 4: want to stay. 148 00:05:53,800 --> 00:05:56,880 Speaker 2: I don't know, Oh Cat, I couldn't do it. I 149 00:05:56,920 --> 00:05:58,840 Speaker 2: actually don't know how we're going to do it. I 150 00:05:58,920 --> 00:06:01,000 Speaker 2: remember when Preston and I talked about, like we were 151 00:06:01,040 --> 00:06:03,880 Speaker 2: just chatting, like would we you know, because I think 152 00:06:03,920 --> 00:06:06,600 Speaker 2: going to college now is not as common, Like I 153 00:06:06,839 --> 00:06:08,880 Speaker 2: don't think that the pressure to go to college directly 154 00:06:08,880 --> 00:06:10,360 Speaker 2: out of high schools is as common as it used 155 00:06:10,400 --> 00:06:14,039 Speaker 2: to be. And yeah, and I like that, like, I 156 00:06:14,200 --> 00:06:15,920 Speaker 2: you know, the savings we've set up for the kids 157 00:06:15,920 --> 00:06:19,000 Speaker 2: are just like this really like little nest egg that 158 00:06:19,000 --> 00:06:20,800 Speaker 2: they could have whatever they choose to do after they 159 00:06:20,880 --> 00:06:22,839 Speaker 2: leave the house. And then Preston's like, wait, she never 160 00:06:22,920 --> 00:06:25,760 Speaker 2: has to leave the house. And I thought, she's not 161 00:06:25,800 --> 00:06:28,200 Speaker 2: gonna live with us forever. And then he said, is 162 00:06:28,200 --> 00:06:31,039 Speaker 2: there like daddy daughter dorm options somewhere? And I was like, 163 00:06:31,040 --> 00:06:34,960 Speaker 2: don't be a creep, Like it's just wild. I mean 164 00:06:35,440 --> 00:06:38,760 Speaker 2: even with our oldest being that we have eight more summers. 165 00:06:38,880 --> 00:06:42,040 Speaker 2: That's just really hard for me to even digest. 166 00:06:42,320 --> 00:06:43,640 Speaker 1: And Cat's down to one, y'all. 167 00:06:44,240 --> 00:06:46,599 Speaker 3: Oh, I mean that's the thing that's what hit me 168 00:06:46,600 --> 00:06:49,400 Speaker 3: on for the July. I was like, it's just us three, 169 00:06:50,080 --> 00:06:54,640 Speaker 3: like like, wait, this is crazy. I know, it's it's 170 00:06:54,680 --> 00:06:56,719 Speaker 3: it's just too much on at. 171 00:06:56,960 --> 00:06:59,000 Speaker 2: Is there anything that you feel like you would have 172 00:06:59,000 --> 00:07:02,680 Speaker 2: done different if you being in the position that you 173 00:07:02,760 --> 00:07:04,680 Speaker 2: are now, like knowing that you're down to like a 174 00:07:04,720 --> 00:07:08,080 Speaker 2: final summer, Is there anything that you and Nick would 175 00:07:08,080 --> 00:07:11,480 Speaker 2: have done differently in the summers or is there something 176 00:07:11,520 --> 00:07:13,480 Speaker 2: you wish you know? Like you I think we all 177 00:07:13,520 --> 00:07:15,880 Speaker 2: hear from a lot of like really great moms that 178 00:07:15,920 --> 00:07:18,680 Speaker 2: have gone before us on Instagram or in our own worlds, 179 00:07:18,720 --> 00:07:20,560 Speaker 2: and they're always saying, soak it up, soak it up. 180 00:07:20,600 --> 00:07:22,280 Speaker 2: It goes by fast, and we know that. But like, 181 00:07:22,800 --> 00:07:24,760 Speaker 2: is there anything sitting in your seat now that you 182 00:07:24,840 --> 00:07:28,000 Speaker 2: wish you could share with us? At least? 183 00:07:28,400 --> 00:07:30,040 Speaker 4: You know, I definitely say travel. 184 00:07:30,240 --> 00:07:32,800 Speaker 3: Travel as a family, we're decent at it, you know, 185 00:07:32,880 --> 00:07:35,119 Speaker 3: I could do I would love to do it more. 186 00:07:35,880 --> 00:07:38,520 Speaker 3: But that is definitely kind of my number one I 187 00:07:38,600 --> 00:07:41,840 Speaker 3: like to give advice like travel as a fly, what. 188 00:07:41,920 --> 00:07:44,200 Speaker 1: About financial means? So like give us an example, like 189 00:07:44,240 --> 00:07:45,800 Speaker 1: getting in the car, like you guys go to the 190 00:07:45,840 --> 00:07:47,000 Speaker 1: car to the beach, right. 191 00:07:47,440 --> 00:07:48,400 Speaker 4: Yeah, we do. 192 00:07:48,640 --> 00:07:51,120 Speaker 3: And you know, listen, would Nick look at that and 193 00:07:51,160 --> 00:07:53,320 Speaker 3: say differently? Maybe he may say, I wish we traveled 194 00:07:53,400 --> 00:07:56,560 Speaker 3: less so we had more money in our account, you know, 195 00:07:56,800 --> 00:07:58,440 Speaker 3: I you know, I don't. I would love to ask 196 00:07:58,520 --> 00:08:01,120 Speaker 3: him that, but that's just really important to me. And 197 00:08:01,320 --> 00:08:02,880 Speaker 3: you know, there's a lot of money that's not in 198 00:08:03,040 --> 00:08:06,200 Speaker 3: sitting in our account for retirement because we have chosen 199 00:08:06,280 --> 00:08:08,280 Speaker 3: to travel. And he sees how important that is to 200 00:08:08,320 --> 00:08:10,840 Speaker 3: me and has really but yeah, I mean we you know, 201 00:08:10,960 --> 00:08:13,440 Speaker 3: the family of five growing up, I also was in 202 00:08:13,480 --> 00:08:15,680 Speaker 3: a family of five and we never traveled well, we 203 00:08:15,680 --> 00:08:17,560 Speaker 3: weren't flying five of us. 204 00:08:17,600 --> 00:08:19,720 Speaker 4: I mean that's a fortune, all right, so expensive? 