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Speaker 1: My boyfriend said he wanted to have good chemistry with

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Speaker 1: another girl on my birthday.

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Speaker 2: So hopefully like chemistry class.

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Speaker 1: Or they're making chemicals. I twenty three female, just celebrated

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Speaker 1: my twenty third birthday last night. My boyfriend Jake twenty

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Speaker 1: one male, took me out to a bar with a

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Speaker 1: group of our mutual friends. For the most part, the

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Speaker 1: night was going great until a girl he knows from

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Speaker 1: his college classes, who I'll call Sophie, showed up. By

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Speaker 3: I'm Dakota, I'm Carly, I'm Keon.

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Speaker 1: We're here to give good advice. Goofuley. We're little yappers,

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Speaker 1: We're gonna yap some goofs, and we're not necessarily experts

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Speaker 1: at anything. So you know, if you have your own advice,

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Speaker 1: why don't you let us know?

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Speaker 3: In the comments, We're gonna goof some yaps.

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Speaker 1: Goof and gaffin yap and euphen.

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Speaker 3: Also, I would like to point out that Opie's boyfriend

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Speaker 3: Jake said, you know what we should do for your birthday?

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Speaker 3: Go to the bars.

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Speaker 1: Go to the bars.

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Speaker 3: Hey, girlfriend, what do you want to do for your birthday?

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Speaker 1: Maybe she like she wants she might like it.

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Speaker 3: Maybe Sophie liked it.

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Speaker 2: Who is Sophie.

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Speaker 1: Jakeah, let's find out. Jake has mentioned Sophie before, mostly

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Speaker 1: just saying she's cool and in his study group. When

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Speaker 1: she walked in, Jake got weirdly focused on her.

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Speaker 3: How focused like walking in?

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Speaker 1: Locked his peepers right onto her, locked freaking in. Later

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Speaker 1: on in the night, while we were getting drinks at

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Speaker 1: the bar, just the two of us, I made a

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Speaker 1: comment about how he seemed distracted. He laughed it off

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Speaker 1: and said, I'm just trying to make sure Sophie and

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Speaker 1: I have really good chemistry. One is to have a spark,

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Speaker 1: you know, didn't we read this? I don't remember this.

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Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure I would, because that's I remember the

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Speaker 1: weirdest thing.

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Speaker 3: I had her like this.

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Speaker 2: It was also her birthday party at a bar and

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Speaker 2: also someone from their class coming in.

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Speaker 1: Well, this one's so short, we wouldn't have read it before.

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Speaker 1: But what could he possibly want out of this situation

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Speaker 1: other than for you to break up with him for that?

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Speaker 3: Also on your birthday? Yi, Yeah, he's like, I want

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Speaker 3: to have good chemistry on your birthday. That's my birthday

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Speaker 3: gift to you, babe.

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Speaker 1: That's so weird. I was stunned. I asked him what

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Speaker 1: the heck that was supposed to mean, especially on my birthday.

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Speaker 1: He got defensive immediately and told me I was acting

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Speaker 1: twenty three, implying I'm being old and serious, and that

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Speaker 1: chemistry just means he wants them to be able to

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Speaker 1: joke around so his study sessions aren't awkward. I told

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Speaker 1: him that chemistry and sparks are romantic terms, and saying

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Speaker 1: that to your girlfriend on her birthday is disrespectful. He

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Speaker 1: called me insecure and said I was ruining my own

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Speaker 1: birthday over a word choice. He spent the rest of

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Speaker 1: the night acting distant and ended up talking to her

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Speaker 1: for a good twenty minutes before we left. I feel

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Speaker 1: like I'm being gaslet to me, you don't look for

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Speaker 1: chemistry with other women when you're in a committed relationship.

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Speaker 1: Am I overreacting? Is this a maturity gap thing because

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Speaker 1: he's interested in her?

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Speaker 2: No, he's fully interested in her.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, elaborate.

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Speaker 2: I've read this before, I know I have. I remember

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Speaker 2: their ages to give advice though. Yeah, he should be

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Speaker 2: paying attention to you on his birthday and you should

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Speaker 2: uh dump this dude. Do it on your birthday. Be free,

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Speaker 2: go out to the bars, live your life free of

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Speaker 1: He's yeah, it's true to this other lady, why do

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Speaker 1: you need to build this? Can't you just build a

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Speaker 1: chemistry any other time and place like your study group.

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Speaker 2: Or build it with your girlfriend. I don't know.

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Speaker 1: All of this makes no sense, and he's weird and

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Speaker 1: probably has a crush on this girl. There's an update.

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Speaker 1: After reading through the responses to my last post, a

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Speaker 1: lot of things started to click. So many people pointed

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Speaker 1: out that chemistry and sparks aren't normal words to use

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Speaker 1: realize this wasn't just me being sensitive. Yesterday I sat

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Speaker 1: Jake down to talk about it calmly. I explained that

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Speaker 1: what he said made me feel disrespected and undervalued, and

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Speaker 1: that wanting chemistry with another woman is a boundary for

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Speaker 1: me in a relationship. It did not go the way

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Speaker 1: I hoped. Instead of apologizing, we're trying to understand where

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Speaker 1: I was coming from, he got defensive. He told me

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Speaker 1: I was suffocating him and said that because he's twenty one,

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Speaker 1: he should be allowed to vibe with whoever he wants.

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Speaker 1: He admitted that he finds Sophie intellectually stimulating and that

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Speaker 1: they have a connection he doesn't want to suppress just

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Speaker 1: because it made me uncomfortable. It's time to just break

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Speaker 1: up and pursue that other girl.

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Speaker 2: Then break up with your boyfriend, Kay.

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Speaker 1: Later on, I found out from a mutual friend who

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Speaker 1: was there that while I was in the bathroom on

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Speaker 1: my birthday, Jake was compl laning to Sophie about how

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Speaker 1: who just got his energy.

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Speaker 2: Then go be with Sophie.

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Speaker 1: Just while trying to pick up another girl while you're

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Speaker 1: at your girlfriend's birthday party is insane, just insane. That

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Speaker 1: was kind of the final straw for me at that point.

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Speaker 1: It was clear this wasn't just a bad choice of

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Speaker 1: venting and bonding with another woman right in front of

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Speaker 1: me on my birthday. I ended things last night. I

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Speaker 1: told him that if he wants to explore chemistry with

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Speaker 1: Sophie so badly, he's free to do that as a

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Speaker 1: single man. Once he realized I was serious, he tried

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Speaker 1: pressured by my age and expectations. I blocked him. I'm

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Speaker 1: twenty three, finishing my degree, and I know what I

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Speaker 1: want out of a relationship. I Am not going to

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Speaker 1: doesn't understand basic respect. It hurts, and my birthday definitely

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Speaker 1: didn't turn out how I imagined. But I'd rather be

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Speaker 1: somewhere else. That's the end of that story.

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Speaker 3: He's looking for the old all spark.

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Speaker 1: He's Simon Wicky. Who was that? That wasn't optimist? Who

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Speaker 1: was that? I don't know, Santa Claus, but that's the

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Speaker 1: end of that story that we read before.

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Speaker 2: My fiance waited until I moved in to show me

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Speaker 2: who he really was.

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Speaker 1: You are now contractually obligated to be with me anyway.

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Speaker 2: I thirty four female, met Brad, thirty four males, six

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Speaker 2: months ago. I was living out of state and he

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Speaker 2: was visiting. We met and everything was awesome. We laughed,

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Speaker 2: the spicy sleep was amazing, and we had fun. We

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Speaker 2: continued to see each other for six months, and we

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Speaker 2: lived about three hours apart, so while it was long distance,

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Speaker 2: it wasn't horrible to see each other on a regular basis.

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Speaker 2: By the way, this comes from Boston Chef Chicks nine

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Speaker 3: I'm Carly, I'm Dakota, I'm Keon.

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Speaker 2: And we're here to give good advice goofully. But we

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Speaker 2: don't have all the answers. We only know what we

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Speaker 2: would do. Let's know what you would do in the comments,

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Speaker 2: Boston Bostina ASoP says, over the six months, we spent

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Speaker 2: a lot of time together. We would spend up to

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Speaker 2: ten days at a time together. After six months, I

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Speaker 2: was sure he and I would be together for a

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Speaker 2: long time. Brad asked me to marry him, and I

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Speaker 2: said yes.

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Speaker 1: Oh h oh uh oh.

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Speaker 2: Six months In, six weeks ago, Brad asked me to

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Speaker 2: move in with him. Those questions seemed a little reversed. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: just a little wit. Will you married me? Yeah? So

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Speaker 2: you want to like live together now?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, very very old school traditional.

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Speaker 2: Since then, crap has gone downhill for me and fast.

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Speaker 2: Brad is a god dang slob. We're talking fine dishes

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Speaker 2: that have been sitting around for days, hidden kind of slob.

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Speaker 2: I literally spent three days cleaning when I got to

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Speaker 2: his apartment. And side note, I had spent time here

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Speaker 2: before this, four days at a time, usually about two

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Speaker 2: and four months in but he typically came to my

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Speaker 2: anything horrific about the place, And the only thing I

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Speaker 2: can come up with is he had a maid service

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Speaker 2: clean before I visited. I don't mind cleaning, but I

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Speaker 2: work odd hours and I can't keep up on my own.

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Speaker 2: I've said this to him and he always says, oh,

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Speaker 2: I'll help, but he never does. I do one hundred

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Speaker 2: a dishwasher three times and running it. Oh, and once

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Speaker 2: he walked in with me to a laundromat.

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Speaker 1: It's almost like we should have maybe lived together before

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Speaker 1: we got married, when our relationship was long. Dishes the

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Speaker 3: I was gonna say, you never went to his place

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Speaker 2: Do it twice?

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Speaker 1: But like, well, he was hiding the dishes.

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Speaker 2: Ye, hiding she thinks someone cleaned for him beforehand?

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Speaker 3: Two two times, and you said this is perfect indeed.

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Speaker 1: Yikes.

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Speaker 2: Brad also has a lot of health issues. He seems

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Speaker 2: to never be feeling good. I'll suggest, hey, let's go

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Speaker 2: get a drink, and he'll say, oh, I don't feel good.

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Speaker 2: Maybe now he has never said don't go because he's

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Speaker 2: which brings me to the next topic. He played down

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Speaker 2: these health issues the entire time I've known him until

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Speaker 2: about a week ago, when s htes it is that

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Speaker 2: I just can't say, get word.

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Speaker 1: When did you do it?

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Speaker 3: When I don't know why?

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Speaker 2: In my head the second word was the one that

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Speaker 2: had to be censored. I was gonna say, crap.

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Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, hunted the fan, Yeah, that's what they

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Speaker 1: say in Boston still.

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Speaker 2: About a week ago, and it hit the fan because

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Speaker 2: he's not been taking care of himself. He has zero

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Speaker 2: self control about eating and is diabetic.

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Speaker 1: So yeah, at this point, you can actually put his

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Speaker 1: health problems on him a little bit. They are they

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Speaker 1: are a little bit on him if he's proactively making

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Speaker 2: Yes, I knew he took the pills for this, but

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Speaker 2: when he binge eats at night after I go to sleep,

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Speaker 2: there's no way I can help him with that. Plus,

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Speaker 2: he's a god dang adult. He needs to show self control.

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Speaker 2: It's not my job to be his diet coordinator or

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Speaker 2: to be the food police. The real issue with that

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Speaker 2: He said he didn't want to show me how not

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Speaker 2: normal he is. There are other things too, minor things,

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Speaker 3: WHOA, how many dates did you go on with this guy?

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Speaker 3: You're like one and done. You're like, yeah, this guy,

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Speaker 3: I got virtual dates.

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Speaker 1: Well, a lot of you know, people like will really

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Speaker 2: I've mentioned this to him and he said, oh, I'll try.

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Speaker 2: He's completely ocd about our budget. It's not even like

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Speaker 2: I don't know what it is, but a lot of

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Speaker 1: Maybe that's your hormones screaming at you that this is

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Speaker 2: I think you got the ick and you're smelling it

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Speaker 1: That's happened to me once before, where someone started smelling well, no,

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Speaker 2: I don't know if this is due to his health issues.

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Speaker 2: He also farts a lot.

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Speaker 3: What's wrong with that?

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Speaker 1: Man's got a fart?

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Speaker 3: They said, you know, farting in a relationship is one

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Speaker 3: of the healthiest things you can do.

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Speaker 2: It's true.

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Speaker 1: Would you prefer he holds it in?

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Speaker 2: That's bad for his health.

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Speaker 1: Until his guts explode.

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Speaker 3: He'll turn into that What is it that the aunt

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you know what, I'm fully on this guy's side now.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so farts a lot and makes no attempt to

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Speaker 1: Loud it wakes me, all right, mad?

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Speaker 3: All right? That one where you you married this person

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Speaker 3: and you know I'm married, okay, engaged there, you're engaged

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Speaker 3: What do you mean by that? You're that that means

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Speaker 1: If we're not ready for farts? Bro, We're not ready

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Speaker 2: We're not even ready for farts. And in his sleep,

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Speaker 2: he's not even like you want him to wake up

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'd be more like, all right, what are we eating?

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Speaker 1: What are we eating that you felt to that diet?

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Speaker 1: Fart explosively in your sleep?

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Speaker 2: You're faring earth craping himself in his sleep?

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Speaker 1: Is that the Is this why he smells your farting

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Speaker 2: I like that egg l eighty two has figured out

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Speaker 2: a way to talk through the emojis. Ope can't see poop.

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Speaker 1: No, she cannot.

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Speaker 3: She can smell it, though she can't.

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Speaker 2: Sleep has never been easy with him, and this I

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Speaker 2: knew going into it. It's never really worked sleeping together

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Speaker 2: for me. Brad snores loudly, sleeps in the middle of

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Speaker 3: Waitello.

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Speaker 1: Trying to take the pillow is the next loud. I

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Speaker 2: I feel like it's because they have like one pillow pillows.

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Speaker 1: I've been that man before. Is this you all the realization?

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Speaker 2: Just have you ever dated someone for six months long

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Speaker 1: To I'm just saying I just never. At one point

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Speaker 1: it's okay anyway. That's such a let's not make this

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Speaker 2: I haven't had a good night's sleep in six friggin weeks.

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Speaker 2: He's constantly asking me if things are okay and says

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Speaker 2: sorry for every goddang thing. I thought you were mad

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Speaker 2: that he didn't say sorry for his farts. Though I

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Speaker 2: should be clear, this man still sounds disgusting, but he's

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Speaker 2: basically driving me insane slowly. I was alone for a

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Speaker 2: year prior to this, and I don't know if this

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Speaker 2: it quits now. I love him, but I find myself

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Speaker 2: slowly resenting him for these things. Am I being a

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Speaker 2: should cut my losses at it? Since so many people

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Speaker 2: are saying this, yes, I have brought up each and

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Speaker 2: every issue with him, some of them several times. I

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Speaker 2: obviously don't want him to pass away, and I told

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Speaker 2: fact that he basically lied about it. He downplayed it

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Speaker 2: for almost seven months. I find it odd that more

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Speaker 2: people have an issue with me calling him a slob

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Speaker 1: Well, he does sound like a slob.

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Speaker 2: He does sound like a slob. Still, I do think

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Speaker 2: we need to get past the farts.

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Speaker 1: I just think you're both red flags.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I just think you've.

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Speaker 2: Known this man for seven months, and maybe it's not

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Speaker 2: time to live together and be engaged, get to know

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Speaker 2: the man. If he's like I didn't know you well

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Speaker 2: enough to tell you that I had diabetes, maybe you

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Speaker 1: This man exactly. It's probably time to cut it off.

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Speaker 3: I think. Yeah, I think both of you kind of

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Speaker 2: You, because he sounds like he kind of purposely left

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Speaker 1: But yeah, yeah, but you also deciding to get married.

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Speaker 1: You both made the mistake of getting married before ever

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Speaker 1: it was long distance. It's a terrible, terrible idea.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you guys saw each other for like maybe four

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Speaker 2: weeks out of six months.

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Speaker 1: Maybe maybe.

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Speaker 2: Also, yes, there is a lot of good. He is

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Speaker 2: work and could easily support us financially. And he's brilliant.

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Speaker 2: This wasn't really about how wonderful he is, though. If

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Speaker 3: If he's so brilliant, how come he never listens to you.

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Speaker 3: One he eats like a caveman. Two doesn't tell you

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Speaker 3: don't know, get engaged. I don't know, Pee.

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Speaker 1: If the diabetes makes him smarter, I don't know. P.

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Speaker 3: It's like, one moment I'm on one side of you.

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Speaker 3: At the other moment, I'm like, how you saying this

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Speaker 3: man is brilliant? But all these giant red flags are

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Speaker 3: just waving in your face. Here we go, ready, sorry

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Speaker 2: True, I will speak with him again this evening, but

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Speaker 2: odds are I'm going to end this. I take full

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Speaker 2: responsibility for rushing into this, and I will learn from

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Speaker 2: that mistake.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, there we go. Full responsibility. Hmm, I'm full

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Speaker 1: off of that responsibility.

