1 00:00:01,320 --> 00:00:05,760 Speaker 1: Today is a very special episode because today Erica and 2 00:00:05,800 --> 00:00:08,720 Speaker 1: I will be sharing our favorite products from our favorite 3 00:00:08,720 --> 00:00:11,600 Speaker 1: brands to share with you for the holiday season. 4 00:00:12,280 --> 00:00:25,240 Speaker 2: So enjoy. 5 00:00:26,920 --> 00:00:28,800 Speaker 3: Welcome back to Good Mom's Bad Choices. 6 00:00:28,920 --> 00:00:33,720 Speaker 1: I'm Erica and I'm Nila. Merry Christmas, Merry Christmas, Baby, 7 00:00:36,720 --> 00:00:37,639 Speaker 1: so jolly. 8 00:00:38,200 --> 00:00:39,400 Speaker 3: That's not how this song goes. 9 00:00:41,159 --> 00:00:45,040 Speaker 1: Follow la la la, No, bitch, jingle bells still goes 10 00:00:45,120 --> 00:00:48,160 Speaker 1: follow la la la. That's a different song. 11 00:00:48,600 --> 00:00:49,279 Speaker 3: Wait, isn't it? 12 00:00:49,400 --> 00:00:52,800 Speaker 1: No, it's not not. Are we parents or not? I'm 13 00:00:52,800 --> 00:00:54,280 Speaker 1: disconnected from Christmas. 14 00:00:54,560 --> 00:00:55,440 Speaker 3: Don't say that. 15 00:00:55,560 --> 00:00:58,000 Speaker 1: I mean I like it, but I always say this 16 00:00:58,080 --> 00:01:01,240 Speaker 1: every year, and I like it makes me warm and fuzzy, 17 00:01:01,240 --> 00:01:03,200 Speaker 1: and I like to just drink apple cider hot and 18 00:01:03,280 --> 00:01:06,520 Speaker 1: all that. But like, I like the intention of Christmas. 19 00:01:07,040 --> 00:01:08,360 Speaker 1: All the other things. 20 00:01:08,080 --> 00:01:11,640 Speaker 4: Can be stressful and stuff, But you know, I just 21 00:01:11,720 --> 00:01:14,440 Speaker 4: like how excited my daughter gets. She gets like she's 22 00:01:14,920 --> 00:01:18,640 Speaker 4: a festive child that one, and my mom is super festive. 23 00:01:18,720 --> 00:01:19,240 Speaker 1: So I don't know. 24 00:01:19,240 --> 00:01:20,960 Speaker 4: I think as I get older, I'm starting to feel 25 00:01:21,000 --> 00:01:24,280 Speaker 4: more and more festive. I'm tapping into my holiday mom bag. 26 00:01:24,600 --> 00:01:28,320 Speaker 1: I like festivities and I like food. I'm also really 27 00:01:28,360 --> 00:01:33,119 Speaker 1: grateful that my daughter's other grandparents are very festive, so 28 00:01:33,400 --> 00:01:35,720 Speaker 1: I don't have to really do anything. I just show up. 29 00:01:35,880 --> 00:01:37,319 Speaker 1: Sometimes I'm like, well this is. 30 00:01:37,319 --> 00:01:39,760 Speaker 3: They are really festive, and your daughter's very festive. 31 00:01:40,200 --> 00:01:42,600 Speaker 1: She's a gifter. She loves to give gifts and she 32 00:01:42,640 --> 00:01:45,959 Speaker 1: loves to get gifts, and she'll remind you, I sem 33 00:01:46,040 --> 00:01:48,200 Speaker 1: did you get me a gift? I'm like, everybody else 34 00:01:48,240 --> 00:01:53,520 Speaker 1: got you a gift? Why are you being so needy? God, 35 00:01:53,560 --> 00:01:55,400 Speaker 1: I got like four hundred gifts. You want one from me? 36 00:01:55,560 --> 00:02:00,880 Speaker 1: To Jesus life, that's your gift. You're here. You made it. 37 00:02:00,920 --> 00:02:04,520 Speaker 1: Isn't that amazing? Isn't it amazing that you exist? You're welcome. 38 00:02:04,760 --> 00:02:11,839 Speaker 1: It could have not happened. Others didn't make it. I 39 00:02:11,919 --> 00:02:16,640 Speaker 1: cannot It's true. Anyone could have made it. You got through. 40 00:02:17,120 --> 00:02:17,600 Speaker 3: You made it. 41 00:02:17,680 --> 00:02:19,880 Speaker 1: Baby. You are a star. 42 00:02:20,000 --> 00:02:20,280 Speaker 3: Luna. 43 00:02:20,880 --> 00:02:22,720 Speaker 1: I knew it. I knew it at birth. You know, 44 00:02:23,000 --> 00:02:25,160 Speaker 1: I don't know if ever, I probably have to every. 45 00:02:25,040 --> 00:02:26,720 Speaker 3: Birth, not the whole pregnancy. 46 00:02:27,760 --> 00:02:30,360 Speaker 1: Actually I knew it in pregnancy. And it's time for 47 00:02:30,520 --> 00:02:33,120 Speaker 1: taro because it reminds me of the time I got 48 00:02:33,240 --> 00:02:35,359 Speaker 1: a tarot reading to find out if I should have 49 00:02:35,400 --> 00:02:38,360 Speaker 1: a baby, and guess what the bitch pulled a pregnant 50 00:02:38,360 --> 00:02:43,360 Speaker 1: tarot card, Luna. That's why you made it, Taro. You 51 00:02:43,440 --> 00:02:45,520 Speaker 1: were here because of the tarot. Bitch at the pool 52 00:02:45,520 --> 00:02:48,359 Speaker 1: party pulled a pregnant card, and I was like, okay, 53 00:02:48,360 --> 00:02:49,160 Speaker 1: God gotcha. 54 00:02:49,400 --> 00:02:51,560 Speaker 4: If I got a pregnant card, I don't care where 55 00:02:51,560 --> 00:02:53,280 Speaker 4: it was a pool party or at the fucking boot 56 00:02:53,280 --> 00:02:54,320 Speaker 4: top of Buddha's mountain. 57 00:02:55,040 --> 00:02:55,919 Speaker 3: I'm keeping the baby. 58 00:02:56,000 --> 00:02:57,919 Speaker 1: I was asking for like three weeks. Oh my god, 59 00:02:58,240 --> 00:02:59,800 Speaker 1: I don't know. I know this does like a good 60 00:02:59,840 --> 00:03:04,600 Speaker 1: I'm not prepared. God, I'm looking for signs, rolling the signs. God, 61 00:03:05,120 --> 00:03:06,959 Speaker 1: the signs would be nice. Now I'm like, is not 62 00:03:07,040 --> 00:03:11,320 Speaker 1: psychic anyone? And child? That psychic appeared at that pull party, 63 00:03:11,760 --> 00:03:14,040 Speaker 1: started pulling those cards, and before I went in the room, 64 00:03:14,040 --> 00:03:17,120 Speaker 1: I was like, whatever happens, that's the answer. That bitch 65 00:03:17,160 --> 00:03:18,799 Speaker 1: pulled that motherfucking pregnant card. 66 00:03:19,040 --> 00:03:19,800 Speaker 3: You cry immediately. 67 00:03:19,919 --> 00:03:22,959 Speaker 1: I was just like that, I didn't know. Is that 68 00:03:23,040 --> 00:03:26,920 Speaker 1: a pregnant therrel? She said yes. I said, oh shit. Well, 69 00:03:27,960 --> 00:03:30,720 Speaker 1: thank you God for being as clear as possible, and 70 00:03:30,760 --> 00:03:37,360 Speaker 1: you're welcome Lunas again, Merry Christmas. This is maybe why 71 00:03:37,400 --> 00:03:40,360 Speaker 1: I'm so connected to the Tarot cards because I truly 72 00:03:40,440 --> 00:03:44,200 Speaker 1: believe whenever you ask the cards, they will come through. 73 00:03:44,240 --> 00:03:47,400 Speaker 1: They will tell you no matter what you're into, and 74 00:03:48,680 --> 00:03:50,560 Speaker 1: you know what what you believe in. I feel like 75 00:03:50,680 --> 00:03:54,119 Speaker 1: if you ask, God can deliver the answer in any 76 00:03:54,160 --> 00:03:57,240 Speaker 1: way you want, if you're ready to receive anyway. Today 77 00:03:57,440 --> 00:04:04,000 Speaker 1: am I pulled the card eight of strength? This strength? 78 00:04:04,280 --> 00:04:04,520 Speaker 3: Yes? 79 00:04:05,880 --> 00:04:07,200 Speaker 1: What is she holding in that card? 80 00:04:07,280 --> 00:04:07,480 Speaker 3: Oh? 81 00:04:07,560 --> 00:04:10,800 Speaker 1: Is she holding a lion like a statue? 82 00:04:11,120 --> 00:04:11,240 Speaker 3: Oh? 83 00:04:11,320 --> 00:04:15,160 Speaker 1: Wait yeah? Is it eight of wands or is it 84 00:04:15,200 --> 00:04:18,680 Speaker 1: the strength card? I don't see wands in that picture. 85 00:04:19,520 --> 00:04:21,800 Speaker 1: But there's eight and there's no eight of strength. There's 86 00:04:21,839 --> 00:04:24,680 Speaker 1: just strength, right, so it should be just strength the 87 00:04:24,680 --> 00:04:27,119 Speaker 1: strength card. Okay, you know what I'm saying. 88 00:04:28,400 --> 00:04:30,799 Speaker 3: This is why we just need the regular tarot cards. 89 00:04:31,200 --> 00:04:33,599 Speaker 4: Fancy with these African cards that aren't even made by 90 00:04:33,600 --> 00:04:36,520 Speaker 4: a black woman. Lord Jesus, someone sent you know what 91 00:04:36,760 --> 00:04:38,760 Speaker 4: you know what we need for Christmas? Guys, send us 92 00:04:38,839 --> 00:04:43,240 Speaker 4: a real black Tarot deck. Please thank you, Because address 93 00:04:43,320 --> 00:04:46,599 Speaker 4: in the episode description, there. 94 00:04:46,480 --> 00:04:48,440 Speaker 1: Are some out there. People have been sending them to 95 00:04:48,839 --> 00:04:52,040 Speaker 1: sending us some we just don't remember to order them. 96 00:04:52,400 --> 00:04:54,200 Speaker 1: I'm going to go with a page of pinnacles because 97 00:04:54,240 --> 00:04:56,200 Speaker 1: that's what we can sure read. Oh, okay, you just 98 00:04:56,200 --> 00:04:58,640 Speaker 1: switched the card. Yeah, I pulled the second one because 99 00:04:59,360 --> 00:05:01,200 Speaker 1: we got to do more research on that other one. 100 00:05:01,680 --> 00:05:03,440 Speaker 1: We don't know if it's the eight of Ones or. 101 00:05:03,440 --> 00:05:04,679 Speaker 3: If you're a Tarot expert. 102 00:05:04,720 --> 00:05:08,920 Speaker 4: Now listen, I'm learning nine hundred and sixty five days 103 00:05:09,160 --> 00:05:09,640 Speaker 4: and I'm. 104 00:05:09,480 --> 00:05:13,320 Speaker 1: Still in progress. Bitch. There's a lot of cards to learn. Okay. 105 00:05:14,200 --> 00:05:16,599 Speaker 1: When the page of pinnacles appears in a Tarot reading, 106 00:05:16,800 --> 00:05:19,920 Speaker 1: you're tapping into your ability to manifest a personal goal 107 00:05:20,000 --> 00:05:22,480 Speaker 1: or dream, and maybe in the midst of a new 108 00:05:22,520 --> 00:05:25,360 Speaker 1: project such as a hobby, business venture, or the start 109 00:05:25,400 --> 00:05:28,320 Speaker 1: of a new educational experience. I think we've pulled this 110 00:05:28,360 --> 00:05:31,960 Speaker 1: one before. You're excited about the possibilities and potential of 111 00:05:32,040 --> 00:05:34,359 Speaker 1: what you put your mind to, knowing you can create 112 00:05:34,400 --> 00:05:38,400 Speaker 1: whatever you want with focused intention and action. With that said, 113 00:05:38,640 --> 00:05:42,400 Speaker 1: this page does not specify the fulfillment of dreams as 114 00:05:42,480 --> 00:05:45,200 Speaker 1: much as the initial motivation and energy. To begin the 115 00:05:45,240 --> 00:05:48,800 Speaker 1: process of turning those dreams into a reality. You need 116 00:05:48,839 --> 00:05:51,320 Speaker 1: to put in place clear plans for achieving your dreams 117 00:05:51,320 --> 00:05:54,760 Speaker 1: and goals. Stay focused on the practical and tangible elements, 118 00:05:55,120 --> 00:05:57,720 Speaker 1: keeping your feet planted on the ground and not getting 119 00:05:57,720 --> 00:06:01,839 Speaker 1: carried away, always looking for the next realistic and achievable 120 00:06:01,920 --> 00:06:05,720 Speaker 1: step forward. Hmm. That's a good one for the end 121 00:06:05,720 --> 00:06:10,000 Speaker 1: of the year, because lord knows, bitches got businesses every day. 122 00:06:11,240 --> 00:06:14,880 Speaker 1: We're not a business. Sure, why not? You want to 123 00:06:14,880 --> 00:06:21,520 Speaker 1: sell skirtcheese? Okay, scratch, Yeah, that speaks to me. We're 124 00:06:21,520 --> 00:06:24,440 Speaker 1: about to leave. Actually, when I was shuffling this deck, 125 00:06:24,480 --> 00:06:27,240 Speaker 1: you guys, I was asking the deck, am I gonna 126 00:06:27,240 --> 00:06:30,480 Speaker 1: have full stability next year in twenty twenty two? And 127 00:06:30,600 --> 00:06:34,200 Speaker 1: the card says yes. So if anyone was thinking the 128 00:06:34,240 --> 00:06:36,840 Speaker 1: same thing, yes, it's coming, It's on its way. It's coming. 129 00:06:36,960 --> 00:06:40,920 Speaker 4: The ideas are coming, the ability to complete them is coming. 