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Speaker 1: of four the Dads. This is episode double O seven.

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Speaker 1: This is episode double O seven. Sure, I'm dress for

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Speaker 1: the occasion, and there's a lot of laughter because something honestly,

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Speaker 1: very badly just happened. We'll talk about it in a second.

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Speaker 1: I just I need you to know whether you're watching

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Speaker 1: You might be on the wall watching for the trash

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Speaker 1: Maybe you're at the park and you're telling your little one, hey,

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Speaker 1: three more minutes and it's time to go while you're

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Speaker 1: listening to the boys in your ear. Maybe you're sweating

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Speaker 1: for the dads, and look, I know we're on the road.

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Speaker 1: You might be. You know a lot of dads. You're

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Speaker 1: A lot of people do love, do enjoy watching the show.

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Speaker 1: Maybe you're watching with your spouse right now on the

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Speaker 1: If you can just stop, whether you're at a stoplight,

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Speaker 1: know what you're doing, but if you're listening to us

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Speaker 1: We do welcome for the dads. Sure do you want

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Speaker 1: to say what happened?

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Speaker 3: I owe an apology to Will Compton.

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Speaker 1: And for people listening and watching A big deal did

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Speaker 1: the juice and we have to be optimistic. Yes, dude,

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Speaker 1: because you're you're my mate. Dude, Yeah, you're my teammate

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Speaker 3: I'm in the foxhol with you. You're in the foxhole

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Speaker 1: Talk about my feelings. It makes me angry. I think

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Speaker 3: Guess what Your boy doesn't show up? Good?

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Speaker 3: Worst part of that is I didn't even know what

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Speaker 3: vibes are up, man, vibes are still up. Vibes are

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Speaker 3: A good episode, a fun episode. But PT six is

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Speaker 3: I get a double O seven episode. I love it.

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Speaker 3: You it right now? Yeah, before this even happened, before.

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Speaker 1: This even happened the whole Yeah, you didn't sleep on couches,

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Speaker 3: if we can get some PT six just support in

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Speaker 1: You hate to see you like this. I know he sucks,

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Speaker 1: but keep your head up.

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Speaker 3: Willy, You're a good boss. You didn't lose it on him.

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Speaker 2: Way to go.

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Speaker 3: He dapped me up. I said, I just need to

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Speaker 3: dap up before we hit record, and you were kind

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Speaker 3: enough for that. Yeah. We hugged it out. Yeah yeah,

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Speaker 3: but yeah. Morgan Lynton five two seven five he said, Suman,

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Speaker 3: you look great in your tucks, but you know what,

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Speaker 3: you look better in a Papa Team six shirt. Oh wait,

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Speaker 3: he really commented as successful Seed Team six member joining

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Speaker 3: Papa Team six in October. In need a Papa Team

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Speaker 1: Morgan number one. First off, congratulations on having a kid.

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Speaker 2: Oh.

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Speaker 1: Second thing, your prayers are getting answered.

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Speaker 1: We have our first Papa Team six shirt dropping. You're

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Speaker 1: military bear. Papa Team six sitting there on a cooler

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Speaker 1: He's got the tongs hanging out the back, tongs hanging

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Speaker 1: It says at the top mission Contain the Chaos pop

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Speaker 1: says special Ops Dad Division.

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Speaker 3: Oh I love that Dad Division.

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Speaker 1: But this right here, there will be there will be

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Speaker 1: and women, if you're listening or watching this, I know,

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Speaker 1: What'd you say, fatherhood, BTS PT six fatherhood? Yes, did

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Speaker 3: I actually wrote it down.

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Speaker 1: Budding Seed Team six the soldiers that are in Seed

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Speaker 1: to all Papa Team six members, be welcoming to new members.

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Speaker 1: Put your boys on, Put your boys on, ladies. If

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Speaker 1: But they're seeming Team six, that is what that's what

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Speaker 1: your solo dolo again. Chef Jackie's part of Seeman Team six.

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Speaker 1: Right now, if you're if you're married, you're seeking to

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Speaker 1: You're dropping seed. You're dropping bombs, bombs over Baghdad, bombs

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Speaker 3: Because gus what Papa Team six wants you? Papa Team

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Speaker 3: This is that show. This is that, This is that show.

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Speaker 3: We all welcome. Welcome for the dads, Yes, welcome for

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Speaker 1: If we Nathan to empathize with you and give me

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Speaker 3: Dude, he has a call, he would juice us so much.

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Speaker 3: I kind of almost just want to call him right now.

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Speaker 3: We have his number, or no we don't because he emailed.

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Speaker 3: He's an international listener, So anybody that's abroad, you can

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Speaker 3: email six to oh Onededad's at gmail dot com with

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Speaker 1: Yes, and the highline gets active later in this episode.

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Speaker 1: At the top, we usually obviously tell stories, We talk

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Speaker 3: Right after Jill's mom, my mother in law, Lisa. Shout out.

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Speaker 3: it all worked out. At the end of the day,

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00:22:04,320 --> 00:22:07,240
Speaker 3: everything was fine, and Jill said, we learned best from

439
00:22:07,320 --> 00:22:11,840
Speaker 3: our losses. Love her composure in that moment, Yes, similar

440
00:22:11,880 --> 00:22:15,080
Speaker 3: to yours, similar to yours. Don't do that.

441
00:22:15,280 --> 00:22:19,760
Speaker 1: Sure, don't do that, Papa, Sure arm come on, my

442
00:22:20,000 --> 00:22:28,240
Speaker 1: dad loss is going to be I'm just laughing because

443
00:22:28,240 --> 00:22:30,080
Speaker 1: we're just retelling.

444
00:22:31,280 --> 00:22:31,760
Speaker 3: My dad.

445
00:22:31,840 --> 00:22:36,000
Speaker 1: Loss is going to be losing a verbal negotiation with

446
00:22:36,080 --> 00:22:39,720
Speaker 1: your toddler. I lost a verbal battle with Rue. We

447
00:22:39,880 --> 00:22:43,919
Speaker 1: usually eat dinner around six six thirty at night on

448
00:22:43,960 --> 00:22:45,680
Speaker 1: this given day. It was a couple of days ago.

449
00:22:46,080 --> 00:22:48,439
Speaker 1: It's around six thirty. She did a great job. I

450
00:22:48,480 --> 00:22:52,120
Speaker 1: was saying it on last week's episode. Trying to get

451
00:22:52,160 --> 00:22:55,240
Speaker 1: more protein going found these chicken nuggets. She loves the

452
00:22:55,320 --> 00:22:59,240
Speaker 1: chicken nuggets. Loves the chicken nuggets. Don't blase at some broccoli.

453
00:22:59,280 --> 00:23:01,360
Speaker 1: That'll be more of a crack a cold one situation

454
00:23:01,400 --> 00:23:04,120
Speaker 1: because I found a couple good little found a nice

455
00:23:04,119 --> 00:23:05,160
Speaker 1: little move when trying.

456
00:23:05,000 --> 00:23:06,800
Speaker 2: To get your toddler to eat vegetables.

457
00:23:07,680 --> 00:23:11,240
Speaker 1: She eats her dinner. It's around seven o'clock. That's where

458
00:23:11,240 --> 00:23:13,560
Speaker 1: we go upstairs to get Scottie ready for bedtime. Start

459
00:23:13,560 --> 00:23:16,240
Speaker 1: to prep Rue, like it's time to calm down. No

460
00:23:16,400 --> 00:23:19,640
Speaker 1: we can't watch TV. No you know can't do this,

461
00:23:19,760 --> 00:23:22,120
Speaker 1: or like just it's time to start relaxing a little

462
00:23:22,119 --> 00:23:23,440
Speaker 1: bit so we can get you upstairs, get you in

463
00:23:23,440 --> 00:23:27,880
Speaker 1: your pajamas, and start doing the bedtime routine. Rue wanted

464
00:23:27,920 --> 00:23:31,800
Speaker 1: to go to the playground, which is new. Usually it's

465
00:23:31,800 --> 00:23:33,120
Speaker 1: not like if we hit the playground.

466
00:23:33,160 --> 00:23:35,400
Speaker 3: We usually hit the playground, like when I get home,

467
00:23:35,520 --> 00:23:37,200
Speaker 3: we all go as a family and hit the playground.

468
00:23:37,280 --> 00:23:39,879
Speaker 1: Everybody's out, especially on the nice days. It's been the

469
00:23:39,920 --> 00:23:42,840
Speaker 1: hottest shit recently, so we have in the playground much.

470
00:23:43,320 --> 00:23:45,040
Speaker 1: Or she'll go to the playground with the namy, like

471
00:23:45,040 --> 00:23:46,879
Speaker 1: in the morning. She had already been to the playground

472
00:23:46,880 --> 00:23:48,800
Speaker 1: that day, but for whatever reason, the playground was on

473
00:23:48,800 --> 00:23:50,280
Speaker 1: her mind. She want to go to the playground. It's

474
00:23:50,280 --> 00:23:55,040
Speaker 1: seven o'clock at night. It's seven oh six. It's seven

475
00:23:55,080 --> 00:23:57,160
Speaker 1: o six and I'm sitting there. It's been a long

476
00:23:57,240 --> 00:24:00,239
Speaker 1: day we've been. We were at the bus not all day,

477
00:24:00,280 --> 00:24:03,120
Speaker 1: but got home probably around four thirty five o'clock. Yeah,

478
00:24:03,160 --> 00:24:05,920
Speaker 1: gang out the kiddos. You're playing on the ground. Scotty's

479
00:24:05,960 --> 00:24:08,200
Speaker 1: little nickname right now is scott Zilla because she goes

480
00:24:08,240 --> 00:24:11,520
Speaker 1: and terar rises anything going on. She's like army crawling everywhere.

481
00:24:11,520 --> 00:24:13,879
Speaker 1: It's adorable. But anything she sees on the ground she

482
00:24:13,920 --> 00:24:17,200
Speaker 1: goes like it's not it's not actual playtime. Until every

483
00:24:17,200 --> 00:24:19,160
Speaker 1: floor is just pulled off the shelf onto the ground.

484
00:24:19,160 --> 00:24:21,320
Speaker 1: Because she just wants to pull everything down. Or she

485
00:24:21,359 --> 00:24:23,240
Speaker 1: goes into Rou's room and she sees a tray a

486
00:24:23,320 --> 00:24:26,399
Speaker 1: railroad track set up, she just goes right for it

487
00:24:26,800 --> 00:24:28,800
Speaker 1: and just basically tears it all apart.

488
00:24:29,119 --> 00:24:31,880
Speaker 3: Oh no, Scott, Taylas Scott tell us she's all the way.

489
00:24:32,119 --> 00:24:35,119
Speaker 2: Grab her and dragger loving that too, gets upset.

490
00:24:35,200 --> 00:24:37,520
Speaker 1: Oh okay, got at. Those are moments where it's like, hey,

491
00:24:38,520 --> 00:24:39,400
Speaker 1: you were like this too.

492
00:24:39,560 --> 00:24:40,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, you know what I mean. You're trying to

493
00:24:40,800 --> 00:24:42,760
Speaker 3: tell her, but she gets pretty worked up, like Scotty's

494
00:24:42,760 --> 00:24:46,119
Speaker 3: gonna get Oh no, she rubs honestly started calling her

495
00:24:46,640 --> 00:24:47,280
Speaker 3: Scott's Zilla.

496
00:24:47,480 --> 00:24:47,680
Speaker 2: No.

497
00:24:48,000 --> 00:24:52,280
Speaker 1: So charl will be downstairs say, like this morning, I'll

498
00:24:52,280 --> 00:24:53,680
Speaker 1: go upstairs and wake her up, and I'm kind of

499
00:24:53,720 --> 00:24:55,320
Speaker 1: laying with her bed. We're kind of having some jokes

500
00:24:55,320 --> 00:24:57,840
Speaker 1: and some smiles. I'm waking her up and everything. Then

501
00:24:57,880 --> 00:24:59,719
Speaker 1: Mom will come up with Scotty. Then we'll have all

502
00:24:59,760 --> 00:25:02,159
Speaker 1: of it in there, and then like she puts Scotty

503
00:25:02,200 --> 00:25:05,399
Speaker 1: on the ground and using Scottie just army army crawling

504
00:25:05,480 --> 00:25:07,840
Speaker 1: for the railroad tracks, and Rue like leans up out

505
00:25:07,880 --> 00:25:10,119
Speaker 1: of like her little bed, her little bed crib or

506
00:25:10,160 --> 00:25:10,600
Speaker 1: whatever it is.

507
00:25:10,760 --> 00:25:12,720
Speaker 2: It's like, oh no, She's like, oh no, I don't

508
00:25:12,720 --> 00:25:13,560
Speaker 2: want scott Zilla.

509
00:25:13,640 --> 00:25:16,880
Speaker 3: I don't want scott Zilla. I start laughing. I reach

510
00:25:16,960 --> 00:25:19,080
Speaker 3: and grab Scotty's little leg and just like drag her back.

511
00:25:19,080 --> 00:25:20,960
Speaker 3: I'm like nope, and then she'll like drag back and

512
00:25:21,000 --> 00:25:23,919
Speaker 3: then she'll just be army crawling again. Oh those godzella.

513
00:25:24,720 --> 00:25:28,200
Speaker 1: But got off track there. Rue wanted to go to

514
00:25:28,240 --> 00:25:30,119
Speaker 1: the playground. Yeah, you know when you're a parent and

515
00:25:30,200 --> 00:25:33,919
Speaker 1: it's just like, dude, it's close to bedtime. Like, no, Ru,

516
00:25:34,000 --> 00:25:36,000
Speaker 1: We're not going to the playground. That's gonna take like

517
00:25:36,119 --> 00:25:38,560
Speaker 1: thirty minutes or forty minutes by the time we get back,

518
00:25:38,600 --> 00:25:41,119
Speaker 1: Like bedtime is coming up, dude. Yeah, And you're just

519
00:25:41,160 --> 00:25:43,440
Speaker 1: sitting there as a parent, like a couple of things

520
00:25:43,480 --> 00:25:46,920
Speaker 1: are happening. Kid starts to break down. You're in this

521
00:25:47,200 --> 00:25:51,240
Speaker 1: like all right, if I fight this war, because that's

522
00:25:51,320 --> 00:25:55,119
Speaker 1: what it's gonna be, I'm essentially gonna have to strong

523
00:25:55,240 --> 00:25:59,400
Speaker 1: armor vocally or pick her up and take her upstairs,

524
00:25:59,440 --> 00:26:01,440
Speaker 1: and it's just going to be a battle the whole time.

525
00:26:01,320 --> 00:26:06,240
Speaker 3: Because she's gonna lose all of her composure. Or do

526
00:26:06,359 --> 00:26:09,680
Speaker 3: I find this do I find this route?

527
00:26:09,720 --> 00:26:11,960
Speaker 1: Do I find a negotiation tactic that can kind of

528
00:26:12,000 --> 00:26:14,679
Speaker 1: get her off, get her off topic, get her off,

529
00:26:14,760 --> 00:26:17,640
Speaker 1: killed her. But she's focused on going to the park. Yeah,

530
00:26:18,560 --> 00:26:19,080
Speaker 1: then it please.

531
00:26:19,280 --> 00:26:20,560
Speaker 2: I just want to swing. I just want to go

532
00:26:20,600 --> 00:26:21,000
Speaker 2: to the park.

533
00:26:21,240 --> 00:26:23,600
Speaker 3: Charl walks by with Scotty, and again it's seven o six.

534
00:26:23,680 --> 00:26:25,719
Speaker 3: Charl walks by Scotty. She's gonna go upstairs and sit

535
00:26:25,760 --> 00:26:28,800
Speaker 3: in the rocker and just easily put the bottle in

536
00:26:28,840 --> 00:26:31,040
Speaker 3: her mouth and put her asleep. Yeah, she's got the

537
00:26:31,119 --> 00:26:34,480
Speaker 3: relaxing mission. She's like, why you know, why don't you

538
00:26:34,520 --> 00:26:35,920
Speaker 3: take it to the park. And I'm just like, why

539
00:26:35,960 --> 00:26:39,680
Speaker 3: would you say that out loud? Like text that to me?

540
00:26:40,200 --> 00:26:41,800
Speaker 3: So maybe, yeah, I might think about it, but why

541
00:26:41,800 --> 00:26:44,280
Speaker 3: would you say that in front of rue, Because that's

542
00:26:44,280 --> 00:26:46,520
Speaker 3: just gonna confirm you the park dead park.

543
00:26:47,359 --> 00:26:49,159
Speaker 1: And she's like we can go fast, like we can

544
00:26:49,240 --> 00:26:51,280
Speaker 1: go quick. I was like, I'm all right now I'm

545
00:26:51,320 --> 00:26:53,960
Speaker 1: starting to come around, like, okay, I just need to

546
00:26:54,040 --> 00:26:56,440
Speaker 1: embrace this moment. Yeah, daughter wants to go to the park.

547
00:26:57,680 --> 00:26:59,879
Speaker 1: It's only seven oh six, It's only seven and ten

548
00:27:00,080 --> 00:27:01,560
Speaker 1: at this point. Yeah, we can go to the park

549
00:27:01,640 --> 00:27:04,800
Speaker 1: quick because park's not too far away. I can just

550
00:27:04,880 --> 00:27:07,320
Speaker 1: embrace this moment, even though I know I don't want to.

551
00:27:07,480 --> 00:27:08,199
Speaker 1: I just want to go up.

552
00:27:08,200 --> 00:27:12,199
Speaker 2: I want to have a nice, clean, fun bedtime. Ye.

553
00:27:12,280 --> 00:27:14,520
Speaker 1: I want to read a couple of books and just

554
00:27:14,560 --> 00:27:17,320
Speaker 1: put her to bed. But I'm now getting on board

555
00:27:17,400 --> 00:27:19,800
Speaker 1: with going to the park. So I'm like, all right,

556
00:27:19,800 --> 00:27:21,760
Speaker 1: how many minutes do you want to the park? And

557
00:27:21,840 --> 00:27:24,080
Speaker 1: she's like five minutes. All right, we can go to

558
00:27:24,160 --> 00:27:26,040
Speaker 1: the park. I give her a few more. I'm like, hey,

559
00:27:26,080 --> 00:27:28,400
Speaker 1: we can do ten minutes at the park. But we're

560
00:27:28,560 --> 00:27:31,720
Speaker 1: leaving after ten minutes. Do you understand, Yes, we're gonna

561
00:27:31,760 --> 00:27:34,920
Speaker 1: have a good, clean bedtime fast when we get home.

562
00:27:35,040 --> 00:27:37,800
Speaker 1: Do you understand, Yeah, all right, go get your shoes on.

563
00:27:38,600 --> 00:27:41,560
Speaker 1: We go to the park and honestly, like a blessing

564
00:27:41,600 --> 00:27:43,520
Speaker 1: of dis guys, we get to the park and it's

565
00:27:43,560 --> 00:27:44,840
Speaker 1: in there like she's like, Dan, there's.

566
00:27:44,720 --> 00:27:47,320
Speaker 3: No kids there. There's nobody at the park. It's just us.

567
00:27:47,600 --> 00:27:48,199
Speaker 3: It was awesome.

568
00:27:48,920 --> 00:27:50,679
Speaker 1: We get out, it's quiet. She's like, why don't there

569
00:27:50,680 --> 00:27:53,359
Speaker 1: any kids? You hear the bugs in the background. She's like,

570
00:27:53,400 --> 00:27:54,240
Speaker 1: why aren't there any kids?

571
00:27:54,240 --> 00:27:57,000
Speaker 3: And I'm like, oh, everybody's eating dinner or getting ready

572
00:27:57,040 --> 00:27:57,679
Speaker 3: for bed, like you.

573
00:27:57,640 --> 00:28:00,600
Speaker 2: Should be doing right now. But your dad. You gotta

574
00:28:00,760 --> 00:28:01,240
Speaker 2: cool dad.

575
00:28:01,440 --> 00:28:03,800
Speaker 1: You got a cool dad, pop a team six that

576
00:28:03,920 --> 00:28:05,520
Speaker 1: he wanted to take you to the park and spend

577
00:28:05,600 --> 00:28:08,399
Speaker 1: some time with you. Push her on the swing timer

578
00:28:08,440 --> 00:28:10,639
Speaker 1: it started on my watch, sweetheart, you got about six

579
00:28:10,720 --> 00:28:11,200
Speaker 1: minutes left.

580
00:28:11,240 --> 00:28:11,960
Speaker 2: What else do you want to do?

581
00:28:12,040 --> 00:28:14,040
Speaker 3: We hit the slide. She goes down. By how many

582
00:28:14,040 --> 00:28:16,000
Speaker 3: times you want to go down the slide? She's like, uh.

583
00:28:16,160 --> 00:28:17,639
Speaker 1: She goes down once and she said, I want you

584
00:28:17,680 --> 00:28:19,080
Speaker 1: to come with me, Dad, Dad. So I'm like, all right,

585
00:28:19,080 --> 00:28:21,120
Speaker 1: I'll go down the slide three times, you know, low back,

586
00:28:21,200 --> 00:28:22,920
Speaker 1: trying to take care of it. Go down the site

587
00:28:22,960 --> 00:28:26,280
Speaker 1: three times, go three, one, two three. We're flying down.

588
00:28:26,280 --> 00:28:28,600
Speaker 1: We're having a great time. End up going five times.

589
00:28:28,800 --> 00:28:31,359
Speaker 1: Ten minutes turns into fifteen. She doesn't want to leave

590
00:28:31,400 --> 00:28:33,680
Speaker 1: the park. Knew that was gonna come. Getting here in

591
00:28:33,720 --> 00:28:35,480
Speaker 1: the swing. I'm like, sweetheart, we have to go. No,

592
00:28:35,640 --> 00:28:38,000
Speaker 1: I want to bob out, sweet art Rue, we have

593
00:28:38,160 --> 00:28:40,680
Speaker 1: to go home. You said ten minutes. We agreed on that.

594
00:28:41,040 --> 00:28:43,600
Speaker 3: Dad gave you fifteen because Dad loves you.

595
00:28:43,720 --> 00:28:44,200
Speaker 2: Cool dad.

596
00:28:44,320 --> 00:28:46,800
Speaker 3: But now it's time to go. She's starting to you know,

597
00:28:46,840 --> 00:28:49,680
Speaker 3: I'm like a sweetheart, We have to go or the

598
00:28:49,760 --> 00:28:50,800
Speaker 3: monsters are gonna come.

599
00:28:52,400 --> 00:28:55,320
Speaker 1: And prepar it's out there. Just be careful with how

600
00:28:55,400 --> 00:28:58,280
Speaker 1: you use the word monsters, because at that point I

601
00:28:58,400 --> 00:28:59,240
Speaker 1: turned it into a game.

602
00:28:59,320 --> 00:29:00,160
Speaker 2: The monsters are gonna come.

603
00:29:00,200 --> 00:29:01,880
Speaker 3: When the sun goes down. You gotta race to the

604
00:29:01,920 --> 00:29:02,600
Speaker 3: car for the monsters.

605
00:29:02,680 --> 00:29:06,800
Speaker 1: Get us the mask, the Grinch, Tafeedi, the Bear, all

606
00:29:06,840 --> 00:29:10,600
Speaker 1: these Monstersfi Tafeedi is the bad guy in Moana.

607
00:29:11,120 --> 00:29:14,200
Speaker 3: Oh no, is that the bat lady girl? Ohyeah, it's

608
00:29:14,240 --> 00:29:16,400
Speaker 3: like the girl. She's also like the mountain, the volcano.

609
00:29:16,600 --> 00:29:17,600
Speaker 2: Yes TOFEEDI.

610
00:29:17,720 --> 00:29:20,800
Speaker 3: That's Orange Teafeedi, Yice Stefeedi's the green one where.

611
00:29:20,760 --> 00:29:23,320
Speaker 1: She turns good. But those are all of her mortal enemies.

612
00:29:23,440 --> 00:29:25,640
Speaker 1: The mask of Michael Myers mass that sits in the closet.

613
00:29:26,160 --> 00:29:29,080
Speaker 1: So the monsters come out. So we run in, and

614
00:29:30,440 --> 00:29:34,800
Speaker 1: you know, we get home probably eight o'clock, a little

615
00:29:34,840 --> 00:29:38,200
Speaker 1: past eight. Usually I'm hoping to be walking out of

616
00:29:38,200 --> 00:29:40,600
Speaker 1: her room from bedtime around eight o'clock, eight fifteen, But

617
00:29:40,680 --> 00:29:43,760
Speaker 1: we get home at eight. All right, it's bedtime, dude.

618
00:29:43,800 --> 00:29:45,680
Speaker 1: It takes an hour for me to get her to

619
00:29:45,720 --> 00:29:48,320
Speaker 1: go to bed. She just got energy she's having fun.

620
00:29:48,440 --> 00:29:49,640
Speaker 1: She's like that I want to read these books. I

621
00:29:49,680 --> 00:29:51,280
Speaker 1: want to read them by myself. I'm like, all right,

622
00:29:51,360 --> 00:29:53,040
Speaker 1: you can't read, but go ahead and look at the pictures.

623
00:29:53,600 --> 00:29:54,920
Speaker 2: Is she saying good night to anything?

624
00:29:55,600 --> 00:29:57,640
Speaker 1: No, she's just like saying, I guess what's on the picture.

625
00:29:57,680 --> 00:29:59,920
Speaker 1: I don't know what she's saying because I'm trying to

626
00:30:00,080 --> 00:30:02,200
Speaker 1: get her. I'm gonna make it easy for Hey, you

627
00:30:02,280 --> 00:30:04,120
Speaker 1: read the book, I'm gonna brush your hair while you're reading.

628
00:30:04,320 --> 00:30:06,800
Speaker 1: Knock that out instead of doing the last I'm gonna

629
00:30:06,840 --> 00:30:09,120
Speaker 1: lay out her pull up and her pajamas. Hey, these

630
00:30:09,120 --> 00:30:11,400
Speaker 1: are pajamas. Whenever you're ready to go, time to get

631
00:30:11,440 --> 00:30:14,160
Speaker 1: out of your clothes and stop reading the book. And

632
00:30:14,240 --> 00:30:17,160
Speaker 1: by the way, fancy Nancy. I am so over fancy Nancy.

633
00:30:17,520 --> 00:30:21,800
Speaker 1: It's fancy Nancy is so difficult for myself to read.

634
00:30:21,800 --> 00:30:24,000
Speaker 1: At times, I find myself sounding like a fourth grader

635
00:30:24,080 --> 00:30:27,480
Speaker 1: trying to read reading fancy Nancy, because it's it's these

636
00:30:27,600 --> 00:30:32,920
Speaker 1: fancy cursive letters or these these just me getting mad

637
00:30:32,920 --> 00:30:35,160
Speaker 1: about fay is these fancy letters that make it a

638
00:30:35,200 --> 00:30:36,320
Speaker 1: little difficult to read.

639
00:30:37,360 --> 00:30:39,400
Speaker 3: And there's a lot of verb. It's it's like fancy

640
00:30:39,480 --> 00:30:41,640
Speaker 3: Nancy gives you a lot of fancy words and then

641
00:30:41,760 --> 00:30:44,520
Speaker 3: gives you the definition of the fancy word, like this

642
00:30:44,720 --> 00:30:47,040
Speaker 3: is another name for doing this, and.

643
00:30:47,120 --> 00:30:49,360
Speaker 2: It's teaching them language and teaching them vocabulary.

644
00:30:49,440 --> 00:30:51,880
Speaker 3: I understand that, but there's too much going on with

645
00:30:51,960 --> 00:30:54,240
Speaker 3: fancy Nancy, and fancy Nancy kind of pisses me off.

646
00:30:54,520 --> 00:30:56,400
Speaker 2: Does it give you a good cadence?

647
00:30:56,600 --> 00:31:00,200
Speaker 3: Like is the does it feel like the formula is

648
00:31:00,320 --> 00:31:02,920
Speaker 3: the same on each page or is it almost like

649
00:31:03,040 --> 00:31:04,720
Speaker 3: it's structured so wildly that.

650
00:31:05,200 --> 00:31:07,880
Speaker 1: Bro, there's this one book that structured so wildly like

651
00:31:08,000 --> 00:31:11,880
Speaker 1: she's opening up her ooh La Lave fancy like Manny

652
00:31:11,920 --> 00:31:14,480
Speaker 1: Petty store or something like that. And on each one

653
00:31:14,520 --> 00:31:17,160
Speaker 1: there's also instructions of how to do a many petty

654
00:31:17,240 --> 00:31:19,320
Speaker 1: I skip those and read a few lines above and below.

655
00:31:19,720 --> 00:31:23,200
Speaker 1: But there's so much going on in these books. Some

656
00:31:23,360 --> 00:31:25,479
Speaker 1: stories are all right to read, you get through them.

657
00:31:25,800 --> 00:31:28,040
Speaker 1: Fancy Nancy didn't get a part in the play where

658
00:31:28,080 --> 00:31:30,080
Speaker 1: she wanted to be like a mermaid or something like that.

659
00:31:31,640 --> 00:31:33,520
Speaker 1: There's another one where she doesn't go to bed early,

660
00:31:33,680 --> 00:31:35,680
Speaker 1: so she's cranky the next day. And that's why it's

661
00:31:35,680 --> 00:31:37,520
Speaker 1: important to get your sleep. Come on, there's some good

662
00:31:37,600 --> 00:31:40,280
Speaker 1: messaging in Fancy Nancy, but overall, Fancy Nancy has too

663
00:31:40,360 --> 00:31:44,480
Speaker 1: much going on. Yes, and it again difficult for me

664
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Speaker 1: to read. And I'm not gonna say difficult like I

665
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Speaker 1: can't read. I'm saying difficult like all we have is

666
00:31:49,480 --> 00:31:51,880
Speaker 1: a night light on or like a lamp on when

667
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Speaker 1: I'm reading.

668
00:31:52,480 --> 00:31:54,320
Speaker 3: So it's a little darker in the room. So it's

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Speaker 3: a little it makes it a little more difficult to read.

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Speaker 3: Nancy did what the what the fuck she do?

671
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Speaker 2: What does she doing? What's Nancy?

672
00:32:01,360 --> 00:32:01,479
Speaker 4: Though?

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Speaker 3: I will say, Eloise at the Plaza?

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Speaker 2: Have you ever read that?

675
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Speaker 3: Possibly? Okay, because that that book, and this may be

676
00:32:10,520 --> 00:32:13,240
Speaker 3: a hot take, but that book is equally hard to

677
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Speaker 3: read because of the breaks in it. I want h oh,

678
00:32:16,800 --> 00:32:20,600
Speaker 3: the places you'll go doctor Sue's style, and then they

679
00:32:20,680 --> 00:32:23,280
Speaker 3: will have the new hat.

680
00:32:25,800 --> 00:32:29,560
Speaker 1: And I know when to my voice could flow. Yes,

681
00:32:29,760 --> 00:32:32,000
Speaker 1: it sounds like Nancy's kind of all over the place. Okay,

682
00:32:32,360 --> 00:32:34,120
Speaker 1: she's a tip out there for the for the parents.

683
00:32:34,200 --> 00:32:36,320
Speaker 1: Some of you might love Fancy Nancy. I got a

684
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Speaker 1: bone to pick.