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Speaker 2: Mmmm, hedit three because I'm an idiot and forgot a

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Speaker 2: lot of people are asking about the smell. I don't

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Speaker 2: think it's a sweet smell. It's just off. I can't

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Speaker 2: really place it. It's not sweet, it's not a crap smell.

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Speaker 2: It's not boh, it's just off.

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Speaker 1: Maybe it's it's exactly what I said earlier.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and we have just.

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Speaker 1: Fully not not not drive in with the hormones.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you literally just don't like his hormones.

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Speaker 1: Brobly, and you weren't around him enough to even know that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, do you really know him? But we have an

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Speaker 2: I was, of course upset, and I told him we

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Speaker 2: needed to talk. I basically told him everything. He actually

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Speaker 2: forced me to tell him every tiny little thing he

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Speaker 2: does that I didn't like, which was pretty horrible for me,

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Speaker 2: but I think really eye opening to him. He actually

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Speaker 2: had a doctor's appointment late in the day yesterday and

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Speaker 2: I told him about the smell, but he then failed

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Speaker 1: Are we shocked? Doc? My girl says, I smell off?

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Speaker 1: What is the doctor supposed to do?

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Speaker 2: Just?

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Speaker 1: I mean, you smell. It's fine to me. I can't

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Speaker 1: really do anything about that. If you just don't like

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Speaker 1: how someone smells, the can't. I don't know. You could

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Speaker 1: change your diet.

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Speaker 3: But yeah, I was gonna say it could be his diet,

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Speaker 3: but also it could be just like the soap he uses,

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Speaker 3: the you know, his deodorant.

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Speaker 1: It's not really it. He had to go to a smellologist.

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Speaker 2: Any other thoughts before we read the rest?

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Speaker 3: Nope, break up, which you gotta do.

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Speaker 1: You've done it. You've realized the error of your ways.

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Speaker 3: And next time you meet someone, maybe take it a

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Speaker 2: In the end, I told him we needed to split up.

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Speaker 1: There we go.

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Speaker 2: I told him I felt we moved too fast and

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Speaker 2: we need to learn a lot more about each other.

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Speaker 2: I told him I was leaving, and he fought me

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Speaker 2: on this, saying that we could work on these things together.

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Speaker 2: I told him I couldn't stay, that I needed to

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Speaker 2: work on myself while he worked on himself. He cried

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Speaker 2: a lot, and I cried as well, and it was

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Speaker 2: very difficult because he really is a good person beyond

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Speaker 2: the issues he has. So in nine hours, I'll be

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Speaker 2: heading back to where I moved from. I'm not really

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Speaker 2: sure where we stand, but we aren't engaged anymore.

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Speaker 1: I think if you started that with we split and

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Speaker 1: then you're not sure where we stand, I think you

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Speaker 1: stand at split.

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Speaker 2: So that's my update. Talked broke up, moving out, so

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Speaker 2: you do know that you're broken up. Lesson learned. I

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Speaker 2: don't think it was thanks. Reddit final comments deleted says,

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Speaker 2: my favorite part was the part where he hit all

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Speaker 2: his serious health issues. From you until you were engaged

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Speaker 2: and living together. What did you learn from this? Not

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Speaker 2: being a wiener, but seriously, most people would not move

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Speaker 2: in with someone long distance after six months. Ope, he says,

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Speaker 2: thank you for this. Yes, I made a mistake of

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Speaker 2: moving too fast, but really, I'm supposed to assume someone

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Speaker 2: is lying about everything. As the post.

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Speaker 1: Below says, no, that's not what they said.

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Speaker 2: No, No, you're just supposed to. I don't know the

444
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Speaker 2: person before you.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, maybe.

446
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Speaker 1: Just know them a little bit, a little bit more,

447
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Speaker 1: a little bit more there.

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Speaker 2: As the post below says, I'd never find anyone if

449
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Speaker 2: I was looking for flaws? What did I learn? That

450
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Speaker 2: things are not as they seem? So to look for

451
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Speaker 2: the exact thing you just said.

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Speaker 1: Well, I'm not supposed to look for that. Things are

453
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Speaker 1: not what they seem when you don't know any of

454
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Speaker 1: the things because you just simply are not around a

455
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Speaker 1: person that.

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Speaker 2: Here's a fun one ready. I learned that I am

457
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Speaker 2: actually stronger than I thought for leaving. Heck, I'm on

458
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Speaker 2: a train right now.

459
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Speaker 1: Is it a midnight train?

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Speaker 2: I learned that taking an extra six months to six

461
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Speaker 2: years is really okay, and I don't have to rush.

462
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Speaker 2: That's thee Alesler air closer on the six year side

463
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Speaker 2: than the extra six months side. For fun, you know. Yeah.

464
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Speaker 2: I also learned that diabetics can give off a weird smell.

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Speaker 1: Oh, I didn't think about that.

466
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Speaker 2: I was wondering if it was that, But I I'm

467
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Speaker 2: assuming it's just because he treats like it's like he

468
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Speaker 2: doesn't handle it. Correct.

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Speaker 1: You've got that diabetes santaboutia.

470
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Speaker 2: Diabetic stink.

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Speaker 1: You smell like a lack of insulin.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Are you like a service dog that can smell insulin?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? Are you mutant like she.

474
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Speaker 2: She's like the dogs that they trained to smell what's off.

475
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Speaker 2: She can smell.

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Speaker 1: It's like you can smell, like like when people can

477
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Speaker 1: smell it's gonna rain.

478
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Speaker 2: You can smell when it's gonna rain.

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Speaker 1: Not everyone can do that. Really, Yeah, you've got rain smell.

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Speaker 3: I was gonna say one last thing for op. I

481
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Speaker 3: want you to find a man that who's not got

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Speaker 3: a part.

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Speaker 1: Yeah I heard Kim Jong un doesn't have a butthole,

484
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Speaker 1: So you try that guy just like that was actual

485
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Speaker 1: propaganda North Korean propaganda.

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Speaker 3: Did you expect him to be like one little toot

487
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Speaker 3: and that's all he's got in the chamber, just one

488
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Speaker 3: one toot per James.

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Speaker 2: She wants Sophia who will just hold it in forever?

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Speaker 1: Wow?

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Speaker 3: Wow Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Well yeah again though Kim jong and.

493
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Speaker 2: That's also the end of the story. But we got

494
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Speaker 2: another one.

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Speaker 1: His body, his body is perfect, his body is it

496
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Speaker 1: produces no waste, so he has no need, so he

497
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Speaker 1: doesn't have to so he doesn't he doesn't have any waste.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but did you see him with his daughter? It's

499
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Speaker 3: like the ultimate girl.

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Speaker 1: No, I have not. I saw something about how she

501
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Speaker 1: got tapped to be the next yeh she'll.

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Speaker 2: Spend tap for a while for that.

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Speaker 3: I think, yeah, she like she's like thirteen, but like

504
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Speaker 3: you see the photos and like genuinely they seem so happy.

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Speaker 1: They really well.

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Speaker 3: But let's be honest.

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Speaker 2: I think the best thing that's come out of that though,

508
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Speaker 2: is everyone going, oh so, North Korea is getting a

509
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Speaker 2: woman leader before the US does. That's craz.

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Speaker 1: North Korea is now officially more progressive than the United States.

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Speaker 2: Ro Raggy R ro Raggy.

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Speaker 1: I want to live with my boyfriend, but I'm conscious

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Speaker 1: of our income gap.

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Speaker 2: Are you the breadwinner?

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Speaker 1: My boyfriend thirty four male, and I thirty female, have

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Speaker 1: been together nine months. The least on my apartment is

517
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Speaker 1: up in July, when we'll have been together for a year.

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Speaker 1: We currently spend about five nights out of the week together,

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Speaker 1: but we have both hinted around the possibility of us

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Speaker 1: moving in together, so I'm pretty sure he's on board.

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Speaker 1: Where it's only three months off now, I'd like to

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Speaker 1: look at broaching the conversation. By the way, this comes

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Speaker 1: from user move in Anxiety and if you want to

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Speaker 1: submit your own stories, go to the r slash Okay

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Speaker 1: storytime subpret it.

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Speaker 3: I am Dakota I'm Carly, I'm Keon, and we're here

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Speaker 3: to talk to you about this story.

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Speaker 1: Uh, maybe give some good advice. Keep that in, editors,

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Speaker 1: maybe give some good advice.

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Speaker 3: Maybe it in your ear.

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Speaker 1: But we only know what we know, So let us

532
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Speaker 1: know what you know down there in the comments.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so we haven't even asked about living together yet.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, we're broaching. We're broaching.

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Speaker 1: It's time to broach.

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Speaker 3: Let's broach. Op says it is a bro ache, now,

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Speaker 3: brock b.

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Speaker 1: I rents an apartment and he owns a condo, so

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Speaker 1: I'd be moving into his place, which is fine as

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Speaker 1: we spend most of our time there anyway. So what's

541
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Speaker 1: the issue. Well, there's a pretty significant gap in our income.

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Speaker 1: We haven't had a sit down discussion yet to go

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Speaker 1: over what I make versus what he makes, but I'd

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Speaker 1: estimate he makes around three times what I do and

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Speaker 1: lives very comfortably. He's not rich by any stretch, but

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Speaker 1: pretty solidly middle class. On my side as of right now,

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Speaker 1: and I've done the math, my bills eat about ninety

548
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Speaker 1: percent of my income. I have pretty much nothing in savings.

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Speaker 1: I don't even have internet at my apartment because I

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Speaker 1: can't afford the extra bill. I'm pretty firmly in lower

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Speaker 1: class standing. I know I can afford to cover my bills,

552
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Speaker 1: but that's about it. This makes it pretty awkward to

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Speaker 1: broach the topic of moving into his place on my end,

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Speaker 1: where realistically speaking, I likely won't be able to do

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Speaker 1: a fifty to fifty split. He keeps his condo warmer

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Speaker 1: than I keep my apartment, so the electric bill will

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Speaker 1: be higher than what I pay. He has internet and TV,

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Speaker 1: which would be an additional expense. I'd have to rent

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Speaker 1: a parking space plus the condo fees, and then rent,

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Speaker 1: and I still need to make my car payment. My

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Speaker 1: car is necessary for my job, insurance payments, student loan payments,

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Speaker 1: phone bills, et cetera. Not to mention that if I

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Speaker 1: was to give up my space, I'd want to reduce

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Speaker 1: the percentage of my income spent on bills so I

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Speaker 1: can start building my savings and pay off debts like

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Speaker 1: my student loans more quickly. Part of me wants to

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Speaker 1: wait in TI, so he broaches the topic because it

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Speaker 1: doesn't feel reasonable for me to say I want to

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Speaker 1: move in with him in one breath and then tell

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Speaker 1: him I can't split the bills evenly.

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Speaker 3: In another OP loves the word broach the brooch, Op,

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Speaker 3: let's broach this maybe another alternative of finding another place

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Speaker 3: for you to live. If this is really a huge

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Speaker 3: concern for you, you can definitely bring it up.

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Speaker 2: Well. I think OPI would just stay where she is

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Speaker 2: if they don't move in together.

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Speaker 3: I think maybe somewhere else because like you don't have

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Speaker 3: the means of internet or like other things.

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Speaker 2: Is kind of I wonder too, though, like bring it

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Speaker 2: up still to get a rough timeline that he's on,

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Speaker 2: because like some people won't necessarily split fifty to fifty.

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Speaker 2: When my first roommate got engaged and was going to

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Speaker 2: live with somebody, they split it based on a percent

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Speaker 2: of their income.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I think so you can just have the conversation.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I think you can still have a conversation. Be like,

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Speaker 2: not sure if you were planning on wanting to live

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Speaker 2: together soon. I'm a little worried that I wouldn't be

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Speaker 2: able to afford living with you if that was something

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Speaker 2: you wanted soon.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. On the flip side, from conversations I've had with him,

592
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Speaker 1: it seems like he wants it just as much as me,

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Speaker 1: but is feeling awkward about broaching the topic.

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Speaker 3: Oh, pete, we got to find another.

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Speaker 1: Word for final a broaching. This is his first serious relationship,

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Speaker 1: so I guess any advice on what to do. Should

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Speaker 1: I wait for him to bring up moving in together,

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Speaker 1: even if it means waiting an additional year? Should I

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Speaker 1: just bat the bullet and broach the topic myself?

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Speaker 2: Why does this bug you so much? So?

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Speaker 1: It's a lot of broach.

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Speaker 2: It's the words.

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Speaker 1: There's a lot of broaching going on.

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Speaker 3: You know what, We're gonna play a fun game if

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Speaker 3: you want to get your adult beverage. Every time the

606
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Speaker 3: word b R O A c h is brought up,

607
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Speaker 3: take a drink.

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Speaker 1: I mean, if I was an English professor, I'd be like, well,

609
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Speaker 1: we're using that word a little bit too much, right,

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Speaker 1: But we're not red I'm not grading. I'm not grading

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Speaker 1: this paper.

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Speaker 3: But if I was, if I were to broach the subject, oh.

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Speaker 2: My god, Okay read it.

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Speaker 1: If so, how do I go about it without coming

615
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Speaker 1: across like I'm trying to take advantage of him? Is

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Speaker 1: there another path that I'm not even thinking of here?

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Speaker 1: This kind of disturbs me almost that it's like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: you can just be like, hey, I want to live

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Speaker 1: with you, but I don't make that as much money

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Speaker 1: as you. So I don't know if I can split

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Speaker 1: the bills fifty fifty. I read I would want to,

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Speaker 1: and I would if I could, but I can't. Is

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Speaker 1: that a deal breaker for us living together?

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Speaker 2: Right? Is there something that you want to work out?

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Speaker 2: Do you want me just to save on the side

626
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Speaker 2: more if I can when I can, Like, are we

627
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Speaker 2: waiting until I can or are we gonna like do

628
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Speaker 2: something else?

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Speaker 1: And if he's immediately like oof, gold digger, then it's

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Speaker 1: just like, okay, well, clearly, yeah, you're not even mature

631
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Speaker 1: enough to be in a relationship because that's not what

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Speaker 1: I'm doing.

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Speaker 2: I feel like you'll understand. And I feel like if

634
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Speaker 2: you're already over there all the time, he's gonna be like, okay,

635
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Speaker 2: you don't contribute to bills now.

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Speaker 1: So Alexis is right. At least it's not Benjamin Button

637
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Speaker 1: or Ben's boon. So, and there's an edit here to

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Speaker 1: clarify my boyfriend and I have great communication. I don't

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00:28:05,840 --> 00:28:09,159
Speaker 1: know about that. The issue here. The issue here is

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Speaker 1: how to broach this communication with him, not the fact

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Speaker 1: that we don't communicate at all.

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Speaker 3: I'm irked because similar words so synonyms for brooch, bring up, grace, introduced,

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Speaker 3: talk about mention, touch on, repeat words. That's fine.

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Speaker 2: I had one where she started a free conversation with

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Speaker 2: so you know what, legit Every sentence was.

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Speaker 3: Mentally put forward, propound, propose, suggest, submit.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, broach. It's a lot of broaching. It is a

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Speaker 1: lot approaching, and there's nothing legally wrong with it. It's

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00:28:41,800 --> 00:28:44,640
Speaker 1: a lot anyway. Let's broach into some of these comments.

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Speaker 1: Comment one comment one. I was like you when I

651
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Speaker 1: moved in with my now husband, and the fairest way

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Speaker 1: to do it is proportionally. And if neither of you

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Speaker 1: can talk about this, then you are in no way

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Speaker 1: ready to live together. Oh, he says, I don't mind

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00:28:58,080 --> 00:29:00,960
Speaker 1: talking to him about it, per se. It's more how

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00:29:01,000 --> 00:29:04,160
Speaker 1: to broach it in a way that's not as blunt as, Hey,

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Speaker 1: I want to move in with you, but I can't

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00:29:05,680 --> 00:29:07,720
Speaker 1: afford to pay equally. What's wrong with that?

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00:29:07,960 --> 00:29:09,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, you don't even need to phrase it like that.

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Speaker 2: You can just be like, I really want to live

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Speaker 2: with you when you want to live together, I'm broke.

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00:29:13,960 --> 00:29:16,600
Speaker 2: Like it's just a conversation to get a timeline down.

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Speaker 2: You just need to know if you're moving in three months.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, this is not like Oh I can. If I

665
00:29:21,560 --> 00:29:24,520
Speaker 3: just procrastinate on this, it'll be better, you know, the

666
00:29:24,560 --> 00:29:26,560
Speaker 3: longer I await, maybe it'll just be a lot easier.

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Speaker 2: You guys, don't hit this in three months you're signing

668
00:29:29,160 --> 00:29:32,280
Speaker 2: another lease. You just need to know what timeline then

669
00:29:32,320 --> 00:29:33,480
Speaker 2: you can work out stuff.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I don't even know which one you're at.