130 00:06:41,400 --> 00:06:44,160 Speaker 4: I mean, we're entering into a new space, you know, 131 00:06:44,240 --> 00:06:46,680 Speaker 4: with our retreat in Costa Rica. Like this is the 132 00:06:46,680 --> 00:06:49,560 Speaker 4: first of you know, any type of experience we've ever 133 00:06:49,600 --> 00:06:51,000 Speaker 4: done with our community in this way. 134 00:06:51,120 --> 00:06:53,640 Speaker 3: It's a new business, it's a new baby. 135 00:06:53,800 --> 00:06:58,599 Speaker 4: It's exciting and I'm terrified, but I'm also like really 136 00:06:58,960 --> 00:07:01,880 Speaker 4: feel ready empower and like let's just do it. 137 00:07:02,360 --> 00:07:06,760 Speaker 1: I know. I am like stumbled across this Hulu show 138 00:07:06,800 --> 00:07:10,560 Speaker 1: with Nicole Kidman. Oh God, and it's called like nine 139 00:07:10,600 --> 00:07:12,920 Speaker 1: Strangers or some shit, and the bitches like a retreat 140 00:07:13,000 --> 00:07:16,880 Speaker 1: a psycho retreat leader, and I was like, huh, I 141 00:07:16,880 --> 00:07:19,520 Speaker 1: probably shouldn't watch this before my retreat and any ideas. 142 00:07:20,640 --> 00:07:22,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, what was she doing drugging bitches, bitch. 143 00:07:22,760 --> 00:07:25,440 Speaker 1: Bitch, just dosing people. I mean it's like in the end, 144 00:07:25,440 --> 00:07:27,640 Speaker 1: I think it was good, but like I think she 145 00:07:27,680 --> 00:07:29,960 Speaker 1: got a little crazy for her she was like fake killing. 146 00:07:30,080 --> 00:07:32,800 Speaker 3: There was a method to all her dosing madness, I think, so. 147 00:07:32,800 --> 00:07:34,320 Speaker 1: Something like that. You know what, Okay, let me tell 148 00:07:34,360 --> 00:07:36,280 Speaker 1: you how fucking dumb I am. And Hi I am. 149 00:07:36,800 --> 00:07:41,280 Speaker 1: I took somebody too lu Login got high and I 150 00:07:41,320 --> 00:07:43,280 Speaker 1: was like, oh, they told me to watch this. I 151 00:07:43,440 --> 00:07:47,200 Speaker 1: started the fucking series because I'm so fucking high at 152 00:07:47,240 --> 00:07:50,960 Speaker 1: the last episode, so I was like, wow, they're gonna 153 00:07:51,120 --> 00:07:53,120 Speaker 1: that's how they start. This is startsy. They tell me 154 00:07:53,240 --> 00:07:54,840 Speaker 1: everything that happened, and then they got to start from 155 00:07:54,880 --> 00:07:59,320 Speaker 1: the beginning. I literally got so high. I was like wow, 156 00:07:59,360 --> 00:08:02,000 Speaker 1: this seems like like wow, this is intense. And then 157 00:08:02,040 --> 00:08:04,160 Speaker 1: I went to episode two and I was like, this 158 00:08:04,200 --> 00:08:07,240 Speaker 1: is an interesting way to roll out, and I'm like, bitch, 159 00:08:07,280 --> 00:08:09,000 Speaker 1: you are the highest demst fraud. 160 00:08:10,400 --> 00:08:12,400 Speaker 3: So then you would eventually started for the beginning. 161 00:08:12,560 --> 00:08:14,760 Speaker 1: No, I just know the whole thing from one episode. 162 00:08:14,760 --> 00:08:16,320 Speaker 1: I'm like, this is how I should watch more series. 163 00:08:16,320 --> 00:08:17,920 Speaker 1: I don't have to waste my time, just go straight 164 00:08:17,920 --> 00:08:20,880 Speaker 1: to the last episode. Boom, I got it. Wow. 165 00:08:21,040 --> 00:08:23,160 Speaker 3: Wow that is some high as shit. 166 00:08:23,440 --> 00:08:27,080 Speaker 1: Yeah. Rid of those edible cookies, right, my cousin made 167 00:08:27,080 --> 00:08:29,400 Speaker 1: me edible cookies and could have been that. Damn. We 168 00:08:29,400 --> 00:08:31,640 Speaker 1: should have them here in our beautiful setup. You guys. 169 00:08:31,760 --> 00:08:34,040 Speaker 4: If you haven't, you know, checked out our YouTube channel, 170 00:08:34,040 --> 00:08:37,800 Speaker 4: you should because we have a gorgeous holiday Christmas setup. 171 00:08:38,120 --> 00:08:40,480 Speaker 4: This is I wish my Christmas tree looked like this. Actually, 172 00:08:40,520 --> 00:08:42,080 Speaker 4: I might have to take some of these items to 173 00:08:42,120 --> 00:08:42,400 Speaker 4: my house. 174 00:08:42,440 --> 00:08:47,000 Speaker 1: I have no balls, so I just have your tree. 175 00:08:48,320 --> 00:08:53,200 Speaker 1: How are you? I'm good? Yeah, I'm good. Speaking of 176 00:08:53,640 --> 00:08:57,240 Speaker 1: our holiday looks, you should really come see. And we 177 00:08:57,240 --> 00:08:59,960 Speaker 1: spent thirty five minutes each putting on this goddamn makeup 178 00:09:00,200 --> 00:09:02,800 Speaker 1: for absolutely no reason. We were also high when we 179 00:09:02,880 --> 00:09:03,199 Speaker 1: did that. 180 00:09:03,600 --> 00:09:05,880 Speaker 4: I started putting lashes on and then they look like 181 00:09:05,920 --> 00:09:08,920 Speaker 4: Promp Queen lashes, and I was like, well, they're already on, 182 00:09:09,120 --> 00:09:10,640 Speaker 4: and then I was like I need eyeliner. Now I 183 00:09:10,679 --> 00:09:12,640 Speaker 4: have a full wing on. Then I was like, well, 184 00:09:12,640 --> 00:09:14,840 Speaker 4: it's the holidays. What about a red lip to match 185 00:09:14,880 --> 00:09:15,800 Speaker 4: my red nails? 186 00:09:16,440 --> 00:09:16,880 Speaker 1: Did that? 187 00:09:17,400 --> 00:09:19,400 Speaker 3: And what am I wearing a gray sweatsuit? 188 00:09:20,720 --> 00:09:22,480 Speaker 1: In perfect Nigga fashion, I have. 189 00:09:22,720 --> 00:09:25,160 Speaker 3: Full glam on with a gray sweatsuit on. 190 00:09:25,400 --> 00:09:26,120 Speaker 1: That's how I feel like. 191 00:09:26,240 --> 00:09:27,240 Speaker 3: I feel like an influencer. 192 00:09:27,320 --> 00:09:28,880 Speaker 4: Now this is what they do, right, They like do 193 00:09:29,000 --> 00:09:32,360 Speaker 4: full makeup and then like look roamless sort of, that's an. 194 00:09:32,520 --> 00:09:34,679 Speaker 1: LA rich Like that's how you look rich in LA. 195 00:09:34,800 --> 00:09:37,640 Speaker 1: Like put yoga pants on, but like the most expendul 196 00:09:37,880 --> 00:09:43,840 Speaker 1: fashion these yoga pants for four hundred dollars. That's a 197 00:09:43,880 --> 00:09:46,600 Speaker 1: really cute sweatsuit. Where'd you get that? Oh my god? 198 00:09:46,600 --> 00:09:51,280 Speaker 4: This is this is Danielle's This is our girl female designer. 199 00:09:51,320 --> 00:09:53,920 Speaker 4: Her name is Danielle and her line is called Vintage 200 00:09:53,920 --> 00:09:57,400 Speaker 4: Souls and it's so cute. It fits me really well 201 00:09:57,440 --> 00:09:59,719 Speaker 4: because sometimes sweatsuits hit me at the wrong place on 202 00:09:59,720 --> 00:10:03,160 Speaker 4: my and then I like, don't look skinny, like I 203 00:10:03,160 --> 00:10:05,719 Speaker 4: know I am, oh right, but that's what makes my 204 00:10:05,760 --> 00:10:06,320 Speaker 4: booty pop. 205 00:10:06,800 --> 00:10:09,520 Speaker 1: That's all that booty yesterday. Yeah. So, and it's really soft. 206 00:10:10,760 --> 00:10:14,800 Speaker 1: She also has some really bomb ass crystal shirts for 207 00:10:14,840 --> 00:10:17,400 Speaker 1: the holiday. I feel like that's the only good I mean, 208 00:10:17,480 --> 00:10:18,960 Speaker 1: not the only good thing. One of the many good 209 00:10:19,000 --> 00:10:20,959 Speaker 1: things about the holiday season is that you can wear 210 00:10:21,000 --> 00:10:23,520 Speaker 1: all the sparkly shit in your closet with no questions 211 00:10:23,559 --> 00:10:27,000 Speaker 1: asked and everybody knows it like sparkly shit. And also 212 00:10:27,040 --> 00:10:28,959 Speaker 1: New Year's it's like the four weeks out of the 213 00:10:29,040 --> 00:10:30,880 Speaker 1: year that you can wear sparkly shit every day and 214 00:10:30,880 --> 00:10:31,840 Speaker 1: no one's questioning you. 215 00:10:32,160 --> 00:10:34,160 Speaker 4: I know, but you know what her sparkly I mean, 216 00:10:34,200 --> 00:10:36,920 Speaker 4: I can wear her sparkly shit every day actually because 217 00:10:36,960 --> 00:10:39,600 Speaker 4: it it just always looks cute. Because sometimes I'm not 218 00:10:40,120 --> 00:10:43,480 Speaker 4: I'm not really into like be dazzled things, but her 219 00:10:43,520 --> 00:10:44,440 Speaker 4: shit is fly. 220 00:10:44,800 --> 00:10:46,679 Speaker 1: Yeah it is fine. It could go like very B 221 00:10:46,840 --> 00:10:49,440 Speaker 1: two K quickly, but no, it's like it's chic. It's 222 00:10:49,520 --> 00:10:51,480 Speaker 1: cheek and I like, look look at my thumbs. 223 00:10:51,480 --> 00:10:53,679 Speaker 3: This is like a throwback. Do you remember doing this? 224 00:10:54,080 --> 00:10:55,920 Speaker 1: But you cut them in your sweatshirt? Yeah you have. 225 00:10:56,040 --> 00:10:57,720 Speaker 3: I have my thumbs out, like put your thumbs in 226 00:10:57,920 --> 00:10:58,560 Speaker 3: like the sleeve. 227 00:10:58,600 --> 00:11:00,360 Speaker 1: I wonder if like kids from the valley during that 228 00:11:00,360 --> 00:11:03,360 Speaker 1: stupid shit, I definitely did that. Was that a valley thing? 229 00:11:03,400 --> 00:11:04,520 Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know if all the kids. 230 00:11:04,800 --> 00:11:05,360 Speaker 3: Maybe that's why. 231 00:11:05,400 --> 00:11:07,079 Speaker 4: Well, she's from the valley and we're both for the valley, 232 00:11:07,080 --> 00:11:09,280 Speaker 4: and it's fucking cute. I can show off my nails. 233 00:11:09,640 --> 00:11:11,480 Speaker 1: You can show off your nails without a hole in it. 234 00:11:11,800 --> 00:11:12,560 Speaker 3: Shut the fuck up. 235 00:11:12,600 --> 00:11:16,040 Speaker 1: Okay, I just wanted to make that clear. Also, so 236 00:11:16,559 --> 00:11:19,840 Speaker 1: she's also offering our listeners a little discount for the 237 00:11:19,880 --> 00:11:23,480 Speaker 1: holiday season, and it's good moms, Good moms. 238 00:11:23,880 --> 00:11:25,199 Speaker 3: Yeah, her stuff is really cute. 239 00:11:25,240 --> 00:11:29,200 Speaker 4: She sells it at she's like Popping, She's at Free People, 240 00:11:29,360 --> 00:11:31,000 Speaker 4: She's at fred Siegel. 241 00:11:31,040 --> 00:11:35,120 Speaker 1: Like, our bitches be real lux Yeah, bitch, just love 242 00:11:35,200 --> 00:11:37,360 Speaker 1: luxury hopping and our bitches our luxury. 243 00:11:37,679 --> 00:11:39,400 Speaker 4: I just bought my mom this sweats I bought my 244 00:11:39,440 --> 00:11:40,960 Speaker 4: mom one of these for Christmas. 245 00:11:40,960 --> 00:11:41,400 Speaker 1: Oh cute. 246 00:11:41,520 --> 00:11:43,200 Speaker 3: And I'm spending all my money with Danielle. 247 00:11:43,480 --> 00:11:44,679 Speaker 1: Well that's how you supposed to do it. Keep it 248 00:11:44,720 --> 00:11:48,760 Speaker 1: in flow, baby, give your money to your friends. Yeah, hey, 249 00:11:48,800 --> 00:11:51,920 Speaker 1: your friends, it's important. Also, I don't know if you've 250 00:11:51,920 --> 00:11:55,800 Speaker 1: seen my sweatshirts. It's by this designer I really like 251 00:11:56,000 --> 00:11:57,680 Speaker 1: called Good Mom's Bad Choices. 252 00:11:58,080 --> 00:12:00,040 Speaker 3: Oh my god, I've never heard of that. 253 00:12:00,040 --> 00:12:04,800 Speaker 1: That's really this really new cool chic mom Line's expenses, 254 00:12:04,920 --> 00:12:09,160 Speaker 1: but it's comfortable, but it's affordable. But it's cool and 255 00:12:09,360 --> 00:12:12,240 Speaker 1: it says good moms the flowers. It's embroidered, and it's 256 00:12:12,320 --> 00:12:14,200 Speaker 1: just to represent pick up your kid from school and 257 00:12:14,280 --> 00:12:16,560 Speaker 1: let all the parents know you smoke weed and it's okay, 258 00:12:16,640 --> 00:12:19,199 Speaker 1: but it's chic. We like, I'm a mom that smokes weed. 259 00:12:19,360 --> 00:12:24,320 Speaker 4: Chicly, chicly weekly weekly, chkly, I smoke weed. 260 00:12:24,480 --> 00:12:26,640 Speaker 1: Let me really represented, because we know everybody wants to 261 00:12:26,679 --> 00:12:29,680 Speaker 1: represent their strand, and we put a little their strand 262 00:12:30,040 --> 00:12:37,920 Speaker 1: strand strand or strain strand, strain potato patata. If you 263 00:12:37,960 --> 00:12:40,160 Speaker 1: can hear that, that's me cleaning my teeth from my 264 00:12:40,200 --> 00:12:41,120 Speaker 1: holiday lipstick. 265 00:12:43,559 --> 00:12:44,760 Speaker 3: You don't give us some trouble. 266 00:12:44,800 --> 00:12:47,319 Speaker 4: Last time someone had gotten pissed we ate on on 267 00:12:47,360 --> 00:12:47,880 Speaker 4: the episode. 