WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Special Friend Fun

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<v Speaker 1>All right, welcome to the official podcast. Thank you so

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<v Speaker 1>much for being here.

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<v Speaker 2>And yeah, before we get into today's brand new Second

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<v Speaker 2>Date podcast, so what do we got on comments?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, well, on yesterday Brooke breaks you up. Big Till

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<v Speaker 3>commented and said, since you guys do Brick breaks you up,

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<v Speaker 3>you should start a segment called Alexis Arranges a Date.

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<v Speaker 3>We're callers calling to have Alexis get them set up

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<v Speaker 3>on a date with somebody they like.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like, Yeah, let's lean into more of the

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<v Speaker 2>literation and go Alexis arranges annulmans.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, just find any newly weds that don't want

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<v Speaker 1>to be wedded anymore. Aren't they talking about Oh that's

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<v Speaker 1>sound as fun. No, they're talking something I'll be right

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<v Speaker 1>that is. Yeah, all right, we'll work on it. We'll

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<v Speaker 1>work on it right now. Enjoy this episode. It's Brook

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<v Speaker 1>and Jeffrey in the Morning, Brook.

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<v Speaker 3>And Jeffrey in the Morning, Second Date Updates.

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<v Speaker 4>Here's a little secret, won't we get emails for this segment?

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<v Speaker 4>Sometimes people like to share their dating journey.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, there's no secret there. It's like in the title,

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<v Speaker 1>that's what.

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<v Speaker 4>No, I mean more than just like the date that

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<v Speaker 4>we're talking about like I matched with fifty two people

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<v Speaker 4>and I found fifty one had dated my step dead.

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<v Speaker 4>I see, but that means this one is good to go.

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<v Speaker 1>Man, that's stepped out.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, we have the context to know why they're here exactly.

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<v Speaker 4>It's helpful in that way. And I was just using

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<v Speaker 4>that as an example because this segment can obviously get weird.

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<v Speaker 4>And today our listener Melanie mentioned in her email that

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<v Speaker 4>she had a bump in the road on her dating

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<v Speaker 4>journey recently and she'd be willing to share that with us. So, Melanie,

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<v Speaker 4>I know that the guy that you're emailing about his

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<v Speaker 4>name is Scott, but apparently there was a date scheduled

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<v Speaker 4>before that. Can you tell us that story?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah? So not my best moment.

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<v Speaker 2>Uh oh yeah, why we've always had everyone's had those moments.

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<v Speaker 4>So what happened?

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<v Speaker 5>So we're meeting at a bar basically, and then he

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<v Speaker 5>texts me that he's going to be fifteen minutes late,

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<v Speaker 5>and I'm like, oh, that's not a big deal. Whenever,

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<v Speaker 5>at least he's texting me, yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>Gave your head, so more time to take shots beforehand.

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<v Speaker 4>Go ahead.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, And I'm sure that that works out really well

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<v Speaker 2>forty three, Okay, So what happens?

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<v Speaker 5>So he comes up to me, he shakes my hand

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<v Speaker 5>like really awkwardly, and then he says, I forgot my

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<v Speaker 5>idea home, so sorry, I'm going to go back and

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<v Speaker 5>get it. And then he never comes back.

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<v Speaker 1>Girl, that's not anything to do with you. What do

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<v Speaker 1>you mean, not your best moment? Yeah, that's his back.

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<v Speaker 4>Why are you embarrassed about it?

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<v Speaker 5>Well, because obviously he saw me and then didn't want

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<v Speaker 5>to do the date.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh you think it was an excuse?

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<v Speaker 1>I hate him, Melanie. Listen to him. You're beautiful. You

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<v Speaker 1>deserve someone better than them.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, a little bit thick up man him. We're saying

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<v Speaker 4>good riddance to that last guy. Let's let's move on

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<v Speaker 4>to this new guy, Scott. This is no he was

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<v Speaker 4>the last loser. He blew his shot. Tell us about

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<v Speaker 4>this new man.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, I took a break from Tinder for like a

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<v Speaker 5>month because that was just shook you right exactly, And

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<v Speaker 5>so I thought, okay, I'll try again. And that's when

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<v Speaker 5>I met Scott. Okay, and he asked if we could

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<v Speaker 5>just go for a walk on our date, which I

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<v Speaker 5>love that idea.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, you don't need an id to go on a walk.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, to me, it's a free day.