205 00:08:20,280 --> 00:08:22,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, so yeah, I mean getting in the car and driving, 206 00:08:22,720 --> 00:08:24,640 Speaker 3: you know, is is really important. 207 00:08:24,680 --> 00:08:26,920 Speaker 4: And that's I mean granted gas prices are high and 208 00:08:26,960 --> 00:08:28,320 Speaker 4: that gets expensive. 209 00:08:27,880 --> 00:08:31,360 Speaker 3: Too, but you know, and just finding ways to do 210 00:08:31,400 --> 00:08:33,760 Speaker 3: it then, you know, the most affordable. We'll just you know, 211 00:08:33,840 --> 00:08:36,560 Speaker 3: for Christmas, like you know, we just went to Gatlinburg 212 00:08:36,600 --> 00:08:39,000 Speaker 3: real fast. And it wasn't an expensive you know, we 213 00:08:39,160 --> 00:08:41,600 Speaker 3: just really kept the expenses down. We just did it 214 00:08:41,800 --> 00:08:44,480 Speaker 3: small and just hung out together, you know, just to 215 00:08:44,520 --> 00:08:47,280 Speaker 3: get out of here, because when you're at home, they 216 00:08:47,280 --> 00:08:49,360 Speaker 3: get to the ages, y'all are starting to see they 217 00:08:49,440 --> 00:08:52,240 Speaker 3: all go their separate ways, you know, and so it's 218 00:08:52,280 --> 00:08:54,600 Speaker 3: not until you really get out of that and you 219 00:08:55,360 --> 00:08:57,720 Speaker 3: that they really spend the time together. And it's interesting 220 00:08:57,760 --> 00:09:01,160 Speaker 3: because lately, actually Kate and said something to me before 221 00:09:01,160 --> 00:09:03,520 Speaker 3: we left town. He was like, hey, I was taking 222 00:09:03,600 --> 00:09:05,480 Speaker 3: him to dinner, just me and him. He's like, are 223 00:09:05,520 --> 00:09:07,400 Speaker 3: the girls coming? And I was like, well, Ramsey's at 224 00:09:07,440 --> 00:09:09,720 Speaker 3: a friend's house and let me go check with Emmy. 225 00:09:09,800 --> 00:09:11,120 Speaker 4: She's got a friend over. And he's like, oh, I 226 00:09:11,160 --> 00:09:12,120 Speaker 4: thought Emmy was coming. 227 00:09:12,160 --> 00:09:13,920 Speaker 3: And I was like, he's not one to usually be like, 228 00:09:14,480 --> 00:09:16,280 Speaker 3: you know, really like aren't they coming? 229 00:09:16,320 --> 00:09:17,720 Speaker 4: You know, like not in a bad way. He just 230 00:09:17,720 --> 00:09:18,120 Speaker 4: doesn't care. 231 00:09:18,120 --> 00:09:20,400 Speaker 3: And he's like, well, you know, I know, Emmy really 232 00:09:20,400 --> 00:09:23,240 Speaker 3: wants to like have a closer relationship with me. And 233 00:09:23,280 --> 00:09:25,080 Speaker 3: I was like oh, and he was like, you know, 234 00:09:25,240 --> 00:09:28,559 Speaker 3: she mentioned that to his girlfriend. They're you know, Emmy's 235 00:09:28,559 --> 00:09:30,920 Speaker 3: also friends with her. And he was like, what am 236 00:09:30,920 --> 00:09:35,120 Speaker 3: I doing wrong, and like I know, it like broke 237 00:09:35,200 --> 00:09:36,800 Speaker 3: my heart. And I was like, buddy, you're not doing 238 00:09:36,840 --> 00:09:40,360 Speaker 3: anything wrong. She just really loves you and she really 239 00:09:40,360 --> 00:09:42,240 Speaker 3: looks up to you. And I think the girls are 240 00:09:42,280 --> 00:09:45,840 Speaker 3: realizing you're going to college soon and like they're emotional 241 00:09:45,880 --> 00:09:48,160 Speaker 3: about that, you know. And he's like, Okay, I just 242 00:09:48,160 --> 00:09:49,200 Speaker 3: you know, I just want to make sure I'm not 243 00:09:49,200 --> 00:09:51,080 Speaker 3: doing that. I was like, no, like, y'all have a 244 00:09:51,120 --> 00:09:53,400 Speaker 3: great relationship. And then I told her and then she's like, oh, 245 00:09:53,480 --> 00:09:56,240 Speaker 3: I feel terrible. He thinks like he hasn't done anything wrong. 246 00:09:56,280 --> 00:09:58,360 Speaker 4: I just you know. So it's all kind of hitting 247 00:09:58,400 --> 00:10:01,240 Speaker 4: all of us, you know, and that weird way, is. 248 00:10:01,240 --> 00:10:03,720 Speaker 1: There times when he's not with like when y'all came here, 249 00:10:03,960 --> 00:10:06,360 Speaker 1: Like is there times where like the girlfriend doesn't come 250 00:10:06,400 --> 00:10:09,120 Speaker 1: so that way like they can have more time together. 251 00:10:09,040 --> 00:10:11,480 Speaker 3: Or like she that's really the only time she has 252 00:10:11,880 --> 00:10:16,000 Speaker 3: oh really, So anytime we vacationed, she's never come, got it. 253 00:10:16,160 --> 00:10:18,200 Speaker 4: So she's only spent one night. 254 00:10:18,280 --> 00:10:21,079 Speaker 3: She did one night at the lake with our family 255 00:10:21,120 --> 00:10:22,800 Speaker 3: at one point, and then one night at the lake 256 00:10:22,840 --> 00:10:23,319 Speaker 3: with y'all. 257 00:10:23,920 --> 00:10:26,520 Speaker 1: That's another thing that I'm like, not, no, Like I 258 00:10:26,559 --> 00:10:29,000 Speaker 1: don't know where I'm ready for that yet, because I'm like, okay, 259 00:10:29,040 --> 00:10:32,439 Speaker 1: that was going to be my question of high school. 