268 00:12:48,080 --> 00:12:48,560 Speaker 3: I read that. 269 00:12:48,720 --> 00:12:51,600 Speaker 1: I read that comment. They're like, this is cool podcast, 270 00:12:51,679 --> 00:12:53,440 Speaker 1: but those bitches are always if you want to hear 271 00:12:53,520 --> 00:12:56,280 Speaker 1: chewing and smacking, I'm like, we have been eight on 272 00:12:56,320 --> 00:13:00,679 Speaker 1: the podcast in fucking years. Relax when we were really 273 00:13:00,760 --> 00:13:03,000 Speaker 1: hungry and famished and doing a lot of things at once. 274 00:13:03,080 --> 00:13:06,400 Speaker 1: Our kids were too. We're stressed anyway, Yeah, this is 275 00:13:06,440 --> 00:13:08,800 Speaker 1: going to be on our website if you haven't checked 276 00:13:08,800 --> 00:13:10,200 Speaker 1: out our website. It's really cute. 277 00:13:10,280 --> 00:13:12,240 Speaker 4: I think it's I'm usually happy how it came out. 278 00:13:12,440 --> 00:13:14,559 Speaker 4: We had our bucket hats that came out during four 279 00:13:14,640 --> 00:13:16,280 Speaker 4: twenty and they said, good moms love flowers, and you 280 00:13:16,280 --> 00:13:17,760 Speaker 4: guys love them so much that we had to bring 281 00:13:17,760 --> 00:13:18,120 Speaker 4: it back. 282 00:13:18,520 --> 00:13:22,680 Speaker 1: So I think this is a niche good moms love flowers. 283 00:13:22,679 --> 00:13:24,320 Speaker 1: This our thing. It's a classy way to say I'm 284 00:13:24,320 --> 00:13:26,560 Speaker 1: a mom. I'm a mom. I'm a mom, and I 285 00:13:26,600 --> 00:13:27,080 Speaker 1: smoke weed. 286 00:13:27,160 --> 00:13:29,120 Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean, I think the Holidays is just about 287 00:13:29,280 --> 00:13:32,640 Speaker 4: celebrating what you're grateful for, celebrating your friends. I mean 288 00:13:32,720 --> 00:13:34,160 Speaker 4: all of the things that we have up here. You know, 289 00:13:34,200 --> 00:13:37,320 Speaker 4: me and Mila used personally things that have helped us. Like, 290 00:13:37,400 --> 00:13:39,000 Speaker 4: you know, we talk about a lot about you know, 291 00:13:39,040 --> 00:13:41,800 Speaker 4: how to talk about body parts with your kids and 292 00:13:42,440 --> 00:13:45,880 Speaker 4: how important that conversation is. People were so upset last 293 00:13:45,880 --> 00:13:48,640 Speaker 4: week with Deb's episode, Like there are a few people 294 00:13:48,679 --> 00:13:51,760 Speaker 4: that were so upset that, like, you know, I don't know, 295 00:13:51,800 --> 00:13:57,080 Speaker 4: like women are talking about like just regular bodily functions, 296 00:13:57,120 --> 00:13:58,040 Speaker 4: just instincts. 297 00:13:58,240 --> 00:14:00,960 Speaker 1: Just I know, it's all as interesting to me how 298 00:14:01,040 --> 00:14:04,480 Speaker 1: much it triggers people to hear the conversation about body parts, 299 00:14:04,679 --> 00:14:07,880 Speaker 1: especially when you talk about introduce like normalizing it with 300 00:14:07,920 --> 00:14:10,520 Speaker 1: your kids. But it's like, bitch, it's bound to happen, 301 00:14:10,720 --> 00:14:12,839 Speaker 1: so let's talk about it now. Let's normalize it now 302 00:14:12,880 --> 00:14:14,760 Speaker 1: that if you start fucking acting scared, how do you 303 00:14:14,800 --> 00:14:16,960 Speaker 1: think your kids are going to feel? I know, I 304 00:14:16,960 --> 00:14:19,000 Speaker 1: know you always cussing out a few people at our comments. 305 00:14:19,000 --> 00:14:22,000 Speaker 1: For sure, I was like, I don't know why. 306 00:14:22,040 --> 00:14:24,600 Speaker 4: It's like, like some girls said, it was disgusting to 307 00:14:24,800 --> 00:14:27,560 Speaker 4: like think about like a that your child has, like 308 00:14:28,400 --> 00:14:31,680 Speaker 4: in order to self soothe. They basically, you know, they 309 00:14:32,480 --> 00:14:36,000 Speaker 4: they pump sometimes, they do they explore their bodies like 310 00:14:36,600 --> 00:14:39,960 Speaker 4: it's perfectly normal. And I think that's why people are 311 00:14:39,960 --> 00:14:42,360 Speaker 4: super triggered, because they have their own traumas around that, 312 00:14:42,520 --> 00:14:44,640 Speaker 4: and then they impose it on everything else. 313 00:14:44,840 --> 00:14:47,400 Speaker 3: And I just hope those people don't have any kids. 314 00:14:48,320 --> 00:14:51,080 Speaker 1: Me too, bir because yeah, I know, well, this is 315 00:14:51,120 --> 00:14:55,640 Speaker 1: why one of my favorite like items to buy Luna 316 00:14:55,760 --> 00:14:57,800 Speaker 1: or to use in the house or I always gifted 317 00:14:57,800 --> 00:14:59,520 Speaker 1: to my friends kids because I think it's really important, 318 00:14:59,600 --> 00:15:03,480 Speaker 1: especially boys, is my little Yoni. We've had the Founder 319 00:15:03,560 --> 00:15:06,680 Speaker 1: on Ariel and that was a really good episode. If 320 00:15:06,680 --> 00:15:09,080 Speaker 1: you haven't checked it out. Check it out, but like 321 00:15:09,120 --> 00:15:11,720 Speaker 1: they've grown so much since then. This is my little 322 00:15:11,800 --> 00:15:15,040 Speaker 1: Yoni here in our Christmas tree. She's cute, She's like 323 00:15:15,080 --> 00:15:20,680 Speaker 1: a superhero, magical Yoni. It's all about sex education because 324 00:15:21,640 --> 00:15:24,400 Speaker 1: sex education really doesn't even have to be accurate like 325 00:15:25,360 --> 00:15:28,640 Speaker 1: in most of the United States, which is crazy. And 326 00:15:29,000 --> 00:15:31,040 Speaker 1: it's important that as parents we take it into our 327 00:15:31,040 --> 00:15:34,480 Speaker 1: own hands and start early, like addressing and labeling the 328 00:15:34,520 --> 00:15:37,520 Speaker 1: shit as it is. I really like this book right here, 329 00:15:37,800 --> 00:15:42,240 Speaker 1: The Amazing Truth Yoni Magic, because it's all about vagina's 330 00:15:42,320 --> 00:15:46,280 Speaker 1: and Yoni's and well, it teaches you how to like 331 00:15:46,480 --> 00:15:47,400 Speaker 1: I mean, well, it gives. 332 00:15:47,160 --> 00:15:48,760 Speaker 4: You a kind of a tool and a book to 333 00:15:48,800 --> 00:15:50,720 Speaker 4: read with your daughter. And this is for ages three 334 00:15:50,800 --> 00:15:54,080 Speaker 4: to five to start the conversation and educate them on 335 00:15:54,120 --> 00:15:57,120 Speaker 4: their body parts. And she even has one for She 336 00:15:57,160 --> 00:15:58,400 Speaker 4: has one for boys. 337 00:15:58,760 --> 00:16:00,520 Speaker 1: And I think boys should read the other one and 338 00:16:00,520 --> 00:16:02,600 Speaker 1: girls should read the other one because guess what, everybody 339 00:16:02,600 --> 00:16:06,560 Speaker 1: has penises and vaginas. Just the thing that's happening, Luna 340 00:16:06,560 --> 00:16:09,560 Speaker 1: asked me, is the thing that's happening. That's happening, Luna 341 00:16:09,560 --> 00:16:13,240 Speaker 1: asked me the other night, Mom who made vaginas and 342 00:16:13,280 --> 00:16:14,720 Speaker 1: then she's like, never mind, I know what she's going 343 00:16:14,720 --> 00:16:15,960 Speaker 1: to say. I was like, what am I going to say? 344 00:16:16,000 --> 00:16:18,960 Speaker 1: She's like God, I was like, that was what I 345 00:16:19,000 --> 00:16:19,680 Speaker 1: was going to say. 346 00:16:20,000 --> 00:16:22,920 Speaker 4: That's that's so cool that she feels comfortable like asking 347 00:16:22,960 --> 00:16:25,320 Speaker 4: you that. For some like when I was young, like 348 00:16:25,400 --> 00:16:28,640 Speaker 4: I knew not to like not new, like I shouldn't, 349 00:16:28,640 --> 00:16:32,320 Speaker 4: but I felt awkward even saying the word vagina in 350 00:16:32,320 --> 00:16:34,760 Speaker 4: front of my mom. It was a bad word. Pregnant 351 00:16:34,800 --> 00:16:38,520 Speaker 4: was a bad word. I remember, like really thinking pregnant 352 00:16:38,560 --> 00:16:39,080 Speaker 4: was a bad. 353 00:16:38,920 --> 00:16:41,520 Speaker 1: Word, even in like context of adults. 354 00:16:42,600 --> 00:16:45,160 Speaker 4: I just remember like talking to my I specifically, remember 355 00:16:45,200 --> 00:16:48,000 Speaker 4: like I was playing dolls and I was like, she 356 00:16:48,160 --> 00:16:51,520 Speaker 4: was pregnant, Like we were playing barbies and I was 357 00:16:51,560 --> 00:16:55,320 Speaker 4: like she was and then she had a baby, Like 358 00:16:55,400 --> 00:16:58,240 Speaker 4: that was fine, but the pregnant bar was not fine. 359 00:16:58,360 --> 00:16:59,840 Speaker 4: Like I don't even know what the fuck it meant, 360 00:17:00,120 --> 00:17:02,560 Speaker 4: no idea, like what what it took to be pregnant. 361 00:17:02,560 --> 00:17:04,720 Speaker 1: I just knew that, like don't talk about it. Girls 362 00:17:04,720 --> 00:17:07,040 Speaker 1: shouldn't be pregnant at a certain age and we shouldn't 363 00:17:07,040 --> 00:17:09,480 Speaker 1: talk about it, you know. I don't know if I 364 00:17:09,520 --> 00:17:11,280 Speaker 1: knew it was a bad word, but we were not 365 00:17:11,359 --> 00:17:14,919 Speaker 1: having those conversations at all, like not, and then this 366 00:17:14,960 --> 00:17:19,560 Speaker 1: other book is what's the M word for masturbation? Definitely 367 00:17:19,600 --> 00:17:23,000 Speaker 1: not having that conversation in my house ever, right. 368 00:17:22,960 --> 00:17:27,320 Speaker 4: I mean, and listen, these conversations are uncomfortable, like I'm not. 369 00:17:27,560 --> 00:17:30,720 Speaker 4: Me and Mila are obviously open and we're like, you know, 370 00:17:31,040 --> 00:17:34,480 Speaker 4: I guess you could say progressive modern parents. But there's 371 00:17:34,520 --> 00:17:37,000 Speaker 4: still a lot of uncomfortable conversations that I know I 372 00:17:37,040 --> 00:17:39,719 Speaker 4: want to have, but I still I never experienced it, 373 00:17:39,800 --> 00:17:43,440 Speaker 4: so it's so new for me even that it's uncomfortable, 374 00:17:43,480 --> 00:17:46,760 Speaker 4: but I ultimately like, I'm always happy that I had 375 00:17:46,760 --> 00:17:49,520 Speaker 4: the conversation. I'm never like, oh god, I wish we 376 00:17:49,560 --> 00:17:52,040 Speaker 4: didn't wish I didn't tell my daughter about her vagina shit. 377 00:17:52,320 --> 00:17:55,360 Speaker 1: And also it's just conversations that come up naturally and normally, 378 00:17:55,600 --> 00:17:58,400 Speaker 1: and like some of these books I haven't gotten to yet, 379 00:17:58,600 --> 00:18:01,760 Speaker 1: I'm like no, because it's just we're not there yet. 380 00:18:01,920 --> 00:18:04,000 Speaker 1: But when it comes up, I'm happy I have the 381 00:18:04,040 --> 00:18:06,640 Speaker 1: tool to be like, let me check my cupboard, would 382 00:18:06,680 --> 00:18:08,840 Speaker 1: you ask me hold on was second? Oh yep, yes, 383 00:18:08,880 --> 00:18:10,680 Speaker 1: I do it. And like the earlier you started, I 384 00:18:10,760 --> 00:18:12,760 Speaker 1: always we always talk about it, like anyone touch your 385 00:18:12,800 --> 00:18:16,679 Speaker 1: vagina lately? How was lunch? No? Yeah, I had tuna. 386 00:18:17,000 --> 00:18:19,679 Speaker 1: You know, it's just like normalizing it early so that 387 00:18:19,920 --> 00:18:23,720 Speaker 1: it's not this big, scary, forbidden thing. It's our bodies. 388 00:18:23,960 --> 00:18:26,160 Speaker 4: I think, like what you said about having like being 389 00:18:26,160 --> 00:18:27,840 Speaker 4: able to go into your cabinet and have the. 390 00:18:27,760 --> 00:18:31,560 Speaker 3: Tool is like so crucial because you get overwhelmed. 391 00:18:31,600 --> 00:18:34,480 Speaker 4: You go online and like there's so many different articles 392 00:18:34,600 --> 00:18:36,919 Speaker 4: or so many different ways to just have something in 393 00:18:36,960 --> 00:18:39,360 Speaker 4: your home that you're like, let me, how do I 394 00:18:39,359 --> 00:18:40,720 Speaker 4: I think it's time to have this conversation. 