Speaker 1: It's time to Catch a Cheater. Only on the Jubile Show.
Speaker 1: Ashley is on the phone today for to Catch a Cheater.
Speaker 1: She's been with her boyfriend Ryan for four years, but
Speaker 1: now she thinks something might be going on, so we'll
Speaker 1: see if we're can to help her out. Ashley, thanks
Speaker 1: for coming on the show. Sorry it has to be
Speaker 1: this way. What's going on?
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, honestly, I've heard this so many times
Speaker 2: and never thought that I would call in, but hearing
Speaker 2: so we've Yeah, we've been together four years, you know,
Speaker 2: up and down like anybody else. I mean, not what
Speaker 2: you see on Instagram a couples. But I kind of
Speaker 2: just feel like he's done with the relationship. So it's
Speaker 2: just kind of like heavy on my heart right now.
Speaker 2: So I just want to test it. I want to
Speaker 2: test it. And so basically, what's going on. I used
Speaker 2: to travel a lot for work, but now I'm not,
Speaker 2: and he's been traveling for his job. But it just
Speaker 2: keeps kind of picking up, like he'll he'll fly off
Speaker 2: somewhere for a week, and then he comes home for
Speaker 2: a couple of days, and then he leaves again. And
Speaker 2: then when he does come home, which has been like
Speaker 2: you know, increasing over the last couple of months, Like
Speaker 2: when he's going away, so when he's coming home, he
Speaker 2: always seems like he has something better to do. So
Speaker 2: it's it's starting to be kind of it feels like
Speaker 2: he doesn't want to be at home anymore, and I
Speaker 2: feel like I deserve better when he's home, she's not
Speaker 2: wanting to be intimate anymore, which is ever?
Speaker 1: And what does he say? How does he stop that?
Speaker 2: He kind of like when he comes home now she's
Speaker 2: always hiding off in his office for hours. It's like
Speaker 2: he makes a team, Like he's writing emails, but as
Speaker 2: soon as I walk away, his messenger notification kind of
Speaker 2: things over and over and over, like there's a conversation
Speaker 2: going on and we're always like really with each other
Speaker 2: about like oh I'm talking to I'm don Gonco. Like
Speaker 2: they're so funny and you know it's women's intuition. You
Speaker 2: just kind of feel like he's he's messaging with someone,
Speaker 2: like we know each other's friends. You know each other's
Speaker 2: so so for me, like we're really good friends with
Speaker 2: each other, you know, like I care about him and
Speaker 2: so I did comfort him about it. I'm like, you've
Speaker 2: been going more, you haven't really been wanting to touch me,
Speaker 2: and you're hiding away in your office. He legit just
Speaker 2: shrugged it off. He said, he has a new assistant
Speaker 2: in his office and he's been showing her the ropes,
Speaker 2: so that's kind of been taking a lot of time.
Speaker 2: But I've seen I've seen her, and I'm really not
Speaker 2: the jealous type, but she's legit.
Speaker 3: His type, So so you think it might actually be
Speaker 3: the assistant that he's talking to.
Speaker 2: I do. It's like this horrible feeling in my stomach,
Speaker 2: like I just I want to believe that you would
Speaker 2: never cheat on me, because we're really not, Like we've
Speaker 2: talked about that in the past, like we wish how
Speaker 2: we wouldn't do it. I hope it's all out in
Speaker 2: my head. I really do know. I don't know. I
Speaker 2: have a wobble feeling so here I am.
Speaker 3: I just don't like how he handled you. Confronting him
Speaker 3: about the time spent shrugging it off and not taking
Speaker 3: the time to make you feel better is really unsettling.
Speaker 1: I know a lot of people do that. You know.
Speaker 1: It sucks because I think they think about themselves like
Speaker 1: how I'm not whatever, and then they it's like, but
Speaker 1: you're someone else's talking to you that you care about,
Speaker 1: like it's about them at that moment, and that's fine. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you know, like so anyway, yeah, that sucks the way
Speaker 1: that was handled. All right, Well, you told us what
Speaker 1: a grocery store he's a rewards card member at. So
Speaker 1: we'll do the usual. We'll call and pretend to be
Speaker 1: from the grocery store and say that every single month,
Speaker 1: we choose one rewards card member at random who gets
Speaker 1: free flowers delivered from our floral department, and we'll see
Speaker 1: if he sends those to you or to somebody else.
Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, I'm so nervish.