685
00:32:36,880 --> 00:32:39,960
Speaker 2: With the little girl. Don't blame you. So I'm going

686
00:32:40,000 --> 00:32:41,479
Speaker 2: off on a tangent. I know we got to keep

687
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Speaker 2: this under an hour.

688
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Speaker 1: The dad loss is losing a verbal negotiation with your

689
00:32:45,560 --> 00:32:47,560
Speaker 1: little one after dinner time I ended up, but the park,

690
00:32:47,800 --> 00:32:50,360
Speaker 1: the park turned into a win. The loss then was

691
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Speaker 1: it took her an hour to get her down for bedtime.

692
00:32:52,440 --> 00:32:55,000
Speaker 1: The other loss was the ripple effect of saying monsters

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Speaker 1: at the park because at the end of bedtime she

694
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Speaker 1: wanted to ask about the monsters and can they get

695
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Speaker 1: in the house.

696
00:33:00,080 --> 00:33:01,080
Speaker 2: Know, they can't use their hands, they.

697
00:33:01,000 --> 00:33:03,920
Speaker 3: Don't know how to open doors, so they're not gonna

698
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Speaker 3: be an ouse. No, but what about outside?

699
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Speaker 1: They're not you know, highlight, they don't come out at nighttime.

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00:33:09,520 --> 00:33:12,760
Speaker 1: Our monsters nice, Yeah, monsters are nice. Dad has friends

701
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Speaker 1: with the monsters. The comptons are in good standing with

702
00:33:15,080 --> 00:33:16,680
Speaker 1: the monsters, so they're not gonna mess with us. A

703
00:33:16,720 --> 00:33:20,920
Speaker 1: great family, great mons. Monsters know they're nice to us.

704
00:33:21,160 --> 00:33:23,560
Speaker 1: A matter of fact, they make a movie about nice monsters.

705
00:33:23,600 --> 00:33:26,520
Speaker 1: It's Monsters, Inc. We'll watch it on the next Pizza Friday.

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Speaker 2: Okay, what's this Pizza Friday?

707
00:33:29,560 --> 00:33:34,920
Speaker 1: So we're listening right now. It's July eighteenth Friday. Okay, family,

708
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Speaker 1: and now.

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Speaker 2: We're going to Canada tomorrow.

710
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Speaker 1: On the nineteenth of July, don't get back until the

711
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Speaker 1: next Sunday. So, people that are listening to the show

712
00:33:40,920 --> 00:33:42,719
Speaker 1: right now, you're boys in the middle of Canada going

713
00:33:42,760 --> 00:33:44,959
Speaker 1: on some hikes. I'm going with my uh, I'm going

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Speaker 1: with my best friend Nick and his family. We got

715
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Speaker 1: We're bringing both families. We're gonna have fun. We're going

716
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Speaker 1: on a lot of like nice excursions out there in

717
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Speaker 1: the Northwest. It's gonna be a lot of fun. That's

718
00:33:54,440 --> 00:33:57,200
Speaker 1: what I'll be doing currently. However, today on Pizza Friday,

719
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Speaker 1: as we're recording this podcast, we are watching Mynsters Inc.

720
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Speaker 1: Tonight because of the monsters ripple effect that this week

721
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Speaker 1: has had, because I brought up monsters at the playground.

722
00:34:07,240 --> 00:34:09,439
Speaker 1: I was doing my gas station run last night. Charle

723
00:34:09,560 --> 00:34:13,640
Speaker 1: was on rude, dirty rude duty, got Scottie down wonderfully

724
00:34:14,600 --> 00:34:16,399
Speaker 1: and uh so I went on my little gas station

725
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Speaker 1: run and go get me a couple of drinks.

726
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Speaker 3: Give me yeah.

727
00:34:19,920 --> 00:34:25,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, Charli hopefully is not listening. But I get back

728
00:34:26,000 --> 00:34:27,600
Speaker 1: home and Charles like I had to stay. She had

729
00:34:27,680 --> 00:34:29,319
Speaker 1: me up there forever because she had to turn her

730
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Speaker 1: flashlight on and clear every part of her room because

731
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Speaker 1: of monsters. Oh no like hand up, that's on me.

732
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Speaker 1: I said monsters are going to come out when the

733
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Speaker 1: sun goes down. Now she thinks monsters are everywhere when

734
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Speaker 1: it's the nighttime.

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Speaker 3: Which is a healthy boundaries with outside and and uh

736
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Speaker 3: it being dark out. Yeah, ed by a learning lesson

737
00:34:48,719 --> 00:34:50,680
Speaker 3: as well. I feel like I've thrown the word monsters

738
00:34:50,719 --> 00:34:52,560
Speaker 3: around you. Just know how to use it. It's great,

739
00:34:53,080 --> 00:34:56,320
Speaker 3: it's great, ammo in the backpack, it's great, ammo on

740
00:34:56,360 --> 00:34:58,759
Speaker 3: the backpack. Just know how to use it because there's

741
00:34:58,800 --> 00:35:00,800
Speaker 3: gonna be a ripple effect with mine and having that

742
00:35:01,000 --> 00:35:05,600
Speaker 3: extra lore already built out for when those questions start coming.

743
00:35:05,840 --> 00:35:08,680
Speaker 3: Maybe on the drive home, you're telling yourself, okay, but

744
00:35:08,760 --> 00:35:10,680
Speaker 3: the monster they come at the park, they don't come

745
00:35:10,719 --> 00:35:12,600
Speaker 3: at the house. It's a little different exact because you

746
00:35:12,640 --> 00:35:14,560
Speaker 3: got the park monsters exactly.

747
00:35:14,840 --> 00:35:17,160
Speaker 1: My mistake as a dad was saying the monsters come

748
00:35:17,200 --> 00:35:18,279
Speaker 1: out when the sun goes down.

749
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Speaker 2: That's a blanket stand.

750
00:35:19,719 --> 00:35:23,600
Speaker 1: It's a blank universal suns down. Holy shit, monsters are

751
00:35:23,640 --> 00:35:25,879
Speaker 1: surrounding the house, not our house.

752
00:35:25,960 --> 00:35:27,040
Speaker 3: You know. They can't use their hands.

753
00:35:27,080 --> 00:35:28,680
Speaker 1: They don't know not open doors that it locks all

754
00:35:28,719 --> 00:35:32,520
Speaker 1: the doors anyway, sweetheart, No, no, they're not mean. Dad

755
00:35:32,560 --> 00:35:34,120
Speaker 1: has friends with them. A matter of fact, they just

756
00:35:34,160 --> 00:35:35,840
Speaker 1: talked to him. I came up here, I said, hey, don't.

757
00:35:35,680 --> 00:35:41,560
Speaker 3: Bother the ass. I was saying all this stuff. Oh no,

758
00:35:42,320 --> 00:35:45,160
Speaker 3: also a very selfish note that you bringing up Nick.

759
00:35:45,239 --> 00:35:45,439
Speaker 4: Dude.

760
00:35:45,520 --> 00:35:47,680
Speaker 3: It just it breaks my heart that you're gonna have

761
00:35:47,760 --> 00:35:50,680
Speaker 3: to tell them what I did today on forgetting to

762
00:35:50,760 --> 00:35:53,560
Speaker 3: hit record. You're gonna have to break that to Nick,

763
00:35:53,800 --> 00:35:57,080
Speaker 3: and that's Nick listens. He listens, Nick listens. He said

764
00:35:57,120 --> 00:35:58,960
Speaker 3: some very kind things about me. Shout out, he.

765
00:35:59,040 --> 00:36:01,640
Speaker 1: Did, you're like his favorite podcaster, left me down and

766
00:36:01,719 --> 00:36:02,879
Speaker 1: like outside the top ten.

767
00:36:04,600 --> 00:36:07,520
Speaker 3: But yeah, we'll revisit that list after this episode. I'm

768
00:36:07,520 --> 00:36:08,920
Speaker 3: sure he's gonna be like, you can't do that to

769
00:36:09,040 --> 00:36:12,439
Speaker 3: my boy. Well, he'll probably. He'll probably scold me for hey,

770
00:36:12,560 --> 00:36:13,440
Speaker 3: be easy on him.

771
00:36:13,840 --> 00:36:16,279
Speaker 2: It's a good boy. But you yell at him or something, Papa,

772
00:36:17,239 --> 00:36:18,040
Speaker 2: I didn't yell at you.

773
00:36:18,360 --> 00:36:20,400
Speaker 3: No, you didn't, you didn't.

774
00:36:21,280 --> 00:36:21,839
Speaker 2: I was very.

775
00:36:21,800 --> 00:36:22,520
Speaker 3: Frustrated, though.

776
00:36:22,680 --> 00:36:24,759
Speaker 1: Now I feel like we're getting to where we were

777
00:36:25,800 --> 00:36:26,880
Speaker 1: in the first podcast.

778
00:36:27,200 --> 00:36:30,520
Speaker 3: This is exactly the exact point where shit hit the fan.

779
00:36:30,840 --> 00:36:34,480
Speaker 3: So for listeners at home, these are all fresh takes.

780
00:36:35,480 --> 00:36:38,440
Speaker 3: This is where the fun begins. Yeah, this, how can

781
00:36:38,520 --> 00:36:39,680
Speaker 3: I tell you what we missed?

782
00:36:39,920 --> 00:36:42,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, go ahead the top please, because we love engaging

783
00:36:43,000 --> 00:36:45,480
Speaker 1: with Papa Team said, dude, we got to the roll

784
00:36:45,560 --> 00:36:49,520
Speaker 1: call that's been going on on story and Twitter where

785
00:36:49,640 --> 00:36:52,200
Speaker 1: I'm sitting there and I'm getting getting a little feen,

786
00:36:52,239 --> 00:36:53,879
Speaker 1: little sky to the bottle and I take a little

787
00:36:53,920 --> 00:36:56,120
Speaker 1: selfie with a flex or a little selfie with a smile,

788
00:36:56,239 --> 00:36:58,279
Speaker 1: doesn't matter, and you just hit Papa Team six roll

789
00:36:58,360 --> 00:37:01,880
Speaker 1: call and people just calm and respond with photos.

790
00:37:01,520 --> 00:37:04,560
Speaker 3: Of them and their kids. I love it, love it too.

791
00:37:04,719 --> 00:37:06,719
Speaker 1: And again if you're listening, like I said in the

792
00:37:06,920 --> 00:37:10,080
Speaker 1: my Instagram story tag at for the Dad's pod, So

793
00:37:10,200 --> 00:37:12,279
Speaker 1: that way we can share those stories and share the

794
00:37:12,400 --> 00:37:14,759
Speaker 1: roll call that you guys are clocking.

795
00:37:14,480 --> 00:37:17,680
Speaker 3: In and doesn't even necessarily have to be one of

796
00:37:17,760 --> 00:37:18,960
Speaker 3: us that start the roll call.

797
00:37:19,320 --> 00:37:20,840
Speaker 1: Yes, Like if you're a night time and it's like,

798
00:37:20,840 --> 00:37:22,359
Speaker 1: oh I got hit the roll call, or you're having

799
00:37:22,360 --> 00:37:23,400
Speaker 1: a little tough moment, you're like.

800
00:37:23,400 --> 00:37:24,560
Speaker 2: You know what, I gotta hit a roll call.

801
00:37:24,600 --> 00:37:28,040
Speaker 3: A listener roll call would go crazy, would go crazy. Yeah,

802
00:37:28,040 --> 00:37:30,840
Speaker 3: if you want to retweet, if you're looking for some

803
00:37:31,520 --> 00:37:37,800
Speaker 3: uh whatso word? Where people are clicking, well, clout, but

804
00:37:37,880 --> 00:37:41,920
Speaker 3: they're clicking on your stuff. Engagement, engagement, you want to

805
00:37:42,040 --> 00:37:44,840
Speaker 3: engagement farm, I know a quick way to get a

806
00:37:44,920 --> 00:37:48,640
Speaker 3: Will Compton retweet little PT six check in.

807
00:37:49,160 --> 00:37:52,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, I do love them when when everybody's like tagging

808
00:37:52,320 --> 00:37:55,160
Speaker 1: us about a dad's story or whatever it is, whether

809
00:37:55,160 --> 00:37:57,000
Speaker 1: they're hitting like a roll call, just checking in from

810
00:37:57,000 --> 00:38:00,440
Speaker 1: the trenches. Love this message, love this, love the lesson

811
00:38:00,560 --> 00:38:03,359
Speaker 1: or the quote or the story that dad hack, whatever

812
00:38:03,400 --> 00:38:03,640
Speaker 1: it is.

813
00:38:03,760 --> 00:38:07,240
Speaker 3: Yeah, when people write something that's that's that's the fastest

814
00:38:07,280 --> 00:38:07,839
Speaker 3: way to my heart.

815
00:38:08,000 --> 00:38:09,719
Speaker 2: It also it sticks out to me.

816
00:38:10,040 --> 00:38:13,000
Speaker 3: I've said this in our earlier podcast this morning of

817
00:38:13,080 --> 00:38:16,560
Speaker 3: the posts that Chef put up of the I Want

818
00:38:16,600 --> 00:38:21,759
Speaker 3: You Papa Team six, Yeah, Jill was mentioning that some

819
00:38:21,920 --> 00:38:24,680
Speaker 3: of her friends are even seeing those posts and they're

820
00:38:24,800 --> 00:38:28,560
Speaker 3: just like, I love the way that the podcast does

821
00:38:28,640 --> 00:38:31,920
Speaker 3: have this community of like checking in on the listeners.

822
00:38:32,080 --> 00:38:35,000
Speaker 3: Like it's not only like hey you win assured or

823
00:38:35,080 --> 00:38:38,120
Speaker 3: hey subscribe blah blah blah, but just like the constant like.

824
00:38:38,920 --> 00:38:42,520
Speaker 1: A PT six, how we dude the PT six people

825
00:38:42,600 --> 00:38:45,439
Speaker 1: saying ST six for Seed Team six or Semen Team six.

826
00:38:45,520 --> 00:38:48,440
Speaker 2: I love my Semen team six members, love it, love them.

827
00:38:48,600 --> 00:38:49,120
Speaker 3: I can't.

828
00:38:50,520 --> 00:38:53,040
Speaker 1: Did I say the bud's acronym? You did in the

829
00:38:53,080 --> 00:38:54,120
Speaker 1: second and the second.

830
00:38:54,120 --> 00:38:56,480
Speaker 2: In the in the second episode, but worth revisiting if

831
00:38:56,480 --> 00:38:58,239
Speaker 2: you'd like. I'm just glad it's out there.

832
00:38:58,280 --> 00:39:01,040
Speaker 3: So people even start utilizing that when they say bud straining,

833
00:39:01,080 --> 00:39:05,600
Speaker 3: it's like, now there's another inside joke of breeding until.

834
00:39:05,440 --> 00:39:08,560
Speaker 1: Dad status and then moms again. To go back into

835
00:39:08,600 --> 00:39:10,880
Speaker 1: the comments because we at the top of the episode

836
00:39:10,920 --> 00:39:11,840
Speaker 1: we kind of glossed over that.

837
00:39:12,000 --> 00:39:12,200
Speaker 2: Yeah.

838
00:39:12,239 --> 00:39:16,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, But Natalie Brown twenty four to seventy six, this

839
00:39:16,280 --> 00:39:19,680
Speaker 1: is for some mom names out there, She said, thirty

840
00:39:19,760 --> 00:39:22,680
Speaker 1: year old mom of three checking in from southeast Missouri.

841
00:39:22,719 --> 00:39:23,800
Speaker 3: That's your boy's neck of the woods.

842
00:39:23,840 --> 00:39:27,120
Speaker 1: Come my take on mom pt six. Moms are without

843
00:39:27,120 --> 00:39:30,960
Speaker 1: a doubt mom, a Delta force m hashtag MDF. Pregnant

844
00:39:31,040 --> 00:39:37,359
Speaker 1: moms are Delta incourse, trying to conceive, Delta intercourse, surrogate mom,

845
00:39:37,640 --> 00:39:43,040
Speaker 1: Delta outsource, got pregnant, pregnant but didn't intend to Delta remorse.

846
00:39:43,840 --> 00:39:47,480
Speaker 3: And then second crack at it.

847
00:39:47,480 --> 00:39:47,719
Speaker 2: Do I go?

848
00:39:48,040 --> 00:39:48,839
Speaker 3: I hit the last one?

849
00:39:48,920 --> 00:39:52,440
Speaker 1: You can one of those Casey Anthony type mom's Delta

850
00:39:52,600 --> 00:39:53,000
Speaker 1: en force.

851
00:39:54,400 --> 00:39:56,680
Speaker 3: That's a comment. Love the humor, Love the humor. That's

852
00:39:56,680 --> 00:39:59,279
Speaker 3: a comment. It's a joke and it's a legend. And

853
00:39:59,320 --> 00:40:01,080
Speaker 3: then also there one chef.

854
00:40:01,160 --> 00:40:03,480
Speaker 1: Can you read the mom that was underneath the I

855
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Speaker 1: want you pop a team six And she's like, I'm

856
00:40:05,320 --> 00:40:06,160
Speaker 1: cooking up some names.

857
00:40:06,239 --> 00:40:06,880
Speaker 3: Check the DMS.

858
00:40:06,960 --> 00:40:09,680
Speaker 2: Yeah for sure. Uh, this is Kennedy Leblonk. She's sent

859
00:40:09,760 --> 00:40:11,960
Speaker 2: a very nice long message that I will forward to

860
00:40:12,040 --> 00:40:12,479
Speaker 2: you guys.

861
00:40:13,200 --> 00:40:13,359
Speaker 5: Uh.

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00:40:14,040 --> 00:40:18,439
Speaker 2: Female listener squad names Overy Ops and womb Raiders. Oh

863
00:40:19,440 --> 00:40:21,840
Speaker 2: love Overy ops, Love over ops.

864
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Speaker 1: And we were talking about it on the first one

865
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Speaker 1: were but womb raiders, that's it.

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00:40:27,280 --> 00:40:29,320
Speaker 3: That's like a mercenary Yeah, we're saying.

867
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Speaker 1: It's like a mercenary group that doesn't necessarily work with

868
00:40:34,200 --> 00:40:36,160
Speaker 1: all the military units that were creating you know what

869
00:40:36,200 --> 00:40:38,560
Speaker 1: I mean. Womb Raiders feels like it's like an outsourcing.

870
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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like a special ops from.

871
00:40:41,680 --> 00:40:44,239
Speaker 3: The private sector. What did I I'm blinking again. Did

872
00:40:44,280 --> 00:40:47,440
Speaker 3: you say splinter unit? You said splinter splinter unit. It's

873
00:40:47,480 --> 00:40:48,439
Speaker 3: a splinter unit.

874
00:40:48,719 --> 00:40:48,919
Speaker 2: Yeah.

875
00:40:49,080 --> 00:40:54,720
Speaker 3: I almost think of like caretakers or like nurse types

876
00:40:54,840 --> 00:40:58,560
Speaker 3: or nanny types or you know, babysitters, like they you know,

877
00:40:58,960 --> 00:41:00,759
Speaker 3: they're coming in their help and where they can.

878
00:41:01,160 --> 00:41:03,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's kind of where I what I go to.

879
00:41:04,080 --> 00:41:05,879
Speaker 2: I wanted to add, if you think about it too,

880
00:41:06,000 --> 00:41:08,880
Speaker 2: if you're a woman listening to this podcast, you're probably

881
00:41:09,600 --> 00:41:11,359
Speaker 2: a sick. Oh so it kind of fits the whole.

882
00:41:11,520 --> 00:41:12,840
Speaker 3: You're probably a sickle.

883
00:41:13,120 --> 00:41:14,920
Speaker 2: I mean, it fits the whole special.

884
00:41:15,640 --> 00:41:18,920
Speaker 1: If you're a new mom, you might have to be

885
00:41:19,040 --> 00:41:21,279
Speaker 1: It might have to be Milk Team six. I love

886
00:41:21,480 --> 00:41:24,359
Speaker 1: Milk Team six because milk is you know what I mean,

887
00:41:24,400 --> 00:41:25,120
Speaker 1: it's pump.

888
00:41:25,320 --> 00:41:30,040
Speaker 3: Pumping at least five ounces, six ounces is what Jill's

889
00:41:30,239 --> 00:41:30,880
Speaker 3: getting out now.

890
00:41:30,920 --> 00:41:35,479
Speaker 2: It's crazy. Yeah, new mom's milk teams, Milk Team six.

891
00:41:35,880 --> 00:41:40,840
Speaker 3: I love Raiders, Ovary Ops, all the Delta task Forces.

892
00:41:41,200 --> 00:41:44,359
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, we'll let it. We'll let moms chime in. Yeah,

893
00:41:44,600 --> 00:41:45,279
Speaker 3: mom's chime in.

894
00:41:45,920 --> 00:41:48,080
Speaker 2: We need to have a mom podcast collaboration.

895
00:41:48,960 --> 00:41:51,120
Speaker 3: I would love that. What what what was the name?

896
00:41:51,920 --> 00:41:52,040
Speaker 4: Uh?

897
00:41:52,320 --> 00:41:55,200
Speaker 2: We just became MILFs? Was the one that my wife.

898
00:41:56,880 --> 00:41:58,200
Speaker 3: Did we just become milks?

899
00:41:58,239 --> 00:42:00,759
Speaker 2: I believe? Did we become milse?

900
00:42:00,840 --> 00:42:03,120
Speaker 3: Yeah? Did we just become mills? I think?

901
00:42:03,520 --> 00:42:04,879
Speaker 2: But I know there are a few out there. Dude,

902
00:42:04,880 --> 00:42:07,759
Speaker 2: it would be fun to collaborate on a podcast, bring

903
00:42:07,840 --> 00:42:08,840
Speaker 2: them on for the dads.

904
00:42:09,680 --> 00:42:13,799
Speaker 3: My my shop talk some shop. My wife has been

905
00:42:14,239 --> 00:42:18,120
Speaker 3: throwing out the tea. Apparently that's a big one, the tea.

906
00:42:18,520 --> 00:42:22,520
Speaker 3: The tea. She was like, if y'all collabsed with the tea,

907
00:42:22,719 --> 00:42:25,839
Speaker 3: that would it would be the greatest thing to ever

908
00:42:25,960 --> 00:42:29,239
Speaker 3: happen on the innerweb. Dude, it would just be fun, allegedly.

909
00:42:29,520 --> 00:42:32,000
Speaker 1: Have fun talk about like both sides, Like what's the

910
00:42:32,080 --> 00:42:33,960
Speaker 1: deal with complaining about having to pump all the time?

911
00:42:34,080 --> 00:42:37,439
Speaker 3: Like that stuff seems does it really hurt?

912
00:42:37,760 --> 00:42:38,000
Speaker 2: Yeah?

913
00:42:38,680 --> 00:42:40,759
Speaker 1: Like if I was pumping, It's like I was telling

914
00:42:40,760 --> 00:42:44,480
Speaker 1: my wife when she was feeding and pumping and doing

915
00:42:44,520 --> 00:42:45,040
Speaker 1: all that stuff.

916
00:42:45,080 --> 00:42:48,120
Speaker 3: I just, sweetheart, I wish I could pump. Like I'll

917
00:42:48,320 --> 00:42:50,000
Speaker 3: have those things on all day long and I'll just

918
00:42:50,040 --> 00:42:53,960
Speaker 3: go upstairs playing pupg with the boys. Hey, that just

919
00:42:54,239 --> 00:42:55,200
Speaker 3: turning out milk.

920
00:42:56,080 --> 00:42:57,160
Speaker 2: Thank god you said that.

921
00:42:57,600 --> 00:42:59,960
Speaker 3: That is my survival k I had a different survivor

922
00:43:00,520 --> 00:43:04,040
Speaker 3: really quick, I'll plug the wireless breast pumps. Do y'all

923
00:43:04,080 --> 00:43:08,319
Speaker 3: have those? Yes? Bro? Those are crazy. Jill literally has

924
00:43:08,360 --> 00:43:14,239
Speaker 3: a bra that she slips these wireless breast pumps in,

925
00:43:14,520 --> 00:43:16,600
Speaker 3: and she could be doing anything in the house that

926
00:43:16,680 --> 00:43:19,239
Speaker 3: she would want to do. She could go out to

927
00:43:19,280 --> 00:43:22,080
Speaker 3: Target and nobody. They would just be like, oh, wow, she's.

928
00:43:21,960 --> 00:43:26,440
Speaker 1: Got a wire connector. That's like it's like battery operated that.

929
00:43:27,760 --> 00:43:30,520
Speaker 3: That's that's what Jill had. And then we went to

930
00:43:30,680 --> 00:43:33,080
Speaker 3: this wireless thing. Dude, I'm telling you, Jill could be

931
00:43:33,160 --> 00:43:36,560
Speaker 3: walking around Target right now shopping and it just looks

932
00:43:36,640 --> 00:43:39,640
Speaker 3: like she's heavy chested. You don't even see it, you

933
00:43:39,719 --> 00:43:42,319
Speaker 3: don't even hear it. And it's just inside the bra,

934
00:43:42,640 --> 00:43:46,440
Speaker 3: just doing the just getting milk, getting milked. And then

935
00:43:46,480 --> 00:43:48,560
Speaker 3: when you take it out of the bra, you pour

936
00:43:48,600 --> 00:43:51,600
Speaker 3: it upside down to It's as simple as that, and

937
00:43:51,680 --> 00:43:52,200
Speaker 3: pours out.

938
00:43:52,120 --> 00:43:56,160
Speaker 2: All the breasts of the second one. Oh yeah, dude, Hey,

939
00:43:56,239 --> 00:43:57,400
Speaker 2: I did. I did try it.

940
00:43:57,840 --> 00:44:00,720
Speaker 3: I don't know if I told you that not that bad, right, Well,

941
00:44:00,880 --> 00:44:03,439
Speaker 3: it was a very small amount. I'll do an actual sip.

942
00:44:03,600 --> 00:44:06,040
Speaker 3: But I did like a little like, uh, you know,

943
00:44:06,160 --> 00:44:07,640
Speaker 3: it leaked on the side of the bottle. I did

944
00:44:07,680 --> 00:44:09,080
Speaker 3: one of these, and I was just looking at this

945
00:44:09,239 --> 00:44:13,920
Speaker 3: drop and I went, it wasn't that bad, not that bad.

946
00:44:13,960 --> 00:44:17,359
Speaker 3: It's not that bad. Looks weird. It looks very weird, like, ah,

947
00:44:17,920 --> 00:44:20,680
Speaker 3: looks like some spoiled it's a little yellow, Yeah, a

948
00:44:20,719 --> 00:44:23,520
Speaker 3: little yellow so spoiled looking milk. Let me try it out.

949
00:44:24,040 --> 00:44:26,719
Speaker 3: Why not, I'm drinking worse things. Yeah, it looks like

950
00:44:26,800 --> 00:44:32,120
Speaker 3: agnog not the bad, not the bad, not the bad.

951
00:44:33,480 --> 00:44:35,920
Speaker 3: But yeah, a little collab. I think that would be

952
00:44:35,920 --> 00:44:41,440
Speaker 3: awesome at Barker on YouTube commented eleven days until joining

953
00:44:41,640 --> 00:44:44,200
Speaker 3: PT six So damn stoked.

954
00:44:44,880 --> 00:44:49,440
Speaker 1: Yes, bro, come onngratulations that. Uh he's gonna be in it.

955
00:44:49,719 --> 00:44:51,399
Speaker 1: He's gonna be in it just like you. He will

956
00:44:51,440 --> 00:44:53,920
Speaker 1: be He will be a Papa Team six member. This

957
00:44:54,000 --> 00:44:58,200
Speaker 1: one comes from ham Bonious Rex see Team six, twin

958
00:44:58,360 --> 00:45:02,440
Speaker 1: Boys Inbound, Good good wife struggling. So I'm building all

959
00:45:02,520 --> 00:45:06,720
Speaker 1: the furniture, cooking, doing laundry, and the grocery shopping.

960
00:45:06,520 --> 00:45:10,520
Speaker 3: Good, good good. I love it. You gotta embrace it, man,

961
00:45:10,920 --> 00:45:13,799
Speaker 3: I will say, with the furniture building, and I think

962
00:45:13,840 --> 00:45:16,560
Speaker 3: we've talked about this. You don't like furniture, Oh buddy,

963
00:45:16,600 --> 00:45:19,279
Speaker 3: I task grab it the shit out. Charles like, hey,

964
00:45:19,480 --> 00:45:21,799
Speaker 3: it'd be fun if you built the crib. It would

965
00:45:21,880 --> 00:45:26,120
Speaker 3: be fun, wouldn't it. I'm not going to, which shocks me.

966
00:45:27,040 --> 00:45:27,719
Speaker 2: Which shocks me.

967
00:45:27,800 --> 00:45:29,319
Speaker 3: I don't think it's a bad thing that you don't

968
00:45:29,320 --> 00:45:32,320
Speaker 3: build it, but I get so much like it's almost

969
00:45:34,800 --> 00:45:38,840
Speaker 3: cathartic when I build furniture, Like I truly get so

970
00:45:39,120 --> 00:45:41,640
Speaker 3: much like God, look what I did. And I'm able

971
00:45:41,719 --> 00:45:43,800
Speaker 3: to point at it. And Jill can physically see the

972
00:45:43,920 --> 00:45:46,359
Speaker 3: work that I did. And she's like, bra I hear

973
00:45:46,480 --> 00:45:49,120
Speaker 3: on the phone, Sherman put together this shelfe is so

974
00:45:49,360 --> 00:45:52,839
Speaker 3: hard to put together, and she's proud of me. I'm like, damn,

975
00:45:52,880 --> 00:45:55,800
Speaker 3: I need to keep doing that. What makes me ultimately

976
00:45:56,440 --> 00:45:57,160
Speaker 3: having to do it?

977
00:45:57,239 --> 00:46:01,839
Speaker 1: Because there'd be a couple furniture pieces and I don't

978
00:46:01,840 --> 00:46:04,560
Speaker 1: want to task grab it, but Charles wants to build it.

979
00:46:04,680 --> 00:46:06,439
Speaker 3: She starts building it. I feel bad.

980
00:46:06,760 --> 00:46:08,360
Speaker 1: I go in and build it with her, but I

981
00:46:08,520 --> 00:46:11,879
Speaker 1: draw a boundary, sweetheart, just took a little bit of time.

982
00:46:12,800 --> 00:46:16,560
Speaker 1: I'm task grabbiting the next thing. Yeah, well, especially if

983
00:46:16,600 --> 00:46:18,040
Speaker 1: you have I've painted a couple of rooms.

984
00:46:19,040 --> 00:46:19,560
Speaker 3: There you go.

985
00:46:20,239 --> 00:46:24,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, painted Ruse room, painted our office. I don't think

986
00:46:24,960 --> 00:46:28,760
Speaker 1: I painted Scotti's room. I don't think I painted Scottism.

987
00:46:28,280 --> 00:46:29,600
Speaker 3: But yeah, manual labor and Willie.

988
00:46:29,600 --> 00:46:29,799
Speaker 2: See.

989
00:46:30,920 --> 00:46:36,399
Speaker 1: Look do I think about like I built a couple

990
00:46:36,400 --> 00:46:38,200
Speaker 1: of things, Yeah, for the kiddos.