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Speaker 1: Pop approach, Yeah, OPI continues, I love chat. Hey it's Dakota,

673
00:29:47,360 --> 00:29:50,320
Speaker 1: your favorite good time boy host here. We're going to

674
00:29:50,360 --> 00:29:52,440
Speaker 1: get back to the stories. But here's three minutes of

675
00:29:52,480 --> 00:29:55,440
Speaker 1: ads from our sponsors. If he were to bring up

676
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Speaker 1: moving okay, you know.

677
00:29:58,840 --> 00:29:59,920
Speaker 2: Up, she said, bring up.

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00:30:00,800 --> 00:30:03,240
Speaker 1: If he were to bring up moving in together, I'd

679
00:30:03,240 --> 00:30:06,040
Speaker 1: have no problem saying I'd love to, but this is

680
00:30:06,080 --> 00:30:08,920
Speaker 1: my financial situation. I just want to ensure there's no

681
00:30:09,000 --> 00:30:13,280
Speaker 1: feeling of me taking advantage. Smiley face comment. To find

682
00:30:13,280 --> 00:30:16,240
Speaker 1: a place you would otherwise move into after your lease expires,

683
00:30:16,320 --> 00:30:18,680
Speaker 1: talk about why this is within your budget. If he

684
00:30:18,760 --> 00:30:21,240
Speaker 1: offers you his place, then at least he opened the

685
00:30:21,320 --> 00:30:23,959
Speaker 1: door for you to discuss why you can't contribute as

686
00:30:24,000 --> 00:30:26,040
Speaker 1: much as he can. If he doesn't bring up you

687
00:30:26,160 --> 00:30:29,080
Speaker 1: moving in, ask him how long of a lease he

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Speaker 1: thinks you should get. If he still doesn't bring up

689
00:30:31,320 --> 00:30:34,040
Speaker 1: the topic of you moving in, just drop it. Don't

690
00:30:34,040 --> 00:30:40,040
Speaker 1: make it awkward. What Just freaking shut up. Just directly communicate, like, hey,

691
00:30:40,080 --> 00:30:42,960
Speaker 1: we kind of flirted about the idea of living together.

692
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Speaker 1: I'd like to live with you. I think you would

693
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Speaker 1: like me to live with you. I can't afford where

694
00:30:47,840 --> 00:30:49,440
Speaker 1: you live to split evenly?

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00:30:49,680 --> 00:30:51,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, you and me live together?

696
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Speaker 2: Who and the season?

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00:30:53,320 --> 00:30:54,880
Speaker 3: Stop broaching around the bush?

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00:30:55,040 --> 00:31:00,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, beaten around the brooch. Just do it. And if

699
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Speaker 1: he's like, oh, yeah, I mean that doesn't really feel fair,

700
00:31:03,080 --> 00:31:05,680
Speaker 1: then you go, yeah, then my thoughts exactly.

701
00:31:05,760 --> 00:31:07,320
Speaker 2: Then I'll move into a cheaper place.

702
00:31:07,680 --> 00:31:12,560
Speaker 1: Great done, mission accomplished. Opie says, I won't be moving

703
00:31:12,720 --> 00:31:15,800
Speaker 1: otherwise if my lease expires. My place is perfect for

704
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Speaker 1: me in the short term for quite a few reasons.

705
00:31:17,720 --> 00:31:19,920
Speaker 1: So I'd just be renewing my lease and we do

706
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Speaker 1: have an update. Do that.

707
00:31:22,080 --> 00:31:24,680
Speaker 2: But no, but she should still ask, she should still

708
00:31:24,680 --> 00:31:27,200
Speaker 2: get a timeline. We knew that she wasn't gonna probably

709
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Speaker 2: move otherwise.

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Speaker 1: It's brooch a clock.

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Speaker 2: It's just about getting the timeline so she knows to

712
00:31:32,400 --> 00:31:34,840
Speaker 2: renew a lease or not? Really nothing crazy.

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Speaker 1: We gotta we gotta dip our toes into the brooch pool.

714
00:31:38,200 --> 00:31:41,200
Speaker 2: Breach the brooch says, so I know when to do.

715
00:31:41,680 --> 00:31:44,880
Speaker 1: Need more words that rhyme with brooch coach, It's time

716
00:31:44,920 --> 00:31:49,800
Speaker 1: to approach the brooch coach. Coach, tell coach, maybe we

717
00:31:49,840 --> 00:31:52,800
Speaker 1: need to change our ideas about our brooch approach.

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Speaker 3: Just go in like a hammer and squish that broach.

719
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Speaker 1: A gentle hammer, a hammer that that loves Shilah Booth. Well,

720
00:32:01,760 --> 00:32:04,960
Speaker 1: the hammer pulled me off the ground, okay, anyway, two

721
00:32:05,000 --> 00:32:07,920
Speaker 1: weeks later he got two weeks. As mentioned in the

722
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Speaker 1: first post, both my boyfriend and I have been hinting

723
00:32:11,000 --> 00:32:14,880
Speaker 1: around the topic but hadn't directly discussed moving in together.

724
00:32:15,160 --> 00:32:17,200
Speaker 1: I was still on the fence about bringing it up

725
00:32:17,240 --> 00:32:19,760
Speaker 1: myself when my boyfriend made a comment about how he's

726
00:32:19,800 --> 00:32:22,240
Speaker 1: excited for us to live together. One day, I just

727
00:32:22,280 --> 00:32:24,960
Speaker 1: responded with, well, do you want to My lease is

728
00:32:25,080 --> 00:32:27,440
Speaker 1: up in July and he said that he did. It

729
00:32:27,520 --> 00:32:29,680
Speaker 1: was before work when it happened, So we left it

730
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Speaker 1: at that for the day and got together that evening

731
00:32:32,080 --> 00:32:34,440
Speaker 1: to work out details. I expressed to him at that

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Speaker 1: point that while I would love living with him, that

733
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Speaker 1: my concern was that I wouldn't be able to contribute

734
00:32:39,360 --> 00:32:42,280
Speaker 1: equally and I didn't want him feeling taken advantage of.

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Speaker 1: He in turn expressed that he'd never want to put

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Speaker 1: me in a bad position financially, and that we could

737
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Speaker 1: easily figure out something that would be fair while still

738
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Speaker 1: putting me in a better financial position.

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Speaker 2: This is the most non issue story ever.

740
00:32:54,360 --> 00:32:56,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, this was just.

741
00:32:56,320 --> 00:32:58,920
Speaker 2: Like I love when it's like, if you communicate, everything

742
00:32:58,960 --> 00:32:59,560
Speaker 2: gets solved.

743
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Speaker 1: I want to broach, but I'm afraid that my broaching

744
00:33:03,680 --> 00:33:07,440
Speaker 1: would be received as if a roach.

745
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Speaker 3: Oh, he just a broach, your partner.

746
00:33:10,440 --> 00:33:12,080
Speaker 2: The roach approached with a brooch.

747
00:33:12,560 --> 00:33:15,640
Speaker 1: Yes, put me in coach. How did that roach afford

748
00:33:15,760 --> 00:33:20,000
Speaker 1: such broach from the world, I never know. M We

749
00:33:20,120 --> 00:33:22,240
Speaker 1: ended up deciding we'd go in with a lump sum

750
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Speaker 1: monthly that I'll pay him to cover all the costs,

751
00:33:25,560 --> 00:33:28,640
Speaker 1: rather than splitting bills. The monthly amount he offered it first,

752
00:33:28,640 --> 00:33:30,800
Speaker 1: I actually upped because I didn't think he was being

753
00:33:30,840 --> 00:33:33,040
Speaker 1: fair to himself and it was still less than what

754
00:33:33,080 --> 00:33:35,160
Speaker 1: I pay now. He seemed happy with that, and it

755
00:33:35,240 --> 00:33:38,640
Speaker 1: definitely works for me. He keeps mentioning how excited he

756
00:33:38,720 --> 00:33:41,080
Speaker 1: is to move in together, and came to my apartment

757
00:33:41,160 --> 00:33:43,600
Speaker 1: last week to help me clean for photos to show it.

758
00:33:43,680 --> 00:33:46,440
Speaker 1: We're deciding together that what will keep out of my

759
00:33:46,600 --> 00:33:49,360
Speaker 1: furniture versus his, what we'll get rid of, and what

760
00:33:49,400 --> 00:33:51,920
Speaker 1: we're going to store. He's also mentioned a couple of

761
00:33:52,000 --> 00:33:54,479
Speaker 1: renovations he wants to get done around the condo, So

762
00:33:54,520 --> 00:33:56,360
Speaker 1: we're going to go together to pick stuff out and

763
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Speaker 1: make it a summer project.

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Speaker 2: I really wanted you to do something about broach.

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00:34:01,560 --> 00:34:03,400
Speaker 1: That would simply be a broach too far.

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Speaker 2: Never never approach too far.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so, folks, what have we learned here today? We've

768
00:34:10,360 --> 00:34:12,720
Speaker 1: learned sometimes you just got to broach.

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Speaker 2: Communicate, broach, broach the brooch out of it.

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Speaker 3: Man, if you were playing that game, I said earlier.

771
00:34:21,200 --> 00:34:23,000
Speaker 2: That's just because of us saying it.

772
00:34:23,560 --> 00:34:26,239
Speaker 3: That's true. I said, how many Opie says it, or

773
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Speaker 3: you can do how many times we say it and

774
00:34:28,400 --> 00:34:29,640
Speaker 3: then make it really fun.

775
00:34:29,760 --> 00:34:31,600
Speaker 1: They don't want to send anyone to the hospital.

776
00:34:31,719 --> 00:34:32,480
Speaker 2: Let's not do that.

777
00:34:32,719 --> 00:34:33,440
Speaker 3: Maybe they're drinking.

778
00:34:33,600 --> 00:34:36,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, carved marmalade says, girls overthinking.

779
00:34:37,040 --> 00:34:41,759
Speaker 1: Yep, Yeah, that was that was pure overthink just broach it.

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Speaker 2: I can see how that would be like an intimidating

781
00:34:44,040 --> 00:34:48,160
Speaker 2: thing to an intimidating thing to broach it's just like

782
00:34:48,360 --> 00:34:51,560
Speaker 2: you just gotta like suck it up and ask you.

783
00:34:51,560 --> 00:34:54,200
Speaker 1: Had already basically talked about.

784
00:34:53,920 --> 00:34:56,160
Speaker 2: It if you guys have already been hinting at him.

785
00:34:56,760 --> 00:35:00,479
Speaker 1: There's an edit here. Wow, this really blew up. Thanks

786
00:35:00,520 --> 00:35:03,279
Speaker 1: to everyone for the super kind words. To address the

787
00:35:03,320 --> 00:35:06,640
Speaker 1: most common comment here, we did discuss splitting proportionally, but

788
00:35:06,719 --> 00:35:09,240
Speaker 1: ultimately decided to go with a lump sum. I definitely

789
00:35:09,280 --> 00:35:12,239
Speaker 1: see benefits to proportional splitting, but for where we are

790
00:35:12,320 --> 00:35:15,880
Speaker 1: right now and my financial situation, I prefer a lump sum.

791
00:35:16,239 --> 00:35:19,279
Speaker 1: It's still significantly less than what I'm paying now, and

792
00:35:19,360 --> 00:35:22,279
Speaker 1: it won't fluctuate as the weather changes, so I can

793
00:35:22,320 --> 00:35:25,120
Speaker 1: count on what I owe monthly not changing. Many people

794
00:35:25,160 --> 00:35:28,399
Speaker 1: have mentioned chores as well. My boyfriend and I tend

795
00:35:28,400 --> 00:35:30,759
Speaker 1: to do chores together. I mean, right now, with two

796
00:35:30,800 --> 00:35:33,919
Speaker 1: separate places, we each have our things that are more

797
00:35:34,000 --> 00:35:36,719
Speaker 1: our responsibility, but when I've stayed with him for a

798
00:35:36,760 --> 00:35:39,920
Speaker 1: stretch of time, we've just balanced together. He doesn't know

799
00:35:39,960 --> 00:35:41,960
Speaker 1: how to cook, but wants to learn so we cook

800
00:35:42,040 --> 00:35:44,799
Speaker 1: meals together and then clean up together. We will each

801
00:35:44,840 --> 00:35:47,600
Speaker 1: have our own washroom at his place. I've already taken

802
00:35:47,640 --> 00:35:50,680
Speaker 1: over the main washroom, and he uses the own suite.

803
00:35:50,800 --> 00:35:53,279
Speaker 1: He volunteers at a local animal shelter once a week,

804
00:35:53,400 --> 00:35:55,840
Speaker 1: so those days I clean and cook if I'm around.

805
00:35:55,920 --> 00:35:58,880
Speaker 1: But generally speaking, we just treat doing chores as an

806
00:35:58,880 --> 00:36:02,520
Speaker 1: opportunity to spend time I'm together and be productive. And

807
00:36:02,560 --> 00:36:04,480
Speaker 1: that is the end of that story. What a good

808
00:36:04,520 --> 00:36:07,200
Speaker 1: way to do chores, Yes, what a good way to

809
00:36:07,200 --> 00:36:10,359
Speaker 1: broach doing chores? What a good brooch We could all

810
00:36:10,360 --> 00:36:10,959
Speaker 1: broach more.

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00:36:11,400 --> 00:36:12,400
Speaker 2: We should broach more.

812
00:36:12,800 --> 00:36:16,759
Speaker 1: I haven't broached in so long. You should broachroach. I'm

813
00:36:16,800 --> 00:36:21,040
Speaker 1: broaching right after work today. Permission to approach, permission denied,

814
00:36:21,160 --> 00:36:21,960
Speaker 1: Permission broached.

815
00:36:23,680 --> 00:36:24,960
Speaker 3: That's the end of that story, it is.

816
00:36:25,040 --> 00:36:26,680
Speaker 1: It's the end of that story. It's the end of

817
00:36:26,680 --> 00:36:27,239
Speaker 1: that But.

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00:36:27,200 --> 00:36:31,320
Speaker 2: We shall broach another right now. Everybody's so nice hypening

819
00:36:31,360 --> 00:36:34,560
Speaker 2: me up. You guys my hair. On days that I

820
00:36:34,600 --> 00:36:39,160
Speaker 2: haven't washed, I refuse to eat my girlfriend's cold salad,

821
00:36:39,239 --> 00:36:40,359
Speaker 2: and it made her mad.

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00:36:40,600 --> 00:36:44,040
Speaker 1: I'm a hot salad guy. Only I need my salad

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00:36:44,400 --> 00:36:45,280
Speaker 1: boiling hot.

824
00:36:45,640 --> 00:36:49,040
Speaker 2: Yesterday I went ice skating with my girlfriend. Tuesday is

825
00:36:49,080 --> 00:36:51,600
Speaker 2: one of her days for dinner, so she made chicken salad.

826
00:36:51,760 --> 00:36:54,399
Speaker 2: When I saw the chicken salad, I admit I made

827
00:36:54,440 --> 00:36:57,759
Speaker 2: a face. She was like, what, what's the problem? By

828
00:36:57,800 --> 00:37:00,399
Speaker 2: the way this comes from, it's too cold for that.

829
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Speaker 2: And if you want to submit your own stories, go

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Speaker 2: to the r slash Okay storytime subredded.

831
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Speaker 3: I'm Carly, I'm Dakota, I'm Keon.

832
00:37:08,200 --> 00:37:10,400
Speaker 2: And we're here to give good advice goofily, but we

833
00:37:10,440 --> 00:37:12,319
Speaker 2: don't have all the answers. We only know what we

834
00:37:12,320 --> 00:37:13,799
Speaker 2: would do. Let us know what you would do in

835
00:37:13,800 --> 00:37:14,280
Speaker 2: the comments.

836
00:37:14,600 --> 00:37:17,920
Speaker 1: And chicken salad's not salad, it's chicken salad.

837
00:37:18,120 --> 00:37:21,560
Speaker 2: It's different and also usually served cold.

838
00:37:21,880 --> 00:37:25,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, and like it's a big pile of goop, not

839
00:37:25,000 --> 00:37:26,600
Speaker 1: not a salad, butto pizzas.

840
00:37:27,120 --> 00:37:29,359
Speaker 2: I said that we were outside in the cold all

841
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Speaker 2: afternoon and I wasn't really in the mood for cold food.

842
00:37:33,120 --> 00:37:36,200
Speaker 2: She said, we're inside, the heat is set to seventy

843
00:37:36,320 --> 00:37:39,640
Speaker 2: four and we're both wearing warm, dry clothes, so it

844
00:37:39,719 --> 00:37:42,800
Speaker 2: was plenty warm enough to eat the salad. I said, sure,

845
00:37:43,080 --> 00:37:45,400
Speaker 2: but I just wanted something warm to heat me up

846
00:37:45,400 --> 00:37:48,680
Speaker 2: on the inside. You're complaining about the meal your girlfriend

847
00:37:48,680 --> 00:37:49,000
Speaker 2: made you.

848
00:37:49,480 --> 00:37:53,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, I get where you're coming from. But

849
00:37:53,640 --> 00:37:57,319
Speaker 1: the way you broached this not a great tactic, not

850
00:37:57,400 --> 00:37:58,040
Speaker 1: a great brooch.

