WEBVTT - The biggest time waster of all

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to Before Breakfast, a production of I Heart Radio.

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<v Speaker 1>Good Morning, This is Laura. Welcome to the Before Breakfast podcast.

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<v Speaker 1>Today's tip is about how to avoid the biggest time

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<v Speaker 1>waster of all, which is probably not what you think

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<v Speaker 1>it is. People often ask me what's responsible for the

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<v Speaker 1>bulk of wasted time, and certainly there are many culprits. TV,

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<v Speaker 1>internet surfing, social media, pointless meetings all consume more hours

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<v Speaker 1>than people often like. But after studying thousands of time logs,

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<v Speaker 1>I think the biggest time waster is something entirely different.

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<v Speaker 1>It's letting time pass mindlessly. When we don't think about

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<v Speaker 1>how we'd like to spend our time, we tend not

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<v Speaker 1>to spend it on our top priorities. We spend our

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<v Speaker 1>time on whatever is right in front of us, other

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<v Speaker 1>people's priorities, for instance, and things that are urgent but

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<v Speaker 1>not important. When we do spend time intentionally, though, we

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<v Speaker 1>can make space for all kinds of wonderful things, even

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<v Speaker 1>in the midst of a very full life. Here are

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<v Speaker 1>some examples of how mindlessness wastes time. You don't think

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<v Speaker 1>about what you need to do during the work day

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<v Speaker 1>or how long things will take, so when you show up,

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<v Speaker 1>You wait into your inbox, then before you know it,

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<v Speaker 1>it's time for your first meeting, which is at ten

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<v Speaker 1>thirty am. When you get back, you realized you've got

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<v Speaker 1>a complicated assignment due tomorrow, but of course there's no

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<v Speaker 1>large time block anywhere. In between meetings, you chip away,

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<v Speaker 1>but you're still dealing with the inbox, And finally, at

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<v Speaker 1>five pm, the meetings are over, but you've still got

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<v Speaker 1>this assignment. You spend the evening at work instead of

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<v Speaker 1>doing something fun. It winds up taking you two hours

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<v Speaker 1>of focus time. But here's the thing. You normally get

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<v Speaker 1>to work around eight thirty am. You could have done

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<v Speaker 1>your assignment between eight thirty and ten thirty am and

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<v Speaker 1>still had plenty of email time the rest of the day.

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<v Speaker 1>You could have left at five pm instead of seven pm,

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<v Speaker 1>or laid here since you didn't think about it, though

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<v Speaker 1>you didn't wasted time. This happens in our personal lives too.

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<v Speaker 1>You get home tired on Friday evening and just turn

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<v Speaker 1>on the TV. Your spouse flits in and out of

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<v Speaker 1>the room, sometimes watching, sometimes perusing something on his or

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<v Speaker 1>her phone. Eventually you both realize you're hungry, so you

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<v Speaker 1>eat what's there and fall asleep in front of the TV.

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<v Speaker 1>You wake up and putter around. Finally, around midday, you

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<v Speaker 1>start thinking about what you might want to do that evening,

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<v Speaker 1>but you don't have any ideas. Big chunks of the

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<v Speaker 1>weekend feel uninspiring. Indeed, you've done nothing of note in

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<v Speaker 1>the first twenty four hours you're off work, But you

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<v Speaker 1>don't feel like you're relaxed either, because you keep passing

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<v Speaker 1>the unsorted mail pile and undone household projects that make

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<v Speaker 1>you feel guilty. Spending time more mindfully might mean having

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<v Speaker 1>a conversation with your spouse about the weekend beforehand. You guys,

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<v Speaker 1>get tickets to a show on Saturday night and ask

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<v Speaker 1>some neighbors to join you. Now you have a fun

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<v Speaker 1>plan to look forward to. You also make a reservation

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<v Speaker 1>at that hip restaurant for Friday night. You still don't

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<v Speaker 1>have to cook, but now you're eating much better. You

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<v Speaker 1>check the weather and see it will be rainy Saturday afternoon,

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<v Speaker 1>but Saturday morning will be perfect, so you get up

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<v Speaker 1>early enough to go for a long bike ride. Now

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<v Speaker 1>the weekend feels like you've done lots of interesting things,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's just by spending time mindfully. Now don't worry.

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<v Speaker 1>I know some people are planners and some aren't. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not saying you should plan every minute. Some people like

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<v Speaker 1>to get together with friends on Friday night and then

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<v Speaker 1>just wander a cool neighborhood seeing what restaurants look appealing.

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<v Speaker 1>That's totally fine. You might decide to visit a farmer's

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<v Speaker 1>market you've read about that's an hour away, and then

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<v Speaker 1>see whatever adventures await you in that town. Being mindful

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<v Speaker 1>leaves plenty of space for serendipity, but being mindless kind

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<v Speaker 1>of bats serendipity away. There won't be much serendipity if

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<v Speaker 1>you're sitting in your house channel surfing in the means time.

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<v Speaker 1>This is Laura. Thanks for listening, and here's to making

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<v Speaker 1>the most of our time. Hey, everybody, I'd love to

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