991
00:46:38,360 --> 00:46:41,160
Speaker 3: Do I remember building them. No, you know what I mean,

992
00:46:41,200 --> 00:46:42,840
Speaker 3: It's not like I look back, Oh, Papa built that

993
00:46:42,920 --> 00:46:46,759
Speaker 3: for you. Yes, I will say this. When I look

994
00:46:46,840 --> 00:46:48,799
Speaker 3: at you, the way that you interact with the world,

995
00:46:49,120 --> 00:46:52,640
Speaker 3: you do not seem like somebody that's not handy. Yeah,

996
00:46:53,440 --> 00:46:55,560
Speaker 3: like you don't. You don't give off any type of

997
00:46:55,680 --> 00:46:58,480
Speaker 3: I've seen you around the grill at the Father's Day

998
00:46:59,160 --> 00:47:03,120
Speaker 3: or Father's Day, the dad combine. Yeah, like you know

999
00:47:03,239 --> 00:47:04,680
Speaker 3: what you're doing your hand I.

1000
00:47:05,000 --> 00:47:08,160
Speaker 1: Love that you say that because as my boy, I'm

1001
00:47:08,200 --> 00:47:11,520
Speaker 1: sure he's listening right now, he's probably chuckling knowing he's

1002
00:47:11,600 --> 00:47:14,840
Speaker 1: like Will hates anything manual labor related.

1003
00:47:15,160 --> 00:47:16,439
Speaker 3: Now, who is this? Nick?

1004
00:47:16,719 --> 00:47:16,879
Speaker 4: Oh?

1005
00:47:17,000 --> 00:47:17,160
Speaker 3: Nick?

1006
00:47:17,280 --> 00:47:17,400
Speaker 4: Now?

1007
00:47:17,480 --> 00:47:20,880
Speaker 1: Am I competent? Can I read directions and get it

1008
00:47:21,040 --> 00:47:22,080
Speaker 1: right for the most part?

1009
00:47:22,280 --> 00:47:22,480
Speaker 3: Yes?

1010
00:47:22,880 --> 00:47:24,879
Speaker 1: Sometimes I might have to backtrack. Fuck, I gotta pull

1011
00:47:24,920 --> 00:47:27,480
Speaker 1: this all back apart. I did the wrong screw here. Yeah, yeah,

1012
00:47:28,120 --> 00:47:30,239
Speaker 1: I just don't care to. I just it's just not

1013
00:47:30,520 --> 00:47:33,319
Speaker 1: my bag, dude. Yeah, that one tell me other things

1014
00:47:33,360 --> 00:47:37,480
Speaker 1: on my mind, like if like, hey, you know, oh,

1015
00:47:37,600 --> 00:47:39,440
Speaker 1: let's build this thing. I'd love to just check out,

1016
00:47:39,520 --> 00:47:41,720
Speaker 1: take a mental break and put my hands on something

1017
00:47:41,760 --> 00:47:44,800
Speaker 1: and build something. There's no stress, but there might be

1018
00:47:44,880 --> 00:47:47,000
Speaker 1: messages that could just come across my phone. Hey forgot

1019
00:47:47,040 --> 00:47:48,880
Speaker 1: the press record on that entire episode.

1020
00:47:51,200 --> 00:47:54,560
Speaker 3: No, but really you do have way more traffic going

1021
00:47:54,640 --> 00:47:58,600
Speaker 3: on under your phone than like the normal human and

1022
00:47:58,719 --> 00:48:02,440
Speaker 3: it it does give me an opportunity to shut off

1023
00:48:02,480 --> 00:48:06,240
Speaker 3: my brain. But I feel like I'm able to afford

1024
00:48:06,360 --> 00:48:10,640
Speaker 3: myself that where maybe less so with yourself. So I get.

1025
00:48:10,719 --> 00:48:12,080
Speaker 2: I get that, I get.

1026
00:48:12,120 --> 00:48:14,800
Speaker 1: But if there was a badge for like furniture building,

1027
00:48:15,640 --> 00:48:18,520
Speaker 1: I wouldn't feel right accepting that badge. Even though I've

1028
00:48:18,520 --> 00:48:21,160
Speaker 1: done a couple of things, I wouldn't feel right accepting

1029
00:48:21,239 --> 00:48:21,720
Speaker 1: that badge.

1030
00:48:21,760 --> 00:48:24,520
Speaker 3: Does that make sense? Yeah, Like the if you came

1031
00:48:24,600 --> 00:48:28,200
Speaker 3: in next week and you said, Sherman, love you so much,

1032
00:48:28,320 --> 00:48:31,719
Speaker 3: fully forgive you for not hitting record and slash. I

1033
00:48:31,800 --> 00:48:35,239
Speaker 3: thought about it. You get your couch badge. You didn't

1034
00:48:35,239 --> 00:48:36,960
Speaker 3: really earn it, but I'm gonna give it to you.

1035
00:48:37,120 --> 00:48:39,359
Speaker 3: I would. I wouldn't slap it out of your hand,

1036
00:48:39,360 --> 00:48:40,840
Speaker 3: but I'd be like, I'm not putting that thing on.

1037
00:48:41,120 --> 00:48:43,279
Speaker 1: That's kind of yeah, that's kind of my mindset. Yeah,

1038
00:48:43,719 --> 00:48:46,239
Speaker 1: I wouldn't give you the couch badge. No, But in

1039
00:48:46,360 --> 00:48:49,080
Speaker 1: that hypothetical, that's the mindset. I'm one because I know

1040
00:48:49,120 --> 00:48:51,560
Speaker 1: there's dads out there. It's like it's a badge of honor. Yeah,

1041
00:48:51,680 --> 00:48:53,880
Speaker 1: you're building your kids like toy sets and doing all

1042
00:48:53,920 --> 00:48:57,439
Speaker 1: these things. Like for Christmas, I had to put together

1043
00:48:57,560 --> 00:49:01,040
Speaker 1: rush Chevy and then the little red uh, the little

1044
00:49:01,080 --> 00:49:04,000
Speaker 1: red car with a little yellow roof love put those

1045
00:49:04,040 --> 00:49:06,960
Speaker 1: things together, but the car. Yeah, it's not like I

1046
00:49:07,040 --> 00:49:08,360
Speaker 1: sit there and I'm like, I'm ready to do it.

1047
00:49:08,480 --> 00:49:10,839
Speaker 1: I'm ready to dive into this badge of honor. I'm like, shit,

1048
00:49:10,960 --> 00:49:16,120
Speaker 1: Christmases tomorrow, I do gotta build this thing. Yeah, any

1049
00:49:16,200 --> 00:49:21,279
Speaker 1: other comments, Oh, it's oh Benjamin, Benjamin, my little girl

1050
00:49:21,360 --> 00:49:24,160
Speaker 1: these days from taking her first steps and being on

1051
00:49:24,239 --> 00:49:26,839
Speaker 1: the move. I look forward to watching these episodes. It's

1052
00:49:26,880 --> 00:49:29,440
Speaker 1: such a more realistic way of showing how dead life

1053
00:49:29,480 --> 00:49:32,319
Speaker 1: really is. So both of your family stay healthy and happy. Dude,

1054
00:49:32,320 --> 00:49:36,839
Speaker 1: shout out the first steps, Mando. I'm like sitting there

1055
00:49:36,880 --> 00:49:39,239
Speaker 1: in front of her, and Mom's got her little arms

1056
00:49:39,280 --> 00:49:40,960
Speaker 1: and it's like walk to dead dad. Like you've seen

1057
00:49:41,000 --> 00:49:42,600
Speaker 1: her take a couple of steps, but now she's like

1058
00:49:42,960 --> 00:49:44,520
Speaker 1: she's about to walk to dead end. I just had

1059
00:49:44,560 --> 00:49:45,799
Speaker 1: the camera sitting in front of her.

1060
00:49:46,320 --> 00:49:48,279
Speaker 3: Mom lets her little arms go and she's just like

1061
00:49:48,800 --> 00:49:49,399
Speaker 3: water on over.

1062
00:49:49,520 --> 00:49:49,719
Speaker 2: Dude.

1063
00:49:49,760 --> 00:49:54,480
Speaker 1: It it warms your heart. Man, it's the best I

1064
00:49:54,600 --> 00:49:58,240
Speaker 1: watched that video so often. It's the best man video.

1065
00:49:58,320 --> 00:49:59,640
Speaker 1: As much as you fucking can.

1066
00:50:00,040 --> 00:50:03,759
Speaker 3: I am already getting my heart broken with seeing things

1067
00:50:03,840 --> 00:50:07,399
Speaker 3: on TikTok of like newborn to three months, Like look

1068
00:50:07,440 --> 00:50:09,360
Speaker 3: at the difference and it's like a little five second

1069
00:50:09,440 --> 00:50:11,560
Speaker 3: video of them as a newborn, and then it jumps

1070
00:50:11,600 --> 00:50:14,680
Speaker 3: to them as three months and I physically in my

1071
00:50:14,920 --> 00:50:18,080
Speaker 3: heart felt like a ooh when I saw that three

1072
00:50:18,160 --> 00:50:21,160
Speaker 3: month old. I said, that baby looks way too old.

1073
00:50:21,440 --> 00:50:22,000
Speaker 2: It's huge.

1074
00:50:22,320 --> 00:50:22,880
Speaker 3: What's going on?

1075
00:50:24,000 --> 00:50:24,239
Speaker 2: Choro?

1076
00:50:24,400 --> 00:50:28,400
Speaker 1: Every month we'll do a monthly photo with like a

1077
00:50:28,440 --> 00:50:30,359
Speaker 1: little sign next to him with the letters like six

1078
00:50:30,440 --> 00:50:33,480
Speaker 1: months old and get them to smile. And she did

1079
00:50:33,520 --> 00:50:35,360
Speaker 1: it with the rude doing it with Scottie the little

1080
00:50:35,360 --> 00:50:38,600
Speaker 1: growth chart. Yeah, just capture as much as you can.

1081
00:50:39,840 --> 00:50:41,080
Speaker 1: Capture as much as you can.

1082
00:50:41,600 --> 00:50:44,040
Speaker 3: I need to do a better job and to that point,

1083
00:50:44,680 --> 00:50:47,440
Speaker 3: and I'll read out this comment too, because we all

1084
00:50:47,520 --> 00:50:51,120
Speaker 3: did a good job of replying to him. This came

1085
00:50:51,200 --> 00:50:54,760
Speaker 3: on Twitter, uh, this came on our for the Dad's

1086
00:50:54,960 --> 00:50:58,600
Speaker 3: Check in our Papa Team six check in posts, tim

1087
00:50:58,760 --> 00:51:03,440
Speaker 3: A said seemed to seed team six year. We got

1088
00:51:03,480 --> 00:51:07,200
Speaker 3: our induction date today and man, I'm shitting myself. I

1089
00:51:07,280 --> 00:51:09,320
Speaker 3: was in the mindset that it was already real and

1090
00:51:09,440 --> 00:51:12,919
Speaker 3: had already hit me. But I was fucking wrong, full

1091
00:51:13,000 --> 00:51:16,880
Speaker 3: panic mode, engaged and damn near had an anxiety attack,

1092
00:51:17,040 --> 00:51:19,520
Speaker 3: but held it together for the WiFi. I remember that

1093
00:51:19,640 --> 00:51:23,640
Speaker 3: one will will you replied to it with the great comments,

1094
00:51:23,680 --> 00:51:27,600
Speaker 3: and hey, don't be scared and tell WiFi you know

1095
00:51:27,680 --> 00:51:31,319
Speaker 3: how you're feeling. You're not alone in this. I chimed in, said,

1096
00:51:31,360 --> 00:51:34,600
Speaker 3: you're crushing it. The fact that you have anxiety shows

1097
00:51:34,640 --> 00:51:37,279
Speaker 3: that you care. You're gonna crush it for the Dad

1098
00:51:37,520 --> 00:51:40,960
Speaker 3: Chef commented on it. But I want to challenge myself

1099
00:51:41,000 --> 00:51:44,120
Speaker 3: and we talked about this in my midyear review. I

1100
00:51:44,239 --> 00:51:46,160
Speaker 3: was thinking about this last night when I was going

1101
00:51:46,200 --> 00:51:47,800
Speaker 3: to bed. I was like, God, I got it. I

1102
00:51:47,840 --> 00:51:52,680
Speaker 3: got a reply to more comments, cause there were getting

1103
00:51:52,920 --> 00:51:56,320
Speaker 3: so many comments that it's not like it waters it

1104
00:51:56,440 --> 00:51:58,440
Speaker 3: down to where I don't care, but there's just so

1105
00:51:58,680 --> 00:52:01,400
Speaker 3: many comments say like Okay, I'll get to these in

1106
00:52:01,480 --> 00:52:03,120
Speaker 3: a little bit or yes, and then you kind of

1107
00:52:03,160 --> 00:52:06,120
Speaker 3: forget because it's it's it can be overwhelming for sure, Yes,

1108
00:52:06,360 --> 00:52:09,640
Speaker 3: And then I think to myself, they spent so much

1109
00:52:09,680 --> 00:52:12,600
Speaker 3: of their time to put that out there. The least

1110
00:52:12,640 --> 00:52:16,080
Speaker 3: I can do is heart that and give some sort

1111
00:52:16,120 --> 00:52:19,240
Speaker 3: of reply to like show PT six like we're reading

1112
00:52:19,320 --> 00:52:22,600
Speaker 3: these things because I'm reading damn near almost all of them.

1113
00:52:22,719 --> 00:52:23,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, that I'm getting tagged in.

1114
00:52:24,400 --> 00:52:28,440
Speaker 1: That's the most fun part about this is like the

1115
00:52:28,560 --> 00:52:31,520
Speaker 1: goal is like building the community of Dad's Papa Team, say,

1116
00:52:31,560 --> 00:52:34,560
Speaker 1: even though the females that are involved in comment and

1117
00:52:34,640 --> 00:52:38,520
Speaker 1: everything else, but it's it's it's cool, bro, because you're right.

1118
00:52:38,600 --> 00:52:41,319
Speaker 1: It's like you want to we want to be doing

1119
00:52:41,360 --> 00:52:43,440
Speaker 1: these shows and pumping out content to where it's like,

1120
00:52:43,600 --> 00:52:47,439
Speaker 1: you know, we make dad Fatherhood seem fun, talk about

1121
00:52:47,520 --> 00:52:50,759
Speaker 1: low moments and just connecting with the community because they're

1122
00:52:50,840 --> 00:52:53,200
Speaker 1: like watching something there's Papa Team six, right, you're part

1123
00:52:53,239 --> 00:52:55,719
Speaker 1: of it. You're taking a moment to like comment and

1124
00:52:55,760 --> 00:52:58,359
Speaker 1: do your thing because you feel like we're all part

1125
00:52:58,400 --> 00:52:58,759
Speaker 1: of this thing.

1126
00:52:58,800 --> 00:52:59,359
Speaker 3: Because we are.

1127
00:53:00,080 --> 00:53:03,279
Speaker 1: And when old Buddy sent that anxiety attack, that kind

1128
00:53:03,320 --> 00:53:07,000
Speaker 1: of panic attack thing, it's like something that because when

1129
00:53:07,040 --> 00:53:09,440
Speaker 1: I said, hey, share with your wife, like something I

1130
00:53:09,480 --> 00:53:11,360
Speaker 1: would learn or charl and I would both learn like

1131
00:53:11,800 --> 00:53:14,800
Speaker 1: when we do therapy together, is like, you know, you

1132
00:53:14,920 --> 00:53:17,920
Speaker 1: want to keep on this energy as the man of

1133
00:53:18,280 --> 00:53:22,680
Speaker 1: coming off strong and coming off composed for them, right,

1134
00:53:23,360 --> 00:53:25,200
Speaker 1: And then you learn like when we're in these therapy

1135
00:53:25,280 --> 00:53:29,160
Speaker 1: sessions and talking about it, like hey, I'm nervous as

1136
00:53:29,239 --> 00:53:31,759
Speaker 1: shit too, like I'm terrified because I think I'm going

1137
00:53:31,800 --> 00:53:34,880
Speaker 1: to be a bad dad, or you feel like you

1138
00:53:34,960 --> 00:53:37,360
Speaker 1: know she's going through so much so you want to

1139
00:53:37,440 --> 00:53:40,719
Speaker 1: remain strong. And that also creates a sense of like alone,

1140
00:53:41,520 --> 00:53:44,600
Speaker 1: like this lonely feeling for yourself too, because it builds

1141
00:53:44,640 --> 00:53:45,440
Speaker 1: up the stress.

1142
00:53:45,160 --> 00:53:46,319
Speaker 2: And build up in you at some point.

1143
00:53:47,200 --> 00:53:50,359
Speaker 1: And just communicating that stress with your partner, because again,

1144
00:53:50,400 --> 00:53:52,720
Speaker 1: it's not about strength, it's about just connection. It's about

1145
00:53:52,920 --> 00:53:55,200
Speaker 1: sometimes that is a strength is just hey, we're both

1146
00:53:55,239 --> 00:53:57,840
Speaker 1: fucking terrified and we're both going through this, and I

1147
00:53:57,920 --> 00:53:59,480
Speaker 1: feel like I want to help carry that for you.

1148
00:53:59,600 --> 00:54:02,760
Speaker 1: But your partner also wants to know that you are terrified.

1149
00:54:02,800 --> 00:54:04,880
Speaker 1: That probably helps them feel a little more comfortable as well,

1150
00:54:04,960 --> 00:54:06,560
Speaker 1: Like you don't as a man, you don't always have

1151
00:54:06,640 --> 00:54:09,200
Speaker 1: to come up strong, especially with your partner, so you

1152
00:54:09,400 --> 00:54:13,120
Speaker 1: tell her, hey, bro, the gentleman that sent that message

1153
00:54:13,880 --> 00:54:15,799
Speaker 1: and am I reply to Tim, It's like, dude, share

1154
00:54:15,880 --> 00:54:18,480
Speaker 1: that with your wife, Like I'm telling you, it's she

1155
00:54:18,600 --> 00:54:20,359
Speaker 1: wants to know what you're going through as well. It's

1156
00:54:20,360 --> 00:54:23,160
Speaker 1: not about just like they're probably feeling like, man, I'm

1157
00:54:23,160 --> 00:54:24,759
Speaker 1: stressing out so much, I'm doing all these things. Like

1158
00:54:25,200 --> 00:54:27,560
Speaker 1: he seems to have it all together, Like should I

1159
00:54:27,640 --> 00:54:29,799
Speaker 1: continue sharing all this stuff with him? Does he even

1160
00:54:29,840 --> 00:54:31,520
Speaker 1: want to hear about it? It's like, bro, you tell

1161
00:54:31,560 --> 00:54:33,480
Speaker 1: her that you're going through the same shit or you're

1162
00:54:33,520 --> 00:54:35,120
Speaker 1: going through your own walk with it too, Like that's

1163
00:54:35,160 --> 00:54:37,359
Speaker 1: where you can both connect over all that stuff. Then

1164
00:54:37,400 --> 00:54:39,360
Speaker 1: you go into the fire together because I promise you

1165
00:54:40,200 --> 00:54:44,200
Speaker 1: no parent feels like they're just ready for it all

1166
00:54:44,600 --> 00:54:48,280
Speaker 1: when it comes. Everybody's excited and everybody's also terrified because

1167
00:54:48,320 --> 00:54:49,759
Speaker 1: it's like, am I going to be a good dad?

1168
00:54:49,800 --> 00:54:51,360
Speaker 1: Am I going to be a good mom? Am I

1169
00:54:51,440 --> 00:54:53,920
Speaker 1: going to come up short? I didn't have the best upbringing.

1170
00:54:53,960 --> 00:54:55,560
Speaker 1: Am I going to be a replication of what I

1171
00:54:55,640 --> 00:54:57,200
Speaker 1: grew up in? Am I going to be carry on

1172
00:54:57,280 --> 00:54:59,200
Speaker 1: the legacy that my parents were to me? Like there's

1173
00:54:59,280 --> 00:55:03,720
Speaker 1: all these different things that everybody has. Yeah, that's all justified,

1174
00:55:03,840 --> 00:55:06,400
Speaker 1: But it's just like you're going into the fire and

1175
00:55:06,520 --> 00:55:07,880
Speaker 1: you want to do it. You want to do it

1176
00:55:07,960 --> 00:55:08,440
Speaker 1: with each other.

1177
00:55:08,600 --> 00:55:09,040
Speaker 2: And dude, the.

1178
00:55:09,080 --> 00:55:11,479
Speaker 3: Worries that I had. I said this to my friend

1179
00:55:11,480 --> 00:55:15,759
Speaker 3: because he was asking me. He's a Seed Team six

1180
00:55:15,880 --> 00:55:18,400
Speaker 3: member looking to become a dad, and he was picking

1181
00:55:18,480 --> 00:55:21,200
Speaker 3: my brain of just like surem, how's it going. And

1182
00:55:21,400 --> 00:55:22,960
Speaker 3: how I broke it down to him is I was like,

1183
00:55:23,040 --> 00:55:25,839
Speaker 3: the worries that I talked about with you on the show,

1184
00:55:25,880 --> 00:55:29,120
Speaker 3: of like getting enough sleep, the diaper stuff, all that stuff,

1185
00:55:29,600 --> 00:55:33,080
Speaker 3: I like laugh about that now because I'm like, it's

1186
00:55:33,560 --> 00:55:36,160
Speaker 3: like we got that figured out and we're onto the

1187
00:55:36,239 --> 00:55:38,960
Speaker 3: next thing. Like I got bigger fish to fry and

1188
00:55:39,040 --> 00:55:40,880
Speaker 3: to worry about. And I told him it was like,

1189
00:55:41,640 --> 00:55:44,880
Speaker 3: I'm from Aledo, Texas, a huge football town in Texas.

1190
00:55:45,520 --> 00:55:48,160
Speaker 3: I remember trying out for the football team my freshman

1191
00:55:48,239 --> 00:55:50,120
Speaker 3: year and all the upper classmen being like.

1192
00:55:50,800 --> 00:55:52,280
Speaker 2: Hey, you get fucking ready.

1193
00:55:52,640 --> 00:55:53,640
Speaker 3: It's just different.

1194
00:55:54,120 --> 00:55:55,319
Speaker 2: It's fucking different on.

1195
00:55:55,440 --> 00:55:56,520
Speaker 3: It's grown men out.

1196
00:55:56,560 --> 00:56:00,120
Speaker 2: He's grown men. Shit, I don't think you're built for

1197
00:56:00,239 --> 00:56:00,600
Speaker 2: this shit.

1198
00:56:00,640 --> 00:56:02,520
Speaker 3: And then you look up two months later and you're

1199
00:56:02,640 --> 00:56:06,160
Speaker 3: like halfway through the season and you're a football player

1200
00:56:06,760 --> 00:56:07,319
Speaker 3: on the team.

1201
00:56:07,480 --> 00:56:08,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, doing your thing.

1202
00:56:08,680 --> 00:56:10,920
Speaker 3: Like it, and you see the next crop going through

1203
00:56:10,920 --> 00:56:14,440
Speaker 3: the same anxieties and fears. Yes, it's like it's like, yes,

1204
00:56:14,640 --> 00:56:17,520
Speaker 3: worry about it, yes, be nervous about it. But I

1205
00:56:17,719 --> 00:56:20,080
Speaker 3: can't wait for you to see me do a diaper change.

1206
00:56:20,080 --> 00:56:22,600
Speaker 3: And I mean you're gonna be like, Yo, let's fucking go.

1207
00:56:22,960 --> 00:56:26,160
Speaker 3: I see you kid, Yes, dude, Yeah, I never thought

1208
00:56:26,200 --> 00:56:28,560
Speaker 3: i'd be good at that, And now that's just second nature.

1209
00:56:28,719 --> 00:56:31,600
Speaker 3: That's I'll be three diapers and one change because there's

1210
00:56:31,600 --> 00:56:33,360
Speaker 3: shit on that one, but then she peed on the

1211
00:56:33,400 --> 00:56:35,440
Speaker 3: clean ones. So now that one's in there, and now

1212
00:56:35,480 --> 00:56:37,239
Speaker 3: we got a third one and the Yeah, now we're good.

1213
00:56:37,800 --> 00:56:41,040
Speaker 3: Just know that it's all normal and natural.

1214
00:56:41,440 --> 00:56:44,120
Speaker 1: And catching yourself when the anxiety or the stress is

1215
00:56:44,160 --> 00:56:47,440
Speaker 1: building to where you can give yourself the grace of hey,

1216
00:56:47,560 --> 00:56:48,160
Speaker 1: this is normal.

1217
00:56:48,280 --> 00:56:48,480
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1218
00:56:48,520 --> 00:56:53,080
Speaker 1: Think about the millions, billions of kids and parents that

1219
00:56:53,160 --> 00:56:53,799
Speaker 1: were before us.

1220
00:56:54,800 --> 00:56:57,880
Speaker 3: Look how many humans are on planet Earth, dude, And

1221
00:56:58,320 --> 00:57:01,239
Speaker 3: just being able to identify exactly like you said, identified

1222
00:57:01,280 --> 00:57:04,920
Speaker 3: the anxiety and if you're able to communicate that neurologically,

1223
00:57:05,320 --> 00:57:09,440
Speaker 3: us dudes, us papas are we are naturally not good

1224
00:57:09,520 --> 00:57:13,440
Speaker 3: communicators on that front, right, you default to that strength.

1225
00:57:13,480 --> 00:57:15,640
Speaker 3: I gotta come off this way, and that is just

1226
00:57:15,800 --> 00:57:18,600
Speaker 3: that is in your brain. That is literally built into

1227
00:57:18,680 --> 00:57:21,000
Speaker 3: your brain to do that. So when you're sharing that

1228
00:57:21,120 --> 00:57:24,680
Speaker 3: stuff with your partner, bro, They're going that's like crack

1229
00:57:24,760 --> 00:57:27,640
Speaker 3: cocaine to them. They will be so excited that you

1230
00:57:28,480 --> 00:57:31,520
Speaker 3: broke down how you're feeling in that moment, Like when

1231
00:57:31,520 --> 00:57:34,919
Speaker 3: I told Jill how pissed I was about that dad

1232
00:57:35,040 --> 00:57:38,959
Speaker 3: loss of scarlet overheating. Yeah, her being like, you're good,

1233
00:57:39,680 --> 00:57:41,800
Speaker 3: she's fine, look at her, She's asleep right now, and

1234
00:57:41,960 --> 00:57:44,960
Speaker 3: like it's not gonna happen again. You're gonna be cognizant

1235
00:57:45,040 --> 00:57:48,360
Speaker 3: of the heat. Well, let's move on. Tomorrow's a new day.

1236
00:57:49,080 --> 00:57:51,360
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Speaker 1: to kind of be a fly on the wall.

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Speaker 3: For oh yeah, yeah, yeah, Okay, so this was technically

1257
00:58:53,560 --> 00:58:54,880
Speaker 3: my motherfucked moment.

1258
00:58:56,200 --> 00:58:56,680
Speaker 4: We had.

1259
00:58:57,320 --> 00:58:59,920
Speaker 3: I titled it the Battle for the Belt Jill one

1260
00:59:00,160 --> 00:59:00,880
Speaker 3: spoiler alert.

1261
00:59:01,040 --> 00:59:01,720
Speaker 2: She won the belt.

1262
00:59:02,600 --> 00:59:07,840
Speaker 3: Um, let me read a little quote here and you

1263
00:59:07,920 --> 00:59:11,000
Speaker 3: guys can guess who this quote is from listeners at home.

1264
00:59:11,080 --> 00:59:16,240
Speaker 3: This might seem familiar. Show your kids what resilience looks like.

1265
00:59:16,840 --> 00:59:20,280
Speaker 3: Maybe you're just exhausted and don't have any patience, but

1266
00:59:20,400 --> 00:59:22,200
Speaker 3: it is something to keep in mind that I have

1267
00:59:22,320 --> 00:59:25,680
Speaker 3: to constantly remind myself is that our kids are always watching.

1268
00:59:26,200 --> 00:59:28,680
Speaker 3: They're watching how we handle things and how we deal

1269
00:59:28,720 --> 00:59:32,080
Speaker 3: with adversity around the house, and watching how we handle

1270
00:59:32,120 --> 00:59:37,080
Speaker 3: our communication with everyone around us. Those the Papa Team

1271
00:59:37,160 --> 00:59:40,720
Speaker 3: six lesson last week. That was episode six, Episode six.

1272
00:59:40,800 --> 00:59:42,400
Speaker 3: That comes from William Compton.

1273
00:59:42,640 --> 00:59:43,400
Speaker 4: The third.

1274
00:59:44,800 --> 00:59:48,080
Speaker 2: Is I did not show good resilience.

1275
00:59:48,440 --> 00:59:53,800
Speaker 3: Oh happens, bro Oh don it happens more often than not.

1276
00:59:54,440 --> 00:59:57,880
Speaker 3: I'll break it down for you for dads out there,

1277
00:59:58,160 --> 01:00:03,640
Speaker 3: if you are breastfeeding, or if mom is breastfeeding, Charo

1278
01:00:03,800 --> 01:00:06,760
Speaker 3: is a breastfeeder, so you are well aware of this.

1279
01:00:07,080 --> 01:00:10,560
Speaker 3: They have to either feed or pump every threeish hours

1280
01:00:11,160 --> 01:00:13,919
Speaker 3: pretty constantly, pretty constantly. So why we wish we could pump.

1281
01:00:14,080 --> 01:00:16,080
Speaker 3: That's why we wish we could pump, because if they

1282
01:00:16,200 --> 01:00:19,600
Speaker 3: don't pump, there is a bacterial build up that can

1283
01:00:19,640 --> 01:00:24,080
Speaker 3: then make mom very sick, not baby, not just pretty.

1284
01:00:23,840 --> 01:00:28,600
Speaker 1: Like a clog situation where that's painful, yes, dude, but

1285
01:00:28,840 --> 01:00:33,600
Speaker 1: essentially Mom's got somebody on those milkers twenty four to seven,

1286
01:00:34,400 --> 01:00:35,960
Speaker 1: whether it's a baby or it's a pump.

1287
01:00:36,320 --> 01:00:42,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, And it is something to where Jill. The most

1288
01:00:42,640 --> 01:00:47,040
Speaker 3: sleep Jill has gotten in a set contained amount of

1289
01:00:47,120 --> 01:00:50,360
Speaker 3: hours is probably two and a half. That's probably the

1290
01:00:50,440 --> 01:00:54,040
Speaker 3: most sleep that she's gotten because she is just wanting

1291
01:00:54,120 --> 01:00:58,919
Speaker 3: to be superstar mom of If the doctor, the pediatrician

1292
01:00:59,440 --> 01:01:02,160
Speaker 3: shout out, uh wait, can I say my doctor's name

1293
01:01:02,680 --> 01:01:03,240
Speaker 3: if you want to?

1294
01:01:04,320 --> 01:01:08,479
Speaker 2: Or I don't know, there's nothing legally you can't.

1295
01:01:08,560 --> 01:01:10,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, she can't talk about us, but I could talk

1296
01:01:10,600 --> 01:01:16,160
Speaker 3: about her. Yes, sure, okay, shout out doctor Steigelefest, great name.

1297
01:01:17,360 --> 01:01:19,600
Speaker 3: She says, Jill, you gotta pump every three hours. Well,

1298
01:01:19,640 --> 01:01:22,400
Speaker 3: Jill's gonna be like, by god, I'm pumping every three hours.