851
00:37:58,360 --> 00:38:01,759
Speaker 2: She said that was ridiculous because my internal temperature is

852
00:38:01,840 --> 00:38:04,040
Speaker 2: in the nineties and my insides are at plenty of hot.

853
00:38:04,080 --> 00:38:06,760
Speaker 3: Okay, there's no way we're having an argument.

854
00:38:07,480 --> 00:38:11,640
Speaker 1: She's also being a little bit well, he's ridiculous. No,

855
00:38:12,800 --> 00:38:14,440
Speaker 1: but to be like I want to warm up on

856
00:38:14,440 --> 00:38:17,200
Speaker 1: the inside and then be like, well, your internal body

857
00:38:17,200 --> 00:38:19,520
Speaker 1: temperature is already warm. It's like I feel like.

858
00:38:19,600 --> 00:38:21,560
Speaker 2: It's more like, if you really want to warm up,

859
00:38:21,600 --> 00:38:23,600
Speaker 2: get up and make yourself something warm. I've made you

860
00:38:23,640 --> 00:38:26,600
Speaker 2: this chicken salad, Eat your danging chicken salad, or go

861
00:38:26,719 --> 00:38:27,560
Speaker 2: make yourself some soup.

862
00:38:27,640 --> 00:38:29,920
Speaker 1: You could have just made a cup of tea or something.

863
00:38:30,120 --> 00:38:33,000
Speaker 2: You know, I don't need to be could just trapping

864
00:38:33,080 --> 00:38:33,760
Speaker 2: on her salad?

865
00:38:33,840 --> 00:38:35,200
Speaker 1: Could you drink some warm water?

866
00:38:35,680 --> 00:38:38,759
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's that easy. At this point, we were going

867
00:38:38,760 --> 00:38:41,359
Speaker 2: in circles. You really had to go back and forth

868
00:38:41,400 --> 00:38:43,200
Speaker 2: on that. More so, I just said I was going

869
00:38:43,280 --> 00:38:45,239
Speaker 2: to heat up some soup and told her to go

870
00:38:45,280 --> 00:38:47,319
Speaker 2: ahead and start eating, and I'd be back in a

871
00:38:47,320 --> 00:38:47,880
Speaker 2: few minutes.

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00:38:48,360 --> 00:38:50,200
Speaker 1: Why don't you just eat both of these things?

873
00:38:50,360 --> 00:38:52,080
Speaker 2: You must up, dude, kid.

874
00:38:51,920 --> 00:38:54,399
Speaker 1: It's rude to reject a meal someone makes for you.

875
00:38:54,800 --> 00:38:56,640
Speaker 2: When I came out of a kitchen with my soup,

876
00:38:56,719 --> 00:38:59,080
Speaker 2: she was clearly upset, and she asked how I would

877
00:38:59,080 --> 00:39:01,360
Speaker 2: feel if she were few to eat what I made tomorrow,

878
00:39:01,520 --> 00:39:03,840
Speaker 2: which is today. I said I won't care, and she

879
00:39:03,920 --> 00:39:06,000
Speaker 2: said that was bs, because it's rude to turn your

880
00:39:06,040 --> 00:39:08,600
Speaker 2: nose up at something someone made for you. Was I

881
00:39:08,680 --> 00:39:11,319
Speaker 2: the a hole for not wanting cold salad after being

882
00:39:11,360 --> 00:39:12,040
Speaker 2: cold all day?

883
00:39:12,239 --> 00:39:14,680
Speaker 3: Yes, the way you went about it probably.

884
00:39:14,280 --> 00:39:16,520
Speaker 2: Because it's the question is not are you the a

885
00:39:16,560 --> 00:39:18,759
Speaker 2: hole for not wanting cold salad after being cold all day?

886
00:39:18,840 --> 00:39:21,919
Speaker 2: The question is? Am I a hole for being really

887
00:39:22,000 --> 00:39:24,120
Speaker 2: rude to my girlfriend who made me dinner after a

888
00:39:24,160 --> 00:39:25,400
Speaker 2: long day outside together.

889
00:39:25,719 --> 00:39:28,000
Speaker 3: You literally could have been like you made them for me,

890
00:39:28,239 --> 00:39:30,640
Speaker 3: Thank you. I'm gonna also go warm up soup. AM

891
00:39:30,640 --> 00:39:31,759
Speaker 3: gonna put on some up.

892
00:39:31,719 --> 00:39:34,839
Speaker 2: Your chicken salad? Who cares put it in the microwave,

893
00:39:35,200 --> 00:39:38,000
Speaker 2: But like, take care of that yourself, don't come at

894
00:39:38,080 --> 00:39:38,479
Speaker 2: her meal.

895
00:39:38,800 --> 00:39:41,640
Speaker 1: I do think it's fair that. Yeah, what Shani Op

896
00:39:41,760 --> 00:39:44,160
Speaker 1: says Op and his girlfriend are both so annoyed. Yes,

897
00:39:44,280 --> 00:39:46,840
Speaker 1: I agree. I agree with that they're both annoying.

898
00:39:46,920 --> 00:39:50,000
Speaker 3: She said, you have the internal temperature of ninety so.

899
00:39:50,200 --> 00:39:51,880
Speaker 2: I think she was just coming back at him with

900
00:39:51,960 --> 00:39:55,239
Speaker 2: the sash. She was reciving no here that he deserves it.

901
00:39:55,280 --> 00:39:57,360
Speaker 3: Then it's it's just easy.

902
00:39:57,520 --> 00:39:59,040
Speaker 2: We didn't hear the tone that he said it in.

903
00:39:59,120 --> 00:39:59,960
Speaker 2: I bet it was annoying.

904
00:40:00,040 --> 00:40:01,560
Speaker 3: I bet it was very annoying. He's like, oh, I

905
00:40:01,600 --> 00:40:03,160
Speaker 3: don't want that.

906
00:40:03,160 --> 00:40:06,640
Speaker 2: That look, make yourself some tea. Then your body's warm.

907
00:40:06,719 --> 00:40:09,279
Speaker 3: But also it's so, how is this like the first

908
00:40:09,320 --> 00:40:12,319
Speaker 3: time you guys like clash heads about food? Like I

909
00:40:12,320 --> 00:40:15,279
Speaker 3: always ask Cardly, I always ask Carly, hey, what do

910
00:40:15,320 --> 00:40:17,080
Speaker 3: you want to eat? Or like, what do you want?

911
00:40:17,400 --> 00:40:19,840
Speaker 3: And it's like, fairly, I just made you something.

912
00:40:19,840 --> 00:40:22,479
Speaker 2: Though you'd never be like I really didn't want no.

913
00:40:22,400 --> 00:40:23,839
Speaker 3: But the thing is you would also want you would

914
00:40:23,880 --> 00:40:25,520
Speaker 3: you would also tell me, hey, I'm gonna make chicken

915
00:40:25,520 --> 00:40:26,560
Speaker 3: salad and that's amazing.

916
00:40:26,960 --> 00:40:27,640
Speaker 2: Maybe she did.

917
00:40:27,880 --> 00:40:28,560
Speaker 3: She probably did.

918
00:40:28,640 --> 00:40:31,320
Speaker 2: It's very weird. Is ungrateful? And I do?

919
00:40:31,600 --> 00:40:34,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, that that's the whole vibe.

920
00:40:34,040 --> 00:40:37,440
Speaker 3: It's a okay, you want to be entitled to food?

921
00:40:37,680 --> 00:40:37,920
Speaker 1: I do.

922
00:40:38,040 --> 00:40:39,920
Speaker 2: So Vella says you're the a hole for how he

923
00:40:40,080 --> 00:40:41,360
Speaker 2: broached the topic with it.

924
00:40:41,560 --> 00:40:44,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, exactly, you broached that very poorly. That was the

925
00:40:44,040 --> 00:40:48,359
Speaker 1: beginner's broach broach. I will say, I don't think op

926
00:40:48,520 --> 00:40:51,759
Speaker 1: would care if his girlfriend didn't want to eat the

927
00:40:51,840 --> 00:40:54,480
Speaker 1: meal he cooked, because it doesn't sound like he's aware

928
00:40:54,600 --> 00:40:55,719
Speaker 1: of that being a thing.

929
00:40:56,040 --> 00:41:01,000
Speaker 2: Well, we're gonna find out from the next day Wednesday,

930
00:41:01,160 --> 00:41:03,560
Speaker 2: after I served the plates, my girlfriend said she didn't

931
00:41:03,600 --> 00:41:05,880
Speaker 2: want pasta and was going to make a salad. I

932
00:41:06,000 --> 00:41:07,759
Speaker 2: was pretty sure she was gonna do this and it

933
00:41:07,760 --> 00:41:09,799
Speaker 2: didn't bother me. I waited for her to come back

934
00:41:09,800 --> 00:41:12,040
Speaker 2: to start eating, and when she sat down, I tried

935
00:41:12,080 --> 00:41:14,120
Speaker 2: to talk to her about her day. She asked if

936
00:41:14,160 --> 00:41:16,200
Speaker 2: I was trying to make a point, and I asked

937
00:41:16,200 --> 00:41:17,040
Speaker 2: what she meant.

938
00:41:16,960 --> 00:41:18,040
Speaker 3: Uh, this is so.

939
00:41:19,800 --> 00:41:25,440
Speaker 1: She has been waiting for this. Like I said, Opie

940
00:41:25,520 --> 00:41:27,440
Speaker 1: is just like, I just don't. I don't.

941
00:41:27,640 --> 00:41:29,960
Speaker 2: The thing is, though Opie was warned, and I feel

942
00:41:30,000 --> 00:41:32,880
Speaker 2: like it is still bothering Opie and he's just like,

943
00:41:33,239 --> 00:41:35,880
Speaker 2: I'm it's not bothering me. You wrote a whole update

944
00:41:35,920 --> 00:41:37,200
Speaker 2: about it. Sounds like it's bothered.

945
00:41:37,239 --> 00:41:39,360
Speaker 1: Well now at this point, it's her wanting you to

946
00:41:39,440 --> 00:41:40,880
Speaker 1: be bothered, is what would bother me?

947
00:41:41,400 --> 00:41:43,440
Speaker 2: She asked if I cared that she wasn't going to

948
00:41:43,440 --> 00:41:45,360
Speaker 2: eat when I made I said that I didn't and

949
00:41:45,440 --> 00:41:48,279
Speaker 2: would have it for lunch. She got frustrated, focused on

950
00:41:48,360 --> 00:41:51,160
Speaker 2: her salad and wouldn't engage with me. After dinner, I

951
00:41:51,200 --> 00:41:53,520
Speaker 2: said we shouldn't make dinner for each other anymore. She

952
00:41:53,640 --> 00:41:55,879
Speaker 2: asked why I thought that, and I said, it's clear

953
00:41:55,920 --> 00:41:58,040
Speaker 2: that she gets upset when she makes food for someone

954
00:41:58,080 --> 00:41:59,759
Speaker 2: and they don't eat it. It would be better for

955
00:41:59,840 --> 00:42:02,120
Speaker 2: us just to make separate meals so we each know

956
00:42:02,280 --> 00:42:04,440
Speaker 2: we will get what we want and no one's feelings

957
00:42:04,480 --> 00:42:07,200
Speaker 2: would be hurt. Oh my god, guys, just talk about

958
00:42:07,200 --> 00:42:09,360
Speaker 2: what you're gonna make to go to Carly and Keon

959
00:42:09,880 --> 00:42:13,320
Speaker 2: discuss the challenges of income disparity and moving in together,

960
00:42:13,520 --> 00:42:18,160
Speaker 2: debating how to approach the topic diplomatically. Is this still

961
00:42:18,200 --> 00:42:19,040
Speaker 2: from the last.

962
00:42:18,800 --> 00:42:22,000
Speaker 1: Time some diplomatic broaching diplomatic broaching?

963
00:42:22,160 --> 00:42:25,600
Speaker 2: Yes, an approach bad brooch, says the black.

964
00:42:25,560 --> 00:42:28,280
Speaker 1: Yes, we're really creating a brood of brooches.

965
00:42:28,440 --> 00:42:32,000
Speaker 2: Yes, this sounds like we are just inspiraling.

966
00:42:32,080 --> 00:42:36,239
Speaker 1: Now I agree with that and it's like, yeah, she

967
00:42:36,440 --> 00:42:38,600
Speaker 1: just she wants, she wants, she wants to make this

968
00:42:38,640 --> 00:42:42,160
Speaker 1: fight last the whole other day. It's like, I truly

969
00:42:42,239 --> 00:42:44,120
Speaker 1: just didn't care. I just don't care.

970
00:42:44,520 --> 00:42:47,360
Speaker 2: I like something's been brun with y'all for a while.

971
00:42:47,400 --> 00:42:49,560
Speaker 2: Because this is about to spiral even more.

972
00:42:49,640 --> 00:42:52,000
Speaker 1: It's gotta be the way that you reacted to the chicken.

973
00:42:52,080 --> 00:42:55,160
Speaker 1: Sald had to be like, so, like, how bad did

974
00:42:55,200 --> 00:42:56,880
Speaker 1: you react?

975
00:42:57,000 --> 00:42:59,239
Speaker 3: Like I guarantee you didn't say thank you for making this.

976
00:42:59,360 --> 00:43:01,160
Speaker 3: It's like, oh, oh, you know, I'll have that later.

977
00:43:01,280 --> 00:43:02,319
Speaker 3: It was like, I don't want that.

978
00:43:02,600 --> 00:43:05,560
Speaker 2: He also made a comment this one got me. I said,

979
00:43:05,560 --> 00:43:07,520
Speaker 2: it's clear that she gets upset when she makes food

980
00:43:07,520 --> 00:43:09,760
Speaker 2: for someone and they don't eat. It makes it feel

981
00:43:09,800 --> 00:43:11,840
Speaker 2: to me like he's declined.

982
00:43:11,360 --> 00:43:16,000
Speaker 4: Food before, or somebody else or somebody else has I mean,

983
00:43:16,400 --> 00:43:18,160
Speaker 4: which I mean, I'm not saying that it's wrong to

984
00:43:18,200 --> 00:43:21,120
Speaker 4: decline it, but I'm back on like Keon's thing now

985
00:43:21,200 --> 00:43:22,600
Speaker 4: of like why aren't we just like.

986
00:43:22,640 --> 00:43:25,200
Speaker 2: Pre planning what we're gonna be making, Like why isn't

987
00:43:25,239 --> 00:43:27,719
Speaker 2: it like would you like this or this for this week? Yeah,

988
00:43:28,200 --> 00:43:30,000
Speaker 2: I mean, which would be a pretty easy.

989
00:43:30,040 --> 00:43:33,200
Speaker 1: I think he just broached it by being like, you

990
00:43:33,280 --> 00:43:35,960
Speaker 1: made cold slop for dinner, but that's what it sounded

991
00:43:36,120 --> 00:43:39,120
Speaker 1: like cold outside. Why would you make me cold slop?

992
00:43:40,480 --> 00:43:41,920
Speaker 1: I don't want any cold slop.

993
00:43:43,000 --> 00:43:45,920
Speaker 2: I'm guessing that's seani OPI that made his name pop approach.

994
00:43:46,840 --> 00:43:47,759
Speaker 1: Hell yeah.

995
00:43:47,840 --> 00:43:49,680
Speaker 2: She said it wasn't okay for me to make a

996
00:43:49,800 --> 00:43:53,080
Speaker 2: unilateral decision about our relationship. I said that I wasn't,

997
00:43:53,120 --> 00:43:55,080
Speaker 2: but I didn't want to cook for her anymore, or

998
00:43:55,160 --> 00:43:57,239
Speaker 2: have her cook for me if it was going to

999
00:43:57,280 --> 00:43:59,479
Speaker 2: make her upset. We kind of went round and round

1000
00:43:59,520 --> 00:44:01,439
Speaker 2: on it until the conversation petered out.

1001
00:44:01,760 --> 00:44:06,240
Speaker 1: To be honest, the just concept of making a meal,

1002
00:44:06,520 --> 00:44:09,720
Speaker 1: say it is necessarily about your relationship.

1003
00:44:09,920 --> 00:44:10,960
Speaker 3: I'm so could we.

1004
00:44:10,960 --> 00:44:13,440
Speaker 2: Not just have been like, hey, I'm really sorry. I

1005
00:44:13,480 --> 00:44:17,200
Speaker 2: know I didn't appreciate the chicken salad. I was grumpy.

1006
00:44:17,239 --> 00:44:19,960
Speaker 2: I was in the cold all day. I really appreciate

1007
00:44:19,960 --> 00:44:22,560
Speaker 2: when you cooke me food, and I'm sorry. I hope this.