260 00:10:32,640 --> 00:10:37,040 Speaker 1: Like I back in our day, like I was never 261 00:10:37,120 --> 00:10:39,320 Speaker 1: allowed to go on a vacation with my high school 262 00:10:39,320 --> 00:10:42,559 Speaker 1: sweetheart because like you just there's no way, like even 263 00:10:42,600 --> 00:10:45,000 Speaker 1: if you sleep in different rooms, like there's that was 264 00:10:45,040 --> 00:10:46,839 Speaker 1: just like a huge no. I mean we weren't even 265 00:10:46,840 --> 00:10:49,000 Speaker 1: allowed to be downstairs pretty much by ourselves. 266 00:10:49,440 --> 00:10:51,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, like I was quite prude back then, 267 00:10:51,960 --> 00:10:54,640 Speaker 2: so right, I love that back then. 268 00:10:56,640 --> 00:10:56,760 Speaker 4: Then. 269 00:10:56,920 --> 00:10:59,679 Speaker 2: I always love a juicy Kramer moment. You guys, I 270 00:10:59,720 --> 00:11:04,559 Speaker 2: did on vacations with my boyfriend, and I you I did, 271 00:11:04,679 --> 00:11:07,560 Speaker 2: and I will I will say maybe that was not 272 00:11:07,600 --> 00:11:11,400 Speaker 2: the smart as choice sometimes, but that family shaped who 273 00:11:11,440 --> 00:11:13,840 Speaker 2: I am so much that I can't imagine not sending 274 00:11:13,880 --> 00:11:14,559 Speaker 2: summers with them. 275 00:11:15,040 --> 00:11:18,400 Speaker 1: Maybe it'll get different when when they're older, but right now, 276 00:11:18,440 --> 00:11:20,000 Speaker 1: I'm like, there's no way that I could, Like I 277 00:11:20,280 --> 00:11:21,800 Speaker 1: feel like that's where I might be strict. 278 00:11:23,200 --> 00:11:26,000 Speaker 4: Yeah maybe, And here's the thing, And it also is different. 279 00:11:26,120 --> 00:11:28,160 Speaker 3: I hate to say this and I'm gonna get hate, 280 00:11:28,360 --> 00:11:30,760 Speaker 3: but it is different with the boy and the girl. 281 00:11:31,880 --> 00:11:36,840 Speaker 3: What do you mean I can't imagine letting Emmy do it. 282 00:11:38,600 --> 00:11:45,480 Speaker 3: But yeah, but like I think with me, granted, her 283 00:11:45,520 --> 00:11:47,520 Speaker 3: mom has not let her come for more than a day, 284 00:11:47,960 --> 00:11:50,360 Speaker 3: so that's another thing. Like I have we have invited 285 00:11:50,360 --> 00:11:53,160 Speaker 3: her for like an actual vacation, and that hasn't been 286 00:11:53,200 --> 00:11:53,800 Speaker 3: allowed yet. 287 00:11:53,960 --> 00:11:56,480 Speaker 4: Having said that, she yes, stays in the room with 288 00:11:56,520 --> 00:11:59,679 Speaker 4: the girls. Excuse me, you know she's she was in. 289 00:11:59,640 --> 00:12:02,240 Speaker 1: The room mc kayden slept in the pull out when 290 00:12:02,280 --> 00:12:03,040 Speaker 1: they came to the lake. 291 00:12:03,280 --> 00:12:06,079 Speaker 3: Yeah, but like I still don't stress about it as 292 00:12:06,160 --> 00:12:08,959 Speaker 3: much with the boy as I know I will when 293 00:12:09,000 --> 00:12:10,640 Speaker 3: it's my girl again. 294 00:12:10,920 --> 00:12:12,720 Speaker 1: Can you explain that to me? Because I don't like 295 00:12:12,840 --> 00:12:14,800 Speaker 1: I'm help me explain that one. 296 00:12:15,600 --> 00:12:19,000 Speaker 4: I just hmm, I'm okay. 297 00:12:19,120 --> 00:12:23,360 Speaker 2: Are you no, it's okay? Are you saying you don't worry? 298 00:12:24,040 --> 00:12:27,160 Speaker 2: Is it? Kat's like I'm in a bear trap and 299 00:12:27,200 --> 00:12:30,880 Speaker 2: I went out. Are you saying, like to send Emmy 300 00:12:30,960 --> 00:12:33,520 Speaker 2: off to a boyfriend's vacation or are you saying to 301 00:12:33,640 --> 00:12:36,040 Speaker 2: have a boyfriend with Emmy on your vacation or both? 302 00:12:36,720 --> 00:12:38,840 Speaker 4: I would have the boyfriend on vacation with us. 303 00:12:38,840 --> 00:12:39,920 Speaker 2: Before you would send her off. 304 00:12:39,920 --> 00:12:41,160 Speaker 4: That I'd send her off. 305 00:12:41,280 --> 00:12:45,680 Speaker 3: Yeah, I think a it's I don't trust other people. 306 00:12:45,720 --> 00:12:48,600 Speaker 3: I mean, I've even been told that I'm way stricter 307 00:12:49,080 --> 00:12:51,640 Speaker 3: because like I don't let them in the bedrooms, you know, 308 00:12:52,080 --> 00:12:54,439 Speaker 3: do you know, especially with dors closed, but like all 309 00:12:54,480 --> 00:12:57,120 Speaker 3: the things, and I'm apparently the only he doesn't even care. 310 00:12:57,480 --> 00:12:59,400 Speaker 3: It doesn't bother him in the least. He's fine with 311 00:12:59,440 --> 00:13:01,640 Speaker 3: that role. But he I'm like the only one that 312 00:13:01,679 --> 00:13:04,480 Speaker 3: has that rule. I mean, even Emmy's age, people are 313 00:13:04,520 --> 00:13:06,920 Speaker 3: letting the girls and boys hang out bedrooms and stuff, 314 00:13:06,960 --> 00:13:11,040 Speaker 3: and like, I just don't allow that. And so when 315 00:13:11,040 --> 00:13:13,400 Speaker 3: I think about her going off with and maybe it's 316 00:13:13,400 --> 00:13:15,440 Speaker 3: someone I really trust and I