1299
01:01:22,280 --> 01:01:24,360
Speaker 1: Right, Because again, it's like any type of build up

1300
01:01:24,400 --> 01:01:26,720
Speaker 1: that happens if they miss like, moms definitely want to

1301
01:01:26,760 --> 01:01:27,560
Speaker 1: stay on that stuff.

1302
01:01:27,720 --> 01:01:30,720
Speaker 3: Absolutely. Milk Team six, Milk Team six. I bet that

1303
01:01:31,200 --> 01:01:33,520
Speaker 3: there are a lot of moms that don't breastfeed and

1304
01:01:33,640 --> 01:01:37,320
Speaker 3: so they are getting some better sleep because they're you know,

1305
01:01:37,400 --> 01:01:39,920
Speaker 3: feeding on formula. Or maybe there's some moms that like

1306
01:01:40,000 --> 01:01:42,520
Speaker 3: they'll skip a pump because you can at the end

1307
01:01:42,520 --> 01:01:44,479
Speaker 3: of the day, you can skip a pump or feed

1308
01:01:44,880 --> 01:01:45,720
Speaker 3: and go formula.

1309
01:01:46,600 --> 01:01:48,040
Speaker 2: But Jill is not that way.

1310
01:01:48,360 --> 01:01:51,200
Speaker 3: She's like, I want to feed whenever I can. I

1311
01:01:51,280 --> 01:01:55,360
Speaker 3: want to pump whenever I can, and I'm operating as

1312
01:01:56,600 --> 01:02:01,000
Speaker 3: I'm not sleeping the best either, but nowhere near two

1313
01:02:01,080 --> 01:02:04,640
Speaker 3: and a half hours of sleep being my best night's sleep. Yeah.

1314
01:02:04,800 --> 01:02:09,120
Speaker 3: And so when I'm showing signs of I'm kind of tired,

1315
01:02:10,520 --> 01:02:12,240
Speaker 3: I need a little bit of an escape. I need

1316
01:02:12,320 --> 01:02:15,200
Speaker 3: to play video games with the boys. Oh honey, the

1317
01:02:15,280 --> 01:02:17,960
Speaker 3: boxes can wait till tomorrow. Oh honey, this can wait.

1318
01:02:18,040 --> 01:02:22,120
Speaker 3: I'll make the bed for my mom coming in town later. Honey.

1319
01:02:22,200 --> 01:02:23,919
Speaker 2: I wait, I need a nap going.

1320
01:02:24,280 --> 01:02:26,520
Speaker 3: I need a nap so bad if you just let

1321
01:02:26,600 --> 01:02:29,480
Speaker 3: me nap for thirty minutes, I just need a nap

1322
01:02:29,560 --> 01:02:31,960
Speaker 3: going into this night shift, and I'm gonna be solid,

1323
01:02:31,960 --> 01:02:35,560
Speaker 3: I'm gonna be set. And so there's all this build

1324
01:02:35,640 --> 01:02:39,560
Speaker 3: up of me kind of basically the whole day just

1325
01:02:41,440 --> 01:02:45,440
Speaker 3: showing signs of, hey, Jill, I'm exhausted, and Jill's just

1326
01:02:45,560 --> 01:02:47,840
Speaker 3: eating it and in the in her head she's like,

1327
01:02:48,520 --> 01:02:51,320
Speaker 3: I've mostly I've gotten this two hours in this son

1328
01:02:51,400 --> 01:02:51,800
Speaker 3: of a bitch.

1329
01:02:52,600 --> 01:02:54,320
Speaker 2: So it all comes out when I.

1330
01:02:54,440 --> 01:02:55,960
Speaker 3: And when those those.

1331
01:02:57,640 --> 01:03:01,200
Speaker 1: Stressors are high too, It's it's like that the scoreboard

1332
01:03:01,320 --> 01:03:04,320
Speaker 1: comes into play in your mind, yes, whether you wanted

1333
01:03:04,360 --> 01:03:06,560
Speaker 1: to or not, because again you're operating out of your

1334
01:03:06,720 --> 01:03:08,680
Speaker 1: like operating on E you both are yes.

1335
01:03:08,880 --> 01:03:12,280
Speaker 3: And she did a great job of being like, I

1336
01:03:12,480 --> 01:03:14,760
Speaker 3: want you to sleep, I want you to get your

1337
01:03:14,840 --> 01:03:17,960
Speaker 3: But I look at you and selfishly I'm like, damn,

1338
01:03:18,120 --> 01:03:21,880
Speaker 3: he got six hours. That's crazy. I wish I could

1339
01:03:21,920 --> 01:03:25,760
Speaker 3: get six hours. Yeah, And so there's that comparison. So

1340
01:03:26,160 --> 01:03:29,160
Speaker 3: she sees her, you know, dumb stupid husband, go lug

1341
01:03:29,240 --> 01:03:31,800
Speaker 3: over to the xbox and go, you know, turn on

1342
01:03:31,880 --> 01:03:34,840
Speaker 3: the xbox. And I got little Scarlet over here next

1343
01:03:34,880 --> 01:03:39,360
Speaker 3: to me. And Scarlet's kind of and she's like, are

1344
01:03:39,400 --> 01:03:41,640
Speaker 3: you gonna pick her up? And no, honey, she does that.

1345
01:03:41,760 --> 01:03:44,880
Speaker 3: It's fine, Like, well, sherman, you have the headset on,

1346
01:03:45,400 --> 01:03:48,040
Speaker 3: like can you hear her crying? Yeah, honey, I leave

1347
01:03:48,120 --> 01:03:51,440
Speaker 3: the headset like partially off my ear. I know when

1348
01:03:51,480 --> 01:03:54,760
Speaker 3: Scarlet's crying. Well, are you talking to people on there

1349
01:03:54,800 --> 01:03:56,800
Speaker 3: who you play? Yeah, I'm playing with Will and Jared

1350
01:03:56,840 --> 01:03:59,320
Speaker 3: and but also a note, they said that I shouldn't

1351
01:03:59,360 --> 01:03:59,720
Speaker 3: be playing.

1352
01:04:00,160 --> 01:04:01,520
Speaker 2: They said I shouldn't be playing.

1353
01:04:01,640 --> 01:04:03,440
Speaker 1: I don't think we said it when you were on

1354
01:04:03,520 --> 01:04:07,560
Speaker 1: the game, but when I was hearing everything that had

1355
01:04:07,600 --> 01:04:09,720
Speaker 1: happened and went down, I know in my brain, I

1356
01:04:09,920 --> 01:04:15,439
Speaker 1: was like, my questions were, how is he on the game?

1357
01:04:16,720 --> 01:04:19,440
Speaker 1: And then my next thought or I guess three, how is.

1358
01:04:19,440 --> 01:04:19,960
Speaker 2: He on the game?

1359
01:04:20,880 --> 01:04:23,480
Speaker 3: Why is he on the game hearing this story? Or

1360
01:04:24,240 --> 01:04:26,000
Speaker 3: she might not know that he's on the game at

1361
01:04:26,040 --> 01:04:31,360
Speaker 3: the moment, which we'll get into. So I'm just about

1362
01:04:31,400 --> 01:04:35,960
Speaker 3: to get onto the game and Jill pops her top

1363
01:04:37,000 --> 01:04:41,360
Speaker 3: on me, just loses it on me. Say why what

1364
01:04:41,840 --> 01:04:42,680
Speaker 3: do we get to say? Why?

1365
01:04:43,040 --> 01:04:43,200
Speaker 2: Oh?

1366
01:04:43,320 --> 01:04:47,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, of just like you're acting like you're tired, you're

1367
01:04:47,760 --> 01:04:51,280
Speaker 3: da da da you get to have this nighttime shift

1368
01:04:51,480 --> 01:04:54,360
Speaker 3: that yes it's hard, but essentially you just sit next

1369
01:04:54,400 --> 01:04:56,920
Speaker 3: to her and play video games with your buddies, Like

1370
01:04:57,680 --> 01:05:01,720
Speaker 3: I have no community with like moms. Right, you know,

1371
01:05:01,920 --> 01:05:05,000
Speaker 3: I'm alone in this. I feel like my husband's hanging

1372
01:05:05,080 --> 01:05:07,160
Speaker 3: me out to dry during the day because he's tired

1373
01:05:07,160 --> 01:05:09,120
Speaker 3: because he got to play video games all night? Why

1374
01:05:09,240 --> 01:05:15,040
Speaker 3: watching our daughter? Oh oh, I'm getting there. I'm getting there.

1375
01:05:15,680 --> 01:05:20,360
Speaker 3: So to not go into full details of what Jill said.

1376
01:05:20,400 --> 01:05:24,480
Speaker 3: To protect my wife, some things were said that I

1377
01:05:24,720 --> 01:05:27,840
Speaker 3: was like, oh man, I mean I truly was like

1378
01:05:28,440 --> 01:05:32,800
Speaker 3: chin on the floor. I got ripped like five new

1379
01:05:32,840 --> 01:05:36,640
Speaker 3: ones and I'm sitting there and I'm starting to get pissed,

1380
01:05:36,800 --> 01:05:40,720
Speaker 3: not at her but at myself. And as she's going

1381
01:05:41,840 --> 01:05:44,360
Speaker 3: I'm telling her everything's fine. She needs to let me

1382
01:05:44,840 --> 01:05:48,200
Speaker 3: do me. We have this system in place, everything's good.

1383
01:05:48,320 --> 01:05:51,240
Speaker 3: And as that's going on, we have a fucking raccoon

1384
01:05:51,840 --> 01:05:58,680
Speaker 3: now confirmed in our ceiling, just moving around and Wriggly

1385
01:05:59,200 --> 01:06:01,560
Speaker 3: are sweet, Dot is just letting.

1386
01:06:01,280 --> 01:06:02,360
Speaker 2: The raccoon have it.

1387
01:06:04,400 --> 01:06:09,480
Speaker 3: So you have Jill losing on me, Scarlet, and then Wriggly. Well,

1388
01:06:09,520 --> 01:06:12,320
Speaker 3: there's one thing of those three that I can control,

1389
01:06:13,000 --> 01:06:15,800
Speaker 3: and it's Wriggly. I've been telling him no all night.

1390
01:06:15,880 --> 01:06:17,600
Speaker 3: There's one thing that you can go full pop a

1391
01:06:17,640 --> 01:06:19,720
Speaker 3: team six. I can go full pop a team six

1392
01:06:19,800 --> 01:06:22,040
Speaker 3: on And so I go up to Wrigley, I give

1393
01:06:22,120 --> 01:06:26,800
Speaker 3: him a no, and I on his butt, which we

1394
01:06:26,960 --> 01:06:29,520
Speaker 3: do that like with our dogs. I'm sorry for anybody

1395
01:06:29,520 --> 01:06:31,200
Speaker 3: at home that doesn't like that.

1396
01:06:31,360 --> 01:06:33,560
Speaker 1: Lost yourself in the moment you had a reaction to

1397
01:06:33,640 --> 01:06:36,120
Speaker 1: the dog had a reaction to the same way Yep

1398
01:06:36,360 --> 01:06:38,920
Speaker 1: gave him because that was like his eighth no that night.

1399
01:06:39,080 --> 01:06:41,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, and so I wanted to enforce it. I hit it.

1400
01:06:41,960 --> 01:06:45,360
Speaker 3: She goes, you are in no mood to be watching

1401
01:06:45,440 --> 01:06:48,080
Speaker 3: our daughter and goes and picks her up off the thing.

1402
01:06:48,160 --> 01:06:52,720
Speaker 1: I'm like, bro, that was You're about to do nighttime

1403
01:06:53,080 --> 01:06:56,120
Speaker 1: oh yeah, and lose it all this is happening.

1404
01:06:56,200 --> 01:06:57,000
Speaker 3: Yes, he hit the dog.

1405
01:06:57,280 --> 01:06:59,880
Speaker 1: Hit because he ain't shutting up, he's making it worse.

1406
01:07:00,000 --> 01:07:02,440
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, you hit the dog. You're about to do

1407
01:07:02,640 --> 01:07:05,840
Speaker 1: nighttime shift. And she's like, you're a no.

1408
01:07:06,120 --> 01:07:08,760
Speaker 3: You're in no mood to be watching our daughter. I

1409
01:07:08,840 --> 01:07:13,000
Speaker 3: can see it in your shoulders. You're so tense. I

1410
01:07:13,320 --> 01:07:15,840
Speaker 3: was the monsters in the park that Rue was afraid of.

1411
01:07:16,520 --> 01:07:19,439
Speaker 3: And I'm sitting there and I'm like, I became that guy.

1412
01:07:20,120 --> 01:07:23,439
Speaker 3: Like my wife is like scared for me to watch

1413
01:07:23,520 --> 01:07:26,840
Speaker 3: my daughter, Like am I a bad dad? Like?

1414
01:07:26,960 --> 01:07:27,880
Speaker 2: Am I a monster?

1415
01:07:28,200 --> 01:07:30,960
Speaker 3: Like what? Oh my gosh. I would never hurt Scarlet.

1416
01:07:30,960 --> 01:07:34,040
Speaker 3: I would never hurt Jill. And I'm not reacting verbally

1417
01:07:34,160 --> 01:07:37,600
Speaker 3: to Jill. I'm eating everything she's telling me because last

1418
01:07:37,680 --> 01:07:41,080
Speaker 3: time she lost it on me, like what six weeks ago, Yeah,

1419
01:07:41,720 --> 01:07:44,320
Speaker 3: seventy five percent of what she's saying is right, yeah,

1420
01:07:44,440 --> 01:07:46,480
Speaker 3: which it was. All of it's built up on you.

1421
01:07:46,840 --> 01:07:47,880
Speaker 2: Oh what happens?

1422
01:07:48,640 --> 01:07:51,160
Speaker 3: And so she's holding our daughter and I feel like

1423
01:07:51,240 --> 01:07:54,320
Speaker 3: I'm losing custody of my daughter like it was a

1424
01:07:54,960 --> 01:07:58,520
Speaker 3: I'm just sitting there like, dude, I fucked up, damn it.

1425
01:07:59,040 --> 01:08:01,320
Speaker 3: And she grabs this ugle me in the blanket. She goes,

1426
01:08:01,440 --> 01:08:04,360
Speaker 3: we're going to the room of you know, blah blah blah,

1427
01:08:04,360 --> 01:08:06,560
Speaker 3: and takes Scarlett into the room and I just sit

1428
01:08:06,640 --> 01:08:09,400
Speaker 3: there on the couch like this, and I'm just sitting there.

1429
01:08:09,440 --> 01:08:12,440
Speaker 3: I'm like, fuck because I know I can't go in.

1430
01:08:12,480 --> 01:08:14,080
Speaker 2: There and talk to her.

1431
01:08:14,280 --> 01:08:16,720
Speaker 3: It's both emotions are way too high. Motions are way

1432
01:08:16,720 --> 01:08:19,400
Speaker 3: too high. But also right move on that part. Yeah,

1433
01:08:19,479 --> 01:08:22,479
Speaker 3: I'm like I have lost in this situation. Not a

1434
01:08:22,560 --> 01:08:25,639
Speaker 3: cool down, not that it's a competition, but I've lost fully,

1435
01:08:25,920 --> 01:08:27,680
Speaker 3: So what can I do?

1436
01:08:27,920 --> 01:08:32,960
Speaker 1: But in your mind at the time, you're probably arguing

1437
01:08:33,080 --> 01:08:34,240
Speaker 1: your points in your head.

1438
01:08:36,920 --> 01:08:39,719
Speaker 3: Really to be completely honest, and this isn't the score

1439
01:08:39,760 --> 01:08:42,280
Speaker 3: points with her. At this point, I'm just really mad

1440
01:08:42,320 --> 01:08:46,120
Speaker 3: at myself, to be honest, like I really wasn't breaking

1441
01:08:46,160 --> 01:08:49,360
Speaker 3: it down of like, oh, like the only thing that

1442
01:08:49,760 --> 01:08:52,280
Speaker 3: I was like that's not true is like you're being

1443
01:08:52,360 --> 01:08:54,720
Speaker 3: a bad father blah blah blah. And I'm like, I

1444
01:08:54,840 --> 01:08:57,240
Speaker 3: know I'm a good dad. I might I might mess

1445
01:08:57,360 --> 01:09:00,559
Speaker 3: up dad, but I'm a good dad, so that won't

1446
01:09:00,600 --> 01:09:02,920
Speaker 3: hurt a little bit. But that's okay, I'll eat it.

1447
01:09:03,160 --> 01:09:06,960
Speaker 3: That's like the only thing that she really said contextually

1448
01:09:07,080 --> 01:09:12,160
Speaker 3: that made me upset, right, But I'm sitting there so

1449
01:09:12,400 --> 01:09:15,880
Speaker 3: fucking mad at myself, and I'm like, I honestly just

1450
01:09:15,960 --> 01:09:18,240
Speaker 3: want to talk to somebody. It's late at night. I

1451
01:09:18,439 --> 01:09:21,320
Speaker 3: know that the guys are on the Xbox, so I'm

1452
01:09:21,360 --> 01:09:23,200
Speaker 3: just gonna get on the Xbox. I know that my

1453
01:09:23,360 --> 01:09:27,280
Speaker 3: mentor Willie C is on there. Jay Rod's probably on there.

1454
01:09:27,360 --> 01:09:28,559
Speaker 3: He's great comic relief.

1455
01:09:28,680 --> 01:09:31,080
Speaker 1: Because we had planned the we had planned to play,

1456
01:09:31,200 --> 01:09:33,519
Speaker 1: we had planned Suram was late to getting on the game.

1457
01:09:33,600 --> 01:09:34,840
Speaker 3: We're kind of wondering what's going on.

1458
01:09:35,520 --> 01:09:40,400
Speaker 1: On TIVE like late late. Sharan was supposed to be

1459
01:09:40,479 --> 01:09:42,839
Speaker 1: on it like nine thirty. He remember when you FaceTime

1460
01:09:42,920 --> 01:09:45,560
Speaker 1: me and I was doing my back routine. It's like, no,

1461
01:09:45,800 --> 01:09:46,559
Speaker 1: that was what he said.

1462
01:09:46,680 --> 01:09:47,679
Speaker 2: Oh the Kroger.

1463
01:09:47,760 --> 01:09:48,960
Speaker 3: I forgot about Kroger.

1464
01:09:49,240 --> 01:09:49,439
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1465
01:09:49,560 --> 01:09:52,200
Speaker 1: Again, I don't know how much you were wanting to share, so,

1466
01:09:52,360 --> 01:09:54,679
Speaker 1: as your boy in the foxhole, no, I'm sorry.

1467
01:09:54,880 --> 01:09:55,400
Speaker 2: I'm sorry.

1468
01:09:55,760 --> 01:10:00,360
Speaker 3: I've missed a huge part of this story. Guys Yogurt

1469
01:10:01,040 --> 01:10:04,160
Speaker 3: love Kroger. But the guy that packed our they do

1470
01:10:04,280 --> 01:10:07,400
Speaker 3: a free pickup where they'll get all the groceries and

1471
01:10:07,439 --> 01:10:09,479
Speaker 3: you go park in the space they bring the groceries

1472
01:10:09,520 --> 01:10:12,200
Speaker 3: out to you. One of our grocery items was six

1473
01:10:12,400 --> 01:10:16,040
Speaker 3: chicken breasts and he put it in with like all

1474
01:10:16,080 --> 01:10:19,360
Speaker 3: of our veggies and fruits and like stuff that isn't

1475
01:10:20,560 --> 01:10:26,439
Speaker 3: fully covered and the chicken liquid is just seeping out

1476
01:10:26,479 --> 01:10:29,240
Speaker 3: of the it's covered in chicken stuff. So it's like, hey,

1477
01:10:29,280 --> 01:10:32,320
Speaker 3: if you want salmonilla, eat anything in this bag. Essentially,

1478
01:10:33,280 --> 01:10:36,760
Speaker 3: I'm like, well, that's you know, ninety dollars worth of groceries.

1479
01:10:36,920 --> 01:10:39,080
Speaker 3: I'm going back to Kroger. And Jill was like, honey,

1480
01:10:39,200 --> 01:10:41,680
Speaker 3: I your shift's about to start. I would really love you.

1481
01:10:41,800 --> 01:10:43,479
Speaker 3: And I'm like, honey, if I don't do this right now,

1482
01:10:43,520 --> 01:10:45,800
Speaker 3: it's not gonna happen, and we're gonna be ninety dollars

1483
01:10:45,840 --> 01:10:48,000
Speaker 3: in a hole and we're not pinching pennies, but we're

1484
01:10:48,040 --> 01:10:51,600
Speaker 3: trying to be smart with money. So I went up

1485
01:10:51,600 --> 01:10:53,240
Speaker 3: to Kroger. I told Jill was going to take like

1486
01:10:53,320 --> 01:10:55,920
Speaker 3: thirty minutes. It ended up taking two and a half hours,

1487
01:10:57,439 --> 01:11:00,680
Speaker 3: or close to I run into Ja worried anybody that

1488
01:11:00,760 --> 01:11:03,000
Speaker 3: follows me on Twitter, Saul, I ran into Jared in

1489
01:11:03,080 --> 01:11:05,679
Speaker 3: the parking lot, and I thought, oh, for the Dad's

1490
01:11:05,720 --> 01:11:08,439
Speaker 3: comes out tomorrow. Could be a fun little promo if

1491
01:11:08,479 --> 01:11:10,760
Speaker 3: I acted like I'm Papa Razzi.

1492
01:11:10,520 --> 01:11:11,840
Speaker 2: And hey Jared Jared.

1493
01:11:12,040 --> 01:11:15,559
Speaker 3: Jill sees that, Oh, so Sherman's at Kroger working hard

1494
01:11:15,640 --> 01:11:18,240
Speaker 3: to get at home. Jill's at home.

1495
01:11:18,600 --> 01:11:20,280
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, in terms like I'm going back to Kroger

1496
01:11:20,280 --> 01:11:22,559
Speaker 1: and I'm getting these groceries because the chicken juice has

1497
01:11:22,640 --> 01:11:26,639
Speaker 1: covered everything else. Gonna take me thirty minutes. Oh yeah,

1498
01:11:26,640 --> 01:11:28,639
Speaker 1: Shrm tells me, hey, I can be on the game

1499
01:11:28,680 --> 01:11:31,840
Speaker 1: around nine fifteen, nine thirty. He calls me, trying to

1500
01:11:31,880 --> 01:11:35,120
Speaker 1: talk me in the plane. I was like, buddy, okay.

1501
01:11:36,800 --> 01:11:38,760
Speaker 1: So Jill's thinking he's gonna go to the store for

1502
01:11:38,840 --> 01:11:41,000
Speaker 1: thirty minutes. It's a two and a half hour trip.

1503
01:11:41,800 --> 01:11:43,240
Speaker 1: So it's a two and a half hour trip. You know,

1504
01:11:43,400 --> 01:11:45,560
Speaker 1: she's doing what in the hell is going on? She

1505
01:11:45,640 --> 01:11:48,120
Speaker 1: probably gets on a social media sees that he's doing

1506
01:11:48,160 --> 01:11:51,160
Speaker 1: a fun little content bit with Jared in the parking lot, having.

1507
01:11:51,040 --> 01:11:54,240
Speaker 3: Fun as I'm waiting for Kroger to solve this issue

1508
01:11:55,160 --> 01:11:57,120
Speaker 3: and ended up being this whole thing where they we

1509
01:11:57,240 --> 01:12:00,679
Speaker 3: can't reimburse, we can exchange, but how we I don't

1510
01:12:00,720 --> 01:12:02,000
Speaker 3: know how we're gonna either way.

1511
01:12:02,280 --> 01:12:05,160
Speaker 1: Two and a half hours. Oh yeah, Suam comes home

1512
01:12:05,600 --> 01:12:08,400
Speaker 1: the hornet's nest. That's probably where all these conversations are

1513
01:12:08,479 --> 01:12:09,040
Speaker 1: taking place.

1514
01:12:09,720 --> 01:12:11,639
Speaker 3: And what's the first thing I do when I walk

1515
01:12:11,720 --> 01:12:15,000
Speaker 3: in after I put it said groceries in the fridge,

1516
01:12:15,880 --> 01:12:18,920
Speaker 3: I put on my headset. I get Scarlet in her

1517
01:12:18,960 --> 01:12:22,000
Speaker 3: little bed because I'm husband out of the year. You

1518
01:12:22,120 --> 01:12:27,200
Speaker 3: started to try to play the game before the motherfucked moment. Yes,

1519
01:12:28,400 --> 01:12:32,680
Speaker 3: oh yeah, that's what kicked it all off. That's what

1520
01:12:32,880 --> 01:12:35,400
Speaker 3: kicked it all off is I came home thinking I

1521
01:12:35,560 --> 01:12:39,800
Speaker 3: killed it at Kroger. Now it's my turn to watch here, honey.

1522
01:12:39,880 --> 01:12:41,840
Speaker 3: Let me take Scarlett, you go to bed, love you,

1523
01:12:42,880 --> 01:12:44,519
Speaker 3: and put her in her little snuggle me. And that

1524
01:12:44,560 --> 01:12:46,439
Speaker 3: I'm sitting there with my headset on and she's in

1525
01:12:46,560 --> 01:12:49,880
Speaker 3: her snuggle me going and not crying crying, but like

1526
01:12:50,000 --> 01:12:52,280
Speaker 3: kind of moving, and Jil's like, are you gonna do

1527
01:12:52,360 --> 01:12:52,840
Speaker 3: something about that?

1528
01:12:53,280 --> 01:12:54,840
Speaker 2: And I probably very quickly was.

1529
01:12:54,880 --> 01:12:56,760
Speaker 3: Like, oh, yeah, she's fine, she's fine.

1530
01:12:56,800 --> 01:12:58,840
Speaker 2: She does that and go back to my gut.

1531
01:12:58,920 --> 01:13:03,360
Speaker 3: And she's like, when I have Scarlet, I'm holding Scarlet

1532
01:13:03,439 --> 01:13:06,280
Speaker 3: and I'm making sure Scarlet's good, and I'm blah blah blah,

1533
01:13:06,280 --> 01:13:10,000
Speaker 3: and Sherman's doing this like havesy kind of you're.

1534
01:13:09,880 --> 01:13:11,760
Speaker 1: Playing with Jared in the parking lot at Kroger. You

1535
01:13:11,880 --> 01:13:13,320
Speaker 1: come home and you just get on the headset and

1536
01:13:13,400 --> 01:13:14,800
Speaker 1: she's whining, you're not doing nothing.

1537
01:13:14,920 --> 01:13:17,280
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, And Sherman's just he's having the time of

1538
01:13:17,320 --> 01:13:17,639
Speaker 3: his life.

1539
01:13:17,720 --> 01:13:18,880
Speaker 2: Fatherhood's so easy.

1540
01:13:19,479 --> 01:13:22,600
Speaker 3: It's just so much fun. And so she popped I

1541
01:13:22,680 --> 01:13:25,519
Speaker 3: mean she popped off on me, which totally.

1542
01:13:25,560 --> 01:13:27,120
Speaker 1: Sherman was on the game for like a total of

1543
01:13:27,200 --> 01:13:31,800
Speaker 1: five minutes. Well that was later, so you were you

1544
01:13:31,880 --> 01:13:34,360
Speaker 1: were logging on to play and walking on to play.

1545
01:13:34,479 --> 01:13:35,160
Speaker 2: That happens.

1546
01:13:36,680 --> 01:13:38,680
Speaker 3: You don't need to be, you know, Pop Wrigley, you

1547
01:13:38,760 --> 01:13:40,600
Speaker 3: don't need to be watching our daughter. I'm going to

1548
01:13:40,680 --> 01:13:42,680
Speaker 3: the room. So I think that there, that she's in

1549
01:13:42,800 --> 01:13:44,840
Speaker 3: there for the rest of the night. You're like, all right,

1550
01:13:45,120 --> 01:13:47,720
Speaker 3: she's on night she's on night duty. Now she took

1551
01:13:47,760 --> 01:13:49,320
Speaker 3: it out of my hands because she took out my

1552
01:13:49,400 --> 01:13:52,639
Speaker 3: hands slash, I know, because I tried to get Scarlett

1553
01:13:52,720 --> 01:13:56,240
Speaker 3: back like two or three times verbally, not like trying

1554
01:13:56,280 --> 01:13:59,479
Speaker 3: to get her back. But yeah, honey, I'm I'm sorry.

1555
01:13:59,680 --> 01:14:02,000
Speaker 3: You know what, You're right, I'm sorry. Just let me

1556
01:14:02,080 --> 01:14:03,439
Speaker 3: watch No, you're not gonna watch her.

1557
01:14:04,160 --> 01:14:06,479
Speaker 1: She goes up to the room. Oh yeah, so you're

1558
01:14:06,520 --> 01:14:07,200
Speaker 1: sitting down there.

1559
01:14:07,640 --> 01:14:09,800
Speaker 3: I'm like, I want to get this situation off my

1560
01:14:09,920 --> 01:14:13,280
Speaker 3: chest because I feel like the biggest idiot ever. I'm

1561
01:14:13,320 --> 01:14:15,880
Speaker 3: pissed at myself. I know my boy Willy sees on there,

1562
01:14:15,920 --> 01:14:18,479
Speaker 3: Taylor's on there, Jared's on there. So I log in

1563
01:14:19,000 --> 01:14:21,560
Speaker 3: and I just logs in trauma dumb on them for

1564
01:14:21,760 --> 01:14:26,080
Speaker 3: like five minutes. Yeah, yeah, just trauma dumb. Mid trauma dumb.

1565
01:14:27,240 --> 01:14:29,200
Speaker 1: Jill walks in and I'm hearing this whole story, and

1566
01:14:29,280 --> 01:14:32,960
Speaker 1: I'm just thinking, how are you on the game right now?

1567
01:14:33,880 --> 01:14:35,960
Speaker 1: Why are you on the game right now? I wonder

1568
01:14:35,960 --> 01:14:38,080
Speaker 1: if Jill even knows he's playing the game right now.

1569
01:14:38,280 --> 01:14:40,760
Speaker 3: Cause I'm just like, she's bunkered into her room. Yeah,

1570
01:14:41,280 --> 01:14:42,640
Speaker 3: like she's gonna be in there for the rest of

1571
01:14:42,720 --> 01:14:45,280
Speaker 3: the night. I might crawl in here in like right

1572
01:14:45,640 --> 01:14:49,640
Speaker 3: thirty minutes, forty five minutes and she comes outside and

1573
01:14:49,680 --> 01:14:52,160
Speaker 3: sees me on the game, and goes, oh, great, you're

1574
01:14:52,200 --> 01:14:55,080
Speaker 3: on the game again, and I'm like, fuck, So I

1575
01:14:55,439 --> 01:14:58,360
Speaker 3: instantly turn off the Xbox instantly. I mean, yeah, I'm

1576
01:14:58,400 --> 01:15:00,400
Speaker 3: sure I was probably talking to you, you guys, and

1577
01:15:00,479 --> 01:15:01,840
Speaker 3: then you probably just saw we saw.

1578
01:15:02,479 --> 01:15:05,439
Speaker 1: Yeah, we saw your name leave the leave the discord.

1579
01:15:06,200 --> 01:15:08,960
Speaker 1: We saw the little plug logo next to your guy's name.