1008
00:44:22,520 --> 00:44:25,279
Speaker 3: Process if the context was like, you know, you guys

1009
00:44:25,320 --> 00:44:27,200
Speaker 3: are out in like the cold all day, and you're like,

1010
00:44:27,280 --> 00:44:29,239
Speaker 3: you know, what I'm really craving right now is like

1011
00:44:29,680 --> 00:44:32,760
Speaker 3: a warm soup, and she made you the chicken salad

1012
00:44:33,160 --> 00:44:35,400
Speaker 3: or tea, like Dakota says something.

1013
00:44:35,480 --> 00:44:37,640
Speaker 2: If you could have done something, if you gave her.

1014
00:44:37,520 --> 00:44:40,600
Speaker 3: Like signs or like communicated before she made you food.

1015
00:44:40,640 --> 00:44:42,000
Speaker 3: She said, oh, I'm gonna make food, and you're like,

1016
00:44:42,040 --> 00:44:44,200
Speaker 3: I can't wait till what you know, Whatever you're making,

1017
00:44:44,320 --> 00:44:45,919
Speaker 3: I'll eat it, And then she made you chicken salad

1018
00:44:45,920 --> 00:44:47,520
Speaker 3: and you get upset. This makes sense?

1019
00:44:47,880 --> 00:44:50,560
Speaker 2: Or like Kim Roberts say, maybe do you mind if

1020
00:44:50,560 --> 00:44:53,279
Speaker 2: I saved this chicken salad for tomorrow? I'm gonna make

1021
00:44:53,320 --> 00:44:55,359
Speaker 2: myself soup, which I really want something warm.

1022
00:44:55,400 --> 00:44:57,400
Speaker 3: I need more context. Did you grab the plate of

1023
00:44:57,600 --> 00:45:01,840
Speaker 3: chicken salad and you went the trash? Now I want soup?

1024
00:45:02,200 --> 00:45:02,480
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1025
00:45:02,640 --> 00:45:06,800
Speaker 2: It feels like she's just very upset about how ungrateful

1026
00:45:06,840 --> 00:45:10,000
Speaker 2: you were, and now it is spiraling. Though. Hey, it's

1027
00:45:10,040 --> 00:45:13,040
Speaker 2: Garley Kean's go friend here. We're gonna get back to

1028
00:45:13,080 --> 00:45:16,080
Speaker 2: the stories. But here's three minutes of ads from our sponsors.

1029
00:45:16,800 --> 00:45:19,000
Speaker 2: She texted me at work Thursday that she was going

1030
00:45:19,040 --> 00:45:22,239
Speaker 2: to make salmon communication. I decided that if she tried

1031
00:45:22,280 --> 00:45:24,399
Speaker 2: to cook for me, I would just let her so

1032
00:45:24,440 --> 00:45:26,840
Speaker 2: she'd feel like she won one over me.

1033
00:45:27,000 --> 00:45:28,040
Speaker 3: Dude, you're on your high.

1034
00:45:28,480 --> 00:45:31,239
Speaker 2: Oh my god, yeah, dude, you're like going too far.

1035
00:45:31,280 --> 00:45:33,360
Speaker 2: And now that I think that was her extending and

1036
00:45:33,440 --> 00:45:36,720
Speaker 2: olive branch of like, hey, I'm gonna make salmon tonight.

1037
00:45:36,840 --> 00:45:39,640
Speaker 3: And you went, dude, I'll let you. I'll let you

1038
00:45:39,640 --> 00:45:41,920
Speaker 3: have this one. Babe, you sound so annoying.

1039
00:45:42,160 --> 00:45:44,600
Speaker 2: She makes you salmon, you better eat that dang salmon.

1040
00:45:44,640 --> 00:45:47,200
Speaker 3: Well, now that if you said this to her, that's

1041
00:45:47,200 --> 00:45:50,080
Speaker 3: salmon's be raw and poisoned.

1042
00:45:50,320 --> 00:45:51,560
Speaker 2: She's probably not making it for him.

1043
00:45:51,640 --> 00:45:52,759
Speaker 3: Yeah, he doesn't deserve it.

1044
00:45:53,040 --> 00:45:54,320
Speaker 2: If she tried to cook for me, I would just

1045
00:45:54,400 --> 00:45:56,160
Speaker 2: let her so she'd feel like she won one over

1046
00:45:56,239 --> 00:45:59,319
Speaker 2: on me, and we'd draw a line under this. We've

1047
00:45:59,360 --> 00:46:02,120
Speaker 2: got a little more. Actually, we've got a good amount more.

1048
00:46:02,200 --> 00:46:04,040
Speaker 1: And all the people in the comments also being like

1049
00:46:04,080 --> 00:46:06,359
Speaker 1: do you mind, Like, hey, that's great, do you mind

1050
00:46:06,360 --> 00:46:08,239
Speaker 1: if I warm up? It's like, this isn't even a

1051
00:46:08,320 --> 00:46:10,160
Speaker 1: thing you should have to ask a question about.

1052
00:46:10,239 --> 00:46:10,600
Speaker 3: Crazy.

1053
00:46:10,680 --> 00:46:12,920
Speaker 1: You just go, oh, great, you made the chicken salad.

1054
00:46:12,920 --> 00:46:15,000
Speaker 1: I'm gonna make some soup too, because I just feel cold.

1055
00:46:15,080 --> 00:46:15,680
Speaker 3: Do you want soup?

1056
00:46:15,760 --> 00:46:18,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, like soup with it, have tea with it, have

1057
00:46:18,120 --> 00:46:19,080
Speaker 2: something with this.

1058
00:46:19,160 --> 00:46:21,320
Speaker 1: And then she's like you're gonna make soup white? Is

1059
00:46:21,360 --> 00:46:23,000
Speaker 1: the chicken salad not good enough? Then it's like, okay,

1060
00:46:23,000 --> 00:46:25,279
Speaker 1: what are we talking about? But it's right, just do

1061
00:46:25,400 --> 00:46:25,759
Speaker 1: the thing.

1062
00:46:26,160 --> 00:46:28,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, if you calmly explain, I just want something warm

1063
00:46:29,040 --> 00:46:31,840
Speaker 2: to go with it. We're still appreciative of the salad,

1064
00:46:32,000 --> 00:46:34,560
Speaker 2: then sure she's overreacting. But if you were fully just

1065
00:46:34,600 --> 00:46:38,440
Speaker 2: like you made chicken salad, it's cold outside.

1066
00:46:38,719 --> 00:46:42,920
Speaker 1: This this relationship feels really healthy to me. We should

1067
00:46:42,960 --> 00:46:45,640
Speaker 1: we should grow too bad, super healthy.

1068
00:46:45,880 --> 00:46:47,640
Speaker 3: This is peeving me.

1069
00:46:47,920 --> 00:46:49,000
Speaker 2: Are you ready for this one?

1070
00:46:49,160 --> 00:46:50,200
Speaker 3: I'm oh no.

1071
00:46:50,520 --> 00:46:53,560
Speaker 2: She ended up making salmon only for herself, which is

1072
00:46:53,600 --> 00:46:57,439
Speaker 2: what we talked about, right right, which I was surprised

1073
00:46:57,520 --> 00:46:59,960
Speaker 2: by because I was expecting her to try to convince

1074
00:47:00,160 --> 00:47:02,160
Speaker 2: me to have some Why were you expecting?

1075
00:47:02,200 --> 00:47:05,440
Speaker 3: But also didn't you clearly state we're not going to

1076
00:47:05,480 --> 00:47:06,800
Speaker 3: make food for each other anymore?

1077
00:47:07,120 --> 00:47:08,279
Speaker 4: It was your decision?

1078
00:47:08,520 --> 00:47:15,399
Speaker 2: Oh dude, me, now you're I made myself a quick

1079
00:47:15,440 --> 00:47:17,600
Speaker 2: omelet and sat down with her. She asked if I

1080
00:47:17,640 --> 00:47:19,839
Speaker 2: was upset she didn't cook for me, and I said, no,

1081
00:47:20,000 --> 00:47:20,879
Speaker 2: clearly you were.

1082
00:47:21,280 --> 00:47:23,560
Speaker 1: You sounded kind of I mean, I don't even know

1083
00:47:23,600 --> 00:47:26,120
Speaker 1: if it's upset, but it's like, why are you playing

1084
00:47:26,239 --> 00:47:28,440
Speaker 1: like a psychological game about.

1085
00:47:28,160 --> 00:47:30,200
Speaker 3: This is literally psychological warfare.

1086
00:47:30,480 --> 00:47:31,360
Speaker 2: They're both playing.

1087
00:47:31,640 --> 00:47:34,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, you guys are like at like, like, you guys

1088
00:47:34,200 --> 00:47:37,520
Speaker 1: are having a cold war over cold chicken salad.

1089
00:47:37,640 --> 00:47:40,720
Speaker 2: Dude war again, she accused me of making a point.

1090
00:47:41,160 --> 00:47:43,320
Speaker 2: She asked if I was going to cook for her Friday,

1091
00:47:43,360 --> 00:47:44,319
Speaker 2: and I said, no, what.

1092
00:47:44,360 --> 00:47:47,320
Speaker 1: Is this accusations about making points? She's just asking you

1093
00:47:47,360 --> 00:47:50,960
Speaker 1: a question and then you respond, and she's like, oh, yeah, yeah.

1094
00:47:50,480 --> 00:47:52,920
Speaker 3: It's great. It's literally eye for an eye and then

1095
00:47:52,920 --> 00:47:55,120
Speaker 3: it's been Now it's another ee for an eye. Let's

1096
00:47:55,120 --> 00:47:56,400
Speaker 3: do it. You know what, Let's let's do it you

1097
00:47:56,520 --> 00:47:56,799
Speaker 3: for year.

1098
00:47:56,840 --> 00:47:59,040
Speaker 2: Now, these guys are going to break up over cold

1099
00:47:59,160 --> 00:47:59,840
Speaker 2: chicken salad.

1100
00:48:00,160 --> 00:48:01,600
Speaker 1: Yes, I hope they do.

1101
00:48:02,040 --> 00:48:05,800
Speaker 2: They should, They fully should. She was put out Friday.

1102
00:48:05,920 --> 00:48:08,000
Speaker 2: She was upset that I made only enough curry for

1103
00:48:08,080 --> 00:48:10,839
Speaker 2: one person and called me greedy. At this point, I'm

1104
00:48:10,960 --> 00:48:14,120
Speaker 2: over at all, so I just ignored her so healthy.

1105
00:48:14,520 --> 00:48:17,080
Speaker 3: I am tired of both of you. Break up.

1106
00:48:17,280 --> 00:48:20,759
Speaker 1: You're just a little curry goblin. We're just gobling up

1107
00:48:20,760 --> 00:48:22,440
Speaker 1: all of the curry in the world just for you,

1108
00:48:22,680 --> 00:48:25,359
Speaker 1: a plate of one little curry boy.

1109
00:48:25,680 --> 00:48:29,520
Speaker 2: And we have some comments. Comment to one, this is

1110
00:48:29,719 --> 00:48:33,319
Speaker 2: stupid mad. No, just put your ego aside and hash

1111
00:48:33,360 --> 00:48:37,440
Speaker 2: it out. It's not worth deteriorating a relationship over someone replies,

1112
00:48:37,680 --> 00:48:40,560
Speaker 2: I mean the girlfriend seems pretty immature too. She tried

1113
00:48:40,560 --> 00:48:42,879
Speaker 2: to make him angry on several occasions now rather than

1114
00:48:42,920 --> 00:48:44,000
Speaker 2: just having a conversation.

1115
00:48:44,400 --> 00:48:46,719
Speaker 1: Yeah, it does. She's like, she's just mad that you're

1116
00:48:46,800 --> 00:48:47,920
Speaker 1: not upset. Yeah.

1117
00:48:48,120 --> 00:48:50,839
Speaker 2: I'm not saying but the girlfriend isn't the right I'm

1118
00:48:50,880 --> 00:48:53,480
Speaker 2: just saying that I think you started this, ope, so

1119
00:48:53,920 --> 00:48:58,600
Speaker 2: you should maybe help initiate the conversation because you're both

1120
00:48:58,640 --> 00:49:00,560
Speaker 2: pretty petty and I think you started it.

1121
00:49:01,600 --> 00:49:04,000
Speaker 3: I was okay, she started it. She made chicken salad.

1122
00:49:04,800 --> 00:49:06,879
Speaker 2: They are, but I agree with de Red. They're trying

1123
00:49:06,920 --> 00:49:09,040
Speaker 2: to outpetty each other. That's what it feels like.

1124
00:49:09,120 --> 00:49:10,920
Speaker 3: Let's play the song the Chinese chicken salad.

1125
00:49:11,000 --> 00:49:13,080
Speaker 2: So if you don't want to break up over chicken salad,

1126
00:49:13,480 --> 00:49:15,800
Speaker 2: maybe go to your girlfriend and be like, I'm really

1127
00:49:15,840 --> 00:49:18,480
Speaker 2: sorry that I didn't eat your chicken salad. Can we

1128
00:49:18,640 --> 00:49:19,920
Speaker 2: just like talk?

1129
00:49:20,320 --> 00:49:22,839
Speaker 3: You know what you should do? You should broach it, Yes,

1130
00:49:23,320 --> 00:49:25,280
Speaker 3: you should broach this with chicken salad.

1131
00:49:25,719 --> 00:49:27,680
Speaker 2: Make her chicken salad and leave it out on the

1132
00:49:27,680 --> 00:49:28,480
Speaker 2: table for her.

1133
00:49:28,760 --> 00:49:31,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, I made your chicken salad chicken China.

1134
00:49:31,920 --> 00:49:34,560
Speaker 2: First she waited until he had made a meal. Then

1135
00:49:34,640 --> 00:49:37,000
Speaker 2: she said she was going to have a salad. When

1136
00:49:37,000 --> 00:49:39,120
Speaker 2: he didn't get upset, she flat out asked him if

1137
00:49:39,120 --> 00:49:41,440
Speaker 2: it annoyed him that she didn't want the food he made.

1138
00:49:41,560 --> 00:49:44,520
Speaker 2: Then she texted him that she is making salmon, implying

1139
00:49:44,520 --> 00:49:46,879
Speaker 2: that she will be cooking dinner, but then only makes

1140
00:49:46,880 --> 00:49:49,120
Speaker 2: it for herself, and again she asks him if it

1141
00:49:49,200 --> 00:49:51,359
Speaker 2: upsets him. She is just as much an a hole

1142
00:49:51,360 --> 00:49:54,040
Speaker 2: as him. I don't see how this relationship will last.

1143
00:49:54,239 --> 00:49:56,319
Speaker 2: Someone replies, I don't get why he got voted a

1144
00:49:56,400 --> 00:49:58,880
Speaker 2: hole on the first post. Maybe making a face was

1145
00:49:58,920 --> 00:50:01,359
Speaker 2: too much, But he made what he craved himself, and

1146
00:50:01,400 --> 00:50:03,719
Speaker 2: she ate the dinner she made. I don't understand her

1147
00:50:03,800 --> 00:50:06,640
Speaker 2: over the top reaction afterwards. If it was something that

1148
00:50:06,760 --> 00:50:08,719
Speaker 2: kept happening, I get it. But once in a while,

1149
00:50:08,760 --> 00:50:11,080
Speaker 2: you're allowed to crave something else from what's on the table.

1150
00:50:11,320 --> 00:50:13,040
Speaker 2: Just make it and the rest is left over as

1151
00:50:13,080 --> 00:50:14,799
Speaker 2: they can both have later. I think it was just

1152
00:50:14,840 --> 00:50:16,120
Speaker 2: that he didn't communicate that.

1153
00:50:16,560 --> 00:50:18,399
Speaker 3: It's probably the way he went about it.

1154
00:50:18,520 --> 00:50:20,760
Speaker 2: Yeah. I think it was just the way the salmon

1155
00:50:20,800 --> 00:50:22,799
Speaker 2: thing was petty and kind of stupid. If you have

1156
00:50:22,840 --> 00:50:24,840
Speaker 2: a stocked fridge and pantry and a set of hands,

1157
00:50:24,840 --> 00:50:27,880
Speaker 2: it's not rocket science to scramble a dinner in fifteen minutes.

1158
00:50:28,120 --> 00:50:31,080
Speaker 2: I don't understand what she was trying to prove. Someone replied,

1159
00:50:31,280 --> 00:50:34,320
Speaker 2: she is hurt because he didn't understand why she felt rejected,

1160
00:50:34,400 --> 00:50:36,319
Speaker 2: so she wants to show him how it feels, and

1161
00:50:36,360 --> 00:50:38,800
Speaker 2: she doesn't believe that he doesn't care. He needs to

1162
00:50:38,840 --> 00:50:40,920
Speaker 2: sit down with her and tell her that he really

1163
00:50:40,960 --> 00:50:43,520
Speaker 2: doesn't care, and she can't expect him to read her mind,

1164
00:50:43,760 --> 00:50:46,000
Speaker 2: but that he does care whether she is hurt, which

1165
00:50:46,040 --> 00:50:48,640
Speaker 2: is why they need to discuss food choices. Oh my god,

1166
00:50:48,680 --> 00:50:49,960
Speaker 2: that's the end of that story.