395 00:18:40,760 --> 00:18:41,440 Speaker 1: How do I do it? 396 00:18:41,800 --> 00:18:45,240 Speaker 4: That my little Yoni has like an age range of books, 397 00:18:45,280 --> 00:18:46,680 Speaker 4: like I think it goes all the way up intil 398 00:18:46,680 --> 00:18:49,639 Speaker 4: like fifteen or something where parents can feel empowered and 399 00:18:49,640 --> 00:18:51,560 Speaker 4: their kids can feel empowered to even go in their 400 00:18:51,600 --> 00:18:53,720 Speaker 4: rooms and read these books by themselves so that they 401 00:18:53,720 --> 00:18:56,560 Speaker 4: don't sometimes you know, sometimes kids are like, Okay, well 402 00:18:56,640 --> 00:18:58,159 Speaker 4: my got it. Let me just go handle I know 403 00:18:58,160 --> 00:18:59,080 Speaker 4: how to read now, thank. 404 00:18:58,960 --> 00:19:02,320 Speaker 1: You can't went to the one how to read? And 405 00:19:02,480 --> 00:19:05,800 Speaker 1: it's also a nonprofit, so your proceeds go to like 406 00:19:05,960 --> 00:19:09,159 Speaker 1: help the educate other kids that maybe can't afford the books, 407 00:19:09,200 --> 00:19:11,520 Speaker 1: so it's all it's all bombed and it's a woman 408 00:19:11,600 --> 00:19:14,040 Speaker 1: owned and we love Ariel. I don't know if you 409 00:19:14,040 --> 00:19:16,679 Speaker 1: guys heard about that magical trip to Mexico I went on. 410 00:19:16,960 --> 00:19:20,280 Speaker 1: It was with Ariel and her husband, so I yeah, 411 00:19:20,480 --> 00:19:24,119 Speaker 1: they're magical. That's where she discovered Mela Mones. Yeah. Last year, 412 00:19:24,160 --> 00:19:26,720 Speaker 1: it's almost when your anniversary of Mila Mones. I thought, 413 00:19:26,760 --> 00:19:30,320 Speaker 1: should we do some moaning for the anniversary? Okay, I'll 414 00:19:30,400 --> 00:19:33,399 Speaker 1: let you lead. Let's you know, let's just take a 415 00:19:33,440 --> 00:19:37,119 Speaker 1: moment and loosen all find all the tension in our 416 00:19:37,119 --> 00:19:40,840 Speaker 1: body and just release it. Release your jaw, release the 417 00:19:40,880 --> 00:19:44,520 Speaker 1: tension in your mouth and your eyebrows and your shoulders, 418 00:19:44,600 --> 00:19:48,520 Speaker 1: and just take a deep breath and then let it 419 00:19:48,560 --> 00:19:55,680 Speaker 1: out and just breathe and moan. Let it AOK. Good. 420 00:20:08,040 --> 00:20:09,800 Speaker 1: If you're just tuning in with us, this is not 421 00:20:09,960 --> 00:20:14,199 Speaker 1: a porn podcast. This is a meditation with moans in it. 422 00:20:15,480 --> 00:20:17,320 Speaker 1: Try it. It feels good. It feels good to have, 423 00:20:17,400 --> 00:20:20,840 Speaker 1: like ecstasy, moans just in the middle of day for 424 00:20:20,880 --> 00:20:21,320 Speaker 1: no reason. 425 00:20:21,320 --> 00:20:23,200 Speaker 4: It helps release the tension in your body. I feel 426 00:20:23,200 --> 00:20:24,320 Speaker 4: like it releases serotonin. 427 00:20:24,600 --> 00:20:26,720 Speaker 1: And when you moan and pleasure like moan and pleasure. 428 00:20:26,800 --> 00:20:32,920 Speaker 4: That's what's happening. Like you're releasing pleasure. So that's what 429 00:20:33,000 --> 00:20:35,080 Speaker 4: and that's what the holidays are about. It should be 430 00:20:35,119 --> 00:20:38,520 Speaker 4: pleasurable experience. It should should you feel you shoul feel gratitude. 431 00:20:38,560 --> 00:20:40,720 Speaker 4: You should if you're gifting people, which you know, we 432 00:20:40,760 --> 00:20:43,040 Speaker 4: have so many amazing things up here with and that 433 00:20:43,160 --> 00:20:45,600 Speaker 4: you guys can give people. But do it with gratitude. 434 00:20:45,680 --> 00:20:47,160 Speaker 4: Do it because you want to, don't do it because 435 00:20:47,200 --> 00:20:49,439 Speaker 4: you feel like you have to. You don't have to 436 00:20:49,480 --> 00:20:50,720 Speaker 4: do anything, and you. 437 00:20:50,760 --> 00:20:53,000 Speaker 1: Don't have to be huge. I'm like a sentimental gift giver. 438 00:20:53,040 --> 00:20:55,840 Speaker 1: I'll give you a picture of us framed. That's a 439 00:20:55,840 --> 00:20:57,679 Speaker 1: great good and that's the gifts I like. I'm like, 440 00:20:57,800 --> 00:21:00,480 Speaker 1: I'm gonna make it special. 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I'm actually 488 00:23:13,680 --> 00:23:17,800 Speaker 4: wearing are always on new foundation too. Do you need 489 00:23:17,840 --> 00:23:22,120 Speaker 4: a natural, beautiful, flawless good for your skin foundation, then 490 00:23:22,240 --> 00:23:25,520 Speaker 4: that's our products. We all our products are cruelty free, 491 00:23:25,720 --> 00:23:27,840 Speaker 4: vegan free, and that shit matters. 492 00:23:28,000 --> 00:23:32,080 Speaker 1: It, Yes, sustainability matters. I'm also wearing. Am I wearing 493 00:23:32,160 --> 00:23:36,040 Speaker 1: bounce or I think I'm wearing It's always on, always 494 00:23:36,080 --> 00:23:38,960 Speaker 1: on too. It's our skin to I guess, and dark too. 495 00:23:39,080 --> 00:23:41,240 Speaker 4: No, it's good because of like also when winter, your 496 00:23:41,240 --> 00:23:43,479 Speaker 4: skin gets like really dry, like even me, like my 497 00:23:43,560 --> 00:23:45,600 Speaker 4: lips right now, in fact, they need to drink some water. 498 00:23:46,119 --> 00:23:49,880 Speaker 1: Speaking of moisture, I like to moisturize my vagina. Oh 499 00:23:49,920 --> 00:23:52,280 Speaker 1: do your dollar? I do, And the only thing I 500 00:23:52,400 --> 00:23:55,400 Speaker 1: moisturize my labial with is ladies. Sweet. You know it's 501 00:23:55,400 --> 00:23:57,480 Speaker 1: a volva, right, I don't let the people come for 502 00:23:57,560 --> 00:23:58,280 Speaker 1: us to keep. 503 00:23:58,080 --> 00:24:01,880 Speaker 3: Doing this stuff. Yell is a man in our DM 504 00:24:02,080 --> 00:24:02,760 Speaker 3: just like you. 505 00:24:02,720 --> 00:24:06,960 Speaker 1: Know, somebody came in our DMS. Faceless man. He said, listen, 506 00:24:07,040 --> 00:24:09,480 Speaker 1: I'm off of social media, but I literally. 507 00:24:09,200 --> 00:24:11,560 Speaker 3: Literally like he started an account just a message. 508 00:24:11,600 --> 00:24:13,560 Speaker 1: I started this account just so I can mess you 509 00:24:13,640 --> 00:24:15,800 Speaker 1: do this. I listened to your whole episode about body parts, 510 00:24:15,840 --> 00:24:17,639 Speaker 1: and I want you guys to know you keep referring 511 00:24:17,680 --> 00:24:20,479 Speaker 1: to it as a vagina and you're limiting what it is. 512 00:24:20,520 --> 00:24:24,320 Speaker 1: It's a volva and you should really watch your language. 513 00:24:24,440 --> 00:24:28,000 Speaker 1: I was like, oh fucking shit, he's right. How I'm 514 00:24:28,040 --> 00:24:29,840 Speaker 1: like this man is I couldn't even I couldn't even 515 00:24:29,840 --> 00:24:32,600 Speaker 1: curse him out. I was just like, thank you for 516 00:24:32,680 --> 00:24:36,840 Speaker 1: opening your opening Instagram to deliver this message. I apologize 517 00:24:36,840 --> 00:24:38,960 Speaker 1: for hauling in a vagina all throughout the episode. It's 518 00:24:39,000 --> 00:24:41,320 Speaker 1: actually a yoni if you guys don't know. 519 00:24:41,400 --> 00:24:45,240 Speaker 4: For those listening, the outside of your like everything that 520 00:24:45,280 --> 00:24:48,280 Speaker 4: you can see with your eye is the vulva, So 521 00:24:49,640 --> 00:24:51,879 Speaker 4: it's not the vagina. The vagina is inside what is 522 00:24:51,880 --> 00:24:54,639 Speaker 4: it called the sheath? The vagina is actually like how 523 00:24:54,720 --> 00:24:57,520 Speaker 4: you the reason why it's called the vaginas at the 524 00:24:57,560 --> 00:24:59,679 Speaker 4: yoni That it's like a sword going into like you know, 525 00:25:00,080 --> 00:25:00,960 Speaker 4: goes into like a sheath. 526 00:25:01,200 --> 00:25:05,480 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, oh yeah, that's the meaning of vagina. Oh wow. 527 00:25:05,920 --> 00:25:11,080 Speaker 1: And yoni is the Sandscoop word for sacred passageway, that's right, 528 00:25:11,119 --> 00:25:14,360 Speaker 1: which I think is really beautiful because everybody knows this psis. 529 00:25:14,520 --> 00:25:17,919 Speaker 4: I prefer the word yoni over vagina. It's Vagina's like 530 00:25:18,119 --> 00:25:20,320 Speaker 4: that sounds very medical, it's true. 531 00:25:20,359 --> 00:25:23,680 Speaker 1: And also, you know, I think we underestimate the care 532 00:25:23,760 --> 00:25:26,840 Speaker 1: that we give our volvas. We like have routines for 533 00:25:26,920 --> 00:25:29,600 Speaker 1: our face, we have moisturizers, we have oils that are 534 00:25:29,880 --> 00:25:34,439 Speaker 1: particularly important, and then we completely ignore our vagina, I 535 00:25:34,440 --> 00:25:35,920 Speaker 1: mean our volvas. 536 00:25:36,840 --> 00:25:38,520 Speaker 3: I know the sound of the. 537 00:25:42,240 --> 00:25:44,640 Speaker 1: But Ladies Sweet has really changed that for me. It's 538 00:25:44,720 --> 00:25:48,240 Speaker 1: made me have a vulva routine and it's like especially 539 00:25:48,280 --> 00:25:52,040 Speaker 1: having ingrowns and dark spots. It's really evened out my 540 00:25:52,760 --> 00:25:55,040 Speaker 1: vulva and I love it. And it's actually made me 541 00:25:55,080 --> 00:25:57,800 Speaker 1: focus more on caring for it and like giving it 542 00:25:57,880 --> 00:26:01,280 Speaker 1: affirmations because I have a routine for it, spending time 543 00:26:01,359 --> 00:26:03,240 Speaker 1: with it and telling it like how much I'm grateful 544 00:26:03,280 --> 00:26:03,440 Speaker 1: for it. 545 00:26:03,480 --> 00:26:06,280 Speaker 3: And I love it, I know, and it also feels 546 00:26:06,280 --> 00:26:06,639 Speaker 3: good you do. 547 00:26:06,800 --> 00:26:09,119 Speaker 4: Like this oil is obviously really great on your volva, 548 00:26:09,160 --> 00:26:11,280 Speaker 4: which we should definitely use it, but I use it 549 00:26:11,320 --> 00:26:14,280 Speaker 4: on just like my elbows, like whatever, I'm really dry. 550 00:26:14,920 --> 00:26:17,760 Speaker 4: Whatever's in this is magic. And we've talked about Lady 551 00:26:17,760 --> 00:26:20,720 Speaker 4: Sweet for like a few years now. We had the 552 00:26:20,720 --> 00:26:23,399 Speaker 4: founder on as well to shout out to Teres and 553 00:26:23,880 --> 00:26:26,960 Speaker 4: she is really, I think, changing the game when it 554 00:26:26,960 --> 00:26:27,960 Speaker 4: comes to like these oils. 555 00:26:27,960 --> 00:26:29,240 Speaker 1: There's a lot of these on the market. 556 00:26:29,640 --> 00:26:31,800 Speaker 4: I've never and I've tried a lot of them even 557 00:26:31,840 --> 00:26:34,080 Speaker 4: after Lady Sweet, and I always come back to Lady 558 00:26:34,119 --> 00:26:37,440 Speaker 4: Sweet because it's really great for all of your whole 559 00:26:37,560 --> 00:26:39,560 Speaker 4: entire body. I've put it in my hair, I put 560 00:26:39,640 --> 00:26:41,880 Speaker 4: on my face. It's natural, I put on this face, 561 00:26:41,960 --> 00:26:46,199 Speaker 4: but it has literally like lightened and brightened my my 562 00:26:46,240 --> 00:26:49,840 Speaker 4: bikini area. And I get ingrowls because look at this carry. 563 00:26:49,840 --> 00:26:50,840 Speaker 4: I'll see these curls. 564 00:26:50,960 --> 00:26:56,399 Speaker 1: These curls, yes, and blinds match the drapes. That's all 565 00:26:56,400 --> 00:26:57,000 Speaker 1: I going to stay. 566 00:26:57,160 --> 00:26:59,879 Speaker 3: And if you have the curly hair, you know, like 567 00:27:00,080 --> 00:27:00,840 Speaker 3: you get ingrowns. 568 00:27:00,840 --> 00:27:03,160 Speaker 4: It's like they come out, they just tuck back inside 569 00:27:03,240 --> 00:27:04,400 Speaker 4: and then suddenly have a fun. 570 00:27:04,440 --> 00:27:06,880 Speaker 1: Sometimes they don't even get out. I'm like, what the fuck, 571 00:27:06,920 --> 00:27:08,400 Speaker 1: how did you even get in? You didn't even try 572 00:27:08,440 --> 00:27:12,119 Speaker 1: to get out? How did this happen? The fuck my body? 573 00:27:12,200 --> 00:27:15,160 Speaker 3: Were sitting there with tweezers. 