1580
01:15:09,040 --> 01:15:10,320
Speaker 1: We're like, I think it's bad.

1581
01:15:10,640 --> 01:15:13,280
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think it went south for sure. Sure them

1582
01:15:13,320 --> 01:15:17,880
Speaker 3: over there in the house, surep needs reinforcements. So then

1583
01:15:18,320 --> 01:15:23,559
Speaker 3: I get a second lashing from Jill. Understandably, gotta keep

1584
01:15:23,600 --> 01:15:25,080
Speaker 3: this under an hour, by the way, gotta keep this

1585
01:15:25,200 --> 01:15:28,160
Speaker 3: under an hour. So in my brain I then say

1586
01:15:28,200 --> 01:15:30,720
Speaker 3: to myself, you need to be a good dad, and

1587
01:15:30,800 --> 01:15:32,519
Speaker 3: you need to start knocking out the things that you

1588
01:15:32,640 --> 01:15:35,000
Speaker 3: said you would help knock out for Jill. So I

1589
01:15:35,120 --> 01:15:37,479
Speaker 3: instantly go to the washer and dryer, I change out

1590
01:15:37,520 --> 01:15:40,040
Speaker 3: that load. I go outside into our front yard. I

1591
01:15:40,120 --> 01:15:42,639
Speaker 3: put my gloves, my work gloves on. Oh she wants

1592
01:15:42,680 --> 01:15:44,760
Speaker 3: the she wants the weeds going the weeds about to Oh,

1593
01:15:45,080 --> 01:15:47,360
Speaker 3: oh she wants to fuck Everybody on the on the

1594
01:15:48,200 --> 01:15:50,840
Speaker 3: Twitter say, oh, shureman, what's that wha tree in your

1595
01:15:50,880 --> 01:15:51,360
Speaker 3: front yard?

1596
01:15:51,400 --> 01:15:51,599
Speaker 4: Fuck?

1597
01:15:51,720 --> 01:15:52,360
Speaker 2: That weed tree.

1598
01:15:52,479 --> 01:15:56,000
Speaker 3: I got my hands all and just I'm just go on.

1599
01:15:56,160 --> 01:16:00,519
Speaker 3: At this point, it's probably like eleven thirty, close to twelve,

1600
01:16:01,320 --> 01:16:03,760
Speaker 3: and I'm just taking down all these weeds out there,

1601
01:16:04,479 --> 01:16:07,920
Speaker 3: diabolically killing the weeds covered, kicking out all your anger

1602
01:16:08,000 --> 01:16:08,320
Speaker 3: and all.

1603
01:16:08,240 --> 01:16:10,720
Speaker 2: Your stress on these chores around the house. Oh yeah, dude.

1604
01:16:10,800 --> 01:16:12,800
Speaker 3: And because of the night shift, I like had a

1605
01:16:13,240 --> 01:16:17,080
Speaker 3: little nitro like coffee type thing that like earlier in

1606
01:16:17,160 --> 01:16:19,040
Speaker 3: the night to help me, but on an empty stomach.

1607
01:16:19,120 --> 01:16:22,040
Speaker 3: So I'm out there, I'm starting to get lightheaded. I'm like,

1608
01:16:22,080 --> 01:16:25,200
Speaker 3: all right, I need some full rainbow outside, full fucking

1609
01:16:25,320 --> 01:16:28,880
Speaker 3: rambo on these weeds. And then in my head, when

1610
01:16:28,920 --> 01:16:31,960
Speaker 3: I was going inside to get a water, I hear doom, doom,

1611
01:16:32,040 --> 01:16:34,559
Speaker 3: doom up in the roof, and I literally shot up

1612
01:16:34,640 --> 01:16:37,960
Speaker 3: and I looked up at that ceiling. I said, tonight's

1613
01:16:38,000 --> 01:16:41,960
Speaker 3: the night. Whatever that animal is, it's gonna fucking die.

1614
01:16:43,320 --> 01:16:46,880
Speaker 3: I was raised at home where I hunted. I've killed armadillo,

1615
01:16:47,000 --> 01:16:53,519
Speaker 3: I've killed rabbit bare handed, but with an object, I'm

1616
01:16:53,560 --> 01:16:56,200
Speaker 3: gonna kill whatsever in my roof. Yeah, we have a

1617
01:16:56,360 --> 01:16:59,320
Speaker 3: huge fucking ladder at the shop. I'm gonna go get

1618
01:16:59,360 --> 01:17:01,920
Speaker 3: that ladder. Am I crazy, am my psycho that I'm

1619
01:17:01,960 --> 01:17:05,839
Speaker 3: turning to kill something in this moment of anger. No, Sherman,

1620
01:17:05,920 --> 01:17:06,160
Speaker 3: you're not.

1621
01:17:06,560 --> 01:17:07,080
Speaker 2: It's okay.

1622
01:17:07,800 --> 01:17:11,040
Speaker 3: The thing needs to die. It's ruining your life. It's

1623
01:17:11,080 --> 01:17:13,639
Speaker 3: all you hear at night. I get to the shop

1624
01:17:13,680 --> 01:17:15,759
Speaker 3: at like one thirty, I unlock you, I get the ladder.

1625
01:17:15,800 --> 01:17:17,400
Speaker 3: I go back to my hond on thirty in the morning,

1626
01:17:17,439 --> 01:17:19,280
Speaker 3: Sherman is here at the shop getting the ladder to

1627
01:17:19,320 --> 01:17:22,040
Speaker 3: go home, getting the ladder to go home. Should I

1628
01:17:22,120 --> 01:17:23,840
Speaker 3: use a hammer? Should I use a knife? You know

1629
01:17:23,880 --> 01:17:26,559
Speaker 3: what it actually be best. Let's get the fireplace poker.

1630
01:17:26,880 --> 01:17:29,559
Speaker 3: That's sharp, it's got some length to it. I'm gonna

1631
01:17:29,600 --> 01:17:31,880
Speaker 3: have to rip these wood slats off the side of

1632
01:17:32,000 --> 01:17:35,559
Speaker 3: my little enclosure to go in here and kill whatever

1633
01:17:35,680 --> 01:17:39,479
Speaker 3: this thing is. And I get halfway up the ladder

1634
01:17:39,600 --> 01:17:43,240
Speaker 3: to where I'm about like roof height, and I said

1635
01:17:43,280 --> 01:17:45,280
Speaker 3: to myself, these are the stories that you tell in

1636
01:17:45,320 --> 01:17:47,800
Speaker 3: the er, like these are the stories that you tell

1637
01:17:47,840 --> 01:17:50,639
Speaker 3: the doctor and your family sitting around you're laughing because

1638
01:17:50,640 --> 01:17:53,280
Speaker 3: you have a broken tibia or phibia, because you fell

1639
01:17:53,479 --> 01:17:56,280
Speaker 3: off the roof at one thirty two o'clock in the

1640
01:17:56,320 --> 01:17:58,840
Speaker 3: morning at one thirty two o'clock in the morning. And

1641
01:17:59,240 --> 01:18:02,400
Speaker 3: just as that's happen, I see the porch light turn on.

1642
01:18:02,680 --> 01:18:07,360
Speaker 3: I'm like, oh, here we fucking go. Jill comes out. Sure,

1643
01:18:07,360 --> 01:18:09,360
Speaker 3: I'm just on the roof climbing. Then the porch light

1644
01:18:09,439 --> 01:18:11,920
Speaker 3: comes on. Jill's like, what the hell are you doing?

1645
01:18:12,439 --> 01:18:15,080
Speaker 3: What are you I'm gonna go up there and honey,

1646
01:18:15,400 --> 01:18:18,000
Speaker 3: I'm sick and tired of whatever's up there. The trap

1647
01:18:18,080 --> 01:18:20,479
Speaker 3: that we have on the roof is not working. It's

1648
01:18:20,600 --> 01:18:22,760
Speaker 3: not catching whatever this fucking thing is. I'm gonna go

1649
01:18:22,800 --> 01:18:25,960
Speaker 3: fucking kill it. This is the worst thing you could

1650
01:18:26,000 --> 01:18:27,360
Speaker 3: possibly be doing right now.

1651
01:18:27,880 --> 01:18:28,599
Speaker 2: What why?

1652
01:18:28,880 --> 01:18:30,000
Speaker 3: What is this gonna help?

1653
01:18:30,320 --> 01:18:33,000
Speaker 1: I had to hit earlier because you were laughing at me.

1654
01:18:34,479 --> 01:18:38,880
Speaker 1: Do me a favorite, Get back inside. I have a

1655
01:18:39,000 --> 01:18:42,599
Speaker 1: bloodluss that I can only be fed on varmit blood.

1656
01:18:42,840 --> 01:18:44,799
Speaker 1: I'm taking care of the problem, sweetheart.

1657
01:18:45,520 --> 01:18:47,519
Speaker 3: You said I'm a bad dad. What makes me a

1658
01:18:47,560 --> 01:18:49,920
Speaker 3: good dad? Take care of our problems? What's our problem?

1659
01:18:50,000 --> 01:18:53,080
Speaker 3: This fucking thing in our roof? And dude, I was like,

1660
01:18:53,240 --> 01:18:57,040
Speaker 3: in such a thought cycle of just kill get your

1661
01:18:57,120 --> 01:18:59,280
Speaker 3: head back inside oats side.

1662
01:19:00,080 --> 01:19:02,200
Speaker 1: Sure, just a neighbor like looking at the window, the

1663
01:19:02,280 --> 01:19:04,040
Speaker 1: porch slide on in the bag just like one day

1664
01:19:04,760 --> 01:19:04,920
Speaker 1: I do.

1665
01:19:05,080 --> 01:19:08,639
Speaker 3: I have a blue collar neighbor that works like kind

1666
01:19:08,640 --> 01:19:10,760
Speaker 3: of laid out in around like twelve when I was

1667
01:19:10,840 --> 01:19:13,800
Speaker 3: ripping the weeds out, his pickup truck slowly was coming

1668
01:19:13,840 --> 01:19:16,479
Speaker 3: into his driveway and he stopped in my yard one

1669
01:19:17,360 --> 01:19:18,560
Speaker 3: doing a Is that that?

1670
01:19:19,000 --> 01:19:19,280
Speaker 2: Okay?

1671
01:19:19,360 --> 01:19:21,599
Speaker 3: It is the neighbors, so like, no one's breaking into

1672
01:19:21,640 --> 01:19:23,559
Speaker 3: his house, but what the fuck is he? He does

1673
01:19:23,600 --> 01:19:23,960
Speaker 3: have a kid.

1674
01:19:24,040 --> 01:19:31,000
Speaker 1: I feel that he's just outside outside going crazy. Dude, dude,

1675
01:19:33,760 --> 01:19:35,439
Speaker 1: didn't kill the bat down.

1676
01:19:35,520 --> 01:19:36,200
Speaker 3: You got off the roof.

1677
01:19:36,280 --> 01:19:37,040
Speaker 2: I got off the roof.

1678
01:19:37,240 --> 01:19:39,560
Speaker 3: As we mentioned before, I sent you a picture of

1679
01:19:39,600 --> 01:19:42,080
Speaker 3: the baby raccoon that was in our trap. This morning

1680
01:19:42,400 --> 01:19:44,600
Speaker 3: found out the great news from the wildlife team that

1681
01:19:44,720 --> 01:19:47,840
Speaker 3: they had to release said baby raccoon back into our

1682
01:19:47,960 --> 01:19:50,400
Speaker 3: roof because really we wanted to catch the mama raccoon.

1683
01:19:50,920 --> 01:19:53,000
Speaker 3: So that problem's just still on going.

1684
01:19:53,120 --> 01:19:56,080
Speaker 2: So they're still there. Raccoons have made a home in

1685
01:19:56,160 --> 01:19:57,960
Speaker 2: your roof into that they couldn't let him out in

1686
01:19:57,960 --> 01:19:58,320
Speaker 2: the wild.

1687
01:19:58,760 --> 01:20:00,000
Speaker 3: No, had to be back in the room.

1688
01:20:00,200 --> 01:20:02,240
Speaker 2: It was too young because the.

1689
01:20:02,280 --> 01:20:04,640
Speaker 1: Mom of raccoon is in the roof and it was

1690
01:20:04,760 --> 01:20:06,880
Speaker 1: just a baby raccoon that they had called and they're like, oh,

1691
01:20:06,960 --> 01:20:08,479
Speaker 1: we can't do this. We need to get the mom out,

1692
01:20:08,800 --> 01:20:11,960
Speaker 1: so we gotta get the baby back with mama. Yeah,

1693
01:20:12,080 --> 01:20:13,200
Speaker 1: so they're both still in there.

1694
01:20:13,920 --> 01:20:17,519
Speaker 2: Oh yes, yeah. What's it called whenever you're living in

1695
01:20:17,560 --> 01:20:21,200
Speaker 2: an apartment and you're not paying, but you're like, you're

1696
01:20:21,240 --> 01:20:22,480
Speaker 2: living there illegally.

1697
01:20:23,920 --> 01:20:24,360
Speaker 3: Squatting?

1698
01:20:24,400 --> 01:20:26,839
Speaker 2: Squatting, yeah, squad.

1699
01:20:26,720 --> 01:20:29,160
Speaker 3: Yeah this. The raccoons are squatting at Shirrem's house right now.

1700
01:20:29,240 --> 01:20:31,759
Speaker 3: I just sent a picture to Chef of the baby raccoon.

1701
01:20:31,960 --> 01:20:35,320
Speaker 3: It's the cutest thing you'll ever see. I walk out

1702
01:20:35,360 --> 01:20:39,040
Speaker 3: this morning anything, I'm like, what the fuck is that?

1703
01:20:39,479 --> 01:20:41,600
Speaker 3: I didn't see it. I'm on the phone with the

1704
01:20:41,840 --> 01:20:43,160
Speaker 3: animal people, blah blah blah.

1705
01:20:43,439 --> 01:20:45,280
Speaker 1: So hang on, how are we getting the raccoons out?

1706
01:20:45,280 --> 01:20:47,840
Speaker 1: Because this is this is for Papa Team six. This

1707
01:20:48,000 --> 01:20:51,120
Speaker 1: is a classified document file that's going to now come

1708
01:20:51,160 --> 01:20:55,080
Speaker 1: across our desk that we have to extract the raccoon.

1709
01:20:56,360 --> 01:21:01,400
Speaker 3: Can I tell you my plan? Yeah, Carson with the

1710
01:21:01,479 --> 01:21:06,040
Speaker 3: Wildlife Team is awesome. However, Wildlife Team is expensive. I

1711
01:21:06,080 --> 01:21:08,080
Speaker 3: don't want to build up too much of an invoice

1712
01:21:08,160 --> 01:21:12,320
Speaker 3: to where when I then show said invoice to my

1713
01:21:12,479 --> 01:21:15,040
Speaker 3: landlord and say, hey, let's take this off next month's rain.

1714
01:21:15,120 --> 01:21:16,639
Speaker 3: I was taking care of this on the house. Blah

1715
01:21:16,680 --> 01:21:19,559
Speaker 3: blah blah that if it gets up to a certain number,

1716
01:21:19,560 --> 01:21:21,439
Speaker 3: I'm sure they're gonna be like, what the hell are

1717
01:21:21,479 --> 01:21:24,160
Speaker 3: you spending money on? Because the first service I paid

1718
01:21:24,200 --> 01:21:25,519
Speaker 3: for is like six hundred dollars.

1719
01:21:26,160 --> 01:21:27,320
Speaker 2: Jesus Christ, bro, I know.

1720
01:21:29,120 --> 01:21:32,479
Speaker 3: Here's the plan. Carson's gonna come on Monday. He's going

1721
01:21:32,520 --> 01:21:34,920
Speaker 3: to set up multiple traps. If we don't catch him

1722
01:21:34,960 --> 01:21:41,200
Speaker 3: by Wednesday with the multiple traps, then we are not

1723
01:21:41,479 --> 01:21:47,160
Speaker 3: going to move forward with said service. During these next

1724
01:21:47,240 --> 01:21:49,800
Speaker 3: couple of days, he said. It's imperative at night, and

1725
01:21:49,840 --> 01:21:52,000
Speaker 3: good thing I'm on the night shift to listen for

1726
01:21:52,160 --> 01:21:56,360
Speaker 3: noises because if I don't hear any noises tonight, I

1727
01:21:56,439 --> 01:21:59,920
Speaker 3: should go up on our roof during mid day because

1728
01:22:00,000 --> 01:22:02,160
Speaker 3: it's too hot for the raccoons up there. They will

1729
01:22:02,240 --> 01:22:06,400
Speaker 3: flee and go, you know, pillage and go get whatever

1730
01:22:06,439 --> 01:22:09,360
Speaker 3: food they need. During the day, I can go up

1731
01:22:09,760 --> 01:22:12,880
Speaker 3: and shut the enclosure, but you can't shut the enclosure

1732
01:22:12,920 --> 01:22:15,519
Speaker 3: when the raccoons are in there because they will die

1733
01:22:15,720 --> 01:22:17,640
Speaker 3: and then your house smells like dead animal. For like

1734
01:22:17,720 --> 01:22:18,240
Speaker 3: two months.

1735
01:22:20,240 --> 01:22:23,200
Speaker 1: I like this plan because the episode is releasing obviously

1736
01:22:23,320 --> 01:22:28,120
Speaker 1: today as people are listening on follow up on D Day. Yeah,

1737
01:22:28,479 --> 01:22:31,120
Speaker 1: that's so true. We can get a follow up on

1738
01:22:31,240 --> 01:22:31,759
Speaker 1: this mission.

1739
01:22:32,120 --> 01:22:37,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's you go ahead, you get an operation name.

1740
01:22:40,600 --> 01:22:46,360
Speaker 3: I like that, Operation trash Panda, Operation trash Panda.

1741
01:22:47,000 --> 01:22:47,439
Speaker 2: I like that.

1742
01:22:48,240 --> 01:22:52,120
Speaker 1: I was more of a going like Operation Raccoon of

1743
01:22:52,160 --> 01:22:52,679
Speaker 1: bin Laden.

1744
01:22:53,400 --> 01:22:53,599
Speaker 3: Oh.

1745
01:22:54,840 --> 01:22:55,360
Speaker 4: I like that.

1746
01:22:58,640 --> 01:23:04,800
Speaker 3: I I just want to say this, we gotta keep

1747
01:23:04,800 --> 01:23:06,840
Speaker 3: it under it now, we gotta keep it under an hour.

1748
01:23:07,160 --> 01:23:13,280
Speaker 3: I'm a I'm not fully a broken man. I am

1749
01:23:13,400 --> 01:23:19,120
Speaker 3: showing resilience from now on. The only takeaway, the only

1750
01:23:19,200 --> 01:23:21,080
Speaker 3: win was that I didn't.

1751
01:23:21,000 --> 01:23:24,120
Speaker 2: Argue back at Jill in that moment. That is the

1752
01:23:24,280 --> 01:23:28,080
Speaker 2: only takeaway. But if I could get.

1753
01:23:27,960 --> 01:23:32,400
Speaker 3: Your thoughts on how I handled the situation for what

1754
01:23:32,960 --> 01:23:38,439
Speaker 3: the whole thing? Like, what are my thoughts on that story? Yeah?

1755
01:23:39,360 --> 01:23:46,679
Speaker 1: I think, very bad move, very very bad move putting

1756
01:23:46,720 --> 01:23:49,280
Speaker 1: the headset on. Yeah, thinking after two and a half

1757
01:23:49,360 --> 01:23:53,680
Speaker 1: hours or two hours at Kroger again, to think the

1758
01:23:53,800 --> 01:23:55,880
Speaker 1: switch was just gonna happen and you're gonna throw on

1759
01:23:55,920 --> 01:23:56,400
Speaker 1: the headset.

1760
01:23:56,520 --> 01:23:59,320
Speaker 3: I know that was a very bad move. You should

1761
01:23:59,360 --> 01:24:01,439
Speaker 3: have done a couple of boys I'm running behind. I'm

1762
01:24:01,479 --> 01:24:06,200
Speaker 3: probably not going to get on tonight, you know what

1763
01:24:06,240 --> 01:24:06,519
Speaker 3: I mean?

1764
01:24:06,760 --> 01:24:10,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, Because like it's like you go home, you put

1765
01:24:10,720 --> 01:24:12,840
Speaker 1: the headset on when you're getting the mental lashing, and

1766
01:24:12,960 --> 01:24:16,200
Speaker 1: I've been there, trust me. Stuff stews in the boy's

1767
01:24:16,280 --> 01:24:20,360
Speaker 1: brain and I like lose composure with the wife, and

1768
01:24:20,960 --> 01:24:23,160
Speaker 1: in my brain, what happens is like when the lashings,

1769
01:24:23,160 --> 01:24:27,600
Speaker 1: we're going back and forth verbally, and then when she

1770
01:24:28,200 --> 01:24:32,040
Speaker 1: you know, if I were to hit the dog, I'm

1771
01:24:32,040 --> 01:24:33,680
Speaker 1: trying to think of how to say this, So, yeah,

1772
01:24:33,720 --> 01:24:35,400
Speaker 1: say the verbal ashes are going and I take it

1773
01:24:35,479 --> 01:24:38,479
Speaker 1: out on my dog. Yeah, when she goes upstairs and

1774
01:24:38,560 --> 01:24:41,680
Speaker 1: takes the baby. What goes on in my mind is

1775
01:24:41,760 --> 01:24:43,680
Speaker 1: more of like if I'm getting on the game, I'm

1776
01:24:43,720 --> 01:24:44,960
Speaker 1: getting on the game because I know I'm going to

1777
01:24:45,000 --> 01:24:48,360
Speaker 1: get another rise out of set situation, because I know

1778
01:24:48,400 --> 01:24:50,639
Speaker 1: it's honestly, it's a bad move to just get back

1779
01:24:50,880 --> 01:24:54,080
Speaker 1: to think like all right, they're all upstairs, I'm down

1780
01:24:54,120 --> 01:24:56,240
Speaker 1: here kind of cooling off thinking about what to do next.

1781
01:24:56,600 --> 01:24:57,639
Speaker 3: Your first thoughts.

1782
01:24:57,400 --> 01:24:59,880
Speaker 1: Should not be I'm gonna goon with the boys on

1783
01:25:00,040 --> 01:25:04,759
Speaker 1: pubg Yeah, should be calming down. It should be probably

1784
01:25:04,760 --> 01:25:10,519
Speaker 1: sending a sending a text to feel out where she's at, like, hey,

1785
01:25:11,880 --> 01:25:13,320
Speaker 1: hate how everything just went down.

1786
01:25:14,160 --> 01:25:16,439
Speaker 3: Would love the opportunity to come up and apologize and

1787
01:25:16,560 --> 01:25:19,679
Speaker 3: help take on and help get a get a second

1788
01:25:19,760 --> 01:25:21,839
Speaker 3: chance with Scotty, because I know you need your rest.

1789
01:25:23,760 --> 01:25:26,080
Speaker 1: And then there if you got Scotty not Scottie, I

1790
01:25:26,680 --> 01:25:30,280
Speaker 1: keep Scarlett to get Scarlett calm down, and then I

1791
01:25:30,320 --> 01:25:33,599
Speaker 1: can join the game if the moment still presents itself.

1792
01:25:34,800 --> 01:25:38,040
Speaker 1: But that would have been my suggestion, because I will

1793
01:25:38,080 --> 01:25:39,800
Speaker 1: be honest. When I was listening to you give every

1794
01:25:40,000 --> 01:25:43,080
Speaker 1: all the play by play on the headset, I'm thinking

1795
01:25:43,120 --> 01:25:48,680
Speaker 1: of myself, it's a bad move to be on.

1796
01:25:48,680 --> 01:25:49,280
Speaker 3: The game right now.

1797
01:25:49,360 --> 01:25:49,800
Speaker 2: Bad move.

1798
01:25:50,640 --> 01:25:52,960
Speaker 1: But I thought she was selfishly, I was happier on

1799
01:25:53,080 --> 01:25:54,920
Speaker 1: the game. You talk to me into getting on.

1800
01:25:56,120 --> 01:25:57,080
Speaker 3: I did so in my head.

1801
01:25:57,120 --> 01:25:58,960
Speaker 1: I'm like, sure wanted me to be on, and I

1802
01:25:59,280 --> 01:26:03,000
Speaker 1: told you, I told you I'm doing my back routine

1803
01:26:03,080 --> 01:26:05,519
Speaker 1: right now. If you could get on at nine o'clock,

1804
01:26:06,080 --> 01:26:08,880
Speaker 1: I'm on. Yeah, you're like nine fifteen nine thirty. I

1805
01:26:09,000 --> 01:26:10,400
Speaker 1: was like, no, no, no, because here's what you do.

1806
01:26:10,760 --> 01:26:13,280
Speaker 1: You'll say nine fifteen nine thirty. At least it's nine thirty.

1807
01:26:13,320 --> 01:26:15,000
Speaker 1: You'll probably be on at nine to fifty ten o'clock.

1808
01:26:15,320 --> 01:26:16,960
Speaker 1: You weren't even on nan and I remember being on

1809
01:26:17,000 --> 01:26:19,120
Speaker 1: the game like I knew I was right about sure,

1810
01:26:19,120 --> 01:26:20,640
Speaker 1: I'm not getting on here. So when you were on,

1811
01:26:20,920 --> 01:26:23,479
Speaker 1: you came in during a chicken dinner we won. We're

1812
01:26:23,479 --> 01:26:24,960
Speaker 1: excited for you to be on. But as you're telling

1813
01:26:24,960 --> 01:26:29,240
Speaker 1: the story, I'm like, this doesn't feel good. It felt

1814
01:26:29,400 --> 01:26:32,880
Speaker 1: like when you just spontaneously got off the game. It

1815
01:26:33,040 --> 01:26:35,920
Speaker 1: was reminded me of Jurassic Park, the opening scene when

1816
01:26:35,920 --> 01:26:38,200
Speaker 1: the velos Raptor takes Buddy.

1817
01:26:38,560 --> 01:26:41,200
Speaker 3: He's trapped in the cage with the Velociraptor. Yeah, shoot,

1818
01:26:42,479 --> 01:26:45,120
Speaker 3: and dude just like losing his grip like you were

1819
01:26:45,160 --> 01:26:45,599
Speaker 3: a goner.

1820
01:26:45,880 --> 01:26:48,479
Speaker 1: And when you got off, like I didn't even I

1821
01:26:48,560 --> 01:26:51,439
Speaker 1: didn't even have any questions about it because I'm like, yeah,

1822
01:26:51,640 --> 01:26:56,120
Speaker 1: I'm sure he's getting a validated lashing for being on

1823
01:26:56,200 --> 01:26:56,519
Speaker 1: the game.

1824
01:26:57,280 --> 01:27:00,960
Speaker 3: Got a text from jay Rod immediately after I think

1825
01:27:01,000 --> 01:27:03,240
Speaker 3: I talked. I might have said something like Adriie, would

1826
01:27:03,240 --> 01:27:04,480
Speaker 3: you feel comfortable.

1827
01:27:05,560 --> 01:27:06,000
Speaker 2: Reaching out?

1828
01:27:06,040 --> 01:27:08,719
Speaker 3: Told shirm, but that would be like you know, thinking

1829
01:27:08,840 --> 01:27:10,760
Speaker 3: listening back on all that, like that would be my

1830
01:27:11,840 --> 01:27:14,880
Speaker 3: advice to you yeah, like if wife, he knows you're

1831
01:27:14,880 --> 01:27:16,640
Speaker 3: gonna take thirty minutes, it happens to be two two

1832
01:27:16,680 --> 01:27:19,040
Speaker 3: and a half hours. You were about to take on

1833
01:27:19,280 --> 01:27:19,960
Speaker 3: night shift duty.

1834
01:27:20,000 --> 01:27:22,559
Speaker 2: Anyway, Yeah, I wonder where the fuck are you at?

1835
01:27:22,680 --> 01:27:26,960
Speaker 3: She sees you're giggling, goofing with j Rod with j Rod,

1836
01:27:27,400 --> 01:27:29,640
Speaker 3: I get that. I get that on her part. I

1837
01:27:29,680 --> 01:27:30,760
Speaker 3: get where she's coming from.

1838
01:27:33,040 --> 01:27:36,200
Speaker 1: And you know, don't condone in hitting your animal. But

1839
01:27:36,280 --> 01:27:37,960
Speaker 1: that was like the move in the setting.

1840
01:27:38,120 --> 01:27:38,280
Speaker 4: Yeah.

1841
01:27:38,360 --> 01:27:40,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, sometimes I look at Waffle like that's a sturdy

1842
01:27:41,040 --> 01:27:42,120
Speaker 1: bulldogs are sturdy.

1843
01:27:42,200 --> 01:27:45,439
Speaker 2: Now, yeah, Docsin's a little different. Yeah.

1844
01:27:46,520 --> 01:27:50,320
Speaker 3: Usually it's usually it's one popping on the button. You know,

1845
01:27:50,840 --> 01:27:54,240
Speaker 3: he's sorry, he starts minding. Yeah, and the pops are

1846
01:27:54,880 --> 01:27:58,479
Speaker 3: very rare. As I tell this song, I like, yeah,

1847
01:27:58,720 --> 01:28:00,439
Speaker 3: I sound like I'm blind with rage.

1848
01:28:01,600 --> 01:28:05,080
Speaker 1: You get that way, like again right wrong and different

1849
01:28:05,160 --> 01:28:08,040
Speaker 1: like that enraging blackout. That's what for the dads is

1850
01:28:08,120 --> 01:28:12,080
Speaker 1: for It's to not shy away, dude, we're fucking human beings.

1851
01:28:12,560 --> 01:28:14,759
Speaker 1: Rage fills our soul at times.

1852
01:28:15,200 --> 01:28:15,400
Speaker 3: Dude.

1853
01:28:15,400 --> 01:28:19,160
Speaker 1: I'll get in standoff with Waffle and it's it's fucking

1854
01:28:19,400 --> 01:28:23,560
Speaker 1: and I will I'll stand over her like this like

1855
01:28:23,640 --> 01:28:25,599
Speaker 1: to we all popper and like, you know, she'll try

1856
01:28:25,640 --> 01:28:27,000
Speaker 1: to get to me, but she's a bulldog, so she

1857
01:28:27,080 --> 01:28:28,960
Speaker 1: can't like reach your butt area where all like drag

1858
01:28:29,080 --> 01:28:31,400
Speaker 1: her or something, and she'll just like you know, she'll

1859
01:28:31,439 --> 01:28:34,120
Speaker 1: want to get like, oh, we're in it, and I'm

1860
01:28:34,240 --> 01:28:37,640
Speaker 1: like back to her peacocking up, like okay, yeah, you

1861
01:28:37,720 --> 01:28:39,320
Speaker 1: want to fight, you want to you want to stab

1862
01:28:39,360 --> 01:28:40,720
Speaker 1: at me, go ahead and try.

1863
01:28:41,479 --> 01:28:42,439
Speaker 2: And all that happens.