1167
00:50:50,320 --> 00:50:52,160
Speaker 3: You want me to look on an update please?

1168
00:50:52,760 --> 00:50:55,920
Speaker 2: That is another These are just frustrating stories today, like

1169
00:50:55,920 --> 00:50:58,839
Speaker 2: why are we not just speaking to each other like adults.

1170
00:50:58,920 --> 00:51:01,920
Speaker 1: I think the solution is that you just moved to

1171
00:51:02,320 --> 00:51:06,359
Speaker 1: a sort of nutritional paste type of meal, you know,

1172
00:51:06,480 --> 00:51:09,680
Speaker 1: something they would give astronauts on like a deep space mission.

1173
00:51:10,120 --> 00:51:15,279
Speaker 1: Just congealed goo, you know, and then everyone is happy. Right,

1174
00:51:16,160 --> 00:51:17,799
Speaker 1: you can make the goo hot, You can make the

1175
00:51:17,800 --> 00:51:21,280
Speaker 1: gou cold. The gou doesn't mind. The gu is already made.

1176
00:51:21,719 --> 00:51:23,759
Speaker 1: You can make the gou whatever temperature you want.

1177
00:51:23,960 --> 00:51:26,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, I agree with some of those last comments, though,

1178
00:51:26,200 --> 00:51:29,000
Speaker 2: I think she truly just felt rejected, and she like

1179
00:51:29,480 --> 00:51:33,880
Speaker 2: you didn't apologize or like even try to help her rejection.

1180
00:51:34,480 --> 00:51:37,600
Speaker 2: So then she was like I yeah, like she wasn't

1181
00:51:37,680 --> 00:51:39,920
Speaker 2: right to try to reject you back, But I like,

1182
00:51:40,640 --> 00:51:42,960
Speaker 2: I think it was just because contests. Yeah, you didn't

1183
00:51:43,400 --> 00:51:46,560
Speaker 2: like acknowledge that she was able to feel hurt in

1184
00:51:46,600 --> 00:51:50,640
Speaker 2: that situation. Yeah, like you did reject her, she can

1185
00:51:50,640 --> 00:51:51,400
Speaker 2: feel rejected.

1186
00:51:51,520 --> 00:51:53,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's sort of like the same energy of like,

1187
00:51:53,520 --> 00:51:56,239
Speaker 1: well I don't care about birthdays, so I don't need

1188
00:51:56,239 --> 00:51:58,720
Speaker 1: to care about yours because I don't care about mine.

1189
00:51:58,840 --> 00:52:01,680
Speaker 1: But maybe that person does care about their birthday. Sorry,

1190
00:52:01,960 --> 00:52:03,400
Speaker 1: I would like others to care about that.

1191
00:52:03,640 --> 00:52:06,240
Speaker 3: To go down here, I think he were like response

1192
00:52:06,280 --> 00:52:07,440
Speaker 3: to a lot of people, just.

1193
00:52:07,560 --> 00:52:10,960
Speaker 1: What a funny guy? What just a funny guy and

1194
00:52:11,040 --> 00:52:13,919
Speaker 1: a funny girl? A funny guy, funny guy?

1195
00:52:14,760 --> 00:52:18,480
Speaker 3: An ass sucks? Well yeah, just the fact one said

1196
00:52:18,560 --> 00:52:21,399
Speaker 3: you sound so heartless, and he responds with sixty two

1197
00:52:21,400 --> 00:52:22,360
Speaker 3: beats per minute.

1198
00:52:23,600 --> 00:52:26,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I mean it's it really is.

1199
00:52:26,080 --> 00:52:26,319
Speaker 2: It was.

1200
00:52:26,440 --> 00:52:28,960
Speaker 1: It could have been entirely diffused just by being like, oh,

1201
00:52:29,000 --> 00:52:32,400
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, Yeah, I'm not trying to insult you or

1202
00:52:32,920 --> 00:52:36,560
Speaker 1: upset you. I just just want something warm in my belly.

1203
00:52:36,840 --> 00:52:40,400
Speaker 1: But hard not to get there when it's like, well,

1204
00:52:40,600 --> 00:52:43,680
Speaker 1: your internal body temperature is already not It's like, dude,

1205
00:52:43,760 --> 00:52:47,359
Speaker 1: come on, I wonder how I would have to argue

1206
00:52:47,400 --> 00:52:48,200
Speaker 1: with exactly.

1207
00:52:48,560 --> 00:52:51,920
Speaker 2: How reliable there's another anybody hit me.

1208
00:52:51,960 --> 00:52:55,319
Speaker 1: With your internal body temperature has to at least be

1209
00:52:55,440 --> 00:52:59,200
Speaker 1: ninety plus. I'm like, here's another arguing so hard.

1210
00:52:59,239 --> 00:53:02,960
Speaker 2: He's answering every comment like this, proving to me that

1211
00:53:03,000 --> 00:53:05,120
Speaker 2: this guy just can't self reflect.

1212
00:53:04,800 --> 00:53:06,960
Speaker 3: At all, or he just can't he can't see himself

1213
00:53:07,000 --> 00:53:07,920
Speaker 3: as like a bad guy.

1214
00:53:08,040 --> 00:53:09,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, there's no accountability.

1215
00:53:09,480 --> 00:53:11,640
Speaker 3: Here's another one. We'll see what he says. I don't

1216
00:53:11,640 --> 00:53:13,560
Speaker 3: know why you're copying it so much on here. You

1217
00:53:13,600 --> 00:53:16,120
Speaker 3: simply sound logical, and your girlfriend is more emotional, which

1218
00:53:16,160 --> 00:53:18,720
Speaker 3: causes her to act immaturely. You had a straightforward solution

1219
00:53:18,760 --> 00:53:20,880
Speaker 3: to avoid this problem in the future by not cooking

1220
00:53:20,880 --> 00:53:23,520
Speaker 3: for each other and try talking about it. But go nowhere.

1221
00:53:23,640 --> 00:53:25,960
Speaker 3: People think so differently. I don't see the problem with

1222
00:53:26,040 --> 00:53:28,440
Speaker 3: you viewing this whole thing as a temporary arrangement to

1223
00:53:28,480 --> 00:53:31,200
Speaker 3: benefit from from either as I'm assuming she is on

1224
00:53:31,239 --> 00:53:34,200
Speaker 3: board and understands that, and he responds with it's because

1225
00:53:34,200 --> 00:53:36,759
Speaker 3: people are scared of other people not thinking exactly like them.

1226
00:53:36,960 --> 00:53:38,640
Speaker 3: It's okay, doesn't bother me.

1227
00:53:39,400 --> 00:53:42,520
Speaker 1: You are also upset that she's not thinking exactly like you.

1228
00:53:42,520 --> 00:53:44,840
Speaker 2: Though, right, you're so upset that you made a Reddit

1229
00:53:45,040 --> 00:53:48,600
Speaker 2: post about it. My thing is truly I do think.

1230
00:53:48,640 --> 00:53:50,799
Speaker 2: Then when he came and was like, I don't think

1231
00:53:50,800 --> 00:53:53,120
Speaker 2: that we should cook for each other anymore, she took

1232
00:53:53,120 --> 00:53:56,480
Speaker 2: that again as another rejection of like, but that's something

1233
00:53:56,520 --> 00:53:58,799
Speaker 2: like we do for each other, like why do you

1234
00:53:58,880 --> 00:54:00,719
Speaker 2: not want to do that anymore? Or because of this,

1235
00:54:00,880 --> 00:54:03,879
Speaker 2: and that was just another rejection after he's already kind

1236
00:54:03,880 --> 00:54:05,439
Speaker 2: of been a little bit cocky.

1237
00:54:05,120 --> 00:54:07,959
Speaker 3: And on top of this, like I found another comment, sorry,

1238
00:54:07,960 --> 00:54:09,879
Speaker 3: a little bit cocky.

1239
00:54:09,640 --> 00:54:12,680
Speaker 2: On this whole like well, no, I'm not bothered at

1240
00:54:12,680 --> 00:54:14,839
Speaker 2: all kind of train and it's like she was just

1241
00:54:14,920 --> 00:54:16,000
Speaker 2: getting fed up.

1242
00:54:16,719 --> 00:54:20,279
Speaker 3: So I guess the one of the comments brought up

1243
00:54:20,360 --> 00:54:23,200
Speaker 3: like their relationship and like where it's going. I think

1244
00:54:23,239 --> 00:54:26,840
Speaker 3: it got deleted, But their response is and I'm assuming

1245
00:54:26,880 --> 00:54:29,680
Speaker 3: this is towards their relationship and his partner, which makes sense.

1246
00:54:30,160 --> 00:54:33,360
Speaker 3: Opie says she's leaving this country when she finishes school.

1247
00:54:33,520 --> 00:54:35,319
Speaker 3: She is here on a student visa and has never

1248
00:54:35,360 --> 00:54:38,560
Speaker 3: attempted to gain long term residency status. Our relationship is

1249
00:54:38,600 --> 00:54:41,160
Speaker 3: about the now because in a little over a year

1250
00:54:41,200 --> 00:54:43,520
Speaker 3: should be back in Europe and we will probably never

1251
00:54:43,520 --> 00:54:46,319
Speaker 3: see each other again. In the meantime, there's much to

1252
00:54:46,440 --> 00:54:47,879
Speaker 3: like to find in one another.

1253
00:54:47,920 --> 00:54:51,640
Speaker 1: Dating to break up crazy, Maybe you guys should just

1254
00:54:51,719 --> 00:54:55,160
Speaker 1: do it now. I mean, you know, yeah, I've been

1255
00:54:55,160 --> 00:54:58,040
Speaker 1: in that situation and it makes things very confusing, especially

1256
00:54:58,040 --> 00:54:59,280
Speaker 1: if the situation changes.

1257
00:54:59,680 --> 00:55:04,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, dude, oh man, So I would hope that if

1258
00:55:04,120 --> 00:55:07,560
Speaker 3: y'all are doing that, that that's the clear expect you.

1259
00:55:07,560 --> 00:55:10,920
Speaker 1: Know, that's it's probably just saying that and hasn't discussed

1260
00:55:10,960 --> 00:55:13,680
Speaker 1: at all with his girlfriend about what she actually thinks

1261
00:55:14,080 --> 00:55:14,920
Speaker 1: she's going to happen.

1262
00:55:15,320 --> 00:55:16,400
Speaker 2: I'm sure, yeah.

1263
00:55:16,640 --> 00:55:17,160
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1264
00:55:17,200 --> 00:55:18,879
Speaker 3: And then this guy just goes in the comments. He's

1265
00:55:18,880 --> 00:55:22,440
Speaker 3: just like, yeah, dude, I'm just I'm happy, I'm not fighting,

1266
00:55:22,480 --> 00:55:23,960
Speaker 3: I'm just hanging out. I'm still happy.

1267
00:55:24,680 --> 00:55:27,800
Speaker 1: He really pulled the Yeah sixty two beats per minute.

1268
00:55:27,880 --> 00:55:30,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, just checked it. Yeah, you sound like you sound

1269
00:55:32,320 --> 00:55:35,560
Speaker 3: you sound I'm on any other sides they sound. They

1270
00:55:35,560 --> 00:55:39,600
Speaker 3: sound both just not compatible and disgusting.

1271
00:55:39,600 --> 00:55:44,400
Speaker 1: Inside of them living full, happy lives, both of them

1272
00:55:44,800 --> 00:55:46,799
Speaker 1: with whoever they're meant to be with.

1273
00:55:47,080 --> 00:55:51,040
Speaker 3: We'll read the brothers one.

1274
00:55:51,360 --> 00:55:54,640
Speaker 1: I refused to attend my brother's wedding because I was

1275
00:55:54,680 --> 00:55:55,520
Speaker 1: invited late.

1276
00:55:55,920 --> 00:55:56,960
Speaker 2: That's totally fair.

1277
00:55:57,239 --> 00:56:00,640
Speaker 1: I twenty seven male, have two step brothers, Justin thirty

1278
00:56:00,680 --> 00:56:03,719
Speaker 1: mail and Evan, twenty seven male. Our parents have been

1279
00:56:03,760 --> 00:56:07,160
Speaker 1: married for fifteen years. I was close to both throughout

1280
00:56:07,200 --> 00:56:10,320
Speaker 1: my teen years. However, Evan and I no longer speak

1281
00:56:10,600 --> 00:56:13,279
Speaker 1: since we were twenty two. That's five years. This is

1282
00:56:13,520 --> 00:56:17,719
Speaker 1: entirely my fault, as I slept with his recent ex girlfriend.

1283
00:56:19,440 --> 00:56:24,279
Speaker 3: Yaoooh there it is quick math and then uh yeah,

1284
00:56:24,760 --> 00:56:25,480
Speaker 3: quicker things.

1285
00:56:25,719 --> 00:56:27,800
Speaker 1: By the way, this comes from user am I the

1286
00:56:27,840 --> 00:56:31,320
Speaker 1: a hole sharky mark and if you want to submit

1287
00:56:31,320 --> 00:56:33,240
Speaker 1: your own stories, go to the r slash Owkay storytime

1288
00:56:33,239 --> 00:56:36,480
Speaker 1: subbur date. I'm Dakota, I'm Carly, I'm Keon. We're here

1289
00:56:36,480 --> 00:56:38,239
Speaker 1: to give good vous goofily. We're just a couple of

1290
00:56:38,320 --> 00:56:41,680
Speaker 1: yappers on a quest to yap and you know we

1291
00:56:41,719 --> 00:56:44,479
Speaker 1: don't know everything. Yep, so we might be wrong about

1292
00:56:44,480 --> 00:56:46,840
Speaker 1: some stuff. Let us know in the comments yep. The

1293
00:56:46,920 --> 00:56:50,719
Speaker 1: unreachable yap op says I messed up and ruined our

1294
00:56:50,760 --> 00:56:54,080
Speaker 1: relationship and he will likely never speak to me again.

1295
00:56:54,400 --> 00:56:57,319
Speaker 1: I deserve it, and I do not blame Evan at all.

1296
00:56:57,800 --> 00:57:00,719
Speaker 1: Justin and my stepmother also didn't to me for a

1297
00:57:00,719 --> 00:57:03,480
Speaker 1: couple of years. Evan didn't want to see me, and

1298
00:57:03,560 --> 00:57:05,879
Speaker 1: so we haven't been in the same room since we

1299
00:57:05,880 --> 00:57:09,240
Speaker 1: were twenty two either. Wow. The dynamic now is basically

1300
00:57:09,280 --> 00:57:12,640
Speaker 1: Evan being invited first to anything Justin or our parents

1301
00:57:12,680 --> 00:57:15,680
Speaker 1: are planning, and I'm invited only if he can't make it.

1302
00:57:15,840 --> 00:57:19,000
Speaker 1: I know it's awkward and I've caused this situation, but

1303
00:57:19,080 --> 00:57:21,040
Speaker 1: I'm just glad to see them at all, so it

1304
00:57:21,120 --> 00:57:23,760
Speaker 1: isn't my place to complain. Justin is getting married on

1305
00:57:23,840 --> 00:57:27,080
Speaker 1: Monday and Evan is his best man. Justin and I

1306
00:57:27,160 --> 00:57:29,680
Speaker 1: haven't really talked about the wedding at all, since I'm

1307
00:57:29,720 --> 00:57:32,680
Speaker 1: obviously not invited and it would be awkward to do so.

1308
00:57:32,920 --> 00:57:34,880
Speaker 1: I booked a trip overseas during the time of his

1309
00:57:34,920 --> 00:57:37,880
Speaker 1: wedding to get away instead of being home and sad

1310
00:57:38,040 --> 00:57:40,439
Speaker 1: not to be there. I didn't tell Justin or our

1311
00:57:40,480 --> 00:57:43,080
Speaker 1: parents because there was no need to bring it up.

1312
00:57:43,120 --> 00:57:45,240
Speaker 1: We all knew I wasn't going to be there and why.

1313
00:57:45,440 --> 00:57:47,680
Speaker 1: On Friday night, Justin tried to call me, but I

1314
00:57:47,760 --> 00:57:49,600
Speaker 1: was asleep. It was the middle of the night, where

1315
00:57:49,640 --> 00:57:52,160
Speaker 1: I am right now. I got his message this morning

1316
00:57:52,280 --> 00:57:55,080
Speaker 1: asking me to call him, saying Evan had agreed I

1317
00:57:55,120 --> 00:57:57,560
Speaker 1: could come to the wedding and that he really wants

1318
00:57:57,640 --> 00:57:59,600
Speaker 1: me there. If I were home, the wedding would be

1319
00:57:59,600 --> 00:58:01,840
Speaker 1: forty five minutes away and i'd go in a heartbeat.