Speaker 1: All right, we'll play, so I'll come back. You're to
Speaker 1: catch her next. Right in the middle of to Catch
Speaker 1: a Cheater if you're just joining us, Ashley is on
Speaker 1: the phone. She's been with her boyfriend Ryan for four
Speaker 1: years and now she thinks that he might be cheating.
Speaker 1: So in a second, we're going to call him and
Speaker 1: pretend to be from the grocery store that he's a
Speaker 1: rewards car remember at, and say that he's this month's
Speaker 1: big winner of flowers delivered to anybody that he wants
Speaker 1: from our floral department, and we'll see if he believes
Speaker 1: that first of all, and then if he sends those
Speaker 1: flowers to Ashley or to somebody else. But before we
Speaker 1: do that, Ashley, why don't you catch everybody up in
Speaker 1: your situation.
Speaker 2: So we've been together four years. I used to travel
Speaker 2: a bunch for work. He's the one that's traveling now.
Speaker 2: In his time away just keeps increasing. And then when
Speaker 2: he is home, he's been kind of avoiding me. He's
Speaker 2: been working in his office, been you know, big red
Speaker 2: flag for me, not wanting to be intimate, which no
Speaker 2: one should ever feel.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I've had that happen to me a lot.
Speaker 2: It's humiliating and like it's you know, I'm talking to
Speaker 2: him about it, like it's not like I'm like, hey,
Speaker 2: did you take up the trash? Like I brought it
Speaker 2: up to him like this was a really big deal.
Speaker 2: I'm feeling like this and he said, nothing's going on.
Speaker 2: But I still feel like.
Speaker 1: There is with his assistant too, is who you think
Speaker 1: it is?
Speaker 2: Yes, total opposite looking of me, totally his previous type
Speaker 2: before me.
Speaker 1: Okay, all right, were you ready for us to call him?
Speaker 1: I guess Okay, here we go Hello, Hi, this is
Speaker 1: Chortle calling from I was looking for a rewards card
Speaker 1: member named Ryan. Uh yeah, that's me Ryan.
Speaker 2: Hi.
Speaker 1: Please don't hang up. This is not a marketing phone call.
Speaker 1: I'm actually calling to say congratulations and thank you. Thank
Speaker 1: you for your business. Yere this month's big winner.
Speaker 2: Okay, where did I win?
Speaker 1: The flowers?
Speaker 4: The flowers.
Speaker 1: Every single month, we choose one rewards card member who
Speaker 1: gets free flowers delivered from our brand new floral apartment
Speaker 1: to anybody that they want in the entire United States.
Speaker 1: It's absolutely free. You've won thirty six long stem red roses,
Speaker 1: a box of candy or chocolates, and a card to
Speaker 1: be delivered to anybody that you want. It's actually a
Speaker 1: three hundred and eighty two dollars value.
Speaker 2: Thank you.
Speaker 1: Yeah, congratulations, thank you.
Speaker 4: Okay, so you'll send flowers anywhere?
Speaker 1: Yes? Okay, cool?
Speaker 4: Great.
Speaker 1: Let me let me just give it to tell you
Speaker 1: how it works. Then I can take the information over
Speaker 1: the phone. In a matter of minutes, I can call
Speaker 1: you back if you don't know who you want to
Speaker 1: send them to right now?
Speaker 4: Yeah, no, no, no, we can do it on the phone. Okay,
Speaker 4: let's send these flowers to Dana.
Speaker 1: Okay, and do you want to send a card along
Speaker 1: with this?
Speaker 4: Uh? Yeah, yeah, say something like, uh, I cannot.
Speaker 2: Wait to hold you again.
Speaker 4: And uh the thought of your arms gives me strengths.
Speaker 1: Okay, got that. And now at this point, I would
Speaker 1: like to tell you that my name is actually Jubil,
Speaker 1: and I'm calling from a radio show that's called The
Speaker 1: Jubil Show, and your girlfriend Ashley is actually on the
Speaker 1: phone listening.
Speaker 2: No, yeah, hold on, yeah.
Speaker 1: And that's what this is.
Speaker 4: Oh my god, Hi, Hi, you said actually there?
Speaker 2: Yeah, yep, yeah, yeah, yeah, I am you know, like
Speaker 2: I asked you this and you told me nothing was
Speaker 2: going on. But I can't believe. I'm I I asked
Speaker 2: you about this and you told me now and now
Speaker 2: it's your assistance. Like I just knew it. I knew it,
Speaker 2: and I asked you and you denied it. Why would
Speaker 2: you do this? But I can't believe it actually that
Speaker 2: I asked you this and you did this.