1864
01:28:42,600 --> 01:28:46,760
Speaker 3: I'll like I like stand over and just stand like

1865
01:28:46,880 --> 01:28:50,320
Speaker 3: this until she's like, you know, looking up me kind

1866
01:28:50,320 --> 01:28:52,720
Speaker 3: of like growling, and then she'll kind of like turn

1867
01:28:52,760 --> 01:28:57,080
Speaker 3: her walk away and I'll follow her. I'll follow her

1868
01:28:57,560 --> 01:28:59,479
Speaker 3: to the room. Or if she's like against the wall,

1869
01:29:00,280 --> 01:29:02,720
Speaker 3: stand over, fist.

1870
01:29:02,680 --> 01:29:09,120
Speaker 1: Clinch, you're in my house, waffle Yeah, don't you forget that? Yeah, which,

1871
01:29:09,520 --> 01:29:11,519
Speaker 1: which she's barking and I'm trying to get it in

1872
01:29:11,640 --> 01:29:13,280
Speaker 1: the room. It's like I will sit there and I'll

1873
01:29:13,400 --> 01:29:16,080
Speaker 1: dog walker like walker all the way to the room.

1874
01:29:16,360 --> 01:29:19,320
Speaker 3: And I've done the Caesar Milan mead where the you

1875
01:29:19,520 --> 01:29:22,960
Speaker 3: do the little that or the uh it's not a

1876
01:29:23,040 --> 01:29:25,120
Speaker 3: full pinch, but you let them know that you're on

1877
01:29:25,520 --> 01:29:29,160
Speaker 3: their neck. Yep. And you slowly push down and you

1878
01:29:29,400 --> 01:29:32,400
Speaker 3: just pretty much like you were describing, stand over them. Yeah,

1879
01:29:32,600 --> 01:29:35,200
Speaker 3: which is what I usually do with Wrigley because he's

1880
01:29:35,240 --> 01:29:36,080
Speaker 3: our alpha, and.

1881
01:29:36,160 --> 01:29:38,160
Speaker 1: You go a little harder because just there's so much

1882
01:29:38,320 --> 01:29:39,360
Speaker 1: rage filling your soul.

1883
01:29:39,479 --> 01:29:42,120
Speaker 3: Oh I bite my lip, I bite my lip. But

1884
01:29:42,280 --> 01:29:45,720
Speaker 3: that night I skipped all those steps and went and

1885
01:29:46,040 --> 01:29:49,160
Speaker 3: or usually I'll do one of these, I'll go to

1886
01:29:49,280 --> 01:29:51,479
Speaker 3: let them know, yeah, hey, that act could do that.

1887
01:29:52,000 --> 01:29:54,080
Speaker 3: Don't forget who the alpha is, and that will usually

1888
01:29:54,160 --> 01:29:58,360
Speaker 3: get them to be like, okay, yeah, I'm sorry, it happens.

1889
01:29:58,400 --> 01:30:01,439
Speaker 2: Man, dude, the text would been great. That's great advice.

1890
01:30:01,760 --> 01:30:02,680
Speaker 2: I will say this.

1891
01:30:02,880 --> 01:30:05,320
Speaker 3: The only thing that did come across my mind that

1892
01:30:05,520 --> 01:30:11,040
Speaker 3: was saying was uh, thinking back to your New York situation.

1893
01:30:11,680 --> 01:30:13,760
Speaker 2: And just being like, don't.

1894
01:30:15,479 --> 01:30:19,080
Speaker 3: Don't say anything that I will regret later. Yeah, because

1895
01:30:19,120 --> 01:30:21,840
Speaker 3: New York again, my body was filled with rage.

1896
01:30:21,960 --> 01:30:23,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, the darkest part of my soul to where you're

1897
01:30:23,880 --> 01:30:26,680
Speaker 1: like saying things verbally back and forth to where we're

1898
01:30:26,720 --> 01:30:28,920
Speaker 1: not getting nowhere, and I would just stay quiet, Oh

1899
01:30:29,000 --> 01:30:30,400
Speaker 1: you want to go to beding, I gotta go to

1900
01:30:30,479 --> 01:30:30,960
Speaker 1: bed angry.

1901
01:30:31,120 --> 01:30:35,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, so I bit the tongue there. How long we

1902
01:30:35,320 --> 01:30:39,120
Speaker 2: been going, Jeff, We're about thirty minutes, so, buddy, in

1903
01:30:39,320 --> 01:30:41,920
Speaker 2: terms of we go, yeah.

1904
01:30:42,160 --> 01:30:42,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, we got it.

1905
01:30:42,880 --> 01:30:45,920
Speaker 1: We gotta get into uh crack a cold one, crack

1906
01:30:46,000 --> 01:30:49,759
Speaker 1: a cold one. My crack a cold one. This week, buddy,

1907
01:30:50,160 --> 01:30:57,639
Speaker 1: it's I crack a cold one. To loving the videos

1908
01:30:57,720 --> 01:31:00,639
Speaker 1: and photos that you get sent when you or not home.

1909
01:31:02,680 --> 01:31:05,080
Speaker 1: The joy that fills my heart when I'm on the

1910
01:31:05,200 --> 01:31:08,519
Speaker 1: road or on the plane or at the shop. I

1911
01:31:08,600 --> 01:31:11,040
Speaker 1: got one today that, oh God, I want to show you,

1912
01:31:12,160 --> 01:31:14,680
Speaker 1: and it's just your little it's your little one, bro,

1913
01:31:14,720 --> 01:31:18,120
Speaker 1: it's your little nugget, your little booger, and they're like

1914
01:31:18,320 --> 01:31:21,240
Speaker 1: smiling or it's a video of them having fun.

1915
01:31:21,200 --> 01:31:22,000
Speaker 3: Or whatever it is.

1916
01:31:22,200 --> 01:31:26,920
Speaker 1: Dude, it fills your heart with so much joy, and

1917
01:31:27,040 --> 01:31:30,599
Speaker 1: I love it. Like anytime I'm around somebody and Chorro

1918
01:31:30,800 --> 01:31:32,960
Speaker 1: or Nanny like shoots me a photo or a video

1919
01:31:33,600 --> 01:31:35,320
Speaker 1: when I'm out of the house, like I'm just I'm

1920
01:31:35,400 --> 01:31:37,759
Speaker 1: over in a corner smiling. It's almost like you gotta

1921
01:31:37,800 --> 01:31:40,960
Speaker 1: step away just enjoy because it's like you're not trying

1922
01:31:41,000 --> 01:31:42,560
Speaker 1: to be the dead that shows everybody, but then you

1923
01:31:42,640 --> 01:31:45,040
Speaker 1: become the dead that shows everybody. Because you're so excited

1924
01:31:45,080 --> 01:31:47,000
Speaker 1: and you love it so much, like, hey, check this out.

1925
01:31:47,200 --> 01:31:49,920
Speaker 1: I went up to Jared earlier today because I got

1926
01:31:49,960 --> 01:31:57,080
Speaker 1: a video of Augy or Nanny just sending a video

1927
01:32:08,479 --> 01:32:12,960
Speaker 1: of little Rude just reading to Scotty. Scotty's sitting up now,

1928
01:32:13,120 --> 01:32:16,960
Speaker 1: she's army, crawling everywhere, but Rude just reading to Scottie.

1929
01:32:18,280 --> 01:32:20,760
Speaker 3: Send that to Chef because that we got to play

1930
01:32:20,840 --> 01:32:22,720
Speaker 3: that as you just showed me that. I send it

1931
01:32:22,840 --> 01:32:27,360
Speaker 3: right now for the viewers because that was crazy cute, buddy.

1932
01:32:27,400 --> 01:32:29,800
Speaker 1: It just it warms my and I'm sitting there like Jared,

1933
01:32:29,880 --> 01:32:31,920
Speaker 1: he just got dogs. He don't know what this Papa

1934
01:32:32,000 --> 01:32:32,840
Speaker 1: Team six life is.

1935
01:32:32,960 --> 01:32:35,840
Speaker 3: Like. He smiled and loved it.

1936
01:32:35,920 --> 01:32:37,160
Speaker 1: But you know what I mean, Like it's almost like

1937
01:32:37,200 --> 01:32:39,200
Speaker 1: if a dad's showing you something, you're smiling and being like,

1938
01:32:39,240 --> 01:32:39,799
Speaker 1: that's awesome.

1939
01:32:39,840 --> 01:32:41,639
Speaker 3: I don't know if he's like thinking that's really awesome.

1940
01:32:42,200 --> 01:32:44,400
Speaker 3: D you kind of just can't help yourself.

1941
01:32:44,400 --> 01:32:46,320
Speaker 1: But that's my crack of cold one is getting those

1942
01:32:46,400 --> 01:32:49,000
Speaker 1: videos and photos when you're out of.

1943
01:32:49,000 --> 01:32:51,640
Speaker 3: The house, because it's just you get it.

1944
01:32:52,280 --> 01:32:54,120
Speaker 1: You get when the dad's back in the day and

1945
01:32:54,200 --> 01:32:56,960
Speaker 1: you were little, they're showing you photos in their wallet.

1946
01:32:58,960 --> 01:33:01,639
Speaker 3: I love it. I love the stories of your dad

1947
01:33:01,920 --> 01:33:04,479
Speaker 3: playing the wrestling videos whenever his friends would come over,

1948
01:33:04,640 --> 01:33:06,320
Speaker 3: of you and your brothers.

1949
01:33:06,120 --> 01:33:07,400
Speaker 2: Oh like the same thing.

1950
01:33:07,720 --> 01:33:10,720
Speaker 1: Yeah he will and Cody, there's wrestling terminal, but we

1951
01:33:10,720 --> 01:33:11,519
Speaker 1: didn't want to come watch.

1952
01:33:11,600 --> 01:33:11,920
Speaker 3: My friend.

1953
01:33:11,960 --> 01:33:13,439
Speaker 1: We can't even get back to my room to play

1954
01:33:13,479 --> 01:33:16,519
Speaker 1: video games. I'm like, Dad, come on, dude, my buddy's

1955
01:33:16,600 --> 01:33:18,799
Speaker 1: trapped on the couch with my old man just watching

1956
01:33:19,560 --> 01:33:25,160
Speaker 1: a VHS recordings camera recordings. Yeah, you know, sitting Matt's side,

1957
01:33:25,320 --> 01:33:26,920
Speaker 1: just showing a wrestling matches.

1958
01:33:28,200 --> 01:33:30,439
Speaker 3: It's like the Jamis Winston story that I'm sure your

1959
01:33:30,479 --> 01:33:33,880
Speaker 3: dad's camera work is just horrendous. Like at the time, Yeah,

1960
01:33:33,960 --> 01:33:35,880
Speaker 3: my mom would be on the camera, my dad there,

1961
01:33:35,920 --> 01:33:39,200
Speaker 3: you get involved, like coaching wise, Oh my god, you're

1962
01:33:39,280 --> 01:33:41,960
Speaker 3: just stuck with the old man watching full tournaments of

1963
01:33:42,040 --> 01:33:46,439
Speaker 3: wrestling over the weekend. I cannot wait.

1964
01:33:46,479 --> 01:33:48,320
Speaker 1: Tell you what he looks. Take your shirt off, give

1965
01:33:48,360 --> 01:33:51,120
Speaker 1: him the most mustage, dude. My dad would be in

1966
01:33:51,160 --> 01:33:52,920
Speaker 1: front of his buddies. They'd be at the house in

1967
01:33:53,040 --> 01:33:54,880
Speaker 1: the garage, and I come out and like say something.

1968
01:33:54,960 --> 01:33:59,320
Speaker 1: They might be talking about either me playing sports or something. Yeah, yeah,

1969
01:33:59,760 --> 01:34:04,840
Speaker 1: and uh my dad would start talking, like start talking

1970
01:34:04,880 --> 01:34:07,360
Speaker 1: about my physique. It's like, well, pop off your shirt

1971
01:34:07,400 --> 01:34:10,479
Speaker 1: showing your most muscular, my dad, come on, take off

1972
01:34:10,520 --> 01:34:12,559
Speaker 1: your shirt showing the most muscular. And I'm like sitting there,

1973
01:34:12,720 --> 01:34:16,200
Speaker 1: like take off, like take from my shirt in front

1974
01:34:16,200 --> 01:34:17,920
Speaker 1: of my dad and his boys, and I'm just like,

1975
01:34:23,800 --> 01:34:29,120
Speaker 1: what are the the print saying yeah, Billy, you're right,

1976
01:34:29,280 --> 01:34:32,360
Speaker 1: you got my kid, Billy, all right, you can go

1977
01:34:32,439 --> 01:34:36,960
Speaker 1: back in the house like all right, oh my god,

1978
01:34:37,160 --> 01:34:38,559
Speaker 1: dude showing me you're back.

1979
01:34:38,720 --> 01:34:45,080
Speaker 3: And how old are you? Like jo Bro, Yeah, like

1980
01:34:45,240 --> 01:34:50,400
Speaker 3: eight nine, ten, God to be a fly on the one.

1981
01:34:50,400 --> 01:34:52,559
Speaker 1: And honestly, that flex is almost like a callback because

1982
01:34:52,560 --> 01:34:54,519
Speaker 1: there's so many of those old photos that would like

1983
01:34:54,960 --> 01:34:57,200
Speaker 1: my dad would like hang in his gym or like

1984
01:34:57,280 --> 01:34:58,960
Speaker 1: hanging around to where it's like me and Cody doing

1985
01:34:59,040 --> 01:34:59,879
Speaker 1: like the most muscular.

1986
01:35:01,120 --> 01:35:03,920
Speaker 3: You did it in that wrestling video that you posted.

1987
01:35:04,080 --> 01:35:05,840
Speaker 3: That's like my favorite part of that video is when

1988
01:35:05,840 --> 01:35:08,719
Speaker 3: you're standing before the match and your.

1989
01:35:11,479 --> 01:35:13,519
Speaker 1: We might have to have chef just run that clip

1990
01:35:14,680 --> 01:35:18,559
Speaker 1: for you right now watching just oh Willie see doing

1991
01:35:18,640 --> 01:35:27,639
Speaker 1: the fake cut driving the head. My dad's probably geek

1992
01:35:27,720 --> 01:35:28,720
Speaker 1: and watching this right now.

1993
01:35:28,960 --> 01:35:33,360
Speaker 3: Yeah, I selfishly, I cannot wait till Scarlett's like moving

1994
01:35:33,439 --> 01:35:35,439
Speaker 3: and operating and all I found myself doing.

1995
01:35:35,360 --> 01:35:37,880
Speaker 1: With room like sweeter, look at her calves like we

1996
01:35:38,000 --> 01:35:40,560
Speaker 1: might have a little athlete on her hands and her shoulders.

1997
01:35:40,920 --> 01:35:43,439
Speaker 3: Yes, that goes to my crack of cole one. The

1998
01:35:43,720 --> 01:35:48,439
Speaker 3: pediatrician appointment that we had, she did say for her size.

1999
01:35:48,960 --> 01:35:51,040
Speaker 3: She was like, I'm not just saying this. She is

2000
01:35:51,520 --> 01:35:56,400
Speaker 3: speisty as hell, like she is strong, and I'm like, okay, sir,

2001
01:35:56,560 --> 01:35:59,560
Speaker 3: And she's talking about the legs. I dabbled with a

2002
01:35:59,600 --> 01:36:01,680
Speaker 3: little bit soccer and track back in the day, and

2003
01:36:02,280 --> 01:36:04,720
Speaker 3: Jill actually has some track stars on her side of

2004
01:36:04,760 --> 01:36:09,000
Speaker 3: the family, like legitimate, like college level. I was not,

2005
01:36:10,479 --> 01:36:12,240
Speaker 3: but I had a little bit of speed. So hearing that,

2006
01:36:12,400 --> 01:36:13,360
Speaker 3: I'm like, ooh.

2007
01:36:13,600 --> 01:36:14,720
Speaker 2: Ooh, we like that.

2008
01:36:15,000 --> 01:36:15,240
Speaker 3: You don't.

2009
01:36:15,280 --> 01:36:17,160
Speaker 1: You just need another person to say, and then it

2010
01:36:17,240 --> 01:36:19,519
Speaker 1: kind of validates, like maybe yes.

2011
01:36:19,760 --> 01:36:21,880
Speaker 3: And she turned on her side, which she does all

2012
01:36:21,960 --> 01:36:24,800
Speaker 3: the time at the house. She turns on her side

2013
01:36:24,920 --> 01:36:28,439
Speaker 3: on the table, and everybody in the room was like, oh,

2014
01:36:28,520 --> 01:36:31,479
Speaker 3: she's turned on her side already. Oh my gosh. I don't.

2015
01:36:31,520 --> 01:36:33,160
Speaker 3: I don't know any different because I just know my

2016
01:36:33,600 --> 01:36:37,120
Speaker 3: warrior that's what they're saying. And she not only turned

2017
01:36:37,120 --> 01:36:39,120
Speaker 3: on her side right as they're like bragging about it,

2018
01:36:39,200 --> 01:36:41,960
Speaker 3: she then goes like up here and she's like looking

2019
01:36:42,080 --> 01:36:44,600
Speaker 3: with her eyes around the room and turned on the

2020
01:36:44,680 --> 01:36:48,840
Speaker 3: other side. And they were like, yo, that's crazy, Like

2021
01:36:48,960 --> 01:36:51,599
Speaker 3: that's crazy. Just as you're changing or just start working

2022
01:36:51,640 --> 01:36:55,040
Speaker 3: her legs, okay, so working some stretches, I'm like, I

2023
01:36:55,080 --> 01:36:57,519
Speaker 3: got a little striker. I got a little forward here, buddy,

2024
01:36:57,960 --> 01:37:00,200
Speaker 3: She's gonna be on the women's team. Come on. As

2025
01:37:00,240 --> 01:37:02,639
Speaker 3: she continues to develop that so like it gets exciting,

2026
01:37:02,840 --> 01:37:04,920
Speaker 3: I'm gonna put a soccer ball at her feet so

2027
01:37:05,240 --> 01:37:08,000
Speaker 3: fricking fast, dude, so fast. Yeah, and you just kind

2028
01:37:08,040 --> 01:37:09,800
Speaker 3: of put hey, you won't play the soccer one that okay,

2029
01:37:09,800 --> 01:37:11,040
Speaker 3: all right, you don't want to play yet, and you're

2030
01:37:11,080 --> 01:37:11,599
Speaker 3: just itching.

2031
01:37:11,720 --> 01:37:14,120
Speaker 1: You see what kind of ability they might have. So

2032
01:37:14,200 --> 01:37:16,200
Speaker 1: you know, she's spinning pretty well out there.

2033
01:37:16,360 --> 01:37:18,680
Speaker 3: That just put a gold in the backyard. What's that thing?

2034
01:37:18,720 --> 01:37:19,400
Speaker 3: What do you do with that?

2035
01:37:19,760 --> 01:37:21,960
Speaker 1: Put on the little blocks, like if you go to gymnastics,

2036
01:37:22,040 --> 01:37:24,559
Speaker 1: like putting out the little blocks and they're like balancing

2037
01:37:24,640 --> 01:37:26,040
Speaker 1: on each one or sep across each one.

2038
01:37:26,439 --> 01:37:27,960
Speaker 3: She's doing it a little bit better than the other.

2039
01:37:28,040 --> 01:37:28,880
Speaker 2: One's pretty good.

2040
01:37:29,880 --> 01:37:33,240
Speaker 3: I cannot wait is dou And then the crack that

2041
01:37:33,360 --> 01:37:35,240
Speaker 3: was basically my cracker col One, but just wanted to

2042
01:37:35,280 --> 01:37:38,960
Speaker 3: highlight it was so sick. Scarlet's tiny. She came out

2043
01:37:39,000 --> 01:37:41,679
Speaker 3: five pounds six ounces. Yeah, but she's two weeks old.

2044
01:37:42,120 --> 01:37:44,479
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, but just like tiny in general. I mean

2045
01:37:44,520 --> 01:37:48,000
Speaker 3: they were like, she is tiny. We go to the

2046
01:37:48,040 --> 01:37:52,280
Speaker 3: first appointment, she was five pounds one ounce and they're like, hey,

2047
01:37:52,439 --> 01:37:54,920
Speaker 3: normal for baby to lose weight in that first week.

2048
01:37:55,760 --> 01:37:59,320
Speaker 3: We want her back to five pounds six ounces at least.

2049
01:37:59,640 --> 01:38:05,320
Speaker 3: For an appointment, she clocked in at five pounds thirteen ounces,

2050
01:38:06,120 --> 01:38:09,880
Speaker 3: eight percent increase. And it's because Jill has just been

2051
01:38:09,960 --> 01:38:14,360
Speaker 3: a superhero on feedings every three hours on the clock,

2052
01:38:14,520 --> 01:38:17,200
Speaker 3: making sure she's getting milk, making sure And it's so

2053
01:38:17,360 --> 01:38:19,280
Speaker 3: cool in that moment to like see Jill to be

2054
01:38:19,360 --> 01:38:22,880
Speaker 3: able to like reap the rewards of that, and like, yes,

2055
01:38:23,040 --> 01:38:25,560
Speaker 3: I'm hard on Sherman and I want him to be

2056
01:38:25,640 --> 01:38:28,320
Speaker 3: attentive at night, but like these are the reasons why

2057
01:38:28,439 --> 01:38:32,720
Speaker 3: so that Scarlett is developing well, And like our pediatrician,

2058
01:38:32,880 --> 01:38:36,519
Speaker 3: doctor Stiegelfest is sitting there and going like a plus marks. Yeah,

2059
01:38:36,760 --> 01:38:41,200
Speaker 3: she's growing. She's great, huge win, huge win. Milk Team

2060
01:38:41,240 --> 01:38:44,120
Speaker 3: six is doing their job. Yeah, as they always do,

2061
01:38:44,400 --> 01:38:51,000
Speaker 3: as they always do. Survival kit, my survival kit. Once

2062
01:38:51,080 --> 01:38:55,000
Speaker 3: upon a Farm, Once upon a farm, snacks. We got

2063
01:38:55,000 --> 01:38:58,519
Speaker 3: a little food. They got pouches, Once upon a farm.

2064
01:38:58,840 --> 01:39:01,120
Speaker 3: Look them up, get them in your life. Let's see here,

2065
01:39:01,200 --> 01:39:03,519
Speaker 3: let's let's just go the dude.

2066
01:39:03,560 --> 01:39:07,040
Speaker 2: It's got a what's her name is it Jennifer Gardner?

2067
01:39:07,720 --> 01:39:07,960
Speaker 3: Really?

2068
01:39:09,600 --> 01:39:10,360
Speaker 2: Is that what I'm thinking of?

2069
01:39:12,640 --> 01:39:18,920
Speaker 1: Yes, she plays Electra, Yes, yes, yes, so she's part

2070
01:39:18,960 --> 01:39:22,200
Speaker 1: of it. They have an awesome team. Their website goes crazy,

2071
01:39:22,840 --> 01:39:25,679
Speaker 1: but all clean ingredients. It's like organic. They go beyond

2072
01:39:25,680 --> 01:39:29,479
Speaker 1: the organic standard, upholding the highest standard. Let me see here,

2073
01:39:29,600 --> 01:39:30,160
Speaker 1: let me see.

2074
01:39:31,720 --> 01:39:34,639
Speaker 2: Is crazy, like crazy in a good way.

2075
01:39:34,840 --> 01:39:40,559
Speaker 1: The leader in transparency for babies to big kids. Yeah,

2076
01:39:41,520 --> 01:39:44,120
Speaker 1: once upon a farm, though, that's what Scott. He's been

2077
01:39:44,320 --> 01:39:48,120
Speaker 1: crushing Once upon a Farm puffs. She just been hitting

2078
01:39:48,200 --> 01:39:54,920
Speaker 1: the I guess I'll say that for a survival kit later, yeah,

2079
01:39:54,960 --> 01:39:58,760
Speaker 1: next week or something. But she's been crushing food. Bro

2080
01:39:59,640 --> 01:40:01,680
Speaker 1: a little blueberries and you squash them and put them

2081
01:40:01,720 --> 01:40:03,960
Speaker 1: in front of her like she's operating with their hands.

2082
01:40:04,120 --> 01:40:06,840
Speaker 1: Scotty is Scott, he's operating, and rou was a bit

2083
01:40:06,960 --> 01:40:10,360
Speaker 1: more of a picky eater. Is that No, neither of them.

2084
01:40:10,520 --> 01:40:12,599
Speaker 1: Ru wasn't picky when she was like a baby. She's

2085
01:40:12,680 --> 01:40:16,200
Speaker 1: picky now they like get picky. Yeah, yeah, but she's

2086
01:40:16,240 --> 01:40:18,920
Speaker 1: been operating with these puffs, dude, she loves them. This

2087
01:40:19,160 --> 01:40:19,920
Speaker 1: once upon a farm.

2088
01:40:20,080 --> 01:40:20,720
Speaker 3: This looks sick.

2089
01:40:21,400 --> 01:40:21,960
Speaker 2: This looks sick.

2090
01:40:22,040 --> 01:40:24,280
Speaker 3: It's like in a little pouch for people that are listening.

2091
01:40:24,520 --> 01:40:25,800
Speaker 3: That looks squeezable.

2092
01:40:26,080 --> 01:40:29,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, the squeezable pouches. They got puffs and containers. They

2093
01:40:29,439 --> 01:40:32,160
Speaker 1: got little bars. That's survival.

2094
01:40:32,600 --> 01:40:34,479
Speaker 3: That's awesome. How about for you got to keep it

2095
01:40:34,560 --> 01:40:35,439
Speaker 3: under now, got to keep.

2096
01:40:35,320 --> 01:40:35,800
Speaker 2: It under an hour?

2097
01:40:36,080 --> 01:40:39,479
Speaker 3: Uh? Mine is very broad, but mine is a good

2098
01:40:39,640 --> 01:40:41,519
Speaker 3: diaper bag. It came in clutch when we went to

2099
01:40:41,560 --> 01:40:46,120
Speaker 3: the pediatrician the other day. Uh thing diturdy, A sturdy

2100
01:40:46,240 --> 01:40:49,240
Speaker 3: diaper bag and one that can load up everything that

2101
01:40:49,400 --> 01:40:54,000
Speaker 3: you would ever need, wipes, diapers, creams, lotions, blanket, maybe

2102
01:40:54,080 --> 01:40:55,559
Speaker 3: an extra set of clothes in there.

2103
01:40:55,840 --> 01:40:58,640
Speaker 2: Do you got the uh the little roll up at

2104
01:40:58,680 --> 01:40:59,439
Speaker 2: the bottom of the bag.

2105
01:40:59,600 --> 01:41:03,120
Speaker 1: Got the roll up for the blowout on the go,

2106
01:41:03,640 --> 01:41:05,760
Speaker 1: blowout on the go I'm telling you, in the back

2107
01:41:05,840 --> 01:41:07,479
Speaker 1: of the chevy where I have to drop the I've

2108
01:41:07,560 --> 01:41:09,720
Speaker 1: dropped the tailgate, laid out that little mat that they

2109
01:41:09,760 --> 01:41:10,519
Speaker 1: got in the backpacks.

2110
01:41:10,640 --> 01:41:12,880
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, and I've yet to use it, but I've

2111
01:41:12,920 --> 01:41:14,720
Speaker 3: seen your posts on it, and I'm like, I know

2112
01:41:14,920 --> 01:41:16,400
Speaker 3: one day I'm gonna be using you.

2113
01:41:16,760 --> 01:41:18,040
Speaker 2: It's staring back at yeah.

2114
01:41:19,560 --> 01:41:21,680
Speaker 3: And then what Jill went the extra step and she

2115
01:41:21,800 --> 01:41:25,960
Speaker 3: had the individual bags inside the diaper bag are labeled

2116
01:41:26,160 --> 01:41:29,559
Speaker 3: on the bag. So one bag says wipes, other bags

2117
01:41:29,560 --> 01:41:33,320
Speaker 3: says diapers, another bag says you know whatever it's got

2118
01:41:33,400 --> 01:41:36,320
Speaker 3: in there. That's the ultimate dad hack of all time.

2119
01:41:36,720 --> 01:41:40,160
Speaker 3: I'm operating in that diaper bag like I'm mama Bear. Yeah.

2120
01:41:41,560 --> 01:41:41,840
Speaker 3: Love that.

2121
01:41:42,120 --> 01:41:45,599
Speaker 2: So that's yeah, that's my dad hack slash survival kid.

2122
01:41:46,280 --> 01:41:52,280
Speaker 1: My dad hack is how to get how to get

2123
01:41:52,320 --> 01:41:55,960
Speaker 1: your kids to eat vegetables. I came across the little

2124
01:41:56,200 --> 01:41:58,000
Speaker 1: dad hack a little w last night.

2125
01:41:58,080 --> 01:42:01,639
Speaker 3: Okay, and we're trying to get Rudy broccoli.

2126
01:42:02,080 --> 01:42:04,479
Speaker 1: She'll eat her main portions, she'll lead her fruit, ye,

2127
01:42:04,800 --> 01:42:07,280
Speaker 1: but getting her to get the veggies down has always

2128
01:42:07,280 --> 01:42:09,519
Speaker 1: been a pain point for us. But what I did

2129
01:42:10,360 --> 01:42:12,400
Speaker 1: last night is I'm sitting there trying to talk to

2130
01:42:12,439 --> 01:42:14,160
Speaker 1: her about broccol I'm like, sweetheart, you gotta eat all

2131
01:42:14,160 --> 01:42:16,519
Speaker 1: the different colors. Like green is like the most important

2132
01:42:16,560 --> 01:42:21,000
Speaker 1: color to eat. Green affects your you know, like your brain,

2133
01:42:21,560 --> 01:42:25,479
Speaker 1: your heart, your muscles, your hair. She's like your feet,

2134
01:42:25,800 --> 01:42:29,120
Speaker 1: like your feet too, your feet too, and everybody you

2135
01:42:29,280 --> 01:42:32,000
Speaker 1: take fills one of those checks off a box or

2136
01:42:32,040 --> 01:42:34,080
Speaker 1: one of that. Can we get you to eat if

2137
01:42:34,120 --> 01:42:36,880
Speaker 1: you eat five pieces of broccoli, We'll do one for

2138
01:42:37,000 --> 01:42:39,759
Speaker 1: your hair, one for your eyes, one for your brain,

2139
01:42:39,920 --> 01:42:41,439
Speaker 1: one for your heart, and one for your feet.

2140
01:42:41,640 --> 01:42:46,160
Speaker 3: Ooh she took them down. No way, yeah man.

2141
01:42:47,800 --> 01:42:48,000
Speaker 2: Yeah.

2142
01:42:48,200 --> 01:42:50,479
Speaker 1: And the next night, that was two nights ago. The

2143
01:42:50,560 --> 01:42:54,040
Speaker 1: next night she had broccoli again and she didn't want

2144
01:42:54,040 --> 01:42:55,519
Speaker 1: to eat it. She was in the pantry kind of

2145
01:42:55,520 --> 01:42:57,280
Speaker 1: be like, no, I want this snack, I want this.

2146
01:42:57,439 --> 01:42:59,560
Speaker 1: And I'm like, oh, she wanted her vitamins, because the

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01:42:59,640 --> 01:43:01,200
Speaker 1: vitamins it's like gummies or whatnot.

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01:43:01,240 --> 01:43:02,360
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, like a little treat.

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01:43:03,520 --> 01:43:06,200
Speaker 1: You can't have your vitamins until you eat your broccoli.