know they have really 317 00:13:15,440 --> 00:13:20,400 Speaker 3: strict rules, but it just feels different. And again I 318 00:13:20,520 --> 00:13:23,080 Speaker 3: think they respect my rules, but I don't know. I 319 00:13:23,240 --> 00:13:26,080 Speaker 3: just he's not going to be going anywhere with her. 320 00:13:26,200 --> 00:13:28,680 Speaker 3: Probably they have like five kids and it's just a 321 00:13:28,880 --> 00:13:30,600 Speaker 3: you know, a zoo and all the things. So I know, 322 00:13:30,840 --> 00:13:34,320 Speaker 3: with him and it's always at my house, she would 323 00:13:34,320 --> 00:13:36,200 Speaker 3: come with us. I know my rules. I know I'm 324 00:13:36,200 --> 00:13:39,559 Speaker 3: paying attention, so maybe it's more that. But also let's 325 00:13:39,559 --> 00:13:42,120 Speaker 3: just be honest. And I think other people would hopefully 326 00:13:42,240 --> 00:13:45,440 Speaker 3: give me some feedback on this for some reason when 327 00:13:45,480 --> 00:13:47,600 Speaker 3: they get this age and you're worried about sex. You 328 00:13:47,640 --> 00:13:49,360 Speaker 3: don't worry as much about your boy as you do 329 00:13:49,400 --> 00:13:49,800 Speaker 3: your girl. 330 00:13:50,400 --> 00:13:51,679 Speaker 4: It just it just is. 331 00:13:51,760 --> 00:13:54,000 Speaker 3: And I don't know if it's because the girl can 332 00:13:54,080 --> 00:13:56,080 Speaker 3: end up pregnant at the end of the day and 333 00:13:56,120 --> 00:14:00,000 Speaker 3: then you're the I like you just do ask other moms. 334 00:14:00,000 --> 00:14:01,520 Speaker 4: I promise I'm not the only one. 335 00:14:01,840 --> 00:14:04,120 Speaker 3: I mean, we have conversations about sex all the time, 336 00:14:04,240 --> 00:14:06,840 Speaker 3: you know, we talk about things like that, but like, 337 00:14:07,920 --> 00:14:08,920 Speaker 3: I don't know what it is. 338 00:14:08,960 --> 00:14:10,320 Speaker 4: It just feels different with the girl. 339 00:14:23,440 --> 00:14:25,760 Speaker 1: Do y'all know that I had the conversation with Jolie 340 00:14:26,200 --> 00:14:29,080 Speaker 1: the birds and the bees, uh huh. But we'll talk 341 00:14:29,120 --> 00:14:31,200 Speaker 1: about it when we're all together. So we'll pin that 342 00:14:31,240 --> 00:14:34,240 Speaker 1: one because I have to just tell you how that went. 343 00:14:34,640 --> 00:14:36,680 Speaker 2: Uh, Kramer, you never told us about your fourth. I 344 00:14:36,680 --> 00:14:38,960 Speaker 2: want to know how your fourth was. It's your first 345 00:14:39,040 --> 00:14:39,640 Speaker 2: Lake fourth. 346 00:14:40,120 --> 00:14:42,680 Speaker 1: It was the first Lake fourth. I will say I 347 00:14:42,760 --> 00:14:45,200 Speaker 1: woke up on the fourth. Well, first of all, Cat, 348 00:14:45,240 --> 00:14:47,920 Speaker 1: thanks for sharing all that. Oh yeah, because there's a 349 00:14:47,960 --> 00:14:50,520 Speaker 1: lot to deep dive into that, and I'm excited as 350 00:14:50,600 --> 00:14:54,920 Speaker 1: we age into that range yep, like just on a 351 00:14:54,960 --> 00:14:57,040 Speaker 1: side barley. I don't even let Jolie sleep over at 352 00:14:57,040 --> 00:14:58,680 Speaker 1: someone's house if they have older brothers, not because I 353 00:14:58,680 --> 00:15:03,600 Speaker 1: don't trust the older brothers or the parents. I just 354 00:15:03,640 --> 00:15:03,920 Speaker 1: don't like. 355 00:15:04,240 --> 00:15:04,760 Speaker 2: I just don't. 356 00:15:05,240 --> 00:15:07,200 Speaker 4: I think that's fair. I've had that conversation with lots 357 00:15:07,200 --> 00:15:07,560 Speaker 4: of people. 358 00:15:08,040 --> 00:15:10,600 Speaker 1: But anyways, No, the fourth I woke up a little 359 00:15:10,640 --> 00:15:15,480 Speaker 1: sad just the in the morning, just because the only 360 00:15:15,480 --> 00:15:17,680 Speaker 1: other Fourth that we haven't I haven't spent up north 361 00:15:17,880 --> 00:15:20,360 Speaker 1: was our wedding week because we were going to Scotland, 362 00:15:20,440 --> 00:15:22,640 Speaker 1: so I had to have you know, I had to 363 00:15:22,680 --> 00:15:24,840 Speaker 1: give Mike the kids and then with just there. It 364 00:15:24,840 --> 00:15:27,080 Speaker 1: would have been way too much travel to do Fourth 365 00:15:27,120 --> 00:15:30,960 Speaker 1: of July and then fly to Scotland. So I think 366 00:15:31,000 --> 00:15:33,320 Speaker 1: there was just a tinge of missing, like my my cousin. 