574 00:27:14,520 --> 00:27:16,280 Speaker 1: And Luna's coming in like what are you doing that? 575 00:27:16,359 --> 00:27:17,720 Speaker 1: She's like, let me see, let me try. I'm like, 576 00:27:17,800 --> 00:27:21,119 Speaker 1: back up, you're in my light. I've birthed a baby 577 00:27:21,160 --> 00:27:23,439 Speaker 1: that is like just like me. So we like to 578 00:27:23,440 --> 00:27:25,560 Speaker 1: pop pimples and like dig in blackhead. She said, let 579 00:27:25,600 --> 00:27:26,719 Speaker 1: me pop it, let me get it, let me get 580 00:27:26,720 --> 00:27:28,320 Speaker 1: the ingrown A'm my girl, If you don't get your 581 00:27:28,359 --> 00:27:31,760 Speaker 1: seven year old ass out of my ingrowns. 582 00:27:32,200 --> 00:27:35,240 Speaker 4: Yeah, no, I love I love lady sweet there. They 583 00:27:35,240 --> 00:27:37,840 Speaker 4: also this new product of the glob Refiner. Have you 584 00:27:37,840 --> 00:27:39,639 Speaker 4: tried it? This one's really good too, uh huh. And 585 00:27:39,680 --> 00:27:42,040 Speaker 4: then their packaging is so cute and. 586 00:27:41,960 --> 00:27:44,440 Speaker 1: They have a wonderful set where all of the routine 587 00:27:44,440 --> 00:27:47,240 Speaker 1: comes together so you can buy all of it in 588 00:27:47,320 --> 00:27:49,520 Speaker 1: one which is great because you don't have to. I 589 00:27:49,600 --> 00:27:52,560 Speaker 1: just think that, like so many women struggle with, like 590 00:27:52,600 --> 00:27:57,280 Speaker 1: feeling insecure in their underwear, feeling insecure in their bathing suits, 591 00:27:57,400 --> 00:27:59,480 Speaker 1: and you don't have to. Like, no one talks about 592 00:27:59,520 --> 00:28:01,200 Speaker 1: it because if they feel like it's weird or something's 593 00:28:01,200 --> 00:28:04,119 Speaker 1: wrong with their bikini area, but everybody experiences it. 594 00:28:04,320 --> 00:28:06,000 Speaker 4: Yeah, and I think that, I mean it comes back 595 00:28:06,000 --> 00:28:08,359 Speaker 4: to the conversation earlier where we're talking about just like 596 00:28:08,880 --> 00:28:12,400 Speaker 4: not feeling comfortable, like not knowing our parents, not having 597 00:28:12,440 --> 00:28:14,480 Speaker 4: the language to talk about certain things with us, not 598 00:28:14,560 --> 00:28:17,240 Speaker 4: talking about how to care for your body parts, thinking 599 00:28:17,280 --> 00:28:19,840 Speaker 4: that like your beauty is the only thing you have 600 00:28:19,880 --> 00:28:22,160 Speaker 4: to worry about, like this thing on your like your. 601 00:28:21,960 --> 00:28:24,480 Speaker 1: Face, just make sure you keep that good because people 602 00:28:24,520 --> 00:28:25,679 Speaker 1: can see that. Yeah. 603 00:28:25,720 --> 00:28:28,000 Speaker 3: But it's like, no, I think that. 604 00:28:28,200 --> 00:28:31,040 Speaker 1: Everything deserves the system, including your velvas. 605 00:28:30,760 --> 00:28:31,600 Speaker 3: In twenty twenty two. 606 00:28:31,880 --> 00:28:34,560 Speaker 1: I'm treating my body like the goddess that it is 607 00:28:35,080 --> 00:28:37,840 Speaker 1: all parts, not just the face. That's true. 608 00:28:38,120 --> 00:28:40,080 Speaker 4: And so Ladys Sweet's giving us a discount today too, 609 00:28:40,160 --> 00:28:42,120 Speaker 4: and we kind of always have a discount with them. 610 00:28:42,440 --> 00:28:44,120 Speaker 4: So if you, you know, have been wanting to try it, 611 00:28:44,160 --> 00:28:46,080 Speaker 4: I think this is the perfect time to try it. 612 00:28:46,080 --> 00:28:51,520 Speaker 4: It's GMBC fifty fifteen fifteen percent off Lady Sweet, woman 613 00:28:51,560 --> 00:28:54,600 Speaker 4: owned and this is a really great gift as well 614 00:28:54,640 --> 00:28:57,880 Speaker 4: to yourself. So how do they recommend, Lady Sweet. 615 00:28:58,040 --> 00:29:02,640 Speaker 1: Speaking of gifts to yourself to quiet secret masturbation in 616 00:29:02,680 --> 00:29:06,520 Speaker 1: the middle of the day is always nice. Lately I've 617 00:29:06,520 --> 00:29:08,120 Speaker 1: been trying to do that. I've been needing it in 618 00:29:08,160 --> 00:29:08,920 Speaker 1: the middle of the day. 619 00:29:09,000 --> 00:29:11,000 Speaker 4: You know, this is my shit, I know, I know, 620 00:29:11,560 --> 00:29:14,160 Speaker 4: like masturbation to take the edge off is the key 621 00:29:14,280 --> 00:29:14,640 Speaker 4: to life. 622 00:29:14,680 --> 00:29:16,440 Speaker 3: Okay, it is my favorite flex. 623 00:29:16,560 --> 00:29:19,960 Speaker 4: It is the secret sauce that people need to get 624 00:29:20,000 --> 00:29:20,840 Speaker 4: on money. 625 00:29:20,880 --> 00:29:21,080 Speaker 3: Sex. 626 00:29:21,160 --> 00:29:22,840 Speaker 1: Masturbation is the key to life. 627 00:29:24,880 --> 00:29:26,480 Speaker 3: That doesn't really flow off the tongue. 628 00:29:26,520 --> 00:29:29,280 Speaker 1: But yeah, that's what popped into my head. God, just 629 00:29:29,360 --> 00:29:31,840 Speaker 1: let me go with it. I don't know. I've been 630 00:29:31,840 --> 00:29:33,920 Speaker 1: taking your advice and sometimes I'm like, I'll be right back. 631 00:29:33,960 --> 00:29:37,000 Speaker 1: You're getting out my nerves. One thing about this sex toy, 632 00:29:37,160 --> 00:29:40,680 Speaker 1: it's super quiet. It's the world's quiet a sex toy. 633 00:29:41,240 --> 00:29:44,200 Speaker 4: And if your mom that you know, some of these 634 00:29:44,240 --> 00:29:47,000 Speaker 4: toys are so motherfucking loud that you. 635 00:29:47,000 --> 00:29:49,440 Speaker 1: Can't can't do it in peace. Everyone in the household 636 00:29:49,480 --> 00:29:50,160 Speaker 1: for sure hear you. 637 00:29:50,440 --> 00:29:54,800 Speaker 4: They're so loud and so actually it's the toy is 638 00:29:54,800 --> 00:29:57,320 Speaker 4: designed by a husband and wife and they created it 639 00:29:57,360 --> 00:29:59,360 Speaker 4: because of that very reason. They have kids, and they 640 00:29:59,360 --> 00:30:01,520 Speaker 4: were like, how we actually have fun with toys when 641 00:30:01,560 --> 00:30:04,000 Speaker 4: our kids are home because they're always home, especially when 642 00:30:04,000 --> 00:30:05,920 Speaker 4: you're married. Poor babies. Off a shout out to the 643 00:30:05,920 --> 00:30:07,560 Speaker 4: married people. They never get a break alone. 644 00:30:07,600 --> 00:30:08,360 Speaker 1: Peese Luise. 645 00:30:09,040 --> 00:30:11,080 Speaker 4: It's like the one gift of being a single mom 646 00:30:11,200 --> 00:30:13,560 Speaker 4: is like, yeah, we get to drop them kids off 647 00:30:13,560 --> 00:30:15,320 Speaker 4: to the other parent, go home and do whatever the 648 00:30:15,360 --> 00:30:16,040 Speaker 4: fuck we want to do. 649 00:30:16,160 --> 00:30:18,680 Speaker 1: I say it all the time. It's God's greatest gift 650 00:30:18,720 --> 00:30:22,000 Speaker 1: to me is becoming a single parent, because I am 651 00:30:22,080 --> 00:30:24,560 Speaker 1: a better parent because of it. I when I was 652 00:30:24,600 --> 00:30:26,880 Speaker 1: a primary parent and living with another parent, I was 653 00:30:27,040 --> 00:30:31,240 Speaker 1: losing my shit. So like the breaks are really a perk, 654 00:30:31,720 --> 00:30:35,280 Speaker 1: I know, but sometimes even as you know, moms usually 655 00:30:35,360 --> 00:30:37,480 Speaker 1: have the kids more and sometimes you need to take 656 00:30:37,480 --> 00:30:40,920 Speaker 1: a midday masturbation break in. Iova has the most the 657 00:30:41,000 --> 00:30:44,880 Speaker 1: quietest toys on the market, and they're super chic and cute. 658 00:30:45,160 --> 00:30:46,840 Speaker 1: This one, I love. It just fits in the palm 659 00:30:46,880 --> 00:30:47,440 Speaker 1: of your hand. 660 00:30:47,840 --> 00:30:48,719 Speaker 3: Look at this one. 661 00:30:49,400 --> 00:30:51,280 Speaker 1: You can't hear it though, because it's see how quiet 662 00:30:51,320 --> 00:30:55,720 Speaker 1: is you can't hear it. You're not going to because 663 00:30:55,720 --> 00:31:01,320 Speaker 1: it's it's the world's quiet as sex toy. That one's 664 00:31:01,360 --> 00:31:02,120 Speaker 1: for your G spot. 665 00:31:02,280 --> 00:31:04,120 Speaker 3: This is the g Yeah, this is the G Spot. 666 00:31:04,160 --> 00:31:08,400 Speaker 4: Oh my g And I have never I've never bought 667 00:31:08,640 --> 00:31:10,560 Speaker 4: a G Spot toy until I got this one. 668 00:31:11,160 --> 00:31:14,120 Speaker 3: And I never even thought about like the difference. 669 00:31:14,160 --> 00:31:16,720 Speaker 4: I never thought about like pleasing, like using pleasure and 670 00:31:16,880 --> 00:31:19,000 Speaker 4: just in a in a very focused way in that 671 00:31:19,000 --> 00:31:21,880 Speaker 4: way obviously like yes the clip, but like other than that, no, 672 00:31:22,520 --> 00:31:24,720 Speaker 4: And so I think this is really unique because the 673 00:31:24,760 --> 00:31:27,800 Speaker 4: G Spot really it focuses on just that area. 674 00:31:28,440 --> 00:31:31,280 Speaker 1: And this also, you know, paired. 675 00:31:31,000 --> 00:31:34,520 Speaker 4: With a vibrator or something like that on your clip, like. 676 00:31:34,840 --> 00:31:38,720 Speaker 1: It's a it's a home run combo, quiet home run combo. Okay, 677 00:31:38,880 --> 00:31:42,680 Speaker 1: thank you Ayoba for making the quietest toys on the market, 678 00:31:42,720 --> 00:31:44,680 Speaker 1: and for making the og because. 679 00:31:44,560 --> 00:31:45,920 Speaker 3: And they're so and they're so sleek. 680 00:31:46,160 --> 00:31:48,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, and because you know what, if your daughter, your 681 00:31:48,320 --> 00:31:50,560 Speaker 1: kid finds that, you could say it's a massager for 682 00:31:50,640 --> 00:31:51,000 Speaker 1: your neck. 683 00:31:52,280 --> 00:31:55,240 Speaker 3: Honestly, yeah, like, what what would you tell Luna this. 684 00:31:55,240 --> 00:31:57,920 Speaker 1: Is for it's a fake telephone. Hello, oh my god, 685 00:31:59,320 --> 00:32:02,240 Speaker 1: it's me. It's other walkie talkies. 686 00:32:02,200 --> 00:32:05,600 Speaker 3: For my face. No, no, not only for adults. That's 687 00:32:05,640 --> 00:32:06,360 Speaker 3: my favorite thing to say. 688 00:32:06,360 --> 00:32:06,520 Speaker 1: You have. 689 00:32:06,840 --> 00:32:07,640 Speaker 3: Nope, only for adults. 690 00:32:07,680 --> 00:32:08,680 Speaker 1: No, this is how you can't go. 691 00:32:08,720 --> 00:32:09,640 Speaker 3: It's only for adults. 692 00:32:10,240 --> 00:32:15,720 Speaker 1: Nope, this missage. He was only for adults. Hello, yeah, 693 00:32:15,920 --> 00:32:17,560 Speaker 1: copy over and out. 694 00:32:18,040 --> 00:32:20,120 Speaker 3: This is me and oh yeah, Jamila, that's the other one. 695 00:32:20,200 --> 00:32:21,760 Speaker 3: It's our walkie talk When. 696 00:32:21,560 --> 00:32:24,480 Speaker 1: We play walkie talkie, it's hello. Yeah. You wouldn't know neither. 697 00:32:24,680 --> 00:32:28,480 Speaker 1: Just don't touch it. Whatever you do, just don't put 698 00:32:28,520 --> 00:32:29,000 Speaker 1: it in your mouth. 699 00:32:29,040 --> 00:32:33,720 Speaker 4: Oh god, please God, don't don't show any of your friends. 700 00:32:33,920 --> 00:32:35,720 Speaker 3: Don't tell your friends. Mommy, Pa, you nowhere in that 701 00:32:35,800 --> 00:32:36,280 Speaker 3: age now. 702 00:32:36,320 --> 00:32:38,160 Speaker 4: And I realized that is that we're in the age 703 00:32:38,160 --> 00:32:40,080 Speaker 4: now where like our kids are gonna start going sneaking 704 00:32:40,080 --> 00:32:42,960 Speaker 4: through our ship and showing their friends because we did that. 705 00:32:43,240 --> 00:32:44,400 Speaker 1: Did you do that? I know you did that. 706 00:32:44,440 --> 00:32:45,040 Speaker 3: You still do that? 707 00:32:45,640 --> 00:32:47,760 Speaker 1: What? Shut the fuck up. 708 00:32:48,400 --> 00:32:51,080 Speaker 3: I'm just kidding, I still do that. I'm just kidding. 709 00:32:51,560 --> 00:32:54,920 Speaker 4: No. But I remember like going like when my mom 710 00:32:54,920 --> 00:32:57,360 Speaker 4: would be gone, like I'd go through her drawers. I'd 711 00:32:57,400 --> 00:32:59,280 Speaker 4: find Like it wasn't that I was even looking for 712 00:32:59,320 --> 00:33:01,760 Speaker 4: anything naughty. I just was like interested in like looking. 713 00:33:01,840 --> 00:33:04,200 Speaker 4: She had this drawer like full of secret jewelry from 714 00:33:04,240 --> 00:33:05,720 Speaker 4: like when she was younger. 