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<v Speaker 2>You guys, I mean you're probably nervous even for a

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<v Speaker 2>walk at this point because of what had just happened

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<v Speaker 2>to you.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, but it was nice and he was really cute.

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<v Speaker 5>He gave me a flower, just one. But you know,

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<v Speaker 5>we walked a lot all around the city, just talked

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<v Speaker 5>about all kinds of stuff. I'll and both of us

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<v Speaker 5>like to travel. We talked a lot about that. And

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<v Speaker 5>then it turns out I know one of his roommates. Actually,

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<v Speaker 5>oh really.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, that's wild.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, his name is Max, and this is from like

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<v Speaker 5>a few years ago. I haven't talked to him in

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<v Speaker 5>a while. We've kind of lost touch.

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<v Speaker 1>But wait, you were just friends with Max?

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<v Speaker 2>Or was there more of a situation with Max in

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<v Speaker 2>the past.

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<v Speaker 5>Let's say we are special friends.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, yeah, that doesn't bother you at all.

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<v Speaker 5>No, I think though it might have bothered Scott. And

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<v Speaker 5>maybe that's why he's not calling me because I think

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<v Speaker 5>I was asking too many questions about Max.

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<v Speaker 2>Either that or he went back and said, oh my god, Max,

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<v Speaker 2>and Max is like you can't.

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<v Speaker 4>Do it stories about you or something.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't think so Okay, I.

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<v Speaker 3>Mean, like, would you consider it an exo or just

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<v Speaker 3>some you know what I mean?

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<v Speaker 5>But yeah, it's just special friends.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, okay, you guys, let's get over Max. That's the

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<v Speaker 2>whole point we're talking about Scott, right.

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<v Speaker 4>There must have been more good moments from the walk

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<v Speaker 4>with Scott.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah. At the end, I thought, Okay, I'm going to

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<v Speaker 5>make sure he knows I'm into him, and so I said, hey,

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<v Speaker 5>do you want to go back to your place and

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<v Speaker 5>have some fun?

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<v Speaker 1>Whoa in the middle of a day like broad daylight

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<v Speaker 1>holding a single flower?

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<v Speaker 4>That's a big jump.

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<v Speaker 5>I just wanted to, you know, hang out and get

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<v Speaker 5>to know him more.

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<v Speaker 1>Is that what you meant by have fun?

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<v Speaker 5>What do you mean by it?

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<v Speaker 4>Why don't you explain what you what you mean by

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<v Speaker 4>go back to someone's pot?

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<v Speaker 1>A feeling that I would have taken that very wrong? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, yeah, yeah, I have my pants off already. Sorry.

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<v Speaker 4>Melanie Brook has a very very dirty mind on this show,

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<v Speaker 4>the same mostly you.

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<v Speaker 1>That is not true have fun.

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<v Speaker 4>The rest of us are very wholesome, family oriented around here, Melanie.

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<v Speaker 4>So what does Scott say to your open invitation?

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<v Speaker 5>He said he had a few things going on, and

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<v Speaker 5>he wasn't sure and he would text me later, call

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<v Speaker 5>me later.

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<v Speaker 4>So after you left it with Scott, what's happened?

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<v Speaker 5>Since nothing? I never heard from him, and it's been

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<v Speaker 5>a couple of days now, and I texted are you okay?

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<v Speaker 5>And nothing, Yeah, okay.

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<v Speaker 1>I think we're going to get it, either a story

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<v Speaker 1>from Max.

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<v Speaker 4>Or yeah, it's an old story or something, or.

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<v Speaker 1>Some sort of definition of well.

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<v Speaker 4>Either way, you deserve to get the answers that you

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<v Speaker 4>came here seeking. So let's reach out to Scott. We'll

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<v Speaker 4>see if he picks up, and hopefully he can explain

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<v Speaker 4>why he turned down your very enticing invite to hang

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<v Speaker 4>out and play board games at his place when we

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<v Speaker 4>do your second date update right after this hold on.

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<v Speaker 5>Thank you, Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 4>Second date updates if you're just joining us, our listener.

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<v Speaker 4>Melanie was on a date with a guy taking a

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<v Speaker 4>long walk through the city when she found out she

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<v Speaker 4>knows his roommate. She described it as a quote special friend,

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<v Speaker 4>fun situation, which I don't know what that means now.