1320
00:58:02,080 --> 00:58:04,800
Speaker 1: But I'm in Europe with a friend from college. I

1321
00:58:04,840 --> 00:58:07,640
Speaker 1: told Justin that unfortunately I couldn't make it because I

1322
00:58:07,800 --> 00:58:10,120
Speaker 1: was away. Now he's mad at me for not telling

1323
00:58:10,160 --> 00:58:12,160
Speaker 1: him I was going away, and for the effort he

1324
00:58:12,240 --> 00:58:14,800
Speaker 1: spent in convincing Evan to let me come. I never

1325
00:58:14,840 --> 00:58:17,120
Speaker 1: asked him to do that, and I would have told

1326
00:58:17,200 --> 00:58:19,640
Speaker 1: him not to because I don't think it's fair to Evan,

1327
00:58:19,680 --> 00:58:22,160
Speaker 1: who has set this boundary. I'm not trying to cause

1328
00:58:22,240 --> 00:58:25,120
Speaker 1: him more pain. Justin has pissed at me and blocked me.

1329
00:58:25,360 --> 00:58:28,040
Speaker 1: One of my cousins said he's furious and said, like Evan,

1330
00:58:28,200 --> 00:58:30,480
Speaker 1: he's through with me. My dad called me later and

1331
00:58:30,520 --> 00:58:33,080
Speaker 1: told me if it's about money, he'd buy my ticket home.

1332
00:58:33,200 --> 00:58:36,200
Speaker 1: But I explained it's not just about money, although a

1333
00:58:36,240 --> 00:58:38,320
Speaker 1: lot of the trip is non refundable. If it were

1334
00:58:38,560 --> 00:58:41,280
Speaker 1: just me, i'd consider going home. But I'm traveling with

1335
00:58:41,360 --> 00:58:43,600
Speaker 1: a friend who didn't sign up to be in Europe

1336
00:58:43,600 --> 00:58:45,800
Speaker 1: for ten days by himself. Well, I can't think of

1337
00:58:45,960 --> 00:58:47,760
Speaker 1: a worse way to spend ten days.

1338
00:58:48,040 --> 00:58:50,040
Speaker 2: I get that logic. Though it's a friend's trip. The

1339
00:58:50,080 --> 00:58:51,920
Speaker 2: friend blocked out time to be with you.

1340
00:58:52,400 --> 00:58:55,960
Speaker 1: True, but you know there's extenuating circumstances. I do think

1341
00:58:55,960 --> 00:58:58,640
Speaker 1: it's also sitting though, that you're not wanted us. Well,

1342
00:58:58,680 --> 00:59:01,240
Speaker 1: it's it's different. I mean, there's a lot of moving

1343
00:59:01,240 --> 00:59:03,720
Speaker 1: pieces here. It's unfair for him to be like this

1344
00:59:03,760 --> 00:59:05,840
Speaker 1: is this is crazy that you did that and you're

1345
00:59:06,280 --> 00:59:08,919
Speaker 1: you know, terrible and I'm blocking you. It's like, yeah,

1346
00:59:09,000 --> 00:59:11,760
Speaker 1: you mean the fact that I'm not invited anywhere he

1347
00:59:11,920 --> 00:59:14,640
Speaker 1: is for the last five years and then now all

1348
00:59:14,680 --> 00:59:17,320
Speaker 1: of a sudden, I'm invited. No, I had made plans

1349
00:59:17,360 --> 00:59:18,600
Speaker 1: to be away, right.

1350
00:59:18,480 --> 00:59:21,320
Speaker 2: Why didn't you talk to me before you went about

1351
00:59:21,320 --> 00:59:23,720
Speaker 2: trying to convince him to invite me to his wedding.

1352
00:59:23,920 --> 00:59:25,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, needed to be the other way around. They're like,

1353
00:59:25,920 --> 00:59:28,040
Speaker 1: why didn't you tell us you were going to Europe.

1354
00:59:28,080 --> 00:59:30,600
Speaker 1: It's like, well, you should have told me that maybe

1355
00:59:30,640 --> 00:59:32,840
Speaker 1: I could go to the wedding or there, you know,

1356
00:59:33,000 --> 00:59:35,360
Speaker 1: But nobody knew any of that, so I don't know

1357
00:59:35,840 --> 00:59:38,680
Speaker 1: if this is maybe your chance to fix things or

1358
00:59:38,760 --> 00:59:42,160
Speaker 1: change things with your family. I would have told my friend, like, hey,

1359
00:59:42,680 --> 00:59:45,680
Speaker 1: so I have an opportunity to maybe fix that. Can

1360
00:59:45,720 --> 00:59:48,400
Speaker 1: you survive in Europe for ten days by yourself? Maybe

1361
00:59:48,480 --> 00:59:51,480
Speaker 1: dude soul searching? Maybe you know, have fun, meet your

1362
00:59:51,520 --> 00:59:54,760
Speaker 1: next you know, lifelong friend. I mean people do it

1363
00:59:54,800 --> 00:59:55,280
Speaker 1: all the time.

1364
00:59:55,400 --> 00:59:57,360
Speaker 2: It's two days before the wedding too, though.

1365
00:59:57,400 --> 01:00:00,439
Speaker 1: It's like, come on, it is a lot. But right now,

1366
01:00:00,640 --> 01:00:01,640
Speaker 1: you know, doesn't.

1367
01:00:01,440 --> 01:00:03,880
Speaker 2: He even actually want me there? Because it sounds like

1368
01:00:03,920 --> 01:00:06,040
Speaker 2: it took way too much convincing. I doubt even wants

1369
01:00:06,080 --> 01:00:07,960
Speaker 2: me there. If I said no, I'm not gonna go,

1370
01:00:08,120 --> 01:00:09,920
Speaker 2: is he breathing a sigh of relief, because then I'm

1371
01:00:09,960 --> 01:00:12,000
Speaker 2: not gonna go. I'm gonna keep my trip in Europe

1372
01:00:12,080 --> 01:00:12,680
Speaker 2: with my friend.

1373
01:00:12,840 --> 01:00:14,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, that is a good point. I kind of I

1374
01:00:15,040 --> 01:00:18,000
Speaker 1: kind of forgot that he needed convincing. You need a

1375
01:00:18,000 --> 01:00:20,160
Speaker 1: lot of In my head, it was like he was

1376
01:00:20,280 --> 01:00:22,080
Speaker 1: being like, yeah, you know what, maybe I'm ready.

1377
01:00:22,160 --> 01:00:24,880
Speaker 2: I think it's like a courtesy thing. And honestly, if

1378
01:00:24,920 --> 01:00:27,600
Speaker 2: I was the friend, I'd be like, I actually would

1379
01:00:27,600 --> 01:00:29,440
Speaker 2: be really mad if you ditched me on an a inten

1380
01:00:29,480 --> 01:00:30,200
Speaker 2: day trip in Europe.

1381
01:00:30,440 --> 01:00:33,840
Speaker 1: You know what, now, I wasn't considering the convincing. I agree,

1382
01:00:34,160 --> 01:00:36,600
Speaker 1: I agree. It's not that I guess now is not

1383
01:00:36,640 --> 01:00:38,080
Speaker 1: the time to fix that relationship.

1384
01:00:38,160 --> 01:00:39,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, we can fix it after your wedding. I hope

1385
01:00:39,960 --> 01:00:42,160
Speaker 2: you have a lovely wedding. If this is convinced you

1386
01:00:42,240 --> 01:00:44,200
Speaker 2: enough to maybe try talking to me when you're back

1387
01:00:44,200 --> 01:00:45,439
Speaker 2: from your honeymoon, let's talk.

1388
01:00:45,760 --> 01:00:48,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, not the kind of a setting place.

1389
01:00:48,640 --> 01:00:52,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, And the blind one, the blind one says, yeah,

1390
01:00:52,200 --> 01:00:54,520
Speaker 1: maybe his brother should have I don't know, done the

1391
01:00:54,560 --> 01:00:59,960
Speaker 1: convincing before the night before the wedding. Yeah, yeah, yeah.

1392
01:01:00,000 --> 01:01:01,920
Speaker 3: Do you think it was like peer pressure?

1393
01:01:02,360 --> 01:01:04,880
Speaker 1: I don't know what it was, but you know you

1394
01:01:04,960 --> 01:01:05,720
Speaker 1: have about.

1395
01:01:05,520 --> 01:01:08,320
Speaker 2: Your brother, but who's just like that ready to be like, yes,

1396
01:01:08,400 --> 01:01:09,840
Speaker 2: I can go to a wedding tomorrow.

1397
01:01:09,960 --> 01:01:12,280
Speaker 3: About your brother, Like like, if you don't invite him,

1398
01:01:12,600 --> 01:01:14,520
Speaker 3: you suck and like you're gonna regret it, and like

1399
01:01:14,560 --> 01:01:16,440
Speaker 3: I know it's tomorrow, but like he's not doing anything.

1400
01:01:17,000 --> 01:01:19,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, something would probably go wrong anyway. You don't want

1401
01:01:19,960 --> 01:01:22,160
Speaker 2: more drama at a wedding to come up, Like let

1402
01:01:22,200 --> 01:01:22,800
Speaker 2: him have the wedding.

1403
01:01:22,800 --> 01:01:24,200
Speaker 3: Also, you could just be like I don't want take

1404
01:01:24,200 --> 01:01:27,280
Speaker 3: any attention from your wedding, please, dude, like I will,

1405
01:01:27,280 --> 01:01:29,440
Speaker 3: we can talk after this, appreciate.

1406
01:01:29,480 --> 01:01:32,800
Speaker 1: Well, ope, he continues. My cousins and my dad think

1407
01:01:32,920 --> 01:01:35,040
Speaker 1: I'm being an a hole not coming to the wedding.

1408
01:01:35,200 --> 01:01:37,720
Speaker 1: But I think it's unfair when the wedding is in

1409
01:01:37,800 --> 01:01:39,160
Speaker 1: two days and.

1410
01:01:39,240 --> 01:01:41,200
Speaker 2: You're on a trip in Europe with your friend.

1411
01:01:41,600 --> 01:01:43,960
Speaker 3: That's kind of good, Yeah, it is, well you come

1412
01:01:44,000 --> 01:01:44,680
Speaker 3: to my wedding.

1413
01:01:45,240 --> 01:01:47,240
Speaker 1: They're just I think they're more mad that they're just

1414
01:01:47,240 --> 01:01:49,080
Speaker 1: like they thought you would just be at home doing

1415
01:01:49,120 --> 01:01:52,200
Speaker 1: absolutely nothing, and they're like, wait, you actually did something

1416
01:01:52,240 --> 01:01:54,520
Speaker 1: with your own life. Yeah, but you're just supposed to

1417
01:01:54,560 --> 01:01:56,200
Speaker 1: wait around until we're ready for you.

1418
01:01:56,360 --> 01:01:59,320
Speaker 2: Anyways, And I'm with anonymous, I don't have wedding clothes,

1419
01:01:59,400 --> 01:02:00,840
Speaker 2: don't invite me two days before.

1420
01:02:01,120 --> 01:02:04,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's another one. I know this situation exists because

1421
01:02:04,600 --> 01:02:06,640
Speaker 1: of my actions, but Am I the a hole for

1422
01:02:06,720 --> 01:02:09,080
Speaker 1: not flying back tomorrow to attend the wedding? And there

1423
01:02:09,120 --> 01:02:12,160
Speaker 1: are some comments, and let's get into it. Comment one,

1424
01:02:12,360 --> 01:02:14,560
Speaker 1: you are definitely not the a hole. Kudo's on this

1425
01:02:14,600 --> 01:02:18,120
Speaker 1: self awareness and taking responsibility for your actions. Can your

1426
01:02:18,160 --> 01:02:20,439
Speaker 1: dad buy your travel friend a ticket as well? Would

1427
01:02:20,440 --> 01:02:22,960
Speaker 1: your friend be interested in going to Justin's wedding?

1428
01:02:23,640 --> 01:02:23,760
Speaker 2: One?

1429
01:02:24,360 --> 01:02:27,080
Speaker 3: A little busy right now? A little busy.

1430
01:02:27,400 --> 01:02:30,520
Speaker 1: It seems like a golden opportunity to mend relationships, but

1431
01:02:30,680 --> 01:02:34,000
Speaker 1: also by Justin's immature reaction, maybe the relationship is not

1432
01:02:34,120 --> 01:02:36,560
Speaker 1: ready to be mended yet. Op says. The thing is,

1433
01:02:36,880 --> 01:02:39,080
Speaker 1: I didn't think Justin and I were in a bad place.

1434
01:02:39,160 --> 01:02:41,280
Speaker 1: He was at my birthday. He invited me to his

1435
01:02:41,280 --> 01:02:44,360
Speaker 1: New Year's Eve party. It's just known that Evan doesn't

1436
01:02:44,360 --> 01:02:47,320
Speaker 1: want to see me for I think very justifiable reasons,

1437
01:02:47,520 --> 01:02:50,400
Speaker 1: and so if he is coming, I don't get invited. Yes,

1438
01:02:50,520 --> 01:02:52,760
Speaker 1: this sucks for me sometimes, but I'm the one that

1439
01:02:52,800 --> 01:02:55,640
Speaker 1: fractured the relationship, so this is a side effect of that.

1440
01:02:55,880 --> 01:02:58,800
Speaker 1: And there's an edit. I know the majority said I'm

1441
01:02:58,800 --> 01:03:00,600
Speaker 1: not the a hole, but I spoke with my friend

1442
01:03:00,760 --> 01:03:03,720
Speaker 1: and I'm catching a flight home today. Monday and coming

1443
01:03:03,760 --> 01:03:06,560
Speaker 1: back on Tuesday. I can't lose another brother or the

1444
01:03:06,600 --> 01:03:09,280
Speaker 1: opportunity to see Evan. I don't think it was fair

1445
01:03:09,320 --> 01:03:12,640
Speaker 1: to ask, but I can't risk it. Dan, there's an update.

1446
01:03:13,000 --> 01:03:15,200
Speaker 2: Okay, Yeah, flying home and flying right back to the trip.

1447
01:03:15,240 --> 01:03:16,920
Speaker 2: I guess you're only losing a day of it.

1448
01:03:17,000 --> 01:03:19,280
Speaker 3: That's that's crazy. I don't know if you'd be so tired.

1449
01:03:19,320 --> 01:03:21,120
Speaker 1: And yeah, yeah, yeah coming back on Tuesday.

1450
01:03:21,200 --> 01:03:22,000
Speaker 3: Yeaheah, that's crazy.

1451
01:03:22,680 --> 01:03:24,240
Speaker 2: That is an option I did not think of.

1452
01:03:24,520 --> 01:03:29,680
Speaker 3: Also, I mean shout out op for understanding, Like, yeah,

1453
01:03:29,800 --> 01:03:32,040
Speaker 3: I put myself in this situation. I was an a

1454
01:03:32,160 --> 01:03:35,880
Speaker 3: hole for doing that. Very understanding, and like, yes, you

1455
01:03:35,960 --> 01:03:39,400
Speaker 3: are the a hole for that, but yeah, good on you.

1456
01:03:39,560 --> 01:03:42,920
Speaker 3: But you you know, like you can take accountability for

1457
01:03:43,080 --> 01:03:44,920
Speaker 3: a lot of the things and you realize the situation.

1458
01:03:45,600 --> 01:03:49,480
Speaker 1: Yeah. Update. Firstly, I would say that I really did

1459
01:03:49,520 --> 01:03:52,280
Speaker 1: take into consideration a lot of the comments that said

1460
01:03:52,280 --> 01:03:54,640
Speaker 1: I've been punished by the family enough. Evan has the

1461
01:03:54,720 --> 01:03:56,840
Speaker 1: right to still be mad. But after this length of time,

1462
01:03:56,920 --> 01:03:58,920
Speaker 1: I think it's time the rest of my family starts

1463
01:03:58,960 --> 01:04:01,360
Speaker 1: treating me as an equal member again. I did fly

1464
01:04:01,480 --> 01:04:03,680
Speaker 1: home for the wedding. The friend I was on vacation

1465
01:04:03,800 --> 01:04:06,560
Speaker 1: with was very agreeable with me going. I know the

1466
01:04:06,640 --> 01:04:09,040
Speaker 1: judgment was that I would not be the a hole

1467
01:04:09,040 --> 01:04:11,120
Speaker 1: for skipping, but I was just too scared to lose

1468
01:04:11,320 --> 01:04:14,480
Speaker 1: Justin too. Yes, I wanted to have the conversation about

1469
01:04:14,480 --> 01:04:18,000
Speaker 1: how him treating me equally now, but to do that first,

1470
01:04:18,120 --> 01:04:21,560
Speaker 1: I needed him to be speaking with me. Unexpectedly, Justin

1471
01:04:21,640 --> 01:04:24,560
Speaker 1: actually picked me up from the airport. He was immediately

1472
01:04:24,600 --> 01:04:27,160
Speaker 1: apologetic for how he talked to me and the position

1473
01:04:27,200 --> 01:04:30,120
Speaker 1: he put me in, recognizing it wasn't right or fair.

1474
01:04:30,440 --> 01:04:33,080
Speaker 1: He even offered to pay for my tickets. I accepted

1475
01:04:33,080 --> 01:04:35,240
Speaker 1: his apology, but told him we could talk more later

1476
01:04:35,480 --> 01:04:38,200
Speaker 1: because it was his wedding day and the focus should

1477
01:04:38,240 --> 01:04:40,920
Speaker 1: be on him. We drove to the hotel where he,

1478
01:04:41,280 --> 01:04:44,320
Speaker 1: our parents, and the other groomsmen, including Evan, were staying.