715 00:33:06,160 --> 00:33:07,880 Speaker 3: God, what does that mean? Like now, I thought it 716 00:33:07,920 --> 00:33:08,800 Speaker 3: was like so long. 717 00:33:08,640 --> 00:33:11,320 Speaker 4: Ago, but like it was like fell before me, before me, 718 00:33:11,400 --> 00:33:14,400 Speaker 4: like seven years before or something, And I felt like 719 00:33:14,440 --> 00:33:17,480 Speaker 4: I was finding treasures of hers in there. And I 720 00:33:17,480 --> 00:33:19,760 Speaker 4: think that's where like my infatuation with jewelry came from too. 721 00:33:19,800 --> 00:33:21,920 Speaker 4: It is because I would like find these little treasures 722 00:33:21,920 --> 00:33:22,480 Speaker 4: in her drawer. 723 00:33:23,080 --> 00:33:27,240 Speaker 3: Never found a vibrator, however, Irie I'm a different mom. 724 00:33:28,480 --> 00:33:31,520 Speaker 4: I have a basket full of fucking vibrators, dil do 725 00:33:31,840 --> 00:33:35,000 Speaker 4: strap ons, all types of shit that brands send me. 726 00:33:35,040 --> 00:33:37,080 Speaker 3: And I'm like, I need to do a better job 727 00:33:37,080 --> 00:33:37,600 Speaker 3: at hiding it. 728 00:33:37,640 --> 00:33:39,240 Speaker 1: I saw your hiding spot on, bitch. This is not 729 00:33:39,280 --> 00:33:41,400 Speaker 1: a hiding spot at all. It's like under a chair 730 00:33:41,640 --> 00:33:43,720 Speaker 1: that the chair is not low at all, and it's 731 00:33:43,760 --> 00:33:46,760 Speaker 1: like a scarf over it. I'm like, witch, I mean, 732 00:33:47,200 --> 00:33:48,840 Speaker 1: I have so many at this point it's hard to 733 00:33:48,920 --> 00:33:53,240 Speaker 1: hide it. That's why they're all neck massages because kids 734 00:33:53,240 --> 00:33:56,360 Speaker 1: are nosy and this, yeah, this is but this is 735 00:33:56,400 --> 00:33:59,080 Speaker 1: just great. Not only is it quiet, it can also 736 00:33:59,120 --> 00:34:01,320 Speaker 1: double as a phone. We're a walkie talkie. 737 00:34:01,360 --> 00:34:03,360 Speaker 4: So make sure you check out Ioba Toys am and 738 00:34:03,560 --> 00:34:06,360 Speaker 4: use Good Mom's thirty for a discount and try this out. 739 00:34:06,440 --> 00:34:08,600 Speaker 1: Let me know what you think. And while you're using it, 740 00:34:08,840 --> 00:34:12,080 Speaker 1: I highly recommend you light a frolic and stage candle. 741 00:34:12,960 --> 00:34:15,560 Speaker 4: Mood is so important during masturbation. That's what I've realized 742 00:34:15,560 --> 00:34:17,759 Speaker 4: because that's the one thing too about a quickie, Like 743 00:34:17,800 --> 00:34:18,239 Speaker 4: they're good. 744 00:34:18,280 --> 00:34:18,960 Speaker 1: I love a quickie. 745 00:34:19,000 --> 00:34:20,799 Speaker 3: It helps the edge, But there's nothing like. 746 00:34:20,800 --> 00:34:25,239 Speaker 4: Setting the mood and the vibe of your house when 747 00:34:25,239 --> 00:34:27,880 Speaker 4: you're getting ready to experience pleasure, even if you're not 748 00:34:27,880 --> 00:34:30,000 Speaker 4: experienced pleasure, just the mood and the vibe of your 749 00:34:30,000 --> 00:34:32,239 Speaker 4: house at night, Like I love when my house is 750 00:34:32,280 --> 00:34:33,279 Speaker 4: like pitch black and I have. 751 00:34:33,320 --> 00:34:36,680 Speaker 1: Candles everywhere, I feel like so grown and a dolt, 752 00:34:36,800 --> 00:34:38,880 Speaker 1: Like I'm such a fucking adult. I light an incidant, 753 00:34:38,920 --> 00:34:39,919 Speaker 1: I put some jazz music. 754 00:34:40,040 --> 00:34:42,600 Speaker 3: I'm like, but you can't tell me nothing in my dirties. 755 00:34:42,840 --> 00:34:43,359 Speaker 3: This is my. 756 00:34:43,360 --> 00:34:46,839 Speaker 1: House, Like got candles this year? Like mm hmm, this 757 00:34:46,920 --> 00:34:49,799 Speaker 1: is wait in two weeks hill, I'm thirty years old. Yes, 758 00:34:49,840 --> 00:34:51,640 Speaker 1: I am about to make dinner. 759 00:34:52,560 --> 00:34:57,000 Speaker 4: I know, making dinner, not inviting no one over. This 760 00:34:57,040 --> 00:34:59,480 Speaker 4: is a lady's only night, and I am the lady. 761 00:35:01,360 --> 00:35:02,960 Speaker 4: It's very grown and sexy in here. 762 00:35:03,280 --> 00:35:05,480 Speaker 1: That's when you know you've when you've litten, When you 763 00:35:05,600 --> 00:35:07,600 Speaker 1: like more than five candles a night at your house, 764 00:35:07,680 --> 00:35:11,600 Speaker 1: that you've entered adult life. It's true, especially when you 765 00:35:11,600 --> 00:35:13,520 Speaker 1: invest in your candles and don't only buy the cheap 766 00:35:13,560 --> 00:35:16,000 Speaker 1: ones from the nine nine cent store. That's why I 767 00:35:16,000 --> 00:35:18,640 Speaker 1: really like frolic In Sage. They're like sexy for your 768 00:35:18,920 --> 00:35:21,960 Speaker 1: like just the sheakness of your house. And they all 769 00:35:21,960 --> 00:35:24,880 Speaker 1: say like really cute shit like this one says, smile, 770 00:35:24,960 --> 00:35:28,000 Speaker 1: there's wine. Everybody knows that's the reason to smile. Calm 771 00:35:28,080 --> 00:35:30,600 Speaker 1: your ass down. Everybody knows the reminder to calm your 772 00:35:30,600 --> 00:35:35,080 Speaker 1: fucking ass down. I definitely do. And let's chill. That's 773 00:35:35,120 --> 00:35:37,759 Speaker 1: just what better way to say. Netflix and chill mm 774 00:35:37,840 --> 00:35:40,560 Speaker 1: hmm in but over thirty edition? 775 00:35:41,560 --> 00:35:43,200 Speaker 3: Yes is that? 776 00:35:43,280 --> 00:35:44,080 Speaker 1: What is this? Ax? 777 00:35:44,440 --> 00:35:44,880 Speaker 3: I want to know? 778 00:35:46,120 --> 00:35:48,920 Speaker 1: That's grown and sexy voice. Hey baby, it's an adult 779 00:35:49,040 --> 00:35:52,640 Speaker 1: on the phone. I'm a grown woman. I like candles. Yes, 780 00:35:52,680 --> 00:35:56,200 Speaker 1: I'm Jamilla. No, you can't come over tonight. Tonight's grown 781 00:35:56,200 --> 00:36:00,239 Speaker 1: in sexy night. No no, no, maybe next week my 782 00:36:00,320 --> 00:36:05,200 Speaker 1: schedule because I'm adult and I got a schedule. Yeah, 783 00:36:05,239 --> 00:36:06,600 Speaker 1: my calendar will send you an invite. 784 00:36:06,640 --> 00:36:07,480 Speaker 3: Maybe shut them. 785 00:36:11,800 --> 00:36:14,760 Speaker 1: Also, it's black owned. Yeah, and it's a woman owned, 786 00:36:14,880 --> 00:36:17,279 Speaker 1: and she's dope, and she makes beautiful candles and they 787 00:36:17,320 --> 00:36:20,239 Speaker 1: smell bomb. There's nothing like cleaning your house. That's another thing. 788 00:36:20,280 --> 00:36:22,080 Speaker 1: You clean your house, You light the candles, and then 789 00:36:22,120 --> 00:36:23,759 Speaker 1: you come in after you take the trash out because 790 00:36:23,760 --> 00:36:25,359 Speaker 1: you're a grown woman and you're single and you can 791 00:36:25,400 --> 00:36:29,480 Speaker 1: take the trash out by your fucking self. And okay, yeah, 792 00:36:30,239 --> 00:36:31,839 Speaker 1: sometimes I just wish I had a nagger to take 793 00:36:31,880 --> 00:36:32,520 Speaker 1: the trash. 794 00:36:32,239 --> 00:36:33,759 Speaker 3: Out me too, That's really all I need. 795 00:36:33,960 --> 00:36:36,200 Speaker 4: Yeah, and they and buy the groceries and yeah, i'm 796 00:36:36,200 --> 00:36:37,040 Speaker 4: comfort the gas. 797 00:36:37,200 --> 00:36:37,680 Speaker 3: I could do that. 798 00:36:37,680 --> 00:36:39,000 Speaker 1: I don't need that. I don't like that. I don't 799 00:36:39,040 --> 00:36:39,239 Speaker 1: like that. 800 00:36:39,360 --> 00:36:41,000 Speaker 3: You know, it gets so I don't like that either. 801 00:36:42,280 --> 00:36:43,839 Speaker 3: Car with the nigga the other day and he didn't 802 00:36:43,840 --> 00:36:44,319 Speaker 3: get out. 803 00:36:45,239 --> 00:36:47,160 Speaker 1: No, I don't like that. 804 00:36:47,320 --> 00:36:49,520 Speaker 4: I was annoyed and I said something and then he 805 00:36:49,560 --> 00:36:51,279 Speaker 4: did and then we went again, and then he. 806 00:36:51,239 --> 00:36:53,399 Speaker 3: Never did it again. But honestly, what the fuck? 807 00:36:53,480 --> 00:36:56,319 Speaker 1: You should just know that that's a prime example of 808 00:36:56,320 --> 00:37:02,279 Speaker 1: no home training. Niggaid have a few responsibilities. Just get 809 00:37:02,320 --> 00:37:04,879 Speaker 1: out and pump the gas. Yeah, card, stay hard, pump 810 00:37:04,960 --> 00:37:08,440 Speaker 1: the gas, take out the trash, leave me some money 811 00:37:08,600 --> 00:37:12,640 Speaker 1: for my nails, you know. Just kill a couple of bugs. 812 00:37:12,640 --> 00:37:16,480 Speaker 1: That's it, amen, I'll take care of the ambiance, ordering 813 00:37:16,520 --> 00:37:17,759 Speaker 1: and lighting the candles. 814 00:37:17,840 --> 00:37:19,719 Speaker 3: There's something sexy about a man that can take care 815 00:37:19,760 --> 00:37:20,400 Speaker 3: of the ambiance. 816 00:37:20,400 --> 00:37:22,160 Speaker 1: Though, me too. There's something sexy about coming to a 817 00:37:22,160 --> 00:37:24,840 Speaker 1: man's house and he has the frolic and say has them. 818 00:37:25,680 --> 00:37:29,240 Speaker 1: If a niggas a frolic in sage, if plant handies 819 00:37:29,280 --> 00:37:31,480 Speaker 1: are coming off, if a nigga has some candles and 820 00:37:31,520 --> 00:37:36,040 Speaker 1: some plants that are living, whoa you an adult too? Yeah? 821 00:37:36,440 --> 00:37:37,080 Speaker 3: Handies off? 822 00:37:37,360 --> 00:37:40,319 Speaker 1: Yeah? Because Lord knows, women, adult women go to a 823 00:37:40,320 --> 00:37:44,520 Speaker 1: lot of unadult houses with no candles and no no nothing. 824 00:37:44,840 --> 00:37:45,239 Speaker 1: I go to. 825 00:37:45,239 --> 00:37:47,759 Speaker 4: Adult women's homes like this, and I'm like, what are 826 00:37:47,760 --> 00:37:48,760 Speaker 4: you doing over here? 827 00:37:48,760 --> 00:37:49,279 Speaker 1: You all right? 828 00:37:50,280 --> 00:37:52,319 Speaker 3: But yeah, frolic In Sage is offering our good Mom 829 00:37:52,440 --> 00:37:55,840 Speaker 3: listeners fifteen percent off when you use code Good Moms, 830 00:37:55,960 --> 00:37:58,439 Speaker 3: So make sure you check them out. She's actually based 831 00:37:58,440 --> 00:38:01,640 Speaker 3: in La Shout out to Aerin. She's amazing. One thing 832 00:38:01,680 --> 00:38:03,759 Speaker 3: that's really great. I'm going into twenty twenty two. We're 833 00:38:03,800 --> 00:38:06,800 Speaker 3: all trying to work on our All of our things 834 00:38:06,840 --> 00:38:09,440 Speaker 3: are our hair, our skin, everything. 835 00:38:09,719 --> 00:38:12,920 Speaker 4: And one of the things that everything one of the 836 00:38:12,920 --> 00:38:15,080 Speaker 4: things that was really been helping me because I've been 837 00:38:15,320 --> 00:38:18,960 Speaker 4: breaking out and also I have uneven skin tone is 838 00:38:19,040 --> 00:38:22,160 Speaker 4: this brand called Verbal Face Food. It's literally one hundred 839 00:38:22,200 --> 00:38:25,319 Speaker 4: percent organic, Like they premix this before they send it 840 00:38:25,320 --> 00:38:27,399 Speaker 4: out like in a lab. They have all these raw 841 00:38:27,520 --> 00:38:30,400 Speaker 4: ingredients they mix each bottle. When you order it, like 842 00:38:30,600 --> 00:38:33,040 Speaker 4: open it up because you'll see, like how it looks raw. 843 00:38:33,120 --> 00:38:35,640 Speaker 1: Okay, this shit is raw. This is sexy packaging too. 844 00:38:35,719 --> 00:38:37,799 Speaker 1: And you know, just the simple fact that it's called 845 00:38:37,880 --> 00:38:40,480 Speaker 1: Verbal Facehood makes me really feel like my face is hungry. 846 00:38:40,680 --> 00:38:41,640 Speaker 1: It needs this right now. 847 00:38:41,680 --> 00:38:43,440 Speaker 4: So this one is called the cure. And this is 848 00:38:43,520 --> 00:38:46,239 Speaker 4: for like when you have dark spots if you have molasma. 