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01:43:06,520 --> 01:43:08,120
Speaker 1: And then you know, she's kind of going through it,

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01:43:08,120 --> 01:43:09,799
Speaker 1: and I had to remind her. I'm like, hey, sweetheart,

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01:43:10,120 --> 01:43:10,960
Speaker 1: what were the five things?

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01:43:11,040 --> 01:43:11,559
Speaker 2: Dad said?

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01:43:11,560 --> 01:43:15,320
Speaker 1: That broccoli or green helps with yeh. She's like, I

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01:43:15,320 --> 01:43:17,120
Speaker 1: don't know you say it. I was like remember the

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01:43:17,200 --> 01:43:20,000
Speaker 1: five things. I was like your hair, and then she

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01:43:20,120 --> 01:43:23,360
Speaker 1: was like my heart. I was like your heart, your eyes,

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01:43:23,880 --> 01:43:25,519
Speaker 1: your brain, and she's like at my feet, and I

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01:43:25,600 --> 01:43:27,400
Speaker 1: was like, you eat these couple of bites right here.

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01:43:28,080 --> 01:43:29,800
Speaker 1: We check all those boxes and we can get to

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01:43:29,840 --> 01:43:30,400
Speaker 1: your vitamins.

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01:43:30,520 --> 01:43:30,800
Speaker 3: Uh huh.

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01:43:31,880 --> 01:43:33,200
Speaker 2: So that is my little dag.

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01:43:33,600 --> 01:43:35,760
Speaker 1: Dad hack on how to get your kids to eat

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01:43:35,760 --> 01:43:38,800
Speaker 1: their vegetables is like naming the body parts or thing

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01:43:38,960 --> 01:43:41,920
Speaker 1: whatever might get them on board for like, hey, this

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01:43:42,120 --> 01:43:45,479
Speaker 1: is what you're helping out. This is how your body's

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01:43:45,520 --> 01:43:48,720
Speaker 1: going to operate better because you ate these vegetables.

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Speaker 3: I love that because she's getting an understanding of like

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01:43:51,280 --> 01:43:55,080
Speaker 3: white food does as well. Yeah, it's not just to

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01:43:55,840 --> 01:43:59,400
Speaker 3: fill up your tummy. There's some nourishment there. Yeah, they

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01:43:59,479 --> 01:44:02,360
Speaker 3: have a role they do. This is how it helps

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01:44:02,400 --> 01:44:04,960
Speaker 3: you out. I love that you have all that pretty hair.

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01:44:05,120 --> 01:44:07,320
Speaker 3: You gotta keep feeding, you gotta keep eating your broccoli.

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01:44:07,400 --> 01:44:09,479
Speaker 2: I love that she's stuck on the feet though. Yeah.

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01:44:09,520 --> 01:44:11,320
Speaker 3: I love that she's like, no, but the feet too,

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01:44:12,520 --> 01:44:19,440
Speaker 3: oh yeah, oh yeah, the feet too. Goodness, Dad, Callins.

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Speaker 1: Dad Callins Hotline six o one the Dad's If you

2179
01:44:22,240 --> 01:44:25,080
Speaker 1: are wanting to get featured on the show, call in

2180
01:44:25,360 --> 01:44:27,519
Speaker 1: to six on one the Dad's Our boy chef Jackie

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01:44:27,640 --> 01:44:29,519
Speaker 1: vets all of these calls, finds us a couple of

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01:44:29,600 --> 01:44:32,160
Speaker 1: topics and plays him out loud for us for everybody

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01:44:32,160 --> 01:44:36,120
Speaker 1: to listen to. Let's dive into our first one coming from.

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Speaker 4: Fellas a niche Herenessee.

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01:44:43,840 --> 01:44:46,040
Speaker 3: A niche from Dixon, Tennessee.

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Speaker 4: Now coming to you from Chicago. I'm a dad of

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01:44:49,200 --> 01:44:52,000
Speaker 4: two beautiful girls, five year old and a one month old,

2188
01:44:52,760 --> 01:44:54,880
Speaker 4: also a fellow podcaster in the Dad's Space, So I

2189
01:44:54,960 --> 01:44:57,760
Speaker 4: appreciate you guys bringing more eyes to the dad's plight

2190
01:44:57,920 --> 01:45:00,479
Speaker 4: and this parenting journey. Let's I wanted to give a

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01:45:00,520 --> 01:45:02,679
Speaker 4: shout out to Sharon. I was listening to the latest

2192
01:45:02,680 --> 01:45:05,040
Speaker 4: episode when Sharon was talking about his wife asking how

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01:45:05,120 --> 01:45:07,320
Speaker 4: long the recording was gonna take, and I was in

2194
01:45:07,400 --> 01:45:10,280
Speaker 4: a similar situation myself. It's a few days after my

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01:45:10,320 --> 01:45:12,960
Speaker 4: baby girl was born. I was right before Father's Day,

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01:45:13,360 --> 01:45:15,160
Speaker 4: so I had to hop on with the boys talk

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01:45:15,160 --> 01:45:18,160
Speaker 4: about this new bundle of joy in my life. My

2198
01:45:18,280 --> 01:45:21,000
Speaker 4: wife asked me how long it was gonna take to record,

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01:45:21,560 --> 01:45:25,599
Speaker 4: I said, Sweetheart, it's only gonna take twenty minutes, twenty

2200
01:45:25,680 --> 01:45:29,200
Speaker 4: five tops, hop on, give a quick update, hop off.

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01:45:30,360 --> 01:45:33,240
Speaker 4: An hour later, goes by. I come out to screaming

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01:45:33,320 --> 01:45:36,640
Speaker 4: baby frozzle of five year old and a wife that

2203
01:45:36,800 --> 01:45:39,559
Speaker 4: was just staring a hole through my soul. The first

2204
01:45:39,600 --> 01:45:41,960
Speaker 4: thing she said was, I thought it was only going

2205
01:45:42,000 --> 01:45:44,320
Speaker 4: to be twenty minutes. Yep, we've all been there.

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01:45:44,520 --> 01:45:45,120
Speaker 3: We've all been there.

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01:45:45,160 --> 01:45:48,240
Speaker 4: Typical dad boss, that's okay, that's on me, hand up

2208
01:45:48,280 --> 01:45:53,200
Speaker 4: accountability looking back. So I've hopped on recording four days

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01:45:53,240 --> 01:45:56,519
Speaker 4: after my girl was born. Absolutely not. Do I regret

2210
01:45:56,600 --> 01:45:59,840
Speaker 4: spending quality dad time chopping it up with my best friends.

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01:46:00,320 --> 01:46:04,880
Speaker 4: Absolutely not. So Sharon hanging their brother and keep finding

2212
01:46:04,880 --> 01:46:06,880
Speaker 4: a good fight. We're alling the stuff together.

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01:46:08,240 --> 01:46:11,120
Speaker 3: Great call from a Poppa Team six member, right.

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01:46:11,080 --> 01:46:11,920
Speaker 2: There, great call.

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01:46:13,240 --> 01:46:15,920
Speaker 3: We've been there, We've been Hey, we've been there. At

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01:46:15,960 --> 01:46:18,760
Speaker 3: least you didn't hop on pubg you know right after

2217
01:46:19,240 --> 01:46:22,200
Speaker 3: the Yeah, at least like podcasting, it is the work,

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01:46:22,360 --> 01:46:22,840
Speaker 3: right Yeah.

2219
01:46:22,920 --> 01:46:26,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like when Scotti was born. Obviously I'm taking

2220
01:46:26,400 --> 01:46:29,639
Speaker 1: doing all the things to be at home, but it's like, Sweetart,

2221
01:46:29,640 --> 01:46:32,160
Speaker 1: we got to I got a couple of recordings, like

2222
01:46:32,240 --> 01:46:36,560
Speaker 1: I have to be at those, but have doing the

2223
01:46:36,920 --> 01:46:40,479
Speaker 1: podcast for however long we've been doing it. Yeah, she

2224
01:46:40,600 --> 01:46:42,679
Speaker 1: knows it might take a moment, but I'll give myself,

2225
01:46:42,760 --> 01:46:45,120
Speaker 1: you know, a cushion on when I could be home.

2226
01:46:45,479 --> 01:46:47,000
Speaker 2: For sure. We've all been in that spot.

2227
01:46:47,680 --> 01:46:50,040
Speaker 3: I'm in that spot right now. I told Jill one o'clock,

2228
01:46:50,120 --> 01:46:53,000
Speaker 3: and then I did a fabulous move of not hitting

2229
01:46:53,040 --> 01:46:56,400
Speaker 3: record earlier and now we're at one fifty. Yeah, Ciner,

2230
01:46:56,439 --> 01:46:59,000
Speaker 3: I was curious too if you had told Jill the

2231
01:46:59,120 --> 01:47:01,160
Speaker 3: time you'll be home, because I had to push we're

2232
01:47:01,360 --> 01:47:03,519
Speaker 3: you know, I was going to go look at a site,

2233
01:47:03,720 --> 01:47:06,640
Speaker 3: potential bus and move and I've had to push that back.

2234
01:47:06,680 --> 01:47:07,880
Speaker 3: I don't even know if I'll be able to get

2235
01:47:07,920 --> 01:47:10,479
Speaker 3: to it, but we've all been in those spots.

2236
01:47:10,720 --> 01:47:12,439
Speaker 1: It's like if I go to the gas station, charge like,

2237
01:47:12,479 --> 01:47:13,920
Speaker 1: what took so long, and I know in my head,

2238
01:47:14,240 --> 01:47:18,360
Speaker 1: I'll like say, you know, it's traffic, honey, these drivers,

2239
01:47:19,960 --> 01:47:22,559
Speaker 1: you know there's traffic at nine, eight thirty, nine o'clock

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01:47:22,600 --> 01:47:22,960
Speaker 1: at night.

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01:47:23,160 --> 01:47:23,639
Speaker 2: It's greaty.

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01:47:23,720 --> 01:47:26,160
Speaker 1: Sometimes I'll just be decompressing, like just in my truck,

2243
01:47:26,240 --> 01:47:27,240
Speaker 1: sitting out in the driveway.

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01:47:27,920 --> 01:47:30,240
Speaker 3: You do sit in your truck. Oh yeah, that's a

2245
01:47:30,320 --> 01:47:33,160
Speaker 3: will move. Yeah, that's so. That's a big time move

2246
01:47:33,200 --> 01:47:39,000
Speaker 3: for myself. Pull into the driveway. Just sit there, think

2247
01:47:39,080 --> 01:47:42,880
Speaker 3: about the mission at hand. That's a good h We

2248
01:47:43,000 --> 01:47:46,240
Speaker 3: had a graphic of like top data escape places and

2249
01:47:46,320 --> 01:47:48,479
Speaker 3: we have like toilet backyard, blah blah blah.

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Speaker 2: Car is a good one though we didn't have that one.

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01:47:51,160 --> 01:47:55,920
Speaker 2: Car is a good one. A niche correct a niche.

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01:47:55,960 --> 01:47:56,759
Speaker 2: We'll get the spelling.

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01:47:56,880 --> 01:47:59,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, we'll get the spelling from a niche. But thank

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01:47:59,439 --> 01:47:59,920
Speaker 3: you for the call.

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01:48:00,560 --> 01:48:02,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, a niece. Shout out you, bro, keep fighting. The

2256
01:48:02,880 --> 01:48:05,080
Speaker 1: good fight happens to the best of us.

2257
01:48:05,240 --> 01:48:06,200
Speaker 2: Happens to the best of us.

2258
01:48:06,280 --> 01:48:09,880
Speaker 3: In the podcast space Talking Dad issue, so also shout

2259
01:48:09,920 --> 01:48:10,280
Speaker 3: out there.

2260
01:48:10,640 --> 01:48:12,280
Speaker 2: Shout out just being a member of PT.

2261
01:48:12,240 --> 01:48:16,200
Speaker 3: Six and listening to us too. Yeah, you're a legend. Yeah, sweetheart,

2262
01:48:16,280 --> 01:48:17,160
Speaker 3: I trust me. I know.

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01:48:17,200 --> 01:48:18,800
Speaker 1: I was trying to get off in twenty five minutes.

2264
01:48:18,800 --> 01:48:20,120
Speaker 1: I was even telling the boys, Hey, I have a

2265
01:48:20,160 --> 01:48:22,200
Speaker 1: twenty five heart out. And then one of the boys

2266
01:48:22,240 --> 01:48:24,519
Speaker 1: he started breaking down and telling me something. He had

2267
01:48:24,560 --> 01:48:26,439
Speaker 1: something going on, and I had to be there for him.

2268
01:48:27,520 --> 01:48:29,120
Speaker 1: She listened to the pod and you were just geeking

2269
01:48:29,120 --> 01:48:32,799
Speaker 1: around that. But hey, you soften that moment that was happening.

2270
01:48:32,960 --> 01:48:35,799
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I love that she was just staring

2271
01:48:35,880 --> 01:48:36,960
Speaker 3: a hole into his soul.

2272
01:48:38,920 --> 01:48:42,320
Speaker 2: Twenty five minutes huh as the kids are just crying.

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01:48:42,479 --> 01:48:46,400
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, second calling, Second calling.

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01:48:53,600 --> 01:48:59,760
Speaker 5: What's up boys, Will Schurm Chef. I'm calling from Columbus, Nebraska.

2275
01:49:00,680 --> 01:49:03,880
Speaker 5: My name's Cordell. I'm actually currently underneath my car trying

2276
01:49:03,960 --> 01:49:08,320
Speaker 5: to change the oil here, going to battle there good.

2277
01:49:09,600 --> 01:49:12,719
Speaker 5: I just wanted to give a shout out real quick.

2278
01:49:13,920 --> 01:49:16,639
Speaker 5: The chef sounds like he's the new producer of the show.

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01:49:16,720 --> 01:49:17,240
Speaker 4: That's awesome.

2280
01:49:17,280 --> 01:49:21,720
Speaker 5: Congratulations and then obviously shout out to Sherm for the

2281
01:49:21,800 --> 01:49:24,800
Speaker 5: new kid, and those shoutouts go in that order. By

2282
01:49:24,840 --> 01:49:29,080
Speaker 5: the way, I just got the text, boys, I just

2283
01:49:29,160 --> 01:49:32,360
Speaker 5: got the text from the wife. Her playing has officially

2284
01:49:32,439 --> 01:49:36,000
Speaker 5: taken off, and this Papa Team six member has checked

2285
01:49:36,080 --> 01:49:41,479
Speaker 5: in for the week, going solo dad duty for the

2286
01:49:41,960 --> 01:49:42,919
Speaker 5: one whole week.

2287
01:49:42,880 --> 01:49:44,200
Speaker 2: With my three year old girls.

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01:49:44,920 --> 01:49:47,599
Speaker 5: And I guess I was just wondering, Will is there

2289
01:49:47,640 --> 01:49:51,000
Speaker 5: any tips you have for an extended daddy daughter time

2290
01:49:51,240 --> 01:49:54,720
Speaker 5: solo dad time? Any tips or tricks, anythings that you

2291
01:49:54,840 --> 01:50:00,160
Speaker 5: turn to also additionally, forgot to mention, I'm all so,

2292
01:50:00,439 --> 01:50:03,880
Speaker 5: two time member of Semen Team six with a twelve

2293
01:50:04,240 --> 01:50:08,920
Speaker 5: week baby on the way, let's sake, go, let's go.

2294
01:50:09,240 --> 01:50:11,960
Speaker 2: He say three year old girls? Three year old girls?

2295
01:50:12,479 --> 01:50:15,559
Speaker 2: Oh singular oh, one girl on the way.

2296
01:50:16,200 --> 01:50:16,439
Speaker 3: Okay.

2297
01:50:16,479 --> 01:50:17,960
Speaker 1: I thought he might have said three year old girls

2298
01:50:18,000 --> 01:50:19,760
Speaker 1: like he had twins or something. So he's got one

2299
01:50:19,880 --> 01:50:22,880
Speaker 1: three year old girl that he's operating the entire week with.

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01:50:23,080 --> 01:50:26,000
Speaker 3: Yep, that's awesome. Number one.

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01:50:26,080 --> 01:50:29,400
Speaker 1: Hats off to Papa Team six member right there, two

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01:50:29,479 --> 01:50:32,080
Speaker 1: time Semen teams, two times Semen team, but.

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01:50:32,400 --> 01:50:35,280
Speaker 3: His wife going away for the week, and he's taken

2304
01:50:35,360 --> 01:50:38,920
Speaker 3: on the role, the caretaker role at home and being

2305
01:50:39,000 --> 01:50:40,280
Speaker 3: on the wall, being on the watch.

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01:50:41,400 --> 01:50:44,799
Speaker 1: I remember my first time when Charle went to Paris

2307
01:50:45,200 --> 01:50:48,360
Speaker 1: with her friends. She was going for like, yeah, either

2308
01:50:48,400 --> 01:50:49,600
Speaker 1: a week or nine days or.

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01:50:49,600 --> 01:50:50,040
Speaker 2: Something like that.

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01:50:50,200 --> 01:50:54,280
Speaker 1: She gone, gone, gone, gone, And it was dude, honestly,

2311
01:50:54,320 --> 01:50:58,799
Speaker 1: a uh, some parts are easier just solo parenting. Obviously

2312
01:50:58,880 --> 01:51:01,000
Speaker 1: he's checking out with the week. I don't know, like

2313
01:51:01,160 --> 01:51:03,680
Speaker 1: what work, childcare and stuff like that's involved. Yeah, but

2314
01:51:03,840 --> 01:51:06,640
Speaker 1: having the one on one time with your little ones, honestly, like, uh,

2315
01:51:07,280 --> 01:51:08,720
Speaker 1: it's a lot of fun because it's just you and

2316
01:51:08,880 --> 01:51:11,320
Speaker 1: he's a girl dad, so he's spending time with his daughter,

2317
01:51:11,760 --> 01:51:14,040
Speaker 1: Daddy daughter time. Obviously, I know the guys out there

2318
01:51:14,200 --> 01:51:16,439
Speaker 1: f sons and stuff like that, like, I'm sure that's great.

2319
01:51:16,840 --> 01:51:19,360
Speaker 1: Appreciate you guys briaging on that stuff. But your one

2320
01:51:19,400 --> 01:51:22,320
Speaker 1: on one time with your daughter is a load of fun.

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01:51:22,640 --> 01:51:24,640
Speaker 1: Like I'm sure he's listening right now. He's probably had

2322
01:51:24,640 --> 01:51:26,640
Speaker 1: a great week with her so far. They get in

2323
01:51:26,720 --> 01:51:29,280
Speaker 1: more of a routine with dad. She's about keeping that

2324
01:51:29,400 --> 01:51:33,040
Speaker 1: routine going. And my recommendation would be again I said

2325
01:51:33,040 --> 01:51:34,880
Speaker 1: it to you earlier, but videoing a lot of stuff.

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01:51:34,920 --> 01:51:37,439
Speaker 1: I know my first time watching ru, I videoed a

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01:51:37,479 --> 01:51:40,240
Speaker 1: lot of different stuff that we were doing, like going

2328
01:51:40,320 --> 01:51:42,800
Speaker 1: into a room stealers, see her smiling when she's waking up,

2329
01:51:42,800 --> 01:51:44,640
Speaker 1: putting her to bed, reading a story, when we're at

2330
01:51:44,680 --> 01:51:47,559
Speaker 1: the coffee shop. Uh, video on her at the coffee shop.

2331
01:51:47,640 --> 01:51:51,680
Speaker 1: She was only like, uh, she wasn't too yet, but

2332
01:51:52,400 --> 01:51:54,080
Speaker 1: videoing as much as I could because I put a

2333
01:51:54,120 --> 01:51:56,160
Speaker 1: little video together at the end of it. Because it's

2334
01:51:56,200 --> 01:51:58,600
Speaker 1: just you and her, it's like your all your attentions

2335
01:51:58,680 --> 01:52:02,040
Speaker 1: on her and gave me something kind of creative to

2336
01:52:02,080 --> 01:52:05,920
Speaker 1: do for when mom came home. But that's a great time.

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01:52:05,960 --> 01:52:07,400
Speaker 1: I feel like it's a great age too. Like if

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01:52:07,439 --> 01:52:08,760
Speaker 1: it was just me and Rufe for a week, I

2339
01:52:08,800 --> 01:52:11,360
Speaker 1: don't think it would be too I think it'd be fun.

2340
01:52:11,479 --> 01:52:13,479
Speaker 1: Like obviously keeping it on the routine of everything, but

2341
01:52:13,560 --> 01:52:15,439
Speaker 1: there's a lot of those wiggle rooms, those little gray

2342
01:52:15,479 --> 01:52:18,040
Speaker 1: areas that mom and dad might be strong on. But

2343
01:52:18,160 --> 01:52:21,280
Speaker 1: now that you're with dad, Hey, here's an extra piece.

2344
01:52:21,120 --> 01:52:21,679
Speaker 2: Of a cookie.

2345
01:52:21,920 --> 01:52:23,920
Speaker 3: Hey, I'll hook you up with this. Hey, let's go

2346
01:52:24,000 --> 01:52:26,200
Speaker 3: get some ice cream. Okay, you can stay.

2347
01:52:26,080 --> 01:52:26,920
Speaker 2: Up twenty minutes later.

2348
01:52:27,120 --> 01:52:27,920
Speaker 3: Hey there's something.

2349
01:52:27,720 --> 01:52:29,920
Speaker 1: Cool on TV now for dad. We got some we

2350
01:52:30,000 --> 01:52:31,559
Speaker 1: got a sport on. You want to watch your dad?

2351
01:52:31,560 --> 01:52:32,840
Speaker 1: You want to stay up a little bit longer, or

2352
01:52:32,920 --> 01:52:37,800
Speaker 1: let's pop on this movie. Yeah yeah yeah, but embrace it, dude,

2353
01:52:38,040 --> 01:52:41,639
Speaker 1: embrace it. That's I think that's cool.

2354
01:52:41,840 --> 01:52:44,639
Speaker 3: There was a video that you had, if I'm remembering correct,

2355
01:52:44,800 --> 01:52:47,680
Speaker 3: that charl had gone out of town and you're through

2356
01:52:47,680 --> 01:52:50,000
Speaker 3: you and you move some furniture like in your kitchen

2357
01:52:50,040 --> 01:52:52,160
Speaker 3: area for y'all to have like a little dance party.

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01:52:52,520 --> 01:52:54,639
Speaker 2: Yeah, there's some kind of little dance party. That you're

2359
01:52:54,720 --> 01:52:55,559
Speaker 2: throwing love.

2360
01:52:55,479 --> 01:52:57,800
Speaker 1: That Yeah, yeah, dude, it's just you know, it's like

2361
01:52:59,040 --> 01:53:00,840
Speaker 1: a lot of times too, like you might come across

2362
01:53:00,880 --> 01:53:02,880
Speaker 1: where it's like the mom doesn't trust the dad to

2363
01:53:02,960 --> 01:53:03,599
Speaker 1: be on his own.

2364
01:53:03,760 --> 01:53:04,120
Speaker 3: Uh huh.

2365
01:53:04,160 --> 01:53:05,800
Speaker 1: And so it's like a nice little badge of honor

2366
01:53:05,880 --> 01:53:07,720
Speaker 1: that you can watch the kids solo dolo, or you

2367
01:53:07,760 --> 01:53:09,400
Speaker 1: can watch the kids solo dol.

2368
01:53:10,120 --> 01:53:11,640
Speaker 2: And that I don't know if I talked about that

2369
01:53:11,680 --> 01:53:11,960
Speaker 2: on the low.

2370
01:53:12,000 --> 01:53:14,720
Speaker 1: The oldest part a prep for the meals, prep for

2371
01:53:14,800 --> 01:53:17,120
Speaker 1: the dinners, because now you'll be kind of stuck. Oh

2372
01:53:17,200 --> 01:53:20,560
Speaker 1: he ain't got this ordering something, just being ready. It's like,

2373
01:53:20,600 --> 01:53:22,280
Speaker 1: oh shoot, I got to order. You gotta give the right.

2374
01:53:22,280 --> 01:53:23,840
Speaker 1: So because the big thing you want is you want

2375
01:53:23,880 --> 01:53:27,000
Speaker 1: to alleviate mom while she is gone. You don't want

2376
01:53:27,000 --> 01:53:30,680
Speaker 1: to be the dad checking in every five minutes, Hey

2377
01:53:30,800 --> 01:53:31,599
Speaker 1: where's this at?

2378
01:53:31,720 --> 01:53:31,880
Speaker 2: Hey?

2379
01:53:31,960 --> 01:53:32,640
Speaker 3: What do I do here?

2380
01:53:32,760 --> 01:53:32,880
Speaker 2: Hey?

2381
01:53:32,960 --> 01:53:36,280
Speaker 1: What would you recommend here? I can't find this. She's

2382
01:53:36,320 --> 01:53:38,559
Speaker 1: giving me a tough time right now. No, let mom

2383
01:53:38,680 --> 01:53:41,640
Speaker 1: be fully out, be fully to where she's thinking. Is

2384
01:53:41,680 --> 01:53:42,240
Speaker 1: everything okay?

2385
01:53:42,280 --> 01:53:42,599
Speaker 3: Back home?

2386
01:53:42,640 --> 01:53:44,000
Speaker 1: And she wants to call and check in, Oh we're

2387
01:53:44,000 --> 01:53:45,440
Speaker 1: having a great time, or on FaceTime.

2388
01:53:46,040 --> 01:53:46,760
Speaker 3: You want mom to.

2389
01:53:46,760 --> 01:53:48,960
Speaker 1: Feel the full freedom of being away, and I feel

2390
01:53:49,000 --> 01:53:51,040
Speaker 1: like she has to be away and have her entire

2391
01:53:51,160 --> 01:53:53,880
Speaker 1: pulse on everything that's going on back home. Yeah, that's

2392
01:53:53,920 --> 01:53:56,000
Speaker 1: how you be prepared. That's how you knock it out

2393
01:53:56,040 --> 01:53:56,400
Speaker 1: of the park.

2394
01:53:57,880 --> 01:53:59,960
Speaker 3: It sounds like he's already in the thick of it,

2395
01:54:00,240 --> 01:54:03,000
Speaker 3: but I'm sure that he prepared and killed it. Yeah.

2396
01:54:03,000 --> 01:54:05,200
Speaker 3: I love that he's underneath his car too, calling us

2397
01:54:05,640 --> 01:54:06,680
Speaker 3: this guy is locked in.

2398
01:54:06,880 --> 01:54:07,640
Speaker 2: He's locked in.

2399
01:54:08,280 --> 01:54:12,880
Speaker 3: What was his name again, chef? Uh, I'll play the

2400
01:54:12,960 --> 01:54:16,720
Speaker 3: beginning card again, Cordell Cordel And that was that came

2401
01:54:16,760 --> 01:54:22,360
Speaker 3: in yesterday. So so he's day one as we're recording this,

2402
01:54:22,479 --> 01:54:24,600
Speaker 3: so so he'll still be in it. He's got a

2403
01:54:24,640 --> 01:54:28,400
Speaker 3: couple of days left. Let's go Cordel. Yeah, let's fucking

2404
01:54:28,439 --> 01:54:30,200
Speaker 3: go Cordell and shot out Nebraska.

2405
01:54:30,400 --> 01:54:33,720
Speaker 1: Always loved him. Chef might just be hey, here's in

2406
01:54:33,760 --> 01:54:35,160
Speaker 1: Nebraska one. Let's throw in movie.

2407
01:54:36,280 --> 01:54:38,800
Speaker 2: I think that's three weeks in a row. Yeah, not

2408
01:54:38,920 --> 01:54:39,760
Speaker 2: by design at all.

2409
01:54:40,280 --> 01:54:42,840
Speaker 3: Well, they call in not by design.

2410
01:54:42,640 --> 01:54:45,040
Speaker 2: And you're a big balls fan, that's a pretty easy

2411
01:54:45,120 --> 01:54:45,560
Speaker 2: yeah too.

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01:54:45,720 --> 01:54:48,000
Speaker 3: I did hear a Tennessee guy first one?

2413
01:54:48,760 --> 01:54:48,800
Speaker 4: What?

2414
01:54:49,040 --> 01:54:51,840
Speaker 3: Uh, what do we have left. We have our topic,

2415
01:54:51,960 --> 01:54:54,720
Speaker 3: quote or lesson of the week. Do you have one?

2416
01:54:55,280 --> 01:54:57,440
Speaker 2: I I did, and funny enough, it.

2417
01:54:57,560 --> 01:55:01,560
Speaker 3: Was, uh, just attention to detail, attention to the small things,

2418
01:55:02,440 --> 01:55:06,000
Speaker 3: and I was going to apply it to at home

2419
01:55:06,600 --> 01:55:09,600
Speaker 3: with my daughter, but it also applies to the office,

2420
01:55:09,800 --> 01:55:13,800
Speaker 3: as we learned today. To say, my meeting with Will

2421
01:55:13,960 --> 01:55:16,880
Speaker 3: for my mid year review at Busting with the Boys

2422
01:55:17,320 --> 01:55:21,720
Speaker 3: was there were a lot of good things to celebrate.

2423
01:55:21,800 --> 01:55:24,360
Speaker 3: But one of the things that since I was a kid,

2424
01:55:25,360 --> 01:55:27,960
Speaker 3: that I've struggled with is the attention to the details,

2425
01:55:29,080 --> 01:55:32,760
Speaker 3: the little things that you need to do right, because

2426
01:55:32,800 --> 01:55:34,920
Speaker 3: the big things can't happen if you aren't doing the

2427
01:55:35,000 --> 01:55:40,400
Speaker 3: little things right. Perfect example, publish a podcast online. You

2428
01:55:40,520 --> 01:55:43,040
Speaker 3: cannot do that if you do not hit the record button. Yeah,

2429
01:55:44,480 --> 01:55:46,520
Speaker 3: and so it's just a good reminder and it's funny

2430
01:55:46,560 --> 01:55:49,520
Speaker 3: that like that happened today and that that was also

2431
01:55:49,600 --> 01:55:53,280
Speaker 3: my plan. My lesson is attention to detail. I did

2432
01:55:53,360 --> 01:55:57,240
Speaker 3: not Will, we didn't record. We weren't recording for forty

2433
01:55:57,280 --> 01:56:01,200
Speaker 3: five minutes. You're gonna be late to you probably won't

2434
01:56:01,200 --> 01:56:03,160
Speaker 3: even get to do the showing of the commercial space.

2435
01:56:03,320 --> 01:56:08,520
Speaker 3: But that was my lesson for the week. It's a

2436
01:56:08,600 --> 01:56:10,520
Speaker 3: quick It's a small one but just I love it

2437
01:56:10,720 --> 01:56:11,800
Speaker 3: the attention to details.

2438
01:56:11,800 --> 01:56:12,640
Speaker 2: And with Scarlet it's a.

2439
01:56:12,640 --> 01:56:15,160
Speaker 3: Good reminder you can't ever say stuff like that enough. Yeah,

2440
01:56:16,200 --> 01:56:18,920
Speaker 3: with Scarlett, it is just being on track with like

2441
01:56:20,160 --> 01:56:22,160
Speaker 3: do we have enough diapers? Do we have enough wipes?

2442
01:56:22,880 --> 01:56:23,920
Speaker 2: Uh? Do we have enough? This?

2443
01:56:24,200 --> 01:56:27,320
Speaker 3: That just helping mom out because she can't do it all.