1479
01:04:44,480 --> 01:04:46,000
Speaker 2: I had this mixed up the whole time. I thought

1480
01:04:46,000 --> 01:04:46,880
Speaker 2: it was Evan's wedding.

1481
01:04:47,280 --> 01:04:49,240
Speaker 1: No, yeah, not evans wedding.

1482
01:04:49,720 --> 01:04:53,440
Speaker 2: I gotcha. Yeah, it doesn't change most of mine.

1483
01:04:53,560 --> 01:04:57,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm glad to everyone. Seems pretty reasonable here. You know,

1484
01:04:57,600 --> 01:05:00,280
Speaker 1: It's like he can even acknowledge, like, yeah, I I

1485
01:05:00,360 --> 01:05:01,360
Speaker 1: reacted poorly.

1486
01:05:01,840 --> 01:05:03,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, because I got mixed up because I was like,

1487
01:05:03,560 --> 01:05:05,680
Speaker 2: if Evan's getting married, why is you still mad you

1488
01:05:05,720 --> 01:05:09,720
Speaker 2: slept with this girl. Yeah, Evan's not the one getting married.

1489
01:05:09,760 --> 01:05:11,720
Speaker 3: Though, even though as that was the case, it'd still

1490
01:05:11,760 --> 01:05:13,320
Speaker 3: be like, yo, that was a Really it.

1491
01:05:13,240 --> 01:05:15,320
Speaker 2: Can still be messed up, but it would be like okay,

1492
01:05:15,440 --> 01:05:17,760
Speaker 2: Like if I've apologized and done my five years of

1493
01:05:17,760 --> 01:05:20,440
Speaker 2: time and you're marrying a different girl, can we uh,

1494
01:05:20,640 --> 01:05:21,680
Speaker 2: can we get over it?

1495
01:05:22,000 --> 01:05:23,240
Speaker 3: Yeah? It's like, you know, I don't know.

1496
01:05:23,360 --> 01:05:23,960
Speaker 1: But I get it.

1497
01:05:23,960 --> 01:05:26,960
Speaker 2: It might be it is remembering the timeline now fresher

1498
01:05:27,000 --> 01:05:29,480
Speaker 2: than the five years and he's not the one getting.

1499
01:05:29,520 --> 01:05:31,400
Speaker 3: I'm a to each their own kind of person. I

1500
01:05:31,440 --> 01:05:31,800
Speaker 3: don't know.

1501
01:05:32,400 --> 01:05:34,320
Speaker 2: I'm not saying that's what he has to do. I'm

1502
01:05:34,400 --> 01:05:36,760
Speaker 2: just that's I am not an expert. I am just

1503
01:05:36,840 --> 01:05:42,240
Speaker 2: dating my personal thoughts. Yeah, I'm broaching my thoughts.

1504
01:05:42,680 --> 01:05:45,720
Speaker 1: Evan came to my room shortly after I checked in.

1505
01:05:45,960 --> 01:05:48,240
Speaker 1: It wasn't a happy movie scene where we hugged and

1506
01:05:48,280 --> 01:05:51,040
Speaker 1: everything was forgiven. It was actually really awkward and both

1507
01:05:51,040 --> 01:05:53,400
Speaker 1: of us were on eggshells. We agreed to have a

1508
01:05:53,400 --> 01:05:55,800
Speaker 1: good day for Justin and talk at some later point

1509
01:05:56,000 --> 01:05:57,920
Speaker 1: in the end, I'm glad I went to the wedding,

1510
01:05:58,120 --> 01:06:01,680
Speaker 1: as unfair as Justin's request was, because having both me

1511
01:06:01,800 --> 01:06:04,000
Speaker 1: and Evan there clearly meant a lot to him. I

1512
01:06:04,040 --> 01:06:06,480
Speaker 1: flew back out the next day to meet my friend.

1513
01:06:06,800 --> 01:06:09,680
Speaker 1: Uh and there is just a little bit of story

1514
01:06:09,760 --> 01:06:13,840
Speaker 1: left here. Yeah, yeah, yeah, I mean at some point

1515
01:06:13,920 --> 01:06:16,880
Speaker 1: you have to have like done your penance.

1516
01:06:16,560 --> 01:06:18,720
Speaker 2: Right, right, That's what I was saying.

1517
01:06:18,720 --> 01:06:22,760
Speaker 1: There's not a lot of stuff that's like unforgivable forever that.

1518
01:06:22,720 --> 01:06:25,600
Speaker 2: Would stuck to lose two brothers over like a one

1519
01:06:25,720 --> 01:06:27,640
Speaker 2: time hook up with an ex.

1520
01:06:27,760 --> 01:06:30,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, like, well, well, was did you hook

1521
01:06:30,360 --> 01:06:32,520
Speaker 1: up when she was already the ex? Or did she

1522
01:06:32,640 --> 01:06:34,800
Speaker 1: become the ex because y'all hooked up.

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01:06:35,520 --> 01:06:37,720
Speaker 2: I took that as they were already an ex.

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01:06:37,920 --> 01:06:40,120
Speaker 1: Well I did too, But you know, could have been

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01:06:40,120 --> 01:06:43,680
Speaker 1: ambiguous on BURBA. Could have been a little because your honor,

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01:06:43,760 --> 01:06:46,280
Speaker 1: that is, his ex girlfriend wasn't his ex at the

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01:06:46,320 --> 01:06:49,400
Speaker 1: time that happened because of me? No, But yeah, I

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01:06:49,400 --> 01:06:52,560
Speaker 1: think you've done the time. Do the crime, do the time. Anyway,

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01:06:52,720 --> 01:06:55,320
Speaker 1: since I've been back, Evan and I have been talking

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01:06:55,400 --> 01:06:58,280
Speaker 1: and have met up. I've apologized again. But he was

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01:06:58,520 --> 01:07:02,640
Speaker 1: understandably mad and said he could never move past being

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01:07:02,720 --> 01:07:05,919
Speaker 1: angry and it became easier to just stay mad. Well,

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01:07:05,960 --> 01:07:08,680
Speaker 1: that's that's you need a therapist for that, buddy. You

1534
01:07:08,720 --> 01:07:12,480
Speaker 1: can't just be angry forever. It's unsustainable. But he missed me.

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01:07:12,880 --> 01:07:15,160
Speaker 1: He wanted to call, and then backed off. We are

1536
01:07:15,160 --> 01:07:18,280
Speaker 1: slowly working on things. It is awkward, but getting better.

1537
01:07:18,480 --> 01:07:20,840
Speaker 1: I've met his girlfriend and been to his apartment.

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01:07:21,120 --> 01:07:24,360
Speaker 2: Don't sleep with Alan, good advice.

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01:07:25,360 --> 01:07:27,800
Speaker 1: I also talked to Justin more about how unfair it was,

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01:07:27,840 --> 01:07:30,480
Speaker 1: and he agreed. As Evan is no longer demanding a

1541
01:07:30,600 --> 01:07:33,800
Speaker 1: hymn or I choice, the conversation with Justin was easier.

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01:07:34,000 --> 01:07:35,840
Speaker 1: I was planning to man up and tell him I

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01:07:35,840 --> 01:07:38,800
Speaker 1: would no longer agree to that situation, and I hope

1544
01:07:38,800 --> 01:07:42,320
Speaker 1: I would have done so, but that situation no longer exists.

1545
01:07:42,640 --> 01:07:44,640
Speaker 1: He also tried to pay for my ticket again when

1546
01:07:44,680 --> 01:07:47,360
Speaker 1: I came back, but I didn't accept. Hopefully the year

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01:07:47,440 --> 01:07:51,320
Speaker 1: continues on this positive trajectory. Yeah, I hope so is

1548
01:07:51,360 --> 01:07:52,960
Speaker 1: the end of that story.

1549
01:07:53,080 --> 01:07:54,439
Speaker 2: I certainly hope it does.

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01:07:54,960 --> 01:07:58,120
Speaker 1: I hope your trajectory stays positive and one day you

1551
01:07:58,160 --> 01:08:02,640
Speaker 1: can broach the subject of you amende relationship with open arms.

1552
01:08:03,400 --> 01:08:05,400
Speaker 2: All these comments are going to be like they're using

1553
01:08:05,520 --> 01:08:07,040
Speaker 2: brooch too much and wrong.

1554
01:08:07,200 --> 01:08:09,800
Speaker 1: Sometimes, Yeah, you just had to be there.

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01:08:09,760 --> 01:08:11,600
Speaker 2: Dude, I had to listen to the whole thing.

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01:08:11,720 --> 01:08:13,200
Speaker 1: It's one of those kind of had to be there

1557
01:08:13,200 --> 01:08:15,520
Speaker 1: in the earlier part of the episode kind of guys.

1558
01:08:15,920 --> 01:08:18,360
Speaker 2: But nat is the end of our story and we

1559
01:08:18,439 --> 01:08:21,920
Speaker 2: have some comments. Comments are from the video. Am I

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01:08:22,000 --> 01:08:24,360
Speaker 2: the a hole for sending my friend home without clothes

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01:08:24,400 --> 01:08:26,839
Speaker 2: because she used my boyfriend's shower?

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01:08:27,600 --> 01:08:30,120
Speaker 1: Ah? I remember this one.

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01:08:30,000 --> 01:08:33,320
Speaker 2: And this was posted on February tenth, twenty twenty six. TLDR.

1564
01:08:33,400 --> 01:08:35,720
Speaker 2: Looks like it was story one. Op comes home to

1565
01:08:35,720 --> 01:08:39,639
Speaker 2: find her boyfriend's female coworker walking out of his private

1566
01:08:39,680 --> 01:08:43,679
Speaker 2: bedroom in nothing but his shirt and a towel smelling

1567
01:08:43,760 --> 01:08:46,320
Speaker 2: like his body wash, with her own clothes thrown in

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01:08:46,360 --> 01:08:50,560
Speaker 2: the wash. When OPI confronts her, the coworker calls her insecure, immature,

1569
01:08:50,640 --> 01:08:53,639
Speaker 2: and a freeloader. So OPI pulls the wet clothes out

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01:08:53,680 --> 01:08:56,120
Speaker 2: of the washer and throws them at her. What happens

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01:08:56,160 --> 01:08:59,000
Speaker 2: next ends with the coworker soaking wet, crying in a

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01:08:59,040 --> 01:09:02,000
Speaker 2: parking lot, and getting moved to a different work team.

1573
01:09:02,280 --> 01:09:04,680
Speaker 2: But was Opie out of line or did the coworker

1574
01:09:04,760 --> 01:09:06,960
Speaker 2: have it coming. If you're curious to know the full story,

1575
01:09:06,960 --> 01:09:08,080
Speaker 2: you can go watch the full video.

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01:09:08,280 --> 01:09:10,559
Speaker 1: I don't think people liked my take on that she

1577
01:09:10,680 --> 01:09:13,800
Speaker 1: one hundred percent deserve wap in her with all the

1578
01:09:13,840 --> 01:09:15,520
Speaker 1: contacts that the coworker.

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01:09:15,600 --> 01:09:16,959
Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, with the wet.

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01:09:16,760 --> 01:09:20,120
Speaker 1: Jeans, you yea, Hey, you mess around with a real one,

1581
01:09:20,160 --> 01:09:21,120
Speaker 1: you're gonna find.

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01:09:20,840 --> 01:09:22,960
Speaker 2: Out what she in the shower.

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01:09:23,600 --> 01:09:25,559
Speaker 1: It was like, it's, yeah, well you'll have to go

1584
01:09:25,600 --> 01:09:29,519
Speaker 1: watch the story to find out. But yeah, it was uh, hey,

1585
01:09:29,600 --> 01:09:32,479
Speaker 1: she she affed around. She found out real quick. OPI

1586
01:09:32,680 --> 01:09:34,519
Speaker 1: was not one to play with dude.

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01:09:34,720 --> 01:09:38,320
Speaker 3: And we have some comments regarding this episode and the story.

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01:09:38,520 --> 01:09:41,200
Speaker 3: First comment here is from Kim B ninety one saying, nah,

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01:09:41,439 --> 01:09:44,680
Speaker 3: Opie was too tame and Paula, in my opinion, I

1590
01:09:44,680 --> 01:09:47,600
Speaker 3: would have lost my ish tell me you want my

1591
01:09:47,680 --> 01:09:48,720
Speaker 3: man without telling me.

1592
01:09:49,120 --> 01:09:52,439
Speaker 1: Oh, she basically said it, she said, very loud and clear.

1593
01:09:53,840 --> 01:09:57,360
Speaker 3: And then we have another comment here by Kylo Fuller saying, yeah,

1594
01:09:57,479 --> 01:09:59,800
Speaker 3: she should be happy she didn't get shmacked. She over

1595
01:10:00,040 --> 01:10:02,559
Speaker 3: that in so many ways that f's went out the door.

1596
01:10:03,080 --> 01:10:04,839
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, it truly.

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01:10:05,240 --> 01:10:07,120
Speaker 2: Everyone's like, you have to go watch the story. I

1598
01:10:07,120 --> 01:10:08,320
Speaker 2: think I'd be too annoyed.

1599
01:10:09,120 --> 01:10:12,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think you would. You would be very annoyed.

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01:10:12,080 --> 01:10:16,840
Speaker 3: Here's another comment by Hyland Malt saying, yeah, why didn't

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01:10:16,840 --> 01:10:19,000
Speaker 3: she just go home instead of tracking him down at

1602
01:10:19,000 --> 01:10:19,400
Speaker 3: the store?

1603
01:10:19,920 --> 01:10:22,400
Speaker 1: Just weird. The whole thing was just like, I'm gonna

1604
01:10:22,439 --> 01:10:26,360
Speaker 1: steal your man, I'm gonna steal your man. And she's like,

1605
01:10:26,479 --> 01:10:28,799
Speaker 1: I'm gonna literally throw you out of this place.

1606
01:10:28,960 --> 01:10:32,639
Speaker 3: So by, and we have one more comment here by

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01:10:32,840 --> 01:10:35,600
Speaker 3: Sarah Adams fifty nine to seventy six, saying, I have

1608
01:10:35,640 --> 01:10:38,240
Speaker 3: a scenario. What if your mom passed away a year

1609
01:10:38,280 --> 01:10:41,040
Speaker 3: prior and your dad recently started dating, but the woman

1610
01:10:41,120 --> 01:10:43,800
Speaker 3: is literally only eleven years older than you. You walk

1611
01:10:43,840 --> 01:10:45,479
Speaker 3: in while your dad is out, and you catch her

1612
01:10:45,520 --> 01:10:48,200
Speaker 3: wearing your mom's wedding dress. She claims she was washing

1613
01:10:48,200 --> 01:10:50,639
Speaker 3: her clothes and she was just trying it on while

1614
01:10:50,680 --> 01:10:52,679
Speaker 3: she waited, and her clothes are still wet. What would

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01:10:52,720 --> 01:10:53,000
Speaker 3: you do?

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01:10:53,360 --> 01:10:57,479
Speaker 1: That is a great question. Not sure how much relevance

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01:10:57,520 --> 01:11:02,400
Speaker 1: it bears on the story. Yeah, make all kinds of hypotheticals. Yeah,

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01:11:02,479 --> 01:11:04,000
Speaker 1: that'd be weird.

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01:11:04,360 --> 01:11:06,480
Speaker 2: Very different than what the story sounds.

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01:11:06,160 --> 01:11:09,639
Speaker 3: Really, why are you wearing that out of everything that's

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01:11:09,680 --> 01:11:10,920
Speaker 3: in this household.

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01:11:11,120 --> 01:11:13,000
Speaker 1: I mean, the energy of the story was more like

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01:11:13,040 --> 01:11:16,160
Speaker 1: she was just like, you know, she's like wearing his

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01:11:16,200 --> 01:11:19,080
Speaker 1: T shirt and basically doing this, h.

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01:11:19,680 --> 01:11:22,640
Speaker 2: Okay, I.

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01:11:24,520 --> 01:11:27,360
Speaker 1: Love the way your boyfriend smells. He smells so good.

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01:11:27,400 --> 01:11:32,200
Speaker 1: I can't wait to smell like this all day and

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01:11:32,280 --> 01:11:38,040
Speaker 1: I'm gonna think about him. He wouldn't care if I

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01:11:38,120 --> 01:11:42,799
Speaker 1: wore his T shirt. He loves it. And it was like, well,

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01:11:43,280 --> 01:11:45,679
Speaker 1: it's time for you to hit the curb.

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01:11:46,960 --> 01:11:49,720
Speaker 2: But that's the end of those comments and the end

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01:11:49,760 --> 01:11:52,400
Speaker 2: of the episode. So if you love us, make sure

1633
01:11:52,400 --> 01:11:53,160
Speaker 2: to subscribe.

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Speaker 1: We love you and see you tomorrow.