Speaker 4: Look, it's not it's not an easy thing to say.
Speaker 4: It's not. It's not something I'm happy about. It's Look, Ashley,
Speaker 4: I'm I'm sorry.
Speaker 2: It's just you're not happy. You're so disrespectful. You're not
Speaker 2: happy about, Like, what are you even thoughting about? It
Speaker 2: sounds like you you said you can't wait to be
Speaker 2: in her arms again. It sounds like if you want
Speaker 2: this to happen, Like, what are you even thinking? Look,
Speaker 2: it's just it's I don't I don't know.
Speaker 5: It's it's an escape, it's a I mean, I mean,
Speaker 5: you know, things haven't felt good with us for a
Speaker 5: long time, and and you know, with with.
Speaker 4: Me traveling more and she has to travel with me
Speaker 4: a lot, so like it's just we have things we
Speaker 4: connect on, the lifestyle, the travel, the work, the loneliness.
Speaker 4: It just made sense and with us sort of feeling
Speaker 4: like there was a distance outside of it, I just.
Speaker 2: I'm sorry, Well, you should have broken up with me,
Speaker 2: then you should have told me, and you should have
Speaker 2: broken up with me. And we've been together long enough
Speaker 2: that you could have told me, and we could have
Speaker 2: broken up, and then you can do whatever you want
Speaker 2: a love with her. I don't know, I don't know.
Speaker 4: I don't know if I want us to be broken up.
Speaker 2: I just I don't know.
Speaker 4: I'm just trying to figure things out. And it's something
Speaker 4: I just kind of fell into and I should.
Speaker 2: Have how am I have been going on like four
Speaker 2: or five months?
Speaker 1: Whoa?
Speaker 2: I thought that this is legit only like two months
Speaker 2: and I asked so long ago, like, you're so disrespectful
Speaker 2: to be doing that to me this long. And I
Speaker 2: don't even know anything about her, you know what I mean?
Speaker 2: Like you've been taking intimacy away from me, which is
Speaker 2: so disrespectful to do to another human being. But you're
Speaker 2: disrespecting my body too. Does you know that you have
Speaker 2: a girlfriend for the song?
Speaker 4: Yes, of course she does. It didn't start off this way.
Speaker 4: I mean, I told her about my life, she told
Speaker 4: me about her life, her husband, all that, and then
Speaker 4: then we just sort of fell into this.
Speaker 2: Her husband, her husband, Oh my gosh, what are you doing?
Speaker 2: Her husband? She's married. You're in a relationship, You're not
Speaker 2: like in some fantasy land. She's married.
Speaker 1: Wow, I'm sure her husband would like to know what
Speaker 1: she's been doing on her business trips.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Now made us feel like I should retout to her
Speaker 2: husband and let him know so that he's not being
Speaker 2: disrespected as well.
Speaker 4: Ash, come on, come on, you're already doing this on
Speaker 4: the radio. You don't look I get, I get while
Speaker 4: you're bat and I care about you, but I but
Speaker 4: if you're going to be vindictive about it, you.
Speaker 2: Know, I'm done. I'm done. I'm done. I can't. I
Speaker 2: deserve I deserve better than this. I am a good
Speaker 2: person and I have treated him so well for four years.
Speaker 2: I've always been there for you, and I don't deserve
Speaker 2: to be treated like this. I deserve to be loved
Speaker 2: by a good partner and you should be humiliated by
Speaker 2: what you've done.
Speaker 4: Okay, actually, okay, okay, okay, just thank you for four
Speaker 4: years of treating me well and one nightmare of a
Speaker 4: phone call that you're blasting to the world. So get
Speaker 4: the better that you deserve.
Speaker 1: And he hung up. Ashley, I'm really sorry, so sorry.
Speaker 2: I am too. I mean, I was an artist that
Speaker 2: would end up this way and it did. So I
Speaker 2: just need to go for a while. I can clear
Speaker 2: my head right now.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm sure you need to do whatever you gotta do,
Speaker 3: but just know this was a two for you did
Speaker 3: your good deed, two for one, two for.
Speaker 2: Have of the rest of the day. I'm gonna go
Speaker 2: on to walk in Google her husband now that I
Speaker 2: have her Latin name, okay, so I can let him
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