367 00:15:34,400 --> 00:15:36,560 Speaker 1: My cousin's wife sent me a picture of being like 368 00:15:36,600 --> 00:15:38,200 Speaker 1: we miss you guys, and they're on there. You know 369 00:15:38,280 --> 00:15:42,440 Speaker 1: my Grandma's nineteen ninety you know pontoon that I loved 370 00:15:42,480 --> 00:15:46,160 Speaker 1: and grew up on, and you know my my grandma 371 00:15:46,280 --> 00:15:48,200 Speaker 1: and the photos with my mom and you know my 372 00:15:48,240 --> 00:15:50,720 Speaker 1: aunts and uncles and so because it's just so much 373 00:15:50,760 --> 00:15:53,640 Speaker 1: fun when all my aunts and uncles get together. But 374 00:15:55,640 --> 00:15:59,680 Speaker 1: as much as I like, I missed and was sad, 375 00:15:59,760 --> 00:16:02,040 Speaker 1: and the moment I had like the most incredible fourth 376 00:16:02,080 --> 00:16:04,680 Speaker 1: It was so much fun. We have such an amazing 377 00:16:04,760 --> 00:16:08,560 Speaker 1: little cove of friends and neighbors that we've met. They're 378 00:16:08,600 --> 00:16:10,840 Speaker 1: so sweet. The kids are all around the same age. 379 00:16:11,880 --> 00:16:13,600 Speaker 1: There's no one in Roman's age, but Roman just is 380 00:16:13,600 --> 00:16:18,480 Speaker 1: like I'm swimming to my friends, like he's just just yeah, 381 00:16:18,480 --> 00:16:20,480 Speaker 1: he's out there right now. I see them over there, 382 00:16:20,920 --> 00:16:23,520 Speaker 1: but yeah, it's just it was great. And then T 383 00:16:23,640 --> 00:16:26,560 Speaker 1: and T sent us like this enormous amount of fireworks. 384 00:16:26,560 --> 00:16:28,640 Speaker 1: I was just like, hey, you know, we're gonna put 385 00:16:28,640 --> 00:16:30,720 Speaker 1: on a little firework show. And then they just send 386 00:16:30,800 --> 00:16:32,760 Speaker 1: all these fireworks, I mean, and an Alan was down 387 00:16:32,800 --> 00:16:34,640 Speaker 1: at the dock and lighting the fireworks, and all the 388 00:16:34,680 --> 00:16:36,960 Speaker 1: neighbors came over and the kids with the sparklers, and 389 00:16:37,760 --> 00:16:40,320 Speaker 1: obviously I invited y'all, but I know that you guys 390 00:16:40,440 --> 00:16:44,120 Speaker 1: had your other plans. But it was it was so great, 391 00:16:44,160 --> 00:16:46,160 Speaker 1: and it was just a good first memory to make 392 00:16:46,240 --> 00:16:50,280 Speaker 1: for sure, Like zero, it was just it was good. 393 00:16:50,320 --> 00:16:53,440 Speaker 1: And maybe one day, you know, we might go back 394 00:16:53,560 --> 00:16:55,320 Speaker 1: up there at some point, but we are just loving 395 00:16:55,360 --> 00:16:57,640 Speaker 1: it here so much. That and the memories that we're 396 00:16:57,680 --> 00:17:01,640 Speaker 1: making so and you're posting in laws in yeah, and 397 00:17:01,680 --> 00:17:05,199 Speaker 1: they it was so funny because his dad, you know, 398 00:17:05,400 --> 00:17:07,040 Speaker 1: first thing he said in the morning was the happy 399 00:17:07,040 --> 00:17:08,679 Speaker 1: fourth of July, you know, and he was wearing his 400 00:17:08,680 --> 00:17:11,639 Speaker 1: little Fourth of July shirt and doing sparklers for the 401 00:17:11,680 --> 00:17:15,440 Speaker 1: first time. And it was really sweet to kind of 402 00:17:15,480 --> 00:17:17,800 Speaker 1: watch them because this is their first Fourth of July 403 00:17:17,840 --> 00:17:20,960 Speaker 1: they've ever celebrated, so that's the first time they've ever 404 00:17:21,000 --> 00:17:22,880 Speaker 1: seen it. And I mean there was just fireworks going 405 00:17:22,920 --> 00:17:24,120 Speaker 1: off everywhere on the lake. 406 00:17:24,440 --> 00:17:27,520 Speaker 2: It was just it was so cool. We should have 407 00:17:27,520 --> 00:17:30,399 Speaker 2: had them on to see to interview like a first 408 00:17:30,440 --> 00:17:33,520 Speaker 2: time Fourth of July or like, what's your impression of 409 00:17:33,600 --> 00:17:37,479 Speaker 2: what as you guys we're all doing the American things, 410 00:17:37,520 --> 00:17:41,040 Speaker 2: but like I can't imagine coming coming and visiting. I like, 411 00:17:41,119 --> 00:17:45,040 Speaker 2: I'm I'm sorry, what is hot dogs? Macaroni salad? 412 00:17:45,359 --> 00:17:46,000 Speaker 4: Fireworks? 413 00:17:46,359 --> 00:17:48,639 Speaker 1: Everyone just like screaming, and yeah, I mean it was 414 00:17:48,760 --> 00:17:50,920 Speaker 1: And then our neighbor or one of our lake neighbors 415 00:17:51,000 --> 00:17:52,720 Speaker 1: was like, Hey, at the very end of fireworks, do 416 00:17:52,720 --> 00:17:58,959 Speaker 1: you think your husband would yell freedom was no, he didn't, 417 00:17:59,080 --> 00:18:01,199 Speaker 1: but it was we got a good laugh out of 418 00:18:01,200 --> 00:18:03,400 Speaker 1: it at least, So it was fun. No, but it's 419 00:18:03,440 --> 00:18:03,800 Speaker 1: been great. 420 00:18:04,320 --> 00:18:14,879 Speaker 5: It's been it's been really good. 421 00:18:18,960 --> 00:18:21,160 Speaker 1: Who's got a whine about it? I think I kind 422 00:18:21,160 --> 00:18:26,160 Speaker 1: of did that. I'll say getting older sucks. I'm gonna 423 00:18:26,160 --> 00:18:29,879 Speaker 1: put I'm just gonna say that. I am really struggling 424 00:18:29,960 --> 00:18:33,040 Speaker 1: and it almost can make me emotional. I'm not gonna cry, 425 00:18:33,080 --> 00:18:36,480 Speaker 1: but when I think about it, I went out on 426 00:18:36,480 --> 00:18:39,520 Speaker 1: the jet ski and I hurt my neck. You guys, 427 00:18:39,560 --> 00:18:42,520 Speaker 1: a couple of weeks ago from sleeping wrong on a 428 00:18:42,600 --> 00:18:46,399 Speaker 1: freaking pillow, a pillow like, I had a kink in 429 00:18:46,480 --> 00:18:49,800 Speaker 1: my neck for oh, I couldn't move my neck for 430 00:18:49,840 --> 00:18:52,879 Speaker 1: like a week, and then it got worse worse, No, 431 00:18:53,000 --> 00:18:56,240 Speaker 1: I'm serious, worse, and it finally got better. And so 432 00:18:56,359 --> 00:18:58,359 Speaker 1: I'm like so excited because one of our neighbors has 433 00:18:58,400 --> 00:19:00,000 Speaker 1: got a wake boat and he's like, hey, I'm gonna 434 00:19:00,040 --> 00:19:02,760 Speaker 1: pick you up this morning to go wake surfing. I'm like, great, 435 00:19:02,800 --> 00:19:04,800 Speaker 1: I can't wait. My daughter was going, you know, take 436 00:19:04,920 --> 00:19:06,679 Speaker 1: take her skiing, which she tried this morning. 