2444
01:56:29,240 --> 01:56:30,080
Speaker 2: That's my speed. Run.

2445
01:56:30,360 --> 01:56:30,720
Speaker 3: I love it.

2446
01:56:31,640 --> 01:56:35,600
Speaker 1: My uh my lesson or topic of the week comes

2447
01:56:35,640 --> 01:56:40,320
Speaker 1: from Saheel Bloom. Oh yeah, his new book Five Types

2448
01:56:40,360 --> 01:56:43,520
Speaker 1: of Wealth, and he has a partner called The Magic Years.

2449
01:56:43,680 --> 01:56:44,040
Speaker 3: Number one.

2450
01:56:44,040 --> 01:56:48,600
Speaker 1: If you're a parent, you're somebody who is ambitious, hardworking, juggle.

2451
01:56:48,720 --> 01:56:52,080
Speaker 1: Both things were perspective on life. This book I can't

2452
01:56:52,120 --> 01:56:55,320
Speaker 1: recommend enough. It is called Five Types of Wealth by

2453
01:56:55,400 --> 01:56:57,720
Speaker 1: Sahuel Bloom. And he's somebody who has a young one

2454
01:56:57,760 --> 01:56:59,840
Speaker 1: too around I want to say his son is around Rose.

2455
01:57:00,280 --> 01:57:03,400
Speaker 1: He might he might have two kiddos now, but he's

2456
01:57:03,400 --> 01:57:05,800
Speaker 1: someone who's that's like work life balance and having a

2457
01:57:05,840 --> 01:57:07,320
Speaker 1: lot of perspective. But there was this part of the

2458
01:57:07,360 --> 01:57:09,280
Speaker 1: book it's called the Magic Years. So I'm going to

2459
01:57:09,360 --> 01:57:12,160
Speaker 1: read this part of the book called The Magic Years

2460
01:57:13,520 --> 01:57:16,760
Speaker 1: for ten years you are your child's favorite person in

2461
01:57:16,840 --> 01:57:20,840
Speaker 1: the entire world. And after that children have other favorite people,

2462
01:57:21,400 --> 01:57:26,000
Speaker 1: best friends, girlfriends, boyfriends, partners, and eventually their own children.

2463
01:57:26,440 --> 01:57:29,080
Speaker 1: But during those ten years, you are everything to them.

2464
01:57:29,440 --> 01:57:33,520
Speaker 1: You occupy a unique place in their world, and it

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01:57:33,640 --> 01:57:36,560
Speaker 1: is during this period that the foundation for the parent

2466
01:57:36,680 --> 01:57:41,280
Speaker 1: child relationship so central to many people's social wealth, is built.

2467
01:57:42,080 --> 01:57:45,320
Speaker 1: It might be a strong foundation that is likely to

2468
01:57:45,440 --> 01:57:48,760
Speaker 1: last for decades, or a flimsy or a flimsy one

2469
01:57:49,080 --> 01:57:52,080
Speaker 1: that's likely to crumble in years. But there is one

2470
01:57:52,280 --> 01:57:56,160
Speaker 1: terrifying truth. By the time your children are eighteen, you've

2471
01:57:56,200 --> 01:57:59,000
Speaker 1: already used up the vast majority of the time you'll

2472
01:57:59,080 --> 01:58:02,600
Speaker 1: have with them. Unfortunately, we live in a society where

2473
01:58:02,680 --> 01:58:06,839
Speaker 1: children's early years coincide with their parents's peak working hours, travel,

2474
01:58:07,160 --> 01:58:11,160
Speaker 1: and other professional responsibilities. For many of us, these special

2475
01:58:11,280 --> 01:58:13,040
Speaker 1: years come and go in the blink of an eye,

2476
01:58:13,640 --> 01:58:16,800
Speaker 1: a blur of late nights in the office, meetings about meetings,

2477
01:58:17,160 --> 01:58:20,360
Speaker 1: emails at the dinner table, and weekend calls. In a

2478
01:58:20,480 --> 01:58:23,520
Speaker 1: viral Reddit post from May twenty twenty three, a user

2479
01:58:23,560 --> 01:58:27,280
Speaker 1: wrote a user wrote, twenty years from now, the only

2480
01:58:27,400 --> 01:58:30,240
Speaker 1: people who will remember that you worked late are your kids.

2481
01:58:31,200 --> 01:58:34,240
Speaker 1: Commenters responded with a motion filled posts such as the

2482
01:58:34,400 --> 01:58:39,360
Speaker 1: graveyard is full of irreplaceable and important people. And I've

2483
01:58:39,400 --> 01:58:42,240
Speaker 1: missed so many birthdays, plays and events for work and

2484
01:58:42,360 --> 01:58:44,680
Speaker 1: I can't even tell you why. I don't remember what

2485
01:58:44,800 --> 01:58:46,840
Speaker 1: I was working on. I can't tell you why it

2486
01:58:46,920 --> 01:58:49,440
Speaker 1: was important, but I can tell you how my not

2487
01:58:49,640 --> 01:58:53,120
Speaker 1: being there made my kids feel. I am of two

2488
01:58:53,240 --> 01:58:57,000
Speaker 1: minds on this. One being present and spending time with

2489
01:58:57,080 --> 01:58:59,160
Speaker 1: those you love is the most important thing in the end,

2490
01:58:59,560 --> 01:59:02,240
Speaker 1: and two, having the people you love see you work

2491
01:59:02,280 --> 01:59:05,680
Speaker 1: hard on things you care about is a principle they'll

2492
01:59:05,720 --> 01:59:07,720
Speaker 1: remember for the rest of their lives.

2493
01:59:09,000 --> 01:59:09,400
Speaker 2: Strong.

2494
01:59:10,480 --> 01:59:12,720
Speaker 1: I love this book, by the way, you know, I

2495
01:59:12,800 --> 01:59:16,680
Speaker 1: saw somebody somebody tweeted saying that he got the strong

2496
01:59:16,760 --> 01:59:20,600
Speaker 1: father's strong daughters a staple and the Papa six Papa

2497
01:59:20,640 --> 01:59:22,000
Speaker 1: six philosophy.

2498
01:59:21,520 --> 01:59:22,720
Speaker 2: If you're a girl dad for sure.

2499
01:59:22,880 --> 01:59:23,080
Speaker 3: Yeah.

2500
01:59:23,680 --> 01:59:26,000
Speaker 1: But I love five types of well see he'll bloom.

2501
01:59:27,560 --> 01:59:29,640
Speaker 1: And I love his kind of description of the magic

2502
01:59:29,760 --> 01:59:32,520
Speaker 1: years and how we are in them and how he

2503
01:59:33,240 --> 01:59:35,880
Speaker 1: him explaining also how hard it is because it's also

2504
01:59:36,600 --> 01:59:40,120
Speaker 1: as a young parent, your peak years of work, and

2505
01:59:40,240 --> 01:59:42,320
Speaker 1: some of those quotes that kind of give perspective on

2506
01:59:42,560 --> 01:59:44,920
Speaker 1: when you get to some endpoint or when they're grown

2507
01:59:45,000 --> 01:59:49,160
Speaker 1: and out of the nest of you know, I can't

2508
01:59:49,160 --> 01:59:51,080
Speaker 1: even tell you why I was at those events for work.

2509
01:59:51,240 --> 01:59:52,960
Speaker 1: I don't remember what I was working on. I can't

2510
01:59:52,960 --> 01:59:54,400
Speaker 1: tell you why it was important, but I can tell

2511
01:59:54,400 --> 01:59:56,240
Speaker 1: you me not being there, how it made my kids feel.

2512
01:59:57,400 --> 02:00:00,400
Speaker 1: Just those like little things that again help you grab

2513
02:00:00,520 --> 02:00:02,960
Speaker 1: any perspective on what you might currently be doing and

2514
02:00:03,080 --> 02:00:05,880
Speaker 1: how I might currently be operating to where I need

2515
02:00:05,960 --> 02:00:07,960
Speaker 1: to get this and check a little bit more. How

2516
02:00:08,040 --> 02:00:10,800
Speaker 1: can I structure this a little bit better so you

2517
02:00:11,000 --> 02:00:15,560
Speaker 1: juice out and take advantage of the magic years being young,

2518
02:00:15,920 --> 02:00:19,280
Speaker 1: being a young parent, embracing the fatherhood of it all. Yeah,

2519
02:00:19,920 --> 02:00:24,680
Speaker 1: with your wife, with your kids, just taking in those

2520
02:00:24,800 --> 02:00:27,120
Speaker 1: fleeting seconds and just trying to hold on to them

2521
02:00:27,160 --> 02:00:30,040
Speaker 1: a little bit longer, videoing everything, taking as many photos

2522
02:00:30,040 --> 02:00:30,920
Speaker 1: as you possibly can.

2523
02:00:31,120 --> 02:00:31,320
Speaker 3: Yeah.

2524
02:00:34,400 --> 02:00:36,080
Speaker 1: When I look at Scotty and I'm wanting to like

2525
02:00:36,160 --> 02:00:38,720
Speaker 1: journal things down that she's doing, I'm like kicking myself

2526
02:00:38,760 --> 02:00:41,040
Speaker 1: because I wish I would have done that more with Rue.

2527
02:00:41,440 --> 02:00:43,000
Speaker 1: Like I have some of Ruth's first like in my

2528
02:00:43,120 --> 02:00:46,280
Speaker 1: notes app. And it's like you think in the moment

2529
02:00:46,520 --> 02:00:48,640
Speaker 1: I'll remember to write this down, or I'll remember this

2530
02:00:48,760 --> 02:00:51,480
Speaker 1: because it was so glaring in this point in life.

2531
02:00:51,560 --> 02:00:55,160
Speaker 1: But you forget a lot of stuff. So it's like

2532
02:00:55,280 --> 02:00:57,520
Speaker 1: taking all of those moments in and then also having

2533
02:00:57,560 --> 02:01:00,160
Speaker 1: this perspective on how if you're somebody out there are

2534
02:01:00,160 --> 02:01:03,000
Speaker 1: struggling with like work life balance, hearing something like this

2535
02:01:03,200 --> 02:01:07,040
Speaker 1: of the Magic Years, and just reminding you of what

2536
02:01:07,200 --> 02:01:10,280
Speaker 1: life is about and how you can maybe course correct

2537
02:01:10,360 --> 02:01:10,960
Speaker 1: in a few.

2538
02:01:10,800 --> 02:01:17,920
Speaker 3: Areas several things from that lesson, I'm sure my dad

2539
02:01:18,120 --> 02:01:21,200
Speaker 3: would say there's a lot of things that he wishes

2540
02:01:21,360 --> 02:01:24,440
Speaker 3: that he could change about how he raised my brother

2541
02:01:24,520 --> 02:01:27,480
Speaker 3: and I, work being one of them. He felt like

2542
02:01:27,680 --> 02:01:33,200
Speaker 3: work really kind of took priority. However, yes, he could

2543
02:01:33,240 --> 02:01:35,360
Speaker 3: have put work to the side a bit more like

2544
02:01:35,520 --> 02:01:38,040
Speaker 3: in our years in high school, he would say that,

2545
02:01:39,040 --> 02:01:42,160
Speaker 3: But being at this age now and now having a daughter,

2546
02:01:42,960 --> 02:01:47,000
Speaker 3: I respect that that much more of just what he

2547
02:01:47,200 --> 02:01:50,280
Speaker 3: was able to provide for my brother and I and

2548
02:01:50,440 --> 02:01:54,880
Speaker 3: my mom, and like you don't see it because he's

2549
02:01:55,040 --> 02:01:58,200
Speaker 3: not at home, but being on that side now, it's

2550
02:01:58,320 --> 02:02:00,960
Speaker 3: like I know that there is love in that action

2551
02:02:01,880 --> 02:02:06,160
Speaker 3: of working hard and wanting to provide for your family.

2552
02:02:06,240 --> 02:02:09,440
Speaker 3: And wanting to do a good job, and uh, there

2553
02:02:09,560 --> 02:02:11,160
Speaker 3: is a balance to it. Like you said, there's like

2554
02:02:11,200 --> 02:02:15,480
Speaker 3: two schools of thoughts. U. S. Hill correct, So he'll

2555
02:02:17,000 --> 02:02:19,720
Speaker 3: there are two schools of thought. But I do think

2556
02:02:19,800 --> 02:02:24,600
Speaker 3: that it does show a tremendous amount of dedication and

2557
02:02:24,720 --> 02:02:27,800
Speaker 3: it's really cool, it's really respectable. But finding that balance,

2558
02:02:27,840 --> 02:02:32,160
Speaker 3: I'm sure that's hard, especially for you, dude, you travel

2559
02:02:32,400 --> 02:02:34,880
Speaker 3: so much. But I feel like you do a really

2560
02:02:34,960 --> 02:02:38,520
Speaker 3: good job of locking in when you're home, like you

2561
02:02:38,640 --> 02:02:41,480
Speaker 3: really it seems like that to me that you were

2562
02:02:41,560 --> 02:02:43,640
Speaker 3: prioritizing those moments. Yeah.

2563
02:02:44,160 --> 02:02:47,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, because it's something that i'll like, uh, battle with

2564
02:02:47,560 --> 02:02:49,440
Speaker 1: because it's like a game, bro, we won't get these

2565
02:02:49,480 --> 02:02:49,960
Speaker 1: years back.

2566
02:02:50,080 --> 02:02:52,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, Like I know, we're in the best times of

2567
02:02:52,040 --> 02:02:55,400
Speaker 3: our life right now. Work related, home related.

2568
02:02:56,360 --> 02:02:59,920
Speaker 1: It's like finding all of those all of those balance

2569
02:03:00,240 --> 02:03:02,360
Speaker 1: because even to your example with your dad, it's like

2570
02:03:02,400 --> 02:03:04,840
Speaker 1: thinking about my parents and having people that you love

2571
02:03:05,160 --> 02:03:09,640
Speaker 1: work hard on things that they care about is a

2572
02:03:09,720 --> 02:03:12,520
Speaker 1: principle that I remember. It's like thinking about my mom

2573
02:03:12,600 --> 02:03:14,480
Speaker 1: and dad and my dad being in between jobs and

2574
02:03:14,560 --> 02:03:16,840
Speaker 1: working hard to get another one and not being home

2575
02:03:16,880 --> 02:03:19,280
Speaker 1: a times because he had the higher salary, and it's

2576
02:03:19,320 --> 02:03:22,000
Speaker 1: like the way we had to kind of structure everything

2577
02:03:22,080 --> 02:03:24,560
Speaker 1: as a middle class or lower middle class family to

2578
02:03:24,640 --> 02:03:27,440
Speaker 1: make ends meet. You understand the love that goes into it,

2579
02:03:27,680 --> 02:03:30,600
Speaker 1: into that even though I know my dad probably has

2580
02:03:30,680 --> 02:03:32,600
Speaker 1: regrets that he wishes he would have been a part

2581
02:03:32,640 --> 02:03:36,000
Speaker 1: of more. Yeah dude, and will we will too?

2582
02:03:36,400 --> 02:03:39,520
Speaker 3: We will too, Yeah, yes, yeah we will as well.

2583
02:03:39,560 --> 02:03:40,640
Speaker 3: But it's just like those.

2584
02:03:42,160 --> 02:03:45,680
Speaker 1: Those perspective things on knowing, like it's like that's why,

2585
02:03:46,200 --> 02:03:48,960
Speaker 1: Like for myself personally, what I challenge myself on is

2586
02:03:50,280 --> 02:03:52,720
Speaker 1: what I'm wanting to say yes to, so that way

2587
02:03:52,800 --> 02:03:54,640
Speaker 1: everything else I can just say no to, like it's

2588
02:03:54,640 --> 02:03:58,400
Speaker 1: an easy decision versus sitting in like yeah, some opportunities

2589
02:03:58,400 --> 02:04:00,200
Speaker 1: will be like yeah, this is a big opportunity, need

2590
02:04:00,280 --> 02:04:01,240
Speaker 1: to take this opportunity.

2591
02:04:02,200 --> 02:04:04,480
Speaker 3: In others where it could just be like we can

2592
02:04:04,560 --> 02:04:06,080
Speaker 3: relate it and it's like do I need this?

2593
02:04:06,960 --> 02:04:07,520
Speaker 2: Is this more?

2594
02:04:07,960 --> 02:04:09,840
Speaker 3: Because a lot of it too in the work related stuff,

2595
02:04:09,880 --> 02:04:12,200
Speaker 3: it's like selfishly, you love your work, you love doing

2596
02:04:12,240 --> 02:04:14,000
Speaker 3: all of these things, and we have a fun job

2597
02:04:14,160 --> 02:04:16,400
Speaker 3: and we have a fun job, but it's like, hey,

2598
02:04:17,240 --> 02:04:18,880
Speaker 3: do I need to do this and is this going

2599
02:04:18,920 --> 02:04:20,720
Speaker 3: to actually move the needle, or am I just wanting

2600
02:04:20,760 --> 02:04:22,680
Speaker 3: to do this selfishly? Am I wanting to do this

2601
02:04:22,920 --> 02:04:25,520
Speaker 3: just to get away or whatever it is? Sometimes it

2602
02:04:25,640 --> 02:04:27,760
Speaker 3: might be that way, and that's like a good communication

2603
02:04:27,880 --> 02:04:29,400
Speaker 3: with my wife, like hey, I need to go, I

2604
02:04:29,480 --> 02:04:31,400
Speaker 3: need to do something, or I need to go get

2605
02:04:31,440 --> 02:04:33,600
Speaker 3: out or whatever it is. Oh buddy, he was talking

2606
02:04:33,600 --> 02:04:39,400
Speaker 3: about Dennis Rodman weekend. But it helps me compartmentalize. It

2607
02:04:39,480 --> 02:04:41,560
Speaker 3: helps me compartmentalize a lot of those things that I

2608
02:04:41,640 --> 02:04:44,320
Speaker 3: can easily say no to and be like, yeah, I

2609
02:04:44,360 --> 02:04:46,560
Speaker 3: don't care to do that, Like that would be fun,

2610
02:04:46,640 --> 02:04:52,080
Speaker 3: but I'd rather be home because dude, he talks about

2611
02:04:52,080 --> 02:04:54,840
Speaker 3: ten years, and you can break the numbers down however

2612
02:04:54,920 --> 02:04:59,840
Speaker 3: you want, but it's like, in those ten years, that's what.

2613
02:05:00,000 --> 02:05:06,320
Speaker 3: But once one summer per year, that's forty summers. Yeah,

2614
02:05:07,080 --> 02:05:09,000
Speaker 3: when they're little and you have them all to.

2615
02:05:09,000 --> 02:05:11,120
Speaker 1: Yourself and they think you're an absolute superhero, let's just

2616
02:05:11,160 --> 02:05:15,040
Speaker 1: say five, right, five summers that you have five potential

2617
02:05:15,040 --> 02:05:17,080
Speaker 1: opportunities to go on summer vacations.

2618
02:05:17,840 --> 02:05:18,040
Speaker 2: You know.

2619
02:05:19,640 --> 02:05:24,240
Speaker 3: You'll feel this having a scarlet as how old is

2620
02:05:24,320 --> 02:05:26,240
Speaker 3: she two weeks Scottie?

2621
02:05:26,320 --> 02:05:26,440
Speaker 2: Is it?

2622
02:05:26,600 --> 02:05:29,520
Speaker 1: She's eight months old? And so she's eight months old

2623
02:05:29,640 --> 02:05:32,160
Speaker 1: for this moment in time. They grow fast, Like you

2624
02:05:32,240 --> 02:05:33,800
Speaker 1: were saying, you saw the picture of a newborn in

2625
02:05:33,880 --> 02:05:35,720
Speaker 1: three month old, and it's like they're just different people.

2626
02:05:36,120 --> 02:05:39,320
Speaker 1: They grow fast, and there's such fun moments in those

2627
02:05:39,680 --> 02:05:42,200
Speaker 1: when you're checking off eight months, nine months, ten months.

2628
02:05:42,240 --> 02:05:44,240
Speaker 1: It's like, Rue, I can remember when her personality was

2629
02:05:44,280 --> 02:05:46,960
Speaker 1: coming to life in sixteen months, when her personality was

2630
02:05:46,960 --> 02:05:50,600
Speaker 1: coming to life at month sixteen. There's only four weekends

2631
02:05:51,400 --> 02:05:54,800
Speaker 1: that she's going to be sixteen months old, and each

2632
02:05:55,080 --> 02:05:59,080
Speaker 1: chapter is something different, and that's like how I try

2633
02:05:59,120 --> 02:06:01,880
Speaker 1: to compartmentalize it in my brain when breaking down all

2634
02:06:01,960 --> 02:06:03,720
Speaker 1: these things is like some things we're just gonna.

2635
02:06:03,480 --> 02:06:03,640
Speaker 4: Have to do.

2636
02:06:03,760 --> 02:06:05,480
Speaker 3: This is what This is what we do with bustling

2637
02:06:05,480 --> 02:06:07,480
Speaker 3: with the boys, this is how it works, gonna have

2638
02:06:07,520 --> 02:06:08,240
Speaker 3: to be in these house.

2639
02:06:08,320 --> 02:06:11,200
Speaker 1: But everything else, it's like I try to have that

2640
02:06:11,320 --> 02:06:15,520
Speaker 1: perspective of you know, she's only going to be two

2641
02:06:15,600 --> 02:06:17,480
Speaker 1: for one year, She's only going to be this three

2642
02:06:17,560 --> 02:06:19,040
Speaker 1: year old, this three major year.

2643
02:06:19,120 --> 02:06:23,160
Speaker 3: When I just want to for one year, you know

2644
02:06:23,160 --> 02:06:24,600
Speaker 3: what I mean, and then it's gone.

2645
02:06:24,680 --> 02:06:27,640
Speaker 1: It's fleeting, yeah, And I never want to be in

2646
02:06:27,680 --> 02:06:30,680
Speaker 1: a spot when I'm looking back, like, fuck, I why

2647
02:06:30,760 --> 02:06:33,680
Speaker 1: did I go and do this? When it's like I

2648
02:06:33,760 --> 02:06:36,000
Speaker 1: look at Scotty and I have so much more appreciation

2649
02:06:36,120 --> 02:06:38,720
Speaker 1: of like living in her eighth month old body right now,

2650
02:06:39,400 --> 02:06:41,200
Speaker 1: because I remember how fun it was with Rue, and

2651
02:06:41,240 --> 02:06:43,760
Speaker 1: I'm experiencing new things with Scotty at eight months old,

2652
02:06:43,800 --> 02:06:45,400
Speaker 1: and I feel like I have more of an appreciation

2653
02:06:46,280 --> 02:06:49,640
Speaker 1: in those moments because it's like the perspective of she's

2654
02:06:49,680 --> 02:06:51,480
Speaker 1: only going to be eight months old for one month,

2655
02:06:52,160 --> 02:06:54,760
Speaker 1: so befour weekends we have with her in this age,

2656
02:06:56,240 --> 02:06:57,839
Speaker 1: and I want to and you want to take advantage.

2657
02:06:59,200 --> 02:07:01,720
Speaker 3: If this scores you points at home, I hope it does.

2658
02:07:01,960 --> 02:07:04,520
Speaker 3: But you can see it written all over you in

2659
02:07:04,600 --> 02:07:07,720
Speaker 3: Taylor as well. Whenever we are traveling, you guys get

2660
02:07:07,760 --> 02:07:11,760
Speaker 3: homesick and I've all buddy, and I've yet to experience

2661
02:07:11,840 --> 02:07:13,640
Speaker 3: that because i haven't had to travel for work yet

2662
02:07:13,920 --> 02:07:18,000
Speaker 3: with Scarlett here now. But I I feel it even

2663
02:07:18,040 --> 02:07:20,960
Speaker 3: in moments like this, of like, you do want to

2664
02:07:21,000 --> 02:07:26,240
Speaker 3: be home, and so I do think on the other

2665
02:07:26,400 --> 02:07:29,000
Speaker 3: side of it, like the work side of it, it

2666
02:07:29,120 --> 02:07:31,600
Speaker 3: does show your love that much more that it's like, hey,

2667
02:07:32,120 --> 02:07:34,400
Speaker 3: we have to do these things right.

2668
02:07:34,640 --> 02:07:39,320
Speaker 1: You're t like you're subconsciously wiring in their brain when

2669
02:07:39,360 --> 02:07:41,320
Speaker 1: you commit to something and you want something and you're

2670
02:07:41,320 --> 02:07:45,280
Speaker 1: ambitious for something, like staying on course and showing that resilience,

2671
02:07:45,360 --> 02:07:49,040
Speaker 1: showing that perseverance. Yeah, and that working just that working

2672
02:07:49,120 --> 02:07:51,640
Speaker 1: attitude about it, Yes, because it shows that too. It's

2673
02:07:51,640 --> 02:07:53,520
Speaker 1: like we're obviously gonna get old and we're all gonna

2674
02:07:53,520 --> 02:07:56,000
Speaker 1: wish we spent every moment at home. Oh yeah, dude,

2675
02:07:56,400 --> 02:07:58,640
Speaker 1: but that's just like that comes with it. But you're right,

2676
02:07:58,720 --> 02:08:01,320
Speaker 1: it's like you're we get on the road and going

2677
02:08:01,360 --> 02:08:03,640
Speaker 1: at football season this year, in spring tour and stuff

2678
02:08:03,680 --> 02:08:05,880
Speaker 1: next year. It's like, now we're in a spot to

2679
02:08:05,960 --> 02:08:09,480
Speaker 1: where we're healthy in such a way to where it's

2680
02:08:09,520 --> 02:08:13,480
Speaker 1: like I want us to fly private so that way

2681
02:08:13,560 --> 02:08:15,040
Speaker 1: we can squeeze every.

2682
02:08:14,880 --> 02:08:16,440
Speaker 3: Moment, Like how can we leave the day of and

2683
02:08:16,480 --> 02:08:17,680
Speaker 3: also come back to the day up.

2684
02:08:17,800 --> 02:08:20,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, so we're not stuck figuring out all these different flights,

2685
02:08:20,880 --> 02:08:23,040
Speaker 1: the lace happen, all these other things out rooms, yeah,

2686
02:08:23,120 --> 02:08:23,880
Speaker 1: hotel rooms.

2687
02:08:24,040 --> 02:08:25,600
Speaker 3: It's like how do we get in and get out

2688
02:08:25,680 --> 02:08:28,000
Speaker 3: as quickly as possible. That comes at a cost, It

2689
02:08:28,040 --> 02:08:28,880
Speaker 3: comes at a big cost.

2690
02:08:28,920 --> 02:08:31,960
Speaker 1: But it's like when we're making this, it's like, hey,

2691
02:08:32,280 --> 02:08:33,960
Speaker 1: we can just cut this chunk out and be like,

2692
02:08:34,200 --> 02:08:37,440
Speaker 1: we're doing this because we want the full priority being

2693
02:08:37,560 --> 02:08:40,520
Speaker 1: how do we be efficient and maximize our opportunities with

2694
02:08:40,640 --> 02:08:43,360
Speaker 1: these things with busting, but also maximize and be efficient

2695
02:08:43,360 --> 02:08:45,280
Speaker 1: with our opportunities at home to be with our family.

2696
02:08:45,760 --> 02:08:49,160
Speaker 3: Well in the power of no too, like to just

2697
02:08:49,200 --> 02:08:51,280
Speaker 3: bring it to myself of yet another thing I can

2698
02:08:51,400 --> 02:08:53,920
Speaker 3: learn what we talked about my mid year review of

2699
02:08:54,200 --> 02:08:57,680
Speaker 3: like that is something I struggle with so badly. Stop

2700
02:08:57,840 --> 02:09:01,960
Speaker 3: saying yes to so many things I say behind everything,

2701
02:09:03,160 --> 02:09:05,880
Speaker 3: and I gotta work on saying no because like that

2702
02:09:06,120 --> 02:09:08,720
Speaker 3: will come in the way of me spending time with

2703
02:09:08,960 --> 02:09:13,080
Speaker 3: Jill and with Scarlett. Yeah, and being able in those

2704
02:09:13,160 --> 02:09:15,800
Speaker 3: moments to be like, hey, I can't go on that

2705
02:09:15,920 --> 02:09:18,120
Speaker 3: golf trip. That sucks.

2706
02:09:18,760 --> 02:09:20,720
Speaker 2: I see all the pictures. They look like they're having

2707
02:09:20,760 --> 02:09:21,200
Speaker 2: a blast.

2708
02:09:21,720 --> 02:09:25,080
Speaker 3: Wish I could be doing that, But I'm doing something

2709
02:09:25,120 --> 02:09:28,000
Speaker 3: incredible in this moment too, like my daughter's coming into

2710
02:09:28,040 --> 02:09:32,600
Speaker 3: the world later this month or whatever. There was a

2711
02:09:32,680 --> 02:09:35,440
Speaker 3: great wedding. One of my close friends shout out andre

2712
02:09:35,880 --> 02:09:39,200
Speaker 3: that it was out of the country. Would have loved

2713
02:09:39,280 --> 02:09:42,120
Speaker 3: to be there, And you see all the pictures, you're like,

2714
02:09:42,280 --> 02:09:45,280
Speaker 3: oh man, but it's also like, hey, we're doing something

2715
02:09:45,320 --> 02:09:47,920
Speaker 3: big here too. It's stuff.

2716
02:09:48,080 --> 02:09:50,440
Speaker 1: It's like, I think the nature in all of us

2717
02:09:50,600 --> 02:09:53,040
Speaker 1: is we're all you know, we want We're like people pleasers, right,

2718
02:09:53,200 --> 02:09:55,880
Speaker 1: I want to please everybody. And then you realize when

2719
02:09:55,880 --> 02:10:00,360
Speaker 1: you're trying to please everybody, you see where you can't

2720
02:10:00,400 --> 02:10:03,880
Speaker 1: pour into the things that you absolutely prioritize in your life,

2721
02:10:03,880 --> 02:10:05,360
Speaker 1: and you see how it affects that, and then you

2722
02:10:05,480 --> 02:10:08,560
Speaker 1: feel so spread thin and stressed about it when it's like, Okay,

2723
02:10:08,680 --> 02:10:10,320
Speaker 1: let's just think about the things that I want to do.

2724
02:10:10,680 --> 02:10:12,800
Speaker 1: How can I prioritize this? How can I structure it?

2725
02:10:13,080 --> 02:10:15,800
Speaker 1: And then that helps you say no, you understand, like

2726
02:10:15,800 --> 02:10:16,760
Speaker 1: where your boundaries are.

2727
02:10:17,080 --> 02:10:17,280
Speaker 3: Yeah.

2728
02:10:20,480 --> 02:10:22,400
Speaker 2: A great episode.

2729
02:10:23,400 --> 02:10:26,680
Speaker 3: Papa Team six Papa Team six, Heke Out the Trash,

2730
02:10:27,440 --> 02:10:28,800
Speaker 3: A Bunch of Legends.

2731
02:10:28,480 --> 02:10:32,600
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2732
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2733
02:10:36,000 --> 02:10:39,160
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2734
02:10:39,200 --> 02:10:42,600
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2735
02:10:42,600 --> 02:10:45,440
Speaker 1: in Bud's training right now, breeding until Dad status, or

2736
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2737
02:10:48,880 --> 02:10:51,600
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Speaker 1: on the internet.

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