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<v Speaker 4>I thought I did, but I'm not so sure anymore. Yes,

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<v Speaker 4>still obviously complicates things. The main issue being she spent

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<v Speaker 4>a lot of time asking about the roommate in much

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<v Speaker 4>less time actually talking about Scott, her date himself.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you try to make up for it?

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<v Speaker 4>She did? That's why I realized it had kind of

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<v Speaker 4>an invitation back to her place and back to his place.

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<v Speaker 1>Any place, but just.

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<v Speaker 4>To hang out again. Don't know exactly what the situation is,

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<v Speaker 4>but clearly he has not spoken to her since. So

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<v Speaker 4>my theory, Melanie, Is it possible Scott went back to

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<v Speaker 4>his roommate, told him the story and the room. He said, WHOA,

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<v Speaker 4>be careful, she's wifey material, and that thought scared him.

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<v Speaker 4>What do you think.

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<v Speaker 2>Perfect anyone was thinking, Jeff, I don't think that's it?

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, but I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I mean, it's still on the table.

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<v Speaker 4>You wouldn't describe yourself as wife material?

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<v Speaker 1>Should think it?

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, I guess, yeah, yeah, See, anything's a possibility.

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<v Speaker 4>Let's call Scott. We'll see if he even picks up

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<v Speaker 4>and hopefully can clear this whole situation up for us.

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<v Speaker 4>Are you ready, Melanie? Yeah, all right, let's get.

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<v Speaker 5>Some excited, really excited and really excited.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe we should talk that back a little bit concerned

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<v Speaker 2>about that.

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<v Speaker 4>Take a deep breath, and that's good advice. I'm going

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<v Speaker 4>to take a deep breath right now before we make

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<v Speaker 4>this call.

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<v Speaker 1>It is good, it resets. This is wasting our time.

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<v Speaker 4>Jeff out the number. Here we go. Hello, Hey is

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<v Speaker 4>it Scott? Yeah? Hey, Scott. You're on a radio show

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<v Speaker 4>called Broke and Jeffrey in the Morning and the entire

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<v Speaker 4>world is listening. How are you doing?

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<v Speaker 1>Dramatic? Really overshot?

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<v Speaker 6>I mean, prank.

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<v Speaker 1>We do, we do pranks, we do that.

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<v Speaker 4>But that's not what this segment is. We're calling because

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<v Speaker 4>you made one of our listeners sad by ghosting her

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<v Speaker 4>after your take.

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<v Speaker 6>What who?

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, who, that's a good question. It's a woman named Melanie.

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<v Speaker 1>Lovely woman you went on a walk with?

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<v Speaker 6>Nah? Are you guys serious?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, it's for real. This is a segment we do

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<v Speaker 4>called second Date Update, trying to give you No.

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<v Speaker 6>No, no, no, no, no no. This has got to

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<v Speaker 6>be a joke. I'm not I'm not doing this. This

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<v Speaker 6>is crazy.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, wait, hold on, hold on, hold on. Crazy. It

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<v Speaker 1>is kind of a wild reaction. You guys went on

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<v Speaker 1>a walk together.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, I don't, I don't, I don't, I don't. Did

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<v Speaker 6>she call it, Like, what is I don't think.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't any upset about Melanie.

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<v Speaker 4>I know this is an overwhelming experience for you, Scott.

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<v Speaker 4>We're calling you out of the blue, and I get that,

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<v Speaker 4>but we're just trying to give you a chance to

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<v Speaker 4>explain why after the date, Melanie hasn't heard from you

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<v Speaker 4>because she's confused.

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<v Speaker 6>I don't think I should be talking to you abouttists. Honestly,

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<v Speaker 6>I don't know what to say.

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<v Speaker 4>Why.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>Really, Okay, she did tell us that she knows you

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<v Speaker 2>roommate from the past.

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<v Speaker 6>I know that you're kidding me. No, Like, I, yes,

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<v Speaker 6>she knows my roommate, Like, I don't know. She called you? Guys,

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<v Speaker 6>this is crazy.

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<v Speaker 4>Do you understand why this reaction? Scott?

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<v Speaker 6>I don't. I don't. I don't even want to say

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<v Speaker 6>much Like I don't. I don't want to talk about this.

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<v Speaker 6>I don't want to know anything about I don't want

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<v Speaker 6>to be involved in this at all.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, So did you tell your roommate that you went

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<v Speaker 4>out with her?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah? I told my roommate I went out with her.