437 00:19:06,720 --> 00:19:07,200 Speaker 4: It was great. 438 00:19:08,000 --> 00:19:13,880 Speaker 1: And but yesterday I hit a wave or whatever on 439 00:19:13,920 --> 00:19:16,679 Speaker 1: the on the lake in the jet ski, and my 440 00:19:16,840 --> 00:19:20,720 Speaker 1: neck is so messed up that I woke up in 441 00:19:20,760 --> 00:19:22,080 Speaker 1: the middle of the night and I had to take 442 00:19:22,119 --> 00:19:24,320 Speaker 1: a muscle relaxer because I had some here the last 443 00:19:24,320 --> 00:19:27,400 Speaker 1: time I hurt my neck, and I'm like, this sucks. 444 00:19:27,560 --> 00:19:30,359 Speaker 1: Like I'm just like this sucks, and it's it makes 445 00:19:30,400 --> 00:19:32,520 Speaker 1: me angry that I'm like, I can't go out on 446 00:19:32,640 --> 00:19:35,760 Speaker 1: lake because I can barely. I'm like, can barely move 447 00:19:35,920 --> 00:19:36,800 Speaker 1: my damn neck. 448 00:19:37,720 --> 00:19:40,439 Speaker 2: That's like, I think it's so funny because I, you know, 449 00:19:40,520 --> 00:19:42,880 Speaker 2: I make everything in my life a Saturday Night Live 450 00:19:42,920 --> 00:19:45,679 Speaker 2: skit when it's been worked out, and I just see you, 451 00:19:45,760 --> 00:19:47,760 Speaker 2: like hot Jana in a bikini with a neck brace 452 00:19:47,840 --> 00:19:51,600 Speaker 2: on your jet ski. But you guys, that's it, do 453 00:19:51,640 --> 00:19:54,440 Speaker 2: you know? Okay, So I'm trying to be careful because 454 00:19:54,440 --> 00:19:57,280 Speaker 2: I don't know if these people listen. So I oh, 455 00:19:57,359 --> 00:19:59,800 Speaker 2: the things I want to say that can't say because 456 00:20:00,000 --> 00:20:01,840 Speaker 2: I know people I know I know and I don't. 457 00:20:01,880 --> 00:20:04,359 Speaker 2: This isn't. This is not by any means, Like I 458 00:20:04,400 --> 00:20:07,520 Speaker 2: absolutely adore these people, so it's not. I just have 459 00:20:07,640 --> 00:20:11,679 Speaker 2: come to the two year point of getting older. I 460 00:20:11,720 --> 00:20:14,000 Speaker 2: need sleep. I've never been a person that needs a 461 00:20:14,000 --> 00:20:15,800 Speaker 2: lot of sleep. I just never have. I am a 462 00:20:15,880 --> 00:20:17,720 Speaker 2: rock star. I did eight jobs in college. I got 463 00:20:17,760 --> 00:20:19,400 Speaker 2: up at four am to do the radio. The morning 464 00:20:19,400 --> 00:20:22,320 Speaker 2: show on the radio could rock it out in the 465 00:20:22,400 --> 00:20:26,240 Speaker 2: last two years, like sleep is such a necessity that 466 00:20:26,320 --> 00:20:28,879 Speaker 2: I it has to be getting older and the balancing 467 00:20:28,960 --> 00:20:33,320 Speaker 2: the hormones or whatever. Like tonight, my husband wants to 468 00:20:33,320 --> 00:20:37,119 Speaker 2: have our neighbors over to watch the soccer game. Guys, 469 00:20:37,200 --> 00:20:39,240 Speaker 2: it starts at seven. I'm like, there's no way everyone's 470 00:20:39,240 --> 00:20:41,000 Speaker 2: out of here by eight thirty or nine, and so 471 00:20:41,080 --> 00:20:45,640 Speaker 2: what am I gonna do? So what am I going? 472 00:20:45,720 --> 00:20:45,840 Speaker 5: Like? 473 00:20:46,280 --> 00:20:50,000 Speaker 3: Am I what have what turned into eight or nine? 474 00:20:50,600 --> 00:20:51,119 Speaker 1: What I'm like? 475 00:20:51,880 --> 00:20:54,639 Speaker 2: Also, decoy shoes are set out, take those off? You 476 00:20:54,680 --> 00:20:56,520 Speaker 2: out of here by nine? Like who am I? I know 477 00:20:56,600 --> 00:20:59,240 Speaker 2: I'm impossible, and I I don't want to be I 478 00:20:59,280 --> 00:21:01,399 Speaker 2: want to be fun. I like I used to be 479 00:21:01,520 --> 00:21:03,679 Speaker 2: so fun. God, I was so fun. 480 00:21:04,440 --> 00:21:05,720 Speaker 5: I know it sulls. 481 00:21:05,800 --> 00:21:09,040 Speaker 1: It literally sucks, like I was as I'm watching Jolie ski, 482 00:21:09,160 --> 00:21:12,040 Speaker 1: I'm like, I want to be skiing too, Like I 483 00:21:12,119 --> 00:21:14,920 Speaker 1: want to be out there and I literally can't because 484 00:21:14,960 --> 00:21:17,240 Speaker 1: I am one wrong move away from a full on 485 00:21:17,480 --> 00:21:18,119 Speaker 1: next fasm. 486 00:21:19,760 --> 00:21:21,800 Speaker 3: I wanted to too, but when we were there, but 487 00:21:21,840 --> 00:21:23,640 Speaker 3: I was like, I'm actually scared I. 488 00:21:23,560 --> 00:21:25,840 Speaker 4: Will hurt myself and it's not going to be worth it, 489 00:21:25,840 --> 00:21:26,520 Speaker 4: so I didn't. 490 00:21:26,680 --> 00:21:29,400 Speaker 2: I think what's hard is like for us, I feel 491 00:21:29,400 --> 00:21:31,760 Speaker 2: like our brains and our bodies aren't matching. When does 492 00:21:31,800 --> 00:21:32,640 Speaker 2: that go away? 493 00:21:33,320 --> 00:21:35,120 Speaker 4: Because we feel like we're still eighteen. 