849 00:38:46,680 --> 00:38:50,400 Speaker 4: This has cured people's malasma and just cleared up my 850 00:38:50,480 --> 00:38:52,200 Speaker 4: acne overnight. Like if I have a ZiT, I put 851 00:38:52,239 --> 00:38:54,040 Speaker 4: this shit on here and it's fucking gone. 852 00:38:54,080 --> 00:38:55,520 Speaker 1: You know how you open something and you smell it 853 00:38:55,520 --> 00:38:57,319 Speaker 1: and you know it smells like it works. This shit 854 00:38:57,320 --> 00:38:58,520 Speaker 1: smells like right. 855 00:38:58,320 --> 00:39:00,800 Speaker 4: It does, like I don't know why when I don't 856 00:39:00,920 --> 00:39:04,719 Speaker 4: use it, it literally feels like a ginger shot your face. Yeah, 857 00:39:04,760 --> 00:39:07,120 Speaker 4: that's exactly like I was like, oh, because I like 858 00:39:07,200 --> 00:39:08,080 Speaker 4: when the shit tingles. 859 00:39:08,200 --> 00:39:09,600 Speaker 1: I needed to tangle to know it's working. 860 00:39:09,640 --> 00:39:10,480 Speaker 3: But I don't really like. 861 00:39:10,440 --> 00:39:13,600 Speaker 4: When I know it's like fake ingredients or it's like alcohol, 862 00:39:13,760 --> 00:39:18,120 Speaker 4: Like this is tingling with real, like live ingredients. 863 00:39:18,160 --> 00:39:21,160 Speaker 1: So I don't have to use try this herbal face food. No, 864 00:39:21,280 --> 00:39:23,799 Speaker 1: actually you can have this really yes, very Christmas, Merry 865 00:39:23,840 --> 00:39:26,400 Speaker 1: Christmas is my wife got me face. So you use 866 00:39:26,440 --> 00:39:27,040 Speaker 1: the cure. 867 00:39:26,880 --> 00:39:29,400 Speaker 4: First just for like spot treatments, and then you use 868 00:39:29,440 --> 00:39:31,520 Speaker 4: the serum all over your face. We have to make 869 00:39:31,520 --> 00:39:33,440 Speaker 4: sure you shake it up really well before you use 870 00:39:33,480 --> 00:39:36,600 Speaker 4: it because it's like raw, like live and like ingredients. 871 00:39:36,840 --> 00:39:38,520 Speaker 1: I'm gonna beautiful by next week. Should put in the 872 00:39:38,560 --> 00:39:39,399 Speaker 1: refrigerator or no. 873 00:39:40,320 --> 00:39:42,480 Speaker 3: No, I asked you if you should do that. 874 00:39:42,520 --> 00:39:43,080 Speaker 1: You don't have to. 875 00:39:43,280 --> 00:39:47,200 Speaker 4: Actually, they're sustainable and they're actually just featured in Vogue 876 00:39:47,239 --> 00:39:51,200 Speaker 4: as one of Folge's favorite new skin products. So make 877 00:39:51,239 --> 00:39:54,360 Speaker 4: sure you use watch Erica and you get twenty percent off. 878 00:39:54,920 --> 00:39:57,560 Speaker 4: And those are those are magic for your face. So 879 00:39:57,600 --> 00:40:01,359 Speaker 4: if you have acne or malasma or uneven that's the one. 880 00:40:02,360 --> 00:40:02,759 Speaker 1: Mm hmm. 881 00:40:03,880 --> 00:40:05,640 Speaker 3: Everyone's gonna be so pretty next year. 882 00:40:08,040 --> 00:40:12,120 Speaker 1: Okay, it's gonna beautiful, beautiful, their vulva's their face. And 883 00:40:12,160 --> 00:40:16,759 Speaker 1: we're also gonna be fashionable because we've also just got 884 00:40:16,840 --> 00:40:20,560 Speaker 1: new Sisee purses. You guys have seen these on the internet. 885 00:40:20,719 --> 00:40:22,440 Speaker 4: I feel like I see these everywhere and that's why 886 00:40:22,440 --> 00:40:24,000 Speaker 4: I'm just really excited to finally get one. 887 00:40:24,040 --> 00:40:26,320 Speaker 3: And I was like, oh my god, we got our sices. 888 00:40:26,160 --> 00:40:28,160 Speaker 1: I know, and they have like they're just like really 889 00:40:28,320 --> 00:40:31,719 Speaker 1: chic vegan leather bags. And if you know me, you 890 00:40:31,760 --> 00:40:34,160 Speaker 1: know I'm a fucking bag lady. I have a lot 891 00:40:34,239 --> 00:40:37,600 Speaker 1: of things to carry places because I'm an adult and 892 00:40:37,640 --> 00:40:41,800 Speaker 1: I have very important materials. And I like this because 893 00:40:41,800 --> 00:40:45,800 Speaker 1: it's their statement pieces protect black women. Everybody needs to 894 00:40:45,840 --> 00:40:47,879 Speaker 1: see this once or four hundred times a day. 895 00:40:48,200 --> 00:40:50,919 Speaker 4: No, I think it's really chic and it's really made 896 00:40:50,960 --> 00:40:53,000 Speaker 4: really well. I love this and it's Black owned. 897 00:40:53,360 --> 00:40:57,000 Speaker 1: Shout out to Blake, our friend who is also in 898 00:40:57,160 --> 00:40:59,440 Speaker 1: La Down. We got a lot of La Black owned 899 00:41:00,120 --> 00:41:02,560 Speaker 1: products that we love because you know, you gotta represent 900 00:41:02,600 --> 00:41:05,320 Speaker 1: for your friends and she and also make it fashion. 901 00:41:05,560 --> 00:41:07,319 Speaker 4: I know they have a bunch of different sizes they have, 902 00:41:07,440 --> 00:41:08,680 Speaker 4: like the small little one. 903 00:41:09,120 --> 00:41:12,640 Speaker 1: Should Lunen Ivery run for so we can be like matching. 904 00:41:12,960 --> 00:41:15,799 Speaker 4: Lately, I's been wanting to match me and so there 905 00:41:15,840 --> 00:41:18,600 Speaker 4: needs to be more mommy and me lines like I 906 00:41:18,600 --> 00:41:21,000 Speaker 4: think that they're just I've been like shopping. I went 907 00:41:21,040 --> 00:41:22,080 Speaker 4: on Target and I was like. 908 00:41:23,000 --> 00:41:25,040 Speaker 1: Because it should be frumpy, let me keep it real. 909 00:41:25,280 --> 00:41:27,160 Speaker 1: Moms don't want to wear that shit, especially those fuck 910 00:41:27,239 --> 00:41:30,640 Speaker 1: up bathing suits. I don't want to wear that frumpy 911 00:41:30,640 --> 00:41:32,360 Speaker 1: ass bathing suit with my kid. I don't want to 912 00:41:32,400 --> 00:41:35,600 Speaker 1: look like I'm six. Uh uh No, I'm a sexy, 913 00:41:35,640 --> 00:41:38,680 Speaker 1: fine ass adult. I need a sexy, fine ass bathing 914 00:41:38,719 --> 00:41:41,359 Speaker 1: suit with the mommy and me I know. Oh my god, 915 00:41:41,360 --> 00:41:43,040 Speaker 1: speaking of mommy and me, I also really like I'm 916 00:41:43,040 --> 00:41:44,000 Speaker 1: wearing this underneath. 917 00:41:44,760 --> 00:41:50,200 Speaker 4: Hey make it black milks matter, Yes, they do. 918 00:41:50,400 --> 00:41:53,040 Speaker 1: This is a really sexy one piece that I've been 919 00:41:53,080 --> 00:41:56,440 Speaker 1: wearing because this is really important, like covers your nipples 920 00:41:56,440 --> 00:41:58,760 Speaker 1: perfectly on the side, which no outfit does. 921 00:42:00,040 --> 00:42:01,560 Speaker 3: It's super cute. They have a lot of cute stuff 922 00:42:01,560 --> 00:42:01,919 Speaker 3: over there. 923 00:42:02,000 --> 00:42:03,560 Speaker 1: If you want to see the one time I both 924 00:42:03,560 --> 00:42:05,640 Speaker 1: my nipples have been covered on live TV, go to 925 00:42:05,640 --> 00:42:06,600 Speaker 1: our YouTube right now. 926 00:42:06,680 --> 00:42:08,960 Speaker 3: This is it. This is the only time her nipples 927 00:42:09,000 --> 00:42:10,520 Speaker 3: don't fight against clothing for some reason. 928 00:42:10,600 --> 00:42:13,560 Speaker 1: I better stop moving before they fight. Oh yeah, show 929 00:42:13,560 --> 00:42:16,080 Speaker 1: them in your necklace. Oh and of course we have 930 00:42:16,280 --> 00:42:20,520 Speaker 1: our two point zero gold plated Bad Choices necklace. I 931 00:42:20,520 --> 00:42:22,759 Speaker 1: love these fucking necklaces. This is the best merch we've 932 00:42:22,800 --> 00:42:23,400 Speaker 1: ever created. 933 00:42:23,480 --> 00:42:23,760 Speaker 3: Ever. 934 00:42:24,520 --> 00:42:27,920 Speaker 1: It's ours. I wore this all the time. I shower 935 00:42:27,960 --> 00:42:29,359 Speaker 1: in it. I never take it off because I don't 936 00:42:29,360 --> 00:42:31,760 Speaker 1: want to take off jewelry. And it literally never turns. 937 00:42:31,800 --> 00:42:35,920 Speaker 1: It's gold plated, it fits really nice, and it doesn't turn. 938 00:42:36,000 --> 00:42:38,680 Speaker 4: I'm also it really doesn't turn. Ever, I don't like 939 00:42:38,719 --> 00:42:40,000 Speaker 4: I shower with Did you just say that? 940 00:42:40,160 --> 00:42:40,359 Speaker 1: Yeah? 941 00:42:40,360 --> 00:42:42,160 Speaker 3: I'm high as so wow Jesus Christ. 942 00:42:42,360 --> 00:42:44,840 Speaker 1: Forget my friend. She'd be smoking weed. She'd be smoking 943 00:42:45,080 --> 00:42:45,919 Speaker 1: smoking that gone. 944 00:42:46,000 --> 00:42:48,200 Speaker 4: Wait, you know what, I didn't even smoke you guys today, 945 00:42:48,280 --> 00:42:50,400 Speaker 4: I thought it took a tincture and a bitch is 946 00:42:50,480 --> 00:42:51,600 Speaker 4: high as though, I'm. 947 00:42:51,440 --> 00:42:53,640 Speaker 1: Gonna need to get one of those. I'm also rocking 948 00:42:53,680 --> 00:42:57,000 Speaker 1: my gold plated baby Mama earrings that I love. I'm 949 00:42:57,000 --> 00:42:59,359 Speaker 1: not a huge fan of wearing like heavy jewelry because 950 00:42:59,400 --> 00:43:03,480 Speaker 1: I have a small head. So I it's true, I 951 00:43:03,560 --> 00:43:05,279 Speaker 1: have a small body and I have a small head, 952 00:43:05,560 --> 00:43:07,120 Speaker 1: so I don't like to wear big earrings. So I 953 00:43:07,120 --> 00:43:10,000 Speaker 1: really like our baby Mama earrings. And then sometimes if 954 00:43:10,040 --> 00:43:12,320 Speaker 1: I can't find Lina's earrings, I just put two babies, 955 00:43:13,560 --> 00:43:16,399 Speaker 1: so she's just baby and I'm just mama. But either way, 956 00:43:16,400 --> 00:43:19,200 Speaker 1: they work either way, so and they're also they don't 957 00:43:19,239 --> 00:43:21,480 Speaker 1: turn and don't take them out, and they are hypoallergenic. 958 00:43:21,560 --> 00:43:23,920 Speaker 1: I usually like if things are not real, my ears 959 00:43:23,920 --> 00:43:25,879 Speaker 1: get sensitive. But they're gold plated, so. 960 00:43:26,080 --> 00:43:28,759 Speaker 4: They're gold plated and they're the basis stainless steel, so 961 00:43:28,800 --> 00:43:31,840 Speaker 4: they really like stay. They're really great for it, especially 962 00:43:31,880 --> 00:43:34,080 Speaker 4: for people like that breakout because I rese same thing. 963 00:43:34,200 --> 00:43:35,920 Speaker 4: She gets really crusty. 964 00:43:36,160 --> 00:43:38,200 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, I can yeah, and these never do that. 965 00:43:38,880 --> 00:43:43,840 Speaker 1: So yeah, support your favorite baby mamas, which is us duh. 966 00:43:44,080 --> 00:43:46,080 Speaker 1: And check out our store. We have some really dope 967 00:43:46,120 --> 00:43:49,479 Speaker 1: as shit over there and more dope things coming. Yes, 968 00:43:50,640 --> 00:43:53,320 Speaker 1: I have one more thing that I want to include, 969 00:43:53,440 --> 00:43:56,759 Speaker 1: because I'm such a gift give her me and Erica. 970 00:43:56,760 --> 00:44:00,319 Speaker 1: I've been talking about Puzzle Huddle, a black owned puzzle 971 00:44:00,800 --> 00:44:03,719 Speaker 1: for a couple of years now. They've grown so much. 972 00:44:03,719 --> 00:44:05,440 Speaker 1: It's so dope to see. We've never met them, but 973 00:44:05,440 --> 00:44:07,960 Speaker 1: there are friends in our head and they're a family owned, 974 00:44:08,000 --> 00:44:10,640 Speaker 1: black owned company, and they're just like all these different 975 00:44:10,680 --> 00:44:14,640 Speaker 1: puzzle sets of like kids of color doing really dope shit. 976 00:44:14,760 --> 00:44:17,960 Speaker 1: There's a scientist, there's a ballerina, there's like all time, there's. 977 00:44:17,719 --> 00:44:20,520 Speaker 3: A fireman, there's all there's so many. 978 00:44:20,400 --> 00:44:23,640 Speaker 1: Thing's astronaut, but they're all like black faces. And you 979 00:44:23,680 --> 00:44:25,480 Speaker 1: know what I noticed, Like right now, in this time, 980 00:44:25,680 --> 00:44:29,640 Speaker 1: the fucking phone is such an addiction, like crack, even 981 00:44:29,640 --> 00:44:31,600 Speaker 1: if you know better, even as an adult. So sometimes 982 00:44:31,600 --> 00:44:33,440 Speaker 1: it's nice to just like put that shit away and 983 00:44:33,480 --> 00:44:36,680 Speaker 1: do something with your kid, like an actual project, and 984 00:44:36,719 --> 00:44:38,400 Speaker 1: like you don't keep saying no, because it's not that 985 00:44:38,440 --> 00:44:41,160 Speaker 1: shit like the slime or that fucking dirt aquarium that 986 00:44:41,280 --> 00:44:43,160 Speaker 1: learning keeps fucking pressing me to do. But I don't 987 00:44:43,160 --> 00:44:45,280 Speaker 1: want to do it because gonna get fucking everywhere. Yeah, 988 00:44:45,320 --> 00:44:46,600 Speaker 1: so pull out a puzzle. 