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<v Speaker 1>Like okay, okay, that's where we need to go next.

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<v Speaker 1>What did the roommate say?

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<v Speaker 4>What was the reaction.

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<v Speaker 6>He freaked the out.

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<v Speaker 1>Why I tell him?

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<v Speaker 6>I tell him I go on this state with this

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<v Speaker 6>girl named Melanie, And he looks at me like I

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<v Speaker 6>have four heads and he's just like, let me see.

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<v Speaker 6>I show him her picture and he just without saying

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<v Speaker 6>anything or doing anything else, he just takes his phone

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<v Speaker 6>out of his pocket and he dials nine to one one.

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<v Speaker 1>What WOA?

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<v Speaker 6>Why he's dude, did she follow you home? Did she just?

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<v Speaker 6>Did she know where you live? Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>My god?

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<v Speaker 5>Is she?

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<v Speaker 6>I don't know. I don't know anything. The cops they

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<v Speaker 6>show up.

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<v Speaker 1>No, they actually came.

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<v Speaker 6>Yes, they came. And there's like old sprints in our

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<v Speaker 6>backyard and he's like thinking it's her, and like I'm

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<v Speaker 6>asking him about it, and he like didn't want to

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<v Speaker 6>talk about it, like I don't know anything. I don't

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<v Speaker 6>want to know.

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<v Speaker 4>So, Scott, your roommate didn't say anything about this, Like

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<v Speaker 4>did he provide any background?

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<v Speaker 6>No?

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<v Speaker 7>He he was just like, dude, leave it, don't get involved.

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<v Speaker 6>This is bad enough.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, if the cops show up, that's all the background

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<v Speaker 2>we need. Jeff, Okay, cops don't just show up when

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<v Speaker 2>picture of someone on a dating app.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>The history of something.

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<v Speaker 4>I've had cops show up randomly and tear their pants off,

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<v Speaker 4>but that was dressed like them. Okay, this is so bad.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, at this point, what do we do?

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<v Speaker 7>Well?

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<v Speaker 4>We have to tell him I'm with you, but I

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<v Speaker 4>don't know the right way to.

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<v Speaker 1>Do freaking out about this?

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<v Speaker 4>We should not have to stay calm and keep the

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<v Speaker 4>situation tamed, because Scott, here's what you need to know,

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<v Speaker 4>and don't freak out about it.

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<v Speaker 1>Or do you freak out?

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<v Speaker 4>Please don't. But Melanie is actually on this phone call

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<v Speaker 4>right now listening to it.

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<v Speaker 6>No, No, it's okay.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm I'm so sorry, Scott, do you No, I gotta

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<v Speaker 4>I can't talk to I can't talk to her. You

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<v Speaker 4>don't have to talk to her. Just hear her out

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<v Speaker 4>for one second and then if not, we can always

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<v Speaker 4>have you leave. But Melanie outside.

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<v Speaker 5>You what do you mean? Where am I? I'm home girl?

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<v Speaker 1>Why are you being so calm?

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<v Speaker 2>They they called the cops on you and the cops

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<v Speaker 2>showed up?

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<v Speaker 1>What is what is going on?

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<v Speaker 5>Listen? You know how Max is. He can be a

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<v Speaker 5>little bit of a drama king. He can Overrea. You

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<v Speaker 5>live with him, you know, No, No.

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<v Speaker 6>Max is super chill. He's the chillest guy.

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<v Speaker 5>I know the fact that he thought I followed you

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<v Speaker 5>home that's really funny.

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<v Speaker 4>Why why would that be, Melody?

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<v Speaker 1>Did were you in their backyard?

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<v Speaker 5>Look? That was just a special friend misunderstanding. And if

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<v Speaker 5>Max doesn't want to be in touch anymore, I'll just

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<v Speaker 5>have to be okay with it.

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<v Speaker 6>Stop calling him a special friend. You kept saying that

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<v Speaker 6>on our date, and it's it's weird, You're weird.

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<v Speaker 5>Well did you talk to him about me? Does he

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<v Speaker 5>forgive me because I forgive him?

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<v Speaker 4>Forgive for what?

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<v Speaker 7>Did? Wait?