494 00:21:35,880 --> 00:21:38,639 Speaker 2: Yeah, Like I actually did want to pajamas too. It's 495 00:21:38,680 --> 00:21:40,520 Speaker 2: like that would actually be fun because I well, as 496 00:21:40,560 --> 00:21:44,320 Speaker 2: long as she wasn't driving. But I was really like, 497 00:21:44,359 --> 00:21:45,919 Speaker 2: I was like, oh, if I hit that wrong, my 498 00:21:45,960 --> 00:21:48,520 Speaker 2: tailbone wrong, like I'm just out for like another you 499 00:21:48,560 --> 00:21:51,560 Speaker 2: know what's happening is this? I know this is the forties. 500 00:21:52,680 --> 00:21:53,800 Speaker 2: I hope not. And that's the thing. 501 00:21:53,840 --> 00:21:56,800 Speaker 1: Like even Dave who's driving, because he was like, Hey, 502 00:21:56,800 --> 00:21:58,120 Speaker 1: we're gonna go grab the wake boat. 503 00:21:58,119 --> 00:21:58,920 Speaker 2: You want to go wake surf? 504 00:21:59,000 --> 00:22:00,920 Speaker 1: I was like no, literally, if it's not my neck, 505 00:22:00,960 --> 00:22:02,280 Speaker 1: it's going to be my back and I can't do 506 00:22:02,320 --> 00:22:03,840 Speaker 1: it right, like I can't have both out at the 507 00:22:03,880 --> 00:22:06,600 Speaker 1: same time. But he's just like, you're too young, He's 508 00:22:06,640 --> 00:22:08,320 Speaker 1: how old are you? I going forty two? And he goes, 509 00:22:08,359 --> 00:22:10,040 Speaker 1: you're too young to be dealing with that. I go, no, 510 00:22:10,119 --> 00:22:12,240 Speaker 1: when I hit forty something, just like I don't know 511 00:22:12,240 --> 00:22:14,320 Speaker 1: if it was having a baby at the age I 512 00:22:14,320 --> 00:22:16,400 Speaker 1: did in my court going. I don't know, but it's 513 00:22:16,520 --> 00:22:19,879 Speaker 1: just that's my wine and I'm just it's frustrating me. 514 00:22:19,920 --> 00:22:26,560 Speaker 1: So any I don't know an advice, just don't do 515 00:22:26,640 --> 00:22:27,840 Speaker 1: stupid crab on a lake. 516 00:22:29,040 --> 00:22:30,520 Speaker 2: I'm just trying to figure out I can kick people 517 00:22:30,520 --> 00:22:32,920 Speaker 2: out by night. I don't know what's going to happen here. 518 00:22:34,840 --> 00:22:39,000 Speaker 1: Well, I'm very excited to get together again later this week. 519 00:22:39,119 --> 00:22:42,359 Speaker 1: We've got lots to chat about, lots lots and lots 520 00:22:42,400 --> 00:22:45,520 Speaker 1: of headlines to discuss. One huge one. 521 00:22:45,720 --> 00:22:48,760 Speaker 2: A royal wedding of sorts has happened, and I am 522 00:22:49,400 --> 00:22:52,360 Speaker 2: living for the fashion of the guest list. 523 00:22:52,480 --> 00:22:57,520 Speaker 1: Oh did you see chrisa stunning Chris stunning? 524 00:22:58,119 --> 00:23:00,639 Speaker 2: No, all of them. I mean I saw Lennan Doyle 525 00:23:00,640 --> 00:23:04,880 Speaker 2: and Abby like I which, by the way, her caption genius. 526 00:23:05,160 --> 00:23:08,720 Speaker 1: Oh they looked so great. So did Haley and Becca 527 00:23:09,000 --> 00:23:10,000 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah. 528 00:23:09,800 --> 00:23:11,480 Speaker 2: Like her message was cute and she said love your 529 00:23:11,480 --> 00:23:14,840 Speaker 2: retired GYM teacher and your retired English teacher. I was like, 530 00:23:15,119 --> 00:23:18,760 Speaker 2: so cute. Yeah, I just am like living for it. 531 00:23:18,840 --> 00:23:25,120 Speaker 2: I also really wildly respect somehow the privacy of how 532 00:23:25,119 --> 00:23:30,000 Speaker 2: they're keeping it so private. It's so it's just epic. 533 00:23:30,080 --> 00:23:32,080 Speaker 2: I mean, we're never I has there ever been a 534 00:23:32,080 --> 00:23:34,600 Speaker 2: wedding MSG, I don't think so. I mean this is. 535 00:23:34,960 --> 00:23:39,160 Speaker 1: There's been a couple. I looked it up. Okay, there's been. 536 00:23:39,720 --> 00:23:41,639 Speaker 1: Well i'd have to look back now, but okay there was. 537 00:23:41,680 --> 00:23:43,600 Speaker 1: I think there was like three or four from what 538 00:23:43,640 --> 00:23:44,320 Speaker 1: I saw. 539 00:23:44,359 --> 00:23:47,679 Speaker 2: But yeah, I mean this is wild. Yeah, and a 540 00:23:47,680 --> 00:23:50,440 Speaker 2: lot of country music, like a lot of our friends went. 541 00:23:50,359 --> 00:23:54,919 Speaker 1: Which is Ballerini, Maren Morris, a little big town Miranda, 542 00:23:55,359 --> 00:23:57,640 Speaker 1: lots of singers and songwriters like it was wild. 543 00:23:58,080 --> 00:24:00,320 Speaker 2: I mean it was just crazy. But I am guys, 544 00:24:00,359 --> 00:24:03,520 Speaker 2: I'm not super emotionally invested in Taylor other than my 545 00:24:03,600 --> 00:24:06,560 Speaker 2: daughter's a swiftie. But I'm emotionally invested a little bit 546 00:24:06,560 --> 00:24:08,200 Speaker 2: in this wedding, and I won't lie like I want 547 00:24:08,200 --> 00:24:10,000 Speaker 2: to know they've well done. 548 00:24:10,119 --> 00:24:11,840 Speaker 3: I was actually surprised. I was kind of glued to 549 00:24:11,880 --> 00:24:14,159 Speaker 3: it as well. And it's not like me, but I 550 00:24:14,200 --> 00:24:15,159 Speaker 3: was definitely glued to it. 551 00:24:15,200 --> 00:24:17,160 Speaker 1: I can't imagine how beautiful too. 552 00:24:17,560 --> 00:24:20,600 Speaker 3: I still thought that it was not really the wedding. 