989 00:44:47,640 --> 00:44:49,880 Speaker 4: No, I know, puzzles are fun too. Every time we 990 00:44:49,880 --> 00:44:51,920 Speaker 4: do puzzle huddle, so it's always fun and it's a. 991 00:44:51,920 --> 00:44:54,839 Speaker 1: Little bit challenging. And how do you hear that. 992 00:44:56,640 --> 00:44:57,160 Speaker 3: It's true? 993 00:44:57,200 --> 00:44:59,680 Speaker 4: I think, like, you know, thinking about Christmas when I 994 00:44:59,719 --> 00:45:01,799 Speaker 4: was grown up and all things that. 995 00:45:01,800 --> 00:45:05,279 Speaker 3: I got, like nine times out of ten, if they 996 00:45:05,320 --> 00:45:07,840 Speaker 3: were dolls, they didn't look like me. They were puzzles. 997 00:45:07,840 --> 00:45:08,719 Speaker 3: They didn't look like me. 998 00:45:09,080 --> 00:45:10,920 Speaker 1: Did your mom? Was your mom conscious of buying you 999 00:45:10,960 --> 00:45:12,400 Speaker 1: things that looked like you? Already think she was not 1000 00:45:12,480 --> 00:45:15,000 Speaker 1: paying She didn't really didn't. 1001 00:45:14,280 --> 00:45:15,879 Speaker 3: Like, No, I didn't dawn on her. 1002 00:45:16,000 --> 00:45:19,000 Speaker 1: You were getting blonde barbies. M hm hmm. 1003 00:45:19,520 --> 00:45:21,680 Speaker 4: I mean I think I had a variation of barbies, 1004 00:45:21,719 --> 00:45:25,000 Speaker 4: but like it wasn't like how I am with, Like 1005 00:45:25,080 --> 00:45:28,480 Speaker 4: I don't buy her any mostly white dolls. Like I've 1006 00:45:28,560 --> 00:45:32,359 Speaker 4: really struggled being on Amazon and want her wanting Jojo 1007 00:45:32,440 --> 00:45:33,720 Speaker 4: seawak okay. 1008 00:45:34,680 --> 00:45:37,359 Speaker 3: I was like, oh no, she just wants it. It's 1009 00:45:37,400 --> 00:45:38,960 Speaker 3: not about the skin color. 1010 00:45:40,280 --> 00:45:41,000 Speaker 1: Everyone should look. 1011 00:45:41,080 --> 00:45:43,160 Speaker 4: I was like, but do I want to give this 1012 00:45:43,200 --> 00:45:45,440 Speaker 4: woman my money? Does Jojo need my money. I'm sure 1013 00:45:45,520 --> 00:45:46,320 Speaker 4: Jiojo's fine. 1014 00:45:46,400 --> 00:45:48,840 Speaker 1: Like, do you know Jojo came out of the closet. Yeah, 1015 00:45:48,880 --> 00:45:50,239 Speaker 1: I I'm so late. Did you tell me that? 1016 00:45:50,480 --> 00:45:50,640 Speaker 4: M M? 1017 00:45:51,080 --> 00:45:54,760 Speaker 1: I was like, Wow, who knew Jojo was gonna be lesbian? Anyway? 1018 00:45:54,840 --> 00:45:55,040 Speaker 4: Yeah? 1019 00:45:55,120 --> 00:45:56,719 Speaker 1: I know. One time I was in Target, and I 1020 00:45:57,120 --> 00:45:59,359 Speaker 1: mean I Luna wanted a doll and the only one 1021 00:45:59,360 --> 00:46:01,320 Speaker 1: they had was the white one. She's like trying to 1022 00:46:01,320 --> 00:46:04,080 Speaker 1: embarrass me into the aisle, like, Mom, I always get 1023 00:46:04,080 --> 00:46:04,759 Speaker 1: the black one. 1024 00:46:05,160 --> 00:46:05,879 Speaker 3: I want this one. 1025 00:46:05,880 --> 00:46:10,360 Speaker 1: I'm like, she'll look at this one, look at Afrocentia Kiki. 1026 00:46:12,520 --> 00:46:14,160 Speaker 1: She's like, I don't want that one. Mom, all my 1027 00:46:14,280 --> 00:46:17,759 Speaker 1: dolls are brown. I'm like, shut up, don't embarrass me 1028 00:46:17,800 --> 00:46:20,400 Speaker 1: in this sculdrum store. Look at her. She's just like you, 1029 00:46:20,719 --> 00:46:23,640 Speaker 1: I know, I don't want that one. I do. I 1030 00:46:23,680 --> 00:46:25,839 Speaker 1: try to be intentional, just because I remember growing up 1031 00:46:25,880 --> 00:46:27,920 Speaker 1: and you know, like I tell my white friends all 1032 00:46:27,920 --> 00:46:30,680 Speaker 1: the time, please don't buy Luna white dolls, and they 1033 00:46:30,719 --> 00:46:32,600 Speaker 1: like laugh it off. I'm my bitch, I'm serious. I 1034 00:46:32,640 --> 00:46:35,239 Speaker 1: say this all the time because everything everywhere is going 1035 00:46:35,320 --> 00:46:38,560 Speaker 1: to tell you every other standard of beauty that doesn't 1036 00:46:38,560 --> 00:46:41,680 Speaker 1: look like your kid is the standard Disney and all 1037 00:46:41,680 --> 00:46:45,920 Speaker 1: these other like every basically format of media is mostly 1038 00:46:46,160 --> 00:46:48,680 Speaker 1: European standard of beauty, and so if you can constantly 1039 00:46:48,719 --> 00:46:52,400 Speaker 1: remind your child that your curly hair and you're especially 1040 00:46:52,400 --> 00:46:54,359 Speaker 1: growing up in the valley like my kids, the same 1041 00:46:54,360 --> 00:46:55,960 Speaker 1: amount of black people that go to her school went 1042 00:46:55,960 --> 00:46:59,640 Speaker 1: when I went too. So it's just like you constantly 1043 00:46:59,680 --> 00:47:02,280 Speaker 1: have to kind of like even with hair like Mama 1044 00:47:02,280 --> 00:47:04,839 Speaker 1: wan long hair, you know, because it's just like these 1045 00:47:04,880 --> 00:47:06,879 Speaker 1: little things that we're not paying attention to. So it's 1046 00:47:06,960 --> 00:47:10,960 Speaker 1: nice to see even puzzles TV shows like just to 1047 00:47:11,000 --> 00:47:13,600 Speaker 1: do what you can to make sure that your child 1048 00:47:14,320 --> 00:47:16,319 Speaker 1: is growing up with images that look like them and 1049 00:47:16,440 --> 00:47:19,440 Speaker 1: are doing things that are cool, like being a scientist, 1050 00:47:19,640 --> 00:47:23,920 Speaker 1: like being an astronaut, because you know, like subconsciously all 1051 00:47:23,960 --> 00:47:26,400 Speaker 1: of those things we see and collect being planted in 1052 00:47:26,400 --> 00:47:28,960 Speaker 1: our kids' minds. If you don't see them yourself in 1053 00:47:29,000 --> 00:47:31,239 Speaker 1: those positions, then you just don't see it doesn't make 1054 00:47:31,280 --> 00:47:32,760 Speaker 1: sense to you, doesn't connect. 1055 00:47:33,000 --> 00:47:35,719 Speaker 4: Yeah, no, I totally agree, But I know that I 1056 00:47:35,760 --> 00:47:37,600 Speaker 4: can feel I can be a little bit extreme, and 1057 00:47:37,640 --> 00:47:39,799 Speaker 4: I don't mean to be, but I was. I did 1058 00:47:39,800 --> 00:47:42,600 Speaker 4: buy her the Jojo Seawah. I bought her the Jojo Okay, 1059 00:47:43,719 --> 00:47:46,400 Speaker 4: Jojo got my coins, Juju got up my coins to 1060 00:47:46,760 --> 00:47:48,560 Speaker 4: Jujing got my coins. And you know what, Jojo makes 1061 00:47:48,600 --> 00:47:50,439 Speaker 4: good music for kids. I was like, you know, whenever 1062 00:47:50,440 --> 00:47:52,600 Speaker 4: I've heard her jojo on, I'm like, okay, you know what, 1063 00:47:53,080 --> 00:47:55,439 Speaker 4: I know she's gonna be safe over here. I've never 1064 00:47:55,440 --> 00:47:58,680 Speaker 4: well listened to City Girl Jobs Later, Okay, I know 1065 00:47:59,080 --> 00:47:59,720 Speaker 4: my kid knows. 1066 00:47:59,600 --> 00:48:02,359 Speaker 1: All the like ratchet lyrics. I'm like, oh, don't tell 1067 00:48:02,400 --> 00:48:05,239 Speaker 1: anybody you know those lyrics. This doesn't really affect great 1068 00:48:05,239 --> 00:48:07,680 Speaker 1: on me as a parent. Shall be listening to kids 1069 00:48:07,680 --> 00:48:11,440 Speaker 1: pop never never happening DOJ's as far as we can. 1070 00:48:13,400 --> 00:48:16,560 Speaker 4: Oh my god, Well, I hope you guys get you know, 1071 00:48:16,680 --> 00:48:19,440 Speaker 4: enjoyed this episode. And you guys, you know, got some. 1072 00:48:19,440 --> 00:48:21,560 Speaker 4: Sometimes the holidays cann be so overwhelming you don't know 1073 00:48:21,560 --> 00:48:23,359 Speaker 4: what to get. These are just some of the things 1074 00:48:23,360 --> 00:48:26,480 Speaker 4: that we love that we use that I think are 1075 00:48:26,520 --> 00:48:28,000 Speaker 4: really great gifts for the holidays. 1076 00:48:28,200 --> 00:48:31,880 Speaker 1: And even if you're getting nothing or giving nothing, you know, 1077 00:48:32,200 --> 00:48:34,000 Speaker 1: if you have health, if you have family, if you 1078 00:48:34,000 --> 00:48:36,600 Speaker 1: have love, then there's something to be grateful for, you know, 1079 00:48:36,760 --> 00:48:41,560 Speaker 1: Like this shit Holidays is the man's holiday made up 1080 00:48:41,600 --> 00:48:43,960 Speaker 1: to spend money, and of course we do it. And 1081 00:48:44,040 --> 00:48:46,480 Speaker 1: if you can, you can. But if you can't, who 1082 00:48:46,520 --> 00:48:48,880 Speaker 1: gives a fuck. You know, like there's greater gifts. And 1083 00:48:48,880 --> 00:48:50,960 Speaker 1: if people are worried about that, they're not your friends. 1084 00:48:51,520 --> 00:48:54,160 Speaker 1: Just be grateful for you do have, and just mostly 1085 00:48:54,200 --> 00:48:55,560 Speaker 1: for love, because at the end of the day, when 1086 00:48:55,560 --> 00:48:57,799 Speaker 1: we go, none of this ship matters, you know, our 1087 00:48:57,800 --> 00:49:01,359 Speaker 1: relationships matter, our experiences, So just keep that in mind 1088 00:49:01,400 --> 00:49:04,520 Speaker 1: this holiday season. We love you. Thank you for joining 1089 00:49:04,600 --> 00:49:07,200 Speaker 1: us and listening to our favorites for the holidays. 1090 00:49:07,880 --> 00:49:11,839 Speaker 3: And oh oh oh yeah, did we get it? When 1091 00:49:11,960 --> 00:49:13,200 Speaker 3: we got a good one? We did. 1092 00:49:13,239 --> 00:49:14,520 Speaker 1: It was really short and sweet. 1093 00:49:15,200 --> 00:49:18,120 Speaker 4: We asked our listeners if they had any holiday hories 1094 00:49:18,280 --> 00:49:21,080 Speaker 4: and someone wrote in something really quick. 1095 00:49:21,200 --> 00:49:22,880 Speaker 3: But it was fucking awesome. 1096 00:49:25,080 --> 00:49:26,960 Speaker 1: I have a light one, laugh out loud. 1097 00:49:30,800 --> 00:49:32,560 Speaker 2: Oho stories. 1098 00:49:33,280 --> 00:49:35,280 Speaker 1: Last time I watched my baby daddy and his girlfriend 1099 00:49:35,320 --> 00:49:37,719 Speaker 1: have sex, I gave them instructions on what to do 1100 00:49:37,760 --> 00:49:41,560 Speaker 1: as well. That's it, that's the horry. I thought that 1101 00:49:41,600 --> 00:49:44,799 Speaker 1: was beautiful and what a gift. I think it's such 1102 00:49:44,840 --> 00:49:46,440 Speaker 1: a gift. Like I don't want to, but let me 1103 00:49:46,440 --> 00:49:48,279 Speaker 1: show you. Put your leg up. Yeah he likes that. 1104 00:49:48,480 --> 00:49:50,919 Speaker 3: Yeah, could you imagine that's so cool. 1105 00:49:52,160 --> 00:49:54,279 Speaker 1: I want to do that. I just wish I was 1106 00:49:54,320 --> 00:49:55,880 Speaker 1: in such a good place with my baby daddy. Then 1107 00:49:55,920 --> 00:49:57,839 Speaker 1: I was like, whatever, don't care. 1108 00:49:58,480 --> 00:50:02,400 Speaker 4: Oh yeah, I mean yeah that would be That's like, 1109 00:50:02,520 --> 00:50:06,000 Speaker 4: that's growth right there. That's a serious growth, and that's 1110 00:50:06,120 --> 00:50:09,400 Speaker 4: really cool that your kids probably get to experience you guys. 1111 00:50:09,160 --> 00:50:10,960 Speaker 3: Getting along hopefully, and then you. 1112 00:50:10,920 --> 00:50:13,240 Speaker 4: Get to go drop that kid off and then boss 1113 00:50:13,280 --> 00:50:16,040 Speaker 4: baby daddy and is your girlfriend around right like, hope 1114 00:50:16,040 --> 00:50:23,440 Speaker 4: they fed you after by anyway, Happy holidays and we's 1115 00:50:23,560 --> 00:50:24,399 Speaker 4: you guys next week. 1116 00:50:25,080 --> 00:50:25,360 Speaker 1: Bye. 1117 00:50:26,320 --> 00:50:30,560 Speaker 2: Suso E Solo Recorder LA. 1118 00:50:32,320 --> 00:50:35,320 Speaker 1: The Latter Days Ranz