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<v Speaker 4>What would require forgiveness? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 5>Look, just because him and I a no go, it

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<v Speaker 5>doesn't mean that you and I Scott don't have a

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<v Speaker 5>path to the future.

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<v Speaker 4>We have a talent for skirting around what's actually happening.

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<v Speaker 2>Did you find Scott because of his roommate online?

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<v Speaker 5>Oh God, I can explain it all to you later.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm not gonna do it here on the radio, Melanie.

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<v Speaker 5>It will make you laugh, I promise. It's all very.

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<v Speaker 6>Silly, Melanie.

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<v Speaker 7>We would like you to never contact us again. That's

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<v Speaker 7>the bottom line. Don't ever call the radio, call the news,

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<v Speaker 7>don't contact us again.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, I feel like, now someone's being a little bit

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<v Speaker 4>controlling in the relationships.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, yes, this is times to be sarcastic.

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<v Speaker 4>Sometimes when you want something done, it's helpful to do

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<v Speaker 4>a compliment, Sandwich, So why don't you say one nice

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<v Speaker 4>thing about Melanie and then tell her never to stalk

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<v Speaker 4>you again?

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<v Speaker 5>Go ahead.

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<v Speaker 6>She would really like that, Melanie.

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<v Speaker 7>You know, like I appreciated the compliment about my shiny hair,

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<v Speaker 7>but like it's kind of creepy.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, yeah, she's probably making hair dolls than yesterday.

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<v Speaker 1>Melanie. You got to leave these men alone. They do

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<v Speaker 1>not want to talk to you.

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<v Speaker 4>They're sending you a very clear signal.

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<v Speaker 5>Right now, Scott, if you change your mind, you know

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<v Speaker 5>where to find me and we can have a lot

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<v Speaker 5>of fun together.

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<v Speaker 1>Now I'm scared of what her fun is too.

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<v Speaker 6>I will remember that, all right.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm not even going to offer for another date. I

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<v Speaker 4>feel like we got the information that we needed. Hopefully, Scott,

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<v Speaker 4>you got a little bit of closure out of this experience.

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<v Speaker 4>And if you need more evidence, you can find the

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<v Speaker 4>podcast up at Broken Good Plug.

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<v Speaker 2>Jeff Yeah, thanks, Usually, Blanie, don't call us for another day.

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<v Speaker 2>Second day either, and Jeffrey in the morning Wow.

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<v Speaker 4>If we had known what she was really trying to

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<v Speaker 4>do there, then we never would have made that call.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah this place, Yeah, I think that is an important

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<v Speaker 2>thing to be said.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, yeah, we were misled, definitely. But it just occurred

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<v Speaker 4>to me at the end of her first date when

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<v Speaker 4>she said, why don't we go back to your place

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<v Speaker 4>and have some fun? Now I know what fun means

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<v Speaker 4>to her. I get it.

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<v Speaker 1>It's still not fun to me, so weird.

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<v Speaker 4>But to her, I want to confront your roommate for

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<v Speaker 4>the restraining order he just filed against me. That's fun

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<v Speaker 4>for her.

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<v Speaker 3>Everyone gets that was why.

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<v Speaker 1>The ones that sounds so normal.

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<v Speaker 4>Just out to be the most fun. Hey I'm stalking you,

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<v Speaker 4>but you got nothing to worry about. She did pull

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<v Speaker 4>the old trojan horse move. Though. She's not going to

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<v Speaker 4>break into the apartment. She's gonna get invited in by

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<v Speaker 4>the roommate with the promise of good time.

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<v Speaker 1>What a coincidence.

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<v Speaker 4>You guys are roommates. Weird?

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<v Speaker 6>I love that.

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<v Speaker 1>She was like, well, how would I have Oh he

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<v Speaker 1>was his roommate.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, did I just lock the door behind us as

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<v Speaker 4>we stepped in here? How did that happen? Anyway?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, let's be safe everybody.

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<v Speaker 4>I will say, we blocked her phone and we blocked

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<v Speaker 4>her email afterwards, so we should not be hearing from

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<v Speaker 4>her again.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, good, and I hope those guys move soon.

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<v Speaker 4>Ya, but we do need to hear from you. If

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<v Speaker 4>you need help with your dating life, email the show.

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<v Speaker 4>We'll call that person who's not calling it so.

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<v Speaker 1>Fun police are already involved. Please don't contact us.

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<v Speaker 4>Good disclaimer