553 00:24:21,480 --> 00:24:23,639 Speaker 3: So I was so invested because I mean, if you 554 00:24:23,720 --> 00:24:26,120 Speaker 3: look at like all like the tiktoks and stuff, people 555 00:24:26,119 --> 00:24:29,080 Speaker 3: were like they already got married. This is a label release, 556 00:24:29,359 --> 00:24:30,920 Speaker 3: this is your announcement. 557 00:24:31,080 --> 00:24:34,720 Speaker 1: Like people don't know anything. That's what's so so frustrating 558 00:24:34,840 --> 00:24:37,159 Speaker 1: for Like when people say things like even like on 559 00:24:37,240 --> 00:24:40,840 Speaker 1: these things, it's like they just they don't know, you know, 560 00:24:40,880 --> 00:24:43,399 Speaker 1: And I'd love that they kept it private. 561 00:24:43,480 --> 00:24:45,240 Speaker 4: Yeah, you know, I was invested. I was like, it 562 00:24:45,320 --> 00:24:46,200 Speaker 4: really is the wedding. 563 00:24:46,480 --> 00:24:48,560 Speaker 2: I also was like, can I get a copy of 564 00:24:48,600 --> 00:24:50,760 Speaker 2: the NDA. I'd love a copy of that NDA. Get 565 00:24:50,760 --> 00:24:53,879 Speaker 2: put from my own little world, because whatever is happening, 566 00:24:53,920 --> 00:24:57,840 Speaker 2: and you've taken like the most craziest of celebrities and 567 00:24:57,880 --> 00:25:00,480 Speaker 2: somehow kept everyone quiet, I need to know everything. 568 00:25:00,560 --> 00:25:01,280 Speaker 5: What are they up to? 569 00:25:02,400 --> 00:25:05,520 Speaker 1: Well, we will chat more about that later this week. 570 00:25:05,560 --> 00:25:08,800 Speaker 1: We've got obviously our new format coming and down this week. 571 00:25:08,880 --> 00:25:11,080 Speaker 1: So I love you, ladies. I'll see you later. 572 00:25:12,440 --> 00:25:13,080 Speaker 4: In the week. 573 00:25:13,320 --> 00:25:15,240 Speaker 1: And I love you guys so much. 574 00:25:15,560 --> 00:25:16,040 Speaker 2: I love you. 575 00:25:16,320 --> 00:25:17,960 Speaker 4: Be careful if you decide to wake board. 576 00:25:18,680 --> 00:25:22,040 Speaker 1: There's no chance, Like I just I there's no chance. 577 00:25:22,080 --> 00:25:23,760 Speaker 1: But I am going to take the kids right now 578 00:25:23,800 --> 00:25:26,920 Speaker 1: to Cocktail Cove even though we don't drink, but we're 579 00:25:26,920 --> 00:25:33,160 Speaker 1: gonna That's so that's what that's what it's named Mocktail Cove. Yeah, 580 00:25:33,160 --> 00:25:36,840 Speaker 1: we are now Mocktail Cove. So yeah, yeah, oh you guys. 581 00:25:36,920 --> 00:25:39,320 Speaker 1: By the way, I probably shouldn't say. 582 00:25:39,119 --> 00:25:43,359 Speaker 2: This, but my favorite sentences come after that. My father in. 583 00:25:43,440 --> 00:25:48,520 Speaker 1: Law is rocking the speedo right now and it is 584 00:25:48,640 --> 00:25:49,439 Speaker 1: so great. 585 00:25:49,880 --> 00:25:54,320 Speaker 2: It's euro time at the cocktail Cove. Banana hammocks are 586 00:25:54,359 --> 00:25:56,000 Speaker 2: among us. 587 00:25:56,920 --> 00:25:58,119 Speaker 5: It is a sight to see. 588 00:25:58,800 --> 00:26:01,000 Speaker 2: I just love it. Just I'm proud to do. I 589 00:26:01,040 --> 00:26:01,439 Speaker 2: just love it. 590 00:26:01,480 --> 00:26:03,359 Speaker 1: They're just like living it up and it makes me. 591 00:26:03,760 --> 00:26:06,080 Speaker 1: It makes me so happy because I see Alan's heart, 592 00:26:06,119 --> 00:26:08,879 Speaker 1: like just having his family here, just it makes me 593 00:26:08,920 --> 00:26:09,439 Speaker 1: so happy. 594 00:26:10,040 --> 00:26:10,240 Speaker 5: Yeah. 595 00:26:10,280 --> 00:26:13,360 Speaker 2: I actually I've been paying attention to his faces and 596 00:26:13,440 --> 00:26:16,960 Speaker 2: like your pictures and just I mean it does it 597 00:26:17,040 --> 00:26:19,680 Speaker 2: just makes him so happy. It's his home. Home with 598 00:26:19,800 --> 00:26:20,960 Speaker 2: home is the perfect way. 599 00:26:21,119 --> 00:26:24,840 Speaker 1: I recorded them last night while watching the England game. 600 00:26:25,480 --> 00:26:27,760 Speaker 1: Actually i'll probably post it because again had no clue 601 00:26:27,760 --> 00:26:30,480 Speaker 1: what his dad was saying, but I just keep smiling 602 00:26:30,520 --> 00:26:32,960 Speaker 1: and laughing. So we're going to go out there and 603 00:26:33,920 --> 00:26:36,000 Speaker 1: go float and mocktail COVID. 604 00:26:36,160 --> 00:26:37,480 Speaker 4: So love it. 605 00:26:37,160 --> 00:26:44,680 Speaker 1: Fun, guys, I'll see you next week, Okay, bye bye